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Biden makes some lack luster promises in his first State of the Union. Texas is trying to recruit the general public to turn in parents of transgender children for "child abuse". We take a fieldtrip to our local sex shop and jerk off arcade, and we discuss the Ali Wong stand up special that makes Grace depressed. References: https://www.nbcnews.com/nbc-out/out-politics-and-policy/texas-governor-calls-citizens-report-parents-transgender-kids-abuse-rcna17455 https://www.npr.org/2022/03/02/1083785432/biden-state-of-the-union-recap Ali Wong: Don Wong Netflix Special

The US Womens Soccer Team has won $24 million in a class action lawsuit against the US Soccer federation, a step in the right direction of equal pay in sports. North Carolina is now one of 20 states that provides access to birth control over the counter. And what can Kink Tok teach us and our partners? References https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=olLPQ6vS9d8 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=olLPQ6vS9d8 https://www.npr.org/2022/02/22/1082272202/women-soccer-contracts-equal-pay-settlement-uswnt NC Birth Control https://www.ncleg.gov/Sessions/2021/Bills/House/PDF/H96v5.pdf https://www.northcarolinahealthnews.org/2022/02/18/north-carolina-no-longer-requires-a-doctors-prescription-for-birth-control-but-who-can-afford-it/ https://www.today.com/health/access-over-counter-birth-control-increasing-today-t228523 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sax-BwbdNt0

The Dark Truth behind Valentines Day actually sounds pretty Hot. We also discuss our latest reality TV obsession, Love Is Blind. References: https://www.thegypsythread.org/silphium-herbal-birth-control-ancients/ https://allthatsinteresting.com/silphium https://www.buzzfeed.com/mayaogolini/biggest-valentines-day-fail-stories https://www.instyle.com/holidays-occasions/valentines-day/sending-valentines-to-friends https://www.npr.org/2011/02/14/133693152/the-dark-origins-of-valentines-day https://nationaltoday.com/singles-awareness-day/

There's a reason why Romance novels have been the top selling genre for decades. The most popular fantasy shared by women is sexual domination, so why are many of us afraid to admit it and explore our fantasies with our partners? Charlotte recounts her teenage fantasies and reveals the three leading men who encompased them. Also is Grace Heightest? References: 99% Invisible: The Clinch https://99percentinvisible.org/episode/the-clinch/ Esther Perel https://www.estherperel.com/ https://www.calebadodson.com/writing/humanizing-our-fantasies-love-yourself https://www.sexedeast.ca/blog/exploring-sexual-fantasies https://www.businessinsider.com/which-sexual-fantasies-are-normal-2014-10 https://medium.com/sexography/where-do-sexual-fantasies-come-from-211a3d59e91b https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-myths-sex/201807/where-do-our-sexual-fantasies-come https://www.insider.com/what-your-sexual-fantasies-say-about-you2020-7 https://www.brides.com/fantasize-about-someone-not-married-to-2303821 https://www.nytimes.com/1996/07/28/nyregion/the-good-and-bad-of-indulging-in-fantasy-and-daydreaming.html https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fighting-fear/201404/sexual-fantasies

For our 100th episode we talk about the pandemic that has plagued women in their 20's and beyond...Baby Fever! Why does it seem like everyone has it? And if you're not feeling it, is that a sign you shouldn't start a family? Grace also talks about her affinity for tiny shoes. Thanks for being with us for 100 episodes! References https://www.theatlantic.com/politics/archive/2021/12/how-common-baby-fever/621083/ https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Baby%20Fever https://health.usnews.com/health-news/health-wellness/articles/2015/09/14/is-baby-fever-real https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/21842990/ https://www.nbcnews.com/healthmain/baby-fever-real-thing-not-just-women-study-claims-1C6437144 https://www.reddit.com/r/babyfever/ https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2029489/Whos-daddy-Men-suffer-baby-fever-new-study-reveals.html https://www.vice.com/en/article/xwpvb4/psychology-of-baby-fever-is-it-real https://www.livescience.com/15949-baby-fever-reproduction.html https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xuSBPqkSpc0

Scrotum Steeping, Abortion Pills, and Discharge Oh My! A new male contraceptive, The COSO has made news for its innovative design and effectiveness. Think Apple product for tea bagging. The F.D.A. has announced the abortion pill will continue to be available by mail in the U.S. And how art is normalizing vaginal discharge. https://www.thisisavulva.com/dischargegallery References: https://www.star-telegram.com/news/local/crossroads-lab/article256681357.html https://aidaccess.org/en/i-need-an-abortion https://www.cancer.gov/about-cancer/causes-prevention/risk/hormones/oral-contraceptives-fact-sheet https://www.coso-contraception.de/ https://www.latimes.com/opinion/story/2021-12-22/the-fdas-decision-to-allow-abortion-pills-in-person-wont-help-if-you-live-in-a-state-requires-it https://www.jamesdysonaward.org/en-US/2021/project/coso-the-new-way-of-male-contraception/ https://www.insidehook.com/daily_brief/health-and-fitness/steeping-your-balls-future-male-birth-control https://nypost.com/2021/10/15/men-can-prevent-pregnancy-by-giving-their-testicles-a-bath/ https://www.nytimes.com/2021/12/16/health/abortion-pills-fda.html

Who's Gaslighting Who? What is Gaslighting? And why is it suddenly in the cultural zeitgeist? We discuss the warning signs of gaslighting and what to do if it's happening to you. References https://www.thehotline.org/wp-content/uploads/media/2020/10/power-and-control-wheel-cropped.png https://www.thehotline.org/identify-abuse/power-and-control/ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/here-there-and-everywhere/201701/11-red-flags-gaslighting-in-relationship https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0ToLfQU2xmg https://metro.co.uk/2020/06/18/what-racial-gaslighting-why-damaging-people-colour-12866409/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v4P2Qwh1QCU https://www.instagram.com/p/CA82O3YlqUS/ https://www.psycom.net/gaslighting-what-is-it/ https://hbr.org/2021/09/how-to-intervene-when-a-manager-is-gaslighting-their-employees https://www.nbcnews.com/better/health/what-gaslighting-how-do-you-know-if-it-s-happening-ncna890866

We discuss prevention and destigmatizing STIs. Having HPV is seen as a sexual right of passage, but a single vaccine can prevent its transmission and cancer. The gardasil vaccine is recommended for children but can be given up to 45 years of age. Let us know if you got the vaccine or if you would reccomend it. References https://www.cancer.gov/about-cancer/causes-prevention/risk/infectious-agents/hpv-and-cancer https://www.ncsl.org/research/health/hpv-vaccine-state-legislation-and-statutes.aspx https://www.bitchmedia.org/article/here%E2%80%99s-radical-idea-easy-home-std-tests https://evekit.vn/en/

