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Discussion QuestionsSermon Overview Jesus' sure and sudden return calls for wholehearted loyalty and persevering prayer.Digging Deeper    Read Luke 17:20-18:81. Did this sermon help you in your understanding of what the Kingdom of God is? How so? 2. How does Daniel 7:13-14 shed light on what Jesus meant when he spoke of “the kingdom of God” and “the Son of Man”?3. The coming of the Son of Man will be unmistakable to all (17:22-25). Why do you think Jesus wants his disciples (including us) to know this? What does this truth help guard against? 4. The coming of the Son of Man will be unexpected by many (17:26-30). In mercy, Jesus is warning his people, lest we be numbered among those who are not ready for his return. How can we help one another guard against complacency and against living with no sense of urgency (as those in Noah's and Lot's day did - until it was too late)? 5. The coming of the Son of Man will be for salvation and judgment (17:27, 29, 34-35). Apart from God's grace, we can be inclined to think that we're really not all that bad, and certainly not worthy of God's judgment. How might we use the truths taught in this passage to help unbelievers see both the sober reality of coming judgment and the salvation Christ offers?      6. One rightful response to what Jesus shows us in this passage about his return is to live with wholehearted loyalty to God. Is there a specific area of your life in which you are okay with something less than wholehearted loyalty to God? Please share. What would be a good next step toward change in this area? 7. Another rightful response in light of the second coming of the Son of Man is persevering prayer to God (18:1-8). Are there things you have prayed for, and yet God has not answered the way you hoped he would?  Have you found yourself tempted to give up praying, and “lose heart”?  Please share. 8. It was said in the sermon that “the key to not losing heart (in prayer) is the character of God.”  What aspects of God's character would you say are most important for you to be mindful of as you seek to persevere in prayer until the Son of Man comes again? 9. What might be some ways we can encourage one another to persevere in prayer until the Son of Man returns?  Prayer

Discussion Questions:What stood out or what did you learn?Is it hard for you to reconcile the justice of God and the mercy of God and why?Have you seen examples of some of the types of false teachings Jude addressed today? How did it impact your faith?What keeps you from contending for your faith or if you're already good at it, what tools have helped you contend. Who is someone in your life that you think may be ready to listen?

Romans 7 presents us with one of the most raw and vulnerable passages in all of Scripture, where we encounter the apostle Paul wrestling with a tension that every believer knows intimately: the struggle between who we are in Christ and the sin that still clings to our flesh. This passage doesn't offer us a polished, perfect Christianity—instead, it invites us into the messy reality of spiritual transformation. We discover that being saved doesn't make us perfect; it makes us forgiven. The profound truth here is that we are no longer 'in the flesh' but we are still 'of the flesh'—we've been freed from sin's dominion, yet we still battle its presence. Paul's honest confession 'I do not understand my own actions' resonates deeply because it mirrors our own experience. We find ourselves doing the very things we hate and failing to do the good we desire. This isn't a sign that our salvation is invalid; rather, it's evidence of the spiritual war raging within every Christ-follower. The beauty emerges when Paul asks not 'what will deliver me?' but 'who will deliver me?'—pointing us away from self-help solutions toward the only One who can truly save us. The answer comes thundering through: 'Thanks be to God through Jesus Christ our Lord,' followed immediately by the liberating declaration of Romans 8:1—'There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.' We're reminded that our Father stands with arms wide open, not waiting to condemn us for our failures, but inviting us to run to Him with every struggle, every sin, every moment of weakness.### Detailed Sermon Notes**Introduction:**- Pastor Will introduces himself and shares his recent mission trip to Malawi and South Africa. He emphasizes the gratitude for the church's support, which enables partnerships and gospel sharing in extremely impoverished regions.**Scripture Focus (Romans 7:13-25):**- **Struggle with Sin:** - Paul's honesty about his battle with sin highlights a universal Christian experience. - Believers are of the flesh yet in Christ, creating a tension of living according to the Spirit while wrestling with sinful nature. - Paul's question, "Why do I do what I don't want to do?" resonates with many believers.**Life as a Journey:**- **Analogy of the River:** - Life's path before Christ is like flowing downstream. Conversion is the turning point, representing the choice to paddle upstream against worldly currents.**Personal Story:**- Will shares a story of his son breaking a TV and promptly confessing, illustrating how God desires us to come to Him after we fail, instead of trying to fix things on our own.**Main Points:**- **Human Nature vs. Divine Calling:** - Despite being saved, Christians have an ongoing struggle with sin due to their fleshly nature. - Quoting John MacArthur, Will explains that believers are not "in" the flesh but "of" it, highlighting the continuous internal conflict.**Closing Message:**- Only Jesus, not human efforts, can deliver from sin's power.- Encourages transparency within the church, fostering a community where individuals can confess struggles without judgment.### Practical Applications1. **Embrace Transparency:**  - Cultivate authentic relationships within the church by admitting and discussing personal struggles.2. **Run to God:**  - Develop a habit of confessing sins to God promptly and seeking His strength to overcome, rather than relying on self-improvement techniques.3. **Rely on Grace:**  - Focus on understanding and relying on God's grace through Christ, rather than attempting to achieve righteousness through personal effort.4. **Scripture Engagement:**  - Regularly read and meditate on Scripture to reinforce the truth of God's grace and the ongoing internal battle with sin.### Discussion Questions1. **Personal Reflection:**  - Describe a time when you felt like Paul, struggling between your desires and your actions. How did you handle it?2. **The Role of Grace:**  - How can embracing God's grace daily help you in your struggle against sin?3. **Community Support:**  - In what ways can you contribute to making the church a more open and accepting environment for vulnerability and authenticity?4. **Prayerful Dependence:**  - What steps can you take to run to God and seek His help whenever you face temptation or failure? 

There is no in person church gathering on November 16. This short message talks about how the Big Story helps us make sense of weird stories in the Bible. This week's discussion questions are below: Discussion Questions: → How does viewing the Old Testament through the “lens of Jesus” change the way you understand difficult or confusing passages about God? → What do these stories teach us about God's patience and faithfulness—and about our own calling to partner with Him today? → How does understanding Israel's covenant with God help us interpret passages that seem outdated or harsh? → When you read scripture, what helps you stay focused on Jesus as the central point of the story? How might this change the way you apply scripture to daily life? → What are some practical ways you can “partner with God” this week—reflecting His character and joining in His story of redemption?

Are the Old Testament and New Testament in conflict—or do they tell one unified story? In this episode, Pastor Doug explores how both testaments reveal God's character, His plan for humanity, and the foundation of the gospel. You'll gain clarity on how the Bible fits together, why both sections matter, and how understanding them deepens your faith.Support the mission of the Salty Pastor podcast! Visit our donations page at https://pushpay.com/g/thesaltypastor to help us continue sharing truth with a world in need.Discussion Questions:How do you see the themes of the Old Testament fulfilled in the New Testament?What misconceptions have you heard about the differences between the two testaments?How does understanding the unity of Scripture strengthen your faith and trust in God?

In Session Nine, Paul continues instructing Timothy on how the church should function, once again focusing on elders. He addresses their responsibilities, how to handle sin among them, and warns against appointing leaders too quickly. We'll also explore our own role and response to church elders in light of these teachings.Verses Used:1 Timothy 5:17-181 Peter 5:1-51 Timothy 5:171 Timothy 5:19-21Deuteronomy 19:1-51 Timothy 5:22-25Discussion Questions:1. According to Scripture, what does it mean to “rule well” as an elder?2. 1 Timothy 5:17 says elders who rule well are worthy of double honor. In what practical ways can we and should we show honor to our church elders?3. How should elders who are caught in sin be dealt with? Why do you think this is?4. How should the church respond when church discipline occurs, whether it is an elder or another member of the body?5. What do 1 Timothy 5:24-25 mean, and what encouragement or warning do these verses hold for us?

Big Idea: In a fight, keep your guard tight.1 Corinthians 16:13-14Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong. Let all that you do be done in love.I. Be alertII. Be steadfastIII. Be strongIV. Be loving.Next Steps: Believe: Today, I surrender my soul to King Jesus.Become: I surrender my battles to King Jesus this week. Be Sent: I will send someone a Survival Guide this week.Discussion Questions: How would you describe spiritual warfare to someone who has never read the bible?What is the toughest spiritual battle you've ever been in?How did you stand firm in the faith the last time you were under spiritual attack?What are the main spiritual tools the enemy uses to attack you?What area of your life can we pray for spiritual strength this week?How does your personal holiness help or hurt during a spiritual battle?Pray for the Holy Spirit to show you someone who is fighting for survival this week. 

BIG IDEA:  Praise God with Confident joy by resting in His eternal plan, and hoping in His Steadfast love.  I. Trust in His good word (4-11) II. Rest in His eternal plan  (10-12) III. Fear God, not false saviors (13-19)    Discussion Questions:  1. When joy feels far, which truth in vv.4–9 most lifts your praise—and why? 2. What's your modern “war horse” (money, control, approval), and how will you shift that trust to the Lord this week? 3. What's one concrete way you'll practice joyful waiting (vv.20–22)—sing, give thanks, or meditate on truth—and when?

What if God's Power Shines Most When You Stop Pretending? Discussion Questions for 2 Corinthians 11-13: Why does Paul spend so much time "boasting" about his sufferings and weaknesses in chapter 11? What point is he making? In 2 Corinthians 12:2–4, Paul mentions being "caught up to the third heaven." What does this mean, and what might Paul have experienced or seen there? Why do you think Paul refers to himself in the third person when describing this heavenly vision? What does this tell us about Paul and his purpose in sharing it? What do you think Paul's "thorn in the flesh" might have been? Why do you think God allowed it to remain? Read verse 9. What does it mean for God's grace to be sufficient for you? How can you practically "boast in weakness" so that Christ's power may rest on you? Read verse 10. Reflect on this paradox: "When I am weak, then I am strong." What does this look like in real life? Can you think of a time when God's strength showed most clearly through your weakness? Read 13:5. What is the true test of salvation according to this passage? How does that differ from assessing our works or inspecting our fruit?

