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Enneagram and Marriage
Rewilding Relationships w/Award-Winning Author Lore Ferguson Wilbert, 9w8

Enneagram and Marriage

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2024 45:57


"The way to unity is not through uniformity, it is through understanding and loving the other." - Lore Ferguson Wilbert." Whether it's your spouse, family member, or your neighbor, it's not always easy loving someone with differences. Yet chemistry is not sameness, and today we are grateful to have Christianity Today book award author Lore Ferguson, 9 (9w8 and 6w5 pairing), Wilbert on the pod today to encourage us in a Christ-like loving of the other - whatever that means - in our lives. We also enjoy talking about Lore's beautiful book, The Understory as she helps us to see the parallels of Christian faith in the resilience and rootedness found in the minutiae and cycles of the natural world. May we truly find the courage to step into the community and love those who believe differently as we learn from Lore here on today's show. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/NmkQQHVh-bI More about Lore: Lore Ferguson Wilbert is an award winning writer, thinker, learner, and author of the books, The Understory, A Curious Faith and Handle With Care. She has written for She Reads Truth, Christianity Today, and more, as well as her own site, lorewilbert.com. She has a Masters in Spiritual Formation and Leadership and loves to think and write about the intersection of human formation and the gritty stuff of earth. You can find Lore on Instagram @lorewilbert. She lives with her husband Nate and their pups, Harper and Rilke, in southeastern Pennsylvania. She really has read all the books on her shelves. Find Lori's community of Substack members over at: https://lorewilbert.com/ Make sure you visit www.EnneagramandMarriage.com. Use the code for your own HOLIDAYLOVE for $10 off any product this holiday!! We have so many products, including our new MBTI rollout over at our sister site www.MyersBriggsandMarriage.com! You can also get the deals on Dating Divas sexy subscription and more here! https://shop.thedatingdivas.com/?sca_ref=6272364.4hv7IY3580 We would love to hear from you! Leave your questions or messages for Christa or sign up for coaching RIGHT HERE: https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/contact-us Sign Up For the E + M WEEKLY NEWSLETTER here: https://enneagramandmarriage.myflodesk.com/olivbuf96o We share new posts each week @ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/enneagramandmarriage/?hl=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/772026686525647 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@enneagramandmarriage?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The Englewood Review of Books Podcast
Episode 81: Lore Ferguson Wilbert & Ragan Sutterfield

The Englewood Review of Books Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2024 54:52


Christ had a wide-ranging conversation with first-time guest, Lore Ferguson Wilbert, and repeat guest, Ragan Sutterfield, in which they touched on various topics including: processing the recent U.S. election, grief and lament, pace and time, rootedness and place, story, and of course, what they have been recently reading.Books Mentioned in this Episode:If you'd like to order any of the following books, we encourage you to do so from Hearts and Minds Books(An independent bookstore in Dallastown, PA, run by Byron and Beth Borger) The Understory: An Invitation to Rootedness and Resilience from the Forest Floor by Lore Ferguson WilbertHandle With Care: How Jesus Redeems the Power of Touch in Life and Ministry by Lore Ferguson WilbertThe Art of Being a Creature: Meditations on Humus and Humility by Ragan SutterfieldWendell Berry and the Given Life by Ragan SutterfieldFarming as a Spiritual Discipline by Ragan SutterfieldThe Art of the Commonplace: Agrarian Essays by Wendell BerryWhen Time is Short: Finding Our Way in the Anthropocene by Timothy BealBecoming Friends of Time: Disability, Timefullness and Gentle Discipleship by John SwintonCompassion: A Reflection on the Christian Life by Henri NouwenHow to Do Nothing: Resisting the Attention Economy by Jenny OdellHow to Be Idle: A Loafer's Manifesto by Tom HodgkinsonThe One-Straw Revolution: An Introduction to Natural Farming by Masanobu FukuokaStolen Focus: Why You Can't Pay Attention - And How to Think Deeply Again by Johann HariAmphibious Soul: Finding Wild in a Tame World by Craig FosterSystematic Theology: Volume 1, the Doctrine of God by Katherine SondereggerThe Quickening: Creation and Community at the Ends of the Earth by Elizabeth RushNorth Woods: A Novel by Daniel MasonThe Winter Soldier by Daniel Mason

That Makes Total Sense!
Episode 278 – Lore Ferguson Wilbert

That Makes Total Sense!

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 8, 2024 67:42


This conversation with Lore was recorded barely a week after the presidential election. Truthfully, I was still pretty raw coming into our talk and that morning was a particularly rough one in my grieving process. What Lore’s beautiful book and our interview reminded me of in the midst of my feelings of sadness, disbelief, and … Continue reading Episode 278 – Lore Ferguson Wilbert

Abbey Normal
113. I Am Boy

Abbey Normal

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2024 62:59 Transcription Available


As a little one, Grey confidently told their parents they were a boy. Yet, in a Pentecostal family in the 1980's, this was not okay. This episode Abbey and her book club buddy, Grey, explore the intersection of body and spirit. Grey offers insights from a life marked by severe depression and addiction, to one of self-devotion, freedom, inner safety and belonging. Tune in to hear their story, woven with the beautiful words of author Lore Ferguson Wilbert, and interspersed with Abbey's clumsy questions and levity.   Guest: Grey Doolin, M.Ed. is a trauma-informed somatic coach, mentor, facilitator, and speaker who supports queer and trans folks to be magnificently themselves. You can find more of their work on Instagram @grey_doolin or www.greydoolin.com   Book Club book quoted: The Understory by Lore Ferguson Wilbert Abbey Normal Podcast on Instagram

Dangerous Dogma
162. Lore Ferguson Wilbert on the Understory

Dangerous Dogma

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2024 45:25


Lore Ferguson Wilbert talks with Word&Way President Brian Kaylor about her new book The Understory: An Invitation to Rootedness and Resilience from the Forest Floor. She also discusses issues of grief, COVID-19, and hope. Note: Don't forget to subscribe to our award-winning e-newsletter A Public Witness that helps you make sense of faith, culture, and politics. And order a copy of Baptizing America: How Mainline Protestants Helped Build Christian Nationalism by Brian Kaylor and Beau Underwood. If you buy it directly from Chalice Press, they are offering 33% off the cover price when you use the promo code "BApodcast."

The Thing with Feathers: birds and hope with Courtney Ellis
75: The Wonder of the Forest Floor (Lore Ferguson Wilbert)

The Thing with Feathers: birds and hope with Courtney Ellis

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2024 43:15


Lore Ferguson Wilbert shares with us about her new book The Understory: An Invitation to Rootedness and Resilience from the Forest Floor. Together we talk grief, hope, the birds of the understory, and how sometimes it is when it seems that all hope is lost that God shows up.Links from Lore's show:Lore's book - The UnderstoryLore on SubstackLore's websiteLore on Twitter (we refuse to call it X)Lore on FacebookLore on InstagramThe Thing with Feathers is hosted and produced by Courtney Ellis. Original music by Del Belcher. New episodes every other Monday.Enjoying the show? Take a moment and rate, review, or share with a friend. And don't forget to subscribe! Get full access to Keep Looking Up at courtneyellis.substack.com/subscribe

Speak Healing Words
Living Authentically: Embracing Our Present Selves

Speak Healing Words

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2024 48:32 Transcription Available


Send us a Text Message.Imagine the delicate balance between life and death, embodied in the metaphors of stardust and clay. In this segment, we dive into the complexities of personal grief—from the struggle of being unable to have children to the intricate emotions tied to familial loss. Lore Ferguson Wilbert, author of "The Understory," emphasizes the importance of living in the present, urging us to embrace who we are now rather than who we once were or who we might become. Through the lens of spiritual formation, we delve into the discipline of accepting our current reality with all its joy, pain, and beauty, much like the wildflower seeds that bloom into a sea of poppies, symbolizing renewal and hope. Close with us in a moment of gratitude, embracing the wisdom of Lore Ferguson Wilbert and the call to be our magnificent selves.Order Lore's magnificent book: The UnderstoryVisit her site: LOREFollow Lore on Instagram: @lorewilbertSupport the Show.Begin Your Heartlifter's Journey: Visit and subscribe to Heartlift Central on Substack. This is our new online coaching center and meeting place for Heartlifters worldwide. Meet me on Instagram: @janellrardon Leave a review and rate the podcast: WRITE A REVIEW Learn more about my books and work: Janell Rardon Make a tax-deductible donation through Heartlift International Learn more about Young Living Therapeutic-Grade Essential Oils and the Aroma Freedom Technique: HEALINGFROMTRAUMA

Speak Healing Words
Tree 103 and the Wisdom of the Forest

Speak Healing Words

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2024 35:20 Transcription Available


Send us a Text Message.What does it mean to find rootedness and resilience in the face of life's complexities? In this episode, we invite you to explore this profound question with Lore Ferguson Wilbert, the insightful author of "The Understory." Lore opens up about her journey towards deepening her roots where she is, valuing her past while embracing the dualities of belief and unbelief, joy and sorrow, to find wholeness and peace ultimately. Through rich metaphors drawn from nature, Lore shares her experiences and the wisdom she gleaned from the forest, encouraging us all to accept life's paradoxes and deepen our sense of belonging.Meet Lore Ferguson Wilbert: The UnderstoryDownload The Wheel of Emotions and Learn More.Download The Feelings Chart.Learn More About The Anger Iceberg from The Gottman Institute.Learn More About Tree 103 and Elder's GroveSupport the Show.Begin Your Heartlifter's Journey: Visit and subscribe to Heartlift Central on Substack. This is our new online coaching center and meeting place for Heartlifters worldwide. Meet me on Instagram: @janellrardon Leave a review and rate the podcast: WRITE A REVIEW Learn more about my books and work: Janell Rardon Make a tax-deductible donation through Heartlift International Learn more about Young Living Therapeutic-Grade Essential Oils and the Aroma Freedom Technique: HEALINGFROMTRAUMA

The Habit
Lore Wilbert on the Life that Grows Out of Death

The Habit

Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2024 45:02


Lore Ferguson Wilbert writes about spiritual formation, faith, culture, and theology in life. She is the proprietor of an excellent Substack called Sayable.  She has also been known to teach writing and do editorial work. Her new book is The Understory: An Invitation to Rootedness and Resilience from the Forest Floor. In this episode, Lore and Jonathan Rogers talk about what it means to really believe that death can't help but give rise to life. We also talk about mycorrhizal fungi.Support the show: https://therabbitroom.givingfuel.com/memberSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Shifting Culture
Ep. 184 Lore Ferguson Wilbert - An Invitation to Rootedness and Resilence from the Forest Floor

Shifting Culture

Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2024 53:00 Transcription Available


I love to enter the woods find a path and walk with Jesus. It's a place of life and connection for me. And I know it is for Lore as well. Lore Wilbert spent time reflecting on the forest floor for her latest book The Understory.  In this conversation, Lore and I talk about finding identity and community through change and loss.Laurie talks about learning from nature by observing decay and emergence on the forest floor, seeing death as part of life's cycle. In times of loss, Lore encourages us to feel emotions fully and trust that God is still at work, like nutrients from fallen trees nourishing new growth and that moving forward through change requires accepting the "new normal" and focusing on being present each day rather than clinging to the past. So join us as we find rootedness and resilience from the forest floor. Lore Ferguson Wilbert is an award winning writer, thinker, learner, and author of the books, The Understory, A Curious Faith and Handle With Care. She has written for She Reads Truth, Christianity Today, and more, as well as her own site, lorewilbert.com. She has a Masters in Spiritual Formation and Leadership and loves to think and write about the intersection of human formation and the gritty stuff of earth. You can find Lore on Instagram @lorewilbert or on her kayak in the Adirondacks. She lives with her husband Nate in upstate New York and their pups, Harper and Rilke. She really has read all the books on her shelves. Lore's Book:The UnderstoryLore's Recommendations:I Cheerfully Refuse by Leif EngerWe Were the Lucky OnesJoin Our Patreon for Early Access and More: PatreonConnect with Joshua: jjohnson@allnations.usGo to www.shiftingculturepodcast.com to interact and donate. Every donation helps to produce more podcasts for you to enjoy.Follow on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Threads at www.facebook.com/shiftingculturepodcasthttps://www.instagram.com/shiftingculturepodcast/https://twitter.com/shiftingcultur2https://www.threads.net/@shiftingculturepodcasthttps://www.youtube.com/@shiftingculturepodcastConsider Giving to the podcast and to the ministry that my wife and I do around the world. JusSend us a Text Message.Support the Show.

Worthy: Celebrating the Value of Women
Episode 156: Interview with Lore Ferguson Wilbert

Worthy: Celebrating the Value of Women

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2024 41:58


Lore Ferguson Wilbert is the author of A Curious Faith and Handle with Care, which won a 2021 Christianity Today Book Award. She writes at lorewilbert.com. Wilbert has written for Christianity Today, Fathom magazine, and She Reads Truth and served as general editor of B&H's Read and Reflect with the Classics. She lives in the Adirondack mountains in upstate New York with her husband. She is also the author of The Understory: An Invitation to Rootedness and Resilience from the Forest Floor.   Handle With Care: How Jesus Redeems the Power of Life and Touch in Life and Ministry A Curious Faith: The Questions God Asks, We Ask, and We Wish Someone Would Ask Us

Human Together
Making Space for Difference

Human Together

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2024 31:02


Navigating our differences is not easy, and disagreements often become a reason to pull away from one another. In this episode, Sarah talks with author Lore Ferguson Wilbert about ways we can stay tender toward each other's humanity and deepen our connections, even when our thoughts and opinions do not align.Find episode notes at sarahewestfall.com.To support the podcast and access to extended episodes, essay series, book club, and more, become a Human Together subscriber on Substack.The Human Together podcast is written and recorded by Sarah E. Westfall and is produced and edited by Ben Westfall. Theme music is “Sit with Me” by Sarah Scharbrough.

Grace In Real Life podcast
#188: Spiritual Health: Moving Jesus's love from your head to your heart with Dr. Curt Thompson

Grace In Real Life podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2024 63:35


If we do not know Jesus' love on a deeply personal level and encounter His love in our busy and full, real lives, then the spiritual disciplines devolve into legalism and empty works. Without recognizing how much we are loved and cared for, everything else we do in that relationship is a striving attempt to be loved.  Because experiencing God's love for us is a gift we want to receive AND struggle with experiencing, I've invited Dr. Curt Thompson to join the show.  In today's episode, you'll receive practical strategies and anchoring truths as we process moving God's love from head to heart. You'll learn: How to move Jesus's love for you from your head down to your heart How to experience grace in your real life, How solitude soothes your soul. And one simple exercise to help you pay attention to what you're paying attention to.  Mentioned in the podcast  The FCC requires that I tell you that I'm an Amazon Affiliate, which means I earn a bit of commission on each sale. But don't worry, there's no added cost to you! The Chosen Into the Silent Land by Martin Laird The Deepest Place by Dr. Curt Thompson Anatomy of the Soul by Dr. Curt Thompson #97: Spiritual Health: Studying the Bible with Amber Palmer #98: Spiritual Health: Praying to connect with the heart of Christ with Kimberly Coyle #99: Spiritual Health: Celebrating Sabbath with Mark Buchanan #100: Spiritual Health: Imitating Christ as we suffer with author K.J. Ramsey #101: Spiritual Health: Hearing from God for freedom with Jennifer Barnett #144: Spiritual Health: Paying attention with Anjuli Paschall #145: Spiritual Health: Spending time with Jesus with Arabah Joy and Jen Evangelista #146: Spiritual Health: Embracing a lifestyle of rest with Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith #147: One ridiculously easy way to spread the gospel with Twyla Franz #148: Easy ways to study the Word of God every woman can use w/Portia Collins #149: How to find community: 3 easy places to find it with Rachael Wade #150: Questions to ask God, yourself, and others w/Lore Ferguson Wilbert #151: Cultivating a life of prayer with Asheritah Ciuciu #152: Pouring out your heart to the Lord with Jennifer Dukes Lee Here's how to connect with Dr. Curt Thompson Instagram Website Podcast The Center for Being Known Here's how to connect with Jill Website  GraceInRealLifePodcast.com  Instagram  Subscribe to Jill's weekly “the good + the grace” email 

Holy Unhappiness with Amanda Held Opelt
Advent Week 4 - Love with Lore Ferguson Wilbert

Holy Unhappiness with Amanda Held Opelt

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2023 39:28


On week four, the Church focuses on the theme of Love. Today I am joined by author and friend Lore Ferguson Wilbert. This was such a timely conversation for me. As we head into a week of celebrations with family and friends, we are all carrying our own burdens - both joy and pain, longings and frustrations. The holidays are not always easy for everyone, and we are pulled in many directions. Christ is the one who helps us show up with love. Lore and I talk about the importance of God incarnate, present in the body, giving of Himself physically to those around Him, and what that means for us.