Raise a hand of you're depressed! We discuss the connection between depression and low libido. There's a possibility that the treatment to your depression is also causing a decreased sex drive. References https://www.aafp.org/afp/2000/0815/p782.html https://healthtalk.unchealthcare.org/how-depression-can-affect-sexual-health/ https://www.everydayhealth.com/depression/is-sex-an-antidepressant.aspx https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FyKr_laxu2I https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E2rvVEBh-Qc https://www.healthline.com/health/depression/sexual-health

Has a Hun or a Boss Babe ever slipped in your DMs promising a fantastic business opportunity? Are these women really living the She E O dream or have they Girl Bossed too close to the sun? MLM's or Multi-Level Marketing companies saw a spike in membership during the height of the pandemic when women were forced out of the job market. These companies are notoriously predatory and can slip by legal regulations leaving people high and dry, or more accurately in a warehouse full of moldy leggings. References https://www.fundera.com/resources/mlm-statistics https://www.ecosecretariat.org/best-mlm-companies/ https://jacobinmag.com/2021/10/multilevel-marketing-scam-lularoe-pyramid-scheme-capitalism-myth https://www.healthyway.com/content/multi-level-marketing-businesses-arent-making-people-moneyso-why-are-they-still-popular/ https://www.consumer.ftc.gov/articles/multi-level-marketing-businesses-and-pyramid-schemes https://www.ftc.gov/sites/default/files/documents/publiccomments/trade-regulation-rule-disclosure-requirements-and-prohibitions-concerning-business-opportunities-ftc.r511993-00017%C2%A0/00017-57317.pdf https://www.huffpost.com/entry/say-no-mlm-pitchl_5f4d61d7c5b697186e39eaa1 https://www.politico.com/news/2021/11/05/kyrsten-sinema-multi-level-marketing-labor-519661 https://www.theatlantic.com/technology/archive/2021/01/anti-mlm-reddit-youtube/617816/ https://www.vox.com/the-goods/22732586/ftc-mlm-rohit-chopra-business-opportunity-rule https://medium.com/swlh/how-mlms-used-the-pandemic-to-prey-on-vulnerable-women-7be98f57674f

Biden's Build Back Better Plan gutted Paid Leave, or did it? We discuss the latest news regarding the deal. Texas is on it's fuck shit again. We also try to scrounge up some good news this week and maybe have solved feminism by replacing bikini bottoms with shorts? References: https://www.npr.org/2021/11/02/1051471123/female-beach-handball-players-bikini-shorts-norway https://www.forbes.com/advisor/personal-finance/cuts-from-reconciliation-bill-paid-family-leave/ https://www.vox.com/2021/10/29/22749595/paid-leave-sick-parental-leave-biden-build-back-better-bill https://www.npr.org/2021/11/02/1051471236/texas-governor-abbott-calls-for-removal-of-obscene-school-library-books https://www.npr.org/2021/11/03/1052121244/pelosi-says-house-democrats-are-bringing-back-paid-leave-in-their-spending-bill https://www.bostonherald.com/2021/11/01/battenfeld-voters-across-the-nation-rejecting-defund-the-police-candidates-but-not-in-boston/ https://www.nytimes.com/2021/10/31/us/politics/paid-family-leave.html https://www.nytimes.com/2021/11/03/nyregion/byron-brown-buffalo-mayor.html https://www.wgbh.org/news/politics/2021/11/02/election-day-2021-live-updates-and-insights-from-around-greater-boston https://fivethirtyeight.com/features/how-republicans-won-the-virginia-governors-race/ https://qz.com/work/2082746/elon-musks-tweet-captures-everyday-sexism-faced-by-women-in-stem/ https://www.indiatimes.com/technology/news/elon-musk-tits-university-twitter-552857.html Check out #TruthBeTold which has an interactive map on the legislative attacks on racial and gender justice legislation https://www.aapf.org/truthbetold Watch the rally to save paid leave https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=431771511662833

For our 2 year spooktastic aniversary we talk Witches! We might be Baby Witches. How did the idea of Witches start? Why are we still so fascinated by them? And how are modern Witches taking on modern problems? References: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QW5p0gNQiX4 https://www.nytimes.com/2019/10/24/books/peak-witch.html https://goop.com/glacce-amethyst-crystal-infused-water-bottle/p/?taxon_id=1291 https://www.history.com/topics/folklore/history-of-witches https://www.bostonglobe.com/lifestyle/2019/10/30/millennials-and-gen-embrace-witchy-new-age-spiritualism/ojetIu5fYahXu4dxa2IF6I/story.html

What's behind the societal idea that Boys don't cry? Crying is a universal human experience that can be triggered by emotions and feelings, not just irritants. Various studies have found that crying because of strong emotions is more common among women than men. There has also been evidence that emotional tears chemical consistency differs from reflexive tears. Maybe women don't cry more, but men cry less because of societal and hormonal influence. References https://nypost.com/2017/09/18/heres-why-women-cry-twice-as-much-as-men/ https://www.thrillist.com/health/nation/why-do-women-cry https://medium.com/age-of-awareness/men-and-crying-the-shamed-tears-of-boys-97ccf2e3841e https://www.bustle.com/wellness/why-cant-i-cry-experts-explain-the-science-19381382 https://www.sbs.com.au/news/why-do-women-cry-more-than-men https://www.apa.org/monitor/2014/02/cry https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8CBqYocrM04&list=PLfHPmT3pP0htzwUFnnxGIVSTLuUkUCjFo&index=37 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1XOo1OJFAeQ&list=PLfHPmT3pP0htzwUFnnxGIVSTLuUkUCjFo&index=39 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wc0GjfCG8u0 https://time.com/4254089/science-crying/

For decades Women (people with uteruses) have been responsible for birth control, but recent studies show that as many as 80% of men (penis havers) would take "male birth control" if it was available. So why isn't there a decent male birth control option other than condoms and vasectomies? What's stopping modern science from creating a viable male birth control option. Turns out its more complicated than it seems. https://health.clevelandclinic.org/vasectomy-reversal-5-facts-men-need-to-know-2/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7MHOk7qVhYs https://www.webmd.com/sex/birth-control/male-contraceptives https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2016/11/03/500549503/male-birth-control-study-killed-after-men-complain-about-side-effects https://www.healthline.com/health/birth-control/male-birth-control-options#outlook https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/treatments/4423-vasectomy-sterilization https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2019/jun/05/male-birth-control-step-up-responsibility https://thepolypost.com/opinion/2021/09/14/men-want-to-control-womens-bodies-because-they-are-scared-of-male-birth-control/ https://health.clevelandclinic.org/vasectomy-reversal-5-facts-men-need-to-know-2/ https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/treatments/4423-vasectomy-sterilization

