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Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2023 9:37

Lesley highlights the significance of recognizing and valuing team achievements. This episode illustrates the impact of acknowledging big and small victories, power of community support, and the importance of asking for help. Listen to the testament found in celebrating team milestones and the positive ripple effect it creates. If you have any questions about this episode or want to get some of the resources we mentioned, head over to LesleyLogan.co/podcast. If you have any comments or questions about the Be It pod shoot us a message at beit@lesleylogan.co. And as always, if you're enjoying the show please share it with someone who you think would enjoy it as well. It is your continued support that will help us continue to help others. Thank you so much! Never miss another show by subscribing at LesleyLogan.co/subscribe.In this episode you will learn about:The value of giving yourself credit despite unfinished wins.Why asking for support facilitates growth for both clients and practitioners.How celebrating collective wins reinforces team spirit and motivates further success.Episode References/Links:The value of giving yourself credit despite unfinished wins.Why asking for support facilitates growth for both clients and practitioners.How celebrating collective wins reinforces team spirit and motivates further success. If you enjoyed this episode, make sure and give us a five star rating and leave us a review on iTunes, Podcast Addict, Podchaser or Castbox. Get your free Athletic Greens 1 year supply of Vitamin D3+K2 and 5 free travel packs Get your discount for some Toe Sox using the code: LESLEY Be It Till You See It Podcast SurveyBe in the know with all the workshops at OPCBe a part of Lesley's Pilates MentorshipFREE Ditching Busy Webinar Resources:Watch the Be It Till You See It podcast on YouTube!Lesley Logan websiteBe It Till You See It PodcastOnline Pilates Classes by Lesley LoganOnline Pilates Classes by Lesley Logan on YouTubeProfitable Pilates Follow Us on Social Media:InstagramFacebookLinkedIn Episode Transcript:Lesley Logan 0:00 It's Fuck Yeah Friday. Brad Crowell 0:01 Fuck yeah. Lesley Logan 0:02 Get ready for some wins.Lesley Logan 0:05 Welcome to the Be It Till You See It podcast where we talk about taking messy action, knowing that perfect is boring. I'm Lesley Logan, Pilates instructor and fitness business coach. I've trained thousands of people around the world and the number one thing I see stopping people from achieving anything is self-doubt. My friends, action brings clarity and it's the antidote to fear. Each week, my guest will bring bold, executable, intrinsic and targeted steps that you can use to put yourself first and Be It Till You See It. It's a practice, not a perfect. Let's get started. Lesley Logan 0:48 Happy Fuck Yeah Friday. Oh my goodness, we're mid December, holy frickin molly. I'm sure you're like, it's like, I can't even believe I'm having the time to listen to this. I'm, you're probably listening to this or avoiding other things or in traffic, or maybe you're catching up over the holidays. But Hi.Lesley Logan 1:04 Take a moment to think about something you did do this week, which is probably a lot more than what you give yourself credit for. So first, the way this episode runs, it's short. It's sweet. It's all about sharing wins. So you can see what kinds of wins that are out there because you're probably not giving yourself enough credit for what you're doing out there. Right. You're probably not giving yourself credit until like it's a complete, perfect, presented package with a bow on it. Guess what? Sometimes I bet my gifts aren't even wrapped. So my wins can't be either. So I share a couple wins of yours and I share one of mine you can always send your wins into the Be It Pod and we'll share them on the episode. Sometimes it's nice to hear your win later on down the road. Because then you're like, Oh, I forgot I forgot about that. I was amazing that day. Lesley Logan 1:43 So first of all, this one is this one's amazing. This is Kimberly Craig. She's an Agency member for many years she's in Canada and this is like I hope you get this one. So this from her perspective she's she's writing this right? Holy FYF y'all. Sorry this is huge, but I've got to share. On our coaching call yesterday LL gave me some scary tasks to kickstart my fearless dive into 2024. I am far from fearless my friends, but I sent a message to the studio I've been limping along with to tell them I'm done on November 27. Then I sent a request to my sister and two besties the text said my coach suggested to get my face out there that I do a charity class online before Christmas for donations. I'm not sure what to pick but maybe the animal shelter will win, right? I haven't got around to planning anything yet. But I'm solidifying this weekend. I'm I have a couple of asks if you're willing, please, please, please. One, would you at the very least consider being a backup body if very few people participate? Two, would you know anyone who you could share the invite with who might want to do Pilates for a good cause?Lesley Logan 2:44 It's not even out there and I'm freaking out I'll be all alone. Well, in about two minutes they got back to me with at least 20 people they know off the top of their heads and the suggestion I fundraise for the rescue. I got my sweet dog Ruby from last year personal connection success story matters to me checks all the boxes for me to be invested. The rescue loves my sister, her daughter and her sister-in-law because they trained dogs for them in the area to be adoptable. But y'all, y'all the super ginormous win here is that little did I know the rescue is huge and operates all over my province. It has over 800,000 followers and not only participate in the charity class, they'll promote the heck out of it too. And my Ruby is so pretty, she'll be one of the one hell of a model. My sister will be here next weekend and plans to take a bunch of pictures for me. So I've got some work to do. This had lifted my spirits and made me feel more positive than I have in months. Please remember to ask for what you need from those who love you. That means our family friends would also LL and the other coaches and everyone else in Agency, you don't have to do everything alone. If it weren't for less his unwavering support and encouragement. I know, I probably have packed it all in by now. But that wouldn't help anyone, would it? Somehow I don't think I'll be alone in that charity class after all. I mean, fuck yeah. Kim fuck yeah that's amazing. I know that the thing is happening this weekend. I'm so proud of you. And this is such a huge one. I love that you helped (inaudible) on this win, so that other people can see that like, just because people are doing things doesn't mean that they feel like they have it all together. But you asked for help. And you got it and you have this amazing community backing you up. Lesley Logan 4:13 Alright, second one. This is from Christine Eshan. She is an eLevate grad and Agency member. And she's got this beautiful studio in a small town and I love I love watching her grow. She met with Kim, another Agency member and they practiced what to say and she loved it and they tried. Would you be open to add another session? And we're able to practice that. And then when she asked a client who was a current client, that person said yes, so now she's got a client who's coming in twice a week because she practiced with Kim way to go. Another win she had is asked another all time favorite client who has taps hip surgery but doesn't know when would you be open to doing some Pilates sessions to maintain your strength and maintain your mobility until your scheduled surgery and she said yes. And then she attended our first (inaudible) with Alex Street, which was amazing and she practiced self-care this week with her own Pilates practice walks and (inaudible) and massage and she's continuing to study for her fall prevention special certification for PT and also to work on a workshop for next year. She loves she also said as always love this community, LL, Brad and thank you Maya for all you do. Christine, you are kicking butt like look at you did all in a week, like you practice something you were brave enough to ask. So often people don't ask and your clients and your, y'all, the people around you they they don't know what you know. So the worst thing you could do could hear is a no. But the best thing is, I guess. And it's actually better for them. Like it's not just all about you. So way to go, Christine, for for putting out there and helping them see that there's things that can help them and you get to be that person. I'm so excited for you. Lesley Logan 5:50 Well, ladies, kicking butt. Okay, my win. So I actually have had a lot of wins this year that we, Brad and I realized we hadn't actually shared with you guys, so I'm going to compile them. Not in a way that makes you think that oh my gosh, you should wait till the win is solidified to celebrate it. No, it's just that some of these wins. I wanted to make sure everything was good. Before I celebrate, it's not just my personal story. It's a team, we have 25 amazing people on our team. And we actually added two new ones, little babies to the family. So congrats to Jai. She's our customer support amazing person, and also does all the beautiful things that you see that we put out. As far as marketing goes. So Jai had another baby is her second. And then Melissa Solomon, she helps me with my eLevate in my podcast, this podcast, they had their first baby so so happy for their families and just happy that they're part of ours. Cambodia was epic, it's amazing, you know that already. But one thing you might not know that we're celebrating a win as a team is that we actually sold a retreat for someone else to use our space, which is the reason why we got the space and like it's actually taken us. Unfortunately, because the pandemic it took us four years longer to do this goal. So it's actually really huge that it happened and we have people interested for next year. So that's so exciting. And you may not know this if you're new listener, but back in March, we actually had to rebuild the entire onlinepilatesclasses.com website was not on the plan this year. Quite the stressful adventure. But we are back to getting this the traffic we had before the crash happened thanks to the people on our team. So that's so exciting, because without the traffic, then we can't help the people that we're here to help. So, so, so excited. Lesley Logan 7:38 And as you know, at this time, we're actually on our winter tour, it is our largest tour ever. We have actually 18 cities, 48 events, like so many people that we get to have an impact with and be in community with. And we couldn't do it without a team and without our sponsor, balanced body, but also without you. So these are some really huge wins. And I just wanted to take some time before the end of the year to actually celebrate my amazing team and what they've done this year. This is just a few things they've done this year, but just really incredible how hard they work. So you guys, if at all at the very least, like just look back at the year ago, oh my god, I did that. Do it now before the holiday chaos happens. Lesley Logan 8:22 Okay, and something that you guys have said you've been loving is that we do a little affirmation at the end. So here is the random one I picked for you. I invite abundance and a generous heart. Oh, that's a good one. That's a perfect time of the year to hear this one. I invite abundance and a generous heart so you want abundance and you want the generous heart but a perfect time of year to have that one. Right up and down five times. Say it out loud. Meditate on it, percolate on it and my loves, you know what, you are so amazing. Until next time, Be It Till You See It. Lesley Logan 8:49 That's all I got for this episode of the Be It Till You See It Podcast. One thing that would help both myself and future listeners is for you to rate the show and leave a review and follow or subscribe for free wherever you listen to your podcast. Also, make sure to introduce yourself over at the Be It Pod on Instagram. I would love to know more about you. Share this episode with whoever you think needs to hear it. Help us and others Be It Till You See It. Have an awesome day. Be It Till You See It is a production of The Bloom Podcast Network. Brad Crowell 9:20 It's written, filmed, and recorded by your host, Lesley Logan and me, Brad Crowell. Lesley Logan 9:25 It is produced and edited by the epic team at Disenyo. Brad Crowell 9:29 Our theme music is by Ali at Apex Production Music, and our branding by designer and artist Gianfranco Cioffi. Lesley Logan 9:36 Special thanks to Melissa Solomon for creating our visuals and Ximena Velazquez for our transcriptions. 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THROWBACK: How Storytelling Can Bring You More SALES w/ Alex Street

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Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2023 29:27

We have total Babe on the show today, the one & only Alex Street!! Today on the Sales & Social Podcast, we're talking all about standing out with YOUR story. Alex is sharing with us how your story will clarify your focus. People buy transformation; they connect with their emotions through storytelling. You know I'm all about storytelling & authenticity, Babe! If you want to know HOW to tell your story, don't miss today's episode. CONNECT WITH ALEX: Grab Alex's 30 Second Story Guide here: 30 Second Story Guide Follow Alex: @streetsays You can learn more about Alex & Story Coaching here: Alex Street CONNECT WITH JILLIAN Follow me: @thejillianmurphy Visit my website: thejillianmurphy.com Join my Free Facebook Community: https://bit.ly/sellingsecretsgroup Join the Sales Queen Collective: https://bit.ly/sqcollective Get On The Sales & Social Waitlist: CLICK HERE Get On The Sales Society Waitlist: CLICK HERE

260. Being Intentional with Who You Surround Yourself With

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Play Episode Listen Later Sep 7, 2023 35:15

In this episode, Brad and Lesley delve into the fascinating story of Nikole Mitchell, famously known as the "pastor turned stripper". She bravely transitioned from a pastor's life to a flourishing career as a coach and advocate for self-expression. Discover how Nikole's journey to self-acceptance inspires others to liberate themselves from societal norms and expectations.If you have any questions about this episode or want to get some of the resources we mentioned, head over to LesleyLogan.co/podcast. If you have any comments or questions about the Be It pod shoot us a message at beit@lesleylogan.co . And as always, if you're enjoying the show please share it with someone who you think would enjoy it as well. It is your continued support that will help us continue to help others. Thank you so much! Never miss another show by subscribing at LesleyLogan.co/subscribe.In this episode you will learn about:How embracing the "Be It" mindset may result in losing your circles.The advantage of seeking a coach or community that aligns with your values.Not allowing other people's fears to influence you. How asking for positive feedback helps set the tone for success.Protecting your dream by not allowing others' opinions to mold you.Episode References/Links:Agency Mini Seven-Day Coaching ProgrameLevateCambodia Pilates RetreatClaire SparrowBooks Mentioned:Tough Titties by Laura BelgrayWomen, Food, and Hormones by Sara Gottfried MD, Donna Jay Fulks, et al.The Big Leap by Gay HendricksWe Should All Be Millionaires by Rachel Rodgers and HarperCollins LeadershipEsrahaddon by Michael SullivanMenopocalypse by Amanda ThebePurple Cow, New Edition by Seth GodinBig Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert If you enjoyed this episode, make sure and give us a five star rating and leave us a review on iTunes, Podcast Addict, Podchaser or Castbox.Get your 15% discount for Toe Sox – use coupon code: LESLEY15Be It Till You See It Podcast SurveyBe in the know with all the workshops at OPCBe a part of Lesley's Pilates Mentorship Join us at Agency Mini - Sept. 10-16, 2023Join us at our Cambodia Retreat - Oct. 8-13, 2023FREE Ditching Busy WebinarAmy Ledin - Episode 5: "How to take fast action against limiting beliefs" ResourcesWatch the Be It Till You See It podcast on YouTube!Lesley Logan websiteBe It Till You See It PodcastOnline Pilates Classes by Lesley LoganOnline Pilates Classes by Lesley Logan on YouTubeProfitable PilatesSocial MediaInstagramFacebookLinkedInEpisode Transcript:Lesley Logan 0:00 Sometimes you do have to tell people this is what I need from you. I think sometimes we expect people to know like, oh, I'm doing this big thing, you should just post something nice. But people, they don't know how the algorithm works or how things work. They don't actually know what you need, you have to tell people, here's what I need.Lesley Logan 0:07 Welcome to the Be It Till You See It podcast where we talk about taking messy action, knowing that perfect is boring. I'm Lesley Logan, Pilates instructor and fitness business coach. I've trained thousands of people around the world and the number one thing I see stopping people from achieving anything is self-doubt. My friends, action brings clarity and it's the antidote to fear. Each week, my guest will bring bold, executable, intrinsic and targeted steps that you can use to put yourself first and Be It Till You See It. It's a practice, not a perfect. Let's get started. Lesley Logan 0:21 Welcome back to the Be It Till You See It Interview Recap where my co-host in life, Brad, and I are going to dig into the bold conversation I had with Nikole Mitchell in our last episode. If you haven't yet listened to the interview, you should, whether you do it right now, or after this, or whatever, but it's amazing. So pause this, go back and look, if you're listening in our OPC app, it's really easy to just like flip between the episodes. If you're in your any other of the tools, they typically will drop the latest one first. So if you miss Tuesdays, and you're like, oh, I always miss Tuesdays, well, then you can actually set your settings to tell it to what to do. So you never miss the interviews. Anyways, Nikole is amazing. And we'll talk about her in a minute. She's one of our new dear friends. I feel like so that's fine. (Brad: Starting to that.) I know, I'm actually really annoyed at the time that we're recording this, you are going to see Nikole and her partner. And I'm going to miss them. And it was like a monthly meet-up we were doing that I'm missing. (Brad: I know.) Or what. Ah. (Brad: Yeah.) Anyways. Brad Crowell 1:23 We'll take pictures. Lesley Logan 1:25 I know you will. Nikole, make sure to capture the moment. But today is National Buy a Book Day, everyone. Also National Beer Day. So you can (Brad: Oh yeah. Grab a beer.) And a book. (Brad: Buy a book.) And I wanted to do a shout-out to some of our guests who have books that I can recall. And if you've been on the show, and you have a book and I forgot I'm so sorry. But Claire Sparrow, her book is actually coming out in a couple of weeks. (Brad: Nice.) So definitely be on the lookout for that. That is a book that every woman should buy their friend. Jake Helfer has an amazing book and also helps you write a book. Brad Crowell 2:05 He got a book that helps you write a book. Lesley Logan 2:06 There's just like, I mean, we've had so many people who've written a book. We've got some guests coming up, we've got books coming out. Actually, last week's guest, Rory Vaden, he's written a couple books and bestsellers. So go buy one of our guests' books. Take a picture and tag them and the Be It Pod so we can reshare it. Then also this week we are actually it's the last few days to sign up for our Agency Mini, our Seven-Day Coaching Program for fitness instructors especially Pilates instructors, who are looking for some clarity on their business, getting their burning questions answered, make sure they're on the right path. So that you can have to sign up before Sunday. And if you're listening this on Monday (Brad: It's coming out of the wire folks.) so you got to sign up because our next one is not until the next year which is not in January. It's going to be maybe later in January but probably in February. So and also it is the last few days to get your application in for eLevate my program, my mentorship program for Pilates instructors so it's a big week around here. And so you should do the thing that is in your like best for you for your business and for your teaching right now.Brad Crowell 3:12 Yeah, so profitablepilates.com/mini or lesleylogan.co/elevate.Lesley Logan 3:20 Yes. Then after a few weeks of like, just enjoying Las Vegas in the fall weather that starts up. We'll leave and go to Cambodia. We'll be there for a couple of weeks which is our retreat (Brad: Holy cow I cannot wait.) which is basically full.Lesley Logan 3:34 You are welcome to you know, do your Eat, Pray Love and sign up last minute if you want but if you're wanting to, to do next year's go to lesleylogan.co/retreat to get on the waitlist because we'll do October again next year only one.Brad Crowell 3:51 While we're still selling tickets right now. It's just going to show all of that. But one of the FAQs is like I really can't come this year. I want to get on the waitlist. So check that up.Lesley Logan 4:00 Yeah, yeah. And then and then after I get back from that I'm here for some days, few days. And then I go to Chicago with Erika Quest.Brad Crowell 4:09 That's gonna be a party. And honestly, I'd love to go to but I'm staying home with the pups. Lesley Logan 4:14 You are. And that reminds me of the dogs that are for those couple days in Nashville. But we'll do that after this. And then in DecemberBrad Crowell 4:23 That's how sausage is made folks. Lesley Logan 4:25 This is it. Oh, shoot, we need the dog. December. We're back on the road for our winter tour. So stay tuned for the details on all of that goodness. Before we talk about Nikole. Brad, we have a question. (Brad: We do.) I pulled this one in honor of the day.Brad Crowell 4:41 Yeah, I love it. So since today is the National Buy a Book Day. Oh, by the way, go to Whole Body Pelvic Health for Claire Sparrow's book. (Lesley: Oh fabulous.) Yeah, go to wholebodypelvichealth.co.uk.Lesley Logan 4:53 And every other guest that we did not call out where to get. We love you. (Brad: Yeah, we love you.) Go to the show notes of your episode. Brad Crowell 5:00 Yeah. Okay, so we had all these questions, favorite books, what favorite books are we reading? And Lesley Logan 5:11 I'm gonna go first. Brad Crowell 5:12 You listed a few of them here. Lesley Logan 5:13 Yeah, I listed a few and you can, you know, come up with your own as well. But I am currently listening to Tough Titties by Laura, Laura Belgray. I actually, she was actually my writing coach, my copywriting coach many moons ago. And it's just a fun story. Women, Food and Hormones by Sarah, Dr. Sarah Gottfried. That is an interesting, dense book. But hey, I'm 40. So we're reading it, The Big Leap I say this, every time someone asked me for a book, I listened to this annually. I literally call and go, Oh, I'm upper limit myself right now. Like his book is like my life Bible, to be completely honest. And then We Should All Be Millionaires. I've read that one off before, but I just think many women as possible should read that about money. It's so, so important. Brad, do you have a book that you're reading currently?Brad Crowell 6:06 I do. I have a few. And so the first one that I wanted to talk about is one of my favorite authors of all times, his name is Michael J. Sullivan. He's prolific. He's got like 20 books. And I'm reading his most recent book that came out last year, called Esrahaddon. And that's a character's name that's why it means nothing to anybody. But it's so well written, everything that he's done is so fascinating because he completely ties everything together in an incredible way. That like over 20 books, there's like, all these pieces that are all connected. It's really, really impressive. I just finished reading Menopocalypse: How I Learned to Thrive During Menopause and How You Can, Too. And I did that because I think it's important for me to know about that topic. So there's another book that, let's see, I've just got so many that are on my list here. I'm going through my literally right now just flipping through my Audible account. There's one called well, I think this is a good one, The Purple Cow: Transform Your Business By Being Remarkable. (Lesley: Oh, so good.) Lesley Logan 7:29 So essential even though he talks about some things that are like really old. Everything is still applicable today. So good.Brad Crowell 7:37 Yeah. So if you're interested in actually any of those things just ping us and I'll happily happily share a link.Lesley Logan 7:43 We need Seth on the show. Who knows Seth? (Brad: Yeah. Who knows Seth? We should totally have Seth on the show.) I want to have Seth on the show. Just by me saying Seth if you know Seth, you know who I'm talking about. I want your help. Anyways, I love when people ask us about what books we're reading and what podcasts because it changes over time based on your like interests and everything and it's so, so important to immerse yourself in topics the things you don't know some things for pleasure some things for inspiration.Brad Crowell 8:09 All about it. Okay, now let's talk about Nikole Mitchell. Nikole Mitchell with her refreshingly honest and bold demeanor, emanates genuine authenticity demonstrating an intuitive connection with her body that encourages women to embrace and love themselves. Lesley Logan 9:08 Yeah. She's phenomenal. She's so great. Brad Crowell 9:12 Yeah, I think her one-liner is a bit shocking. She's a pastor turned stripper. (Lesley: Yes.) I think the shock value is a little bit on purpose. It definitely raises eyebrows. And you know whatLesley Logan 9:25 Hey, well, as we know from guest Alex Street, you have to have a story that can be told in three seconds. You can expand into 30 seconds, maybe into three minutes and keep going but like you have to go where was I, where am I now? Like, everyone has that. Like, I was in retail now I'm a Pilates instructor or I was homeless now I like I have a five-bedroom house. Like... Brad Crowell 9:45 Well, my point in this is that you know, when she was a pastor, we didn't know her when she was a pastor and but I can imagine the type of pastor that she is based on the type of person that we have met today, so and it has completely up ended my understanding of what a stripper is. Who a stripper is, like, in my mind. Like, it's, I don't think I ever I never conceptualize being friends with someone who's like, yeah, that's what I do. And it's been so funny because she, I guess,Lesley Logan 10:24 Well I think what's so cool about her, we're gonna get through in a second but like it's really, because I'm a Pilates instructor and so like, it feels like it's part of but I'm not just a Pilates instructor and when we hang out I am more like it's like I'm just talking about like teasers all the time, I actually do talk about a lot of other things that have nothing to do with it. (Brad: Exactly.) What is so what you forget about that with yourself when you think like your job is kind of just like what it's, it's a normal ish job, right? Because she's a stripper, and we've only known her is that what I love is when we were hanging out it's only talking about stripping. We don't talk about her taking clothes off (Brad: No.) like we can, that is an that is a conversation that can come up and she would not shy away from it. But like, ever, she is the perfect example that we are all more than what we consider our job or our career. And she is a multifaceted person. And if you do follow her on Only Fans, like I get I get tons of like aspirations and informations from all of her posts.Brad Crowell 11:27 Yeah, she she's also a life coach, she started coaching people before she started her Only Fans account. You know, and I didn't actually I kind of went down the rabbit hole just to read a little bit more about her when we were doing these interviews and stuff. And I thought that was really amazing. She is just, she has a, her story, which I thought was really fun about the interview is that it wasn't actually about what she does today. It was about her transition from being like, you know, basically oppressed, and in like the society, like the situation that she was in with her church effectively. And the that whole community that she grew up in, and then getting out and then becoming herself. Lesley Logan 12:16 Yeah, and I think like one of the things why I really wanted to have her on obviously she's super successful at what she does. She is a seven-figure earner she went from being on literal food stamps to be a seven-figure earner in a shortish period of time, through dedication, and we talked a lot about it, and we in the episode you want to go back and also we were gonna have her back on to talk about, like, manifestation and goal setting all that stuff. But what is just been what I wanted was like, I wanted people, there's a lot of people within the show who have a dream, and they're afraid of losing people. And I couldn't think of a better person to have on than someone who went from being a pastor to a stripper. Because that is the ultimate like, you're gonna lose your circle, you're gonna lose a lot of circles. And yeah, and to see where she is on the other side of it, I thought would be such a great example for people to be it until they see it in that way. And, and you don't have to be like I want to be a stripper to do that you could maybe you just want to maybe your family is like you should be a doctor and you're like I don't want to or maybe you want to date someone of another sex that like maybe your family is not probably super excited about I really want to to have an episode on the show (Brad: Or different religion or something) right all right, just like things that can scare people in your family that can keep you from being the true person that you are because you're afraid of losing people I really wanted to have a guest on where you can go she did she totally lost people knock online but she also look where she is at she truly is living the life she wants. And she didn't lose every single person in her family we do know that she does talk to you about her family so like it's a transition. So anyways, we're gonna get to things that she loves. Let's just actually accomplish what she talked about. (Brad: Yeah) So one of the things I love she said to, she said people will people won't take that final leap. So when you're on the journey of living your truth and you're taking the thing sometimes you hit an obstacle and right when it gets hard is usually when a lot of people quit but if you could just make that final leap you're actually going to you're actually going to be on the other side of it and she talked about like it's really terrifying. I really loved how honest she was about like she was scared as fuck like (Brad: Yeah) she was so scared and she talked about taking these like really little baby steps and we talk about this all the time you don't have to see the whole staircase you guys like baby steps and she really surrounded herself with people that could could help her you know take those steps without being like oh my god what am I doing, I'm making a mistake like she could be herself and then the safe places and then removed herself from circles where she was afraid that they would actually not burst the bubble but when you are new at something having anyone tell you something that's like your biggest fear is gonna, like make you like, just stop doing it.Brad Crowell 15:04 Yeah. And I think that I have this right on the timeline of things, but I'm pretty sure she removed herself from her circles prior to getting on Only Fans. (Lesley: She did.) So she was like, already up and out for multiple years because she, you know, was basically stuck. And she wanted to be unstuck and being unstuck meant she had, she moved, she literally left where she was at, she left a small town. She left a church that she was in, she like all the things, right? And then she started a new life. And then she was doing some life coaching. And then it was only after that even that she she decided to go down the Only Fans path.Lesley Logan 15:44 And I go back to her like one line like, like, pastor turned stripper. It can sound so quick. (Brad: Right.) What for whatever reason, our brain just goes up. It's like a light switch.Brad Crowell 15:55 Right. Lesley Logan 15:55 Like it turned it on. Lesley Logan 15:56 Yeah. Like she went from the pulpit right toLesley Logan 15:59 Yeah, and it was not like that at all. Like it was very much a slow and gradual journey, where she just explored. And she gave herself those permissions. (Brad: Yeah.) And she, she didn't. And I think this is really important. She didn't go into where we know her now right away, she actually built up her confidence in other places. So that when she got there, and we talked about this on the podcast about when she like first posted the picture, she's like, okay, tell her friends, makes you post nice things right away, because I need to, like create the space. So I just want to, I really loved her story, because I think you can insert any before and any after. And take her advice of just like, take your time and get get people go find people who will immediately be on your side, and really protect those dreams from the people you already know were gonna judge them. You already know it. So why even? Like, why even try to find a perfect way to let them know? Because it's not, there's no perfect way for those people?Brad Crowell 17:02 Well, that is perfect segue here. (Lesley: Right, take over.) So, you know, one thing I love that she said, is that you have to give your yourself permission not to tell anybody.Lesley Logan 17:13 Yeah, I love when I do a great transition. Brad Crowell 17:16 Yeah. You know, so she shared about how we may inadvertently self-sabotage our ambitions and dreams by sharing them too early with those who we actually imagined will support them. But then their fears, end up shooting them down. Righ? And so more often than not, I would imagine that those people are people that you trust, you love, you know, and they are probably not like out to undermine you or whatever. But they have a definitive concept of what life is supposed to be or your life is supposed to be or your role is supposed to be or whatever. And so they're gonna say, Well, why would you go do that you're not, you know, the blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And all this stuff that, you know, effectively is what you're trying to remove yourself from that kind of situation. And so for her, she actually went out and found a coach, that she said, This person, I literally am paying them to be 100% on my side to support me, right. And that's the person that I'm going to share the things with. And I thought that was super interesting because it allowed her to just bounce ideas off of a third party, different perspectives. Someone who isn't involved in the day to day, doesn't know the history, none of that stuff. Yeah. So that she could get like an objective.Lesley Logan 18:47 And, yes, a total objective. That's why therapists are great. It's one of the things I joke about when we like, when we first started doing business coaching for our like, we started going, we started going to get business coaching many years ago. And someone's like, oh, I got a client go. Oh, what is that for? And I said, it's kind of like I'm taking my business to private school. I'm paying for some friends. And yeah, for some people to really help uplift me. And it's not like they don't have because as business coaches, we absolutely have amazing advice for you. But also, you need to have people in your life who are not going to go oh my god, are you scared? Like are you sure that's a good idea? Like my god? My family, but every time I mentioned what country I'm gonna go to oh, are you nervous about that? (Brad: That must be dangerous.) That's really dangerous it's like that is the last thing I need to be thinking about right now. I'm supposed to go there to like help make sure that these people feel uplifted and like you're telling me I'm really scared about that. (Brad: Right) So it's, that's one of the reasons whyBrad Crowell 19:52 But again, that's not like they're not like intentionally trying to stop you. But they are definitely putting (inaudible).Lesley Logan 19:59 It's their own fear. And so this is why, like I love that she, you know, paid someone to be alive, good to be your friend, but also like why many of us need to have either a business coach or a life coach or community that we pay to be part of? Because everyone in there is there to be supportive, and to help everyone succeed? Like that's what they're buying into.Brad Crowell 20:20 Yeah, yeah. And what I thought was interesting is that she said, once she moved, she still took time. Like, she said, I didn't know anybody. But I knew that I needed to get out of my community where it was a small town, everyone knew me. They knew all of everything. And she moved. And she said, she ended up taking like a year of what she called the time that she hunkered down. And she spent that time to get to know herself again, explore things, figure out what she actually want to be doing with her life. And, you know, like, find new people who would support her. And she said in that time, it was super important to be selective around the people that she was around. Because one, she wanted to avoid having her dream squashed by negativity. Two, she said it was really she said, give yourself permission to be very, very picky. Right, which is so interesting, especially when, you know, you're on the, when you're out there trying to find friends, community, support, whatever it is, you know, she was very intentional about who it was that she surrounded herself with. And then she said, your dreams are so fragile at the beginning, that if you give it to the wrong person too soon, they could squash it with their fear, they will smother it. And she said, ultimately, this was also really used in her growth into being a model online. Because she said, this was really scary, too. She just knew that this is something that she always wanted to do. But she was afraid to do it. And so when she started her Only Fans account, she didn't share with anyone for a year. It was just her. (Lesley: Taking pictures of) just her. (Lesley: Yeah.) And you know, there's no search bar on the Only Fans, you have to be sending people the link in order to find anything. Yeah. So she didn't share. She just started the account, just to do it for her. Right. And then when she finally started, like sharing this, she was intentional about who she shared it with. And then she said to them, hey, I need your support, because I'm going to start sharing a little more publicly. And I really want to shape the way that people are commenting. And so when I post this thing, would you please leave a supportive comment, because I want to drown out any of the negativity, before it even starts.Lesley Logan 22:57 She wants to set the tone. (Brad: Set the tone.) And this is really you guys, this is so important. When you've got things like you, sometimes you do have to tell people this is what I need from you. I think sometimes we expect people to know like, oh, I'm doing this big thing, you should just post something nice. But people, they don't know how the algorithm works on how things work. They, they don't actually know what you need, you have to tell people, here's what I need. And you know, when I first when my when my accounts, were first starting, I was gonna do a giveaway. And I literally texted my best friend. I said, hey, I know you have three Instagram accounts. Here's the link, can you please post these comments? I literally gave them the comments, like post these comments right now with all three accounts, because I wanted people to go, oh, this is how we behave here. And I have actually like, if you look at her comment feeds, most every person has a positive comment. There is the rarest of hundreds of comments. There's the rarest of like, dick comments. And she because she did this so gradually, and she made sure that she was ready for this. She has the quippiest responses back that just lay and she inspired me because I had some dick say something to me about I'm an exercise person. And they said something and I was like, I don't go into your training gym to tell people how to squat. You should not be telling people how to do Pilates. You don't know it. You clearly have never done it. But I hope you try it. That's why you're here. And they, their response. I was like, Oh no, I just meant that like blah blah. I'm like, you don't know what you're talking about when it comes to different modality. Yeah, thank you. So like, I she gave me the cuz I was like, oh my god, what a negative comment. And I was like, oh, I could actually just tell people really the honest truth back and it's still kind. Thanks, Nikole. Brad Crowell 24:38 Yeah, yeah, that's amazing. You know, and then she she actually recommended a book Glennon Doyle's book. And she said that she made it really clear that her new bar was to only include people in her circle, who she loved and liked, loved and liked, and that made her feel good and then celebrated her.Lesley Logan 25:00 I love that it has to be both have to love and like, yeah. (Brad: Yeah.) I think that's so cool. And also anyone just now shout out if you know, Seth, maybe know Glennon and hey, hi. Brad Crowell 25:11 We're doing it.Lesley Logan 25:13 I'm asking for what I want over here. Brad Crowell 25:14 I love it. Brad Crowell 25:22 All right, so finally, let's talk about those Be It Action items. What bold, executable, intrinsic or targeted action items can we take away from your convo with Nikole Mitchell? She said, whatever's on your heart right now, yeah, that thing that you've been wanting to go do, but you've been afraid to do it, you need to go do it. You need to do it today. You need to start today. (Lesley: Yeah) Right? And even if it is just one small piece of the thing. Start it. And you can do it only for yourself. You don't need to do it for anybody else. You don't need to do it publicly. You can just do it for you. (Lesley: Yeah) Whatever that thing is.Lesley Logan 26:05 That's, I really just like wanna highlight. Just we already said it. And we emphasized it. But she really just did things for a year without publicizing because like she did it for her. And I think like, that speaks volumes to why she's had the success that she had because she got so clear on what it was. It goes back to the book Big Magic back on National Buy a Book. Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert. You're welcome. She is the author of Eat, Pray, Love. And she did not even quit her job as Professor even when that book was a national bestseller. Right? She didn't she barely quit it after she sold the movie rights. Like she really wanted to make sure that she protected her love and, and gift of writing, to not put pressure on it to be something to make money and tell like she really knew she could do it. Because when we put things out to the public too soon, before we've really gotten clear on our values and why we're doing it and the purpose for it. It's so easy for other people's opinions to mold that. In fact, my my tattoo artists she is she's still going to do tattoos, but she's also like starting to get into upholstery and like making chairs. Cool. He's like been like buying chairs and like doing a new upholstery on them. And like redesigning them is super cool. Like, we're obviously going to end up with some chairs. We'll get rid of some I'll get rid of some to get some new ones.Brad Crowell 27:37 Or she's gonna be upholstering some of ours. Lesley Logan 27:38 That or, I was like, oh are you reposting people's and she said, I took on a client. This has been this is a month-long project. This is like she's not one month into this, maybe she's two months into this at this point. Idea. And she took on a client and she's like, I'm already mad at myself for doing it because I can't find the fabric that she wants. And I want to do this other thing. And it made me just realize that like maybe I don't want to actually do special orders unless I really liked the project because I prefer (Brad: takes her creativity, her creative mind.) So what happened is she like made it a business before she'd really gotten really (Brad: That's really interesting.) clear on it. And I think that just goes back to like, go do the thing right now. And then also like, let yourself like, like, go, go get started. And I do love that she said you know, you'll talk yourself out of it if you wait longer.Brad Crowell 28:27 Yeah, what about you? Lesley Logan 28:29 Okay. So she, we had to there's a couple things that came out of the Be It Action Items that I really love but she realized the detrimental effects of trying to fit into other person, others' perceptions of her so when we are people pleasing hello, where are my people pleasers at, probably a big portion of this of this group. She realized that like trying to fit in was causing her to be stressed it was actually causing anxiety and depression and, and she was miserable on the inside. And while in therapy, she really discovered the root cause of her people pleasing, which is so important because there's different reasons why you might people please and we got into talking about like, cuz there was a part of her like staying in poverty, right. Like, you know, there's there's a part of that that like it we can feel guilty for like making money and things like that. (Brad: Totally.) And she said, Well, poverty is very expensive. And that was a whole like a whole segment of the episode have to listen to but it's on emotional and mental well being as well. And so she said, there's two reasons. She's disappointing someone. One, she acknowledges that the disappointment others felt was due to her performance of someone she wasn't and so this is a really interesting thing. Because if we are telling people we're someone else, and we're gonna be our true self, then of course we're gonna disappoint them because we lied to them. We (inaudible) and then the other thing was that she wanting to wanting to remain they wanted her to remain the same for their comfort. And when we try to people, please we are trying to remain what people other people want so they will like us, and that's not actually going to make you happy. So the standard, she said the standard should never be toleration in a relationship or friendship, it should always be celebration. And she said, if you if I see you evolving, I'm celebrating you. So be it action item.Brad Crowell 30:34 And I think she also said, even if she doesn't necessarily agree, yeah.Lesley Logan 30:39 Oh, that's, that's what that's next level. Next. What's next? And that is our I hope we all are. I think all of us listening to this want to be that person. And I think if you do find yourself seeing someone evolve, and you're not celebrating, I just think it's a little flashlight of like, oh, here's some work to do. Don't get mad at yourself. Like there's some work to do. But I just, I think like, just I really found that her Be It Actions are like about self-reflection. (Brad: Yeah.) Just taking a little action, and being kind to yourself and celebrating along the way.Brad Crowell 31:11 Yeah, I mean, amazing. What a journey.Lesley Logan 31:14 I know, were having her back because it was I could have just kept going. So. So anyways, I really can't wait for the next episode to come out. We're gonna hold it for the holiday New Year situation because I don't believe in New Year New You. But I do believe in the that sometimes there's certain points of the year when we're really more open to the idea of envision big visions and manifestation. So stay tuned for that. In the meantime, go check out Nikole, and let us know what your favorite takeaway is. Or tag her. Tag us. I know that I really do, I really hope that you like send this to your mom who (Brad: Do it.) Like, I think, one, it's really refreshing and enlightening for people to understand that jobs don't define people. And I think people need to see that like different jobs, the holistic part of it, we donate to the Cupcake Girls, which does sex workers' rights. And my we told my dad about it, and he's like, sex workers rights. I'm like, Yeah, dad, they need rights, too. And I we like told them some stories. And he's like, oh, okay, I'm in like, it's so interesting. We're not exposed to it. It can it can keep people from seeing beauty and possibility and things and making judgments that are based on non fact. So make sure you share this with people. Tag Nikole. Tag the Be It pod. Thank you so much for listening to our episodes, your questions and your comments, your takeaways inspire the guests that we bring on I keep thinking about different guests based on different scenarios I know people are going through who are listening to this so that we can support you wherever you are. I heard you on the menopause. I'm going to be really honest. I had someone lined up and it didn't work out. So we are working on someone else. (Brad: Stay tuned.) Until next time. Be It Till You See It.Brad Crowell 32:59 Bye for now.Lesley Logan 32:59 That's all I got for this episode of the Be It Till You See It Podcast. One thing that would help both myself and future listeners is for you to rate the show and leave a review and follow or subscribe for free wherever you listen to your podcast. Also, make sure to introduce yourself over at the Be It Pod on Instagram. I would love to know more about you. Share this episode with whoever you think needs to hear it. Help us and others Be It Till You See It. Have an awesome day. Be It Till You See It is a production of The Bloom Podcast Network. Brad Crowell 32:59 It's written, filmed, and recorded by your host, Lesley Logan and me, Brad Crowell. Lesley Logan 32:59 It is produced, edited by the epic team at Disenyo. Brad Crowell 32:59 Our theme music is by Ali at Apex Production Music, and our branding by designer and artist Gianfranco Cioffi. Lesley Logan 32:59 Special thanks to Melissa Solomon for creating our visuals and Ximena Velazquez for our transcriptions. Brad Crowell 32:59 Also to Angelina Herico for adding all the content to our website. And finally to Meridith Crowell for keeping us all on point and on time. 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Unleashing Impact: Making Money Moves in Storytelling Mastery with Alex Street

