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In today's episode, you'll learn how to heal from an emotionally immature parent. If you've ever felt invisible in your own family, like your needs didn't matter, or if nothing you did was ever enough, this episode is for you. Dr. Lindsay C. Gibson is here to assure you that you're not imagining it. You're not too sensitive. You're not overreacting. And you're not alone. If you find yourself struggling to set boundaries, you're still craving your parent's approval, or you're always walking on eggshells to keep the peace, Dr. Gibson says the reason you feel this way is because you grew up with an emotionally immature parent. And today you'll finally understand what that means. You're about to learn the 4 subtle signs you had an emotionally immature parent and how that shapes your adult life – and the exact path to healing. Today's episode is not about blame. It's about clarity and finally having the language to describe what you've felt for years but couldn't quite explain. You'll learn how to name the behaviors that left you feeling dismissed or unseen, and you'll have the tools to begin healing. And that's a big deal, because doing this work doesn't just change how you feel; it changes how you live. For the last 30 years, Dr. Gibson has helped millions of people around the world break free from the invisible emotional suffering that has held them back since childhood. She is a pioneering expert on the topic of emotionally immature parents, and is the author of the New York Times bestseller "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents."  If you've spent your entire life feeling like something was off in your relationship with your parents, but you could never quite put your finger on it, Dr. Gibson is here to say: You were right. And if you feel guilty for just considering that something might have been off, you need to hear this conversation today. This is an episode you don't want to miss. For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page. If you liked this episode, you'll love listening to this one next: Why You Feel Lost in Life: Dr. Gabor Maté on Trauma & How to HealConnect with Mel: Get Mel's #1 bestselling book, The Let Them TheoryWatch the episodes on YouTubeFollow Mel on Instagram The Mel Robbins Podcast InstagramMel's TikTokSign up for Mel's personal letterSubscribe to SiriusXM Podcasts+ to listen to new episodes ad-freeDisclaimer

What happens when the people who were supposed to love and protect you become the source of your deepest wounds? Therapist Gabrielle Wells joins us to dive into the reality of growing up with narcissistic or emotionally immature parents—the red flags, the long-term impact, and how it shapes the way we navigate love, trust, and boundaries. Whether you've gone no-contact, are still trying to make it work, or just find yourself dissociating at family dinners, this conversation is for you. Because sometimes, “but they did their best” just isn't good enough.Tools and references from Gabrielle: Gabrielle Wells, MS, Associate Marriage & Family Therapist #142692 Supervised by Briana Ferron, M.A., LMFT #130324You can look into individual and group therapy services with Gabrielle here.Resources on coping with a narcissistic parent: Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal From Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson, PsyDRecovering from Emotionally Immature Parents: Practical Tools to Establish Boundaries & Reclaim Your Emotional Autonomy by Lindsay C. Gibson, PsyDAdult Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers: Quiet the Critical Voice in Your Head, Heal Self-Doubt and live the Life You Deserve by Stephanie M. Kriesberg, PsyDDr. Ramani on YouTube

Ever been with a woman partner who was emotionally volatile? Ever felt like you were walking on eggshells, or that no matter what you did it wasn't enough and she was always disappointed in you?If so, she may have had Borderline Personality Disorder ... or at least traits of it.More people are diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) than schizophrenia and bipolar combined, yet few are familiar with it. Some mental health professionals estimate that a whopping 10% of the population contends with BPD, which psychologists are working to get renamed Emotional Regulation Disorder.Here, we break down the 4 archetypes of Borderline women, and their male counterparts. Much of this is gleaned from Christine Lawson's book Understanding the Borderline Mother.We also go over the ways each of the male archetypes can heal from the intense and unstable, exhausting, and often depleting relationship dynamics involved.Remember: growth and healing are always possible, and nothing is set in stone. Personal growth works, so work it.---Work with usWant to go deeper than the podcast? Jason and I are ready to work with you! We specialize in helping men break old patterns and transform their sex & love lives for good.To see if there's a fit for our flagship program Pillars of Presence, book a call here. Start anytime. (https://evolutionary.men/apply/)---Mentioned on this episode:Dear Men episode 128: Feel like you're walking on eggshells? Recognizing Borderline Personality DisorderDear Men episode 313: GuyTalk: Life after being with a BPD partner (Borderline Personality Disorder)Stop Walking on Eggshells: Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care About Has Borderline Personality Disorder (book)Understanding the Borderline Mother: Helping Her Children Transcend the Intense, Unpredictable, and Volatile Relationship (book)Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents (book)Subreddit for BPD Loved Ones ---Want to support wildfire survivors in the LA area?Go here. They list the families in the most dire need at the top. The long URL is:https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1pK5omSsD4KGhjEHCVgcVw-rd4FZP9haoijEx1mSAm5c/htmlview---Memorable quotes from this episode:"'Children are the first to recognize and the last to admit that something is wrong with their mother.'" (from Understanding the Borderline Mother)"My wife is the fortress and I'm here to protect that.""There's a theme of icing people out.""I'm willing to leave the relationship if you/we don't get help.""You CAN change your patterns of attraction."

Loving the Little Years: Motherhood in the Trenches by Rachel JankovicHow to Talk so Little Kids Will Listen: A survival guide to life with children ages 2-7 by Joanna FaberThe Blessing of a Skinned Knee: Using Jewish Teachings to Raise Self-Reliant Children by Wendy MotelThe Conscious Parent: Transforming Ourselves, Empowering Our Children by Shefali TsabaryThe Ruthless Elimination of Hurry: How to Stay Emotionally Healthy and Spiritually Alive in the Chaos of the Modern World by Comer, John Mark *The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment by Tolle, EckhartYou're Not Listening: What You're Missing and Why It Matters by Murphy, Kate *12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos by Jordan PetersonAdult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents by Lindsay GibsonAtomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones by James ClearSend us a text