The United States is the only country besides Papa New Guinea that does not provide paid maternity leave. Being able to take time off work is currently a privilege that is only allotted to white collar workers. 88% of American women do not get paid for a single hour after giving birth. Even unpaid leave, which some families can take depending on their employer is lower than the recommended 16 weeks from the World Health Organization. America needs to catch up with the rest of the world and practice what they teach in regard to "focusing on the family". Resources https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2wi8Po3a3I0 https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20210624-why-doesnt-the-us-have-mandated-paid-maternity-leave https://www.hrw.org/news/2011/02/23/us-lack-paid-leave-harms-workers-children https://www.shrm.org/resourcesandtools/hr-topics/benefits/pages/how-bidens-paid-fmla-proposal-would-work.aspx https://www.whitehouse.gov/briefing-room/statements-releases/2021/04/28/fact-sheet-the-american-families-plan/ https://www.nytimes.com/2021/09/29/upshot/paid-family-leave-biden.html https://www.youtube.com/watch?fbclid=IwAR1TFCzUWpP29orZXJweETAzg0ao-ZNOu36CImNsI59pP1Sz-yfSQhj0g&v=umiljrgv66w&feature=youtu.be https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YMxqlo_4Hhw https://www.bloomberg.com/opinion/articles/2021-06-24/paid-maternity-leave-would-help-relieve-america-s-maternal-mortality-crisis https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2020/jan/27/maternity-leave-us-policy-worst-worlds-richest-countries

With the recent passing of the Texas Heartbeat Act the fight for abortion access is more important now than ever. There is a Nationwide protest for Abortion Access on October 2nd. https://womensmarch.com/mobilize Roe V. Wade is at risk of being overturned once again, but now there is a conservative majority in the supreme court. We talk about the case that could dramatically change things for the worse Dobbs vs. Jackson Women's Health Organization. Abortion access is critical for the health and well being of people with uteruses we need to make sure we maintain our rights and bodily autonomy. Resources: https://maps.reproductiverights.org/what-if-roe-fell https://fivethirtyeight.com/features/most-americans-dont-want-roe-v-wade-repealed-but-many-also-support-restrictions-on-abortion/ https://www.nytimes.com/2019/09/18/health/abortion-rate-dropped.html https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2021/05/supreme-court-roe-v-wade-abortion-texas-mississippi-arkansas.html https://www.aclu.org/other/keep-marching-what-you-can-do-protect-reproductive-freedom https://maps.reproductiverights.org/what-if-roe-fell#no-roe-reality https://www.nytimes.com/2021/05/27/us/politics/biden-abortion-democrats.html https://didbidensayabortionyet.org/ https://katv.com/news/local/lawsuit-filed-challenging-arkansas-near-total-abortion-ban https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2021/05/18/upshot/abortion-laws-roe-wade-states.html https://allaboveall.org/resource/each-act-fact-sheet/

Why is America so fascinated with young missing White women? The latest news headlines are saturated with the case of Gabby Petito. In reality more young Black and Indigenous women go missing at a statistically higher rate every year. We discuss the "Missing White Woman Syndrome" and the discrepancy between missing person cases and how it upholds white supremacy. References https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Missingwhitewomansyndrome https://newsone.com/4210757/gabrielle-petito-media-coverage-missing-black-women/ https://womensmediacenter.com/news-features/the-urgent-crisis-of-missing-black-women-and-girls?fbclid=IwAR2TyAelSYb8meCwxwDhV5LbpeRXA5nmqXQVOOoZD8PJspFGVwcObcj9zoI https://www.law.georgetown.edu/news/research-confirms-that-black-girls-feel-the-sting-of-adultification-bias-identified-in-earlier-georgetown-law-study/ https://www.cbsnews.com/news/mary-johnson-missing-indigenous-woman-fbi-10000-dollars/ https://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-features/gabby-petito-missing-persons-jelani-day-lauren-cho-daniel-robinson-1229842/ https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/lack-awareness-data-hinders-cases-missing-murdered-native-american-women-n1235233 https://www.nytimes.com/2021/09/22/business/media/gabby-petito-missing-white-woman-syndrome.html https://www.cnn.com/2019/11/03/us/missing-children-of-color-trnd/index.html https://www.revolt.tv/2021/9/21/22686316/joy-reid-gabby-petito-white-woman-missing https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ObsBDVzWgoQ https://blackandmissinginc.com/ Follow Black and Missing Foundation on Twitter https://twitter.com/BAMFI

The term "Aftercare" is widely known in the BDSM community but should be incorporated after any sexual situation no matter how vanilla you are! Aftercare helps you and your partner feel more connected after the hormonal come down of sex. We discuss different ways to engage in aftercare and how it can be incorporated in long term relationships and casual sex encounters. Resources https://medium.com/sexual-tendencies/why-aftercare-is-so-important-in-sex-vanilla-or-kink-c4197da2e9c7 https://www.wellandgood.com/aftercare-after-sex/ https://www.wellandgood.com/skin-psoriasis-treatment/ https://kimatwood.com/aftercare-an-important-though-often-overlooked-step/ "Just Sex" Hidden Brain https://hiddenbrain.org/ Sexual Aftercare Tips https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UkT7fKLRutE

The most restrictive law in the nation regarding abortion access has gone into effect on September 1, 2021. This is the first law of its kind that deputizes private citizens to sue one another for "aiding and abetting" an abortion. These McCarthy Era tactics are resurfacing in a big way, we discuss resources and what you can do to fight back. References https://www.dallasnews.com/opinion/commentary/2019/09/15/why-are-we-so-bad-at-prosecuting-sexual-assault/ https://www.npr.org/2021/09/08/1035119369/fact-check-texas-gov-greg-abbotts-misleading-remarks-on-the-states-abortion-law https://www.nytimes.com/2021/09/08/world/americas/mexico-abortion-access.html https://www.npr.org/2021/09/08/1035089278/texas-governor-defends-abortion-law-saying-state-will-eliminate-all-rapists https://fivethirtyeight.com/features/we-categorized-hundreds-of-abortion-restrictions-heres-why-the-anti-abortion-movement-is-escalating/ https://www.nytimes.com/2021/09/01/health/texas-abortion-law-facts.html Resources Repro Legal Denense Fund https://www.ifwhenhow.org/ Give Yourself and Abortion https://jewishcurrents.org/how-to-give-yourself-an-abortion/?fbclid=IwAR0yzEZblwOCWVVDYTD8X3qDL1ylZ8UwJYpfT7wqcrrF01Z5VCxX3jSoM Misoprostol Pill https://aidaccess.org/en/

