Love Where You Are with Somer Colbert

In today's episode Somer and Kelly discuss how easy it is to become purposefooled. Even before the rise of social media which has exponentially impacted this problem, humans have sought after glory for themselves and the extraordinary, as Kelly describes with the Tower of Babal story. We often seek to make ourselves the saviors, the heroes, of the story, instead of giving everything to God. We will run ourselves ragged, wheels constantly spinning, doing all the things, because the mundane and ordinary don't feel like enough. God is meant to be our purpose in life, not the titles we possess or the activities we do.  Thanks for coming to the Love Where You Are podcast! Just for stopping by, here is your FREE downloadable resource from Somer, “The 2023 Proverbs 31 Woman.”  You can connect with Somer through her Facebook & Instagram! Kelly Needham is a busy mom of five kiddos, wife to Jimmy Needham, and author to several books. Click here to buy Purposefooled and click here to follow her on Instagram.  Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit http://www.ChristianParenting.org  

In today's episode Somer and Ann discuss courage as we enter a new year full of uncertainity when it comes to our economy, politics, and the culture war. Ann gigves us seven practical tips for courage, examples of courageous people from the Bible, and reminds us that sometimes God calls us to something even if we "aren't ready."  Scripture reference: 2nd Timothy 1:7 Notable moments:  -God does not give us a spirit of fear.  -God carries us through life's hardships and traumas.  -Living in fear can be comfortable if it's all you've ever known.   Thanks for coming to the Love Where You Are podcast! Just for stopping by, here is your FREE downloadable resource from Somer, “The 2023 Proverbs 31 Woman.”  You can connect with Somer through her Facebook & Instagram! Ann White is passionate about creating resources to help women build their relationship with God. It drives her to create such things as the first female-voiced audio Bible. The female voice is important to her mission, which has reached behind bars as well as in church pews. “One thing in working with at-risk women, it's important to use gender-specific treatment. You don't put a woman who may have been traumatized by a man with a male counselor or a male-voiced program.” "Courage for Life" is only the beginning as Ann works with Tyndale House Publishers on a “Women's Study Bible.” “We should be sharing God and his word, teaching other people, and inspiring life change. Everyone needs a daily dose of God-given Courage For Life!” says Ann. Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit http://www.ChristianParenting.org  

In this episode Somer and special guest Jennifer Dukes Lee discuss the power of journaling and being honest with God. Despite the fact that we KNOW cognitively that God KNOWS everything and we can't keep secrets from Him, there is something that prevents us from opening up that dialogue with Him and being vulnerable... And yet in that vulnerability, we can deepen our relationship and connection to Him, and it also impacts us as mothers.  Notable moments the conversation:  -"Holiness in the holy mess"  -We can miss out on intimacy with God if we keep our distance.  -If you don't process things properly with the Lord, you may end up taking out all the pent up emotion and internal conflict onto your kids or those close to you.  Thanks for listening to the Love Where You Are podcast! Just for stopping by, here is your FREE downloadable resource from Somer, “The 2023 Proverbs 31 Woman.”  You can connect with Somer through her Facebook & Instagram! Jennifer Dukes Lee is a prolific author and calls herself a "storyteller and grace-dweller." Her recent book, "Stuff I'd Only Tell God: A Guided Journal of Courageous Honesty, Obsessive Truth-Telling, and Beautifully Ruthless Self-Discovery" is the catalyst for today's conversation and available wherever you find your books. You can also connect with Jennifer on Instagram on her personal account or the account specific to this book, and Facebook.   Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit http://www.ChristianParenting.org

Christmas is around the corner and while we look forward to gathering with family and friends, there can be opportunity for conflict. Tension in the air and anticipated conflicts are stressful and difficult to navigate. This week Somer and award winning singer and songwriter and author, Mike Donehey discuss ways of approaching conflict, what our true mission is as Christians, and how to get the fork out of our blender. Wait...what?! Thanks for listening to the Love Where You Are podcast! Just for stopping by, here is your FREE downloadable resource from Somer, “The 2023 Proverbs 31 Woman.”  You can connect with Somer through her Facebook & Instagram! Mike Donehey is a singer, songwriter and author. Mike was a part of the Christian Tenth Avenue North but has recently gone into a solo career, and wrote a book titled "Grace in the Gray: A More Loving Way to Disagree" which launches today's conversation.  Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org  

In today's episode Somer and Anthony discuss the ways God grows us in our seasons of life, the need for pause, prayer as our greatest weapon against the enemy, and how our dreams are glimpses of God's plan for us...  Notable moments the conversation:  "Preach the gospel at all times and if necessary, use words." - Saint Francis of Assisi "You can't give what you can't have” - Latin phrase  Anthony points out that your dreams and desires are not the same as God's plan for your life, but they are clues from God as to where He wants you to be and your purpose. God rarely gives us straight answers but glimpses of the road ahead, a divine GPS, so we can seek Him and draw nearer in unity with Him.  Somer notes we are often building our own kingdoms instead of focusing on building God's kingdom.  Thanks for coming to the Love Where You Are podcast! Just for stopping by, here is your FREE downloadable resource from Somer, "The 2023 Proverbs 31 Woman."  You can connect with Somer through her Facebook & Instagram! Anthony DeStefano is the bestselling author of over twenty-five Christian books for adults and children. His books have been published in eighteen different countries and twelve different languages and have been endorsed by The National Day of Prayer committee as well as many prom-inent religious leaders and mainstream celebrities. "Greenlee is Growing" is his latest children's book and the catalyst for today's topic.  Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

In today's episode Somer and Douglas discuss what a liturgery is, why it is important, and how we can intentionally worship God and draw nearer to Him in the everyday moments of our lives--from vacuuming and doing dishes to the car line, all the work we do as moms is holy work.  Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast! Just for stopping by, here is your FREE downloadable resource from Somer, "The 2023 Proverbs 31 Woman."  You can connect with Somer through her Facebook & Instagram! Douglas McKelvey. is an author, song lyricist, scriptwriter, and video director. He has penned more than 350 lyrics recorded by artists such as Switchfoot, Kenny Rogers, Sanctus Real, and Jason Gray. Douglas has a third installment of his liturgy series titled "Every Moment Holy" which includes work from himself and a diverse range of writers, artists, poets, songwriters, pastors, and illustrators to bring you something for the everyday holy moments.  Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast! Just for stopping by, here is your FREE downloadable resource from Somer, "The 2023 Proverbs 31 Woman."  You can connect with Somer through her Facebook & Instagram! In this episode, she is joined with today's guest, Brooke McGlothlin.  Brooke is the Founder of Million Praying Moms, Host of the Million Praying Moms podcast, and author of six books, three of which hit the ECPA bestseller list. Brooke recently released Everyday Prayers for Peace, and Praying Mom: Making Prayer the First and Best Response to Motherhood which speak to the power of a life partnered with God in prayer and they sparked this conversation.   Somer and Brooke discuss the need for patience and God's grace in our parenting, how God uses our motherhood journeys to mature us, and how prayer shouldn't be a last resort but our first response in moments of crisis…  Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org  

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast! Just for stopping by, here is your FREE downloadable resource from Somer, "The 2023 Proverbs 31 Woman."  You can connect with Somer through her Facebook & Instagram! In this episode, she is joined with today's guest, Bethany Kimsey.   Bethany is a warrior mama to eight kiddos as well as a writer and speaker. She testifies that God radically changed her messy motherhood from weary, anxious, and frantic to peaceful, joyful, and triumphant. Her new devotional, "A Warrior Mama's Prayer Journal" sparked the topic for this open and honest conversation in this episode.  Somer and Bethany talk about the battles we fight as moms, the use of prayer in our lives to help win those battles, and the many different seasons we go through as parents, and how we don't need to fix things, most of the time we just need to bring it to God who cares about our everyday parenting… Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org  

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast! Just for stopping by, here is your FREE downloadable resource from Somer, "The 2023 Proverbs 31 Woman."  You can connect with Somer through her Facebook & Instagram! In this episode, she is joined with today's guest, Sandra Byrd.  For the next five episodes, as we are entering the holiday season, Somer is spotlighting authors who have excellent gifts for your loved one or for yourself! Sandra Byrd is the author of more than fifty books. Sandra's work has received many awards, nominations, and accolades, including a starred review from Publisher's Weekly and multiple starred reviews and Best Book selections from Library Journal. Other awards include the Historical Novel Society's Editor's Choice award, two Christy Awards nominations, a Bookpage Top Pick for Romance, and inclusion on Booklist's Top Ten Inspirational Books of the Year list. Sandra is an experienced devotionalist. Her newest devotional, Dwell, is the launching point for today's conversation. Dwell is about being at home with God, which feels fitting as we approach the holiday season and our homes are full of chaos. Somer and Sandra dive into exactly what that means to dwell… and the importance of the home and we build our home as a Mom.  Sandra also shares this verse from Hebrews 11:6, "And without faith it is impossible to please him, for whoever would draw near to God must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who seek him."(ESV) Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org  

