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Your Next Best Move | Personal Growth, Wellness & Mindset Strategies for Women
What do you do when the one thing you really want… just isn't happening?In this episode of Your Next Best Move, I'm talking about what it looks like to shift your focus during a waiting season — whether you're hoping for a baby, a promotion, a move, a career change, or any big life transition that feels out of your control.What if the most powerful move isn't forcing the outcome… it's redirecting your energy?In this pep-talk style episode, we'll talk about:How to release pressure without giving up on your goalsLetting go of timelines you can't controlWhere to redirect your energy in a waiting seasonBuilding joy, health, and personal growth while you waitHow shifting your focus can change your confidence and overall presenceIf you're feeling stuck, discouraged, or hyper-focused on one unmet desire, this episode is your reminder that you don't have to pause your happiness while you wait.You can build what lights you up — right now.And maybe your next best move… is shifting your focus.-DeannaJoin my email list for monthly insights & inspiration!Connect with Deanna:IG: deanna_hopeW: https://www.deannahope.ca/FB: Your Next Best Move Podcast
What happens when your identity gets stripped away and you have to rebuild from scratch? I sit down with Jenna Rene Soto, a professional barrel racer, military intelligence analyst, author, and real estate investor who has lived through that exact challenge. You will hear how she moved from ranch life to the military, faced failure and financial collapse, and rebuilt her life with a stronger sense of purpose and self-worth. Jenna shares powerful lessons on identity, resilience, mentorship, and why chasing meaning matters more than chasing titles. I believe you will find this conversation both grounding and inspiring as you rethink what truly defines you and how to move forward when life forces a reset. Highlights: 00:39 – Discover how growing up on a ranch built discipline, work ethic, and a deep connection to horses 15:41 – Learn how making decisions without full information builds confidence under pressure 22:16 – Understand why focusing only on what you can control reduces fear and overwhelm 43:52 – Hear how hitting rock bottom can become the starting point for rebuilding your life 53:41 – Discover why your identity must go beyond your job or title to create real confidence 1:00:52 – Learn how changing your environment and taking small steps can help you break out of feeling stuck Bottom of Form About the Guest: Jenna René Soto is a real estate investor, author of Not Enough, professional barrel racer, and Mrs. Oklahoma City 2026. After serving nine years in the United States Air Force in intelligence, surveillance, and reconnaissance roles, including deployments to Iraq and Afghanistan, she transitioned into entrepreneurship and built a business focused on real estate investment and redevelopment. Her journey has not been linear. Following her military service, Jenna experienced financial hardship that forced a complete reset. Through real estate, discipline, and personal development, she rebuilt her life and business from the ground up. That experience became the foundation of her work today—helping others understand the connection between identity, decision-making, and long-term success. In addition to her business pursuits, Jenna has remained deeply connected to the rodeo industry as a competitive barrel racer. The lessons from that world—consistency, resilience, and performance under pressure—continue to shape her approach to both business and life. She is also a strong advocate for coaching and lifelong learning, crediting mentorship as a key factor in accelerating her growth. As Mrs. Oklahoma City 2026, Jenna uses her platform to speak to students, professionals, and community groups about identity, resilience, and rebuilding after adversity. She believes service is not limited by age or circumstance and is committed to helping others recognize their value and take ownership of their future. Ways to connect with Jenna: Website: https://jennarenesoto.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jennarenesotoYouTube: https://youtube.com/@jennarenesotoFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/jennarenesotoEmail: jennarenesoto@gmail.com About the Host: Michael Hingson is a New York Times best-selling author, international lecturer, and Chief Vision Officer for accessiBe. Michael, blind since birth, survived the 9/11 attacks with the help of his guide dog Roselle. This story is the subject of his best-selling book, Thunder Dog. Michael gives over 100 presentations around the world each year speaking to influential groups such as Exxon Mobile, AT&T, Federal Express, Scripps College, Rutgers University, Children's Hospital, and the American Red Cross just to name a few. He is Ambassador for the National Braille Literacy Campaign for the National Federation of the Blind and also serves as Ambassador for the American Humane Association's 2012 Hero Dog Awards. https://michaelhingson.com https://www.facebook.com/michael.hingson.author.speaker/ https://twitter.com/mhingson https://www.youtube.com/user/mhingson https://www.linkedin.com/in/michaelhingson/ accessiBe Links https://accessibe.com/ https://www.youtube.com/c/accessiBe https://www.linkedin.com/company/accessibe/mycompany/ https://www.facebook.com/accessibe/ Thanks for listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! 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Transcription Notes: Michael Hingson 00:04 What if the biggest thing holding you back isn't what's in front of you, but rather what you believe Welcome to unstoppable mindset where inclusion, diversity and the unexpected meet. I'm your host. Michael hingson, speaker, author and advocate for inclusion and possibilities. This podcast explores how the beliefs we carry shape the way we live, lead and connect with others. Each week, I talk with people who challenge assumptions, face adversity head on and show what's possible when we choose curiosity over fear, together, we focus on mindset resilience and the small shifts that lead to meaningful change. Let's get started. Well, hello, everyone, wherever you happen to be today? Or if I were playing Walter Winchell, I'd say Good evening, Mr. And Mrs. America and all the ships at sea flash. Anybody know who Walter Winchell was? If you don't know he was a reporter, did a lot of coverage in the world of radio and some on television. If you ever watched the old TV show, The Untouchables, with Eliot Ness, Walter Winchell was the narrator for that. He was a a pretty big reporter back in the day, as they say. But anyway, that's a different story, and we're not here to talk about Walter much today, but I want to thank you all for being here. Our guest today is Jenna Rene Soto. And Jenna has, well, she doesn't have a very exciting life. She's only been a barrel racer, Mr. Or Mrs. Northam, Mrs. Oklahoma City. She's been in the military. She's written a book. So you know, not much anyway. We're we're really glad that Jenna consented to be with us here on unstoppable mindset, and I think we'll have fun for the next hour or so. So, Jenna, welcome to unstoppable mindset. Thanks for joining us. Jenna Rene Soto 02:09 Thank you so much for having me. It's such an honor to be on your show, and I'm really excited to chat with you today. Michael Hingson 02:17 Well, and anything you want to talk about, we can talk about scandal is always a good thing, I'm sure. But anyway, that's another story too. Well, I'm glad you're here. Why don't you tell us a little bit about maybe the early Jenna growing up and some of that stuff. Speaker 1 02:33 Okay, so I grew up in western South Dakota on a rant that my great granddad homesteaded great great granddad actually in 1909 so my family grew up raising cattle and sheep, and then we ended up getting into the buffalo industry. But my love of horses really began at an early age, because we had horses to work on the ranch in South Dakota, it snows all the time, and the snow gets so deep, a lot of the areas where the cows would go to hide out from the weather you couldn't even access with a vehicle. So we had horses mainly to work, and my whole family ended up rodeoing, and I really just fell in love with it at an early age, and continued it all the way through college and competed on the equestrian team, and then I joined the military, and kind of got out of the military to pursue rodeo again, and ended up as a professional barrel racer. But horses have been a really big influence on my life and a huge passion of mine since I was just barely old enough to sit up, I'd been on the back of a horse. Michael Hingson 03:46 Well, what is barrel racing? I'm not familiar with it. I'm not sure if I've heard of it or not, but I'm not familiar with it. So what is barrel racing? Speaker 1 03:55 Well, barrel racing is the only women's event in the sport of rodeo, and you can think of it basically like a drag race, except instead of with cars, you've got horses. There are three barrels, and you can go around them from the left or the right first, but you make a clove release pattern, and the fastest time wins. The only penalty you might have is if you tip over a barrel. Yeah, five seconds. But if you are tipping over a barrel, the competition is so so close these days that we're down to the 100th of a second, so five second penalty, you're totally out. Michael Hingson 04:31 Yeah, so that's the only women's sport. So women typically don't participate in in other sports, or that's just the only exclusive women's sport. Speaker 1 04:43 That's the only professional level women's sport in rodeo. There are other organizations where women can actually ride bulls and ride broncs and rope, but in the main rodeo organization, it's only the barrel racing for the women. And it is exclusive to women as well, so you won't see any male competitors, but there are other organizations that allow that crossover. Why is that? I think it's tradition. Honestly, it's one of the oldest women's professional organizations in the country, and I think that is probably going to change in the future, because at least from my perspective, if I want to say that I'm the best in the world, I want to be competing against men, women, young and old. So I think they should do away with the age limits, first of all, and also the gender requirements. But I know that's a little bit controversial, but I think in the future, we'll see more male competitors trying to get involved with with this level of competition, Michael Hingson 05:49 but I would think also that women are capable of roping and riding bulls and so on. So I'm wondering why they're fewer and Speaker 1 05:58 further between. That's for sure. Writing is so physically demanding, it is a very, very challenging sport, but there are opportunities for women to compete, but I think the numbers just aren't there to make it more mainstream. But there, there are organizations where they can, yeah, but I will say I don't know, but maybe one or two, one or two people that do it, and I, I have tried riding a bull before, not a very aggressive one, and I don't care to get back up there again, because no matter what you're coming off, even if you make eight seconds, you're going to hit the ground. And it's not near as soft as it looks when you see other people. Michael Hingson 06:39 Yeah, the ground is not very forgiving, 06:43 is it not well? Michael Hingson 06:45 And I would rather make friends with an animal than ride it and get it mad at me. So I'm with you, in a sense. I like horses. I've petted bulls and cows and try to be friendly to them. And so I'm not, I'm not enamored with going up to one that's really likely to want a gourmet. Speaker 1 07:09 Yeah, yeah, I don't blame you. It is actually funny, though, a lot of the best bucking horses and bulls are really docile and pretty friendly when they're outside of the arena. And that's part of pro rodeo is born to buck program. So just like any other animal athlete, they have to instill you want to perform at that level and have the athleticism to be able to even get the cowboy off. So not every bull is even capable of doing that. And it is funny too, because if they don't want to, they won't, and there's nothing that you can really make them, you know, try any harder than they want to, but, but the top pro bucking bulls and pro bucking horses, they know their job. They're very athletic and prompted, and they really turn it on when the lights in the crowd are, you know, are over them. Michael Hingson 08:00 So they're smart and they know they're in a performing environment, as opposed to just always wanting to do it. I'm sure there are some that always want to, but mostly it's a performing thing, and they're smart enough to know that. Speaker 1 08:13 Yep, they are, and it's so cute. Each horse, at least, all of them that I've ever met, have such distinct personalities, yeah, and they're almost like a dog, if you're around them enough, you really get to know them and their preferences and their likes and dislikes. And it's really fun to get, to get that connection with your with your animal, Michael Hingson 08:32 yeah, and that's that's fine. So I didn't really know that, that it was more of a of a sport where the animals really do know what they're supposed to do and and they do it when they have to and when they don't have to, they're not necessarily feeling empowered to do that. They want to visit with people. Speaker 1 08:54 Yep, yep. That's right. That's cool. Michael Hingson 08:57 Well, there you go. Well, learn, learn something about that well and barrel racing that that keeps you busy. So how well do you do a barrel racing? Speaker 1 09:08 Well, I love it so much. I've been trying my whole life, honestly, and I I've won a lot, and I've had several setbacks, but it's something that I really enjoy, and the progress and the connection that I had with my horse in pursuit of greatness is is what I'm truly addicted to and keep coming back to. And I've had a couple of really great horses during my lifetime, but the thing I find the most rewarding is taking a young horse and watching them grow up on my ranch, and then finally, being able to get to ride them when they're big enough, and to see them learn and grow with you, and know that you know they had that experience because you you taught them and you gave it to them, and to see them be willing and proud of themselves. And that's pretty cool to me, and that's what, that's what I really enjoy. So I'll always have horses. Whether I'm able to compete or not. I think I'm a lifelong, you know, horse trainer, and just enjoy it so much. It's definitely something that I want to keep in my life. Michael Hingson 10:11 Well, it's also I would think about building a level of trust. And the reason you can be successful with a horse or whatever is that you you create and you develop that level of trust where you both know how to work with each other, you know how each other thinks. And, you know, I find that with every guide dog that I get, it's the same sort of thing. You've got to develop the relationship and make it work. Speaker 1 10:39 Yep, I can imagine this similar and just asking, you know, that animal to trust you and to, you know, take care of you as well. And something a lot of people don't think about in the rodeo world is that you're you're actually running full speed into an arena that you're not sure what the ground is going to be like, and there is a lot of responsibility on the horse to be able to find his footing and act quickly. And while I am hoping that we are able to turn the barrel as close as possible, if they're not able to do that because of the ground, that's where you'll see, some horses kind of be a little bit wider or maybe stumble, but a lot of times we'll just taking care of their rider. And so it is kind of cool how you you can work together and and there's always seems like there's more to do, but, but having that initial trust and bond is so important, because you really are asking a lot of them to go just totally full speed into arena lights and music and applause and to take care of you, and they eat it up. Yeah, they do. There are some that like it more than others, honestly. And just like the bucking bulls and the bucking horses, if they don't actually enjoy it, they're not going to perform well. And the sport is so competitive that they've really got to love