Charlotte doesn't understand the assignment. We learn there are surprising benefits of getting in tune with your hormone cycle. Knowing the ebbs and flows of your hormones can help "optimize your productivity" or simply help you be more in harmony with your body. Resources https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.forbes.com/sites/alexandramysoor/2018/05/10/how-women-can-use-monthly-periods-as-a-productivity-tool/amp/ https://www.google.com/amp/s/elemental.medium.com/amp/p/4313616b9647 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=piniMW4pH6k

OnlyFans sparks controvery once again. We discuss the origins of sexual censorship on the internet and the sex workers that make a living off the popular platform. Sex workers have propelled OnlyFans poularity but these content creators are at the whims of the platform and the banks that deal with them. Resources https://www.nytimes.com/2021/08/24/opinion/onlyfans-porn-sex-workers.html https://newrepublic.com/article/160488/nick-kristof-holy-war-pornhub https://www.scarymommy.com/only-fans-porn-allowed/ https://www.theverge.com/2021/8/23/22638310/onlyfans-ban-explicit-content-payment-processing-visa https://variety.com/2021/digital/news/onlyfans-drops-porn-ban-sexually-explicit-policy-1235048705/ https://nypost.com/2021/08/24/onlyfans-founder-tim-stokely-says-banks-forced-him-to-ban-porn/ https://techcrunch.com/2021/08/23/onlyfans-explicit-content-ban-should-spark-a-conversation-about-a-creators-bill-of-rights/ https://www.vice.com/en/article/jg84a7/rachel-dolezal-is-selling-feet-pics-on-onlyfans https://www.cnn.com/2021/08/25/tech/onlyfans-suspends-ban/index.html

We're out of the office this week. Enjoy one of our most popular episodes! We get all up in that Ass exploring the many ways you can pleasure your poo hole. Anal sex is still seen as a cultural taboo despite many Americans reporting that they have engaged in some type of anal play. We also discuss the do's and doo doo not's of anal penetration. Hot Tip Load up on Lube Anal Resources https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/benefits-of-anal-sex#orgasm-intensity Butt Plugs and Educational Videos https://www.bvibe.com/butt-stuff-basics

We discuss the latest headlines. Our Pandemic Golden Boy Andrew Cuomo, falls from glory and resigns after 11 sexual harassment allegations. The Tokyo Olympics has come to a close but hopefully the social and political demonstrations from the athletes will change some of the racist and sexist traditions. And finally, we talk about the disturbing trend of deep faking nudes of women. Resources: Andrew Cuomo https://www.cnn.com/politics/live-news/andrew-cuomo-investigation-08-10-21/index.html https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oiOYDa1GL34 https://www.aljazeera.com/economy/2021/8/11/cuomo-resignation-the-women-who-rise-after-powerful-men-fall https://www.npr.org/2021/08/11/1026450816/new-york-governor-andrew-cuomo-impeachment-resignation https://www.nytimes.com/2021/08/09/nyregion/roberta-kaplan-times-up-cuomo.html https://www.nytimes.com/2021/08/07/nyregion/andrew-cuomo-metoo.html?action=click&module=RelatedLinks&pgtype=Article Olympics https://www.nbcnews.com/news/sports/norwegian-women-s-beach-handball-team-fined-not-playing-bikinis-n1274453 https://www.nbcnews.com/news/olympics/female-athletes-grabbing-spotlight-olympics-political-social-demonstrations-n1275222 https://www.salon.com/2021/07/06/shacarri-richardson-black-women-olympics-misogynoir/ https://www.instyle.com/awards-events/sports/olympics/women-athletes-olympics-uniforms https://www.nytimes.com/2021/07/29/fashion/olympics-dress-codes-sports.html https://www.npr.org/sections/tokyo-olympics-live-updates/2021/07/28/1021503989/women-runners-testosterone-olympics Nude DeepFakes https://www.huffpost.com/entry/deepfake-tool-nudify-womenn6112d765e4b005ed49053822 https://www.vice.com/en/article/qv7agw/deepnude-app-that-undresses-photos-of-women-takes-it-offline https://www.vice.com/en/article/kzm59x/deepnude-app-creates-fake-nudes-of-any-woman

"Fat Talk" or publicly degrading your body as a conversation tool is outdated and unhealthy. Join us as we try to unlearn these harmful behaviors and model healthy body image attitudes and actions. We discuss how to respond to someone when they are engaging in "fat talk" and try to uplift ourselves and each other. Resources: https://www.nytimes.com/2015/03/15/opinion/sunday/the-perils-of-fat-talk.html https://saltyworld.net/how-i-made-peace-with-my-body/ https://health.usnews.com/health-news/blogs/eat-run/articles/dangers-of-pandemic-fat-talk https://www.eatingrecoverycenter.com/resources/fat-talk-body-image-eating-disorder https://sph.umich.edu/pursuit/2018posts/changing-the-culture-around-fat-talk.html https://themighty.com/2019/05/eating-disorders-casual-talk-weight-loss-harmful/ https://www.google.com/amp/s/fitisafeministissue.com/2016/09/20/why-i-dont-talk-about-food-choices-or-weight-yours-or-mine-anymore/amp/ https://www.google.com/amp/s/humanparts.medium.com/amp/p/8379bd89423b https://aninjusticemag.com/we-need-to-stop-talking-about-feeling-fat-and-losing-weight-9a8e7fe584e?gi=bc94fe54f461 https://hellogiggles.com/lifestyle/health-fitness/stop-talking-about-weight/ https://people.com/health/new-years-resolution-diet-dont-talk-about-weight-loss-in-front-of-your-kids/ http://www.louisvilleeatlab.com/blog--in-the-press/does-this-dress-make-me-look-fat-the-importance-of-rejecting-fat-talk https://www.health.com/weight-loss/friends-obsessed-with-weight-loss https://www.huffpost.com/entry/telling-people-lose-weightn6430994 https://www.self.com/story/food-body-talk-strategies

With talks of the Delta Variant and changes to mask mandates we wanted to re-share our episode on the Covid 19 vaccine. We talk about the Covid 19 vaccine and Anti Vax movement in America. We find out that women are the ones leading the charge against vaccines. How do we separate fact from fiction while ensuring the safety of others? Resources https://www.livescience.com/61305-most-online-anti-vaxxers-are-women.html https://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-news/women-men-covid-19-vaccine-1099020/ https://www.discovermagazine.com/health/why-are-the-educated-more-likely-to-be-against-vaccines https://www.motherjones.com/politics/2020/06/the-anti-vax-movements-radical-shift-from-crunchy-granola-purists-to-far-right-crusaders/ https://www.historyofvaccines.org/content/blog/vaccine-skepticism-feminist-stance Listen to the Fresh Air Episode on CRISPR https://www.npr.org/transcripts/974751834 Where to get Vaccinated https://www.cdc.gov/vaccines/covid-19/reporting/vaccinefinder/about.html Join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/cumqueenspodcast

