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Let us know how you enjoyed this episode!We often hear how important communication is in marriage, but did you know there's something even more important than communication?In this episode, I'm diving into why respect needs to be prioritized as the key ingredient. As marriage becomes more challenging after becoming parents, respect is often the first to go. We start to become more lax with how we communicate and take our stress out on our partners. So tune in to hear why respect needs to be reprioritized in your marriage and how to weave in respect so that your marriage can grow and become resilient against life's challenges.Thank you for listening!Ready to gain more clarity around what areas your marriage can improve in? Grab the Marriage 360 Assessment workbook!If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarityConnect and send a message letting me know what you took away from this episode: @michellepurtacoaching and follow me on threads @michellepurtacoaching!If you would like to support this show, please rate and review the show, and share it with people you know would love this show too!Additional Resources:Ready to put a stop to the arguments in your marriage? Watch this free masterclass - The #1 Conversation Married Couples Need To Have (But Aren't)Want to handle conflict with more confidence? Download this free workbook!Wanna make communication feel easy and stop feeling like roommates so you can bring back the romance and excitement into your marriage? Learn more about how coaching here!
Navigating Sexual Expectations: Conversations Every Couple Should HavePlus: The Role of Vulnerability and Trust in a Healthy Sexual RelationshipUnlock the secrets to a fulfilling marital relationship with our comprehensive guide on sexual intimacy. This video explores the theological and practical aspects of sex within marriage, highlighting its role in fostering unity and joy. Understand the significance of open communication and mutual submission, where both partners prioritize each other's needs and desires. The discussion includes strategies for overcoming common barriers to intimacy, such as stress and decision fatigue, and offers solutions for creating a supportive and loving environment. By embracing the divine purpose of sex, couples can experience greater happiness and spiritual growth together. Perfect for those seeking to enhance their marital bond and explore the deeper meanings of love and partnership.
In this episode, Alan and Emilia dive into what equal partnership looks like in relationships. They share personal stories and coaching experiences to explore how partners can divide responsibilities fairly, whether in business or at home. Highlighting the idea of “invisible work” and the challenges many couples face, they stress the importance of defining equality for each partner. They offer practical advice on creating a balanced and supportive partnership from household chores to financial duties.Show notes:(1:40) Defining equal partnership and its impact on couples(4:26) Example of cognitive labor and invisible work in relationships(6:11) Introduction of the DRI (Directly Responsible Individual) concept for task division(7:46) Story of a couple's unequal household work perception(11:24) Julie, a listener to The Conscious Couples podcast, shares why she subscribes and listens consistently.(16:41) Importance of defining what equality means in your relationship(18:49) Creating a win-win approach to dividing household responsibilities(20:58) OutroBook a FREE Relationship Talk:https://calendly.com/alanlazaros/30-minute-relationships-talk-coachingJoin us at Relationship Talks Event #39 on Thursday, September 19th, 2024, at 05:00 pm Eastern Time: “How to NOT Be Held Back in Your Relationship” https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZwof-yrqTsjGtEUfK4DcWkkAtxnTFHLoAQd#/registration___________________________Follow us on Instagram:Emilia Smith @evolvewithemiliaAlan Lazaros @alazaros88*Email:*
This week on the Leap Lifestyle Podcast, I'm so thrilled to welcome Felicia Kashevaroff, Founder of Tend Task, and ICF-certified relationship equity coach. We dig deep to identify how old-school gender based roles in wedding planning (and life) can impact your relationship before you even walk down the aisle. I Do Differently Program This week we are so pleased to offer 25% off of Felicia's I Do Differently program. I Do Differently is a unique program designed for busy, modern couples like you who want to build a balanced, equitable, and joyful relationship. This program helps you navigate the wedding planning process while also preparing you for a lifetime of partnership.We know that almost all couples want an equal partnership, but research shows that most couples struggle to make that happen. This pattern can even start to develop during the wedding planning process, which is often bride-focused and steeped in traditions that may or may not represent you as a couple. I Do Differently teaches you how to cultivate a sense of teamwork as you plan your big day, carrying over into your marriage and setting you up for success from the get-go.Visit the Links Below to view Two Options for I Do Differently, and use code LEAP25 at checkout for the 25% discount.Tier One:12-Week Self-Paced Digital Course: Concise video content and powerful exercises focused on deconstructing gender, building communication skills, outlining each couple's shared vision for their wedding and the marriage that follows, and cultivating equitable partnership practices.Bi-Weekly Office Hours: Your clients will have regular, direct access to an experienced relationship coach to ask questions and get support on everything that comes up during the wedding planning process and beyond.Exclusive Bonus Resources: Monthly community meetups, shared values workshop, premium access to our household organizer app, and a special completion gift.Tier Two:Everything from Tier 1+12-Monthly Private Coaching Sessions: During these 60-minute sessions I'll work with your clients to address any emotional and relational challenges that come up during the wedding planning process.Two 90-Minute Conflict Management Facilitation Sessions: Your clients can use these sessions anytime they need them — to bring together in-laws who can't get along, bridal parties who have gone off the rails, or as an opportunity to dig in deep and work through tricky conflicts that they have been struggling to overcome.To learn more about this program, you can book a prospective client call with Felicia here.Find more about Felicia, Tend Task and I Do Differently on:InstagramTik TokFacebookPinterestYouTubeAnd you can find the Leap Lifestyle on:InstagramWebsiteAs always, thanks for listening!
This is a moment to reflect on marriage, as Elder Ulisses Soares reminds us of the importance of an equal partnership
*This week I will be sharing the second half of a two-part conversation with my brother, Tim Willden. These two episodes were originally published in 2023 and have become a listener favorite. Enjoy!* Have you ever thought about how cultivating a more equal partnership in the home can better invite the Holy Ghost to teach, inspire, and uplift a family? Join me for part two of my conversation with Tim Willden, my younger brother, as we discuss ways men and women can work together to create a more equal partnership in the home, resulting in a more Spirit-filled, loving, and safe home and family life. Tim shares the critical importance of husbands and wives talking together openly and frequently about the roles and responsibilities within the home, including those Church culture or broader society has traditionally assigned to just men or just women. In situations where abuse of any kind is present, we discuss the need for women to seek for safe places where they can feel and receive the guidance of the Holy Ghost. I also share research about the positive effect of equal partnerships in the home on children and future generations. “The prophet has been teaching us to ‘Hear Him.' He's been teaching us that we can't make it through this if we don't have the Holy Ghost, if we don't have that relationship. And as a father, I think it comes upon me and my wife, as the nurturers and caregivers of our children, to help foster an environment where they can hear him better, and teaching them how to “hear him.” -Tim Willden Challenge: Think about what equal partnership in the home looks like for you. Talk about that with your spouse, boyfriend, a family member, or whomever might feel appropriate to you. Feel free to share your thoughts with me at unleashingsistersaints@gmail.com or on social media @UnleashingSisterSaints (see links below). Resources: May 2020 Harvard Business Review article: “Gender Equity Starts in the Home” October 2022 General Conference talk by Elder Ulisses S. Soares: “In Partnership with the Lord” Learn More: Learn more about Dr. Susan Madsen at www.susanrmadsen.com Sign up to receive monthly emails from Dr. Madsen about updated research, resources, and events at www.utwomen.org. These can be helpful whether you are in Utah or beyond. Follow Unleashing Sister Saints on social media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/UnleashingSisterSaints Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unleashingsistersaints/ Contact Me: I love hearing from listeners! Email me with questions, comments, or suggestions at unleashingsistersaints@gmail.com.
Today on the podcast, I spoke with Yuen Ip about his thoughts on global citizenship. Yuen is the chief executive officer at CPA Western School of Business. He has extensive leadership experience in areas such as higher education, healthcare, and accounting. From his formative years growing up in Spain, he speaks to why he is passionate about creating more access and opportunity for marginalized communities to gain visibility. In an ever changing world, Yuen is committed to being a grassroots, adaptive leader. Enjoy the conversation!
Introducing my new Podcast Series called "WAIT A MINUTE" basically this series will be like voice memoing with your best friend random thoughts, rants, ideas, hot takes, and tips and all episodes will be short and sweet, 2-6 minutes each. In this episode of Obsessed or Not Interested | Wait a Minute , Mindy talks about how she parents her 5 kiddos and how she believes in setting clear expectations and boundaries. There is no equal partnership when it comes to the rules in her household and by doing this you set your family up for success and structure. What's your take on this? Ways to Connect/Work with Me: Follow Me on Instagram Follow the Podcast on Instagram Get Podcast Merch www.mindywender.com www.hyperfocusmentor.com
OK, partners who carry your weight, this one is a “love letter” for you! I made this episode because I see people who are struggling in a partnership where they are carrying the majority of the load while thier partner passively lets the inequality in the relationship continue to benefit them year after year. Both parties need to wake up because this is nothing but a recipe for disaster. Listen in for some encouragement to pursue a relationship where everyone is willing to pitch in, show up and help make life as awesome as possible!
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Have you ever thought about how cultivating a more equal partnership in the home can better invite the Holy Ghost to teach, inspire, and uplift a family? Join me for part two of my conversation with Tim Willden, my younger brother, as we discuss ways men and women can work together to create a more equal partnership in the home, resulting in a more Spirit-filled, loving, and safe home and family life. Tim shares the critical importance of husbands and wives talking together openly and frequently about the roles and responsibilities within the home, including those Church culture or broader society has traditionally assigned to just men or just women. In situations where abuse of any kind is present, we discuss the need for women to seek for safe places where they can feel and receive the guidance of the Holy Ghost. I also share research about the positive effect of equal partnerships in the home on children and future generations. “The prophet has been teaching us to ‘Hear Him.' He's been teaching us that we can't make it through this if we don't have the Holy Ghost, if we don't have that relationship. And as a father, I think it comes upon me and my wife, as the nurturers and caregivers of our children, to help foster an environment where they can hear him better, and teaching them how to “hear him.” -Tim Willden Challenge: Think about what equal partnership in the home looks like for you. Talk about that with your spouse, boyfriend, a family member, or whomever might feel appropriate to you. Feel free to share your thoughts with me at unleashingsistersaints@gmail.com or on social media @UnleashingSisterSaints (see links below). Resources: May 2020 Harvard Business Review article: “Gender Equity Starts in the Home” October 2022 General Conference talk by Elder Ulisses S. Soares: “In Partnership with the Lord” Learn More: Learn more about Dr. Susan Madsen at www.susanrmadsen.com Sign up to receive monthly emails from Dr. Madsen about updated research, resources, and events at www.utwomen.org. These can be helpful whether you are in Utah or beyond. Follow Unleashing Sister Saints on social media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/UnleashingSisterSaints Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unleashingsistersaints/ Contact Me: I love hearing from listeners! Email me with questions, comments, or suggestions at unleashingsistersaints@gmail.com.
Join me for a conversation with special guest Dr. Valerie Hudson to learn about her work on international security and gender and why she chooses to believe in the gospel of Jesus Christ. Valerie shares how she was initially drawn to the sensible and practical nature of the gospel as a young teenage convert, and why she believes that sharing the gospel of Jesus Christ is “the most feminist act one can commit.” Valerie believes the hallmark of the true church of Jesus Christ is the doctrine of equal partnership between men and women, and she offers insights into how she has grounded herself in true and pure principals regarding the divinity of females as a member of the Church, a scholar, and a wife and mother. “When I consider what's happening here on earth, I can cling to the heavenly vision and know there is a place where women are fully equal before God; where women's talents and skills are viewed as a contribution not as a distraction, and where men and women jointly and unanimously make all decisions concerning the human family; where there is no violence at all or coercion between men and women. I think that vision helps me do the work I do as a scholar.” -Dr. Valerie Hudson Challenge: Read Dr. Valerie Hudson's fantastic 2013 Ensign (now Liahona) article, “Equal Partnership in Marriage.” Resources: Dr. Valerie Hudson full bio Square Two Online Journal April 2013 Ensign Article: “Equal Partnership in Marriage” Book: Women in Eternity, Women in Zion Sign up to receive monthly emails from Dr. Madsen about updated research, resources, and events at www.utwomen.org. These can be helpful whether you are in Utah or beyond. Learn more about Dr. Susan Madsen at www.susanrmadsen.com Follow Unleashing Sister Saints on social media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/UnleashingSisterSaints Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unleashingsistersaints/ I love hearing from listeners! Email me with questions, comments, or suggestions at unleashingsistersaints@gmail.com.
