Podcast appearances and mentions of Lisa Feldman Barrett

What if the biggest obstacle to your productivity isn't your schedule, your tools, or your willpower, but the stories you've been telling yourself without realizing it?In this episode of Productivity Smarts, host Gerald J. Leonard sits down with Owen Fitzpatrick, CSP, social psychologist, keynote speaker, and author of Inner Propaganda, to explore how the hidden architecture of belief drives behavior, performance, and transformation.Owen introduces the concept of belief leadership, the idea that people don't follow plans, they follow beliefs, and explains why most productivity struggles trace back to a single limiting story we've bought into about who we are. Gerald and Owen dig into how the brain operates as a prediction machine, filtering the world through only 40 bits of the 10 million bits of information our eyes take in every second, and why that means we often see the world not as it is, but as we are.The conversation moves into Owen's time in North Korea, the origin of the term "inner propaganda," and how the same mechanisms nations use to indoctrinate citizens show up in our own heads, in advertising, and even in how AI systems learn to persuade us. They close with a discussion of antifragility, and how reframing failure as fuel can help you build an identity that gets stronger under pressure rather than breaking down. If you're ready to challenge the subconscious stories running your life and your leadership, this episode is packed with insight you can apply immediately.What We Discuss[00:00] Introduction[02:01] Guest introduction: Owen Fitzpatrick[05:28] Belief leadership: why people follow beliefs, not plans[06:07] Not enough hours and the myth of the "unproductive person"[08:02] How the stories we sell ourselves become our beliefs[08:49] The smoker story: expanding your identity to make change possible[11:30] 10 million bits vs. 40 bits: how little we actually perceive[12:10] The brain as a prediction machine[13:12] Why the brain optimizes for survival, not productivity[14:24] Seeing the world through the lens of our own stories[15:51] North Korea and the origin of "inner propaganda"[17:56] Rambo, Rocky, and everyday indoctrination through media[20:12] Tribalism, vilification, and the price of belonging[21:41] Reading from the book: "The Brain Always Wins"[23:27] Predictive processing and the neuroscience of belief[24:08] Lisa Feldman Barrett and how emotions are constructed[26:24] Priming, expectation bias, and running into walls[27:44] How beliefs set us up for self-sabotage or success[30:08] Antifragility: getting stronger from adversity[32:01] Blending identities: jazz, productivity, and reinvention[33:34] Where to find Owen and his book[34:39] Final thoughtsNotable Quotes[08:12] "The stories that we sell to ourselves, not necessarily just tell ourselves, but sell to ourselves, they become the beliefs that we buy." – Owen Fitzpatrick[10:24] "An identity is just a story we sell to ourselves about who we are... and because it's just a story, we can sell ourselves a new story." – Owen Fitzpatrick[12:11] "The brain is a prediction machine." – Owen Fitzpatrick[13:46] "Your brain does not optimize for productivity. It optimizes for survival and it optimizes for stability." – Owen Fitzpatrick[16:30] "The exact same mechanisms that the state uses to propagandize are the same things that my brain uses." – Owen Fitzpatrick[21:59] "The brain is a gambling addict that bets on reality. It doesn't wait for information. It guesses what should happen and adjusts when surprised." – Owen Fitzpatrick[27:57] "We can completely distort a situation based upon our beliefs or expectations, because that's how we get into mental health struggles... that's how we sabotage ourselves." – Owen Fitzpatrick[30:17] "The opposite of fragile is not resilient... antifragility is when you expose something to adversity, it gets stronger as a result." – Owen Fitzpatrick[30:54] "Every single time you're wrong, it helps you to learn and grow and improve." – Owen FitzpatrickResource and LinksOwen FitzpatrickWebsite: owenfitzpatrick.comLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/owenfitzpBook: Inner Propaganda Book Website: innerpropaganda.comPodcast: Inner PropagandaNewsletter: Inner PropagandaProductivity Smarts PodcastWebsite - productivitysmartspodcast.comGerald J. LeonardWebsite - geraldjleonard.comTurnberry Premiere website - turnberrypremiere.comScheduler - vcita.com/v/geraldjleonardKiva is a loan, not a donation, allowing you to cycle your money and create a personal impact worldwide. https://www.kiva.org/lender/topmindshelpingtopmindsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Links For The Occult Rejectshttps://linktr.ee/theoccultrejectsOccult Research Institutehttps://www.occultresearchinstitute.org/Substackhttps://substack.com/@theoccultrejects?r=7auau0&utm_campaign=profile&utm_medium=profile-pageCash Apphttps://cash.app/$theoccultrejectsVenmo@TheOccultRejectsBuy Me A Coffeebuymeacoffee.com/TheOccultRejectsPatreonhttps://www.patreon.com/TheOccultRejectsBibliographyCurses, Blessings, and Ritual HarmCannon, Walter B. “‘Voodoo' Death.” American Anthropologist 44, no. 2 (1942): 169–181.Faraone, Christopher A. Ancient Greek Love Magic. Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press, 1999.Gager, John G., ed. Curse Tablets and Binding Spells from the Ancient World. New York: Oxford University Press, 1992.Graf, Fritz. Magic in the Ancient World. Translated by Franklin Philip. Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press, 1997.Ogden, Daniel. Magic, Witchcraft, and Ghosts in the Greek and Roman Worlds: A Sourcebook. 2nd ed. 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As stated in the podcast, you can look deeper into these blog posts and check out the research for yourself! Enjoy!What the Science Shows: When humans are in an "intertemporal choice" scenario (choosing now for later), the prefrontal cortex favors immediate gratification when hungry. Setting up a "pre-commitment device" (meal prepping while full) locks in decisions before temporal discounting activates during low-glucose states.Core Study: Sophie Leroy (2009), "Why Is It So Hard to Do My Work? The Challenge of Attention Residue When Switching Between Work Tasks" (Organization Science); extended by Leroy & Glomb (2018/2020) in Harvard Business Review.https://lawyerist.com/news/combatting-attention-residue-when-faced-with-interruptions/#:~:text=ResearchWhat the Science Shows: When switching from an unfinished Task A to Task B, part of your working memory remains tied to Task A ("attention residue"). Assigning strict, scheduled time containers to tasks creates cognitive closure ("Ready-to-Resume" mental signaling), which clears working memory and improves optimal decision-making by up to 79% compared to working off an open to-do list.https://lawyerist.com/news/combatting-attention-residue-when-faced-with-interruptions/#:~:text=ResearchCore Study: Fabrizio Dell'Acqua, Edward McFowland III, Ethan Mollick, Hila Lifshitz-Assaf, Katherine C. Kellogg, Sarah Likotrafiti, Karina R. T. Francois, and Boston Consulting Group (2023), "Navigating the Jagged Technological Frontier: Field Experimental Evidence of AI Impact on Knowledge Worker Productivity and Quality"(Harvard Business School Working Paper).https://www.mindstudio.ai/blog/what-is-the-jagged-frontier-ai-capabilitiesWhat the Science Shows: In an experiment with 758 BCG consultants, workers using AI for tasks inside the technological frontier saw a 40% performance boost and completed work 25.1% faster. However, for tasks slightly outside the frontier, consultants who trusted AI experienced a 19 percentage point drop in accuracy due to "automation bias"—blindly accepting AI output without human critical friction.https://www.mindstudio.ai/blog/what-is-the-jagged-frontier-ai-capabilitiesCore Studies:Peter Gollwitzer (1999), "Implementation Intentions: Strong Effects of Simple Plans" (American Psychologist).Sarah Milne, Sheina Orbell, & Paschal Sheeran (2002), "Combining Motivational and Volitional Interventions to Promote Exercise Participation" (British Journal of Health Psychology).https://jamesclear.com/implementation-intentions#:~:text=Sarah What the Science Shows: Standard motivational planning resulted in a ~35% follow-through rate. Groups that formed explicit Implementation Intentions using "If [environmental cue], then [action]" triggers saw follow-through jump to 91%. The If/Then structure delegates execution from conscious deliberation (prefrontal cortex) to automatic environmental triggers (basal ganglia).https://jamesclear.com/implementation-intentions#:~:text=Sarah Core Studies:Alexandra Touroutoglou, Joseph Andreano, Lisa Feldman Barrett, et al. (2020), "The Tenacious Brain: How the Anterior Mid-Cingulate Contributes to Achieving Goals" (Progress in Brain Research).Edward L. Deci & Richard M. Ryan (2000), "The 'What' and 'Why' of Goal Pursuits: Human Needs and the Self-Determination of Behavior" (Psychological Inquiry).What the Science Shows: The Anterior Midcingulate Cortex (aMCC) acts as the brain's "hub of tenacity," weighing effort costs against expected long-term rewards. Intrinsic motivation and engaging in non-preferred, effortful challenges physically maintain and expand the structure of the aMCC. This provides a biological buffer against mental fatigue and quitting when external rewards fade.https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7381101/#:~:text=We 

For masterclass clink hereDo you keep overthinking every idea, studying what everyone else is doing, and still find you can't start the thing you know you're meant to create?In this episode, we're breaking down why overthinking is exactly what's keeping your creativity stuck. If you're capable, driven, and full of ideas that never make it into the world, the problem isn't your discipline and it isn't a lack of originality. There are three layers of noise sitting between you and the part of you that already knows what to do, and each one has a name, science behind it, and a way through.I'm walking you through the Three Layers of Noise: why your nervous system filters every thought before you get to have it, why unfelt emotion jams the signal your intuition is trying to send, and why the voice in your head is a storyteller, not a reporter. You'll hear how Rick Rubin and Albert Einstein both described the same order of creation, and what the research on insight says about where ideas actually come from.In this episode, you will discover:Why comparison can only ever produce a copy, and what that's costing you.Layer 1: The Body. Why you can't out-think a stressed nervous system.Layer 2: The Emotional Static. Why the answer is arriving but can't get through.Layer 3: The Thought Stream. Why grinding at your desk produces nothing while ideas arrive in the shower.The order the research confirms: the idea comes first, the strategy comes second.The question that replaces "what's wrong with me."Research and books referenced:Amy Arnsten (Yale) on stress and the prefrontal cortex. Lisa Feldman Barrett on constructed emotion and interoception.Sarah Garfinkel and Hugo Critchley on interoception.John Kounios and Mark Beeman on the neuroscience of insight.Roger Beaty on the default mode network and creativity.Albert Einstein's account of his own thinking, from Jacques Hadamard, The Psychology of Invention in the Mathematical Field (1945).Rick Rubin, The Creative Act: A Way of Being.Free Masterclass: https://www.amenkaur.com/masterclassIf you want to go deeper and align the systems underneath your creativity in the right order, join my free masterclass hereJoin the Conversation:Which of the three layers of noise is loudest for you right now? Drop a comment below. I read every single one, and they help me decide what to cover next.Sending you so much love, Dr. Amen Kaur#creativity #overthinking #intuition #creativeblock #startingover #beingyouKeywords:self-discovery, personal growth, creativity, emotional intelligence, innovative thinking, overcoming fear, entrepreneurship, spiritual awakening, finding purpose, mental health awareness, navigating anxiety, unique talents, expressing creativity, building confidence, overcoming obstacles, mind-body connection, emotional healing, intuitive guidance, self-acceptance, developing resilience

