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Tonight in Uluwatu, under the brightest supermoon we'll see for the next 17 years, I dropped into a powerful download about the future of Resonance — and about the future of human connection itself.In this episode, I share:✨ Why full moons act as natural rites of passage

Today on Resonance, I'm coming to you from Uluwatu with a message about the power of editing — not in the sense of doing more, but in the courageous act of removing what no longer serves. Culturally, we're taught that happiness comes from accumulation: more doing, more having, more striving. But in relationships, and in our own inner world, the truth is often the opposite. Fulfillment lives in subtraction.I share a recent real-world experience with someone who showed all the signs of connection on the surface, but ultimately revealed a deeper pattern of gaslighting, blame, and energetic misalignment. It forced me to confront something I've carried since childhood: the impulse to abandon myself for harmony, to take responsibility for emotions that aren't mine, and to stay connected to people who haven't earned the privilege of my presence.In this episode, I dive into why we repeat lessons until we claim the boundary we've been avoiding, how unresolved inner voices manifest in the people we attract, and why editing your relational field is essential for stepping into the next chapter of your life. Most importantly, I share how facing discomfort without numbing it is part of becoming the integrated man I choose to be — one aligned with resonance, partnership, family, and true integrity.If it's not a full yes, it's a no. Boundaries are love. Editing is liberation. And every person we release creates the space for the people who are truly meant to walk with us. Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

In today's episode of Resonance, Michael Trainer broadcasts from Uluwatu, Bali to unpack one of the most overlooked superpowers in modern life: commitment.At a time when flakiness has become normalized and integrity is increasingly rare, Michael explores why honoring your commitments is the cornerstone of both self-trust and relational depth. From navigating a last-minute Wi-Fi crisis to honoring a 30-day daily publishing challenge, he shares a firsthand story of choosing integrity over convenience—and the identity shift that choice reinforces.Michael zooms out to look at how traditional cultures, tribal structures, and Dunbar's number remind us that we are fundamentally interdependent. In an era hyper-focused on the individual, he makes the case for reclaiming a “we-centered” mindset, where honoring your word becomes an offering to the collective.You'll hear how commitment builds internal power, why integrity creates momentum for your dreams, and how following through on his first book opened the portal to his second. This is a call to revisit your promises—to yourself and others—and remember that your words are seeds. When tended, they grow gardens. When neglected, they leave deserts.A grounded, potent reminder: keep watering what you've planted. Your future is listening. Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

In today's episode of Resonance, Michael delivers a powerful reminder: who you are being shapes every relationship, opportunity, and experience in your life. We live in a culture obsessed with doing and having—more success, more status, more external markers of worth. But none of it matters if our state of being isn't aligned with the life we're trying to create.Michael shares how his own initiatory process has required shedding old patterns, confronting shadows, and embodying a deeper level of grounded, conscious presence—one capable of holding the vision he has for his next chapter, his work, and future partnership.You'll learn why the world reflects your internal state, how to identify when your external results are mismatched with who you want to become, and what it looks like to act “as if” you are already the version of yourself capable of receiving what you desire.This is an invitation to step into the person your future is calling forward—today. Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

In this liminal moment between Ubud and Uluwatu, Michael Trainer reflects on a profound series of downloads:a Thanksgiving future-self meditation, a deep Vedic astrology reading, a life chapter of karmic stripping-away, and the sudden, crystalline vision of his next book about initiation.Speaking from the jungle, on the eve of his movement to the cliffs and horizon line, Michael explores:Initiation as a life path — the lived rites of passage, dissolutions, and sacred encounters that have shaped himThe emergence of Book Two — a non-traditional memoir weaving the magic, the teachings, and the soul-level story of becomingKarmic fires and pruning — leaving homes, releasing illusions, and discovering the true gardens where his seed is meant to growAstro-cartography and destiny — how place, soil, and timing shape flourishingThe call to root — recognizing that partnership, family, and deeper embodiment require a home baseMen's work and purpose — the rising need for rites of passage, belonging, and grounded masculine presenceThe spirit of Bali — gratitude for the ceremonies, ancestors, and guardians of this land during a powerful 10-day windowThis episode is a transmission from the threshold—a moment of honoring the insight, metabolizing the lessons, and preparing for the next life chapter. It's a message about becoming the vessel that can hold the vision you are meant to birth.If you're standing at a crossroads, shedding old skins, or seeking the garden where you are meant to flourish, this one will resonate. Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

In this Thanksgiving reflection, Michael invites you into the liminal space—the quiet between the notes where meaning, magic, and clarity live.Drawing on a powerful future-self meditation and a week-long vision fast on California's Lost Coast, he shares how deep listening changes the way we perceive the world—and ourselves. From native traditions of fasting for vision to the way nature sharpens our senses when we strip away noise, Michael explores how true gratitude arises when we become receptive rather than directive.You'll hear:Why gratitude is more than a practice—it's a signal-clearingHow the “space between the notes” (Debussy/Miles Davis) reveals the essence of lifeWhat a future-self meditation can teach us about legacyHow nature attunes the nervous system to clarityThe magic that arrives when we enter the world with reverence and listeningWhy real wealth is time, health, sunlight, breath, and presenceFrom Ubud's morning rain to bathing in the Lost Coast waterfalls, Michael recounts the moments where the world speaks—if we are quiet enough to listen.On this day of thanks, this episode is an invitation to:Put your feet on the earthLet your breath slowListen for what your life is asking of youAnd remember that gratitude is the root of a life well-livedSending you presence, warmth, and deep gratitude.Happy Thanksgiving. Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