Many private practices are structured as partnerships, but not all partnerships are the same. Dr. Brad Block is an ENT with ENT and Allergy Associates, the largest ENT practice in the country, and one where every last ENT doctor can become a partner. Brad describes how it works and why they do it this way on PracticeCare.Bradley Block, MD, is a private practice otolaryngologist on Long Island, New York, where he lives with his wife and three young sons. He is a partner at ENT and Allergy Associates and creator of the Physician's Guide to Doctoring Podcast. He is available as a keynote speaker on improving the patient experience, doctor-patient communication, and running office-hours efficiently.Brad, or Dr. Block as his parents call him, went to med school at SUNY Buffalo and graduated with research honors. He then went on to his ENT residency at Georgetown. He enjoys spending time with his family, surfing (yes, there is surfing on Long Island), skiing (there is no skiing on Long Island), smoking meat, exercising, and finding any excuse to quote an 80s movie. “I'm not saying I'd build a summer home here, but the trees are actually quite lovely.” In this episode Carl White and Bradley Block discuss:The differences between a typical partnership structure and where Brad worksWhat's better about Brad's partnership structureWhat's not better (hint: nothing) Want to be a guest on PracticeCare?Have an experience with a business issue you think others will benefit from? Come on PracticeCare and tell the world! Here's the link where you can get the process started. Affiliate PromotionWe're fans of Constant Contact for email campaigns, newsletters, and emails. We use it with our clients. What we like: Very easy to useVery flexibleEasy to find supportHIPAA compliant Get 30% off for the 1st 3 months if you sign up using our partner link. We do receive a commission when you use our link. Constant Contact offers additional prepayment discounts you can choose: 10% off per month for your first 6 months, or 15% off for the year. If you prepay, your discount stacks on top of the 30% discount for the 1st 3 months. To get Physicians Guide To Doctoring Episodes:http://www.facebook.com/physiciansguidetodoctoringhttps://twitter.com/physiciansguidehttps://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/physicians-guide-to-doctoring/id1429047634?mt=2https://open.spotify.com/show/3GE8U5bFIcWsUmhtbn3GXE?si=PbSJwoj7SM6qpT_q1JyV_Q Connect with Carl WhiteWebsite: http://www.marketvisorygroup.comEmail: whitec@marketvisorygroup.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/marketvisorygroupYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCD9BLCu_i2ezBj1ktUHVmigLinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/healthcaremktg
Today's episode is a Comfort Food rerun featuring a conversation between Virginia, Amy Palanjian, and Darcy Lockman. Darcy is a clinical psychologist and author of All the Rage: Mothers, Fathers, and the Myth of Equal Partnership. All the Rage explores how egalitarian relationships become traditional ones when children are introduced to the household and why a disproportionate amount of parental work falls on women, no matter their background, class or professional statusDarcy's book was foundational for me in starting to understand this issue more deeply. One thing I really like about Darcy's work is that she does invite men into the conversation. It's not just ranting, it's about how we can change the conversation and move forward. And remember, if you order All the Rage from the Burnt Toast Bookshop, you can get 10 percent off if you also preorder (or have already preordered) Fat Talk (Just use the code FATTALK at checkout.)Fat Talk: Parenting In the Age of Diet Culture comes out April 25, 2023 from Henry Holt. Preorder a signed copy from Virginia's favorite independent bookstore, Split Rock Books (they ship anywhere in the US). Or order it from your independent bookstore, or from Barnes & Noble, Amazon, Target, or Kobo or anywhere else you like to buy books. And! You can now preorder the audio book from Libro.fm or Audible.If you want more conversations like this one, please rate and review us in your podcast player and become a paid Burnt Toast subscriber to get all of Virginia's reporting and bonus subscriber-only episodes. Disclaimer: Virginia is a journalist and human with a lot of informed opinions. Virginia is not a nutritionist, therapist, doctor, or any kind of health care provider. The conversation you're about to hear and all of the advice and opinions she gives are just for entertainment, information, and education purposes only. None of this is a substitute for individual medical or mental health advice.LINKSDarcy's WebsiteKids Don't Damage Women's Careers — Men DoMommastrongCREDITSThe Burnt Toast Podcast is produced and hosted by me, Virginia Sole-Smith. You can follow me on Instagram, Twitter or TikTok. Burnt Toast transcripts and essays are edited and formatted by Corinne Fay, who runs @SellTradePlus, an Instagram account where you can buy and sell plus size clothing. The Burnt Toast logo is by Deanna Lowe. Our theme music is by Jeff Bailey and Chris Maxwell. Tommy Harron is our audio engineer. Thanks for listening and supporting independent anti-diet journalism! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit virginiasolesmith.substack.com/subscribe
This episode we're talking about Gender Theory & Gender Studies! We discuss theory vs studies, memes, feminism, books that should exist but don't, and more! You can download the podcast directly, find it on Libsyn, or get it through Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, Google Podcasts, or your favourite podcast delivery system. In this episode Anna Ferri | Meghan Whyte | Matthew Murray | Jam Edwards Things We Read (or tried to…) A Burst of Light by Audre Lorde Histories of the Transgender Child by Jules Gill-Peterson Before We Were Trans: A New History of Gender by Kit Heyam Whipping Girl: A Transsexual Woman on Sexism and the Scapegoating of Femininity by Julia Serano Queer: A Graphic History by Meg-John Barker and Jules Scheele Beyond the Gender Binary by Alok Vaid-Menon A Quick & Easy Guide to Queer & Trans Identities by Mady G. and J.R. Zuckerberg Other Media We Mentioned BITCHfest: Ten Years of Cultural Criticism from the Pages of Bitch Magazine edited by Lisa Jervis & Andi Zeisler Body Outlaws: Rewriting the Rules of Beauty and Body Image edited by Ophira Edut A Room of One's Own by Virginia Woolf Female Masculinity by Jack Halberstam Whipping Girl: A Transsexual Woman on Sexism and the Scapegoating of Femininity by Julia Serano Gender Outlaw: On Men, Women and the Rest of Us by Kate Bornstein The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love by bell hooks All the Rage: Mothers, Fathers, and the Myth of Equal Partnership by Darcy Lockman For Her Own Good: Two Centuries of the Experts' Advice to Women by Barbara Ehrenreich and Deirdre English The Argonauts by Maggie Nelson X-Gender, vol. 1 by Asuka Miyazaki A Quick & Easy Guide to They/Them Pronouns by Archie Bongiovanni and Tristan Jimerson Feminism is For Everybody by bell hooks Down Girl: The Logic of Misogyny by Kate Manne A Girl's Guide to Taking Over the World: Writings From The Girl Zine Revolution edited by Karen Green & Tristan Taormino Links, Articles, and Things A small sample of Bibliocommons user-curated lists: Early Feminism Through 1847 Feminist Classics: Third Wave Feminism, the 1990s Trans Classics: important books about the many trans experiences Very Short Introductions (Wikipedia) TERF / FART / “Gender Critical” Transgender Childhood Is Not a ‘Trend' by Jules Gill-Peterson Gill-Peterson is one of 1,000+ contributors to the New York Times who signed an open letter condemning the anti-trans bigotry in their coverage. Read it here. Hark! Episode 330: Fucking Pie 20 Gender Theory/Studies books by BIPOC (Black, Indigenous, & People of Colour) Authors Every month Book Club for Masochists: A Readers' Advisory Podcasts chooses a genre at random and we read and discuss books from that genre. We also put together book lists for each episode/genre that feature works by BIPOC (Black, Indigenous, & People of Colour) authors. All of the lists can be found here. Living a Feminist Life by Sara Ahmed The Sacred Hoop: Recovering the Feminine in American Indian Traditions by Paula Gunn Allen Borderlands/La Frontera: The New Mestiza by Gloria Anzaldúa Decolonizing Trans/Gender 101 by b. binaohan The Crunk Feminist Collection edited by Brittney Cooper, Susana M. Morris, & Robin M. Boylorn Beyond Trans: Does Gender Matter? by Heath Fogg Davis Women, Race & Class by Angela Y. Davis Asegi Stories: Cherokee Queer and Two-Spirit Memory by Qwo-Li Driskill Radicalizing Her: Why Women Choose Violence by Nimmi Gowrinathan White Tears/Brown Scars: How White Feminism Betrays Women of Color by Ruby Hamad Feminist Theory: From Margin to Center by bell hooks But Some of Us Are Brave: All the Women Are White, All the Blacks Are Men: Black Women's Studies by Akasha Gloria Hull Indigenous Men and Masculinities: Legacies, Identities, Regeneration edited by Robert Alexander Innes and Kim Anderson Patriarchy Blues: Reflections on Manhood by Frederick Joseph Hood Feminism: Notes from the Women That a Movement Forgot by Mikki Kendall Sister Outsider: Essays and Speeches by Audre Lorde This Bridge Called My Back: Writings by Radical Women of Color edited by Cherríe Moraga & Gloria Anzaldúa Colonize This!: Young Women of Color on Today's Feminism edited by Bushra Rehman I'm Afraid of Men by Vivek Shraya Black on Both Sides: A Racial History of Trans Identity by C. Riley Snorton Give us feedback! Fill out the form to ask for a recommendation or suggest a genre or title for us to read! Check out our Tumblr, follow us on Twitter or Instagram, join our Facebook Group, or send us an email! Join us again on Tuesday, March 21st when we'll be talking about the Moving and Management of Books! Then, on Tuesday, April 4th we'll be discussing the genre of Domestic Thrillers!
Thursday March 2nd - MNL President Amy Coady - Call For Municipal Stability & Equal Partnership by VOCM
This week, we're bringing back a couple of our favorite guests and close friends, McArthur Krishna and Bethany Brady Spalding. McArthur and Bethany have just released a new book titled: In the Image of Our Heavenly Parents: A Couples' Guide to Creating a More Divine Marriage.Bethany and McArthur have done super interesting and important work with this book — it uses the model of “divine partnership,” based on the doctrine of Heavenly Parents, to inspire couples to create powerful and fulfilling partnerships in their own marriages. They do so in each chapter with sections that they call “prophetic counsel,” mining the rich resources we have from Church leaders that point to true equality and partnership in marriage, as well as “professional expertise,” allowing marriage and family therapists to help couples find practical ways to make that ideal a reality.The book also functions like a workbook with lots of practices that help us understand our own values and goals for our relationships: we really think it's something lots of Latter-day Saint couples would enjoy going through together.It really is something special that they've put together, and we're grateful they sat down with us to talk about it.McArthur Krishna has a master's degree in communication from BYU, and also co-owned Free Range, which is an award-winning marketing business focused on telling social justice stories. In 2011, she moved to India and started writing books, which she's been doing ever since.Bethany Brady Spalding has a Master of Public Health from the University of London, and has worked for both large, international organizations and small, local non-profits to advance children's health and wellness in South Africa, India, and the USA. She calls Richmond, Virginia home where she runs school gardens, writes books, and raises three girls.This book was published as an e-book and can be purchased at dstreetpress.com.
What is your relationship like with money? Are you always trying to keep up with the Joneses? Would you and your partner benefit from financial therapy? Don't judge, because everybody can benefit from therapy. In this episode of the Finance for Physicians Podcast, Daniel Wrenne talks to Ed Coambs, a licensed marriage and family therapist, certified financial planner (CFP), and founder of Charlotte Couples Counseling. Ed shares practical tips to improve your financial behaviors and relationship with money. Topics Discussed: • Couples Around Money: Mix of emotion, experiences, and desire to connect • Why financial therapy? Financial stress due to thoughts, emotions, behaviors • Pain Points: Spending versus saving is challenging and problematic for couples • Power Control: What does money mean and represent? What is valued most? • Equal Partnership? Understand social meaning of professional identity • Converted Skeptic: Everybody can benefit from therapy with ability to heal • Male Psyche: Character defect or discomfort doesn't make a narcissist • Financial Flashpoints: Partner's experiences and expectations around money • Money Management: Yours, mine, or our money in separate or joint accounts • Money Egg Exercise: Is your relationship with money positive or negative? Links: www.WrenneFinancial.com
Bioneers: Revolution From the Heart of Nature | Bioneers Radio Series
Women-led movements arising around the world herald a profound shift that changes everything. Visionary women leaders Osprey Orielle-Lake, Leila Salazar and Lynne Twist report on the women leading the clean energy revolution in Africa, defending the Amazonian rainforest, and making peace in Liberia.
