Podcasts about pks

Themen: WDR hält an COSMO fest; Neuer TV-Sender von Julija Nawalnaja; Neustart des syrischen Staatsfernsehen; Open Source - Warum der Jubel?; molo - Lokaljournalismus in einer App; Medienschelte: Schräge PKs; Moderation: Steffi Orbach Von WDR 5.

Gary Ross from the IGHSAU joins us for a wide-ranging conversation on the state of girls high school soccer in Iowa. We talk about his background in sports, the elimination of overtime and PKs, updates to the state tournament venue, season start date, rankings system, and changes to yellow and red card rules. We also dig into the growing participation numbers, what Gary enjoys most about overseeing the sport, and a few fun side topics along the way.

In der Videoepisode 84. sind unsere Experten Heidi Schmidt und Tobias Leicher live auf dem Train the Boss Event. Gemeinsam mit dem Gast Christian Daser von der IBM geben sie spannende Einblicke in das Thema: Train the Boss: Mensch, Strategie & Technik

Nikolay and Michael discuss ten dangerous Postgres related issues — ones that might be painful enough to get onto the CTO and even CEOs desk, and then what you can do proactively. The ten issues discussed are:Heavy lock contentionBloat control and index maintenance  Lightweight lock contentionTransaction ID wraparound4-byte integer PKs hitting the limitReplication limitsHard limitsData lossPoor HA choice (split brain)Corruption of various kindsSome previous episodes they mentioned that cover the issues in more detail: PgDog https://postgres.fm/episodes/pgdogPerformance cliffs https://postgres.fm/episodes/performance-cliffsZero-downtime migrations https://postgres.fm/episodes/zero-downtime-migrations Queues in Postgres https://postgres.fm/episodes/queues-in-postgresBloat https://postgres.fm/episodes/bloatIndex maintenance https://postgres.fm/episodes/index-maintenanceSubtransactions https://postgres.fm/episodes/subtransactionsFour million TPS https://postgres.fm/episodes/four-million-tpsTransaction ID wraparound https://postgres.fm/episodes/transaction-id-wraparoundpg_squeeze https://postgres.fm/episodes/pg_squeeze synchronous_commit https://postgres.fm/episodes/synchronous_commitManaged service support https://postgres.fm/episodes/managed-service-support And finally, some other things they mentioned: A great recent SQL Server-related podcast episode on tuning techniques https://kendralittle.com/2024/05/20/erik-darling-and-kendra-little-rate-sql-server-performance-tuning-techniques/Postgres Indexes, Partitioning and LWLock:LockManager Scalability (blog post by Jeremy Schneider) https://ardentperf.com/2024/03/03/postgres-indexes-partitioning-and-lwlocklockmanager-scalability/Do you vacuum everyday? (talk by Hannu Krosing) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JcRi8Z7rkPgpg_stat_wal https://pgpedia.info/p/pg_stat_wal.htmlThe benefit of lz4 and zstd for Postgres WAL compression (Small Datum blog, Mark Callaghan) https://smalldatum.blogspot.com/2022/05/the-benefit-of-lz4-and-zstd-for.htmlSplit-brain in case of network partition (CloudNativePG issue/discussion) https://github.com/cloudnative-pg/cloudnative-pg/discussions/7462 ~~~What did you like or not like? What should we discuss next time? Let us know via a YouTube comment, on social media, or by commenting on our Google doc!~~~Postgres FM is produced by:Michael Christofides, founder of pgMustardNikolay Samokhvalov, founder of Postgres.aiWith credit to:Jessie Draws for the elephant artwork

Partai Keadilan Sejahtera atau PKS menggelar bimbingan teknis dan konsolidasi nasional untuk seluruh anggota legislatifnya dari seluruh Indonesia. Gelaran ini diikuti sebanyak 1.583 anggota legislatif, mulai dari tingkat pusat hingga kabupaten/kota.

Jedes Jahr veröffentlicht das Bundeskriminalamt die polizeiliche Kriminalstatistik - kurz PKS. Und jedes Jahr wird diese von der Politik und den Medien groß besprochen. Für den Kriminologen Prof. Dr. Tobias Singelnstein wird dabei allerdings nicht ausreichend kommuniziert, dass die Statistik stark verzerrt ist. Es geht in dieser Ausgabe außerdem um Marker im Blut, die Alzheimer-Erkrankung frühzeitig anzeigen und um die Eliteuniversität Harvard und ihren Widerstand gegen die Trump-Regierung. Zudem erfahren Sie etwas darüber, wir außerirdisches Leben durch die Bewegung von Mikroorganismen nachgewiesen werden kann. Und es geht um den Vatikan und was ihn ausmacht.

Text für SP & Veröffentlichung: In der 83. Episode sind Wolfram Greis und Gabriele Milanese von der EMA (European Mainframe Academy) zu Gast. Sie geben unseren Experten Heidi Schmidt und Tobias Leicher spannende Einblicke in das Thema "Schulung auf den modernen Mainframe mit der EMA".

For the Glory KC is back with the 128th episode of the show!Sporting Kansas City returned to their struggling ways, at least in terms of results. If Twitter were the judge, fire everyone, cut the whole team. But it's less than two weeks into Kerry Zavagnin being the coach and there was absolutely promise (at least on offence) in the second game under his leadership. Sheena and I work through the highs and lows from the game. The team showed good fight when they made two comebacks, but their third attempt didn't come off.They'll have to work on not falling behind. One reason they fell behind was all the defensive lapses. Jansen Miller actively asked to speak with the media and owned the team's failings. It was a big character moment for him on the heels of a really poor game for the defense. We also ask the question of if Miller deserved the own goal that was scored to him since Portland appeared to poke the ball into the net.In addition to that, we talked through some of the interesting refereeing decisions that kept it 11v11 for the whole 90 minutes. We debated who should take PKs after Dejan Joveljic made one and missed one and who should be the captain of this team since leadership isn't jumping out at anyone during these poor performances.Then we turn our attention to some fantastic reporting by Sam McDowell of the Kansas City Star. McDowell sat down with Mike Illig and we got a lot more information about Peter Vermes losing his job, some of the factors that went into it, what he's looking for in his next coach (and maybe Chief Soccer Officer) and a whole lot more. I highly encourage you to read Sam's work.Finally, the KC Current just kept doing what they do. They pulled off a convincing 2-0 win over the San Diego Wave on the back of goals by Debinha and Lo LaBonta. Temwa's goal scoring streak ended at eight games (again) and she won't break her own record quite yet. Plus, Vlatko Andonovski addressed the Sporting KC coaching rumor.In the Digital Crawl, we touch on a few more topics, including:USWNT 2-1 loss to BrazilUSMNT Gold Cup drawOlympic Soccer changes for 2028Here is a rundown of topics (and approximate start times):Sporting KC lose a wild one - 6:04Illig talks to the KC Star - 42:58SKC Round-Up - 59:23KC Current remain perfect - 1:03:42Digital Crawl - 1:15:28Upcoming GamesKC Current vs. Houston Dash, Sat. April 19th at 6:30PM CDTSporting KC @ San Jose Earthquakes, Sat. April 19th at 9:30PMAs a special gift to For the Glory KC listeners and KC Soccer Journal readers, Backheeled dot com is giving away 30 days of their amazing, independent American soccer coverage for free. If you decide you want to turn that into a paid membership, they'll give you 10 percent off too. Just follow this link!Big thanks to Splitter Conspiracy (listen to them here) for our theme music made with the permission of the KC Cauldron.

In der 189. Folge von Lauer und Wehner reden Ulrich und Christopher über die PKS, bizarre Talkshowgäste, Marine Le Pens Verurteilung in einem Betrugsverfahren, wie der US-Rechtsstaat grade vor dem Trump-Regime einknickt.

Diesmal: Update Signal-Gate, dumme Zölle, Cory Bookers Blase, DeutschlandTrend, Covid-Quiz, PKS zerpfückt, Palantir, Tempo 30, Regendefizit, Bargeld, Sham Jaff zu Indien, DeutschlandTicket, Marine Le Pen. Mit einem Faktencheck von Katharina Alexander und einem Limerick von Jens Ohrenblicker.

Wenn über Kriminalität in Deutschland diskutiert wird, wird auf die Polizeiliche Kriminalitätsstatistik, kurz PKS, verwiesen. Dabei ist diese weit entfernt von einer ausgewogenen Einschätzung der Kriminalitätslage. Stukenberg, Timo www.deutschlandfunk.de, Kommentare und Themen der Woche

In der 82. Episode sprechen Heidi und Tobias über die 3 größten Ernüchterungen von 2024 und über ihre Wünsche für 2025.

Dans cet épisode brut, authentique et sans filtre, je t'emmène au cœur d'un live coaching où on explore en profondeur ce qui bloque réellement ton business.Spoiler Alert : ce n'est ni Instagram, ni ton offre, ni ton prix… mais bien tes schémas inconscients qui te maintiennent dans le doute, la frustration et la galère financière.

Lisa Carlin, Darian Jenkins, Christine Cupo, and Sandra Herrera recap the 2025 NWSL Challenge Cup between the Orlando Pride and Washington Spirit. It took PKs to get it done, but the Spirit complete the comeback and lift the trophy. Revenge for their loss in the 2024 final? It sure felt like it. Goals from Rafaelle, Santos, and McKeown who netted the winning PK. Watch USWNT and NWSL games on P+" with a link to https://www.paramountplus.com/home/ Attacking Third is available for free on the Audacy app as well as Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Stitcher and wherever else you listen to podcasts.  Follow the Attacking Third team on Twitter: @AttackingThird, @LisaCarlin32, @SandHerrera_, @Darian_Jenks, and @CCupo. Visit the Attacking Third YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/attackingthird You can listen to Attacking Third on your smart speakers! Simply say "Alexa, play the latest episode of the Attacking Third podcast" or "Hey Google, play the latest episode of the Attacking Third podcast." To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Send us a textWelcome back TOT fans! This week we are coming to you live from funky Chinatown, where Millwall are kung fu fighting!Just kidding, it's still Asher's basement, and Millwall's keeper is just booting people in the head.We get into all the FA Cup action from the weekend, including red card madness, some incredible games going into PKs and extra time, who United should sign, Gordon missing a final against his new club, and who we think (barring City) will win, and who we HOPE win the Cup. After that we get into the PL action, where Asher admits the league is done but for the shouting, Dale and Cobalt discuss Arteta Out, and Ryan is please with Spurs even in a losing effort. We discuss the games next weekend and which ones will be worth watching, and wrap it up with some What Is That Is He Said about a certain ref who is not very well liked these days. Almost makes you pine for David Coote... almost. Thank you so much for listening! Please like, subscribe, download, share, and as always, we love you!

