Podcasts about Rape culture

This is the concluding episode of Leslie McFadden's appearance on Sexual Assault Survivor Stories. Leslie's experience is a powerful example of the systemic issues that many survivors face. In October 2015, she was drugged and raped in Brooklyn. The last thing she remembers was drinks on Stone Street; she would wake up in a hospital many hours later, not knowing what happened. Slowly, she began to piece together that something terrible had occurred. When Leslie reported her sexual assault to the NYPD's Special Victims Unit, she faced additional trauma. One of the first questions a detective asked her was whether this was truly a case of assault or just regret. The next day, she was asked to make a controlled call to the perpetrator, during which he admitted to the assault. Immediately after, the detective presented her with a form that she was told would put her case on hold pending further evidence. Unbeknownst to her, this was actually a case closure form, which she signed while in distress. The detective never spoke to the assailant and closed the case without further investigation. Leslie's story is not unique. She became one of 19 survivors to urge the federal Department of Justice to open an investigation into how the NYPD handled sexual assault survivors and their cases. In 2022, the DOJ opened an investigation into the NYPD's Special Victims Unit to examine whether the department discriminated against sexual assault survivors when conducting their investigations. This episode is the conclusion of a two-part encounter. Leslie is an articulate, strong, and influential voice for victims and survivors everywhere; her ongoing goal is to make a lasting change in this world, to help overcome rape culture, and encourage law enforcement to become trauma-informed, empathic, and thorough in the investigation of rape and sexual assault. As I mentioned in last week's episode, a former guest of SASS, Rachel Izzo, introduced me to Leslie. If you haven't heard Rachel Izzo's episodes, I encourage you to take the time to listen to those as well. Rachel and Leslie share similar experiences with the New York Police Department's Special Victims Unit, and have both shown immense courage in sharing their stories. An important side note: if you're finding value in these episodes, please take a moment to leave a 5-star rating on your podcast platform. AND, please send me a note of support. I can't tell you how much your emails mean to me—they fuel my passion to keep this podcast going. Here's my email address:   I truly look forward to hearing from you! Thank you again for being part of this journey with me. Don't miss next week's episode as I bring you another compelling and insightful guest. In the meantime, I encourage you to share this podcast with your friends, family, and colleagues. Spread the word about Sexual Assault Survivor Stories, as we continue to amplify the voices of victims and survivors, normalize the conversation, and educate the public and professionals on the importance of trauma-informed care. Together we can help reduce the prevalence of the rape culture that is rampant in our society. Subscribe and Support: Don't forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode of Sexual Assault Survivor Stories; and give us a five-star rating! Your support helps us continue to provide this important platform for survivors and advocates alike. I hope you will also do your part to bring justice to victims and survivors of rape and sexual assault. You can do that by sharing this episode with others. Also, please follow the Instagram page of sexualassaultsurvivorstories. It also helps the show grow, which is what I hope to accomplish to help lessen the prevalence of rape and sexual assault, as well as the prevalence of rape culture that surrounds us all. It only takes a minute, and I truly appreciate your support. On another note: I am a strong advocate and supporter of Survivor School (SS), founded and directed by CEO Arci Grey (another former guest on SASS). In fact, Arci has made me a consultant to SS as she maneuvers the intricacies of directing and managing the content and growth of her amazing organization. I encourage you to strongly consider becoming a member of SS, and as an affiliate would appreciate it, if you do decide to become a member, to use this link: Thanks again for listening! As always, listed below are some additional important and meaningful websites I hope you'll take a look at and learn more about, including a recent article about the DOJ investigation into the NYPD Special Victims Unit, mentioning Leslie McFadden. Please take the time to read the article…and thank you. https://risenow.us/     My email address: Thank you for joining us for this important conversation. Remember, believing and supporting survivors is a crucial step in bringing justice and healing.

 Big dogs, tiny dogs, diving into celebrity fashion controversies, cultural appropriation, awkward social situations. Our review of Promising Young Woman, and the evolving world of adult entertainment. Plus: gross food opinions, Mother's Day emotions, and how language around sexual violence is shifting. Timestamps: 00:00 Intro: Cuddly Critters & Viral Pet Friendships 03:04 Shopping Habits & Identity 06:02 Weird Food Preferences & Texture Talk 08:56 Dating Drama & Cringey Customer Stories 11:53 Fashion Trends & Social Norms 14:59 The Rise of AI in Adult Entertainment 17:51 Inclusive Smut & Modern Romance Novels 21:05 Promising Young Woman Breakdown 31:57 Gender Bias in the Legal System 35:05 Revenge Plots & Consequences 38:43 Language, Consent & Rape Culture 41:30 Trust Issues & Societal Shifts 44:51 Justice from the Victim's POV 46:45 Media Representation & Cultural Impact 51:38 Life Lessons & Personal Stories Send us a textSupport the showShare this episode with your besties! Connect with Honestly Smartlesshonestlysmartless.comIG: @honestlysmartlessTikTok: @honestlysmartlessChelsea's IG: @chelsea_turanoLindsay's IG: @dr.lindsayregehrYouTube: Honestly Smartless Send us a text Support the show and will give you a shout out

Never one to pull any punches, this SASS episode is no exception. This is a full throttle, deep dive, all-in listen. A Gut Punch.  Leslie McFadden's experience is a powerful example of the systemic issues that many survivors face. In October 2015, she was drugged and raped in Brooklyn. The last thing she remembers was drinks on Stone Street; she would wake up in a hospital many hours later, not knowing what happened. Slowly, she began to piece together that something terrible had occurred. When Leslie reported the assault to the NYPD's Special Victims Unit, she faced additional trauma. One of the first questions a detective asked her was whether this was truly a case of assault or just regret. The next day, she was asked to make a controlled call to the perpetrator, during which he admitted to the assault. Immediately after, the detective presented her with a form that she was told would put her case on hold pending further evidence. Unbeknownst to her, this was actually a case closure form, which she signed while in distress. The detective never spoke to the assailant and closed the case without further investigation. Leslie's story is not unique. She became one of 19 survivors to urge the federal Department of Justice to open an investigation into how the NYPD handled sexual assault survivors and their cases. In 2022, the DOJ opened an investigation into the NYPD's Special Victims Unit to examine whether the department discriminated against sexual assault survivors when conducting their investigations. This episode is part one of a two-part encounter. In the next episode, we'll delve deeper into Leslie's journey and the problematic, systemic issues she faced within the NYPD. If you haven't heard Rachel Izzo's episodes, please take time to listen to those as well. Rachel and Leslie share similar experiences and have both shown immense courage in sharing their stories. An important side note: if you're finding value in these episodes, please take a moment to leave a 5-star rating on your podcast platform. AND, please send me a note of support. I can't tell you how much your emails mean to me—they fuel my passion to keep this podcast going. Here's my email address:   I truly look forward to hearing from you! Thank you again for being part of this journey with me. Don't miss next week's episode as I bring you Leslie's Part 2 episode. In the meantime, I encourage you to share this episode with your friends, family, and colleagues. Spread the word about Sexual Assault Survivor Stories, as we continue to amplify the voices of survivors and educate the public and professionals on the importance of trauma-informed care. Together we can help reduce the prevalence of the rape culture that is rampant in our society. Subscribe and Support: Don't forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode of Sexual Assault Survivor Stories; and, give us a five-star rating! Your support helps us continue to provide this important platform for survivors and advocates alike. I hope you will also do your part to bring justice to victims and survivors of rape and sexual assault. You can do that by sharing this episode with others. Also, please follow the Instagram page of sexualassaultsurvivorstories. It also helps the show grow, which is what I hope to accomplish to help lessen the prevalence of rape and sexual assault, as well as the prevalence of rape culture that surrounds us all. It only takes a minute, and I truly appreciate your support.  On another note: I am a strong advocate and supporter of Survivor School (SS), founded and directed by CEO Arci Grey. In fact, Arci has made me a consultant to SS as she maneuvers the intricacies of directing and managing the content and growth of her amazing organization. I encourage you to strongly consider becoming a member of SS, and as an affiliate would appreciate it, if you do decide to become a member, to use this link: Thanks again for listening! And as always, listed below are some additional important and meaningful websites I hope you'll take a look at and learn more about, including a recent article about the DOJ investigation into the NYPD Special Victims Unit, mentioning Leslie McFadden. Please take the time to read the article…and thank you.       My email address:   Thank you for joining us for this important conversation. Remember, believing and supporting survivors is a crucial step in bringing justice and healing.

What does it mean to say that rape is not a crime of passion, but a tool of conquest? In this searing episode, Matika sits down with Chief Justice Sarah Deer—legal scholar, citizen of the Muscogee (Creek) Nation, and longtime advocate for Native women—to break down the root causes of the Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women and People (MMIWP) crisis. Together, they trace the systemic failures—from jurisdictional loopholes and underfunded Tribal justice systems to harmful stereotypes and state indifference—that enable violence against Native people to persist across generations.Sarah shares insights from decades of research, courtroom advocacy, and lived experience. She explains why the word “rape” still matters, how U.S. law continues to reflect colonial patriarchy, and what tribal sovereignty has to do with personal safety. With clarity and care, she connects the dots between land theft, gender-based violence, and narrative erasure—and offers a vision for Indigenous feminist legal theory that centers survivor agency and collective healing.This is a vital episode for anyone who wants to understand the roots of violence and the pathways to justice in Indian Country.Learn more about Sarah Deer's work at sarahdeer.com.Educational Reading & Reports• Sarah Deer's The Beginning and End of Rape is essential reading on how U.S. law enables violence against Native women—and how we can reclaim justice through sovereignty and Indigenous feminist legal theory. Purchase the book here.• Broken Promises: Continuing Federal Funding Shortfall for Native Americans is a 2018 report by the U.S. Commission on Civil Rights detailing chronic underfunding of Native programs. Read it here.• Justice Denied: The Reality of the Tribal Law and Order Act by Amnesty International explores how systemic legal gaps harm Native women. View the report.Advocacy & Action•The National Indigenous Women's Resource Center offers toolkits, trainings, and support for survivors and advocates working to end violence against Native women.•The Sovereign Bodies Institute collects data and honors MMIW2S cases, centering Indigenous-led research and action.•MMIW USA provides direct services and support for families of the missing and murdered, offering healing and justice-centered care.•The Urban Indian Health Institute provides data, reports, and resources on urban Native health disparities, including MMIWP-specific studies.++++Send us your thoughts!Support the showFollow us on Instagram @amrpodcast, or support our work on Patreon. Show notes are published on our website, Allmyrelationspodcast.com. Matika's book Project 562: Changing the Way We See Native America is available now! T'igwicid and Hyshqe for being on this journey with us.

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Ellie Softley, Head of Education at Everyone's Invited, talks to us about a new programme of work with UK primary schools, which the organisation is running in conjunction with researchers from the University of Surrey. Tune in for numerous tips which will help parents or educators navigate potentially challenging conversations with children and teens about issues surround misogyny. Please note that this interview contains adult themes and isn't suitable for younger ears.

On this episode I talk about children, and empathy and SA and the things I wish I could say out loud to some of y'all cause I love y'all and want y'all to win like it took me a while to do. Let's save ourselves and teach children cause we all children at the of the day. I also touch on other topics of I wish yall would stop doing. I touched on Rape Culture and Policing of ourselves and how it stems from childhood. I talk about the relationships that helped me get through my stuff and grow and become the woman I am today. Today on Resurrection I revive myself and leave the grave o past failures and past failed relationships. I hope y'all get up from the grave cause at the end of the day the day gotta end.

Today's episode was truly an enjoyable show to record: my guest is Matt Stegner, a former police officer having served with both the Atlanta (GA) Police Department and the New York State Police. We currently share the same profession…Matt is a trainer/consultant in specializing in trauma-informed investigations of sexual assault and rape cases. I had the pleasure of meeting him at an End Violence Against Women-International (EVAWI) conference after an amazing presentation he did. It's truly and honor and privilege to know Matt and call him a friend. Here's a little bit about Matt from his website: “His extensive experience as a Senior Investigator with the New York State Police (Ret.), especially in handling complex criminal investigations, speaks volumes about his expertise and dedication to the field. His specialization in areas like sexual assault, child exploitation, internet crimes against children, and interpersonal violence investigations showcases a commitment to addressing some of the most sensitive and crucial aspects of law enforcement.” (Cite: )  I encourage you to check out Matt's website and learn more about him and his amazing work! Here are the links to a couple of articles Matt has written:   I want to remind you—we all have a role to play in this fight. The first step? Start by Believing. When a survivor reaches out to tell their story, we need to listen without judgment, without skepticism. We need to believe them…because we all know someone whose life has been touched by sexual assault—whether it's a friend, a family member, or even ourselves. The more we normalize these conversations, the stronger we become in pushing back against rape culture and the systems that perpetuate it. An important side note: if you're finding value in these episodes, please take a moment to leave a 5-star rating on your podcast platform. AND,  please send me a note of support. I can't tell you how much your emails mean to me—they fuel my passion to keep this podcast going. Here's my email address:   I truly look forward to hearing from you! Thank you again for being part of this journey with me. Don't miss next week's episode as I bring you a new, compelling episode —right here on Sexual Assault Survivor Stories, the SASS Podcast. See you next week. In the meantime, we encourage you to share this episode with your friends, family, and colleagues. Spread the word about Sexual Assault Survivor Stories, as we continue to amplify the voices of survivors and educate the public and professionals on the importance of trauma-informed care. Together, we can make a difference. Resources: If you or someone you know is struggling with the impact of sexual assault, please reach out to a professional or utilize resources such as or Local Support Resources. Subscribe and Support: Don't forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode of Sexual Assault Survivor Stories; and, give us a five-star rating! Your support helps us continue to provide this important platform for survivors and advocates alike. I hope you will also do your part to bring justice to victims and survivors of rape and sexual assault. You can do that by sharing this episode with others. Also, please follow the Instagram page of sexualassaultsurvivorstories. It also helps the show grow, which is what I hope to accomplish to help lessen the prevalence of rape and sexual assault, as well as the prevalence of rape culture that surrounds us all. It only takes a minute, and I truly appreciate your support.  On another note: I am a strong advocate and supporter of Survivor School (SS), founded and directed by CEO Arci Grey. In fact, Arci has made me a consultant to SS as she maneuvers the intricacies of directing and managing the content and growth of her amazing organization. I encourage you to strongly consider becoming a member of SS, and as an affiliate would appreciate it, if you do decide to become a member, to use this link: Thanks again for listening! And as always, listed below are some additional important and meaningful websites I hope you'll take a look at and learn more about.   My email address:

