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Join the Luxury Style Mastery:  5 Days to Iconic here:  Register Welcome to Real Estate Icons, your go-to podcast for all things luxury real estate, hosted by the fabulous Afton Porter! Each week, Afton brings her expertise to the mic to help you shine in the world of high-end real estate. This episode is all about curating a professional wardrobe that reflects the confidence, class, and sophistication your luxury clients expect. Afton shares her insider tips on how to create a versatile, polished wardrobe without breaking the bank. From essential pieces to pro styling strategies, she'll help you elevate your personal brand while feeling confident and empowered. Whether you're showing multi-million dollar properties, attending client meetings, or networking at exclusive events, Afton's advice ensures you'll always look the part of a luxury real estate star. Stay Connected with Afton

Luxury Style Mastery:  5 Days to ICONIC - Register Here Welcome, fabulous icons, to another empowering episode of Real Estate Icons! Today, we're talking about a game-changing concept that will redefine how you think about your business and yourself. Luxury. What is it? How does it show up in your life, your brand, and your client experience? Spoiler alert: it's not about selling multi-million-dollar homes; it's about creating a feeling so exquisite it becomes unforgettable. I'm Afton, your host, and I'm here to speak directly to the ambitious agent inside you. She's ready to show up bolder, more confident, and unapologetically luxurious. Together, we're unlocking a mindset shift that will elevate your brand and leave your clients raving, bonded by experiences that go far beyond the sale. What You'll Learn in This Episode Luxury isn't about price tags or possessions; it's about the feeling you create. Think intention, care, and excellence in every detail. We'll explore what it means to bring that energy forward in every interaction, regardless of the size of the transaction. And here's the twist—it starts with YOU. We'll also unpack why adopting a “Louis Vuitton state of mind” transforms your business, your confidence, and how others perceive your value. Trust me, love, this one's pure gold. The Reality of Luxury Can we get real for a second? When most people hear “luxury,” they think yachts, champagne bars, and designer bags. Sure, that's a part of it—but it's just the surface. At its core, luxury is about the feeling it evokes. It whispers, “You are worth this moment.” Imagine stepping into Chanel. The lighting caresses every surface. The sales associate treats you as if you're the most important person in the world. That care, that attention to detail, that feeling, is what we're talking about. NOW take that same energy and imagine delivering it to your clients. Whether it's their first condo or their dream estate, luxury is about how you make them feel. Energy, elegance, and excellence—that's what turns a business transaction into a lifelong memory. Key Takeaways You'll Love Luxury whispers, “You are worth this.” Understand that before you can offer it to others, you've got to embody it yourself. It's not just a transaction. Each interaction is an opportunity to create an unforgettable experience. Energy doesn't lie. Walk in with intention, poise, and confidence, and others will see your value. Luxury is personal. It's not tied to a price point. It's in the care, attention, and detail you bring to the table. Treat yourself as a brand. The way you show up for yourself reflects the way the world will show up for you. What's Inside This Episode 00:00 Welcome to luxury Branding 01:43 Redefining Luxury (Hint: It's not just about your budget) 06:07 The Feeling of Luxury 09:25 The Louise Vuitton vs. Target (Change the way you think!) 10:45 Sneak Peek of the Luxury Style Mastery Masterclass 13:30 Why Your Confidence Sets the Stage for Everything It's Time for YOU to Elevate Here's the truth. You don't have to wait to embody luxury. You don't need to hit specific sales goals to start showing up as the radiant, iconic agent you know you are. Luxury begins NOW. Start with your mindset, your presence, and your energy, and watch how the world responds. ✨ Want to take this transformation to the next level? ✨ Join me in the Luxury Style Mastery masterclass, 5 Days to ICONIC. Together, we'll explore the art of showing up as the most powerful version of yourself—from wardrobe choices to mindset shifts to curating your unforgettable personal brand. This is your invite to step into exclusivity, sophistication, and undeniable presence. Stay Connected with Afton

Episode Summary When it comes to the luxury market, your personal style can make or break your brand. In this episode of the Real Estate Icons Podcast, we're joined by Afton Porter, a personal style expert, to uncover the three biggest style mistakes women in real estate often make. Afton shares why blending in can harm your personal brand, how to develop a wardrobe that aligns with professional goals, and why confidence starts with a cohesive, intentional style. If you've been relying on comfort over creativity or piling up random outfits that don't truly represent who you are, this conversation will inspire you to take actionable steps toward redefining your look without losing yourself. Afton also teases her upcoming Luxury Style Week workshop, designed to help you elevate your personal brand through wardrobe strategy and confidence-boosting style tips. What You'll Learn in This Episode Why dressing like everyone else makes you forgettable The role of personal branding in shaping your style choices How standout pieces can make you more memorable in the luxury market Tips for building a cohesive wardrobe that reflects your goals Why a strategic approach to shopping can eliminate closet overwhelm Key Takeaways Your style is a crucial part of your personal brand. It's not about fixing a "bad" style but about elevating what already works for you. Strategic wardrobe planning is critical to staying on-brand and confident. Dressing with intentionality is more important than prioritizing comfort alone. Join Afton's Luxury Style Week Workshop Are you ready to refine your personal brand and elevate your style to the next level? Don't miss Afton Porter's Luxury Style Week workshop! This immersive experience will give you the tools, tips, and confidence you need to build a standout wardrobe that aligns with your professional goals. For more details and to save your spot, click here to sign up today! Connect with Real Estate Icons Podcast Facebook Join Our Facebook Group Instagram YouTube X (formerly Twitter) Keywords: luxury style, personal branding, fashion mistakes, real estate style, style tips, wardrobe strategy, elevate style, memorable fashion, personal brand, luxury market Listen now to transform your wardrobe and leave an unforgettable impression in the luxury market!  

Find Jan Copeland on Instagram Find Jan Copeland on Facebook   Find Afton Porter on Instagram Find Afton Porter on Facebook Join the Real Esate Icons Facebook Group   summary In this engaging conversation, Jan Copeland, known as the Listing Queen, shares her insights on the importance of personal style in the real estate industry. She discusses how fashion can revitalize one's identity, the psychological effects of clothing, and the significance of authenticity in branding. Jan emphasizes the need for real estate agents, especially women, to embrace their unique styles to build confidence and authority in their careers. The discussion also covers the concept of the halo effect and how it influences perceptions in business. Ultimately, Jan provides a framework for becoming a successful listing agent, highlighting the connection between personal style and professional success. takeaways Personal style can significantly impact a real estate agent's success. Fashion can revitalize one's identity and boost confidence. The halo effect influences how clients perceive agents. Authenticity in branding is crucial for building trust. Women in real estate should embrace their unique styles. Intentionality in appearance can lead to greater authority. The first impression is vital in establishing a position as a leader. Understanding the psychology of clothing can enhance performance. Building a personal brand involves conviction, connection, and authority. Investing in personal style is an investment in one's career.   Chapters 00:00Introduction to the Listing Queen 02:36The Power of Personal Style in Real Estate 05:36Understanding the Halo Effect 08:05Building Trust Through Image 10:58The CBCA Framework for Real Estate Success 13:50The Importance of Authenticity in Branding 16:12Overcoming Self-Doubt in Real Estate 19:10The Role of Style in Client Perception 21:52Creating a Seamless Selling Experience 24:45Becoming a Listing Queen 27:50The Listing Queen Lifestyle 30:36Final Thoughts and Resources 38:40Season 4 Music.mp3  

Follow Afton on Instagram Real Estate Icons Facebook group Join Iconic Women Mastermind   summary In this conversation, Afton Porter discusses the significance of a well-curated closet as a reflection of personal style and brand identity. She emphasizes the importance of intentionality in wardrobe choices and provides practical strategies for decluttering and organizing one's closet. The discussion includes methods for maintaining an organized space, the emotional aspects of closet cleansing, and the necessity of aligning clothing with one's style icon statement. Afton also shares tips for seasonal refreshes and the importance of celebrating small victories in the journey of personal style management. takeaways Your closet is a reflection of your brand style. Intentionality is key in curating your wardrobe. The four box method helps in decluttering effectively. Set realistic timeframes for closet organization. Celebrate small wins in your style journey. Seasonal refreshes keep your wardrobe relevant. Organizing by category and color enhances visibility. Maintain your closet with a one-in, one-out rule. Listen to your style preferences for better choices. Join a community for support in your style journey.     Chapters 00:00The Importance of Closet Curation 03:26Setting the Stage for a Closet Cleanse 06:17Planning Your Closet Cleanse 09:08The Four Box Method for Decluttering 11:32Organizing Your Closet Effectively 13:49Maintaining Your Organized Closet 16:40Seasonal Refresh and Style Strategy 19:34Final Thoughts on Closet Management 33:39Season 4 Music.mp3 Keywords closet organization, style icon, wardrobe cleanse, fashion tips, personal style, decluttering, closet maintenance, spring cleaning, style strategy, fashion advice  

