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We often picture love as gentle, patient, and kind—but can real love also fight? In this episode, Pastor Doug challenges the modern idea of “nice love” by exploring how biblical love sometimes means standing firm, defending truth, and confronting evil. You'll discover how true love isn't weak or passive—it's courageous, self-sacrificing, and willing to fight for what's right.Support the mission of the Salty Pastor podcast! Visit our donations page at https://pushpay.com/g/thesaltypastor to help us continue sharing truth with a world in need.Discussion Questions:How does the Bible describe love that takes action or stands up for others?When is it right—and even necessary—for love to fight?What would it look like in your life to love with both compassion and conviction?
Brad interviews Chris Hutchins, host of the podcast All The Hacks. They dive deep into challenging the traditional mindset of financial independence (FI), exploring the balance between saving for the future and enjoying life experiences in the present. The discussion revolves around the potential pitfalls of overly conservative financial strategies and emphasizes the importance of prioritizing valuable life experiences while ensuring future financial security. Conservative Goals Discussion (00:01:12) Chris shares his reflections on why many in the FI community may prioritize financial safety at the cost of meaningful experiences. He poses the question of whether we are taking the wrong risks by focusing too much on certainty in our finances. The 4% Rule (00:03:47) The hosts discuss the 4% rule, a guideline suggesting retirees can withdraw 4% of their savings annually. They highlight that, according to guests like Tyler Gardner, our focus on safety might lead to over-saving and depriving ourselves of essential life experiences. Rethinking Life Choices (00:10:44) As parents, they reflect on how the fleeting nature of time with children should influence our financial and personal choices. Chris shares insights on making bold decisions, such as considering taking significant time off for experiences with loved ones. Spending for Experiences (00:14:01) Brad challenges listeners to evaluate where they are spending their money and whether they can invest in experiences instead. The conversation emphasizes that creating memories often yields a higher return on investment than merely accumulating wealth. Importance of Flexibility in Spending (00:40:12) They discuss the benefits of being flexible in both finances and travel planning, underscoring the importance of planning ahead to maximize opportunities for experiences. Key Insights: Opportunity Costs: Focusing solely on savings can result in missing out on valuable life experiences (00:10:44). Flexibility Maximizes Value: Being flexible can help optimize travel rewards and reconcile the costs of memorable experiences (00:36:11). Rethinking Risks: Evaluate the balance between financial security and living fully. Exploring new experiences can often feel riskier, but not taking them can lead to regret (00:15:04). Actionable Takeaways: Regularly evaluate spending to identify areas for investing in experiences instead of saving (00:23:30). Plan trips or memorable activities well in advance to create anticipation and excitement (00:35:02). Embrace the risk of enjoying life and create a budget that allows for valuable experiences (00:14:01). Quotes to Remember: "Avoiding all risks in finance can lead to over-saving and missed life experiences." (00:08:02) "Focusing solely on savings can result in missing out on desired life experiences." (00:10:44) Discussion Questions for Reflection: Are you overly conservative in your financial strategies? How can you shift your mindset? (00:09:43) What experiences are you prioritizing in your life right now and why? (00:14:01) Related Resources: Chris Hutchins Website and Podcast
In this episode, we explore the gift of tears and the importance of allowing ourselves to cry. We reflect on our experiences with crying and talk about how tears, especially in painful moments, can be a powerful expression of surrender, lament, and hope when offered to God. With the help of the Holy Spirit, our sensitivity and capacity to cry reflect the way we were beautifully created to respond to what breaks God's heart. We discuss the vulnerability of crying, the pain of resisting it, and how Jesus crying out on the cross reveals the value of our own cries. Whether you're too tired to cry, afraid to show need, or already feel safe expressing emotion, we invite you to see crying as an act of worship and intercession. In our sorrow, God meets us with love, truth, and the hope that He can actually do something with our pain. Heather's One Thing - Spirit Breathe by Sarah Kroger and Echo Harbor Worship Sister Miriam's One Thing - Beloved Son by Carrie Daunt Michelle's One Thing - Her new back porch! Other Resources Mentioned: Pope Leo XIV's General Audience of September 10, 2025 The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer Journal Questions: When was the last time I cried? What would it look like for me to cry well? Where has my heart been repressed? Where do I need to cry out? Discussion Questions: How did Pope Leo's words change your perspective on crying? How are you tempted to give in to cynicism? In what ways are you self-reliant in this season of life? How can you be an empathetic witness to someone crying out in their life? Quote to Ponder: “Finally, she asks God to give her a gift of tears to draw his mercy down upon the world, and especially upon his church. In one of her visions, Catherine records having been told by God: “If you open your mind's eye you will see that the Holy Spirit weeps in the person of every one of my servants who offers me the fragrance of holy desire and constant humble prayer.” (St. Catherine of Sienna, The Dialogue Study Edition) “We are accustomed to thinking of crying out as something disorderly, to be repressed. The Gospel confers an immense value to our cry, reminding us that it can be an invocation, a protest, a desire, a surrender. It can even be the extreme form of prayer, when there are no words left. In that cry, Jesus gave all that he had left: all his love, all his hope.” (General Audience, September 10, 2025, Pope Leo XIV) Scripture for Lectio: “My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me?” (Psalm 22:1) Sponsor - Beata Home: This episode is sponsored by Beata Home, a boutique-style print shop founded by Katie, a wife and mom of four. The word Beata is derived from the Latin word for “blessed,” and that is her hope, that each piece will be a blessing to homes and families. Born out of the conviction that beauty has the power to evangelize, Beata Home makes it easy for Catholic families to surround themselves with art that reflects their faith and lifts hearts and minds to God. Beata Home offers something for every family and every budget: Digital downloads for instant access and affordable printing Fine art prints in sizes from 8x10 up to 30x40 inches Ready-to-hang framed artwork in seven different frame styles Artwork is printed on museum-quality paper with archival inks, ensuring beauty that lasts for generations. Whether it's a small image for a prayer corner or a statement piece for your living room, Beata Home makes it simple to bring beauty and faith into your everyday spaces. The heart of Beata Home is sacred art, but the collection also includes carefully chosen vintage artwork because all beauty points to the Creator. Visit beatahome.com to explore the growing collection, and as a gift for Abiding Together listeners, use the code ABIDING10 for 10% off your first purchase. Support a Catholic family business and bring beauty into your domestic church with Beata Home! Chapters: 00:00 Beata Home 01:14 Intro 02:04 Welcome 03:58 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder 05:11 The Pain of Resisting Tears 06:58 Crying Out is Vulnerable 08:50 Tears are a Gift 11:45 A Remedy for Self Reliance 13:23 What Happens When We Stop Crying Out 15:25 Crying with Others 17:53 Being Needy vs Having Needs 20:41 Sometimes All We Can Do is Cry 22:54 God Speaks to You Though Tears 24:30 Slowing Down 26:37 Crying as an Intercession 28:46 One Things
Discussion QuestionsSermon Overview Not all who are interested in Jesus are disciples of Jesus (v. 25)Digging Deeper Read Luke 14:25-351. What does Jesus mean when he says in verse 26 that to follow him means hating our family? What other passages in the Bible can help bring clarity?2. Are there any dynamics within your family that can, at times, make it challenging to put Jesus first? How do you typically handle those situations? 3. Verse 27 teaches us that to be a disciple of Jesus involves a willingness to take on the death of self-denial. What are some of the things you might otherwise say yes to, but now say no to, in order that you might say yes to Christ? 4. What is the gain of following Jesus?5. In verse 33, Jesus tells us that renouncing all that we have is a requirement for being his disciple. What does this mean? What does this look like for you? 6. To trust Jesus as our Savior and our Lord means there is nothing he does not have the right to ask of us. Is there anything that comes to mind you really hope Jesus does not ask you to give up? If so, share. How can you determine if that thing is being held on too tightly in light of Jesus? 7. “There is nothing Jesus calls us to in this passage that he hasn't already done for us.” What does that mean? Do you find encouragement from this? How so?8. Think about how you talk about the Christian life to others. How is that similar or different from Jesus' description here?Prayer
Send us a textThe Healing SelfThe Valuable Self | Part 3Senior Pastor Keith StewartOctober 5, 2025What if you could see yourself the way God does? Sunday's message will help you reframe your self-worth through the Imago Dei: God's image in you. We'll explore how early wounds distort our view of God and ourselves. You'll come away with practical steps for breaking free of self-defeating patterns, reclaiming dignity, and treating others (and yourself) as sacred. Come discover the God Who delights in and made you a unique reflection of Himself._________DISCUSSION QUESTIONS 1. When you hear the phrase “made in the image of God,” what does that mean to you personally? 2. How have early relationships (family, parents, teachers, friends) shaped the way you view yourself, or even the way you view God? 3. Why is it so important to distinguish between denying selfishness and denying self? How has that misunderstanding caused harm for some Christians? 4. C.S. Lewis said, “You have never met a mere mortal.” How might this truth affect the way you see others, especially the marginalized, overlooked, and mistreated? 5. What lies have you believed about your worth, and what truths from God's Word can you use to replace them? 6. Adoption in Christ means intimacy, security, and belonging. Which of these speaks most to you right now, and why?