This is the final episode of Rachel Izzo's encounter with the New York Police Department (NYPD) and a harrowing tale of systemic failure and the enduring impact of trauma on survivors of sexual assault. Her story is not just a narrative of personal suffering but a stark indictment of institutional shortcomings in handling cases of sexual violence. In her quest for justice, Rachel found herself navigating a labyrinth of bureaucracy that seemed more intent on an outward image than true empathetic support. Her initial report of assault, bravely detailed to law enforcement, was met with skepticism and administrative inertia, compounding her anguish. Despite the gravity of her allegations and the evident trauma she had experienced, Rachel faced a stark reality: the system designed to protect failed to meet the standards of a trauma-informed approach or provide the compassionate response she needed. Rachel's journey through the NYPD's investigative process revealed a disturbing undercurrent of disbelief and procedural indifference, echoing broader societal challenges in addressing sexual violence with the gravity and sensitivity it demands. Rachel's courage in confronting her ordeal serves as a poignant reminder of the resilience required of survivors who dare to seek accountability and healing within a system that all too often falls short. As Rachel bravely shares her story, she illuminates not only the personal devastation wrought by assault but also the imperative for systemic reform. Her experience underscores the critical need for law enforcement to adopt trauma-informed practices that prioritize survivor-centered approaches. And Rachel's experience isn't restricted to just the NYPD; others with whom she shared her story had a role in Rachel feeling unbelieved, blamed, and denied in seeking a thorough investigation. Through her search for advocacy and an unwavering support system, Rachel challenges us to confront the uncomfortable truths about institutional and societal responses to sexual violence, urging a paradigm shift towards empathy, accountability, and genuine support for those who have endured rape or sexual assault. In listening to Rachel's journey, we are required not only to engage with and open mind-set, but to reflect critically on our collective responsibility to ensure that survivors are heard, believed, and supported. Her story, etched in resilience, stands as a testament to the enduring strength of the human spirit in the face of profound adversity. I want to remind you—we all have a role to play in this fight. The first step? Start by Believing. When a survivor reaches out to tell their story, we need to listen without judgment, without skepticism. We need to believe them, because we all know someone whose life has been touched by sexual assault—whether it's a friend, a family member, or even ourselves. The more we normalize these conversations, the stronger we become in pushing back against rape culture and the systems that perpetuate it. An important side note: if you're finding value in these episodes, please take a moment to leave a 5-star rating on your podcast platform. AND,  please send me a note of support. I can't tell you how much your emails mean to me—they fuel my passion to keep this podcast going. Here's my email address:   I truly look forward to hearing from you! Thank you again for being part of this journey with me. Don't miss next week's episode as I bring you a new, compelling episode —right here on Sexual Assault Survivor Stories, the SASS Podcast. See you next week. In the meantime, we encourage you to share this episode with your friends, family, and colleagues. Spread the word about Sexual Assault Survivor Stories, as we continue to amplify the voices of survivors and educate the public and professionals on the importance of trauma-informed care. Together, we can make a difference. Resources: If you or someone you know is struggling with the impact of sexual assault, please reach out to a professional or utilize resources such as or Local Support Resources. Subscribe and Support: Don't forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode of Sexual Assault Survivor Stories; and, give us a five-star rating! Your support helps us continue to provide this important platform for survivors and advocates alike. I hope you will also do your part to bring justice to victims and survivors of rape and sexual assault. You can do that by sharing this episode with others. Also, please follow the Instagram page of sexualassaultsurvivorstories. It also helps the show grow, which is what I hope to accomplish to help lessen the prevalence of rape and sexual assault, as well as the prevalence of rape culture that surrounds us all. It only takes a minute, and I truly appreciate your support. You'll also notice in this episode that there may be ads added to the episode to help bring attention to Survivor School, founded by Arci Grey. SS is an organization in which I play a part as both a Masterclass Presenter, and as a member of the SS advisory panel. There's nothing like this phenomenally innovative approach to healing from trauma and becoming un-stuck. To join Survivor School, please use this link:   Thanks again for listening! And as always, listed below are some additional important and meaningful websites I hope you'll take a look at and learn more about.  

Hier kommt Teil 1 von 2 Folgen über alle Begriffe, die wir zwar sehr oft hören, die Hintergründe oder die genaue Bedeutung nicht kennen

If you've tuned into this podcast before, you already know that this show serves a dual purpose: first, providing a safe space for victims and survivors of rape or sexual assault to share their experiences and facilitate healing. And second, it works to educate professionals from all walks of life on trauma-informed care—because understanding this stuff isn't just about checking a box. It's about shifting the way we approach advocacy, support, and justice. Welcome back to another powerful episode of Sexual Assault Survivor Stories. This podcast is making an impact. It's changing the conversation around rape culture, helping people understand its pervasiveness, and providing critical insights into how we can reduce it. But none of that happens without you—without all of us doing our part. Thank you for being here today and for helping to advance these important goals. Your presence matters, and I'm so glad you're with us. I truly recognize that without you, this podcast ceases to exist…so, again, thank you from the bottom of my heart! Today, we're diving into Episode 131, which is part two of my conversation with the incredible Rachel Izzo. I hope you had a chance to hear her first episode—where she courageously shared how a weight-lifting trainer groomed and manipulated her into a traumatic sexual assault and rape experience that spanned several years. It's a hard story to hear, but an important one. If you haven't listened yet, go back and catch up. It's crucial for understanding the complex and insidious dynamics of abuse—and to see how these power dynamics can keep someone trapped. In today's episode, Rachel picks up where we left off, sharing the gut-wrenching details of yet another instance of manipulation and coercion, this time by someone else who took advantage of her vulnerability. This wasn't just a random encounter—it was another carefully orchestrated situation, where the same power dynamics played out once again. And this time, it's even harder for Rachel to make sense of the pattern. She's been there before, but the trauma isn't any easier to process. But Rachel isn't giving up. She continues to speak her truth with strength and resilience, determined to help others understand what it means to be caught in these cycles and how we can break them. There's still a lot more to come in the next episode, as Rachel's story unfolds even deeper. Her courage in sharing these experiences is inspiring, and it's why she's on a mission to not only heal herself but to make sure that others don't have to walk this painful road alone. I want to remind you—we all have a role to play in this fight. The first step? Start by Believing. When a survivor reaches out to tell their story, we need to listen without judgment, without skepticism. We need to believe them, because we all know someone whose life has been touched by sexual assault—whether it's a friend, a family member, or even ourselves. The more we normalize these conversations, the stronger we become in pushing back against rape culture and the systems that perpetuate it. An important side note: if you're finding value in these episodes, please take a moment to leave a 5-star rating on your podcast platform. AND,  please send me a note of support. I can't tell you how much your emails mean to me—they fuel my passion to keep this podcast going. Here's my email address:    I truly look forward to hearing from you! Thank you again for being part of this journey with me. Don't miss next week's episode as we continue Rachel's story—right here on Sexual Assault Survivor Stories, the SASS Podcast. See you next week. In the meantime, we encourage you to share this episode with your friends, family, and colleagues. Spread the word about Sexual Assault Survivor Stories, as we continue to amplify the voices of survivors and educate the public and professionals on the importance of trauma-informed care. Together, we can make a difference. Resources: If you or someone you know is struggling with the impact of sexual assault, please reach out to a professional or utilize resources such as or Local Support Resources. Subscribe and Support: Don't forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode of Sexual Assault Survivor Stories; and, give us a five-star rating! Your support helps us continue to provide this important platform for survivors and advocates alike. I hope you will also do your part to bring justice to victims and survivors of rape and sexual assault. You can do that by sharing this episode with others. Also, please follow the Instagram page of sexualassaultsurvivorstories. It also helps the show grow, which is what I hope to accomplish to help lessen the prevalence of rape and sexual assault, as well as the prevalence of rape culture that surrounds us all. It only takes a minute, and I truly appreciate your support. You'll also notice in this episode that there may be ads added to the episode to help bring attention to Survivor School, founded by Arci Grey. SS is an organization in which I play a part as both a Masterclass Presenter, and as a member of the SS advisory panel. There's nothing like this phenomenally innovative approach to healing from trauma and becoming un-stuck. To join Survivor School, please use this link: Thanks again for listening! And as always, listed below are some additional important and meaningful websites I hope you'll take a look at and learn more about.   

Welcome back to Sexual Assault Survivor Stories, the SASS Podcast. In this powerful and impactful episode, we begin a multi-episode series featuring Rachel Izzo, a brave survivor who shares her gripping story of multiple sexual assaults and rapes. Rachel's journey is not only important for its emotional depth but also for the unique perspective she offers from a law enforcement lens. Her experience shines a light on critical aspects of how the justice system intersects with sexual assault cases and the challenges that come with it. In this first part of Rachel's story, we take an in-depth look at the trauma she endured and how it shaped her path forward. As always, this podcast serves a dual purpose: providing a safe space for survivors to share their experiences and begin their healing process, while also educating professionals in various fields—especially law enforcement—on the complexities of trauma-informed care. Rachel's insights are invaluable, offering a deeper understanding of how trauma affects the brain and body, as well as the long-term impact it can have on survivors. For those who work with victims and survivors, this episode is a vital resource, demonstrating the importance of empathy, understanding, and support when engaging with individuals who have experienced such profound trauma. Rachel's story is not only compelling but also provides a real-world context for how professionals can better approach cases to minimize re-traumatization and foster trust with survivors. As the episode unfolds, you'll hear Rachel's first-hand account of her experiences. The depth and rawness of her narrative will stay with you long after you listen. This is a story of survival, resilience, and courage—a story that must be heard. Stay Tuned: Part Two Coming Next Week This episode marks only the beginning of Rachel's story. As we move into next week's episode, Rachel's journey takes an even more intense turn, particularly when law enforcement becomes involved. The intricacies of her interactions with the justice system reveal a whole new layer of complexity in how survivors navigate the aftermath of sexual violence. You won't want to miss what's coming next. As always, thank you for tuning in and for supporting this podcast's mission to normalize the conversation around rape and sexual assault. By sharing these stories, we are helping to create a more compassionate world where survivors are heard, believed, and supported. Be sure to join us next week for part two of Rachel Izzo's remarkable story. In the meantime, we encourage you to share this episode with your friends, family, and colleagues. Spread the word about Sexual Assault Survivor Stories, as we continue to amplify the voices of survivors and educate the public and professionals on the importance of trauma-informed care. Together, we can make a difference. Resources: If you or someone you know is struggling with the impact of sexual assault, please reach out to a professional or utilize resources such as or Local Support Resources. Subscribe and Support: Don't forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode of Sexual Assault Survivor Stories; and, give us a five-star rating! Your support helps us continue to provide this important platform for survivors and advocates alike. I hope you will also do your part to bring justice to victims and survivors of rape and sexual assault. You can do that by sharing this episode with others, and when you listen to others tell their story of rape or sexual assault, please Start by Believing. Also, please follow the Instagram page of sexualassaultsurvivorstories. It also helps the show grow, which is what I hope to accomplish to help lessen the prevalence of rape and sexual assault, as well as the prevalence of rape culture that surrounds us all. It only takes a minute, and I truly appreciate your support. And as always, listed below are some additional important and meaningful websites I hope you'll take a look at and learn more about.  You'll also notice in this episode that there are ads placed at the beginning, middle, and end of the episode to help bring attention to Arci Grey's Survivor School, an organization in which I play a part as both a Masterclass Presenter, and as a member of the Survivor School advisory panel. There's nothing like this phenomenally innovative approach to healing from trauma and becoming un-stuck. To join Survivor School, please use this link: Thanks again for listening!  

 Part 2 of our interview with Shannon Eaves. "Her book, Sexual Violence and American Slavery: The Making of a Rape Culture in the Antebellum South, was published by UNC Press in 2024. This study examines how the rape and sexual exploitation of enslaved women created a rape culture that was woven into the very fabric of antebellum society, influencing daily life for both the enslaved and enslavers....Shannon earned her Ph.D. from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill and currently serves as an Associate Professor of African American History here at the College of Charleston. She is a specialist in 19th century U.S. History, African American History, and Slavery and Gender in the Antebellum South" (Faculty page).  "It is impossible to separate histories of sexual violence and the enslavement of Black women in the antebellum South. Rape permeated the lives of all who existed in that system: Black and white, male and female, adult and child, enslaved and free. Shannon C. Eaves unflinchingly investigates how both enslaved people and their enslavers experienced the systematic rape and sexual exploitation of bondswomen and came to understand what this culture of sexualized violence meant for themselves and others. Eaves mines a wealth of primary sources including autobiographies, diaries, court records, and more to show that rape and other forms of sexual exploitation entangled slaves and slave owners in battles over power to protect oneself and one's community, power to avenge hurt and humiliation, and power to punish and eliminate future threats" (UNC Press). Now available: Liberty in Louisiana: A Comedy. The oldest play about Louisiana, author James Workman wrote it as a celebration of the Louisiana Purchase. Now it is back in print for the first time in 221 years. Order your copy today! This week in Louisiana history. March 22, 1976. Reese Witherspoon is from New Orleans and is best known for her role in Legally Blonde and Walk the Line. This week in New Orleans history. Maximilian Ferdinand Bonzano, physician, minter, administrator. Born, Ebingen, Germany, March 22, 1821, arrived in New Orleans, 1835, working first in a printing office as a roller boy and then as printer, which provided opportunity to master the English language. Morally opposed to slavery. Also opposed secession and refused to serve the Confederacy. He was elected from his district as a delegate to the state's 1864 constitutional convention, where he chaired the committee on emancipation and personally wrote the ordinance which freed Louisiana's slaves. He lived in the mansion which had served as the headquarters of Gen. Andrew Jackson. This week in Louisiana. Cane River Creole National Park The Texas and Pacific Railway Depot Oakland and Magnolia Plantations 9:00 am - 3:00 pm daily Natchez, LA Website The Cane River region is home to a unique culture; the Creoles. Generations of the same families of workers, enslaved and tenant, and owners lived on these lands for over 200 years. The park tells their stories and preserves the cultural landscape of Oakland and Magnolia Plantations, two of the most intact Creole cotton plantations in the United States.     The hours of operation for Oakland Plantation and Magnolia Plantation are 9:00 a.m. to 3:30 p.m. The plantation grounds, trails, outbuildings, and visitor restrooms are open daily. Guided tours are available Wednesday through Sunday at both sites. The park store, located in the historic Oakland Plantation Store is also open Wednesday through Sunday. The Oakland Plantation Main House is only open on Saturdays and Sundays from 10:00 a.m. to 2:00 p.m. for self-guided tours. The park does not offer visitors services, such as guided tours and shopping at the park store on Mondays and Tuesdays.     The Texas and Pacific Railway Depot in Natchitoches serves as the park visitor center. The depot is open Wednesday through Sunday from 9:00 a.m. to 3:30 p.m.    The park is open daily year-round with the exception of ALL federal holidays. Postcards from Louisiana. Medicare String Band in Natchitoches.  Listen on Apple Podcasts. Listen on audible. Listen on Spotify. Listen on TuneIn. Listen on iHeartRadio. The Louisiana Anthology Home Page. Like us on Facebook. 

