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Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2024 95:15

Dr. Heather and I discuss the recent developments in the Robert Morris abuse scandal. Below is a link to a very helpful interview, which we referenced, with Bob Hamp. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PWawzm11P74

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Episode 81 - Dr. Heather Evans & Catherine Wallace

The Gate Community Church Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2024 83:24

My good friends, Dr. Heather Evans and Catherine Wallace discuss where the church has gone wrong in addressing mental health and how it can do it better.

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Dr. Heather Evans on Forgiveness

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 25, 2024 61:38

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E94 - It's Never Too Late | Heather Evan's Journey of Resilience [REPOST]

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Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2023 110:12

Heather Evans is a musician & singer/songwriter. What was originally Episode 37, is now Episode 94 and it's an awesome conversation with my friend Heather Evans. We were just meeting for the first time a couple years back when we recorded this, and out of this initial conversation, an awesome friendship was made! All built off of Heather's vulnerable and authentic way of sharing her story. It's a story I (obviously) felt needed a spotlight shined on it once again because Heather shares a LOT about what she's been through. We talk a lot about resilience, second chances, understanding the true value of life, facing your inner demons and more so learning we have it in us to overcome them. This is one of those episoides I label "one of the best" in the show's history. Listen and find out why! FOLLOW Heather @heatherevansmusic WATCH the original episode here ------------------ THIS EPISODE IS SPONSORED BY: Midwest Photo - @mpex_photo_video Midwest Photo is a photo, video & audio store located in Columbus, OH offering tons of services from gear purchases & rentals, used gear buy & sell, printing services, film development and simply a knowledgable staff ready to help you with your photo needs at any time! Go check them out or visit mpex.com for more information. PromoWest Productions - @promowestlive For all upcoming show & event info visit their site above & to purchase tickets directly visit AXS.com

Episode 63 - Secrets of Hillsong Rewatch

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Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2023 81:48

Dr. Heather Evans, Maria Greco and I discuss our takeaways from episode 1 of The Secrets of Hillsong.

Robotics in ACS: Feasible and Beneficial!

Traumacast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2023 59:17

Join new moderator Dr. Mohammed Bawazeer and Dr. Lauren Dudas discuss the planning and implementation of a robotic ACS program with Drs. Bruce Crookes and Heather Evans. They talk about the benefits for both patients and the institution and how it has transformed their practices. The episodes finishes with a game of surgery truth or dare: Lap, Open or Robotic.

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Affair or Abuse? The Church’s Hurtful Response

