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Z terapeutką psychodynamiczną Sylwią Krysiak rozmawiamy o zjawisku parentyfikacji i jego rodzajach. Sylwia wyjaśnia nam w jakich sytuacjach dochodzi do przejęcia ról w rodzinie i jakie są tego konsekwencje dla dziecka oraz później dorosłego. Pytamy również dlaczego mama nie powinna być przyjaciółką i jak ułożyć na nowo relacje z rodzicami w dorosłości.Sylwia przyjmuje w naszej Poradni Można Zwariować w Warszawie, pracuje terapeutycznie z nastolatkami i dorosłymi, a także udziela konsultacji rodzicielskich.Wspomniane książki:"Dramat udanego dziecka" Alice Miller"Emocjonalnie niedojrzali rodzice" Lindsey Gibson_________#Autopromocja:Nasza Poradnia Można Zwariować w Warszawie i on-lineksiążka Ani: "Przewodnik po emocjach. Jak lepiej rozumieć własne uczucia"książka Cleo: "Clou. Jak być sobą, gdy jesteś wszystkim innym"_________Dziękujemy za Wasze wsparcie na Patronite oraz słanie dobrego słowa o podcaście! Jeśli chcecie podzielić się swoimi refleksjami to piszcie do nas na: podcast@moznazwariowac.pl lub na Instagramie: @cleocwiek, @aniacyklinska, @moznazwariowacwww.moznazwariowac.pl Grupa na FB
Você se sente forte, mas cansada? Funciona no trabalho, dá conta da casa, até sorri no almoço de família… Mas quando se deita, sente que algo ali dentro está vazio? Você não está exagerando. Você só se acostumou a viver em modo de sobrevivência. Neste episódio, vamos falar sobre o que a neurociência já comprovou: Quando o corpo passa tempo demais em estado de alerta, tensão e contenção emocional, ele começa a acreditar que viver = suportar. Esse padrão muitas vezes nasce lá atrás, na infância: quando você aprendeu que não podia sentir, que tinha que ser forte, que pedir ajuda era sinal de fraqueza. Com base nas contribuições de Gabor Maté, Alice Miller, Stephen Porges, Daniel Siegel e Bessel van der Kolk, eu explico por que esse modo de vida está drenando sua energia vital — e como a reconexão com seu corpo, com sua história e com o sentir pode ser o início de uma vida mais leve, verdadeira e sua. Esse episódio é pra quem cansou de sobreviver e quer, enfim, viver. Se ele falou com você, me chama no Instagram. As inscrições para o Grupo Terapêutico ainda estão abertas — uma jornada com início, meio e fim, onde a cura começa pelo acolhimento de quem você realmente é.
En este episodio con Alejandro Luna reflexionamos sobre la segunda parte del libro de Alice Miller "El drama del niño dotado y la busqueda del verdadero yo" Estamos en Facebook e Instagram como @servidac Music by www.patrickdearteaga.com
In this week's episode, Christine and Casey dive into their recent adventures and intellectual pursuits. Christine shares highlights from Jeff Bezos' exclusive MARS conference (Machine learning, Automation, Robotics, and Space), including fascinating encounters with colossal mammoth revival efforts, fusion energy breakthroughs, and quantum consciousness theories. Casey discusses his explorations in creating custom watch faces for his new Garmin device. The conversation expands into thoughtful discussions on education systems around the world, examining Finland, South Korea, and America's approaches to gifted education, teacher quality, and standardized testing. They debate college admissions philosophies, curriculum rigor, and the value of challenging young minds with unsolved problems. The episode concludes with reflections on media consumption, journalism ethics, and the importance of truth-seeking in reporting.MARS Conference - Jeff Bezos' invite-only event focusing on Machine learning, Automation, Robotics, and SpaceColossal - Company working on woolly mammoth de-extinction through genetic engineeringZAP Energy - Fusion energy company using Z-pinch technologySignal Messaging - Mentioned in context of recent news coverageThe Smartest Kids in the World by Amanda Ripley - Examining education systems in Finland, South Korea, and PolandGenius Denied by Jan and Bob Davidson - About education for gifted studentsThe Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller (not recommended by hosts)Longitude by Dava Sobel - Historical account of the longitude problemSharing Space by Cady Coleman - Autobiography of NASA astronautThe Voyage of the Southern Sun by Michael Smith - Account of recreating the historic flying boat route from Australia to EnglandThe Tech God Complex: Why We Need to Be Skeptics - PodcastAcquired Rolex Episode - Episode on Rolex No, poor people aren't funding your credit card rewards (Complex Systems Podcast) - Patrick Mackenzie's podcast on payment systems and complex systemsOff-Nominal and Main Engine Cut Off - Space industry podcastsTilt Parenting- TPP 178: The Davidson Institute on Supporting & Educating Profoundly Gifted Children - Podcast about raising neurodivergent kidsThe Davidson Institute - Resources for gifted educationMagnus Carlsen Interview on Lex FridmanCustomizing Monkey C SDK for wearable devicesBeast Academy (from Art of Problem Solving) - Math curriculum for advanced studentsThe Collatz Conjecture - An unsolved mathematical problem discussed when talking about challenging gifted students
This episode marks a new emphasis for On Becoming. While I have referred to trauma before, here it becomes a lens through which we examine high-control religion (like Evangelicalism). I begin by considering the role of cruelty in Christianity, though a recent article by David French. Next, I turn to Alice Miller's book The Drama of the Gifted Child as a way of thinking about how children are often treated with a lack of respect and thus traumatised. Finally, I turn to James Dobson to work out the ways in which trauma and violence are part of most Evangelical's upbringing.
Reconnecting with Your Inner ChildThis episode explores the concept of the inner child and its role in shaping our adult lives. The hosts discuss how reconnecting with this part of ourselves can lead to greater peace, authenticity, and self-compassion. What is the Inner Child?The inner child is like a time capsule within us, holding emotions, memories, and experiences from childhood. It influences how we react to situations, often resurfacing in moments of strong emotion. Personal Story of the AuthorThe author shares their experience of being diagnosed with non-Hodgkin's lymphoma at 13. While they felt pride in being part of a pioneering treatment, their parents' fear and anxiety deeply impacted them. This story illustrates how childhood experiences shape our emotional responses as adults. Psychological FoundationsThe inner child concept is rooted in psychology, with Carl Jung's child archetype symbolizing potential and renewal, John Bradshaw highlighting the wounded inner child and its impact on adult behavior, and Alice Miller emphasizing childhood trauma and the healing power of validation. How to Reconnect with Your Inner Child Self-reflection: Noticing emotional triggers and behaviors. Journaling: Writing letters to and from your inner child to express unspoken emotions. Meditation & Visualization: Imagining a safe space for your inner child and offering them love. Therapy: A structured approach for those with significant childhood trauma, using techniques like role-playing. The Healing Process Reconnecting with your inner child isn't about dwelling on the past but offering understanding and compassion. This process can bring clarity, self-compassion, and a rediscovery of joy and creativity. Healing is always possible, and embracing the inner child can lead to greater authenticity and fulfillment.The episode ends with a thought-provoking question: What would your inner child say to you today? This serves as an invitation for listeners to explore their inner world with curiosity and kindness.Key Takeaways:Final ReflectionAbout the Power of PeacefulnessThe Power of Peacefulness is a blog dedicated to helping professional women cultivate inner peace in their careers, relationships, and personal growth. It features insightful articles on topics like resilience, mindfulness, and setting boundaries, along with expert perspectives from mental health professionals and diverse guest bloggers. The blog also highlights real-life reader experiences in The Peaceful Path of the Month and provides actionable tips to inspire a journey toward greater balance and fulfillment. Through storytelling, expert insights, and practical advice, The Power of Peacefulness fosters a supportive community for those seeking a more peaceful and purposeful life.Read more on this post https://www.powerofpeacefulness.com/post/reconnecting-inner-childRead more articleshttps://www.powerofpeacefulness.com/
