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In this episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and Andrew unpack four common negative communication patterns that can destroy marriages: withdrawing, escalating, negative interpretation, and invalidation. Through honest stories and biblical wisdom, they help couples identify their patterns, slow down conflict, and pursue Christ-honoring communication.Discussion Questions:1. Which W.E.N.I. pattern do you most often fall into—and why do you think that is?2. What does validation look like practically when one of us is emotional?3. What boundaries or “pause plans” can we agree on before our next conflict?Resource:- Blog from Scott Kedersha about WENI

The Bible calls us not to be quarrelsome, but to show kindness to all. Faithful obedience to Christ may place us among people with whom we disagree, but even in these moments our lives should reflect the fruit of the Spirit, shaping our attitude, words, and temperament. By doing so we can be a witness to the lost who are held captive by the enemy. Verses Used:2 Timothy 2:23-26Proverbs 20:3Proverbs 26:21Proverbs 15:1Ephesians 4:29Discussion Questions: *As Christians, we must not be quarrelsome. How does a quarrelsome person act & how does this hinder our relationship with and our testimony to others?  *In what areas of your life do you tend to be quarrelsome or contentious? How can you work on this? *As Christians, we are called to be kind to all, able to teach, and patient when wronged. Which one do you most struggle with and why? What standard does the Bible call you to in that area? *According to Galatians 6:1-3 and 2 Timothy 2:25, what demeanor should we have when correcting others? Why do you think this is important? *What should be the end goal of any correction offered, according to 2 Timothy 2:25-26? How would working toward this goal impact your demeanor and the correction you offer? Can you think of any real-life examples?

In this episode, we begin our Lenten book study on "The Way of Trust and Love" and focus on the Introduction. We talk about how St. Thérèse's "little way" offers hope to weary hearts who feel small, fragile, or poor. We discuss how the Lord can transform our lives in a moment, how to boast in our poverty instead of bemoaning it, and the power of a listening heart. This Lent, we invite you into a gentler, deeper journey—one rooted not in striving, but in trust and love.    Heather's One Thing - The Good News Cruise and everyone who put together this experience Sister Miriam's One Thing - The Pause App  Michelle's One Thing - The Body of Christ   Other Resources Mentioned:  Pope Leo's Lenten Letter  Magnificat or Word Among Us   Journal Questions: Where is the Holy Spirit inviting me this Lent? Where do I feel like the burdens of life are mine to carry? How does my heart respond to St. Therese's Little Way? What does it mean to be childlike and not childish? How will I create time to listen to God this Lent? When listening to God in prayer, what is the posture of my heart?   Discussion Questions: How is God calling you into deeper love this Lent? Where do you notice weariness or poverty in your life? How can you serve the poor this Lent? What holds you back from listening to the Lord in prayer? How do you want to be transformed this Lent?   Quote to Ponder: "I feel that I am going to my rest … but above all, I feel that my mission is about to begin, my mission of making God loved as I love him, of giving my little way to other souls. If God grants my request, my Heaven will be spent on earth, until the end of the world. Yes, I wish to spend my Heaven in doing good on earth." (St. Thérèse of Lisieux)    Scripture for Lectio: "Amen, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will not enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven." (Matthew 18:3-4)   Sponsor - SacredSpark: Looking for a Catholic dating experience that actually feels human? Meet SacredSpark, a Catholic dating and matchmaking app designed to help singles approach dating with intention, clarity, and faith at the center. SacredSpark was built on a simple belief: dating shouldn't feel like endless guessing games, emotional burnout, or mixed signals that leave you questioning your worth. It should help you encounter real people, have thoughtful conversations, and discern relationships with purpose. Unlike traditional dating apps, SacredSpark is intentionally designed to foster online connections for offline relationships, blending technology and tradition to facilitate meaningful connections that can grow into real relationships rooted in faith. Whether you're discerning marriage, healing from past dating experiences, or simply tired of platforms that don't reflect what you value, SacredSpark offers a refreshing alternative. It's a space where Catholic singles are reminded of their dignity, supported in dating well, and encouraged to pursue relationships with peace and purpose. SacredSpark also offers free formational resources like Dating 101 that helps men and women approach dating with emotional maturity, confidence, and Christ at the center, because how you date matters just as much as who you date. Start something good! Download SacredSpark today: https://www.sacredspark.app/download (Available on iOS and Android)   Timestamps: 00:00 SacredSpark 01:37 Intro 02:23 Welcome 03:08 Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote 03:53 Seeing Lent as an Invitation of Love 06:26 Breaking Strongholds 09:18 The Little Way 12:44 Feeling Weary and Poor 14:54 Pope Leo's Lenten Letter 19:33 Listening to Grow Deeper in Intimacy 23:04 A Call to Holiness 26:52 One Things

Pastor Sarah Keller is back! It's been a few seasons since this incredible leader has shared her story on So Good Sisterhood, but she's back for Season 15 for a hope-filled conversation about walking through desert seasons. Sarah shares how what feels like emptiness is often spiritual thirst, and how God meets us in those places to grow, strengthen, and restore us. Together, they unpack how worship, perspective, and perseverance can transform even the hardest seasons into places of encounter with Him.Subscribe to Shownotes Plus for Discussion Questions, Extra Resources, and More!Check out Pastor Sarah's Freedom StudyLearn More About Sisterhood© 2022 Be Essential Songs (BMI) / Jord A Lil Music (BMI) / Doejones20 (BMI) (admin at EssentialMusicPublishing.com). All rights reserved. Used by permission.

If you've ever wondered why life feels beautiful and broken at the same time…this message is for you.Starting in Gospel of Luke 24 and walking all the way back to Genesis, we trace the story Jesus says we often miss: the whole Bible is about Him. Not moral heroes to copy. Not disconnected stories. But one unfolding rescue...from a good God, in a good world, shattered by a terrible lie…and pursued by relentless grace.Why do we hide? Why do we blame? Why do we try to fix ourselves with success, religion, or control, only to feel more exhausted? Because, like Adam and Eve, we've believed something about God that isn't true. And that lie still shapes our fear, shame, and striving today.But the story doesn't end in the garden.In the middle of our rebellion, God comes looking: “Where are you?”He provides a covering.He makes a promise.And He sends a Child who would be wounded—but would ultimately crush the serpent.This isn't abstract theology. It's hope for hospital rooms. Hope for grief. Hope for anxiety. Hope for the moments when you're walking through disappointment and wondering where God is.If you're tired of trying to be your own savior…If suffering has made you question whether God is really good…If you long for home, wholeness, and peace…Come see how the Gospel didn't begin in Matthew. It began in a garden and it changes how you walk through yours today.DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:1. What do you learn about God's character from Genesis 1-3?2. What subtle lie about God is easiest for you to believe? Especially in times of stress, suffering, or disappointment?3. Adam and Eve try to cover their shame with fig leaves. Do you ever wear a mask to protect yourself or hide the broken parts of you? What is that mask or “fig leaf?”4. How does seeing Jesus as “The Greater Adam” shape the way you understand yourself? (Rom 5:6-21)5. If you took 1 thing away from this study/reflection what would it be, why?+ + + + +Hey, while you're here, please help Generation by clicking the 'Subscribe' button, then click on the BELL

Tired of feeling stuck while life passes you by? Ready to stop wondering “what if” and step into what's next? In our series, Elisha, we'll see what happens when we leave comfort behind and pursue our true purpose.Discussion Questions: https://bible.com/events/49567855

Title: Upside Down Interior LifeSpeaker: Nate HoldridgeOverview: In this week's sermon from Calvary Monterey's ongoing series through the Gospel of Matthew, Nate Holdridge walks through the final three of Jesus' six antitheses in Matthew 5:33–48 — the passage on oaths, retaliation, and enemy love. Under the title "The Upside Down Life With Others," Nate shows how Jesus was not abolishing the Old Testament but driving his listeners past the letter of the law to its deepest intention: a community of people so anchored in God that their trustworthiness needs no oath to confirm it, their security needs no retaliation to protect it, and their love needs no worthy recipient to motivate it. The sermon unpacks what it means to be radically trustworthy, radically surprising, and radically loving — and lands on the stunning closing command of Matthew 5, "Be perfect as your heavenly Father is perfect," not as a burden but as an invitation to fix our eyes on the One who fulfilled every word of it on our behalf.Link to Sermon NotesLink to Discussion Questions

Discussion QuestionsSermon Overview Jesus' physical suffering and death are God's appointed sacrifice that saves all who receive him.Digging Deeper    Read Luke 22:1-231. Read the story of Passover and the Feast of Unleavened Bread in Exodus 12:1-20. What similarities are there in the Passover account to this passage? How does Jesus fit as the Passover lamb?2. Judas betrayed Jesus for money. Why do you think this detail was included in Luke, and what does it say about human nature?3. Verses 7-13 show that Jesus knew the details of the Passover meal in advance and directed his disciples to carry them out. Where else have we seen this sort of interaction? What does it tell us about Jesus and his plan?4. A great irony of this passage is that the first Lord's Supper was held in the presence of Judas Iscariot. What do you think this teaches us? How does this influence our engagement with those who oppose and wound us?5. How does this passage move us to more wonder and gratitude for Jesus? 6. What is your experience like when we take communion? What goes through your mind and heart?7. The next time we will take communion together as a church is Sunday, March 8. What from this passage can we use to prepare our hearts next time we celebrate communion together?Prayer

In this powerful message, Pastor Mike continues our House of Discipleship series by diving into one of the ten "Rhythms of Jesus": Family on Mission. This week, we focus specifically on what it means to be a Marriage on Mission.Whether you are happily married, struggling, divorced, or single, this message is for you. Marriage isn't just a social contract or a pursuit of personal happiness — it's a divine "living parable" designed to reflect the character of God and the message of the Gospel to the world.Discussion Questions:- How does viewing marriage as a living parable that reflects God's character change the way you approach conflict and daily decisions in your relationship?- The sermon states that marriage is about holiness rather than happiness. How does this challenge cultural expectations, and what would it look like to prioritize holiness in your relationship?- How does the story of Hosea and Gomer challenge your understanding of forgiveness and reconciliation, especially when betrayal or hurt seems unforgivable?- For singles, how can you pursue Christlikeness now rather than waiting for marriage to begin your spiritual journey, and what destination are you setting for your life?- Which of the five bands of intimacy (social, intellectual, emotional, physical, spiritual) is weakest in your relationship, and what practical step can you take this week to strengthen it?