Grab Your Style Icon "I AM" Statement Here Follow Afton on Instagram Find Afton on Facebook Real Estate Icons Facebook Group     In this conversation, Afton Porter discusses the importance of an intentional wardrobe and how clothing can influence our mindset and behavior. She emphasizes the psychological effects of clothing, encouraging listeners to envision their future selves and create a personal style icon statement. The discussion also covers the significance of mindful decluttering and donation practices to enhance personal style and self-image. takeaways The clothes you wear can change your brain. Wearing clothes that fit your personality helps you step into your true self. Clothing can enhance creativity and brain functionality. Your style reflects your inner self and evolves over time. Envisioning your future self can guide your style choices. Creating a style icon I am statement helps redefine self-perception. Maximizing your current wardrobe is essential before making new purchases. Mindful decluttering can free up space for your desired style. Donating clothes should be done thoughtfully to avoid cluttering others' lives. Your style is a powerful tool for personal branding and self-expression. titles Unlocking Your Style Potential The Psychology of Fashion Sound Bites "Imagine your goals for 2025." "You are already all of those things." "Think like a style icon, ladies." Chapters 00:00Introduction to Spring Closet Cleanse 00:50The Power of Intentional Wardrobe 07:04Setting Goals for 2025 12:36Imagining Your Future Self 19:12Creating Your Style Icon I Am Statement 26:01Mindful Closet Evaluation 33:23Season 4 Music.mp3

Book a FREE Style Audit Follow Afton on Instagram    summary In this episode, Afton Porter reintroduces her podcast, sharing her journey from image consultancy for women over 40 to focusing on personal branding for real estate agents. She discusses the importance of enclosed cognition in personal style and how it impacts confidence and business success. Afton also provides practical advice on closet organization and highlights spring fashion trends for 2025, encouraging listeners to embrace their unique style and live boldly.   Takeaways She shares her journey of rediscovering her love for fashion. Real estate agents are the face of their brand and need to focus on personal branding. Enclosed cognition affects how we show up in our lives and businesses. Intentional clothing choices can enhance confidence and authenticity. Spring cleaning your closet is essential for a fresh start. Spring 2025 trends Living boldly and authentically is key to personal and professional success.   Chapters 00:00 Reinventing Personal Style After 40 06:02 Transitioning to Real Estate Icons 07:42 The Power of Enclosed Cognition 10:49 Spring Cleaning Your Closet Ins and Outs for Spring 2025  

Grab your color analysis here:  Color Experience  Description:  Episode #133 In this episode, we cover everything you need to know to plan the perfect branding headshot. From choosing your best colors and selecting the ideal location to background recommendations and social media tips, we've got you covered. Tune in to ensure your next headshot truly captures your luxurious appeal! Usueful Resources: Sign up for the weekly ICON INSIDER:   Icon Insider Connect with Luxury Real Estate Image Consultant, Afton Porter: Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ Join the Facebook Group:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/realestateicon LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/aftonporterstyle/

Join me as I discuss the reasons why you need to know the best colors for your wardrobe and how to pick your best branding colors.  How to tell when your branding colors  work for you and against you. Book your color analysis with me here:  Color Analysis with Branding Color Confirmation   Usueful Resources: Sign up for the weekly ICON INSIDER:   Icon Insider Connect with Luxury Real Estate Image Consultant, Afton Porter: Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ Join the Facebook Group:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/realestateicon LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/aftonporterstyle/

Curating your personal brand Image:  The Psychological Power of Image in Luxury Real Estate   The luxury real estate market isn't just about beautiful properties – it's about understanding the mindset of affluent clients. By grasping the psychology behind luxury consumption, you can position yourself as the go-to agent for high-net-worth individuals. Today, we'll explore key psychological concepts, understand the needs of luxury clients, and learn how to align your image with these principles. Let's start with three fundamental concepts in luxury psychology: The Halo Effect: This psychological phenomenon is where a positive impression in one area leads people to view everything else about you more favorably. In luxury real estate, your polished image can create a halo, influencing how clients perceive your expertise and the value of your listings. Veblen Goods: Named after economist Thorstein Veblen, these are items that become more desirable as they become more expensive. This contradicts typical supply and demand but is crucial in luxury markets. Your high-end clients often seek out these goods as status symbols. Social Proof in Luxury Markets: In the world of luxury, people often look to others to determine what's desirable. Your image and success serve as social proof, signaling to potential clients that you're a trusted expert in the high-end market.   Visual cues in your appearance signal success and expertise, tapping into the client's desire for status and need for a trustworthy expert. Your well-tailored suit or expertly coordinated outfit serves as a visual representation of your attention to detail and understanding of luxury.   Non-verbal communication, like confident body language and poise, builds trust subconsciously. It shows you're comfortable in luxury settings, reassuring clients of your expertise.   By curating an image that aligns with luxury standards, you create a sense of exclusivity around your services. This satisfies the client's need for uniqueness – they're not just hiring any agent, they're working with a luxury specialist.   1. Identify Luxury Market Expectations: Based on what we've learned about luxury psychology, high-end clients expect an agent who embodies success, exclusivity, and expertise. This goes beyond clothing to encompass your overall presentation, communication style, and the experience you provide.   2. Assess Your Current Image: Look at yourself through the lens of luxury psychology. Does your image signal success and expertise? Does it create a sense of exclusivity? Are you building trust through your non-verbal communication?   3. Work On One Thing: Any discrepancies you've identified are opportunities for growth. Focus on elevating elements of your image that directly tap into the psychological needs we've discussed."   Usueful Resources: Sign up for the weekly ICON INSIDER:   Icon Insider Connect with Luxury Real Estate Image Consultant, Afton Porter: Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ Join the Facebook Group:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/realestateicon LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/aftonporterstyle/

The fashion industry would love for you to believe that being stylish is about buying all the new fashion trends.   The pressure to own the latest and greatest.  Making you feel like the wonderful wardrobe pieces you have worked hard to earn and love to wear are no longer relevant.   Or how about this gem...   Wear whatever you love.   Like, if you spend enough money on the clothes you like to wear, you will somehow know how to wear them and create beautiful outfits.   That is a lie.   It doesn't matter if you have the wallet of the King of England, you can't buy style.   Money and buying more clothes isn't your problem.  It's knowing what to do with the clothes you have bought is what style is all about.   That is why I am answering the questions on the podcast today: How can you dress casual and look expensive?    Style is Not About Price Tags  Style is about how you wear the clothes you love for your body type in the right colors.  That is why I always start with color and body type dressing.     Quality Over Quantity   Investing in a few high-quality pieces that are versatile, comfortable, and fit well can elevate your wardrobe significantly. These key items can be styled in numerous ways, creating a plethora of outfits without needing to constantly buy new clothes.    Accessorize Wisely   Accessories are your best friend! A simple outfit can be transformed with the right accessories. Belts, scarves, jewelry, and even hats can add that extra oomph to your attire, making it look more polished and put-together. And the best part? You can find stunning accessories at every price point.   Thrifting and Upcycling   Don't underestimate the power of thrift stores and vintage shops. They are treasure troves of unique pieces that can add character and flair to your wardrobe. Plus, upcycling — the practice of transforming existing pieces into something new — is not only budget-friendly but also environmentally conscious.   It's 2024.  It's time to erase these outdated myths that are keeping you from feeling stylish   For more insights and practical tips on mastering the art of looking expensive yet casual — especially as a realtor braving the warm weather — tune in to this week's podcast episode.   We'll deep-dive into how you can put items together that exudes sophistication without emptying your wallet.   Your style should be a reflection of who you are, and remember, confidence is your best accessory. Here's to looking fabulous and feeling great, no matter the budget!   Also, it's been quiet over on the podcast because I am in the process of rebranding the podcast from the Midlife Style School to Realtor Style School.     This is the last of the Midlife Style School podcasts that I have recorded before the rebranding.    Take note, I already updated the podcast name.  This girl doesn't delay once she makes a decision.   Season 4 of the podcast for realtors and entrepreneurs who are ready to elevate their personal brand image is uploading....   You can find Afton on: Follow me on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ Follow me on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCD6_0sJPqQBoa7UJqNUzf8w Join the Facebook Group:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/styleguidesociety LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/aftonporterstyle/

You are successful and you know your great at what you do but business growth has slowed and you're getting price objections at your current price even though you know you need to raise them, you are in the freind zone. You need to showcase your authority in your industry and you do that through your personal brand. Then the Iconic Women Mastermind is for you.  This is where everyday industry leaders become Icons. You can join using these links below: Iconic Women Mastermind - Payment Plan Iconic Women Mastermind - Pay In Full You can find Afton on: Follow me on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ Follow me on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCD6_0sJPqQBoa7UJqNUzf8w Join the Facebook Group:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/styleguidesociety LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/aftonporterstyle/

Book you free Style Audit ---> HERE In this podcast you will learn who needs a personal brand and why.  The steps you need to take to guide the words you visual brand image is saying. Know Your Personal Style Pick 3-4 core value words that represent your personal brand Pull an outfit from your personal style that represent those words Be sure the outfit represents the right price point and elevated styling for your ideal clients You can find Afton on: Follow me on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ Follow me on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCD6_0sJPqQBoa7UJqNUzf8w Join the Facebook Group:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/styleguidesociety LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/aftonporterstyle/  