Send us a textIf we genuinely think about how many of us are emotionally mature before we become parents the number is probably pretty low. The act of caring for someone else, and having to manage our own feelings, can be incredibly challenging, particularly when we were raised by parents who were immature themselves.Being able to spot the difference between being emotionally immature, and the normal pressures of parenting, can be really helpful. We all have outbursts at times; we're human. The most important test is how we deal with getting it wrong by apologising and taking accountability. The mutual empathy this creates is at the root of building strong relationships. Definition of emotional maturity on Healthline:An emotionally mature person manages their emotions well even in difficult situations, takes accountability, is okay with being vulnerable, and shows empathy to others.THE BOOK REFERENCED THROUGHOUT:Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents by Lindsay GibsonTYPES:1: The emotional parent. Ruled by their feelings, often swinging wildly between being over-involved and completely withdrawing from their children's lives.2: The Driven parent. This personality type is obsessively goal-oriented and perpetually busy. They are on a constant quest for perfection, which includes even their children.3: The Passive parent. They're more laissez-faire and often willingly take a back seat to a more dominant partner. This can sometimes lead to physical and emotional abuse both for them and their children.4: The Rejecting parent. They don't enjoy any level of emotional intimacy. Their interactions with other family members usually consist of getting angry, commanding others, or completely isolating themselves. THE TECHNIQUE1:  Become curious and observe rather than react. Our episode on this: https://www.teenagersuntangled.com/over-reactions-how-to-not-overreact/2: Think like a scientist. Mentally take note of how your parent or the adult is responding to you. Are they actually listening to you or are they just trying to appease you? Do you recognize any of the emotionally immature behaviors we talked about earlier? Once you've done this you can begin to employ what Gibson calls the three-step Maturity Awareness Approach. The first step is to express yourself and let go.1: Express yourself and let go. Tell your parent or the person what you want to say, but don't worry about controlling the outcome. It doesn't matter how they react to you. 2: Set a goal of what you want to achieve from the conversation. For example, you might say, I want to tell my mother how ISupport the showThank you so much for your support. Please hit the follow button if you like the podcast, and share it with anyone who might benefit. You can review us on Apple podcasts by going to the show page, scrolling down to the bottom where you can click on a star then you can leave your message. I don't have medical training so please seek the advice of a specialist if you're not coping. My email is teenagersuntangled@gmail.com The website has a blog, searchable episodes, and ways to contact us:www.teenagersuntangled.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/teenagersuntangled/Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/teenagersuntangled/Susie is available for a free 15 minute consultation, and has a great blog:www.amindful-life.co.uk

New Song: "Together Again" #Kolisha YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ESSraPI2vJA  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/track/2pFt5drG98vA3iSZz1JVdL?si=5b323f0d276c45fa     Message Franciska to share how a specific episode has impacted YOU.  franciskakay@gmail.com     Healing from Narcissistic Parental Wounds: Perspectives and Practical Advice     In this episode, host Franciska has an enlightening conversation with therapist Esther Moskovitz on navigating relationships with narcissistic parents and healing from relational trauma. They discuss the broad spectrum of narcissism, from flamboyant extroverts to psychosomatic narcissists, and its significant impact on parenting and children's sense of self. Key topics include recognizing parental double standards, setting personal boundaries, and the importance of supportive religious leaders within specific cultural contexts. The episode offers practical advice on healing, including dance therapy, journaling, and selecting the right literature and therapist. Esther also emphasizes understanding narcissistic parents as flawed individuals while maintaining self-identity and autonomy.   About Our Guest: Esther Moskovitz, LCSW, from Monsey, NY, specializes in addressing relational trauma and narcissistic wounding. Empowering her clients to heal emotional wounds and rebuild their connection with themselves and others with kindness, compassion, and boundaries, Esther has recently discovered the transformative power of dance and somatic work, recognizing their pivotal role in restoring wholeness and a healthy sense of self. ReclaimingYourself.net  and RhythmicReflections.net     Resources:   Dr. Karyl McBride's website:  https://willieverbegoodenough.com/ She offers self-paced on-line workshops, and in-person intensives. She also has 3 books Will the Drama Ever End? Untangling and Healing from the Harmful Effects of Parental Narcissism  Will I Ever Be Free of You? How to Navigate a High-Conflict Divorce from a Narcissist, and Heal Your Family Will I Ever Be Good Enough? Healing the Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers   Books  Gifts From A Challenging Childhood: Creating A Practice for Becoming Your Healthiest Self by Jan Bergstrom LMHC    Facing Codependence: What It Is, Where It Comes from, How It Sabotages Our Lives by Pia Mellody , Andrea Wells Miller , et al.    Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson     Article https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-legacy-distorted-love/202010/understanding-narcissistic-injury   Check out www.JewishCoffeeHouse.com for more Jewish Podcasts on our network.

In this second conversation, Host Monique Koven and psychologist and author Dr.Lindsay Gibson discuss emotional immaturity and its impact on relationships. They explore the characteristics of emotional immaturity, such as egocentrism and poor empathy, and how it can manifest in various relationships. They also discuss the continuum of emotional maturity and the role of hope in dealing with emotionally immature individuals.  Dr. Gibson offers insights into the experiences of those raised by emotionally immature parents and offers strategies for navigating relationships with emotionally immature people. She also shares information about her books on the topic.takeaways:Emotional immaturity can manifest in various relationships, including parent-child relationships, romantic relationships, and friendships.Emotional immaturity is characterized by egocentrism and poor empathy, where individuals prioritize their own needs and emotions over others.Emotional maturity is a continuum, and individuals can exhibit emotional immaturity in certain areas while being mature in others.Hope is important in dealing with emotionally immature individuals, but it is also important to recognize and set boundaries to protect oneself.Those raised by emotionally immature parents may have developed skills in caretaking and empathy, but it is important for them to prioritize their own needs and establish healthy boundaries in relationships.Listening to one's body and recognizing how relationships make them feel can help identify emotionally draining or unhealthy dynamics.Dr. Lindsay C Gibson's Books  Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents https://amzn.to/3XmLN40Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents Guided Journal: Your Space to Heal, Reflect, and Reconnect with Your True Self https://amzn.to/4e6KSuhDisentangling From Emotionally Immature People https://amzn.to/3MnFS8CSupport the Show.Find a list of my recommended books, trainings + resources for healing traumahttps://www.thehealingtraumapodcast.com/resources/ The Foundational Journey to Change Your Biology – 6-week online course guided and designed by Dr. Aimie as a journey into your nervous system to change your biology trauma reactions.https://www.thehealingtraumapodcast.com/foundational-journeySubscribe to this channel on Youtube and Watch the episode on video https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJy4f23JvtdFuQGadOqy3PADisclaimer: This episode and website contains affiliate links. When you make a purchase, I may receive a small commision at no cost to you.

