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    Brooke and Jubal
    Strangest Inheritance Items

    Brooke and Jubal

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2026 6:25 Transcription Available


    A survey asked lawyers to share the strangest things they've ever seen written in a will... And we're going over the best responses!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Zo Williams: Voice of Reason
    The Anti-Promised Land

    Zo Williams: Voice of Reason

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2026 73:40


    The promised land of intimacy is not a quiet house. It is a payout. You walk in looking for the land of milk and honey embodied within a person. Someone to end the wandering. Someone to cash the check the first house bounced. Metaphorically speaking, Egypt is or was that first house. First deep love and first fracture in the same hands. Parental potters, works in progress, missing chances to love on you and tend what you needed. You loved them and quietly loathed them in the same breath. You lowered the price of being shaped. The labor was the cost of the strategy you had to develop, which let you keep the love for the parental potter's hands while surviving the mess their brokenness created within the environment and within your chest. Canaan is the fantasy that one later body will be the exodus. Disney named it happily ever after. Spacious. Sweet. Rest from that labor. Needs that no longer have to go on sale. No more exposure. No more self-knowledge. Happily ever after shirks the responsibility of a holographic relational environment. That environment is a crucible. Psychological nudity. Being known without a costume. The credits roll so you never have to stand in that. Inheritance, as if a vow sworn to a people could be performed by a spouse. You call that chemistry, destiny, finally. Intuition says I can rest now. Ask which climate trained that rest. The potter's house or here. Authority sold you settlement as love, then sold you the ending. Reason says one finite person cannot flow with milk and honey on command, and cannot cancel the crucible. Canaan in a couple is destination-logic, not peace-logic. In the text the land is sworn possession, deliverance into fruit after barrenness, pasture after scarcity, rest from war. Cities you did not build. Wells you did not dig. Vineyards you did not plant. Eat, be full, do not forget. That cargo gets dropped on a lover and renamed happily ever after. They will see you so the first invisibility dies. They will stay so the first leaving gets reversed. They will tend what the first potters missed. Conflict then feels like eviction from the land. Ordinary human limit feels like exile, like having to raise the price of yourself again. Peace becomes a product you buy with silence, sex, image, or church. You were not relating. You were occupying. The land already had people in it. Promise arrives with contest. Spies taste the fruit and still panic at the giants. Watch what you do after closeness. That is the empirical test. Do you soften into here, or do you scan for proof the giants are gone, the old quota is canceled, and the story has finally gone to credits. Their actual life becomes what must be driven out so your hunger can settle. A healthy bond is the anti-promised land because it refuses to hire one nervous system to finish the potter's job and refuses to play happily ever after with a human being. Presence is not a refund for Egypt. Relating is not collection for missed tending. Happily ever after is how the mask avoids psychological nudity. A kiss cannot annex a past. A vow cannot unwrite a childhood. The vows you can keep are smaller and harder. Tell the truth. Do not vanish. Do not turn their life into your territory. Stay in the exposure. Stay in the crucible. Covenant in the book can be lost. Exile sits in the same library as milk and honey. So can the marriage that was asked to be Canaan. The mask that will fight this hour is simple. I am the one who is owed rest from the labor of being shaped. I am the one who is owed a land that flows and a story that ends. If I drop that, I do not know who I am. Name one result that would change your mind. If you cannot, you are not inquiring. You are defending the deed. Are you with them in this room, or are you occupying them as the last Canaan that might still make you whole, waiting for them to keep a promise they never made, in a land they are not.

    America's Retirement Headquarters
    The Retirement Risks Most People Don't See Coming

    America's Retirement Headquarters

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2026 53:13


    Could a market downturn, an unexpected inheritance, or rising healthcare costs derail your retirement plans faster than you think? This week on the How to Retire Radio Show, the team from America’s Retirement Headquarters explores why retirees need more than investment growth to stay on track. Learn how a two-bucket income strategy may help manage market volatility, why healthcare costs before and after Medicare deserve close attention, how inherited assets can create tax and insurance surprises, and what changes when you join the “millionaire club.” The conversation highlights the importance of coordinating income, taxes, healthcare, and legacy planning as retirement approaches. About America's Retirement Headquarters: We are dedicated to helping retirees achieve the retirement they deserve. From crafting personalized retirement income strategies to providing a single location for all your retirement solutions, our goal is to guide you every step of the way. Let us help you navigate the complexities of retirement so that you can enjoy financial confidence and peace of mind.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Afternoon Drive with John Maytham
    Benefits of giving your children inheritance early

    Afternoon Drive with John Maytham

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 24, 2026 9:24 Transcription Available


    John Maytham is joined by Kenny Meiring, who unpacks the financial, tax and family considerations behind giving your children their inheritance sooner rather than later. Presenter John Maytham is an actor and author-turned-talk radio veteran and seasoned journalist. His show serves a round-up of local and international news coupled with the latest in business, sport, traffic and weather. The host’s eclectic interests mean the program often surprises the audience with intriguing book reviews and inspiring interviews profiling artists. A daily highlight is Rapid Fire, just after 5:30pm. CapeTalk fans call in, to stump the presenter with their general knowledge questions. Another firm favourite is the humorous Thursday crossing with award-winning journalist Rebecca Davis, called “Plan B”. Thank you for listening to a podcast from Afternoon Drive with John Maytham Listen live on Primedia+ weekdays from 15:00 and 18:00 (SA Time) to Afternoon Drive with John Maytham broadcast on CapeTalk https://buff.ly/NnFM3Nk For more from the show go to https://buff.ly/BSFy4Cn or find all the catch-up podcasts here https://buff.ly/n8nWt4x Subscribe to the CapeTalk Daily and Weekly Newsletters https://buff.ly/sbvVZD5 Follow us on social media: CapeTalk on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CapeTalk CapeTalk on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@capetalk CapeTalk on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ CapeTalk on X: https://x.com/CapeTalk CapeTalk on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CapeTalk567 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    rSlash
    r/Relationships My Dad Demanded My Inheritance

    rSlash

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2026 18:33


    0:00 Intro 0:09 More kids 2:51 Crying 6:25 Help cycle 9:52 Accident or not 11:57 Security footage 14:49 Inheritance Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    AMERICA OUT LOUD PODCAST NETWORK
    The great squandering: How America is spending its inheritance

    AMERICA OUT LOUD PODCAST NETWORK

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2026 56:55 Transcription Available


    America Out Loud PULSE with Dr. Randall Bock – Institutions thrive on inherited trust, competence, and capital, but decline when leaders treat those reserves as limitless. From universities and medicine to government and social life, the fallacy of abundance shows how standards erode, trust disappears, and prosperity weakens when stewardship gives way to ideology...

    Reformed Brotherhood | Sound Doctrine, Systematic Theology, and Brotherly Love
    The Good Samaritan, Part 1: Total Depravity, Self-Justification, and the Grammar of Grace

    Reformed Brotherhood | Sound Doctrine, Systematic Theology, and Brotherly Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2026 66:48