A look back at 2024 while also looking ahead at 25 categories that interest us about Charlotte FC, MLS, and soccer in the US.I am joined by two friends of the podcast, Logan Meyer from the Crowncast and Eli Finelli from Side Story Sports. We give our assessments of 2024 and predictions for 2025 from coaching to players to playing style to MLS All Star Game to Apple TV coverage. Enjoy!Category Manager: Dean Smith1. What is his focus as a leader?2. Dean's Tactical focus?3. Assistant coach most important to the club?CLTFC:4. Most impactful DP5. Most Impactful Newcomer6. Starter that makes the most difference / hard to replace7. CLTFC player that got least amount of time on the pitch who should have earned more8. 1st to depart after season starts (only 2025)9. Strength of the squad10. Achilles heel of this squad11. Competitions (which one do you think will be the best; any that MLS teams compete in)12. International country most influence on MLS13. All-star match up (in Austin) vs? (Only 2025)MLS 14. MLS Supporters Shield (2025 only)15. MLS Surprise team16. MLS Overrated Team17. Playing style wins out or formation18. MLS player most impactful to team success 19. Set play(PKs or CK or Free Kick or other)20. Rule change21. Celebrations (type)AppleTV MLS Season Pass22. Graphics style (2025 only)23. Statistics (ones we liked introduced in 24' and ones we think should exist in 2025)24. Fan Tradition (pre or post) or Chant or types of chant25. Charlotte FC Regular Season Finish and overall MLS Cup

RHONY Reunion Part 2 is here! We see Brynn feeling very ganged up on by the ladies and find out more details about that last night in Puerto Rico. Rebecca Minkoff joins the ladies and is not in a good place with Erin. RHOBH Kyle, Garcelle, and Sutton go to Augusta to see Suttons mom Reba, and she could be a housewife with her actions! Dorit, Boz, and Erika head to Kathys house where they have a heated talk about Dorit and PKs fate. Make sure to follow me for all the latest news and recaps!Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bravoteawithastayathomemom?igsh=MXgyNjI4NnN6dWpldg%3D%3D&utm_source=qrSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1PsRVdSFI9WAq2qunoO2e5?si=VLSwm1glRR-U7q8SMW_URQApple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bravo-tea-with-a-stay-at-home-mom/id1715599754Tik Tok:https://www.tiktok.com/@bravoteastayathomemom?_t=8jvBP0ibBhm&_r=1Youtube:www.youtube.com/@BravoteawithastayathomemomiHeart:https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-bravo-tea-with-a-stay-at-h-166837955/ 

Offseason Folge Nummer 1 oder so.. Wir haben einen dicken Fahrplan diese Folge! Es gibt ein kurzes Championship recap, die ECHTE Coaching Extravaganza mit 4 neuen HC, 2 neuen GMs und diversen neuen Koordinatoren plus unsere Awardshow inkl. Wette der Woche. Im Detail besprechen wir die neuen Coaches und GMs der Raiders (Pete Carrol/John Spytek), Jets (Aaron Glenn/Darren Mougey), Jaguars(die Liam Coen Saga uncut) und Cowboys (Brian Schottenheimer) - welche Aussichten sich daraus ergeben und wieso die Saints noch auf der Suche sind. Natürlich (und leider) wird auch die Rooney Rule abermals zum Thema, neben weirden PKs und Coaching Trends die vllt nur Luca spannend findet. Enjoy! CHECK OUT covertwo-shop.de Hier könnt ihr uns auf Twitter & Instagram folgen und euch sofort über neue Folgen und die NFL informieren.  Wir würden uns auch über die ein oder andere iTunes Rezension oder ein Spotify Abo freuen. Draft: ⁠DRA⁠⁠FT DISCORD⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠STREAM ⁠⁠ Website: ⁠covertwo.de Twitter: CoverTwoPodcast Luca: @loooooca Simon: @nowisatddbf Instagram: ⁠CoverTwoPodcast⁠ Vielen Dank an Tom und Joni für Musik, das Logo und Cover!!

Episode Summary:In this episode, Josh and Bill dive into the overlooked challenges of raising pastor's kids (PKs). Are ministry roles causing unnecessary strain on your family? They discuss how intentional parenting strategies can help ministry leaders avoid bitterness and resentment in their children. Learn practical steps to balance ministry demands while nurturing a healthy family life. Key Topics Covered: Ministry vs. Family Tensions: How to prevent ministry life from feeling like a burden to your kids. The Power of Giving Kids a Voice: Encouraging respectful challenges and autonomy. Creating Positive Ministry Experiences: How to make ministry involvement a privilege, not a pressure. Healthy Family Boundaries: Protecting your family's emotional and spiritual health. The Reality of Sacrifice: Teaching your kids about the costs and blessings of ministry life. Key Quote:"Your kids don't have to resent ministry—empower them to thrive while you serve." Takeaway:Being a ministry leader doesn't mean sacrificing your kids' emotional health. When children feel valued, heard, and involved in positive ways, they can thrive in ministry life rather than resenting it. Scripture References: Proverbs 22:6 – "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it." Colossians 3:17 – "Whatever you do, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus." Call to Action:If this episode encouraged you, share it with your ministry team! ✅Remember: Healthy families create stronger ministries. Stay Connected for More Resources:Visit our website: leadvolunteers.comFollow us on Facebook: Lead VolunteersFind us on Instagram: @leadvolunteers

The group recap yesterday's FA Cup 3rd Round match between Arsenal and Manchester United which saw the later advance on PKs after the two clubs drew level at the end of regulation and extra time. Arsenal's scoring woes continue as the lack of goal scoring continues to loom large. And to make things worse, Gabriel Jesus left the first half with a serious knee injury. As for Manchester United, this is a huge boost to what has already been a shaky start to Ruben Amirom's tenure at the club. Morning Footy is available for free on the Audacy app as well as Apple Podcasts, Spotify and wherever else you listen to podcasts.  Follow the Morning Footy podcast on Twitter: @CBSSportsGolazo, @susannahcollins, @nicocantor1, @NotAlexis, @CharlieDavies9 Visit the betting arena on CBSSports.com for all the latest in sportsbook reviews and sportsbook promos for betting on soccer For more soccer coverage from CBS Sports, visit https://www.cbssports.com/soccer/ To hear more from the CBS Sports Podcast Network, visit https://www.cbssports.com/podcasts/ Watch UEFA Champions League, UEFA Europa League, UEFA Europa Conference League, Serie A, Coppa Italia, EFL, NWSL, Scottish Premiership, Argentine Primera División by subscribing Paramount Plus: https://www.paramountplus.com/home/ To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

RHOBH we see Erika and Dorit go to lunch to address Sutton's behavior lately towards Dorit and Kyle and PKs communication. Boz all pays a visit to Dorit saying their friendship is a match made in heaven! The ladies all come together at The Viper Room where things get heated!  RHONY these ladies aka Brynn always need the petty drama! Brynn is saying Jessel has changed so much and then her and Uba start going at it! Uba claims Brynn slept with someone to get on the show?! Next episode we will finally see the blow out!  Craig finally speaks out after his split with Paige and Jennifer Aydin is still not helping herself!  Make sure to follow me for all the latest news and recaps! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bravoteawithastayathomemom?igsh=MXgyNjI4NnN6dWpldg%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1PsRVdSFI9WAq2qunoO2e5?si=VLSwm1glRR- U7q8SMW_URQ Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bravo-tea-with-a-stay-at-home-mom/id1715599754 Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bravoteastayathomemom?_t=8jvBP0ibBhm&_r=1 Youtube: www.youtube.com/@Bravoteawithastayathomemom iHeart: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-bravo-tea-with-a-stay-at-h-166837955/ 

RHOBH is heating up with Dorit and PKs dinner where PK reveals things tht have happened behind closed doors. Kathy, Erika, and Sutton want to cheer Kyle up and trash talk Mo. Sutton warns Kyle to call a lawyer and be smart! RHONY is still finding out who the leaky pigeon is and Brynn does not want to be the scapegoat. Erin reveals a big secret she's been holding onto and Jenna has been through the same.  VPR OG's are gone! Lala and Scheana give their opinions on it, and Ariana and Katie are going to court with their ex business partner Penny!  Make sure to follow me for all the latest news and recaps! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bravoteawithastayathomemom?igsh=MXgyNjI4NnN6dWpldg%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1PsRVdSFI9WAq2qunoO2e5?si=VLSwm1glRR- U7q8SMW_URQ Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bravo-tea-with-a-stay-at-home-mom/id1715599754 Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bravoteastayathomemom?_t=8jvBP0ibBhm&_r=1 Youtube: www.youtube.com/@Bravoteawithastayathomemom iHeart: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-bravo-tea-with-a-stay-at-h-166837955/ 

Its sports...   Rank these 10 sports that would require the most skill to play - Explaining The Universe   FL/Motorsports Gymnastics  Archery  Boxing/Combat Sports Soccer Ice Skating  E-Sports Surfing  Basketball Ice Hockey  FSU Update:  -FSU bball keeps rolling; -FSU Football: 2-9; Yay; TD stat;  -FSU Soccer: Tough Loss; PKs are so stupid  NFL: -Pick Em Update -Why the hell haven't the Jags fired anyone? -Fantasy Studs & Duds   

Wenn Erwachsene auf junge Menschen blicken, sehen sie oft vor allem Defizite: Jugendliche lesen weniger als früher, sie wollen kaum noch arbeiten, und gewalttätiger sind sie auch. Dabei beruhen viele dieser Vorurteile auf falschen oder willkürlichen Annahmen. Der Wissenschaftsjournalist Bent Freiwald beschäftigt sich schon lange mit der Lebenswirklichkeit von Kindern und hat für diese Doppelfolge Fachleute aus Jugendpsychologie und Pädagogik befragt - eine Recherche mit vielen Aha-Effekten. Im Gespräch mit Host Maja Bahtijarević erklärt er, was der "Kids These Days"-Effekt ist und warum "Generation Z" wissenschaftlich betrachtet eigentlich nicht mehr ist als ein Sternzeichen. Anhand von zwei verschiedenen Aspekten geht er der Frage nach, was wir eigentlich tatsächlich über die Jugend von heute wissen. Das ist Teil eins der Folge: Hier analysiert Bent Freiwald Statistiken zur Jugendkriminalität und zeigt, dass fast alle Schlagzeilen einen Trend zeigen, den es so gar nicht gibt. Denn: Viele Zahlen werden falsch interpretiert oder zu wenig im Kontext betrachtet. HINTERGRUNDINFORMATIONEN Soziologe Martin Schröder über das Missverständnis rund um den Generationeneffekt: https://www.martin-schroeder.de/2023/07/17/warum-es-keine-generationen-gibt/ Studie von John Protzko und Jonathan Schooler zum "Kids these days-Effekt" | https://www.science.org/doi/10.1126/sciadv.aav5916 Polizeiliche Kriminalstatistiken für die Bundesrepublik Deutschland | https://www.bka.de/DE/AktuelleInformationen/StatistikenLagebilder/PolizeilicheKriminalstatistik/pks_node.html Dunkelfeldstudie des Kriminologischen Forschungsinstituts Niedersachsen | https://kfn.de/blog/2023/12/ergebnisse-des-niedersachsensurveys-2022-veroeffentlicht/ Artikel von rbb24 zu Messerangriffen in Berlin | https://www.rbb24.de/panorama/beitrag/2024/09/berlin-messer-angriffe-verletzte-polizei-neukoelln-charlottenburg.html Berliner Monitoring Gewaltdelinquenz | https://camino-werkstatt.de/downloads/Berliner-Monitoring-Gewaltdelinquenz-2023-Zusammenfassung.pdf Lehrer*innenbefragung der DGUV zu Gewalt an Schulen | https://publikationen.dguv.de/widgets/pdf/download/article/5000 Anfrage der Hamburger CDU zu Gewalt an Schulen und Antwort des Senats | https://www.buergerschaft-hh.de/parldok/ Datenanalyse zu den Unterschieden bei der Nationalitäten-Nennung in Pressemitteilungen der Polizei | https://www.br.de/nachrichten/deutschland-welt/polizeimeldungen-grosse-unterschiede-bei-nationalitaeten-nennung,SOSxxFa Analyse zu Trends in der Berichterstattung zur PKS | https://mediendiskurs.online/data/hefte/ausgabe/106/hestermann_trends_tv_berichterstattung_md106.pdf Kriminologische Untersuchung von Dirk Baier und Dominic Kudlacek zu Gewalt und ethnisch-kulturellem Hintergrund | https://www.kriminologie.de/index.php/krimoj/article/view/6/4 Newsletter von Bent Freiwald, "The kids are alright" | https://krautreporter.de/29358-bent-freiwald

Auntie Sammy is here with Aunt Becky to fully dissect the NWSL semifinals and get you ready for this Saturday's Championship! First, they share Kristie and Sam Kerr's big news, and Sam reflects on what will come with auntie duty. Then, it's onto Gotham vs. Spirit. They break down each and every moment including the late equalizer, what Sonnett and Trin said to each other during the tense second yellow, and the dramatic PKs that sealed it for the Spirit. Then, they reflect on Orlando vs. KC, the goal-fest everyone was hoping for. Sam and Becky examine what went right for Orlando, Banda's banger, and how Marta dribbled the entire world. Later, they preview the Championship and make their prediction for who takes home the silverware. Plus, what do NWSL players do in the real offseason? It's a huge week, so get into the vibes!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The 2024 season comes to a close for FC Cincy but new opportunities are already on the horizon..striker Kevin Denkey incoming?

