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Air Date - 18 February 2025In this empowering episode, you'll learn about the missing piece to single-handedly transform your relationship and create harmony in your home. My good friend, Relationship Expert, Hay House author, and Aspire Mag Expert Columnist, Stacey Martino, joins me in sharing why the old relationship paradigm is broken, how anyone can single-handedly save their marriage, and so much more.About the Guest:Hay House Author and Relationship Expert Stacey Martino invented the Relationship Development® Methodology and hundreds of proprietary tools to empower anyone to save their marriage single-handedly, bring the passion back, eliminate the fighting, and bring harmony to their home.For over 14 years, Stacey, & her husband Paul have helped thousands of people transform their marriages, parenting, and families! (all by working with only ONE spouse).During a 6-year study of student results, the students in their RelationshipU® program had a 1% Divorce Rate all 6 years! Those results are unheard of, and that's because…their methodology WORKS!Through their profound work, the Martinos have shown that couples work doesn't work; marriage issues are not mental health issues, and that relationship is a skill set that can be learned.  Stacey is the Expert Relationship Columnist for Aspire Magazine.Their new book, The Missing Piece: A Proven Method to Single-Handedly Transform Your Relationship and Create Harmony in Your Home, is now available everywhere.Learn more about their transformational programs at https://relationshipdevelopment.org.Social Media:Website: https://relationshipdevelopment.org/Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/StaceyMartinoLPCInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/staceymartinordo/#StaceyMartino #InspiredConversations #LindaJoy #Women #SelfHelp #Mindfulness #Lifestyle #InterviewsVisit the Inspired Conversations Show Page https://omtimes.com/iom/shows/inspired-conversationsConnect with Linda Joy https://linda-joy.com/Subscribe to our Newsletter https://omtimes.com/subscribe-omtimes-magazine/Connect with OMTimes on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/Omtimes.Magazine/ and OMTimes Radio https://www.facebook.com/ConsciousRadiowebtv.OMTimes/Twitter: https://twitter.com/OmTimes/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/omtimes/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/2798417/Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/omtimes/

Struggling with communication in your relationships? It's probably because you're demanding it. What if we told you that just one person has the power to change everything? In this episode, hosts Justin and Tara Williams sit down with relationship experts Paul and Stacey Martino to discuss the power of communication and how just one person can transform a relationship. The Martinos, creators of the Relationship Development Method and authors of The Missing Piece, share practical insights on navigating conflict, building stronger connections, and fostering collaboration in families and businesses. They highlight how improving relationships isn't just about compliance but genuine cooperation, and how personal growth in this area can lead to greater success in all aspects of life. Tune in for real, actionable advice on taking responsibility for your role in relationships and how developing this skill set can enhance your entrepreneurial journey! What we discuss with Paul and Stacey: + One person can transform a relationship + Relationships function as a closed loop + Compliance vs. true cooperation + Creating effective family systems + Humility leads to relationship growth + Demand vs. relationship development + Using natural consequences wisely + Strong relationships fuel business success + Overcoming false beliefs in relationships + Turning passion into a thriving business Thank you, Paul and Stacey! Check out the Relationship Development Method at RelationshipDevelopment.org. Purchase a copy of The Missing Piece. Watch the video podcast of this episode! And follow us on: Instagram Facebook Tik Tok Youtube Twitter To get exclusive offers mentioned in this episode and to support the show, visit millionaireuniversity.com/sponsors. Want to hear from more incredible entrepreneurs? Check out all of our interviews here! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How do you inspire change in others without pushing them away? Paul Martino never really enjoyed drinking. It was something he did to fit in. When he and Stacey Martino became intentional about their health, they decided to change their relationship with alcohol. During a difficult time in their marriage, Stacey tried pushing Paul to do things her way but when she shifted her focus to her own growth, Paul felt inspired to change on his terms. Now, 25 years later, they haven't had a drink, by choice, because it aligns with their values. In this episode, Paul and Stacey join Annie to share tools to navigate different drinking habits as a couple and how to inspire change in others without pressure or judgment. In this episode, Annie, Paul, and Stacey will discuss: - Why social drinking never felt right for Paul - Prioritizing health and rethinking alcohol - How to navigate different drinking habits as a couple - Managing triggers and responses in relationships - Owning your growth without relying on others - Choosing patience over judgment - How to inspire change without being forceful - Building trust while respecting each other's choices - Letting go of “if you loved me, you would” thinking - Addressing safety concerns with care - Facing challenges and growing through discomfort - And other topics… Related Episodes: EP 41: Relationships, Marriage & Alcohol with Stacey Martino https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-41-relationships-marriage-alcohol-with-stacey-martino/ EP 278: Reader Question – How Can Friends and Family Support Someone Who Is Changing Their Relationship With Alcohol? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-278-reader-question-how-can-friends-and-family-support-someone-who-is-changing-their-relationship-with-alcohol  EP 364: Reader Question – Do I Have to Choose Between Being Alcohol-Free or My Relationship? https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-364-reader-question-do-i-have-to-choose-between-being-alcohol-free-or-my-relationship/  Resources Mentioned: Paul & Stacey's Website: relationshipdevelopment.org  Paul & Stacey's Book, The Missing Piece: A Proven Method to Single-Handedly Transform Your Relationship and Create Harmony in Your Home: https://www.amazon.com/Missing-Piece-Single-Handedly-Transform-Relationship/dp/1401993907  Ready to take the next step on your journey?  Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

Is the fear of drinking again keeping you from fully enjoying your life? After going through detox three times, Erin was afraid to drink again. She didn't want to go on vacations or to bars because she was scared. Even though she stayed away from alcohol for years, she still felt stuck because she was often thinking about not drinking. She was eager to step into the next chapter of her life but couldn't leave behind the structure that had supported her. Then, Erin found This Naked Mind, which helped her see that she could live without fear, shame, or anxiety. In this episode, Annie chats with Erin about what it took to change her mindset and finally live a life of true freedom. In this episode, Annie and Erin will discuss: - Why feeling powerless doesn't help - Moving past the fear of drinking again - Learning and growing from mistakes - Feeling lonely on your alcohol-free journey - How ads trick our brains into thinking alcohol is fun - Seeing cravings as a chance to learn - Why she started drinking again during cancer treatment - Her initial resistance to This Naked Mind - Drinking to connect with your partner - The problem with using fear to stay in control - And other topics… Related Episodes: EP 41: Relationships, Marriage & Alcohol with Stacey Martino: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-41-relationships-marriage-alcohol-with-stacey-martino/  EP 106: Reader's Question – Why does living alcohol-free feel lonely?: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-106-readers-question-living-alcohol-free-feel-lonely/  EP 184: Reader Question – Does alcohol advertising really work?: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-184-does-alcohol-advertising-really-work-2/  EP 222: Reader Question – What if my marriage is dependent on alcohol?: https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-222-reader-question-what-if-my-marriage-is-dependent-on-alcohol/  Ready to take the next step on your journey?  Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!

A marketer is nothing more than an event thrower. We throw events packaged as webinars, challenges, or whatever modality we use just to get people's attention. However, one thing that most of us would refrain from discussing is that filling an event is HARD enough! But not for Stacey Martino. Stacey and her husband, Paul, are relationship gurus and have been doing it for 20 years. For the last 10 years, they've had a whopping 90% REPEAT ATTENDANCE rate (read that again). Her clients are even willing enough to pay as much as $15,000 to get into their program!  How did they do it? Fortunately, Stacey is one of our featured speakers this coming October 26-28 at the OfferLaunch event (so exciting). And she's here to share her event methodologies that will blow your mind. Here's how she did it. (P.S. No tickets yet? Get your OfferLaunch event tickets here and learn the 6&7 figure strategies top marketers use to (re)launch offers.)   Key Takeaways: Introduction (00:00) How Stacey Martino got into doing live events (01:27) Tips for finding the right joint venture (JV) partners (05:39) How to get repeat attendees for your event (09:04) The power of delivering prescriptive results (18:17) Episode wrap-up (24:05)   Additional Resources  - Reserve Your Seat at the OfferLaunch 2023 event here - Connect with me here  - Interview me on your show --- Download Season 1 episodes here -- Sales Funnels Radio is a podcast for all passionate digital marketing pros looking to up their game and stay ahead. Follow us on your favorite podcasting platform so you never miss an episode!  

Sometimes it feels like it's easier to build a successful business than a successful marriage.There's a reason for that.If you want to succeed in business, there are specific tools and tactics you can use to help you do more deals, make more money, and grow.But how often do we invest in relationship tools?For me, the answer used to be never…Then I discovered Stacey and Paul Martino.And what I've learned from them has changed my life.(I'm still a work in progress, but my wife Lucy and I are in a MUCH better place now than we were a couple years ago, and SO MUCH of that comes down to what I learned from Stacey and Paul.)Today Stacey Martino is joining me on the podcast to share 5 tools you can use to transform your marriage.And these are ESPECIALLY important for entrepreneurs, real estate investors, and anyone else who's working hard to create a life of freedom for themselves and their family.Listen in now!Stacey and Paul are hosting a 3-day immersion event on December 8-10 where they're going to go DEEP into more of the relationship strategies Stacey talks about in this episode.If any of this resonates with you……then I highly recommend setting aside the time to be part of this.Hit the link below to sign up!CLICK HERE to Get Your Ticket >>(Use coupon code RBR50 for a $1,000 discount.)This event is happening live and online.So you can attend from anywhere in the world…No hotels, flights, or babysitters required.And your partner doesn't need to attend with you…With the methods Stacey and Paul teach, it only takes one person to COMPLETELY TRANSFORM a relationship.I'm living proof this stuff WORKS.Check it out…And I'll catch you on the flip side!Links & ResourcesAre you ready to take your relationship to the next level... so you can excel in your marriage, life, and business without holding back or feeling "stuck?"Stacey and Paul Martino are hosting a 3-day "Relationship Breakthrough Retreat" for entrepreneurs, business owners, real estate investors, and anyone else who wants to build healthy, thriving relationships!Hit the link below to sign up!CLICK HERE: https://rbrtickets.com/7ff(Use coupon code RBR50 for a $1,000 discount!) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Paul and Stacey Martino have worked with thousands of people to save their marriages and have less than a 1% divorce rate. How is that even possible? They never set out to be relationship "gurus." You will hear the story of how this whole concept started and not only why they do what they do but also how it can actually impact you! Relationship Development, the name of their massively impactful business, has changed the way so many people operate. Rather than being in a "demand" realtionship, you will learn how to take responsibility and completely transform your relationship to the best it's ever been!

Hey everyone, it's Sensei Victoria Whitfield here, your journey partner in business, welcoming you back to episode 169 of the Journeypreneur Podcast. This is your source for channeled holistic stress management techniques, guidance, inspiration and motivation to stay on your path to rapid financial ascension and massive impact as a conscious entrepreneur. So the title of this podcast episode is Healing Fatigue And Exhaustion. So in this podcast episode, we are taking another excerpt from my 45 live series, and we are talking today about healing, fatigue and exhaustion. Let's get to it. Hello, hello, all my Facebook fam! Sensei Victoria Whitfield here, you can find me at naturalintuition.com, your journey partner in business and this is my forty five live. It's day three of forty five and I've been here on my off day. It's a Saturday and I just wanted to pop in for some insight and connecting with you around healing fatigue and exhaustion, especially as an entrepreneur, business owner, CEO. So like. A good friend of mine, Stacey Martino, has this expression called The Pumpkin Hour, and this is one of those ways that we can communicate first with ourselves and then as well as our partners, our team, our clients, everyone like what our boundaries are and states is freaking awesome. I love you, Stacey and Paul. Go check them out at relationshipdevelopment.org -- I've been through, like a few of their programs and learning about the pumpkin, our super important for me as someone who's like a passionate business owner, someone who's purpose driven, like my business purpose driven. So that means I'm here like in service to others. And I believe that's part of my life's purpose, is my business. I don't just, like, go to work. Right. I I'm in my life's purpose every day when I'm working. By the way, if I want to know who's journeying with me for these forty five days, so go ahead and hit hashtag live if you're watching live or put hashtag replay if you're watching replays. So I know to love you up and I can see who's journeying with me. But this concept of the pumpkin hours is really powerful because it's come for me, it's in alignment with, again, one of those five principles that we've been talking about from day to day. And it's around being kind. Just for today, I will be kind and as like a summary, if you're just catching up on the journey or you're just entering and you're like, oh, my God, Victoria, what are you talking about? Reiki principles. It is just for today. I will not be angry just for today. I will not worry just for today. I will be honest just for today. I will be kind and just for today, I will be grateful. And by the way, that's the abridged version. And so I take those five Reiki principles and I apply them to my business life style and day to day as well as that for my clients. And it's really had beautiful results just having those values to help guide our decision making process. And so with that, I've received a lot of coaching and from Stacy has been one of the people I received awesome, awesome coaching from a husband, wife team. They're amazing. And this idea of the pumpkin hour has really helped me to be more kind to myself first rather than, as you know, I was sharing in another live, rather than seeing myself like as a machine and working myself into the hospital like I have in the past, and how my family has a history of doing so as well. And my clients have and their families as well, like we all share the similar kind of achiever thing. And so I want to lead with this concept of the pumpkin hour, because that's the hour of the day that you turn into a pumpkin essentially is what that is. - Let's talk about it! Feel like you've got a Money Block stopping or slowing your business growth?  Need help clearing that block, so that you can get your next-level abundance breakthrough?  Take the assessment at http://www.victoriawhitfield.com/quiz to find out, and apply for a Breakthrough Call with me!

The beautiful thing is relationships really only ever take one person to shift things. –Stacey Martino On this episode of the PlanSimple Podcast, I’m really excited to talk with Stacey Martino about relationships. She has had such a powerful impact on me and my family. What would happen if you focused 90 days on your relationship? That’s what we are here to find out.  The result that comes from focusing on relationships is the higher version of yourself, more peace within, and a real level of authentic happiness that you feel during the day. When you think about your partner, your children, what you're creating … when you think about the legacy that you're leaving with them and how you are a role model for your kids, when you think about the passion that you have with your partner and how that fuels you up, you feel rock solid, unshakeable, fueled up. The version of you is happier than you even thought possible.  We talk about the kerfuffles and struggles of daily life. When we are in these places, we get stuck on asking: How could we make this better? How can I get them to change or finally listen to me? Stacey suggests switching focus: What’s working? How can I elevate our relationship so that we reduce struggle in a way that feels good? This isn’t about pleasing everybody, but it is a shift in how we think and approach things.  We talk about:  Working on your relationship even when things don’t feel that bad How you can do the work on your own The idea that your response to someone is always causing the next reaction in a cycle  Learning to understand the differences in how you and your partner are wired (understanding how your kids are wired helps too) Taking the time to learn and rethink so you have more productive time and energy with your family Removing judgment and seeing the world with more appreciation BIO Stacey and Paul Martino have proven that it only takes ONE partner to transform a relationship... ANY relationship! The Martino’s are on a mission to empower people to get the Unshakeable Love and Unleashed Passion they want in their relationship... even if their partner REFUSES to change! Stacey and Paul, are the creators of Relationship Development®️ and their 8-Step Relationship Transformation System®️. Through their strategic coaching, online programs and sold-out live events, Stacey and Paul have helped save thousands of marriages around the world (by working with only one spouse). While the divorce rate averaging 50 – 70% and couple’s work resulting in about an 80% divorce rate... the Martino’s RelationshipU program results in a 1% Divorce rate and a 99% SUCCESS rate over the last six years. Those amazing results are unheard of! And that’s because the Martino’s have cracked the code on relationship with their Relationship Development methodology. Stacey and Paul have created hundreds of proven tools to empower real people to reclaim their happiness and create a transformation, even in relationships that looked hopeless. The Martino’s are changing the way relationship is done®️! LINKS https://relationshipdevelopment.org/ Rock Solid Synergy with Stacey Martino   Doable Changes from this episode: PRACTICE DROPPING JUDGMENT. One of the biggest changes you can make is to stop judging. Drop your nagging or chirping voice. When we stop judging, we allow ourselves to appreciate more. We can feel more peaceful. This can be a big change, but you can start small. Work on it for 10–15 minutes a day. MAKE A LIST OF THINGS THAT BOTHER YOU. Start making a list of the things that bother you. (This can work hand in hand with dropping judgment. Things that bring up your judgment voice belong on the list.) This is a list of things that you might need a system about or to make a decision about. The things that go on the list are things you will work on creating a plan over the next 12 months. CREATE SYSTEMS. Usually, kerfuffles are over something that isn’t working. These are indicators where you need a system — and need everyone to operate with the same system. Set up time on your calendar to create systems for things you’ve identified as problems. 

We have been living in very interesting and unusual times. Fear and negativity have certainly infiltrated the thoughts and lives of many. It is only when we silence our thoughts and make a conscious choice to rid our lives of negativity, that we can start to live a more positive life.Despite it all, I would say one of the greatest gifts I have given myself is to live a (mostly) positive life. I choose to focus on all the goodness around me. As Oprah so eloquently says, “What you focus on expands, and when you focus on the goodness in your life, you create more of it.”There are a few practices I've put in place to live a more positive life. In this solo podcast episode, I cover:The benefits of conducting a digital detox and reducing news and social media consumption.How your diet not just refers to the food you eat, however what you watch, listen to and the content you consume.Creating space from negative influences and becoming conscious of you who spend your time with.Stacey Martino's philosophy on left-handed vs. right-handed people in life.Mindset shifts to develop more positive and constructive thought processes.Building in positive practices into daily routines.If you enjoyed this episode, please remember to subscribe, rate and review The Boss in Heels Podcast!

