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Parenting introduces new pressures at every stage, but it doesn't have to pull your marriage apart. In this episode, the MTR Team walk through four major parenting seasons and share how couples can stay united, intentional, and More Than Roommates at every stage.Discussion Questions:1- Which parenting season are we currently in, and how is it impacting our marriage right now?2- Do we feel like we're truly on the same team—or unintentionally siding with our kids over one another?3- How do our differences (personality, discipline style, love language) strengthen or strain our marriage?4- What is one intentional habit we can reintroduce (or start) to protect our marriage in this season?

Is it really Christian to support law enforcement agencies like ICE—or does faith demand something different? In this episode, Pastor Doug carefully examines how Christians should think about authority, justice, compassion, and the role of government. Rather than reacting emotionally or politically, this conversation invites listeners to slow down, think biblically, and wrestle honestly with a difficult and timely question.Support the mission of the Salty Pastor podcast! Visit our donations page at https://pushpay.com/g/thesaltypastor to help us continue sharing truth with a world in need.Discussion Questions:How should Christians balance obedience to governing authorities with compassion for vulnerable people?What biblical principles should guide our opinions before our political preferences?How can Christians engage divisive public issues without losing love, humility, and faithfulness to Christ?

In this episode, we reflect on the tender and often misunderstood topic of forgiveness, what it is, what it isn't, and why it's central to finding freedom in Christ. We talk honestly about how resentment and unforgiveness can quietly build in the heart, often as an attempt to protect ourselves from further pain. We also acknowledge how difficult forgiveness can be, what to do with the cry of our hearts when we have been wounded, and how to entrust it to God when we don't yet feel capable of forgiving. Friends, forgiveness does not strip us of our identity, it affirms who we are in Christ. Even in the deepest places of hurt, we find hope because of the loving presence of a God who never abandons us in our pain.   Heather's One Thing - Greatness of the Lord by Brooke Ligertwood Heather's Other One Thing - The Franciscan University Community  Sister Miriam's One Thing - Heather's Battle Cry Playlist Michelle's One Thing - Congratulations to Indiana University for winning the championship! Michelle's Other One Thing - The Correspondent by Virginia Evans   Other Resources Mentioned:  Forgiving as Unity with Christ: A Journey for Healing Resentment and Relationships by Dr. Robert Enright   Announcement: Our 2026 Lenten book study will be "The Way of Trust and Love" by Fr. Jacques Philippe. Scepter Publishers has offered 15% off with the code ABIDE15. They also offer an ebook version as well. We will announce more information about the study in the coming weeks!   Journal Questions: What are the unhealed places of your heart? Are you angry, sad, or frustrated at the wrong you've endured? How have I experienced shame about the wrongs I've endured or my own unforgiveness? How has this affected my health, wellbeing, or energy? How do I replay or obsess over the conflict I experienced?  How have I given into constant comparison in my unforgiveness? What major changes have occurred in my life because of the injustice I've experienced and how have they affected me? Has this experience led to a more negative worldview? How has my sense of self changed? Am I seeing myself as worthless?   Discussion Questions: How have you been sweeping things under the rug and calling it forgiveness? What deeper feelings lie beneath your resentment? Where in your life do you need to repent and take personal responsibility? Who has modeled repentance and forgiveness well in your life? How does your heart react to conflict and wrongdoing in relationships?   Quotes to Ponder: "Ultimately, we can really forgive people only because Christ rose from the dead; his Resurrection is the guarantee that God can cure every wrong and every hurt." (Fr. Jacques Philippe, Interior Freedom) Resentment attacks our vital forces and does us much harm. When someone has made us suffer, our tendency is to keep the memory of the wrong alive in our minds, like a "bill" we will produce in due time to demand settlement. Those accumulated bills end up poisoning our lives. It is wiser to cancel every debt, as the Gospel invites us to. In return, we will be forgiven everything, and our hearts will be set free, whereas nurturing resentment toward others closes us to the positive things they could contribute to us." (Fr. Jacques Philippe, Interior Freedom) Scripture for Lectio: "Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, "Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother who sins against me? Up to seven times?" Jesus answered, "I tell you, not just seven times, but seventy-seven times!"" (Matthew 18:21-22)   Sponsor - Blessed is She: "Who do you say that I am?" Jesus didn't ask this because He was uncertain of His identity. He asked because we often are. The disciples had walked with Him. They had seen the miracles. They had heard the teaching. And still, when the question was asked, many hesitated. Because proximity to Jesus does not automatically mean intimacy.  So often, our understanding of God is shaped by what we've absorbed over time—what we were taught, what we experienced, what others modeled for us. And without noticing, we begin to believe stories that aren't true.That God is distant. That He is easily disappointed. That love must be earned. That holiness requires perfection. But Jesus does not leave us guessing. He tells us who He is: I am the Light of the World. I am the Bread of Life. I am the Good Shepherd. I am the Way, the Truth, and the Life... Join Blessed is She this Lent to journey with Jesus to Jerusalem in Who Do You Say That I Am? by Debra Herbeck.  This Lenten devotional walks through the "I AM" statements of Jesus in the Gospel of John and is written to lead you out of assumptions and into encounter.  This Lent, let Jesus speak for Himself. And let that truth reshape the way you live. Whether you've been walking with Jesus for years or you just met Him, drink even more deeply of the truths of who Jesus says He is in Who Do You Say That I Am? Get your women's and kid's devotionals at blessedisshe.net/lent. Blessed is She is a Catholic women's community for any woman who wants to radically follow Jesus through a vibrantly Catholic life every single day.  We create beautiful and accessible resources (like this year's Lent devotional), products, and experiences to deepen prayer and foster community, both online and in person. We invite you into this community, no matter where you are on your walk with Christ. You belong here. Subscribe to our *free* daily emails to pray with the daily Mass readings and women all over the world at blessedisshe.net/subscribe and order the brand new Blessed is She Catholic journaling Bible at blessedisshe.net/shop.   Timestamps: 00:00 Blessed is She 01:30 Intro 02:16 Welcome 03:25 Scripture Verse and Quotes to Ponder 06:13 Repentance Leads to Freedom 07:53 Forgiveness is Hard 09:41 How Do I Forgive When I Don't Have the Capacity? 13:27 Modeling Repentance in Our Lives 17:35 Being Honest with Ourselves Can Be Painful 24:28 Sitting in the Pain and Setting Boundaries 29:34 Reflection Questions on Forgiveness 38:03 One Things

Discussion QuestionsSermon Overview Jesus' wisdom compels us to give honor to governments and ourselves to God.A. Live by the surpassing wisdom of Jesus.B. Give to human governments within limits.C. Give yourself to God without limits.Digging Deeper    Read Luke 20:20-261. How does believing that all resources are ultimately God's help us in submitting to the government? (e.g., paying taxes with faith God will provide, or not allowing our hope to be controlled by government over/underspending). 2. Name (in less than 30 seconds!) an area of politics which often frustrates you. What do you think Jesus would have to say about it? Try to consider any Scripture passages referencing this area. 3. How can we use the surpassing wisdom of Jesus to interact with governing authorities well?4. Where do you think you need to consciously limit - or elevate - the honor or trust you place in government? Why?5. How might we approach political involvement/rhetoric as a Christian witness to others? What about criticism of political leaders?6. What areas of your life (if any) do you think might be affected too much by politics? (areas named in the sermon were time, affections, and community)7. Read CrossWay's fourth defining value below: “As a result of our personal experience of God's love through the Gospel, we eagerly seek to obey the first and greatest commandment—to love the Lord with all our heart, soul, strength, and mind. This love is the natural and joyful response to experiencing God's gracious forgiveness, for the one who is “forgiven much, loves much.” This love for God will be expressed in all we do, but it will find a particularly heightened expression in worship, both personal and corporate.”What tends to limit you from loving God wholeheartedly? 8. Suppose a friend or coworker comes to you to vent about the most recent thing happening in the news. What would be a gospel-shaped response? 9. How do you need to trust in God's wisdom and sovereignty this week? Prayer

What's really driving the unrest in Minneapolis right now — and what does the gospel have to do with it?In this episode, Pastor Doug digs beneath the headlines to help Christians understand the deep tensions gripping the Twin Cities. A lethal shooting involving a federal immigration agent has sparked ongoing protests, debates over justice and human dignity, and widespread community fear and frustration. Federal immigration enforcement actions have drawn fierce criticism from local leaders and residents alike, with protests, demonstrations, and even planned business closures showing just how charged the situation has become. We'll talk about why people are taking to the streets, how leaders from all walks of life are responding, and what it means for Christians who long for truth, peace, and reconciliation in times of division. This episode isn't about taking sides politically — it's about how the message of Jesus calls us to love our neighbors, pursue justice, and walk in mercy even amid fear, confrontation, and unrest. Support the mission of The Salty Pastor podcast! Visit our donations page at https://pushpay.com/g/thesaltypastor to help us continue sharing truth with a world in need.Discussion Questions:How does the gospel reshape the way Christians think about justice, government power, and human dignity when tensions run high?What does Jesus teach about responding to fear, conflict, and protest without surrendering to anger or despair?In what practical ways can believers demonstrate Christlike compassion — toward victims, law enforcement, neighbors, and strangers — when emotions are raw and communities are divided?