This week: Part 2 in a series of podcasts in conjunction with the China Research Center at the Johns Hopkins School of Advanced International Studies (SAIS). The series, titled "Studying China in the Absence of Access: Rediscovering a Lost Art," ran from September to November 2021, and featured four eminent "Pekingologists," or specialists in Chinese elite politics: Joseph Fewsmith, Thomas Fingar, Alice Miller, and Fred Teiwes. The talks were later published in a volume you can download here. The series is introduced by Andrew Mertha, George and Sadie Hyman, Professor of China Studies and director of the SAIS China Research Center, and each lecture includes a moderated discussion with Andy. After this series, I'll also be sharing with you a second series of lectures titled "Studying China from Elsewhere," which will include talks by Maria Repnikova, Mike Lampton, William Hurst, and Maggie Lewis — many of whom Sinica listeners will know from the show.Alice Lyman Miller is a leading scholar of Chinese politics and foreign policy. A research fellow at the Hoover Institution and lecturer in East Asian Studies at Stanford University, she previously served as an analyst at the CIA and editor of China Leadership Monitor. Miller's work has been instrumental in decoding the opaque world of Chinese elite politics, with a particular focus on political discourse and leadership transitions. Her major publications include Becoming Asia: Change and Continuity in Asian International Relations Since World War II (2011).Joseph Fewsmith is one of the foremost experts on contemporary Chinese politics, known for his in-depth analysis of political reform, elite competition, and policy shifts under the Chinese Communist Party. A professor of international relations and political science at Boston University, Fewsmith has authored seminal books such as China Since Tiananmen: The Politics of Transition (2001) and Rethinking Chinese Politics (2021), which challenge conventional wisdom on China's political system. His work blends rigorous historical analysis with close readings of official discourse. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week, I bring you the first in a series of podcasts in conjunction with the China Research Center at the Johns Hopkins School of Advanced International Studies (SAIS). The series, titled "Studying China in the Absence of Access: Rediscovering a Lost Art," ran from September to November 2021, and featured four eminent "Pekingologists," or specialists in Chinese elite politics: Joseph Fewsmith, Thomas Fingar, Alice Miller, and Fred Teiwes. The talks were later published in a volume you can download here. The series is introduced by Andrew Mertha, George and Sadie Hyman, Professor of China Studies and director of the SAIS China Research Center, and each lecture includes a moderated discussion with Andy. After this series, I'll also be sharing with you a second series of lectures titled "Studying China from Elsewhere," which will include talks by Maria Repnikova, Mike Lampton, William Hurst, and Maggie Lewis — many of whom Sinica listeners will know from the show.This week's talk is from FrederickTeiwes, truly a legend in the field. The American-born Australian sinologist is best known for his analysis of Chinese Communist Party elite politics. He served as a professor emeritus in Government and International Relations at the University of Sydney until his retirement in 2006. Teiwes has frequently collaborated with Warren Sun, producing seminal works such as The Tragedy of Lin Biao (1996) and China's Road to Disaster: Mao, Central Politicians and Provincial Leaders in the Great Leap Forward, 1955-59 (1999). In this talk, he focuses on forthcoming work on the transition following Mao Zedong's death in 1976.Great thanks to Andy and to Hasta Colman, who first suggested this collaboration when we met in Shanghai recently.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this episode, Dr. Ettensohn explores the profound insights of Alice Miller regarding the emotional abandonment and narcissistic use of the child, focusing on how these early dynamics shape pathological narcissism and Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Drawing from Miller's groundbreaking work, Dr. Ettensohn examines how a child growing up in a narcissogenic environment learns to adapt by creating a false self—a facade designed to secure love and avoid rejection in a world where their authentic self is not welcome. The episode explores the function of grandiosity as a defense mechanism—an unconscious strategy to deny the pain of unmet emotional needs—and its counterpart, depression (narcissistic vulnerability), which turns the pain inward. Both defenses serve to protect the individual from confronting a devastating loss: the realization that the love and support they needed was not available. The episode offers a compassionate exploration of how this tragic loss gives rise to the false self, a defense that becomes both a survival strategy and a prison. Through relatable metaphors and clinical insight, Dr. Ettensohn describes the psychological toll of living behind this mask and the challenges of reconnecting with the buried authentic self. Though the loss cannot be undone, healing is possible. By grieving the past and clearing away the defenses, it is possible to rediscover the vibrant, authentic self that has always been there, waiting to emerge. References: Miller, A. (1979) Depression and Grandiosity as Related Forms of Narcissistic Disturbances. International Review of Psychoanalysis 6:61-76 Purchase Unmasking Narcissism: A Guide to Understanding the Narcissist in Your Life here: https://amzn.to/3nG9FgH LISTEN ON APPLE PODCASTS: https://rb.gy/cklpum LISTEN ON GOOGLE PODCASTS: https://rb.gy/fotpca LISTEN ON AMAZON MUSIC: https://rb.gy/g4yzh8 VISIT THE WEBSITE: https://www.healnpd.org
Dr. Reedy reviews Alice Miller's, "The Drama of the Gifted Child." He touts this book as the most important book written on the subject of the parent-child dynamic. Miller explains how a child will give up who they are to meet the parent's needs. The call is to do the deep work necessary to “cut the tragic link between admiration and love.”
Pour soutenir mon travail, abonnez-vous à ma newsletter sur Substack.Régulièrement, l'équipe de Folie Douce partage avec vous les extraits les plus marquants des épisodes du podcast. Cette semaine, Mona Chollet évoque les travaux d'Alice Miller, psychanalyste, la diabolisation et le dénigrement des enfants dans nos sociétés, et de la pression parfois pour les auteurices d'être à la hauteur de l'idéal exprimé dans un livre.Retrouvez cet épisode en entier sur toutes vos plateformes de podcast.-----------------------------------------------------Mona Chollet est dans Folie Douce ce matin, jour de la sortie en librairie de son nouvel essai, Résister à la culpabilisation : Sur quelques empêchements d'exister (ed. La Découverte), dont je sais déjà qu'il va faire du bien à des milliers de gens. Dans cet essai et à mon micro, elle y explique que la petite voix dans notre tête qui nous empêche d'exister est bien moins intime qu'on ne le pense. Elle est systémique. C'était émouvant de la retrouver, six ans après notre première conversation autour de son livre Sorcières, La puissance invaincue des femmes, dans La Poudre, mon précédent podcast. On a commencé par constater combien l'eau avait coulé sous les ponts. Combien on avait avancé, combien, aussi, on avait dû affronter un violent backlash. Dans le calme du studio, on a discuté de cet étrange exercice qu'est la promo quand on est casanière et introvertie. On a parlé du contexte politique qui façonne l'atmosphère dans laquelle se déploient nos privilèges - et de la culpabilisation qui en découle. On a évoqué, longuement, la diabolisation des enfants, la détresse des mères et la quête effrénée de pureté qui risque, comme le souligne la psychanalyste Alice Miller, largement invoquée dans ses pages, de nous mener aux confins de la folie. Je lui ai soumis un texte de Virginie Despentes qui parle de culpabilité et qui lui a plu, je crois. Et puis, nous avons parlé de Gaza, de la voix qu'elle a osé élever pour dénoncer l'horreur de ce conflit “qui a détraqué la compassion”. C'était une discussion passionnante et décomplexante, un peu comme les essais de Mona Chollet.Crédit photo : Charlotte Krebs➡️ Rejoignez la communauté sur Instagram.➡️ Abonnez vous à la newsletter pour recevoir des conseils de professionnels de la santé mentale, des recommandations de livres et une curation de contenus, événements et podcasts.Folie Douce est disponible gratuitement sur toutes les plateformes : Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Deezer, PodcastAddict, Amazon Music ..Si vous avez aimé cet épisode, laissez nous des étoiles ⭐ et abonnez vous pour ne rater aucun nouvel épisode.Folie Douce donne la parole à des artistes, des militant·es, penseur·euses pour explorer leur parcours de santé mentale à la lumière de leur travail artistique ou politique. Ce podcast a pour vocation de faire émerger des récits à la première personne. Les propos de ses invité·es n'ont pas valeur d'expertise. Le terme « folie » est employé ici à des fins de renversement du stigmate et de réappropriation d'une identité habituellement imposée et marginalisée. -------------------Folie Douce est une émission produite par Lauren Bastide.Générique : Lauren Bastide et Marion Emerit sur une musique composée par Irma.Montage et mixage : Marion Emerit.Programmation et coordination : Marie Laurence-Chérie assistée de Lou Ozanam-Simon.Partenariats : The Podcast Bureau / melanie@thepodcastbureau.frConsultant : Morgan Noam
I det tvåhundrafemtioförsta avsnittet av podden samtalar Christian och författaren och föreläsaren Marie Niljung om ”Den enda rätta läran: så förblindade psykoanalysen det svenska rättsväsendet”. Samtalet är inspelat inför publik på Värmlands bokfestival i Karlstad den 9 november. Vi pratar om Margit Norell, da Costa-fallet, fallet Thomas Quick, Kevin-fallet, Sigmund Freud, psykoanalys, Sven Åke Christianson, Alice Miller, incesthysterin på 80-talet, satanism, ritualmord och andra teman ur boken.Köp ”Den enda rätta läran” signerad: https://vadardepression.se/produkt/den-enda-ratta-laran-sa-forblindade-psykoanalysen-det-svenska-rattsvasendet/Köp ”Den enda rätta läran” på Bokus: https://www.bokus.com/bok/9789188387431/E-boken dyker upp på Bokus/Adlibris i dagarna!Boka föreläsning med Marie Niljung: https://niljung.se/Hjälp till att hålla merparten av avsnitten gratis och få tillgång till exklusiva avsnitt på: http://patreon.com/sinnessjuktSynka Patreon med Spotify: https://www.patreon.com/posts/sa-lyssnar-du-pa-34442592Köp signerade böcker och Beckomberga-printar här: https://vadardepression.seKöp Sinnessjukt-tishan här: http://sinnessjukt.se/butikBoka föreläsning här: http://vadardepression.se/forelasning-psykisk-ohalsa/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Alice Miller's The Drama of the Gifted Child
Die Machtausübung der narzisstischen Persönlichkeit geschieht fast immer im Namen einer fremden Macht. Der Narzisst erschafft hierarchische Welten, deren Ursprung er als fremd erklärt. Er hat den Wirrwarr der Institutionen erzeugt, die sich konstant im Kampf mit der Umwelt befinden. So will er als die gute Kraft erscheinen. Er hat gelernt, dass er das gesamte Bühnenstück erzeugen muss, damit er sich verstecken kann. Mit diesem Mechanismus sind die totalitären Systeme des 20. und 21. Jahrhunderts entstanden; die Welten, in denen wir leben.