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast! Just for stopping by, here is your FREE downloadable resource from Somer, "The 2023 Proverbs 31 Woman."  You can connect with Somer through her Facebook & Instagram! In this episode, she is joined with today's guest, Laura Smith.  Laura Smith is a Jesus Lover, Best-selling Author, Speaker, Wife & Mom of 4. She is passionate about equipping families with a better understanding of mental health and scripture. Laura wrote a book titled, "5 Minute Devotions for Teens: A Guide to God and Mental Health" which sparks today's conversation. Somer and Laura discuss the rising mental health crisis among our teenagers. Laura shares practical ways for us as moms to share Jesus with our teens and invite deeper conversations to build those relationships. Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast! Just for stopping by, here is your FREE downloadable resource from Somer, "The 2023 Proverbs 31 Woman."  You can connect with Somer through her Facebook & Instagram! In this episode, she is joined by her favorite person, her husband Corey Colbert.  Somer and Corey are celebrating National Adoption Month this November and invite you into a conversation about their ten year adoption journey that is ongoing as they parent their precious daughter. They share honest and raw stories from the many experiences both beautiful and hard and offer insight into how God's calling doesn't always turn out as we planned but it is always as He ordained.  It isn't easy to love where you are when God's calling isn't clear or results are far from what you expect, but this is what inspired this ministry and we hope it inspires and encourages you in your current season.  If you'd like to learn more about adoption, check out Somer's new podcast on the Christian Parenting Network dedicated to Christian adoptive and foster familes: Called to Love!  Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast! Just for stopping by, here is your FREE downloadable resource from Somer, "The 2023 Proverbs 31 Woman."  You can connect with Somer through her Facebook & Instagram! In this episode, she is joined with today's guest, Travis Thompson.  Travis is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with extensive experience in addiction therapy. Travis has worked with adults and adolescents diagnosed with severe substance abuse and mental illness. He's worked in both long-term care and shorter-term treatment facilities, including intensive outpatient programs for mental health and substance addiction, as well as outpatient clinics with a family-centered focus. He is also the author of: "To Those Left Behind: Helping Partners and Families Understand and Heal from Addiction." Somer and Travis discuss the difference between disease and addiction, how mental health affects families, and how there is so much hope, healing, and power in learning about the battles our loved ones are experiencing.  Connect with Travis at linktr.ee/travisthompsonmedia Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast! Just for stopping by, here is your FREE downloadable resource from Somer, "The 2023 Proverbs 31 Woman."  You can connect with Somer through her Facebook & Instagram! In this episode, she is joined with today's guest, Courtney Moore.  Courtney is the founder and president of the nonprofit organization, Women & Work, as well as co-host of the Women & Work Podcast. Courtney is passionate about seeing Jesus Christ honored by women as they steward their gifts and leverage their unique potential for His glory. Her recent book is available on Amazon and titled Women & Work, and you can follow her on Facebook or Instagram.  In this episode, Somer and Courtney talk about the many ways that women are working, not just in careers or jobs but at home or wherever God has them… and there is joy and fulfillment in all kinds of work. Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast! Just for stopping by, here is your FREE downloadable resource from Somer, "The 2023 Proverbs 31 Woman."  You can connect with Somer through her Facebook & Instagram! In this episode, she is joined with today's guest, Keri Eichberger.  Keri is an author, blogger and busy mom! Her recent book released this September and it's called, "Win over Worry: Conquer What Shakes You and Soar with the One Who Overcomes." Somer and Keri dive into a conversation about how so many of us are struggling with worry and anxiety, the unhealthy coping mechanisms we use, and ways to conquer it with God at our side.  Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast! Just for stopping by, here is your FREE downloadable resource from Somer, "The 2023 Proverbs 31 Woman."  You can connect with Somer through her Facebook & Instagram! In this episode, she is joined with today's guest, Jason Jimenez.  Jason Jimenez is the founder of Stand Strong Ministries. He is a pastor, apologist, and national speaker who has ministered to families for over twenty years. He is the author of several books, including Abandoned Faith, Stand Strong America, Stand Strong in Your Faith with Alex McFarland, and The Bible's Answers to 100 of Life's Biggest Questions with Dr. Norman L. Geisler.  Jason's latest book is titled "Parenting Gen Z" and it is the topic of today's conversation!  Somer and Jason dive into what makes Gen Z unique, the challenges and hope for parents, some practical tools, and a reminder that we need each other because there is a ton of spiritual warfare.  Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  I am joined with Chris McKenna. Chris is the founder of Protect Young Eyes. Protect Young Eyes is a nonprofit that goes around the country educating schools, churches, and other nonprofits on the dangers of the digital age's impact on children. They are also a movement, aiming to empower parents that “delay is the way” and schools should be phone free zones.  Growing up was already difficult but adding social media on top of it, and it is no surprise our teens are battling insecurity, anxiety, depression, confusion, and addictions. As parents, we have to approach these delicate situations with empathy and curiosity, not criticism. It is not us versus them, it is us helping build and lift them up. Chris and I talk about ways we can do that and its never too late to get started.  Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with Chris and Protect Your Eyes through Instagram and their website.     FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS:  *We want to train our kids to be thinkers, not followers. On social media, it's a lot of following and keeping up with the trends.  *We can try to censor the world as much as possible for our kids but it won't make a difference if they can't become filters themselves. Once they are out of our protective care, how will they protect themselves? We have to teach them why it is so important and give them the tools to do it.  *Best time to plant a tree was ten years ago. The second best time is this afternoon. If you feel like you're too late, you aren't. There is still hope and you can still take charge of your household and protect your child.  REMEMBER: *There is a difference between reacting and responding. As parents, we need to respond not react. *The teenage years of development have high levels of social sensitivity. These are also critical years for brain development that leads into their adulthood.  *We should be building bridges of trust with our kids and not shy away from the awkward conversations.    Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org  

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  This week I am joined by Instagram sensation and DIY expert, Anh Lin. Anh's career in both ministry and interior design began with her desire to turn her own home into a sanctuary. Anh is the author of “Forever Home: Moving Beyond Brokenness to Build a Strong and Beautiful Life".  She incorporates interior design and a lifestyle blog with her testimony and the gospel to bring hope and the love of home to women.  In this episode, we unpack the difficult conversation of trauma. Unfortunately for many, the home is less like a cozy environment and more like the place where trauma began. In this conversation, we discuss the realities of pain, but how God can transform us, and how we can help those in our life who are walking in pain, and how can parent better because our kids are undoubtedly going to face their own battles. Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with Anh through Instagram, her website, or the Hooga Shop! You can also order her new book on Amazon.    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS: -Pain is pain. We each have our own experiences and one's story is not better or worse than the other. Each one is the unique path God has us on. We each have our own testimony.  -Adam and Eve did something wrong and hid in shame. God knew exactly where they were, yet He called out to Him. He invited them out of hiding. He is a gentle parent.  -Parents genuinely love their children and desire to help, but there might be a barrier like lack of trust or communication. Those are the key pieces to a strong relationship.    REMEMBER: -We can relate to those who experienced trauma by being compassionate, patient and being a good listener. We aren't called to be their therapist, we don't need to have all the answers. We are called to show the love of Christ. -God is restoring us. He wants us to thrive not just survive!  -If you have experienced trauma and are seeking self transformation, remember to take it slow and let God walk with you one step at a time.    Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org  