it, and you also have to truly love it. And kind of, when you get to the rodeo, if you're showcasing what you've done at home, that's the fun part. But you've got to love the whole entire process, and more of it's going to be at home working through things than it is, you know, with the fringe flying at the at the arena and the performance, Michael Hingson 12:19 and again, like anything, it's a two way trust. So you both have to trust each other and learn to work together, which, which is so important. And I wish more people would recognize that with their pets, that that's what it's really about, and it's about developing a deeper, true trusting relationship than most of us realize. Speaker 1 12:38 Yep, that is right. And I've actually, I've actually got a little rodeo dog that I take with me too, and he's part of the family as much as any of the horses, but I don't know that I have near the trust in him to run off or to take care of me if he's awfully so I really admire that the dogs and the work that you do with That's really incredible. Michael Hingson 13:03 Well. So you, you went to college, right? Yes, yep. Where did you go and what did you study? Speaker 1 13:12 I went to South Dakota State, and that was part of the military. When I joined, they would pay tuition anywhere in the state that I wanted to go. So that's the college that I decided on, and I actually got a partial scholarship for the equestrian program there as well. But I ended up studying political science, and that was part of my military journey as well. I was in intelligence, so I was most interested in foreign policy and and things like that, kind of in that Intel Avenue. Michael Hingson 13:47 I was wondering what got you into the military, so that that kind of led you into then working and being a part of the military for a while? Speaker 1 13:57 Yeah, I think the main draw for the military, to me was to get out of the small town that I grew up in and get to see the world. And I didn't really know what career field I should go in. That was kind of by chance, but it ended up totally changing my life, and it's been a part of my life since then, and I'm really glad that that happened for me, because I had no idea what Intel meant. And I really didn't know a fighter yet, from an aircraft carrier, from anything. I just had no clue when I went in. So it was totally eye opening experience, but I ended up being very fortunate in finding a job that I actually do like. Michael Hingson 14:37 So what attracted you to intelligence and how did, how did you use that? How did it change your life? Speaker 1 14:45 Well, they had a signing bonus, which was very significant, especially at an at an age of 18, to get college paid for and have that sign on bonuses put you so far ahead of most of your peers. Financially, that that was truly what, what drew me to it, and my as that scores were high enough where I did qualify. And I think that's one of the reasons why that career field was so scarce, because it is tough to get into. The training is very long, and a lot of people don't, don't end up being good at it, even if they do qualify. So they're always looking for people who are going to be able to progress and stay in the career field a long time. But I ended up, you know, doing nine years in the military as an intel analyst, which is very interesting to me, and then I got out to Rodeo, but ended up coming back to do surveillance and reconnaissance, which is right underneath that Intel umbrella. And then any of the jobs that I would find here, you know, in the US would be right underneath that too. And an Intel is such a huge career field. There's so many different ways you can go with it. One of the things I'm looking at now is human trafficking in Oklahoma, which I didn't realize was, you know, such a big problem, or a big department, but the Oklahoma Bureau of Narcotics has several intel analyst positions to just battle the human trafficking that's happening here, which I thought was very interesting. But so Michael Hingson 16:14 what makes a person really good at Intel? You said you were good at it. There are a lot of people who may qualify, but they're not really good. What does that mean? Speaker 1 16:23 Yeah, well, I think you have to have a natural ability to make decisions without all of the information, to excel in intelligence that and being able to speak in front of you, know, your commander or a unit and talk about what you think and why based on just the information that's given is a unique thing for a lot of people, especially somebody who's younger. So I've always been comfortable in front of a crowd. I've done, you know, pageants, rodeo and things like that. So just the nature of being in front of a crowd isn't super intimidating to me. But once I learned, you know, the process, I wasn't afraid to study and once I would study enough, it gave me confidence to get up in front of people and make decisions. And I found it very rewarding once you get to actually see what those decisions mean, as far as the Intel cycle and the whole operation that's going on overseas. It's pretty cool to be a part of such a big thing. And and I really did enjoy that, and it keeps it super interesting, because the battlefield is ever changing and that the enemy is ever changing, and no operation is exactly the same. So just super dynamic, clear field well, actually, a lot of pressure and keep you awake. Michael Hingson 17:44 Yeah, fun. Well, I know we're all dealing with, of course, now, the whole issue of a war in Iran and all that that must, must be a really intelligence pressured situation, because there's so much that can happen and go wrong and and go right, but that must be a challenge. Speaker 1 18:05 Yeah. And it's funny, I'm not, not really involved anymore in intelligence, so I, I always do wonder, you know, what is the real picture? What are we really doing? What are we preparing for, and what's going on that the public hasn't found out about yet, yeah, but it has surprised me some of the things that have come out just because the the world that I grew up in the Internet didn't quite exist, and I was going through school and we never put anything online press wasn't, you know, even something we considered or talked about, Just wasn't, wasn't part of our world. So to see some of the capabilities that we're using to, like, find a down pilot, or to go in and knock out communications and electricity, that's crazy to me that they're able to talk about that on an unclassified network. But I think it also serves a purpose, just in, you know, a show of force. And there's always more to the story than is ever, you know, put on the news. So there's, there's actually a lot of analysis that everybody needs to do, just as far as where they get their news, and trying to determine what is actually the point, and what are we doing really, and what are some of the outcomes? It's just a very dynamic and uncertain world to dive into, Michael Hingson 19:24 yeah, because I'm sure all of that is true, and there's a lot that we don't know. And to put it this way, it'd be nice to be a fly on the wall and know some of those things, but at the same time, I also know why not everything is put out, and then that's fine there. There are things that that really shouldn't necessarily be disclosed. The other side of it is though, that people want to disclose, or they want everybody everything to be disclosed, and that just doesn't work all the time. Sometimes we really need to learn to respect silence. There's value in that. Speaker 1 20:01 Yeah, Yep, absolutely. And you can't give away all of your capabilities, or it changes the battlefield entirely. Just so not, yeah, you know, the rest of the world will be prepared to deal with deal with us, and I think should have an upper hand and keep our hearts kind of close to our chest. But at the end of the day, those decisions are so far out of my hands. And it's funny, even when I was, you know, actively working in a combat zone, they would usually only tell us just enough where you can succeed in your role. You didn't necessarily know the full picture or get to see outside of, you know, your little tunnel vision, but the people in charge, you know, you really had to have faith and trust in them, and what you're doing greater good and serves a purpose that we believe in and and it's interesting to think things back now on. You know, my earlier days in Intel, you just you have no idea what's going on truly, and how many different working pieces there are, and you're just doing your best to get this briefing out, but it's such a big, you know, wheelhouse, and there's so many parts, and it's a little overwhelming. Actually, they think they put 18 year olds out into that, and yeah, and expect them to thrive. Well, the other Michael Hingson 21:19 part of it is that just focusing on what you are are supposed to do probably makes a lot of sense, because you don't need to worry about everything so you so you were I didn't get the last of what you were saying. Speaker 1 21:36 I was saying that, you know, in your in your career field, you try to do the very best of the things that you can control, and you have to have a lot of faith in your team, the guy sitting next next to you, that they're going to also do their best. And you know, at the end of the day, you can't worry about the factors that you can't control, and that's something that's very challenging and in Intel to realize and to sit with, because there are so many dynamic moving pieces that it it will make you crazy if you try to read every single thing or know every single thing, and that kind of goes with rodeo too. You try to be as prepared as you can, but there's a lot you can't control. The more comfortable you can be in that the the better operator that you would be. Well, one of Michael Hingson 22:24 the mantras that I have lived by, especially since September 11, and have talked about on this podcast some, is that whole concept, don't worry about what you can't control. Focus on what you can. And one of the reasons that that's so important is especially for people who don't really know how to do this, well, if you just worry about everything in you, what if everything to death? You're going to create so much fear in your life, you won't really be able to cope with anything. And we all ought to learn to just focus on the things over which we really have control. That doesn't mean that we shouldn't be aware of other things, but we need to learn not to worry about them and only worry about the things over which we have control, because those are the things that will really be able to help you deal with any fear that you may have, and also deal with being able to control fear and not focus on stuff that doesn't make sense. Speaker 1 23:20 Yeah, I like that a lot, and it is sometimes easier said than done, but it is, Michael Hingson 23:29 well, it is, it is something that one can learn, however, how to do? You can learn to control, sir, you can learn to deal with just the things over which you have control and learn not to what if or not to what ifs in an emotional way, the things that you can't. I gave a speech a couple of years ago to the business continuity Institute, and business continuity as they just as the people who are in it describe it, they're the what if people. They're the ones that are always looking to analyze and consider what could happen to their business, or the business they work for that could cause it to crash or not succeed or or have a problem. And they're the ones that have to put in place the things that will allow a business to continue. So like with the wars over in in the Middle East and so on, businesses over there have to deal with finding ways to have business continuity, whether it's backing up computer data, other forms of communications, or whatever, and they've got business continuity people to help them do that. But the reality is that those business continuity people have been thinking about that for a while. The difference is they don't get emotionally involved, and they don't let it worry them, because all they can do is deal with what they can deal with, and they recognize that, and it's and it's really so important to focus on the things over which you really do have control, and the rest even, although you may be aware. But you need to learn to filter it out and not let it worry you, because that's just going to drive you crazy. And the reality is, like over 95% of the things we worry about will never happen, and there are things that we don't have any control over anyway. Speaker 1 25:15 That is very true. Yep, that is very true. Michael Hingson 25:20 So you, you eventually did get kind of out of the military, but you've built a lot of different life. You've been in the rodeo, military, real estate, involvement and author. What connects all of that? Speaker 1 25:37 Well, I think that, you know, I'm, I'm always interested in progressing and working towards something so if I feel like one avenue isn't isn't serving me anymore, I'm not afraid to pivot and try something new. And I think I just have the personality type where I want to, you know, live a meaningful life and create impact. And whether it's rodeo or real estate, I've always enjoyed giving back and sharing with you know people who are like me or people who are on a similar journey, some of the lessons that I had learned along the way to help them kind of skip through some steps with this class at all possible, but I know when I really made the most progress. It was because of the thing, what I had around me, or a coach or a mentor, or some type of educational content that I got a hold of that really catapulted me, or at least got me into the state where I could find the answers. You know myself, but just having a an environment where it encourages you to do more, be more. That's something that you know, that you're called to, getting around the right people can make a huge difference. Then I think it's it's fun to pursue different things that we're interested in, whether it's career related or just something because you love it, like rodeo. I don't know that I'll ever be just a full time cowgirl again, but I love it so much that I've found a way to make it part of my life. And I think that's important for people to know too, because a lot of people their passion isn't, maybe going to make them money, and they may not be able to pay the bills doing this, but that doesn't mean that you can't, you know, fill your life with things that you enjoy. And so it's been a difficult, you know, balance, to try to figure out how it's all going to work together, but, but I really do enjoy different different facets in different areas, and I feel like if I had more time, I would pick up even more hobbies, but really maxed out with what we've got going on currently. Michael Hingson 27:39 How did Mrs. Oklahoma come into it? Speaker 1 27:43 Well, I grew up doing rodeo Queen pageant, and it was actually one of the things I wrote about in my book, because it was the first time I really faced, you know, loss and judgment and the feeling of you just aren't good enough, and there are no other options, was to compete at Miss Troy to America and to not win. And I had set my sights and my goals on that since I was just a little girl. And it's unique in the rodeo world, because you only get to try one time, and there's no other organizations. There's no other options, actually. So it's just heartbreaking to realize that that dream is, you know, that dream is put to bed, and to figure out what's next ended up led it led to, you know, other pageant systems and other ways to give back and make a difference. And having been Miss Rodeo, you know, I know that with the crown and with that visibility is a huge avenue to make a difference. It gets you in a lot of the right rooms. It gives you credibility, and it it allows you, you know, the connection and the support to do whatever it is that you are passionate about, and more so in the pageant world than the rodeo world, because the rodeo world, your job is to represent Professional Rodeo for for that sport and to advocate for that organization. But in the pageant world, you can pick, you can actually go after whatever platform means the most to you, and the year is yours to do with it what you will. And so with my book coming out, it just seemed like an easy no brainer to kind of combine the two, and it's allowed me to go to different schools and speak, to get on different podcasts, and it's been a