SEGMENT 10: GAZA DIPLOMACY AND INVITATIONS TO ADVERSARIES Guest: Mary Kissel Kissel analyzes the peculiar diplomatic landscape surrounding Gaza negotiations, including controversial outreach to bad actors like Putin. Discussion questions the wisdom of engaging hostile powers in Middle East peacemaking, the signals this sends to allies, and how the new administration might reshape these diplomatic approaches going forward.

What if the difference between feeling like roommates and feeling deeply connected was as simple as dating your spouse again? In this episode, the team unpacks the powerful framework of DATE—Dialogue, Affection, Time, and Ephesians 5 (love and respect)—and how practicing it can transform your marriage in any season.Discussion Questions:1- Which part of DATE do we currently do best? Which one do we tend to neglect?2- How has busyness, kids, or phones affected our dialogue?3- How can I love or respect you more clearly this week—in how I say things, not just what I say?4- What would one simple, realistic date look like in our current season?

What does the gospel have to do with what's happening right now in Minneapolis — where federal immigration enforcement has sparked shootings, protests, and fierce debate about justice, safety, and human dignity? In this episode, Pastor Doug looks beyond headlines to explore how Christians can respond with truth, compassion, and courage. From the fatal shooting of a local woman by an ICE agent to clashes between federal agents and the community, you'll be encouraged to see how the message of Jesus speaks into situations marked by fear, division, and unrest. This episode isn't about politics — it's about the gospel's call to justice, mercy, and peace in the midst of real suffering and conflict. Support the mission of The Salty Pastor podcast! Visit our donations page at https://pushpay.com/g/thesaltypastor to help us continue sharing truth with a world in need.Discussion Questions:How does the gospel reshape the way Christians think about justice, law enforcement, and the value of human life in tense situations?What does Jesus teach us about how to respond to tragedy, fear, and conflict without surrendering to hate or despair?In what practical ways can believers show Christlike compassion and courage to all people — including victims, families, and those fearful of government power?

We live in a world saturated with messages, philosophies, and endless information. While much of it shapes how we think, are we holding on to what is true? In session three, we see how the enemy seeks to draw us away from sound doctrine in subtle ways, but Scripture calls us to reject worldly wisdom and instead carefully retain and guard the truth entrusted to us. Verses Used:2 Timothy 3:16Deuteronomy 11:18Psalm 1:2Proverbs 4:231 Corinthians 16:13Colossians 3:16Discussion Questions:How can we know what sound doctrine is?The world/enemy is constantly throwing information to retain. What are some of these things? What should we retain instead?Why does Paul tell us we must guard the Word that has been entrusted to us? What does it look like to do this?If we hold fast the faithful word, what two things does Titus 1:9 say we will be able to do? Do you feel comfortable doing one more than the other? Why? How can you be equipped to do both?Onesiphorus eagerly sought Paul out and refreshed his spirit while he was in prison. How can we do this for those around us, and why is this important to do?

Send us a textEXPECTATION VS. REALITYDisappointment with Others | Part 3Senior Pastor Keith StewartJanuary 18, 2026Sooner or later, people will disappoint us. Our spouse. Our friends. Our church. Even the people we love most—and the people who love us—will fall short. The question isn't if disappointment will happen, but what we will do with it when it does. This Sunday we'll talk about unrealistic expectations in our closest relationships, the power of our inner self-talk, and how discontent can either poison love—or mature it. If you've been wounded by someone close, weary from conflict, or tempted to give up on relationships altogether, join us in person or online as we discover a better way forward.Discussion Questions 1.  Where are you most tempted to confuse “disappointment with people” with “disappointment with God”? What helps you remember the difference—especially when the hurt is fresh? 2.  “Nobody can live up to all your expectations all the time—and nobody is meant to.” What expectations have you been placing on someone (spouse, friend, church, leader) that might be too heavy or unrealistic? 3.  Contentment vs. entitlement: Paul learned to be “satisfied to the point where I am not disturbed” (Phil. 4:11–13). What does “contentment in Christ” look like in your current relationships—and what would change if Christ was your primary source of joy? 4.  The message described how blame and resentment grow: obsession → keeping score → replay mode → pride-blindness. Which stage are you most prone to, and what is one practical way you can interrupt that spiral this week? 5.  Explanatory style: “always/never,” universalizing, and assuming God is against you can multiply misery. What are your most common “scripts” when you're disappointed (about others, yourself, or God)? How could you replace one script with something truer? 6.  Jesus met John's disappointment by welcoming questions, affirming the person, and redirecting expectations to truth. Which of those do you need most from God right now—and which one can you offer someone else who is hurting?

In our Jan 18 Sunday gathering we continue our series on prayer, working line by line through the Lord's Prayer. Discussion Questions: 1/18/26 Do you think how much we enjoy being with God is a good indication of spiritual maturity? Why or why not? What kind of thoughts do you have about the word “father”. How do those feelings effect how you feel about calling God, father? What are some ways that you can hallow the name of God? What are some things that you have done that un-hallow his name? Tyler Staton argues that the biggest barrier to prayer is our inability to accept the relentless love of God for us. Do you agree or disagree? What do you think the biggest barrier is? Jesus teaches us to pray Our Father, not My Father. How does communal prayer shape us differently than private prayer? Where have you experienced being sustained by the prayers of others? The sermon describes hallowing God's name as treating him as “weighty” and sacred—not casual, but also not distant. How do you tend to drift in prayer: toward flippancy or toward fear? What helps restore a healthy balance? The sermon describes using imagination (throne room imagery, biblical visions) to remember who God is in prayer. How do you feel about using imagination in prayer? What practices might help you become more aware that you're meeting a real Person, not just saying words? If prayer is primarily about being with someone rather than getting something, how might that change the way you pray this week? What is one small, concrete practice you could try?

Discussion Questions:Sermon Overview Welcome the independent, inescapable authority of Jesus.I. Jesus' authority is independent of whether we recognize it (vv. 1-8)II. Jesus' authority is inescapable by those who reject it (vv. 9-19)Digging Deeper    Read Luke 20:1-191. The religious leaders wanted to trap Jesus with their questioning, but he questions them instead. Why isn't Jesus concerned with answering their question about authority? 2. "Humans love our autonomy. We want to be authorities unto ourselves." Where do you see this true in your own life? 3. Why is it better to have Jesus in authority over our lives rather than trying to take authority ourselves?4. Key to understanding verses 9-18 in this passage is Isaiah 5:7: "For the vineyard of the Lord of hosts is the house of Israel."  How do we see churches today refusing to acknowledge the Lord's authority over them, just as Israel refused to acknowledge the Lord's authority over them? 5. What does it mean that "the stone that the builders rejected has become the cornerstone" (Ps. 118:22)?6. Where do you "stumble over" or struggle with Jesus's authority? Some categories named in the sermon were his claims about who he is, his miracles, which may seem impossible, his ethics, which may seem too strict, and his exclusivism, which may seem unfair.7. How can we, as a Gospel Community, help each other in daily surrendering to the authority of our King? Prayer