Grace In Real Life podcast
#163: Grace in Parenting: Balancing motherhood and ministry with Katie Scott

Grace In Real Life podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2023 56:42


How can we balance motherhood and ministry? Is it possible to follow your passions and be a mom? How can you handle mom guilt as you work in ministry? Listen in to Episode 163 with Katie Scott as we talk about grace-based parenting for those in ministry. You're a mom. You're also in ministry, whether that's by being on staff at your church, leading a Bible study at home, writing a book, or volunteering on Sunday mornings. How can balance motherhood with ministry? What do we do with the mom guilt that comes when we feel like our family gets our leftovers?  Mom, there is hope. This question is not new, and we can walk you through it. Listen to this episode with Katie Scott.  In today's episode, you'll receive practical strategies and anchoring truths as you follow your passions for ministry and being a mom. Katie shares: Three ways to balance ministry and motherhood, What to do when your child grows bitter about church because you work at one,  And four simple and powerful ways to combat spiritual opposition. Mentioned in the podcast ​​Episode #35: Real-life grace for the Enneagram Three with Rebecca Peet #88: What to do when you fear naming what you want [Fear Series] #150: Questions to ask God, yourself, and others w/Lore Ferguson Wilbert #136: Grace vs. Fear: When you believe you're messing up your kids Subscribe to Jill's weekly “the good + the grace” email  How to leave a rating or review   Here's how to connect with Katie Scott Website Instagram Facebook   Here's how to connect with Jill Website  GraceInRealLifePodcast.com  Instagram  Subscribe to Jill's weekly “the good + the grace” email   

Grace In Real Life podcast
#152: Spiritual Health: Pouring out your heart to the Lord with Jennifer Dukes Lee

Grace In Real Life podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2023 44:12


It is no accident that our Spiritual Health series started with paying attention and ends with sharing what rumbles in our souls. Only when we wake up to what's bothering us on the inside can we pour it out to the Lord as David did in the psalms.  We must know ourselves – our fears, hopes, dreams, worries, nervous ticks, default coping mechanisms – so we can articulate them to God, not because He doesn't already know them but so we know ourselves in the light of His presence. Because developing the skill of pouring out what you're thinking and feeling is a practice that has laid dormant for many of us, I invited Jennifer Dukes Lee to the show.   Today, Jennifer walks us through: How journaling brings our stuff into the light, What holds us back from sharing our hearts with the Lord, And the two ways we can handle pain.   Quotes about how to pour out your heart through journaling “Journaling is really a voyage of self-discovery.” - Jennifer Dukes Lee “Journaling really helps you clear out distressing throughs so that you can move forward with renewed peace.” - Jennifer Dukes Lee “Journaling is an opportunity to meet God on the pages.” - Jennifer Dukes Lee “What would you say to God if you were completely honest?” - Jennifer Dukes Lee “The psalms are unfiltered cries of people with broken hearts.” - Jennifer Dukes Lee “Sometimes we don't want to share our hopes and dreams because to speak it out loud or put it on paper feels like you're setting yourself up for disappointment.” - Jennifer Dukes Lee “Your honesty is safe with God.” - Jennifer Dukes Lee “The most courageous thing you can do is be honest with yourself.” - Jennifer Dukes Lee   If you'd like to learn more about being honest with God about your dreams, listen in or read on: #45: Refresh your thought-life about your dreams, calling, and next steps with Sarah Birkbeck #88: What to do when you fear naming what you want [Fear Series] #135: Grace vs. Fear: When you worry you're selfish 4 necessary skills to wait well on your dream How we tragically misunderstand Jesus' command to deny ourselves   Grace In Real Life Podcast's 3rd Birthday Giveaway Win books, books, books, + $270 in fun Amazon money + awesome prizes! Want books by Christ-centered authors? Need $270 from Amazon to purchase gifts? Relish gifts like a journal set, Purposed Box, virtual workshop, and two coaching sessions? One winner will be randomly selected. The giveaway is open from February 14 through February 28. Donors to the gift card are: Jill E. McCormick, Jill E. McCormick, Jennifer Dukes Lee, Jennifer Barnett, Heather Bjur, Twyla Franz, Jen Babakhan, Michelle Nietert, Jodi Grubbs, Girls Talking Life, Inspired Motherhood, Do A New Thing, and Purposed Box. To enter, go here.  As Mentioned in the Podcast The FCC requires that I tell you that I'm an Amazon Affiliate, which means I earn a bit of commission on each sale. But don't worry; there's no added cost to you! #57: Delete + Reset: Slowing down, releasing expectations, and creating an unhurried heart with Jennifer Dukes Lee Stuff I'd Only Tell God by Jennifer Dukes Lee at 40% off at Baker Book House It's All Under Control by Jennifer Dukes Lee Praying the Scriptures for Your Children by Jodie Berndt Spiritual Health series episodes #144: Spiritual Health: Paying attention with Anjuli Paschall #145: Spiritual Health: Spending time with Jesus with Arabah Joy and Jen Evangelista #146: Spiritual Health: Embracing a lifestyle of rest with Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith #147: One ridiculously easy way to spread the gospel with Twyla Franz #148: Easy ways to study the Word of God every woman can use w/Portia Collins #149: How to find community: 3 easy places to find it with Rachael Wade #150: Questions to ask God, yourself, and others w/Lore Ferguson Wilbert #151: Cultivating a life of prayer with Asheritah Ciuciu About Jennifer Dukes Lee Jennifer Dukes Lee is a bestselling author, thinker, and question-asker from Iowa.  Her friends say they are scared to sit alone in a room with her because they end up telling her things they never intended to say. She is both proud of this fact and also a little annoyed at how nosy she can be.  She put a bunch of her favorite questions into a journal called Stuff I'd Only Tell God. It's like your own little confession booth. She's also the author of Growing Slow and It's All Under Control.  Her wisdom doesn't stop there. Jennifer is sharing resources EXCLUSIVELY with my email subscribers. Sign up here for the good + the grace. Here's how to connect with Jennifer Website Instagram Facebook Here's how to connect with Jill Website  GraceInRealLifePodcast.com  Instagram  Subscribe to Jill's weekly “the good + the grace” email   

The Vibrant Christian Living Podcast with Alicia Michelle
197: Welcoming Your Questions About God with Loving Curiosity with Lore Ferguson Wilbert

The Vibrant Christian Living Podcast with Alicia Michelle

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2023 49:07


Have you ever found yourself asking questions about God? When we're going through life trials or life is confusing, we tend to ask God questions such as “Where is God?” Maybe asking questions about God can feel uncomfortable, or even blasphemous, but the reality is that God created us to be curious beings. I invited author Lore Ferguson Wilbert to join us on the podcast to discuss how a real relationship with God allows room for God questions (including how to better understand God's love for us) and provides opportunities to discover more of who He is and who we are in Him.Don't miss this conversation as Lori and I discuss some of the questions we ask about God, including those she mentions in her excellent book A Curious Faith, and how curiosity can strengthen our relationship with God. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[07:21] Navigating life's challenges and staying connected to God through asking questions[11:58] What keeps us from asking God questions?[16:46] How asking God questions and owning emotions can move us closer to God [23:24] Finding hope and security when you're surrounded by God questions [28:15] Resting in God's love when we struggle with shame and questions about acceptance [36:15]  The power of asking God the question, “What do you want to say to me?” [38:37] Questions Lore is currently asking God[40:44] How to open yourself up to curious questions to strengthen your relationship with God[43:41] First steps: Becoming more comfortable in your questions about GodRESOURCES MENTIONED: Join the Christian Mindset MakeoverGet the “I Am Loved” Bible Study Course  A Curious Faith By Lore Ferguson WilbertConnect with Lore: WebsiteInstagram TwitterGet the “I Am Loved” Bible Study Course  Are you walking through a difficult season and really need to know that God is with you and that He loves you? Then, friend, I want to invite you to join me for the “I Am Loved” 4-Week Bible Study. The “I Am Loved” Bible Study is designed to help you not only grow closer to God but to learn HOW to hear His loving voice in your heart so that you can get a fresh perspective on your circumstances. This is an ON-DEMAND study, meaning you can start it just when you need it.Join me for this life-changing Bible study so you can...Experience confident joy as God's love renews your mindFind peace as God's love helps you release worry and fearRediscover hope as God's love offers a new perspective on life's trialsGo to VibrantChristianLiving.com/love right now to get this awesome, on-demand Bible study on God's love. 

Grace In Real Life podcast
#150: Spiritual Health: Developing curiosity about God, yourself, and others with Lore Ferguson Wilbert

Grace In Real Life podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2023 46:12


Curiosity is a skill we can use to better understand each other. But can we use that same skill to grow our faith? Can we develop curiosity about ourselves: Why do we tense up the way we do around that person? Why do we always say “yes” before checking our calendar? What does it look like to be curious about God, ourselves, and the world? Because developing curiosity is a skill that takes time and effort to cultivate, I invited Lore Ferguson Wilbert to the show.   Today, Lore walks us through: How to cultivate curiosity, The power of sitting with “I don't know”, And one question to ask a fellow Christ-follower today.   What is curiosity? “Curiosity is a way to cultivate love for the world, for the Lord, and even for myself.” - Lore Ferguson Wilbert “When we begin to look at those hard questions and really wrestle with them, that's the thing that strengthens our faith.”  - Lore Ferguson Wilbert “Wrestling with the question leads to a rootedness.” Jill E. McCormick If you'd like to learn more about finding community in your real life, go here: Drop this habit for better friendships #106: Holding space for the mystery of God with Rev. Summer Joy Gross  Sign up here for A Holy Hush A Holy Hush: Reflections for Lent is a multi-part series sent only to those who sign-up and will offer simple reflections on the final days, death, and resurrection of Christ. When you sign up, you'll receive a short audio reflection in your inbox beginning Ash Wednesday and then every other Wednesday, as well as Palm Sunday, Good Friday, Easter Sunday, and Easter Monday. By signing up, you'll also be added to Jill's weekly email newsletter, the good + the grace. Sign up here for A Holy Hush. Grace In Real Life Podcast's 3rd Birthday Giveaway Win books, books, books, + $270 in fun Amazon money + awesome prizes! Want books by Christ-centered authors? Need $270 from Amazon to purchase gifts? Relish gifts like a journal set, Purposed Box, virtual workshop, and two coaching sessions? Just head to the link in my bio to enter! One winner will be randomly selected. The giveaway is open from February 14 through February 28. Donors to the gift card are: Jill E. McCormick, Jill E. McCormick, Jennifer Dukes Lee, Jennifer Barnett, Heather Bjur, Twyla Franz, Jen Babakhan, Michelle Nietert, Jodi Grubbs, Girls Talking Life, Inspired Motherhood, Do A New Thing, and Purposed Box. To enter, go here.    Key quotes about curiosity and faith “The power of sitting in a space of ‘I don't know.'” - Lore Ferguson Wilbert “When I say I don't know something, that means there's something for me to learn.” - Lore Ferguson Wilbert “There's more to my story, and I know the One who is writing my story.” -Jill E. McCormick “Oftentimes, what God wants is our limp.” - Lore Ferguson Wilbert “We come to know Jesus in our failure. We come to know Jesus in our joy. We come to know Jesus through paths of destruction. We come to know Jesus through sweet paths.” - Lore Ferguson Wilbert “Orienting our lives around Jesus is the work of our lives.” - Lore Ferguson Wilbert “Faith is messy.” - Lore Ferguson Wilbert “Asking all those scary big questions leads us to the locus of His love 100% of the time.” - Lore Ferguson Wilbert “How is your soul?” - Lore Ferguson Wilbert   As Mentioned in the Podcast The FCC requires that I tell you that I'm an Amazon Affiliate, which means I earn a bit of commission on each sale. But don't worry; there's no added cost to you! A Holy Hush: Reflections for Lent Grace In Real Life Podcast's 3rd Birthday Giveaway A Curious Faith by Lore Ferguson Wilbert   About Lore Ferguson Wilbert Lore Ferguson Wilbert is a writer, thinker, learner, and author of the books A Curious Faith and Handle With Care. She lives in New York with her husband Nate, a puppy named Harper Nelle, and too many books to read in one lifetime.    Here's how to connect with Lore Instagram Twitter Facebook   Here's how to connect with Jill Website  GraceInRealLifePodcast.com  Instagram  Subscribe to Jill's weekly “the good + the grace” email   

Unhurried Living
A Curious Faith (Lore Ferguson Wilbert)

Unhurried Living

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2022 37:18


I'm sharing a recent conversation with Lore Ferguson Wilbert about her book A Curious Faith. In it, she talks about questions God asks us, questions we ask God, and question we wish others would ask us. We are sometimes uncomfortable with questions unless we quickly figure out an answer to them. But growing deeper in trusting God often involves “living the questions” rather than merely answering them. I believe in the formative power of good questions. Our own book, What Does Your Soul Love?, is based on eight questions that reveal the frontiers of where God is at his transforming work in our lives. Lore Ferguson Wilbert is the founder of Sayable.net and the author of Handle with Care, winner of a 2021Christianity Today Book Award. She has written for Christianity Today, Fathom magazine, and She Reads Truth, and served as general editor of B&H's “Read and Reflect with the Classics.” Wilbert reaches an audience of more than 40,000 through email and social media. She is currently pursuing an MA in Christian spiritual formation and leadership from Friends University and lives in upstate New York.  

Faith Conversations
Lore Ferguson Wilbert – episode 343

Faith Conversations

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2022 34:45


  Lore Ferguson Wilbert is an author and has written for Christianity Today, Fathom magazine and She Reads Truth. Her book A Curious Faith is the subject of our conversation on this week's podcast. The subtitle really drew me in: The Questions God Asks, We Ask, and We Wish Someone... The post Lore Ferguson Wilbert – episode 343 appeared first on Anita Lustrea.

Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. Carol
Questioning God: How Curiosity Can Grow Your Faith and Relationships

Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. Carol

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2022 36:52


Is it OK to ask questions? Are there some questions you shouldn't ask? How does God feel about our questions? Does asking hard questions mean you are losing your faith? Today Dr. Carol talks with writer Lore Ferguson Wilbert who believes that Christianity is not about knowing good answers but about asking good questions--ones that foster deeper intimacy with God and others. You can learn how "living the questions" can bring you a more meaningful and grounded relationship with God and with those closest to you. Find Lore Ferguson Wilbert on her website, Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram. Find her book A Curious Faith: The Questions God Asks, We Ask, and We Wish Someone Would Ask Us Check out our online course Fully Alive Marriage, and learn the questions to ask your own heart, your spouse, and God about your marriage that can lead to loving well. 