Want to go deeper: For Free Masterclass Click HereWhat are the four levels of consciousness, and why do you feel stuck between hustle and ease? This episode of Starting Over, Being You maps Michael Beckwith's four levels of consciousness, to me, by me, through me and as me, onto the science of your nervous system, for anyone starting over after a redundancy, a career change, or the end of a relationship.If you have lost something you poured years into, a job, a career, a relationship, and you are facing the strange and lonely work of starting over, this episode is for you.Here is the reframe at the heart of it. You did not fail. You outgrew the way you used to succeed. The pure hustle does not fit you anymore, but you are still capable and still ambitious, and it is so easy to get stuck in the gap between the two.In this episode we walk through the four levels of consciousness, a framework from the teacher Michael Beckwith, and do something you will not hear anywhere else. We lay the exact nervous-system state underneath each level, so you can feel where you actually are and what your next chapter needs from you. The science leads, and every spiritual idea comes from a real, named tradition.You will learn why achieving more never quite makes you feel like enough, what is really happening in your body when life feels like a constant fight, and the one shift that starts moving you out of survival and into a state where life feels less forced and far more effortless.IN THIS EPISODE YOU WILL LEARNWhat "levels of consciousness" actually means, and why rising through them changes how you see life rather than adding more to your to-do listThe single biggest reason people stay stuck, and why most of us cannot see it in ourselvesThe nervous-system state hiding underneath each of the four levels, in plain languageWhy hustle and achievement keep you in survival, and why burnout is that state working exactly as designedThe quiet loop that keeps capable people swinging between feeling like a victim and forcing everything themselves, sometimes for yearsWhy success never delivers the "enough" you are chasing, and what doesThe one question to change the next time life is not matching the picture in your headWhat flow and ease really are, and why you cannot force themThe direction all of this is pointing toward, and the first practical step to get thereMENTIONED IN THIS EPISODEMichael Beckwith, the four levels of consciousness (to me, by me, through me, as me)Lisa Feldman Barrett, the brain as a predictive organ managing your "body budget"The research on allostatic load, the wear that builds when the stress response never switches offJennifer Crocker, contingencies of self-worthThe research on rumination and why replaying the story prolongs the painResearch on victim signallingMihaly Csikszentmihalyi, the flow stateThe neuroscience of the default mode network quieting in long-term meditatorsRichard Lazarus and James Gross, how appraisal shapes your response and your outcomesNamed traditions referenced: Stoicism, Buddhism (tanha, craving), and the wisdom traditions that point toward oneness and unconditional loveFREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONSWhat are the four levels of consciousness? A framework from the teacher Michael Beckwith describing four ways of relating to life: "to me" (life happens to me, the victim position), "by me" (I make it happen through effort and hustle), "through me" (I stop forcing and let life move with more ease), and "as me" (a sense of oneness). This episode lays the nervous-system state underneath each one.Why do I feel stuck after being laid off or starting over? Often you have outgrown pure hustle but have not yet settled into a more allowing way of working, so you are caught in the gap between the "by me" and "through me" levels. Your nervous system reads the loss as a threat and keeps you in survival, which makes forcing feel like the only option even though it no longer works.What does the nervous system have to do with feeling stuck? Neuroscientist Lisa Feldman Barrett describes the brain as constantly predicting and running your body to match, always reading whether you are safe enough to grow or under threat and need to defend. Each level of consciousness sits on a different answer to that question, and staying in threat keeps you in defence rather than creation.Why doesn't achievement ever make me feel like enough? Jennifer Crocker's research on contingent self-worth shows that when your worth depends on results, it lifts the day you succeed and drops the day you do not, so the feeling never lasts. The target keeps moving, which is why more success rarely delivers lasting fulfilment.How do I move from hustle to flow? You cannot force flow, because forcing is the hustle state itself. Flow becomes possible when your nervous system comes off threat and feels safe, so the work is building that safety and changing the question you ask yourself, rather than pushing harder.GO DEEPER: THE FREE MASTERCLASSIf you know you are ready to move from "by me" to "through me," to stop forcing and start allowing life to work through you so you can create what you are actually here to create, come to the free masterclass. I take you through the spiritual side and the science behind it: your nervous-system intelligence, emotional intelligence, intuitive intelligence, cognitive intelligence, and energetic intelligence, so you can operate from that "through me" state.https://www.amenkaur.com/masterclassCONNECTIf this resonated, please subscribe to Starting Over, Being You so you do not miss the next one. I would love to hear from you, send me a message and tell me which level you recognised yourself in.Remember: we are moving from fear to love. Keep being loving and understanding toward yourself, because that is what helps you see that you are living in a friendly universe.Sending you so much love. Until next time.

David Epstein: Inside the Box David Epstein is the author of the #1 New York Times bestseller Range and The Sports Gene, both of which have been translated into more than 30 languages. He was previously the host of Slate‘s popular “How To!” podcast and a science and investigative reporter at ProPublica. His TED talks have been viewed more than 12 million times. His newest book is also a New York Times bestseller: Inside the Box: How Constraints Make Us Better (Amazon, Bookshop)*. It seems like we should be the most focused, creative, and innovative when we are the freest to do whatever we want. Turns out, it's pretty much the exact opposite. In this conversation, David and I discuss why constraints make all the difference. Key Points Myth: we are most creative and innovative when we are most free. In fact, it's the opposite. Given complete freedom, we tend to follow the path of least resistance. The Einstellung effect: employing only familiar methods even if better ones are available. General Magic (the most important technology company that nobody's ever heard of) had virtually no constraints and ultimately produced nothing. Write down hypotheses and make commitments visible before you begin. Give people agency in creating constraints. If your organization or team was being handed off to someone else tomorrow, what's the first thing the new leader would change? Consider making that change now. To avoid over-indexing on constraints, ask this question: “Could I still surprise myself?” Resources Mentioned Inside the Box: How Constraints Make Us Better by David Epstein (Amazon, Bookshop)* Interview Notes Download my interview notes in PDF format (free membership required). Related Episodes How to Transform Your Limitations Into Advantages, with Mark Barden (episode 207) Help Your Brain Learn, with Lisa Feldman Barrett (episode 513) Get People Reading What You're Sending, with Todd Rogers (episode 666) Discover More Activate your free membership for full access to the entire library of interviews since 2011, searchable by topic. To accelerate your learning, uncover more inside Coaching for Leaders Plus.

For free masterclass : Click here People-pleasing isn't a habit you can simply decide to quit. It's your nervous system running a survival program that was wired in long before you ever had a say in it. And the moment you understand that, everything starts to shift, because you finally stop fighting the wrong thing.In this episode I walk you through the six faces this survival response wears, the disguises your nervous system learned to put on to keep you safe. You'll almost certainly recognise yourself in more than one, and maybe in all of them. Then I show you what's actually happening in your brain when you live this way, why every wisdom tradition on earth points to the same way back, and the one small practice that starts to bring you home to yourself.The six faces: The Perfectionist. The Peacekeeper. The Caretaker. The Performer. The Chameleon. And the Lone Wolf, the one almost nobody even calls people-pleasing.In this episode:Why "set boundaries, stop caring, just love yourself" never actually worksWhat people-pleasing really is, the fawn response, and why these patterns are blends, not boxesWhat chronic people-pleasing does to your brain, and how safety brings your thinking back onlineWhy losing connection to yourself quietly costs you in every area of your lifeHow presence brings you home, and the simple daily practice that starts itKey takeaways:People-pleasing is not a character flaw or a willpower problem. It's the fawn response, a survival reaction named by therapist Pete Walker.It shows up in six forms: the Perfectionist, the Peacekeeper, the Caretaker, the Performer, the Chameleon, and the Lone Wolf. Most people are a blend of several.Chronic people-pleasing keeps the brain in a low-grade threat state, which reduces access to the prefrontal cortex, the part you think and decide with.Reconnecting to yourself is a trainable act of attention called interoception, not a vibe or a mood.Losing touch with your own needs measurably lowers self-esteem and wellbeing, shown in Jennifer Campbell's research on self-concept clarity.The way back is presence, the same answer every major wisdom tradition arrived at independently.FAQ: Q: What is the fawn response? A: The fawn response is a survival reaction in which you keep yourself safe by keeping other people happy. Therapist Pete Walker named it as a fourth response alongside fight, flight, and freeze, and it's the pattern underneath chronic people-pleasing.Q: What are the six types of people-pleaser? A: The Perfectionist, the Peacekeeper, the Caretaker, the Performer, the Chameleon, and the Lone Wolf. They're not rigid boxes. Most people are a blend, and they all share one root, a lost connection to yourself.Q: Is people-pleasing a trauma response? A: Often, yes. People-pleasing frequently develops early as a way to stay safe in an unpredictable or high-conflict environment, which is why willpower alone rarely changes it.Q: How do you actually stop people-pleasing? A: Not by forcing more boundaries, but by rebuilding your connection to yourself through presence. A simple start is to pause three times a day and ask your body one question, what is true for me here, before you answer for anyone else.Mentioned in this episode:Pete Walker, Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving (the fawn response)Meg Josephson, LCSW, Are You Mad at Me? (the six types)Amy Arnsten, Yale (stress and the prefrontal cortex)Bud Craig (interoception and the insula)Jennifer Campbell (self-concept clarity)The wisdom traditions: the Upanishads, Buddhist buddha-nature, Marcus Aurelius, Psalm 46, the Qur'an, Rumi, and EmersonFurther reading on interoception:Sarah Garfinkel and Hugo Critchley (interoceptive accuracy and emotion)Lisa Feldman Barrett (interoception and the constructed sense of self)Ready to come home to yourself? I've created a free masterclass that walks you through the steps. Watch it here: https://www.amenkaur.com/masterclassStarting Over, Being You with Dr Amen Kaur bridges neuroscience and grounded spirituality for women rebuilding their sense of self. New episodes weekly.people pleasing, people pleaser, how to stop people pleasing, fawn response, fawn trauma response, nervous system, nervous system regulation, survival mode, boundaries, self-abandonment, perfectionism, caretaker, codependency, presence, self-connection, interoception, anxiety, self-worth, Meg Josephson, Pete Walker

Atenția noastră s-a fragmentat și asta produce schimbări măsurabile în creier. În al doilea episod din seria Digital Wellbeing, Paul Olteanu și Adrian Dinu analizează mecanismele din spatele „minții împrăștiate" și explică ce putem face concret ca să ne recâștigăm atenția.Adrian Dinu este psiholog, trainer și speaker în echipa Mind Architect și a livrat programe despre stres, atenție și stare de bine. Împreună cu Paul, traduce cercetarea de neuroștiință într-un limbaj accesibil, fără alarmism și fără să demonizeze tehnologia. Ultima treime a episodului este dedicată strategiilor și acțiunilor concrete pe care le putem folosi pentru a ne recâștiga atenția.În acest episod am discutat despre:Mitul "multitasking": ce se întâmplă de fapt în creier și ce ne costă multitasking-ulImpactul notificărilor: cum și cât de tare ne afectează de fapt performanța cognitivăCele 4 rețele cerebrale și funcțiile cerebrale afectate de utilizarea problematică a social media și telefoanelor smartDe ce copiii și adolescenții sunt mai vulnerabili la aceste efecte negativeBugetul energetic și cum ni-l consumă rețelele sociale și telefoanele smartCele 3 pârghii pentru recâștigarea atenției: mediu, ritualuri de tranziție și refacerea bugetului11 acțiuni concrete pentru recâștigarea atenției la adulți și adolescențiResurse menționate în conversație:Cartea Attention Span, de Gloria MarkBook Espresso MA Premium despre Digital Minimalism, de Cal NewportCartea Digital Minimalism, de Cal NewportStudiul ISBRD 2026 — Fundația Vodafone, Save the Children, Ipsos - Copilărie Conectată: starea de bine și reziliența digitală a copiilor și tinerilor din EuropaCercetări: Rezultatele studiului Adolescent Brain Cognitive Development (ABCD) pe 11.000 de adolescențiCostul cognitiv al unei notificări Impactul pe termen lung al digital media asupra dezvoltării cerebrale la copiiImpactul neurocognitiv al folosirii social MediaAlterarea rețelelor cerebrale în folosirea problematică a social media și smartphones Impactul reducerii timpului petrecut pe smartphone"(00:00) Introducerea episodului""(02:51) Seria Digital Wellbeing și cele 4 'daune' ale lui Jonathan Haidt""(07:00) Mitul multitaskingului: de ce de fapt facem 'serial single tasking'""(10:25) Cărți despre atenție: Deep Work, Digital Minimalism, Stolen Focus""(12:13) Costul cognitiv și emoțional al notificărilor, chiar și dacă le ignorăm""(17:58) De la 2,5 minute la 47 de secunde: cât ne-a scăzut atenția și ce impact are""(20:39) De ce serialele se fac pentru 'al doilea ecran' și capcana conținutului scurt""(23:09) Ce fel de pauze luăm: distragere, refacerea atenției sau extra satisfacție""(30:02) Studiul Vodafone: cât de distrași sunt adolescenții și de ce sunt vulnerabili""(32:10) Ce se întâmplă în creier: unde cerebrale și efecte emoționale""(35:27) Cele 4 rețele cerebrale afectate de utilizarea problematică a telefoanelor""(41:40) Modificări structurale în creier: ACC, cerebel și studiile pe adolescenți""(46:53) Relația doză-răspuns: cu cât mai multă social media, cu atât mare efectul negativ""(51:51) Vestea bună: fragmentarea atenției e reversibilă""(54:00) Lisa Feldman Barrett și bugetul de energie""(58:41) Consecințele bugetului energetic golit: decizii proaste, fitil scurt și 'phubbing'""(01:05:48) Impactul tipului de conținut urmărit: durată scurtă vs lungă""(01:08:01) Cum ne recâștigăm atenția: 11 strategii în 3 categorii""(01:08:55) Strategii de mediu: distanță, fricțiune, grayscale""(01:13:44) Telefonul: briceag de buzunar, nu cazino portabil""(01:16:41) Ritualuri de tranziție: dimineața și mesele fără telefon ca ritual""(01:22:07) 'Slow media' și alegerea (mai) conștientă a conținutului urmărit""(01:27:23) Refacerea bugetului de energie: focus total, natură și meditație""(01:33:45) Blocarea timpului: intervale pentru focus, meditație sau rugăciune""(01:35:43) Recomandările lui Jonathan Haidt pentru părinți și tineri"