《劉軒的How To人生學》推出全新10集系列【解鎖青春情緒】，專注探討青少年心理健康，隔週播出。 【解鎖青春情緒】與保瑞盛維恩基金會合作，致力於促進心理健康，透過教育與倡導活動提升大眾對心理衛生的認識。系列節目將從多角度剖析青少年在現代社會面臨的情緒挑戰，並提供專業見解與實用建議。 在這系列的第二集，劉軒為大家導讀了知名心理學家Alice Miller的經典著作《The Drama of the Gifted Child》，深入探討孩子如何因為過度追求父母的認同，無意間壓抑了自己的真實情感，最終可能導致焦慮、憂鬱，甚至失去自我。此外，劉軒也在節目中分享了他在養育子女過程中的反思，尤其是如何避免將這些情感壓抑代代相傳。 對於想要理解孩子內心世界、並找到有效方法守護他們心理健康的家長，這一集絕對不容錯過！ ❗珍惜生命，輕生不能解決問題，生命一定可以找到出路，請再給自己一次機會。 若需諮商或相關協助請撥：生命線專線「1995」、衛福部安心專線「1925」、張老師服務專線「1980」 在美國，請撥打988 Lifeline❗ -- Hosting provided by SoundOn
Pour soutenir mon travail, abonnez-vous à ma newsletter sur Substack.Mona Chollet est dans Folie Douce ce matin, jour de la sortie en librairie de son nouvel essai, Résister à la culpabilisation : Sur quelques empêchements d'exister (ed. La Découverte), dont je sais déjà qu'il va faire du bien à des milliers de gens. Dans cet essai et à mon micro, elle y explique que la petite voix dans notre tête qui nous empêche d'exister est bien moins intime qu'on ne le pense. Elle est systémique. C'était émouvant de la retrouver, six ans après notre première conversation autour de son livre Sorcières, La puissance invaincue des femmes, dans La Poudre, mon précédent podcast. On a commencé par constater combien l'eau avait coulé sous les ponts. Combien on avait avancé, combien, aussi, on avait dû affronter un violent backlash. Dans le calme du studio, on a discuté de cet étrange exercice qu'est la promo quand on est casanière et introvertie. On a parlé du contexte politique qui façonne l'atmosphère dans laquelle se déploient nos privilèges - et de la culpabilisation qui en découle. On a évoqué, longuement, la diabolisation des enfants, la détresse des mères et la quête effrénée de pureté qui risque, comme le souligne la psychanalyste Alice Miller, largement invoquée dans ses pages, de nous mener aux confins de la folie. Je lui ai soumis un texte de Virginie Despentes qui parle de culpabilité et qui lui a plu, je crois. Et puis, nous avons parlé de Gaza, de la voix qu'elle a osé élever pour dénoncer l'horreur de ce conflit “qui a détraqué la compassion”. C'était une discussion passionnante et décomplexante, un peu comme les essais de Mona Chollet.Crédit photo : Charlotte Krebs➡️ Rejoignez la communauté sur Instagram.➡️ Abonnez vous à la newsletter pour recevoir des conseils de professionnels de la santé mentale, des recommandations de livres et une curation de contenus, événements et podcasts.Folie Douce est disponible gratuitement sur toutes les plateformes : Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Deezer, PodcastAddict, Amazon Music ..Si vous avez aimé cet épisode, laissez nous des étoiles ⭐ et abonnez vous pour ne rater aucun nouvel épisode.Folie Douce donne la parole à des artistes, des militant·es, penseur·euses pour explorer leur parcours de santé mentale à la lumière de leur travail artistique ou politique. Ce podcast a pour vocation de faire émerger des récits à la première personne. Les propos de ses invité·es n'ont pas valeur d'expertise. Le terme « folie » est employé ici à des fins de renversement du stigmate et de réappropriation d'une identité habituellement imposée et marginalisée. -------------------Folie Douce est une émission produite par Lauren Bastide.Générique : Lauren Bastide et Marion Emerit sur une musique composée par Irma.Montage et mixage : Marion Emerit.Programmation et coordination : Marie Laurence-Chérie assistée de Lou Ozanam-Simon.Partenariats : The Podcast Bureau / melanie@thepodcastbureau.frConsultant : Morgan Noam
The lack of Awareness of our feelings and thoughts is the source of misunderstanding, wrong decision, wars and an unhappy life. Without awareness, we can't build up a good attitude because we are not aware what is inside of us. For instance: the great psychologist Alice Miller was together with a mother and her 4-year-old daughter in a kindergarten. The daughter didn't like to play, was depressed…Alice asked, what is going on? The mother said, her father was leaving for work abroad, and she is missing him. The child started to cry; when she finished crying, she could play with the other kids.If even the children are not aware of their feelings what is about us?We are getting many times frustrated, sad, angry; and afterward, we suppress our emotions. After some time we get confronted and release our suppressed feelings on a person who doesn't have anything to do with that… We blemish this person for our negative emotions…We can see that in relationships, the husband is coming home… Loaded with anger and getting fast very angry with his child; or in almost every business meeting, we see the participants are driven by their own personal motives, instead to look for the best outcome for everybody….This means we look honestly as often as possible, how are our feelings now. When we don't be aware of our emotions, we still can watch our thoughts as a witness without manipulating our thoughts…. The feelings creating our thoughts, if we have angry thoughts, we also have anger inside of us, even we are not aware of it. If we are confronted with a new situation and if we are conscious of our feelings what we had before; then this will be the game changer. Because we don't have to project our previous feelings on this new situation/person. For instance, I am aware that I am angry on my chief and didn't have the chance to release my anger. When I get confronted with my chief again, I recognize my anger and can be neutral in this situation. If I would not recognize my anger, maybe I would be impolite, angry and would miss the chance to clarify our misunderstanding….It is science proofed if we watch something; through the watching, we change the situation. This means, if we bring light in the room or in our consciousness, we will improve our attitude. Meditation is: watch and let happen. Through the watching of our feelings and thoughts as a witness, we become better and improve so our attitude. The lack of Awareness of our feelings and thoughts is the source of misunderstanding, wrong decision, wars and an unhappy life. Without awareness, we can't build up a good attitude because we are not aware what is inside of us. For instance: the great psychologist Alice Miller was together with a mother and her 4-year-old daughter in a kindergarten. The daughter didn't like to play, was depressed…Alice asked, what is going on? The mother said, her father was leaving for work abroad, and she is missing him. The child started to cry; when she finished crying, she could play with the other kids.If even the children are not aware of their feelings what is about us?We are getting many times frustrated, sad, angry; and afterward, we suppress our emotions. After some time we get confronted and release our suppressed feelings on a person who doesn't have anything to do with that… We blemish this person for our negative emotions…We can see that in relationships, the husband is coming home… Loaded with anger and getting fast very angry with his child; or in almost every business meeting, we see the participants are driven by their own personal motives, instead to look for the best outcome for everybody….This means we look honestly as often as possible, how are our feelings now. When we don't be aware of our emotions, we still can watch our thoughts as a witness without manipulating our thoughts…. The feelings creating our thoughts, if we have angry thoughts, we also have anger inside of us, even we are not aware of it. If we are confronted with a new situation and if we are conscious of our feelings what we had before; then this will be the game changer. Because we don't have to project our previous feelings on this new situation/person. For instance, I am aware that I am angry on my chief and didn't have the chance to release my anger. When I get confronted with my chief again, I recognize my anger and can be neutral in this situation. If I would not recognize my anger, maybe I would be impolite, angry and would miss the chance to clarify our misunderstanding….It is science proofed if we watch something; through the watching, we change the situation. This means, if we bring light in the room or in our consciousness, we will improve our attitude. Meditation is: watch and let happen. Through the watching of our feelings and thoughts as a witness, we become better and improve so our attitude. My video: Why is awareness so important? https://youtu.be/73rQcszWg5MMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/Why-is-awareness-so-important.mp3
Daniel Kahn and Alice Miller, NATAN Worldwide Disaster Relief's Chairman and newly appointed CEO respectively, discuss Israeli resilience, the crucial role of Israeli civil society on October 7th and beyond, and their ongoing global relief work.