Evolving with Nita Jain: Health | Science | Self-Improvement
Are women naturally more nurturing or are these roles simply the result of social conditioning? Any discussion revolving around a given gender's “natural” propensity towards certain roles is guaranteed to quickly get heated. In her book, Equal Partners: Improving Gender Equality at Home, Kate Mangino makes the case for gender parity within households. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nitajain.substack.com
What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood | Parenting Tips From Funny Moms
We're back with another roundup of what we're reading, watching, and listening to. Some of it's educational. Some of it's spicy. Some of it's just for fun. And all of it is totally worth your time! What we're reading: A Court of Thorns and Roses by Sarah J. Maas All the Rage: Mothers, Fathers, and the Myth of Equal Partnership by Darcy Lockman Evgenia Peretz for Vanity Fair: "Scene Stealer: The True Lies of Elisabeth Finch, Part 1" Our What Fresh Hell newsletter! Subscribe on our homepage. What we're watching: Amy Winehouse documentary "Back to Black" The Rehearsal on HBO Napoleon Dynamite Jeopardy! Animal Facts @comedyfortheinternet #animalfacts Keep Sweet, Pray, and Obey Under the Banner of Heaven (book and TV show) KC Davis's TikTok @domesticblisters What we're listening to: The Seduction Dirty John Sweet Bobby A Normal Family: The JonBenet Ramsey Case Revisited Watch What Crappens our Fresh Take with Kate Mangino Beyoncé's new album "Renaissance" Lizzo's new album "Special" Our episode "Grudges Held, Grudges Kept" Sign up for the What Fresh Hell newsletter! Once a month you'll get our favorite recent episodes, plus links to other things to read and watch and listen to that we think you'll love. Go to whatfreshhellpodcast.com – there's a link in the right sidebar. Special thanks to our sponsors for this month: Pampers are the #1 pediatrician-recommended diaper brand. Download the Pampers Club App today to start earning rewards with every diaper & wipes purchase! BetterHelp matches you with a qualified therapist in under 48 hours, then you choose among video, phone, or even live chat sessions. Get 10% off your first month at betterhelp.com/fresh. Dermawand is a non-surgical, non-invasive way to achieve dramatically younger-looking skin. Get 20% off your order with code LAUGH20 at dermawand.com. Indeed is the hiring platform where you can Attract, Interview, and Hire all in one place. Visit indeed.com/LAUGHING to start hiring now. KiwiCo projects make back-to-school more awesome! Get 30% off your first month plus FREE shipping on ANY crate line with code MOTHERHOOD at kiwico.com. Little Spoon is a one-stop shop for healthy, easy mealtime for your baby, toddler and big kid. Enter code WHATFRESH at checkout to get 50% OFF your first Little Spoon delivery order. Metabolic Reds are a delicious superfood blend. Go to getreds.com/fresh and receive a FREE bottle of Metabolic Greens with your order. Misfits Market is an affordable online grocery service that makes grocery shopping fast and easy. Visit get.misfitsmarket.com/FRESH30 by Dec. 31st to get 30% off your first order. Prose is the fully customized healthy hair regimen with your name all over it. Get 15% off your first order at prose.com/laughing. StoryWorth is an online service that helps you and your loved ones connect through sharing stories and memories and preserves them for years to come. Save $10 off your first purchase at storyworth.com/whatfreshhell Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Do you feel like you're drowning in the mental load of motherhood? Many moms struggle with this. They find themselves falling into gender roles in the home without realizing it, and they don't know how to break out of the pattern.Today, I'm joined by Dr. Darcy Lockman, psychologist and author of All the Rage: Mothers, Fathers, and the Myth of Equal Partnership, to discuss why the gender imbalance in household labour happens and how to shift the dynamics in the home.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/3qsnkcx
In this episode, I introduce you to Corey and Stoney, the two new Peaceful Parenting Coaches here at Sarah Rosensweet Peaceful Parenting. We chat about our peaceful parenting journeys as well as our most influential parenting books over the years. We go into: [1:45] Introducing Corey to the team [3:10] Introducing Stoney to the team [5:50] Sarah's most influential parenting books [8:35] Corey's most influential parenting books [13:00] Stoney's most influential parenting books [24:30] The importance of equal partnership [32:50] What to do if you're struggling with burnout Resources mentioned in this episode Episode 24: Coaching call with Corey: When Peaceful Parenting Wasn't Enough Episode 47: Shame-Proof Parenting with Mercedes Samudio Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids by Dr. Laura Marham Unconditional Parenting by Alfie Kohn Punished by Rewards by Alfie Kohn Shame Proof Parenting by Mercedes Samudio Simplicity Parenting by Kim John Payne The Soul of Discipline by Kim John Payne Raising Human Beings by Ross Greene Find Your Unicorn Space by Eve Rodsky Fair Play by Eve Rodsky Impossible Parenting by Olivia Scobie How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids by Jancee Dunn All The Rage: Mothers, Fathers, and The Myth of Equal Partnership by Darcy Lockman Burnout by Emily and Amelia Nagoski Connect with Sarah Rosensweet On Instagram On Facebook https://www.sarahrosensweet.com Book a short consult or coaching session call
Adam talks about his take on Eph 5-6, centering on Two becoming One.
This episode we're talking about our Favourite Reads of 2021! We discuss our favourite fiction and non-fiction reads for the podcast (and not for the podcast) as well as other things that helped us get through the year! You can download the podcast directly, find it on Libsyn, or get it through Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, Google Podcasts, Spotify, or your favourite podcast delivery system. In this episode Anna Ferri | Meghan Whyte | Matthew Murray | RJ Edwards Bookshop.org list of (most) our our top titles https://bookshop.org/lists/favourite-reads-of-2021 Favourite Fiction For the podcast Matthew Dreamships by Melissa Scott (1992) Episode 131 - Cyberpunk Anna Her Body and Other Parties by Carmen Maria Machado (2017) Episode 123 Psychological Horror Tied with Episode 134 - Piranesi by Susanna Clarke Meghan Trouble and Her Friends by Melissa Scott (1995) Episode 131 - Cyberpunk RJ The Devotion of Suspect X by Keigo Higashino, translated by Alexander O. Smith (Japanese 2005, translated 2011) Episode 127 - Crime Fiction (But it's really Piranesi by Susanna Clarke) Not for the podcast Anna Minimum Wage Magic by Rachel Aaron (2018) Meghan Winter Tide by Ruthanna Emrys (2017) RJ To Be Taught if Fortunate by Becky Chambers (2019) Episode 124 - Media (and Noodles) We've Recently Enjoyed Matthew Gideon the Ninth by Tamsyn Muir (2019) Favourite Non-Fiction For the podcast Meghan The Secret Life of Groceries: The Dark Miracle of the American Supermarket by Benjamin Lorr (2020) Episode 117 - Sociology Non-Fiction RJ The Language of the Night: Essays on Fantasy and Science Fiction by Ursula K. Le Guin (1992; originally 1979) Episode 125 - Literary Theory & Literary Criticism Matthew Evicted: Poverty and Profit in the American City by Matthew Desmond (2016) Episode 117 - Sociology Non-Fiction Anna All the Rage: Mothers, Fathers and the Myth of Equal Partnership by Darcy Lockman (2019) Episode 117 - Sociology Non-Fiction Not for the podcast RJ Napkin by Carta Monir (2019) Episode 132 - Recent Media We've Enjoyed Matthew 19 Ways of Looking at Wang Wei by Eliot Weinberger (2016; originally 1987) Episode 132 - Recent Media We've Enjoyed Anna Having and Being Had by Eula Biss (2020) (except I feel guilty that this is the same author as last year's non-fic fav so I could also do Lower Ed: The Troubling Rise of For-Profit Colleges in the New Economy by Tressie McMillan Cottom) Meghan Three Squares: The Invention of the American Meal by Abigail Carroll (2013) Other Favourites Things of 2021 Anna Maintenance Phase & You're Wrong About (podcasts) RJ Unpacking (game) Matthew Barge Chilling Beach The Magic Fish by Trung Le Nguyen (2020) Meghan wandrer.earth Sacré dépanneur! by Judith Lussier (2010) Runner-Ups Matthew Books Typeset in the Future: Typography and Design in Science Fiction Movies by Dave Addey Episode 129 - Non-Fiction Film & TV Books The Skin We're In: A Year of Black Resistance and Power by Desmond Cole Comics (Twitter thread with more info on each title) Nicola Traveling Around the Demons' World by Asaya Miyanaga (4 volumes, complete) Episode 124 - Media (and Noodles) We've Recently Enjoyed The Girl from the Other Side: Siúil, A Rún by Nagabe, translated by Adrienne Beck (11 volumes, complete) Witch Hat Atelier by Kamome Shirahama, translated by Stephen Kohler (8 volumes, ongoing) Episode 132 - Recent Media We've Enjoyed Spy x Family by Tatsuya Endo, translated by Casey Loe (6 volumes, ongoing) Episode 132 - Recent Media We've Enjoyed What Is Obscenity? The Story of A Good For Nothing Girl and Her Pussy by Rokudenashiko The Nib edited by Matt Bors Website Pulp and Reckless by Ed Brubaker, Sean Phillips, and Jacob Phillips Super Fun Sexy Times by Meredith McClaren This is How I Disappear by Mirion Malle Scary manga: Kasane by Daruma Matsuura (14 volumes, complete) Sensor by Junji Ito (1 volume, complete) PTSD Radio by Masaaki Nakayama (6 volumes, complete) Blood on the Tracks by Shūzō Oshimi (7 volumes, ongoing) Anna The Art of Cruelty by Maggie Nelson What We Don't Talk About When We Talk About Fat by Aubrey Gordon Go Ahead in the Rain: Notes to A Tribe Called Quest by Hanif Abdurraqib Can't Even: How Millennials Became the Burnout Generation by Anne Helen Petersen How to Do Nothing: Resisting the Attention Economy by Jenny Odell Meghan Fiction The Only Good Indians by Stephen Graham Jones (horror) The Story of My Teeth by Valeria Luiselli (literary fiction) No One Is Talking About This by Patricia Lockwood (literary fiction) Rabbits by Terry Miles (techno thriller) Non-fiction Bikes and Bloomers: Victorian Women Inventors and their Extraordinary Cycle Wear by Kat Jungnickel The Cold Vanish: Seeking the Missing in North America's Wildlands by Jon Billman Paperbacks from Hell: The Twisted History of '70s and '80s Horror Fiction by Grady Hendrix RJ Picture books!!! Ping by Ani Castillo Poojo's Got Wheels by Charrow Two Many Birds by Cindy Derby This Is Ruby by Sara O'Leary & Alea Marley Animals Brag About Their Bottoms by Maki Saito, translated by Brian Bergstrom Your Name Is a Song by Jamilah Thompkins-Bigelow & Luisa Uribe Someone Builds the Dream by Lisa Wheeler & Loren Long Comics Beetle and the Hollowbones by Aliza Layne The Magic Fish by Trung Le Nguyen Stargazing by Jen Wang Grease Bats by Archie Bongiovanni TV/Video Taskmaster Only Connect Puzzgrid: Only Connect wall-style puzzles Dimension 20 Mice & Murder Misfits & Magic Games Voyagers: A LARP Duet (PDF link) Other Media We Mentioned Snow Crash by Neal Stephenson Neuromancer by William Gibson On Immunity: An Inoculation by Eula Biss Red Spider White Web by Misha Nogha You Are Good (podcast) Animal Crossing: New Horizons (Wikipedia) Links, Articles, and Things Hark! Episode 300: Good to Better, Bad to Worse Secret Stacks Episode 65 Episode 116 - Best Books We Read in 2020 Episode 113 - Seeking Book Recommendations Episode 114 - Hot Cocoa & Book Recommendations Dude Chilling Park (Wikipedia) 20 Philosophy books by BIPOC (Black, Indigenous, & People of Colour) Authors Every month Book Club for Masochists: A Readers' Advisory Podcasts chooses a genre at random and we read and discuss books from that genre. We also put together book lists for each episode/genre that feature works by BIPOC (Black, Indigenous, & People of Colour) authors to help our listeners diversify their readers' advisory. All of the lists can be found here. The Promise of Happiness by Sarah Ahmed Tsawalk: A Nuu-chah-nulth Worldview by Umeek / E Richard Atleo The Location of Culture by Homi K. Bhabha Emergent Strategy: Shaping Change, Changing Worlds by Adrienne Maree Brown Are Prisons Obsolete? by Angela Y. Davis The Wretched of the Earth by Frantz Fanon Pedagogy of the Oppressed by Paulo Freire Feminist Theory: From Margin to Center by bell hooks The God Equation: The Quest for a Theory of Everything by Michio Kaku Sister Outsider: Essays and Speeches by Audre Lorde Memory Serves: Oratories by Lee Maracle Cruising Utopia: The Then and There of Queer Futurity by José Esteban Muñoz Everyday Ubuntu: Living Better Together, the African Way by Mungi Ngomane Decolonising the Mind: The Politics of Language in African Literature by Ngũgĩ wa Thiong'o Mexican Philosophy in the 20th Century: Essential Readings edited by Carlos Alberto Sánchez & Robert Eli Sanchez Jr. As We Have Always Done: Indigenous Freedom through Radical Resistance by Leanne Betasamosake Simpson Black on Both Sides: A Racial History of Trans Identity by C. Riley Snorton Mathematics for Human Flourishing by Francis Su Zen Mind, Beginner's Mind: Informal Talks on Zen Meditation and Practice by Shunryu Suzuki Sand Talk: How Indigenous Thinking Can Save the World by Tyson Yunkaporta Give us feedback! Fill out the form to ask for a recommendation or suggest a genre or title for us to read! Check out our Tumblr, follow us on Twitter or Instagram, join our Facebook Group, or send us an email! Join us again on Tuesday, January 4th we'll be discussing the genre of Architecture! Then on Tuesday, January 18th we'll be talking about how (and why) 2022 is the Year of Book 2!
You are in for a TREAT. We are rounding out the holiday season with a real delight. For our final episode of the year, we had the honor and privilege of featuring Darcy Lockman, author of All the Rage: Mothers, Fathers, and the Myth of Equal Partnership, who shares with us much of the wisdom of her book. You won't want to miss it!Highlights from this episode include:Katie has lost all meaning of time and space in the graduate-school-pregnancy vortexContrary to the topic of our interview, we learn that Katie's husband is taking on alllll the nesting. Katie thinks she's 30-something-ish weeks along, maybe? She doesn't know.Lee Ann got a new job and lost half her hair. It's a thing! Hair loss is everywhere these days. Shout-out to all the women who have gone bald for any reason.Katie and Lee Ann discuss the making of the “holiday magic” and the disproportionate amount of that somehow-magic-happens work that falls disproportionately on the shoulders of moms. The only magic around here is the seamless segue to the interview with Darcy Lockman about her book, All the Rage: Mothers, Fathers, and the Myth of Equal Partnership.Interview: Y'all. Drop everything and get your copy TODAY. All the Rage puts the data behind gender roles and the consequential inequality in parenthood. How does our patriarchal upbringing affect our parenting and partnering? Lockman argues that despite significant changes in the work force, home life has not shifted as substantially, and women in heterosexual relationships still shoulder about 2/3 of the work of parenting. These women are frustrated and tired. Lockman explores some of the reasons why and what we can hope to do about it (beside moving to Scandinavia). She also discusses the term “intensive mothering," and how it may be linked to cultural anxiety of women's return to work. GAH! All the Rage was a real eye-opener for us, and so many others. We think you will love it. So read it or listen to it on audiobook, and then share it with your friends… and your partner!Solicited advice: Katie asks about rolling pins. She totally does.Highs and lows: Contrary to our interview topic, one weekend, Katie did all the things and found it wonderful! It is possible!Many thanks to Darcy Lockman for joining us, and to all of you for being a part of Raising Cascadia this year!