Freely Given
A Curious Faith

Freely Given

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2022 24:01


We interview our friend, Lore Ferguson Wilbert, to discuss her new book "Curious Faith." In this books she examines questions that God asks people in the Bible, questions people ask God in the Bible, and questions we wish someone would ask us. Living in the tension of mystery in faith, we have a discussion on the freedom God gives us to ask him questions, as well as understanding how God uses questions to grow our understanding. Lore's book Curious Faith Sign up for the FREE Livestream for Here We Still Stand Support the work of 1517

The Bible Never Said That
I Can Do All Things? Really? (Philippians 4:13)

The Bible Never Said That

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2022 19:01


The promise here is that through Christ, I can find the strength to be content in any and all circumstances.Verses Referenced: Philippians 4:11-13, Galatians 1:10, James 4:13-15, Philippians 2:14-15, James 1:6-8Articles Referenced:10 Habitual Sins Women Especially Struggle With by Chara Donahue: https://bit.ly/3rsVwoV What Does it Mean “I Can Do All Things Through Christ?” by Joel Ryan: https://bit.ly/3ruyXjyWhat is the Difference between Envy and Jealousy? By Richard H. Smith: https://bit.ly/3yEXgzt The Fallacious Tendinceis of the Inner Man by Chara Donahue: https://bit.ly/3fIMeT9 Book Referenced: A Curious Faith by Lore Ferguson Wilbert: https://www.acuriousfaithbook.com/

Make It Count: Living a Legacy Life
Ep 154 A Legacy of Curiosity—A Journey of Faith with Lore Ferguson Wilbert

Make It Count: Living a Legacy Life

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2022 58:28


Writer, thinker, self-named "chronic doubter", Lore Wilbert talks today about how asking questions are not only welcomed by God, but often essential to our journey of faith. Whether you are a staunch believer, never doubting, or more in a messy faith situation right now, you will find comfort, grace—even some answers to your questions—in our podcast conversation today. Lore Ferguson Wilbert is a writer, thinker, learner, and author of the book, Handle With Care. She writes for She Reads Truth, Christianity Today, and more, as well as her own site, Sayable.net,as well as at LoreWilbert.com. You can find her on Twitter and Instagram @lorewilbert. She lives in New York and has a husband named Nate, a puppy named Harper Nelle, and too many books to read in one lifetime. Her wonderful new book is A CURIOUS FAITH: The Questions God Asks, We Ask, and We Wish Someone Would Ask Us. I love her latest book, A CURIOUS FAITH: The Questions God Asks, We Ask, and We Wish Someone Would Ask Us. I thought I'd get this book for some friends, but the more I read it, I knew it was meant for me. Funny how the Lord does that. (My friends will still get a copy and you should, too.) Lore says this about herself: My life is small and simple. Grace is the marked measure of all things in me. God is the ultimate Creator and He's crafted all things for His glory and my good. I learn this, albeit slowly at times. I am a Christian for whom doubt has been a near constant thread. I am not funny or vivacious or the life of the party. I am the one who hangs out on the margins, the one who sounds slightly, maybe impressive until you meet me, the one people don't recognize when they see me. And it has taken me nearly 40 years to finally be okay with that. I have lived in ten states. Nowhere is quite home. The writer of Hebrews quotes the Lord as saying, “They'll never get where they're going, never able to sit down and rest.” A favorite author, Wendell Berry, says in one poem, “We must arrive at the ground beneath our feet,” and in another, “at peace, and in place.” I have done neither, not completely. I am perpetually homesick and I wonder if God did that to me on purpose, so I would never feel too much at home on this earth. Some gems from Lore: The Gospel is much more accessible and simple than we could ever imagine, and much more complex and majestic than we could ever imagine. One of the most difficult parts of faith is getting honest about what we really want from God. God is not interested in followers with all the right answers or even the right questions. He wants us to ask the quesitons, whatever we want, to lead us right to the locus of his love. The Bible is a permission slip from God to ask questions. Living my questions led me to more surety and stability.   You will love hearing Lore's legacy. Enjoy and if you have questions? I'd love to hear them: sue@welcomeheart.com   

Delgado Podcast
Embracing Curiosity in the Journey of Faith w/ Lore Ferguson Wilbert

Delgado Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2022 44:17


In this week's podcast, we're honored to learn from Lore Ferguson Wilbert about her new book entitled, “A Curious Faith: The Questions God Asks, We Ask, And We Wish Someone Would Ask Us (https://www.acuriousfaithbook.com/).“ Her book explores the powerful ways our faith and doubt can impact our understanding of God. Lore invites us all to embrace curiosity in our faith journey, and to get comfortable with not always finding all the answers. Most importantly, she encourages readers to find their comfort and ultimate answers in Christ. Lore Ferguson Wilbert is the founder of Sayable.net and the author of Handle with Care, winner of a 2021 Christianity Today Book Award. She has written for Christianity Today, Fathom magazine, and She Reads Truth and served as general editor of B&H's Read and Reflect with the Classics. She is currently pursuing an M.A. in Christian spiritual formation and leadership from Friends University. You can get watch the video from today's conversation here: https://youtu.be/fXPc7rlUBQ4 You can also view and/or download past episodes here: http://www.mikedelgado.org/podcast/

Makers & Mystics
S10E02: A Curious Faith with Lore Ferguson Wilbert

Makers & Mystics

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2022 32:31


Lore Ferguson Wilbert is a writer, thinker, learner, and author of the book, A Curious Faith. She writes for She Reads Truth, Christianity Today, and more, as well as her own site, Sayable.net. You can find her on Twitter and Instagram @lorewilbert. She lives in New York and has a husband named Nate, a puppy named Harper Nelle, and too many books to read in one lifetime.In this episode, I talk with Lore about the importance of asking the hard questions and the necessity of cultivating a curious heart in both the creative space and in the spiritual. Support The Podcast (We can't do this without you!) Join our creative collective and gain access to tons of extra content and other inspiring curiosities. Listen to our Artist Profile on Rilke (We mention this episode in our discussion.)

Culture Matters
A Curious Faith

Culture Matters

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2022 38:32


This week we got to chat with a friend of the podcast, Lore Ferguson Wilbert, about her new book A Curious Faith. In this book, she asks her readers to explore the hard questions and meditate on God's word in a way that ultimately encourages a more beautiful and rich relationship with Jesus Christ. — Links The book A Curious Faith Lore's Blog Sayable Lore's other book we mentioned Handle With Care — Support us on Patron Page   Follow us on social: instagram.com/culture_matters_pod twitter.com/culturemattersp culturematterspodcast.podbean.com/

Love Is Stronger Than Fear
A Curious Faith with Lore Ferguson Wilbert

Love Is Stronger Than Fear

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2022 42:45 Transcription Available


We may sometimes doubt the importance of our questions, but the practice of curiosity is actually a gift. Author Lore Ferguson Wilbert joins Amy Julia Becker to talk about all the questions we are invited to ask of God and of ourselves and how those questions can open up spacious places in our souls. __Guest Bio:“Lore Ferguson Wilbert is a writer, thinker, learner, and author of A Curious Faith and Handle With Care. She writes for She Reads Truth, Christianity Today, and more, as well as her own site, Sayable.net. She lives in New York and has a husband named Nate, a puppy named Harper Nelle, and too many books to read in one lifetime.”__Connect Online:Website: sayable.netInstagram: @lorewilbertTwitter: @lorewilbert__On the Podcast:A Curious Faith: The Questions God Asks, We Ask, and We Wish Someone Would Ask UsPsalm 16:6; Genesis 3:9A. J. Swoboda For complete show notes and transcript, go to: amyjuliabecker.com/lore-ferguson-wilbert/__Season 6 of the Love Is Stronger Than Fear podcast connects to themes in my latest book, To Be Made Well, which you can order here! Learn more about my writing and speaking at amyjuliabecker.com.*A transcript of this episode will be available within one business day, as well as a video with closed captions on my YouTube Channel.

Finding Holy
128: Lore Wilbert on Why a Posture of Curiosity Matters

Finding Holy

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2022 38:25


What do we do with our questions? In this conversation, Ashley talks with Lore Ferguson Wilbert about questions faith poses and what a curious faith looks like. This conversation moves past hot takes on deconstruction and into the questions we ask of God, he asks of us, and we ask together in community. Listen in. LINKS Sign up for Lore's substack Lore's most recent book, A Curious Faith Ashley's most recent book, A Spacious Life is in paperback, ebook and audio. You can find out more about her work and speaking at aahales.com. Be sure to leave a rating and review wherever you listen to podcasts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Kitchen Meditations
On Belonging

Kitchen Meditations

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2022 31:40


Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the unknown? Do you find yourself wishing for a bit more slowness, stability, or surety about your next steps? Maybe then you'd finally feel at home, you think. In this episode of Kitchen Meditations, Kendall is joined by Lore Ferguson Wilbert, the author of Curious Faith. Together, Kendall and Lore discuss what makes them feel at home, the lingering feelings of homesickness, the role questions can play in our faith, and how to instill some rhythm into our everyday lives to feel more at home. Sign up for our weekly newsletter at EdibleTheology.com Follow Lore's work on Instagram or Twitter @lorewilbert or at lorewilbert.com

The AUSA Podcast
S3E5: The Art of Having a Good Bad Day - Facing Grief, Disappointment, and Suffering

The AUSA Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2022 69:47


Welcome to this week's episode of The AUSA Podcast! This is a conversation we've been wanting to have on the pod here for a while, and this season we finally felt poised well enough to do it. It's a pretty real and raw one, so strap in. This week, Dr. Wyma, a professor at AU, and Luke talk about suffering, disappointment, grief, and asking for help. Ultimately, this episode is about how to handle a bad day — to clarify, we're using “bad day” as a sort of shorthand for a difficult time of disappointment, grief, struggle, heartache, and so on. We walk through some appropriate (and inappropriate) responses to and about God in the face of suffering, how to manage bad days maturely and wisely, what Jesus' human experience means for our grief and sadness, and how to show compassion to ourselves and others in the midst of suffering. Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this episode or anything we talked about peaked your interest, we'd love to start a conversation! Do us a favor and share it with your friends, and if you have thoughts or questions you can DM us on Instagram @au411. Now that we think of it, to keep up with all things AU Student Activities, visit our Instagram @au411! Here are some of the resources that were talked about in this episode (or used while planning this episode) if you're curious about doing some in-depth exploring on your own! Books: "Abraham's Silence" by J. Richard Middleton; "Prayer in the Night: For Those Who Work Or Watch Or Weep" by Tish Harrison Warren; "A Curious Faith: The Questions God Asks, We Ask, and We Wish Someone Would Ask Us" by Lore Ferguson Wilbert; "God on Mute: Engaging the Silence of Unanswered Prayer" by Pete Greig; "The Fire Next Time" by James Baldwin. Scripture: 1 Kings 18-19, Genesis 22, Job Other: Every Moment Holy Volumes 1 and 2

From the Front Porch
Episode 387 || August Reading Recap

From the Front Porch

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2022 50:08


This week on From the Front Porch, Annie is talking about all the books she read in August. As always, we're offering an August Reading Recap Bundle, which features Annie's three favorite books from the month. To purchase the books mentioned in this episode, visit our new website: The books discussed this week include: Girls They Write Songs About by Carlene Bauer Flight by Lynn Steger Strong The Net Beneath Us by Carol Dunbar Thank You for Listening by Julia Whelan Less by Andrew Sean Greer Just Another Love Song by Kerry Winfrey The Book of Goose by Yiyun Li Dinosaurs by Lydia Millet August Reading Recap Bundle From the Front Porch is a weekly podcast production of The Bookshelf, an independent bookstore in South Georgia. You can follow The Bookshelf's daily happenings on Instagram at @bookshelftville, and all the books from today's episode can be purchased online through our store website, www.bookshelfthomasville.com.  A full transcript of today's episode can be found here. Special thanks to Dylan and his team at Studio D Podcast Production for sound and editing and for our theme music, which sets the perfect warm and friendly tone for our Thursday conversations.  This week Annie is reading A Curious Faith by Lore Ferguson Wilbert. If you liked what you heard in today's episode, tell us by leaving a review on iTunes. Or, if you're so inclined, support us on Patreon, where you can hear our staff's weekly New Release Tuesday conversations, read full book reviews in our monthly Shelf Life newsletter and follow along as Hunter and I conquer a classic. Just go to patreon.com/fromthefrontporch. We're so grateful for you, and we look forward to meeting back here next week. Our Executive Producers are... Donna Hetchler, Angie Erickson, Cammy Tidwell, Nicole Marsee, Wendi Jenkins, Laurie Johnson, and Kate Johnston Tucker.

The Holy Post
Episode 523: Cultivating a Curious Faith with Lore Ferguson Wilbert

The Holy Post

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 24, 2022 86:19


The Habit
Lore Ferguson Wilbert Is Curious

The Habit

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2022 46:23


Over the last few years, Lore Ferguson Wilbert has been moving toward a more contemplative and expansive faith. She has learned to be more curious, living into questions as a way of being present with God, rather than seizing too quickly on answers that may not be as helpful–or true–as they first appear. That trajectory gives shape to her new book, A Curious Faith.Support the show: https://therabbitroom.givingfuel.com/memberSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A Drink With a Friend
Tradition (aka Democracy of the Dead)

A Drink With a Friend

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2021 43:52


Traditioooooooooon… Tradition! We all have them during the holidays, but why do they matter? Seth and Tsh unpack the sacramentality of leaning into even our smallest of family traditions — because they matter more than as simply “things we do every year.” Traditions remind us we're not alone, life is bigger than we are, and that we're time-bound creatures made with a need for routine and rhythm. They're anchors for our souls, especially when life is hard. Seth: Newsletter | Website Tsh: Newsletter | Website Pick up a round of drinks & help keep the show going Come to Italy with us! Drink merch (here's the mug)! Shadow & Light, Tsh's Advent book The Scandal of Holiness, by Jessica Hooten Wilson A Curious Faith, by Lore Ferguson Wilbert

The Heal Podcast
Ep. 70 | Lore Ferguson Wilbert: Handle With Care

The Heal Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2021 49:05


Lore Ferguson Wilbert vulnerably shares parts of her doubts and questions through her journey, including an ectopic pregnancy, a current struggle she's facing, and her journey through miscarriages. Lore is the author of Handle with Care, a book on the ministry of touch. Touch is not talked about much in our healing journeys, and Lore shares today why this may be the case and how we can learn from how Jesus touched and was touched. This is an episode to listen with a notepad! I believe her wisdom is going to blow your socks off in a new way. Enjoy! Lore IG: @lorewilbert Handle With Care: https://amzn.com/B083TNCMJD Lore's Blog: https://www.sayable.net/ Gender Roles by Alice Matthews: https://amzn.com/0310529395 Strong and Weak by Andy Crouch: https://amzn.com/0830844430 Joni and Friends Beyond Suffering Course: https://www.joniandfriends.org/ministries/christian-institute-on-disability/beyond-suffering/ Tera IG: @terabradham Tera Website: terabradham.com Heal Website: thehealministry.com

otherWISE
Episode 405 // Lore Ferguson Wilbert On The Sacredness of Touch

otherWISE

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2021 46:55


After a bit of a break, this week offers a powerful conversation with author Lore Ferguson Wilbert. We talk about intimacy, vulnerability, and community and the way each connects to the simple act of touch. Her book Handle With Care: How Jesus Redeems the Power of Touch In Life and Ministry includes Lore's personal experiences with appropriate and inappropriate touch, and how that act intersects with God's creative touch and Jesus' healing touch. Lore Ferguson Wilbert is a writer, thinker, learner, and author of the book, Handle With Care. She writes for She Reads Truth, Christianity Today, and more, as well as her own site, Sayable.net. You can find her on Twitter and Instagram @lorewilbert. She lives in New York and has a husband named Nate, a puppy named Harper Nelle, and too many books to read in one lifetime.We also talked about Andy Crouch's book, Strong and Weak: Embracing a Life of Love, Risk, and True Flourishing. You can find his “Four Quadrants” that we talked about in a review by Hearts and Minds Books here. Music by Robert EbbensArtwork by Eric Wright/Metamora Design

FamilyLife Today®
A Second Wife’s Journey of Healing

FamilyLife Today®

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2021 29:45


Today on the broadcast, Ron Deal and Lore Ferguson Wilbert discuss the healing journey she's experienced as her husband's second wife. She suggests adopting a heart of compassion instead of competition. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about the Blended and Blessed Live Event and Livestream. https://blendedandblessed.com/ Subscribe to the FamilyLife Blended® Podcast with Ron Deal. https://www.familylife.com/podcast/familylife-blended-podcast/ Find more blended family resources: https://www.familylife.com/familylifeblended/blended-families/ Download FamilyLife's new app! https://www.familylife.com/app/ Find resources from this podcast at https://shop.familylife.com/Products.aspx?categoryid=130. Check out all that's available on the FamilyLife Podcast Network.  https://www.familylife.com/familylife-podcast-network/