Title: Under Pressure - Enduring the Tests of TemptationSpeaker: Manny CollazoScripture: James 1:12-18Link to Discussion Questions

Discussion QuestionsSermon Overview The whole Christian life is enabled by faith in Christ.Digging Deeper    Read Luke 17:1-191. Faith in Christ gives us a sort of superpower to do things that are really hard (some would say impossible). From the passage or the sermon, what kinds of things does faith enable?2. After all the hard things Jesus has been calling the disciples to, they feel that they need an increase of faith (vs. 5). Why do you think they ask for more faith, instead of more of something else?3. What is or may be an area you have freedom to pursue that you intentionally don't because you want the spiritual good of someone weaker in the faith?4. Christians are commanded to reconcile wrongs with others. What makes it difficult to be reconciled with someone who has wronged us (or make amends to someone whom we have wronged)?5. Where do you need to go and be reconciled? Consider both relationships in which you need to forgive, and relationships in which you need forgiveness.6. Have you ever experienced a surprising ability to serve God (through increased grace for others, stamina in ministry, resistance to sin, etc.)? Where did this come from, according to Luke 17? 7. In the sermon, it was said that faith enables us to receive God's mercy. Is it ever hard for you to receive mercy from others? What about from God? 8. Where in your life do you need to have faith in God right now and ask him to move? Do you trust Him to do what you're asking? Be specific. Prayer

No matter the cost, no matter the difficulty, no matter the alienation and ostracization, no matter the suffering it will cause, the holy man does what his Lord says to do. Today's passage looks at not only the why of holiness, but also the what and the how. Sermon Outline:I) The Why of HolinessII)The What of HolinessIII)The How of Holiness Discussion Questions:The message begins by connecting Reformation Day to holiness. How does this connection help reframe our understanding of “justification by faith alone”?Holiness is both a gift and a requirement — that you are “saved by faith alone, but not by a faith that is alone.” How can this tension between grace and holiness be understood and applied in daily Christian life?In today's culture, holiness is often viewed negatively as “judgmental” or “intolerant.” What practical steps can Christians take to pursue holiness without falling into self-righteousness or snobbery?The message describes holiness as obedience to God “no matter the cost.” How do modern distractions, pressures, or relationships challenge that kind of total obedience today?The passage concludes that true holiness depends on the work of the Holy Spirit through the “ordinary means of grace.” How can believers more intentionally structure their lives around Scripture, prayer, and worship to grow in holiness?

We find ourselves in one of the most challenging sections of Romans, where Paul confronts us with a profound truth: the law reveals our sin but cannot save us from it. Through the lens of the tenth commandment—'thou shalt not covet'—we discover how deeply sin runs in our hearts. The message uses a simple yet powerful illustration of children wanting each other's ice cream to show us something profound: we are perfectly content with what we have until we see what others possess. This isn't just about material things; it's about the human heart's tendency to compare, desire, and ultimately rebel against God's boundaries. The beauty of this teaching lies in its honesty—we learn that even the greatest saints, like Paul himself, wrestled with sin daily. The law acts as a mirror, showing us our need for a Savior, but it cannot cleanse us. Only the blood of Jesus can do that. When we stand before God, it won't be our good deeds that save us, but Christ stepping onto the scales of justice in our place. This message calls us to guard our hearts, cultivate gratitude instead of covetousness, and remember that when we do fall—and we will—we have an advocate in Jesus Christ who pleads our case before the Father.### Sermon Notes: Understanding Romans 7:7-14#### Detailed Notes1. **Introduction**  - The sermon focuses on Romans 7:7-14, noted as a dense and challenging part of the scripture where Paul discusses the law and sin.  - Central theme: The law's role in revealing sin and the struggle of living under sin's influence despite knowing the law.2. **Prayer for Clarity**  - Asking for divine help to illuminate the passage and remove distractions for better understanding.3. **Missions Update**  - Brief updates on church missions to Malawi, South Africa, and Myanmar, emphasizing global reach and community impact.4. **Exposition of Romans 7:7-14**  - Example of coveting as illustrated in Exodus 20:17 (The Tenth Commandment).  - Story of personal experience with grandchildren to highlight the human tendency toward covetousness.  - Emphasis that coveting stems from the heart, leading to actions contrary to God's commandment.5. **Boundaries and Sin**  - Illustration of boundaries using a playground metaphor, explaining how humans naturally push against established limits.  - The law serves as a boundary to reveal the sin within, not to save.6. **Parable of the Rich Fool (Luke 12:13-21)**  - Jesus teaching against covetousness by focusing on the parable where temporal possessions take precedence over spiritual richness.  - Warning against the dangers of greed and the temporal nature of material possessions.7. **David and Bathsheba (2 Samuel 11-12)**  - The story of King David's sin due to covetousness as a demonstration of how a desire stems from the heart and leads to breaking multiple commandments.  - Nathan's confrontation of David and the ensuing consequences.8. **Covetousness and Spiritual Life**  - Recognizing that covetousness begins in the heart and can lead to a cascade of sinful actions.  - Encouragement to guard the heart against such desires (Proverbs 4:23).9. **Paul's Struggle with Sin**  - Insight into Paul's internal struggle with sin, possibly rooted in personal inadequacies and past actions.  - Importance of grace through Jesus as the only path to overcoming sin.10. **Practical Implications of the Sermon**  - Recognizing our daily battles with sin and relying on Jesus as our advocate.  - Importance of gratitude as a weapon against covetousness and material obsession.  - Encouraging humility and recognition of one's sinfulness to experience growth and redemption.#### Practical Applications1. **Cultivate Gratitude**  - Regularly practice gratitude to combat covetousness. Maintain a gratitude journal or share daily thanks with family or friends.2. **Guard Your Heart**  - Be mindful of thoughts that lead to coveting. Establish personal 'guardrails' when engaging with media that fuels envy or discontentment.3. **Recognize Boundaries**  - Identify areas in life where you push against God's established boundaries and work on staying centered through prayer and reflection.4. **Pursue Spiritual Richness**  - Prioritize investments in spiritual growth over material acquisitions. Participate in church activities, bible studies, and community services.5. **Rely on Jesus' Advocacy**  - When struggling with sin, verbally acknowledge Jesus as your advocate in prayer to foster reliance on His grace.#### Discussion Questions1. How does understanding the purpose of the law help you in your daily struggle with sin?2. Can you identify ways in which covetousness surfaces in your life? How do you typically respond to it?3. Reflect on a situation where gratitude has helped you overcome feelings of envy or dissatisfaction. Share with the group.4. In what ways can we as a community support each other in establishing and respecting personal and spiritual boundaries?5. How does the understanding of Jesus as your advocate change your perspective on personal failings and sins?

The War With Pride, 2 of 5 from November 9, 2025 “In a world absorbed with manipulating appearances we openly practice faithful love.” 2 Corinthians 11:1-15 by Michael Lockstampfor (@miklocks)SUMMARYThis sermon explores the challenge of remaining faithful to Christ in a culture obsessed with controlling narratives and manipulating appearances. Pastor Michael discusses how Paul defended his ministry in 2 Corinthians against "super apostles" who undermined his work through eloquent speech and self-promotion. Instead of matching their aggression, Paul demonstrated genuine love through self-sacrifice and integrity. The message urges believers to focus on practicing faithful love openly, cautioning against messages that contradict Scripture and emphasizing discernment in recognizing false teachers.REFLECTION & DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

Starting a new chapter of COD with bible study! Join us! Scripture: Psalm 34:18; Ecclesiastes 3:1–4Theme: Acknowledge grief as a natural, God-understood part of life.Leader Notes: Begin with an open discussion about recent losses or emotional struggles participantsmay have faced. Emphasize that grief is not weakness but part of being human.Discussion Questions:• How have you processed loss or pain in your past?• Why do men (or believers) sometimes hide grief instead of expressing it?• What can honesty about grief teach others about faith?

Until you understand how Jesus changes everything, you are at risk of wasting your life. This podcast will remind you what you gain when you have Jesus. Discussion Questions: How can we unleash real joy in our life in difficult seasons? What do you think it means to “put no confidence in the flesh?” What does it mean “to know the power of his resurrection”? What does it mean “to share in his suffering”? What are some ways you can do that today? Paul had one goal in life. Do you know what it was? What is your one goal for your life? What are some ways to grow your desire for a deeper knowledge of Christ?   ABOUT: Lina AbuJamra is a Pediatric ER doctor, now practicing telemedicine, and the founder of Living With Power Ministries. Known for her bold faith and down-to-earth honesty, she's passionate (and allegedly funny) about helping people connect biblical truth to everyday life. Whether through teaching, writing, or podcasting, Lina brings hope to those wrestling with life's hardest questions. When she's not speaking or creating content, she's providing medical and humanitarian aid in crisis zones like Lebanon and Uganda. Learn more about her at LivingWithPower.org. Follow on Insta: linaabujamra Follow on Facebook: Lina Abujamra