RiseReignRule

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2023 61:31

Tired of confusing, complicated, and boring brand stories that go unnoticed? It's time to break free from the norm and make a lasting impact. Join storyteller extraordinaire, Alex Street, and the fierce feminine business coach who knows how to create money moves for women in business. In a world where feeling unheard and unseen is all too common, we're here to change the game. Your message is too important to be ignored, and we're on a mission to help you be seen, build lasting impact, and make more sales than ever before. Alex Street, the master of storytelling, shares his journey from aspiring actor to youth pastor, realizing that his true passion lies in connecting with audiences and creating moments that matter. With over 100 live events and two decades of experience, he knows what it takes to captivate an audience. We believe that your story is more important than your services. By uncovering the power of your personal narrative, we'll help you craft a strong WHY behind your business, leading to a crystal clear WHAT you do. Get ready to stand out, make a massive impact, and never go unheard again. Get ready to unleash impact and discover the art of making money moves with Alex Street and the Story Maven. It's time to take the stage, own your story, and create a legacy that resonates with your audience. Are you ready to be seen and heard? His Website: https://www.alexstreet.ca/coaching Book a call: https://www.alexstreet.ca/offers/w53o3Vqo/checkout Instagram: https://instagram.com/streetsays?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

DBE 0110: Building Your Brand Through The Power Of Storytelling With Alex Street

Digital Business Evolution with Jessica DeRose

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2023 58:49

In this episode of the Digital Business Evolution podcast, Jess is chatting with the one and only Alex Street. Alex is a storytelling coach, who provides his insights on the power of sharing one's story to make a lasting impact on customers. The conversations today offer both tactical strategies for business and personal development to differentiate yourself from the market with your unique story. Jess and Alex discuss different types of communicators, the importance of being transparent and relatable, and how to tell a transformation story using a framework called the transformation story arc. Tune in to learn how to stand out with your own story and create lasting change within your audience. As always, cheers to your evolution! Key Takeaways: Learn how you can differentiate yourself from the market with your story. Learn how to find your story's turning point. Learn the importance of being authentic in marketing. Key Timestamps [6:28] – Symptoms of an unclear story; [9:46] – Confused pitches won't lead to sales; [18:49] – Overcoming fear of sharing your story; [25:59] – Authenticity is key. Share your struggles; [42:56] – Find your impact and pivotal moment; Episode Quotes “When you want to make a lasting impact it always starts with a story..” - Alex street “When you are clear on your story that inevitably gives you confidence to show up because you are never looking for a message.” - Alex street Episode Resources Build and grow your email list today! https://www.jessglazer.com/buildyourlist FREE guide by Alex Street to develop and deliver your signature story: https://www.alexstreet.ca/30s

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55. Unlocking the Power of Storytelling for Your Photography Business with Alex Street

Capture The Chaos - Grow Your Newborn and Family Photography Business

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2023 27:13

Are you tired of feeling like your business message falls flat and fails to connect with your audience? Have you been told to 'clarify your message' without any real guidance on how to do so? It's time to ditch the ineffective tactics and discover the power of personal storytelling, authentic connection, and meaningful mentorship for your photography business growth. Join us on this episode and unlock the key to creating a clear and compelling message that truly impacts your audience. Highlights in this episode: Discover the significance of personal storytelling for clear and compelling messaging in your photography business. Master the art of capturing personality and chaos in memorable photography sessions. Connect deeply with clients by embracing personal stories in your business. Unleash the power of perseverance and insightful photography mentorship for achieving success. Prioritize self-care as a cornerstone for a healthy lifestyle and effective stress management. Alex Street is a storytelling and speaking coach who's passionate about helping entrepreneurs find clarity in their message and impact. With over 20 years of experience in acting, youth pastoring, and public speaking, Alex has honed his skills in the art of storytelling and its power to create authentic connections. He has coached TEDx speakers, bestselling authors, and seven-figure business owners, guiding them to communicate their "why" through their signature stories. A master's degree holder in theological studies, Alex is also a dedicated husband and father of three Gen Z kids in Toronto, Ontario. Connect with Alex: alexstreet.ca instagram.com/streetsays alexstreet.ca/30s No Boring Stories podcast Connect with Brittnie: Website: https://brittnierenee.com/photographers Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brittnierenee_photo/ Learn exactly what you need to be doing in order to run your photography business in 15 hours a week or less. Get the PDF. You deserve to have a passionate advocate and a creative thinker by your side to help you build your dream business. If you're ready to take the guesswork out of building a profitable business that fits your life - without hustling every ounce of your free time - it's time to invest in a coach. Learn more about 1:1 coaching.

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029: How storytelling makes you a more influential leader with Alex Street, Storytelling Coach

Managing Made Simple for Team Leaders & Small Business Owners

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2023 29:29

Want to build more influence as a leader? Start with your story. In today's episode, Alex Street, Storytelling Coach joins me to discuss the power of storytelling in motivating our teams, building a stronger sense of purpose across our organizations, and becoming a more influential leader. Yeah… storytelling is THAT powerful. We cover why storytelling is such an important leadership skill and how to do it effectively even if it's new to you. You are not gonna want to miss this one. About Alex: Alex believes when you share your story you change the world. As an actor, youth pastor, and public speaker for more than 20 years, he knows firsthand how powerful storytelling is when it comes to personal development, business strategy, and creating authority. Connect with Alex:Instagram: instagram.com/streetsays/Web: alexstreet.ca 30 Second Stories: alexstreet.ca/30s -- To get on the list for my upcoming live Q&A sessions and "manager tip of the week" exclusive to my community, send the text MANAGER to (415) 234-5716. This text goes right to me, so feel free to ask any questions there as well, or share your questions for upcoming AMA episodes. Looking for support for your team? Reach out to hello@liagarvin.com to learn more about one of my four core focuses for teams:Manager Development - Micro to Macro Manager Development ProgramEmployee Engagement - Focus Groups & Action Planning WorkshopsRetaining Women - Accelerate Group Coaching Program for WomenFor Entrepreneurs & Founders - Billion Dollar Ops Playbook for Million Dollar Businesses -- Connect with me!LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/liagarvinInstagram: instagram.com/lia.garvinWeb: liagarvin.comMusic by Y8S: isaacy8s.com

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101 - CONFUSED CUSTOMERS DON'T BUY!! How to Uncover Your Story and Transform Your Business with Alex Street

Powerful Online Leadership

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2023 45:24

You guys know I love STORYTELLING... well today we have the STORYTELLING MASTER, Alex Street!! Alex is one of my favorite people because he is absolutely world-class in what he does and he fully embodies getting known for ONE THING. Every single time I talk to Alex he blows my mind!! Alex is your Story Coach, helping founders & speakers turn their confusing brand story into a clear and captivating message. In this episode he teaches us how to uncover our core story, why it's so important and even how to distill your story into two... even ONE WORD. I am obsessed with this episode and you will be too. Follow Alex on Instagram @streetsays ********************** Connect with me on Instagram: @matthew.allyn Join Content Club every Wednesday for FREE coaching!

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From Confusion to Clarity: How Storytelling Grows Your Business with Alex Street

Rocky Mountain Marketing

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2023 30:49

In this episode of Rocky Mountain Marketing, I had the pleasure of speaking with Alex Street, who shared his thoughts on the power of narrative for entrepreneurs looking to forge genuine bonds with their target demographic. He also spoke on how articulating one's narrative may assist entrepreneurs gain insight and self-assurance by highlighting their most significant personal or professional development.In this episode, you will learn the following :How can business owners reap the rewards of using stories?How the art of storytelling may lead you from obscurity to understanding.How to establish an honest connection with your audience/listeners.How he applies his training in theology to the art of storytelling.Like the show? Keep Katie's show running and show her your support!https://www.buymeacoffee.com/katiebrinkleyhttps://katiebrinkley.com/Visit Alex Street's social media pages:Website: https://www.alexstreet.ca/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/streetsays/?hl=enTwitter: https://twitter.com/StreetSaysLinkedin: https://ca.linkedin.com/in/alexstreetLearn more about Katie and Next Step Social Communications:Clubhouse: clubhouse.com/@katiebrinkleyWebsite: https://www.nextstepsocialcommunications.comLinkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/katiebrinkleyYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_-Y2X66ANwc5AY0k1WJagwInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamkatiebrinkley/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/socialprofitlab Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Alex Street - create moments that matter.... through storytelling & laughter

Stranger Connections

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2023 30:33

"When you share your story, you shape the world." Alex StreetAre you wasting opportunities at work or in relationships by talking about WHAT you do instead of WHO you are and WHY you do it? Your story matters. It's more important than the services you offer.Don't believe me? Listen in to the convo with a professional storytelling coach who can help you shape a magical 30-second story to share with your team, or from the stage - or at the next family reunion!Stories connect us. You possess the power to use story for your business to share your vision and your "why" of what you do. - Clarify your story to be able to speak about yourself and your biz with confidence. - Storytelling is the foundation for all human connection- Learn more about the 'magical course' offered by Alex Street, coaching, & a 30-second story guide.Your message is too messy: how to use Alex's foolproof outline to finally clarify your main message. Website: AlexStreet.caInstagram: @streetsays

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108: [HIGHLIGHT] Some of our best sales tips and strategies to take your business and bank account to the next level

The Insurance Buzz

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2023 13:28

Industry experts give all their golden nuggets on how to take your business and bank account to the next level. In this episode, we have a highlight of some of the most downloaded and interacted episodes talking about the topic of sales tips and strategies. The Insurance Buzz turns 1 in January, so every Thursday in the month of January, we are taking some of the most talked about topics in our industry and in business ownership and sharing the highlights of 2022. Listen to the full episodes here:Episode 16: Call, Quote, Meet, Repeat and the importance of keeping it simple: Interview with Mitch Mammoser https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/016-call-quote-meet-repeat-and-the-importance-of/id1606064185?i=1000552807881Episode 82: How storytelling leads to sales and making an incredible impact in the world with Alex Street https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/082-how-storytelling-leads-to-sales-and-making/id1606064185?i=1000583288372Episode 20: My Top 3 Closing Techniques https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/020-my-top-3-closing-techniques/id1606064185?i=1000554356683Episode 31: The annoying things you SHOULD be doing: Interview with Drew Griggs https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/031-the-annoying-things-you-should-be-doing-interview/id1606064185?i=1000558600426Episode 48: How a team member went from 60 policies a month on average to over 100 policies consistently, EVERY SINGLE MONTH! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/048-how-a-team-member-went-from-60-policies-a/id1606064185?i=1000567487331Text BUZZ to (816) 727-7610 to connect directly with us and share your favorites from the episode or learn more about upcoming events and challenges happening in our industry Join Weaver Sales Academy: https://www.weaversa.com/Follow Michael on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/themichaelweaverInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/_michaelweaver_/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michael-weaver-a2940095Follow Courtney on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/courtneyvieInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/courtneyvie/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/courtney-weaver-4b8139a0/Follow their joint accounts on social media:https://www.facebook.com/mandcweaverhttps://www.instagram.com/mandcweaver/

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The Connection Between Storytelling and Social Media with Alex Street

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Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2022 34:15

Today I am so excited to have a friend, mentor and Story Coach, Alex Street joining us! Alex helps personal brands communicate with confidence and practices what he preaches, by showing up as his real, authentic self, in all environments! We discuss how storytelling and social media go hand in hand, and learn how to bring clarity and confidence into our own story. We really put focus on how to use our own transformation to create something unique to our brand. I hope you have as much fun listening to this episode as we had making it! Alex's Links:• Send Alex a DM!• Alex's WebsiteFor Your Information:• Host your podcast on Buzzsprout!• Text JOIN to 8550908-4688 for social media tips right to your phone• Join our favourite scheduling platform LaterDon't forget to come say hi to us on Instagram @thesocialsnippet, join the Weekly Snippet or follow us on any social media platform!Website . Instagram . Facebook . TikTok . Linkedin

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162. 3 Steps To Overcoming Your Villains

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Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2022 35:41

