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That Wellness Podcast with Natalie Deering: Internal Family Systems with a Twist
This December, I want to feature some of my favorite interviews from this year. The third episode I'm re-releasing is my conversation with IFS lead trainer Ann Sinko discussing legacy burdens. This episode was a real treat to be able to sit with my IFS Level 1 lead trainer and talk with her about her speciality of legacy burdens. In the episode Ann shares her history and relationship with IFS, how IFS is a constraint release model, what are legacy burdens, epigenetics, how to identify legacy burdens, adaption and LB's, covert vs. overt ways to get legacy burdens, the 9 rules of shame (used to be 8), and the steps to help address and release legacy burdens. Ann is a senior trainer for the IFS institute and is a licensed marriage and family therapist. She was an adjunct professor at Central Connecticut State University in the Marriage and Family Therapy Program for 27 years. Ann conducts continuing education workshops on legacy burdens and grief retreats in her private practice in Portland, Connecticut. Ann Sinko Resources: IFS Online Circle Program: https://courses.ifs-institute.com/sales/ifs_c_irs035190_ifscircle_spring2023_homepage-619825 IFS Continuity Program: https://courses.ifs-institute.com/sales/ifs_irs035430_continuity_spring2023_ifsihomepage-627147 Natalie Deering Resources: Website: https://www.ndwellnessservices.com/ Email: ndwellness.services@therapysecure.com Call/Text: (859) 320-0865 Instagram: @nataliedeering *If you like this episode, please follow, rate, and leave a review!*
Dr. David Van Dyke, or DVD, serves as Director of the Marriage and Family Therapy Program and Associate Professor of Marriage and Family Therapy at Wheaton College. His areas of expertise are working with adolescents and their families and integration of Christian faith and systems thinking. He's a Fulbright Scholar in Hungary, and he's also started "With U Projects" with his wife Tara. It aims to strengthen the understanding of life's big transitions and learning better skills for healthy connection. DVD has spent time each year in Prague, where he supervised, trained, and consulted with mental health professionals from nine Central and Eastern European countries (Hungary, Czech Republic, Slovenia, Slovakia, Romania, Ukraine, Croatia, Bulgaria, and Serbia). He also developed g a post-master marriage and family therapy certificate that is culturally appropriate for Central and Eastern European professionals and meets EU regulations, which is set to launch in the Summer of 2024. In his personal time, he likes traveling, being with his family, kayaking with his wife, and exploring family history. This episode is hosted by Rob Chestnut, Director of the Training Team and International Team for Josiah Venture. He also recently helped lead the 2023 Fall Conference team. The theme for the 2023 Fall conference was "Lifeline: First Responders and the Anxious Generation," and DVD was our guest speaker. Learn more about Josiah Venture Website: www.josiahventure.com Instagram: @josiahventure Contact: social@josiahventure.com Josiah Venture Prayer Room Josiah Venture Prayer Room APP
Alex Dayton has an impressive history in the mental health field including serving as the Clinical Director for Freedom Institute and the Chief Clinical Officer of Veritus. In this revisited episode, he joins us today to talk about addiction treatment and recovery for licensed professionals. Because of their license, professionals like doctors, lawyers, and judges are more reluctant to seek treatment. The program offered by Veritus, which uses technology, helps to make treatment more a accessible.to this population. Listen to today's episode as Alex talks about the correlation among addiction, wealth, and success, explains dialectical behavior therapy (DBT)T, and shares exciting trends in the mental health field. IN THIS EPISODE [01:46] Similarities and differences between licensed professionals and the average person getting support for substance use. [06:22] How doctors compare to other patients in treatment [09:54] How treatment for lawyers is specialized [12:54] The correlation among addiction, success, and wealth [18:21] An explanation of DBT [23:42] Alex shares what he is looking forward to in the field in the coming years KEY TAKEAWAYS Technology is being used in the mental health field making treatment more accessible and offering different solutions for clients. DBT is an effective therapy technique because it is applicable in real-time. Doctors, lawyers, and other licensed professionals often have a hard time seeking help for substance use because they are afraid it will affect their license. Veritus and the Freedom Institute both aim to help treatment be more accessible to this population. RESOURCES: Beyond the Balance Sheet Website Veritus Website BIO: Alex Dayton is a Psychotherapist in private practice and an advisor to several organizations helping to support mental healthcare programming and strategy. Alex served for several years as the Clinical Director for Freedom Institute, an outpatient treatment program located in New York City.. In addition, Alex served as the Vice President of clinical strategy and business development for Freedom Institute. Alex served as Chief Clinical Officer of Veritus, a virtual intensive outpatient program he helped launch and design to treat medical professionals, lawyers, and judges struggling with substance use disorder. Alex remains a consultant for both Freedom Institute and Veritus as a senior advisor. In addition to his Masters degree from New York University, Alex has received intensive training in DBT, and advanced practices in DBT from Marsha Linehan at Behavioral Tech. He has received training in cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) from the Beck Institute, completed the Foundations in Family Therapy Program at The Ackerman Institute for The Family, and completed training in advanced practices for Motivational Interviewing from MINT. Alex completed training at Bellevue hospital and at FEGS, working with adults who have both chronic mental illness and addiction. He has worked with adults, adolescents, and children at the Brooklyn Center for Psychotherapy and on a research team at New York University conducting HIV and substance use research.