Between toddler tantrums, potty training battles, and endless power struggles, the preschool years can feel like the wild west of parenting. Today Karen is answering your preschool questions with her trademark practical tips, reminding us that structure, consistency, and patience go a long way. Above all, your daily walk with the Lord is what will sustain you during these exhausting and beautiful years!Episode Recap:My husband and I are at our wit's end with our strong-willed 4 year old's tantrums (6:11)Take a deep dive into the temperaments to learn how to discipline your child (7:00)My husband's job keeps him away from home often, how can I help my young children cope? (10:30)Help! Potty training is driving me nuts! (14:54)How do I help my 3 year old regulate his emotions? (17:40)Giving in to a tantrum makes it worse 100% of the time (19:00)Everything is an argument with my four year old, any advice? (23:22) Your walk with the Lord truly does make a difference (27:49)Scripture: Galatians 5:22–23“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.”Discussion Questions:How do you usually respond when your preschooler throws a tantrum? Is it working? Is there a new strategy you could try this week?Karen shared the importance of structure. What does a typical day look like in your home, and how could a little more routine help your preschooler?When your spouse travels or works long hours (or if you are co-parenting and splitting time between parents), how can you help your kids feel connected to their parent who is away?Potty training can be one of the most frustrating seasons. What's worked (or not worked) in your family, and how do you keep patience in the process?Karen reminded us that we need to lean on the Holy Spirit's fruit to parent well. Which “fruit” do you most need to pray for in this season? Let's pray for one another this week!Resources:We are booking for 2026! Reach out to bring Karen's wisdom to the moms in your community: https://birdsonawiremoms.com/book-karen-to-speakLearn more about temperaments in our most recent episode with Kathleen Edelman: https://wiretalk.transistor.fm/episodes/470-why-your-child-s-wiring-mattersSend us your question! Use the Ask Karen function in the BOAW Moms app: App Store: https://apps.apple.com/md/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927 Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.subsplashconsulting.s_JVZ5JB&hl=en_US
Politics today often feels less like problem-solving and more like outrage on repeat. In this episode, Pastor Doug looks past the noise to explore how faith can guide us in discerning truth from anger. You'll be challenged to think critically, resist the pull of outrage culture, and anchor your perspective in biblical wisdom instead of political chaos.Support the mission of the Salty Pastor podcast!Visit our donations page at https://pushpay.com/g/thesaltypastor to help us continue sharing truth with a world in need.Discussion Questions:How can you tell the difference between someone seeking truth and someone just venting anger?What role should your faith play in shaping your response to politics and cultural debates?How can you engage political conversations in a way that reflects biblical wisdom and love?
As Paul addresses order within the church, he outlines specific boundaries for women that are not rooted in competence or experience, but in God's ordained structure of authority. He emphasizes that there is both protection and blessing in embracing our God-given roles, not only within our homes but also in the life of the church. In Session Four of Entrusted, we explore Scripture's instruction for women as they pursue a life marked by godliness.Verses Used:1 Timothy 2:9-101 Peter 3:3-41 Timothy 2:11-15Genesis 2:18 & 21-23Genesis 3:27-28Genesis 3:9Discussion Questions:How does Paul want women to adorn themselves in 1 Timothy 2:9? Why do you think this matters, and how can this verse be applied in present day?What does Paul say should accompany a woman who makes a claim to godliness in 1 Timothy 2:10?As a believer, why are good works important, and what should be the result of our good works? (See Ephesians 2:10 and Matthew 5:14-16?Why does Paul say he does not allow a woman to exercise authority over a man, and to what contexts does this statement apply?What are possible interpretations of 1 Timothy 2:15 where it says, “women will be preserved through the bearing of children?” Which do you think is most valid?
Brad welcomes Aubrey Williams, a financial advisor and member of the ChooseFI community. They discuss innovative strategies for financial independence (FI), focusing on flexible withdrawal rates, dynamic spending adjustments using historical analysis, and how adopting a more adaptable mindset can potentially lead to earlier FI. Timestamps & Discussion Topics: 00:00:00 Intro to Financial Independence Overview of the FI journey and the community's philosophy. 00:03:00 Aubrey's Background Aubrey shares his journey from a corporate career to becoming a financial advisor, emphasizing experiences with the FI community. 00:15:00 Understanding Withdrawal Rates Discussion on the traditional 4% withdrawal rule and its limitations; the importance of knowing what your portfolio should allow you to spend. 00:18:04 The Forces Influencing Spending Recognizing the various external influences that shape financial decisions and how awareness can help mitigate these. 00:29:57 Community Engagement—CampFI and Meetups The value of attending CampFI and other local FI meetups for motivation and networking, enhancing personal journeys toward financial independence. 00:53:00 Risk-Based Guardrails Explained Introducing the concept of risk-based guardrails to adjust spending dynamically based on portfolio performance. Key Quotes: "Adjusting spending when your portfolio hits a certain number is key for financial confidence. Historical analysis provides the guidance you need." - Aubrey (00:20:18) "Stay aware of the powerful forces that influence your financial decisions." - Aubrey (00:18:04) "Reaching FI requires a mindset shift towards thoughtful spending." - Aubrey (00:38:26) Actionable Takeaways: Understand Your Spending: Regularly evaluate your monthly expenses to identify areas to cut back, as small reductions can significantly lower your FI target. Utilize Historical Analysis Tools: Use resources like FIREcalc or Engaging Data to guide your financial decisions and explore various withdrawal strategies. Engage with the Community: Attend local meetups or events like CampFI to build relationships with others on a similar path, gaining insights and encouragement. Related Resources: Open Path Financial - Financial planning services by Aubrey. CampFI - Community events for personal finance enthusiasts. Projection Lab - Financial modeling tools. Discussion Questions: How can adjusting your spending habits affect your journey towards financial independence? What are some effective strategies for managing your withdrawal rate in retirement? How can community gatherings like CampFI enhance your understanding of financial independence? Action Items: Calculate your FI number based on your current expenses and savings rates. Download resources provided at Open Path Financial to better understand risk-based guardrails. Join a local FI meetup to connect with others and share insights about your financial journey. This episode provides insightful perspectives on achieving financial independence through flexible spending and community engagement. Listeners are encouraged to adopt a more dynamic approach to their finances, making use of historical tools and community resources to enhance their journey toward FI.
Send us a textThe Healing SelfThe False Self | Part 2Senior Pastor Keith StewartSeptember 28, 2025We all wrestle with the temptation to project a version of ourselves that hides our true fears, flaws, and struggles. As a result, many of us chase after approval, admiration, and accomplishments to fill the deep need of belonging. Pastor Keith shows how true freedom comes not through pretense, but by being fully known by God and anchored in His acceptance. Discover how to let down the mask and recover the true self God designed you to be._____________Discussion Questions 1. Where do you notice yourself most tempted to “wear a mask” or live out of a false self? 2. Why do you think seeking admiration, appearance, or accomplishments can feel so rewarding but ultimately leave us empty? 3. How does it change your perspective to realize that God is never disappointed in you because He already knows you completely? 4. What “useful lies” have you believed about yourself, and how have they shaped your behavior? 5. How has genuine community (friends, family, church) helped you see the “real you”? What makes an authentic community both risky and essential? 6. What is one practical step you can take this week to live more vulnerably and authentically with God, yourself, or others?
Sermon NotesI. IntroductionJoseph Campbell (not a Christian, but a student of mythology/religion) observed:“What we are looking for is a way of experiencing the world that will open to us the transcendent...”Human beings are incurably spiritual—we seek transcendence.Some through traditional religions (Christianity, Buddhism, Judaism, Islam).Others through mindfulness, energy work, nature, etc.Two key points:Affirm the desire for transcendence—it is real and God-given.Learn to discern authentic transcendence from false or self-referential spirituality.II. The Text: Exodus 2:23–3:12Context: Moses in Midian, tending sheep near Horeb.Not seeking a spiritual encounter; God initiates it.Key Question: What can we learn about genuine transcendent encounters?Two themes: Person and Paradox.III. The PERSON Moses EncounteredThe Angel of the LORD (v. 2)More than just an angel → identified with God Himself.Possibly the pre-incarnate Christ (Word/Logos).Authentic TranscendenceEncounter with someone other than himself.Not self-discovery or inner potential—real personhood beyond Moses.God is personal, not impersonal force/energy.The Burning Bush SymbolismFire = light, warmth, purification, judgment.Bush not consumed → God is self-sustaining, absolute reality, source of all existence.Childlike question: “Who created God?” → answer: no one. He is the source.Authentic transcendence = encountering the self-existent God who draws near.IV. The PARADOX of God's PresenceGod Knows Moses by Name (v. 4)God is relational, loving, intimately aware of Moses' story.God's nature = love and relationship.But… God's Holiness Creates Distance (v. 5)“Do not come near; take off your sandals, for this is holy ground.”Holiness = God's otherness + moral purity.Human corruption (sin) incompatible with holiness.Illustration: fresh snow → pure → later becomes dirty slush.Result: God is both near and distant → paradox.Resolution of the ParadoxGod Himself provides the way for humans to approach.In Moses' case: humility (remove sandals).Later: OT sacrificial system.Ultimately: Jesus Christ.His cross removes sin barrier.Makes access to God's holy presence possible.Application: Spirit is HOLY; without Christ we would be consumed, with Christ we receive Him with joy.V. ConclusionWe are spiritual beings with souls that crave transcendence.Not every spirituality satisfies—self-focused versions fall short.At the burning bush, Moses encountered:Absolute reality.A personal God.Holy presence made accessible by God's provision.Our souls find satisfaction only in the Triune God—Father, Son, Spirit.Call: Don't settle for less than the real.Discussion Questions:How would you define transcendence? Have you had any experiences in your life that you would describe as transcendent?If, as the sermon suggests, genuine spirituality is not self-referential (simply connecting with more of yourself), is deeper self-knowledge still important? If so, where is it found? Is there a connection between encountering the real God and discovering the real self? How so?Read Exodus 3:3-4. Do you believe it is significant that God did not call to Moses until he turned aside to see the strange sight? Do you think God would have still spoken to Moses if he had not turned aside? How might this speak to the lack of encounters with God that many experience today? As you reflect on that, consider Elizabeth Barrett Browning's poem:Earth's crammed with heaven,And every common bush afire with God,But only he who sees, takes off his shoes,The rest sit round it and pluck blackberries,And daub their natural faces unaware.Read Exodus 3:7-12. What was the ultimate purpose of Moses' encounter with God at the Burning Bush? What was God's purpose for revealing himself to Moses? Is there a link today between our personal encounters with God and a greater purpose like mission?Questions?Do you have a question about today's sermon? Email Randy Forrester ().
