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Talking Real Money
$8 Trillion Turnaround

Talking Real Money

Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2025 45:38


Don returns from a exhausting, comedy-of-errors flight to discuss how the markets pulled an equally wild round trip—plunging, then rebounding to the tune of $8 trillion. He and Tom break down the April stock and bond tantrum, laugh off predictions of recession, and offer practical guidance for scared investors, risk-takers, and those tempted by annuities. Listener questions cover mortgages vs. investing, the role of fixed annuities, and a touching thank-you from a longtime fan who retired well thanks to Don's early radio shows. Oh, and Tom's now YouTube famous. Just ask his grandkids. 0:04 Don's cursed travel story: jet lag, delays, and onboard medical drama1:28 Welcome back—Tom's model aircraft museum returns2:48 Market rewind: sharp drop and $8T rebound3:55 April 8 market bottom; temper tantrum or bear tease?4:40 CNN Fear & Greed Index: from panic to euphoria in weeks6:27 Fan mail: “Planes, Trains & Cryptocurrency” and Tesla hate from a Lyft driver7:43 Don's Broadway singalong graduation trip to NYC9:01 Recession odds fall fast—tariffs rise faster11:27 Tom calls out the mayor's interest rate prediction logic13:01 Check your 401(k)? Maybe don't—unless you're learning your risk tolerance14:10 Don's “Tune Out the Noise” video hits 10+ million views16:43 Listener challenge: Why bash Fidelity annuities?18:47 Don's CD ladder vs. annuities—why he prefers federal over contractual guarantees20:10 Even “no load” annuities can be slippery—careful with the fine print21:51 TRM hits 1,648 episodes (and counting)22:44 Listener Bruce: From broke in 1989 to comfortably retired, thanks to Don24:17 Remember load funds? Why no-loads and ETFs rule now25:59 American Funds' ETF pivot: lipstick on a mutual fund28:36 Listener question: Invest inheritance or pay off 6.6% mortgage?33:10 Roth IRA strategy, liquidity concerns, and investing at age 3536:17 Graduation singers belt Sinatra's “New York, New York” at Radio City38:21 Reminder: Free portfolio help at TalkingRealMoney.com39:53 End-of-show degeneracy: full monty jokes, sensitivity training, and accidental innuendo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Talking Real Money
Investing in Scary Times

Talking Real Money

Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2025 27:39


In this episode, Don and Tom tackle the investor's most persistent foe—fear—especially during volatile markets. They draw on insights from Vanguard and others to reinforce the value of long-term investing, explain why missing a few key days in the market can devastate returns, and stress the importance of rebalancing over reacting. The duo also takes on political distractions, market timing myths, asset location dilemmas, and the emotional turbulence that causes people (including Don's wife!) to question their portfolios. It all wraps with a cheeky new market jingle courtesy of ChatGPT and a shirt that reached Everest. Yeah, literally. 0:04 Welcome, podcast humor, and the pain of being downloaded1:10 The recurring fear-driven urge to “do something” with your portfolio1:33 Set it and forget it? Vanguard and others weigh in2:44 Remember AOL? The danger of investing with confidence in the wrong thing3:35 Volatility is the cost of real returns—don't try to dodge it4:50 Presidential influence and personal political biases in investing5:50 Real portfolios with too few stocks and too much risk6:55 Missing just 10 good days in the market could cut your returns in half7:59 Buy and hold ≠ do nothing: how disciplined rebalancing works9:17 Should you be buying international now? Maybe… but only if rebalancing10:21 Feelings ≠ facts: don't let emotions dictate portfolio moves11:31 “Tune Out the Noise”—free advice and a free YouTube documentary13:06 A musical market mantra written by ChatGPT14:47 When even your spouse doubts your strategy: the advisor's personal dilemma16:57 T-shirt spotted at Everest Base Camp—financial fame ascends18:14 Can you contribute to a Roth IRA using last year's wages?19:54 Why young investors should love down markets20:11 Asset location dilemma: comparing AVUV vs FISVX in 401(k) plans23:54 Bedford, TX and a lesson in regional geography24:31 Don't chase performance—get help and rebalance smart25:05 One more round of “Clueless is Smart”—market timing parody jingle Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Talking Real Money
Lessons from a Legend

Talking Real Money

Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2025 42:33


Tom Cock takes the mic solo (with Don recovering from a “procedure”) and brings in advisor Roxy Butner for a special live episode. They reflect on Warren Buffett's decision to retire in 2025, discussing lessons from his value investing strategy and massive cash holdings. Listener questions roll in on topics like compound interest assumptions, the risks of holding company stock, ETF mechanics, and how best to diversify for retirement. They also recommend the YouTube documentary Tune Out the Noise, tackle behavioral finance biases, and offer free portfolio reviews—including Tom's upcoming in-person trip to Oregon. 0:05 Tom hosts solo, Don out recovering, show call-in number shared0:53 Warren Buffett announces 2025 retirement; lessons from his investing style2:49 Value investing, risk tolerance, and why most portfolios ignore value stocks5:05 Buffett's ultimate advice: low-cost index funds, tune out the noise7:09 Guest Roxy Butner joins the live show for the first time7:28 Listener Q: YouTube doc Tune Out the Noise and Dimensional Fund Advisors8:44 Listener Q: Using 7% return assumptions—how conservative is that?10:53 Monte Carlo simulations vs. flat-rate assumptions in planning12:32 Saving percentages, lifestyle choices, and setting early-retirement goals14:04 You can't count on future returns—only saving and diversification15:22 Company stock danger: bias, volatility, and concentrated risk17:51 Behavioral finance: home bias and overconfidence in familiar firms20:32 Listener Q from Orlando: DFIV vs. VEU, building a smart ETF mix23:30 Discussing stock/bond ratios, fund tilts, and tax efficiency25:34 Roxy's advice: multiple funds offer tax flexibility in taxable accounts27:16 Listener Q from Ottawa: Do ETF trades affect prices of underlying stocks?29:59 ETF structure explained, flash crash risk, and long-term thinking34:17 Listener wants a Talking Real Money nickname—challenge accepted34:44 ETF vs. mutual funds in taxable vs. retirement accounts36:19 Free portfolio reviews and Tom's May 21 visit to Lake Oswego38:29 Roxy's biggest mistake she sees: U.S. large-cap overconcentration Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Talking Real Money
Your Proper Risk

Talking Real Money

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2025 45:32


Don and Tom explore the role of risk, resilience, and rational investing as they tackle stock market uncertainty, Roth conversion confusion, and Robinhood's attempt to lure new users. They mix in practical advice with plenty of caller questions—plus a detour into air-dried laundry, social media skepticism, and an appreciation for the film Tune Out the Noise. It's Talking Real Money in its purest form: smart, skeptical, and occasionally funny. 0:04 Intro: Making money more understandable 1:09 Tom's tech issues and growing role of the stock market 2:11 When you should sell stocks in retirement 3:31 Risk capacity vs risk tolerance explained 5:14 Funny promo: Financial Flinch Reflex (FFR) 6:32 Stock market participation then vs now 7:04 Caller: Gratitude for 'Tune Out the Noise' documentary 8:16 The real goal of the show: Tuning out the noise 10:45 Caller Paul on clothesline nostalgia and laundry talk 13:05 Documentary's backstory, David Booth's art & Dimensional's origins 14:30 Why market timing makes you crazy and poor 15:57 Caller Tom sees a Facebook Roth ad—what gives? 17:46 Breaking down legitimate Roth conversion strategies 19:31 Don's rant on Facebook, Tom's retreat to LinkedIn 20:39 Caller Roger: Can you convert RMDs into Roth? (Spoiler: no) 21:37 Clarifying RMDs vs Roth conversions—rules & misunderstandings 24:14 Direct 401(k) to Roth IRA conversion—confirmed 25:59 Q: Why add bonds if you're 20 years from retirement? 28:03 How real people react to 50% portfolio drops 29:16 The truth about emotional investing and loss tolerance 31:08 Why Robinhood's "free money" comes at a cost 32:56 Custodians vs Gamifiers: Schwab, Fidelity, and the Robinhood trap Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

NonMembers Only
#182 - No Finishers at Barkley, $10M Fugitive Olympian Hunt, and Secret Food Labs vs. Ozempic

NonMembers Only

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2025 51:22


We dive into the grueling Barkley Marathons, where no finishers crossed the line this year, proving once again why it's called the "Race That Eats Its Young." Then, we unravel the wild story of Ryan Wedding, a former Olympic snowboarder turned fugitive, with the FBI offering $10 million for his capture as he's linked to a violent drug trafficking network spanning Colombia to Canada. We also break down the buzz around Jameis Winston, the former No. 1 overall pick in the 2015 NFL Draft by the Tampa Bay Buccaneers, now joining the New York Giants in 2025—could he be the veteran bridge to their next franchise QB? Plus, we spotlight Quincy Wilson, the teenage track sensation whose jaw-dropping speed and charisma have skyrocketed his popularity, making him a household name among sports fans and a social media darling. We also expose a secret food laboratory working to bypass the effects of Ozempic, as Big Food fights back against weight loss drugs by rewiring your brain to crave processed snacks. Along the way, we debate the best old guy phrases like "look what the cat dragged in," share a heartwarming golden retriever tale in our No Bad, No Sad segment, and revisit jaw-dropping moments like a photographer colliding with runners at the ACC Championships. From marathon training updates to Boston Marathon prep, this episode has it all.Tune in to Tune Out and leave a 5-star review!

Talking Real Money
Quiet Investing Science

Talking Real Money

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2025 45:05


On today's Talking Real Money, Don McDonald welcomed two special guests from Dimensional Fund Advisors (DFA)—founder David Booth and co-CEO Dave Butler—to discuss their unique investment philosophy and the importance of tuning out financial noise. The conversation centered around DFA's documentary, "Tune Out the Noise," which emphasizes an academically-based investment strategy focused on sensible, disciplined investing rather than market timing and stock picking. Don and his guests explained the distinct difference between DFA's approach and traditional active or passive investing, highlighting DFA's strategy of combining the strengths of indexing with flexible, thoughtful trading to enhance returns. They also discussed how the rise of ETFs and technological advancements are reshaping the investment industry, making it easier for investors to access diversified, low-cost portfolios. Finally, the episode stressed the critical importance of managing emotional reactions to market volatility, reinforcing the value of staying disciplined and diversified to achieve long-term investment success. 2:34 Tune Out the Noise Documentary 4:23 Dimensional's Unique Investment Philosophy 7:31 Adding Value Over Indexing 8:20 Early Challenges and Data Evidence 11:25 The Role of Nobel Laureates 15:24 Active vs. Passive Investing 19:04 The Future of Active Management 23:32 Evolution of the Mutual Fund Industry 26:02 Technology's Impact on Investing 28:28 Behavioral Aspects of Investing 30:47 The Rise of ETFs 32:37 The Trust Factor in Finance 35:22 Tuning Out the Noise Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

TD Ameritrade Network
"Tune Out The Noise" | Why Dimensional Decided to Produce a Documentary

TD Ameritrade Network

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2025 26:30


Dimensional Fund Advisors Co-CEO Dave Butler joins Diane King Hall to discuss his company's role in presenting "Tune Out The Noise." Butler is a former Cal basketball player who found the financial world after hitting a fork in the road during his sports career. Find out more about the documentary but also Butler's approach to financial planning amid a volatile market.0:00-2:15 Intro & Dave Butler's NCAA Hoops Background2:16-3:33 Dimensional's Butler Nearly Went Into Teaching3:34-5:15 Message From "Tune Out the Noise" Documentary5:16-6:59 Approach to Financial Decision Making7:00-8:20 Managing Emotions in Investing8:21-9:55 Discipline in Investing9:56-12:55 Navigating Investing Losses12:56-16:19 Portfolio Management in a Volatile Market16:20-18:49 Why Dimensional Decided to Produce "Tune Out The Noise" Documentary18:50-20:25 Understanding Indexing20:26-21:59 "Rule of 7"22:00-25:28 Human Emotion in Volatile Markets25:29-26:15 Three Tenets from "Tune Out the Noise"Watch the full "Tune Out the Noise" film here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T98825bzcKw======== Schwab Network ========Empowering every investor and trader, every market day.Subscribe to the Market Minute newsletter - https://schwabnetwork.com/subscribeDownload the iOS app - https://apps.apple.com/us/app/schwab-network/id1460719185Download the Amazon Fire Tv App - https://www.amazon.com/TD-Ameritrade-Network/dp/B07KRD76C7Watch on Sling - https://watch.sling.com/1/asset/191928615bd8d47686f94682aefaa007/watchWatch on Vizio - https://www.vizio.com/en/watchfreeplus-exploreWatch on DistroTV - https://www.distro.tv/live/schwab-network/Follow us on X – https://twitter.com/schwabnetworkFollow us on Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/schwabnetworkFollow us on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/schwab-network/About Schwab Network - https://schwabnetwork.com/about

Jill on Money with Jill Schlesinger

Academy Award-winning filmmaker Errol Morris turns his lens to an unlikely cast of upstarts who transformed the investment landscape in the documentary Tune Out the Noise.  The film chronicles a group of academics at the University of Chicago in the 1960s whose groundbreaking research challenged Wall Street's status quo and was used by firms like Dimensional Fund Advisors to disrupt traditional methods of investing, ultimately reshaping the way the world views markets. On this episode of Jill on Money we're joined by Dimensional founder David Booth and Errol Morris. You can watch the film HERE.  Have a money question? Email us here Subscribe to Jill on Money LIVE YouTube: @jillonmoney Instagram: @jillonmoney Twitter: @jillonmoney "Jill on Money" theme music is by Joel Goodman, www.joelgoodman.com. To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The Long Term Investor
The Science of Investing and Tuning Out the Noise With David Booth (EP.194)

The Long Term Investor

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2025 35:04


Want to see what you may be overlooking in your finances? Discover your biggest opportunities in just 15 questions with my Financial Assessment.  -----  David Booth, founder of Dimensional Fund Advisors, joins me to discuss how academic research transformed investing by challenging Wall Street's stock-picking culture. We explore why markets function as an information-processing machine, how the efficient market hypothesis reshaped portfolio management, and why most investors are better off embracing evidence-based strategies.   Listen now and learn: ► How the rise of evidence-based investing disrupted traditional stock-picking. ► The role of human ingenuity in driving long-term investment returns. ► How to separate signal from noise and focus on what really matters for your portfolio.   Visit www.TheLongTermInvestor.com for show notes, free resources, and a place to submit questions.   (02:00) From Selling Shoes to the Science of Investing (04:08) The University of Chicago & The Birth of Evidence-Based Investing (06:30) Wall Street's Traditional Approach vs. The Academic Revolution (14:00) The Hidden Order in Markets—And Why Human Ingenuity Drives Returns (16:30) The First Index Funds & The Rise of Dimensional (24:50) Active vs. Passive? Why That's the Wrong Debate (28:00) Separating Signal from Noise—How Investors Get Distracted  (29:50) Why More Investors Haven't Adopted the Science of Investing (33:00) David's Advice to His Younger Self