What or who are the villains in your life keeping you from the things that are meant for you? This episode holds everything from overcoming those villains, changing nervousness to confidence, and the best tips for road trips. If you have any questions about this episode or want to get some of the resources we mentioned, head over to LesleyLogan.co/podcast. If you have any comments or questions about the Be It pod shoot us a message at beit@lesleylogan.co . And as always, if you're enjoying the show please share it with someone who you think would enjoy it as well. It is your continued support that will help us continue to help others. Thank you so much! Never miss another show by subscribing at LesleyLogan.co/subscribe.In this episode you will learn about:How to survive a long road trip Take a bet on yourself How to connect past dots to move forward The ebbs and flows of confidence is normal The ultimate way you achieve confidence How to change nervousness to confidenceThree steps to overcoming you villains Episode References/Links:Join the Pilates popup tour!Come to Cambodia!Find out more about Agency! Educated By Tara WestoverOvercome Your Villains by Heather Monahan If you enjoyed this episode, make sure and give us a five star rating and leave us a review on iTunes, Podcast Addict, Podchaser or Castbox.Be It Till You See It Podcast SurveyUse this link to get your Toe Sox!ResourcesWatch the Be It Till You See It podcast on YouTube!Lesley Logan websiteBe It Till You See It PodcastOnline Pilates Classes by Lesley LoganOnline Pilates Classes by Lesley Logan on YouTubeProfitable PilatesSocial MediaInstagramFacebookLinkedInEpisode Transcript:Lesley Logan Welcome to the Be It Till You See It podcast where we talk about taking messy action, knowing that perfect is boring. I'm Lesley Logan, Pilates instructor and fitness business coach. I've trained thousands of people around the world and the number one thing I see stopping people from achieving anything is self doubt. My friends, action brings clarity and it's the antidote to fear. Each week, my guests will bring Bold, Executable, Intrinsic and Targeted steps that you can use to put yourself first and Be It Till You See It. It's a practice, not a perfect. Let's get started.Welcome back to the Be It Till You See It interview recap where my co hosts in life, Brad and I want to dig into the influential convo I had with Heather Monahan in our last episode. If you haven't yet listened to the interview, feel free to pause this now, go back and listen to that one and then come back and join us. Honestly, you should listen to her. (Brad: Yeah) She is written two books. She has been talking this talk and walking this walk for a long time. And if anyone's been be it till she sees it, she's one of those examples and if you've been listening to pod for a long time, you will remember many moons ago I said, I want to have Heather Monahan on this show. Boom, I have Heather Monahan on this show. (Brad: Love it.) I'm so proud of that.Brad Crowell Yeah. I do remember she was on the wish list.Lesley Logan She was on the wish list.Brad Crowell Because of a quote that she said.Lesley Logan Yes. She said, "Don't take a no from anyone who ... isn't able to give you a yes."Brad Crowell Yeah. And I remember we had a whole conversation about that. You were really excited when you heard that.Lesley Logan Yeah. So that hey, y'all what that means is, if someone's assistant tells you, no, they're telling you no, because I have an assistant most people know, because the person said, "I don't want to do any of these things." But that doesn't mean they don't want to ever do any of those things. They just want to make sure that like most of them don't get through. But if you find the third door, another person I want to have on the show, someone can put that person down the wish list. There's a third door and that's how you get the yes from an actual person and give you the yes, boom. Anyways, hello from Texas. We are on the road this week, officially. And we are if you're listening this like today, when this drops, we have two classes in Frisco, and we which is like just North of Dallas. It's a really cool area of Dallas at air, actually. And I've been there many times and I love it. In fact, I was just there last week, just so then we're gonna go Houston. (Brad: Tomorrow) Yep. I've actually never been to Houston. So I'm really excited about this.Brad Crowell Yeah, I've only driven through. I've never been there to be there.Lesley Logan Do we call them Houstonians? I don't know. Well, tell me.Brad Crowell I'm gonna, I'm gonna go with the ... I don't know on that one.Lesley Logan I don't know about that one. But you know, I'm sure that they're Texas. They'll tell us. Then we had to Nashville. And then it's Atlanta, then Greensboro, North Carolina, and then Cleveland and then St. Louis. And then a little hang sesh with food and Denver. (Brad: Yeah.) So Denver peeps, you need to reach out and let us know if you want in on an info. Because there's no way to buy a ticket for that situation.Brad Crowell Yeah. And we may have some spots left on this tour here. So if you wanted to come, hang and have a class, go to onlinepilatesclasses.com/tour.Lesley Logan Yeah. And if there are no space, spaces left, definitely let our team know, because you never know what happens with people. (Brad: It's true.) We can like ...Brad Crowell Yeah, keep us posted. Because also too, there's a chance we may add additional classes if we get enough interest. So make sure you reach out.Lesley Logan And well, you can also just show up. And buy flashcards if you want to buy that as a gift for yourself. (Brad: Yeah, come meet us. Come say, hi.) You could say hi to the dogs, they will be at these events, probably hanging out in the van. But we'll bring them out for people who are dog lovers. And don't forget, if you are on the waitlist for Cambodia for 2023, you have emails in your inbox. (Brad: Oh yeah.) And I know you're thinking, "Oh, I can wait till ..." Like it's fine. It's like 10 9 11 months away. So here's the deal, we actually go public with this offer. And very soon, and that means we're not holding a spot for you. We're not saving it for you. So right now the perk of being on the waitlist is that you hear about it early, and you get first dibs and it could sell out just by the waitlist. So make sure you snag your spot if that's what you're wanting to do. Especially before the price goes up. And before other people hear about it, you go to lesleylogan.co/retreat. And then one more thing that's very important we want to make sure no one misses out on this. It's like key to me. And it's something I actually preach on when we are coaching people on raising their rates. But we are raising the Agency rate on January 1st. (Brad: That's right. Yeah.) So if you've ever, ever been like, "Oh, someday I'm gonna do that." Now is the time because it will never be the price that it is right now. (Brad: That's true.) And here's the deal. We, when you join Agency, whatever rate you join in it, is the rate you get to keep (Brad: Yeah) for as long as you're an Agency member. So you'd be like think about the people been there for five years. Yeah. So don't wait till next year because think about what you could have done in this last year. If you've wondered like what Agency members have done in the past year. Let me just tell you, we've had members open new studios. We've had several open studios, by the way, actually, (Brad: Yeah) at this point in the year. I think we're at six studios this year that people have opened. (Brad: Yeah) You like, "I don't want to open a studio. I just want it for myself." Yeah, we have hundreds of people doing it, too. One of our members her her social media following has quadrupled in size, she's had like 1000s, like 10s of 1000s in one month, and her online platform has had multiple people buy. So like, whether or not you wanna work for yourself, you want to open a studio, you want to run multiple studios. We got people for you. We got Erika Quests, we got Roxy Menzies, we got Alex Street. Everyone has had a podcast here.Brad Crowell Yeah. At the end of last year, one of our members hosted an international Pilates festival. (Lesley: Yeah) You know with so many things that have happened inside of Agency and ...Lesley Logan Two of our, two of our pro members have teamed up to lead our mentorship together. (Brad: Yeah) They would never have met, like and trust each other in that way, if they had not had their Agency experience over these years ...Brad Crowell People have launched teacher training programs, they've hired teachers, they've, you know, brought in new clients. There's just all the things and we want that for you. Our mission is more bodies doing Pilates. And when we empower you to grow your business, it serves what what we're trying to do as well. And we also have a lot of fun, and it takes away a lot of that anxiety.Lesley Logan It's so fun. In Fridays, especially because it's back fuck yeah Friday. It's always wins all the time. And even people are begrudgingly doing a win because they needed a moment before. Like it's always a win. So anyways, you if you want to book a exploratory call to see if Agency is right for you, then where do they go, Brad?Brad Crowell Just go to, DM us either, DM us on the pod or you can reach out through the Profitable Pilates website, just go to the contact page and reach out and we will happily set up a call and you'll probably talk to me.Lesley Logan Yeah. So but again, that starts January 1st, please don't call me on January 2nd, go, "Oh gosh, can I have the old rate?" You can't actually and here's why I won't let you do that in your business. And so I can't, I have to ... operate in that integrity so that I can help you operate in your integrity. So anyways, we like to give that announcement. And that is happening in January 1st.Brad Crowell Yeah. Before we move on that we had an audience question. They said that the question was, hey LL, you said last year that you drove 7000 miles on your tour? And obviously we're on a tour right now. How the heck do you pass all that time while you're driving? I just couldn't imagine being in the car that long myself.Lesley Logan I think people think that like you and I are just like chit chatting like 10 hours a day. You know what I mean? I think people are thinking about like the time you're in a van with other people and like, oh my God, so long on time.Brad Crowell Yeah. Or they're imagining Chevy Chase is, you know, like family vacations (Lesley: Yes) something like that.Lesley Logan Yes. So because it is 2022. And it's been, you know, the 20 the 2000s for quite some time. There's lots of ways you can like we are in the van. But we're often listen to different podcasts or different books. (Brad: Yeah) We actually, probably we do the exact same thing that we do now. We have coffee together. We have meals together. But ...Brad Crowell Yeah. I take long phone calls.Lesley Logan I hate that so much. But he has to and I won't do them. So it's fine.Brad Crowell Yeah, I do a lot of like, work with our team. And the phone calls keep me up, like, focused and driving and, you know, helps me stay driving on the road. And like ... (Lesley: It is true, especially at night.) You want my mind to wander.Lesley Logan Yeah, I love my mind to be able to wander like so when he's driving. He's really on calls. When I'm driving, I am listening often to books that I want to evaluate for being podcast guests, or for being part of the book club for Agency members who want to be in a book club and read business books, or just things that are I'm curious about for my own self development. So I listened to a lot of that, of course, I listened to some my favorite pod. It's also a great time to like reevaluate my pods. So because it's a long drive, what I'll do is I'll like download a bunch of podcasts. I'm thinking of being on the regular, and I'll let them I'll see if I listened to them. Or if I'm like, "No, actually, I'm not into this at all." Because it's like, it can happen in so many consecutive episodes so I can I can get a lot done. So we...Brad Crowell I mean also too, it's not like we're I mean except for 2020 where we plowed through the drive in ...Lesley Logan We did it in two and a half days each way.Brad Crowell Yeah, yeah, it was it was insane. Like two three days to get there but two and a half days to come back. We did the whole drive from Philadelphia till Vegas in 55 hours. (Lesley: Yeah) And so it literally we just did not stop we were driving for like 14 hours a day and then we would sleep and I would drive late and then we would overlap our sleep she would get up at seven and keep driving. I mean, that was that was brutal. Not gonna lie. That one was not my ...Lesley Logan It wasn't on a fun trip. (Brad: my preference but) We will stop it a lot of like, we'll go oh, "What's that thing?" And what like pullover ...Brad Crowell Yeah we try to include some spontaneity. We also schedule in like, "Hey dinner with friends we only get to see once a year." Or lunch or stop at a dog park, we try to take the dogs to the dog parks literally every day. (Lesley: Yeah) Just drive around in different dog parks.Lesley Logan Well, especially because they're like they're literally in the car not doing very much at all. (Brad: Yeah) And so we take and we try to find a dog park and then you'll toss a ball for them and then I'll try to get August to chase me it's not he does not exercise. (Brad: Not so much.) But I'll work out in the dog park so like I'm the one with the kettlebell swings, if you see someone doing a workout in a dog park, Hi, it's me. Somewhere between here and Philly all the way back. But I think like it is correct, I think a lot of people think we're just doing like a natural and put things and we're just like sitting like looking out the window longingly. Like when does Colorado ever end? And is this Kansas? Or is this Colorado? Like, no, we, we there's we're there's still things that we're doing and we're quite creative people. (Brad: Yeah.) So our minds are always producing stuff.Brad Crowell I love finding like fun little coffee shops and restaurants. So we spend time trying to find new new places to explore.Lesley Logan So here here's so if you listen to the Rolf Potts episode, you heard how I talked about when we traveled we'll looks like gluten free options. (Brad: Sure.) When we're on the road, searching for oat milk, or gleif gluten free options will absolutely 1,000% help you find a locally owned business. (Brad: Yeah.) Even in these weird places were like, "No way LL did you find that there?" Yeah, I did. We found we found ... (Brad: ... we are in Texas.) No, we found that vegan place in South Carolina. Remember, we were in South Carolina. We were in guests with South Carolina. Remember we're like went to that ... (Brad: Oh yes.) It was, I don't know the name of the town but like I'm not ... I'm not ... and Brad so we're gonna have lunch there. I was like, "No, no way."Brad Crowell Yeah, it was near outside the ... state park.Lesley Logan Yeah, we have an incredible and I was like ... (Brad: We found a food truck one time.) A vegan food truck (Brad: Yeah) that was so unbelievable, I was actually sad how far away it was because I would have ordered again. And I was like, "Dude, more food truck somewhere else?" No, they didn't. But so use your like, unique thing you're interested in to find fun things to do a long road trips. We also love to shop at vintage stores.Brad Crowell Yeah, that's fun, too. (Lesley: And) we try to go like, I think some of the craziest vintage stores we've been at or you know, like thrift shop slash vintage shops where in Texas. (Lesley: Oh yeah.) Like crazy stuff. You know like, "Wow, like how long has it been since anyone has picked this up and dusted it off?" Like ...Lesley Logan Yeah, there's some funny things there. I also got like, shout out to downtown Tucson. (Brad: Yeah that's fun.) You have some cool ass shit. I've really loved it.Brad Crowell There's like, there's no... there's like one street of cute funky like local (Lesley: Yeah) and all the things ...Lesley Logan Yeah, there's (Brad: shops. Yeah.) Anyways, we are not, don't cry for us.Brad Crowell Oh another thing we love to do is national parks.Lesley Logan We do love a national park. (Brad: Yeah) We really really do.Brad Crowell This trip we, well, we've already driven through Saguaro National Park in Arizona.Lesley Logan We did that. It was beautiful. It was beautiful. We don't know which parks we're doing this trip. But I will say so just to go back to your to your question. Thank you for asking it. Trips don't have to be like about the destination. It is that cliche. It's the journey. It really is a journey. Like (Brad: Yeah, has to be.) I remember ...Brad Crowell 7000 miles is a lot of miles.Lesley Logan Yeah. I I remember more about like, the things we do along the way, then oftentimes the thing we do when we get there best because we're wherever we're going. It's often like if we do the same thing every year sounds like that. But like I really do find it fun to find random coffee shops. And then sometimes we go the same route. So we're like, (Brad: Yeah, yeah.) "Oh, there's that place we can go." (Brad: Oh there's the shop we run at last time.) Yeah, that was so great and so it's it's so fun to do. But don't be afraid to like branch out, get off the beaten path. And then and then it is then when I do let my mind wander. It's not like I've been looking at this field for seven hours are still here, (Brad: Kansas) like fuck (Brad: Nebraska) But I've listened to some amazing books on tape. I mean, like just some really epic ones. If you're wondering what are some great roadtrip books to listen to Educated if you haven't yet listened to that and by Tara Westover. (Brad: Yeah) Amazing. I started with Brad trying to take a nap. And then I had to rewind so he could take it and then we literally wanted to finish the book. And so we were with your family like, oh, they come in in the car with us. We're taking our own car. We're taking our own car. Turn it on. So that one is so uniquely interesting.Brad Crowell We also do like introspection, like reflection on the year, every drive, every drive and we we talk about like, what can we you know do to better serve our members that are an OPC and an Agency.Lesley Logan We talked about a lot of ideas, we get rid a lot of ideas. (Brad: Yeah) We debate about ideas. Like, you'd be surprised how fast the day goes, even though you're just like sitting around like it really does go fast. So anyways, if you need roadtrip books, I'm ha... reached out to the @be_it_pod. We'll put it in another solo episode, but ...Brad Crowell And go listen to Rolf Potts (Lesley: Yes) episode, which was actually very recently it was (Lesley: very recently at the time ...) episode 151.Lesley Logan Yeah, yeah. So go listen to that. And then, you know, if you are driving to your destination, try not to like drive. "Uhh i have to drive." What can be fun about the drive? And try to find something like, I remember one of the drives we're gonna do, we're gonna stop at a crystal place, like a ground where you could like dig up your own crystals. (Brad: Oh yeah) You know what I mean? Like, or, like find something fun along the way. I don't care if it's like the biggest haystack or the biggest corn maze I would never do that. But like nothing would give me more anxiety than being in one of those. But um, but try to like find something unique along the way, the internet is amazing y'all you can literally put in like things that no one would think to do in X place and they'll somebody from like eatery or you know, whatever, weird, whatever we are ...(Brad: the greatest) the greatest. I mean, like I Googled today, like, best Thanksgiving dinners in Las Vegas, and like I got 17 restaurants to choose from. So like, believe it or not, someone's probably curated something for you to do just look it up.Brad Crowell Love it. Okay, now let's talk about Heather Monahan. When her retiring boss's daughter fired her. Heather Monahan began to bet on herself. In the past five years, she has become a best selling author, two times over. The podcast host of Creating Confidence, and was awarded the top 50 keynote speaker of 2022. (Lesley: That's huge.) Yeah, that's pretty crazy. And in 2020, she was top 40 keynote speaker. She does all of this while being an incredible single mom, to her son, and working to empower individuals to use their strengths to achieve success.Lesley Logan Yeah, I I really, I really enjoy like what she's doing in this world. And I think it's, it's necessary and how cool that she had this career her whole life. And that's one area that she was a top dog in that, like she really was. And then because she was fired, and she couldn't just like, go get the same job somewhere else because of like, whatever those those clauses are, she had to bet on herself. And it allowed her to (Brad: Yeah) like completely switch (Brad: She is a non compete.) Yes, thank you. That's the exact word for it. She was able to like, just try out something completely different and new. And now she's a tough speaker. She's traveling the world. She was on the Dr. Phil show. You know what I mean? Like ... like, come on. So y'all literally like, if you know someone in your life who has been fired, and you probably like, "Oh my God, I can't let that happen that." Like we hear about our parents all the time all the time, like, "Oh, so one so got fired, so and so got laid off." I feel so bad for them. It's the what if it's the best fucking thing that ever happened for their life? (Brad: Yeah) What if it is? It probably is, I mean, we can go back to the last episode, last recap. Your divorce, ... clearly was the best thing that ever happened to you. You wouldn't met me, you would never marry me if you hadn't been through that. So like, I think we all have to, like, take a moment on and when we see someone having a worst experience, like, obviously see them and feel that but then also be there to like, remind them that they're gonna like, they can bet on themselves, just like she did. So one of the things that she I'm going to pre phrase what she said, atually. She said, you don't have to know the entire plan before trying something new. Yeah, that's right. Just keep moving forward with the faith that you'll figure it out because you don't know what you don't know. (Brad: Yeah) And ultimately, you can't connect the dots until you're looking back. So you have to keep moving forward. You know, y'allBrad Crowell Yeah. So I think I think that the idea of you don't know what you don't know. You know, and then that really the it's the reflection on the past that allows you to decide like, you know, you can start to say, "Oh, I'm glad I did this. I'm glad I did that. I'm glad this." You won't know that until you do it.Lesley Logan Well and correct. And you try it out and also like you might not realize what'd you do know? Like you don't know what you don't know. It doesn't have to be like it's not a bad thing. Like, you might not realize you have this like skill or talent like the other day when I like pick up the chopsticks my right hand. I was actually really amazing at it. I didn't know that. (Brad: You did?) Yeah, you were there.Brad Crowell Oh, I didn't realize it was your right hand.Lesley Logan Yeah. I was like ... look at me pick up this carpaccio with these with my right hand. I'm lucky to y'all. And I actually like treat chopsticks like, like a fork. So anyways, I think that that whole section that was just talking about is like such a key, a key thing to remind yourself and you haven't seen the episode yet, save it, you can go back to that. Because on your worst day can feel like this is the worst that ever happened to me, it truly can't be the best if you just keep taking the next step forward. And, and trusting that it's okay if you don't know the entire plan. Like when we're coaching people in Agency, like I keep feeling like I take two steps forward. And then one step back. And I'm like, yeah, what if it was to review the dots, so you can take the next few steps forward in the right direction?Brad Crowell Yeah. I think there was another section a part of this year, though, that I thought was interesting was, you know, to move forward with the faith, that you're going to be serving yourself well. Because you will figure it out as you go along. You know, but the idea that you clearly don't know the future, you know, and unless someone has predetermined the path for you, and like shared your career plan, sometimes that might happen, but usually not. You know, what, as you move forward, if you know where you want to get to, along the way, you don't know how will happen to get there. But you know, you kind of have this big future vision down the road. And when you move forward, it's with the intention of getting to that end game, you know, just the bet... in between, you don't really you don't have any idea what's going to happen. SoLesley Logan Yeah. And that's okay. (Brad: Yeah) It's, it's actually kind of fun, it's going back to our road trip, like, we know, we're gonna get to Philly. We know we have stops along the way. We don't know which stores we might stop at, or what people we might run into or like, what could happen. And that's what makes it the most fun. That's why we keep doing it. (Brad: Yeah) What did you love?Brad Crowell I really loved when she talked about confidence and that it ebbs and flows. And I thought that was interesting, because, you know, obviously, her podcast is about confidence, her first book is about confidence. And you just associate confidence with certain people. And you never imagined that there, you just think, "Oh, that person is confident." So they're clearly always confident 100% of the time. And she said, "No, that's not that's not how it works." you know. For her specifically, she said she felt super confident in her work in her career, she had spent 20 years climbing, you know, the corporate ladder in the world of radio doing sales. And but she said she didn't feel so confident in her relationships. You know, that afterwards, she could, you know, quit and land on her feet. So there was like, a lot of uncertainty there. And she said, there's not nobody is confident in all situations, there's always self doubt, that self doubt is actually part of the growth process.Lesley Logan Yeah, I think I think it's just being aware of where you feel less confident in your life is more important than were like going, "I'm not confidnent in that." It's like, just the going like thinking about Lena Franklin. Awareness is actually part of enlightenment. And so if you can understand like, "Oh, I'm super confident at work. I'm not confident at relationships." Okay. So you're less confident in relationships. And that means that there's room for growth. You know, what I mean? I feel I feel like it's really easy for us to put a label on ourselves especially around confidence and then therefore we're just not confident there. So we don't work on that there but it's like if you can have that awareness and be okay with your confidence ebbing and flowing, a) you'll be a real human being, people actually like you just like people like Heather she is like the queen of these things. And she's an all this stuff and like she's a likable person. You know, people want to be friends with her, people want to have her around on the things, because she actually is a real human being who is okay with her confidence ebbing and flowing. And understand that some areas she feels stronger than others. And then you ...Brad Crowell Lena's episode was 77, by the way.Lesley Logan 77. Oh, what it like that's like a good number for her. Like so anyway, I really enjoyed both of our whole conversation. I thought there's a lot that we can take away from it.Brad Crowell Yeah, yeah. And I think that, you know, in in my my personal experience, you know, having been on stage. Confidence was something that was built. (Lesley: I think confident) And definitely I wasn't confident the first time I got on stage.Lesley Logan And so then what you got on stage again? (Brad: Yeah) You got on stage again? (Brad: Yeah) And like we ...Brad Crowell Because I saw myself being a performer. I was like, "I am that person." And in order for me to get to that place where I am that person, I gotta practice, I gotta do it.Lesley Logan Right. If you are a person who is onstage performing, then you have to get on stages and perform. (Brad: Yeah) Like, like, we were just listening on the other day. (Brad: I was just thinking about this.) So we're listening to Chelsea Handler, (Brad: Yeah) and she gives advice. We also listen to Iliza Shlesinger and just in case you're listening because I want you on the show. Hi, I love I love I love listening to the questions I get. I love the ... I really resonate with a lot of their answers. But there was a woman, a person who wanted to become a comedian. (Brad: Yes) And in ...Brad Crowell ... she already was a comedian. (Lesley: She already a comedian.) But she had an upcoming gig and she was worried about she was opening for someone and she was like, "How do I gain confidence in this?"Lesley Logan Yeah, because where they live, there's like one Comedy Club and like, "I've got two weeks to get my confidence up." (Brad: Right.) And Chelsea was like, okay, well, normally, I'd say like, go get on every stage, you can. But there's one stage to be on, and you're about to be on it. So you need to go to the grocery store and the park and just do your set in front of people. It's like ...Brad Crowell Yeah. She said, "Do it, do, do your set in front of your parents."Lesley Logan Do you ... Yeah. Do you set likeBrad Crowell And she said, "Well, I don't think they'll appreciate my humor." And the response was perfect. All the more reason you should do it in front of your parents.Lesley Logan Yeah, yeah. Cuz that will create confidence, because you'll have done in front of people who don't appreciate it and like, so the reality is, is that confidence comes from putting yourself in a situation where you feel less confident. And then following through with the thing that you said you were going to do. (Brad: Yeah) End of story if (Brad: Yeah) you don't feel like you're a runner, you have to go, you have to say, "I'm gonna go for a run for one block." And then you run one block. And guess what, you just dropped money in your confidence bucket of running, and I'm a runner. And so yeah, you didn't run your marathon. But we're not working to that confidence, yet. We're just actually trying to show up for the thing we said we're gonna do and do the thing.Brad Crowell And even even with this ebbing and flowing that she was talking about, nobody's confident in all situations. I had been on stage for 10 years, when I got invited to a birthday party of a dear friend of mine, and I decided to write a song and perform it on stage, but solo. (Lesley: Oh) And my whole career had been with the band. And in the band, I wasn't singing. I mean, I was singing, but it wasn't the lead person. I was like, second, and that was, you know, that was fine. I, but I had been on stage like, put me on stage with a group of people anytime. And I'm like, "I'm in. It's totally okay." But put me on stage alone. And I was like, whoa. And I was like, really feeling that one. I was not confident.Lesley Logan You know what, that's so funny. Because remember when we were at Momentum Fest, and it was a first year of Momentum Fest, and I had like 80 plus people in this room. And it was pre pandemic. So it was like, had a break from teaching and all. And there's like my peers in the front row. And there's people like who hire me for things in the front row. And then there's all these people who were so excited to be in that room. And you were miking me up and I was like, "Is this thing on?" You're like, "No." And I said, "I'm really, like, I'm really nervous." (Brad: Yeah) And he's like you said, "Why? What is, this is what you do all the time." And it's so funny. I think sometimes we forget that we we put a lot of pressure on ourselves, which then makes us doubt ourselves, even in situations where we would normally be confident. And (Brad: Sure) so I think if you're finding your competence ebbing and flowing in areas where you normally are confident, it's just time to take a look back and it probably means you really care about that particular moment. (Brad: Right) And then look back at the wins you've had in other moments like it and you can draw on that confidence.Brad Crowell It goes back to your favorite takeaway, where ultimately you can't connect the dots until you're looking back.Lesley Logan I know I just connected a bunch.Brad Crowell Yeah. I love it. All right, so finally, let's talk about those BE IT action items. What bold, executable, intrinsic or targeted action items can we take away from your convo with Heather Monahan?Lesley Logan Well, she had a three step process and it's from her recent book, so you all go get Overcome Your Villains. Especially if you like, feel like you have a villain in your life. You gotta you gotta read this book. And it's called B A K.Brad Crowell Yeah, she called it BAK.Lesley Logan Yeah, BAK. So it is. Number one, what is your belief? Oh, did we talk about beliefs last week. We did. Sorry, you don't get to get over this. What is your belief? Number two, immediately take action. So for example, when she was fired, she immediately posted on social media," I've just been fired."Brad Crowell Yeah. And then let's do all three. So what is your belief, immediately take action and then what is the knowledge you surround yourself with is number three.Lesley Logan Okay. (Brad: Yeah) So you got all three everyone, what is your belief? Immediately take action. And then what is your knowledge? So belief, action, knowledge. Okay, so she had been fired. And and so going, "Oh I've been fired. Nobody likes me. What am I gonna do?" She actually was like, "Hey, everyone, if I've ever helped you in any way, I need to hear from you now."Brad Crowell She posted that on social media, "Hi, I've been fired," period. Wow, that takes guts, right. Like that talk about confidence right there. And like just taking action. Because if I've ever helped you in any way, I need to hear from you now, when she when she posted that someone that she had helped, reached out to her and invited her to go on the Elvis Duran show. And that changed her life.Lesley Logan Change her life. And also like, can we just go back to betting on yourself? So be it till you see it like she bet on herself. She didn't know what's going to happen. But she acted as if like, I'm gonna bet on myself. And if I bet on myself, I'm gonna put this thing out there that I'm only going to get great things. And something good is going to come from this, like, you know what I mean? Like, I love that. So then and then what knowledge can you surround yourself with? So don't just consume information from randos. We've talked about this before y'all on the podcast. Don't ask your your Uncle Joe, information, like advice around something that they're not knowledgeable in. (Brad: Right) And, and I've even mentioned this on one of the podcasts like, make sure you're really clear on whose opinions of you matter. Because in our family, we love them so much. And many of them listening to this, hi guys. But some people like it's not that I don't care about what they have to say about me, but they don't actually understand what we do want on a day to day basis. And so some of the things that they say, come from fear and worry (Brad: Yeah) around us. It's not, it's not that they don't actually want us to succeed. It's not about holding us back, but they're worried for us. So then they share that fear. And then (Brad: Right and that) it's knowledge I didn't need right now. You know.Brad Crowell Yeah, I mean, I think also it's like, you know, you, you know, why would you ask a golfer about to running on a track? You know, why would you ask someone who's had a, you know, job for their whole career about being an entrepreneur, like, you know, it's, it seems obvious when you say it that way, like you're like, well, duh, wouldn't, they're not a professional swimmer. And I'm trying to be in the Olympics.Lesley Logan But you do it all the time. (Brad: But we do it all the time.) You have that friend that you've kept too long. You kept them way too long. Ladies, we keep our friends too long. I don't understand that. And then they say something. And then if you really took a step back, you go, "I know they always say mean things to me." Then why are you like actually using their opinion to weigh in on the things that you're doing? I'm asking, it's not a rhetorical question. You need to answer out loud. I can't hear you. But you can hear you. Because it all has an impact on your life.Brad Crowell Yeah, totally does. So anyway, the three step BAK process, beliefs, action, and knowledge. What is your belief, take immediate action and then three was the knowledge that you surround yourself with. I thought those made a whole lot of sense.Lesley Logan Oh, easily, easily actionable (Brad: Yeah) actions. You know how I love that. So you guys get her books. (Brad: Yeah, check those out.) And listen to her podcast.Brad Crowell And thanks for joining us today.Lesley Logan Yeah, really. We are so happy that you're here. (Brad: Yeah) And thank you all. Y'all know, we have some of the most reviews of any podcasts in our age, (Brad: Yeah) not our age, like personally, but the age of the podcast. Like it's insane. So we couldn't have done that without you ...Brad Crowell No ... You know, we need each and every one of you. Thank you.Lesley Logan And thank you for sharing this with your friends. I know sometimes we were like, I actually heard you say, tag a friend. How do I do that? That's a great question. So if you don't know how to tag a friend and you want to know how to tag a friend, will you DM me on the platform you're trying to tag a friend? What does that mean? It means like, letting that person know that this is for them. (Brad: DM means direct message.) And DM means direct message. So if you will find the Be It pod on the platform, you like to use that's Facebook (Brad: Oh, actually we ...) TikTok or Instagram.Brad Crowell We set up an email, you can email us now (Lesley: Oh) at beit@bloompods.netLesley Logan Check that out, (Brad: Yeah) beit@bloompods.net. So so tell us which platform you are wanting to share or tag a friend. And also tell us which platform you listen to your podcasts on. Is it YouTube? Is it Spotify? Is it Amazon, but Amazon, yeah you can listen to Amazon. Is it Apple? Is it Google Play? Is it 17 other options out there? There's so many we're on every single thing. But if you do that we have someone who will help you, literally tell you how to do it. So because we want we know that you actually want to share them. So we want to help you do that. We just need to know a couple of details. And thank you for doing that. (Brad: Yeah) Until next time, Be It Till You See It.Brad Crowell Bye for now.Lesley Logan Be It Till You See It is a production of Bloom Podcast Network. Brad Crowell It's written, produced, filmed and recorded by your host Lesley Logan. And me Brad Crowell. Our associate producer is Amanda Frattarelli. Lesley Logan Kevin Perez at Disenyo handles all of our audio editing. Brad Crowell Our theme music is by Ali at APEX Production Music. And our branding by designer and artist, Gianranco Cioffi. Lesley Logan Special thanks to our designer Mesh Herico for creating all of our visuals, (which you can't see because this is a podcast) and our digital producer, Jay Pedroso for editing all the video each week, so you can. Brad Crowell And to Angelina Herico for transcribing each episode, so you can find it on our website. And finally to Meridith Crowell for keeping us all on point and on timeTranscribed by https://otter.aiSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/be-it-till-you-see-it/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

ep. 25 How Storytelling Can Bring You More SALES w/ Alex Street

Sales & Social Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2022 29:27

Finding Your Power In Owning Story With Alex Street

The Rylee June Show

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2022 52:57

In this episode, Rylee shares, a special guest Alex Street, your story coach for entrepreneurs seeking to deeper understand themselves, their mission and the importance of THEIR story being shared with the world. We dive into how each of us is unique in the journeys we've been on and how from both the perspectives of an entrepreneur and those seeking personal and self-development owning your story can make a massive impact on your life, and others as well. Connect With Alex Join The Divine Expander Bible Study Register Here INTUITION IMMERSION In this program you will learn how to eliminate the new age deceptive practices and go straight to: Understanding what the 4 pillars of connecting to you truly is and how to apply them to your life to become more intuitively guided, connected and healed from your past. The ability to stabilize your emotions, thoughts and energy welcoming optimism, empowerment and discernment Awakened to a greater vision of your future; rooted in hope, faith and potential. Seeing beyond the false lights and deception that exists in the energy space. Knowing exactly how to disconnect from the distractions and noise of the world, the wounds of your past and be able to discern the difference between your fear and intuition so that you can listen to the holy spirit within you guiding you to peace, adventure, and release! It's time to nurture and ascend yourself unlike ever before. Details + Enrolment Here Is 2023 the year you get it all right? Rylee June's 6 month coaching program is better than anything you'll ever come across in the coaching or spiritual industry. It is the full workup of helping you to understand, connect and finally break free of ALL limitations; mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically with the holistic ninja Doctor Jacque on board. Join The Waitlist For 1:1 Coaching Opening For Applications In December Website: https://ryleejune.ca/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/ryleejune Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RyleeJSoloman Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCB0cIc71ISR2y7BhyP9fdKg