Discussion QuestionsSermon Overview The Pharisees were too busy building their own kingdom to bother with following Jesus in his. Digging Deeper Read Luke 14:1-241. We can all, at times, find ourselves living for the “kingdom of self” rather than for the Kingdom of God. What are some of the ways you see that happen in your life? (e.g., work, responsibilities, possessions, activities, etc.)2. How does a greater focus on the Kingdom of God (with a corresponding decreased focus on the “kingdom of self”) lead to greater compassion for others?3. What are places and situations where you may be tempted to care too much about what others think of you? (e.g., work, school, neighbors, friends, kids' abilities, etc.)4. Why is it liberating to be freed from living for the recognition of others? What difference will that make at work? Home? Church? Evangelism?5. In verses 13-14a, Jesus encourages us to pursue a generosity that will not be repaid in this life. What could it look like to show compassion and generosity to “the poor, the crippled, the lame (and) the blind”? 6. Jesus promises in verse 14b a reward for moving towards those who can give you nothing in return. What is the reward? Is it motivating? Why or why not?7. “Live for the line, not for the dot” is a common phrase in the history of CrossWay that captures the desire to live now for the life to come (the line) and not for the short few years we have on earth (the dot). If we believe this to be good, how can we help one another pursue it? 8. It is a tragic and grievous reality that many around us fail to heed the invitation into the kingdom Jesus has inaugurated because they are consumed with the things of this world. What might it look like for us (in an appropriate manner) to “compel” those outside the kingdom to lay down their excuses and come join “the banquet” of the kingdom? Prayer
The story of the church begins in the book of Acts. From the risen Christ commissioning His disciples, to Pentecost and the spread of the gospel, the early Christians turned the world upside down. In this lecture, we'll explore the foundation of church history: the mission of the apostles, the convictions of the first believers, and the sacrifices of the martyrs.This is the first lecture in our Christian History and Theology Course. Together, we'll see how faithful, flawed, but fruitful saints carried the gospel from Jerusalem to the ends of the earth—and why their story still matters today.Topics Covered: Why church history matters todayActs as the first “history book” of the churchThe mission of the apostles and the Great CommissionConvictions of the early church (prayer, Scripture, baptism, Lord's Supper, discipleship)How persecution and martyrdom shaped ChristianityWhy the early church is our story as believers today.Subscribe for more lectures in this series on church history. Join the discussion in the comments and share this video with a friend!Discussion Questions: 1. Do you agree that it is hard to study church history? Why do you think this is the case?2. How does studying church history help you contend for the faith?3. What role do you play in the history of the church? Do you see yourself as someone called to carry the torch of taking the gospel to the ends of the earth?4, The early church was marked by prayer, Scripture, baptism, the Lord's Supper, and caring for the poor. Which of these convictions do you think modern churches practice well? Which are often neglected? A. What role do you play in encouraging your church to look more like the church in Acts?5. When you hear about the death of the Martyrs, what is your first response?6. The church of Acts “turned the world upside down” (Acts 17:6). What would it look like for today's church to do the same in our culture? Support Emet Ministries, so we can continue to provide content and resources to help disciples become disciplers: https://veritas-ministry-415223.churchcenter.com/giving#churchhistory #earlychurch #bookofacts #Christianity #discipleship #Martyrs #BibleStudy #christianfaith #HistoryOfTheChurch #christianhistory
In this teaching, Pastor JD unpacks one of our core values as a community: Jesus leads us to the table.Throughout the Gospels, Jesus is constantly eating with others—at a meal, going to a meal, or coming from a meal. These table gatherings weren't just social moments; they were places of healing, forgiveness, teaching, and belonging. Jesus took what people expected to experience in the temple and brought it to ordinary tables, transforming them into sacred spaces.At North City, we believe the same is true today. Around tables—whether at Brunch Church, Dinner Church, microchurches, or in our homes—we experience God's presence, welcome the stranger, and live out the priesthood of all believers.✨ Key Themes in This Teaching: • Why meals were central to Jesus' ministry • How the early church carried this forward in homes and community tables • What it means for us to be a “table church” today • The call to hospitality—turning strangers into neighbors and friends • Living as co-creators with Jesus in everyday spaces
Coleton began with a story about accidentally cutting himself with his dad's pocketknife. Just like with the knife, he wants to handle this text carefully because it's often misunderstood—either leading people to miss out on what Jesus promises or to become disillusioned when prayer doesn't seem to work. ⸻ 1. What Is Jesus Actually Saying? • Jesus says: “Truly I tell you…” — a phrase He uses in other places where the words were fulfilled literally (Peter's denial, eternal life, heaven and earth passing away). • Therefore, we should not reinterpret His words about prayer and mountains to mean something symbolic. • Jesus also says “anyone” and “whatever you ask,” which expands the promise beyond just the disciples. • The phrase “moving mountains” was a common Jewish saying about impossible tasks, showing Jesus meant bold prayers that seem impossible. Quote: • “Moving mountains” became a figure of speech for a task that was considered virtually impossible. — Background Commentary ⸻ 2. How Did the Disciples Respond? • The disciples didn't reinterpret Jesus—they prayed boldly in Acts. • They spoke directly to mountains (sickness, persecution, demons, even death) and God responded powerfully. • Examples: Acts 3 (healing), Acts 9 (raising Tabitha), Acts 16 (casting out spirits), James 5 (prayer of faith heals the sick). • The evidence shows they took Jesus at His word and practiced it literally. ⸻ 3. Why Don't We Experience This Today? • Many don't expect God to act powerfully anymore because: • Lack of faith (James 4:2) • Selfish motives (James 4:3) • Broken relationships (1 Peter 3:7) • Cherishing sin (Psalm 66:18–19) • Lack of persistence (Luke 18) • We've been taught to reinterpret Jesus, so our expectation for prayer is low. • Doubt is a major barrier: doubting that prayer works, that God hears us, or that He will act. Quote: • “Two thousand years of exegesis have successfully explained away texts like these… They have awkwardly suppressed the fact that the Bible clearly presents healing and miracles as something Jesus and the early church practiced and expected…” — Ulrich Luz, paraphrased by Frederick Dale Bruner ⸻ 4. How Do We Grow in Faith for Prayer? • Fight doubt by deepening trust in God's character through Scripture and prayer. • Ask God to increase your faith. • Surround yourself with people of strong faith. • Read accounts of powerful prayer in history. (Great book: E.M. Bounds —On Prayer) • Seek God's will for what you're praying—He will reveal it. ⸻ 5. Don't Settle for Less • Jesus gave His life to give us access to God in prayer—why would He do this if our prayers were powerless? • Don't reinterpret Jesus' words to fit your experience. Instead, pursue the experience Jesus promised. • There is real power in prayer when we remove hindrances, pray in faith, and seek God's will. Discussion Questions: 1. What stood out to you from Sundays message? 2. How does looking at the way the disciples prayed in the book of Acts shape your confidence in Jesus' words about prayer? 3. Of the hindrances to prayer which do you most relate to? Why? 4. Do you think doubt is a bigger struggle with God's ability or His willingness? 5. Who in your life strengthens your faith when you struggle with doubt?