AS dan Korea Selatan meminta Korea Utara segera menarik sekitar 10.000 tentaranya yang sedang latihan di Rusia, diduga untuk membantu perang di Ukraina. Sementara di Indonesia, Indeks Kelembagaan Partai Politik BRIN menunjukkan PKS merupakan partai yang paling terlembaga secara sistemik.

We start off the show talking about soccer! That's right, Bear had his last soccer game of the season and Bucky was the referee while Kate was the coach. The Sounders took the 1st of the best of 3 after last night's win on PKs. :30- Do the Seahawks have more weaknesses than strengths? :45- Did the Yankees lose the World Series the second Fat Joe took the mic? A lot of Yankees fans seem to think so!

Kevin, Grayson, and The Chief are joined by fellow Favi winner Pat Brennan to talk all about FC Cincinnati. Was this a successful season for The FC? Are the best strikers on this team really two midfielders, and should we bring back running PKs? A two part episode with Part One being all about the season that was for the Orange and Blue and Part Two being about the NYCFC matchup.   Timestamps:  (11:48) - FC Cincinnati's regular season and where they stand now (50:54) - FC Cincinnati vs NYCFC Preview and Predictions   Links:  Streetside Brewery: https://streetsidebrewery.com Cincy Shirts: www.cincyshirts.com/CincyPostCast PROMO CODE: THEPOSTCINCY for 10% Off! Check out The Post at www.thepostcincy.com Music by Jim Trace and the Makers Join the Discord Server and jump into the conversation Follow us on Twitter,  Facebook, Instagram, and YouTube Support us on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/ThePostCincy

In hour one Steak and Sandra react to Atlanta United defeating Montreal on PKs to advance in the MLS Playoffs