FamilyLife Today®
Combatting Insecurity in a Second Marriage

FamilyLife Today®

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2021 31:06


As a second wife or second husband, have you ever felt second best? Today on the broadcast, Ron Deal talks with Lore Ferguson Wilbert about how to combat the insecurities that naturally arise in second marriages. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about the Blended and Blessed Live Event and Livestream. https://blendedandblessed.com/ Subscribe to the FamilyLife Blended® Podcast with Ron Deal. https://www.familylife.com/podcast/familylife-blended-podcast/ Find more blended family resources: https://www.familylife.com/familylifeblended/blended-families/ Download FamilyLife's new app! https://www.familylife.com/app/ Find resources from this podcast at https://shop.familylife.com/Products.aspx?categoryid=130. Check out all that's available on the FamilyLife Podcast Network.  https://www.familylife.com/familylife-podcast-network/

Union Church
Matthew: Doubt and Disappointment

Union Church

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2021 38:53


We continue through Matthew 11:1-19 and see how Jesus interacts with John the Baptist's doubts. Notes/Quotes: Matthew 11:1-19   “Expectations are resentments waiting to happen.” - Anne Lamott   “Jesus is out in the sticks healing sick, “insignificant” little individuals here and there, but not doing much to change the basic structural problems in Israel’s life. The Pharisees still control popular religious life; the Sadducees still control the temple; the whole religio-ideological system seems thoroughly unthreatened by Jesus’ do-goodism in the hills. What is more, John (the propagandist of the New Order) is in prison, and Herod (the embodiment of the oppressive Establishment) is still on the throne and is in fact about to have John’s head. What kind of Messiah is this?” - Dale Bruner   Isaiah 29:18-19 Isaiah 35:3-6 Isaiah 61:1-2   Luke 1:17 1. Our doubts don’t discredit Jesus.   2. Our doubt don’t drive Jesus away   3. Our doubts need a greater story.    The answer to doubt is God. The answer to our questions about tithing, membership, gender roles, politics, sin, and any other aspect in life that gives us pause is God. The blight of our generation is that we believe we are god. - Lore Ferguson Wilbert   4. Our doubts need patience, and questions and community   “Feelings are indicators, not dictators. They can indicate where your heart is in the moment, but that doesn't mean they have the right to dictate your behavior and boss you around. You are more than the sum total of your feelings and perfectly capable of that little gift . . . called self-control.” - Lysa TerKeurst   5. Jesus addresses what’s underneath our doubts   “A faith without some doubts is like a human body without any antibodies in it.” - Tim Keller 6. There is still a blessing and invitation in our doubts.   The way of trust is a movement into obscurity, into the undefined, into ambiguity, not into some predetermined, clearly delineated plan for the future. The reality of naked trust is the life of the pilgrim who leaves what is nailed down, obvious, and secure, and walks into the unknown without any rational explanation to justify the decision or guarantee the future. Why? Because God has signaled the movement and offered it his presence and his promise.  - Brennan Manning

She Reads Truth Podcast
Tranquil Hearts & Truth that Convicts

She Reads Truth Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2020 61:48


For the second week of our Proverbs series, Raechel and Amanda talk with author, SRT devotional writer, and upstate New York’s newest resident, Lore Ferguson Wilbert. While studying proverbs focusing on the inner life, they talk about everything from Proverbs’ unique ability to be equally convicting, painful, and sweet, to the ideal temperature for a dark chocolate peanut butter cup. Together, they celebrate the truth that these proverbs repeatedly reveal: we serve a God whose work and power are far beyond our ability or understanding. When we recognize this, we too can live out the Wilbert family mantra—“fidelity to the Word of God and not to an outcome.” Read with Us: This episode corresponds to Week 2 of the She Reads Truth Proverbs: Walking in Wisdom reading plan found on the She Reads Truth app and SheReadsTruth.com. Shop the Proverbs: Walking in Wisdom Reading Plan collection at ShopSheReadsTruth.com. Show notes can be found at shereadstruth.com/podcast/tranquil-hearts-and-truth-that-convicts

FamilyLife Blended® Podcast
35: Second Wife, Second Life

FamilyLife Blended® Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2020 47:42


As a second wife or husband, have you ever felt second best? Or treated as second class by others? How can you be first in your spouse's heart when you're not the ONLY? In this episode, Ron Deal talks with Lore Ferguson Wilbert about how to combat your insecurities that naturally arise in second marriages. Perhaps there's a lack of trust, shame, or feelings of competition with your partner's former spouse. Whatever the reason, insecurities dissipate when we look to God as our source of love for our identity. We can respond from His wellspring of love even in the midst of hard emotions, offering compassion for our spouse instead of competition with someone who isn't even in the picture anymore. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Lore Wilbert at Sayable.net. ARTICLE: Second Wife, Second Life. (8 min. read)  https://www.fathommag.com/stories/second-wife-second-life Handle With Care by Lore Wilbert.  https://www.handlewithcarebook.com/ Dating and The Single Parent by Ron Deal.  https://shop.familylife.com/p-2487-dating-and-the-single-parent.aspx Building Love Together in Blended Families by Dr. Gary Chapman and Ron Deal.  https://shop.familylife.com/p-5763-building-love-together-in-blended-families.aspx Daily Encouragement for The Smart Stepfamily by Ron Deal.  https://shop.familylife.com/p-5224-daily-encouragement-for-the-smart-stepfamily.aspx Learn more about the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry.  https://www.summitonstepfamilies.com/

Theology in the Raw
Is it Okay to Hug a Woman in a Post-#MeToo World? Lore Ferguson Wilbert

Theology in the Raw

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 6, 2020


Lore (pronounced Lor-ee) Ferguson Wilbert just released her provocative book Handle With Care: How Jesus Redeems the Power of Touch in Life and Ministry. And it addresses lots of questions that are on peoples’ minds these days—especially men. Can I hug a woman? Side hug or full frontal? Is “the Billy Graham Rule” a good thing or an insulting thing—or a bit of both? How can Christian men avoid affairs and sexual temptations without giving the impression that every woman he’s alone with in the elevator is a stumbling block? Unfortunately, Preston’s internet literally shut down toward the end of this podcast (and, in case you care, it didn’t start working again for another 48 hours, which in these Covid-19 quarantine days is like spending two days in hell with everyone out to lunch). But the 40 minutes they did capture were too good to scrap, so we’ll have to live with the technological embarrassments.Lore Ferguson Wilbert is a writer, thinker, learner, and author of the book, Handle With Care. She writes for She Reads Truth, Christianity Today, Lifeway, and more, as well as her own site, Sayable.net. You can find her on Twitter and Instagram @lorewilbert. She has a husband named Nate, a puppy named Harper Nelle, and too many books to read in one lifetime.Connect with Loresayable.netTwitter | @lorewilbertInstagram | @lorewilbertFacebook | facebook.com/lorefergusonwilbertSupport PrestonSupport Preston by going to patreon.comConnect with PrestonTwitter | @PrestonSprinkleInstagram | @preston.sprinkleYoutube | Preston SprinkleCheck out his website prestonsprinkle.comIf you enjoy the podcast, be sure to leave a review.

Finding Holy
#51 K.J. Ramsey on Suffering and Hope

Finding Holy

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2020 33:51


Ashley Hales and K.J. Ramsey talk about loss and suffering as an invitation to God and community. K.J. RAMSEY (BA, Covenant College; MA, Denver Seminary) is a licensed professional counselor, writer, and recovering idealist who believes sorrow and joy coexist. Her writing has been published in Christianity Today, Relevant, The Huffington Post, Fathom Magazine, Health Central, and other publications on the integration of theology, psychology, and spiritual formation. She and her husband live in Denver, Colorado. Follow K.J.’s writing at kjramsey.com and across social media at @kjramseywrites. Tell us what you want to hear! 2 MINUTE SURVEY HERE — and you’ll get a chance to win a copy of my book, Finding Holy in the Suburbs! LISTEN ON APPLE PODCASTS, GOOGLE PODCASTS and MEGAPHONE.FM or your favorite podcast-listening app. Other applicable episodes: Episode 42 on Cultivating Hope with Lore Ferguson Wilbert, Episode 48 with Risen Motherhood’s Laura Wifler and Emily Jensen on a Scaffolding for Faithfulness, and Episode 19 with Aubrey Sampson on lament. LINKS K.J’s book, This Too Shall Last: https://amzn.to/37XpAhK K.J.’s website: http://kjramsey.com/ K.J.’s podcast, This Too Shall Last: http://kjramsey.com/podcast Follow K.J. Ramsey on Instagram and Twitter. SPECIAL OFFER: Counseling with Faithful Counseling — get 10% off your first session here: getfaithful.com/findingholy. SHARE “Our suffering is an invitation to turn and see our suffering Savior.” @kjramseywrites Being more present to the moment we’re in enables us to dwell in peace and extend peace to others. @kjramseywrites “We weren’t made for pain. We were made for love.” @kjramseywrites Bear witness to what you feel and experience. That’s showing hospitality to yourself. @kjramseywrites “Suffering is an invitation to wake up to a God who is here.” @kjramseywrites ONE SMALL STEP Pay attention to your overwhelm and note where what triggers it. Practice praying a breath prayer in moments of overwhelm. Try a few lines from a psalm, such as “The Lord is my shepherd” (breathe in), “I shall not want, (breathe out). SUBSCRIBE AND SHARE! We’d love it if you could subscribe to the Finding Holy Podcast and tell your friends! Don’t forget to fill out that survey to help out: 2 MINUTE SURVEY HERE — and you’ll get a chance to win a copy of my book, Finding Holy in the Suburbs!

Where Do We Go From Here
24: Why We Need Touch

Where Do We Go From Here

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2020 56:47


Today Lore Ferguson Wilbert is here to re-educate us on platonic touch. Listen in to hear why hugs, back scratches, and welcome platonic touch are a necessary part of being human.  Jess and Devi also get into how touch meant something to them both the good and the bad and what they’ve done in seasons of their lives when there weren’t people around to touch. Lore Ferguson Wilbert is a writer, thinker, learner, and author of the book, Handle With Care. She writes for She Reads Truth, Christianity Today, Lifeway, and more, as well as her own site, Sayable. You can find her on Twitter and Instagram. She has a husband named Nate, a puppy named Harper Nelle, and too many books to read in one lifetime. Get all the links in the show notes here Join our conversation on Twitter & Instagram. Get episodes of The Jess & Devi Show for $3USD. 

The Puddcast
#80: Redeeming Touch (with Lore Ferguson Wilbert)

The Puddcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2020 62:25


Lore Ferguson Wilbert is a long-time blogger and author of the new book, Handle With Care: How Jesus Redeems the Power of Touch in Life and Ministry. Lore (pronounced Lor-ee) joined me on the show to discuss the wonder of the Incarnation, the playfulness and delight of Jesus, platonic vs sexual touch, healthy touch in community, and my wife's philosophy on hugging. For a healthier church, for a healthier, more embodied world, I highly commend this interview and Lore herself to you.Support me and my work at patreon.com/jonathanpuddleFind every book or resource I've talked about on my Amazon storefront, in Canada, the United States or the United Kingdom.Order Handle With Care: How Jesus Redeems the Power of Touch in Life and Ministry by Lore Ferguson WilbertRead the opinion piece in The Guardian, “I desperately miss human touch. Science may explain why.”More on Andy Crouch's rubric of authority and vulnerability.Find Lore online at sayable.netFollow Lore on Twitter and Instagram.

The Happy Hour with Jamie Ivey
Happy Hour #299: Lore Ferguson Wilbert

The Happy Hour with Jamie Ivey

Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2020 54:11


My guest for The Happy Hour # 299 is Lore Ferguson Wilbert. Lore is a writer on spiritual formation, faith, culture, and theology in life and recently released a book titled, Handle with Care: How Jesus Redeems the Power of Touch in Life and Ministry. Friends, my conversation with Lore today is so rich. She speaks beautifully and honestly about the redemption and attention that Jesus brings to the theology of touch and how that influenced her exploration into this topic and subsequently her book, Handle with Care. We also dive into her fundamentalist upbringing, how that shaped her doubts as a 20-something, and her experience with the gospel. There are so many things that have stuck with me about our conversation, but I especially love when Lore references Aimee Byrd and says that “avoidance is not purity.” The topic of physical touch is so important, especially for those in the church, and I hope you are encouraged by Lore’s words today. Be sure you check out Lore’s new book, Handle with Care: How Jesus Redeems the Power of Touch in Life and Ministry. Handle with Care is the book you need to dive into the theology of touch and know that “somewhere in the mess of our assumptions and fears about touch, there is something beautiful and good and God-given.” Connect with Jamie Facebook // Twitter // Instagram // YouTube GET ALL THE LINKS FROM THE SHOW HERE

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Handle With Care: An Interview with Lore Ferguson Wilbert

PRN: Pause, Renew, Next

Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2020 28:47


Touch is a topic not often discussed or written about, especially within the church, yet it is such an important issue for life, health, and relationships. So, it was an absolute privilege to interview author Lore Ferguson Wilbert on this podcast episode about her thoughts on faith, the body, touch, and relationships. Lore recently wrote […]

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Handle With Care: An Interview with Lore Ferguson Wilbert

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Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2020 28:47


Touch is a topic not often discussed or written about, especially within the church, yet it is such an important issue for life, health, and relationships. So, it was an absolute privilege to interview author Lore Ferguson Wilbert on this podcast episode about her thoughts on faith, the body, touch, and relationships. Lore recently wrote … Continue reading "Handle With Care: An Interview with Lore Ferguson Wilbert"

Undiscussed
Episode 25 - Touch with Lore Ferguson Wilbert

Undiscussed

Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2020 47:45


We are told many polarizing messages from our culture and world about our bodies, but what does the bible say about our bodies and touch? In this week’s episode, Caroline and Eric chat with Lore Ferguson Wilbert about the power of touch. Produced by Eric Humphrey & Caroline Escobar Sound & Editing by Laura Saad Check us out at @p2cspods on Instagram

Theology Gals
Handle with Care with Lore Ferguson Wilbert

Theology Gals

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2020 44:34


This week we talk with Lore Ferguson Wilbert about her book Handle with Care: How Jesus Redeems the Power of Touch in Life and Ministry.  Episode Resourses: Handle with Care: How Jesus Redeems the Power of Touch in Life and Ministry by Lore Ferguson Wilbert Women can join our Facebook Group Theology Gals-Ladies Theology Discussion and Encouragement Follow us: On Facebook On Twitter @TheologyGals On Instagram theologygals Email us at theologygals@gmail.com Consider supporting Theology Gals with just a few dollars a month.  

Christian Podcast Community
Handle with Care with Lore Ferguson Wilbert

Christian Podcast Community

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2020 44:34


This week we talk with Lore Ferguson Wilbert about her book Handle with Care: How Jesus Redeems the Power of Touch in Life and Ministry.  Episode Resourses: Handle with Care: How Jesus Redeems the Power of Touch in Life and Ministry by Lore Ferguson Wilbert Women can join our Facebook Group Theology Gals-Ladies Theology Discussion and Encouragement Follow us: On Facebook On Twitter @TheologyGals On Instagram theologygals Email us at theologygals@gmail.com Consider supporting Theology Gals with just a few dollars a month.  