This sermon, “Believe Against Hope,” centers on Romans 4 and Abraham's journey of faith, urging believers to trust God amid seemingly hopeless situations. The message emphasizes that God's promises are received not through perfect obedience to religious laws but through persistent faith, even in seasons of doubt, delay, and human error. Drawing from Abraham's story—who waited decades for God's promise and questioned God's plan—the sermon assures listeners that God's faithfulness endures beyond circumstances. Hope is found in the resurrection of Christ; because the tomb is empty, anything is possible, and believers can face every valley and trial with confidence in God's daily mercies and unfailing love. ### Detailed Notes- Paul in Romans 4 highlights Abraham as an example of unwavering faith despite impossible circumstances, urging believers to trust God when life seems hopeless.- Faith is presented not as perfection but as persistence; Abraham doubted, questioned, and even tried to act on his own, yet God remained faithful to His promise.- The promise to Abraham and his descendants was given before the Law. This communicates that God's blessing and inheritance come through faith, not adherence to religious rules.- God's process: Abraham left his home at age 75, waited 10 years without seeing the promise fulfilled, took matters into his own hands, and received God's reassurance and correction. Ultimately, the promise was fulfilled 25 years after the initial calling.- Paul teaches that in hopeless seasons—when all earthly possibilities are exhausted/failed—believers are called to “believe against hope,” trusting an unseen but faithful God.- Abraham's journey illustrates that questioning, doubting, or laughing at God's promise (e.g., both Abraham and Sarah did this) does not disqualify one from God's plan. Human error and delay do not nullify God's faithfulness.- The resurrection (“the empty tomb”) is the foundation of Christian hope. If Jesus rose from the dead, anything is possible, and all of God's promises are trustworthy and complete.- Suffering is not a sign of God's absence or disfavor; rather, enduring difficulty can shape character and lead to a deeper hope (Romans 5:1-5).- God's faithfulness is daily (“new mercies every morning”), enabling believers to face each day's challenges with hope, regardless of past or present struggles.***### Practical Applications- Practice trusting God's promises, even when outcomes are delayed or seem impossible.- When facing uncertainty, take the next step of obedience, even without full clarity about the future.- Accept that faith does not require perfection. It's okay to question, struggle, or feel weak—continue relying on God's character.- Remember God's mercies are new every morning. Start each day by thanking God for His faithfulness and asking for fresh hope.- When tempted to “fix” circumstances through human effort, pause and pray for trust and guidance rather than immediate solutions.- In suffering, look for how God is developing endurance and deeper character rather than assuming abandonment.- Share burdens with trusted believers—bring hopeless situations to God in prayer and be open to encouragement from the faith community.***### Discussion Questions1. Where in your life do you feel hopeless or unsure about God's promises?2. What do you find most difficult about waiting on God's timing?3. How have you experienced God's faithfulness after a season of doubt or failure?4. Why is it important that Abraham's promise came before the Law? How does this shape your view of God's grace?5. How can the resurrection give you hope in your current circumstances?6. What practical steps can you take this week to “believe against hope” in a challenging area?7. How does your faith community encourage or challenge you to trust God in trials?8. How do you respond when God's answer isn't quick or clear? What might need to change in your approach?9. In what ways can you remind yourself and others of God's “new mercies” each day?10. What stories from your own life can encourage someone else who feels hopeless right now?
In this powerful exploration of Proverbs 8, we discover the profound personification of wisdom as a woman calling out to humanity. This chapter invites us to seek wisdom above all earthly treasures, reminding us that true understanding comes from God. We're challenged to consider how often we chase after material wealth when the richest prize - divine wisdom - is freely offered. The passage beautifully illustrates wisdom's role in creation, standing alongside God as the world was formed. This imagery evokes Christ as the embodiment of God's wisdom, present from the beginning. As we reflect on this, we're encouraged to see Jesus as the ultimate source of wisdom in our lives. How might our decisions change if we consistently sought His guidance? This message urges us to prioritize spiritual insight over worldly knowledge, reminding us that in finding wisdom, we find life itself.### Sermon Notes:#### Introduction:- **Scriptural Focus:** Proverbs 8:1-5; wisdom is personified as a woman calling out to mankind.- **Prayer:** Opening prayer thanking God for His presence and guidance, specifically asking for wisdom.#### Main Themes:1. **Personification of Wisdom:** - Wisdom is depicted as a woman whose counsel brings life. - Proverbs often personifies wisdom as a guide and teacher.2. **The Role of Proverbs:** - Proverbs are guidelines, not commandments, designed to keep us on a righteous path by providing moral and practical guidance. - The poetic nature of Proverbs enriches its teachings.3. **Message of Active Listening:** - Wisdom and understanding are calling; it is imperative for us to listen and apply these teachings to our lives. 4. **Wisdom's Offerings:** - Offers prudence and sense—qualities necessary for godly living. - Prudence involves practical wisdom and foresight, while sense denotes insight and self-discipline.5. **Contrast Between Wisdom and Worldly Teachings:** - Wisdom speaks noble truths, whereas worldly teachings, as outlined in 2 Timothy, can lead astray. - The world often elevates education over genuine wisdom, leading to corruption and misunderstanding.6. **Material Wealth vs. Spiritual Insight:** - Wealth is temporary and cannot satisfy the deeper longing for meaning and purpose. - Wisdom provides lasting value and guides one in the proper use of material resources.7. **Wisdom's Divine Origin:** - Wisdom was with God at the beginning of creation. - This section parallels teachings in the New Testament about Christ's divinity and the eternal nature of wisdom.8. **Final Exhortation:** - A call to seek wisdom and instruction actively—“finding wisdom is equated to finding life.”#### Practical Applications:1. **Cultivate Active Listening:** - Pay attention and be attentive to wisdom's call in everyday life. - Reflect on areas in your life where wisdom can be applied more effectively.2. **Prioritize Spiritual Wealth:** - Focus on gaining wisdom and understanding over accumulating material wealth. - Evaluate where your resources (time, money, effort) are being invested to shift towards spiritual pursuits.3. **Embrace Counsel and Correction:** - Be open to receiving godly advice and correction as part of personal growth. - Ensure regular scripture reading and prayer for aligning with God's wisdom.#### Discussion Questions:1. How can we better position ourselves to hear and respond to wisdom's call in our daily routines?2. In what ways can the pursuit of material wealth distract us from gaining true wisdom? Can you identify personal examples?3. Discuss a time when you rejected or received wise counsel. What impact did it have on the outcome?4. How can we as a community support one another in seeking and applying wisdom in all aspects of life?5. What are some practical steps we can take to ensure we are valuing spiritual wisdom over societal norms and education systems?
What if a better marriage starts not with more work, but with changing the way you think? This week we're sitting down with author and speaker Ted Lowe to talk about his book Us in Mind and the simple things that separate happy couples from struggling ones. From celebrating small wins to practicing empathy and taking thoughts captive, Ted unpacks practical ways to renew your mind and see your spouse differently. Whether your marriage feels stuck or just needs a little spark, we hope this conversation leaves you encouraged and equipped to do the next right thing.Episode Recap:How are great marriages different from struggling marriages? (6:42)Happy couples think in a way that unhappy couples don't (8:42)“Madly in love” couples focus on what they do love about their spouse, not what they don't (12:00)What you think about yourself affects how you interact with your spouse (17:08)Why do celebrations make such a big difference in our marriages? (25:12)Empathy is huge for happy marriages (30:01)Two words that changed Ted's marriage (33:53) For Christians, our marriages are not just about us (38:44)Scripture: Romans 12:2 “Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”Philippians 4:8 – “Whatever is true, whatever is noble… think about such things.”Discussion Questions:How does the way you think about your spouse shape the way you act toward them?Ted talked about “seeing the best” in your spouse. What does that look like in your marriage right now?Why is empathy so powerful in marriage? How could you practice “stepping into the puddle” with your spouse this week?How do you typically respond to your spouse's successes or joys? What's one way you can celebrate with them more intentionally?Which of Ted's practical shifts (empathy, celebration, reframing thoughts, writing notes, pausing in conflict) feels most helpful for your current season of marriage?Marriage is meant to reflect the love of Christ. How does remembering this bigger purpose change the way you approach your relationship?Resources:Pick up a copy of Ted's book today: https://amzn.to/4nKdkqDConnect with Ted: https://forusmarriage.com/Check out our Parenting Together curriculum for FREE in the BOAW Moms app: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927Download the companion study guide in the BOAW store: boaw.mom/parentingtogether
Marriage is often described as hard—but it's also one of God's greatest gifts of joy. In this episode, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott share biblical wisdom, stories, and practical ways to cultivate gladness, gratitude, and fun in your marriage.Scriptures:1 Cor 7:28John 16:33MT 7:24-27John 10:10 Discussion Questions:1. What small things bring joy and laughter into your marriage right now?2. Are there habits you've let go of (like creative dates or playful traditions) that you want to bring back?3. How can you speak more positively about your marriage to others—without ignoring the hard parts?4. What's one practical step you can take this week to pursue gladness together?Resources:Book - Anatomy of an Affair: How Affairs, Attractions, and Addictions Develop, and How to Guard Your Marriage Against Them, by Dave CarderBook – The Ready or Knot Prayer Guide, by Scott Kedersha
Through our mediator, Jesus Christ, we have been given direct access to the Father. Because of this incredible privilege, Paul urges us to pray on behalf of all people, including those in positions of authority. Our prayers should not only include petitions, but also praise and thanksgiving for all the Lord has done. Session three of Entrusted challenges us to cultivate hearts that are marked by prayer and praise.Verses Used:1 Timothy 2:1-8Romans 13:1Hebrews 9:15Acts 4:12Colossians 4:2Discussion Questions1. We are called to not only pray, but also engage in thanksgiving. Why do you think thanksgiving is important?2. How much of your prayer life is spent in gratitude? What are things you can be grateful for, regardless of circumstances in your life?3. What does it mean that Jesus is our mediator? Why is this so important to understand?4. What keeps you from praying?5. Why do you think Paul urges us to pray for all people, as well as those who are in authority? How would doing so help us live a tranquil and quiet life?