This sermon explores Nehemiah chapter 2, teaching how prayerful dependence on God leads to faithful action. The message addresses the common struggle of knowing what to do when God seems to be moving slowly, warning against two spiritual ditches: giving up in passivity or taking control through manipulation. Instead, the sermon presents a third way—waiting on the Lord while remaining actively obedient. Using Nehemiah's example, the message shows how to step forward with courage, ground ourselves in humility and preparation, and stand firm against opposition and self-righteousness. The central teaching emphasizes that true faith involves both deep dependence on God and diligent action, summarized as "step, ground, stand."Main Points:Faith Steps Forward (2:1–8) Obedience in “waiting for the Lord” transitions to obedience in courageous and diligent action as the Lord leads.Vision Gets Grounded (2:9–16)Faithful leaders don't need fanfare; they humbly gather facts to help them discern faithful action.Leadership Stands Firm (2:17–20)God's servant puts to death any self-righteousness and invites God's people to move in unity toward God's promises.Scripture Referenced:Nehemiah 2:1-20 (main passage); Nehemiah 1; 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18; Proverbs 21:1; Psalm 27:14; Lamentations 3:25; Isaiah 40:31; Proverbs 18:13; Proverbs 19:2; Proverbs 14:15; Proverbs 31; Job 29 and 31; Ecclesiastes 3:1-5; Proverbs 28:1; Esther 4; Daniel 6; Genesis 16; Matthew 22:21Community Group Guide:Begin with Prayer - Begin by asking God to help your group share authentically and honestly in a way that encourages one another and pushes your group toward Christ.Discussion Questions:Part 1: The Two Ditches (Introduction)Which "ditch" do you tend to fall into when facing difficult circumstances?Giving up and becoming passive ("If God wants to fix it, He'll fix it")Taking control and moving ahead without God ("God helps those who help themselves")Part 2: Stepping Forward (Read Nehemiah 2:1-8)Nehemiah waited four months before acting. How do you distinguish between God's timing and your own procrastination or fear?Nehemiah's instinct to pray in the moment (v. 4) reveals a heart shaped by faithful waiting on the Lord. Often, when we wait on God seeking answers, He deepens relationship instead. Has there been a season where God Himself became more precious to you than the outcome you were hoping for?Part 3: Grounding in Humility (Read Nehemiah 2:9-16)Nehemiah gathered facts before announcing his plan. How does the principle "facts are our friends" apply to a decision you're currently facing?Nehemiah chose discretion over fanfare.Where in your life might you be tempted to seek recognition or justification rather than quietly trusting God with your faithfulness?Part 4: Standing Firm (Read Nehemiah 2:17-20)When opposition came, Nehemiah stood firm because he knew 'what time it is' - how does closeness with God help you define reality and discern when to stand against criticism?Practical Application:If you are waiting on the Lord in a particular area, take note of how many times this week you're tempted to either give up or take control.Journal about those instances and confess this to God, asking the Spirit to help you depend on His leadership as you faithfully wait.Share with someone in your Community Group if there is a tendency one way or another and ask them to join you in praying against it.Read Nehemiah 3 in preparation for Sunday's sermon.Personal Reflection:What am I waiting on God for right now?What faithful action can I take while I wait?Where do I need to ground myself in humility and preparation?Are there any facts I need to gather before I am ready to act?Are there any areas where I am looking for fanfare that I need to confess to God?Worship Setlist: Life Defined; Agnus Dei; All Hail King Jesus; Shout to the Lord; Build My Life; Yet Not I But Through Christ in Me

In this week's message Mike points to a truth many of us feel but rarely name: we stay plugged in, busy, and committed but often to the wrong things. At the center of Jesus' call is a rhythm most would avoid: dying to self. Not as an idea, but as a daily posture. What feels like loss becomes the soil where something eternal takes root. Devotion begins where self-preservation ends.Discussion Questions:-In what areas of your life have you tried to negotiate with Jesus rather than fully surrendering, and what might it look like to stop negotiating and start dying to those things?-How might viewing difficult people in your life as accomplices to the cross rather than enemies change the way you respond to conflict and friction in relationships?-If dying to self means dethroning your preferences and comforts, what is one preference or comfort God might be asking you to place on the altar right now?-Peter said to Jesus, 'Where else can I go? You have the words of life.' What would it take for you to have that same conviction when Jesus asks you to do something uncomfortable or confusing?

Separation is often presented as a healthy solution when marriage feels hard—but is it really? In this episode, the More Than Roommates team explores what separation actually means, why it so often leads to divorce, when it may be necessary, and how couples can pursue healing and restoration with Biblical wisdom and community.Discussion Questions:1- Why do you think separation so often leads to divorce rather than healing?2- How does selfishness subtly show up in your marriage during hard seasons?3- What role does community currently play in helping you protect and strengthen your marriage?4- How could you better “water your own grass” in this season?Resources:Episode 83 Divorce part 1Episode 84 Divorce part 2Episode 127 Healing from Sexual Abuse  Watermark statement on marriage and divorce

What if faith isn't just something you have—but someone you trust? In this episode, Pastor Doug challenges common misunderstandings about faith and brings us back to the heart of the gospel: faith is not a feeling, a formula, or a system—it is Jesus Himself. Discover how anchoring your faith in Christ, not performance or circumstances, leads to real confidence, peace, and transformation.Support the mission of the Salty Pastor podcast! Visit our donations page at https://pushpay.com/g/thesaltypastor to help us continue sharing truth with a world in need.Discussion Questions:How do people often misunderstand what faith really is?What changes when you see faith as a relationship with Jesus rather than a religious effort?How can centering your faith on Christ reshape the way you face doubt, struggle, or uncertainty?

Paul urges Timothy and all believers not be ashamed of the gospel or in suffering for it. God has not given us a spirit of fear, but power, love, and self-discipline, enabling us to be His witnesses with confidence. Join us for session two as we dive into what it means to entrust our lives fully to God, who called us by His own mercy and grace.Verses Used:2 Timothy 1:7-81 Peter 2:20-242 Timothy 9-10Ephesians 2:4-5, 8-92 Timothy 1:11-121 Peter 4:19Discussion Questions: *What is the "testimony of our Lord" that Paul talks about in verse 8? (See 2 Timothy 1:9-10.)*When are you most tempted to be ashamed of the testimony of our Lord? Why are we tempted to be ashamed of the gospel?*How does our present-day suffering compare to Paul's suffering for the sake of the gospel? (See 2 Corinthians 1:8 and 11:23-29)? What perspective does this give you about the things that we "suffer" today?*What is the holy calling we have received in Christ upon salvation? (See 2 Timothy 1:8 and 1 Timothy 6:12) *What does 2 Timothy 1:12 mean, and how should this verse impact us on a daily basis?

Send us a textEXPECTATION VS. REALITYDisappointment with Life | Part 2Senior Pastor Keith StewartJanuary 11, 2026This Sunday we're going to talk honestly about the unfairness of life, the pain that shatters our assumptions, and the hope we find when we stop confusing God with our circumstances. Through the story of Job, we'll confront the shallow answers that often wound the hurting, and we'll discover the deeper comfort Job found—not in explanations, but in encountering God Himself. If you're weary, disappointed, or carrying questions you can't resolve, join us in person or online.Discussion Questions 1. Jesus told us “In this world you will have trouble” (John 16:33). Related to that is Scott Peck's summation, “Life is difficult.” What kinds of “trouble” are you facing right now—external circumstances, internal struggles, or relational conflict? How does accepting that reality change the way you interpret hardship—especially when you're tired, afraid, or disappointed? 2. “Don't confuse life with God.” Where have you seen yourself (or others) blame God for what may be “life in a broken world”? What's the difference between “life is unfair” and “God is unfair”? How do you tell the difference in real time? 3. Job is described as blameless and upright (Job 1:1), yet suffering still came. What assumptions do we tend to carry that Job's story challenges? (Examples: “If I do right, nothing bad will happen,” “God owes me protection,” etc.) 4. Job's friends tried to explain pain with certainty and clichés. What are some common “Christian phrases” people say that can unintentionally harm someone who's suffering? 5. Which of Job's friends do you most relate to at times—and why? Eliphaz (fear-based explanations)Bildad (judgment / “holier-than-thou”)Zophar (shaming to shut people down)Elihu (talking a lot without real understanding) God eventually says Job's friends “have not spoken the truth” about Him (Job 42:7).What does that teach us about the danger of speaking for God too quickly? 6. Job's suffering produced unexpected spiritual insight (hope of resurrection, redeemer, advocate). What “gift” has pain left in your life—greater compassion, deeper dependence, clearer priorities, humility, etc.? 7. The message challenges us to be careful with judgment—especially with public failures or tragedies. What does it look like to respond with truth and humility when someone else falls or suffers? Practical next step: Think of someone you know who is hurting. What's one thing you can do this week to “comfort without explaining”—to be present without preaching?

Discussion Questions:Sermon Overview Receive Jesus as the king who restores peace with God for all creation.Digging Deeper   Read Luke 19:28-481. What role does waiting have in your life currently as a follower of Jesus? What role should it have? What does it look like to wait well? 2. It was Jesus' intention to communicate clearly that he is the long-awaited King. What are some of the things Jesus does in this passage to communicate that?   3. In vv. 28-40, we see the first truth from this passage: “Jesus is the King who will restore peace to all creation.” What does that mean?  4. In what way is all creation in need of being restored to peace? 5. In vv. 41-44 we see the second truth of this text: “Our reception of peace depends on our reception of the King.” Do you believe this to be true? Why or why not? 6. What are some things you can be tempted to think will “make for peace” in your life (e.g., a raise at work, less conflict at home, etc.)? 7. Why don't (can't) these things ultimately bring the peace we long for? 8. There is one way for us to be reconciled to God, namely by receiving the King (Jesus) who came to bring peace. Who is someone in your life who has not yet received Jesus as King? What would be a good next step for you as you seek to be used by God in his or her life? 9. How can we, as a Gospel Community, help each other grow in boldness and faithful witness for our King? 10. The third truth we saw from this passage (in vv. 45-49) was that “The primary peace he restores is peace with God.” Jesus has brought this about through his death. Why was it necessary for Jesus to die in order to restore peace between God and man? What did his death accomplish that made peace with God possible? 11. Peace comes to those who receive Jesus as King by submitting to him and surrendering their lives to him. Why is this necessary?  12. How might the peace we have with God through faith in Christ effect other parts of your life?Prayer

That invitation is still open, but it reorders everything. Mike walks through a vision of discipleship rooted in devotion to a person, not a program. It's about living close enough to Jesus to notice how he moves, how he loves, how he leads. When formation replaces information, and practice replaces theory, ordinary lives begin to multiply into something eternal.Discussion Questions:-When you think about the early disciples who wanted to be covered in the 'dust of their rabbi,' how closely are you following Jesus in your daily rhythms and decisions?-What would 'messy obedience' look like for you this week as you step out in faith to practice one of the formational rhythms Jesus modeled?-How does the concept of 'come follow me' versus 'come balance me' challenge your current approach to discipleship and devotion to Christ?-Why do you think Western Christianity has emphasized information over formation, and how can you personally shift toward practicing what you learn rather than just hearing it?