If you’re only listening to what I say and not watching what I’m doing, then you’re missing the point. In this age of Covid, my team and I decided we wanted to give you an AMAZING ClickFunnels experience, like we do at Funnel Hacking Live. We asked ourselves… “What is the BEST step by step strategic process that will offer the most benefit to everyone?” So we came up with the Two Comma Club LIVE Virtual Conference. We laid it all out so you could know and INTERNALIZE exactly what to do from beginning to launch, in the right order, to ensure your success. Now, I didn’t do this all on my own. I could’ve easily taught this stuff for 3 days all on my own, but why do that when there are SMARTER people right inside the Funnel Hacker community who can teach and explain certain core concepts and frameworks WAY better than I could? So that’s what I did. For each step of this 3-Day 2CC LIVE event, I brought in the experts. I orchestrated their presentations in the framework I laid out, and plugged them in. And the feedback for this virtual conference has been INSANE! Except for this one guy who said “I’m really disappointed because I already saw these presentations at Funnel Hacking Live. And a lot of the stuff in 2CC LIVE is in your books. Why are you repeating this stuff?” This comment drove me NUTS! Why? Because this guy missed the whole point of the “Two Comma Club LIVE” Virtual Event. Tune into this episode and I’ll reveal exactly WHAT I did, WHY I did it, and how it can directly affect your results… ---Transcript--- What's up everybody? This is Russell Brunson. Welcome back to the Marketing Secrets Podcast. I hope you guys are excited for today. I'm excited and I got something really important I want to share with you. For some of you guys, this may be one of those things that's kind of hard to hear, but if you listen and you pay attention and you internalize it, I think something could change your life forever. All right, so I am about to start day number three of Two Comma Club Live, which I am extremely excited for. This is the second time we did a Two Comma Club Live event and it's something I want to start doing probably once a quarter. And just some background context for this is when Coronavirus hit, we decided we wanted to do a live event, a virtual event, and so, we made this Two Comma Club Live and I thought, well, how do we do this the most amazing way possible? I can sit on a stage and teach for three days, but I was like, what would be better strategically, what is the step-by-step process somebody needs to come through to have the best experience inside ClickFunnels? I started mapping out, okay, the first thing they have to understand is they have to understand frameworks, then from there they have to understand the four levels of value. Then from there, they have to understand the value ladder and the yellow brick road and then from there ... And I mapped out here's all the core concepts and principles people need to understand in the right order to do it. Right? And I looked at that and said, "Okay, based on that, these are the eight or nine different presentations I need to create." So, I made these new presentations that I'm really, really proud of, right? And then inside that, I was like, well, at Funnel Hacking Live three years ago Stacy Martino gave this presentation on the yellow brick road, which complimented the value ladder, it was one of the best presentations ever. So, instead of me just teaching the value ladder, let me teach my part of the value ladder and then grab Stacy Martino's presentation. We'll plug it in here. Right? And then summit funnels, right? I can go talk about summit funnels, instead, two funnel hacking lives ago Bailey Richard gave the most amazing presentation on some of the funnels ever. So, instead of me just re-teaching it, let me grab that presentation. I'll plug it in. And I kind of mapped it out. Right? And so, what happened is we orchestrated and choreographed this three-day event that is literally insane. I think it's one of the best things people could possibly go through, right? Now, obviously, for some people, if you've been to all the Funnel Hacking Lives, you've seen some of the presentations before. If you've read my books, I'm teaching the same core principles and things I do. I'm just teaching it in a different way. And for the most part, the feedback has been amazing, but it was interesting because I'm one of those guys who I love to see the comments. And so, I'm looking at the Facebook group and reading people's comments and for the most part, everyone is really, really excited. But there was one comment that got under my skin and not because ... I'm cool with taking criticism, I don't really care. I'm very confident in what we do. I'm very happy, but his criticism, I wanted to grab him and be like, "You missed the whole freaking point." So, the criticism this person posted was, "I bought everything Russell's ever said about every book. I've been to every single Funnel Hacking Live and this is the first time I've ever been disappointed ever." And they went on to say, "The reason why I'm disappointed is because I've seen all these presentations before. I went back to my old notebooks from Funnel Hacking Live and I already have notes on these presentations. Why is he sharing them with me again? And a lot of this stuff he already talked about in his books." And that was his criticism and said, "This is the first time I've ever been not happy with a Russell Brunson purchase." By the way, I want to remind you that this event is $0. You put your credit card in and there's $0. And after the event's over, if it's worth it, you pay 200 bucks. 200 bucks, okay? Literally almost nothing for three days with the training. Nine custom presentations from me and then the best presentations for Funnel Hacking Live put it in the right strategic order. Right? Anyway. And so, I was thinking about it and there are a couple of things that I wanted to share and hopefully this human, I don't even know who the person's name was, I was just reading the comment and just all night long just been irking me. Right? But I wanted to share a couple of things because I want to make sure that you get this as well. Okay? Number one, the first thing, repetition is the mother of learning. Okay? Repetition is the mother of learning. You have to learn something over and over and over again for you to internalize it. Right? So, that's number one. So, just because three years ago you sat in an event and you have notes on this topic does not mean you know it. Maybe you've heard it and maybe you have notes on it, but have you implemented it? Is it part of your repertoire, right? For 15 years of my life I was a wrestler and used to go to wrestling camp over and over and over again and they teach the same moves over and over and over again. Right? You hear Vince Lombardi talked about the very first day of every single football practice coming to his team and said, "Gentlemen, this is the football, right?" These are people with the highest level, the best team ever and they're going back to the fundamentals. Right? I did a podcast two or three weeks ago about Alex Hormozi. Alex Hormozi who's arguably one of, if not the most successful person here inside the ClickFunnels community. Right? And I asked him, "What books are you reading?" And he's like, "I don't read a lot of books. I just read one book a lot of times." And he said, "Your new Expert Secrets book is insane." He's like, "I've literally read it eight times." He's like, "I start at the beginning. I read it. When I get to the end, I flip it back over and I start over and I read it again and again and again." Right? And my book, Alex, you already read it. You already know it. Plus you were at the fat event the first time I taught these plus you've been to every Funnel Hacking Live, plus you've consumed every one of my courses. Why would you keep reading this? And he said, "Every single time I get something new. So I read the book, I flip it over and I get it over again." Now, what's interesting is that Hormozi had never actually done a webinar. He read the book three times, wrote his webinar page, so he got a $5,000 offer and crushed it. Right? And then guess what he did immediately after he crushed his webinar? He flipped the book back over and started at the beginning and read it again. And he's like, "Oh my gosh, I missed this, this and this." And then he shifted the webinar, did it again, boom. And then guess what? Since the webinar, he did it again, he flipped the book over, read it again and did it again. Eight times now he's read this book in the last four months. Every time he does a webinar he rereads the book and comes back and tweaks things again. Reads the book, tweaks thing again. Okay? Now, I want to tell you this because Hormozi again, is I think he was a week away from passing the Two Comma Club C meeting, over $100 million in sales in a market that's gym owners, right? It's not a huge market. Anyway, it's amazing. And this new webinar that he has now, based on his conversion rates and his numbers will be an eight figure webinar, at least, and probably a lot more than that. Okay? And so, I want you to understand this is the dude at the top level, the top of the top levels, and guess what he's doing? He's reviewing the things and going over it and understanding it better and understanding it at a deeper level. Okay? So, first, for that person it's like, the reason why I'm doing this is because you need to understand it deeper. You're missing parts of it. Okay? If you're coming to this event, it means you're not happy with where you are therefore, there's something you're missing. Okay? So, that's the first thing I want to say. Number two thing. Okay, this event, I always say there's two things you learn from me. Number one, is if you buy one of my products, you learn from the product. Number two, if you observed the sales process, a lot of times that'd be worth more than the actual product you purchased. Right? Like when I was doing the launch for the Traffic Secrets book, I told everyone, when you go to TrafficSecrets.com and you buy the book, buy it slowly. Sorry, there's a motorcycle in front of me and he's so loud. Hopefully, you guys can still hear me. But I told them, I said, "When you buy the traffic secrets book, buy it slowly." I'm like, "Half of the education will come from you consuming the sales process." Okay? That in and of itself is worth more than the ticket price of any of the products you sell. Right? I literally spent 18 months thinking about, brainstorming, crafting, funnel hacking probably a hundred plus different book funnels, figuring out the copy, the tweaks, the upsells, the downsells, the conversion, everything. So just you going through and buying the Traffic Secrets book or the Dotcom Secrets book, the Expert Secrets book, that in and of itself is worth more probably than you actually going through the product. Now, the product I try to make as amazing as possible, but the sales process is the key. That's what I teach. That's what you guys should be watching. That's the art that I'm making every single day. Right? If you look at the Traffic Secrets book funnel of probably, I don't know, 30, 40 different free plus shipping funnels that I've created in my day, this one out converted all of them. Our average cart value was in the $70 per book funnel, per book sold. Okay? Which is unheard of. I don't know anybody who's got average cart values that high on a free plus shipping offer? Right? So, I share that because I always want to tell you the Two Comma Club Live event, okay, the event's amazing. Okay? Very, very proud of it. One of the best things I've ever produced and put together and choreographed and I'm so, so, so, so proud of it. Okay? But as you understand, the Two Comma Club Live event is also a sales tool. Okay? Watch the funnel. The first time we did the Two Comma Club Live event, we made six plus million dollars from that funnel. That's why I'm doing it once a quarter now. Do you understand? Because six times four is a lot of money. So, I should do that every single quarter. Okay? So, last time it made me $6 million. Okay? Even if you come to the entire event and you've heard every single word and you've perfectly learned and listened and executed every single thing in the process, just watching the sales process is the key. You guys understand this? You pick up what I'm laying down? That is the key. The sales process. That is worth as much, if not more than the entire event. Okay? Watch how we did everything. Watch the ads that got somebody to come to the webinar, watch the email sequences that got you to register for the event, right? What do we do? How do we do it? There's very strategic, every single word and every single email, every single ad was crafted in a certain way. Then you come to the landing page, watch the sales video. I had someone who just sold their company for a billion dollars watch the sales video and said, "That is the best produced video I've ever seen and I've been doing live TV for 20 plus years and sold my company for a billion dollars. That was the best produced video with the most powerful script I've ever seen in my life." Okay? Did you watch it? How many times? Did you transcribe it? If not, what are you doing? You're supposed to be a funnel hacker. Watch what I am doing. Right? And then look at the offer, how'd the offer work? It was $0 up front and you pay $197 after the event, right? Or you can pre-pay and get the replays for $147. 60% of people are prepaying. Look at this business model, look what's happening. Why do we do it? What did we do? What was the upsell? This time we had an upsell we didn't have last time. Okay. The new upsell right now, the upsell alone generated almost six figures in sales, which more than covered the entire ad cost of the event. Plus, the people that are upgrading the event, most of them are coming from the people who paid for the VIP package. So, there was that. Did you watch that? Did you understand it? Did you see it? That alone was worth the price of admission or more. Okay? Then watch the event. Not only was the event orchestrated and choreographed to get people the maximum amount of understanding and knowledge in the shortest period of time, right, the entire timeline is built out that way. It was also structured in a way to sell our Two Comma ClubX coaching program. How did we do it? What was the structure? I had people who paid me $50,000 for me to map out how we do our live events. What's the strategy on presentation number one and two and three. And what's the strategy about lunch and then after lunch and then dinner and then the round table, everything you do, what is the reason? $50,000 people paid me for me to walk them through how we choreograph our live events. Okay? If you were there, you paid $0 up front and you're having a chance to sit through the choreographed live event. Do you understand that? People pay me 50 grand for me to walk them through, but you can watch it. What is Russell doing? Why is he doing it? Why is this presentation first and second? And then why are we watching this documentary? And then what's the sales pitch? I just watched the sales pitch and made $6 million. I should dissect that. What was the offer? What'd the offer looked like? Why did it look like that? Why did it include this? Why did it include that? Okay. We're in the middle of the Coronavirus, what tweaks and changes did he have to make because of the pandemic? How did that work? Right? And then afterwards, how did he do the re-pitch? What did that process look like? How'd the countdown clocks work? How did all the pieces ... All those things are so strategic and if you're missing them, then you missed them. So, for someone to come back and say, "I've learned everything Russell said. I was at all these events. Why is he replaying this? It's not worth my $0." You missed it. On two levels. Number one, okay, think about Hormozi. Think about the number one money earner in ClickFunnels, what's he doing? He finishes the book and he flips it over and starts over again. Okay? It's something that if I was you, I would go through every quarter if you guys have the opportunity. Okay, go through it again. Go through it again because you're going to pick up different things every single time, different understanding. You'll be at a different spot each time. Right? Throughout this event I go through each of the tiers of the value ladder. Some of you guys are past tier number one, you're in tier number two. Some of you are past two, you're in tier number three. Some of you guys last event were at number one and now you're trying to get to number two. Every single time you get something different because you're in a different spot in your life. Okay? Four years ago when you're at Funnel Hacking Live and Stacey Martino talking about the value ladder, you might not have been ready for it and now, maybe you are. Okay? That's number one. Number two, is watch the process. We're funnel hackers. Okay? If you knew how much time and energy and effort and stress went into the choreographing of this event, to make a virtual event and make us $6 million in the middle of the Coronavirus lockdown, you'd be shocked. And right now, our numbers are higher than that for round two. Okay? So, we're tweaking, we're testing, we're figuring things out. So, watch the process, see what we're doing. Okay? So anyway, I want to share that for anyone who's missing the point. Okay? I used to always sign up for every coaching program. I think I paid a coaching program, one of them I paid $100,000 for this coaching program. I remember sitting through it and some people were thinking $100,000, they need to entertain me every second of every day for the rest of my life. And I was like, "No, no, no. All I need is just one idea. One little idea. If I get one tiny idea from this thing, it was worth a hundred grand," right? I used to go to tons of events when I first got started in this game. I went to every single event. Every single month I was going to some event and I'd sit through all of them. Three events, I'm just looking for one thing. I just need one little nugget. What's that nugget? I hear presentation one, two, three, four, five, six, seven. All of a sudden, presentation number eight, three fourths in the guy would drop something. I was like, "Boom. That's how I was looking for." Where he'd say something, he'd do his close a certain way and I didn't learn anything from his presentation, but I watched how he closed the sale and I was like, "That right there was worth 50 grand to me." 100% I would pay 50 grand to learn how he did that, how we closed the sale. Right? How his body movements were, how he anchored the stage, you're studying all the different pieces, right? You as a marketer, the content you're buying is only half of it, the other half is how do they sell it? How do they produce it? All those things. I want to make sure guys aren't missing it. Okay? I think sometimes you guys get so much in the consumer phase of things you're missing the orchestration of what you're trying to do. Okay? Watch what I'm doing. That's literally my favorite thing about our business is the fact that I get to sell you guys stuff, but then I can teach you later how I sold you stuff. It's so much fun for me. I could literally do a course tomorrow for a thousand bucks and show you how we choreographed a $6 million virtual event in the middle of Corona. I can sell it for a thousand bucks all day long or you could just watch it, just consume it. Watch the process, see what's happening. Anyway, I've got to bounce. I'm at my destination. If you enjoyed this episode, please take a picture of it and tag me on social media. I thank you so much for all you do. I love you guys. Thank you for listening. Hopefully you enjoy Two Comma Club Live and after you have a chance, go to the next one, make sure you do it. With that said, thanks everybody and I will talk to you all again soon. Bye everybody.