Send us a textOh what a treat we have for you this week. First and foremost, be sure to head to Patreon where Flo (@thecatholicnutritionist) joins us this week exclusively for our Patreon listeners to go through an incredible dopamine course! You don't wanna miss it. https://www.patreon.com/posts/139429491?utm_campaign=postshare_creatorSecondly, thee one and only Anthony D'Ambrosio aka the director of the incredible film, Triumph of the Heart joins us this week to discuss every little behind the scenes detail of this amazing movie. He discusses how he casted this film, where they filmed in Poland, how long it took to get here, and all of the spiritual warfare in between. It's such an amazing story that reminds us of the importance of poverty and suffering. We hope you love it! Discussion Questions:1. What's your relationship with St. Maximilian Kolbe look like? 2. Have you seen Triumph of the Heart? If not, what is one of your favorite Catholic films and why?3. What part of Anthony's story struck you the most? Support our podcast AND receive extra content by joining our Patreon for only $5 a month at https://www.patreon.com/TheDailyNothingsPodcast Thanks for listening to The Daily Nothings Podcast! Be sure to subscribe and leave a rate and review.
Coleton walked through Mark 11:12–21 in a “documentary style,” scene by scene, showing how Jesus' actions with the fig tree and temple symbolized God's judgment on empty religion and pointed toward Jesus as the true and better temple. 1. The Fig Tree: Looks Alive but is Diseased • Jesus curses the fig tree not because He expected fruit out of season, but because fig trees always produced early figs (paggim) before leaves. • A leafy fig tree without fruit symbolized decay and disease. • The fig tree was a living parable: Israel (and the temple) looked full of life, but inside was barren and corrupt. Author Quotes: • James Edwards: “Once a fig tree is in leaf one therefore expects to find branches loaded with paggim in various stages of maturation. This is implied in verse 13…” (Pillar New Testament Commentary). • Tim Keller: “Growth without fruit was a sign of decay. Jesus is simply pronouncing that such is the case here.” (Jesus the King). • Hosea 9:10: “When I found Israel, it was like finding grapes in the desert; when I saw your ancestors, it was like seeing the early fruit on the fig tree.” ⸻ 2. The Temple: Corruption in the House of God • The temple was busy with sacrifices and money changing, looking religiously alive, but it was full of corruption and exploitation. • The Court of the Gentiles (where nations could worship) had been turned into a marketplace, blocking people from encountering God. • Jesus overturns tables, declaring the temple a “den of robbers.” • The fig tree mirrors the temple: full of activity but fruitless in righteousness. Author Quotes: • William Lane: “The sale of animals in the Temple forecourt was an innovation of recent date and was introduced by the High Priest, Caiaphas in A.D. 30…” • James Edwards: “The leafy fig tree, with all its promise of fruit, is as deceptive as the temple, which, despite its religious activity, is really an outlaws' hideout…” ⸻ 3. The Withered Tree: The Old System Passing Away • The next day the fig tree is withered to its roots, symbolizing the end of the temple system. • Jesus' death and the tearing of the temple curtain marked the new way of access to God—through Christ alone. • Jesus has done what the temple never could: provide full forgiveness of sins and direct access to God. Author Quote: • James Edwards: “The fig tree thus symbolizes the temple: as the means of approach to God, the temple is fundamentally—‘from the roots'—replaced by Jesus as the center of Israel.” ⸻ 4. Jesus Reverses the Curse • In Genesis 3, Adam was cursed by a tree and covered his shame with fig leaves. • In Mark 11, Jesus curses the fig tree, showing He will reverse the curse. • On the cross, Jesus covers our shame with His blood. Author Quote: • Cyril of Jerusalem: “In this way the curse laid upon Adam and Eve was being reversed.” (Catechetical Lectures 13.18). ⸻ 5. Application for Us Today Coleton gave two warnings and one encouragement: 1. Beware of being a leafy tree without fruit. • Religious activity without true spiritual fruit is empty. • Genuine faith in Christ produces fruit of the Spirit (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, etc.). 2. Beware of becoming a corrupt temple. • Just like the priests rationalized sin, we often say: “I know what God says, but…” • Our bodies are now temples of the Holy Spirit, and corruption comes when we disobey God's Word while justifying our choices. 3. Give Jesus access and authority over every area of life. • Don't hold back hidden areas. • Through Adam came death, but through Christ comes life in all its fullness. • He wants to bring blessing and restoration wherever sin once ruled. Author Quote: • 2 Corinthians 5:17: “If anyone is in Christ, they are a new creation. The old has gone, the new is here.” ⸻ Discussion Questions 1. What does the story of the fig tree teach us about the difference between appearance and reality in our spiritual lives? 2. How can we tell if we are producing real spiritual fruit and not just leaves? 3. In what ways might the modern church (or our personal lives) look like the temple—busy, impressive, but lacking true worship? 4. Why is it easy to rationalize sin with “I know God says, but…”? How do we guard against that? 5. What are the “hidden markets” in your life—areas you've not surrendered to Jesus' authority? 6. How does Jesus' role as the new temple encourage you in your relationship with God today? 7. In what area of your life do you need to ask Jesus to replace emptiness with life and fruitfulness?
We continue our series about rage in our Sept 21 Sunday gathering. This week's discussion questions are below: Discussion Questions: 1. In what ways have you noticed culture forming you toward outrage, anxiety, or self-centeredness? The sermon mentioned consumerism, individualism, and digital formation. Which of these has the strongest pull in your life, and how do you see it affecting your peace? 2. Read Matthew 16:24–26. What do you think Jesus means by “deny yourself” in practical, everyday terms? How does Jesus' prayer in the garden—“Not my will, but yours”—challenge the way you usually respond when you don't get what you want? 3. John Ortberg said, “Anger is the energy I feel when my will gets frustrated.” Can you think of a recent time when your will was frustrated? How did you respond? What would a response of peace have looked like instead? Why do you think our happiness so often depends on “getting our way”? How does that set us up for outrage? 4. The sermon suggested practices like fasting, eating leftovers, letting someone else decide, or keeping a clever thought to yourself. Which one of these would be hardest for you? How might intentionally denying yourself something small help you resist larger temptations or grow in peace? 5. How could practicing self-denial not just change you personally, but change the way you interact with your family, coworkers, or neighbors? Imagine a community of people truly living this way—laying down their right to always get their way. What impact would that have on the world around them? 6. Where in your life do you most need to practice self-denial right now? What is one concrete step you can take this week to move toward becoming a person of peace rather than outrage?
What If God's Role in Your Pain Isn't What You Think? Discussion Questions: 2 Corinthians Read 2 Corinthians 1:3–4. Paul calls God “the Father of mercies and God of all comfort.” How does this picture of God challenge or affirm the way you've thought about Him in times of trouble? What difference does it make that He is not the author of the tragedy but the comfort in the midst of it? Read 2 Corinthians 1:5. Paul says, “Just as the sufferings of Christ are ours in abundance, so also our comfort is abundant through Christ.” How does seeing suffering as something Christ also endured change how you interpret your own pain? Can you recall a time when His comfort felt “abundant” in your life? Read 2 Corinthians 1:8–9. Paul admits he was “burdened excessively, beyond our strength.” What does this teach us about the myth that “God will never give you more than you can handle”? How have you seen God teach you to lean more fully on Him? Read 2 Corinthians 2:6–8. Paul urges the church to forgive and comfort the repentant man. Why is it so important that the church embrace someone instead of letting them drown in excessive sorrow? How might this passage shape the way we respond to someone who has failed? Read 2 Corinthians 2:11. Paul warns, “so that no advantage would be taken of us by Satan; for we are not ignorant of his schemes.” What are some of Satan's schemes when it comes to guilt, shame, and isolation? How does God's comfort and the church's forgiveness break those schemes? Read 2 Corinthians 2:14–15. Paul says God “always leads us in triumph in Christ” and makes us “a fragrance of Christ.” What do you think it means to be “the aroma of Christ” to God and to others? How in your life right now might God be diffusing His fragrance through you?
Speaker: Nate HoldridgeText: John 15:1-16:4Overview: In this sermon from Calvary Monterey, Pastor Nate Holdridge examines John 15 to reveal the blueprint for a life of full and lasting joy. Jesus teaches that this joy is not a feeling we chase but the result of cultivating three essential relationships: an upward relationship of abiding in Him, an inward relationship of loving His people, and an outward relationship of resilient witness to the world. This teaching provides a clear and practical diagnostic for our spiritual health, inviting us to find our ultimate satisfaction in our connection to Christ and His body.Link to Discussion Questions
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3-2-1: A Call to Prayer, 3 of 4 from September 21, 2025“Jesus sends us as His body and maturing in Him means caring for our companions.”Ephesians 4:4-16 by Michael Lockstampfor (@miklocks)SUMMARYThis sermon explores the concept of the church as the body of Christ, emphasizing unity, spiritual maturity, and the importance of mutual care among believers. Pastor Michael discusses how Jesus sees the church as a unified entity despite apparent divisions, and how spiritual growth is a process that requires patience, prayer, and active participation in the body of Christ. The sermon encourages believers to pray for both spiritual wanderers and companions, highlighting the significance of each member in the body of Christ regardless of their current level of spiritual maturity.REFLECTION & DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
Faith isn't meant to stay still—it changes you from the inside out. In this episode, Pastor Doug explores how a growing faith reshapes your heart, mindset, and daily choices. You'll be challenged to see how true spiritual growth transforms who you are and how you live in the world.Support the mission of the Salty Pastor podcast! Visit our donations page at https://pushpay.com/g/thesaltypastor to help us continue sharing truth with a world in need.Discussion Questions:How have you seen your faith change the way you live or relate to others?Why is transformation an important marker of authentic spiritual growth?What specific area of your life could benefit most from a deeper, growing faith?