Guest Bios Show Transcript https://youtu.be/g3j3C25thlcMuch research has been done to address individual trauma. But what happens when trauma is collective—when an entire congregation, for example, is betrayed by a pastor they trusted? In this edition of The Roys Report, Kayleigh Clark, a pastor and a pastor's kid, discusses the impact of communal suffering, which church leaders often overlook. Kayleigh, a doctoral student at Kairos University, is completing her dissertation on congregational collective trauma and paths towards healing and restoration. And what she's learned is ground-breaking for churches that have experienced pastoral abandonment or moral failure and are struggling to recover. As was explained in the popular book, The Body Keeps the Score, unhealed trauma—if unaddressed—will manifest itself as physical and psychological ailments in our bodies. Likewise, unaddressed trauma in the Body of Christ will also manifest as corporate dysfunction and pain. But as Kayleigh explains in this eye-opening podcast, this doesn't have to be the case. Healing is available. But it requires congregants and spiritual leaders who understand trauma and don't try to charge forward before the congregation has healed. Given all the unhealed trauma in the church, this is such a relevant and important podcast. It's also one that discusses dynamics Julie knows all too well, as someone who's in a church with others who've experienced deep church hurt. She discusses her own experience in the podcast, which could be a prime case study. Guests Kayleigh Clark Kayleigh Clark is founder and director of Restor(y), which exists to journey with churches on the hope-filled path of healing and restoration. She completed a Master of Divinity at Northeastern Seminary and is currently a Th.D. Candidate at Kairos University with a focus on the interplay between psychology and theology. Kayleigh and her husband, Nate, love exploring the outdoors with their son near their home in Rochester, New York. Learn more about Restor(y) online. Show Transcript [00:00:00] Julie: Much research has been done to address individual trauma, but what happens when trauma is collective? When an entire congregation, for example, is betrayed by a pastor they trusted. According to my guest today, the impact of communal suffering is often overlooked, but the body of Christ keeps score. [00:00:22] Julie: Welcome to The Roys Report, a podcast dedicated to reporting the truth and restoring the church. I’m Julie Roys. And joining me today is Kaylee Clark, a pastor and a pastor’s kid who’s well acquainted with the beauty, joy, pain, and heartache that exists within the church. Kaylee also is a doctoral student at Kairos University, and her dissertation work focuses on congregational collective trauma and paths towards healing and restoration. [00:00:50] Julie: She also is the director of ReStory, a ministry to help churches heal and embody the hope of Jesus, especially after experiencing a devastating loss or betrayal. I had the pleasure of meeting Kaylee about a week ago, and I was so excited by her insights and the work that she’s doing that I was like, you have to come on my podcast. [00:01:10] Julie: So I am thrilled that she can join me today, and I know you’re going to be blessed by this podcast. I’ll get to my interview with Kaylee in just a minute, but first, I’d like to thank the sponsors of this podcast, the Restore Conference and Mark Horta Barrington. If you’re someone who’s experienced church hurt or abuse, there are few places you can go to pursue healing. [00:01:30] Julie: So, Similarly, if you’re an advocate, counselor, or pastor, there are a few conferences designed to equip you to minister to people traumatized in the church. But the Restore Conference, this February 7th and 8th in Phoenix, Arizona, is designed to do just that. Joining us will be leading abuse survivor advocates like Mary DeMuth and Dr. [00:01:50] Julie: David Pooler An expert in adult clergy sexual abuse. Also joining us will be Scott McKnight, author of A Church Called Toe, Diane Langberg, a psychologist and trauma expert, yours truly, and more. For more information, just go to Restore2025. com. That’s Restore2025. com. Also, if you’re looking for a quality new or used car, I highly recommend my friends at Marquardt of Barrington. [00:02:17] Julie: Marquardt is a Buick GMC dealership where you can expect honesty, integrity, and transparency. That’s because the owners there, Dan and Kurt Marquardt are men of integrity. To check them out, just go to buyacar123. com. [00:02:37] Julie: Well, again, joining me today is Kaylee Clark, a pastor and doctoral student who’s studying congregational collective trauma and the paths to healing and restoration. She’s also the founder of Restoree and she’s a wife and mother of a beautiful baby boy. So Kaylee, welcome. It’s just such a pleasure to have you. [00:02:56] Kayleigh: Thank you. Thank you for having me. It’s an honor and a pleasure to be with you today. [00:03:00] Julie: Well, I am just thrilled to have you on our podcast and I mentioned this in the open, but We talked last week and I was just like, Oh my word, everything that you’re doing, your work is so important. And it’s so where I’m living right now. [00:03:15] Julie: And I know a lot of our listeners are living as well. And so I’m thrilled about it. But as you mentioned, your work is, is unique. We’re going to get into that, but I am just curious, this whole idea, collective trauma, you know, ministering. To the church. How did you get interested in this work? [00:03:33] Kayleigh: Sure. Um, so I am fourth generation clergy. [00:03:37] Kayleigh: So great grandpa, grandpa, my dad, and then me. So are all pastors. Uh, and so I’ve just always known the church, uh, pastors have also been kind of my second family. I’ve always felt at home amongst the church and amongst pastors. Um, but when you grow up in the parsonage and other PKs will know this, uh, you are not hidden from. [00:03:58] Kayleigh: The difficult portions of church and the really hard components of church. And so then when you add on to that, becoming a pastor myself, you know, my eyes continued to be open, uh, to some of the ways that church can be a harmful place as much of it as it is a healing place. And I began to kind of ask the question, well, well, why, um, what is going on here? [00:04:21] Kayleigh: Um, particularly because when I served and we’ll get into more of this, I think, but when I was serving in my first lead pastor, it’s. So I’m a really young, I was like 27 when they, or 28 when they entrusted me when I first lead pastorate, which is kind of wild. And so they kind of threw me in and what they do with most young pastors is they kind of throw us into these dying churches. [00:04:44] Kayleigh: And so, right, it’s a small. Church with, you know, it’s dying, it’s dwindled in numbers. And so this is my first kind of lead pastorate. And, you know, I read all the books, I’m a learner, I’m a reader. I, you know, I know how to do all the things. And so I’m reading all of the books on how to revitalize a church and raise a church up from it and all those things and nothing is working. [00:05:06] Kayleigh: Um, and it started to kind of really raise my attention to, well, maybe there’s something else going on here. Um, And, and maybe we’ve been asking the wrong questions when we’ve been approaching the church. Uh, and so, uh, again, I’m a learner, so I was like, well, I’m just going to go back to school. If that was the only way I knew how to figure this out. [00:05:25] Kayleigh: So I landed in a THD program that focused on combining the studies of trauma theory with theology. Um, and my undergraduate degree is in psychology, so it felt kind of like a merging of my two worlds. Um, and it was there that I encountered collective trauma and. Really in an interesting way, studying, um, more like childhood development trauma. [00:05:46] Kayleigh: But anytime I looked at it, all I could see was the church, um, and seeing the ways in which there might be a bigger picture. There might be a bigger story going on here. And maybe there’s some collective congregational trauma underneath the, these dying, uh, declining churches that we just aren’t aware of. [00:06:04] Julie: So, so good. And this is the thing that, that just stuns me. When I, I, I do an investigation and the top pastor gets fired, sometimes all the elders step down, but the church, it’s, it’s unbelievably rare for one of those churches to thrive afterwards. And I, and I think so much of it is they think, Oh, we got rid of the bad apple. [00:06:29] Julie: And they have no concept of how that toxicity, one, you know, the toxic, often bullying way of relating and everything was, was taught and learned and trained throughout. But then there is that trauma and, and I just, I think of Willow Creek Community Church, I went to their, it was like a midweek service where they were going to deal with, Supposedly, the women who had been sexually harassed and abused by Bill Heibel’s, the previous pastor, and they didn’t even name it. [00:07:08] Julie: They didn’t name what had happened. They didn’t go into what had happened. They didn’t apologize to the women. The women became like this amorphous something out there, the women, you know? Um, and, and then they talked about, they had a repentance time, like we’re supposed to repent for his sins. It was the most bizarre, unhealing thing I had ever seen. [00:07:27] Julie: And I couldn’t imagine how after something that dysfunctional, a church could go, okay, we’re back, you know, reach the lost, you know, seeker sensitive church. It was just bizarre. Um, so, so much of your work is, is resonating with me. And again, We’ve seen a lot in and it’s really important is dealing with individual trauma and which is super important work. [00:07:53] Julie: Um, and my last podcast with Chuck DeGroat, we talked a lot about that. We talk a lot about that on a lot of podcasts, but we often don’t address again, what’s this collective trauma that, that, you know, that it actually has a social aspect. So talk about why is it important that we begin addressing collective trauma and not just individual trauma, though, you know, obviously we each need to heal as individuals, but collectively as well. [00:08:24] Kayleigh: Yeah. So collective trauma is a newer field, even in psychological studies. So it’s, Not as old as individual trauma studies, and it actually became more popular through the work of Kai Erikson, who’s a sociologist. He’s not even a psychologist, but he studied collective trauma in kind of what he refers to as unnatural disasters. [00:08:43] Kayleigh: And so these disasters that are experienced by communities that have a human, like, blame component. So it was due to somebody’s negligence due to somebody’s poor leadership due to somebody’s abuse, and it’s on a community. And so Kai Erickson notes the, the social, he calls it the social dimension of trauma or collective trauma. [00:09:03] Kayleigh: And what he, he details there is that collective trauma is anything that disrupts and ruptures the, uh, relationships within a community. Distorting and taking apart their, uh, he calls it communality instead of community, but it’s their sense of, like, neighborliness. It’s their sense of being together. It’s their, Their shared identity and their, their shared memories are all now distorted. [00:09:26] Kayleigh: And so I think when we’re speaking specifically about the church, and when we’re looking at religious trauma and congregational trauma, we need to remember that the church is first and foremost, a community. And so sometimes I think that’s missed in our kind of American individualism. You know, a lot of people kind of view spirituality as this individualistic thing, but the church is a community. [00:09:48] Kayleigh: And so when we come together as the body of Christ, you know, when wounding happens, when trauma comes, it breaks down the relationships within that congregation, which really. is what makes it a church. The relationships are what make that a church. And so when trauma comes in and disrupts those and starts causing the divisions and the distrust and the he said, she said, and the choosing of sides and the church splits and all of these things have these ripple effects on the community. [00:10:19] Kayleigh: Um, and they really are, are traumatizing. And so what happens is that if we don’t deal, if we’re only dealing with the individual trauma, In part, that’s usually dealing with people who have left the church, right? And so usually the people who are seeking individual healing from their religious trauma, who are able to name that, who are able to say, I went through this, have often stepped outside of the church. [00:10:42] Kayleigh: Sometimes just for a season, which is completely understandable. They need that time away. They need time to heal. They’re, they don’t, feel safe. But what we’re missing when we neglect the social dimension of religious trauma are often the people who stay are these congregations who can’t name it yet, who can’t articulate that what they’ve gone through is religious trauma, who who maybe are still trying to figure out what that means. [00:11:07] Kayleigh: Often it means that we’re missing, um, you know, these, these the church that I served in, you know, isn’t one of these big name churches that’s going to get, you know, newscasted about. And they can’t necessarily name what happened to them as religious trauma because nobody’s given them the language for it. [00:11:25] Kayleigh: And so we’ve often missed these, these declining churches. We’ve missed because we haven’t remembered that Trauma is communal that trauma is relational. And so we need to, yes, provide as much care and as much resourcing as we can for the healing of individuals, because you can’t heal the community if the individuals don’t know. [00:11:44] Kayleigh: But we really need to remember that the community as a whole. impacted, and that especially when we’re talking about the church, we want to be able to heal and restore those relationships. And to do that means we have to address the social dimensions of the religious trauma. And so [00:12:01] Julie: often the people that, that stay aren’t aware of what’s happened to them. [00:12:08] Julie: Are they not even aware they’re traumatized? [00:12:11] Kayleigh: Right, right. Yeah. [00:12:13] Julie: Yeah. You introduced this, this concept, which is great. I mean, it’s, it’s a riff off of the book, The Body Keeps the Score, which, you know, um, just an incredible book by, uh, Dr. Vander Kolk. But this idea that the body of Christ keeps the score. [00:12:33] Julie: Describe what you mean by that, that the body of Christ keeps the score when there’s this kind of trauma that it’s experiencing. [00:12:40] Kayleigh: Sure. So you kind of alluded to it earlier when you were giving an example of the removing of a toxic pastor, right? And then just the placement of a new pastor. And so often what happens in these situations where there’s spiritual abuse or, um, clergy misconduct or any of those things that’s causing this religious trauma, the answer seems to be, well, let’s just remove the. [00:13:00] Kayleigh: Problem person. And then that will solve everything. Um, well, what happens is we forget that trauma is embodied, right? And so you can remove the physical threat. Um, but if you remove the physical threat or the problem person, but this congregation still has this embodied sense of trauma in which they perceive threat now. [00:13:23] Kayleigh: So they’re reacting to their surroundings out of that traumatized position, because that’s what the collective body has learned to do. And so you see this, um, It’s a silly example, but I use it because I think people see it a lot. So you have a new pastor come in and the new pastor has a great idea, at least he or she thinks it’s a great idea. [00:13:46] Kayleigh: And it probably has to do with removing pews or changing carpet color. Okay. And so they present this, what they think is just a great harmless idea. And the response of the congregation is almost volatile and the pastor can’t figure out why. And often, unfortunately, what pastors have kind of been taught to identify is that they must just idolatry. [00:14:11] Kayleigh: They just have the past as an idol for them and they need to kill this golden cow. Right. And so it becomes this theological problem. Sure, there might be cases where that is the truth, but often I would say that there’s, um, a wonderful. So another great book on trauma. It’s more on racialized trauma, but it deals a lot with historical trauma is, um, rest my Mac mannequins book, um, my grandmother’s hands and in it, he addresses this historical trauma that is embodied and he quotes Dr. [00:14:42] Kayleigh: Noel Larson, who says, if it’s hysterical, it’s probably historical. In other words, if the reaction to the thing happening doesn’t seem to match, like it seems out of proportion, either too energized or not enough energy around it, it’s probably connected to some kind of historical trauma that hasn’t been processed. [00:15:03] Kayleigh: And so we see this a lot in churches who are having a hard time being healthy and flourishing and engaging with the community around them. And. The reason why is often because they have this unhealed trauma that nobody’s given them language for. Nobody’s pointed out, nobody’s addressed for them. Um, and so it’s just kind of lingering under the surface, unhealed, unnamed, and it’s informing how they believe, how they act. [00:15:33] Kayleigh: Um, and so this is really What I mean when I say the body of Christ keeps the score is that the body of Christ has embodied this trauma and it’s coming out in their behaviors, in their actions, in their values, and our pastors are not equipped to address it from a trauma informed perspective. They’ve only been given tools to address it from maybe a theological position, or this kind of revitalization remissioning perspective. [00:16:02] Kayleigh: That often doesn’t work. [00:16:04] Julie: There’s so many things I’m thinking as as you’re talking. I mean one. to come in and do something. And then because people react to, I mean, basically that’s shaming them. It’s guilting them to say, Oh, you have an idol or what’s wrong with you that you can’t get on board. And the truth is they don’t know what’s wrong with them. [00:16:23] Julie: They, they don’t. And, and they’re hurt. And all they know is you just, they’re hurt and now you’ve hurt them. So now they don’t trust you. So way to go. Um, but I’m thinking maybe because we brought this up and I don’t mean to beat up on, on Willow Creek, but I’m thinking about. When the new pastor came in, and I don’t think he’s a bad guy, um, you know, they, they were bleeding money. [00:16:45] Julie: Obviously they, they did not have the resources they did before. So one of the first things they did was they centralized, which meant the campus pastors weren’t going to be preaching anymore. They were going to be pumping in video sermons. Here’s the pastor that people trusted on these campuses. Now, that person’s not going to be preaching, which then of course, all of them left. [00:17:06] Julie: They ended up leaving and the trauma you’d now it’s trauma upon trauma. And it just seems like, especially in so many of these churches, you bring somebody in and they want to move somewhere like, right. They want a thriving church. What they don’t want to do is be at a church and sit in your pain. And yet. [00:17:27] Julie: Unless that’s done, I mean, can these churches, I mean, can they move forward? I mean, what’s going to happen if you come in and you don’t? slow down and say, these people are hurting and I need to, I need to be a shepherd. Then that’s the other thing. It’s so many of these mega churches, and I know this isn’t unique to mega churches that this happens, but I, it’s the world in which I report so often is that these mega churches are very mission vision, five year plan oriented and what they’re not capable of doing. [00:17:59] Julie: I think so many of these, you know, and they always bring in the, the pastor. That’s a good orator, maybe not a shepherd at all. In fact, some of these guys even say, I’m not a shepherd, which that’s another, yeah, I mean, but, but to actually, they need a shepherd at that point. Right. I mean, these, these people need it. [00:18:20] Julie: So, I mean, again, what, what do they need to do? And what happens if they don’t do some of these things? [00:18:28] Kayleigh: So the thing that I have really been drawn to, especially as I study Jesus, and I look at what it means to be trauma informed in the pastorate. So I, I do believe that God is still working through pastors. [00:18:39] Kayleigh: Um, in fact, there’s a really beautiful section of scripture in Jeremiah 23, where God is addressing abusive shepherds and God’s response is, I will raise up new shepherds. So God still wants to work through shepherds. There is still a place for a pastor. The problem is, is I don’t think we’ve taught pastors how to lead out of a posture of compassionate curiosity. [00:19:03] Kayleigh: And so if you follow Jesus and you look at the way that Jesus interacts with hurting people, it is out of this beautiful, humble posture of compassionate curiosity. And so I was always struck by like, he asks the blind man, what do you want me to do for you? And it always seemed like a. That’s a strange question. [00:19:20] Kayleigh: Like, he’s blind, Jesus. What do you think he and often it’s preached on, like, well, we need to be able to tell God what we want. And that’s maybe some of it. But I think it’s also the truth that God knows that it can be re traumatizing to somebody to tell them what they need and what they want. Right? So what we learned when we studied trauma is that it’s not. [00:19:40] Kayleigh: So especially when we’re talking trauma caused by abuse is that abuse is so connected to control. And so what has often happened to these victims of religious abuse of spiritual abuse is that they have had control taken from them entirely. And so when a new pastor comes in and tells them, this is what you need to get healthy again, and never takes the time to approach them from this. [00:20:02] Kayleigh: posture of compassionate curiosity, they can end up re traumatizing them. Um, but our pastors aren’t trained to ask these questions. And so, so often if you read, you know, and they’re well meaning books, you know, they’re, they’re trying to get to what’s going on in the heart of the church. They’re trying to get back to church health, but so many of the books around that have to deal with. [00:20:23] Kayleigh: Asking the church, what are you doing or what are you not doing? And trauma theory teaches us to ask a different question. And that question is what happened to you? And I think if pastors were trained to go into churches and ask the question, what happened to you and just sit with a church and a hold the church and, and listen to the stories of the church, they, they might discover that these people have never been given space to even think about it that way. [00:20:52] Kayleigh: You know, where they’ve just, they’ve had abusive leaders who have just been removed or they’ve had manipulative leaders who have just been removed and they’ve just been given a new pastor and a new pastor and nobody’s given them the space. To articulate what that’s done to them, um, as individuals and as a congregation. [00:21:09] Kayleigh: And so if we can learn to, to follow Jesus in just his curiosity, and he asks the blind man, what do you want me to do for you? He, he says, who touched me when the woman reaches out and touches him. And that’s not a, it’s not a question of condemnation. That’s a question of permission giving. He knows that this woman needs more than physical healing. [00:21:28] Kayleigh: She needs relational healing. She needs to tell her story. And by pausing and saying, who touched me? He provides a space for her to share her story that she’s never been able to share with anyone before. And I think if we were to follow that Jesus, as pastors and as leaders, we would begin to love the Bride of Christ in such a way that would lead to her healing, instead of feeling the need to just rush her through some five year plan to what we think is healing and wholeness, and what actually may not be what they would say is what they need. [00:22:02] Julie: So many things you’re saying are resonating with me. And part of that’s because, uh, like I said, we’re living this. Um, I, I told you last week when we talked that our, our house church was going on a retreat, first retreat we’ve ever had. We’ve been together a little over, well, for me, I came in about two years ago and I think they had been meeting maybe eight or nine months before then. [00:22:29] Julie: Some of the people in our group, Um, don’t come out of trauma. Um, you know, one of our, one of the couples in our church, uh, they’re like young life leaders, really just delightful, delightful, delightful people, but they haven’t lived the religious trauma. One couple is, they’re from the mission field and they had a great missions experience. [00:22:55] Julie: The only trauma they might be experiencing is coming home to the U. S. The truth is they love the mission field, right? Um, and then. The remainder of us come from two, two churches, um, that, that had some sexual abuse that was really, you know, mishandled and the trust with the leaders was, was broken in really grievous ways. [00:23:19] Julie: Um, and then there’s me on top of having that, um, living in this space where, I mean, I just report on this all the time. And so, but one of the beautiful things that happened in this, in this group is that it did have leaders when we came into it and it triggered us. Like, you know, and for us it was like, oh, here’s the inside group and the outside group. [00:23:47] Julie: Like, we’re used to the ins and the outs, right? And, and we’re used to the inside group having power and control, and the rest of us just kind of go along with it. And, and we’re, we’re a tiny little group. Like we’re 20 some people, right? But, but it’s just, and, and we’re wonderful people. Wonderful people. [00:24:02] Julie: And yet we still like, it was like, mm. And um, and so. The beautiful thing is that those leaders recognize, like they didn’t fully understand it, but they said, you know, I think we need to just step down and just not have leaders. And I didn’t even realize till we went on this retreat what an act of service and of love that was for them to just say, were laying down any, any agendas we might’ve had, any even mission or vision that we might’ve had. [00:24:35] Julie: And for one of, you know, one of the guys, it was really hard for him cause he’s just like, Mr. Mr. Energy and initiative. And, and he was like, I better not take initiative because like, it’s, it’s not going to be good for these folks. Um, and on the retreat. So then, I mean, it was, it was really a Holy Spirit. [00:24:54] Julie: experience, I think for all of us, because there definitely was a camp that was like, okay, we’ve had this kind of healing time, but can, can we move forward a little bit? Like, can we, can we have some intentionality? And then there were part of us that were just like, oh my word, if we, if we, if we have leaders, why do we need leaders? [00:25:12] Julie: We’re 20 something people. Like we can just decide everything ourselves. And, and there really was somewhat of an impasse, but it’s interesting. The things that you said for me, And it was funny at one point. They’re like, can’t you just trust? And, you know, kind of like, what, what are you guys afraid of? You know? [00:25:29] Julie: And the first thing that came out of my mouth was control control. Like we’re afraid of control, um, or I’m afraid of control. Um, but what was so, so. Huge for me and I think was one of those again, Holy Spirit moments was when, you know, I was trying to like make a point about power dynamics, like you don’t realize power and like we have to be aware of how power is stewarded in a group like this because everybody has power. [00:25:59] Julie: If you don’t realize as a communicator the power that you have, like I’m aware now that because I can, I can form thoughts pretty quickly. That I can have a lot of influence in a group. I’m aware of that. And so, you know, there was even like a part where I was leading and then I was like, I can’t lead this next thing. [00:26:17] Julie: I’ve been leading too much, you know, and then we, and then we gave, we, somebody had a marker and we gave the marker to, to, um, one of the guys in our group who’s fantastic guy. And, um, And at one point, so, so anyway, I was talking about power and, and one of the guys was like, well, I don’t, I don’t really see power. [00:26:35] Julie: I don’t need. And I’m like, you have it, whether you realize it and you have it. And what was huge is that one of the other guys that sort of a leader was a leader was able to say what she’s talking about is real. Everybody has power. This is really important. And he was quite frankly, somebody with a lot of power in that group because he has a lot of trust, used to be a pastor. [00:26:57] Julie: Um, and for him to acknowledge that for the rest of us was huge. And then this, this other guy, I mean, he said at one point, Oh, well, you know, so and so’s holding the marker right now and he has power, doesn’t he? And I was like, yes, you’re getting it. That’s it. That’s it. Thank you. Because he’s like, you just reframed what we said and I wouldn’t have reframed it that way. [00:27:22] Julie: Like I wouldn’t. And I’m like, yes, exactly. It’s like, and it was like, it was like the light bulbs were going on and people were starting to get it. Um, and then another key, key moment was when one of the women who, you know, wasn’t, you know, from our church where we experienced stuff, who said, can you, can you tell me how that, how that felt for you when we used to have leaders? [00:27:46] Julie: And then for people to be able to express that. And people listened and it was like, and I was able to hear from this guy who felt like he was, he had a straight jacket, you know, because he, he like wants to use his, his initiative. Like he, he. You know, and God’s given that to him. It’s a good thing, you know. [00:28:07] Julie: And all I can say is it was just an incredible experience, an incredible moment, but it would not have happened if, and now I’m going to get kind of, it wouldn’t have happened if people cared more about the mission than the people. And they didn’t realize the people are the mission. This is Jesus work. He doesn’t care about your five year plan. [00:28:41] Julie: He doesn’t care about your ego and the big, you know, plans that you have and things you can do. What he cares is whether you’ll lay your life down for the sheep. That’s what shepherds do. And what I saw in, in our group was the willingness to, for people that have shepherding gifts to lay down their, you know, not literally their lives, but in a way their lives, their, their dreams, their hopes or visions, everything to love another and how that created so much love and trust, you