Podcasts about comparison girl

Join Meredith & Shannon Popkin as they answer the question, “How can I make good choices?,” with the Biblical answer and a connecting moment to help you engage your children with the Word of God.    From the platform, page, and podcast mic, SHANNON POPKIN  invites you to drink deeply of God's story, and live like it's true. Shannon's books include Shaped by God's Promises, Control Girl, Comparison Girl, and Comparison Girl for Teens. Shannon also hosts the Live Like It's True Bible podcast and has been featured on Revive Our Hearts, FamilyLife Today, Risen Motherhood, The Gospel Coalition, and Proverbs 31. Connect with Shannon at shannonpopkin.com, or on Instagram, Facebook, or Youtube.   Resources Stay tuned for the connecting moment activity on Facebook Stay tuned for the connecting moment activity on Instagram Shannon's Instagram: @shannonpopkin Shannon's Facebook: @shannonpopkin Shannon's Podcast: Live Like It's True Shannon on YouTube  Genesis 1:28 - command to be fruitful, multiply and fill the earth Genesis 3 - Adam & Eve - sin enters the world Genesis 6 - the flood Genesis 9:7 - be fruitful and multiply, fill the earth Genesis 11:1-9 - The Tower of Babel Psalms 139: 23-24 - search me and know my heart Job 13:23 - how many are my sins, make them known to me Genesis 12 - I will make you into a great nation Romans 8:28 - God works all things together for the good of those who love him Pentecost - nations coming together hearing about Jesus in one language   Next Steps Kori on Shannon's Podcast - How to Live Like It's True that God has Control  Bible2School Podcast Ep #84 w/ Shannon & Kori Bible2School Podcast Ep #135 w/ Shannon, Kori & Lee Start a Bible2School Program in Your Community

Do I truly believe that Jesus has all authority over this world? If so, then why am I fretting? Why am I losing sleep? Why do I have this innate need for control? Rachel Jones joins me on the podcast to talk about the day Jesus's authority was challenged in the synagogue. And the shocking events that unfolded next will convince you that this world's ultimate authority belongs—not to powerful people or evil forces, but to Jesus alone.We're looking at one of the example texts Rachel used in her new book, The Quiet Time KickStarter. If reading the Bible is one of your goals for '25 check out this fabulous new resource from Rachel Jones, published by The Good Book. Where else can I listen to this podcast?Go HERE to find this episode on your favorite podcast app, including Apple, Google, Spotify, and more.Guest: Rachel JonesBible Passage: Jesus Drives Out an Impure Spirit - Mark 1:21-28 NIVGet your Free Resource: False Narrative WatchlistRecommended Resources: Check out Rachel's new book, "The Quiet Time Kickstart" on Shannon's Amazon Storefront HERE"God's Word for You" Bible CommentariesResound Media Network: www.ResoundMedia.ccMusic: Cade PopkinRachel JonesRachel Jones is the author of A Brief Theology of Periods (Yes, Really), Is This It?, and several books in the award-winning Five Things to Pray series, and serves as Vice President (Editorial) at The Good Book Company. She helps teach kids at her church, King's Church Chessington, in Surrey, UK.Connect with Rachel:WebsiteInstagramFacebook Visit ComparisonGirl.com and get the answers both she and you need in my new book, Comparison Girl for Teens: Thriving Beyond Measure in a World That Compares. Conversation starters, quizzes and more. Get your free False Narrative Watchlist. Learn more at ShannonPopkin.com.

Have you ever thought to ask God for just a crumb? Have you considered that the smallest piece of God's mercy is extravagantly more than what you need? Join us on this episode of the Live Like It's True podcast, where Shannon is joined by Erika VanHaitsma, from "The Context and Color of the Bible" podcast, to hear about how Jesus is astonished by the extravagant faith of a Canaanite woman, who is more than happy to beg, like a puppy, for a crumb-sized helping of what Jesus has to offer.Guest: Erika VanHaitsmaBible Passage: The Faith of a Canaanite Woman - Matthew 15:21-28Get your Free Resource: False Narrative WatchlistRecommended Resources: Check out Erika's new book, "Faith Walk; 50 Daily Devotionals" on Shannon's Amazon Storefront HEREJesus's Proof that We'll Get New Bodies in Heaven - Erika's Previous Episode on Live Like It's TrueThe Context and Color of the Bible PodcastResound Media Network: www.ResoundMedia.ccMusic: Cade PopkinErika VanHaitsmaErika is married to Bryan and together they have five children, whom she homeschools. Erika attended Moody Bible Institute, as well as Jerusalem University College. She has a Master's Degree in Historical Archaeology and Geography. Erika enjoys hosting "The Context and Color of the Bible" podcast with her sister, Veronica, and also speaking at retreats. Connect with Erika:WebsiteInstagramFacebookPodcast  Visit ComparisonGirl.com and get the answers both she and you need in my new book, Comparison Girl for Teens: Thriving Beyond Measure in a World That Compares. Conversation starters, quizzes and more. Get your free False Narrative Watchlist. Learn more at ShannonPopkin.com.

Have you ever wondered how you can "come to Jesus," when you are living in the 21 century, and He is seated in heaven? Jesus said "come to me," but he spoke those words on a hillside in Israel more than 2,000 years ago. How do I come to him today?On today's episode of the Live Like It's True podcast, Shannon is joined by Felicity Carswell and Sarah Dargue, from the "Two Sisters and a Cup of Tea" podcast, to discuss the answers to these questions, as well as how we can apply the answers to our daily lives. Using John Chapter 6, they reveal how we can feast on Jesus through his Words, even today, to satisfy our hungry souls. Where else can I listen to this podcast?Go HERE to find this episode on your favorite podcast app, including Apple, Google, Spotify, and more.Guest: Felicity Carswell and Sarah Dargue {Two Sisters and a Cup of Tea}Bible Passage: Many Disciples Desert Jesus - John 6:60-71 NIVGet your Free Resource: False Narrative WatchlistRecommended Resources: Check out Shannon's Amazon Storefront HERE10 of Those WebsiteTwo Sisters and a Cup of Tea PodcastResound Media Network: www.ResoundMedia.ccMusic: Cade PopkinTwo Sisters and a Cup of Tea - Felicity and SarahFelicity & Sarah are sisters who grew up in the south of England, came to faith in the North, and now live on different continents.Felicity lives in Chicagoland, Illinois with her husband and two children. She loves people, sport & a good novel, alongside teaching the Bible to women in her local church. Her biscuit of choice is a Chocolate Hobnob. Sarah lives in West London with her husband and three children. She loves being creative, hanging out with people and reading stories to her children, alongside the joys of local church ministry in all its variety. Her biscuit of choice is a Jammy Dodger (with cream).Connect with Guest:WebsiteInstagramFacebookPodcast Visit ComparisonGirl.com and get the answers both she and you need in my new book, Comparison Girl for Teens: Thriving Beyond Measure in a World That Compares. Conversation starters, quizzes and more. Visit www.shannonpopkin.com/promises/ to learn more about my six-week Bible study with Our Daily Bread, titled, "Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith." Learn how you too can be shaped by the promises of our faithful God. Get your free False Narrative Watchlist. Learn more at ShannonPopkin.com.

What do people celebrate about you? Do they love your performance? Do they cheer you on for your successes? And what happens when you can't deliver what everyone expects? Vera Schmitz experienced this, after training for—but not going to—the Olympics. Learn how you, like Vera, can revel in God's love and grace for you, which has nothing to do with your performance.  Also, we're so excited about a special offer from Dwell Differently: Get a free month subscription with this code: THEROCK Ready to build your life on the rock foundation of God's Word? Check out the resources offered by Dwell Differently to help you memorize verses and engage with God's word.Guest: Vera SchmitzBible Verses Mentioned:John 20:31Isaiah 26:3Psalm 23Ephesians 2:8Get your Free Resource: False Narrative WatchlistRecommended Resources: Go to DwellDifferently.com and use code THEROCK for one month free! Check out Vera's new book, Dwell Differently, at my Amazon Storefront HEREComparison Girl by Shannon PopkinComparison Girl for Teens by Shannon Popkin and Lee NienhuisShe Reads Truth WebsiteResound Media Network: www.ResoundMedia.ccMusic: Cade PopkinVera Schmitz is a wife and mom, author and podcast host, co-founder and Chief Creative Officer of Dwell Differently. Vera loves to watch a verse from the Bible come alive artistically and affect people's lives. Vera's new book, Dwell Differently will help you overcome negative thinking with the simple practice of memorizing God's Truth.  Connect with Dwell Differently:WebsiteInstagramFacebookPodcast Visit ComparisonGirl.com and get the answers both she and you need in my new book, Comparison Girl for Teens: Thriving Beyond Measure in a World That Compares. Conversation starters, quizzes and more. Get your free False Narrative Watchlist. Learn more at ShannonPopkin.com.

 "How can this be?" Mary asked the angel. She knew where babies come from. And in response God gave her—and us—tangible proof that he is the God who does the impossible. Joining me for part two of a conversation on the Live Like It's True podcast is Kristi Huseby. Join us and learn how you too can surrender to God and receive the impossible this Christmas. Bible Passage: Luke 1Get your Freebie: False Narrative WatchlistRecommended Resources: Check out Kristi's new book, She Who Dares at my Amazon Storefront HEREResound Media Network: www.ResoundMedia.ccKristi HusebyKristi is an author and speaker, and works as the Director of Community Development at Reach Global, the international arm of the Evangelical Free Churches of America. She travels internationally, training and equipping, empowering women to be lead more effective in their own churches and communities, in the areas God has called them to serve.Connect with Kristi:WebsiteInstagramFacebookGrace Spilled OverKey TakeawaysCollectivist cultures view individual actions as reflective of the family.Mary's unexpected pregnancy would have brought significant social stigma.The angel reveals that God's favor and his challenges are not mutually exclusive.God often chooses the opposite of who we might expect to fulfill His purposes.The story of Mary encourages us to trust in God's plan despite our doubts.  Visit ComparisonGirl.com and get the answers both she and you need in my new book, Comparison Girl for Teens: Thriving Beyond Measure in a World That Compares. Conversation starters, quizzes and more. Get your free False Narrative Watchlist. Learn more at ShannonPopkin.com.

In this episode of Radical Radiance, host Rebecca George is joined by Shannon Popkin to delve into the topic of peace. Shannon reflects on personal experiences and the true meaning of Christmas, emphasizing the need to focus on Jesus rather than getting caught up in the swirl of busy-ness. From the platform, page, and podcast mic, Shannon Popkin invites you to drink deeply of God's story, and live like it's true. Shannon's books include Control Girl, Comparison Girl for Teens, and Shaped by God's Promises. Shannon also hosts the Live Like It's True Bible podcast and has been featured on Revive Our Hearts, FamilyLife Today, The Gospel Coalition, and Proverbs 31. She's happy to be sharing life with Ken, who makes her laugh every day. Together, they have the joy of watching their three young-adult kids become the amazing people God created them to be. Rebecca and Shannon chat about: Shannon's experience of feeling overwhelmed during Christmas What it looks like to experience God's peace Paul's encouragement the Philippians that ton not be anxious but to pray and make requests known to God Jesus is our Prince of Peace Extending peace to others even in conflicts and disagreements The role of peace within ourselves in our relationships Order your Prepare Him Room workbook on Amazon HERE! Links: Order Rebecca's husband's (Dustin George) BRAND NEW BOOK Before Dawn: Knowing God's Presence in the Dark Seasons of Life on Amazon Sponsors: Christian Standard Bible Gift Guide

 What are you trying to control? How is it affecting your relationships with people and with God? Kristi Huseby joins me on the Live Like It's True podcast to talk about the story of Mary, who dangerously risked it all and surrendered to God. And God invites you to do the same.  Bible Passage: Luke 1Get your Freebie: False Narrative WatchlistRecommended Resources: Check out Kristi's new book, She Who Dares at my Amazon Storefront HEREResound Media Network: www.ResoundMedia.ccMusic: Cade PopkinKristi HusebyKristi is an author and speaker, and works as the Director of Community Development at Reach Global, the international arm of the Evangelical Free Churches of America. She travels internationally, training and equipping, empowering women to be lead more effective in their own churches and communities, in the areas God has called them to serve.Connect with Guest:kristihuseby.comwww.instagram.com/kjhuseby/www.facebook.com/kristi.brownhuseby Visit ComparisonGirl.com and get the answers both she and you need in my new book, Comparison Girl for Teens: Thriving Beyond Measure in a World That Compares. Conversation starters, quizzes and more. Get your free False Narrative Watchlist. Learn more at ShannonPopkin.com.