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Episode 21: Your story matters and this is how you share it to make an impact with Alex Street

Ambitious Hippies

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2022 42:34

In this episode, I talk with Alex Street. Alex believes when you tell your story, you change the world. As an actor, youth pastor, and public speaker for more than 20 years, he knows firsthand how powerful storytelling is when it comes to personal development, business strategy, and cultivating empathy in our world. Now, with his Transformation Story Arc, Alex helps entrepreneurs create a clear message that connects with their audience and changes the world. Alex has coached TEDx Speakers, bestselling authors, and 7-figure coaches to find the WHY rooted in their signature story. He has a Masters in Theological Studies, is a husband of 16 years, and dad to three Gen Z kids in Toronto, Ontario.What you'll hear:- Attracting your ideal audience by sharing your story- Feeling like a guppy in the ocean- Overcoming limiting beliefs- Gaining clarity through taking action- Stories we shouldn't tell- The basics of storytellingLive freely,Courtney VieFollow Alex on social media:IG: https://www.instagram.com/streetsays/https://www.alexstreet.ca/Link to the podcast I did with Alex Street: https://podcasts.apple.com/in/podcast/104-from-either-to-and-w-courtney-vie-weaver/id1568307101?i=1000577037869Follow Ambitious Hippies on social media:https://www.instagram.com/ambitioushippies/https://www.facebook.com/ambitioushippiesFollow Courtney on social media: https://www.instagram.com/courtneyvie/https://www.facebook.com/courtneyvieFollow Michael on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/themichaelweaverInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/_michaelweaver_/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michael-weaver-a2940095Text Courtney at 816-209-1941

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082: How storytelling leads to sales and making an incredible impact in the world with Alex Street

The Insurance Buzz

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2022 40:04

What's in this episode:- Utilizing storytelling to increase sales. - How to clearly define your message.- Harnessing your story to convert strangers into fans.About Alex:Alex believes when you tell your story, you change the world. As an actor, youth pastor, and public speaker for more than 20 years, he knows firsthand how powerful storytelling is when it comes to personal development, business strategy, and cultivating empathy in our world.Now, with his Transformation Story Arc, Alex helps entrepreneurs create a clear message that connects with their audience and changes the world.Alex has coached TEDx Speakers, bestselling authors, and 7-figure coaches to find the WHY rooted in their signature story. He has a Masters in Theological Studies, is a husband of 16 years, and dad to three Gen Z kids in Toronto, Ontario.Contact Alex:https://www.alexstreet.ca/IG: https://www.instagram.com/streetsays/Link to the pod Courtney did with Alex: https://podcasts.apple.com/in/podcast/104-from-either-to-and-w-courtney-vie-weaver/id1568307101?i=1000577037869Book your 15-minute consultation call to see if Weaver Sales Academy is a fit for your agency here: https://bit.ly/3CnMjTxText BUZZ to (816) 727-7610 to connect directly with Michael and share your favorites from the episode or learn more about upcoming events and challenges happening in our industry Join Weaver Sales Academy: https://www.weaversa.com/Follow Michael on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/themichaelweaverInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/_michaelweaver_/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michael-weaver-a2940095

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Creating A Compelling Brand Story with Alex Street

Soul Expansion

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2022 59:49

I am so excited and honored to bring you Alex Street. Alex is a story telling coach, a speaker, and the host of the no Boring Stories podcast. He helps entrepreneurs clarify their brand story and become confident speakers so that they can spread their message far and wide. >>> Connect with Alex on IG @streetsays >>> visit his website: www.alexstreet.ca >>> Subscribe and listen to his podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/nz/podcast/no-boring-stories/id1568307101 Find me on IG @kristenkacinski or online at kristenkacinski.com >>> Join the Soul Expansion membership: www.mysoulexpansion.com >>> Divine Feminine Sales Preview Offer is here: www.trydivine.com >>> FREE Money Mindset Hypnosis is here: www.mymoneyhypnosis.com >>> Kajabi Affiliate Link: https://app.kajabi.com/r/qUKKL2Ba >>> Dry Farm Wines Affiliate Link: Dryfarmwines.com/kristenkacinski >>> Quantum Ripple Effects Affiliate Link: https://www.erinnicolecoaching.co/a/24577/aCt8fkvY >>> Text me! 214-624-6031

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Shows With the Bros: Stranger Things Season 4 Review

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Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2022 54:15

Hello everyone and welcome back to movie merge! This week we are expanding outside of the world of movies and are diving into the world of tv shows. We are kicking off this new segment with a review of Stranger Things Season 4! The crew consists of Cameron Hegger, Gabe Slavens, and Alex Street.Come along for the ride!

Review Crew: Thor: Love and Thunder

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Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2022 65:38

This week we have yet another new release review with the boys. You know the roster, but just in case you forgot, we have Gabe Slavens, Alex Street, and Cameron Hegger in the studio today.Thor has more solo movies than any other superhero in the MCU, so where does this one lie? Tune in to find out! (There is a non spoiler section in the beginning)

117. The Heart of Being It Till You See It

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Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2022 31:16

Get to know your host, Lesley Logan, on this week's special solo episode. Many of you know and love her, but this episode tells the story of how she is Being It Till she Sees It and the experiences that have paved the way for her career as a Pilates Instructor, Fitness Business Coach, and Podcast host. If you have any questions about this episode or want to get some of the resources we mentioned, head over to LesleyLogan.co/podcast. If you have any comments or questions about the Be It pod shoot us a message at beit@lesleylogan.co . And as always, if you're enjoying the show please share it with someone who you think would enjoy it as well. It is your continued support that will help us continue to help others. Thank you so much! Never miss another show by subscribing at LesleyLogan.co/subscribe.In this episode you will learn about:Remembering your childhood tenacity Lesleys journey to becoming a Pilates Instructor and entrepreneurLearning to love the messy middle How every single experience is making you who you are Building awareness around what you are working towardsWhat is helping Lesley to Be It Till she Sees It If you enjoyed this episode, make sure and give us a five star rating and leave us a review on iTunes, Podcast Addict, Podchaser or Castbox.ResourcesWatch the Be It Till You See It podcast on YouTube!Lesley Logan websiteBe It Till You See It PodcastOnline Pilates Classes by Lesley LoganOnline Pilates Classes by Lesley Logan on YouTubeProfitable PilatesSocial MediaInstagramFacebookLinkedInEpisode Transcript:Lesley Logan 0:04 Lesley solo episode take three.Hey loves, it's me Lesley, your host and I am all by myself. All by myself. I won't sing to you. Actually, I cannot. So we'll just stop right there. (Lesley laughs) So we are doing the solo episode, the team and I were talking about it and we realized that you probably don't know like how I got here and you probably actually don't know a lot about Brad because Brad is is not exactly on the social. So first of all if you have been with us since the beginning thank you so much. If this is your first episode of the Be It Till You See It podcast, this is an interesting, this is an unique episode and so feel free to pause this now and go listen to some interviews and some recaps if you want to get in on like the behind like what is the usual of this podcast. But you can also listen to this one as a first one and then go back and listen to those ones. You get to do you, over here the Be It till You See It podcast. In fact that is what being it tell you see it is. It is acting like the person who knows what they're doing, and something that they want to do. And this podcast has been like a literal, be it till you see it experience like an open like open experiment, right? I don't even know if they have those things, but like an op... like anyone could just be watching at the at the same time. So here's the deal. I am a verbal processor. I actually freakin love interviews and recaps because I have a guest and I'm talking to someone and it's a lot more fun to play off of someone. So being that this is my first solo episode, it probably isn't going to be perfect. And I hope that you'll love it anyways because they'll just get better. They'll just get better from here. And we all have to start somewhere. And since this is my take three, I decided this is going to be the last take no matter what. So here we go.I did not believe, I didn't even know I could be a Pilates instructor. Actually, I didn't even know what it was growing up. Some people ask me like, "What do you want to be when you grow up?" I don't really freakin know. I want to be a lot of things. I want to be anything that got me out of the town I was in, that's for sure. I was like, "I'll be a doctor. I'll be a lawyer." I knew I never wanted to be poor because I grew up in a family that struggled with money. And I knew I didn't want that and I knew I don't want to live in that small ass town. Because I definitely didn't feel like I belong there. And I knew we couldn't afford college. But I had to go, like I just had to do it. And I was like, here's here's, here's what I freakin love about when I think about who I was back then there's a lot of parts that I'm embarrassed about. There's a lot of parts. I'm like, "Oh my God, really." There's a lot of insecurity. Who didn't have that on there in high school and junior high? But there was a ton. However, I was on such a mission to move the heck out and go to college, that I found a way. Right. And we're talking like my SAT score sucked but I found a way. I didn't have the money or the person to cosign for my student loans but I found a way. And I really and I did I got myself, first August after my senior year of high school. After graduating, I was at a school that I definitely couldn't afford. And I just wanted to be there. I share that with you because I think we probably have forgotten thing. I think I know I forgot the story. But you may have forgotten like just the tenacity that you had when you were younger. The tenacity that you had before you that you could be found out in a way that people would be disappointed. The tenacity that you had before you got married or had kids or had responsibilities like we freakin' tenacity. Okay. Right. And so one thing I want you to do is really look back at your life and actually write down the data of the times that you actually did things even when you're scared. Did things when you felt confident like think about episode, I want to say it was three with Rob Mack, but it was like your, (Is it three?) Yeah, happiness islands and happiness valleys like think about your confident islands and your confident valleys, right? So I want you to go back and I want you to look that over because you need those lists. You need that information to help you be it till you see it. And I know that I need that because I I use those times all the time like someday I'm so grateful for in this journey that I'm on, is that so much stuff is actually documented in different ways between testimonials and reviews and podcasts. I've been on and magazines like we talked like the team documents everything and so when I'm feeling like down on myself or like nothing is working or no one is listening or we're we're just somehow not reaching the people I want to reach. I look at all of the data that shows that we are, that doesn't mean we can't do better but it doesn't mean we're not not doing it, right? What... it's means it's happening. It's just sometimes we don't all we need to look at the data, we need to look at the evidence. And I have a guest I want to have on someday and he talks a lot about that with imposter syndrome is like looking at the data.So, I got myself to college. Became a store manager of a high end jewelry store. Let me tell you talk about imposter syndrome. I did not grow up with nice, like, designer things. I grew up with nice things. But you know, my parents found found some amazing people who gave us their nice things. But I didn't I didn't grow up, like being able to buy those things, or tucking in like high end designer stuff. And so I definitely felt this urge to, to try to be the person who would, that that those prices weren't weird, or those prices weren't awkward or buying gifts over those prices wasn't a weird thing. And I had to like act like this person who could buy a $700 purse that they don't need. And let me tell you, you might be like, "Lesley, how does that help you in life?" It helped me in so many ways, because what it really helped me do is realize that money was not something that was bad, or that only people who are, like bad people have or that there's a finite amount of money. In that job, I learned so much about the types of people who have money, I learned that not to judge a book by its cover, because some of the people who spent the most money had the rattiest T shirts on. And I also learned that there is so much. That there's an abundance of everything, and anything and so whatever it is that you're wanting in this world, I want you to picture that, I want you to visualize that, I want you to get really clear what that is. Who are you? What are you wearing? Where are you at? Why? Because all those things matter. And I and you cannot be it till you see it if you don't know who you're trying to be. It's not possible. So recently, I interviewed Dr. Philippe Douyon, and he talks about how our vision has an entire lobe. And then it's like so serendipitous, I heard something that was like, our eyes and ears only see and hear what our brain is looking for. So they're not like all these independent senses. Like, if you picture it, then your brain is going to look for evidence for that doesn't like dissonance. So go look for evidence for that. And so you're going to see and hear all the evidence for your thoughts to be true. Whatever those thoughts are, whether you like it or not, everyone is doing this. So the more the more of us that are doing it for the good, the better. Right? And so in doing that, in, in, in, in seeing how much abundance there was, I started to realize how much I could actually have and what what possibilities are out there. Right. And so when I was told I should become a Pilates instructor. I'm not gonna lie, I definitely I was like, "What? Me? I could do that?" But then I like but then I pictured myself as a Pilates instructor. You know, it helped, helped Lululemon was a big deal back then. So, so I could picture myself on the new Lululemon. And I pictured myself teaching these huge classes. And I pictured myself at like wonderlust types of events, teaching hundreds of people on a grassy knoll, let me just tell you, that is beautiful, and flies. So, so I've taught hundreds of people indoors but um, I, I started to think about it and visualize it. And so then I said yes to becoming a teacher. And I'll never forget as a brand new teacher, and I had this opportunity to teach 30 people in a room, which doesn't sound like a lot of people. Alright, some of you who have never taught it's like a lot of people, especially if you hear the guests of ours that we've had that are like, I speak to 10,000 people in a room. Okay. 30 people, not that many. But when you've only taught two or five in a room, 30 people feels like a lot. And I remember given this opportunity and being so scared. Being so like, "Oh my God, what if they find out? What if they think I'm not good enough? What are they, then if they want to leave?"And then I remembered that I could act like the person who could take teach 30 people. And I learned that from my time being in retail. So y'all every step, every single experience you've had is gotten you to here. And it was for nothing. Right? Every single experience you had made you who you are, gave you a skill. And so I visualize myself being someone who can teach 30 people. And then I started asking, "Well, what would I do? What would I say? How would I handle this? What would I do? What would a person who teaches 30 people all the time, think about someone lead me? And I really wrap my head around it. And then I went in there I walked across that stage, it's showtime, taught this class, I'm not gonna lie, the first five exercises like, oh, gosh, crickets, and like, just some really, really interesting fitness faces. And then somebody smiled. and was like, "Yeah, that was hard." And then I was like, "Okay, he liked it." Okay, if he liked it, then maybe other people like and all of a sudden I felt like everybody was for me, and they're cheering me on and they were cheering me on so much, they all left comment cards. And that's how I got classes at a gym, four years before I should have, without any other than any other audition. Um, so everything happens for you. And so all of that led me to multiple trainings and multiple different opportunities of, of, of managing studios, renting studios, having my own studio. And I'm not gonna lie, it was scary every single time, every single thing, every new level is a new devil. And it's always scary. But something that I realized along the way is whenever I would fight things, whenever I pretend to not know, it felt worse. And it always felt better when I would picture the dream, picture the goal, get really clear on it, and then, and then take the steps that a person who had achieved that would do. And it's an interesting skill set. It's a muscle like anything else, and you have to work it out. So if you're like, "Lesley, yeah, I get it. But I don't know how to do this next step." It's a muscle. If you were doing a bicep curl with two pounds, and you never go to the gym, you'd be like, "Okay, I could do that." But if I gave you a 15 pound weight, you've never done a bicep curl, it's gonna feel really hard. So you have to build yourself up. You're gonna make mistakes, you're going to have days where you're not being it till you see it, but you keep trying, right? You keep trying. So fast forward many years, we get here, and I wanted to have this podcast and I remember knowing I wanted to have podcast and seeing how the podcast would be and it's like, finished form. And, and I then I had to, I had to interview someone, and I've never done that before. So you know what I did? I literally asked all the people on my memberships if they would go live with me. So please pick times, I need to practice interviewing people. Because something I never thought I was with someone asked good questions. You should really be careful about the things you say about yourself. Because your brain is listening. And so if you tell yourself, "I don't ask her questions," then you think that your brains be like, "Let me show you about this good question." Like, it's not gonna happen. So actually makes me think of the recent episode with Kasey Orvidas, where we talked about like, having a fixed mindset and thinking that you're born with a fixed mindset, because then you actually have a fixed mindset around your fixed mindset, which gets really meta, she said. And so anyways, but here's the deal. So I, I didn't, I didn't want to be someone who believed they didn't ask good questions. I wanted to be someone who believed that they did. So I literally said, "Okay, I'm going to interview all these people." And I practiced interviewing them as if they were going to be on a podcast with me, they were just small Instagram lives. And I just practiced, and you know what the first interview I had to do was my friend Alex Street. You can listen to his episode. It's amazing. And at the end, he's like, "How was that? How do you feel?" I was like, "you're my first one." I was shaking the whole time. And, and the first one was the hardest one, just like this episode right here. This is gonna be the hardest solo episode I'll ever do. And then after this, I mean it's so easy. So one thing I realized in that interview with him was that I just acted like the person who knew what they were doing. And it wasn't perfect. Okay, our microphone doesn't even sound that good. It's not, we have new one after that. (Lesley laughs) But but the point is, is that like being it till you see it is a muscle, and you're not going to be it till you see it to be a speaker of 10,000 people tomorrow, you'll probably be it till you see it to see this speak to like an open forum of five people, right? And then it'll be more, it'll be more and you will start starting off small is not a bad thing. It's not like an underestimation, it's actually allowing you to have room for success. Room for success.So now that this podcast has passed over 100, and something episodes, we are still being it till we see it in a lot of ways. Because we've pasted 100 episodes, that's a huge freaking deal. Thank you for listening. But I don't want to just do 100 episodes, I want to do 1000 episodes. I don't want just 40 reviews. I want 1000s. I don't want just a few 100 listeners whose lives we change. I want millions. Why? Why? Because I know every single frickin one of you that's listening to this, every single one of you is powerful and amazing. And you're here to do freakin wonderful things. And, and you can't do it if you don't believe if you can. And you can't do it, if you keep saying "when I'm ready". And you can't do it, if you're like waiting till someone deems you ready. Deems you the one. No one is walking around knighting you as the next whatever, they're not doing it. If you want something stop waiting for permission. So then, how would you be some like how, who is someone? What are the qualities? What are the things that they do with someone who doesn't wait for permission? What are those qualities? What would they be doing right now? If you are someone who wasn't waiting for permission or wasn't waiting to feel ready? What would you be doing right now? That is your homework assignment. So what is my homework assignment? Well, one of the things as I have been asking people who I was afraid would laugh in my face if I asked him to be on the podcast, to be on the podcast, and they didn't laugh in my face and they also didn't get me crickets, they actually said 'yes'. So now I have to interview them, definitely scared as fuck. (Lesley laughs) But I'm so excited, I'm so excited to bring those interviews to you. I'm so excited to, to be to see what I become because of those interviews. I'm so excited to see who you become because of those interviews. Every single one of those interviews is a step towards being the person that I want to be, it's towards helping you be the person that you want to be. We're all doing this together, right? It just happen to be on this side of the microphone, you're on that side of the airpods, but we're doing this, we're all doing this together. We're all on this mission to be the version of ourselves that we cannot wait to be. And what is so cool about that is when you're acting as if that person someday that you're it's no longer acting, you are just that person. Like it's just like it just it happens and you don't even realize it.So, I am asking guests to scare the hell out of me. That's one way that I'm being it till I see it with this podcast. In my life, one thing that I'm doing to be it till I see it is I am actually doing a lot of research on investing. I really, really, really, really, really, really, really want to create generational wealth, even though I have no generations below me. I don't have kids. But I want to take that money and reinvest it to communities. I want to I want to reinvest it to female owned businesses. I want to help other people, be it till they see it if they don't have the funds. And so to do that, I have to create that wealth, how do I create that wealth, well I have to educate myself on actual wealth. And so I visualize this, right, and I've been visually this for two years. You know, it's so crazy when you visualize something that you are, we talked about this, your eyes and your ears have to see what the brain is looking for. And in the last six months, the amount of people I've been introduced to the books, they've suggested me reading, the things that I have gotten clarity on, have really popped the bubble on, like how complicated this thing is, and shown me that like, I don't have to have a like some sort of like, economic engineering degree, I could actually be a normal human being, who can create this wealth as this Pilates instructor, podcast, business coach, and it feels closer than ever, it feels so possible. So one of the ways I'm going to make sure I read these books, because how many of us go "I need to read that book" and we don't read it. One of the ways I'm I need to make sure I read this, these books isn't going to be a library card. So I can be the reader that I want to be the person who educates herself. So I feel like if I have the a little bit of pressure that the books are due at a certain time that I will get the reading done. And I'm very excited because I used to be like a consumer of books. I like I just could read a book a week. And so I want to I want to go back to that. I know that's in me, and I'm really excited to do it with this challenge.Okay, so the next thing and my be it till we see it journey where I am at, is really trying to be a person who enjoys the messy middle. And this, this lovers is frickin hard. This is not the easiest thing. Because it is so much easier to get frustrated, mad, stomp your feet cry and feel like the wall was me. Right. And I think you should know that in businesses is never, like the stories we tell ourselves about other people's lives and businesses from social media is rarely whatever that is. And it's not because they're lying. And it's not because they're faking it. Right. Every single one of my posts is authentic AF. But the stories we tell ourselves when we look at other people's posts is where we put on this like other layer of like, "Oh my God, how amazing is that?"And so, anyways, I'm there every single day, something will go wrong when you have a business. There's a thing that doesn't work on technology, there's an email that doesn't go through when it's supposed to. Like the dog chewed up the carpet and now we have to tile a room. And so I'm behind on filming, like there's just always stuff going on. And for the last six months, I've been freaking fighting it, like, ... maybe not six months, but at least three, like really fighting, fighting this, the things that go wrong. And I actually want to be the person who sits there and sees the things go wrong and observes them, and then figures out, the first next step around that thing without getting upset or getting angry or losing the joy. Because I get to do this. And I share that with you because I know that you're like, you want the same thing. Right? Many of you are moms and you want to be this mom who's like so excited. And is is showing them joy and happiness and love. And then like the dog spills the milk over the backpack and you're running out the door. I don't know how the dog did that. But basically, it's a whole hot mess express and you're just frustrated and you're upset and I just threw a pen. That's what that was a dramatic moment. But like you're just upset, right? And then you're like, "Ah, I don't want to be this mad, angry mom who lost it over spilt milk." Right? So we all have these things. We're all like, "Oh, I don't want to do that." And so I actually want to be someone who's like, not that I won't have feelings or not that things don't make me upset. But that, that I don't lose it before I've actually observed the whole story. And so how am I doing that? Well, I'm making sure I do my morning pages. Because whenever I do my morning pages, I always feel better the whole day. I'm also doing my breathwork the end of the morning, because that makes me feel ... feel much more centered. And then I am trying out different things right now. I'm trying out either taking a deep breath or asking for, I'm trying not asking for things to be sent to me versus told to me, or to have meet... or have it told me at meetings versus just like, interrupting. I'm trying out different things to just set myself up for success at this. And the other thing I'm doing is going is actually telling people is what I'm working on, so that I have this awareness around it. Right. We all have this, we all have this consciousness awareness around what we're doing. So if you are actually telling people, "I don't want to spend money," and then you're spending money, they're gonna be like, and you're gonna be like, and no one's probably gonna say anything, but you're gonna have that awareness like, "Oh, I'm spending money, and I just told me I don't want to do that." So I'm setting myself up for some growth in that area to be it till I see it in how I want to be in my business, because I'm not really enjoying the way I am right now. And that's okay. So it's okay to be like, "I don't really like this about myself." That's what we get to do in this life, we get to work on it. And that's great.So I hope that was really fun. I hope that was really, I don't know, informa... informative. And if you liked this, let me know DM me at the @be_it_pod or ask questions or feel free to leave us a review. The next thing I want to leave you with on this pod is just some things that are actually I'm really like their frickin helping me so much right now, and I'm really obsessed with so one is my hydro jug. Oh my God, this half gallon stainless steel jug. And it's got this massive straw inside. I don't have to hold the, I don't have to tilt the jug back to drink it. I know that sounds so dumb, but it always spills all over me. And then usually have to like take the lid off, which is so annoying. So this just a little cap, flip it back and then you just like, like a sippy cup, you just drink out of it and don't have to tilt it anywhere. I'm not spilling anything. And it's making me drink so much water. I'm drinking two a day, which is a gallon of water plus where I get the water in everything else. The other thing that I freaking love and you may have heard about this bar, this isn't anything new. But my chocolate collagen brings me frickin joy in my coffee every morning. It is the best and by the way, if you want to get really fancy, you can dust some of it on your like almond butter toast or something like that. It's so good. And then a couple other things I'm loving at night I do a little a Gua Shua situation. And that has been really fun for me because it's really meditative. And it you know, it just makes me feel like I'm doing something for my my my looks to look good the next day. There's apparently a lot of science behind it. But at least it still feels really good. It feels like a massage in my face. And I really love it. And especially at the end of the night when I'm when it's tempting to like grab your phone, I can't grab my phone and Gua Shau, I'm not a drummer, I don't I can't have like one hand doing one thing and one hand doing another. So you have to like have your eyes closed and you ... yourself.I am loving my red light therapy. I actually turn it on while I'm doing my morning pages. And so that has been really fun just to kind of double up because you're like, "How do you do all these things?" Well, I have my red light therapy while I'm doing my morning pages. And then I also and loving my greens juice in the morning. It is been really awesome. It feels really good. It's an instant 12 ounces of water for like kickstarts a day. And I'm really loving Brad join me on the morning walks. So those are some great things. I will say I would love to hear what your favorite short short, like bike shorts are, workout shorts, because it's hot AF here in Vegas. And so since I can't walk around in my bathing suit, I guess I could walk around my bathing suit. But that's not really comfortable. I'm just buying up the world's shortest bike shorts. Because the more of my legs that can feel the AC the better.Yeah, so those are my loves. So I again thank you for listening to the story of how I got here to the be it till you see it moments I'm taking. I want to hear what you're doing. And to these favorite things. If you like the solo episodes, or you want more you just have a topic you want me to go over? Let us know. We, this podcast is here for you. Right? It's totally here to help you. It helps me on my journey too. But it really is like for you, for your ears. We want to know and we'll have an episode with Brad as well. And if you like these, we can do them more often. Or we can drop them every quarter. You tell us we want to hear from you. And then finally I want to know how you're being it till you see it in your life. That's what I want. So tell me in the podcast and the at Instagram at the @be_it_pod and let us know so we can celebrate you. So we can celebrate you. Yeah, because the more we celebrate ourselves the easier it is for us to realize how far we frickin come. All right my loves, thank you so much for listening to this solo episode with me and until next time Be It Till You See It.Transcribed by https://otter.aiSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/be-it-till-you-see-it/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Street Says - Alex Street

The Medium Experience

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2022 54:46

Show notes: In this episode I introduce you to my personal Communication & Story Coach, his name is Alex and he is a true genius! One hour with him changed my life forever. Join us as we happy hour and loosely discuss why your story holds far more weight than you may think!If you'd like to work with or learn more about Alex, click the links below!https://www.alexstreet.cahttps://www.instagram.com/streetsays/https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/no-boring-stories/id1568307101

Top Gun: Maverick Review and More! w/ The Boys

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Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2022 71:28

Today we are joined by Gabe Slavens, Cameron Hegger, and Alex Street as we review the new Top Gun movie! We do a small nonspoiler section in the beginning, and we make it clear when we switch to the spoiler section. We also dive into random banter as usual afterwards such as upcoming releases, how terrible Game of Thrones season 8 was, and more!

MCU Tier List: Part 2 w/ The Boys

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Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2022 106:52

Hello there fans of all things MCU!Today we are joined again by 3 of my good friends, Alex Street, Cameron Hegger, and Gabe Slavens as we all share our opinions on every single film that is currently in the MCU! We agree, we disagree, but one thing is for sure, we have a great time geeking out over everything in this beloved universe. This is part 2 of 2, and there are some pretty big MCU movies in these phases, so don't miss out!

MCU Tier List: Part 1 w/ The Boys

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Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2022 92:34

Hello there fans of all things MCU!Today we are joined again by 3 of my good friends, Alex Street, Cameron Hegger, and Gabe Slavens as we all share our opinions on every single film that is currently in the MCU! We agree, we disagree, but one thing is for sure, we have a great time geeking out over everything in this beloved universe.This is only part 1, part 2 will be out soon after!

Episode 13: The Soul Survivor!