know, in our group. [00:29:22] Julie: And we’re still like trying to figure this out, but yeah, it was, it was hugely, it just so, so important. But I thought how many churches are willing to do that, are willing to, to sit in the pain, are willing to listen. And I’m, I’m curious as you go in now, there’s so much of your work has become with ReStory is, is education and going into these churches. [00:29:52] Julie: You know, normally when this happens, And you told me there’s a, there’s a name for pastors that come in. It’s the afterpastor. Afterpastor. [00:30:00] Kayleigh: Yes. The afterpastor. [00:30:02] Julie: How many times does the afterpastor get it? And does he do that? [00:30:07] Kayleigh: So the problem is, and I can tell you, cause I have an MDiv. I went, I did all the seminary. [00:30:11] Kayleigh: I’m ordained. We don’t get trained in that. Um, so, and there is, um, like you said, so you use this guy as an example who has the clear. Initiative gifts. So they’re what would be called kind of the Apostle, um, evangelist gifts in like the pastoral gift assessment kind of deal. You’ve got the Apostle, prophet, evangelist, shepherd, and teacher. [00:30:34] Kayleigh: And right now there’s a lot of weight kind of being thrown behind the Apostle evangelist as kind of the charismatic leader who can set the vision. And so most of the books on pastoral You know, church health and church are written kind of geared and directed that way. Um, so we’re really missing the fact that when we’re talking about a traumatized church, what you really need is a prophet shepherd. [00:30:57] Kayleigh: Um, you need somebody who can come in and shepherd the people and care for them well, but also the prophet. The role of the prophet is often to help people make meaning of their suffering. So if you read closely, Jeremiah and Ezekiel, particularly who are two prophets speaking to people in exile, what they’re really doing is helping people make meaning of that suffering. [00:31:17] Kayleigh: They’re helping people tell their story. They’re, they’re lamenting, they’re crying with them. They’re, they’re asking the hard questions. Um, and they’re able to kind of see between the lines. So prophet, Pastors who have kind of that prophetic gifting are able to see below. They’re able to kind of slow down and hear the actual story beyond the behaviors, right? [00:31:35] Kayleigh: So the behaviors aren’t telling the whole story, but we need eyes to see that. And so the problem, I would say, is that a lot of well, meaning pastors simply aren’t taught how to do this. And so they’re not given the resources. They’re not given kind of the, um. this like Christian imagination to be able to look at a church and say, okay, what has happened here and what healings take place here? [00:31:59] Kayleigh: Um, the other problem is, you know, we need to be able to give space. So denominational leaders need to be able to be okay with a church that maybe isn’t going to grow for a few years. And I think that is whether we like it or not. And we can say all day long that we don’t judge a church’s health by its numbers. [00:32:19] Kayleigh: But at the end of the day, pastors feel this pressure to grow the church, right? To have an attendance that’s growing a budget that’s growing and. And so, and part of it is from a good place, right? We want to reach more people from Jesus, but part of it is just this like cultural pressure that defines success by numbers. [00:32:36] Kayleigh: And so can we be okay with a church that’s not going to grow for a little while? You know, can we be okay with a church that’s going to take some like intentional time to just heal? And so when you have an established church, um, which is a little bit different than a house church model, it can be. A really weird sacrifice, even for the people who are there, because often what you have is you have a segment of the church who is very eager to move forward and move on and and to grow and to move into its new future, and they can get frustrated with the rest of the church. [00:33:15] Kayleigh: That kind of seems to need more time. Um, but trauma healing is it’s not linear. And so, you know, you kind of have to constantly Judith Herman identifies like three components of trauma healing. And so it’s safety and naming and remembering and then reconnecting, but they’re not like you finish safety and then you move to this one and then you move to this one. [00:33:36] Kayleigh: Often you’re kind of going, you’re ebbing and flowing between them, right? Because you can achieve safety and then start to feel like, okay, now I can name it. And then something can trigger you and make you feel unsafe again. And so you’re now you’re back here. And so, um, um, Our churches need to realize that this healing process is going to take time, and collective trauma is complicated because you have individuals who are going to move through it. [00:33:57] Kayleigh: So you’re going to have people who are going to feel really safe, and they’re going to feel ready to name, and others who aren’t. And so you have to be able to mitigate that and navigate that. And our pastors just aren’t simply trained in this. And so what I see happening a lot is I’ll do these trainings and I’ll have somebody come up to me afterwards and go, Oh my goodness, I was an after pastor and I had no idea that was a thing. [00:34:18] Kayleigh: And they’re like, you just gave so much language to my experience. And you know, and now I understand why they seem to be attacking me. They weren’t really attacking me. They just don’t trust the office of the pastor. And I represent the office of the pastor. Okay. And so sometimes they take that personally again, it becomes like these theological issues. [00:34:38] Kayleigh: And so helping pastors understand the collective trauma and being able to really just take the time to ask those important questions and to increase not only their own margin for suffering, but to increase a congregations margin for suffering. You know, to go, it’s going to be, we can sit in this pain. [00:34:58] Kayleigh: It’s going to be uncomfortable, but it’s going to be important, you know, learning how to lament, learning how to mourn. All of these things are things that often we’re just not trained well enough in, um, as pastors. And so therefore our congregations aren’t trained in them either. You know, they don’t have margin for suffering either. [00:35:14] Kayleigh: Um, and so we need to be able to equip our pastors to do that. Um, and then equip the congregations to be able to do that as well. [00:35:20] Julie: So good. And I’m so glad you’re doing that. I will say when I first started this work, um, I was not trauma informed. I didn’t know anything about trauma really. And I didn’t even, you know, I was just a reporter reporting on corruption and then it turned into abuse in the church. [00:35:38] Julie: And I started interfacing with a lot of abuse victims. who were traumatized. And I think back, um, and, and really, I’ve said this before, but survivors have been my greatest teachers by far, like just listening to them and learning from them. But really from day one, you know, it’s loving people, right? It really, it like, if you love and if you empathize, which You know, some people think it’s a sin, um, just cannot, um, but if you do that and, and that’s what, you know, even as I’m thinking about, um, within our own, our own house church, there were people who weren’t trained, but they did instinctively the right things because they loved. [00:36:28] Julie: You know, and it just reminds me, I mean, it really does come down to, they will know you are Christians by your love. You know, how do we know love? Like Christ laid down his life for us. He is our model of love and, and somehow, you know, like you said, the, in the church today we’ve, we’ve exalted the, um, what did you say? [00:36:49] Julie: The apostle evangelist? The apostle evangelist. Yeah. Yes, absolutely. Absolutely. Um, we’ve exalted that person, um, you know, And I think we’ve forgotten how to love. And too many of these pastors don’t know how to love. They just don’t know how to love. And it’s, it’s tragic. Because they’re supposed to be I mean, the old school models, they were shepherds, you know, like you said, like we need apostles, we need evangelists. [00:37:16] Julie: But usually the person who was leading the church per se, the apostles and evangelists would often end up in parachurch organizations. I’m not saying that’s right or wrong. I think the church needs all of those things. Um, and, uh, But yeah, we’ve, we’ve, we’ve left that behind, sadly. And there’s nothing sexy about being a shepherd. [00:37:37] Kayleigh: Yeah, no, I, all, all of the Apostle, I mean that, well, the whole thing is needed, um, and it’s most beautiful when we just work together, and, and when they can respond to each other. So, I mean, me and you’re an example in your house, you’re a visiting example of this. You can’t, even if just listening, you have some clear Apostle evangelists in your group, right? [00:37:54] Kayleigh: I mean, Um, right? And so you have these people wired for that, and yet they’re able to, to learn and respond to some of the people in the group who have more of those prophet shepherd tendencies. And so I think that that’s really what, and that’s loving, right? So we should go back. It’s just loving one another and learning from one another. [00:38:17] Kayleigh: And knowing when to lean into certain giftings and to learn from others giftings. This is why it’s the body of Christ. And so when a component of the body of Christ is left out, we can’t be who God’s called us to be. And so when we neglect the role of the shepherd and neglect the role of the prophet or minimize them, or see them as secondary, then we’re not going to do called us to be. [00:38:44] Kayleigh: You know, we may need all of it to come together to do what God has called us to do. God is working in this church. He’s worked all through this church. He has established it and called it, and He’s going to use it. But we need to be learning how He has built it and how He framed it. For me to love one another and not elevate one gifting above another. [00:39:07] Julie: And it’s interesting too, you mentioned the office of the pastor. Um, I know as we were discussing some of this, we have one guy who’s very, I mean, actually our entire group, and I think this is probably why we’ve been able to navigate some of this. It’s it’s a really spiritually mature group. A lot of people. [00:39:26] Julie: who have been in leadership, um, which sometimes you get a lot of leaders together and it can be, you know, but this hasn’t been that way because I think people really do love the Lord. Um, and they love each other. Um, but one of the things that was brought up, um, is Is the pastor an office or is it a role and have we made it into an office and, and what we realized in the midst of that and I, you know, I, I’m like, well, that’s really interesting. [00:39:57] Julie: I would like to study that. And I find there, there’s a curiosity when you talk compassionate curiosity, I think there’s also a curiosity in, in people who have been through this kind of trauma. There’s a curiosity in, okay, what, what did we do? that we did because everybody said that’s how we’re supposed to do it. [00:40:18] Kayleigh: Yeah. [00:40:18] Julie: Yeah. Do I really have that conviction? Could I really argue it from scripture? Is this even right? And so I find even in our group, there is a, there is a, um, there’s a curiosity and maybe this is because we’re coming through and we’re in, you know, I think a later stage of healing is that now we’re like really curious about what should we be? [00:40:44] Julie: Yes. Yes. What should we be, like, we, we want to dig into what, what is a church, what should it really be, and what, why, how could we be different? Of course, always realizing that you can have the perfect structure and still have disaster. Um, it really does come down to the character of the people and, and that, but, but yeah, there’s a real, Curiosity of, of sort of, um, digging, digging into that. [00:41:10] Julie: And, and let me just, I can ask you, and, and maybe this will be a rabbit trail, maybe we’ll edit it out. I don’t know. Um, , but, but I am curious what do, what do you think of that idea that the, the pastorate may be a role that we’ve made into an office and maybe that could be part of the problem? [00:41:27] Kayleigh: I think that’s a lot of it. [00:41:28] Kayleigh: Um, because when we turn the, the pastorate into an office, we can lose the priesthood of all believers. So that I think is often what happens is that, um, you create this pastoral role where now all of the ministry falls on to the pastor. And so instead of the pastor’s role being to equip the saints for the ministry, which is what scripture says, the scripture describes a pastor as equipping the saints for the ministry. [00:41:56] Kayleigh: Now the pastor is doing the ministry, right? There’s, there’s just all of this pressure on the pastor. And that’s, that’s where I think we start to see this. The shift from the pastor being the one who is, you know, encouraging and equipping and edifying and, you know, calling up everybody to live into their role as the body of Christ where we’ve seen. [00:42:19] Kayleigh: You know, I have a soft spot for pastors. Again, I’m like, they’re all my relatives are them. I love pastors and I know some really beautiful ones who get into ministry because that’s exactly what they want to do. And so what has often happened though, is that the, the ways of our culture have begun to inform how the church operates. [00:42:40] Kayleigh: And so we saw this, you know, when, when the church started to employ business In kind of the church growth movement. So it’s like, okay, well, who knows how to grow things? Business people know how to grow things. Okay. Well, what are they doing? Right. And so now that the pastor is like the CEO, people choose their churches based on the pastor’s sermon, right? [00:43:00] Kayleigh: Well, I like how this pastor preaches. So I’m going to go to that church. Um, so some of it is. So I would say that not all of it is pastors who have like that egotistical thing within them at the beginning. Some of it is that we know that those patterns exist. But some of these men and women are genuinely just love the Lord’s people and then get into these roles where they’re all of a sudden like, wait, I, Why, why is it about me and others, this pressure to preach better sermons and the person down the road or, you know, run the programs and do all of these things instead of equipping the people to do the work of God. [00:43:38] Kayleigh: And so I think it’s, it’s about, and right, I think it’s happened internally in our churches, but I also think there’s this outward societal pressure that has shifted the pastor from this shepherding role to the CEO office. Um, And finding the, like, middle ground, right? So again, like, we can swing the pendulum one way and not have pastors. [00:44:05] Kayleigh: Or we can swing the pendulum the other way and have pastors at the center of everything. But is there a way of finding, kind of, this middle ground where people who are fairly calm and gifted and anointed by God to do rich shepherding can do it in a way that is Zen sitting that church that is equal famous saint that is calling the body of Christ to be what it is called be. [00:44:27] Kayleigh: And I guess I’m, I’m constantly over optimistic and so I’m convinced that there’s gotta be a way , that we can get to a place where pastors can live out of their giftings and live by their callings and live out of their long dreams in such a way. That leads to the flourishing health of the church and not to its destruction. [00:44:45] Julie: Yes. And, and I think if it’s working properly, that absolutely should be there. They should be a gift to the church. Um, and, and sadly we just, we haven’t seen enough of that, but that is, that is, I think the model. Um, let’s talk specifically, and we have talked, or we might not have named it, um, but some of the results of this collective trauma. [00:45:08] Julie: in a congregation. Um, let’s, let’s name some of the things. These are ways that this can, that this can play itself out. [00:45:17] Kayleigh: Sure. So when we’re talking about congregational collective trauma, one of the main results that we’ve talked about kind of in a roundabout way is this lack of trust that can happen within the congregation. [00:45:27] Kayleigh: And this can be twofold. We can talk about the lack of trust for the leadership, but it all also can be lack of trust. Just, In the congregation itself, um, this often happens, particularly if we’re looking at clergy misconduct that maybe wasn’t as widespread. So I think this is some of what you’ve kind of talked about with Willow Creek a little bit, and I’m, I wasn’t in that situation, but I’ve seen it other places where, you know, in our system, the denominational leadership removes a pastor. [00:45:56] Kayleigh: And so what can happen in a system like that is that denominational leadership becomes aware of abuse. They act on the abuse by removing the pastor. And what you have happening is kind of this, um, Betrayal trauma or this, you know, bias against believing. And so because the idea that their clergy person who they have loved and trusted, you know, shepherd them could possibly do something that atrocious. [00:46:24] Kayleigh: That idea is too devastating for them to internalize. So it feels safer to their bodies to deny it. And so what can happen is you can have a fraction of the church. that thinks it’s, you know, all made up and that there’s no truth to it. And they began to blame the denominational leadership as the bad guys or that bad reporter that, you know, the [00:46:45] Julie: gossip monger out there. [00:46:47] Julie: It’s so bad. [00:46:48] Kayleigh: Yeah, exactly. Exactly. So you have this split. Now, sometimes it literally splits and people will leave. Um, but sometimes they don’t and they all stay. And so you have these fractions of people who believe different things about what happened. And so now there’s, there’s a lack of shared identity. [00:47:08] Kayleigh: So I would say one of the key components of collective trauma in a congregation is this mistrust, which is often connected to a lack of shared identity. And so they can’t really figure out who they are together. What does it mean for us to be a community to get there? Um, and so trauma begins to write their story. [00:47:27] Kayleigh: And so when we talk about the embodiment of trauma, one of the ways that that works in individuals, and this is like a mini neuroscience lesson that many of your listeners are probably aware of, because I think you have a very trauma informed audience. Audience, but, um, you know, that it, it makes us react out of those fight, flight, or freeze responses. [00:47:46] Kayleigh: And so that happens individually, right? So something triggers us and all of a sudden we’re at our cortisol is raised. We’re acting out of the, uh, you know, those flight flight places that happens communally too. So a community gets triggered by, you know, a pastor again, having what they think is just a creative idea, you know, but maybe it triggers that time that that pastor. [00:48:09] Kayleigh: Had a creative idea that was, you know, and ran with it without talking to anybody and just like wield the control and manipulated people. And now, all of a sudden, this pastor who thinks they just have this innocent, creative idea is now seen as manipulative. And what are they going to try to do behind our backs? [00:48:27] Kayleigh: And what are they going to try? And, and. What are they going to take from us? Right? And so trauma, trauma takes from people. And so now they’re living kind of out of this perpetual perceived fear, perceived threat, that something else is going to be lost. And so when you have a congregation that’s constantly operating out of, you know, this fight, flight, or freeze response. [00:48:52] Kayleigh: Collectively, I mean, how can we expect them to live out the mission that God has given them? Um, you know, they’re not, they’re not there. They’re not able to, um, they’re not able to relate to one another in a healthy way. And so we, we see a lack of kind of intimate relationships in these congregations, right? [00:49:09] Kayleigh: Because so the Deb Dana, who has helped people really understand the polyvagal theory, when we’re talking about, um, trauma talks about your, your, um, Nervous system, your autonomic nervous system is kind of being like a three rung ladder. And so in this three rung ladder, you have the top rung being your ventral bagel state, which is where you can engage with people in safe and healthy ways. [00:49:32] Kayleigh: And then you move down into kind of your sympathetic nervous system. And this is where you’re in that fight flight freeze and then dorsal bagels at the bottom. And in those two middle and bottom, you can’t build these deep relationships. And again, deep relationships are what make a church a church. And so if you have a congregation that’s stuck in these middle to bottom rungs of this ladder, they’re, they’re fight, flight, freeze, or they’re withdrawing from one another. [00:49:54] Kayleigh: You’re, you’re losing the intimacy, the vulnerability, the safety of these congregations to build those kinds of relationships. And so I would say that, that distrust, that lack of shared identity and that inability to build deeper kind of relationships are three kind of key components of what we’re seeing in congregations who are carrying this collective trauma. [00:50:16] Julie: And yet, if you work through that together, like I will say right now, I feel a great deal of affection for, for everyone. Uh, in our house tours because we went through that chaos together, but also it was, it was an opportunity to see love and people lay down their lives for each other. So to, to be able to see, I mean, you begin writing a new story instead of that old story that’s been so dominant, you know, that you have to tell, you have to work through. [00:50:50] Julie: Yeah, you do. And, and, and you have, you do. I love where you say, you know, people need to, to hear that from you. Yeah. I think that’s really, really important for people to have a safe place. But then at the same time, you can’t, you don’t want to live the rest of your life there. You don’t want that to define, define you. [00:51:09] Julie: Um, and that’s, that’s what’s beautiful though, is if you work through it together, now you, you’ve got a new story, right? You’ve got, you’ve got Dodd doing something beautiful. Um, among you and, and that’s what he does. [00:51:23] Kayleigh: That’s why we call our organization Restory. Um, it is a word used in trauma theory and in reconciliation studies to talk about what communities who have experienced a lot of violence have to do is they have to get to a place where they’re able to, it’s exactly what you’re talking about with your house churches doing is you guys have kind of come to a place where you’re able to ask the question, who do we want to be now? [00:51:45] Kayleigh: And this is this process of restorying. And so what trauma does is in many ways, for a while, it tries to write our stories. And for a while, it kind of has, because of the way that it’s embodied, we kind of, it has to, right? Like we have to process like, okay, I’m reacting to this. trigger because of this trauma that’s happened. [00:52:05] Kayleigh: So how do I work through that? You know, how do I name that? How do I begin to tell that story? And so we, and we have to tell the story, right? Because I mean, trauma theory has been the dialectic of traumas, but Judith Herman talks about is it’s very unspeakable because it’s horrific, but it has to be spoken to be healed. [00:52:22] Kayleigh: Right. And so with this trauma, it can be hard to speak initially. But it needs to be spoken to be healed. But once we’ve done that, once we begin to loosen the control that trauma has on us. Once we’re able to speak it out loud, and then we can get to a place individually and communally where we can start to ask ourselves, Who do we want to be? [00:52:45] Kayleigh: And who has God called us to be? And no, things are not going to be the way they were before the trauma happened. I think that’s the other thing that happens in churches is there’s a lot of misconception. That healing means restoring everything to the way it was before. And when that doesn’t happen, there’s this question of, well, well, did we, did we heal? [00:53:06] Kayleigh: And we have to remember that we’re never going back to the way it was before the trauma happened. But we can begin to imagine what it can look like now. Once we begin to integrate the suffering into our story, and we begin to ask those helpful questions, and we take away the trauma’s control, now we can ask, who do we want to be? [00:53:24] Kayleigh: And we can begin to write a new beautiful story that can be healing for many others. [00:53:29] Julie: A friend of mine who has been through unspeakable trauma, I love when she talks about her husband, because they went through this together, and she often says, he’s like an aged fine wine. You know, and I love that because to me, no, you’re not going back to who you were, but in many ways who you were was a little naive, little starry eyed, a little, you know, and, and once you’ve been through these sorts of things, it is kind of like an aged fine wine. [00:54:01] Julie: You have, you’re, you’re aged, but hopefully in a beautiful way. And, you know, I, I think you’re way more compassionate. Once you’ve gone through this, you’re way more able to see another person who’s traumatized and And to, you know, reach out to that person, to love that person, to care for that person. And so it’s a beautiful restoring. [00:54:26] Julie: And we could talk about this for a very long time. And we will continue this discussion at Restore, [00:54:33] Kayleigh: um, because [00:54:34] Julie: you’re going to be at the conference and that was part of our original discussions. So folks, if you wanna talk more to Kaleigh , come to Restore. I, I’m, I’m gonna fit you in somehow because , I’m gonna be there. [00:54:46] Julie: you’re gonna be there. But do you just have a wealth of, uh, I think research and insights that I think will really, really be powerful? And I’m waiting for you to write your book because it needs to be written. Um, but I’m working on it. , thank you for, for taking the time and for, um, just loving the body. [00:55:07] Julie: And in the way that you have, I appreciate it. [00:55:09] Kayleigh: Well, thank you. Because, you know, when I heard about your work and your tagline, you know, reporting the truth, but restoring the church, you know, I was just so drawn in because that’s what we need. The church is worth it. The church is beautiful and she is worth taking the time to restore. [00:55:24] Kayleigh: And I’m so thankful for the work that you’re doing to make sure that that that happens. [00:55:28] Julie: Thank you. Well, thanks so much for listening to the Roy’s Report, a podcast dedicated to reporting the truth and restoring the church. I’m Julie Roys. And if you’ve appreciated this podcast and our investigative journalism, would you please consider donating to the Roy’s report to support our ongoing work? [00:55:47] Julie: As I’ve often said, we don’t have advertisers or many large donors. We mainly have you. The people who care about our mission of reporting the truth and restoring the church. So if you’d like to help us out, just go to Julie Roy’s spelled R O Y S dot com slash donate. That’s Julie Roy’s dot com slash donate. [00:56:07] Julie: Also just a quick reminder to subscribe to the Roy’s report on Apple podcasts, Spotify or YouTube. That way you won’t miss any of these episodes. 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The Morning Footy crew take a look at the situation that occurred this past weekend where AC Milan's normal penalty kicker Christian Pulisic didn't attempt either of Milan's two PKs in the match. And ironically, both were missed. The group discuss why this might have been the case and what the ripple effect of it going forward is. Did Pulisic show maturity in how he handled not taking PKs vs Fiorentina? Milan did lose the match ultimately 2-1. Morning Footy is available for free on the Audacy app as well as Apple Podcasts, Spotify and wherever else you listen to podcasts.  Follow the Morning Footy podcast on Twitter: @CBSSportsGolazo, @susannahcollins, @nicocantor1, @NotAlexis, @CharlieDavies9 For more soccer coverage from CBS Sports, visit https://www.cbssports.com/soccer/ To hear more from the CBS Sports Podcast Network, visit https://www.cbssports.com/podcasts/ Watch UEFA Champions League, UEFA Europa League, UEFA Europa Conference League, Serie A, Coppa Italia, EFL, NWSL, Scottish Premiership, Argentine Primera División by subscribing Paramount Plus: https://www.paramountplus.com/home/ To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Congratulations are in order for Steve Cherundolo and his LAFC side as they defeated Peter Vermes and Sporting KC in the US Open Cup Final (2:35). Then, the group recap the Campeones Cup that happened the same night but earlier which saw Club América walk away with the title after outlasting the Columbus Crew in PKs (8:06). Jimmy Conrad then puts a fine point on why the US Open Cup is still so special and explains the value and importance of the oldest soccer tournament in the United States (11:12). Next, the CIWYW crew rip open the mailbag to answer all of your questions including, "What can the actual impact be of the 2026 World Cup," "Is anyone making noise about fixture congestion," and "How will Poch's first match go," as well as several more (17:05). And finally, Conrad and Meola discuss whether or not there is a coaching crisis right now in America and swap some coaching stories of their own (36:47). Call It What You Want is available for free on the Audacy app as well as Apple Podcasts, Spotify and wherever else you listen to podcasts.  Follow the Call It What You Want team on X: @JimmyConrad, @CharlieDavies9, @BMcBride20, @TMeola1 Visit the betting arena on CBSSports.com for all the latest in sportsbook reviews and sportsbook promos for betting on soccer. For more soccer coverage from CBS Sports, visit https://www.cbssports.com/soccer/ To hear more from the CBS Sports Podcast Network, visit https://www.cbssports.com/podcasts/ You can also watch Call It What You Want on the CBS Sports Golazo Network for free on connected TVs and mobile devices through the CBS Sports app, Pluto TV, and on CBSSports.com as well as Paramount+. Watch UEFA Champions League, UEFA Europa League, UEFA Europa Conference League, EFL, Serie A, Coppa Italia, CONCACAF Nations League, NWSL, Scottish Premiership, Brasileiro, Argentine Primera División, AFC Champion League by subscribing to Paramount+ Sign up to the Golazo newsletter, your ultimate guide to the Beautiful Game as our experts take you beyond the pitch and around the globe with news that matters. To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

