Podcasts about highly sensitive children

When we see our kids struggling with things like schoolwork, or friend drama, or dealing with a teacher they don't like, we often offer suggestions to help them get through those situations more easily. But what should we do when our children give short or snarky responses to our genuine attempts to help?  In this episode, you'll learn:  Why kids are so resistant to our suggestions, even if they know they're good ones What we almost always do that makes the situation worse How to respond to this type of attitude so that you maintain your positive, powerful influence (and they don't get away with anything!)  --  Join the "Daily Lift" for $1 Free summary of (and examples from) this episode Join Rachel's Facebook group The Leadership Parenting Academy and Success Lab

Michael Pluess and Cherry Hirst share strategies for teachers and caregivers to help highly sensitive children thrive. Read the article on BOLD.Stay up to date with all the latest research on child development and learning at boldscience.org.Join the conversation on X (Twitter), Facebook, Instagram.Subscribe to BOLD's newsletter.

On the EMpowered Podcast Takeover Series, psychologist Jacquie Ward joins us to talk about something every teacher needs to know. How to support highly sensitive children in the classroom. Some children feel things more deeply, notice the smallest details, and get overwhelmed more easily. These students aren't being “too sensitive” or “overdramatic”. They're wired this way. Up to 20% of kids are highly sensitive, and when we understand them, we can support them in ways that actually work. Jacquie Ward is a Psychologist who works with Children, Adolescents & their Families. It was a deep love of learning, combined with a fascination for developmental psychology and attachment theory that led Jacquie to pursue a career change after the birth of her first child. She returned to University and almost 10 years, another two babies, and approximately 5,000 textbooks later, found herself immersed in her dream job. For Jacquie, working with children, teens and their families as they navigate challenges with mental health and wellbeing, is the ultimate privilege. In this episode, Jacquie explains: What high sensitivity really is (and what it's not) How to recognise highly sensitive children in your classroom Why they get overwhelmed and struggle with change or noise The power of connection, safety, and predictable routines Simple ways to help them self-regulate and build confidence When you support highly sensitive children the right way, they feel safer, happier, and more able to learn. And let's be honest, it makes your job easier too.   Connect with Jacqui Ward [Course] Helping your highly sensitive child to thrive If this episode resonates, check out Jacquie's online course “Helping Your Highly Sensitive Child to Thrive” at www.jacquieward.com.au.   Connect with Em Website: emmagentle.com.au Instagram: @em_gentle LinkedIn

In the second part of this series, we interview Dr. Michael Pluess, a leading researcher on Highly Sensitive Children. Dr. Pluess talks about the latest research on how educators can identify Highly Sensitive Children in the classroom, tips for the classroom, wellness and high sensitivity, parenting, environment and optimal practices. For the latest research on Highly Sensitive Children, this is an episode you don't want to miss! Michael Pluess, PhD, is a chartered psychologist and professor in developmental psychology at the Department of Biological and Experimental Psychology at the School of Biological and Behavioural Sciences, Queen Mary, University of London. His research focuses on various aspects of Environmental Sensitivity, such as the measurement of sensitivity, the role of genetics, and the development of sensitivity across the life-span.To access a one hour webinar for educators on Highly Sensitive Children, click here.To access the High Sensitivity Scales, click hereTo find out more about Sensitivity, click hereJoin us for our Children's Mental Health and Parenting SummitOur Childrens Mental Health and Parenting Spring Summit is happening from April 21- 25th.18 masterclasses, plus 5 live workshops, where world renowned experts tackle incredible topics like parental anxiety, getting kids to listen, early parenting intervention, picky eating, resiliency, keeping kids safe online, healing attachment and so much more!The summit is free- and for those of you who can not attend live - recordings are available. To find out more, click here Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Show Notes: We might want to handle the daily stressors of life with calmness and respect, but often it doesn't work that way. (At least not for me!) Listen as I describe a situation I handled pretty poorly as a parent – and the strategies I used to get myself out of a cycle of guilt.  In this episode, you'll learn:  How to feel our feelings without being controlled by Yuck A simple and effective Leadership Parenting strategy to address mistakes Questions to ask YOURSELF when you do something you regret -- Free live "Power Hour" event: How to Boost Confidence in Children with Big Emotions FREE RESOURCE: Summary of this episode Join Rachel's Facebook group The Leadership Parenting Academy and Success Lab

https://rachel-bailey.com/332https://rachel-bailey.com/332Show Notes: When we are raising children with big emotions, it can be frustrating watching them struggle when things don't come easily. Even when we encourage them and remind them that they can do hard things, they may continue to complain or resist, leaving us wondering: Should we push them, or should we give in? Fortunately, there is a simple way to make this decision… and a way to help them handle discomfort when a push is appropriate.  In this episode, you'll learn:  Why children with big emotions often avoid doing hard things How to decide when to push them do hard things and when it doesn't make sense to push  How we can help deal with their discomfort so they can become the best version of themselves -- Free live "Power Hour" event Free resource: Summary of Episode 332 Join Rachel's Facebook group The Leadership Parenting Academy and Success Lab

Send us a textToday I'm chatting with Carrie Lingenfelter on the complexities of conscious parenting, focusing on the journey of raising gifted and highly sensitive children.  Exploring the importance of connecting with one's heart and body, navigating fears and uncertainties in parenting, and the dynamics of adult friendships. We're also highlighting the need for self-compassion and understanding in both parenting and personal growth.Keywordsconscious parenting, mindful tools, gifted children, highly sensitive, mind-body connection, parenting challenges, self-care, friendship, emotional intelligence, spiritual growth, energy awareness, authenticity, judgment, self-compassion, friendships, empathy, mindset, emotional resilience, parenting, personal growthChapters00:00 The Journey of Conscious Parenting09:59 Mind-Body Connection in Parenting15:06 Navigating Fear and Uncertainty in Parenting20:03 Friendship Dynamics in Adulthood25:04 Energy Awareness and Authentic Connections30:26 Judgment and Self-Compassion35:40 Navigating Friendships with EmpathySupport the showIf you feel inspired please consider sharing this episode with a friend, writing a 5⭐️ review or becoming a Raising Wild Hearts Member here!

In today's episode, we'll focus on how healthcare professionals such as doctors, nurses, and dentists can play a supportive role in your highly sensitive child's life and how we as parents can prepare them for these visits to make the experience as gentle and positive as possible. Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/parentinghsc Website: parentinghsc.com Donate towards podcast production: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/parastoo Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/5107827046012507 Instagram: parastooparentinghsc Book: Doctor Elaine Aron, Highly Sensitive Children Portrait Photographer, Laurie Bishop: www.becomebeseen.com (Use Promo Code Parastoo100)

Today's episode is aimed at a crucial group in our children's lives – their teachers. We'll be diving into how teachers can support highly sensitive children in the classroom, and the meaningful role teachers play in setting HSC up for success. Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/parentinghsc Website: parentinghsc.com Donate towards podcast production: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/parastoo Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/5107827046012507 Instagram: parastooparentinghsc Book: Doctor Elaine Aron, Highly Sensitive Children Portrait Photographer, Laurie Bishop: www.becomebeseen.com (Use Promo Code Parastoo100)

This episode is a continuation of episode 43 where we talk about the similarities and differences between children with ADHD and Highly Sensitive Children (HSC) with my guest, Ms. Karen Rosenquist. Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/parentinghsc Website: parentinghsc.com Donate towards podcast production: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/parastoo Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/5107827046012507 Instagram: parastooparentinghsc Book: Doctor Elaine Aron, Highly Sensitive Children Portrait Photographer, Laurie Bishop: www.becomebeseen.com (Use Promo Code Parastoo100)

In this episode we're diving into an important and often misunderstood topic—Highly Sensitive Children (HSC) versus children with ADHD. I know many parents out there are wondering: What are the differences? Where do these traits overlap? And How can we support our children effectively? To help us unpack all of this, I'm thrilled to be joined by Ms. Karen Rosenquist, an educator who has been working with neurodiverse children for the past 10 years.