Proverbs 13 invites us into a profound exploration of what it means to live wisely in every dimension of our lives. This chapter unfolds like a roadmap, guiding us through four essential territories: correction, desires and resources, God's Word, and relationships with legacy. We discover that wisdom isn't merely intellectual knowledge—it's Jesus Himself, personified and active in our daily choices. The journey begins with correction, reminding us that growth requires humility to receive rebuke and instruction. We're challenged to guard our mouths, recognizing that words flowing from our hearts shape our reality and either preserve or destroy our lives. The contrast between the diligent and the lazy, the truthful and the deceitful, becomes starkly clear. As we move through this chapter, we encounter the liberating truth that material wealth doesn't equal true richness—some of the poorest people possess the greatest treasures of joy, friendship, and purpose. We're confronted with the reality that pride generates all conflict, while humility opens the door to salvation itself. The fountain of life flows from God's Word, turning us away from death's snares and filling us with hope that sustains even in seasons of waiting. Perhaps most powerfully, we're reminded that wisdom builds legacy—not just financial inheritance, but character, faith, and godly example passed to our children and grandchildren. The companions we choose, the correction we embrace, and the pursuit of righteousness over wickedness determine whether we walk in satisfaction or perpetual emptiness.### Sermon Notes#### Introduction- The speaker acknowledges the joke about being long-winded and expresses gratitude for the church's support and involvement in missions.- Video presentation showcasing the impact of Vessel of Honor Ministries in Myanmar, Kenya, and the Bahamas, highlighting God's faithfulness and the church's annual $10,000 contribution.#### Main Sermon: Proverbs 13 - "The Way of the Wise"1. **Introduction to Proverbs 13**  - Proverbs often appears disjointed, but it reveals a moral progression.  - Wisdom is personified as Jesus throughout Proverbs.2. **Four Subsections of Proverbs 13**  - **Wisdom Begins with Correction (Verses 1-6)**   - A wise son listens to correction; a scoffer does not.   - The mouth reflects the heart.   - Words can preserve or destroy life.   - The diligent thrive; the lazy fail.   - Righteousness hates falsehood; the wicked seek lies.  - **Wisdom Governs Desires and Resources (Verses 7-12)**   - Material wealth does not equal true riches.   - The rich may be ransomed; the poor are unnoticed.   - True hope sustains the heart.  - **Wisdom Delights in God's Word and Counsel (Verses 13-19)**   - Despising God's Word leads to destruction.   - God's Word is life-giving.   - Humility is key to wisdom.   - Desire fulfilled is sweet to the soul.  - **Wisdom Builds Relationships and Legacy (Verses 20-25)**   - Walking with the wise leads to wisdom.   - Avoiding evil brings good.   - A good man leaves an inheritance for descendants.   - Discipline shows love to children.### Practical Applications1. **Seek Wisdom in Correction**  - Be open to constructive criticism and correction.  - Reflect on how you can be more receptive to wise counsel.2. **Evaluate Your Desires and Resources**  - Consider where your desires are leading you.  - Use your resources wisely for long-term benefits rather than temporary pleasures.3. **Engage Deeply with God's Word**  - Make daily Bible reading a habit to understand God's wisdom.  - Apply biblical principles to navigate life's challenges.4. **Build Meaningful Relationships and Legacy**  - Surround yourself with wise individuals to grow in wisdom.  - Think about the legacy you want to leave for future generations.### Discussion Questions1. **Wisdom and Correction:**  - How do you typically respond to correction, and how can you improve your openness to it?  - What are some practical steps you can take to guard your speech and reflect a heart of wisdom?2. **Desires and Resources:**  - How can you align your desires with God's wisdom to ensure they lead to true fulfillment?  - In what ways can you better manage your resources to avoid vanity and instead support others?3. **God's Word and Counsel:**  - What challenges do you face in making time for God's Word daily, and how can you overcome them?  - How has God's Word been a source of life and guidance in a specific situation you've faced?4. **Relationships and Legacy:**  - Who are the wise individuals in your life, and how have they influenced you?  - What steps can you take to ensure you are leaving a positive legacy for your descendants?These notes, applications, and questions can help individuals reflect on how they can apply the teachings of Proverbs 13 to their lives and encourage meaningful discussions in a group setting.

In Session Nine, Paul instructs Timothy on how believers should treat one another as members of God's household: with honor, in proper order, and in purity of heart. God's compassion for the vulnerable is revealed through Paul's instructions on how God's people are to provide for widows. When the church and our homes reflect His design, they become places where every person is valued, every generation is honored, and every need is met.Verses Used:1 Timothy 1:51 Timothy 5:1-2 1 Timothy 5:3-4, 8Ruth 1:16Deuteronomy 24:191 Timothy 5:9-15 1 Timothy 5:16Discussion Questions:How does Paul contrast a worthy widow with a worldly one in 1 Timothy 5:9-13?How do we see God provide for and protect widows in Scripture? (See Deuteronomy 10:17-18, Psalm 68:4-5, Psalm 146:9, and Proverbs 15:25.)What are the Israelites commanded to do in Deuteronomy 24:18-22, and why? What would it look like to practice this verse in today's society?On Who ought a widow to fix her hope, according to 1 Timothy 5:5? What does it look like to do this and why is it important? How might obeying this verse impact your mental/emotional/spiritual life?It is clear that God cares for those in distress who are unable to help themselves. Why should we do the same? Is there anyone God has placed in your life that is distressed that you could offer assistance to? How so?

Main idea: God's providence calls His people to courageous obedience in every situation. 1. God's people lament the world's brokenness (vv. 1–4) 2. God's providence places His people in uncomfortable positions (vv. 5–11) 3. God's sovereign plan calls for faithful risk (vv. 12–14) 4. God's salvation often comes through substitutionary courage (vv. 15–17) Discussion Questions: 1. How can we recover the biblical practice of lament in our worship service, our prayers, and our relationships? 2. How does the myth of “safe Christianity” show up in modern church life? 3. When have you faced a moment where obedience to God carried personal risk? 4. How does viewing Esther as a signpost to Christ rather than merely an example change the way we read this story?

In this episode, we reflect on what it means to cultivate peace–as a fruit that grows from communion with God. The cultivation of peace is not something we control. It comes from learning to rest in God's presence, even amid life's storms. We talk practically about how to tend the soil of our hearts, so that peace can take root and grow into a fruit that becomes a visible witness to others. We also discuss how Jesus, the Prince of Peace, invites us to make room for His presence, allowing His breath to bring healing where fear and sin have disrupted our peace.    Heather's One Thing - Triumph of the Heart is now streaming! Sister Miriam's One Thing - Healed by Love: Contemplation as a Path of Healing according to St. John of the Cross by Daniel Chowning, OCD Michelle's One Thing - Feast: A Men's Devotional for Advent by Paul George    Journal Questions: What places of my heart are filled with anxiety or despair? Where am I seeking to be fixed instead of seeking communion with the Lord? What sins am I justifying that are robbing me of peace? What lies am I trying to talk myself into? Who or what are you trying to fix in your life that you need to surrender to the Lord?   Discussion Questions: How are you trying to control your life and heart rather than cultivating? What things motivate you to operate out of fear or mistrust? How can you internally cultivate peace? How can you externally cultivate peace?   Quote to Ponder: Let nothing disturb you, Let nothing frighten you, All things are passing away: God never changes. Patience obtains all things Whoever has God lacks nothing; God alone suffices. (St. Teresa of Avila)   Scripture for Lectio: "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus" (Philippians 4:6-7)  Sponsor - BeeStill Design: BeeStill Design is a handcrafted Catholic jewelry and art brand founded by Louisiana artist and entrepreneur Holly Klock. A wife and mom of three, Holly has built BeeStill from a small creative outlet into a growing brand known for pieces that are both beautiful and meaningful. Her collections feature heirloom-quality jewelry, pressed flowers, and custom intaglios, along with enamel work and ornaments. From the very beginning, she has sought to bring the joy and beauty of our faith into each creation—always with the same vision: to design timeless pieces that tell stories of faith, love, and family. Whether you are looking for a piece of jewelry to be a daily reminder of God or would like to find a meaningful gift for someone in your life, head over to beestilldesign.com and use the code abidingtogether for 20% off your order.   Chapters:  00:00 BeeStill Design 01:08 Intro 01:59 Welcome 04:11 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder 06:31 Planting Peace in the Soil of Our Hearts 08:34 Cultivating vs Controlling 11:08 Fertilizing the Soil Around Us 13:56 The Breath of Peace 16:25 When We Feel Afraid 18:51 Communion Brings Healing 21:23 Wanting Peace for Those Around Us 23:26 Sin Disrupts Our Peace 27:52 Practical Tips for Cultivating Peace 32:55 Prayer 34:49 One Things

Are You Being Built Up—or Just Impressed? Discussion Questions for 2 Corinthians 10-11: What are some "earthly weapons" people rely on today, and how do they differ from the spiritual weapons Paul describes? How do we practically "take every thought captive"? What does that look like in a day-to-day mental battle? When have you seen someone use their leadership position to build others up rather than tear them down? Why do we often fall into the trap of comparing ourselves to others in life (or ministry), and what exactly can shift our focus back to God's unique calling for us? What does it mean to be "betrothed to Christ"? How does that shape our daily choices and loyalties? In what ways do "false apostles" or modern spiritual distractions pull believers away from the simplicity of Christ today? How can we discern the difference between charisma that may draw larger crowds and genuine Christ-centered power in teaching today?

Discussion QuestionsSermon Overview Because death reverses the wrongs of life, the living should hear God now and respond.Digging Deeper    Read Luke 16:19-311. Money is a recurring theme in Luke 16. What does Jesus say about money? Why do you think he talks about it so much?2. When you think about someone spending an eternity without God, do you struggle with whether it is just? Why, or why not?3. Real people go to a real hell. What difference should this reality make in our lives now?4. It can be easy to feel like we have to get it all right in this life so we don't end up like the rich man in the parable. What helps us avoid thinking we can earn our way to heaven due to a fear of hell?5. The great news of the gospel is that if we are in Christ, we are beneficiaries of a second reversal, greater than that of death. What was that reversal, and what does it mean for believers?6. What brokenness in our world now might we joyfully anticipate being reversed in eternity later?7. How do you do justice and show mercy in your everyday life? If you struggle with this, how can you grow in showing mercy? 8. In the sermon, we heard that part of responding to the reversal that is death is “to be generous and prepare.” What are some needs around us that we can anticipate and meet as a community? 9. How do we share this truth of the gospel - this reversal of right and wrong - to someone who doesn't believe there is anything other than this life?Prayer

Discussion Questions:1. What stood out or what did you learn?2. Do you typically see God's commands or design for life as more of a burden or a blessing and why? What has shaped that perspective for you?3. What do you make of verses 6-12 about John giving testimony to who Jesus was? Did you do any research on the theories Pastor Katy mentioned in her message, and if so, where do you land and why?4. Read verses 13-21. What does this say to you about prayer, especially for a brother or sister in the faith? How are we to approach a brother or sister if we see them sinning?5. What does it practically look like for you to keep yourself from idols (verse 21)

