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This is a rich and highly engaging monologue! Here are some great options for the title, summary, and description, focusing on the core themes of self-mastery, environment, and energetic boundaries.Dissonance vs. Resonance: Tuning Your Environment and Stepping Up Your IdentityIn this tactical episode of Resonance, host Michael Trainer tackles the concept of Dissonance—the frustrating static and out-of-tune feeling that emerges when your core values and integrity aren't met by your environment or relationships.Drawing on his challenging experience while recording in Ubud, Bali, Michael unpacks how the gap between his grounded, pragmatic approach and the "maybe I'll show up, maybe I won't" culture became a powerful call to action.You will learn:The Power of Environment: Why physically changing your location (or "garden") is often the most direct and pragmatic way to reset your inner tune, especially when entering a new professional or personal phase.The Radical Reckoning: How to use tools like journaling, trusted friends, or even AI to uncover the blind spots and patterns that lead you to attract and tolerate dissonance.The Identity Manifesto: Michael shares his process for defining a new self-identity, including a declaration to stop "energizing" people and behaviors that don't share your high standards for integrity and follow-through.Confronting the Warrior's Task: How to turn dissonance into resonance by deliberately taking on the uncomfortable tasks, hard conversations, and long-avoided items that are draining your life force.Childhood Wounding as Signal: Recognizing that patterns of frustration (like constantly being flaked on) often connect back to unresolved childhood experiences, and how to use this awareness to heal and show up differently.This episode is a powerful message about holding yourself and your relationships to a higher standard, recognizing static, and intentionally cultivating the energy where your most beautiful music can play. Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

This episode is both a how-to guide and an honest reflection on resistance, ego, creativity, and the power of taking your place on the stage of your own life.TakeawaysI was sitting on this incredible content with these incredible humans.I had incredible conversations and I was in my ego about it.It kept me from singing my song.I committed in that moment that the next day I would publish my podcast.It didn't matter if two people showed up.Six years later, it has been an absolutely revolutionary act in my life. Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

In this episode of Resonance, Michael Trainer pulls back the curtain on one of the most powerful relationship strategies he's ever learned — a strategy that transformed his life, unlocked access to global leaders, and helped build world-class communities and movements.He calls it The Anchor Strategy.At its core, the Anchor Strategy is simple:Create an offering so valuable that extraordinary people naturally orbit around it.Michael shares how this principle guided him from building Global Citizen to hosting His Holiness the Dalai Lama for his 80th birthday, to facilitating sold-out conversations with Deepak Chopra, Eckhart Tolle, Gabby Bernstein, Marie Forleo, and more.You'll hear the story of:how a 30-day meditation practice inspired him to host the Dalai Lamahow that one anchor created momentum he couldn't have imaginedhow the anchor of a single event led to hosting Deepak & Eckharthow a podcast becomes an anchor for world-class conversationshow anchors transform asks into meaningful offeringshow aligning altruistic impact with enlightened self-interest opens doorsand why being an offering is the most powerful frame for modern connectionMichael also breaks down:✔ how to use events and experiences as magnetizing anchors✔ how to build momentum by inviting people into something meaningful✔ how a podcast becomes an anchor for relationship building✔ how to transform cold outreach into a warm invitation✔ why being of value attracts people you once thought unreachable✔ and why the best ways to build relationships are not transactionalWhether you're building community, launching a platform, creating a movement, or simply trying to connect more deeply, the Anchor Strategy gives you a timeless blueprint for exponential relationships.This is the physics of human connection.This is how you build a life of resonance. Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

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TakeawaysCreating epic experiences is essential for building relationships.Having an invitation ready can facilitate connections.Being a convener allows for exponential relationship growth.Shared experiences create a sense of belonging.Hosting dinners can lead to incredible relationships.Invite people to events to foster community.The act of inviting can lead to unforeseen opportunities.Relationships often develop from casual gatherings.Showing care through invitations enhances social bonds.Creating experiences is a valuable investment of time.Sound Bites"Always have an invitation in your back pocket.""You don't do it for transactional value.""Show up and show that you care." Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

Show NotesTheme: Integrity and alignment between words and actions.Key Question: Who are you when no one's watching?Location: Recorded in Bali.Takeaway: Integrity isn't about perfection — it's about consistency. Each time you show up for yourself, you reinforce trust within and around you.Quote from the Episode:“We build all our external relationships from the relationship we have with ourselves. And that begins with being our word.”Reflection Prompt:Where in your life are you out of integrity with your word?What is one small action you can take today to realign?Connect:Follow Michael on Instagram @michaeltrainerJoin the Resonance newsletter for upcoming episodes and reflections. Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

TakeawaysThere were periods in my life where I was deeply alone.I associated people with trauma and was deeply afraid of people.I transcended that and realized that people can be great medicine.People can also be distractions or toxic.If you choose wisely, it will guide you in the right direction.We are pack animals longing for connection to the group.Listen to the inner instrument to the inner music.Relationships can be complex and multifaceted.Connection is essential for personal growth and healing.Choosing the right people is crucial for well-being.Sound Bites"I was deeply alone and afraid of people.""People can be great medicine.""People can also be distractions or toxic." Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