Sit back and enjoy fantastic insights from our phenomenal guest Gordon Braxton.  Gordon Braxton joins Katie and Claire to discuss how his work as an activist and educator has shaped his upcoming book, which focuses on violence prevention and specifically addresses black boys. Braxton talks about challenging stereotypes, changing narratives, and the hope he sees in the next generation.  Braxton is a graduate of the University of Virginia and the Harvard Graduate School of Education. He was a peer educator in an all-male anti-violence group at the University of Virginia and won the Black Fraternal Council's Man of the Year Award. After graduating from UVA, he traveled alongside Katie Koestner as a presenter on the topic of sexual violence prevention. Hosts: Katie Koestner and Claire Kaplan Guest: Gordon Braxton Producers: Kelsey Styles and Emily Wang Editor: Kelsey Styles Guest Coordinator: Emily Wang

I have listened, on and off, to the Dear Katie: Survivor Stories podcast for several years and had it in the back of my head that doing a podshare episode with her might be something that both our audiences might find informative and enlightening. So, with nothing to lose, I sent off an email asking if this was something she might be interested in. She responded that she thought it was a great idea—here's that episode! This was recorded in the fall of 2024, so some of the references made might be a tiny it outdated, but the content of the episode is, and will be forever, vitally pertinent and ageless! If you want to hear a slightly different version of this same episode from the Dear Katie: Survivor Stories podcast that aired on March 6, 2025, the link is listed below. Her producers edited this mutual interview a little bit differently than I did. For those of you who don't know Katie: Katie Koestner appeared on the cover of TIME Magazine at age 18 as the first to speak out as the victim of “date rape”, talks with survivors of sexual assault, rape and abuse about what they went through and how it impacted their life afterward. Katie delves into backlash, legal systems, campus reactions, family and friends, mental health, PTSD, substance use, body image, and the journey from hurt to healing and thriving. (Cite: Dear Katie Podcast home page: , copied 18 March, 2025.) I think you'll find this episode extremely informative, as we both describe our sexual assault and rape experiences as well as the impacts each of us endured, and how our healing journeys started and have progressed. And you'll hear our mutual responses to being made aware of each other's stories…it's quite the episode, I think you'll agree. This was a true pleasure and honor to do with Katie, and I am thrilled and honored that she agreed to do this with me! Thank you for being a SASS listener. Please subscribe to the show, then give it a five-star rating. This helps in the grand scheme of algorithms to increase the opportunity of more people to know about and listen to this important and powerful podcast. I hope you will also do your part to bring justice to victims and survivors of rape and sexual assault. You can do that by sharing this episode with others, and that when you listen to others tell their story of rape or sexual assault, you'll Start by Believing. Also, please follow the Instagram page of sexualassaultsurvivorstories. It also helps the show grow, which is what I hope to accomplish to help lessen the prevalence of rape and sexual assault, as well as the prevalence of rape culture that surrounds us all. It only takes a minute, and I truly appreciate your support. And as always, listed below are some additional important and meaningful websites I hope you'll take a look at and learn more about.  You'll also notice in this episode that there are ads placed at the beginning, middle, and end of the episode to help bring attention to Arci Grey's Survivor School, an organization in which I play a part as both a Masterclass Presenter, and as a member of the Survivor School advisory panel. There's nothing like this phenomenally innovative approach to healing from trauma and becoming un-stuck. To join Survivor School, please use this link: Thanks again for listening!  

617. Part 1 of our interview with Shannon Eaves. "Her book, Sexual Violence and American Slavery: The Making of a Rape Culture in the Antebellum South, was published by UNC Press in 2024. This study examines how the rape and sexual exploitation of enslaved women created a rape culture that was woven into the very fabric of antebellum society, influencing daily life for both the enslaved and enslavers.... Shannon earned her Ph.D. from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill and currently serves as an Associate Professor of African American History here at the College of Charleston. She is a specialist in 19th century U.S. History, African American History, and Slavery and Gender in the Antebellum South" (Faculty page).  "It is impossible to separate histories of sexual violence and the enslavement of Black women in the antebellum South. Rape permeated the lives of all who existed in that system: Black and white, male and female, adult and child, enslaved and free. Shannon C. Eaves unflinchingly investigates how both enslaved people and their enslavers experienced the systematic rape and sexual exploitation of bondswomen and came to understand what this culture of sexualized violence meant for themselves and others. Eaves mines a wealth of primary sources including autobiographies, diaries, court records, and more to show that rape and other forms of sexual exploitation entangled slaves and slave owners in battles over power to protect oneself and one's community, power to avenge hurt and humiliation, and power to punish and eliminate future threats" (UNC Press). Now available: Liberty in Louisiana: A Comedy. The oldest play about Louisiana, author James Workman wrote it as a celebration of the Louisiana Purchase. Now it is back in print for the first time in 221 years. Order your copy today! This week in Louisiana history. March 15, 1870. Cameron Parish created from Calcasieu Parish. This week in New Orleans history. The New Orleans Savings Institution, was incorporated by the Louisiana legislative act of March 15, 1855. This week in Louisiana. Alexandria Zoo 3016 Masonic Drive Alexandria, LA 71301 Open 9 am. Last Entry 4:30 pm. Closed 5:00 pm. Closed only Thanksgiving, Christmas, & New Year's Day. 318.441.6810 Website The Alexandria Zoological Park is a 33-acre (13 ha) zoo located in Alexandria, Louisiana, United States. First opened to the public in 1926, it is owned by the City of Alexandria and operated by the Division of Public Works. It is home to about 500 animals and a nice train ride. Postcards from Louisiana. Medicare String Band in Natchitoches. Listen on Apple Podcasts. Listen on audible. Listen on Spotify. Listen on TuneIn. Listen on iHeartRadio. The Louisiana Anthology Home Page. Like us on Facebook. 

Welcome to Part 4, the powerful conclusion of this compelling four-part series featuring Kaitlin Hurley-Fields and her devoted father, Derrick Hurley. In this deeply moving final episode, Kaitlin and Derrick share powerful reflections on their emotional journey through trauma, justice, healing, and advocacy following Kaitlin's devastating rape by a visiting UK police officer in Antigua. Derrick Hurley's book, Antiguan Justice: A Father's Fight, poignantly captures their family's heart-wrenching struggle. Derrick's unwavering pursuit of justice demonstrates the profound strength of parental love and determination, as he battled tirelessly to extradite Kaitlin's attacker from England to Antigua—a monumental legal victory and a significant moment in international justice. In this episode, Kaitlin bravely and candidly shares profound insights about reclaiming her identity, rebuilding trust, and channeling her experience into advocacy to empower others. Derrick provides intimate perspectives on the impact this trauma had on their family dynamics, his own emotional journey as a father, and the transformative power of community support. Their story isn't simply one of survival—it's a testament to the extraordinary resilience, courage, and commitment required to confront and dismantle rape culture worldwide. This series highlights the critical importance of listening, believing, and supporting survivors of sexual assault, emphasizing why Kaitlin's story is essential in fostering dialogue and driving social change. Thank you for being a devoted SASS listener. Your engagement helps amplify the voices of survivors and contributes significantly toward dismantling the harmful silence surrounding rape and sexual assault. Please subscribe to the show and leave a five-star rating—it dramatically enhances our ability to reach and support more listeners. Share this vital episode widely, and always remember, when someone shares their story with you—Start by Believing. Follow us on Instagram at sexualassaultsurvivorstories to support the show's growth and help us collectively combat rape culture. Your support matters deeply, and we sincerely thank you for standing with us.    

I want to share with you, again, the opening paragraph from Derrick Hurley's website about the book he wrote: Antiguan Justice: A Father's Fight… it's important and powerful enough that it bears making sure you read it to emphasize the importance of not only the family's stirring struggle to survive Kailin's horrific rape, but also the extent that a loving father will go to help bring justice to his daughter: Derrick Hurley, a devoted father, found himself in a heart-wrenching battle when his daughter, Kaitlin Hurley, fell victim to a harrowing crime in 2015. Kaitlin, a nursing student living in Antigua, endured a traumatic experience at the hands of a London police officer, Lee Martin-Cramp, who was visiting the island with his family. In his gripping and emotionally charged 220-page book, “Antiguan Justice: A Father's Fight,” Derrick Hurley bares his soul, recounting the extraordinary odyssey he embarked upon when his daughter became the tragic victim of a heinous crime. () This episode is fascinating because it not only features Derrick's ongoing struggle to get his daughter's perpetrator extradited back to Antigua from England, but also Kaitlin's personal story of a big portion of her healing process. The importance of her struggle can't be overstated. Kaitlin gives her formidable and crucially important insights on her healing journey. I think the reason this portion of the episode is so powerful is because Kaitlin tells it in such a way that it makes you captivatingly aware of her raw strength and determination in pushing toward normalizing the conversation and her life. Truly, Kaitlin is the archetype of courage. Thank you for being a SASS listener. Please subscribe to the show, then give it a five-star rating. This helps in the grand scheme of algorithms to increase the opportunity of more people to know about and listen to this important and powerful podcast. I hope you will also do your part to bring justice to victims and survivors of rape and sexual assault. You can do that by sharing this episode with others, and that when you listen to others tell their story of rape or sexual assault, you'll Start by Believing. Also, please follow the Instagram page of sexualassaultsurvivorstories. It also helps the show grow, which is what I hope to accomplish to help lessen the prevalence of rape and sexual assault, as well as the prevalence of rape culture that surrounds us all. It only takes a minute, and I truly appreciate your support. And as always, listed below are some additional important and meaningful websites I hope you'll take a look at and learn more about.  Thanks again for listening!  

Let me share with you the opening paragraph from Derrick Hurley's website about the book he wrote: Antiguan Justice: A Father's Fight… Derrick Hurley, a devoted father, found himself in a heart-wrenching battle when his daughter, Kaitlin Hurley, fell victim to a harrowing crime in 2015. Kaitlin, a nursing student living in Antigua, endured a traumatic experience at the hands of a London police officer, Lee Martin-Cramp, who was visiting the island with his family. In his gripping and emotionally charged 220-page book, “Antiguan Justice: A Father's Fight,” Derrick Hurley bares his soul, recounting the extraordinary odyssey he embarked upon when his daughter became the tragic victim of a heinous crime. () There is no gentle way to explain how terrifying this story is. And Derrick holds nothing back in telling what his daughter, Kaitlin, and his entire family endured in the long fight for justice for Kaitlin. But, the bright side of this story is that justice was served. And Kaitlin and her family endured and continue to bring justice to thousands of people by sharing their story. It's an important story to be told, and this is an important podcast to listen to…because we need to normalize this type of story, and the conversations that are necessary to help put an end to rape culture in this country and around the world. In fact, this is an extraordinary episode, because it is Kaitlin's first time being on a podcast in order to share her experience of the heinous rape she endured at the hands of a UK police officer who was on vacation with his family in Antigua where the crime occurred.  The fight for justice was grueling. And Kaitlin acknowledges that she'll never be the same person she was before the rape. In the end, the fight to get justice was worth every agonizing aspect of the struggle. This is an amazing story, an amazing book, and an amazing episode, Part 1! Thank you for being a SASS listener. Please subscribe to the show, then give it a five-star rating. This helps in the grand scheme of algorithms to increase the opportunity of more people to know about and listen to this important and powerful podcast. I hope you will also do your part to bring justice to victims and survivors of rape and sexual assault. You can do that by sharing this episode with others, and that when you listen to others tell their story of rape or sexual assault, you'll Start by Believing. Also, please follow the Instagram page of sexualassaultsurvivorstories. It also helps the show grow, which is what I hope to accomplish to help lessen the prevalence of rape and sexual assault, as well as the prevalence of rape culture that surrounds us all. It only takes a minute, and I truly appreciate your support. And as always, listed below are some additional important and meaningful websites I hope you'll take a look at and learn more about.  Thanks again for listening!   