Is this episode you will learn: Why the colors we wear matters What is the color code system I use How to discover our best colors Knowing the colors that look best on you will help you shine in your photographs that you use for your marketing materials, website, and social media photos. If you are ready to standout as a category of one in your industry then you need to join us inside the Iconic Women Mastermind in March and elevate your online presence throught style. Follow me on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ Follow me on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCD6_0sJPqQBoa7UJqNUzf8w Join the Facebook Group:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/styleguidesociety

Book Your Call Here ----> 1:1 Consultation with Afton The Makeover Myth Makeovers, while exciting and dramatic, often fail to deliver lasting transformation. This is because they tend to focus on external changes rather than addressing the root causes of dissatisfaction with one's appearance. They create an illusion of change, but beneath the surface, nothing has truly shifted. That is why I coach my style clients, not just style them.  Often times it's their own self-doubt and lack of confidnece that keeps them from seeing their own beauty and showing up as a category of one in their industry. Book a complimentry consultation call with me to see how I can help you look and feel like the iconic women that you know you are. Follow me on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ Follow me on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCD6_0sJPqQBoa7UJqNUzf8w Join the Facebook Group:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/styleguidesociety

Lear more about the next Iconic Women Mastermind here ---- > Iconic Women Mastermind   In this episode, we'll be exploring the concept of quiet luxury - a minimalist, elegant aesthetic that speaks volumes about your sophisticated taste and powerful persona. Here's what you can expect: Shirt Selection: We'll start by helping you select the perfect shirt from your closet that embodies the quiet luxury aesthetic. Think bias cut satins and soft sweaters. Pants Pairing: Next, we'll move on to choosing the right pants. Tailored trousers are a great choice for a minimalist, luxurious look. Shoe Choices: The right pair of shoes can elevate any outfit. We'll guide you in selecting the right footwear to complement your quiet luxury outfit. Layering Piece: Layering is an integral part of quiet luxury. We'll advise on selecting elevated layering pieces like wool coats and leather-like items. Accessories: Accessories play a critical role in enhancing the luxury aspect of your look. We'll discuss how to choose simple yet impactful accessories. Beauty: Lastly, we'll touch upon makeup choices that go hand-in-hand with the quiet luxury aesthetic, emphasizing natural beauty and effortless elegance. This episode is a must-listen if you're interested in cultivating a personal brand image that exudes sophistication, power, and elegance. It's all about making the most out of your existing wardrobe, embracing the quiet luxury trend without breaking the bank. Stay tuned for this exciting episode. We believe it will inspire you to curate your wardrobe in a way that truly reflects your entrepreneurial spirit and refined taste.   Follow me on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ Follow me on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCD6_0sJPqQBoa7UJqNUzf8w Join the Facebook Group:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/styleguidesociety  

Book your complimentry Style Audit with Afton Porter:  BOOK HERE Find Shelby Purdy on Instagram:  HERE Find the jewelry company she mentions:  Mountain Sun Creations     Join the Iconic Women Mastermind ---> HERE Follow me on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ Join the Free Facebook group:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/styleguidesociety Follow me on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCD6_0sJPqQBoa7UJqNUzf8w

Join the style challenge Facebook group to watch the style challenge videos:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/styleguidesociety How to Style the Little White Dress for a Timeless Luxury Look With the arrival of spring 2024, it's time to refresh your wardrobe and embrace the latest fashion trends. As a woman in midlife, your sartorial elegance is the hallmark of your success in professional and personal spheres. This year's trend of 'quiet luxury' calls for a reimagining of classic pieces, and there's no better canvas than the all-versatile Little White Dress (LWD). Transforming simple into stunning, discover how to infuse timeless elegance and opulence into your LWD this season. Embracing the Little White Dress Your Little White Dress is more than just a seasonal staple; it's a blank canvas of versatility. It embodies sophistication and the purity of style. When chosen thoughtfully, an LWD becomes the cornerstone of a powerful, yet feminine wardrobe. Choosing the Perfect Little White Dress Select a well-tailored LWD that flatters your figure. Look for quality fabrics like cotton, silk, or linen, which not only feel luxurious but also hold their shape. A modest hemline and sleeve length lend a graceful quality, perfectly suitable for your refined image. Connecting with Quiet Luxury The essence of 'quiet luxury' is in the details. Opt for simpler designs with subtle adornment – perhaps a delicate lace overlay or a minimalist beaded neckline. The idea is not to shout elegance but to let the whispers of finer craftsmanship speak volumes. Spring 2024 Trends This spring brings a fresh take on classic styles, focusing on pieces that exude opulence through understated details. Incorporate these trends into your LWD ensemble to strike the perfect balance between modern and timeless. Monochrome Magic Embrace the monochrome trend by pairing your LWD with accessories in similar shades. Rich creams and subtle beige tones play with light to create an effortlessly elegant look. A beige leather belt cinched at the waist complements the dress and emphasizes your silhouette, while a cream-colored handbag or clutch adds a sophisticated touch. Statement Accessories It's all about the accessories this season. A chunky, gold-link bracelet or a pair of chandelier earrings can turn your LWD into a show-stopping ensemble. The key is to let your accessories be the exclamation points in your outfit, anchoring your look in the trends of today without overpowering the timeless essence of the LWD. Comfy-Chic Footwear Comfort meets luxury with the trend of low-heeled, strappy sandals. Opt for nude or metallic tones to keep the focus on your dress. These sandals offer all-day wearability, making them a practical yet stylish choice for your professional engagements and social events alike.   Join the Iconic Women Mastermind Waitlist ---> HERE Follow me on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ Follow me on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCD6_0sJPqQBoa7UJqNUzf8w

Remeber to write a review for your chance to win the book, "It's So You: The Joy of Personal Style."  I will announce the winner on the first podcast of march. Get on the waitlist for the Iconic Women Mastermind - HERE You know how some fashion books make you feel like there's a right and wrong way to dress? Well, "It's So You: The Joy of Personal Style" by Kate Spade New York is nothing like that. It's like having a chat with your best friend who encourages you to embrace your unique style and not just follow the crowd. Instead of dictating what you should wear, this book guides you on how to build a wardrobe that screams 'you'. It's jam-packed with engaging chats, cool style tips, and out-of-the-box outfit ideas. One thing I absolutely loved about this book is how it spotlights the little personal touches that can totally transform your style. It doesn't matter if you're dressing for a casual day out or a fancy event, this book nudges you to find joy in expressing yourself through your outfits. But it's not all about clothes. This book goes deeper and explores how embracing your personal style can add a dash of joy to your everyday life. It's a holistic approach that makes this book a gem not just for fashion enthusiasts but also for anyone keen on expressing themselves authentically through what they wear. To wrap it up, "It's So You: The Joy of Personal Style" by Kate Spade New York I would not consider a fashion guide but a book celebrating fashion, style, and your personal style. Join the style challenge Facebook group:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/styleguidesociety Follow me on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ Follow me on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCD6_0sJPqQBoa7UJqNUzf8w

Hello Style Icon! I am starting a new episode every week that is a style challenge to help you make small changes that will make a big impact to help you feel more polished and stylish. Today is Week 1! These will drop on Tuesdays. To join the Iconic Women Mastermind - JOIN HERE One healthy habit:  Wash your makeup brushes weekly.  I share examples of what soap you can use and how to do it properly. One Style Trend:  Red slingback kitten heels and red purse to add a pop of color to your ordinary outfits. Beauty Prediction:  Red lipstick to go along with the pops of red accessories   Join the style challenge Facebook group:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/styleguidesociety Follow me on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ Follow me on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCD6_0sJPqQBoa7UJqNUzf8w  

Learn More ---> Iconic Women Mastermind What's inside the Iconic Women Mastermind with Afton Porter: Week 1:  January 31st - 11am LA / 2pm NY / 7pm London Lesson 1: Color Confidence & Headshots (90 Minutes) Group Live Lesson on Color & Coaching   Color Analysis Headshot Photo Training Collaboration with Like-minded Women Email Access to Afton Week 2: February 7th - 11am LA / 2pm NY / 7pm London  Implementation Week :  Office Hours (60 minutes) Receive your Color Analysis From Your Submitted Photos Practice the Skills From Week 1 and Receive Feedback Complete Homework Attend office hours to get your questions answered and for support Week 3:  February 14th  - 11am LA / 2pm NY / 7pm London Lesson 2: Body Type Analysis (90 Minutes) Group Live Lesson on Silhouettes & Coaching Body Type Analysis Full Body Training Collaboration with Like-minded Women Email Access to Afton  Week 4:  February 21st - 11am LA / 2pm NY / 7pm London Implementation Week :  Office Hours (60 minutes) Receive your Body Type Analysis from Your Submitted Photos Practice the Skills From Week 3 and Receive Feedback Complete Homework Attend office hours to get your questions answered and for support Week 5:  February 28th- 11am LA / 2p NY / 7pm London Lesson 3: Beauty & Camera Confidence Group Live Lesson on Hair, Makeup and Coaching Beauty Recommendations Per Color Analysis Camera Confidence Coaching  Collaboration with Like-minded Women Email Access to Afton  Week 6:  March 6th - 11am LA / 2pm NY / 7pm London Implementation Week :  Office Hours (60 minutes) Practice the Skills From Week 5 and Receive Feedback Complete Homework Attend office hours to get your questions answered and for support Graduation from Phase One - 4 Phases of Iconic Style   Here's what you're getting when you enroll today: Iconic Women Mastermind - $297 Color Analysis - $250 Value Style Analysis - $250 Value Coaching Sessions - $750 Value Total Value: $1,250 Plus, you get to meet new women just like you! But, enroll today, you'll get access to everything for just: $297 JOIN HERE