    In episode 502 of The Reformed Brotherhood, Tony and Jesse begin what promises to be a multi-part deep dive into the Parable of the Good Samaritan — one of the most culturally embedded and theologically rich stories Jesus ever told. But before a single character hits the Jericho road, the hosts ground listeners in something easily overlooked: the charged context in which this parable is told. A lawyer — trained, confident, adversarial — steps forward not to learn but to test. What follows is a masterclass in how Jesus turns the law back on those who wield it as a weapon. This episode covers Luke 10:21–36, explores the covenant of works and covenant of grace, the noetic effects of sin, and why the Good Samaritan is far more than a lesson in being a helpful neighbor. Buckle up. Key Takeaways The lawyer's question is self-contradictory from the start. Asking "what must I do to inherit eternal life?" smuggles a works-righteousness assumption into the very grammar of the question. Inheritance by definition is received, not earned. Jesus does not give the lawyer a new paradigm — He reorients him to the true one. The covenant of grace is not a New Testament innovation. It runs through every Old Testament covenant administration. The lawyer should have already known this. "Do this and you will live" is not a Pelagian concession. Christ is holding out the law's own terms — perfect, total, unrelenting obedience — not to suggest it is achievable, but to expose its impossibility and drive the lawyer (and us) to the only alternative: mercy. "Desiring to justify himself" is more complex than it first appears. Tony argues that the desire to fulfill the covenant of works is not inherently wicked — it is the misguided belief that one can which is the problem. This distinction creates room for reading Christ's response as genuinely merciful instruction, not merely rebuke. The noetic effects of sin mean accurate theology can be deployed in service of self. The lawyer knows the right answers and still uses them to avoid repentance. Correct doctrine alone does not save. The fundamental human problem is not ignorance — it is the will's bondage and the heart's self-love. The parable is primarily Christological, not merely ethical. Jesus is the Good Samaritan. The story is not first about mercy ministry; it is about who binds up our wounds when we are left for dead on the road, unable to save ourselves. The priest and the Levite are not exonerated by their ritual obligations. Considerable ink has been spilled trying to justify their passing by on grounds of Levitical purity concerns. The parable refuses that exit. Everyone in the story — and everyone listening — already knows what the right thing to do was. Key Concepts The Covenant of Works Is Not a Black Box One of the more quietly important arguments Tony makes in this episode is that the covenant of works was never meant to be mysterious or inaccessible. When Jesus responds to the lawyer's question by asking, "What is written in the law? How do you read it?" — He does so with a visible assumption: there is a clear, knowable answer, and the lawyer should be able to give it. And he does. Love God completely, love your neighbor as yourself. The covenant of works was always coherent and comprehensible. The problem has never been that its demands were obscure. The problem is that no one — save the Mediator — has ever kept them. Jesus is not introducing a new ethical framework. He is forcing the lawyer to confront a standard he has always known and has never met. The Lawyer as a Warning to Reformed Christians Jesse closes the episode's first movement with a pointed and personal application that cuts across theological self-satisfaction. The lawyer is not a caricature of ignorance — he is a portrait of someone with accurate, affirmed theological knowledge who instinctively deploys it in the service of self-justification the moment he senses conviction. Jesse names this directly as a danger particularly acute in Reformed circles, where doctrinal precision can become a subtle mechanism of self-defense rather than an occasion for repentance. The Reformation's great recovery of grace must not become a new form of the very disease it diagnosed. Knowing the right words about total depravity, the covenant of grace, and the mediator does not exempt anyone from the need to actually be humbled by them. Theology is not armor against repentance — it is, rightly received, the road toward it. Context Is Not Just Setup — It Is Part of the Lesson Tony and Jesse both emphasize that Luke 10:21–24 is not merely throat-clearing before the real content begins. The theological statement embedded there — that the Father has hidden these things from the wise and revealed them to little children, that no one knows the Son except the Father or the Father except the Son and those to whom the Son chooses to reveal Him — is the hermeneutical key to everything that follows. The lawyer approaches Jesus as one rabbi testing another. But Luke has already told his readers that this is not a conversation between equals debating interpretive options. It is the Lawgiver being questioned by someone who does not recognize Him. The parable that follows is not just an answer to a legal question. It is a revelation — the kind that only happens when the Son chooses to give it. Memorable Quotes You do not want to pit the law against the one who has given the law, the one whose character is represented in the law — because you're always going to get owned, and you'll get owned before you realize you've just gotten owned on multiple levels. - Jesse Schwamb Jesus is trying to sort of reorient them back to the true paradigm of grace that is present under all of the Old Covenant administrations. It's not so much a matter of developing a new framework and imposing it on this guy. It's really trying to say, 'Listen — think about this for a second. Think about the fact that, yes, you know you have to love the Lord your God with your whole heart, your whole soul, your whole strength, your whole mind, and you have to love your neighbor as yourself. You've answered correctly. If you can do those things, you will live.' — with the subtext: and of course you cannot possibly do those things. - Tony Arsenal The fundamental human problem is not primarily ignorance, but the will's bondage and the heart's self-love. It's a problem no amount of correct discipline or doctrine alone can fix apart from some kind of regenerating grace — which is exactly what Jesus is going to illustrate for us in the mercy he's about to display in this parable. - Jesse Schwamb Full Transcript Tony Arsenal: [00:00:00] This parable is not primarily about us figuring out how to do mercy ministry. Like, that's important. It's probably an outcome of this. It's probably something for us to think about. But really, this is actually Christ saying, like, "Hold on a second here, dude." Like, "Let's just think about this." Do you need someone who is going to tell you to pick yourself up off your bootstraps and cross to the other side of the street and leave you to your own devices? Or do you need someone who's gonna throw you on their donkey, who's gonna bind up your wounds, who's gonna pay the innkeeper, and is gonna pledge to pay everything that is owed for your salvation? Right? That's not too on the nose here, I think. Welcome to episode 502 of The Reformed Brotherhood. I'm [00:01:00] Jesse  And I'm Tony, and this is the podcast with ears to hear. Hey, brother.  Jesse Schwamb: Hey, brother. Well, we've got a big one to talk about on this episode. We're marching further and further into all of the glorious parables Jesus told as part of His teaching. And as you and I kind of joked before we began, I mean, what did you call it? Did you say this is, uh, the big daddy?  Tony Arsenal: It's the big daddy, one of the big daddy parables.  Jesse Schwamb: It's one of the big daddy parables. Now, this one is probably second maybe only to the prodigal son. Yeah But in terms of its ubiquity and its kind of just common knowledge in culture, this one ranks right up there. And before I reveal what it is, which you may already know, I was thinking how so many times we look at the Beatitudes as expression of a master class in Jesus teaching the law, and I think that's true. But as I was reading and thinking about this particular parable, I thought, "I don't know. I think this one is, uh, right up there," because [00:02:00] this is like law on law. It's double law. Yeah It's law coming back at the law giver who's trying to use the law to test Jesus, and then Jesus tests him with the law that He himself gave His people. It's... I'm already getting too excited- ... and we've got something to do before we get there. But we're talking about the parable of the Good Samaritan. And so I can't imagine, can I just make a prediction up front? I, you know where I'm going with this, and probably everybody else does. Uh, this is gonna be like two conversations-  Tony Arsenal: At least ...  Jesse Schwamb: probably.  Tony Arsenal: Yeah, at least two.  Jesse Schwamb: Is that fair? Because I realize we, of course, wanna get to the parable itself, and oh, my goodness, how much ink has been spilled. Even going back to, like, if you read, like, Augustine or, like, the early church, like the Patristics, the Church Fathers, there are so much that could be said, and maybe some stuff that just shouldn't be said about all the allegorical potential intent here about these characters. But [00:03:00] there's so much amazing stuff that happens in the opening of this, that's not just the setup, but it is its own lesson, and I'm real excited actually to talk about that with you before we even get into, like, all the good stuff that everybody expects that you wanna talk about. So we're gonna do it all. Tony Arsenal: Yeah.  Jesse Schwamb: We're gonna do it all, but it'll take time.  Tony Arsenal: Yeah. I'm interested to see if we're even on the same page about where to start reading, 'cause I, I think we might not be, and that's gonna be fun. So we'll, we'll let it fly and see what happens. It'll be our own little, uh, podcast game.  Jesse Schwamb: But, uh, I think- Well, I mean, we're gonna be in Luke chapter 10, but I guess to your point, we should be starting in Luke chapter one to get to this. Yeah.  Tony Arsenal: Exactly. But  Jesse Schwamb: we, we do have to back up quite a bit, and I was gonna ask you about that. Yeah. But I, apparently we're just gonna play that on the fly and see where we go.  Affirmations Denials Segment Jesse Schwamb: But of course, the Reformers had their five solos. Chalcedon had its, what, seven withouts. We've got opinions, and we're just as confident about ours, so of course it's time for affirmations, denials, where we affirm something that we think is good or awesome or [00:04:00] we wanna recommend, and we deny, again, something that is not so great or maybe just plain annoying. So before we talk about the Parable of the Good Samaritan, Tony, what do you got for us on this episode? Are you affirming with something, or are you gonna come in with a denial?  Tony Arsenal: Well, I've got two affirmations. That's fine. One is just- I will allow it ... a declaration of joy, and one is, like, a real affirmation. I, I just can't... It would be remiss of me not to share with our podcasting family that my son August and my daughter Adeline, uh, joined the visible church today as- Hear, hear ... uh, non-communicant members. Uh, Augie and Addie were baptized on the 16th of August of 2026, uh, into the visible church, into the name of Jesus Christ. Uh, was, it was just a great service. Um, it's funny because I've been- been talking with Augie. One of the thing with toddlers when you're doing something big like this is you kinda have to talk about it and practice and rehearse, rehearse it and, and get them ready for it. And up until maybe, like, I don't know, three days [00:05:00] ago, every time it would come up he would be saying, "I don't wanna be baptized. I don't wanna be baptized." And, um, you know, I, I, I, you know, I don't wanna force him to do something, but also, like, I make him eat vegetables. But, um- ... he, I, I think it was nerves, and I think something clicked in his head and all of a sudden he was very excited to be baptized. So, um, it was great. We've been talking about, you know, what baptism is, God's promise to you that if you trust him he'll save you. And so today he- Right ... he was like, "God's gonna make a promise to me to save me." So he was very excited. Nice. And he did a great job just standing quietly and listening to the pastor talk. Uh, and Addie was, was, was just a beautiful little girl, and she, um, she loved it as well. So that's just a bonus affirmation. I don't know that I could get through a podcast without gushing over that.  Glorify App and Devotionals Tony Arsenal: Uh, but the, the affirmation I have, uh, this is an, an app that I think some of our listeners may have heard of. Um, some may roll their eyes at it, to be honest with you. Um, I stumbled on this because, uh, you have an Oura Ring, don't you, Jesse? Jesse Schwamb: I do.  Tony Arsenal: You [00:06:00] do, yeah. So for those who don't know, an Oura Ring is like a little wearable ring that's like a, almost like a fitness tracker, but it tracks biometrics, pulse rate, temperature, all these different things, sleep. Um, there's a startup, uh, that has been doing a GoFundMe or a funding kind of thing for, uh, what they're calling like a Christian version of an Oura Ring. So it does a lot of the same things, sleep tracking, basic biometric tracking. Hmm. But it also has like alerts built in, and it's tied into an app that they use for devotionals. So it'll, it'll remind you to pray. It'll remind you, you know, bring you to an app to do a devotion. But the app it uses is a standalone app that I looked up, and it's called Glorify. Have you ever heard of this app before this evening? I have heard of  Jesse Schwamb: this, yeah.  Tony Arsenal: So Glorify is just a small devotional app. Uh, it's not much different than you would expect based on the name. It is connected to this, uh, to this Glorify ring, which again is, is sort of like an Oura Ring tied into this app. But this app basically is, is [00:07:00] designed to help you complete short daily devotional exercises, and they're usually very brief. They're based on a very brief, um, a very brief passage of scripture. Today's passage, uh, c- there's a quote. So today's quote is from Dietrich Bonhoeffer. It says, "True love does not consist in finding the perfect person, but in faithfully loving an imperfect one." Not sure why this devotional app is using a romance, uh, quote from Bonhoeffer of all people. But that was today's. Um, and the passage is Proverbs 5:15-17. So it's a, it's a devotional based on two verses, which is fine. So you read the passage. There's a very brief devotional on that passage, and then sort of a guided prayer, and they have both premium and free models. The premium model includes like you can listen to the devotional, you can listen to the prayer. Um, but just for example, today's prayer, it, it's very simple. "Loving Father, thank you for, uh, thank you because you're faithful and unchanging. In a world [00:08:00] marked by broken promises, disposable relationships, you remain the same. Teach me to reflect that faithfulness in my relationships. Help me to love with perseverance, grace, and commitment following the example of Christ. Protect marriages, strengthen families, restore what needs healing. May every relationship be marked by respect, truth, and genuine love. Shape in me a heart of integrity that honors you in both the small and significant choices of life. In Jesus' name, amen." So I think what I love about this, and this, I mentioned last week that there was, this is kind of like, sort of like the fluffy evangelical devotions. Like- Right ... there's not a ton of like solid doctrinal meat- But like, it's still nourishing. And sometimes we need a little bit of help. Sometimes we don't know what to pray, we don't know what to read, we're not sure. Sometimes in, I think in our Reformed circles, we feel like if we're not reading large portions of scripture and reading deep theological treaties or long, complex devotionals, that we're really not doing anything, and that's just not the [00:09:00] truth. So I've been using this in addition to other devotional studies I'm doing. I don't do it every day. I mean, there's some like streak functionality, kinda like habit tracking type stuff that's built into it. Um, but it's nice. It's nice to be able to pick it up, read a very short scripture, a brief devotional thought, and then have some guided prayer. I know one of the reasons I don't pray as often as I ought to is because I struggle to know what and how to pray. So even having some written prayers, I mean, this is why the Psalms are good, things like the Valley of Visions are good. Um, having some pre-written prayers that you genuinely pray but you're not having to come up with in the moment can really help. Right. So the app is called Glorify. I know it's available on iPhone. I'm not sure about Android. I'm sure it probably is. I'm sure they wanna have a pretty broad ecosystem. Um, and, and it's good. Again, it's, it's not anything fancy. It's not anything like super technical. Uh, and as I kind of alluded, like some of it's a little weird. Um, I, I didn't read the proverb. I think maybe the proverb is about romantic relationships, why they're, why they're tying in that, um, Bonhoeffer quote in, in the prayer. [00:10:00] But, um, even that, like it's pretty innocuous. And the quotes, like you don't have to read the quotes. It's not like you have to have to do that. Um, you could jump in, just read the scripture or just read the devotion and just do the prayer and you would be fine. So check it out. It's called Glorify, available on iPhone for sure. I'm pretty sure it's on, on Android. And maybe it's something you add daily, you know, this kinda thing like you do when you're on the bus or you're waiting at the grocery store, something quick you can do when you might be wasting that time just sorta sitting around or scrolling Twitter. Again, Twitter's fine. You can use your leisure time as you see fit. But if you wanna fill it with something like this, something that is more spiritual, then this would be a good option to just add a little bit of, uh, a little bit of nourishment to your diet where you might not otherwise be getting it  Jesse Schwamb: I have no proof of this, but I just keep saying it anyway. It might be that we're living in the golden age of really great- ... daily worship resources. Like, something to actually cultivate, not just, like, a devotional nugget, but something that actually leads you into a pattern and a habit of [00:11:00]worship, giving your attentive focus on Jesus. And I love that. So, uh, uh, 'cause I was just thinking, like, I was trying to look back on some of our past affirmations here. We've talked about the book Walking in Faith. I just gave everybody Awake My Soul last week. You're coming in with the Glorify app. I- we've talked about Dwell, if not recently, we've talked about that for some time. It's like a great Bible reading app, and there's lots and lots of new features, by the way, coming out on that- Yeah that are fantastic. And then, yes, all these other great prayers. I, I see, like, these books on prayer, like, actually, I'm sorry, like, prayer books, I guess, as, like, a great way to kinda... It's like a jumper for your car. You know what I mean? Like, just gets you started. What a, what a lovely thing to come into a place and have a launching pad. And I've been using a lot of Into His Presence, which is a collection of Puritan prayers, sometimes because, for instance, this just happened, where I wanted to pray for someone who was just going through a rough time, a good friend of mine. And I went to that place to kinda start and frame, knowing that I was gonna sit down with him and pray, how I might be able to do that well and [00:12:00] effectively. And these things are just, like, really phenomenal resources. It's just an amazing time to have all these things at our disposal. So that's another great option. It's, it's really more about, like you and I have talked about, Tony, like, whatever gets us into that pattern, whatever gets us, like, authentically experiencing under our own volition, coming in the discipline of sitting before God in daily worship with that expression being pretty broad in its representation- Yeah is to really include something of devotional time in the scriptures, memorization, metabolation, metabolizing. Metabolation, I'm just gonna make that up as, like- ... what happens when you, when you take the scripture and metabolize it into your own life. Meditating on it and, you know, again, maybe looking through the confessions and creeds that have shaped our distilled understanding of what the scripture teaches so that we're enhancing and edifying our mind. We're also engaging the heart, and then we're engaging God and ourselves in communication with Him through prayer. I'm all for anything [00:13:00] that gets us into those rhythms, reminds us of the importance of them, and like we talked about last week, makes it so that when we think about what it means to be married to Christ, so to speak, it's not just about whipping out some kind of marriage certificate to prove that, but that we actually have a frame and a behavioral pattern that fits a married person, that- Yeah how they act, how they think, how they behave, how they communicate, they're never too far away from their lovely spouse in some way or another. And so I think that these tools are great ways to get us exactly into that kind of mindset and practice.  