The one word that changes EVERYTHING When you understand and execute the magic “B” Word, you can have more success in your life than you ever dreamed of. Not understanding or executing on The Magic “B” Word can have unfavorable consequences. So, what exactly is the ‘B’ word? It’s BELIEF. Want to know how to EASILY adopt an attitude of BELIEF that can catapult you to success faster than you thought possible? Listen to this episode of the Marketing Secrets Podcast so you can get to where you’re going FASTER no matter what stage of growth your business is in. ---Transcript--- What's up, everybody? This is Russell Brunson. Welcome back to the Marketing Secrets podcast. All right. Hopefully you enjoyed the last episode. I gave you guys one of the pre-trainings from the Build your Brand Challenge with me and Dean and Tony. And today I'm going to give you guys the second one. It's funny. I actually did this training at my in-laws house in front of a tree in the only spot in the yard I could get good enough internet to do it. And while I was doing this, just to put the perspective, I had my son with a BB gun, pretending to shoot me in the face right behind the camera. In the middle of it, my pop socket popped off. And one of my kids, my 10 year old climbed up on the roof of the house. I'm doing, while I’m doing a live, I’m watching things in the background, trying to not be distracted. But in this we talked about the magic B word. What is that B word? Well it's the one that's going to determine whether you're successful or not. And so I want to share this episode with you because, again, I think it'll help shift your mindset and it's one of our pre-trainings we did for the Build your Brand Challenge. I hope you enjoy it. We'll queue up the theme song. When we get back, we'll jump right into that training. What's up, everybody? This is Russell, and I'm going to be starting here in a couple seconds. Just wanted to jump on real quick and say hey to everybody. How excited are you guys for the Build your Brand Challenge? How excited are you for Monday? It's coming very, very soon. I hope that you're half as excited as I am. I know me, Dean, and Tony have been going crazy getting this ready for you guys. And I'm pumped to spend some time with you guys today. We got 10 minutes for some pre-training, get you prepped, get you ready, get you emotionally ready for this moment, this time, literally like a date with destiny over the next week that's going to have the possibility of shifting everything for you. I'm actually on a family vacation right now. Last night after a long, hard day, we decided to jump in the car and drive a couple hours and come to a rodeo, which was so much fun. And now we're at my in-laws house. I'm in the front yard. It's the only spot I could find that had good enough internet to go live with you guys. I hope you forgive me then because you probably hear some lawnmowers in the background and kids running around, and so I apologize in advance for that. But I'm here because we've got 10 minutes of pre-training to go through, and I wanted to get you guys excited. So first off, before I get too deep into this, we've got different levels of people coming in here. We've got people who are the dabblers who are like, "Oh, I'm just checking out, seeing what's happening." I got those who are insane, who are all in, who are going to go a million percent no matter what. So I'm curious, if you're a dabbler, write "Dabbler" down below. If you're like, "I'm all in," write "I'm all in" down below because I want to find out exactly who I'm hanging out with, who I'm serving today because I don't deal well with dabblers as you'll probably ness. I like hanging out with people who are going all in all the time. So if that's you, then down below, let me know. Okay. All right. Awesome. Okay, we got a bunch of guys coming in right now. So as we were preparing this week... Next week we've got so much cool stuff prepared and lined up for you guys. And Dean asked me ahead of time, he's like, "Hey, if you were to talk to people before the training starts to help them, to get them inspired, get them excited, get them to break down the barriers, anything that's going to hold them back from success, what would you tell them?" And so we started kind of talking through some topics and some ideas, and one of the things that I wanted to share with you guys, which is right in my first pre-training, was talking about the transition from growth to contribution. How many of you guys had a chance to watch that video, me talking about growth to contribution? Okay, I'm asking because since I've done that video, over 50,000 people registered for the challenge, so tons of you may have missed it. So make sure you go back to the announcements. And my biggest recommendation between now and when we go live on Monday is go watch all the pre-training. We designed these things and structured in a way to help break through false beliefs, get you motivated, get you excited, help you see the future, help you see the vision, where we're going, what we're doing. And so if you haven't, go watch that, okay? Make sure you guys are watching that. But my first thing I wanted to talk about was that transition from growth to contribution because that's everything. That's why we do this. That's the why behind it for me, and hopefully it becomes the why behind it for you. That contribution is the thing that's going to change your life more than anything you've done up to this point. Okay? So that's the first part of it. The second thing I want to talk about... Man, the guy lawn mowing the lawn is getting closer and closer. Hopefully he runs out of gas soon. The second thing I want to talk about is something that I call the magic B word, okay? If you saw the description, magic B word. So what is the B word? And I want you to understand this because in my belief, in my understanding is that this thing, if you understand this, if you execute on this B word, it'll give you the ability to have success in anything you do in life. Okay? If you don't, it'll guarantee you fail at anything in life. Now we might be, "What is that? What is that thing?" and the B word that I want to talk about is simple. It's the word belief. Okay? It's interesting. I've been doing this game now for 18 years, this online marketing game. A lot of it I've been doing teaching and coaching and stuff, and I've seen in this much time a lot of commonalities, and what's interesting is that there's always people that come into anything we do, and they come in and they're skeptical. So what is a skeptic? A skeptic's someone who comes in and they want the result, but they're skeptical, which means they don't believe that you can give it to them, right? So they come in, they're skeptical, looking around, and the whole time they're looking at me like, "What's wrong? Where's the hole? What's the gap? What's broken? What's the wrong thing," right? They're looking for the problem the entire time. And as they start looking for the problem, guess what they always end up finding? The problem, the reason why they cannot be successful. Despite the fact that hundreds or thousands of people around them are having success, they're able to say, "Oh, well, Russell talks too fast so I can't have success," or "Oh, Russell, Dean, and Tony, they sell something, therefore they've got to have ulterior motives. They're not here to try to help me." Everybody's got these different things, right? And it's like the skeptics never have success, right? Ever, in all things. This isn't just in business. This is in sports. I'm a wrestler, and so as a wrestler growing up, I remember we'd go to practice and my coach would say something. I was just like, "I'm here. He's my coach." So anything he said, I just did. And other people are like, "Well, I tried that one time. It didn't work. Oh, well. Oh, well. I'm not very flexible. Oh, my arms are shorter. Oh, I'm not faster." They always had some excuse about why they couldn't do it. They were skeptical. They were always looking for the reason why they could fail because they wanted to be able to blame it on something as quick as humanly possible. They didn't want to take personal responsibility for it, okay? And so if you don't come into this through the lens of belief, I guarantee 100% that you will fail this person. 100%. Now if you are someone who traditionally in your life is more skeptical, it's going to be tough for you. And my guess is you've probably struggled with a lot of things in life because you come in skeptical. This is what I want you understand. When I first got into sports, I remember my coach, the guy who was my coach, I was like, "This is my coach. He's amazing. Therefore, anything he says, I will believe no matter what. Even if doesn't make any sense to me, there's a logic, there's a reason he tells me, I'm going to believe it." And so I remember coming in, my coach was like, "You need to do this." I'm like, "Okay." And he'd tell me how to do a move or what to do or whatever, and whatever he said, I just believed it with 100% certainty. I was like, "This is the coach. This is the person who I got to be my coach, therefore whatever he says, I will just do. I believe him 100%." And as I did that, guess what? I became a better wrestler. I didn't have excuses about why I was going to fail, why I wasn't good enough, why I wasn't talented. I could have been... There's so many things. I saw so many people... my teammates who fought every single thing. But instead I said, "Okay, okay." I didn't talk back. I didn't fight back. I just believed. And same thing started transitioning into business. When I got into business, I remember I started finding different coaches and mentors, and I would join different groups, I'd be part of stuff like this. Not at this scale. I've never been part of a group that's this big. But I would get involved in stuff. I remember the coach or the teacher, whoever started teaching me something. And I would watch as other people in the audience or the people who were in the Facebook group, whatever, who'd be like, "Well, I heard so and so said this," or, "Oh..." And there was all these different things. I remember I was like, "Dude, I'm paying this person to tell me what to do. Therefore, I'm going to believe everything he says, or she says, whatever it is." And I just believed him. When I hire a coach I do the same thing. I just believe him. And because of that, I have success. Okay? So the reason why I'm telling you this is because you came into this game, right? You came to this Build your Brand Challenge, and you said, "Look, there's three people who have had insane amounts of success." You got Tony Robbins, who arguably there's probably no one on this earth that's been more successful in so many things than Tony, right? You got Dean, who's been doing this game for a long, long time, right? When I was in high school, I used to watch Dean on infomercials. This is how much of a nerd I was. I would watch his infomercials, I record them on VHS, and then I re-watched them and I take notes on how he sold. That's how much of a geek that I was in high school. And I've been doing this game now for 18 years. I know a lot of you guys don't know me yet, we haven't met, and we'll get to know each other a lot more of the next five days. But I own a company called ClickFunnels, and in the last five years, we've helped over a thousand people make a million dollars. Okay? We've done this. This is not our first rodeo, right? Yet, there's so many people who come into our world... Sorry. The neighbor's car is backing up. Those who missed it, I'm at my in-laws right now. We came to a rodeo last night and I didn't have anywhere else to stream. So apologize for any lawnmowers or people driving by, or my kids going nuts. Anyway, I remember that the people that are successful ones are like, "All right, I'm here. You're the person I brought in, my coach. I'm just going to believe whatever you say," and they just do it. They don't ever come back like, "Oh, I heard this," or "What about..." and the different things. And I promise you, if you come into this challenge skeptical, if you come in not believing, it's 100% going to keep you from having success. If you come in like, "Look, I'm not going to understand this stuff. Sometimes Russell's going to talk too fast..." It's kind of like Mr. Miyagi. You remember Mr. Miyagi and Danielson when he's like, "All right, this is the deal, Danielson. You want to learn how to fight? This is what we're going to do. First thing you do is you come in here and you're going to wax the car. Wax on, wax off, wax on, wax off." And Danielson's like, "All right," starts waxing, he goes, "No, no, no, no, no. Grab again. Wax on, wax off." And Danielson's kind of like, "All right." So he starts waxing and eventually waxes like 30 cars, right? He comes back, he's like, "All right, Mr. Miyagi, I'm ready to learn to fight." He's like, "No, no, no, no. First, we must paint the fence." Takes him over and starts painting the fence, and Danielson's like, "Paint the fence?" He's like, "Paint the fence," as he's forcing him, he's all mad and angry. He does three or four chores like that and finally comes back to Mr. Miyagi, he's like, "Look, dude..." This is me paraphrasing because I haven't seen the movie in a little while. But he's like, "Look, dude, I came here to learn how to fight. I'm not doing all your chores for you anymore." And then all of a sudden, Mr. Miyagi throws this punch at him... and instinctively Danielson does what? Wax on and blocks the punch. He's like, "Oh." And then Mr. Miyagi kicks him. He's like... Paints the fence and blocks the kick. And all of a sudden, he's like, "Oh. That's why he had me wax the car and paint the fence, to learn these things." There are going to be things over the next five days you're like, "Why in the world is Russell talking to us? Why did Tony tell me to do this thing? Why are they asking me to do these things that are so uncomfortable? I don't want to do this. That was so painful. Why must I wax the car? I just want to make money. I just want to build my brand. I just want to change the world. I do not want to be waxing the car. I don't want to be painting the fence. I don't want to be..." fill in the blank, whatever the thing is, right? There's going to be times it's not going to make sense and you're going to be confused, you're going to be frustrated, all these things. But I want you to believe. Come into this through a lens of belief. Believe that Tony, Dean, and I have your best interest. Believe that we want you to be successful. Believe this is not our first rodeo. I went to a rodeo last night. So that's why I'm using that analogy. This is not our first rodeo, okay? This is not my first time I've taken a group of people through a process like this. It's not Dean's. It's not Tony's. We've done it over and over and over again. And we know how this works. We know the process. We know what will give you success. And we're going to take you through that process. We're not going to lead you astray. We're not going to tell you anything that's not going to work. If you've joined this challenge, you've entrusted us with that. You said, "Look, I trust you, Russell. I trust you, Dean. I trust you, Tony. Please take me on this path." So that means you need to come into this with full belief. Do not come in skeptical. "Oh, well, what if this doesn't work? What if that..." Blah, blah, blah. Those are the things that I guarantee if you follow those, if you get into that trap of skepticism, you will fail. 100% failure rate if you have skepticism. But if you come in believing, that's how you're going win. And I can't guarantee your success, but I can guarantee that if you come in with a lens of belief and you follow the process, you do what we say, and you just believe that we know what we're talking about, at the end of it your chance of success is much higher than if you come in through the lens of skepticism. You will not be successfully coming through skepticism. So that's the kind of game plan. I'm pretty set. Should I go buy some some wax, car, and paint? It might be a good idea. So I wanted to just kind of lead with that because... I don't know. I know these things. I've been in this process. I'm on my own side, right? There's things I'm really good at. I understand this is a business game. It's fun. I understand it. It doesn't stress me out. There are other parts of my life that freak me out that I step into and they're scary and they're not comfortable. Day two, Stacey Martino is going to be coming and teaching you guys. You're going to love Stacey. She's helped over 10,000 people save their marriage. And doesn't just help save marriages, but also make a marriage great. And so my wife and I went to her event. I was like, "I want to experience this with my wife and myself and our family and the relationships I have." And I went to that event, and for me, that was very uncomfortable. I don't like going into a room with people talking about our feelings and our emotions. So for me, I've been in that same zone you are. But I said, "Look, Stacey's going to be my coach in this thing, so I'm going to do what she says even if it makes no logical sense." And there's a lot of stuff she told me that makes no logical sense to my mind, yet I believed her and I did it, and holy cow, it's worked in my relationships. Anyway, so I want you guys to understand that as you're coming into this challenge because so many things are going to come up. There's going to be times where you're like, "This is over my head. I get information overload. I'm overwhelmed." Or you're going to come in at a point where you're like, "Man, Russell and Dean want me to go live," or "They want me to go do this thing. They want me to push a button and put my face out there. They want me to make a video. They want me to..." There's going to be parts you're just like, "Ah!" Your skepticism mind's going to look for every possible way that it can fail. It's going to be shifting around, like "I can fail there, there," and it's going to be like, "Yes, yes." And for some reason we want to fail because we don't want to have that fear of "Ah!" We want to be able to blame it on something, so your skepticism mind's going to try to... And I want you to just put on blinders and say, "Look, I don't know. It doesn't make sense. But I believe. I believe that Russell, Dean, and Tony have my best interests in heart. I believe they're taking me on this journey. I believe them. We're going to do it." And if you do that, you follow that process, you guys, that's where we can help you. That's where we can change your life. That's where we can give you the transformation you need, okay? So how many of you guys are up for that? How many of you guys are up for 100% belief in the process, in your mentors, in everything we're talking about? If you're in with 100% belief, in the comments down below say, "100% belief." I want to see that from as many people as possible. 100% belief. I want to see like a hundred of you guys. We got almost 600 on right now, so as many as you guys can, 100% belief, tell me down below because that is going to be the key to your success. Okay? The skepticism is going to be the key to your failure. All right. We've got to coming in. We've got the belief. We've got the belief. Oh, man, I'm so excited. You guys, this is going to be so much fun. For those of you guys who have... If you've ever struggled business in the past or building a brand, all these things we're going to be talking about, if you struggle with that stuff in the past, I'm hoping that this is going to be the thing. All of us had that. Before I got successful in business, I spent 18 months... I tried thing after thing, after thing, after thing. I tried everything. Then it wasn't till something happened where I had my shift and all the sudden I was like, "Oh, it all makes sense now. I can run. I can go. My goal... I want to give you guys that shift and that transformation this week because as soon as you get it, then it becomes fun. Last night we were at the rodeo, and one of the guys who's at the rodeo here, his name is Tyson Durfey. You can look him up. He's a world champion calf roper and one of the coolest guys I've ever met. So we had a chance to watch him compete, and we hung out afterwards, and he's been starting his own business and building his own brand. It's funny because he told me, he's like, "I struggled. I struggled. I struggled." Then he's like, "Then finally I got it." He's like, "This is the most exciting in the world." Now he's got his course online. He's making... I don't want to do any income claims. He's doing really, really well with it, though. And last night he told me. He's like, "It's crazy." He's like, "Now I understand." He's like, "I see it everywhere." He's like, "I've got a buddy who's an ex-football player. He's a world champ or a Superbowl champ and MVP at Superbowl," all these things. He's like, "I can take what I know now. I can help him to do the same thing that I just did in the rodeo industry." I was like, "I know. Isn't it crazy? I was the same way. When I first figured this stuff out I was like, 'I have to tell everybody.' I was just so excited." The last decade and a half of my life has been dedicated to that because it's so exciting and it's so much fun. So if you failed in the past, if you struggled in the past, it's okay. Don't put that pressure and stuff. Come in with a clean slate, having belief, open-mindedness, jump into this, having so much fun. And I promise you that if you do that, we can give you the transformation. Okay? So that is the magic B word, belief. Now I want to go one step further, okay? It's interesting because right now the biggest goal is for you to believe in the process, to believe in your mentors and to go all in and do it, right? But after you figured out, you're like, "Oh, this is actually super easy. Why was I stressed about this? You're going to have success." And then what's going to happen is you're going to start building your own tribe. Your own people to be coming in. You're going to be serving them and helping them and what you're going to find out is your number one goal, your number one job when you start bringing people in and you're serving them and you're changing their lives, your number one job is to get them to believe. It's crazy. People ask me all the time with ClickFunnels... For those who don't know, my company's called ClickFunnels. We've got 120,000 active entrepreneurs who use our platform. And people always ask me, "Russell, what's your job at ClickFunnels? What do you do?" I was like, "I've only got one mission at ClickFunnels, my only goal. My goal is for people to believe that this works for them. That's it. That's what I do." So all my books, my Facebook Lives, my courses, my challenge, everything I do is to get my people to believe because the process isn't hard. You just do it. I've done it so many times. It is not difficult at all. I can do it in my sleep. Oh, there's an ant running up my leg. Sorry. Anyway, I can do it in my sleep. You give me any product, any business, I know the process. I'm not scared of it. I know it. And so my job is not... The teaching part's important and it's there, but the framework's, it's not difficult. It's not that hard. My biggest thing is I have to get you to believe. That's what I've got to do, Tony's got to do, Dean's got to do. We got to get you to believe. And when you get your people in whatever it is you're doing, your same job is you've got to get your people to believe, okay? Believe the process. You become the belief cheerleader. I want you guys to understand that because for a lot of you guys it's going to be uncomfortable right now to get that belief out and to be able to do it. It's going to be uncomfortable. I want you to remember that feeling because as you start serving your people, they're going to feel that same thing, as well. And so you can go back to that place, like "Man, I remember this one time I took this challenge that was uncomfortable for me. It was uncomfortable. Dean and Tony and Russell were telling me to do these things and I'm so uncomfortable, but I believed them. And because of that, here's the breakthrough I had, here's the transformation, here's why I'm able to serve you now." And then for them, whatever the business, the industry, the brand that you're building, that's your job is you become the belief cheerleader for your customers. That's it. If I can get you to believe, the process is not difficult. Making money online is not hard. Building a brand's not difficult. Getting you to believe that you can, that's the hard part. Somebody who's like, "Well, I believe it works, Russell. It works for you. It works for Tony. He's a giant, for crying out loud. Of course it works for him, but not about me. It's not going to work for me," right? That's the thing. That's what I got to get you to believe. I don't have to get you to believe the process works. I know you've seen it. You've seen it over and over and over and over and over and over again. I have to get you to believe that you can do it. That's the hardest job that we've got. Okay? So if you come in and help us by getting that belief, coming with 100% belief and not coming in skeptical, not coming in looking for what could possibly go wrong, but coming with belief, it'll change everything. It makes our job easier, and it's going to be huge. And like I said, I'm going to be over the next five days your guys' biggest belief cheerleader on the planet because I believe in you. I know that every single one of you guys has a message. You have a mission. You've got something that can change the lives of the people you've been called to serve. Okay? I know it. I've seen it over and over and over again. And so if I can get you to believe that you've got the capacity, the ability, the tower of things to do it, it's not that hard. The process is not hard. The tactics are not difficult. It's just the belief, between your ears. If you can believe it, we can achieve it. So anyway, I appreciate you guys. This is going to be so much fun. I hate when there's 600 people hanging out with me to end anything, but I want to be respectful of your time and let you guys have the weekend to get prepared and ready for the challenge. Again, we start Monday. It's going to be so much fun. If you're not sure what to do, I would recommend a couple of things. Number one, go back through all the pre-trainings that me and Dean have been doing. Those are worth watching. These are mindset shifts we need to give you to help you be more successful in getting it. So number one. Number two, if you haven't got a trial to software, you don't have to have it to be successful, but we created software that's going to be amazing. We're giving you a 14-day trial just to play with it... Excuse me. We'll also be doing the challenge. You can do it on your own paper or whatever, or you can plug it in the software as we're doing it, which is going to be a way better experience for you, way more fun. So there's a link, and I think it's trymastermind.com. There should be link above or below me where you can go try it. It's a dollar trial. We give that dollar, all that money goes to feeding kids. And then you have 14 days. 14 days does not start until Monday, so you got 14 days from Monday to use the software. If you don't like it, cancel. If you're like, "I can't afford it," cancel. But it'll help make the process of this challenge way easier because you'll be able to have this tool to plug things in and be able to see it, and yeah. So anyway, that's it, you guys. I appreciate you. Thanks for hanging out. This is just the beginning. This is pre-training. Training did not even begin yet. Monday it starts. I think Monday is going to be a really fun day. You got me, Dean, and Tony going live. I'd block out at least two hours for it. And then we're going to give you a homework at the end. And again, the homework's going to be uncomfortable and you're going to be like, "But I don't want to, Russell. Dean, don't make me. Tony, why are you so big and tall? I feel like I have to do it." But you're going to do it. And when you do that, you're going to get more belief. And then you'll be like, "Oh my gosh, I did it. I took this uncomfortable action. I believe I can do it." You're going to believe the next thing and the next thing and the next thing. If you give yourself that permission just to try, even if it doesn't feel comfortable, very soon I promise you guys it'll be worth it. So anyway, appreciate all. Thanks so much for everything. Oh, Sharon said, "I bought software, but I don't have the download link yet." Yeah, the software will open up on Monday. So that's from the 14... Sorry. My pop socket just popped off the back of my phone and that's why I dropped phone. Anyway, but there should be download links and stuff in there. If not, message our support. They can help you get everything. All right. That's all you get, you guys. I appreciate you. Have an amazing weekend, and let's get started. Monday it all begins. Monday is your day with destiny. This is where your life shifts, when you shift from growth to contribution. If you don't know what I'm talking about, go watch pre-training. You're going to make the shift from growth to contribution. You will grow more. You'll learn more. You'll feel more. You will have more life-changing experiences than you've ever expected or had at this point because you're making the shift, and I cannot wait for you guys. I appreciate you. Thanks so much for everything and I'll talk to you guys all soon. Bye, everybody. Let's go.

First things first, let’s celebrate the success of the July 2020 Relationship Breakthrough Retreat. This was the first RBR we did online. We reached so many more people than past in-person breakthrough retreats. We delivered multiple breakthroughs, and we were so happy to see people achieve great results.We are reimagining several of our programs to better serve you and we have several releases coming out this fall. One of them is the Relationship Development Parenting Program. It has three courses for you in the program - the 14-day boost program, the quick start program, and the yearlong program.With that said, we’ve retired the 2nd edition of the Relationship Breakthrough Quickstart Program. We are also creating a brand new Relationship Breakthrough Program that will be launching on September 23rd. We are so excited about this because the new program is completely reimagined with some awesome new features. The other huge announcement we want to make is that we will be holding, for the first time ever, a 2nd Relationship Breakthrough Retreat in a year in December. We’ve always wanted to hold two RBR events in a year and it is unbelievable that this year we’ll finally be able to do that.Key TakeawaysCelebrating the success of the July 2020 Relationship Breakthrough Retreat (02:45)Reimagining several of our programs to better serve you (07:07)The exciting new Relationship Development Parenting Program (07:34)How to get the RD Parenting Boost Program as a bonus (13:24)Retiring the 2nd edition of the Relationship Breakthrough Quickstart Program and creating a new Quickstart Program (15:58)Holding a 2nd Relationship Breakthrough Retreat in a year for the first time ever in December (23:17)Taking  our Relationship Development Methodology to as many families as we can (39:32)Additional Resources:The 14-Day Boost Programwww.MyRelationshipDevelopmentCommunity.comwww.RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

“If I had a better team…If I could fire this one person…If they would just…” The past 6 months have been stressful for everyone, especially dentists.  If you’ve felt you’re at the end of your rope with your team or family, then we have good news for you: it only takes one person to transform these relationships…you! Join us as special guest Stacey Martino empowers you with 4 tools to help you navigate and improve your work and personal relationships.