2:22 - América outlast Columbus in PKs to win Campeones Cup 19:10 - Is the LAFC final curse broken? 31:39 - End of an era, how do SKC rebuild?  42:35- Vancouver survive Toronto to win 3rd-straight Canadian Championship 46:00 - Can Vancouver use this momentum to make a playoff run? 49:11 - Has this season been a success for Toronto? 56:10 - Patrick Vieira the frontrunner for Atlanta? 1:01:06 - San Jose coaching update, future of the club 1:11:38 - Peter Luccin reportedly frontrunner for Dallas job 1:14:21 - Greg Vanney confirmed back for 2025 1:15:20 - St. Louis coaching search update 1:16:36 - What to watch on Matchday 36  

Welcome back to *Coffee Chats with Diane Nix*! In this special episode, Diane, Lacey, and Allison dive into the unique challenges of raising PKs (Preacher's Kids) and the difference between looking at life through a microscope versus a magnifying glass. After a brief hiatus, we're kicking off a new season just in time for fall, and we're thrilled to have you with us. Lacey, our creative genius, shares her insight into how these two tools symbolize the way church families often scrutinize PKs—magnifying their flaws instead of seeking to understand them. A microscope aims to discover and nurture, keeping the whole picture alive, while a magnifying glass distorts and burns, focusing on small, often misunderstood details. We unpack the impact of this scrutiny on our children, from the pressures of living in the limelight to the struggles of forging their own identity beyond their parents' shadows. Allison opens up about her daughter's journey to find herself outside of her father's reputation, and Diane reflects on her own daughters' experiences under the magnifying glass of church expectations.  Through powerful personal stories, we explore how these experiences can shape faith, foster resentment, or lead to deconstruction—and how crucial it is to teach our kids to focus on what's lovely and pure, as Paul advises in Philippians 4:6-9. Whether you're a ministry wife, a PK yourself, or just curious about the unique challenges faced by these families, join us for an honest and heartfelt conversation. We hope you'll leave encouraged to look at life with a microscope—to discover, understand, and keep alive the beautiful complexity of the PK journey. **Tune in, grab your coffee, and let's chat!**