The Roys Report

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 27, 2023 57:50

Guest Bios Show Transcript Victims of adult clergy sexual abuse often report that their first wound—the abuse itself—was awful. But it wasn't as bad as the second wound: the response by the church to their abuse. This is precisely what Moriah Smothers and her husband, Jack, describe in a follow-up conversation to our initial podcast interview about the alleged abuse Moriah received at the hands of her former pastor, Patrick Garcia. In this podcast, Moriah tells of the shame and rejection she experienced from other church members when her abuse was mislabeled an “affair.” Some called her “Judas.” Others told her the devil had got the upper hand. The backlash left both Moriah and Jack devastated and confused. Yet after a year of extreme pain and brokenness, Moriah heard an earlier edition of The Roys Report podcast with another victim of adult clergy sexual abuse. She said it led her to an epiphany and significant healing. It also prompted Jack and Moriah to confront leaders at their former church—The Hills Church in Evansville, Ind.—for how they handled Moriah's abuse. The couple also reached out to Bob Russell, pastor emeritus of one of the largest churches in America, who is currently re-platforming Patrick Garcia. You'll hear how Russell and the Hills Church responded. And you'll hear Moriah and Jack's impassioned plea for the church and other Christian institutions to start dealing with clergy sexual abuse in an appropriate way. Guests Dr. Moriah Smothers Dr. Moriah Smothers is an Associate Professor of Teacher Education and a former elementary special education teacher. She is also a survivor of adult clergy sexual abuse (ACSA). Dr. Jack Smothers is a Professor of Management and a secondary survivor. Their heart is to help other ACSA survivors find healing and community. They are passionate about educating church leaders to identify, prevent and respond to ACSA. They have two children and have been married for 15 years. You can connect with them at jackandmoriahsmothers@gmail.com. Moriah has also been affiliated with Restored Voices Collective, a nonprofit group that seeks to break the silence around ACSA. Show Transcript SPEAKERS JULIE ROYS, MORIAH SMOTHERS, JACK SMOTHERS, PAUL LINGE, JIM BURGEN JULIE ROYS 00:04 In 2020, Moriah Smothers says her spiritual and sexual abuse by her pastor was suddenly exposed. Only no one recognized it as abuse. Instead, it was labeled an affair, and Moriah was ostracized by her church. Welcome to The Roys Report, a podcast dedicated to reporting the truth and restoring the church. I'm Julie Roys, and this is part two of a two part podcast with Moriah Smothers and her husband Jack Smothers. In part one, Moriah told of what she believes was grooming and abused by her former pastor Patrick Garcia. And if you haven't heard part one, I encourage you to go back and listen to that now. It's a harrowing and cautionary tale about how adult clergy sexual abuse happens. And I wish more Christians understood this phenomenon because it's a widespread problem wreaking havoc in the church. But so often it goes undetected, and the victims instead of receiving help receive condemnation, and the predators often get re platformed only to continue their predatory ways. So again, if you haven't heard part one, I encourage you to do that now.   But in this podcast, Moriah and Jack describe what is often called the second wound. This was the response of their church to Moriah's adult clergy sexual abuse, and the shame and the rejection that Moriah experienced was absolutely devastating. But you'll also hear how after a year of extreme pain and brokenness, Moriah heard an earlier podcast that we did on The Roys Report with another victim of adult clergy sexual abuse and hearing that podcast and recognizing that it wasn't an affair, but abuse led to a ton of healing. But it also prompted Jack and Moriah to confront the leaders at their former church, Hills church in Evansville, Indiana, for how they handled Maria's abuse. The couple also reached out to Bob Russell, Pastor Emeritus of one of the largest churches in America, who is currently re-platforming Patrick Garcia. You'll hear Bob Russell and the Hills church responded, and you'll hear Moriah and Jack's impassioned plea that the church and other Christian institutions start dealing with adult clergy sexual abuse in an appropriate way. So, I'm very excited to share this podcast with you. But first, I'd like to thank our sponsors, Judson University, and Marquardt of Barrington. If you're looking for a top ranked Christian University, providing a caring community and an excellent college experience, Judson University is for you. Judson is located on 90 acres just 40 miles west of Chicago in Elgin, Illinois. The school offers more than 60 majors, great leadership opportunities, and strong financial aid. Plus, you can take classes online as well as in person. Judson University is shaping lives that shaped the world. For more information, just go to JUDSONU.EDU. Also, if you're looking for a quality new or used car, I highly recommend my friends at Marquardt of Barrington. Marquardt is a Buick GMC dealership where you can expect honesty, integrity and transparency. That's because the owners there Dan and Kurt Marquardt are men of integrity. To check them out, just go to BUYACAR123.COM. We now pick up my conversation with Moriah and Jack Smothers. They previously described how their pastor Patrick Garcia groomed Moriah and then abused his power by luring her into an emotional and sexual relationship. This was eventually discovered by Patrick's wife, who then told the church leadership. And this is where we join our discussion. So how did you feel the church responded to you, Moriah? MORIAH SMOTHERS 03:49 I don't want to over exaggerate this and I can share details. The abuse from my pastor was horrible. The way the church responded was 10 times more traumatizing than the abuse. I could have recovered from the abuse in a reasonable amount of time, I feel but the literature when you read about this, it calls it the second wound. And the first is that having just that abuse experience, but then the church response was really painful. I don't think the church had any knowledge of adult clergy sexual abuse. And so we were basically told again, through zoom, I think Dave was designated to be the person that communicates with us, nobody else really did, that they were going to release a statement. This is what the statement was. We were not involved in any of the processes the information. I did again, we thought we only had a fair narrative. We had no information about ACSA. And so I did send a text message. Jack and I thought it was a good idea at the time to some of the women I was really close to and I disclosed that this situation had to do with me. In hindsight that was not a good choice because of the way I worded it but oddly, one of the things I've struggled to recover the most from, were some of the communications from my very best friends from the church. And most of them were very involved in the church as well. And so one of the ones that has just stuck with me is when your identity is eviscerated, things just have the ability to sink really deep. One of them was calling me Judas and Patrick's wife at the time was like Jesus. A lot of them wrote, you need to get help, you really let the devil win was a common one I got. I'll never trust you again was often. And I will say those that were ugly, hurt, they hit really deep. I did get a few women to respond or just like I don't understand but I'm praying for you. And very little support from within the church. I do want to say that God was really I wouldn't have been able to make this big faith statement a year ago, but I realized now God was so good. He sent I didn't know this woman, but she was local. When she heard what was happening at the Hills. She is also a survivor. And she asked for my contact information from a mutual acquaintance. And she immediately got in contact with me and has mentored me, she didn't know about abuse either. But she and her husband made it and were thriving. But it was another abuse situation locally and just was such a good mentor to me. So, inside the church, the response was not supportive. It was not understanding. We were ostracized, basically. Even people we love dearly the extent of support was basically like, go get marriage counseling, and so not supportive. Outside the church, nobody we met understood ACSA. So I'm not saying that we still never got the language. But there were some people that were able to love on us. Our next-door neighbors, were just Jesus to us. This fellow survivor, my parents came around us very quickly. And so we did have some support that we you know, a lot of people don't have, so I want to acknowledge that. JULIE ROYS 07:04 Wow. Jack during this time, you and Moriah's parents met with Dave Bowersox and Daryl Maron. As I'm understanding that was a pretty tough meeting. Would you describe what happened in that meeting? JACK SMOTHERS 07:22 It was intense. But so Moriah's parents are wonderful, amazing Christians, they have invested a lot into Moriah and I, and we trust them, we love them. And so we felt that it would be good to take them along. And I'm glad that they went. They've done a lot of counseling in their life. And so they took resources, books, a variety of different resources to help Dave and Daryl in the Hills guard against situations like this occurring again. So they gave them those resources. And we talked through the situation, they shared some of the information that they had, such as you know, I was not aware at that point in time, of the May encounter that had happened at the zoo and police report. And since I was not allowed to come to that meeting with Moriah, I didn't have that information. MORIAH SMOTHERS 08:22 There's was an investigation. JACK SMOTHERS 08:23 There was an investigation. They hired an investigator to look into Patrick's devices to see if they could uncover anything. And I guess that went on throughout the summer. And when that didn't come up with anything that he was re platformed later on in that fall. JULIE ROYS 08:41 Help me understand this. And maybe I misheard you, you're saying there was an investigation, they looked at all the devices, and then they re platformed Patrick? JACK SMOTHERS 08:52 Yeah, The investigation came up with nothing, they did not find any communication. Their suspicion of communication. But they didn't find anything between Patrick and so this was after just to clarify, this was after the May event. JULIE ROYS 09:08 Got you. So in between the two? JACK SMOTHERS 09:10 There was that investigation that didn't come up with anything. When everything finally did come out, and what was that? September? October? That's when the meeting happened with Moriah's parents and myself and the pastors. JULIE ROYS 09:25 And is it true that Dave Bowersox confessed during that meeting that he was aware that Patrick had an attraction to Moriah? JACK SMOTHERS 09:34 That is true. So Dave's advice to Patrick was just get a handle on it, get it under control and resolve your old feelings, essentially. They felt like Patrick may have targeted Moriah, but they said that they felt like Moriah was complicit in that situation. Of course, they didn't understand at the time the ACSA framework and that complicity would not be possible in that situation. So it was high drama. JULIE ROYS 10:03 Stunning to me that seminaries don't teach this. It's against the law. I wish it was in more states, but in certain states, it is against the law for a pastor to have a relationship like this with a congregant. It seems like we're, maybe we're just on the cusp of becoming awake to this. But even as I have interviewed pastors, and say, hypothetically, do you think it would necessarily be abuse if a pastor has a relationship with a married congregant? And there'll be like, we don't know what the role of the woman was. Like, I don't even understand the basics of exactly what you said, Jack, that when there's a power differential, someone cannot give consent, when there's that kind of power. But it's just stunning to me complete and utter ignorance. And it's inexcusable. Every pastor should be aware of this. The same way that you have to go through training with Title XI, if you work for a university, pastors need to go through this kind of training, if they're going to serve in the pastorate and so do all the elders and the people who are holding them accountable. But it is just not happening. And it's really unbelievably frustrating. MORIAH SMOTHERS 11:19 Yeah. And really, that's the heart of why we're talking to you, is that you're right. It's illegal in 14 states right now. Understanding adult clergy sexual abuse is a job requisite skill at this point. 20 years ago, maybe not knowing maybe I can get it. There's so much literature now and fantastic researchers that this has been discussed too widely to claim ignorance at this point. And so I completely agree with you. There should be no ignorance of this issue. JULIE ROYS 11:50 In the wake of what happened is my understanding that Hills church actually paid for counseling for Patrick, is that right? JACK SMOTHERS 11:57 That's what they told us. JULIE ROYS 11:59 Okay, did they pay for counseling for you? JACK SMOTHERS 12:02 They did not. JULIE ROYS 12:03 Help me understand that? Did they give any kind of explanation for that? JACK SMOTHERS 12:08 No, we didn't ask them to pay for anything. MORIAH SMOTHERS 12:11 I chose a counselor because my survivor friend had also seen this woman. And again, she didn't know she was actually a survivor at the time. And so she was affiliated with a church that the Hills did not want us to receive counseling from. And so they actually discouraged me from seeing a counselor. They wanted us to see a counselor that was also I believe, seeing Patrick and his wife at the time. And so I was uncomfortable seeing a counselor that they recommended, which they didn't offer to pay for anything either way. But again, Julie, our supportive statement was go get marriage counseling. As if our marriage was broken, not that I was targeted and groomed and abused, confusing. JULIE ROYS 12:55 And the statement that was given at the time called it an inappropriate relationship, correct? Patrick did say that it was his fault, and no one but him. His fault, yet seems like some mixed messages in what was being said. MORIAH SMOTHERS 13:10 And there was no disclosure, I was a congregant. And I think that while there was no overtly blaming me in this situation there, I felt like the context of the sermon was, frankly tacky. It was preaching from the woman caught in adultery. And it was from the lens of a let's not throw the first stone but as a broken woman, I listened to it. That was all I heard is the adultery piece. They had all the advisory boards stand up front, and you could just see their disgust on their face. It was a group I should have been part of. Because if anybody had known I was missing, that would have been very a clear signal if they had known. It really has always bothered me, they never disclosed I was a congregant. I think that was very intentional. Actually, Dave Bowersox had apologized. He said, I'm so sorry you all are having to go through with this. And Jack, I think he said something like, I'm sure there's not a script for it. And they've said, Oh, no, there actually is. So they received counsel from somewhere about how to handle these situations. JULIE ROYS 14:13 They didn't make you were a big Scarlet A, at least. I guess we've progressed a little bit. But unbelievable. Yeah, what you went through and I'm so sorry. That just sounds absolutely traumatizing. For a year while you're in biblical counseling, you're believing the narrative. How did you internalize what you had done and the consequence? MORIAH SMOTHERS 14:40 Yeah. Oh, man, that's complicated. Julie, honestly, a lot of pieces did not make sense. But I was so desperate to keep my family together. I was willing to take responsibility for anything and everything. And so that's what I did for a season is I did a lot of work with my biblical counselor to figure out what was wrong with me. Like how had I sinned, how had I fallen, I will own it, I will repent for everything under the sun. Because I wanted to be well and whole. I didn't understand how this happened because I didn't want to have an affair. To be honest, I'm not even attracted to Patrick. I had no clue how this happened. But all we had was a fair framework. My mom tried to be really sweet and helpful gave me like a fair recovery books and things. And I started to read them. And I was like, this isn't me, this isn't I'm not represented in this. And so I will say the counselor I saw, knew nothing about abuse and trauma for this situation. She did some good soul care kind of things with me. But yeah, we were just trying to keep it together with the fair. JULIE ROYS 15:47 Wow. That's a very humble response, and so often we don't see those. You can only do what you know. But when you know, then you're responsible. And that's super, super important. It seems like you did have an epiphany. And it was on a podcast that we published, which, when I hear things like that it's so heartening. We work in the trenches a lot from day to day. And it's not the easiest work. But things like that, to hear stories of how it has impact is, it can give you some fuel for a decent amount of time. So I'll just say that it just is really encouraging. MORIAH SMOTHERS 15:47 He won't say this, but my biggest source of healing was Jack. That sweet man, we walked together a lot. That's where we bond as we walk. And so like we were walking every day for miles and miles. And he was my counselor at that time. And how deeply unfair for him to have been traumatized the way he was, and yet he was supporting me. I wanted basically nothing to do with faith at that point. And I've loved Jesus my whole life basically, that I thought, How can God cannot be good if my pastor treated me this way. Which I could have gotten over that, but I thought, There's no way the church is good or right, if it's been covered up by other pastors. So I was relying on Jack's faith. And Jack never asked me to leave. And again, we thought affair, never asked me to leave. He never yelled at me. There was a moment that it's still it's really hard to talk about. It was very soon after all of this had come out. And again, I was following him around the house because I was dazed and confused what had happened. He stopped in the doorway, and our kids were sitting there watching. And he said, I just feel so much compassion for you. And that was the first time he hugged me since it all came out. And I don't usually cry. I'm not a crier. I sobbed and sobbed in the hallway. And it was like, from that moment, I knew we were going to be