Raising a girl in today's world to follow Jesus is possible! However, if you are a mother, grandmother, auntie, pastor's wife, or small group leader, you need a brand new set of tools to train your beautiful young women in today's culture.    Join Barb and her friends Shannon Popkin and Lee Nienhuis, authors of Teen Comparison Girl, for a brand new conversation equipping you to raise confident, strong Jesus-loving girls in a world that is going after them harder than ever with destructive lies. Make sure that you share this episode with your Christian friends raising daughters!   RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE Connect with Shannon on Facebook and Instagram Connect with Lee on Facebook and Instagram Comparison Girl for Teens: Thriving Beyong Measure in a World That Compares Visit the Comparison Girl Website   ABOUT OUR SPECIAL GUESTS   From the platform, page, and podcast mic, Shannon Popkin invited you to open your Bible, drink deeply of God's story, and live like it's true. Shannon's other books include Control Girl, Comparison Girl, and Shaped by God's Promises. Shannon also hosts the Live Like It's True Bible podcast and has been featured on Revive Our Hearts, FamilyLife Today, The Gospel Coalition, and Proverbs 31.    Lee Nienhuis is an author, speaker, and passionate Bible teacher whose love for the Lord and the Word is contagious. Lee serves as a Communications Specialist, ministry coach, and consultant for many churches and non-profit organizations. With a heart for Inductive Bible Study and missions, she speaks domestically and abroad communicating a dynamic vision for the next generation and biblical literacy.  Lee's books, Brave Moms, Brave Kids: A Battle Plan for Raising Heroes and Counter-Cultural Parenting are a clarion call for parents who are looking to raise whole hearted Christ followers in this generation.     

 Would you like to learn how to make a point without making an enemy? Would you like a compelling way to offer truth in a world of competing narratives? In this second part of my conversation with Gabe Hartfield, we talk about the power of crafting effective stories that resonate with people—whether we're sharing them from a platform or in relationship. Guest: Gabe HartfieldBible Passage: VariousGet your Freebie: False Narrative WatchlistRecommended Resources: Check out resources mentioned at my Amazon Storefront HEREResound Media Network: www.ResoundMedia.ccMusic: Cade PopkinGabe HartfieldGabe Hartfield has been the Young Adults Pastor at Crossroads Bible Church for the last 3 years.  Before that he served as Campus Staff for InterVarsity Christian Fellowship at Davenport University.  He received his M. Div at Grand Rapids Theological Seminary in 2017.Connect with Gabe:Linktree Visit ComparisonGirl.com and get the answers both she and you need in my new book, Comparison Girl for Teens: Thriving Beyond Measure in a World That Compares. Conversation starters, quizzes and more. Get your free False Narrative Watchlist. Learn more at ShannonPopkin.com.

"This one time, when I was twelve..." The next time you're losing your audience, say this and everyone's head will bob up. There's something about story that captures our attention, isn't there? And God—the author of the Bible and the creator of human beings—knows this. Join me for a fascinating conversation on the Live Like It's True podcast with Gabe Hartfield about God's captivating way of revealing truth through story. Guest: Gabe HartfieldBible Passage: VariousGet your Freebie: False Narrative WatchlistRecommended ResourcesGabe Hartfield has been the Young Adults Pastor at Crossroads Bible Church for the last 3 years.  Before that he served as Campus Staff for InterVarsity Christian Fellowship at Davenport University.  He received his M. Div at Grand Rapids Theological Seminary in 2017.Connect with Gabe: Linktree Visit ComparisonGirl.com and get the answers both she and you need in my new book, Comparison Girl for Teens: Thriving Beyond Measure in a World That Compares. Conversation starters, quizzes and more. Get your free False Narrative Watchlist. Learn more at ShannonPopkin.com.

What if we lifted our eyes more? What if we looked up from our screens and phones and took in the simple landscape? What if we made eye contact and actually noticed the people around us?Technology has given us ways to connect, but it's also complicated our relationships with each other as humans, don't you agree? Brenda Yoder is joining me on the Live Like It's True podcast to talk about her new book, Uncomplicated: Simple Secrets for a Compelling Life. Learn why an uncomplicated life involves stewarding the opportunities God has given you to look up and be a good neighbor. Guest: Brenda YoderBible Passage: The Good Samaritan in Luke 10Get your Freebie: False Narrative WatchlistRecommended Resources: Check out Brenda's new book, Uncomplicated at my Amazon Storefront HEREResound Media Network: www.ResoundMedia.ccMusic: Cade PopkinBrenda YoderIf you feel trapped in a chaotic, relentless, demanding lifestyle, there is a way to a more peaceful life. Brenda L. Yoder, a counselor, career woman, and busy mom who's raised her kids on a farm in the heart of Amish country reveals practical skills in Uncomplicated: Simple Secrets for a Compelling Life, a well of timeless wisdom from the Amish, homestead lifestyles, as well as past generationsYoder equips readers of Uncomplicated with 10 timeless virtues, mindsets, and behaviors drawn from past generations to overcome practical obstacles and solve daily challenges with a calm presence, authentic faith, and a voice of reason.Connect with Guest:brendayoder.comMidlife Moms PodcastIG: @brendayoderspeaks Facebook: @brendayoderspeaker Visit ComparisonGirl.com and get the answers both she and you need in my new book, Comparison Girl for Teens: Thriving Beyond Measure in a World That Compares. Conversation starters, quizzes and more. Get your free False Narrative Watchlist. Learn more at ShannonPopkin.com.

In the Bible, there's always a door between God's destruction and his deliverance. Some people try to blockade themselves and keep destruction out. But a much wiser approach—the one Rahab took—is to choose safety behind the door of deliverance that God provides. Are you behind the door? In part two of a conversation on the story of Rahab in Joshua 2, Shannon welcomes Shadia Hrichi backs to the Live Like It's True podcast for a fascinating conversation about deliverance from destruction. Guest: Shadia HrichiBible Passage: Rahab Hides the Spies - Joshua 2:8-14 ESVGet your Freebie: False Narrative WatchlistResound Media Network: www.ResoundMedia.ccRecommended ResourcesCheck out Shadia's new book, Rahab: Rediscovering the God Who Saves Me, at my Amazon Storefront HEREShaped by God's Promises by Shannon PopkinHow to Stir Souls in a Post Christian World - Live Like It's True Episode with Darin + Joy StevensMusic: Cade PopkinShadia HrichiShadia is a passionate Bible teacher, award-winning author and speaker who has a heart for seeing lives transformed by the power of God's Word. She holds a master's in biblical and theological studies and is the author of numerous articles and Bible studies.Shadia's study, Rahab: Rediscovering the God Who Saves Me is part of her "Behind the Seen" series. Gritty stories of real people with impossible challenges whose encounters with God open our eyes to His awesome power and love working behind the seen. Visit ComparisonGirl.com and get the answers both she and you need in my new book, Comparison Girl for Teens: Thriving Beyond Measure in a World That Compares. Conversation starters, quizzes and more. Get your free False Narrative Watchlist. Learn more at ShannonPopkin.com.

What would God do if there was only one in a city of thousands, who wanted to be rescued by him? And what if that one person was a prostitute? On the Live Like It's True podcast, we're talking about the astonishing story of the spies God sent to Jericho—not for a reconnaissance mission, but a mission to rescue a prostitute named Rahab.   Guest: Shadia HrichiBible Passage: Rahab Hides the Spies - Joshua 2:1-7 ESVGet your Freebie: False Narrative WatchlistResound Media Network: www.ResoundMedia.ccRecommended ResourcesCheck out Shadia's new book, Rahab: Rediscovering the God Who Saves Me, at my Amazon Storefront HEREShaped by God's Promises by Shannon PopkinThe Pour Over News SourceMusic: Cade PopkinShadia Hrichi is a passionate Bible teacher, award-winning author and speaker who has a heart for seeing lives transformed by the power of God's Word. She holds a master's in biblical and theological studies and is the author of numerous articles and Bible studies. Shadia's study, Rahab: Rediscovering the God Who Saves Me is part of her "Behind the Seen" series. Gritty stories of real people with impossible challenges whose encounters with God open our eyes to His awesome power and love working behind the seen. Connect with Shadia:WebsiteInstagramFacebook Visit ComparisonGirl.com and get the answers both she and you need in my new book, Comparison Girl for Teens: Thriving Beyond Measure in a World That Compares. Conversation starters, quizzes and more. Get your free False Narrative Watchlist. Learn more at ShannonPopkin.com.

How has God used a storm to show you that you're not in control? And how has he used that storm to invite you to surrender control to Him? In this episode of the Live Like It's True podcast, Kori Pennypacker of Bible2School.com and I are talking about the story of Jonah—the prophet who stubbornly tried to run away from God and was swallowed by a whale. Consider how God is asking you to live like it's true that He (not you) is the one who has control.Listen on: Apple | Spotify | OtherGuest: Kori PennypackerBible Passage: The Story of Jonah - Jonah 1-3:3Freebie: Live Like It's True WorkbookResound Media: Go to www.ResoundMedia.cc for more Gospel centered resources.Mentioned Resources:"You CAN Tell the Children" Podcast Episode featuring Shannon Discussing: "Comparison Girl for Teens""You CAN Tell the Children" Podcast Episode featuring Shannon Discussing: "What To Do When Control Shows Up In Our Parenting"Control Girl: Lessons on Surrender Your Burden of Control From Seven Women of the Bible by Shannon PopkinBible Bus Story Mentioned in this EpisodeMusic: Cade PopkinBible2SchoolFor more than 40 years, Bible2School has been providing weekly released time Bible classes for 2nd, 3rd, & 4th graders in public school.We have a passion for children and Jesus. We believe that everyone, especially children, should experience the power of God's love. Our hope is that our ministry will impact communities across the nation. Our vision is for every public school in our nation to have a dynamic Bible program taught during their school day as allowed by national released time court rulings.Connect with Bible2School:WebsiteFacebookInstagram Check out the Context and Color of the Bible Podcast! Visit www.shannonpopkin.com/promises/ to learn more about my six-week Bible study with Our Daily Bread, titled, "Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith." Learn how you too can be shaped by the promises of our faithful God. Get your free False Narrative Watchlist. Learn more at ShannonPopkin.com.

Do you ever struggle to believe in God's promises, especially when there seems to be a delay? Shannon Popkin invites us to be shaped by God's promises in the waiting in, Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith? This six-week Bible study explores the life of Sarah in Genesis 12-21 and offers helpful commentary, practical illustrations, moving stories, and heart-searching questions—From the platform, page, and podcast mic, my passion is to invite women to open their Bibles, drink deeply of God's story and live like it's true. My books include Control Girl, Comparison Girl, and Comparison Girl for Teens and I host the Live Like It's True Bible podcast.

How do we stop the cycle of comparison, especially for teenage girls? Lee Nienhaus, co-author of Comparison Girl, helps us identify the lies holding us hostage to comparison and live in freedom. Lee Nienhuis is an author, speaker, and Bible teacher whose love for the Lord and the Word is contagious. With a heart for Inductive Bible Study and missions, she speaks domestically and abroad communicating a dynamic vision for the next generation and biblical literacy. Lee's books, Brave Moms, Brave Kids and Counter-Cultural Parenting, and teen curriculums are a clear call to wholehearted Christ-following.

 How has your jadedness kept you from seeing clearly? And how could simple faith open your eyes to the truth? Melissa Spoelstra and I are talking about a story in the Bible, where people were divided in how they saw Jesus after he leaned down and made mud by spitting in the dirt. The line dividing these people—and us today—will ultimately separate them into life and death, or heaven and hell-bound groups.  Guest: Melissa SpoelstraBible Passage: Jesus Heals a Man Born Blind - John 9:1 - 41 NLTGet your Freebie: False Narrative WatchlistResound Media Network: www.ResoundMedia.ccMentioned ResourcesThe Gospel of John: Savoring Peace in a Chaotic World by Melissa SpoelstraMusic: Cade PopkinMelissa Spoelstra is a Christ-follower, who is madly in love with Jesus and addicted to the study of His Word. She is passionate about knowing Christ and inspiring other women to seek Him by opening their ears to listen to His Spirit, reading His Word curiously, asking questions, exercising good hermeneutics, and clinging tightly to God through the storms of life.Melissa is a wife to her awesome pastor husband Sean, and mother to Zach, Abby, Sara, and Rachel.She has a degree in Bible Theology from Moody Bible Institute, and is a contributor for Proverbs 31 ministries First Five app.Melissa has written ten Bible studies complete with teaching videos, leader's guide, and participant workbooks, plus several other books. Website: www.melissaspoelstra.comInstagram: @melissa.spoelstraFacebook: @authormelissaspoelstraTwitter: @melspoelstraLive Like It's True is part of the Resound Podcast Network. For more gospel centered resources visit ResoundMedia.cc . Visit www.shannonpopkin.com/promises/ to learn more about my six-week Bible study with Our Daily Bread, titled, "Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith." Learn how you too can be shaped by the promises of our faithful God. Visit ComparisonGirl.com and get the answers both she and you need in my new book, Comparison Girl for Teens: Thriving Beyond Measure in a World That Compares. Conversation starters, quizzes and more. Learn more at ShannonPopkin.com.