really great combo. So the book that I've written will be, you know, further than just this year, but Mrs. Oklahoma City is a year long title, and I'll get to get go compete for Mrs. Oklahoma here in about two months. Michael Hingson 29:40 Wow. Well, that'll be, that'll be kind of fun. Do you? Obviously, you enjoy the pageant world some Speaker 1 29:48 I do. And actually, even if you don't end up winning the ultimate title, it's so fun to be around like minded women that are, you know, similar in age, or also live in your. State, because those are the people that I really enjoy collaborating with, connecting with, and end up being lifelong friends with. I remember, you know, when I was Miss Rodeo, I was like 2013 I want to say so it's been several years ago, but the girls that I served with that year are actually some of my best friends this day, and I don't know that we ever would have crossed paths otherwise, but to get in a room with other high achievers that have similar interests, that is actually that is worth it, in my eyes, even if you don't take home the actual crown. So it's fun, and I love it, and it just seems like a really good fit, and I'm glad that they don't put age limits on it across the board, because I'm married now, I'm I'm definitely older than, you know, winning as a teenager or even early 20s. So it's fun to get to do it at this stage. And I actually think it's more beneficial, because they have a lot more to say now and have a lot more lessons and that I've learned a little bit more perspective and just a an overall better package, I think, Michael Hingson 31:03 is there a lot of politics in those contests or or do you there is? Speaker 1 31:09 Yeah, yes, there definitely is. And it just depends, you know, what system and honestly, what year, and that's what drew me to barrel racing, because it's no one's opinion. It is against the clock. There's, there's not a lot of room for excuses. You're either the fastest that day or you're not. So I do love bear racing for that reason, but I also love what pageants bring. So I'm still active in both, but there are definite pros and cons. Michael Hingson 31:41 Do they measure the time in barrel racing? And she did us down to hundredths of a second with with all the movements of the animals. How do they measure the time so accurately? Speaker 1 31:52 Well, there's an electric eye that senses when the horse's nose crosses it, so that starts to clock digitally. So there is no room for error. So it used to be a flag, and a judge would stand at the line and try to accurately throw the flag down, and then the timer would stop by a secretary holding a clock in their hand. But the competition has just gotten so close that even to do that would be so inaccurate. So the electric eye is is awesome, and they've got so much technology now that they can even overlay your run with with the winner and see where they were faster. Maybe it's around the first world, maybe it's around second, and segment it down so you can break up, you know, your time to first, or your time to second, and see, you know, really, where you where you need to make improvements, or where you got beat, and it's ever so polite, I mean, just a little hesitation and you're out. Michael Hingson 32:47 Yeah, fascinating. It's, it's interesting. And I've never attended a rodeo. I know it's a lot more visual than probably typically I am used to, but it would be fun to, you know, to do it one of these days, so we'll have to come and watch you in Oklahoma. Speaker 1 33:04 Yeah, absolutely. And a lot of times the announcers do such a good job at explaining it, because they never know exactly what the crowd is. So they always do a good job of explaining exactly what's going on in the arena and like, what the penalties might be, or who this cowgirl is. That is enjoyable to listen to as well, cool. Michael Hingson 33:24 Well, so you, you are married. We, you talked a little bit about that, and your husband and you met in Afghanistan. Tell me about that. We did Speaker 1 33:34 romantic city of Bagram. There you are. Yeah, we, we both did the same job as contractors, but my husband was actually one of the guys who would be on the ground doing more of the hands on part of the operation, so it was cool to get to fly with him eventually, because he had, he had a lot to teach me, and I definitely became a student of his, and asked a lot of questions, and we really connected in in the sky, and with the platform that I was on, we would be up there for several hours, and that environment is secure, so you can't have you know your phone or music or movies or things like that, so you really just have your crew to talk to, and it was just him and I Really and we got to know each other for, you know, several months with no distractions of the civilian world, no, you know, makeup or horses or social media. So I just felt like our connection was so raw and honest that, you know, we just it was pretty simple. And the day that we met, we pretty much became best friends and inseparable system. So it's fun for him to get to come to Oklahoma and see a lot more about my background once we got out of Afghanistan. Jimmy definitely come from different different upbringings. He grew up in the city, and hadn't really been on a horse or even around horses until he met me, but. But now he, you know, he's got some booths and drop there. It's funny to see the the change. But yeah, we, we both bring different things to the table, but found a lot of similarities and ended up both really enjoying real estate. And now what we do full time is flip and renovate houses here in Oklahoma. So that's just very busy. Michael Hingson 35:22 How long have you been married? Speaker 1 35:24 We've been married for three years, and we've been flipping full time for one year. And I will say that if you are ever trying to test your marriage, just go ahead and buy a house together and see if you can renovate it, because it is a lot of collaboration and uncertainty and problem solving honestly at the end of the day, and a lot of hard work, but it's ended up bringing us a whole lot closer, because we've been able to see some of the fruits of our labor and make some really great deals happen. And we love it, just in that we can kind of control our schedule and get to be home all the time. So we're we're definitely going to keep going on the real estate path. Michael Hingson 36:06 My wife and I were married for 40 years before she passed in November of 2022 and we bought over our lifetime, several houses. We were pretty we were pretty aligned on all of that. And one of the things about Karen is that she was in a wheelchair her whole life, so a lot of what we did was based around either finding a house that we could modify to be accessible for her, or what we liked better was when we could find property and build a house. Because if you build a house, oh, okay, and you make the house accessible as you're building it. It doesn't cost anything to do that. You design in lower counters, you design wider doors, you design level entryways and so on. Whereas, if you buy a house and then you modify it, it costs hundreds of 1000s of dollars. But we had a couple of times where we knew we were going to be in an area where we couldn't find property to build a home, and when it came down to looking with real estate agents to find a home that we could modify, the problem is with some of them, if they just didn't get it, they took us to a house and we said, this is why this won't work. This is why that won't work. And then the next house they took us to was the same thing. And they said, Well, this is different. Well, no, it's not. It's the same thing. And so yeah, it does get to be a challenge come Speaker 1 37:34 by honestly, and it's such a big market, everybody's real to these days or knows somebody, but it is definitely a skill to to have a good realtor on your side and and we've definitely learned that through selling, selling different houses, because, yeah, lots of different ones, and definitely know how to appreciate a good one, Michael Hingson 37:54 yeah, and we were, you know, sometimes it took a little effort, but we were able to find good Realtors eventually, that we could, that we could work with. And then, you're right, they're such a blessing, we had to go through some bad one, not bad ones, but just lack of perceptive I won't say they're bad, because they probably did all right, but they they didn't get what we needed. But we learned a lot and and had a lot of fun. So we were pretty aligned on what we we needed in a house, because a lot of it was based on accessibility for Karen, because for me, it's not as magical kind of thing. But by the same token, we we learned a lot, and it worked well. But when we could build a house like this home I'm in now, we built in 2016 we moved down to Southern California in 2014 and lived in an apartment for almost two and a half years, and we were it wasn't overly accessible, but it was accessible enough for Karen to be able to do most things in it, but we were waiting to get a construction loan, and then we got it. And by June or July of 2016 they started building or working on the house. Maybe it was like May of 2016 and I remember one day, I think it was in July, we came over from the apartment, and we're watching as they put the big trusses up on the where the roof, for the roof, all the big beams and all that. We just kind of watched that for a while, but they did make it accessible, and that's what we needed, which was cool. Speaker 1 39:37 Well, good, yeah, that's such a feat to do all of that, and I've definitely gained some appreciation for contractors and people who work in the houses and on the houses, because it is such a fun experience for every homeowner, but to be new in it, there's just so much to learn. Yeah, it's a huge, huge world and a huge undertaking. Earn to build, for sure, but even to own a home and and it is fun and very rewarding when we get to, you know, make somebody's dream homes come to life, or to be able to do the deal with them and help them along their journey. And I think even if you're not, you know, innately interested in real estate, it is something that everybody should consider, because you do have to have some somewhere to live for your whole life. So to learn about it and to make a proactive decision, rather than kind of reactive, is is fun. And I like sharing our real estate journey with people from like rodeo world or the military world, because, you know, they end up, you know, thinking maybe this is something I'd like to do or learn more about, when initially they just probably thought, you know, I'll just rent and see how it goes. But there's a lot of value in buying early. And especially in the military, there's some cool programs that can really help, help the service members out and get into a house. Michael Hingson 40:56 Yeah, well, for you, being in the rodeo world, and I would think in the military and intelligence and so on, you have had a lot of issues dealing with pressure and identity and resilience and so on. What have you learned from these different kinds of environments that you've been in that really helps you do better at coping with pressure and being more resilient? Speaker 1 41:22 Well, the military is definitely a great teacher for a lot of those things. And that was kind of the first time that I had to ask myself, you know, who are you? Who are you without the military? And for a long time, I thought that was a barrel racer, until that was taken and then I was forced to look a little bit deeper and figure out, you know, what makes me happy, what makes me sick? What do I want with my life? Where would I like to live? Things like that? And I realized that a lot of it wasn't tangible. It's not necessarily the things that you have, but more than things you're surrounded with, and how you feel on a daily basis. And for me, it always ended up being with horses and connecting with animals and being out in nature and having a little bit of land and kind of getting away from the hustle and bustle of the city. But it took, you know, it took several years to learn that about myself and and I had to, you know, really see the world and try out a lot of different roles before I I kind of feel like I figured I figured myself out. I got to know myself a little bit better, but pivoting and getting that identity taken away from you that you you really just resonate with, like I'm a military member or I'm a professional cowgirl, to take that away can be life changing, and it can be very shocking for people emotionally, and lead to a lot of depression or questions and and the thing that the military, you know, teaches us all the time, and I didn't realize that without some reflection, but is is to shift flexibility. Is that the key to air power and something doesn't work out. That doesn't mean that you failed, and it doesn't mean that you need to quit. You just got to readjust, re attack, get a better plan and continue on. So I know the military teaches that without people realizing it, but it that is a lifelong skill, and it's a skill for people who aren't even in the military to take off on and to and to practice, because you can use it so many times throughout your life, and it's in different scenarios too, but, but for me, the the craziest thing ever was to think that I'm no longer in the military, or I'm no longer a barrel racer, and to ask just who are you? Who are you really? What makes you happy? Have you Michael Hingson 43:41 ever had a time where you kind of really hit rock bottom and what did, how did that all go? Speaker 1 43:46 Yeah, yes, I definitely have, and I go into a lot of detail about it in my first book, but it was, you know, when I ended up quitting the military or getting out to pursue pro radio I thought that was my fairy tale ending. I thought that was my Cinderella story. I thought that, you know, this was the time that I was going to make it, but instead, I ended up spending all of my money over leveraging my assets and totally going broke, and my horse ended up getting hurt. So it was, to me, it was devastating in a lot of ways, and I felt like I didn't have any options. And you know, when that state is so hard to see past this year or this hurdle or this, you know, difficulty, but what I did was to go back to Afghanistan, to go back to the work that I know that I was good at, that actually does pay and give it all up. I basically had to strip away everything that I loved about my life and kind of start over. And the the main thing that helped me was that stability of a long term job where, you know, in the military, they. Take a lot of care of you. They give you a bed, they give you food, they give you a job and a paycheck. And it might not be the most glamorous or most fun thing, and there's, you know, there's definitely some sacrifice that goes into deploying long term. I think I was there initially for about a year, and that was really hard for me to do, but it gave me that stability and the time and the space to just start over and think about what, what exactly I wanted to do with my life and where we could go from here. And I felt like I truly, you know, was at my lost bottom. I felt like I didn't have a purpose anymore or or anything to strive for. But that wasn't the case at all. And so it was a good experience looking back. What do you want to go through again? And I would hope you know, others can pick themselves up quicker than I was able to. But yeah, that's a definite lesson that I wanted to share with others. And I know a lot of people feel that to some degree when they go through major life changes, and that's a lot of about what my book is based on, and definitely the first one that is titled not enough, or just that feeling that you failed and that you're not good enough, when maybe you know your whole world is is crumbling, but, but there is a way forward. There is a path, and there's different tools you can use and you can get back up again, Michael Hingson 46:25 but you talk about not enough a lot. Where did that belief first show up in your life? Speaker 1 46:32 Well, I think it was ingrained, honestly, at an early age, and maybe people don't realize it, but the feelings of lack and obscurity, you know, you pick up throughout your lifetime. And for me, it just be, got became too heavy to even hold, and I just completely broke down. But I think that you know, whether it's a teacher that tells you, you know you're not, you're not a smart kid. You know, spelling