This episode summarizes episodes 39-41 regarding Autistic Children vs. Highly Sensitive Children and ends with the takeaways. Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/parentinghsc Website: parentinghsc.com Donate towards podcast production: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/parastoo Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/5107827046012507 Instagram: parastooparentinghsc Book: Doctor Elaine Aron, Highly Sensitive Children Portrait Photographer, Laurie Bishop: www.becomebeseen.com (Use Promo Code Parastoo100)

 On radical self-responsibility and reprocessing our childhood shame to empowerment and creativity. (2:42) – Sophie's Personal Journey and Research on Highly Sensitive Children (5:17) – Understanding Rooted Rhythm Therapy and Parent Coaching (8:19) – The Nature of “Big Feelings” and Their Impact on Children (10:08) – Practical Tips for Parents of Highly Sensitive Children (15:36) – The Role of Authenticity and Congruency in Parenting (20:55) – The Role of EMDR in Therapy and Parenting Sophie Schauermann, LCSW is a licensed therapist and parent coach based in Denver, CO. Her passion and expertise lie in supporting highly sensitive children (and their parents) in harnessing their sensitivities into their superpowers. She is the founder of Rooted Rhythm Therapy and Parent Coaching, which was born out of the belief that children must get to know the beat of their own drum in order to confidently reach their potential…and that the best kind of parent is one that is Rooted in their own Rhythm. Sophie supports her clients with Synergetic Play Therapy, EMDR (eye movement desensitization reprocessing) Therapy, and Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy. She has over 10 years of experience working closely with children and families in many settings, including the Harvard Medical School's laboratory for youth mental health, the public school system, community based mental health programs, and now in private practice. Her greatest learning, however, lies in her personal story of healing and growth into the person that she is today. Sophie is the proud wife to another therapist and bonus mama to two amazing kiddos that she couldn't imagine life without.  

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2342: Melissa Noel Renzi shares valuable insights on nurturing highly sensitive children (HSCs) in a way that embraces their emotional depth. From encouraging the healthy expression of emotions to understanding the importance of alone time, these affirmations support children in turning their sensitivity into a strength, fostering self-acceptance and compassion. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://highlysensitiverefuge.com/highly-sensitive-child-needs-to-hear/ Quotes to ponder: “All of your emotions are acceptable.” “The world needs special people like you.” “Take all the time you need to process.” Episode references: The Highly Sensitive Person: https://www.amazon.com/Highly-Sensitive-Person-Thrive-Overwhelms/dp/0553062182 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is a continuation of episode 39 and 40 with my guest Mr. Ahmad Rashad talking about the similarities and differences between Autistic Children and Highly Sensitive Children. Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/parentinghsc Website: parentinghsc.com Donate towards podcast production: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/parastoo Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/5107827046012507 Instagram: parastooparentinghsc Book: Doctor Elaine Aron, Highly Sensitive Children Portrait Photographer, Laurie Bishop: www.becomebeseen.com (Use Promo Code Parastoo100)

This episode is a continuation of episode 39 with my guest Mr. Ahmad Rashad talking about the similarities and differences between Autistic Children and Highly Sensitive Children. Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/parentinghsc Website: parentinghsc.com Donate towards podcast production: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/parastoo Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/5107827046012507 Instagram: parastooparentinghsc Book: Doctor Elaine Aron, Highly Sensitive Children Portrait Photographer, Laurie Bishop: www.becomebeseen.com

Today, we're going to explore a topic that often comes up in our conversations with parents: understanding the differences and similarities between autistic children and highly sensitive children. This is a topic that can be quite confusing for parents, especially when you see overlapping traits like sensory sensitivities, social challenges, or a need for routine. So, let's unpack this with empathy and clarity. Joining me today is my amazing producer Mr. Ahmad Rashad. Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/parentinghsc Website: parentinghsc.com Donate towards podcast production: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/parastoo Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/5107827046012507 Instagram: parastooparentinghsc Book: Doctor Elaine Aron, Highly Sensitive Children Portrait Photographer, Laurie Bishop: www.becomebeseen.com

In this episode of "Parenting With Understanding," join Marcela as she coaches Maya, a mom struggling with her highly sensitive daughter's daily routine challenges. Discover practical strategies to transform resistance into cooperation by addressing sensory sensitivities, enhancing predictability, and fostering emotional regulation. CLICK HERE to access our free Class to learn the Parenting With Understanding™️ System to Break Free from reactivity, bring peace to your parenting, and raise emotionally healthy children. ✅You will learn our signature Parenting With Understanding system to overcome angry reactions and have calm responses during your children's chaos. ✅Gain an understanding of what you need to communicate assertively with your children so they listen to you even when you give them a “no.” ✅Know what is needed to raise emotionally healthy children who can face the real world with confidence and self-accountability.

We want our children to feel respected, and we know that it's important to connect with them and validate their feelings. But when they've behaved in an unacceptable way, it's easy to wonder if, when you're connecting with them, you're letting them “get away” with negative behavior.  In this episode, you'll learn: Why our influence does depend on being able to balance both validation and firmness A simple formula (with examples!) to show our kids that we sincerely care about what they're going through without condoning negative behavior  --- Summary of this episode with examples:  https://rachelbailey68580.activehosted.com/f/199 Transcript of this episode: https://rachel-bailey.com/322-transcript/ Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/RachelBailey Free training for parents with kids with big emotions: https://rachel-bailey.com/longgame/

This is a continuation of episode 34 where we delve into how to go about selecting the right pet for your highly sensitive child. What are some important factors to consider when selecting a pet? Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/parentinghsc Website: parentinghsc.com Donate towards podcast production: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/parastoo Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/5107827046012507 Instagram: parastooparentinghsc Book: Doctor Elaine Aron, Highly Sensitive Children

Today we're diving into a topic that many parents ponder: Should I get a pet for my HSC and if yes how should I go about selecting the right pet? Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/parentinghsc Website: parentinghsc.com Donate towards podcast production: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/parastoo Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/5107827046012507 Instagram: parastooparentinghsc Book: Doctor Elaine Aron, Highly Sensitive Children

Today's episode is about teaching your highly sensitive child (HSC) to navigate the complexities of romantic relationships which is crucial for their emotional well-being and personal growth. Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/parentinghsc Website: parentinghsc.com Donate towards podcast production: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/parastoo Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/5107827046012507 Instagram: parastooparentinghsc Book: Doctor Elaine Aron, Highly Sensitive Children

In this episode I wrap up the Super Powers Series which consisted of 8 episodes and 5 guests with my takeaways and advice. I talk about 9 areas of strengths that HSP bring to their career. Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/parentinghsc Website: parentinghsc.com Donate towards podcast production: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/parastoo Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/5107827046012507 Instagram: parastooparentinghsc Book: Doctor Elaine Aron, Highly Sensitive Children

In this episode, I talk about the differences Highly Sensitive Children can experience with sleep. You can find out more about my work at www.marionrose.net You can also find me here: https://www.instagram.com/theawareparentingpodcast/ https://www.instagram.com/_marion_rose_/ https://www.instagram.com/awareparenting/ www.facebook.com/MarionRosePhD