Survivor at Home: The Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2022 153:13

This week we break down the finale of Survivor 42 with season 4 Survivor at Home winner: Alex Street! What a season of Survivor, and what a final podcast. We have had so much fun, and we want to thank you for listening along and engaging with us all season! Make sure to check out our website for upcoming events, and for ways to keep in touch leading up to next season. For more information on Survivor at Home, visit www.survivorathome.com Twitter: @survivorathome Instagram: @survivor_at_home If you loved the episode (you should!), give us a like and review, and tell your friends! Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/hey-pluto/the-gentleman License code: EPVVSP8ZUFZVZPT0 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/survivorathome/message

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S01:02 [Alex Street] When You Tell Your Story You Change the World

Evolvepreneur Secrets for Entrepreneurs Show With Shelby Olyschlager

Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2022 28:16

Welcome to the Evolvepreneur Secrets Show Join me today where we dig deep with our guests and get you the best concepts and strategies to fast-track your business. My very special guest today is Alex Street ... Alex believes when you tell your story you change the world. As an actor, youth pastor, and public speaker for more than 20 years, he knows firsthand how powerful storytelling is when it comes to personal development, business strategy, and cultivating empathy in our world. Now, with his Transformation Story Arc, Alex helps entrepreneurs create a clear message that connects with their audience and changes the world. Alex has coached TEDx Speakers, bestselling authors, and 7-figure coaches to find the WHY rooted in their signature story. He has a Masters in Theological Studies, is a husband of 16 years, and dad to three Gen Z kids in Toronto, Ontario.

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The Story of Deconstruction to Find Purpose with Alex Street

The Golden Rule Revolution with Lucas Mack

Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2022 56:16

"There is no such thing as a boring story. Only boring storytellers," say Alex Street. Well in this episode we hear an incredible story of his upbringing and deconstruction of his faith which ultimately led to finding his purpose. This is one of my favorite episodes. Enjoy!For more information on Alex go to: https://www.alexstreet.ca/podcasts/no-boring-stories

M.o.M and More w/ The Boys! (Doctor Strange in the Multiverse of Madness Review)

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Play Episode Play 39 sec Highlight Listen Later May 21, 2022 90:16

Today we are joined by Gabe Slavens, Cameron Hegger, and Alex Street as we review the new Doctor Strange movie! We do a small nonspoiler section in the beginning, and we make it clear when we switch to the spoiler section. We also dive into the future of the MCU, some of the shows on Disney Plus, what movies are coming out, and more!

352 - Creating Powerful Stories & becoming a Memorable Speaker with Alex Street -Your Story Coach

The Next Level Life with Christine Corcoran

Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2022 48:13

Alex believes when you tell your story you change the world. As an actor, youth pastor, and public speaker for more than 20 years, he knows firsthand how powerful storytelling is when it comes to personal development, business strategy, and cultivating empathy in our world.Now, with his Transformation Story Arc, Alex helps entrepreneurs create a clear message that connects with their audience and changes the world. Alex has coached TEDx Speakers, bestselling authors, and 7-figure coaches to find the WHY rooted in their signature story. He has a Masters in Theological Studies, is a husband of 16 years, and dad to three Gen Z kids in Toronto, Ontario. Our conversations covers: What to do when you think you don't have a story to shareNot sharing your story is stopping you from connecting to your audieneClarifying your storyHow to find your signature storyHow to create a memorable messageTricks to Make your Speaking MagicalMistakes speakers and storytellers makeHow to be a memorable speakerWhy Ted Talks are so impactful and what to consider when pitching Connect with Alex on Instagram - @streetsays or Website - alexstreet.ca Check out Alex's Podcast - No Boring Stories

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352 - Creating Powerful Stories & becoming a Memorable Speaker with Alex Street -Your Story Coach

The Next Level Life with Christine Corcoran

Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2022 48:13

Alex believes when you tell your story you change the world. As an actor, youth pastor, and public speaker for more than 20 years, he knows firsthand how powerful storytelling is when it comes to personal development, business strategy, and cultivating empathy in our world.Now, with his Transformation Story Arc, Alex helps entrepreneurs create a clear message that connects with their audience and changes the world.Alex has coached TEDx Speakers, bestselling authors, and 7-figure coaches to find the WHY rooted in their signature story. He has a Masters in Theological Studies, is a husband of 16 years, and dad to three Gen Z kids in Toronto, Ontario.Our conversations covers:What to do when you think you don't have a story to shareNot sharing your story is stopping you from connecting to your audieneClarifying your storyHow to find your signature storyHow to create a memorable messageTricks to Make your Speaking MagicalMistakes speakers and storytellers makeHow to be a memorable speakerWhy Ted Talks are so impactful and what to consider when pitchingConnect with Alex on Instagram - @streetsays or Website - alexstreet.caCheck out Alex's Podcast - No Boring Stories

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The Magic of Storytelling In Your Business

Turn The Volume Up

Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2022 49:08

I have story coach and genius, Alex Street on the show today. If you've ever felt confusion about your message then you'll want to turn this episode up. Alex gets real and talks about his relationship with hustle in business and you'll be surprised what he reveals.We go deep on the power of storytelling in your business and he actually works his magic on me and extracts part of my story. His process is brilliant and he's giving away so many golden nuggets to help you get clarity so that you can connect with more clients through your signature story. Click here to connect with him for story coachingClick here to listen to his podcast No Boring Stories

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Telling Your Own Powerful Story

The Power of a Woman

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2022 48:01

Today is all about owning and telling your own powerful story! I chat with Story Coach, Alex Street, and we talk about how your story should be an arc (like a rainbow), not a list. As Alex shares through his teachings and podcast, there are no boring stories - only boring story tellers. On this episode, Alex shares tips to recognize your “why” behind your “what”, questions to ask yourself in order to get very clear when telling your story, and he takes us through the first steps to never saying "my story is boring" ever again. Let's dive in!Resources + LinksFollow Alex on Instagram @streetsays & DM for more information!Listen to Alex's podcast: no Boring StoriesVisit Alex's website to learn more: https://www.alexstreet.ca/Follow Brooke on Instagram @brookerozzieSchedule a Clarity Call: Click HereLearn more on Brooke's website: www.brookerozzie.comDid you love this episode? Share + Tag @brookerozzie on IG! If you are loving this podcast, I would greatly appreciate it if you would give it a Rate + Review!

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Share Your Story to Shape the World | Alex Street

Author Your Life

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2022 48:11 Transcription Available

After 15 years as a youth pastor, actor, and public speaker, Alex has always been a gifted “professional storyteller.” Today, Alex has transferred his rich history in telling great stories into a career as a storytelling coach. He helps you stand out with your story. We each have an important story that can change the world. This episode is an enlightening look into the lost art of storytelling, what makes a good story, what stops us from sharing, and why we play quiet and small. We chat about what happens when you're shifting into a new identity, especially giving up a position or role that you previously embraced. Trusting and having confidence in what's right for you, making choices even if you can't see the path ahead. We discuss how our loved ones shape and influence our story, and Alex shares the words from his mother that changed his life. Stories have the power to change lives and impact the world. Your story matters! Take this opportunity to reflect on how you've been showing up through all your life chapters, uncover your values, and discover the inherent power behind your story. You have a choice to show up, claim your place, and own your story. Listen to this conversation with Alex to see why and how your story can – and will – shape the world. In this episode you will learn: What keeps us from sharing our story Why we're afraid to declare something isn't for us anymore The difference between mistakes and lessons learned How to figure out your values The lost art of storytelling; the difference between sharing and “broadcasting” vs telling a story What makes a good story? Connect with Alex: IG: @streetsays FB: Alex Street Website: Alexstreet.ca Podcast: No Boring Stories Please help this podcast grow!! --> SUBSCRIBE --> Leave a REVIEW --> Share with a friend Post on social media with the hashtags: #authoryourlifepodcast @itsjulieb_ Music: Jason Kay Cover Art: Angela Spellman

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95: Clarify your Personal Brand Story and speak it with confidence with Alex Street (plus live coaching session on the fear of public speaking)

EVENTive Entrepreneurs

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 30, 2022 38:58

I love this conversation with Alex! Alex Street believes when you tell your story you change the world. As an actor, youth pastor, and public speaker for more than 20 years, he knows firsthand how powerful storytelling is when it comes to personal development, business strategy, and cultivating empathy in our world. Now, with his Transformation Story Arc, Alex helps entrepreneurs create a clear message that connects with their audience and changes the world. Alex has coached TEDx Speakers, bestselling authors, and 7-figure coaches to find the WHY rooted in their signature story. He has a Masters in Theological Studies, is a husband of 16 years, and dad to three Gen Z kids in Toronto, Ontario. We talk about the following: 1. How sharing your story can transform your business. 2. Using your story to increase sales. 5. How to uncover your story to determine what is best to share. 6. Tips to clarify your message. 7. Advice to feel more confident speaking without fear. 8. 3 things someone can do to be a more effective communicator. 9. Success stories from entrepreneurs. 10. Live coaching session with me on my fear of public speaking :) Connect with Alex! Alex Street Your Story Coach

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108 - Your Story Is Your Strength with Alex Street

Meant for More Podcast with Charity Majors

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2022 48:17

Why don't we have the confidence to tell people our stories? We have a lot of reasons why we don't want to share our stories. We convince ourselves that it's unlikely that others will be interested in hearing it, and that sharing it would be a waste of time. We may believe that our tale is uninteresting and monotonous at times, so we tend to keep our mouths shut. But did you know that our stories have the power to change the world? In this episode, Alex will discuss how powerful your story can be for others, how to communicate with others about your story in a way that inspires and applies to their lives, and what you can do to improve your storytelling skills. If you want to share some inspiring words or a life story but need to have the confidence or to know how to start, then you need to hear this episode. Tune in and be inspired! Bio: Alex Street is a story coach, an actor, a youth pastor, and a public speaker for more than 20 years. He also believes that when you tell your story, you can change the world. Alex helps entrepreneurs create a clear message that connects with their audience and changes the world. He has a master's in theological studies, and he has been married for 16 years and is the dad of 3 kids living in Toronto, Ontario. Key Takeaway: Deciding to change on the things that are no longer working right now Having the first bottom push or having the first YES that might exactly open to your adventure Receiving something new about what is coming for us What is the power of community that people see in you that you cannot see? What's holding you back and making you afraid of telling your story to others? What is the power of a story to impact one another? What are the tricks that you can learn to become a better storyteller? Links: https://www.instagram.com/streetsays/ https://www.facebook.com/AlexStreetCommunications https://www.alexstreet.ca/ig/ https://www.wearemeantformore.com/live WeAreMeantForMore.com/moment _______________________________________ If you want to share your story on the "Meant For More Podcast," text the word "MOMENT" to 833-231-8098 to submit your story and have Charity read it on the podcast and give you a shoutout! To join the Meant For More Community, text the word “COMMUNITY” to 833-231-8098 to learn more… Text Charity the word "DEVO" to 833-231-8098 for 5 FREE texted daily devotionals with her new devotional card deck. Grab Charity's DevoDeck by going to DevoDeck.com Be sure to visit my website at CharityMajors.com And come hang out with me on social media - @CharityMajors on Instagram and Charity Majors on Facebook. https://www.instagram.com/charitymajors/ https://www.facebook.com/CharityMajorsFanPage/ Join my FREE FB Group: http://www.charitymajors.com/meantformoretribe I look forward to connecting with you! xoxo - Charity Terms & Conditions ----------------------------------------------------- ***If you are feeling STRESSED and are struggling with anxiety, please download Charity's FREE "Reduce Stress Guided Meditation" - http://charitymajors.com/reducestress ***If you desire to place your identity on a firm foundation, grab Charity's "DevoDeck" - a deck of devotional cards, rooted in the identity of who and whose you are. Go to http://devodeck.com/ Grab your copy of my book (and #1 New Release), "Meant For More; Igniting Your Purpose In a World That Tries to Dim Your Light... go to http://book.wearemeantformore.com/ today! ==============================

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EP 200 | Celebrating The 200th Episode | Andrea Crisp and Alex Street

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Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2022 51:21

Today we're celebrating a huge milestone in the life of the podcast with the 200th episode by going completely off script and unedited. Join Alex Street as he interviews the host of the show Andrea Crisp on her journey through 200 shows. Connect with Andrea on IG: @andreacrispcoach @the.couragecast Connect with Andrea via TEXT: Text the world COURAGE to 647-424-2429 CLICK HERE To book a FREE 30 minute Strategy Call with Andrea: www.andreacrisp.ca/schedule Connect with Alex Street @steetsays

An energetic paradigm shift (ft. Brad Crowell) -Ep72

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Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2022 30:08

A conversation that is zippy, energetic, and fancy… Or maybe it was exuberant, productive, and joyful? Listen to LL and Brad to find out how you shift your paradigm to design positive experiences for yourself and have some fun choosing your daily adjectives. If you have any questions about this episode or want to get some of the resources we mentioned, head over to LesleyLogan.co/podcast. If you have any comments or questions about the Be It pod shoot us a message at beit@lesleylogan.co . And as always, if you're enjoying the show please share it with someone who you think would enjoy it as well. It is your continued support that will help us continue to help others. Thank you so much! Never miss another show by subscribing at LesleyLogan.co/subscribe.In this episode you will learn about:Future pilates tours/retreat plans Giving yourself permission to design the experience you enjoyIntentionally sculpting your routinesShifting your paradigmChoosing your three adjectives for your day Episode References/Links:The G+A CourseFree WebinarOnline Pilates Classes Retreats OPC FlashcardsOPC Flashcards are on AmazonOPC Flashcards are on our site If you enjoyed this episode, make sure and give us a five star rating and leave us a review on iTunes, Podcast Addict, Podchaser or Castbox. ResourcesWatch the Be It Till You See It podcast on YouTube!Lesley Logan websiteBe It Till You See It PodcastOnline Pilates Classes by Lesley LoganOnline Pilates Classes by Lesley Logan on YouTubeProfitable Pilates Social MediaInstagramFacebookTik TokLinkedIn Episode Transcript:Lesley Logan 0:01 Welcome to the Be It Till You See It podcast where we talk about taking messy action, knowing that perfect is boring. I'm Lesley Logan, Pilates instructor and fitness business coach. I've trained thousands of people around the world and the number one thing I see stopping people from achieving anything is self doubt. My friends, action brings clarity and it's the antidote to fear. Each week, my guest will bring Bold, Executable, Intrinsic and Targeted steps that you can use to put yourself first and Be It Till You See It. It's a practice, not a perfect. Let's get started.Welcome back to the Be It Till You See It interview recap where my co host in life, Brad and I are going to dig into the transformative convo I have with Mallory Gott in our last episode. (Brad: Yeah, we are.) If you haven't yet listened to that interview, feel free to pause this now. Go back and listen to that one and then come back and join us. I mean, you know after you, if you ... if you did listen to Mallory, you get to do things based on how you feel. So, whatever you're feeling say, you get to create that, that journey. So ... (Brad: That's true.) I freakin' love her. I'm so, so glad that we get to know her and have mutual friends and we even get to spend the holidays with her briefly. I got to see a clip of Die Hard which made me go, "Maybe I should watch Die Hard." (Brad laughs) So anyways, um, uh, y'all, I had a birthday.Brad Crowell 1:28 Yeah, happy birthday!Lesley Logan 1:30 Mm-hmm. And usually I do a big, choose your own adventure birthday party, but since the pandemic, I pretty much stopped doing that. In fact, this year, I told Brad, he "I want to have a birthday. I want to get overdressed. You have to plan it." So (Brad laughs) anyways, he did and since we record this early, I did have a birthday. I have not experienced it yet. So full disclosure, I don't what we did.Brad Crowell 1:51 And "Brad planned it" in the future past tense that (Lesley: Yeah) (Lesley laughs) this has been recorded. (Lesley: But ...) Brad's swears, Brad planned it.Lesley Logan 1:58 Yeah ... I this is like like, just subliminal, like just "Brad's planning it. Brad, Brad's planning. Brad's planned it." (Brad and Lesley laughs) (Brad: We're almost done) Talk about Be It Till You See It, I'm just making birthday happen without me planning it. And also super fun. The scheduling tool that we partnered with Pocket Suite is officially out. So the Profitable Pilates edition is out.Brad Crowell 2:19 So fired up. Yes, (Lesley: Oh my God) this is amazing. (Lesley: this is amazing) If you are a business owner of any kind that has to deal with clients, and you have to send invoices or schedule, you know, dog walks, it doesn't matter, you can use this tool to do it. Obviously, we've geared it towards Pilates people because that's who we that's, that's mostly our (Lesley: ... Yeah) history here. But it's it's really a flexible tool and is ... it is amazing.Lesley Logan 2:48 All of my coaching advice on there can be, can be geared towards any service based business. So enjoy, super fun. And we we I my favorite webinar to teach is on scheduling, like, how to schedule your life and have ... it's not air quotes, balanced, hard word for me because, you know, there are different seasons to your business, if it for honest, but a lot of people like to know how I get things done. So, I scheduled or schedule, I created a workshop free webinar on how to schedule your life with all your priorities in it. And it also talks about this amazing scheduling tool, and that webinar is free. And you can watch the replay.Brad Crowell 3:25 Yeah, the replay will be available for you. You can just go to profitablepilates.com/... Let's make one up here, profitablepilates.com/ (Lesley: gemstones) Yeah, gemstones it is. (Lesley: Yeah) So that's weird. If you don't know what that's referring to, you're gonna have to watch the replay.Lesley Logan 3:50 Clearly haven't watched the webinar. (Brad laughs) So, I'm all about, I'm all about gemstones.Brad Crowell 3:54 That link will be in the show notes. (Lesley: Yeah) And the ...Lesley Logan 3:59 But it is a free, it's a free webinar that I, I will teach you these things and people love that. It's like a dream schedule webinar. And then at the end, we go over the free tool, so you can get both.Brad Crowell 4:10 Yeah, so if you've ever heard me jokingly refer to a Swiss cheese schedule. That that this webinar will help you resolve clients that are booking at nine in the morning or nine at night. Or you know, "Oh the only time I could take them is 6pm on a Sunday when it's my day off," you know, so you'll you this is a ...Lesley Logan 4:34 For my vegans listening a Swiss cheese schedule is a block with holes in it. (Brad laughs) So block of time and there is a hole in it.Brad Crowell 4:41 Imagine your calendar is the (Lesley: Yeah) Swiss, the Swiss cheese ...Lesley Logan 4:44 Yeah, yeah. And that's that's really annoying because like I had a Swiss cheese kind of morning this morning and I was like not enough time to start anything. (Brad: Right) It wasn't enough time to do anything and I wasn't hungry yet. So like this ... "What am I doing?" (Brad laughs) I'm gonna go look at the cactus. (Brad: why is there cheese?) Anyways, so profitablepilates/gemstones. You heard that here. Okay, so last friggin' thing I'm excited about, (Brad: Coming up) you're hearing about a lot because I'm I'm gonna shout from the rooftops until this happens and here's why. Too many people either are afraid to start Pilates because it's weird and they think it's weird and they're new. They don't want to do it wrong, or you've been doing Pilates but you just don't get it. And I'm on a mission "More bodies doing Pilates." So the full body in 15 is a week long program, where I'm going to teach you how to do a full body Pilates workout in 15 minutes. You can pair it with any of your other workouts you already do and enjoy or go to onlinepilatesclasses.com/fullbodyin15.Brad Crowell 4:44 Yeah, and that is kicking off on the 20th of Feb. (Lesley: Yes. Oh my gosh) So, join us. There's gonna be some live, some replays all the things but yeah (Lesley: Yeah) coming up.Lesley Logan 5:47 Okay, what is the audience question love?Brad Crowell 5:49 Okay, great question. Obviously, something that we love, and we're very passionate about. Question was when are we going back on tour? (Lesley: I know. Um ...) That is a good question. (Lesley: Great question. So that's ...) To which we we know we have at least one answer, (Lesley: Do you remember ...) which would be ...Lesley Logan 6:07 on sitcoms when they put the TO BE CONTINUED at the bottom. ( Lesley and Brad: da da da da) Here's what I do know. We are ... (Brad: To be continued) we are going to be heading out on an awesome little adventure in the summertime to go when I'm teaching at Momentum Fest. (Brad: Yeah, yeah) So we will be heading up at least Colorado. And we have not decided if we're adding on to that because June is actually a very busy month. (Brad: Yeah. It's kind of, we got a bunch of things going on.) It's like three trips in four, I don't even understand. So, I don't know if we'll be able to add anything to that. So just definitely come to Momentum Fest. We will for sure do one in the winter, as far as the cities that we're going to do. You know, shoot your city out. I know for sure we're gonna go to Rhode Island because we promised them that last year, so we ...Brad Crowell 6:51 I'm I'm trying to get us back to Fort Wayne, Indiana during the summer. (Lesley: What? Oh. Oh, yeah, yeah) So that we, we can do a sweet water appearance as (Lesley: He's trying really hard) that would put us, that would put us coincidentally near Chicago, potentially. So ...Lesley Logan 7:10 Well, I rather do Chicago in the summer than in the winter. Um, so no offense my Chicagoans. If that's the word. It's so freakin' cold. (Brad: I think it's a word) It's just too many cold cities on the winter tour. I really like the Southern part of our tour because it's hot, hot, hot. So (Lesley laughs) But anyways, for sure winter, we do want here's in the dream world, we would do a West Coast tour, and then some sort of Summer Tour somewhere. And to get the Upper Midwest, we've been promising them (Brad: Maybe even up into Canada.) Yeah and to Canada, and then the the winter tour. However, I'm really holding out for retreat. And so I ... (Brad: Oh we are), I have a hard time planning a tour until I can get my retreats back up. So just stay tuned. And you know, we can make the winter tour as long as we need. So just throw us your city out there.Brad Crowell 7:59 In fact, fingers crossed that I can get back to Cambodia here in March into April to prep the retreat space (Lesley: Mm-hmm) because if all does go well, we hope to have a retreat in the fall (Lesley: the fall) into potentially into the winner of this year. (Lesley: Yeah. So ...) So if you have if you've ever thought about Cambodia, you can go to onlinepilatesclasses.com/retreats. Almost positive that's the link ...(Lesley: You just go to onlinepilatesclasses.com) We'll put the link to get on the waitlist (Lesley: and you can see ...) or retreats in the show notes.Lesley Logan 8:34 All the things that are Pilates. You can't see anything that's business you got to go to profitablepilates.com for that. But anyways, I love this question. Thank you for asking it. You know, there's only so many days in the year and I'm we are really trying to make sure that we hold space for a potential retreat before we put anything on the books because I really am after two years of all this. I don't want to cancel anything anymore. So (Brad: Yeah, I'm over ...) I'm over the emails for that and so far 2022 has been canceled free. I'm trying to keep it that way. (Lesley laughs) (Brad: Yeah) Okay. Let's talk about Mal.Brad Crowell 9:06 Yeah. Okay, so exciting. Let's talk about Mallory Gott. Mallory Gott or Mal is the founder and creator, creative director of G+A, guiding clients through experimental design. She helps give people the opportunity to change the experiences they're having by redesigning based on feeling (Lesley: feeling) which I find really interesting. She is against cutting veggies. She's a lover of Mad Libs and is a fellow Vesta coffee roaster, lover because she's here in Vegas.Lesley Logan 9:47 Yeah, I know. We got to talk about that. If you didn't listen to the last episode. The end is really fun. (Brad: She gave Jared a shout out.) I know, Jared our neighbor. (Brad: Yeah) Yeah. We're actually drinking your coffee right now. (Brad: It's true.) (Brad laughs) Okay. So, in fact I ordered, posted mates yesterday, just so I could have the coffee beans delivered and it was glorious. And I was like, "Gosh, this is the life." Okay, so one of the things I love that she talked about was giving yourself permission to design an experience you enjoy. And I, I think, first of all, she literally embodies Being It Till You See It. This is how she trains every one of her clients like everything they do, they're being the thing that they want to see at the end of whatever the project is. And so that's actually what caught my eye towards her and in her be on this podcast. But we always talk about like, other people have said, "Give yourself permission. Give yourself permission." Thor talked about gotta give yourself permission slip, but this (Brad: Right) is like, I think we get caught up on like some... if something is hard work that it's going to be hard to do. And we like can put, we can put feelings toward something and then the experience and what you think about it, it changes you and how you want to show up there. So she's like, give yourself an experience to design a community you enjoy. So what would make the thing you're doing more enjoyable? And how can you do that for me in the morning, like, I like to put all of our what do you call them. Brad Crowell 11:11 You're really good at this by the way. Like I know that you you like intentionally sculpt your morning in a way that allows you to be set up for the day. (Lesley: Mm-hmm)Lesley Logan 11:23 (Brad: And I am ... ) Tell me more about myself. (Brad: Yeah) (Lesley laughs, no). Brad Crowell 11:27 I admire that because that's the opposite of how I do my day.Lesley Logan 11:31 I know, I walked in the house and I was like, "Oh, he hasn't event poured coffee yet. Oh, the dog hasn't had breakfast. But did he just get up? What's going on here?"Brad Crowell 11:37 No I'd been up for awhile (Lesley: Yeah) just my morning changed completely.Lesley Logan 11:41 So I do, I do wake up early in the morning because I want I'm very intentional about the how that and that is a permission that I gave myself. I gave myself more permission of space and have a morning that doesn't have stress, or I don't like to be rushed in the morning. It really makes me anxious. That feels like the day is going to be anxious. So I give myself permission to have lots of space, which does require some planning. But one of the other things I really have been doing is like getting the was like some sort of like luxury or I don't know what I was thinking. But I actually stayed at Allison's house. And she would like do her little oil infuser. Right? And every like it would turn off and she put oil on because I'm like, "Oh, this smells so good." And so I literally gave myself permission to every morning put all the oil infusers on the house and now we've got three that are just going and then I have another one on the other... And I love it because the whole house smells fresh. And it smells like the way I like it. Brad doesn't always like it but I like it.Brad Crowell 12:38 It's actually really pleasant for me and it's definitely it's a positive experience. I also am amazed that you find the time to set those up everyday. (Lesley: Okay, so here so ...) Like we make the time to make the coffee because we go, "I need the coffee."Lesley Logan 12:56 You all. You want (Brad: What?) to hear how this is working out for me. Okay, this is all uh, this is all routines and habits you have to get really good at but obviously celebrate you can take my habits webinar on that however, here's the deal. I have a routine we come in from the dog walk, run, whatever it is. And while the hot water is heating for the coffee, (Brad: hmm) I feed the boys some... sometimes there's one or the other ones bowl just sits there. Then after I do that they're not staring at me anymore. Then I have the water pitcher that I take to the three diffusers with the oils are already next, they are already set up, they're already there. Okay, and then the hot water is done and I make the coffee and then I do my next thing which is usually either Pilates or my peloton or something else that is like breath work. For me still because that coffee takes 10 to 15 minutes do its thing. So it's not ready yet so I just do something else for myself and then that's that's how I find the time, you can't watch water boil. They literally say that. Anyway. Brad Crowell 13:57 It's like paint drying. (Lesley: Yeah. So ...) Or it's like cactus is growing.Lesley Logan 14:02 But I also just like once I saw someone do it and sometimes it takes you seeing other people do it so do search for evidence for the permission you wish to give yourself but once I saw someone doing it looked like it didn't, it took her 13 seconds and I was like, "Oh I really want to have an enjoyable morning." Like the morning to me sets up the whole workday and well that way when I walk out the office and into the kitchen the house smells like it's been lived and cared for and I want the house to smell like that because I want the experience I have each day to be like I'm not doing this just to like slave at my desk all day. I'm doing this because I want to I get to live in this enjoyable place. So anyways permission granted ...Brad Crowell 14:38 Well this this rolls right into the thing that I really loved which was shifting your paradigm. Like how you see the things that you have to do. And because giv... so giving yourself permission first off, what you did was almost the BE IT action item. What (Lesley: Yeah) you're talking about here with the with the changing your environment, you're literally putting on a thing that is, it's like, it's like putting the the crystal with $100 bill in your drawer, (Lesley: Yeah) where where you open it and you go, "Oh, yeah, right, I'm going to focus on that today." Changing the, this the the olfactory, you know, scent of our kitchen, when I walk in in the morning, I'm like, "Oh, I like being in here." Right? And that is a very simple action item thing to do. But the permission part of it is, I think it's funny, because we get so sucked into the hard thing that we forget to be objective about it and go, "Hey, I know this is hard but does it have to feel hard?" (Lesley: Right) You know, maybe it doesn't have to feel this hard. And, and so that's the per... you have the you can give yourself the permission to look at it in a different way. But that's tied into the shifting of the paradigm, right? (Lesley: Mm-hmm) My mom used to say, "Have to do before want to do. Have to do before want to do." Right? I mean, it was like, I don't know, she must have said it to me a hundred ... a hundred times, a thousand times growing up, I think, I mean, I heard that for... forever for my entire elementary school, middle school, probably even in the high school. In high school, she kind of shifted to "You're putting too much in one day. You're putting too much in one day." (Brad laughs)Lesley Logan 14:58 Brad put too much in one day? (Brad: No) Never (Lesley laughs)Brad Crowell 16:27 But you know that, you know, then then it was like, "Oh, I gotta do my chores around the house before I can go out to play" (Cries) and I would be angry about it. Right? And I think that there's this shifting of the paradigm and what Mallory was talking about, which I thought was really cool is, what if instead of it being like, "Damn it, I have to vacuum the stairs before I can go run around," got shifted to "I get to go run around after I vacuum the stairs." (Lesley: Right) And that I think is really shifting the paradigm. It's just again, like looking at it from the other side of the coin, as it were, you know, where you get to, to you still have to do thing. (Lesley: Yeah) But now instead of it being this really frustrating, angry experience. It's, you know, you're you're dwelling on the the thing that you actually want to be doing anyway. And this you just got to do this so that you can go do that. (Dog barks)Lesley Logan 17:29 Yeah, I um. I think, you know, I love that, that you grew up with that. I think there's also like, it's if you only hear people in your life complaining, it becomes a it does feel a little hard to be the positive polly around. (Brad: positive polly) (Brad laughs) One of our guests, he's coming up next week, he said, "You two must annoy the hell out of people. You're like so positive." (Brad laughs) And I was like, "Do you think we do?" And I do, I think people get because like we when bad things happen. People want to like roll on the ground with us. And we're like, "It's fine" cause what are we to do. Everything happens for us. It's fine." Also, because suddenly we didn't like feel the crap. We just felt it and we moved on. We're like, "How do we do this?" And so I do think it's that the if you can make your shift in the paradigm your superpower. You can change your course quickly. And like the life you want to have is going to happen so much faster. SoBrad Crowell 18:21 Yeah, well, it sounds like Mallory is the queen of shifting your paradigm. (Lesley: She's so good) So, super cool.Lesley Logan 18:27 Yeah, she's so chill. Okay, BE IT action items, (Brad: Yeah) break it down because she had these like three that work together.Brad Crowell 18:33 Yeah. So what bold, executable, intrinsic or targeted action items that can you do, can we take away. Sorry, from your convo with Mallory Gott? Well, right out of the gate, she said, "Decide how you want to feel." (Lesley: Yeah) Right? And that I think is not the way that most people focus on the thing they have to (Lesley: no) do. Right? She says, "Choose how you want to feel around the thing that you want to do." Maybe you have to do but you can still you still control how you feel. And she said to pick three adjectives about your day like that you want to experience and then how can you apply those adjectives to the things that you have to do?Lesley Logan 19:23 Yeah, I think that is really, really fun. I'm just googling adjectives right now because (Brad laughs) if you're like me, and you're good memorizer to take the test and then you're like, (Brad: You have the descriptor.) ... Yes. So a word or phrase naming an attribute, added to or added to or grammatically related to a noun to modify or describe it. So you're the noun and and whatever you want to attribute to how you are in the moment of the thing. So that makes that makes me excited. You can actually Google like adjectives and like, there's like a bunch of sites that like 150 adjectives, you know, like you can pick them. So if you are like ...Brad Crowell 20:01 I also think that it doesn't necessarily need to be like, like exclusively an adjective you could pick joy. I don't think joy's an adjective. (Lesley: I know you but you could also though I want ...) I guess joyful would be an adjective.Lesley Logan 20:13 Yeah, yeah. So there's, there's I found a site that 150 of the most common. I'm going to be honest, this has a lot of like, depressing ones like mhmm, so I'll go through and highlight all the most positive or like look up positive adjectives. I should have done that. And then pick three and then do the thing that she just said, which is, it makes it makes me think of like Hilary Hartling, like ta-da list... (Brad: I was just thinking about that. Yeah) So like your take Mallory Gott's little situation here, little system, three adjectives. Take it to your to-do list, mad... inverted the Mad Libs rock on. Then you can get to go, "Tadaa." (Leslye laughs) So, I like this. I'm gonna, I'm gonna have a zippy afternoon with my meeting.Brad Crowell 20:55 A zippy? (Lesley: Mm-hmm) Okay. All right. Yeah, I'm gonna have a (Lesley: I'm gonna proudly do my calls.) Yeah, what are the three, what are your three adjectives for today?Lesley Logan 21:05 Mine? (Brad: Yeah) Oh, okay. So well, I thought I think proud is awesome. And that feels like, tall, energetic and fancy.Brad Crowell 21:15 Oh, fancy. (Lesley: Yeah) I love that. Okay, so (Lesley: Yeah. What are yours?) what are you, what do you have to do later today that you're going to make fancy?Lesley Logan 21:22 I have worked on those kind of like flashcards. (Brad laughs) So I'm going to proudly with, "What was my other one, proudly ..." (Brad: Ah um ...) Oh, my God, short term memory just blanked on me. Fancy and what? Here's what I'm just gonna new make one (Brad: Pick another one) Okay, when I do the fla... I'm going to do the flashcards ...Brad Crowell 21:44 You guys can hit rewind, and then tell (Lesley laughs) us what she said.Lesley Logan 21:47 What I say? I'm going to zealously.Brad Crowell 21:50 Zealously, you definitely didn't pick that one. But ...Lesley Logan 21:53 No, nope. Um, I am going to, I'm going to say, I'm proudly work on those cards, because I am so fucking proud of them. And I really do. Can't wait for you to have them. So I'm going to proudly work on those cards in and when I and then I'm going to sit there in a fancy outfit while I'm doing it.Brad Crowell 22:07 Yeah. And I think for me, I'm going to um... Let's see, exuberantlyLesley Logan 22:17 Oh, well, now you're just, now it's a spelling test. (Brad laughs)Brad Crowell 22:22 I'm going to exuberantly host a webinar, although there's nothing negative about hosting the webinar, because it's going to be with our friend Alex Street. It's gonna be so cool. (Lesley: I know) ... you gonna love it.Lesley Logan 22:35 He's a past guest, you can listen to him. He's just so cool.Brad Crowell 22:38 And then productively get done a bunch of boring contract work (Lesley: I think ...) that I have to do that I'm not excited about. So, (Lesley: I think you have to remove those those adjectives) Yeah, exactly. We're gonna swap that out to that's the productive and exuberant and the last one is going to be ... I do like joyful and that ...Lesley Logan 23:05 You could joyfully work on these contracts. You can whistle while you work.Brad Crowell 23:08 With exuberance. Yes and (Lesley: Yeah, yeah) productiveness. Lesley Logan 23:11 And then you're going to the gym with ... you're going to gleamly go to the gym (Brad: gleamly) I don't know. I'm just looking at another. (Brad and Lesley laughs)Brad Crowell 23:20 Alright. Somebody take away the synonyms or (Lesley: Okay) adjectives.Lesley Logan 23:23 Yeah. So fun. Okay, well, anyways, if you do this system, please let us know. Screenshot this episode, tag Mallory Gott, tag Be It Till You See It pod.Brad Crowell 23:32 Oh wait, sorry. She has a course. (Lesley: Oh, gosh. Okay) Yeah. So well, you know, what's your big takeaway, Lesley? (Brad laughs)Lesley Logan 23:41 I got really distracted with the adjectives and clearly we should be teaching you what she teaches. So because we're still working out the adjectives (Brad: Yeah) in our own lives. So take her course. She's got four parts to her course. We cover two in the interview. SoBrad Crowell 23:55 Yeah, the first pillar was, if you're designing an event or an experience for people, you will want to consider how you want them to feel. Right? During the experience, which is something that you and I do all the time with the retreats. (Lesley: Yeah) You know, like, we've got people coming here in March to Las (Lesley: Yeah) Vegas for a fitness business retreat, we're (Lesley: Yeah) really focused on like, "What are they going to experience? What are they going to feel?" Loved that.Lesley Logan 24:18 We filter everything through how we want them to feel.Brad Crowell 24:19 That's the first part of it. The second part of it is going to be and this is something that I don't think about this, I never think about this. (Lesley: clearly we need to take this part) Yeah. How do I want to feel while designing their retreat experience? (Lesley: Yeah, yeah, we're gonna take this course.) And that was like, "Hmm. I didn't I never considered me I was just making it work, making it happen." Right? (Lesley: Yeah) So that's, that's pretty amazing. And then during the interview, I don't actually recall the third and fourth part of her program, so I would absolutely (Lesley: also) recommend checking out her course.Lesley Logan 24:28 Two more reasons why you should check out her course. So we'll have that linked below (Brad: Yeah, in the show notes.) She's amazing. We have to have her back. I don't know. I gotta have her do a presentation. This is so freakin' great. I'm Lesley Logan.Brad Crowell 25:03 And I'm Brad Crowell.Lesley Logan 25:04 Thank you for joining us today. We're so grateful for you. Seriously so grateful. Otherwise we just be doing this for the ethers. And so thank you for listening. Thank you for downloading. Thank you for sharing. Screenshot this, tag Mallory, tag @be_it_pod with how you're using her BE IT action items and send us that we get a DM and we can like shout you out, we can celebrate you. It's super, super fun, and we'll catch you on the next episode.Brad Crowell 25:25 Until next time.Lesley Logan 25:26 That's all I got for this episode of the Be It Till You See It podcast. One thing that would help both myself and future listeners is for you to rate the show and leave a review. And, follow or subscribe for free wherever you listen to your podcasts. Also, make sure to introduce yourself over at the @be_it_pod on Instagram. I would love to know more about you. Share this episode with whoever you think needs to hear it, help us and others Be It Till You See It. Have an awesome day!'Be It Till You See It' is a production of 'As The Crows Fly Media'.Brad Crowell 26:01 It's written produced, filmed and recorded by your host, Lesley Logan and me, Brad Crowell. Our Associate Producer is Amanda Frattarelli.Lesley Logan 26:12 Kevin Perez at Disenyo handles all of our audio editing.Brad Crowell 26:16 Our theme music is by Ali at APEX Production Music. And our branding by designer and artist, Gianfranco Cioffi.Lesley Logan 26:25 Special thanks to our designer Jaira Mandal for creating all of our visuals (which you can't see because this is a podcast) and our digital producer, Jay Pedroso for editing all video each week so you can.Brad Crowell 26:37 And to Angelina Herico for transcribing each of our episodes so you can find them on our website. And, finally to Meridith Crowell for keeping us all on point and on time.Transcribed by https://otter.aiSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/be-it-till-you-see-it/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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A Special Interview with Survivor at Home Season 4 Champion: Alex Street!