As Paul shares his testimony of the gospel that has been entrusted to him and Timothy, he expresses his overwhelming gratitude for Jesus Christ's grace and mercy towards him despite his violent past. Join us for Session Two as we learn how Jesus came to save even the worst of sinners, displaying God's perfect patience for all who would receive eternal life through faith in Him.Verses Used:1 Timothy 1:12-13aActs 22:3-51 Timothy 1:13b-141 Timothy 1:15-162 Peter 3:91 Timothy 1:171 Timothy 1:18-19aGalatians 2:201 Timothy 1:19b-20Ephesians 2:8-9Discussion Questions:1. What was your main takeaway from the message and homework this week?2. How does Paul describe who he was before encountering Christ in 1 Timothy 1:13?3. What does Paul say was abundant in 1 Timothy 1:14? What prevents us from fully accepting this and allowing it to free us from the shame and guilt of our past sin and mistakes?4. For what purpose did Paul say he found mercy in verse sixteen? You have found mercy for the same purpose. Are you allowing this to be true of your life?5. What does Paul say he maintained in verse nineteen? What does this look like, and what is the result of not doing so?6. What does Paul say he did with Hymenaeus and Alexander. What does this verse mean? What does it look like to do so in present day?
Jackie Cummings Koski returns to discuss the fundamental principles of financial independence (FI) and early retirement. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding FI—financial independence lets individuals no longer depend on a paycheck, offering options and freedom in life. Jackie shares insights on creating habits, starting small with savings, and the invaluable impact of community on one's financial journey. Strategies such as evaluating expenses and adopting an action-focused mindset are crucial. The duo explores essential concepts like the 4% rule, the significance of compound interest, and how everyday expenses can affect one's FI number, leading to powerful benefits over time. This episode serves as both a refresher for seasoned FI enthusiasts and a primer for newcomers. Key Takeaways: Understanding FI enables individuals to regain control over their finances and lives. Saving money is about liberation, not deprivation; small changes can yield significant benefits over time. The power of community is invaluable in the FI journey; joining groups can provide motivation and insights. Evaluating and optimizing expenses can lead to increased savings and a lower FI target. The 4% rule helps determine how much one can safely withdraw from retirement savings. Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Podcast Intro 00:01:08 - Introduction of Jackie Cummings Koski 00:03:02 - Back to Basics of FI 00:04:31 - Defining Financial Independence 00:08:23 - Importance of Saving Money 00:12:07 - Building Habits 00:46:07 - Understanding Your FI Number 01:01:02 - Community and Support 01:09:24 - Conclusion Important Quotes: "FI means financial independence; RE means retiring early." (00:04:31) "Saving money liberates you, it's not deprivation." (00:08:23) "Empower yourself by changing your financial dynamic." (00:05:40) "In investing, doing less often yields more." (00:24:40) "Save $100/month to potentially lower your FI target by $30,000." (00:47:04) Actionable Takeaways: Track Your Expenses: Start examining where your money goes to identify areas for potential savings. (Timestamp: 00:41:19) Join a Community Group: Participate in a local ChooseFI group to gain support and motivation. (Timestamp: 01:01:02) Develop Saving Habits: Make a habit of saving even small amounts each month to establish a strong financial foundation. (Timestamp: 00:12:07) Discussion Questions: How can tracking expenses help in achieving financial independence? (Timestamp: 00:41:19) What strategies can the community provide for those just starting their FI journey? (Timestamp: 01:01:02) Related Resources: F.I.R.E for Dummies Book: Link (Timestamp: 00:02:43) Catching Up to FI Podcast: Link (Timestamp: 01:09:22)
Speaker: Matt KehlerText: Ephesians 3:14-21Overview: This Sunday we have a special message from our Family Pastor Matt Kehler.Link to Discussion Questions
Discussion QuestionsSermon Overview Rejoice in the restoration God's kingdom unstoppably brings.1) Jesus has come to restore and set free (vv. 10-17)2) This restoration will spread quietly but unstoppably despite opposition (vv. 18-21)Digging Deeper Read Luke 13:10-211. God often furthers his Kingdom on earth through the weak and unimpressive (like the disabled woman in the passage) to show that the power belongs to him. How should this reality encourage us to be faithful in what may seem like small things? 2. Jesus freeing the crippled woman physically (vv. 10-13) is a picture of what he intends to do for the world spiritually. If you're a follower of Jesus, how have you experienced spiritual freedom? If you're not, what do you hope Jesus could do for you?3. Jesus has come to restore and set free. In what area(s) of your life are you most eager to see Jesus restore and set free? 4. Freedom is something that is valued and often spoken of in America. How might we pivot in a conversation with an unbeliever about political freedom to speaking of the freedom Christ brings from sin, Satan, and death?5. When we see the brokenness and “bent-ness” of the world around us (in the news headlines or in our own lives), what truths from this would it be good for us to keep in mind? 6. How do we know that Jesus' healing the disabled woman (vv. 10-17) is connected to his answer of what the Kingdom of God will be like (vv.18-21)?7. Verses 18-21 give us a picture that the Kingdom of God will be established often in slow, seemingly unnoticeable ways rather than spectacular displays of spiritual might and triumphant conquest. How have you seen this in the history of the church? How does this encourage you now? 8. Jesus' For followers of Jesus, his restoration work in us has already started, but not yet fully completed. How might knowing the “already … not yet” nature of God's restoring work in us lead to increased hope, joy, and peace in our hearts? 9. What is one area of your life where you could make a small beginning (as small as a mustard seed) of faithfulness, that God might use to further his unstoppable Kingdom?Prayer
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Hardship has a way of testing what we really believe. In this episode, Pastor Doug explores how trials can actually deepen our faith instead of destroying it. You'll gain a fresh perspective on why God allows difficult seasons and how they can shape you into a stronger, more faithful follower of Christ.Support the mission of the Salty Pastor podcast! Visit our donations page at https://pushpay.com/g/thesaltypastor to help us continue sharing truth with a world in need.Discussion Questions:How have past struggles strengthened—or weakened—your faith?Why do you think God allows difficult seasons in our lives?What can you do in the middle of hardship to stay rooted in Christ instead of drifting away?
Welcome to Entrusted! Paul was entrusted with the gospel of Jesus Christ, and he faithfully entrusted that to others, including Timothy. In our opening message, Paul instructs Timothy to beware of strange doctrines that were creeping into the church in Ephesus. By paying attention to the contents of their message, their corrupt character, and the impact their teaching had, strange doctrine was easy to spot. As these false teachers attempt to teach the Law, they misuse it. Instead, Paul exhorts Timothy to use the Law lawfully, according to the glorious gospel of Christ. Join us for session one of Entrusted as we examine how to spot strange doctrines and the intended purpose of the Law.Verses Used:1 Timothy 1:1-31 Timothy 1:3-7Titus 1:10-11Titus 1:13-141 Timothy 1:7-11Romans 3:20Galatians 4:4-5Galatians 3:13 & 241 Corinthians 6:9-11Discussion Questions:1. Have you ever been impacted by false teaching? What was the impact of that on your life?2. How does Paul describe the character of false teachers in 1 Timothy 1:3-7 & Titus 1:10-11?3. What is the effect of strange doctrine/unsound teaching? (See 1 Timothy 1:4-7 & Titus 1:10-11)4. How should we deal with false doctrine and unsound teaching? (See Titus 1:13-14)5. Paul says the Law is good if one uses it lawfully. What does this mean? How have you seen people use the Law "unlawfully?"6. How would you explain the purpose of the Law in your own words? (See Galatians 3:24)
ChooseFI unveils a new feature on the website that allows listeners to have their financial independence questions answered by experts. Featuring in-depth discussions with Karsten Jeske (Big Earn) and Fritz Gilbert, the episode explores the ramifications of potentially increasing the safe withdrawal rate and provides critical insights into retirement strategies, including cash flow considerations like Social Security and required minimum distributions (RMDs). Key Topics Discussed: Introduction to New Features (00:00:00) Introduction of a Q&A functionality on the ChooseFI website for community engagement. Listener Questions Segment (00:00:36) Introduction to the expert answers provided by Karsten and Fritz. Discussion on Safe Withdrawal Rates (00:05:26) Explanation of the traditional 4% rule and its significance. Karsten's Perspective on the 5.5% Rate (00:07:45) Critique of Bill Bangan's proposed increase in the safe withdrawal rate and why it may be misleading. Nuances of Early Retirement (00:34:25) Insights on adjusting retirement strategies when planning for longer horizons, emphasizing the time value of money. Fritz on RMDs and Safe Withdrawal Rate (00:36:16) Explanation of how RMDs impact withdrawal strategies, highlighting that RMDs apply only to pre-tax accounts. Actionable Takeaways: Adjust SWR to account for extended Retirement horizons Incorporate potential income sources such as Social Security into your retirement planning. (00:35:01) Carefully consider your asset allocation to manage risks related to early retirement (e.g., sequence of return risk). (00:48:06) Key Quotes: "The proposed 5.5% withdrawal rate is misleading and overly optimistic." (00:09:21) - Karsten Jeske "A safe withdrawal rate must not fall below 3.25% for financial security." (00:35:41) - Karsten Jeske "Plan for additional income sources like Social Security in retirement." (00:35:01) - Karsten Jeske "RMDs do not dictate your total spending in retirement." (00:39:00) - Fritz Gilbert "Behavioral finance warns against the pitfalls of emotional investing." (00:51:16) - Brad Barrett Timestamps: 00:02 - Invitation to submit questions at choosefi.com/feedback. 00:05 - Introduction of Karsten Jeske and Fritz Gilbert. 00:09 - Discussion on the safe withdrawal rate controversy. 00:35 - Required minimum distributions explained. 00:49 - Dynamic withdrawal strategies overview. Discussion Questions: How do you view the proposed increase in safe withdrawal rates? What strategies are you incorporating to prepare for early retirement? In what ways can Social Security impact your withdrawal strategy? How do you reconcile RMDs with your personal withdrawal goals? Related Resources: Early Retirement Now Blog: Insights into safe withdrawal rates. Retirement Manifesto: A guide to successful retirement strategies