Annoyance & Acceptance: Managing Emotions in Friendships   Jen and Patricia discuss the importance of naming and accepting emotions, including annoyance, as well as the challenges of communication and managing expectations in their friendship. They share personal experiences and strategies for navigating difficult feelings, emphasizing the value of patience and trust in their conversations. They discuss concepts like nonviolent communication and the impact of attachment wounds on relationships.   CO-HOST Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC   HIGHLIGHTS Summary Patricia and Jen discuss their recent experiences with physical activity and the importance of setting realistic expectations. They explore the tendency to have all-or-nothing thinking and the need for flexibility and self-compassion. Patricia shares her recent experiences with medication and managing her OCD symptoms. In this conversation, Patricia and Jen discuss Patricia's experience with OCD and how it affects her relationships. They explore the challenges of managing dysregulation and the importance of communication and authenticity in navigating difficult emotions. They also touch on the impact of past traumas on current relationships and the need for self-compassion and setting boundaries. The conversation highlights the importance of accepting and expressing emotions and the value of being honest about one's limitations. Takeaways Setting realistic expectations and being flexible is important when trying new activities. Naming and accepting emotions is crucial for self-awareness and healthy relationships. Communication and managing expectations are key in maintaining strong friendships. Medication can be helpful in managing symptoms, but self-awareness and self-compassion are also important. OCD can manifest in different ways, such as excessive worry and fear of harm to loved ones. Managing dysregulation can be challenging, and reaching out for support is important. Authenticity and open communication are key in navigating difficult emotions and maintaining healthy relationships. It's important to recognize and address past traumas that may impact current relationships. Setting boundaries and being honest about one's limitations is crucial for self-care and maintaining healthy relationships. Sound Bites   ·      "I went kickboxing. Yes, it was so much fun." ·      "Finding ways to really lower the bar to just get my body there." ·      "Are there ways that you can create a little bit more flexibility and options so that your life works for you?" ·      "I worry every morning that my husband, you know, is dead." ·      "I felt very disconnected from you, like everything just felt meh." ·      "I wonder if you remembered about recording and you didn't say anything about recording." Chapters (please adjust for the addition of the introduction) 00:00 Introduction and Kickboxing Experience 01:54 Setting Realistic Expectations and Lowering the Bar 04:15 Embracing Emotions and Practicing Self-Compassion 06:16 Communication and Expectations in Friendships 08:43 Managing Symptoms: Medication and Self-Awareness 20:43 Dysregulation and Feeling Disconnected 24:47 Navigating Uncertainty and Hurt Feelings 29:26 Being Present and Authentic in Relationships 33:18 Addressing Past Traumas and Setting Boundaries 40:13 The Importance of Honesty and Saying No PODCAST HOST Patricia was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it's like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller.  Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion.  She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren't alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges.  Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for neurodivergent folks that focus on understanding what it means to be a sensitive neurodivergent. Topics covered include: self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you   CO-HOST BIO Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC has been a psychotherapist for 20 years. She specializes in helping Highly Sensitive People thrive in love, work, and parenting Highly Sensitive Children. Jen is passionate about using mindfulness and compassion-based approaches to ameliorate human suffering.   LINKS Diane Poole-Heller: https://dianepooleheller.com/   Jen's Links   Email: Jen@heartfulnessconsulting.com   Jen's website: https://heartfulnessconsulting.com/   Patricia's Links   Neurodivergent Online Course-- https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/neurodivergent-online-courses/   Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6   Sign up for the Newsletter-- https://www.subscribepage.com/y0l7d4   To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review”   Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com  

Today, I have the privilege of having my dear friend, Shivangi, as my guest. Shivangi has embraced the positive and empowering aspects of being a HSP, has unleashed her superpowers, and has built a highly successful career. Shivangi is an Account Director with a Bachelor's degree in Engineering and an MBA. She has been in the tech industry for nearly 20 years. Shivangi is a wife, a Mom, a techie, and a millennial. Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/parentinghsc Website: parentinghsc.com Donate towards podcast production: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/parastoo Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/5107827046012507 Instagram: parastooparentinghsc Book: Doctor Elaine Aron, Highly Sensitive Children

Today, I have the privilege of having my handsome, resilient, courageous, smart, and caring Father, Doctor Mehdi Vahdat as my guest. My Father has embraced the positive and empowering aspects of being a HSP, has unleashed his superpowers, and has built a highly successful career as an ophthalmologist. Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/parentinghsc Website: parentinghsc.com Donate towards podcast production: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/parastoo Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/5107827046012507 Instagram: parastooparentinghsc Book: Doctor Elaine Aron, Highly Sensitive Children

Navigating Reconnection after Rupture: Messiness Is a Healthy Part of Relationships   Patricia and Jen discuss the challenges of reconnecting after a rupture in their relationship. They explore the fear of not being able to get back to normal and the desire for rupture and repair in significant relationships. They also discuss the importance of authenticity, setting boundaries, and being clear about needs and expectations. They touch on topics such as OCD, panic attacks, and the process of growth and transformation.   CO-HOST Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC   HIGHLIGHTS Summary In this conversation, Patricia and Jen discuss their current emotional states and the challenges they are facing. They explore topics such as discomfort, identity, accuracy in sharing personal experiences, and the process of unmasking. They also touch on the importance of honoring individual processes and the impact of communication and responsiveness in relationships. Patricia shares her experiences with OCD and the need for connection, while Jen reflects on the need for self-care and exploring new directions. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of self-awareness, authenticity, and growth. Takeaways ·         Honor your own process and don't feel pressured to share or show up in a certain way. ·         Recognize the impact of communication and responsiveness in relationships. ·         Embrace self-awareness and explore new directions for personal growth. ·         Practice authenticity and unmasking to find joy and connection. Reconnecting after a rupture in a relationship can be challenging and may require starting over to rebuild the connection. ·         Fear of not being able to get back to normal after a rupture is common, but rupture and repair are a natural part of significant relationships. ·         Authenticity, setting boundaries, and clear communication about needs and expectations are essential for maintaining healthy relationships. ·         It is important to recognize and manage conditions like OCD and panic attacks, and to seek support and self-care when needed. ·         Growth and transformation in relationships require navigating uncertainty and being open to change. Sound Bites ·         "Hey, Patricia, that feels like a trick question these days." ·         "I'm feeling a little uncomfortable." ·         "I get excited that we're willing to talk about some of the things that are difficult." ·         "But it's not like when I reconnect with you, I go oh, we're connected. It's like I lose that and we almost have to start over again for me to get that connection." ·         "The if onlys, right? The if only we do this right, then we're never gonna have to do it again." Chapters (please adjust for the addition of the introduction) 00:00 Introduction and Expressing Discomfort 03:02 Navigating Identity and Accuracy in Sharing 07:58 The Impact of Communication and Responsiveness 11:52 Embracing Self-Awareness and Exploring New Directions 23:38 Reconnecting After Rupture 28:22 Authenticity and Setting Boundaries in Relationships 30:15 Managing Conditions like OCD and Panic Attacks 32:20 The Process of Growth and Transformation in Relationships PODCAST HOST Patricia was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it's like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller.  Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion.  She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren't alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges.  Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for neurodivergent folks that focus on understanding what it means to be a sensitive neurodivergent. Topics covered include: self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you   CO-HOST BIO Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC has been a psychotherapist for 20 years. She specializes in helping Highly Sensitive People thrive in love, work, and parenting Highly Sensitive Children. Jen is passionate about using mindfulness and compassion-based approaches to ameliorate human suffering.   LINKS Diane Poole-Heller: https://dianepooleheller.com/   Jen's Links   Email: Jen@heartfulnessconsulting.com   Jen's website: https://heartfulnessconsulting.com/   Patricia's Links   Neurodivergent Online Course-- https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/neurodivergent-online-courses/   Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6   Sign up for the Newsletter-- https://www.subscribepage.com/y0l7d4   To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review”Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com

Today, I have the privilege of having my beautiful, resilient, and courageous friend, entrepreneur, teacher, and healer, Ms. Robin Duryea as my guest. Robin has embraced the positive and empowering aspects of being a HSP, has unleashed her superpowers, and has built a highly successful yoga retreat in Hawaii called Kūaloli: https://www.kualoliretreats.com Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/parentinghsc Website: parentinghsc.com Donate towards podcast production: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/parastoo Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/5107827046012507 Instagram: parastooparentinghsc Book: Doctor Elaine Aron, Highly Sensitive Children

Today, I have the privilege of having my beautiful, resilient, and courageous friend, entrepreneur, teacher, and healer, Ms. Robin Duryea as my guest. Robin has embraced the positive and empowering aspects of being a HSP, has unleashed her superpowers, and has built a highly successful yoga retreat in Hawaii called Kūaloli (https://www.kualoliretreats.com). Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/parentinghsc Website: parentinghsc.com Donate towards podcast production: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/parastoo Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/5107827046012507 Instagram: parastooparentinghsc Book: Doctor Elaine Aron, Highly Sensitive Children