okay. But it was hard. It was a hard road. And I did get some bad advice spiritually. The counselor told me that God had probably planned this for me, maybe for Patrick Garcia to get out of ministry. And I thought, man, if that's what God plans for the children he loves, I don't want to follow that God anymore. So that was a rough road. I will say for that counselor, Jack and I once we did realize what had happened, that it was abuse, we went back to her, presnted that. She graciously received that she apologized to us for not knowing. And so I have a lot of respect for her for that reason. And I'm excited for the work she's going to do in the future with this new knowledge. JULIE ROYS 17:49 But you heard a podcast, I guess it was November 2021, that I recorded with Katie Roberts, a beautiful, wonderful person that has become a friend, because I've been able to share her story with a lot of you. And so courageously she walked through what was incredibly difficult, and she took incredible hits from people criticizing her. It is just so indicative of the misogyny in our culture, that we just have such a difficult time wrapping our heads around the fact that women are not the temptress or that we cannot acknowledge that this is abuse. But Katie, beautifully did, and you heard that podcast when she talked about her own grooming, and abuse. Talk about what that was like to hear that and for the light bulb to go on. MORIAH SMOTHERS 19:23 That was an epiphany and that's exactly what it was. I'd been listening to your podcast for a while because I didn't have the words but I felt like something was mishandled here. It just, what happened in the church, it didn't sit right. Like I knew it didn't feel like justice somehow but I didn't know why. And I've been listening to you for a while Katie came on. And I remember almost feeling a little shaky and scared because I felt like she's telling my story. Like how could she possibly know what happened to me? And how has it happened to her? And this was way before I knew that there's so many similarities between these grooming and abuse stories with clergy. And I listened to the whole thing, I sent it to everybody in our support network, which let's be honest, that actually wasn't very many people at the time. But anybody that knew our story and would listen, I sent them the podcast. And I was like, how can this be? The language she used to explain like the grooming and the trauma bonding, the love bombing. She used the language that I had been describing, but didn't have the right word for it. And so it was such a weird thing. But I remember feeling I have to know more about this. And so I looked up Katie's email, and I emailed her and I said, I don't know if this makes any sense or not. But this is my story. And I shared it all. And she responded, and we ended up hopping on a phone call or zoom, I don't remember. But her first words to me, I actually wrote them down to share at the end of this podcast, because there was so much compassion when she heard my story. And she said, I'm so sorry how you've been mistreated. And from someone outside of my circle, but didn't have to love me and hear my story, that was such a powerful moment, because she got it. And while we were talking, she kept saying I understand, and that makes sense. And I thought, I didn't even understand all of this, and she did. And that's another part of the reason we're talking to you is that we found truth and understanding and freedom through Katie's story, which I know was a grueling experience for her. And I thought if the Lord is going to bring this opportunity full circle, where I learned through Katie, if someone can hear our story, and hear the tragedy, but also the hope, then we can't pass that up. JULIE ROYS 21:53 I love that. And I have found that nobody can minister to a survivor like another survivor. MORIAH SMOTHERS 22:03 I've learned the most through that community, there's a support group community that Katie and a few others founded. It's called Restored Voices Collective, and the learning, the growth, the empathy that happens in there, it could not be replicated, and it's only other survivors. So we're just supporting each other, we're not trying to overly educate or correct, it's just living life together in the aftermath of deep brokenness. JULIE ROYS 22:33 And I think that's what I've heard and what I've experienced, what I've seen. The Restore Conference that we've done, you know, a couple of those. And I remember the first one, I thought, oh, we should have prayer ministers, you know, to make sure because really, I mean, the whole vision was just to gather people that were literally strewn along the highway. I mean, that's just how it seems when you report these stories, and the church isn't caring for them, the church harmed them. And so they have nowhere to go and to see them come together. And I realize the prayer ministers are here, they're each other, right? It's the person who's sitting down right beside you, who you don't have to explain hardly anything because they get it. And it really is. And I know the survivor community is not perfect. And sometimes there can be some really painful things that happen within it. But I would say 90-95% of the people in there are just some of the most compassionate, good people because their character has been refined by fire. MORIAH SMOTHERS 23:39 And I attended your last Restore conference, and I got to meet a lot of the women I'd only known online up until that point, through zoom meetings, and one of the things that struck me is that personally, they're very normal, seeming. It's like when you feel so broken and devastated. Which is strange to me, like these very regular moms and women, but what I also know about them is they are warriors, they are so strong and so capable and intelligent. And that was an amazing experience just to see like my supporters in person. And that was amazing. Thank you for putting on those conferences, because I got to meet my people in person because of that. JULIE ROYS 24:20 It's a pleasure to do it really is and it's an honor. And we have another one coming up. So October 13 and 14th. If you're interested in that, I hope if you're listening you can because honestly, being with those people and experiencing what God does there, is probably one of the favorite things that I've ever done in my life. I absolutely love it. So it's RESTORE2023.COM if you want more information on that. So talk about the difference and you've already touched on it but the healing journey for you and Jack having this new perspective that this was not an affair that this was abuse, that you are a victim, that you're a survivor walking through this, what difference did that make emotionally and relationally, but also spiritually? MORIAH SMOTHERS 25:16 Oh, that's a big question. So I will say, for me the language made all the difference. Because earlier in the podcast you mentioned, I wrote that I felt like an addict. Now, knowing that description while being true is describing trauma bonding, that was really powerful. And I think because I'm a teacher person, like, language has been so healing for me. And it's given me search terms, basically, to read about what does this mean. So that's been a huge part of my healing. And then also being able to teach other people in my life about this is what this means this is how this happens. And just having the right words to study has been very healing. Also, I would say, understanding ACSA was healing in and of itself, because there's so many pieces of who I am, who Jack was, our life didn't just didn't fit affair. And so it felt very insufficient. And we did not have answers. Once we had this framework and understood how this happens, I started talking to other survivors, hearing similarities and stories. It's a really sad club to be part of. But then you have your other people to compare notes with. And so you have options and choices again, that I never had before. And so again, we were happy healing in private with that, but that made a big difference. My faith was a battle though. I think, intellectually, and emotionally, Jack was so stable for me and such a good listener, he helped me heal up in that way. My faith was a big, I still struggle with that, if I'm being completely honest. I was really ready to walk away for a while thinking that there's no goodness in church, I don't see how God can be good if these are the people that are leading a church. And so I got to a place in my faith that I realized that, so our kids committed their life to Jesus as well before, while I was really still struggling, which was such a beautiful thing. So I really felt like to be a good wife and mom, I've got to figure out this faith thing. Because I was willing at that point, I'll follow Jack wherever he goes. So if I have to attend church and just be mentally elsewhere, I will. But I knew I've got to figure out what this is. So I mentally went through like the major religions. And I was like, I don't see myself becoming a Buddhist and like really going through, like, where am I going to land because I'm a faithful person, I always have been, I knew I needed a religion, or faith. And so I thought, gosh, well probably like my best option is just really going with some kind of new age thing. But I would be a horrible God to myself. And so I felt like that's not on the table. And so I thought, Okay, I've got to figure out what do I really believe about Jesus? Because Jack has been being Jesus to me. And I don't mean that in a weird way, just like modeling the goodness of God, like I was holding on to his faith. And for the first year, again, only affair framework, I was able to read the Psalms, which was fine, like that was good, it was a start. But then when I realized I've got to make my mind up about what I think about Jesus, I started reading the gospels again. And that was a moment for me that I realized, I absolutely love the person of Jesus Christ, and that our hearts were so much in alignment about, he rarely called out anyone in sin or the vulnerable. He called out religious leaders for the way they were hurting vulnerable populations. And so that was a turning point for me is that, first of all, Jack modeled faith to me. He modeled the love of Jesus, which kept me hanging on by a thread. And then once I could finally reengage with the Word of God, I just focused on the person of Jesus. And I was able to fall back in love with him and really have some deeper roots again. I say now, and I completely mean this. The only people in my life I really trust are Jack and Jesus. JULIE ROYS 29:08 Wow. I love the honesty and the vulnerability. And I don't know anyone who has walked through church hurt, or certainly adult clergy sexual abuse- that's just brutal – who hasn't struggled in their faith in their walk with the Lord. I just spent the weekend with a survivor and, boy, they were raw, and they were honest, and I've been through it too. So. MORIAH SMOTHERS 29:40 And we're really healed up in a lot of ways. But I mean, we're almost three years out, but church is hard still. We've just moved. We're looking for a new church home. It's hard. And there's a lot of triggers and red flags and it's just even when you're in a good place and you really love the people. It's just hard. JULIE ROYS 29:56 It is, but I will say one thing, my teachers, Katie has been a teacher. Lori Anne Thompson has been a teacher. And they've been gracious with me like when I've written something and I used a wrong word or a wrong term, and they won't mince words. They'll reach out to me, but they're gracious when I'm like, Oh, I'm so sorry. I'm sorry. I'm not. Yep. Okay. Help me understand. MORIAH SMOTHERS 30:22 That's survivor community, they are loving but they are fierce and I love that about them. JULIE ROYS 30:27 Yes, they are. But I think it's so important to process what's happened. And I know just my own church hurt, experience, being able to process with people that you're not going to rack them, if you just say exactly how you're feeling in the moment. And that's just super, super important. Let's turn to holding the church accountable, because after this happened after you became enlightened about what had actually happened to you, you reached out to the Hills leadership, and you wrote them a letter, you've given me a copy of that letter. I think it's so good. I would love for you to just read it because my understanding is you sent this letter, so far, you haven't gotten a response. MORIAH SMOTHERS 31:17 No, I think it was confirmed it was received. Actually, the first letter I sent Jack was really kind. Again, I know we've been harsh about the church we came from, the Hills. We love a lot of the people there. I think there's some good things happening there. Out of respect, Jack met with Dave Bowersox to let them know this letter is coming. But besides that, you did get a response after this letter, though. Didn't he call you? JACK SMOTHERS 31:42 He did respond. I don't know if it was a call or an email. But he did respond. MORIAH SMOTHERS 31:45 And I think it was basically like we mishandled the situation was the response. I wrote this letter in fall 2021. So that was right after learning about adult clergy sexual abuse. So I will say I've learned a lot more since then. There are a few pieces of it that knowing what I know now, I would reword differently. But this is right where I was at having learned it, so I'll read it for what it is. My Hills church leadership. For most of the past year, Jack and I have been trying to navigate our way through this situation, with the framework and language that surrounds an affair or inappropriate relationship, which implies there was full consent from both people. While many of my choices were sinful and I egregiously sinned against God and Jack, it did not account for many of the experiences represented within the reading and counseling in which we engaged. I voraciously sought material to gain an understanding of what happened with the hopes that knowledge would alleviate my confusion and brokenness. In doing so I recently discovered the concept of adult clergy sexual abuse, ACSA, and for the first time I understood what had occurred. With this new knowledge, I felt compelled that we as the church need to grow in this area. Upon reflection, Jack, and I believe there are two logical explanations for the way that Hills leadership handled the situation, which include either ignorance or intentional misrepresentation. From an assumption of ignorance, if you had been aware of power dynamics requirements for consent, the cycle of ACSA abuse, how targets are chosen by predators and the grooming process, then this situation would have been conveyed to the congregation differently. The alternate explanation is that you received legal/peer counsel to minimize the liability of the church by intentionally misrepresenting clergy abuse as an inappropriate relationship. Regardless of the explanation of what happened in the past, there is much work to be done going forward to minister to those who have been hurt within the church. Therefore, I am writing to you with the hope that you as an institution will be able to grow and change as I have been growing and changing in my understanding and the implications of this critical issue. I hope you have read and shared my side of the story with the church leadership, elders, pastors and advisory council, which was given to you in fall 2020. However, if you have not, I suggest you review it so you have an anecdotal understanding of ACSA in this specific situation. Given my new understanding of power differentials and how they apply to pastors and congregants, I fully believe I was exploited by Patrick Garcia, and it was erroneous and misleading for the church leadership to convey it as an inappropriate relationship, which conveys consent. The predatory nature of the lead pastor was not communicated to the congregation, which is of great concern to me because it minimizes the impact of abuse within the church. I've included several resources on ACSA and I pray that you will educate yourselves and your leadership teams on the nuances of this type of abuse, how to effectively prevent it and how to handle it with integrity and transparency if it does occur. The reason that I am writing to you is threefold. One, I ask that you reach out to other potential victims and provide them with the support and resources to understand misconduct, grooming and abuse by spiritual/pastoral leader. As you are likely not aware of all the victims who have been adversely impacted by pastoral misconduct in the church you lead, an open invitation to all congregants is likely needed. Please connect them with a female counselor that is well versed in adult clergy sexual abuse and misconduct. The wounds from this are complex and deep. So I implore you to seek out your hurting sheep and care for them. Two, I ask that you share my story and ACSA resources with anyone in the church that you consider a leader. In my opinion, this means the elder board, pastoral staff and advisory board at a minimum. It is the church leadership's responsibility to shepherd their flock with care and dignity. Choosing to not educate yourselves when a wolf has wreaked havoc on your congregation is not living up to the call our Lord has placed on your role. Number three, I ask that you inform the perpetrator and people from whom you received counsel, that this was not simply an inappropriate relationship, that it falls under the criteria of adult clergy sexual abuse. By doing this, I hope you will clearly communicate that God's church is a place that abuse in any forum is not tolerated, because your primary goal is to protect the people under your care. I then provide some working definitions of clergy sexual misconduct, clergy sexual abuse and abuse of power. And then there were hyperlinked resources at the bottom. JULIE ROYS 32:41 So you asked for three things. Of those three things that you asked for, have you gotten any of them? MORIAH SMOTHERS 35:40 If any of those things have been done, they have not been communicated to us. JULIE ROYS 36:39 Okay. And, Jack, you had a conversation with Dave Bowersox after he received this letter? What did he say? JACK SMOTHERS 36:50 They were still processing what their response was going to be. And so he did thank me for meeting with him before we sent the letter to give him a heads up about what our intention was in sending the letter. But that was the extent of the response that we received. JULIE ROYS 37:06 And then you send a follow up letter to a couple months later, still nothing. MORIAH SMOTHERS 37:10 No. I reminded them of the request, and I sent the follow up, not to just be hounding them, but it was when everything had come out in a bigger way with the SBC. And so I thought surely this will get their attention that they'll realize how serious this is because the SBC even came out and said