## **Sermon Summary: Misdirected Zeal (Romans 9:30–10:4)**How do we become right with God? Drawing from Romans 9:30-10:4, this message challenges us to examine whether we are running in the right spiritual direction or exhausting ourselves trying to earn God's favor through religious performance. Using the example of Jim Marshall's 1964 "wrong-way" run, we see a sobering truth: we can be sincere and zealous, yet completely miss Jesus.The Apostle Paul reveals a paradox—those not seeking righteousness found it through faith, while those striving for it through works missed it entirely. This message exposes the dead-end road of works-based salvation, showing that Jesus did what we could never do. Salvation is not something we achieve, but something we receive.---### **1. Salvation by Works Is a Dead-End Road*** **The Shocking Contrast:** Gentiles received righteousness by **faith**, while Israel pursued the law but failed to arrive because they sought it by **works**.* **The "Wrong Way" Story:** Like Jim Marshall, many do "right things" (effort, hustle) but run toward the wrong end zone.* **Seven Problems with Works-Based Salvation:**1. Sets an **impossible standard** of perfection.2. Produces **pride** (superiority) or **despair** (never enough).3. Shifts glory from **God to self**.4. **Misuses the law** as a ladder rather than a mirror.5. Cannot **change the heart**.6. **Rejects Christ's sufficiency**; if we can do it, He died in vain.7. Leads to **spiritual exhaustion** and joyless duty.### **2. Humble, Don't Stumble*** **The Stumbling Stone:** You either build your life on Christ or stumble over Him in offense and self-trust.* **Zeal Without Knowledge:** Israel had passion and heritage but ignored God's righteousness to establish their own.* **Paul's Perspective (Phil 3:3–9):** Paul traded his massive religious résumé for the "surpassing worth of knowing Christ," putting no confidence in the flesh.### **3. Christ the Fulfillment & Our Mission*** **The Goal:** Romans 10:4 declares Christ is the *telos* (end/fulfillment) of the law.* **Intercession:** Paul moves from debate to deep prayer for the saved. If we have received grace, we will long for others to know Him.* **The Beautiful Mission:** Salvation is near—confess with your mouth and believe in your heart. But how will they hear without someone preaching?---### **Practical Applications**1. **Check Your End Zone:** Are you trusting Christ alone or your "Christian résumé"? Repent of self-righteousness.2. **Trade Exhaustion for Rest:** Lay down performance-based "earning" and walk in grace.3. **Choose Humility:** When Scripture confronts your pride, choose quick repentance over defensiveness.4. **Relationship over Rules:** Shift from *knowing about* Jesus to *knowing* Him through daily rhythms of prayer and obedience.5. **Join the Mission:** List three people to pray for by name and look for ways to share the Gospel.---### **Discussion Questions**1. Where have you experienced the "dead-end road" of performance-based Christianity?2. What does your spiritual résumé look like, and why is it hard to let go of?3. How do you distinguish between religious zeal and actually knowing God?4. Which of the "7 problems with works" resonates most with you right now?5. How does Romans 10:4 (Christ as the "end" of the law) change your daily motivation?6. Who are you committing to pray for this week?

This week our series covering the Oscars' Best Picture nomines for 2026 continues with Chloe Zhao's Hamnet Then Scott and Matt continue their chat about A Knight of the Seven Kingdoms, with episode 4 and 5! Discussion question: What is your favorite Shakespeare adjacent piece of media? Next week: Oscars catch-up continues with Hamnet Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/doofmedia Follow us on Twitter: @doofmedia See all of our podcasts and more at doofmedia.com! Show Notes: 1:50 - Hamnet 52:04 - A Knight of the Seven Kingdoms Ep 4 & 5 1:18:59 - Discussion Questions  

Small business ownership is widely celebrated for fueling innovation and community prosperity. Yet beneath the ambition and daily execution lies a critical and under-recognized leadership challenge: the mental health strain on owners themselves. This episode unpacks research showing how stress, isolation, and burnout are not “personal issues” but systemic factors that impact decision-making, resilience, performance, and organizational culture. Mental health must move from a private burden to a strategic leadership priority. Key Research & Findings 1. The Hidden Health Burden of Ownership Based on Nav's report surveying more than 1,000 U.S. small business owners. Nearly half (48%) report their business consumes so much attention it detracts from life outside work. Stress, fatigue, and anxiety are widespread: 53% identify stress as a common health impact. Over 40% report fatigue and anxiety. 36% experience headaches tied to work demands. A full third say they've experienced mental health challenges significant enough to warrant professional support — yet nearly half have not accessed it. 2. Why This Matters for Leadership Mental health strain affects more than the individual owner: It reduces decision clarity and confidence in high-stakes moments. It undermines resilience in volatile cash flow, competitive shifts, or market unpredictability. It bleeds into culture, performance, and long-term viability when leaders are mentally depleted. 3. Systemic Stressors in Small Business Owners must act as generalists — juggling finance, operations, sales, HR, and leadership simultaneously — with financial stress clearly leading as the top pressure point. Unlike traditional jobs, ownership often lacks daily psychological detachment, making recovery moments (rest, time off) rare and difficult. What Owners Are Already Doing Despite the strain: Many apply individual coping strategies: Exercise, mindfulness practices. Connecting with family/friends. Yet these efforts are undermined by structural barriers: Many owners haven't taken a full week off in more than three years. Cost concerns and self-reliance discourage professional support. Leadership & HR Imperatives 1. Mental Health Literacy is Leadership Literacy Leaders must build fluency in recognizing stress, burnout, and psychological fatigue — not as deficits of character, but as systemic outcomes of ownership. 2. Culture Design with Mental Health as Strategy Mental health needs to be explicitly integrated into leadership conversations, not limited to “well-being perks.” This means shaping organizational norms that: Normalize help-seeking. Intentionally embed recovery rhythms (time off, boundary setting). Build structural supports consistent with sustainable leadership. 3. Shift from Personal Burden to Organizational Priority Treating mental health as an individual issue misses the systemic impact on performance, resilience, and long-term success. Takeaways for Executives & Founders Reframe mental health as a strategic performance factor — not a personal aside. Design leadership practices that institutionalize psychological recovery. Expand support systems beyond fitness or mindfulness programs to include coaching, peer networks, and professional access. Measure and reflect on how mental strain affects decisions, productivity, and culture. Discussion Questions (for Leadership Roundtables or Workshops) In what ways is owner mental health currently visible or invisible in your organization's leadership ecosystem? What structural barriers (e.g., time off, cultural norms, resource allocation) are preventing small business owners from accessing support? How can leaders create deliberate practices that embed psychological recovery into the rhythm of work? Source article:  https://www.breakfastleadership.com/blog/mapping-the-hidden-strain-why-mental-health-must-be-part-of-the-small-business-ownership-conversation

Busyness with work isn't just a scheduling problem—it's often a heart and priority problem that quietly harms marriages. In this episode, Derek, Gabrielle, and unpack how couples with two busy jobs can stay aligned, communicate expectations, and intentionally protect their marriage in demanding seasons.Discussion Questions:1- What currently makes our schedules feel most overwhelming, and why?2- What unspoken expectations do we have about work, availability, or lifestyle?3- Which priorities might need to be temporarily scaled back to protect our marriage?4- What would it look like for us to implement daily, weekly, and annual rhythms of connection?

In his second letter to Timothy, Paul gives clear instruction on how we, as followers of Christ, are to conduct ourselves by living in a way that either honors or dishonors the name of Christ. In session seven we examine what this looks like in everyday life and how we are to pursue it.Verses Used:2 Timothy 2:20-22Ephesians 2:101 Timothy 6:11Romans 6:11-13Psalm 51:12-13 Discussion Questions-In verse twenty-one, what four things does Paul list that will result from anyone cleansing him/herself? What does it mean to “cleanse yourself?” What would be an honorable use of your life & time? What would be a dishonorable use of your life & time?-Sanctification is something that happens at the moment of salvation when we are set apart and declared holy through Christ's sacrifice on the cross, but it is also a continual process as we are made more like Christ each day. Considering the verses in 1 Corinthians 5:6-8, what role do we play in our sanctification process?-We are all appointed for good works, but we are not always prepared to walk in them. What disqualifies us? What prepares us? (See 2 Timothy 2:21-22). To what extent are you walking in the good works the Lord has prepared for you to do? How can you be more effective in doing so?-Though we are not perfect, & fail often, what does Philippians 3:12-14 exhort us to do?-Paul calls us to flee youthful lusts and to instead pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace from a pure heart. How can we do this, practically speaking?

Main idea:  When the kingdom of Christ advances, the kingdoms of this world push back. The Threat (vv. 21-27) The Riot (vv. 28-34) The Result (vv. 35-41) Discussion Questions: 1. Why do you think people are often quick to riot or get angry over trivial things? How does that reflect human nature? 2. How do we see modern parallels to the Ephesian mob in online culture, media, or social movements? 3. How can Christians protest faithfully without resorting to anger, outrage, or “mob” behavior? 4. When you examine your own life, what “Demetriuses” threaten you — areas where you might be angry, anxious, or desperate if something was taken away?