Anger and Attachment: Navigating Different Neurotypes Within a Relationship Patricia and Jen explore the dynamics of attachment injuries, ADHD, and autism within their friendship. They explore the challenges of communication, time orientation, and emotional regulation. They touch on the concept of platonic life partnership and the challenges navigating different attachment styles and the impact of past trauma on present interactions. They discuss the importance of setting expectations, creating safe containers for communication, and validating each other's emotions.   CO-HOST Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC   HIGHLIGHTS Summary The conversation delves into the complexities of attachment wounds, communication styles, and emotional regulation within a friendship. Takeaways ·         The impact of attachment injuries, ADHD, and autism on communication and emotional regulation in friendships. ·         The challenges of navigating differences in time orientation and managing expectations within a friendship. ·         The concept of platonic life partnership and its relevance in fostering secure attachments and meaningful connections in friendships. ·         Navigating attachment wounds and communication styles in friendships can be complex and challenging. ·         Understanding the impact of past trauma on present interactions is crucial for building empathy and connection. ·         Setting clear expectations and creating safe containers for communication can help navigate emotional triggers and attachment injuries in friendships. ·         Validating each other's emotions and experiences is essential for building trust and understanding in a friendship. Additional Takeaways: Understanding the importance of having important conversations and finding the right time for them. Exploring vulnerability and the fear of being misunderstood or perceived as angry. Acknowledging feelings of frustration and hopelessness in relationships. Validating the range of human emotions, including anger, and the need to express them fully. Reflecting on personal tendencies and vulnerabilities, such as attachment injuries. Recognizing the impact of dysregulation and expressing anger in a healthy manner. Navigating feelings of anger and the desire for mutual understanding in relationships. Balancing the need for connection with the challenges and pain of relationships. Embracing vulnerability and seeking growth through therapy and self-reflection. Learning to communicate effectively and manage difficult emotions in relationships. Exploring the complexities of attachment styles and their influence on behavior. Cultivating self-awareness and empathy towards oneself and others. Addressing past traumas and their effects on present relationships. Practicing self-care and setting boundaries to maintain emotional well-being. Embracing change and growth through ongoing self-reflection and therapy. Building resilience and coping strategies for navigating challenging emotions. Fostering healthy communication patterns and conflict resolution skills. Recognizing the importance of seeking support and guidance in times of emotional distress. Embracing authenticity and vulnerability as pathways to personal healing and growth. Encouraging listeners to engage in self-discovery and emotional exploration for personal development. Sound Bites "Having these conversations is important." "I'm doing the best I can in my unmedicated, very sloppy way." "Those are gonna be the labels that you're gonna have if you don't want the label." "Navigating attachment wounds and communication styles in friendships can be complex and challenging." "Understanding the impact of past trauma on present interactions is crucial for building empathy and connection." "Setting clear expectations and creating safe containers for communication can help navigate emotional triggers and attachment injuries in friendships." Chapters (please adjust for the addition of the introduction) Chapters 00:00 Exploring Attachment Injuries and Gremlins in Friendship Dynamics 03:04 Understanding Time Orientation and Emotional Regulation in Relationships 08:20 Navigating Differences in Communication and Expectations 14:02 The Concept of Platonic Life Partnership and Friendship Dynamics 29:19 Understanding the Impact of Past Trauma on Present Interactions 39:22 Creating Safe Containers for Communication in Friendships 43:19 The Importance of Validating Emotions in Friendships PODCAST HOST Patricia was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it's like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller.  Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion.  She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren't alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges.  Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for neurodivergent folks that focus on understanding what it means to be a sensitive neurodivergent. Topics covered include: self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you   CO-HOST BIO Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC has been a psychotherapist for 20 years. She specializes in helping Highly Sensitive People thrive in love, work, and parenting Highly Sensitive Children. Jen is passionate about using mindfulness and compassion-based approaches to ameliorate human suffering.   LINKS   Jen's Links   Email: Jen@heartfulnessconsulting.com   Jen's website: https://heartfulnessconsulting.com/   Patricia's Links   Neurodivergent Online Course-- https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/neurodivergent-online-courses/   Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6   Sign up for the Newsletter-- https://www.subscribepage.com/y0l7d4   To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review”   Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com

Today's episode is a continuation of my conversation with Mr. Ahmad Rashad. Ahmad is the amazing and talented producer of this podcast. He is the Founder and Producer at My Producer and has a background in

Today's episode is a continuation of my conversation with Mr. Ahmad Rashad. Ahmad is the amazing and talented producer of this podcast. He is the Founder and Producer at My Producer and has a background in

Today on Emily the Medium: Blake's journey from childhood, spiritual awakening to today How to navigate overstimulation as an adult and child Leaning into the power of nature & the changes needed in the school systemBlake's journey with partnership, spirit babies, conception, pregnancy loss, and pregnancy  Balancing the human pain & experience even as a spiritually awakened personConnect with Guest: IG: @conscious_kiddosWebsite: https://www.conscious-kiddos.com/Read "Ember's Magical Journey": https://amzn.to/4eGzPJt Book a reading with Blake: https://bit.ly/4c3f5tn Connect with Emily: IG: @emilythemediumWebsite: emilythemedium.com Read A Cosmic Bond: Communicating with your Spirit Babies from Preconception to Birth: bit.ly/42lUP24Other Resources:Use code EMILY10 to shop MILKMOON Fertility and Postpartum tonics  https://bit.ly/3uoNYsnUse this link for 15% off your PaleoValley order: https://bit.ly/4boOqGB

Today, I am super excited to welcome Mr. Ahmad Rashad as my guest. Ahmad is the amazing and talented producer of my podcast. He is the Founder and Producer at My Producer and has a background in

Attachment: Self-Compassion, Recognizing & Healing Unblended Parts   Patricia and Jen discuss their personal experiences with attachment injuries and how it affects their relationship. They explore the challenges of communication and the impact of past traumas. Patricia shares insights from her recovery journey, drawing parallels between her eating disorder and her attachment struggles. They emphasize the importance of self-compassion and understanding in navigating these complex dynamics. The conversation concludes with a discussion on the value of conflict and the importance of welcoming all parts of ourselves.   CO-HOST Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC   HIGHLIGHTS Summary Patricia and Jen discuss the experience of being preoccupied with attachment injuries and how it affects their thoughts and behaviors. They explore the concept of being blended with certain parts and the importance of unblending to gain perspective. They also touch on the role of a catalyst in triggering attachment wounds and the process of healing and unblending. They emphasize the need for self-compassion and understanding when going through intense emotions and trauma work Takeaways ·         Attachment injuries can impact relationships and trigger past traumas. ·         Communication can be challenging when attachment wounds are activated. ·         Self-compassion and understanding are crucial in navigating attachment struggles. ·         Recovery from past traumas requires self-reflection and self-awareness. Attachment injuries can lead to preoccupation with thoughts and behaviors related to the relationship. ·         Being blended with certain parts can make it difficult to gain perspective and let go of preoccupations. ·         The presence of a catalyst in triggering attachment wounds can provide an opportunity for healing and growth. ·         Self-compassion and understanding are crucial when going through intense emotions and trauma work. ·         Conflict can be seen as an opportunity for growth and understanding, rather than something negative or bad. Sound Bites "I'm actually doing really well. This is day four of feeling like I'm back to my grounded self." "In the absence of having information and without a secure attachment, I made up a story in my head of like, you didn't even respond to this." "Confidence is such a beautiful attribute sometimes, right? That I have the confidence that you have this." "When I'm in a place where I'm struggling with my attachment injuries, I'm preoccupied about the thoughts that I have about you, where you are, where I am in the relationship." "In IFS terms, we would say blended, right? When you're so completely blended, there's no other perspective." "This preoccupied stuff is, oof, I mean, it can get so intense." Chapters (please adjust for the addition of the introduction) 00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates 03:27 Parenting Challenges and Appreciation 05:10 Navigating Attachment Injuries and Communication Challenges 08:06 The Impact of Past Traumas on Relationships 11:25 Understanding the Complex Dynamics of Attachment 16:14 Articulating Experiences and Symbolic Communication 21:36 Blended Parts and Unblending 25:20 The Role of a Catalyst 29:59 Healing and Unblending 37:47 Conflict as an Opportunity PODCAST HOST Patricia was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it's like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller.  Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion.  She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren't alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges.  Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for neurodivergent folks that focus on understanding what it means to be a sensitive neurodivergent. Topics covered include: self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you   CO-HOST BIO Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC has been a psychotherapist for 20 years. She specializes in helping Highly Sensitive People thrive in love, work, and parenting Highly Sensitive Children. Jen is passionate about using mindfulness and compassion-based approaches to ameliorate human suffering.   LINKS   Jen's Links   Email: Jen@heartfulnessconsulting.com   Jen's website: https://heartfulnessconsulting.com/   Patricia's Links   Neurodivergent Online Course-- https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/neurodivergent-online-courses/   Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6   Sign up for the Newsletter-- https://www.subscribepage.com/y0l7d4   To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review”   Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com  