01:00 Great Netflix documentary on the Dallas Cowboys cheerleaders, https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2024/06/americas-sweethearts-dallas-cowboys-cheerleaders-netflix/678779/ 07:00 A Blockade Is An Act Of War, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=155919 16:30 Media BLATANTLY LIES About LA Synagogue Protests, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qnLwmXTTWWM 30:00 WSJ: Mob Targets Synagogue As LAPD Stands By, https://www.wsj.com/articles/mob-targets-synagogue-as-lapd-stands-by-los-angeles-jews-anti-israel-protesters-d4c2c681?mod=opinion_lead_pos8 36:00 Dooovid joins, https://x.com/RebDoooovid 37:00 Jewish activist Adam King, https://x.com/TheAdamKingShow 42:00 The appeal of conspiracy theories, https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S2352250X22000719 45:00 Alice Miller's The Drama of the Gifted Child, https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/suffer-the-children/201206/the-drama-the-gifted-child 54:00 Gurus like to use common terms in contrarian ways to get attention 57:00 Loneliness makes us vulnerable 1:06:00 Luke & Dooovid as micro-celebrities unwilling to follow the conventional path to podcasting success 1:09:00 Senseless brawlers are losing at life 1:22:00 Vaccine mandates, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=155921 1:26:00 The War on Noticing | Guest: Steve Sailer | 6/26/24, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hUMFv0__qXI 1:35:50 Fox: Israel-Hamas war: Terrorists strike aid convoy carrying children https://www.nybooks.com/articles/2023/12/21/an-unhealthy-definition-of-rights-constitutional-contagion-parmet/ 1:37:20 Revolutionary War and the Development of International Humanitarian Law, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=155888 1:39:00 What's wrong with human rights? https://www.theamericanconservative.com/whats-wrong-with-human-rights/ 1:40:00 Revolutions in International Law: The Legacies of 1917, https://www.amazon.com/Revolutions-International-Law-Legacies-1917/dp/1108495036 1:41:00 The case against rights, https://thelampmagazine.com/issues/issue-21/against-human-rights 1:42:00 Is Israel Committing Genocide? https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=155365 1:43:00 Who determines the winning narrative? https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=155583 1:44:00 The Ethics of Violence: Recent Literature on the Creation of the Contemporary Regime of Law and War, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=155758 1:45:00 Filling the Gaps: The Expansion of International Humanitarian Law and the Juridification of the Free-Fighter, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=155753 1:47:50 The Last Utopia: Human Rights in History, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oqtFJZB27M8 1:48:00 The “Good War”: Preparations for a War against Civilians, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=155491 1:49:00 A Short History of International Humanitarian Law, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=155471 Show transcript: https://lukeford.net/blog/?page_id=155928
What happens when trust is broken and you're left to pick up the pieces of your life? We explore this compelling theme with Wayne Boatwright, an Ivy League-educated attorney who faced a life-changing tragedy that shattered his world. From his rise to professional success to the fatal accident that led to his downfall, Wayne shares an unflinching account of the arduous journey to regain the trust of his family and rediscover his own sense of self-worth. His story is one of resilience and the incredible personal growth that can emerge from profound adversity.We also turn our focus to the often misunderstood world of addiction and recovery. Drawing from both personal battles and a revealing clip featuring Matthew Perry, we discuss the importance of dismantling triggers rather than simply avoiding them. Through my own experiences in the culinary world and beyond, I share how I managed to navigate environments brimming with potential relapse risks. We delve into the various recovery methods, including AA, and highlight the need to address the root causes of addiction for true healing to begin.Fatherhood and the struggle to rebuild familial bonds after incarceration takes centre stage next. We follow the heartfelt journey of a father fighting to reconnect with his children after years of absence. Through poignant anecdotes and the concept of "enlightened witnessing," we explore the transformative power of authenticity and integrity. The episode closes with a discussion on the influence of technology on trust and decision-making, featuring invaluable insights from thought leaders like Jordan B. Peterson and Alice Miller. Join us for an episode rich with raw honesty, heartfelt stories, and practical wisdom on trust, recovery, and redemption.Key moments in this episode:06:42 The Downfall: Alcohol and Tragedy09:43 Redemption and Self-Discovery11:42 Facing the Consequences21:38 Rebuilding Relationships and Trust24:44 Family Reunions and Gratitude30:12 The Role of an Enlightened Witness34:20 San Quentin News and Redemption37:59 The Importance of Community and Mentorship42:58 Final Reflections and AdviceHow to reach Wayne:Web: https://wayneboatwright.medium.com/Book: Podcast ProfilesFB: https://www.facebook.com/wayne.boatwrightIG: https://www.instagram.com/wabfree/YouTube: https://youtube.com/@bradleyvinsonLinkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/wayneboatwright/ Support the Show.Thanks for listening to the Revolutionary Man Podcast. If you want more information about our programs use the links below to check us out. It could be the step that changes your life.
“What is addiction, really? It is a sign, a signal, a symptom of distress. It is a language that tells us about a plight that must be understood.” Alice Miller, Breaking Down the Wall of Silence --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/donavon-riley/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/donavon-riley/support
¿Cómo interactuar ? Puedes sugerir temas y dejar mensajes vocales en la página de Anchor , y los incluimos en los episodios que siguen. ¡Animate! Aquí el link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mel88888ig: https://www.instagram.com/justine_time8/www.justinetime.org El podcast Justine Time cumple 4 años en marzo del 2024!Truco: Escúchalo en la app descargada de Spotify, pues incluye música original de la plataforma. Historia del podcast Justine TimeUn podcast trilingue (español, francés e inglés) creado por Psy / Prof Mélanie Justine Marie Berthaud durante el encierro histórico de marzo 2020, como un walk and talk podcast sobre distintos temas tales como: . sociedad. psicoanálisis, . arte. literatura. feminismo. espiritualidad, con las meditaciones guiadas y el estudio de varias publicaciones tales como Thich Nhat Hanh, "Sanar el niño interior" , que leemos en francés, así como el libro de Deepak Chopra,"Buda", psicología y el trabajo de Bessel Van der Kolk, y el libro "The body keeps the score" y "The body never lies" de Alice Miller, y finalmente, astrología y las entrevistas con el astrólogo, chef e historiador Rodrigo Llanes. Son varias series que se indican en el título de cada episodio: ASTROLOGÍA, FELICIDAD, TRAUMA , LITERATURA, INTROSPECCIÓN, ESCRITURA, MEDITACIÓN, ETC...Esperamos tus comentarios y preguntas. #besselvanderkolk#thebodykeepsthescore#traumasensitiveyoga#meljustinemarie#hypnotherapist#psychoanalysis#resilience#memory#yoga@justine.time.yoga.poetry.art#temporada5#chef#historiadorrodrigollanes#podcastjustinetime#justinetimeyogapoetryarts#astrology#moon#newmoons#newmoonrituals#astrologia#alimentation#vida#metamorphoses#vidaafectiva#lunallena#lunanueva#yogalove#yogalife#thichnhathanh#mindfulness#villagedespruniers#plumvillage#miraradentro#mirarprofundamenteGracias--------Mel Berthaud es politóloga, profesora de yoga y meditación, psicoanalista e hipnoterapeuta. Ha integrado completamente la práctica de yoga como ciencia, filosofía y arte. Certificada por RYT500. Con más de 2000 horas de enseñanza registradas en Yoga Alliance. También ejerce el psicoanálisis desde hace 17 años. Es hipnoterapeuta y heutagoga. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mel88888/message
durée : 00:58:53 - Toute une vie - Juive d'origine polonaise émigrée en Suisse, la psychologue et psychanalyste Alice Miller ne se rattachait à aucune école. Sa cause était celle de l'enfance maltraitée, mais son militantisme l'a menée vers quelques dérives. - invités : Elisabeth Roudinesco Historienne de la psychanalyse et présidente de la Société internationale d'histoire de la psychiatrie et de la psychanalyse (SIHPP); Laurence Joseph Psychologue clinicienne et psychanalyste; Johann Chapoutot Professeur d'histoire contemporaine à l'Université Paris-Sorbonne - Paris IV, spécialiste du nazisme; Marc-André Cotton Psycho-historien