That Wellness Podcast with Natalie Deering: Internal Family Systems with a Twist
This episode was a real treat to be able to sit with my IFS Level 1 lead trainer Ann Sinko and talk with her about her speciality of legacy burdens. In the episode Ann shares her history and relationship with IFS, how IFS is a constraint release model, what are legacy burdens, epigenetics, how to identify legacy burdens, adaption and LB's, covert vs. overt ways to get legacy burdens, the 9 rules of shame (used to be 8), and the steps to help address and release legacy burdens. Ann is a senior trainer for the IFS institute and is a licensed marriage and family therapist. She was an adjunct professor at Central Connecticut State University in the Marriage and Family Therapy Program for 27 years. Ann conducts continuing education workshops on legacy burdens and grief retreats in her private practice in Portland, Connecticut. Ann Sinko Resources: IFS Online Circle Program: https://courses.ifs-institute.com/sales/ifs_c_irs035190_ifscircle_spring2023_homepage-619825 IFS Continuity Program: https://courses.ifs-institute.com/sales/ifs_irs035430_continuity_spring2023_ifsihomepage-627147 Natalie Deering Resources: Website: www.ndwellnessservices.com Instagram: @nataliedeering
Dr. George James, LMFT, counsels people on how to overcome everyday relational struggles so they can build successful connections in love, family and career. With a practical approach to relationships and life, Dr. James helps bring success within reach of those he influences. He works extensively with professional athletes, entertainers, adult men and women, executives, couples and young adult men on various issues, including adulting, career, anxiety, work-life balance, love life, leadership, parenting, depression and communication. Dr. James is the Chief Innovation Officer, senior staff therapist and AAMFT-approved supervisor at Council for Relationships. In addition, he is an assistant professor for the Couple and Family Therapy Program at Thomas Jefferson University. Dr. James graduated from Villanova University as a Presidential Scholar and majored in psychology with a concentration in Africana Studies. He received his Masters of Family Therapy degree from Drexel University (where he also received awards in leadership and community service) and his doctorate in clinical psychology from Immaculata University. He is married to Candace, and they are parents to their creative daughter, Nalani and cheerful son, Alexander. The mission of George Talks, LLC is to inspire, teach and empower interpersonal relationships by helping individuals to have fulfilling, meaningful and fruitful familial, business and intimate relationships. George Talks, LLC also seeks to help people overcome the individual and relational struggles and challenges that prevent them from maximizing their potential. Through its innovative programs, events and resources George Talks, LLC will increase knowledge, skills, and efficacy and empower individuals, couples, families and businesses to actualize their full potential. Utilizing a model that allows individuals, couples and families to appropriately identify problem areas, repair past struggles and rebuild, we aim to promote strong, healthy, fruitful, productive and vibrant interpersonal relationships. you can find his social media pages here: https://georgetalks.com/?page_id=3000
Is scheduling sex a good idea? And how do you deal with a partner - who is struggling with erection issues? Is avoidance of sex but engagement with porn an indication of a Madonna-whore complex? We discuss all this and more with the therapist Kat Kova. Don't forget to check out the Womanizer Starlet, which is on sale this week & you can save an EXTRA 15% with code DRJESS15. Kat Kova is currently; a Ph.D. student in the Social and Personality Psychology Program at York University. She holds a Master of Science Degree in the Couple & Family Therapy Program from the University of Guelph, an Honours BA Degree in Psychology from York University and a Certificate in Sexuality Studies from York University. She is an Associate Member of BESTCO (Board of Examiners of Sex Therapy and Counselling in Ontario) and has completed the Sex Therapy Intensive Training at the University of Guelph. She is trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), Solution-Focused Therapy (SFT), Narrative Therapy and mindfulness approaches and personalizes treatment according to your specific needs and the concerns you wish to address. Kat is also trained in embodied experiential dreamwork practices, an effective treatment for alleviating suffering from trauma-related nightmares and PTSD symptoms. Learn more on the Kat Kova Therapy website. If you have podcast questions, please submit them here. Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health, or other professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. Scheduling Sex, Erectile Issues & Sexual Avoidance 00:02 You're listening to the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast, sex and relationship advice you can use tonight. 00:17 Welcome to the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast. I'm your co-host Brandon Ware here with my lovely other half, Dr. Jess. Good morning. It is 10.45 on a Monday morning for us here. Yes it is. And at 10.45 in the morning, would you like to schedule some sex? I would sure like to schedule some sex. Where are we going with this? Do you feel like we schedule sex at all? No, I don't. Okay. So I feel like we sort of do. I know that it doesn't go in our calendars, but I feel like we make time for it. Who are you having sex with then? 00:47 I'll invite to the wrong Brandon. Another Brandon. It's another realtor named Brandon. It's really good if anyone's in the market. At multiple things apparently. Okay. I know we don't put it in the calendar. I know we don't say, hey, at 3 PM on Saturday, would you like to have the sex with me? Sexy time. I do feel like we carve out time. I have an idea sometimes of when you're going to want to have sex with me. Do you? Yeah. I've got to tell. I've got to tell. You don't know you want it, but I know you want it. 01:17 I don't know what the tell it. Okay, I'm going to give one example. When I... Please do share more of Brandon's secrets. When I'm on the road for work and I know that I'm leaving, you carve out time the night before. Yes, I do. Not just for sex, but just to be with me, to try and be home, to try and not be working, to try and not have phone calls. And it always leads to sex. It usually does. Yes, you're right. I do do that. So there's some scheduling of sex. And you know, we've got an expert who's going to help us kind of parse whether or not we should schedule sex 01:47 There's research on the topic. Let's schedule in this time to start right now. Let's do this. Before we welcome our esteemed guest, quick note, the Womanizer Starlet is 50% off at lovehoney.com or lovehoney.ca or lovehoney.uk,
Is scheduling sex a good idea? And how do you deal with a partner - who is struggling with erection issues? Is avoidance of sex but engagement with porn an indication; of a Madonna-whore complex? We discuss all this and more with the therapist Kat Kova. Don't forget to check out the Womanizer Starlet, which is discounted to 50% off this week & you can save an extra 15% with code DRJESS15. Kat is currently; a Ph.D. student in the Social and Personality Psychology Program at York University. She holds a Master of Science Degree in the Couple & Family Therapy Program from the University of Guelph, an Honours BA Degree in Psychology from York University and a Certificate in Sexuality Studies from York University. She is an Associate Member of BESTCO (Board of Examiners of Sex Therapy and Counselling in Ontario) and has completed the Sex Therapy Intensive Training at the University of Guelph. She is trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), Solution-Focused Therapy (SFT), Narrative Therapy and mindfulness approaches and personalizes treatment according to your specific needs and the concerns you wish to address. Kat is also trained in embodied experiential dreamwork practices, an effective treatment for alleviating suffering from trauma-related nightmares and PTSD symptoms. Learn more on the Kat Kova Therapy website. If you have podcast questions, please submit them here. Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health, or other professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. Scheduling Sex, Erectile Issues & Sexual Avoidance 00:02 You're listening to the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast, sex and relationship advice you can use tonight. 00:17 Welcome to the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast. I'm your co-host Brandon Ware here with my lovely other half, Dr. Jess. Good morning. It is 10.45 on a Monday morning for us here. Yes it is. And at 10.45 in the morning, would you like to schedule some sex? I would sure like to schedule some sex. Where are we going with this? Do you feel like we schedule sex at all? No, I don't. Okay. So I feel like we sort of do. I know that it doesn't go in our calendars, but I feel like we make time for it. Who are you having sex with then? 00:47 I'll invite to the wrong Brandon. Another Brandon. It's another realtor named Brandon. It's really good if anyone's in the market. At multiple things apparently. Okay. I know we don't put it in the calendar. I know we don't say, hey, at 3 PM on Saturday, would you like to have the sex with me? Sexy time. I do feel like we carve out time. I have an idea sometimes of when you're going to want to have sex with me. Do you? Yeah. I've got to tell. I've got to tell. You don't know you want it, but I know you want it. 01:17 I don't know what the tell it. Okay, I'm going to give one example. When I... Please do share more of Brandon's secrets. When I'm on the road for work and I know that I'm leaving, you carve out time the night before. Yes, I do. Not just for sex, but just to be with me, to try and be home, to try and not be working, to try and not have phone calls. And it always leads to sex. It usually does. Yes, you're right. I do do that. So there's some scheduling of sex. And you know, we've got an expert who's going to help us kind of parse whether or not we should schedule sex 01:47 There's research on the topic. Let's schedule in this time to start right now. Let's do this. Before we welcome our esteemed guest, quick note, the Womanizer Starlet is 50% off at lovehoney.com or lovehoney.ca or lovehoney.uk,
Alex Dayton has an impressive history in the mental health field including serving as the Clinical Director for Freedom Institute and the Chief Clinical Officer of Veritus. He joins us today to talk about addiction treatment and recovery for licensed professionals. Because of their license, professionals like doctors, lawyers, and judges are more reluctant to seek treatment. The program offered by Veritus, which uses technology, helps to make treatment more accessible to this population. Listen to today's episode as Alex talks about the correlation among addiction, wealth, and success, explains dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), and shares exciting trends in the mental health field. IN THIS EPISODE [01:46] Similarities and differences between licensed professionals and the average person getting support for substance use. [06:22] How doctors compare to other patients in treatment [09:54] How treatment for lawyers is specialized [12:54] The correlation among addiction, success, and wealth [18:21] An explanation of DBT [23:42] Alex shares what he is looking forward to in the field in the coming years KEY TAKEAWAYS Technology is being used in the mental health field making treatment more accessible and offering different solutions for clients. DBT is an effective therapy technique because it is applicable in real-time. Doctors, lawyers, and other licensed professionals often have a hard time seeking help for substance use because they are afraid it will affect their license. Veritus and the Freedom Institute both aim to help treatment be more accessible to this population. RESOURCES: Beyond the Balance Sheet Website Veritus Website BIO: Alex Dayton is a Psychotherapist in private practice and an advisor to several organizations helping to support mental healthcare programming and strategy. Alex served for several years as the Clinical Director for Freedom Institute, an outpatient treatment program located in New York City.. In addition, Alex served as the Vice President of clinical strategy and business development for Freedom Institute. Alex served as Chief Clinical Officer of Veritus, a virtual intensive outpatient program he helped launch and design to treat medical professionals, lawyers, and judges struggling with substance use disorder. Alex remains a consultant for both Freedom Institute and Veritus as a senior advisor. In addition to his Masters degree from New York University, Alex has received intensive training in DBT, and advanced practices in DBT from Marsha Linehan at Behavioral Tech. He has received training in cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) from the Beck Institute, completed the Foundations in Family Therapy Program at The Ackerman Institute for The Family, and completed training in advanced practices for Motivational Interviewing from MINT. Alex completed training at Bellevue hospital and at FEGS, working with adults who have both chronic mental illness and addiction. He has worked with adults, adolescents, and children at the Brooklyn Center for Psychotherapy and on a research team at New York University conducting HIV and substance use research.