that if a pastor is in a relationship with a congregant, it's abuse, and that's a disqualifying sin. And so I thought having this outside entity that is that powerful, repent, hopefully, that should speak volumes to them. I received confirmation it was received, but I have not heard word if anything was actually done. JULIE ROYS 37:50 Right. And when this is called an affair and not abuse, it does open the door for the person to reoffend, and to continue doing this. And there may be others who have similarly been groomed by Patrick. MORIAH SMOTHERS 38:07 I've been told very specific information about those situations, which makes me think it's credible, but I have not had interaction or communication with any women that would say that. But again, they probably wouldn't even know it was grooming. JULIE ROYS 38:21 So now, almost three years have passed since Patrick resigned from the Hills. When he did so he said he was going to undergo a quote, season of restoration so that the root of my brokenness and dysfunction can be addressed. Christian Post just published this article in June in which Patrick says he's repented. He said, he's gotten to the root of his pride. He's preaching again. Do you believe Patrick Garcia is repentant? And why or why not? JACK SMOTHERS 38:53 I'll give my thoughts on that. Not to dodge the question, but I don't believe it matters whether or not he is repentant. I believe that an abuser is disqualified from ministry regardless of whether or not they repent. I hope that he has restored his relationship with God. I hope that all abusers come to an understanding of the pain that they have inflicted and are genuinely sorry and repent from that sin. But that does not mean they are then qualified to stay in that profession. They can go get any other job anywhere in the world, but not that one. MORIAH SMOTHERS 39:35 Actually, one of the things I feel strongly about is that I hope he's repentant. I hope everyone repents, but that does not mean there's leadership roles out there for them. I think actually, repentance means not seeking out leadership, because that's where this pain occurred. Like clearly that's a temptation that's a difficult area. Restore your relationship with God and be involved in a healthy body, church body. But I don't think that means leadership. And that's where I'm seeing my biggest concerns are about the church right now is that repentance equates to re-platforming. And I don't think that's what that means. JULIE ROYS 40:13 And when trust is betrayed, trust has to be earned back. And honestly, I said this not too long ago, but some of these guys don't have enough time in their life to earn back the trust that they've squandered and that they betrayed. But I agree with you. And I know there's going to be people who disagree. And what about David? We've talked about this so many times on podcasts, or listen to other podcasts, we've addressed this ad nauseam, but I'm just so tired of it. Above reproach is the qualification in Scripture for an elder. Are you above reproach? I have a tough time thinking that someone who has preyed on a congregant. Think about that; you're supposed to be a shepherd, and you became the wolf. How we could ever put that person back in the sheep pen again. And the amount of concern and compassion and let's pray for the predator that you hear. And the little that you hear about praying and concern and care for the victim is appalling. And I think it's very indicative of the kind of culture that we live in, which puts celebrities up on the platform. And man, if you are an order, and you you have the right stuff, boy, people just love you. But man, if you're not, and you happen to be in the way of someone getting back on that platform, it's very difficult. So I asked Jim Bergen, he's the lead pastor of Flat Irons Community Church in Colorado, and Paul Linge, who currently oversees the counseling ministry there at Crossroads, whether or not they thought that Patrick was ready to return to ministry, whether he should be replatformed. I got two very different responses. So I'd like to play both of them. First, here's how Jim Bergen responded. JIM BURGEN 42:12 Patrick absolutely messed up in a simple way with this woman. Her degree of willingness or participation. I don't know anything about she didn't call me. Patrick confessed to me, and I okay about disclose everything you know, and get on it. And even as he's starting to move back into ministry, I have a lot of texts going hey, do you think I can preach again? Do you think I can preach again? And I'm like, slow down. Because it's been, I don't think, we lose most of the New Testament and all of the Old Testament, if sexual sin disqualifies you from ministry forever. I mean, David, we lose Abraham, okay. But I don't think that when a pastor makes a mistake like this, it's a death sentence forever. But it definitely is a slow, long healing process. And that's what I cautioned him with, over and over again. JULIE ROYS 43:04 Okay, clearly, Jim Bergen doesn't share our view on this. MORIAH SMOTHERS 43:09 Really, Jim Burgen understand or know any survivors of ACSA. Just sexual sin and not the spiritual or emotional or psychological. He needs some education on that. JULIE ROYS 43:20 He does. And actually, in our conversation, I pushed back on that and asked him about spiritual abuse, about adult clergy sexual abuse, as well, and what qualifies. And it was clear to me that a lot of this was new to him. MORIAH SMOTHERS 43:35 Yeah, we've met some really, truly good men, good shepherds, pastors that we have a lot of respect for. They don't know. And I'm just floored by that. JACK SMOTHERS 43:47 But the good ones respond with a desire to learn. Yes, and that's really encouraging. Moriah has done a wonderful job of putting together training on ACSA. We've been able to deliver that to two different churches, and it's just fantastic and encouraging and edifying to see the godly people who get it and they want to improve they want to protect their congregation and guard against wolf-like behavior. JULIE ROYS 44:16 As I said, I also asked Paul Linge about this question, and I'd like to play his response. PAUL LINGE 44:23 Christian Post article stated that he did meet with Crossroads elders as part of what I think was I don't remember if it was Southeast or Bob Russell in particular but basically trying to put him on a restoration pathway which to me was grossly inefficient. General sense was it was a box to check rather than any kind of your display of repentance. Because for him to really go on a restoration journey with the people at Crossroads and Evansville. That's not a one-time meeting. There's probably months of meeting, based on the damage that was created in our community. So that's why it feels very superficial. I personally, and just through my own contacts have not seen the necessary repentance, or else he would be spending a lot more time in Evansville, the community that he helped blow up if that were true. And so I don't, I think the article comes across as in not just to me, but to others in our communities who read it, as though he was somehow the victim, whether that was the victim of Crossroads, the victim of the Hills leadership, the victims of Savannah, and it's just not true. At some point, a person has to take ownership and responsibility that for their own choices and behavior. I think he keeps getting prodded along by some key figures, who, for whatever reason, are reticent to just tell him the truth. Maybe they are, and I just don't know it. But it just seems like he's been continued to be propped up. I don't know if it's so much of a timeline, Julie, as it is looking for mile markers along the way. Right. So looking for signs of humility, looking for signs of teachability, looking for signs of repentance, looking for signs of restitution. I wronged you, you know, I dented your car, I'm going to pay for it to make sure it gets fixed. When you see that, you know, kind of the key is anybody I have wronged, then I'll make it right. That's the type of response I think you're looking for when you're talking about character change, or even your personality change. Once you start to see that and you're like, okay, something's happening. What we're looking for is their demonstration is there not feigned or fake remorse, but genuine repentance. And that's what I would say, at least from my experience from my seat. I have not seen that in Patrick Garcia in the last five years. JULIE ROYS 47:02 I'm guessing you resonate with a lot of what Paul said. I think he's absolutely right for looking for the markers of repentance, whether or not that means you can re-platform that's another question. And there's really need to be two different questions that people need to understand; you can be restored to Christ, you can be restored to the body restored to a position, that's a totally different thing. And I think people need to just start saying you're permanently disqualified. I don't know why we just can't seem to say that in the church. And yet I think it needs to be said for abusers. Absolutely. MORIAH SMOTHERS 47:39 And, Julie, I just want to again, echo what Paul said in his clip. It's what Jack and I were saying, Actually, Jack wrote this to Leonardo Blair, who wrote the article that the level of pain and trauma that article caused from Patrick, Blair made himself as the victim clearly demonstrates no understanding of spiritual authority, power dynamics, abuse. Anyone that was mentioned in that article, he re traumatized, and Leonardo did too. So I'm going to be very blunt, I hold the Christian Post responsible for publishing that as well as Patrick Garcia. Because I think, yeah, I think I hold them all responsible. We have too much information to just publish whatever might get a few clicks at this point without considering all of the victims, not just Jack and I, but the churches, the families. JULIE ROYS 48:30 And I think reporters need to be educated, absolutely need to be educated and trauma informed and all of these things and if you're not fine, but it's no excuse at this point. Get it. MORIAH SMOTHERS 48:44 Yeah, we get it. If you're not and don't want to be, go report on the weather, don't report when they're in a space where there are victims. JULIE ROYS 48:50 Yeah, absolutely. And there is clearly, I would agree, complete dearth of understanding of what ACSA, adult clergy sexual abuse is, and it needs to be remedied. I agree. Again, Patrick has been re platformed by Adventure church. He's preached there several times. That's a church in Louisville, Kentucky. I reached out to Adventure for comment. The church did not respond. Bob Russell has also replatformed Patrick. Bob had Patrick share about his fall and restoration at Bob's mentoring retreat for pastors. This, that Patrick is up there now instructing pastors about his fall and restoration and they're learning from him how to be a pastor. How does that make you feel? JACK SMOTHERS 49:41 That is absolutely ridiculous. You can't have someone who is an abuser trying to instruct people on how not to abuse. I don't understand really the line of thought and why you would want to put him into that scenario given his background. I think honestly I would just say my concern is, why is there so much focus on helping these pastors who have abused other people, instead of focus on how do we help the abused? How do we help the victims of the people who we have, are partially responsible for their victimization? That's really where the focus should be is how do we care for the vulnerable? because that's exactly what Jesus did. That's who he ministered to. And that's who he loves. So that's, we just have a mis alignment, a missed focus on on what we really talk about in churches. JULIE ROYS 50:37 And I'm guessing Bob Russell has met with Patrick, and continues to mentor him and yet, you guys reached out through Dave Road up, who I understand is someone who has relationship, he's in Christian leadership has a relationship with Bob Russell. He wouldn't meet with you. He would not meet with you. MORIAH SMOTHERS 50:58 Yeah. Paul Linge was the connection. We met with him and several other Crossroads leaders and shared our story shared educational material. They held space for us and held our story with so much goodness. That was very restorative. I struggle with pastors in general, getting to meet with Paul Linge helped restore some of that faith in that role. So the connection between us and Bob Russell is very removed, we don't know him. But we told Paul, if Bob Russell's willing to hear our story, we're willing to share it. And so there was also David Roadcup was involved there. David Roadcup knows our story as well. He shared it with Bob Russell what he could and said, Are you willing to meet with this couple, because they have concerns that Patrick Garcia is preaching again. And his comment was that if there was not sexual intercourse, I will not meet with them. That was what we were told. And so I guess anything, pastors are allowed to do anything, and be preaching and be re-platformed, besides have sexual intercourse with someone who's not their wife, is the message there. JULIE ROYS 52:01 Well, and again, we didn't hear that directly from Bob's mouth. But I have reached out to Bob, to try to get comment to try to clarify to give him opportunity. And he has not responded. If he'd like to, I'm still here, and he can do it. And I'll report what he says. Or if he'd like to apologize, he can do that, too. But just would like to hear from him, it would be really nice. Last question. And thank you so much. I know this is so hard, and can be re traumatizing. And it's difficult. And I know that you only do this because you care about other victims, you care about the church, and its ability to care for others and so this doesn't happen and keep happening to people. And so that Patrick doesn't get platformed and is able to prey on vulnerable people again. But I know it comes at a cost. And so I'm extraordinarily grateful to both of you. I know, just knowing the audience that we have for this podcast, that there are people listening, who have been through what you've been through, they may be in totally different levels of healing right now of understanding. But I think it's amazing how well both of you are doing three years, that may seem like a long time, it also seems a really short time, and you're doing remarkably well. Not just as human beings individually, but together in your marriage. And that's, I think, a testament to who you are as human beings and to the godliness. As you know, when you were talking about Jack and the way he's carried you through this, great husbands are a gift. And that's really beautiful to hear that. But I'm just wondering what you might say to other survivors who are listening, some of whom may just be right now white knuckling it just to hold on? MORIAH SMOTHERS 53:55 Yeah, yeah, and the survivor community is really, that's my heart. Like you said, that's why we're here. There's a line in Wade Mullins book that I've tried to anchor myself to, and I'm not going to quote it perfectly. Something's Not Right is the book that says, as part of your healing journey, you need to think about what your abuser or his supporters would want you to do and do the opposite. And so this is me reclaiming using my voice for that. And so I really thought about what would I say to other survivors, because I know where they've been at. And so I would repeat what sweet Katie Roberts said to me the first time I spoke to her in person, and is that I'm so sorry for how you've been treated. You aren't alone. There's others of us that have been where you're at. It's an absolute nightmare. But there are other people out there that get it. We're here for you. There's a group of women that would love to hear your story, and we're going to understand it because we've lived it as well. We're here to support you in that and that's Restored Voices Collective. Julie, if you can put that little link in your bio that would be great. I would encourage other survivors work really hard to find a counselor that understands trauma. Don't settle for a counselor that just loves Jesus. With what you've been through, it's not enough. They need to know trauma and abuse. If they love Jesus, that's great too Take the time to learn and study the language of what happened to you. Some of the researchers and writers that have been instrumental for me are David Pooler has been one of them. Dr. Heather Evans is another one, Mary DeMuth's book, We Too, is a really wonderful book. And I would say, take care of yourself. I know, this healing process is long and hard. You need people that can cheer you on and just sit with you in the pain. And the last thing I would say is, my faith is intact. And I hope that people that have really had a close relationship with Jesus, that have been abused, I hope you're able to find your way back to Him. But take your time; he's patient, he's willing to sit with you through all of the pain. And so when you're ready to explore faith again, or figure out what that looks like, just look to Jesus, don't look to your church leaders don't look to a denomination. Just look to Jesus for that. JULIE ROYS 56:12 That is so good. Moriah thank you. And thank you for just sharing so openly, Jack, thank you the same, again, difficult topic, but appreciate the way that you guys have walked through this with integrity. And the way that you're really reaching out to others and taking courageous stands to speak out, which is never easy. So thank you, it's just really been a blessing to get to know you. JACK SMOTHERS 56:37 Thank you. MORIAH SMOTHERS 56:38 Thank you. We appreciate the opportunity. JULIE ROYS 56:40 And thanks so much for listening to The Roys Report, a podcast dedicated to reporting the truth and restoring the church. I'm Julie Roys. And if you've appreciated this podcast, would you please consider supporting the work that we do here at The Roys Report. As I've said before, we don't have any big donors or advertising we simply have you, the people who care about telling other survivors stories, exposing wrongdoing, bringing healing and restoring the church. Also this month when you give a gift of $30 or more, we'll send you a copy of Christy Boulware's book, Nervous Breakthrough. It's such a great resource and I'm so excited to make it available to you to donate and get a copy of Nervous Breakthrough, just go to JULIEROYS.COM/DONATE. Also just a quick reminder to subscribe to The Roys Report on Apple podcast, Google podcasts or Spotify. That way you'll never miss an episode. And while you're at it, I'd really appreciate it if you'd help us spread the word about the podcast by leaving a review. And then please share the podcast on social media so more people can hear about this great content. Again, thanks so much for joining me today. Hope you were blessed and encouraged. Read more