Tony Arsenal: Yeah, absolutely. And like I said, like, I think- In our Reformed circles, we can, you know, we, we tend to be maybe a little eggheaded, and we, we tend to be a little more intellectual and, and a little more, I don't know, studious. And there's nothing wrong with that. Um, but I think sometimes it can breed a sort of, uh, elitism and arrogance. Sure. Uh, this is a perfectly valid devotional tool. Yes. Mm-hmm. And, and I think, [00:14:00] you know, kinda like the old adage, like, well, what's the best translation of scripture? Well, whichever one you're gonna read. Exactly. Like, what's the best devotional tool? Whichever one you're gonna use, whichever one's actually gonna bring you into the Word, uh, on a, on a regular basis. Um, and again, like, two verses of the scripture is two verses of the scripture that you might- Right ... not have other spent time, otherwise spent time reading. And it really is short enough, and it saves your progress. Like, you can do, you can do the quote in the morning, and then you can check the scripture on the way to the, you know, the word work, on a stoplight or whatever. Um, if you have the, the paid subscription, you can listen to this stuff, you know, on the, the bus or whatever. Um, so check it out. Glorify app, they have a ring they're making. It's in funding, I guess, if you wanna check it out, you can check that out too. I am neither affirming nor denying whatever this Glory ring is, Glorify ring. But, um, but yeah, the app is great. The, the app is free, and it's, it's worth even just checking out and adding once in a while to your day  Jesse Schwamb: The glory ring or the glorify ring sounds like almost too Tolkien, even for me  Tony Arsenal: Yeah. Yeah. It's the one ring to rule all of your devotions. [00:15:00] Uh, and in the, and in the morning bind them. Jesse, save me from the trail I was about to go on, and, and I was gonna speak in the language of Mordor, I think, on accident. Uh, save us from this. What are you affirming or denying?  Jesse Schwamb: That's  Tony Arsenal: beautiful. Please tell me it's the language of Mordor. Elvish AI and Music Pick Jesse Schwamb: Uh, no, but can I just say at the risk of really taking us really far afield so early on, which is not necessarily off-brand for us, I have done this... I, I don't know if I should be ashamed by this or I should be excited by this. But- ... um, the Elvish tongue in the Tolkien universe-  Tony Arsenal: Oh, no. ...  Jesse Schwamb: is like, there's several... If you're super nerdy, you'll know there's like several different kind of iterations or formulas of it, and there's no, like, official language like Klingon, but there ha- it has been studied, and basically, like, it's kind of like the Eugene Peterson of the language. Like, there's, like, just kind of a dynamic equivalent or an expression of words. Anyway, all that to say- ... there's several languages that, uh, Microsoft Copilot will just not [00:16:00] translate because it says, like, "This one, this language doesn't actually exist. There's not enough for me to do anything." Let me tell you something. Tolkien Elvish is not one of those languages, and I actually built an agent, because I have a coworker who can, uh, who can appreciate all this stuff, that takes a text, translates it into this kind of academic high-level Elvish from Tolkien, and then translates it back to English. That makes anything you're saying way better and far more poetic and just absolutely amazing. So if you wanna have some fun, go and do that with whatever your favorite AI model is. Anyway, that's free of charge. Real quick, my affirmation is more music. It just turns out I've found this band, and I've been listening to them a lot. The band's name is Thronebreaker, which is just a phenomenal name, I think, for any group. Uh, it's amazing. Uh, th- this is... I'm gonna read you their description from Spotify. It just says, "Thronebreaker is Christian metalcore built for the bruised, the doubting, and the ones still fighting their way home." And what I've really been [00:17:00] loving about them is it is kind of like Wolves at the Gate adjacent. It's really lovely music. It is melodic, so it's, there's not just that there's that kind of hard edge, but that is present in it. But, uh, the music is really lovely and beautiful, and in part that's because they're going through this, like, drip of releasing music where they're taking, like, old hymns or maybe songs if you're of a certain age like I am of kind of childhood Sunday school- And they're taking the lyrics, not the melody, and they're reimagining them. So they have two versions of Jesus Loves Me that they just released. They have the old We're Gonna Cross, a song called Glory to the King Most High. These songs are just saturated with gospel. Like, they're just all power, all encouragement, and all authority represented in Jesus Christ. They're incredible, and I've j- where I've, what I've been really blessed by is these two versions of Jesus Love Me are just fantastic. Like, they're orchestral. There is a children's kind of chorus at one point, and it got me [00:18:00] singing that song again, and really, maybe to what you were saying before, Tony, like sitting in those three words, which are really phenomenal words to hear. And so I have been surprised at how moved I've been by what really I, I first understood, of course, as a children's song with simple truth that seems, you know, depending on how long you've known some part of the gospel, obvious. And yet I found them all new again, and a, a really lovely way of just sitting in the truth of God in music that I didn't expect to find. So if you're interested in any of that or maybe just curious of what it would sound like if a Christian metalcore band took Jesus Loves Me and turned it into their genre, then honestly you should just go check out Throne Breaker. I mean, you pretty much have to at this point.  Tony Arsenal: I, I don't ever have anything to add to your musical affirmations or denials, 'cause I, I just don't. What I do have to add is that Throne Breaker actually sounds like some sort of really [00:19:00] amazing, like, mace-type weapon in Lord of the Rings. Yes.  Jesse Schwamb: Yes,  Tony Arsenal: it does. Or like a big hammer that a dwarf carries. And I would also like to say that if you ask Google Gemini to translate something into Tolkien English, it not only will do it, it will tell you how to pronounce it.  Google Elf: A ava aini Ilai amel i trona se.  Tony Arsenal: What do you think that was, Jesse?  Jesse Schwamb: No idea.  Tony Arsenal: First of all, that was elevated Quenya, a Quenya. Yes.  Jesse Schwamb: Yes, that's  Tony Arsenal: the one. Classic Quenya.  Jesse Schwamb: Yes.  Google Elf: A leta Ilai amel aima.  Tony Arsenal: I would be willing to bet... Actually, let's do this.  Jesse Schwamb: Ugh.  Tony Arsenal: Uh, we don't give out prizes very often. Uh, I will say to anyone who can tell me what that is, the first person that emails, uh, or, or goes into the Telegram chat, we'll do this. We'll be professional podcasters and drive people to one of our channels. Here we  Jesse Schwamb: go.  Tony Arsenal: The first person who goes to our telephone, our Telegram chat and tells me what that [00:20:00] means, what that, uh, Elvish means, will get a Reformed Brotherhood T-shirt.  Jesse Schwamb: Oh, that is big.  Tony Arsenal: Yeah.  Jesse Schwamb: That-  Tony Arsenal: So I'm gonna, I'm gonna play it one more time.  Jesse Schwamb: Okay, here we go. Everybody listen. Every- All right, pull over. Stop your vehicles. Here we go.  Google Elf: A leta Ilai amel aima.  Tony Arsenal: There it is, everybody.  Jesse Schwamb: I'm not being a cry- I have a guess, but I, I, I wanna try to win the T-shirt, so I'm gonna- Yes ... wi- withhold. All right. Uh, yeah, that's, that's super fun. Did it, um... Did you also translate it back into English from that  Tony Arsenal: just to see- No, I'll do that later, 'cause that would give away the, that would  Jesse Schwamb: give away the prize. Yeah, it's, it's... We'll have to save that for next week, because that, that is the fun. It creates, like, what I was doing to, to have fun with this coworker is take very technical, like, work-related emails, and I would send it through. It would go through that iterative process, and I actually loved how it, it was talking. Like, it wa- this was an email about risk, and it, it gave, like, these beautiful grand metaphors that didn't sound corny or cheesy. That's the beautiful thing. That's amazing. It [00:21:00] was like true Elvish. Like, you were just like, "I wish I spoke that way all the time about, about risk." And it, like I said, it wasn't just like... You could, you could obviously throw something in and be like, "Make this Shakespearean," or, you know, "Make this, you know, sound like, you know, Milton." This is way better. This is way better, because it's not, like, actually trying to manipulate what you're saying. It's takes, like, the dynamic equivalent of what you said, then translates it back with way more kind of poetic infrastructure while maintaining, like, the essential meaning that you have. I'm, I'm selling this too hard. Everybody just has to go out and try it. So, all right, you know what's at stake here, but here's how you have to win this. If you want a chance, if you want a chance at winning this, you gotta go to t.me/reformedbrotherhood, t.me/reformedbrotherhood, and that link will take you to the Telegram app and our little corner of it, and you're gonna find there's a bunch of chats there. You gotta go to the affirmations or denials chat, and then you gotta put in what is the translation of what Tony just played.[00:22:00] I just love... Isn't it amazing, though, that, like, y- as you discovered, there's more than one version of Elvish available? Yeah. And they do differentiate between the various kinds. This is a big deal. I learned there are actually scholars who have, like, again, filled in kind of like the details of the language- Oh, yeah taking as a basis what Tolkien had there. Yeah. So I think that this is the best. We couldn't have conceived of this if we'd actually tried and planned for it, so-  Tony Arsenal: It's true ...  Jesse Schwamb: it's just better that it all happened in, in real time. It's true. And, and speaking of which, I think now we get to have the fun of figuring out, uh, where in Luke chapter 10 are we gonna begin? Or should we just start in Luke 1 and just let's see how far we can get reading  Tony Arsenal: in this- I could have, I could have Google Gemini read it in elevated Kenya, Quenya I did try to get it to put it in Sindarin, and it wouldn't do it for some reason. I'm not sure. Maybe this anti-Sindarin bias in Gemini,  Jesse Schwamb: man. Disappointing.  Tony Arsenal: It's disappointing.  Jesse Schwamb: Dis- disappointing. So let's kick off some Good Samaritan talk, which again, I think is gonna take us [00:23:00] through maybe in the next couple of conversations, in part because, like I said, we're not even gonna start at, uh, verse 25 because there is so much more that needs to be said, I think, before that. Tony Arsenal: Yeah. Yeah. I, I think actually the proper place to start this, and I, I'm guessing Jesse probably, whether he was there or not, he probably figured out where I was going, uh, over the course of the last 20 minutes or whatever. Um, I actually think the proper place to start, at least one of the proper places to start, is in verse 21. Yeah. Um, and I- we'll talk about why that is. And I'll... I'm gonna read here, um, 21, uh, through the end of the parable. Uh, and this is Jesus talking. He says in this, uh... Well, it, this is, um... Yes, uh, I'll just read it here. "In the same hour He rejoiced in the Holy Spirit and said, 'I thank you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, that You have hidden these things from the wise and understanding and revealed them to little children. Yes, Father, for such was Your gracious will. All things have been handed over to Me by My Father, and no one who knows who the Son is except... No, no one knows who the Son is [00:24:00] except the Father, or who the Father is except the Son, and anyone to whom the Son chooses to reveal Himself.'" Then turning to the disciples, he said privately, "Blessed are the eyes that see what you see. For I tell you that many prophets and kings desired to see what you see and did not see it, and hear what you hear and did not hear it." And behold, a lawyer stood up to put him to the test, saying, "Teacher, what shall I do to inherit eternal life?" He said to him, "What is written in the Law? How do you read it?" And he answered, "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength, and with all your mind, and your neighbor as yourself." And he said to him, "You have answered correctly. Do this and you will live." But he, desiring to justify himself, said to Jesus, "And who is my neighbor?" Jesus replied, "A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, and he fell among robbers who stripped him and beat him and departed, leaving him half dead. Now by chance a priest was going down that road, and he saw him and passed on the other side. So likewise a Levite, [00:25:00] when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side. But a Samaritan, as he journeyed, came to where he was, and when he saw him he had compassion. He went to him and bound up his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. And he set him on his own animal and brought him to an inn and took care of him. The next day he took out two denarii, gave them to the innkeeper, saying, 'Take good care of him. Whatever you, whatever more you spend I will repay you when I come back.' Which of these three do you think proved to be a neighbor to the man who fell among the robbers?" And he said, "The one who showed him mercy." Jesus said to him, "You go and do likewise."  Jesse Schwamb: I think you're right, of course, to back us up into verse 21 because I don't want to keep saying it's always a setup, but Jesus is certainly giving us like the right context in which... Well, Luke of course is the author here and as he's explaining the teaching of Jesus, he does so well to start out with some irony that we don't realize is gonna be ironic until we get to the, to verse 25 [00:26:00] when we realize who's testing Jesus, who's setting this all up. So this idea that the Holy Spirit, everybody rejoicing in the Holy Spirit and the knowledge and the wisdom, the intelligence that's revealed through the Holy Spirit to all of these lesser people and in particular here emblematic the infants That here we have kings and rulers, and in this case, this beloved scholar of the law, who all have this adventure in missing the point. They think, in fact, they're looking for the one who is to set them free, and they can't even see that it's Him who is before him. And yet, incidentally, God has already revealed all these things to the lowest, to the ones who are the most humble, the meek, the mild, the down and outs, the ones who are weak by the view of everybody else. And so it's amazing that if we just kinda, again, like blow past it into, like, just all the characters, we don't see that the teaching starts actually well above this, that even everything we're about to understand, that unfolds in our lives, ev- every spiritual incarnation and insight that we have [00:27:00] first starts with God himself in his revealing it to us both in his general revelation, but of course, in the specific revelation of his teaching. So I like that you started us there, because I, I'm with you. That's where this whole thing launches off, right?  Tony Arsenal: Yeah.  Parables Reveal and Conceal Tony Arsenal: Yeah, and as we come into when we very, like very start of this, uh, series, the, the parable series, Jesus sort of embeds a theology of parables into this introduction, right? Or I should say Luke does. But this, uh, this is written a- as though all of this is occurring as sort of one event. Right. And likely it was, right? So sometimes, uh, in the Gospels, events are kind of, like, moved next to each other for thematic reasons. It's possible that that's the case. It seems like this may have actually just been one, one teaching, and I'll, I'll talk about why that is in a second here. Um, but at the very least, this is placed next to each other in the Gospel almost as, like a, "Here's the theology of parables. Now, here's actually that happening in real [00:28:00] time."  Jesse Schwamb: Yes.  Tony Arsenal: And then also, like, a parable kinda demonstrating it, right? So the theology of the parable here is that there are many prophets, kings who desire to see what it is that, that, uh, uh, the disciples are seeing, right? And all things have been handed over to the Father or to, to the Son, by the Father, and no one knows who the Son is except the Father. No one who knows who the Father is except the Son, and anyone to whom the Son chooses to reveal, right? So the, the theology of parables here presented in Luke is that the parable itself is being used as a way to reveal the Father and the Son to those whom the Son chooses to reveal it to. The Lawyer as the Fool Tony Arsenal: And that leaves us with this lawyer, um, sort of playing, playing the fool in almost like a dramatic sense, right? In a lot of drama, there's kind of like the fool character who's sort of like the foil or the idiot of the thing who's, who's unaware and is almost like made an example of, right? Um, I, I can't think of any examples off the top of my head, but there's often a character in a play who's like, uh, it's [00:29:00] almost like the opposite of the everyman, right? The everyman in a, in a play- Right ... or in a movie is sort of like the outsider who things gets explained to, and he's sort of the proxy for, for the audience. Um, I think like, um, Hawkeye in Avengers is kind of the everyman. He's sort of just like this regular dude swept up in this thing, and oftentimes he's the one that, uh, the big characters are explaining things to. And really what that is is the big characters are explaining that to the audience through this proxy. There's also this concept of the fool in a lot of these plays or movies who's sort of like the dummy, the idiot of the play, who things are explained to, and it's still a way to explain it to the audience, but the character doesn't get it. And so that's kind of, kind of the role that this lawyer is playing in this, this narrative here. He, he steps forward. He's like, "What must I do to inherit eternal life?" Jesus answers his question, and then in this like sort of like stunning moment of, like unawareness, he's trying to justify himself. He says, "Well, who is my neighbor?"[00:30:00] As though that's a question that needed to be asked, right? I think, like, we sort of think of it as like, "Oh, yeah, that's a valid question." I actually don't think it is. Like, it's pretty obvious, in the Old Testament at least, who your neighbor is. It's the people who live immediately with you. It's the other people of Israel. It's the people in your immediate concentric circles, the people you have direct access to. Um, and so then Jesus explains it through this parable, and whether or not he gets it at the end, I guess is maybe a little bit unclear. We can talk about that as we get there. But at least in the beginning, he's portrayed as this sort of, like, fool who doesn't understand what Jesus is saying, and then this parable is taught. So it's this theology of, um, revelation to those whom it is intended to, and further obscuring from those it's intended not to, not to illuminate, which is identical. Uh, maybe it's a different flavor of the same thing, but it's the same thing as what Matthew had and what Jesus taught- Right ... in Matthew with the parables. Jesse Schwamb: Right. It definitely is, again, illustrating, again, God's divine prerogative. I think you really have to do a lot of theological gymnastics [00:31:00] to try to work yourself out of a place here that says, like, "Well, this, this knowledge is accessible to all people."  Tony Arsenal: Right.  