Get Resonance: The Art and Science of Human ConnectionTakeawaysYou have to be out of your house.All the magic happens outside of our comfort zone.We put ourselves out into the world of possibility.Entering unknown worlds leads to personal growth.Stepping outside comfort zones reveals unrealized potential.Magic happens when we embrace the unknown.Exploration is key to discovering new experiences.Personal growth requires taking risks.The world is full of possibilities waiting to be explored.Embracing discomfort can lead to transformative experiences.Sound Bites"You have to be out of your house.""All the magic happens outside of our comfort zone.""We enter into worlds previously unknown." Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

Get Resonance: The Art and Science of Human ConnectionTakeawaysAlign your vision with core values to attract support.Big visions can mobilize significant resources.Creating impactful experiences requires thoughtful planning.Notable figures are drawn to bold, meaningful visions.Reciprocity is a powerful tool in building support.Events should resonate with both audience and participants.Visionary leadership can lead to exponential growth.Authentic connections are key to successful collaborations.Purpose-driven events create lasting memories.Vision can transform ordinary events into extraordinary experiences.Sound bites"Align your vision with core values." "Big visions mobilize resources." "Create impactful experiences." "Notable figures love bold visions." "Reciprocity builds support." "Events should resonate with audiences." "Visionary leadership drives growth." "Authentic connections are key." "Purpose-driven events last." "Vision transforms experiences."Chapters00:00:00 Introduction to Visionary Leadership00:00:00 Aligning Vision with Core Values00:00:00 Mobilizing Resources and Support00:00:00 Creating Impactful Experiences00:00:00 The Power of Reciprocity00:00:00 Visionary Event Planning Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

Get Resonance: The Art and Science of Human ConnectionTakeawaysOne of the revolutionary acts is to become a signal in the noise.Reducing clutter helps us reconnect with our true selves.Listening is essential for personal growth.We must be attentive to what wants to live within us.Self-discovery is a journey of reducing excess.Finding clarity in chaos is crucial for well-being.The act of listening can lead to profound insights.Personal growth requires intentionality and focus.We can cultivate a deeper understanding of ourselves.Embracing simplicity can enhance our lives.Sound Bites"Becoming a signal in the noise""Reduce the clutter, the excess""Be in the listening for what wants to live" Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

Preorder Resonance: The Art and Science of Human ConnectionTakeawaysWe get to create the space literally and figuratively for those we want to call in.Creating space within our environments is essential for inviting others.It's important to honor those we want to join us.Reflect on whether you are creating space for others.Occupied space can hinder the formation of relationships.Clearing space is necessary to overcome obstacles in relationships.Life-changing contexts often require intentional space creation.The physical environment influences our ability to connect with others.Creating space is a beautiful lesson in personal growth.Relationships flourish when we make room for them.TitlesCreating Space for Connection Sound Bites"we get to create the space literally and figuratively""what are the ways in which we can create space""Are you creating the space for others to join you?" Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

Preorder my book Resonance: The Art of Science of Human ConnectionTakeawaysChoose your environment wisely for better relationships.Intentionality is key in building meaningful connections.Your surroundings influence your personal growth.Plant yourself where you can thrive.Seek environments that align with your values.Relationships are shaped by where you spend your time.The right environment attracts the right people.Be mindful of transient places for long-term goals.Nourish your relational soil for growth.Align your environment with your vision. Sound bites"Choose your environment wisely." "Intentionality is key." "Plant yourself where you thrive." "Align with your values." "Nourish your relational soil." "The right environment attracts." "Be mindful of transient places." "Your surroundings influence growth." "Seek environments that align." "Relationships are shaped by time."Chapters 00:00:00 Introduction to Resonance00:00:00 The Importance of Environment00:00:00 Intentionality in Relationships00:00:00 Choosing the Right Garden00:00:00 Aligning with Values00:00:00 Nourishing Relational Soil Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

Pre-order my new book Resonance: The Art and Science of Human ConnectionTakeawaysWe have unique songs from millions of years of evolution.Our existence is a miracle that should be celebrated.Relationships can unlock exponential possibilities.The beauty of life is expressed through our connections.Each person contributes to the collective song of humanity.The grace of existence is a gift we should cherish.Human relationships are fundamental to our growth.The potential for beauty in relationships is immense.Understanding our evolution helps us appreciate our connections.Every relationship has the potential to be beautiful. Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