When I (Joanna) was in middle school, I can remember having a love of learning, I enjoyed being outdoors and moving through childhood content with who I was. It wasn't until I moved to a new school and got my hands on my first Seventeen Magazine that it seemed like I was overwhelmed with feelings of not being enough. I felt like I wasn't pretty enough, popular enough, or good enough to be wanted and loved for who I was.I think most girls could tell you the moment when comparison drove insecurity deep into their spirit. As we parent our daughters, we want to be aware of how comparison is destructive to their mind, their body, and their souls as they grow.We are so excited to have Shannon Popkin and Lee Nienhuis, authors of Comparison Girl for Teens: Thriving Beyond Measure in a World That Compares, with us on the podcast for this episode.In this episode, Shannon & Lee share with us:What it means to be a “comparison girl”Some comparison cues to look out for as you interact with your daughterThe importance of biblical literacy when it comes to issues of self-worthAnd much more!We hope you find encouragement and hope in this episode!Show Notes: growinghometogether.com/popkin-nienhuis-96

I'd love to hear from you! What if God eavesdropped on your heart? Would he hear you sighing and scoffing about impossible situations? Would he see you rolling your eyes at the idea things could change? In this conversation with Hope Blanton and Chris Gordon on the Live Like It's True Podcast, we're discussing the day God came to lunch at Sarah's table, and inviting her to be vulnerable and take a great leap of faith, even when it felt too risky to hope.Guests: Hope Blanton and Christine GordonBible Passage: Genesis 18:1-15Get your Freebie: Pray the Promises + Leader's GuideMentioned ResourcesBreakthrough Faith After Chronic Suffering and Hopelessness - Hope and Christine's Last Episode on Live Like It's TrueShaped by God's Promises - New Bible Study by Shannon PopkinMisreading Scripture with Western Eyes: Removing Cultural Blinders to Better Understand the Bible by E. Randolph Richards and Brandon J. O'BrienColossians: At His Feet StudiesConnect with Hope and ChristineWebsite: At His Feet StudiesInstagram: @athisfeetstudiesFacebook: @athisfeetstudiesLive Like It's True is part of the Resound Podcast Network. For more gospel centered resources visit ResoundMedia.cc . Visit www.shannonpopkin.com/promises/ to learn more about my six-week Bible study with Our Daily Bread, titled, "Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith." Learn how you too can be shaped by the promises of our faithful God. Visit ComparisonGirl.com and get the answers both she and you need in my new book, Comparison Girl for Teens: Thriving Beyond Measure in a World That Compares. Conversation starters, quizzes and more.

Guest Bio: Shannon Popkin is the author of  Comparison Girl, Control Girl, and (forthcoming) Shaped by God's Promises (Our Daily Bread Publishing, 2024). Shannon is a speaker and hosts the Live Like It's True Bible podcast. For more from Shannon, visit shannonpopkin.com, or connect with her on Instagram, Facebook, or YouTube.    Show Summary: What are some promises God gives in His Word that you hold on to? God is a Promise Keeper, but all through Scripture we see examples of His people taking things into their own hands. Author and speaker Shannon Popkin has spent some time looking into how Sarah and Abraham immediately discounted the promises God gave them. Shannon realized that even when God makes His ways known, we tend to want things in our timing. Join hosts Elisa Morgan and Vivian Mabuni as they talk with Shannon about how God is a promise keeper on this episode of God Hears Her.    Notes and Quotes:  “I like to think of God's promises as a set of parentheses, you never have one parenthesis without the other. The first is God makes the promise, the second is God keeps the promise.” —Shannon Popkin  “Most of our [life is spent] living in the parentheses and waiting in the parentheses for the promises to come about.” —Elisa Morgan “We don't learn God's faithfulness in a minute. We see His faithfulness over time.” —Shannon Popkin  “God will be faithful, He is a faithful God. He is a God who makes promises and keeps promises, and He invites us to live like it's true that He will keep these promises to us.” —Shannon Popkin   Verses:  John 3:1-21 Matthew 19:14 Genesis 12 Joshua 24:1-4, 14-15 Genesis 3 Matthew 27 Genesis 50:20 Ruth 4 Hebrews 11 John 15:1-17   Links:  God Hears Her website: https://www.godhearsher.org/ God Hears Her email sign-up: https://www.godhearsher.org/sign-upsfmc  Subscribe on iTunes! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/god-hears-her-podcast/id1511046507?utm_source=applemusic&utm_medium=godhearsher&utm_campaign=podcast Shaped By God's Promises: https://www.shannonpopkin.com/my-books/ Eryn's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eryneddy/ Vivian's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vivmabuni/ Shannon's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shannonpopkin/   MB01Y1MQUWEIJEH

Guest Bio: Shannon Popkin is the author of  Comparison Girl, Control Girl, and (forthcoming) Shaped by God's Promises (Our Daily Bread Publishing, 2024). Shannon is a speaker and hosts the Live Like It's True Bible podcast. For more from Shannon, visit shannonpopkin.com, or connect with her on Instagram, Facebook, or YouTube.    Show Summary: What are some promises God gives in His Word that you hold on to? God is a Promise Keeper, but all through Scripture we see examples of His people taking things into their own hands. Author and speaker Shannon Popkin has spent some time looking into how Sarah and Abraham immediately discounted the promises God gave them. Shannon realized that even when God makes His ways known, we tend to want things in our timing. Join hosts Elisa Morgan and Vivian Mabuni as they talk with Shannon about how God is a promise keeper on this episode of God Hears Her.    Notes and Quotes:  “I like to think of God's promises as a set of parentheses, you never have one parenthesis without the other. The first is God makes the promise, the second is God keeps the promise.” —Shannon Popkin  “Most of our [life is spent] living in the parentheses and waiting in the parentheses for the promises to come about.” —Elisa Morgan “We don't learn God's faithfulness in a minute. We see His faithfulness over time.” —Shannon Popkin  “God will be faithful, He is a faithful God. He is a God who makes promises and keeps promises, and He invites us to live like it's true that He will keep these promises to us.” —Shannon Popkin   Verses:  John 3:1-21 Matthew 19:14 Genesis 12 Joshua 24:1-4, 14-15 Genesis 3 Matthew 27 Genesis 50:20 Ruth 4 Hebrews 11 John 15:1-17   Links:  God Hears Her website: https://www.godhearsher.org/ God Hears Her email sign-up: https://www.godhearsher.org/sign-upsfmc  Subscribe on iTunes! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/god-hears-her-podcast/id1511046507?utm_source=applemusic&utm_medium=godhearsher&utm_campaign=podcast Shaped By God's Promises: https://www.shannonpopkin.com/my-books/ Eryn's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eryneddy/ Vivian's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vivmabuni/ Shannon's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shannonpopkin/   MB01Y1MQUWEIJEH

I'd love to hear from you! God is in control. We say that, but sometimes it's hard to believe it with the whole world seems to be coming unhinged.In this episode of Live Like It's True I'm talking with military spouse, Beth Runkle, about a section of Sarah's story that is hard to read. Abram has put Sarai in a vulnerable position and she's taken by Pharaoh into his harem where she remains for months. Yet  by the end of the story, you'll be more convinced than ever that God is in control.Guest: Beth RunkleBible Passage: Sarai in Pharaoh's Harem - Genesis 12:1-4Freebie: 25 Ways to Pray for the Military (by Beth Runkle)Pray the PromisesResound Media: Go to www.ResoundMedia.cc for more Gospel centered resources.Mentioned Resources:Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and FaithAnother Move, God? by Beth RunkleMusic: Cade PopkinLive Like It's True is part of the Resound Podcast Network. For more gospel centered resources visit ResoundMedia.cc . Visit www.shannonpopkin.com/promises/ to learn more about my six-week Bible study with Our Daily Bread, titled, "Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith." Learn how you too can be shaped by the promises of our faithful God. Visit ComparisonGirl.com and get the answers both she and you need in my new book, Comparison Girl for Teens: Thriving Beyond Measure in a World That Compares. Conversation starters, quizzes and more.

Today Heather talks with Shannon Popkin and Lee Neinhuis, authors of a new book about comparison for teen girls, about how women of all ages are tempted to compare themselves to others. The trio discusses the challenge of finding identity in Christ. The struggle to figure out how God made you and what he made unique about you while wanting to fit in and not be "different" from everyone else. Lee and Shannon offer beautiful stories and illustrations that will encourage you and equip you to encourage a teen in your life who may struggle with comparison.  Do you struggle with comparison? Does a teen in your life seem to always be comparing herself to others? Do you wonder how to effectively encourage teens not to compare themselves to others and to learn confidence in Christ? Then this episode is for you! Learn more about Shannon and Lee and their brand new book, Comparison-Girl for Teens here: https://leenienhuis.com/comparison-girl-for-teens/ Buy a copy of the book here (amazon affiliate link) https://amzn.to/4bTXyDN Connect with Compared to Who? or learn more about the 40-Day Body Image Workbook here: https://www.improvebodyimage.com   Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

I'd love to hear from you! Why does she have more? Why do I have less? And what does Jesus say, when I want what's fair? In this episode of the Live Like It's True Podcast, we're looking at a story Jesus told in response to these very questions—the parable about the bigger barns.  I'm so honored to have Lydia Brownback, author of the Flourish Bible Studies, joining me for this conversation. Listen in and find out how you can heed Jesus's warning about a "bigger barns" mindset, and find contentment and security instead.Guest: Lydia BrownbackBible Passage: Parable of the Bigger Barns - Luke 12:13-24 (ESV)Get your Freebie: The Live Like It's True WorkbookMentioned ResourcesLuke: Good News of Great Joy (Flourish Bible Study)ESV Study BibleLydia, as guest on "Help Me Teach the Bible" with Nancy GuthrieMusic: Cade PopkinLydia BrownbackLydia Brownback is passionate about promoting biblical doctrine with a high view of God. She is the author of several books, including the Flourish Bible Study series, and a speaker at Christian conferences and events. Lydia holds an MAR in biblical studies from Westminster Theological Seminary (Philadelphia) and a BS in communications from Syracuse University. More information about Lydia can be found at lydiabrownback.com.Connect with Lydia:Website: lydiabrownback.comInstagram: @lydiabrownback_authorFacebook: @lydia.brownbackShaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith {buy now}Comparison Girl for Teens {buy now} Visit www.shannonpopkin.com/promises/ to learn more about my six-week Bible study with Our Daily Bread, titled, "Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith." Learn how you too can be shaped by the promises of our faithful God. Visit ComparisonGirl.com and get the answers both she and you need in my new book, Comparison Girl for Teens: Thriving Beyond Measure in a World That Compares. Conversation starters, quizzes and more.

I'd love to hear from you! Have you ever felt unworthy, because of your sin? Or have you every tried to comfort yourself by comparing with someone who sinned in worse ways that you? In this series, we're looking at comparison stories that Jesus told, and this one is a story about comparing sin. But it's a story with a twist that might surprise you in the best way—especially if you're the one feeling unworthy.Guest: Lindsay SchottBible Passage: "The Pharisee and the Publican" Luke 18:9-14Teen Comparison Quizzes: ComparisonGirl.comMentioned ResourcesLindsay Schott ArtworkTeach Equip"Christians in an Age of Outrage" by Ed StetzerLive Like It's True Podcast Episode with Lindsay Schott on RestShaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith {buy now}Comparison Girl for Teens {buy now} Visit www.shannonpopkin.com/promises/ to learn more about my six-week Bible study with Our Daily Bread, titled, "Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith." Learn how you too can be shaped by the promises of our faithful God. Visit ComparisonGirl.com and get the answers both she and you need in my new book, Comparison Girl for Teens: Thriving Beyond Measure in a World That Compares. Conversation starters, quizzes and more. Get our free "Pray God's Promises" prayer guide. Go to Shannonpopkin.com/PROMISES/ for more information on my neww Bible study, Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith.

I'd love to hear from you! Have you considered the magnitude of God's promises to you? Has your life been shaped by those promises, the way Abraham and Sarah's were? I'm so grateful for Courtney Doctor and her brilliant mind. Don't miss part one of this great conversation. This time, we're talking about all of the surprises tucked into the origin story of God's people. Guest: Courtney DoctorBible Passage: Genesis 12:1-4Freebie: Praying the PromisesResound Media: Go to www.ResoundMedia.cc for more Gospel centered resources.Mentioned Resources:“An Absurd Story of Being Fooled by God's Enemy”– Courtney's Episode on Live Like It's TrueThe Gospel Coalition's Women's Conference – (TGCW24) June 20, 2024 - June 22, 2024Register for my Breakout Session at TGCW – Gospel Thriving For Teens in a World That ComparesBehold and Believe: A Bible Study on the “I Am” Statements of Jesus by Courtney DoctorFrom Garden to Glory by Courtney DoctorPurchase on Amazon: Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and FaithLearn More about my new study: Shaped by God's PromisesMusic: Cade PopkinCourtney DoctorCourtney is a wife and mom, author and Bible teacher, director of women's initiatives at The Gospel Coalition. In her new book, From Garden to Glory: How Understanding God's Story Changes Yours (on sale May 7, 2024), Courtney gives an overview of the Bible—from God's creation to new creation and the role believers play.Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith {buy now}Comparison Girl for Teens {buy now} Visit www.shannonpopkin.com/promises/ to learn more about my six-week Bible study with Our Daily Bread, titled, "Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith." Learn how you too can be shaped by the promises of our faithful God.