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2022 106:48

If you're a fan of Survivor, games, strategy, and competition, you will love Survivor at Home! On January 21st-22nd, 16 contestants from across Canada took part in Survivor at Home Season 4: No Surrender. It was an incredible weekend, setting the bar higher than any season prior, with Alex Street emerging as the champion over Luke and Ben in the Finale! In a special bonus episode today, Alex joins us to break down his gameplay and what it took to be crowned the Sole Survivor! You don't want to miss it! Plus we have a special guest appearance half-way through from fan-favourite Jon Juane! More more information on Survivor at Home visit: www.survivorathome.com To find out more about what Alex is doing, follow him @streetsays Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/hey-pluto/the-gentleman License code: EPVVSP8ZUFZVZPT0 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/survivorathome/message

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Stand Out With Your Story with Alex Street

Love the Work You Do

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2022 31:52

Alex Street believes when you share your story you change the world. As an actor, youth pastor, public speaker, and coach for more than 20 years, he knows firsthand how powerful storytelling is for personal development & business strategy. Alex has coached TEDx Speakers, bestselling authors, and 7-figure coaches to find the WHY rooted in their signature story.

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Episode 9: Perception is Reality

Survivor at Home: The Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2021 90:27

One of Survivor at Home's biggest advocates and the always entertaining Alex Street joins us this week to discuss episode 9 of Survivor 41! On this episode, we look at Xander's wise gameplay, learn more about Ricard's story, consider the mental strength required to win an endurance challenge, and break down the unique double tribal council. We also take time to reflect on the moves and moments that we would be proud of if we were to play on a future season. If you loved this episode (you should!), give us a like and review, and tell your friends! For more information on Survivor at Home, visit www.survivorathome.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/survivorathome/message

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#21: Membership Engagement Beyond Facebook and Zoom

Your Greatest Work

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2021 32:25

Manja continues Season 2 of Your Greatest Work with a peer mastermind with Alex Street, a coach for speakers, brand messaging, and stories. Alex and Manja discuss how to build a membership that's engaging beyond Facebook and Zoom, an area of opportunity Alex is looking to explore. Together, Manja and Alex unpack the two keys to creating an engaging membership that delivers relevant, high-quality content again and again and again. They discuss the importance of mapping membership journeys and how to implement these journeys into the membership. To complement the membership journey, Manja and Alex also discuss how to make video calls actually engaging — and why abandoning Zoom might not be such a bad idea! Listen with your pen and notebook on hand, because you're going to grab absolute GOLD in this episode. About Alex Street Alex believes when you tell your story you change the world. As an actor, youth pastor, and public speaker for more than 20 years, he knows firsthand how powerful storytelling is when it comes to personal development, business strategy, and cultivating empathy in our world. Now, with his Transformation Story Arc, Alex helps entrepreneurs create a clear message that connects with their audience and changes the world. Alex has coached TEDx Speakers, bestselling authors, and 7-figure coaches to find the WHY rooted in their signature story. He has a Masters in Theological Studies, is a husband of 16 years, and dad to three Gen Z kids in Toronto, Ontario. fearlessspeakersacademy.com

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Fall Pledge Drive - Alex Street (Holy Apostles)

Salt & Light Catholic Radio Podcasts

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2021 17:29

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How To Tell Your Story In A Way That Resonates With Your Audience with Alex Street

How Do You Deal With

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2021 55:04

Have you ever thought "I don't have a story worth telling." If have, then this episode is for you. Alex Street is a story telling coach and comes on to not only share his story but offer advice for anyone who feels like their story isn't worth telling or they have a boring story. He believes there are no boring stories, only bad storytellers!If you've never listened to the show before, I highly recommend starting with this one. It's got great takeaways for all. Find Alex on instagram at https://www.instagram.com/streetsays

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#35: Find Clarity From Your Story with Alex Street

The UX Hustle

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 1, 2021 58:53

In this episode, Amanda and Alex talk about the power and importance of your story. Alex walks through his process of the Transformation Story Arc so that you can show up more authentically inside and outside your career -- and even use those stories to land that next role if you're feeling like there's more for you out there. Stay tuned for singing, laughing, and lots of story-telling. Alex believes when you tell your story you change the world. As an actor, youth pastor, and public speaker for more than 20 years, he knows firsthand how powerful storytelling is when it comes to personal development, business strategy, and cultivating empathy in our world. Now, with his Transformation Story Arc, Alex helps entrepreneurs create a clear message that connects with their audience and changes the world. Alex has coached TEDx Speakers, bestselling authors, and 7-figure coaches to find the WHY rooted in their signature story. He has a Masters in Theological Studies, is a husband of 16 years, and dad to three Gen Z kids in Toronto, Ontario. Go says hi to Alex on Instagram: @streetsays Sign up for a free preview of Alex's Make Speaking Magical video course: https://www.alexstreet.ca/offers/t6xryaFv/checkout Come to the UX Hustle Summit - September 24 & 25: https://uxhustle.org Free challenge Aug 30 - Sept 3: Career Force One: https://uxhustle.org/challenge --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/uxhustle/support

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Episode 38: Your Story Matters with Alex Street

Evolve Beyond Limits

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 16, 2021 66:21

In this episode I caught up with Alex Street, Story Coach, about the importance of your story. He brings clarity to your complicated story so that you stand out from the crowd. Alex shares that if you're anything like him and you want to speak up but something keeps getting in the way, then he can help you through that. He's been telling stories all his life as an actor, youth pastor, and public speaker, but was so afraid the audience wouldn't like him that he held myself back and was constantly confused about what to say. For 20 years he was frustrated because he wasn't making the impact he knew he could. He enrolled in a program with other entrepreneurs who quickly helped him see that his story matters and his voice is needed in this world. Now there's nothing in his way! He's showing up more confident than ever to help people uncover their signature story, clarify their message, and speak without fear. If you're interested in learning more about EBLA or joining an upcoming round, visit stacygissal.com. You can find Alex on Instagram @streetsays or Fearless Speakers Academy

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Why YOUR Story is so important

The Beauty Inspires Beauty Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2021 30:02

In this Episode, I sit down with Alex Street, who is a story telling Coach for Entrepreneurs. He believes that behind every great business is a great story to be told! As a storyteller himself, Alex helps you see value in your transformation story so you can create a clear message and connect with your audience. When we are more clear on our story, that creates confidence to help your Business grow. Many people, all too often see their life as being “boring” without much excitement, Alex shares how his superpower is his ability to listen and help these people see their life through the lens of a fascinating story, which leads to transformation. Great episode for anyone struggling to get clear on their communication and messaging with their audiences! Follow Alex @streetsays Learn more about Alex at alexstreet.ca Follow Jess @jessicaburgio Visit: www.beautyinspiresbeautyshop.com

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Do It For Yourself To Get Through It (ft. Brad Crowell) - Ep8