Home Row
Patrick Schreiner On Writing

Home Row

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2020 45:50


Complete Manuscript from the show:---------Jeff: All right, everybody. Welcome back to another episode of home row. And on today's show, I finally have Patrick Shriner joining us. Patrick, how are you man?Patrick: Good. Thanks for having me. It's been awhile.Jeff: been awhile. We were supposed to record. Oh, good grief. I dunno. Maybe it's gotta be close to two years ago.Patrick: I think it's like 15 years ago when we were both toddlers.Jeff: We were, we were both in middle school. How old are you? Oh, me too. 35 when's your birthday?Patrick: August 26Jeff: Ooh, you're older. October 23rdPatrick: your blood type?Jeff: I have no clue.Patrick: Either door.Jeff: must be our generation thing. People are like, I bet my parents and your parents, they know their blood type.Patrick: That's right. That's right.Jeff: Like what do I need to know that for? They just tested at the place, whatever that place is.And they'll tell me what it is, what I need.Patrick: So we would have been 2015 years ago. There we go.Jeff: It's when we were 20 we were gonna do it. And where were you when you were 20. Were you at Louisville? Were you in Southern? Where were you?Patrick: I was in Louisville at that point. I'm trying to exactly what I was doing at that point, but I guess maybe Western Kentucky university.Jeff: Okay. All right. Nice. Where would I have been? I would have been here in Houston, still at the college of biblical studies, inner city Bible college. And it was a blast. very dispensational, which I learned while I was there. And yeah, so a lot of things have changed in my life.A lot of things have changed in yours, but the reason we were going to record, I think it was about two years ago, we were scheduled to record  and it all fell apart cause I stopped at Starbucks. 30 minutes before we were going to record, to go pick up, you know, just to, it was probably a salted caramel mocha or who knows when those are in season.  I got to get them. And so I go and I see a guy there and he's wearing a black shirt and, and big bright neon green. It just says, Jesus, Jesus, Jesus, three times. And I've seen this guy walking around my town. All the time carrying a huge backpack. I'm like, Oh, that's the Jesus shirt guy. And he's got his Bible open and I say, "Hey man,  what are you reading?"And he's telling me what he's reading and everything. And then he starts asking me, "He says, do you have a job? "And I said, yeah, I do. He goes, "Do you make money?" I said, yeah, man, I totally, I, of course, I make money.  He goes, "You're sinning." As go, excuse me. He  says it is jobbing, like, what are you, it's jobbing.He's like, yep, you're jobbing. And that's a sin. And he started confronting me about how I am not obeying Jesus because I have not sold everything I have and given it to the poor.Patrick: Wow. You like to do a podcast where I don't make any money, so you know, I could do that.Jeff: Yeah, that's true. I'm, I'm, I'm there and I couldn't believe it. And so I think this ended up being like an hour or two hour. Then his, a friend of his came in that, so these guys have decided to be homeless together. Then they're not together, but they eat, they've each decided to be homeless. They've sold other stuff, left their parents behind.One of them has a, girlfriend that he got pregnant and have a kid. He left them all because Jesus said, if you love me, you've got to hate father, mother, brother, sister, and sell all that you have and give to the poor. And so these guys have chosen to be homeless and think they're following the true Jesus way.So that was why we couldn't record.Patrick: I just remember sitting on the other end. We had like, I must've gotten the wrong time.Jeff: Well, no, that that was today. That was me today where I messaged you, said, Hey man, I'm on Skype. Oh wait, I'm an idiot. Pacific is two hours behind.Patrick: Being in the Pacific Northwest, I've always doing math with people though, and many times I do it the opposite way. I, I've canceled many meetings that I don't have to cause I'm like, yeah, I gotta do this other call. And then I'm like, Oh, it's two hours. The other way I always forget though.Jeff: I told my wife, I was like, Oh, I gotta do this podcast right now. Sorry, I can't. I'm like, Oh wait, nevermind. It's an hour. What do you need? I, I've, I get East and West coast confused. It's just crazy. but, and I don't even know what day it is. This is, this is the life in quarantine.Patrick: It could be Sunday,Jeff: Hey, it could be, yeah, it could be.I'd be in my pajamas still watching the quote live.Patrick: watching yourJeff: Yeah. Watching my livePatrick: You do, you watch your sermon.Jeff: define, watch.Patrick: Do you sit down with your family and the service? Yeah.Jeff: do. Yeah. Yeah. I, I don't look at myself. I listened to myself. it's very inception to be watching. Be watching myself and I feel I got to participate. You know, my kids are watching.Patrick: Oh, for sure.Jeff: you know, I got them. But yeah, it's brutal. I hate watching myself preach the first week of doing that. I realize, okay, there are a lot of hand motions I don't want to do anymore.Patrick: That's all right. That's why I don't read my writing, you know? We were going to get to that. IJeff: Yeah. Well, yeah. Why are we?Why? we here? Why are we on Skype? What are we here for? Yeah, man. So here we're here to talk about writing and you have written all kinds of stuff, and you, you sent out a tweet. I mean, you've got books, you, of course, you've got journal articles and blogs and all kinds of stuff that you do.And, but you put out a tweet the other day about how you have stayed, so productive or trying to stay productive during the pandemic, but before, but before we get into that, let's talk about how you became a writer. How did that happen?Patrick: Yeah, I mean, my parents, I grew up and they read to me all the  time. So we were a family that loved books. I remember my dad reading Lord of the rings, the Hobbit, Greek mythology, Chronicles of Narnia. I mean, you know, all the classics for any homeschool Christian kid. we did some public school homeschool and Christian school, but so we just really liked literature.And. So growing up reading, if you, you keep reading. And I, in college I kept doing literature, American lit, British lit, and I just really liked the side of writing that that could be, cause I'm terrible at math and you know, you just kinda gravitate that way. but I really felt like it was in college when I started taking some writing classes, I was getting encouragement that I just realize, I just really love to write, and I ended up majoring actually in journalism at Western Kentucky university. It's a, it's a great program for journalism, and so I ended up doing that just because I thought it was a little more practical. Halfway through. College, I realized I wanted to go towards ministry, but I do remember, just some like creative writing and things that I do that I really enjoyed.So I think it started very early on just being interested in reading, and reading good books and being interested in literature. I mean, I go through classics as much as I can. That's kind of fallen off just at this point in my life, but I still try to do audible books as much as I can. And so, yeah, I think the love of reading and then that just translates many times into writing.I find, at least in the current stage of my life, I mean in terms of even a calling, I know people use that term in different ways, but I sometimes feel like I'm wasting my time if I'm not writing. So it's like one of those things where nobody has to tell me, you sit down and write. It's, it's what I do when I get everything else done and actually work towards getting everything else done to write, if that makes sense. So it's, it's like that compulsion.Jeff: Did you know that you were going to lean towards academic writing?Patrick: No, not really. And you know, sometimes I want to move towards a little more popular level writing. so even, even the book on the kingdom that I did, you know, it's more for people in the pews in the church. And so I like to do a little bit of both. I, the thing that I want to say about academic writing is, you know, most people think that you, if you do academic writing, it has to be stodgy and boring and hard to read.And I just really rail against that. I think the writers that can communicate deep things in simple ways, that's, that's really the goal. so you think of a person, obviously, like C S Lewis, I mean, Ernest Hemingway. Even as you look at some scholars out there who are writing, I mean, think about the Bible.Johannine literature is the perfect example, right? So he can write in a very simple way, but it's very profound and deep. And so. I even got critiqued on my dissertation, on a few reviews, or at least one review. I remember reading one where he's like, well, this style just didn't really fit a dissertation.And I, I took it as a compliment because I used analogies and maybe that comes from preaching and, and being in the church. But, I think even when I was working with in my dissertation, just to pause on that for a minute, I remember I sent it to, Greg Alison was one of my readers. I think it was in Rob Plummer. And he was like, I didn't get the theory you were using until you use the example of Rosa parks. And he was like, that's what stuck out to me. And that's the only thing I'll remember. and you know, that just kind of spoke. I mean, he's a world class scholar, great thinker, and I was just dealing with something that was pretty complex.And. Honestly, it wouldn't click for people until I use some sort of example. So I don't even remember what your original question was, but in terms of writing, I do think I'm trying to do a little bit of both in terms of academic and for people in the church and, but I do believe at the academic level as well, you, you need to write so the people can get it and they can understand it.And I mean, really, why right a book where a good majority of the population, even who are interested in this can barely understand it. Like, that's not going to reach many people. And it kind of seems like a fool's errand, in some sense. so, so anyways, I, I think we need a push. Helen Sword has a great book on this, stylish academic writing, which I require for my students in the THM program where she just shows like you, you don't have to write in a way that.Is boring and dull. You can be creative. I mean, there's a difference between being creative and cute, and I always have to kind of tell my students and tell myself to find that balance. Like if you're being too colloquial, if you're being too funny in an academic type paper, yeah, you're going to get dinged on that.But there's a way to write, I think with analogies and with illustrations and with varying your sentence length and so forth and so on, that actually makes it enjoyable to read and people get a lot more out of it. So.Jeff: man. Absolutely. I, As I think I may have shared this on Twitter, that I, I got accepted into the PhD program at Southern for  biblical spirituality. And that was one of the things in the interview that we talked about, is that obviously I've done a lot of popular level writing and that it, you know.  How do I view the challenge of now having to come into academic writing? what do I think about that? And I said, yeah, I think it will be a challenge. when I had to do some master's leveling work, that was one of the comments I got was, this paper's great, but it's too  lay level, too popular level, too a funny, like you gotta.Got to make it more like academic writing. And I thought, okay, this is going to be, this is going to be a, a struggle, to, you know, to grow in. But, so one guy, he just told me, Hey, you gotta do what you do for the papers and stuff, dissertations. But then when it comes to. The actual writing, after seminary, then, you know, have fun. Get after. Right. You know, like Kevin Vanhoozer, Michael Bird, he's got a, his commentary. Yeah. Like bird's got his commentary on Romans. He's talking about being a bacon, a bacon chomping Gentile. Like, you know, that's just great.Patrick: I mean, it mentions like the Kardashians and his like systematic theology or something like, right. I mean, there is a, there is certainly a difference and you can't spend pages and pages telling a story, and doing things like that. So you ha, you have to know there's a genre, you're writing in certainly.But I do think genres can be pushed and genres can be molded to do what we want. Like.  sometimes we think about genres like, well, it's academic, so you have to stay in this lane, like who says we have to stay? Like, where's the genre king telling us we need to stay here. so, so I think we can make the genre what we want it to be.And, and I, I just going back to like more people will find it interesting and readable if you do make it more readable and, and where you tell some analogies. And so with that more academic stuff, I try to keep those shorter. And I try to keep, I try to keep the argument tight and so forth and so on, where if I'm writing a little bit more for, for church people or, or just a wider audience, I'll, I'll spend maybe a little more time on the stories and so forth and so on.So it is a different style, but I do think you can take many of those principles. I mean, honestly, what is writing? It's communication. And so if you're having a conversation with people that are not there, through your writing, and hopefully helping them in some ways. And if you're sitting there and you're boring them out of your mind, that's not a very good conversation.So.Jeff: Yeah. Amen. And listeners, if you don't know, Patrick mentioned Helen Sword. You can go listen to my interview with her. that's a few episodes back, maybe 20 or 30 episodes back, and we talk about her book, the writers diet, and zombie nouns and all that great stuff.And I was such a great episode. It's probably my favorite. Episode. She was just such a wise coach and just teach her on writing. It was, it was outstanding.Patrick: Yeah. She's great. All her books are so good. I just, again, require them for all my ThM  students because they're just so helpful.Jeff: yeah. Now, what are some of your, writers that have just been, maybe mentors for you, people that would, beyond kind of your riders, Mount Rushmore, your own personal, writers Rushmore.Patrick: Yeah. Well, in terms of, in terms of academic orJeff: Anything. AnythingPatrick: anything. Okay. Well, you know, in my PhD, a big influence was Jonathan Pennington. And he really pushed,  you're in the PhD program there at Southern. He's going to really push you on writing, and so he was really helpful in terms of just walking through writing and making sure it flowed very well.So he, I remember this line that he gave me, he maybe still uses it. It's a funny analogy, but. He, he used to say to me like, you should let your reader like kind of slide down this like butter slide without any rocks hitting them on the way. So you shouldn't ever be jostling your readers like, Oh, what was that like?What are you saying here? I don't quite understand. Like it should be a smooth ride always for your reader. So he was, he was always pushing me in my writing. He said, some of your ideas are good, but you're not getting them. Across well and half of the half the battle is getting them across well. And so I, I found that to be true.Like the things that were most captured by are spoken or written well. So I look at his writing, I think his writing is very good. So, I look at Jamie Smith's writing. Jamie Smith's writing is very good, just in terms of how he uses analogies from movies, from TV, from music, so forth and so on. And he just not, not only does he have great ideas, not only does he.Oh or write in a way that just captures your mind, but it captures your imagination. And so I think the combination of those two for someone like a Jamie Smith, even an N T right? Honestly and T right is popular. Partly because he knows how to write, partly because he takes concepts that are so difficult.I mean, his chapter on second temple Judaism and his and Mike bird's most recent introduction is, is the best summary of second temple Judaism I've ever read because it's readable. Like it's fun to read. And so NT Wright is popular partially because of what he says, but partially because how he says it.So, Kevin Vanhoozer, Jamie Smith and NT Wright, Jonathan Pennington. Ernest Hemingway, is, I would look up to him in terms of his style because he's so simple. And so one of the things, John Calvin, my father, brevity and clarity are just really what I strive for. And so I, I, I really work at trying to make my sentences short and kind of pop.Yeah. But I don't do that always, because if you do that always it gets a little, you know, you're kind of like just duh, duh, duh, duh, duh, duh, duh, duh. So you really want to vent, vary your sentence length. But I think what most people struggle with is, getting a sentence in there that's three or four words.And so I, I'm even writing a commentary right now and I'm just working on looking at my sentences and saying, can I shorten this at all? Can I make it pop anymore? And if I have a long sentence right before it. I really want to put a short sentence or a few short sentences right afterwards just to kind of make it pop.So, so those are some of the people I look at. I mean, obviously I love C S Lewis, JR Tolkien, severe, very, they're great writers. Alexander Dumas. he's great in terms of just storytelling. He, his books on three Musketeers, man in the iron mask. Those are some of the books, like in the past a lot. So, in terms of classics, those would be some of the people I look up to.Jeff: Yeah. I think the, the varying of of sentence length, man, that is just a writing hack that if, if people could start implementing right away, it'll, it'll, I think it does revolutionize your writing. It just gives the reader variation and speed, and let things sink in. Like I, I think there are three people who have, who do amazing job at it, and they're all related. Ray, Cortland, Gavin, Orland, and Dane, Orland, all three of them. I'm reading Dana, Portland's gentle and lowly right now, and he just does a masterful job at having these longer profound sentences. And then a very short, abrupt, the sentence right after that that kind of lets it all sit.It's kind of a nice shave and a haircut and then give any six bits right at the end. I mean, it's just, it's so good.Patrick: There must be something in their blood. You know, one person said, you can do, and maybe you've done this is you know, when you're writing just the, how long your sentences are, you can look and see. But if you double space between each one for like for a page, you can just see in terms of visually how long your sentences are going.Does that make sense? So like keep your, do one double space, go to the next sentence. And so just after you've written it, go through and say, Oh look, all of my sentences are like. 10 words, that means you're not very like, it's going to be the same length on your, on your page. That makes sense. So,Who Jeff: did that? Somebody shared that on Twitter and that they make their students do it.Patrick: I don't remember. I feel like somebody else had told me that, so I do that sometimes as well. I just, I more look at it now and just say, okay, how long is the sentence? But it's, it's something I'm always looking for.Jeff: Yeah, that's a great, that's a great trick. yeah. So man, you've written, Matthew, the about the discipled scribe. you've got, your book on kingdom through in covenants and stuff are no nuts on it. Kingdom and glory in the cross. What's the title of the book from Crossway?Patrick: for God and the glory of the cross. Yeah. And there's a big debate going around about gospel. So you know, you can just pick up that book and get all your answers.Jeff: Go pick that up. Patrick: it.And then. Is that it right now? I mean, I have my dissertation out and then I have a book on the Ascension coming out this summer.Jeff: I'm s, I'm pumped foor that.Patrick: And then a few, quite a few other projectsJeff: Yeah. Yeah. So let's, let's go through the, the, the, your tweets. So at 9:57 AM my time, I guess. April 16th, 2020Patrick: Yeah.Jeff: at PJ_Shriner says, a few people have asked me what I'm working on during hashtag quarantine life in regard to books, projects there. The sit below, here comes thePatrick: And I think that there's the, there's the edit you need in there somewhere. Tweets are terrible.Jeff: One, I'm putting the finishing touches on my Ascension book with Lexham press @Lexhampress coming out in July, which may, I can't wait for it. And you say the second tweet, in it argued Jesus' work would be incomplete without his ascent to God's right hand, not only a key moment in the gospel story. Jesus' Ascension was necessary for his present ministry in and through the church. And that's in the snapshots of theology. A little series that Lexham puts out. Actually have Larry Hurtado sitting over here, Todd, Patrick: it's great. It's a great book. That's a great book. I, I mean, part of the reason I'm excited about that series, it's just because that book was so formative and helpful like we were just talking about. I mean, he's done so much work. That's a snapshot of, I mean, years and years of his work, so that's a great book.Jeff: Yeah. Destroys or the gods is outstanding.Patrick: I love that book too.Jeff: two, you said in June, the book Baptist and the church tradition releases where I contributed a chapter on hermeneutics. Three, I'm about to turn in a manuscript for a commentary on acts with B&H pub that looks at the book from a more theological, narratival and ecclesial way.My guess is should be late 2021 for I midway through a book with at moody publishers called the visual word. And illustrate a guy to the New Testament books. I'm a very excited to see how this project show people this project based off my visual outlines I've posted on Twitter. That's gonna be very cool.Five I am working on a proposal for a book on the gospel that is tentatively called the political gospel, and that's all I will say about it at this point. And I forgot to add, I just signed another contract with  Crossway to do a New Testament biblical theology of Acts. I sketched out two chapters and we'll try to use the second half of the summer to work on it.Dude, fill up your schedule, man. You got, you know, you need to find some stuff to doPatrick: That's what my wife keeps saying. She's like, why are you doing this? You don't make any money off this.Jeff: a man. She is preachingPatrick: she knows though that like I, I just love to do it. Like this is not, this is not a chore for me. And you know, some of these are related. So my Acts commentary is birthing both the Ascension book and the ax biblical theology. So, you know, some of these things are spinoffs. So if things that I've thought through and I'm like, I can't put all this in this commentary I got, I got to do something else on this.So. So many of these things are related, but, and they're different. You know, I'm, I'm trying to, one of the things I like to do is just write in different, at different levels. So the commentary is a little more academic. It's not, it's actually not a technical commentary, but it's still more academic. the essential book is more like the kingdom of God book and glory of the cross.And then the acts book will again be more at that level. and then the visual word one is totally different. If you've seen Ryan Lister stuff, I think you've had him on here actually, right. So I'm using the same artists from humble beast and designing all of my kind of outlines in the new Testament.And then I'm going to summarize the whole new Testament book in two paragraphs and then link to the icons that he's making for each section of the book. I'll have a paragraph summary. So what we're hoping that's going to be is someone sits down, they're like, I'm going to preach through Romans. Like you can look at it, outline the front of a commentary, but honestly, my eyes just go cross eyed when I see things like, you're like, what in the world is happening here, so we're going to fit the outline of every book on