I'd love to hear from you! When Courtney was in her early twenties, she was in a church membership class, where the gospel was being explained and she kept raising her hand, saying, "I chose God. I know; I was there..." Can you relate with the sense that you were the one who chose God? What if your story is actually one of God taking the initiative? And what if that was actually really good news? I'm so grateful to have Courtney Doctor returning to the Live Like It's True podcast, where we're in the second part of our Sarah series—considering the story of Sarah found in Genesis 12-21 which started with God choosing her little family of two and promising to make of them a great nation.Guest: Courtney DoctorBible Passage: Genesis 12:1-4Freebie: Praying the PromisesResound Media: Go to www.ResoundMedia.cc for more Gospel centered resources.Mentioned Resources:“An Absurd Story of Being Fooled by God's Enemy”– Courtney's Episode on Live Like It's TrueThe Gospel Coalition's Women's Conference – (TGCW) June 20 –  22, 2024Register for my Breakout Session at TGCW – Gospel Thriving For Teens in a World That ComparesBehold and Believe: A Bible Study on the “I Am” Statements of Jesus by Courtney DoctorFrom Garden to Glory by Courtney DoctorPurchase on Amazon: Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and FaithLearn More about my new study: Shaped by God's PromisesMusic: Cade PopkinCourtney DoctorCourtney is a wife and mom, author and Bible teacher, director of women's initiatives at The Gospel Coalition. In her new book, From Garden to Glory: How Understanding God's Story Changes Yours (on sale May 7, 2024), Courtney gives an overview of the Bible—from God's creation to new creation and the role believers play.Connect with Courtney:Website: CourtneyDoctor.comInstagram: @courtneydoctorShaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith {buy now}Comparison Girl for Teens {buy now} Visit www.shannonpopkin.com/promises/ to learn more about my six-week Bible study with Our Daily Bread, titled, "Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith." Learn how you too can be shaped by the promises of our faithful God.

"Which of us is the greatest, Jesus?" Jesus's response to the disciples might surprise you, but it also might bright you comfort and peace. There's a foolproof way to be great in the kingdom of God, and it's backward from the way of the world. Want to learn the secret?Join Kelly Needham and I on the Live Like It's True Podcast, as we talk about Jesus's illustration of a child, in response to his disciples asking, "Who's the greatest?"Guest: Kelly NeedhamBible Passage: "Who is the Greatest?" Matthew 18:1-5Get your Freebie: The Live Like It's True WorkbookMentioned ResourcesHow to Bear God's Image by Gender {Kelly Needham}How to Overcome My Desire to Control My Husband (Kelly Needham}How to Live Like it's True that You're Forgiven {Kelly Needham}Your Eternal Reward by Erwin LutzerComparison Girl for Teens: Thriving Beyond Measure in a World That Compares by Lee Nienhuis and Shannon PopkinThe Treasure Principle by Randy AlcornOne Minute After You Die Sermon by Erwin LutzerConnect with Kelly:Website: KellyNeedham.comKelly Needham: FacebookKelly Needham- InstagramShaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith {buy now}Comparison Girl for Teens {buy now} Get our free "Pray God's Promises" prayer guide. Go to Shannonpopkin.com/PROMISES/ for more information on my neww Bible study, Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith. Visit ResoundMedia.cc for the Live Leadership Podcast, along with other Gospel centered resources.

Last week, I attended the Podcasting Made Simple LIVE quarterly conference. It's hosted by Alex Sanfilippo, founder of Podmatch and host of the Podcasting Made Simple podcast.I was taking notes like crazy on hosting and guesting and wanted to share 8 of my favorite takeaways with you.RESOURCES MENTIONED:Connect with Alex:https://podpros.comPodmatch (aff):https://kimstewartmarketing.com/podmatchBuzzsprout for hosting your public podcast (try it out)https://kimstewartmarketing.com/buzzsproutRELATED EPISODES:Audit Your Book Marketing Strategies #73 https://kimstewartmarketing.com/73Create a Guestcast to Share Your Interviews #27https://kimstewartmarketing.com/27How to Pitch a Podcast (and how to find shows) #34https://kimstewartmarketing.com/34Stop Being a Comparison Girl #16https://kimstewartmarketing.com/16Four ways to overcome your podcasting fears #101https://kimstewartmarketing.com/101Sharing authentic content on Instagram #4https://kimstewartmarketing.com/4Writing off social as an author #75https://kimstewartmarketing.com/75BOOK A STRATEGY SESSION:https://kimstewartmarketing.com/podstrategyLET'S CONNECT:InstagramLinkedinAffiliate links may be included at no cost to you. I only recommend products I know you will love!

What if Jesus could read your thoughts about other people's sins? And what about your own sins? Do you have shameful secrets that seem too awful to even confess? In this episode, we're going to consider a story Jesus told at a dinner party where someone was comparing sin. It's a story that exposes our false narratives about sin, and invites us into a beautiful story of forgiveness.Tasha is an author, speaker, Bible teacher, and the host of the “Digging In with Tasha Calvert” weekly podcast.Guest: Tasha CalvertBible Passage: Story of the Two Debtors in Luke 7:36-50 CSBTeen Comparison Quizzes: ComparisonGirl.comMentioned Resources: Digging In Podcast with Tasha CalvertPrestonwood Women - studies and Bible teaching that Prestonwood makes available upon request.Prestonwood Women - resources on Youtube and Right Now MediaComparison Girl for Teens: Thriving Beyond Measure in a World That Compares by Lee Nienhuis and Shannon PopkinWorship the King by Chris TiegreenThe Gospel Primer by Milton VincentTranscript: Available hereMusic: Cade PopkinResound Media: Go to www.ResoundMedia.cc for more Gospel centered resources.Connect with Tasha:Website: tashacalvert.comInstagram: tistashcalvertPodcast: Digging In with Tasha CalvertShaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith {buy now}Comparison Girl for Teens {buy now} Get our free "Pray God's Promises" prayer guide. Go to Shannonpopkin.com/PROMISES/ for more information on my neww Bible study, Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith.

Does the Bible say anything about overcoming negative body image? Heather Creekmore helps us live free from body shame by finding our identity in Christ alone.  https://livesteadyon.com/ Email Angie at: steadyonpodcast@gmail.com Facebook: @livesteadyon Instagram: @angiebaughman421 Looking for something not listed? It's probably here: https://linktr.ee/livesteadyon  https://www.improvebodyimage.com/https://www.facebook.com/groups/comparedtowhohttps://www.instagram.com/comparedtowhohttps://www.youtube.com/comparedtowhohttps://www.pinterest.com/comparedtowho/  Heather Creekmore is a podcaster, author, and television failed baker. She will charm you with her humor and touch you with her heart for reaching women with the breathtaking truth of the Gospel of Jesus Christ.   Heather feels the pulse of women who wrestle with their body image and comparison. She's tried the diets, exercise gizmos, and expensive weight loss pills. She's battled the brownies, felt shame over pant's size, and fought that same sense of insecurity that plagues so many women. Heather has been featured on a variety of news outlets including: Fox News, Huff Post, Church Leaders, Moms Struggling Well, and Good Morning Texas. But Heather is most recognized from her appearance on the Netflix show, "Nailed It" (S1, Ep1).   Heather and her fighter-pilot-turned pastor husband live outside of Austin, Texas with their four children. When's she's not destroying baked goods, Heather homeschools her brood of four children, shops clearance racks, and travels. Learn more about Heather and follow her blog at www.Comparedtowho.me or listen to her podcast also called Compared to Who? Heather's latest book is, “The 40-Day Body Image Workbook: Hope for Christian Women Who've Tried Everything”  Angie's first interview with Heather can be found here:https://livesteadyon.com/2021/04/21/episode-48-the-burden-of-better-with-heather-creekmore/ Angie mentioned:Book, “Comparison Girl” by Shannon Popkin Heather's interview with Shannon Popkin:https://comparedtowho.me/podcast-quitting-the-comparison-girl-game-with-shannon-popkin/  Theme music:Glimmer by Andy Ellison

What would Jesus say about your efforts to get healthy? When you wake up in the morning, is your first thought about what you ate the night before? Has your lifelong obsession been to finally like what you see in the mirror?With the launch of Comparison Girl for Teens, I've invited a number of guests to join me on the Live Like It's True podcast, to talk through various ways we tend to compare ourselves and what Jesus has to say about it. In this episode, we are comparing our skin-deep packaging. Often we're not only comparing our appearances with others; we're comparing ourselves against what we're "supposed" to look like. Guest: Heather CreekmoreBible Passage: Whitewashed Tombs - Matthew 23:27-28Teen Comparison Quizzes: ComparisonGirl.comMentioned Resources40 Day Body Image Workbook by Heather CreekmoreAging Gratefully by Heather Creekmore Comparison Girl for Teens: Thriving Beyond Measure in a World That Compares by Lee Nienhuis and Shannon PopkinCompared to Who? Podcast with Shannon as GuestHeather CreekmoreHeather Creekmore writes and speaks hope to thousands of women each week inspiring them to stop comparing and start living. She's the author of four books including her 40-Day Body Image Workbook: Hope for Christian Women Who've Tried Everything and Aging Gratefully a devotional on aging for women in midlife. Heather has been featured on Fox News, Huff Post, Morning Dose, Church Leaders, For Every Mom, and dozens of other shows and podcasts.Connect with HeatherWebsite: Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith {buy now}Comparison Girl for Teens {buy now} Get our free "Pray God's Promises" prayer guide. Go to Shannonpopkin.com/PROMISES/ for more information on my neww Bible study, Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith. Visit ResoundMedia.cc for the Live Leadership Podcast, along with other Gospel centered resources.

These days, teen girls are under relentless pressure to measure up to peers and social media influencers. The expectations feel impossible to meet.Today, I'm partnering with my friends Lee Nienhuis and Shannon Popkin to share a conversation about this important topic. Lee and Shannon are authors and speakers who have teamed up to write a book, Comparison Girl for Teens, that gives help and hope to moms and daughters navigating this challenge. We're exploring what teen girls need to break free of the comparison trap and how moms can come alongside our daughters to encourage and affirm them.In this episode, we talk about:How comparison follows us through every stage of lifeDealing with the way social media increases our tendency to compareHow learning to live “me free” increases our peaceAnd more!I hope you find this conversation as encouraging as I did!Show Notes: https://jillsavage.org/lee-shannon-194Check out our other resources: Mark and Jill's Marriage Story Marriage Coaching Marriage 2.0 Intensives Speaking Schedule Book Mark and Jill to Speak Online Courses Books Marriage Resources: Infidelity Recovery For Happy Marriages For Hurting Marriages For Marriages Where You're the Only One Wanting to Get Help Mom Resources: New/Preschool Moms Moms with Gradeschoolers Moms with Teens and Tweens Moms with Kids Who Are Launching Empty Nest...

When a teen walks into a room, statistics show that there's an 80% chance she believes she doesn't belong there. She wonders, Am I okay? What are they thinking? How do I measure up? In our new book, Comparison Girl for Teens we're inviting teens to find new freedom, confidence and true influence in the middle of a world that compares.Guest: Lee NienhuisBible Passage: What Did Jesus Say about Comparison?Take the Teen Quizzes: ComparisonGirl.comMentioned ResourcesComparison Girl for Teens: Thriving Beyond Measure in a World That Compares by Lee Nienhuis and Shannon PopkinBrave Moms, Brave Kids by Lee NeinhuisCounter Cultural Parenting by Lee NienhuisMusic: Cade PopkinLee NienhuisLee is a passionate Bible teacher who invites girls of all ages to pray boldly and believe God for their own generation and the next. Lee's books include Brave Moms, Brave Kids and Countercultural Parenting and she cohosts several podcasts.Lee and her husband, Mike, have four great kids and live at a Christian Camp in West Michigan. When she isn't at sporting events or whipping up dinners, she loves hot cups of coffee, deep friendships and laughing till her sides ache.Connect with Lee:LeeNienhuis.comFacebookInstagramBooksBrave Moms, Brave KidsCountercultural ParentingComparison Girl for TeensShaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith {buy now}Comparison Girl for Teens {buy now} Get our free "Pray God's Promises" prayer guide. Go to Shannonpopkin.com/PROMISES/ for more information on my neww Bible study, Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith. Visit ResoundMedia.cc for the Live Leadership Podcast, along with other Gospel centered resources.

If you don't know what to do because your husband doesn't seem to love you anymore, and you're worried your marriage is dead, this conversation about what God did in my friend Jill's marriage offers so much hope. Jill Savage is an author and speaker, and she and her husband Mark do marriage coaching—which might surprise you if you heard part one of our conversation, titled, “When He Lies and Betrays: One Woman's Story of Redemption.” But just wait till you hear about how God resurrected a marriage that had no pulse.Jill's story is also part of my new Bible study on the life of Sarah, Shaped by God's Promises. Whether you're here because you're studying through this book with me, or you're a regular listener, I hope you'll be inspired by Jill's story of God's faithfulness.Listen on: Apple | Spotify | OtherGuest: Jill SavageBible Passage: Genesis 20Freebies:The Live Like It's True WorkbookPraying the PromisesResound Media: Go to www.ResoundMedia.cc for more Gospel centered resources.Mentioned Resources:No More Perfect MarriageMark and Jill's Marriage CoachingPurchase on Amazon: Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and FaithLearn More about my new study: Shaped by God's PromisesMusic: Cade PopkinShaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith {buy now}Comparison Girl for Teens {buy now} Get our free "Pray God's Promises" prayer guide. Go to Shannonpopkin.com/PROMISES/ for more information on my neww Bible study, Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith.