Today's Goddess chat is episode 69 so I thought I would play off the number a bit and talk about pleasuring ourselves. So what could the Goddess of Feminine Wisdom and Goddess of Pleasure Seeking come up with in a 35 min personal freedom chat? A lot! Listen in. Listen in to this play on the Sexy 69 conversation as Dr. Rose Schlaff and I discuss: What is a pleasurable experience and why most people are robbing themselves of it How Dr. Rose created her path to personal and financial empowerment by personal alignment and repositioning herself in the loud pelvic health and women's health markets Where on the road to success Dr. Rose came into her gifts Where we can discover our own roadblocks as the wounded self, healer, empowered medicine women, and social healer by learning the pleasure principle. Where intimacy comes into the conversation What she wished she knew a decade ago and hopes to move forward as her message How you can download a ton of her online tools and apply for some personal reflection and attention from her. Do not miss this episode especially if you are struggling with reconnecting with people ( in and out of the bedroom) post quarantine and lifestyle shifts brought on by the pandemic. Our goddess wisdom guest: Dr. Rose Schlaff | Sex Coach and Pelvic Floor Physical Therapist, Founder of Be Well with Rose, LLC Dr. Rose Schlaff is a sex coach and pelvic floor physical therapist who has spent the last 5 years helping women and queer folks break down barriers to intimacy so they can feel confident, connected, and carefree in their relationships in and out of the bedroom. In addition to her virtual sex/intimacy coaching practice, she is a guest lecturer for the University of Michigan's Human Sexuality Certificate Program, San Diego State University's Marriage and Family Therapy Program, and has had the opportunity to lecture internationally on the topic of sexual and pelvic health in Beijing, China. To learn more, go to https://www.bewellwithrose.com, check out Dr. Rose on Instagram @bewellwithrose, Bonus Resources: Download a load of her yummy: Free guides for Sex Talk, Vacation sex, Postpartum intimacy, and access to events and 1:1 applications
This week, Meg and Kylie sat down with Dr. Rose Schlaff to talk all things breaking down the barriers to intimacy. Dr. Rose Schlaff is a sex/intimacy coach and pelvic floor physical therapist who has spent the last 5 years helping women and queer folks break down barriers to intimacy so they can feel confident, connected, and carefree in their relationships in and out of the bedroom. In addition to her virtual sex/intimacy coaching practice, she is a guest lecturer for the University of Michigan's Human Sexuality Certificate Program, San Diego State University's Marriage and Family Therapy Program, and has had the opportunity to lecture internationally on the topic of sexual and pelvic health in Beijing, China. To learn more, go to https://www.bewellwithrose.com/learn-more , check out Dr. Rose on instagram @bewellwithrose, or get in touch with Dr. Rose at bewellwithrose@gmail.com. You can download Dr. Rose's FREE guide to talking sex at www.bewellwithrose.com/talk Actionable steps for this episode: People who are socialized as female tend to be taught to prioritize others desires before their own People with vulvas' pleasure is often not prioritized in our media You have PERMISSION to prioritize your pleasure and communicate your desires Ingredients for better intimacy: Decrease stress Connect with your body Ask yourself what you want (this doesn't even have to be about sex- you can start really small and just ask yourself what you want for dinner!) Make sure your "inner spotlight" is shining on you during intimate contact, not JUST your partner. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/curious-women/support
In this episode, Terry discusses his experience initially being trained psychodynamically and psychoanalytically, but finding that it did not seem to be a good fit for the population whom he was working with, which were families in Chinatown in San Francisco, many of which were immigrants. He discussed how a training at the Mental Research Institute (MRI) had a profound impact on him when he heard the person teaching saying that people are not sick, they are stuck. The therapist's job is to help them get unstuck. Terry discusses the four elements that he feels are important to working with clients and families, which are related to the relationship, being humanistic in approach, understanding the client's cultural context, activating the clients' strengths, and the placebo effect, which is the client's belief that positive change is possible. We discussed the differences between the Brief Strategic MRI model and Jay Haley's Strategic Family Therapy model, and the 180 degree shift in solution. This is based on the idea that the attempted solution has become the problem. We discussed one example of a session Terry had written about, and how both the cultural competency and the MRI model came into play. The case involved a Vietnamese woman who was encouraged by her previous therapists to stop taking care of her sick father and instead individuate and take care of herself. She flatly rejected this idea. Terry understood the importance of certain roles in collectivists cultures. Instead of encouraging her to take care of herself more, he helped her to become more effective in caring for the father. He used different metaphors to step into the clients' worldview and shifted the system, which worked within the client's cultural context. The intervention was a success and the father and the client experienced great improvement. Terry discussed his approach called, Strength Based Culturally Informed Integrated Model, and how the two most important parts are adaptability and flexibility, and collaborating with your clients on creative interventions to disrupt the stuck cycle and generate new more effective solutions. Terry Soo-Hoo, PhD is currently professor at the California State University East Bay in the Marriage and Family Therapy Program, and was the Clinical Director of MRI in Palo Alto. He completed his Ph.D. in clinical psychology at the University of California, Berkeley and is Board Certified in Family and Couples Psychology (ABPP). Prior to university teaching he devoted over twenty years as a psychologist in Community Mental Health Services in San Francisco working with a diverse range of people with many different psychological problems. Terry's publications include topics on multi-cultural issues in psychotherapy and consultation, brief therapy and couples therapy. He has special interests in the area of innovative culturally relevant approaches to psychotherapy. He has also provided extensive presentations, training, supervision and consultation on these topics to agencies and other professionals in many countries around the world.