Joy in marriage isn't about perfect circumstances—it's about a deep, Spirit-formed posture of the heart. In this episode, Derek, Gabrielle, and special guest Andrew Owen explore how biblical joy sustains marriages through hardship, disappointment, and everyday life, and how couples can actively choose joy together.Discussion Questions:1- When you think about your marriage right now, would you describe it as joyful? Why or why not?2- How would you define the difference between joy and happiness in your relationship?3- What currently tends to rob joy in your marriage (fear, anxiety, unmet expectations, bitterness)?4- How can you better encourage one another daily so your hearts don't become hardened?

Paul writes his final letter from prison cell in Rome. This letter carries a sense of urgency as Paul nears the end of his life. Paul reminds Timothy of the mission of the gospel, highlights the spiritual influence of Timothy's grandmother and mother, and urges Timothy to kindle afresh the calling God has placed on his life. In session one we are challenged by the example of Lois and Eunice to steward our God-given influence well and heed Paul's instruction to fan into flame the gift of God in our own lives.Discussion Questions:1. Paul said he served with “a clear conscience.” What does this mean?2. To what extent do you serve the Lord with a clear conscience? What areas of your life must change so that you can walk worthy of the calling you have received and keep yourself unstained by the world?3. Who has influenced your spiritual life? How did this happen? What things did they do or not do that challenged you?4. Who has the Lord allowed you to have influence with? How are you handling that influence? How could you wield it with even more wisdom?5. Why does Paul encourage us to kindle afresh our spiritual lives? How can you do this?Verses Used:2 Timothy 1:1-4Psalm 139:23-242 Timothy 1:5Acts 16:1-3Deuteronomy 6:4-92 Timothy 1:6Psalm 105:1-5

Send us a textEXPECTATION VS. REALITYDisappointment with God | Part 1 Senior Pastor Keith StewartJanuary 4, 2026Some of the deepest spiritual pain isn't simply what happens to us—it's what we thought God would do and didn't. When expectations collide with reality, disappointment isn't far behind. This Sunday we're starting a new series: “Expectation vs. Reality.” We'll talk honestly about disappointment with God—where it comes from, what it reveals about what we really believe, and how that disappointment can either spiral into discouragement… or become the doorway to deeper faith and healing. If you're carrying questions, confusion, or a heavy heart—you're not alone. And you don't have to pretend. If you know someone who's walking through a hard season, feel free to share this with them.”Discussion Questions 1. Expectations reveal themselves in pain - “Expectations are never apparent until they're unfulfilled.” Where in your life right now are unmet expectations creating disappointment—and what might that disappointment be revealing about what you truly believe (about God, yourself, or life)? 2. Stealth expectations - Brené Brown calls them “stealth expectations”—the expectations we don't even know we have. What are some “silent contracts” you've placed on God or other people (unspoken demands like “You should know,” “This shouldn't happen,” “I don't deserve this”)? How have those shaped resentment or shame? 3. The spiral of disappointment - Disappointment can move toward discouragement → disillusionment → depression → defeat.Where have you seen that progression at work in your own life (or someone close to you)? What are the early warning signs that tell you you're slipping into that spiral? 4. Sorting cause and blame - The message challenged “blueprint theology” and victim-blaming, and explored the nature of life (broken world), people (sin and freedom), and God (His heart breaks first). Which of those categories helps you most right now—and which one is hardest for you to accept emotionally? 5. God can handle the truth - The Psalms give us language for honest lament, anger, confusion, and grief—without pretending. What emotions do you most struggle to bring to God (anger, fear, disappointment, sadness, doubt)? What would it look like this week to pray more like a lament psalm—honest, unfiltered, and trusting? 6. Disorientation as a doorway - Brueggemann's pattern: orientation → disorientation → reorientation. Where would you say you are in that cycle right now? What might “reorientation” look like for you—not necessarily a quick fix, but a deeper, truer relationship with God in the middle of your disappointment?

Discussion Questions:Sermon Overview As you wait for Jesus, live as a faithful steward and you will reign with him foreverDigging Deeper    Read Luke 19:11-271. How does verse 11 help us understand what Jesus wants to teach through the parable in v. 12ff? 2. Luke 19:12 says, He said therefore, “A nobleman went into a far country to receive for himself a kingdom and then return.”  Who should we understand the nobleman to be?  What is the far country?  What is the return? 3. What can we learn from this parable about the person of Christ? 4. What does it look like for you to “engage in business until (Christ) comes (again)” (v. 13)? 5. How would you rate your stewardship of the following things God has entrusted you with: relationships, spiritual gifts, and money?6. What are you stewarding well? How?7. What could you grow in stewarding? How?8. How can we help each other be more focussed on and more eager for the return of Christ?   9. God promises eternal rewards for faithful stewardship. How can eternal rewards help us live a life of loyalty and obedience to God?10. In the parable, the third servant did nothing with what was entrusted to him, because he was afraid of the nobleman (v.20-21).  Our perception of God, his character, and his posture toward us will inevitably affect the choices we make. Have you seen this to be true in your own life (either in a positive or negative way)?  Please share.   Prayer

Mike unpacks the deeper meaning of "resolution" as more than goal-setting. It's about untangling the soul until one clear allegiance remains. At the heart of this message is a call to holy narrowing, where Jesus is not just added to life but becomes the center of it. Not divided. Devoted.Discussion Questions:-In what ways have you found yourself living a 'double-minded' life, divided between devotion to Jesus and devotion to other things competing for your allegiance?-What is the difference between being a 'believer' who takes notes and a 'disciple' who takes steps, and which one best describes your current relationship with Jesus?-How does the concept of 'holy narrowing'—focusing more intentionally on fewer things centered on Jesus—challenge the cultural value of balance and multitasking?-Which of the four chairs (curious/conflicted, convinced/cautious, committed/conformed, or courageous/contagious) best represents where you are in your discipleship journey, and what would help you move forward?

Discussion Questions:-In what ways have you found yourself living a 'double-minded' life, divided between devotion to Jesus and devotion to other things competing for your allegiance?-What is the difference between being a 'believer' who takes notes and a 'disciple' who takes steps, and which one best describes your current relationship with Jesus?-How does the concept of 'holy narrowing'—focusing more intentionally on fewer things centered on Jesus—challenge the cultural value of balance and multitasking?-Which of the four chairs (curious/conflicted, convinced/cautious, committed/conformed, or courageous/contagious) best represents where you are in your discipleship journey, and what would help you move forward?

As the year comes to a close, join the More Than Roommates team for a short conversation about what it looks like to look back and look ahead as we all seek to be more intentional in our marriages. The MTR team reflects on what God's Word says about rememberance and how that applies to our marriages.Discussion Questions:1- Start, Stop, Continue- as you apply that idea to your marriage, what do you want to focus on in this new year?2- How have you seen God move in the last year? What are you grateful for?3- What is a place in your life you are still waiting to see God move?

What does it really mean to strive for your full potential—and how does faith shape that pursuit? In this episode, Pastor Doug challenges the culture's definition of success and reframes potential through a biblical lens. You'll hear how God's design for growth, discipline, and purpose leads not to burnout or pride, but to a life of meaning, resilience, and transformation.Support the mission of the Salty Pastor podcast! Visit our donations page at https://pushpay.com/g/thesaltypastor to help us continue sharing truth with a world in need.Discussion Questions:How does the world define “reaching your potential,” and how does that differ from a biblical view?What habits or beliefs might be holding you back from growing into who God is calling you to be?How can surrendering your goals to God actually lead to greater growth and freedom?