High-value relationships are built on trust — and few things erode trust faster than sloppy introductions.In this short tactical episode, Michael shares why the double opt-in is the gold standard for making introductions at the highest levels. He walks through a striking real-world example of a podcast guest who asked for introductions to some of his most sacred relationships — including global spiritual leaders — without providing context, value, or rapport.You'll learn:What a double opt-in introduction actually isWhy it protects all relationships involvedHow poor introductions silently drain social capitalThe right way to respond when someone asks you for a connectionA simple script you can use to make value-forward, pressure-free introductionsHow to avoid the “ghosting loop” that happens when you introduce people without consentThis is a masterclass in relational intelligence — and once you learn it, you'll never introduce people the old way again. Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

What if the best opportunities in your life were sitting just a few feet to the left of where everyone else is looking?In today's episode, Michael shares a counterintuitive but wildly effective relationship strategy inspired by his 40-day drive through 11 national parks during the pandemic. While exploring Yosemite, he realized that almost everyone flocks to the valley—while the equally majestic Tuolumne Meadows sits nearly empty.That insight became a guiding principle:When it comes to connection, go where no one else is.The less crowded place is the most powerful place.**In this episode, you'll learn:Why approaching speakers after a talk is the worst time to connectHow to meet people in moments where their guard is down and their humanity is upHow to leverage allies, friends, and gatekeepers instead of chasing the spotlightWhy serendipity is a strategy, not an accidentHow to create meaningful, memorable gestures that cut through the noiseThis is your blueprint for becoming the pleasant surprise in someone's life—the unexpected presence that opens doors, sparks relationships, and creates the kind of resonance that changes everything. Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

In today's episode, Michael reveals the exact strategy he uses to connect with high-performing, hard-to-reach humans: always make your ask an offer.This simple shift transforms your outreach from transactional to magnetic—and dramatically increases your likelihood of receiving a meaningful response.You'll learn:Why most asks fail (and how to avoid the “pick your brain” trap)The neuroscience of why personalized offers create instant rapportHow to research someone's deepest values—and speak directly to themThe Hot Ones principle: surprise people with depthWhy offering unique experiences is more powerful than credentialsHow Michael built relationships with Moby, Flea, No Doubt, Woody Harrelson, and moreThe “Wolf Connection” example you can model in your own outreachWhy making it easy to say no actually increases your chance of getting a yesHow to follow up in a way that builds connection rather than pressureHow Michael is using this method to book 50–100 podcast appearances for his book RESONANCEHow to leave “a flower at the door” instead of an energetic tangleThis is one of the most practical and transformative relationship tools in the Resonance Method. Use it well. Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

In a world filled with distractions and societal pressures, finding and stepping into your true identity can feel like a monumental task. In this enlightening podcast episode, Michael Trainer shares profound insights on the importance of individuation, using personal anecdotes and timeless wisdom to guide listeners on their journey to self-discovery. **Understanding Individuation**  Michael Trainer opens the discussion by emphasizing the significance of drawing a line in the sand and embracing the identity that resonates with us. He recalls advice from his leadership coach, Peter Roche, who reminded him that we are the lead actors in our own movies. This metaphor encourages listeners to take control of their narratives, embodying the characters they aspire to be, such as the king, the warrior, or the lover. These archetypes have been part of human storytelling for centuries, and recognizing them can help us align with our deepest desires. **The Traditional Rite of Passage**  Trainer reflects on the historical processes of individuation, where young men and women were guided through challenging rites of passage by elders. These experiences often required courage and a confrontation with fears, leading to a new identity and a profound sense of belonging. Unfortunately, in today's convenience-oriented culture, these traditional connections and rites of passage are often missing, leaving many feeling stuck in their childhood narratives and unprepared for adulthood. **The Importance of Letting Go**  To fully embrace our potential, Trainer stresses the need to let go of old stories that no longer serve us. He shares a personal experience of slipping and injuring his wrist, using this incident as a metaphor for the importance of paying attention to life's signals. He highlights how injuries can teach us valuable lessons about health, patience, and resilience. In moments of struggle, we are reminded to reflect on our paths and take responsibility for our choices. **Finding Your Purpose**  The conversation then shifts to the significance of stepping into our purpose, or Dharma. Trainer explains that when we neglect our true calling, life can feel chaotic and unsteady. However, when we stand firm in our convictions and embrace our roles within our communities, we can navigate challenges with greater ease. This self-awareness leads to empowerment, allowing us to transition from one life stage to another, whether it's from maiden to mother or prince to king. **Community and Support**  Michael shares his own journey of individuation, which included participating in men's work with his father and engaging in transformative programs like the Mankind Project. He emphasizes the importance of community in this process, as being witnessed by others can facilitate growth and healing. However, he also acknowledges that not everyone has access to such experiences. Therefore, he encourages listeners to seek out mentors and peers who can inspire and challenge them to rise to their full potential. **Commitment to Growth**  As Trainer reflects on his own life, he recognizes the need to surround himself with individuals who push him forward, not just those who provide comfort. He shares his commitment to returning to a supportive community in Austin, Texas, where he plans to embark on a new chapter in 2026, focusing on personal growth and the birthing of a new book. This commitment, while daunting, represents a significant step in his journey toward individuation. What happens when you finally decide to stop playing small?In this intimate solo episode, Michael dives into the ancient and deeply human process of individuation—the moment you step out of the outdated version of yourself and into the role you were always meant to inhabit.Drawing on wisdom from his leadership mentor, Peter Roche, and archetypes from myth and psychology, Michael explores why so many of us are living out childhood stories long after they've expired… and what it takes to cross the threshold into your next chapter.He shares a recent personal moment—a literal fall—that became a metaphor for the ways life tries to get our attention when we're not stepping fully into our gifts, purpose, and power.You'll hear:Why you're the lead actor in your own storyThe archetypes (King, Warrior, Magician, Lover) that shape your identityHow ancient rites of passage forged adults who could protect communityWhat happens when we avoid the identity we're called to liveHow injury, setback, or friction can be a spiritual signalWhy strong peers and “iron sharpens iron” relationships matterThe difference between karma and dharmaWhy stepping into your bigness is not arrogance but responsibilityMichael's commitment to a new chapter—and an invitation to begin your ownIf you've been feeling the pull toward a bigger life, deeper purpose, truer relationships, or a more courageous version of yourself… this episode is your line in the sand.**Conclusion: Key Takeaways**  Michael Trainer's podcast serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of stepping into our true identities and the role of community in our journeys. Key takeaways include:- Embrace the idea that you are the lead actor in your life and have the power to shape your narrative.- Recognize the value of traditional rites of passage and seek out ways to create your own.- Let go of stories that no longer serve you and focus on your true purpose.- Surround yourself with a community that inspires growth and pushes you to reach your potential.- Commit to continuous personal development and be willing to embrace new chapters in your life. Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