We go deeper than your Sex Ed class ever did on this episode about Ovulation. Ovulation is just one of four steps in the menstrual cycle. We discover that the egg is the unsung hero and that sperm are just riding on its coat tails. DISCLAIMER Our Audio Fucked Up in a Major Way. We Apologize for the fuzziness and the level of Charlotte's voice. Resources https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nLmg4wSHdxQ&t=2s https://helloclue.com/articles/cycle-a-z/basal-body-temperature-bbt-what-is-it-how-is-it-used-to-estimate-ovulation https://www.verywellhealth.com/does-birth-control-stop-ovulation-906740 https://medlineplus.gov/lab-tests/luteinizing-hormone-lh-levels-test/ https://www.avawomen.com/avaworld/ovulated-egg/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1126506/ https://www.healthline.com/health/pregnancy/ovulation-pain#treatement https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/womens-health/multimedia/ovulation/vid-20084729

Kinks are non conventional sexual practices that often involve taboo subjects. We explore a fairly popular kink urophilia (piss play) and coprophilia (feces play). How do people develop kinks and are some more risky than others? We get down and dirty in this episode. "Hot Karl": Deficating on someone's face. Resources https://www.allure.com/story/golden-showers-sex-fetish-piss-play-for-beginners https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/health-fitness/photo-stories/pregnancy-sex-and-orgasm-should-you-or-should-you-not/photostory/62979168.cms https://drmarkgriffiths.wordpress.com/2012/02/24/faecal-attraction-a-beginners-guide-to-coprophilia/ https://goaskalice.columbia.edu/answered-questions/scat-play-eating-feces-safe https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jkIGNpOyR_I https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HQlUHBbMuWQ https://theswaddle.com/what-is-kink-the-psychology-behind-sexual-behavior/ https://www.vice.com/en/article/bmbxqm/golden-showers-101-everything-you-wanted-to-know-about-pee-play https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/kink-outside-the-box/202008/kink-shaming-how-did-we-get-here https://www.esquire.com/uk/life/sex-relationships/news/a12429/why-some-people-like-watersports-and-what-its-really-like/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coprophilia https://www.vice.com/en/article/ywbb7g/how-the-hell-can-someone-have-a-poop-fetish https://sexinfoonline.com/coprophilia/

The Patriarchy is built into the very structure of Corporate America. There are more women in executive leadership roles now more than ever, but women are still underrepresented at every level in the corporate sector. We talk about the #GirlBoss movement and how is cloaks capitalism in feminism and benefits only white women. We also try to reconcile female empowerment and capitalistic ideals. Correction: Women were allowed to become members at Augusta in 2012. These US courses still do not allow women to be members: Butler National Golf Club (Oak Brook, IL) Bob-O-Link Golf Club (Highland Park, IL) Black Sheep Golf Club (Sugar Hill, IL) Old Elm Club (Highland Park, IL) Garden City Golf Club (NY) Burning Tree Club (Bethesda, MD) Preston Trail Golf Club (Dallas, TX) Lochinvar Golf Club (TX) Pine Valley in New Jersey just allowed their first female member 6 days ago... Resources: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WyQp7iJZ1uc https://www.americanprogress.org/issues/women/reports/2017/05/21/432758/womens-leadership-gap/ https://hbr.org/2019/03/as-long-as-we-associate-leadership-with-masculinity-women-will-be-overlooked https://www.businessinsider.com/asking-for-what-you-want-is-great-career-advice-if-youre-a-man-2016-9 https://leftronic.com/blog/ceo-statistics/ https://www.businessinsider.com/why-women-almost-never-become-ceo-2016-9 https://www.kornferry.com/insights/this-week-in-leadership/women-ceo-insights https://www.wsj.com/articles/why-so-few-ceos-are-women-you-can-have-a-seat-at-the-table-and-not-be-a-player-11581003276 https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2020/06/girlbosses-what-comes-next/613519/&usg=AOvVaw2ZrXVF9krwbgPiA1xkqkZj https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-features/elizabeth-holmes-theranos-documentary-lean-in-feminism-811433/&usg=AOvVaw17bt825znyV473n-lvdMgn

We talk about two Supreme Court decisions this episode regarding a highschool student's right to free speech off campus and the right for trans youth to use the bathroom they want. We also dive into the #FreeBritney movement and talk about conservatorship and how it affects mostly marginalized people. Resources "Fuck Cheer" https://www.vox.com/2021/6/23/22547040/supreme-court-cursing-cheerleader-stephen-breyer-free-speech-mahanoy-bl-brandi-levy https://www.supremecourt.gov/opinions/20pdf/20-255_g3bi.pdf https://scholar.google.com/scholarcase?case=15235797139493194004&hl=en&assdt=6&as_vis=1&oi=scholarr Get the T-shirt https://shop.aclu.org/fuck-everything-tee-beige/?initmsaff=nat&initmschan=soc&utmmedium=soc&initms=210621fuckeverythingteemerchtw&utmsource=tw&utmcampaign=fuckeverythingtee&utmcontent=210621freespeechmerch&msaff=nat&mschan=soc&ms=210621fuckeverythingteemerchtw&redirect=fuckeverything Bathroom Business https://www.nytimes.com/2021/06/28/us/politics/supreme-court-transgender-bathroom-rights.html?fbclid=IwAR2EqaKMtsnDkSHgueNOK38yMgd9wDUStfgZlNeQnKNhrGgAGgsNXC-ZVSg Free Britney https://www.aclu.org/news/civil-liberties/britney-spears-reproductive-freedom-is-a-disability-rights-issue/ https://variety.com/2021/music/news/britney-spears-full-statement-conservatorship-1235003940/ https://www.freebritney.net/timeline

2021 has set a record for Anti-transgender legislation in America thanks to the Religious Right and the conservative Christian nonprofits that are behind them. Over 33 States have introduced more than 100 bills affecting the rights of transgender people. Young transgender women are the target of most of these bills. These bills affect transgender youth from healthcare access to women's sports. Visit https://freedomforallamericans.org/ to see what bills are currently being proposed in your state. You can also see which state representatives support them. Resources: https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/politics/2021/06/17/supreme-court-catholic-foster-care-agency-may-turn-away-gay-couples/4155263001/ https://www.cnn.com/2021/04/15/politics/anti-transgender-legislation-2021/index.html Arkansas war on Transgender Youth https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jV09jgLxsZo&t=91s Big Conservative Christian $$$ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/AllianceDefendingFreedom