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(Bonus) SUMMER PODCAST Ep. #6 |Parenting Conversation hosted by Seth| with Doug and Heather Evans

Freedom Church Los Alamos

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2023 28:06

Welcome, this week I had the pleasure of sitting down with my own parents, Doug and Heather Evans. We talked on the first two actions from a book called Intentional Parenting by Doug and Kathy fields. Those actions being strong beliefs and 24/7 role model. Focusing in on three aspects that my parents found valuable in affirming with my siblings and I. Legacy, Character and Identity. A quick backstory on my parents they’ve been married for nearly 30 years they have three children. The oldest being Zack, the middle, me, Seth, and the youngest Abigail. They have one grandchild. In those 30 years they have parented a child with a learning disability, a now recovered addict, overcome my father's cancer diagnosis and have kept their belief and faith in God through all of it. I hope you enjoy this episode. CHECK OUT FREEDOM CHURCH LOS ALAMOS - Sundays at 11:00AM - Aspen Elementary Gymnasium, in Los Alamos New Mexico - Freedom Kids for Pre-K thru 6th Grade - PLAN YOUR VISIT ahead of time: www.freedomla.church/newhere

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Episode 69: Drs. Heather Feldner and Heather Evans

DocsWithDisabilities

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2023 61:02

Today, we are joined by two guests and namesakes, Drs. Heather Feldner and Heather Evans, both from the University of Washington, Department of Rehabilitation Medicine . In their conversation with Dr. Pete Poullos, Dr. Evans and Dr. Feldner discuss their arrival to disability studies scholarship at the University of Washington, the curious and impactful forms that their work has taken as products of inter-departmental collaboration, and their visions for a medical education that is more cognizant of and that actively centers the dynamic, lived experiences of those with disabilities. Transcript Resources: http://journal.frontiersin.org/article/10.3389/fresc.2022.947592/full?&utm_source=Email_to_authors_&utm_medium=Email&utm_content=T1_11.5e1_author&utm_campaign=Email_publication&field=&journalName=Frontiers_in_Rehabilitation [journal.frontiersin.org] Key words: medical education, physical disability, disability research, accommodations, chronic illness, mental health, crip theory Bios: Dr. Feldner is an Assistant Professor in the Department of Rehabilitation Medicine, Adjunct Assistant Professor in the Department of Mechanical Engineering, core faculty in the Disability Studies Program, and an Associate Director of the Center for Research and Education on Accessible Technology and Experiences (CREATE) at the University of Washington. Dr. Feldner's research is centered at the intersection of mobility, disability, and technology in two primary areas, including perceptions of disability and identity and how these emerge and evolve through technology use, and in the design and implementation of pediatric mobility technology, considering how attitudes and the built environment affect equity and participation. She also focuses on how disability can be further integrated into intersectional Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion initiatives, particularly in health professions education. Her current work incorporates multidisciplinary, mixed methods, and participatory approaches drawing from her background as a pediatric physical therapist, doctoral work in disability studies, and postdoctoral research in in mechanical engineering. Heather D. Evans is a socio-legal scholar who focuses on the ways in which institutions such as the law, higher education, and the medical field interact with marginalized populations. She has conducted statistical analyses, ethnographic fieldwork, and evaluation research. Heather's current work is in the field of Critical Disability Studies examining disclosure, identity management, and workplace accommodations among people with physical, mental, and sensory differences that are not readily apparent. She is also committed to community based research and does consulting work for local social justice organizations, primarily focusing on disparities within the criminal justice system. Heather earned a Ph.D. in Sociology at the University of Washington and teaches courses in the Department of Sociology; Disability Studies Program; and the Law, Societies & Justice Department at UW. She joined the Department of Rehabilitation Medicine at UW in 2021 as an Acting Assistant Professor and Research Director for the Northwest ADA Center.