Send a textTHE DANGER OF DISTRACTIONSPastor Jerrid FletcherFebruary 15, 2026Distraction is not merely a "productivity problem"; it is a spiritual scavenger that fragments the soul and pushes God to the margins of our lives. While "bad" distractions (sin, toxic drama, worldly anxiety) are easy to identify, the more dangerous category is "Good Distractions” responsibilities without margin, success that reshapes priorities, and efficiency without presence. These good things don't compete with our values; they compete with our focus, slowly training us to live self-sufficient lives that leave no room for the Architect.To reclaim our design for deep attention and divine connection, we must move from "managing chatter" to "doing business with God". This requires establishing a "standing reservation" through spiritual disciplines like silence, solitude, and prayer—intentional rhythms that guard what matters most. By tuning out the "noise" of achievement, digital In comparison, and past shame, we can maintain the singular focus of the Apostle Paul, keeping our eyes fixed on Jesus and the purpose He has called us to fulfill.Discussion Questions 1. The "Concrete" Test: The sermon suggests that busyness isn't just a full week; it's a way of living that "sets like concrete". In what areas of your life has "being busy" become a foundational habit rather than a temporary season?2. Good vs. Holy: How do you distinguish between being "faithful" to your responsibilities and being "consumed" by them to the point where there is no margin for God?3. The Standing Reservation: If God had a "confirmed appointment" to meet you daily, would you stand Him up? Where is the specific, purposeful place in your life where he can consistently expect to meet you?4. Tuning the Frequency: Which "noise" is currently the loudest in your life: the pressure to produce (Noise of Next), the infinite scroll (Digital Noise), or the echoes of old mistakes (Shame Noise)?5. Reading the Bat: Like Hank Aaron at the plate, what "labels" or "technicalities" is the enemy whispering to distract you from your main goal?

What if 1 Corinthians 13 isn't about you trying to love better? Discussion Questions: How do you think most people traditionally interpret 1 Corinthians 13? React to this statement: 1 Corinthians 13 is a revelation of God's love for you. Read verses 1-3. Why is love better than other spiritual gifts? Explain. Read verses 4-7 with the word "God" in place of "love." What does this do for your view of Him? React to this statement: God's love is what lasts; everything else is on a timer. Read verse 12. What do we see dimly right now? What do you look forward to most when you will see with clarity? What is the one big thing you learned from this message?

Discussion QuestionsSermon Overview While you wait for Jesus' return, remain watchful. I. Expect deception, and watch with discernment (vv. 8-9)II. Expect opposition, and watch for provision (vv. 10-19)III. Expect distress, and watch with anticipation (vv. 20-28)IV. Expect distraction, and watch through prayer (vv. 29-36)Digging Deeper    Read Luke 21:5-381. The first thing Jesus says about the temple - the Jews' most sacred and holy space - is “Don't get too attached to this.” How do you think that would have landed with his hearers? About what in your life would you dislike hearing Jesus say, “Don't get too attached to this”? 2. For some of us, it can be easy to get concerned that world events will usher in the apocalypse. How do we guard against catastrophic thinking about the end times and trust God's timing? 3. What sort of opposition have you personally faced for your faith, and how can you use this as an opportunity to bear witness to Christ? Jesus says he will “give you a mouth and wisdom, which none of your adversaries will be able to withstand or contradict” (21:15).4. Jesus says that when signs of the end take place, believers don't have to tremble because their redemption is drawing near. How does this truth particularly encourage you today? 5. What does it mean that redemption has been fully accomplished, but not yet fully applied? What aspects of future redemption might we be able to look forward to? 6. Take something that is distressing you now (or has distressed you in the past). How can you use this distress to deepen your anticipation for the life to come? Help each other work this out.7. What distractions do you need to watch for in yourself? What can we watch for in one another? 8. We've all experienced things that pull us away from prayer. What steps can you take today to fight what keeps you from prayer?9. In a world of distractions, what practices (including prayer) can help us stay focused on what matters?Prayer

This sermon explores the final chapters of Nehemiah, confronting us with an uncomfortable truth: the hardest part of any spiritual journey isn't the beginning or the end, but the middle—when excitement fades and faithfulness becomes a daily grind. Through the lens of Israel's post-wall-building reality, we discover that physical restoration is only half the battle; the real work lies in rebuilding our hearts. The people made covenants, celebrated with overwhelming joy, and experienced genuine revival, yet drift crept in almost immediately after their leader departed. This pattern mirrors our own lives with startling accuracy. We see three essential principles emerge: faithfulness is proven through presence (we cannot build from a distance), faithfulness requires joyful participation (showing up is just the beginning), and faithfulness means constantly guarding against drift (which is always the default). The imagery of ocean currents pulling us away without our awareness resonates deeply. Busyness, comfort-seeking, and distraction quietly separate us from the life-giving connection we need. But here's the hope: while Nehemiah could only pray ‘remember me,' we serve Jesus, who answers that prayer completely. He is the greater Nehemiah who doesn't just rebuild walls but transforms hearts, securing an eternal kingdom that will never fall. Our calling isn't to climb perfectly but to remain connected to the one who already finished the climb for us.Main Points:Faithfulness is proven through presence (Nehemiah 11)Faithfulness requires joyful participation (Nehemiah 12)Faithfulness means guarding against drift (Nehemiah 13)Scripture Referenced: Nehemiah 10-13 (main passage); Proverbs 16:33; Psalm 127:1; Matthew 6:21; John 15:4-5, 11; Psalm 1:2; Luke 23:42-43Community Group Guide:Begin with PrayerBegin by thanking God for bringing your group together and ask the Holy Spirit to guide your discussion and reveal how He wants to work through each person present.Discussion QuestionsPart 1: Faithfulness through Presence (Read Nehemiah 11:1-2)Our Part: Show up and be present. God's Part: He builds His people.What is the difference between attending church and being the church, and how does this distinction show up in your own life?How does comfort function as an idol in your life, and what would it look like to move toward calling rather than comfort?Part 2: Joyful Participation (Read Nehemiah 12:27-31, 38-43)Our Part: Plug in. God's Part: He gives joy.Read John 15:4-5, 11. How does “abiding in Christ” lead to joy, and how is that different from happiness we try to manufacture?Using the lamp illustration from the sermon (a lamp that isn't plugged in produces no light), discuss:What does it look like to be “plugged in” to Christ personally?What does it look like to be “plugged in” to the body of Christ corporately?What are signs that you've become “unplugged”?Part 3: Guarding Against Drift (Read Nehemiah 13:15-18)Our Part: Remember and fight drift. God's Part: He remembers us.Jarod Cox shared his beach story about drifting away while boogie boarding. What are the “currents” in your life right now that are most likely to pull you away from faithfulness? (Examples: busyness, stress, conflict, success, failure, etc.)If drift is the default, the question isn't if we drift, but how quickly we notice and return. What helps you notice drift sooner, and how can this group help each other stay connected?Three times in Nehemiah 13, Nehemiah prays “Remember me, O my God.” Why is remembering God's faithfulness the remedy for drift? Where do you most need Jesus to “remember you” right now?Personal Reflection and Practical ApplicationChoose 1-2 of the following action steps:Show Up: Commit to being present in one area where I've been distant (community group, serving team, family dinner, etc.)Plug In: Take one concrete step toward deeper connection—join a community group, sign up to serve, or commit to consistent givingFight Drift: Establish a daily practice of “remembering”: Scripture memory, morning devotional, prayer walk, or meditation on a specific gospel truthCheck In: Reach out to someone you know who may be drifting and invite them back into connectionConfess Comfort: Identify one area where comfort has become an idol and take a step toward obedience even when it's uncomfortableWorship Setlist: Jesus, Firm Foundation; Holy Holy Holy (Jesus Reigns); Chris Be Magnified; How Marvelous; O Praise the Name

From childhood loyalties in a stadium to the quiet ache of rejection, we are wired to ask: Where do I fit? Jake traces that longing through neuroscience, ancient confession, and the waters of baptism, revealing a God who steps into line with humanity. Fully human. Standing among sinners. Sharing the table. Bearing death itself. In Christ, belonging becomes union. Water, table, body, way. “I'm with them,” he says. The question is, are you with him?Discussion Questions:-In what ways have you chosen belonging over truth in your life, and how can identifying with Christ help you navigate that tension?-Why do you think Western Christianity has emphasized individualistic faith over communal belonging, and what are the consequences of that emphasis?-How does viewing baptism as identification rather than just a symbol change your perspective on this practice and its importance?-What barriers prevent you from fully committing to the body of Christ with the same loyalty you show your biological family?

This exploration of Romans 9 tackles the profound tension between God's sovereignty and human responsibility. Through Pharaoh and Moses, we see a difficult truth: God hardened Pharaoh's heart, yet gave him ten chances to choose differently. This isn't about unfairness; it's about a God who is just by His standards, not ours. Like clay in the Potter's hands, we are crafted for His purposes. Most strikingly, we see God's mercy—from clothing Adam and Eve to protecting Cain. His patience is intended to lead us to repentance, proving we are never too far gone.---## **SERMON NOTES: Romans 9 – Sovereignty & Mercy**### **1. The Big Idea**God is absolutely sovereign and unimaginably merciful. His sovereignty does not erase our choices; He repeatedly offers mercy and calls us to respond.### **2. Pharaoh's Hardened Heart (Exodus 7–12)*** **The Tension:** Romans 9:15–18 says God hardens whom He wills, yet Exodus shows Pharaoh hardening his own heart.* **The Reality:** God gave Pharaoh 10 real opportunities to obey. Pharaoh's repeated refusal led to Egypt's devastation, proving God's purposes never fail.### **3. Sovereignty & Responsibility*** **The Potter & Clay:** Romans 9:19–21 explains that the Potter has the right to shape vessels for different purposes.* **Justice vs. Fairness:** God is not "fair" by human standards; He is just. He owes mercy to no one; when He gives it, it is pure grace.* **Patience:** He endures "vessels of wrath" with great patience to make His glory known to "vessels of mercy" (Rom. 9:22–24).### **4. OT Pictures of Mercy*** **Cain (Gen. 4):** Despite murder and defiance, God spared Cain and marked him for protection.* **Adam & Eve (Gen. 2–3):** God didn't strike them dead instantly. He sacrificed animals to cover them, acting for their ultimate good even in judgment.### **5. Identity as Clay*** **Unique Design:** You are shaped for His purposes, not mass-produced for comparison (Isa. 64:8).* **Divine Empowerment:** Philippians 2:13 reminds us that God gives us both the *desire* and the *power* to please Him.### **6. The Two Sons (Luke 15)*** **The Prodigal:** Wastes everything but is restored to sonship, not just servanthood.* **The Older Brother:** Resentful and entitled. He refuses to celebrate his brother's return.* **The Call:** God's mercy calls both the rebellious and the self-righteous home.---## **PRACTICAL APPLICATIONS**1. **Respond Now:** Don't presume on God's patience. Repent before hardness sets in.2. **Rest in Sovereignty:** Release the illusion of control. Pray: "Your will, not mine."3. **Stop Comparing:** Embrace your design as clay in the Potter's hands.4. **Check Your Heart:** Reject "Older Brother" resentment when others are blessed.5. **Come Home:** If you've wandered, return. God restores you fully.---## **DISCUSSION QUESTIONS**1. How do you see both God's sovereignty and Pharaoh's responsibility in Exodus?2. Where have you experienced God's patience while you were resisting Him?3. In what area are you tempted to demand "fairness" from God instead of trusting His justice?4. Do you relate more to the prodigal or the older brother right now?5. What practical step of repentance do you need to take today?6. How does being "clay" change how you view your current limitations?