Today Joanna, Kia, and Sarah L. get vulnerable on the topics of reparenting ourselves, healing through therapy, and setting boundaries with extended family. We discuss our specific experiences with anxiety and depression in motherhood, the process of identifying patterns from our own childhoods we hope to break in raising our families, and how seeking help and healing through therapy has looked for us. We've also gathered actionable steps and helpful resources to support your journey toward self-care and emotional growth.Meagan and Sarah have passed the mic over to our team this summer. Enjoy the fantastic, all-new podcast episodes they've prepared for you, and we'll talk to you in August!HELPFUL LINKS:Follow Joanna Martin, Kia Hammond and Sarah Limberg on InstagramReparenting in Therapy, by Jodi Clarke, MA, LPC/MHSP (VeryWellMind.com)The definition of boundaryOur recommended books on boundaries (these include affiliate links):Set Boundaries Find Peace: Drawing The Right Lines by Joe MontgomeryGood Boundaries And Goodbyes by Lysa TerKeurstStrong Like Water by Aundi KolberWhat My Bones Know by Stephanie FooBoundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life by Dr. Henry CloudBraving the Wilderness by Brene BrownGood Inside by Dr. Becky KennedyAdult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson, PsyDListen to the podcast We Can Do Hard ThingsKatie Stricker Naptime KitchenKendra Adachi, The Lazy GeniusSimilar episodes from our archives:Strong As A Mother With Kate RopeReal Stories About Postpartum Mental HealthBlack Motherhood & Mental HealthSelf-Improvement & Self-Acceptance In MotherhoodOTHER HELPFUL LINKS:Visit our websiteCheck out deals from our partnersFollow us on InstagramJoin our private listener group on Facebook (be sure to answer the membership questions!)Sign up for our newsletterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today's guest, Dr. Lindsay C. Gibson, gives advice for dealing with emotionally immature people— whether they are your parents, boss, spouse or childhood friend, she offers practical tools to help navigate these difficult relationships. Description: Emotionally immature people (EIP's) are hard to avoid and most of us, if not all of us, have to deal with them at some point in our lives. These interactions can range from mildly annoying to genuinely traumatic, especially if the emotionally immature people in question are our own parents, which is true for an awful lot of us.Today's guest, clinical psychologist Lindsay C. Gibson, gives advice for dealing with emotionally immature people, whether they're your parents or not. She has written a sleeper hit book on the subject called, Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents. In this episode we talk about:The signs of emotional immaturityWhether or not I'm emotionally immatureWhat happens to children who are raised by emotionally immature parents, including their signature coping strategiesWhy adult children of EIP's turn to healing fantasies, and how to let them goHow to cope with emotionally immature parents as an adultWhat role compassion should and should not play in your relationship with EIP'sHow to healFull Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/lindsay-gibson-2022-rerunBooks Mentioned:Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved ParentsWho You Were Meant to Be: A Guide to Rediscovering Your Life's PurposeRecovering from Emotionally Immature Parents: Practical Tools to Establish Boundaries and Reclaim Your Emotional AutonomySelf-Care for Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: Honor Your Emotions, Nurture Your Self, and Live with ConfidenceDisentangling from Emotionally Immature People: Avoid Emotional Traps, Stand Up for Your Self, and Transform Your Relationships as an Adult Child of Emotionally Immature Parents Other Resources Mentioned:Lisa Feldman BarrettAdditional Resources:Download the Ten Percent Happier app today: https://10percenthappier.app.link/installSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Growing up with emotionally immature or self-centered parents can mean that your emotional needs were either disregarded or unmet. As a result, you may struggle with feelings of betrayal, abandonment, rage, or loneliness. Although you may work hard to become the person you want to be, your old wounds might re-ignite at any time, especially if your are reminded of vulnerable childhood feelings. Dr. Gibson, is an CEN expert and the author of “Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People: Avoid Emotional Traps, Stand Up for Your Self, and Transform Your Relationships as an Adult Child of Emotionally Immature Parents”. Dr. Lindsay Gibson explains that adult children of an emotionally immature parents may be particularly vulnerable to other emotionally immature people (EIP) in life. She uses her years of experience to teach us how avoid common EIP traps, build confidence, and stand strong in the face of emotional immaturity. Listen to the conversation with Dr. Lindsay Gibson as we explore how to change your perspective on complex relationships, comprehend how EIPs work, and defend your own rights without feeling guilty, ashamed, or afraid. Dr. Lindsay Gibson is clinical psychologist, author, and assistant professor with a passion for human conflict and helping others develop long-lasting, meaningful relationships. Dr. Gibson has wrote a number of books including the best-selling “Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting or Self-Involved Parents”. It has sold over 100,000 copies, been translated into 14 languages, and has helped thousands of people reverse their toxic psychological legacy and reclaim their lives. In her new book, Dr. Gibson offers practical advice to help readers handle interactions with anyone who struggles with emotional immaturity in their lives (whether dealing with others or working through one's own behaviors). This hands-on guide includes helpful analyses and insights into the most typical problems that children of emotionally immature individuals encounter, as well as helpful advice on how to create boundaries and build stronger bonds with others. Dr. Gibson explains that establishing a happy life means learning how to manage challenging conversations with EIPs, comprehend their reactions, and improve your connections in the process. If you are interested in more information about how to stop compensating for others' behavior and put your needs first, this podcast is for you. Links & Resources: To purchase Dr. Gibson's book “Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People”: https://www.amazon.ca/Disentangling-Emotionally-Immature-People-Relationships-ebook/dp/B0B6NWDMJ6 For more information about Dr. Gibson: https://catalogue.pesi.com.au/speaker/lindsay-gibson-346187/18 Materials to Reference: 4 signs that a parent is emotionally immature:  https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/mental-wealth/202111/4-signs-parent-is-emotionally-immature Characteristics of the Emotionally Immature: https://care-clinics.com/7-characteristics-of-emotionally-immature-people/ How to Spot Emotional Immaturity: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/the-pulse-mental-health/202203/spotting-emotional-immaturity-in-high-conflict-personalities  