Episode 87: Sofar Columbus

Say What You Mean w/ Jéan P The MC

Play Episode Play 60 sec Highlight Listen Later Mar 27, 2023 71:22

Jéan P The MC performs in front of a sold out audience at Mission Coffee Co. in Columbus, Ohio. Presented by Sofar Sounds, the show also featured artists Demi Da Creator and Heather Evans. A great night of music, fun and an intimate performance.Twitter, Instagram, Snapchat, TikTok http://www.jeanpthemc.comDemi Da Creator: https://www.flowcode.com/page/demidacreatorHeather Evans: https://www.heatherevansmusic.com/

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2023 Lymphedema Podcast Season 5: Episode 3

Lymphedema Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2023 35:26

NOT ALL CLTs ARE CREATED EQUAL To continue the discussion for this month's topic, Not all CLTs are Created Equal, Dr. Heather Evans, Doctor of Chiropractic, Owner of Bodywork RX is joining me on the podcast Continuing the discussion that not all CLTs are created equal with Dr. Heather Evans today on the podcast! Heather … 2023 Lymphedema Podcast Season 5: Episode 3 Read More »

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Church Planting, Multi-Site and Fresh Expressions: What's the Difference? With Jorge Acevedo and Heather Evans

The Fresh Expressions Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2023 51:00

Jorge Acevedo is Pastor of Grace Church in Florida. They've seen meaningful growth using Church Growth and multi-site strategies. But now, they're focusing on developing Fresh Expressions. In this episode you'll hear about their journey, and why a big church is doing something small.Heather Evans currently serves on staff at Grace Church in Cape Coral, FL as Director of Reach, Send, and Fresh Expressions. In addition to leading local reach ministries for Grace like Adopt-a-School, Shoes of Hope, and a food pantry, Heather oversees several Fresh Expressions of church, one of which is Eat, Pray, Love, a dinner church located in the second largest trailer park in America. Heather is passionate about bringing church to people from all walks of life who are far from God.

94: MUSC's Vice Chair of Clinical Research & Applied Informatics, Dr. Heather Evans: Pioneering surgical wound monitoring, The tension between innovation & security in medical informatics, and more...

SeamlessMD Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 2, 2023 45:52

On this episode of The Digital Patient, Dr. Joshua Liu, Co-founder & CEO of SeamlessMD, and marketing colleague, Alan Sardana, chat with Dr. Heather Evans, Vice Chair of Clinical Research and Applied Informatics at MUSC about "Pioneering surgical wound monitoring, The tension between innovation and security in medical informatics, Why Digital Health must integrate into existing workflows, and more..."

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Episode 49 - Dr. Heather Evans Returns

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Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2023 71:28

Dr. Evans and I discuss her work with Southern Baptist Convention task force for handling sexual abuse, sexual and spiritual abuse in the church, and how churches and leadership should respond.

Ep. 67: Reframing Disappointment

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Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2023 32:41

When you see a problem, what's your move? Complain, run, or resolve? The uneasiness of feeling disappointed or rejected has kept so many creatives on the benches, just watching the game. We've been trained to think it's just win or lose. What we need is more training in redefining and recovering. Heather Evans and Mike Meiers dive into their own experiences of disappointment. In this episode, you'll hear stories of grief, rejection, and evolution, what they did about it (or didn't do about it) and the results. The question for you is... is disappointment strong enough to keep you down? We don't think it is!

Ep. 67: Reframing Disappointment

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Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2023 32:41

Episode 86: Elizabeth Luh on financial penalties

Probable Causation

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2023 42:27

Elizabeth Luh talks about the effects of financial penalties in the criminal justice system. “The Impact of Financial Sanctions: Regression Discontinuity Evidence from Driver Responsibility Fee Programs in Michigan and Texas” by Keith Finlay, Matthew Gross, Elizabeth Luh, and Michael Mueller-Smith. *** Probable Causation is part of Doleac Initiatives, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit. If you enjoy the show, please consider making a tax-deductible contribution. Thank you for supporting our work! *** OTHER RESEARCH WE DISCUSS IN THIS EPISODE: “Drawing Blood from Stones: Legal Debt andSocial Inequality in the Contemporary United States” by Alexes Harris, Heather Evans, and Katherine Beckett. “Fines and Financial Wellbeing” by Steven Mello. [Working paper.] ”Does Punishment Compel Payment? Driver's License Suspensions and Fine Delinquency” by Ryan E. Kessler. [Working paper.] “Disparate Fine Collection: Evidence using Chicago Parking Tickets” by Elizabeth Luh. [Working paper.] “Punishment and Deterrence: Evidence from Drunk Driving” by Benjamin Hansen. “Learning from Law Enforcement” by Libor Dusek and Christian Traxler. “Criminalizing Poverty: The Consequences of Court Fees in a Randomized Experiment” by Devah Pager, Rebecca Goldstein, Helen Ho, and Bruce Western. “Measuring Child Exposure to the U.S. Justice System: Evidence from Longitudinal Links between Survey and Administrative Data” by Keith Finlay, Michael Mueller-Smith, and Brittany Street. “Criminal Court Fees, Earnings, and EExpenditures: A Multi-state RD Analysis of Survey and Administrative Data” by Carl Lieberman, Elizabeth Luh, and Michael Mueller-Smith. [Working paper available from the authors upon request.] “The (Non)Economics of Criminal Fines and Fees” by Tyler Giles. “A Proposal to End Regressive Taxation through Law Enforcement” by Michael Makowsky. “Revenue-Motivated Law Enforcement: Evidence, Consequences, and Policy Solutions” by Michael Makowsky.

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Guest Speaker Dr. Heather Evans on Trauma

The Gate Community Church Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2022 55:18

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How to save Quantity Surveying from extinction (EP 90)

Own The Build

Play Episode Play 59 sec Highlight Listen Later Oct 24, 2022 38:05

This week, Paul is joined by Heather Evans, a Partner and the National Head of Sustainability at Rider Levett Bucknall, a Global Construction and Property Consultancy. In this entertaining conversation, Heather explains how Quantity Surveying can survive the upcoming AI revolution in construction and not become extinct by linking cost and carbon. Heather's experience is that cost consultants are now being asked about the commercial implications of sustainability and how ESG can drive a whole new revolution in the role of the Quantity Surveyor.-----------The Own The Build podcast is brought to you by C-Link and is hosted by me, Paul Heming; feel free to connect on LinkedIn and send me a message. If you like what we do, I would love to hear from you and to keep in touch. You can also subscribe to stay up to date with our latest articles, videos, and audio production.As I mentioned on the show, I am a QS and founded C-Link, an app that provides all the tools you need to get subcontract procurement done without the legwork. Head to www.get.c-link.com/podcast to learn more, or just email me at paul@c-link.com.

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Sexual Abuse Task Force

What's Your Story?

Play Episode Play 31 sec Highlight Listen Later Oct 9, 2022 67:10

Sexual Abuse in the Church & SBC Sexual Abuse Task Force… Words fail us…Sometimes there are topics where we find ourselves needing to simply be quiet, listen, ask a few questions, and learn. This is one of those episodes. As a word of caution, this conversation is heavy yet hopeful, but it may not be something for younger ears. This episode might also be triggering for anyone who has experienced sexual abuse. However, we believe this is an important and necessary conversation. We pray it promotes healing and brings glory to God. As you listen, consider these questions: 1. What is my role or how does God want me to respond to this information? Does He want me to do anything?2. How can we listen more and learn more? 3. How can we do a better job of creating a safe place for abuse victims in our churches? What resources or systems in place do we have? Listen wherever you get your podcasts or use the link in our profile. And as always, we'd love if you'd share this episode with your friends and/or leave us a review. Thank you!Links 1. Resources for Caring for Survivors https://www.sataskforce.net/downloads-12. Voices Conference: The Healing Journey | https://www.eventbrite.com/e/voices-conference-the-healing-journey-tickets-410629813827?aff=erelexpmlt3. "From the Voices of Domestic Sex Trafficking Survivors: Photographic Expressions of Complex Trauma and Posttraumatic Growth" www.voicesofsurvivorsproject.com4. "Understanding Complex Trauma and Post-Traumatic Growth in Survivors of Sex Trafficking: Foregrounding Women's Voices for Effective Care and Prevention" (Routledge Research in Women's Mental Health) (available on Routledge website, amazon, Barnes and Noble, Google, etc)5. Liz Evan legislature | https://www.facebook.com/njs.6813/videos/10164961517570562/ About Our GuestsDr. Heather EvansDr. Heather Evans is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with a counselingpractice in Pennsylvania, with over 20 years' experience, specializing in sexual trauma. Heather has authored two books from her research on complex trauma and posttraumatic growth in sex trafficking survivors. She is Co-Founder of Valley Against Sex Trafficking and adjunct professor of Global Trauma Recovery Institute. www.drheatherevans.comwww.voicesofsurvivorsproject.comwww.evanscounselingservices.comTwitter: @drheatherevans @voicessurvived.comFacebook: Dr. Heather Evans, LCSW ; Voices of Survivors ProjectInstagram: Voices of Survivors Project Liz EvanLiz Evan is an attorney in Nashville, Tennessee. She spearheaded legislation in Tennessee to criminalize clergy sexual abuse of adults, which was signed into law in June 2021. Subsequently, Dr. Ed Litton appointed her to the Sexual Abuse Task Force overseeing the third-party investigation into the SBC Executive Committee. Liz is married to a special operations pilot and has three children. She enjoys novels, podcasts, and (very simple) quilting. Rachael DenhollanderRachael Denhollander is an attorney, author, advocate, and educator who is recognizeSupport the show

Put me in Coach!