Romans 7 confronts us with a reality we often try to avoid: the inner battle between who we want to be in Christ and the sin that still entangles us. This passage reveals that even after coming to faith, we face an ongoing struggle with sin—not because we're broken or unsaved, but because the enemy works harder than ever to pull us off course. Paul himself confesses this tension: 'I do not do what I want, but I do the very thing I hate.' The central message here is profoundly liberating: death brings freedom from captivity. Through Christ's sacrifice, we've been released from the law that once held us bound. The marriage illustration isn't about divorce but about covenant—we are the bride who broke our vows through sin, and only through Jesus' death can we be freed and united with Him. What makes this particularly relevant to our lives today is the exploration of how God's good gifts—money, sexuality, alcohol, food—can become twisted by sin into chains that bind us. These 'big four' areas of struggle remind us that sin takes common graces and perverts them into bondage. The litmus test of genuine conversion isn't perfection but fruit-bearing: when we're truly connected to Christ, something changes within us. The question we must ask ourselves is deeply personal: What is holding us captive today? What sin keeps us from bearing the fruit God intends for our lives? This passage calls us to honest introspection, genuine repentance, and the courage to walk in the freedom Christ purchased for us.### Sermon Notes**Introduction:**- Pastor Will welcomes the congregation and expresses gratitude for the opportunity to gather and study Scripture.- The focus is on Romans chapter 7, a continuation of the sermon series on Romans, specifically looking at the controversial and often misinterpreted first six verses.**Main Themes:**1. **Universal Sinfulness:**  - Paul addresses the reality of sin present in all human lives.  - Sin is a common struggle that should be openly discussed despite cultural tendencies to avoid the topic.  - Recognizing our depravity is the first step towards understanding the need for redemption through Christ.2. **The Inner Battle:**  - Even after accepting Christ, believers struggle with sin.  - This internal conflict between the desire to follow Christ and the tendency to sin is a common experience.  - Paul's admission of his own struggles in Romans 7:17 reinforces this truth.3. **Freedom Through Christ:**  - Paul's illustration of marriage laws demonstrates that death (Christ's sacrifice) frees us from the law's bondage.  - Believers are no longer bound by the law of sin due to Christ's atonement, highlighting the transformative power of His death and resurrection.4. **From Captivity to Freedom:**  - Sin can enslave us, but death in Christ brings freedom.  - Paul uses marriage as an analogy to explain this freedom, cautioning that the text is not a prescription for divorce but an illustration of spiritual freedom.5. **Bearing Fruit:**  - True conversion is evidenced by a change in lifestyle and the bearing of spiritual fruit.  - Followers of Christ are expected to exhibit visible transformations in their lives.  - The presence of fruit is a litmus test for genuine faith.**Practical Applications:**1. **Self-Examination:**  - Reflect on personal sins that may be hidden or denied.  - Consider areas in life where self-control is lacking and seek accountability.2. **Understanding Freedom:**  - Embrace the freedom from sin's bondage by continually turning to Christ and confessing shortcomings.  - Recognize the liberty found in Christ, not as a license to sin, but as empowerment to live righteously.3. **Bearing Fruit:**  - Actively seek ways to bear fruit in life, such as serving others, practicing generosity, and growing in spiritual disciplines.  - Engage in community and accountability groups to foster growth and encourage one another.**Discussion Questions:**1. **Understanding Sin:**  - How does acknowledging our own sinfulness enhance our dependence on Christ?2. **Inner Struggles:**  - In what ways have you experienced the inner struggle between following Christ and falling back into sin?3. **Freed by His Sacrifice:**  - How can we live out the freedom Christ has provided in practical, everyday situations?4. **Response to Freedom:**  - What steps can you take to ensure that the freedom purchased by Christ's sacrifice is not taken for granted in your life?5. **Real Evidence:**  - What are some specific ways you or someone you know has evidenced their transformation in Christ through the bearing of spiritual fruit?

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Proverbs 12 offers us a masterclass in contrasts—wisdom versus foolishness, righteousness versus wickedness, life-giving words versus destructive speech. As we journey through these ancient proverbs, we're reminded that all Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for our growth. The chapter challenges us to examine not just others who fit these descriptions, but ourselves. Do we love discipline and knowledge, or do we resist correction and remain in stupidity? The imagery is striking: the root of the righteous cannot be moved, like a tree whose foundation runs deep and unseen. Our spiritual foundation, though invisible to others, determines whether we'll stand firm or fall when storms come. We're confronted with the power of our words—they can be sword thrusts that wound or healing balm that restores. Perhaps most compelling is the call to plan peace in our homes and relationships. Joy doesn't happen accidentally; it's cultivated through intentional choices, consistent standards, and the discipline to choose wisdom over impulsive reactions. As we apply these timeless truths, we discover that the path of righteousness truly is life, and in its pathway there is no death.### Sermon Notes on Proverbs 12#### Detailed Notes:1. **Introduction**  - Sermon focuses on Proverbs chapter 12, discussing the contrasting wisdom found in Proverbs.  - Importance of applying Proverbs in life, using them as a mirror to evaluate oneself.  - Reference to 2 Timothy 3:16-17 emphasizing that all Scripture is profitable and breathed out by God.2. **Verse-by-Verse Breakdown**  - **Proverbs 12:1**: Highlights the value of loving discipline and knowledge. Discusses the Hebrew term "stupid," emphasizing openness to correction.  - **Proverbs 12:2**: A good man finds favor, but those with evil plans are condemned.  - **Proverbs 12:3**: Righteousness as a root that provides stability.  - **Proverbs 12:4**: The impact of a wife on her husband; interpreted differently as respect vs. fidelity.  - **Proverbs 12:5-6**: Thoughts of the righteous vs. deceitful counsel of the wicked.  - **Proverbs 12:7-8**: Righteous stability vs. wicked downfall; value of common sense.  - **Proverbs 12:9-11**: Practical life principles; importance of humility, treatment of animals, and diligence in work.  - **Proverbs 12:12-14**: Contrast between desires of the wicked and the fruitful root of righteousness.  - **Proverbs 12:15-16**: Wisdom is shown in listening and maintaining calmness during insults.  - **Proverbs 12:17-19**: Importance of truthfulness and the power of words.  - **Proverbs 12:20-21**: Planning peace leads to joy; righteous living influences one's experiences.  - **Proverbs 12:22-23**: Lying is abominable; wisdom sometimes involves silence.  - **Proverbs 12:24-28**: Encouragement toward diligence, anxiety relief through positive words, and the life pathway of righteousness.3. **General Themes**  - Wisdom and folly, rooted in contrasting ideas.  - The significance of words, truth, and the kind of life they produce.  - Importance of self-examination and personal growth.#### Practical Applications:1. **Self-Reflection**: Regularly evaluate personal speech and actions against the wisdom in Proverbs; ask yourself if you embody characteristics of wisdom or folly.2. **Discipline and Correction**: Foster a love for learning and being corrected; see such experiences as opportunities for growth rather than criticism.3. **Relationships**: In relationships, especially marriages, aim for support, respect, and understanding. Avoid negative behaviors that could lead to discord or resentment.4. **Daily Conduct**: Live with integrity and diligence. Avoid being deceitful or lazy, as these paths lead to downfall.5. **Peace Planning**: Cultivate a peaceful environment in the home by setting clear boundaries and demonstrating mutual respect and love.6. **Mindfulness of Words**: Acknowledge the power of words, strive for honest and life-giving speech, and employ discretion before speaking in volatile situations.7. **Community Engagement**: Be a positive influence in your community as the righteous lead others to life and joy through their actions.#### Discussion Questions:1. What are some practical ways you can apply the discipline principles from Proverbs 12:1 in your life?  2. How does the concept of "planning peace" resonate with you? What steps can you take to cultivate peace in your home or workplace?3. Reflect on a time when remaining silent was more effective than speaking. How can you apply this wisdom to future situations?4. In what areas do you struggle with diligence, and how can embracing the Proverbs' teachings help you?5. How do you handle correction or reproof? What can you learn from Proverbs 12 about responding to it constructively?6. What role do you believe words play in relationships, and how can you ensure your speech builds others up rather than tears them down?7. Discuss a verse from Proverbs 12 that particularly stood out to you and why. How might it change your perspective or behavior moving forward?

We live in an age where truth is no longer discovered—it's declared. Everyone's got "their truth," but what happens when my truth and your truth collide? Summary: In this foundational episode of Faith + State, Vince Miller and Elliott Engen explore how our culture has replaced absolute truth with subjective truth, and why that shift is at the root of today's moral and political chaos. From the public square to personal identity, they unpack how abandoning biblical authority has left us in confusion—and how returning to the Word of God restores clarity, conviction, and courage. Big Idea: The world says truth is subjective. The Bible says the truth is revealed. One leads to chaos. The other to clarity. John 17:17 — "Sanctify them in the truth; your word is truth." Reflection & Discussion Questions: How does the modern idea of "your truth" conflict with the Bible's view of absolute truth? Where do you see "subjective truth" showing up most in today's culture? Why do you think people prefer relative truth over revealed truth? How does John 17:17 define truth in a way that challenges cultural norms? What dangers arise when a society loses belief in objective truth? How can Christians speak truth boldly without becoming combative? What role should Scripture play in shaping your understanding of truth? How can we model truth to the next generation in a post-truth culture? Why is truth foundational to justice, morality, and identity? What step can you take this week to align your beliefs with God's revealed truth?

In session eight, Paul urges Timothy to pursue godliness through spiritual discipline and to set an example for other believers in speech, conduct, love, faith, and purity. In the same way, we are called to grow in godliness, remaining devoted to God's Word, and persevering in living out the gospel so that our lives reflect the truth that we preach. Verses Used:1 Timothy 4:7-131 Corinthians 9:25-271 Timothy 4:12Ephesians 4:29Ephesians 4:17-241 Peter 1:3-51 Peter 1:131 Timothy 4:14-16Discussion Questions:As believers, what are we called to discipline ourselves in? What does it actually look like to do this, and what do we gain by doing so? (See 1 Timothy 4:7-8)In what qualities does Paul instruct Timothy to set an example in 1 Timothy 4:12? How does the Bible discuss these qualities? To what extent are you an example in them? (See Study Guide, Day 2)Timothy is told not to neglect the spiritual gift in him. How have you seen people neglect the spiritual gifts God has given them, and what was the outcome? On the other hand, how have you seen believers diligently exercise their spiritual gifts, and what impact did that make?What do you feel you are gifted in? Are you neglecting to use your spiritual gifts, or are you employing them diligently?Paul tells Timothy to “take pains with these things,” and to “be absorbed in them.” What does this mean, and to what degree is your life absorbed with understanding Scripture and godly living? What distracts you from these things?