Post-traumatic stress disorder is a diagnosis discussed frequently for families navigating the NICU. A family's personal journey can also cause strain on marriage and a change in family dynamics with siblings at home. We will be speaking about these important topics today with Kellie Wicklund and Jenny Limm. Kellie Wicklund is a licensed Psychotherapist with 20 years of experience, and is the Owner and Clinical Director of the Maternal Wellness Center. Kellie is certified by Postpartum Support International as a Perinatal Mental Health Specialist. Her experience with both private and community clients has nurtured a passion in the area of reproductive health psychology — a specialty that acknowledges the complexity and trials of the developmental process of parenthood. Jenny is a marriage and family therapist, with specialization in sex therapy holding both a masters degree from Drexel University's Couple and Family Therapy Program and Widener University's Master of Education in Human Sexuality. She is currently a PhD candidate at Widener University to officially become a sex-doctor, as a clinical sexologist. Prior to this specialization in sex therapy, Jenny had extensive experience working with teens and families in crisis, as a lead clinician at a adolescent psychiatric hospital (both inpatient, and partial hospitalization programs), as well as lead therapist in family based services in Philadelphia. On this podcast episode: - Kelly and Jenny discuss Post-traumatic Stress Disorder, among NICU families, and what that actually means. - You will hear information about how to know if you are experiencing symptoms of PTSD. - Knowing the NICU experience is traumatic, as parents, we will find out how not to transfer that anxiety and feelings of trauma to our own children as they are babies and grow older. - With our personal story, we have always been very protective of Claire probably out of fear and just all that we have navigated through to help her feel successful. Kelly and Jenny will share what they tell parents to help them feel empowered to let go even a little bit. - We talk about siblings in a home with medically fragile children, and what that has looked like with families Kelly and Jenny have helped. - You will hear about how parents can include the child who does not have special needs. - We discuss how trauma can impact a marriage or partnership. - Kelly and Jenny share the signs that a family may need counseling. Please subscribe to the TODAY is a Good Day Podcast, wherever you enjoy your podcasts, or on our YouTube channel. This episode was produced and directed by Tony Lopes, of SoftStix Productions LLC (www.softstixproductions.com), in collaboration with co-producer and director of photography Michael Leary, of One Fifteen Films LLC (www.onefifteenfilms.com), and editor David DeLizza. Copyright 2020 to 2022, SoftStix Productions LLC.
Have you found love in the pandemic? Decided it was time to break things off with someone? Has the pandemic brought you and your partner closer together… or has it made your relationship more rocky? The American Family Survey found in 2020 that 37 percent of married people reported that the pandemic has increased stress in their marriage. But on the flipside, that same survey found that 56 percent of those surveyed said the pandemic made them appreciate their partner more. So how can we strengthen our romantic relationships during times of prolonged stress and trauma? And how do we navigate dating and starting new relationships? MPR News guest host Twila Dang talks with a relationships and dating writer and a marriage and family therapist about navigating love during the pandemic. Guests: Lisa Bonos writes about dating and relationships for The Washington Post Steve Harris is a professor in the Couple and Family Therapy Program in the Department of Family Social Science at the University of Minnesota Yachao Li is an associate editor for the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships and an assistant professor of communication studies at the College of New Jersey Use the audio player above to listen to the full conversation. Subscribe to the MPR News with Angela Davis podcast on: Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify or RSS.
Our self-concept is always relational, so how we see ourselves as little ones depends on those around us. Our brain adapts to what it understands as the best way for us to survive. Behaviors that we receive positive feedback for are maintained while those that generate criticism are suppressed. We grow up without a point of comparison, often making it difficult to identify any flaws in the ways we were molded. As a result, and without noticing it, many of us confine ourselves inside invisible walls that keep us stuck. And, until we recognize what's not working for us and begin to consider the alternatives, we remain inmates living in our own invisible prisons. In this episode, we have an eye-opening and soul-touching chat with Dr. Angela Huebner; psychotherapist, executive coach, writer, and speaker. Angela holds a BA in Psychology from the University of Nebraska, as well as an MA and Ph.D in Family Studies & Human Development from the University of Arizona. We met and bonded with Angela when the three of us were students together in our wonderful International Coaching Federation Certification Training Program, FastTrack Coach Academy. Angela has over 30 years of experience working in the mental health field as a professor, researcher, and in private practice. For 17 years, she was a tenured associate professor in the Department of Human Development's Marriage and Family Therapy Program at Virginia Tech University. Her work included teaching clinical and research courses, supervising graduate students in their clinical work, and publishing research related to military families and adjustment. Angela also has multiple mental health certifications; Internal Family Systems Therapist, Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy, Tapping, Hypnosis, and Gottman Marriage Therapy, just to name a few. We had a deeply meaningful conversation about the invisible walls in our minds, including how to acknowledge and deal with them. Angela shared some brilliant insights on how our childhood experiences impact our lives without us noticing them. We spoke about our beliefs, the three planes of connection, intuition, the neural components of our emotions, and much more. Angela also described the difference between traditional therapy and coaching and asked an excellent question for our next guest. Some Questions We Ask:Where does one even start in trying to recognize that they're in this invisible prison in the first place? (10:48)What's the challenge for us in giving up our old beliefs? Why are we hanging on to them? (20:03)Can you speak about how your work allows us to step into other pieces of self or get in tune with other fragments of self like our intuition? (23:56)What do you recommend as a starting point for breaking down these invisible walls? (44:15)In This Episode, You Will Learn:How to recognize your invisible walls (10:54)Why it's hard to change beliefs that have seemingly served us well (19:42)The three planes of connection; self, source, and others (24:10)It is not about creating our vision; it is about remembering it (34:36)The gifts that come with getting our house in order and doing the work to sort out who we are (43:09)Resources:Angela J. Huebner websiteFastTrack Coach Academy websiteConnect with Angela:LinkedInEmail: angela@angelahuebner.com Connect With Bridget Sampson:WebsiteInstagramLinkedInConnect With Todd Parker:InstagramLinkedInSampson Coaching and Consulting:Sampson Coaching and ConsultingThe Right Questions Podcast on YouTubeSampson Coaching and Consulting Videos on YouTubeTED TalkInstagramFacebook Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode, Al interviews Dr. Joyce Baptist, a professor in the Couple and Family Therapy Program at Kansas State University, on the topic of Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy (recorded 6-7-21). Dr. Baptist's current work focuses on examining the efficacy of clinical interventions to mitigate suffering from traumatic childhood events using EMDR. Dr. Baptist describes EMDR and shares how a therapist uses EMDR to work with their clients. Although EMDR is typically thought of as a therapy that is used for patients with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), Dr. Baptist has conducted some very promising research on the use of EMDR for the treatment of depression. Learn more about Dr. Baptist by visiting her page on the Kansas State University website. You can learn more about EMDR by visiting the EMDR International Association website. If you have listened and feel that you have received some value from the podcast, please consider supporting the show by becoming a Patron at patreon.com/thedepressionfiles. You can begin to support the show with as little as $1.00/month! In addition to The Depression Files podcast, you can find Al's blog at TheDepressionFiles.com. There, you can also find out how to work with Al as a coach or schedule him for a public speaking event. You will also find Al on Twitter @allevin18. Lastly, please subscribe to the show and take just a minute to leave a review and rating.