Shrink Rap

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2022 64:03

This week the shrinks are joined by Heather Evans, Senior Volleyball Recruiting Coach for NCSA College Recruiting. Heather gives a play-by-play of how to be the best support for your high school athlete. Whether you are a parent, coach, or other adult in a HS athlete's life, this one's for you!

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24 Week Preemie Twins Birth Story

Mommy Labor Nurse

Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2022 53:25 Very Popular

This week on the Mommy Labor Nurse podcast I have a birth story to share with you guys from Heather Evans. Heather reached out to me to share her story because she hopes that it will help those with infertility, those considering egg donation, mamas of multiples, preemie moms, and moms of kiddos with special needs. And furthermore, her career as a pelvic health PT offers insight to ALL moms!

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EP218: The NICU Mama Survival Guide with Pelvic Floor Therapist, Dr. Heather Evans

The Pregnancy to Parenting Show with Elizabeth Joy

Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2022 65:05

Dr. Heather Evans is a pelvic floor therapist who has taken her experience as a NICU mama to help others. She shares her story of having premature twins needing a 4 month NICU stay and how her professional and personal life came together. After 8 years of recovery from the trauma, Heather wanted to create a book to help guide NICU mamas specifically through their post-partum journey while never leaving their little one's isolette. Heather's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heatherevansdpt Learning to Breate book Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/learningtobreathebook Get the book: https://www.amazon.com/Learning-Breathe-story-micropreemies-defied/dp/1543072151 Elizabeth's website: https://miraculousmamas.com Miraculous Mamas Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/miraculousmamas Get $10 off any order of $50 or more at https://milkbarstore.com/mamas Go right now to https://truebill.com/mamas - it could save you THOUSANDS a year! More podcasts at WAVE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/artist/wave-podcast-network/1437831426

Episode 145: The Trauma Learning Journey with Dr. Heather Evans

Emancipation Nation

Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2022 36:29

Dr. Heather Evans wrote two books on trauma and human trafficking survivors. Too often advocates understand the word "trauma" but don't know how to help survivors heal. We say we are "walking along side" survivors, but do not know where we're going in our healing journey. Learn the importance of being trauma-informed and know the difference between trauma-informed work and trauma treatment.

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Definitions, Language, Conceptual Framework

CLIMEcasts

Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2022 25:50 Transcription Available

Episode 1 of our Anti-ableism and Disability Allyship in Medical Education Series. In this episode our guests, Drs. Heather Feldner and Heather Evans, guide us through foundational concepts of disability, ableism and allyship, unraveling important terminology, and emphasizing the importance of language. Show Resources:Bias Training: UW implicit bias training, which includes disability material (this is now required to be on search committees and is freely available to the UW community). https://depts.washington.edu/podscan/gcw/implicit-bias/?_ga=2.69121425.1218851216.1639665509-786956136.1638917014#/ Disability Attitudes Implicit Association Test (DA-IAT) freely available at Project Implicit hosted by Harvard. Project Implicit: https://implicit.harvard.edu/implicit/selectatest.htmResource Guide for Training on Disability Competence: A resource guide for PT and PTA faculty, clinicians, and students (December 2021): https://cdn.ymaws.com/www.aptahpa.org/resource/resmgr/communications/Resource_Guide_for_Training_.pdfLearn about disability identity from a diversity perspective:Davis, Lennard J. (2013) "Introduction: Normality, power, and culture." The disability studies reader 4 : 1-14. Pdf online at:https://ieas-szeged.hu/downtherabbithole/wp-content/uploads/2018/02/Lennard-J.-Davis-ed.-The-Disability-Studies-Reader-Routledge-2014.pdf#page=1 Stella Young. “I am not your inspiration, thank you very much.” TED Talk (2014). https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8K9Gg164Bsw Maysoon Zayid. “I have 99 problems… palsy is just one.” Ted Talk (2013).http://www.ted.com/talks/maysoon_zayid_i_got_99_problems_palsy_is_just_one Adams-Spink, Geoff. “Social Model of Disability Animation.” (Nov. 7 2011). You Tube. Available at: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9s3NZaLhcc4 UW Resources:Bree Callahan, Tri-Campus ADA Coordinator, leading equity and compliance efforts for ADA/section 504The D Center – UW Seattle campus Deaf and Disability Cultural Center: https://depts.washington.edu/dcenter/ Student Disability Commission: https://careers.uw.edu/organizations/asuw-student-disability-commission/ DO-IT: https://www.washington.edu/doit/ Disability Studies Program: https://disabilitystudies.washington.edu/ CREATE: https://create.uw.edu/ CLIME symposium- Anti-ableism in Healthcare Education - join us on June 10th! https://clime.washington.edu/2022-clime-together-symposium-2/

Episode 28 - Dr. Heather Evans

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Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2022 73:25

Dr. Evans and I discuss spiritual trauma. Here are some resources referred to and recommended in this episode. This Little Light - Christa Brown When Narcissism Comes to Church - Chuck DeGroat Redeeming Power - Diane Langberg Jesus and John Wayne - Kristin Kobes Du Mez A Church Called Tov - Scot McKnight & Laura Barringer Something's Not Right - Wade Mullen Is it Abuse? - Darby Strickland

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Jamie Sagle

The Songwriter Circle

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2022 20:29

Jamie Sagle is an inspiring singer/songwriter from Columbus, Ohio! Heather Evans sat down with her and talked about inspiration, motherhood, dreams being put on hold, grit, perserverance, and more. You're sure to be encouraged by her story! Follow The Songwriter Circle on Instagram: https:www.instagram.com/cbussongwritercircle Follow Host Heather Evans: https://www.instagram.com/heatherevansmusic Follow Jamie Sagle: https://www.instagram.com/jamie_sagle.music --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thesongwritercircle/support

37. Pelvic Physical Therapy: Why is it Important?

Knock on Parenthood

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2022 24:51

After four years of infertility, Heather Evans began her motherhood journey in 2013 when her twins, Hannah and Gavin, were born at 24 weeks, 1-day gestation. At just 1.5 pounds each, the twins were immediately intubated and remained on ventilators for seven weeks. They battled brain hemorrhages, infections, constant respiratory distress, feeding dysfunction, and more. They were in the NICU for 122 days, coming home on oxygen and apnea monitors one day before their four-month birthday. In addition to being a special needs parent and a NICU mama veteran, Heather is also a pelvic health physical therapist, focusing on treating women during pregnancy and post-partum. She has written two books" "Learning to Breathe" which describes Hannah and Gavin's NICU journey in order to provide hope to other parents, and "The NICU Mama Survival Guide" which uses her knowledge as a pelvic health physical therapist to guide women through their post-partum journey while caring for a baby in the NICU. Social media: @heatherevansdpt for all things pelvic floor @learningtobreathebook for all things about my family, our NICU stay, and my books! If you would like to purchase Heather's books click the following links to purchase Learning to Breathe The NICU Mama Survival Guide As always follow us on Instagram @knockonparenthoodpodcast or Facebook @knockonparenthoodpodcast. Check out www.knockonmotherhood.com for the blog, and please don't be shy to support us in any way you can. If you would like to be a listener supporter, click here. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/knockonparenthoodpodcast/support

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36. Heather's Story with 24 Weeker Twins, 122 Day NICU Stay & Author

Knock on Parenthood

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2022 41:16

After four years of infertility, Heather Evans began her motherhood journey in 2013 when her twins, Hannah and Gavin, were born at 24 weeks, 1-day gestation. At just 1.5 pounds each, the twins were immediately intubated and remained on ventilators for seven weeks. They battled brain hemorrhages, infections, constant respiratory distress, feeding dysfunction, and more. They were in the NICU for 122 days, coming home on oxygen and apnea monitors one day before their four-month birthday. In addition to being a special needs parent and a NICU mama veteran, Heather is also a pelvic health physical therapist, focusing on treating women during pregnancy and post-partum. She has written two books" "Learning to Breathe" which describes Hannah and Gavin's NICU journey in order to provide hope to other parents, and "The NICU Mama Survival Guide" which uses her knowledge as a pelvic health physical therapist to guide women through their post-partum journey while caring for a baby in the NICU. Social media: @heatherevansdpt for all things pelvic floor @learningtobreathebook for all things about her family, her NICU stay, and her books If you would like to purchase Heather's books click the following links to purchase Learning to Breathe The NICU Mama Survival Guide As always follow us on Instagram @knockonparenthoodpodcast or Facebook @knockonparenthoodpodcast. Check out www.knockonmotherhood.com for the blog, and please don't be shy to support us in any way you can. If you would like to be a listener supporter, click here. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/knockonparenthoodpodcast/support

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Episode 50 - Slaying Selena + Afterbirth

The Happy Birthday Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2022 93:48

Special guest: Heather Evans | patreon.com/hbdpod

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Women in Music

The Songwriter Circle

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2022 16:10

This episode was recorded at Four Score Coffee Shop in Sacramento, California on June 15th, 2018! I got to sit down with Missy Robertson (Now Cruz!), Mona V, and Rachel Lahr and talk about what it's like being a woman in the music industry. At the end of this episode, I hope you can gain some empathy for the amazing songwriters who just happen to be women. HEATHER EVANS: www.instagram.com/heatherevansmusic The Songwriter Circle: www.instagram.com/cbussongwritercircle MISSY ROBERTSON-CRUZ: www.instagram.com/missycruzofficial MONA V: www.instagram.com/monavmusic RACHEL LAHR: www.instagram.com/rachel_lahr_music --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thesongwritercircle/support

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Ep. 56: Heather Evans

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2022 41:47

Heather Evans has an impressive resume when it comes to DIY music success, but even more impressive is her life story and overcoming huge obstacles to keep music at the forefront. We dive deep with Heather, discussing what's been driving her career development and the mindset it's taken to "make it" as a professional. And the big news? You'll have to listen to find out.