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We're celebrating 33 years together as a community, looking back with gratitude and ahead with hope. From the early days in a hotel ballroom to where God has led us today, His grace has carried us every step. Along the way, we've seen lives changed, families restored, and countless reminders that church is truly about people. Join us as we laugh, remember, worship, and dream about what's still to come. Discussion Questions: 1. What's a favorite memory you have of our church community? 2. Who is someone you met here that impacted your journey? We also invite you to share a favorite memory or an old photo from your time at Churchome (or The City Church) on social media and tag @churchome so we can all reminisce and celebrate together. SUBSCRIBE TODAY for Weekly Service messages, Daily Guided Prayers, & more! Download the FREE Churchome app in the Apple App store or Google Play store! https://www.churchome.org/app
Discussion Questions:Sermon Overview Main Point: Escape from death by turning to God while there's still time.Repentance is the only escape from death (vv. 1-5)The opportunity to repent will soon end (vv. 6-9)Digging Deeper Read Luke 13:1-9On Judgement and Death1. The passages of the last few Sundays have had the theme of judgment. How did Pastor Brett's illustration about the instructions of a guide on a whitewater canoeing trip help us better appreciate why Jesus is repeatedly reminding his disciples (and us) of the coming judgment? 2. In this passage, Jesus wants to help us avoid drawing straight-line conclusions from our circumstances to what God thinks of us (“Life is going great, so God must be pleased with me.” / “Life is really hard right now, so God must be angry with me.”). Instead of this way of thinking, what should we think when we see death around us? 3. Pastor Brett said, “Sin is a debt. You cannot understand Christianity if you don't understand this.” What did he mean by this? Do you agree? On Repentance4. This passage (Luke 13:5) says that repentance is the one way to escape from death. What is (and what isn't) repentance? 5. Have you repented? 6. What does repentance look like in your life? The Limited Time to Repent7. “Why hasn't Jesus returned yet?” How could you use these verses as a part of an answer to that question?8. Verses 6-9 highlight that the time for repentance is now, because the opportunity to repent will soon end. If you're a follower of Jesus, what is an appropriate response(s) in light of this truth? 9. If you're a follower of Jesus, now that you know the time to repent will soon end, how does it impact the way you engage with unbelievers?10. With whom in your life that isn't a follower of Jesus might God want you to share these truths?Prayer
Send us a textStrong Women Strong WorldHuldah | Part 9 Senior Pastor Keith StewartSeptember 7, 2025Over the many years I have been a pastor, I've often heard people say, “God only raised up women as leaders when there was no man to lead.” It's such an ignorant statement and this Sunday's message is proof of that. Huldah was a prophet in the Old Testament. She lived at the same time as two other well-known prophets - Jeremiah and Zephaniah. Yet God used her mightily to turn the nation back to Himself and not because there were no men speaking up for God. God used Huldah because she had the message the king and the people needed to hear. If you don't know her incredible story, don't miss this message.Discussion Questions 1. Take some time to consider some of the parallels between the movie Hidden Figures and the women whose stories we've been learning about in this series. In what ways are they similar? In what ways are they different? Can you think of other historical examples where the achievements of women have been largely unacknowledged? Why do you think this has been true in history? Why do you think the stories of women in the Bible are often not told well or with the same level of detail that Scripture records them? 2. When you think about the span of time that passed between Solomon's generation and that of Josiah, 300 years seems like a long time but at the same time, it doesn't seem that long to actually forget God's Word, to abandon the Temple and stop celebrating the very feast that reminds you of why you are a people (Passover). What should we be learning from their failures? How might churches face the same threats externally and internally? Was anything in this account of how far God's people had strayed shocking or surprising to you and why? 3. Huldah is a prophetess whose authority and trusted position is beyond dispute. She is the first one sought out for an answer from God. Everything she said is received without debate or pushback. She validates the book they found as the Word of God and then interprets the book for their present situation. What stood out to you most in the telling of Huldah's story? Why do you think Huldah was unaffected and uncompromised by the corruption of Jewish society all around her? What can you learn from her example about being a thermostat instead of a thermometer? What spiritual disciplines do you engage in regularly to help protect you from corruption from within or without? 4. Take some time to look over the chiastic structure of the telling of Huldah's story. Why do you think the writer of Chronicles chose to emphasize Huldah over Josiah? Why does her prophecy occupy center stage in this narrative? 5. Huldah left an unmistakable mark on history, Jewish history, Christian history and even American history. What are some of the things that stood out to you about Huldah's legacy? Why do you suppose this woman, who inspired so many in history, and is the only woman to have gates in Jerusalem named after her, why is her story so relatively unknown today? What can you do to make sure others know about Huldah's inspirational story?
In our August 7 Sunday gathering we continue our series on outrage and anger. This week's discussion questions are below: Discussion Questions 1. When was the last time you found yourself angry or outraged? Looking back, do you think there was a deeper pain beneath that anger? 2. Our culture trains us to numb pain with entertainment, distractions, or busyness. What are some of the ways you tend to numb pain rather than face it? 3. The sermon compared anger to a “dashboard light” in your heart. How does this image help you think differently about your own anger? 4. Why do you think anger can sometimes feel safer than sadness, grief, or lament? 5. Do you agree with the idea that many of us (especially in the West) are “emotionally fragile”? Why or why not? 6. What stood out to you in Psalm 88 or other lament passages in Scripture? How does it challenge your assumptions about prayer? 7. How does lament differ from rage? In what ways does lament show faith instead of weakness? 8. Why do you think modern worship and church life focus so little on lament compared to celebration and joy? 9. Is there an area of pain in your life that you've been ignoring, suppressing, or covering up with distractions? What would it look like to bring that pain to God in lament? 10. Who are the “peaceful people” you've known in your life? What role do you think lament and grief have played in shaping them? 11. How can lament—both individually and as a community—make the church a place of deeper honesty, healing, and empathy? 12. Jesus himself lamented on the cross (Matthew 27:46). How does his example shape the way we approach our own cries of pain to God?
Christianity is often misunderstood—some see it as rules, others as tradition, and still others as just another religion. In this episode, Pastor Doug dives into the heart of what Christianity is really about. You'll discover the core truth that sets it apart and why embracing it changes everything about how you live.Support the mission of the Salty Pastor podcast!Visit our donations page at https://pushpay.com/g/thesaltypastor to help us continue sharing truth with a world in need.Discussion Questions:How would you personally describe the essence of Christianity in just a few sentences?What common misconceptions about Christianity have you encountered, and how would you respond to them?How does understanding the true essence of Christianity impact the way you live each day?
What's the difference between being taught the truth and being coached to live it out? In this episode, Pastor Doug unpacks how both spiritual teaching and coaching play vital roles in a believer's growth. You'll learn why truth without application falls flat—and how walking alongside others can transform faith into real-life change.Support the mission of the Salty Pastor podcast! Visit our donations page at https://pushpay.com/g/thesaltypastor to help us continue sharing truth with a world in need.Discussion Questions:How has solid biblical teaching shaped your faith journey?Why is coaching or mentorship important in applying truth to daily life?Who is someone you could invite to either teach you or coach you in your spiritual walk?