You often hear that older people must strengthen or exercise their pelvic floor, but we learn that pelvic floor health is very important to a functioning bladder and sex life. It's never too early to work on your pelvic floor. Maybe those Kegels you've been doing since you were a teen contributed to back pain or incontinence. We learn proper Kegel techniques and ways to find out whether you should be loosening or strengthening your pelvic floor. https://thepelvicfloorproject.com/ https://www.bitchmedia.org/article/sex-education-vaginismus-onscreen https://www.medicaldevice-network.com/analysis/leva-incontinence-device/ "How Healthy Is Your Pelvic Floor?" Quiz https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/8TQFBGP https://www.elvie.com/en-us/blog/pelvic-floor-orgasms-and-health https://greatist.com/health/hypertonic-pelvic-floor#treatment-for-the-tension https://rightasrain.uwmedicine.org/well/health/what-your-pelvic-floor-and-why-should-you-care https://ugcollective.org/ Common...NOT Normal | Claire Baker | TEDxTauranga https://www.youtube.com/watch?fbclid=IwAR3dSGVZW3V5fI8k5vkK2IfJdiKQ-FSg2sa7QkD1gSCoGnDezz5xH3p3PGg&v=g2Tca-2Lw6g&feature=youtu.be How to save someone from a pelvic floor muscle attack | Heather Rader | TEDxLSSC https://www.youtube.com/watch?fbclid=IwAR3AFH1EhrY-Y-lvWx5z0ZBsFWhu1Gg1Ff5F5gOd14hJ-WMRs1TY7t07Cnw&v=X6CZh96PO20&feature=youtu.be Learn more about meditation with Twenty/Twenty Ethos from our friend Pablo Falbru here! https://ugcollective.org/

Gossip has a negative connotation and is typically associated with women being "caty" or "bitchy" to one another, but it can be used for the exchange of social information and help cement friendships. We try to rebrand the term Gossip and focus on the positives and the power it has in self-preservation and bonding between women. The Gift of Gab Resources https://www.reddit.com/r/Feminism/comments/f5ggvp/howthedemonizationofgossipisusedtobreak/ https://news.ucr.edu/articles/2019/05/03/uc-riverside-study-busts-myths-about-gossip https://positivepsychology.com/positive-gossip/ https://inthesetimes.com/article/the-subversive-feminist-power-of-gossipnformation https://theconversation.com/the-science-of-gossip-four-ways-to-make-it-less-toxic-75318http://feministing.com/2016/08/23/gossip-as-an-act-of-resistance/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Whisper_network https://www.eatmy.news/2020/10/history-of-gossip-so-called-women-thing.html Scolds Bridle https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scold%27s_bridle

Roe V. Wade is at risk of being overturned once again, but now there is a conservative majority in the supreme court. We talk about the case that could dramatically change things for the worse Dobbs vs. Jackson Women's Health Organization. Abortion access is critical for the health and well being of people with uteruses we need to make sure we maintain our rights and bodily autonomy. Resources: https://maps.reproductiverights.org/what-if-roe-fell https://fivethirtyeight.com/features/most-americans-dont-want-roe-v-wade-repealed-but-many-also-support-restrictions-on-abortion/ https://www.nytimes.com/2019/09/18/health/abortion-rate-dropped.html https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2021/05/supreme-court-roe-v-wade-abortion-texas-mississippi-arkansas.html https://www.aclu.org/other/keep-marching-what-you-can-do-protect-reproductive-freedom https://maps.reproductiverights.org/what-if-roe-fell#no-roe-reality https://www.nytimes.com/2021/05/27/us/politics/biden-abortion-democrats.html https://didbidensayabortionyet.org/ https://katv.com/news/local/lawsuit-filed-challenging-arkansas-near-total-abortion-ban https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2021/05/18/upshot/abortion-laws-roe-wade-states.html https://allaboveall.org/resource/each-act-fact-sheet/

The U.S. Birth Rate has been steadily declining since 2008. It was predicted that the Pandemic would produce a "Baby Boom" because of everyone staying home (and presumably fucking), but the population decline continued. This trend is happening in most wealthy countries as well. Women are choosing to have children at a later age and sometimes not at all. Is the idea of the modern woman changing? Is this decline in population harmful for the future? We discuss the economic and societal impacts. Resources https://www.nytimes.com/2021/05/05/us/us-birthrate-falls-covid.html https://www.nytimes.com/2021/05/04/podcasts/the-daily/us-census-birthrate-immigration.html https://www.nytimes.com/2021/05/05/podcasts/the-daily/japan-birthrate-ageing-population.html

Its our 69th episode so of course we have dedicated it to the coveted sexual position, the 69! Is 69ing more of a novelty than a viable sexual position? We discuss our own experiences with the position and some tips and tricks to master it. Resources https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sexopedia/a8272731/69-sex-position/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/KamaSutra#Date,authorandhistory https://www.webmd.com/sex/what-is-69-position Dont forget our patreon! https://www.patreon.com/cumqueenspodcast

Breast Implants are among the most popular cosmetic surgery in the US, but are they actually more dangerous than doctors let on? Breast implants can in some cases lead to large cell lymphoma, an aggressive form of cancer. We also discuss the phenomenon of BII Breast Implant Illness . BII is not officially recognized by the "medical community" but countless people report a series of symptoms related to autoimmune disorders that usually go away when they have their implants removed. Once again we learn that we need to advocate for our own health and listen to our bodies. There is a large internet community of people who have had their implants removed. They call themselves Explants, and these are their stories... The Food and Drug Administration (FDA)Trusted Source report that people who link their health concerns with BII often experience a resolution of their symptoms if they have a surgeon remove their implants. The person usually does not replace the implant. BII https://www.health.harvard.edu/womens-health/could-your-breast-implants-be-making-you-sick https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/326158 Breast Implant Cancer (BIA-ALCL) https://www.fda.gov/medical-devices/breast-implants/questions-and-answers-about-breast-implant-associated-anaplastic-large-cell-lymphoma-bia-alcl Breat Impant Facts https://www.fda.gov/medical-devices/implants-and-prosthetics/breast-implants https://www.fda.gov/consumers/consumer-updates/what-know-about-breast-implants https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/womens-health/in-depth/breast-implants/art-20045957 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Q5qV1lpGQo&list=PLv0LW5VpaWCYWPDVduT6ufhofvF4VwQd&index=1 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sAPuiU03k8&list=PLv0LW5VpaWCYWPDVduT6ufhof_vF4VwQd&index=2 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hdrnkhiNF6M