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2021 33:46

Before Brad & LL go back through the previous episode's interview with Alex Street, a storytelling coach for entrepreneurs, they answered the question of why they moved to Las Vegas. Then they dug into the gold that Alex talked about confidence, how to move through fear, merging two different worlds in your life, and much more.If you have any questions about this episode or want to get some of the resources we mentioned, head over to LesleyLogan.co/podcast. If you have any comments or questions about the Be It pod shoot us a message at beit@lesleylogan.co .And as always, if you're enjoying the show please share it with someone who you think would enjoy it as well. It is your continued support that will help us continue to help others. Thank you so much! Never miss another show by subscribing at LesleyLogan.co/subscribe.In this episode you will learn about:ConfidenceRipping off the Band-AidEducation vs ExperienceSupport from othersGetting a coach or mentorDoing "it" for youReferences/Links:Alex Street's Website Amy Cuddy's TED TalkIf you enjoyed this episode, make sure and give us a five star rating and leave us a review on iTunes, Podcast Addict, Podchaser and Castbox.Lesley Logan ResourcesLesley Logan websiteBe It Till You See It PodcastOnline Pilates Classes by Lesley LoganOnline Pilates Classes by Lesley Logan on YouTubeProfitable PilatesFollow Lesley on Social MediaInstagramFacebookLinkedInTranscript:INTRODUCTION:Brad CrowellFor those of you who are fitness instructors, you know, it's, think back to when you were going through your program, you know where they required teaching hours, you remember the first time that you had to teach a body, and you were like...Like, a real body,Yeah, yeah, like, you know, all the things that I think I know that I don't really know now that I'm trying to call on them, you know, and, you know, you know, at the end of the session, the person was still okay, you know, they might have actually had a good workout. Who knows, you know, and for you, you know, now you're going away from it going, alright, here's what I'm gonna do next time.Lesley LoganWelcome to the Be It Till You See It podcast where we talk about taking messy action, knowing that perfect is boring. I'm Lesley Logan, Pilates instructor and fitness business coach. I've trained thousands of people around the world and the number one thing I see stopping people from achieving anything is self doubt. My friends, action brings clarity and it's the antidote to fear. Each week, my guests will bring Bold, Executable, Intrinsic and Targeted steps that you can use to put yourself first and Be It Till You See It. It's a practice, not a perfect. Let's get started.EPISODE:Lesley Logan 00:39Welcome back to the Be It Till You See It interview recap where my co host in life, Brad, and I are going to dig into the profound conversation I have with Alex. In our last episode, it was freakin' profound (Brad: Alex Street) Alex Street. (Brad: Yes) Absolutely. And if you haven't yet listened to that interview, feel free to pause this now, go back and listen to that one and then come back and join us, or be like me, listen to this whole thing, love him so much that you have to go back and listen to all the other gems that we didn't bring up in this episode. So, okay. Several of you have been Instagram dm-ing me on the @be_it_pod because you've been seeing all this awesome stuff with the 100withme challenge happening, and I wanted to just tell you the 100withme challenge is awesome. It happens a couple times a year, we will do it again this year. So, no FOMO, just make sure that you are on the list, it is one of my favorite things to do. It is a 30-day consistency challenge. So you, it's one of the most funnest challenges out there because you decide how often you're going to do Pilates, you make a schedule, and every single week we do a live class together, a hangout session together, we give away prizes, people share how many times they're gonna do their workout and it's basically you deciding what your new routine is going to be, and then practicing it.Brad Crowell 01:59Yeah, and look, depending on when you're listening to this, you probably could still jump in, although it might because at the end, but like Lesley said, it's definitely something that happens, two, three times a year, and you can get on the list and join us for the next round, but it is, it is pretty awesome. And, and I do Pilates during the challenge too.Lesley Logan 02:21Yes, he does! He picks how often he's gonna do it. He makes a schedule, he posts when he does it, and it's, it's just really fun and the whole idea is just to help you have accountability and showing up for yourself. So, yeah, so that's the answer to that question, and I'm really excited about it. I love the 100withme, I can't wait till the next one.Brad Crowell 02:44Awesome. Well, I think we had an audience question. This week (Lesley: We did.) my dear,Lesley Logan 02:52I love audience questions, you can send us your questions at the @be_it_pod on Instagram,Brad Crowell 02:57Yes, you can just send us a DM,Lesley Logan 02:59Yeah, just any DM. Ask any question you want.Brad Crowell 03:02Questions can be about anythingLesley Logan 03:03Anything. You can ask us about our dog's (Brad: life), life (Brad: business) business, (Brad: sleeping). Oh, I have so many things on routine sleeping, water intake, I've got (Brad: water), Brad and I are on a three liter minimum take a day right now. Welcome to desert life, which brings us to...Brad Crowell 03:23Why did we move to Vegas?Lesley Logan 03:25This is such a good question, I think, and I hope we don't disappoint the person who's asking this only because we had...I remember coming to Vegas and going, I will never live in Vegas, it's...why would anyone live here? Do you remember why we're here? I don't know what year it was, maybe a year after we've been married, maybe two, and we came to see your friends perform. Both of Brad's friends were headliners on the strip in two different shows like badass couple.Brad Crowell 03:55Yeah, they're married, both the leads in shows here in town. (Lesley: Yeah), in Vegas and separate shows both the lead,Lesley Logan 04:02Both the lead. (Brad: Pretty amazing) And they had this their dream house everything and they were like, and their shows, they both found out were being cancelled at the same time.Brad Crowell 04:12Yeah. Well within weeks of within a week, two weeks of each other, they found out both shows were closing.Lesley Logan 04:16Yeah, so we, we wanted to see them so we came out to Vegas to see them both perform before the show's close, and I remember being, it was a Labor Day weekend and I remember it's like so hot and it's so smoky and like who lives here, right?Brad Crowell 04:32I do remember thinking it was oppressively hot.Lesley Logan 04:36Oppressively hot.Brad Crowell 04:37Right? But I also remember thinking that they had a really beautiful home.Lesley Logan 04:40They had a gorgeous home and we...like, living in LA, their home was multiple millions of dollars and I liked it because it had a pool and it had the view and it had a bungalow...Brad Crowell 04:53A garden with a water fountain in the middle of it, I mean...Lesley Logan 04:55Yes, and they had like this, it's like a guest house, like a carriage house or your mother-in-law suite or whatever, it's like a separate room that we stayed in with our own bathroom. (Brad: Oh yeah). And so, just coming from LA that exists in the multiple millions. It does not exist in the 1 million or under. And so anyways, it was 2019 at Christmas we were doing our Pop Up Tour for OPC so we were literally driving across the country to get home for the holidays and stopping in eight cities to teach Pilates which was so much fun. And our first stop was Vegas because my brother lives here. And I remember we're sitting on the strip having breakfast and we asked my brother, Do people live here and not work on the strip? (Brad: Right) Which is such a dumb question because we lived in LA, and people live in LA who are not in the industry. (Brad: Of course) But, like, you know, you just can't fathom it and he's like, of course, totally. And so we started doing some research. And we're like, well, we'll probably move here and like 2022.Brad Crowell 05:51Yeah, well I think also before we decided that we then went to teach at that workshop and when we found the arts district we were like, this is so cool!Lesley Logan 06:02This was true and it was so cool. We had this great coffee, it was amazing, they still are here and they have great coffee and. And so we were like yeah you know what, probably let's start looking 2021 2022 (Brad: Yeah) Because (Brad: We are not really in a hurry), no, our 2020 schedule was so packed. Every single month we're in a different country. And so we, well, we all know what happened in 2020. And we, y'all, we lived in a 500 square foot apartment with ourselves, and two dogs, and when you can't go sit at a bar and work and you can't go to your favorite gym and you can't go to your favorite Pilates...Brad Crowell 06:39Or a coffee shop or even a friend's house or my (Lesley: friend's house is like), like, like everything changed, and our entire world revolved around our 500 square foot apartment, (Lesley: and we) and made no sense.Lesley Logan 06:50And I was sitting on my meditation chair using suitcases to make a desk, and I was like, we're moving now. So we were, you know the reality is that Vegas is a four hour drive from LA, we could get so much space for what we were paying in LA, and it was such an easy decision because we still go to LA.Brad Crowell 07:14Well yeah, I mean, 100%. We, I miss LA, I love LA, it's my favorite place, but Vegas is not far, and Vegas also has an International Airport.Lesley Logan 07:25Yes, it was very...we had a couple decisions. Like, we did contemplate like Hollywood, Florida and then our friends who we love, flew from Hollywood, Florida, to our house in Cambodia and their route sounded tragic.Brad Crowell 07:38Yeah it was it was a bit much, I was like, wow, ours is so much better.Lesley Logan 07:42I was like, can't do that and, and you can fly from Vegas to Asia, in a stop, so that was pretty much the killer of Florida, being an option for us but, um, so yeah Vegas, we've moved here for space, we moved here because we could keep so much of our LA life. (Brad: Yeah), like, some of the best LA restaurants are here.Brad Crowell 08:04Oh yeah, there's tons of food here. There's you know the only thing that we didn't have here really was a community.Lesley Logan 08:11Oh I was going to say humidity, but..Brad Crowell 08:14Yeah, yeah, there's lots of differences but I think when you're, you know like, like we, there were all these positives for moving here, but the true negative of moving here was community. (Lesley: Yeah), We didn't really have friends here.Lesley Logan 08:30Yea, no. And LA is this interesting mirage of a community because you have a community but it is as transient as Vegas is, and people move all the time. And what we also realized within a lockdown was like how easy that community could just kind of go away to and so we're still buildingBrad Crowell 08:49Oh sure, even in LA our community reallyLesley Logan 08:52Had really dwindledBrad Crowell 08:54Yeah cuz we weren't the only ones moving away, (Lesley: no). Right? So, (Lesley: no). Yeah,Lesley Logan 08:58So I mean we're still working on the community here. I had a great coffee date the other day. I feel good about the community we're building, and our neighbors are awesome. So if they're listening, we love you.Brad Crowell 09:08I would say, I would say it's unique in that we have neighbors that we actually know. That wasn't something that we had in LA. Here, I mean, we know, almost all of our, we know all of our neighbors, so it's very interesting.Lesley Logan 09:22They bring us bread, they clearly don't know that I'm gluten and dairy free but,Brad Crowell 09:27But they're friendly, what a weird concept.Lesley Logan 09:29But they're so friendly and also, side note, when we are traveling last Christmas and there was like a water situation happening on our roof, our neighbors, like (Brad: Oh yeah) call us up, and they're like, hey, there's a water thing happening on your roof, we know you're not there and we're like, that is so cool. Do you know what no one would have done (Brad: Yeah) in LA? No one would have called.Brad Crowell 09:51The man, we would have gotten a call from the manager when the downstairs neighbor had a leak coming through their ceiling, (Lesley: Yes.)Lesley and Brad 09:56Okay. AnywayLesley Logan 09:56That's, thank you for that question. (Brad: Great question) You're awesome. That was so fun. We actually haven't talked about that with many people, no one really asks so thank you for that. Alright, send your questions into @be_it_pod on Instagram and we will talk about them in the next episode. (Brad: Yeah) Before we talk about Alex Street, I love him so much. I just want to remind you that it is important to prioritize yourself, and it is really hard to do that until you practice it, like prioritization of self is like anything - it's a muscle - especially if you're not used to doing it. And so I want to help you do it, and by that I mean, I want you to go to OnlinePilatesClasses.com/beit and sign up for a free class, it's 30 minutes, you can do 15 minutes if that's all you want to do, but the act of you logging in, pressing play and moving your body, it is not only connecting your mind to your body and helping you do life better, it is telling yourself that you come first. And so go to OnlinePilatesClasses.com/beit, that's OnlinePilatesClasses.com/b e i t to get that class and practice your prioritization.Brad Crowell 11:06Awesome. All right, time to talk about Alex Street. I really love this guy. He's so gentle. (Lesley: I know) His demeanor and everything about him is friendly and approachable.Lesley Logan 11:24I just, like, he's like a teddy bear, but he's not...he doesn't look like a teddy bear, but like, do you know what I mean? Like you just want to bring him with you. You just want to have him there, likeBrad Crowell 11:30He's, he's just a lovely human being, and we had a chance to meet him in 2019, and I must say, I wrote this bio myself, I did not take anything from any bio that he had given us,Lesley Logan 11:48Check out the show notes if you want the real one. But this is gonna be so good because Brad is the best edifier of peopleBrad Crowell 11:55Alex Street was born to be on stage, (Lesley: Totally) his acting career took him into the ministry where he became a youth pastor, teaching teenagers, which put him on stage every single week for more than 10 years, every single week, he was on stage for 10 years. He has since become a speaking coach, working with everyone from those working in sales, to those who are pitching products to executives leading teams, and he's so darn good at it. I'm not kidding, every time we talked to him, (Lesley: Can't believe you said it darn, he's damn good) he's damn good. Well, we have had him. Okay, first off, we've seen him speak, a couple times at that conference, we've had him two times as a webinar guest.Lesley Logan 12:41Yes, he has two courses on Profitable Pilates.Brad Crowell 12:44And then now, yes, two courses on ProfitablePilates.com and then now a podcast. (Lesley: Yeah) Okay, here is what blows my mind,Lesley Logan 12:51Tell me.Brad Crowell 12:55Each time, each time he is speaking. He's so amazing at starting with an idea, and then revisiting the idea, and then revisiting the idea and then revisiting the idea, and then closing his conversation. And the whole time he's not like, it's like, like for those tech nerds out there it's not keyword stuffing like you would with Google, and like just putting the same word on the page 50 times. He's very eloquent with how he does it. When I was listening to his interview between the two of you, I was laughing because he's like talking about, you know, how bold, you know, intrinsic, executable and targeted, he was bringing it back into the conversation without you, prompting him.Lesley Logan 13:39Oh I knowBrad Crowell 13:42And that's, but that's because of his skill, his talent of being on stage. He's just so good.Lesley Logan 13:48He's so good at it and we're gonna get we haven't gotten to our favorite parts yet but I just have to give him a little bit of a plug because he 100% deserves it. Many, many, many of my agency members, which is our coaching mastermind for fitness instructors, have hired him for one on one. They have joined his mastermind and they are going on the radio, and they are doing amazing posts on their social media, and he, he makes speaking... Well, he makes speaking magical which is his fucking thing so, somehow he made me say that without even knowing. Okay, so let me get into what I loved about the interview.Brad Crowell 14:27Yes.Lesley Logan 14:27You're not born with confidence, showing up creates confidence. I think I need to say one more time, you're not born with confidence, showing up creates confidence. So, this actually is a really interesting thing because I have so many people who asked me, How are you so confident? I wish I was as confident as you and I am scared to death most of the time, like, doing the interview with Alex, y'all, I had not been a podcaster before the interview. I was so scared, I was like, I literally was so grateful that Alex was the person because I knew okay he, he can carry a conversation if I totally freeze up, he can carry it, the act of doing it is what's made me confident. Right? (Brad: Sure) So what I think people see in other people that is confidence is probably just higher self esteem or a little bit of courage and bravery that you can have, it's the, you know I was, you can you can be confident on skis and not confident on a snowboard. Right? How do you get confidence on a snowboard? You show up and put your feet on a snowboard. I have not done that yet but this is how it works. So I really challenge all of you if you're seeking confidence in an area, it doesn't come from waiting. It doesn't come from thinking about it, it doesn't even come from plotting about it. At some point, you're gonna have to just fucking do it. And then when it's over and you realize you didn't die. You're gonna be so much more confident, the next time you do it. Brad, what is one thing that you love that he said?Brad Crowell 16:01I mean, I think it's, it's really incredible to just conceptualize the showing up part of it. (Lesley: Yeah), you know, because I, you know, I know that there's this idea of like education versus experience. (Lesley: Yeah), you know, and, and you can be, you can study and be completely, you know book smart and all the things, but until you actually go out and you do it, you know you're still going to have this fear. Alternatively, you can never study anything and just go do it, and like, you know, I mean you can still have fear there but like you can learn it on the job. Right? That's the kind of the way I think about it is like, I didn't go to college for it but I learned in my job right. (Lesley: Yeah), from a career perspective, (Lesley: yeah), that, that... going through and doing it actually being in it and doing it is going to create that confidence for you. And so it's so funny when we're contemplating, you know, talking to a stranger. How do you get over the fear of it? You got to just go talk to a stranger. (Lesley: Yeah) Right? And when you do that the first thing you're going to realize is, you don't know what to say, you know, and you, you sound silly and you, you know, you forget things and like nothing makes sense, but at the end of that conversation. They didn't punch you in the face. Like, your, your, you know, they slashed your tires, everything's fine, like, you know,Lesley Logan 17:32Who's dramatic today?Brad Crowell 17:36Basically, the world did not end, you're fine. Like, even though you might have made a fool out of yourself, even, you're still alive, you're still breathing, everything's gonna be alright. Probably if it's a stranger you never have to see that person again anyway. And it's no big deal but you walk away from that thinking, okay, I can do this again. Next time, I'm going to be prepared, but I can do this. (Lesley: Yeah), it wasn't the end of the world. (Lesley: Yeah) So I love that, you know that idea of showing up creates confidence. But one thing he talked about a bunch, which I thought was interesting, he kind of hit on it a few times during the interview. First, right out of the gate, he said he felt like he was living two different stories.Lesley Logan 18:19I know, this was so fascinating.Brad Crowell 18:21And I didn't really understand what he meant until later on in the pod where he started talking about his transition from being a youth pastor to being a speaking coach.Lesley Logan 18:34Such a great story, you'll definitely want to listen to this oneBrad Crowell 18:36And it may, I mean it made sense to me at that point was it. Oh, I totally got it, he, he was clearly confident being a pastor, being on stage, you know, teaching, leading, you know, whatever, all the things, and then when it came to selling himself as a speaking coach, he was not confident, and he, he was like it put me in a position where I felt out of sorts. You know, where I felt like I shouldn't be introducing myself, as you know, a speaking coach, I should be introducing myself as a youth pastor. Right? And so then, later on in it, he actually said, you know, I probably, like, since, since the great story that I'm not going to repeat, you got to go back to the other pod listen to it but he had this experience of telling everyone he was youth pastor, even though that wasn't his plan. And afterwards, he realized he should be marrying the two. I am a speaking coach, because I was a youth pastor. And suddenly, it validates, like it's the authority, you know like, like, you know when it comes to social triggers and proof and all the things like, why would he be a speaking coach? Oh, well, because I've been a youth pastor for 10 years, I've been on stage. More than 500 times. I have spoken to 10, groups of 10,000 like mind blown validation, all day long. (Lesley: Yeah), you know, so this idea of being in two different worlds I thought was really interesting.Lesley Logan 20:19I really, I totally resonated with that because when I was learning to become a Pilates instructor and I was managing a retail shop, and I had a really hard time telling people that I was becoming a Pilates instructor, (Brad: sure), and A) because I didn't, I didn't know if I could make as a Pilates instructor I did I just was like taking the classes and B) like, I just felt like, well, I just started so maybe I shouldn't be, uh, maybe I can't call myself that, and it was like such a weird thing and then one day, a client that I was teaching came to my shop. And she brought her friends up and here's all the girls that work for me. There's a couple customers there and, like, this is my Pilates instructor and like ‘cat was out of the bag', and then it was so funny.. It's like, You teach Pilates? And I'm like, I couldn't believe it because more people were so excited I don't know what I was thinking that people would think and I think that was fascinating but it's like you don't know what people are gonna say, so then you just think, assume the worst which is such a weird thing like,Brad Crowell 21:25Or we have this idea that we need to separate two worlds (Lesley: yeah) somehow. I'm never gonna tell anyone here about, you know that I, whatever, play, play sports or that I do this or that I am podcast host or whatever, you know, they get, you get stuck in this, this idea of lanes (Lesley: yeah), but, no, you're still you.Lesley Logan 21:44You're still you and people love you no matter what it is you do, and also people inherently want to support you. (Brad: yeah) Like this woman who I was teaching...she didn't think, Oh I'm blowing her cover. She thought, I love this girl and how she's taught me Pilates. And so and then everybody else is just like, I just, this is so..we love you and this is so cool that you're doing this. They didn't go, Oh she's gonna leave us and well my boss wasn't there, but the other people weren't like she's gonna leave us, you know, they were just like this is so cool. Good for you, like, I think we underestimate how much people want, you want us to be like in air quotes successful. I think it's happy. They want us to be happy. Alright, so,Lesley Logan 22:26Brad?Brad Crowell 22:26Tell meLesley Logan 22:28In the action items.Brad Crowell 22:29Yeah, let's talk about the BE IT, let's talk about bold, executable, intrinsic or targeted action items that we took away from your conversation with Alex. I was actually, this is not something that I guessed he was going to say.Lesley Logan 22:50No, but I love that you chose this as your thing because. Are you going to tell your story?Brad Crowell 22:57I can.Lesley Logan 22:57Okay.Brad Crowell 22:58I wasn't planning on it but I certainly can.Lesley Logan 23:01Tell the Blink, tell the Blinkist version.Brad Crowell 23:03I'll tell the Blinkist version. They're not sponsoring this but I'll still tell them. Well, first off, Alex said, straight up, get a coach. And he said if you can't get a coach, put yourself in a room where you can connect with people who maybe they could become a coach, right, and he said it was bold, and that he had to spend money to do it. Right? And executable was just simply getting there. I can't remember what he said about intrinsic and targeted, but he literally spelled out why getting a coach, (Lesley Logan: I know) was all four things (Lesley: He was so awesome) was amazing. (Lesley: Yeah), but I was surprised that that was what he chose, until I realized that I think that was for him and his experience, that was the point of change (Lesley: Yeah) for him where his belief, his confidence, everything about it, really shifted. And I agree with him, I mean, when you put yourself in a position to be coached. I mean we all went to college, we all you know high school college, we all, we've all been a student before, you know, and then we get past, we get out of that and we think like, alright, I guess I have to go figure it out on my own, you know or you learn on the job, or whatever. You know, maybe it's been 10-20 years since you've been in school, but when you put yourself in a position to be coached, it's this interesting mindset shift, you know, where you can suddenly change your life. And that coach could be, you know, dedicating yourself to a podcast, that coach could be actually getting a coach, maybe that coach is someone in your family, maybe you're hiring someone, you know, it could be a mentor, whatever,Lesley Logan 25:00It could be your Pilates instructor.Brad Crowell 25:02It could be your Pilates instructor. But whatever it is you're trying to do, having a mentor, having someone, someone who has been, where you're trying to go is so valuable. Because you're allowing them to be an authority. And obviously, hopefully, you trust them.Lesley Logan 25:23Yes, you should definitely pick someone who understands, like you've resonate with, that you vibe with. Don't pick someone that you don't, you know, but I think, like, I think that you have, I love that he said get a coach because I think so many people are like, I'm gonna do it on my own. And it's like, something that I, okay this is really funny. Somebody bought me a birth chart reader for my birthday back when I was like, just coming out of being homeless. And I was like really, that's what you want to do with 170 bucks? Like, I'll take it. But I did this, so I sent this guy a picture of me, my birthday, my birthplace and the time I was born. And then we did an hour long call where he basically told me all the stuff about myself. And he said, you've gone as far as you can on your own. Whatever, what ideas do you have that you can partner up with? And like, this is at a time I had, I had some friends but it's LA acquaintances, and I lost a lot of my air quotes close friends when I left my ex and so like I was building my friendship up and I was like, I don't know I'm blogging on dating with a friend, and there's this other thing, he's like, you need to say yes to anything that's in collaboration, you are, you can't go any further. And so that's when I started looking at some collaborations and I started looking at coaching and I couldn't afford coaching but I would listen to any podcast that had any coaching advice whatsoever. And I would just pretend like I'm in partnership, we're a duo, this person is my friend, is my coach. And I love that you pick this because it's so easy for us to say, oh I don't want to...I can't spend that money and I'm not saying go out and get yourself a $10,000 coach or hire us or like that. A coach can even be like setting yourself up for a membership of some kind that holds you accountable, it can be it can be it can be a mentor that is just someone you, you say can you be my mentor, my friend has a mentor. She doesn't pay him, she has dinner with him once every four to six weeks, and she can text them if there's a problem. Some people like to be mentors and she was a lawyer and he was a lawyer and so you know there's these different things and some people like to do that so I love that because it's basically, you don't have to do this alone. (Brad: Yeah 100%) Yeah.Brad Crowell 27:55So I mean, I think, I think there's so many, so many positives to getting a coach so it was great to hear him say that.Lesley Logan 28:01Yeah, I agree.Brad Crowell 28:03Okay.Lesley Logan 28:03Okay.Brad Crowell 28:04What about you?Lesley Logan 28:05Well, so I love that he said sometimes you have to do it for yourself to get you through it, and I. Okay, so this is Being It. Right? Um, one of my questions I ask myself whenever I'm scared to do something, or whenever I'm not really sure if I should do something is I really just asked myself, what's the worst thing that can happen. And when I realized that I'm not going to die...Brad Crowell 28:29I think we covered that. (Lesley: Yeah), no one's gonna slashed your tires.Lesley Logan 28:33No one's gonna. I know. I knowLesley Logan 28:36This is a competition of who can be more dark. When I realize I'm not going to die, that it makes it like, it almost kind of makes it less scary because...like fear is this funny thing in our brain. Everything sounds like the end of the world but when you put it out there, you're like, well, the worst thing that can happen is I embarrass myself, it doesn't work, blah, blah. But if you can't die, then, really, you're just gonna, like, like maybe you fall, but you don't like nothing actually structurally damaging forever is going to happen to you. It kind of takes the edge off and it makes it easier and, you know, it goes back to if you listen to one of our first episodes where I talked about Amy Cuddy and like Being It Till You See It and why this thing is here, it's like, you got to go do the thing and just get through that first one. (Brad: Yeah), because then you're on the other side you can look back and go, Oh, that wasn't so bad. (Brad: Yeah), it can get better and here's what I learned.Brad Crowell 29:38Yeah. I think it's like, I mean really it's like, it's not that practice makes perfect, but practice will put you in a position where you are gaining confidence. Right?Lesley Logan 29:48No, practice makes habit and habit makes more confidence for sure.Brad Crowell 29:52Yeah, so, so like sometimes, you know, even if you're not ready to, I just go back to selling because that's what I, you know, do, but you know sometimes you're not, you might not be ready and you know you flub it halfway through, but you did it for you. It's a big step in your own growth to go get out there and go do it. (Lesley: Yeah), I mean come on, I think I think for those of you who are fitness instructors, think back to when you were going through your program, you know where they required teaching hours. (Lesley: Yeah) Do you remember the first time that you had to teach a body? And you were like,Lesley Logan 30:34Like a real body? YeahBrad Crowell 30:35Yeah, like, you know, all the things that I think I know that I don't really know now that I'm trying to call on them, you know, and at the end of the session, the person was still okay, you know, they might have actually had a good workout. Who knows, and for you, now you're going away from it going, Alright, here's what I'm gonna do next time, right?Lesley Logan 31:00Oh, totally. And here's the other thing, it's like, if you're not a fitness instructor you're like okay how does this apply to me. Just think about if you're trying to start something that is a new routine. For example, just think back to the last time I tried a new routine that you have to go back to, like, if you've been running every day like, when did you start running. Yeah it was freaking hard to get up that first day and go for a run and you probably are panting more than you wanted, you might have even gotten lost, maybe I'm just speaking for me. Right. And you may have realized like, Okay, that didn't go the way I wanted, but I'm still here. And I kind of enjoyed it, so I'm gonna try get...Brad Crowell 31:36Remember where you got lost in St. Louis in like 30 degree weather with the dog?Lesley Logan 31:40Oh my god like I was running around in circles everyone. It was one of those developments and like every house looked the same, and I literally got lost and I had to go search through a text message. I did text you for the address like, Where are we staying? Whose house are we at? And then I had to google maps that thank God we were in the country and I wasn't in Cambodia with no Wi-Fi like out lost. (Brad: Yea) Anyways, the point is, the point is that you need to just do it for yourself to get you through it so that you can take the next step and whatever it is, rip the frickin band aid off the sting only hurts a little bit.Brad Crowell 32:17All right.Lesley Logan 32:18All right, that's, that's the name of this episode, rip off the band aid. Well, my dear. Thank you for listening. Thank you for joining us today. We are so grateful you're here, and please just a huge favor, screenshot this, share your takeaway, tag the be_it_pod, let us know what you loved about it. Send this to a friend who needs a little pick me up or a band aid rip off moment, and keep us posted on what you're doing and by sending a DM on Instagram, we will catch you on the next episode, until then, be it till you see it. Fight!Brad Crowell 32:49Cheers!Lesley LoganThat's all I've got for this episode of the Be It Till You See It podcast!One thing that would help both myself and future listeners is for you to rate this show and leave a review.And, follow or subscribe for free wherever you listen to podcasts.Also, make sure to introduce yourself over on IG at be_it_pod on Instagram! I would love to know more about you. Share this episode with who ever you think needs to hear it.Help us help others to BE IT TILL YOU SEE IT. Have an awesome day!---Lesley Logan‘Be It Till You See It' is a production of ‘As The Crows Fly Media'.Brad CrowellIt's written, produced, filmed and recorded by your host, Lesley Logan and me, Brad Crowell.Lesley LoganKevin and Bel at Disenyo handle all of our audio editing and some social media content.Brad CrowellOur theme music is by Ali at APEX Production Music. And our branding by designer and artist, Gianfranco Cioffi.Lesley LoganSpecial thanks to our designer Jaira Mandal for creating all of our visuals (which you can't see because this is a podcast) and our digital producer, Jay Pedroso for editing all the video each week so you can.Brad CrowellAnd to Meridith Crowell for keeping us all on point and on time.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/be-it-till-you-see-it/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