When you expand your vision, you expand your relationships.In this episode, Michael explores the idea that “your relationships will move commensurate with your vision… and the bigger your vision, the bigger your relationships.” Whether you're called to a quiet, simple life or you feel a pull toward building something much larger than yourself, your “why” shapes who shows up in your world.Michael shares:How compelling vision and story helped him co-create Global Citizen and attract allies like Bill Fold (Coachella), the Foo Fighters, the Black Keys, and FedExThe neuroscience and ancient roots of why we're all still wired for campfire storiesHow events, podcasts, and books become “relationship engines” instead of just projectsThe Dalai Lama event that drew in Forrest Whitaker, Roland, and a whole constellation of unexpected collaboratorsWhy he doesn't identify as an “event producer,” but continues to create events for causes bigger than himselfHow Resonance is becoming a platform for human connection in an age of lonelinessA simple but powerful idea: always have an invitation in your back pocketHe closes with a beautiful story of a woman who met her husband at one of his gatherings—reminding us that when you bring people together around a meaningful vision, lives can literally change.You'll walk away with:A new way to think about vision—not just as a personal goal, but as a social magnetPractical ideas for turning your vision into platforms (podcasts, events, salons, books) that attract aligned peopleReflection questions to clarify your own “why” and the relationships you want to build Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

“The tragedy of life is not that it ends so soon, but that we wait so long to begin it.” – W.M. LewisIn this solo episode, Michael reflects on the ways we delay the life that's calling us. He shares how he waited years to launch this very podcast and over a decade to write his book, Resonance, and what finally helped him get out of his own way.Drawing on Steven Pressfield's The War of Art and Elizabeth Gilbert's Big Magic, he explores the idea of the “muse” – that creative force that wants to move through us – and the counterforce Pressfield calls “resistance.” He weaves in stories from elders facing the end of their lives, including a man who had never once been met at the airport, and contrasts that with memories of his father, a man who always showed up.In this conversation, you'll hear about:Why we wait so long to begin the life that's meant for usThe muse, resistance, and how to finally start dancing with your creative callingThe difference between résumé goals and eulogy goalsWhat elders' regrets can teach us about how to live nowWhy relationships — the people who would pick you up at 2 a.m. — matter more than anythingThis is an invitation to stop postponing your real life, to sing your unique song, and to surround yourself with the people who help you play it beautifully. Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

In this deeply resonant episode, Michael explores the second brain — the gut — and how its subtle signals can reveal more about our relationships than logic ever could.He shares a recent encounter in Bali that reminded him of one powerful truth:if it's not a full “yes,” it's often a “no.”You'll hear how the body tells us which connections are nourishing, which are neutral, and which quietly erode our energy. Michael explains why we ignore red flags, how to recognize the difference between signal and noise, and why people who leave us energized are invitations worth accepting.This episode is a reminder to trust the intelligence within you — to follow the feeling, honor the subtle cues, and invest in the relationships that invest back.Perfect for anyone seeking deeper clarity in dating, friendship, or life direction. Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

In today's episode, recorded live from Ubud, Bali, Michael shares a powerful, real-life moment of pure resonance — the kind of unexpected human connection that stops you in your tracks and reminds you of the magic that's possible when you're fully present.After a day spent walking through Bali's ceremonial offerings and reconnecting with his own inner rhythm, Michael experiences an effortless, deeply attuned connection with a stranger — one that reawakens the truth of what resonance feels like.In this intimate story, he explores:how to recognize when someone is “playing your song”why the nervous system knows resonance before the mind doeshow to approach new connections with courage, curiosity, and integritythe difference between dissonant relationships and aligned oneswhy small acts of openness lead to entire worlds of possibilityThis episode is a reminder that the relationships meant for you cannot miss you — and that the magic we want is waiting on the other side of presence, self-trust, and a single courageous moment. Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

This is a rich and highly engaging monologue! Here are some great options for the title, summary, and description, focusing on the core themes of self-mastery, environment, and energetic boundaries.Dissonance vs. Resonance: Tuning Your Environment and Stepping Up Your IdentityIn this tactical episode of Resonance, host Michael Trainer tackles the concept of Dissonance—the frustrating static and out-of-tune feeling that emerges when your core values and integrity aren't met by your environment or relationships.Drawing on his challenging experience while recording in Ubud, Bali, Michael unpacks how the gap between his grounded, pragmatic approach and the "maybe I'll show up, maybe I won't" culture became a powerful call to action.You will learn:The Power of Environment: Why physically changing your location (or "garden") is often the most direct and pragmatic way to reset your inner tune, especially when entering a new professional or personal phase.The Radical Reckoning: How to use tools like journaling, trusted friends, or even AI to uncover the blind spots and patterns that lead you to attract and tolerate dissonance.The Identity Manifesto: Michael shares his process for defining a new self-identity, including a declaration to stop "energizing" people and behaviors that don't share your high standards for integrity and follow-through.Confronting the Warrior's Task: How to turn dissonance into resonance by deliberately taking on the uncomfortable tasks, hard conversations, and long-avoided items that are draining your life force.Childhood Wounding as Signal: Recognizing that patterns of frustration (like constantly being flaked on) often connect back to unresolved childhood experiences, and how to use this awareness to heal and show up differently.This episode is a powerful message about holding yourself and your relationships to a higher standard, recognizing static, and intentionally cultivating the energy where your most beautiful music can play. Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