In this episode, I'm honored to welcome Mr. Terrance Lee as my guest. Terrance has embraced the positive and empowering aspects of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), has unleashed his superpowers, and has built a highly successful career. This is the first episode in the Super Powers Unleashed series where we debunk the myth that HSP are too emotional, too sensitive, and too weak to be successful in their careers. Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/parentinghsc Website: parentinghsc.com Donate towards podcast production: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/parastoo Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/5107827046012507 Instagram: parastooparentinghsc Book: Doctor Elaine Aron, Highly Sensitive Children

This is a continuation of episode 19 where I interview Angela who is parenting a highly sensitive boy. In this episode, we talk about the positive aspects and strengths of highly sensitive boys. Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/parentinghsc Website: parentinghsc.com Donate towards podcast production: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/parastoo Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/5107827046012507 Instagram: parastooparentinghsc Book: Doctor Elaine Aron, Highly Sensitive Children

Episode 41: Highly Sensitive Children: Tips for Parenting, Nurturing and Co-Regulation with Natalie Brunswick @highlysensitivefamily We hear the term “highly sensitive” a lot these days- but what does being highly sensitive or having a highly sensitive child really mean? This week Rachael and Natalie Brunswick, a psychotherapist OT and parenting educator, dive deep into the characteristics of highly sensitive children (and parents!). You'll learn all about the importance of understanding and supporting highly sensitive children, as well as the need for parents to do their own inner work.  Here's what they discuss inside this insightful episode: Natalie's challenges with her colicky and sleepless baby, which led to her own postpartum PTSD diagnosis and a journey towards helping others All the amazing & unique characteristics of highly sensitive children How to help co-regulate and release stress for parents AND children Some of the challenges and difficult experiences that can come with parenting highly sensitive children Some potential ways to support highly sensitive children in school and social settings Tools for sensitive & neurodivergent parents to support the needs of their sensitive children Ways for parents to creatively meet their own needs  The grief that may arise during parenting  How to decide if and when you are ready for more children, particularly if your first was highly sensitive or you had a difficult time postpartum Natalie is a psychotherapist, occupational therapist, parenting educator, mental health advocate, and mother of two exceptional boys. Like so many of us, she came into parenthood with an idea of what it would all look like. And, well, spoiler alert, it looked nothing at all like what she imagined! And so The Highly Sensitive Family was born. The Highly Sensitive Family is an online community with courses, workshops, and support for educating parents and helping others better understand their experiences, their stories, their nervous systems, their families, children & relationships, their dreams & passions. Mentioned in this episode: Natalie's Instagram: @highlysensitivefamily Natalie's Website: https://highlysensitivefamily.com/  Natalie's courses:  The Reparenting Masterclass  Raising Us: Community Membership I'd Love Another Baby, But… Course Waitlist If you enjoyed this episode, please rate 5⭐️ and write us a review! ⬇️ ✨For sleep support and resources, visit heysleepybaby.com and follow @heysleepybaby on Instagram!

Expansion and Contraction: Honoring Your Rhythms  In this conversation, Patricia and Jen discuss their personal experiences with stress, burnout, and the challenges of navigating relationships. They explore the importance of self-compassion, the need for rest and downtime, and the impact of attachment wounds on their interactions. They also touch on the concept of Internal Family Systems (IFS) and the role of the 'self' in healing and growth.   CO-HOST Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC   HIGHLIGHTS Summary Jen and Patricia discuss stress, self-care, and finding joy in everyday moments. Topics include managing stress using insights from Emily & Amelia Nagoski's book, Burnout, and embracing self-compassion. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of self-care activities like crocheting, walking, paddling, resting, and watching TV for relaxation. Patricia and Jen share personal experiences, highlighting the value of open communication and supportive relationships in navigating challenges. Overall, the conversation offers practical tips for stress management, promoting well-being, and finding happiness in simple pleasures. Takeaways Practicing self-compassion and separating stressors from the stress response in the body can help manage burnout. Honoring the body's need for rest and downtime is essential, even if it goes against societal expectations of productivity. Navigating relationships can be challenging, especially when attachment wounds are triggered, but open communication and self-reflection can help repair and strengthen connections. The concept of Internal Family Systems (IFS) emphasizes the importance of accessing the 'self' and its qualities of compassion, wisdom, and creativity in healing and growth. Chapters (please adjust for the addition of the introduction) 00:00 Introduction and Personal Experiences with Stress and Burnout 02:52 The Importance of Rest and Downtime 08:11 Navigating Relationships and Attachment Wounds 14:11 The Role of the 'Self' in Healing and Growth PODCAST HOST Patricia was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it's like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller.  Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion.  She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren't alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges.  Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for neurodivergent folks that focus on understanding what it means to be a sensitive neurodivergent. Topics covered include: self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you   CO-HOST BIO Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC has been a psychotherapist for 20 years. She specializes in helping Highly Sensitive People thrive in love, work, and parenting Highly Sensitive Children. Jen is passionate about using mindfulness and compassion-based approaches to ameliorate human suffering.   LINKS   Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cody by Emily Nagoski & Amelia Nagoski   Jen's Links   Email: Jen@heartfulnessconsulting.com   Jen's website: https://heartfulnessconsulting.com/   Patricia's Links   Neurodivergent Online Course-- https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/neurodivergent-online-courses/   Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6   Sign up for the Newsletter-- https://www.subscribepage.com/y0l7d4   To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review”   Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com  

This is a continuation of episode 19 where I interview Angela who is parenting a highly sensitive boy. In this episode we will talk about advice that Angela has for other parents and emotional support; we also talk about personal growth for parents of highly sensitive children. Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/parentinghsc Website: parentinghsc.com Donate towards podcast production: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/parastoo Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/5107827046012507 Instagram: parastooparentinghsc Book: Doctor Elaine Aron, Highly Sensitive Children