The hashtag #eldestdaughtersyndrome is reported to have had a whopping 24.7 million views on TikTok, and counting, but what is it and why is it getting so much attention?  We look at the issues faced by the eldest sibling in the family, then talk more specifically about why daughters can feel resentful of the role that's foisted on them. It's easily done by us parents, particularly if we live in a patriarchal society.  The expectation that they will do more of the emotional and domestic heavy-lifting in the family than the other siblings can teach them great life-skills, even make them successful in the workplace, but it can also make them resentful at missing out on the benefits of childhood. In this episode we talk about how we spot it and what can we do to rebalance what might be happening in our family. THE EXCELLENT BOOK I MENTIONED:The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCulloughUSEFUL ARTICLES FROM HOME GIRLS UNITE ON INSTAGRAM:https://www.npr.org/2010/11/18/131424878/how-much-does-birth-order-shape-our-liveshttps://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2023/11/first-born-children-eldest-daughter-family-dynamics/675986/https://www.refinery29.com/en-gb/eldest-daughter-syndrome-oldest-sibling-family-responsibilitiesBOOK RECOMMENDATIONS FROM SAGE THERAPY CHICAGO:The Birth Order Book: Why You Are the Way You Are by Dr. Kevin LemanThe Eldest Daughter Effect: How Our Family Order Influences Our Lives by  Lisette Schuitemaker The Sibling Effect: What the Bonds Among Brothers and Sisters Reveal About Us by Jeffrey KlugerSisters First: Stories from Our Wild and Wonderful Life by Jenna Bush Hager and Barbara Pierce BushYou Were Always Mom's Favorite!: Sisters in Conversation Throughout Their Lives by Deborah TannenAdult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents by Lindsay C. GibsonREFERENCES USED: https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2023/11/first-born-children-eldest-daughter-family-dynamics/675986/https://www.charliehealth.com/post/what-is-oldest-daughter-syndrome#:~:text=Due%20to%20the%20responsibilities%20and,siblings%20from%20a%20younger%20age.https://www.modernintimacy.com/what-is-eldest-daughter-syndrome/#:~:text=Signs%20of%20Eldest%20Daughter%20Syndrome%20in%20Adulthood&text=Eldest%20daughters%20often%20shoulder%20a,mode%E2%80%9D%20when%20there%20is%20discord.https://omny.fm/shows/the-psychology-of-your-20-s/147-the-psychology-of-the-eldest-daughterhttps://www.sagetherapychicago.com/post/understanding-eldest-daughter-syndrome-navigating-the-challenges-and-finding-balance#:~:text=Delegate%20Responsibilities%3A%20Don't%20hesitate,that%20rejuvenate%20and%20energize%20you.Support the showThanks for listening. Please hit the follow button if you like our podcast, and share it with anyone who might benefit. You can review us on Apple podcasts by going to the show page, scrolling down to the bottom where you can click on a star then you can leave your message.Our website has a blog, searchable episodes, and ways to contact us:www.teenagersuntangled.comSusie is available for a free 15 minute consultation, and has a great blog:www.amindful-life.co.uk

Ameé Quiriconi is an entrepreneur, podcast host, and author, she is also a mother of 2. This is an incredibly powerful episode. For anyone that dealt with any type of trauma in their childhood and are concerned with how that will impact their own parenting, this one is for you. Trigger warning: if you have some sensitivities to childhood trauma you may find this hard to listen to at times Timestamps: 0343 becoming an entrepreneur while becoming a mom 0600 wanting to do things differently than your parents did them 0743 being overwhelmed by motherhood 0910 not being the main parent after a divorce 0945 being a parent when you're a kid makes it difficult to be a parent as an adult 1045 abusive relationships “It's no longer about what my mom did to me, it's about what I'm doing to my kids and what I'm going to do right now to change the course of that” 1445 are we doomed to repeat the same mistakes our parents made? 1715 how important the first five years of child development are, and wha the can do about it 2240 the stress that entrepreneurship can bring to your family 2832 reparenting to give yourself the things you didn't receive in childhood 3605 advice for single working mom 3725 advice to former self 3810 best advice you've ever received  3945 advice for new dad EPISODE LINKS Ameé's book: The Fearless Woman's Guide to Starting a Business >> ⁠https://amzn.to/45QH3oq⁠ Ameé's LinkedIn >> ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/ameequiriconi/⁠ Ameé's podcast: One Broken Mom >> https://open.spotify.com/show/6dDO9Tcl39A4X4MP84U28D?si=cedde8b14880417b Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents by Dr. Lindsay Gibson >> https://amzn.to/3Qkz1ya Running on Empty: Overcome Your Childhood Emotional Neglect by Jonice Webb >> https://amzn.to/45QE1ka Aha! Parenting by Dr. Laura Markham >> https://www.ahaparenting.com/ Mind Over Money: Overcoming the Money Disorders That Threaten Our Financial Health Dr. Brad Klontz >> https://amzn.to/47c44TE Connection Parenting by Pam Leo >> https://amzn.to/40flQ6m “Let's raise children who won't have to recover from their childhoods.”― Pam Leo SHOW LINKS: contact: ⁠successfulworkingparents@gmail.com⁠ Linktree: ⁠https://linktr.ee/successfulworkingparents⁠  Musical credit: Hippie Beatnix (ID 1913) by Lobo Loco CC-by-nc-nd

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Ok. This is a BIG ONE. This week's guest is Dr Lindsay C. Gibson: A clinical psychologist and bestselling author who specializes in helping people identify and deal with emotionally immature people, or EIP's. Her book Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents was a breakthrough best-seller. And she's since followed it with a series of popular, related books, including: Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents, Self-Care for Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, and her latest work, Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People.Dr Gibson has been featured on some really huge platforms - like the Ten Percent Happier podcast - and her interview also happened to be one of their most popular episodes.It was such a privilege to chat with her.Our conversation focused specifically on dealing with EIPs in the workplace.We covered: How Dr Gibson defines Emotionally Immature People (EIPs) And how to spot them in the wilds. How emotionally immature behavior might manifest at work. The workplace dynamics and patterns that Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents can be especially mindful of. How to spot an EIP in a job interview. (Hint: They don't seem to have time for your questions. You already feel like a burden.)Stay Up To Date via the Content People newsletter: https://meredithfarley.substack.com/Where to find Lindsay C. Gibson online:Website: www.lindsaygibsonpsyd.com/Books: Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents. Who You Were Meant to Be: A Guide to Rediscovering Your Life's Purpose Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents: Practical Tools to Establish Boundaries and Reclaim Your Emotional Autonomy Self-Care for Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: Honor Your Emotions, Nurture Your Self, and Live with Confidence

Have you felt your parent was emotionally unavailable? Do you have trust issues with your parent(s)? Did the way your caregiver's raised you still impact you as an adult? If you grew up with emotionally immature parents, there's a good chance your adult relationships or marriage have been impacted! We break it down in this episode and give you relationship tips and advice for how to navigate through this! Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting or Self Involved Parents by Lindsay C Gibson https://bookshop.org/a/56047/9781626251700 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/decoding-couples/support

Have you ever thought about confronting a parent, but you're not sure how? In this episode, you'll learn the right questions to ask yourself when considering why and how to confront your parent(s) with compassion. Three important questions to ask: What happened (to them and to me)? How do I feel about what happened? What do I want going forward? Recommended reading (paid link): Adult Children Of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents, by Dr. Lindsay C. GibsonTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