This week, host Anne-Marie Zanzal welcomes Dr. Roxy Manning and Sarah Peyton to the show. Dr. Manning is a clinical psychologist and a certified Centre for Nonviolent Communication trainer. She brings decades of experience to her work, interruping explicitly and implicitly oppressive attitudes and culture norms. Dr. Manning has provided consultation and training across the U.S. and internationally to businesses, non-profits, and government organizations wanting to move towards equitable and diverse workplace cultures. She also works as a psychologist in San Francisco serving the homeless and disenfranchised mentally ill populations. She is the author of "How to Have Anti-Racist Conversations: Embracing Our Full Humanity to Challenge White Supremacy," and co-author of the companion text written with Sarah Peyton "The Anti-Racist Heart: A Self-Compassion and Activism Handbook."Sarah Peyton is a certified trainer in non-violent communication and neuroscience educator who integrates brain science and resonant language to awaken and sustain self-compassion, particularly in the face of difficult issues like self-condemnation, self-disgust, and self-sabotage. She teaches and lectures internationally and is the author of the "Your Resonant Self" book series. She is Dr. Manning's co-author, as mentioned above.Tune in as Anne-Marie, Roxy and Sarah about anti-oppression, and anti-racism, compassion, connecting with others in a broken world, how to have hard conversations, and how to have non-violent communication.Find out more about Dr. Roxy Manning and her work on her website: https://roxannemanning.com/Learn more about Sarah Peyton and her work on her website: https://sarahpeyton.com/Dr. Manning's coming out song is " I Sing the Body Electric" from Fame. https://youtu.be/tG-wl2qqD7Y?si=xco-qyfPemNJQA_DSarah Peyton's 'power song' is Purple Rain by Prince. https://youtu.be/TvnYmWpD_T8?si=Y-n30GrnARjH13C2Books that have inspired Dr. Manning are the fantasy series by Mercedes Lackey: https://www.goodreads.com/series/list?id=8685.Mercedes_LackeyA book that has inspired Sarah Peyton is The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller. https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/4887.The_Drama_of_the_Gifted_ChildThis podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Chartable - https://chartable.com/privacy
This week, host Anne-Marie Zanzal welcomes Dr. Roxy Manning and Sarah Peyton to the show. Dr. Manning is a clinical psychologist and a certified Centre for Nonviolent Communication trainer. She brings decades of experience to her work, interruping explicitly and implicitly oppressive attitudes and culture norms. Dr. Manning has provided consultation and training across the U.S. and internationally to businesses, non-profits, and government organizations wanting to move towards equitable and diverse workplace cultures. She also works as a psychologist in San Francisco serving the homeless and disenfranchised mentally ill populations. She is the author of "How to Have Anti-Racist Conversations: Embracing Our Full Humanity to Challenge White Supremacy," and co-author of the companion text written with Sarah Peyton "The Anti-Racist Heart: A Self-Compassion and Activism Handbook."Sarah Peyton is a certified trainer in non-violent communication and neuroscience educator who integrates brain science and resonant language to awaken and sustain self-compassion, particularly in the face of difficult issues like self-condemnation, self-disgust, and self-sabotage. She teaches and lectures internationally and is the author of the "Your Resonant Self" book series. She is Dr. Manning's co-author, as mentioned above.Tune in as Anne-Marie, Roxy and Sarah about anti-oppression, and anti-racism, compassion, connecting with others in a broken world, how to have hard conversations, and how to have non-violent communication.Find out more about Dr. Roxy Manning and her work on her website: https://roxannemanning.com/Learn more about Sarah Peyton and her work on her website: https://sarahpeyton.com/Dr. Manning's coming out song is " I Sing the Body Electric" from Fame. https://youtu.be/tG-wl2qqD7Y?si=xco-qyfPemNJQA_DSarah Peyton's 'power song' is Purple Rain by Prince. https://youtu.be/TvnYmWpD_T8?si=Y-n30GrnARjH13C2Books that have inspired Dr. Manning are the fantasy series by Mercedes Lackey: https://www.goodreads.com/series/list?id=8685.Mercedes_LackeyA book that has inspired Sarah Peyton is The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller. https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/4887.The_Drama_of_the_Gifted_ChildThis podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Chartable - https://chartable.com/privacy
La conversación continúa. . . en el círculo de lectura anual de Justine Time. Org. Esta sesión corresponde a la sesión 4 del círculo Las Metamorfosis de la vida afectiva. Aquí abordamos muchas cuestiones fundamentales de las metamorfosis de la vida afectiva. Se trata de una presentación en video. Entre otros temas: Georg Simmel , el tema de la soledad, la desconfianza, el hastío, el anonimato. #soledad#loneliness#envejecer#historia#psicoanálisis El podcast Justine Time cumple 4 años en marzo del 2024! Truco: Escúchalo en la app descargada de Spotify, pues incluye música original de la plataforma. Historia del podcast Justine Time. Un podcast trilingue (español, francés e inglés) creado por Psy / Prof Mélanie Justine Marie Berthaud durante el encierro histórico de marzo 2020, como un walk and talk podcast sobre distintos temas tales como: . sociedad . psicoanálisis . arte . literatura . feminismo . espiritualidad. Con las meditaciones guiadas y el estudio de varias publicaciones tales como Thich Nhat Hanh, "Sanar el niño interior" , que leemos en francés, así como el libro de Deepak Chopra,"Buda", psicología y el trabajo de Bessel Van der Kolk, y el libro "The body keeps the score" y "The body never lies" de Alice Miller, y finalmente, astrología y las entrevistas con el astrólogo, chef e historiador Rodrigo Llanes. Son varias series que se indican en el título de cada episodio: ASTROLOGÍA, FELICIDAD, TRAUMA , LITERATURA, INTROSPECCIÓN, ESCRITURA, MEDITACIÓN, ETC... ¿Cómo interactuar ? Puedes sugerir temas y dejar mensajes vocales en la página de Anchor , y los incluimos en los episodios que siguen. ¡Animate! Aquí el link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mel88888 ig: https://www.instagram.com/justine_time8/ www.justinetime.org Esperamos tus comentarios y preguntas. #besselvanderkolk#thebodykeepsthescore#traumasensitiveyoga#meljustinemarie#hypnotherapist#psychoanalysis#resilience#memory#yoga@justine.time.yoga.poetry.art#temporada5#chef#historiadorrodrigollanes#podcastjustinetime#justinetimeyogapoetryarts#astrology#moon#newmoons#newmoonrituals#astrologia#alimentation#vida#metamorphoses#vidaafectiva#lunallena#lunanueva#yogalove#yogalife#thichnhathanh#mindfulness#villagedespruniers#plumvillage#miraradentro#mirarprofundamente Gracias--------Mel Berthaud es politóloga, profesora de yoga y meditación, psicoanalista e hipnoterapeuta. Ha integrado completamente la práctica de yoga como ciencia, filosofía y arte. Certificada por RYT500. Con más de 2000 horas de enseñanza registradas en Yoga Alliance. También ejerce el psicoanálisis desde hace 17 años. Es hipnoterapeuta y heutagoga. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mel88888/message
Dans cet épisode, se reconnaitront mes amis Jean-Thibault Fouletier, psychanalyste et peintre ; Marie-Pierre Dillenseger, autrice du livre "Debout"; Mireille Macé, que je n'ai jamais rencontré mais dont le texte "Respire" m'a beaucoup émue; Ann Moxey, Elie O, Alice Miller et bien d'autres. "Debout", de Stéphane Haskell, est un film qui date de 2019. Par un concours de circonstances, pendant un moment de vacances de Noël, il m'est donné de "tomber" sur "Debout". Or, je ne crois pas du tout au hasard. Alors, je prête une oreille attentive à ce qui se passe. Et le film, accompagné par la voix puissante et douce de Stéphane Haskell, m'emporte. Il montre comment le yoga permet de restructurer le mental et comment la douleur joue un rôle précis dans notre existence. Il présente la résilience qui est le cadeau que la pratique du yoga offre à qui le pratique. Stéphane Haskell partage son cheminement propre durant lequel il retrouve la mobilité de son corps ainsi que le goût pour la vie dans son film "Debout" sur le thème du yoga. Accompagner Stéphane Haskell durant 90 minutes, c'est comme revivre mon propre cheminement, sur de très nombreux points. Le podcast Justine Time fête ses 4 ans en mars 2024 ! Astuce: Écoutez-le dans l'application téléchargée depuis Spotify, car elle inclut la musique originale de la plateforme. Historique du podcast Justine Time Un podcast trilingue (espagnol, français et anglais) créé par Psy / Prof Mélanie Justine Marie Berthaud lors du confinement historique de mars 2020, sous forme de podcast de promenade et d'échange sur différents sujets tels que : . société . psychanalyse, . art . littérature . féminisme . la spiritualité, avec des méditations guidées et l'étude de diverses publications comme Thich Nhat Hanh, "Healing the Inner Child", que l'on lit en français, ainsi que le livre de Deepak Chopra, "Buddha", la psychologie et les travaux de Bessel Van der Kolk , et le livre "Le corps garde le score" et "Le corps ne ment jamais" d'Alice Miller, et enfin, l'astrologie et les entretiens avec l'astrologue, chef et historien Rodrigo Llanes. Il existe plusieurs séries qui sont indiquées dans le titre de chaque épisode : ASTROLOGIE, BONHEUR, TRAUMA, LITTÉRATURE, INTROSPECTION, ÉCRITURE, MÉDITATION, ETC... Comment interagir ? Vous pouvez suggérer des sujets et laisser des messages vocaux sur la page Anchor, et nous les inclurons dans les épisodes qui suivront. Voici le lien : https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mel88888 ig : https://www.instagram.com/justine_time8/ www.justinetime.org Nous attendons avec impatience vos commentaires et vos questions. #besselvanderkolk#thebodykeepsthescore#traumasensitiveyoga#meljustinemarie#hypnotherapist#psychoanalysis#resilience#memory#yoga@justine.time.yoga.poetry.art#season5#chef#historiadorrodrigollanes#podcastjustinetime#justinetimeyogapoetryarts#astrology#moon#newmoons#newmoonrituals#astrology#alimentation #vie#métamorphoses#affectivelife#lunallena#lunanueva#yogalove#yogalife#thichnhathanh#mindfulness#villagedespruniers#plumvillage#lookinside#lookdeeply Merci --------- Mel Berthaud est politologue, professeure de yoga et de méditation, psychanalyste et hypnothérapeute. Elle a pleinement intégré la pratique du yoga en tant que science, philosophie et art. Certifiée RYT500. Avec plus de 2000 heures d'enseignement enregistrées dans Yoga Alliance. Il pratique également la psychanalyse depuis 17 ans. Elle est hypnothérapeute et heutagogue. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mel88888/message