How to Create Confidence and Change the World (ft. Alex Street) - Ep7

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 23, 2021 43:13

Alex Street bares all about making his transition from an accomplished youth pastor to a speaking coach, wrestling with validation, bravery, self belief, merging two worlds... Then Alex tells Lesley his awesome B.E.I.T action item of going out and finding a coach who has been where you want to go, and how to create confidence even when you don't have it yet.In this episode you will learn about:Taking the leapMerging your work and your lifeFacing fears about sharing why you are an expertHow to create confidence even when you don't have it yetIf you have any questions about this episode or want to get some of the resources we mentioned, head over to LesleyLogan.co/podcast. If you have any comments or questions about the Be It pod shoot us a message at beit@lesleylogan.co .And as always, if you're enjoying the show please share it with someone who you think would enjoy it as well. It is your continued support that will help us continue to help others. Thank you so much! Never miss another show by subscribing at LesleyLogan.co/subscribe.References/Links:InstagramAlex Street websiteAbout Alex Street:Alex is a Storytelling Coach, helping you share your story and connect with your audience. He has been a Youth Worker, Actor, and Public Speaker for two decades. His specialized blend of storytelling, captivating content, and a powerful performance has set him apart as a speaker and coach for audiences of all kinds. Alex is the host of the Fearless Speakers Academy and the Make Speaking Magical video course. He has a Masters in Theological Studies, lives near Toronto, Ontario as a husband of 15 years, and he's dad to three Gen Z kids.If you enjoyed this episode, make sure and give us a five star rating and leave us a review on iTunes, Podcast Addict, Podchaser and Castbox.Lesley Logan ResourcesLesley Logan websiteBe It Till You See It PodcastOnline Pilates Classes by Lesley LoganOnline Pilates Classes by Lesley Logan on YouTubeProfitable PilatesFollow Lesley on Social MediaInstagramFacebookLinkedInTranscriptLesley Logan 0:01 Okay, okay. Hello, everyone. Hello, my dear friend Alex Street, I'm so excited that you're here. I'm really excited to get to spend this morning together, you are one of my favorite humans on this planet. And when I was creating this podcast, I wanted to make sure that you were on it specifically because your story is so inspirational. But you don't just have one story that's inspirational. There's like many parts of you and facets to you that I want to share with everyone. And so I want to let you introduce yourself to the listeners and the viewers here. So Alex, take it away.Alex Street 0:35 So good, Lesley, I am thrilled to be a part of this. It is such a joy to be invited in here. And yeah, such a pleasure, we're gonna have some fun. So I'm in. I'm in Toronto, Canada, and I am a storytelling coach. I really help people uncover their story and share it with confidence. And what I'm finding is, this is something that I have been doing all along. And something that I'm more recently really embracing as, this is what I bring to the table. Like, this is the thing, this is what I'm here to do. And I mean, I'm really doing that I'm finding that as I uncover my own story. So this is all part of the journey for me, I'm only taking people where I've already been I'm taking people on the same transformation that I've been on from powerless to confident. And as I do that, it's an absolute wild ride and I'm loving it right now. So, story all the way all through and through in my family with me with my kids, now. It's all about story and how to get your story out to the world. That's what I'm here for.Lesley Logan 1:49 I love this. Okay, so there's a couple things that that stuck out with me there. Aside from that you are a father with kids, and I'm sure that there's a there's an element of pressure that comes with being a parent that you want to make sure that they live a life that has the lessons you've learned imparted onto them, right, like Alex Street 2:08 Yeah, a little bit.Lesley Logan 2:11 That's why, that's why I have dogs. Alex Street 2:16 Good.Lesley Logan 2:17 Um, I, I love that you you just said in this that you have discovered that story is your thing all along. And I wonder what led what was the what was the... I don't know, the discovery of the gem. Like when did this come upon you that you're like, oh, story is my thing.Alex Street 2:35 Yeah, it's it's just rooting down is doing the work. It's having the bravery. I think that's all that it was was over the last really 18 months, I would say I got brave enough to go deeper and deeper and deeper into who I am. And and to go to the roots of my journey. I think for probably 15 years, I was staying pretty surface, like up top doing good work and doing all kinds of things. But any questions that I had about what I'm supposed to do in this world was all about how I'm supposed to show up. You know what I mean? Like, how do I do the thing that I feel led to do, but I hadn't really done the work to discover, well, what is that thing - like what is deep down at the core, the very center of it all. What's driving me forward? So as I did that work, then I kind of you break through the surface, and you break through the surface of just how I'm showing up or what I'm doing. And you really get to that why and for me, storytelling, performing... that's been there, all along, right from the start. And so then that becomes a through line. And I just see so clearly how that is, that's, I mean, it's very much even in my blood, I would say.Lesley Logan 3:51 Okay, so you said brave, and I this is something resonates because I believe in being bold. And I think that the being brave part, the being bold part, is where people get stuck. And I also mean that you just like, because it's hard to have confidence or feel brave or feel bold and something you haven't done before. And you and I met at a mastermind, which, you know, six months before that I actually didn't know what a mastermind was.Alex Street 4:15 Samesies! I'm with ya!Lesley Logan 4:21 But I just I was in a place in my life probably similar to you. Where I was, I was very good at not being less like overconfident, like, like blabbing about myself but like I was really good at what I did. However, there was this thing inside me that just felt like there I was meant to do more and I wasn't stepping into that. And I think a lot of people it whether it's your job or a relationship, a friendship a goal, you have something that you want to do you know the thing that you're supposed to be stepping into and you might not have it completely - like with full clarity - but you know what, that is and it, there's, it tugs at you and it causes it like it keeps me up at night and I was like What is this thing? I joined a mastermind hoping to figure out like, what was my next thing? Because I hadn't seen it. Right. So it's really hard to want something you haven't seen before. And so when you when you were becoming brave to do the thing... What... What was the... what made you feel okay to be brave?Alex Street 5:20 Yeah. It's so good. I mean, it's just so like you're tapping into everybody's like, "yeah, I get that. I feel that, oh, she's saying exactly how I feel." Because that's it, like most of the clients that I work with now are coming to me in that sort of a space saying, like, I know that there's something or I'm just, there's something here, but I'm not saying it right. I don't I can't get the messaging, right. I don't know. It feels like I have two different stories, like I'm living two different stories. And all that it is, is, again, you're just up on this surface of like, like you did coming in saying, "?How do I get the answer? How do I do this thing better?" Or, "How do I do this thing more efficiently?" And so how did I get to the place of finding that bravery? Oh, man, many years of questioning, of doubting of, of leaving opportunities, of rejecting opportunities, of jumping into the unknown. Cue the Elsa music, really just expanding and saying, I wonder what else is there...I mean, if we want to go right back, like I can take you into the story and the journey of like, you know, how I got to here. And we can go there if you want. Yeah. Because this is where, right? This is the relatable part of the story. Again, you can look at the last three years and be like, okay, who am I based on these years? And I would say, no, no, no, look at what you want to do now. And then say, Where did that begin? And so for you, if it's like, I want to affect people, I want to help people build their businesses and you go like, Alright, where did that begin for you - like that helpfulness, that entrepreneurial spirit, like, were you making lemonade stands were what was this all about? For you? And for me, I want to help people perform. I want to help people tell their story with confidence. And that then deals with speaking in performance, all kinds of stuff. And for me that begins, like second grade, when my mom who's an actress, put me on stage. She like she came into the school and directed a pantomime, which is like a kind of production that's just total silliness, right? And it was Cinderella. My brother was one of the ugly stepsisters, like it was just bonkers. Which I'm so glad that he was because we can still make fun of him. So he was that, and my mom created this scene with a teddy bears picnic, just so that I could be in the in the show and dress up like a teddy bear and play badminton. But something caught on to me there, like, that was it. I was like, "This is fun." Whatever this is, I'd second grade. I'm like I caught the bug. And my mom hadn't performed for a long time. But then she got back on the stage. And I then grew up like as a young teen and teenager, I was backstage like I went to the theater with her, I would see you know, she was in a production that would have a run of maybe 30 shows. And I was there for like 13/15 of them. And so I would watch the show sometimes. But then sometimes I would actually just sit backstage as quiet as a mouse and do my crosswords or something and watch the whole show happen behind the scenes. And I was just I didn't know it then, right? But it was further enhancing, developing, growing this, like this thing that was planted inside me. That was this love for the whole thing. How people show up, how they perform what story we're telling, how to tell the story well, and it just grew and grew and grew to the point where I'm like, I'm gonna be an actor. No, no, like, I'm gonna, you know, I'm gonna get an Oscar. I had the speech written for my 21st it was before I was 21. That was my goal. I'm gonna win an Oscar.Lesley Logan 8:56 Oh, my God, I love this so much.Alex Street 8:57 Sadly the speech has been thrown out. ButLesley Logan 9:01 So so. Okay, I... this brings you so many thoughts. Because I think when you're listening to someone tell a story. And you see, you see the results of where you are, I am or anyone else in their life, like you see the fruits of the labor, but you don't see how far back the labor went. And I think a lot of people forget that their childhood was filled with so many experiences that set them up for today. And I was in theater for a while growing up and so I can picture I can picture this the the setting that you're taught, you're describing, and you're basically growing up seeing how performance, speaker, story changes people affects people. And so of course, this is something that you want to do and now and now you are teaching people how to tell their story which is beyond because I think some people listening like I don't even know how to describe my story. I put it together. I've been blessed to hear how you do that. And I and it's just so freakin amazing. So, if you're, if you're wanting to have help with that, this is your man. But I do wonder, you know, when you - there's a point between like, you want to be an actor, you want to have an Oscar, and now you're a story, coach. Yeah, the space between that... Where like... Can you take us a little bit into that? Because I think that is a journey where people might, you might have thought, well, I like wandered over here, and I wandered over here. But all of those are like pieces to the puzzle that made you who you are. So can you just share like a little brief part of that tour?Alex Street 10:34 Yeah, absolutely. Like this is, and this is the thing, this is where it gets into the how - how you do it is kind of actually, in the grand scheme of things, irrelevant. But that the beauty is like that I was trying to do the same thing the whole time, which was not only tell my story, but help other people tell their story. And so I, you know, I tried to be an actor move downtown Toronto, and then took a left turn and went into youth ministry, and became a youth pastor. You know, as you do if you want to be an actor? No, I don't think so, that's not the route. So you jumped, I jumped into this. And, and of course, like, there's parts of me that at the time, were saying, of course I did. Because I get to get up every week in front of a group of people that are unforgiving, and yet wildly forgiving – young teens – who like they won't give you an inch as a speaker, and yet, show up, show that you care. And they're here to hang out. And they know that you love them. Like that's all that matters to them. So I had weekly opportunities to practice my craft, to practice telling a story that is 1000s of years old, in new and fresh ways. That is the Bible and the story of Jesus and all this and trying to put on characters, whatever I can do to capture the attention of a freaking 12 year old. It was this incredible challenge of performance of storytelling. And then, I mean, forget the stage element, I just actually get to hang out with teenagers and families and help pull out what I see in them, that other people don't. And I just got to see, Wow, you really have a gift for leadership. Well, you ever really have a gift for stories, you really have a gift for making others feel safe. What if you started to use that? And then start to pull those gifts out of them? So there's this journey that Yeah, I'm youth pastor, and it's weird. And does that feel separated? I don't know. But ultimately, it was this further journey. Again, just doing the thing that I've always been here to do, which is to tell stories, and show up with confidence helping other people tell their stories as well.Lesley Logan 12:42 Oh, this is so great, because I think so many people, I get this question a lot. If you for those who don't know me, I also coach people in the fitness business. But I get this question a lot. Like, "What are people going to think if I just announced that I am this instructor now?" And I'm like,Alex Street 12:57 Yeah,Lesley Logan 12:58 They're gonna be really excited for you. Right? But like, you know, that feeling because I'm sure when you when you left, being a youth pastor, and then you decided to be a story coach, like, did you have that feeling like, "What are people gonna think when I say I'm this now?"Alex Street 13:13 Yeah, that was a big moment. That was Yeah, one of my, you know, hinge moments, everything that I've told you so far is kind of the in-who-I-was category. And then there's this moment where it was jumping into that mastermind. But a couple years ago, where I was trying to figure out what am I supposed to do? I know I'm supposed to speak, I'm not a youth pastor anymore. I left that about five or six years ago, realizing I'm not in that box anymore. And yet, there's still something that I'm here to do. I'm here to speak in some way. And, and I saw this opportunity to help, you know, to either speak with organizations or help those running organizations perform better perform in a higher level. But what if, what if I talk about that? What if I show up like that, and I start saying, Hey, I'm leaving the ministry space and going into this space. And still, I'm still have gigs at that point, like speaking at retreats at events with hundreds of teenagers still have, I'm still being invited into these things. What if I start to say, I'm going over here. And then to think about going into the mat to that mastermind. Like, that was the thing I took the jump, I made that leap. And that's all kinds of different things all in there. But then I remember standing up in front of the group with a microphone. I was the first one to introduce myself. And the only thing that I was thinking was like, Okay, how do I talk about my business? That's one thing. But the thing that was most of my mind, I have 90 seconds to say who I am. And the thing was not not "say this" in my head was "don't say youth pastor, don't say youth pastor, don't say youth pastor" because I was thinking these people in this space, entrepreneurship, business, whatever it is, they're not going to respect that my entire resume. was with snot nose, teenagers. Are you... like, like, what good is that? What, that... So I was terrified to talk about where I'd been to one group. And I was terrified to talk about where I was going to the other group thinking that they would lose their influence and their respect caught in this in between space. And that, I think, is where a lot of people as you were just alluding to find themselves, "Now, how do I move forward into a new space," leaving that behind and stepping into something unknown? It's a terrifying place to be. I'll just be honest,Lesley Logan 15:37 We're definitely going to come back to this because I want to know, like, it was what was their announcement or not, maybe there wasn't but right. I was in that room, y'all. And Alex was the first person to go and I My name is Lesley Logan. So I'm always in the middle of everything, right. And so I'm so grateful. I was like, thank God, I'm go first, like, but it's so funny. The stories we tell ourselves, because I remember thinking like this. I mean, like, you're listening to different people in all walks of life, talk about basically bragging, you're allowed to brag for 90 seconds. That's like literally what you're told to do. And I was raised, like, Don't brag, it's, like, unattractive. And so like, having to overcome the thoughts of like, it's okay to brag, because I don't want it but I was like, I'm a Pilates instructor like, who in here is gonna be like, Oh, yeah, that girl, that's the girl who's gonna help me. You know, it's just so funny. Like the stories we tell ourselves about all the people in a room. And actually, and it's so funny, because I would, I would never let anyone in the room I was talking to ever let themselves think that way about who they are and what they do, but we get in these spaces. And so and so, you know, I remember when I was like, Okay, and now I'm gonna announce that I'm a business coach supplies instructors, I'm I'm thinking people are going to be like, what you've been teaching for two years, girl like, no way, like, Who are you to do this. And I got to a place where I was so frustrated with not making the change that I needed to see that I just like, announced it. And I'm one of those people who's like, kind of like, will announce things. And I'm, like, run off and just see what happens later. Like, did it catch on fire? Like, how are we doing? But I would love to, I would love to hear like, you know, you're in this space of like, I'm not telling this group. Like what I'm doing now, I'm not telling this group what I was doing. When did you tell all the groups what they needed to hear?Alex Street 17:34 Yeah, so let's say I mean, just put a timeline to it. That was September, I think 2019. When even just signing up for that mastermind was me "being it," right, "being it till I see it." That's that that was it. I was like, Alright, well, I'm going for it. Here we go. I don't know what this is. All I know is that I can't take my business, whatever this is to the next level to any level without somebody guiding me along the way. Let's get into a room with 50 other people and see what happens. But you step in that space, everybody looks perfect. I don't belong there. All these thoughts through my head. Don't say your youth pastor, nobody will respect that. Just go up and talk about what you do. And then get the facts and get out of there. That's what was going on my head, Mr. Confidence, Mr. Like guy who has shown up in every room that he stepped into in a ministry setting, and is the one leading the way, essentially, and now I show up in this setting in this new group with these new people. And I'm going in thinking, like, I'm going to be the one who, who brings something today, I'm going to be the one who helps people today. And immediately, I felt so small. And so that smallness is what I said, when I get up to the microphone, I said that I share my intro eventually I did say yeah, so my business is Gen Z matters. It's helping organizations work with the next generation. And I remember pausing and then filling the gap with I'm an expert in this because I've been a youth pastor for 15 years, and my mouth kept going, but my foot was kicking myself. So Oh, man, I was so frustrated with myself at that point. But the cat was out of the bag. That was it. It just sort of happened. And what came after that is what was important, because then I sat down, people were like, Great, good job, good to meet you all that stuff. I think it was the next session. Actually, you and I were at the same table together. And you said something to me, Lesley, that I still have in my notebook. You said, You are a badass when you got up there and grab that mic. You knew your shit. We could see that. You had so much passion. We need more of it. And so I took that when Whoa. So all these gifts that I thought were only valuable of speaking of all these things that I had not been affirmed of yet were immediately being affirmed in this new environment. And that sparked something else inside me that like re-lit this flame to say, holy crap, this is possible. And then later that night, I had dinner with some people and they said, you realize that your story, you being a youth worker for 15 years, that is your superpower, you've had weekly speaking experiences, speaking opportunities. There's worldwide keynote speakers that haven't spoken to a crowd as many times as you have Alex, you got to lead with that. And so that's that started to open me up and go, holy crap. Okay. So whatever doubts I had about sharing with this new group, were very quickly extinguished. Because it was the right group, because they're nice people, and most people will respond that way. That's what I'm finding. Do you know what I mean?Lesley Logan 20:51 No, I Oh, my God, I do know what you mean. I want to just like, go back for a second. First of all, y'all can't see this. If you're on listening to the podcast, but like, I, I didn't know what I was telling you would be that, that pivotal in your life, y'all. I'm ..................... Anyways, um, but so if you're listening to this know that like, when you are out, if there is something on your heart, say it to someone, because it might be the exact thing that they need to hear, to take that next step to take that next brave step. And so thank you for sharing that with me. Because I made a commitment to myself a few years back that like I was going to tell people, the thing that was on my mind about them in person in the moment if I could, because you, it's hard to get that moment back. So I wanted to do that. And I'm so glad I did. You don't even you know, I can't even tell you if it was like, I just knew I had to tell you that. And so I'm so glad you heard it. That's also really awesome. But, you really, you said - it be until you see it, you enter the room that is so bold, you enter a room of 50 people. And you didn't feel like you're ready to be there. You're this intrinsic motivation of like, trying to figure out what's next what your next step is right executable, like showing up. And then like the steps you took to act like the what you learn, you made some steps that you could do, and like you had this target audience that you were working towards, which I really liked. So all these words can represent different things for different people. But you really, you really that whole moment was an absolute Be it till you see it moment. And I love that it was like this little you said/called it a hinge like was hopefully or maybe it was the thing that puts you on the other side, you can go back to Toronto and go, yeah, y'all. This is what I'm doing now. And this is why I'm so good at it.Alex Street 22:36 So that Yeah, exactly. So that was like, you know, that's one half of that sort of change. And then the other one was yes, then that gave me the boldness to come back. And I was hosting a podcast at that point called made for this. And it was just it was helping people tell their stories and do and discover what you're made for. And I was like, I feel like I'm not even sharing my story of doing what I made for. So here's the here's the chance. And I just turn on the microphone. And it was the most unscripted yet kind of scripted. Like I you know, I had my points, but I just said, I'm just gonna go for this and speak from the heart, and let it go and and told that journey. And that was, that was a faith journey. That was a career journey that was a family journey. Like I felt like there was so much in that to essentially come clean to, you know, families, people that I've influenced, and had, and inspired and had incredible memories with for 15 years that I was like saying, "Hey, this is like, this is what was going on." And it was just a movement away from kind of what I've always believed or what I had believed at that point. And here's the shift, and here's why I think you can too. And here's what to do when you're not who you are. And that was the point of it all. And so then as soon as I mean, I recorded it. And that's one thing. Anybody can go and record something and speak into a microphone with nobody in the room. Hitting publish on that baby. That was when my hands were shaking. That was when you know, I'm staring out the window questioning everything. Is this a mistake? Why did I do this about to hit delete, and hit published and they're publish and there's freedom? That's it. absolute freedom to just go, "Who cares?" Like I mean, what what was I so worried about? And then here's the key, this whole journey of me being afraid to share that story, because what are they going to think? Or what are they gonna think? Well, again, we had that one experience where let's say you and I sit there and my doubt was that you would respect me and you actually showed up and said, holy crap, you've got something special here. And then when I release that, and I'm afraid that they're going to not respect me, the only people that came forward, nobody came forward and said, "What? How terrible! This is awful." Everybody came forward and said, Thank you can we can we set up a call because I'm going through the same experience. Or, thank you for sharing this. It's exactly what I've been going through. And I was afraid to tell anybody. And that just reinforced further solidified this belief that I have that drives everything that stories change the world, when you cheer, when you share your story, it will actually change those that hear it. And that's, that belief is what drives me forward. And if we all believe that, then we'll find the confidence, we need to share what we've got.Lesley Logan 25:27 Oh, I'm in love with this because I do. So, because I resonate so much with this whole idea of like, you have to hit publish, and you're like, Oh, my God, this is it. Like this is when it's going to go out and like what, like, what have you and it's so funny, because I think, you know, I'm really grateful. My husband when I, because I do share, I'm like, this is what I'm afraid of. Because it's easier if you just like put it out there. Like all of a sudden, a lot of the fear is like, it sounds so silly. When you say it out loud. Sometimes you're like, really?Like, that's so weird. But, um, so but I think oftentimes, we don't actually acknowledge what that fear is like, what is the fear that is going to happen? And we just, we have it in our head, but we don't actually speak it out loud. And when you speak it out loud, it doesn't actually give it power actually, I think takes a lot of that fear away because you see it, black and white, like this is it it's like really? Is that really what's going to happen. Like you can really have that conversation with yourself. But I love that you didn't delete it, you did hit publish, and I wonder were you like, check, like refreshing your email or reviews are like, were you like checking to see if people had any responses? Or did you just like, were you like me? Or like publish? Run away! Alex Street 26:40 Yeah, definitely, there was a sense of, okay, who's gonna see this, who's gonna who's gonna listen, and you know, it's not it was like, there was 150 listeners per episode, like, this is not a massively published thing this is. But even To that end, it's mostly people that knew me, I think at that point who were listening to it. So now, anybody that knows this is going to is going to hear the journey. And so there was a little bit of that. But then this letting go, I think what happened when I hit Publish was that was actually me letting go of those expectations. And those, you know, what are they going to say, kind of thoughts and fears. And, and what I realized, even with that is that, so much of this, so much of showing up is about you, it's actually for you at first, it's it's for you to let go of a lot of those fears, it's for you to let go a lot of a lot of those doubts and self limiting beliefs that you have for yourself that truly nobody else has. Lesley Logan 27:43 Right...Alex Street 27:43 People are thinking of you a lot less than you ever think they are, like Lesley Logan 27:49 So true!Alex Street 27:50 To zero amount. Lesley Logan 27:53 It's so true! Alex Street 27:54 And so so much of these fears that are holding us back from showing up. It's not about appeasing anybody that's out there or helping them see it all, it's really just about you getting to the point where you actually do have that. You create that confidence that wasn't there before, to do the thing, so that you can continue to show up, and then it becomes about your audience and really showing up for them. So that's what it was, for me. It was, I had to do that. I had to do that for me.Lesley Logan 28:19 Oh, I love that. It's so true. I want to reiterate like people really don't talk about you as much as you think that they do. They're not even thinking about you. And the ones that are that is that they're not thinking about you... They're thinking about 17 other people other than themselves. So they'll just be like, "Oh, did you hear about Alex, he did blah, blah," and then, "Oh my gosh, but john did this..." and like, like, they're, they're not even it's like in one ear out the other. It's like not even sticking with them. And so if people are the like, not your people anyways, but um, I do think you said it, like, there's an action you took and action is the antidote to fear. So, confidence is this interesting thing, that it's really hard to be confident in an area you haven't done something before. It's hard to step in confidently going "I am a stories coach," if you've actually not coached anyone on stories. And I've been doing a lot of research on this because people always asking like, Lesley, you're just so confident. And it's like, really, I do most things scared at as fuck. Like, seriously, like, including this project of a podcast. But, um, but I, I have I have I know that the more I take action towards the thing that I want, the less the fear has the power, the less like things that are stopping me from doing it and you get so much clarity from that, and you get a lot of like you, you get that boost of confidence that comes from that. And I think, you know, I was talking with my therapist, which I think everyone needs, needs someone like that, about confidence versus self esteem. And she says Lesley, you could have confidence on a snowboard and be not confident on skis. It's not like it's not something you have all the time, right? It's like it, confidence is very much in the moment, and you can have it like you can make it happen. It's a state of being. But it's not necessarily like, if you're not confident in one thing, then you're not confident. Right. And it's a difference on like self esteem, which is like, where you where you believe in yourself more than you don't like as a high self esteem. That's how I'm thinking of it. And maybe over time, as I research it, it will change. But I feel like the you know, the more people who are listening to this, the more people take action towards the thing that they're wanting, the less the fear is control. And the more confident you'll become, because you'll have done something in that area of what you want. It's a kind of a cheat in a way.Alex Street 30:46 Well, right, and so much of fear. And that doubt, like take it to snowboard, and you're going to be terrified that you can't do this thing. And it's a completely made up scenario. And so whether it's, can I actually make it down the hill and survive without hitting a tree? Well, it's made up until you have the evidence to see it to know if you can balance on that thing or not. And it's the same with, if I put this out there, what will people think? If I start talking about myself in this way, what will my old clients think of me? What will the new... will the new clients accept me? Like there's all these questions that we make up without taking any steps of action? So you're creating this terribly convoluted and complicated story with it's a choose-your-own-adventure in your mind, and you're not actually going down any path and it's wildly exhausting. Like, no wonder we're walking around, overwhelmed, tired, distracted, because you have 16 narratives going on in your head about what's about to happen. Instead of saying, this is I think, where I'm being led, this is consistent with my story. And so I'm going to take this next right step? And we'll see if it's the right step. If it's the right step, or the wrong step, at least it's a step. And that might just be the most confident thing that we can do today and call, call it confidence. Don't call it a whim. Don't call it an accident. Don't call it. I don't know. I'm just winging it. No. Yeah, that action, as you say, Lesley, that is it. That's, that is confidence - to go and do anything today? It's not to belittle it, but like, that's it. If you show up. You're, you're creating confidence. And I think that's it, we're waiting, we expect competence to be the same that you're born with. And simply not. It's something that's created in you. And it has been created as you believe, as you find the boldness, and you learn to bounce back.Lesley Logan 32:46 Oh, I love this. I love this. It's you're not born with confidence. It's something that... I love that so much. All right. So I'm Alex, I want to make sure that listeners hear a "be it" tip from you. So what is bold or executable, intrinsic or targetable tip that you could give those listening, because I'm sure they've resonated with you so much and a tip from you, would, might just be the next first step they should take?Alex Street 33:14 Yeah, I love it. I think my my tip, my encouragement will be kind of all of those things. And it really is. Get someone to help. That's, that's for me. I've had friends that have had conversations with me all along. And I adore these people, I have been on the journey with them. And yet, they don't understand exactly the choices that I want to make, or the world that I want to get into the work that I'm doing. Now. They don't understand the level of that. And if they do, they can tell me things. They can challenge me in certain ways, but not specifically around, like, what's my business going to do and what's my impact going to be? And so I would say you know, the bold, executable, intrinsic and targetable invitation or tip is, I mean, really to nail it down, it's get a coach, get a coach or get in the room with other people who will be able to coach you who are specifically on this journey that look like the same journey that you're on. They're all afraid they're all taking the next step. They're all trying to get their business right. They're all or they understand where you're at and how to get you into the next one will challenge you ruthlessly and will target in on what your need is, and we'll help you get there. So that will require boldness, because Holy crap, the money, I don't know. It's executable, because well, I got to find someone. And then I got to say yes. And instead of just letting it hang there, the intrinsic drive is alright what? Okay, I know I need to make a change, but it's not happening on your own. So let's listen to that intrinsic self sense. That is bringing you to towards community and bringing you towards others and find that help. And then the targetable is, get it done. Do you have a coach or not? If you don't, then it's not happening. So I would say that for me, that's I mean, that's been my game changer. That's the way that I'm helping people now and seeing that happen in their life, those that are bold enough to step in and say, help me understand my story. Lesley Logan 35:24 And you all...Alex Street 35:24 Turns into, like, change.Lesley Logan 35:26 Alex have so many, like you help so many people. And so where can they find you? What's your Instagram handle? What's the best way people can get in touch?Alex Street 35:34 Yeah, fantastic. So my website is AlexStreet.ca. You can kind of find all the info there. And then yeah, I hang out on Instagram all the time. So that's @streetsays, Lesley Logan 35:45 oh, y'all, if any I know so much probably resonate with you. But do us a favor, screenshot this, share it tag us both. And please put a takeaway, like, what is something that you took away from this, so that Alex, and I can hear what resonated with you and root for you and cheer you on in this way. Like, you're not alone in this journey. And I'm so grateful for you listening. I'm so grateful for you Alex being here to share your story. I couldn't think of someone better to bring on the show to actually talk about story and share it. I think I'm so grateful we met and nothing happens by chance. We were meant to be in that room together and many people in that small group together. And I'm really excited to see where you both go from here. Thank you for being here.Alex Street 36:25 Oh gosh. Lesley, this is so good. It has been such a joy. You're a fantastic host. Thank you for leading us through this conversation. I'm truly excited for how this will help people. Lesley Logan 36:38 Oh... hold on. Hold on.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/be-it-till-you-see-it/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

165 | Make A Bigger Impact With Your Story | Alex Street

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Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2021 34:17

Are you ready to make a bigger impact with your story? I know too many online entrepreneurs who aren't making the impact they truly desire because they feel insecure and afraid to reveal the truth about who they are and what they've gone through. I've been there. We're starting our Courage Creator Series and the very first guest is my good friend and Story Coach, Alex Street. We're pulling back the curtain on why most online creators are afraid to tell their story, what benefits they would have if they felt confident to share their own transformation with their audience. Connect With Alex Street @streetsays Connect with Andrea @andreacrispcoach + @the.couragecast Schedule your 30 minute FREE Coaching Strategy Session with Andrea. Support the podcast and shop our Amazon Affiliate link. If you enjoy The Couragecast, can you please do a few things: Give us a 5-star rating on Itunes. Provide a great review of what you love about the show. Please share the episode on your social media or in a newsletter. For more information or to connect with Andrea www.andreacrisp.ca

48. Uncover the Foundations to a Long-Term Love with Alex Street

Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2021 37:09

Alex shares what has made his 20-year relationship work, how they have worked through what could have become massive fights, and how others can do the same. As Alex shares, Amber provides relationship theory and takes what Alex and his wife are doing right, and shares strategies for other couples the do the same. In this episode we cover: · The 3 foundations to emotional intimacy · The number one predictor of a happy long-term relationship · How to notice and respond to your partner’s request for attention · Growing together even when you have different love languages Alex street: website https://alexstreet.ca/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/streetsays/?hl=enor @streetsays Emotional Intimacy Cheat Sheet: https://www.emberrelationshippsychology.com/emotional-intimacy-cheat-sheet This podcast is for informational purposes only.

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37. Crushing Fears with Alex Street

Beyond The Limit

Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2021 51:45

On this episode of Beyond The Limit, we sit down with Alex Street. Alex always wanted to tell stories, just like his mom (an actress) and his dad (a photographer). He thought that meant he would be an actor, too, but at 17 years old someone gave him a chance to speak on stage to a group of teens and it lit a spark within. Alex thought he’d be a famous actor, but he took a left turn to become a Youth Pastor - choosing a clear path over his deep passion. And yet, he soon came to realize his passion was for performing, and there was plenty of space to perform while speaking to an audience from the stage every week for 12 years, and at over 100 live events during the last two decades.Alex believes every communicator could use a little more confidence. Confidence in their message, their performance, and their story. He believes you have a powerful story to tell. And that living is all about creating moments that matter. In this episode we talk about the invitation to show up, 5 Fears that keep you from showing up, the power of embracing transitions and the gift of acceptance. We’re talking all about mindset, leadership, and communication. I hope you enjoy my conversation with Alex. Alex’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/streetsaysAlex’s Website: https://alexstreet.caTyler’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/twilliamsliveTyler’s Website: https://www.tylerwilliamslive.com1-1 Coaching: https://www.tylerwilliamsdevelopment.com

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90: There is Power in your Story with Alex Street

Just As We Are with Katrina Lelli

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2021 42:00

Everyone has a story to share, everyone is interesting, but how exactly do we find our way through the mess to share our story? On today’s episode, I interview your StoryTelling Alex Street. We talk about who Alex was as a little boy, how he went from actor to youth pastor to storytelling coach. Alex reflects on some of those big moments that shaped his story and shares with us that something was missing through it all, until the most impactful conversation with his Mother just before she passed away. We also dive into parenting and what are the stories our kids will tell us? This episode is packed with all the good things and you will not want to miss a minute of it. Alex is a Storytelling Coach, helping you share your story to connect with your audience. He has been a Youth Worker, Actor, and Public Speaker for two decades. Alex is the host of the Fearless Speakers Academy and the Make Speaking Magical video course. He has a Masters in Theological Studies, lives near Toronto, Ontario as a husband of 15 years, and he's dad to three Gen Z kids. Find Alex at alexstreet.ca Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/streetsays/ Also, did you know there are THREE ways you can connect with me outside of the show? #1 - Over on my fave social media platform - Instagram @katrinalelli #2 - My FREE Facebook group, “Sober Mom...Now What” is for Mom’s who have at least 1 year of sobriety or more. This is a positive, high vibe, growth minded community for Mom’s who are sober. #3 - Questions, comments, topic or show suggestions? Email me over at katrina@katrinalelli.co **Be sure to Subscribe to the show to get updates on new episodes and head on over to ITunes and leave me a 5star review for your chance to win a breakthrough session with me**

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#211: From Powerless Performer to Confident Communicator with Alex Street

Own Your Choices Own Your Life

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2021 47:50

Today we are speaking with Story- Focused Communication Coach, Alex Street. Alex is a Story-Focused Communication Coach, helping you share your story and connect with your audience. He has been a Youth Worker, Actor, and Public Speaker for two decades. His specialized blend of storytelling, captivating content, and powerful performance has set him apart as a speaker and coach for audiences of all kinds. Alex is the host of the Fearless Speakers Academy and the Make Speaking Magical video course. He has a Masters in Theological Studies, lives near Toronto, Ontario as a husband of 15 years, and he's dad to three Gen Z kids. In this episode, we discuss: How stories change the world and how learning how to share those stories help us uncover our purpose. Living in that purpose is how we create change and impact in the world. Learning how to own our unique gifts is where we find our superpowers. How anyone can be a storyteller when they learn the steps to break down their story and find the lessons that happened for them and not to them. Connect with Alex : Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/streetsays Website: https://www.alexstreet.caEmail: alex@madeforthis.ca Marsha Vanwynsberghe — Author, Speaker and Life Coach Marsha is the 6-time Bestselling Author of “When She Stopped Asking Why”. She shares her lessons as a parent who dealt with teen substance abuse far past the level of normal experimentation. Through her programs, coaching and live events for women, Marsha is on a mission to teach you how to “Own Your Choices” in your own life. She teaches women how to own their stories, lead themselves and pay it forward to others by creating businesses that serve, support and impact others.

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Episode 16: From Actor to Youth Pastor to Storyteller - How to Tell Your Story with Alex Street

All The Things - with Regina Lawrence

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2020 65:17

Everyone has a story inside of them that needs to be shared with the world. And Alex Street is going to teach you how to tell it! I can't wait for you guys to hear this episode and I know you will all love Alex Street's story and presence like I did! Alex is a Story-Focused Communication Coach, helping you share your story and connect with your audience. He has been a Youth Worker, Actor, and Public Speaker for two decades. His specialized blend of storytelling, captivating content, and a powerful performance has set him apart as a speaker and coach for audiences of all kinds. Alex is the host of the Fearless Speakers Academy and the Make Speaking Magical video course. He has a Masters in Theological Studies, lives near Toronto, Ontario as a husband of 15 years, and he's dad to three Gen Z kids. On this week's episode, Alex and I talk all about storytelling & the importance of it in of our lives & businesses The highlights from this week's episode include: How Alex became the story-teller he is today His journey from Actor to Youth Pastor to Coach How he teaches people how to tell their stories & why that is so important And so much more! If you are interested in connected with Alex, you can find him on Instagram @StreetSays Regina Lawrence is a former trial attorney and law school professor turned soulful business & life strategist. She has found that so many entrepreneurs have these brilliant ideas and dreams but don't know how to take the dream and create a system or structure to make that dream & idea profitable. That is where Regina comes in. With discipline, consistency, systems & structure, we can't help but create profit & fulfillment from our soul-driven business ideas. Regina's approach to coaching marries her background in legal analysis, spirituality, mindset coaching, holistic nutrition, and neuroscience to create an experience that will assist you to get into alignment, get clear on what you are here to do and what steps and systems to implement to make that dream a profitable reality. You can find Regina on Instagram @reginaalawrence You can book a free 1:1 30 minute virtual coffee chat with Regina at https://calendly.com/reginalawrence/virtualcoffeechat You can learn more about the coaching & courses Regina offers at www.reginalawrence.com

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Alex Street - Storyteller & Speaker Coach

The All-In Podcast with Nate Peo

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2020 38:09

Listen to the full episode here: https://natepeo.com/blogs/the-all-in-... Alex is a Speaker Coach and storyteller, here to create moments that shape our world. As the son of a world-renowned photographer and a stage actress who each risked it all to pursue their dreams, he has been a Youth Worker, Actor, and Public Speaker for almost two decades. His specialized blend of story, structure, and next steps has left audiences of all generations transformed. Join us on this episode of the All-In podcast as we discuss Alex's journey and recently launched an online video course for those that struggle with public speaking. Connect with Alex:https://www.instagram.com/streetsays/ How To Be A Success Champion: http://bit.ly/BeASuccessChampion

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“Cultivating Intergenerational Understanding and Collaboration at Work” with Alex Street | Ep. 079

The Transformative Leader Podcast: Culture Transformation | Corporate Coaching - The Ghannad Group

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2020 43:35

Amir talks with speaker, coach, and Gen Z specialist, Alex Street about how to create a thriving culture of growth and collaboration through fostering intergenerational understanding in the workplace. For more: theghannadgroup.com/blog/ttlpodcast-079

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106 |What To Do In Uncertain Times | Alex Street

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Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2020 29:55

We are in very unprecedented times and right now things may feel very uncertain in your life. As the world enters a time of self-isolation and social distancing, we need each other more than ever before. A few weeks ago we were doing business as usual and now because of COVID-19, many people are experiencing fear and anxiety due to job loss, health issues and having to be alone.

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