Main Idea:  Human pride and hatred pursue God's people, as darkness fills the land. When men demand respect (1–6) When leaders deceive (6–11) When darkness invades (12–15) Discussion Questions: 1. What risks come with standing by conviction in a culture that rewards compliance? 2. Why does Scripture urge us to pray for our leaders—even when they are ungodly? 3. In what ways are we experiencing God's patience right now? 4. How do distraction, indifference, or apathy serve Satan's purposes just as effectively as open rebellion? Where do you notice this kind of spiritual dullness creeping into your own walk with God?

Brian Feroldi discusses the current state of the stock market, providing insights on market valuations, personal investment strategies, and the impact of artificial intelligence on stock analysis. The conversation highlights the importance of sustainability in stock market growth, potential investment pitfalls, and the benefits of leveraging AI tools for detailed analyses. Key Topics & Timestamps Introduction to the State of the Stock Market (00:01:01) Overview of stock market performance in 2025, with S&P 500 recording over 15% growth year-to-date. Current Market Valuation Insights (00:02:04) Discussion on historical performance indicators and high valuation levels. "Sustained double-digit growth in the stock market isn't feasible long-term." (00:02:15) Brian Feroldi's Personal Investment Strategy (00:05:00) Brian shares his strategy of maintaining a 30% cash position during high valuations and investing 70% in the market. Importance of personal financial situations when making investment choices. Impact of AI on Stock Analysis (00:24:19) Insights on how AI can enhance stock analysis when provided with clear directives. "As long as you're giving AI clear directions, it can provide incredible analysis." (00:26:10) Audience Questions and Answers (00:30:00) Discussion on individual stocks vs. index funds and thoughts on tax implications. Benefits of Fee-Only Financial Advisors (00:53:24) Advocating for fee-only hourly consultations for transparent financial advice versus traditional AUM models. Conclusions and Future Predictions (01:03:05) Summary of Brian's thoughts on market sustainability and advice for investor strategies moving forward. Actionable Takeaways Maintain a cash reserve during high market valuations to ensure better investment opportunities. (00:06:32) Utilize AI tools for deeper stock analysis, focusing only on credible data sources. (00:26:10) Regularly consult fee-only financial advisors for actionable insights without ongoing asset management fees. (00:53:24) Key Quotes Brian Feroldi: "Investment strategies should reflect personal financial situations." (00:05:00) Brian Feroldi: "Dollar-cost averaging into total stock market index funds is just so rock solid." (00:21:27) Related Resources Notebook LLM (00:25:05) Finviz Stock Screener (00:40:09) Nectarine (00:53:24) OpenPath Financial (00:54:32) Abundo Wealth (00:54:32) Discussion Questions How has the recent performance of the S&P 500 influenced your investment strategy? (00:02:04) What role do you think AI will play in future investment decisions? (00:26:10) How do you approach high market valuations as an investor? (00:06:32)

Discussion QuestionsSermon Overview Pursue a God-pleasing righteousness from the heart, including in your marriageI. The righteousness God seeks is from the heart (vv. 14-15)II. The kingdom Jesus brings fulfills the law but does not relax righteousness (vv. 16-17)III. God's enduring desire for righteousness is shown in his enduring instruction about marriage (v. 18)Digging Deeper    Read Luke 16:14-181. In the sermon, righteousness is “being right, doing right, before God.” The righteousness God is seeking is righteousness from the heart. What's the difference between being righteous just on the outside (like the Pharisees) and being righteous from the heart?2. Have you ever found yourself resisting a teaching in the Bible, only to later realize (or experience a sense of conviction from the Holy Spirit) that it is a truth that was pressing on something you were loving as a rival to God?  Please share.3. If you were to be honest, is there an area of your life where you are settling for outward conformity (a merely external righteousness)?  What might be a good step toward pursuing change in this area of your life?4. After hearing this sermon, how might you respond to someone who thinks they can live however they want because Jesus counts us as righteous through trust in him?5. Jesus didn't come to make righteousness unnecessary, but rather to make it possible.  What does that mean?  Do you find this truth encouraging?  How so? MARRIAGEIn our culture, the starting point for thinking about marriage is often self-fulfillment: my wants, my needs, my goals. It's easy to miss God's design for marriage, which is a covenant to which we must be faithful, a union that is only broken with great trauma, and a picture of God's love and faithfulness. It is, therefore, not surprising that so many fail to see the grievousness of divorce as God does. 6. How can we speak and act about marriage so that those around us are pointed toward God's good design of marriage?7. This passage urges us to “Pursue a God-pleasing righteousness from the heart, including in (our) marriages.”  If you're married, what would this practically look like?8. Given your marital situation and background, what was one takeaway from this sermon God might want you to remember in the days ahead? Prayer

Send us a textExilesSeek The Peace Of The City | Part 1 Dr. Jessica FernandezOctober 26, 2025When Israel was carried into exile in Babylon, their natural instinct was to resist, withdraw, or despair. But God gave them a surprising command: “Seek the peace and prosperity of the city.” Even in a foreign land, God's people were called to pray, to serve, and to bring life to their communities. As modern-day exiles, we are called to do the same—living not in fear or withdrawal, but as agents of God's blessing where He has placed us.________Discussion Questions 1. Where has God “carried” you to right now that feels uncomfortable or unfamiliar? How might God be asking you to build, plant, or seek peace in that very place instead of trying to escape it?2. Jeremiah 29 shows God's people thriving in exile through everyday faithfulness like building homes, planting gardens, praying for the city. What does thriving look like for you in your current season?3. God commanded His people to seek the peace (shalom) of the city that had harmed them. What would it look like for you to bring shalom, wholeness, healing, and hope, into your workplace, family, or community?4. In what areas of your life do you tend to withdraw, assimilate, or fight back when faced with cultural tension? What might faithful presence, engaging without losing your identity, look like instead?5. Jeremiah 29:11 is often read as a promise of comfort, but you taught that it's actually a promise of steady faithfulness over time. How does seeing this verse in its proper context change the way you view waiting, suffering, or purpose?1. Where do you notice “masquerade” in your life (outside-in pressure to perform) versus “metamorphosis” (inside-out renewal)? What would cooperating with transformation look like this week? 2. Which part of the redemption arc most encourages you today—bougSeek The Peace Of The City

Romans 6:15-23 confronts us with a profound truth: we will serve someone or something, whether we acknowledge it or not. This passage challenges the dangerous notion that grace gives us license to continue in sin, asking the piercing question: are we to sin because we're under grace rather than law? The answer rings clear—absolutely not. We're presented with only two masters: sin leading to death, or obedience leading to righteousness. There's no third option, no middle ground where we can blend worldly living with Christian faith. The transformation that comes through Christ isn't an addition to our existing life—it's a complete metamorphosis. We see this illustrated through the story of Elisha, who burned his oxen and plows, eliminating any possibility of retreat to his former life. Similarly, Jesus' disciples left their nets, their boats, and even their father immediately when called. This radical commitment stands in stark contrast to the lukewarm Christianity described in Revelation 3, where the church of Laodicea was neither hot nor cold, prompting Christ to say He would spit them from His mouth. The parable of the sower reminds us that only one in four who hear the word will produce lasting fruit. The question we must wrestle with is this: which soil are we? Are we clinging to escape plans and old relationships that keep us tethered to our former slavery, or are we willing to take that first step of obedience, trusting God will reveal the next?### Sermon Notes**Scripture**: Romans 6:15-23**Introduction**: - Rick, a pastor at Hope Church, continues the study of Romans, focusing on Romans 6. - Reminder that they preach through books of the Bible, emphasizing the importance of scripture-based preaching.**Key Points**:1. **Understanding Sin and Grace**:  - The question Paul raises: Are we to sin because we are under grace, not the law?  - Emphasis on morality within the law and grace.2. **Analogy of Slavery**:  - Paul uses the analogy of being slaves to sin versus slaves to righteousness.  - Bob Dylan's illustration: "You gotta serve somebody."3. **Transformation through Salvation**:  - Christianity is not just an addition but a transformation of life.  - The old self versus the new self: Embrace becoming a slave to righteousness.4. **Challenges in Christian Walk**:  - Temptation to mix worldly views and new belief systems with Christianity.  - Importance of separating from past sinful lifestyles and friendships.5. **Practical Illustrations**:  - Rick's personal testimony about radical change after accepting Christ.  - Importance of cutting off past connections that hinder spiritual growth.6. **Reasons for Struggling with Sin**:  - Continually resurrecting old sinful behaviors.  - Lack of suffering or commitment in serving God wholeheartedly.  - Not eliminating the past life entirely.7. **Biblical References to Commitment**:  - Examples of Elisha burning his plow and the disciples leaving everything to follow Jesus.  - The rich young ruler's story: Heart's attachment to possessions.8. **Fruit of Righteousness**:  - Encouragement to analyze life for spiritual fruit.  - Belonging entirely to Christ results in sanctification and eternal life.**Practical Applications**:1. **Cut Ties with Sin**:   - Identify and remove old habits and relationships that hinder spiritual growth.2. **Embrace Transformation**:   - Acknowledge that faith in Christ leads to a completely changed life, not just an addition to current beliefs.3. **Serve with Zeal**:   - Dedicate the same energy formerly given to sin towards serving God.4. **Evaluate Your Life**:   - Regularly assess if your life reflects the fruit of righteousness or if it's still tied to the old self.5. **Take Steps of Faith**:   - Listen for God's direction and take incremental steps towards fulfilling His call.**Discussion Questions**:1. How does understanding that we are under grace, not the law, change your perspective on sin and righteousness?2. What are some steps you can take to ensure you're living as a "slave to righteousness" rather than a slave to sin?3. Are there aspects of your past life that you are still holding onto, and how can you fully commit them to God?4. How has your commitment to Christ transformed your everyday life and decisions?5. Discuss a time when taking a small step of faith led to a significant spiritual victory or growth in your life.