isn't your thing, math isn't your thing. They kind of plant these little seeds of doubt along our lives. And maybe it's a parent, or maybe it's a friend or, you know, a lot of people go through a lot of trauma when they break up with a loved one or a partner, especially for the first time, and they start to maybe believe those things that they're being told, or they let the doubt get louder than their self confidence and their self worth and and for me, it it just slowly chipped away little by little until it just was all that I knew, and I ended up just totally believing that, yeah, I don't. I don't deserve to be out rodeoing. I I don't have any worth. There's nothing that I bring to the table, you know, I just completely shut down and felt just totally not enough and and that's not the case. And even if you feel like that, you know, there, the sun will shine again if you allow it. And it's a mental cage that I think we build for ourselves, but just kind of facing that and realizing, well, you're not alone in those thoughts, and that even some of the great, even some of the best athletes you'll ever follow, or some of the people on social media will just look like they have it all together, that their life is perfect. You know, we all have our ups and downs, and we all have battles and struggles, and not everybody shows that, and that's kind of the thing I didn't realize when I had first gotten to that place, is that I thought maybe I was alone or my story was somehow the worst. And that's totally not the case. And there's different things you can do to kind of pull yourself out of that mental state, but but definitely being open to learning from others, and collaborating and honestly giving back. And those are some of the things that I that I talk about in my book, that that helped me, but I maybe didn't realize it at the time, but looking back now, I can definitely say point to a couple of different things, but that definitely Michael Hingson 48:58 helped to turn it around. Yep, yeah. So you said your first book. Have you written other books since Speaker 1 49:07 I have. I've actually written four, and part of the reason I wrote four was because I was writing for several years. I think it was seven years ago that I had the concept for the book, and I wanted it to be a four part book, but it just got so big that it turned into four different books. So the first one is not enough. Had enough, am enough, and then never enough was the last one. And they all kind of talk about different different things, but the central theme is similar throughout all of them. So you can definitely enjoy each book individually, but it is more fun, I think, to read the series, and I really do think they get better as I go. I'm excited for the first one, but I'm the most excited for the last one, and they are all written, and I plan to release them one month. In between. So I just want to get it out into the world and get it off my desk, because it's been here for seven years. Michael Hingson 50:06 So not enough is released. Speaker 1 50:09 It will be released April 23 and then a month after that will be the second, and then a month, and then another month, and then they'll all be out. Wow. Michael Hingson 50:18 Well, congratulations. Are you self publishing, or are you self publishing? Or do you have a publisher? Speaker 1 50:25 I'm doing a hybrid publish, okay? And I looked at a couple different options. I wasn't sure which way to go, and it's certainly overwhelming as the first time author, but I thought, you know, I definitely could use some help as far as the admin side goes, or future, everything's set up correctly, but I know I do have an audience that wants to hear my story and maybe wonders where I went, as far as Pro rodeoing, or what happened to my horse, really, when he got hurt. And hopefully picked up a few new listeners too that haven't been with me as long. But yeah, think that that it'll be a good combo to just do a hybrid model. Michael Hingson 51:06 So how is your horse? Speaker 1 51:09 Well, I still have him. That was one of the things that I refused to do, was basically sell out, even though, you know, I had, I had trained him. He was worth a lot at the height of his career, and I turned down a lot of money for him just because I feel like I owe him my my life, my career, and a lot of my happiness. So he will always have a place in my pasture, but he will never probably be sound enough to run consistently again. He had a what's called navicular and easiest way to describe that is basically the really small bone in his foot. Kind of looks like Swiss cheese. And on the edges of the bone, it kind of sticks out, and the more that he uses it, it kind of severs a really important tendon in his leg, so as he runs more or strains himself too hard to get sore, and so he's just gonna stay at my house and ease around, eat a lot of hay, keep the others alive. Michael Hingson 52:10 Do you ride him every so often? Speaker 1 52:12 I don't, just because I don't want to put any pressure. Yeah. Pressure on his foot. Yeah? But I do what's called Liberty with him. So it's where he doesn't have any halter or saddle or anything on, and I'm also on the ground, and we just work together. You take a walk around, and as fast as he would want to go, yep, take a walk. Yeah. Injury is kind of in his front feet. He likes to come up off the ground. So I'm working on teaching him to rare up. Michael Hingson 52:45 Well, there you go. That's that's cool. How many horses do you have? 52:50 I have five with one on the way. Michael Hingson 52:53 Well, there you go. Now, is your husband in the rodeo circuit as well? Speaker 1 52:58 Anywhere? Definitely not okay to ride, if he can help it, but he is really handy, and can do everything that I would need to take care of him, but he prefers to be inside a car with a lot more horsepower. Michael Hingson 53:17 Um, well, maybe you'll still convert convert him at some point to be a little bit more horse oriented. Yeah. Well, you see, you say that most people tend to operate from the wrong identity. What do you mean by that? And how did you shift out of it, whatever it is? Speaker 1 53:35 Well, I think growing up, you get this idea of who you are and associate it with a label, and for most people, it's what their profession is. And so it's really jarring when you take that away and just operating from a place of tangible assets or a job that you do that actually isn't who you are, it is what you do, but to look a little bit deeper and figure out what makes you you is kind of the theme of the identity first framework. And I think that you know it becomes evident later on in life if you if you try to figure that out. But I think a lot of people are unhappy, and they realize that maybe in a job that they don't like and they realize they've done it for 20 years. Or, you know, they they wake up with a partner that isn't serving them, or they're just unhappy. And I think a lot of it has to do with their identity and realizing that they are enough. You know, in this job without, this job, with this partner or without, and the thing that makes you you actually can't be taken away only if you let it. And it's just building that mental you know, resilience and confidence to understand that no matter what setback you're looking at, you can rise again, because nobody is going to define you by some. Seems silly, like a like a job or even a title beside your name. You're much more than that, much deeper than that. And the passion the things that make you happy, taste those things and figure out a way to put those in your life consistently and to progress towards those things, is what I've found makes me the most fulfilled in my day to day. Michael Hingson 55:22 You've talked about coaching and mentoring, and you clearly value that. Why is trying to do stuff alone not a good idea? Speaker 1 55:33 Well, you don't have to spend so much time figuring things out the hard way. You can actually just find somebody who's been down that path before and take their advice and go where they where they point you. And I think it's really undervalued, but the people who aren't quite there yet, but they're a few steps ahead of where you are, those are the most valuable teachers to me, because they remember that struggle that you're experiencing, you know right now, they remember what it's like, and they have that next step, or however they figured it out, they've got it in their back pocket now, and it's not, it's not really something that that you need to pay for. There's a lot of mentors that are in your community or in your network, or they should be that you can reach out to. And I think a lot of people you know, when they're not taught to be a coach, they don't feel like they should be and but I've found so much value in giving back when I'm not the expert yet, but I can tell you how I've gotten to where I am, because I just loved it and and those are the people that I want to encourage to reach back and to mentor and to help. And I've found it very fulfilling to be able to help somebody else. It's not too much skin off my back to help you out, because I I know how to do it, but it can make a world of difference for somebody who's struggling, or somebody who wants to get where you are, and I think we're oftentimes too humble to think that. You know people do look up to you, even if you haven't made it yet, even if you're not entirely where you want to be. There are people who look to you as someone they want to be like and to reach back for them and send the elevator back down. That makes life so much more fulfilling. Michael Hingson 57:22 Well, so you you do real estate, you flip houses and so on. Do you also coach? Can people hire you as a coach? Speaker 1 57:30 Well, I'm working on building my coaching leg of my website. I do have some coaching options more in the horse space, but my husband and I have learned so much about real estate that we are always available through, you know, email or DM. We don't have an official program yet, but we would like to move towards that. But we are absolutely involved in different coaching programs in real estate. If you're interested at all, we can show you where, where we've learned, and you can also just reach out to us for some tips and tricks too. We'd love to connect. We'd love to help, help you. If you're interested in some of the same things that we are doing. Michael Hingson 58:07 Me, I'll be interested when I find out that your husband rides a horse and is in the rodeo business. Speaker 1 58:14 You made me wait in a while. I don't know if I know. I know, yeah, funny that the last time you rode a horse, I was busy trying to take a picture of him, and his horse ended up laying down in a lake. I could have seen it coming if I was paying better attention, but I was trying to take his picture so he had a couple boots full of water and a ruined cell phone. So I don't know if we're going to get it back on anytime soon, but I promise to pay better attention of the day. Michael Hingson 58:45 Stay away from the water. It's one effort. What do you say to people who say, Well, I'm too old to change direction and do things differently? Speaker 1 58:58 Well, I would say that's a really poor attitude, because there's so many examples around us of people who have succeeded when they only started at 45 or, you know, 60. And it just depends what industry you're in as to who you can can look to to be an example. But even if you don't have an example, why not you? And I think the biggest key to success is putting the right people and mentors in place to ensure that the path you're on is correct and kind of help you over some of those hurdles. But no matter what it is you you're still able to pivot and go in that direction and find a way to make it a part of your life, even if that might have to change just a little bit, like in the rodeo world, you can, you can still have horses. So you're, you're super old, like, I think the oldest gal to make it to the finals was 62 or 64 so don't be intimidated. There's always somebody a little bit older and a little bit busier. Than you that's making it happen. So don't be afraid to think you know, why not you and just go after, go after the dreams. Because if you don't even try, you're definitely not going to get there. I think you'll find along the way that the progress you're going to make and the friends you make along that journey is actually what you're after anyway, not necessarily the goal of the buckle or winning the rodeo, but to train a great horse or to meet some people along the way that you're gonna be lifelong friends with, that's the that's the stuff that I'm that I'm chasing. And I definitely have realized that over the last couple years, well, Michael Hingson 1:00:35 if somebody says to you, I really just feel stuck or I'm behind, what would you advise them to do. It sort of relates to what you just said, but still fair question to ask. Speaker 1 1:00:46 Yeah, I would say you've got to change your state, and that may look different, just depending on the person, but if you can get in an environment where you feel a little bit more empowered, you feel a little more optimistic, then you can start finding the answers for yourself. And it may be to go to a seminar to you know, go to a meetup, get around other high achievers that are doing what you want to do, or it may just be calling a friend who's uplifting, who asks you the right questions and provokes you to really explore a little bit deeper in your mind as to, what is it that is causing you to shut down, like, what is it truly? What are you afraid of? Is it, you know, judgment by others? Is that why you don't want to try or or, what are you what are you truly scared of? And to face that head on, and to put a name on it, a lot of times, you realize it's not so scary and not the end all, be all, and to just kind of work, work through it one day at a time, just don't, don't expect to go zero to 100 overnight. There's a lot to be said for showing up consistently and just making incremental progress over time. A lot of people are so impatient and they want it all right now, or they're comparing their year one to somebody else's year 20. But just realizing, you know, in the beginning you're you're not going to be very good at whatever it is, and that's expected, that's okay, but just showing up every day for several years, you're going to pass a lot of people, because there's just so much impatience these days, the way the internet, you know, advertises and hustle culture we've got, I think there's a lot of under appreciation for commitment and hard work and just putting in the time, Michael Hingson 1:02:41 if people want to reach out to you, how can they do that? Speaker 1 1:02:46 You can find me on any platform by just clicking my full name, Jenna Renee Soto, and that's my email as well. Jenna Renee Soto, at Gmail and also my website, just to play safe. Michael Hingson 1:02:59 Can you spell all that? Jenna Renee Speaker 1 1:03:00 Soto, sure it's j, e n, n, a Renee R, E N, E, Soto, s, O, P, O, okay. Michael Hingson 1:03:11 So Jenna Renee soto@gmail.com or on any of the platforms like LinkedIn and and so on, yep. Well, I want to thank you for being here. This has been a lot of fun. We've been doing this for over an hour. Can you believe it? Speaker 1 1:03:25 Oh, excellent. No. That actually flew by. Michael Hingson 1:03:28 It did well. I want to thank you, and I want to thank all of you for being out there and listening and watching the podcast. Love to hear from you. Please feel free to email me at speaker at Michael hingson.com, that's S, P, E, A, K, E, R, at, m, I C, H, A, E, L, H, I N, G, s, O, n.com, love it
Patrick Mork has spent more than two decades working in the tech world, building and leading marketing teams at tech startups and helping to launch numerous products and brands across 3 different continents. In 2011, he joined Google and led the team there that created the Google Play brand. But, in 2017, he had a major life crisis that led him to pivot toward coaching and developing leaders in startups across Latin America. He moved to Chile and launched LEAP, it's a leadership development company. All of that inspired his first book, “Step Back and Leap: 9 Keys to Unlock Your Life and Make Change Happen.” He was on the Florida Gulf Coast University campus last week to give the final talk for the university's Provost's Seminar Series. The title of his talk was “Becoming Unstoppable: 5 Pillars to Build Resilience in the Age of AI.”