In this two-part episode, Esther leads us into the theological weeds of Christianity's patriarchal roots. In part one, she shares her story of growing up with a patriarchal and complementarian understanding of Christianity and explains the ways in which her thinking has now evolved and changed. In part two, we dive deeper into understandings of egalitarian and complementarian theologies and the ways in which we can find a third way that honors our shared humanity and sets both genders free. We also begin to unpack how we can learn to have conversations with those on the opposite end of the theological or political spectrum. Here are some resources we reference in the episode, and some recommended reading if your heart desires more: Books: The Making of Biblical Womanhood: How the Subjugation of Women Became Gospel Truth by Beth Allison BarrWomen in the Church: A Biblical Theology of Women in Ministry by Denise M. Kjesbo and Stanley J. GrenzWhy Wesleyans Favor Women in Ministry by Ken Schenck Surprised by Scripture: Engaging Contemporary Issues by N. T. WrightArticles: "Women in Ministry" by David M. Scholerhttps://www.fuller.edu/wp-content/uploads/2018/02/Women-in-Ministry-A-Biblical-Basis-for-Equal-Partnership.pdf"Why Arguments against Women in Ministry Aren't Biblical" by Ben Witheringtonhttps://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/bibleandculture/2009/10/why-arguments-against-women-in-ministry-arent-biblical.html#commentsOther: Marg Mowczkohttps://margmowczko.com/Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/sonda/your-own-worldLicense code: 1WX6GFMRRZEGMYVC
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Mom Enough: Parenting tips, research-based advice + a few personal confessions!
Before you became a parent, how did you envision the way you and your partner would handle parenting responsibilities? Was a vision of "equal partnership" for household and parenting tasks a part of this? To what extent does the actual division of labor match your vision or expectations? If you're like most families, there is a notable gap between expectations and reality, and that may be fine with you – or not! Clinical psychologist and author Darcy Lockman, motivated in part by personal experience, has delved deeply into this topic. She brings what she has learned to this fascinating and important conversation with Marti & Erin. She explores assumptions about hormones and of parenting, cultural trends in intensive mothering, peaks and plateaus in active fathering and the often invisible work of the “mental load” of parenting. Most of all, Darcy urges couples to talk together about how they want to parent, especially before becoming parents. But, as Marti & Erin note, if you didn't start then, start now! HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED A SENSE OF INEQUALITY OR EQUAL PARTNERSHIP IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP? Make time to reflect (alone and/or with your partner) on how you share the responsibilities of parenting, both the visible and invisible tasks this week's guest talked about. How do you feel about the equality of how the work is being done? How do you handle those feelings? What would you want to change and how could you begin with small steps, showing respect and sensitivity to your partner's perceptions and feelings? WANT TO LEARN MORE? ❉ ALL THE RAGE: MOTHERS, FATHERS, AND THE MYTH OF EQUAL PARTNERSHIP. Learn more about Darcy Lockman's book! ❉ TO OFTEN, WORKING MOTHERS DO FAR MORE OF THE CHILDCARE THAN THEIR HUSBANDS. Check out this article by Darcy Lockman for TIME. ❉ DON'T BE GRATEFUL THAT DAD DOES HIS SHARE. Check out this article by Darcy Lockman for The Atlantic. ❉ DADS MATTER: THE ROLE OF THE FATHER IN CHILD DEVELOPMENT AND WHAT MOMS CAN DO TO HELP DADS SUCCEED. Check out this Andre Dukes of the Northside Achievement Zone in Minneapolis, joins Marti & Erin to discuss the role of the father in child development, the benefits of father involvement throughout a child's life and what we all can do to help men be the dads their children need.
Kate Webb's true north is to ensure that any tourism that she facilitates drives the local economy and community. Her companies, Orbis Expeditions and the Responsible Safari Company, achieve this aim through sport challenge trips, learning ventures, and travel with a purpose.In this conversation, she and Christine talk about Kate's focus on supporting current initiatives over creating new ones, what really benefits people in the local economy, and cultural understanding vs. cultural empathy. They also discuss feelings of shame and discomfort as we travel, and how those moments are opportunities for growth.Learn more about Orbis Expeditions here.Learn more about the Responsible Safari Company here.Learn more about Lotus Sojourns and ways to be a part of the community here.Find Lotus Sojourns on Facebook, or join the Lotus Sojourns Collective, our FB community for like-hearted women.Follow us on Instagram: @lotussojourns or @souloftravelpodcastCredits. Christine Winebrenner Irick (Host, creator, editor.) KateWebb (Guest). Original music by Clark Adams. Editing and production by Alex Lee-Ammons and For The Love Media, LLC.
Do you struggle with equal partnership when taking care of business in the home? We discuss how we struggled with this in our early marriage. We also give some simple tips on how to involve your partner if you wish it would be an equal dynamic. Have a great week! **IMPORTANT** We will be taking a break Monday, the 12th so we will release a bonus episode tomorrow to account for missing content. Please Rate and review. Love, Morgan&Dante
For their seventh episode of Like It's Your Job, Matt and David Shields brought on two innovators in the debt capital delivery world: Joe Beard, CEO, and Joel Radtke, President & COO, of CollateralEdge.CollateralEdge is an innovative fintech platform that provides community and regional banks with a flexible, automated risk management solution to strengthen the credit profile on individual corporate loans. In addition, Beard and Radtke shared their backgrounds, experiences, insights and philosophies on managing and co-founding a business. While David Shields pointed out most lawyers see more challenges than positives to a 50-50 business partnership, Beard and Radtke are proving the exception to the rule. So, why did they choose to form a partnership rather than start separate businesses? “This is how I look at it,” Radtke said. “If the business is a lemonade stand, you should probably do it yourself because of the fun, the uniqueness, the little decisions you make; you want control of that. When you set your sights on building a great company, in a big market, with a difficult problem, you need to multiply the number of ideas. You need to make sure all of the priorities and expirations that need to happen to address this don't get short shrift just because you've reached your mental limits or you're exhausted at the end of the day.” For Beard, he recognized that he could have an even more significant impact on the world with the right business partner by his side with all his talents and abilities.“Having a true peer in terms of what you bring to the table is critical,” Beard said. Beard sees it as a “two heads are better than one” situation with the complex nature of business.
For their seventh episode of Like It's Your Job, Matt and David Shields brought on two innovators in the debt capital delivery world: Joe Beard, CEO, and Joel Radtke, President & COO, of CollateralEdge.CollateralEdge is an innovative fintech platform that provides community and regional banks with a flexible, automated risk management solution to strengthen the credit profile on individual corporate loans. In addition, Beard and Radtke shared their backgrounds, experiences, insights and philosophies on managing and co-founding a business. While David Shields pointed out most lawyers see more challenges than positives to a 50-50 business partnership, Beard and Radtke are proving the exception to the rule. So, why did they choose to form a partnership rather than start separate businesses? “This is how I look at it,” Radtke said. “If the business is a lemonade stand, you should probably do it yourself because of the fun, the uniqueness, the little decisions you make; you want control of that. When you set your sights on building a great company, in a big market, with a difficult problem, you need to multiply the number of ideas. You need to make sure all of the priorities and expirations that need to happen to address this don't get short shrift just because you've reached your mental limits or you're exhausted at the end of the day.” For Beard, he recognized that he could have an even more significant impact on the world with the right business partner by his side with all his talents and abilities.“Having a true peer in terms of what you bring to the table is critical,” Beard said. Beard sees it as a “two heads are better than one” situation with the complex nature of business.
The EQUAL PARTNERSHIP MYTH
This week Vee and Kail talk about failed marriage proposals and the effects they think it would have on a relationship. Could a couple stay together if the person getting proposed to says no? And relationships thrive when both parties are putting in equal effort, but what happens when one person starts to drop the ball. Marriages, friendships, and coparenting relationships can all benefit when things are equal. This episode was sponsored by: Lovevery, Jenni Kayne, OSEA Malibu, & Upstart Music by: Loyalty Freak Music
This week Vee and Kail talk about failed marriage proposals and the effects they think it would have on a relationship. Could a couple stay together if the person getting proposed to says no? And relationships thrive when both parties are putting in equal effort, but what happens when one person starts to drop the ball. Marriages, friendships, and coparenting relationships can all benefit when things are equal. This episode was sponsored by: Lovevery, Jenni Kayne, OSEA Malibu, & UpstartMusic by: Loyalty Freak Music
This week, Marie interviews a couple who have lived the dream of taking their lives on the road with the freedom of entrepreneurship and unschooling, Justin and Bebe Butler. Over the past 10 years, the Butlers have lived in Las Vegas, Utah, in a van on Route 66, Florida and now New Mexico. Listen for some incredible stories about their experiences living life on their own terms and rebelling against the system into adulthood. Justin is a nationally recognized marketing and development strategist and Bebe is a doula and naturopathic medicine specialist, well on her way to becoming a midwife. They describe how they created an equitable partnership in raising and homeschooling their two daughters who are now 16 and 15. Listeners will be inspired by this family's story of curating their own educational experiences and watching their girls flourish and discover who they are with the freedom to be fully themselves. Join the rEvolution!Follow Bebe's Doula Services on FacebookCheck out Justin's Marketing Company
This week, Marie interviews a couple who have lived the dream of taking their lives on the road with the freedom of entrepreneurship and unschooling, Justin and Bebe Butler. Over the past 10 years, the Butlers have lived in Las Vegas, Utah, in a van on Route 66, Florida and now New Mexico. Listen for some incredible stories about their experiences living life on their own terms and rebelling against the system into adulthood. Justin is a nationally recognized marketing and development strategist and Bebe is a doula and naturopathic medicine specialist, well on her way to becoming a midwife. They describe how they created an equitable partnership in raising and homeschooling their two daughters who are now 16 and 15. Listeners will be inspired by this family's story of curating their own educational experiences and watching their girls flourish and discover who they are with the freedom to be fully themselves. Join the rEvolution!Follow Bebe's Doula Services on FacebookCheck out Justin's Marketing Company
Bioneers: Revolution From the Heart of Nature | Bioneers Radio Series
Women-led movements arising around the world herald a profound shift that changes everything. Visionary women leaders Osprey Orielle-Lake , Leila Salazar and Lynne Twist report on the women leading the clean energy revolution in Africa, defending the Amazonian rainforest, and making peace in Liberia.