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What does it mean to live with true integrity before God? This powerful exploration of Proverbs 11 uses a fascinating visual of an ancient scale to unlock a profound spiritual truth: God delights in transparency and abhors deception. The passage opens with the striking image of false balances being an abomination to the Lord, while just weights bring Him delight. This isn't merely about honest business dealings—it's a metaphor for how we live our entire lives. Through the clever illustration of M&Ms that look identical but weigh differently, we're confronted with our own tendency to present one thing while hiding another. The text walks us through contrast after contrast: pride versus humility, integrity versus crookedness, kindness versus cruelty. Each pairing reveals that our character isn't just about external actions but about the condition of our hearts. The crooked heart is an abomination, while blameless ways delight God. What makes this message so relevant is its unflinching honesty about how we position ourselves—toward our neighbors, in our business dealings, with our secrets, and especially in our witness. We're challenged to ask: Are we being authentic, or are we like gold jewelry on a pig—beautiful on the outside but fundamentally unclean? The call is clear: transparency, integrity, and genuine vulnerability are what allow others to see Christ in us and ultimately lead to capturing souls for the kingdom.### Sermon Notes**Introduction**- Series: Book of Proverbs- Transition from first nine chapters to the one-liners of Proverbs, emphasizing wisdom in everyday life.- Focus on Proverbs 11, particularly on themes of integrity, honesty, and righteousness.**Key Verses**- Proverbs 11:1: "A false balance is an abomination to the Lord, but a just weight is his delight."- Proverbs 11:20: "Those of crooked heart are an abomination to the Lord, but those of blameless ways are his delight."**Illustration: M&Ms and Balances**- Demonstration using M&Ms to illustrate unequal weights and measures.- Emphasizes honesty and integrity in dealings — showing the difference between a false balance and a just weight.**Understanding the Context**- Historical use of weights and measures to ensure fairness and integrity.- The biblical mandate for truthful representation in dealings with others.**Themes and Exposition**1. **Integrity and Honesty**  - Importance of being transparent and honest in daily interactions.  - Proverbs 11:3: "The integrity of the upright guides them, but the crookedness of the treacherous destroys them."2. **Riches vs. Righteousness**  - Proverbs 11:4: Riches are futile in the end; righteousness delivers.  - Wealth should not be ultimate pursuit; leads to false security.3. **Pride and Humility**  - Proverbs 11:2: Pride leads to disgrace, humility to wisdom.  - Importance of maintaining humility in relationships and business.4. **Words and Relationships**  - Proverbs 11:9, 12-13: The impact of words on neighbors and communities.  - Encouragement to be silent and prudent in speech, preserving trust.5. **Guidance and Counsel**  - Proverbs 11:14: Value of wise counsel and collective decision-making.  - The role of community and elders in guiding individual and corporate decisions.6. **Generosity and Kindness**  - Proverbs 11:24-25: Generosity leads to blessings; holding back leads to want.  - Being open-handed with resources creates a culture of abundance and support.7. **Spiritual Pursuits**  - Proverbs 11:30: "The fruit of the righteous is a tree of life, and whoever captures souls is wise."  - Parallel to the Great Commission: our role in sharing the Gospel.**Practical Applications**1. **Practice Integrity:** Regularly assess how you conduct business and personal relationships. Ensure your actions align with honesty and transparency.2. **Humble Reflection:** Before acting or speaking, consider approaching situations with humility.3. **Seek Wise Counsel:** In major life decisions, consult with trusted mentors or spiritual leaders.4. **Generosity:** Be intentionally generous with time, resources, and kindness. Recognize the abundance mindset.5. **Evangelism:** Actively seek opportunities to share faith and serve in your community.**Discussion Questions**1. How can we ensure we are living with integrity in areas where it might be challenging, such as work or community interactions?2. In what ways do pride and humility manifest in your life, and how can you cultivate more humility?3. Who are the key people you seek counsel from, and how has that impacted your life decisions?4. What are practical ways you can be more generous in your daily life?5. How can your church community or small group more effectively engage in capturing souls for Christ as mentioned in Proverbs 11:30?

In session seven of Entrusted, false teachers opposed marriage and instructed their followers to abstain from certain foods. These deceptive doctrines led people away from the truth found in Scripture that Jesus came to fulfill the Law and through Him all things are declared clean.Verses Used:1 Timothy 4:3-7Genesis 1:27Proverbs 12:4Proverbs 18:22Hebrews 13:4Romans 10:3-4Ephesians 2:15Discussion Questions:1. What false doctrines were being taught in 1 Timothy 4:1-7? What are modern day examples of restrictions people try to impose on others in the name of God? Why is this so harmful?2. Have you ever found yourself believing something that later turned out to be contrary to Scripture? What helped you recognize the truth and realign your perspective?3. How can you ensure you are trusting in sound doctrine? ( See 1 Timothy 4:6, Hebrews 5:14)4. How does Paul address personal convictions regarding food and drink in Romans 14:14-21 and Romans 14:2- 4? How does this freedom in Christ apply today? 5. Why do we tend to judge others based on our personal preferences?

In this episode, Dr. Shane Owens, a scholar of St. Augustine, joins us to discuss the power of memory. Together, we explore how memory is a place to where we withdraw to understand our identity, shape our whole self, and begin to see God working in our lives. Memory exists for the purpose of hope and we not only talk about how the Scriptures and Eucharist bear the memories of the Church, but also how our sorrowful memories can become sources of hope.    Heather's One Thing - Pope Leo XIV: Son of St. Augustine (A conversation with Fr. Dave Pivonka and Dr. Shane Owens) Heather's Other One Thing - Franciscan University's Festival of Praise Sister Miriam's One Thing - The Archdiocese of Sydney, Australia Michelle's One Thing - Return to the Heart: The Biblical Spirituality of St. Augustine's Confessions by Dr. Shane Owens Michelle's Other One Thing - Heaven for Me! by St. Thérèse of Lisieux Dr. Shane Owens' One Thing - Bible Across America from the St. Paul Center   Journal Questions: Am I savoring or swallowing the gifts God has given me? What core memories of my life have been rewritten by God? What sorrowful mysteries of my life feel too complicated to ponder? Where in your memory do you need to ask Jesus where He was present in it?   Discussion Questions: How can you hone your spiritual palate to be present to the good that God is doing in your life? When have you experienced the living power of memories? How have your memories been a source of hope? How are you being invited to slow down and ponder?   Quote to Ponder: “The heart is the dwelling-place where I am, where I live; according to the Semitic or Biblical expression, the heart is the place "to which I withdraw." The heart is our hidden center, beyond the grasp of our reason and of others; only the Spirit of God can fathom the human heart and know it fully. The heart is the place of decision, deeper than our psychic drives. It is the place of truth, where we choose life or death. It is the place of encounter, because as image of God we live in relation: it is the place of covenant.” (CCC 2563)   Scripture for Lectio: “But Mary treasured all these words and pondered them in her heart.” (Luke 2:19)   Sponsor - Hallow: Get 3 months free of Hallow at hallow.com/abide and enjoy over 10,000 audioguided prayers, meditations, and music. Hallow can help you find peace, build a daily habit of prayer, and grow closer to God.   Chapters:  00:00 Hallow 01:00 Intro 01:50 Welcome 05:35 Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote 07:07 Who is St. Augustine? 09:30 What Inspired this Book? 11:18 Entering into Our Memories 13:20 How We Write Our Own Stories 15:34 Scripture and the Eucharist Help Us Understand Our Own Story 17:37 Chewing the Cud 20:47 Wondering vs Pondering 24:30 Hope in Our Sorrowful Mysteries 30:30 Finding Jesus in Painful Memories 38:59 Setting Aside Time to Hope 43:46 One Things

What's That Smell? (Grace Giving and Grace Living!) Discussion Questions for 2 Corinthians: Read 2 Corinthians 6:14-16. What does it look like to “be separate” without being isolated or legalistic? How are you “different” in this world? Read 2 Corinthians 7:8-10. What is the difference between worldly sorrow and godly sorrow? Explain in your own words. Read 2 Corinthians 8:12-15. What do we learn about how the early church was invited to share with each other to meet needs? Read 2 Corinthians 9:5. Why did Paul send someone to go ahead of him? What does that show us about Paul's heart? Read 2 Corinthians 9:6. React to this statement: If we invest in the gospel, we're going to see a harvest: transformed lives! Read 2 Corinthians 9:7. What four expressions here show exactly what a healthy motivation for giving looks like? How is this different from the “give until it hurts” mentality? What meant the most to you from Andrew's message today? Why?

Discussion QuestionsSermon Overview Followers of Jesus shrewdly manage mammon now for eternal purposes.Digging Deeper    Read Luke 16:1-131. How was the crooked manager in the parable shrewd?2. If you're a follower of Jesus, what would it look like to be shrewd for kingdom purposes?Mammon can be defined simply as money and possessions (like in verses 9 and 11). And it can be understood as a demonic power that uses money and possessions to lure people away from God (like in verse 12).3. Mammon will fail (v. 9) because it goes up and down in life, and when we die, it will be worthless. If you believed this through and through, how would it change your life?4. Western culture is a materialistic culture. What blind spots do you think this causes in our lives and church when it comes to spending your money with kingdom priorities?5. How have you experienced the influence of mammon inside of you? How have you looked to money to give you peace, security, significance, adventure, pleasure, etc?6. In what ways is Jesus a better God to serve than Money? Why is this easy to forget in day-to-day life?7. Often, we connect with what Jesus has done in the past to motivate our lives now (e.g., Jesus was generous, so we should be generous). In our passage, Jesus motivates generosity and faithfulness with future eternal rewards (see v. 9 and v. 11). Do you think much of eternal rewards? Why or why not?8. Imagine the eternal rewards God promises for shrewd stewardship of mammon, like eternal friends (v. 9) and true riches (v. 12). What comes to your mind? 9. How can we, as a Gospel Community, together encourage one another to look forward to eternal rewards? 