En este inicio de año, es preciso preguntarse cómo se han desarrollado las metamorfosis de cada quien, en los distintos campos de la existencia. En 2023-2024, el círculo de lectura y estudios de Justine Time. Org se ha dedicado al tema de las metamorfosis de la vida afectiva, por zoom, un viernes al mes. Esta sesión es la primera sesión que se llevó a cabo en septiembre del 2023. Esta versión es editada y no incluye las participaciones de las personas quienes estuvieron presentes en el Círculo ese día. El círculo sobre este tema acaba en febrero del 2024. Se puede participar de manera suelta o en todas las sesiones. #michelfoucault#micheldecerteau#circulodelecturayestudios El podcast Justine Time cumple 4 años en marzo del 2024!Truco: Escúchalo en la app descargada de Spotify, pues incluye música original de la plataforma. Historia del podcast Justine TimeUn podcast trilingue (español, francés e inglés) creado por Psy / Prof Mélanie Justine Marie Berthaud durante el encierro histórico de marzo 2020, como un walk and talk podcast sobre distintos temas tales como: . sociedad. psicoanálisis, . arte. literatura. feminismo. espiritualidad, con las meditaciones guiadas y el estudio de varias publicaciones tales como Thich Nhat Hanh, "Sanar el niño interior" , que leemos en francés, así como el libro de Deepak Chopra,"Buda", psicología y el trabajo de Bessel Van der Kolk, y el libro "The body keeps the score" y "The body never lies" de Alice Miller, y finalmente, astrología y las entrevistas con el astrólogo, chef e historiador Rodrigo Llanes. Son varias series que se indican en el título de cada episodio: ASTROLOGÍA, FELICIDAD, TRAUMA , LITERATURA, INTROSPECCIÓN, ESCRITURA, MEDITACIÓN, ETC...¿Cómo interactuar ?Puedes sugerir temas y dejar mensajes vocales en la página de Anchor , y los incluimos en los episodios que siguen. ¡Animate! Aquí el link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mel88888ig: https://www.instagram.com/justine_time8/www.justinetime.orgEsperamos tus comentarios y preguntas. #besselvanderkolk#thebodykeepsthescore#traumasensitiveyoga#meljustinemarie#hypnotherapist#psychoanalysis#resilience#memory#yoga@justine.time.yoga.poetry.art#temporada5#chef#historiadorrodrigollanes#podcastjustinetime#justinetimeyogapoetryarts#astrology#moon#newmoons#newmoonrituals#astrologia#alimentation#vida#metamorphoses#vidaafectiva#lunallena#lunanueva#yogalove#yogalife#thichnhathanh#mindfulness#villagedespruniers#plumvillage#miraradentro#mirarprofundamente --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mel88888/message
Cuốn sách này là quá trình khám phá và phục hồi dành cho những người trưởng thành gặp tổn thương từ gia đình. Khái niệm “Đứa trẻ nội tâm” trở thành một phần của nền văn minh nhân loại từ cách đây ít nhất 2000 năm. Carl Jung gọi khái niệm này là “Đứa trẻ thần thánh” (Divine Child), còn Emmet Fox gọi là “Đứa trẻ kì diệu” (Wonder Child). Hai nhà tâm lý trị liệu Alice Miller và Donald Winnicott đã đề cập đến nó như là “chân ngã” (cái Tôi đích thực) của chúng ta. Nhiều chuyên gia khác trong lĩnh vực nghiên cứu chứng nghiện rượu và chất kích thích khác gọi nó là “Đứa trẻ nội tâm” (Inner Child). Thuật ngữ Đứa trẻ nội tâm dùng để nói về phần tâm hồn vô cùng sôi nổi, tràn đầy sức sống, sáng tạo và mãn nguyện trong sâu thẳm mỗi người; đây chính là Đứa trẻ nội tâm – là Chân Ngã – là con người thực sự của chúng ta. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/taosins/message
Not Feeling Good Enough: Self-Criticism, Healing and Vulnerability We talk about the origins of feeling not good enough, and even if you understand why you feel this way, you still may be stuck. At the end, Jen and I have a tearful moment that is bursting with vulnerability sharing something we have never talked about before. We talk about our own rigidity, inflexibility and having high expectations for others. We explore the power of naming what is going on in the moment, even when it may not be pretty, but it can be extremely powerful. CO-HOST Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC HIGHLIGHTS · Importance of emotional intelligence in personal growth · Recognizing and managing emotions in oneself and others · Developing self-awareness and self-reflection skills · Cultivating empathy and compassion for others · Recognizing and challenging negative self-talk · Embracing imperfection and self-love · Benefits of self-acceptance and self-compassion · Navigating life's transitions with grace and humor 9. Power of vulnerability in authentic relationships · Importance of authenticity and vulnerability · Internalizing criticism and creating negative self-stories · Feeling unworthy and doing hurtful behaviors · Intellectual understanding vs. deep feeling healing · Integration of intellectual and emotional healing · Pre-verbal experiences and difficulty expressing with words · Benefits of unstructured play for emotional development · Lowering expectations and finding freedom · Holding oneself lightly and letting go of perfectionism · Finding joy in the midst of life's pressures · Cultivating a growth mindset and learning from mistakes PODCAST HOST Patricia was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, but is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it's like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller. Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is neurodivergent helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion. She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren't alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges. Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for HSPs that focus on understanding what it means to be an HSP, self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you CO-HOST BIO Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC has been a psychotherapist for 20 years. She specializes in helping Highly Sensitive People thrive in love, work, and parenting Highly Sensitive Children. Jen is passionate about using mindfulness and compassion-based approaches to ameliorate human suffering. LINKS Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller free YouTube audiobook: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_KPLXRvI_vQ Jen's Links Email: Jen@heartfulnessconsulting.com Jen's website: https://heartfulnessconsulting.com/ Patricia's Links HSP Online Course--https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/hsp-online-groups/ Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6 Sign up for the Newsletter-- https://www.subscribepage.com/y0l7d4 To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review” Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com
Chapter 1 What's The Drama of the Gifted Child"The Drama of the Gifted Child" is a book written by Alice Miller, a Swiss psychanalyst and psychotherapist. It was originally published in 1979, and its full title is "The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self." The book focuses on the psychological development and struggles of exceptionally sensitive and highly intelligent individuals, often referred to as "gifted children." Miller explores how childhood experiences, particularly emotional neglect or abuse, can shape the adult lives and personalities of these individuals. She argues that such individuals often face challenges in forming their own identity and authentic self due to the early trauma they encounter. Through the book, Miller offers insights into the healing process and emphasizes the importance of reconnecting with one's true self to attain emotional well-being.Chapter 2 Why is The Drama of the Gifted Child Worth ReadThe Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller is worth reading for several reasons:1. Insight into childhood trauma: The book provides a deep understanding of childhood trauma and its long-lasting effects on individuals. Miller explores how even seemingly ideal childhoods can have hidden damaging elements that impact a person's development and relationships.2. Emphasis on self-healing: The author encourages readers to acknowledge and address the emotional wounds from their childhood. By advocating for self-acceptance and self-compassion, Miller guides individuals towards healing and breaking patterns of dysfunction.3. Clear and accessible writing: Despite addressing complex psychological concepts, Miller's writing is clear and accessible to a wide range of readers. She effectively communicates her ideas and experiences, making it easier for readers to relate to the subjects discussed.4. Relevance for personal growth and self-reflection: The book allows readers to reflect on their own childhood experiences and helps them make connections to their present-day lives. It enables personal growth by providing tools for self-reflection and offering insights into how early experiences shape one's adult life.5. Validation and empowerment: One significant aspect of this book is its validation of individuals' experiences who have undergone childhood trauma. By identifying and describing common patterns and dynamics, Miller empowers readers to understand that they are not alone in their struggles.6. Impact on parenting and fostering healthy relationships: The Drama of the Gifted Child helps readers recognize and break the cycle of dysfunctional parenting by understanding the impact of their own childhood experiences. It offers insights into how to establish healthier relationships, both as parents and as partners.Overall, The Drama of the Gifted Child is worth reading because it offers a compassionate perspective on childhood trauma, encourages personal growth and healing, and provides practical knowledge to foster healthier relationships.Chapter 3 The Drama of the Gifted Child Summary"The Drama of the Gifted Child" by Alice Miller is a book that explores the long-term effects of childhood trauma and the ways in which it can shape an individual's adult life. Miller argues that many adults who were considered "gifted" or high-achieving as children often experienced emotional neglect or abuse in their early years.The book begins by examining the concept of the "gifted child," referring to those who were praised for being talented, intelligent, or exceptionally mature for their age. Miller suggests that this praise often masked the child's true emotional needs and prevented them from developing a healthy sense of self. Instead,...