Managing Expectations: Showing Up for Yourself During Hard Times   Jen and Patricia discuss attachment wounds in their friendship. They explore the importance of self-awareness, setting boundaries, and managing expectations. They highlight the need for compassion & understanding when dealing with attachment issues & emphasize the ongoing work of healing & growth. In this conversation, Patricia shares her recent experiences with conflict & how she navigated this. She discusses the importance of leaning into difficult emotions and listening to others without defensiveness.   CO-HOST Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC   HIGHLIGHTS Summary The conversation revolves around attachment injuries and the impact they have on relationships. Patricia explores the concept of self-care and the need to treat oneself with kindness and nurturing. The conversation highlights the different lenses through which people view relationships and the importance of understanding one's own biases. Overall, the conversation emphasizes the value of curiosity, compassion, and self-empowerment in navigating challenging situations. In Depth Takeaways ·         Attachment injuries can impact relationships and trigger emotional reactions. ·         Self-awareness is crucial in recognizing and understanding attachment wounds. ·         Setting boundaries and managing expectations can help navigate attachment issues. ·         Compassion and understanding are essential in healing and growth. ·         Working on oneself and developing a strong inner relationship is key to managing attachment wounds. Leaning into difficult emotions and situations can lead to personal growth and understanding. ·         Listening without defensiveness allows for better communication and resolution in conflicts. ·         Self-care involves treating oneself with kindness and nurturing one's own needs. ·         Understanding one's own biases and lenses can improve relationships and communication. ·         Curiosity, compassion, and self-empowerment are essential in navigating challenging situations. Additional Takeaways Understanding emotional struggles: Gain insights into navigating complex emotions. Communication strategies: Learn effective ways to express feelings and thoughts. Attachment wounds exploration: Understand how past experiences impact relationships. Self-reflection tools: Discover techniques for introspection and personal growth. Compassion importance: Explore the role of empathy in fostering connections. Relationship navigation: Tips for managing challenges in interpersonal dynamics. Trauma healing techniques: Tools for addressing and healing past traumas. Empathy and connection building: Foster deeper connections with others. Self-care prioritization: Learn to prioritize self-care and well-being. Embracing imperfections: Understand the value of self-acceptance and growth. Emotional intelligence enhancement: Develop skills for understanding and managing emotions. Healthy boundaries cultivation: Establish boundaries for healthier relationships. Validation of experiences: Feel validated in your personal journey and struggles. Self-discovery encouragement: Find inspiration for exploring your true self. Personal growth support: Receive guidance for personal development and transformation. Conflict resolution strategies: Learn techniques for resolving conflicts peacefully. Resilience and strength building: Develop resilience to overcome challenges. Effective listening techniques: Enhance your listening skills for better communication. Vulnerability encouragement: Embrace vulnerability as a path to authenticity. Positive change inspiration: Get motivated to make positive changes in your life. Sound Bites "The theme is attachment injuries." "We all need a secure attachment." "I really have learned to lean into whatever is going on for the moment and knowing that it will last for as long as it lasts." "I was really able to listen instead of going into a place of defensiveness." "This is the first time that I honestly thought I don't want to do relationships anymore because the feelings were so intense." Chapters (please adjust for the addition of the introduction) 00:00 Introduction and Checking In 01:26 Attachment Injuries and Emotional Challenges 09:03 The Importance of Secure Attachment 11:18 Managing Expectations and Setting Boundaries 16:38 Learning to Show Up for Ourselves 18:30 Leaning into Difficult Emotions and Situations 19:40 Listening without Defensiveness in Conflict 24:35 The Importance of Self-Care and Nurturing 26:28 Understanding Biases and Lenses in Relationships 29:17 Curiosity, Compassion, and Self-Empowerment in Challenging Situations PODCAST HOST Patricia was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it's like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller.  Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion.  She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren't alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges.  Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for neurodivergent folks that focus on understanding what it means to be a sensitive neurodivergent. Topics covered include: self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you   CO-HOST BIO Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC has been a psychotherapist for 20 years. She specializes in helping Highly Sensitive People thrive in love, work, and parenting Highly Sensitive Children. Jen is passionate about using mindfulness and compassion-based approaches to ameliorate human suffering.   LINKS   Jen's Links   Email: Jen@heartfulnessconsulting.com   Jen's website: https://heartfulnessconsulting.com/   Patricia's Links   Neurodivergent Online Course-- https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/neurodivergent-online-courses/   Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6   Sign up for the Newsletter-- https://www.subscribepage.com/y0l7d4   To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review”   Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com 000002BE 000002BE 00003D9C 00003D9C 000FF082 000FF082 00007E86 00007E86 000FEC87 000FEC87

This is a continuation of episode 19 where I interview Angela who is parenting a highly sensitive boy. In this episode we cover parental reflections and insights. Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/parentinghsc Website: parentinghsc.com Donate towards podcast production: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/parastoo Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/5107827046012507 Instagram: parastooparentinghsc Book: Doctor Elaine Aron, Highly Sensitive Children

Attachment Wounds: OCD, Projection, Managing Dysregulation   Patricia candidly discusses her experiences with attachment wounds, OCD tendencies, projection and trauma responses with Jen, and how this is showing up in their relationship. Patricia shares what her OCD thoughts tend to look like. Through introspection and vulnerability, Patricia reflects on the impact of past traumas on her emotional well-being. Their dialogue underscores the importance of self-awareness, self-care, and resilience in healing from attachment-related struggles.   CO-HOST Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC   HIGHLIGHTS Summary In this conversation, Patricia and Jen discuss their current emotional states and the challenges they are facing. Patricia shares her struggles with attachment wounds, OCD, and trauma triggers, while Jen offers support and understanding. They explore the concept of projection and how it affects their interactions. The conversation emphasizes the importance of self-care and creating space for emotions. Overall, the conversation highlights the complexities of relationships and the need for compassion and empathy. Takeaways: Understanding trauma responses and emotional regulation techniques. Exploring the impact of OCD on thought patterns and relationships. Navigating attachment wounds and their influence on behavior. Recognizing the importance of self-awareness in healing from past traumas. Addressing vulnerability and sensitivity in processing emotional challenges. Learning to set boundaries and prioritize self-care in relationships. Embracing authenticity and openness in communication. Coping with uncertainty and distress through emotional expression. Building resilience through self-reflection and self-compassion. Exploring the connection between somatic experiences and emotional well-being. Challenging cognitive distortions and negative self-talk. Cultivating empathy and understanding in interpersonal dynamics. Validating the full range of human emotions and experiences. Practicing mindfulness and conscious decision-making in relationships. Recognizing the role of shame and inner criticism in self-perception. Naming and addressing personal "gremlins" and self-doubt. Modeling emotional authenticity and self-care for others. Finding language for complex emotions and internal struggles. Embracing vulnerability as a pathway to healing and growth. Expressing gratitude for support and shared experiences in the journey towards emotional well-being. Understanding trauma responses and emotional regulation techniques. Exploring the impact of OCD on thought patterns and relationships. Navigating attachment wounds and their influence on behavior. Recognizing the importance of self-awareness in healing from past traumas. Addressing vulnerability and sensitivity in processing emotional challenges. Learning to set boundaries and prioritize self-care in relationships. Embracing authenticity and openness in communication. Coping with uncertainty and distress through emotional expression. Building resilience through self-reflection and self-compassion. Exploring the connection between somatic experiences and emotional well-being. Challenging cognitive distortions and negative self-talk. Cultivating empathy and understanding in interpersonal dynamics. Validating the full range of human emotions and experiences. Practicing mindfulness and conscious decision-making in relationships. Recognizing the role of shame and inner criticism in self-perception. Naming and addressing personal "gremlins" and self-doubt. Modeling emotional authenticity and self-care for others. Finding language for complex emotions and internal struggles. Embracing vulnerability as a pathway to healing and growth. Expressing gratitude for support and shared experiences in the journey towards emotional well-being. Chapters (please allow for addition of introduction)   00:00 Introduction and Emotional States 09:01 Exploring Attachment Wounds and Trauma Triggers 30:00 Building Stronger Relationships through Compassion and Empathy PODCAST HOST Patricia was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it's like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller.  Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion.  She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren't alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges.  Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for neurodivergent folks that focus on understanding what it means to be a sensitive neurodivergent. Topics covered include: self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you   CO-HOST BIO Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC has been a psychotherapist for 20 years. She specializes in helping Highly Sensitive People thrive in love, work, and parenting Highly Sensitive Children. Jen is passionate about using mindfulness and compassion-based approaches to ameliorate human suffering.   LINKS   Jen's Links   Email: Jen@heartfulnessconsulting.com   Jen's website: https://heartfulnessconsulting.com/   Patricia's Links   Neurodivergent Online Course-- https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/neurodivergent-online-courses/   Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6   Sign up for the Newsletter-- https://www.subscribepage.com/y0l7d4   To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review”   Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com