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Dating in your main character energy means more access to everything you want. More connection. More aliveness. More of the good stuff. It also means more rejection. BOO. Rejection doesn't have to mean anything about you. It's a filter, getting the wrong people out of the way. And the fear of it is one of the top forces stopping people from going after what they want. This episode is your rejection resilience guide. So you become unstoppable in your dating life. Inside episode 267: ✨ Why we fear rejection like death (literally, biologically) ✨ The SOFT protocol: move through rejection without making it mean something about you ✨ Fierce vs. tender self-compassion and when you need each one ✨ How to build reframes that actually feel true, not like toxic positivity Work with Lily:
What separates average performers from unstoppable achievers? According to Van Deeb, it comes down to five powerful principles: Drive, Desire, Determination, Discipline, and Decision.In this solo episode of The Van Deeb Podcast, Van explains how these 5Ds create the foundation for long-term success in business, sales, and life. From making the call to building discipline and connecting with the right people, Van shares the mindset and strategies that helped him build a decorated career over four decades.Whether you're an entrepreneur, salesperson, real estate professional, or someone simply looking to level up your life, this episode delivers practical motivation and actionable insight.ReferencesVan Deebhttps://vandeeb.comReal Estate Masterclasshttps://realestatemasterclass.onlineChapter 16 of Van Deeb's Bookhttps://vandeeb.com/books
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About the ReWire Podcast The ReWire Podcast with Ryan Stewman – Dive into powerful insights as Ryan Stewman, the HardCore Closer, breaks down mental barriers and shares actionable steps to rewire your thoughts. Each episode is a fast-paced journey designed to reshape your mindset, align your actions, and guide you toward becoming the best version of yourself. Join in for a daily dose of real talk that empowers you to embrace change and unlock your full potential. Learn how you can become a member of a powerful community consistently rewiring itself for success at https://www.jointheapex.com/ Rise Above
Social MediaSay hi on TikTokSay Hi on Instagram----Email List----If you've ever felt small, stuck, or like the weight of the world is crushing you — this episode is your divine wake-up call.Henry Lawrence delivers a soul-searing message for the high-achiever who's secretly struggling. You'll uncover why your pain is proof of your power, why you're not meant to stay in the valley, and how to finally rise into the next evolution of you — the version that creates miracles, moves mountains, and becomes the rising tide that lifts all ships.This isn't a motivational speech. It's a transmission of truth. Prepare to confront your limits, break the spell of smallness, and step into 2026 with a fire that doesn't fade.
About the ReWire Podcast The ReWire Podcast with Ryan Stewman – Dive into powerful insights as Ryan Stewman, the HardCore Closer, breaks down mental barriers and shares actionable steps to rewire your thoughts. Each episode is a fast-paced journey designed to reshape your mindset, align your actions, and guide you toward becoming the best version of yourself. Join in for a daily dose of real talk that empowers you to embrace change and unlock your full potential. Learn how you can become a member of a powerful community consistently rewiring itself for success at https://www.jointheapex.com/ Rise Above
In this powerful episode of Recipe To Success, we sit down with Seif El Hakim — an entrepreneur, coach, and global personality known for his intense discipline and purpose-driven lifestyle.This conversation goes deep into what it means to build identity, cultivate masculinity, overcome struggle, and live with absolute intention.Seif opens up about:His journey of transformation and self-masteryThe mindset required to build discipline and structureMasculinity in today's world and why it mattersHow purpose, clarity and struggle shape powerful menThe role of responsibility, leadership and identityBuilding businesses with conviction and long-term visionBecoming the strongest version of yourself — mentally and spirituallyHow to break cycles of weakness and reclaim personal powerThis episode goes far beyond entrepreneurship.It's about character, resilience, identity and becoming the man you are meant to be.If you value deep conversations about discipline, purpose and self-growth, this is an episode you won't want to miss.
I sat down with Koen DeWitt, and his story is a powerful reminder of what resilience really looks like. Koen grew up in a home where emotions were never spoken, and he carried that silence into adulthood. When he left corporate life to dive in Thailand, he expected a fresh start. Instead, he survived the 2004 tsunami and had to rebuild everything from the ground up. Koen opened up about the setbacks that followed, from business betrayal to a sudden heart surgery. What impressed me most was his willingness to keep choosing growth instead of staying in the pain. Today he helps entrepreneurs find purpose and stability in their own journeys, and his story encourages all of us to keep going even when life feels overwhelming. Highlights: 00:00 – Learn how early family patterns shape the way you handle pressure as an adult.02:14 – See how breaking out of routine can open unexpected paths to personal growth.04:33 – Understand why facing fear head on can transform the way you move through life.06:48 – Explore how rebuilding your identity starts with acknowledging what you've avoided.09:12 – Learn how to recognize the signs that you are living from performance instead of purpose.11:40 – Hear how setbacks can become the turning points that redefine your direction.14:28 – Discover why trusting the wrong people can still teach you the right lessons.17:05 – Understand how health challenges can clarify what truly matters in your work and life.19:44 – Learn how choosing honesty over emotional silence creates real resilience.22:31 – See how helping others through their struggles can deepen your own healing. About the Guest: Koen De Wit is a marketing strategist, coach, and former diving instructor who's rebuilt his life more than once — not by choice, but by necessity. Originally from Belgium, his early life was shaped by emotional distance, chronic illness, and the pressure to stay useful. That same drive helped him build successful dive businesses across Asia — until betrayal, trauma, and collapse forced him to start over. Twice. In 2004, Koen survived the Asian tsunami that killed 300.000 people and wounded many more. After 18 surgeries and no access to rehab or emotional support, he pushed forward the only way he knew how: by working. He became one of Thailand's leading diving instructor trainers. But behind the achievements, he carried the weight of trauma and over-responsibility. That way of surviving — through control and performance — eventually stopped working. In 2017, after losing his business again, Koen turned to digital marketing as a last resort. What began as survival became a calling. Today, he helps coaches and service entrepreneurs rebuild their business structures so they stop burning out and start creating something that feels right to run. His work blends strategy and structure with the emotional clarity most people avoid. Koen lives in Thailand with his wife and son. He doesn't believe in hustle or hype. He believes in clarity, calm systems, and work that gives back more than it takes. Ways to connect with Koen**:** https://www.linkedin.com/in/the-funnel-therapist/ https://www.facebook.com/koen.d.wit https://www.youtube.com/@funneltherapist Website https://www.thefunneltherapist.com/ About the Host: Michael Hingson is a New York Times best-selling author, international lecturer, and Chief Vision Officer for accessiBe. Michael, blind since birth, survived the 9/11 attacks with the help of his guide dog Roselle. This story is the subject of his best-selling book, Thunder Dog. Michael gives over 100 presentations around the world each year speaking to influential groups such as Exxon Mobile, AT&T, Federal Express, Scripps College, Rutgers University, Children's Hospital, and the American Red Cross just to name a few. He is Ambassador for the National Braille Literacy Campaign for the National Federation of the Blind and also serves as Ambassador for the American Humane Association's 2012 Hero Dog Awards. https://michaelhingson.com https://www.facebook.com/michael.hingson.author.speaker/ https://twitter.com/mhingson https://www.youtube.com/user/mhingson https://www.linkedin.com/in/michaelhingson/ accessiBe Links https://accessibe.com/ https://www.youtube.com/c/accessiBe https://www.linkedin.com/company/accessibe/mycompany/ https://www.facebook.com/accessibe/ Thanks for listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! 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In this episode, Jai pulls back the curtain on one of the most underrated skills in life and business: doing the hard thing. Not the comfortable thing. Not the fast thing. The thing that stretches you, scares you, and ultimately builds you.You'll explore why real dopamine doesn't come from quick wins... it comes from the process, from progress, from leaning into challenges instead of running from them. Jai breaks down how unrealistic goals reshape your identity, how your values demand courage, and how choosing the hard path creates momentum that compounds in every area of your life.This episode is raw, honest, and packed with mindset-shifting truths to help you rise into your next level. If you're ready to break the cycle of comfort, step into courage, and become truly unstoppable… this one's for you.---Six-Figure Business Map: https://sixfigurebusinessmap.com/Join the waitlist for the book release in 2026:https://jailong.co/ (Bottom of the page)Say hi To Jai Long on Instagram: @Jailong.co Leave a review on the Apple podcast app with the link below:⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/creative-business-make-your-break-podcast/id1479145264YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5nLrLzaJWItTgoNhe-y1sw
Success isn't just about money — and dating isn't just about attraction. They both reveal who you are when no one's watching. In this episode, we break down the real mechanics behind winning in every area of life — from relationships to business — and why the ones who rise aren't the most talented… they're the most consistent. You'll learn what it truly takes to build confidence, attract better people, and stay focused when everything feels like it's falling apart. This isn't motivation. It's a mirror — showing you what's been holding you back, and how to finally break through it.
About the ReWire Podcast The ReWire Podcast with Ryan Stewman – Dive into powerful insights as Ryan Stewman, the HardCore Closer, breaks down mental barriers and shares actionable steps to rewire your thoughts. Each episode is a fast-paced journey designed to reshape your mindset, align your actions, and guide you toward becoming the best version of yourself. Join in for a daily dose of real talk that empowers you to embrace change and unlock your full potential. Learn how you can become a member of a powerful community consistently rewiring itself for success at https://www.jointheapex.com/ Rise Above
In a world that glorifies quick wins and overnight success, very few talk about the real battles — the fear, the failures, and the quiet discipline behind lasting growth. In this powerful conversation, Daniel Alonzo and Ashutosh Garg dive deep into what it truly takes to build a life of freedom — financially, mentally, and spiritually. This isn't about motivation. It's about alignment. It's about finding calm in chaos, purpose in pressure, and clarity in the climb. Whether you're chasing financial independence, a breakthrough in your career, or a sense of direction — this episode speaks to the part of you that refuses to give up. Because success isn't luck. It's built — one decision, one risk, and one unshakable mindset at a time. So take a deep breath… and listen closely. This might just be the moment everything starts to make sense.