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  I am joined by special guests Willie and Korie Robertson!  Willie and Korie are known worldwide for their reality tv show Duck Dynasty and their family's business Duck Commander. They have partnered with Tread Lively, GND Media Group, and Fathom Events to announce the release of The Blind, premiering in theaters nationwide beginning September 28th. Based on the life of Phil and Kay Robertson, The Blind is a powerful true story of love, hardship, and redemption. The Blind shows that no one is beyond the grace of God, and no one is so far gone that they cannot turn their life around.  In this episode, Willie, Korie and I discuss their new movie release, The Blind, the true story behind it, the impact Jesus had on the Robertson family, and the impact media has on us. It seems like now more than ever that are messages telling us masculinity is toxic and women should stay out of the home. The way God designed marriage and the family are being attacked, especially in the media. Supporting films like The Blind sends a clear message to Hollywood and the world of what we care about.  Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can buy tickets for The Blind or check out The Blind's website to view the movie trailer!    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS: -After the show Duck Dynasty, Willie and Korie saw a need for positive entertainment which is when they sat down to talk about what story they should tell. The story of Kay and Phil was the most important story to tell because if it didn't happen, their family would have fallen apart and there wouldn't have been Duck Commander or Duck Dynasty. Jesus truly changed everything.  -Sometimes in Christianity, there is this idea that we don't have to talk about the hard stuff or our rough pasts. But the truth is sharing our stories helps us become more vulnerable and connected. We can all relate to Phil and Kay's story on some level.  -Building a dynasty of faith starts in the Word. We all know we should be in the Word, but actually living it out is a whole different thing and is so much harder to do.    REMEMBER: -There are so many messages telling women they can do it all, and that's only partially true. You can do it all, but you can't do it all at once--it's impossible. You can be empowered to do that you're called to in the season of life you're in right now!  -The family, home, and marriage are the foundations of society and are being attacked. Standing strong as men and women is crucial.  -We want to blame the world for all the problems we see, but the truth is we're also to blame because we also seccum to the world's pressures. We have to break free of the rat race.    Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  I am joined with Rachelle Starr. Rachelle Starr is the author of Outrageous Obedience: Answering God's Call to Shine in the Darkest Places  which is about how she answered God's calling in her life to reach out to women in the adult entertainment industry and eventually how she started the Scarlet Hope ministry. In this episode, Rachelle shares a little bit of her story and together we explore the ways moms can help raise their children to love like how Jesus loves. There can be a tendency in the church to avoid the uncomfortable or dark places, like the adult entertainment industry, but as Rachelle points out those are the places that need God's light the most. Rachelle also shares some practical ways to make a difference, and how important it is to obey God's call to move from prayer to action. Also, it's never too late!  Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with Rachelle through Instagram, and check out the Scarlet Hope website. Be sure to order her book so you can read her full story!    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS: *Part of Rachelle's story is her parents and how they began a legacy in her by being faithful teachers of the Gospel. The work you are doing right now as a Christian mom can make a huge impact! Not just for your child, but for the work your child could do in the future.  *Jesus asked did you feed me, did you clothe me? That is the question every Christian needs to ask themselves. It isn't what saves them but it is what shows the reflection of Christ.  *Often when we are afraid, we run to what is comfortable. Being a Christian, however, means we don't have to live in fear! And, we are often called into the uncomfortable places.    REMEMBER: -We need to foster a heart of empathy in our children and get them involved early on with helping others. Rachelle shares examples of how she does this with her kids but every family is different.  -You are never too old to follow God's calling! Some people go decades without obeying the call and live to regret it, but even after years you can still answer His calling. It is never too late!  -Even Jesus had twelve disciples! We can't do it alone. We need each other, teamwork, communities, and to disciple one another.    Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  I am joined with Amanda Florczykowski. Amanda Florczykowski is as unique as her last name. When a complete stranger pulled her daughter from her arms, Amanda penned an online caution read by an estimated 60 million, connecting Amanda with a victim of the very predator in the store that day..   Amanda has authored the #1 Amazon book, Unraveled: Mothering Fiercely in A World Full of Fears, is working on her second manuscript, and speaks on topics pertaining to the importance of family strength, memorable motherhood, child sex trafficking in America, the pornography epidemic, and faith-forward ideas all set to the backdrop of her salacious personal story.  Lastly, Amanda is the creator of Able Moms International; local communities fostering capable, unshakeable, and memorable moms which will host its first collective gathering of 3,000 this coming Spring. She has also built Vigilant Families, a collaborative platform of experts and organizations who educate using age-appropriate material designated for audiences of 'children', 'youth', and 'adults'.. In this episode, Amanda shares the harrowing story of how she encountered the human trafficker in her grocery store, and together we discuss the balancing act of facing fear and pain in our world with the peace and joy which comes from God.  Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with Amanda through Facebook, Instagram, Pinterest, YouTube, and Twitter.  You can also order her amazing book!   FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS: -On this side of heaven, we live on the intersection of harsh reality and God's peace.  -There are so many things which could take our child away in the blink of an eye--but God is still good.  -Eve was told she would experience pain in childbirth; she was cursed. But her curse was not just for the pain of birthing, but the pain of losing a child or watching them suffer. This curse, however, came with redemption: Christ.    REMEMBER: -There is a very real threat of human trafficking, it's not something we can pretend doesn't exist in our own communities.  -We each have our own threshhold for pain, whether its physical, emotional or spiritual. God is the one who knows our limits. We can't compare each other's pains to feel one is more or less than the other. We walk our own journeys.  -Sometimes seeing the absolutely darkness and depravity of the Enemy helps us fully realize the goodness and brightness of God.      Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  This week I sat down with Ashlee Gadd. Ashlee Gadd is the author of Create Anyway: The Joy of Pursuing Creativity in the Margins of Motherhood and she is the founder of Coffee + Crumbs - a beautiful online space where motherhood and storytelling intersect. Ashlee has spent her entire motherhood creating in the margins, that means using whatever free time she has to become creative and connect with God through that creativity.  Do you love to write? Draw? Paint? Garden? Each of these are creative expressions and are a result of the beautiful and unique way God has designed you and me. Creativity is great for our brains but also our spirits and can give us new energy and bring us closer to the God who gave us that creativity in the first place. But when we become moms, finding time and margin for those creative outlets can be difficult. Depending on our season of life those margins may be smaller than others, but as my guest on this week's episode, Ashlee Gadd says, start somewhere even if its small. In this episode we discussed: How to steward the creative gifts God has given us Paying attention to the gifts others see in you And how creating every day can actually make you a better mom Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with Ashlee through Pinterest, Instagram, and her website.  You can also order her new book!    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS: *Creating every day can make you a better mother.  *We should be stewarding the creative gifts God has given us; it is an act of worship, honoring and glorifying Him! *Experiment and find your niche! Maybe try painting, and if you realize it isn't for you, try something else!  *Other people can see things in you that you might not see, like your talents--listen to those voices who see your gifts!   REMEMBER: *Kids pick up more what's caught than taught. If we don't want our kids to become phone zombies, then we also can't be phone zombies!  *Assess what creativity does to your mind, spirit, and the physical energy it can provide.  *Assess what is possible in your current season of life. Have reasonable expectations and find your margins. For Ashlee, it means getting up at 5am in the morning so she can spend a couple hours writing. And remember, we are never stuck in one season forever, it will change.  *Start somewhere even if its small.    Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  Today I am excited to welcome my friend Caris Snider back to the show! Caris Snider is a Christian Communicator who shares the hope of God through speaking, and leading worship. She is the author of multiple books including her latest release, Carline Mom Devotional. Her desire is to help women of all ages with their faith and mental health journey. It's back-to-school time and you know what that means...lots of time in the carline! In this episode, Caris and I talk about life as a "carline mom."  Back to school season can be quite the marathon. Life is so busy with meet-the-teacher, last minute supply runs and getting back into a routine as we get our kids to school and extracurricular activities.  In all the busyness, how can we as Christian moms lean into the Lord to keep us going and serving our families with joy? In this conversation Caris give tools to find the sacred moments in the busy and the mundane, practical ways to pause throughout the day and keep God's voice loudest in your heart and mind. Download my FREE resource: The Carline Mom's Guide to Safe Guarding What is Sacred  Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with Caris through Instagram, and her website.  You can also pre-order her new book!    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS: -God meets you wherever you are, in any minute or moment you have, in the coming and going. -Sacred moments are limitless because God is limitless.  -We should focus on where we are right NOW instead of thinking about where we wish we were, whether that's thinking about the future or other wishful circumstances. Often we long for the next phase of life and miss the joys of where God has us presently.    REMEMBER: -Reject thoughts that destroy your worth. We constantly play the comparison game and that is not what God wants for us! We are created in His image and doing the work He calls us to do, we don't need to be anyone else.  -Rest is NOT laziness! We, especially as moms, need to learn how rest is a form of worship and honoring to God! He gave us the Sabbath for a reason!  -Who's voice is the loudest in your life? We need to slow down and listen for God's voice, and we can learn to hear what He sounds like by spending time with Him in prayer and in His word.    Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  Today I am joined by Andrea Herzer. Andrea is the author of Incurable Faith: 120 Devotions of Lasting Hope for Lingering Health Issues. She is intimately acquainted with the hardships that accompany debilitating health issues. She has spent the last 20 years with multiple illnesses, including complex regional pain syndrome (CRPS) and non-Hodgkin's lymphoma. Navigating life while undergoing infusions, chemotherapy, more than 100 medical procedures, and all the complications in between has given her deep compassion for those who also suffer. In this episode, Andrea and I navigate the grueling challenge of how to love where you are when you enter a season of physical pain and suffering. We dive deep to face the questions that rise about our faith, knowing God's love for us despite health struggles and how to maintain and even grow in your faith through it all. We also talk about what we can do when someone we love is suffering, how to best serve them and how it can actually change us in the process. Andrea also gives practical advice to those who are walking in pain right now and how to live an abundant life in Jesus… Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with Andrea through Instagram and you can buy her book!    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS: -What exactly is an "abundant life"? Is it the work we do, the activities we enjoy, our bucket lists? Or is it the spiritual abundance we receieve from Christ, meaning in our bodily brokenness we can enjoy an abundant life?  -Some people think health challenges are a barometer of God's love for us and if we only had more faith then we would be cured; in other words, they might think not being healed shows a lack of faith. These ideas of health and faith are not Biblical.  -Job's friends were not helpful or comforting but they did try to do the right thing. It is easy to have good intentions and still do the wrong thing. When we see someone hurting, the best thing to do is ask that friend what they need from us.    REMEMBER: -Jesus was wounded, hurt, and had horrible things said and done to Him. He knows our suffering.  -When people are being hurtful towards us, we can release those things to Jesus through forgiveness.  -When we are suffering, we need to not make it difficult for others to help. We can feel ashamed to receive help but we need to accept it and sometimes the people who want to help us benefit from being our caregiver more than we realize.    Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org  

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  I am joined with Shaunti Feldhahn.  Shaunti is a ground-breaking social researcher, best-selling author, and popular speaker – but a wife and mom first. After receiving a graduate degree from Harvard, and working on Capitol Hill and Wall Street, Shaunti now uses her analytical skill to uncover those little things that can make big differences in lives and relationships. In this episode,  Shaunti and I dive deep into all things sex and marriage. The timing couldn't be more perfect as I am celebrating my 19th wedding anniversary and Shaunti has released a new book titled "Secrets of Sex & Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference."  Stay with me, friend, because this topic is SO important. Even though it feels awkward to talk about, intimacy issues are often the reason for marital discord and even divorce. As Christians, we need to understand God's design for sex, the importance of physical intimacy and yes, how to teach our kids a healthy and biblical view of this part of the marriage relationship. Now before the conversation starts, I want to point out that much of this conversation centers around a healthy expression of the intimate relationship between husband and wife. Shaunti and I will address sexual trauma and honor that conversation with care. There is so much to unpack! Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with Shaunt on Instagram Or check out her website And you find her new book on Amazon or whereever you buy your books!     FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS:  -Statistics show that intimacy matters a lot even if we think it doesn't. Two humans can have issues but when they are engaging in each other, sending all the happy hormones, it can improve communication and marriage satisfaction.  -Many people feel like there's something wrong with their intimacy because it doesn't look like what's portrayed in the movies. It turns out there are two different primary types of intimacy: initiative and receptive, and both are normal and healthy! It does not mean something is wrong with you.  -Approximately 80% of women are insecure about their bodies, while almost 100% of men LOVE their wife's body! Men want their wife, even with all the "flaws" a woman might think she has. She is adored and her husband wants to love her, but many women don't let themselves believe it.    REMEMBER: -Expectations need to be healthy.  -You need a problem solving mentality in order to intentionally bring intimacy into your marriage, for the sake of your marriage and for the sake of displaying a healthy role model for your kids.  -When a kid asks a question about sex, as parents we need to answer calmly so that the child knows it is always okay to ask questions, and there is no fear, fight or flight, brought into that topic.    Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram!