In this episode, Marisol talks about the significance of having a niche as it relates to getting more clients. Also, having a niche can improve your SEO results. For Marisol, she enjoys having sex therapy as her niche. We talk about her journey to becoming a sex therapist and advice for people who are venturing into this space. Later, we chat about the importance of outsourcing when it comes to saving time and money – plus, it can even make you money in the long run! Meet Marisol Westberg Hi, I am Dr. Westberg and I am a sex therapist and couple's counselor in Portland, OR. I am a board-certified sexologist (ACS), certified sex educator (AASECT), and a licensed couple's counselor (LMFT). I am a former Professor in the Marriage, Couple, and Family Therapy Program at Lewis and Clark College in Portland, Oregon. I coordinated the Sex Therapy Track and supervised students in their clinical training. I have offices in both Portland and Seattle but am doing only virtual sessions at the moment. Sex Therapy As A Niche Marisol says that the sex therapy niche landed on her lap rather than looking for it. It just started because she was teaching a course on sex therapy. Marisol had never done one case of sex therapy. Interestingly, she began teaching as she was starting out her private practice journey. As soon as she started to focus on sex therapy, her practice started to flourish. With a sex therapy niche, Marisol had a lot more people contacting her; she realized creating that niche was really a way to grow her practice. Sadly, there's a lot of stigma and shame and all that kind of stuff around the sex therapy niche. When we're training, or when we're going to school, they do teach us a minimal amount of what we should do with human sexuality. Most of the courses in person or online on sex therapy still continue to expand on the human sexuality piece. However, they don't really focus on the therapeutic part, like how we get people to move through their issues? Moving To Telehealth During Covid Marisol is a fan of the business side of things. She likes to expand on different aspects of her private practice. So when Covid hit, Marisol saw that everything was going to Zoom. So, it made business sense to stop paying rent. Marisol decided to cut her costs, leave the city, and live on a beach. If you do go out of the country, you save yourself from paying a lot of the income tax because the income you're getting is from a different country. It's $100,000 that you don't have to pay income taxes on. Making Sex Therapy Effective It is a complicated piece in sex therapy to address sexual desire. All the interventions presented out there are counter-therapeutic. Actually, it creates more of a problem. Sadly, the solution creates more of the problem. For example, some people with low sexual desire say you just have to push yourself more. They think you just have to find ways to increase your sexual desire and just go do it. The reality is that these solutions are mostly very gendered. Women are constantly pushing themselves to be more sexual. However, that's just not how desire works. When women push themselves, it creates trauma. In reality, a lack of sexual desire is affected by being tired and being stressed. To solve the problem, women should work on being less tired and less stressed. Women can light candles and do yoga. Slowly touching your partner will also help. Make sure there is nothing forceful going on. Outsourcing SEO Work Marisol saw a significant shift in the private practice world with outsourcing. She does all her own website design and social media. However, when she hired somebody to do the actual SEO stuff, that pulled her up in the search results. Some people are just straight out of school and haven't had a lot of time with their website. Yet, they are still number two in Google. There's a lot more to website work than some people can even imagine. A little money will go a long way when it comes to getting your website found. When running a business, it's important to recognize when you can bootstrap and when you can outsource. Sometimes, outsourcing will save you a lot of time and money. Plus, in the long run, it can even make you money! Being transparent… Some of the resources below use affiliate links which simply means we receive a commission if you purchase using the links, at no extra cost to you. Thanks for using the links! Marisol's Resources Website LinkedIn Resources Use the promo code "GORDON" to get 2 months of Therapy Notes free. 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Dr. George James, LMFT, counsels people on how to overcome everyday relational struggles so they can build successful connections in love, family and career. With a practical approach to relationships and life, Dr. James helps bring success within reach of those he influences. He works extensively with professional athletes,entertainers, adult men and women, executives, couples and young adult men on various issues, including adulting, career, anxiety, work-life balance, love life, leadership, parenting, depression and communication. Dr. James is the Chief Innovation Officer, senior staff therapist and AAMFT-approved supervisor at Council for Relationships. In addition, he is an assistant professor for the Couple and Family Therapy Program at ThomasJefferson University. Dr. James graduated from Villanova University as a Presidential Scholar and majored in psychology with a concentration in Africana Studies. He received his Masters of Family Therapy degree from Drexel University (where he also received awards in leadership and community service) and his doctorate in clinical psychology from Immaculata University. SHOW DETAILS Running time: 46:37 Subscribe on iTunes and leave us a review! or subscribe on: Overcast | Spotify | Google Play | Stitcher CONNECT WITH GEORGE George’s Website George on Twitter George on Instagram George on Linkedin Council For Relationships CONNECT WITH JEFF @JGibbard on Twitter Jeff on Linkedin (make sure to introduce yourself) Jeff’s Website Support Shareable on Patreon Email to hire Jeff as a speaker, trainer, or consultant Join The Superhero Institute
Dr. George James, LMFT, counsels people on how to overcome everyday relational struggles so they can build successful connections in love, family and career. With a practical approach to relationships and life, Dr. James helps bring success within reach of those he influences. He works extensively with professional athletes,entertainers, adult men and women, executives, couples and young adult men on various issues, including adulting, career, anxiety, work-life balance, love life, leadership, parenting, depression and communication. Dr. James is the Chief Innovation Officer, senior staff therapist and AAMFT-approved supervisor at Council for Relationships. In addition, he is an assistant professor for the Couple and Family Therapy Program at ThomasJefferson University. Dr. James graduated from Villanova University as a Presidential Scholar and majored in psychology with a concentration in Africana Studies. He received his Masters of Family Therapy degree from Drexel University (where he also received awards in leadership and community service) and his doctorate in clinical psychology from Immaculata University. SHOW DETAILS Running time: 46:37 Subscribe on iTunes and leave us a review! or subscribe on: Overcast | Spotify | Google Play | Stitcher CONNECT WITH GEORGE George's Website George on Twitter George on Instagram George on Linkedin Council For Relationships CONNECT WITH JEFF @JGibbard on Twitter Jeff on Linkedin (make sure to introduce yourself) Jeff's Website Support Shareable on Patreon Email to hire Jeff as a speaker, trainer, or consultant Join The Superhero Institute
本集節目邀請諮商心理師Jane暢談「關係in and out」,她的專長在於「伴侶諮商」、「情侶諮商」、「家庭諮商」等婚姻與家族治療,取得美國奧勒岡大學(University of Oregon)家族婚姻諮商碩士(Couples and Family Therapy Program)後返台,追蹤IG:https://www.instagram.com/pingpongjiang/(乒乓將心理師) #關係 #心理諮商 #分手療癒 #自處 #伴侶諮商 #情侶諮商 本節目邀約、合作、演講、工商資訊,請聯繫:livehostgladys@gmail.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gladys-lee/support
This weeks episode is about the Power of Running and Exercise and the positive effects it can have on one's mental health. Enter Dan McGann. Dann is a psychotherapist in Ontario who started a fantastic run program for teens with mental health concerns. The program includes, as well, high-conflict, chaotic families systems. Dan started the running program as an adjunct to traditional counseling or psychotherapy. Check out his documentary on Amazon Prime. It's called Run Rx. See for yourself what a little commitment and exercise can do for one's sense of confidence and mastery. Mad love! Dan's Information and Bio: Dan McGann, MSW, RSW Child, Adolescent, Individual and Family Therapist Private Practice Psychotherapist 168 Queen St South, Suite 208 Mississauga, ON., L5M 1K8 Phone: 416 970 2396 Web: www.danmcganntherapy.com Dan has been a practicing child and family therapist now for over 30 years. Dan completed his undergraduate degree in psychology at Wilfred Laurier University and 1981 and his Masters in Social Work from University of Toronto in 1987. His first 5 years of practice was at the world-renowned Hospital for Sick Children in Toronto. There, Dan worked in various areas that included; Kidney transplant and dialysis, general surgery, general paediatrics, and for 3 years on the paediatric plastics and burn unit. In November of 1991 Dan moved to The Credit Valley Hospital here in Mississauga where he continued his work in paediatrics but also in Adolescent Psychiatry and Family Therapy Program. After suffering through a major depressive episode himself in his late 30s Dan began to take up running as a part of his recovery. After completing his first full marathon in May of 2006 Dan felt so good he started the first ever Teen Run Group Therapy Program. This has been running now for over 16 years and has received much media coverage in the Toronto Star, City TV, Chatelaine, Runner’s World and Canadian Running magazines. Dan retired from the hospital in March of 2013 but continues to run the Run Program there. He now devotes his time primarily to his busy private practice office in Streetsville where he sees teens, parents, couples and individuals. Articles and videos Here is a Toronto Star Article on the run group http://www.thestar.com/news/insight/2011/12/02/teen_suicide_chasing_down_demons.htmlHere is the City TV coverage from 2007 – (excuse my hair-very 80's) http://www.citynews.ca/2010/11/30/blinded-by-the-dark-part-2-citynews-explores-teen-depression-2/