The job of scientists is a tough one - to take complex, multifaceted, messy concepts, and do their best to simplify them in a way that is understandable and digestible to the general public. However, today's guest, Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett,  warns that if something is too simple, we probably shouldn't believe it.  Especially when it comes to human behavior and emotions, there's nothing simple about it - because variation is the norm - not averages.  And in today's episode, Dr. Barrett explains exactly why that is and how it should change the way we view and approach our interactions. Dr. Barrett is among the top 1% most cited scientists in the world for her revolutionary research in psychology and neuroscience. She is a University Distinguished Professor of Psychology at Northeastern University, and she holds appointments at Harvard Medical School and Massachusetts General Hospital, where she serves as Chief Science Officer for the Center of Law, Brain and Behavior. In addition to the books 7 ½ Lessons About the Brain and How Emotions Are Made, Dr. Barrett has published over 260 peer reviewed scientific papers. Not only do we dive into the scientific research that disproves the way many of us have been led to view emotions, Dr. Barrett also does a phenomenal job of speaking to these concepts in a way that helps us apply it to our daily lives. Specifically, we address “The Great Man Theory” - why there is no one-size fits all approach to emotions and what they mean How understanding emotional constructs on a deeper level can make people more adept at navigating social situations The physiological and psychological processes of how we give meaning to our emotions Specific instances where knowing this information can directly influence life outcomes for you and those you impact daily Referenced Resources: Website: Lisafeldmanbarrett.com Book: How Emotions Are Made Book:  7 ½ Lessons About the Brain  TED Talk: You Aren't At the Mercy of Your Emotions Research Article: Knowing what you're feeling and knowing what to do about it   Resources & Links: Art of Coaching for coaching programs and resources: https://artofcoaching.com/mentoring My Latest Book (Link to upcoming or referenced publication): https://amzn.to/4rZknhs Connect with Brett Bartholomew: LinkedIn Twitter   Follow Us: Website: ArtofCoaching.com Instagram: @coach_brettb X: @coach_brettb

Most continuous improvement practitioners are trained to prize logic and treat emotion as noise in the system. D. Earl Johnston spent nine years and thousands of research hours across twelve disciplines discovering that framing is backward. His book, “Choosing Emotions,” grew out of a father-daughter moment involving depression, post-it notes, and a single powerful text message. What came out of that work challenges something most leaders have never stopped to question. In this episode you’ll learn: What Winston Churchill’s 8 words reveal about how emotions work (3:14) How a father-daughter dinner became a 9-year research project on emotions (3:57) The three most common misunderstandings people have about emotions (11:40) Why doom scrolling is an emotionally driven navigation, not a bad habit (16:56) What ego actually is and why most high-performers misunderstand it (19:12) Why trauma persists until you find the words to describe it (22:00) How naming an emotion releases its grip on your behavior (26:11) What neuroscientist Lisa Feldman Barrett says about emotional vocabulary (28:05) How an emotionary differs from an ordinary dictionary (31:13) Why making friends with your emotions makes life easier (32:13) Keep Learning If the idea that naming an emotion is the first step to solving a problem resonates with how you think about coaching and people development, the School of Leadership builds on exactly that kind of human-centered foundation. Podcast Resources “Choosing Emotions” Choosing Emotions Website Get All the Latest News from Gemba Academy Stay current on new courses, podcast episodes, and continuous improvement resources. Sign up for the Gemba Academy newsletter at gembaacademy.com/news What Do You Think? Where in your work do you see emotional vocabulary, or the lack of it, affecting how problems get solved?

Jeg har nylig vært gjest hos Biohacking Girls – podcasten til Monica Øien Dyvi og Alette Sophie Aubert. De har de siste årene markert seg som to av Norges mest profilerte stemmer innen helseoptimalisering, livsstil og biohacking. Gjennom podcasten sin utforsker de alt fra søvn, ernæring, hormoner og stressmestring til teknologi, trening og mental helse. De henter inn leger, forskere, terapeuter og eksperter fra hele verden, drevet av en genuin nysgjerrighet på hva som faktisk påvirker menneskers helse og livskvalitet.Det jeg liker med Monica og Alette, er at de ikke bare er opptatt av kroppen som maskin, men også av mennesket som helhet. Mange av samtalene deres handler egentlig om hvordan vi lever livene våre – hvordan stress, relasjoner, tempo, vaner og tankemønstre former både kropp og sinn. De representerer en slags moderne helseutforskning hvor biologi, psykologi og livsstil møtes i samme rom.Og nettopp det blir også et viktig tema i dagens episode.For denne samtalen handler i stor grad om følelsenes psykologi. Om hvordan mange av oss lever med et ganske begrenset språk for vårt eget indre liv. Vi sier at vi er stresset, slitne eller lei oss, men under disse grove kategoriene skjuler det seg ofte langt mer nyanserte følelsesmessige landskap. Kanskje er det ikke bare stress, men skam, utilstrekkelighet, ambivalens, ensomhet eller en følelse av ikke helt å høre til.I moderne emosjonspsykologi finnes det et begrep som kalles emosjonell granularitet. Det handler om evnen til å skille mellom ulike følelsestilstander med større presisjon og nyanse. Forskning fra blant andre Lisa Feldman Barrett viser at mennesker som har et mer differensiert følelsesspråk, ofte også har bedre emosjonsregulering, større psykologisk fleksibilitet og et mer robust forhold til eget indre liv. Følelser som får språk, blir ofte lettere å forstå, tåle og regulere. Det usynlige blir litt mer synlig.Og kanskje er det nettopp dette mye psykisk helse handler om: å utvikle et rikere indre kart over seg selv.I samtalen kommer vi også inn på noe som fascinerer meg stadig mer: hvordan kunstig intelligens potensielt kan brukes som en refleksjonspartner i møte med eget følelsesliv. Ikke som en erstatning for menneskelige relasjoner eller terapi, men som et verktøy for refleksjon, språk og selvundersøkelse.Jeg har nylig skrevet en lengre fagtekst om utviklingen av en AI-basert refleksjonspartner for psykisk helse, hvor vi utforsker hvordan språk, spørsmål, perspektiver og psykoedukasjon kan bidra til å «utvide det indre rommet» hos mennesker. Et sentralt poeng i dette arbeidet er nettopp at mange psykiske plager ikke bare handler om hva vi føler, men om hvordan vi forstår og fortolker det vi føler. Når vi får nye begreper, metaforer og perspektiver på vårt eget indre liv, skjer det ofte noe viktig: Tankene mister litt av sin absolutte karakter, og følelsene får litt mer plass til å bevege seg.Så denne episoden beveger seg i landskapet mellom kropp og sinn, mellom biohacking og emosjonspsykologi, mellom teknologi og menneskelig erfaring. Den handler om hvordan vi kan komme i bedre kontakt med oss selv – ikke bare gjennom målinger, data og optimalisering, men også gjennom språk, refleksjon og en dypere forståelse av følelsene som beveger seg i oss.Så med det ønsker jeg velkommen til min samtale med Biohacking Girls – Monica Øien Dyvi og Alette Sophie Aubert.Vil du ha mer psykologi og flere dypdykk i menneskets sjelsliv?Vil du har en praksis for selvutvikling og hjelp til å dykke ned i ditt eget indre liv?Da kan BeBalanced.ai være noe for deg! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This episode of The Anxious Truth dives into the messy intersection of neuroscience and psychotherapy. I'm joined by Ana Lund, a UK-based psychotherapist specializing in the link between brain science and clinical practice, to discuss how we actually use research to help you recover.--Want to discuss what you heard today? I'm hanging out on the Disordered Community Spacehttps://disordered.fm/community--We often hear about "evidence-based practice," but translating a laboratory study into a therapy session is a significant challenge. Ana and I discuss the reality of staying current with research, the limitations of single studies, and why "neuro-nonsense" often takes the place of actual science in social media mental health content.Key Topics Covered:The Challenge of Staying Current: Why it is nearly impossible for any single practitioner to keep up with the massive volume of new neuroscience research.Research vs. Practice: The gap between understanding how the brain works and knowing how to "work" the brain in a practical, therapeutic way.The Role of Meta-Analyses: Why looking for trends and body-of-knowledge reviews is more reliable than hanging your hat on one exciting new study.Constructed Emotion: How modern theories like Lisa Feldman Barrett's "Theory of Constructed Emotion" change the way we approach feelings in the therapy room.Affect Labeling: How describing what you feel (without needing a "perfect" word for it) helps regulate distress and prevents the jump to catastrophic predictions.The "Secret Sauce" of Mindfulness: How neuroscience helped validate and secularize eastern practices by stripping away unnecessary "bells and whistles" to find what actually works: slowing down.Our goal is to demystify how science informs recovery. Understanding that your brain isn't "broken" but is instead following natural, albeit difficult, processes can empower you to take the small, practical steps necessary for long-term change.Find Ana on her Substack:https://neuroscienceandpsy.substack.com/or on her website:https://www.neuroscienceandpsychotherapy.com/For full show notes on this episode:https://theanxioustruth.com/343Send in a question or comment via text.Support The Anxious Truth: If you find the podcast helpful and want to support my work, you can buy me a coffee.   Other ways to support my work like buying a book or signing up for a low cost workshop can be found on my website.  None of this is never required, but always appreciated! Interested in doing therapy with me? For more information on working with me directly to overcome your anxiety, follow this link.Disclaimer: The Anxious Truth  is not therapy or a replacement for therapy. Listening to The Anxious Truth does not create a therapeutic relationship between you and the host or guests of the podcast. Information here is provided for psychoeducational purposes. As always, when you have questions about your own well-being, please consult your mental health and/or medical care providers. If you are having a mental health crisis, always reach out immediately for in-person help.

Most of us know diabetes affects the body. Fewer of us talk honestly about what it does to the mind and what the mind does right back. In this episode, Rob sits down with Sam Tullman, co-founder and facilitator of Diabetes Sangha and a dedicated student of Rinzai Zen, for a wide-ranging conversation on mental health, mindfulness, and what it actually means to live well with diabetes. Not managing it perfectly. Live well with it. They get into the neuroscience of why checking your CGM makes you hold your breath, why rage bolusing is as much an emotional event as it is a physical one, and how the concept of interoception, your brain's ability to read signals from inside your body, turns out to be both a burden and a hidden advantage of life with type 1. Sam introduces a question that quietly reframes everything: what is your actual goal in living with diabetes? His answer might surprise you. The conversation winds through predictive processing theory, Zen master stories dating back to 17th-century Japan, the research behind mindfulness-based stress reduction, and Rob's own discovery of what he calls "rage gratitude", a practice that started with 35 lines scribbled on a page and changed how he moves through his days. If you've ever wondered whether mindfulness is actually practical for someone who's already managing a chronic illness on top of everything else, this episode makes the case. Sam is also a fellow podcaster and one of the most thoughtful voices in the T1D mental health space. By the time this episode is published, Rob will be sitting with Sam and the rest of Diabetes Sangha at their spring retreat. Which, honestly, feels like the right note to publish on. Chapters:  00:00 Introduction: Sam Tullman and Diabetes Sangha 01:14 Welcome back: catching up since last time 02:03 Mental health as part of the whole body 03:29 How the mind directly impacts blood sugar 04:42 Rage bolusing: a behavioral health problem 07:16 Rob's real-time low and what he noticed 08:58 Predictive processing theory and Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett 10:12 How the brain makes its best guess 13:03 Interoception: the hidden strength of living with T1D 15:02 Awareness as both burden and advantage 18:33 Holding it in both hands: grief and gratitude together 24:09 Mindfulness as a muscle: how to start building it 25:22 The question that reframes everything: what is your goal? 29:00 Two kinds of meditation practice: relief and long-term growth 31:51 Growth is uncomfortable — and that's okay 36:18 The Zen master Hakuin story 40:34 After ecstasy, the laundry — and changing your CGM 44:44 Rage gratitude: Rob's discovery of a simple practice 47:17 Many paths to the same place: finding what works for you 48:13 Diabetes Sangha: community, retreats, and resources Resources: Diabetes Sangha — weekly meditations, newsletters, events, and retreats for people living with diabetes How Emotions Are Made by Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett — referenced by Sam on predictive processing theory and interoception Dr. Brad Liechtenstein — retreat facilitator and breath expert mentioned by Sam, works with people with chronic conditions: search "Dr. Brad Liechtenstein" or find him through naturopathic health directories

You're not exhausted because you're bad at managing stress — you're exhausted because modern life is designed to bankrupt your body's energy budget, and hormonal transitions like perimenopause make it exponentially harder to recover. Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett explains why fight-or-flight doesn't work the way you've been told, why fatigue is often confused for hunger, and what a simple check-in question can do to interrupt the shame spiral before it starts. If you've ever hated yourself for being tired, this is the science that finally puts the blame where it belongs.Dr Lisa Feldman in conversation with Sarah Ann Listen to the full episode⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Watch the full episode on YouTube ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠***This episode is sponsored by:NOWATCH: The compassionate health trackerConnecting body and mind with unique stress recovery insights so you can live fully today15% off with code LWBW15 at https://nowatch.com/Mojo: the app for expert-led courses in better sex.Learn from world-class sex therapists and relationship experts with courses tailored to your needs.15% off with code LiveWell15 at mymojo.com/livewellbewell***The Great British Veg OutHow to support your gut, energy, and hormones by eating more — not less.

Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett's neuroscience proves that emotions are predictions, not reactions. When you feel triggered, your brain accesses your childhood emotional blueprint to predict danger — not respond to the present moment. Kenny Weiss explains how to use the Emotional Authenticity Method to rewrite these predictions at their root.Are you exhausted from constantly feeling "triggered" and trying to manage and regulate your emotional environment so you don't feel overwhelmed, anxious, or angry? What if everything you've been taught about being triggered is scientifically false?In this video, we dive into the groundbreaking neuroscience of Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett to reveal why your emotions are actually predictions, not reactions. When you feel "triggered," you aren't actually reacting to your partner or your boss in the present moment. Your brain is accessing your childhood emotional blueprint and running outdated Emotional Definitions to predict danger.I break down exactly how you formed these definitions, how they trap you in the Worst-Day Cycle, and why trying to use coping skills is like trying to steer out of a deep, icy emotional sled track halfway down the hill. Finally, I will walk you through my 4-step Emotional Authenticity Method so you can activate metacognition, trace your emotions back to their roots, and rewrite your emotional blueprint neural pathways for good.You are not a victim of your triggers. You are just running outdated software.⏱️ CHAPTERS / TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 - The Myth of Being "Triggered" 1:20 - The New Neuroscience: Emotions are Predictions 2:40 - Emotional Definitions & The Worst-Day Cycle™ 14:10 - The Sled Track Metaphor (Why You Feel Stuck) 17:45 - The Emotional Authenticity Method™ (4 Steps to Heal) 28:20 - Take Your Power Back (Free AI Coaching & Assessment)

Jim talks with Samantha Sweetwater about her book True Human: Reimagining Ourselves at the End of Our World and the question of what it means to be human at this moment in planetary history. They discuss her verb-based rather than noun-based self-identity, Lisa Feldman Barrett's construction theory as a framework for understanding the entanglement of body, brain, mind, and relationship as the fabric of lived experience, Samantha's identity as a "Gaian" and humans as a creator-destroyer class of organism, the Fermi paradox and the gigantic moral freight of potentially being the only general intelligence in the universe, the meaning of the sacred and John Vervaeke's formulation that "sacred is how the world is to us when we see it through the eyes of love," Jim's own definition of the sacred as the appropriate stance toward things too complex for reductionist analysis, the metacrisis as fundamentally a crisis of separation, the four generator functions of separation including stories of separability, structures of separability, win-lose game-theoretic dynamics, and dominator ideologies, the forager operating system and Chris Boehm's account of how egalitarian societies historically defeated hierarchy, the hinge of agriculture and henchmen enabling dominator systems, Luke Kemp's Goliath's Curse and the contrast between fluid civilizations and Goliaths, role-based non-hierarchical leadership in forager societies and whether it can scale, Audrey Tang as an emergent archetype of life-centric coordination, psychedelics as allies and teachers rather than mere tools, Samantha's personal healing path through sacrament, community, and prayer, the neuroscience of heightened neural entropy and the brain's wash cycle, the ontological reframe of one's own importance, the hard problem of machine consciousness and the California Institute for Machine Consciousness, the space of minds and the n=1 problem of one planet and one biochemistry, the MoltBook experiment of AI inventing languages and religions, relationality as the core practice available to people in their actual lives, humans as a custodial species and co-orchestrators rather than dominion-holders, Tyson Yunkaporta's Sand Talk, and much more. Episode Transcript True Human: Reimagining Ourselves at the End of Our World, by Samantha Sweetwater Goliath's Curse, by Luke Kemp Sand Talk, by Tyson Yunkaporta JRS Currents 010: Tyson Yunkaporta on Humans as a Custodial Species Samantha Sweetwater is the author of True Human: Reimagining Ourselves at the End of Our World, a meta-relational educator, leadership mentor, and the founder of One Life Circle, a ministry of remembering. For over three decades, she has facilitated individual and collective transformational experiences across diverse cultures and communities on five continents. As the founder of Dancing Freedom and Peacebody Japan, she pioneered a global movement of embodied awakening and trained hundreds of facilitators worldwide. Her work bridges ecology, complexity, spirituality, and technology with lived experience, inviting a re-imagining of what it means to be human in a time of planetary techno-cultural transformation. Through teaching, writing, and attuned presence, she helps people restore relationship with their bodies, each other, and the living world as a foundation for wise action in uncertain times.

Lisa Feldman Barrett's book: How Emotions Are MadeGeorge Loewenstein study: Anticipation and the Valuation of Delayed ConsumptionConnect with Sam on LinkedIn - I share customer experience content multiple times a week, and love hearing from listeners with questions or ideas for topics.Subscribe to my newsletter, Customer Experience Patterns - I publish a new edition with each episode of the podcast.My LinkedIn Learning courses: Customer Experience: 6 Essential Foundations For Lasting Loyalty, How To Create Great Customer Experiences & Build A Customer-Centric Culture. In-depth video series that teach you how to create great experiences, and build customer-centric cultuers.Thanks to my talented colleague Emily Tolmer for the cover art. Thanks to my friends at Moon Island for the music. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Inspired by the new research article critiquing and perhaps 'debunking' polyvagal theory, we are sitting with the tension between adjusting to emerging neuroscience findings while also offering clients frameworks that genuinely help them make sense of their experiences and feelings. We talk about brain scans and bold claims that researchers sometimes make, what sounds science-y versus what actually shows up in people's psychology and physiology in session. We must translate these complex concepts to clients responsibly. At what point are we oversimplifying? Or just plain wrong? Although neither of us references the vagus nerve specifically in our therapy work, we are a little thrown. Along with the claims the author Lisa Feldman Barrett makes in her recent book, How Emotions Are Made, we wonder what other concepts we hold dear might be next on the neuroscientific chopping block. So, when you find yourself in the place where story meets science, what do you fall back on?We're taking the couch on the road! Join us between May 9th and May 24th, we'll be heading to 8 Canadian cities for a LIVE episode recording and a chance to connect with other therapists in your area. Space is limited, so snag your ticket before it's too late! For more information, visit us on Instagram @edgeofthecouchpod. We hope to see you there! Join us on Patreon for bonus content at www.patreon.com/edgeofthecouch or share your thoughts and questions via DM on Instagram, email at connect@edgeofthecouch.com, or voice note at speakpipe.com/edgeofthecouch.We have partnered with Janeapp, an all-in-one practice management software. You can learn more at Jane.app/mentalhealth. Or, if you are ready to get started, mention Edge of the Couch in the note during sign up.Alison McClearywww.woodstovewellness.caJordan Pickellwww.jordanpickellcounselling.ca@jordanpickellcounselling on InstagramEdge of the Couchwww.edgeofthecouch.com@edgeofthecouchpod on Instagram

Conflictele în relații pot fi constructive sau distructive, diferența vine din cum le abordăm. Gáspár György ne explică de ce certurile sunt inevitabile și cum le putem transforma în oportunități de creștere.Gáspár György este psiholog clinician, psihoterapeut de cuplu și autorul a șase cărți, între care și Când Conflictul Are Sens. Co-fondator al comunității Pagina de Psihologie și al Academiei de Terapie Imago din România, Gáspár folosește metoda Gottman în munca sa și este una dintre cele mai cunoscute voci care promovează sănătatea relațională în spațiul public din România.Acesta este al doilea episod dintr-un sezon dedicat relațiilor, realizat împreună cu Pagina de Psihologie. Astăzi explorăm:Miturile despre conflicte care ne sabotează relațiileGândirea liniară vs. circulară în conversații dificileCei 6 călăreți ai apocalipsei relaționale (critică, defensivitate, dispreț, împietrire, control, beligeranță)Antidoturile pentru fiecare comportament distructivCum să rămâi curios când emoțiile se intensificăDualitatea particulă-undă aplicată în relațiiResurse menționate în conversație:Cartea "Când conflictul are sens" de Gáspár György Cartea "Rising Strong" de Brené BrownCercetările lui John și Julie Gottman despre Știința RelațiilorInstrumente: Carduri de replici pentru conflicte în cuplu - Instrumente: Carduri de replici pentru conflicte părinte-adolescentIntră live alături de noi în înregistrarea episoadelor și primește răspunsuri la ce te interesează cel mai mult. Vino în Comunitatea Membrilor Mind Architect Acest episod este produs și distribuit cu susținerea PPC România. "(00:00) Introducere""(04:17) Mituri despre conflicte""(07:14) John Gottman și Terapia Imago despre conflicte în relații""(08:51) Bagajul emoțional din copilărie și conflictele""(10:06) Conflictul ca mijloc spre o formă mai bună de a fi împreună""(13:33) Perspectivele diferite și sistemul nervos""(15:44) Conflictele ca semn de vitalitate și potențial""(17:04) Emoțiile neexprimate: semn că avem conversații de purtat""(18:51) Lisa Feldman Barrett și bugetul de energie în conversații dificile""(21:16) Cum să rămâi curios când ți se apasă butoane emoționale""(23:34) Permisiunea de a greși și importanța reparării pagubelor""(26:29) Mitul despre a nu te culca supărat""(29:14) După conflict, între reconectare și nevoia de spațiu""(31:06) Strategii similare, nevoi diferite în conflict""(34:34) Exemplu Gáspár: Escaladare și reparare cu un coleg""(38:14) Strategii diferite de reconciliere: vorbim sau îngropăm?""(41:42) Dualitatea particulă-undă aplicată în relații""(44:16) Starea de undă cu energie negativă vs. colapsul în particulă""(47:44) Decizii luate din stare activată: mai bine singur""(54:35) Gândirea liniară vs. circulară în conflicte""(57:10) Subiectivitatea minții: amândoi putem avea dreptate""(01:00:00) Co-creația: cum contribuim fiecare la escaladare""(01:03:52) Exemplu: Cum nu-i dăm partenerului ocazia să contribuie""(01:06:53) Etichetele în relații și cum ne limitează ele""(01:12:07) Ce facem când celălalt minimizează și evită""(01:19:08) Echilibrul între grijă și hiper-responsabilizare""(01:23:37) Cleaning the air: Tensiunea nevorbită erodează relația""(01:29:33) Umorul în conflicte: când ajută și când rănește""(01:34:13) Cei 6 călăreți ai apocalipsei relaționale (Gottman)""(01:35:51) Critica - atacul la persoană""(01:37:41) Disprețul și Defensivitatea""(01:39:51) Împietrirea, Controlul și Beligeranța""(01:43:23) Antidot Critică: exprimarea emoțiilor și nevoilor""(01:46:29) Antidot Defensivitate: asumarea responsabilității""(01:49:32) Asumare autentică vs. Îmi pare rău""(01:54:38) Antidot Dispreț: aprecierea și admirația""(01:56:38) Antidot Împietrire: autoreglare emoțională""(01:58:41) Antidot Control: flexibilitate și pornire lină""(02:03:46) Antidot Beligeranță: ramura de măslin""(02:04:31) Poziționare în conflict copil - celălalt părinte""(02:08:25) Carduri cu replici pentru conflicte"