Lifetime Cash Flow Through Real Estate Investing
Ep #1,064 - The Secret to Buying Real Estate with Zero Money In 2025

Lifetime Cash Flow Through Real Estate Investing

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2025 41:58


Morgan Ehrenzeller is an entrepreneur who, growing up in a small town of 700 people, made a promise at 13 to build a better life for his family. By 14, he had launched a software company, generating $1,000 a day in sales by 16. At 17, he purchased his first duplex, marking the start of his real estate journey. Now, at 27, Morgan privately owns 198 rental units, not tied to any syndication or fund. His story is a testament to grit, vision, and taking calculated risks, offering both inspiration and actionable insights. Here's some of the topics we covered: From Teenage Hustler to Real Estate Mogul How He Started Earning $1,000 a Day as a Teenager The Ultimate Shortcut to Financial Independence Mastering Networking Secrets to Crushing It in Any Market The Power of Seller Bonding to Unlock Deals Others Can't Touch Unfiltered Beginning Investor Advice Morgan's Fiery Real Estate Horror Story The Best Parts of Real Estate You Can't Learn From a Book How to Tune Out the Noise and Make Bold Moves in Real Estate The One Core Value Every Investor Needs to Win Big   To find out more about partnering or investing in a multifamily deal: Text Partner to 72345 or email Partner@RodKhleif.com    For more about Rod and his real estate investing journey go to www.rodkhleif.com   Please Review and Subscribe  

The Adam and Dr. Drew Show
Big Picture, Lots of Trouble

The Adam and Dr. Drew Show

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2025 66:44


Adam and Drew discuss the "Tune Out" factor in todays society and take calls on anxiety, Alanon and abortion

The Rational Reminder Podcast
Episode 331 - Cameron in Norway: The Indexing Revolution, and Key Lessons from Past Guests

The Rational Reminder Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2024 60:49


In today's episode, Cameron sits down with Mark McGrath to talk about his trip to Trondheim, Norway, the event he attended there, and his presentation in which he shared top lessons from prestigious Rational Reminder Podcast guests. Tuning in, you'll hear Cameron's top takeaways from conversations with Nobel laureate Eugene Fama and his collaborator Kenneth French, as well as Robert Merton, Antti Ilmanen, Professor Ludovic Phalippou, and more. We also delve into the changing industry trends regarding index investing and the many benefits that come with embracing it, including how it helps financial advisors better serve their clients. Stay tuned for our after-show section, where we discuss advice for new advisors, from developing a robust investment philosophy to building a network, along with insights to help consumers navigate the industry and much more. To learn all about Cameron's trip to Norway, top guest takeaways, and industry trends around index investing, be sure to tune in!   Key Points From This Episode:   (0:01:13) An overview of today's episode and a discussion on industry trends. (0:03:56) Our conversation with Håkon Kavli on managing Reitan Kapital. (0:04:38) What it was like for Cameron to meet Håkon Kavli and Magnus Reitan in Norway. (0:05:42) The excellent event in Trondheim, Norway, and their impressive lineup of speakers. (0:08:56) Unpacking industry trends in index investing and why more people are embracing it. (0:09:42) The light bulb moment for Mark and Cameron regarding index investing. (0:19:07) Highlights from our interviews with Eugene Fama, Ken French, and Robert Merton. (0:25:28) Dr. Annamaria Lusardi's insights and takeaways from our John Cochrane interview. (0:29:05) Top lessons from our conversation with Antti Ilmanen on low-expected returns. (0:30:58) Insights from talking with Professor Ludovic Phalippou about private equity. (0:32:22) Closing thoughts on Cameron's presentation in Norway and index investing trends. (0:39:44) Our aftershow segment: advice for new advisors, ways the industry has changed, tips for consumers, technology insights, personal updates, and more.   Links From Today's Episode: Meet with PWL Capital: https://calendly.com/d/3vm-t2j-h3p Rational Reminder on iTunes — https://itunes.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-rational-reminder-podcast/id1426530582. Rational Reminder Website — https://rationalreminder.ca/  Rational Reminder on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/rationalreminder/ Rational Reminder on X — https://x.com/RationalRemindRational Reminder on TikTok — www.tiktok.com/@rationalreminder Rational Reminder on YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/channel/ Rational Reminder Email — info@rationalreminder.caBenjamin Felix — https://pwlcapital.com/our-team/ Benjamin on X — https://x.com/benjaminwfelix Benjamin on LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminwfelix/ Cameron Passmore — https://pwlcapital.com/our-team/ Cameron on X — https://x.com/CameronPassmore Cameron on LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/cameronpassmore/ Mark McGrath on LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/markmcgrathcfp/ Mark McGrath on X — https://x.com/MarkMcGrathCFP Episode 321: Evidence in Practice with Håkon Kavli – https://rationalreminder.ca/podcast/321 Professor Marcos López de Prado — https://www.orie.cornell.edu/faculty-directory/marcos-lopez-de-prado Erik Hilde — https://www.linkedin.com/in/erik-hilde-9570a785/?originalSubdomain=no Dan Bortolotti — https://www.canadianmoneysaver.ca/authors/dan-bortolotti Canadian Couch Potato Blog — https://canadiancouchpotato.com/ Canadian Couch Potato Podcast — https://canadiancouchpotato.com/podcast/ Justin Bender — https://www.linkedin.com/in/justin-bender-cfa-cfp%C2%AE-tep-195b8b27/?originalSubdomain=ca Episode 200: Prof. Eugene Fama — https://rationalreminder.ca/podcast/200 Tune Out the Noise — https://www.dimensional.com/film Episode 100: Prof. Kenneth French — https://rationalreminder.ca/podcast/100 Episode 234: Prof. Robert C. Merton — https://rationalreminder.ca/podcast/234 Episode 232: Dr. Annamaria Lusardi — https://rationalreminder.ca/podcast/232 Episode 169: Prof. John Cochrane — https://rationalreminder.ca/podcast/169 Episode 202: Antti Ilmanen – https://rationalreminder.ca/podcast/202 Episode 210: Prof. Ludovic Phalippou — https://rationalreminder.ca/podcast/210 Fama and French Three Factor Model — https://www.investopedia.com/terms/f/famaandfrenchthreefactormodel.asp Books From Today's Episode: Investing Amid Low Expected Returns — http://www.aqr.com/serenity The Empowered Investor — https://www.amazon.ca/Empowered-Investor-Canadian-Investment-Experience/dp/0991978307  

Oxford Bible Church - Living in the Last Days
Tuning into Heaven's Wavelength - Simon Potter

Oxford Bible Church - Living in the Last Days

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 22, 2024 28:30


Psalm 95:6-7: “Come, let us worship and bow down; let us kneel before the Lord our Maker. For He is our God, and we are the people of His pasture, and the sheep of His hand. Today, if you will HEAR His VOICE” (quoted in Heb 3:7,15, 4:7). God is speaking today! *I. God is BROADCASTING (Ps 95:7b). Clearly God is speaking. He spoke from the beginning (Gen 1:3) and He is speaking now. He has a voice and He speaks with a purpose, for He wants to be heard. Yet, not everybody is hearing what He is saying to them: “IF you will HEAR His VOICE.” Let's have confidence God is talking today. The question is: “Will we hear Him?” His voice comes to us in many different ways. That's how much He wants to be heard! He talks to us through His Creation (Rom 1:20, Ps 19:1). He also speaks directly with us through dreams, visions and angels. And He speaks through the still, small voice. He speaks with us very personally. He desires to communicate with us. Built into us is a desire to communicate with Him. God is broadcasting constantly, but are we in a position to receive what He is saying? *II. We have a RECEIVER (Ps 95:7a). God is broadcasting, and we have a built-in RECEIVER to hear from God! He made us in His image for fellowship with Himself. He made us to hear His voice. When we are born again, with our spirits made new - we are in a position to receive what God is broadcasting. Even if you are not a Christian, He is reaching out to reveal Himself to you all the time. Those signals are emanating from Him continually, reaching out to our hearts. Why do we know we can hear His voice? Ps 95:7: “He is our God, and we are the people of His pasture, and the sheep of His hand” – this speaks of a personal relationship! (also Ps 23:1-2: “The Lord is my Shepherd...He leads me beside the still waters.” Notice how personal this is! He is not hiding Himself from us; He hides Himself FOR us (Matt 7:7). It does not say: “Today, IF God is speaking to me.” No! it says: “Today, IF I will hear His voice.” God IS speaking to us today! The problem is not with Heaven's radio station, but with my receiver! Perhaps we are waiting for God to speak to us in some extravagant, external way, but instead He has a better way to communicate with us – quietly, within our hearts. How often do we mistake what God is saying to us for our own thoughts? Sometimes we miss God's speech, as it comes to us so simply & gently. So often, God speaks to us, but we miss what He is saying, as we are not TUNED IN to His wavelength. The enemy lies to us that God is silent, distant, unconcerned with the details of our lives. But the truth is that He is intimately concerned with every detail of our lives, which is why He is so willing to speak to us at all times and circumstances. He is speaking to us, but are we receiving His voice? Are we hearing God, or are we so tense, nervous and agitated, that we can't hear from God? There's too much static! In John 10, Jesus uses this image of the sheep and the true Shepherd, who cares for His sheep. We are His sheep (Ps 95:7), and “His sheep hear His voice” (John 10:3a). Don't doubt that. We DO hear Him. "and He calls His own sheep by name and leads them out. And when He brings out His own sheep, He goes before them; and the sheep follow Him, for they know His voice” (v3b-4). It's so personal. He is leading us by His voice. Are we tuned in to His voice? We have a receiver in us, for the Holy Spirit lives inside us. He is built in to the centre of our being! v5: “they will by no means follow a stranger, but will flee from him, for they do not know the voice of strangers.” The devil likes to imitate God's voice, but the more we are in God's Word, we can be sure we know His voice, as we are familiar with it. His voice is in His Word! As we familiarize ourselves with His Word, we can build that confidence that we hear His voice. John 10:27: “My sheep hear My voice, and I know them, and they follow Me." *III. Let's turn the DIAL (Ps 95:6). God is BROADCASTING, and I have a RECEIVER. I am His sheep and I hear His voice. So why am I not hearing it? It may just be a question of TUNING! Fine tune the dial. Find the right wavelength and exclude the wrong wavelength. After all the activity of Ps 95:1-2, we come to v6: “Oh come, let us worship and BOW DOWN; let us KNEEL before the Lord our Maker.” In this moment, our bodies and flesh are IMMOBILISED. This agrees with Rom 12:1. As we do that, we are ruling out all that static that gets in the way and interferes with us hearing from God. We can just be still and know that He is God (Ps 46:10). So, God is BROADCASTING, and we can RECEIVE and hear His voice. Let's TUNE OUT all the other voices & noises, and let's hear from Him. Let's trust Him! How do we do that? Let's just bow before Him, and be quiet before Him. He is speaking. We can hear Him. Let's not doubt that!

Oxford Bible Church - Living in the Last Days (audio)
Tuning into Heaven's Wavelength - Simon Potter

Oxford Bible Church - Living in the Last Days (audio)

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 22, 2024 28:30


Psalm 95:6-7: “Come, let us worship and bow down; let us kneel before the Lord our Maker. For He is our God, and we are the people of His pasture, and the sheep of His hand. Today, if you will HEAR His VOICE” (quoted in Heb 3:7,15, 4:7). God is speaking today! *I. God is BROADCASTING (Ps 95:7b). Clearly God is speaking. He spoke from the beginning (Gen 1:3) and He is speaking now. He has a voice and He speaks with a purpose, for He wants to be heard. Yet, not everybody is hearing what He is saying to them: “IF you will HEAR His VOICE.” Let's have confidence God is talking today. The question is: “Will we hear Him?” His voice comes to us in many different ways. That's how much He wants to be heard! He talks to us through His Creation (Rom 1:20, Ps 19:1). He also speaks directly with us through dreams, visions and angels. And He speaks through the still, small voice. He speaks with us very personally. He desires to communicate with us. Built into us is a desire to communicate with Him. God is broadcasting constantly, but are we in a position to receive what He is saying? *II. We have a RECEIVER (Ps 95:7a). God is broadcasting, and we have a built-in RECEIVER to hear from God! He made us in His image for fellowship with Himself. He made us to hear His voice. When we are born again, with our spirits made new - we are in a position to receive what God is broadcasting. Even if you are not a Christian, He is reaching out to reveal Himself to you all the time. Those signals are emanating from Him continually, reaching out to our hearts. Why do we know we can hear His voice? Ps 95:7: “He is our God, and we are the people of His pasture, and the sheep of His hand” – this speaks of a personal relationship! (also Ps 23:1-2: “The Lord is my Shepherd...He leads me beside the still waters.” Notice how personal this is! He is not hiding Himself from us; He hides Himself FOR us (Matt 7:7). It does not say: “Today, IF God is speaking to me.” No! it says: “Today, IF I will hear His voice.” God IS speaking to us today! The problem is not with Heaven's radio station, but with my receiver! Perhaps we are waiting for God to speak to us in some extravagant, external way, but instead He has a better way to communicate with us – quietly, within our hearts. How often do we mistake what God is saying to us for our own thoughts? Sometimes we miss God's speech, as it comes to us so simply & gently. So often, God speaks to us, but we miss what He is saying, as we are not TUNED IN to His wavelength. The enemy lies to us that God is silent, distant, unconcerned with the details of our lives. But the truth is that He is intimately concerned with every detail of our lives, which is why He is so willing to speak to us at all times and circumstances. He is speaking to us, but are we receiving His voice? Are we hearing God, or are we so tense, nervous and agitated, that we can't hear from God? There's too much static! In John 10, Jesus uses this image of the sheep and the true Shepherd, who cares for His sheep. We are His sheep (Ps 95:7), and “His sheep hear His voice” (John 10:3a). Don't doubt that. We DO hear Him. "and He calls His own sheep by name and leads them out. And when He brings out His own sheep, He goes before them; and the sheep follow Him, for they know His voice” (v3b-4). It's so personal. He is leading us by His voice. Are we tuned in to His voice? We have a receiver in us, for the Holy Spirit lives inside us. He is built in to the centre of our being! v5: “they will by no means follow a stranger, but will flee from him, for they do not know the voice of strangers.” The devil likes to imitate God's voice, but the more we are in God's Word, we can be sure we know His voice, as we are familiar with it. His voice is in His Word! As we familiarize ourselves with His Word, we can build that confidence that we hear His voice. John 10:27: “My sheep hear My voice, and I know them, and they follow Me." *III. Let's turn the DIAL (Ps 95:6). God is BROADCASTING, and I have a RECEIVER. I am His sheep and I hear His voice. So why am I not hearing it? It may just be a question of TUNING! Fine tune the dial. Find the right wavelength and exclude the wrong wavelength. After all the activity of Ps 95:1-2, we come to v6: “Oh come, let us worship and BOW DOWN; let us KNEEL before the Lord our Maker.” In this moment, our bodies and flesh are IMMOBILISED. This agrees with Rom 12:1. As we do that, we are ruling out all that static that gets in the way and interferes with us hearing from God. We can just be still and know that He is God (Ps 46:10). So, God is BROADCASTING, and we can RECEIVE and hear His voice. Let's TUNE OUT all the other voices & noises, and let's hear from Him. Let's trust Him! How do we do that? Let's just bow before Him, and be quiet before Him. He is speaking. We can hear Him. Let's not doubt that!