Jesse Schwamb: That if somehow we just work hard enough, study hard enough, come even before God with the right attitude or do the right things, that somehow all this will be made plain to us, and that's certainly not the truth here. In fact, again, the ironic setup is you have this lawyer asking this question, which creates this strange contrast because here's a man trained in the law, and he approaches the very wisdom of God to test him while the little children already perceive what this fool cannot. So it's irony upon irony, and then I, I like what you're saying. I think, and we'll get to this to anticipate a bit, I'm reading this as he's hoping that the answer to whom is my neighbor, just like he- he's received the affirmative from Jesus saying, "Yes, you understand. Go and do these things. This is life," and we'll get to all of what that means, I think, as well in terms of the covenant of works and the covenant of grace. But I think he's hoping that the definition of neighbor is gonna mean that he has [00:32:00] already accomplished the thing then, so that if there's somehow- Yeah ... he could just set the right boundaries. He could say, "Ah, yeah, I'm already good then, Jesus. I already, already did all that stuff." So- It's wild to me that it, it all starts with, of course, like some kind of scribal specialist in the Torah, of course, likely some kind of Pharisee by theological alignment. And as I'm looking at the notes here, what I find particularly stunning as we start this out is that Luke, of course, is able to speak several times in this parable to the intent. And so he says right away with great kind of fanfare and description that the intent here from this scribal Torah person was to test or to tempt, which is the same verb used of Satan's temptation of Christ and of Israel's testing of God in Deuteronomy 6, which of course Jesus is gonna quote here later on. So it's not, of course, like sincere inquiry, like you're saying. It, it is like adversarial probing. It is like really profound setup. It is dripping with like [00:33:00] ulterior motive. It's seeking to expose Jesus as either like heterodox or as diminishing the law's demands. And I think we've talked about this before, so Tony, correct me if I'm wrong, but I'm pretty sure in one of the previous parables we talked about sometimes how these get set up with this kind of weird like oxymoronic setting. Inherit Eternal Life Debate Jesse Schwamb: So like this question of se- uh, uh, itself, what shall I do to inherit eternal life?  Tony Arsenal: Yeah.  Jesse Schwamb: It's like more than just theologically revealing. Biblically it's self-contradictory, 'cause of course like we talked about inheritance, I think actually when we went through the, the parable of the prodigal. By definition, that's received, of course, on the ba- basis of relationship or promise. It's not earned by performance. And if the inheritance comes by a law, it no longer comes by promise, right? I think that's like Galatians. So the lawyer's question already portray- portrays like some kind of weird works righteous paradigm. E- even if you think he's really after trying to understand the true intent of God's heart [00:34:00] behind the law, he is assuming at least in this question that eternal life is some kind of wage that he can earn rather than a gift to be received by grace through faith. And that's a fundamental error that the entire subsequent exchange, including the parable, is designed to expose. It's both, like you're saying, Tony, he has not learned yet what it means to be in the kingdom of God. He's outside of that, and so he's trying... Now Jesus is bringing in this corrective action, as it were, set up in a story, but he's gonna turn the law on him, which, which I don't wanna get too excited about that yet. But he's... But essentially, here we have somebody who's the expert in the law trying to leverage the law by way of force against the one who he does not understand has all leverage and authority over him, and is in fact the law giver himself So he's gonna, Jesus is gonna drive him to see his own ability to keep the law that he claims to honor, and that's more than just brilliant. This is what the law does. You do not wanna pit the law against the one who has given the law, the [00:35:00] one whose character is represented in the law, because you're always going to get owned, and you'll get owned before you realize you've just gotten owned on multiple levels, and I think that's what basically unfolds here. Tony Arsenal: Yeah. Yeah, I, I have a little bit of a different take on the, the word inherit here. Um, I don't think what you're saying is wrong, um, but I think there's a little different flavor here, and actually, I, I think it, it still sort of propels us forward to the conversation we have to have, um, about the law and the gospel and the covenant of works, the covenant of grace. The, the Greek that lays under this word is, uh, it's a compound word of the word for, like, lot or portion and the word for law. And so, so the, this force of the word is more along the lines of, like, what shall I do to have a legal right to eternal life? Like- Right ... inherit, I think we hear inherit, and we think of, like, um, like what you get when someone dies, and so, like, obviously there's nothing you do to earn it, and that's certainly an element of the way this [00:36:00] word is used in some instances. I think reading this and kind of how, how the rest of the text plays out, this lawyer is coming forward and he's like, "What do I need to do to have a rightful legal claim to eternal life?" Right? We might even be able, and this is where it comes into the covenant of grace, covenant of works k- kind of paradigm. We might even be able to say that what this lawyer or this person comes forward to ask Jesus is, how do I gain, how do I gain the benefits of the covenant of works, right?  Jesse Schwamb: Right.  Tony Arsenal: Yep. That's language that was developed later that's not, not, like, biblical language in terms of, like, the actual language within the text, but that's the force of what he's saying. What must I do to be a rightful legal... Uh, what must I do to have a rightful legal claim on all of the blessings of the covenant of works, is really the question that's here. And so Jesus' answer is so instructive- Right ... 'cause what he says is, "Well, what's written in the law?" Like, he, he basically says, like, "Well, you should be able to tell me, teacher- Exactly of [00:37:00] the law, like, what, what needs to happen there." And there's an assumption on Christ's part that, like, there is an answer. I think sometimes, sometimes we, we, uh, we make an error in thinking that the covenant of works was never attainable, that it's somehow this, like, um, it's almost like a black box. Like, nobody could know what we have to do to, like, obtain eternal life. That's absolutely not the assumption Jesus makes. Jesus not only knows that there's an answer, it's such a straightforward answer that he expects this scribe to be able to answer it, right? And the scribe can, right? The scribe says, "Well, you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, your soul, your mind, your strength, and your neighbor as yourself," right? The summary of the law. Just good old classic Westminster larger, shorter catechism. Where's the law summarily comprehended? Summarily comprehended in the Ten Commandments. And then, then again, I don't know the questions exactly, but then it also, like, says, like, "Where does Christ summarize this?" Well, you should love the Lord your God, and you should love your [00:38:00] neighbor as yourself, right? Covenant Works and Grace Tony Arsenal: So the, the lawyer comes forward and says, "What do I need to do to have a legal right to all of the blessings of the covenant of works?" Christ says, "Well, what do you think?" He says, "Well, you obey the entirety of the law." And he says, "You've answered correctly. Do this. Obey the entirety of the law and you will live." So the parable itself doesn't necessarily speak to this law, gospel, covenant of works, covenant of grace paradigm. The, the parable is used to show that not only does this lawyer know what is required of him, but that he won't do it.  Jesse Schwamb: Right.  Tony Arsenal: And I think that's really key, because even in the parable, within the parable itself, there are these figures that know what they should do, right? I, I think, um, we'll get into it, but there's a lot of ink spilled on almost like, um, explaining [00:39:00] why the priest and the Phar- phar- and the, the Levite almost like did the right thing by going to the other side of the room, and it points to like, well, their priestly and Levitical responsibilities, if they touch a dead body, like they can't do those things, and those things are so important. Like, there's a lot of ink spilled trying to almost explain why what they did is right, when the point of the parable is that actually we all know what the right thing to do in that sense was. And even the most righteous people in the mind of the hearers, the Levites and the priests, the most righteous people, even they don't do what they're supposed to do. Jesse Schwamb: Right.  Tony Arsenal: This, this paradigm, this gospel law paradigm, law gospel paradigm, this covenant of works, covenant of grace paradigm, is so baked into the very like fabric of, of human thought that it's just there. And Christ takes this time to point out to this lawyer, like, "You know what's expected of you." And so that's why the phrase desiring to justify himself is so key [00:40:00] here. I actually think that the, the, the I don't wanna go so far as to say, like, that this person was regenerated in the midst of this conversation, 'cause I don't know that. But I actually think that there's a forward movement of this lawyer as he interacts with Christ that is optimistic. I'm optimistic about it, right? Right. He starts out trying to test Jesus, then he star- then he moves to having a desire to justify himself. I think we hear that, we read that, desiring to justify himself, we automatically think that that's a negative thing. But if we think about justifying himself in terms of what he's talking about, how do I fulfill the obligations of the covenant of works, that's not a bad thing to wanna do. Right. It's not bad to wanna obey God's law and to lay claim to His promises. It's a misguided notion of something we can't accomplish, but in itself, desiring to justify himself is to desire to fulfill the obligations of the covenant of works. That's not necessarily a bad thing. And so I think this is a merciful, a merciful [00:41:00] teaching on Christ's part. He's trying to instruct this guy to say, "Look, you can't do it. And even if you could do it, you wouldn't do it. So let's, let's talk about mercy instead and what that looks like." And that's where we get to kind of the end of the, uh, the end of the parable.  Jesse Schwamb: And again, we have to remember that we know that the intent here is actually to test or try Jesus, so He's certainly being merciful by using this opportunity not to just put him on blast, but to actually provide true instruction. And of course, like, that was, to some degree, this turning the question back would've been, like, a rabbinic pedagogical technique, but theologically, this is what floors me, is from the jump, Jesus refuses to let this man treat Him merely as one more voice among competing rabbis. Yeah. Instead, He holds that lawyer to the standard of God's own revealed word by, like you said, asking not just what does it say, but how do you read it? Mm-hmm. He's pressing not just for, like, some kind of recitation, but for the lawyer's own understanding and application, and Jesus is gonna hold him [00:42:00] accountable to his own hermeneutic. So by, by the time we get the answer, we know as readers, and all those present would've understood, he already knows the right answer, and he's not ignorant to God's requirements. He already summarizes the whole moral law correctly, encompassing both tables of the Decalogue. And so I think that does lead us then to this statement that we probably should spend a little time on, like, do this and you will live, like you introduced for us. Like, what does that even mean? Because i- it's not, like, in my view It's not like a Pelagian or Arminian concession that law keeping actually saves. I mean, it is the covenant of works principle stated truly inexorably that the law as law does promise life to perfect obedience. But that's the exact problem. I, I like what you said that it's not as if we can't understand what it would be to comprehend or contemplate this perfect law and what it means to fall under the covenant of works. It's just that he also presents for us at the same time this covenant of grace in which life is [00:43:00] granted freely through faith in the mediator who alone fulfills all of these laws' demands. So it's wild in this back and forth that's happening here where it's... I don't even know if it's fair to say this is like the most incredible subtext ever. I'm imagining trying to process this in real time and realizing everything that's being said, not just listening to what's being said and like the technical answers going back and forth. But I think like you said, that the Spirit even here is at work, I would like to believe, in the life and at the heart and the mind of this lawyer who's bringing forward this question with nefarious intent first to test and to undermine, and then is being drawn in almost inexorably into this debate to more profound understanding about a covenant based on works that cannot be accomplished, uh, in perfect obedience except through the mediator who organizes and distributes liberally this covenant of grace to his children for whom he has accomplished at least passively and then actively in his obedience in life and death. And so Jesus' reply is, I [00:44:00] think, thus a very genuine like if that functions to expose an impossibility. I, I don't think he's teaching salvation by works here, of course. He is holding out the law's own terms so that the lawyer and everybody else listening, and even us as well, can discover through this narrative which is about to happen the impossibility of self-produced righteousness, which again is what this gentleman is theologically all about. He's trying to justify himself. And that is precisely the pedagogical strategy like Paul uses later when he systemizes all of this by saying that the law was our guardian or school master until Christ came in order that we might be justified by faith. I think- Yeah ... and it's only because God is good to us and we might sit in some of this teaching, I think this is all in play. So, so I ask you, like, have I gone too far with all this? Like, how much do you think in the real time was being processed? And maybe that's a horrible question to ask because we know the Spirit does this work of illumination and enlightenment, and we're on the other [00:45:00] side of this and have this time to sit and to kind of parse and to really kind of just be pickled in all of this. But there's so much happening here, right?  Tony Arsenal: Yeah. Yeah. Uh, maybe I'll answer the question a, a little bit of a different way. I think, um- We often can think about Old Testament religion, if we wanna kinda call it that. We think about Old Testament religion as though it was totally uniform and, um, entirely legalistic. Right. Uh, my- the, the listener is gonna panic a little bit when I say this, so please don't freak out, but I, I think N.T. Wright, uh, and some of the new perspective on Paul stuff is a, a little bit helpful in this, in that it gives us a foil to sorta push against. Yes. The new perspective on Paul is this idea that, um- Paul was not saying that Judaism was legalistic and Christianity is a grace-based religion, right? He, m- [00:46:00] um, N- NPP is not, is saying, um, Paul was not correcting New or Old Testament religion. And where they go wrong is that they say that Paul actually retains this concept of covenantal faithfulness, covenantal nomism fidelity. Uh, where I think, where I think they're right is that this idea that, like, the Old Testament religion is entirely legalistic and Paul was just sort of correcting that, I think that's way too simplistic. And the reason I say that is that the Mosaic Covenant for, you know, w- and predominantly this podcast is coming from a sort of Westminster Confession of Faith Presbyterian perspective, give or take, right? The, the broad Reformed tradition would say that the, the Mosaic, uh, covenant, the Davidic Covenant, all of the covenants of the Old Testament, and we can break them up in all sorts of different ways, but all of the covenants of the Old Testament, [00:47:00] um, with maybe the exception of the Noahic Covenant, and there's some debate about that, all of those are They're not just, like, supporting structures for the covenant of grace, but they actually are the covenant of grace in various administrations. If that's true, and of course we believe that it is, if that's true, then the people of those covenants understood that on some level. Right. Right? So to think that, like, people under the administration of the covenant of grace somehow thought that they were operating under a legalistic framework doesn't make any sense. Jesse Schwamb: Yeah,  Tony Arsenal: that's true. So, so where I think that applies here is I think this person coming forward, it's not as though the concept of the covenant of grace... Again, that's language that we would develop later, but the concept that God graciously saves His people by the counsel of His own will, apart from their works of righteousness, apart from their meritorious effort, that God [00:48:00] simply extends His grace and conveys the cov- the blessings of the covenant of works to those who trust in the mediator, those who trust in the one to come, the, the forthcoming serpent-crushing seed, right, if you wanna use- Right language from Genesis 3. The, the idea that God simply graciously conveys the blessings of the covenant of works to those people Um, that's not something that's alien to the Old Testament, right? It's not alien to the, even to the Mosaic economy. The most law-based of all of the Old Testament, um, covenants, even that starts with the concept that these people are God's people who he redeemed out of Egypt, right? Right. The redemption out of Egypt comes before the giving of the law, and the giving of the law is a result of the redemption out of Egypt. So to think that this lawyer comes forward, and again, this had been sort of corrupted and distorted and had become a very works-based, uh, [00:49:00] meritorious-based understanding. But the idea that this framework of a covenant of grace is totally alien to this guy just doesn't, it just doesn't, I think it doesn't play. And so I think rather than us read this as I think sometimes we do, of Christ as kind of like giving this guy, trying to give this guy an entirely new paradigm, or like the rich young ruler is very much a parallel kind of situation. We read this, this guy comes forward, he's like, "What do I gotta do to earn eternal life?" Christ is like, kinda basically says like, "Well, you dum-dum, you can't. And I'm gonna demonstrate for you that you can't by- Right ... taking sort of like this situation that you can't possibly believe that you fulfilled and telling you to fulfill it." That's the outcome of this. We'll get to that when we get to the end of the parable. Um, he's not trying to give them a new paradigm. He's trying, in my opinion, he's trying to sort of reorient them back to the true paradigm of grace that is present under all of the Old Covenant administrations. So it's not so much a matter of like [00:50:00] developing a new framework and impli- like imposing this new framework on this guy. It's really trying to say like, "Listen- Think about this for a second, dude. Think about this, right? Think about the fact that, yes, you know you have to love the Lord your God with your whole heart, your whole soul, your whole strength, your whole mind, and you have to love your neighbor as yourself, right? You've answered correctly. If you can do those things, you will live. With the subtext, which I think is what you're getting at, the subtext of, like, and of course you cannot possibly do those things. Right. Right. So what's the alternative, my friend? The alternative is not justifying yourself by somehow identifying who the person is that you have to love the most. The, the, the, um, the... Well, we'll get this when we get to the parable itself, but the, the alternative is... This will be interesting, 'cause I'm not sure that we... I don't know where you are on this, but, um, the alternative is that there's someone out there who shows us mercy. [00:51:00] Right. There's someone out there who takes care of our need despite our total inability to do so. Jesse Schwamb: That's right.  Tony Arsenal: That's the alternative to the covenant of works, is the covenant of grace. I m- maybe I'm, like, hinting at it too much, so I'll just say it. Like, Jesus is the Good Samaritan, right? Like, there's something for us to learn about our own justification here and our own- Right ... like, um, our own need to be merciful, to treat people as our neighbors. But just like we talked about when we talked about, like, what does the least of these mean, this parable, uh, I'm totally, like, burying the lede for next, next week, but that's fine. This parable is not primarily about us figuring out how to do mercy ministry. Right. Like, that's important. It's probably an outcome of this. It's probably something for us to think about. But really, this is actually Christ saying, like, "Hold on a second here, dude." Like, "Let's just think about this." Do you need someone who is going to tell you to pick yourself up off your bootstraps and cross to the other side of the street and leave you to [00:52:00] your own devices? Or do you need someone who's gonna throw you on their donkey, who's gonna bind up your wounds, who's gonna pay the innkeeper, and is gonna pledge to play- pay everything that is owed for your salvation? Right? That's not too on the nose here, I think. Right. And, and I really look forward to, like, unpacking that, although maybe we don't need to now, but I think, like, this parable is so much more about how salvation works than it is about, like, what it means to have a good neighbor and to be a good neighbor. I think we get bogged down in that, and I just am really excited to talk more about, like, what I think this parable actually gets at.  Jesse Schwamb: I agree, and it's happening in the contex