one page that's a more minimalist. You can kind of look, I mean, you can't look at it probably in 30 seconds and get it, but you can look at it for maybe two minutes and kind of get the flow and read a very short summary just to kind of have a sense of where this is going and how, how it's put together, and I'll use like a, for Romans, I put righteousness of God for Matthew, fulfillment for Mark, the servant King. So kind of get the theme up there and just, this is what I think the theme is for this. This is, if you, even if you're going to do a preaching series.I'm trying to think for preachers, like what, what would be a good, almost like title for your sermon series? people can do different ones obviously, but I'm thinking, especially for pastors for that one. So that's been really fun and really difficult because it's a new skill because I have to think of what image I've got to instruct to Anthony who is working with me.Like what image do we tell them about to do second Corinthians? What image do you do for comfort? Like, that's so hard to do. It's a totally different skill. So we get on, we get on once a week and I say, this is what it's about. And then we bounce around ideas for what kind of icon or image would fit for it. And, usually he helps me more than I help him because I'm like, man, I have no idea. Let's just put a cross for all of these and go.Jeff: That's, that's, that's pretty funny. Okay, so you, you got all these, all these projects, that have, you know, some are done, some you're working on, some are, are almost completed. How do you keep these things straight? How do you organize, what does the writing week look like for you?Patrick: Yeah, well, it's, it's not even the main thing I do because I'm a teacher and I run the THM program here at Western seminary, so that, that's the first thing I do. And so I, I make sure I have my classes and my grading. My interactions with students, and I'm in pastoral ministry. I'm an elder at my church. So those things certainly come first.But, in terms of all the writing projects that I, I try to do, you know, each one's at a different stage and I find it helpful to, hopefully, I can continue this. I'm, you know, I'm new to this. I'm still figuring it out, but, So, so my Acts commentary right now, like I'm editing it right before it goes to the publisher.My Ascension book is the fine editing, like the final stage where like just about done with it. So I just saw it typeset. We're still finding very minor errors, so forth and so on. So I enjoy every stage of the writing process. And. The other books. so the visual book, I'm more in the middle of it. I'm still writing, I'm still composing. The Crossway book I just composed like two chapters. So for me, if I sit down, like let's say I have a whole day to write because I, I've gotten everything else done. If I sit down and I try to compose all day long, like just write on a blank screen, usually I'm pretty much done in about like three to five.Like I'm sapped, right? I could sit there and produce pretty quickly. And get something on paper. But after that, I pretty much need to add just because my brain is fried and it's a different, it's a different mental exercise to me. So actually with all these projects, I like having them at different stages because I just mentally can't be always editing.Like I'm so tired of editing my Acts commentary right now. I'm like, it's killing me. But I know I have to keep editing it. And, and one of the things about my writing that I've learned, and this might be helpful for people, is. You know, people talk about different types of writers. Either you're kind of slow and clean, or you're like quick and muddy in your writing.In other words, you either get stuff out really quickly and it's a mess, or you have a problem with getting things out, but when you get it out, it's gold. I'm definitely in, in the first case, I, it it out so quickly. I mean, I can. Like, I literally just signed a contract with Crossway and I got 20,000 words out.Like, no problem. But it's a mess. It's a mess. Like it's, it's not even close to being done. Cause people are like, Oh my goodness, you got out 20,000 words that quickly. And I'm like, well yeah, but it's, I've got to edit this thing like 75 times after this.Jeff: and that is not, yeah, we're totally inverse.Patrick: You're, you're the different way. And that's, that's fine. Like, that's different personalities and that's how they work. So I, I can get stuff on paper, but man, I have to work at editing and I'm not, I don't think I'm a great editor. Honestly. I need help. that's where publishers helped me a lot. But I, I literally read through my manuscripts so many times.Probably. there's no, there's not too many times that you can read through it, right. But, I read, I feel like I've read through my Acts commentary 30 times now, just editing, editing, editing, editing. And then what I try to do is I send it to people who are nice enough where they will read my stuff and you get different eyes on it and they see different things.So. right now it's, it's gone out to a few scholars and a few friends just to say, Hey, help me out with writing and help me out with content. Help me out with whatever you want to help me out with. If you, if you have any time, give me feedback. SoJeff: Man, I'm with you, I remember, you know, writing Humble Calvinism and then having to edit the chapters over and over and over, and then eventually you just think, I don't want to look at this again.Patrick: yeah, you get tired of it.Jeff: I don't even like it anymore. I don't want to see it. Just editor-you take it if you're good with it, I'm good with it.Like I don't even want to look at it anymore.Patrick: It's usually when it comes out and you're like, I'm so tired of thisJeff: Oh yeah. But then when I got the first box of like author copies, it's like, Oh, cool. Open it up. I'm like, man, that's a great cover. They did a great job. I flipped open. I start looking at it. I'm like, that was dumb. Why did I put that in there? This book stinks.No one's going to read this dumb thing.Patrick: that's right.Jeff: this is a nightmare. Okay, soPatrick: I haven't read that yet, but I've heard great things. I don't think you're right about that.Jeff: a lot of people are liars. you know, that's what we, that's what we know about social media. The book stinks this is, this is me trying to be a humble, humble Calvinist.  So when you're going to sit down to, to write. Let's, let's now talk about, I this, I did this with Lore Ferguson Wilbert and I, I, I don't remember to do it. Whenever I sit down to do these interviews, I just sit down. I don't have any notes. I have nothing. And it's just a, just a conversation about writing. So I want to try to remember to do this with, with, with people on the show. this is like the MTV writers crib edition, remember that show cribs?Patrick: Yeah.Jeff: And so.Patrick: The scholars who do cribs would be, it would be quite disappointing to take, take them through the houseJeff: So we're just going to do your writing area and your desk and your like habits. All right, so, so what's the place where you typically write? tell me, tell me two things on your desk that are there.Patrick: Yeah. You know where I write the best is at coffee shops. So I go to Heart coffee on woods in Portland. It's great coffee, and I don't really drink coffee, so I get some tea. but yeah, that's another story. But they have, the walls are basically all windows, and I put in headphones. And I sit down just with my computer or with research and I began writing. So, I like, number one, I like to change the scenery because it gives me a new energy. And so every once in a while it change  coffee shops just because I feel like I'm in a rut and honestly, like a new seat and looking at new things will give, give me something, I don't know what it is.Okay. Jeff: So if you're not at heart, where do you go? Do you go to Cova?Patrick: Yeah. Well, there's a few coffee shops like in Sellwood, which is near us that I'm like, ah, I don't even, Oh, a fair lane coffee. So there's some like local coffee shops. Cova is further away from me, so I don't always go to that one. But there's some local coffee shops that I go, I kind of go around.Sometimes I go to our. A local public library to write. sometimes I'll go to a restaurant and eat lunch there and just hang out there and write. Sometimes I'll do it in my office, but my office doesn't have great windows. But if I need resources and I need my books, then I'll do it in my office.Recently, I've had to do it at home. That's worked terribly, with COVID stuff. So we just have young kids and everything's going on, and I never know what, what's my role here? Do I keep writing or do I let my son fall off the trampoline? You know, So, yeah, I think the place that I write the best is at a coffee shop with, this is the other weird thing about me.I have like Epic  movie scores that I listened to while I writeJeff: Not weird.  Not Patrick: no, that's not weird. Okay. So I have a Spotify playlist, like best studying scores, and I've actually posted on, Twitter a few times, but I have, let me pull it up right now. How many songs? I have 200, 206 songs.Jeff: That's it.Patrick: That's it. Sorry,Jeff: How many hours? What's the hours of your writing playlist?Patrick: 13 hours and 50 minutes.Jeff: man, I have 466 songs.Patrick: you killed me.Jeff: 27 hours and 36 minutes.Patrick: you got to share that with meJeff: Yeah, I'll share it with you. It's got explosion in the sky. It's not just soundtracks though, but there are a lot of soundtracks, so it's got the lone survivor sound track. social network.Patrick: yeah, yeah.Jeff: a lot of the, all of stranger things is in here. Anything Trent Reznor and Atticus Ross have done is in here.Patrick: So I don't do the whole albums. Here's the difference. I just picked three songs that I love the best from certain ones. So you do, do you do a whole albumJeff: I see the whole album andPatrick: You cheated to win. That's appraised.Jeff: Well, and, and like, yeah, you do, you, yours is more refined, but like, I have all the beautiful eulogy instrumentals in here.Patrick: Oh, cool. Yup, yup.Jeff: it's gotta be instrument, all the kinks, kaleidoscope, I mean, all that stuff. And then I just pop it on shuffle and just let it go.Patrick: You know, and sometimes I can do just like indie music with lyrics, local natives. I mean, just whoever I'm listening to you, Bon Iver, honestly, I can write with, with even words coming through the speakers and it's fine. Especially if I know the music, if I don't know the music as well. Then it's a little harder for me, but, if I forget my headphones, I find it very difficult. I don't know. It's just something about my pattern.Jeff: And like if I'm, if I'm at my, my home study, which is where I typically do most of my writing as I've got my, my vinyls over here, and sometimes I'll pop those on. That way I can get up, you know, you got to flip it. So I have, I'll have to get up that way. You're moving around and not sit in the chair for hours on end.And, but I found out that one, the one artists I cannot write to is Stevie Ray Vaughan. He is too good. And I sit back at my chair, I'm making all the faces, like I'm playing with them and I start air guitar and I'm like, I can't listen to this and work.Patrick: I thought you were going to say DrakeJeff: No, I got enemies. you know, I, I can't, I don't, I probably didn't know how the rights to even say that.Patrick: God'sJeff: on here, God's plan,Patrick: you should look at in some of my works, I try to sneak in footnotes like little, Easter eggs, you know, for people.Jeff: I wanted to do that with a Seinfeld references.Patrick: Did they cut them? Don't let people cut them.Jeff: they cut it. They, I said something like a puffy white shirt. but it was a part of this argument I was trying to make maybe for definite atonement or something. I don't remember. And we just had too many words and so it had to be cut. So this whole like line of logic, I was trying to make like editors like this, this part has to go, I was like, Oh no puffy white shirt.Like,Patrick: Yup. Don't do it.Jeff: but it's gone. So that dream, that guy, the dream, and I didn't do it for my first book. I was like, well,Patrick: In the Acts commentary argue that God's plan is one of the main theological themes. So I had to footnote Drake.Jeff: ah, so is that gonna make it?Patrick: I have no idea. They haven't seen it yet, but I mean, I've got, I've got Kanye, I've got Drake in there. I've got, I've got a bunch of people thatJeff: Kanye is good. Yeah. Kanye's a brother.Patrick: I just slip them in there, so we'll see what the editors say, but I'll, I'll, I'm going to fight for him. I'm going to fight for him.Jeff: It was, it was so difficult in my sermon that I preached last Thursday, that aired on Sunday, and I just started at First John. And when I said, he is the light. It was so difficult for me to not to say cut out all the lights. He the light.Patrick: That's right.Jeff: Got pulled over, see the brights. Okay. now. So what we already talked about music, we talked about you don't have a writing desk.so in either your study or your office at home or flip flop, whatever that may be, what are some objects in there that they just mean a lot to you? Either just, you know, cause they communicate a lot, you know, of truth and reminds you of things or this, you know, they're part of your personality.Patrick: Yeah. I wish I had better answers to this. I, I've looked at like paintings that I want to get a, I don't have any of that stuff right now, so when I'm at the coffee shop, what means a lot to me is I'm in the city, let's just put it this way, and I'm watching people walk by. And I like being in the city because it just reminds me of where I'm placed and what's going on, and that very few care about what I'm doing.So, but that, like, I'm writing to people who are ministering to these people, right. And I'm getting to them. So in terms of what's important to me, I usually have my chai with me. I have my MacBook pro, I have my music. And if you're at a coffee shop, you don't have any of your other stuff. So I actually don't have a lot of stuff like that in my office. I have my books around me. I have my standing up and down desks that I can stand up with sometimes. But, I've wanted to get some paintings. I just haven't decided what to, and they are. Yeah. I mean, I'm a, I'm a poor.Jeff: I'll have to get a print framed. I'm like, good grief. And so,Patrick: to steal them, you know? So,Jeff: Yeah. National. It'd be like a, not national treasure. I don't know what it would be. Global treasure. Patrick: I you little, you might have like magical devices, like, you know, Paul and Peter, like you could touch their garments and you could be a better writer. I don't have any of that stuff. I just honestly have my computer and what I'm drinking and the headphones, the headphones are the key piece for me.Jeff: Yeah. So we need  some, relics.Patrick: A rally.Jeff: need some writing relics. Amid Midwestern has them. They've got Spurgeon's hair follicles. they'rePatrick: it. I,Jeff: in a tank. Patrick: cigar that he smoked before he died.Jeff: his cherry wine  bottle opener too. Patrick: I did, like when I touched those things, I became a better preacher. So,Jeff: I, I developed a, a British accent for the day when I, when I did it. So like, and my study, I've got the a, do you remember? You've, I know you've seen it. It's a drawing of Eve and Mary.Patrick: Oh yeah, the controversial one now because of joe carter.Jeff: Yeah. Where, you know, and,Patrick: no, I'm, I'm for, I'm for you though. It's okay. it's a great image. I've, you know, at the beginning, I, you know, I'm totally interrupting you, but I've thought about getting that one, and then I thought, dang, it got controversial now. I don't know if I want to do it.Jeff: I don't remember the controversy about it. Patrick: Whether it's to Roman Catholic,Jeff: Too Roman Catholic. Okay. Patrick: I mean, what's the controversy like is marry ourselves nation? And I'm like, no, it's . It's like,Jeff: baby in the womb. Jesus in her womb,Patrick: Yeah, exactly.Jeff: clear. But Mary is the one stopping the on  the snake. So I have that here, but I like a bigger version of it. So now, cause it was just like a little cardPatrick: It's tiny. Yeah.Jeff: And so I found that, monastery, I think it's the, the word, the right word where they make them and they make them in a little bit bigger frame. So I have like an eight and a half by 11. Matted but not framed. It's leaning on a lamp cause I can't afford a frame.Patrick: Yeah. I'm glad you're worshiping Mary. You know, that's, you can cut all of this, but.Jeff: Well then it's right next to a Luther bobblehead. Yeah.Patrick: There you go. There you go. You're just, that seems like it'd be very confusing to you. Like who am I right now?Jeff: And then there's a James harden bobblehead adjacent to that.Patrick: do you want to talk about the, what is it, 2014 Damian Lillard shot at all?Jeff: man, I know there are some things I hope don't come up on podcasts, and that's definitely one of them.Patrick: yeah, well, don't worry. We were, what are we? We're ninth in the Western.Jeff: horriblePatrick: Very horrible thisJeff: Y'all are probably happy this season's probably going to get canceled.Patrick: Oh, I mean, it gives time for everybody to get Nurkuic to get back up and we're, we're good. Yeah.Jeff: I, I, I really do fear Steph Curry and all those guys too. But man, there's something about Damian Lillard that against the rockets, man, he's just stone cold. And I remember that night so vividly, a friend was, I think maybe two friends were over. We were dancing in the living room, all that jumping around.And then when Lillard hit that shot, I mean, I literally fell to my knees.Patrick: Yeah, I shouldn't have problem because you know the saints, when they beat the Vikings in 2008 or something like that, when we had Brett Farve, do you remember that game? And then the saints went on to win the Superbowl. That was like. They like stuck a dagger in my heart. That was the worst ever. They tried to injure Farve in that game.They twist his ankle. Then he threw an interception at the end. But Damian Lillard, I mean, I'm watching the, you know, the last dance, I'm sure everybody, it's 6 million people are watching. Everyone's watching it. but Damian Lillard, he's not Jordan, obviously, but he's got that killer instinctJeff: right, right.Patrick: there's something about it, which, you know, we won't talk.I just don't think LeBron has that killer.Jeff: I don't. I don't think so either. And I, yeah, I don't think harden has it clearly. I feel like Westbrook has it more than harden does. cause he just so intense. And so I, I was very anti us getting Westbrook at the beginning, but now I'm, I'm thrilled that we have them and glad that we do. He's so much fun.And I still think Harden's great too. At the Westbrook bobblehead has been upgraded. It's on my desk. I'm next to a Calvin bobblehead. I have a lot of bobbleheadsPatrick: We've got two of the probably best bat backcourts, right? I mean, McCollum, Lillard, Westbrook and Harden. That's, is there any backcourt that's better? I can't think of.Jeff: Active. No.Patrick: Yeah, yeah,Jeff: Unless you know Steph and Klay, but I  would pick Harden Patrick: yeah, Jeff: KlayPatrick: that's true.Jeff: clay and depending on what needs to happen, I, you know, if I need the last shot at the game, I'm picking stuff. If I need somebody to care my franchise by themselves, I'm picking Harden.Patrick: Yeah. Yeah. I would, Oh, we're talking too much basketball now, but I went a playoff game where stuff was coming back 2016 I think it was. He was coming back from an injury. And, yeah, we were beating them. I mean, it was a great game. The fans were going crazy. Playoff game, first round playing the warriors.We were beating them the whole game. And Steph was, you know, he was kind of getting back from his injury. You could tell he was a little rusty. And then he turned it on the fourth quarter and over time it demolished, demolished us. And he was just draining threes. And I respected him, but I hated him at the same time.Jeff:  man, I was at the game where Chris Paul pulled his hamstring.Patrick: Oh, yeah.My Jeff: wife and I were in the stadium. I saw him hop up and grab the back of his leg and I just knew it's over.Patrick: Yikes. Yeah.Jeff: that would've been it. We would've, we would've won and the championship, we would have steamrolled those Cavs. Ah, man. And I got a lot, a lot of rockets, Miller memorabilia around here too. And so I think, is there anything left to say about writing?Patrick: I'm sure there's a lot, butJeff: You gave so much great advice. Patrick: I may, main thing I'd say is edit, edit. You got to edit your work a ton. A ton. And that's especially for me because I write so quickly, but. you know, I have a document and another interesting thing about writing, I'll just add this. I have, a document in Evernote. I use Evernote to save some stuff and I just have a document called writing cuts.And I literally, at the end of my writing, I go through and I search my, there is, there are, it is, it was my adverbs, my, that's my is I N G statements that was, that are very, anything that does doesn't need to be there. And I searched him. I don't take everything out, but I just look at all those and say, does that need to be there?Like are usually a, there is, there are sentences are not strong sentences or it is, it was, it can be helpful in terms of if you're trying to make a point and being poetic or repetitive at times. But for the most part, I, I think it's a good thing to have those like things that you usually don't want in your writing and just control F.And search those things, get rid of them. So that's one of the final steps I do. I just look for those things and try to strengthen my sentences.Jeff: man, that's a great, great tip. I'll, I'll steal that and be frustrated at myself in the, in the process. Self-editing and self-loathing are very close friends.Patrick: That's right.Jeff: Well, Patrick, thanks so much for coming on the show, man. listeners, be sure to go to Amazon and search for all of Patrick's books. You can find Matthew, his, his book of Matthew, the disciple and scribe, there and also find his book on the kingdom and the cross from Crossway and all of his new books coming out.And especially his Ascension book, which you will definitely want to grab. And then you'll also want to go. after you leave a five star review for this podcast, you're gonna to go to your podcast app and go over and find food trucks in Babylon with him and Todd miles is a great show, a lot of fun, a great theology, great guests, and fun conversations about food. Of course, it's in Portland and all that. Do you have a handlebar mustache yet? Or just just the beard.Patrick: You know, I had one for a little while and then I just got rid of it on the quarantine time. My wife said, it's time to go so. I always grown it out. It was getting pretty big. I mean, to the point where, man, I was curling that thing. It was, it was going pretty high. I had an automatic like joker smile on my face all the time.It was great.Jeff: I have an automatic envy for everyone with facial hair, with a beard. Just my wife is a anti beard.Patrick: Dr. Mohler at ETS was like, Hey, I see your hair's going every which way now, and then he walked away from me. That was him making fun of me for my handle stash. So. I just trying to think of something clever but to say back to him, but I couldn't think it up.Jeff: So be sure to be sure to go listen to their their podcast about theology and a little bit about food, food trucks in Babylon. He goes, subscribe to that and go follow him on Twitter and Patrick, what's your blog? So you can tell people to go over there.Patrick: I don't do anything on my blog.Jeff: All right. Don't go there.Patrick: Yeah, don'tJeff: Go to mine, go to mine. I blogged there three times a year, jamedders.comPatrick: There you go. Jeff: And of course you can find all of my books on Amazon as well, and follow me on Twitter at Mr Medders and I love to hear from you. Be sure to leave a rating for the show in iTunes and all that. Tell your grandmother and as always, just to keep writing. 