Beyond Belief: The Neuroscience of Reality, Perception, and the Biology of Belief Belief feels like truth. It feels earned. It feels safe. But what if your brain isn't revealing reality… it's predicting it? In this episode of Makes Sense, Dr. JC Doornick explores the neuroscience of belief and perception, revealing how the brain constructs reality inside a “dark box” using prediction, familiarity, and past experience. Drawing from modern brain science, epigenetics, the Biology of Belief, placebo research, and the work of thinkers like Lisa Feldman Barrett and Bruce Lipton, this conversation exposes how beliefs stabilize identity and calm the nervous system—while quietly limiting cognitive flexibility, curiosity, and long-term brain health. If belief is a shortcut the brain uses to reduce uncertainty, what happens when certainty becomes a prison? You'll learn how rigid beliefs shape physiology, influence gene expression, and impact longevity—and how the Interface Response System (IRS) restores choice by transforming belief from identity into hypothesis. This episode isn't about telling you what to believe.It's about helping you pause long enough to ask: Hmmm… what else might be possible? ️ MAKES SENSE with Dr. JC Doornick Welcome to Makes Sense with Dr. JC Doornick — the podcast where neuroscience, philosophy, performance, and perception converge. This show is built on a simple but disruptive truth: It's not what you do that determines your results — it's who you are while you're doing it. Each episode explores the psychology of belief, the mechanics of perception, and the power of conscious awareness through Dr. JC's Interface Response System (IRS). When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at begin to change. If you're ready to reclaim authorship of your life, sharpen your awareness, and awaken from autopilot…Welcome to the uprising of the sleepwalking masses. Resources:  Article on Open and Curious correlation to longevity - https://newsroom.ucla.edu/releases/curiosity-can-help-brain-stay-sharp-as-they-age#:~:text=If%20you're%20curious%20about,even%20other%20forms%20of%20trivia.%E2%80%9D Follow Dr. JC Doornick and the Makes Sense Academy:► Makes Sense Substack - https://drjcdoornick.substack.com ► Instagram: / drjcdoornick ►Facebook:  / makessensepodcast ►YouTube:  / drjcdoornick MAKES SENSE PODCAST Welcome to the Makes Sense with Dr. JC Doornick Podcast. This podcast explores topics that expand human consciousness and enhance performance. On the Makes Sense Podcast, we acknowledge that it's who you are that determines how well what you do works, and that perception is subjective and an acquired taste. When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at begin to change. Welcome to the uprising of the sleepwalking masses. Welcome to the Makes Sense with Dr. JC Doornick Podcast. SUBSCRIBE/RATE/REVIEW & SHARE our new podcast. FOLLOW Podcast: You will find a "Follow" button in the top right. This will enable the podcast software to alert you when a new episode launches each week. Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/makes-sense-with-dr-jc-doornick/id1730954168 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1WHfKWDDReMtrGFz4kkZs9?si=003780ca147c4aec Podcast Affiliates: Kwik Learning: Many people ask me where I get all these topics, which I've been covering for almost 15 years. I have learned to read nearly four times faster and retain information 10 times better with Kwik Learning. Learn how to learn and earn with Jim Kwik. Get his program at a special discount here: https://jimkwik.com/dragon OUR SPONSORS: Makes Sense Academy: A private mastermind and psychologically safe environment full of the Mindset and Action steps that will help you begin to thrive. The Makes Sense Academy. https://www.skool.com/makes-sense-academy/about The Sati Experience: A retreat designed for the married couple that truly loves one another, yet wants to take their love to that higher magical level. Relax, reestablish, and renew your love at the Sati Experience. https://www.satiexperience.com 0:00 - Intro 3:10 - Live Audience Attacks as Opportunities to Run the IRS 6:05 - Beyond Belief 7:18 - Live Audience Attack #2 - This guy isn;t a doctor of anything 9:32 - When we have a belief, it feels true and earned and worthy of protection. 12:31 - The Core Signal of the Day: Belief is shortcut to reduce uncertainty 13:49 - Why does the brain cling to belief? 16:48 - We don't cling to beliefs cause they are true, we cling cause they make us feel safe. 18:40 - Cognitive Flexibility 23:44 - The Reverse Inference Problem 24:42 - The Biology of Belief and Bruce Lipton 27:45 - The Placebo, nocebo, and flow burglars 30:18 - Belief and Longevity and Mental Health 32:11 - Run Belief through the IRS (Interface Response System) Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Guest IntroductionRick Griffin is the founder and CEO of the Neuro Leadership Academy, an organization dedicated to demystifying neuroscience and making it actionable for everyday life, leadership, and healing. With a master's degree in education, Rick is known for translating complex brain science into engaging, usable concepts.Before launching Neuro Leadership Academy, he spent decades as the executive director of a trauma-informed therapeutic residential program for teens, witnessing firsthand how past struggles shape present behavior. This experience ignited his passion to understand the brain's role in trauma and resilience.Rick is a renowned speaker and developer of programs used by schools, businesses, and community organizations, including the Certified Trauma-Informed Specialist micro-credential. He now focuses on writing, teaching, and designing training that applies neuroscience to leadership, learning, relationship-building, and culture, helping people move from being trauma-informed to what he calls "neuro-informed."Summary / Key Takeaways:In this enlightening conversation, Rick Griffin explains the core concept of the brain as a prediction machine. Our experiences aren't direct recordings of reality, but constructions created by our brain based on sensory input and past experiences. Its primary job is to keep us safe by asking: "Is this a threat, or is this a resource?"Key Insights:Prediction Over Perception: We don't just react to the world; our brain constantly predicts what will happen next based on past patterns to conserve energy and ensure survival.The Threat Bias: The brain's default setting leans toward predicting potential threats (e.g., "Is that something that will eat me?"). This is the root of the stress/trauma response.From Trauma-Informed to Neuro-Informed: Understanding behavior shifts from "What happened to you?" to "How is your brain preparing you for what's happening right now?" This removes blame and focuses on the brain's protective, biological function.Healing Through Prediction: Recovery—from trauma or concussion—involves helping the brain make new, safer predictions. By intentionally introducing safe, positive sensory experiences (sights, smells, sounds, connection), we can create predictions that update the brain's model of the world.Agency & The "Sensory Buffet": With 11 million sensory inputs processed every second, we have immense power to influence our state. We can "stamp" resilience into simple cues (a mint, a coin, a song) and use them to ground ourselves or others.Application to Concussion Recovery: Symptoms like brain fog, fatigue, and anxiety are not signs of a "broken" brain, but of a brain in protection mode, reallocating energy to heal. Recognizing this allows for self-compassion and intentional practices (like rest and calibrated sensory input) to support the healing process.Resources Mentioned by Rick:Book: How Emotions Are Made: The Secret Life of the Brain by Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett. This book was Rick's gateway into understanding the predictive brain.Website: Neuro-LA.com (Home of the NeuroLeadership Academy)Newsletter/Substack: Neuro Notes – Weekly articles on neuro-informed practices. Subscribe at: https://rickgriffin894.substack.comLinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/rick-griffin-nlaEmail: Rick@neuro-LA.com (He welcomes engagement and questions)Services: Rick offers keynote speaking, virtual and in-person training, workshops, and consulting for organizations. He also has a series of eBooks available. Contact him via email or his website for more information.Bethany Lewis & The Concussion Coach:Free Guide: "5 Best Ways to Support Your Loved One Dealing with a Concussion" - Download at www.theconcussioncoach.comConcussion Coaching Program: For personalized mentorship in recovery. Sign up for a free consultation HERE 

This isn't about fear, it's about awareness and prevention. The more you understand how dementia develops, the more power you have to slow it down, protect your mind, and stay sharp for decades to come.Special thanks to The Diary of a CEO.Speakers:Dr Wendy Suzuki https://www.wendysuzuki.com/Jim Kwikhttps://www.instagram.com/jimkwik/?hl=enDavid Raichlenhttps://x.com/DavidRaichlenDr. Lisa Feldman Barrett https://x.com/LFeldmanBarrettDR. Jill Bolte Taylor https://drjilltaylor.com/Dr Tara Swart https://www.taraswart.com/Music: Fablefort - WhodunitStanley Gurvich - Wandering Souls - pianoKevin Graham - From nothing everythingDEX1200 - Falling Up (Epidemic)Philip Ayers - What we discovered (Epidemic) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Visit our website BeautifulIllusions.org for a complete set of show notes and links to almost everything discussed in this episode Selected References: 4:37 - See more on Daniel Kahneman, “The Father of Behavioral Science,” at The Decision Lab 6:31 - Seven and a Half Lessons About the Brain by Lisa Feldman Barrett 6:44 - In his book, The Happiness Hypothesis, psychologist Jonathan Haidt characterizes the human mind as a partnership between separate but connected entities using the metaphor of the rider and the elephant - the rider represents all that is conscious and is the director of actions and executor of thought and long term goals, while the elephant represents all that is automatic, and often acts independently of conscious thought. 8:10 - Listen to Beautiful Illusions Episode 12 - A New Enlightenment: The Age of Cognitivism from March, 2021 9:19 - Philosophize This! 17:19 - The Myth of Sisyphus by Albert Camus 21:43 - Listen to Mindscape Episode 340 - Rebecca Newberger Goldstein on What Matters and Why It Matters 28:40 - See “Each Shuffle of a Deck of Cards is Probably Unique in History” This episode was recorded in January 2026 The “Beautiful Illusions Theme” was performed by Darron Vigliotti (guitar) and Joseph Vigliotti (drums), and was written and recorded by Darron Vigliotti

For transcriptions and more detailed shownotes, please go to: https://swordschool.shop/blogs/podcast/episode-211-embodying-martial-arts-in-an-aging-body-with-jess-finley  To support the show, come join the Patrons at  https://www.patreon.com/theswordguy The inestimable Jess Finley is back on the podcast! If you're not aware of her work, she has written a wonderful book about medieval wrestling, starred in several of my online courses, and we recently collaborated on an online course about Von Baumann's wrestling. On her Patreon account, she produces translations, interpretations, previews of books in progress and videos. She also teaches swords around the world. We start by talking about travelling with knives and guns, before moving onto the main topic, which is looking at the ways to mitigate the downsides of aging as we train and get older. One of the main things to work out is understanding the difference between discomfort and dysfunction, i.e. is this pain OK, or have I catastrophically injured myself? And at what point should I listen to the fear? We talk about what lessons a long term martial arts practice has given us in our daily lives, especially when dealing with life's big moments. Links of interest: Jess Finley on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/jessfinley/ Books and publications: https://wiktenauer.com/wiki/Jessica_Finley Von Baumann wrestling course: https://swordschool.teachable.com/p/medieval-german-wrestling-the-twirchringen-of-von-baumann How Emotions are Made, by Lisa Feldman Barrett: https://lisafeldmanbarrett.com/books/how-emotions-are-made/ The book that Jess and Guy discuss about the Olympic athletes was Howard Schatz's Athlete.

Lisa Feldman Barrett is a neuroscientist, psychologist, and author known for her groundbreaking research on how emotions are created by the brain rather than simply triggered by external events. She has challenged traditional views of emotion and helped establish new ways of understanding the construction of emotional experiences.Lisa talks about how the brain's processes can help overcome anxiety related to public speaking, and the construction of social reality.Keep up to date with Peter on SubstackKeep up to date with Kasia!Executive Producer: Rachel Barrettspecial thanks to Suzi Jamil! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dr. Bryan Denny joins us to further our understanding of emotional regulation research, particularly research that combines traditional diagnostic approaches with neurobiology. Bryan is a tenured Associate Professor in the Department of Psychological Sciences at Rice University and Director of the Translational Social Cognitive and Affective Neuroscience Lab. Bryan 's research is a fascinating complement to our book this month: Ethan Kross's SHIFT: MANAGING YOUR EMOTIONS SO THEY DON'T MANAGE YOU.Bryan's research seeks to understand the psychological and neurobiological mechanisms that underlie successful and unsuccessful emotion regulation across a spectrum of healthy and clinical populations. He is interested in utilizing the results of basic investigations into these processes in order to design and examine novel interventions focused on improving real-world emotion regulation outcomes in a variety of contexts. Bryan tells us what emotion regulation is and then explains some of the evidence-based techniques used to do so, citing Ethan Kross' book and also the work of James Gross and Lisa Feldman Barrett. He compares the cognitive basis of emotional regulation to the behaviorist tradition that once dominated psychology.Bryan tells us about his work combining cognitive research and neurobiology. Neurobiology uses technologies, such as fMRIs, to show how the brain is operating. Bryan believes there will always be a place for cognitive counseling and its techniques, such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, but that the addition of neuroscience opens up new ways of understanding emotions and creating interventions.Bryan conducts longitudinal emotion regulation research at his lab, and has recently been focusing on populations such as caregivers and bereaved persons.We loved this episode and all the information Dr. Denny shared with us. We are hopeful listeners won't be too distracted by the sometimes poor audio.