This episode is both a how-to guide and an honest reflection on resistance, ego, creativity, and the power of taking your place on the stage of your own life.TakeawaysI was sitting on this incredible content with these incredible humans.I had incredible conversations and I was in my ego about it.It kept me from singing my song.I committed in that moment that the next day I would publish my podcast.It didn't matter if two people showed up.Six years later, it has been an absolutely revolutionary act in my life. Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

In this episode of Resonance, Michael Trainer pulls back the curtain on one of the most powerful relationship strategies he's ever learned — a strategy that transformed his life, unlocked access to global leaders, and helped build world-class communities and movements.He calls it The Anchor Strategy.At its core, the Anchor Strategy is simple:Create an offering so valuable that extraordinary people naturally orbit around it.Michael shares how this principle guided him from building Global Citizen to hosting His Holiness the Dalai Lama for his 80th birthday, to facilitating sold-out conversations with Deepak Chopra, Eckhart Tolle, Gabby Bernstein, Marie Forleo, and more.You'll hear the story of:how a 30-day meditation practice inspired him to host the Dalai Lamahow that one anchor created momentum he couldn't have imaginedhow the anchor of a single event led to hosting Deepak & Eckharthow a podcast becomes an anchor for world-class conversationshow anchors transform asks into meaningful offeringshow aligning altruistic impact with enlightened self-interest opens doorsand why being an offering is the most powerful frame for modern connectionMichael also breaks down:✔ how to use events and experiences as magnetizing anchors✔ how to build momentum by inviting people into something meaningful✔ how a podcast becomes an anchor for relationship building✔ how to transform cold outreach into a warm invitation✔ why being of value attracts people you once thought unreachable✔ and why the best ways to build relationships are not transactionalWhether you're building community, launching a platform, creating a movement, or simply trying to connect more deeply, the Anchor Strategy gives you a timeless blueprint for exponential relationships.This is the physics of human connection.This is how you build a life of resonance. Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

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TakeawaysCreating epic experiences is essential for building relationships.Having an invitation ready can facilitate connections.Being a convener allows for exponential relationship growth.Shared experiences create a sense of belonging.Hosting dinners can lead to incredible relationships.Invite people to events to foster community.The act of inviting can lead to unforeseen opportunities.Relationships often develop from casual gatherings.Showing care through invitations enhances social bonds.Creating experiences is a valuable investment of time.Sound Bites"Always have an invitation in your back pocket.""You don't do it for transactional value.""Show up and show that you care." Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

Show NotesTheme: Integrity and alignment between words and actions.Key Question: Who are you when no one's watching?Location: Recorded in Bali.Takeaway: Integrity isn't about perfection — it's about consistency. Each time you show up for yourself, you reinforce trust within and around you.Quote from the Episode:“We build all our external relationships from the relationship we have with ourselves. And that begins with being our word.”Reflection Prompt:Where in your life are you out of integrity with your word?What is one small action you can take today to realign?Connect:Follow Michael on Instagram @michaeltrainerJoin the Resonance newsletter for upcoming episodes and reflections. Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

TakeawaysThere were periods in my life where I was deeply alone.I associated people with trauma and was deeply afraid of people.I transcended that and realized that people can be great medicine.People can also be distractions or toxic.If you choose wisely, it will guide you in the right direction.We are pack animals longing for connection to the group.Listen to the inner instrument to the inner music.Relationships can be complex and multifaceted.Connection is essential for personal growth and healing.Choosing the right people is crucial for well-being.Sound Bites"I was deeply alone and afraid of people.""People can be great medicine.""People can also be distractions or toxic." Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

Get Resonance: The Art and Science of Human ConnectionTakeawaysYou have to be out of your house.All the magic happens outside of our comfort zone.We put ourselves out into the world of possibility.Entering unknown worlds leads to personal growth.Stepping outside comfort zones reveals unrealized potential.Magic happens when we embrace the unknown.Exploration is key to discovering new experiences.Personal growth requires taking risks.The world is full of possibilities waiting to be explored.Embracing discomfort can lead to transformative experiences.Sound Bites"You have to be out of your house.""All the magic happens outside of our comfort zone.""We enter into worlds previously unknown." Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

Get Resonance: The Art and Science of Human ConnectionTakeawaysAlign your vision with core values to attract support.Big visions can mobilize significant resources.Creating impactful experiences requires thoughtful planning.Notable figures are drawn to bold, meaningful visions.Reciprocity is a powerful tool in building support.Events should resonate with both audience and participants.Visionary leadership can lead to exponential growth.Authentic connections are key to successful collaborations.Purpose-driven events create lasting memories.Vision can transform ordinary events into extraordinary experiences.Sound bites"Align your vision with core values." "Big visions mobilize resources." "Create impactful experiences." "Notable figures love bold visions." "Reciprocity builds support." "Events should resonate with audiences." "Visionary leadership drives growth." "Authentic connections are key." "Purpose-driven events last." "Vision transforms experiences."Chapters00:00:00 Introduction to Visionary Leadership00:00:00 Aligning Vision with Core Values00:00:00 Mobilizing Resources and Support00:00:00 Creating Impactful Experiences00:00:00 The Power of Reciprocity00:00:00 Visionary Event Planning Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

Get Resonance: The Art and Science of Human ConnectionTakeawaysOne of the revolutionary acts is to become a signal in the noise.Reducing clutter helps us reconnect with our true selves.Listening is essential for personal growth.We must be attentive to what wants to live within us.Self-discovery is a journey of reducing excess.Finding clarity in chaos is crucial for well-being.The act of listening can lead to profound insights.Personal growth requires intentionality and focus.We can cultivate a deeper understanding of ourselves.Embracing simplicity can enhance our lives.Sound Bites"Becoming a signal in the noise""Reduce the clutter, the excess""Be in the listening for what wants to live" Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

Preorder Resonance: The Art and Science of Human ConnectionTakeawaysWe get to create the space literally and figuratively for those we want to call in.Creating space within our environments is essential for inviting others.It's important to honor those we want to join us.Reflect on whether you are creating space for others.Occupied space can hinder the formation of relationships.Clearing space is necessary to overcome obstacles in relationships.Life-changing contexts often require intentional space creation.The physical environment influences our ability to connect with others.Creating space is a beautiful lesson in personal growth.Relationships flourish when we make room for them.TitlesCreating Space for Connection Sound Bites"we get to create the space literally and figuratively""what are the ways in which we can create space""Are you creating the space for others to join you?" Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

Preorder my book Resonance: The Art of Science of Human ConnectionTakeawaysChoose your environment wisely for better relationships.Intentionality is key in building meaningful connections.Your surroundings influence your personal growth.Plant yourself where you can thrive.Seek environments that align with your values.Relationships are shaped by where you spend your time.The right environment attracts the right people.Be mindful of transient places for long-term goals.Nourish your relational soil for growth.Align your environment with your vision. Sound bites"Choose your environment wisely." "Intentionality is key." "Plant yourself where you thrive." "Align with your values." "Nourish your relational soil." "The right environment attracts." "Be mindful of transient places." "Your surroundings influence growth." "Seek environments that align." "Relationships are shaped by time."Chapters 00:00:00 Introduction to Resonance00:00:00 The Importance of Environment00:00:00 Intentionality in Relationships00:00:00 Choosing the Right Garden00:00:00 Aligning with Values00:00:00 Nourishing Relational Soil Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

Pre-order my new book Resonance: The Art and Science of Human ConnectionTakeawaysWe have unique songs from millions of years of evolution.Our existence is a miracle that should be celebrated.Relationships can unlock exponential possibilities.The beauty of life is expressed through our connections.Each person contributes to the collective song of humanity.The grace of existence is a gift we should cherish.Human relationships are fundamental to our growth.The potential for beauty in relationships is immense.Understanding our evolution helps us appreciate our connections.Every relationship has the potential to be beautiful. Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

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Biological dentistry connects oral health to overall body health. Mercury fillings can have long-term health impacts. The SMART technique is crucial for safe mercury removal. Functional medicine complements biological dentistry. Oral bacteria can affect heart and brain health. Biological dentistry uses bioinert materials. The mouth is a gateway to the body's health. Preventive care is key in biological dentistry. Biological dentistry is less than 5% of global practice. Education is vital for spreading biological dentistry.Sound Bites:"Biological dentistry connects mouth and body." "Mercury removal is crucial for health." "Oral health impacts heart and brain." "Bioinert materials are safer." "Education spreads biological dentistry."Chapters:Introduction to Biological Dentistry (00:00:00)Overview of biological dentistry and its principles.Mercury and Health Risks (00:01:26)Discussion on the health impacts of mercury fillings and the SMART technique.Functional Medicine and Dentistry (00:05:57)How functional medicine complements biological dentistry.Guest: Dr. Mora, a leading expert in biological dentistryCall to Action: Subscribe now to stay updated on the latest episodes and insights into holistic health practices.Hashtags: #BiologicalDentistry #HolisticHealth #OralHealth #FunctionalMedicine

TakeawaysAnniversaries evoke a mix of emotions, both joyful and sad.It's important to reflect on our feelings rather than repress them.Family experiences create lasting memories that are invaluable.Achievement is less about what we do and more about who we are.The journey of caring for a loved one can be profoundly challenging.Visioning the future helps us align our goals with our values.Eulogy goals focus on meaningful life experiences rather than achievements.Compassion for ourselves is essential in our personal growth.We often underestimate what we can achieve in a decade.Creating a fulfilling life involves celebrating the moments that matter.Sound Bites"We have to fortify our inner world.""How can we bring more compassion to ourselves?""What is the cake you're looking to enjoy?"Chapters00:00Reflections on Anniversaries and Emotions02:34The Journey of Hosting the Dalai Lama05:04Lessons from Family and Love08:11Visioning the Next Decade11:52Eulogy Goals vs. Resume Goals14:23Creating a Life of Fulfillment

Visit Dr. Loveless at BridgeView Dental: https://visit.bridgeviewdental.com/TakeawaysBreathing through the nose releases nitric oxide, improving oxygen exchange.Mouth breathing can lead to health issues like sleep apnea and heart disease.Periodontal disease affects nearly half of the US population, often without symptoms.Bacteria from the mouth can enter the bloodstream and impact heart health.Inflammation is a key factor in many chronic diseases, including Alzheimer's.Oral hygiene practices like tongue scraping and water flossing are essential.Regular dental check-ups are crucial for preventing periodontal disease.Mouth taping can improve sleep quality by promoting nasal breathing.The microbiome of the mouth is as important as that of the gut.Maintaining a balanced oral environment can prevent systemic health issues. Invest in a high-quality toothbrush for effective cleaning.Proper brushing technique is essential for oral health.The mouth serves as a gateway to overall health.Jaw alignment affects the entire body, including the spine.Breathing through the nose is crucial for jaw development.Mouth breathing can lead to dental issues and TMJ.Holistic health considers the interconnectedness of body systems.TMJ can cause migraines and other symptoms.Muscle tension in the jaw can lead to chronic pain.Early intervention in dental health can prevent future issues. Wisdom teeth can be retained if they are not causing harm.Infrared imaging is a valuable tool for detecting cavities.Cavities are infections that can spread to other teeth.Removing wisdom teeth can prevent future dental issues.Gum health is crucial for aesthetic dentistry.Veneers can significantly improve the appearance of teeth.Aesthetic procedures should consider the overall gum line.Dental choices should be made with long-term care in mind.Modern dental materials can enhance the durability and appearance of restorations.Consulting with a trusted dentist is essential for making informed decisions.Sound Bites"Breathing through the nose releases nitric oxide.""Mouth breathing can lead to health issues.""Bacteria from the mouth can enter the bloodstream.""Inflammation is a key factor in many chronic diseases.""Maintaining a balanced oral environment is key.""The microbiome of the mouth is crucial for health.""Tongue scraping is essential for oral hygiene.""Mouth taping can improve sleep quality.""Regular dental check-ups are crucial.""Invest in a really good toothbrush.""Your teeth are going through a car wash.""The mouth is the entryway to our overall system.""I want to treat my mouth with respect.""Everything is linked.""Most pain in the body is coming from muscle issues."Chapters00:00The Connection Between Oral Health and Overall Health12:06Breath, Sleep, and Heart Health22:09The Microbiome of the Mouth and Its Impact38:24Practical Tips for Optimal Oral Hygiene39:51The Importance of Proper Oral Hygiene45:09Understanding the Mouth as a Gateway to Health47:30The Connection Between Jaw Health and Overall Wellbeing56:35The Impact of Breathing on Jaw and Dental Health01:05:00The Interconnectedness of Body Systems and Holistic Health 

Toxic places, toxic relationships, I am committed to letting them go.

Michael Trainer (00:01.292)Welcome to peak mind. your host Michael trainer. And today I want to talk about relational dynamics and the balance that is necessitated in our relating. And for me, you know, I studied years ago with the traditional healer in Sri Lanka, and he said to me that health is the heart rhythm. It's the, it's the rhythm of the heart and That became so poignantly clear to me when I thought about being in utero and the fact that for nine months, the thing that defines our reality in the darkness of the womb is the beating of the heart. And we all share this heartbeat, right? From birth till death, there is a miracle which is the beating of our hearts. And that heart is always in relationship with the world. If we get anxious, it beats faster. When we calm, it beats slower. It's the rhythm section. It's the rhythm section for our life's music. And the people that we meet bring in the other instruments. They're like the, you know, the guitar, they're the piano. And when we're in harmony, The sound is beautiful. But if we don't take care of the heart and the rhythm of the heart, if we're not mindful of it, we lose our way, we lose our balance and we get out of tune. And one thing that was hugely clarifying for me was I realized actually, you know, society tells you you're an introvert or you're an extrovert. And I found that I was both. I absolutely need to be alone and recharge and I absolutely need to be social and get energized from being around nutritious people. And then I learned that there's something called an Ambervert which is both an introvert and an extrovert and one enables the other. And it was so clear to me this weekend when I was at a conference and meeting with people and around new energies and stimuli. Michael Trainer (02:29.524)and quote unquote networking, but really just connecting with people, but new people. And for 12 hours a day, today I was actually meant to fly. And I was like, you know what? No, I can't. I need to just be at home and ground. I need to go to the water. I need to find my center. I need to tune my instrument. I need to get back in rhythm with my heart. So that when I get back out with people, I am in an amazing way. And I think when we don't take care of our instrument, we don't take care of our heart, we don't pay attention to those signals, that's when we get out of balance. And in Sri Lanka, where I live with this healer that I had the great fortune of studying with, when someone got profoundly out of balance, it was actually the role of the community from sunset to sunrise to richly recreate through this elaborate and beautiful ritual. their shared cosmological worldview and elaborate fire dancing, flower offerings, dance, drama. The person was placed in the center and it all rotated around them. And slowly the collective brought them back into the rhythm of the community, back into the rhythm of the collective heartbeat. And in that is health. because we are inextricably linked. And we live in a fallacy that we are kind of islands on a hill, we are individuals. And while there are beautiful aspects to our individuality, there's also a biological imperative. are connected, we are interdependent. And so to tune yourself into the collective heartbeat, but also to know when to withdraw when you need to do your own tuning so that you can play beautifully with others. This dance I think is not often talked about, but is so important. And so for my ambroverts out there, for those that both are introverts and extroverts, I think it's so beautiful to recognize where the bridges are and to be in the listening for your bridge. Michael Trainer (04:54.526)and to find the way to stay in the rhythm, your rhythm. And for me, it's knowing when I'm getting a little too much noise and I need to return the signal. And today was an exact exemplification of that. I canceled the flight, I stayed home, I got a nap in, I got a workout in, I went to Barton Springs and went in the water. And that combination served me. I'm now... My cup is more full, I'm gonna get an early night's sleep. Tomorrow I'll be ready to get back in the world. So do the things, my friends, that keep you in your center so that you can connect beautifully to others when you are out in the world. But know also when you need to retreat to take care of yourself. Sending so much love, I'll talk to you tomorrow.  

TakeawaysFocus on who you get to be in social settings.Move with intention but without expectation.Stay in your own energy and presence.Acknowledge others authentically for who they are.Avoid being swayed by the currents of the situation.Recognize the beauty in others' presence.Engage in conversations that evoke genuine connection.Share your truth and stay true to your values.The power of acknowledgment can build strong relationships.Sending love and positivity enhances connections.Sound Bites"Who do we get to be?"Chapters00:00Reflections on Connection and Presence02:53The Power of Authentic Acknowledgment

Welcome to peak mind. I'm your host Michael trainer. And today's episode is going to be a short but powerful one. And it is the message to show up and stay in the fight even when you don't feel like it. And I'm using fight here metaphorically. But tonight I got home 10 o'clock. after a 12 hour day with a massive amount of socializing, what would traditionally be called networking, et cetera. And I am exhausted, like feet ache, brain done, et cetera. And I committed to do a podcast every day. And so I thought what more better topic. Because through the course of today, there were probably five or six times I felt like going home. And it was tempting. I wanted to come home. I wanted to sit on the sofa, turn on Netflix, and just zone out. And not that there would have been anything wrong with that, but I had so many epic connections that I would not have made had I listened to my initial impulse to go home. And I share that because I think many of us face moments where we are, we want to just give in. We want to listen to the call of our comfort. And sometimes that is appropriate, but I would argue that if you can find a way to grab a brief window of respite. So for me, instead of going home, I went outside. put my feet on the grass and I absorbed the sun and I let myself rest. I calmed my nervous system. And taking that brief rest was enough for me to get back in the game. Back in the fight, so to speak. And I'm so glad I did because I wound up having an epic 12 plus hour day connecting to incredible humans, likely some future business partners, future friends that I would not have made had I Michael Trainer (02:26.09)Listen to that inner call to go home that introvert aspect of me that that calls for me to to retreat now there are definitely times days where Recharging is called for so this is not to say never rest There are days. I just spend as an ambervert alone to recharge. I go to the Barton Springs or I go to the ocean I take time to tend to myself, to honor myself and to be in silence. And those are beautiful times. But today was a day of connection, a day of getting out there, meeting people, a conference surrounded by people I respect, peers, people who have shared a line interests. And oftentimes those environments can be overwhelming. But when we take the time and practice the tools of re-centering ourselves, we can get back in to the context of connection. And in this world starved for human connection, it's an incredibly powerful act to not go for the proximate connection we can find in our telephone, and instead to stay in the act of meeting new people and finding shared resonance, which I did time and time again. And when you do that, you also build momentum. the world providence comes up to greet you and more people will come up to you and conversations will get easier and you'll uncover uncommon common ground. And that's what happens when we stay in the commitment to that music that wants to live in the space between us and other people. And so my friends, today's a short but sweet episode to share. Stay in the song. Stay in the song, stay committed to the music because you never know the beautiful harmony that will come to live on the other side of your commitment.  

TakeawaysToday marks the anniversary of my father's death.He was a stand for joy and forgiveness.I carry his ashes with me to sacred places.His life was dedicated to family and service.Death brings us face to face with our own mortality.Those who go before us illuminate the darkness.Confronting death offers opportunities for rebirth.Time is precious and should not be taken for granted.Family, education, and travel are my true north.Love is all there truly is.Sound Bites"How do we say goodbye?"Chapters00:00A Personal Tribute: Remembering My Father04:11Reflections on Legacy and Mortality08:51Lessons in Love and Family Values

TakeawaysKeep going on the dreams that you hold close to your hearts.Resistance can often hinder our progress, but perseverance is key.Creating a relational bucket list can enhance your life experiences.It's important to share adventures with people you love.Writing down your goals can help manifest them into reality.Accountability partners can help you achieve your dreams.Consider the experiences you want to have at different life stages.Don't let dreams just live on your vision board; make them real.Seize each moment and season of life with intention.Creating meaningful connections is essential for a fulfilling life.Sound Bites"Create a relational bucket list."Chapters00:00The Journey of Writing and Overcoming Resistance02:55Creating a Relational Bucket List

TakeawaysTuning your own instrument is essential for healthy relationships.Self-care practices help maintain emotional balance.Walking and being in nature are effective tuning practices.Finding personal tools for re-centering is crucial.Authentic relationships provide support during tough times.Loneliness is a significant issue in modern society.Having a few trusted friends is invaluable for emotional health.Direct communication in friendships fosters deeper connections.It's important to choose relationships wisely.Regularly revisiting your tuning practices can enhance well-being.Sound Bites"Tuning your own instrument first."Chapters00:00Tuning Your Instrument: The Core Principle02:51Finding Your Practices and Tools06:06Building Authentic Relationships

TakeawaysWhat are you optimizing for in life?Many live by societal programming expectations.Eulogy goals focus on authentic living.Quality experiences with loved ones are priceless.Partnership is a core focus for fulfillment.Choosing the right environment impacts relationships.Living with the idea of imminent death can inspire action.Investing in health is crucial for long-term well-being.To attract a partner, embody the qualities you seek.Self-reflection is key to aligning actions with values.Sound Bites"What are your values?"Chapters00:00What Are You Optimizing For?03:04Eulogy Goals vs. Resume Goals06:00The Journey Towards Partnership

TakeawaysAll of life exists beyond our comfort zone.Travel can confront fears and lead to personal growth.Modern life often contradicts health and wellbeing.Moments of grief can catalyze individuation processes.Rites of passage are lacking in contemporary culture.Creating personal rituals can help mark life transitions.Finding home can be about connection, not just location.Nature and community are vital for personal fulfillment.Courage is essential for stepping into the unknown.Embracing discomfort can lead to beautiful opportunities.Sound Bites"All of life exists beyond our comfort zone."Chapters00:00Embracing the Unknown: The Journey Beyond Comfort Zones03:07The Power of Travel and Transformation05:53Rituals of Individuation and Life Transitions

TakeawaysTrust that the dark is here for a reason.There's always darkness before the dawn.We have to confront our fears, our nightmares.Our power transcends the fear.Finding gratitude can shift our perspective.The sun eventually rises after the darkest nights.Reach out to loved ones when feeling overwhelmed.True friends are revealed in dark times.Physical movement can help confront fears.Maintain hope and healthy habits during tough times.Sound Bites"The sun eventually rises."Chapters00:00Trusting in the Dark02:54Confronting Fears and Finding Light

TakeawaysYour primary relationship is the most important decision.Where you choose to live has profound consequences.The quality of your environment affects your relationships.Consider factors like proximity to nature and culture.Multiculturalism and diversity can enhance your life experience.Intellectual stimulation is crucial for personal growth.Authentic spirituality enriches your life.Trial and error is part of finding the right place.Reflect on what resonates with you in your living space.Finding your ideal place can lead to a more fulfilling life.Sound Bites"What garden are you planted in?""What resonates with me?""Go try a place before you commit."

TakeawaysAuthentic comments can lead to unexpected futures.Listening is key to building meaningful relationships.Every interaction is an opportunity for growth.Spontaneity can lead to profound connections.We often miss opportunities by not engaging with others.Being present allows for deeper conversations.Life is a series of choose-your-own-adventure moments.Expectations can hinder authentic connections.Compliments can open doors to new relationships.Embrace the magic of connecting with strangers."We often take ourselves too seriously."Chapters00:00The Art of Authentic Connection05:09Listening to Life's Signs09:20Embracing Spontaneity in Conversations

TakeawaysWe often shun the notion of death in our culture.Creating rituals can help us appreciate little deaths.Without little deaths, new growth cannot occur.Letting go of mediocre aspects of life is essential.Self-worth influences our ability to attract and hold what we desire.Inner work is crucial for personal transformation.Transforming pain into compost allows for new growth.Fire can be a powerful ally in the release process.Ceremonial practices can aid in letting go.Rebirth is possible when we create space for new beginnings.Sound Bites"Fire is an incredible ally in releasing.""We get to do that, my friends."Chapters00:00Embracing Little Deaths02:56The Courage to Let Go05:52Transformative Rituals for Release10:12Rebirth and Renewal through Ceremony

TakeawaysDissonance represents discord and unharmonious relationships.Resonance is a harmonious connection that enhances our experience.Interjecting in dissonance can provide support and awareness.It's important to choose where to focus our resonance.We should not ignore dissonance but learn to dance with it.Finding our unique music is crucial for personal growth.Certain environments nurture our growth better than others.Dissonance can be transformed into spiritual compost for new growth.We must develop our inner awareness to navigate dissonance.Choosing to amplify our signal can lead to profound consequences.Chapters00:00Understanding Resonance and Dissonance03:16Interjecting in Dissonance06:11Finding Your Unique Music08:25Transforming Dissonance into Growth

TakeawaysThe power in relationships is found in the edit.We must eliminate distractions to focus our energy.Authentic connections arise from being in our center.Life is about finding and committing to full 'yes' moments.We should be ruthless in our discernment of what we keep in our lives.Settling for mediocrity prevents us from experiencing greatness.A life edit can lead to profound personal growth.We attract better relationships when we clear our energy.It's essential to remove anything that doesn't resonate with us.Living authentically requires a commitment to our true selves.Sound Bites"What can you remove from your life?""I want to hear your music."Chapters00:00The Power of Less is More02:49Eliminating Clutter for Authentic Connections06:04The Journey to a Full 'Yes' Life

TakeawaysWe often focus on things we have no influence over.Focusing on our zone of influence expands our impact.Creating win-win relationships is essential for growth.Our beingness attracts what we desire in life.We must tend to our own garden before seeking relationships.Distractions can dilute our power and influence.The societal belief of 'doing to have' is backwards.Being at cause is crucial for personal transformation.We can realize unlimited possibilities through our being.Building relationships starts with embodying the qualities we seek.Sound Bites"We want to find win-win opportunities.""We lose our power, we lose our mojo."Chapters00:00The Importance of Responsibility02:46Zone of Influence vs. Zone of Concern05:57Creating Win-Win Relationships08:46Beingness as the Source of Attraction

TakeawaysFinding your watering hole is essential for building relationships.Shared experiences in epic places are the true currency of life.Places have music, and people have music that resonates with each other.Compatibility in relationships often stems from shared interests in places.The energy of a place can enhance the spirit of your relationships.Identifying your unique resonance helps in finding your tribe.Common ground can be found in shared experiences and interests.Being in the right place can lead to meaningful connections.Relationships are interdependent and influenced by context.Creating experiences that evoke harmony is key to deepening relationships. Chapters00:00Introduction to Epic Relationships00:29Finding Your Watering Hole03:27The Resonance of Places and People05:51Shared Experiences and Compatibility

TakeawaysIntegrity is about aligning actions with values.We often sabotage relationships if we don't feel worthy.Reflecting on our mortality can guide our choices.Life rises to the standard we hold for ourselves.Our relationships reflect our inner worth.It's important to get back on track after setbacks.The people we surround ourselves with shape our lives.Self-reflection is key to personal growth.Earning our place in life requires commitment.What no longer serves us should be let go.TitlesEarning Your Place in LifeSound Bites"Am I a good man?""What are our eulogy goals?"Chapters00:00Building Life-Changing Relationships Through Integrity07:24The Importance of Worthiness in Relationships11:55Reflecting on Integrity and Core Values