Podcast appearances and mentions of leslie parrott

When your family breaks apart, especially through years of fighting, manipulation, or emotional chaos, you can learn to survive by staying busy, shutting down, or pretending it didn't affect you.But what happens when that pain starts showing up in your marriage, your parenting, your confidence, or the way you handle conflict?In this episode, Billy shares how her parents' long, painful divorce began after years of intense conflict, manipulation, and isolation. She opens up about coping through overachievement, the safe adults who helped her heal, and the boundaries she's had to learn with an unsafe parent.We discuss:Why Billy expected her parents to divorce, even as a childHow she coped by becoming highly involved, successful, and busyThe loneliness of growing up without safe adults nearbyHow one pastor's wife helped her feel truly loved for the first timeWhy journaling helped her process, remember, and healHow her husband helped her learn to handle conflict without fearWhat boundaries with a parent can look like as an adultHow Billy is building a healthy family, even though she didn't come from oneIf you've ever wondered how to honor your parents without letting them control you, or how to build something healthier than what you came from, this episode is for you.Resources Mentioned:Share Your Story with Restored: https://restoredministry.com/story7 Ways to Work Through the Pain of Your Parents' Divorce or Separation: https://restoredministry.com/7waysThe Gottman Institute: https://www.gottman.com/Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts by Drs. Les & Leslie Parrott:https://amzn.to/3PPRy9JThe Anatomy of Peace by The Arbinger Institute:https://amzn.to/4aEsBVEShow notes:https://restoredministry.com/blog/177

Real connection happens when you master the personal, powerful way your partner uniquely receives love. That's when love moves from routine to remarkable.If you are one of the 20 million readers of Dr. Gary Chapman's The 5 Love Languages®, you already know that love isn't one-size-fits-all. This framework provides us with a great place to start, but many couples have found there's still more to learn about how to fill up each other's love tank.Our guests for this episode are experts on this topic who have teamed up with Dr. Chapman to bring us the long-awaited sequel to his renowned original guide. Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott are psychologists, speakers, and #1 New York Times best-selling authors of numerous books, including Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts. This married couple not only share the same name, but also a passion for helping others build healthy relationships.In this episode, you'll hear:How to go beyond your spouse's Love Language™A rundown of the dialects your partner may be “speaking”The one question that will transform your relationshipAnd more!For Mark and I, understanding our Love Languages™ has been instrumental in transforming how we express our love for one another. We hope this conversation is a helpful resource as you seek to understand and connect with your spouse on a deeper level!Find resources mentioned and more in the show notes: jillsavage.org/les-leslie-parrott-299Check out our other resources:Mark and Jill's Marriage StoryMarriage CoachingMarriage 2.0 IntensivesSpeaking ScheduleBook Mark and Jill to SpeakOnline CoursesBooks Marriage Resources:Infidelity RecoveryFor Happy MarriagesFor Hurting MarriagesFor Marriages Where You're the Only One Wanting to Get Help Mom Resources:New/Preschool MomsMoms with GradeschoolersMoms with Teens and TweensMoms with Kids Who Are LaunchingEmpty Nest Moms

Best-selling author and relationship expert Gary Chapman joins Truth Talk Live to discuss his newest book, The Most Important Love Language, co-written with Les Parrott and Leslie Parrott. Dr. Chapman shares why the most important love language is actually your spouse's, how couples can resolve conflict without tearing each other down, and why Christ's example of unconditional love is the true foundation for a healthy marriage. Hear practical wisdom, biblical encouragement, and details about his upcoming relationship conference in Layton designed to strengthen marriages and restore hope for struggling couples.

When have you last examined your own flaws instead of fixating on your spouse's? Greg describes how distressed couples have a tendency to focus too much on their mate's issues instead of their own. Plus, Les and Leslie Parrott share how to tell if you're a healthy or an unhealthy spouse. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book Healthy Me, Healthy Us for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Improve Yourself, Improve Your Relationships Counseling Consultation and Referrals Hope Restored Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.