In Romans 6, we encounter a powerful message about our identity in Christ and the nature of sin. The central theme revolves around our death to sin and new life in Jesus. We learn that through baptism, we are symbolically united with Christ in His death and resurrection, enabling us to 'walk in newness of life.' This passage challenges us to see ourselves as dead to sin and alive to God, reminding us that our old self was crucified with Christ. The imagery of putting off the old nature like a dead carcass is particularly striking, urging us to embrace our new identity. As we grapple with the presence of sin in our lives, we're encouraged to remember that we're fighting a defeated foe - Satan has been disarmed, and we have the authority in Christ to resist him. This message calls us to live out our faith actively, submitting to God and resisting the devil, knowing that we have been given all things in Christ for godliness and power.### Sermon Notes#### Key Themes:1. **Sin and Grace:**  - Sin, deriving from the Greek word "hamartia," means to miss the mark, as in archery when one misses the bullseye. It encompasses anything that doesn't honor God.  - Everyone sins daily, often unknowingly—highlighted by the analogy of felonies in everyday actions.  - Sin resides in the human body, but through Jesus, believers are delivered from their sins.2. **Romans' Structure:**  - The first section of Romans addresses universal sinfulness and the need for the blood of Jesus for redemption.  - The second section focuses on conversion and what Jesus has done for believers.  - The third section deals with failure, redemption, and the process of sanctification.3. **The Grace Debate:**  - Address's Paul's teachings on grace—often misunderstood as a license to sin.  - Grace is limitless but shouldn't encourage sinning. It's meant to lead to repentance.4. **Walking in Sanctification:**  - Sanctification is a lifelong process.  - Believers must "walk" in faith, actively choosing righteousness over sin.5. **Overcoming Sin Nature:**  - The old sinful nature is crucified with Christ; hence believers need not be slaves to it.  - Emphasizing spiritual rebirth where believers share in Jesus' death and resurrection.6. **Grace and Holiness:**  - Balancing grace with a call to holiness.  - Holiness is aspiring to be more like God, beyond merely acknowledging imperfection.7. **The Defeated Enemy:**  - Despite sin's presence, Christ's victory ensures that believers fight a defeated foe—the devil.   - Jesus disarmed spiritual authorities and reclaimed dominion.#### Practical Applications:1. **Daily Walk:**  - Embrace sanctification by making intentional choices that honor God.  - Begin each day with a commitment to resist sin and follow Christ's teachings.2. **Mortifying the Old Self:**  - Regularly reaffirm the crucifixion of your old sinful self. Confess sins, repent, and embrace the new nature in Christ.  - Practicing self-discipline through spiritual activities like fasting can help assert mastery over the flesh.3. **Rely on Grace:**  - Trust in God's boundless grace to cover past mistakes but be proactive about living a life that strives for holiness.  - Use grace as a motivator towards repentance rather than a justification for complacency.4. **Confronting the Enemy:**  - Recognize the enemy is already defeated; utilize Jesus' authority in spiritual warfare.  - Engage actively in prayer, studying Scripture, and living obediently to resist satanic influences.#### Discussion Questions:1. How do you personally define sin, and how conscious are you of missing the mark in your daily life?2. In what ways have you seen grace play out in your own spiritual journey?3. Discuss the balance between grace and a call to holiness in your life. How do you strive to achieve this balance?4. What actions can you take to 'walk out' your faith more deliberately each day?5. How do you spiritually combat the "defeated foe" in your own life? What Scriptures or practices help you reclaim victory?

Apply to Join Churchfront Premium Apply to Join Churchfront Pro Free Worship and Production Toolkit Shop Our Online Courses Join us at the Churchfront Conference Follow Churchfront on Instagram or TikTok: @churchfront Follow on Twitter: @realchurchfront Gear we use to make videos at Churchfront Musicbed SyncID: MB01VWQ69XRQNSN Episode Title The Surprising Connection Between Online Views and Church Growth Episode Description Matt and Jake dive into The Unstuck Group's Q3 2025 report analyzing 252 churches to uncover surprising connections between worship style, online streaming, and church growth. Discover why declining churches juggle multiple worship styles, how online views predict growth, and why the cost barrier for quality streaming has never been lower. Key Takeaways 76% of surveyed churches now focus on modern/contemporary worship only Churches with multiple worship styles are more likely to be declining 96% of churches now offer online services (up from ~20% pre-COVID) Online views are a lead indicator for church growth 40% of online church viewers are first-time visitors The broadcast section is typically the smallest part of AV budgets Audio quality matters more than video quality for streaming Guest/Host Info Hosts: Jake Gosselin and Matt Woltjer from Churchfront Timestamps 0:00 Introduction: The Unstuck Group Q3 2025 Report Overview 1:11 76% of Churches Now Offer Only Modern/Contemporary Worship 3:52 Declining Churches Juggle Multiple Worship Styles 6:07 Living in the Tension: Traditional vs. Contemporary 7:42 Excellence in Worship - Both Styles Can Work 10:12 Vision is Essential - Don't Lead What You Don't Believe In 12:02 Your Space Dictates Your Style Limitations 14:09 Contemporary Worship = More Online Engagement 15:51 96% of Churches Now Offer Online Services 17:01 The Cost of Broadcasting Has Decreased Dramatically 19:36 Online Streaming Doesn't Hurt In-Person Attendance 20:47 Online Views as a Lead Indicator for Growth 22:50 40% of Online Viewers are First-Time Visitors 23:07 Audio First - The Key to Quality Streaming Resources Mentioned The Unstuck Group Q3 2025 Report ChurchTechToday Gitnux First Baptist Melbourne (traditional excellence example) Elevation Church (contemporary excellence example) Rock Harbor Church (historical building renovation example) Discussion Questions for Church Leaders Does your church currently offer multiple worship styles? What challenges has that created? How can your church pursue unity while honoring different generational preferences? If you're not currently streaming, what barriers are holding you back? How can you improve your online presence as a "front door" for visitors? Action Steps Review your church's online metrics - are views increasing or decreasing? Assess whether multiple worship styles are helping or hindering unity Evaluate your streaming setup - is audio quality your top priority? Consider how your building design supports or limits your worship style goals Social Media Pull Quotes "Churches trying to maintain multiple worship styles are much more likely to be declining. It's not about one style being better—it's about strategic leadership." - Jake & Matt "96% of churches now stream online, and here's the kicker: online views are a lead indicator for growth. If your views are increasing, you're likely a growing church." - Jake & Matt "People will watch bad video with good audio, but they won't watch bad audio with good video. Audio first, always." - Matt Woltjer "Your online stream isn't competing with in-person attendance—it's your front door. 40% of online viewers are first-time visitors researching your church." - Jake Gosselin "The worship wars are over. Now it's time to be one church with one vision, not two churches meeting in the same building." - Jake & Matt Episode Tags #ChurchGrowth #WorshipStyle #LiveStreaming #ChurchTechnology #TheUnstuckGroup #ContemporaryWorship #TraditionalWorship #ChurchAV #OnlineChurch #ChurchLeadership Production Notes Include link to The Unstuck Group report in description Add affiliate disclosure if applicable Consider creating supplementary graphics showing the key statistics Potential follow-up: Interview with The Unstuck Group team about their methodology

What Died When You Did? Discussion Questions for 2 Corinthians 5-6: Read verse 15. What does it practically mean to no longer live for ourselves? How might this reshape our goals and motivations? Read verse 16. How does seeing others “not according to the flesh” change how we treat other people, even those who frustrate or anger us? Read verse 17. What does it mean to be a new creation? What old things have passed away, and what new things has God brought you? When? Read verses 18–20. Why is it important to read these verses as a cluster (including verse 20) to avoid the idea of universal salvation? Note verse 20. What role does our response play in reconciliation with God? Read verse 21. What does it mean to become “the righteousness of God in Him”? How does this go beyond being merely forgiven? Read verses 6:14–16. How should our identity as righteousness and light shape the (marriage) partnerships and priorities we form in the world? Read verses 6:17–18. What does it mean to come out and be separate without becoming self-righteous or isolated? How does knowing you're God's child shape your confidence and compassion?

Discussion QuestionsSermon Overview Disciples should share Jesus' joy in lost sinners becoming found sons.Digging Deeper    Read Luke 15:1-321. Do you now, or have you ever felt estranged from God? If so, what is/was it like?2. In the sermon, Brett mentioned that happiness dependent on something that could be lost is fragile. What makes you happy? How durable or fragile is it?3. Have you ever hit rock bottom? What was it like?4. Read Luke 15:20. When you think of God's love, how similar or different is it to what's described? 5. There are two ways to be lost: self-indulgence or self-righteousness. Which way did/do you gravitate towards?6. How is the insight this passage gives us to what brings heaven joy both a thrill for us and a challenge to us?7. If your joy is the same as what brings God joy, how will it affect:a. Your view and relationship with those who don't know Jesus?b. Your prayer life?Prayer

Ep. 120 - Kids Ask Dr. Friendtastic: Being apart doesn't have to end a friendship | Friendship advice for kidsParents, check out my online workshops for kids at workshops.eileenkennedymoore.com.FREE quiz: Is Your Child a Good Friend? https://eileenkennedymoore.ck.page/e37dcc098fWould YOUR KID like to be featured on the podcast?SUBMIT A QUESTION TO DR. FRIENDTASTIC at https://DrFriendtastic.com/submit (Obviously, this is not psychotherapy, and it's not for emergency situations.)For an easy-to-read TRANSCRIPT, go to: https://DrFriendtastic.com/podcast/Like the podcast? Check out my books at https://EileenKennedyMoore.com.Subscribe to my NEWSLETTER, https://DrFriendtastic.substack.com, to get podcast episodes sent to your email plus articles for parents.*** DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:- How could you try to be enjoyable company when you're with a friend?- Dr. Friendtastic mentioned two plans that are NOT a good idea for dealing with your friend playing with someone else. What were those plans, and why are they not a good idea?- Why is it a good idea to try to be friends with a friend's friend?- Why is having more than one friend a good way to take care of yourself?*** You might also like these podcast episodes:Ep. 111 - Friend won't forgive her (Thea, Age 10)https://drfriendtastic.substack.com/p/ep111-friend-wont-forgive-her-thea-age11Ep. 94 - Before you confront a friend https://drfriendtastic.substack.com/p/ep94-before-you-confront-a-friendEp. 26 - Friendship doesn't have to be all or nothing (Abigail, Age 10) https://drfriendtastic.substack.com/p/kids-ask-dr-friendtastic-ep-26-abigail Get full access to Dr. Friendtastic for Parents at drfriendtastic.substack.com/subscribe