Attachment Wounds: A Follow Up Conversation   Jen and Patricia reflect on their recent challenge (see episode 241), and they discuss the importance of taking responsibility for their own needs and emotions. They explore the impact of attachment wounds and the challenges of navigating relationships. They talk about what trauma and reenactment looks like in a relationship. They also discuss the need for self-care and the importance of managing expectations. This is a very vulnerable and open conversation.   CO-HOST Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC   HIGHLIGHTS Summary In this conversation, Patricia and Jen discuss their recent experiences and the impact it had on their relationship. They explore the challenges of change and disruption, the importance of naming and validating emotions, and the process of healing from past trauma. They also touch on the dynamics of their friendship and the need for autonomy and understanding. Throughout the conversation, they emphasize the importance of holding space for each other and navigating through difficult emotions with patience and curiosity. In this conversation. Takeaways ·         Change and disruption can be challenging. ·         Naming and validating emotions is powerful and can help in moving forward. ·         Healing from past trauma requires self-awareness and taking responsibility for one's own healing process. ·         Navigating difficult emotions in relationships requires patience, understanding, and the ability to hold space for each other. Taking responsibility for our own needs and emotions is essential in relationships. ·         Attachment wounds can impact our expectations and behaviors in relationships. ·         Self-care and managing expectations are important for maintaining healthy relationships. ·         Open and honest communication can lead to growth and healing. Sound Bites ·         "Change and disruption are difficult for me" ·         "Letting it be okay to say it's annoying" ·         "The power of naming things and how validating it is" ·         "It's the openheartedness really." ·         "Adulthood in many ways is a myth except for taxes and stuff." Chapters (please adjust for the addition of the introduction) 00:00 Introduction and Frustrations 08:03 Reenactment and Taking Responsibility 25:49 Openheartedness and Taking Responsibility 34:00 Accepting Unmet Needs 40:39 Managing Expectations PODCAST HOST Patricia was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it's like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller.  Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion.  She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren't alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges.  Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for neurodivergent folks that focus on understanding what it means to be a sensitive neurodivergent. Topics covered include: self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you   CO-HOST BIO Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC has been a psychotherapist for 20 years. She specializes in helping Highly Sensitive People thrive in love, work, and parenting Highly Sensitive Children. Jen is passionate about using mindfulness and compassion-based approaches to ameliorate human suffering.   LINKS   Jen's Links   Email: Jen@heartfulnessconsulting.com   Jen's website: https://heartfulnessconsulting.com/   Patricia's Links   Neurodivergent Online Course-- https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/neurodivergent-online-courses/   Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6   Sign up for the Newsletter-- https://www.subscribepage.com/y0l7d4   To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review”   Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com

Navigating Grief, Uncertainty & Travel Through the Lens of Attachment Patricia and Jen discuss navigating uncertainty and overwhelm, managing change and unexpected situations, balancing personal needs, the power of communication and validation, finding meaning and value in relationships, coping with anxiety and catastrophic thinking, choosing to assume the best, managing energy and boundaries, secure attachment and autonomy, dealing with uncertainty and seeking information, taking care of yourself in travel. They also reflect on their friendship   CO-HOST Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC   HIGHLIGHTS Summary Patricia and Jen discuss various topics including body image, grief, historical trauma, emotional support, communication, and family dynamics. Patricia shares her personal experiences and emotions surrounding her son leaving for boot camp, which triggers both current and historical grief. They explore the importance of emotional attunement and the impact of different processing styles on relationships. The conversation highlights the need for compassion, understanding, and open communication in navigating intense emotions and supporting one another. Takeaways ·         Body image concerns can impact self-perception and emotional well-being. ·         Grief can be triggered by current events and activate historical trauma. ·         Emotional support and attunement are crucial in navigating intense emotions. ·         Open communication and understanding of different processing styles can strengthen relationships. Navigating uncertainty and overwhelm can be challenging, but finding ways to manage change and unexpected situations can help. ·         Balancing personal needs and family expectations is important for maintaining well-being. ·         Effective communication and validation can strengthen relationships and provide support during difficult times. ·         Coping with anxiety and catastrophic thinking requires self-awareness and the ability to assume the best in uncertain situations. ·         Taking care of oneself and setting boundaries is crucial for managing energy and maintaining emotional well-being. ·         Seeking information and being proactive can help reduce uncertainty and increase feelings of security. ·         Finding security in relationships and in life involves developing secure attachment and embracing autonomy. ·         Taking care of oneself during travel, such as having snacks and staying hydrated, can help manage stress and anxiety. ·         Finding security in relationships and in life involves developing secure attachment and embracing autonomy. ·         Reflecting on friendship and growth can bring appreciation and gratitude for the journey. Additional topics discussed: Exploring the complexities of loss, grief, and change in personal experiences. Normalizing and validating diverse ways of coping with sadness and challenges. Reflecting on the interplay between present circumstances and past narratives. Nurturing compassion and gentleness in relationships to facilitate healing. Recognizing the value of secure attachments in both personal and life contexts. Strategies for dealing with uncertainty and finding resources for support. Cultivating wisdom in distinguishing between controllable and uncontrollable aspects of life. The power of communication in addressing needs within relationships. Overcoming codependency and setting healthy boundaries in interactions. Embracing vulnerability and authenticity in sharing personal experiences. Balancing self-expression with consideration for others in relationships. Addressing feelings of inadequacy and the need for self-affirmation. Seeking empowerment through information and planning in uncertain situations. Building resilience through shared experiences and mutual support. Fostering a sense of autonomy and self-assurance amidst societal pressures. Chapters (please adjust for the addition of the introduction) 00:00 Introduction and Checking In 00:28 Body Image and Self-Perception 07:09 Intense Grief and Emotional Support 08:02 Communication and Emotional Boundaries 12:09 Processing Grief and Emotional Reactions 14:58 Capacity for Emotional Support 20:06 Last Moments and Emotional Vulnerability 21:05 Navigating Uncertainty and Overwhelm 22:01 Managing Change and Unexpected Situations 23:24 Balancing Personal Needs and Family Expectations 25:17 The Power of Communication and Validation 26:15 Finding Meaning and Value in Relationships 27:09 Coping with Anxiety and Catastrophic Thinking 28:03 Choosing to Assume the Best 29:00 Managing Energy and Boundaries 29:26 Secure Attachment and Autonomy 30:18 Dealing with Uncertainty and Seeking Information 32:35 Taking Care of Yourself in Travel 38:33 Finding Security in Relationships and Life 40:18 Reflecting on Friendship and Growth PODCAST HOST Patricia was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it's like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller.  Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion.  She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren't alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges.  Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for neurodivergent folks that focus on understanding what it means to be a sensitive neurodivergent. Topics covered include: self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you   CO-HOST BIO Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC has been a psychotherapist for 20 years. She specializes in helping Highly Sensitive People thrive in love, work, and parenting Highly Sensitive Children. Jen is passionate about using mindfulness and compassion-based approaches to ameliorate human suffering.   LINKS   Jen's Links   Email: Jen@heartfulnessconsulting.com   Jen's website: https://heartfulnessconsulting.com/   Patricia's Links   Neurodivergent Online Course-- https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/neurodivergent-online-courses/   Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6   Sign up for the Newsletter-- https://www.subscribepage.com/y0l7d4   To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review”   Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com

Unmasking & Authentic Communication: Navigating Differences in Relationships   Patricia and Jen discuss the challenges of unmasking and being authentic in relationships including the role of PDA (Pervasive Drive for Autonomy). They explore the narratives we have about ourselves and how they can impact our interactions with others. They also delve into the differences in communication styles and perspectives, and the importance of embracing who we are. The conversation highlights the need to navigate personal dynamics and self-reflection in order to foster understanding and growth.   CO-HOST Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC   HIGHLIGHTS Takeaways   ·         Unmasking involves recognizing and embracing our authentic selves, even if it brings up discomfort or challenges in relationships. ·         Differences in communication styles and perspectives can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts, but it's important to approach these differences with curiosity and compassion. ·         Challenging the narratives we have about ourselves and others can help us break free from limiting beliefs and foster healthier relationships. ·         Navigating personal dynamics requires open communication, self-reflection, and a willingness to honor our own needs while respecting the autonomy of others. More about unmasking Unmasking involves revealing one's authentic self and needs in relationships. It can bring up feelings of selfishness or discomfort when prioritizing personal authenticity. The author discusses the challenge of balancing personal needs with making others feel comfortable. Self-awareness plays a role in navigating the discomfort that may arise from unmasking. The author highlights the importance of authenticity in fostering genuine connections in relationships. Embracing one's true self involves acknowledging and communicating personal preferences and boundaries.   Chapters (please adjust time for the addition of the introduction)   00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage 08:03 Unmasking and Authenticity 12:05 Differences in Perspectives and Communication Styles 26:13 Struggles with Identity and Unmasking 30:05 Levels of Experience and Narrative 35:26 Navigating Personal Dynamics and Self-Reflection 36:06 Closing Remarks PODCAST HOST Patricia was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it's like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller.  Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion.  She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren't alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges.  Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for neurodivergent folks that focus on understanding what it means to be a sensitive neurodivergent. Topics covered include: self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you   CO-HOST BIO Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC has been a psychotherapist for 20 years. She specializes in helping Highly Sensitive People thrive in love, work, and parenting Highly Sensitive Children. Jen is passionate about using mindfulness and compassion-based approaches to ameliorate human suffering.   LINKS   Jen's Links   Email: Jen@heartfulnessconsulting.com   Jen's website: https://heartfulnessconsulting.com/   Patricia's Links   Neurodivergent Online Course-- https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/neurodivergent-online-courses/   Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6   Sign up for the Newsletter-- https://www.subscribepage.com/y0l7d4   To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review”   Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com  