When have you last examined your own flaws instead of fixating on your spouse's? Greg describes how distressed couples have a tendency to focus too much on their mate's issues instead of their own. Plus, Les and Leslie Parrott share how to tell if you're a healthy or an unhealthy spouse. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book Healthy Me, Healthy Us for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Improve Yourself, Improve Your Relationships Counseling Consultation and Referrals Hope Restored Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1196/29?v=20251111

How do you keep your emotional love tank full and flourishing? What is the best way to speak your loved one's love language? Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott join us to explain more about each love language and the different dialects that help you navigate how you express the love language most effectively. It is possible to get it wrong, so keep trying! A wealth of insight, humor, and just plain fun as we navigate this new masterclass for love languages. Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages® (Official Quiz) (https://5lovelanguages.com/)

20 million readers of the original Five Love Languages now have the updated master class, written by Gary Chapman and Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott! Years of experience and new research help explain the absolute best way to communicate to your loved ones, in their love language's preferred dialect. No more trying without results. Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott join us for a fun, fast-paced introduction to understanding your loved one's emotional love tank needs and love language, including this free assessment! Get your free HeartChart (https://www.myheartchart.com/)

Gabe and Rebekah welcome their longtime friends and marriage experts, Doctors Les and Leslie Parrott. As the co-founders of eHarmony and New York Times bestselling authors, they have spent their lives fighting for the health of relationships in a culture where marriage is often challenged. In this conversation, they dive into their game-changing new project with Gary Chapman, The Love Language That Matters Most. While many are familiar with the five love languages, the Parrotts take a step deeper into the “dialects"—the specific nuances that help you move past the guessing game and hit the bullseye of your spouse's heart. From navigating the pressures of cultural advice to rediscovering how research backs up biblical wisdom, this episode is an invitation to move from languishing to true connection in your most important relationship.In this episode, you'll hear: The State of Marriage Today: Why there is a reason for optimism and hope for lifelong love, even as cultural trends shift. Love Languages 2.0: How identifying your specific dialect provides a shortcut to making your spouse feel truly seen and loved. The TikTok Trap: Why following general social media evangelists can lead to unnecessary pressure and how to find guardrails for your relationship instead. Real-Life Breakthroughs: A personal look at how shifting from encouragement to compliments changed the rhythm of the Lyons's own marriage connection. Resources: Buy the Parrotts' New Book: The Love Language That Matters Most Join us November 19-20 for our Emotional Health Retreat in Franklin, TN. Register now and save $200 when you use the code EH200. https://www.rebekahlyons.com/ehretreat Get The Fight for Us book and curriculum: The Fight For Us Take the THINQ Assessment: https://www.thinqassessment.scoreapp.com/ Create a free THINQ Account: Access more trusted content at thinqmedia.com

Happy Thursday! Topics today include the reason Jesus hung out with sinners, redeeming our time, the only way to be a good listener, and more. Resource used and recommended: The Love Language that Matters Most by Gary Chapman and Les & Leslie Parrott. Early Bird registration for the FAITHful Ladies Daycation 2026 was extended! You have until March 2 to save $5!!  Janice's books What Do I Have to Lose? Books 1 and 2   are available NOW!! The complete set is just $25. Check it out at FaithMusicRadio.com. >> Also, featuring A Word of Encouragement with Vicky Mutchler, CW Today with Loretta Walker and Silhouettes with Shari House.  Be sure to subscribe to this podcast and please share this podcast with your friends so we may be an encouragement to them through the music and programming on Faith Music Radio. Music is brought to you by Faith Music Missions. Learn more here >>> https://www.faithmusicmissions.org Eleven2One Facebook  Eleven2One on Instagram Faith Music Radio is a listener supported Christian station.