Hey, it's Cindy, send me a text, get in touch![Technology] [Gender-Based Violence] #21: In this special bonus Valentine's Day episode, we meet Lucrezia Spagnolo, founder of VESTA Social Innovation Technologies, a platform dedicated to supporting survivors of gender-based violence through privacy-focused, survivor-led tech solutions. With a background in international finance, she left the corporate world to tackle systemic barriers that prevent survivors from seeking justice. Recognized as a subject specialist in global research on tech-facilitated abuse, Lucrezia is redefining how technology can be used to empower, protect, and support survivors.Company Website: VESTA SIT (Social Innovation Technologies)LinkedIn: Lucrezia Spagnolo + VESTA SITVESTA SIT Mini-Podcast SeriesRESOURCE LIBRARY FOR SURVIVORSArticle: Valentine's Day and Emotional Abuse: The Emotional Ties Between The Two

When I found BB Gabriel on Instagram (), and read about her book, No Ordinary Love, I wasted no time in reaching out to her to ask her to be a guest on this show. BB readily agreed, but due to some medical issues that came up for her, we had to wait awhile to get her episode recorded. It is with tremendous honor that I am finally able to bring you this episode!  BB had no hesitation in sharing her profound journey as a survivor of multiple sexual assaults and domestic violence. She discusses her ongoing medical challenges, the emotional impact of her experiences, and the importance of healing and self-discovery. BB also emphasizes the significance of safe spaces for survivors and the role of mental health in recovery. And she delves into the story behind her book, 'No Ordinary Love,' and reflects on the complexities of survivor narratives. I'm thrilled to bring you this episode because BB shares her deeply personal journey of healing from trauma, particularly focusing on her experiences with domestic violence and sexual assault. She discusses the complexities of trauma responses, the long-lasting impacts on her life, and the therapeutic power of writing as a means of processing her experiences. BB talks about the crucial importance of support systems and coping mechanisms in her healing journey, highlighting the role of community and self-care in navigating the challenges of trauma recovery. This is an episode you don't want to miss. Here's the link to go directly to Amazon to buy BB's book!...which you should do, in my esteemed and highly sought-after opinion: Thank you for being a SASS listener. Please subscribe to the show, then give it a five-star rating. This helps in the grand scheme of algorithms to increase the opportunity of more people to know about and listen to this important and powerful podcast. I hope you will also do your part to bring justice to victims and survivors of rape and sexual assault. You can do that by sharing this episode with others, and that when you listen to others tell their story of rape or sexual assault, you'll Start by Believing. Also, please follow the Instagram page of sexualassaultsurvivorstories. It also helps the show grow, which is what I hope to accomplish to help lessen the prevalence of rape and sexual assault, as well as the prevalence of rape culture that surrounds us all. It only takes a minute, and I truly appreciate your support. And as always, listed below are some additional important and meaningful websites I hope you'll take a look at and learn about. Thanks again for listening!  

If you know John Stamos (yes, the multi-time Emmy nominated actor, co-star of  TV's “Full House,” and author of “If You Would Have Told Me: A Memoir"), or if you know someone who does, please let him know there's a letter waiting for him here, written by my guest on this week's episode, Rosa: ****************************************************************************************  [Dear John and Everyone,] If you would have told me back in 2005 when I was just 15 years old that John Stamos would write a book and make a viral video that would push me to take an important step in my life, I never would have believed you. John Stamos, you and I have so much in common. We are both diehard Disney fans and also childhood sexual assault victims. As you recently mentioned at the D23 event, Disney fills us with a relentless belief that our dreams have no expiration date. No one should ever have to dream of getting justice or closure from a childhood sexual assault. Unfortunately, it happens to so many of us, including you and me.   Like you, there was also a time in my life where I didn't want to kill myself, but also didn't care if I died. And also like you, I'm so glad I didn't die. The best years of my life hadn't happened yet. I'm grateful that God gave us both many more beautiful years to experience. And I wish us both many healthy years filled with unexplainable joy better than we could ever imagine.   I was only 15 years old when my parents dropped the childhood sexual assault charges against the perpetrator. I had no say because I was a minor. For the longest time, I felt like I didn't belong in the world. I felt alone and unsupported by those who should have supported me the most. I felt angry. During those years, one of the few ways I found laughter, relief, and joy was by watching Full House reruns.   You made me laugh back then when it was nearly impossible to do so. Six years later, I began to rebuild my life little by little. Each year, I continue to experience more joy than the last. Your book and video gave me the final courage to reopen the case and press charges against the perpetrator. I hope that one day I can hug you and thank you in person. But until then, I hope this reaches you so that you know just how much you helped me. Your video was the one missing piece I needed to take that final step for justice. I have so much love and respect for you, John. Thank you for speaking out. I hope my story helps someone like yours helped me. This isn't the only important message that Rosa wants to share; she's on a mission to get Connecticut state lawmakers to change the statute-of-limitations law for sexual assault and rape victims, particularly child victims. There's a back story here, so make sure you listen to this episode. It is critically important.  And, while I'm asking for my listeners to fulfill my call-to-action, here's another one: please, please share this episode. Just hit that copy button to send it to everyone you can think of, including Connecticut lawmakers. Especially if you live in Connecticut! There's a lot to this episode. I hope you listen to it. It won't take much of your time, but it will definitely leave you feeling like you've heard something substantially worthwhile! Thank you for being a SASS listener. Please subscribe to the show, then give it a five-star rating. This helps in the grand scheme of algorithms to increase the opportunity of more people to know about and listen to this important and powerful podcast. I hope you will also do your part to bring justice to victims and survivors of rape and sexual assault. You can do that by sharing this episode with others, and that when you listen to others tell their story of rape or sexual assault, you'll Start by Believing. Also, please follow the Instagram page of sexualassaultsurvivorstories. It also helps the show grow, which is what I hope to accomplish to help lessen the prevalence of rape and sexual assault, as well as the prevalence of rape culture that surrounds us all. It only takes a minute, and I truly appreciate your support. And as always, listed below are some important and meaningful websites I hope you'll take a look at and learn about. Thanks again for listening!   #napanews #arcigrey #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation #janbroberg #safeinharmsway #epizonstrategy #intentionallyfearless #thelastimsorry #feelingsmall #sasspodcast #traumainformed #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #traumainformedexpert #sexassaultvictim #survivorsunite #rapevictim #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #podcast #markelconsulting #jessicapridelawfirm #gettraumainformed #safeinharmsway #projectbeloved #saan #irishangel #crimevictimsassistancecenter #coloradoassociationofsexcrimeinvestigators #girlsfightback #outdoordefense #worthfightingfor #thejanbrobergshow #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation

It's quite an honor to have Arci Grey come back as my guest this week as she introduces Survivor School, an online trauma-informed personal development platform designed for trauma survivors! Our discussion covers the journey of establishing the school, the diverse range of experts involved, and the various modalities offered to support healing. Arci emphasizes the importance of addressing trauma in all aspects of life and invites listeners to engage with the platform. Without giving the whole episode away, I want you to know some of the key take-aways that Arci describes in telling us about Survivor School; she describes for us the 4 pillars of Survivor School: Health & Wellness: Be well.  Trauma can affect your physical health and well-being in many ways including chronic stress and illness. These programs provide resources for managing stress, promoting self-care, and addressing trauma-related health issues, to empower you to regain vitality and thrive. Money & Career Be wealthy. Survivors often face financial instability and stunted personal and professional growth. These programs are designed to help you regain focus and productivity, build financial security and pursue entrepreneurial ventures so that you can regain control of your life and your dreams. Love & Relationships Love again. Trauma can strain relationships and hinder intimacy and trust. These workshops and programs offer strategies and support to cultivate healthy connections, fostering deeper understanding and communication, in personal and intimate relationships. Happiness & Healing Be happy. Trauma can overshadow joy and hinder emotional healing. Here you will find a roadmap to reclaim happiness and inner peace, empowering you to embrace your journey, find purpose, and thrive in life.  (Cite: , home page.) Key Points:       Survivor School is officially open for trauma survivors.       Trauma impacts health, wealth, relationships, and personal growth.       The platform offers a variety of healing modalities beyond traditional therapy.       Over 20 experts contribute to the Survivor School community.       The goal is to provide on-demand resources for trauma recovery.        Survivor School is designed to help individuals regain control of their lives.       The platform includes masterclasses in health, wealth, love, and happiness.        Experts are available for direct questions and support.        The content is tailored to different learning modalities based on neuroscience.          Community engagement is encouraged through live sessions and workshops. Please listen to this fantastic episode and hear the enthusiasm and excitement from Arci herself about this amazing opportunity for survivors to heal and grow! Find out more by checking out these links: Instagram:  @the.survivor.school YouTube:  @TheSurvivorSchool Thank you for being a SASS listener. Please subscribe to the show, then give it a five-star rating. This helps in the grand scheme of algorithms to increase the opportunity of more people to know about and listen to this important and powerful podcast. I hope you will also do your part to bring justice to victims and survivors of rape and sexual assault. You can do that by sharing this episode with others, and that when you listen to others tell their story of rape or sexual assault, you'll Start by Believing. Also, please follow the Instagram page of sexualassaultsurvivorstories. It also helps the show grow, which is what I hope to accomplish to help lessen the prevalence of rape and sexual assault, as well as the prevalence of rape culture that surrounds us all. It only takes a minute, and I truly appreciate your support. And as always, listed below are some important and meaningful websites I hope you'll take a look at and learn about. Thanks again for listening! Instagram:  @the.survivor.school YouTube:  @TheSurvivorSchool   #napanews #arcigrey #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation #janbroberg #safeinharmsway #epizonstrategy #intentionallyfearless #thelastimsorry #feelingsmall #sasspodcast #traumainformed #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #traumainformedexpert #sexassaultvictim #survivorsunite #rapevictim #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #podcast #markelconsulting #jessicapridelawfirm #gettraumainformed #safeinharmsway #projectbeloved #saan #irishangel #crimevictimsassistancecenter #coloradoassociationofsexcrimeinvestigators #girlsfightback #outdoordefense #worthfightingfor #thejanbrobergshow #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation

In this episode, I'm diving deeper than I have in the past into what it really means to be trauma informed. No guest this week—it's just you and me as we unpack the complexities of trauma and how it impacts survivors of rape and sexual assault on physical, emotional, and neurological levels. We'll revisit some core ideas from Episode 115 and take them a step further, focusing on how we can show up for survivors in a way that's not only empathetic but empowering. We'll explore the brain's key players when it comes to trauma—the amygdala, hippocampus, and prefrontal cortex—and how they respond during distressing events. Ever wonder why survivors sometimes struggle with memory or feel stuck in “survival mode”? We break it down in plain terms and discuss how chronic stress can rewire the brain, making it harder to process emotions or even trust others again. But it doesn't stop there; most importantly we'll talk about six practical principles of being trauma-informed, from creating safety to empowering survivors, and how these steps can make a tangible difference in their healing journey. Whether you're a professional in the criminal justice system, healthcare, social work, advocacy, or just someone who wants to be a better ally, this episode is packed with insights to help you take action. Together, we can foster a world where survivors feel seen, heard, and supported every step of the way. Thank you for being a SASS listener. Please subscribe to the show, then give it a five-star rating. This helps in the grand scheme of algorithms to increase the opportunity of more people to know about and listen to this important and powerful podcast. I hope you will also do your part to bring justice to victims and survivors of rape and sexual assault. You can do that by sharing this episode with others, and that when you listen to others tell their story of rape or sexual assault, you'll Start by Believing. Also, please follow the Instagram page of sexualassaultsurvivorstories. It also helps the show grow, which is what I hope to accomplish to help lessen the prevalence of rape and sexual assault, as well as the prevalence of rape culture that surrounds us all. It only takes a minute, and I truly appreciate your support. And as always, listed below are some important and meaningful websites I hope you'll take a look at and learn about. Thanks again for listening!   #napanews #arcigrey #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation #janbroberg #safeinharmsway #epizonstrategy #intentionallyfearless #thelastimsorry #feelingsmall #sasspodcast #traumainformed #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #traumainformedexpert #sexassaultvictim #survivorsunite #rapevictim #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #podcast #markelconsulting #jessicapridelawfirm #gettraumainformed #safeinharmsway #projectbeloved #saan #irishangel #crimevictimsassistancecenter #coloradoassociationofsexcrimeinvestigators #girlsfightback #outdoordefense #worthfightingfor #thejanbrobergshow #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation

Women's Magazine host Lisa Dettmer will talk to two radical French feminists about the Gisèle Pelicot case and rape culture in France generally and how the Pelicot case has ignited and united feminists across Europe and even across the globe to stand up publicly to support Gisele and to speak out about this ubiquitous war on women and how rape culture is accepted and normalized around the world.  First we talk to Blandine Deverlanges from Les Amazones d'Avignon the feminist group that supported Gisele at the trial in Avignon. And then we talk to Sabreen Al Rassace, an intersectional radical feminist of color in France and founder of the French group Lesbians of Color. The post Lisa Dettmer talks to French Feminists Blandine Deverlanges and Sabreen Al Rassace about the Gisèle Pelicot case and rape culture in France appeared first on KPFA.

Carrie is a return guest. The last time she was on this show was in April, 2023, Episode 29. She told us her harrowing story of being adopted into a situation of childhood sexual assault (CSA) at the hands of her adoptive father. The impact was devastating. Yet, Carrie survived and became a strong, resilient woman whose goal became doing all she could to raise awareness of CSA and help bring justice to victims and survivors to help reduce the prevalence of CSA. That goal and her efforts to advocate for victims and survivors has only amplified since last we talked on this show. Since then, Carrie and I have maintained contact, on and off, mostly through texting and social media. Just a few weeks ago, I suggested to Carrie that maybe it was time to have her back on this show to tell us how life has been since she was last interviewed, and how her healing journey has progressed.  Since her last appearance, Carrie has gotten married: she's now Carrie Eberts. And she's moved to Missouri. And also she has geared down in her presence on social media. Where she once had a site that had 1000+ followers, she had downgraded to a much smaller presence. She explains why in this episode. But what she hasn't done is downgraded in her desire to be an advocate for child victims and survivors of sexual assault. Nor has she become less of an influence. She just takes a different approach now. And part of that is appearing on this show to bring us all up to date.  Carrie maintains her strong presence and her desire to raise awareness of childhood sexual abuse and still works hard to bring down the prevalence rate. She proclaims that she will always strive to help victims and survivors on their healing journey. She is relentless in her will and efforts to do just that. And I am proud that she is back to tell us all about it.   As I said last time Carrie joined us, “I appreciate Carrie and all she is doing to help victims and survivors. And after listening to her story and words of encouragement, I think you, too, will appreciate Carrie.” Thank you for being a SASS listener. Please subscribe to the show, then give it a five-star rating. This helps in the grand scheme of algorithms to increase the opportunity of more people to know about and listen to this important and powerful podcast. I hope you will also do your part to bring justice to victims and survivors of rape and sexual assault. You can do that by sharing this episode with others, and that when you listen to others tell their story of rape or sexual assault, you'll Start by Believing. Also, please follow the Instagram page of sexualassaultsurvivorstories. It also helps the show grow, which is what I hope to accomplish to help lessen the prevalence of rape and sexual assault, as well as the prevalence of rape culture that surrounds us all. It only takes a minute and I truly appreciate your support. And as always, here are some important and meaningful websites I hope you'll take a look at and learn about. And, finally, again…HAPPY NEW YEAR! I hope each of you find joy, happiness, fulfillment, healing, and love this coming year! Thanks again for listening!   #napanews #arcigrey #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation #janbroberg #safeinharmsway #epizonstrategy #intentionallyfearless #thelastimsorry #feelingsmall #sasspodcast #traumainformed #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #traumainformedexpert #sexassaultvictim #survivorsunite #rapevictim #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #podcast #markelconsulting #jessicapridelawfirm #gettraumainformed #safeinharmsway #projectbeloved #saan #irishangel #crimevictimsassistancecenter #coloradoassociationofsexcrimeinvestigators #girlsfightback #outdoordefense #worthfightingfor #thejanbrobergshow #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation

This week's episode is an exciting example of a topic I've discussed numerous times on this show: implicit and explicit memory—what these are, and how they work together to provide a powerful impact in finding out more about a survivors rape and sexual assault experiences…IF the person doing the interview is trauma informed and knows how to ask the right questions in the right ways. The resultant responses can provide more than a person doing the interview ever dreamed possible!  Last week's guest, Janna MacLean, reached out to me just two days after her original episode recording to tell me that what I had warned her about, how talking about her rape and sexual assault experiences could and probably would activate implicit memories…memories she didn't know were even in her brain, had actually happened, and now she was realizing she'd left som much out of her original telling of her rape and sexual assault experiences.  Janna asked if she could come back on the show to talk about this and make listeners aware of how real and how powerful this brain phenomena truly is. The answer was a no brainer for me…of course, yes, let's do this! And thank you for even having the courage, fortitude, and strength to want to do this!  WoW! What a powerful episode this is! I can hardly wait for you to hear it! Thank you for being a SASS listener. Please subscribe to the show, then give it a five-star rating. This helps in the grand scheme of algorithms to increase the opportunity of more people to know about and listen to this important and powerful podcast. Also, please follow the Instagram page of sexualassaultsurvivorstories. It all helps the show grow. Which is what I hope to accomplish to help lessen the prevalence of rape and sexual assault, as well as the prevalence of rape culture that surrounds us all. And as always, here are some important and meaningful websites I hope you'll take a look at and learn about. And, finally…HAPPY NEW YEAR! I hope each of you find joy, happiness, fulfillment, healing, and love this coming year! Thanks again for listening!   #napanews #arcigrey #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation #janbroberg #safeinharmsway #epizonstrategy #intentionallyfearless #thelastimsorry #feelingsmall #sasspodcast #traumainformed #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #traumainformedexpert #sexassaultvictim #survivorsunite #rapevictim #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #podcast #markelconsulting #jessicapridelawfirm #gettraumainformed #safeinharmsway #projectbeloved #saan #irishangel #crimevictimsassistancecenter #coloradoassociationofsexcrimeinvestigators #girlsfightback #outdoordefense #worthfightingfor #thejanbrobergshow #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation

This week's episode delves into the harrowing story of Janna, who at the beginning of this story was a young high schooler who fell prey to a manipulative groomer. This individual, initially presenting himself as a kind, attentive, and compassionate confidante, captivated Janna with his charm. Unfortunately, these qualities often mask a predatory nature, as charm can be a powerful tool for sexual predators. Such was the case of this predator.  Janna, seeking solace and understanding during a difficult period marked by anxiety episodes, found an attentive ear in this individual. His support fostered a sense of connection, leading Janna to hope for a deeper, more meaningful relationship. However, this "support" was merely a calculated ploy, a tactic to gain Janna's trust and gradually isolate her.  The groomer, using manipulative tactics, consistently delayed the progression of their relationship, citing a need for time and contemplation. This period of uncertainty intensified the grooming process, allowing the predator to gradually exert greater control over Janna's emotions and erode her self-confidence. Beneath the façade of kindness and consideration lay a cunning manipulator. His affection fluctuated dramatically, amplified when his sexual desires were met and swiftly withdrawn when they weren't. This pattern of intermittent reinforcement created a cycle of dependence and emotional turmoil for Janna. The manipulation resulted in a series of sexual assaults, culminating in a devastating act of rape. Throughout these traumatic experiences, the rapist systematically gaslighted Janna, convincing her that she had willingly consented to all sexual encounters. He cruelly dismissed her doubts and confusion as figments of her imagination, further eroding her sense of self-worth. Ultimately, the rapist succeeded in shifting the blame, convincing Janna that she was the abuser, the manipulator. This insidious tactic of victim-blaming is a common strategy employed by perpetrators to evade accountability for their heinous actions. This episode serves as a stark reminder of the dangers of predatory grooming and the devastating impact it can have on young, vulnerable individuals. And it highlights the importance of recognizing the warning signs of manipulation and cultivating healthy boundaries in relationships. Thank you for being a SASS listener. Please subscribe to the show, then give it a five-star rating. This helps in the grand scheme of algorithms to increase the opportunity of more people to know about and listen to this important and powerful podcast. Also, please follow the Instagram page of sexualassaultsurvivorstories. It all helps the show grow. Which is what I hope to accomplish to help lessen the prevalence of rape and sexual assault, as well as the prevalence of rape culture that surrounds us all. And as always, here are some important and meaningful websites I hope you'll take a look at and learn about. Thanks again!   #napanews #arcigrey #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation #janbroberg #safeinharmsway #epizonstrategy #intentionallyfearless #thelastimsorry #feelingsmall #sasspodcast #traumainformed #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #traumainformedexpert #sexassaultvictim #survivorsunite #rapevictim #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #podcast #markelconsulting #jessicapridelawfirm #gettraumainformed #safeinharmsway #projectbeloved #saan #irishangel #crimevictimsassistancecenter #coloradoassociationofsexcrimeinvestigators #girlsfightback #outdoordefense #worthfightingfor #thejanbrobergshow #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation    

Jeanna is one of my most loyal listeners of this podcast…when she originally found Sexual Assault Survivor Stories she was so enthralled by the content that she binge-listened to every single episode. That's impressive listening. Then, she wrote me a nice, long, kind, email telling me about some of her favorite episodes. And she told me she wanted to speak with me.  So we had a great phone conversation. Not long afterward, she told me she was ready to come on the show and tell her sexual assault and rape stories. So we did that. Episode 111. You'll not want to miss it. Then, last week I posted Episode 115…a solo episode of me talking about the neuroscience of trauma, and how sexual trauma impacts our brains and our bodies. Jeanna listened to it then almost immediately reached out to me to ask if we could do another episode because she had some insights of her own that she wanted to share with the SASS audience about how sexual trauma had impacted her. What a remarkable episode this is…I truly appreciate Jeanna's insights and her desire to come back on the show and discuss with me her thoughts and impressions. This is definitely an episode that you will grow and heal from. I highly recommend listening. Additionally, both Jeanna and I would love to hear your impressions of our discussion, and the impact of this episode on your healing and learning processes. My email address is below. Thank you! Thank you for being a SASS listener. Please subscribe to the show, and please follow the Instagram page of sexualassaultsurvivorstories. It all helps the show grow. Which is what I hope to accomplish to help lessen the prevalence of rape and sexual assault, as well as the prevalence rate of the rape culture that surrounds us all. And as always, here are some important and meaningful websites I hope you'll take a look at and learn about. Thanks again!   #napanews #arcigrey #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation #janbroberg #safeinharmsway #epizonstrategy #intentionallyfearless #thelastimsorry #feelingsmall #sasspodcast #traumainformed #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #traumainformedexpert #sexassaultvictim #survivorsunite #rapevictim #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #podcast #markelconsulting #jessicapridelawfirm #gettraumainformed #safeinharmsway #projectbeloved #saan #irishangel #crimevictimsassistancecenter #coloradoassociationofsexcrimeinvestigators #girlsfightback #outdoordefense #worthfightingfor #thejanbrobergshow #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation

The week leading up to this episode has been rather strange for me, because it included two potential guest appearances that didn't come together as planned. But that's okay, because it provided the opportunity for me to do something I had been wanting to do for months: a monologue follow-up on Episode 21 from over a year ago. Something else you should know: I'm not one of those hosts who uses the podcast notes to summarize the podcast in an outline format, point by point. I'd rather just give a brief explanation of the topic and then let you listen to the episode for the details. So, there you have it. I hope this episode educates, informs, enlightens, and helps each one of you understand more of the dynamics of the neurological and psychological impacts of rape and sexual assault trauma. And as always, here are some important and meaningful websites I hope you'll take a look at and learn about. Thank you for being a SASS listener. Please subscribe to the show, and please follow the Instagram page of sexualassaultsurvivorstories. It all helps the show grow. Which is what I hope to accomplish to help lessen the prevalence of rape and sexual assault, as well as the prevalence rate of the rape culture that surrounds us all. Thanks again!       #napanews #arcigrey #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation #janbroberg #safeinharmsway #epizonstrategy #intentionallyfearless #thelastimsorry #feelingsmall #sasspodcast #traumainformed #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #traumainformedexpert #sexassaultvictim #survivorsunite #rapevictim #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #podcast #markelconsulting #jessicapridelawfirm #gettraumainformed #safeinharmsway #projectbeloved #saan #irishangel #crimevictimsassistancecenter #coloradoassociationofsexcrimeinvestigators #girlsfightback #outdoordefense #worthfightingfor #thejanbrobergshow #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation

In this deeply moving episode, I am joined by a friend of the podcast and host of The Jan Broberg Show, none other than Jan herself, to help interview AJ, a brave survivor who shares her extraordinary journey of overcoming extensive abuse and discovering her own strength. Together, the three of us explore the vital role of community support in the healing process, with a special focus on the Thrivivors community, which has been an integral part of AJ's recovery. The conversation delves into AJ's personal journey, examining the profound impact of childhood trauma on her development and the coping mechanisms she had to create in order to survive. AJ's story opens a window into the often hidden world of familial abuse and trafficking, shedding light on the long-term effects of trauma and the toxic façade of normalcy that can sometimes surround abusive families. The discussion also touches on the critical importance of trauma-informed care and how sharing one's story can be a powerful tool for healing and empowering others. Throughout the episode, Jan, myself, and AJ emphasize how deeply childhood trauma and abuse can affect mental health, personal identity, and relationships. AJ courageously shares her harrowing experiences of being trafficked and abused, highlighting her struggle with complex PTSD and the difficult but necessary journey toward healing and self-acceptance. As the conversation unfolds, we explore the complexities of navigating trust in relationships, particularly the challenge of reframing relationships with abusers—especially when those abusers are family members—in order to heal. The episode concludes with a heartfelt focus on recovery, self-love, and the ongoing journey of healing. AJ's resilience and determination to tell her story serve as a powerful reminder of the strength of survivors and the importance of community and support. This episode of S.A.S.S. is dedicated to those who share their stories and to those who listen and learn from them. Both Jan and I extend our heartfelt thanks to AJ for bravely sharing her incredibly difficult story and for being a powerful force in this conversation. AJ's strength and determination to get her story out there are truly inspiring, and her journey toward healing continues to serve as a beacon of hope for others. S.A.S.S.--Normalizing the Conversation.™️ Thank you for being here to listen to AJ's interview. After you've heard this episode, please do all you can to share this episode with everyone you know. And also, to Start By Believing…because we all know someone whose life has been impacted by rape or sexual assault. Another big favor I would ask is that you rate and subscribe to this podcast. It all helps the podcast grow, which in turn helps bring justice to victims and survivors of rape and sexual assault. By the way, it would be immensely appreciated if you would take just a few seconds of your time to please find the sexualassaultsurvivorstories page on Instagram and hit the follow button!! Thank you for being part of my audience, and please become a regular listener and subscriber! A positive rating would also be greatly appreciated!  Here are some important links I hope you'll take the time to look at:   #napanews #arcigrey #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation #janbroberg #safeinharmsway #epizonstrategy #intentionallyfearless #thelastimsorry #feelingsmall #sasspodcast #traumainformed #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #traumainformedexpert #sexassaultvictim #survivorsunite #rapevictim #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #podcast #markelconsulting #jessicapridelawfirm #gettraumainformed #safeinharmsway #projectbeloved #saan #irishangel #crimevictimsassistancecenter #coloradoassociationofsexcrimeinvestigators #girlsfightback #outdoordefense #worthfightingfor #thejanbrobergshow #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation

It's not at all common for me to do follow-up episodes so close together in the sequence of episodes, but this opportunity is so meaningful and appropriate this week that I just had to share it with you now, instead of sometime down the line. So, Happy Thanksgiving, everyone! Melissa Fairchild is back (take a listen to her first episode on the show: Episode 96!) to give us an update on her healing journey. As you'll hear in the episode, this wasn't really planned—it just sort of happened when she called me a few days ago to say hi, check in, and wish me a Happy Thanksgiving. I suddenly felt inspired to ask if she'd like to record a follow-up interview to bring you all up to date on how her healing has been progressing, and she readily agreed. I had no idea that what she would end up describing would evolve into what I consider the perfect Thanksgiving episode, but that's exactly what happened. And it's all because of Melissa's incredible spirit, her loving and generous heart, and her volunteer work to support those who are less fortunate than many of us and have endured horrendous traumas. This has turned into a powerfully appropriate episode for this week…again, Happy Thanksgiving! Thank you for being here to listen to Melissa's follow-up conversation. After you've heard this episode, please share it with everyone you know. Also, start by believing whenever you hear someone telling their rape or sexual assault survivor story, because we all know someone whose life has been impacted by these traumas. Another big favor I'd ask is that you rate and subscribe to this podcast. It all helps the podcast grow, which, in turn, helps bring justice to victims and survivors of rape and sexual assault. By the way, it would be immensely appreciated if you would take just a few seconds to find the sexualassaultsurvivorstories page on Instagram and hit the follow button! Thank you for being part of my audience, and please become a regular listener and subscriber. You are all a huge part of what I am thankful for this year! So, thank you for your loyalty. Here are some important collaborators whose websites I hope you'll check out and support. Spread the word about the work each of these organizations does—you'll be helping to bring justice to victims and survivors of rape and sexual assault! Thank you!   https://evawintl.org/ https://www.survivorlawyer.com/ #napanews #arcigrey #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation #janbroberg #safeinharmsway #epizonstrategy #intentionallyfearless #thelastimsorry #feelingsmall #sasspodcast #jessicapride #survivorlawyer #traumainformed #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #traumainformedexpert #sexassaultvictim #survivorsunite #rapevictim #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #podcast #markelconsulting #jessicapridelawfirm #gettraumainformed #safeinharmsway #projectbeloved #saan #irishangel #crimevictimsassistancecenter #coloradoassociationofsexcrimeinvestigators #girlsfightback #outdoordefense #worthfightingfor #thejanbrobergshow #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation #sassyselfdefenseguide #badassselfdefense #imworthfightingfor #vawa #ashforduniversity #amandacoleman #remembermolly #fightrapeculture #forcescience

If there's something that many of Trump's cabinet nominees have in common, it is being credibly accused of sexual assault. Why is Trump—and MAGA world more widely—so enthusiastic about not just tolerating but elevating men with sordid, even criminal, pasts? There's Matt Gaetz, Trump's pick for US Attorney General, who withdraw from consideration on Thursday after yet another allegation of sex trafficking Then there's Pete Hegseth, Trump's slimy nominee for Secretary of Defense—not to mention Trump himself! Kavanaugh, RFK Jr., Herbster…the list goes on. This week on How We Got Here, Erin and Max interrogate why MAGA is appealing to sexually abusive men, and to what extent voters pulled the lever for Trump despite his rampant misogyny, versus because of it.