This episode we’re reading Sociology Non-Fiction! We discuss the differences between sociology and psychology, what Karl Marx and Aziz Ansari have in common, the over-educated but kind-of-broke worker, and the difficulties of reading books that make us both sad and angry. Plus: Pandemic Monkey Brains! You can download the podcast directly, find it on Libsyn, or get it through Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, Google Podcasts, Spotify, or your favourite podcast delivery system. In this episode Anna Ferri | Meghan Whyte | Matthew Murray | Amanda Wanner Things We Read (or tried to read) From Here to Eternity: Traveling the World to Find the Good Death by Caitlin Doughty Automating Inequality: How High-Tech Tools Profile, Police, and Punish the Poor by Virginia Eubanks (this is better than Matthew implied in the episode, it is worth reading) Everybody Lies: Big Data, New Data, and What the Internet Can Tell Us About Who We Really Are by Seth Stephens-Davidowitz Evicted: Poverty and Profit in the American City by Matthew Desmond The Secret Life of Groceries: The Dark Miracle of the American Supermarket by Benjamin Lorr Palaces for the People: How Social Infrastructure Can Help Fight Inequality, Polarization, and the Decline of Civic Life by Eric Klinenberg Talking to Strangers: What We Should Know About the People We Don't Know by Malcolm Gladwell All the Rage: Mothers, Fathers and the Myth of Equal Partnership by Darcy Lockman Can't Even: How Millennials Became the Burnout Generation by Anne Helen Petersen What We Don't Talk About When We Talk About Fat by Aubrey Gordon Other Media We Mentioned The Age of Surveillance Capitalism by Shoshona Zuboff Disasters: A Sociological Approach by Kathleen Tierney The Credential Society: An Historical Sociology of Education and Stratification by Randall Collins Engines of Anxiety: Academic Rankings, Reputation, and Accountability by Wendy Nelson Espeland and Michael Sauder Beyond the Body: Death and Social Identity by Elizabeth Hallam, Glennys Howarth, Jenny Hockey The Protestant Work Ethic and the Spirit of Capitalism by Max Weber The Presentation of Self in Everyday Life by Erving Goffman Grocery: The Buying and Selling of Food in America by Michael Ruhlamn Three Squares: The Invention of the American Meal by Abigail Carroll Death of Sandra Bland (Wikipedia) Food Mirages in Guelph, Ontario: The Impacts of Limited Food Accessibility and Affordability on Low-income Residents by Benjamin Reeve (not mentioned during the episode, but this is someone’s actual sociology thesis that Matthew thinks is neat) Body Politics: Power, Sex, and Nonverbal Communication by Nancy M. Henley (Amanda meant to mention this book but forgot!) Links, Articles, and Things Where Do Librarians Come From? Examining Educational Diversity in Librarianship by Rachel Ivy Clarke (I think this is way less humanities-focussed than our program was…) Michel Foucault (Wikipedia) Dr. Thomas Kemple Readers' Advisory for Library Staff (Facebook Group) JUMPSUIT - “Jumpsuit: how to make a personal uniform for the end of capitalism” Code Switch (NPR Podcast) Louder Than A Riot (NPR Podcast) According to Need (99% Invisible Podcast) Sabrina and Friends: Answers in Progress How Conspiracy Theories Work (a good example of a video showing the research process) Trader Joe's (Wikipedia) What does it mean to be working class in Canada? (Macleans article) 15 Sociology Books by BIPOC (Black, Indigenous, & People of Colour) Authors Every month Book Club for Masochists: A Readers’ Advisory Podcasts chooses a genre at random and we read and discuss books from that genre. We also put together book lists for each episode/genre that feature works by BIPOC (Black, Indigenous, & People of Colour) authors. All of the lists can be found here. Beauty Diplomacy: Embodying an Emerging Nation by Oluwakemi M. Balogun W. E. B. Du Bois's Data Portraits: Visualizing Black America edited by by Whitney Battle-Baptiste and Britt Rusert The Next American Revolution: Sustainable Activism for the Twenty-First Century by Grace Lee Boggs & Scott Kurashige Racism without Racists: Color-Blind Racism and the Persistence of Racial Inequality in the United States by Eduardo Bonilla-Silva Women, Race & Class by Angela Y. Davis Winners Take All: The Elite Charade of Changing the World by Anand Giridharadas Follow Me, Akhi: The Online World of British Muslims by Hussein Kesvani I Am Woman: A Native Perspective on Sociology and Feminism by Lee Maracle Body and Soul: The Black Panther Party and The Fight Against Medical Discrimination by Alondra Nelson Finding Latinx: In Search of the Voices Redefining Latino Identity by Paola Ramos Fruteros: Street Vending, Illegality, and Ethnic Community in Los Angeles by Rocío Rosales Decolonizing Methodologies: Research and Indigenous Peoples by Linda Tuhiwai Smith Off the Books: The Underground Economy of the Urban Poor by Sudhir Venkatesh Indigenous Writes: A Guide to First Nations, Métis & Inuit Issues in Canada by Chelsea Vowel Caste: The Origins of Our Discontents by Isabel Wilkerson Watch us Stream! Our Twitch channel - Fridays in January, 9pm Eastern Our YouTube channel - Recordings of streams Give us feedback! 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What is your relationship like with money? Are you always trying to keep up with the Joneses? Would you and your partner benefit from financial therapy? Don’t judge, because everybody can benefit from therapy. In this episode of the Finance for Physicians Podcast, Daniel Wrenne talks to Ed Coambs, a licensed marriage and family therapist, certified financial planner (CFP), and founder of Charlotte Couples Counseling. Ed shares practical tips to improve your financial behaviors and relationship with money. Topics Discussed: Couples Around Money: Mix of emotion, experiences, and desire to connect Why financial therapy? Financial stress due to thoughts, emotions, behaviors Pain Points: Spending versus saving is challenging and problematic for couples Power Control: What does money mean and represent? What is valued most? Equal Partnership? Understand social meaning of professional identity Converted Skeptic: Everybody can benefit from therapy with ability to heal Male Psyche: Character defect or discomfort doesn’t make a narcissist Financial Flashpoints: Partner’s experiences and expectations around money Money Management: Yours, mine, or our money in separate or joint accounts Money Egg Exercise: Is your relationship with money positive or negative? Links: Charlotte Couples Counseling Healthy Love and Money Family Money Tree Course Ed Coambs on Instagram Money Egg Exercise ACES Study The Mask You Live In Brad Klontz: Financial Flashpoints and Money Scripts Dr. Dan Siegel: Neural Integration Financial Therapy Association
Aujourd'hui j'ai envie de rediffuser un épisode du 23 mars 2020 avec Louis Coppey, investisseur chez Point Nine, un VC basé en Allemagne, spécialisé dans les investissements B2B SaaS et Marketplace, avec des tickets entre 100k et 2M, dans des tours entre 1 et 4m eur qu'ils vont essayer de leader en général. Point Nine c'est notamment 110 investissement, 10 à 15 par an dans des boîtes comme Zendesk Algolia Revolut Delivery Hero Brainly Contentful Typeform Sqreen ou Loom.. Alors pourquoi rediffuser cet episode ? À l'époque Louis n'était pas officiellement Partner toutefois si vous suivez Runway Series, nous l'annoncions déjà dans cet épisode. Mais il y a quelques jours, à l'occasion du closing du 5eme fonds de Point Nine, l'annonce officielle de l'arrivée de Louis dans le partnership a été faite. C'est véritablement une super reconnaissance pour Louis puisqu'à 29 ans et avec son collègue, ami et ex-roommate Ricardo Sequerra Amram, 30 ans, c'est même un equal partnership qu'ils rejoignent, alors que les Co-founders de Point Nine, Christoph Janz et Pawel Chudzinski ont 10 ans de plus d'expérience en Seed investing. L’equal partnership signifie notamment que les incentives sur la performance des fonds sont équitablement répartis, qu'un Partner ait fait le deal ou non. Dans cet épisode qui est un réel deep-dive dans le parcours de Louis et son mindset, on découvre ses mécaniques de compréhension des sujets B2B saas et marketplace, sa perception du potentiel de chaque Founder qu'il rencontre, sa thèse d'investissement, l'expertise qu'il a développée pour aider les portfolio companies à croître du Seed à la Series A, (notamment PlayPlay) et aussi pourquoi Christoph il y a 4 ans a identifié le potentiel de Louis. Sans plus attendre, place à ce super épisode avec Louis Coppey, Partner chez Point Nine. Très bonne écoute. ____ Les podcasts Runway Series, AMA VC & Venture Talks sont produits par UPCOMINGVC® (www.upcoming.vc), imaginés, animés par Raphael Grieco. UPCOMINGVC® c'est aussi une newsletter, "Venture Notes" (venturenotes.co) qui ajoute du contexte aux podcasts & donne accès à des outils & infos uniques pour la communauté. On est ravi d'annoncer que nous étendons Runway Series en une plateforme de lancement de podcast sur les sujets Startup, VC & plus généralement Entrepreneuriat. Créé par Melchior Mesnard, le 1er podcast que nous produisons s’appelle Momentor, c’est un peu la Madeleine de Proust des entrepreneurs à succès. En 20min, l’aspirant fondateur pitch son projet, échange avec l’entrepreneur & repart avec 3 suggestions concrètes formulées par l’entrepreneur pour avancer. L’épisode 1 sera enregistré le 01/10 avec Jean MOREAU, co-président de Tech For Good France & cofondateur & président de Phénix, la scaleup du #FT120 qui développe une suite d'outils #TechForGood pour réduire le gaspillage & favoriser la 2ème vie des invendus. Echanger avec Jean MOREAU c'est une opportunité en or pour mettre en valeur ton projet, faire le plein de motivation, obtenir des conseils d'un entrepreneur qui a franchi les étapes que tu connais aujourd'hui. Envoie ta candidature sur upcoming.vc/momentor. Finalement, UPCOMINGVC® c'est aussi un "VC game: SUPERVALO"! Tu veux apprendre la construction d'un portefeuille de startups? Viens jouer sur upcoming.vc/supervalo!
We share strategies we've used to raise independent kids, independence wins and fails, and our favorite resources.Visible Child Facebook groupFree Range Kids: How to Raise Safe, Self-Reliant Children (Without Going Nuts With Worry) by Lenore SkenazyThe Gift of Failure: How the Best Parents Learn to Let Go So Their Children Can Succeed by Jessica LaheySmall Animals: Parenthood in the Age of Fear by Kim BrooksLife latelyAndrew got Abby the perfect Mother's Day gift: a painting of Carrboro made by a dear college friend.Sarah's family has been reveling in all the outdoor time this summer.Reading latelyAbby reviews The Heir Affair, which is the must anticipated sequel to The Royal We by Heather Cocks and Jessica Morgan.Sarah discusses All the Rage: Mothers, Fathers, and the Myth of Equal Partnership by Darcy Lockman.Eating latelySarah's family are enjoying an abundance of cucumbers dipped in yogurt sauce.Abby made her first burger using this black bean burger recipe.If you’d like to join in the conversation, please leave us a comment, email us at friendlierpodcast@gmail.com, or find us on Instagram @friendlierpodcast. Thanks for listening! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Parent Driven Development Sponsored by: RAYGUN (https://www.raygunsite.com/) Episode 047: Darcy Lockman - All The Rage: Mothers, Fathers and The Myth of Equal Partnership (https://darcylockman.com/) 00:23 Welcome, Darcy (https://twitter.com/Darcy_Lockman)! Darcy Lockman is a former journalist turned clinical psychologist and the author of All the Rage: Mothers, Fathers, and the Myth of Equal Partnership (Harper). Her first book, Brooklyn Zoo (Doubleday), chronicled the year she spent working on the psychiatric ward of a city hospital. She lives and practices (for the time being virtually) in New York City. 00:39 Orgins of All The Rage Child care falls on Darcy more than her husband.. moms more than dads? Why are we living like this? The impact of patriarchy on all of us 04:25 Patriarchy instilled into our culture Women carry 65% childcare work, while men carry 35% The feminine is looked down in society Communality / agency - girls raised to be more communal, boys are raised to be more agentic Women join the workforce, but keep up with childcare duties 09:32 How to guide kids with equal partnership at home Kids easily influenced from their outside world Identification with the same sex parent Gender detectives - searching for the group that they belong in The one way glass study Women have this idea that their male partner should not be inconvenienced, and that it’s ok if they are 16:17 Is being traditional wrong? What good dads get away with Stay at home mom stigma 19:05 Dual earning couples is sole focused on from All The Rage Book After work “breaks” ?After work “breaks” ? Unequal experience, unequal ability Taking care of children takes practice Paid paternity leave for men in other countries - use it or lose it 24:20 Who is responsible for the mental load? Techniques to share the workload Women tend to feel more responsible and may have to unlearn this feeling of taking no time off Underbenifitor / Overbenifitor - both sides uncomfortable 29:50 The pandemic is making the invisible workload more visible Possible progress to be made in couples 32:45 Genius / Fail moments JC’s kids have been helping around the house since the pandemic hit, including dinner! #geniuswin Chris grounds steak with kids to make tacos. They were a hit and ready to go, until Chris accidentally dropped a glass dish right next to the taco meat and glass got in the taco meat… Dinner restart #fail Darcy embraces a sugar vacation during the pandemic and let’s her girls feast on junk food that is usually not allowed. #genuisfail maybe?? ### How can I support the podcast? Please follow us @parentdrivendev (https://twitter.com/parentdrivendev) on Twitter or email us at panel@parentdrivendevelopment.com (mailto:panel@parentdrivendevelopment.com). Our website is at ParentDrivenDevelopment.com (https://parentdrivendevelopment.com). Support us via Patreon (https://www.patreon.com/parentdrivendev) and get access to our our Slack Community! Check out Fiverr (https://track.fiverr.com/visit/?bta=121216&nci=7416) for all your Freelance needs. Panel JC Avena (https://twitter.com/jcavena) Chris Sexton (https://twitter.com/crsexton) Special Guest: Darcy Lockman.
“If we talk about women and a glass ceiling, we're talking about mothers” Darcy Lockman tells us in today’s episode. It’s something she’s experienced herself, but she’s not asking you to take her word for it. As a journalist turned clinical psychologist, Darcy is uniquely placed to understand the complexities of relationships within their context as part of a broader conversation about the way our society approaches gender, parenting, and the division of labour in the home. For her book All The Rage: Mothers, Fathers, and the Myth of Equal Partnership Darcy interviewed over 50 women about their experiences managing work, parenting, and domestic duties. “I started out wanting to interview 100 mothers”, she tells our host Georgie Abay. “That was my initial idea. By the time I got to 50, I realized that all of the interviews were exactly the same. The women that I was speaking to, they were from all over the US, they were from different economic classes, different ethnicities, races. But every interview was just an angry, frustrated woman who tried to communicate to her partner and hadn't been able to get through. And it was a constant fight in their relationship. So, I stopped at 50.” The biggest commonality? “A lot of men”, Darcy explains, “my husband included, will say, ‘Well, I'll do whatever you ask me to do’. But the knowing is such a big part of the work, the knowing and the planning. And so often, the women who I interviewed for the book would be frustrated with their husbands who would just say to them, ‘I don't know what you're talking about. I'll do whatever you ask’. As if that were being a co-parent.” If you’ve ever felt frustrated, overwhelmed, or fed up when it comes to the never-ending work of motherhood, this interview is incredibly validating. And Darcy gives us the tools to have fruitful, calm conversations about how to rectify these issues – and do away with the nagging woman stereotype for good. We speak with Darcy about: The stereotype of the ‘nagging wife’ and why she shouldn’t be the villain The problem with men who believe their partners should ‘just ask’ if they want help The different ways men and women perceive the division of labour in their homes How employers discriminate against mothers and not fathers How growing up in a patriarchal society leaves us with unresolved anger How talking about societal sexism can help to make the conversation about household labour less personal The pressure to be a good mother and why men don’t receive the same pressure about being a really good dad The impact that unpaid care work has on a woman’s long term earning capacity Why your partner’s ambition is dangerous Why men can be just as efficient as women – but they don’t have the need to be That despite fathers taking on a much more active role in parenting in recent years, they’re still only doing up to a third of the work statistically How ‘use it or lose it’ paternity leave schemes lead to equal division of labour ongoing The difference between benign and hostile sexism Find out more about Darcy at darcylockman.com Purchase Darcy’s book All The RageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
We're on pandemic hiatus, but rebroadcasting some of our favorite episodes — that seem super useful right now! Why do most men do so little at home — and especially in the kitchen? Why are women (still!) doing so much? Darcy Lockman, author of All the Rage: Mothers, Fathers and the Myth of Equal Partnership is on the podcast this week to talk about why mental load tasks like grocery list making and meal planning and prepping are still especially gendered — and what we can do, to find a better balance. Send us your mental load questions! Find us @v_solesmith and @yummytoddlerfood on social media or email comfortfoodpodcast@gmail.com. And you can read the show notes for this episode here. Sponsor Spotlight: Bumkins Baby Mealtime solutions like Silicone Grip Dishes that suction to the table, utensils that promote self-feeding, and more available now on their Amazon storefront! FEEDING YOUR FAMILY, THE COMFORT FOOD WAY Our new e-book takes you through 8 concepts that will form the foundation of your understanding of how to feed kids and give you a firm starting point for improving mealtimes in your house. We’re here to reassure and inspire. We’re here to remind you that you’re doing a good job. We’re here to let you know that you’re not alone in the daily challenge of feeding your family. We’re here to help. Get your copy of Feeding Your Family The Comfort Food Way here.