    Mark Narrations - The Wafflecast Reddit Stories
    My MIL Moved In With Us And Then Cut Her Daughter Out Of The Inheritance | r/BestOf

    Mark Narrations - The Wafflecast Reddit Stories

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2026 28:48


    In today's r/BestOf, OP and his Wife allow the mother-in-law to move in with them after her husband passes away but then she removes her from the inheritance. 00:00 Intro00:19 Story 1 u/Old-Memory160305:52 Comments07:32 Update14:24 Comments16:49 Story 2 u/commonbimbo19:40 Comments23:42 Update26:35 Comments28:16 Outro Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Ramsey Call of the Day
    My Dad Is Keeping My $400,000 Inheritance From Me

    Ramsey Call of the Day

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2026 8:51


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    Dad Left Me Inheritance Behind His Wife's Back - Now She's Demanding It | r/BestOf

    Mark Narrations - The Wafflecast Reddit Stories

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2026 26:37


    In today's r/WIBTB story, OP keeps their late father's money instead of giving it to his wife, believing it rightfully belongs to them. Now the family is divided and OP is being painted as selfish. But the truth behind the inheritance might change everything.0:00 Intro0:19 Story 13:32 Story 1 Comments5:50 Story 1 update 18:40 Story 1 Update 210:56 Story 1 Update 312:58 Story 1 Update 415:41 Story 218:24 Story 2 Comments / OP's Replies20:11 Story 2 Update 121:01 Story 2 Update 221:44 Story 323:22 Story 3 Comments25:35 Story 3 Update Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Kentucky Fried Homicide
    Bart Whitaker: The Sugar Land Murders

    Kentucky Fried Homicide

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2026 72:39


    On December 10, 2003, the Whitaker family sat down for what they thought was a graduation dinner. By the time they got home, a masked gunman was waiting inside their house — and two of them wouldn't survive the night. On the surface, it looked like a burglary interrupted. But within days, investigators discovered that the "victim" sitting in the back seat, 24-year-old Bart Whitaker, had actually orchestrated the entire attack — and that this wasn't even his first attempt. In this episode, we dig into the disturbing timeline of the Whitaker family murders in Sugar Land, Texas: the failed 2000 plot involving a Baylor roommate, the aborted 2001 murder-for-hire scheme that a former classmate walked into a police station to confess, and the final, successful conspiracy that took the lives of Bart's mother, Tricia, and his 19-year-old brother, Kevin. We trace Bart's troubled teenage years — including a string of school burglaries at 17 — through the recruitment of at least four separate accomplices, the frantic days-long investigation that unraveled his lies about college, his years as a fugitive in Mexico, and the courtroom battle over what actually drove him to try to erase his own family, not once, but repeatedly. We also spend real time on what happened after the conviction: Kent Whitaker, the father who survived being shot in his own family's ambush, publicly forgiving his son and spending over a decade fighting to keep him off death row — a fight that came down to the final 40 minutes before a scheduled execution. It's a case that asks hard questions about motive, memory, and what forgiveness can look like when the person you're forgiving is the one who took almost everything from you. Sources used for this podcast Join the H2H In-laws & Outlaws Follow H2H on Instagram Follow H2H on X Send Kris and Rob a Text or Message Start Reading Kris Calvert's Books for FREE   Bart Whitaker, Sugar Land Murders, Whitaker family murders, Thomas Bartlett Whitaker, Sugar Land Texas murder, Bart Whitaker family murder, Fake graduation murder, Sugar Lakes subdivision murder, Kent Whitaker, Tricia Whitaker, Patricia Whitaker, Kevin Whitaker, Chris Brashear, Steve Champagne, Steven Champagne, Pappadeaux dinner murder, Sam Houston State University fake graduation, Murder for inheritance, Murder-for-hire Texas, Texas true crime, Family murder, Inheritance murder, Murderous son, Suburban murder, Capital murder Texas, True crime podcast, Family betrayal murder, Deadly family dynamics  #BartWhitaker, #SugarLandMurders, #WhitakerFamily, #SugarLandTexas, #TexasTrueCrime, #FamilyMurder, #MurderForHire, #Hitched2Homicide, #TrueCrimePodcast, #TrueCrime, #TrueCrimeCommunity, #CrimeJunkie, #TrueCrimeAddict, #InheritanceMurder, #MurderousSon, #FamilyBetrayal, #SuburbanNightmare, #DeathRowStories, #TexasCrime, #RealCrime, #CrimeStory Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    Kingdom Success: Christian | Jesus | Success | Prosperity | Faith | Business | Entrepreneur | Sales | Money | Health
    KS 434 - What If Your Greatest Inheritance Is A Journal

    Kingdom Success: Christian | Jesus | Success | Prosperity | Faith | Business | Entrepreneur | Sales | Money | Health

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 18, 2026 13:36 Transcription Available


    Send us Fan MailOne hug. One date. Two years later, one knee on the ground and a lifelong “yes.” We start with a personal anniversary story that stretches from England to Myrtle Beach, including a moment of faith, a surprising sense of direction, and a proposal that almost got canceled because of heavy rain. The reason we share it isn't to romanticize the past, but to show how a single recorded memory can shape decisions and strengthen a family's identity. From there, we get practical about journaling for legacy. I talk through a simple approach that actually works: write the date, time, and place, then fill one page and stop. No pressure to be poetic. No endless pages. Just honest documentation. We also explore why a journal can become a greater treasure to your family than money, because it lets them relive moments, understand where they came from, and hear your heart in your own words. If you care about family history, legacy planning, and intentional living, this is a habit with real long-term payoff. We also share how we define family values in real life, using short, focused questions during car rides and capturing the answers in notes and recordings. I even mention tools like a Remarkable app and an audio recorder to archive conversations, so future generations can hear what our kids said and how our values formed. Then we zoom out to a biblical framework, looking at how Moses documented stories and laws to guide the next generation. If you've ever wondered what parts of your life are worth saving, this is your nudge to start recording what matters. Subscribe, share this with a friend who cares about legacy, and leave a review telling us: what memory do you never want your family to lose?Support the show

    Martyn Lloyd-Jones Sermon Podcast
    Riches of His Inheritance

    Martyn Lloyd-Jones Sermon Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 17, 2026


    There are common objections to Christianity. Christianity is only for the weak. It is of no consequence today because it does not care about what is happening in the “real” world. Christianity is a waste of time because it is caught-up in other-worldly matters. These objections are as common today as they were in Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones's day. In this sermon on inheritance from Ephesians 1:18 titled “Riches of His Inheritance,” Dr. Lloyd-Jones meets the objections head on and points to the reality that the Bible does call Christians to fix their minds on the world to come. What is important is that this is a good thing for this world. Looking to the list of faithful men and women of Scripture and of history, Dr. Lloyd-Jones argues that the ones who did the most for this world had their eyes set on the world to come. The greatest benefactors of this world are those men and women of God who were concerned about the inheritance of the saints. If humanity forgets the next world, everything goes wrong for this world. To be uninterested in the glory to be revealed in heaven is to be unlike the Lord Jesus Christ himself. The Christian must be fixed on the glory to come when they will be with God.