Do you want to take your next step in life with confidence? Meet Angela J. Huebner, Ph.D., LMFT. Angela has been studying and working in the field of mental health for more than 30 years. Conversation Includes: Understand the steps to get rid of “pleasing” and “perfection” How to deal with the insecurity of your changing body Find the curiosity in anxiety and emotions What emotions are you protecting you? Do you know your “Now What”? Emotions and their patterns Grandparenting And so much more…. Angela J. Huebner, Ph.D., LMFT Website: S https://www.angelahuebner.com/about Angela has been studying and working in the field of mental health for more than 30 years. She earned her bachelor’s degree in psychology at the University of Nebraska, and a masters and Ph.D. in Family Studies & Human Development at the University of Arizona. For 17 years, she was a tenured associate professor in the Department of Human Development’s Marriage and Family Therapy Program at Virginia Tech in Falls Church, VA. She taught both clinical and research courses, supervised graduate students in their clinical work, and conducted and published research related to military families and psychological adjustment. She is currently in a full-time private psychotherapy practice in Northern Virginia. Credentials: Ph.D. Family Studies and Human Development, University of Arizona (1995) Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist VA license #0717001313 Clinical member of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT) Approved AAMFT Clinical Supervisor Certified Internal Family Systems Therapist Life-force Yoga Practitioner Additional trainings: o Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy (EFT) o Gottman Marriage Therapy (level 1) o Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) o Tapping (Emotional Freedom Technique) o Interpersonal Neurobiology o Sixth Sensory Living Your Co-Hosts take a deep dive into the mysterious world of midlife (45+ years old) with honest, humorous, relatable, and candid conversations with field experts and amazing, thriving women. We laugh, giggle, and sometimes cry as we glean many tips to muster through this journey called midlife. Share, subscribe, rate, and review our podcast wherever you get your podcasts, so you do not miss an episode! Also join the conversation with 1,000’s of like-minded women on Facebook, and Instagram. Check out our website! www.yoursecondseason.com A Parkville Media Production. A podcast management and podcast production company based in Omaha, NE.
In this episode, we are going to delve into one of the most important, but often overlooked areas of our lives, our relationships. It’s something that I personally wanted to learn more about as I am no expert in this field. My guest today, Dr. Kirk Honda is a licensed psychologist and one of the very few experts that marry psychology with marriage and family therapy. Dr. Kirk Honda shares his expertise on personality disorders and attachment models. With over 20 years of experience practicing, Dr. Kirk Honda talks about what he has learned most about relationships and how you can apply it in yours! I personally enjoyed this conversation much as i realized how should I position myself in a relationship based on the partners’ needs. Dr. Honda is the host of the Psychology in Seattle podcast. Kirk Honda has been a marriage and family therapist in Seattle since 1996 and he has been teaching in the Couple and Family Therapy Program since 1998. He has been supervising clinicians in their work with clients since 1999 and is an AAMFT approved supervisor. He has been hosting The Psychology in Seattle since 2008. He has been interviewed as an expert in psychology and psychotherapy in the media. He has given community presentations on various psychological topics including couple therapy, personality disorders, and therapists’ experience of difficult clinical moments. Show Notes 0:30 Introduction to Dr. Kirk Honda 1:05 What is the Psychology in Seattle podcast 2:08 Why are relationships really important 5:29 Bridging the gap of different interests in a relationship 7:07 Different emotional attachments of people 12:10 Parenting guideline for kid behavior management 15:15 What can we do about the 4 different attachment concepts 16:50 Recommended attachment style for overworked and overcommitted people 21:30 Attachment behavior and classification 28:30 Can the child attachment style develop a pattern into that person’s relationship 32:20 What is the best thing for preoccupied insecure people to do 37:40 The impact of technology in communication methods on relationships 43:00 Generalization can often be misleading for attachment styles 47:12 Where can people find more about Dr. Kirk and his work 48:48 Dr. Honda’s final advice Connect with Dr. Kirk Honda https://psychologyinseattle.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychologyinseattle/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/PsychInSeattle Resources Dr. Kirk Honda’ books: Multirole Clinical Supervision: Evidence, Reflections, and Best Practices https://www.amazon.com/Multirole-Clinical-Supervision-Reflections-Practices/dp/1973214229/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&qid=1590137982&refinements=p_27%3AKirk+Honda&s=books&sr=1-1&text=Kirk+Honda Mary Ainsworth experiment: https://www.simplypsychology.org/mary-ainsworth.html CONNECT WITH MADS MISIAK FRIIS https://growthisland.io/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/madsmfriis/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/madsmf/ Find the episode at:
This podcast, Let's Talk Intimacy, Jen Ransil joined us for an open conversation regarding intimacy and disabilities for couples. Jen is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in Pennsylvania; Adjunct Professor, Human Development and Family Science, Messiah College and Adjunct Professor, Marriage and Family Therapy Program, Evangelical Theological Seminary. When Jen is not teaching she has a private practice in which she sees clients with couple/family issues, mental health, trauma and PTSD, and pre/post-deployment, as well as, wounded veterans' families. She specializes in sex therapy and relationship issues within military families. #ThisCaregiverLife #Intimacy #TBI #ChangeYourMind --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thiscaregiverlife/message
Find out what's new in the updated version of the Substance Abuse Prevention Skills Training curriculum! The SAPST has been a staple in prevention professionals training since the early 1990s. Over the years it has been updated with current data, latest trends, and all around improvements. SAPST Master Trainers worked tirelessly last year and now bring you the most up-to-date and current SAPST curriculum. During this episode, I speak with SAPST Master Trainer Dodi Swope and we unpack what is new in the curriculum. The same SAPST you know and love: but with a new haircut. Learning Community Link: https://conta.cc/2UuZhae Presenter: Dodi Swope, MEd, LMFT Dodi Swope recently joined the Southwest Prevention Center as a Training and Technical Assistant for the Region 6 Prevention Training and Technology Transfer Center. In this role, Dodi provides training and technical assistance to clients throughout Region 6 to assist them in achieving their substance misuse prevention outcomes. Dodi brings over 35 years of experience to this role, with a career that spans education, counseling psychology and public health. Most recently Dodi served as a training and technical assistance specialist at SAMHSA’s Center for the Application of Prevention Technologies (CAPT), working with states and tribes on their efforts to prevent substance misuse and substance use disorders. Dodi provided expertise on interventions across the lifespan and throughout the continuum of care to address the consequences of opioid misuse for the individual and their family and community. Dodi provided research and implementation expertise that included evidence-based programs for infants and toddlers in homes where opioid misuse is present, programs for affected children of elementary and middle school ages as well as more traditional high school prevention programs. Dodi also provided consultation on opioid overdose prevention, including harm reduction strategies and post overdose interventions to community leaders working on the ground to stem the tide of fatal opioid overdoses. Dodi’s passion is teaching others about the wonders of human development and assisting individuals, families, and communities in developing systems, programs, and interventions that support healthy people in healthy communities. Dodi holds Bachelors in Education from Wheelock College with a major in Early Childhood Education, with a concentration in Special Needs. She also earned a Masters in Education; Major in Counseling Psychology, Family Therapy Program, from the University of Massachusetts, Amherst. She is licensed as a Marriage and Family Therapist in the state of Massachusetts. Dodi’s background includes teaching in regular and special education settings and a clinical practice serving children and families impacted by substance use disorders in the Boston area for over ten years. For follow up questions, in-person training and technical assistance please visit www.pttcnetwork.org.