Kitchen Table Finance
S3E24 – Four Principles of Retirement Investments

Kitchen Table Finance

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2024 17:07


In this insightful episode, we explore the four fundamental principles to consider when planning your retirement investments. We break down the essential steps to ensure your financial security and peace of mind as you approach retirement. You can survive when the market twists and turns and throws you loose and you think that things are coming apart. Watch on YouTube HERE Key Highlights 1. Expect a Balance Between Extremes Key Point: The worst-case and best-case scenarios are equally unlikely. Discussion: It's important to remember that the truth will typically fall somewhere in the middle. Both the world and the markets have faced and survived numerous challenges. Pausing and reflecting on this can help mitigate fear and anxiety about future investments. 2. Tune Out the Noise Key Point: Focus on your long-term plan and ignore short-term market fluctuations. Discussion: When you hear negative news and feel emotional, it's crucial to have a solid foundation of safe investments. This allows you to stay calm and collected about your long-term retirement account despite current events. 3.  Growth Periods Always Outweighed The Bad Times Key Point: Essentially, the average bear market runs about 14 months with 36 % declines, but the average bull market runs almost six years with a cumulative return of almost 200%. Discussion: There are going to be bad times, but also there are some really good times. So don't forget about those because that's what drives the growth. 4. You Can't Avoid Investment Risk and Expect Higher Returns Key Point: The more risk you take with your portfolio the higher we expect your return to be over time. Discussion: You can reduce your risk, you can hold more in cash, and you can mix more bonds into your portfolio, but you've got to expect then that your return will be lower over time. Listener Feedback We encourage our listeners to reach out and share their experiences or questions about retirement investments. Email us at info@srbadvisors.com. Conclusion Planning for retirement can be daunting, but by adhering to these four principles, you'll be well on your way to building a secure financial future. Stay informed, stay calm, and always keep a long-term perspective. Thank you for tuning in! Don't forget to subscribe to our podcast for more expert advice and insights on retirement planning.

Andrew Petty is Dying
Ep. 099 | How to Stay Positive and Free from Fear when the News is Overwhelmingly Bad and Fear-based

Andrew Petty is Dying

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2024 28:24


How can we stay positive and free from fear when the news is overwhelmingly bad and fear-based? I got this topic idea in the form of a question from a good friend and a former guest on this show, Frederic Tate. You can find him on Ep. 056 Ignore at Your Own Risk: How Your Relationship with Death Affects Your Quality of Life, with Dr. Frederic Tate. Frederic's a fascinating guy with a fascinating story. I thoroughly enjoyed that interview, and I wholeheartedly recommend that episode.  Frederic's experience is that it is difficult to stay positive and free from fear when he perceives the news to be overwhelmingly bad and fear-based. Many of you can relate. It is a wild time to be alive on planet earth.  In this episode, I offer 5 specific ways to stay positive and free from fear when the news is overwhelmingly bad and fear-based: Practice solitude. Consume the news in small doses and pick your sources thoughtfully. Invest much more of your time, energy, and attention in things that are within your realm of influence than in things that aren't.  Nurture meaningful relationships and cultivate more as needed.  Cultivate a relationship with the Transcendent.  I elaborate quite a bit on each of those five points, and point three has several supporting subpoints, so tune into the full episode for the full benefit–including a discussion of some of the particular perils and pitfalls to avoid that are uniquely associated with the globalized age we live in.   Remember: You ARE going to die. But you're not dead yet. So get after it!   Let's Connect Find me on Facebook, Instagram and LinkedIn, visit my website, or email me.    Follow Andrew Petty is Dying & Leave a Review Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Google Podcasts   If You Liked This Episode, I Think You'll Like These, Too Ep. 022 | Tune Out to Tune In: Hearing & Heeding Your Inner Voice in a World Full of Noise Ep. 081 | How to Change the World: An Antidote to Apathy and Despair in an Age of Doom and Gloom  

Andrew Petty is Dying
Ep. 097 | Evolve: Create an Ending to Make Way for a New Beginning

Andrew Petty is Dying

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2024 14:21


This episode is different in a few notable ways. First, it's extemporaneous. Second, I recorded it to video for release on my fledgling YouTube channel, where all of my past episodes currently reside. Finally, I share news about the future of the podcast–an ending to make way for a new beginning.  Key moments in this episode include: 00:00:01 - Embracing Change and New Beginnings 00:03:24 - Pursuing a Unified Framework 00:08:07 - Making Bold Choices 00:11:10 - Moving Forward with Conviction 00:13:48 - Seeking Audience Input Remember, you ARE going to die. But you're not dead yet. So get after it!   Let's Connect Find me on Facebook, Instagram and LinkedIn, visit my website, or email me.     Follow Andrew Petty is Dying & Leave a Review Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Google Podcasts | Stitcher   If You Liked This Episode, I Think You'll Like These, Too Ep. 022 | Tune Out to Tune In: Hearing & Heeding Your Inner Voice in a World Full of Noise Ep. 032 | Reimagining Productivity: A Path to Greater Freedom and Fulfillment

Sound Investing
The Most Important Advice I know

Sound Investing

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2024 16:53


Trust is the key for most investors to stay the course for the long term.  I formed a lasting trust in the academic work of Drs. Fama and French when I attended a 2 or 3 day workshop at Dimensional Fund Advisors in 1994.  That trust led our firm to use the DFA funds since the mid 90s.  While I believe there are a lot of people who find our long term studies helpful, I'm not sure that all of those people understand that almost all of our studies that go back to 1928 are based on the work of the academics who are associated with DFA.If you don't immediately feel better about the source of our data, I think you will feel better if you watch the new documentary, “Turn Off the Noise.”  I sent it to Daryl and he responded, “Spectacular!”   I sent it to Chris and his response was, “We stand on tall shoulders.”You can watch the documentary at no cost by going here.  You will be asked to fill in a few pieces of information and use the Access Code: RATIONAL  This offer only extends through January 31, 2024Then I would like you to watch a wonderful interview of Errol Morris, an Academy Award-winning film director and author.   The following are the notes from interviewers Ben Felix and Cameron Passmore.In today's episode, Errol Morris, Academy Award-winning film director and author, joins us to talk about his recently released documentary called Tune Out the Noise. The documentary focuses on the revolution that's happened in the financial system, how the markets work, and why the advancements made are so vital. Errol is an acclaimed figure in film and literature, boasting an impressive array of accolades, notably securing an Oscar for his renowned documentary The Fog of War. His work spans various arenas, encompassing short films for prestigious events and many charitable and political organizations. In our conversation, we delve into the significance of storytelling in communicating complex subjects, the power of serendipity, the evolution of finance, and the enigmatic nature of truth. We discuss the necessity of storytelling, the unexpected occurrences that influenced finance, the importance of empirical data in understanding truth, the central story of Tune Out the Noise, and much more. He also provides insights into the amazing economists, many of whom are past guests, who helped shape the financial landscape. Discover how chance, humility, and the pursuit of truth intertwine in this captivating episode, where the intriguing art of storytelling converges with the complexities of the financial world. Tune in now!

The Rational Reminder Podcast
Episode 286: Errol Morris: Tuning out the Noise

The Rational Reminder Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2024 60:48


In today's episode, Errol Morris, Academy Award-winning film director and author, joins us to talk about his recently released documentary called Tune Out the Noise. The documentary focuses on the revolution that's happened in the financial system, how the markets work, and why the advancements made are so vital. Errol is an acclaimed figure in film and literature, boasting an impressive array of accolades, notably securing an Oscar for his renowned documentary The Fog of War. His work spans various arenas, encompassing short films for prestigious events and many charitable and political organizations. In our conversation, we delve into the significance of storytelling in communicating complex subjects, the power of serendipity, the evolution of finance, and the enigmatic nature of truth. We discuss the necessity of storytelling, the unexpected occurrences that influenced finance, the importance of empirical data in understanding truth, the central story of Tune Out the Noise, and much more. He also provides insights into the amazing economists, many of whom are past guests, who helped shape the financial landscape. Discover how chance, humility, and the pursuit of truth intertwine in this captivating episode, where the intriguing art of storytelling converges with the complexities of the financial world. Tune in now!   Rational Reminder listeners get exclusive first access to Tune Out the Noise, a documentary directed by Academy Award-winner Errol Morris until January 31.  Tune Out The Noise Access URL:  film.dimensional.com/podcast Access Code (available until Jan 31): RATIONAL   Key Points From This Episode: Introduction and background about our special guest, Errol Morris. (0:00:18) The central story of his new documentary, Tune Out the Noise, and why it is important for the average person to see. (0:07:33) Hear his personal thoughts on investing before the documentary and how his investment philosophy has evolved. (0:12:38) A brief history of the documentary and initial concerns surrounding the project. (0:16:10) Motivation for making it an “Errol Morris film” as opposed to a typical commercial project. (0:18:21) The moment he had an epiphany about making the documentary and telling the story of the financial revolution. (0:20:27) He shares his personal investment experience in the early days of Apple. (0:23:19) Errol's skepticism about beating the market and the interviewees that had the biggest impact on him. (0:24:23) Iconic influencers of the overall financial revolution story that were not in the film. (0:27:50) The importance of storytelling for conveying complex financial concepts. (0:31:31) Unexpected revelations about the financial system and investing after making the documentary. (0:34:52) Explore the role of chance and serendipity in the financial revolution. (0:36:56) Aspects of the financial revolution story that are underappreciated by investors. (0:40:40) How the approach to making Tune Out the Noise differed from his previous projects. (0:44:30) Ben and Cameron share their opinions about the documentary. (0:50:09) Discover his “shut-up school” approach to interviewing and the fundamentals of a good interview. (0:52:13) Essential advice to become a better storyteller and Errol's definition of success. (0:58:07)   Links From Today's Episode:   Errol Morris — https://errolmorris.com Errol Morris Email — info@errolmorris.com Tune Out the Noise — https://www.austinfilm.org/films/test-screening-tune-out-the-noise/ The Fog of War — https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0317910/ The Thin Blue Line — https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0096257/ Believing Is Seeing — https://www.amazon.com/Believing-Seeing-Observations-Mysteries-Photography/dp/1594203016/ A Wilderness of Error — https://www.amazon.com/Wilderness-Error-Trials-Jeffrey-MacDonald/dp/B009GKGSEC/ Gates of Heaven — https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0077598 Dimensional Fund Advisors — https://www.dimensional.com/ The Art of Controversy — https://www.amazon.com/Art-Controversy-Arthur-Schopenhauer/dp/160459571X The Pigeon Tunnel — https://www.imdb.com/title/tt28486633/ Rational Reminder on iTunes — https://itunes.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-rational-reminder-podcast/id1426530582. Rational Reminder Website — https://rationalreminder.ca/  Rational Reminder on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/rationalreminder/ Rational Reminder on X — https://twitter.com/RationalRemind Rational Reminder on YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/channel/ Rational Reminder Email — info@rationalreminder.caBenjamin Felix — https://www.pwlcapital.com/author/benjamin-felix/  Benjamin on X — https://twitter.com/benjaminwfelix Benjamin on LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminwfelix/ Cameron Passmore — https://www.pwlcapital.com/profile/cameron-passmore/ Cameron on X — https://twitter.com/CameronPassmore Cameron on LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/cameronpassmore/  

Student Radio Maastricht
S06E21 Tune Out SE 06 Dec 2023

Student Radio Maastricht

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2023 41:47


Tune-in to Tune Out! in this radio-podcast episode we host the cover band - Tune Out - to talk about their background, inspirations and creations! We dig deep into their creative process from selecting a track to experimenting with genres. We touch upon their experiences of live performances and recording covers to recording a video and plans for the future! Dont miss out on this insightful episode on balancing work, studies and music as a career or as a hobby! https://www.instagram.com/tuneout_music/

Student Radio Maastricht
S06E15 Redwood Studio 08 Nov 2023

Student Radio Maastricht

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 8, 2023 63:03


Redwood Studio opens their sonic doors tonight as we come together with Trov Music and Tune Out sharing some of their production hits and talk about their musical journeys exclusively on SRM! Don't miss out on this epic episode bringing you international hits produced at Redwood Studio getting a sneak peak into the inner workings of this professional recording space and the wider community they involve!