It's with a heavy heart that I'm pushing pause on PG-ish. The podcast has been going strong for over six years, and while I've learned much and grown alongside all of you, I realize that it's time for a pivot. This decision didn't happen suddenly, but rather came from a quiet and slow feeling that it was time for a change. Today I'm sharing my thought process behind this decision and the changes I'm making in my own life moving forward. I'll still be on this parenting journey with you, learning and growing and changing. The PG-ish website and all the podcast episodes will still be available, so don't hesitate to reach out any time. I look forward to this next chapter of the journey!   Fan favorite episodes (as well as my own): 241. Own your crazy spots + how to love your teenager well, featuring Lisa Damour 111. Feeling is believing, featuring Lisa Feldman Barrett 232. Love is space making, featuring Marcus Buckingham 282. Bringing love back to the heart of it, an interview with Marcus Buckingham 215. The CliffsNotes to being a badass adult, featuring Jen Sincero   As always, I'd love to hear from you! DM me on IG @pgishparenting, or you can always find me at www.pgishparenting.com.

Licensed mental health counselor and author Jill Sylvester discusses strategies and tips, along with trusting your own inner voice, to live your very best life.   Today's discussion: Guest Interview with Author and Parent Coach Laura ReardonContact Jill SylvesterFollow us on IG @jillsylvesterSend us questions or feedback at jill@jillsylvester.comFor more information or to check out our other products: www.jillsylvester.comThanks to Carl Sylvester for production, Jon Grabowski for sound engineering, Tracy Colucci for newsletter creation, and Good Health Hanover Massachusetts for sponsorship. With their support, the TYI podcast is made possible for YOU to gain personal development strategies and live your best life. Thanks for listening!

Lisa Feldman Barrett is a Canadian-American neuroscientist renowned for her pioneering work on how the brain constructs emotion through prediction. In this Moments episode, she explains how the brain doesn't simply react to the world but continually anticipates it, drawing on past experience to shape what we feel, perceive and fear. She reveals why anxiety is often a replay of old predictions - and how to rewire meaning and ease the learned patterns that keep us stuck. Listen to the full episode here: Spotify: https://g2ul0.app.link/nCVkRtwSrYb Apple: https://g2ul0.app.link/Ozv6oJzSrYb Watch the Episodes On YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/%20TheDiaryOfACEO/videos Lisa Feldman Barrett: https://lisafeldmanbarrett.com/

Descubre Cómo Entender de Verdad Un Trastorno de Ansiedad y Tomar Acción En Nuestro Curso Gratuito El Mapa de La Ansiedad: https://escuelaansiedad.com/Cursos/el-mapa-de-la-ansiedad ️ Descripción extendida del episodio – La Teoría de la Mente ¿Qué pasaría si te dijéramos que la tristeza, el enfado, o incluso el miedo… no existen como entidades universales dentro de ti? En este episodio de La Teoría de la Mente nos adentramos en una propuesta revolucionaria: la Teoría de la Emoción Construida, que desafía la visión tradicional de las emociones como reflejos biológicos automáticos, comunes a toda la humanidad. Inspirados por la obra de la neurocientífica Lisa Feldman Barrett, exploramos cómo las emociones no son reacciones innatas que “salen” automáticamente, sino construcciones que el cerebro produce a partir de: La experiencia pasada La cultura en la que vivimos El aprendizaje Las sensaciones internas del cuerpo (interocepción) ⚙️ Y la capacidad predictiva del cerebro Esta perspectiva cambia radicalmente cómo entendemos: Nuestras propias emociones El origen de trastornos como la ansiedad o la depresión La relación entre cuerpo, mente y entorno social Cómo juzgamos las emociones de los demás (¡incluso en tribunales!) ️ En lugar de ver las emociones como “programas automáticos” que se activan, esta teoría nos propone algo más complejo pero esperanzador: las emociones se construyen momento a momento, dependiendo de cómo el cerebro interpreta lo que siente y lo que espera. Esto significa que tu experiencia de "miedo", por ejemplo, no tiene por qué ser igual a la de otra persona. Y que incluso dentro de ti, puedes sentir cosas muy diferentes en contextos similares, dependiendo de cómo tu cerebro categorizó y predijo esa situación. También exploramos las implicaciones sociales y culturales de esta teoría: ¿Qué pasa si lo que una cultura llama “enfado” otra lo interpreta como “vergüenza”? ¿Cómo influye esto en la justicia, la educación o la psicoterapia? ¿Y cómo puede ayudarnos esta visión a crear nuevas formas de entender y tratar la ansiedad? Este episodio es especialmente valioso para: ✔️ Personas que luchan con su salud emocional y quieren entenderse mejor ✔️ Profesionales de la salud mental que buscan enfoques basados en ciencia actualizada ✔️ Cualquiera que haya sentido que “no encaja” emocionalmente en su entorno ✔️ Quienes quieren dejar atrás explicaciones simplistas y empezar a hacerse preguntas más profundas Acompáñanos en este viaje donde ciencia, cerebro, cultura y emociones se entrelazan para ofrecer una nueva visión de lo que somos. Porque comprender cómo construimos nuestras emociones… puede ser el primer paso para reconstruir nuestra relación con nosotros mismos. ENLACES Y RECURSOS RECOMENDADOS Nuestra escuela de ansiedad: www.escuelaansiedad.com Nuestro nuevo libro: www.elmapadelaansiedad.com Visita nuestra web: http://www.amadag.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Asociacion.Agorafobia/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amadag.psico/ ▶️ YouTube AMADAG TV: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC22fPGPhEhgiXCM7PGl68rw

Chronic illnesses are deeply intertwined with our emotions! In this episode Dr. Motley chats with Lorrie Rivers, a best-selling co-author with Deepak Chopra and Wayne Dyer, dedicated to helping individuals take control of their own health by addressing root causes of chronic conditions. Lorrie and Dr. Motley dive headlong into the ins and outs of addressing symptoms of chronic illnesses like Long Covid, how the physical and emotional influence each other, and how trauma in our genetic past can sometimes be a piece of the puzzle.  Lorrie Rivers' 4 Root Causes of Chronic Illness: →Toxins →Infections: Parasites, Lyme, EBV and more →The state of our nervous system →Our environment Books Mentioned:  Loving What Is by Byron Katie: https://shorturl.at/ywm6N When Things Fall Apart by Pema Chodron https://shorturl.at/ujOrG How Emotions Are Made by Lisa Feldman Barrett: https://shorturl.at/Luo3d Want more of The Ancient Health Podcast? Subscribe to the YouTube channel. ------  Follow Dr. Chris Motley Instagram Facebook Tik-Tok Website ------  Follow Lorrie Rivers!  https://www.instagram.com/lorrierivers lorrieriversholistic.com ------ * If you're a health coach looking to advise parents and families, or even if you're a hardcore health nerd who wants to dive deeper and take advantage of ALL Doctor Motley's clinical experience, he has a membership to help you get the most out of your health and help the people you love. Check it out for free for 15 days: doctormotley.com/15 *If you want to work with Dr. Motley virtually, you can book a discovery call with his team here: https://drmotleyconsulting.com/schedule-1333-7607 * Enjoy mineral replenishment in a shot glass. Head to beamminerals.com/DRMOTLEY and use code DRMOTLEY for 20% off!

Send in a question or comment via text.Anxiety that you cannot control, that keeps coming back, that you don't understand and are terrified of, will trick you into believing that something is really wrong. But what if that intense fear you experience—while absolutely real—is based on a prediction your brain is making that isn't actually true?In this episode, I speak with Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett, neuroscientist and author of How Emotions Are Made and 7 1/2 Lessons About The Brain about how anxiety is constructed in the brain. Dr. Barrett explains the theory of constructed emotions and how your brain uses predictive processing to create your internal experience of fear and anxiety.In this conversation, we explore:How anxiety is constructed in the brain through predictive processing, not reactive circuitsWhy your brain's primary job is managing your "body budget" and how this relates to anxietyThe difference between your experience being real versus the prediction being accurateHow your brain uses past experiences to construct categories and predict future threatsWhy anxiety disorders may involve predictions that are either too general or too specificWhat "practicing predicting differently" means and how it can help with anxiety recoveryDr. Barrett's personal experience using these principles to manage stage fright before her TED talkThe role of interoception in how your brain constructs anxietyWhy changing how anxiety is constructed in your brain is hard work that requires practiceThis conversation gets technical at times, but offers valuable insights into why anxiety feels so real and compelling, even when you're not actually in danger. Understanding how anxiety is constructed in the brain has important implications for how we approach recovery from panic disorder, agoraphobia, OCD, and other anxiety disorders.Resources mentioned:Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett's website: LisaFeldmanBarrett.comHow Emotions Are Made by Dr. Lisa Feldman BarrettDr. Barrett's TED Talk7 1/2 Lessons About The Brain by Dr Lisa Feldman BarrettFor Show Notes On This Episode:https://theanxioustruth.com/327Support The Anxious Truth: If you find the podcast helpful and want to support my work, you can buy me a coffee. Other ways to support my work like buying a book or signing up for a low cost workshop can be found on my website. None of this is never required, but always appreciated! Interested in doing therapy with me? For more information on working with me directly to overcome your anxiety, follow this link.Disclaimer: The Anxious Truth is not therapy or a replacement for therapy. Listening to The Anxious Truth does not create a therapeutic relationship between you and the host or guests of the podcast. Information here is provided for psychoeducational purposes. As always, when you have questions about your own well-being, please consult your mental health and/or medical care providers. If you are having a mental health crisis, always reach out immediately for in-person help.

We're not taught how to protect our brains.We're not taught how food, sleep, and stress shape memory and mood.We're not taught why dementia is rising or that prevention starts decades earlier.But we should be.This week's Brain Health Masterclass brings together leading neurologists, scientists, and longevity experts to explore what really keeps our minds sharp. From anxiety and PTSD to dementia, menopause, psychedelics, gut-brain connection, and even the oral microbiome, you'll learn why your daily choices matter more than you think.In this conversation, I'm joined by world-leading voices, including:Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett – neuroscientist redefining how emotions shape the brainDr. William Li – physician-scientist on food as medicine and brain regenerationDan Buettner – founder of the Blue Zones uncovering the world's longest-lived communitiesDr. Sarah McKay – neuroscientist bringing clarity to women's brain healthDr. Chris Palmer – psychiatrist linking nutrition, metabolism, and mental healthDr. Rick Doblin – pioneer in psychedelic research for trauma and healingDr. Katie Lee – oral microbiome researcher revealing surprising links to dementiaDrs. Ayesha & Dean Sherzai – neurologists on preventing Alzheimer's with lifestyleTogether we explore:- The Brain's #1 Job (It's Not What You Think)- How gut health, diet, and even flossing impact dementia risk- What Blue Zones teach us about friendship, purpose, and longevity- The myths of menopause brain fog, and the resilience science reveals- Can psychedelics safely rewire trauma circuits?- Daily habits that protect memory, mood, and cognitionLove,Sarah Ann

Lisa Feldman Barrett is a professor at Northeastern University, psychologist, and a neuroscientist. Why do we feel emotions? From happiness and joy to anger, anxiety, and sorrow, emotions shape how we experience life. But what purpose do they serve, and how can we learn to manage them more effectively? Expect to learn the unique way each of us experience emotions and if the emotions like anxiety, anger and joy feel the same as everyone else's, why we have emotions at all and what their functions are, how much of our life is actually experienced versus anticipated, how often people are mistaking dehydration, low blood sugar, or lack of sleep for 'being in a bad mood, what actually happens in an anxious brain, how to rebuild your psychological function after a period of chronic stress, and much more… Sponsors: See me on tour in America: ⁠https://chriswilliamson.live⁠ See discounts for all the products I use and recommend: https://chriswillx.com/deals Get 5 Free Travel Packs, Free Liquid Vitamin D, and more from AG1 at https://ag1.info/modernwisdom Get the brand new Whoop 5.0 and your first month for free at https://join.whoop.com/modernwisdom Get 10% discount on all Gymshark's products at https://gym.sh/modernwisdom (use code MODERNWISDOM10) Timestamps: (0:00) Are Our Emotional Experiences Unique? (5:19) What is the Role of Meaning in Emotion? (10:46) Lisa's Views on Objective Perception (19:26) Our Emotional Experiences Shouldn't Control Our Agency (23:16) The Relationship Between Our Internal Conversation and Our Emotions (30:21) Should We Be Looking Back or Investing in the Future ? (39:13) Can Memories Be Lost? (49:21) What Drives Anxiety? (01:05:56) What is the Impact of Toxic Relationships on Our Health? (01:10:54) What Does Chronic Stress Look Like? (01:16:17) How to Rebuild After a Period of Stress (01:20:39) What Can't We Control About Our Emotional State? (01:25:23) We are the Architects of Our Experiences (01:28:11) Find Out More About Lisa Extra Stuff: Get my free reading list of 100 books to read before you die: https://chriswillx.com/books Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic: https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom Episodes You Might Enjoy: #577 - David Goggins - This Is How To Master Your Life: https://tinyurl.com/43hv6y59 #712 - Dr Jordan Peterson - How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs: https://tinyurl.com/2rtz7avf #700 - Dr Andrew Huberman - The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain: https://tinyurl.com/3ccn5vkp - Get In Touch: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett explains the science of emotions and how your brain predicts your feelings. She further explains that because emotions are made and not hardwired, this means we can change them by retraining our brains. Lisa also delves into the science of prediction, the body budget, and why taking care of your physical health is one of the most powerful emotional regulation tool you have.Want tiny nudges that spark real change? Join our text list for free Good Wolf reminders - short, inspiring messages to bring you back to what's important. Sign up here!Key Takeaways:The nature of emotions from a neuroscientific perspective.The concept that emotions are constructed by the brain rather than hardwired.The brain's predictive nature and its role in emotional experience.The principle of degeneracy in neural pathways and its implications for behavior.The significance of interoception in shaping emotions and internal bodily sensations.The relationship between physical states (like hunger and fatigue) and emotional experiences.The importance of emotional granularity in identifying and labeling emotions.The connection between mood disorders and physical health.Practical strategies for emotional regulation, including mindfulness and self-care.The integration of neuroscience with philosophical perspectives on perception and experience.This episode is sponsored by AG1. Your daily health drink just got more flavorful! Our listeners will get a FREE Welcome Kit worth $76 when you subscribe, including 5 AG1 Travel Packs, a shaker, canister, and scoop! Get started today!For full show notes, click here!Connect with the show:Follow us on YouTube: @TheOneYouFeedPodSubscribe on Apple Podcasts or SpotifyFollow us on InstagramSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