She never expected what she saw on his phone that night. And no one expected the surprise ending to their story. Joining me on the Live Like It's True podcast, Jill Savage tells her story of discovering her husband's affair, and how God sustained her through a very difficult season. This is part one of a two-part conversation of redemption and hope. I shared part of Jill's story in my Bible study on the life of Sarah, Shaped by God's Promises. Whether you're here because you're studying through this books with me, or you're here as a regular listener, I hope you'll be inspired by Jill's story of God's faithfulness. Guest: Jill SavageBible Passage: Genesis 20Freebies:The Live Like It's True WorkbookPraying the PromisesResound Media: Go to www.ResoundMedia.cc for more Gospel centered resources.Mentioned Resources:No More Perfect MarriagesMark and Jill's Marriage CoachingPurchase on Amazon: Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and FaithLearn More about my new study: Shaped by God's PromisesMusic: Cade PopkinJill SavageJill Savage is an author, speaker, and coach who is passionate about relationships. Jill is the host of the No More Perfect Podcast, the creator of five online courses, and the author of fourteen books including No More Perfect Moms, No More Perfect Kids, No More Perfect Marriages, and My Heart Is Broken. Jill and her husband, Mark, live in Illinois and have five children and six grandchildren. You can find Jill online at www.markandjill.org.Connect with Jill:WebsiteInstagram: jillsavage.authorFacebook: jillsavage.authorShaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith {buy now}Comparison Girl for Teens {buy now} Get our free "Pray God's Promises" prayer guide. Go to Shannonpopkin.com/PROMISES/ for more information on my neww Bible study, Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith.

Shannon Popkin joins our Co-Host, Lee Nienhuis, in today's episode focused on the book they co-authored called Comparison Girl for Teens. What a timely message for this generation! Our children, beginning at younger ages than ever before, are struggling with feelings of anxiety, depression & loneliness, all of which can be connected to this comparison factor. In the midst of the greatest mental health crises of all time, Shannon & Lee give practical, Christ-centered wisdom & point us to Scripture for a better understanding of how we can live free from comparison.  Ready to hear how you can train your children to navigate comparison well? Let's go! SHANNON POPKIN invites you to drink deeply of God's story, and live like it's true. Shannon's books include Control Girl, Comparison Girl, Comparison Girl for Teens (2024), and Shaped by God's Promises (2024).  Shannon also hosts the Live Like It's True Bible podcast and has been featured on Revive Our Hearts, FamilyLife Today, The Gospel Coalition, and Proverbs 31. She's happy to be sharing life with Ken, who connect with Shannon at shannonpopkin.com, or on Instagram, Facebook, or Youtube.    LEE NIENHUIS is an author, speaker, and passionate Bible teacher whose love for the Lord and the Word is contagious. Lee serves as a Communications Specialist, ministry coach, and consultant for many churches and non-profit organizations. With a heart for Inductive Bible Study and missions, she speaks domestically and abroad communicating a dynamic vision for the next generation and biblical literacy. Lee's books, Brave Moms, Brave Kids: A Battle Plan for Raising Heroes and Counter-Cultural Parenting are a clarion call for parents who are looking to raise whole hearted Christ followers in this generation. Lee's writing and speaking have been featured on Focus on the Family, True Woman, Iron Sharpens Iron, and Proverbs 31 ministries. Lee and her husband, Mike, have four great kids and live in West Michigan.  Lee LOVES being a wife and mother, but when she isn't carting kids, coaching high school cheerleading, or whipping up dinners, she loves hot cups of coffee, deep friendships and laughing till her sides ache.  Resources Comparison Girl For Teens Book Shannon's Website Lee's Website James 3:14-15 - bitter jealousy in your heart is not wisdom from above Revelation 12:4 - 1/3rd of the stars of heaven cast to the earth Phil 2:5-7 -  Jesus didn't count equality with God a thing to be grasped Psalm 139 - fearfully and wonderfully made   Next Steps Share this episode with a friend Subscribe to this podcast Rate & Review on your favorite podcast channel Like Bible2School on FB & IG

When Sana when through the trauma of almost losing her nineteen-year-old son in a car crash, she did the unexpected: she shared the forty-three day experience on social media and asked the world to pray that God would do the impossible. Why? Because—as she says—then, "Everyone will know it was God."In part two of this conversation with Sana Latrease, I know you'll be inspired by the tenacious faith of this mom who had the illogical belief that she would one day praise God for her son's full recovery.I had the privilege of sharing part of Sana's story in my Bible study on the life of Sarah, Shaped by God's Promises. Bible Passage: Sarah's Story in Genesis 12-21Freebies:The Live Like It's True WorkbookPraying the PromisesResound Media: Go to www.ResoundMedia.cc for more Gospel centered resources.Mentioned Resources:Purchase on Amazon: Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and FaithLearn More about my new study: Shaped by God's PromisesEveryone Will Know It was God by Sana LatreaseMusic: Cade PopkinAbout SanaSana Latrease Cotten has dedicated her life to helping disadvantaged families and advocating for youth within the foster care system. As the Founder and CEO of Unashamed, Inc., a non-profit organization, she works to promote emotional health and support families affected by incarceration, foster care, and teen pregnancy.In addition to her advocacy work, Sana is a sought-after transformational speaker and author sharing her personal story of surviving early childhood sexual abuse and growing up in the foster care system.Sana is the author of Everyone Will Know It was God and has been featured in The 700 Club, the Jennifer Hudson Show and named one of the 100 Women of Color by June Archer & Eleven28 Entertainment in 2019.Sana is a devoted wife of 17 years to her husband Joshua, and a proud mother to their two children, Jamir and Janai. She is also a doting grandmother to her grandson, Syer.Connect with Sana:Website Instagram FacebookShaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith {buy now}Comparison Girl for Teens {buy now} Get our free "Pray God's Promises" prayer guide. Go to Shannonpopkin.com/PROMISES/ for more information on my neww Bible study, Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith.

Where was God, when a little girl was being trafficked by the mother who should have kept her safe?On the Live Like It's True podcast, I'm talking Sana Latrease to talk about her story of God's faithfulness, even in the middle of her childhood trauma. This isn't the story Sana would have written, but it's the story God wrote for her. Also check out my Bible study on the life of Sarah, Shaped by God's Promises, where Sana's story is featured, along with several others I'm talking with during the "Sarah Series."  Guest: Sana Latrease Bible Passage: Sarah's Story in Genesis 12-21 Freebies:The Live Like It's True WorkbookPraying the PromisesResound Media: Go to www.ResoundMedia.cc for more Gospel centered resources.Mentioned Resources:Purchase on Amazon: Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and FaithEveryone Will Know It was God by Sana Latrease CottenLearn More about my new study: Shaped by God's PromisesMusic: Cade PopkinSana LatreaseSana Latrease Cotten has dedicated her life to helping disadvantaged families and advocating for youth within the foster care system. As the Founder and CEO of Unashamed, Inc., a non-profit organization, she works to promote emotional health and support families affected by incarceration, foster care, and teen pregnancy.In addition to her advocacy work, Sana is a sought-after transformational speaker and author sharing her personal story of surviving early childhood sexual abuse and growing up in the foster care system. Sana is the author of Everyone Will Know It was God and has been featured in The 700 Club, the Jennifer Hudson Show and named one of the 100 Women of Color by June Archer & Eleven28 Entertainment in 2019.Outside of her professional endeavors, Sana is a devoted wife of 17 years to her husband Joshua, and a proud mother to their two children, Jamir and Janai. She is also a doting grandmother to her grandson, Syer.Connect with Sana:WebsiteInstagramFacebookShaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith {buy now}Comparison Girl for Teens {buy now} Get our free "Pray God's Promises" prayer guide. Go to Shannonpopkin.com/PROMISES/ for more information on my neww Bible study, Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith.

At age 27, Gaby's cancer treatment are narrowing her options for one day having children. Yet Gaby walks this painful path between her trial and God's promises with perspective and hope. She shares her story in my latest episode on the Live Like it's True podcast. Gaby's story is also highlighted in my new Bible study, Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith. Whether you're here because you're reading that book, or you're a regular listener, I hope you'll be inspired by this conversation.Guest: Gaby PuenteBible Passage: Sarah's Story in Genesis 12-21Freebies:The Live Like It's True WorkbookPraying the PromisesResound Media: Go to www.ResoundMedia.cc for more Gospel centered resources.Mentioned Resources:Purchase on Amazon: Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and FaithLearn More about my new study: Shaped by God's PromisesVivir es Cristo by Jonathan and Sarah Jerez.2 Corinthians 4:16-18Isaiah 56:3-4Music: Cade PopkinGabriela PuenteGabriela Puente has a degree in Communications and currently is pursuing a Biblical Counseling certification with ACBC. She works at Compassion Connection, an organization that supports both churches and individuals through partnerships focused on church planting and leadership training in Ecuador.Gaby is a member of La Fuente church, in Quito, and you can find her on Instagram.Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith {buy now}Comparison Girl for Teens {buy now} Get our free "Pray God's Promises" prayer guide. Go to Shannonpopkin.com/PROMISES/ for more information on my neww Bible study, Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith. Visit ResoundMedia.cc for the Live Leadership Podcast, along with other Gospel centered resources.

Would you ask your twelve-year-old to bravely live her faith, in a time of crisis? In part two of our conversation, Heather Cofer shares the story of her twelfth birthday in Mongolia and how—even when she was so afraid—her dad commissioned her to walk by faith. She also tells about the crisis her husband's family (also missionaries in Mongolia) faced.Heather's story is highlighted in my new Bible study, Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith. Whether you're here because you're reading that book, or you're a regular listener, I hope you'll be inspired by this conversation.Guest: Heather CoferBible Passage: Genesis 12:1-4Freebies:The Live Like It's True WorkbookPraying the PromisesResound Media: Go to www.ResoundMedia.cc for more Gospel centered resources.Mentioned Resources:Purchase on Amazon: Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and FaithLearn More about my new study: Shaped by God's PromisesMusic: Cade PopkinHeather Cofer is a wife and mother of six living in northern Colorado with a passion for encouraging women to love Jesus. She is the author of Expectant: Cultivating a Vision for Christ-Centered Pregnancy, and has also written for Revive Our Hearts, Set Apart Ministries, Risen Motherhood, and Well-Watered Women. She enjoys fresh flowers, good coffee, and laughter with loved ones.Connect with Heather Cofer:Website: https://www.heathercofer.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heathercofer/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/heather.a.coferShaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith {buy now}Comparison Girl for Teens {buy now} Get our free "Pray God's Promises" prayer guide. Go to Shannonpopkin.com/PROMISES/ for more information on my neww Bible study, Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith.

What if God asked you to leave everything you love? Would you do it? Heather Cofer talks about her experiences as a child in Mongolia which still shape her life today.Heather's story is highlighted in my new Bible study, Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith. Whether you're here because you're reading that book, or you're a regular listener, I hope you'll be inspired by this conversation.Guest: Heather CoferBible Passage: Genesis 12:1-4Freebies:The Live Like It's True WorkbookPraying the PromisesResound Media: Go to www.ResoundMedia.cc for more Gospel centered resources.Mentioned Resources:Purchase on Amazon: Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and FaithLearn More about my new study: Shaped by God's PromisesMusic: Cade PopkinHeather CoferHeather Cofer is a wife and mother of six living in northern Colorado with a passion for encouraging women to love Jesus. She is the author of Expectant: Cultivating a Vision for Christ-Centered Pregnancy, and has also written for Revive Our Hearts, Set Apart Ministries, Risen Motherhood, and Well-Watered Women. She enjoys fresh flowers, good coffee, and laughter with loved ones.Connect with Heather CoferWebsite: https://www.heathercofer.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heathercofer/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/heather.a.coferShaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith {buy now}Comparison Girl for Teens {buy now} Get our free "Pray God's Promises" prayer guide. Go to Shannonpopkin.com/PROMISES/ for more information on my neww Bible study, Shaped by God's Promises: Lessons from Sarah on Fear and Faith.