Andrew Petty is Dying
Ep. 090 | A Tale of Two Mountaineers: How Comfort Sabotages Our Contentment, and What to Do About It

Andrew Petty is Dying

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2023 10:03


Do you desire genuine fulfillment and contentment? Are you searching for a way to achieve true satisfaction and inner peace? In this episode, I'll reveal an antidote to discontentment. By embracing the hero's journey, you can unlock the path towards lasting contentment, breaking free from the sabotaging clutches of comfort and convenience. It's simple in principle, but far from easy in reality. Perhaps that's why so many of us avoid it. But don't let that be you. Wide (and easy!) is the way that leads to discontentment, and many find it. Narrow (and hard!) is the way that leads to contentment and becoming someone you genuinely feel good about. Take the narrow way!   In this episode, you will learn how to: Discover the transformative power of embracing the hero's journey to find true fulfillment and purpose in life. Uncover the surprising truth about mistaking comfort for fulfillment and learn how to break free from the cycle to find lasting contentment. Explore the importance of pursuing goals and personal growth, and learn strategies to overcome obstacles and achieve your dreams. Understand how hardships is the way to profound personal transformation, and gain insights on how to navigate challenges with resilience and grace. Embrace living with urgency and learn how to pursue your dreams with passion and determination, creating a life filled with meaning and satisfaction.   Key moments in this episode include: 00:00:01 - The Reasons for Discontentment 00:02:10 - Steve's Decision 00:05:04 - Laura's Triumph 00:07:02 - Base Camp vs. the Summit 00:08:33 - Becoming the Hero of Your Own Story   Your Companion for the Journey This episode draws upon the truths embedded in the Hero's Journey, an ancient pathway for a life of purpose and adventure. To learn more about the Hero's Journey, tune in to Ep. 086, The Best is Yet to Come, where my guest, Jon Ritner, and I introduce you to the Hero's Journey through the lenses of our own stories.  I'm here to help you summon the clarity and courage to embark on the Hero's Journey that's calling to you and stay the course. Connect with me on Facebook, Instagram and LinkedIn, visit my website, or email me.    Follow Andrew Petty is Dying & Leave a Review Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Google Podcasts | Stitcher   If You Liked This Episode, I Think You'll Like These, Too Ep. 022 | Tune Out to Tune In: Hearing & Heeding Your Inner Voice in a World Full of Noise Ep. 005 | How to Become the Boss of Your Fear: Bravery-building to Live With More Guts and Gusto Ep. 089 | Unleashing Your Potential: Chris Slota's Journey to a Purposeful Life

Andrew Petty is Dying
Ep. 089 | Unleashing Your Potential: Chris Slota's Journey to a Purposeful Life

Andrew Petty is Dying

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2023 49:42


Have you been told that the key to building a fulfilling and meaningful life is to simply follow the conventional path and do what society expects of you? Here's the hard truth: By blindly following this path, you may be feeling stuck, unfulfilled, and lacking a sense of purpose. It's time to break free from these limiting beliefs and discover your true passions, unlocking the potential for personal growth and transformation. Meet Chris Slota Chris Slota embodies the essence of personal growth and transformation. With a background in the corporate world, Chris found himself at a crossroads, feeling unfulfilled and yearning for something more. Through his journey of self-discovery, he made the courageous decision to explore his true passions and create an even more purposeful life. Chris's story is a testament to the power of answering the question, "What do you want?" and the incredible impact it can have on our overall well-being and fulfillment. Join Andrew Petty and Chris as they delve into the stages of the Hero's Journey and discuss the practical wisdom that Chris gained along the way. Get ready to be inspired by Chris's remarkable personal transformation and learn valuable insights for building a fulfilling and meaningful life. You are in control of your own life. If you want to wallow in sorrow, you are welcome to do so. It's a free country, but you're probably not going to get anywhere if you do it. - Chris Slota In this episode, you will learn how to: Unleash your potential for personal growth and transformation and unlock a life filled with endless possibilities. Take ownership of your life by understanding the importance of taking responsibility for your actions and choices. Embrace change with open arms and shed old ways that no longer serve you, paving the way for personal growth and transformation. Discover some of the keys to fulfillment and meaning in life, leading to a sense of purpose and joy in everything you do. Take Responsibility for Your Own Happiness and Success Taking responsibility for your happiness and success is crucial in the quest for self-improvement. Instead of blaming circumstances or other people, acknowledge and embrace your power to shape your life. Active participation in your life pushes you towards achieving your aspirations, resonating with Chris Slota's story of personal transformation, pursuit of passions, and overall happiness. Next Steps Join Growth Camp 2023 on October 14th to equip yourself with the tools to build a life of even more purpose and Adventure. Explore the Hero's Journey framework for living a good life with a capital G. Learn how to live a life of adventure and make unique contributions in the world. Reflect on the question "What do you want?" and take the time to answer it. Don't just focus on what you don't want, but truly explore your desires and aspirations. Consider the potential consequences of failing to answer this question. Consider joining a Graveyard Group to help navigate personal transformations and find clarity in life. Surround yourself with like-minded individuals who can support and guide you on your journey. Embrace the power of your Mortality and use it as a focal point to envision the life you want to live. Timestamped Summary of this Episode 00:01:09 - The Hero's Journey Andrew discusses the Hero's Journey framework as a template for living a purposeful life and making unique contributions in the world. He mentions that Growth Camp will leverage this framework to help listeners become the hero in their own story. 00:03:14 - Chris Slota's Story Andrew introduces Chris Slota and explains that Chris experienced a remarkable personal transformation by figuring out what he wants in life. He highlights the importance of answering the question, "What do you want?" and how it can lead to purpose and fulfillment. 00:05:17 - Challenging Times Chris describes his dissatisfaction with his corporate banking job, the stress of the global pandemic, and his struggle to figure out what he wanted in life. He shares how he felt detached from relationships and was generally unhappy during this time. 00:08:04 - Transformation Chris talks about his current state where he runs his own business, even though he is financially struggling. He wakes up with a smile on his face because he believes in what he's doing and feels fulfilled. He mentions the gratification of solving puzzles and helping people in a way that aligns with his values. 00:14:12 - Taking Responsibility for Change Chris reflects on the necessary change in his life and taking responsibility for himself. He discusses the positive impact it has had on his relationships and how he now focuses on building others up instead of complaining about things he can't control. 00:15:45 - Positive Influence on Others Chris shares how his attitude shift has positively affected those around him, particularly his wife. He emphasizes the importance of being a positive influence and building others up instead of complaining. 00:16:26 - Relationship Dynamics and Change Andrew discusses how when one partner in a relationship makes changes, it forces the other to deal with it and decide what it means for them. 00:18:07 - Starting a Business in Cryptocurrency Chris explains how his interest in cryptocurrency led him to start a business in the industry. He shares the challenges and uncertainties they faced in building a business that didn't exist before and how they had to figure out pricing and services. 00:22:25 - Growth and Opportunities Chris talks about the growth of their cryptocurrency advisory business and the opportunities that have come from it. He discusses the importance of customer feedback and being able to apply it directly to their business. He also mentions new ventures they're exploring, such as smart contracts and tax credit projects. 00:28:05 - Delayed Gratification and Creating a Better Reality Chris discusses the concept of delayed gratification and making sacrifices today for a better future. They mention Jordan Peterson's teachings on finding meaning and satisfaction in life through responsibility and hard work. Despite the stress, Chris wouldn't trade their current situation for their past, as they are moving towards something important to them. 00:29:11 - Enjoying the Journey and Smelling the Roses Successful business owners advise Chris to enjoy the journey and not just focus on the end goal. Chris reflects on their own experience, appreciating the growth they have achieved and the feedback they receive. They emphasize the importance of stopping to appreciate progress and finding excitement in the daily adventures. 00:30:43 - Loss vs. Gain in the Face of Challenges Andrew asks Chris how they would feel if everything they were working towards fell apart. Chris responds that even in that worst-case scenario, it would still be a gain because the awakening they had was not about the specific business but about recognizing their true desires and values. They learned to challenge traditional expectations and embrace the unknown. 00:32:25 - Moving Forward Without Knowing All the Hows Chris and Andrew discuss the importance of not getting stuck on knowing all the details and how to achieve a goal. Instead, they emphasize the importance of having a clear why and a clear what and starting to take action. Along the way, the actual questions that need to be answered and problems that need to be solved present themselves and are opportunities for growth and learning. Chris shares examples of challenges they faced. 00:41:33 - Metamorphosis and Personal Growth Chris describes his intense period of metamorphosis and personal growth, comparing it to a snake shedding its skin. He emphasizes that personal growth is not a one-time event but a continuous process of change, adaptation, and growth. He also highlights the importance of mindset and tools in enabling personal transformation. 00:42:49 - Recognizing Personal Growth Andrew acknowledges the positive changes he sees in Chris as a result of his personal growth journey. He mentions how others have also noticed Chris's transformation and how this growth is transferable and applicable to every aspect of life. 00:43:58 - Strength and Fortitude Despite not having achieved his desired financial goals yet, Andrew commends Chris for his personal growth and resilience. He believes Chris is now in a stronger position in life compared to two years ago, highlighting the importance of personal development beyond material success. 00:45:01 - Perceived Energy Shift Chris shares how others have noticed a positive change in his energy and demeanor. He believes in the power of energies and vibrations and finds it gratifying that people can perceive his personal growth, even if they are not aware of the specific changes he has undergone. What adventure is calling to you? How has Chris' story encouraged and empowered you to accept the call? What's just one thing, no matter how small, that you are willing and able to do to respond to the call?  Not Sure Where to Start? Start Here! Spots are still available at Growth Camp 2023 | The Best is Yet to Come this Saturday, October 14, at the Steamboat Social Club here in Steamboat Springs, CO, where you'll be equipped and empowered to embark on your own Adventure. To remove as many obstacles as possible to participating, I've overhauled the pricing. Now, you can have the whole one-day experience, valued at almost $700 for only $50. Or, you can name your own price, according to your perception of the event's value and your financial means.  Visit https://andrewpettycoaching.regfox.com/growthcamp2023 for complete details and to register.  Maybe Growth Camp is your first step? If it's calling to you, why not respond to the call? Thank you once again for your time and attention. I'm so glad you tuned in today. Don't forget to follow this show and share it with your friends, and I'll see you next time on Andrew Petty is Dying!   Let's Connect If this episode helped you, I'd love to know. Find me on Facebook, Instagram and LinkedIn, visit my website, or email me.    Connect with Chris Email | Instagram | Twitter | Website    Follow Andrew Petty is Dying & Leave a Review Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Google Podcasts    If You Liked This Episode, I Think You'll Like These, Too Ep. 086 | ​​The Best is Yet to Come: Rediscovering an Ancient Compass for a Life of Purpose and Adventure Today Ep. 088 | Becoming the Hero in Your Own Story: Overcoming Resistance and Fear on the Journey, with Vince Coleman Ep. 019 | The Cockpit is Yours: From Passenger to Pilot Ep. 021 | Sometimes, the Grass IS Greener: How a Familiar Bit of Conventional Wisdom Could be Holding You Back from the Life You Were Made to Live Ep. 022 | Tune Out to Tune In: Hearing & Heeding Your Inner Voice in a World Full of Noise

Plus Two Comedy/Stay Doomed
Tune Out: The Fall Line-up & The Strike

Plus Two Comedy/Stay Doomed

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2023 59:33


Stay Doomed has become Tune Out to support the writers and actors strikes. Show your support here: https://www.wgacontract2023.org/take-action/stand-with-writers As the actor and writes strike continues on, Laura and Noah take a look at what the major networks are rolling out this fall. This is not meant to promote the line-up to rather to evaluate how the strike is effecting TV today, and how networks are scrambling to fill holes. Check out our Patreon and you can vote on what we should watch next! https://www.patreon.com/PlusTwoComedy  Have an idea for what Stay Doomed should cover next? Already seen the show and have a question or comment for us to read on the podcast? Have a cocktail idea? Email us at TheStayDoomedShow@Gmail.com

Plus Two Comedy/Stay Doomed
Tune Out: Stand Up

Plus Two Comedy/Stay Doomed

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2023 62:19


Stay Doomed has become Tune Out to support the writers and actors strikes. Show your support here: https://www.wgacontract2023.org/take-action/stand-with-writers  Our wonderful patrons asked us to discuss our relationship with Stand Up Comedy. Check out our Patreon and you can vote on what we should watch next! https://www.patreon.com/PlusTwoComedy   Have an idea for what Stay Doomed should cover next? Already seen the show and have a question or comment for us to read on the podcast? Have a cocktail idea? Email us at TheStayDoomedShow@Gmail.com

Plus Two Comedy/Stay Doomed
Tune Out: The 5 Books that Made Us

Plus Two Comedy/Stay Doomed

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2023 47:26


Stay Doomed has become Tune Out to support the writers and actors strikes. Show your support here: https://www.wgacontract2023.org/take-action/stand-with-writers Our wonderful patrons asked us for some book recommendations. We took things in a different direction. Noah and Laura each pick the five books that had the biggest impact on their lives. Check out our Patreon and you can vote on what we should watch next! https://www.patreon.com/PlusTwoComedy   Have an idea for what Stay Doomed should cover next? Already seen the show and have a question or comment for us to read on the podcast? Have a cocktail idea? Email us at TheStayDoomedShow@Gmail.com

Plus Two Comedy/Stay Doomed
Tune Out: Rolling Stones Biggest TV Mistakes (25-1)

Plus Two Comedy/Stay Doomed

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2023 66:10


Stay Doomed has become Tune Out to support the writers and actors strikes. Show your support here: https://www.wgacontract2023.org/take-action/stand-with-writers Recently Rolling Stone Magazine released The 50 Worst Decisions in TV History. Noah and Laura went in blind, made some predictions and reacted to the second half of the list. Check out our Patreon and you can vote on what we should watch next! https://www.patreon.com/PlusTwoComedy  Have an idea for what Stay Doomed should cover next? Already seen the show and have a question or comment for us to read on the podcast? Have a cocktail idea? Email us at TheStayDoomedShow@Gmail.com

Andrew Petty is Dying
Ep. 086 | The Best is Yet to Come: Rediscovering an Ancient Compass for a Life of Purpose and Adventure Today