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  In today's episode I am joined by Jodie Berndt. Jodie is the bestselling author of the Praying the Scriptures series. A speaker and Bible teacher, Jodie has been featured on programs like Focus on the Family, The 700 Club and a host of popular podcasts, and she has written articles for many news and faith outlets. She is also the mom of four grown children with grandbabies on the way!  In today's episode Jodie and I dive deep into the challenges faced in marriage and the importance of prayer in every season. The enemy is hard at work seeking to destroy the family which means we need to be on our knees, fighting to safeguard what is sacred - our marriages.   Jodie offers encouragement through personal stories and shares practical ways we can love our spouses better and pray together to make our marriages stronger.  Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with Jodie through Facebook, Instagram, and her website.  You can also order your copy of new book!    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS: -Common issues couples face are communication, conflict resolution or in-laws but the overarching deeper issue has to do with emotional and spiritual intimacy. Prayer helps in both those areas to deepen the intimacy, bringing partners together closer to God.  -When parents prioritize their children above their marriage, it can destroy the marriage. Research has shown kids with parents who prioritize the marriage are kids with more security and stability because they see that in their parents.  -It can be hard to pray when your spouse doesn't like praying or isn't a Christian, but that doesn't mean there isn't hope or no solutions! It just means you have to take a different approach. An approach that works for you and your spouse.    REMEMBER: -When you don't know what to do, turn to God who can do it. Remember, you don't have to fix it. Sometimes we have to give it to God.  -You are NEVER praying alone. The Holy Spirit is always there beside you; and no prayer is too big or too small for God. Give Him everything that's on your heart!  -Look for ways to serve your spouse. Sometimes it is kindness and selflessness which makes waves in a relationship.    SCRIPTURE:  Malachi 3:16  Connect with Somer!  JOIN THE LOVE WHERE YOU ARE CHALLENGE Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  In today's episode I am joined with JJ Campbell. JJ Campbell is the host of the Along for the Ride Podcast, a weekly interactive show that helps you have more good times with your family while riding in the car together. These fun activities get everybody talking and laughing and before you know it, strengthening family bonds and making special memories.  She's always loved games and gets her best ideas for the show from childhood experiences and playing with her own baby boy, Evan. She says you can make any family experience enjoyable with some creativity and a fun mindset! In this episode, JJ and I dive into what it means to have fun as a parent. We can easily get trapped in the busyness of life, have a mindset of defeat, exhaustion, and maybe we tell ourselves as moms that we aren't the “fun” parent. But JJ reminds us it's all about our mindset and exactly how important it is we spend that quality time with our kids. She gives us some great examples with how to make household chores fun and ways to get your kids using their imagination and building childhood memories.  Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with JJ on Instagram, and listen to her podcast!    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS: *We're always going somewhere in the car to do all the things! From school to soccer practice or whatever after-school activities your child enjoys, we spend a lot of time in the car and little time together as a family. So, how can we use that car time as family time? *We have to be intentional about making time for our family and we need to intentionally make it fun so we keep doing it!  *The fun parent enjoys what they're doing and enjoys spending time with their kids.    REMEMBER: *There is immense value in the simple moments.  *Let your kids be bored! They do not need an ipad but they do need to use their imagination.  *Approach things with curiosity. You just need to change your mindset, whether it's chores or other boring mundane things, you can make it fun.    Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org  

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  In today's episode I am joined with Shellie Rushing Tomlinson. Shellie is a farmer's wife and loving grandmother of six. She fell in love with storytelling as a child when her grandmother told stories of what it was like to come to Louisiana from the hills of Appalachia and set up house in a tent with a dirt floor. And, she had a grandfather who used humor to bring people to Jesus. These grandparents on both paternal and maternal sides, made a big impression on Shellie.  Whether in her books, speaking before audiences, or dropping a segment on her podcast, she loves nothing more than helping bring people to Jesus through humor and storytelling.  Just like how Shellie's grandparents made an imprint on her life, Shellie and I talk about the importance of intentionally passing on your faith to your kids and grandkids. We also talk about her new book, how to seize the good life, and looking at John's gospel in new ways. Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with Shellie through Facebook, Instagram, and her website.   You can also order her new book!    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS: -There is encouragement in knowing God is a personal God. We can see this in how Jesus talked to the disciples.  -You don't have to have it all together. The disciples didn't!  -Run home to Jesus and you'll have everything you need for your kids.    REMEMBER: -Passing our faith to our kids or grandchildren must be done intentionally, it doesn't happen magically!  -John's gospel message shows we struggle but Jesus strengthens those around him. The disciples often didn't understand Jesus, and he would say it again or in a different way.  -We are chosen for this time period in history in our small piece of the earth. You are here for a reason and you matter. You are the right person for this job called parenthood!    Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  In today's episode I am joined with Julie Parido. Julie Parido is a Christ-follower, wife, and homeschooling mom to four wonderful, rambunctious children in a northern suburb of Cincinnati, Ohio. With a Communications degree and Bible minor from Cedarville University and training in biblical counseling, she is passionate about helping children and their parents know and apply God's Word. She is also the author of the new book Draw the Verse.   In this episode, Julie and I talk about Deuteronomy 6, living out that commandment to teach our kids in the way of the Lord. We talk about the importance of consistency, daily engagement with God's word, trusting God with the seeds we're planting in our kids, and knowing we are called by God for this job. Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with Julie through Instagram   and check out her website.  You can also order her new book!    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS:  *If you're feeling unqualified to disciple your children, remember Moses and Gideon! Paul may have been considered qualified on the outside but he did not have what it takes till Christ came along. If you have Christ, that's all you need.  *God will water the seeds you plant in your children.  *There is a weariness we can experience as moms but stay patient and filled with the Fruit of the Spirit.    REMEMBER: -Lean into your resources, like the Bible and the Body of Christ. -Do what is sustainable for YOUR family, but we encourage you to be in the Word daily, whatever that may look like for you.  -Every person has their own relationship with God, and that includes your child. Give your child the space and tools they need to develop that relationship with Him.    SCRIPTURE:  Deuteronomy 6:4-9 ESV "“Hear, O Israel: dThe LORD our God, the LORD is one.2 5 You eshall love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. 6 And fthese words that I command you today shall be on your heart. 7 gYou shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. 8 hYou shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. 9 iYou shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates. 1 Corinthians 2:3-5 ESV And aI was with you bin weakness and in fear and much trembling, 4 and my speech and my message were not in plausible words of wisdom, but in demonstration of cthe Spirit and of power, 5 so that your faith might not rest in the wisdom of men3 but din the power of God.   Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  In today's episode I am joined with Elizabeth Laing Thompson. Elizabeth is a pastor's wife, mother of four and author of the new book  When a Friendship Falls Apart. She has also written other amazing books like All the Feels, When God Says No, and When God Says Go.  In this episode, Elizabeth and I dive deep into friendships and when they fall apart. God has designed us for community and relationships but thanks to sin, those relationships sometimes end in “break-up” and it can be hard to navigate. It can be hard to even maintain healthy relationships, period!   Elizabeth and I talk about the importance of communication skills, spiritual skills, and self-control so that we can be prepared for not if something goes wrong but when it goes wrong in our relationships. We also talk about examples in scripture of broken relationships, forgiveness, and mismatched expectations.  There is a lot to unpack, so let's dive in!   You can connect with Elizabeth through Facebook, Instagram, and her website. You can also order her new book!    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS: -There is a need here, to discuss broken relationships.  -We need to learn how to exercise our spiritual muscles, self control, and communication skills.  -Another person's response is not in our control but it is our responsibility to address problems when they arise.    REMEMBER: -It's okay and actually important to grieve the loss of a friendship.  -It is hard to let people go but sometimes we have to.  -There are examples in the Bible of people in broken relationships (they weren't perfect either!)      Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  In today's episode I am joined with Alejandro Monteverde. Alejandro Monteverde is a Mexican filmmaker, best known for his work as a director, writer, and producer on award winning films. Alejandro's work is known for its focus on family and faith, and he has been vocal about his Catholic beliefs. In addition to his film work, he has also been involved in philanthropic efforts, including the founding of the nonprofit organization Esperanza para los Niños (Hope for Children) in 2010, which provides education and support to underprivileged children in Mexico. Coming to theatres this Fourth of July is Alejandro's film The Sound of Freedom which tells the incredible true story of a former government agent turned freedom fighter who embarks on a dangerous mission to rescue dozens of children from human trafficking. In this episode, Alejandro and I discuss the importance of this topic, bringing it more into the conversation, spreading awareness and shining light on this massive underground slavery that is robbing children in plain sight. It is not an easy thing to talk about but as Alejandro says, "the problem is when good people do nothing."  Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with Alejandro and the film through Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and their website.  You can watch the film's trailer!    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS:  -Alejandro had a shift in his life. He likes to call it "turning 10 degrees." It was a small shift but led to a huge change in his life. It was the way he saw making films--making them for God instead of himself.  -Alejandro loves telling stories but more than that he is telling stories that are important. We need to be sharing these stories that are important too.  -The film covers a dark, serious and real issue in our world but it also beautiful and inspiring. Alejandro wants viewers to get a meaningful but entertaining experience.    REMEMBER: -Parents want to protect their kids but they don't realize that the greatest danger to a child is in the palm of their hand--it's the iPhone, the iPad, the laptop, whatever device it is. There are far more damanging things on those devices than outside the child's house.  -The real problem is when good people do nothing.  -Age appropriate conversations are important. The film is rated PG-13, that is Alejandro's personal recommendation as well, but every family is different. Make sure to have meaningful conversations with your children about what is happening in our world.    Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org  