It's time to take the next step in the Love Language revolution! Co-authors with Dr. Gary Chapman, Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott, believe you can personalize the love you give. Each love language has dialects—powerful ways love is uniquely expressed and received. So, whether you're dating or you've been married for decades, or you want to show love to a friend, a parent, or child, don't miss Chris Fabry Live. Featured resources:The Love Language That Matters Most by Gary Chapman and Les & Leslie Parrott February thank you gift:The Love Language That Matters Most by Gary Chapman and Les & Leslie Parrott Chris Fabry Live is listener-supported. To support the program, click here.Become a Back Fence Partner: https://moodyradio.org/donateto/chrisfabrylive/partnersSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Did you know Dr. Gary Chapman has teamed up with Dr. Les and Leslie Parrott to write a follow up book to his bestselling 5 Love Languages book? Dr. Leslie Parrott joins Arlene today to talk about the new book, "The Love Language That Matters Most." While most of us know the five love languages, Leslie reveals that each language has specific "dialects" that can make or break how love is received. You will learn how to personalize love so your spouse, child, family member, or friend can really feel it. Leslie explains why the love language that matters most is the OTHER persons (not yours), how to stay curious, and the power of asking, "What is one thing I could do to fill your love tank this week?" 04:12 - The love language that matters most is THEIRS, not yours 05:28 - The role of curiosity in loving well 10:08 - How to understand and best utilize love language "dialects" 19:25 - Loving your children in their love language 22:04 - How to adjust when your child becomes a teenager 24:37 - The power of brief connections with adult children 25:47 - Sometimes space and time ARE love 26:10 - The heart behind the book: Helping people deeply feel loved Connect with Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott at lesandleslie.com and grab their new book with Dr. Gary Chapman The Love Language that Matters Most anywhere books are sold or at 5LoveLanguages.com Take the Premium Love Language Assessment here More Resources from Arlene Pellicane: SUBSCRIBE to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week" and get the FREE CHECKLIST to find out the 7 warning signs of screen overload. Check out Arlene's BOOKS including Parents Rising, Screen Kids, and Making Marriage Easier. Follow Arlene on Instagram and/or Facebook Go to Arlene's YouTube Channel How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words. Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the Gabb Wireless phone for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE) Learn more about Every Woman's Bible today by visiting: https://hubs.la/Q0427v7r0 Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Marriage is about learning to love your spouse in the way they best understand love—their unique love language. Marriage experts Dr. Gary Chapman and Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott join forces to help you identify your spouse’s love language and become fluent in expressing love in meaningful, personalized ways. Together, they explore the subtle “dialects” within each love language and encourage you to be more intentional and authentic in how you love your spouse. Receive a copy of The Love Language That Matters Most and an audio download of "How to Speak the Love Language Your Spouse Needs Most" for your donation of any amount! Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive. Get More Episode Resources If you enjoyed listening to Focus on the Family with Jim Daly, please give us your feedback.

Marriage is about learning to love your spouse in their unique love language. Dr. Gary Chapman and Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott will join forces to help you become fluent in expressing love to your spouse in meaningful, personalized ways. They'll encourage you to be more intentional and authentic. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/776/29?v=20251111

Marriage is about learning to love your spouse in the way they best understand love—their unique love language. Marriage experts Dr. Gary Chapman and Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott join forces to help you identify your spouse’s love language and become fluent in expressing love in meaningful, personalized ways. Together, they explore the subtle “dialects” within each love language and encourage you to be more intentional and authentic in how you love your spouse. Receive a copy of The Love Language That Matters Most and an audio download of "How to Speak the Love Language Your Spouse Needs Most" for your donation of any amount! Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive. Get More Episode Resources If you enjoyed listening to Focus on the Family with Jim Daly, please give us your feedback.