We all want to feel free to be our true selves and live in a way that feel authentic.  I want to live my life to the fullest and I imagine you do as well.  Despite this, we can get sidetracked by demands and expectations that throw us off our true gifts and passions.  Instead we might follow the preferences and aspirations that society, family, and friends have for us, rather than what we truly want for ourselves. Breaking free from self-doubt and discovering what it is that you truly want from life, demands that you grow beyond the obstacles that undermine personal goals, hopes and dreams. Dr. Lyndsay Gibson, Psychologist and author of “Who You Were Meant to Be: A Guide to Finding or Recovering Your Life's Purpose”.  Dr. Gibson utilizes her years of clinical knowledge to show us what gets in the way of our true unfolding.  We will reflect on how to free ourselves from misguided guilt and misplaced loyalty that confuses loving others with sacrificing ourselves and betraying our true life path. Listen to the conversation with Dr. Lindsay Gibson as we explore ways to reclaim your true path, especially if you have suffered from the effects of emotionally immature parents. We discuss how to uncover your life's purpose and who you were truly meant to be. Dr. Lindsay Gibson is a clinical psychologist, author, and assistant professor with a passion for human conflict and helping others develop long-lasting, meaningful relationships. Dr. Gibson has written several books including her best-selling novel “Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting or Self-Involved Parents”. It has sold over 100,000 copies, been translated into 14 languages, and has helped thousands of people reverse their toxic psychological legacy and reclaim their lives. In her book, Dr. Gibson provides real life examples from her therapy practice and a variety of methods to get you thinking about what constitutes individual happiness and how to chart a course to get there. Dr. Gibson helps her readers to free themselves from doubt and defeat and find out what you really want to do with your life, utilizing inner guidance to find personal and energizing life purpose. Her book helps address feelings of helplessness, hopelessness, and the common fears that often bring self-actualization to a hault while offering practical advice for those who are reluctant to put themselves first in their own lives. If you are interested in more information about how you can recover from emotionally immature parents, break out of old habits, forge a new path to discover or recover our true purpose in life and become the people we want to be, this talk is for you. Links & Resources: To purchase Dr. Gibson's book “Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents: https://tinyurl.com/mwf48aur To purchase Dr. Gibson's book “Who You Were Meant to Be: A Guide to Finding or Recovering Your Life's Purpose”: https://www.amazon.ca/Who-You-Were-Meant-Recovering/dp/0882821873 For more information about Dr. Gibson: https://catalogue.pesi.com.au/speaker/lindsay-gibson-346187/18 Materials to Reference: 4 signs that a parent is emotionally immature: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/mental-wealth/202111/4-signs-parent-is-emotionally-immature Accessing Emotional Immaturity (questionnaires and resources): http://curioushealing.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/ACEIP_exercises.pdf Tips for finding your life's purpose: Accessing Emotional Immaturity (questionnaires and resources): https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/articles/202301/5-ways-to-find-your-purpose

Episode Highlights With RyanHow he shifted from just talking about stoicism to bringing this into parentingThe imbalance in the domestic load that often exists between moms and dads and what he views as paths forward to help balance thisWhy there aren't a lot of good parenting books, especially for DadModern times expect much more of parents and how this has shifted parentingWhy it might be a good thing when kids misbehave or push boundaries and how to handle this in a positive wayWe don't really control our kids and even if we can, it isn't a good idea, so what to do insteadThe importance of modeling in parenting and especially in communicating valuesWhy parents need to get serious about understanding what our values actually are when it comes to our childrenThe things we can get caught up in thinking are important now with our kids that won't be important at all in 20 yearsBalancing protecting our kids with helping them learn to be autonomousKey takeaways from his book that he hopes to leave listeners and readers withMaking parenting decisions with the long term goals in mindResources We MentionThe Daily Dad: 366 Meditations on Parenting, Love, and Raising Great Kids by Ryan HolidayThe Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living by Ryan HolidayThe Obstacle is the Way by Ryan HolidayRyan Holiday The Stoic Virtues Series 2 Books SetThe daily dad email signup linkAdult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson PsyD

What are some ways in which emotional neglect can be just as damaging as physical neglect or abuse? And how can individuals cultivate a sense of agency and around their emotions, especially those who have experienced trauma? In this episode, we will unpack: Emotional neglect and its impact Validity of all emotions Taking responsibility for one's own emotions Processing core emotions Directing grief toward childhood experiences Importance of naming and expressing emotions Cultivating a sense of agency and control over emotions Supporting individuals through coaching services Join me as I share a personal journey with emotions, shedding light on the impact of emotional neglect and the importance of emotional support and validation. Learn to cultivate agency around your emotions, especially after experiencing trauma.  ❥❥❥ Apply for 1-1 coaching with me: https://forms.gle/ecM2ehvDveR2KMqv7 Resources Mentioned: Hilary Jacobs Hendel | The Change Triangle® www.hilaryjacobshendel.com/hilarys-blog Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents | https://www.amazon.com/Adult-Children-Emotionally-Immature-Parents-ebook/dp/B00TZE87S4?ref_=ast_author_mpb ❥❥❥ Thank you so much for being here! I appreciate and love you so much. Please take a moment to rate the show and subscribe - it would mean the world to me! ❥❥❥ Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/marina.y.t FREE nervous system regulation online training: https://event.webinarjam.com/register/2/8o9pkfy Connect and Ground: 10 Incredible Somatic Practices for Nervous System Regulation: https://marinayt.com/connect-ground/ ---------------------------- Emotional neglect, Emotional abuse, Trauma recovery, Emotional support, Validation, Agency, Core emotions, Childhood experiences, Personal growth, Coaching services, Mental health, Self-improvement, Psychology, Emotional intelligence, somatic healing

Good Morning lovely listeners!!The wonderful Maddie is joining us for an episode on Attachment Styles and dating!We do recommend also listening to our first episode on Attachment: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/attachment-theory-can-our-childhood-impact-on-dating/id1463750699?i=1000439908613 Attachment theory is the term given to our internal template which determines how we love,  our capacity to feel safe, trust and have confidence in our relationships and the world around us. We dive into: - What is attachment theory? - Attachment in relation to childhood- Brief overview of the four styles - Pop psychology misconceptions - Adult attachment and how it impacts dating We hope you love this episode! Aimee, Maddie, Kat xHelpful resourcesThe Power of Attachment. How to Create Deep and Lasting Intimate Relationships By: Diane Poole HellerAdult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents by Dr. Lindsay GibsonHold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love by Sue JohnsonYou can find more of us here: 6 -week anxiety course:coming-home-how-to-care-for-anxiety.teachable.com/p/coming-home-how-to-care-for-anxietyOur Online Psychology practice:https://thepsychcollaborative.com.auThe Psychology Sisters Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/thepsychologysisters/?hl=enThe Psych Collaborative instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/thepsychcollaborative/?hl=enPlease note: this episode is for informational purposes only and does not replace personalised psychological advice.