Friendships in motherhood are rarely as simple as we expect them to be. Today Karen and Emily are continuing our friendship conversation by tackling comparison, conflict, cliques, and what to do when a friendship changes. They answer listeners' questions about unmet expectations and learning when to lean in and when to let go. If friendship feels confusing, discouraging, or just plain messy right now, we hope this episode encourages you! Episode Recap:What is happening over on Wire Talk+? (4:01)Where do your friendship expectations come from? (10:30)How have your healthy friendships naturally changed over time? (12:56)Ask God for what you need - even in your friendships (14:52)Friendship doesn't always look exactly like what we have imagined (18:02)How do we handle conflict and tension in friendship? (18:30)You can create space without ghosting people (21:37)How do I make friends when everywhere around me is full of cliques? (22:00)My friend continually brings up a topic of conversation that irritates me (25:25)Scripture: Proverbs 17:17 (EST) “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.”Discussion Questions: How has comparison (especially through social media) shaped your expectations of friendship?Are there friendships in your life where proximity (distance, schedules, seasons of life) has changed the relationship?When conflict or tension shows up, do you tend to address it or pull away? Why?What kind of friend do you have the capacity to be right now? What kind of friendship do you realistically need in this season?Is there one practical step you could take this month to strengthen a current friendship or pursue a new one?Resources:Listen to the rest of our conversation on WT+: boaw.mom/insiderJoin our BOAW Moms Facebook groupCheck out our BRAND NEW Bible study: How To Teach Your Kids the Bible

We're back for season 15! We're kicking things off with a conversation about the more God has for us- not more to do, but more to become. Through the picture of acorns and oak trees, this episode invites us to see spiritual growth as a process shaped by identity, intentional practices, and biblical community. It's an encouraging reminder that maturity takes time, growth happens best when we're planted, and God is always inviting us to grow into who He created us to be.Subscribe to Shownotes Plus for Discussion Questions, Extra Resources, and More!Learn More About Sisterhood© 2022 Be Essential Songs (BMI) / Jord A Lil Music (BMI) / Doejones20 (BMI) (admin at EssentialMusicPublishing.com). All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Valentine's Day can feel commercial, awkward, or unnecessary—but it's actually a powerful opportunity to fight complacency and intentionally love your spouse. In this episode, the More Than Roommates crew unpacks why celebrating your marriage matters, how simple intentionality can transform connection, and practical ways to make this Valentine's Day meaningful.Discussion Questions:1- What makes you feel most loved on days like Valentine's Day?2- When Valentine's Day approaches, what expectations (spoken or unspoken) do you each carry?3- What can we do this week to celebrate our marriage?Resources:The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman

Love to hear from you; “Send us a Text Message”Feeling whiplash from a culture that calls chaos freedom and opinion truth? We step back and ask the question that reframes the noise: what sort of tale have we fallen into? From the first lines of Genesis to the streets of our cities, we trace how order leads to freedom, how evil only distorts what is good, and why the human heart is the primary battleground. Along the way, we confront the early wounds of porn, the pull of relativism, and the emptiness of use, then chart a concrete path toward healing and purpose.We lean into the wisdom of St. John Paul II's Theology of the Body, exploring why life is a love story set in a real conflict between good and evil. YIf you're tired of drifting with the spirit of the age and ready to live on purpose, this conversation offers a map: order over chaos, communion over isolation, self-gift over self-grasping. Grab the Claymore battle plan and start the Claymore 10-minute morning ritual! Share this episode with a friend who needs hope. Subscribe, leave a review, and tell us: what tale do you think we've fallen into?Discussion Questions• How does the “dictatorship of moral relativism” appear in your own life, and how can Saint John Paul II's Theology of the Body help you recover meaning and direction?• What experiences of awe or beauty have stirred your heart, and how might they be leading you toward God's love story? (John 1:38–39)• In what concrete ways can you step back from the world's noise, including social media and pornography, in order to hear Christ's invitation, “Come and see”? (See the Claymore Battle Plan Outline and Catechism of the Catholic Church, no. 2709)  Support the show

Everyone loves peace.  But there are times when events call us to action.  Are we in times such as these?Support the mission of the Salty Pastor podcast!Visit our donations page at https://pushpay.com/g/thesaltypastor to help us continue sharing truth with a world in need.Discussion Questions:1. Why is it important to recognize the reality in which we live?2. If there's a battle for your mind, do you recognize when the enemy is winning?3. What are the best ways that you personally can remain steadfast, and overcome to victory?

In this episode, we welcome author, counselor, and speaker John Eldredge to the show, who is best known for his book Wild at Heart. We have a powerful conversation about intimacy with God in a world full of chaos, suffering, and spiritual hunger. We reflect on what it means to reclaim a "re-enchanted" Christian worldview, how to pray against chaos, the profound gift women have to offer the world right now. We also talk practically about how to pray as a couple, ask John to lead us in a guided "Pause" prayer, and invite you into a moment of stillness, surrender, and loving awareness of Jesus dwelling within you.    Heather's One Thing - Midst from the Belonging Co. Sister Miriam's One Thing - The Story I'll Tell by Naomi Raine Michelle's One Thing - The Way of Trust and Love by Father Jacques Philippe  Michelle's Other One Thing - Jayber Crow by Wendell Berry John's One Thing - The Abiding Together Podcast! John's Other One Thing - William Augusto Instrumental Background Music   Other Resources Mentioned:  The Pause App John Eldredge's Website "Wild at Heart" Waking the Dead by John Eldredge The Sacred Romance by John Eldredge Experience Jesus. Really. by John Eldredge   Announcement: Our 2026 Lenten book study will be "The Way of Trust and Love" by Fr. Jacques Philippe. Scepter Publishers has offered 15% off with the code ABIDE15. They also offer an ebook version as well. We will announce more information about the study in the coming weeks!   Journal Questions: How am I living like a "practical atheist"? Where are you experiencing chaos in your domain? When in your day can you turn toward the Lord with a simple prayer? How have I experienced the friendship and communion of the Kingdom of Heaven in my life? Where in my life am I believing I am too much and not enough?   Discussion Questions: How would you define your domain? What has God entrusted to you? When have you experienced God's beauty and order in the midst of chaos and hatred? How have simple prayers led to transformation in your life? How is God inviting you to be a healing remedy to the world right now?   Quote to Ponder: "The story of your life is the story of the long and brutal assault on your heart by the one who knows what you could be and fears it." (John Eldredge, Waking the Dead) Scripture for Lectio: "The Lord your God is with you, the Mighty Warrior who saves. He will take great delight in you; in his love he will no longer rebuke you, but will rejoice over you with singing."  (Zephaniah 3:17)   Sponsor - Fully Alive Coaching Program: Fully Alive Coaching Program is a trauma-informed Catholic coaching program for women and men who desire deep healing without compromising their faith. Created by licensed marriage and family therapist Brya Hanan, Fully Alive integrates Catholic Inner Child Work and somatic awareness in a gentle, Spirit-led journey—honoring the body, protecting the soul, and restoring wholeness. For women and men who pray sincerely but still feel guarded, overwhelmed, or fragmented, Fully Alive offers a safe and structured path toward integration and life abundant. Learn more at catholicinnerchildwork.com/fully-alive and follow @catholicinnerchildwork for more trauma-informed and integrative resources to support your healing.  Use the code "abiding" or reference it during a consultation to get 10% off!   Timestamps: 00:00 - Fully Alive Coaching Program 01:16 - Intro 02:02 - Welcome 04:18 - Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder 06:11 - Where is the Holy Spirit Moving the Church Now? 10:54 - Balancing the Love Story within a World at War 14:08 - Learning to Pray Against the Chaos 19:10 - How to Pray Together as A Couple 21:39 - Being in Union with God 26:13 - How Does God Use Fatherhood to Repair His Children? 29:30 - The Pause App 33:45 - We Are Created for Intimacy with Christ 37:48 - Women are Part of God's Healing Remedy to the World 40:22 - One Last Message from John 44:20 - A "Pause" Meditation 48:30 - One Things

We're back for season 15! We're kicking things off with a conversation about the more God has for us- not more to do, but more to become. Through the picture of acorns and oak trees, this episode invites us to see spiritual growth as a process shaped by identity, intentional practices, and biblical community. It's an encouraging reminder that maturity takes time, growth happens best when we're planted, and God is always inviting us to grow into who He created us to be.Subscribe to Shownotes Plus for Discussion Questions, Extra Resources, and More!Learn More About Sisterhood© 2022 Be Essential Songs (BMI) / Jord A Lil Music (BMI) / Doejones20 (BMI) (admin at EssentialMusicPublishing.com). All rights reserved. Used by permission.