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  In today's episode I am joined with Sam Black.  Sam Black is a renowned author and expert in the field of pornography recovery. As the Director of Recovery Education at Covenant Eyes, he brings a wealth of experience to his work, having joined the organization in 2007 after a distinguished 18-year career as an award-winning journalist.  Sam is the author of two groundbreaking books: "The Healing Church: What Churches Get Wrong About Pornography and How to Fix It" and "The Porn Circuit: Understand Your Brain and Break Porn Habits." Sam's deep knowledge and compassionate approach have helped countless individuals and families find healing and hope. In today's conversation, Somer and Sam dive into the serious abyss that is pornography in our modern era. Thanks to smart phones and iPads, kids as young as seven and eight years old are being exposed to pornography and pornography today has changed too, becoming more violent and extreme. This is not an easy conversation but a critical one. As Sam explains, it's not a matter of if your child is exposed, it's a matter of when.  Sam and Somer help equip you with the knowledge and tools you need to prepare your child to protect themselves and even be a light to others, and there is still hope if you feel it's too late.   Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  Here is the book "The Healing Church" online resource.    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS: *Four Myths Parents Say to Themselves according to Sam: (Sam debunks each of these)  -My kid is a good kid. They would never be curious. They're innocent.  -My kid would look away! They're respectful.  -The measures I have in place are enough. (such as occassionally looking over a child's shoulder)  -Only boys struggle with this, not girls.  *Turn, Run, Tell. Teach your child to turn away when they see something inappropriate, run away from the situation, and tell an adult or the parent immediately.  *Pornography affects the heart, body, and spirit; and healing should address all of those areas.    REMEMBER: *Pornography is a real threat in all ministries: mens, womens, and childrens. Sobering statistics show that two thirds of men and one third of women in the church secretly struggle with pornography; fifty-two percent of teens are exposed to violent pornography; and the ages for exposure reach as young as eight years old.  *This exposure and repeated pornographic viewing is happening in living rooms, at kitchen counters, and during car rides.  *There is a ton of brain chemistry that goes into why pornography becomes so addictive, how the cycles of shame make it worse, and how trauma or family drama can influence the behavior.    Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org  

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  In today's episode, I am joined with Eric Swithin.  Eric Swithin is the Executive Director and Founder of The Alliance for Ending the Fatherless Epidemic. THE FATHERLESS EPIDEMIC strives to encourage viewers that the epidemic can be solved and we can present the love of God to youth in desperate need of a Godly father figure.  In today's conversation, Somer and Eric discuss the harsh statistics of broken homes and how it leads boys and girls into brokenness and a pursuit to fill a hole in their heart that they can never fill. Eric shares how one of the most important and best things the Church can do is care for the widow and the orphan, and in today's modern world, that means the single moms and fatherless kids.  He also provides practical ways for us to be involved, blend missionary work with daily life, and reflect God as the true loving Father. Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with Eric by watching his film and checking out his website!    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS: -Fatherlessness causes wounds that a person is constantly trying to fill, usually with a pursuit of sexual desires, money, finding a sense of belonging by joining gangs or the military. But these pursuits are empty, and the cycle continues.  -Fatherlessness and broken homes lead to some staggering statistics.  *85% of youth and adult me in prison come from fatherless homes *Fatherless girls are 900% more likely to be sexually abused or assaulted  *Fatherless boys are 14 times more likely to commit sexual abuse or sexual crimes Other issues are rampant, such as poverty.  -The Church is at its best when it mobilizes to fight against the enemy who works to destroy The Home.    REMEMBER: -Meditate on John 16 & 17 -Learn to be aware of the fatherless youth and single moms in your church. See how you can fill a need in their life.  -You can incorporate ministry and mission work into your daily life. These people only add value, not take away time.    Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Love Where You Are is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org  

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  In today's episode I am joined with Brent Dusing.  Brent Dusing created TruPlay to bring beautiful and biblically authentic entertainment to audiences worldwide. Brent is a pioneering, Harvard graduate, entrepreneur with a heart for creating games with God at the center, giving kids and parents an experience that is safe and fun! He has led an exceptional career and God continues to bless his team's efforts to bring TruPlay as an alternative on kid's devices.  In today's conversation, Brent and Somer talk about why a safe, Christian gaming alternative is so critical right now. Kids will spend on average fifty-two and a half hours per week on a device, while kids may only go to church with their parents once a week that lasts about an hour. Our culture is quickly crumbling, and parents should be equipped with the best tools and alternatives to build a stable and strong foundation for their families, so they want to learn more about God and be closer to Him. Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  Check out TruPlay!    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS: *Kids are on devices on average fifty-two and a half hours per week. What are they doing on those devices? Playing videogames, watching Netflix and YouTube. What kind of content is on Netflix and YouTube, is it godly content, is it instilling healthy values and lessons? Usually not.  *We are in a culture crisis right now as the family is being stripped apart. Roughly 50% of Americans do not attend church, which is at a shocking low. There is still hope, however. God is the God of transformation and redemption.  *If your child has been exposed to inappropriate content online (which is happening at younger ages than ever before) there is still hope for your child.    REMEMBER: *Videogames are not the problem. Videogames are a tool which we as Christians can use to help instill these lessons and values to our kids. It's a matter of what the content is and how much.  *We are not a Christian nation anymore. Our kids need Christian support and resources just as much as other nations who receive missionaries.  *This resource isn't just for Christians. ALL people right now are looking for hope and light in this dark time. We have the ability to share that hope.    Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Now, go love where you are and live on mission for Jesus today.   

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  In today's episode I am joined with Jennifer Pepito. Jennifer is the proud mom of seven children and she has been homeschooling for over twenty-five years and it's something she's passionate about. When Jennifer discovered that her second daughter had learning disabilities, Jennifer became an avid student of child development. After learning from innovators and researchers in the field, Jennifer created her own resource for parents called The Peaceful Press, to help parents enjoy homeschooling, feel equipped for the task, and to develop healthy meaningful relationships with their children.  In today's conversation, Somer and Jennifer talk about the fears of parenthood. Fear, grief, bitterness, control, manipulation - all of it is broken by the power of Jesus when we trust in Him and learn to forgive.  Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with Jennifer through Instagram, her website, and you can also order her new book!    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS: -When you mess up as a parent, ask for forgiveness from your kids.  -The dream we have for our kid's childhood is not always what God has in store for them, and that's okay.  -There is frustrating when a need in our life is not met. The frustration can quickly turn to resentment, bitterness, and anger, and we can lash out at our kids or husband. We have to get unstuck.    REMEMBER: -Seek help when you need it, like your pastor, a friend, or trusted family member. Do not unload all of your burdens onto your child.  -Think about your own childhood. Is there something in your childhood that could be impacting how you parent?  -Forgiveness is not the same as justice. Forgiveness is when we let go of the poison in our hearts, and God alone can fully serve justice. We have to trust Him that it will be served.    Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram!   Now, go love where you are and live on mission for Jesus today. 

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  In today's episode I am joined with Mary DeMuth She's been writing for 30+ years with over 45 published books, translated into five languages. She has mentored writers all this time and continues through the Rockwall Christian Writers group. Mary also pioneered a literacy agency in 2022 called Mary DeMuth Literary, where she shepherds writers towards traditional publishing. Mary has lived a full life, loves Jesus, and wants to share that power of redemption with others. In today's conversation, Somer and Mary get real about the heartbreak parents face as their children enter adulthood and make decisions which can cause division. Things like children leaving the faith, choosing opposite political views, or even “coming out” with a sexual or gender identity. As Christian parents, it is easy to feel shame and guilt when our kids choose these paths, wondering where we went wrong, how it makes us look, and how to "fix" our kids. This is a very important topic, as more division increases in our culture and raising our kids in the faith isn't easy. Mary encourages us to love, pray, and listen, and to know God the Father deals with this too… his children have also turned astray, and He can help us get through these challenges. Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with Mary through Facebook, Instagram, and her website.  You can also order her new book! And listen to her podcast.  Special resource! 52 special prayers for your child from Mary DeMuth.    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS:  *It can be really scary watching our kids start to make choices--especially if they are bad choices! We have to let them, especially if they are a full grown adult.  *Our relationship with our child, if its healthy, changes over the years. We go from parent to coach to friend, but yes, we'll always be their parent too. It's just a change in role shift. *When you find division and conflict with your grown child, here are some steps to help: -Ask why, don't assume bad intentions  -Find common ground  -Seek reconciliation    REMEMBER: *As parents, it is our job to train up our kids for success as adults. That means easing them into this new phase of life, not dropping them into it. Gradually granting freedom over time as they grow.  *Love, Pray, and Listen! Your children need to know you love them, not judge them. Your children need your prayers. Your children need you to listen. Even if you don't understand why they're making choices, listening is crucial to keeping the door open to conversations.  *Your identity is not in your children. Yes, you are a parent and have a responsibility to raise them, but their choices do not make up who you are. And, it is okay to grieve a child who's gone astray.    Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Now, go love where you are and live on mission for Jesus today.   