Andrew Petty is Dying

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2023 65:30


“Not only did this hero's journey resonate with a desire we all have, it felt like it told the story of the life I was actually living. And I think I realized that it wasn't a one-time adventure–that it had the potential to be a pattern or a framework that I could lean into and try to follow over and over again in order to find more meaning, more purpose, and more transformation in my life. In many ways it was what I was missing back in Virginia. I realized it was offering me a pathway, almost like guideposts on the journey that could deliver the things I wanted more of in life, which were meaning and purpose and significance.”  -Jon Ritner   Boredem, confusion, aimlessness, lack of purpose, lack of fulfillment, and a host of other emotional and psychological woes. These are some of the problems that, though they're not entirely new to humanity, seem especially rampant in the affluent Western world today. You might even be able to relate to one or two of them yourself.  When the modern age doesn't offer many useful remedies to these ills, where else can we look? It's time to return to the "old roads," to quote a line from an Andrew Peterson song. It's time to return to wisdom that has been generated over generations and stood the test of time. It's this wisdom that my long-time friend and colleague, Jon Ritner, and I unpack together in this episode through the lenses of our own stories.  It's the wisdom contained in The Hero's Journey, a compass for living derived, surprisingly enough, from humankind's core mythologies.  In this episode, you'll get a crash course in the Hero's Journey and an introduction to how to begin using it in your own life right now to vanquish the dragons of boredom, confusion, aimlessness, lack of purpose, lack of fulfillment, and the laundry list of other besetting woes. As you vanquish those dragons, you'll discover the treasure behind them that you were uniquely meant to find and share with the world. If you're willing, you're in for the adventure of your life.  This episode is also an appetizer for the main course that Jon and I will serve up this October at a special one-day event designed to fully equip you to use the Hero's Journey in your own life.    Introducing Jon Ritner Jon Ritner and I met in college in the early 90s. We were acquaintances then but became close friends in the years immediately following college, when we were roommates, each of us trying to find ourselves and find our way. We ended up on the same church staff together, a chapter in our stories full of highs and lows and lessons hard-won. We've seen each other at our best, and we've seen each other at our worst. Eventually, our paths diverged, and that's the point at which we pick up Jon's story today.  Jon has served as a pastor for 20 years in various capacities in the US and overseas. Today, he's the Chief Strategy Officer for Communitas International, a global non-profit. He also coaches leaders who are starting and shaping communities to live like Jesus, and the author of Positively Irritating, a philosophical and practical guide for faith leaders navigating the changing cultural realities in the western world. Jon and Kristyn, his wife of 22 years, live in Burbank, CA with their teenage son and daughter.    Highlights from This Conversation What The Hero's Journey is and why it matters in our real-world lives today How The Hero's Journey framework helped Jon make more sense of his life so far, and how it can do the same for you How The Hero's Journey helps Jon live a life of more purpose, meaning, and adventure today, and how it can do the same for you The distinguishing qualities of a Hero, and how to be one Why and how adventure is an antidote to so many of today's besetting woes, like boredom, aimlessness, confusion, and lack of purpose And more. Tune into the full episode for the rest of the good stuff.     SAVE THE DATE: Special Andrew Petty Coaching Event, Saturday October 14, at the Steamboat Social Club (brunch and dinner provided) I'm excited to announce a special Andrew Petty Coaching event–a one-day intensive that combines the inspiration of a great Ted Talk with the relational richness of a long lingering meal and tops it off with the insights and action steps you acquire from personal coaching. The event is called The Best is Yet to Come: Rediscovering an Ancient Compass for Living a Life of Purpose and Adventure. If today's episode has sparked something inside of you, then The Best is Yet to Come is just the thing to propel you forward on your next great adventure. This episode introduced you to The Hero's Journey, but The Best is Yet to Come will go deeper. We'll identify the reasons we so often fluctuate between listlessness and boredom in one season of life and then overwhelming stress and anxiety in the next. We'ill give you language to describe the call on your life as well as license to accept that call with courage and support. We'll help you move from victim to Hero in your own story and empower you to live a life you'll be outrageously proud of when you die. Whether you are just setting out on your journey or are stuck in a rut, this is the right time to declare that the best is yet to come! Keep your eyes peeled for registration details. Still figuring all that out...ha! In the meantime, how can I help you become who you were made to be and live the life you were made to live? Find me on Facebook, Instagram and LinkedIn, visit my website, or email me.  Thank you once again for your time and attention. Don't forget to follow this show and share it with your friends, and I'll see you next time on Andrew Petty is Dying!   Connect with Jon Email | Instagram | Facebook | LinkedIn | Website    Follow Andrew Petty is Dying & Leave a Review Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Google Podcasts | Stitcher   If You Liked This Episode, I Think You'll Like These, Too Ep. 005 | How to Become the Boss of Your Fear: Bravery-building to Live With More Guts and Gusto Ep. 012 | How to Harness the Winds of Discomfort to Get Where You Want to Go: Becoming a Seasoned Sailor on the Seas of Life Ep. 022 | Tune Out to Tune In: Hearing & Heeding Your Inner Voice in a World Full of Noise Ep. 025 | The Contentment Conundrum: Cracking the Code   Resources Mentioned in This Episode The Hero With a Thousand Faces (Joseph Campbell) The Writer's Journey (Christopher Vogler)

Plus Two Comedy/Stay Doomed
Tune Out: Rolling Stones Biggest TV Mistakes (50-26)

Plus Two Comedy/Stay Doomed

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2023 58:02


Stay Doomed has become Tune Out to support the writers and actors strikes. Show your support here: https://www.wgacontract2023.org/take-action/stand-with-writers Recently Rolling Stone Magazine released The 50 Worst Decisions in TV History. Noah and Laura went in blind, made some predictions and reacted to the first half of the list. Check out our Patreon and you can vote on what we should watch next! https://www.patreon.com/PlusTwoComedy  Have an idea for what Stay Doomed should cover next? Already seen the show and have a question or comment for us to read on the podcast? Have a cocktail idea? Email us at TheStayDoomedShow@Gmail.com

Plus Two Comedy/Stay Doomed
Tune Out: Best Theater Experiences

Plus Two Comedy/Stay Doomed

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2023 75:50


Stay Doomed has become Tune Out to support the writers and actors strikes. Show your support here: https://www.wgacontract2023.org/take-action/stand-with-writers This week Laura and Noah discuss the their best and worst theater experiences. Check out our Patreon and you can vote on what we should watch next! https://www.patreon.com/PlusTwoComedy   Have an idea for what Stay Doomed should cover next? Already seen the show and have a question or comment for us to read on the podcast? Have a cocktail idea? Email us at TheStayDoomedShow@Gmail.com

ONE Question: Unapologetic Questions for Unapologetic Results
151. ONE Question to Tune OUT the Noise and INTO What Most Supports Your Success

ONE Question: Unapologetic Questions for Unapologetic Results

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2023 32:10


You can't open up social media without getting a dose of advice for how you're supposed to run your business, make money, create success, and generally live your life.  And, I bet you've heard your fair share of unsolicited “business tips” from well-meaning family, friends, and peers.  It's a funny phenomenon - us humans love to make ourselves feel good by telling others what we know and think will help them - I know I got the most acting input from people who'd never set foot on a set or stage before

Plus Two Comedy/Stay Doomed
Tune Out: Taskmaster Casting

Plus Two Comedy/Stay Doomed

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2023 36:01


Stay Doomed has become Tune Out to support the writers and actors strikes. Show your support here: https://www.wgacontract2023.org/take-action/stand-with-writers To start the Tune Out Journey Laura and Noah take popular properties and cast them into series of Taskmaster. Check out our Patreon and you can vote on what we should watch next! https://www.patreon.com/PlusTwoComedy  Have an idea for what Stay Doomed should cover next? Already seen the show and have a question or comment for us to read on the podcast? Have a cocktail idea? Email us at TheStayDoomedShow@Gmail.com

The Rachel LaForce Show
Practicing Neutrality

The Rachel LaForce Show

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2023 38:03


Life is crazy and sh*t is hard! This week we are focusing on practicing the idea of staying neutral. It's like riding a snowboard, you keep repeating, keep trying until things just CLICK. News flash, you don't have to engage with everything. Boundaries anyone??? We're in the season of being unbothered, so just let things be. Save your energy, get out of your own way. Tune Out, Tune In. LYMI --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/rachel-laforce/support

Andrew Petty is Dying
The Global Fish Pond Crisis (Reboot): How to Establish and Stabilize Your Identity in this Global Age

Andrew Petty is Dying

Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2023 10:34


The previous episode laid out a simple way to change the world–one to which each of us can contribute. It's not easy, but thankfully it is simple.  This episode lays out a way to overcome one of the key obstacles we often encounter on the way to changing the world–namely, our own poorly-established and unstable identity. It's another timely reboot in an age that can sometimes feel incurably chaotic.    One Pond, Two Fish: Meet John John was born in 1952 in a small town in Michigan. His mom managed the homefront, his dad was an accountant, and he had two younger sisters. In keeping with the prevailing sentiment of the day, his mom and dad favored stability, predictability, and peace above all else since WWII was still painfully if not distantly visible in the rearview mirror. And John's dad was a combat veteran. Gratitude for the simplicity of small-town American life was a staple of John's family's ethic, and dreams of bigger and better things weren't exactly frowned upon, but they weren't encouraged either.  John went to school with the same 60 or so kids from K-12, watched the same regular TV programming as everyone else, and was glad to get a job at a local print shop when he graduated from high school. He liked art and design, and this seemed like a reasonable way to get a bit of that in his work while at the same time taking his place among the ranks of the responsible and productive.  John eventually bought the print shop after 20 years at the company and the establishment of his own family, and though each decade brought with it its own set of challenges in the world at large, John had a sense of who he was and what he did in the world. He was John, the son of Tom and Sally, from a small town in Michigan. He was a husband, father, business owner, and engaged member of his community. He was aware of the wider world and interested in its affairs, but he didn't spend much time concerning himself about things that didn't affect his immediate day-to-day or threaten to do so.  On the whole, John was content to be a decent-sized fish in a small pond in the middle of Michigan.    One Pond, Two Fish: Meet Alex Alex was born in 1995 in the same small Michigan town as John. The town was bigger when Alex was born, but not significantly so. It had simply grown the way that towns can when there aren't specific causes for decline but neither are there particular reasons for a boom. His mom was an IT manager who worked from home and his dad was a VP with a national healthcare provider. Alex was an only child.  Alex changed schools 4 times and moved to different neighborhoods twice in his K-12 years--the result of his parents' concerns about the quality of the education he was receiving and proximity to the airport for his dad's business trips. So, Alex had several different groups of friends over the years but became increasingly less social as the years wore on--fatigue from the social turnover taking its toll. By the time he was a sophomore in high school, smart phones and the proliferation of social media made it easier to interact from a distance and meet people outside of his hometown that he found more interesting. He was aware of the vastness of the world and the almost infinite options awaiting him. There was so...much...more out there than this little town had to offer.  By the time his senior year rolled around, Alex was counting down the milliseconds until graduation--when he was free to leave the stifling smallness of his hometown and explore new horizons. Maybe he'd visit his buddy Alex in Oregon, whose dad grew marijuana for medical use, or his online crush Lisa in Miami. His gaming buddy, Yoshi, had invited him to visit him in Tokyo. That would be amazing. The possibilities were endless.  Fast forward to the present day, and Alex's still a relatively young man at 26, but he's beginning to feel some internal pressure to figure some things out. He's lived in 4 different cities since high school graduation--all thankfully much different and in his opinion way more interesting than his hometown. But eventually, each city got a little old, or he had a hard time connecting with new people there, or the tech job he'd landed went away because of down-sizing or right-sizing or an acquisition. He's feeling a bit adrift. He's spending more and more time on social media--fantasizing about achieving the stardom and notoriety of a Gary V. or a Joe Rogan and peering into the lives of hundreds of people he doesn't know but whose lives look more interesting than his. This isn't helping. It creates a chronic sense of he's here and “they” are way over there--living in a magical land of financial ease and personal certainty. The gap seems to be widening with every passing day.  Plus, it appears to him that the world is beginning to crumble around him. Racial unrest, global pandemics, dishonest politicians, and environmental armageddon are just a few of the big things that threaten to do the world in any day now. At least, that's what he's hearing in the media. And can the media be trusted? If not they, then how does he get reliable info about the state of things? He feels like he ought to do something about at least one of these things. But which one? And what can he possibly do as just one guy? He feels increasingly like he's being swept along by a tidal wave of horrible inevitability that he's powerless against.  Alex is a small fish in a global fish pond. It's terrifying, and it's paralyzing.    The Global Fish Pond Crisis Hopefully, the juxtaposition of the portraits of these men from the same town but with very different experiences of the world illustrates the theory I want to share with you. Here's the theory, simply stated to make the implicit explicit: I think that most if not all of us are suffering at the hands of what I'm calling the Global Fish Pond Crisis. We're susceptible to some version of Alex's experience in the world. I actually think it's a big reason that people like me have a job doing what we do. People feel adrift in a global fish pond and need help making sense of their place in it.  Here's what I think is happening: When the whole world is at our fingertips 24/7 and the old ways of forming an identity aren't adequate anymore, then it's completely up to us to catalyze our identity--a term I first heard from Jordan Peterson--and stabilize it in the midst of a global pond churning with other fish trying to do the same thing. In John's case, geography and associated cultural norms provided reliable, local boundaries to his fish pond and formed a foundation for his identity. He was one fish among 20,000, not one among 7 Billion as we may feel ourselves to be today.  But perhaps the biggest problem with the Global Fish Pond Crisis is that we're not aware that it exists. We're tempted instead to think that we're just not cutting it. We may be aware of various degrees of psychological pain and suffering caused by it--like in Alex's case--but we're misattributing it to our own laziness or incompetency or lack of worth. This is a case in which I think many of us are truly being victimized. And that's why I bring it up. Because if this Global Fish Pond Crisis is actually a thing, then exposing it and its insidious effects on us means we can stop being victimized by it and start doing something about it.  We can go from unwitting victim to victor and find our place in the vast global pond in which we now swim. In an age where few of us are born into small local ponds anymore, we have the opportunity to appropriately claim a small part of the global pond for our own--a part of the pond small enough to actually make a difference.    How to Rescue Ourselves from the Global Fish Pond Crisis I think the way forward lies in each of us doing our best to assume even more complete responsibility for ourselves. To concern ourselves with those things that we can influence, to get our own houses in order, so to speak, and operate as productively as we know how right now, right where we are, with what we have. Staying zoomed out to the global view too much of the time leads to overwhelm and, frankly, I think it's a cop-out because we then blame the global situation for why we've failed to sort ourselves out. Because what can one person do when the world is burning down around us? That's victim stuff right there, and we're all susceptible to it in one way or another.   Zoom out every once in a while, sure--but zoom right back to your own here and now, and determine to do what you can right where you are. And I don't mean do what you can to fix the world. I mean do what you can to become the person you were made to be and live the life you were made to live. I think that when we do that, we actually fulfill the many desperate needs in the world better and more quickly, anyway.    Are You Struggling to Find Your Place in A Global Fish Pond? If this idea is scratching an itch for you--if you resonate with the idea of feeling like a tiny fish in a global pond--then resolve to do something about it in your own life right now. These four episodes of Andrew Petty is Dying will be especially useful as you take next steps to rescue yourself from the Global Fish Pond Crisis:  Ep. 019 | The Cockpit is Yours: From Passenger to Pilot Ep. 022 | Tune Out to Tune In: Hearing & Heeding Your Inner Voice in a World Full of Noise Ep. 025 | The Contentment Conundrum: Cracking the Code Ep. 035 | Build Your Personal Owner's Manual: Understand Yourself Better, Enjoy Yourself More, and Live the Life You were Made to Live Remember, you are going to die. But you aren't dead yet. So get after it!   I Can Help You I can help you escape the grip of the Global Fish Pond Crisis. I can help you establish and stabilize your identity so you can become the person you were made to be, live the life you were made to live, and do your part to change the world.   Visit my website to schedule a free first session.   I'm so glad you tuned in today. Don't forget to follow this show, and I'll see you next time on Andrew Petty is Dying.   Follow Andrew Petty is Dying & Leave a Review Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Google Podcasts | Stitcher   If You Liked This Episode, I Think You'll Like These, Too Ep. 019 | The Cockpit is Yours: From Passenger to Pilot Ep. 022 | Tune Out to Tune In: Hearing & Heeding Your Inner Voice in a World Full of Noise Ep. 025 | The Contentment Conundrum: Cracking the Code Ep. 035 | Build Your Personal Owner's Manual: Understand Yourself Better, Enjoy Yourself More, and Live the Life You were Made to Live