Welcome to Bare Mixup w. Danii and Rae! On our 98th episode, we talk about the “roles” we play based on childhood experiences, survival, and expectations Song of The Week: 2 Sugar-Wizkid ft. Ayra Starr BARE MIXUP & CHILL PLAYLIST: open.spotify.com/playlist/6u3Qnn0…VITaKC2Nbg3eyl0g BARE MIXUP CHUNES PLAYLIST: open.spotify.com/playlist/5amJ6tV…ZRTKOOV_-uhfYxPQ Black Owned Business: BARE MIX UP MERCH!!! -teespring.com/stores/bare-mix-up-buy Book: Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents by Lindsay Gibson Therapy resources: - www.blacktherapistlist.com/ - www.psychologytoday.com/ca/therapists -providers.therapyforblackgirls.com/ -FREE THERAPY For Canadians: myicbt.com/home Instagram: @baremixuppod Email: baremixuppod@gmail.com Intro Music by: @chiefvillo Cover Artwork by: @byroux_ Audio Editing: @daniellacreme_

Perhaps the only silver lining of learning about your attachment style is realizing that it can be healed and repaired, or at least that's how Anna sees it. On today's episode, Nina and Anna unpack their results from the https://www.attachmentproject.com/attachment-style-quiz/ (Attachment Style Quiz) and discuss the current research behind how attachment styles are formed. They reflect on familial and biological factors that they believe have influenced their attachment styles and the work that they continue to do to become more secure individuals.  There are four main attachment styles: anxious, avoidant, disorganized, and secure. They start to develop in utero, are put into place by 18 months old, and firmly developed by the age of four. Anna explores how her anxious attachment most likely came from experiencing emotional neglect as a child and not getting the comfort that she needed. She illustrates how this has affected her as an adult and how she's working on cultivating safe connections.  On the other end of the spectrum, Nina's test result revealed that she has secure attachment. She admits that if she had answered the questions 10 years earlier, the results might've been different, but she's learned to openly express her emotions and depend on her husband. She shares her perspective on attachment styles as a mother and ways that she sees it showing up in her four-year-old son.  Listen to the episode on https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-be-human/id1575612024 (Apple Podcasts), https://open.spotify.com/show/1V8taFSZQDpMcXkrP5dGrs?si=PtYeksWSRLGn_vu1vWBvMw&dl_branch=1 (Spotify), https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkcy5zaW1wbGVjYXN0LmNvbS9yTHpBOUg2Mg (Google Podcasts), https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/fa34c28b-2ac5-49cb-9fc7-15328379d789 (Amazon Music), https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-how-to-be-human-84625355/ (iHeartRadio), https://www.stitcher.com/show/how-to-be-human-5 (Stitcher), or on your favorite podcast platform Topics Covered: Psychologist John Bowlby‘s work on attachment theory How your early relationship with your caregivers influences how you build relationships as an adult Looking at the relationship between intergenerational trauma and attachment styles When the workload of motherhood starts to overshadow the emotional and physical needs of a child  The body and intuition component of attachment styles  Resources Mentioned: https://www.amazon.com/Attached-Science-Adult-Attachment-YouFind/dp/1585429139/ref=tmm_pap_title_0 (Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find - and Keep - Love by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller) https://www.amazon.com/Adult-Children-Emotionally-Immature-Parents/dp/1626251703/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2XRRLTF5X82ZV&keywords=children+of+emotionally+immature+parents&qid=1662487118&s=books&sprefix=children+of+emotionally+immature+parents%2Cstripbooks%2C170&sr=1-1 (Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson )  Get in Touch: https://howtobehumanpod.com/ (How to Be Human) https://www.instagram.com/howtobehumanpod/ (How to Be Human Instagram) https://www.instagram.com/annatoonk/ (Anna's Instagram) https://www.instagram.com/humannamednina/ (Nina's Instagram) https://www.annatoonk.com/ (Book a session with Anna) https://ninaendrsthealth.com/ (Book a session with Nina)

Emotionally immature people (EIP's) are hard to avoid and most of us, if not all of us, have to deal with them at some point in our lives. These interactions can range from mildly annoying to genuinely traumatic, especially if the emotionally immature people in question are our own parents, which is true for an awful lot of us.Today's guest, clinical psychologist Lindsay C. Gibson, gives advice for dealing with emotionally immature people, whether they're your parents or not. She has written a sleeper hit book on the subject called, Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents.In this episode we talk about:The signs of emotional immaturity Whether or not I'm emotionally immatureWhat happens to children who are raised by emotionally immature parents, including their signature coping strategiesWhy adult children of EIP's turn to healing fantasies, and how to let them goHow to cope with emotionally immature parents as an adultWhat role compassion should and should not play in your relationship with EIP'sHow to healFull Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/lindsay-gibson-497See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ari talks about growing up in the picture perfect Mormon family, and how it all crumbled when she was excommunicated from that family for speaking out against abuse. In this episode, we discuss how Ari lost her faith in the church when she realized that it, too was rooted in abuse and lies, and set on excommunicating those who spoke out against those things. In her discovery, she concluded that the church creates toxic family systems and even abuse cycles. Ari and Adam are parents to 9 kids, and are now cycle breakers. Show Notes: 12 Rules of a dysfunctional narcissistic family: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-narcissist-in-your-life/202003/the-12-rules-dysfunctional-narcissistic-family Narcissistic Personality Disorder - Mayo Clinic: https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/narcissistic-personality-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20366662 http://Cesletter.org Stronger than the dark book - Cory Reese: https://www.amazon.com/Stronger-Than-Dark-Relationship-Depression/dp/1736966405 LDS Gospel Topics Essays: https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/manual/gospel-topics-essays/plural-marriage-in-the-church-of-jesus-christ-of-latter-day-saints?lang=eng Jeremy Runnells MS Interview: https://mormonstories.org/podcast/jeremy-runnells-and-his-letter-to-a-ces-director/ No Man Knows my History - Fawn Brodie: https://www.amazon.com/No-Man-Knows-My-History/dp/0679730540 Mormon History Timeline: https://mormonstories.org/truth-claims/chronology-of-mormon-history/ Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents: https://www.amazon.com/Adult-Children-Emotionally-Immature-Parents/dp/1626251703 Educated - Tara Westover: https://www.amazon.com/Educated-Memoir-Tara-Westover/dp/0399590501 Tara Westover MS interviews (there are 2): https://mormonstories.org/podcast/tara-westover/ Recovering Agency: https://www.amazon.com/Recovering-Agency-Lifting-Mormon-Control/dp/1489595937 The BITE model: https://freedomofmind.com/the-bite-model-and-religious-cult-groups/ ________ We are 100% donor funded! Please click HERE to donate and keep this content coming! Click here to donate monthly: $10 $25 $50 ————— MSP on Spotify MSP on Apple Podcasts MSP Blog Instagram Patreon TikTok Discord   Contact Us! *MormonStories@gmail.com *PO Box 171085 Salt Lake City, UT 84117