In this year-end reflection episode, Ginger and Brad share memorable insights from past interviews on budgeting, spending, and the importance of values in financial decisions. They discuss how taking action can lead to financial independence, the impact of community, and the transformative power of generosity. This episode encourages listeners to implement strategies that align with their personal values and relationships for achieving true wealth beyond financial metrics. Timestamps 00:00:00 - Intro to the Episode 00:01:47 - Reflecting on Memorable Interviews 00:03:41 - The Importance of Budgeting 00:05:20 - Seasons of Life and Spending 00:09:16 - Community Impact 00:10:52 - Generosity and Giving 00:12:31 - Mindset Shifts 00:52:05 - Concluding Thoughts Key Takeaways Reflecting on Past Episodes (00:01:47) Ginger and Brad explore moments from previous interviews that resonated with them, focusing on actionable insights. Importance of Budgeting (00:03:41) Budgeting is vital to achieving financial independence. Prioritize spending on experiences and values that bring joy, as highlighted by guest Ron Babcock. Seasons of Life and Spending (00:05:20) Understand that spending should align with your current life stage. Budgeting isn't just about saving; it's also about recognizing what matters right now. Community in Financial Independence (00:09:16) The FI community supports each other through shared experiences and service projects. Efforts like the FI Service Core highlight collective impact. Generosity and Giving (00:10:52) Act on urges to be generous immediately; this reinforces meaningful connections and contributes to fulfilling relationships. Mindset Shifts (00:12:31) Challenge limiting beliefs about what's possible in life. Acknowledge that perceptions can often be changed with the right reflection. Actionable Takeaways Align Your Budget with Your Values (00:05:20) Identify what matters most in your life today and reflect this in your budget. Practice Generosity (00:10:52) Make acts of generosity immediate to enrich your relationships and community. Reflect on Beliefs (00:29:19) Question beliefs that limit possibilities and explore what changes can be made to achieve your goals. Quotes "Embrace spending on values; it's essential for a fulfilling life." - Brad (00:07:18) "True love requires sacrifices and effort." - Ginger (00:50:36) "Little changes lead to significant results in financial independence." - Brad (00:41:32) Related Resources The Happiness Trap - A book discussed in the episode that explores cognitive behavioral tools for a healthier mindset. Discussion Questions How do you prioritize your spending to align with your values? (00:05:20) What small sacrifice can you make today for someone you care about? (00:50:36) Action Items Reflect on your current financial habits. (00:05:20) Set up a high-interest savings account for future goals. (00:25:54)

If "new" really means new, why do we keep going back? Discussion Questions: How is the new covenant better? Explain at least three ways. What was the specific issue with the old covenant? Why was it the issue? How are the old and new covenants so different? Why does Hebrews 8:10 say "laws" instead of "law"? Why is this important? React to this statement: I intuitively know God now and forever. What makes new covenant forgiveness so powerful? So controversial? Why do you think so many religious people want "balance" between old and new?

In our online only service for December 28, we look at the fourth Advent candle, the candle of love. This week's discussion questions are below: Discussion Questions: 1. Alex says the angels' message can be summarized as “Do not be afraid—God loves you.” Where do you most need to hear that message right now? 2. Fear is described as the opposite of love. What fears tend to shape your decisions, reactions, or relationships? How might love change those responses? 3. 1 John says love begins not with our love for God, but with God's love for us. Why is that distinction important for how we understand faith and obedience? 4. Alex (quoting Willard) claims that because of Jesus, the universe is ultimately a “safe place” for us. What does “safe” mean in a world where pain, loss, and injustice still exist? 5. Which part of the Christmas story (Mary, Joseph, shepherds, angels) best reflects your current emotional or spiritual state—and why? 6. The message says some of our deepest anxieties come from feeling alone, hopeless, or that our suffering is meaningless. Which of these feels most real to you right now? 7. How does believing in resurrection—things lost being restored—shape the way we grieve or hope today? 8. Alex describes biblical love as “wanting the best for someone else, even at cost to yourself.”What might that kind of love look like in one specific relationship this week? 9. Fear leads to scarcity; love leads to generosity. Where might God be inviting you to live more generously—with time, forgiveness, attention, or resources?

In Romans 8:33-39, we encounter one of the most powerful declarations in all of Scripture: nothing can separate us from God's love. This message takes us into the spiritual courtroom where we stand accused, yet remarkably justified. Through the vivid account of Joshua the high priest in Zechariah 3, we witness a profound picture of redemption—standing before God in filthy garments, with Satan as our accuser hurling true accusations, yet God Himself rebukes the enemy and clothes us in pure vestments. We learn that we have four key figures in our spiritual reality: a Judge who justifies rather than condemns, an Accuser who speaks truth about our failures, an Intercessor in the Holy Spirit who prays what we cannot articulate, and a Redeemer who exchanges His righteousness for our filth. The message challenges us to recognize that God's love isn't dependent on our circumstances—whether we face tribulation, distress, persecution, or any other trial. Paul's declaration that we are 'more than conquerors' isn't empty optimism but a theological reality grounded in Christ's finished work. The story of Darlene Dibler Rose in a Japanese concentration camp illustrates how God's presence remains tangible even in our darkest moments. As we move into a new year, we're reminded that our hope transcends temporary suffering because this world isn't our final destination—we have an eternal reunion awaiting us with both our Savior and our loved ones.**Sermon Notes:**1. **Introduction:**  - Overview of Romans 1-8, focusing on living in Christ.  - Today's focus: Romans 8:33-39, a pinnacle passage.2. **Key Scriptural Insights:**  - **Romans 8:33-39:**   - Assurance that no charges can stand against God's elect as God justifies.   - Nothing can separate us from the love of Christ.  - **Zechariah 3:1-10 Vision:**   - Joshua the high priest accused by Satan.   - God's intervention to cleanse and justify.3. **Spiritual Warfare Context:**  - The presence of a judge, an accuser, an intercessor, and a redeemer.  - Satan's accusations are true but overshadowed by God's justification.4. **God's Justification and Love:**  - Our righteousness in Christ replaces our polluted garments.  - In Christ, we are clothed with salvation and righteousness.5. **Role of the Redeemer:**  - Redemption detailed through the story of the prodigal son.  - We are brought back as sons and daughters, not slaves.6. **Inseparable Love in Trials:**  - Paul's resilience through tribulations as evidence of God's steadfast love.  - Testimony of Darlene Dibler Rose's faith in adversity.7. **Living as Conquerors:**  - We are more than conquerors through Christ—empowered to overcome worldly challenges.**Practical Applications:**1. **Strengthen Faith in Trials:**  - Regularly remind yourself of God's inseparable love during hardships.  2. **Embrace Your Identity in Christ:**  - Reflect on being justified and clothed in righteousness; live out this new identity.3. **Exhibit Christ's Love Daily:**  - Let the love of God shine in your interactions, especially in trying situations.4. **Practice Solitude and Prayer:**  - Set aside noise to deepen your relationship with God and hear His voice.**Discussion Questions:**1. What does it mean to you that God justifies rather than condemns?2. How can we better remember our identity in Christ when faced with accusations or self-doubt?3. In what ways have you experienced the inseparable love of God in your life?4. Reflecting on Darlene Dibler Rose's story, how do you sustain faith in times of adversity?5. How can you express being "more than a conqueror" in your daily life?These condensed notes and applications, along with the questions, are designed to encourage deeper reflection, discussion, and application of the message shared in the sermon.

In the midst of a busy and often distracting Christmas season, this episode challenges couples to choose presence over just more presents. The More Than Roommates team offer practical, biblical encouragement to help you slow down, be intentional, and truly connect with your spouse and Jesus during the holidays.Discussion Questions:1- When you think about this Christmas season so far, where have you been most distracted? Where have you felt most present?2- What tends to pull your attention away from your spouse during the holidays (phones, stress, schedules, comparison, etc.)?3- What does presence look like for you personally? What about for your spouse?4- How can you intentionally create moments of connection in the days ahead—even if Christmas has already passed?