Navigating Neurodiversity: The Struggle to Figure out the Rules We discuss the importance of emotional intelligence, & allowing oneself to feel the full range of emotions. We talk about the struggle to figure out what the unspoken expectations are. We talk about how neurodivergent brains process information compared to neurotypical brains, as well as communication styles that may be more effective. If you're neurodivergent (HSP, autistic, ADHD etc.), being around others who also have high emotional intelligence may create more intimacy and understanding in your life. CO-HOST Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC HIGHLIGHTS · 1.Learn about the importance of feeling the full range of human emotion. · 2. Discover that it can be safe and healthy to express your feelings. · 4. Realize the importance of not toning down emotions. · 5. Explore why cognitive behavioral therapy may not be helpful if you are neurodivergent. · 8. Understand how the autistic and neurodivergent brain works from a bottom-up approach. · 9. Discover that starting with details and then going to the bigger picture is often how neurodivergent folks tend to process. · 10. Learn that allistics (non-autistics) tend to start with the broad and then go down to the details. · 11. Discover the importance of learning different ways of communicating and processing information. · 13. Learn why staying connected with friends is especially important during challenging times. · 14. Discover how Jen and Patricia use various communication tools to stay connected. · 16. Learn how sharing experiences and insights with friends can be helpful. · 17. Discover the importance of being open and honest with friends. · 18. Understand how being vulnerable with friends can lead to deeper connections. · 19. Learn about the importance of active listening in communication. · 20. Discover how practicing emotional intelligence can lead to better relationships and overall well-being. PODCAST HOST Patricia was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, but is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it's like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller. Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is neurodivergent helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion. She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren't alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges. Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for HSPs that focus on understanding what it means to be an HSP, self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you CO-HOST BIO Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC has been a psychotherapist for 20 years. She specializes in helping Highly Sensitive People thrive in love, work, and parenting Highly Sensitive Children. Jen is passionate about using mindfulness and compassion-based approaches to ameliorate human suffering. LINKS Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller free YouTube audiobook: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_KPLXRvI_vQ Jen's Links Email: Jen@heartfulnessconsulting.com Jen's website: https://heartfulnessconsulting.com/ Patricia's Links HSP Online Course--https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/hsp-online-groups/ Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6 Sign up for the Newsletter-- https://www.subscribepage.com/y0l7d4 To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review” Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com
Puede comprar el libro aquí (https://amzn.to/3pyCwbb). Los problemas no pueden ser resueltos con palabras, sino únicamente a través de la experiencia; no sólo la experiencia correctiva sino mediante el alivio de los temores originales (tristeza, ira). ALICE MILLER. #familia #sanacion #sanacionintegral #sanación #sanacionholistica #sanaciónconamor #amorincondicional #amorpropio #amistades #amistad --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/rafael-vazquez7/support
En este episodio el psicólogo David Zendejas reflexiona sobre un fragmento del libro El drama del niño super dotado de Alice Miller, y habla de la única herramienta que tenemos para enfrentar los problemas de salud mental Búscanos en Facebook e Instagram como @servidac Music by www.patrickdearteaga.com
This week's show is with William Apple. William Apple is a Psychological and Spiritual Mentor, as well as a Psychodynamic Coach. The Foundation of his Work is rooted in Carl Jung's Concept of “Individuation”, and takes a new approach towards fostering a conscious relationship with that Process by quantifying a Depth Psychological and Psychoanalytic approach to the Inner Child as a Precursor to Shadow Work. He is Certified in CBT, DBT, ACT, IFS, and Polyvagal Theory, and his Inner Child Work is strongly influenced by Alice Miller, D.W. Winnicott, Jacque Lacan, Marion Woodman, Magda Gerber, Bell Hooks, and many others. In this conversation, William and I explored the unfolding journey of creating a relationship with the inner child, how confronting it can feel to see how much of our life has been created from the wounding of the child, and how we can be with that in an accepting and accountable way, and lastly and maybe surprisingly, given what a gloomy picture I may have just painted - how it can be a beautiful and playful experience! We'd love to know what YOU think about this week's show. Let's carry on the conversation… please leave a comment below or share in our fb group. What you'll learn from this episode: The inner child is all the wounded parts of us that have been fractured through conditioning and the parts of us that have been created as coping mechanisms as a result The fish metaphor that arose is one that I think is very helpful in allowing us to see the depths of the conditioning - as William said “We've been led to believe we're fish!” I loved what William said about how those of us who have been in the work for many years, it's not been a waste of time - it's actually a map back to ourselves if we look at the work and our fantasies about it, it can reveal so much about our wounds. We can continue doing that work, with awareness and actually enjoying the play! Resources and stuff that we spoke about: Our last episode about - PLEASE LINK William's Website: Aion Psychodynamic Coaching Thank you for listening! There's a fresh episode each week, if you subscribe then you'll get each new episode delivered to your phone every Wild Wednesday (that way you'll never miss a show): Subscribe on Apple Podcasts/iTunes Subscribe on Android Thank you! Lian and Jonathan
This week's show is with William Apple. William Apple is a Psychological and Spiritual Mentor, as well as a Psychodynamic Coach. The Foundation of his Work is rooted in Carl Jung's Concept of “Individuation”, and takes a new approach towards fostering a conscious relationship with that Process by quantifying a Depth Psychological and Psychoanalytic approach to the Inner Child as a Precursor to Shadow Work. He is Certified in CBT, DBT, ACT, IFS, and Polyvagal Theory, and his Inner Child Work is strongly influenced by Alice Miller, D.W. Winnicott, Jacque Lacan, Marion Woodman, Magda Gerber, Bell Hooks, and many others. In this conversation, William and I explored, Phantasy vs Fantasy, what is meant by each, how to know which you're engaging in, and how to work with them consciously. We'd love to know what YOU think about this week's show. Let's carry on the conversation… please leave a comment below or share in our fb group. What you'll learn from this episode: Phantasy means the spectres of the past are being projected onto the world, whereas Fantasy means what we generally think of the word - conscious engagement of imagining things (and being honest and accountable about that). Once this distinction between the two types is clear, it allows us to see more clearly how we show up in the world, not just to others but to ourselves. We rarely see others for who they are, we see them for who we phantasise them to be. Projections are the non-verbal hopes, dreams and expectations of what we hope that world will be like so we can feel safe. The hopes, dreams and expectations are coming from the spectres of the past - which are unmet needs from childhood which are now being projected out onto others and the world. The work of consciously working with our phantasies means being accountable for them, without shame, blame and guilt. Reclaiming and remembering how to consciously fantasise with our active imagination, particularly with our projections, can be so healing and also fun! Resources and stuff that we spoke about: William's Website: Aion Psychodynamic Coaching Thank you for listening! There's a fresh episode each week, if you subscribe then you'll get each new episode delivered to your phone every Wild Wednesday (that way you'll never miss a show): Subscribe on Apple Podcasts/iTunes Subscribe on Android Thank you! Lian and Jonathan
Lessons from episode number one of Feds at the Edge can be applied to the ninety-nine that follow At first glance, it is an interview about a tragic fire that befell the world-famous Notre Dame Cathedral in 2019; however, looking deeper you will see that the description risk management can be applied to the life of every federal information professional. The federal government sits on a legacy system that has proven to be successful for decades. The Notre Dame Cathedral was built in 1163. Our federal system is encased in impregnable data centers, much like the limestone of the cathedral. As evidenced by a plethora of Executive Orders, acknowledgment is given to make changes, like Zero Trust, to reduce risk. During the interview, you will find that the cathedral had a fire protection plan put together by experts. Unfortunately, it was not deployed for fear of the transition to a safer environment was too risky in itself. From the perspective of a federal project manager, it is a case study of concepts like risk management, probability, and monitoring. What assumptions are you making about a black swan event and your security system? “During our case study, today, we are going to look at some of the assumptions, factors, and components that shaped the fire protection plan. And that may have ultimately led to its failure.” Dr. Natalie K. Houghtby-Haddon, Associate Director GW CEPL & Assistant Professor, GW College of Professional Studies “That public tweet occurred before the fire department arrived at Notre Dame” Dr. Natalie K. Houghtby-Haddon, Associate Director GW CEPL & Assistant Professor, GW College of Professional Studies Petabytes of data and forests of trees: “And it was called that because the wooden beams that made up that attic dated back to the 12th and 13th century, and wood for more than 1300 trees were cut down and used in building that attic.” Dr. Natalie K. Houghtby-Haddon, Associate Director GW CEPL & Assistant Professor, GW College of Professional Studies Firewalls are standard practice for all computer systems today. “Officials chose not to alter the attic with any modern fire safety measures measures such as sprinklers, or firewalls” Tom Brandt, Chief Risk Officer, U.S. Internal Revenue Service “What is risk appetite, it's the type and amount of risk that an organization is willing to accept in pursuit of values.” Tom Brandt, Chief Risk Officer, U.S. Internal Revenue Service Risk Management does not just apply to moving to the hybrid cloud. “So, as you're accepting risk, are you accepting something that's high likelihood? And if it were to occur? Are you accepting something that's high impact?” Alice Miller, Chief Risk Officer, Millennium Challenge Corporation Twitter: @FedInsider LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/fedinsider/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FedInsiderNews