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share a talk that they recently had with their Relationship U students on what is going on in real life today behind closed doors when couples and families are stuck together because of the COVID-19 related self-quarantining. Paul and Stacey have been working very hard in sharing amazing tools and strategies on what people can do to avoid kerfuffles and all sorts of negative issues in their households, but it’s very hard for anyone to really tell just how effective they are. So they decided to share the raw, vulnerable, and real life testimonies of families that are successfully implementing those tools and strategies.One such testimony came from Joe and Adriana, a couple that has really benefited immensely from Paul and Stacey’s programs. The two have been married for 33 years, are empty nesters, and have been navigating the quarantine together so well despite the fact that a few years ago they could not even be in the same room together for even a few minutes. They’ve been having meals together, going out for walks every day, watching shows or plays, and doing many other fun things together. They had previously been separated for a year and a half, but finding Paul and Stacey’s programs changed everything, and now they are a true testament to just how effective Paul and Stacey’s tools and strategies are. Denise is another person who will share how the Relationship U program has changed her life in terms of teaching her to get deeper into the ownership of her happiness, and knowing that no matter what happens in the world, she’s responsible for her own happiness and needs in life. There are several other people who will share how relationship development has changed their lives, especially during the current pandemic where people are stuck together in their homes with each other. Tune in to find out how you can transform your own household and navigate this quarantine time in the best way possible.Key Points Discussed: How Joe and Adriana are navigating being together in the quarantine (01:33)How Paul and Stacey’s programs can make people better versions of themselves (03:34)Working on our happiness and needs before we can work on our relationships  (04:28)The true power of relationship development (08:25)The most appropriate time to practically apply the tools and strategies (11:08)Becoming the change that you want to see in your relationships (15:55)Taking a stand for your family so you can create a better legacy (18:53)Additional Resources:The 14-Day Boost Programwww.MyRelationshipDevelopmentCommunity.comwww.RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

In this episode, Stacey will share part two of her talk on how couples (and parents) can maintain their sanity during these social distancing and self-quarantining times. She will talk about what she sees as two of the most common causes of kerfuffles that are going on right now and how to solve that, and how to deal with the effects of the current pandemic on our lives. She will also dive into how to look at everything that’s going on in a way that's empowering, as opposed to feeling like it’s all just happening to us.One of the things one must get rid of is unreasonable expectations and control. We must all drop a lot of our levels of control right now because our desire to want things to be a certain way will only lead to misery for us and others around us. One cannot control everybody else but they can set reasonable standards for others to follow when it comes to basic things in life. When something is complicated and out of one’s control, one should just let go of it. A great example of that is homeschooling. People have certain invisible expectations about what it should be like, but what they don’t realize is that it’s a full-time job, takes a lot of commitment, and is very stressful. Stacey will share her insights on how to really go about that and so much more, so stay tuned to learn how you can navigate this from the same place, increase the peace and harmony in your home, and decrease the kerfuffles. Key Points Discussed: Letting go of unreasonable expectations and certain levels of control (01:34)The difference between homeschooling and online schooling (04:01)The stress of trying to replace a teacher and give your kids the same learning experience they get at school (06:34)The temporary nature of more screen time for your kids during these challenging times (10:55)Using time chunks to focus on what’s important (14:21)Additional Resources:The 14-Day Boost Programwww.MyRelationshipDevelopmentCommunity.comwww.RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

On today's episode of the Chirofunnel Podcast we dive into all things relationships with my good friends Paul and Stacey Martino with Relationship University.  They are some AMAZING people doing incredible things for all types of relationships.  Now for some docs, they might be wondering "what does this have to do with marketing, funnels, or chiropractic practice?"  The short answer:  EVERYTHING!  On this episode we'll dive deep with Paul and Stacey and uncover how relationships literally hold the key to your success with your marketing, your practice, and of course your relationships with your family, your spouse, your team, your patients and everyone else.     To learn more about what Paul and Stacey are doing you can check out their podcast here:  https://martinopodcast.com/ And to check out their 14-day Relationship Boost program, you can check that out here:  https://14dayboost.com/get-access-14

In this episode, Stacey will talk about how couples can maintain their sanity during these social distancing and self-quarantining times where parents have to be at home all day every day with their kids. She recently did training with their RelationshipU students on the same subject and it had immediate phenomenal results for those who applied the tools and strategies they learned in their households. Right now families are having a hard time being quarantined at home, and parents are having to navigate things that they’re not used to navigating. That is making frustrations and kerfuffles arise much more frequently and it’s causing more harm than good.Parents always have an uphill task of raising their kids while also working and making sure everything runs smoothly, and a lot of the times they take on too many things at the same time because they feel it’s their responsibility to do so. Running a household, for example, is a full-time job all on its own, and it can be quite taxing. Especially if the parent responsible also has to work a regular job to make ends meet. The first step to gaining some sanity is to look at all the things one takes on every day and dropping those that can be done by someone else. Stacey will talk about living a life in reaction and living a life by design, and how living a life by design is the only way to regain sanity, joy, and happiness in any household during these difficult times. Stay tuned as she shares some tools and strategies for reducing kerfuffles and increasing harmony during the current quarantine (and any other time you and your family find yourselves stuck together) to help you navigate everything as best as possible.Key Points Discussed: The importance of being reasonable about what can and cannot be done simultaneously (03:31)The frustrations of not being able to escape the craziness-relief pattern (06:38)The great opportunity the self-quarantine is creating (08:44)How to create sanity and predictability in your days (09:43)Creating a plan of how you're all going to operate together as a team (11:10)How time chunking can help in doing things more effectively and harmoniously (12:10)Additional Resources:The 14-Day Boost Programwww.MyRelationshipDevelopmentCommunity.comwww.RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

“Your task is not to seek love, but to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” ― Rumi   STACEY & PAUL MARTINO have proven that it only takes ONE partner to transform a relationship... ANY relationship! The Martino’s are on a mission to empower people to get the Unshakeable Love and Unleashed Passion they want in their relationship... even if their partner REFUSES to change! Stacey and Paul, are the creators of Relationship Development®️ and their 8-Step Relationship Transformation System®️. Today, through their strategic coaching, online programs and sold-out live events, Stacey and Paul have helped save thousands of marriages around the world (by working with only one spouse). While the divorce rate averaging 50 – 70% and couple’s work resulting in an 80% divorce rate... the Martino’s RelationshipU program results in a 1% Divorce rate and a 99% SUCCESS rate over the last six years.  Those amazing results are unheard of! And that’s because the Martino’s have cracked the code on relationship with their Relationship Development methodology. Stacey and Paul have created hundreds of proven tools to empower real people to reclaim their happiness and create a transformation, even in relationships that looked hopeless. The Martino’s are changing the way relationship is done®️! In May, Stacey will talk us through how to create a 90-day plan to improve your relationship. This is a plan that will rock your world if your marriage is filled with “kerfuffles” that you wish would go away. Today Stacey gives us some great tips for nurturing our relationships while staying home during this pandemic. The current circumstances can be very challenging to a relationship, but Stacey talks through a practice that will help now.  Make sure to sign up for the Art of 90 Days, and learn more from Stacey Martino about improving your relationship in 90 days — she assures us it only takes one person to create an unshakable marriage! I am hosting a really exciting experience in May called the Art of 90 Days. The idea behind this event is that moms have big goals that can get lost in the ups and downs of a year, so why not focus on a season. We are going to look at why 90 days is a great time frame to work on a goal, and speak with 30+ experts to unpack how to create and reach a goal in their area of expertise.  We will be looking at the topics that come up the most for women going through the flow planning process - we will be looking at food and wellness goals, lifestyle goals, soul goals, and work goals - as I believe you need one of each to feel whole. You can go grab your free ticket at plansimple.com/90days. If you have ever been to one of our virtual experiences before you will LOVE this!  Here are some of the things you can expect: The information you need to make big changes in a 90-day period 30+ experts who each share their 90-day strategies on topics that include: sleep, food, exercise, decluttering, parenting, mindfulness, relationships, money, and entrepreneurship Beautiful planning sheets, so you can make the information yours Time to connect with speakers and attendees Meal plans so you feel great while you learn Movement and meditation between talks to help you integrate what you learn Innovative solutions so you can show up if kids are still out of school We are currently looking at the best way to present this experience to you. Originally, it was 4 Fridays while the kids were at school. I am not sure that will be happening, so we are coming up with the best way you can benefit from this info, with kids home.  This will be coming out at a time when we will all be excited to come out of the “Coronavirus season” and make some revised 2020 goals that we can pull off in just 90 days. Get your ticket here »

In this episode, Stacey will share a recording that she made to talk about pivoting instead of canceling their Breakthrough in Paradise live event in Jamaica. She will talk about the decision that they made to pivot the event, what they will be doing instead, and how they made that decision in confidence and not fear. The live event was planned for next week, and Paul, Stacey, and 120 of their relationship students were going to Jamaica. They were all so desperate to get to that event and have an amazing time together on the islands, but it was not to be because with the whole Coronavirus pandemic going on, international travel was not so safe, and they wanted to ensure that their students were safe and protected. Despite that hiccup, they did not cancel the event and instead decided to pivot it and do it virtually. Stay tuned as she also shares how her and their team are working tirelessly to make the virtual event a reality, and hopefully, this episode will teach you how to make decisions in uncertain times in every aspect of your life. Enjoy!Key Points Discussed: Pivoting the five days unbelievable Breakthrough in Paradise live event (01:30)Decisions based on fear are always bad decisions (03:02)From live event to virtual event to keep the ball rolling (06:02)The need for all of us to give and support each other during this time (08:12)Teaching people how to reverse the kerfuffles in their households and increase harmony during this time of increased stress (10:59)Looking at the facts and what’s going on, and making decisions based on that (14:33)Being cautious, careful and smart, and avoiding crowded places (16:45)The foundation of demand relationship that pulls people apart (18:50)Don't do decisions based out of fear unless you want the boomerang (23:20)Additional Resources:The 14-Day Boost Programwww.MyRelationshipDevelopmentCommunity.comwww.RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about a common point of view that most people in a relationship have that negatively affects their relationships without their knowing. And that is the view that they have something figured out more than their partner and so they have to get their partner to subscribe to it too so their relationship can become better. That’s a common thing that Paul and Stacey hear from their program participants all the time. One particular relationship transformer who was doing the 14-Day Boost Program posted on the relationship transformers Facebook group about how she loved the program module on alignment, especially where they were learning about how to get to the win-win, instead of staying stuck in the win-lose. She felt that it was a great module for her husband to learn from, but she needed advice on how to make him listen to it. That’s a great example of that detrimental point of view and Paul and Stacey will seek to deal with it in this episode.It’s part of our natural wiring to think that way because it comes from the demand relationship wiring that is just so deep in our blueprint, and we must learn to shift away from it by first realizing that there is no “me and you” in a relationship. Partners in a relationship are one, and if one partner loses in any way, then the other one loses too. Stay tuned as Paul and Stacey lay out all the steps you will need to take to build a win-win relationship with your partner.Key Points Discussed: How to get to the win-win instead of staying stuck in the win-lose (01:02)There’s no “You and Me” in a relationship, it can only be “Us” (02:53)It’s always win-win or lose-lose in a relationship (03:46)Extending the end of our skill set so we can learn how to wrap up something in a way that our partner can receive it (04:41)Building a rock solid relationship and focusing on the tools and strategies that can help us take our families to the next level (06:54)Stop telling yourself that you’re not the one in the relationship who needs to do that thing (10:51)Additional Resources:The 14-Day Boost Programwww.MyRelationshipDevelopmentCommunity.comwww.RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about a dynamic where someone in a relationship gets stuck in the false belief that their way is the right way and that their partner’s way is all wrong. The issue between a couple could be just about anything, but with this dynamic, one partner feels that their way of solving the issue or their perspective on the issue is the correct one while their partner’s is not, and so they feel that they must make their partner see their way and agree to it. Paul and Stacey see this dynamic all the time among couples, and it sucks the energy out of people, causes kerfuffles, doesn’t solve anything, and in the end completely breaks down a relationship.A great example of that dynamic is with Susan, one of Paul and Stacey’s students. Susan and her husband Daniel were at loggerheads with each other over their parenting styles. Daniel preferred a disciplinary approach with their kids while Susan was trying to implement a relationship development parenting kind of approach. This made them go head to head all the time, with each being frustrated with the other because they were both trying to convince each other to go with each other's approach.This dynamic is very destructive, but it’s not anyone’s fault because it’s deeply wired into our blueprints. Most people have been conditioned to think that they must always convince others to see things from their perspective, and this is what Paul and Stacey will seek to help us break away from before they can give us the relationship development tools we need to move forward in the best way possible. If you’re familiar with that dynamic and you wanna learn how to make it a thing of the past in your relationship or marriage, then listen in to this episode.Key Points Discussed: Missing everything by holding on to the “my way” belief (00:59)Breaking the pattern first before learning the relationship development parenting tools (04:42)Being raised in the conformity mindset and how it affects us (05:20)Everybody has a reason for why they believe what they believe (07:14)Understanding that we can’t just have our way because we live within a family setting (13:10)Solving your own trigger so you can start collaborating with your partner (17:02)Would you rather have some fears and emotional worries, or the real collaboration that you're looking for? (19:44)Catch yourself, listen with curiosity, and up-level your skill set (23:55)Additional Resources:The 14-Day Boost Programwww.MyRelationshipDevelopmentCommunity.comwww.RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about a very common complaint that they get from women about how their husbands are too blunt and mean in their conversations, and how that triggers or embarrasses them. Stacey will share the story of one of their relationship transformers who asked them what she should have done when she asked her husband if she could take a certification class for her work, but he responded in a rude way. The lady felt her husband was an ass and treated her like crap, which she didn’t deserve.The root cause of such an issue is the fact that masculine and feminine perspectives are worlds apart. For the feminine, when a man speaks in very blunt and direct language, a woman feels like the man has made his decision, and she either has to go by it or against it. But in reality, what happens in such a situation is all a misunderstanding of how the masculine is wired. If the woman in that situation gets a similar response from another woman, she wouldn’t find it mean or rude. The same applies when men talk to other men. When a man asks another man for his opinion on a subject, he gets a very blunt and direct response because it’s in men’s nature not to sugarcoat things, and they understand each other in that regard. They are wired to be logical and assertive when tackling issues. So really, the best way to deal with such situations is to understand how other people are wired, and interact with them in a way that brings out the best in them, instead of assuming everybody's wired like us and interacting blindly, which then triggers the other person. Paul and Stacey will talk about that farther, and tell us where we can start in implementing that solution, so we can start experiencing kerfuffle free interactions with our loved ones.Key Points Discussed: The common misunderstanding that takes place of how the masculine is wired, and how the masculine communicates (02:11)The huge difference between masculine to masculine versus masculine to feminine (05:54)The relationship dynamics that are happening to everyone (10:50)Stopping when you're in the win-lose is what makes it a win-lose, not what he says (13:00)The importance of understanding the other side so that whatever you say back comes out in a way that it can be received well (14:31)Being nothing but who we really are in order to be successful in our relationships (18:45)It’s all about getting a relationship education instead of becoming a different person (20:03)Stop applying your meanings to what your partner is saying, it's your meanings that are causing you pain (24:15)Additional Resources:The 14-Day Boost Programwww.MyRelationshipDevelopmentCommunity.comwww.RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the invisible expectations that women have of their partners and the harm they cause their relationships. They will start off by sharing a story from a long time ago of how Stacey ruined their Valentine’s Day. Paul had told Stacey that he would take her out to dinner for Valentine’s when he got back from work, and she was so excited about it. She got a nice new outfit and was expecting Paul to send her a large bouquet of flowers to her office. So every time a truck drove down the street, she would think it was her delivery. As time went by, and she hadn’t gotten any deliveries, she started thinking that maybe Paul was planning to bring the flowers himself, but when he finally got there, all he had for her was a single red rose. Stacey didn’t express any disappointment to his face, but deep down she couldn’t believe that Paul had just given her a single red rose for Valentine’s. She then started thinking to herself that maybe Paul would make up for that by taking her to some really magical place for dinner, but to her shock, Paul took her to a restaurant they were both familiar with, and he had not made any reservations. It was Valentine’s so the place was packed, and thus they didn’t get a table. They went to two more places and still couldn’t get a table, so they just got take out (Chinese food) and went home.At that point, Stacey was so grumbly and unhappy with the way the night had turned out, and at some point Paul asked her why she was so upset when all he was doing all night was trying to make things nice for her. To him, everything was alright, and he was just doing his best to show Stacey that he loved her, and give her a great Valentine’s experience. This story highlights the root cause of the problems brought about by women’s invisible expectations, and it all boils down to the differences in the feminine and the masculine. Stay tuned as Paul and Stacey dive deeper into that and share the best action steps to take to ensure that the problems caused by invisible expectations will be a thing of the past in your relationship. Key Points Discussed: The time when Stacey used to ruin all the holidays (01:13)Masculine energy is usually a single focus so men don’t really plan ahead far enough (07:46)The harm carrying invisible expectations causes relationships (14:03)Ladies should give their men the answers to the test (17:03)He wants nothing more than to light her up (21:22)Taking personal responsibility and committing to not getting triggered (26:22)Additional Resources:The 14-Day Boost Programwww.MyRelationshipDevelopmentCommunity.comwww.RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will cover part three of busting the myths series, and talk about the “But my partner is …” myths, which are all about how one partner thinks that their partner is keeping them from having their desired relationship because they behave a certain way.Key Points Discussed:Depressed spouses and the dangers of labeling (00:52)Everyone changes at different points in life for various reasons (02:53)Whatever comes after the statement “I am” is super powerful (06:31)Showing up differently in your relationship for your partner (09:05)Anxiety is just a pattern (12:03)The masculine dynamic wired into a man’s blueprint (15:19)The widespread misuse of the word abusive (18:27)Physical abuse is not a relationship issue (20:04)Everyone has a unique brilliance (24:49)Additional Resources:Daily Inspiration for Relationship TransformersYou can find this episode and more at:RelationshipDevelopment.org/listenSubscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about a topic that is literally fundamental to what we think of when we think of relationship struggles. And that is the tendency of taking sides when we re-tell stories or people re-tell stories to us, mostly about terrible situations, either with their partners, or their parents, or somebody at their workplace. And when they tell us, we immediately go right into it with them either to console them or to hopefully give them some advice.In the process, we end up taking sides because we have the best of intentions with that person. Even in life in general, when we're looking for advice, or we're giving advice, we always get into that pattern of taking sides. That whole pattern is fundamental to relationship situations, and we can literally hear it everywhere we go. You could just be walking through the grocery store, and you will hear people telling stories about how horrible somebody else was to them, or whatever the situation was.That tendency has insidious and destructive effects, and if we don't awaken to it, it's can destroy things for us as we know them. Paul and Stacey will turn that pattern on its head, show us how destructive it is, and what we can do instead to not only learn to take personal responsibility in all our relationship situations but also strengthen those relationships for the long haul. Take out your pen and paper because you won’t wanna miss the lessons from this. Enjoy!Key Points Discussed:The only answer we should give when we’re asked if we have a question (02:02)Learning to ask questions in the form of personal responsibility (03:05)How blaming or bad-mouthing others triggers other people to take sides (05:57)Building up our relationships rather than protecting our triggers for a lifetime (07:02)Navigating situations from relationship development and not demand relationship (08:52)Putting on our relationship transformer goggles, being compassionate, kind, and awake (10:48)Additional Resources:The 14-Day Boost Programwww.MyRelationshipDevelopmentCommunity.comwww.RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

Stacey and Paul Martino help people create their unshakeable love and unleashed passion, using their Relationship Development® method where it only takes ONE partner to transform a relationship… ANY relationship! Top 3 Value Bombs: 1. Faults and responsibilities do not have to go together. 2. Keep in mind that your partner is different from you; learn to collaborate. 3. It only takes one to transform any relationship - you just have to learn. You, your partner, or your family deserve it. Give your relationship the biggest boost in just 14 days - 14-Day Relationship Boost Sponsors: ZipRecruiter: A new year is the perfect opportunity to take your business to the next level by hiring the right people, and right now you can try ZipRecruiter for FREE at ZipRecruiter.com/fire! ClickFunnels: Ready to build your first sales funnel without having to hire an entire tech team to help? With ClickFunnels, you can! Visit EOFire.com/click to start your free 14-day trial today!