Who makes the first move in your relationship? We discuss the traditional idea that the man is the one who initiates sex. If your are unhappy with your sex life and who initiates sex in the relationship don't be afraid to talk it out and switch it up! Sexy Fruit Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanie_sarley/?hl=en Here are some of the resources we found: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-erotic-brain/201906/there-may-be-better-way-initiate-sex-your-partner https://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=51114 https://www.focusonthefamily.com/family-qa/wives-who-initiate-sex/ https://vantagepointdallascounseling.com/sex/nurturing-intimacy-how-to-initiate-sex-in-a-long-term-relationship/ Dont sleep on our patreon: You'll have access to bonus episodes and cute ass merch! https://www.patreon.com/cumqueenspodcast

Being “Not Like Other Girls” may seem like a harmless quirk but its stems from patriarchal ideas and pits women against each other. When we characterize ourselves at the expense of other women we harm ourselves and our relationship with the women in our lives. Competition among women is commonly portrayed in media and further isolates us from creating true and meaningful female friendships. We also dive into the “Manic Pixie Dream Girl” trope and how it perpetuates the idea that women’s purpose is to help a boy fully actualize into a man. Subredit dedicated to poking fun of people who dont think they are like other girls https://www.reddit.com/r/notlikeothergirls/ Tiffany Ferguson breaking down the NLOG identity https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7nL-kgbbcBA https://medium.com/write-like-a-girl/the-problem-with-saying-youre-not-like-other-girls-8ce0bf94d768 Manic Pixie Dream Girl trope and why its Harmful to Women https://www.theatlantic.com/sexes/archive/2013/07/the-real-world-consequences-of-the-manic-pixie-dream-girl-clich-233/277645/ Dont forget to rate us on your listening platform of choice and check us out on patreon if your feeling generous! https://www.patreon.com/cumqueenspodcast

We ponder the tradition of women taking their husband's last name in marriage. This practice stems from a patriarchal view of women as property. Women are no longer beholden to their spouses under the law so why are many future brides still practicing this custom? We also discuss alternatives and how name changes are deeply rooted in the western fantasy of romance. Resources https://www.brides.com/why-do-women-take-husband-last-name-5116974 https://law.justia.com/cases/tennessee/supreme-court/1975/522-s-w-2d-679-2.html Please rate our podcast on your listening divice and share it with your friends! :)

Grace talks about her experience as a teen beauty queen and we dive deeper in the history of beauty pageants in America and how their existence affects young girls and women. Are pageants still relevant in today's society? Do they do more harm than good? The Cum Queens talk it out. Resources John Oliver Clip https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oDPCmmZifE8 Beauty Pageant History https://www.pbs.org/wgbh/americanexperience/features/missamerica-beauty-pageant-origins-and-culture/

The CumQueens research Endometriosis and learn that this disease affects 1 in 10 women in the United States. Despite the commonality of this illness there is still little known about the causes. On average an American woman suffers for 10 years before receiving a medical diagnosis and sometimes the treatment can be worse than the disease. Unsurprisingly we learn that the medical community still has a ways to go in regards to women's health. We hope that talking about these issues will encourage others to trust their bodies and advocate for themselves. Resources https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/endometriosis/symptoms-causes/syc-20354656 https://www.yalemedicine.org/conditions/endometriosis https://endometriosis.org/ https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/laraparker/what-its-like-to-date-when-you-cant-have-sex Check out our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/cumqueenspodcast

We talk about the Covid 19 vaccine and Anti Vax movement in America. We find out that women are the ones leading the charge against vaccines. How do we separate fact from fiction while ensuring the safety of others? Resources https://www.livescience.com/61305-most-online-anti-vaxxers-are-women.html https://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-news/women-men-covid-19-vaccine-1099020/ https://www.discovermagazine.com/health/why-are-the-educated-more-likely-to-be-against-vaccines https://www.motherjones.com/politics/2020/06/the-anti-vax-movements-radical-shift-from-crunchy-granola-purists-to-far-right-crusaders/ https://www.historyofvaccines.org/content/blog/vaccine-skepticism-feminist-stance Listen to the Fresh Air Episode on CRISPR https://www.npr.org/transcripts/974751834 Where to get Vaccinated https://www.cdc.gov/vaccines/covid-19/reporting/vaccinefinder/about.html Join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/cumqueenspodcast

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We talk about social media and its addictive properties. The Selfie is a way to share yourself with the world but is also important in gathering social currency. How far are you willing to go to live up to societal beauty standards? And how do we disconnect and stop letting algorithms determine our self worth? Resources https://www.womenshealthmag.com/beauty/a33264141/face-filters-mental-health-effect/ https://www.insider.com/how-social-media-affects-body-image https://www.cnn.com/2020/02/08/tech/snapchat-dysmorphia-plastic-surgery/index.html https://www.nbcnews.com/tech/tech-news/it-s-not-worth-it-young-women-how-tiktok-has-n1234193 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RhDSkljh-es&t=0s https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iWc5rQ_YvYw https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/articles/202002/selfies-filters-and-snapchat-dysmorphia-how-photo-editing-harms-body-image https://damorementalhealth.com/social-media-and-self-esteem/

We explore the space of slippery, slimy tentacle porn. We explore its origins and our experiences with watching it. We talk about how women, queer, trans and nonbinary folks can embrace this creative form to de-center the penis when it comes to penatrative sex. We learn about the sex toys that are available. We also find out about alien egg insemination, also known as oviposition. Learn more with our sources: https://www.vice.com/en/article/bnpv85/the-emerging-fetish-of-laying-alien-eggs-inside-yourself https://metro.co.uk/2017/09/13/you-can-get-sex-toys-that-lay-alien-eggs-inside-you-so-obviously-we-tried-it-6873579/ https://www.reddit.com/r/Oviposition/new/ https://slate.com/human-interest/2021/01/husband-declared-adult-genre-off-limits-sex-advice.html https://bad-dragon.com/pages/newtobd https://www.bitchmedia.org/article/tentacle-porn-unashamed-sexual-fantasy https://www.wellandgood.com/tentacle-dildos/