Marriage is about learning to love your spouse in their unique love language. Dr. Gary Chapman and Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott will join forces to help you become fluent in expressing love to your spouse in meaningful, personalized ways. They'll encourage you to be more intentional and authentic. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/776/29?v=20251111

In this episode, Ken sits down with relationship experts Drs. Gary Chapman, Les Parrott and Leslie Parrott. Learn why misreading your spouse's love language creates emotional distance, how love languages affect leadership and workplace burnout, and what to do when your spouse's love language changes over time.    Next Steps:

In 1992, the book "The 5 Love Languages" found it's way into living rooms, counseling sessions, church groups, book clubs, classrooms and conversations all around the world. It's been a minute, but the long-awaited follow-up volume is here! "The Love Language That Matters Most: How to Personalize Love So They Really Feel It " written by Dr. Gary Chapman with Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott provides coaching on how to personalize love in ways that truly connect. I've already got several sections dog-eared and underlined! Today Dr. Chapman joins us on a special Valentines edition of LOVE SOMEONE! Welcome my friends!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

You've heard of the Five Love Languages. But what's next? In this episode, we're joined by marriage and family therapist and author Leslie Parrot to explore what it really means to love in ways that are not just well-intended, but deeply felt. Good intentions alone aren't enough, but empathy and curiosity help bridge the gap between how we express love and how it's actually received. Drawing from decades of clinical experience and relational wisdom, Leslie offers insight into why a deeper understanding of love languages matters, not as a formula, but as a pathway to deeper connection. And what fills your "love tank", or that of someone you care about? This isn't only for marriage; we also widen the lens to consider how these principles apply in friendships, families, and other relationships. We discuss how personality shapes the way we give and receive love, why each love language includes different "dialects," and how becoming a better listener is central to loving well. This episode invites you to slow down, listen more deeply, and practice a kind of love that doesn't just get expressed, but truly lands. Connect with Les and Leslie Parrott on their website, Facebook, or Instagram. Find the book by Gary Chapman, and Les and Leslie Parrott: The Love Language That Matters Most: How to Personalize Love So They Really Feel It    Check out the 5 Love Languages® Premium Assessment Join Les and Leslie Parrott and other experts online during National Marriage Week, February 7-14. Check it out. Check out the marriage resources at Dr. Carol Ministries Find out more about Dr. Carol Ministries in-person intensives - a safe place to unpack your story around intimacy and relationships, and experience Jesus coming into your story to bring healing and wholeness.        Find out more about individual coaching with Dr. Carol        Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can send a confidential message here.

We welcome Les and Leslie Parrott to unpack how preparation, empathy, and practical tools create stronger marriages, from the origins of SYMBIS to the launch of the four-minute Heart Chart. We explore healthy conflict, invisible rule books, and thought patterns that quietly shape connection.• SYMBIS origin story and why premarriage prep matters• moving from traits to state for real-time insight• the invisible rule book and expectations• how to fight a good fight without harm• empathy as the core skill for repair• toxic thoughts like irrational guilt and entitlement• Heart Chart's commitment and connection coordinates• simple presence habits that boost attunement• laughter, awareness, and small daily choicesLead to GoldThis is what wellness looks like in real life - no social media BS. ✨Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifyVisit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways: Strongermarriage.org Podcast.stongermarriage.org YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StrongerMarriageLife TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@strongermarriagelife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/strongermarriagelife/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/strongermarriage/ Facebook Marriage Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/770019130329579 Dr. Dave Schramm: http://drdaveschramm.com http://drdavespeaks.com Dr. Liz Hale: http://www.drlizhale.com/