Exploring Neurodivergence in Relationships: Understanding Unique Perspectives In this conversation, Patricia and Jen discuss their struggles with linear content and their values of focusing on relational topics. They explore the challenges of staying true to their authentic selves while creating content. The conversation also delves into the dynamics of their relationship and the growth they have experienced in building trust and security, and things they sometimes find difficult to discuss.   CO-HOST Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC   HIGHLIGHTS   Takeaways   Staying true to your authentic self is important when creating content. Building trust and security in relationships takes time and vulnerability. The value of a podcast is not solely determined by download numbers. Interdependence allows for mutual support and growth in relationships.   Understanding the importance of emotional vulnerability. Exploring newfound perspectives and insights. Recognizing and embracing feelings of exposure. Reflecting on personal trauma and its impact on self-awareness. Acknowledging the significance of maintaining authenticity in self-expression. Navigating the balance between showcasing autism identity and personal growth. Exploring the process of redefining podcast branding and content focus. Embracing the journey of self-discovery and acceptance. Recognizing the value of open-hearted communication. Reflecting on personal growth and aspirations for authenticity in content creation. Discussing the impact of external validation on podcast metrics and audience engagement. Emphasizing the importance of sharing valuable content. Reflecting on personal struggles with content creation and self-expression. Recognizing the significance of relational content in podcast episodes. Embracing the challenges and rewards of discussing personal relationships openly. Exploring the impact of neurodivergence on relational dynamics and communication. Navigating shifts in podcast content focus and listener engagement. Reflecting on the journey of self-acceptance and authenticity. Embracing the diversity of perspectives and experiences in relationships. Chapters (please adjust for the addition of the introduction)   00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage 02:44 Struggles with Linear Content and Personal Experience 08:04 Shifting Focus to Relational Content 13:26 Building Trust and Security in the Relationship 21:18 Navigating Attachment Insecurities 25:24 Interdependence and Holding Space for Each Other 28:08 Communication and Vulnerability in the Relationship 31:20 Planning Visits and Considering Context 34:08 Conclusion and Gratitude PODCAST HOST Patricia was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it's like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller.  Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion.  She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren't alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges.  Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for neurodivergent folks that focus on understanding what it means to be a sensitive neurodivergent. Topics covered include: self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you   CO-HOST BIO Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC has been a psychotherapist for 20 years. She specializes in helping Highly Sensitive People thrive in love, work, and parenting Highly Sensitive Children. Jen is passionate about using mindfulness and compassion-based approaches to ameliorate human suffering.   LINKS   Jen's Links   Email: Jen@heartfulnessconsulting.com   Jen's website: https://heartfulnessconsulting.com/   Patricia's Links   Neurodivergent Online Course-- https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/neurodivergent-online-courses/   Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6   Sign up for the Newsletter-- https://www.subscribepage.com/y0l7d4   To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review”   Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com  

When we're raising kids with big feelings, it can be hard to stay emotionally regulated all of the time. How can we be the parent we want to be when it's hard not to lose our cool? How can we teach our kids how to stay calm when we're struggling with staying calm ourselves? In this episode, you'll learn: Why we get stuck in a “cycle of Yuck” (and feel guilty and ashamed) How your ability to regulate yourself impacts your influence with your child  A simple tool you can use in the moment to get unstuck - even when your children are complaining or melting down  -- Notes from this episode: https://rachelbailey68580.activehosted.com/f/183 Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/RachelBailey Free training for parents with kids with big emotions: https://rachel-bailey.com/longgame/

Navigating Miscommunication and Misunderstanding   Jen helps me process through a communication blip I had with my son. My husband & I have very different styles when talking to our boys, & I felt inadequate, and I sometimes struggle to attune. We talk about context when communicating, projection, who is a safe person to get angry at, & I talk about my own reactivity and confusion at my reaction. Jen reminds me that my family sticks with hard conversations. We also talk about having neuro-normative standards, & how that constantly leads to disappointment.   CO-HOST Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC   HIGHLIGHTS Summary   In this conversation, Patricia and Jen discuss their experiences with burnout and the importance of leaning into rest. They explore the challenges of pushing boundaries, asking for what you want, and allowing others to say no. They also discuss the impact of neuro-normative standards and the power of dropping expectations and starting from zero. The conversation delves into the dynamics of communication within families and the difficulties of attuning to different perspectives. They emphasize the importance of staying connected and working through bumps in relationships, while also acknowledging the need for space and the reality of being imperfect humans. The conversation concludes with a reminder to have grace and humility in relationships and to express love and appreciation for one another.   Takeaways   Leaning into rest and embracing the new norm during burnout can be a powerful tool for recovery. Recognizing and respecting boundaries, both for oneself and others, is essential for maintaining healthy relationships. Challenging neuro-normative standards and embracing individual differences can lead to greater understanding and acceptance. Taking space and allowing for imperfection in relationships can foster growth, connection, and grace.   Additional points discussed: Challenges in attuning to one's child compared to a spouse. Contextual factors influencing communication breakdowns. Impact of burnout on family dynamics. Struggles of young adults balancing independence and parental support. Importance of preparation in family communication. Patterns of miscommunication and receptivity. Emotional release and support in times of conflict. Feeling disempowered in communication dynamics. Need for open dialogue and understanding in relationships. Misinterpretation of messages leading to conflict. Defensive reactions in communication breakdowns. Family dynamics during conflict resolution. Neurodivergence and emotional dysregulation. Rupture and repair work in relationships. Acceptance of human imperfections in communication. Parenting challenges and self-awareness. Generational differences in perspectives on communication. Emotional availability and its impact on relationships. Perfectionism and its hindrance to authentic communication. Importance of self-care and emotional readiness in conflict resolution.   Chapters (please adjust time for addition of introduction)   00:00 Introduction and Checking In 00:48 Coming Out of Burnout and Leaning Into Rest 02:06 Pushing Boundaries and Asking for What You Want 03:27 Navigating Setbacks and Embracing Patience 04:02 Valuing Autonomy and Allowing Others to Say No 05:22 Challenging Neuro-Normative Standards 06:05 Dropping Expectations and Starting from Zero 07:19 Powering Down and Restoring the Brain 08:26 Communication Challenges with Children 09:17 Recognizing Different Perspectives and Values 11:21 Navigating Family Dynamics and Emotional Activation 14:10 Miscommunication and Misunderstandings 15:41 The Impact of Words and Different Perspectives 18:08 Feeling Inadequate and Wounded 19:20 Staying Connected and Working Through Bumps 22:24 Empathic Communication and Paving the Way 25:01 Taking Space and Being Imperfect Humans 26:27 Staying in Relationship Through Messiness 30:20 Having Grace and Humility in Relationships 32:01 Accepting Imperfection and Being Present 35:15 Wrapping Up and Expressing Love PODCAST HOST Patricia was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it's like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller.  Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion.  She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren't alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges.  Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for neurodivergent folks that focus on understanding what it means to be a sensitive neurodivergent. Topics covered include: self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you   CO-HOST BIO Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC has been a psychotherapist for 20 years. She specializes in helping Highly Sensitive People thrive in love, work, and parenting Highly Sensitive Children. Jen is passionate about using mindfulness and compassion-based approaches to ameliorate human suffering.   LINKS   Jen's Links   Email: Jen@heartfulnessconsulting.com   Jen's website: https://heartfulnessconsulting.com/   Patricia's Links   Neurodivergent Online Course-- https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/neurodivergent-online-courses/   Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6   Sign up for the Newsletter-- https://www.subscribepage.com/y0l7d4   To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review”   Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com