In this episode, we end our journey at the Stable, the humble place where God chose for us to meet His Son. We reflect on the stable of our own hearts, how Jesus chooses to meet us in our own poverty now, and why His very presence brings healing. We also talk about how when we sit in our emptiness, release control, and surrender each part of our lives to God, He is able to work more powerfully in our lives. Finally, we ponder Mary's quiet and loving gaze upon the Christ Child and how we are invited to slow down and notice Jesus smiling back at us.  Friends, we've deeply enjoyed journeying with you this year. As we take a break, please know you are in our prayers. We will see you on January 19th, 2026 when Season 18 begins! Have a blessed and merry Christmas!   Heather's One Thing - Our Abiding Together staff: Camille, Kate, and Kristina! Heather's Other One Thing - The Sisters of Life new St. Francis convent in Steubenville Heather's Third One Thing - Every Sacred Sunday's Edition of the  Catechism of the Catholic Church Sister Miriam's One Thing - Our listeners and Patreon supporters. Thank you! Sister Miriam's Other One Thing - Philosophy and Healing (with Fr. Matthew Rolling) from the Restore the Glory Podcast Michelle's One Thing - The beauty of the different religious orders!   Finally, we arrive at the Stable — the poorest of places, and yet, the holiest of all. Here, in straw and silence, the Infinite takes on skin. The cry of a newborn splits the night open, and suddenly, everything is sacred again The invitation into the mess  Into our own poverty… The cry of our humanity … Worship is not what we think it will look like.    Other Resources Mentioned:  The Nativity Painting by Caravaggio Living from the Heart Jesus Gave You by Dr. James Friesen   Journal Questions: Where do I find myself in "unsatisfactory condition"? What are the scandalous places within me that I want to keep away from the Lord? How am I managing my own creativity rather than welcoming the Holy Spirit into my creativity? What beliefs am I carrying deeply about God? How does God want to heal these beliefs? Where am I afraid? How can I make space for Jesus and spend time with Him in this Christmas season?   Discussion Questions: How are you tempted to sanitize the Mystery of the Incarnation in your own life? Where in my life do I need a new perspective? When have you experienced God coming to you in a way you weren't expecting Him to? How am I seeking control in this season? How can I surrender that control? What are the stables of my life that God is inviting me into deeper surrender?   Quote to Ponder: "I am so glad Jesus was born in a stable, because my soul is so much like a stable. It's poor and in unsatisfactory condition - Yet, I believe that if Jesus can be born in a stable, maybe he can be born in me." (Dorothy Day)   Scripture for Lectio: "In those days a decree went out from Emperor Augustus that all the world should be registered. This was the first registration and was taken while Quirinius was governor of Syria. All went to their own towns to be registered. Joseph also went from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea, to the city of David called Bethlehem, because he was descended from the house and family of David. He went to be registered with Mary, to whom he was engaged and who was expecting a child. While they were there, the time came for her to deliver her child. And she gave birth to her firstborn son and wrapped him in bands of cloth, and laid him in a manger, because there was no place for them in the inn." (Luke 2:1-7)   Sponsor - Fully Mediterranean: Our sponsor today is Fully Mediterranean, a company dedicated to helping people discover the Mediterranean diet and lifestyle, a way of eating and living that is both deeply nourishing and beautifully simple. At Fully Mediterranean, they believe that good health and good food go hand in hand—and that both of these begin in the same place: around the table, where we slow down, gather, connect, and are reminded of God's goodness in the everyday moments of life. It's where we feed not only our bodies, but also our relationships. And it's often where we rediscover joy, connection, and presence. Fully Mediterranean was built on a mission to help people discover a simple, nourishing way of eating and living—a way that brings peace, beauty, and balance into everyday. Their approach is not about pressure or perfection. It's about gently integrating habits that help you live fully, with a sense of gratitude and mindfulness that aligns beautifully with our Catholic faith. What makes the Mediterranean lifestyle so special is that it's not just a way of eating; it's a way of living. It's a lifestyle shaped by mindfulness, by community, and by gratitude. It's about slowing down, savoring what God provides, and sharing meals with the people He places in our lives. It's about choosing foods that nourish the body He entrusted to us—vibrant  vegetables, wholesome grains, fresh herbs, lean proteins, and healthy fats—while also embracing the joy and connection that come from preparing and enjoying meals with others. Fully Mediterranean provides practical, realistic tools, guidance, and inspiration to help you bring these values into your kitchen and everyday life. Through recipes, programs, workshops, and practical nutrition guidance, we help women simplify healthy eating, feel confident in the kitchen, and rediscover the joy that comes from preparing meals that are both good for the body and soul-satisfying. In a world filled with noise, pressure, and quick fixes, the Mediterranean lifestyle offers something gentler and more grounded—an invitation to live intentionally, joyfully, and wholeheartedly. It encourages us to choose foods that honor the bodies God created, to gather more often with the people we love, and to find celebration in simple, nourishing routines. Whether you're looking to support your long-term health, gain energy for your daily responsibilities, or create more meaningful rhythms in your home, Fully Mediterranean is here to guide you every step of the way. We want to help you build a lifestyle that supports your well-being and draws you closer to living the full, abundant life God desires for you.  Because at Fully Mediterranean, we believe that when you nourish your body well, you nourish every part of your life. And when you gather at the table with gratitude, intention, and love, you reflect God's goodness in the most natural, beautiful way. If you're ready to bring more peace, health, and joy into your kitchen—and your life—we invite you to explore all that Fully Mediterranean offers. Discover delicious recipes, practical tips, and inspiring resources designed to help you integrate the Mediterranean way of living into your daily routine with ease and grace. Join us and use the code Abidingtogether20 to receive 20% off any of our products, including our course, ebooks and Substack membership. Join the 30-day Mediterranean challenge starting January 1st for just $8. 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Send us a textPrince of PeaceSenior Pastor Keith StewartDecember 7, 2025Peace is what the world longs for—and what our hearts crave most. Yet peace feels elusive. Nations are unsettled. Relationships are strained. And many of us carry an inner restlessness born of regret, fear, or disappointment. Into this chaos, Christmas speaks a powerful word: the Prince of Peace has come. He steps into our broken world, fractured relationships, and anxious hearts to offer a peace unlike anything this world can give. This Sunday, discover the hope and promise found in the Prince of Peace.Discussion Questions 1. Defining peace correctly. The world often defines peace as the absence of conflict, stress, or trouble. How would you describe the kind of peace Jesus offers? In what ways is biblical peace deeper—or more demanding—than the peace we usually want? 2. Peace begins within. Throughout this series, we've seen that Jesus addresses the root of our problems, not just the symptoms. Where do you most experience inner unrest—fear, guilt, anxiety, anger, control, or uncertainty? How does Jesus as the Prince of Peace speak directly into that inner struggle?3. Peace with God before peace in life. Scripture teaches that real peace starts with reconciliation with God. How have you seen attempts to find peace apart from God fall short—in your own life or in the lives of others? What does it mean, practically, to live from a place of peace with God rather than trying to manufacture peace for yourself? 4. Receiving peace vs. maintaining control. We often say we want peace, but we also want control. Where do you sense God inviting you to release control in order to experience His peace? What makes surrender so difficult—even when we know Jesus is trustworthy? 5. Living as people of peace. Jesus doesn't just give peace; He calls His followers to carry peace into a fractured world. In what relationships or environments is God calling you to be a peacemaker right now?What might need to change in your posture, words, or attitudes for that to happen? Bringing the series together. 6. Looking back over the four names — Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace — Which name of Jesus has spoken to you most personally during this series, and why? How would embracing that name reshape the way you live, trust, and face the future?

Big Idea: The Gift that keeps on giving. Isaiah 9:1-61. The great light.Isaiah 9:1-2Nevertheless, the gloom of the distressed land will not be like that of the former times when he jumbled the land of Zebulun and the land of Naphtali. But in the future he will bring honor to the way of the sea, to the land east of the Jordan, and to Galilee of the nations. The people walking in darkness have seen a great light; a light has dawned on those living in the land of darkness. 2. A joyful future.Isaiah 9:3-4You have enlarged the nation and increased its joy. The people have rejoiced before you as they rejoice at harvest time and as they rejoiced when dividing spoils. For you have shattered their oppressive yoke and the rod on their shoulders, the staff of their oppressors, just as you did on the day of Midian. 3. The Ultimate Gift. Isaiah 9:5-6For every trampling boot of battle and the bloodied garments of war will be burned as fuel for the fire. For a child will be born for us, a son will be given to us, and the government will be on his shoulders. He will be named Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Eternal Father, Prince of Peace.Next Steps: Believe: I believe Son of Man wants us to follow his example this week.Become: I will put trust in Son of Man past this holiday season.Be Sent: I will share my faith with someone this month. Discussion Questions: 1.     Do you love giving gifts or receiving them?2.     Do you enjoy the holidays, or do they make you sad?3.     How do you think the people hearing this prophecy felt, knowing they will not live long enough to see it fulfilled?  4.     Which of the titles in verse 6-Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father or Prince of Peace- impact you the most?  5.     How would you describe the Son of Man as the light of the world to someone?  6.     How does “the government will be on His shoulders” change how you view authority and leadership?  7.     Pray for the Holy Spirit to show you where to serve this week.

The sermon explores the prophetic name "Everlasting Father" given to Jesus in Isaiah 9:6, revealing how Christ came to restore our relationship with God the Father. Mike talks about the church's number one issue: the orphan spirit that prevents believers from experiencing God's fatherhood. Through Jesus, we see a complete revelation of the Father's character—protective, providing, pursuing, and partnering with His children. Discussion Questions:-In what specific ways do you recognize the 'orphan reflex' operating in your own life, and how does it affect your relationship with God?-How does viewing God primarily as Father rather than as Judge or distant Creator change the way you approach prayer, confession, and daily decisions?-What are the practical differences between living as a 'servant first' versus living as a 'son or daughter first' in your spiritual life and ministry?-How does understanding Jesus' mission as revealing the Father's heart change your perspective on evangelism and sharing your faith with others?

The sermon explores the prophetic name "Everlasting Father" given to Jesus in Isaiah 9:6, revealing how Christ came to restore our relationship with God the Father. Mike talks about the church's number one issue: the orphan spirit that prevents believers from experiencing God's fatherhood. Through Jesus, we see a complete revelation of the Father's character—protective, providing, pursuing, and partnering with His children. Discussion Questions:-In what specific ways do you recognize the 'orphan reflex' operating in your own life, and how does it affect your relationship with God?-How does viewing God primarily as Father rather than as Judge or distant Creator change the way you approach prayer, confession, and daily decisions?-What are the practical differences between living as a 'servant first' versus living as a 'son or daughter first' in your spiritual life and ministry?-How does understanding Jesus' mission as revealing the Father's heart change your perspective on evangelism and sharing your faith with others?