Dr. Noel Casiano obtained his Bachelor’s Degree in Sociology and a Master’s Degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from CCSU. He is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with the State of Connecticut. Dr. Casiano obtained a Doctorate Degree in Clinical Psychology from California Southern University and he is a clinical fellow, an Approved Supervisor and the chair of the National Trauma Interest Network with the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT). He is an Adjunct Professor in the Marriage and Family Therapy Program at Central Connecticut State University (CCSU). Dr. Casiano is also in private practice through Casiano Clinical Services, LLC in Hartford and Hamden, CT where he works with individuals and families to find healing and solutions for their concerns. Dr. Casiano has certification in the neuroscience of attachment, addictions and trauma. He is the author of “The Fatherhood Crisis” which is available on Amazon and Kindle. Dr. Casiano will soon be releasing his second book, “Just a Kid from Park Street” which provides an informative, firsthand glimpse into the personal challenges following experiences of trauma and loss, shining a spotlight on the psychological, neurological, emotional, and sociological aftereffects only now coming to light in scientific and medical research. Dr. Casiano is also a TEDx Speaker and his talk titled “What Happened to You” is available now on YouTube.
Dr. Kirk Honda, host of the Psychology in Seattle Podcast and a professor in the Couple and Family Therapy Program at Antioch University, shares his expertise on personality disorders and couples counseling. Taylor and Dr. Kirk Honda answer listener questions on how these disorders present themselves. With over 20 years of experience practicing, Dr. Kirk Honda shares what he has learned most about relationships and how you can apply it in yours! Psychology in Seattle Podcast
They left the nest, now what? As students across the country head to colleges for the first time, parents and the families back home have to adjust to a new normal. Chris Gonazlez, director of the Marriage and Family Therapy Program and associate professor of psychology at Lipscomb, who just moved his youngest child into the dorm and is a new empty-nester, shares insight on how to navigate this transition.
Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Heidi Stauber about social justice and cultural responsivity in the Couple and Family Therapy Program at Antioch University Seattle.The Psychology In Seattle Podcast.April 30, 2018.Email: Contact@PsychologyInSeattle.comList of all episodes: https://psychologyinseattle.squarespace.com/list-of-episodesBecome a patron of our podcast by going to https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattleMusic by Bread Knife Incident.
Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Fiona O'Farrel about sex therapy and the upcoming Sex and Intimacy Certification in the Couple and Family Therapy Program at Antioch University Seattle.The Psychology In Seattle Podcast.April 23, 2018.Email: Contact@PsychologyInSeattle.comList of all episodes: https://psychologyinseattle.squarespace.com/list-of-episodesBecome a patron of our podcast by going to https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattleMusic by Bread Knife Incident.
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Dr. Matt Brown is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Assistant Professor and Program Director of the Marriage and Family Therapy Program at the University of Houston-Clear Lake. He holds a doctorate degree from Texas Tech University and a master’s degree from Brigham Young University. He has been in practice for 10 years and currently sees clients in League City, Texas. He has conducted therapy in several settings; including, hospitals, community mental health agencies, home-based therapy, and most recently, private practice. He has worked with a wide range of issues and currently specializes in families of children with special needs and chronic illness as well as infidelity. He and his wife, Lisa, are the proud parents of three amazing daughters, all of whom have Diastrophic Dysplasia—a form of dwarfism. Email: dr.brown.mft@gmail.com Twitter: @drbrownmft Web: www.mattbrowntherapy.com StoryHinge http://storyhinge.com Where we amplify personal stories to consider more possibility and realize more potential and happiness in life.
Welcome to episode 23 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Katherine M. Hertlein, Ph.D., who speaks to me about how the internet has impacted our sex lives, defining compulsivity in relation to pornography and how social media can hinder our real life social skills. Katherine M. Hertlein, Ph.D., is a Professor and Program Director of the Marriage and Family Therapy Program at the University of Nevada, Las Vegas. She received her master's in marriage and family therapy from Purdue University Calumet and her doctorate in human development with a specialization in marriage and family therapy from Virginia Tech. She is a globally recognized researcher studying sexuality, technology, and its effects on couples. As she examines the role of technology in couple and family life, Hertlein has developed the first multi-theoretical model on this issue. In addition to technology and relationships, Hertlein's other areas of expertise include infidelity, sexuality, high-risk sexual behavior, child and adolescent therapy, and cyber issues in couple and family therapy. She is a licensed marriage and family therapist, an American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy Approved Supervisor, and a PREPARE/ENRICH Certified Counselor. Hertlein has co-authored 8 books, including Handbook for the Clinical Treatment of Infidelity, The Therapist's Notebook for Family Healthcare, Handbook for the Treatment of Infidelity, Systemic Sex Therapy, and A Clinician's Guide to Systemic Sex Therapy, the last revision of which won the 2017 AASECT Book Award. She has published more than 60 articles in the notable journals in her field, contributed over 40 chapters to books, and serves on the editorial boards for several academic journals. She was recently appointed as the Editor-in-Chief of the Journal of Couple and Relationship Therapy. Hertlein has also won several awards for her teaching, mentorship, and work in the field of sexuality research, including the Integrated Approaches to Sex Therapy Award through AASECT. In this episode, you will hear: How the internet has impacted our sex lives The impact of pornography on self-esteem How too much consumption of pornography can lead to a higher and higher need for stimulative images / videos The side effects of watching too much porn; erectile dysfunction Defining compulsivity in relation to pornography How the internet has impacted people's sexual behaviour and infidelity The need for more people to show their vulnerability How we have our “edited versions” of ourselves on social media Sexting; what it is and the benefits and risks that come with it How social media can hinder our real life social skills Resources https://www.unlv.edu/news/expert/katherine-m-hertlein http://oasis2care.com/ katherine.hertlein@unlv.edu https://www.amazon.com/Systemic-Sex-Therapy-Katherine-Hertlein/dp/0415738245
Full Title: Purposeful Pain: A Comparison of BDSM Participants and Individuals who Engage in Non-Suicidal Self-InjuryAnyone who engages in consensual masochism has probably encountered someone with the bias that those of us who enjoy receiving pain are actually engaging in self-harm by proxy, or that we are reenacting some sort of trauma from our past. This may be true for some people, but as a masochist who has a history of non-suicidal self-injury and childhood (physical) abuse, I know that what motivates me to engage in masochistic activities differs from why I engage in self-injury. I do not engage in BDSM because I am trying to overcome a past trauma, or harbour some latent desire to be abused.I know that what I experience when I am cuffed to a cross is not the same as when I scratch (my NSSI behaviour of compulsion). My mental state is very different when I engage in either activity. However, the association between BDSM masochistic interest and non-suicidal self-injury exists and it is still something that I encounter in clinical settings, even with the recent changes to the Mental Health Bible. As I said in Episode 10, it is important that we, BDSM practitioners, participate in studies so that our experiences become a part of the research that will bring understanding to the medical field. We need to be the voice behind the narrative of what we are all about. In this episode, I have the pleasure to speak with Dr. Markie Twist from the University of Wisconsin-Stout about the results of their recent survey entitled "Differences between BDSM Participants and Individuals who Engage in Non-Suicidal Self-Injury". Dr. Twist was a co-principal investigator of this study, which set out to " …understand the similarities and