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https://getmte.com/?ref=MICHAELuse code: Michael at checkout for 15% off clean energyTakeawaysEnergy powers the world, both literally and figuratively.Sleep is foundational to health and well-being.MTE offers energizing benefits without the jitters of caffeine.The supplement industry is fragmented, lacking comprehensive solutions.MTE combines energy with mood enhancement and gut health support.The origin of MTE was driven by a personal need for better energy solutions.Assessing energy inputs and outputs is crucial for thriving.Relationships can either drain or energize us.It's important to nurture connections that support our well-being.Thriving requires both adding positive elements and removing negative ones.Sound Bites"What powers the world is energy.""MTE is a new kind of energy.""There's nothing out there that does it."Chapters00:00Setting the Scene: Light and Location00:00Life Transitions: Moving and Family Connections00:01The Genesis of MTE: A New Energy Solution02:13The Importance of Sleep and Gut Health04:40Caffeine vs. MTE: A Personal Journey07:08The Evolution of Energy Supplements09:47Cultural Shifts: Alcohol and Social Norms12:06The Future of Energy Consumption14:55Personal Experiences: The Cost-Benefit Analysis of Substances23:21The Sacred Coca Leaf and Its Benefits25:34MTE: A Clean Energy Alternative27:20The Genesis of MTE: Addressing Energy Depletion30:02Ingredients for Thriving: The MTE Formula37:02The Origin Story of MTE41:30The Life Audit: Energy Givers vs. Takers58:35Navigating Changing Relationships01:01:25Evolving Personal Celebrations01:03:01Assessing Life's Energy Sources01:05:57The Importance of Clean Energy01:07:52Finding Connection in a Busy World01:07:56The Art of Human Connection01:08:42The Search for Meaningful Relationships

Biological dentistry connects oral health to overall body health. Mercury fillings can have long-term health impacts. The SMART technique is crucial for safe mercury removal. Functional medicine complements biological dentistry. Oral bacteria can affect heart and brain health. Biological dentistry uses bioinert materials. The mouth is a gateway to the body's health. Preventive care is key in biological dentistry. Biological dentistry is less than 5% of global practice. Education is vital for spreading biological dentistry.Sound Bites:"Biological dentistry connects mouth and body." "Mercury removal is crucial for health." "Oral health impacts heart and brain." "Bioinert materials are safer." "Education spreads biological dentistry."Chapters:Introduction to Biological Dentistry (00:00:00)Overview of biological dentistry and its principles.Mercury and Health Risks (00:01:26)Discussion on the health impacts of mercury fillings and the SMART technique.Functional Medicine and Dentistry (00:05:57)How functional medicine complements biological dentistry.Guest: Dr. Mora, a leading expert in biological dentistryCall to Action: Subscribe now to stay updated on the latest episodes and insights into holistic health practices.Hashtags: #BiologicalDentistry #HolisticHealth #OralHealth #FunctionalMedicine

TakeawaysAnniversaries evoke a mix of emotions, both joyful and sad.It's important to reflect on our feelings rather than repress them.Family experiences create lasting memories that are invaluable.Achievement is less about what we do and more about who we are.The journey of caring for a loved one can be profoundly challenging.Visioning the future helps us align our goals with our values.Eulogy goals focus on meaningful life experiences rather than achievements.Compassion for ourselves is essential in our personal growth.We often underestimate what we can achieve in a decade.Creating a fulfilling life involves celebrating the moments that matter.Sound Bites"We have to fortify our inner world.""How can we bring more compassion to ourselves?""What is the cake you're looking to enjoy?"Chapters00:00Reflections on Anniversaries and Emotions02:34The Journey of Hosting the Dalai Lama05:04Lessons from Family and Love08:11Visioning the Next Decade11:52Eulogy Goals vs. Resume Goals14:23Creating a Life of Fulfillment

Visit Dr. Loveless at BridgeView Dental: https://visit.bridgeviewdental.com/TakeawaysBreathing through the nose releases nitric oxide, improving oxygen exchange.Mouth breathing can lead to health issues like sleep apnea and heart disease.Periodontal disease affects nearly half of the US population, often without symptoms.Bacteria from the mouth can enter the bloodstream and impact heart health.Inflammation is a key factor in many chronic diseases, including Alzheimer's.Oral hygiene practices like tongue scraping and water flossing are essential.Regular dental check-ups are crucial for preventing periodontal disease.Mouth taping can improve sleep quality by promoting nasal breathing.The microbiome of the mouth is as important as that of the gut.Maintaining a balanced oral environment can prevent systemic health issues. Invest in a high-quality toothbrush for effective cleaning.Proper brushing technique is essential for oral health.The mouth serves as a gateway to overall health.Jaw alignment affects the entire body, including the spine.Breathing through the nose is crucial for jaw development.Mouth breathing can lead to dental issues and TMJ.Holistic health considers the interconnectedness of body systems.TMJ can cause migraines and other symptoms.Muscle tension in the jaw can lead to chronic pain.Early intervention in dental health can prevent future issues. Wisdom teeth can be retained if they are not causing harm.Infrared imaging is a valuable tool for detecting cavities.Cavities are infections that can spread to other teeth.Removing wisdom teeth can prevent future dental issues.Gum health is crucial for aesthetic dentistry.Veneers can significantly improve the appearance of teeth.Aesthetic procedures should consider the overall gum line.Dental choices should be made with long-term care in mind.Modern dental materials can enhance the durability and appearance of restorations.Consulting with a trusted dentist is essential for making informed decisions.Sound Bites"Breathing through the nose releases nitric oxide.""Mouth breathing can lead to health issues.""Bacteria from the mouth can enter the bloodstream.""Inflammation is a key factor in many chronic diseases.""Maintaining a balanced oral environment is key.""The microbiome of the mouth is crucial for health.""Tongue scraping is essential for oral hygiene.""Mouth taping can improve sleep quality.""Regular dental check-ups are crucial.""Invest in a really good toothbrush.""Your teeth are going through a car wash.""The mouth is the entryway to our overall system.""I want to treat my mouth with respect.""Everything is linked.""Most pain in the body is coming from muscle issues."Chapters00:00The Connection Between Oral Health and Overall Health12:06Breath, Sleep, and Heart Health22:09The Microbiome of the Mouth and Its Impact38:24Practical Tips for Optimal Oral Hygiene39:51The Importance of Proper Oral Hygiene45:09Understanding the Mouth as a Gateway to Health47:30The Connection Between Jaw Health and Overall Wellbeing56:35The Impact of Breathing on Jaw and Dental Health01:05:00The Interconnectedness of Body Systems and Holistic Health 