In today's episode I discuss the ways in which immature parents damage their children and how that differs from those who are raise their children mindfully, consciously and with intention. See Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents by Lindsay Gibson below: https://tinyurl.com/yf3t87v9 If you are interested in joining the MHC Healing Community Facebook Group which is a group of like-minded individuals who are interested in healing from narcissism and narcissistic abuse, feel free to join below: www.facebook.com/groups/mhchealingcommunity Below are some free resources to help you on your healing journey. Website | The Magnolia Healing Center is constantly growing and evolving. Come here to learn more about our center. (p.s. Blog is coming soon!) Social Media | Stay in touch through all of our social platforms, where we offer updates on our center and post daily quotes and videos! If you are interested in working with me one-on-one and go on a Healing Journey together with me, feel free to set up a time to talk with me below. http://calendly.com/yitz_epstein Much love, Yitz

Did you grow up with an emotionally immature, unavailable, or selfish parent? Did you often feel unseen or unheard by those who raised you? Did you take on adult responsibilities or roles as a way to compensate for your parent's behavior? If so, you may still be challenged by lingering feelings of anger, betrayal, or abandonment. Dr. Lindsay Gibson had a radical thought in her decades of doing psychotherapy: Perhaps some of her clients weren't the ones who needed therapy -- it was their parent(s) that did! Join Sisters Cracking Up as we interview Dr. Lindsay Gibson, author of the bestseller, Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents, a groundbreaking work that uncovers this invisible trauma and reveals ways to heal and free yourself of your parent's emotional immaturity and the wounds it inflicted. Lindsay Gibson is a licensed clinical psychologist who has been a psychotherapist for over 30 years, in both private and public settings. Dr. Gibson specializes in helping adults who are interested in personal growth, especially when they are dealing with the effects of having emotionally immature parents and other E.I. relationships. For more information and writings by Dr. Lindsay Gibson, you can check out her website at drlindsaygibson.com.

By sharing his own personal experience with religious trauma and evolution towards leaving fundamentalism behind, Andrew Pledger was fired from his campus job and expelled from Bob Jones University.  Join our conversation as Andrew shares how his art gave him a unique opportunity to explore how religious trauma has impact his life and how he started his own journey of healing, spiritual growth, and listening to God to become his own hero. Resource List: This I know: A Simple Biblical Defence for LGBTQ Christians, by Jim DantMy Gay Church Days: A memoir of a closeted evangelical pastor who eventually had enough, by George AzarThe Body Keeps Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma, by Bessel van der Kolk M.D.Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents, by Lindsay C. GibsonLeaving the Fold: A Guide for Former Fundamentalists and Others Leaving Their Religion, by Marlene WinellBeyond Shame: Creating a Healthy Sex Life on Your Own Terms, by Matthias RobertsSacred Wounds: A Path to Healing from Spiritual Trauma, by Teresa B PasqualeFirst Baptist Church, Greenville SCChurchClarity

Why am I the way I am? In the first episode of The Cook Coterie Podcast, I share the purpose behind this podcast and a condensed version of my story of growth and healing. After realizing my mother's narcissism, I embarked on a journey to be free of narcissistic control and create a new legacy for the next generation in my family. I share tips on how to find your authentic self no matter what you've been through in life.I help narcissistic abuse survivors live the life they deserve! Schedule a confidential conversation with me here.Connect with me at @marieelliscook on Instagram to stay up to date on all Cook Coterie projects.Books I recommend on healing your inner child:The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk M.D. Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents by Lindsay C. GibsonThe bible for healing daughters of narc mothers:Will I Ever Be Good Enough?: Healing The Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers by Dr. Karyl McBrideMental health resources:USA:Distress & Lifeline: 1800 273 8255Crisis Text Line: text HOME to 741 741Domestic Violence Helpline: 1800 799 7233Victim Connect: support for victims of crime: 855 484 2846MTC program: maketheconnection.net/resources/spread-the-word SINGAPORE:TOUCHline (Counselling) – 1800 377 2252Institute of Mental Health's Mental Health Helpline (6389-2222)Samaritans of Singapore (1800-221-4444)Silver Ribbon Singapore (6385-3714) Big Love Child Protection Specialist Centre (6445-0400)HEART @ Fei Yue Child Protection Specialist Centre (6819-9170)PAVE Integrated Services for Individual and Family Protection (6555-0390)Project START (6476-1482)TRANS SAFE Centre (6449-9088) UK:Mind: mental health support: 0300 123 3393SANE: mental health support: 0300 304 7000National Stalking Helpline: 0808 802 0300 CANADA:Distress Centre https://www.dcottawa.on.ca/They are open 10am to 11pm EST and you can chat by phone or text. Their number is Distress: 613-238-3311  |  Crisis: 613-722-6914 or 1-866-996-0991 For a list of Canadian crisis centres: https://thelifelinecanada.ca/help/call/ NEW ZEALAND:Lifeline: 0800 543354Depression Helpline: 0800 111 757 (Text 4202) AUSTRALIA:Lifeline Crisis Support: 13 11 14Beyond Blue: Depression and anxiety support: 1300 22 46 36Rape & Domestic Violence Services: 1800 737 732Men's Line: 1300 78 99 78Headspace: Youth Mental Health Foundation: see headspace.org.au for your local centre.

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Here is my current list of books on my bookshelf or in que for purchase. Please note that several of the authors have been guests on this podcast or the books were mentioned in episodes. I strongly encourage you to purchase at least 2 books. One for you and one for a friend... remember YOU are also your own BFF! The info I learned in the books made my soul vibrate, and I hope it does the same for you. Journey Well. * Overcoming: Affirmations for Success - https://amzn.to/3nxqXxg * Black Mental Health Matters: The Ultimate Guide for Mental Health Awareness in the Black Community - https://amzn.to/3lgVfBN * We Got This Sis: 40 Exhortations From Our Hearts to Yours - https://amzn.to/3lxLY8P * The Body Keeps the Score- https://amzn.to/3hs1S30 and https://amzn.to/3C5EmAM * Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment & How It Can Help You Find and Keep Love- https://amzn.to/3k0Wzt4 Attached: The Workbook - https://amzn.to/3nE5Bib * Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self Involved Parents - https://amzn.to/2YOUCrH * Breaking the Silence: Christianity & Mental Illness- https://amzn.to/3C4WESY * How to Do the Work: Recognize Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past & Create Self- https://amzn.to/3tMvPA5 * 12 Steps to Mind-Blowing Happiness - https://amzn.to/3txrP64 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/bggyst/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/bggyst/support