Brad and Ginger discuss the importance of asset flexibility, community building, and health savings accounts (HSAs). The conversation emphasizes maximizing contributions to HSAs while addressing financial conflicts that arise within relationships. Key Topics Discussed: Introduction and Community Building (00:00:00) Ginger shares her growing efforts to engage with the community and incorporate more fun activities into her life. Understanding HSA and Healthcare Expenses (00:32:00) The benefits of maxing out an HSA are discussed, highlighting the importance of using it strategically for long-term healthcare expenses. Importance of Asset Flexibility (00:19:00) The discussion covers the flexibility of different asset types and how this can affect financial independence strategies. Overcoming Financial Conflicts in Relationships (00:39:10) Strategies for couples to align financial goals and values while avoiding conflicts are outlined. Conclusion and Resources (00:57:10) Brad shares exciting new developments in the ChooseFI community and invites listeners to engage. Key Takeaways: Maximize HSA Contributions (00:32:00) Take advantage of tax-free growth in HSAs by maximizing contributions, as this can benefit long-term healthcare costs. Engage in Open Discussions (00:44:00) Successful financial planning requires transparent conversations about values and aspirations between partners. Explore Various Account Types (00:19:00) Have a mix of account types (taxable, Roth, traditional) for better flexibility and planning around future income and expenses. Quotes of Note: "Plan ahead to avoid complications later." (Brad, 00:39:00) "Building connections leads to a richer life." (Ginger, 00:05:50) "Your money is not trapped. It's just simply not." (Brad, 00:26:00) "Save for freedom, not deprivation." (Ginger, 00:48:00) "Engage in genuine conversations about finances." (Brad, 00:47:00) Chapter Markers: 00:00:00 Introduction and Community Building 00:32:00 Understanding HSA and Healthcare Expenses 00:19:00 Importance of Asset Flexibility 00:39:10 Overcoming Financial Conflicts in Relationships 00:57:10 Conclusion and Resources FAQs: How can I better communicate financial goals with my spouse? Engage in open discussions about values associated with finance and find common ground. (00:44:00) What are the benefits of maxing out an HSA? Maxing out HSA contributions allows for tax-free growth and withdrawals for qualified medical expenses. (00:33:00) Can I take money out of my retirement accounts before age 59 and a half? Yes, there are strategies that can allow you to access your funds early without penalties. (00:26:00) Related Resources: Risk Parity Radio (00:11:00) Ancestry.com (00:54:00) InsideTracker (00:53:00) Action Items: Join a local FI group to enhance community involvement. (00:03:39) Review your HSA contributions and expenses to maximize benefits. (00:32:00) Discuss financial goals with your spouse to reach consensus. (00:44:00) Discussion Questions: How can we balance spending and saving in our relationship? (00:44:00) What strategies can we use to engage more with our community? (00:01:00) How do we effectively allocate our finances towards asset flexibility? (00:19:00)
Send us a textThis week we have the pleasure of welcoming our first guest of the season, Katherine Plucinsky!! She is the author of the book, Words That Water Flowers and shares the beauty of modern Catholic poetry through her writing. Court and Meghan dive into the beautiful words in her book, the ways to pray with this poetry that resonates so easily with our hearts, and the “how to's” behind pursuing your dreams—specifically in how she became an author. This podcast has lead to such authentic motivation for Court and Meghan in their daily lives—you're going to truly love this one.Discussion Questions:1. Do you like reading poetry? If so what are some of your favorite poems that have resonated with you?2. How has prayer looked for you recently?3. Do you currently feel like you need to make more space to exhale and make time for creativity/dreaming with God?Katherine Plucinsky: grab Katherine's book at https://www.katherineplucinsky.com/ or grab Words That Water Flowers on Amazon! You can also follow Katherine on Instagram @katherinepluAbundantly Yours: Shop at abundantlyyours.org and follow @abundantly.yours on Instagram. Use Code DAILYNOTHINGS for 20% off your order!The Little Catholic: To Shop handmade Catholic jewelry that lasts, head to www.thelittlecatholic.com and use code DAILYNOTHINGS20 for 20% off your order.Support our podcast AND receive extra content by joining our Patreon for only $5 a month at https://www.patreon.com/TheDailyNothingsPodcast Thanks for listening to The Daily Nothings Podcast! Be sure to subscribe and leave a rate and review.
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Tragedy has a way of shaking our faith and leaving us searching for answers. In this episode, Pastor Doug shares how God offers hope that goes deeper than pain, loss, or confusion. You'll be encouraged to see how faith provides strength to endure and the promise of hope that tragedy cannot take away.Support the mission of the Salty Pastor podcast! Visit our donations page at https://pushpay.com/g/thesaltypastor to help us continue sharing truth with a world in need.Discussion Questions:How have you seen God bring hope during difficult or tragic times in your life?Why do you think hope rooted in Christ is different from the world's version of hope?How can you share hope with someone walking through tragedy right now?
Join Brad, Katie, and Alan in a candid conversation about financial independence, travel rewards, and lifestyle choices. They discuss the importance of zero-based thinking, share experiences as digital nomads, and challenge conventional views on net worth by introducing the concept of a "freedom fund." Timestamps: 00:03:48 - Zero-Based Thinking Discussion 00:04:54 - Experiences as Digital Nomads 00:11:04 - Traveling vs. Stability 00:18:44 - Understanding Investments 00:28:00 - Shifting Perspectives on Net Worth 01:20:00 - Closing Thoughts Key Takeaways: Zero-Based Thinking: Evaluate your decisions with the question, "Knowing what I know now, would I choose this again?" (Timestamp: 00:16:19) Traveling vs. Stability: Digital nomads navigate the challenge of balancing fast-paced travel with the need for stability. (Timestamp: 00:11:04) Freedom Fund Concept: Shift your focus from traditional assets to a 'freedom fund' that emphasizes financial independence over liabilities. (Timestamp: 00:28:44) Probabilistic Nature of Life: Embrace the understanding that decision-making incorporates probabilities and not just outcomes. (Timestamp: 00:24:20) Actionable Takeaways: Reflect on your choices: knowing what you know now, would you choose that option again? (00:18:36) Consider categorizing your investments as a 'freedom fund' rather than traditional assets. (00:28:44) Key Quotes: "Achieving financial independence allows us to control our time and pursue our desires." (00:17:43) "Evaluate your choices: if you wouldn't choose them again, it's time for change." (00:18:36) "Your entire net worth is in your freedom fund." (00:28:44) Discussion Questions: How can you apply zero-based thinking in your life to evaluate choices? (00:16:19) In what ways can we better balance travel experiences with financial stability? (00:11:04) What does having a freedom fund mean for you? (00:28:44) Resources Mentioned: Rebel Finance School (Timestamp: 00:19:08) What's Your Split? Visualizing net worth (Timestamp: 00:19:08) PDF Guide to Optimize Your Life (Timestamp: 00:57:41)
What if the season you're in isn't just hard—but spiritual? This week's message explores how we often default to control, manipulation, and force when things feel out of hand, but God invites us to a different way. Through worship and wisdom, we learn to surrender rather than strive—and that shift can change everything. Join us as we talk about what it really means to fight spiritual battles with spiritual weapons. Discussion Questions: 1. Have you ever tried to take control of a situation instead of trusting God? What would it look like to let go and worship instead? 2. What's a recent moment where a single thought—good or bad—shaped your perspective or actions? How can you invite God's wisdom into your thoughts? SUBSCRIBE TODAY for Weekly Service messages, Daily Guided Prayers, & more! Download the FREE Churchome app in the Apple App store or Google Play store! https://www.churchome.org/app
Tim Ferriss focusing on financial independence, the importance of mentorship, and the role of playful experimentation in living a fulfilling life. Discover insights on designing an intentional life and the values behind Tim's new game, COYOTE. Key Takeaways Experiential Learning & Game Selection Choose the right projects to engage in rather than just focusing on winning. Tim stresses that the correct game selection impacts long-term success more than winning the game itself. Mentorship Mentors and influential figures can shape our lives and paths significantly. Tim shares personal stories of mentors that led him to better decisions and prevented disastrous outcomes. Social Connections Both Brad and Tim agree on the importance of meaningful social interactions and relationships in ensuring a fulfilling life post-financial independence. Importance of Play & Experiments Financial independence allows for the experimentation of interests. Tim emphasizes the need for playful exploration of life after achieving financial goals. Episode Breakdown 00:00:00 Introduction Welcome to ChooseFI! This week features Tim Ferriss, renowned author and podcaster. 00:01:15 Tim's Background and Impact Tim shares his journey from aspiring neuroscientist to bestselling author and podcaster. The significance of mentors in influencing his life. 00:09:47 Mentorship and Its Importance Exploration of how mentors shaped Tim's decision-making and life course, leading to successful outcomes and personal growth. 00:15:05 Choosing Projects and Life Experiences Tim emphasizes the concept of game selection, stating it's about finding projects and experiences that align with personal growth, rather than merely aiming for success. 00:14:04 Real Growth Happens Outside Your Comfort Zone Discussing self-imposed limitations and the value of experimenting at the edge of comfort zones for personal development. 01:13:16 The Importance of Social Interaction The significance of social connections in enhancing life experiences and mental health. 01:30:47 Discussion on COYOTE Game Overview of Tim's new game COYOTE, the thought process behind it, and its importance in fostering social interaction and play. Notable Quotes "Choosing the right game is more important than just winning!" - Tim Ferriss 00:15:43 "Real growth happens outside your comfort zone." - Tim Ferriss 00:14:04 "It's not about winning—it's about self-discovery through experimentation." - Tim Ferriss 00:43:40 "Be proactive about your well-being, don't wait for a crisis to take action." - Tim Ferriss 01:32:30 "Focus on nurturing your top ten most important relationships." - Tim Ferriss 00:31:26 Actionable Takeaways Experimentation: Start small experiments in your life to explore new interests (Timestamp: 00:40:44). Prioritization of Relationships: Focus on nurturing your top ten most important relationships (Timestamp: 00:31:26). Intentional Play: Engage in intentional play and social activities for overall well-being, especially after achieving financial independence (Timestamp: 01:13:16). Related Resources COYOTE Card Game: Buy Here (Timestamp: 01:30:00) 5-Bullet Friday Newsletter: Subscribe Here (Timestamp: 01:34:06) Tim's Blog and Podcast: Visit Here (Timestamp: 01:35:01) Discussion Questions How can you apply the concept of game selection to your personal or professional life? [Timestamp: 00:15:43] What are some small experiments you can run to discover new interests? [Timestamp: 00:40:04] How do you prioritize your relationships and ensure they align with your goals? [Timestamp: 00:31:26]