Register for the workshop starting January 23rd:  Register Here   I hope you enjoy learning about the color of the year as much as I did. Learn what the new color of the year is, who should wear it and who shouldn't and how you can incorporate it into your home.   Follow Afton here: Website:  https://aftonporter.com Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/AftonPorterStyle LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/aftonporterstyle

Sign up for the next Style Challnege:  HERE   Today, I want to touch upon a topic close to our hearts: the profound impact our thoughts about our bodies can have on our personal style journey. In our style evolution, self-awareness is the key that unlocks a wardrobe that truly resonates with who we are. Here's why being mindful of the thoughts we have about our bodies is a game-changer: Style Begins in the Mind: Your perception of your body shapes your style choices. By understanding and reshaping these thoughts, you gain the ability to curate a wardrobe that you really want to wear and not just trying to cover up your body. Confidence Unleashed: Embracing your body thoughts is a path to cultivating unshakeable confidence. When you are aware that the information you think is just feedback of what you really want.  There is nothing wrong with you.  You are on a path of growth. Fashion as Empowerment: It's not about conforming to societal norms; it's about using fashion as a tool. You will dress intentionally instead of unintentionally.   Follow Afton here: Website:  https://aftonporter.com Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/AftonPorterStyle LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/aftonporterstyle  

Register for the style challenge here ---->  STYLE CHALLENGE   Challenge yourself to elevate your personal style so you can be seen as the expert you are and have the confidence to rock it!   If you're a professional women who has their own business and wants to attract high-value clients to achieve your big goals in 2024...   You already know you need to elevate your style game.   HERE'S WHAT YOU MIGHT NOT KNOW How Your Appearance Plays a Crucial Role Scientific Evidence Prove Your Clothes Influence Your Brain The clothes you wear can significantly impact your mindset and self-perception. Your brain will rise up to the belief that you have about yourself based on the clothing you are wearing.  You Can Enhance Your Beauty Through Color Choosing the right colors can enhance your natural beauty, making your skin look healthier and more radiant. On the contrary, the wrong colors can age you.  The Wrong Clothing Distracts Your Brain Wearing ill-fitting clothes can distract your mind and slow you down, hindering your ability to complete important tasks throughout the day.  Don't Dress for the Job You Have Why?  When you dress for the job you want, it alters your self-perception and encourages you to behave as you are dressed. The quickest way to change how you view yourself is to change your outfit. Even though the reasons to pursue polished style is obvious, how to do it successfully on your own is anything but... The 5 Myths that Are Killing Your Style Myth # 1 I Need to Follow Trends   While trends can be fun, they shouldn't dictate your style.  Not every trend will suit you.  It's important to understand which ones look best on you and what makes you feel confident. Myth # 2 I Need to Constantly Update My Wardrobe  Some women believe they always need new clothes or accessories to stay fashionable.  I teach you how to find gems in your closet and how to incorporated them with the current styles for an updated look. The key to a great wardrobe is knowing how to use the clothes you already love in your closet. Myth # 3 I Need to Dress Age Appropriate Sis, you don't need to wear clothes because you reached a certain age.  And you don't have to cut your hair either. You can still wear whatever you love.  But, you may have emotionally outgrown your clothes and that's okay.  Nothing has gone wrong here. Sometimes the clothes in our closets no longer match who we are now.  I will help you align your style with the woman you currently are. Myth # 4 Style is Inherent   Do you believe that to have style you have to be born with it? That is simply not true.  Style is something anyone can learn, even you.  It's about understanding what works best for your body type, lifestyle and personality.  Myth # 5 Expensive Equals Stylish   Many women believe that spending more money on clothes automatically means you'll look more stylish.  However, style isn't about the price tag.  It's about how you wear an outfit, not how much it costs.  When you know how to dress your body and wear the right colors, you will look like a million bucks. Join the style challenge 

Ready to elevate your professional image:  Click here ----> Book a 1:1 Consultation   As the holiday season approaches, we know that planning for travel, especially deciding what to wear, can be a daunting task. That's why I'm thrilled to invite you to our latest episode of the Midlife Style School podcast - "Journey in Style: Comfortable & Chic Travel Outfits for Holiday". In this episode, we delve into the art of combining comfort and style in your travel outfits, particularly for those warm-weather destinations.  I share two outfits that look fallish as you travel via plane or car to a warm destination and you can adapt it to cooler weather climates. When you are traveling but don't want to roll into the hotel or your realtives home looking like a hot mess. Follow me on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ Follow me on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/AftonPorterStyle/  

Ready to elevate your personal brand image?  Schedule your Complimentry 1:1 Coaching Consultation In the ever-evolving world of personal branding, visibility is key. One of the most effective ways to increase this visibility and elevate your brand image is through professional photography. A well-executed photoshoot can help your brand stand out from the competition and give it a sense of quality and professionalism. But it's not just about taking high-quality pictures. It's also about choosing the right colors for your branding photography. The colors you choose can have a significant impact on how your brand is perceived, and they play a crucial role in forming clear visual identities for marketing materials.   Here are two essential tips we discuss:   Choosing the Best Colors for Branding Photoshoots: The colors in your photos should align with your brand's aesthetic and message. They should evoke the emotions you want associated with your brand and fit with your visual identity. Finding the Perfect Personal Brand Colors: Your personal brand colors should be consistent across all platforms, including your photos and marketing materials. This helps build a recognizable and unique personal brand. Successful personal brands have mastered the art of using colors strategically in their branding photography. And guess what? You can too! To learn more about this topic, I highly recommend tuning into the newest episode of the Midlife Style School podcast. I have dedicated an entire episode to discuss how to use colors strategically in your personal brand. Remember, your personal brand is a powerful tool that can set you apart from the crowd. With the right approach to professional photography and color selection, you can elevate your brand image and make a lasting impression.   Follow me on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ Follow me on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/AftonPorterStyle/  

Show Notes Follow Afton on Instagram here:  https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter She is answering your style question on Instagram the month of November.  Be sure to go give her a follow.   In this episode, we dive into the resurgence of wide-leg jeans and how you can incorporate them into your wardrobe. Whether you're 20 or 60, we believe style has no age limit and everyone can rock this trend. We discuss:   The cyclical nature of fashion: How trends from past decades make a comeback. The return of wide-leg jeans as a reaction to the dominance of skinny jeans. Wide-leg jeans and age: How anyone, regardless of age, can rock wide-leg jeans. The importance of fit and comfort. Balancing your outfit: Tips on creating a balanced silhouette with wide-leg jeans. How to choose the right length for your jeans. Style tips for wearing wide-leg jeans: From finding the right fit to pairing with the right tops, shoes, and washing options. Examples of dressy wide-leg pants and where to wear them: We explore different styles of wide-leg pants like Palazzo Pants, Suiting Trousers, High Waist Wide-Leg Pants, Evening Wide-Leg Pants, and Jumpsuits with Wide-Leg Pants. Wide-leg pants in the workplace: Can high-profile women wear wide-leg pants to work? Yes, they can! We share some styling tips to maintain a professional look. Additional Points:   Wide-leg pants offer the best of both worlds with a high waist and flowy fabric. They provide comfort without compromising on style. To prevent your outfit from looking too casual, focus on fit. Even oversized pieces like wide-leg pants should be tailored properly. When styling wide-leg pants for the office, it's suggested to pair them with a work-acceptable bodysuit or a close-fitted top rather than a crop top. This helps maintain a professional appearance while balancing the volume of the pants. Wide-leg pants can be flattering as they give the illusion of an hourglass figure. Tucking in your top or keeping it short can further enhance this effect. For an even more polished look, consider cinching the waist with a belt. Most importantly, remember that any woman, regardless of her size, can wear wide-leg pants. They're great for women of all ages, heights, and body shapes as they accentuate the waist. Avoid Too Much Volume: If you're wearing wide-leg pants, it's generally recommended to balance them with a fitted or tucked-in top. An oversized top paired with wide-leg pants can create too much volume and may not flatter your figure. Consider Your Height: While petite women can certainly wear wide-leg pants, the proportion is key. Opt for high-waisted styles to elongate the legs and avoid pants that are too voluminous or long, as they can overwhelm a petite frame. Mind the Occasion: Wide-leg pants might not be suitable for certain activities or settings. For example, if you're going for a hike or doing any activity that requires a lot of movement, wide-leg pants might not be practical. Similarly, in very formal settings, a more tailored silhouette might be preferred. Choose the Right Shoes: The type of shoes you wear with wide-leg pants can greatly impact the overall look. Flat shoes might make the pants appear too long, especially if you're shorter. Heels or platforms usually work well with wide-leg pants as they add height and prevent the pants from dragging on the ground. Fit is Key: Regardless of body type, wide-leg pants should fit well at the waist and hips. Pants that are too tight or too loose may not give the desired look. Remember, fashion is about expressing yourself. Don't be afraid to experiment and make the wide-leg jeans trend your own. Happy styling!  

Start your professioinal Glow-up Here: 1:1 Consultation The Professional Glow-Up: Assessment of Your Image Are you feeling stuck in your career? Do you need a change but don't know where to start? A Professional Glow-Up Assessment might be just what you need. In the grand theater of life, each one of us is a protagonist, a leading character with a unique role to play. And just like in any great drama, our costumes - our personal style - can speak volumes about our character before we even utter a single line. The Hunger Games", a dystopian franchise, used costumes as a critical element in illustrating the stark contrast between the impoverished districts and the wealthy Capitol. But beyond mere aesthetics, our personal style choices can significantly impact how we perceive ourselves, make decisions, and ultimately lead our lives. Your personal style is an external reflection of your inner self. When you dress in a way that authentically represents who you are, it boosts your self-confidence. You feel more comfortable in your skin, ready to take on challenges head-on. For example:   Vera Wang: She didn't start her fashion career until she was 40. Her transformation from a figure skater and journalist to a high-fashion designer involved adopting an elegant, minimalist personal style that is now synonymous with luxury and prestige. This shift in image played a role in her becoming one of the most successful designers in the world. Julia Child: Julia didn't start cooking until she was nearly 40. She adopted a sophisticated and approachable style, both in her kitchen attire and her on-screen persona. Her unique style and warm personality helped her connect with audiences, leading to her success as a cookbook author and television show host. Arianna Huffington: Arianna co-founded The Huffington Post when she was 55. Known for her chic suits and pearls, she cultivated a sophisticated and professional image that added credibility to her innovative news platform, contributing to its immense success. Martha Stewart: Martha built a brand based on her unique style and approach to home decor, cooking, and crafts. Her transformation from a caterer to a lifestyle guru involved adopting a clean, polished, and homely style. Her first book, published at age 41, marked the start of her homemaking empire.   By transforming our personal style, we can effectively enhance our personal brand and boost self-confidence. This not only improves public perception but also paves the way for professional success and financial growth.   If you're trying to determine whether it's time to update your professional image encompassing your attire, style, hair, makeup, and overall personal brand, here are some pointers to consider: Shifts in Goals or Values: Changing personal or professional objectives can signal the need for a brand refresh. If your current image doesn't seem to align with these changes, it's probably time to consider an update. Comfort and Confidence: If you don't feel confident or comfortable with your current professional image, that's a sign it may be time to revise it. Your personal brand should inspire self-assuredness. Consistency: Consistency is key in personal branding. If you notice inconsistency across different platforms or in-person interactions, then you might need to streamline your image. Narrative: If your personal brand lacks a clear narrative or fails to communicate your unique story, it might be time to reconsider your presentation. Professionalism: Consider if your appearance matches the level of professionalism you wish to project. If your look seems unprofessional or out of sync with your industry's norms, it might be time for a change. Current Trends: If your image feels outdated or no longer excites you, a refresh could be beneficial. Keeping up with contemporary styles and trends can help maintain a modern, engaging image. Life Changes: Major life events or significant changes in your career direction often warrant a reevaluation of your personal brand. How do you think others perceive you professionally, and does this align with how you want to be perceived? If you love your answer than congratulations. If you know you need to elevate your personal style & image, click the link in the show notes to schedule a 1:1 consultation with me and lets start elevating your personal brand image! Remember, your personal brand isn't just about how you look—it's a reflection of who you are, what you stand for, and how you portray yourself to others. Regularly assessing your personal brand ensures it remains authentic, relevant, and aligned with your current goals.

Book your 1:1 style consultation here: Book a Call Image walking into a crowded room and be noticed, being able to charge what you're worth, and opportunities are coming to you. Sound like a dream? No, it is the power of a Personal Brand Image. A personal brand image is essentially how you present yourself to the world. It's a unique combination of your skills, experiences, and personality that you want others to see. It reflects who you are, what you stand for, and what you offer. It's like your personal signature that distinguishes you from others in your industry or field. In the professional sphere, having a strong personal brand image is invaluable. Here's why: Differentiation: In a competitive market, a well-defined personal brand can set you apart from others. It helps you stand out by highlighting your unique capabilities and experiences. Credibility and Trust: A consistent personal brand helps build credibility. When people perceive you as a reliable authority in your field, they're more likely to trust you and your services. Career Advancement: A strong personal brand can open doors to new opportunities. It can attract attention from potential employers or clients and position you for promotions or partnerships. Increased Value: By showcasing your skills and expertise through your personal brand, you can command higher fees or salaries. People are willing to pay more for a recognized expert in the field. Personal Fulfillment: Personal branding allows you to be true to your personality, preferences, and values. It gives you the power to shape your own narrative rather than letting others define it for you. In essence, your personal brand image is a critical component of your professional success. It's not just about self-promotion, but about establishing your identity, building a reputation, and positioning yourself as a leader in your field. A well-crafted personal brand image allows you to present yourself confidently and authentically. It makes it easier for others to understand your value, which can lead to new professional opportunities. Curate Your Personal Brand Image: The Wardrobe Audit A "wardrobe audit" is a process where you evaluate the clothes you currently own to understand how they align with your personal style and image. It's an essential step when considering a reinvention of your personal brand image. Here's how it works: Inventory: You start by taking stock of every item in your wardrobe, from everyday wear to special occasion outfits. Evaluation: Next, you assess each piece based on factors like fit, condition, comfort, and how often you wear it. This also includes evaluating whether each item reflects your desired personal brand image. Sorting: After evaluation, you sort your clothes into different categories such as keep, donate, sell, or repair. Identifying Gaps: Once you've sorted your wardrobe, you'll have a clear idea of what's missing. These gaps could be essentials that you lack, pieces that could enhance your personal brand image, or items that could add variety to your wardrobe. Creating a Shopping List: Based on the gaps identified, you create a shopping list. This ensures future purchases are strategic and contribute to your personal brand image. Follow Afton Porter on Instagram Follow Afton Porter on Facebook

Fall is upon us, signaling a time of change in both the weather and our wardrobes. Often, this change includes the addition of a new handbag. Selecting a new handbag can sometimes be overwhelming, given the vast array of choices available. That's why in this week's episode of the Midlife Style School podcast, we're exploring the art of handbag selection. We'll discuss three key factors to consider when choosing a handbag to ensure you always look polished. Listen Here Handbags serve as an extension of our personalities and style, and can even uplift our mood. But did you know that the size and color of your handbag can significantly impact your overall look? Choosing a handbag that is proportional to your body size can enhance your silhouette, making you appear more put-together. Here's a fun tip: match your handbag with your hair color for a unique, coordinated look. Brunettes might opt for rich browns or blacks, blondes could choose pastel shades or bold reds, while redheads could go for greens or earthy tones. In this episode, we delve into these aspects and more. We discuss how different handbag styles can complement various body shapes, and how to select a design that flatters your figure.  The Art of Handbag Selection Part 1: Scaling your handbag to your body size When choosing a handbag, it's important to consider your body size. The size of your bag should balance your proportions and not overwhelm your frame. If you're petite, look for smaller bags that won't drown you out. If you're tall or curvy, go for medium to large-sized bags that can balance out your shape. Also, pay attention to the strap length - shorter straps work better for shorter-height body types.   Part 2: Matching your handbag to your hair color Did you know that matching your handbag to your hair color can create a cohesive and polished look? If you have blonde hair, try pairing it with pastel shades or bold reds. For brunettes, rich browns or blacks can be a great match. If you've got red hair, greens or earthy tones are the way to go.   Part 3: Picking a design that flatters your body shape Different handbag styles can complement different body shapes. For curvier figures, structured bags with clean lines can help streamline your silhouette. If you're more petite, try a bag with vertical designs to elongate your torso. Remember to also take into account the occasion and purpose of the bag - a formal event might require a clutch while an everyday work tote needs to have room for your essentials.   Choosing the perfect handbag can seem daunting, but following these simple guidelines on scaling, color and design can make things a whole lot easier. By matching your handbag to your body type, hair color and outfit, you're sure to look and feel your best. Thank you for tuning in to the Midlife Style School, think like a style icon!