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    There are common objections to Christianity. Christianity is only for the weak. It is of no consequence today because it does not care about what is happening in the “real” world. Christianity is a waste of time because it is caught-up in other-worldly matters. These objections are as common today as they were in Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones's day. In this sermon on inheritance from Ephesians 1:18 titled “Riches of His Inheritance,” Dr. Lloyd-Jones meets the objections head on and points to the reality that the Bible does call Christians to fix their minds on the world to come. What is important is that this is a good thing for this world. Looking to the list of faithful men and women of Scripture and of history, Dr. Lloyd-Jones argues that the ones who did the most for this world had their eyes set on the world to come. The greatest benefactors of this world are those men and women of God who were concerned about the inheritance of the saints. If humanity forgets the next world, everything goes wrong for this world. To be uninterested in the glory to be revealed in heaven is to be unlike the Lord Jesus Christ himself. The Christian must be fixed on the glory to come when they will be with God. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/603/29?v=20251111

    The Money Advantage Podcast
    Inheritance Planning 101: How to Protect Your Family’s Wealth

    The Money Advantage Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 17, 2026 38:47


    If you hear the phrase "inheritance planning" and immediately picture wills, trusts, attorneys, and a stack of complicated documents, you are not alone. The topic feels overwhelming before people even start, because it sounds like a legal ordeal rather than something they can actually approach with clarity. Here is the reframe. At its core, this is really about wealth transfer planning: protecting what you have built so it can bless the people you love and continue the mission you care about. That is a very different starting point than "do we need a will or a trust," and it changes how the whole process feels. https://youtu.be/Y2LDK7nSMmM Families already sense this. They know they need something around protecting what they have built for the people they love, but they are not sure where to start.  Do they need a will, a trust, or both? How do they avoid family conflict once the money changes hands? How do they make sure their children are actually ready to receive an inheritance and use it well, not just spend it?  Those are the right questions. They just rarely get answered by a stack of legal documents alone. This piece assumes you already know why leaving an inheritance matters to you, and focuses instead on how to do it well. Key takeaways:What Is Wealth Transfer Planning?Estate Planning vs. Inheritance PlanningThe Four Things Every Inheritance Plan Should Protect: A Family Wealth Protection FrameworkProtect the AssetsProtect the FamilyProtect the HeirsProtect the MissionWhy Liquidity Matters More Than You RealizeYour Plan Is a System, Not a Stack of DocumentsHow to Start: Clarity Before ComplexityWhat to Do NextWhat this means for your familyWhen it's worth exploring this furtherWhat to compare before decidingNext stepFrequently Asked QuestionsWhat is wealth transfer planning?What is the difference between estate planning and inheritance planning?How do I preserve family wealth across generations?Why do most families lose their wealth by the third generation?How do I transfer wealth to the next generation? Key takeaways: Inheritance planning is family-centered; estate planning is document-centered, and the documents are a component, not the whole plan A strong plan protects four things: the assets, the family, the heirs, and the mission Liquidity, not just net worth, determines whether a family can handle the cash demands of a transition The plan is a coordinated system, not a stack of separate documents You can start this week with a short list of practical, concrete steps What Is Wealth Transfer Planning? Wealth transfer planning is the intentional process of preparing your assets, your heirs, and your family structure for the transfer of wealth and responsibility. It combines legal planning, financial planning, family communication, and the transfer of wisdom, not just money. That last piece matters more than it sounds. There is a question worth sitting with: what if the wisdom that created your wealth is more valuable to your children and grandchildren than the wealth itself? The cause of the wealth may be the true legacy, not just its result. This is also not only about what happens when you are gone. It is about continuity, a family line that keeps maintaining, growing, and capitalizing on wealth over time. As Simon Sinek's "start with why" framework suggests, the place to begin is with why: not just what moves to the next generation, but what you want it to accomplish once it gets there. A will can say who gets what. Wealth transfer planning is about what happens next. Estate Planning vs. Inheritance Planning These two terms get used interchangeably, but they are not the same thing, and the distinction is the foundation on which everything else in this article builds on. Estate planning is document-centered. Inheritance planning is family-centered. Estate Planning (Document-Centered)Inheritance Planning (Family-Centered)Wills and trustsFamily values and stewardship trainingPowers of attorneyFamily governance: who decides, who has access to capitalHealthcare directivesLegacy educationBeneficiary designationsDecision-making principlesGuardianship provisionsPreparing people to receive, not just assets to transferTax planningWisdom transfer alongside wealth transfer Estate planning is necessary. It is a genuine component of inheritance planning, not something to skip. But on its own, it only moves money to the next generation. A will can say who gets what. Inheritance planning is about what happens next, after the money arrives and the next generation is left to steward, use, and grow it. The Four Things Every Inheritance Plan Should Protect: A Family Wealth Protection Framework It is easy to have a narrow view here without realizing it. A strong plan protects four things, not just one. Protect the Assets This is the part people already think about: businesses, investments, property, real estate, life insurance policies. Protecting the assets means more than securing them. It includes ownership structure, beneficiary designations, liquidity, insurance, and tax strategy, all coordinated across a genuine 360-degree view of your financial life so that your advisors are not quietly working against each other.  When advice is properly coordinated, you plug the leaks, minimize unnecessary tax, and keep every recommendation pointed at the same goal instead of pulling in different directions. The result is advice that amplifies cash flow, cash value, liquidity, and long-term generational wealth, rather than one advisor's strategy quietly undoing another's. Protect the Family This is the piece families tend to overlook. Protecting the family means protecting the relationships within it, preventing confusion, resentment, entitlement, perceived favoritism, and unmet expectations. When heirs are surprised by what they receive, or by how it is divided, that surprise becomes conflict, often years after the fact and long after it could have been prevented with a simple conversation.  Removing the element of surprise through clear communication puts a family light-years ahead, because the family is no longer left to make it up as they go or insert their own assumptions about what was intended. Protect the Heirs Where protecting the family looks at the unit as a whole, protecting the heirs looks at the individuals in it. They are not just recipients of assets. They are recipients of something with history, story, and sacrifice behind it, and they need preparation, education, and clear expectations to step into responsible stewardship rather than being handed something they were never equipped to manage. Protect the Mission Few people think of their family as having a mission, the way every successful business has one, with clear values and a team structure behind it. Yet those same principles apply to long-term family continuity. Worth asking: what is your family together for, beyond consuming? What do you want your family's shared purpose to be across the coming generations, not just the current one?  For some families, that means building generational wealth further; for others, it means expanding their capabilities, or simply serving and blessing more people than any one generation could alone. Why Liquidity Matters More Than You Realize A family can be worth tens or even hundreds of millions of dollars on paper and still be completely unprepared for the cash demands of death, taxes, business transition, debts, and estate settlement. That gap between net worth and accessible capital catches families more often than you would expect. Illiquid assets force a hard choice: sell something you wanted to keep, at exactly the wrong time, or find cash from somewhere else. Consider two children: one wants to keep the family business, and the other does not.  Without liquid capital to equalize the estate between them, the business may have to be sold just to make the numbers work, regardless of what anyone actually wanted, or what years of running that business were worth to the child who stayed. Life insurance plays a liquidity role here, twice over. The death benefit pays into the next generation, ideally into a trust with guidelines rather than directly to an individual. And the cash value on remaining policies stays accessible during your lifetime, available for taxes or settlement needs without forcing a sale. The most overlooked part of inheritance planning is making sure the family has access to cash when decisions are urgent and emotions are high.  For the mechanics of how a policy is structured to serve this role, see family banking strategy. Your Plan Is a System, Not a Stack of Documents Inheritance planning usually fails not because any single document was wrong, but because the pieces were never aligned with each other.  Beneficiary designations override what a will says, regardless of what the will was written to accomplish.  A business operating agreement controls what happens to ownership, regardless of what you communicated verbally to your family or wrote elsewhere.  A trust that was signed but never actually funded, meaning the underlying assets were never retitled into it, protects nothing at all. It sits as a document with no substance behind it. The fix is coordination. Every document, account, designation, agreement, and insurance policy needs to be aligned and speak the same language, so the whole plan works together rather than quietly contradicting itself.  This is also where family wealth planning becomes concrete rather than aspirational: it is the discipline of making sure your intentions and your paperwork actually match, account by account. A strong inheritance plan is not a stack of separate documents. It is a coordinated system where every piece supports the same outcome. How to Start: Clarity Before Complexity ...

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    Allworth Financial's Money Matters
    $3M+ Retirement: Long-Term Care, Early Inheritances & The "3 C's" Strategy

    Allworth Financial's Money Matters

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2026 44:10


    Are you prepared for the complexities of a high-value retirement? In this episode of Allworth's Money Matters, Scott and Pat break down real-world case studies for a $3M+ retirement, specifically focusing on the math behind long-term care, the tax implications of early inheritances, and a powerful framework for tax efficiency known as the "3 C's." In this episode, Scott and Pat discuss: The Long-Term Care Dilemma: They analyze a $3.7M case study where the caller is retiring abroad. Does she actually need long-term care insurance, or can she "self-insure"? Scott and Pat explain the "elimination period" strategy that could save thousands in premiums. Managing Early Inheritances: Using a $3.3M case study, Scott and Pat explore the pros and cons of buying a home for your children. They discuss how to manage early inheritances without creating family "real estate wars" or triggering unnecessary IRA taxes. The "3 C's" Strategy: Allworth partner advisor Ben Abraham joins the show to reveal a strategy for maximizing tax efficiency by balancing stock concentration and charitable giving to fuel massive Roth Conversions.   Join Money Matters:  Get your most pressing financial questions answered by Allworth's co-founders Scott Hanson and Pat McClain. Call 833-99-WORTH. Or ask a question by clicking here.  You can also be on the air by emailing Scott and Pat at questions@moneymatters.com. Download and rate our podcast here.

    Highlights from The Pat Kenny Show
    Ask The Expert: John Costello, Wills and Inheritance Expert

    Highlights from The Pat Kenny Show

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2026 12:19


    In the immortal words of Benjamin Franklin, “In this world, nothing can be said to be certain, except death and taxes” Joining Pat on this week's ‘Ask The Expert' is former president of the Law Society, John Costello, of Noble Law Solicitors in Dundrum. John is a wills, inheritance and probate expert, here to answer your questions.

    mr redder
    Karen Demands I Give Up My Land Inheritance! | Reddit Stories

    mr redder

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2026 31:40 Transcription Available


    In today's episode of Reddit Stories Podcast, a wild Karen completely loses it. You won't believe how this one ends! Sit back, relax, and enjoy this binge-worthy Reddit Stories Podcast, featuring Karen freakouts, entitled people stories, and pro revenge tales.

    Merryn Talks Money
    What's Eating Away at Inheritance Money Re-Run

    Merryn Talks Money

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2026 47:33 Transcription Available


    At a Bloomberg.com subscriber event earlier this year, Merryn Somerset Webb and John Stepek spoke with Paula Steele, director at John Lamb Hill Oldridge, about how to pass on an inheritance efficiently — minimise tax, manage the succession process, and avoid unintended effects on beneficiaries’ motivation.This is a re-run of that conversation which first aired March 17th, 2026. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    She's On The Money
    Am I Being Medically Gaslit? And How Do I Invest My Inheritance?

    She's On The Money

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2026 37:03 Transcription Available


    Join Victoria and Bec for this week’s edition of Friday Drinks, filled with Broke Tips, Money Wins and a Question of the Week which puts our shower routines in the spotlight. As always, the crew will be answering your Money Dilemmas, this time concerning income-protection insurance and whether a community member is being medically gaslit by their workplace. They also chat about how one listener might invest their inheritance for the best outcome. Hear what it sounds like to be humbled by the community’s grooming habits, and give us crispy shower towels or give us death. CHAT TO SKYE WEALTH: Get a second opinion when it comes to your personal insurances over at www.skye.com.au/shesonthemoney TUNE INTO OUR INSURANCE PLAYLIST: Run it back with episodes dedicated to insurance. Search ‘How to choose the right insurance’ on Spotify. CRAVING MORE FRIDAY DRINKS INSPO? Look no further, we’ve made an entire playlist just for you. Search ‘Friday drinks motivation’ on Spotify. New here? Follow us on Instagram (@shesonthemoneyaus) for Q&As, bite-sized advice, daily money inspo... and relatable money memes that just get you. Acknowledgement of Country By Nartarsha Bamblett (nartarshabamblett.com.au) The advice shared on She's On The Money is general in nature and does not consider your individual circumstances. She's On The Money exists purely for educational purposes and should not be relied upon to make an investment or financial decision. If you do choose to buy a financial product, read the PDS, TMD and obtain appropriate financial advice tailored towards your needs. Victoria Devine and She's On The Money are authorised representatives of Money Sherpa PTY LTD ABN - 321649 27708, AFSL - 4451289 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Complete Estate Planning
    I Bought My Son a House—How Do I Keep the Inheritance Fair?

    Complete Estate Planning

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2026 10:56


    Helping a child buy a home can be generous, but it can also create complications later. Nick walks through a real-world estate planning question about ownership, equity, and keeping things fair between siblings. The challenge is making sure prior assistance is accounted for without creating unnecessary confusion after death. A little planning now can prevent a much bigger family problem later. Here's some of what we discuss in this episode:

    Darkest Mysteries Online - The Strange and Unusual Podcast 2023
    The Lighthouse Inheritance and the Heart Sealed in Glass

    Darkest Mysteries Online - The Strange and Unusual Podcast 2023

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2026 58:03 Transcription Available


    The Lighthouse Inheritance and the Heart Sealed in GlassBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dark-mysteries-unsolved-mysteries-forgotten-secrets-unanswered-questions--5684156/support.Darkest Mysteries Online

    Martyn Lloyd-Jones Sermon Podcast
    The Earnest of Our Inheritance

    Martyn Lloyd-Jones Sermon Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2026


    As Christians anticipate heaven, the most glorious reality will be seeing the Lord face to face. Until that day, what is the connection between the heavenly reality that awaits the Christian and their life now? According to the apostle Paul, it is the work of the Holy Spirit as the pledge or guarantee of future inheritance that connects the future with the present. In this sermon on Ephesians 1:14 titled “The Earnest of Our Inheritance,” Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones labors to explain the apostle's words by arguing that the translation “earnest” fits the context of Paul's teaching. This rich term communicates the guarantee or pledge, but it also speaks of an installment. The Christian has a glimpse or foretaste of heaven through the work of the Holy Spirit. While one does not fully see Christ in this life, they should be encouraged that they do indeed see Him, even if only as through a mirror dimly. Dr. Lloyd-Jones challenges the listener to share in Christ's life now by pursuing holiness, purity, peace, and love. Wonderfully, when one does this, they taste what righteousness will be like in the future.