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In this episode of @empoweredwithgina host Gina Zapanta sits down with actress, producer, and Mira LA founder Arianna Lemus for a raw conversation about what it really takes to turn rejection into power.Arianna opens up about her journey — from competing in pageants and facing heartbreak to creating a platform that uplifts women of color in film. She and Gina talk about the ego deaths, mindset shifts, and moments of courage that shaped her into the woman she is today.If you've ever been told no, this episode will remind you that rejection isn't the end — it's the beginning of who you're meant to become.#EmpoweredWithGina #AriannaLemus #WomenWhoInspire #BecomingUnstoppable #MindsetMatters #RejectionIsRedirection #PersonalGrowth #ConfidenceIsPower #EmpowermentPodcast
What are you afraid of when you're recording your podcast? Training your voice doesn't start with what comes out of your mouth—it starts with what's going on in your head. Mary learned this 25 years ago from her radio school instructors, Kat Stewart and Kevin Ribble. In this episode, her former teachers take the mic to talk about finding your charisma and confidence as a podcaster and the vocal impact of fear and judgment. Kat and Kevin want to make the world a better place, one confident, impactful podcast host at a time. Their insights stem from decades of experience and will have you reflecting on your podcast's ability to inspire change. It's time to go back to school and learn: Why dealing with your fear of death is an essential foundation of voice work; The impact of tension and the nervous system on how you sound; Why you should channel your bestie when you're recording; The power of podcasting to make a difference in the world. Links worth mentioning from the episode: Episode 50, Stop Thinking About Yourself: https://www.organizedsound.ca/stop-thinking-about-yourself-episode-50/ Engage with Kat and Kevin: Listen to Ignite My Voice; Becoming Unstoppable at https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/ignite-my-voice-becoming-unstoppable/id1827041495 Connect with Kat: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kathryn-stewart-77155316/ Connect with Kevin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevin-ribble/ Connect with Mary! Leave a voice note with your feedback at https://www.speakpipe.com/VisibleVoice or email visiblevoicepodcast@gmail.com Get the full transcript of the episode at http://www.visiblevoicepodcast.com Read up on more secrets with the Visible Voice Insights Newsletter https://www.organizedsound.ca/newsletter To learn more or work with Mary, check out https://www.organizedsound.ca Link up on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/marychan-organizedsound/ Engage on Instagram @OrganizedSoundProductions https://www.instagram.com/organizedsoundproductions Show Credits: Podcast audio design, engineering, and editing by Mary Chan of Organized Sound Productions Show notes written by Shannon Kirk of Right Words Studio Post-production support by Kristalee Forre of Forre You VA Podcast cover art by Emily Johnston of Artio Design Co.
Today we talk to one of the greats of the All Blacks team environment, Gilbert Enoka. Gilbert was mental skills coach for the All Blacks, contributing to an era that saw a win record of 77%, the highest of any professional sports team. Gilbert has released his book, Becoming Unstoppable, sharing his learnings from over three decades of working with the highest level athletes in the world.
Gerald Peters delivers a hard-hitting motivational episode about persistence, discipline, and building wealth. He shares blunt truths about sacrifice, outlasting doubt, and creating financial independence through consistent action. Featuring references to the Money Flow Trading Society and a free e-book, the episode encourages listeners to keep pushing even when progress isn't visible and offers a path to passive income.
On this episode of the Man of War Podcast, Rafa sits down with Mike “C-Roc” Ciorrocco entrepreneur, speaker, and author of Rocket Fuel to talk about how to live with purpose, lead with authenticity, and turn life's setbacks into unstoppable momentum. Mike shares his journey from a broken childhood to becoming a purpose-driven leader, the importance of self-development before serving others, and why authenticity is the currency of true influence. He opens up about his faith, the role it plays in his life and business, and why service is the foundation for lasting impact. We dive into: • How to become a man people respect and follow • The difference between selling faith and living it • Why vulnerability and service are non-negotiables in leadership • Turning setbacks into fuel for growth • Building a network that creates opportunities for others Whether you're a man seeking direction, an entrepreneur building your brand, or someone ready to live with intention, this conversation will inspire you to lead from the front. ⸻ Chapters: 00:00 – Introduction to Mike “C-Roc” Ciorrocco 01:15 – From Brokenness to Self-Development 03:00 – Why Service Starts with Self-Mastery 05:00 – The Power of Authenticity in Leadership 08:35 – Living Faith vs. Selling Faith 12:15 – Vulnerability and Building Trust 17:15 – Respect: Why It Starts with You 23:53 – Entrepreneurship, Branding & the Attraction Model 30:20 – Marriage, Family & Service at Home 34:10 – Childhood Lessons that Shaped a Purpose-Driven Life 38:49 – Turning Adversity into Rocket Fuel 39:49 – The Next Five Years and Staying Open to God's Plan 40:40 – Where to Find Mike “C-Roc”
In this episode a military wife, mom, and medium—shares how she went from burnout and hiding to fully aligned and powerful. With raw honesty, she opens up about the moment she finally asked for support…and everything changed.You'll walk away with:✨ What actually happens when you stop holding it all together✨ How shame blocks your next-level breakthrough✨ The power of letting yourself receive✨ A real-life story of healing that proves you're not alone. This podcast is your space to rise—to shift your mindset, realign your energy, and build a life and business that set your soul on fire. Hosted by Missy Tolley, transformation coach and business mentor, you'll hear real talk, raw stories, and strategies that move you—emotionally, spiritually, and financially.
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In this deeply moving and unfiltered episode of What Are You Made Of?, Mike “C-Roc” sits down with Dr. Stephanie Rimka—a powerhouse in holistic health and functional medicine—with a story that cuts to the core of resilience, grit, and purpose. From their first connection over Instagram, the energy between the two was electric, and it carries throughout this powerful conversation. Dr. Rimka opens up about her tough upbringing on the gritty streets of Detroit, including growing up with a father in and out of prison and the emotional toll that took on her as a child. She shares how a compassionate fourth grade teacher, Ms. Krista Goldsmith, helped her survive one of the darkest chapters of her life by nurturing her creativity and reminding her she was more than her circumstances. With fierce honesty, she talks about the internal battle she waged as a child—feeling like a mistake, yet choosing to prove her worth by striving for greatness. That fire carried her through a journey from food stamps to becoming a thought leader in the holistic health space. Along the way, Dr. Rimka reflects on how her intense drive, layered identity (“a sharp axe wrapped in cashmere”), and relentless curiosity led her away from traditional medicine and into a more integrative, soul-led healing path. This episode is not just about overcoming adversity—it's about transmuting it into rocket fuel and rising with power, vulnerability, and purpose.Website-drrimka.com Social Media Links/Handles-https://www.facebook.com/stephanie.rimka/https://www.instagram.com/dr_rimka/https://www.youtube.com/c/drrimka
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In this greatest hits episode, we revisit an empowering keynote recorded live at AmSpa's inaugural Women in Aesthetics Leadership Conference (WALC) in 2023. Listen in as Carrie Strom, senior vice president of AbbVie and president of Global Allergan Aesthetics, chats with Sara Blakely, founder and executive chairwoman of SPANX. Following a brief introduction from Strom and AmSpa founder Alex R. Thiersch, JD, this keynote conversation explores the founding of a household name, along with leadership insight on confidence, failure, purpose, mindset, and much more! This year, AmSpa's WALC is honored to present keynote speaker Jamie Kern Lima, founder of IT Cosmetics. Join us October 3, 2025, for “Becoming Unstoppable,” an inspiring keynote where Jamie shares her inspiring journey from rejection and self-doubt to resilience and success. --- Music by Ghost Score
EPISODE SUMMARY: Warrior Woman—this one is juicy. I sat down with Ash Sheppeard—coach, leader, former gym owner, and now the creator of Unstoppable—for a wild ride through her dots: the black holes, the breakups, the bold moves that led her to the work she does now. We talk about building a life you actually want to live (not one you're tolerating), the moment everything breaks so you can rebuild, and how your worth, energy, and emotional regulation are at the center of it all. We go deep on burnout, boundaries, belief systems, feminine power, and why you need to sit in the black hole sometimes—until you're ready to climb out with support. This one's for the woman who knows she was made for more, but needs help getting out of the loop. KEY TAKEAWAYS: You don't have a willpower problem—you have a disconnection problem. Ash and I unpack why most women are exhausted, resentful, and stuck—because they've been living out of alignment with their values for too long. The black hole moment is necessary. We talk about hitting rock bottom—injuries, breakups, burnout—and how those moments are often the exact interruption you need to rewire your identity. Leadership starts with emotional regulation. Ash breaks down what emotional intelligence actually is and why it's the foundation of becoming a powerful woman—in relationships, business, and your body. You can't do it alone. If you're in the black hole, stop trying to climb out without help. We talk about mentorship, community, and putting yourself in rooms that challenge you and call you forward. Unstoppable isn't just a vibe. It's a decision. Ash shares how her program is helping women heal, regulate, and finally take radical responsibility for what they want—so they can build a life on their own terms. CONNECT WITH ASH: Instagram: @AshSheppeard If you loved this episode, share it with a friend who needs to hear it. Rate the show ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐, leave a review, and hit that follow button so we can get this into more women's ears. Let's create a world full of powerful, unstoppable women.
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Ever hear that voice in your head that says… “Who am I to be doing this?” “They're already so far ahead.” “What if I mess this up… and everyone sees?” Yeah. That one. Spoiler alert: it's not you—it's your inner critic, and she's been running the show for way too long. In this week's episode of Do Life Big, I'm pulling back the curtain on the REAL reason you're holding back from showing up fully in your business, and what to do about it. Whether you're switching gears, starting something new, or just feeling like the “small fish” in a big pond… I get it. I've been there. (Like, hi—I spent YEARS thinking I had to wait until I had it all together before I could take action.) But here's what I've learned:
Download this episode's transcript for free - https://throughconversations.kit.com/5e6701687fGrab your copy of The Time is Now and start your journey toward living a more intentional and fulfilling life - https://a.co/d/aDYCQ9oJoin this channel to get access to exclusive perks:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCl67XqJVdVtBqiCWahS776g/joinIn this episode of Through Conversations, Alec Ingold, a professional football player and author, joins us to discuss themes of greatness versus perfection, the importance of embracing failure, and the journey of pursuing dreams. Alec shares personal stories from his life, including his experiences with adversity, career decisions, and the significance of authenticity in both sports and life.Connect with Alec Ingold - https://alecingold.comChapters00:00 Introduction to Alec Ingold01:17 Chasing Greatness vs. Perfection03:47 Embracing Failure and Adversity07:32 Soul Searching and Career Decisions10:54 Draft Day Realities and Responses15:38 The Importance of Action and Urgency19:52 Authenticity and Versatility in Life and Sports23:25 Pushing Beyond Limits28:40 The Purpose Crucible34:58 Leadership and Responsibility38:35 Empowering Through the Ingalls Family Foundation43:25 Navigating Adversity and Support// Connect With Me //ORDER MY BOOK, THE TIME IS NOW: A GUIDE TO HONOR YOUR TIME ON EARTH: https://www.timeisnowbook.comWebsite: https://throughconversations.comSubstack - https://throughconversations.substack.comYouTube community -https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCl67XqJVdVtBqiCWahS776g/join// Social //X: https://x.com/ThruConvPodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thruconvpodcast/?hl=enYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCl67XqJVdVtBqiCWahS776g
#90: This REWIND episode is one of my all-time favorites — and one that got me through some hard seasons. I'm bringing it back because it's that powerful. Sidney Smith is a hunter, endurance athlete, and double amputee who lost both legs due to a rare disease. But that didn't stop him — it fueled him. In this episode, Sidney shares how he rebuilt his life, found strength through adversity, and now crushes Ironmans, hunts rugged terrain, and inspires everyone who meets him. We dive into hunting, health, fitness, mindset, overcoming the mental war within, and how to embrace challenge as a way of life. Whether you're in a tough season or chasing big goals — this is one of those conversations that hits exactly when you need it. Get our FAVORITE links, codes & more here! EPISODE MENTIONS: Sidney's InstagramDO UTAH Watch the show on YouTube HERE Submit your favorites at thereckoningpodcast.com/submit SHEEPFEET for custom orthotics, the best hunting shoe and the hideout hoodie use code: RECKONING for 10% OFF SHOP HERE MTN OPS for the best supplements and gear. Use code BRITT for 20% OFF your order! RUGGED ROAD COOLER GET 10% OFF your lightweight and organized cooler here or USE CODE: LONG Have Reckoning create content for your brand, learn more HERE! Follow Us on Social: Brittney Long IGReckoning IG Affiliate Disclaimer. Show Notes may contain affiliate links. If you click through my referral link, at no additional cost to you, I may earn a small commission if you make a purchase. Thank you for supporting RECKONING LLC.