Todays guest is Dayna Ciartalia, A Transformational Coach who love to dive in to gentle parenting. We discuss the blocks for many moms, making mistakes is ok, and gentle does not equal spoiled. Dayna Shares her personal story leading to the work she does and some tips on getting started with conscious parenting. To get in contact with Dayna: https://www.instagram.com/the.conscious.healing.mama/ https://linktr.ee/conscioushealingmamas To get in contact with Nicole: https://beacons.ai/nicolehennessy2 Book Recommendations: I Can Love Me: A guided journal to self love https://amzn.to/3jU8urz Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents https://amzn.to/3xUYX8I Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents: Practical Tools to Establish Boundaries and Reclaim Your Emotional Autonomy https://amzn.to/3iLLGeb How to do the work https://amzn.to/2W1EDoW Gentle Discipline https://amzn.to/3snHzYP Unconditional Parenting: Moving from Rewards and Punishments to Love and Reason https://amzn.to/3yRPiRg Punished by Rewards: The Trouble with Gold Stars, Incentive Plans, A's, Praise, and Other Bribes https://amzn.to/2UkS4zH The Whole-Brain Child: 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind https://amzn.to/3sj9SHS Some Links may be affiliate links clicking and purchasing a recommended item The Hennessy's House LLC may receive compensation. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thehennessyshouse/support

This is part 4 of a four-episode series on understanding the origins and characteristics of complex trauma as well as paving a holistic path of healing.In this episode, Aadam and I talk about a holistic approach to healing complex trauma using the bio-psycho-social-spiritual model, wrapping up our series on complex trauma.How do proper nutrition and sleep impact my healing and recovery? What are some grounding techniques that could help me deal with my triggers? How can relationships help me heal my old wounds? Is a spiritual connection a necessary component of the healing process? These and other questions are explored in this episode.Resources used and mentioned in the episode:- Video series on complex trauma by Tim Fletcher- Running on Empty: Overcome Your Childhood Emotional Neglect by Jonice Webb- How To Do The Work by Dr. Nicole LePera- When the Body Says No: Understanding the Stress-Disease Connection by Dr. Gabor Maté- The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-regulation by Dr. Stephen Porges- Anger release scene from the series, "How to Get Away with Murder",  played by Viola Davis- The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by ​​Dr. Bessel Van der Kolk (main book), and related workbook - Secrets of Divine Love: A Spiritual Journey into the Heart of Islam by A. HelwaAdditional resources:- Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents by Dr. Lindsay Gibson- The Tao of Fully Feeling: Harvesting Forgiveness out of Blame by Pete Walker- Forgiveness: How to Make Peace With Your Past and Get on With Your Life by Dr. Sidney Simon and Suzanne Simon- Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving: A Guide and Map for Recovering from Childhood Trauma by Pete Walker- Polyvagal Safety: Attachment, Communication, Self-Regulation by Dr. Stephen Porges

Are you one of the countless people who grew up with emotionally immature parents? If your parent's needs came first, you may still recall painful moments of childhood emotional neglect, when your feelings were dismissed, or when you took on adult levels of maturity in an effort to compensate for your parents' behavior. And although you likely cultivated strengths such as self-reliance and independence along the way—strengths that have served you well as an adult—having to be the emotionally mature person in your relationship with your parent is confusing and exhausting.       Emotionally immature parents take a toll on their children. Emotional loneliness is often the result of having parents who were so wrapped up in their own issues they neglected your needs for connection and attention, and even expected you to make them feel better.       You can free yourself from the depleting role of catering to the needs of the emotionally immature. Once you understand how these immature people function, you will no longer feel guilty or ashamed for not helping them more. You will learn how to reconnect with your true self while interacting with others in ways that keep you from being emotionally drained.  ​This book has been an Amazon bestseller and has been translated into thirteen languages. With the recent publication of my latest book, Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, I have answered a question that has intrigued me for years: why do so many psychotherapy clients seem so much more together and self-aware than their family members? In other words, why are the least problematic people the ones seeking treatment? Realizing that many of my clients' family members were highly emotionally immature, I set out to explore and explain their destructive interactions in a way that could free people to live their own best lives without being worn out by these draining personalities. By understanding our loved ones' emotional immaturity, we can regain our trust in ourselves and get free from the destructive and confusing effects of early programming from childhood.             In my previous book, Who You Were Meant To Be, I focused on how people can reconnect with their true self and sense of purpose. I have devoted my professional life to helping people learn how to rely on their own emotional guidance, strengthen their self-awareness, and increase their energy for full living.             After obtaining two graduate degrees in clinical psychology – a Master's degree from Central Michigan University, and a Doctorate of Psychology from the Virginia Consortium Program in Clinical Psychology – I became licensed as a clinical psychologist in the Commonwealth of Virginia. For many years I was also an Assistant Adjunct Professor for the College of William and Mary and Old Dominion University, teaching classes of doctoral students in the Virginia Consortium Program in Clinical Psychology. I have specialized in adult psychotherapy and personal growth counseling, as well as doing years of intensive personality and intellectual testing. In-depth psychodynamic training helped me understand people's problems from a developmental perspective, leading to my livelong fascination with the striking differences between adults in their levels of psychological maturity.             I came to clinical psychology from a background in art and literature, fascinated by all aspects of human creativity and conflict. Beginning in college as a studio art major, I then briefly switched to psychology, where I was disappointed to find an emphasis on animal experimentation instead of understanding people. Seeking to explore human nature, I finally found what I was looking for in English literature, where human desire and motivation could be studied endlessly. Finally in my senior year, a developmental psychology class introduced me to the field of clinical psychology, providing the scientific fascination I had been seeking.

* disclaimer - this is a mouth sound heavy episode, chewing, crunching etc! *This episode is full of us eating spicy foods as a result of truth or dare and would you rather style questions! We also shift gears after our takis and other flamin' hot snacks and determine whether or not people who wrote in on the AITA subreddit are in fact, a**holes. We hope you enjoy this silly banter from us! We'll hit you with a topic based episode next week, so stay tuned! Each week, we want to recommend a book, video series, podcast, an online account, or a product that is adding value to our lives.Em: The Mile Higher Podcast and The Sesh Podcast, (Kendall Rae's many creative projects alongside her youtube channel!) Sav: The book, - Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self Involved Parents by Lindsay C. GibsonAlso mentioned:Truth or Drink series Give us a follow on Instagram @lifecomesfastpod, contact us there through DM or email: lifecomesatyoufastpod@gmail.com! Click here to follow our personal accounts →  Savannah + EmilyYou can support this podcast by leaving a rating, a written review or become a patron of our show! Be sure to leave us a review and subscribe to The Life Comes At You Fast Podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or wherever you listen!

This week, Al and Mikayla discuss the dreaded Friend Zone, and how men and women know when they've been labeled as strictly a friend.They also converse about what it's like to be friends with other couples(single, engaged, or married), and the pressure they sometimes add about having multiple children back to back. The book mentioned in today's episode was Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents and can be found for purchase here:https://www.amazon.com/Adult-Children-Emotionally-Immature-Parents/dp/1626251703