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about a persistent and repetitive kerfuffle that they used to have often in the car when Paul was driving, and it’s a kerfuffle that a lot of couples can relate to. They’re going to share a clip from their previous three day live immersion event, the Relationship Breakthrough Retreat, where they ended up sharing the story of that kerfuffle in great detail.It all revolved around how Paul drives, and to give a little context to that, Paul is a very confident driver and can drive pretty fast. He spent more than a decade of his youth as a professional driver and so he’s always keen when he’s driving. But with the fast driving, Stacey, who is not a fan of intensity, used to constantly have issues when they were on the road. She actually used to be terrified, and that would in turn distract Paul.He used to get pissed off about it because he felt like Stacey didn’t trust him and her reactions would endanger them on the road. That became a trigger for Paul and he didn’t know how to deal with it. Stacey tried to sort it out by shifting her reactions from yelling and making all sorts of sudden movements, to tapping her hand, which meant that she was still terrified. That was until one night when they were driving and Stacey realized there was a huge difference in their eyesight.Paul could see really far ahead, and that’s what made his driving so good despite going fast. Stacey on the other hand couldn’t see as far, and so to her, Paul always seemed to be driving fast somewhat in darkness which is what made her feel scared. From then on, she started leaning on that skill that Paul had that she didn’t, and that was the breakthrough for both of them that put an end to the kerfuffle. Stay tuned for more on that and how you can apply the lessons from it into profoundly changing your marriage.Key Points Discussed:The job Paul had for 14 years and the valuable lessons he learned from it (01:26)The lions coming at you on the road (02:57)The high insurance rates in Philadelphia because of crazy drivers (06:59)Paul’s disdain for her Stacey’s overreaction and her not trusting him (08:34)How redirecting all his focus inside the car caused him to loose focus outside the car (11:03)Seeing far and speeding through the darkness (14:09)Raising your standard for yourself and lowering your expectations of others (17:42)The shift in perspective that changed everything (19:13)Additional Resources:The 14-Day Boost Programwww.MyRelationshipDevelopmentCommunity.comwww.RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

This week we are replaying one of our most popular episodes! In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the invisible force that stops people from living with a relationship development mindset and instead continues to enslave them in a demand relationship mindset. That force blocks people from getting the results that they desire in their relationships and keeps leading them in the wrong direction.Paul and Stacey will expose it and teach you how to overcome it.Key Points Discussed:The Truth: It’s all about blame (01:47)Blaming someone else renders you powerless (02:33)The act of willingly handing all your power to the other person (04:02)Personal responsibility is not a dirty word (06:11)Fault and responsibility do not go together (09:09)Everyone lives in the results of the decisions that they make (12:42)-Additional Resources:YouTube Video: Fault Vs Responsibility by Will SmithThe Relationship Breakthrough Retreat 2019-You can find this episode and more at:RelationshipDevelopment.org/listen-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.-If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will do part two of the two-part series on relationship development parenting. They will share the second clip from behind scenes of their filming for the Relationship Development Parenting Program that they will be releasing this year. In this particular clip, they addressed the issue of misery in parenting. This is a topic that might ruffle some feathers with a lot of people, but it’s a not so open secret that it affects a lot of parents in our society today. Most, if not all parents, have moments when they struggle with their parenting, and it’s an issue that they don’t like to talk about or admit because they fear that it may make them sound like bad parents, but this issue has to be discussed openly for it to be solved, and Paul and Stacey will do just that. When a parent finds themselves being miserable in their parenting, they usually think it’s because they hate their kids, but the reality is that it all comes from the fact that they hate demand parenting because it never works.Stay tuned as Paul and Stacey dive deeper into that, and share how you can solve it today so you can stop demand parenting, break its chains on your family's legacy, create a new foundation for your kids based on relationship development parenting, build up your relationship with them instead of watching it deteriorate over time, and prepare them for a future where they will be able to navigate life. Key Points Discussed: It’s the demand parenting you hate not the kids (02:18)The detriment of never accepting the invisible assumptions that we operate from as parents (03:56)We must stop beating ourselves up for our actions as parents (07:29)The boomerang effect of being stuck in demand parenting (10:06)Additional Resources:The 14-Day Boost Programwww.MyRelationshipDevelopmentCommunity.comwww.RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will do part one of a two part series on relationship development parenting. They teach a lot of tools on how people can stop doing demand parenting with their kids, and start doing relationship development parenting so they can create peaceful harmonious households, build up their relationships with their kids over time, and reduce the kerfuffles that they have of parenting. They are actually building a relationship development parenting program which will hopefully be released in 2020. It's going to be a substantial program with lots of tools and strategies, and they've so far been recording and filming content for it. They will share a couple of pieces from that filming that are so key to helping parents in their relationships with their children. Parents always have the absolute best of intentions, but parenting kerfuffles keep happening because they don’t realize that they’re applying demand parenting by using their leverage as the power players to try to get the results that they want from their kids.It's a really predictable pattern, and it's only so easy to fall into demand parenting because nothing can ever prepare us for being parents. To help us out on that, Paul and Stacey will break down how to apply relationship development parenting, so that we can learn from that and create shifts in our households that will help us build phenomenal relationships with our children. Listen in and enjoy!Key Points Discussed: The difference between demand parenting and relationship development parenting (02:19)The ramifications of demand parenting and how to create a safe place where our kids can grow to become the people they’re supposed to be (06:07)Why demand parenting no longer works (10:30)How parents teach their kids how to lie and manipulate them (14:00)Building up a real relationship with your child with rapport and trust (15:30)Additional Resources:The 14-Day Boost Programwww.MyRelationshipDevelopmentCommunity.comwww.RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

In this episode, Stacey will dive into step two of their 10-step planning and strategy day framework, and talk about the thing that keeps us from seeing the biggest version of ourselves and the reason why most goal-setting/strategy setting doesn't actually work.The way most people do their goal setting does not work to create results and it eventually backfires which makes them feel bad, and ends up creating a very vicious cycle. There's actually a strategic reason for that, and Stacey will unravel it so that we can be well aware of it before we do our goal setting. One thing that is core to every goal-setting process is visualization. That basically entails looking back at the year that has already passed and writing down everything that we are grateful to have achieved. But that process is not as easy as it sounds because people actually do it in a way that does not work, and Stacey will share some strategies around how to do it properly.She will reference a story by Steve Harvey about the flea in a jar where he talks about how a flea can jump as high as six feet, but if put in a covered mason jar can only jump as high as the point where it hits the jar’s lid. That refers to how we all have limitations instilled in us by the people around us who expect us to live life the way they think we should live it, and achieve what they think we can achieve. Stacey will dive deeper into that and quickly teach us how to actually do our goal setting so that we can get great results.Key Points Discussed: The one year later look back and what it’s all about (02:14)Take the lid off your jar and go do what you need to do (04:11)The four things that must be aligned and congruent in order to create and manifest what you want (06:24)“I hope I can” is not having it (08:25)Additional Resources:The 14-Day Boost Programwww.MyRelationshipDevelopmentCommunity.comwww.RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