Andrew Petty is Dying
How to Change the World (Reboot): An Antidote to Apathy and Despair in an Age of Doom and Gloom

Andrew Petty is Dying

Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2023 8:44


Today's episode is a timely reboot from the archives. It's a reminder we can all benefit from and something we tend to lose sight of all too easily. It's an antidote to apathy and despair in an age of doom and gloom.   Doom and Gloom Abounds If environmental armageddon doesn't get us first, then a hostile nation's plans for global domination will. Maybe the Republicans will sink the ship and all hands will be lost. Or maybe it'll be the Democrats doing. What about AI--the potential for hyper-intelligent machines to take over the world and eradicate or enslave humanity? You thought COVID was tough? Just wait until the next super virus is unleashed by nameless, faceless, malevolent forces plotting our demise even as we speak.  Take your pick. There are no shortage of dire, doom and gloom scenarios to choose from these days. And the media and the internet serve up heaping quantities of it onto our psychological plates if we get in line for the 24/7 buffet.  I'm NOT saying, BTW, that there aren't genuine reasons to be concerned about the state of the world. There are--and, there always have been. In the modern digital age, though, it's possible to be aware of most of the challenges facing the world--or, at least, the existing portrayals of those challenges--and to be aware of them most of the time. That's infinitely more knowledge and awareness than any one of us can hold well in our hearts and minds or possibly act upon. And if we're not careful, it can lead us to despair, despondency, and inaction.  Where does that leave us, then? What CAN we do?  Good questions.  How do we change the world?   It's Simple, Actually I'm not going to bury the lead here. Let's get right to the point.  To change the world, simply be the best “you” that you can possibly be.  Profoundly simple. And FAR from easy. If it was easy, more of us would embrace it and live it out.  It's also far from a new idea. “Be the change you want to see in the world” is a statement derived from ideas that Gandhi put forth. As is “if you want to change the world, go home and love your family”--that one derived from Mother Teresa's way of thinking. Today, in his book 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos, Jordan Peterson sounds a similar note when he exhorts us all to “get our own house in perfect order” before we criticize the world or, by extrapolation, try to change the whole world.  It's not a new idea, but it seems to be one that needs to be revived in our hearts and minds these days. We forget. And we get swept up in the myriad of massive global concerns and take our eye off the ball right in front of us--the only ball that is really ours to carry. The ball of our One and Only Life, our unique path, and the purposes we alone can accomplish along that path.  We need to return to this simple idea and double-down on it in our own lives. As Natalie Niksa said in the previous episode, “we've lost our way because of all the shiny objects.” And in returning to this priority, we'll revitalize our personal power, passion, and purpose and reduce our sense of paralysis and powerlessness in the face of all of the world's woes. Then, we can really get to work, right where we are, with what we have.     Breaking It Down  But what does it mean to “be the best you that you can possibly be,” and how does that actually change the world?  It means taking radical responsibility for yourself. It means working your ass off to discover and express your unique self as fully as you can and bring your unique gifts into the world. It means dreaming the dreams that exist only within your heart and doing your damndest to fulfill them. It means doing the work to become the person you were made to be and live the life you were made to live. It means working your ass off to be the best spouse, partner, parent, neighbor, and employee, employer, or entrepreneur that you can be. It means dragging yourself over the finish line of your life utterly depleted AND utterly satisfied because you left it all out on the field.  For some, those efforts will yield global recognition and impact. For others of us, our efforts will only ever be known among those closest to us. Guess what? The scope and scale of our impact is irrelevant and, frankly, none of our business. It's not even knowable, in fact. We have no way of knowing how much of a difference our life will make--now, and in the years and generations to come. Our lives ripple into eternity, just like those before us ripple into ours.    Keep It Positive Make no mistake, though: There's no such thing as a neutral or no-impact life.  We don't get to control IF our life will make an impact or know how much of an impact we ultimately make, but we do get to influence what KIND of impact we'll make. Will it be negative because we shrank back, didn't take full responsibility for our One and Only life, and failed to show up--and our absence was a loss for those who needed us to show up? Or will it be positive--not because we showed up perfectly all the time, but rather because we did our very best to simply show up, to bring the best of ourselves to this fleeting life, day in and day out?  Carl Jung said that the greatest burden a child can take into adulthood is the unlived life of their parent.  In a slightly sillier context but with no less relevance, in the Lego movie Ninjago, Lloyd the good ninja tells his dad, the movie's arch villain, that he ruined his life. To which his dad, Lord Garmadon, replies, scoffingly, “How could I ruin your life? I wasn't even there.”    But How Does It Change the World?  If all of that at least makes a dent in understanding HOW to “be the best you that you can possibly be,” then that leaves the question of how it actually changes the world.  When we take responsibility for being the best versions of ourselves that we can possibly be, then we change ourselves. When we change ourselves, we change our world--the little part of the world that we call our own. Our family life changes, our work life changes, our community life changes. Then, as our world changes, by definition the world changes as the ripples move outward from us at the epicenter.  Change your life...change your world...change the world. That, my friends, is how we change the world.    Buckle Up, Buttercup The good news is that it's so simple. Our primary focus becomes simply evolving ourselves. As I said at the beginning, though, it's far from easy. There's no journey more challenging. But there's also no journey more completely satisfying and worthwhile. And if you're looking for more purpose and meaning, this journey will fill that cup to overflowing.  So buckle up, buttercup, and get to work becoming the best you that you can possibly be.  And remember, you are going to die. But you're not dead yet. So get after it!   Change the World in The Graveyard Group The Graveyard Group was created precisely for the purpose of helping you become the very best you that you can be. It combines the unsurpassed motivational horsepower of the Mortality Mindset with the force multiplying influence of your very own confidential board of advisors. Break free from the status quo, become who you were made to be, and live the life you were made to live.  New groups for men and women are forming now, and both in-person and virtual options are available.  Visit my website to learn more and schedule a free 1-1 coaching session to determine if The Graveyard Group is right for you.  BTW, this episode pairs well with episode 036, The Global Fish Pond Crisis, because it offers a solution to the Global Fish Pond Crisis. And no, episode 036 is not about a literal fish pond crisis; it's about the formidable challenges of constructing solid identities for ourselves in this modern, globalized age. If you haven't checked it out, and this one was meaningful to you, then I encourage you to do so.  I'm so glad you tuned in today. Don't forget to follow this show, and I'll see you next time on Andrew Petty is Dying.   Follow Andrew Petty is Dying & Leave a Review Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Google Podcasts | Stitcher   If You Liked This Episode, I Recommend These, Too Ep. 014 | Dare to Dream Again: The Antidote to a Mediocre Life Ep. 016 | The Question That Changes Everything: The Go-to Tool for Living the Life You Were Made to Live Ep. 022 | Tune Out to Tune In: Hearing & Heeding Your Inner Voice in a World Full of Noise Ep. 025 | The Contentment Conundrum: Cracking the Code Ep. 029 | Dragon Slayer: One Man's Tale of Heroic Life Renovation Ep. 035 | Build Your Personal Owner's Manual: Understand Yourself Better, Enjoy Yourself More, and Live the Life You were Made to Live

Andrew Petty is Dying
The Energy Gauge: A High-powered and Underrated Tool for Finding Your Unique Path in Life

Andrew Petty is Dying

Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2023 5:59


What does our energy have to do with finding our unique Path in life? A lot, as it turns out. Stay tuned to learn how to put it to work for you.     Energy for the Win It was 2015, and I was a couple years into a major personal and professional evolution–much of which I share about in greater detail in the earliest episodes of this show. Part of that evolution had included a move to CO. Now, after a self-administered period of sabbatical, it was time to begin getting clearer on what the next chapter would be for me professionally. Though I didn't have the language for it back then, through a long process of self-discovery supported by family, friends, colleagues, my first partnership with a coach, and insights gained through assessments and reflection, I had already created something very similar to my very own Personal Owner's Manual. To learn how to create yours, tune into episode 035, Build Your Personal Owner's Manual: Understand Yourself Better, Enjoy Yourself More, and Live the Life You were Made to Live.  As a result of all that work, I was beginning to lean toward coaching as the next step along my professional path. I wasn't yet committed to it, though. Until, that is, I began to recall when I felt more and less energized in my previous professional chapter. Hands-down, I realized, I felt more energized when I was having meaningful conversations in 1-1 and small group settings about how to move forward. Those conversations left me on a high and helped those involved. Conversely, I felt much less energized when I returned to most of the other parts of my job.  What kind of work would involve a lot more of those kinds of conversations, I wondered, and a lot less of all the other stuff? In light of the new clarity that reflecting on my energy had provided, in conjunction with the accumulated insights from all of my previous self-discovery, the field of coaching, broadly speaking, became the obvious next step on my professional path. So I summoned the courage to put my Insight into Action, and began to move forward on that path. After 7+ years of coaching, I can confidently say that my energy didn't let me down. It was a reliable guide then, and it continues to guide me well today. Your energy can do the same for you.    The Energy Gauge Imagine with me for a moment a dashboard. This isn't any old dashboard, though. It's your personal dashboard. Its gauges and indicator lights are specific to you, and from it you gain important information about how well you're functioning. Your fuel gauge tells you when it's time to rest, recover, and recharge. Your emotions gauge informs you about how you're responding to internal and external stimuli and where attention is needed. You get the idea. It's your dashboard, and you can customize it any way you'd like. I recommend making sure that one gauge is present and prominent on your dashboard, however–your Energy Gauge.  When we pay attention to our energy, we get rich real-world feedback about what we were made to do and what we weren't made to do. Watch when your energy gauge goes up and when it goes down. In both cases, take note of the specific conditions that are causing it to go up or down. Then, take action to engineer the circumstances of your life to allow you to do more of what energizes you and less of what doesn't.  The magic of the energy gauge lies at least in large part in the fact that when our energy goes up, we can be confident that our innate personality, abilities, gifts, and talents, our life experiences, our interests, and our values are all being put to use in some significant way. When our energy goes down, we can be confident that those things are less present.  In other words, when we pay attention to our energy gauge, we get all that and a bag of chips.  Whether you need a tweak, a major adjustment, or feel like you have no clue at all what your path in life is, your energy gauge will serve you well. It's simple, reliable, actionable, and powerful. It demystifies what can feel like a daunting and hopelessly complex pursuit, i.e. finding your path in life.  Anyone can use it, and you can begin using it right now. The keys to unlocking its potential are the Courage and Humility to act upon what you discover.  Tune in to episodes 077 and 078 to learn more about Courage, Humility, and the rest of the Big 6 essential ingredients in the recipe for a life you'll be outrageously proud of when you die.    Check Your Personal Energy Gauge What is your energy gauge telling you? What's one thing you're willing and able to change today to act on what it's telling you and get even clearer on your unique path in life?  Remember, you are going to die. But you're not dead yet. So get after it.    Dedicated Support for the Road Ahead It's one thing to pay attention to your energy gauge. It's another thing entirely to act on what it's telling you and stay the course. That's where a 1-1 coaching partnership with me can make all the difference. I'll help you break free from the grip of the Status Quo so that you can become who you were made to be and live the life you were made to live.  To learn more, visit my website to schedule a free session, find me on Facebook, Instagram and LinkedIn, or email me.  I'm so glad you tuned in today. Don't forget to follow this show, and I'll see you next time on Andrew Petty is Dying.   Follow Andrew Petty is Dying & Leave a Review Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Google Podcasts | Stitcher   If You Liked This Episode, I Think You'll Like These, Too Ep. 022 | Tune Out to Tune In: Hearing & Heeding Your Inner Voice in a World Full of Noise Ep. 062 | What Do You Do?: A Tool for Understanding Yourself Better and Finding Your Unique Path in Life

Andrew Petty is Dying
The Big 6 (Part 2): Essential Ingredients in the Recipe for a Life You'll be Outrageously Proud of When You Die