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  In today's episode I am joined with Julie Thomas. Julie Thomas is a wife, mother of two, life coach and author. After the birth of her second son, Julie battled a severe case of postpartum depression. For years, emotions of anxiety, confusion and shame consumed her life, leading to isolation and suicidal thoughts. In her darkest hour, she felt God's undeniable call to share her story with others. With the release of her novel, HOPE Inside Out, and her willingness to be open and transparent, Julie was able to find healing for herself and help others do the same. In this episode, Somer and Julie get real about postpartum depression, the symptoms, the daily live experiences with it, and how to get help. Maybe you're experiencing postpartum depression right now or know someone who is, this is an important conversation to have so we are equipped to handle this mental health issues which impacts so many women. This episode is about loving where you are even in the midst of postpartum depression, facing those realities with the strength of Christ, and equipping us with the information to love new mommas better as they face this.  Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with Julie through Facebook, Instagram, and her website.   You can also order her new book! And watch her short film.    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS:  - 1 in 8 women will experience postpartum depression, and 9% will have PTSD from their birth experience. More information is known about it today and resources to help mothers.  -Postpartum depression can look like you're lost in reality, not connected to time, feeling the loss of the child even if there was no loss. Julie couldn't recognize her own children at times. Confusion, fear, and anxiety levels are high, it is very disorienting.  -The church tells us to rejoice in suffering and choose joy, be a happy perfect Christian. This message comes in complete conflict with the reality of postpartum depression and the daily struggles. It is easy to feel forsaken and abandoned by God.  REMEMBER: -Symptoms of Postpartum depression include loss of appetite, disinterest in usual things, self-isolation.  -Find help. Counseling and community may lead to faster healing. There is no shame in needing help. You are not alone.  -God is always present even if we don't come to Him.    Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Now, go love where you are and live on mission for Jesus today. 

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  In today's episode I am joined with Abbie Halberstadt. Abbie is a busy full time homeschooling mom with ten kiddos and one amazing husband. Blogger and author of the book M is for Mama, Abbie is passionate about helping mamas claim their identities and find simple, doable rhythms for their days that allow them to create an environment of realistic joy and peace.  In today's conversation, Somer and Abbie dive into the battle we face as mothers in our culture, how there is a disdain towards taking care of your kids and building a home, how being a mother somehow robs us from our life or that doing the job of a mom like changing diapers and cleaning up cheerios, is somehow less than. Abbie also covers the motherhood martyrdom and mom guilt, as well as the angry mom, ways to avoid these common pitfalls and how to realize both the joy and weight of being a mom. There is a lot to unpack! Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with Abbie through Facebook, Instagram, and her website.  You can also order her new book!    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS:  -There is a false narrative in our culture is that motherhood is something which gets in our way, takes us away from living our life.  -We are battling a culture of busyness and motherhood martyrdom.  -Lie: Just existing as a mom is enough. You know there are plenty of moms who weren't good moms. It takes work and effort to be a good mom but you are capable.   -There is a big difference between "mom guilt", lies from the enemy, and the Holy Spirit convicting you.    REMEMBER: -Satan has come to destroy families, the heart of spirituality. He is divorcing the concept of marriage and sex away from family, motherhood, and raising children as God designed.   -There is a huge lack of Biblical literacy in America right now, despite the fact there is constant bombardment of information around us. Getting in the word is the best way to know how God wants us to live our lives!  -There are a lot of things labeled as "self care" that are not fulfilling. Yes, take care of yourself, but don't constantly pursue that self-care like an idol above caring for your home. Instead build an infrastructure for your family to keep everyone happy and functioning.    SCRIPTURE:  Galatians 6:9 Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Now, go love where you are and live on mission for Jesus today. 

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  In today's episode I am joined with Tori Hope Petersen. Tori Hope Petersen is a former foster youth letting her Abba be known. She is passionate about foster care reform, adoption advocacy, vulnerable populations, and seeing the love of God change people's lives! Tori speaks across the nation sharing her powerful story, but her favorite form of art and communication is writing.  After a faith-filled track coach invested and mentored Tori in high school, she went on to not only become a Track and Field All-American, but also to join the 3% of foster youth who graduate from college and be crowned Mrs. Universe. Today, Tori is a foster mom, adoptive mom, and biological mom, and works with nonprofits, ministries, and beyond advocating for foster care reform, adoption awareness, and help for vulnerable populations. In this episode, Somer and Tori dive deep into the experiences of foster kids.  Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with Tori through Instagram, and her website.  You can also order her new book!    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS:  -Foster kids feel so lonely, unwanted, and hopeless. The odds are stacked against them and they need us.  -The Bible tells us to love the orphans, and there are different types of orphans, not just the ones whose parents have died. We should love all the children who need stability and hope in their life.  -There is backlash against adopted parents and people who foster but don't let it stop you from fulfilling God's calling in your life.    REMEMBER: -Foster kids are not stereotypes or statistics, they are real people who need love and support. -Hurt people hurt people. We need love to break the cycle and begin the healing.  -You don't have to dive into the deep end with fostercare. You can start by supporting a ministry, bringing a meal, being restbit, and finding out more. There are plenty of ways to help.    Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Now, go love where you are and live on mission for Jesus today.

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  In today's episode I am joined with Brittany Ann.  Brittany Ann is an author, speaker, and founder of EquippingGodlyWomen.com, a popular Christian-living website dedicated to helping women be “all in” in faith and family. Brittany is married to an incredible godly husband, and together they have three adorably energetic little ones. In today's conversation, Somer and Brittany talk about how to follow God's Will when life is out of our control and it feels like we keep making mistakes. The world is so loud and that is a problem when we can't hear God's voice through the chaos.  Brittany dives into the three common myths behind God's will for us, encourages us to spend time in God's word and in prayer, and a reminder that doing life with people can be the most impactful spiritual care you can provide. As parents we are the first and best example to our kids, so we need to show them the peace that comes from trusting God with our lives. Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with Brittany  through Facebook, YouTube, and her website.  You can also order her new book!    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS:  -When the world is loud, maybe we need to take a step back and look at how much time we're spending on social media, letting the world's loudness enter our life. How much time do we spend in prayer and in the Word verses scrolling on instagram? -We are the first and best example for our kids when it comes to faith. What kind of an example are we leading?  -When you are asked who was the greatest spiritual rolemodel and influence for you, how would you answer? Was it an influencer or celebrity, or was it someone in your life?  REMEMBER: -You can't ruin God's plan for your life.  -You can ask for people's opinions when it comes to a big decision but the most important person to ask is God.  -All callings, whether its staying at home or working a career, can glorify God. There is no one shoe fits all.    SCRIPTURE:  Romans 11:29  Eph 2:10  Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Now, go love where you are and live on mission for Jesus today. 

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  In today's episode I am joined by Leslie Means. Leslie Means is founder and owner of the popular website Her View From Home, which features heartfelt contributor stories on motherhood, marriage, faith, and grief. She is a former news anchor, weekly columnist, and has published several short stories. She is married to a very patient man named Kyle, and together they have three fantastic kids: Ella, Grace, and Keithan. When she's not sharing too much personal information online or in the newspaper, you'll find her somewhere in Nebraska spending time with family and friends. In this episode, Somer and Leslie talk about the importance for Christian moms to understand their value in the role they have been given, balancing the juggling act of motherhood, giving grace as we continue to grow and develop as women and as moms what the biggest message Christian moms need to hear right now. Whether you are waiting to become a mom, right in the thick of motherhood or watching your babies grow and begin their own journeys, today's conversation has something to encourage and challenge you.  Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with Leslie through Facebook, Instagram, and the Her View Website! You can also order her new book!    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS: *God is writing your story and you don't get a bird's eye view, but it is incredible when you look back and see how God worked over the years   *Why do we question our ability to be a mom? God invented the family before He invented the Church! He made you right for this job.  *Be honest with your kids. Set healthy boundaries. Be involved.    REMEMBER: *Learn how to discern God's voice and trust Him to move in the unexpected directions He leads you *We're trying to juggle it all but you don't have to. You can lean on one another.  *Knowing how to balance: when to say no and when to say yes.  *Don't wish away time. Embrace your season with your child, whether they're babies or teens! Soak in the moments.    Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Now, go love where you are and live on mission for Jesus today.   

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  In today's episode I am joined with Steph Thurl. Steph Thurling is Executive Director of Christian Parenting and host of The Christian Parenting Podcast. Steph has her master's in youth, family, and culture from Fuller Theological Seminary and has a background in youth and children's ministry. She is co-author of Raising Prayerful Kids, a book that shares easy, life-giving, and fun ways to teach kids to pray. She loves helping families grow closer to each other and to God through meaningful experiences and conversations. Steph is a frequent speaker at churches and mom groups and is known for her relatable stories, practical ideas, and gentle encouragement. In this episode, Somer and Steph discussed:  *The most common struggles Christian parents face today *Ways to make prayer fun for your kids *How to keep a relationship with Christ at the center of your daily rhythms of life *And the key to slowing down and enjoying each moment with your children despite the busyness all around you Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can listen to her podcast, visit her website, or connect through Instagram    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS: *School and church are not responsible for your child's faith. It all begins at home.  *"Never go to the hardware store alone" (the idea that you can bring your kids with you running errands, spending quality time and building memories even in the mundane tasks) *The truth is we do not know what we're doing but you can still be confident because God knows you're right for this job.  REMEMBER: *Your kids are kids. Meet them where they're at! (If they're really little, they might not want to sit still longer than five minutes.) *Make prayer or spirituality part of your everyday moments. (Like on the drive home from school or on a walk to the park) *If you're not intentional with your kids, someone else will be.  Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Now, go love where you are and live on mission for Jesus today. 