Brad interviews Chris Hutchins, host of the podcast All The Hacks. They dive deep into challenging the traditional mindset of financial independence (FI), exploring the balance between saving for the future and enjoying life experiences in the present. The discussion revolves around the potential pitfalls of overly conservative financial strategies and emphasizes the importance of prioritizing valuable life experiences while ensuring future financial security. Conservative Goals Discussion (00:01:12) Chris shares his reflections on why many in the FI community may prioritize financial safety at the cost of meaningful experiences. He poses the question of whether we are taking the wrong risks by focusing too much on certainty in our finances. The 4% Rule (00:03:47) The hosts discuss the 4% rule, a guideline suggesting retirees can withdraw 4% of their savings annually. They highlight that, according to guests like Tyler Gardner, our focus on safety might lead to over-saving and depriving ourselves of essential life experiences. Rethinking Life Choices (00:10:44) As parents, they reflect on how the fleeting nature of time with children should influence our financial and personal choices. Chris shares insights on making bold decisions, such as considering taking significant time off for experiences with loved ones. Spending for Experiences (00:14:01) Brad challenges listeners to evaluate where they are spending their money and whether they can invest in experiences instead. The conversation emphasizes that creating memories often yields a higher return on investment than merely accumulating wealth. Importance of Flexibility in Spending (00:40:12) They discuss the benefits of being flexible in both finances and travel planning, underscoring the importance of planning ahead to maximize opportunities for experiences. Key Insights: Opportunity Costs: Focusing solely on savings can result in missing out on valuable life experiences (00:10:44). Flexibility Maximizes Value: Being flexible can help optimize travel rewards and reconcile the costs of memorable experiences (00:36:11). Rethinking Risks: Evaluate the balance between financial security and living fully. Exploring new experiences can often feel riskier, but not taking them can lead to regret (00:15:04). Actionable Takeaways: Regularly evaluate spending to identify areas for investing in experiences instead of saving (00:23:30). Plan trips or memorable activities well in advance to create anticipation and excitement (00:35:02). Embrace the risk of enjoying life and create a budget that allows for valuable experiences (00:14:01). Quotes to Remember: "Avoiding all risks in finance can lead to over-saving and missed life experiences." (00:08:02) "Focusing solely on savings can result in missing out on desired life experiences." (00:10:44) Discussion Questions for Reflection: Are you overly conservative in your financial strategies? How can you shift your mindset? (00:09:43) What experiences are you prioritizing in your life right now and why? (00:14:01) Related Resources: Chris Hutchins Website and Podcast       

In this episode, we explore the gift of tears and the importance of allowing ourselves to cry. We reflect on our experiences with crying and talk about how tears, especially in painful moments, can be a powerful expression of surrender, lament, and hope when offered to God. With the help of the Holy Spirit, our sensitivity and capacity to cry reflect the way we were beautifully created to respond to what breaks God's heart. We discuss the vulnerability of crying, the pain of resisting it, and how Jesus crying out on the cross reveals the value of our own cries. Whether you're too tired to cry, afraid to show need, or already feel safe expressing emotion, we invite you to see crying as an act of worship and intercession. In our sorrow, God meets us with love, truth, and the hope that He can actually do something with our pain.   Heather's One Thing - Spirit Breathe by Sarah Kroger and Echo Harbor Worship Sister Miriam's One Thing - Beloved Son by Carrie Daunt Michelle's One Thing - Her new back porch!   Other Resources Mentioned:  Pope Leo XIV's General Audience of September 10, 2025 The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer   Journal Questions: When was the last time I cried? What would it look like for me to cry well? Where has my heart been repressed? Where do I need to cry out?   Discussion Questions: How did Pope Leo's words change your perspective on crying? How are you tempted to give in to cynicism? In what ways are you self-reliant in this season of life? How can you be an empathetic witness to someone crying out in their life?   Quote to Ponder: “Finally, she asks God to give her a gift of tears to draw his mercy down upon the world, and especially upon his church.  In one of her visions, Catherine records having been told by God: “If you open your mind's eye you will see that the Holy Spirit weeps in the person of every one of my servants who offers me the fragrance of holy desire and constant humble prayer.” (St. Catherine of Sienna, The Dialogue Study Edition)   “We are accustomed to thinking of crying out as something disorderly, to be repressed. The Gospel confers an immense value to our cry, reminding us that it can be an invocation, a protest, a desire, a surrender. It can even be the extreme form of prayer, when there are no words left. In that cry, Jesus gave all that he had left: all his love, all his hope.” (General Audience, September 10, 2025, Pope Leo XIV)    Scripture for Lectio: “My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me?” (Psalm 22:1)   Sponsor - Beata Home: This episode is sponsored by Beata Home, a boutique-style print shop founded by Katie, a wife and mom of four. The word Beata is derived from the Latin word for “blessed,” and that is her hope, that each piece will be a blessing to homes and families. Born out of the conviction that beauty has the power to evangelize, Beata Home makes it easy for Catholic families to surround themselves with art that reflects their faith and lifts hearts and minds to God. Beata Home offers something for every family and every budget: Digital downloads for instant access and affordable printing Fine art prints in sizes from 8x10 up to 30x40 inches Ready-to-hang framed artwork in seven different frame styles Artwork is printed on museum-quality paper with archival inks, ensuring beauty that lasts for generations. Whether it's a small image for a prayer corner or a statement piece for your living room, Beata Home makes it simple to bring beauty and faith into your everyday spaces. The heart of Beata Home is sacred art, but the collection also includes carefully chosen vintage artwork because all beauty points to the Creator. Visit beatahome.com to explore the growing collection, and as a gift for Abiding Together listeners, use the code ABIDING10 for 10% off your first purchase. Support a Catholic family business and bring beauty into your domestic church with Beata Home!   Chapters:  00:00 Beata Home 01:14 Intro 02:04 Welcome 03:58 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder 05:11 The Pain of Resisting Tears 06:58 Crying Out is Vulnerable 08:50 Tears are a Gift 11:45 A Remedy for Self Reliance 13:23 What Happens When We Stop Crying Out 15:25 Crying with Others 17:53 Being Needy vs Having Needs 20:41 Sometimes All We Can Do is Cry 22:54 God Speaks to You Though Tears 24:30 Slowing Down 26:37 Crying as an Intercession 28:46 One Things

Between toddler tantrums, potty training battles, and endless power struggles, the preschool years can feel like the wild west of parenting. Today Karen is answering your preschool questions with her trademark practical tips, reminding us that structure, consistency, and patience go a long way. Above all, your daily walk with the Lord is what will sustain you during these exhausting and beautiful years!Episode Recap:My husband and I are at our wit's end with our strong-willed 4 year old's tantrums (6:11)Take a deep dive into the temperaments to learn how to discipline your child (7:00)My husband's job keeps him away from home often, how can I help my young children cope? (10:30)Help! Potty training is driving me nuts! (14:54)How do I help my 3 year old regulate his emotions? (17:40)Giving in to a tantrum makes it worse 100% of the time (19:00)Everything is an argument with my four year old, any advice? (23:22) Your walk with the Lord truly does make a difference (27:49)Scripture: Galatians 5:22–23“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.”Discussion Questions:How do you usually respond when your preschooler throws a tantrum? Is it working? Is there a new strategy you could try this week?Karen shared the importance of structure. What does a typical day look like in your home, and how could a little more routine help your preschooler?When your spouse travels or works long hours (or if you are co-parenting and splitting time between parents), how can you help your kids feel connected to their parent who is away?Potty training can be one of the most frustrating seasons. What's worked (or not worked) in your family, and how do you keep patience in the process?Karen reminded us that we need to lean on the Holy Spirit's fruit to parent well. Which “fruit” do you most need to pray for in this season? Let's pray for one another this week!Resources:We are booking for 2026! Reach out to bring Karen's wisdom to the moms in your community: https://birdsonawiremoms.com/book-karen-to-speakLearn more about temperaments in our most recent episode with Kathleen Edelman: https://wiretalk.transistor.fm/episodes/470-why-your-child-s-wiring-mattersSend us your question! Use the Ask Karen function in the BOAW Moms app: App Store: https://apps.apple.com/md/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927 Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.subsplashconsulting.s_JVZ5JB&hl=en_US

Brad welcomes Aubrey Williams, a financial advisor and member of the ChooseFI community. They discuss innovative strategies for financial independence (FI), focusing on flexible withdrawal rates, dynamic spending adjustments using historical analysis, and how adopting a more adaptable mindset can potentially lead to earlier FI. Timestamps & Discussion Topics: 00:00:00 Intro to Financial Independence Overview of the FI journey and the community's philosophy. 00:03:00 Aubrey's Background Aubrey shares his journey from a corporate career to becoming a financial advisor, emphasizing experiences with the FI community. 00:15:00 Understanding Withdrawal Rates Discussion on the traditional 4% withdrawal rule and its limitations; the importance of knowing what your portfolio should allow you to spend. 00:18:04 The Forces Influencing Spending Recognizing the various external influences that shape financial decisions and how awareness can help mitigate these. 00:29:57 Community Engagement—CampFI and Meetups The value of attending CampFI and other local FI meetups for motivation and networking, enhancing personal journeys toward financial independence. 00:53:00 Risk-Based Guardrails Explained Introducing the concept of risk-based guardrails to adjust spending dynamically based on portfolio performance. Key Quotes: "Adjusting spending when your portfolio hits a certain number is key for financial confidence. Historical analysis provides the guidance you need." - Aubrey (00:20:18) "Stay aware of the powerful forces that influence your financial decisions." - Aubrey (00:18:04) "Reaching FI requires a mindset shift towards thoughtful spending." - Aubrey (00:38:26) Actionable Takeaways: Understand Your Spending: Regularly evaluate your monthly expenses to identify areas to cut back, as small reductions can significantly lower your FI target. Utilize Historical Analysis Tools: Use resources like FIREcalc or Engaging Data to guide your financial decisions and explore various withdrawal strategies. Engage with the Community: Attend local meetups or events like CampFI to build relationships with others on a similar path, gaining insights and encouragement. Related Resources: Open Path Financial - Financial planning services by Aubrey. CampFI - Community events for personal finance enthusiasts. Projection Lab - Financial modeling tools. Discussion Questions: How can adjusting your spending habits affect your journey towards financial independence? What are some effective strategies for managing your withdrawal rate in retirement? How can community gatherings like CampFI enhance your understanding of financial independence? Action Items: Calculate your FI number based on your current expenses and savings rates. Download resources provided at Open Path Financial to better understand risk-based guardrails. Join a local FI meetup to connect with others and share insights about your financial journey. This episode provides insightful perspectives on achieving financial independence through flexible spending and community engagement. Listeners are encouraged to adopt a more dynamic approach to their finances, making use of historical tools and community resources to enhance their journey toward FI.