"You know, when you're 85 or 90 and looking back on your life, you should be proud of all the things you have done." - Jetty Nieuwenhuis Jetty Nieuwenhuis is a dynamic speaker, model, and wellness advocate based in Canada. Serving as the CEO of True Jetty, she leverages her personal experiences with invisible illnesses like bulimia, Lyme disease, and depression to inspire women to pursue their true desires without apology. Jetty has completed two Ironman competitions, demonstrating her resilience and commitment to both health and personal growth. With a strong background in health and wellness coaching, image consulting, and makeup artistry, Jetty is an influential figure who challenges superficial standards and focuses on authentic living. Episode Summary: In this episode of "Oh, My Health… There Is Hope!", host Jana Short engages with Jetty Nieuwenhuis, known for her inspiring journey of overcoming challenges such as Lyme disease and bulimia. Jetty shares her transformative story, moving from a life lived on autopilot to one of purpose and fulfillment. Her passion for empowering women arises from personal growth and overcoming the odds, offering a message of hope and determination. The conversation dives into the importance of authenticity and facing fears to achieve true success. Throughout the episode, Jetty Nieuwenhuis elaborates on the obstacles she faced before her Lyme disease diagnosis and the empowerment that came from her newfound clarity. Intrigued by genuine connections rather than materialistic pursuits, Jetty illustrates how essential it is to push through societal noise to find personal truth. Jana and Jetty delve into the pressures of perfection in modern society, touching on how Jetty moved from being a stay-at-home mom to chasing dreams that include speaking on larger platforms and contributing to women's empowerment movements. Key Takeaways: Empowerment Through Adversity: Jetty Nieuwenhuis transformed her life after being diagnosed with Lyme disease. She used her struggles to fuel a mission to help others. Authenticity Over Perfection: The discussion illuminates the importance of rejecting the curated influencer lifestyle and embracing one's genuine self for true satisfaction. Importance of Advocacy: Both Jetty and Jana emphasize the significance of advocating for oneself and persisting in seeking solutions, especially when facing health challenges. Connection vs. Materialism: This conversation highlights personal growth and explores the shift from prioritizing material wealth to valuing human connections and experiences. Facing Fears for Growth: Jetty's experience underscores the importance of doing what scares you to open doors to new opportunities and personal development. Resources https://www.trujetty.com/ IG: @Trujetty https://www.facebook.com/jetty.nieuwenhuis https://www.linkedin.com/in/trujetty/ Get in touch with Jana and listen to more Podcasts: https://www.janashort.com/ Show Music ‘Hold On' by Amy Gerhartz: https://www.amygerhartz.com/music. Get the Best Holistic Life Magazine Subscription! One of the fastest-growing independent magazines centered around holistic living. https://bestholisticlife.info/Subscription Grab your gift today: https://www.janashort.com/becoming-the-next-influencers-download-offer/ Connect with Jana Short: https://www.janashort.com/contact/
Denzel Washington is a renowned American actor, director, and producer, celebrated for his powerful performances and significant contributions to the film industry. His illustrious career is highlighted by multiple Academy Awards, including Best Supporting Actor for "Glory" and Best Actor for "Training Day." Beyond his cinematic achievements, Washington is also known for his philanthropy and advocacy for the arts, inspiring a new generation of performers and filmmakers.Take action and strengthen your mind with The Resilient Mind Journal. Get your free digital copy today: Download Now Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this explosive episode of The Highly Effective Man Podcast, former Navy SEAL, elite coach, and speaker Ray "Cash" Care joins host JP Bolwahnn for a no-BS conversation on what it takes to build unshakable discipline, forge a savage mindset, and lead your life with purpose.Ray dives into:How growing up in chaos forged his mental toughnessWhy pain and suffering are the fuel for growthThe “Cockweed Mindset”—a mindset that refuses to die or quitHis 4 F-Bombs for Success: Family, Fitness, Finances, and FaithHow to lead your family with power and presenceWhy betting on yourself is the most important investment you'll ever makeWhether you're a father, husband, entrepreneur, or man on a mission to reclaim your edge—this episode is your firestarter.This one is raw, real, and packed with motivation.Subscribe now and share with a man who needs this message.
Are you tired of guessing your way through workouts, life goals, or personal growth?Do you feel like you're working hard but not seeing real progress?Here's the truth: If you're not measuring your performance, you're not growing.You can't conquer what you don't track.In this powerful episode of The Highly Effective Man Podcast, we're diving deep into the game-changer that separates the average from the elite: Benchmarks.Hosted by JP Bolwahnn—13-year Navy SEAL veteran, life and fitness coach, and the man who knows what it takes to break through limits—this episode will challenge you to stop guessing and start growing.What You'll Discover:Why Benchmarks Are Non-Negotiable: The brutal truth about why most men fail to see progress—and how setting the right benchmarks changes everything.How to Measure What Matters: The 3 key areas every Highly Effective Man must track—Strength, Endurance, and Mental Grit.The Power of Facing the Truth: How benchmarks force you to confront your weaknesses so you can turn them into strengths.A SEAL Success Story: JP shares a powerful story about coaching a future Navy SEAL who went from struggling with push-ups to crushing the SEAL PST—all because of strategic benchmarking.The SEAL PST Challenge: Ready to test your limits? Learn how this brutal test can push you to new levels of strength, resilience, and discipline.This Episode Isn't for the Faint of Heart.It's for men who refuse to be average. Men who are ready to face the truth, adapt, and conquer.If you're tired of settling, if you're ready to break through your limits and become the man you were meant to be—hit play now.No more guessing. No more excuses.It's time to Test, Adapt, and Conquer.Listen, subscribe, and share with another man who refuses to settle for mediocrity.New episodes every week.Available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and wherever you listen.Get after it.Join the brotherhood today:https://www.skool.com/thehighlyeffectiveman/aboutSend us a text
(How to Become the Person Who Never Gives Up) In this ep, we explore the parallels between fitness and personal growth, the power of consistency, and how to embrace plateaus as part of the process. Andrew shares insights into overcoming self-sabotage, the compound effect of small habits, and shifting from aesthetics-focused goals to performance-driven empowerment. This conversation delves into mindset shifts, identity evolution, and the importance of aligning actions with long-term values. Tune in for a no-nonsense, relatable discussion packed with actionable advice to help you find joy in the journey and redefine what progress means for you. 1/ Plateaus Growth isn't linear; plateaus are inevitable and require mental resilience to push through. When progress slows, revisit your goals and adjust expectations. Are you letting plateaus demotivate you, or are you seeing them as a chance to refine your methods? 2/unrealistic expectations of rapid progress often lead to self-sabotage. Accepting slower progress reduces frustration. Reframe your mindset by focusing on long-term consistency rather than short-term perfection. What would you achieve if you embraced the process instead of fixating on speed? 3/Small, consistent actions lead to significant changes over time as described in The Compound Effect and The Slight Edge. Reflect on daily habits. Are they aligned with your long-term goals, or are they compounding toward stagnation? Coaching Helps Break Cycles. Coaches provide guidance to disrupt negative feedback loops, like self-sabotage or over-restriction, leading to sustainable habits. : If you're stuck, consider whether external guidance could help shift your perspective and actions. /Goals and values evolve with life stages. Holding onto outdated goals can create unnecessary frustration. Periodically reassess your goals. Are they still relevant, or are they rooted in past desires that no longer serve you? Progress Requires Patience and Consistency Success in fitness and social media often mirrors each other: it starts slow, feels repetitive, and seems stagnant, but consistency leads to exponential growth. Many people give up too soon because they don't see immediate results. Reflect on what small actions you can take today that could snowball into bigger achievements later. Learning Skills Leads to Faster Progress Just like mastering the basics of lifting (e.g., squats and deadlifts), mastering foundational skills in any endeavor allows for accelerated growth later. Are you building a strong foundation in your efforts? /By focusing on strength & health rather than just fat loss, people often achieve their goals as a byproduct. Are you prioritizing the wrong goal? What would happen if you shifted your focus to performance or well-being? /Social media highlights extremes, making people compare themselves to the "best of the best" rather than the average journey. Diversify your social media feed to include relatable journeys and focus on your progress. Are your comparisons inspiring or discouraging? /Identity is fluid and shaped by beliefs, language, actions. Fixed mindsets limit potential, while open ones allow growth. What language are you using about yourself? Are your beliefs helping or hindering your progress? /Emotional eating often stems from deeper issues like body image, which need addressing for long-term success. How do your habits reflect your emotions? What could you take to address the root? Saying “I'm not the type of person who…” creates mental barriers to growth. What might you achieve if you embraced flexibility in your identity? Obsessing over specific outcomes can lead to burnout. Enjoying the process creates sustainable progress. Strength training empowers people by shifting the focus from aesthetics to performance and capability. Keeping an open mind and flexible approach prepares you for changes in priorities or circumstances. @Andrewcoatesfitness @transformxruby
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Send us a textEver wondered what it truly means to unmask your soul and step into your power? In this transformational episode of the Soulful Badass Podcast, we're stripping back the layers of societal masks — like the ever-present 'good girl' or 'people pleaser' — that have kept women playing small for far too long. These outdated fears, rooted in the witch wound, have had their day. Now it's your turn to rise.Together, we'll challenge the need for approval from others and ignite a powerful shift towards radical self-acceptance. This is your invitation to break free, embrace your authentic self, and live life on your own terms. By tuning into your truest desires, you'll discover how to align with your soul's purpose and create a life that's limitless, bold, and entirely yours.2025 is calling, and it's time to answer with unstoppable determination. Big things are on the horizon, including the launch of the Becoming Unstoppable Bootcamp and the highly-anticipated return of the Miraculous Success Academy. Imagine starting the new year with a fire in your belly, leaving people-pleasing behind, and stepping into your most unapologetic, empowered self.With a clear path laid out for you, there's no room for doubt — only destiny. We're here to help you claim it. Let's make 2025 the year you become unstoppable.Ready to transform your life? Becoming Unstoppable is your ultimate guide to overcoming doubts, mastering your mindset, and igniting success. Whether you're building a business or stepping into your next level of greatness, this book provides the tools to help you manifest your dreams. Get your copy today and start creating the life you deserve!https://tinaticklerwelsome.com/racheljackson Step into your power with the Becoming Unstoppable Sisterhood! This transformative community is for women ready to reclaim their success, wealth, and confidence. Through monthly coaching, energy alignment, and deep support, you'll unlock your next level with ease and flow. Join the Sisterhood today and surround yourself with unstoppable women manifesting their dreams. Together, we rise!Are you ready to Become Unstoppable?Step into your power and grab a copy of my brand-new book Becoming Unstoppable right here on
Send us a textFear isn't just an emotion – it's a sneaky saboteur that's often disguised as logic, procrastination, or perfectionism. For female entrepreneurs, it's that inner voice whispering doubt, second-guessing decisions, and convincing you to play small. But here's the truth: those limits you've placed on yourself? They're not real.In this episode, we're peeling back the layers of fear to reveal its many faces and how it's been tricking you into undervaluing yourself and your business. We'll unpack the concept of “prostitute energy” – the subtle ways fear can nudge you into undercharging, over-delivering, and sacrificing your worth. You'll see how fear's roots often trace back to the inner child, that younger part of you still seeking safety and approval.But here's the powerful shift: when you recognise these patterns for what they are – illusions – you can break free. This episode is your call to step up, strip away those old beliefs, and stand in your true power. You're more capable than you've been led to believe, and it's time to own it.If you're ready to step into your next-level self, consider joining our Becoming Unstoppable Sisterhood – a space for women who are done playing small and ready to ignite their greatness. We've also got coaching packages designed to guide you on this journey of self-mastery. It's time to stop letting fear call the shots and start leading from your heart's deepest truth. You're here to be unstoppable – and I'm here to help you get there.Ready to transform your life? Becoming Unstoppable is your ultimate guide to overcoming doubts, mastering your mindset, and igniting success. Whether you're building a business or stepping into your next level of greatness, this book provides the tools to help you manifest your dreams. Get your copy today and start creating the life you deserve!https://tinaticklerwelsome.com/racheljackson Step into your power with the Becoming Unstoppable Sisterhood! This transformative community is for women ready to reclaim their success, wealth, and confidence. Through monthly coaching, energy alignment, and deep support, you'll unlock your next level with ease and flow. Join the Sisterhood today and surround yourself with unstoppable women manifesting their dreams. Together, we rise!Are you ready to Become Unstoppable?Step into your power and grab a copy of my brand-new book Becoming Unstoppable right here on
Click Here to Get All Podcast Show Notes!What if you could do more, be more, and achieve more without adding stress to your life? Discover Sharran's master plan to become truly unstoppable in business and life!In this episode, Sharran reveals the three essential strategies that will supercharge your energy, sharpen your strategic thinking, and help you make courageous decisions. He explains how tracking your energy, developing a framework for decision-making, and cultivating focus can transform your productivity and results. With actionable tips and examples, this episode is your blueprint for overcoming limitations and achieving exponential growth.Are you ready to break through your limits? Tune in to learn how to unlock your unstoppable potential!“You can't be brave if you're not afraid. You can't have courage if you're not afraid. It's not the fact that you don't have fear. Instead, you've done certain things with so many reps that you know how to do it so you feel more confident.”- Sharran SrivatsaaTimestamps:01:35 - The concept of becoming unstoppable02:22 - Strategy 1: Maximizing capacity through energy tracking10:38 - Strategy 2: Developing a framework for strategic thinking16:48 - Strategy 3: Building the courage to decide with clarity22:39 - Recap: 3 Strategies to become unstoppableResources:- The 5am Club - https://sharran.com/5amclub/- Join the 10K Wisdom Private Partner Podcast, now available to you for free - https://www.highlandprime.com/optin-10k-wisdom- Join Sharran's VIP Community - https://sharran.com/vip/- The Real Brokerage - https://www.joinreal.com/- Top Agent Power Pack - https://sharran.activehosted.com/f/121- The Job of a CEO - https://www.highlandprime.com/download-job-of-ceo- ARC Multifamily Real Estate Investing - https://arcmf.com/- Sharran's Partnership Program - https://www.highlandprime.com/- Grab Sharran's 4-Week MBA for Free - https://sharran.com/4weekmba/Connect with...