We're back for season 15! We're kicking things off with a conversation about the more God has for us- not more to do, but more to become. Through the picture of acorns and oak trees, this episode invites us to see spiritual growth as a process shaped by identity, intentional practices, and biblical community. It's an encouraging reminder that maturity takes time, growth happens best when we're planted, and God is always inviting us to grow into who He created us to be.Subscribe to Shownotes Plus for Discussion Questions, Extra Resources, and More!Learn More About Sisterhood© 2022 Be Essential Songs (BMI) / Jord A Lil Music (BMI) / Doejones20 (BMI) (admin at EssentialMusicPublishing.com). All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Paul warns Timothy against careless words and empty arguments that can unsettle the faith of others, reminding us that Scripture is not meant to win debates but to lead hearts toward Christ. Join us for Session Six as we explore what it means to handle God's Word accurately in a world full of noise and confusion, learning how to present ourselves approved to God as workers who need not be ashamed.Verses Used:2 Timothy 2:141 Timothy 6:42 Timothy 2:152 Peter 1:20-21Acts 2:37-382 Timothy 2:16-182 Timothy 2:19Ephesians 2:10Discussion Questions: -What effect does wrangling about words, empty chatter, and false teaching have on the listener? (See 2 Timothy 2:14, 16 & 17) How have you seen this to be true?-Paul compares worldly and empty chatter and false teaching to gangrene. How does gangrene act, and what is the remedy? How is this a spiritual parallel to false teaching in the body of Christ?-Paul calls us to accurately handle the Word of truth and to be diligent in our study of it. Practically speaking, what does it look like to do so, and why is this so important? Can you share resources that help you study?-What specific false teaching were Hymenaeus and Philetus perpetuating in 1 Timothy 2:18, and according to Scripture, why was this false? (See 1 Corinthians 15:50-56 and 2 Thessalonians 2:1-4)-1 Timothy 2:19 calls believers to abstain from wickedness. How, according to 1 John 1:6-7 is this a mark of a genuine believer, and what comfort does 1 John 1:8-9 offer when we fail?

Discussion QuestionsSermon Overview Aim to please God through giving yourself, not serving yourself.I. What God condemns: self-serving fakery (20:45-47)II. What God commends: self-giving faith (21:1-4)Digging Deeper    Read Luke 20:45-21:41. This passage teaches that God condemns self-serving fakery (20:45-47). We can all be tempted to pretend (“to act in the presence of certain people in ways we would never act in their absence.”).  Are there particular circumstances or people around whom you can find yourself tempted toward pretending to be someone you are not? Why do you think that is? 2. The religious leaders of Jesus' day made an outward appearance of loving God and living for him, but in reality, they were only loving and serving themselves. Why do you think we can tend to clearly see this in others (and be troubled by it), and yet often fail to see aspects of this in our own hearts? 3. Are there aspects of your life (e.g., your job, your education, your life experience, etc.) that can, if you are honest, incline you to think you are in some way superior to others? Please share.  4. How can we guard our own hearts and help one another in fighting this temptation (of #3 above)?   5. It was said in the sermon, “Hypocrisy isn't unique to Christianity. But Christianity is unique in its resources to fight hypocrisy.” What does this mean? What are some of the hypocrisy-fighting resources available to us as believers? How might we use these resources to their fullest potential? 6. This passage teaches that God commends self-giving faith. (21:1-4)  In what sense was the widow's offering an act of loving, self-giving faith? What might acts of loving, self-giving faith look like for you? 7. We who are members of CrossWay have, on our membership applications, committed ourselves to using our “God-given gifts, time, energy, and wealth to support this local church.” How would you assess yourself? Are you doing what you said you would do? If there is room for growth, what might be a good next step in pursuing that? 8. What might be some ways for us to assess if our giving is sacrificial in nature, or merely “out of (our) abundance”? 9. Read 2 Corinthians 8:9: “For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though he was rich, yet for your sake he became poor, so that you by his poverty might become rich.” How does (should) the self-giving of Jesus for our sakes motivate our own self-giving for God's purposes in the world? Prayer

Continuing in Nehemiah 4–9, this message highlights that while the enemy consistently opposes God's work through discouragement, distraction, and division, God always completes what He begins. Through the rebuilding of Jerusalem's walls, we see that God brings not only physical restoration but deep spiritual renewal through His Word. Believers are called to recognize opposition, respond faithfully through prayer and persistence, and remain anchored in Scripture as the ongoing means of transformation.Main Points:The enemy opposes God's work (through discouragement, distraction, and division)God always completes His workGod works renewal in His people through His wordScripture Referenced: Nehemiah 4-9 (main passage); 2 Corinthians 4:4; Ephesians 2:10; John 15:20; Ephesians 6:12; Joshua 1:9; Nehemiah 4:14; Nehemiah 6:3; 1 Corinthians 15:58; Nehemiah 6:15; Psalm 133:1; Romans 12:18; Matthew 18:15; Daniel 4:35; Psalm 19:7; John 6:63Community Group Guide:Begin with PrayerBegin by thanking God for bringing your group together and ask the Holy Spirit to guide your discussion and reveal how He wants to work through each person present.Discussion QuestionsPart 1: Understanding Opposition (Read Ephesians 2:10)The sermon identified three tactics of the enemy: discouragement, distraction, and division. Discuss each of these through the questions below.Discouragement Discussion: Discouragement is theological, not just emotional—it happens when we believe something that is out of step with God's power or promises. What specific area of discouragement in your life might actually be a crisis of belief about who God is?Distraction Discussion: Newley shared “Distraction doesn't usually announce itself as disobedience. It shows up as overcommitment.” What “good things” might be pulling you away from the “great work” God has called you to?Division Discussion: Are there any relationships in your life where unity needs to be pursued or restored? Do you find biblical conflict resolution (Matthew 18:15-17) difficult to follow? If so, why?Part 2: God's Faithful Completion (Read Nehemiah 6:15-16)Newley admitted struggling to believe God could use Grady as a worship leader because of his limitations, yet God was already doing it differently than expected. Where might you be putting God in a box by defining what completion or success must look like in your life?Part 3: Renewal Through God's Word (Read Psalm 19:7 and John 6:63)If someone asked you, “Tell me what you're learning from God right now. What are you reading in God's word?” would you have an answer?In Nehemiah 8-9, The Israelites' renewal came through hearing, studying, weeping over, confessing, and acting on God's word. How would you honestly assess your own active and intentional engagement with Scripture right now?Personal Reflection and Practical ApplicationCombat DiscouragementWrite out 3-5 promises of God from ScriptureWhen discouragement hits, speak these truths out loudShare with one person how God is at work, even if you can't see the finish lineEliminate DistractionIdentify one “good thing” that's pulling you from the “great work” God has called you toMake one practical decision to create margin for God's prioritiesPractice saying “no” to something this week, internally remembering Nehemiah's words: “I am doing a great work and I cannot come down”Pursue UnityIf there's division in a relationship, pray for the Spirit to help you take the Matthew 18:15 step this week as He leads: Reach out privately, speak truth in love, and pursue restorationIf no division exists, encourage someone in the body of Christ who might be strugglingWorship Setlist: Psalm 150; Lord I Need You; Stand Firm; Behold Him

Jen talks about what it means to stop pretending we've got it all figured out and start letting God into the mess; one thought, one moment, one honest breath at a time. Stay open, listen, and let small changes make space for real peace.Discussion Questions:-In what areas of your life do you find it hardest to acknowledge that you don't have it all figured out, and what might humble alignment with God look like in those spaces?-Which item from Paul's list in Colossians 3 (anger, greed, malice, etc.) did the Holy Spirit highlight for you, and what small tweak rather than total overhaul might God be inviting you into?-Where in your life are you rehearsing narratives of hurt or frustration instead of laying those burdens at Jesus' feet, and what would it look like to shift that pattern?-How does understanding that forgiveness is primarily about your relationship with God rather than letting someone off the hook change your willingness to forgive?

How do you reconcile the tension between God's sovereign election and the genuine choice humans have to repent and believe in Christ?Sermon Notes – Romans 9 and the Sovereignty of God -------------------------DETAILED NOTES-------------------------**1. Foundational Questions & Assumptions**- Key questions: - Do you believe the Bible? - Do you believe it is true, authoritative, and inerrant? - Do you believe God is sovereign?- These convictions form the “lens” we must use to read Romans 9; otherwise we'll try to reshape Scripture to fit our feelings.**2. Helpful Terms & Framework**- Sovereignty of God:  God's absolute, kingly authority over all creation; He has the right to rule and He actively governs all things, including salvation history, according to His wise and holy will.- The preacher resists labels like “Calvinist” or “Arminian”; prefers “biblicist” – someone who simply believes and submits to what the Bible says, even when it doesn't fit our categories.**3. Romans 8:28–30 – The Setup for Romans 9**- God foreknew, predestined, called, justified, and glorified believers.- Before the foundation of the world: - God knew every person. - God knew every choice each person would make.- Christ's saving work is effective for those whom God knew would respond in faith.- Human responsibility still stands: we genuinely choose; we are not robots, yet God fully knows and is sovereign over all.**4. God Has Not Failed (Romans 9:6–8)**- “It is not as though the word of God has failed.”- Not all physical descendants of Israel are true Israel.- Not all of Abraham's physical offspring are children of the promise.- Application to us: - Your parents' faith does not save you. - Your kids do not get a free pass because you're a Christian (or a pastor). - Every person must personally repent and believe.**5. Did God Hate Esau? (Romans 9:9–13; Malachi 1:2–3)**- “Jacob I loved, but Esau I hated.”- Referenced from Malachi, written hundreds of years after Jacob and Esau.- “Hated” = covenantal rejection / disfavor; God hated Esau's sin and choices, not in a petty, emotional way like human hate.- God knew Esau's decisions and the destructive legacy they would lead to.- Same pattern as Adam and Eve: they had a real choice, God sovereignly knew the outcome.**6. God Is the One Who Shows Mercy (Romans 9:14–18)**- Is there injustice with God? “By no means.”- God: “I will have mercy on whom I have mercy…”- Salvation does NOT depend on: - Human will - Human effort - But on God who has mercy.- Pharaoh as an example: - God gave him many chances. - God used Pharaoh's hard heart to display His glory.- We cannot save anyone: - Our role: share the gospel, make disciples of those who believe. - God's role: give mercy, change hearts, save.**7. Human Responsibility in Salvation (Romans 10:9–13)**- Clear call to response: - Confess with your mouth Jesus is Lord. - Believe in your heart God raised Him from the dead. - You will be saved.- Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved: - No distinction between Jew or Greek. - God bestows riches on all who call on Him.- Sovereignty and responsibility are both true: - God sovereignly saves. - We must personally repent and believe.**8. Resting in God's Sovereignty**- God exists outside time, space, and matter; He created them.- He holds all things together and knows the end from the beginning.- We will not understand everything; that's good and humbling.- Instead of resenting His sovereignty, we are invited to rest in it.-------------------------PRACTICAL APPLICATIONS-------------------------1. Examine your foundation:  - Do you truly submit to Scripture when it crosses your preferences and emotions?2. Own your faith:  - Stop leaning on family heritage or church culture; have you personally repented and believed in Christ?3. Let go of the “savior complex”:  - Keep praying, loving, and sharing the gospel, but release the burden of feeling like you must save people. That's God's work.4. Be honest with your kids and others:  - Model repentance, not perfection. Let them see that Jesus, not you, is the Savior.5. Rest instead of resent:  - Where God's sovereignty feels confusing or “unfair,” choose to trust His character rather than demand full explanation.-------------------------DISCUSSION QUESTIONS-------------------------1. How do your answers to the questions about Scripture (true, authoritative, inerrant) practically shape how you respond to difficult passages like Romans 9?2. In what ways have you (maybe subconsciously) relied on family background, church attendance, or “being good” instead of personal faith in Christ?3. How does the idea that God knew every decision before the foundation of the world challenge or comfort you?4. Where are you currently carrying the weight of someone else's salvation? What would it look like to release that to God while still being faithful?5. How do you hold together these two truths: “God is sovereign over salvation” and “everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved”?6. What specific area of your life do you need to consciously “rest in God's sovereignty” this week, instead of trying to control the outcome?