Tai Baribo's brace was not enough as the Philadelphia Union dropped the third place match in Leagues Cup in PKs to the Colorado Rapids. Plus we recap the official details around Jose Martinez and Damion Lowe's departure.Renee Washington, JP Zapata, Andrew Frazier ,and Tyler Zulli discuss the latest around the Union and MLS.

Following the profound setback to democratization from Golkar's takeover, constitutional justices undertook a spirited effort to restore competition to regional-head elections -- only for parliament to countermand the court a day later with a Regional Head Election Law revision.  To examine the whiplash-like effects of events, we enlisted the veteran journalist Wahyu Dhyatmika of Tempo - the venerable news group that occupies a central role in documenting Indonesia's political convulsions. We discuss the circumstances of Golkar Chair Airlangga Hartarto's resignation, the ensuing cabinet reshuffle, two momentous Constitutional Court verdicts on 20 August and the legislative reprisal led by Gerindra in parliament.  We assess the prospects for demonstrations, the implications for the legitimacy of the regional‑head election system and the longer-term consequences for the rule-of-law versus "Ruler's Law".  Credit to our intrepid journalist-and-sound engineer Steven Handoko for turning around the audio file in record time and keeping the content fresh!For a free trial of Reformasi newsletter, go to reformasi.infoRead Erin's newsletter Dari Mulut Ke Mulut here: https://darimulut.beehiiv.com/

Andre Blake showed why he is the greatest of all time in a massive Leagues Cup quarterfinals win in PKs. The Philadelphia Union now head to take on the Columbus Crew without standout Tai Baribo and possibly Jose Martinez. Renee Washington, JP Zapata, Andrew Frazier, and Tyler Zulli recap the latest around the Philadelphia Union and Leagues Cup.