Andrew Petty is Dying

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2023 9:45


What does it take to live a life you'll be outrageously proud of when you die?  That's really the question at the heart of this podcast, and this episode is part two of a two-part series aimed at providing a trustworthy answer to that question. Through my own life experience, conversations with guests on this show, 1-1 coaching partnerships, and The Graveyard Group, I've identified six essential ingredients in the recipe for a life we'll be outrageously proud of when we die. I call them the Big 6. Other ingredients are important and useful, for sure, but none appear to me to be as important as these six. Without them, the recipe simply doesn't work.   In the previous episode, I introduced you to the first three of the Big 6, Courage, Humility, and Truth-telling. In this episode, I'll introduce you to the second three, Self-permission, Self-responsibility, and Self-knowledge.  There is a logic to the order of the ingredients in this recipe. They build on one another, and each one depends upon the others that precede it. If you haven't listened to the previous episode yet and you have an additional 8 minutes to spare right now, I recommend tuning in to that episode first before listening to this one.    The Fourth Ingredient: Self-Permission The fourth essential ingredient in the recipe for a life you'll be outrageously proud of is Self-permission. Self-permission is ownership of the reality that I can do what I want, when I want, how I want, where I want, with whom I want. It is a permission granted to us simply by virtue of our arrival at chronological adulthood, but many chronological adults remain emotional and psychological juveniles because they fail to fully grant themselves this permission. Instead, their thoughts and actions remain heavily and unduly influenced by others, by worn-out worldviews inherited from their family of origin, and by a myriad of other external sources of permission. They remain dependent upon external sources of permission to determine what they think and how they conduct themselves in the world.  Self-permission can be used for good or evil, and everything in between. It isn't a license to run amok. Nor does it mean tuning out the input of others; it is wise to seek and learn from the counsel and examples of others. Rather, the proper expression of Self-permission simply frees us from dependence upon external sources of permission in order to think and act.  Let me say that again: The proper expression of Self-permission simply frees us from dependence upon external sources of permission in order to think and act. It also puts the consequences of our thoughts and actions squarely at our feet, a topic we'll delve into next when we discuss Self-responsibility. Failure to take full ownership of Self-permission relegates us to living at least in part according to the will and permissions of others. This limits our ability to become the person we were uniquely made to be and live the life we were uniquely made to live because our Path and Purpose are co-opted by others' will and wishes.  Successfully taking full ownership of Self-permission, however, sets us free to discover who and what we really are and who and what we really can become. We are able to make our unique contribution to the world.  Courage, Humility, and Truth-telling are prerequisites for Self-permission.  Remember, as an adult, you really can do what you want, when you want, how you want, where you want, with whom you want. Use the privilege well.  Tune into Ep. 022, entitled Tune Out to Tune In: Hearing & Heeding Your Inner Voice in a World Full of Noise, to learn how your inner voice can help you add more Self-permission in your own life. How fully have you embraced Self-permission? In what area of your life can you exercise even more Self-permission?   The Fifth Ingredient: Self-responsibility The fifth Big 6 ingredient is Self-responsibility. Self-responsibility is complete ownership of our thoughts, words, and actions and the consequences that result from them. It is “extreme ownership,” to borrow Jocko Willink's phrase from his book by the same name. It is the antidote to the insidious and destructive force of victimhood and just about every other manifestation of human dysfunction imaginable.  When we are Self-responsible, we exhibit a willingness to acknowledge and make amends for mistakes. We choose to be solution-focused rather than problem- or blame-focused. We acknowledge that we always have a choice. We point the finger at ourselves first.  Self-responsibility helps us distinguish between what we can and can't control. It allows us to forge interdependent rather than dependent or co-dependent bonds in relationships because we're able to establish and maintain healthier boundaries. We neither assume too little or too much responsibility for others. We are 100% responsible for ourselves and appropriately responsible for others.  Courage, Humility, Truth-telling, and Self-permission are all prerequisites of Self-responsibility. Tune in to Ep. 019, The Cockpit is Yours: From Passenger to Pilot, for more on this topic.  How have you demonstrated Self-responsibility recently? In what area of your life is more Self-responsibility needed?   The Sixth Ingredient: Self-knowledge The sixth and final essential ingredient in the recipe for a life you'll be outrageously proud of when you die is Self-knowledge. Self-knowledge is an ever-evolving understanding about the kind of human you are–your Nature—and the influence of your Story–or Nurture–upon the person you've become. Together, Nature and Nurture help us discover the person we were made to be and the life we were made to live.  Self-knowledge is made up of both quantitative and qualitative data and information. It is both objectively- and subjectively-derived. Professional assessments and inventories like those that I use with my clients, our own experience, and counsel and feedback from friends, family, mentors, coaches, and mental health professionals are valuable sources of Self-knowledge.  Our pursuit of Self-knowledge depends upon increasing measures of Courage, Humility, Truth-telling, Self-permission, and Self-responsibility. In turn, the Self-knowledge that we gain helps us deploy Courage, Humility, Truth-telling, Self-permission, and Self-responsibility even more effectively.  Deeper Self-knowledge leads to a more enjoyable, meaningful, and productive life. Though its fruits are personally rewarding, we ultimately pursue Self-knowledge in order to better understand how we are uniquely equipped to serve humankind.  Tune in to Ep. 035 of Andrew Petty is Dying, Build Your Personal Owner's Manual: Understand Yourself Better, Enjoy Yourself More, and Live the Life You were Made to Live, for more on this topic. How have you deepened your Self-knowledge recently? In what area of your life is more Self-knowledge needed?    Perfecting the Recipe: Just Add More There you have it–the 6 essential ingredients in the recipe for a life you'll be outrageously proud of when you die.  The instructions in this recipe are simple: Just keep adding more. More cups of Courage. Heaps more Humility. Tons more Truth-telling. More generous scoops of Self-permission, Self-responsibility, and Self-Knowledge.  With this recipe, more is always better.   Each time you add just a little more, you're investing in a life you'll be outrageously proud of when you die.  Which ingredient can you begin adding more of today? Because remember: You ARE going to die. But you're not dead yet. So get after it!   Become a Master Chef in The Graveyard Group If the Big 6 are essential ingredients in the recipe for a life you'll be outrageously proud of when you die, then The Graveyard Group is the kitchen in which you become a master chef.  You and your own personal, confidential board of advisors help each other perfect your recipes for amazing lives. The Mortality Mindset is the heat that energizes your work together. Step by step, week by week, you give the things that matter most the attention they deserve now, before it's too late.  Break free from the status quo, become the person you were made to be, and live the life you were made to live. New groups for men and women are forming now. To learn more, visit my website to schedule a free session with me, find me on Facebook, Instagram, or LinkedIn, or email me.     Get Unstuck and Create the Life You've Always Wanted I know what it's like to be stuck. I also know what it takes to get moving again toward the life you've always wanted. If you're stuck, schedule a free coaching session to see if a 1-1 coaching partnership is right for you.   If You Liked This Episode, I Think You'll Like These, Too Ep. 050 | Seize the Offensive: An Antidote to Fear, Dread, and Timid Living Ep. 070 | Forward, Pioneer!: Why the "Frontier" is the Best Place to Be Ep. 072 | Report from the Frontier: A Pioneer's Tale, with Kris Reeves   Follow Andrew Petty is Dying & Leave a Review Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Google Podcasts | Stitcher

Positive Mindset for Entrepreneurs from The Mind Aware

Who: Dana Wilde - Bestselling Author of Train Your Brain, Creator of The Celebrity Formula, and Host of Positive Mindset for Entrepreneurs What This Show is About: “How Can I Trust That Brain Training Really Works?” This direct seller wants to believe that the “feel-good” way of building a business is the best way, but she has so many people around her telling her to take action. What can she do? Dana Wilde, the #1 bestselling author of Train Your Brain, delivers motivation, marketing ideas, and business tips designed to break through your limiting beliefs, and manifest freedom and success in your business. Dana Wilde goes beyond positive thinking and the Law of Attraction. This podcast is the ultimate in Entrepreneur Mindset. Click here to ask Dana: http://www.danawilde.com/askdana In today's episode…. Find out how to know if BRAIN TRAINING works for you. Learn the definition of INTENTIONAL ACTION and how to implement it. Discover how to TUNE OUT the peanut gallery of people telling you what to do. Resources from this episode… CLICK HERE to get the Positive Mindset for Entrepreneurs free daily newsletter, and get your JOLT of HAPPINESS every morning! CLICK HERE to get your question answered on the show. CLICK HERE to learn more about the Positive Mindset Entrepreneurs Club Where to Learn More: http://www.danawilde.com/class http://www.danawilde.com

FITBODY Podcast with Julie Lohre
To Tune In or Tune Out? The Great Music-Exercise Debate!

FITBODY Podcast with Julie Lohre

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2023 6:18


To Tune In or Tune Out? The Great Music-Exercise Debate! In today's episode, we'll be exploring the question on many gym-goers' minds: Should you listen to music during exercise? As it turns out, the relationship between music and exercise is a complex one. Numerous studies have shown that listening to music while exercising can boost your mood, reduce your perceived effort, and even improve your endurance. In this episode, we'll take a look at the science of music and exercise, exploring the benefits and specifics for working out to your favorite tunes. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/fitbody/message

Women & Money Cafe
46. Stupid Investment Headlines

Women & Money Cafe

Play Episode Play 46 sec Highlight Listen Later Sep 25, 2022 49:16 Transcription Available


We have a track record of calling out BS & telling it like it is on the Women & Money Café. This episode is all about news headlines that drives us crazy. We're joined by our investment guru, Tsitsi.These headlines are designed to make you do one of two things, either act out of fear or out of greed. Not  make good financial decisions.No 1 rule is to remember that the headlines are there to get your attention because that's how they make money.Dimensional's Tune Out the Noise video - worth watching for a bit of perspective Stupid headlines:3 supercharged growth stocks down 80% - 93% that billionaires can't stop buying – the train has already left the platform, and do you really have a lot in common with billionaires?A low-risk way to beat inflation – sounds innocent enough? Article goes on describe an investment which in no right-thinking person's mind could be classed as low risk.Should I sell my house before prices crash or wait for the next boom?  You can't predict market crashes and booms. This is part of a much wider narrative going about about home ownership that we don't like.A recession is imminent, what and when to buy – there is no one size fits all solution to recession. Tsitsi's advice is to have a mental checklist for yourself, and if in doubt, get a professional to look over your portfolio.BE PART OF THE CAFEWe genuinely love hearing your questions and feedback. So, drop us a voice note  hello@womenandmoney.cafe and come and join the community on Facebook @womenandmoneycafeYOUR HOSTS:Catherine Thomas-Humphreys is an Award Wining Financial Coach, Qualified Financial Adviser and Family Will Writer.Catherine believes money is a force for good and when in the hands of good people can be used to do great things.  She loves working with purpose-led parents who are ready to change  their money habits & beliefs to achieve  financial success for themselves and their family.She founded #TheFinfluencer   as a safe space to coach and empower parents to influence, make, save, spend and grow money, consciously, ethically and positively.  The Finfluencer Finfluence InstagramJulie Flynn is an experienced independent financial adviser and financial coach. Justice and equality drive Julie. Which is why she's spent years studying and researching how stress affects our financial decision making. She uses her years of experience and research to support women experiencing or planning significant change in their lives. Julie is best known for her work with women who have lost their partner and coaching financial services business who want to implement fair and transparent charges.Ebb & Flow Financial CoachingBree Wealth & Tax InstagramTsitsti MutitiTsitsi is an award-winning Investment Manager, Certified Financial Coach and the host of The Wealth Conversation Podcast. Website | Instagram

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
How To Live FEARLESSLY With Heather! Episode 243

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 17, 2022 27:56


In This Episode You Will Learn About:  Thriving through change   Reflecting on your past  Never holding yourself back Resources: Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com  If you haven't yet, get my first book Confidence Creator Show Notes:  I am 48 today! Let's take a moment to appreciate all that we've accomplished over the past year. When you are overwhelmed by change, it can be easy to let your doubts get the best of you. You'll never know what you are capable of unless you GIVE IT A TRY. What do you have to lose? Tune OUT the haters, and tune IN to your intuition. Most importantly, when you're going through hard times, remember to look back at what you've already overcome! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Andrew Petty is Dying
What Do You Do?: A Tool for Understanding Yourself Better and Finding Your Unique Path in Life

Andrew Petty is Dying

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2022 6:14


“What do you do?” We're all familiar with that question. It comes up naturally when we meet someone for the first time in a social setting. Its usual purpose is to learn what someone does for a living to keep food on the table and a roof over their heads.  In this episode, however, we'll REpurpose this old question in a new way to help you know yourself better and discern even more clearly the paths in life for which you're uniquely made. It will become a new tool in your ongoing quest to live YOUR life with guts, gusto, and abandon.    My Answer to “What do you do?” “I seek to understand how we should conduct ourselves in this world to produce the best results with our lives.” That's my most current answer to the repurposed version of the familiar question, “What do you do?” that I'm sharing with you today. It's a description of what I've ALWAYS done, regardless of my age or stage of life or job. It's a description of what I can't NOT do, of what I've always felt compelled to do, of what always calls to me in the midst of whatever else I'm actually doing.  It's not a carefully-crafted mission statement or a statement of intention. It's not aspirational. It's a statement of what IS. It's a statement of who I am and what I do in the world on a fundamental level. I can no more change myself on that fundamental level than I can alter the course of the stars in the sky.  That's the level of insight that we're after with our newly-repurposed version of “what do you do?” My desire for understanding has been evident from an early age–as have been whatever impulses guide you on a fundamental level. One day, when I was a little boy, for example, I paused to examine the dirt, and then asked my mom “what's the dirt doing?” (There may or may not have also been another episode at about the same age where I paused to pray for a caterpillar, then sent it to caterpillar heaven with a decisive stomp of my foot. My mom still hasn't gotten over the shock. She thought I was praying for its welfare, but apparently I was administering its last rites. But I digress…)   What's the Big Deal About Answering “What Do You Do?” for Ourselves? The big benefit of knowing what we do on a fundamental level with this kind of clarity is that it strengthens our sense of who we are and what we're here for. Enlightened and strengthened in these ways, we can then pursue personal and professional paths that align with what we do on a fundamental level. What we do for a living to keep food on the table and a roof over our head can be a natural extension of what we've always done and will always seek to do on the deepest levels of our being.  I'm grateful that what I do for a living IS a natural extension of what I do on the most fundamental level. I've discovered that that marriage between both levels of doing is a self-perpetuating engine of growth, both fed by and feeding the very processes that drive it.    Life is hard enough without the added hardship of persisting in personal and professional paths that don't align with who we really are and what we really do. And the world needs all of us as fully engaged in our unique purposes as we can possibly be. How confident are you in your current answer to “what do you do?”   How to Answer “What Do You Do” for Yourself I've arrived at my current answer to this question through ongoing observation of myself as I move through the world. But that observation has occurred in the grit and grime of real life, not from behind glass with lab coats and clipboards. My conclusions at this point are based upon real-world trial and error, successes and failures. They are the result of countless implementations of my formula for human growth, Insight + Action = Transformation.  My answer is also based upon others' feedback about what they observe in me. I've proactively sought that feedback from family, friends, and professional acquaintances. I've also enlisted resources like coaching and therapy to create the kinds of insights that those kinds of partnerships are especially good at creating.  My answer will continue to evolve, too, as long as I stay engaged in the question and summon the courage to act upon what I learn.  What are one or two observations have you made about yourself so far in life that help you better understand what you do on a fundamental level?    Draft Your First Answer to “What Do You Do?” Today “What do you do?” is a familiar question that you can repurpose in a new way to help you know yourself better and discern even more clearly the paths in life for which you're uniquely made. It takes time and awareness to wield this tool, and all of us are capable of wielding it well if we choose. It takes courage to act upon the insights we gain, forsaking paths that aren't ours in favor of ones that are.   Live YOUR life with guts, gusto, and abandon.  Take a new step in that direction today. Draft your first answer to “what do you do?” Don't white knuckle it, and don't censor or judge yourself. Then, update your answer whenever observations made in the real world generate new depths of insight into what you do. Wash, rinse, repeat.  Remember: You ARE going to die. But you're not dead yet. So get after it!   I Can Help You Discover What You Do in the World Connect with me Facebook, Instagram and LinkedIn, visit my website, or email me. Go here to learn more about the Graveyard Group, where you get invaluable insight and feedback from your own confidential board of advisors.  One final note before I sign off today: I'll release one more episode in June before I take a creative break for the month of July to rest and retool. I look forward to returning refreshed in August. I'm so glad you tuned in today. Don't forget to follow this show, and I'll see you next time on Andrew Petty is Dying.   Follow Andrew Petty is Dying & Leave a Review Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Google Podcasts | Stitcher   If You Liked This Episode, I Think You'll Like These, Too Ep. 022 | Tune Out to Tune In: Hearing & Heeding Your Inner Voice in a World Full of Noise Ep. 039 | How to Change the World: An Antidote to Apathy and Despair in an Age of Doom and Gloom