Proverbs 18 explores how we navigate relationships, communication, and spiritual maturity. At its core, this chapter confronts the power of our words and the posture of our hearts. It reminds us that isolation runs against God's design. From the beginning, God declared it was not good for humanity to be alone. When we withdraw from community, we often seek only our own desires and resist wise counsel.The chapter contrasts foolish and wise hearts. A fool speaks without listening and has no desire to understand—only to express opinions. The wise person seeks understanding before responding. Proverbs 18 also delivers one of Scripture's most sobering truths: death and life are in the power of the tongue. Words can destroy or restore, divide or unify. In a digital age where words feel disposable, this wisdom calls us to slow down, listen carefully, and speak with intention. True security is not found in wealth or self-sufficiency, but in the Lord, our strong tower. The chapter closes by affirming God's design for companionship, reminding us that we were created for relationship, not isolation.I. Foolish Heart vs. Wise Heart (vv. 1–2)Isolation is unhealthy and unbiblical. It often grows from fear of vulnerability or correction and makes us resistant to counsel. A foolish heart loves talking more than listening, while wisdom requires humility—the ability to admit wrong and seek understanding.II. The Power of Words (vv. 4–8, 20–21)Words can refresh like a bubbling brook or wound deeply. Foolish speech invites conflict, ruins relationships, and spreads gossip that sinks deep into the heart. Our words shape our lives and the lives of others. They can bless or crush, heal or harm—whether spoken aloud or posted online.III. False Security vs. True Refuge (vv. 10–11)The name of the Lord is a strong tower and true refuge. Wealth and success can feel secure but are ultimately fragile. Wise stewardship matters, but our trust must rest in God alone.IV. Pride vs. Humility (v. 12)Pride leads to downfall, while humility prepares the way for honor. A teachable spirit keeps us growing, even in leadership.V. Wisdom in Listening (vv. 13, 15, 17)Answering before listening brings shame. The wise seek knowledge and listen fully, recognizing that the first story heard is not always the full truth.VI. Crushed Spirits & the Need for Healing (vv. 14, 19)A crushed spirit is harder to bear than physical sickness. Careless words can cause deep offense and long-lasting damage. Healing often requires patience, repentance, and intentional reconciliation.VII. God's Design for Companionship (vv. 22, 24)Marriage and deep friendship are gifts from God. Many shallow relationships can still lead to ruin, but one faithful friend brings strength. We were not made for isolation but for committed, godly relationships.Practical ApplicationsResist isolation by committing to honest, regular fellowship.Guard your tongue—ask if your words are true, loving, and necessary.Practice humble listening, especially in conflict.Seek true refuge in prayer and God's Word, not control or wealth.Pursue healing through repentance and patience.Invest in godly companionship, prioritizing marriage and same-gender accountability.Discussion QuestionsWhere are you tempted to isolate, and why?How have words shaped your life—for good or harm?Where do you tend to place your security instead of in the Lord?Are you more likely to speak or listen in conflict?Is reconciliation needed with anyone you've wounded?How can you strengthen your closest relationships this season?

In this episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and John Elmore to discuss what it looks like to walk faithfully with your spouse through mental illness. With biblical clarity, compassion, and practical wisdom, John shares how he and his wife Laura have navigated OCD, stigma, treatment, and the call to love your spouse as yourself even when it is difficult.Discussion Questions:1- When one of us is struggling emotionally or mentally, do we tend to fix, minimize, or walk alongside? How can we grow in being more present?2- Are there areas where mental or emotional health struggles feel stigmatized or unspoken in our marriage?3- How do we discern when to show compassion versus when to gently coach one another forward?4- What fears do we carry about seeking outside help (therapy, medication, counseling)?Resources:ReGeneration Recovery Ministry

Though Paul is in prison, he reminds Timothy that the gospel is not imprisoned. The power of the gospel has permeated every generation despite repeated attempts to suppress it. Paul willingly endures suffering that others may come to the saving knowledge of Jesus and anchors our hope in the truth that God remains faithful even when we are not.Verses Used:2 Timothy 2:81 Corinthians 15:12-172 Timothy 2:9-102 Timothy 2:11-13Romans 6:4-5Romans 5:17Discussion Questions: -Why is the resurrection an essential part of the doctrine of salvation? (See 1 Corinthians 15:12-19) -What is the importance of Jesus being a descendant of David? (See John 7:42) What would be the implications if Jesus had not fulfilled that qualification? -In 2 Timothy 2:8-10, what does Paul suffer for the sake of the gospel? Why does he deem it worth it to do so? -What things have you suffered for the sake of the gospel? To what degree are you willing to suffer to put the gospel on display? -What does 2 Timothy 2:11-12 mean when it says, If we die with Him; we will live with Him, if we endure, we will also reign with Him?” -What does the Bible mean when it says, “if we deny Him, He will also deny us?”

Write this down: Experience is a powerful teacher… and preacher!Psalm 107:1-3Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; his faithful love endures forever. Let the redeemed of the Lord proclaim that he has redeemed them from the power of the foe and has gathered them from the lands— from the east and the west, from the north and the south.1. Name the pain2. Don't get stuck in it 3. Where did Jesus show up4. Teach others what you've learned the hard way5. Make it part of your story, but don't let it define youNext Steps: Believe: I need Jesus to give me new life today.Become: I will let Jesus use my pain for his Glory. Be Sent: I will share my story this week.Discussion Questions: How did Jesus show up in a painful moment of your past?Is God still loving, even if he doesn't “redeem you from the power of the foe”? Explain your answer. Is God able to use your little moments of pain just as much as the big ones?What is a daily practice that helps cultivate gratitude in the middle of pain?How can sharing a painful part of your past help heal your community?What is one specific way you can encourage someone who is going through pain this week?Pray for the Holy Spirit to help you make an impact on one person's life this week.

Are you trying to love God… or letting Him love you? Discussion Questions for 1 John 4: Read verse 7 and react to this statement: Love is your spiritual DNA now. Read verse 10. How do God's love and Jesus as propitiation relate to each other? Read verses 13 and 15. How do these help us understanding "abiding" with clarity? Read verses 17-18. What does God's love mean for judgment and punishment? Read verse 19. Should we be producers or receivers? Explain. Read verses 11 and 21. How do we interpret "ought" and "should" in light of grace? What was your biggest takeaway from this message on God's love for you?

Discussion Questions: Sermon Overview Receive the Christ and receive the resurrection.Digging Deeper    Read Luke 20:27-441. There are aspects of life in this broken world that can cause us to long for “the resurrection.”  What would be some of those things for you?   2. In this passage, Jesus is confronted by some “who deny that there is a resurrection.” (v. 27) There are some who do the same thing today.  How important is belief in the resurrection from the dead for true, biblical Christianity? Support your answer.  (Please read 1 Cor. 15:12-20, to see the apostle Paul's answer to this question.)3. This passage teaches us that human marriage will not be a part of the age to come in the new heavens and the new earth. How does that land on you?  4. Human marriage points beyond itself to the marriage of Christ and his bride, the church. Why is the marriage we will enjoy for all eternity something worth looking forward to?  In what ways will it be better than even the best of human marriages? 5. It is good to live with all our might while we do live, and it is good to eagerly long for the day when we enter our eternal home. What might it look like to live well now, and yet long with eager anticipation for the resurrection?  6. There are many today who (as did the Sadducees) think Jesus is little more than a “good teacher” (v. 28). Why is it not a viable option for us (or anyone else) to see Jesus as simply a good teacher (and nothing more)?  How might we respond to those who see Jesus this way?  7. What is Jesus' line of reasoning in support of the resurrection from “the passage about the bush” (v. 37)?    8. What is the significance for us that Jesus (“the Christ,” v. 41) is both David's son and David's Lord?   9. How might the truths from this passage help you grow in your love for Christ and in your pursuit of a life that is pleasing to him? Prayer