On this very special, two part episode Russell asks his inner circle to weigh in on the biggest marketing secrets they have learned over the past decade. You will hear from the following people on part one: Peng Joon Andrew Argue Rachel Pedersen Joshua Latimer Pedro Adao Jayme Amos Jaime Cross Annie Grace Alison J Prince Ryan Lee Stacey Martino Bart Miller Julie Stoian So listen here to get this amazing, valuable marketing advice from some of the top marketers out there right now. ---Transcript--- Hey, what’s up everybody? This is Russell Brunson, welcome back to the Marketing Secrets podcast. Alright, I’ve got a special treat for you guys over the next two episodes. So the new year started and New Year’s Day I was sitting, we had my family up at the penthouse and we were just hanging out and relaxing and you know, I relax for about 30 seconds, then my brain starts thinking, what’s the next, what’s the plans for this year, what are we going to do? And I started thinking, you know, we know this was the end of a decade, and a new decade is starting. And I just started thinking about over the last 10 years, what are the biggest takeaways, what are the biggest aha’s and things like that, that I’ve had in my business? And then all the sudden this idea hit me, look, I know the things that, the big aha’s that I’ve had. And I’ve been, I talk about them on the podcast all the time. But I was like, I’ve got this amazing inner circle group of entrepreneurs who have been working with me for the last 5 or 6 years. Each of them paid, in the beginning it was $25,000 a year, towards the end it was $50,000 a year to be part of the program. And we had 100 entrepreneurs in it and I was like, you know these guys have been around me for a long time, they’ve been in the trenches, they’ve been doing this in their businesses. I thought how much fun it would be to hear what their biggest marketing secret was, their biggest takeaway that they got themselves over the last decade in their businesses. So I have a Voxer group that has all my inner circle members and I Voxed them and said, “Hey, just curious what’s your number one takeaway, what’s the biggest marketing secret that you’ve gotten over the last decade in your business that’s helped the most? If you guys could voxer back the responses to that, that’d be awesome.” And from that I got, I think almost 20 people sent back responses and they were amazing. So I thought how much fun to turn that into two episodes. So we’ve got two episodes for you guys that are going to be revealing the top marketing secrets from my inner circle members. And each one’s got a different thing. I told them to try to keep them under 3 minutes, some people were, had a lot of brevity and did it in less than a minute, others struggled and got in 3 to 4 minutes. But each one had a unique idea, a unique piece of gold for you. So I’m really excited for these next two episodes. And it’s interesting, as you listen to them, I’ve been teaching this stuff for the last decade and a half and there’s tons of things we teach and that we talk about and brainstorm about, mastermind about, and it’s interesting looking at each person, even though all of them have built huge 7 and 8 figure businesses, each of them had a different thing that was the big marketing secret, the thing that knocked down the big domino for them. And you’ll see some things amongst the inner circle members, other people they’re completely different things. But as a whole it was fascinating just to see what they’re all, what each of their biggest takeaways were. So what I’m going to do is this episode and the next episode we’re just going to play through those, each one is 3 to 5 minutes long, giving their marketing secret. Most of them followed the instructions and said their name and their website url, so we would have those. Some of them didn’t, so the people who didn’t state their names, I’ll jump in ahead of time and let you know who they are, and then we’ll plug in their thing. So with that said, I’m going to queue up the theme song and when we come back, we will start with the first marketing secret from my inner circle members. Peng Joon: This is Peng Joon and my biggest marketing secret that I learned from the last decade is that every given moment in time, we are building 5 different assets. And in marketing the first asset that we will ever build is the social asset. This is basically the stuff that will sit on social media forever. Many times when people don’t have the clarity as to why they’re creating that technical video on YouTube, why they are doing that Facebook re-targeting ad, why they’re documenting what it is that they’re doing. The reason for that is because they don’t know that this is step number one, they’re creating this social asset that can be fed into step number two, which is the digital asset. This is where you build the funnel, you build up the sales process, you build up something that will live on forever, in order to sell the course, the book, the consulting. And the question you gotta ask yourself is, “How can you take what you’re already doing in your life, the presentations, the life event, the consulting, the coaching sessions, how can you document them so that it can be turned into the digital asset that will work for you forever?” So for example, the keynote that I did at Funnel Hacking Live, I did that presentation once, but I turned that into a book, into a recurring that lives on, and is going to live on for a really long time to come. And the whole purpose of that, number two is to then move onto number three in order to create a proprietary asset. This is basically the infrastructure, the tribe, the community, if you think about what makes Apple Apple, if Samsung came up with something that was 3x better, with more features, half the price, chances are I’m not going to shift. Why? Because I’m locked in. I’m locked in and I’m thinking about the inconvenience. I’m thinking about the iTunes, I’m thinking about all of my files backed up in the cloud. Same thing for Clickfunnels. Even if there were 200 different competitors, even if somebody came up with better features or lower pricing, I’m not going to switch. Why? Because of the tribe, because of the community, because of the good will Russell, you have given to me in the last decade. That’s what locks people in, and it’s something that I’m thinking about all the time. And that brings us to number four. Number four is creating of systems assets. This is the SOP’s, the Trello boards. This is why I document what I’m doing on YouTube, Instagram, the steps on social media. Why? Because I’m constantly working on removing myself from the business so that I can work on the business and not in the business. And finally, that is all pushed to number 5, the capital asset. Understanding that ultimately why I’m building all these things is to build up capital. This could be office space, this could be property, things that generate positive cash flow, which then can be used back to step number 1, which is to fill social asset. And when you have this big picture, as to understanding why it is that you do what it is that you do, you’ll be able to have the big picture and have clarity on every, what you work on every single day. Andrew Argue: Hey it’s Andrew Argue from Accountingtax.com and I wanted to share my biggest marketing secret that I learned in the decade. And you know, I was kind of struggling coming up with this because I actually learned pretty much everything I know about marketing in the last decade, because I’m not really a marketer, I’m an accountant by trade. But when I think about the biggest thing I learned, that made the biggest difference, you know, a lot of times when people are doing marketing, they’re doing something that looks good, or something that feels good and they’re putting it out there, and it’s like a brochure maybe, or maybe like a Facebook ad, and they don’t really know exactly what the return on it is. So myself being an accountant, when I first started doing marketing I really had no idea what I was doing until I finally started actually calculating out what specifically what I was getting for what I was doing. So I would look, “Okay, what is my cost per click?” so what was the cost per click for somebody to come to my website? And I would know that number. And I started looking, “Well some of these people are coming to the landing page and then they’re opting in, what percentage of those people are opting in? That’s my landing page conversion rate.” So I would look at my cost per click. Let’s say my cost per click was $4, and then let’s say that only 10% of people were opting in, so that means my cost per lead was $40. Then I’d say, “Okay I spent x amount of dollars on Facebook or Google or something…” and I was getting leads for $40. Okay well then, where were those leads going, they were going next stage to book an appointment. And what’s my cost per appointment? Only 10% of people that became a lead booked an appointment. So that means $400 was my cost per appointment. And then how many people would I close? And I think until I really put those kind of metrics, the cost per click, landing page conversion rate, cost per lead, conversion from opt in to appointment, and the cost per sale, until I really put those metrics on it, I just never really felt confident in doing more marketing or spending more money, because I just didn’t really know what I was getting. So I mean, I learned so many things on the art and how it all works. I mean, obviously Russell’s done a tremendous job teaching me a bunch of different things about marketing, hook, story, offer, a ton of different things. But I really never felt comfortable to pull the trigger, and now we probably spent 6-7 million dollars on advertising over the last few years alone. So that’s probably the biggest thing I learned in the decade, hope that’s helpful. Rachel Pedersen: I’m Rachel Pedersen, the founder of the Viral Touch digital marketing agency and Social Media United, the leading online training for social media managers.  Now I haven’t been in entrepreneurship for a decade yet, but over the last decade I definitely learned a lot about social media and attention spans. We’re in a time where technically speaking, attention spans are at an all time low. Or at least, that’s what we’re being told. The interesting thing that most people don’t realize, sorry you’re going to hear my son in the background, welcome to mom and entrepreneur life balance. So what I’ve discovered is that if you can grab someone’s attention within in the first 10 to 15 seconds, you have them. So many of us spend time watching TV shows or movies, you know Netflix binging for lack of better words, but how is that we decide what we’re going to Netflix binge? Well the chances are it happened because of a trailer. We stop, we look at the thumbnail, we give it about 10 to 15 seconds to decide if it’s worthy of more of our time. The most important thing that you can learn to do for your business, especially in this time where people are becoming increasingly discerning about what they’re going to allow their time to be spent on, is to truly know your message, really, really, really get it. Can you make your point clear in 10 seconds? Can you explain your business in the 15 second video or conversation? For me, jumping onto tiktok was such a great lesson and truly a test of if I understood how to grab attention in 15 seconds or less. And for me it’s a daily practice reminding me how to capture attention and ultimately harness a following that says, “Not only did we like that 15 seconds, but we want more. We want to binge watch all of your content.” So now is the time to truly understand how to capture attention. We are after all in the attention economy, and those who grab it in the first 10 to 15 seconds will be the ones that ultimately are binged over the next decade. That’s definitely what I’ve learned over the last 10 years of being on social media. Joshua Latimer: Hey what’s up? Joshua and Ashley Latimer from honorandfire.com. The biggest marketing secret I’ve learned in the last 15 years is really easy for me, and it’s relationship marketing. It’s looking at your business like a marriage instead of just a wedding, which is a weird analogy. But people are super, super short term minded with their business, and in today’s climate with the internet, people want to get a Two Comma Club award, or make a million dollars as fast as possible. And desiring that is not wrong, but from a sustainability standpoint, what I’ve found is that when you solve real problems by providing real quality solutions and services, it’s really, really hard to fail a business. But it takes a little bit longer when you play the long game. So that goes for your relationship with your employees, your relationships with your dream 100, relationship with your business partners. My biggest marketing secret has been to slow down, try to have massive integrity, so real problems, and play the long game rather than just getting the ad that converts or getting that offer to do awesome in that one launch, it’s really, really hard to fail when you focus on the marriage, and not just the wedding. And in business I see a lot of people really excited to launch something or to get their funnel done, and they need to spend more time on making sure that they’re solving a real problem with a quality solution, whether it’s a product or a service, because at the end of the day, money is a natural byproduct of solving real problems. And if you slow down and listen to Tony Robbins, Tony always says people overestimate what they can do in a year, and underestimate what they can do in a decade. If you can be one of the people that realizes that, I think it will help you. And Russell, you’ve helped me. And hopefully that adds value to listeners of your podcast. Pedro Adao: Hey Russell, this is Pedro Adao, I’m in the inner circle. Man, so many but the one I think that I have probably leaned into the most, and has really I think, helped me kind of blow up on movement, is just really going deep into the niche. Going deep into your client avatar and really leaving that red ocean and finding an underserved, or unmet needs, carving a niche so tight that only you can fit in. That’s kind of a phrase that I’m now saying a lot these days. So that’s the big thing, that’s been a game changer for me. It’s allowed me to find my place of uniqueness and really not feel like I’m actually competing at all with anybody, because I’m really serving this really micro audience. That’s been a game changer. And then tactic is challenges. Man, I saw, it was at FHL last year I saw Natasha teach on challenges and I took the free masterclass concept I learned from you in Expert Secrets, I was doing free masterclasses and doing well with those, and then heard about paid challenges, and we’ve been doing  pretty much a paid challenge every single month since then and I just recently used a paid challenge to actually win a major launch for Pete Vargas, came in first place ahead of some pretty serious guys. So I have a great testimony around challenges, I’m happy to share as well. So that’s, those are my two big keys, which is carve your niche, find a great market that’s underserved, and then show up and deliver value and prove your work through challenges. Take all the risk upfront before you ask them to buy. Hope that helps, bro. Take care. Jayme Amos: My name is Jayme Amos, CEO of Ideal Practices, we’re the country’s largest startup dental consulting firm. In other words we help dentists open startup dental practices. The number one marketing secret for me over the last decade, that I thought I understood, was being able to serve a niche. So to trick myself into understanding this better in the last decade, and the way that this has made the biggest impact in myself and in my consulting company and in the industry where I serve, is to describe it as a niche of a niche of a niche. Now here’s what I mean, you’ve probably heard me say that I help startup dentists. Well, I help dentist, I do, but only younger dentists. Usually doctors who are working for someone else, and only even in that subset, startup dentists. They can buy a practice, they can partner with a practice, but we only help startup dentists. So what does this mean for you? Well, a niche of a niche, of a niche, well here are the benefits that it’s helped me be able to achieve. I’m able to now speak so clearly to the people that I’m trying to serve best. So I can make the greatest impact with those specific people. But not only am I able to speak to them clearly, I’m also able to understand their pain points. And not just the pain points of dentist, not just the pain points of young dentists, or associates who are working for other dentists, but just those young dentists who desire to open startup practices. This allows us to serve them really well. But one of the aha moments that I’ve had, that I think Russell even taught me back when I was first an inner circle member, I don’t know, 3 years ago or something. He told me this, I thought I understood it, and it’s taken me even more time to fully understand this niche of a niche of a niche concept, and it’s this. When I’m able to understand them best, when I’m able to niche down best, I also am forced to find where they are. Now that sounds easy on the service, but when I’m forced to find where those people are, I’m also forced to find the places that nobody else knows about, where I can have the greatest impact. And guess what? There are fewer competitors there. And I don’t even mean just in my case, a startup dental consulting forms there’s competitors, I mean the competition of noise. I mean the competition of advertising dollars. So think of noise, whether it’s a newspaper ad, or a magazine ad, or a Facebook ad, there’s other noise for people’s attention that aren’t even direct competitors, but it’s competition for noise. And when I find the place where those people hangout, there aren’t many other people there. So I’m able to be one of the loudest voices in one of the smallest pockets in this niche of a niche of a niche. So my encouragement to you, one of the biggest aha marketing moments that I’ve had through Russell Brunson, through Clickfunnels, through my time as an inner circle member is this. Find your niche, but trick yourself and remind yourself that you can be even more powerful with a niche of a niche of a niche because you’ll be able to speak to them best. Serve them best and find those pockets of opportunity where you can have the greatest impact at the lowest cost. So I hope this serves you well. My name is Jayme Amos, CEO of Ideal Practices, number one consulting firm for startup dental practices in the country, and so much of this is the direct result of Clickfunnels, of Russell Brunson’s guidance, and being an inner circle member. Hope this is helpful to you as you grow how you impact others. Take care, bye, bye. Jaime Cross: So this is Jaime Cross with Migsoap.com and the greatest marketing discovery I’ve made in the last 10 years and have used in our business is story selling. It is, story is transcendent and Philip Tollman said that after nourishment, shelter and companionship, stories are the thing that we need most in the world. So there’s also a really great story about a journalist who purchased 200 items on ebay for $129 and he wanted to do an experiment, and he turned around and sold those same items for $8000 including story. So our fortune has been found in our follow up with story and then we incorporate into our description. So as an ecommerce company we have been able to maximize profits by leveraging story. You know, even with our pounce product, it’s kind of funny because I wrote like a mini romance novel. So I’m not just talking about the product, I’m actually making this story that every woman wants to be in come alive on our website. So we’ve done that with all our products and I’ve got a lot of really great ideas about story. You know, there’s an art and science to it as well. So it’s a great way, because there’s a psychological and chemical reaction in the brain when you hear and tell stories, it connects you to your audience, so it’s a really great way to build strong relationships and strong bonds with your followers and with your tribe. So I love story selling and I’ve got some really examples here too, but your brain on stories is like on fire compared to just listening to you know, features and benefits in the typical old way or traditional way of describing products. Annie Grace: Hey, this is Annie Grace from This Naked Mind, and my top marketing secret of the decade is probably the simplest one, but it’s so incredibly effective. And it’s really all about consistency. So I actually started a podcast right around the same time that people in the UK, a group that was doing basically the same thing I was doing started a podcast. And they came out of the gate like, over the top with guests. They had Gretchen Rubin, they had John Lee Dumas, they had Ryan Holladay, they had Hal Elrod, they had all these crazy guests and they got all these downloads and all this press around their podcast, and it was incredible and I was like, “Oh my gosh, they’re just smashing it. It’s amazing.” And then over the year I just kept going, my podcast was just the people who read my book. And I’d publish every Friday and every Saturday, but I never ever missed a day. And over the years these guys started missing a few here and there, and then they took a break, and then they came back, and then they took another break. And if you fast forward 2 years now, my podcast has 3.5 million downloads, and they’re nowhere close. So the consistency of just showing up every single week. I’ve now done a newsletter every single week for over 400 weeks. And the consistency of just showing up weekly and just doing what you say you’re going to do really pays off in the long run. It reminds me of the tortoise and the hair. So that’s my best marketing secret. It’s not really a secret. But just do what you say you’re going to do, if you’re going to do a weekly podcast or twice weekly podcast, make it happen, make the commitment, make it work into your life. Same with a newsletter, same with your emails, don’t pop up and then drop off again, because there’s no faster way to lose trust. Alison J Prince: Hey Russell and the Marketing Secrets podcast listeners, Alison J Prince her from Alisonjprince.com. I went from a junior high teacher to building 4 multimillion dollar businesses with 4 kids at my feet, but found my greatest success was watching my 10 and 13 year olds gain confidence in themselves as they went on to sell their first 6 figures before they even stepped into a high school. I am the host of the Because I Can live podcast where I show you what it takes to set up and automate your own online store using the steps I currently use today, and what I taught my girls. Why? Because I can. The marketing secret that I have been using for a decade and I still use today because it works, and it will work for as long as marketing exists, is teaming up with influencers to help explode your business. Yes, you can start growing your own following, but that can take years. So why not leverage what can accelerate your speed? Now I’m not talking about the get rich quick stuff that’s out there, that’s not what I’m talking about. I’m talking about getting your products in front of an already warm audience, and not crossing your fingers and hoping that cold Facebook ads work. Imagine Taylor Swift talking about earrings she’s wearing on an Instagram story with a simple swipe up for her followers to go and buy. Do you think they would sell? Yeah! Don’t stress in getting Taylor’s attention, that’s not what’s needed. There are a ton of influencers out there who can rock the sales, and they have less than 100,000 followers. And some have even had 2000 followers and they have been known to move sales number mountains. So whatever you are selling there is an influencer who is looking to team up with a business like yours. Influencers have been building an audience for years, so it becomes a 3 way win. Win for you because you make sales, win for the influencer because they make a percentage of the sales, and a win for their followers because they get your really cool, amazing product into their hands. Creating this 3 win-win has been one of my marketing secrets to building online profitable businesses. I hope that helps you crack the marketing code going into 2020. Oh, and one more thing, if you’re sending all that traffic over, make sure you’ve got a Clickfunnels set up so that you can maximize the order cart value. Ryan Lee: Hey this is Ryan Lee from Cashflowtactics.com and wanted to share with you the biggest marketing secret that I learned from Russell Brunson. So over the last decade as I’ve been in the inner circle and studying the art and science of marketing, one of the biggest things, one of the biggest epiphanies that I’ve had is building a business around a future based cause. You know Russell taught us for years all of the presidents maybe forever, the one’s that won {inaudible} on a future based cause instead of an improvement offer. And for too long inside of our business we were focused on features and improvement offers, but as soon as we took everything down and focused on the outcome that our product and our service created for our clients, that’s when things took off for us. So having a future based cause, and the easiest way to implement that for us was really diving deep and figuring out the core desire of our ideal avatar, our ideal client. Once we understood their pain points and their desired outcome, we could focus our message on speaking to both that pain and then the future based outcome for our clients. So for us at Cash Flow Tactics, we built our business around empowering people with money to become financially free in 10 years or less, and our tagline that’s really driven massive amounts of business has been “Rise up, Live free.” So something very simple but it speaks to our ideal avatar in the sense that they want control. It’s a future based cause to rise up, choosing differently from where they’re at today, so that they can live free. And all of our marketing is based around that, both from the possibility as well as speaking to the pain. So good luck in 2020 future based cause is where the gold is at. Stacey Martino: Alright hey there everyone on Marketing Secrets podcast. I’m Stacey Martino, my husband Paul and I are the founders of relationshipdevelopment.org , and I’m happy to come in and share one of our biggest marketing secret strategy that we’ve learned in the last few years, and that comes down to something that Russell shared with us probably the first or second time that we ever met him within inner circle. Like many of you, Paul and I were stuck in that place of look we have this amazing solution, we know we want to make as many people know about this as possible. Everyone deserves to know about the solution that we have, ours is for relationship, yours is for whatever it is that you do, and I’m sure you’ve had that feeling at one point or another, “I want everybody to know about this. This s so good.” So Russell said, of course to us, “Hey, you’ve got to do a podcast.” Because love to listen to podcasts. Hence, we’re all listening to marketing secrets podcast. And what I did in that moment was, “Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, that’s a great idea. Let me put that on my list, I don’t have time to implement that right now.” And I want you to learn from my mistake and catch yourself, because we all do this. “Oh my gosh, that’s such a great idea. I don’t have the bandwidth for that.” “Oh my gosh, that’s such a great idea. I don’t have time for that.” You have to catch yourself because one of the biggest strategies you could ever take away from this is you won’t get results from something you don’t implement. We have to implement, it doesn’t matter how many great strategies or ideas we have, we have to actually take action and get it done. So fast forward some time, we actually did make the Relationship Transformers podcast last year, it’s been catching like fire, it’s everywhere, it’s spreading, it’s doing everything we wanted it to do and more. And there’s two podcast strategies that have worked for our podcast that I really want to share with you. One Steve Larsen taught to us, which is to take your 3 Secrets Webinar and turn it on it’s side, and the first 4 or 5 episodes of your podcast is you doing like 20 or 30 minute chunks of your 3 secrets webinar to take them through your pillar content. Who you are, what you’re about, why is this different, what are the three secrets? So we did that, and it has been amazing. And then at the end of eveyr single podcast we share three action items like, “What can you do now to get great results now?” and a call to action. These are three things you can do to start getting results today, and your next step is join our 14 day boost program for your relationship. Whatever the first step is on your value ladder to help them take action. Because not only do you not get results from things you don’t implement, but the people who are listening to you won’t get results from things if they don’t implement. And yes, the podcast is amazing and we want to educate, and we want to inform, but if we don’t help them take that first step and take action, we’re not really serving them. So those are my strategies, I hope you implement them and make this an amazing year. Russell: Alright, the next person who sent a message was Bart Miller and Bart is a man of many talents. He’s the guy who dresses me for Funnel Hakcing Live, but on top of that he runs a huge ecommerce brand, he runs info product brands and a whole bunch of other amazing things. So with that said, here’s Bart’s biggest marketing secret from the last decade.  Bart Miller: The number one marketing strategy for us this year has been using a warranty card that goes into every Amazon box that we send into Amazon, and having people come back and fill that out and getting their email and capturing their stuff, and then putting on that thank you page for filling that out, a order bump for products that they can sell right then and there after they, I don’t know if it’s a bump or an actual sale, but we just take them right to it. Conversions are halving on two different things. One they are obviously coming onto an email list off of Amazon for capturing them, which is awesome. So we’re building a really cool camping list. And the second is that we’re actually selling them something else and the take rate on that right now is about 35%, are taking the next offer, which is a continuity program in the cooking space. So anyway, really cool, but that’s worked really well for us this year, and converted really well for us. Russell: Hey this next one is from Julie Stoian. Julie is no stranger in the funnel hacker, or marketing secrets community. She was a key player here at Clickfunnels for a long time, and I think you’re going to love the marketing secret that she shared next. Julie Stoian: Hey, so I’m going to answer this for you. I think probably the thing that I learned the most or that stuck out to me the most over the last decade is I’ve learned all the mechanics of marketing and I’ve learned the different fields offer, creation, copy, design, but the art of the hook is really something that I learned a ton from you, Russell, and all the stuff you teach, and this idea of pattern interrupt and no matter how great you are, how great your offer is, if you cannot get people to pay attention and get curious, you’re not going to get people into your funnel. So over the past couple of years especially, I’ve started to see, now that I see it I can instantly recognize when someone is marketing without a hook, without a reason or a story or a pattern interrupt. And I looked back over a lot of my writing and all of the emails and sales pages that were the best, I realized had this really curious hook or this crazy story attached to it. So even though I had been doing it unknowingly, once I figured out that that was the key, I started infusing it into everything. Into my emails, my sales pages, my ads, even my social media posts, and this made just a tremendous difference.

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share the strategy and planning framework that they use in both their business and personal lives to get results that exceed their expectations every year. They just recently shared the framework with their Relationship U students and they got so much power from it to easily set achievable goals for this new year.So many people do their annual goal setting, but it never actually works because they use the traditional kind of goal setting which is really counterproductive or counteractive to getting real results. That’s because with that kind of goal setting, one is always working against themselves. For example, you may say that you want to make $50,000 extra in cash by April 1st 2020, but there's a lot of things that will happen that will cause it to backfire, because what you’ll have done by setting that goal, is to focus on the lack of the $50,000 more that you want to have in cash.And anytime you focus on the lack and believe in it, that’s what you’ll get in the end. It can be very daunting when you think about the year ahead, all the outcomes you want to create, and the achievements you want to have, but with Paul and Stacey’s framework, you’ll be able to avoid flying blind into 2020 and achieve all your goals for the year. Listen in for more on that.Key Points Discussed:Either life is going to happen to you as you hope or you're going to do it (02:09)Happening to life instead of having it happening to us (03:23)Our beliefs, thoughts, words, and actions must be congruent for us to succeed in setting goals we can achieve (06:39)The Groundhog’s day process and how powerful it is in strategic planning for a year (09:25)Doing things differently in order to get the results that you really want (12:13)Taking our learning opportunities and baking them into our processes to always get the benefits our experiences (19:25)Creating a different dynamic by having the tools to show up differently in a way that creates peace and harmony (24:08)Additional Resources:Get the 10-Step Framework now!https://go.relationshipdevelopment.org/optin-2886540735203974The 14-Day Boost Programhttps://14dayboost.com/www.MyRelationshipDevelopmentCommunity.comwww.RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the Yellow Brick Road, a tool that they created to help people learn how life works, and what is required to move from one level  of life to another. They teach the tool to all their students, and Stacey even taught an expanded version of it to 5,000 entrepreneurs at a Funnel Hacking Live.In the movie, The Wizard of Oz, there is a yellow brick road that people follow to get to Oz, and that yellow brick road that Paul and Stacey created is somewhat similar in that when we are talking about life, everybody has an Oz. That Oz could be a goal, an outcome, or a purpose, and for every Oz, there is a yellow brick road that one must follow to achieve it or get to it.The yellow brick road looks more like a video game with different levels, and it has all of the lessons, challenges, and experiences to prepare a person to be the version of themselves that they need to be in order to reach and hold their Oz. Like with every video game, when one fails at one level, they can’t go on to the next one until they’ve repeated the one they’ve failed at and succeeded. And that’s the exact same way that life works. Paul and Stacey will expound more on that in this episode, and if you listen in, you can expect that it will definitely change your life for the better. Enjoy!Key Points Discussed: We can’t compare ourselves to others because everyone is on their own unique yellow brick road (01:57)Understanding how life works by understanding the squares on your yellow brick road (02:54)Facing it, owning it, and solving it so you can qualify to move on (04:35)How to become the person that you need to be to go to the next and better level in life (07:16)Nobody else can resolve the issues for us (08:27)Knowing what the yellow brick ahead is like by reaching for the hand of Vlad (12:26)(15:47)Being the observer instead of judging or valuating or getting triggered by appreciating that everybody has their own yellow brick road. Additional Resources:The 14-Day Boost Programwww.MyRelationshipDevelopmentCommunity.comwww.RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will answer the question, “What are the strategies for being able to work with your spouse in a way that strengthens your marriage instead of weakening it?” This is something that they get asked a lot because most spouses who work together find it nearly impossible to separate their marriages from their businesses.Most of those spouses end up failing at one of those things, and usually, it’s the marriage that loses out since it’s easier to do business than to do marriage. Why? Because there are plenty of easily accessible resources everywhere like books and courses about business to help people run their businesses much more easily, but similar resources for marriage are limited. Spouses working together is always a magnifier for their marriage relationship. If they have things in their marriage relationship that they can't talk about, it's always a hundred times that in their business relationship. That’s the dynamic that people need to understand, and Paul and Stacey will share the four main things that spouses who work together or wish to work together can do to ensure that they achieve the desired win-win in both their marriage and business relationships.Key Points Discussed: If there's something wrong in your relationship, it comes into the business, and vice versa (00:52)The ceiling on your business is the ceiling on your relationship (03:38)It’s a relationship deficit of what we don’t see that creates a loop (06:35)Investing in our relationship skills for ourselves pays off for a lifetime (14:39)The importance of the strategic reason for each of you to work in the same business (18:59)Don't try to solve personal problems with a business solution (22:59)You can’t win without systems and processes (27:51)Understanding the invisible assumptions that create problems (31:21)Additional Resources:The 14-Day Boost Programwww.MyRelationshipDevelopmentCommunity.comwww.RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about triggers and how to go about them. We all have those moments where we get triggered by our partner, and unfortunately, people don’t know what to do in that moment, and it happens to the best of us.The one thing that’s most important to know is that every single trigger is unique, and therefore requires a unique solution that only we ourselves can come up with and not our partners. There’s so much value in a person learning to solve their triggers instead of reacting to them because every piece of trigger one solves puts back a piece of themselves back into making them whole.If your partner ever triggers and you need to know how to react better when they trigger you, then this episode is just for you, because Paul and Stacey will be sharing some very valuable action steps that you can take to start accomplishing that.Key Points Discussed: What to do when your spouse triggers you (01:31)The beauty of triggers and how to solve them (03:06)Mastering your state in the moment so that you can respond instead of react (04:04)How when we blame we put the power to fix things in someone else’s hands (06:06)Additional Resources:The 14-Day Boost Programwww.MyRelationshipDevelopmentCommunity.comwww.RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

Forget about dragging your spouse to therapy. Stacey Martino saved her marriage 20 years ago, and now she tells the real, raw truth about how you can make change, without...

Forget about dragging your spouse to therapy. Stacey Martino saved her marriage 20 years ago, and now she tells the real, raw truth about how you can make change, without...