Culture Matters
The Power of Touch With Lore Ferguson Wilbert

Culture Matters

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2020 51:09


We talk with writer, author and friend Lore Ferguson Wilbert about her new book Handle with Care: How Jesus Redeems the Power of Touch in Life and Ministry. We also discuss the implications of physical touch amid COVID-19. 

The Stories Between Us
Lore Ferguson Wilbert - On Letting the Work Do Its Work in Us

The Stories Between Us

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2020 28:34


Maile and I have the distinct privilege of speaking with Lore Ferguson Wilbert, writer and author of the new book on touch, Handle With Care. We explore why Lore, for many years, was hesitant to write a book, why she changed her mind, and what work the work can do in us. Lore also, interestingly enough, shares her thoughts on touch during a time when we are being asked to stay far apart from each other. It's a particularly poignant conversation, given our current circumstances. 

Home Row
Lore Ferguson Wilbert on Writing and Handle With Care

Home Row

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2020 42:10


Lore Ferguson Wilbert and I talk about writing, her new book—Handle With Care—and we talk about our writing desks, and old blog names.

Finding Holy
#42 Lent with Lore -- Cultivating Hope Now

Finding Holy

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2020 28:10


Join us for a special series in the month of March on Lenten practices with Lore Ferguson Wilbert. This week, we’re all in need of hope. Join us. Lore is a writer, thinker, learner, and author of Handle with Care. She writes for She Reads Truth, Christianity Today, Lifeway, and more, as well as her own site, Sayable.net. You can find her on social media @lorewilbert. She has a husband named Nate, a puppy named Harper Nelle, and too many books to read in one lifetime. Listen at Megaphone.fm here, on Apple Podcasts here or on Google Podcasts, here. Win a copy of Lore’s book! Contact me on social media at @aahales! LINKS Lore’s website: Sayable.net Lore’s book: Handle with Care https://amzn.to/32PrMFz Ashley book on sale for $3.99 on Kindle this week! https://amzn.to/2UqTKUq FREE PANDEMIC INFOGRAPHIC for rooted practices in the midst of a pandemic SHARE We live in this already-not yet life. We have hope as we meet with Christians on Sundays. They’re all echoes of one another. @lorewilbert @aaahales #findingholypodcast We forget who we are. The Sabbath gives us a taste of God’s goodness. @lorewilbert @aahales #findingholypodcast Hope — like grief and sadness — can’t be borne alone. @aahales @lorewilbert It’s easier to be known for anger and self-righteousness than hope and peace. @lorewilbert @aahales #findingholypodcast Do the small things and that God is not wasted in small things. @lorewilbert @aahales #findingholypodcast YOUR ONE SMALL STEP Choose something small that is your stake in the ground that you are choosing hope. Think about drinking your 8 glasses water, taking a walk, or memorizing a portion of scripture. Take one small step. Check it off. Watch for God’s faithfulness. SUBSCRIBE AND SHARE! We’re a new podcast and we’d love for more people to connect the dots between the things that really matter and their everyday lives. Subscribe, rate and review us on Apple Podcasts and share with a friend. We’ll be giving away a copy of Lore’s book, so if you’re a new subscriber, contact me @aahales on social media to let me know!

Finding Holy
#41 What are your Anchoring Points in a Pandemic?

Finding Holy

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2020 16:29


This week, Lore Ferguson Wilbert and I take a break and talk about finding anchoring points during COVID_19. Lore is a writer, thinker, learner, and author of Handle with Care. She writes for She Reads Truth, Christianity Today, Lifeway, and more, as well as her own site, Sayable.net. You can find her on social media @lorewilbert. She has a husband named Nate, a puppy named Harper Nelle, and too many books to read in one lifetime. LINKS Lore’s website: Sayable.net Lore’s book: Handle with Care https://amzn.to/32PrMFz Ashley book on sale for $3.99 on Kindle this week! https://amzn.to/2UqTKUq SHARE The Lord will keep you. The boundary lines show us our limitations. @lorewilbert @aaahales #findingholypodcast We share some anchoring points during this global pandemic on #findingholypodcast with @aahales and @lorewilbert How scripture, prayer, lists and apps are helping us during #covid_19. #findingholypodcast with @aahales + @lorewilbert Consider ways you can be creative loving others during the pandemic. A roll of toilet paper, a note, an offer to pray. @aahales @lorewilbert YOUR ONE SMALL STEP Practice a breath prayer: Breathe in. “The Lord keeps me.” Breathe out. “in his perfect peace.” Choose one of the anchoring points we mention — drinking water, praying throughout your day, keeping a list — and let us know how it goes. SUBSCRIBE AND SHARE! We’re a new podcast and we’d love for more people to connect the dots between the things that really matter and their everyday lives. Subscribe, rate and review us on Apple Podcasts and share with a friend. We’ll be giving away a copy of Lore’s book, so if you’re a new subscriber, contact me @aahales on social media to let me know!

Finding Holy
#40 Lent with Lore Ferguson Wilbert -- On Fasting + Feasting

Finding Holy

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2020 29:33


Join us for a special series in the month of March on Lenten practices with Lore Ferguson Wilbert — this week’s is on rhythms of fasting and feasting. Lore is a writer, thinker, learner, and author of Handle With Care. She writes for She Reads Truth, Christianity Today, Lifeway, and more, as well as her own site, Sayable.net. You can find her on social media @lorewilbert. She has a husband named Nate, a puppy named Harper Nelle, and too many books to read in one lifetime. LINKS Lore’s website: Sayable.net Lore’s book: Handle with Care https://amzn.to/32PrMFz Ashley book on sale for $3.99 on Kindle this week! https://amzn.to/3aIBLPu Mentioned: Tish Harrison Warren, “Why I Fell in Love with the Season of Advent, NYT Babette’s Feast Ashley’s article on Lent mentioned from inTouch Magazine, “Across the Threshold” SHARE God had the full feast for his kids and one thing he asked them to deny themselves. @lorewilbert @aahales #findingholypodcast We are fasting from the wrong things and with the wrong eye. @lorewilbert @aahales #findingholypodcast Seasons of anxiety and what you go to for ultimate comfort on #findingholypodcast with @lorewilbert and @aahales An encouragement to watch our language of “bad” and “good” during Lent. Listen in with @lorewilbert and @aahales on #findingholypodcast We aren’t made clean based on what we do or do not eat. @lorewilbert @aahales #findingholypodcast YOUR ONE SMALL STEP Pick one thing to fast from this week and one thing to feast towards this week. Maybe it’s checking your email, or eating certain foods, or reading everything you can online that you know will just provoke your anxiety. And choose the best possible thing to feast! SUBSCRIBE AND SHARE! We’re a new podcast and we’d love for more people to connect the dots between the things that really matter and their everyday lives. Subscribe, rate and review us on Apple Podcasts and share with a friend. We’ll be giving away a copy of Lore’s book, so if you’re a new subscriber, contact me @aahales on social media to let me know!

Worthy: Celebrating the Value of Women
Episode 6: Interview with Lore Ferguson-Wilbert

Worthy: Celebrating the Value of Women

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2020 41:49


In this episode Lore Ferguson-Wilbert joins Eric and Elyse. She talks about the value of women and her book Handle With Care: How Jesus Redeems the Power of Touch in Life and Ministry. The conversation covers the importance of touch, male-female relationships, and writing.

Finding Holy
#39 Lent with Lore Ferguson Wilbert -- Week 1 On Bodies

Finding Holy

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2020 28:36


The Church has historically practiced Lent as a period of preparation for Easter. What does it have to do with our bodies? Why does this matter to our spiritual lives? Join me and Lore Ferguson Wilbert for a special four-week series on Lent. Lore Ferguson Wilbert is a writer, thinker, learner, and author of Handle With Care. She writes for She Reads Truth, Christianity Today, Lifeway, and more, as well as her own site, Sayable.net. You can find her on social media @lorewilbert. She has a husband named Nate, a puppy named Harper Nelle, and too many books to read in one lifetime. LISTEN on APPLE PODCASTS OR ONLINE AT MEGAPHONE, or wherever you listen to podcasts subscribe to the FINDING HOLY podcast. LINKS Lore’s website: Sayable.net Lore’s book: Handle with Care https://amzn.to/32PrMFz Ashley’s article mentioned from inTouch Magazine, “Across the Threshold” SHARE How do our bodies matter to the life of faith and to Lent particularly? Join @lorewilbert and @aahales on the #findingholypodcast Jesus sees women in their wholeness and we don’t experience that today often as women because we’re trying to fit into a man’s world. @lorewilbert on #findingholypodcast Denying is important and caring is important. On bodies this #Lent with @lorewilbert on #findingholypodcast The reward for giving up a chocolate bar might not be a chocolate bar. The reward is God himself. @lorewilbert on #lent and #bodies for #findingholypodcast ONE SMALL STEP Practice caring for your body this week. Maybe you notice how you feel after a walk, or you enjoy a bath, or have tasty food and a glass of water. If we’re choosing to deny our bodies, we can also choose to care for them properly and honoring God through them. For me, I’m taking daily walks and actually stretching after them! What about you? Let me know how it goes — tag me on social media at @aahales or #findingholypodcast. I’d love to hear! SUBSCRIBE AND SHARE! We’re a new podcast and we’d love for more people to connect the dots between the things that really matter and their everyday lives. Subscribe, rate and review us on Apple Podcasts and share with a friend.