Moira and Adrian delve reluctantly into the horror, the horror -- aka the results of the 2024 presidential election. We didn't realize it when we recorded it, but this will be first installment in a series. This episode touches on split ticket voting, post-election anti-wokeness debates, the "tech bro" narrative. In the episode, we also mention Kate Manne's Substack essay "Trump's Election is a Triumph of Rape Culture" -- and we point folks to the new IBWTR Patreon! Like and subscribe, as they say!

After a way too long wait for a follow-up interview with Lee Cooper, this week we finally get it done! Lee suggested a follow-up during a conversation we were having a few weeks ago…here it is! I'm thrilled to bring you this episode! In this conversation, Lee provides an update on his ongoing legal battle against his perpetrator, discussing the challenges he has faced within the UK justice system. He shares insights into the trauma of waiting for a trial and the difficulties of navigating police procedures. Additionally, Lee introduces Victorious Voices, a community he has built to support survivors of sexual assault, emphasizing the importance of connection and shared experiences in healing. Lee and I discuss the challenges and triumphs of the Victorious Voices project, which aims to give a voice to survivors of trauma through art. We got explore the impact of a recent exhibition at the University of Glasgow that faced controversy over the visibility of trauma-related art. The discussion emphasizes the importance of community, education, and the need to confront difficult subjects like child sexual abuse (CSA) to normalize conversations around mental health and trauma. You'll hear how the exhibit was moved from it's prominent position of being the first exhibit visible upon enter the building, to a secluded, almost “Invisible” place, nowhere close to its original positioning. Lee wants an apology, not just an excuse for why the exhibit was moved. Here are the names and contact links for writing to personnel at the University of Glasgow in helping our demand for an apology to Lee and the persons depicted in the exhibit who showed their strength and bravery in being photographed for the exhibit: There's also a petition…and although the exhibit is over and gone, we're asking for your help in the hope that the University will respond by allowing Lee's exhibit to be displayed again! Please sign the petition by going to the link . In this episode, Lee and I talked about two people in particular who he has become friends with who have also been on this show: Scarlett Robison (Episodes 51 thru 53) and Plaman Dragenov (Episode 70). Again, I encourage you to listen to these episodes, as they are powerful, emotional, and educational! Thank you for being here to listen to Lee's follow-up interview. After you've heard this episode, please do all you can to share this episode with everyone you know. And also, to Start By Believing…because we all know someone whose life has been impacted by rape or sexual assault. Another big favor I would ask is that you rate and subscribe to this podcast. It all helps the podcast grow, which in turn helps bring justice to victims and survivors of rape and sexual assault. By the way, it would be immensely appreciated if you would take just a few seconds of your time to please find the sexualassaultsurvivorstories page on Instagram and hit the follow button!! Thank you for being part of my audience, and please become a regular listener and subscriber! A positive rating would also be greatly appreciated! Here are the links you might be interested in, again, in case the hyperlinks don't work: And other links I hope you'll take the time to look at:   #napanews #arcigrey #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation #janbroberg #safeinharmsway #epizonstrategy #intentionallyfearless #thelastimsorry #feelingsmall #sasspodcast #traumainformed #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #traumainformedexpert #sexassaultvictim #survivorsunite #rapevictim #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #podcast #markelconsulting #jessicapridelawfirm #gettraumainformed #safeinharmsway #projectbeloved #saan #irishangel #crimevictimsassistancecenter #coloradoassociationofsexcrimeinvestigators #girlsfightback #outdoordefense #worthfightingfor #thejanbrobergshow #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation #sassyselfdefenseguide #badassselfdefense #imworthfightingfor #vawa #ashforduniversity #amandacoleman #remembermolly #fightrapeculture #forcescience

The abuses started early for Jeanna…she was just a young middle-school aged girl growing up in a blended family after her mother and father divorced, and her mother re-married a woman with sons who were older than Jeanna. She missed her father and tells how missing him led to her longing for acceptance from men. One of her older stepbrothers took an un-natural interest in Jeanna, and started complimenting her, telling her she was beautiful, and paying an inordinate amount of attention to her. But Jeanna's young age and naiveté didn't recognize what was the brother was doing to her, and the grooming process filled that longing she had been experiencing since her father had left. And it wasn't long before the sexual assault started. But, again, Jeanna's awareness of the situation didn't immediately recognize what was going on as being something wrong. So, the assaults continued until the touching made her feel more and more uncomfortable. But bring up the situation to her mother and step-mother didn't really solve the problem; while the sexual assaults from this particular stepbrother stopped, the blaming and shame she received from her mother and stepmother was palpable. Fast forward several years…Jeanna, still feeling the desires of being wanted and important to older boys and men, fell for an older school mate. This relationship evolved over time to become intimate, and eventually Jeanna ended up marrying this older boy who, while at first treated her at least with some respect, later became suspicious, jealous, controlling, and abusive, both emotionally and sexually. As these dynamics progressed, so did her husbands mental illness. Jeanna learned through all of this that leaving these types of abuses can easily become a life-or-death decision, and that timing is everything. Listen to Jeanna's episode and you'll come to an understanding, like I did, of how strong and courageous Jeanna was to finally leave the marriage, take the appropriate steps to safeguard her children, and to better her and her family's situation by going back to school to get her degree and improve her lifestyle. The healing journey continues. And Jeanna continues to help heal others, too! Thank you for being here to listen to Jeanna's story. After you've heard this episode, please do all you can to share this episode with everyone you know. And also, to Start By Believing…because we all know someone whose life has been impacted by rape or sexual assault. Another big favor I would ask is that you rate and subscribe to this podcast. It all helps the podcast grow, which in turn helps bring justice to victims and survivors of rape and sexual assault. By the way, it would be immensely appreciated if you would take just a few seconds of your time to please find the sexualassaultsurvivorstories page on Instagram and hit the follow button!! Thank you for being part of my audience, and please become a regular listener and subscriber! A positive rating would also be greatly appreciated! Please check out all this very important sites and links: Here are some important links I hope you will take the time to explore and subscribe to also:   #napanews #arcigrey #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation #janbroberg #safeinharmsway #epizonstrategy #intentionallyfearless #thelastimsorry #feelingsmall #sasspodcast #traumainformed #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #traumainformedexpert #sexassaultvictim #survivorsunite #rapevictim #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #podcast #markelconsulting #jessicapridelawfirm #gettraumainformed #safeinharmsway #projectbeloved #saan #irishangel #crimevictimsassistancecenter #coloradoassociationofsexcrimeinvestigators #girlsfightback #outdoordefense #worthfightingfor #thejanbrobergshow #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation #sassyselfdefenseguide #badassselfdefense #imworthfightingfor #vawa #ashforduniversity #amandacoleman #remembermolly #fightrapeculture #forcescience

Before getting into the specific notes of this week's episode, I want to announce that this episode, on this date, marks the 2-year anniversary of Sexual Assault Survivor Stories, the SASS podcast! To all of you guests that are permanent members of the SASS family, and to all of you in the audience who listen occasionally or to every single episode, a huge note of gratitude to you from me, thank you and HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!! This is the wrap-up episode of John Carey's 3-part series on this show…the closing of what has been one of the most difficult to hear stories of what can only be described as pure, horrific, family disfunction. From infancy to age 4, from what John remembers, his life was pretty good. Normal, by most standards. Certainly not abusive or damaging. But all that changed when John turned 4 and both parents suffered devasting, life-changing, brain injuries in that same year. That started what became a life of misery, poverty, physical abuse, mental anguish, filthy living conditions, rape, and sexual assault. And it didn't let up until John left that horrific environment when he was old enough to leave. If you haven't heard Episodes 108 and 109, I strongly encourage you to listen to those episodes prior to listening to this one. But if you're not inclined to do that, or just don't have the time, don't let that stop you from listening to this episode. Here, John brings everything together, and he does it in such a way that you feel a sense of amazing accomplishment and success on John's part. And well deserved that accomplishment and success are. Please go back and read the episode notes for the previous two episodes and learn about just a small part of what John has accomplished. John is nothing short of remarkable. If you care to reach out to John and thank him for his time and fortitude in telling his story, you can do so by emailing me Please rate this show and hit the subscribe button to be set up to receive a new episode weekly. Your positive ratings help this podcast grow and expand to new listeners. Ultimately it all adds up to help bring justice to victims and survivors of rape and sexual assault; because we all know someone whose life has been impacted by rape or sexual assault. Here are some important links I hope you will take the time to explore and subscribe to also: #kevintaylor #arcigrey #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation #janbroberg #safeinharmsway #epizonstrategy #intentionallyfearless #thelastimsorry #feelingsmall #sasspodcast #traumainformed #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #traumainformedexpert #sexassaultvictim #survivorsunite #rapevictim #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #podcast #markelconsulting #jessicapridelawfirm #gettraumainformed #safeinharmsway #projectbeloved #saan #irishangel #crimevictimsassistancecenter #coloradoassociationofsexcrimeinvestigators #girlsfightback #outdoordefense #worthfightingfor #thejanbrobergshow #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation #sassyselfdefenseguide #badassselfdefense #imworthfightingfor #vawa #ashforduniversity #amandacoleman #remembermolly #fightrapeculture #forcescience

It is a pleasure and an honor to re-introduce to you my guest this week for Part 2 of this multi-episode experience: Daniel John Carey. John is a renowned author, screenwriter, actor, voice actor, director, and filmmaker. John has published several books, two of which I can attest to you as being exceptional and life enhancing:  Dream Your World and Dream Another Dream. All of this makes John sound refined and polished and extremely together. And on many levels, he is: he is accomplished, sought after, and has received numerous accolades. And he'll also be the first to say that because of his traumas and horrific experiences growing up, and as an adult looking to make his mark on the world, he struggles with PTSD and battles every day to maintain his sense of accomplishment and balance. He states, in fact, that he wrote his book, Dream Another Dream as a guide for his own life moving forward. In his social media posts, he also shares his battles of overcoming adversity and finding purpose on a daily basis. John was raised in an extremely dysfunctional household due to both parents having experienced relatively severe brain traumas when John was only 4 years old. How these closed-head injuries impacted John and his siblings makes for lives marked by poverty, child abuse, and child sexual assault; John's young life was a constant struggle. This is Part 2 of a multi-part series, in which John describes, in detail, story upon story upon story, his personal experiences and the impacts, both positive and negative, those experiences have on his life. It is all gripping, compelling, and yes, at times hard to hear. But this podcast is dedicated to “normalizing” the conversation, so it is an honor to be able to present these episodes for you. Please rate this show and hit the subscribe button to be set up to receive a new episode weekly. Your positive ratings help this podcast grow and expand to new listeners. Ultimately it all adds up to help bring justice to victims and survivors of rape and sexual assault; because we all know someone whose life has been impacted by rape or sexual assault. Here are some important links I hope you will take the time to explore and subscribe to also: https://arcigrey.com #kevintaylor #arcigrey #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation #janbroberg #safeinharmsway #epizonstrategy #intentionallyfearless #thelastimsorry #feelingsmall #sasspodcast #traumainformed #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #traumainformedexpert #sexassaultvictim #survivorsunite #rapevictim #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #podcast #markelconsulting #jessicapridelawfirm #gettraumainformed #safeinharmsway #projectbeloved #saan #irishangel #crimevictimsassistancecenter #coloradoassociationofsexcrimeinvestigators #girlsfightback #outdoordefense #worthfightingfor #thejanbrobergshow #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation #sassyselfdefenseguide #badassselfdefense #imworthfightingfor #vawa #ashforduniversity #amandacoleman #remembermolly #fightrapeculture #forcescience

It is a pleasure and an honor to introduce to you my guest for the next several episodes of this multi-episode experience: Daniel John Carey. John is a renowned author, screenwriter, actor, voice actor, director, and filmmaker. John has published two books (which I read portions of almost daily as part of my personal life-enhancing journey) All of that makes John sound refined and polished and extremely together. And on many levels, he is: he is accomplished, sought after, and has received numerous accolades. And he'll also be the first to say that because of his traumas and horrific experiences growing up, and as an adult looking to make his mark on the world, he struggles with PTSD and battles every day to maintain his sense of accomplishment and balance. He states, in fact, that he wrote his book, Dream Another Dream as a guide for his own life moving forward. In his social media posts, he also shares his battles of overcoming adversity and finding purpose on a daily basis. John was raised in an extremely dysfunctional household due to both parents having experienced relatively severe brain traumas when John was only 4 years old. How these closed-head injuries impacted John and his siblings makes for lives marked by poverty, child abuse, and child sexual assault; John's young life was a constant struggle. This is Part 1 of a multi-part series, in which John describes, in detail, story upon story upon story, his personal experiences and the impacts, both positive and negative, those experiences have on his life. It is all gripping, compelling, and yes, at times hard to hear. But this podcast is dedicated to “normalizing” the conversation, so it is an honor to be able to present these episodes for you. Please rate this show and hit the subscribe button to be set up to receive a new episode weekly. Your positive ratings help this podcast grow and expand to new listeners. Ultimately it all adds up to help bring justice to victims and survivors of rape and sexual assault; because we all know someone whose life has been impacted by rape or sexual assault. Here are some important links I hope you will take the time to explore and subscribe to also: https://arcigrey.com #kevintaylor #arcigrey #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation #janbroberg #safeinharmsway #epizonstrategy #intentionallyfearless #thelastimsorry #feelingsmall #sasspodcast #traumainformed #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #traumainformedexpert #sexassaultvictim #survivorsunite #rapevictim #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #podcast #markelconsulting #jessicapridelawfirm #gettraumainformed #safeinharmsway #projectbeloved #saan #irishangel #crimevictimsassistancecenter #coloradoassociationofsexcrimeinvestigators #girlsfightback #outdoordefense #worthfightingfor #thejanbrobergshow #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation

This show has become a beacon, an inspiration, and a platform for many victims and survivors to have a safe place to tell their rape and sexual assault experience. This episode, featuring Kevin Taylor, a clinical therapist, is a prime example of what it means to gain strength, support, and growth from disclosing one's own story of rape or sexual assault. I don't have any more to say about this episode than to congratulate and thank Keving for being a remarkable guest with extraordinary strength and courage, and to encourage anyone who has tuned in to this episode to listen to it in it's entirety; it's that important and impressive! This is taken directly from the Psychology Today website () about Kevin: Kevin Taylor Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC; Verified by Psychology Today I have a heart for people who've suffered trauma, struggled in life, and who may feel like they're broken or damaged, thinking no one understands, or worse, that nobody cares. If that's you, I'd like to help you on a path to healing. I work with adults suffering symptoms of PTSD, veterans like myself (Marine Corps) while specializing in treating male survivors of childhood sexual abuse, and men who have experienced sexual assault and Military Sexual Trauma (MST). Disclaimer: I do not treat sex offenders. I want to hear your story. I aim to listen and support you as you take more control of your life. My hope is to help you feel understood, cared for, and rightly see your worth. Every person is significant and has the right to a fulfilling life beyond their issues, including you. Call or Kevin Taylor now for a free 15 minute consultation - Thank you for being here to listen to Kevin's story. After you've heard this episode, please do all you can to share this episode with everyone you know. And also, to Start By Believing…because we all know someone whose life has been impacted by rape or sexual assault. Another big favor I would ask is that you rate and subscribe to this podcast. It all helps the podcast grow, which in turn helps bring justice to victims and survivors of rape and sexual assault. By the way, it would be immensely appreciated if you would take just a few seconds of your time to please find the sexualassaultsurvivorstories page on Instagram and hit the follow button!! Thank you for being part of my audience, and please become a regular listener and subscriber! A positive rating would also be greatly appreciated! Please check out all of these very important sites and links:  #kevintaylor #arcigrey #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation #janbroberg #safeinharmsway #epizonstrategy #intentionallyfearless #thelastimsorry #feelingsmall #sasspodcast #traumainformed #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #traumainformedexpert #sexassaultvictim #survivorsunite #rapevictim #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #podcast #markelconsulting #jessicapridelawfirm #gettraumainformed #safeinharmsway #projectbeloved #saan #irishangel #crimevictimsassistancecenter #coloradoassociationofsexcrimeinvestigators #girlsfightback #outdoordefense #worthfightingfor #thejanbrobergshow #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation #sassyselfdefenseguide #badassselfdefense #imworthfightingfor #vawa #ashforduniversity #amandacoleman #remembermolly #fightrapeculture #forcescience

I'm proud to bring you this week's episode of SASS. Proud because I have the honor of introducing you to Shannon Hough, the CEO and co-founder of Shield of Sisters, and host of the companion podcast, Invisible No More: Lady Vetrans' Stories of Military Sexual Trauma. Shield of Sisters is a non-profit organization dedicated to “helping sister service members overcome military sexual trauma.” () There is a very strong and significant impact being made by Shield of Sisters: it is the only non-profit organization and website conceived by a female military veteran for female victims and survivors of military sexual trauma. Here's more from the Shield of Sisters online homepage: The mission of Shield of Sisters is to support and empower Lady Veterans who have experienced Military Sexual Trauma by providing a sisterhood focused on healing and restoration. We create safe spaces where these courageous women can share their stories, access vital resources, and transform from surviving to thriving. We strive to foster resilience, strength, and hope, ensuring that every woman can reclaim her voice and triumph over trauma. Shield of Sisters (SOS) will one day be the premiere nonprofit organization for Lady Veterans who endured Military Sexual Trauma during their service to the United States. We will lead the way by raising awareness of this pervasive issue, collaborating with like-minded organizations, and advocating for policy changes within the Department of Defense to eliminate sexual assault in the military. Our Restoration Retreats will occur all across the United States and its territories with the assistance of regional and local SOS chapters. Shield of Sisters believes that we are duty-bound to help our sister service members overcome the weight of Military Sexual Trauma. It's time to end sexual assault in our armed services. Founder and CEO, Shannon Hough, joins me on the show this week; what a pleasure it was to get to know Shannon and hear the passion in her voice about the organization she helped develop, as well as her excitement about the recently launched podcast, Invisible No More. There's a sad aspect to the Shield of Sisters and Invisible No More platforms, and that is that there is a need for them in the first place. It's a sad reality that rape and sexual assault exist in our society. And the fact that people who are in the military, whose oath is to serve and protect our country and the people who make up our country, and whose values are supposed to supersede the malevolent intent and acts of rape and sexual assault, are sometimes the perpetrators of these horrible acts, is shocking. Especially if you're one of the victims of these atrocious crimes. The reported prevalence rate is one-in-three victims in the military. But that's of the reported rapes and sexual assaults. The actual rate is most likely higher, as most people don't report their rape or sexual assault crimes to the authorities. Another powerful aspect of Shannon is her own story of experiencing rape while in the Navy 30 years ago. And it wasn't just one rape, it was multiple times, as she was in a coercive and manipulative relationship with a person who was not only of a higher rank than her, but was also a military police officer, and who was married to someone else. And there's another shocking aspect to this horrific story that you'll have to listen to the episode to hear about.  Thank you for being here to listen to Shannon's story. After you've heard this episode, please do all you can to share this episode with everyone you know. And also, to Start By Believing…because we all know someone whose life has been impacted by rape or sexual assault. Another big favor I would ask is that you rate and subscribe to this podcast. It all helps the podcast grow, which in turn helps bring justice to victims and survivors of rape and sexual assault. By the way, it would be immensely appreciated if you would take just a few seconds of your time to please find the sexualassaultsurvivorstories page on Instagram and hit the follow button!! Thank you for being part of my audience, and please become a regular listener and subscriber! A positive rating would also be greatly appreciated! 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Ashley and I made our acquaintance when she reached out to me 7 months ago; she was making an inquiry about a criminal case that she was involved with regarding the rape report she had made with her local law enforcement agency. She was discouraged with not only how difficult it was to make the report to an investigator who was skeptical about her version of the experience, but also with how disheartened she had become over the way the case was investigated. Ultimately, as is a common happening in these types of cases, the case was closed and not prosecuted due to “insufficient evidence.” It is extremely frustrating for me to realize how, over and over, law enforcement agencies who do not have appropriate training in the neuroscience of trauma and memory, and what it means to be victim-centric in their investigative procedures, often overlook the psychophysiological evidence staring the investigators in the face, and choose to either not recognize it for what it is, or to ignore it; both are equally practiced. It took several months of therapy, education, and time to heal for Ashley to get to this point: the point where she is not only willing to share her sexual assault and rape experiences with the public but is actually excited to do so because she knows how helpful it is when victims and survivors share their experiences publicly. Ashley has been through extensive therapy, but also has been trained in being trauma informed, and certified as a sexual assault victim advocate. She knows firsthand what it means to be trauma informed and knows firsthand what it feels like to make a report to a law enforcement agency whose officers are not trauma informed. Ashley is now on a mission, like me, to educate as many people as possible on the benefits of being trauma informed in sexual assault and rape cases. You're going to be impressed with Ashley's story, and with her fortitude in pursuing this mission. Thank you for being here to listen to Ashley's story. After you've heard this episode, please do all you can to share this episode with everyone you know. And also, to Start By Believing…because we all know someone whose life has been impacted by rape or sexual assault. Another big favor I would ask is that you rate and subscribe to this podcast. It all helps the podcast grow, which in turn helps bring justice to victims and survivors of rape and sexual assault. Oh, and one more thing…please find the sexualassaultsurvivorstories page on Instagram and hit the follow button!! Thank you for being part of my audience, and please consider being a regular listener and subscriber!   Please check out all this very important sites and links: Ashley's Instagram: Ashley's podcast on Spotify:    #arcigrey #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation #janbroberg #safeinharmsway #epizonstrategy #intentionallyfearless #thelastimsorry #feelingsmall #sasspodcast #traumainformed #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #traumainformedexpert #sexassaultvictim #survivorsunite #rapevictim #sexualassaultsurvivorstories #podcast #markelconsulting #jessicapridelawfirm #gettraumainformed #safeinharmsway #projectbeloved #saan #irishangel #crimevictimsassistancecenter #coloradoassociationofsexcrimeinvestigators #girlsfightback #outdoordefense #worthfightingfor #thejanbrobergshow #thrivivors #thejanbrobergfoundation #sassyselfdefenseguide #badassselfdefense #imworthfightingfor #vawa #ashforduniversity #amandacoleman #remembermolly #fightrapeculture #forcescience

For those of you who have been following this show since the beginning almost 2 years ago, or who have had the opportunity to go back to listen to some of the early episodes, you'll recognize this weeks' guest: Mac McDonald. Mac was one of the four people who were on a panel of rape survivors who had been assaulted on their respective college campuses in New York state. Each of them has a gripping story of what it means to be raped, then not believed, or blamed for their own assaults. Such was the case with Mac…even her close friends denied or minimized her experience of rape, which only exacerbated previous traumas and sexual assaults she had endured. But Mac is a fighter. Mac sought help for her trauma experiences, and now is progressing through the hard work of fighting the daily grip of PTSD and downward spirals. She has an amazing support system of therapists and several friends, and of course her original sisterhood of the 3 other people who were on that panel with her. Mac fights her past every day. She leans on her therapists, her friends, and the joy that comes from her job of working with children in a daycare. These children support and lift her up with their innocence and curiosity, their laughter, and their sometimes-brutal honesty of inquiry and exploration. Because of all of this support, Mac not only survives her horrific past, but is thriving and growing every day. Please listen to this episode in its entirety…that would be greatly appreciated by Mac and myself. Then, as an extra dose of support, please subscribe to this podcast! AND, I want to make you aware of my new Instagram account: @sexualassaultsurvivorstories.  I have decided to take additional steps in furthering the power of this podcast and the community of victims and survivors that are guests and listeners of this show, but also for all of you who listen to support victims and survivors, and to learn more about the impact of rape and sexual assault, as well as the power of empathy through being trauma informed. Please visit the new account @sexualassaultsurvivorstories, and hit that FOLLOW button. Then, please take an extra moment to share this account with all of your followers and also ask them to follow @sexualassaultsurvivorstories. There's power in numbers, believe me. And to make an even greater impact in our society, and in order to help bring justice to victims and survivors of rape and sexual assault, I have set a towering goal of 500,000 followers by the end of October! Don't for a second believe that this cannot be accomplished…because it can!! If you follow, then ask all of your followers to also follow @sexualassaultsurvivorstories, the exponential growth can quickly help us get to this goal! I truly thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for your help in this endeavor!! Here are some links and sites I hope you look at, subscribe to, and read and learn about: @sexualassaultsurvivorstories (on Instagram)

In the deeply insightful podcast episode featuring Lynn Stroud, listeners are immersed in a profound exploration of what it truly means to be trauma informed. Stroud, a renowned advocate and expert in trauma recovery, eloquently guides us through the multifaceted layers of this crucial concept. At its core, being trauma-informed is not merely a set of techniques or protocols but a profound shift in perspective—an empathetic approach that acknowledges and respects the experiences of those who have endured trauma. Throughout the interview, Stroud illuminates the path towards becoming trauma-informed, emphasizing the importance of creating environments that foster safety, trust, and empowerment. She articulates how trauma can profoundly impact individuals across various aspects of their lives, shaping their perceptions, behaviors, and interactions. By understanding this, she argues, we can reshape our responses—from healthcare to education and beyond—to be sensitive and supportive. Drawing from her extensive experience, Stroud delves into practical strategies for cultivating a trauma-informed mindset. She stresses the significance of listening without judgment, validating survivors' experiences, and recognizing the resilience that often emerges from adversity. Her insights paint a picture of transformational potential, where institutions and communities can become healing spaces rather than inadvertently perpetuating harm. Moreover, Stroud addresses common misconceptions about trauma and emphasizes the need for ongoing education and awareness. She highlights how integrating trauma-informed practices not only enhances individual well-being but also contributes to a more compassionate and inclusive society. Her words resonate with a call to action, urging listeners to consider how they can contribute to creating environments that prioritize safety, respect autonomy, and foster genuine healing. Lynn Stroud's interview serves as a beacon of understanding and compassion, offering a roadmap for listeners to embark on their own journey towards becoming more trauma informed. It's a reminder that by embracing empathy, knowledge, and proactive change, we can collectively build a world where survivors are not only heard but supported in their paths to healing and empowerment. This episode leaves a lasting impression, inspiring us to reflect on how we can all play a role in creating a more trauma-informed society. Here are some links and websites I hope you'll find interesting and inspiring! Please check ‘em out!