    From the MLJ Archive on Oneplace.com
    The Earnest of Our Inheritance

    From the MLJ Archive on Oneplace.com

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2026


    As Christians anticipate heaven, the most glorious reality will be seeing the Lord face to face. Until that day, what is the connection between the heavenly reality that awaits the Christian and their life now? According to the apostle Paul, it is the work of the Holy Spirit as the pledge or guarantee of future inheritance that connects the future with the present. In this sermon on Ephesians 1:14 titled “The Earnest of Our Inheritance,” Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones labors to explain the apostle's words by arguing that the translation “earnest” fits the context of Paul's teaching. This rich term communicates the guarantee or pledge, but it also speaks of an installment. The Christian has a glimpse or foretaste of heaven through the work of the Holy Spirit. While one does not fully see Christ in this life, they should be encouraged that they do indeed see Him, even if only as through a mirror dimly. Dr. Lloyd-Jones challenges the listener to share in Christ's life now by pursuing holiness, purity, peace, and love. Wonderfully, when one does this, they taste what righteousness will be like in the future. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/603/29?v=20251111

    Mark Narrations - The Wafflecast Reddit Stories
    My Brother SOLD HIS INHERITANCE And Now Wants Half Of Mine | r/BestOf

    Mark Narrations - The Wafflecast Reddit Stories

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2026 29:01


    In today's r/AITA story, OP refuses to give her brother half of her inheritance land after the brother sold his own share against everyone's advice. But family pressure about tradition and gender roles are making OP question her decision.0:00 Intro0:20 Story 12:42 Story 1 Comments / OP's Replies6:00 Story 1 Update 19:18 Story 1 Comments / OP's Replies10:16 Story 2 15:31 Story 2 Update 117:13 Story 2 Update 219:49 Story 2 Comments / OP's Replies22:54 Story 2 Update 326:12 Story 2 Comments Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Financial Planning Explained
    Estate Planning & Inheritance: Real Estate Case Study — What You Need to Know | Nick DeVito, CFP

    Financial Planning Explained

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2026 29:53


    This week on Financial Planning: Explained, host Michael Menninger, CFP®, welcomes back Nick DeVito, CFP®, to walk through a practical estate planning and inheritance case study involving a daughter who is trying to piece together her late father's financial affairs. In this real-world scenario, the daughter is struggling to track down important assets, including her father's pension, 401(k), and life insurance policy. Even more concerning, she doesn't know whether she was named as a beneficiary—or who may have been designated to receive these assets. Mike and Nick explore the challenges families can face after the death of a loved one when financial accounts, beneficiary designations, and important documents aren't clearly organized or communicated. The discussion highlights why proactive estate planning and proper beneficiary designations are so important, and how a lack of planning can create unnecessary stress and uncertainty for surviving family members. The conversation provides practical insight into how families can better prepare for the transfer of wealth, locate financial assets, review beneficiary designations, and ensure their estate plan reflects their wishes. Listeners will gain valuable insight into: How to track down a deceased family member's pension, 401(k), and life insurance What happens when you don't know who the beneficiary is Why beneficiary designations are so important in estate planning Common problems families encounter after the death of a loved one How retirement accounts and insurance policies are transferred after death The importance of keeping financial records and account information organized Why beneficiary designations should be reviewed regularly How proactive estate planning can help prevent confusion and family stress What families should know about inheritance and wealth transfer How a comprehensive estate plan can help protect your family and assets Estate planning isn't just about deciding what happens to your assets—it's also about making sure your loved ones can find those assets and understand what to do with them when the time comes. This case study illustrates how missing information and outdated beneficiary designations can create significant challenges, and why having a clear plan in place can make the inheritance process much smoother. Whether you're creating your own estate plan, helping aging parents organize their finances, or preparing to pass wealth on to the next generation, this episode offers practical insights and real-world considerations to help you plan ahead. For more information on Menninger & Associates Financial Planning, visit: https://maaplanning.com

    Secrets of Successful Advisorsâ„  with Ken Haman
    The Coming Inheritance Shock—and the Advisors Who Will Be Ready

    Secrets of Successful Advisorsâ„  with Ken Haman

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2026 30:04


    This episode tackles one of the most dangerous blind spots in an advisor's career: the habit of thinking only about today. Ken explores why so many advisors stay trapped in tactical mode—responding to client needs, chasing new prospects, and managing the urgent—while neglecting the strategic questions that determine the future of their business. With Baby Boomers turning 80 and 81% of heirs leaving their parents' advisor, the cost of short‑term thinking has never been higher. Ken lays out why legacy planning with client families is no longer optional, how to build relationships with the next generation before the wealth transfers, and why the advisors who act now will own the future. If you want a business worth running—and worth handing off—this conversation is your wake‑up call. DISCLAIMER Note to All Readers: The information contained here reflects the views of AllianceBernstein L.P. or its affiliates and sources it believes are reliable as of the date of this podcast. AllianceBernstein L.P. makes no representations or warranties concerning the accuracy of any data. There is no guarantee that any projection, forecast or opinion in this material will be realized. Past performance does not guarantee future results. The views expressed here may change at any time after the date of this podcast. This podcast is for informational purposes only and does not constitute investment advice. AllianceBernstein L.P. does not provide tax, legal or accounting advice. It does not take an investor's personal investment objectives or financial situation into account; investors should discuss their individual circumstances with appropriate professionals before making any decisions. This information should not be construed as sales or marketing material or an offer or solicitation for the purchase or sale of any financial instrument, product or service sponsored by AllianceBernstein or its affiliates.

    Truthway Church Sermon Archives
    In between the promise and the inheritance - Pastor Logan Mclaughlin, Feb 22, 2026

    Truthway Church Sermon Archives

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2026 29:33


    How we live determines what our children will inherit from us in the form of beliefs, attitudes, ways of thinking, actions, etc. Once we receive the Holy Ghost, are we living a life that guides our children and prepares them for the inheritance of the Holy Ghost too?

    Our Daily Bread Evening Meditations
    An Inheritance Kept for You

    Our Daily Bread Evening Meditations

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2026 17:46


    As you lay down to rest, lift your thoughts beyond today's challenges to the future God has prepared for you. Tonight's Our Daily Bread Evening Meditation invites you to find peace in the promise of what is to come. Reflecting on 1 Peter 1:3–9, we are reminded that an eternal inheritance is being kept for us—secure, unchanging, and filled with joy. Even in seasons of difficulty, this living hope anchors our hearts in God's faithfulness.As you drift into sleep, let this promise steady your soul: your future is safe in His hands.Tonight's meditation is read by Rebecca. Meet the team at odb.org/meet-the-team. These meditations are lovingly and prayerfully crafted by human writers, presenters and producers, with no AI-generated content. If you'd like to get in touch with us to share your story or let us know how we can make the Evening Meditations an even better experience, email our team at eveningmeditations@odbm.orgWe hope that you enjoy this Evening Meditation from Our Daily Bread Ministries! You can find more exciting content from Our Daily Bread Ministries by downloading the Our Daily Bread app or visiting us at: odbm.orgAll our funding comes from our listeners, like you, who value what we do and want to help us reach more people. Together, we can keep making our podcast freely accessible to all. You can make a donation towards our mission at eveningmeditations.org. ★ Support this podcast ★

    Beer & Money
    Episode 365 - Is An Inheritance Helping Your Kid... Or Hurting Them?

    Beer & Money

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2026 24:33


    In today's episode of Built For Life Not Just Wealth, Ryan Burklo and Alex Collins discuss the importance of estate planning, passing down values, and how to align your estate plan with your family's goals. They explore how to create meaningful legacies beyond just financial inheritance, emphasizing the role of intentional communication in shaping a family's future. The conversation also highlights why a well-designed estate plan should reflect not only what you want to leave behind, but also the values and purpose you hope will carry forward for generations.   Check out our website:  https://www.builtforlifenotjustwealth.com/ Find us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@builtforlifenotjustwealth/ Subscribe to our newsletter: https://www.quantifiedfinancial.com/subscribe-now Check out our Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ryanburklofinance?igsh=ZTJzN3Jnajd5M2Mw Ryan Burklo's LinkedIn profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ryanburklo/ Alex Collin's LinkedIn profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandercollins/ For a quick assessment of your current financial life go to: https://www.livingbalancesheet.com/lbsVision/lite/RyanBurklo   #BuiltForLifeNotJustWealth #EstatePlanning #Inheritance #FamilyValues #Legacy #FinancialLiteracy #Trusts #Wills #WealthTransfer #FamilyConversations   Takeaways The greatest inheritance is who your children become, not just what they receive. Estate planning is about what you want your money to accomplish, not just the amount. Having open family conversations about estate plans prevents conflicts and misunderstandings. Trusts can be used to set guardrails and protect assets from divorce or misuse. Teaching kids financial literacy and values is a crucial part of estate planning.   Chapters 00:00 Introduction: The Purpose of Estate Planning 02:07 Why Parents Leave Inheritance: Protection and Security 04:14 What Do You Want Your Money to Accomplish? 07:08 The Role of Trusts and Wills in Estate Planning 09:55 Teaching Values and Financial Literacy to Kids 13:03 The Importance of Family Conversations 17:04 Common Pitfalls and How to Avoid Family Conflicts 20:01 Final Questions: Are You Prepared? 21:01 Closing Remarks: Legacy Is Who They Become

    The Marc Cox Morning Show
    KIM ON A WHIM: The Great Wealth Transfer, Intergenerational Inheritance Conflicts, and Variable Universal Life Strategies

    The Marc Cox Morning Show

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2026 9:37


    In Kim on a Whim, co-host Kim St. Onge and host Marc Cox analyze the "Great Wealth Transfer," an estimated $124 trillion intergenerational asset movement from Baby Boomers to Millennials over coming decades. Kim highlights research detailing inheritance disputes and family litigation, emphasizing the importance of detailed documentation, trustees, and estate planning structures. Marc details long-term healthcare cost variables, Medicaid five-year look-back rules, and tax-advantaged wealth preservation strategies, including Variable Universal Life (VUL) policies for generational financial planning. Hashtags: #KimOnAWhim #GreatWealthTransfer #EstatePlanning #Inheritance #FinancialPlanning #VUL #MedicaidRules

    Rav Akiva Zweig's Podcast
    Parshas Shof'tim (Wed.) "Our Inheritance Guides Our Future"

    Rav Akiva Zweig's Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2026 26:14


    Month of Av classes dedicated by Jimmy and Janie Tate and family In loving memory of Stanley Tate; Shmuel ben Ya'akov.  His pioneering and indomitable spirit built our family and led our South Florida community. His legendary innovations combined with his will, strength, and stalwart integrity are a tremendous inspiration and example to our family and an incredible contribution to our Jewish Nation. May his memory be blessed and his soul constantly elevated.  Please davven for Aliyos N'shamos for Chana Malka bas Yehoshua Leib and Yosef Yehuda bas Yehoshua Leib as well as Dovid ben Ephraim Zisha- Dovi Melcer Please also pray for Refu'ah Sh'leima for Perel Sasha bas Meril Rivka, Binyamin ben Lillian Lily, Ya'akov ben Malka Mattel, Rachamim Sasson Rafael ben Bracha Fruma Gittel, Baruch Yehoshua Yisrael ben Sima and all Cholei Yisrael.

    Let's Get Legal
    Millie Palmer: Protecting your inheritance and assets

    Let's Get Legal

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2026


    Mildred V. Palmer, Founding Partner at Navigant Law Group, joins Jon Hansen on Let's Get Legal to discuss estate planning, including how to handle unequal inheritance distributions, joint bank accounts, and protecting inheritances for a child during a divorce. For more information, call (847) 253-8800 for a free consultation.

    Paramount Church
    The Wealth of His Inheritance

    Paramount Church

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2026 62:25


    You can find our broad collection of content on Youtube and explore our library of sermons and teachings. Simply go out the website and search "Living Hope Bible Church SA", or follow on the link below: https://youtube.com/@lhbc_sa?si=eLMMOOpEwYJ07O4Q If you would like to visit us, our services begin at 09h00am every Sunday at the following address: NG Kerk Zwaanswyk Tokai Rd, Kirstenhof, Cape Town, 7945

    Am I the Jerk?
    Step-Dad DEMANDS I hand over my INHERITANCE from my DEAD MOTHER

    Am I the Jerk?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2026 22:18


    Am I the Jerk? is the show where you can confess your deepest darkest secrets and be part of the conversation.

    Lifeway Church - Weekend Services
    The Unwanted Inheritance

    Lifeway Church - Weekend Services

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2026 40:59


    What was passed down to you doesn't have to be passed on. Pastor Andrew Jordan shares how surrendering our past to Jesus can change the legacy we leave behind.

    Sun Valley Church (Yakima, WA)
    Being the Church - Christ's Inheritance! (Ephesians 1:11)

    Sun Valley Church (Yakima, WA)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2026 52:03


    Preacher: Pastor John Schubert Text: Ephesians 1:11

    South Shore Baptist Church Sermons
    Our Inheritance and Diligence - Genesis 25:27-34

    South Shore Baptist Church Sermons

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2026


    Verse by Verse
    An Inheritance Worth More Than Money (Proverbs 13:22)

    Verse by Verse

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2026 4:58


    Jordan Iacobucci discusses Proverbs 13:22—“A good man leaves an inheritance to his children's children, but the wealth of the sinner is stored up for the righteous.”

    Ancient Principles, Kingdom Authority with Curt Landry
    How to Break Free and Reclaim Your God-Given Inheritance

    Ancient Principles, Kingdom Authority with Curt Landry

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2026 49:35


    Are distractions hijacking your calling?In this episode of the Curt Landry Podcast, Rabbi Curt and Pastor Michael talk about how to move past feeling spiritually stuck, experience a breakthrough, and unlock your godly inheritance. Distractions, negative environments, and generational curses and cycles are used by the enemy to hijack your purpose and legacy. The lie is to believe you're at the mercy of your circumstances. The temptation is to be obsessed with the problems. But freedom is found when you shift your gaze to Jesus and focus your thoughts on Him and who He has declared you to be.Join Rabbi and Pastor Michael as they unpack a powerful battle plan, share how to steward your home environment as a sanctuary, and why it matters to reclaim your family's unclaimed inheritance, turning past disappointments into a redeemed legacy for the kingdom of God.