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  In today's episode I am joined with Rebecca George. Rebecca is passionate about helping you discover your giftings and talents to be used for the Kingdom in big ways. Rebecca and I discuss the questions to ask as you seek to discover your calling, the value system we place on the things God calls us to do, what hinders us from doing the thing and the importance of understanding our identity so we can discover what God has for us in this season. Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with Rebecca through Instagram  and listen to her podcast!  You can also order her new book!    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS: 3 Questions to Ask to help you identify your “Thing” -  *What matters to you - what  makes your heart come alive - what do you feel that God has naturally gifted you with and wired you to do? *What matters to God - the spreading of the gospel  *What matters to other people - what are some practical needs that I see in the world and how might that connect with the natural gifts and talents God has given me?   What hinders us from ‘doing the thing?' *Comparison *Doubt *Insecurity *Having a right perspective about the character of God     REMEMBER: *There are seasons of enduring in our calling - taking one step after another in a God-ward direction Nobody else this side of heaven was called to be my husband's wife.  Nobody else was called to be my children's Mama. *God is so faithful to give us spiritual eyes to see where we are and who we are and what He wants us to do. *You do not have to be in vocational ministry to be in ministry SCRIPTURE:  Philippians 4:8 - what if we take this scripture and lay it up against our thought lives?   Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Now, go love where you are and live on mission for Jesus today.

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  Do you feel like you're spinning your wheels, chasing your tail, putting out fires all day long, and going to bed feeling exhausted and overwhelmed? If you can relate, today's episode is for you!  Bestselling author, founder of a widely popular enterprise, top podcast host—and busy mom of six—Crystal Paine should be exhausted. Or at least overwhelmed. But she's not. In fact, she's thriving and today she is here to share her best advice to help you do the same!  Somer and Crystal discussed her practical 4 step system to help you stay sane in the full seasons of motherhood, why hustling harder is not the answer and what questions to ask when  you are struggling with your season. Crystal Paine is the founder of MoneySavingMom.com, host of The Crystal Paine Show podcast, and a New York Times bestselling author. She has reached millions with practical advice that has changed families for the better. As a bestselling author, founder of a widely popular enterprise, top podcast host—and busy mom of six—Crystal Paine should be exhausted. Or at least overwhelmed. But she's not. In fact, she's thriving. Crystal is passionate about sharing the strategies and guiding principles she lives by to maximize her time and energy while balancing many responsibilities, staying sane, living meaningfully, and loving life - and today she is here to share these principles with you. Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with Crystal through Facebook, Instagram, and her website.  You can also order her new book!    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS:  -Crystal's practical 4 Steps: *Pray *Prioritize *Plan  *Prep - "I try to never use the word ‘busy' because I feel like it has a negative connotation of ‘I'm a victim of my life'" -If my kids see me upset, they think its because of them and I never want that to happen. I want them to see me living and joyful and happy life, loving the job of being their mom. Burn-out is not good for us or our kids! REMEMBER: -I cannot do all of this in my own strength or I'm going to feel stressed and exhausted. I am not enough but HE is enough. I need Jesus each and every moment of each and every day. -If we feel like our worth comes from our work, we are constantly not going to be measuring up. But if our worth is coming from Jesus…we don't have to do more, be more or try harder to attain His love.  -Simplify the areas of your life where you can simplify: examples like choice fatigue in clothes and food.    Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Now, go love where you are and live on mission for Jesus today.   

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  In today's episode I am joined by Nicki Koziarz. Nicki Koziarz is a bestselling author of several books and Bible studies as well as a speaker with Proverbs 31 Ministries. Nicki speaks nationally at conferences, retreats and meetings and is the host of the Lessons from the Farm podcast. A Bible teacher at heart, Nicki inspires others to become the best version of who God created them to be. In this episode, Nicki and I discuss the seasons of life and how to navigate all the feelings behind it. There are transitions in life, ones we invite in and ones that just happen! That means it is important to know what is within our control and what's in God's. Nicki and I talk about how to find the words to describe what we're feeling, how to embrace it, and be present where God has us. Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with Nicki through Instagram and her website.  You can also order her new book! Or take her quiz!  Would you like to win a FREE copy of Nicki's new book? Click HERE to enter! FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS: *Our bodies give us signs and symptoms when something is wrong with our bodies - the soul also gives clues when something is wrong *One of Nicki's favorite questions: "How's your soul?"  *God is developing our character in these places to match the calling He has given us as wives, moms and women of God   REMEMBER: *Research tells us that we experience transitions in life every 12-18 months *“God, help me to be the Mom they need, not the Mom they want.” *The scriptures promise that when we go to God and ask Him for wisdom, He will give it to us   Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Now, go love where you are and live on mission for Jesus today.   

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  In today's episode I am joined with Jenny Randle and Brayden Brookshier.  Brayden and Jenny each married a sibling of the Randle family, making them brother in law and sister in law but they are also kindred spirits in the world of theology, nerding out over all things God. They geeked out over theology so much that they wrote a book together called Flash Theology: A Visual Guide to Knowing and Enjoying God Brayden is on the Teaching Team at Newbreak Church, San Diego, is host of the "Adventures in Theology" podcast and is Professor of Biblical Greek at Horizon University. Jenny is an author and award winning editor who has dedicated herself to ministry and is currently working on her master's in theology at Asbury Theological Seminary.  In today's conversation, Jenny, Brayden and I talk about destigmatizing that big word: theology. Theology can sound like something just for pastors and professors. Theology, however, simply means the study of God and as Christians we should be studying God! Jenny and Brayden help break down the ideas of what theology is, making it more accessible and relatable, and how to incorporate it into our daily lives and with our kids. Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with Jenny through instagram and her website.  You can connect with Brayden through instragram and his podcast.  You can buy their new book on Amazon!    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS: *There seems to be a vague age parents think their kids will reach when they become "ready" for theological stuff. Instead, we should be encouraging and empowering our kids through open questions and discussion about who God is and helping them form their understanding of Him for themselves. We have to trust God with our kids and trust our kids with God.  *Bible illiteracy is a growing problem among Christians and non-Christians. Brayden sees this with a positive outlook, as an opportunity to help train people in the right mindset as opposed to re-training an old, flawed minset about who God is.  *Where are we getting our theology? Church, friends, social media? We have to vet all these thoughts and opinions through Scripture.    REMEMBER: *Jesus looked at the heart of the matter. It is good to have head knowledge about God, but it is as equally important to have heart experiences with God.  *Brayden says: Share as you grow, share as you go. Share and talk about God with your family, kids, friends, even though you're still learning. We are all still learning! We will never "arrive" at the finish line till we see God face to face, and that means we will always be growing and learning.  *It is okay to admit you don't know the answer. It is okay to learn another person's beliefs and see where they're coming from. Search for the answers and love people where they're at.    Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Now, go love where you are and live on mission for Jesus today.

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  In today's episode I am joined with Rhonda Stoppe. Rhonda Stoppe is an author and speaker dedicated to helping women live life with no regrets. She has over 30 years experience as a mom, mentor, and pastor's wife, and her most recent book is Moms Raising Sons to be Men.                                        In this episode, Rhonda and I talk about exactly that, how to raise our sons to become godly men. We live in a culture that is increasingly blurring the lines of what it means to be a man or woman and it's more important than ever to raise our kids in God's truth for their identity. It is especially important to raise young men who will become the future good husbands and fathers and hopefully model Christ.   Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with Rhonda through Facebook, Instagram, and her website. You can also listen to her podcast and you can also order her new book!    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS:  *As your son grows into a young man, they are going to want to be treated differently. Men desire respect, which can be hard to give a teen under your roof. It is a process to navigate to develop a healthy relationship between you and the young man in your home.  *It's okay to talk about the women's side of the "birds and the bees" with your son! Or anything regarding sex. Make it less awkward and more comfortable, less taboo, so your son can come to you willingly with his questions and you can give the answers instead of friends or the internet.  *"Boys will be boys" is not an excuse for your son to watch pornography. In the digital age, it is not only everywhere but it is increasingly more extreme in its depravity (homosexual, beastiality, etc). We must teach our sons (and daughters) the importance of healthy sexuality, what it is, what it means in our relationships, and why God designed it for us.    REMEMBER: *Be the home where your son brings his friends over! Host all of the kids! People are more important than possessions. They may destroy the carpet or break a vase but they are more valuable.  *Even if your son has wandered, this does not make you a bad mom. Our kids will make mistakes but we must always have the door open for them.    Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Now, go love where you are and live on mission for Jesus today.

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  In today's episode I am joined with Billie Jauss. Billie Jauss is the wife of a professional baseball coach and mom of three young men, she is now an empty nester who is hard at work in writing and podcasting. Billie has a new book titled “Distraction Detox” which helps us recognize our own spiritual jetlag and create a plan for health and closeness with Jesus.                                                 In this episode, Billie and I talk about hitting the pause button on our busy mama lives, making a priority list, and how we can creatively bring Jesus into our lives, no matter what season of life we're in. Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with Billie through Facebook, Instagram, and her website.  You can also order her new book!    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS: *My external distracts were not as powerful as my internal distractions.  *I was my biggest bully. Telling myself: "I'm not good enough" "I don't belong" or "I'm not a good mom" I brought myself down and limited myself.  *Guilty of right-hand syndrome: always raising my hand and saying "yes" to something  *We can suffer from "spiritual jetlag" when we are too busy and distracted.   *There are creative ways to connect with Jesus no matter your season of life!    REMEMBER: *When we are physically, emotionally and spiritually drained, we can't hear the Lord.  *We need to pause. You will never reach a point where you have time to pause. You just need to pause.  *Make a priority list. Here's what Billie's looks like: Jesus Husband Kids   Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Now, go love where you are and live on mission for Jesus today.