Episode Summary:  Do you constantly compare yourself with others? On social media, in your neighborhood, at church, or in the school drop-off lane, do you push yourself to prove that you measure up . . . and then feel ashamed when you don't? Measuring yourself against others isn't healthy. And it isn't God's plan. In fact, the way of Jesus is completely upside down from this measure-up world. He invites us to follow him and be restored to freedom, confidence, and joy. Join me with Shannon Popkin as we address how to stop comparing yourself to others. Quotables from the episode: The constant effort to prove that I measure up (or try to hide when I don't), does not lead to a life of freedom and joy. Here's what does: learning to live me-free. At its root, comparison places value on our differences. Comparison is really a pride issue—it keeps us focused on ourselves. When we compare ourselves to others, we focus on how we measure up (or don't) like lines on a measuring glass. But Jesus points out the spout—that place where we pour out on others. Comparison 1) distracts me from my purpose; 2) depletes my productivity, and 3) destroys our potential. When we fall prey to comparison, we need to ask ourselves “Is this something Jesus would say to me?” Comparison is a tactic of the enemy, whether we are comparing our appearance, our status, our sin, or even our ministry for Jesus to others'. Humility is a key to combatting comparison. Comparison is often bred because we don't desire to be “less than” others, but in God's economy those who are the least, are considered the greatest. There is NO exclusivity in the kingdom of God. Healthy comparison includes those times we are inspired and learn from others, and are then encouraged to be and do what I am uniquely called to do. Comparison divides us and causes us to back away, when God is calling us to move toward him! When tempted to compare yourself to others, ask yourself “who am I listening to?” Scripture says “my sheep know my voice,” so be sure you are listening for God's voice.   Scripture References: Philippians 2:5-7 ESV Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus,[a] 6 who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped,[b] 7 but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant James 3:14-15 ESV But if you have bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast and be false to the truth. 15 This is not the wisdom that comes down from above, but is earthly, unspiritual, demonic. Matthew 20:26-27 ESV But whoever would be great among you must be your servant,[c] 27 and whoever would be first among you must be your slave,[d] 28 even as the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve,    Recommended Resources:  Comparison Girl: Lessons from Jesus on Me-Free Living in a Measure-Up World by Shannon Popkin Control Girl by Shannon Popkin The Hem of His Garment: Reaching Out to God When Pain Overwhelms by Dr. Michelle Bengtson YouVersion 5-Day Devotional Reaching Out To God When Pain Overwhelms   Today is Going to be a Good Day: 90 Promises to Start Your Day Off Right by Dr. Michelle Bengtson, winner of the AWSA 2023 Inspirational Gift Book of the Year Award, the Christian Literary Awards Reader's Choice Award in four categories, and the Christian Literary Awards Henri Award for Devotionals YouVersion 7-Day Devotional, Today is Going to be a Good Day YouVersion 7-Day Devotional, Today is Going to be Another Good Day Breaking Anxiety's Grip: How to Reclaim the Peace God Promises by Dr. Michelle Bengtson Breaking Anxiety's Grip Free Study Guide Free 7-Day YouVersion Bible Reading Plan for Breaking Anxiety's Grip Hope Prevails: Insights from a Doctor's Personal Journey Through Depression by Dr. Michelle Bengtson, winner of the Christian Literary Award Reader's Choice Award Hope Prevails Bible Study by Dr. Michelle Bengtson, winner of the Christian Literary Award Reader's Choice Award Trusting God Through Cancer 1 Trusting God Through Cancer 2 Revive & Thrive Women's Conference Subdue Stress and Anxiety: Fifteen Experts Offer Comprehensive Tools in Ten Minutes a Day. Use my link plus discount code BENG99 to save $90 on course (course will be $99.) Free Download: How To Fight Fearful/Anxious Thoughts and Win   Social Media Links for Guest and Host: Connect with Shannon Popkin: Website / Podcast / Facebook / Instagram / Twitter / YouTube For more hope, stay connected with Dr. Bengtson at: Order Book Breaking Anxiety's Grip / Order Book Hope Prevails  /  Website  /  Blog  /  Facebook / Twitter (@DrMBengtson)  /  LinkedIn  /  Instagram / Pinterest / YouTube Guest: From the platform, page, and podcast mic, Shannon Popkin invites women to drink deeply of God's story, and live like it's true. Shannon's books include Comparison Girl, and Control Girl, and she hosts the “Live Like It's True” podcast. Shannon has been featured on FamilyLife Today, Revive Our Hearts, and Proverbs 31. Shannon is happy to be sharing life with Ken, who makes her laugh every day. Together, they have the joy of watching their three young-adult kids become the amazing people God created them to be.    Hosted By: Dr. Michelle Bengtson Audio Technical Support: Bryce Bengtson  

Comparison is sneaky. One minute we're humming along, content with our life and calling – then suddenly, comparison sneaks in, making us distracted and discontent. We all deal with comparison, measuring ourselves against others. It's a tactic of our enemy to throw us off course. But Jesus has better for us. Shannon Popkin is the author of Comparison Girl, and host of the Live Like It's True podcast. In this conversation, Shannon challenges us with Jesus's words and actions to help us lay aside destructive comparisons and embrace the freedom of living in our calling and gifts. Some highlights from our conversation: Shannon tells us the three ways comparison can throw us off track. It can distract us, deplete us, and destroy us. Shannon shares how she struggled with comparison and what the Lord started to show her in Scripture. We discuss how Jesus used comparison as a teaching tool. For example, He says Mary chose what was better than Martha, and she holds up the widow who gave her last two coins as an example of generosity. When we compare ourselves to these people, they positively challenge us to be more whom we are created to be. This means not all comparison is bad. So, how do we know the difference? Shannon says it simply: we evaluate if it's pride or humility. We talk about the passage we meditated on from Philippians and how Jesus exemplified laying aside all his advantages in an act of ultimate humility. Shannon shared how she meditated on the passage in a different translation (the CSB), which says, “did not consider equality with God as something to be exploited” instead of “used for his own advantage.” We discussed the word “exploited” and what it triggered for both of us. Finally, Shannon gives us a few practical ways to lay aside comparisons during this Lenten season and beyond.   You can connect with Shannon at: https://www.shannonpopkin.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shannonpopkin/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shanpopkin/ Listen to the Live Like It's True Podcast: https://www.shannonpopkin.com/bible-podcast/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

“God is God and I am not - and that's a really good thing”. While most of us understand this phrase, can we honestly say it's easy to live like it's true? If we're being transparent, don't we really want to control our lives so that it translates to our idea of a happy ending? Today's guest, Shannon Popkin, author of “Comparison Girl”, “Control Girl”, and podcast host of “Live Like It's True”, talks about her own parenting struggles that pointed toward an underlying core issue - yearning for control. She discusses how surrender & trust were the key ingredients to reversing the struggle, and shares advice on the “hold and fold” method that has proven so effective in this journey.     Ready to hear about the one thing you CAN control and how to steward it well? Let's go… From the platform, page, and podcast mic, SHANNON POPKIN invites you to drink deeply of God's story, and live like it's true. Shannon's books include Comparison Girl, and Control Girl, and she hosts the Live Like It's True Bible podcast. Shannon has been featured on Revive Our Hearts, FamilyLife Today, The Gospel Coalition, and Proverbs 31. Shannon is happy to be sharing life with Ken, who makes her laugh every day. Together, they have the joy of watching their three young-adult kids become the amazing people God created them to be.    Resources for you: ShannonPopkin.com Live Like It's True Podcast Instagram Facebook Youtube Control Girl free bonuses, including a Meditation Pack for Moms Ephesians 1:3-4   Next Steps: Check out our Free CBA Cross Connect with us on Facebook and Instagram Bible2School on Pinterest Share this podcast with a friend Subscribe to You CAN Tell the Children  

Are you in need of encouragement today? How about a fresh perspective on where our stories are headed? My guest this week is Shannon Popkin. What an amazing conversation! We're treasuring up God's truth and drinking in the overarching story of God and us. We're also talking about Shannon's books Comparison Girl and Control Girl, and you won't want to miss the free bonuses she's offering! I know what Shannon shares will encourage, inspire, and challenge you, so listen in while I have a chat with Shannon Popkin. Fierce Calling is on the Spark Network, which can be found on the Edifi App! Fierce Calling is one of many Christian podcasts available on the Edifi app. To listen to this podcast and other amazing Christian podcasts, go to the Apple or Google Play stores and download the app today! You can also find amazing Christian podcasts on Access More! Favorite Quotes from Drinking in the Overarching Story of God and Us ... "We're part of a bigger story ... we are in the broken part of the story, but there is a resolution coming." "In my (Jesus's) Kingdom, it's different--there's a different value system." "This story is headed somewhere--it's headed to a new creation." --Shannon Popkin Connect with Shannon and learn more about her books, speaking, and drinking in the overarching story of God and Us! Connect with Shannon at shannonpopkin.com and check out her free Comparison Girl bonuses and Control Girl bonuses mentioned in the show! Since you love listening to podcasts, check out her podcast: Live Like It's True You can also connect with Shannon on social media here: Instagram Facebook Pinterest More About Shannon! Shannon Popkin From the platform, page, and podcast mic, Shannon Popkin invites you to open your Bible, drink deeply of God's story, and live like it's true. Shannon is from west Michigan and happy to be sharing life with Ken, who makes her laugh every day. Together they have the joy of watching their three young-adult children become the amazing people God created them to be. They also enjoy their two adorable shih tzus, who—unlike the kids—have no plans of moving out.    Shannon's books include Comparison Girl, Control Girl, and Influence and she hosts the “Live Like It's True” podcast. Shannon has been featured on FamilyLife Today, Revive Our Hearts, and Proverbs 31. For more from Shannon, please go to shannonpopkin.com, or connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Youtube.  Connect with Doris! I'd love to hear how Fierce Calling has blessed you! Leave me a message on my contact page at dorisswift.com. Scroll down and grab my free resources, and when you do, you will also receive my free monthly newsletter with more encouragement! Love Fierce Calling? By following, rating, and leaving a review over at Podchaser, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts you can help others discover the show too! Do You Need a Speaker for Your Next Women's Event? Check out my speaking page, grab my flyer, and let's talk about me speaking at your next women's event... I love speaking God's truth into the lives of women! Free Gifts for You... Grab one of my free downloads by scrolling down to the bottom of the page! Love & God's Perfect Peace to You!

Have you ever noticed that you struggle for control? Maybe you just care a little extra about how your spouse loads the dishwasher. Maybe you struggle a little more to recover when life goes a different way than you were planning. Maybe you have trouble letting your kids make mistakes. Or maybe your marriage feels like a battle for leadership more than it feels like a partnership towards a united goal.Today on the podcast, we have the opportunity to welcome Shannon Popkin, author of both Comparison Girl and Control Girl and host of the “Live Like It's True” podcast. From the platform, page, and podcast mic, Shannon Popkin wants to invite you to drink deeply of God's story, and live like it's true.Today, Shannon shares with us:Why so many of us struggle to let go of controlWhat it looks to identify the emotion or sin that is behind the desire to controlHow unity in our roles in marriage help us become better partnersHow to find peace in God's provision and planAnd more!We hope you enjoy this episode!Show Notes: https://growinghometogether.com/shannon-popkin-56/

How can you make sure you have a well-spent summer? For today's episode, Stephanie has curated three of her most important not-so-secret secrets for a successful summer in particular, and a successful life in general: - Read your Bible to grow closer to the Lord and develop intimacy with Him; - Don't compare to others, but seek to serve them in humility; - Take time to rest, worship, and laugh. For each of these, Stephanie welcomes a dear friend to highlight each element today. So you're getting THREE conversations in this one episode! It is our special Summer gift to you, our beloved audience. First Stephanie welcomes Shadia Hrichi who shares with us her own journey towards deep intimacy with God. They discuss Hagar, a very special woman in the Bible who gets to give God one of His names - "the God who sees me." They also mostly focus on Tamar, whose powerful story of brokenness is redeemed by the only One who is able to deliver us from our bondage, fear, and trials. Do you need to be reminded that God is FOR you? You are not alone, and He is in every detail of your life. He is especially attentive when things are not going as you want them to - which is probably the case for most of us right now, in this season of the world when everything seems upside down and when it might feel that God is distant! He is closer than ever to the brokenhearted. Then Stephanie welcomes Shannon Popkin who reminds us that we are all attacked by the very real enemy of our soul who seeks to distract us from the Lord. Using the same old tricks that have worked for thousands of years, the devil seeks to entice us to compare to one another because that is exactly what he did with God - he wanted to be better than God Himself. We live in a culture that tells us that, unless we are number one, we are worthless. This is deeply damaging to the very fabric of our soul. With her book "Comparison Girl", Shannon reminds us that the cure towards wholesome healing is simple - yet not easy: we are never happier than when we take our eyes off of ourselves, and focus on another. Humility and other-centered service is the simple yet overlooked secret to a fulfilling life. Jesus role-modeled it for us, and invites us to step closer to His heart through selfless humility. How simple, yet how profound! Finally, Stephanie is thrilled to welcome Marci Seither who invites you to join her for a summer of pondering the goodness of God through rest, laughter and meditation. In her new devotional, Lakeside Retreat, Marci beckons us to experience God in the daily, to embrace Him in the simple, and to delight in Him in every moment. Her book is the perfect summer getaway to come back refreshed, renewed, and more in love with God than ever. MEET MARCI SEITHER Marci Seither's writing career began after her humor article was published in a small-town newspaper. Since then she has authored two books and hundreds of articles for local papers, as well as for Guideposts, Light & Life, and Focus on the Family. She is a creative storyteller who has shared her love of stories with hundreds of schoolchildren as well as those attending one of her workshops. Besides writing, she enjoys trying new recipes, food photography, and capturing drone footage. Her biggest joy, besides being married to John for more than three and a half decades and raising six kids, is being grandma to six of the cutest kiddos in this hemisphere. Marci makes her home in the Nashville, Tennessee, area with John and their very spoiled miniature schnauzer—Pepper. website: http://marciseither.com/ Social Media: https://www.facebook.com/marci.seither  Instagram @marci_seither MEET SHANNON POPKIN Shannon Popkin is a writer, speaker, and Bible teacher who loves to blend her gifts for storytelling and humor with her passion for Jesus. Shannon regularly speaks at Christian women's events and retreats, inviting women to live like God's Word is true. Shannon is the author of Comparison Girl: Lessons from Jesus on MeFree Living in a Measure-Up World, Control Girl: Lessons on Surrendering Your Burden of Control from Seven Women in the Bible, and co-author of Influence (Building a Platform That Elevates Jesus (Not Me). She's been featured on FamilyLife Today, Revive Our Hearts, and Proverbs 31. Popkin and her husband Ken have been married for twenty-five years and live in West Michigan. They have three young adult children, and two shih tzus, who (unlike the kids) have no plans of moving out. Website: https://www.shannonpopkin.com/ Podcast https://www.shannonpopkin.com/bible-podcast/ Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shanpopkin/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shannonpopkin/ Twitter: @shannonpopkin Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/ShannonPopkin/boards    MEET SHADIA HRICHI Shadia is a passionate Bible teacher, author and speaker who has a heart for seeing lives transformed by the power of God's Word. She holds a master's in biblical and theological studies from Western Seminary and is author of several books and Bible studies. After seminary, Shadia began writing the Bible study series, BEHIND THE SEEN: Exploring the Bible's Unsung Heroes. Gritty stories of real people with impossible challenges whose encounters with God open our eyes to His awesome power and love working behind the seen. Explore these stories through Shadia's Bible Studies. website: https://www.shadiahrichi.com/ Social media: https://www.facebook.com/Shadia.Hrichi.Author.Speaker https://twitter.com/ShadiaHrichi https://www.pinterest.com/shadiahrichi/_created https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/4633012 https://www.linkedin.com/in/shadiahrichi https://www.instagram.com/shadiahrichi https://www.amazon.com/Shadia-Hrichi/e/B00DZ0LUWE https://www.youtube.com/c/shadiahrichi https://www.bookbub.com/authors/shadia-hrichi  We invite you to enjoy a Christ-centered summer by experiencing Jesus through the lens of the body of Christ. We bring you a diversity of viewpoints on several issues, and invite you to discover Jesus through their own journey with Him. Our Summer series invite you to ponder important topics for daily living. Stephanie and her occasional guests tell us about the importance of our definition of success, the key elements of leadership roles, the traps of comparison, the importance of theology, and much more! These stand-along episodes are meant to encourage you and challenge you to experience deeper fruitfulness in your various roles and ministries, in all the relationships and areas of your life. The topics we discuss are eternal and apply to both genders, across time and space and culture and age. So, join us for deep conversations with inspiring Christ-followers, conversations that will flavor your summer with the Gospel. Conversations about culture, leadership, success, dating, gender, and struggles with comparison, pride, and more: that is your Gospel Spice summer! Support us!