The Morning Footy crew react to Saturday's Leagues Cup results which sees an all MLS Semifinals. The Columbus crew advance past New York City FC on PKs, as do the Philadelphia Union over Mazatlán FC. The other semifinalists include LAFC who defeated the Seattle Sounders 3-0 and the Colorado Rapids who beat Club América on PKs after playing to a scoreless draw in match play. The Crew will now take on the Union and LAFC will face the Rapids. Both game will take place on Wed. Aug. 21st. Morning Footy is available for free on the Audacy app as well as Apple Podcasts, Spotify and wherever else you listen to podcasts.  Follow the Morning Footy podcast on Twitter: @CBSSportsGolazo, @susannahcollins, @nicocantor1, @NotAlexis, @CharlieDavies9 For more soccer coverage from CBS Sports, visit https://www.cbssports.com/soccer/ To hear more from the CBS Sports Podcast Network, visit https://www.cbssports.com/podcasts/ Watch UEFA Champions League, UEFA Europa League, UEFA Europa Conference League, Serie A, Coppa Italia, EFL, NWSL, Scottish Premiership, Argentine Primera División by subscribing Paramount Plus: https://www.paramountplus.com/home/ To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The Weekly Recap - The USWNT win take GOLD at the Olympics....Man City beat Man Utd on PKs in the Community Shield....There's another BIG name up for the USMNT managers position....and loads of transfers to talk about.....and MUCH MORE! Be sure to visit www.SoccerWorld.net for ALL your soccer gear needs. Train with Next Level Training to be the best player you can be! Check them out at www.next-leveltraining.com Visit Thomas Magees Sporting House in Downtown Detroit for the BEST soccer atmosphere around! www.thomasmagees.com Creating the best possible soccer experience for every player, regardless of skill level - visit the www.MichiganJaguarsFC.com Visit Dr. Zack Atwood PT, DPT, C-PS, FRCms, The futbol Doc. He's dedicated to helping you get back to doing what you love, pain-free and without limitations - www.primalrecoverypt.com The Fab Football Academy offers boys and girls a professional learning environment with the aim of developing young people both on and off the pitch. Based at The National Sports Center at a Bisham Abbey in England. For more info visit www.fabacademy.co.uk WE DO NOT OWN THE RIGHTS TO THESE SONGS no copyright infringement intended, for artistic purposes only. We Are Soccer 2024 All Rights Reserved.

On this episode of Dynabros Leagues Cup Edition, the lads discuss the Dynamo fumbling the lead and going out on PKs to Toluca. Be sure to follow us on Instagram and Twitter @Dynamo_Faithful and let us know what you think! We appreciate any feedback on how to improve the pod, just reach out. Appearing on this episode are Manny Farciert & Chris Sinski. Edited by Ian Gregory-Graff Media by Zacj Bellot Music from Pixabay, Song: Crag - Hard Rock by Alex Grohl

Growing up as a preacher's kid (PK) can be a unique experience, filled with both pros and cons that shape one's adult relationships. On one hand, PKs often have a deep understanding of religious teachings and principles from a young age, which can foster a strong moral compass and sense of purpose. They may also have access to a supportive community that provides a sense of belonging and connection. However, the pressure to uphold a certain image or moral standard can be overwhelming, leading to feelings of isolation or resentment towards the church.

Alexi Lalas and David Mosse dive into match day 3 of the Olympic tournament. The USWNT took all nine group points after completing the 2-1 win over Australia. Trinity Rodman put the USWNT ahead, and Korbin Albert secured the win with her first Olympic goal. The U23 U.S. Men's also booked their ticket to the quarterfinals for the first time since the Sydney Olympics in 2000. The United States became one of four countries in the 2024 Olympics with both the Men's and Women's teams advancing to the knockout round. Also, the U20 U.S. Men's advanced to the semifinals in the CONCACAF U20 Championship and clinched their spot in the 2025 FIFA U20 World Cup. In the Leagues Cup, New York Red Bulls fell to Pachuca in PKs and are out of the group stage. However, Austin took down Monterrey 2-0 with goals from Jader Obrian and Daniel Pereira. The guys also addressed transfer news regarding USMNT players Yunus Musah and Gio Reyna, as well as the impact of club tours in the United States. (24:33) To wrap the show Alexi and Mosse discussed differences of European and South American style of soccer, U23 U.S. Men's success attracting USMNT managers, Liga MX performance at Leagues Cup, and Tyler Adam's thoughts on Canada's spying situation. (38:01) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

WELP! LAFC fields a questionable lineup, goes down 2-0, and somehow comes back with two goals in the last few minutes of the match to send it to PKs, which they were doomed to lose with Romero in goal (sorry), but it was enough to clinch a spot in the knockout stage of Leagues Cup. Crazy ending. Vince joins the postgame from Pepsi Plaza at BMO Stadium, and a lively chat with a few great call-ins makes for another great postgame show, thanks to all of you. Travis' bet cashed tonight! Vanni Sartini draws a red card at the end of the match by pulling a Juan Carlos Osorio, after Sartini was asked to comment on Juan Carlos Osorio's similar outburst last match, and he said Osorio pulled a Sartini. Sooooo... that's newsworthy! Stay tuned for our Ceremonial Venmo

San Antonio FC Fan Cast   Transactions  Rece Buckmaster transferred from Hartford Athletic on 7/15, bolstering wing/full back ranks 86 clearances, 114 interceptions, 2g, 5a in 55 apps with Memphis in 2022-23 Marcina praises 1v1 defending and skill in tight spaces SAFC Alumni Gallegos and Sonderjyske return to the Superliga on Sunday, away to Silkeborg Tani Oluwaseyi and Canada reached Copa America semis and only lost on PKs…so they're the fourth-best team in South America now Sam Adeniran transferred to Philadelphia Union Sebastien Ibeagha wins Copa Tejas for FC Dallas over Austin FC on Wednesday, prevents Austin from becoming first team to three-peat ***TRANSITION TO BREAK*** SAFC 2-1 Phoenix Rising (7/6) Injury availability report: No changes - Solignac, Silva, Omar, Manley 39' Hernandez free kick swung in from left finds Agudelo on the right side of the box and he volleys it back across goal and in 58' Dariusz Formella cross from the right find the head of Fede Varela in the box and his header arcs over the reach of Sisniega and into the top left corner 81' After Hernandez brought down inside left corner of the box, Agudelo converts PK to give SAFC a lead it held onto Agudelo finding rhythm, good relationship with Hernandez Finally snapped the losing streak, even if it wasn't the best performance against a team that had just changed coaches and is overall embroiled in chaos SAFC 2-4 Deportivo Saprissa (7/13) Injury/availability report: Silva and Omar still there, Solignac and Manley available again for 15 minutes before planned substitutions 13' Mbongue shot off post then defender and in for own goal - literally video evidence, don't @ me 21' Sisniega mistakes gives ball to Ulises Segura and he dribbles into left side of box and smashes it in - per Chris Hockman, he scored for Saprissa against Scorpions in 2014 and now against SAFC in 2024 66' Bryce Tober squared ball from left side of box which Miguel Fuertes controlled and slotted into the bottom right corner ot give SAFC 2-1 lead again Two Saprissa cutbacks from left side of box and brilliant free kick closed out match for Saprissa with SAFC playing the kids ***TRANSITION TO BREAK*** SAFC travels to Orange County SC (7/20) SAFC beat the team that succeeded it as champion, can it beat the team that preceded it? ***TRANSITION TO BREAK*** Around the horn USL Championship Results  USLC Western Standings Final Thoughts Moments By Raz :  Photography-Sports Entertainment Pets and Portraits Set up a photo shoot by: MomentsbyRaz@gmail.com  

The Morning Footy crew breakdown Argentina's win over Ecuador in Copa América last night to reach the Semifinals of the tournament. A late equalizer in 2nd half stoppage time by Ecuador forced the match to go to PKs. Argentinian goalkeeper Emiliano Martínez made back-to-back saves to start off the shootout for his team after Lionel Messi missed the first attempt for his country. Argentina has been unconvincing this tournament and this was yet another example, however, they've qualified for the Semifinals and their title defense is still intact. Morning Footy is available for free on the Audacy app as well as Apple Podcasts, Spotify and wherever else you listen to podcasts.  Follow the Morning Footy podcast on Twitter: @CBSSportsGolazo, @susannahcollins, @nicocantor1, @NotAlexis, @CharlieDavies9 For more soccer coverage from CBS Sports, visit https://www.cbssports.com/soccer/ To hear more from the CBS Sports Podcast Network, visit https://www.cbssports.com/podcasts/ Watch UEFA Champions League, UEFA Europa League, UEFA Europa Conference League, Serie A, Coppa Italia, CONCACAF, NWSL, Scottish Premiership, Argentine Primera División by subscribing Paramount Plus: https://www.paramountplus.com/home/ To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The Morning Footy crew recap yesterday's Euro 2024 matches. First, they look at France's 1-0 defeat of Belgium that looked uninspired. Then, the group chats about Portugal being unable to score during regulation play forcing themselves into PKs in order to knock out Slovenia. Next, the two winners will face off against each other in the Quarterfinals on Friday. Morning Footy is available for free on the Audacy app as well as Apple Podcasts, Spotify and wherever else you listen to podcasts.  Follow the Morning Footy podcast on Twitter: @CBSSportsGolazo, @susannahcollins, @nicocantor1, @NotAlexis, @CharlieDavies9 For more soccer coverage from CBS Sports, visit https://www.cbssports.com/soccer/ To hear more from the CBS Sports Podcast Network, visit https://www.cbssports.com/podcasts/ Watch UEFA Champions League, UEFA Europa League, UEFA Europa Conference League, Serie A, Coppa Italia, CONCACAF, NWSL, Scottish Premiership, Argentine Primera División by subscribing Paramount Plus: https://www.paramountplus.com/home/ To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We're finally BACK! It's About Bravo took a Spring Break hiatus, but Maddy, Zack, & Reid are on the mic to recap everything that's gone on in the Bravoverse while we were away. In That's My Opinion (16:30), they talk Dorit and PKs split announcement (diamond secured!), Real Housewives of Orange County drama with Jen Pedranti's fiance, and a quick Summer House debrief. Then they recap the premier of the Real Housewives of New Jersey  (43:53), the finale of Vamperpump Rules (1:23:45), and give their thoughts on this season of The Valley. Thank you for supporting the show when we were away,! Subscribe to our Patreon for bonus episodes, including recaps of Summer House and more! Support the Show.Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/Aboutbravo06

Poppy Miller, Darian Jenkins, and former USWNT World Cup winner Jessica McDonald are in-studio with instant reaction to a rain-soaked wild match that saw the US advance to the W Gold Cup Final via PKs. Alyssa Naeher not only saved 3 of those PKs but also scored one as well. Then, Christina Unkel is welcomed in to discusses some of the questionable calls throughout the match that easily could have gone the other way while Jenny Chiu brings player interviews and analysis direct from the pitch. Watch USWNT, NWSL and WSL games on P+" with a link to https://www.paramountplus.com/home/ Attacking Third is available for free on the Audacy app as well as Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Stitcher and wherever else you listen to podcasts.  Follow the Attacking Third team on Twitter: @AttackingThird, @SandHerrera_, @LisaCarlin32, @Jordangeli , @JennyaChiu and @Darian_Jenks. Visit the Attacking Third YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/attackingthird You can listen to Attacking Third on your smart speakers! Simply say "Alexa, play the latest episode of the Attacking Third podcast" or "Hey Google, play the latest episode of the Attacking Third podcast." For more soccer coverage from CBS Sports, visit https://www.cbssports.com/soccer/ To hear more from the CBS Sports Podcast Network, visit https://www.cbssports.com/podcasts/ To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Alyssa Naeher saves 3 PKs and scores one as well in what will go down as one of the most memorable and unique USWNT tournament games ever. From torrential downpour and a flooded field to a stoppage time in extra time goal to send it to PKs, this match had it all. Lisa Carlin, Darian Jenkins and Sandra Herrera unpack all the action from the USWNT defeat of Canada to punch their ticket to the W Gold Cup Final on Sunday against Brazil. Watch USWNT, NWSL and WSL games on P+" with a link to https://www.paramountplus.com/home/ Attacking Third is available for free on the Audacy app as well as Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Stitcher and wherever else you listen to podcasts.  Follow the Attacking Third team on Twitter: @AttackingThird, @SandHerrera_, @LisaCarlin32, @Jordangeli , @JennyaChiu and @Darian_Jenks. Visit the Attacking Third YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/attackingthird You can listen to Attacking Third on your smart speakers! Simply say "Alexa, play the latest episode of the Attacking Third podcast" or "Hey Google, play the latest episode of the Attacking Third podcast." For more soccer coverage from CBS Sports, visit https://www.cbssports.com/soccer/ To hear more from the CBS Sports Podcast Network, visit https://www.cbssports.com/podcasts/ To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices