Podcasts about practical psychology

Send us a Message!In this episode, we explore some psychological concepts and principles that can help us better understand both those we work with and ourselves.Coby walks us through these 3 concepts:The real meaning of Introversion and ExtroversionThe Curse of KnowledgeThe impact of living in Prolonged Survival Mode Our prescription for this episode is to take a step back, look at challenges and behaviors from others and ourselves, and gain a little perspective on their cause. Compassion, reflection, and patience are how we can better understand those whom we work with and ourselves.Past Episode Referneced:S2 E17 - What Is Some Practical Psychology That Can Improve How I Lead And Work With Others?You can reach out to us to talk more about successfully working with others, just contact us at info@roman3.ca or through our LinkedIn page at https://www.linkedin.com/company/roman3Don't forget to sign up for our New Quarterly Newsletter that launched this fall!About Our Hosts!James is an experienced business coach with a specialization in HR management and talent attraction and retention. Coby is a skilled educator and has an extensive background in building workforce and organizational capacity. For a little more on our ideas and concepts, check out our Knowledge Suite or our YouTube Channel, Solutions Explained by Roman 3.

Practical Psycholgoy lessons from Warren Buffet's business partner. Ideas used to create rational thinking and build a Trillion-Dollar empire. Today we dissect the best lessons from "Poor Charlies Almanac" A blueprint for rational thinking and sensible investing. Charlie Munger loved Psychology and wanted there to be a course on Practical Psychology to be taught at all universities. He believed it would make the world a better place. His book combines his favourite tools from psychology as well as other lessons and mental models he found to build worldly wisdom and the best investing record in history. Upgrade to Premium:

Practical Psychology for navigating life's challenges and cultivating joy. Sam Webster Harris explores the concept of life as a series of games, blending psychological insights with practical wisdom. He discusses how every aspect of life involves some form of gameplay, from professional networks like LinkedIn to personal decisions and social interactions. We dig into the intersection of Philosophy and Psychology to understand the experiencing self and how we navigate our moments. Sam emphasizes the importance of understanding the different 'modes' of approaching life's games—machine, intelligent, and zen. He advocates for living authentically, focusing on self-amusement, and challenging societal norms. Learn to apply some of the more surreal and abstract concepts of the mind into real life: How to understand what game you are playing? Establish what is really at stake Define the rules for yourself to play your own game Have more fun The episode encourages listeners to reassess their motivations and redefine what winning means in their personal game of life. Further reading: Godel, Escher, Bach - Douglas R. Hofstedter Finite and Infinite Games - James P. Carse The Infinite Game - Simon Sinek The Way of Zen - The Taboo of Knowing Who You Are - Alan Watts Sponsors: Cozy Earth: Luxury Bamboo sheets and Loungeware that become softer as you use them. 35% off code 'GROWTH' - CozyEarth.com SleepyClub: Doctor-approved natural sleeping aid that improves sleep quality. Safe to take every day. 20% discount code 'GROWTH20' - SleepyClub.co.uk ShortForm: Summaries and guides for the world's best books and ideas. FREE trial and 20% off annual fee - ShortForm.com/Psychology Meet Sam Free Call - Schedule Link Influence the Show Feedback - Request and Ideas Form Growth Mindset pod: Sam Webster explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Watch - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Newsletter - Expansive Thinking Chapters: 00:00 The Concept of Life as a Game 01:28 The Rules of Life's Games 03:17 The Games of LinkedIn and Appearance 06:30 Life Lessons - Philosophy for fun and success 11:36 Your Point of View is First Player 14:03 The Three Modes for Playing Games 15:00 Applying the Modes to Social Media, News and Health 17:00 Final Thoughts 18:00 Housekeeping and Recommendations Topics: understanding life games and personal growth how to play life games on your own terms mastering life games for more fun and success psychological models for better life decisions navigating life's games with mental models building mental strength through understanding games enhancing life strategies with cognitive psychology applying psychology to everyday life games tips for playing life's psychological games dealing with societal expectations psychologically philisophical insights into life's hidden games developing self-awareness in life's games practical psychology for navigating life's challenges Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, we examine 3 psychological principles that can hopefully provide folks with a lens to allow for a better understanding of those we work with.In this conversation, we explore:Affect Intensity Belief Perseverance (combined with the Backfire Effect)Self SabotageOur prescription for this episode: many interpersonal and professional conflicts arise from a lack of understanding of where a lot of our differences come from. If we take the time to consider the "why" behind people's behavior, we can bring more patience, grace, and solutions to the troubles of our workplaces. About Our Hosts!James is an experienced business coach with a specialization in HR management and talent attraction and retention. Coby is a skilled educator and has an extensive background in building workforce and organizational capacityFor a little more on our ideas and concepts, check out our Knowledge Suite or our YouTube Channel, Solutions Explained by Roman 3.

Note: This episode contains content about trauma. Listener discretion is advised.The path toward hope and healing is often charted through pain, suffering, loss, and grief.Coming from two decades spent studying post-traumatic stress disorder, researcher and clinical psychologist Dr. Cynthia Eriksson Cynthia has worked with individuals and communities in the wake of major tragedy. Her psychological and spiritual perspectives emerge from first hand experience with Cambodian children exposed to the atrocities of war, Ugandan refugees, Haitian victims of earthquake catastrophe and infrastructure collapse, or at home in Pasadena tending to frontline workers who are often left burned out and traumatized from relief work.Cynthia Eriksson discusses how to pursue resilience and recovery by reflecting on the role of faith and spirituality; habits and rhythms of life; and relationships and community.How should we understand the difference between resilience and thriving?Resilience focuses on the adaptive capacities that people need to bounce back from trauma, creating the capacity to bounce back, and the skills to increase one's ability and agility to recover. Whereas thriving refers to adaptive growth through adversity, trauma, challenges, and opportunities, all the while in pursuit of one's purpose.Both resilience and thriving recognize the complexities of life, and both affirm and require the actualization of human agency.In this conversation with Cynthia Eriksson, we discuss:How leaders and helpers and caretakers can identify trauma in themselves, and come to recognize, accept, and respond.The importance of paying attention to our brains, bodies, and environment.The 5 R's of resilience to trauma and recovery from trauma.Spiritual responses to suffering and pain—which can often result in incredibly profound experiences with God—and this includes expressing anger at God within a struggle.And practically, we talk about how to deal with avoidance, defensiveness, and blaming others or ourselves—basically, the potentially destructive nature of coping mechanisms.And we close with a beautiful grounding practice that connects us all to our bodies and emotions, to engage trauma, and stay on the path to thriving.Show NotesResource: "Thriving through Trauma: Five R's for Resilience and Recovery" (via thethrivecenter.org)Resource: "Practice: The Five R's of Resilience and Recovery" (via thethrivecenter.org)Resilience versus thriving—what's the difference?What is trauma? A threat to existence.Extending from trauma to suffering and helping other people build resilience and recoverCynthia Eriksson's personal experience of trauma (and not realizing it)Problem solving and seeking control as a coping mechanism and defense against acknowledging and dealing with traumaDissociationExperiencing trauma is not the same thing as being traumatizedFight, flight, freeze, or fawn (”tend and befriend”)The symptoms of trauma and areas of disruptionWhat happens in our bodiesWhat happens in our minds (thinking)What happens in our relationshipsWhat happens in our sense of meaning, justice, and making sense of the worldResilience“What are some of the things that we can all do that help us to build some muscles when it comes to navigating life's suffering?Resilience as a skill everyone can cultivate through personal growth, rather than a static trait“Neurons that fire together wire together.”The Five R's of Resilience Regulation: bodies and emotions Reflection and Right Thinking: truth and factual acceptance Relationships: community, connection, friendship, and support Respite and Rest: disengagement and Sabbath healing Reason: meaning and transcendenceHow to deal with big, overwhelming feelings in the wake of trauma.Grounding and settling practices: feeling where you are. “I'm here now, and I'm safe.”Lament as a healthy spiritual response to traumaAnger at and with GodSpiritual practice of lamentAsking a hard question of God: “Why aren't you here, God?”Lament and anger at God as a practice to stay in relationship with God“There's this tension of: “If I show up for God, will God show up for me?”Orienting to the pain and suffering of others: “How do I show up for the people that are around me who are in pain what does it mean for me to actually open myself up to the pain of others and stay present?”“Do justice, love mercy, and walk humbly.” (Micah 6:8)Coping mechanisms: substances, shopping, Netflix, avoidanceUnhealthy responses to trauma-based emotion: the dangers of replaying, ruminating, and regrettingRumination is not a constructive processing.What kind of grace can I show myself?Book: Resmaa Menakem, My Grandmother's Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and BodiesBook: Lisa Najavits, Seeking Safety: A Treatment Manual for PTSD and Substance AbuseGuided meditative practice: GroundingExplaining the science behind Grounding PracticesPractical ways to get helpBook: Bessel van der Kolk, The Body Keeps the Score: Braim, Mind, and Body in the Healing of TraumaBook: Judith Herman, Trauma and Recovery: The Aftermath of Violence—from Domestic Abuse to Political TerrorBook: Resmaa Menakem, My Grandmother's Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and BodiesNational Child Traumatic Stress Network (currently under website maintenance as of March 4, 2024; contact helpdesk at help@nctsn.org or in an emergency, dial 911)National Center for PTSDCynthia Eriksson on What is thriving?Joy and FreedomPam King's Key TakeawaysA life of thriving on purpose actually includes pain and sadness. A history of trauma is not a disqualification from thriving.Coping strategies are tricky. They tempt us towards avoidance, defensiveness, defensiveness, substance abuse, blaming, and self judgment. Our goal is not coping. Our goal must be thriving.Lots of R's here, but regulation, reflection, right thinking, relationships, respite, and rest, and reason are core components to developing resilience and enacting recovery.It's okay to be angry at God, and it helps to tell God that's actually the case.We can find emotional grounding and regulation through intentionally enhancing a deep connection between our bodies and minds.And the path to thriving is often one where our minds need to follow our bodies and all their glorious complexity.For more information about resilience recovery, org. In Cynthia Erickson's framework of five hours, visit our website at thethrivecenter.org.About Cynthia ErikssonCynthia Eriksson is Dean of the Fuller School of Psychology & Marriage and Family Therapy, and is a Professor of Psychology in the Clinical Psychology Department.Her research is particularly focused on the needs of cross-cultural aid for mission workers, as well as the interaction of trauma and spirituality. This work has included trauma training, research, and consultation in Monrovia, Liberia; Kobe, Japan; Phnom Penh, Cambodia; Amsterdam, the Netherlands; Barcelona, Spain; Guatemala City, Guatemala; Gulu, Uganda; and Amman, Jordan.Eriksson also collaborated with colleagues in the US, Europe, and Africa on a longitudinal research project on stress in humanitarian aid workers funded by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention in Atlanta. She also participates in the Headington Program in International Trauma at Fuller.She has completed research on risk and resilience, exposure to stress, and spiritual development in urban youth workers funded by the Fuller Youth Institute.Eriksson and her students are currently exploring the intersection of cultural humility and culturally-embedded resilience practices through collaborations with ministry agencies and Fuller colleague Alexia Salvatierra. About the Thrive CenterLearn more at thethrivecenter.org.Follow us on Instagram @thrivecenterFollow us on X @thrivecenterFollow us on LinkedIn @thethrivecenter About Dr. Pam KingDr. Pam King is Executive Director the Thrive Center and is Peter L. Benson Professor of Applied Developmental Science at Fuller School of Psychology & Marriage and Family Therapy. Follow her @drpamking. About With & ForHost: Pam KingSenior Director and Producer: Jill WestbrookOperations Manager: Lauren KimSocial Media Graphic Designer: Wren JuergensenConsulting Producer: Evan RosaSpecial thanks to the team at Fuller Studio and the Fuller School of Psychology & Marriage and Family Therapy.

William Walker Atkinson (1862 - 1932) William Walker Atkinson was one of the most prominent contributors to the literature of the New Thought movement, a non-denomination spiritual philosophy which developed in the late Nineteenth Century. Although he achieved eminence in a number of professions, Atkinson never sought personal publicity, and many of his numerous works were published under a variety of pseudonyms.Most of Atkinson's works are manuals of practice rather than pure expositions of philosophy. Many of his books are concerned with the training of the mind, and one of the most typical of these is Your Mind and How to Use It: A Manual of Practical Psychology, first published in 1911.Summary by Algy Pug Genre(s): Modern Language: English

The mid-20th century was the heyday of figuring out why humans were the worst through the use of social psychological experiments. Strange Country cohosts Beth and Kelly talk about one such experiment, Muzafer Sherif's Robbers Cave Experiment where Sherif gathered a group of 12 year old boys to see if he could pit the boys against one another. Sherif's experiment is included in Psych 101 books about group dynamics, but did this hostility occur organically or was it more manufactured by the adults? Theme music: Big White Lie by A Cast of Thousands. Cite your sources: Higgins, Nick, and Maria Konnikova. “Revisiting Robbers Cave: The easy spontaneity of intergroup conflict.” Scientific American Blog Network, 5 September 2012, https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/literally-psyched/revisiting-the-robbers-cave-the-easy-spontaneity-of-intergroup-conflict/. Accessed 15 January 2024.   Mcleod, Saul. “Robbers Cave Experiment | Realistic Conflict Theory.” Simply Psychology, 27 September 2023, https://www.simplypsychology.org/robbers-cave.html. Accessed 27 February 2024.   Perry, Gina. The Lost Boys: Inside Muzafer Sherif's Robbers Cave Experiment. Scribe Publications, 2019.   Perry, Gina. “Robbers Cave Experiment.” Practical Psychology, 26 September 2022, https://practicalpie.com/robbers-cave-experiment/. Accessed 27 February 2024.   Shariatmadari, David, and Gina Perry. “A real-life Lord of the Flies: the troubling legacy of the Robbers Cave experiment.” The Guardian, 16 April 2018, https://www.theguardian.com/science/2018/apr/16/a-real-life-lord-of-the-flies-the-troubling-legacy-of-the-robbers-cave-experiment. Accessed 27 February 2024.

Irwin is the Founder of web design agency Chromatix where they build website that make you money. And he's a founder starting ConversionCow, a dedicated conversion SaaS tool that helps businesses fast forward their sales process and see better results with leads and conversionsToday he shares about the psychology behind the influence you hold, both in your business through marketing and client experience and in your life.This episode is sponsored by Our ResourcesCheck out some free resources to help grow your business at podcast.allheartphoto.com/resourcesFind Irwin at:Linkedin:https://www.linkedin.com/in/irwinhau/Websites:https://www.chromatix.com.au/https://www.conversioncow.com/

In this week's episode of The Pro-Fit Podcast, we're delving into an often overlooked, yet crucial aspect of the fitness industry - practical psychology. Based on insights from our recent live event, we explore the essence of practical psychology, the importance of understanding human needs, and the pivotal role of trust and responsibility. Find out how mastering these soft skills can significantly impact your fitness business, fostering stronger relationships and improved results. Whether you're a fitness professional or a gym owner, understanding your clients on a deeper psychological level will undoubtedly enhance your effectiveness. ----------To catch all episodes, make sure you're subscribed to the show...Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-pro-fit-podcast/id1458318553Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/315111taFKBgrk2E7o6Wt8?si=c0901b6a3e14409c----------And for easy-to-review short form content (plus full guest interviews) please subscribe to our YouTube Channel...Pro-Fit Podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHihlfGS3ozr2Y5DULnEDMw----------To stay up to date with Matt & Paul, follow them on Instagram...Matt - https://www.instagram.com/mattrobinsonpt/Paul - https://www.instagram.com/coachcampey/

In today's lessons from UPW, I talk about the 3 elements of practical psychology. What is fear and how can we use it? What controls and determines our quality of life? Why do we do what we do? These are all questions that will be answered in today's ThoughtLoad!"People will destroy their dreams or break their own values to meet their needs."-Tony RobbinsBegin The Duel, Win The DaySupport the show

Tahir Bazarov, Doctor of Psychology, Professor of Lomonosov Moscow State University, Scientific Director of the Moscow School of Practical Psychology at the Moscow Institute of Psychoanalysis. FIND TAHIR ON SOCIAL MEDIA Facebook ================================ SUPPORT & CONNECT: Support on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/denofrich Twitter: https://twitter.com/denofrich Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/denofrich YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/denofrich Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/den_of_rich/ Hashtag: #denofrich © Copyright 2022 Den of Rich. All rights reserved.

Your Mind and How to Use It by William Walker Atkinson audiobook. William Walker Atkinson was one of the most prominent contributors to the literature of the New Thought movement, a non-denomination spiritual philosophy which developed in the late Nineteenth Century. Although he achieved eminence in a number of professions, Atkinson never sought personal publicity, and many of his numerous works were published under a variety of pseudonyms. Most of Atkinson's works are manuals of practice rather than pure expositions of philosophy. Many of his books are concerned with the training of the mind, and one of the most typical of these is Your Mind and How to Use It: A Manual of Practical Psychology, first published in 1911.

On this episode of THE CLASSIC METAL SHOW, Neeley and Chris are taking a beating from the Rumble comments and the fans for their last segment about being fat, finding God, and their stances on mortality. They answer the allegations against them. Get all our episodes at www.theclassicmetalshow.com.Interact with The Classic Metal Show at https://classicmetalshow.locals.com.**NOTE: Everything said here, and on every episode of all of our shows are 100% the opinions of the hosts. Nothing is stated as fact. Do your own research to see if their opinions are true or not.**Please take a moment to subscribe, share and leave us a 5 Star Review for this episode! It helps us grow and do better episodes for YOU!!WEBSITE: http://www.thecmsnetwork.comTHE CMS PODCAST NETWORK: https://www.cmspn.comHEAVY METAL TELEVISION: https://www.heavymetaltelevision.netCMStv: https://www.cmstv.netCMSRadio: https://www.cmsradio.netCMSPN App: Search "The CMS Network" In Your iOS or Android App Store!Become A VIP On Locals: https://classicmetalshow.locals.comRUMBLE: https://rumble.com/c/cmsBITCHUTE: https://www.bitchute.com/channel/cms/ODYSEE: https://odysee.com/@ClassicMetalShow:aROKU: Search "The Classic Metal Show" in the Roku ChannelsAMAZON: Search "The CMS Network" To Add Our ChannelSOCIALSMinds: https://www.minds.com/ClassicMetalShow/Parler: https://parler.com/cmspnGab: https://gab.com/theclassicmetalshowLocals: https://classicmetalshow.locals.comGettr: https://gettr.com/user/chrisakinCENSORED BIG TECH:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cmspnTwitter: https://twitter.com/cmsrocksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cmspn1/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/TheCMSPodcastNetwork**NOTE: Everything said here, and on every episode of all of our shows are 100% the opinions of the hosts. Nothing is stated as fact. Do your own research to see if their opinions are true or not.**#theclassicmetalshow #comedy #parody #neeley #chrisakin #shockjocks #popculture #sex #hardrock #heavymetal #celebrities #socialjustice #socialmedia #woke #politics #humor #dating #relationships

Você tem medo de palhaço? Se a resposta for sim, saiba que você não está sozinho: segundo uma pesquisa de 2016, 8% da população tem medo deles. O pavor é tanto que existe uma fobia específica, a Coulrofobia, o medo irracional de palhaços, e não importa se ele for o Patati ou o Pennywise, se você tem medo, eles vão te assustar. A ideia de um palhaço assassino é assustadora no cinema, mas e se acontecesse algo parecido na vida real? Um serial killer que nas horas vagas se veste de palhaço? Esse é o podcast Clube dos Detetives e hoje vamos falar sobre John Wayne Gacy, o Palhaço Assassino. • FICHA TÉCNICA:  - Roteiro, Edição e Revisão: Rodolfo Brenner • VERSÃO ESCRITA: - https://www.podcastcdd.com.br/post/20-john-wayne-gacy-o-palha%C3%A7o-assassino-serial-killers • APOIE O PODCAST: - Orelo: ⁠https://orelo.cc/clubedosdetetives⁠ - PIX: podcastcdd@gmail.com • REDES SOCIAIS: - Site:⁠ http://www.podcastcdd.com.br⁠ - Instagram:⁠ https://www.instagram.com/podcastcdd/⁠ - Rodolfo: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/rodolfobrenner/⁠⁠ - E-mail: podcastcdd@gmail.com • FONTES: Refinery29, Aventuras na História, Britannica, RollingStone, TheFamousPeople, Practical Psychology, The Criminological Dissection of Pogo the Clown, BBC, Chicago Tribune, The Independent.

EPISODE 14 Showing up with integrity. In this episode Kay explains why it's so important to start practicing authenticity in the energetic climate we are moving into, and she shares tips to help you do this: How you can start checking in with your feelings more easily. Techniques you can use to build courage in expressing your authentic perspective in-spite of how others feel. The importance of becoming comfortable with discomfort. Why your opinion is ALWAYS valid. Why following your gut allows the Universe to help you. Learn more about Kay @ www.kaywilson.love

We all have the ability to decipher what's really going on in a situation – both with ourselves and with those we care about. The 3 elements of Practical Psychology represent a series of refinements that will help you to understand the nature of human beings and in turn be able to predict how and why we do what we do.- What stops us from moving forward?- Physiology, Focus, Meaning & Emotions- The Needs of Personality & the Needs of the SpiritHave a look at my Company website --> www.t1growthacademy.com Follow me on LinkedIn & Instagram here --> https://linktr.ee/MatteoGrosso ©2021 by T1 Growth Academy. All rights reserved.

An attempt to understand the meaning of Sri Aurobindo’s phrase ‘Yoga is nothing but practical psychology.

In this week's episode, Liz discusses how we can be more practical about psychology with Dr Sophie Mort, a clinical psychologist and author of A Manual for Being Human. They speak about the influence of childhood, anxiety and why we shouldn't have to wait until we're suffering to get to know our feelings. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

If you feel like life isn't going your way, listen to this.  Because today, we talk about how one man's journey took him from spending 365 nights on a river, to being chased by a helicopter, to climbing the famed Aconcagua in winter, to pushing an 8-person truck, to finally starting an outdoor and river adventure business, Pro Rafting Tours. Donnie Hazard is here today to talk about: What to do in a life and death situation out in the wild, and how it can uplevel your everyday life.  How he got himself out of rock bottom after being homeless in Hawaii.  Practical ways you can overcome or avoid trolls and judgment that keep you stuck.  Step-by-step actions you can do to get out of the hustle bustle today.  And many, many more.    Join listeners in 60+ countries and hit Follow, Save, Download, Add, or Collect today. Or, listen to the episode now.

POWER! No singer wants to train their voice to become smaller, but we have to watch out that power and volume often are abused in singing. This may often come from faulty impressions given to young singers from recordings and how studio engineers ‘mix' the sound. Voice training has a place for loudness, but when is that? What did some historical authors say about the value of loudness? Perhaps we should engender the size of our spirit instead of the size of the voice. Cornelius Reid's “Bel Canto,” Charles Lunn's “Philosophy of Voice,” David C. Taylor's “The Psychology of Singing,” and W. Henri Zay's “Practical Psychology of Voice and of Life” are mentioned. 

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The Ebonistas continue their Toxicity Series with a discussion on Toxic Coworkers and Toxic Friends. Decide if you're that toxic person, how to deal with that toxic friend/coworker, but let's be honest...the chatty bitches are about to talk some ish!Sources: Healthline, Urban Dictionary, Practical Psychology, Gilroy Associates, Atlassian, CNBC, Harvard Business Review, Inc.Com, Bustle.com, NYPost, Monster.com, The Omen, Monica, Girlfriends, The Brady Bunch, Family Guy, Broad City

In which HPL writes to his mother about his delightful visit to a gathering of amateur press friends for St. Patrick's day. Sent a few weeks before her death, it's Howard's final extant letter to his mother. Special thanks to our friends at the Brown University Digital Repository where they keep and digitally share with the public many of HPL's original manuscripts. You can see a thrilling ad for David Van Bush with Lovecraft's commentary here. If you want to read some of Bush's books, you can find the one Lovecraft himself worked on here. And click here to read Practical Psychology and Sex Life.

He's a speaker, quoted expert, and author of “Supercharge Your Emotions To Win” a powerful mindset-shifting book. From the moment he got into the business world, he crushed it, successfully providing multiple services surrounding the real estate industry, closing hundreds of millions in loans. After the crash in 2008, he realized his passion for the psychology behind success, and got his degree in mental health. From there, he went on to create the "Staying on Track…One Step at a Time TM" Program for overcoming anxiety, depression & related disorders, as well as the F.A.S.T. Track parenting workshops on Fear. Benjamin Halpern presented for and consulted with Fortune® 500 Companies, personally worked with thousands, and continues to pursue his passion of helping others achieve emotional freedom. Get ready to achieve the life you deserve! We're super excited to have Benjamin Halpern here on The Power Entrepreneur! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Episode #62 MP3 Plan The Beginning Of Your DayAbout: You can't drive a car without a final destination in mind, in advance of going there! Get the motivation to plan your life accordingly! ~~~ Remember from Episode #61 Make it a personal choice to focus on the positive results of your actions, on a daily basis, in order to bring (manifest) balance to your life. ~~~ Ask your questions or share your feedback Comment on the show notes Leave a voicemail at 732.730.3900 Email ben@benjaminhalpern.com Connect with me Subscribe to Practical Psychology for Business via Apple iTunes Podcasts | iTunes Preview List: https://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Subscribe on my YouTube channel "Live Your Deserved Life" Connect with me on Linkedin:  or https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Facebook: Follow @PracticalPsychologyForBusiness Twitter: Follow @4bhalpern My podcasts & notes are hosted at https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about:• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team•• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring••• join my free Book Club•••• opt-in to my email list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune® 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #planyourdays #planforsuccess #motivation #successroutines#practicalpsychologyforbusiness #worklifebalance #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #losestressdiet #liveyourdeservedlife #achieveemotionalfreedom #businesssuccess #personaldevelopment #keysforsuccess  Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere! ©2019 Practical Psychology for Business - Benjamin Halpern | Episode #62 MP3 Plan The Beginning Of Your Day JAN 22, 2019

Episode #61 Celebrating Success To Create Balance About: Make it a personal choice to focus on the positive results of your actions, on a daily basis, in order to bring (manifest) balance to your life. ~~~ Remember from Episode #60 - Walk the walk with me - Let's do this journey together! Listen to my podcasts for motivation as well as to understand how I can help you live your deserved life. ~~~ Ask your questions or share your feedback Comment on the show notes Leave a voicemail at 732.730.3900 Email ben@benjaminhalpern.com Connect with me Subscribe to Practical Psychology for Business via Apple iTunes Podcasts | iTunes Preview List: https://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Subscribe on my YouTube channel "Live Your Deserved Life" Connect with me on Linkedin:  or https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Facebook: Follow @PracticalPsychologyForBusiness Twitter: Follow @4bhalpern My podcasts & notes are hosted at https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about:• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team•• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring••• join my free Book Club•••• opt-in to my email list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune® 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #celebrate #success #create #balance #motivation#practicalpsychologyforbusiness #worklifebalance #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #losestressdiet #liveyourdeservedlife #achieveemotionalfreedom #businesssuccess #personaldevelopment #keysforsuccess #successroutines Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere! ©2019 Practical Psychology for Business - Benjamin Halpern |Episode #60Reach Thousands Through Social Media - I Also Sell Every Day | JAN 15 2019

Episode #60 Reach Thousands Through Social Media - I Also Sell Every DayAbout: I have to walk the walk. I have needs, the same as you. Let's do this journey together! Listen to this episode for motivation as well as to understand how I have already helped thousands of people overcome their emotional blocks. ~~~ Remember from Episode #59 Love is the most powerful "invisible" emotion! Tap into your heart and prime your "pump with love"! ~~~ Ask your questions or share your feedback Comment on the show notes Leave a voicemail at 732.730.3900 Email ben@benjaminhalpern.com Connect with me Subscribe to Practical Psychology for Business via Apple iTunes Podcasts | iTunes Preview List: https://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Subscribe on my YouTube channel "Live Your Deserved Life" Connect with me on Linkedin:  or https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Facebook: Follow @PracticalPsychologyForBusiness Twitter: Follow @4bhalpern My podcasts & notes are hosted at https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about:• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team•• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring••• join my free Book Club•••• opt-in to my email list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips!  Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune® 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #walkthewalk #personaljourney #ialsoselleveryday #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #worklifebalance #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #losestressdiet #liveyourdeservedlife #achieveemotionalfreedom #businesssuccess #personaldevelopment #keysforsuccess #successroutines Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere! ©2019 Practical Psychology for Business - Benjamin Halpern |Episode #60 Reach Thousands Through Social Media - I Also Sell Every Day | JAN 15 2019

Episode #59 Love!About: The most powerful emotions are invisible! Learn how to tap into your heart and prime your pump with love! ~~~ Remember from Episode #58 - The quality of your routines dictate the quality of your health! ~~~ Ask your questions or share your feedback Comment on the show notes Leave a voicemail at 732.730.3900 Email ben@benjaminhalpern.com Connect with me Subscribe to Practical Psychology for Business via Apple iTunes Podcasts | iTunes Preview List: https://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Subscribe on my YouTube channel "Live Your Deserved Life" Connect with me on Linkedin:  or https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Facebook: Follow @PracticalPsychologyForBusiness Twitter: Follow @4bhalpern My podcasts & notes are hosted at https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about:• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team•• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring••• join my free Book Club•••• opt-in to my email list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune® 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #loveyourself #loveothers #loveispowerful #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #worklifebalance #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #losestressdiet #liveyourdeservedlife #achieveemotionalfreedom #businesssuccess #personaldevelopment #keysforsuccess #successroutines Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere! ©2019 Practical Psychology for Business - Benjamin Halpern | Episode #59 - Love! | JAN 14 2019

Episode #58 Routines, Why It’s Worth Having Them! About: The quality of your routines dictate the quality of your health! Learn how to do good things in your life using success routines! ~~~ Remember from Episode #57 - Do you have an "emotional/psychological" exercise routine? ~~~ Ask your questions or share your feedback Comment on the show notes Leave a voicemail at 732.730.3900 Email ben@benjaminhalpern.com Connect with me Subscribe to Practical Psychology for Business via Apple iTunes Podcasts | iTunes Preview List: https://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Subscribe on my YouTube channel "Live Your Deserved Life" Connect with me on Linkedin:  or https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Facebook: Follow @PracticalPsychologyForBusiness Twitter: Follow @4bhalpern My podcasts & notes are hosted at https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about:• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team•• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring••• join my free Book Club •••• opt-in to my email list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips!   Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune® 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #worklifebalance #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #losestressdiet #liveyourdeservedlife #achieveemotionalfreedom #businesssuccess #personaldevelopment #keysforsuccess #successroutines Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere! ©2019 Practical Psychology for Business - Benjamin Halpern | Episode #58 - Routines, Why It’s Worth Having Them! | JAN 10 2019

Episode #57 The Other Vital ExerciseAbout: Do YOU have an "emotional/psychological" exercise routine? ~~~ Remember from Episode #56 - Celebrate your small wins daily in order to rewire your brain for success! ~~~ Ask your questions or share your feedback Comment on the show notes Leave a voicemail at 732.730.3900 Email ben@benjaminhalpern.com Connect with me Subscribe to Practical Psychology for Business via Apple iTunes Podcasts | iTunes Preview List: https://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Subscribe on my YouTube channel "Live Your Deserved Life" Connect with me on Linkedin:  or https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Facebook: Follow @PracticalPsychologyForBusiness Twitter: Follow @4bhalpern My podcasts & notes are hosted at https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about:• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team•• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring••• join my free Book Club •••• opt-in to my email list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips!   Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune® 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #worklifebalance #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #losestressdiet #liveyourdeservedlife #achieveemotionalfreedom #businesssuccess #personaldevelopment #keysforsuccess #theothervitalexercise Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere! © 2019 Benjamin Halpern | Episode #57 The Other Vital Exercise | JAN 08 2019

Episode #56 Celebrate Your Wins!About: How to rewire your brain for success! ~~~ Remember from Episode #55 - If you practice positivity now and daily that you will breed and continue to have positivity in your life and you will achieve and live your deserved life! ~~~ Ask your questions or share your feedback Comment on the show notes Leave a voicemail at 732.730.3900 Email ben@benjaminhalpern.com Connect with me Subscribe to Practical Psychology for Business via Apple iTunes Podcasts | iTunes Preview List: https://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Subscribe on my YouTube channel "Live Your Deserved Life" Connect with me on Linkedin:  or https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Facebook: Follow @PracticalPsychologyForBusiness Twitter: Follow @4bhalpern My podcasts & notes are hosted at https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about:• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team•• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring••• join my free Book Club •••• opt-in to my email list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips!   more…it’s all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune® 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #worklifebalance #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #losestressdiet #liveyourdeservedlife #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #personaldevelopment #keysforsuccess #breakoldpatterns Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere! © 2019 Benjamin Halpern, LCSW | Episode #56 Celebrate Your Wins! | JAN 07,2019

Episode #55 Success Breeds SuccessAbout: The guarantee that you will continue to have positivity in your life, is that you practice positivity now and daily! ~~~ Remember from Episode #54 - "Don’t get derailed by old patterns" means breaking up of old patterns that are not serving us! ~~~ Ask your questions or share your feedback Comment on the show notes Leave a voicemail at 732.730.3900 Email ben@benjaminhalpern.com Connect with me Subscribe to Practical Psychology for Business via Apple iTunes Podcasts | iTunes Preview List: https://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Subscribe on my YouTube channel "Live Your Deserved Life" Connect with me on Linkedin:  or https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Facebook: Follow @PracticalPsychologyForBusiness Twitter: Follow @4bhalpern My podcasts & notes are hosted at https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about:• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team•• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring••• join my free Book Club •••• opt-in to my email list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips!   Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune® 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #worklifebalance #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #losestressdiet #liveyourdeservedlife #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #personaldevelopment #keysforsuccess #breakoldpatterns Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere! © 2019 Benjamin Halpern, LCSW | Episode #55 Success Breeds Success JAN 05,2019

Episode #54 Don’t Get Derailed By Old Patterns About: Breaking up old patterns that are not serving us! ~~~ Remember from Episode #53 - We all have had challenges in our past, and that makes us want changes in our own lives. Big Changes = Big Results!  ~~~ Ask your questions or share your feedback Comment on the show notes Leave a voicemail at 732.730.3900 Email ben@benjaminhalpern.com Connect with me Subscribe to Practical Psychology for Business via Apple iTunes Podcasts | iTunes Preview List: https://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Subscribe on my YouTube channel "Live Your Deserved Life" Connect with me on Linkedin:  or https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Facebook: Follow @PracticalPsychologyForBusiness Twitter: Follow @4bhalpern My podcasts & notes are hosted at https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about:• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team•• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring••• join my free Book Club •••• opt-in to my email list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips!   Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune® 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #worklifebalance #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #losestressdiet #liveyourdeservedlife #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #personaldevelopment #keysforsuccess Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere! © 2019 Benjamin Halpern, LCSW | Episode #54 Don’t Get Derailed By Old Patterns JAN 04,2019 TRANSCRIPTIONBen has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives. Inside each episode Ben shares his proven actionable items, tips and secrets to managing the supercomputer between your ears so you can build and develop your business and start living the life you desire and deserve. This is Practical Psychology for Business with Benjamin Halpern! Hi a great morning and welcome to today's podcast! So, we have resolutions. We have commitments. We have goals. We have dreams. We have aspirations. We have them clear, we visualize them, we put dates on them, you know it's there. It's setup. It's fine, and when it comes time for rubber to hit the road, we get into our offers and we want to do it. It feels like - we're back! You know, we make our New Year's resolutions and it seems like we're back to last year. All those old patterns. Those distractions. Those challenges hit us back in the face and we think uh oh we're back to last year but it's not the truth. What these are is old patterns. You see, things in life, good after bad, become patterns. People that run into good happy patterns, people that run into action patterns, people that run into positive patterns wind up...they're there for them at all times. People that run into negative patterns and we all have a lot of both but when we have a negative pattern associated with our work, it's just that was our performance for last year, before our new goals resolutions and commitments! And you know playing at that level had certain patterns in place as to why we played at that level. Certain distraction patterns. Certain avoidance patterns that we had in place which kept us at our last year's success but if we want to move ahead we have to realize the first step is, of course, commitment and visualization and being you know committed a hundred percent in our hearts to make happen but just because we have that doesn't wipe out wipe out the old patterns. The old patterns are here because they were there, but we will wipe them out. We won't feed them anymore. We won't use them anymore and they're gonna die of starvation and I'm happy to walk you through in the future podcasts how to be able to do that in a quicker way but for now you need to roll up your sleeves and live as if they are not there. You gotta mow pass them. It's not gonna be there every single day that you're gonna have to fight them. They're gonna go away. They're gonna die of starvation. That's how patterns work. The more we use them, the more strong, powerful they become. The more they affect us the more they exist in our lives. The less we use them you know it's the old adage - if you don't use it, you lose it! If we don't use a limb within a couple of months we're gonna be in therapy to learn how to use it again. If you don't use it you lose it. It's the same thing with patterns. So we stop using patterns, we're gonna lose it. We have new goals, we have new dreams, we have new plans and we follow through so automatically we get into action - serious action - doing things, following through... then the pattern that we will stop to use will die out but I urge you to have a new pattern of action! In other words, a pattern of how many calls you're gonna make today or how many touches you're gonna make today in sales. Have really a plan in front of you that's strong enough and compelling enough that could rip through and push you ahead through all the distractions at least for today. You got to do it for four or five days and boom! If you don't use it you lose it - they're gonna die but it takes a little bit energy and a little bit commitment and a little bit power... That's the idea of making resolutions. Visualizing it. Seeing it. Tasting it. Feeling it. That willpower that you're on that motivation - you don't got to do for the rest of the year that motivation you need to get through the initial phase to stop using those patterns. Stop distracting yourself during work. Stop going to avoidance pattern. Stop giving yourself reasons why not to take action of follow-through. Stop talking to people, going to get coffees and snacks and meals and reorganizing your desk and listening to motivational content. Don't do those avoidance behaviors, at least for the first week of the year so you don't have to look at this as a goal for a million years but you got to look at it the first week of the year. You need to not get derailed by old patterns. Yes they're there. They're not there to stay. They're not hardwired however they were fed so they have some power and they're in your life. They don't just go away by themselves because you made a resolution but they will go away when you stop feeding them. If you don't use them, you lose them. Stop using those patterns and you're going to lose those patterns and once you lose those patterns it will be that much easier for you to forge ahead to follow through do the actions, do the new patterns, the new behaviors that you want to install for the future year. They will be there for you. They will be the new patterns. They will serve you for the rest of the year, for the rest of your life! Install good patterns! They will go. That's the key of all successful people - great patterns running - and now YOU've joined the ranks! For more information & for more help to integrate these things into your life visit my website www.benjaminhalpern.com

Episode #53 - A New Beginning! A Fresh Start!We all have had challenges in our past, and that makes us want changes in our own lives. Big Changes = Big Results! That's the way 'life' works. The key - we need to FEEL a different way, in order to get a DIFFERENT result!I have a degree as a mental health professional and a sales manager for all of my business-life. I share my expertise with you in my podcasts. So listen to this episode, and others from 2018, to understand that whatever you can conceive, you can achieve it. ~~~ Remember from Episode #52 - Remember, this series of podcasts is about learning how and understanding better how to manage the supercomputer between your ears! Have a moment? Listen now...integrity is the KEY to success! Here's how to gain integrity with your own self! ~~~ Ask your questions or share your feedback Comment on the show notes Leave a voicemail at 732.730.3900 Email ben@benjaminhalpern.com Connect with me Subscribe to Practical Psychology for Business via Apple iTunes Podcasts | iTunes Preview List: https://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Subscribe on my YouTube channel "Live Your Deserved Life" Connect with me on Linkedin:  or https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Facebook: Follow @PracticalPsychologyForBusiness Twitter: Follow @4bhalpern My podcasts & notes are hosted at https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about:• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team•• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring••• join my free Book Club •••• opt-in to my email list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips!   Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune® 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #worklifebalance #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #losestressdiet #liveyourdeservedlife #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #personaldevelopment #keysforsuccess Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!© 2019 Benjamin Halpern, LCSW | Episode #53 - A New Beginning - A Fresh Start! JAN 03,2019~~~TRANSCRIPTIONBen has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives. Inside each episode Ben shares his proven actionable items, tips and secrets to managing the supercomputer between your ears so you can build and develop your business and start living the life you desire and deserve! This is Practical Psychology for Business with Benjamin Halpern. Hi and welcome to today's podcast. Let's talk about a new beginning. A fresh start! We all have had our challenges in the past and we all want a fresh new beginning. We all want a new life. We don't want life to be the same. We want life to change. We want it to be better. We want more. More happiness. More joy. More satisfaction. More love. More happiness. More of what we want and we deserve more Einstein taught us a big lesson and to paraphrase what Einstein said is "if we keep doing the same thing we're going to get the same result. To expect anything different is insanity..." That's the way it is. There are rules. There are systems. There are processes. If we did something, we live by a certain set of values and we did a certain set of actions and we got a certain result, we are going to continue getting that result. That's the way it works so in order to change it, we need to do things differently. We need to do different actions. We need to live from a different mindset. We need to feel a different way to get a different result. Thankfully, we're living in the generation of information and knowledge and so many people have written & recorded in video, in books, in posts... people that were successful - we can model them so much easier today than we have to do years ago because you don't have to meet the person and get the person's time. Today you have access to so much content of that individual so you know what makes them tick. You know the mindset, the patterns, the behaviors, the actions that they need to do to make it happen, so that's amazing! I have studied this for years. I have a degree as a mental health professional as well as having been a sales manager and a salesperson for all of my life. I'm on the pulse and I've studied this stuff and tried to understand deeply the people that are successful. One of their patterns - what are their thoughts - what are their actions - and I'd love to share them with you right here but the first thing to know is we need to make changes! We can't live from the same mindset, from the same process and do the same thing we did last year. We need to make big change if we want to have big changes in our life. If you just want a little bit of change, you could just make teeny changes but we need to do massive change if we want massive results so first and foremost what do you want? What do you want to be different? Your brain is a super supercomputer and can deliver anything you conceive. That's right! I believe whatever you could conceive you can achieve. If you have the ability to imagine something you have the ability to achieve it however the first key is what do you want? Clearly - can you articulate it? Not in just words. There's direct different levels in order for something to manifest in your life. It's not enough to just articulate it in words or even in an image. You need to be able to feel it in your heart! That's where it happens because all decisions that we make - we make emotionally! We then later on justify the logic so if you want to make a change, every change comes after a decision. Decision and Latin words come from the word of "de cise" = cut off. Cut off from everything that went on to today. I make a decision from today it's gonna be different but in order to make that decision you have to know where you're heading. You can't get into a car and just drive without knowing an address. You're gonna be driving forever! What is your clear address? Do you feel that address in your heart? Can you visualize it? Can you taste it? Can you see it well? If you could, chances are it's gonna happen! I would venture to say that that's the first thing you need to do! Use today, sit down and write down number one what do you want, clearly, exactly as vivid and as real as you can to the degree that you can literally feel it in your heart! That's when the change happens! That's when you come to the stage of being able to make a decision that's powerful! Follow me and I'm gonna give you the step by step instructions to make your changes that you want to make so you live the life that you desire, and we both know, you deserve! For more information visit my website Benjamin Halpern dot com

Episode #52 The Key To Leadership Leadership - when you hear this, you assume I'm talking about leading others, right? Well, you are accurate, however, it's not what you think, fully. Leadership is subject and lays inside of the 80/20 rule! Leadership happens - by example.  Do you have the ability to lead yourself? You will definitely want to listen to this podcast if you are looking to sell to others...and this is not a how-to sell lesson...or, is it? Remember, this series of podcasts is about learning how and understanding better how to manage the supercomputer between your ears! Have a moment? Listen now...integrity is the KEY to success! Here's how to gain integrity with your own self! ~~~ Remember from Episode #51 - Change happens internally.  ~~~ Check out this video and the companion podcast on iTuneshttps://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Every day I create a video message on https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Check out my iTunes channel:https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/practical-psychology-for-business-podcast/id1435538776?mt=2  My podcasts are hosted at:https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about:• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring•• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team••• join my free Book Club •••• opt-in to my email list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips!  Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success #worklifebalance #gratitude Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!  

Episode #51 80 Percent of Change Happens Internally You are READY to create change! You may assume that if you want to change yourself, it has to happen outside of you! A surprising piece of information is that the bulk of the change happens internally. Listen now to understand why this GREAT news! ~~~ Remember from Episode #50 - Knowledge is POTENTIAL power! Learning is in the doing... ~~~ Ask your questions or share your feedback Comment on the show notes Leave a voicemail at 732.730.3900 Email ben@benjaminhalpern.com Connect with me Subscribe to Practical Psychology for Business via Apple iTunes Podcasts | iTunes Preview List: https://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Subscribe on my YouTube channel "Live Your Deserved Life" Connect with me on Linkedin:  or https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Facebook: Follow @PracticalPsychologyForBusiness Twitter: Follow @4bhalpern My podcasts & notes are hosted at https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about:• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team•• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring••• join my free Book Club•••• opt-in to my email list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune® 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs FOLLOW#membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success #worklifebalance #gratitude Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere! ©2018 Practical Psychology for Business - Benjamin Halpern | Episode #51 80 Percent of Change Happens Internally | DEC 25 2018

Episode #50 The Knowledge Trap I learned from the great Tony Robbins that KNOWLEDGE is NOT POWER! Knowledge is POTENTIAL power!There's a reason why 80% of billionaires haven't have a formal education! While you can start out with a great education, there are things that you need to learn, in the real world. Taking ACTION is the only way to learn. Learning is in the doing...Listen to understand more... ~~~ Remember from Episode #49 - Asking Yourself 3 Painful Questions is something you will want to do daily. ~~~ Ask your questions or share your feedback Comment on the show notes Leave a voicemail at 732.730.3900 Email ben@benjaminhalpern.com Connect with me Subscribe to Practical Psychology for Business via Apple iTunes Podcasts | iTunes Preview List: https://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Subscribe on my YouTube channel "Live Your Deserved Life" Connect with me on Linkedin:  or https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Facebook: Follow @PracticalPsychologyForBusiness Twitter: Follow @4bhalpern My podcasts & notes are hosted at https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about:• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team•• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring••• join my free Book Club•••• opt-in to my email list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune® 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success #worklifebalance #gratitude Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere! ©2018 Practical Psychology for Business - Benjamin Halpern | Episode #50 The Knowledge Trap | DEC 24 2018

Episode #49 Ask Yourself 3 Painful Questions This is something you will want to do this daily. What action/activity yields you the most results? How often/long do you spend doing this one activity? Listen to this episode to learn the 3rd question, and understand this concept fully... ~~~ Remember from Episode #48 - You already know enough to make $1,000,000.00... ~~~ Check out this video and the companion podcast on iTuneshttps://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Every day I create a video message on https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Check out my iTunes channel:https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/practical-psychology-for-business-podcast/id1435538776?mt=2  My podcasts are hosted at:https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about:• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team• join my free Book Club• view my webinars, opt-in to my e-list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success #worklifebalance #gratitude Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!

Episode #48 You Know Enough To Make 1,000,000 Dollars! I learned a very valuable lesson from the number one privately owned real estate company in the US, David Lichtenstein. You can guess by the title of this episode what his message directly to me was...Did you know that YOU also already know enough to make $1,000,000.00? Listen to this episode to learn why this is true! ~~~ Remember from Episode #47 - When you can learn to 'obsess consciously' you will change the patterns that you operate from, in your business or your personal life, thus bringing you closer to the life you desire and we both know you deserve! ~~~ Check out this video and the companion podcast on iTuneshttps://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Every day I create a video message on https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Check out my iTunes channel:https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/practical-psychology-for-business-podcast/id1435538776?mt=2  My podcasts are hosted at:https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about:• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team• join my free Book Club• view my webinars, opt-in to my e-list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success #worklifebalance #gratitude Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!

Episode #47 - Obsess Consciously! Listen now to hear why Ben's analogy of obsessing - to a juicer machine - is so accurate! When you can learn to 'obsess consciously' you will change the patterns that you operate from, in your business or your personal life, thus bringing you closer to the life you desire and we both know you deserve!Also, note that a pattern is a routine! Listen to episode #45 to hear how to create better routines! ~~~ Remember from Episode #46 - The People You Hang Around With...the 5 people who you hang out with, will show you who you are! Choose wisely! ~~~ Check out this video and the companion podcast on iTuneshttps://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Every day I create a video message on https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Check out my iTunes channel:https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/practical-psychology-for-business-podcast/id1435538776?mt=2  My podcasts are hosted at:https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about:• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team• join my free Book Club• view my webinars, opt-in to my e-list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success #worklifebalance #gratitude Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!  

Episode #46 - The People You Hang Around With... Proximatey has Power of You! Studies show the 5 people who you hang out with, will show you who you are! It is the reality that you will mirror them - in your financial, spiritual, personal or business life! Listen now to learn more, and understand what SUCCESSFUL people do about this topic!  in just 4 episodes, Ben will have reached his first milestone - 50 Episodes! Have you heard them all? If you like what you've heard so far, please help him by sharing this podcast with others so they can gain the benefits of his messages of hope, motivation, and secrets to living your deserved life! ~~~ Remember from Episode #45 - Routines Vs. Willpower - ROUTINES will help you get the most relevant and actionable motivation in your personal success and business success life! Willpower will fail you every time! ~~~ Check out this video and the companion podcast on iTuneshttps://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Every day I create a video message on https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Check out my iTunes channel:https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/practical-psychology-for-business-podcast/id1435538776?mt=2  My podcasts are hosted at:https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about:• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team• join my free Book Club• view my webinars, opt-in to my e-list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success #worklifebalance #gratitude Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!    

Episode #45 - Routines Vs. Willpower Listen to my podcast - include it in your own ROUTINE to get the most relevant and actionable motivation and knowledge about psychology and your personal or business life...listen now! ~~~ Remember from Episode #44 - Planning Vs. Action - If you are in sales, and selling correctly, you understand the 20/80 rule = 20% planning and 80% action! ~~~ Check out this video and the companion podcast on iTuneshttps://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Every day I create a video message on https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Check out my iTunes channel:https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/practical-psychology-for-business-podcast/id1435538776?mt=2  My podcasts are hosted at:https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about:• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team• join my free Book Club• view my webinars, opt-in to my e-list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success #worklifebalance #gratitude Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!  

Episode #44 - Planning Vs. Action If you are in sales, and selling correctly, you understand the 20/80 rule = 20% planning and 80% action! If you are struggling in your sales, then listen to this podcast right now to understand how this is DIFFERENT than the 80/20 rule!  ~~~ Remember from Episode #43 - Learn how to be consistent, not perfect, in all the areas of TRYING, in order to ACHIEVE your desired life!  ~~~ Check out this video and the companion podcast on iTuneshttps://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Every day I create a video message on https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Check out my iTunes channel:https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/practical-psychology-for-business-podcast/id1435538776?mt=2  My podcasts are hosted at:https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about:• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team• join my free Book Club• view my webinars, opt-in to my e-list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success #worklifebalance #gratitude Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!

Episode #43 - Consistency Vs. PerfectionLearn how to be consistent, not perfect, in all the areas of TRYING, in order to ACHIEVE your desired life! Listen now to learn why perfection is NOT the way to your goals and dreams, and to understand more about the true power of implementing consistency in your own actions! ~~~ Remember from Episode #42 -PAIN in your life is a GOOD thing! Listen and learn how to use it to your advantage... ~~~ Check out this video and the companion podcast on iTuneshttps://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Every day I create a video message on https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Check out my iTunes channel:https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/practical-psychology-for-business-podcast/id1435538776?mt=2  My podcasts are hosted at:https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about:• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team• join my free Book Club• view my webinars, opt-in to my e-list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success #worklifebalance #gratitude Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!

Episode #42 - Your Baggage May Be Your Biggest AssetDo you believe you're different, your broken, you have pain in your life? Have you been hurt, and destroyed, finding it difficult to trust others? This is GOOD! Listen now to find out more... ~~~ Remember from Episode #41 - Learn to react in a way that serves you and Enjoy The Ride of Life! ~~~ Check out this video and the companion podcast on iTuneshttps://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Every day I create a video message on https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Check out my iTunes channel:https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/practical-psychology-for-business-podcast/id1435538776?mt=2  My podcasts are hosted at:https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about:• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team• join my free Book Club• view my webinars, opt-in to my e-list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success #worklifebalance #gratitude Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!

Episode #41 - Enjoy The Ride of Life! There is so much of the ride of life that we cannot control! However the most vital parts we can control! We control how we will react and how we will feel! Learn to react in a way that serves you! ~~~ Remember from Episode #40 - There Are Only 2 kinds of emotions, beautiful emotions and suffering emotions! Make a commitment that you don’t stay in suffering emotions for more than a few minutes! ~~~ Check out this video and the companion podcast on iTuneshttps://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Every day I create a video message on https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Check out my iTunes channel:https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/practical-psychology-for-business-podcast/id1435538776?mt=2  My podcasts are hosted at:https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about:• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team• join my free Book Club• view my webinars, opt-in to my e-list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success #worklifebalance #gratitude Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!

Episode #40 - There Are Only 2 States of Emotions There are 2 kinds of emotions, beautiful emotions and suffering emotions! Make a commitment that you don’t stay in suffering emotions for more than a few minutes! ~~~ Remember from Episode #39 - Don’t Be Someone Else! Be yourself, everybody else is taken! ~~~ Check out this video and the companion podcast on iTuneshttps://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Every day I create a video message on https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Check out my iTunes channel:https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/practical-psychology-for-business-podcast/id1435538776?mt=2  My podcasts are hosted at:https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about:• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team• join my free Book Club• view my webinars, opt-in to my e-list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success #worklifebalance #gratitude Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!

Episode #39 - Don’t Be Someone Else! Be yourself, everybody else is taken! You are only unique and sustainably desirable as yourself! The world needs YOU AS YOURSELF! ~~~ Remember from Episode #38 - This world is like a downward escalator! If you aren’t making progress you are going down! You have to make progress just to keep the status quo! ~~~ Check out this video and the companion podcast on iTuneshttps://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Every day I create a video message on https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Check out my iTunes channel:https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/practical-psychology-for-business-podcast/id1435538776?mt=2  My podcasts are hosted at:https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about:• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team• join my free Book Club• view my webinars, opt-in to my e-list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success #worklifebalance #gratitude Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com  

Episode #37 - 3 Steps To Success Achieving success is a simple as these 3 steps! 1) Taste your vision 2) Keep making adjustments based on your progress along the way3) Pray, look, find, and appreciate the divine intervention on your journey Stop looking for the recipe, it’s very simple. The journey is already underway, just wake up and be mindful! ~~~ Remember from Episode #36 - Manifesting takes action...Learn how to move your vision from your brain to your heart! ~~~ Check out this video and the companion podcast on iTuneshttps://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Every day I create a video message on https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Check out my iTunes channel:https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/practical-psychology-for-business-podcast/id1435538776?mt=2  My podcasts are hosted at:https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about:• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team• join my free Book Club• view my webinars, opt-in to my e-list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success #worklifebalance #gratitude Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!

Episode #36 Taste Your Vision Learn how to move your vision from your brain to your heart! Manifesting takes action...listen now and learn to really taste your dreams and visions, to bring them to fruition! ~~~ Remember from Episode #35 - To move from Good to GREAT - it's 100% psychology! Listen to Ben to move forward faster! ~~~ Check out this video and the companion podcast on iTuneshttps://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Every day I create a video message on https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Check out my iTunes channel:https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/practical-psychology-for-business-podcast/id1435538776?mt=2  My podcasts are hosted at: https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about: • my brand new opportunity – my personal success membership portal for helping you learn more about how to apply this and other important concepts (join for only $99, monthly w $1 Trial for 7 days)• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team• join my free Book Club• view my webinars, opt-in to my e-list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success #worklifebalance #gratitude Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!

Episode #38 - The World Is A Downwards Escalator This world is like a downward escalator! If you aren’t making progress you are going down! You have to make progress just to keep the status quo! Listen now... ~~~ Remember from Episode #37 - There are really only 3 Steps To Success:  1) Taste your vision 2) Keep making adjustments based on your progress along the way3) Pray, look, find, and appreciate the divine intervention on your journey The recipe is simple. ~~~ Check out this video and the companion podcast on iTuneshttps://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Every day I create a video message on https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Check out my iTunes channel:https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/practical-psychology-for-business-podcast/id1435538776?mt=2  My podcasts are hosted at:https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about:• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team• join my free Book Club• view my webinars, opt-in to my e-list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success #worklifebalance #gratitude Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!  

Episode #35 What Does Psychology Have To Do With Business? Your psychology has EVERYTHING to do with it! Getting our minds in line with what we wish to achieve, it very important! 80% is psychology, and only 20% is mechanics! If you want to go from ok to be good, it's 80% is psychology, and only 20% is mechanics! To move from Good to GREAT - it's 100% psychology?  Ready? Listen now! ~~~ Remember from Episode #34 - The more you connect your WHY to an emotion, the faster you will realize your desired life! ~~~ Check out this video and the companion podcast on iTuneshttps://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Every day I create a video message on https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Check out my iTunes channel:https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/practical-psychology-for-business-podcast/id1435538776?mt=2  My podcasts are hosted at: https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about: • my brand new opportunity – my personal success membership portal for helping you learn more about how to apply this and other important concepts (join for only $99, monthly w $1 Trial for 7 days)• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team• join my free Book Club• view my webinars, opt-in to my e-list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success #worklifebalance #gratitude Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!

Episode #34 Knowing Vs. Feeling The more you connect your WHY to an emotion, the faster you will realize your desired life! Listen now to hear how... ~~~ Remember from Episode #33 - Willpower is not sustainable! Learn the skill of creating a routine - a much better solution to creating the life you desire and deserve! ~~~ Check out this video and the companion podcast on iTuneshttps://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Every day I create a video message on https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Check out my iTunes channel:https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/practical-psychology-for-business-podcast/id1435538776?mt=2  My podcasts are hosted at: https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about: • my brand new opportunity – my personal success membership portal for helping you learn more about how to apply this and other important concepts (join for only $99, monthly w $1 Trial for 7 days)• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team• join my free Book Club• view my webinars, opt-in to my e-list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success #worklifebalance #gratitude Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!

Episode #33 - Don’t Rely On Willpower It is not sustainable! Learn the skill of creating a routine - a much better solution to creating the life you desire and deserve! ~~~ Remember from Episode #32 - You can learn to love any person, any work, anything...When you can connect your mind to the LOVE for what you do, that is where you will begin to gain momentum! ~~~ Check out this video and the companion podcast on iTuneshttps://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Every day I create a video message on https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern and a companion podcast in more depth on iTunes https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/practical-psychology-for-business-podcast/id1435538776?mt=2 or https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about: • my brand new opportunity – my personal success membership portal for helping you learn more about how to apply this and other important concepts (join for only $99, monthly w $1 Trial for 7 days)• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team• join my free Book Club• view my webinars, opt-in to my e-list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success #worklifebalance #gratitude Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!  

Episode #32 ORG Love Your Work! When you can connect your mind to the LOVE for what you do, that is where you will begin to gain momentum! The act of persevering becomes easily or "doable" because of loving that which you desire most for your work, for your family, your future, for your dreams!  You can learn to love any person, any work, anything... ~~~ Remember from Episode #31 - Winning is all about action! No one built a business, relationship, or vibrant health in their mind! ~~~ Check out this video and the companion podcast on iTuneshttps://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Every day I create a video message on https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern and a companion podcast in more depth on iTunes https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/practical-psychology-for-business-podcast/id1435538776?mt=2 or https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about: • my brand new opportunity – my personal success membership portal for helping you learn more about how to apply this and other important concepts (join for only $99, monthly w $1 Trial for 7 days)• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team• join my free Book Club• view my webinars, opt-in to my e-list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success #worklifebalance #gratitude Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!

Episode #31 Winning IS All About Action! Winning is all about action! No one built a business, relationship, or vibrant health in their mind! DO, don’t think, in order to create the life you desire & deserve! ~~~ Remember from Episode #30 - Program Your GPS first thing, every day, every morning so you end up exactly where you want to go! ~~~ Check out this video and the companion podcast on iTuneshttps://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Every day I create a video message on https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Please visit my sites to hear about: • my brand new opportunity – my personal success membership portal for helping you learn more about how to apply this and other important concepts (join for only $99, monthly w $1 Trial for 7 days)• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team• join my free Book Club• view my webinars, opt-in to my e-list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success #worklifebalance #gratitude Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!    

Episode #30 Program Your GPS   Setup your GPS every morning so you go where you want to! Would you ever head out on a journey without an address? Why would you set out on your days' journey without a plan! Learn how to set your GPS for success! ~~~ Remember from Episode #29 - Your mind will put forth the emotions that are primed, whether they are good or bad! ~~~ Check out this video and the companion podcast on iTunes https://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Every day I create a video message on https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern and a companion podcast in more depth on iTunes https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/practical-psychology-for-business-podcast/id1435538776?mt=2 or https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about: • my brand new opportunity – my personal success membership portal for helping you learn more about how to apply this and other important concepts (join for only $99, monthly w $1 Trial for 7 days)• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team• join my free Book Club• view my webinars, opt-in to my e-list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success #worklifebalance #gratitude Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!

Episode #29 Prime Your Emotional Pump When you buy a bottle of soap or shampoo and want to access it easily, you need to prime the pump! When you get up in the morning, you need to prime you positive emotions pump! Your mind will put forth the emotions that are primed, whether they are good or bad! So make sure to get your positive emotions primed, this way you will have a great day! Remember from Episode #28 - All good comes into your life, where you can receive, is in the PRESENT.    ~~~ Check out this video and the companion podcast on iTunes https://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Every day I create a video message on https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern/ and a companion podcast in more depth on iTunes https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/practical-psychology-for-business-podcast/id1435538776?mt=2 or https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about: • my brand new opportunity – my personal success membership portal for helping you learn more about how to apply this and other important concepts (join for only $99, monthly w $1 Trial for 7 days)• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team• join my free Book Club• view my webinars, opt-in to my e-list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success #worklifebalance #gratitude Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!

Episode #28 The 3 Dimensions of Life Remember from Episode #27 - LIVE/WORK/PRAY/PLAY from a GOOD MOOD! ~ Please visit my sites to hear about:• my brand new opportunity - my personal success membership portal for helping you learn more about how to apply this and other important concepts (join for only $99, monthly w $1 Trial for 7 days)• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring• to schedule me to bring my program "Practical Psychology for Business" to your business, sales group or executive team• join my free Book Club• view my webinars, opt-in to my e-list, and much more...it's all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the "supercomputer between your ears" is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success #worklifebalance Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.benjaminhalpern.podbean | www.liveyourdeservedlife.com | www.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!  

Episode #27 Work In A Peak Emotional StateLIVE/WORK/PRAY/PLAY from a GOOD MOOD! There's no such thing as triggering yourself into a good mood. Listen now to understand more about this mindset! Remember from Episode #26 - taught us to function on a peak performance level so that we can double our income now! ~ Please visit my sites to hear about:• my brand new opportunity - my personal success membership portal for helping you learn more about how to apply this and other important concepts (join for only $99, monthly w $1 Trial for 7 days)• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring• to schedule me to bring my program "Practical Psychology for Business" to your business, sales group or executive team• join my free Book Club• view my webinars, opt-in to my e-list, and much more...it's all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the "supercomputer between your ears" is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.benjaminhalpern.podbean | www.liveyourdeservedlife.com | www.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere! Practical Psychology for BusinessBenjamin Halpern, LCSW Follow Ben Everywhere!

In this episode, our friend from Practical Psychology talks with us about having a more successful day by mimicking the morning routine of successful people.

Episode #26 Double Your Income NowDon't let work/life balance or stress get in your way! This episode shares a mindset shift about how we think about what makes us function at a peak performance level! Remember from Episode #25 - We learned to do what we love, so it becomes easier to do. ~ Please visit my sites to hear about:• my brand new opportunity - my personal success membership portal for helping you learn more about how to apply this and other important concepts (join for only $99, monthly w $1 Trial for 7 days)• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring• to schedule me to bring my program "Practical Psychology for Business" to your business, sales group or executive team• join my free Book Club• view my webinars, opt-in to my e-list, and much more...it's all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the "supercomputer between your ears" is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.benjaminhalpern.podbean | www.liveyourdeservedlife.com | www.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere! Practical Psychology for BusinessBenjamin Halpern, LCSW Follow Ben Everywhere!

Episode #25 Do What You LoveLearn how to "make 100 new friends!" Today's message will explain our motivations behind living the life of our dreams!Remember from Episode #24 - Be congruent. Be Yourself. Always! ~ Please visit my sites to hear about:• my brand new opportunity - my personal success membership portal for helping you learn more about how to apply this and other important concepts (join for only $99, monthly w $1 Trial for 7 days)• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring• to schedule me to bring my program "Practical Psychology for Business" to your business, sales group or executive team• join my free Book Club• view my webinars, opt-in to my e-list, and much more...it's all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the "supercomputer between your ears" is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.benjaminhalpern.podbean | www.liveyourdeservedlife.com | www.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere! Practical Psychology for BusinessBenjamin Halpern, LCSW Follow Ben Everywhere!

Episode #24 Be YourselfDO what makes sense for YOU, no matter what others might say you should do...if you don't pay attention to the real you, you will not feel good. If you don't feel good, you do not perform at your peak!Be congruent. Be Yourself. Always!~ Please visit my sites to hear about:• my brand new opportunity - my personal success membership portal for helping you learn more about how to apply this and other important concepts (join for only $99, monthly w $1 Trial for 7 days)• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring• to schedule me to bring my program "Practical Psychology for Business" to your business, sales group or executive team• join my free Book Club• view my webinars, opt-in to my e-list, and much more...it's all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the "supercomputer between your ears" is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.benjaminhalpern.podbean | www.liveyourdeservedlife.com | www.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!

Episode #23 Tape Deck Of Your Mind   Positive thinking clarified! Are you totally confused about what positive thinking is and how to get in integrated into your life? Does it mean to fool yourself and tell yourself that something crappy is great? Does it mean to just up and down with joy when your life is falling apart? That to me is psychotic not positivity, despite that they both begin with a p, they are very different! This video will bring clarity this idea once in for all! ~ Please visit my sites to hear about:• my brand new opportunity - my personal success membership portal for helping you learn more about how to apply this and other important concepts (join for only $99, monthly w $1 Trial for 7 days)• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring• to schedule me to bring my program "Practical Psychology for Business" to your business, sales group or executive team• join my free Book Club• view my webinars, opt-in to my e-list, and much more...it's all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the "supercomputer between your ears" is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.benjaminhalpern.podbean | www.liveyourdeservedlife.com | www.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!

Episode #22 Limitations Limitations Are NOT REAL! A Companion Video Your physical and emotional boundaries are not real, they are an illusion! When you recognize that what feels like you can’t push harder, or achieve more, it’s not real! The smoke and mirrors in your life, make the show look real! You should never be tested by the universe as to what you are really capable of! But use it to your benefit, you have what it takes to achieve what you can conceive! Please visit my sites to hear about:• my brand new opportunity - my personal success membership portal for helping you learn more about how to apply this and other important concepts (join for only $99, monthly w $1 Trial for 7 days)• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring• to schedule me to bring my program "Practical Psychology for Business" to your business, sales group or executive team• join my free Book Club• view my webinars, opt-in to my e-list, and much more...it's all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the "supercomputer between your ears" is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #imagination #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.benjaminhalpern.podbean | www.liveyourdeservedlife.com | www.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!

Episode #21 What Goes On In Your Head Has Massive Impact On What Goes On In Your World This is one of the most important topics that MOST PEOPLE think is NOT IMPORTANT! Here's the truth! What goes in your mind has a DIRECT impact on what will go on in your world! Don’t underestimate this point and the power of getting your mind in line! If your mind is out of balance, your world will be out of balance. If your mind is not bored, your world will no longer be boring!If you get your mind "in order", your world will fall "in order" as well! Please visit my sites to hear about:• my brand new opportunity - my personal success membership portal for helping you learn more about how to apply this and other important concepts (join for only $99, monthly w $1 Trial for 7 days)• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring• to schedule me to bring my program "Practical Psychology for Business" to your business, sales group or executive team• join my free Book Club• view my webinars, opt-in to my e-list, and much more...it's all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the "supercomputer between your ears" is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #membershiphasitsprivileges #losestressdiet #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #liveyourdeservedlife #practicalpsychologyforbusiness #achieveemotionalfreedom #business #success Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.benjaminhalpern.podbean | www.liveyourdeservedlife.com | www.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!

Episode #17 - Learn The Joy Of Discomfort This is weird! If you were to compare successful people...to unsuccessful people...you would find they ENJOY discomfort!You have the choice of feeling around the discomfort you experience. Discomfort is about growth, so if you are ready to enjoy some growth, listen to this episode to understand this concept more! Practical Psychology for Business – PodcastBenjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.benjaminhalpern.podbean | www.benjaminhalpern.com | www.liveyourdeservedlife.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!

Episode #15 10/31/18 - The Secret To Achieving Happiness!  Of course, you want to be happy! It's one of the most desired and coveted states desired in the world! The problem is that happiness is NOT OUTSIDE of YOU! The good news is that happiness does not COST A PENNY! Listen to learn more and understand why Ben uses the analogy of an escalator...Practical Psychology for Business – PodcastBenjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.benjaminhalpern.podbean | www.benjaminhalpern.com | www.liveyourdeservedlife.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!

Episode #14 - Manage your inner dialogue and self talk, and change your life today! Manage your inner dialogue and self-talk, and change your life today! It doesn’t really make much a difference what other people tell you negatively since you give yourself thousands of more messages a day. You have the choice of whether to repeat the negative messages you were told or to overwrite it tenfold with positive and empowering self-talk. The ball is in your court. Practical Psychology for Business – PodcastBenjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.benjaminhalpern.podbean | www.benjaminhalpern.com | www.liveyourdeservedlife.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!

Episode #13 10/30/18 - Leadership in sales! Learn to lead yourself, and then you can lead others! Leadership in sales! Learn to lead yourself, and then you can lead others! I presented at the Csb Envision conference on peak performance, stress management & work/life balance. I was asked by a participant about "how to lead others to buy your product or service?" My response is in this message. Practical Psychology for Business – PodcastBenjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.benjaminhalpern.podbean | www.benjaminhalpern.com | www.liveyourdeservedlife.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!

Episode #11 102918 -"Taste The Prize" How Far Would You Walk for $100k? A Monday Morning Motivation. Today, Ben's message helps you to understand the behaviors that will yield your most important sales results...in dollars...and sense! Practical Psychology for Business – PodcastBenjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.benjaminhalpern.podbean | www.benjaminhalpern.com | www.liveyourdeservedlife.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!

Episode #8 - Attitude of Gratitude - How to Live in the Present (or How Every Sales Pro Can Succeed In Business in 15 minutes!) Practical Psychology for Business - Podcast Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.benjaminhalpern.podbean.com www.benjaminhalpern.com www.liveyourdeservedlife.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives...follow Ben's podcast.

Episode #9 091018 - The Chokehold from Good to Great is FEAR. How to determine is what is holding you back from the life you desire and deserve. And how to overcome it, if it is. Practical Psychology for Business - Podcast Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.benjaminhalpern.podbean.comwww.benjaminhalpern.comwww.liveyourdeservedlife.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives...follow Ben's podcast.

Episode #7 - The power to influence yourself and influence others, a vital skill to achieve the life your desire and deserve. Practical Psychology for Business - Podcast Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.benjaminhalpern.podbean.com www.benjaminhalpern.com www.liveyourdeservedlife.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives...follow Ben's podcast.

Episode #6 - How to get someone else to hear and make space in their minds to listen to and accept the message you are sending them. Practical Psychology for Business - Podcast Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.benjaminhalpern.podbean www.benjaminhalpern.com www.liveyourdeservedlife.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives...follow Ben's podcast.

Episode #3 - Our Logical Mind vs. Our Emotional Mind - why doesn't our brain cooperate? Practical Psychology for Business – PodcastBenjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.benjaminhalpern.podbean | www.benjaminhalpern.com | www.liveyourdeservedlife.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere!

Episode #4 - How do you connect what you want to feeling the way you desire to feel? Practical Psychology for Business - Podcast Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives...follow Ben's podcast.

Episode #5 - How do you go from good to great? Practical Psychology for Business - Podcast Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives...follow Ben's podcast.

Episode #1 - Learn to Manage the Supercomputer Between Your Ears!About: I am so excited to greet you in my podcasts. My channel is all about “Practical Psychology” to improve your life and your business, in all areas. Please enjoy this article that goes with my first episode.  What happens to my emotional brain? Who's the boss there? How come when I give instructions it doesn’t happen? “They” taught you how to walk, talk, get dressed and yes, to brush your teeth. I'm showing up in your life and it's an honor and a privilege for me to be here to be able to teach you what I've learned in my own clinical practices and life long learnings.  Now is the perfect time to learn how to manage the supercomputer between your ears, to make it work FOR you instead of against you all the time in order to help you manage your brain effectively, so it does what you want so you can use it to forge ahead to create that life that you desire and deserve. ~~~ Ask your questions or share your feedback Comment on the show notes Leave a voicemail at 732.730.3900 Email ben@benjaminhalpern.com Connect with me Subscribe to Practical Psychology for Business via Apple iTunes Podcasts | iTunes Preview List: https://lnkd.in/exqxsyk Subscribe on my YouTube channel "Live Your Deserved Life" Connect with me on Linkedin:  or https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhalpern Facebook: Follow @PracticalPsychologyForBusiness Twitter: Follow @4bhalpern My podcasts & notes are hosted at https://benjaminhalpern.Podbean.com Please visit my sites to hear about:• schedule me to bring my program “Practical Psychology for Business” to your business, sales group or executive team•• connect with me directly for 1 to 1 mentoring••• join my free Book Club•••• opt-in to my email list, and much more…it’s all right at your fingertips! Learning how to control the “supercomputer between your ears” is the best thing you can do for yourself. ~Be Well! Ben.Advisor to Fortune® 500 companiesCreator of: Practical Psychology for Business & Live Your Deserved Life programs #supercomputerbetweenyourears #planforsuccess #motivation #successroutines#practicalpsychologyforbusiness #worklifebalance #stressmanagement #transformandperform #peakperformance #losestressdiet #liveyourdeservedlife #achieveemotionalfreedom #businesssuccess #personaldevelopment #keysforsuccess  Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.liveyourdeservedlife.comwww.benjaminhalpern.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives…follow Ben everywhere! ©2019 Practical Psychology for Business - Benjamin Halpern | Episode #1 Learn to Manage the Supercomputer Between Your Ears! | AUG 29, 2018  

Episode #2 - FEAR and the ingredients that make up anxiety, fear, and stress! Practical Psychology for Business - Podcast Benjamin Halpern, LCSWwww.benjaminhalpern.podbean.com Ben has unlocked the secrets of understanding how our minds control our business and daily lives...follow Ben's podcast.

***** "Practical Psychology for Extraordinary Living" is a special seminar series continuing the themes explored in the "Modern Mating Explained" video series, exploring the practical implications of deeper reflection on psychology for the art of living. ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into their behavior, psychology, and keys to their empowerment. His training methodologies are the result of over a decade of coaching, therapy, and education of thousands of students around the world. Join him on the “DTPHD Podcast” as he explores deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Subscribe now. Connect with David Tian here: Website: https://www.davidtianphd.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/davidtianphd DTPHD Podcast Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ Man Up Show Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupcommunity/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/TheAuraUniversity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidtianphd/ Podcast: https://www.davidtianphd.com/dtphdpodcast Medium: https://medium.com/@davidtian Twitter: https://twitter.com/davidtianphd ***** David Tian Ph.D.: Welcome to the final part of this series, Practical Psychology for Extraordinary Living. This is probably part four, this is the second half of the true self section. And I was planning to do this entire true self section at one go at the live seminar, but we only got halfway through and ran out of time. So since then, we've been working on a lot of other projects and I apologize for getting this out so late, but here we go. This is the second half of the true self section. And in the first half, which you should watch if you haven't already, PPL number three — this should be number four — we covered the three categories of our parts. We covered the basic idea of the true self and the concept of the self as a collection or a conglomeration of loosely held parts. And we went over — I introduced the main types of parts. The exile parts, the managerial parts and the firefighter parts. And then I went over one of the foundational assumptions of — And I also introduced internal family systems therapy, which is what this is drawing from, IFS therapy. And one of the guiding assumptions of IFS is that every part has positive intent. I believe that this is true for everyone who's not a psychopath. Psychopath's, just bracket that for now. For transcriptions and more free resources, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/psychology/true-self-inner-critic/

In this episode, our friends at Practical Psychology talk with us about how to journal for self-improvement.Go to https://7goodminutes.com/112 for full show notes.Don't forget to subscribe, rate and share it with a friend or two!

***** "Practical Psychology for Extraordinary Living" is a special seminar series continuing the themes explored in the "Modern Mating Explained" video series, exploring the practical implications of deeper reflection on psychology for the art of living. ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into their behavior, psychology, and keys to their empowerment. His training methodologies are the result of over a decade of coaching, therapy, and education of thousands of students around the world. Join him on the “DTPHD Podcast” as he explores deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Subscribe now. Connect with David Tian here: Website: https://www.davidtianphd.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/davidtianphd DTPHD Podcast Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ Man Up Show Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupcommunity/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/TheAuraUniversity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidtianphd/ Podcast: https://www.davidtianphd.com/dtphdpodcast Medium: https://medium.com/@davidtian Twitter: https://twitter.com/davidtianphd ***** David Tian Ph.D.: Alright. Welcome back! This is part of a series that is the Practical Psychology Series. Today, we're going to be getting into true self. This is a huge topic, the true self. So I had actually recorded some other footage from an earlier seminar, and then because we had dozens and dozens of hours of footage, it all got mixed up and I think I deleted it by mistake. So, we're re-shooting some of this. The true self is a very important topic, but only because obviously you want to learn about what your true self is and all of that, but because it informs every single other topic in psychology, in personal psychology, and it is the key to fulfilment, and passion, and happiness in life that will last over the long term. Ultimately, the true self concept is one in which, if you don't understand it, and you never retrieve it and act from it, you'll never actually experience love either. But you might think you're experiencing love, which is how most of the world is. And then they get a divorce and they thought they fell out of love, but they were actually never in love. You've already watched the series on narcissism, narcissistic personally disorder and all of that, so I'm not going to review all of that. The videos leading up to this include the four-part Modern Mating Explained series and the first two parts of this series. So I think this will be going into Practical Psychology, but we'll see. For transcriptions and more free resources, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/psychology/your-true-self/

In this episode, our friends at Practical Psychology give us some useful thoughts on the benefits of self-awareness.Go to https://7goodminutes.com/105 for full show notes.Don't forget to subscribe, rate and share it with a friend or two!

In this episode, our friends at Practical Psychology give us a very handy self-improvement checklist.Go to https://7goodminutes.com/86 for full show notes.Don't forget to subscribe, rate and share it with a friend or two!

***** "Practical Psychology for Extraordinary Living" is a special seminar series continuing the themes explored in the "Modern Mating Explained" video series, exploring the practical implications of deeper reflection on psychology for the art of living. ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into their behavior, psychology, and keys to their empowerment. His training methodologies are the result of over a decade of coaching, therapy, and education of thousands of students around the world. Join him on the “DTPHD Podcast” as he explores deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Subscribe now. Connect with David Tian here: Website: https://www.davidtianphd.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/davidtianphd DTPHD Podcast Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ Man Up Show Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupcommunity/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/TheAuraUniversity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidtianphd/ Podcast: https://www.davidtianphd.com/dtphdpodcast Medium: https://medium.com/@davidtian Twitter: https://twitter.com/davidtianphd ***** David Tian, Ph.D.: The previous section ended on a kind of dour note. I was warning you what not to do, what to avoid and what you can't ignore. And in this section, it's much more upbeat. It's going to be the how-to on how to solve the issue and walk you through the solution. It will be the path to your freedom, that's a trigger word for men. They like it. Freedom! I like freedom. The path to your masculine power, the path to riches, the women and all the good stuff that you want. The more thorough solution is committing to a therapeutic process, and that means either getting psychotherapy or counseling; not psychiatry, not medicating but actually being there with the therapist and feeling through your issues. For transcriptions and more free resources, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/psychology/your-inner-child/

***** "Practical Psychology for Extraordinary Living" is a special seminar series continuing the themes explored in the "Modern Mating Explained" video series, exploring the practical implications of deeper reflection on psychology for the art of living. ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into their behavior, psychology, and keys to their empowerment. His training methodologies are the result of over a decade of coaching, therapy, and education of thousands of students around the world. Join him on the “DTPHD Podcast” as he explores deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Subscribe now. Connect with David Tian here: Website: https://www.davidtianphd.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/davidtianphd DTPHD Podcast Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ Man Up Show Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupcommunity/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/TheAuraUniversity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidtianphd/ Podcast: https://www.davidtianphd.com/dtphdpodcast Medium: https://medium.com/@davidtian Twitter: https://twitter.com/davidtianphd ***** David Tian, Ph.D.: The third section in this one is looking at the concept of shame. Why is shame important? Shame is a shaming concept. If you were to just tell them point blank, “The truth is, you're dealing with shame”, they'd be like, “No, I'm not! I have no shame. I have no shame.” That's why I'm very careful about the use of this special term, though if you were to speak to a specialist or a researcher, this would be the most accurate term to use. The reason guys have approach anxiety that is more than, let's say, 2 out of 10 in intensity is because of shame. The reason you have blockages in your conversation with a woman where your mind goes blank, or you start to stutter because you're not sure what to say next, is because of shame. This is assuming that you have the intelligence to speak to somebody else already. If you are an incredibly low-IQ or you're not functioning as a verbal adult, maybe that's the reason why you can't speak. Assuming you can speak to me or to other males, or other human beings, the reason why you have approach anxiety, or social anxiety, or that you go blank in conversation, or that you can't escalate at whatever levels, physically, verbally, whatever, with a woman that you like is because of shame. It's all because of shame. For transcriptions and more free resources, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/psychology/courage-of-vulnerability/

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Listen to episode 110 of the Inspirational Living podcast: How to De-Hypnotize Yourself & Become Intellectually Self-Reliant. Edited & adapted from The Philosophy of Self-Help, An Application of Practical Psychology to Daily Life, by Stanton Davis Kirkham. Self-Help Podcast Excerpt: While there has been much discussion regarding self-help via hypnosis, apparently no one has recognized the fact that we are all hypnotized, more or less, by the group-think of the world around us. As this is one of the factors which militates against our freedom, there is something to be said of the necessity for de-hypnotization. The important question is not — can we be hypnotized or not; but being already in a state of hypnosis, how are we to be de-hypnotized and freed from the tyranny of false world-beliefs? Some are in a profound hypnotic sleep and their acts are purely automatic, their opinions wholly reflected. Others are merely in a drowsy state and are obedient only to the hypnosis of certain ideas from which they have never been free. This hypnosis, begun by their parents and by a corrupt education system, has been fostered ever since by the verbose nonsense of the news media and by the pressure of the group-think itself. There is only one remedy for ignorance and that is enlightenment. But if you do not know you are in slavery, you will not seek freedom. The most hopeless class intellectually are the half-educated who think they are wise. And in this day of the mass distribution of cheap knowledge and half-truths, when everyone has a smattering of information, and people learn from the news media a thousand things which are not true, this class is growing rapidly. Related Self-Help Podcasts: Ralph Waldo Emerson & Self-Reliance How to Change Your Limiting Beliefs

Ever ones to speak, the team takes on the topic of active listening this week. Jeff, Mona and Allen discuss the elements of good listening, the habitual quirks of bad listening, and offer ideas concerning the cultivation of listening as both art and skill. The latest installment of Knowin’ Jemonen follows the discussion and reveals the co-hosts’ favorite works of fiction.   Host Check In (00:25) Active Listening Conversation (08:25) Knowin’ Jemonen Segment (54:14)   This week Allen presented us with some helpful tips on how to create a space where we can make people feel heard.   Pay Attention (stay with the person on the edge of their experience) Nonjudgement Generally embrace the speaker’s perspective Concreteness (focus on specifics instead of vague generalities) Restatement (repeat what the person said) Rephrasing (slightly reword and summarize) Reflection (“it sounds like you feel”) The Three R’s Be comfortable with silence Why questions (can be taken as accusatory) Quick reassurance (“oh, it’s ok…”) Advising Interrupting Avoid Roadblocks to Listening   RELEVANT LINKS From Host Check In Miss USA Math Question (YouTube Video)   From Conversation My Little Pony Cake Story (article) Cake Fails (buzzfeed article) People receive less than 5-10 min of high quality listening a week  (Practical Psychology book) Practical Psychology for Pastors by William R. Miller and Kathleen A. Jackson (book - Amazon Affiliate Link) Carl Rogers, American Psychologist (wikipedia page) How to Truly Listen by Evelyn Glennie (TED Talk)   Known’ Jemonen Segment Charles Bukowski (author) The Swiss Family Robinson by Johann D. Wyss (book - Amazon Affiliate Link) Breakfast of Champions (book - Amazon Affiliate Link) East of Eden (book - Amazon Affiliate Link) Watchman by Alan Moore (graphic novel - Amazon Affiliate Link) The Dark Knight Returns by Frank Miller (graphic novel - Amazon Affiliate Link) Andre the Giant by Box Brown (graphic novel - Amazon Affiliate Link) THANK YOU A big thank you to Mike Golin for our intro and outro music.  Check out his band Soulwise.   WE WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU Thank you for supporting the podcast!  Your ratings, reviews and feedback are not only encouraging to us personally, but they help others find the show.  If you appreciate the content we provide please rate, review and subscribe to the podcast on iTunes and Stitcher.   Join our conversations on faith and culture by interacting with us through the following links:   Read Us on our blog An Irenicon Email Us at podcast@irenicast.com Follow Us on Twitter and Google+ Like Us on Facebook Listen to Us on iTunes, Stitcher, SoundCloud and TuneIn Speak to Us on our Feedback Page Love Us

Introduction: Analyzing Psychoanalysis I'm essentially preaching a whole sermon on one verse today, so that must be a good verse, and it is. It's a verse, that's the foundation I think of a movement called Biblical Counseling that is growing in strength, to the glory of God in our country and around the world. The November 29th, 1993 issue of Time magazine had as a cover article, a picture of Sigmund Freud with his head kind of unraveling in some kind of a three-dimensional puzzle and getting put back together. One of those artistic renditions, like that. And it asked the question, "Is Freud dead?" When I saw it, I thought it's a good thing that Time asks easy questions to answer. The answer is, yes, Freud is dead. But obviously they're meaning more than just, is his body in the grave. They're really asking a deeper question, "Is the influence of Sigmund Freud and his approach to psycho-analysis, is that dead?" And the answer to that is No. Though Freud has come under some severe questioning even by people who maybe originally believed in his theories. Yet his influence is increasing. You know the picture of mustache, goatee, a man sitting there dignified with a notepad and a pen, and somebody laying on a couch, and spilling out their lives and telling him their dreams and all this sort of stuff, and he analyzing all of that. That's a lasting image and it's had a tremendous effect on our society, and our culture and a tremendous effect on the church of Jesus Christ. At present, there are over 200 identifiable talking cures in America today, with between 10 and 15 million Americans doing the talking. We live surrounded constantly by people who are feeling in their lives, in their marriages, in their homes, the devastating consequences of sin. I. A World Crying for Good Counsel Sins ravages are visible everywhere, in addictions, in dissolving and hurting families, in escalating mental anguish, in increasing temptations, we're surrounded every day by people who are crying out for help. And the world's response is, "Get some counseling." If you can just get some counseling. And more and more counseling is coupled with medications. Prescriptions for mood and behavior altering drugs are proliferating. More and more that seems to be the solution. Now, all of this, all of this is intensely important for us as Christians, who should be, and who are, genuinely concerned about the welfare of our co-workers, and neighbors, and family and friends, that they would know and love Jesus Christ. Franklin Graham, the evangelist said, the key, one of the keys to evangelism is taking your finger as it were, and rubbing it around the inside of the rim of the cup of their lives, and trying to find the places where sin has left its cracks and that's the place where the gospel can begin to work in people's lives. But psychotherapy stands as a direct challenge to the spiritual healing ministry of Jesus Christ and the Gospel. Remember that Jesus said in Luke 5:31-32, "It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance." That's the essence of the healing that Jesus has come to bring. That's the essence of what the Gospel does, it bring sinners to repentance, to a healed relationship with God and therefore with one another. A History Lesson on Psychology Now, psychology over the last 100 years has gone through some interesting twists and turns. It started with Sigmund Freud in his office in Vienna, and he wrote a book on the interpretation of dreams and that started the modern psychotherapy revolution. His basic ideas were that the key to psychosis, mental illness, is what happened to you in the past and many of the most significant issues that happened to you in the past, lie repressed in your memory. Sometimes it comes out in dreams or under hypnotism or other things, but the key is what happened to you in your past. Perhaps your mother was too protective or your father was too harsh, or there was a school bully that beat up on you and abused you in some way. And the purpose of counseling then, is to dredge up these past memories and to deal with them. In recent years, we've heard more and more about these repressed lives and repressed memories, and they're these thoughts that come out that get incredibly bizarre and challenge the way people even see reality. Tales of satanic ritual abuse, and there's no historical evidence that any of it happened but these repressed memories and it's all part of the Freudian approach to healing, bringing out those secret memories. And if you could just understand them then you could be healed. Now, many of Freud's theories actually showed more about him than they do about the true nature of man. Some of his own psychosis and perversions come out as you study his approach. However, I'll say this, for all the attacks on Freud, his basic ideas still remain and are pervasive in our culture. Man is not responsible. Guilt is imaginary. The key to therapy is digging up the past. These things are still with us. Now, after Freud, came other schools of counseling, like BF Skinner for example. The behaviorist model, the idea there is that man is totally conditioned by external training, by circumstances, by positive and negative reinforcement. To understand behavior, you have to understand the environment that shaped it. To change behavior, you have to change the environment, re-train the mind. So therefore, man is nothing more than a machine to be programmed. And if we're going to see a difference in behavior we've got to change the programming. That's BF Skinner. Then there is Carl Rogers who came up with this reflection approach to counseling. "Human beings," said Rogers, "are basically good and like all living creatures, they will try always to make the best of their existences. Evolution has given us everything we need for being all that we can be." A counselor's job according to Rogers then is to help the person find their own solutions to the problems that they face. The idea is that they know themselves and their situations far better than the counselor ever could or would, therefore, the counselor's job is simply to reflect back to the counsel-ee, their own feelings and their own thoughts. The goal is to help the person reach their own highest potential. And so the counseling session involves the counselor simply repeating back to the person what they're saying. Like a mirror. So it would go something like this. "So you're saying that you'd really like to quit your job, but you're afraid of the consequences." Or, "you feel that your husband doesn't appreciate you the way that he should," or “it seems to me you feel like you wish your son would be a little more responsible," or "you feel like you're on a roller coaster, going up and down, and there's no way to get off." Listen, if you ever come to me and I start doing that sort of stuff, just slap me. Okay. I'm going to cut right to the heart of the matter, alright. That's called reflection. Okay. The key question in this kind of counseling is, "How does that make you feel?" So we're trained to ask that question over and over. How does that make you feel? And so we write down how it makes the person feel and at some point, after 14 years of counseling they'll stumble upon the solution that was embedded in their own heart and lives, all along. Twenty-first century counseling: widespread chaos I was reading one particular author, Dr. Arthur Janov who was a secular counselor, and he's analyzing his field of expertise, he's not a Christian, but he's analyzing the field so that he can lay it waste and bring his own counseling approach as the primal one, the central one. But his analysis, I think, is mostly accurate about the field of psychotherapy in America today. He said this. "In no other area of medicine is there such disagreement about the nature of a disease, what its symptoms are, how it manifests itself, not to mention its causes. In short, the field of psychotherapy today is nothing less than chaotic." He went on to talk about the whole different ranges of approaches that psychotherapists are using to try to heal people. He talked about obviously prescribing drugs, using hypnotism, analyzing guilt into oblivion, acting out kind of therapies like gestalt, where you get to act out what you're really thinking and feeling. Or using mild shock treatment, re-training people to think differently about their actions and to redefine them. Biofeedback therapy, day dreaming and image therapies. And what Janov says, as he looks at all of these things is that none of them, not one treats the genuine causes of neuroses, they only ever treat the symptoms. Well, the sad thing is that the Christian church is kind of imitating these types of approaches in what it's called, what is called Christian counseling. And I'm going to make a distinction, this morning between Christian counseling and Biblical Counseling. Not all Christian counseling is biblical. You can get a lot of Christian counseling that's not biblical at all. Now, my training at Gordon-Conwell an Evangelical seminary in Massachusetts was essentially Carl Rogers mirroring techniques with a thin veneer of Christianity painted over the top. And I mean a really thin veneer. I took that book, it was sitting on my shelf. It's been sitting there for the last eight years. I hadn't looked at it once, and good thing too. It wouldn't have help me at all. But I took it down and I skimmed it very, very carefully, and I did not find anywhere, a single Scripture quote in over 250 pages. Practical Psychology for Pastors is the name of the volume. It was written for the Christian pastor, but there's no scripture, there was a whole chapter on dealing with anger and anxiety. I can think of a couple Bible verses that might help. Not one of them were quoted. This is how I was trained to do counseling, in my seminary. It was a good seminary. Biblical in every other way, but in this one way it wasn't. And we were told that in our counseling sessions, we should refrain from doing any of the following with the people who come. We should refrain from ordering, directing or commanding, warning or threatening, giving advice, making suggestions, providing solutions, persuading with logic, arguing or lecturing, moralizing, preaching, telling them their duty, judging, criticizing, disagreeing, blaming, agreeing, approving, praising, shaming, ridiculing, name-calling, interpreting or analyzing, reassuring or sympathizing, consoling, questioning, probing, withdrawing, distracting or changing the subject. Now, you may be wondering with me, what's left for me to do? I think I ought to just buy a big mirror, and set it up in front of the person and they can talk to themselves because that's all I'm doing. "So you feel that such and such etcetera." Obviously some of those things I would never want to do, but others, it seems that's exactly why they've come to me that they would have some insight and know what to do. In this approach, when the time came to give solutions, the basic role was to help them solve their own problems. Christian counseling all over the country, is often very little more than worldly counseling. One of the insights I gained from going to a counseling and Biblical Counseling seminar in the last year, is that the basic approach of secular counseling, the basic premise is, that the heart of man is essentially good and the problems are on the outside, therefore all the problems come from outside, and the solutions all come from inside. Brothers and sisters, you know, the Bible teaches the exact opposite, the problems come from inside, and the solutions come from the outside, a Savior named Jesus Christ. The Word of God that comes from the outside in and gives us good counsel. That is a significant insight I believe. Now, one of the problems with counseling with the Christian counseling, is that pastors are told and Christians are told even more, that they are not qualified to solve these kinds of problems, and they should refer people as quickly as possible to trained professionals. Now, in 1970, a man named J. Adams, brought a radical revolution to this whole approach with a book entitled Competent to Counsel. He got his title from the verse that I'm preaching on this morning, Competent to Counsel, brought about a revolution and something he called Nouthetic Counseling. Now, I'm going to define Nouthetic Counseling for you in the sermon this morning. But basically, it has to do with Biblical Counseling. The basic premise is that the Bible is sufficient to solve people's problems, it is sufficient for the cure of souls. His ground-breaking work has led many to call Jay Adams the father of Biblical Counseling. Five years after the first publishing of Competent to Counsel, he started a ministry that we know as NANC. 1975 National Association of Nouthetic Counselors. And the center piece of NANC is that the Bible is sufficient for the counseling needs of God's people, and that God's people completing goodness and knowledge are themselves Competent to Counsel. II. A Church Competent to Give Good Counsel The Bible is sufficient, the people of God, fully trained are competent to administer those treatments. And the key verse on Christian counseling is Romans 15:14. Look at it with me, if you would. And there it says, "I myself am satisfied about you, my brothers, that you yourselves are full of goodness, filled with all knowledge, and competent to counsel, one another." So we live in a world surrounded by people who need good counsel. The second point I want to make to you this morning is that the church is competent to give that good counsel. The two fundamental doubts of secular psychology is number one, the insufficiency of scripture for the cure of souls and number two, the incompetence of common Christians for the cure of souls. Those are the two basic assumptions. Sadly, the Church acts like it agrees with these basic premises. More and more psychology is weaving its way into ministry. More and more pastors get up and preach, not so much the text, but they preach psychology to the people. So also in pastoral counseling, and in actual Christian counseling, there's very little Biblical wisdom or insight given to people who need it so much. And so the church acts like most problems of the soul can only be solved by trained psychiatrists or at least by professional counselors. So therefore, assuming that most serious problems will have to be solved by medications anyway, and buying into the presuppositions that the Bible is insufficient to solve human problems, and afraid of getting sued, and in awe of secular degrees, PhDs and all that in highfalutin terms like obsessive-compulsive disorder, and transference and blocking and all these kinds of things, and fear of the commitment, that it will take to really get down and dirty in somebody's life and try to help them grow through very troubling sin problems. For all these reasons, and some others, the church abandons its ministry of curing souls and leaves it to the trained professionals who are not for the most part, using the Bible to do it. But let's understand a fundamental thing. Psychology is literally the study of the human soul, that's what the word means, it's the science of the soul. And my friends, if this Bible is not sufficient for that, then what was it given to us for. The Bible is sufficient to study and analyze and cure the human soul from its sin problems. Amen. And so I believe the fundamental conviction as Christians, we have to have is the answers are found in this book. Let's try to find what they are. Paul’s Context: The Roman Church Now Paul's context we already know, he's writing to the Roman church. He's well-acquainted with their faith. He'd never visited them before. He doesn't know them personally. But he says in Romans 1:8, "First I thank my God through Jesus Christ for all of you, because your faith is being reported all over the world." They were a very famous local church because they were there in the heart of the capital of the Roman empire. Now, Paul has completed over 14 chapters of doctrine and exhortation. He's in his 15th chapter now. And Paul's assessment of them in verse 14, is he says, "I myself am satisfied about you, my brothers that you yourselves are full of goodness, and filled with all knowledge, competent to counsel one another." He's persuaded, he's satisfied about them, he's investigated their conversion and their spiritual growth since they were converted. He is convinced about the statement he's about to make, Therefore, I say to you that it's not a given that every Christian is competent to counsel, not in the way the Paul means in this verse. He had to be persuaded or convinced that they were competent to counsel. But I also believe that every Christian could be competent to counsel other Christians on these matters. Two Criteria for Competency in Counseling: Goodness and Knowledge Now, Paul gives two criteria for competency in counseling. Notice neither one of them talks about a degree from an accredited higher institution. He says, "I'm convinced that you yourselves my brothers are full of goodness, and filled with all kinds of knowledge." Full of goodness, filled with knowledge. That's the criteria that he gives. 1) Full of Goodness Now first, full of goodness. Now, I said already, the essential problem of Freud and Skinner and especially Carl Rogers is that they're coming at it from a perspective of the basic goodness of the human heart, basic goodness of the human heart. Well we've already had our basic anthropology, back in Romans chapter 3. Romans 3 told us, "There is no one righteous, not even one. There is no one who understands, no one who seeks God, all have turned away, they have together become worthless. There is no one who does good, not even one." In this Jesus already established, very plainly, when the rich young ruler came to him, and said, "Good teacher, what good thing must I do to get eternal life?" Jesus picks up on this word good. He said, "Why do you ask me about what is good? No one is good but God alone." That's Jesus assessment of the human race So, how did the Roman Christians get to be full of goodness? Now that's a very fascinating question, isn't it? If Romans 3 is true, that, there's no one naturally righteous, no one who seeks God, all have together turned aside and there's no one who does good, not even one. Then how is it that now he's making the statement that they're full of goodness? Well, I say to you this, the Gospel of Jesus Christ has the power to make wicked sinners good. Isn't that awesome? The Gospel has the power to make evil people good. The blood of Jesus Christ has that kind of power. And so, in Ephesians 5:8-9, it says, "For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Live as children of the light. For the food of the light consists in all goodness, righteousness and truth and find out what pleases the Lord." We were, apart from Christ, darkness, but having come to the gospel, believing that Jesus's death on the cross, his blood was shed for us, having faith in Christ, we were cleansed of all of our sins, the righteousness of Jesus Christ was imputed to us and we were made good in the sight of God. But Paul goes beyond that. Not just good positionally, he says, "You are filled with goodness, full of goodness." Now, that's a different matter. It's built on the foundation of the imputed or given goodness that we receive by faith in Christ. But then there's a building on that goodness, it's what we call sanctification. And so by the power of the Holy Spirit, we become more and more filled with goodness, as it says in Galatians 5:22, "The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness, and self-control." Goodness then is something that the Holy Spirit works in us by His power as we grow gradually and become more and more like Jesus. And so we can actually be full of goodness. Now, my question in the matter of counseling is, "Why is it important, essential even, to be full of goodness?" Well, true counseling must involve a genuine love for the person you're ministering to. You have to genuinely love them. You're trying to help them, it's a genuine commitment to their well-being. Without genuine goodness ulterior motives could pollute the counseling session. For example, some counselors, secular counselors charge as much as $135 an hour, for the counseling session. Is there not a temptation for that kind of money to string the person on for 15 years? We're making real progress. Keep on coming we'll see again, Tuesday, 3 o'clock in the afternoon, $135 a week. What a temptation that is, but if you're full of goodness, you're not into that. You want to see them genuinely move past these sins, put them to death, by the power of the Spirit, see triumph and victory in their lives. Full of goodness is essential to good Biblical Counseling. 2) Filled With Knowledge Secondly, he says filled with all knowledge. Literally, it says, Having been fulfilled with all knowledge. It's a strong statement of their full training having been completed. They are fully trained as Christians. Now, we're not talking about omniscience. You don't have to know every single Biblical doctrine, it's not that, but rather you are fully trained. Jesus talked about that, "No student is greater than his master, but when he is fully trained it is enough for the student to be like the master." So there is a point of being fully trained, and he says "You Roman Christians you're fully trained." Now, this implies a full training in Christian doctrine, a knowledge of the deep things of God. Well, how does that happen? Well, no one is born again into the Christian faith having full knowledge. Basically you subject your mind constantly to the renewing influences of the Word of God. You sit under a good preaching or teaching ministry. You imbibe as much of the scriptures as you can. You saturate your mind in the Word of God, and over time you can reach a level where the Apostle Paul might say about you, "You are filled with all kinds of knowledge." Now, why is it essential to be filled with knowledge in order to be competent to council? Well, let me tell you something. If you're just going to do Rogers reflection, you don't need to be filled with anything. You actually kind of need empty yourself and forget about yourself and just reflect back constantly. And that's the allure of it, it seems so Christian, it seems so other-centered. You don't have an opinion in the world, you don't have a thought about anything, you're just reflecting back what they're saying. But I say to you, the people who are desperate for wisdom and counsel, they need to know what the Word of God says about their situation, and they don't. Maybe a Christian couple, a husband and wife want to know how to have a godly marriage after perhaps each of their families were divorced and they grew up in homes that were not filled with Christian influence. And they don't know how to do it and they're running into some problems now with conflicts and they don't know how to resolve conflicts. Or someone else is struggling with habitual lust through internet pornography. Or somebody else is battling depression in their daily walk, perhaps they've even toyed with thoughts of suicide, though they know it's a sin, but they're just discouraged, they're depressed. Somebody else wants to know how to discipline their children so that they can grow in grace and they can be fruitful, productive Christians, when they're done being trained. Maybe somebody else is battling laziness and procrastination. Or maybe a wife is married to a non-Christian husband and he neglects her, mocks her faith. Or another person has an alcoholic family member and they want to intervene in some way and help them break their sin pattern. This and 100 other cases come into the life of the church and those folks, they don't just need reflection. They need to know what the Bible says about those situations. The Scripture says very, very plainly that everything we need for life and godliness has been made known to us by the Word of God, by the promises of God. 2 Peter 1 says that. The Bible is sufficient to handle every sin and character case we could ever face in life, the Bible is sufficient for all of it. But you need to be full of knowledge in order to wield the sword of the Spirit, well, skillfully to know which verses to apply to which situation full of knowledge is essential. And as a result, we are competent to counsel one another. Paul's phrase is able or powerful or competent, qualified perhaps, a sense that we have this ability then to counsel one another. III. How Should We Define “Good Counsel”? Well, thirdly, how should we define good counsel? Here we've left out one word, and it's the word noutheteo. It's from that word that we get the nouthetic and National Association of Nouthetic Counselors. Now, the word nouthetic is odd to everybody. You shouldn't look at it and say, "That's an odd word. I guess I'm not used to those kind of words." I think that Jay Adams specifically wanted to retain the word so that we could bump into the concept and try to understand what noutheteo means. It's a Greek word, and it's made up of two smaller Greek words. Nous meaning the mind and Tithemi meaning to put or place It has to do with putting something into the mind of another person, making them mindful of something. And the basic premise of this kind of counseling is that the mind leads and the life, the body, follows where the mind goes. It is bad thinking that leads to bad living. If you want to live differently, you have to change the mind. The Biblical word for the change of mind, is repentance, and by repentance, we can change the way that we're living. That's the basic premise of Nouthetic Counseling. Jay Adams frequently translated the word, to confront nouthetically. The basic idea here is that of warning or admonition. A sense of a serious word given in a serious situation. Paul uses the word in Acts 20:31, that's his final address to the Ephesian elders. Very serious and somber moment, and he's got the leaders of this local church around and He says to them. "So, be on your guard. Remember that for three years, I never stopped warning each of you, night and day, with tears." With tears, warning them for three years, night and day. Noutheteo. Note the passion, note the love, note the sense of warning Be on your guard against false teachers who are going to come in your midst, like ravenous wolves, not sparing the flock. He's warning them, warning them about the danger of sin. A second use we see in 1 Corinthians 4. The Corinthian Church was, in their own minds anyways, upwardly mobile. Trying to get better and better off in the world. Thinking... Having all their neighbors and their family and everybody think better and better of them, going up. But as they're going up, they're passing the apostles who were going down, like Jesus, down, becoming more humble, more rejected by the world. Paul says it seems to me that we're the off-scouring of the scum of the earth. But look at you, you're getting better and better. And so he writes very poignantly in 1 Corinthians 4, trying to show them how they're not thinking properly, about their lives in this world. And so he writes this, after all of that, he says, "I'm not writing this to shame you but to warn you as my dear children…" Again the affection, a sense of danger for them that they're not seeing the Christian life properly. Or again in Colossians 1:28. Paul says this really sums up his whole ministry. "We proclaim Him, admonishing [there's the word] and teaching everyone with all wisdom, so that we may present everyone perfect in Christ." This is both Christian and non-Christian. There's a sense of warning somebody based on the gospel and then continuing to warn and admonish in an ongoing sense. And then fourth, Paul says we should be doing this for each other all the time. In Colossians 3:16 he says, "Let the Word of Christ dwell in you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom." So we're supposed to be doing this for each other. This noutheteo, we're supposed to be noutheticing each other all the... Is that the right word? I don't know, noutheing each other. We're supposed to be nouthetically confronting one another all the time. There are many other uses of the word but I've given you those four to give you a sense of what the word means? Let's sum up the Biblical evidence then. Good Counsel is Nouthetic Counseling and it involves a loving concern, like a father for children or like a brother for another brother. It definitely involves a sense of danger or warning. Now, you might say, "Why do we need a warning? Everything's fine in my life." Do you realize you have two mortal enemies of your soul outside of you and one mortal enemy of your soul inside of you? The two outside of you are the world's system, and Satan who runs it. The mortal enemy inside of you is called your flesh or your sin nature, which is actually attracted to that stuff out there. You are in great danger and so am I. And we will be as long as we live in the tent of this body. And so we need to be warned, we need to be protected from our own sin and from the sins of others and therefore, we have to be admonished by the Word of God. Now, Jay Adams gave three aspects of Nouthetic Counseling. First, there's a problem to be solved, there's a problem that needs to be solved. Second, the problem is solved by verbal means. Now, I'm not going to talk this morning about the role of medications in all this. I think the human mind, the brain is incredibly complex. There are brain chemical issues and all that, but let me tell you something, no sin issue in life was ever solved that way. Even if medications were used in a way that would please the Lord, it's to clear the space, so that the Word of God can then deal with the sin problem in the person's life. It's not chemicals that solve sin problems, it's repentance and the blood of Jesus Christ and the ministry of the Word of God, that's what solves sin problems. So there is a problem to be solved. Secondly, the problem is solved by verbal means. And the third is that the purpose of the counseling is to benefit the counselee. Now there's Nouthetic Counseling, that either does go on or doesn't go on in the Bible. Adams sites the example of Nathan. One of the most courageous men in Biblical history went to face David after he committed adultery with Bathsheba and murdered Bathsheba's husband to cover up his adultery, and then a year later, he's still sitting in his sin, and Nathan comes and tells a parable that draws him in to the point where he is very upset, and then Nathan points a finger and says, "You are the man." He's confronting him, nouthetically. And then there's Eli who had sons that were sinning wickedly. They were priests in the priestly family, and he never confronted them. Finally, when it was too late, in 1 Samuel 2:23, he says to his sons, "Why do you do such things? I hear from all the people about these wicked deeds of yours?" Nouthetic Counseling has much more to do with what than it does with why. Have any of you parents ever asked your kids, "Why did you do it?" And then listened to what came back. There is no possible answer. You can try for years and you'll never figure out the why questions. We already know the answer to the why question. Because all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, that's why. We don't need to plumb the depths of why. Instead Nouthetic Counseling focuses on what. What happened? Remember how God said to Cain concerning his brother Able, "What have you done? What have you done?" Nouthetic Counseling starts there. What have you done? What problem is in your life? What approach have you taken to solving it? What does God's Word say about this? You see it focuses on the what, not on the why. And the purpose of the counseling is to benefit the counselee. IV. All Christians Can and Should Grow in their Competency in Counseling Fourthly, I say to you based on this text, that all Christians can and should grow in their competency to counseling. I already said, not every Christian is fully competent to counsel. Paul had to become convinced, or persuaded that the Roman Christians were full of goodness, complete in knowledge and thus, competent to counsel one another. It's not automatic. Some Christians make very little progress in their sanctification over decades and decades of church attendance. They would not necessarily be competent to counsel. But others make remarkable progress in even short amounts of time and they are full of goodness, and complete in knowledge and therefore competent to counsel. Now I think that any Christian, spirit-filled Christian is more competent to counsel, than any non-Christian on most issues. Just the basic knowledge of scripture that you have is better than some worldly philosophy that's going to screw you up. But I believe every Christian should become more fully competent to counsel than we are presently. We can keep growing, we can keep moving and there's proof from the text. Look at Verse 15. Paul, look at his train of thought. He says they are already full of goodness, complete in knowledge and competent to counsel one another. But verse 15, KJV gives us, "Nevertheless, on some points I've written you very boldly by way of reminder." You see? So even a congregation that is competent to counsel, can still get more training or be reminded, be further sharpened in their ability to counsel their brothers and sisters in Christ. And so he wrote the book of Romans. And so now you're more competent or more trained than you were before you read Romans. So there's ongoing counseling training needed for all Christians. The fifth point I want to make to you this morning is that Biblical Counseling is essential to the two infinite journeys that God has set before each Christian and before this church. The two infinite journeys are the center piece of our ministry here. The internal journey of growth to become more and more like Jesus Christ, that's called sanctification, that's an infinite journey, because it takes infinite power to do it The second infinite journey, is worldwide disciple making based on the great commission, "Make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I've commanded." Do you see how Nouthetic Counseling fits into both? How would you prepare yourself to become a better counselor except by immersing yourself in the Word of God and growing in your own goodness and in your love for others who are hurting and who need you to do it. That will help you to grow as a Christian. It'll help other people to grow as they get the good counsel from you. It also helps you when you're having problems that you could go seek some good counsel and get over your problems too. It helps the internal journey. It also is fundamental to the external journey. Paul said, "I wrote you about these things because I was given the grace of God to be a minister of Christ Jesus so that I could present the Gentiles perfect before the throne." And so, therefore, I want you to admonish one another. I want you to train one another, I want you to use the Word of God to help each other through sin problems, so that we can finish the worldwide mission among the Gentiles. And so, I say that Nouthetic Counseling, Biblical Counseling is essential to the internal journey of becoming more and more like Jesus and the external journey of worldwide evangelization. Let me speak very practically. We have a community of people all around us who need to be reached with the gospel. We can do a number of things, but I'll tell you this, if we had a developed healthy, strong Biblical Counseling ministry and we offered Biblical Counseling to people for free and urged them to come and get Biblical solutions to their problems, I think we might see a river of people getting baptized here as they came to realize, they never come to faith in Christ at all. They don't have any foundation. And so along with the counseling these folks give the Gospel and we're going to see people saved, it's already happening in local churches around this country as they see a Biblical Counseling model even to evangelism and outreach. V. Application Now, what application can we take from this text for ourselves? Well, first, I hope it's already happened this morning. Understand Biblical Counseling I'd like you to understand the difference between Biblical Counseling and Christian counseling. Not all Christian counseling is Biblical Counseling. So therefore, I hope you understand, Nouthetic Counseling and what it means. What Biblical Counseling, that's the first application, understand Biblical Counseling. It is the basic idea that the Bible is sufficient to solve people's sin problems. Seek Biblical Counseling As Needed Secondly, can I exhort you to be discerning from this sermon time on, to never again settle for anything less than Biblical Counseling? If you're sitting down with a counselor, and they're not opening the Word of God with you, they're not sharing from the Word of God, they are not going to help you ultimately. So therefore seek nothing less than Biblical Counseling for your own counseling needs. Get Trained! Thirdly, can I urge you to get trained yourself in Biblical Counseling. I would urge you to consider the NANC Conference is coming up three times in this fall, September 8th and 9th. It's not too late, it's not too late for you to go. And what you're going to find there is a whole world opening up to you that shows the practical application of the Word of God in everyday issues that people face. That maybe even you're facing right now in your life. So, get trained. Use the Word of God to Solve Problems for Friends, Co-Workers Fourth used the Word of God, then to help solve problems for the friends and family and people around you in your life. Assume that the Word of God has the solution and minister the Word of God in their lives. Do it with your co-workers, people are going to open up to you be available to that. And then start showing them how the Word of God can be brought to bear on the problems of their lives. Yearn to be a Biblical counselor, a fully-trained competent to counsel, man or woman here in this church, so that you can use your wisdom to minister to men and women as they have needs. Pray for a Developed Biblical Counseling Ministry Here at FBC Fifth, pray for a developed Biblical Counseling Ministry here at FBC. It's going to take time. The vision I have for using counseling as an outreach tool in this community is going to take years and years to see it come to full fruition, but no time like the present. Let's start now, let's start this September, let's start with some of the training that Scott Markle and others are going to be doing on Wednesday evenings. Biblical training, be part of that. Say I want to be trained, I want to learn how to use the Bible to help people. Pray for Evangelistic Fruit And then finally pray for evangelistic fruit, as a result of all this. Wouldn't it be exciting to see people brought to faith in Christ that way? See them get up in the baptismal area and just say, "This is what God's done in my life, my whole life, has changed. I came to realize that I didn't know Jesus as my Lord and Savior. Everything has changed. Thank God for Jesus. Thank God for the Gospel and for the Word that has the power to change lives." Oh, I want to hear those testimonies. Pray for evangelistic fruit. And if you're here today and you've never given your life to Christ, Jesus is the Wonderful Counselor, he's the one that gives the good advice through the Word and through other believers. Come to faith in Christ. Trust in him, that his blood is sufficient for your sins. That's why he came. "For the Son of Man came to seek and to save what was lost." Close with me in prayer please.