Continuing in Nehemiah, this sermon emphasizes how God accomplishes His work through the collective participation of His people rather than through individual leaders alone. God gives His people both an identity and an assignment, demonstrating that when believers are united in mission, God can accomplish incredible things. The rebuilding of Jerusalem's wall serves as a metaphor for church building today, showing that spiritual fruitfulness comes from God working through His people collectively. The sermon challenges the church to move from a “cruise ship mentality” (consumer-focused) to a “battleship mentality” (mission-focused), emphasizing that every member has a place in God's work regardless of their profession, past, or perceived qualifications.Main Points:God gives His people an identity – The wall provided security, which made Israel's identity as God's people possible. Through Christ, we are adopted as God's children with permanent belonging.Your believed identity determines your lived reality – What you believe about yourself shapes what you do. When we believe we are deeply loved by God, we can deeply love others.God works through His people – The wall was built with an “all-hands-on-deck” mentality. Everyone from perfumers to rulers to daughters participated.The church needs a battleship mentality, not a cruise ship mentality – We're called to ask, “Where can I serve?” rather than “How will this meet my needs?”Scripture Referenced:Nehemiah 3 (main passage); Psalm 127:1; Romans 8:15-16; Leviticus 26:11-12; 2 Timothy 2:3-4Community Group Guide:Begin with PrayerBegin by thanking God for bringing your group together and ask the Holy Spirit to guide your discussion and reveal how He wants to work through each person present.Discussion Questions:Part 1: Understanding Identity (Read Romans 8:15-16)How does understanding your identity as an adopted child of God, able to call Him ‘Abba Father,' change the way you approach daily challenges and relationships?The sermon stated: “Your believed identity determines your lived reality.” Where do you see this principle playing out in your own life? Are there areas where you struggle to believe what God says is true about you?Part 2: All-Hands-on-Deck Mentality (Read Nehemiah 3:8,12 and 3:5)What encourages you about seeing a perfumer and a ruler's daughters working on the wall? What excuses might they have made to avoid this work?In Nehemiah 3:5 the nobles “would not stoop” to do the work. Is there any area of need you've noticed where you've thought, “That's not the kind of work I want to do”? What would it look like to have a different attitude?Part 3: Grounding in Humility (Read 2 Timothy 2:3-4)Be honest: Do you tend more toward a “cruise ship mentality” (consumer mindset) or a “battleship mentality” (mission-focused)? What evidence supports your answer?The sermon mentioned that God often calls us to be faithful “right where we are” before calling us elsewhere. What does faithfulness look like in your current season—in your home, neighborhood, workplace, or church?What barriers (time, fear, insecurity, busyness) keep you from finding your place at the wall? How can this group help you overcome those barriers?Personal Reflection and Practical ApplicationPray daily: Use the phrase “Abba Father” in your prayer time this week, letting the reality of your adoption sink deeply into your heart as you cry out to the One who has called you His own.Encourage: Take time to acknowledge and encourage those you know who are being “faithful right where they are” within the church or our broader community.Identify: If you are currently serving, thank you! Spend some time praying and journaling through all the ways God has been at work in you and through you as you've faithfully stewarded your time and talents. Give Him thanks and ask Him to help you press on. If you are not currently serving, prayerfully ask God where He might desire to use you and take the next faithful step.Worship Setlist:There is a Savior; Cornerstone; Such an Awesome God; Worthy of it All; No Other King

Mike takes aim at the lie that only the impressive make an impact, and shows how God moves through surrendered hands, not perfect résumés. From a kid with a lunch to a widow with two coins, Scripture is full of ordinary people doing extraordinary things because they said yes. If you think you don't have much to offer, you're exactly the kind of person God loves to use.Discussion Questions:-The religious leaders were astonished that 'unschooled, ordinary men' could do extraordinary things because they had been with Jesus. How does this challenge our assumptions about who God uses and why?-Jesus said we cannot serve both God and money. In what ways might money or financial security have become an idol or source of fear, anxiety, or control in your life?-The sermon emphasized that God wants 100% of us, not just 10%. What areas of your life are you holding back from full surrender to Jesus, and what would it look like to offer Him everything?-The phrase 'what we don't place on the altar will eventually become an altar' suggests that anything not surrendered to God can become an idol. What might this look like practically in your finances, relationships, or time?

Romans 9 opens with one of the most heart-wrenching statements in all of Scripture—Paul declares he would be willing to be cursed and cut off from Christ if it meant his Jewish brothers and sisters would find salvation. This isn't just rhetoric; it's the cry of a heart that mirrors God's own desire for the lost. We're confronted with an uncomfortable question: Do we carry this same burden for those who don't know Jesus? The passage challenges us to examine whether our faith has made us complacent or compassionate. Paul reminds us that Israel had everything—the covenants, the law, the prophets, the promises—yet they stumbled over the stumbling stone of Jesus Christ. This isn't just ancient history; it's a mirror for our own lives. We can have all the religious heritage, church attendance, and biblical knowledge in the world, but if we haven't built our lives on Jesus as the chief cornerstone, we've missed everything. The message is clear: when we stand before God, the only answer that matters begins with 'He'—Jesus paid our price. Everything else, every 'I did this' or 'my family was that,' falls short. This passage invites us to move from offense to foundation, from stumbling over Christ to building our entire existence upon Him.### Sermon Notes:**Introduction:**- The sermon is focused on Romans 9:1-5, discussing Paul's deep sorrow and fervent desire for the Israelites to recognize Jesus as the Messiah.- Paul expresses a willingness to be accursed if it meant the salvation of his fellow Jews.**Key Points:**1. **Recap of Romans 1-8:**  - Chapters 1-8 outline that all have sinned and salvation comes only through Jesus Christ, resulting in no condemnation for believers.  2. **Paul's Anguish for the Israelites:**  - Paul is deeply sorrowful, wishing he could take the place of his Jewish brethren to ensure their salvation.  - This mirrors Moses in Exodus who offered to be blotted out for the sake of his people.3. **Moses and the Israelites:**  - The story of the golden calf in Exodus 32 illustrates Israel's disobedience and idolatry.  - Despite their failures, Moses interceded for them, showing a type and shadow of Christ's ultimate sacrifice.4. **Jesus as the Anathema:**  - Unlike Moses or Paul, Jesus fulfilled the role of being accursed by taking on the sins of humanity.  - He becomes the cornerstone of faith as opposed to a stumbling block for those who reject Him.5. **Israel and the Rejection of Jesus:**  - Israel was given statutes, laws, and prophets but rejected Christ, who was predicted throughout their history.  - However, there remains a future hope for Israel's recognition of Christ as the Messiah.**Practical Applications:**- **Reflect on Sacrifice and Compassion:** - Emulate Paul's and Moses' compassion by earnestly praying for those who do not know Christ. - Contemplate the sacrificial nature of Jesus and how it can inspire personal sacrifice for others.- **Firm Foundation in Christ:** - Ensure that Christ is the cornerstone upon which all aspects of life are built. - Align personal life choices and behaviors with the teachings of the Bible.- **Discern and Preach the Gospel:** - Continue to share the message of the cross despite facing ridicule or opposition. - Use opportunities to discuss the faith and exemplify Christ-likeness in actions and words.**Discussion Questions:**1. How do the desires of Paul and Moses for their people challenge our own priorities and prayers for the unsaved?2. In what ways can we ensure that Jesus is the cornerstone in our lives rather than a stumbling block?3. How can the story of the golden calf teach us about obedience and faithfulness in our current cultural context?4. What are practical ways we can intercede for others, following the examples of Paul, Moses, and ultimately Jesus?These notes, applications, and questions encourage a deep reflection on personal faith, the role of Jesus as a savior, and our mission to live out and share the gospel.

In this episode, we take a leadership journey through the four essential pillars of successful organizational change: Vision, Emotional Intelligence, Decisiveness and Openness. Drawing from the recent article How to Successfully Lead Organizational Change, we explore how every leader – whether founder, C-suite executive or emerging internal change champion – can step into their role with clarity, confidence, and humanity. Expect concrete take-aways, real-world application and reflection prompts for your next big change initiative. Key Take-aways Vision is non-negotiable Change without a clear destination is like driving in the fog; your team will feel lost and unmotivated. (Breakfast Leadership Network) As the article states: “If you don't have a vision, you will also find it very difficult to motivate and lead your team.” (Breakfast Leadership Network) In practice: create a vivid picture of the “after-state” for your organization and share that widely. Emotional intelligence is the hidden accelerator Recognizing how your people are feeling—and why—is vital. (Breakfast Leadership Network) Change triggers uncertainty, fear, resistance. As the article reminds, being tuned in helps you support team members effectively. Practical tip: map out the emotional journey your team might take during the change. Pre-empt fears and build empathy early. Decisiveness keeps momentum alive In times of change, leadership vacillation kills progress. The article highlights that your team looks to you to “take the reins.” (Breakfast Leadership Network) It's not about making everything perfect—rather, about making the right call, owning it, and moving forward. Consider installing a decision framework: how will you determine when to act vs. when to pause and reflect. Openness builds trust and fuels participation Transparency matters more when things are shifting. The article says that being “open with your teams” is “especially important.” (Breakfast Leadership Network) Communicating the “why,” the “how,” and the “what's next” helps reduce fear and invites buy-in rather than resistance. Real-world practice: hold regular “change check-ins” where people can surface concerns, ask questions, and feel heard. Discussion Questions for Your Team: Reflect on a major change you led (or were part of). How clear was the vision? How did that shape the outcome? How do you as a leader stay emotionally tuned in during change—what practices help you sense team mood and response? In your experience, where do leaders most often hesitate during change? What tends to cause that hesitation and how can it be mitigated? What transparency looks like in your organization? Are you striking the right balance between “too little” and “too much” communication? Looking ahead: in your next organizational change initiative, which of these four pillars deserves most of your attention—and what will be your first action step? Action Steps for Listeners Grab a blank sheet and map your current or upcoming change initiative using the four pillars: Vision, Emotions, Decisiveness, Openness. Identify one thing you are not doing now (or could do better) in each pillar—and pick one pillar to focus on this week. Schedule a “change check-in” with your team where you openly share the vision, invite questions, and surface emotional reactions. Commit to a decision-cadence: set a fixed date (within next two weeks) when you will make a key change decision and communicate it, rather than letting it linger. Who Should Listen Founders, CEOs, senior leaders facing a significant organizational change (e.g., pivot, restructure, culture shift) HR, change-management and OD professionals charged with leading or supporting change efforts Emerging leaders looking to step into change-leadership roles and build their competence in guiding transitions Anyone interested in the human side of change—how emotions, trust and clarity influence outcomes. Links & Resources Link to the article: How to Successfully Lead Organizational Change Learn more: BreakfastLeadership.com/blog If you're planning a change initiative and need support, reach out for coaching and advisory services with the Breakfast Leadership Network. Final Thought Change is inevitable—but successful change doesn't just “happen.” It is led. As the article reminds us, it takes a visible vision, emotional attunement, bold decisions and open communication. If you lean into these four pillars, you'll lead not just a transition, but a transformation.