    The Money Advantage Podcast
    5 Inheritance Planning Mistakes and How to Avoid Them

    The Money Advantage Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2026 35:06


    The most damaging inheritance planning mistakes are not always bad investments, poor tax planning, or even missing legal documents. More often, families lose wealth because the people receiving it were never prepared for the responsibility that came with it. When most people hear “inheritance planning,” they picture an attorney's office: the will, the trust, the power of attorney, and the list of assets. Those pieces matter. But focusing only on the legal structure is one of the biggest inheritance planning mistakes a family can make. What often gets missed is preparing the heirs themselves, not just the paperwork surrounding the inheritance. Parents worry their children will not handle the money well. They fear wealth will divide the family rather than strengthen it. They wonder whether everything they built will disappear within a generation or two, or whether the values behind the wealth will survive even if the dollars do. Those concerns are legitimate. But they are also a reason to expand inheritance planning beyond documents and distributions. In this article, we will look at five common inheritance planning mistakes families make, why they put generational wealth at risk, and how to prepare heirs to receive both the assets and the responsibility that comes with them. https://youtu.be/AZNaHSHdtFY Quick takeaways: Waiting too long to have the conversation Passing down wealth without wisdom Treating inheritance planning as a legal event instead of a family process Assuming fair always means equal Failing to prepare heirs for decision-making Why Generational Wealth Often Erodes by the Third GenerationInheritance Planning Mistake 1: Waiting Too Long to Have the ConversationInheritance Planning Mistake 2: Passing Down Wealth Without WisdomInheritance Planning Mistake 3: Treating Inheritance Planning as a Legal Event, Not a Family ProcessInheritance Planning Mistake 4: Assuming Fair Always Means EqualInheritance Planning Mistake 5: Failing to Prepare Heirs for Decision-MakingStart With Values, Not the Balance SheetFrequently Asked QuestionsWhat are the biggest inheritance planning mistakes families make?Why do most families lose their wealth by the third generation?Is it better to leave an inheritance equally to each child?How do you prepare heirs to receive an inheritance?Is a will or trust enough to protect a family's wealth across generations?What is a family guidance system?When should you start talking to your children about inheritance? Why Generational Wealth Often Erodes by the Third Generation Families have long recognized the pattern described as “shirtsleeves to shirtsleeves in three generations”: wealth built by one generation can erode when later generations inherit the lifestyle without the preparation, habits, or shared purpose that created it. It is a cultural proverb, not a biblical one, but versions of the same warning appear across cultures. The pattern usually goes like this: The first generation builds something out of very little.  The second generation watches that effort up close and respects it, but grows comfortable with the lifestyle it produced.  By the third generation, the lifestyle is all that's left. The respect for what created it is gone, the habits that built it are gone, and the family often lands right back where it started. There's a phrase that gets used a lot in this space, borrowed loosely from Peter Drucker's line about culture and strategy in business. In wealth planning, the version goes: culture eats structure for breakfast. Structure is your legal and financial plan. Culture is the communication, respect, and relationships within the family, along with who actually has influence and trust. Even the strongest legal and financial structure can be undermined by weak communication, damaged relationships, and a lack of shared purpose within the family. That's the thread running through every mistake below. None of them are really document failures. They're culture and preparation failures wearing a legal costume. Inheritance Planning Mistake 1: Waiting Too Long to Have the Conversation This is a fairly common situation: adult children who have no real idea what their family's estate actually contains. Not the dollar amounts, not the assets, not what any of it means for their future. This becomes a real problem when those same adult children are expected to eventually step into leadership over that wealth. Families rarely avoid this conversation out of carelessness. It's avoidance born of discomfort. The topic feels private, potentially divisive, and nobody wants to guess wrong about how a son, daughter, or son-in-law might react. So it stays unsaid. But silence doesn't create peace. It creates tension and uncertainty, and into that gap rush assumptions, the kind that no one ever gets to correct. Too often, families only have this conversation after a crisis forces their hand: a death, an incapacity, something sudden. At that point, you've lost the choice of timing entirely. Choosing to start the conversation on your own terms gives you far more control than being pushed into it later. And to be clear, the goal isn't to dump a full balance sheet on the table in one sitting. That's not what this is. What you're actually building is a rhythm, a series of conversations over years that grow understanding, maturity, and trust the same way the wealth itself took years to build. Include the next generation in it. Ask what they're hoping for.  Every first attempt at this feels awkward. That's normal. Awkward beats silent. Inheritance Planning Mistake 2: Passing Down Wealth Without Wisdom Ask a family what their inheritance conversation looks like, and you'll hear the same thing every time: asset values, income, tax planning. Understandable, but incomplete, because wealth is more than its physical form. Here's a question worth asking yourself: What if it mattered more for your children to hear the wisdom behind the wealth than to simply receive the results of it?  Our culture tends to obsess over effects and ignore causes. But the cause matters even more than the result. The heart, intention, values, and vision that built the wealth are exactly what your heirs need to sustain what they receive and build something of their own. Without that wisdom, wealth is just money. Just numbers on paper. There's a limiting belief worth naming directly here, because it quietly drives a lot of the fear parents carry. Many people believe, somewhere underneath the surface, that money itself is dangerous or even bad.  The media reinforces this belief constantly through portrayals of greedy villains, corrupt landlords, and wealthy people who gained their success by exploiting others. There can also be an unspoken sense of guilt that building wealth must mean taking something away from someone else. The truth cuts the other way. Money is neutral. It doesn't corrupt or bless on its own; it amplifies whatever is already there. Hand a large sum to someone undisciplined, entitled, or looking for shortcuts, and problems multiply fast, the same pattern you see when lottery winners end up broke again within a few years.  Hand that same sum to someone disciplined, virtuous, and oriented toward others, and it becomes fuel for genuinely good things. So the real question was never "will money corrupt my kids." It's "did we actually equip them with the character and stewardship ability to handle it well." Answer that honestly, and you can resource them generously with confidence instead of fear. What you're actually passing down, alongside whatever assets exist, are principles, stories, family identity, values, and decision frameworks.  That wisdom helps heirs answer three questions that matter more than any balance sheet: what is this wealth for, how should we use it, and what kind of people are we becoming.  Pass down only assets, and your children inherit resources. Pass down wisdom alongside them, and they inherit something far more durable. This is the whole premise behind Seven Generations Legacy: when families focus only on the money, they lose the legacy. When they focus on the full picture, wisdom, wealth, and purpose together, the legacy actually holds. Inheritance Planning Mistake 3: Treating Inheritance Planning as a Legal Event, Not a Family Process Let's be direct about this one first: estate documents are necessary and valuable, and many families will benefit from using a trust as part of a properly designed estate plan. Depending on the size of your estate, you likely need real asset protection against creditors, lawsuits, and taxes. None of what follows argues against good legal planning. But here's the big but. No matter how bulletproof your legal plan is, it is not a whole plan. Attorneys build structure. So does a family banking system, for that matter; it's a mechanism, a vehicle for capital. But mechanisms only work as well as the family running them.  What a trust or a banking system can't provide is relational infrastructure, meaning relationships that actually trust and depend on each other, demonstrated leadership, and demonstrated responsibility. A will or a trust can specify exactly who gets what and in what percentages. It cannot guarantee unity, gratitude, maturity, or shared purpose. Those come from somewhere else entirely.  This is where a Family Guidance System becomes essential. It functions as an operating system for the family, bringing its vision, values, mission, and ideals into a clear framework for decision-making. It helps family members understand what the wealth is for and how it should be stewarded. Building one is exactly what the Seven Generations Wealth & Legacy Formula® walks families through. This is where the stewardship reframe comes in. A family guidance system helps heirs see themselves as stewards,...

    Better Together with Barb Roose
    When Your Mental Health Messes with Your Faith | Interview with Dr. Jean Lee Neely

    Better Together with Barb Roose

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2026 31:23


    So many Christians struggle with mental health, and yet we still struggle to talk about it without shame. If you've ever struggled with anxiety, depression or sadness because no one understands, this episode is for you. In this honest and deeply compassionate conversation, Barb is joined by author Jean Neely to discuss her book Christ in the Abyss: Cultivating Deep Faith amid Depression and Despair. Drawing from her own decades-long journey with mental health challenges, Jean offers a powerful reminder: God's presence isn't reserved for when we feel strong—it meets us right in the depths of our pain. Together, they explore how Christians can approach depression and mental health with honesty and faith, what to do when struggles begin to shake your beliefs, and how to navigate doubt when God feels silent. This episode offers reassurance that God sees you and loves you, even at your lowest points.   RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE Connect with Jean on Facebook Connect with Jean on Instagram Christ in the Abyss: Cultivating Deep Faith amid Depression and Despair Visit Jean's Website Read from Jean's Substack   ABOUT OUR SPECIAL GUEST Jean Lee Neely is a Korean American writer and educator. She has degrees in comparative literature from the University of California, Irvine and Sorbonne University in Paris and a PhD in English literature from the University of Southern California. Jean writes regularly on issues of mental health and faith for Faith and Leadership, a resource from the Duke Divinity School for Christian leaders. She has also written for Sojourners, Inheritance, the Asian American Christian Collaborative (AACC), and Christians for Social Action. She has taught seminars on navigating the intersections of faith, spiritual formation, and mental health for college students and Christian faculty. She lives in Southern California with her husband and son.

    Fellowship Church, Dallas, PA Podcast
    Sunday Sermon: A Course for Leaving an Inheritance

    Fellowship Church, Dallas, PA Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2026 47:40


    MY Devotional: Daily Encouragement from Leading The Way

    What is the ultimate purpose of being adopted as a child of God? In today's episode of the MY Devotional Podcast, Dr. Michael Youssef explains that while salvation, forgiveness, justification, and cleansing are all glorious gifts of grace, they point toward an even greater promise: the inheritance of the glory of God for the glory of God. Romans 8 declares that believers are children of God, heirs of God, and co-heirs with Christ. Everything Jesus Christ receives by divine right, believers receive by divine grace. For the adopted child of God, eternal inheritance is not wishful thinking—it is guaranteed by the Spirit and secured by the finished work of Christ. Dr. Youssef also points to Paul's bold declaration: “to die is gain.” For the believer, physical death is not defeat but entrance into the presence of God and the fullness of the Father's estate. The suffering, loss, rejection, disappointment, shattered dreams, and pain we experience now cannot compare with the glory that will one day be revealed in us. Whatever is making you groan today, God is not wasting it. The Spirit of God is sealing your adoption, guaranteeing your inheritance, and turning your groaning into glory. Rest and rejoice in the ultimate victory that belongs to every child of God in Christ. Prayer: God, thank You for the glorious inheritance that You've promised Your children. Thank You that all the trials I face today pale in comparison to the glory You have in store for me. May I bring You glory as I trust in Your promises and look to Your coming Kingdom and Your very presence as my great reward. I pray in the name of Jesus. Amen. The voice you hear on the MY Devotional podcast is digitally generated with Dr. Youssef's permission. If today's devotional stirred a question, burden, or need for prayer, you don't have to walk through it alone.

    Today, Explained
    Dad, where's my inheritance?

    Today, Explained

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2026 26:17


    When boomers die, they'll leave trillions to their adult children. Some of those kids say they should get that money now. This episode was produced by Danielle Hewitt, edited by Jenny Lawton, fact-checked by Gabriel Dunatov, engineered by Patrick Boyd and David Tatasciore, and hosted by Noel King. A senior couple sold their house in Minnesota and moved to central Florida, where they will have more time for their convertible sports car. Photo by Bruce Bisping/Star Tribune via Getty Images. Listen to Today, Explained ad-free by becoming a Vox Member: vox.com/members. New Vox members get $20 off their membership right now. Transcript at ⁠vox.com/today-explained-podcast.⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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    Holmberg's Morning Sickness
    07-30-26 - BR - THU - Granddaughter Of Mussolini Is Holding Onto The Name - Survey On Inheritance Finds Many Are Conflicted - 13yo Girl Bitten By Barracuda

    Holmberg's Morning Sickness

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2026 44:37


    Link Up w/The Morning Sickness Digitally All Over:Instagram: @hms_98_official, @bosskupd, @bretvesely, @dickToledoX/Twitter: @HMSon98, @DickToledo, @bretveselyFacebook: @HMSKUPDYouTube: @hmspodcast9320, @98kupdRequest/Call in/Wakeup Song line:(IN AZ) 602.585.9800More HMS: holmbergpodcast.com, 98kupd.comEmail: dtoledo@98kupd.com, bvesely@98kupd.com, bbogen@98kupd.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    Fred + Angi On Demand
    Inheritance!

    Fred + Angi On Demand

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2026 7:02 Transcription Available


    49% of people would rather inherit nothing than everything.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    So Money with Farnoosh Torabi
    2013: Ask Farnoosh: Raising Wealthy Kids, Rethinking Retirement & A $700K Inheritance

    So Money with Farnoosh Torabi

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2026 32:34


    This week on Ask Farnoosh, I'm reflecting on a memorable visit to the Today Show with my daughter, Colette, and how exposing kids to new experiences can shape their futures. That conversation leads into one of the smartest long-term wealth-building strategies available to parents: putting your child on payroll—legitimately—and using earned income to fund a Roth IRA.I also unpack fascinating new research linking chronic financial hardship to long-term brain health, discuss Senator Andy Kim's proposed Healthy Kids Act, explore why modern baby registries are shifting from "stuff" to services, and share lessons from a Washington Post column on what people consistently misunderstand about retirement.Then, in this week's listener question, I help a family navigate an emotionally complicated financial crossroads: a potential $500,000–$800,000 inheritance, a home renovation, IVF, a recent layoff, and the challenge of deciding which priorities deserve the biggest investment. Together, we explore why the most valuable outcome isn't simply growing wealth—it's creating more choices.Referenced: Senator Andy Kim on So Money.Learn more about Farnoosh's upcoming literary workshop Book to Brand. Early bird registration is now open! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.