In today's episode I am joined with Monica Swanson. Monica and her family live in Hawaii, where she has raised and homeschooled her four boys, three now in college and one twelve year old who loves to golf. Monica also has her own podcast, aptly named the Monica Swanson podcast, and recently published her book “Amazing Kids: Bringing Up Kids Who Love God, Like Their Family and Do the Dishes Without Being Asked”.                     In today's conversation, Monica and I look at the ways to raise amazing kids and what that means. As a parent, we may ask ourselves “are we doing this thing right?” as guilt and shame boil beneath the surface. Monica comments on the healthy balance we need to have, learning to hear from the Holy Spirit to know when we need to put in more work or to know when we are doing just fine. There's a tendency to lean upon rules and the “do not”s of life, but Monica shares a fun and exciting perspective, leaning on a natural process, one with fewer formulas, and parenting towards instead of against.  Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with Monica through Facebook, Instagram, and her website.  You can also order her new book! Or her other amazing book about raising boys.    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS: *When we want our kids to be "amazing" what are we expecting or hoping for? Amazing means a pleasant surprise and full of wonder. Our kids should be full of pleasant surprises and wonder! They should also be rich in character and love God, that is amazing. We should care less about their future career choices or doing well in sports, and more about being this kind of "amazing". This takes less stress off us and them! *If we want to be proud sending these kids into the world, then we must be intentional and focused in our parenting. Do we need to involve them in every after school club and activity, or spend more dinners at home as a family at the table?  *It is much easier to depend on rules and parenting against the world, all of the "do not" do's. But it is far more rewarding though harder to lean on a natural process, trusting God with our hearts, and parent towards what we can do. (example: getting outside and doing activities instead of just saying no to screentime)    REMEMBER: *There is a healthy pressure which comes from the Holy Spirit, a healthy conviction. Differing the healthy conviction from an unhealthy insecurity takes discernment, a discernment which comes from knowing what God says. We can only know what God says when we spend time with Him both in prayer and in the Word.  *Our kids will know if our hearts are not in it. They can see the differences between our words and our actions or if they align.  *Be present in this season of parenthood. The time will go by so fast and you will miss the beautiful moments if you're too busy wishing for the next season. The moments you will look back on and miss are not the Instagram moments.  SCRIPTURE:  Galations 6:9 Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Now, go love where you are and live on mission for Jesus today.   

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  In today's episode I am joined with Andy Dooley. Andy Dooley is committed to empowering today's families as a passionate leader, pastor, fitness professional and father of four. He has been working with young people and families for over 18 years, through sports, fitness, and ministry. He's also a social media influencer with a large established fan base of parents, teens, and kids who trust his message on faith and fitness.                                                          In this episode, Andy and I dive into the importance of God being the foundation of your family and how to do exactly that. We all know the enemy is working hard on destroying the family unit, ranging from keeping us in a constant state of business so we don't have time for our kids or to the kinds of content our kids see all around them with all kinds of agendas. Andy stresses the importance of building that strong foundation through consistent and fun family activities. In fact, he wrote a devotional titled Building a family of faith to help you not feel the weight, stress or pressure to be perfect while making the effort to build that foundation… Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with Andy through Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, his YouTube channel and his website where you can buy his new book!  Andy also has a podcast!    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS: *Behavior is "caught more than its taught." Things like reading your bible, exercising, or playing videogames--if your kids see it, they'll replicate it.  *"We are not the savior of our kids" which is why it is so important to expose Jesus to our kids as much as possible and as authentically as possible.  *The Bible is God's book for us, why wouldn't we read it every day?    REMEMBER: *We can re-define "devotional time" to what it actually needs to be and works for your family. It is:  -not perfect -maybe short -a fun opportunity  *Set the right expectations for your devotion time. Be patient with your kids. And be consistent.  *Do not forget to REST!!! Burn out will not help you or your kids.    KEYS TO BUILDING THIS FOUNDATION:  -Praying before bed every night -Time to just have fun as a family (movie night, board game, walk in the park/bike ride)  -Don't force it.  -Block it out in your calendar, dedicated time.  Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Now, go love where you are and live on mission for Jesus today.

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  In today's episode I am joined with Emma Benoit. Today's conversation is not easy but it isn't something we can ignore, it is all around us and our teens: suicide. Why is this happening to our kids? How do we stop it? What are the warning signs? Emma speaks on this topic as a teen suicide survivor with an incredible story of God healing her from the inside out.                                                                     Emma shares the factors surrounding the suicide attempt, how she was saved, physically and spiritually, and encourages us to break down the stigma of mental health, what people think it is and how damaging this stigma was to her. We need to be equipped with these tools from Emma. Let's begin the conversations with our kids, to know what they're going through, how we can help, and remind them they are loved and have a life worth living.  Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with Emma Benoit through Facebook, Instagram, and her website.  Watch the trailer for Emma's documentary, My Ascension! You can screen it in your local community, click here.  Resources: Call 988 the free, anonymus suicide hotline if you feel suicidal thoughts.  Nomi, a support services in mental health You can find support groups on Facebook specific to your healing journey!    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS: *Bullying can lead to negative thoughts. Cyberbulling is a big problem today. Social media plays a large role in these issues of self esteem and portraying perfection.  *Insecurities, negative self-talk, lies from the Enemy flood our teen's minds (even our own!) causing a constant need for validation and a sense of acceptance. Advice: challenge those lies! Challenge the negative self depricating thoughts. "I am ugly" into "I am beautifully made by God" defeat those lies with truth!  *There is a huge stigma on menthal health. It was the main reason Emma did not seek help. She did not want to be labeled as problematic or attention seeking.    REMEMBER: *Figure out and know your kid's "base line" to help determine odd behaviors, out of the ordinary. Examples: too little sleep, sleeping in too much, not eating, eating too much, losing interest in passions.  *Notice tone and manner changes *Maintain an attitude of genuine concern, instead of becoming accusatory.  *Remind your child: "You have a voice." Creating an environment of no judgement, love, and safety.  *"Everything feels so permenant when you're young" Emma reminds us and our teens that the low points of life are not forever, things will and do get better!  *You are not alone. There is hope and healing in Jesus.    Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Now, go love where you are and live on mission for Jesus today.

Welcome to the Love Where You Are podcast!  In today's episode I am joined with Dr. Jessica Peck. Dr. Jessica Peck is also known as Dr. Nurse Mama. She is the mom to four teenagers and has been working as a pediatric nurse practitioner in primary care for over the last 20 years. Jessica is also a native Texan and clinical professor at Baylor University Louise Herrington School of Nursing.  Jessica is an accomplished author of dozens of clinical articles for peer-reviewed journals, is a regular contributor to parenting magazines, and is a frequent guest on radio and television shows to promote the health of children. She advocates for the vulnerable and underserved children, fights against humantrafficking through education, and wrote a book called Behind Closed Doors to help educate, equip and empower families… This episode is not an easy one. Jessica and I talk about the reality of human trafficking, its many misconceptions, the real risks, and how it can happen to anyone. But Jessica also empowers us with the hope of the Gospel and practical steps you can take to protect your kids. We cannot overstate the importance of this topic, but Jessica and I will take care of your heart along the way.   Thank you for being here today. Now, let's dive into the conversation!  You can connect with Jessica through Facebook, Instagram, and her website.  You can also order her book, Behind Closed Doors!    FAVORITE TAKE-AWAYS: *Less than 5% of human-trafficking cases were from kidnappings. The majority of cases are from grooming tactics, meaning the child knew the person who recruited them and trusted them.  *Recruitment typically happens online through social media.  *The kids most at risk are: people of color, gender non-conforming, and with combined risk factors.  *Risk factor examples: mental health struggles, eating disorders, difficult home life, poverty, history of sexual abuse, learning disability. Anything that makes the child vulnerable, a recruiter can use. *Children in fostercare are at high risk and do not have healthy relationships modeled to them. And children in foster care can get lost in the cracks of the system.  *Human traficking is a sophisticated machine and business. It has moved from the streets to the smart phone.  *There is healing and there is hope in the Gospel. Parents, it's not your fault if this happened or happens. And for your child: God loves you, God knows you, and God weeps for you.  *Maybe you notice these warning signs in your kid's friends. See something, say something.  REMEMBER: -Jessica's 5 Simple Safety Tips to protect your kids online *NO kids under the age of 13 should have a social media account. The Federal Government has legislation to protect kids by making social media companies ask you're over the age of 13. If they click the box saying they are, when they aren't, you're disregarding that safety rule.  *Social media profiles should be PRIVATE. The default on many platforms is public and most kids don't know how to change the setting or that it exists. A public account means anyone can find your child online and all of the child's information they're posting: where they go to school, their friends, hobbies, relationship status, etc.  *Kids profile pictures should not look like a minor. Instead of a personal picture or selfie, think about using a cute animal or geometric graphic of symbol. A Human-Trafficking Recruiter will ignore those.  *Disable geotagging! There is metadata in your photos which the recruiters can use to know exactly where your child is, depending on their pictures.  *Do not "friend" someone you do not know! Even if they're a "friend of a friend" or someone you met online and seems trustworthy. Don't do it!  -Model healthy relationships for your child and talk about what a healthy friendship looks like. For example: no friend will ask you to take off your clothes or make you feel uncomfortable!  -Pray for your kids! Pray for them outloud so they can hear how much you love and care for them. Make your home a safe place, where your child can admit when something happened.  RESOURCES:  Unbound Now Houston Free Training  National Human Trafficking Hotline: 1-888-3737-888  We challenge YOU to share organizations in the comment section! Let's share hope!    Connect with Somer!  Stay connected to Somer and the Love Where You Are podcast through her Facebook & Instagram! Now, go love where you are and live on mission for Jesus today.