En este mensaje tratamos el caso de un hombre que «descargó su conciencia» de manera anónima en nuestro sitio www.conciencia.net y nos autorizó a que lo citáramos, como sigue: «Me encuentro con mi esposa en proceso de restauración por una infidelidad que cometí con una colega de trabajo.... A la hora de elegir entre las dos, lo hice por mi esposa, y la otra chica[, por despecho,] le envió fotos y audios.... »Mi esposa y yo estamos casados por lo civil, somos padres de una niñita de siete años, y tenemos planes de casarnos por la iglesia.... Sin embargo, en estos días no puedo evitar sentirme perdido emocionalmente, muy nervioso por la decisión de casarme por la iglesia y sentir que extraño a la otra mujer.... Me imagino que, si la hubiera escogido a ella, estaría más tranquilo. ¿Qué es esto que siento, y cómo hago para vivir tranquilo?» Este es el consejo que le dio mi esposa: «Estimado amigo: »Usted dice que se siente perdido y nervioso, y quisiera más bien sentirse tranquilo. Algunos estudios científicos recientes demuestran que los sentimientos, conocidos también como las emociones, se crean en el cerebro cuando los pensamientos, las experiencias pasadas y la cultura se entrelazan.1 Por eso, para cambiar esos sentimientos creados tenemos que cambiar las partes que los crean, es decir, cambiar nuestros pensamientos sobre nosotros mismos y sobre nuestras experiencias pasadas. »Según lo que usted dice, está pensando con frecuencia en la otra mujer y la relación que tiene con ella. Usted se imagina que estaría más tranquilo si la hubiera escogido a ella en lugar de su esposa y su hija. »Hasta que no deje de cuestionar esa decisión y de tener fantasías sobre esa otra mujer y la felicidad que ella le dio, no tendrá paz alguna. Mientras que no deje de convencerse de que está perdido sin ella, tendrá cada vez más dudas acerca de su matrimonio, y esas dudas impedirán que llegue a hallar la paz. »El matrimonio es un compromiso mutuo. Cuando usted y su esposa se casaron por lo civil, usted se estaba comprometiendo con ella. Aunque no se encontraban en una iglesia, el compromiso lo hicieron en la presencia de Dios, y ante Él usted tiene la responsabilidad de cumplir esas promesas. Su Hijo Jesucristo enseñó que nadie debe separar lo que Dios ha unido.2 »Sin embargo, al parecer usted cree que casarse por la iglesia tiene más validez que casarse por lo civil. Lo cierto es que la ceremonia religiosa es igual que la ceremonia civil tanto legal como moralmente. De cualquier manera, el hombre y la mujer quedan cabalmente casados. La ceremonia en una iglesia añade una bendición formal, pero no hace que la pareja esté más casada que lo que estaba por lo civil. De modo que aun si usted y su esposa nunca llegaran a casarse por la iglesia, no dejarán de ser completamente responsables delante de Dios por el compromiso que ya hicieron.» Para leer el resto del consejo que dio Linda, mi esposa, pulse la pestaña en www.conciencia.net que dice: «Casos», y luego busque el Caso 849. Carlos ReyUn Mensaje a la Concienciawww.conciencia.net 1 Lisa Feldman Barrett, How Emotions are Made: The Secret Life of the Brain [Cómo se crean las emociones: La vida secreta del cerebro] (New York: Houghton Mifflin Harcourt, 2017). 2 Mt 19:6

Seven And A Half Lessons About The Brain From the author of How Emotions Are Made, a myth-busting primer on the brain in the tradition of Seven Brief Lessons on Physics and Astrophysics for People in a HurryHave you ever wondered why you have a brain? Let renowned neuroscientist Lisa Feldman Barrett demystify that big gray blob between your ears. In seven short essays (plus a bite-size story about how brains evolved), this slim, entertaining, and accessible collection reveals mind-expanding lessons from the front lines of neuroscience research. You'll learn where brains came from, how they're structured (and why it matters), and how yours works in tandem with other brains to create everything you experience. Along the way, you'll also learn to dismiss popular myths such as the idea of a “lizard brain” and the alleged battle between thoughts and emotions—or between nature and nurture—to determine your behavior. Want to be a guest on Book 101 Review? Send Daniel Lucas a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/17372807971394464fea5bae3 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

An elaboration on episode 49's description of the brain as a prediction engine, focusing on a theory of what emotions are, how they're learned, and how emotional experiences are constructed. Emotions like anger and fear turn out to be not that different from concepts like money or bicycle, except that the brain attends more to internal sensations than to external perceptions. If the predictive brain theory is true, the brain is stranger than we imagine; perhaps stranger than we can imagine. Main sourcesLisa Feldman Barrett, "The theory of constructed emotion: an active inference account of interoception and categorization," Social Cognitive and Affective Neuroscience, 2017.Lisa Feldman Barrett, How Emotions Are Made: The Secret Life of the Brain, 2017.Andy Clark, The Experience Machine: How Our Minds Predict and Shape Reality, 2024.Other sources"... Chemero's approach in his book Radical Embodied Cognitive Science (episode 43)...""... Clark suggests something like this in his 1997 book, Being There, covered in the unnumbered episode just before episode 41...""... Remember how, last episode, I distinctly remember driving seated on the left side of the car while in Ireland..."George A Miller, “The Magical Number Seven, Plus or Minus Two: Some Limits on our Capacity for Processing Information,” 1956. ("... replicating an experiment from 1949...")CreditsPicture of the University of Illinois Auditorium is from Vince Smith and is licensed CC BY 2.0. It was cropped.

In this episode of Diary of an Empath, I sit down with Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett, one of the world's leading experts in psychology and neuroscience, to break down the truth about emotions, mood, and how your brain really works.We explore why emotions aren't universal, how your brain is constantly predicting your feelings based on past experiences, and why your mood is a reflection of your body's internal “budget.” Dr. Barrett also shares how childhood adversity and poverty shape emotional development in ways most people don't realize.We dive deep into emotional regulation, challenging outdated views on emotions and mental health, and giving you practical insights to help you better understand yourself and the people around you.If you've ever wondered why you feel the way you do or how to manage your emotions more effectively, this conversation is for you.Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett is a Professor of Psychology, ranked among the top 0.1% of most cited scientists in the world, and the author of Seven and a Half Lessons About the Brain.Follow Dr Lisa: X - https://g2ul0.app.link/JlkAHKXhCSb Website - https://g2ul0.app.link/TWOO6vZhCSb You can purchase Dr Lisa's book, ‘Seven and a Half Lessons About the Brain', here: https://g2ul0.app.link/35oJGs4hCSbChapters00:00Exploring the Brain's Role in Mood and Emotion03:45Childhood Adversity and Its Long-term Effects08:11Understanding Mood and Body Budgeting14:30The Brain's Predictive Nature and Emotional Responses20:59Understanding the Brain's Predictive Nature28:52The Complexity of Emotions and Predictions37:00The Role of Temperament in Emotional Experience44:45Surprises in Emotional Science and Public PerceptionFor psychic readings, Astrology, Therapy or Coaching with Keresse, click below:www.therapeutichealingbyreese.comFollow me on Instagram!https://instagram.com/_keresse_?utm_medium=copy_linkFollow me on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/TherapeuticHealingByReese/TikTok:@DiaryofanEmpathpodcast

Memories appear to be constructed by plugging together stored templates. Do concepts operate the same way?SourcesSuzi Travis, "False Memories are Exactly What You Need", 2024.Lisa Feldman Barrett, "The theory of constructed emotion: an active inference account of interoception and categorization," Social Cognitive and Affective Neuroscience, 2017.CreditsImage of street warning from Dublin, Ireland, via Flickr user tunnelblick. Licensed Attribution-NonCommercial-ShareAlike 2.0 Generic.

Ever wondered why you keep falling for the wrong person? Why the butterflies in your stomach always seem to lead to heartbreak?Here's the truth:You're not broken. You've just misunderstood your own emotions.In this video, I walk you through groundbreaking research from neuroscientist Lisa Feldman Barrett—and how your childhood, trauma, and worst day cycle are writing the emotional script of your life without you even knowing it.You'll learn:Why we confuse emotional triggers with loveHow your brain predicts emotions based on past painWhy both narcissists and victims are playing out the same shame-based patternHow to finally escape the Worst Day Cycle

Send us a textWhen Marine veteran Jim Rojas found himself in an acting scene opposite Linden Ashby, something unexpected happened. Though Jim wasn't even on camera or in character, Ashby reached across with profound gratitude after the scene wrapped. This moment revealed to Jim that his lifelong mental habits—creating different versions of himself in various scenarios—had perfectly prepared him for acting. What began as childhood coping mechanisms had become a sophisticated operating system for his mind.Jim calls this "spiritual shape-shifting," and it's revolutionizing how people approach everyday challenges. At its core is the Stanislavski system—a century-old acting methodology built on seven questions that dissect any moment: Who am I? Where am I? When is it? What do I want? Why do I want it? How do I get it? What's in my way? By systematically answering these questions, actors create authentic experiences within imaginary circumstances. Jim realized these same questions could help anyone navigate real-world situations with greater awareness and effectiveness.The science backs this approach. From Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett's theory of constructed emotions to programs like Sense Theater helping autistic children understand social interactions, these techniques have proven their value far beyond the stage. Jim's "intangible toolbox"—presence, awareness, emotional regulation, empathy, critical thinking, and more—represents skills systematically taught to actors that benefit everyone.In his book "All Your Best Selves," Jim details how these performing arts techniques can transform your life anytime, anyplace, with anyone. As he powerfully states: "When we gave the world literacy for reading, it changed the world. When we gave people mathematical literacy, it changed the world. Why wouldn't it change the world if we gave people mental and emotional literacy in a systemic way?" Discover how accessing all your best selves could lead to the richer, fuller life you deserve. https://www.amazon.com/dp/1647469740/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=164743261Want to be a guest on Living the Dream with Curveball? Send Curtis Jackson a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/1628631536976x919760049303001600

Max and Matt get deep into what our emotions really are—and what we can do about them. They explore the mind-blowing science of how emotions aren't just reactions but predictions, shaped by past experience and cultural cues. Drawing from the work of Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett, they unpack why your anxiety, stress, or anger might not mean what you think it means, and how we actually have way more agency than we give ourselves credit for. From parenting triggers to intrusive thoughts, from yelling at your kids to feeling stuck in shame, they talk about how to hit pause, reset your emotional reactions, and stop being a passenger to your own feelings. Oh, and yes, they manage to fit in the Buddha, Gabor Maté, and why a toddler yelling “I tooted” might be the wisdom we all need. Let's gooo!Buy Violet Archer on Amazon HereMilkless on InstagramMilkless on TikTok

When we name a class name `Invoice`, are we communicating or thinking metaphorically? I used to think we were; now I think we aren't. This episode explains one reason: ordinary conversation frequently uses multiple metaphors when talking about some concept. Sometimes we even mix inconsistent or contradictory metaphors within the same sentence. That's not the way we use metaphorical names in programming.SourcesLakoff and Johnson, Metaphors We Live By, 1980. (I worked from the first edition; there is a second edition I haven't read.)Andy Clark, Being There: Putting Brain, Body, and World Together Again, 1997. Lisa Feldman Barrett, "The theory of constructed emotion: an active inference account of interoception and categorization," Social Cognitive and Affective Neuroscience, 2017.CreditsPicture of cats-eye marbles from Bulbapedia, the community-driven Pokémon encyclopedia.