Toxic places, toxic relationships, I am committed to letting them go.

Michael Trainer (00:01.292)Welcome to peak mind. your host Michael trainer. And today I want to talk about relational dynamics and the balance that is necessitated in our relating. And for me, you know, I studied years ago with the traditional healer in Sri Lanka, and he said to me that health is the heart rhythm. It's the, it's the rhythm of the heart and That became so poignantly clear to me when I thought about being in utero and the fact that for nine months, the thing that defines our reality in the darkness of the womb is the beating of the heart. And we all share this heartbeat, right? From birth till death, there is a miracle which is the beating of our hearts. And that heart is always in relationship with the world. If we get anxious, it beats faster. When we calm, it beats slower. It's the rhythm section. It's the rhythm section for our life's music. And the people that we meet bring in the other instruments. They're like the, you know, the guitar, they're the piano. And when we're in harmony, The sound is beautiful. But if we don't take care of the heart and the rhythm of the heart, if we're not mindful of it, we lose our way, we lose our balance and we get out of tune. And one thing that was hugely clarifying for me was I realized actually, you know, society tells you you're an introvert or you're an extrovert. And I found that I was both. I absolutely need to be alone and recharge and I absolutely need to be social and get energized from being around nutritious people. And then I learned that there's something called an Ambervert which is both an introvert and an extrovert and one enables the other. And it was so clear to me this weekend when I was at a conference and meeting with people and around new energies and stimuli. Michael Trainer (02:29.524)and quote unquote networking, but really just connecting with people, but new people. And for 12 hours a day, today I was actually meant to fly. And I was like, you know what? No, I can't. I need to just be at home and ground. I need to go to the water. I need to find my center. I need to tune my instrument. I need to get back in rhythm with my heart. So that when I get back out with people, I am in an amazing way. And I think when we don't take care of our instrument, we don't take care of our heart, we don't pay attention to those signals, that's when we get out of balance. And in Sri Lanka, where I live with this healer that I had the great fortune of studying with, when someone got profoundly out of balance, it was actually the role of the community from sunset to sunrise to richly recreate through this elaborate and beautiful ritual. their shared cosmological worldview and elaborate fire dancing, flower offerings, dance, drama. The person was placed in the center and it all rotated around them. And slowly the collective brought them back into the rhythm of the community, back into the rhythm of the collective heartbeat. And in that is health. because we are inextricably linked. And we live in a fallacy that we are kind of islands on a hill, we are individuals. And while there are beautiful aspects to our individuality, there's also a biological imperative. are connected, we are interdependent. And so to tune yourself into the collective heartbeat, but also to know when to withdraw when you need to do your own tuning so that you can play beautifully with others. This dance I think is not often talked about, but is so important. And so for my ambroverts out there, for those that both are introverts and extroverts, I think it's so beautiful to recognize where the bridges are and to be in the listening for your bridge. Michael Trainer (04:54.526)and to find the way to stay in the rhythm, your rhythm. And for me, it's knowing when I'm getting a little too much noise and I need to return the signal. And today was an exact exemplification of that. I canceled the flight, I stayed home, I got a nap in, I got a workout in, I went to Barton Springs and went in the water. And that combination served me. I'm now... My cup is more full, I'm gonna get an early night's sleep. Tomorrow I'll be ready to get back in the world. So do the things, my friends, that keep you in your center so that you can connect beautifully to others when you are out in the world. But know also when you need to retreat to take care of yourself. Sending so much love, I'll talk to you tomorrow.  