differences between the motivations, relational experiences, childhood histories, and characteristics of individuals who engage in intense BDSM sensation play and those who do or have engaged in non-suicidal self-injury behaviour. Specifically, the research study aims to understand the reasons and motivations behind these behaviours, as well as the personality characteristics of those who engage in these behaviours." (from the Purpose and Background of the study) Dr. Markie, and their team, presented the findings last month at The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Conference (SSSS2016) in Phoenix, Arizona. I am including a link to the presentation slides, for those who are interested in reading more.During the show, we will be talking about what motivated Dr. Markie to research this topic, as well as the methodology used by the research team to demonstrate and evaluate the differences between consensual masochism and self-harm. Of course, we will also discuss the findings of the study, including how these groups (BDSM and NSSI) measured up against a normed group.Guest BioMarkie Louise Christianson Twist, Ph.D., is the Program Coordinator of the Graduate Certificate in Sex Therapy Program, and Associate Professor in the Human Development and Family Studies Department and Marriage and Family Therapy Program at the University of Wisconsin-Stout. Dr. Twist is also an Affiliate of the Wisconsin HOPE (Harvesting Opportunities for Postsecondary Education) Lab at the University of Wisconsin-Madison. Markie is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (IA, NV) and Mental Health Counselor (IA), American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy Clinical Fellow and Approved Supervisor, and an American Association for Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists Certified Sexuality Educator. Markie is co-author of the book, *The Couple and Family Technology Framework: Intimate Relationships in a Digital Age*, and has published over 50 articles, 10 book chapters, and presented over 150 times in various venues. Markie serves as the *Journal of Marital and Family Therapy* Virtual Issues Editor, and is an editorial board member for the *Journal of Feminist Family Therapy: An International Forum, Sexual and Relationship Therapy*, and the *Journal of Couple and Relationship Therapy*. Dr. Twist’s research primarily focuses on: people whose sexual, gender, erotic, and relational orientations have been minoritized; professional mentoring and scholarly collaborative relationships; family and ecological sustainability; couple and family technology studies; and couple and family therapy technological practices. Relevant Links: Dr. Twists's Website: http://uwstout.academia.edu/MarkieTwistTwitter: @Markie_LouiseSSSS2016 Presentation: http://tinyurl.com/zcssfw2
This week, we're looking at the field of Evolutionary Psychology: what is it, how the research is done, what types of questions it might be good at answering, and times its ideas may have led us astray. We are joined by a panel of four: Maeve O'Donovan, Associate Professor and chair of Philosophy at Notre Dame of Maryland University; Kirk Honda, Chair of the Couple and Family Therapy Program at Antioch University Seattle, practicing psychotherapist, and host of the Psychology in Seattle podcast; Catherine Salmon, Professor of Psychology at the University of Redlands in Southern California and co-editor of the...
The Social Network Show welcomes Dr. Katherine Hertlein to the November 5, 2014 episode. Dr. Katherine Hertlein, an Associate Professor in the Marriage and Family Therapy Program and a Marriage and Family therapist talks about the patterns and signs that indicate that there may be trouble ahead in an online relationship. The following are some of the points that are covered in this episode of The Social Network Show: A false sense of control over what happens in an online relationship Warning signs of danger in the initiation phase and maintenance phase of a relationship Patterns and signs that an online relationship may be problematic Online dating and meeting in person for the first time Question of authenticity in online relationships Katherine Hertlein is an Associate Professor in the MFT Program at the Unversity of Nevada, Las Vegas. Sje earned a B.A. in Psychology from Truman State University, a M.S. in Marriage and Family Therapy from Purdue University Calumet, and a PhD in Human Development with a specialization in Marriage and Family Therapy from Virginia Tech. Her research interests include sexuality, technology and couples, and infidelity. She also conducts research on high-risk sexual behavior and technology and couples. Clinically, she is most interested in working with couples (specifically couples who experience sexual problems) and children. Dr. Hertlein has published over 40 articles, 5 books, and over 25 book chapters. She has co-edited a book on interventions in couples treatment, interventions for clients with health concerns, and a book on infidelity treatment. Recently, she published Systemic Sex Therapy and A Clinician's Guide to Systemic Sex Therapy, which are used in over 20 couple and family therapy training programs around the U.S. In 2009, Systemic Sex Therapy was nominated for a Professional Health Book Award through the Society for Sex Therapy and Research (SSTAR). Dr. Hertlein also serves on the editorial boards of several journals, including the Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, the Journal of Couple and Relationship Therapy, and the Journal of Family Psychotherapy. In her work related to couples and technology, she has produced the first multitheoretical model detailing the role of technology in couple and family life (forthcoming). She presents nationally and internationally on sex, technology, and couples. She has won numerous awards for teaching and research and is featured weekly as a guest on "Davenport After Dark", a radio program broadcast out of Dublin, Ireland.
Join us as Edward Callirgos shares his expertise on creating a fulfilling and successful relationship. In this episode, Edward gives relationship advice on conflict in marriage. Edward Callirgos is a Licensed Associate Marriage and Family Therapist. Edward is a graduate of the Arizona State University Marriage and Family Therapy Program. He is an adjunct instructor at Mesa Community College and a Clinical supervisor at an agency for mandated clients and families. Edward specializes in high conflict couples and families who are questioning divorce or uncertainty regarding their relationship. He lives in Arizona with his wife and 3 kids.
Leonard Szymczak, MSW, LCSW is an author and psychotherapist in Southern California. He is a motivational speaker and author of The Roadmap Home: Your GPS to Inner Peace, an Amazon Bestseller in 2009, as well as the novel, Cuckoo Forevermore, a light-hearted satire on psychotherapy. For the past 35 years he has worked both in Australia and America, counseling individuals, couples and families to resolve conflict. He was Director of the Family Therapy Program at the Marriage and Family Centre in Sydney, Australia, and later served as a senior affiliate therapist with the Family Institute at Northwestern University. Throughout his life he has been committed to ongoing personal growth and believes firmly in the power of the individual to overcome adversity and transform one's life. He utilizes the concept of the hero's journey and works with individuals to reshape their personal lives into powerful stories of success. www.theroadmaphome.com
Leonard Szymczak, MSW, LCSW, has been a psychotherapist and educator for over 35 years, both in Australia and America, working with individuals, couples, families and groups. He was Director of the Family Therapy Program at the Marriage and Family Centre in Sydney, Australia and later served as a senior affiliate therapist with the Family Institute at Northwestern University. His new book is The Roadmap Home: Your GPS to Inner Peace. He is also the author of the novel Cuckoo Forevermore, a light-hearted satire on psychotherapy, and its sequel, Kookaburra's Last Laugh, due out in 2010. Leonard has conducted countless seminars and presentations and has written numerous articles on mental health, personal development, stress management, and relationship building. Throughout his life, Leonard has been committed to ongoing personal growth and believes firmly in the power of the individual to overcome adversity and transform one's life. Like the mythologist Joseph Campbell, he utilizes the concept of the hero's journey to help individuals reshape their stories into amazing adventures. He firmly believes that when connected to the Guiding Power of Spirit, individuals can shift problems and pain into opportunities for healing and growth and return Home to love and inner peace. A licensed clinical social worker, Leonard lives near the beach in Southern California where he writes, conducts seminars, and maintains a private practice. He is the proud father of two adult children.