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share the surprising answer they have to the popular questions, "Why do people make promises they don't keep?" and "What can I do when my partner keeps making promises they don't keep?"These are two questions that plague a lot of relationships (including with family and friends) because people tend to award blame on the other person when in reality they too are party to the problem. Paul and Stacey will share a clip from their recent Relationship Breakthrough Retreat Live Event, where someone from the audience asked them about this issue, and Stacey dropped some life changing gold truth bombs in her answer, so stay tuned to find out more.Key Points Discussed:It’s all about conditioning someone please you in the moment to get out of pain with you (02:49)Taking personal responsibility for our part in the dynamic (06:13)We shouldn’t have to let go and be okay with it (07:41)Using relationship development tools and strategies to collaborate with people in your world (09:02)Additional Resources:The 14-Day Boost Programwww.MyRelationshipDevelopmentCommunity.comwww.RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

In this episode, Stacey will share a special video that she recorded where she shares the three secrets that can revolutionize the way any of us does relationships. She will talk about how we can implement the relationship development tools in our relationships in order to get the love and passion that we really want.She will then dive into the three secrets and talk about each of them in detail while sharing the real life actionable steps we can take to turn our relationships around for the better. Stacey will also talk about their amazing Black Friday sale where they’re offering huge discounts on the Relationship Breakthrough Retreat 2020 tickets, and so much more. Listen, learn, and don’t forget to go get your Relationship Breakthrough Retreat 2020 ticket now.Key Points Discussed: Asking your partner to change is actually killing your relationship (00:47)Removing your triggers so you can catapult forward and avoid getting hijacked by the people around you (03:43)Getting answers to real life, real family challenges that we assume there is no answer for (07:30)Committing and knowing that it only takes one person to transform a relationship (12:07)The relationship transformer guide and workbook, and the many other bonuses on offer (14:41)The biggest boost a relationship can have in just 14 days (20:28)Breaking down the relationship transformer Black Friday sale (23:10)Additional Resources:The 14-Day Boost Programwww.MyRelationshipDevelopmentCommunity.comwww.RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

Most of the battles that are fought in the affiliate marketing world are related to ethics. Is it possible to build a network with total transparency and get the message from your customers to arrive in the exact way they need to? Today we will cover all these questions with Stacey and Paul Martino, the creators of the 14-day Relationship Boost, who will be joining my performance network to run on a performance basis.If you’ve been waiting for the right opportunity to join the affiliate marketing world, this episode is an incredible way to learn about the whole procedure from the start, with all the information you need to build your own network, the chance to participate in the 14-day Relationship Boost program next to Paul and Stacey and hopefully, driving costumers to them while you earn money.Tune in for so much more learning about how to communicate effectively with your clients and partners, driving a successful campaign and more in this new episode of Performance Marketer Podcast.Key points discussed:A breakout that ended up creating a breakthrough, the story of Stacy and Paul (02:03)Why working with one only partner? (07:17)The skillset needed to boost any relationship (09:42)Helping you bridge the gap in all the human relationships in your life (13:43)The hunter and the gatherer, a lesson about the breach in human communication (17:00)How the 14 days relationship boost program was born (21:57)Introducing Stacey and Paul into the affiliate marketing world (27:46)Additional Resources:Stacey and Paul’s official website: https://relationshipdevelopment.org/Join the 14-day Boost https://affiliate.pmutracker.com/21-days Performance Challenge: https://performancemarketersecrets.com/go---Connect with Eric!Eric’s website: https://ericbeer.comFollow Eric On Instagram: http://bit.ly/ericbeerinstaSubscribe to Eric’s YouTube Channel:  http://bit.ly/ericbeeryt---Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher, TuneIn, or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about a very powerful dynamic that keeps so many people stuck and miserable. It’s a dynamic that goes beyond marriages, and into all the relationships that people have in life, and it impacts us every single day, and yet it’s invisible to us.Paul and Stacey will reveal what it is, how people have a lot of misconceptions about it, and how it always puts us in endless battles with the people that we are in relationships with. They will also share the action steps we can take right now to stop being victims of the dynamic, so we can start experiencing joy and fulfillment in all our relationships. Listen in and learn.Key Points Discussed:Fairness is determined by the perspective of the person who is deciding whether it's fair or not (02:38)Our need for things to be fair only holds us back (03:46)Measuring what we get in exchange for what we’re giving (08:21)The concept of fairness in relationships is borne by measuring and keeping scores (10:20)The withdrawal and holding back that comes from expecting others to give in the same way we do (13:34)Accepting the unfairness of life without being bitter or negative (16:18)Be the one to take action in your relationship without depending on your partner (19:46)Making a decision and committing for 90 days (22:40)Additional Resources:The 14-Day Boost Programwww.MyRelationshipDevelopmentCommunity.com-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the biggest mistake people make with their relationship development method, mainly from misinterpreting it to mean that they should put up with things or just let things go. This comes from a deeply wired demand relationship thinking which only results in things staying the same or getting worse.Paul and Stacey discovered that their students didn’t quite understand that implementing the relationship development tools and strategies is supposed to result in one’s partner changing in response to how they show up differently, and so this episode is geared towards teaching us how to implement relationship development properly, so we can get to experience the changes that we really want to see in our relationships.Key Points Discussed:The huge misconception of what relationship development is (00:45)Creating our outcomes with the way we show up (03:49)Doing things that will actually generate the response that we totally want (06:01)Be the one to start nurturing that plant (11:54)Demand relationship thinking can run really deep (14:47)Following the relationship development yellow brick road (16:15)Additional Resources:The 14-Day Boost Programwww.MyRelationshipDevelopmentCommunity.com-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share some behind the scenes content from their recent relationship development parenting live event day and specifically focus on sharing one major nugget that we can all implement immediately in our parenting.Listen in as they dive into the differences between demand parenting and relationship development parenting, and share some real-life parenting scenarios where relationship development parenting works perfectly so we can easily apply the same with our kids at home.Key Points Discussed:The recent relationship development parenting live event (00:55)The reality of what the parenting job is and how to properly approach it (05:39)Empowering our kids by teaching them the skills and tools to navigate real-life (09:03)The two ways of getting the biggest building in town (15:27)Robbing our kids of the skillset that they need to be prepared for the world (19:31)Stop yourself, ask yourself, and reach out when you’re stuck (23:40)Additional Resources:The 14-Day Boost Programwww.MyRelationshipDevelopmentCommunity.com-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

Krista Chats with relationship expert, Stacey Martino from RelationshipDevelopment.org. While the divorce rate averaging 50 – 70% and couple’s work resulting in about an 80% divorce rate... Stacey & Paul Martino’s RelationshipU program results in a 1% Divorce rate and a 99% SUCCESS rate over the last six years. To experience a relationship transformation for yourself, sign up for the next 14-Day Relationship Boost beginning November 6! Here’s your link for the $47 Special: http://bit.ly/Krista14dayboost

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share their most popularly downloaded episode where they explained in detail how it’s possible that it only takes one partner to transform any relationship. There have been thousands of people who have single-handedly saved their marriages, transformed their relationships, and divorce-proofed their marriages.Society has for many years been brainwashed to believe that it takes two people to achieve all that, but the truth is that with Paul and Stacey’s relationship development methodology, one person can indeed transform a relationship all on their own, and in the episode, they share just how people can implement that methodology in their marriages and relationships.Key Points Discussed: The most powerful force in human relationships today (02:49)Waiting for the other person to change is setting yourself up for failure (04:37)Men process completely differently than women (08:49)Solving our own triggers (12:16)Disrespect only happens within you (15:58)The empowerment of relationship development (19:56)The fear-based protection (23:42)The relationship transformers community (26:04)-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share the story of where they were 10 years ago when they lost everything and had to start over. It all started when they lost their consulting business and started experiencing financial difficulties that pushed them to get jobs.Fast forward 10 years, they’re now doing great, and they will share how overcoming financial challenges helped them create relationship development for the benefit of others. Their story will help you plan out your future towards success and fulfillment in your personal and professional lives, so you won’t wanna miss it. Enjoy!Key Points Discussed: Reflecting back on the changes in the last 10 years (01:45)Heading towards bankruptcy and having to take up jobs (04:27)Fighting the wrong enemy: Blame games in a marriage (08:10)Breaking the chains of demand relationship for the future of the children (12:27)We take the boldest, biggest action when we have the most certainty (16:56)Additional Resources:The 14-Day Boost ProgramThe Marketing Secrets Show-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the well-meaning people in our lives who have the best intentions for us, and how they might be negatively affecting our lives. Advice is something that we all get every day, from every body, even when we’ve really not asked for it.That’s because the people in our lives always have an opinion about everything, and Paul and Stacey will teach us how to see that dynamic and navigate it in a way that doesn’t negatively impact us individually, and doesn’t destroy the relationship with them either. Enjoy!Key Points Discussed: How the masculine responds to a woman who goes into her masculine (02:15)Nobody has the right to tell you what you should do in your life (09:14)Being clear about who you’re listening to (10:31)Taking personal responsibility for triggering friends to give us advice (15:15)Growing by investing in your mindset, your skillset, and your network (16:11)Additional Resources:The 14-Day Boost Programwww.CashflowTactics.com-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about how learning more actually moves people backward in their relationships. People get obsessed with knowledge, especially those who are growth-oriented, and they’re always looking for the next thing to learn.Tune in as Paul and Stacey show us how that not only blocks us from getting the results that we want in our relationships, but also moves us backwards, and away from our goals.Key Points Discussed: Learning how to forgive so we can move forward (01:01)The dynamic of the dabbler and how it affects us (03:21)Implementing what we learn is what creates transformation (06:23)People who don't get results get addicted to information (08:42)There’s a difference between education and transformation (11:18)Additional Resources:The 14-Day Boost Programwww.MyRelationshipDevelopmentCommunity.com-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share with you one of the biggest reasons why nothing changes for you.They hear these statements from people all the time; “I've asked a million times, but nothing changes” or “We talked and agreed to X, Y, Z, but still nothing changes.”   Often it comes down to how YOU interpret and respond to the situations that you are presented with. Paul and Stacey will dive into how you can begin to see things in a positive light and alter how you respond to these situations that once would trigger you.If you’ve ever experienced that yourself, then you need to listen to today's podcast. Key Points Discussed:Something so simple turned into a big kerfuffle (02:24)Owning what it is that you want to change; Why nothing changes for you (03:50)Re-framing what your partner says to you that triggers you (07:30)The world changes according to the color of the lens that you're wearing (10:09)You have no power when you're focused on getting others to change (12:07)Shifting how you show up to change how your partner reacts to you (17:39)Additional Resources:The 14-Day Boost Program-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share a clip of themselves teaching one of the most powerful tools LIVE during Relationship Breakthrough Retreat 2019. The session was all about the importance of recognizing and seizing opportunities whenever they present themselves to us.They talked about the hand of Vlad, a tool that we all need to learn in order to seize opportunities and solve any challenges that we come across in life. Listen and learn.Key Points Discussed:Aiming for those things that are outside your comfort zone (00:53)Life is like Vlad on a trapeze (03:50)Asking for help is not a weakness (06:28)The one thing you're scared to do is exactly the thing you need to do (08:04)Things that go wrong are not a failure (09:53)Additional Resources:www.RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share all about how the societal pressure to live in balance is making you miserable and creating crap results. The fact is, when everybody tells you you have to live in balance, all that does is make you feel bad about yourself.You feel bad because you think that you're not getting good results by not living in balance. Listen in to learn how you can live out of balance and create extraordinary results for yourself and your family.Key Points Discussed:The biggest boost for any relationship (01:07)Living in balance versus living out of balance (04:42)Living beyond where you’ve been living to get extraordinary results (07:34)Living strategically and living your priorities (11:15)Going all in to create and release the 14-Day Boost Program (16:33)Investing our time in solving the kerfuffles (20:56)Additional Resources:The 14-Day Boost Program-Ready for the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat?Click here to get your ticket now!-You can find this episode and more at:MartinoPodcast.com-Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share a clip from the Relationship Breakthrough Retreat during the live Q&A segment. A woman got up to ask a question about what she can do when her spouse tells their kids something that she absolutely does not agree with. Has that ever happened to you? Of course, it has! Well, Paul and Stacey’s answer on how to solve this might surprise you, but it will surely give you some great actionable tips on how to implement impactful relationship development parenting and teach your kids how to navigate life the right way. Key Points Discussed: Using relationship development to release your triggers (01:14) The road map to collaboration (02:35) Teaching kids to navigate moments from relationship development (04:42) Triggers are necessary for growth to take place (10:31) Getting curious about your partner's perspective (12:21) Additional Resources: www.RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com Get "The D.I.R.T." Daily Inspiration for Relationship Transformers at http://martinopodcast.com/dirt You can find this episode and more at: RelationshipDevelopment.org/listen -- Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts. If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share a clip of themselves teaching live at their recent RBR 2019 event. The title of the session was, "Getting Your Way in Relationships", and it was all about overcoming the challenges that couples have whenever they try to get their way in their relationships. Listen in as they tackle that and share some action steps on how to overcome the culprit in the picture, accidental alignment predicament, which negatively impacts marriages and families. Enjoy! Key Points Discussed: My way versus your way (01:14) Being too focused on the other person’s white knuckle grip (03:59) The breakdown from the fallout of demand relationship (06:29) Fighting the wrong enemy (10:51) Household systems are needed (13:45) Additional Resources: www.RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com www.RelationshipDevelopment.org/Programs www.RelationshipDevelopment.org/Events You can find this episode and more at: www.RelationshipDevelopment.org/listen Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts. If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share their experience moving from Pennsylvania to Idaho. They’ll talk about how hectic it was to pack up and move across the country, and the numerous challenges that that presented for their business and personal lives. If you wanna learn how to live by design and transform your life, listen in as they share why they chose to move to Idaho, the good and bad of the moving process, their kids’ experiences through it all, and some of the very interesting things that the movers had to say about them. Key Points Discussed: Moving to Idaho and people’s response (01:14) A priceless gift for the kids (04:54) Comfort cannot be your standard if you want an amazing life (10:14) Choosing to live a life by design will transform your life (15:59) Getting great insight from the packers and movers (20:22) The importance of taking the hand of Vlad (27:07) The action steps towards your life by design (28:49) Additional Resources: OrgoDomo.com Get the D.I.R.T. delivered to your inbox You can find this episode and more at: www.RelationshipDevelopment.org/listen Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts. If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk all about the just concluded Relationship Breakthrough Retreat 2019. They will talk about what their favorite moments were, what the challenges were, how things went behind the scenes, and most importantly, the breakthroughs that different attendees experienced. Listen in to get that behind the scenes look at this life changing event, get a feel of what it would have been like to attend, and get some tools you can use to build better relationships in your life. Key Points Discussed: The best delivery and breakthroughs at the RBR 2019 (01:00) Delivering to the audience dynamically (03:07) The five-step forgiveness process (05:06) The four minute mile: From Can I? to How can I? (10:07) The best event team in the world (15:10) The breakthroughs that people share (18:16) Walking in one way and walking out another (25:02) Additional Resources: RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com You can find this episode and more at: RelationshipDevelopment.org/listen Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts. If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

Show Notes and Links here:  https://www.chrisbeatcancer.com/dr-christiane-northrup-dodging-energy-vampires/ Dr. Christiane Northrup is a board certified OBGYN, a New York Times bestselling author, and a visionary pioneer in women's health. She teaches women and men how to thrive at every stage of life and encourages them to create health on all levels by tuning into their inner wisdom. Her latest book is Dodging Energy Vampires - An Empath's Guide to Evading Relationships That Drain You and Restoring Your Health and Power. This is the second interview in a two-part series of sorts focused on dysfunctional relationships and toxic stress, which can be profoundly destructive to mental, emotional and physical health. Last week I talked with Stacey Martino about how to transform your relationships with others by changing yourself. Today Dr. Christiane Northrup will help you understand how to identify Energy Vampires in your life, sociopaths, psychopaths, and extreme narcissists – people that you need to get away from – before they suck the life (and health) out of you. You are going to glean so much wisdom and insight from Dr. Northrup. This interview is awesome. Enjoy! "I have come to see that cancer is the physical metaphor for the extreme need to grow." -Lewis Thomas, author of The Lives of a Cell

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share the truth about why passion fizzles in long-term relationships and what we can do to reignite it! They will dive into the two most common phases of a relationship where people need help in creating an unleashed passion that is hotter than it's ever been. Paul and Stacey will be very detailed about this so it can help you get the kind of relationship you deserve. If you are looking to reignite the passion in your relationship, don’t miss out on this value-packed episode! Key Points Discussed: The hanging-by-a-thread and the passionless (01:00) The salad versus garbage concept (02:29) Passion is not meant to fade (05:27) Building up walls of resentments (08:12) It’s not your fault and you’re not alone (11:30) Breaking the chains for the sake of future generations (15:02) A height of passion that matches the depth of love is possible (16:10) Additional Resources: The Relationship Breakthrough Retreat 2019 You can find this episode and more at: RelationshipDevelopment.org/listen Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts. If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

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STACEY MARTINO has proven that it only takes ONE partner to transform a relationship…ANY relationship! Stacey and her husband Paul are on a mission to empower people to get the Unshakable Love and Unleashed Passion they want in their relationship…even if their partner REFUSES to change! Stacey and Paul are the founders of RelationshipDevelopment.org and creators of RelationshipU®. Through their revolutionary Relationship Development® methodology, they are changing the way relationship is done! Stacey and Paul have awakened people to see that the old broken paradigm of demand-relationship no longer works in today's world. As a six-time best-selling author, Stacey is a sought-after relationship expert and is the Relationship Expert for Aspire Magazine. After over 20 years together, raising two amazing children, spreading their mission around the world and running a charity feeding families, Paul and Stacey Martino live in their unshakable love and unleashed passion every day.  

Hey everyone, it's Sensei Victoria Whitfield from naturalintuition.com welcoming you back to episode 27 of the Journeypreneur Podcast, your source for channeled holistic stress management techniques, guidance, inspiration and motivation on your path to rapid financial ascension and massive impact as a conscious entrepreneur. The title of this episode is Disarming Disagreements. Right now, I'm on my way back from a team healing session. There, I held space for a small team, for them to really ground out this ongoing kind of internal misunderstanding that's been, gosh, just keeping them on edge. All the individual team members were really feeling frustrated about this one occurrence that happened, and all of the discussions around it bred further misunderstandings, it was a big communication kerfuffle (as my friend Stacey Martino would call it, "kerfuffle" haha!). And, oh my Goddess, it was a bit of a marathon session. I think it was 4 hours? Yes! So, I'm feeling a little exhausted now that we are finished, and as I am driving  to deposit this check in the bank now - but that's always a nice feeling, abundance is! And while I am on my way, I thought I'd just share with you a really powerful shift that we had in the team, specifically around how to disagree, but as conscious people. As in, consciously coming together to disagree in a productive way rather than one that's adversarial or critical, judgmental, negative, or one that is causing more pain. We were just really focusing on having a disagreement in a way that is to edify the team as a whole, that reinforces our values. We covered disagreeing in a way that respects one another and helps us maintain a high standard of communication, co-operation and respect. Let's talk about it! - Want more info about how we can work together?Visit http://www.victoriawhitfield.com/quiz to take the assessment and book your Breakthrough Call!