Book a 1:1 Consultation Call: Click Here   Welcome to another episode of the Midlife Style School where we are delve into the exciting intersection of fasshion & mathmatics, a concept buzzing on social media called "Girl Math". In this episode, we'll explore how "Girl Math" can help us better understand the real cost of clothing and accessories. We'll also share some tips on how to shop smarter and more efficiently using the principles of "Girl Math". Topics Discussed: Understanding "Girl Math" "Girl Math" is a trend that encourages consumers to consider the long-term value of a purchase rather than just the upfront cost. The primary tool used in "Girl Math" is the cost-per-wear formula, which is calculated by dividing the price of an item by the estimated number of times you'll wear it. The lower the cost-per-wear, the better the value. Applying "Girl Math" to Fashion Purchases This approach can be particularly useful when shopping for clothing and accessories, as it shifts focus from the initial price tag to understanding the real value and longevity of an item. However, it's important to use "Girl Math" responsibly and not as a justification for overspending or purchasing items that are beyond one's means. Tips for Shopping Smarter with "Girl Math" Set a budget before you start shopping to avoid impulse purchases. Prioritize quality over quantity, investing in fewer, high-quality pieces. Calculate the cost-per-wear to understand the true value of an item. Consider the versatility of items and invest in classic pieces. Take good care of your items to extend their lifespan. Always remember, the goal is to make more sustainable and thoughtful decisions, not just to find an excuse to shop. Key Takeaways: "Girl Math" can be a valuable tool for consumers to better understand the real cost of clothing and accessories. It promotes mindful shopping and encourages a shift towards quality and sustainability. By applying these principles, you can make smarter shopping decisions that benefit both your wallet and the environment.   Grab my #1 style secret:  Unlock the Power of Color   Disclaimer: The information presented in this podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Always consult with a professional before making any financial or shopping decisions.  

Join me for your Midlife Reinvetion Workshop on Wednesdays in October 2023:  https://www.styleguidesociety.com/Style   In today's fast-paced world, personal style is often overlooked. Many people believe that style is a superficial matter or something that only matters to celebrities and fashion influencers. However, the power of personal style goes far beyond the clothes you wear. It's about expressing your personality, boosting your confidence, and making an impression on others. If you're not using the power of personal style, you're missing out on a multitude of benefits. For instance, personal style can help you stand out in a crowd, make a strong first impression, and even elevate your professional image. Not harnessing this power can leave you blending into the background, failing to communicate your unique identity effectively, and potentially missing opportunities both personally and professionally.   Here are some ways you can maximize the power of personal style:   Know Your Colors: Understanding which colors flatter your skin tone can dramatically enhance your appearance and boost your confidence. Assess Your Wardrobe: Take a good look at what's already in your closet. Identify the pieces you love and why you love them. This will give you a sense of your current style and what works for you. Understand Your Preferences: What do you feel most comfortable in? Which outfits make you feel powerful and confident? Knowing your preferences will help you develop a personal style that truly reflects who you are. Create a Style Guide or Outfits: Based on your color palette, wardrobe assessment, and preferences, create a style guide or set of outfits that encapsulate your personal style. This can serve as a blueprint when shopping for new pieces or putting together outfits. Implementation: Knowledge without action is futile. Apply what you've learned about your personal style in your daily life. Practice creating outfits, experimenting with different looks, and stepping out of your comfort zone. Remember, practice makes perfect! Your personal style is a powerful tool. It's an extension of your personality and a way to express yourself without saying a word. So, don't shy away from exploring and embracing your personal style – it could open up a world of possibilities!

Grab your 1:1 Consultation :  Book Now Often we don't realize it when we are going through a midlife reinvention, we just know we are having a hard time. Sometimes a reivention is done very intentionally but most the time we don't see the signs in our own life and it drags on longer than necessary and the experience is less than desierable.  It doesn't have to be that way! Here are some signs that you know you are ready for your midlife reinvention: Feeling Stuck: Feeling stuck can manifest differently for each woman, especially those over 40. Here are some common examples: Career Stagnation:  Physical Changes:  Identity Crisis:  Crossover Stressors:  Relationship Rut:  Lifestyle Monotony: Ready for Change: Recognizing when you're ready for a change can be a complex process, as it often involves deep self-reflection and introspection. However, there are several signs that can indicate you might be ready to make a change in your life: Dissatisfaction:  Restlessness:  Boredom:  Desire for Growth:  Physical Symptoms:  Envy: You're Scared:    3. Questioning your purpose:  4. Change is being thrust upon you:  5. Understanding You're Never Truly Ready:    If you're experiencing feelings of being stuck, questioning your purpose, find yourself in a life change, don't have a clear idea of what you want next,  it may be time to consider a midlife reinvention. Just remember, it's not about being completely ready but about being ready enough to start the journey.  

Grab your 1:1 Style Consultation: Book Now We are talking about how your hair color affects the color of clothes you wear.  I won't have you change your hair color for your clothes, like Margot Robbie did in the Barbie movie.   Yes, you read that right!  She had to do color treatments to make the pink clothes she wore look best with the asthetic of the movie... But, if you do change your hair color it's time for a new color analysis. I go over some hair advice for women over 40. Skin Tone Test: 1.  Vein Test 2.  Jewelry Test 3.  Sun Reaction   Hair Tone Test: 1.  Natural Hair 2.  Shine Test 3.  Eye Color   Be color confident in your personal style! #FashionPodcast #HairColorAndStyle #PersonalStyle #ColorConfident

Schedule your free  Personal Style Audit here:  Personal Style Audit In today's episode we discuss why it's important to represent your personal brand well as you show up for your business on local or national news outlets. It's totally normal to be nervous for your first few news appearances.  It only means you haven't done it enough times for it to feel like second nature.  Nothing is wrong with you and it doesn't mean anything about your ability to do what you do. Okay, let's dive into these 5 steps to creating an amazing tv segment for your brand. 1:  Wear one of your best colors - this isn't a time for winging it.  It can make you look older than necessay or vibrant and shine.  It's a no-brainer. You can't get this one wrong. 2. Your outfit should compliment the background of the area your segment will be. 3.  No print and what you should wear instead. 4.  Arrive hair & makeup ready - What the means and how to do it. 5.  How to look confident and own the room.      

Schedule your free mini session here:  MINI SESSION In this enlightening episode, Afton delve into the deep connection between our thoughts, self-perception, and personal style. We explore why compliments from others sometimes fall on deaf ears, and how our thoughts, though not always factual, can significantly influence how we feel about ourselves and our outfits.   Key Discussion Points:   The Power of Self-Image: We start by discussing how our thoughts about ourselves directly impact our choices in clothing and how we feel about our clothing. The Compliment Conundrum: Why is it that when people compliment our outfits, we often struggle to believe them?  Thoughts vs. Facts: Our thoughts about ourselves aren't always factual, yet they shape our feelings and actions.  There is nothing wrong with you:  What you are thinking and feeling is totally normal.  Nothing has gone wrong but there is another way. Join me as we navigate the intertwined paths of self-perception and personal style, learning how to use our wardrobes as a powerful tool to boost confidence and promote self-love. Don't miss this opportunity to redefine your relationship with your closet and, more importantly, with yourself.

Schedule a free midlife style breakthrough call here:  https://calendly.com/afton-porter/minisession Show Notes: We are told that we should increase our self love and body image but how do you actually do it? You've tried positive affirmation but it feels like a lie because you don't believe what you are saying.  It's just so far off then what you are currently saying to yourself about you and your body in your internal dialog. This week's episode of the Midlife Style School is  here to help bridge that gap.  Our focus is on "Overcoming Body Image Struggles."  I delve into practical strategies and tools you can use to gradually shift your perspective and foster a healthier relationship with your body. As you become more comfortable and accepting of your body, you'll discover that this newfound love and appreciation for yourself can positively influence all areas of your life.  It's a powerful transformation that can inspire you to make a positive impact in ways you never thought possible.  

Schedule a free mini session HERE Today, we're threading together an intriguing narrative around a subject that impacts all of us - the deep-seated connection between our self-image and the clothes we choose to wear. Let's embark on this journey together! Each one of us has a unique self-image, an internal portrait of who we believe we are. This image is shaped by a myriad of factors, including cultural norms, media portrayals of beauty, personal experiences, and societal expectations. These elements intertwine to form our sense of self, which interestingly, often manifests in our clothing choices. I recall a time when my wardrobe was a mirror of my self-esteem. Back in the day, baggy clothes were my armor against the world, allowing me to blend into the background. However, as I worked on my self-image and embraced my individuality, my attire started reflecting these changes. I began opting for more vibrant, fitting attire that mirrored my newfound confidence. Our clothing choices act as a visual representation of how we perceive ourselves. When we wear something that amplifies our self-image, it boosts our confidence, making us feel more comfortable in our skin. However, it's crucial to remember that while fashion can be a form of self-expression, it should not dictate our sense of worth. Our value lies within us, not in the labels we wear.   Here are some practical tips to help you align your clothing choices with a positive self-image:   Dress for yourself: Choose clothes that make you feel confident and comfortable. Experiment: Don't hesitate to try out different styles. You might discover something new about yourself! Set your own trends: Don't let fashion magazines dictate your style. Create your own unique look. Remember, clothes are an extension of who you are, not a definition of your worth.   As we conclude today's episode, remember that your wardrobe is a canvas for your personality. So dress in a way that reflects the true you! Thank you for joining me today. Stay tuned for more insightful conversations on our next episode. See you next time!