We're on pandemic hiatus, but rebroadcasting some of our favorite episodes — that seem super useful right now! Why do most men do so little at home — and especially in the kitchen? Why are women (still!) doing so much? Darcy Lockman, author of All the Rage: Mothers, Fathers and the Myth of Equal Partnership is on the podcast this week to talk about why mental load tasks like grocery list making and meal planning and prepping are still especially gendered — and what we can do, to find a better balance. Send us your mental load questions! Find us @v_solesmith and @yummytoddlerfood on social media or email comfortfoodpodcast@gmail.com. And you can read the show notes for this episode here. Sponsor Spotlight: Bumkins Baby Mealtime solutions like Silicone Grip Dishes that suction to the table, utensils that promote self-feeding, and more available now on their Amazon storefront! FEEDING YOUR FAMILY, THE COMFORT FOOD WAY Our new e-book takes you through 8 concepts that will form the foundation of your understanding of how to feed kids and give you a firm starting point for improving mealtimes in your house. We’re here to reassure and inspire. We’re here to remind you that you’re doing a good job. We’re here to let you know that you’re not alone in the daily challenge of feeding your family. We’re here to help. Get your copy of Feeding Your Family The Comfort Food Way here.
We're on pandemic hiatus, but rebroadcasting some of our favorite episodes — that seem super useful right now! Why do most men do so little at home — and especially in the kitchen? Why are women (still!) doing so much? Darcy Lockman, author of All the Rage: Mothers, Fathers and the Myth of Equal Partnership is on the podcast this week to talk about why mental load tasks like grocery list making and meal planning and prepping are still especially gendered — and what we can do, to find a better balance. Send us your mental load questions! Find us @v_solesmith and @yummytoddlerfood on social media or email comfortfoodpodcast@gmail.com. And you can read the show notes for this episode here. Sponsor Spotlight: Bumkins Baby Mealtime solutions like Silicone Grip Dishes that suction to the table, utensils that promote self-feeding, and more available now on their Amazon storefront! FEEDING YOUR FAMILY, THE COMFORT FOOD WAY Our new e-book takes you through 8 concepts that will form the foundation of your understanding of how to feed kids and give you a firm starting point for improving mealtimes in your house. We’re here to reassure and inspire. We’re here to remind you that you’re doing a good job. We’re here to let you know that you’re not alone in the daily challenge of feeding your family. We’re here to help. Get your copy of Feeding Your Family The Comfort Food Way here.
Get Hunter's book, Raising Good Humans now! Click here to order and get book bonuses! Many couples fall into old gender-stereotypical patterns after children are born. But that leads to the stay-at-home parent and/or mom to feel burnt out and overwhelmed. In this episode, I talk to Katie Rössler, couples therapist, on how to have the difficult conversations it takes to create more equality within a partnership. Takeaways: We fall into old patterns because we don’t question them. How to talk to your partner when you want to change things. Write down exactly what it is you need help with. Katie Rössler is a wife, mom to two girls, and a licensed counselor. She helps couples build healthier relationships after kids. Fan of the Mindful Mama Podcast? Support it by leaving a quick review -----> Apple Podcasts or on Stitcher (or wherever you listen!) ABOUT HUNTER CLARKE-FIELDS: Hunter Clarke-Fields is a mindful mama mentor. She coaches smart, thoughtful parents on how to create calm and cooperation in their daily lives. Hunter has over 20 years of experience in mindfulness practices. She has taught thousands worldwide. Be a part of the tribe! Join the Mindful Parenting membership. Download the audio training, Mindfulness For Moms (The Superpower You Need) for free! It's at mindfulmomguide.com. Find more podcasts, blog posts, free resources, and how to work with Hunter at MindfulMamaMentor.com.
Parent Driven Development Episode 039: Parenting Roles and Gender Equality with Richard Schneeman Welcome Richard Schneeman (https://www.schneems.com/)! Schneems (https://twitter.com/schneems) writes Ruby at Heroku, and maintains CodeTriage.com, a tool for helping people contribute to Open Source. He is in the top 50 Rails contributors and is an accidental maintainer of Sprockets and Puma. When he isn't obsessively compulsively refactoring code for performance, he writes such gems as Wicked, and derailed_benchmarks. 00:30 Welcome, Richard Schneeman! 01:00 All the Rage: Mothers, Fathers and the Myth of Equal Partnership The book: All the Rage: Mothers Fathers and the Myth of Equal Partnership (https://www.amazon.com/All-Rage-Mothers-Fathers-Partnership/dp/0062861441/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=all+the+rage%2C+mother+fathers&qid=1580821503&sr=8-1) Co-parenting, gender equality Progressive relationships default into gender roles after kids 05:18 Progressive Parenting What’s fair? Progressive until they have to make a change.. 08:15 Moms vs. Dads Dad’s get applauded when caring for children in public Creating boundaries of designated mom and dad jobs with the kids 10:50 Visible Work vs. Invisble Work How to balance and create boundaries between partners RSVP’s - CC’d emails, response, birthday presents, who’s responsible? Coding pairs and how they relate 17:01 How to Define Who is Responsible? Create a system The mentorship manner Not only doing what is asked, but proactively taking steps 21:15 Meta Tasks Partners double checking each others work, basically twice the work! Micro managing 25:30 Calendar System Shared task and to-do lists Bringing work management systems into home management systems Schedule a weekly meeting with your partner to go over shared cared Check the calendar! 31:01 Genius / Fail moments Josh’s daughter gets her hair dyed and it looks great, but her new conditioner leaks the blue color from her hair all over the bathroom! #fail Chris coordinates Grandpa time to give his wife more free time #genius Richard’s son glues his favorite picture on his bedroom wall, with handwritten marker too #geniusfail Allison has a genius in Sweden with her two young children All the Rage: Mothers, Father, and the Myth of Equal Partnership (https://www.amazon.com/All-Rage-Mothers-Fathers-Partnership/dp/0062861441) Follow & Support Please follow us @parentdrivendev (https://twitter.com/parentdrivendev) on Twitter or email us at panel@parentdrivendevelopment.com (mailto:panel@parentdrivendevelopment.com). Our website is at ParentDrivenDevelopment.com (https://parentdrivendevelopment.com). Support us via Patreon (https://www.patreon.com/parentdrivendev) and get access to our our Slack Community. Panel Allison McMillan (https://twitter.com/allie_p) Chris Arcand (https://twitter.com/chrisarcand) Josh Puetz (https://twitter.com/joshpuetz) Special Guest: Richard Schneeman .
Writer and podcaster Brandi Ferner tells us about an embarrassing moment that she is sure ruined a stranger's labor experience, tells us about another embarrassing moment that made her quit gymnastics, fills us in on how not to sneak-carry a tampon to the bathroom in a cheerleader uniform, and reveals how she managed to embarrass her 7th grade sex ed teacher. She is loving the podcast Conan O'Brien Needs a Friend and the book All the Rage: Mothers, Fathers, and and the Myth of Equal Partnership. She lets us in on something about her we'd never know by looking and shares the two best pieces of advice she's ever been given. To listen to her interview the friend who gave her the awesome advice, check out her Adult Conversations episodes starring Kathie here, here, and here. My Guest:Brandy is a mother, wife, and the creator of the Adult Conversation podcast, social media pages, and blog. Her writing has been featured in Good Morning America, HuffPost, Romper, CafeMom, TODAY Parents, and more. She has a book coming out in May of this year, also called "Adult Conversation: A Novel" - it's a darkly humorous novel about the relentlessness of modern motherhood, as the main character questions, "Am I broken, or is motherhood?" In addition to writing and fulfilling her kids’ endless snack requests, she's spent the past decade working as a doula, childbirth educator, and birth trauma mentor, ushering clients through the intense transition into motherhood. The insight gained from watching moms crack wide open — literally and figuratively — and her own experience as an independent woman who suddenly traded autonomy for snuggles, led her to say out loud the things that mothers are thinking. Sometimes it’s serious, sometimes it’s comedic, but it’s always honest. She currently live in Southern California, and her love language is sleep. Find Brandy's blog, book and podcast at her website, AdultConversation.com. Follow her Facebook page, Adult Conversation Parenting and join her robust community! Find Julie on Instagram @adultconversation. Preorder Brandy's book, Adult Conversation, a novel here! Reminders: Join Fancy Free's private Facebook Group! It's so much fun! The question of the week is "What is your most embarrassing high school memory?" Click the Subscribe button so you don't miss a single episode! Leave a rating and written review! Click here and follow the step by step instructions. I will be forever grateful!!! If you have your own not-so-fancy story to tell, email me at notfancy@fancyfreepodcast.com! Do it. It'll be fun! The best way to help Fancy Free reach more listeners is to tell a friend about it. Share the laughter! Wednesday we feature Cydni Beer of Instagram's @cydbeer. She tells us 3 HILARIOUS dating stories! Next week, we feature Brandi Wiatrak of the Mom After Hours podcast! She tells us about an embarrassing wardrobe malfunction and bodily function. Thanks so much for listening, have a great week, and remember NO ONE is as fancy as they look! ~Joanne
Join us as we interview our very first male. That's right. This season (and our new app) celebrates the value of inclusive conversations around money. As a brilliant financial entrepreneur and Nav.it advisor, Jordan is just the person to speak with as we head off on this next year. Jordan is a successful two-time entrepreneur, husband, and father of three. Needless to say, he has a lot to unpack around spending stereotypes, gender roles and the need for inclusive environments at work and at home. Jordan, thank you so much for joining us! What you'll learn: How to create a more equitable relationship at work. Having open, honest conversations at home. Better ways to foster financial partnerships. How competitive will you two get?? Growing your skills in allyship. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
Dr. Darcy Lockman is the author of "All The Rage: Mothers, Fathers, and the Myth of Equal Partnership" and the viral New York Times piece "What ‘Good’ Dads Get Away With."
In this episode of Talk Nerdy, Cara is joined by clinical psychologist, journalist, and author of the new book, "All the Rage: Mothers, Fathers, and the Myth of Equal Partnership," Dr. Darcy Lockman. They discuss the inequities of gendered labor that persist to this day, as well as the physical and psychological burden wives and mothers are all too often forced to carry. Follow Darcy: @Darcy_Lockman.
In this episode of Talk Nerdy, Cara is joined by clinical psychologist, journalist, and author of the new book, "All the Rage: Mothers, Fathers, and the Myth of Equal Partnership," Dr. Darcy Lockman. They discuss the inequities of gendered labor that persist to this day, as well as the physical and psychological burden wives and mothers are all too often forced to carry. Follow Darcy: @Darcy_Lockman.