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about how they cracked the code on how relationships are done, what exactly causes relationship problems, and what the solution really is. At the first sign of trouble, couples choose to seek counseling or therapy, but that has failed miserably because it has a divorce rate of 80% which emanates from the fact that they only focus on symptoms and not causes. The solution that Paul and Stacey offer has a 1% divorce rate and teaches couples how to build an unshakeable love and passion that keeps them going strong well into the future. Join us at the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat: http://bit.ly/rbr_podcast Key Points Discussed: The dilemma of working on things alone (01:02) Relationship development and demand relationship (02:52) Nobody likes being controlled (05:35) Classic demand relationship exit (07:27) Building up relationships with the relationship development methodology (09:07) Breaking the chains of demand relationship (13:43) Be sure to get the free PDF download discussed in this episode at: go.relationshipdevelopment.org/2 You can find this episode and more at: RelationshipDevelopment.org/listen Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, Stitcher or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts. If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

One of my favorite guests, Stacey, is here today to talk about why we should say SCREW VALENTINE'S DAY! This is a fun one!!! Stacey Martino has proven that it only takes ONE partner to transform a relationship…ANY relationship! Stacey and her husband Paul are on a mission to empower people to get the Unshakable Love and Unleashed Passion they want in their relationship…even if their partner REFUSES to change! Stacey and Paul are the founders of RelationshipDevelopment.org and creators of RelationshipU®. Through their revolutionary Relationship Development® methodology, they are changing the way relationship is done! Today, through their strategic coaching, online programs and sold-out live events, Stacey and Paul have helped save thousands of marriages around the world (by working with only one spouse). Trained and certified by Tony Robbins, Stacey is a certified marriage educator, divorce preventionist and strategic interventionist. As a six-time best-selling author, Stacey is a sought-after relationship expertand  is the Relationship Expert for Aspire Magazine. Find them at RelationshipDevelopment.org

With Valentine's Day right around the corner, I have brought on one of my good friends, Stacey Martino, who is a relationship expert, and we dive deep into some of the messy topics around why marriages struggle and how you can build an unshakeable love in your marriage. I hope you guys love this podcast. I know you're going love Stacey and I can't wait to hear what you think. Visit Stacey at RelationshipBreakthroughSecrets.com xo Natalie 

Stakeholder's driving you crazy? You might not be meeting their human needs...Stakeholders and presentation audiences say the darndest things, don't they?You've poured your blood and sweat into presenting your invaluable analytical insights and ideas. But come presentation day, they make comments and ask questions that bring you nothing but tears.Constant interruptions, asking the same questions, do they do this on purpose??What if I told you there was a GOOD REASON why they say these things? And that the reason wasn't to undermine your authority or make you look the fool in front of your colleagues?If you want to probe deeper into the frustrating table talk at your presentations, this is the episode for you. We're going to take a little detour from data viz to explore an unexpected side of data presentation: effective communication and corporate psychology.And in this episode, I apply Tony Robbins's "Six Human Needs" framework to presenting, putting a whole new spin on communication and meeting the needs of your audiences and stakeholders.No special guest this time; this one's just between you and me.In This Episode, You'll Learn…How some of the most frustrating, head-scratching, eye-rolling questions and comments are actually rooted in perceived unmet needsThe invaluable toolset I use for how to decode what your stakeholders are actually saying without saying it.How Abraham Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs can help you make an even bigger impact.How to apply Tony Robbins' Six Human Needs Framework to your presentations and all other areas of your life.How to use to 6 Human Needs profile to your advantage in building solid work relationships.Tools and tricks to help you apply the Six Human Needs Framework to your specific audience.Resources and Links MentionedLearn more about Tony Robbins.Listen to my interview with Evan LaPointe.Read the 6 Basic Needs that Make Us Tick article.Learn more about Stacey Martino of Relationship Development.Learn more about the DAA Women in Analytics Mentorship Program.Contact me to sign up for my brand new Virtual Live Web Class.Digital Analytics Hub.How to Keep Up with Lea:LeaPica.comLinkedInTwitterTo view the show notes & resources for this episode, visit LeaPica.com/036 .

Our relationships are so important to the quality of our lives. Often times, however, we aren’t putting enough emphasis on developing strong and lasting bonds. So, the question is: can you unleash the kind of passion that will last you a lifetime? Today, we’re talking about how we can shift our perspective to change any relationship.   My special guest today is helping change relationships alongside her business partner and husband. Stacey Martino is the Co-Founder of RelationshipDevelopment.org and RelationshipU. She is an educator and “Divorce Preventionist.” Through strategic coaching, online programs, packed live events, and a best-selling books, Stacey and her husband Paul help transform love relationships. Their innovative focus on the power of the individual in any relationship, has helped empower tens of thousands of people, and Stacey wants to do that for you too! In this episode, you’ll learn more about the Martinos’ unique methodology and the relationship education “that no one ever teaches us!” You’ll also learn why Stacey and Paul don’t do “couples work” (because they believe couples work doesn’t work…), and why they seek to empower just ONE partner to transform the WHOLE relationship.   In This Episode Stacey’s Story Equal But Different, Men and Women Trust and Fear Relationship Education Action and Transformation   Quotes in This Episode “Paul was the one who came to me and said, 'Look, I cannot watch another family crumble when they have kids in that house. If they had just been blessed to learn what we were fortunate to learn, maybe that wouldn't have had to end.'” —Stacey Martino“It's kind of ridiculous that we've all ended up in this situation that we're in where we've kind of been handed from generations past these broken relationships with patterns of relationship that just literally don't work anymore, regardless of how hard we try.” —Stacey Martino“Really we're basically different species. And we're equal, of course, but the same, oh, no, no, no. We don't even apply the same meanings to the same vocabulary words.” —Stacey Martino“We come from generations past where demand relationship tactics were really all that was used and all that was seen. One person's unhappy and they ask the other people to change. One person is unhappy and they ask the other person to compromise.” —Stacey Martino“People just have a false definition of what forgiveness really is. What they're trying to express is, I'm not going to continue bringing this up with that person, I'm going to just hold it on within myself, until it either eats me alive or I explode. And that's what people say when they say they won't forget.” —Stacey Martino“But the truth is and the beautiful thing is that it only ever takes one person to transform any relationship [...] One person can change the situation at any moment. We've just never been given the tools to do it before.” —Stacey Martino Resources Stacey’s Facebook, Twitter, and YouTube Official Website: RelationshipDevelopment.org Stacey’s Book: The Miracle Morning for Transforming Your Relationship

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Today’s episode of Just the Tips is all about a mystery to me: relationships. Unless we’re talking about one’s relationship to spreadsheets, this is basically a foreign subject to me, but Stacey Martino and her husband Paul have been helping people find true satisfaction and happiness in their relationships through their site RelationshipDevelopment.org and RelationshipU®. They help people transform their relationships even when one partner is not cooperating. But the proof will be in the pudding today as we see if she can fix my broken relationship with Dean. The suspense is killing you, I know. A passion borne of necessity What’s fascinating about Stacey’s story is that she got into relationship development thanks to her own personal experience. She was a corporate tax accountant when 20 years ago, her husband Paul, walked out on her. As she says, he was done with their relationship. Wanting to find some way to make the relationship work, Stacey dove headfirst into personal development and was able to save her marriage. Since then, she and Paul have been stronger than ever, and they then began to notice many great relationships go down in flames because the people didn’t have the tools necessary to stick together. She found her passion in life, and since then she’s been helping people all over the world with their relationships. You’re going to want to hear what she has to say about how to make yours even stronger. Start with you One of the most innovative things that Stacey and Paul have done is eschewed the pain of couples therapy. As she says, couples work is often very painful and very destructive, and so what Stacey and Paul do is teach people how to “master themselves.” If you know yourself better, and how you relate to people, you can improve how you are in a relationship, which will improve it even if your partner is unwilling or never changes. It’s basically self-improvement with a selfless goal. It’s a really fascinating conversation, and one you’ll want to hear on this week’s Just the Tips. Relationship development You may be thinking that Stacey’s work is only for romantic relationships, but given my roller-coaster relationship with Dean, I had to know if her principles apply to business relationships as well. And Stacey let us in on her eight-step program, almost all of which apply to business relationships as well (the sex one probably isn’t applicable). But the core principle of Stacey’s approach is helping people see how others see things. As she puts it, everyone is wired differently, and so you’re not going to be able to change how people are wired. But if you can figure out how that other person is wired, and appreciate the differences in others, it can be revolutionary to how you handle relationships. This is a bit departure for Just the Tips, but it’s a must-listen episode. Appreciation, not judgment The first thing you can do to help build stronger relationships, whether you’re in a business or a romantic relationship, is come from a place of appreciation, not judgment. So if you have a member of your team who you’re clashing with, you want to identify their strengths and appreciate what they do, rather than sit in judgment of what you see as their drawbacks. That’s just the tip of the iceberg for how to apply Stacey’s approach to your business relationships, and you’re going to want to listen to the whole episode of Just the Tips to get the complete picture. Outline of This Episode [3:18] How Stacey got started in relationship [6:30] Stacey’s approach [8:42] Does it work for business relationships? [10:37] Stacey’s entrepreneurial journey [13:15] Seeing how others are wired [17:57] How to get in touch with Mark [20:54] What’s in Stacey’s relationship toolbox [23:42] Left Hand/Right Hand approach [32:30] How entrepreneurs can have stronger relationships Resources & People Mentioned 2-Hour Free Web Class Live Event Music for “Just The Tips” is titled, “Happy Happy Game Show” by Kevin MacLeod (http://incompetech.com) Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 License Connect With James and Dean James P. Friel: AutoPilot Entrepreneur Program: www.jamespfriel.com/autopilot Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/autopilotentrepreneur Site: www.jamespfriel.com Dean Holland: Blog: www.DeanHolland.com FB Page: https://www.facebook.com/DeanHollandHQ Digital Business Entrepreneurs: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DigitalBusinessEntrepreneurs/

Episode 279: Inner Circle Talk – Relationship Mastery With Stacey Martino  You have stumbled upon an amazing episode…you are going to laugh and cry Today, we are joined by Stacey Martino whom I met from the Inner Circle! She helps save relationships. Her and her husband Paul, have a large business and have done well over $2 million just in the first part of this year. Stacey takes part in a lot of events dealing with relationship and entrepreneurism. “We help people create their own unshakeable love and their unleashed passion using our unique methodology!” – Stacey Martino Stacey Martino gives people the relationship education that no one has ever given them, but that they deserve. She stops the unnecessary suffering. She and her husband have saved over 10,000 marriages so far and helped thousands of others! Couples counseling and therapy are literally ruining marriages at such a rapid rate. More than more than 80% of couples therapy is ending in divorce…it’s the kiss of death. They have a proven model. It’s an 8 step transformation model. The old model is broken. Everyone deserves this kind of relief. There are strategies they teach specifically for inside and outside of the moment. Inside the moment is all about not reacting and learning how to respond in a way that de-escalates the negative energy. But, this cannot be fixed without implementing strategies outside of the moment as well. You can’t just demand, demand, demand without seeing your partner’s empty buckets that need to be filled as well. Are you interested in hearing more? Join Stacey Martino and I as we dive deep into relationships!  You can’t demand your way to a magnificent love. “All conflict is the result of unmet expectations” Want to Check out more about Stacey & Paul? http://www.Relationshipdevelopment.org (Click here!) Ready to Learn How To Get Unshakable Love & Unleashed Passion in Your Relationship? https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com/tbc-webclass-optin-rdo (Click here!) Ready to catapult your relationship in just 3 days? https://go.relationshipdevelopment.org/rbr2018 (Click here)   https://agsexperience.com/sales-page18085899 (SAVE YOUR SPOT FOR Automate Grow Sell LIVE:  CLICK HERE) If You Haven't Yet, Check Out RevenueBuddy. The ULTIMATE Visual Goal Setting Buddy! http://revenuebuddy.com/ (Click Here )To Check It Out You can also check out the INCREDIBLE Super Course by http://supermarketingcourse.com (clicking here!) Have an idea for a Podcast Topic? A question you want to be answered live? Or just want to leave a random message with whatever you want? Now’s your chance! You can now call my new Podcast Hotline number and leave a 3-minute message and I’ll play some of these LIVE on the air! 810.201.4555 You can check out Joshua’s AMAZING Marketing software by clicking here If you’ve enjoyed this PodCast this year if it’s brought value to you, your life or your business could you please go to Itunes and leave a 5-star review? https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/radiusbomb-com-quick-talk-podcast/id1061375545?mt=2 (Click here to leave your review)

Stacey Martino is a relationship coach, certified divorce preventionist, and a certified marriage educator. Together with her husband, Paul, they run RelationshipDevelopment.org and have helped over 10,000 families by empowering couples to create their unshakeable love and unleashed passion. Their relationship development methodology is all based upon the concept that one person is capable of transforming a relationship, it doesn’t take both partners in order to see positive results. In this episode, you will learn about the destructive patterns that hurt romantic relationships and the things couples can change to improve and grow a marriage in order to feel more love. For full show notes visit: http://wealthywellthy.life/86

Stacey Martino is a relationship expert with so much energy and passion to help others have the best relationships they can.  Stacey and Annie discuss the strain alcohol can have on relationships and most surprisingly, the difficulty that is often created when someone in the relationship begins to make positive changes.  Stacey provides some amazing insight into how to start the process of mending hurt relationships in order to move forward together. Episode Links: Relationship Breakthrough Secrets Relationship Development

Today is a special episode of the Achieve Your Goals podcast. We have 2 AMAZING back-to-back interviews with Stacey Martino and Brandy Salazar who are here give you the tools and techniques for transforming your relationships! Stacey and Brandy share their inspiring stories and explain how they were both able to climb back from marriages that were on the brink of failure. Here’s a bit about today’s featured guests... Stacey Martino Stacey Martino is a sought-after relationship expert, certified marriage educator, divorce preventionist, international best-selling author, engaging speaker and the Relationship Expert for Aspire Magazine. Stacey and her husband Paul empower individuals with the tools & strategies to transform not only their love relationship, but ANY relationship. Today, through their programs and live events, they help thousands of people transform their love relationship! Brandy Salazar Surviving on her own since she was a teenager, Brandy’s spirit of perseverance has allowed her to break through life barriers and thrive. Despite not having a high school diploma, Brandy was managing a multi-million dollar commercial real estate portfolio by the age of 23. Brandy is passionate about leadership, charity, purpose, and meaningful relationships. She attributes success not just to her personal and professional accolades, but also to her family. As a mother of two young and very strong-willed daughters, Brandy is reminded daily that strength and vulnerability are two sides of the same coin and the secret to finding her flow lies in the balance between the two. During today’s conversations, you’ll learn about the power of triggers, the BIG differences between men and women, why couples therapy is destined to fail and how to level up and rescue ANY relationship! You’ll also hear about the latest book in the Miracle Morning series, The Miracle Morning for Transforming Your Relationship: How to Create an Unshakeable LOVE and Unleashed PASSION that Lasts a Lifetime! KEY TAKEAWAYS Find out how Stacey went from an almost failed marriage to becoming the go-to person for relationship advice. Why it only takes one person to completely transform a partnership. Discover the most powerful force of human relationships and how it can affect the people around you.   The invisible things you unknowingly do to trigger your partner's behavior. The major differences between men and women and why your positive intentions are unknowingly causing more harm than good for your relationship. Why every marriage is not meant to last, but ANY relationship can be rescued. The creation of The Miracle Morning for Transforming Your Relationship. Why “couples work” counterproductively doesn’t work AND what you can do instead to save your relationship! Brandy shares how she went from an unhappy marriage with 2 kids to a realization that allowed her to turn things around! Find out how you can intentionally hit the reset button and level up your relationship!   The importance of recognizing your most precious priorities and commitments. How to create a memorable date night through active listening and being fully present. AYG TWEETABLE ''Every relationship can be rescued'' - Stacey Martino EPISODE RESOURCES LegendaryCouples.com The Miracle Morning for Transforming Your Relationship The Hero’s Journey Quantum Leap Mastermind CONNECT WITH GUESTS Relationship Development Stacey Martino on Facebook, Twitter, and YouTube Brandy Salazar on Facebook, LinkedIn and Twitter CONNECT WITH HAL  Facebook Twitter Achieve Your Goals Podcast on iTunes RATE & REVIEW THE PODCAST Reviews for the podcast on iTunes are greatly appreciated and will allow us to get the word out about the show and grow as a community. We read every single review and believe each one goes a long way in helping us make the show even better! If you received value from this episode, please take a moment and rate and review the podcast by clicking here.

Healing Your Love Relationship with Stacey Martino – Episode 102 Healing Your Love Relationship with Stacey Martino – Episode 102 February 8th, 2017 Guest // Stacey Martino, Relationship Expert Host // Lea @ Maverick Kitchen As a Fearless Parent, you’ve turned over every rock to achieve maximum physical health for you and your family. But when is the last time you’ve “taken the temperature” of your relationship? There is growing evidence that relationship stress can directly impact your health [source]. As someone recovering from a number of immune illnesses as well as recently separating, I know first-hand the toll relationship stress can take on your overall well-being. And it all changed when I met this episode’s special guest and took big steps to heal my relationship along with my body. Join me for my first episode of the Heart Beat segment of Fearless Parent Radio, where she will explore love from all angles. This episode welcomes Stacey Martino, a Tony Robbins-certified relationship expert who has helped thousands of couples and singles built everlasting love with their partners and themselves. I am one of those people and now a devoted member of Stacey’s tribe of “lovies”. In this inaugural episode, we’ll be exploring thoughts around: How one person truly can transform their relationship WITHOUT their partner’s involvement How Stacey went from being the “ice princess” to her mission to enable lasting love for others How taking responsibility for your contribution to the relationship’s state is key to thriving How to trigger the best in your partner by being your best authentic self One simple, 10-minute strategy you can use starting today that will transform your relationship Stacey Martino is a sought-after relationship expert who knows that Better Relationships equal a Better LifeTM! Stepping out of the old relationship paradigm of couple’s coaching, our guest and her amazing husband empower individuals with the tools & strategies to transform, not only, their love relationship but ANY relationship…and the craziest part? You don’t need your partner to participate for this to work for you!

Mia and Relationship Expert, Stacey Martino discuss parenting, marriage, and healthy food. Learn why Stacey thinks a rock solid relationship between mom and dad is the number one way our kids feel safe and secure at home and out in the world. She also believes that If you want your family to eat healthier food you have to dig in and make better choices as a united front! Learn more about Stacey's supportive offerings at www.relationshipdevelopment.org Show notes: www.plansimplemeals.com/staceymartino

Through her own experience of bringing the wrong energy to her love relationship, Love & Passion coach Stacey Martino found her mission to help others transform their relationships and create the passion in them they desire. Together, she and her husband Paul have developed the Relationship Transformation System®, but their entrepreneurial experience hasn’t always been easy. Hear her story and how she gets through the challenging days in this interview.    

Learn how successful moms in business increse their love and passion, and still make time for mojo! Join me as I interview @StaceyMartino, founder of LoveandPassionCoach.com and creator of The Relationship Transformation System as we explore the sexy side of mom's in business and how we can 'fit it all in'! Special feature, just in time for Valentine's Day! As Mompreneurs, finding the balance between raising a family and growing your business is always a challenge. Every other Tuesday on Managing Mompreneur Mayhem Cena Block offers great advice for moms in business for themselves. Find her at Sane Spaces.com or as Cena Block or SaneSpaces on all social media outlets! Want more great information from Cena? Click here to download her free training to help you reclaim your time, space and sanity - and overcome burnout! http://bit.ly/14Yq17L Join Cena every other Tuesday for a lunch and learn episode on how to run and manage your business better! Or download episodes at any time! Thanks to our show sponsors Healthy Concepts and Safety First Bags. Meet all our sponsors in our Mompreneur Marketplace. Be sure to follow us on Twitter and Google+, like us on Facebook and email us at wordofmomradio@gmail.com with questions and comments. Word of Mom Radio - sharing the wisdom of women.