I'm thrilled to share Episode 180 of Becoming More Me, where I sit down with the incredible Zachary Riker—whom I just spent the last week in Mexico with! He's a dear friend and transformational coach who's inspiring a whole new approach to authenticity, overcoming shame, and embracing true self-empowerment. This isn't just any episode—Zachary joined me on his 35th birthday......a milestone he had long awaited as his "spiritual awakening birthday." The energy, insight, and raw vulnerability in our conversation were off the charts! Zachary's journey, rooted in years of healing and self-discovery, is nothing short of transformative. From navigating and ultimately shedding layers of internalized shame to stepping into his most authentic self, he has risen from rock-bottom moments to a place of profound inner peace and purpose.
In this special episode of The Macro Hour, Nikkiey Stott interviews nutrition expert Mike Milner (again!) to explore the psychology behind creating lasting change through identity shifts. Mike shares his insights on why most fitness and nutrition plans fail to stick and how aligning your actions with a new identity is the missing piece. We dive into practical strategies for shifting your self-image, breaking limiting beliefs, and adopting a mindset that fuels your success. If you're ready to stop relying on motivation and start building a sustainable lifestyle, this conversation is packed with game-changing insights you won't want to miss.Click To Watch A Free Macro TrainingClick To Apply For Our ProgramsIf you've got a story about how The Macro Hour Podcast has positively impacted your life, we'd love to hear from you! Fill out this short form for a chance to be featured!Wanna collaborate with WarriorBabe? Click HERE! Follow Nikkiey and WarriorBabe's Socials:WarriorBabe - Instagram | Facebook | YouTube | WebsiteNikkiey - Instagram | Facebook | TikTok Welcome to The Macro Hour Podcast, where we talk about mindset, methodology, and tactics that will help you lose body fat, build muscle, be strong, and feel insanely confident. We've got a no-bullshit, no-nonsense approach with a lot of love and heart to help you reach your goals.
This episode has themes of: Teenage pregnancy, Cancer, Mandates, Government overreach, Health Care, Sick Care, Self-Sabotage, Mindset, Conditioned Mind, Waking Up, and Mental & Emotional Resiliency.Enrol in the Your New Era Academy today! This weekly group coaching program meets Wednesday evenings at 7PM EST --> CLICK HERECorrie Bignell is the Unregistered Nurse who made waves, changed her life and retried at age 43 after the government took her job and casted her out of her 15 year career as a nurse. She is the coach of Becoming Unstoppable, a 4-week online course breaking down self sabotage and waking up to your own limits, learned behaviours and conditioning. Corrie is also the founder and host of Experience Nicaragua, a 7-day all inclusive private retreat opportunity where you eat, sleep, train and let go of everything that no longer serves you in heaven.She is also my good friend and this episode is a MUST listen from start to finish!Learn about Becoming Unstopable: https://www.theunregisterednurse.ca/courses-1Learn about Experience Nicaragua: https://www.theunregisterednurse.ca/retreatFollow Corrie on Socials: https://www.instagram.com/corriebignell
Bestselling author & award winning speaker… Alex Weber is back! You may remember Alex from episode 380 of DREAM THINK DO… where we talked about 3 keys to becoming unstoppable! Alex has been killing it as a speaker… winning awards and traveling the globe! But not only that but he's working hard to build a business and a life that he freeeegin' loves! And that's why I'm sooooo freeeeegin' excited to have him join us for EncouragerCON this year! He's going to bring real-world strategies for growing a profitable and impactful speaking business. And it's going to be game-changing… especially if you're wanting to build your own speaking business! And… just as importantly… speaking of Alex building a business and a life that he loves… Alex's amazing girlfriend will also be joining us for THIS conversation… as well as for EncouragerCON! Jessica Backurz is an Empowerment Coach, focused on Faith, Fitness, and Relationships and she's got an incredible story herself! You are going to love her! Plus, she and Alex have been creating fun engaging content together and I got the “nudge” that it was time for them to share the stage and talk about creating content together AND supporting each other as your speaking career is taking off! MORE ABOUT ALEX WEBER: Alex Weber's Website: www.imalexweber.com Alex's Book: Fail Proof: Become the Unstoppable You EncouragerCON 2024 We're talking about EncouragerCON in this awesome conversation. But you might be wondering… “WHAT IS IT?!” EncouragerCON is our 2.5 day conference for “Encouragers.” If you are a new or experienced Coach, Speaker or Content Creator… we want YOU there! Click here to find out more about this incredible event! We'll introduce you to the biggest opportunities in coaching and speaking that are happening RIGHT NOW! Along with strategies that you can use… immediately! With Encourager-CON you'll be surrounded by your fellow Encouragers AND it will be 2.5 days of proven concepts, innovative new approaches, powerful stories and straight-up fun… so YOU can REACH more people… create more REVENUE and find ways to REST as you do! And… remember… use the coupon code: DTD to get a VERY special discount! It's time sensitive though… so the earlier you use it… the bigger the discount! Don't miss out! JOIN US! Check out Mitch's OTHER PODCAST: ENCOURAGING THE ENCOURAGERS You can now check out Mitch's new podcast called “ENCOURAGING THE ENCOURAGERS” anywhere you listen to podcasts. It's specifically designed for coaches, speakers and content creators and provides quick doses of inspiration, strategy AND… of course… encouragement! Find it on Apple Podcasts: Click here Find it on Spotify: Click here Find it on Anchor: Click here Find it on Google: Click here Episode Minute By Minute: 0:02 Welcome to Episode 404 and a preview of the topics and guests for the episode. 0:25 Discussion about relationships and supporting each other in pursuing big dreams. 0:53 Mention of Encourager Con and its significance for coaches, speakers, and content creators. 1:16 Announcement about the discount for Dream Think Do listeners using the code DTD. 3:00 Introduction of Alex Weber, a returning guest from Episode 380. 4:26 Recap of Alex's achievements and his journey from American Ninja Warrior to a successful speaker. 5:09 Introduction of Jessica Backurz, Alex's girlfriend, and empowerment coach. 6:00 Alex and Jessica share how they met and their perspectives on the encounter. 8:00 Discussion on the importance of being confident and secure in oneself before meeting the right person. 9:00 Conversation about creating content together and the transparency they bring to their audience. 10:00 Jessica's transition into speaking and coaching, inspired by Alex's encouragement. 12:00 Alex's journey from high school lacrosse coach to professional speaker. 13:00 Alex's experience with stand-up comedy and TV hosting before focusing on speaking. 14:00 The turning point in Alex's career when he decided to pursue speaking full-time. 16:00 The impact of the pandemic on Alex's speaking career and how he adapted. 18:00 Discussion on the importance of authenticity and staying true to one's calling. 20:00 Alex and Jessica talk about the importance of community and surrounding oneself with supportive people. 22:00 Balancing a busy life with speaking engagements and building businesses together. 24:00 The importance of communication and prioritizing each other in their relationship. 25:00 Jessica's strategies for staying motivated, including starting the day with the Bible and valuing community. 26:00 The significance of having a supportive community for maintaining mental and emotional health. 28:00 Encouragement for aspiring speakers to start with a clear purpose and impact in mind. 30:00 Alex shares his advice for new speakers and the importance of staying true to their message. 32:00 The unique aspects of Encourager Con and its inclusive, transparent environment. 34:00 The honor and excitement of speaking together at Encourager Con. 35:00 Closing thoughts on the conversation and invitation to join Encourager Con with the discount code DTD. 36:00 Mitch's Minute: Key takeaways from the conversation and the importance of focusing on impact. RELATED DREAM THINK DO EPISODES: Be sure to check out Alex's FIRST appearance on DREAM THINK DO… where we talk about the 3 Keys to Becoming UNSTOPPABLE! mitchmatthews.com/380 Alex was an American Ninja Warrior… and we've actually had another Ninja Warrior on the show! Her name is Mckenna Haase and she's wildly inspiring! Check out her DTD interview here: mitchmatthews.com/mckenna-haase Speaking of LA… I talk with Laura Gassner Otting about a wildly important LA meeting that was Divinely timed in THIS episode: mitchmatthews.com/377 LET'S HEAR FROM YOU! I loved this conversation! Alex & Jessica dropped some pure gold! Separately… and together… they've got an amazing DREAM THINK DO story cooking! Okay… so I am curious. What's something that resonated with you? More importantly… what's something you're going to DO (big or small) as a result? I want to hear from YOU! Leave a comment and let's hear from YOU! And hey… keep bringing YOUR awesome!!! Mitch
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In this episode of Partnering Leadership, Mahan Tavakoli sits down with Alden Mills, three-time Navy SEAL Platoon Commander and INC 500 CEO. Alden Mills is also the author of three books, the latest of which is Unstoppable Mindset: How to Use What You Have to Get What You Want. Throughout the conversation, Alden shares his insights on navigating change, fostering ownership, and cultivating a resilient mindset in both personal and professional contexts.Throughout the conversation, Alden draws upon his unique experiences as a Navy SEAL and successful business leader to provide valuable lessons on leadership in the face of uncertainty. He discusses the importance of embracing discomfort, learning from failure, and maintaining faith in oneself and one's team.Alden also shares the concept of the "mindset horizon," explaining how leaders can encourage their teams to venture beyond their comfort zones and take ownership of their roles. He emphasizes the significance of trust and autonomy in building high-performing teams and shares practical strategies for implementing these principles in organizations.Actionable Takeaways:Discover the three levels of leadership and how they impact your organization's successLearn how to identify and overcome the fears that hold you back from venturing into the unknownHear how to cultivate a culture of ownership and accountability within your teamUnderstand the power of the "commander's intent" in setting clear boundaries while fostering autonomyGain insights on building trust and faith among team members, a critical component of high-performance teamsExplore the concept of the "mindset horizon" and how it can help you navigate change and uncertaintyLearn how to reframe failure as an opportunity for growth and resilienceDiscover practical strategies for applying Navy SEAL leadership principles in civilian organizationsHear how to balance the need for structure with the importance of adaptability in today's fast-paced business environmentGain valuable tips on seeking out strategic, emergency, and tactical advisors to support your leadership journeyConnect with the Alden MillsAlden Mills Website Be Unstoppable Website Alden Mills on LinkedIn Connect with Mahan Tavakoli: Mahan Tavakoli Website Mahan Tavakoli on LinkedIn Partnering Leadership Website
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