TakeawaysFocus on who you get to be in social settings.Move with intention but without expectation.Stay in your own energy and presence.Acknowledge others authentically for who they are.Avoid being swayed by the currents of the situation.Recognize the beauty in others' presence.Engage in conversations that evoke genuine connection.Share your truth and stay true to your values.The power of acknowledgment can build strong relationships.Sending love and positivity enhances connections.Sound Bites"Who do we get to be?"Chapters00:00Reflections on Connection and Presence02:53The Power of Authentic Acknowledgment

Welcome to peak mind. I'm your host Michael trainer. And today's episode is going to be a short but powerful one. And it is the message to show up and stay in the fight even when you don't feel like it. And I'm using fight here metaphorically. But tonight I got home 10 o'clock. after a 12 hour day with a massive amount of socializing, what would traditionally be called networking, et cetera. And I am exhausted, like feet ache, brain done, et cetera. And I committed to do a podcast every day. And so I thought what more better topic. Because through the course of today, there were probably five or six times I felt like going home. And it was tempting. I wanted to come home. I wanted to sit on the sofa, turn on Netflix, and just zone out. And not that there would have been anything wrong with that, but I had so many epic connections that I would not have made had I listened to my initial impulse to go home. And I share that because I think many of us face moments where we are, we want to just give in. We want to listen to the call of our comfort. And sometimes that is appropriate, but I would argue that if you can find a way to grab a brief window of respite. So for me, instead of going home, I went outside. put my feet on the grass and I absorbed the sun and I let myself rest. I calmed my nervous system. And taking that brief rest was enough for me to get back in the game. Back in the fight, so to speak. And I'm so glad I did because I wound up having an epic 12 plus hour day connecting to incredible humans, likely some future business partners, future friends that I would not have made had I Michael Trainer (02:26.09)Listen to that inner call to go home that introvert aspect of me that that calls for me to to retreat now there are definitely times days where Recharging is called for so this is not to say never rest There are days. I just spend as an ambervert alone to recharge. I go to the Barton Springs or I go to the ocean I take time to tend to myself, to honor myself and to be in silence. And those are beautiful times. But today was a day of connection, a day of getting out there, meeting people, a conference surrounded by people I respect, peers, people who have shared a line interests. And oftentimes those environments can be overwhelming. But when we take the time and practice the tools of re-centering ourselves, we can get back in to the context of connection. And in this world starved for human connection, it's an incredibly powerful act to not go for the proximate connection we can find in our telephone, and instead to stay in the act of meeting new people and finding shared resonance, which I did time and time again. And when you do that, you also build momentum. the world providence comes up to greet you and more people will come up to you and conversations will get easier and you'll uncover uncommon common ground. And that's what happens when we stay in the commitment to that music that wants to live in the space between us and other people. And so my friends, today's a short but sweet episode to share. Stay in the song. Stay in the song, stay committed to the music because you never know the beautiful harmony that will come to live on the other side of your commitment.  

TakeawaysToday marks the anniversary of my father's death.He was a stand for joy and forgiveness.I carry his ashes with me to sacred places.His life was dedicated to family and service.Death brings us face to face with our own mortality.Those who go before us illuminate the darkness.Confronting death offers opportunities for rebirth.Time is precious and should not be taken for granted.Family, education, and travel are my true north.Love is all there truly is.Sound Bites"How do we say goodbye?"Chapters00:00A Personal Tribute: Remembering My Father04:11Reflections on Legacy and Mortality08:51Lessons in Love and Family Values

TakeawaysKeep going on the dreams that you hold close to your hearts.Resistance can often hinder our progress, but perseverance is key.Creating a relational bucket list can enhance your life experiences.It's important to share adventures with people you love.Writing down your goals can help manifest them into reality.Accountability partners can help you achieve your dreams.Consider the experiences you want to have at different life stages.Don't let dreams just live on your vision board; make them real.Seize each moment and season of life with intention.Creating meaningful connections is essential for a fulfilling life.Sound Bites"Create a relational bucket list."Chapters00:00The Journey of Writing and Overcoming Resistance02:55Creating a Relational Bucket List

TakeawaysTuning your own instrument is essential for healthy relationships.Self-care practices help maintain emotional balance.Walking and being in nature are effective tuning practices.Finding personal tools for re-centering is crucial.Authentic relationships provide support during tough times.Loneliness is a significant issue in modern society.Having a few trusted friends is invaluable for emotional health.Direct communication in friendships fosters deeper connections.It's important to choose relationships wisely.Regularly revisiting your tuning practices can enhance well-being.Sound Bites"Tuning your own instrument first."Chapters00:00Tuning Your Instrument: The Core Principle02:51Finding Your Practices and Tools06:06Building Authentic Relationships

TakeawaysWhat are you optimizing for in life?Many live by societal programming expectations.Eulogy goals focus on authentic living.Quality experiences with loved ones are priceless.Partnership is a core focus for fulfillment.Choosing the right environment impacts relationships.Living with the idea of imminent death can inspire action.Investing in health is crucial for long-term well-being.To attract a partner, embody the qualities you seek.Self-reflection is key to aligning actions with values.Sound Bites"What are your values?"Chapters00:00What Are You Optimizing For?03:04Eulogy Goals vs. Resume Goals06:00The Journey Towards Partnership

TakeawaysAll of life exists beyond our comfort zone.Travel can confront fears and lead to personal growth.Modern life often contradicts health and wellbeing.Moments of grief can catalyze individuation processes.Rites of passage are lacking in contemporary culture.Creating personal rituals can help mark life transitions.Finding home can be about connection, not just location.Nature and community are vital for personal fulfillment.Courage is essential for stepping into the unknown.Embracing discomfort can lead to beautiful opportunities.Sound Bites"All of life exists beyond our comfort zone."Chapters00:00Embracing the Unknown: The Journey Beyond Comfort Zones03:07The Power of Travel and Transformation05:53Rituals of Individuation and Life Transitions