Leaders face numerous obstacles, but one might just take the cake, as it is self-imposed – comparison. In this episode, Mike sits down with author and speaker Shannon Popkin to talk about the comparison game that all leaders face and wrestle with. Much of their discussion centers around Shannon's most recent book, Comparison Girl: Lessons from Jesus on Me-Free Living in a Measure-Up World. About Shannon: As an author and speaker, Shannon loves combining her gifts for humor and storytelling with her passion for Jesus and the truth of God's Word. She speaks for ladies' events, retreats, and conferences, and also hosts the Live Like It's True Podcast. In addition to Comparison Girl, she has authored Influence and Control Girl.  She has also had the privilege of being featured on FamilyLife Today, Revive Our Hearts, Proverbs 31, and other ministries.

Leaders face numerous obstacles, but one might just take the cake, as it is self-imposed – comparison. In this episode, Mike sits down with author and speaker Shannon Popkin to talk about the comparison game that all leaders face and wrestle with. Much of their discussion centers around Shannon's most recent book, Comparison Girl: Lessons from Jesus on Me-Free Living in a Measure-Up World.About Shannon:As an author and speaker, Shannon loves combining her gifts for humor and storytelling with her passion for Jesus and the truth of God's Word. She speaks for ladies' events, retreats, and conferences, and also hosts the Live Like It's True Podcast. In addition to Comparison Girl, she has authored Influence and Control Girl.  She has also had the privilege of being featured on FamilyLife Today, Revive Our Hearts, Proverbs 31, and other ministries.

If you were invited to a special dinner party, where the honored guests gathering around the table are all friends of Jesus who will be participating in a symbolic reenactment of the most important day in the history of the world, would you go? What I've just described is communion, or the "meal of remembrance" which Jesus instated, during a very special dinner party he shared with his disciples the night before he was crucified.On season two of Live Like It's True, we're talking about the True Story of Easter, and in this episode, we're going to talk about that dinner party (some call it the Last Supper), found in Luke 22.Guest: Erin DavisBible Passage: Luke 22:7-20Freebie:  Get your free Live Like It's True Workbook Mentioned Resources: 7 Feasts (See instructions below on how to win)Comparison Girl by Shannon PopkinGrounded Videocast (with Revive Our Hearts)The Deep Well PodcastFasting and Feasting by Erin Davis Get the full-length show notes.  Music: Cade Popkin MusicErin DavisErin is a writer and teacher passionately committed to getting women of all ages to the deep well of God's Word. She is the author of more than a dozen books and Bible studies, including Connected, Beyond Bath Time, and 7 Feasts and the host of The Deep Well podcast and Grounded videocast with Revive Our Hearts. When she's not writing, you can find Erin chasing chickens and children on her small farm in the Midwest.Find more from Erin:  ErinDavis.orgGrounded Videocast (with Revive Our Hearts)The Deep Well PodcastInstagramFacebookDon't Miss the Retelling!We'll be back on Saturday for the retelling episode, where I get to focus on metaphor in the Bible, and how God uses the image of the Lamb to tell us a story about himself.Care to Share?Hey, if you're loving the podcast, would you consider taking two minutes (here's a link to Apple Podcasts) to rate and review? This allows it to be seen by others (and it's a huge encouragement to me!). Have a suggestion? You can contact me here. I'd love to hear from you!Get the full length shownotes here.Thanks so much for listening! GET YOUR FREE LIVE LIKE IT'S TRUE WORKBOOK

How Do You Measure Up?In this episode of Radical Abundance, Shannon Popkin shares wisdom and insight to break free from this measure-up world and join God's Kingdom-building team.  Life is a team sport – and as Christians, we are on the same team. When we compare ourselves to others, we not only find ourselves trapped in dissatisfaction, we are also limited in our capacity to enjoy an abundant life. Shannon Popkin shares insight on how to break free from the trap of comparison and shine in your gifts and abilities while allowing others to do the same.Guest Bio:From the platform, page, and podcast mic, Shannon Popkin invites you to open your Bible, drink deeply of God's story, and live like it's true.Shannon is from west Michigan and is happy to be sharing life with Ken, who makes her laugh every day. Together they have the joy of watching their three young-adult children become the amazing people God created them to be. They also enjoy their two adorable shih tzus, who—unlike the kids—have no plans of moving out.   Shannon's books include Comparison Girl, Control Girl,and Influence and she hosts the “Live Like It's True” podcast. Shannon has been featured on FamilyLife Today, Revive Our Hearts, and Proverbs 31. For more from Shannon, please go to shannonpopkin.comhttps://www.shannonpopkin.com/bible-podcast/ http://www.shannonpopkin.com/Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/radicalabundance)

This week I am sitting down with Author Shannon Popkin.  We had a wonderful conversation about comparison, something that most of us as moms have experienced. 

Do you have a bad case of comparison syndrome? Are you always wishing you could live someone else's "perfect" life? Then listen as Shannon Popkin shares about her struggle with comparison and reflects on her first memory of feeling envious. Shannon is author of the book Comparison Girl, as well as the host of a brand new podcast called Live Like It's True. She's also a wife, a mom, and SUPER TRANSPARENT about the battle against envy and comparison. You can find her on instagram at @shannonpopkin Until we meet again, may you find rest in God's loving presence. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/prayersofrest/message

It's so easy to make comparisons when marketing our books. “She's” selling more books.“She” has a bigger launch team.“She's” getting a lot more likes on her Instagram posts.… and on and on it goes.Today I'm thrilled to have Shannon Popkin as my guest. Shannon is the author of Comparison Girl: Lessons from Jesus on Me-Free Living in a Measure-Up World.  She shares:What it means to build a platform that elevates JesusWhat “me-free” living looks like in a “measure-up” worldHow to stop putting value statements on our differences (and what to do instead)What it was like launching a book with the world shut downUnique things she has done with her launch teams to cheer on participationWhy she started her new podcast and her hopes for itShow notes:kimstewartmarketing.comFree resource:9 Ways Guesting on Podcasts Helps Grow Your Author PlatformConnect on IG:@kimstewinspired#bookmarketingmania

Episode 106 - Stephanie welcomes Erica Wiggenhorn, bestselling Bible Study author, national speaker, and now releasing her brand new book, Letting God be enough. So, with that kind of book title, you can certainly expect a vulnerable conversation about self-introspection, daring to look at what's inside our hearts—the good, the bad and the ugly! What can we learn about our heavenly Father to overcome our fear of failure and inadequacy? Erica and Stephanie are close friends, and this conversation will probably feel like you're joining two friends over for coffee. We talk about our hearts, our sinfulness, and our desperate hunger for God. Do you feel like you're missing out on some secret other people know? Do you wonder why their faith seems so strong? Are you curious about how they find success around every corner, or their marriage seems so happy? Do you wonder how they're such good parents, or have such successful careers? It's easy to feel like things fall into place so easily for others while you're striving hard to keep life from falling apart. In a world where “never enough” is the norm, what do you do with those feelings of inadequacy? Do you strive more or expect less? And how does God fit into the equation? What are you afraid of, that you are hiding deep inside yourself and not dare to talk about? Erica shares a profound and hilarious story about finding dead lizards in her son's bedroom and compels us to ask: What are the squashed Lizzies that you have hidden in your spirit sock drawer? Only one way to find out. Have you ever felt that you were not enough? That you were a fake? That if people knew you, they would discover that you are not as amazing as they think you are? Are you afraid to reveal that you don't have it as together as you've been portraying? So today, we talk about imposter syndrome, about the fear to be “found out” as insufficient. God teaches us not to seek approval of our perceptions, but of Himself. Erica dives into the meaning of God's love and acceptance, and it might just transform your relationship with your Father who delights in you so powerfully, and has provided all you need for approval and acceptance. IF YOU'VE ENJOYED THIS INTERVIEW, YOU WILL LOVE OUR GOSPEL SPICE SERIES!  Click to check out the first episode of each season: We are currently in the middle of our series titled "Identity in the Battle" which is such a fitting context for today's interview! Check out the first episode in this current series (next week, Episode 107 will be the next in the series, but it's best to start at the beginning with Episode 101): https://www.podcastics.com/episode/74762/link/   The Gospel of Matthew: https://www.podcastics.com/episode/3281/link/ The Psalms: https://www.podcastics.com/episode/33755/link/ The Gospel of Luke: https://www.podcastics.com/episode/40838/link/ The Book of Proverbs: https://www.podcastics.com/episode/68112/link/ DISCOVER THE GOSPEL SPICE MINISTRIES BEHIND THIS EPISODE If you enjoyed this episode, we invite you to discover more about how God is at work at Gospel Spice Ministries, and even to join in His work! There are 3 easy ways to do that: PLAY IT FORWARD by SHARING the show with friends and family: https://www.podcastics.com/podcast/38/link/ PAY IT FORWARD by supporting us financially: gospelspice.com/payitforward PRAY IT FORWARD by praying for us and those you share it with! Go to gospelspice.com for more info about Gospel Spice Ministries, the umbrella ministry over the podcast. You will discover our partners and the various services we offer, such as in-depth Bible studies with interactive conversation groups, a couple of times a year.  Go to gospel-spice.com (with a "dash"!) to join the Gospel Spice Podcast community and interact with us! Contact us on the website or at contact@gospelspice.com to send us your prayer requests (we pray for you as a team every week!) and let us know how we can come alongside you. ABOUT ERICA WIGGENHORN Erica Wiggenhorn writes Bible studies and teaches biblical principles for life change. She's passionate about God's Word and its ability to transform us personally, along with our relationships. Her latest release by Moody Publishers: Unexplainable Jesus: Rediscovering the God You Thought You Knew, will release in 2019, with an optional DVD teaching series to accompany the study! This study delves into Luke's Gospel, painting a vivid picture of the culture and customs of Jesus' day — following Him into a life unimaginable. Moody Publishers also released The Unexplainable Church and An Unexplainable Life. These expository studies take the reader verse by verse through the entire story of Acts, exploring the incredible life transformation that occurred in the earliest believers. With a personable and practical style, Erica teaches these studies and other biblical, life-related topics to groups in the United States and overseas. Erica has volunteered as a teacher for Alongside Ministries, a group working with the incarcerated community learning to walk with Christ after release from prison. She has also worked as a children's ministry director, and as an elementary teacher. Before this, she graduated from Azusa Pacific University with a double major in Political Science and Business Administration. She also earned an M.A. in Language Acquisition and Development. Erica lives in Phoenix with her husband, Jonathan, and children, Eliana and Nathan. They attend Desert Springs Community Church, where Erica volunteers with the Charis Women's Ministry, teaching and serving on its leadership team. Of all the ways Erica spends her time, her most important work is that of wife and mom! Contact a member of the Every Life Ministries team about connecting with Erica at ContactEveryLifeMinistries@gmail.com. You will find Erica at https://ericawiggenhorn.com/ PRE-ORDER “LETTING GOD BE ENOUGH” TODAY FOR SPECIAL PRE-ORDER GIFTS! Letting God Be Enough is a modern book for tackling an age-old problem, resting in God when life doesn't make sense. You no longer have to strive, compare, or appease others to secure your worth. Instead, you can let a loving God be enough. As a Christian woman who has battled self-doubt for decades, Erica is able to speak to these topics with empathy, grace, and truth. 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Shannon Popkin invites women to leave measure-up comparison behind and connect with those around them by choosing Jesus's me-free way of living. It's a real chance to break free from the shackles of comparison.Popkin confesses her own struggle with comparison literally goes as far back as she can remember and suspects her readers can relate. Her earliest memory is of her four-year-old self holding her songbook upside down in church. When a woman from the pew behind reached forward to turn the book right side up, Popkin felt embarrassed and exposed—clearly the watching world now knew she could not read. It may seem silly in retrospect, but Popkin admits the same could be said of many of her current struggles. “Why do I worry about being exposed as a less-than-perfect mom? Or a middle-aged woman who struggles with her weight? Or a Christian who still sins? My heart, since childhood, has been bent on perfectionism, pride, and measuring up—which has not led to great freedom and joy. Instead, it's led to a great fear of what people think and a great dread of being found lacking.”Comparison follows women through every stage of life, leading either to a sense of superiority (pride, perfectionism, arrogance, or judgmental criticism) or inferiority (insecurity, shame, jealousy, and self-consciousness). Satan loves to perpetuate comparison-driven bondage and isolation, but Jesus wants to set women free.Equating our lives to a measuring cup, Popkin invites readers to live by the spout, not by the lines. “Picture yourself holding a glass measuring cup with red lines on the side. Mingled in your cup are all the things which set you apart—your gifts, aptitudes, and talents. Your personality is mixed in, along with your family background. This cup holds your life's potential, measured out by God. Satan wants you to focus on the lines—holding your cup next to this person's and that one's. He says that to make something of yourself, you have to measure up—then he shames you when you don't,” she explains. “Jesus, however, turns your attention to your measuring cup's spout, saying that you were designed, not to measure up, but to pour yourself out. And he shows you how it's done. He lived by the spout, emptying himself of status and pouring his life out on the cross, giving his life as a ransom for many.”Suited for both individual and group study, Comparison Girl is a six-week Bible study that guides readers to examine conversations Jesus had and parables he shared with disciples, tax collectors, and Pharisees, who also were comparing. Each chapter is divided into lessons, allowing women on a time budget to read a Bible passage, engage in a complete train of thought related to the topic, and then make the content personal—all in one sitting. Rather than feeling preached to, women will engage with Popkin's informal teaching tone as if they're meeting with a trusted friend.Readers of Popkin's best-selling release Control Girl may find themselves in Comparison Girl as well. “I wrestle daily with comparison, and I've noticed that my struggles with control and comparison are related. As I look to the side, measuring myself against others, I'm often laser-focused on things that are out of my control,” she admits. Yet, there is hope. “You are different from other people by God's intentional design. Anything in your measuring cup is a gift from Him. As you tip your cupand pour into others, the measuring stops. The more you pour, the more God fills your cup with freedom, confidence, and joy.”Website:ShannonPopkin.comInsta @ShannonPopkinTwitter @ShannonPopkinBook: Comparison Girlhttps://www.lainelawsoncraft.comFacebookLaine Lawson CraftInstagram@lainelawsoncraftTwitter@lainelawsoncrft