It's quite the honor to be hosting a podcast that has reached the 100th episode landmark, especially because hitting this commemorative occasion is a testament to the loyalty of you, my listeners, and because of the privileged circumstance of having made it this far. It's a lot of work, but for me because of the amazing guests I've had the pleasure of meeting and interviewing, it's been more than worth it. I cannot thank all of you enough for the trust you've placed in me in allowing me to talk with you and having your share your rape or sexual assault experience with me. It is truly an honor. Caroline Markel is back this week, and for those of you who've had the privilege of hearing her in the past, you won't be disappointed in this episode. For those of you who are new to SASS, welcome…you're in for a pleasant surprise in listening to Caroline's deep wisdom and knowledge from surviving the horrific experience of being  drugged and trafficked by her own fiancé. Caroline is the founder and CEO of Safe in Harm's Way, a non-profit organization dedicated to helping victims and survivors of rape, sexual assault, and interpersonal violence, find the resources for escaping abusive experiences and navigating their way to safety and healing.  Caroline guides the topic this week and leads us into a place of self-reflection and personal responsibility for how we manage our healing journey. You're in for a true learning experience from Caroline this week! As usual, I've provided some helpful and informative links, below, that I hope you will take the time to explore and learn from.Thank you, again, for being part of the 100th episode celebration of Sexual Assault Survivor Stories, the SASS podcast!

Here's some information about Nicole, in case some of you are new to Sexual Assault Survivor Stories. Nicole is a frequent guest on this show, and I want you to know some information about her. This information is published by Force Science, Nicole's employer, on their website: “Nicole Florisi, PsyD Candidate, LEO Director of Curriculum & Content Development, Staff Instructor Force Science Biography Nicole has extensive experience as an educator, police officer, and therapist. She provides front-line instruction in de-escalation, crisis communications, and force encounters investigations. With over 25 years of experience, she has held positions including communications specialist, patrol officer, patrol sergeant, investigator, and acting chief. She has held previous roles as a Law Enforcement Subject Matter Expert at and as the Executive Director for the Verde Valley Sanctuary; a shelter dedicated to providing services for victims of sex trafficking, sexual violence, and domestic violence. Nicole is currently working on her doctorate in clinical psychology. She holds two post-master's degrees; one in Human Factors Psychology and one in Trauma Counseling; an M.S. in Professional Counseling; and a B.S. in Public Safety Administration and Emergency Management.” Just over a month ago, Nicole Florisi reached out to me to let me know that there was a not-so-great situation that had recently come to her attention regarding a domestic violence/sex assault shelter. She told me that several residents of this particular shelter had reached out to inform her that there were some pretty extreme reports of inappropriate behavior and abuses perpetrated on shelter clientele at the hands of some of the shelter staff. Before I go any further, I want to emphasize that these reports were not initiated by Nicole, but rather by clientele residents of the shelter referenced in the reports. At the time Nicole reached out to me in July, we were not releasing the name of the shelter. But since the time of that recording, reports of the abuses and poor living conditions at the shelter were made public through an article published by the local newspaper, the . The shelter at the center of the reports is Verde Valley Sanctuary (VVS), which is the shelter at which Nicole had been the Executive Director. And the reason clientele of the shelter were reaching out to Nicole is because they know her, trust her, and thought that Nicole may be able to help. These reports had started coming to Nicole in the fall of 2023, and Nicole forwarded those reports, via email,  to the shelter administration and board of directors in October, 2023. Because Nicole did not receive any type of acknowledgement of her report from either the shelter or administration, she forwarded a second report to the Arizona Coalition to End Sexual and Domestic Violence (ACESDV). The response that Nicole received from ACESDV, was that “ACESDV has visited the program and has not seen anything of concern.” But the reports of abuses and lack of services continued to come in from shelter clientele, and now were also being received by staff employees that had been terminated by the new Executive Director. Those same previous VVS personnel were forwarding some of the resident complaints to the newspaper, which in July 2024 published a story, “”. When Nicole reached out to me last month and told me about this entire situation, I was resolved to get her on SASS and discuss this situation; not to disparage Verde Valley Sanctuary, but to give an additional voice to the affected clientele residents, and to educate, discuss solutions, and talk about reporting options to my audience in case they are currently in a similar situation or find themselves in a shelter of any kind, anytime in the future. CURRENT SITUATION: Since it has been over a month since Nicole and I recorded this episode, I recently reached out to Nicole to let her know the episode was going to be published today (20 August 2024), and to ask her to provide me with any updates that may be available to keep you, my audience, appraised of the situation. Here is the update that Nicole sent to me: Hi Dave!  Here is an update so far: After the newspaper article came out, VVS responded to the claims with many false and misleading statements.  We are in the process of responding to this at this time.  The VVS Board President has been making untrue and disparaging remarks about me (and others who brought this to light) in emails to donors.  I do not know the status of my complaints to the state funders, as they are not required to report them to me.  Personnel from sister agencies have come forward to me after hearing about these claims, stating their clients have been telling me about how fearful they were of staff and of their mistreatment, and they have a lot of concerns about working with VVS at this time.  I had hoped we would have something more positive for you by the time this show aired, but we are still fighting the lies, manipulation, and corruption on behalf of the clients. No one should ever be victimized or re-victimized by those who are supposed to help.  Talk to you again soon, hopefully with better news. -Nicole  I hope that this episode provides some enlightenment and valuable educational information to all of my listeners, whatever situation you find yourself in. If you're a victim or survivor of rape, sexual assault, or any form of interpersonal violence and find yourself in circumstances that necessitate your need to utilize a shelter, of any kind, I hope this information is helpful. If you never need the services of a shelter but know someone who currently is in a shelter or may need a shelter in the future, please pass this episode on to them. Please hit the subscribe button on whatever podcast platform you found this show, and leave a review, if you would…it helps more than you know! Also, don't forget to do your part to help bring justice to victims and survivors of rape or sexual assault. A great way to do this is to Start By Believing! I am providing some website information, as well as links to the newspaper stories. In addition, you'll find my email address, as well as Nicole's, below. Nicole gave me permission to publish her email addresses and would welcome any inquiries for additional information or help for those who are in a similar situation. Please look at these sites, and pass them on to others who may find the information helpful:

To know David, you'd think he's living a great lifestyle. And the truth is, he is! But it wasn't always that way. David was born and raised in Virginia, but life started taking some harsh turns when David turned four. That's when he remembers his father abandoned him, telling his mother that he couldn't take being around David anymore. It wasn't long afterward that his mother married the next-door neighbor…he was a soldier and shortly after he became David's stepfather, he was deployed to the middle east. David was left, at age four, to be the “man of the family,” quite the burden for a young child. Also, David became the focus of his mother's attention, being cuddled and loved on to the point of him feeling uncomfortable and awkward. But then, when David's stepfather got home from being deployed, and David was suddenly discarded. These emotional shockwaves were just the start of David's emotional abuse. Things got worse before they got better. He and his sister were on the hit list of his biological father who wanted to kill the family that he had just married into. Also, on the list of people he wanted to kill was David and his sister. The devastation led to all kinds of emotional upheaval! Things went downhill for David after that. And stayed that way for years. But to catch the true essence of this story, you need to listen to this episode. David doesn't hold back. And that's his nature. That's why he was able to endure the horrific lifestyle that was pushed on him, and that's why he is so tenacious and persistent now. And that's why I wanted him on this show. Give this episode your ear, and you'll hear all the reasons David is a terrific guest. As David is doing in helping get the word out about child abuse and child sexual assault and rape, you too can do your part in helping bring justice to victims and survivors of rape and sexual assault. Just Start By Believing when it comes to listening to and supporting a victim or survivor of rape or sexual assault. Because we all know someone whose life has been affected by these horrific crimes. Here are some websites that I hope you'll check out and support, however you choose to do that. I'm also including my email address and would appreciate hearing from you… let me know how Sexual Assault Survivor Stories has impacted your life, or your thoughts and opinions on any of the episodes of this show. Thanks!

This show seems to inevitably bring guests that are not only willing to share their sexual assault or rape experience with this audience, but who have the true desire to help, inspire, and uplift others on their own healing journey. Melissa Fairchild is an exceptional example, and I am honored that she reached out to me, asking to be a guest on this show. She is the epitome of a sexual assault and rape victim turned survivor, whose fortitude and strength exude from her words. Melissa is now unabashedly and powerfully working toward helping others who have experienced similar atrocities so that they, too, can thrive like she is. It truly is a privilege to introduce you to Melissa and present her experiences, successes, and hopes for your edification! Melissa's first trauma was forced on her at age 12 by the father of one of her neighborhood playmates. Frightened and stunned by her sexual assault, she struggled to understand and make sense of what happened to her. But before she could fully make sense of the trauma she experienced, she was raped multiple times by another playmate neighborhood predator who had targeted Melissa to be his prey. The repeated rapes left her even more confused about what was happening and ripped her identity and self-confidence away from her. She struggled just to get through her days. Fear permeated her existence. And if that wasn't enough, that same perpetrator trafficked her to five adult males and his mentally disabled brother. This only left Melissa even more vulnerable as she matured and grew into young adulthood where the sexual assaults and rapes continued. Melissa's experiences are appalling and sad. Which is why her recovery and healing experiences are so very compelling. Listen to this amazingly powerful story, and then share it with others…as I've said multiple times, and Melissa agrees, we need to make these discussions and painful experiences normalized so that we can use them to change the rape culture we live in. Much can be gained in our society by sharing this episode. Don't stop there. Do your part to help bring justice to victims and survivors. One massively important way to do this is to Start by Believing (End Violence Against Women International) the experiences shared by victims and survivors as we absorb and come to comprehend the reality of the prevalence of these crimes and work to lessen that prevalence. This may not be common knowledge in our families, friendships, and workplaces, but, we all know someone whose life has been impacted by rape or sexual assault. Think about that for a while, then make this podcast part of your weekly routine. Subscribe. Rate the show. And share it with everyone you know. You'll be making a huge contribution in helping reduce the prevalence of rape, sexual assault, and interpersonal violence. Here are some important sites that I hope you'll take the time to look at. Contribute monetarily where/when you can, and if you can't afford to contribute with money, do your part in sharing this podcast whenever and wherever you can. Thank you! https://apoetsoul.com/

Sometimes I am flabbergasted by how things work out to bring someone into my life for the purpose of helping to heal others through this show. This is one of those times…I found Ashley Bendiksen through Instagram, being duly impressed with her mission and accomplishments of bringing her story to national audiences to help bring justice to victim and survivors of interpersonal violence. But she also seemed vaguely familiar to me…then, during a pre-recording conversation I was having with her, she mentioned that I might know of her through a mutual friend of ours. It turned out that, in fact, she was correct!—the friend had recommended Ashley to me as a guest for this show, months ago, I just hadn't gotten around to reaching out to her. So, it was serendipitous that I had reached out to her so many months later. Ashley is a powerful force in telling of her abusive experiences and how those relationships shaped her into who she is today…someone who really relates to victims and survivors because she's been there. She's researched the dynamics and statistics. And she knows how to use her words to help bring positive influences into people's lives through her book, presentations, and articles. Ashley is available to come speak to your organization, your school, or your agency. And she'll make a lasting impact. Because she's authentic, transparent, and powerful. Her contact information is listed below. I encourage you to have her come speak to you, your students, your administration, or your employees. You won't be sorry. Here's where you can read about, contact, and find out about all things Ashley Bendiksen: And some other links I would appreciate you taking the time to explore and read about, and where to write to me:

John Jay Wiley is a retired police officer (Baltimore Police Department) who is now the founder and host of Law Enforcement Talk Radio & Podcast…both a radio show and a podcast. I had the honor of being a guest on LET Radio in an episode that was aired on 09 June 2024. You can listen to that episode It was quite the experience, and I appreciate John Jay for allowing me the privilege of being on his show. It was also an honor to do a turn-around invitation for him to be on SASS…and he graciously agreed to be here! In this episode, John Jay showed his strength and fortitude in his willingness to tell a great deal about his own trauma story. That is something that he doesn't often do; he even stated that for him to be open about his trauma, the listener must “earn the right,” because for him to make himself available and vulnerable isn't easy for him. Isn't that the way it is for most of us who suffer the effects of trauma?...don't we all, to some degree, hold something back, as John Jay says, in order to protect ourselves? It's part of that healing journey…we must weigh the costs and benefits of talking about something so personal and painful. But ultimately, it almost always leads us further down the healing path. John Jay recognizes this, and it's why he was willing to be on the show; that, and his desire for us to be mutually helpful to each other as recognition of our shared mission. We both benefitted from being on each other's podcasts. As I reflect on our discussion, I feel that one of the most important aspects of this conversation was John Jay's deep understanding of how impactful his trauma is on who he is today. He emphasized that to heal, whether from being shot, robbed, injured in a car accident, or sexually assaulted, we must reach the point where we realize that we, ourselves, are responsible for what we do moving forward. It's the “aha moment,” as he puts it, when we reach the point where we grasp that if we want something good to come from our trauma, we have to put in the work. When we do, the “good stuff” starts happening in our lives. John Jay is powerful in his delivery of the wisdom that he has acquired through his own healing journey. This is a powerful listen; I hope you put in the time to do so. And then…share this episode with everyone you know. Additionally, subscribe to John Jay's show!…it's the Law Enforcement Talk Radio Show & Podcast…found wherever you listen to podcasts. And while you're at it, hit the subscribe button on this show, too! We both thank you!! Thank you for being a Sexual Assault Survivor Stories Podcast listener, and don't forget to Start by Believing…because we all know someone whose life has been impacted by rape or sexual assault. From the Law Enforcement Talk Radio website (): John J Wiley Radio Show Host and Producer Retired from the Baltimore Police Department at the rank of Sergeant. He was retired early due a permanent line of duty injury that occurred during an act of violence. The injury resulted in 3 surgeries, two steel plates and a fusion of his right wrist and thumb. About 8 years after retiring from police work, he began a career in the audio broadcasting space. Starting with "audio-blogs" in 1999. Which progressed into a brokered once a week radio show and then led to broadcasting school. After graduating he has been a full time FM radio personality and launched the Law Enforcement Today Show as a podcast in March of 2017. This was in a partnership with Law Enforcement Today's Robert Greenberg. The show was quickly recruited by radio and is a nationally syndicated radio show, broadcasting weekly on many US Radio Stations to millions of people. The partnership with them ended in the Summer of 2023 and the show was renamed the Law Enforcement Talk Radio Show and Podcast. The radio show is syndicated by Talk Media Network. Go to the Radio Page of the site for more information. Here are the links you can use to find John Jay's show, my LET Radio episode, and other links that I hope you'll check out and recognize their importance in helping provide justice to victims and survivors of rape and sexual assault.