Grab the free Style Secret:  Unlock the Power of Color  "I am like fine wine.  I get better with age" - Richelle Mead Now, who says your style has to whisper just because you've hit midlife? Absolutely no one, that's who!   It's time to crank up the volume on your personal style and dismiss the societal norms that have been holding us back! Join us in the latest episode of our 'Midlife Style School' podcast for a style journey of fashion liberation.   In this week's episode, we bravely tackle ageism in fashion, a rampant issue that has led many midlife women to question their style choices. I share real-life stories from women like Jane and Maria, who have felt the constraints of age-related fashion stereotypes. But more importantly, I offer solutions. Oh yes, I do!   I guide you through: Ignoring the 'rules': If it looks good, feels good, then it IS good - regardless of what the trendsetters might say! Celebrating your body: Your body has journeyed with you through life, let's dress it with the respect and admiration it deserves. Accessorizing like a pro: From bold necklaces to chic handbags, we'll show you how to elevate any outfit. Unleashing your confidence: Because nothing is more beautiful than a woman who feels good in her own skin.   Listen today and join our sassy sisterhood of style revolutionaries!   Let's redefine the narrative around style and aging together. And remember, you're not just a listener, you're part of this movement.   Don't forget to subscribe to our podcast and leave a review if you love what you hear.   So, are you ready to strut into your best-dressed chapter of life? We thought so.   Let's do this, fabulous!   Love & style, Afton I'm offering a free mini session for those interested in taking their style transformation to the next level.

Join the Midlife Style School here --->  Midlife Style School  If you want more information to hire Afton as your stylist, email team@styleguidesociety.com Fall 2023 Nordstrom Sale Trends List: Luxurious Fabric:  Leather, Fur, Cashmere Masculine Inspired Suits:  Pant or Skirt Suits Loafers Plaids and pinstripes patterns  Cowgirl Asethetic Denim Skirts Colors:  Bordeaux, Blue green & Viva Magenta And Barbie Movie Fashion Unlock the Power of Color Free Training:  Access HERE

Find out what's stopping you from feeling more beautiful:  free mini-session Have you ever looked in the mirror and felt less than beautiful? Perhaps you've spent hours trying to perfect your look, running from one shopping trip to the next for that 'magic' makeover. You may have even considered plastic surgery - anything, just to try and feel good about yourself. But despite all these efforts, do you still feel like something is missing? If so, it might be time to take a look inside yourself instead of just searching externally - because no matter what kind of makeover we can offer; true beauty starts within. In this podcast episode, we'll explore how self-love is key in unlocking our inner beauty - and step away from being reliant on external factors that just don't last. The journey to feeling beautiful is a process. We can tend to the outside all we want and still not feel beautiful on the inside. Understanding why we can't make ourselves beautiful by changing our appearances and delving into what lies beneath the surface is how true beauty blossoms. It's not about having it all together, but rather it's allowing ourselves to think deeply about why we don't feel good enough so that this can be addressed head-on. Taking accountability for our internal dialogue and its impact on our day-to-day life is a powerful tool for reshaping our thoughts around beauty. By creating a plan to love yourself more, we are taking an active role in feeling beautiful from within. If you're ready to make some real changes today, schedule a free mini-session today.

I'm the midlife style coach for women ready to design their personal style and create unstoppable confidence. Schedule a free mini session with me to see how I can best help you:  Mini Session Listen to this episode to learn a whole new look on your self-confidence.  I promise you, you haven't heard this point of view any where else and it will change how you view it. Here are 6 ways to boost your confidence about your style. Focus on fit: Invest in clothing that fits well and flatters your unique shape. A well-fitted outfit can work wonders for your self-confidence. Don't be afraid to visit a tailor to achieve the perfect fit, as this can make all the difference in how you feel in your clothes. Embrace color: Don't shy away from bold colors and patterns. They can instantly elevate your mood and make you feel more confident. Experiment with different color combinations and find what works best for your skin tone and personality. Develop a signature style: Identify the styles, cuts, and fabrics that make you feel your best and build your wardrobe around these key pieces. Your signature style should be a reflection of who you are and what makes you feel confident and beautiful. Prioritize quality: Invest in high-quality, timeless pieces that will last for years and make you feel good every time you wear them. Quality materials and craftsmanship not only look better but also send a message of self-worth and confidence. Seek inspiration: Follow fashion blogs, Instagram accounts, and Pinterest boards of midlife women whose style you admire. This can help you discover new ideas and boost your confidence in your own fashion choices. Surround yourself with positive role models and learn from their experiences. Practice self-compassion: Be kind to yourself and remember that nobody is perfect. Treat yourself with the same understanding and empathy you would offer to a close friend or family member. Acknowledge your achievements and celebrate your progress as you work on building your self-esteem. Join the Midlife Style School

I am the style coach for midlife women to design their life with confidence and create a personal style to match for their new phase in life. This episode I share how I went from not feeling confidnet in shorts to rocking them fearlessly. I walk my clients through this process for them to help them create their extraordinary  life. Schedule your free Mini Session with me here ---> Free Mini Sesaon 

When packing for a summer trip to Paris, keep in mind the city's chic fashion, unpredictable weather, and the importance of comfortable yet stylish attire for exploring the city. Here are some packing tips to help you prepare with tips from my trip to Paris:   Lightweight layers: Parisian weather can be unpredictable, so pack light layers like cotton or linen shirts, blouses, and cardigans that can be easily added or removed as needed. Stylish outerwear: A lightweight trench coat or stylish jacket is perfect for cooler evenings or unexpected rain showers. Don't feel like you can only wear neutral colors like beige, navy, or black to easily match with your outfits.  Wear color! Comfortable shoes: Paris involves a lot of walking, so bring comfortable and fashionable shoes such as ballet flats, loafers, or stylish sneakers. Avoid heels or open-toed sandals, as they may be impractical for cobblestone streets. Versatile bottoms: Pack a mix of skirts, dresses, and pants that can be dressed up or down depending on the occasion. Choose breathable fabrics like cotton or linen for added comfort. Accessories: Bring a few scarves or lightweight shawls to add a touch of Parisian flair to your outfits. They can also double as cover-ups for visits to religious sites or protection against the sun. Compact umbrella: A small, portable umbrella is essential for those unexpected summer showers. Electronics and adaptors: Don't forget your smartphone, charger, and a power adapter suitable for European outlets (Type C or Type E plugs). Remember to pack light and choose versatile pieces that can be easily mixed and matched to create various outfits. Embrace the Parisian style by opting for dresses or skirts with white fashionable shoes, classic patterns, and chic accessories. Bon voyage! Schedule your free mini session:  https://calendly.com/afton-porter/minisession  

Schedule your free Mini Session with me to see how I can help you with your style - CLICK HERE   Bold Monochromatic Looks: One of the hottest trends for summer 2023 is wearing bold, monochromatic outfits. Choose a vibrant color like cobalt blue or emerald green and create an entire outfit around it. This not only makes you look chic and put together, but it also helps you stand out in a crowd. Power Suits: The power suit is making a comeback, and it's perfect for midlife women professionals. Opt for suits in lighter fabrics and summer-friendly colors. Pair your suit with a sleek blouse or even a graphic tee for a more casual yet still professional look. Wide-Legged Pants: Embrace the wide-legged pants trend by pairing them with a fitted blouse or blazer. This creates a balanced silhouette that's both comfortable and stylish, perfect for meetings and networking events. Asymmetrical Necklines: Asymmetrical necklines are a great way to add interest to your outfit. Try incorporating this trend into your wardrobe with dresses or tops that feature unique, off-center necklines. Statement Sleeves: Make a statement with voluminous sleeves this summer. Look for blouses or dresses with puff sleeves or bell sleeves, which can add a touch of drama and sophistication to your outfit. Mixed Prints: Don't be afraid to mix prints and patterns! Start by pairing similar colors or patterns of different scales. For example, try wearing a floral skirt with a striped blouse in complementary colors. Midi Dresses: Midi dresses are both classic and on-trend for summer 2023. Choose a dress with an A-line or wrap silhouette to flatter your figure, and opt for bright colors or bold prints to make a lasting impression. Layered Jewelry: Layering necklaces, bracelets, and even rings can add depth and interest to your outfit. Experiment with different lengths, materials, and styles to create a unique look that's all your own. pml Statement Sunglasses: Invest in a pair of statement sunglasses to elevate your summer style. Look for oversized frames or unique shapes to help you stand out and protect your eyes from the sun's rays. Comfortable Heels: Finally, consider investing in a pair of comfortable, stylish heels. Block heels and wedges are great options for midlife women professionals who want to add height without sacrificing comfort. Incorporating these summer 2023 style trends into your wardrobe will not only help you appear stylish and memorable but will also attract high-paying clients who appreciate your attention to detail and sense of style. Remember, your personal style is an extension of your professional brand, so don't be afraid to embrace these trends and make them your own.

Come walk through the streets of Paris with me as I interview Paris in my Panties author, Jennifer Melville about her musings and observations of her visits to Paris. If you love Paris, style and food, you are going to love this episode, come listen! Schedule a free style breaktrhough call with me here: https://calendly.com/afton-porter/style-breakthrough Jennifer Melville is a self-published author. She decided to embark on a writing career because she wanted to tap into a community of like-minded individuals who share in her enthusiasm for living well and seeking ways to elevate daily life. She is a professional accountant by trade, who approaches life with an analytical and observant mind. Jennifer has been exploring the concept of elevating the everyday for over twenty years. She is passionate about family, health, fitness, fashion, nutrition, nature and all the beauty life has to offer. Jennifer lives by the sea in beautiful Nova Scotia, Canada with her husband, two sons and little poodles Coco and Junior. All her titles are available on Amazon.