Jordana talks to Darcy Lockman, author of All The Rage: Mothers, Fathers And The Myth of Equal Partnership. The two discuss everything from how even moms who work outside the home carry more of the mental and actual load than dads in heterosexual relationships, why that’s the case and what we can do about it. The two women also agree that a person does not need a vagina to load a dishwasher. In discussing the topic over the phone, Shannon reveals that her husband may not be able to handle more than he’s doing, as he is apparently challenged by gravity. Music: "Voicemail" by Khronos Beats "Funky and Groovy" by Unique Sound "Best I Can" by Jasmine Jordan (ft. Habit Blcx)
Darcy Lockman is a clinical psychologist and author of multiple books including her newest release of All the Rage: Mothers, Fathers, and the Myth of Equal Partnership. UN Women has called the division of labor in heterosexual couples one of the most important gender equity issues of our time, but at the current rate of change, by some estimates, it will be another 75 years before we achieve parity. Lockman hopes parents and parents to be can use her book to understand the trenchant nature of the problem, and then to decide to take action to balance the division of labor in their homes. Connect with Darcy Lockman: Email: darcylockman@yahoo.com Website: www.darcylockman.com Twitter Handle: @darcylockman Connect with Jon Dwoskin: Website: http://jondwoskin.com/ Twitter: @jdwoskin Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jonathan.dwoskin Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Thejondwoskinexperience/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jondwoskin/ Email: jon@jondwoskin.com
Biz and Theresa explore the limits of our power as parents. Kids have pretty big ideas about what we can do and it's a life lesson learned that we can’t take them to Ancient Egypt to dine with cats. But what about the more realistic needs and wishes we can’t meet, like that must have outfit, guitar lessons, or that birthday gift they really want? How does all this crushing disappointment make us feel? Hint: Not the best. Plus, nature comes to Biz, Theresa has too much on her brain and we talk to clinical psychologist Darcy Lockman about the Myth of Equal Partnership. It's a doozy of a show. Follow Dr. Darcy Lockman on Twitter @Darcy_Lockman and on her website Darcylockman.com. Her book All The Rage: Mothers, Fathers, and the Myth of Equal Partnership is available now. Check out Theresa's book! It Feels Good To Be Yourself is available now wherever books are sold. Our book You're Doing A Great Job!: 100 Ways You're Winning at Parenting! is available wherever books are sold. Thank you to all our listeners who support the show as monthly members of MaximumFun.org. Our sponsors this week are Michelin and Postmates. Next time when you’re looking for new tires for the family car, consider Michelin Premier® All Season tires. Michelin, performance EVERY time! For a limited time, Postmates is giving our listeners $100 of free delivery credit for your first 7 days. To start your free deliveries, download the Postmates app and use code . Share your genius and fail moments! Call 206-350-9485 Be sure to tell us at the top of your message whether you're leaving a genius moment, a fail, or a rant! Thanks!! Share a personal or commercial message on the show! Details at MaximumFun.org/Jumbotron. Subscribe to One Bad Mother in iTunes Join our mailing list Join the amazing community that is our private One Bad Mother Facebook group Follow One Bad Mother on Twitter Follow Biz on Twitter Follow Theresa on Twitter Like us on Facebook! Get a OBM tee, tank, baby shirt, or mug from the MaxFunStore You can suggest a topic or a guest for an upcoming show by sending an email to onebadmother@maximumfun.org. Show Music Opening theme: Summon the Rawk, Kevin MacLeod (http://incompetech.com) Ones and Zeros, Awesome, Beehive Sessions (http://awesomeinquotes.com, also avail on iTunes) Mom Song, Adira Amram, Hot Jams For Teens (http://adiraamram.com, avail on iTunes) Telephone, Awesome, Beehive Sessions (http://awesomeinquotes.com, also avail on iTunes) Closing music: Mama Blues, Cornbread Ted and the Butterbeans
Why do most men do so little at home — and especially in the kitchen? Why are women (still!) doing so much? Darcy Lockman, author of All the Rage: Mothers, Fathers and the Myth of Equal Partnership is on the podcast this week to talk about why mental load tasks like grocery list making and meal planning and prepping are still especially gendered — and what we can do, to find a better balance. Visit our show notes at comfortfoodpodcast.com for all the research and links discussed in this episode. Send questions to comfortfoodpodcast@gmail.com or find us on social: @v_solesmith and @yummytoddlerfood.
Why do most men do so little at home — and especially in the kitchen? Why are women (still!) doing so much? Darcy Lockman, author of All the Rage: Mothers, Fathers and the Myth of Equal Partnership is on the podcast this week to talk about why mental load tasks like grocery list making and meal planning and prepping are still especially gendered — and what we can do, to find a better balance. Visit our show notes at comfortfoodpodcast.com for all the research and links discussed in this episode. Send questions to comfortfoodpodcast@gmail.com or find us on social: @v_solesmith and @yummytoddlerfood.
Why do most men do so little at home — and especially in the kitchen? Why are women (still!) doing so much? Darcy Lockman, author of All the Rage: Mothers, Fathers and the Myth of Equal Partnership is on the podcast this week to talk about why mental load tasks like grocery list making and meal planning and prepping are still especially gendered — and what we can do, to find a better balance. Visit our show notes at comfortfoodpodcast.com for all the research and links discussed in this episode. Send questions to comfortfoodpodcast@gmail.com or find us on social: @v_solesmith and @yummytoddlerfood.
Mom Enough: Parenting tips, research-based advice + a few personal confessions!
Before you became a parent, how did you envision the way you and your partner would handle parenting responsibilities and household management tasks to form an equal partnership? To what extent does the actual division of labor match your vision or expectations? If you’re like most families, there is a notable gap between expectations and reality, and that may be fine with you – or not! Clinical psychologist and author Darcy Lockman, motivated in part by personal experience, has delved deeply into this topic and brings what she has learned to this fascinating and important conversation with Marti & Erin. She explores assumptions about hormones and of parenting, cultural trends in intensive mothering, peaks and plateaus in active fathering and the often invisible work of the “mental load” of parenting. Most of all, Darcy urges couples to talk together about how they want to parent, especially before becoming parents. But, as Marti & Erin note, if you didn’t start then, start now! Make time to reflect (alone and/or with your partner) on how you share the responsibilities of parenting, both the visible and invisible tasks this week’s guest talked about. How do you feel about the equality of how the work is being done? How do you handle those feelings? What would you want to change and how could you begin with small steps, showing respect and sensitivity to your partner’s perceptions and feelings? Related Resources: All The Rage: Mothers, Fathers, and the Myth of Equal Partnership, click here. Too often, Working Mothers Do Far More of the Childcare Than Their Husbands article by Darcy Lockman for TIME, click here. Don’t Be Grateful That Dad Does His Share article by Darcy Lockman for The Atlantic, click here. Dads Matter: The Role of the Father in Child Development and What Moms Can do to Help Dads Succeed podcast, click here.
Why do men do so little at home? Why do women do so much? Why don't our egalitarian values match our lived experiences?Journalist-turned-psychologist Darcy Lockman offers a clear-eyed look at the most harmful problem facing modern parents—how progressive relationships become traditional ones when children are introduced into the household.This is The Empowered Mama Podcast. Darcy LockmanFavorite Quote: The arc of the moral universe is long and it bends toward justice If Darcy Lockman was to get a tattoo with one word that she valued, what would it be? Love Links http://www.darcylockman.com/ Get Darcy Lockman's New Book, All The Rage The Empowered Mama is part of the Parents On Demand Network. The Parents On Demand Network is a collection of podcasts with content specifically created for families. Through the POD website and network app, parents can easily find and subscribe to programming that's specific to their family's interests and needs. Links for Lisa MamaWell: https://www.mamawell.co FIT4MOM website: https://www.fit4mom.com The Empowered Mama Book: https://www.lisadruxman.com/book/ Lisa Druxman's Website: https://www.lisadruxman.com Thank you for listening today, and every day that you join me. As always, if there is someone you want me to interview or a topic you want me to talk about, just send me an email to podcast@fit4mom.com. I know how busy you are, but if you could just take a moment to review the show on iTunes or Stitcher, it would mean the world to me. Think of it like leaving a little tip for your barista. If you liked this episode share it. Super easy to do! Use #EmpoweredMama so that I can thank you! https://www.lisadruxman.com/reviewit
Darcy Lockman is a journalist turned clinical psychologist and the author of All the Rage: Mothers, Fathers, and the Myth of Equal Partnership (Harper Collins). Her writing has appeared in the New York Times and the Washington Post, among others. Her first book, Brooklyn Zoo, chronicled the year she spent working on the psychiatric ward of a city hospital. She currently practices in New York City, where she lives with her husband and daughters. I have invested a lot of time learning about building equitable relationships in the last year. As someone who likes to take on all. the. things., I know what it’s like to be the doer and the know-er and the gatekeeper of everything in the family. It’s an exhausting, unfair, and unnecessary burden that we can improve - drastically. I couldn’t be more excited to invite you into this conversation with Darcy and me. Listen in to hear Darcy share: What “good” dads get away with Societal, multi-generational indoctrination of gender roles - even among progressive couples The truth about maternal gatekeeping and the potential damage around it The power of using your anger in adaptive ways to have a more equitable relationship The research-proven struggles and burdens of the mental load of motherhood, especially in the first 4 years Strategies to build a more equitable partnership with your partner Links mentioned: Connect with Darcy Book: All The Rage Twitter: @darcy_lockman Thank you to our sponsors: BruMate: Right now, Brumate is giving my/our listeners a special discount of 15% off your first order when you go to www.brumate.com and use our code SHAMELESS, that's BruMate. Honey: Get Honey for FREE at Honey. Openfit: Join the Openfit 30-day challenge and get a special extended 30-day free trial membership to Openfit when you text SHAMELESS to 303030.
Both partners in marriage need to feel like they have a voice and like their opinion matters. Unfortunately, many spouses don't share power and do whatever they want, regardless of what their spouse thinks. This destroys marriages! Listen to this episode to learn the top three ways to start sharing power in your marriage today!For more information on Dr. Wyatt Fisher's top six marriage steps for happiness click here.Click here for information on attending the next marriage retreat with Dr. Wyatt Fisher.Click here for information on scheduling marriage counseling with Dr. Wyatt Fisher.If you believe in our mission to reduce the divorce rate one marriage at a time and would like to financially partner with us to achieve that goal, please consider becoming a monthly patron here. Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/marriagesteps)
Author, Darcy Lockman, discusses how even egalitarian couples fall into mini patriarchies after kids. You'll be surprised at all that's at play.
For their last episode of season 2, Amelia and Edan talk about family narratives: the roles they've taken on since childhood, and what stories they might be telling about their own kids. At 31:30, they interview Darcy Lockman about her book, All the Rage: Mothers, Fathers, and the Myth of Equal Partnership. Links to what we mention To support us
Hunter talks to Darcy Lockman about Equality At Home. Do you feel like the drudge work of raising a family and running a household defaults to you—the woman in the relationship? Even though dads are more involved than they used to be, the distribution of labor is far from fair. Darcy Lockman, clinical psychologist and author of All the Rage: mothers, fathers, and the Myth of Equal Partnership, gives us a comprehensive view of how gender role ideas are hurting mothers' mental health, physical health, sex life, relationships with our partners, and more. Some big takeaways from this episode include: 1. Women do 7 more hours of unpaid work than men per week 2. This adversely affects women’s mental health, physical health, and our relationship with our partner 3. Men often don’t even see how their wives are doing more Fan of the Mindful Mama Podcast? Support it by leaving a quick review -----> Apple Podcasts or on Stitcher (or wherever you listen!) ABOUT HUNTER CLARKE-FIELDS: Hunter Clarke-Fields is a mindful mama mentor. She coaches overstressed moms on how to cultivate mindfulness in their daily lives. Hunter has over 20 years of experience in yoga & mindfulness practices. She has taught thousands worldwide, and is the creator of the Mindful Parenting course. Download the audio training, Mindfulness For Moms (The Superpower You Need) for free! It's at mindfulmomguide.com. Find more podcasts, blog posts, free resources, and how to work with Hunter at MindfulMamaMentor.com.
#119 — The Myth of Equal Partnership in Parenting Why is it that the burden of childcare, children and the home is so unequally dumped on women's shoulders? Where did this come from? Why is it happening and what can we do about it? Women have fought for equality in the workplace for a long time. It’s something that is publicly talked about and advocated for and a current movement in today’s society. But what about our not-so-public lives? What about life at home? For many women, there is nothing as maddening as coming home and realizing that there is the second shift and an incredible amount of work that disproportionately falls on your shoulders. For women across the country, this includes the domestic labor of the home, caring for children and all of the maintenance required from invisible labor to mental load. Some would call this emotional labor to the organizational and the logistical work. Well, it’s enough to drive people crazy, or to divorce. The hardest part is that once children enter the picture, people who believe that they are in equal partnerships often find that women are the ones that take on the burden of domestic work. Why is this happening? Why isn't it budging and why is it so enraging? Today we get to have Darcy Lockman on the show to talk about exactly this. Darcy is a former journalist turned clinical psychologist and the author of a book called All The Rage: Men, Women and the Myth of Equal Partnership. Her writing has appeared in the New York Times, Psychology Today and Rolling Stone, among others. She lives with her husband and children in Queens. IN THIS EPISODE WE TALK ABOUT How Darcy and her husband entered both their marriage and parenting assuming that all household duties would be shared, but how Darcy nonetheless found herself managing most of her daughter’s needs herself. The role resentment plays in modern parenting as couples enter parenthood assuming parity and find that culturally we’ve never gotten above men carrying 35% of the childcare load. Why Darcy decided to utilize her background in journalism and psychology to investigate her frustration with how differently her husband and she lived in their parenting roles. What Darcy’s goal for this book is: to draw attention to and move the needle on the amount of unpaid labor mothers do, because, as she notes, it's not without great cost to women’s well-being, potential career success, and earning potential. How cultural beliefs undermine potential parental parity from pregnancy with the belief that mother’s have an innate instinct for parenting. Meanwhile, the truth is that fathers and mothers undergo the same hormonal changes during pregnancy and have the same starting aptitude for parenting. FULL SHOW NOTES Get the complete show notes with episode quotes, photos, and time stamps at http://www.startuppregnant.com/119. LEARN MORE ABOUT DARCY LOCKMAN Darcy Lockman is a former journalist turned clinical psychologist. Her writing has appeared in The New York Times, Psychology Today, and Rolling Stone, among others. She lives with her husband and baby daughter in Queens.