TakeawaysTrust that the dark is here for a reason.There's always darkness before the dawn.We have to confront our fears, our nightmares.Our power transcends the fear.Finding gratitude can shift our perspective.The sun eventually rises after the darkest nights.Reach out to loved ones when feeling overwhelmed.True friends are revealed in dark times.Physical movement can help confront fears.Maintain hope and healthy habits during tough times.Sound Bites"The sun eventually rises."Chapters00:00Trusting in the Dark02:54Confronting Fears and Finding Light

TakeawaysYour primary relationship is the most important decision.Where you choose to live has profound consequences.The quality of your environment affects your relationships.Consider factors like proximity to nature and culture.Multiculturalism and diversity can enhance your life experience.Intellectual stimulation is crucial for personal growth.Authentic spirituality enriches your life.Trial and error is part of finding the right place.Reflect on what resonates with you in your living space.Finding your ideal place can lead to a more fulfilling life.Sound Bites"What garden are you planted in?""What resonates with me?""Go try a place before you commit."

TakeawaysAuthentic comments can lead to unexpected futures.Listening is key to building meaningful relationships.Every interaction is an opportunity for growth.Spontaneity can lead to profound connections.We often miss opportunities by not engaging with others.Being present allows for deeper conversations.Life is a series of choose-your-own-adventure moments.Expectations can hinder authentic connections.Compliments can open doors to new relationships.Embrace the magic of connecting with strangers."We often take ourselves too seriously."Chapters00:00The Art of Authentic Connection05:09Listening to Life's Signs09:20Embracing Spontaneity in Conversations

TakeawaysWe often shun the notion of death in our culture.Creating rituals can help us appreciate little deaths.Without little deaths, new growth cannot occur.Letting go of mediocre aspects of life is essential.Self-worth influences our ability to attract and hold what we desire.Inner work is crucial for personal transformation.Transforming pain into compost allows for new growth.Fire can be a powerful ally in the release process.Ceremonial practices can aid in letting go.Rebirth is possible when we create space for new beginnings.Sound Bites"Fire is an incredible ally in releasing.""We get to do that, my friends."Chapters00:00Embracing Little Deaths02:56The Courage to Let Go05:52Transformative Rituals for Release10:12Rebirth and Renewal through Ceremony

TakeawaysDissonance represents discord and unharmonious relationships.Resonance is a harmonious connection that enhances our experience.Interjecting in dissonance can provide support and awareness.It's important to choose where to focus our resonance.We should not ignore dissonance but learn to dance with it.Finding our unique music is crucial for personal growth.Certain environments nurture our growth better than others.Dissonance can be transformed into spiritual compost for new growth.We must develop our inner awareness to navigate dissonance.Choosing to amplify our signal can lead to profound consequences.Chapters00:00Understanding Resonance and Dissonance03:16Interjecting in Dissonance06:11Finding Your Unique Music08:25Transforming Dissonance into Growth

TakeawaysThe power in relationships is found in the edit.We must eliminate distractions to focus our energy.Authentic connections arise from being in our center.Life is about finding and committing to full 'yes' moments.We should be ruthless in our discernment of what we keep in our lives.Settling for mediocrity prevents us from experiencing greatness.A life edit can lead to profound personal growth.We attract better relationships when we clear our energy.It's essential to remove anything that doesn't resonate with us.Living authentically requires a commitment to our true selves.Sound Bites"What can you remove from your life?""I want to hear your music."Chapters00:00The Power of Less is More02:49Eliminating Clutter for Authentic Connections06:04The Journey to a Full 'Yes' Life

TakeawaysWe often focus on things we have no influence over.Focusing on our zone of influence expands our impact.Creating win-win relationships is essential for growth.Our beingness attracts what we desire in life.We must tend to our own garden before seeking relationships.Distractions can dilute our power and influence.The societal belief of 'doing to have' is backwards.Being at cause is crucial for personal transformation.We can realize unlimited possibilities through our being.Building relationships starts with embodying the qualities we seek.Sound Bites"We want to find win-win opportunities.""We lose our power, we lose our mojo."Chapters00:00The Importance of Responsibility02:46Zone of Influence vs. Zone of Concern05:57Creating Win-Win Relationships08:46Beingness as the Source of Attraction

TakeawaysFinding your watering hole is essential for building relationships.Shared experiences in epic places are the true currency of life.Places have music, and people have music that resonates with each other.Compatibility in relationships often stems from shared interests in places.The energy of a place can enhance the spirit of your relationships.Identifying your unique resonance helps in finding your tribe.Common ground can be found in shared experiences and interests.Being in the right place can lead to meaningful connections.Relationships are interdependent and influenced by context.Creating experiences that evoke harmony is key to deepening relationships. Chapters00:00Introduction to Epic Relationships00:29Finding Your Watering Hole03:27The Resonance of Places and People05:51Shared Experiences and Compatibility

TakeawaysIntegrity is about aligning actions with values.We often sabotage relationships if we don't feel worthy.Reflecting on our mortality can guide our choices.Life rises to the standard we hold for ourselves.Our relationships reflect our inner worth.It's important to get back on track after setbacks.The people we surround ourselves with shape our lives.Self-reflection is key to personal growth.Earning our place in life requires commitment.What no longer serves us should be let go.TitlesEarning Your Place in LifeSound Bites"Am I a good man?""What are our eulogy goals?"Chapters00:00Building Life-Changing Relationships Through Integrity07:24The Importance of Worthiness in Relationships11:55Reflecting on Integrity and Core Values

TakeawaysBeing a convener allows for exponential possibilities.Shared experiences are the true currency of our time.Eulogy goals focus on meaningful relationships, not achievements.Creating a relational bucket list can enhance life satisfaction.The act of convening is about giving, not receiving.Intentional gatherings can create lasting memories.Community is forged through shared experiences and rituals.The magic of convening lies in the connections formed.We should confront our fears by bringing joy to others.Life is about the moments shared with loved ones.TitlesThe Power of Convening: Creating Meaningful ConnectionsSound Bites"You want to make it about them.""What are your eulogy goals?"Chapters00:00The Art of Convening: Creating Connections06:17The Currency of Shared Experiences09:12Eulogy Goals vs. Resume Goals: A Life of Meaning

TakeawaysTaking time for silence enhances relationship quality.Loneliness often occurs in crowded spaces without connection.Resetting emotional thermostats is crucial for healthy relationships.Tuning oneself allows for better relational resonance.Creating alone time is essential for self-discovery.Nature can serve as a powerful source of rejuvenation.Establishing boundaries helps maintain personal energy.People are drawn to those who are centered and self-aware.Chasing relationships can lead to losing personal power.Tuning the self is key to attracting meaningful connections.Sound Bites"Take time by yourself in silence."Chapters00:00The Paradox of Silence in Relationships02:51Tuning the Instrument of Self06:06Attracting Meaningful Connections

TakeawaysThe principle of life and relationship edits is crucial for personal growth.Our culture often prioritizes acquiring more rather than finding fulfillment in less.Creating space for what inspires us is essential for a fulfilling life.The metaphor of music illustrates the importance of finding harmony in our lives.Editing out what doesn't serve us is a revolutionary act.Reflecting on our relationships can reveal what truly uplifts us.Sometimes, we need to let go of fun things that aren't aligned with our values.Personal growth often requires stepping back from old patterns and environments.Creating space can lead to new and meaningful experiences.Listening to our inner desires is key to living authentically.Sound Bites"It's about the life and relationship edits."Chapters00:00The Principle of Life and Relationship Edits03:02Creating Space for Fulfillment05:51Reflecting on Relationships and Personal Growth

TakeawaysConfronting fears is essential for personal growth.Traumas can be transformed into gifts for others.Community and connection are vital for healing.Pain can lead to beauty and new growth.Healing is a personal journey, not a prescribed path.Authentic storytelling fosters deep connections.Challenges often hold the key to our unique gifts.Transmutation of challenges can inspire others.Vulnerability engenders trust in relationships.We are all interconnected and interdependent.Sound Bites"Pain is the horse that beauty rides.""Healing lives in you."Chapters00:00The Hero's Journey: Confronting Fear03:02Transforming Trauma into Gifts05:47The Power of Connection and Community09:08Healing Through Storytelling11:56Transmutation: Turning Challenges into Beauty

TakeawaysRelationships are one of the greatest teachers.Good relationships can enhance our authentic selves.Consider how to make connections exponential.Being a convener can create value for others.Intentional gatherings can lead to deeper connections.Always have a go-to invitation for new connections.Creating experiences can lead to transformational outcomes.Sowing seeds of connection leads to reciprocity.Exponential thinking can multiply opportunities.Be a source of joy and great experiences.Sound Bites"Be the convener of people."Chapters00:00Introduction to Be Exponential02:52The Power of Connection06:09Creating Transformational Experiences

TakeawaysAlways have an invitation on hand to foster connections.Shared experiences are the greatest currency in relationships.Surrendering control can lead to beautiful experiences.Inviting others creates opportunities for connection.99.9% of people will accept an invitation to an experience.Creating a go-to invitation is a powerful tool.Everyone, regardless of status, desires beautiful experiences.Health and time are essential for a rich life.Trust in the power of invitations to build relationships.Shared experiences with loved ones enrich life.Sound Bites"99.9% of times that's a yes."Chapters00:00The Power of Invitations02:55Creating Shared Experiences05:50Building Exceptional Relationships

TakeawaysMorning practices can amplify relationships.Reaching out to someone can brighten their day.Authentic acknowledgments foster deeper connections.Sending a note without expectation is powerful.Daily outreach can lead to more relational possibilities.Kindness can create a ripple effect in your life.Handwritten notes are a rare and cherished gesture.Voice notes can be a quick way to connect.Building relationships requires consistent effort.Gratitude is one of the greatest gifts you can give.TitlesSound Bites"Make this a daily practice."Chapters00:00Introduction to Fast Friday Tips00:31The Power of Morning Practices02:24Building Relationships Through Thoughtful Outreach05:20The Ripple Effect of Kindness

TakeawaysDemarcating special moments enhances relationships.Creating personal rituals can deepen connections.Shared experiences are the true currency of life.Spring symbolizes new beginnings and opportunities.Collective memories strengthen familial bonds.Health and time are our greatest resources.Rituals can be created around any meaningful event.Look for opportunities to gather with loved ones.Consecrated experiences lead to lasting memories.Invite others to participate in creating traditions.Sound Bites"What are the events in your life?"Chapters00:00Creating Meaningful Connections Through Rituals07:08The Importance of Shared Experiences in Relationships

TakeawaysNo is one of the most powerful words you can have.Saying no can feel challenging, especially for people pleasers.Establishing boundaries is crucial for healthy relationships.A clear no can serve as an exit strategy in difficult situations.It's important to not take shit while doing no harm.We will encounter tests and challenges in life.Setting firm boundaries is essential for self-protection.Being in relationship with our no is vital for trust.Peace and strength can coexist in our lives.Getting comfortable with your no is a beautiful gift.Sound Bites"Saying no can feel challenging.""Do no harm, but take no shit.""Get comfortable with your no."Chapters00:00The Power of Saying No12:20The Warrior Archetype and Boundaries

TakeawaysCourage is essential for authentic relationships.Difficult conversations strengthen connections.Feedback is a gift that true friends offer.Setting boundaries is crucial for self-respect.The willingness to be uncomfortable leads to growth.Direct communication prevents misunderstandings.People who flake may not value your time.Creating space for conversations is important.Listening is key to effective communication.Courageous conversations can transform relationships.Sound Bites"The courage of speaking your truth.""Embrace having the hard conversations."Chapters00:00The Courage to Speak Your Truth02:54Navigating Difficult Conversations06:13The Importance of Feedback in Relationships09:05Setting Boundaries and Expectations11:54Creating Space for Courageous Conversations

TakeawaysConsistency is key in all areas of life.Nurturing relationships is essential for growth.Taking the first step is crucial for progress.There may not be a next year for your dreams.Embrace the music that wants to live through you.Building life-changing relationships is a journey.Authenticity comes from sharing your truth.The act of singing your song is valuable in itself.Inner applause is more fulfilling than external validation.We're all on a journey of self-discovery and expression.Sound Bites"Consistency is king."Chapters00:00Celebrating 300 Episodes: A Journey of Consistency02:54The Music That Wants to Live Through You05:52Embracing Your Authentic Voice and Song

TakeawaysRelationships reflect our inner sense of worthiness.We live in a world filled with abundance.Self-limiting beliefs can hinder our relationships.Cultivating a relationship with self is essential.The people we attract mirror our inner landscape.Finding time for reflection is crucial for growth.Listening to our inner voice is a revolutionary act.Choosing the right relationships can lead to exponential growth.Saying no to good opportunities opens space for great ones.Tuning our inner instruments helps us find meaningful connections.Sound Bites"We all have a band out there.""If it's not a hell yes, it's a no."Chapters00:00The Inner Game of Relationships02:57Cultivating Worthiness and Abundance05:51The Sunday Reset: A Time for Reflection08:45Finding Your Band: The Power of Connection

TakeawaysConstructing an ideal inner circle is crucial for personal growth.Discernment is essential in distinguishing between nourishing and toxic relationships.Seductive distractions can lead us away from our true path.Personal responsibility is key in relationship choices.We must evaluate if people in our lives nurture our vision.It's important to recognize our weaknesses to avoid manipulation.We should strive to be 'unfuckable with' in our choices.The grass is not always greener; discernment is needed.Alcohol can attract seductive distractions that misalign with our goals.Investing in aligned relationships enhances our journey.TitlesNavigating Your Inner CircleThe Art of Discernment in RelationshipsSound Bites"How we construct our ideal inner circle.""We want to make ourselves unfuckable with.""Can we be a stand for our greater purpose?"Chapters00:00Constructing Your Ideal Inner Circle02:17Beware of False Prophets05:42The Seductive Distractions09:33Discernment in Relationships

TakeawaysThe art of boundaries is essential for healthy relationships.Discernment in relationships helps identify energetic reciprocity.We must hold our relationships to a certain standard.Letting go of good relationships can be necessary for growth.Surrounding ourselves with like-minded individuals is crucial.Creating space for new energies allows for personal evolution.Communicating our needs from a place of love fosters connection.We must embody the standards we wish to see in others.Self-awareness is key to recognizing non-resonant relationships.Finding our community involves tuning into our true selves.Sound Bites"The art of boundaries is essential.""We create space for new energetics to enter.""What is the standard that we are a stand for?"Chapters00:00The Importance of Boundaries in Relationships10:04Letting Go of Non-Resonant Relationships15:55Creating Space for New Energies