Finding Holy
#38 Risen Motherhood on the Scaffolding for Faithfulness

Finding Holy

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2020 40:32


What does it look like to build a sustainable life as a mother? I talk with Emily Jensen and Laura Wifler for more. Emily Jensen and Laura Wifler are in the trenches of motherhood, right alongside their readers. With a combination of accessibility, relatability, and solid Biblical knowledge, Emily and Laura have a knack for simplifying complex Biblical truths, revealing how they relate and apply to everyday life. As the co-founders of the Risen Motherhood ministry, and co-hosts of the chart-topping podcast, God has consistently and powerfully used the voices of these two moms as a vehicle to captivate women around the world with the gospel. As sister-in-laws, Emily and Laura both live in central Iowa with their families. LISTEN on APPLE PODCASTS OR ONLINE AT MEGAPHONE, or wherever you listen to podcasts subscribe to the FINDING HOLY podcast. LINKS Risen Motherhood website and podcast Emily and Laura’s book: Risen Motherhood: https://amzn.to/2I0ClvI Resources mentioned: David Powlison’s book, How Does Sanctification Work? Valley of Vision Prayer Book: https://amzn.to/2vmR5T5 Stepping Heavenward by Elizabeth Prentiss: https://amzn.to/32wT7fj Valmarie Journal: http://www.valmariepaper.com/about/journal/ Give Me Jesus Journal by Well-Watered Women: https://shop.wellwateredwomen.com/products/give-me-jesus-journal-2 SHARE WIN A COPY of RISEN MOTHERHOOD! Subscribe to the Finding Holy Podcast. Contact @aahales on social media and you could win! #findingholypodcast How can we know if we’re a good mom? @Risenmotherhood’s @laurawifler and @emily__jensen on #motherhood and the #gospel on @aahales’ #findingholypodcast How do we remain faithful to God in our ministry (in and outside the home)? What’s the scaffolding of a life? @risenmotherhood Wouldn’t it be horrible if you became famous for gospel-centered motherhood and your own family didn’t see that in you? Real life with @risenmotherhood @emily__jensen and @laurawifler “I don’t know what’s big and what’s small and my job is just to be faithful.” @emily__jensen @laurawifler @risenmotherhood How do we live a quiet life? is still a question we ask. @risenmotherhood on #findingholypodcast Good questions for your closest relationships in your busy seasons @risenmotherhood @emily__jensen @laurawifler What a gift it is to create a safe space for our children to work through hard things — to learn how to fail and how to trust God. @risenmotherhood ONE SMALL STEP Set a timer to read your bible every day for Lent. 2 minutes, 5 minutes, 10 minutes or 30… whatever it is try out a new habit. Also, consider using your imagination as you read. Maybe you imagine yourself into one of the stories of healing in one of the Gospels. Where do you need healing? How is God meeting you? Let me know how it goes — tag me on social media at @aahales or #findingholypodcast. I’d love to hear! SUBSCRIBE AND SHARE! We’re a new podcast and we’d love for more people to connect the dots between the things that really matter and their everyday lives. Subscribe, rate and review us on Apple Podcasts and share with a friend. Stay tuned for a special series for Lent with Lore Ferguson Wilbert during the month of March! If you’re a new subscriber and want to win a copy of Risen Motherhood, subscribe and email me at findingholypodcast@gmail.com!

From the Front Porch
259 || Literary Therapy, Vol. 1

From the Front Porch

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2020 27:47


Today, Annie is diving into listeners’ bookish dilemmas with some literary therapy. Topics include romance novels, tackling nonfiction, genre shame, and, of course, Little Women. Pretend Annie is coming to you live from Seattle, because she is Annie Jones, and she is listening. Want to leave a voicemail for the next round of Literary Therapy? Email podcast@bookshelfthomasville.com, or leave a voicemail here. Bossy Pants by Tina Fey Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? by Mindy Kaling I'll Be Gone in the Dark by Michelle McNamara The Stranger Beside Me by Ann Rule You Never Forget Your First by Alexis Coe Dead Wake by Erik Larson The Devil in the White City by Erik Larson Inheritance by Dani Shapiro Wild Game by Adrienne Brodeur The Glass Castle by Jeannette Walls Know My Name by Chanel Miller I Miss You When I Blink by Mary Laura Philpott Just Mercy by Bryan Stevenson Americana by Bhu Srinivasan An American Marriage by Tayari Jones Picking Cotton by Jennifer Thompson-Cannino 27 Dresses by Jesse Russell Olive Again by Elizabeth Strout The Essex Serpent by Sarah Perry 10 Blind Dates by Ashley Elston What to Say Next by Julie Buxbaum Evvie Drake Starts Over by Linda Holmes Little Women by Louisa May Alcott Meg, Jo, Beth, Amy by Ann Boyd Rioux March Sisters by Kate Bolick, Jenny Zhang, Carmen Maria Machado & Jane Smiley Meg and Jo by Virginia Kantra From the Front Porch is a weekly podcast production of The Bookshelf, an independent bookstore in South Georgia. You can follow The Bookshelf’s daily happenings on Instagram at @bookshelftville, and all the books from today’s episode can be purchased online through our store website, www.bookshelfthomasville.com. Special thanks to Dylan and his team at Studio D production for sound and editing and for our theme music, which sets the perfect warm and friendly tone for our Thursday conversations. This week, Annie is reading Handle with Care by Lore Ferguson Wilbert. If you liked what you heard on today’s episode, tell us by leaving a review on iTunes. Or, if you’re so inclined, support us on Patreon, where you can hear our staff’s weekly New Release Tuesday conversations, read full book reviews in our monthly Shelf Life newsletter, follow along as Hunter and I conquer a classic, and receive free shipping on all your online orders. Just go to patreon.com/fromthefrontporch. We’re so grateful for you, and we look forward to meeting back here next week.

This Too Shall Last with K.J. Ramsey
Lore Ferguson Wilbert—The Healing Courage of Friendship

This Too Shall Last with K.J. Ramsey

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2020 61:33


Lore Ferguson Wilbert is a writer and the author of Handle with Care: How Jesus Redeems the Power of Touch in Life and Ministry. Lore and KJ share about the gritty details of their unconventional friendship formed through shared storylines of suffering and the way they’re both learning how to trust through the deep listening of friendship. Friendship requires courage, to allow God to reform our trust and sense of safety through risking love with real people who can hurt us…and who can help us experience healing in ways we cannot find outside each other.

Mornings with Carmen
Coronavirus update and practices to improve your heart health | Handling touch in a broken world

Mornings with Carmen

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2020 39:53


David Stevens of the Christian Medical and Dental Association updates us on the global coronavirus fight, as well as talks about ways to improve your cardiovascular health.  Lore Ferguson Wilbert, author of Handle with Care, talks about how Jesus redeems the power of touch in life.

Mornings with Carmen
Coronavirus update and practices to improve your heart health | Handling touch in a broken world

Mornings with Carmen

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2020


David Stevens of the Christian Medical and Dental Association updates us on the global coronavirus fight, as well as talks about ways to improve your cardiovascular health.  Lore Ferguson Wilbert, author of Handle with Care, talks about how Jesus redeems the power of touch in life.

The Habit
S2 E5: Lore Ferguson Wilbert

The Habit

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2020 30:16


Lore Ferguson Wilbert is the author of Handle With Care: How Jesus Redeems the Power of Touch in Life and Ministry. She has been blogging since 2000 at Sayable.net. In this episode, Jonathan and Lore talk about the idea of touch as the mother of all senses, the exceeding vulnerability of Jesus, and the surprisingly symbiotic relationship between tenderness and resilience. Support the show: https://therabbitroom.givingfuel.com/member See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Too Busy to Flush
Neglect, Trains & Physical Parenting

Too Busy to Flush

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2020 56:00


Things mentioned: Animated Series: The TorchlightersTravel: AmtrakComedians: Jim Gaffigan and John MulaneyBook: Handle with Care by Lore Ferguson WilbertWebsite: RabbitRoom.comFilm: The Dating ProjectMusic: Seeds Family WorshipRizersSuperChic[k]Slugs 'n Bugs - Randall GoodgameSing: Creation Songs - Ellie HolcombRain for Roots  

Front Porch with the Fitzes
Episode 281: Updates, Lore Ferguson Wilbert and Touch

Front Porch with the Fitzes

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2020 54:52


In this week's episode we update you on what is going on in our lives and why we have been absent for so many weeks. Lore Ferguson Wilbert joins us to talk about her new book Handle With Care: How Jesus Redeems the Power of Touch in Life and Ministry

Finding Holy
#15 Lore Ferguson Wilbert on The Goodness of Bodies

Finding Holy

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2019 33:36


If you’re someone who struggles to know how our bodies fit into our faith, this conversation is for you.  There’s so much around the idea of touch in the church and in our culture that feels like a landmine. While we can be tempted to believe we’re brains on sticks or disembodied souls, Jesus came as a man to show us the power and ministry of touch.  You’ll want to listen in this week to hear Lore’s wisdom about embodied faith, touch, and her new book releasing in 2020, Handle with Care.  Lore Ferguson Wilbert has lived all over the United States and is unsettled enough to call nowhere home, but she lives in Flower Mound, Texas for now. She is a wife to her husband and a member of The Village Church where they both serve. She writes and edits full time for many publications like The Gospel Coalition, CT, Revive Our Hearts, Fathom Magazine, and The Ethics and Religious Liberties Commission on spiritual formation, faith, culture, and theology in life. You can read more of her work at sayable.net.  LINKS Lore’s blog: www.sayable.net Lore’s book, Handle with Care: https://amzn.to/305tS1c ONE SMALL STEP Begin your day by praying over your body. Thank God for each part. Pray for healing for each part. Thank God for your body – for your brain, your heart, your belly, your hips, your toes. Ask the Holy Spirit to comfort you and show you the goodness of the gospel through your body and where you move today.  Thanks again for being a part of this conversation! As always, we love to hear from you. Email your comments to findingholypodcast@gmail.com and don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review:  “Big things matter, but so does the laundry.” May your laundry folding, dinner-preparing, walking-self experience God more fully because of your body this week. 

Good Enough
Dating with Andrea Burke and Lore Ferguson Wilbert

Good Enough

Play Episode Play 60 sec Highlight Listen Later Jun 25, 2019 87:37


In this episode, Andrea and Lore talk about dating, their own stories, and answer a whole slew of questions they got on this topic. Weekly ChallengesIf you want to date and you’re not, or even if you are, make the cheesy list of what you want in a spouse. Have some friends you trust look over it with you to see if there’s anything that’s not God-honoring. Then bring that before the Lord and ask boldly. If you’re married, be intentional to have single people in your home. Be a covert matchmaker. Let your home be a place where people can meet, hang, mingle, and know one another. Linkshttp://www.andreagburke.com/blog/2019/3/4/when-you-make-your-bed-in-hellhttp://www.andreagburke.com/blog/2018/3/23/its-been-13-years-since-i-died

Good Enough
Meditation with Lauren Chandler

Good Enough

Play Episode Play 30 sec Highlight Listen Later May 8, 2019 65:41


Lauren Chandler is the wife of Matt Chandler, lead teaching pastor at The Village Church in Dallas, Texas, and president of Acts 29, a global church-planting network. They have three lovely (and lively) children. Whether writing stories, singing songs, or making her home a place to linger, Lauren enjoys creating beautiful and meaningful spaces where people may encounter the Lord of steadfast love imaged perfectly through Jesus. When she's not singing, writing, or spending time with her family, she can be found on the back of a horse.Scripture: 2 Corinthians 10:5Psalm 1Psalm 119:97Matthew 22:36-38Resources: Rereading the same book of the Bible over and over again: https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/change-your-mind/The Dwell Apphttps://dwellapp.io/goodenoughAttributes of God: http://www.sayable.net/blog/2016/05/the-attributes-of-godWeekly Challenge: Take one or two attributes of God this week and ask the Spirit to give you eyes to see those attributes at work throughout your life. Stop when you recognize them, meditate on them for a few minutes (or seconds, if that’s all you’ve got), and give gratitude to God.Take a short book of the bible or a chapter and read it 50-100 times over and over again.

Good Enough
Good Enough Intro Episode

Good Enough

Play Episode Play 30 sec Highlight Listen Later Apr 23, 2019 38:51


Welcome to the freshman episode of Good Enough. On this episode, we'll introduce ourselves, tell you a little more about what we hope to accomplish with this season, clue you in on our upcoming guests, and also explain about why on earth two old friends decided to sit down and record their conversations. It might not be the best podcast you've ever listened to, but it will be good enough. Andrea Burke and Lore Ferguson Wilbert are tackling fourteen of the counterfeit gospels American women believe today. We invite a guest each week to talk about beauty trends, diet culture, social media, “clean” living fads, singleness, dating, friendship with guys, and more. We know in Christ we truly are good enough for this never enough world.

By Faith with Christine Hoover
Lore Ferguson Wilbert on Loneliness and Friendship

By Faith with Christine Hoover

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2018 36:14


Christine asks writer Lore Wilbert about the effects of moving and transition on relationships. Lore shares what she's bad at in friendship, how she purposes to be honest when someone asks her how she's doing, how getting married changed her friendships, why making couple friends is so difficult, and how God hasn't ever wasted loneliness in her life.LINKS FROM THE SHOWLore's Website // My conversation with Lore on SinglenessConnect with LoreWebsite // Twitter // InstagramConnect with ChristineBlog // Facebook // Instagram // Twitter // Books Order Your Copy of Messy Beautiful FriendshipPaperback // Audiobook // EbookDownload your free Messy Beautiful Friendship group discussion guideLearn how you can support Christine's work on PatreonSubscribe to the "By Faith" PodcastiTunes // Stitcher // Google Play // Spotify

By Faith with Christine Hoover
Lore Ferguson Wilbert on Longing and Singleness

By Faith with Christine Hoover

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2018 45:18


Christine talks with Lore Ferguson Wilbert, one of her favorite writers, about longing, especially through the lens of singleness but also in marriage and through infertility. Lore lives in Dallas with her husband Nate, where they serve together at their church, The Village Church. She's a huge champion of thoughtful living, of Jesus, and of his church. Links from the show: Lore's blog: sayable.net // Madeleine L'engle's books // A Severe Mercy // Elisabeth Elliot's book, Be Still My Soul Preorder Searching For Spring: Amazon // Barnes & Noble // Target // Christianbook.com // Books-a-Million // Baker Books Redeem Searching For Spring Preorder Gifts Subscribe to the "By Faith" Podcast: iTunes // Stitcher // Google Play Connect with Lore: Blog // Twitter // Instagram Connect with Christine: Blog // Facebook // Instagram // Twitter

ERLC Podcast
Broken families with Lore Ferguson Wilbert

ERLC Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2017 22:47


We live in a world where issues arise in the news and culture daily. Behind every issue, however, is a person—a person made in the image of God. This new ERLC Podcast series, “How to Handle,” will tackle tough issues for today with the hopes of equipping the church on how to handle the topic, care for those struggling with sin and temptation, and care for those who have been hurt. Subscribe here iTunes | Google Play | Stitcher | Tune in

Home Row
Episode 16: Episode 16: Lore Ferguson Wilbert on Writing

Home Row

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2017 45:20


Listen to Lore (pronounced Loreee) and I talk writing, C.S. Lewis, editing, and vulnerability in our writing. Big thanks to rapper, nobigdyl, for providing today's music. Check out his album Canopy. Todays tracks: Tree Tops and Purple Dinosaur. https://www.nobigdyl.com/ Check out Lore's website, Sayable: http://www.sayable.net/ Lore's latest book projects, Read and Reflect Series: Humility by Andrew Murray,http://amzn.to/2qfao8x The Pilgrim's Progress by John Bunyan, http://amzn.to/2pzUdqb Follow Lore on Twitter: https://twitter.com/lorewilbert Find my books on Amazon: http://amzn.to/2qfnin6 My site: http://jamedders.com/ And find me on Twitter, @mrmedders Peace!Sponsored By:Christian Standard Bible: Today's show is brought to you by The Christian Standard Bible. Offering an optimal blend of accuracy and readability, the CSB helps readers make a deeper connection with God’s Word and inspires lifelong discipleship. The CSB is equally suited for serious study or sharing with your neighbor hearing God’s Word for the very first time. Learn more at CSBible.com