Shannon Popkin invites women to leave measure-up comparison behind and connect with those around them by choosing Jesus's me-free way of living. It's a real chance to break free from the shackles of comparison. Popkin confesses her own struggle with comparison literally goes as far back as she can remember and suspects her readers can relate. Her earliest memory is of her four-year-old self holding her songbook upside down in church. When a woman from the pew behind reached forward to turn the book right side up, Popkin felt embarrassed and exposed—clearly the watching world now knew she could not read. It may seem silly in retrospect, but Popkin admits the same could be said of many of her current struggles. “Why do I worry about being exposed as a less-than-perfect mom? Or a middle-aged woman who struggles with her weight? Or a Christian who still sins? My heart, since childhood, has been bent on perfectionism, pride, and measuring up—which has not led to great freedom and joy. Instead, it's led to a great fear of what people think and a great dread of being found lacking.” Comparison follows women through every stage of life, leading either to a sense of superiority (pride, perfectionism, arrogance, or judgmental criticism) or inferiority (insecurity, shame, jealousy, and self-consciousness). Satan loves to perpetuate comparison-driven bondage and isolation, but Jesus wants to set women free. Equating our lives to a measuring cup, Popkin invites readers to live by the spout, not by the lines. “Picture yourself holding a glass measuring cup with red lines on the side. Mingled in your cup are all the things which set you apart—your gifts, aptitudes, and talents. Your personality is mixed in, along with your family background. This cup holds your life's potential, measured out by God. Satan wants you to focus on the lines—holding your cup next to this person's and that one's. He says that to make something of yourself, you have to measure up—then he shames you when you don't,” she explains. “Jesus, however, turns your attention to your measuring cup's spout, saying that you were designed, not to measure up, but to pour yourself out. And he shows you how it's done. He lived by the spout, emptying himself of status and pouring his life out on the cross, giving his life as a ransom for many.” Suited for both individual and group study, Comparison Girl is a six-week Bible study that guides readers to examine conversations Jesus had and parables he shared with disciples, tax collectors, and Pharisees, who also were comparing. Each chapter is divided into lessons, allowing women on a time budget to read a Bible passage, engage in a complete train of thought related to the topic, and then make the content personal—all in one sitting. Rather than feeling preached to, women will engage with Popkin's informal teaching tone as if they're meeting with a trusted friend. Readers of Popkin's best-selling release Control Girl may find themselves in Comparison Girl as well. “I wrestle daily with comparison, and I've noticed that my struggles with control and comparison are related. As I look to the side, measuring myself against others, I'm often laser-focused on things that are out of my control,” she admits. Yet, there is hope. “You are different from other people by God's intentional design. Anything in your measuring cup is a gift from Him. As you tip your cup and pour into others, the measuring stops. The more you pour, the more God fills your cup with freedom, confidence, and joy.” Website: ShannonPopkin.com Insta @ShannonPopkin Twitter @ShannonPopkin Book: Comparison Girl https://www.lainelawsoncraft.com Facebook Laine Lawson Craft Instagram @lainelawsoncraft Twitter @lainelawsoncrft

Episode #48Heather Creekmore joins Angie and special co-hosts Erin L. Todd and Char-Lee Cassel to talk about how comparing ourselves with others keeps us feeling defeated.  livesteadyon.comFacebook @livesteadyon Heather Creekmorecomparedtowho.meThe Compared to Who podcast Erin L. Todd & Char-Lee CasselIntuitive Eating for Christian Women podcastgingerinprogress.com (Erin)charleecassel.com (Char-Lee) Books & other things mentioned in the episode:“Comparison Girl” by Shannon Popkin“The Bible in One Year” by Nicky GumbelAbide appLaudate app“The Galatians” by Proverbs31enduringword.com Heartwarming by Kevin MacLeodLink: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/3864-heartwarmingLicense: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

My reading time has fluxuated greatly in the past year. And after only hitting 50% of my reading goal in 2020, I knew I wanted to really dive back into better reading habits this year. And so far, I'm smashing my reading goals and have formed some new habits. In this episode, I'm going to share some reviews for 10 of the books I've read so far this year (out of 33) and then share what has been helping me this year in reading more. Let's dive in! Listen to the Podcast: And don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast in iTunes. Right click here and save-as to download this episode to your computer. What's helping me this year compared to last: Getting excited about reading again! I bought some new books to get excited and its helping me work through old ones Going back to reading 1 chapter of a non fiction book a day:  currently working through a beastly systematic theology doing this. Setting an easier goal so I feel excited when I break it instead of just feeling supppper behind. Making it habit to listen through audiobooks again in nooks and crannies. My favorite books read so far this year: You can follow me over on Goodreads to keep up to date on what I'm reading. But here's some of our favs! As a family we are currently reading through the Chronicles of Narnia. This is our first time reading the whole series with all the kids and we are going through it very slowly when we have travel days! We are also on book #1 of the Wingfeather Saga as a family and are really enjoying it. Church History in Plain Language by Bruce Shelley- 4 star Awaking Wonder by Sally Clarkson - 3 starts Why Children Matter by Douglas Wilson  - 4 star - I listened to this for free with the Canon Press app free trial. Hooked - 2 star The Common Rule: Habits for Purpose for an Age of Distraction - 3 star The Household and the War for the Cosmos - 4 star - I listened to this for free with the Canon Press app free trial. A Heart Set Free: A Journey to Hope Through the Psalms of Lament - 3.5 stars Eve in Exile: and The Restoration of Femininity - 5 stars - I listened to this for free with the Canon Press app free trial. The Self Sufficient Backyard - 5 stars (I purchased it from their website) Before Jerusalem Fell - 5 stars Comparison Girl - 5 stars Meal Planning Help for Eating Healthy: I am really excited to share with you the sponsor of today’s podcast episode: PrepDish! If you ever feel like you wish you had a little help in your meal planning, then I highly encourage you to check out PrepDish. They offer gluten-free meal plans and paleo meal plans. But you don’t have to eat a gluten-free or paleo diet in order to take advantage of all that PrepDish has to offer! In fact, almost half of their customers don’t eat those diets. The meals are healthy and non-processed and work well for anyone who is trying to eat a healthy diet. And PrepDish is offering a super special TWO week free trail when you sign up through this link (how awesome!!) When you sign up, you’ll receive an email every week with a grocery list and instructions for prepping your meals ahead of time. After only 1-3 hours of prepping on the weekend, you’ll have all of your meals ready for the entire week. I absolutely love how easy they make it. Free TWO week trial of PrepDish

Hours spent scrolling through social media does more than help us catch up on our friends lives. It often leaves us feeling that we don't measure up to their lives. But it's not just online. Comparing and competing is our national pastime that is feeding our insecurities and undermining our friendships. Join Kim and guest  Shannon Popkin, author of Comparison Girl, and get off the comparison train and get on with living free of competing with the people around us. Kim Wier is a speaker, radio talk show host, Bible teacher, and author of the book, The Art of Friendship and other titles.    The Art of Friendship Podcast is part of Hope On Demand! Life can be hard and overwhelming, and you might not always know what to do. Through videos, podcasts and blogs, we help connect you more deeply with God so you can live with hope.

The And Campaign's Justin Giboney talks about why your identity can not be tied to a political party or ideological tribe.  Author Shannon Popkin of "Comparison Girl," on how women don't just grow out of comparing themselves and what to do.

The And Campaign's Justin Giboney talks about why your identity can not be tied to a political party or ideological tribe.  Author Shannon Popkin of "Comparison Girl," on how women don't just grow out of comparing themselves and what to do.

Do you compare yourself? Do you constantly glance sideways asking, How do I measure up? Your enemy loves to use this measure-up comparison against you but Jesus invites you to exchange your measure up fears and get-ahead pride for freedom. Tune in as I talk with Shannon Popkin, author of her new book, Comparison Girl, as she shares what she's learned about her own comparison struggles. Listen in as we learn from Jesus about me-free living in a measure-up world.

Shannon Popkin, author of Comparison Girl discusses how comparison can trip us up, elevate us above others, or even help us grow. Show Sponsor: We are grateful to Carol Kent's Speak Up Conference for sponsoring this week's episode. Theme Music: “Sunny Martha” by Cade Popkin Disclosure: Affiliate links are used in this post. If you choose to purchase through the links, we may be compensated at no additional cost to you. See full disclosure policy. Things We Talk About: Control Girl by Shannon Popkin Comparison Girl by Shannon Popkin James 3:13-18 Proverbs 21:9 “Stop! Hammock Time” show The Freedom of Self-Forgetfulness by Timothy Keller 1 Corinthians 12:4-11 Today's Verse: 2 Corinthians 10:12 (ESV) Not that we dare to classify or compare ourselves with some of those who are commending themselves. But when they measure themselves by one another and compare themselves with one another, they are without understanding. Connect with Us: The Martha + Mary Show webpage. The Podcast Page on Facebook: Martha and Mary Show Sisterhood The Martha + Mary how on Instagram: @madelikemartha Our IG Handles: @leenienhuis @katie_m_reid Our Hashtag: #marthamaryshow  Episode Producer: Jeanna Lesausky  Be sure to subscribe, so you don't miss any shows! Text the word MARTHA to 33777 to receive encouragement and show news in your inbox.  

Join host Jeanette Tapley and special guests Lee Nienhuis and Shannon Popkin for a full conversation on the "Moms at Work" podcast. In this episode, they dive deep into the pervasive culture of comparison and its impact on girls and women.Drawing from personal experiences and insights, they explore practical ways to navigate the comparison trap and teach humility to our daughters. Anchoring our identity in Christ and celebrating the unique gifts of others emerge as key themes, along with the importance of having personal heroes who exemplify kindness, service, and love.Discover how to find true worth and freedom from comparison as Jeanette, Lee, and Shannon share valuable wisdom and practical tips for embracing authenticity and fostering healthy relationships. Plus, learn how their book, 'Comparison Girl,' can serve as a valuable resource for group discussions with daughters.Tune in now to break free from comparison and embrace your true worth on the "Moms at Work" podcast!Links from Today's Show:Grab your copy of COMPARISON GIRL FOR TEENS  HEREGrab our newest Freebie! The Brain Dump Worksheet! https://bit.ly/worksheetbraindumpJoin the email community https://view.flodesk.com/pages/621d6beb9b7136a9e313d546Moms at Work is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual guidance to help you grow into the perfectly imperfect parent you want to be, visit www.ChristianParenting.org