Darcy Lockman joins Mallory in the MILK Studio. Darcy is the author of "All The Rage: Mothers, Fathers, and The Myth of Equal Partnership," and is a clinical psychologist practicing in New York City. "All The Rage" takes a close look at why in this modern era, full-time employed mothers continue to bear 65 percent of the childcare labor. Mallory and Darcy talk about how anger and resentment led Darcy to action. Using her marriage as a case-study, she chronicles the experiences of a cross-section of women raising children with men — visiting new mothers’ groups and pioneering co-parenting specialists; and interviewing experts across academic fields, from gender studies professors and anthropologists to neuroscientists and primatologists. She identifies three tenets that have upheld the cultural gender division of labor and peels back the ways in which both men and women unintentionally perpetuate old norms. If we can all agree that equal pay for equal work should be a given, can the same apply to unpaid work? Can justice finally come home? Darcy Lockman is a clinical psychologist practicing in New York City. Her first book, "Brooklyn Zoo," chronicled the year she spent working on a city hospital psychiatric ward. Her writng has appeared in The New York Times and The Washington Post, and many others. She lives with her husband and daughters in New York. Find her at darcylockman.com
We’re so fortunate to have author Darcy Lockman on the show this week to talk about her new book, All The Rage: Mothers, Fathers, and the Myth of Equal Partnership. In her book Darcy talks about gender equality and why we just don’t have it. Women’s work is valued less, and even when women make more money, men still aren’t doing their share of housework and childcare. In addition to being an author, Darcy is a clinical psychologist who works with couples and individuals in New York City. This Week's Links If you click on the links in this post and buy something, we may earn a small commission. Intro (00:00:11) Rebecca Levey, KidzVuz Amy Oztan, Amy Ever After Andrea Smith, technology guru extraordinaire All The Rage: Mothers, Fathers, and the Myth of Equal Partnership, by Darcy Lockman Interview with Darcy Lockman (00:01:09) What Good Dads Get Away With, by Darcy Lockman – NY Times All The Rage audiobook Bytes of the Week (00:32:34) Teen decorates grad cap with QR code that honors those killed in school shootings, by Nicole Gallucci – Mashable Chevy cars won’t let teen drivers start driving until they buckle up, by Sasha Lekach – Mashable Episode 164: Awesome safety features for teen drivers Americana Memories Subscribe! Have you subscribed to Parenting Bytes in iTunes? Never miss an episode! Are you following us on Facebook? It's a great way to see what we're reading (including articles that might show up in future episodes), ask us questions, and give us feedback. Find us on Twitter for all the latest family tech news! Transcript You can go to the Parenting Bytes website for an interactive transcript of this episode.
On this week’s episode: Dan, Carvell, and Rebecca interview Darcy Lockman, author of All the Rage: Mothers, Fathers and the Myth of Equal Partnership, about her article in the New York Times, “What ‘Good’ Dads Get Away With,” and we answer a listener question about what to do about a mean teenager. And as usual, we share our triumphs and fails and offer up some recommendations. On Slate Plus, Rebecca explains why she hates Mother’s Day. Dan recommends the movie, Being John Malkovich. Rebecca recommends coloring books for me, such as Coloring Book for Me. Carvell recommends watching things that your kids love. Join us on Facebook and email us at momanddad@slate.com to tell us what you thought of today’s show and give us ideas for what we should talk about in future episodes. Got questions that you’d like us to answer? Call and leave us a message at 424-255-7833. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
On this week’s episode: Dan, Carvell, and Rebecca interview Darcy Lockman, author of All the Rage: Mothers, Fathers and the Myth of Equal Partnership, about her article in the New York Times, “What ‘Good’ Dads Get Away With,” and we answer a listener question about what to do about a mean teenager. And as usual, we share our triumphs and fails and offer up some recommendations. On Slate Plus, Rebecca explains why she hates Mother’s Day. Dan recommends the movie, Being John Malkovich. Rebecca recommends coloring books for me, such as Coloring Book for Me. Carvell recommends watching things that your kids love. Join us on Facebook and email us at momanddad@slate.com to tell us what you thought of today’s show and give us ideas for what we should talk about in future episodes. Got questions that you’d like us to answer? Call and leave us a message at 424-255-7833. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This week, Liberty and Rebecca discuss The Bride Test, Somewhere Only We Know, Furious Hours, and more great books. This episode was sponsored by Amazon Kindle Unlimited, Always Smile by Alice Kuipers from KCP Loft, and The Invited by Jennifer McMahon. Pick up an All the Books! 200th episode commemorative item here. Subscribe to All the Books! using RSS or iTunes and never miss a beat book. Sign up for the weekly New Books! newsletter for even more new book news. Books discussed on the show: The Seven or Eight Deaths of Stella Fortuna: A Novel by Juliet Grames Somewhere Only We Know by Maurene Goo The Bride Test by Helen Hoang The Art of Noticing: 131 Ways to Spark Creativity, Find Inspiration, and Discover Joy in the Everyday by Rob Walker Soon the Light Will Be Perfect: A Novel by Dave Patterson Furious Hours: Murder, Fraud, and the Last Trial of Harper Lee by Casey Cep The World as It Is: A Memoir of the Obama White House by Ben Rhodes Rough Magic: Riding the World's Loneliest Horse Race by Lara Prior-Palmer What we're reading: A Song for a New Day by Sarah Pinsker The Best Cook in the World: Tales from My Momma's Table by Rick Bragg More books out this week: Beautiful Revolutionary by Laura Elizabeth Woollett Such a Perfect Wife: A Novel (Bailey Weggins Mysteries) by Kate White The East End by Jason Allen Jaclyn Hyde by Annabeth Bondor-Stone and Connor White Only Ever Her by Marybeth Mayhew Whalen Monsieur Mediocre: One American Learns the High Art of Being Everyday French by John von Sothen The Death of Noah Glass by Gail Jones Exiles of Eden by Ladan Ali Osman The Missing of Clairdelune: Book Two of The Mirror Visitor Quartet by Christelle Dabos and Hildegarde Serle How We Disappeared: A Novel by Jing-Jing Lee Shouting at the Rain by Lynda Mullaly Hunt Original Prin by Randy Boyagoda New Daughters of Africa: An International Anthology of Writing by Women of African Descent by Margaret Busby Just South of Home by Karen Strong Riding the Elephant: A Memoir of Altercations, Humiliations, Hallucinations, and Observations by Craig Ferguson Hurricane Season by Nicole Melleby Outside the Gates of Eden by Lewis Shiner The Lingering by Sji Holliday The Last Time I Saw You: A Novel by Liv Constantine Stop Doing That Sh*t: End Self-Sabotage and Demand Your Life Back by Gary John Bishop The Yankee Widow by Linda Lael Miller The Woman in the Blue Cloak by Deon Meyer How It Feels to Float by Helena Fox Finale: A Caraval Novel by Stephanie Garber Loudermilk: Or, The Real Poet; Or, The Origin of the World by Lucy Ives Finding Orion by John David Anderson Nocturna by Maya Motayne The Guest Book: A Novel by Sarah Blake No Visible Bruises: What We Don’t Know About Domestic Violence Can Kill Us by Rachel Louise Snyder The Body in the Wake: A Faith Fairchild Mystery by Katherine Hall Page The Unpassing: A Novel by Chia-Chia Lin Cinderella Liberator by Rebecca Solnit and Arthur Rackham Laura Dean Keeps Breaking Up with Me by Mariko Tamaki, Rosemary Valero-O'Connell (Illustrator) Love from A to Z by S. K. Ali China Dream by Ma Jian and Flora Drew Above the Ether by Eric Barnes The Scientific Attitude: Defending Science from Denial, Fraud, and Pseudoscience by Lee McIntyre Upheaval: Turning Points for Nations in Crisis by Jared Diamond Juliet the Maniac: A Novel by Juliet Escoria With the Fire on High by Elizabeth Acevedo Middlegame by Seanan McGuire The Absence of Sparrows by Kurt Kirchmeier Last Things by Jacqueline West Black Mountain (An Isaiah Coleridge Novel) by Laird Barron Light from Other Stars by Erika Swyler Gather at the River: Twenty-Five Authors on Fishing by David Joy and Eric Rickstad Pride, Prejudice, and Other Flavors: A Novel by Sonali Dev Is, Is Not: Poems by Tess Gallagher The Archive of Alternate Endings: Stories by Lindsey Drager Her Royal Highness by Rachel Hawkins The Daughter's Tale: A Novel by Armando Lucas Correa Under the Moon: A Catwoman Tale by Lauren Myracle and Isaac Goodhart The Farm: A Novel by Joanne Ramos Exhalation: Stories by Ted Chiang Kings, Queens, and In-Betweens by Tanya Boteju Hope and Other Punchlines by Julie Buxbaum Westside by W.M. Akers The Charmer in Chaps by Julia London The Cowboy and His Baby by Jessica Clare HUMANS: A Brief History of How We Fcked It All Up by Tom Phillips Million Mile Road Trip by Rudy Rucker The Flight Portfolio by Julie Orringer A Devil Comes to Town by Paolo Maurensig, Anne Milano Appel Nightingale by Paisley Rekdal Again, but Better: A Novel by Christine Riccio Aurora Rising (The Aurora Cycle) by Amie Kaufman and Jay Kristoff A Craftsman’s Legacy: Why Working with Our Hands Gives Us Meaning by Eric Gorges and Jon Sternfeld The Laws of the Skies by Grégoire Courtois and Rhonda Mullins Sleepless Night by Margriet de Moor and David Doherty Scott Pilgrim Color Collection Box Set by Bryan Lee O'Malley Nuking the Moon: And Other Intelligence Schemes and Military Plots Left on the Drawing Board by Vince Houghton Queer Heroes by Arabelle Sicardi and Sarah Tanat-Jones Angel Bones by Ilyse Kusnetz The Unspeakable Mind: Stories of Trauma and Healing from the Frontlines of PTSD Science by Shaili Jain A Job You Mostly Won't Know How to Do: A Novel by Pete Fromm No Walls and the Recurring Dream: A Memoir by Ani DiFranco Atomic Frenchie, Vol. 2 by Tom Sniegoski and Tom McWeeney All the Rage: Mothers, Fathers, and the Myth of Equal Partnership by Darcy Lockman The Man They Wanted Me to Be: Toxic Masculinity and a Crisis of Our Own Making by Jared Yates Sexton After the Party: A Novel by Cressida Connolly A Life in Movies: Stories from 50 Years in Hollywood by Irwin Winkler Calm Sea and Prosperous Voyage by Bette Howland The Unquiet Heart by Kaite Welsh State of the Union: A Marriage in Ten Parts by Nick Hornby The Killer Across the Table: Unlocking the Secrets of Serial Killers and Predators with the FBI's Original Mindhunter by John E. Douglas and Mark Olshaker Rabbits for Food by Binnie Kirshenbaum The Paris Diversion: A Novel by Chris Pavone At Home with Muhammad Ali by Hana Ali Llama Destroys the World by Jonathan Stutzman, Heather Fox (Illustrator) The Conviction of Cora Burns by Carolyn Kirby Electric Forest by Tanith Lee Fearing the Black Body: The Racial Origins of Fat Phobia by Sabrina Strings The Latte Factor: Why You Don't Have to Be Rich to Live Rich by David Bach and John David Mann Black Death at the Golden Gate: The Race to Save America from the Bubonic Plague by David K. Randall Queer X Design: 50 Years of Signs, Symbols, Banners, Logos, and Graphic Art of LGBTQ by Andy Campbell When Darkness Loves Us (Paperbacks from Hell) by Elizabeth Engstrom Folded Wisdom: Notes from Dad on Life, Love, and Growing Up by Joanna Guest The Book Woman of Troublesome Creek: A Novel by Kim Michele Richardson The Shadow King: The Life and Death of Henry VI by Lauren Johnson The Castle on Sunset: Life, Death, Love, Art, and Scandal at Hollywood's Chateau Marmont by Shawn Levy
CONTINUOUS IMPROVEMENT... PORTFOLIOS AND AN EQUAL PARTNERSHIP WITH PARENTS...Thank you Fresh Grade for bringing us the wisdom and experience of Dr. Sean Scott, Ass't Supt. of Mansfield TX ISD
CONTINUOUS IMPROVEMENT... PORTFOLIOS AND AN EQUAL PARTNERSHIP WITH PARENTS...Thank you Fresh Grade for bringing us the wisdom and experience of Dr. Sean Scott, Ass't Supt. of Mansfield TX ISD
Dotted around London, in the concentrated areas where Orthodox Jews have made their home, groups of believers meet to pray and share their faith. Nothing unusual in that, but what make these gatherings significant are that women are leading the prayers, and they are sharing their celebration with men, These prayer groups are called Partnership Minyans, and have become a symbol of a major shift in Judaism making many traditional believers extremely uncomfortable With a panel in London, Emma Barnett asks what does this mean for this deeply traditional faith? Does this challenge to the structures of worship signal a new era of feminism with Orthodox Judaism? In the second programme of our special series to mark the 500th Anniversary of the Reformation led by Martin Luther, which split the Catholic church, Emma leads a panel discussion from the JW3 centre in north London to meet the ‘reformers’ to explore how they want their faith to change its attitudes to women and those whose resistance to it is based on the centuries old deep teaching of their faith. Presenter: Emma Barnett Producer: Richard McIlroy
Bioneers: Revolution From the Heart of Nature | Bioneers Radio Series
Women-led movements arising around the world herald a profound shift that changes everything. Visionary women leaders Osprey Orielle-Lake, Leila Salazar and Lynne Twist report on the women leading the clean energy revolution in Africa, defending the Amazonian rainforest, and making peace in Liberia.
Bioneers: Revolution From the Heart of Nature | Bioneers Radio Series
Women-led movements arising around the world herald a profound shift that changes everything. Visionary women leaders Osprey Orielle-Lake, Leila Salazar and Lynne Twist report on the women leading the clean energy revolution in Africa, defending the Amazonian rainforest, and making peace in Liberia.
Bioneers: Revolution From the Heart of Nature | Bioneers Radio Series
Women-led movements arising around the world herald a profound shift that changes everything. Visionary women leaders Osprey Orielle-Lake, Leila Salazar and Lynne Twist report on the women leading the clean energy revolution in Africa, defending the Amazonian rainforest, and making peace in Liberia.
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