Andrew Petty is Dying
How To Make the Most of Today: A Simple Framework

Andrew Petty is Dying

Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2022 6:57


How do we make the most of today? This episode is short and sweet, banged out somewhat hastily during the current season of curveballs I mentioned in the previous episode–but banged out with love and goodwill toward you, my fellow traveler along life's winding path, you who are waking up to the reality of your Mortality and courageously embracing it to live with guts, gusto, and abandon.  So today I'm gonna give you what I've got and pray that it reaches the hearts of those who need it most. And what I've got is a simple framework for making the most of today–the only day you''ve got. Plus, a preview of an upcoming episode that I'm super-excited to share with you.    A Simple Framework to Make the Most of Today Here's a simple but powerful framework for making the most of today–and every day that you're fortunate to be granted in the future: First, pause, breathe, and acknowledge the MIRACLE of today! Countless thousands had to successfully reproduce over the millenia in order for you to even exist. The chances of you existing right now in this moment are slim to none. Your heart has beat faithfully without interruption every second of every minute of every hour of every day to bring you to this moment. Just think about that. Put your hand over your heart and feel its strong, rhythmic pulsation. Thank it for its many years of service so far. And if you're able to listen to this episode, then you almost certainly have a comfortable place to call home, a way to provide for your needs, freedom to choose how you spend your time, plenty of food, clean water, and the ability to improve your situation in life if you choose to. These factors alone put you among the very most fortunate people on the planet.  Next, acknowledge that as a sovereign, free, fully-responsible member of the human race, you've been granted the superpower of Choice. Do you really believe that? Even in situations where much is outside of our control, we always still have the freedom to choose our response. In this freedom to choose lies our Dignity and our ability to craft our Destiny. Today, the only day you've got, you get to choose who you are and who you're becoming. If some of your past choices haven't served you well, then today you get another chance to make different choices. Every day truly is a NEW day. In fact, today could be THE day that you look back on and realize with deep pride and satisfaction that you began to do your part to change things for the better. Today is yours to do with as you please.  Then, acknowledging the miraculous gift of this one day–the only day you've got, fully owning your superpower of Choice amidst life's many competing demands and priorities, and in light of what matters most to you, decide what would make today a rewarding day and determine to prioritize that thing above all others. For example, maybe you've lost touch with an old friend and realize that you'd regret it if that remained the case. Determine, then, to reach out to that friend before the day is over. Or maybe you've been putting off a difficult conversation with your boss–the conversation that you know needs to be had in order for you to be with your family more. Resolve to do your part to have that conversation today. In my case, today I resolved to get another video call scheduled with my mom, dad, and sister–something I've decided is important to me in this stage of life when, frankly, it's easier to drift apart than it is to grow closer.  What will you choose to prioritize over everything else in order to make today a rewarding day? In order to live with guts, gusto, and abandon?   To Sum Up… There you have it–a simple framework for making the most of today: First, acknowledge the miracle of Today.  Next, fully own your superpower of Choice.  Finally, decide what would make today a rewarding day and determine to prioritize that thing above all others. You can deploy this framework each new day in a matter of minutes, but its impact will far exceed your investment of time and energy.  In this way, day after day, you'll make the most of your days. And as you go, you'll grow in wisdom and understanding about what makes a great day for you.  Remember: You ARE going to die. But you're not dead yet. So get after it!   Exclusive Preview | The Making of The Alpinist's Marc-Andre' Leclerc, on Andrew Petty is Dying I'm super-excited to share with you that on Mother's Day, Sunday, May 8, I'll air an exclusive interview with Michelle Kuipers, Marc-André Leclerc's mom. Leclerc's life is the subject of the acclaimed 2021 documentary, The Alpinist, currently available on Netflix. Marc-Andre's story had a huge impact on my life, and I was absolutely pumped when Michelle agreed to be on the show. If you haven't watched The Alpinist yet, I wholeheartedly recommend it, and ideally, watch it before you tune into this episode.  This episode answers many questions that The Alpinist left unanswered and dives deeper into questions you may not have thought to consider, including: What did the documentary leave out? How did Michelle summon the wisdom and the courage to help Marc André discover and pursue such an audacious calling? What does it mean to “live like Marc-André?” How does Michelle live differently because of her son's life and tragic death? And Michelle's account of Marc André's very first climbing experience will surprise you. For all of you parents out there, this exclusive conversation is also a paradigm-shifting masterclass in how to raise sovereign, empowered, and purposeful adults.  If you enjoyed The Alpinist, you'll love getting to know Marc-André even better through his mom's eyes. And, you'll be equipped with wisdom and insight for your own life from a remarkable woman. Alright, that's a wrap for today, folks. What stuck with you?  I'd love to know. Connect with me on Facebook, Instagram and LinkedIn, visit my website, or email me.  I'm so glad you tuned in today. Don't forget to follow this show, and I'll see you next time on Andrew Petty is Dying.   Follow Andrew Petty is Dying & Leave a Review Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Google Podcasts | Stitcher   If You Liked This Episode, I Think You'll Like These, Too Ep. 014 | Dare to Dream Again: The Antidote to a Mediocre Life Ep. 016 | The Question That Changes Everything: The Go-to Tool for Living the Life You Were Made to Live Ep. 019 | The Cockpit is Yours: From Passenger to Pilot Ep. 022 | Tune Out to Tune In: Hearing & Heeding Your Inner Voice in a World Full of Noise

The Engineering Emotions and Energy Podcast
Tune Out To Tune In

The Engineering Emotions and Energy Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2022 18:41 Transcription Available


***** Tune Out to Tune In (to what you want) ***** Have you ever had a horrible experience somewhere and you wish it would just end? I recently had a bad experience at a grocery store. It's a chain I usually try to avoid because I usually have a bad experience, but this store was on my way home, so I stopped into the Unsafeway, and guess what? The experience was NOT Good! Low selection of items, high prices, it was effectively like a convenience store with way more square footage. I was so ready with a snarky retort for when the checker was going to ask me, "How are you?" or the even the "Find everything, okay?" But they didn't ask me anything! I could have proactively shared my complaints, but instead I did something different. I tuned out. I tuned out of the bad experience that I was having, and then I tuned in to something different. I tuned into, what is the experience this checker is having. I asked her, "How are you doing?" And I asked in a way that showed I cared by making eye contact. She replied with a sigh "It's soo busy, so many messes to clean up." I wished her an easy day with less mess and I could tell she appreciated being heard. By tuning out of my own bad experience and tuning into someone else I know it brightened both our days. Listen to this episode for more on how to get what you really want by Tuning Out to Tune In. I'm now on Tik Tok! Check out @justinwenckphd there for super quick ways to relax, energize, and connect.Remember to check out The Tuesday Twenty Minute free meditations I do every Tuesday at 12:05PM PST.justinwenckphd - You Tubejustinwenckphd - FacebookCatch the recordings if you can't make it live.Got a question or comment about the show? E-mail me at podcast@justinwenck.com. Remember to subscribe so you don't miss the next episode! Then connect with me at  JustinWenck.com, Facebook, Instagram, or LinkedIn! 

Andrew Petty is Dying
What Do You Want?: A Path to Purpose and Fulfillment, with Chris Slota

Andrew Petty is Dying

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2022 47:56


What do you want?  It's a simple enough question at face value, but it can be far from easy to answer. Many of us have never truly tried to answer it. Many of us have never been aware that it was important to do so. And many of us are a lot better at knowing what we DON'T want.  Failing to answer this question can lead to surprisingly harmful consequences--but answering it can put us on a path to unprecedented purpose and fulfillment.  Don't just take my word for it, though. In this episode, my guest, Chris Slota, gives us unfiltered access to the remarkable personal transformation he's experienced over the past couple of years--a transformation he owes in large part to his determination to begin figuring out what he wants in life. Listening back to our conversation, I was amazed to hear how many other timeless principles for living a life of purpose and fulfillment are embedded in Chris' story, too. This episode is a veritable cornucopia of practical wisdom for all of us.    Introducing Chris Slota I met Chris and his wife, Veronica, at a dinner party almost three years ago. Not long after that, Chris became a member of one of my Graveyard Groups. Chris shares more about that whole progression and its significance in the conversation that you're about to hear.  Chris hails originally from Ohio, but he's called our little mountain town of Steamboat Springs home since 2008, and like most of us here in Steamboat, he's never looked back.    Highlights from this Episode Here are a few of the key points and themes from this conversation: The importance of knowing what you do want instead of simply what you don't want: “It's hard to walk a path of places you don't want to go.” How the Victim mentality gets in the way of knowing what you want To see, you have to open your eyes: How “opening his eyes” allowed Chris to see opportunities he wanted to pursue. How Chris opened his eyes (you can do it, too!) Finding your “why” Staying focused on the “What” more than the “How” Choosing your stress A handful of bullets can't begin to do justice to the depth of this conversation and its value for any of us wanting to find a new way forward. This episode is practically a how-to. Tune in to the full episode for the full effect.    Making it Matter in YOUR Life An overarching theme in Chris' story is personal responsibility. Chris assumed more complete responsibility for himself by securing resources to help him find an even better way forward when he realized that his current situation wasn't satisfactory. In Chris' case, The Graveyard Group became a key ingredient in his recipe for transformation. That one simple step--proactively investing in himself with a small group of other men--paved the way for all that was to come. It created the fertile soil out of which pivotal insights would emerge--especially his awareness that he was much better at knowing what he DIDN't want than what he DID want. Those insights led to concrete action in the real world. And those actions created transformation.  Insight + Action = Transformation.  Pause for a moment and ask yourself: Where in my life am I more of a passive bystander than an active participant? Where am I failing to take complete responsibility for myself?  Whatever you come up with...Are you willing to take a page out of Chris' playbook, and do something about it? Tomorrow never comes, folks; there's only Today. What are you waiting for? Remember: You ARE going to die. But you're not dead yet. So get after it!   Learn More about The Graveyard Group To learn more about The Graveyard Group, visit digdeepwinbig.com/thegraveyardgroup, message me on on Facebook, Instagram and LinkedIn, or email me. I'm so glad you tuned in today. Don't forget to follow this show, and I'll see you next time on Andrew Petty is Dying.   Connect with Chris Email | Instagram | Twitter | Website    Follow Andrew Petty is Dying & Leave a Review Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Google Podcasts | Stitcher   If You Liked This Episode, I Think You'll Like These, Too Ep. 019 | The Cockpit is Yours: From Passenger to Pilot Ep. 021 | Sometimes, the Grass IS Greener: How a Familiar Bit of Conventional Wisdom Could be Holding You Back from the Life You Were Made to Live Ep. 022 | Tune Out to Tune In: Hearing & Heeding Your Inner Voice in a World Full of Noise

The Fintech Scaling Show
Episode 92: How to Move Beyond Coping, and Strategically Lead your Growth with Sushant Chalipat

The Fintech Scaling Show

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2021 42:54


Here's what we talked about: “Don't Tune Out, Tune In”… This is how I started the most recent episode of the #fintechscalingshow   Why?   Because we went all in and spoke about the not so fancy topic of organizational structure & design   And went a long way to answering… How do you build a winning organizational structure for yourself and your team to thrive in?   In today's episode of the #fintechscalingshow, Sushant Chalipat, COO of Claro Money, and I share insights, strategies, and practical advice that will help you scale your business and grow your profits.   Discover how to create an effective organizational structure that functions smoothly, have open communication lines, and delivers results.   Moreover, learn the importance of “hatting” different roles that can help leaders hire the right talent.   By knowing the right strategies and best practices in structuring your organization, you can effectively lead your team to grow.   Key Discussion Points: ⦁        The four steps to consider when building your organizational structure ⦁        Why focusing on production and outcome will help achieve your goal ⦁        Why teams should be empowered to hire talent ⦁        How you can use conflict in the workplace to shift mindsets   Curious to find out what it takes to put in the structure to facilitate your growth?   Quote:  “  Retaining the best talent naturally leads into a better product and revenue proposition  ”  - Sushant Chalipat Links:  LinkedIn Account: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sushant-chalipat/   Scaling Now?   Want to speed up your scaling journey with my help? Get in touch with me here to see how I can help! richard@scaleupconsulting.co or visit our website https://scaleupconsulting.co.uk/

Stick to the Script
16. Regular Pope Results

Stick to the Script

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2021 30:57


Clarifications and reparations. 1. Cold open 2. The Queen 3. Big news/clarification 4. Luca's sound effect - (musical interlude: Tune Out) - 5. Ad-read 6. Boys Don't Cry 7. Loose ends/wrap up Support me on Patreon: www.patreon.com/reubensolo Email the show: contact@reubensolo.com YouTube: www.youtube.com/reubensolo Instagram: www.instagram.com/reubensolo Theme song composed by Tim Palstra Artwork by Seb White

The SouthSide Unicorn Show
Lunch with Dean and Elizabeth

The SouthSide Unicorn Show

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2020 57:07


Today is Sunday, that means it "Smoove Sunday" and "Lunch With" today we are having lunch with Dean and Elizabeth, so grab your favorite dish and join in, "Tune in and Tune Out"..

The SouthSide Unicorn Show
My Enemy Is Your Friend

The SouthSide Unicorn Show

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2020 60:00


Today is Saturday so it's "WASSUP SATURDAY" todays show is about learning just who our friends are and who are not our friends, This one may be a bit bumpy so Buckle up and get ready for the ride, "Tune In and Tune Out"...