Parenting introduces new pressures at every stage, but it doesn't have to pull your marriage apart. In this episode, the MTR Team walk through four major parenting seasons and share how couples can stay united, intentional, and More Than Roommates at every stage.Discussion Questions:1- Which parenting season are we currently in, and how is it impacting our marriage right now?2- Do we feel like we're truly on the same team—or unintentionally siding with our kids over one another?3- How do our differences (personality, discipline style, love language) strengthen or strain our marriage?4- What is one intentional habit we can reintroduce (or start) to protect our marriage in this season?

Is it really Christian to support law enforcement agencies like ICE—or does faith demand something different? In this episode, Pastor Doug carefully examines how Christians should think about authority, justice, compassion, and the role of government. Rather than reacting emotionally or politically, this conversation invites listeners to slow down, think biblically, and wrestle honestly with a difficult and timely question.Support the mission of the Salty Pastor podcast! Visit our donations page at https://pushpay.com/g/thesaltypastor to help us continue sharing truth with a world in need.Discussion Questions:How should Christians balance obedience to governing authorities with compassion for vulnerable people?What biblical principles should guide our opinions before our political preferences?How can Christians engage divisive public issues without losing love, humility, and faithfulness to Christ?

In this episode, we reflect on the tender and often misunderstood topic of forgiveness, what it is, what it isn't, and why it's central to finding freedom in Christ. We talk honestly about how resentment and unforgiveness can quietly build in the heart, often as an attempt to protect ourselves from further pain. We also acknowledge how difficult forgiveness can be, what to do with the cry of our hearts when we have been wounded, and how to entrust it to God when we don't yet feel capable of forgiving. Friends, forgiveness does not strip us of our identity, it affirms who we are in Christ. Even in the deepest places of hurt, we find hope because of the loving presence of a God who never abandons us in our pain.   Heather's One Thing - Greatness of the Lord by Brooke Ligertwood Heather's Other One Thing - The Franciscan University Community  Sister Miriam's One Thing - Heather's Battle Cry Playlist Michelle's One Thing - Congratulations to Indiana University for winning the championship! Michelle's Other One Thing - The Correspondent by Virginia Evans   Other Resources Mentioned:  Forgiving as Unity with Christ: A Journey for Healing Resentment and Relationships by Dr. Robert Enright   Announcement: Our 2026 Lenten book study will be "The Way of Trust and Love" by Fr. Jacques Philippe. Scepter Publishers has offered 15% off with the code ABIDE15. They also offer an ebook version as well. We will announce more information about the study in the coming weeks!   Journal Questions: What are the unhealed places of your heart? Are you angry, sad, or frustrated at the wrong you've endured? How have I experienced shame about the wrongs I've endured or my own unforgiveness? How has this affected my health, wellbeing, or energy? How do I replay or obsess over the conflict I experienced?  How have I given into constant comparison in my unforgiveness? What major changes have occurred in my life because of the injustice I've experienced and how have they affected me? Has this experience led to a more negative worldview? How has my sense of self changed? Am I seeing myself as worthless?   Discussion Questions: How have you been sweeping things under the rug and calling it forgiveness? What deeper feelings lie beneath your resentment? Where in your life do you need to repent and take personal responsibility? Who has modeled repentance and forgiveness well in your life? How does your heart react to conflict and wrongdoing in relationships?   Quotes to Ponder: "Ultimately, we can really forgive people only because Christ rose from the dead; his Resurrection is the guarantee that God can cure every wrong and every hurt." (Fr. Jacques Philippe, Interior Freedom) Resentment attacks our vital forces and does us much harm. When someone has made us suffer, our tendency is to keep the memory of the wrong alive in our minds, like a "bill" we will produce in due time to demand settlement. Those accumulated bills end up poisoning our lives. It is wiser to cancel every debt, as the Gospel invites us to. In return, we will be forgiven everything, and our hearts will be set free, whereas nurturing resentment toward others closes us to the positive things they could contribute to us." (Fr. Jacques Philippe, Interior Freedom) Scripture for Lectio: "Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, "Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother who sins against me? Up to seven times?" Jesus answered, "I tell you, not just seven times, but seventy-seven times!"" (Matthew 18:21-22)   Sponsor - Blessed is She: "Who do you say that I am?" Jesus didn't ask this because He was uncertain of His identity. He asked because we often are. The disciples had walked with Him. They had seen the miracles. They had heard the teaching. And still, when the question was asked, many hesitated. Because proximity to Jesus does not automatically mean intimacy.  So often, our understanding of God is shaped by what we've absorbed over time—what we were taught, what we experienced, what others modeled for us. And without noticing, we begin to believe stories that aren't true.That God is distant. That He is easily disappointed. That love must be earned. That holiness requires perfection. But Jesus does not leave us guessing. He tells us who He is: I am the Light of the World. I am the Bread of Life. I am the Good Shepherd. I am the Way, the Truth, and the Life... Join Blessed is She this Lent to journey with Jesus to Jerusalem in Who Do You Say That I Am? by Debra Herbeck.  This Lenten devotional walks through the "I AM" statements of Jesus in the Gospel of John and is written to lead you out of assumptions and into encounter.  This Lent, let Jesus speak for Himself. And let that truth reshape the way you live. Whether you've been walking with Jesus for years or you just met Him, drink even more deeply of the truths of who Jesus says He is in Who Do You Say That I Am? Get your women's and kid's devotionals at blessedisshe.net/lent. Blessed is She is a Catholic women's community for any woman who wants to radically follow Jesus through a vibrantly Catholic life every single day.  We create beautiful and accessible resources (like this year's Lent devotional), products, and experiences to deepen prayer and foster community, both online and in person. We invite you into this community, no matter where you are on your walk with Christ. You belong here. Subscribe to our *free* daily emails to pray with the daily Mass readings and women all over the world at blessedisshe.net/subscribe and order the brand new Blessed is She Catholic journaling Bible at blessedisshe.net/shop.   Timestamps: 00:00 Blessed is She 01:30 Intro 02:16 Welcome 03:25 Scripture Verse and Quotes to Ponder 06:13 Repentance Leads to Freedom 07:53 Forgiveness is Hard 09:41 How Do I Forgive When I Don't Have the Capacity? 13:27 Modeling Repentance in Our Lives 17:35 Being Honest with Ourselves Can Be Painful 24:28 Sitting in the Pain and Setting Boundaries 29:34 Reflection Questions on Forgiveness 38:03 One Things

Discussion QuestionsSermon Overview Jesus' wisdom compels us to give honor to governments and ourselves to God.A. Live by the surpassing wisdom of Jesus.B. Give to human governments within limits.C. Give yourself to God without limits.Digging Deeper    Read Luke 20:20-261. How does believing that all resources are ultimately God's help us in submitting to the government? (e.g., paying taxes with faith God will provide, or not allowing our hope to be controlled by government over/underspending). 2. Name (in less than 30 seconds!) an area of politics which often frustrates you. What do you think Jesus would have to say about it? Try to consider any Scripture passages referencing this area. 3. How can we use the surpassing wisdom of Jesus to interact with governing authorities well?4. Where do you think you need to consciously limit - or elevate - the honor or trust you place in government? Why?5. How might we approach political involvement/rhetoric as a Christian witness to others? What about criticism of political leaders?6. What areas of your life (if any) do you think might be affected too much by politics? (areas named in the sermon were time, affections, and community)7. Read CrossWay's fourth defining value below: “As a result of our personal experience of God's love through the Gospel, we eagerly seek to obey the first and greatest commandment—to love the Lord with all our heart, soul, strength, and mind. This love is the natural and joyful response to experiencing God's gracious forgiveness, for the one who is “forgiven much, loves much.” This love for God will be expressed in all we do, but it will find a particularly heightened expression in worship, both personal and corporate.”What tends to limit you from loving God wholeheartedly? 8. Suppose a friend or coworker comes to you to vent about the most recent thing happening in the news. What would be a gospel-shaped response? 9. How do you need to trust in God's wisdom and sovereignty this week? Prayer

SEGMENT 10: GAZA DIPLOMACY AND INVITATIONS TO ADVERSARIES Guest: Mary Kissel Kissel analyzes the peculiar diplomatic landscape surrounding Gaza negotiations, including controversial outreach to bad actors like Putin. Discussion questions the wisdom of engaging hostile powers in Middle East peacemaking, the signals this sends to allies, and how the new administration might reshape these diplomatic approaches going forward.

What if the difference between feeling like roommates and feeling deeply connected was as simple as dating your spouse again? In this episode, the team unpacks the powerful framework of DATE—Dialogue, Affection, Time, and Ephesians 5 (love and respect)—and how practicing it can transform your marriage in any season.Discussion Questions:1- Which part of DATE do we currently do best? Which one do we tend to neglect?2- How has busyness, kids, or phones affected our dialogue?3- How can I love or respect you more clearly this week—in how I say things, not just what I say?4- What would one simple, realistic date look like in our current season?