Dennis Wilder returns to ChinaTalk — this time with some broader thoughts on how the US intelligence community can rise to the occasion vis-à-vis China. In particular, we discuss: The importance of government hiring those with experience living in China; Contributions that the Foreign Broadcast Intelligence Service (FBIS) has made to China intelligence, and why it should be reinstated; A serious request to make an ChatGPT as good as Alice Miller is at analyzing CCP documents; https://www.hoover.org/sites/default/files/research/docs/clm57-am-final.pdf Why the State Department has established China House and the CIA has established the China Mission Center; What we can learn from Richard Danzig's Driving in the Dark; https://www.cnas.org/publications/reports/driving-in-the-dark-ten-propositions-about-prediction-and-national-security%C2%A0 How to maintain robust intelligence capabilities in the long-run; Raymond P. Ludden and the “Dixie Mission” — and why the US needs more Luddens today. https://uschinadialogue.georgetown.edu/essays/we-need-more-luddens Outro music: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6l6vqPUM_FE Check out the newsletter and other ChinaTalk content at https://www.chinatalk.media/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Dennis Wilder returns to ChinaTalk — this time with some broader thoughts on how the US intelligence community can rise to the occasion vis-à-vis China. In particular, we discuss: The importance of government hiring those with experience living in China; Contributions that the Foreign Broadcast Intelligence Service (FBIS) has made to China intelligence, and why it should be reinstated; A serious request to make an ChatGPT as good as Alice Miller is at analyzing CCP documents; https://www.hoover.org/sites/default/files/research/docs/clm57-am-final.pdf Why the State Department has established China House and the CIA has established the China Mission Center; What we can learn from Richard Danzig's Driving in the Dark; https://www.cnas.org/publications/reports/driving-in-the-dark-ten-propositions-about-prediction-and-national-security%C2%A0 How to maintain robust intelligence capabilities in the long-run; Raymond P. Ludden and the “Dixie Mission” — and why the US needs more Luddens today. https://uschinadialogue.georgetown.edu/essays/we-need-more-luddens Outro music: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6l6vqPUM_FE Check out the newsletter and other ChinaTalk content at https://www.chinatalk.media/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
It's one thing to feel good about what we do, and another to feel truly worthy from the inside out. When we increase our self-worth it allows us to take our needs more seriously, get on our own side, and change our lives for the better. On this episode of Being Well, Rick and Forrest explore how we can develop a more durable sense of self-worth. They talk about self-worth vs. self-esteem, what causes people to lack self-worth, Rick's personal story of developing a true sense of worthiness, and why more self-worth probably won't turn you into a narcissistic a**hole.Watch the Episode: Prefer watching video? You can watch this episode on YouTube.Key Topics:0:00: Introduction1:00: The value of self-worth2:50: Will improving my self-worth turn me into a narcissist?5:45: What makes people more likely to struggle with self-worth?6:50: Distinguishing self-worth from self-esteem9:30: Rick's own journey to a better sense of self-worth14:55: Inner attacker, inner nurturer, and the beleaguered self.19:15: The process of building up your nurturing parts27:20: Investigating negative stories we tell ourselves30:55: Mutual rapport and being loving33:40: Social aspects of developing self worth, and why therapy works36:50: Non-social aspects38:20: Relating to yourself from a less ego-oriented perspective44:40: Vulnerability and tenderness in our interactions with others46:05: Recap Sponsors:Access over 30 at-home lab tests from Everlywell, and head to everlywell.com/beingwell for twenty percent off your next test.Join over a million people using BetterHelp, the world's largest online counseling platform. Visit betterhelp.com/beingwell for 10% off your first month!Want to sleep better? Try the Calm app! Visit calm.com/beingwell for 40% off a premium subscription.MDbio is a plant-based medicine company with natural products that address sleep, anxiety, pain, and immunity. Get your FREE 10-count sample pack by going to mdbiowellness.com and entering the promo code BEINGWELL at checkout!Connect with the show:Subscribe on iTunesFollow Forrest on YouTubeFollow us on InstagramFollow Forrest on InstagramFollow Rick on FacebookFollow Forrest on FacebookVisit Forrest's website
Mark speaks with Jennifer Fraser, best-selling author, award-winning educator with a PhD in Comparative Literature. Through personal experience and extensive research, Jennifer uncovered how bullying affects the brain and how the brain can heal, which she details in her new book, The Bullied Brain: Heal Your Scars and Restore Your Health. Today, Commander Divine speaks with Jennifer Fraser, best-selling author, award-winning educator with a PhD in Comparative Literature. In the episode, Jennifer shares how bullying affects the brain and how the brain can heal—detailed in her newest book, The Bullied Brain: Heal Your Scars and Restore Your Health. Key Takeaways: The brain science of abuse. A bullied brain is an unhealthy brain, displaying neurological changes whether the bullying is physical or emotional. We can analyze this on brain scans, brain mapping technology, and correlate it to psychological manifestations in the brain. The psychology of bullying: the Victim and the Favored. Jennifer shares the psychology of the bully stories such as Larry Nassar, which feature bully normalization, co-opting parents into being complicit, and the extensive damage caused in athlete victims AND those witnessing the abuse. Child abuse is indicative of later chronic illness. Child abuse comes in many forms (emotional, physical abuse and sexual, emotional, and physical neglect). Jennifer shares insights from Rolland Summit and Alice Miller’s work that discovered child abuse of all forms accounts for half of the main indicators of later midlife chronic illness. Astounding! You can train your brain out of abuse, like Tom Brady. He’s one of the first premier athletes to publicly share that he trains his brain as much as he trains his body, leveraging a platform called Brain HQ. As one of the best quarterbacks in history, it’s fair to say Tom knows a thing or two about being elite, with compassion and courage. There are solutions, and Brain HQ is one of many.
When a child is particularly emotionally intelligent, and a parent is particularly emotionally vulnerable, an inversion of the typical relationship can occur where the child devotes themselves to meeting the parent's needs rather than the other way around. This can lead the child to lose touch with their own wants and needs – with their authentic self – which then leads to underlying feelings of worthlessness, uncertainty, and self-alienation in adulthood.Extreme versions of this pattern are known as parentification, but mild to moderate versions are surprisingly common. On today's episode of Being Well, Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson explore how we can heal from the effects of these difficult early experiences and rediscover who we truly are. This material was completely eye-opening for me, and it's one of my favorite episodes we've ever produced.Want to learn more? Check out Alice Miller's classic book The Drama of the Gifted Child.Prefer watching video? You can watch this episode on YouTube.Key Topics:0:00: Introduction2:55: Distinction between parentification and the gifted child5:05: Serving a psychological function - what is the “gift” we're talking about?7:50: Self-definition vs. defining yourself through relationship10:30: Examples of generational patterns16:45: Accumulation of subtle forms of parentification over time21:55: Patterns of interaction, and differentiation24:00: Summary of material so far27:00: “The manic defense against depression”30:30: What can people do?35:00: Love, aspiration, and power in parenting styles40:20: Creating a coherent (and balanced) narrative43:30: Seductive narratives, grief not shame, claiming your nature51:25: What emotions were you permitted?53:35: RecapWednesday Meditation Group: Join Rick for his freely offered online weekly meditation, talk, and discussion.Support the Podcast: We're now on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link.Sponsors:Join over a million people using BetterHelp, the world's largest online counseling platform. Visit betterhelp.com/beingwell for 10% off your first month!Want to sleep better? Try the Calm app! Visit calm.com/beingwell for 40% off a premium subscription.Try Splendid Spoon today and take meal-planning off your plate. Just go to SplendidSpoon.com/BEINGWELL for $50 off your first boxReady to shake up your protein Ritual? Being Well listeners get 10% off during your first 3 months at ritual.com/WELL.Connect with the show:Subscribe on iTunesFollow Forrest on YouTubeFollow us on InstagramFollow Forrest on InstagramFollow Rick on FacebookFollow Forrest on FacebookVisit Forrest's website
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