We go over the latest news topics from the Biden/Harris Inauguration, Covid's effect on women in the workforce, Madison Cawthorn's possible role in the January 6th insurrection to a giant vulva installation in Brazil. Covid 19 Unemployment affecting Women https://nowthisnews.com/news/women-accounted-for-all-job-losses-in-december-report-finds Madison Cawthorn https://www.citizen-times.com/story/news/2021/01/19/madison-cawthorn-blamed-democrats-capitol-riots-petition-intensify-resign-asheville/4203167001/ https://wlos.com/news/local/letter-signed-by-several-nc-11-democratic-leaders-calls-for-rep-cawthorns-expulsion https://www.citizen-times.com/story/news/2021/01/15/madison-cawthorn-protesters-converge-hendersonville-office-call-his-removal/4158038001/ Sign the Petition for Madison Cawthorn's Resignation https://www.change.org/p/madison-cawthorn-must-resign "Diva" Vulva https://www.cnn.com/style/article/brazil-vulva-sculpture-scli-intl/index.html

The Wellness Industry has grown to a 4.5 trillion dollar business, with Nutrition and Weightloss products bringing in a lot of profit. Grace and Charlotte talk about their own experiences with dieting and how it contributed to their body image at a young age. Ditching diet culture is a CumQueens New Year's reolution. Resources https://globalwellnessinstitute.org/press-room/statistics-and-facts/ https://today.yougov.com/topics/lifestyle/articles-reports/2020/12/23/2021-new-years-resolutions-poll https://blog.publicgoods.com/please-ditch-the-new-years-resolution-to-diet-or-lose-weight/ https://edrdpro.com/its-time-to-drop-out-of-diet-culture/ https://parade.com/921896/jessicasager/jameela-jamil-diet-culture/ https://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org/blog/weight-generational-trauma https://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org/blog/recognizing-and-resisting-diet-culture https://blog.marketresearch.com/u.s.-weight-loss-industry-grows-to-72-billion Tik Tok and Harmful Diets https://www.bitchmedia.org/article/very-online/eating-disorder-pro-ana-culture-on-tiktok-and-social-media Petition to stop TikTok from Advertising Fasting Diets https://www.change.org/p/tiktok-stop-tiktok-from-advertising-fasting-diets?sourcelocation=petitionsbrowse Books mentioned in our show: "The Body is Not an Apology: The Power of Radical Self-Love" by Sonya Renee Taylor "The Beauty Myth" by Naomi Wolf

It's the most wonderful time of the year: CLITMAS!! Charlotte and Grace talk about how to get sexy with games, gifts and positions for the season! Get the "Big Clit Energy" Mug on Etsy https://www.etsy.com/listing/921442425/big-clit-energy-mug?gaorder=mostrelevant&gasearchtype=all&gaviewtype=gallery&gasearchquery=big+clit+energy+mug&ref=srgallery-1-1&organicsearch_click=1 Ideas for a Naughty Holiday https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a19970047/sexy-christmas-gifts/ https://www.glamour.com/gallery/15-naughty-but-oh-so-nice-holiday-gift-ideas Mystery Vibe Products https://mysteryvibe.com/collections/all-products Dont forget to tell a friend and rate us 5 stars and leave a review on Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cumqueens/id1485509989). Share with your friends to help us grow! Send us a screenshot of your review along with your address for your FREE CumQueens Sticker!!

We discuss the prominent issues of sexual harassment and assault in the United States Military, specifically the case of Vanessa Guillen and how it has spurred internal action and over hall within the military. #IAMVANESSAGUILLEN Read about Vanessa's killing in the NYTimes https://www.nytimes.com/article/vanessa-guillen-fort-hood.html Read about the Disciplinary Action at Fort Hood in the NYTimes https://www.nytimes.com/2020/12/08/us/fort-hood-officers-fired-vanessa-guillen.html Learn about the #MeToo movement being sparked in the military by Guillen's killing https://www.nytimes.com/2020/07/11/us/politics/military-women-metoo-fort-hood.html Watch the press conference to introduce the #IamVanessaGuillen Act in Congress https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXbpDvI8U38 See more info on the bill here https://www.govtrack.us/congress/bills/116/hr8270 See the Full Report of the Fort Hood Independent Review Committee https://www.army.mil/e2/downloads/rv7/forthoodreview/2020-12-03FHIRCreportredacted.pdf Read More about the case of Chelsea Cheatham who was murdered in 2019 by a Fort Hood Soldier https://www.thedailybeast.com/fort-hood-soldier-cory-grafton-arrested-in-murder-of-chelsea-cheatham?source=twitter&via=desktop Read about LULAC encourging Latinas not to enlist in the wake of Guillen's killing https://www.wfaa.com/article/news/local/lulac-natl-president-domingo-garcia-says-the-military-is-not-protecting-female-soldiers-vanessa-guillen-disappeared-from-fort-hood-two-months-ago/287-b8a1c16b-36ca-4ab5-a2b9-a5bac0bc97ef Learn about Congress choosing not to act on the #IamVanessaGuillen Act this year https://www.univision.com/univision-news/united-states/congress-lets-iamvanessaguillen-military-reform-bill-die Read about the top 6 Veteran Organization Calling for VA Secretary Wilkie's Resignation https://www.militarytimes.com/news/pentagon-congress/2020/12/16/big-six-veterans-groups-ask-trump-to-fire-va-secretary-wilkie-immediately/ Learn about calls to close Fort Hood on Democracy Now! https://www.democracynow.org/2020/12/14/forthoodinvestigationmurders_assault

We go over some of the latest news topics. Biden appoints an all women communications team in a historic move that reflects a new diverse White House. Sarah Fuller makes history by being the first woman to play in a Power 5 Football game and a Tennessee couple gives birth to a 27 year old embryo. We also suggest some finger lickin' good cinema, the latest Lifetime movie starring Mario Lopez as Colonel Sanders. References https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/biden-hires-all-female-senior-communications-team/2020/11/29/5b60b58e-3277-11eb-a997-1f4c53d2a747_story.html https://www.nytimes.com/2020/12/05/opinion/sunday/sarah-fuller-vanderbilt-women-college-football.html https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-55164607?fbclid=IwAR3slIeiH13t4s_iHOHeRWxCZ4J1nD3tK3PCnT-jFzoiepehesVM4wRP3Y0 https://wpln.org/post/sarah-fuller-makes-history-as-1st-woman-to-play-in-a-power-5-football-game/ https://www.cnn.com/2020/12/07/entertainment/kfc-lifetime-holiday-movie/index.html

The feet are the most common fetishized non genital body part. We find out the brain's connection to foot arousal and how some women are making a living out of foot play and femmedom. Some literature on the matter https://www.vice.com/en/article/kzy443/foot-fetish-explanation https://metro.co.uk/2018/05/03/like-work-foot-fetish-party-7517002/ https://www.miaminewtimes.com/news/inside-miamis-foot-fetish-community-and-parties-11507579 https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a37434/sex-talk-realness-what-its-like-to-have-a-foot-fetish/