Watch Unlock the Power of Color to Create Standout Style in Midlife Here:  https://www.styleguidesociety.com/color Enclothed cognition is a term used to describe the psychological effects that clothing has on the wearer. It suggests that what we wear can have a significant impact on our self-image, emotions, and performance. This theory was developed by Adam Hajo and Adam D. Galinsky in 2012 in their study “Enclothed Cognition.”   The concept of enclothed cognition states that the symbolic meaning of what we wear can affect our psychological processes, such as self-esteem and confidence. This means that when someone puts on a piece of clothing, they may feel empowered or successful due to its connotations. Furthermore, research has shown that clothes which are associated with higher social status can increase feelings of power and motivation.   The concept of enclothed cognition has been used in a number of studies to examine how clothing affects performance. For example, researchers have looked at the effect that uniforms may have on students' academic performance and found that wearing a uniform had a positive influence on achievement. Similarly, another study found that wearing formal business attire had a positive effect on people's negotiation skills.   These findings suggest that clothing can have a powerful psychological impact, as well as an aesthetic one. Wearing clothes which you feel comfortable and confident in can help to improve your self-esteem, performance, and overall wellbeing. So don't forget to dress for success! Not only can your clothing help you to look the part, but it can also make a difference in how you feel and perform.   I use the science behind enclothe congition in my style coaching practice on various aspects as we design their life and style for their next level of success.

Learn more about the Midlife Style School :  https://www.styleguidesociety.com/styleschool   The Busy Woman's Guide to Staying Stylish:  Balancing Working & Style with A Busy Schedule   Office Wear: Opt for classic silhouettes in neutral colors like navy, black, camel, and grey. Invest in high-quality pieces like a tailored blazer and trousers or skirts that flatter your body type. These timemidlifeless items will help you look put together while allowing you to feel comfortable all day long. You can also add an element of personality with printed scarves and statement jewelry [e.g., a long pendant necklace or a bold cuff]. Casual Wear: When you're off the clock but still have places to go, invest in well-fitting denim pieces like bootcut jeans or chic trousers, plus quality basics like t-shirts and sweaters. Look for interesting details such as side stripes, embroidery work, or embellishments for added personality. Accessorizing: Accessorizing is a great way to take any look up a notch without overwhelming yourself with choices. Choose one statement piece such as a bright bag or colorful statement earrings that won't take too much time to pair with the rest of your outfit each morning. Remember the power of neutrals – they can make any accessory “go” with most wardrobes! Hair Care: Having good hair days is essential when it comes to looking polished at work. Invest in quality products meant specifically for your hair type [e.g., Frizz Ease Extra Strength Formula Deep Treatment] and find simple styles that complement your face shape [e.g., high ponytails for round faces]. This will save you time spent styling in the morning (and time spent dealing with bad hair days!) Join the Midlife Style School:  This is a transformation from the inside out.  Email questions to -  team@styleguidesociety.com

Join the Midlife Style School:  https://www.styleguidesociety.com/styleschool Email Afton to schedule a free style coaching call at Team@styleguidesociety.com Are you a mid-life woman struggling to find the confidence to look and feel your best? Learn why it is essential for women of all ages to seek out professional help in order to develop the skills needed to dress with confidence. Today we are diving into a topic that needs to be discussed: Why is it that seeking help to navigate through life seems to be taboo after graduating from high school or college? Let me set the stage for you. When we were younger, we had teachers and coaches to guide us, teach us, and help us develop the skills and knowledge we needed to succeed. But once we finished college, it seems we are on our own. We are expected to be experts in everything from cooking to fashion, to even adulting as a whole. And let's be honest, just because we get dressed every day doesn't mean we know how to create outfits that are best for us. But we think we should know, we think there's something wrong with us when we don't. But let's shift that mindset, shall we? Fashion is an art, just like cooking, painting, and architecture - it takes time to develop the skills and knowledge to truly master it. Even doctors practice medicine with the skills they learned at school, and let's not forget, we were taught how to put our arm through clothes, use snaps and buttons, but not how to style ourselves. We all have to eat every day, and preparing meals for ourselves and others is an essential part of life. But have you ever considered that cooking is also an art? It requires a deep understanding of ingredients, techniques, and flavors. So why is seeking the help of a chef or cooking classes seen as a weakness, when it is really an investment in developing a valuable skill set? The same goes for fashion and style. We should not feel ashamed or embarrassed to seek the help of professionals, or even friends who have a natural flair for fashion. Don't limit yourself to a limited view of what style is, and instead, let yourself be open to new methods of expression and creativity. So let's end this podcast with a reminder: it's okay to ask for help, it's okay to not know everything, and it's okay to invest in yourself at any age. Life is too short to not indulge in the things that bring us joy and help us express ourselves fully. Keep slaying, my midlife ladies, and stay stylish!  

Book A Color Analysis Schedule a Free Style Breakthrough Call Learn about the Midlife Style School:  https://www.styleguidesociety.com/styleschool Hey there lovelies, it's your personal stylist and coach here to talk about why you need to trust yourself before you try to create amazing outfits. Have you ever found yourself hesitating to trust your own style sense? Maybe you second guess yourself and always need to ask for advice when it comes to putting outfits together. Well, you're not alone. Many women struggle with this same issue. But the truth is, if you don't trust yourself, you're never going to be truly confident in your style. That's where coaching comes in. As a certified life coach and personal stylist, I use the model of thought work to help my clients build true confidence in themselves. We believe that our thoughts create our feelings, our feelings drive our actions and our actions give us the results. Our actions don't affect our thoughts, it's the other way around. So, if you want to be confident in your style choices, you need to start by thinking confident thoughts about yourself. And that's where trust comes in. Let me give you an example. One of my clients used to dread shopping. She would rush through the store, avoiding the dressing room, and always end up feeling frustrated and unhappy with her purchases. But, after some coaching, we discovered that the real issue wasn't that she didn't like shopping, it was that she didn't trust herself to pick out great outfits. Does that sound familiar? It's all too common. But the good news is, with some coaching and practice, you can learn to trust yourself and feel confident in your style choices. So, the next time you're getting dressed or heading out to go shopping, take a moment to check in with yourself. Are you second guessing your choices? Are you doubting your own style sense? If so, it's time to start doing some thought work and practicing self-trust. Remember, you're amazing just the way you are. Trust yourself and your style choices will follow suit. Thanks for listening, until next time, think like a style icon! Learn about the Midlife Style School:  https://www.styleguidesociety.com/styleschool Follow Afton on social: Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ Facebook:  https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ LinkedIn:  https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/

Learn about the Midlife Style School:  https://www.styleguidesociety.com/styleschool Many women in midlife face stereotypes that they are too old or not capable of reaching the same success as younger generations. Fortunately, this is not true! Women in midlife truly have powerful advantages that allow them to thrive personally and professionally. First, let's start with what midlife actually is - it usually begins somewhere around age 40 - 65 and marks the transition from your younger years into middle age. Commonly referred to as “the midlife crisis,” many people associate this period with feelings of depression, insecurity, and stress. But rather than dreading this period of life, why not look at it as an opportunity? Experienced: Women over 40 have an abundance of life experience under their belt. They can draw upon this wisdom and past experiences to inform decisions and navigate challenges with more ease than someone who may be younger and less experienced. Connection/Friendships: Women over 40 tend to have strong social networks made up of loyal friends, colleagues, family members, and business associates who offer support when needed. And because many of these connections have been built over time, they often come with a greater degree of trustworthiness than relationships formed recently or quickly. Financially Secure: Many women over 40 have achieved financial freedom due to years of hard work and dedication towards building successful careers and businesses. This financial independence allows for more freedom to take risks, pursue dreams, and invest back into themselves or others without worrying about the financial consequences if things don't go as planned.  Independent: Women over 40 tend to be independent decision makers due to the combination of decades worth of life experiences which has afforded them the confidence needed to make choices that serve their own best interests without fear of judgement from others or worry about conforming to societal pressures or expectations from family members or other sources that often influence decisions made by people who may still be very young adults trying to find themselves in life's journey .  Health Conscious: Women who are over 40 typically take better care of their health since they understand it is important for them live longer healthier lives so they can enjoy what comes next during this season of life since it often offers some exciting new opportunities within relationships, career paths & investments etc ….. all while becoming wiser & often more adventurous too ! In conclusion, even though midlife can come with its challenges such as hormonal shifts or an identity crisis, women are still able to rise above these challenges by leveraging the unique advantages this period brings about for strong female leadership within their industry. Age is no longer an obstacle but an asset! Learn about the Midlife Style School:  https://www.styleguidesociety.com/styleschool Follow Afton on social: Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ Facebook:  https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/ LinkedIn:  https://www.instagram.com/aftonporter/