What if your anxiety isn't fear, and your trauma might not be real? Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett reveals how your brain creates emotional illusions. Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett is a Professor of Psychology and among the top 0.1% of most cited scientists for her revolutionary research in psychology and neuroscience. She is also the author of books such as ‘Seven and a Half Lessons About the Brain'. In this conversation, Dr. Lisa and Steven discuss topics such as, how anxiety is a predictive error in the brain, the shocking truth about childhood trauma, how trauma can be contagious, and why you don't have any free will.  00:00 Intro 02:22 Lisa's Mission 04:14 Why Is It Important to Understand How the Brain Works? 10:48 Measuring Emotions 13:55 What Is the Predictive Brain? 16:08 Examples of the Brain Making Predictions 24:13 Is the Predictive Brain at the Root of Trauma? 31:27 Cultural Inheritance, Trauma, Anxiety, and Depression 36:29 How Reframing Past Events Can Change Identity 42:41 Meaning as a Consequence of Action 44:11 How to Overcome Fear by Taking Action 45:43 Prediction Error 47:37 Learning Through Exposure 49:47 Dangers of Social Contagion 54:06 Anxiety in the Context of Social Contagion 58:33 Is Social Media Programming Us to Be Sad? 1:02:08 Ads 1:03:03 First Step to Overcoming Mental Health Issues 1:05:18 Chronic Pain 1:08:23 What Is Depression? 1:09:17 Body Budgeting and Body Bankruptcy 1:12:26 How Stress Contributes to Weight Gain 1:15:00 Depression in Adolescents 1:17:02 Is Depression a Chemical Imbalance? 1:18:30 The Story of Lisa's Daughter 1:21:09 Oral Birth Control as a Risk Factor for Depression 1:24:07 How Lisa Helped Her Daughter Overcome Depression 1:29:11 Social Support 1:35:26 Lisa's Daughter's Recovery from Depression 1:39:12 Does Alcohol Affect the Body Budget and Increase Depression Risk? 1:42:45 Ads 1:44:00 Can People Change Emotions by Smiling? 1:45:49 Lisa's Perspective on ADHD 1:48:01 The Power of Words to Facilitate Emotion 1:52:26 Stress as a Burden to the Metabolic Budget 1:53:27 Lisa's View on God and Religion 1:54:25 What Is the Meaning of Life in Lisa's Opinion? 1:59:32 Question from the Previous Guest Follow Dr Lisa:  X - https://g2ul0.app.link/JlkAHKXhCSb  Website - https://g2ul0.app.link/TWOO6vZhCSb  You can purchase Dr Lisa's book, ‘Seven and a Half Lessons About the Brain', here: https://g2ul0.app.link/35oJGs4hCSb  Watch the episodes on Youtube - https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACEpisodes  The 1% Diary is back - and it won't be around for long, so act fast! https://bit.ly/1-Diary-Megaphone-ad-reads You can purchase the The Diary Of A CEO Conversation Cards: Second Edition, here: https://g2ul0.app.link/f31dsUttKKb  Sign up to receive email updates about Diary Of A CEO here: https://bit.ly/diary-of-a-ceo-yt  Ready to think like a CEO? Gain access to the 100 CEOs newsletter here: https://bit.ly/100-ceos-newsletter  Follow me: https://g2ul0.app.link/gnGqL4IsKKb Sponsors: Ekster - http://partner.ekster.com/DOAC and use code STEVEN to get an extra 10% off on top of their current Spring sale Shopify - https://shopify.com/bartlett Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a textIn this episode, Joe sits down with Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett, a leading neuroscientist and author of How Emotions Are Made, to explore groundbreaking insights on how emotions are formed and how we can better understand and regulate them. Together, they dive deep into the science behind emotions, how the brain predicts our feelings, and how we can gain more emotional agency in our personal and professional lives. Joe and Dr. Barrett cover:The theory of constructed emotions and how emotions are predictions, not reactionsThe role of the brain in regulating the body and how it shapes emotional experiencesWhy uncertainty feels like anxiety—and how to reframe itHow emotional granularity can help us build better emotional vocabulary and controlPractical steps to improve emotional regulation and decision-makingThe impact of body budgeting on mood, stress, and overall healthWhether you're leading a team, navigating personal relationships, or simply trying to better understand your emotional life, this conversation will give you powerful tools to enhance your emotional intelligence and well-being.Lisa Feldman Barrett, PhD, is among the top 0.1% most cited scientists in the world for her revolutionary research in psychology and neuroscience. She is a University Distinguished Professor of Psychology at Northeastern University. She also holds appointments at Harvard Medical School and Massachusetts General Hospital, where she is Chief Science Officer for the Center for Law, Brain & Behavior.In addition to the books Seven and a Half Lessons About the Brain and How Emotions are Made, Dr. Barrett has published over 275 peer-reviewed, scientific papers appearing in Science, Nature Neuroscience, and other top journals in psychology and cognitive neuroscience, as well as six academic volumes published by Guilford Press. She writes regularly about science in the popular press, including The New York Times, The Guardian, Scientific American, BBC Science Focus, Popular Science, Nautilus, BigThink, Cosmopolitan,  Time magazine, MIT Technology Review, and more (see full list). Her popular TED talk has been viewed over 7 million times.A Special Thanks to Our Sponsors!Veteran-founded Adyton. Step into the next generation of equipment management with Log-E by Adyton. Whether you are doing monthly inventories or preparing for deployment, Log-E is your pocket property book, giving real-time visibility into equipment status and mission readiness. Learn more about how Log-E can revolutionize your property tracking process here!Meet ROGER Bank—a modern, digital bank built for military members, by military members. With early payday, no fees, high-yield accounts, and real support, it's banking that gets you. Funds are FDIC insured through Citizens Bank of Edmond, so you can bank with confidence and peace of mind. Visit

Are human emotions universal? Or do they vary from one place to the next and from one time period to the next? It's a big question, an old question. And every discipline that's grappled with it brings its own take, its own framings and forms of evidence. Some researchers appeal to cross-cultural experiments; others turn to neuroimaging studies or conceptual analysis. Some even look to fiction. My guest today is Dr. Bradley Irish, an Associate Professor of English Literature at Arizona State University. Brad is the author of a new book, The Universality of Emotion: Perspectives from the Sciences and Humanities; in it he maps the landscape of debate around this long-contested topic. Brad is also the author of numerous articles and books on the emotions in Shakespeare's plays, as well as in the work of other early modern authors. Here, Brad and I talk about both sides of his work—his writing as an observer of cross-disciplinary debates about the universality of emotion and his writing as a scholar of literature. We sketch four prominent theories of emotions—basic emotions theory, appraisal theories, psychological construction theories, and social construction theories. We weigh the idea that some emotions are more universal than others. We talk about the role that language might play in our emotional experience. And we consider why many literary scholars tend to be deeply suspicious of claims about human universality. Along the way, Brad and I also touch on: the theory of ur-emotions, the aims of literary analysis; disgust, anger, schadenfreude, anxiety; frogs and public dissections; Shakespeare as a supposedly universal poet; and Brad's latest project on neurodiversity in literature. If you're enjoying the show, we would be most grateful if you could give us a rating or review, maybe even a shout-out on your social media platform of choice. For those who listen on Spotify, you can also now leave comments on individual episodes—which is a great way to let us know what you think. Alright friends, on to my conversation with Brad Irish. Enjoy! A transcript of this episode will be posted soon.   Notes and links 7:00 – For an example of an anti-universalist treatment from a literary scholar, see here. See also Dr. Irish's brief essay on the idea of universality in literary studies. 12:00 – For Dr. Irish's first book—on emotions in the early modern period—see here.  15:00 – For a recent review/update of the “basic emotions theory” tradition, see here.  21:00 – An influential early paper on facial expressions of emotion across cultures. A more recent, critical perspective on the relationship between facial expressions and emotions.  23:00 – For a review of social constructionist approaches to emotion, see here. 24:00 – A recent review of the “appraisal theories” of emotion. 26:00 – Psychological constructionist theories of emotion are most strongly associated with the work of Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett and colleagues. For an articulation of these views, see here. 33:00 – For more on the relationship between language and emotion, see influential recent studies here, here, and here.  39:00 – The paper introducing the concept of “ur-emotions.” 44:00 – Dr. Patrick Colm Hogan's book, What Literature Teaches Us about Emotion. 49:00 – Dr. Irish's book, Shakespeare & Disgust: The History and Science of Early Modern Revulsion. 58:00 – For an influential paper on disgust in general, see here. For more on moral disgust in particular, see here. 1:07:00 – For the idea that disgust evolved to help us avoid disease, see here. 1:15:00 – For more on the idea that fictions can be thought of as simulations of psychology and the social world, see our earlier episode on stories. 1:16:00 – For more about Dr. Irish's latest research project, see his new book, Literary Neurodiversity Studies.   Recommendations Emotion Theory: The Routledge Comprehensive Guide, edited by Andrea Scarantino   Many Minds is a project of the Diverse Intelligences Summer Institute, which is made possible by a generous grant from the John Templeton Foundation to Indiana University. The show is hosted and produced by Kensy Cooperrider, with help from Assistant Producer Urte Laukaityte and with creative support from DISI Directors Erica Cartmill and Jacob Foster. Our artwork is by Ben Oldroyd. Our transcripts are created by Sarah Dopierala. Subscribe to Many Minds on Apple, Stitcher, Spotify, Pocket Casts, Google Play, or wherever you listen to podcasts. You can also now subscribe to the Many Minds newsletter here! We welcome your comments, questions, and suggestions. Feel free to email us at: manymindspodcast@gmail.com.  For updates about the show, visit our website or follow us on Twitter (@ManyMindsPod) or Bluesky (@manymindspod.bsky.social).

Ever wonder how tracking your emotions can boost your productivity, relationships, and mental clarity? Join me this week as we dive deep into the How We Feel app — exploring the science behind it, how it rewires your brain, and why emotional awareness is so important and valuable. I use research and insights from Lisa Feldman Barrett, Daniel Goleman, Jonathan and Tristan Collins, and Marc Brackett.

Are emotions something that happen to you, or are they bodily signals we interpret? Does everyone show emotions in the same way -- that is, are there particular markers of the face or the body that always mean anger, sadness, or joy? And what does this have to do with Charles Darwin, the truth about facial expressions, or the movie Inside Out? Join Eagleman with this week's guest, neuroscientist Lisa Feldman Barrett, author of hundreds of papers and "How Emotions are Made", for a deep dive into the truth about our feelings.

On this week's episode, we are wrapping up 2024 by revisiting some of our favorite episodes of the year. This year, we spoke to some of the world's top athletes, entertainers, and experts across a variety of topics. Listen to the Best of 2024 WHOOP Podcast moments with Pro Footballer, Cristiano Ronaldo on the importance of talent and work ethic (2:06), Performance Chef, Dan Churchill on elevating performance with nutrition (4:51), Gut Health Doctor, Dr. Megan Rossi on the super 6 of the gut microbiome (9:45), Multi-Platinum Recording Artist, Mike Posner on changing your mindset and life outlook (11:53), Rock climbing Legend, Alex Honnold on visualizing risk and consequence (18:36), Psychologist and Author, Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett on the brain-body connection (21:57), 3x World Champion, Patrick Mahomes on preparation and planning (23:53), NWSL Team Co-Owner, Brittany Mahomes on training after having a baby (25:52), CEO of Parent Data and Best-Selling Author, Emily Oster on the need for parenting research (27:15), Couples therapist, Julie Mennano on the characteristics of a healthy relationship (31:02), and Global Football Star, Virgil van Dijk on navigating a leadership role (33:32). Resources:Cristiano Ronaldo - Episode 272Dan Churchill - Episode 269Dr. Megan Rossi - Episode 283Mike Posner - Episode 273Alex Honnold - Episode 264Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett - Episode 262Patrick Mahomes - Episode 287Brittany Mahomes - Episode 286Emily Oster - Episode 297Julie Mennano - Episode 278Virgil van Dijk - Episode 295Follow WHOOPwww.whoop.comTrial WHOOP for FreeInstagramTikTokXFacebookLinkedInFollow Will AhmedInstagramXLinkedInFollow Kristen HolmesInstagramLinkedInSupport the show