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Ep. 56: Heather Evans

Extraordinary Moms Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2022 41:47

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Get to Know Host Heather Evans

The Songwriter Circle

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2022 17:10

In this episode you get to hear from host Heather Evans. She shares her musical journey and offers some encouragement for anyone who feels like they missed the boat, are too old or can't do music because of a set back. Heather's story is sure to encourage you that it's never too late and that your breakthrough is just on the other side of your yes! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thesongwritercircle/support

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Episode 376: Infertility, NICU Babies, and More with Heather Evans

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2022

My guest is Heather Evans. She battled infertility for 4 years and then became pregnant with boy/girl twins (Hannah and Gavin) via their fourth round of IVF and an egg donor. She went into premature labor and delivered them at 24 weeks, 1 day (1.5 pounds each). They spent four months in the NICU including 7 weeks on a ventilator, both had brain bleeds, multiple infections, my son had heart vessel surgery, and both twins came home on oxygen. Her son has been diagnosed with cerebral palsy (although he now walks, runs, etc. without even using his braces), and he had a selective dorsal rhizotomy surgery four years ago. Both twins have ADHD, Hannah is working through some sensory and social/emotional work, and Gavin gets PT/OT/speech. She is also a pelvic floor physical therapist which means one of her specialties is treating pregnant and post-partum women. She has two books called Learning to Breathe which is her NICU story. The most recent (just out a month!) is called the NICU Mama Survival Guide, and it combines her NICU experience with her knowledge as a pelvic health PT to guide mamas in their post-partum recovery WHILE their baby is in the NICU. Show Notes: Here is Learning to Breathe: https://www.amazon.com/Learning-Breathe-story-micropreemies-defied/dp/1543072151/ref=sr_1_1?crid=13F9WHCA6YHL&keywords=learning+to+breathe+heather+evans&qid=1643683247&sprefix=learning+to+breathe+heather+evan%2Caps%2C100&sr=8-1 Here is The NICU Mama Survival Guide: https://www.amazon.com/NICU-Mama-Survival-Guide-Post-Partum/dp/B09MGJ7RSX/ref=sr_1_1?crid=25VLHVRUPU8VA&keywords=the+NICU+mama+survival+guide+heather+evans&qid=1643683289&sprefix=the+nicu+mama+survival+guide+heather+evans%2Caps%2C89&sr=8-1 I currently have two Instagram accounts. My family/book account is @learningtobreathebook My physical therapy account is @heatherevansdpt This Show is Sponsored by... Baby MORI creates all the essentials a parent needs, crafted from soft, safe & sustainable materials. Baby MORI aims to make parenting simpler through innovative designs, such as two-way zips and extendable sleeping bags. Cooper loves these jammies and I love that they are darling AND functional! All their products are designed to be the highest-quality, long-lasting and worn, washed and passed on again & again. Get 30% off soft, safe & sustainable clothing and essentials for babies & kids with code MOMS when you go to https://babymori.com/collections/extraordinary-moms-podcast.

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Women and Minimally Invasive Hernia Repair with Heather Evans, MD

Advance with MUSC Health

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2022 19:07

Surgery is the only method that can effectively treat a groin hernia, and there are more than one million hernia repairs performed in the U.S. every year. But not all hernia surgeries are the same, and there are different considerations when it comes to treating men and women with this condition. https://education.musc.edu/MUSCApps/facultydirectory/Evans-Heather (Heather Evans, MD), is a professor of general and acute care surgery at MUSC Health and discusses her work and research in the area of minimally invasive general surgery, including laparoscopic hernia repair and how it pertains to women's health.

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15 MINUTE FRIDAY - Make Your Own Luck w/ Heather Evans

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Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2022 19:44

Well, LUCKY YOU, here's a new #15MinuteFriday! Is everyone just lucky that they accomplish things? Is someone else unlucky when they don't? Sure, chance and coincidence can play a part in our lives, but just as much of a factor are a series of choices, reactions and decisions that lead us all down an eventual path. This feeds into this Friday's topic of "making your own luck". I've got Heather Evans back on the show to talk about misconceptions many of us have and deal with when it comes to how we often confuse hard work for "luck", and the control we can in turn have over our own paths.

015: A Survival Guide for NICU Mamas with Dr. Heather Evans

Joy In The Journey

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2022 32:16

When a mom has a newborn child in the NICU, every moment and every breath can be stressful. But when you have two preemies in the NICU, those worries are doubled. Today's guest knows exactly what it's like to have two kids in the hospital for several months and has published a survival guide to share her professional advice and what she learned from her own experience. Dr. Heather Evans is a proud mama to her miracle twins, Gavin and Hannah, who have grown from 1.5 lb babies to happy 8-year-old kiddos. Professionally, she's a pelvic health physical therapist specializing in pregnant and post-partum patients. She's also the author of Learning to Breathe and The NICU Mama Survival Guide: Post-Partum Healing From Your Baby's Bedside, which are fantastic resources for any mama who has spent time in the NICU. In this episode, you'll hear why she went into premature labor at just 22 weeks and then delivered twins two weeks later. She shares her experiences of the next 4 months in the NICU, watching every breath that she could along the way as they battled with respiratory issues and other infections. She also talks about her own physical recovery from delivering twins via C-section. I'm so thankful to have Heather on the show to share her wisdom and expertise about pelvic health and the important reminder that as moms, we can only take care of our children if we take care of ourselves and our own recovery first. Key Takeaways with Heather Evans How her journey began with IVF treatments and continued until she was forced to prepare for premature labor at 22 weeks. That many hospitals rarely performed premature deliveries at 22 weeks, even as recently as 8 years ago. The medical treatments that delayed her pregnancy by 10 days, and how critically important that extra time was. The gratitude for the nurse who congratulated her after the delivery in such a stressful moment. All the challenges that her babies overcame during their 4 months in the NICU. What inspired Heather to write her books. Just how difficult the recovery process can be after a C-section, and why Heather is so passionate about pelvic health. The resources that are available for someone who is searching for pelvic therapy. That NICU mamas need to take care of their own recovery, and not just put all their focus on their babies. Always appreciate all the moments that bring you joy at the time. Show Notes: Get Full Access to the Show Notes by visiting: MatteasJoy.org/15 Rate & Review If you enjoyed today's episode of The Joy In The Journey, hit the subscribe button on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or wherever you listen, so future episodes are automatically downloaded directly to your device. You can also help by providing an honest rating & review over on Apple Podcasts. Reviews go a long way in helping us build awareness so that we can impact even more people. THANK YOU!

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Introducing Arc Waves

Arc Waves

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2022 0:33

Arc Waves is a podcast co-hosted by Karen Korotzer, CEO of the Arc Oneida Lewis, and Heather Evans, VP of Development of the Arc Oneida Lewis. Listen, subscribe and share to learn more about the Arc Oneida Lewis and its programs and role in the community as one of the largest employers in the region. You will also hear from leaders across the region-for profit, government and non-profit-all sharing lessons that each of us can take away.

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15 MINUTE FRIDAY - Learning to Lead with Kindness w/ Heather Evans

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Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2022 18:37

What is it they say about when we "assume" things? On this 15 Minute Friday Heather Evans returns again to chat with me about what we've each learned over the years when it comes to leading with kindness. We cover the subjects of not always assuming the worst, not offering more problems to current issues, how learning small acts of kindness has shaped us and a lot...well, at least a little bit more within about 15 minutes!

Amid nationwide nursing shortages, hear from locals entering the profession

Where We Live

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2021 49:00

Nursing shortages are being reported across the country, but there's also rising interest in this critically important profession. This hour, hear from nurses entering the field in our state, and from nursing educators and experts about why the term “burnout” doesn't capture what's driving the shortage. University of Saint Joseph professor Heather Evans prefers the term “moral distress.” Nurses are by nature the noticers, the canaries in the coal mine, but the conditions of the pandemic have prompted reports of higher-than-average nurse-to-patient ratios, exacerbating a long-looming shortage. As nurse and author Theresa Brown wrote, "nurses are not an infinitely elastic resource; they're people, many of whom are exhausted, traumatized, barely holding themselves together. It's time to really see and care for them." What are the barriers to keeping new nurses in the field? GUESTS: Theresa Brown, PhD, BSN, RN - Nurse; Author, “Healing: When A Nurse Becomes a Patient” (2022) Heather Evans, Ph.D., RNC-MNN, CLC - Nurse; Assistant Professor of Nursing, University of Saint Joseph Victoria Rufo, RN - Nurse; Student, University of Saint Joseph Tori Johnston, CNA - Nurse; Student, Quinnipiac University Support the show: http://wnpr.org/donate See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

15 MINUTE FRIDAY - It's Never Too Late to Achieve w/ Heather Evans

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Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2021 19:05

In this 15MF I'm joined my musician Heather Evans (Episode 37) coming back on the show to chat about a topic that was a heavy theme of her full-length episode, and that's the idea that it's never too late to get started. We cover what this meant from Heather's perspective as her pursuit of the musical dream didn't always look how she wanted, the idea that we're all supposed to have it figured out "by 30 years old", why that's slowly changing in society, how we can learn to get out of our own ways and recapture our imaginations at any time, and all in all why it most often is never too late to pursue something you want, in some way. Follow Heather: @heatherevansmusic Follow the show: @wydhpod Follow Ross: @whosrosstheisen

The Suffragist Playbook

With Good Reason

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2021 52:00

Last year, America celebrated the anniversary of many women getting the right to vote. But what led up to that victory was decades and decades of hard work and strategy. Lucinda Robb and Rebecca Roberts, authors of The Suffragist Playbook, share some of those tactics and how they are still used by activists today. Later in the show: In today's political strategy, attack ads on TV are out, attack tweets are in. Heather Evans' studies how women politicians use social media. She says that not only are women candidates more likely to go negative online, they're also just better at Twitter. And: This summer gymnast Simone Biles chose not to compete in the Olympic team competition. And one opinion piece after another weighed in on her decision as a public commentary or stance on mental health. Tomika Ferguson says that whether or not they choose it, Black women athletes are often looked to as activists on political and social issues.

Faithless Friends

One Minute With the Bible

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 16, 2021 1:38

Readings from: Mark 14:27-38 Today's passages were read by Heather Evans, an Admin Assistant & Volunteer Coordinator at the Salvation Army of Reno. One Minute With the Bible is brought to you by the Christian Standard Bible. New episodes published every weekday.

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