This powerful message takes us deep into Romans 8:26-30, confronting us with a truth we often resist: we are weak. In a culture obsessed with self-improvement, organizational planners, and New Year's resolutions, we're reminded that genuine transformation doesn't come from our strength but from our surrender. The passage reveals that the Holy Spirit intercedes for us when we don't even have words to pray, when life feels insurmountable, and when our weakness is most evident. What's revolutionary here is the understanding that God's ways are not our ways—His plan for salvation didn't involve us climbing up to Him through good works or self-effort, but Him descending to us in the form of a baby in a manger. The sermon challenges our consumer Christianity, where we want church on our terms, faith that's comfortable, and a God who serves our agenda. Instead, we're called to embrace the stunning reality of foreknowledge and predestination—not as scary theological concepts, but as the beautiful truth that before time began, God knew us, called us, justified us, and will glorify us. This Christmas season, we're invited to shift from asking 'What can God do for me?' to 'What does God want to do through me?' The missionary story woven throughout reminds us that this isn't about our comfort zone—it's about conforming to the image of Christ and allowing His purposes to become our priority.**Sermon Notes:****Introduction:**- Speaker: Pastor Will from Hope.- Call for congregation to accommodate latecomers by scooting in.- Announcement about children's events: CentraKid and Fuge camps.- Mission update from Steve and Kim Bradley, missionaries in Malawi, highlighting their work, challenges, and the opportunity to build a preschool to reach Muslim communities.- Church's support: $50,000 pledged for the school development.**Main Sermon - Romans 8:26-30:**- **Theme: Weakness and God's Sovereignty** - Our Weakness:   - We are inherently weak and live in a world obsessed with self-fixation.  - As believers, we experience tension between faith and sin.  - We struggle in knowing how to pray; the Holy Spirit intercedes for us.- **Intercession of the Holy Spirit:** - The Spirit helps in our prayers, understanding our hearts beyond words. - Highlights the need for prayer aligned with God's will, not personal desires.- **God's Sovereignty:** - Emphasis on Romans 8:28 – Misinterpretation risks focusing on personal benefit rather than God's purpose. - Illustration using God's plan for Jesus' birth demonstrates His ways are superior to human understanding.- **Concept of Foreknowledge and Predestination:** - Foreknowledge and predestination discussed as concepts that can be challenging but are crucial for understanding God's sovereignty. - Explanation that God knew who would choose Him and orchestrated a plan accordingly. - Focus on being conformed to the image of Christ through justification and glorification.**Practical Applications:**1. **Recognize Weakness:** Accept and embrace your weakness as a believer. Depend on the Holy Spirit for guidance and strength.2. **Align Desires with God's Will:** Regularly check if your desires align with God's purpose. Focus on serving His kingdom rather than personal dreams.3. **Trust in God's Plan:** Have faith that God's plans are higher than your own, especially in challenges.4. **Be Open to God's Calling:** Reflect on where God might be calling you to serve more significantly, whether locally or abroad.**Discussion Questions:**1. What are some recent situations where you felt your personal weakness, and how did you witness the Holy Spirit's help?2. How can Romans 8:28 be misinterpreted in today's Christian culture? In what ways can it be correctly applied?3. How can you ensure your prayers and desires are in alignment with God's will rather than personal wants?4. Discuss a time when you saw God's plan work out differently and better than what you had planned. What did it teach you?The sermon underscores the importance of focusing on God's sovereignty and the Holy Spirit's work in aiding believers through weaknesses, aligning with divine purposes over personal aspirations.

What does the birth of Jesus have to do with a world marked by fear, violence, and terrorism? In this episode, Pastor Doug explores the sharp contrast between the message of Christmas and the spirit of terror that dominates headlines. You'll be challenged to think biblically about peace, evil, hope, and how the coming of Christ still speaks powerfully into a broken and fearful world.Support the mission of the Salty Pastor podcast! Visit our donations page at https://pushpay.com/g/thesaltypastor to help us continue sharing truth with a world in need.Discussion Questions:How does the message of Christmas confront fear and violence in today's world?What does Jesus' teaching on peace reveal about how Christians should respond to terrorism and evil?How can you live out the hope of Christ in a culture shaped by fear and uncertainty?

Scott is changing jobs! This week, the team honors Scott as he transitions off Harris Creek's staff and shares the story behind his big vocational change—how he processed the decision, invited community, and listened to the Lord's leading. The conversation offers couples a model for making major decisions with humility, unity, and intentionality. The MTR team also discusses the exciting future to come with the podcast!Discussion Questions for Couples1- When you face a big decision, do you tend to move fast or slow? How does that impact your spouse?2- What role does community currently play in your decision-making? What role should it play?3- How do you personally respond to vulnerability—your spouse's and your own?4- Are there areas where you might be making decisions independently rather than mutually?Resources:Episode 43- The not so secret Guide to In Laws (ft. Dave Willis)Episode 49- We are Made for People (ft. Justin Whitmel Earley)Episode 63 - Celebrating One Year of MTREpisode 102 - A Story of Redemption and Forgiveness (ft. Kevin Kelli Mainz)Episode 103 - Protecting Your Marriage from InfidelityEpisode 121- Christ is the Melody of Your Marriage (ft. John Elmore)

Discussion QuestionsSermon Overview Hope in the King whose righteous rule will produce perfect peace.I. His qualification is unquestionable (vv. 1-3a)II. His rule will be righteous (vv. 3b-5)III. His peace will be perfect (vv. 6-9)IV. His majesty will be magnetic (v. 10)Digging Deeper    Read Isaiah 11:1-101. What injustices in our world make you wish for peace? What does the coming of Jesus have to say about this?2. When you want peace, who or what do you look to?3. In the sermon, a distinction was made between what delights human rulers and what delights our King, Jesus. What is different about what Jesus desires from us, versus what earthly leaders and rulers often desire? (see Isa. 1:23)4. What would it look like to grow in delighting in God, fearing him in a way that longs to honor him?5. This sermon focused on the kind of righteous rule that Jesus, this promised King, will have. What do you most look forward to about his promised rule?6. In Jesus's righteous rule, he will enact justice always. As was said in the sermon, if this is our king, we had better live like him. How can we obey this call in our daily lives?7. Reread Isaiah 11:6-9, which gives us a picture of what eternity with the Prince of Peace will be like. Which of these particular pictures of peace do you long for? Why does your heart long for this?8. To get another picture of the peace which comes in eternity, read Revelation 22:1-5. What do these verses mean to you, and how can we start to live out this peace now between one another?9. “When the King came the first time, it wasn't to judge, but to save.” How did Jesus fulfill this purpose in his life on earth? What will be different about his second coming?10. It can feel counterintuitive to consider this majestic, righteous, peacemaking king when Christmas is supposed to be about baby Jesus lying in the manger. Why do you think there is goodness in thinking this way about Jesus at Christmastime? Prayer

This season, it's easy to get swept up in the noise, the nostalgia, and the never-ending to-do lists. But have you ever paused long enough to wonder why, in such a secular world, the story of Christmas still holds power?The answer may surprise you.Discussion Questions:-How does understanding Jesus as 'El Gibor' (the warrior deliverer God) change your perception of what true strength and power look like in the Christian life?-In what areas of your life have you stopped believing that God is fighting for you, and what would change if you trusted He hasn't given up?-The mighty God redefines power through humility, vulnerability, and sacrificial love rather than domination—how does this challenge cultural or personal definitions of strength?-Where does darkness feel closest to you right now—internally, in relationships, or in hidden sin habits—and how might the mighty God step into that specific darkness?

This season, it's easy to get swept up in the noise, the nostalgia, and the never-ending to-do lists. But have you ever paused long enough to wonder why, in such a secular world, the story of Christmas still holds power?The answer may surprise you.Discussion Questions:-How does understanding Jesus as 'El Gibor' (the warrior deliverer God) change your perception of what true strength and power look like in the Christian life?-In what areas of your life have you stopped believing that God is fighting for you, and what would change if you trusted He hasn't given up?-The mighty God redefines power through humility, vulnerability, and sacrificial love rather than domination—how does this challenge cultural or personal definitions of strength?-Where does darkness feel closest to you right now—internally, in relationships, or in hidden sin habits—and how might the mighty God step into that specific darkness?

How did a single man from a small town end up reshaping the entire way the world sees marriage? In this episode, Pastor Doug reveals how Jesus' teachings transformed relationships, elevated the dignity of both men and women, and redefined love itself. You'll learn how the gospel changed ancient cultural norms—and why following Jesus still leads to healthier, stronger marriages today.Support the mission of the Salty Pastor podcast! Visit our donations page at https://pushpay.com/g/thesaltypastor to help us continue sharing truth with a world in need.Discussion Questions:How were marriage and relationships viewed in the ancient world before Jesus?Which of Jesus' teachings most impacted the modern understanding of love and commitment?How can applying Jesus' view of marriage transform our relationships today?

In this episode, Scott, Derek, and Gabrielle explore the often-misunderstood ideas of love and respect in marriage, grounding the conversation in Scripture while sharing real-life stories from their own relationships. They unpack why spouses may long for different forms of affirmation and how understanding those needs can transform everyday connection.Resources- Love and Respect by Emerson Eggerichs Discussion Questions:1- When do you feel most loved or most respected by your spouse? Can you describe a recent moment?2- Do you think you naturally communicate more love or more respect? How does your spouse typically receive it?3- Have past misunderstandings ever come from giving your spouse what you value instead of what they value?4- What is one simple action this week—public or private—that would communicate either love or respect more clearly?

What does justice truly look like when viewed through the life and teachings of Jesus? In this episode, Pastor Doug explores how Christ defines justice—not as power or punishment, but as truth, mercy, righteousness, and restored relationships. You'll gain clarity on how biblical justice differs from cultural narratives and what it means to seek justice while remaining rooted in faith, humility, and love.Support the mission of the Salty Pastor podcast! Visit our donations page at https://pushpay.com/g/thesaltypastor to help us continue sharing truth with a world in need.Discussion Questions:How does Jesus' teaching on justice compare to the way justice is often discussed in culture today?Where do mercy and truth intersect in the biblical understanding of justice?What practical steps can Christians take to pursue justice while reflecting the character of Christ?

Ep. 127 - Kids Ask Dr. Friendtastic: Closeness vs. separateness in friendship | Friendship advice for kidsParents, check out my online workshops for kids at workshops.eileenkennedymoore.com.FREE quiz: Is Your Child a Good Friend? https://eileenkennedymoore.ck.page/e37dcc098fWould YOUR KID like to be featured on the podcast?SUBMIT A QUESTION TO DR. FRIENDTASTIC at https://DrFriendtastic.com/submit (Obviously, this is not psychotherapy, and it's not for emergency situations.)For an easy-to-read TRANSCRIPT, go to: https://DrFriendtastic.com/podcast/Like the podcast? Check out my books at https://EileenKennedyMoore.com.Subscribe to my NEWSLETTER, https://DrFriendtastic.substack.com, to get podcast episodes sent to your email plus articles for parents.*** DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:- How have you tried to learn about other cultures? (Hint: Do you know any words in a different language? Have you eaten food from a different culture? Have you had the chance to travel to different countries? Have you read books about someone who lives in a different country or comes from a different culture?) - Do you like physical affection with friends or do you prefer a hands-off style of relating? How do you let friends know what you prefer? - Has a friend ever told you they wanted space from you or didn't want to be your friend anymore? What happened? - Have you ever wanted physical or emotional space from a friend? How did you handle that? *** You might also like these podcast episodes:Ep. 123 - How to Keep Friends (Eva, Age 6) https://drfriendtastic.substack.com/p/ep123-how-to-keep-friends-eva-age-6Ep. 111 - Friend won't forgive her (Thea, Age 10) https://drfriendtastic.substack.com/p/ep111-friend-wont-forgive-her-thea-age11 Ep. 73 - Best friend suddenly stops playing with him (J.J., Age 11) https://drfriendtastic.substack.com/p/ep73-jj-age-11-best-friend-stops-playing-with-him Get full access to Dr. Friendtastic for Parents at drfriendtastic.substack.com/subscribe

Discussion QuestionsSermon Overview Our hope for endless peace rests on a child who will reign forever.I. The future for God's people is a dawn that drives out darkness (vv. 1-3)II. This dawn will mean the end of enslaving enemies (vv. 4-5)III. God will make this endless peace through a child who will reign forever (vv. 6-7)Digging Deeper    Read Isaiah 9:1-71. “To be in darkness is to seem to be abandoned by God.” By a show of hands, have you ever or do you now feel this way? Share more if you're comfortable. 2. “The first coming of Jesus was the beginning of the end of the darkness of the world.” How have you experienced this line from the sermon? How has darkness begun to end? How is it still present? Think in terms of the world and your own life.3. Anticipating that Christ has come and is coming again should lead to hope and joy. How might we help one another be more intentional about giving thought to Christ's first and second coming?   4. Do you see spiritual enemies (like sin, demons, the fear of death) as your greatest enemies? Why or why not?5. How did Jesus' death on the cross defeat our spiritual enemies?6. Reread Isaiah 9:6, especially the end. Which of the four descriptors of Jesus catches your attention? Why?7. What is a takeaway (s) for us from the fact that roughly 700 years prior to the birth of Jesus, Isaiah so clearly and so specifically foretold his coming?8. Where do you long for peace in your life? With God? With yourself? With others? 9. There are many aspects to the peace Jesus came to bring for his people (e.g. - peace with God, peace among ourselves, peace within ourselves, etc.). Are there any aspects of the peace he brings that you have perhaps not appreciated as much as you should? Why might that be?  How might we grow in gratefulness for all that Christ came to do for us?    10. Read Isaiah 53:5 “But he was pierced for our transgressions; he was crushed for our iniquities; upon him was the chastisement that brought us peace, and with his wounds we are healed.”  How has Jesus brought us peace through his death?  How might we use this verse to share the gospel with someone this Advent season?   Prayer

In this episode, we begin our Advent journey in Eden, a place of freedom, communion, and life without shame. Eden is not only a moment in history, but also an interior garden within each of our hearts. We talk about the deep ache we all feel for union, rest, and peace, and how this longing reveals our original design for communion with God. We also reflect on the shame that often accompanies this desire for communion with others, especially when our desires are left unmet, and how bringing these places of poverty to Jesus opens us up to real, lived communion with Him.   Heather's One Thing - The Renew Conference in Toronto Heather's Other One Thing - Her Advent Worship Playlist Sister Miriam's One Thing - Sacred Anchor Artisans (Catholic Etsy!) founded by Tim and Molly Olsen Michelle's One Thing - The Inspired Living and this Chrism Candle Michelle's Other One Thing - Fr. Innocent Montgomery, CFR   Welcome, dear friends… to this Advent journey, a pilgrimage of the heart, through four sacred spaces where heaven once touched the earth.   These are the places of Advent. Eden. Loreto. Elizabeth's home. And a stable under starlight.   Each one holds a mystery… a whisper of God's coming, a rhythm of waiting, a quiet invitation to abide.   We begin… in Eden — the garden of beginnings and original designs, Here, everything was whole once, every breath in attunement with God's own. But even in the ache of what was lost, something sacred remains, a longing, a promise, a memory of shalom harmony still written in our bones.   Eden reminds us: our waiting is not empty. It is the remembering of love that has never stopped pursuing us.   Journal Questions: What are the unique gifts that God has placed inside of you? When do I experience shame in the ache for communion? When have I recently experienced a rupture from Eden? Who in your life allows you to feel at home and at ease? How can I return to Eden through a daily practice?   Discussion Questions: How have you experienced yourself as a gift? When have you experienced an ache for Eden in your life? When do you feel exiled from Eden? What glimpses of Eden have you seen in your life recently?   Quote to Ponder: "We all long for Eden, and we are constantly glimpsing it: our whole nature at its best and least corrupted, its gentlest and most human, is still soaked with the sense of exile." (J.R.R. Tolkien, The Letters of J.R.R. Tolkien)   Scripture for Lectio: "Adam and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame." (Genesis 2:25)   Sponsor - Altar + Home: Altar and Home by Conception Abbey exists to bring the beauty of Benedictine spirituality into your domestic church. The way we as Benedictine monks punctuate our days with prayer. The way we balance prayer and work (ora et labora). The way we pray with scripture in lectio divina. The way we live in community to support one another. Incorporating these treasures into your daily lives can draw you and your domestic church into Christ one day – one prayer – at a time. Our online store offers intentionally Catholic products for every occasion and every season. Lectio Divina rosary guides, daily journals, greeting cards, sacrament gifts, icons, and prints, along with books, bibles, and everything you need to make your home a sacred space.  Make Advent and Christmas a time of joy and peace with our Monk-Curated Collections—bundled sets specifically chosen by the monks to share our lives with each of you. They make the perfect gift for the Catholic in your life. Through this Altar + Home ministry, the Benedictine monks of Conception Abbey share the prayer God calls us to at the altar into the domestic church of our customers as we seek to cultivate one holy, apostolic, Catholic Church. We invite you shop with us at www.altarandhome.org. Use the discount code ABIDE to get 20% off your order.   Chapters:  00:00 Altar + Home 01:25 Intro 02:17 Welcome to Eden 09:38 Our Heart is a Garden and Place of Communion 11:18 We are Made as a Gift 13:32 Healing from Shame in Our Ache 17:57 Homesickness and Exile 20:23 God is Longing for Us 22:16 Imaginative Prayer 24:13 The Goodness of Our Bodies 26:06 Inviting the Lord into Communion 27:47 Advent is a Time of Preparation 29:32 One Things   Music used under license i94Cr0