Brian From talks with Dr. Leslie Parrott about her new book The Love Language That Matters Most and how the familiar five love languages go deeper through personal “dialects” shaped by personality and experience. They explore how couples at any stage of marriage—whether newlyweds or decades in—can communicate love more clearly, even when things feel stale, busy, or disconnected. This conversation offers practical hope for strengthening relationships by learning how to love in ways that truly land.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What’s the love language that matters most? You’ll find out on this Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott will join Gary to talk about the dialects of each love language. These are personal and powerful ways love is uniquely expressed and received. Miss them, and even the right language can fall flat. Don’t miss the practical help on Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Featured resource: The Love Language That Matters MostDonate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/buildingrelationshipsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hiiii GGB! Guys. We have such a good episode this week. We have our friends, Drs Les & Leslie Parrott on the podcast to talk about Les' new book "Bad Thoughts: A Preacher and a Shrink's Guide to Reclaiming Your Mind and Soul" by Judah Smith and Les Parrott and my goooodness is it everything we needed. Les and Leslie walk us through how to uproot "Bad Thoughts" and how to renew your mind biblically & psychologically. Here are the "Big 5" Bad Thoughts as presented in Bad Thoughts: 1. False Guilt – Feeling unforgivable or unworthy. → Remember: You're forgiven and free by God's grace. 2. People-Pleasing – Living for others' approval. → Truth: God's acceptance is enough. 3. Self-Doubt – "I'm not good enough." → Truth: You're equipped and empowered by the Spirit. 4. Pride / Entitlement – "I deserve this." → Fix: Choose humility and dependence on God. 5. Wavering Value – "Am I loved? Do I matter?" → Truth: Your worth is secure in God's love. https://www.zondervan.com/p/bad-thoughts/ https://www.lesandleslie.comhttps://www.myheartchart.com we love you so much. Jesus loves you more. -Ang & Ari ORDER OUR NEW BOOK! You can order our new book "Out of the Wilderness— 31 Devotions to Walk with God Through Your Hardest Seasons" at girlsgonebible.com/book JOIN US ON GGB+ https://ggb.supportingcast.fm COME SEE US ON TOUR: Tickets for our tour are now on sale. Go to www.GirlsgoneBible.com/tour November 14, 2025 Atlanta, GA December 6, 2025 Los Angeles, CA WE LOVE YOU AND CANNOT WAIT TO SEE YOU! Glorify App Guided meditations and daily devotionals to build your faith and find inner peace on the go. Download the app for free at https://Glorify-app.com/ggb. CrowdHealth A smarter, more affordable alternative to traditional health insurance. Join a community that helps you save money while staying covered. Use code GGB to get your first 3 months for $99 at https://JoinCrowdHealth.com. Kikoff Build your credit effortlessly with Kikoff. No credit check, no interest—just a simple way to improve your score fast. Get your first month for $1 at https://GetKikoff.com/GGB. DripDrop Clinically proven hydration faster than water alone. Formulated with electrolytes and vitamins to help you recover and rehydrate. Use code GGB for 20% off at https://DripDrop.com/GGB. Grand Canyon University Earn your degree online or on campus with programs designed to fit your life. Enroll today and find your purpose at https://GCU.edu/MyOffer

Steve Cuss is joined once again by his wife and fellow counselor, Lisa Cuss, for a practical conversation on the Four Spaces of Anxiety and how these shape our relationships, leadership, and faith. Building on recent Being Human dialogues with Toni Collier and Dr. Les Parrott, Steve and Lisa unpack the hidden assumptions that fuel reactivity, disconnection, and stress. Steve and Lisa explore how faith, vulnerability, and intentional community can break anxiety's grip and create healthier families, churches, and neighborhoods. Episode Resources: Steve & Clarissa Moll discuss the Four Spaces of Anxiety Explore Toni Collier's website Toni Collier's Don't Try This Alone Toni Collier's Broken Crayons Still Color Toni Collier's Brave Enough to Be Broken Drs. Les & Leslie Parrott's Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts Dr. Parrott and Judah Smith's Bad Thoughts: A Preacher and a Shrink's Guide to Reclaiming Your Mind and Soul Drs. Les & Leslie Parrott's website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

World-renowned relationship expert Dr. Les Parrott sits down with host Steve Cuss for a raw discussion about reclaiming your mind and soul. Parrott shreds toxic beliefs about empathy, parenting, and vulnerability that have infiltrated Christian culture, replacing them with a vision for emotional and spiritual health that actually works. Together, Steve and Dr. parrott dissect the razor-thin line between empathy and enmeshment, reveal how technology can fuel genuine human connection, and unpack why hearing God's voice without shame is a game-changer.  Resources mentioned in this episode include: Drs. Les & Leslie Parrott's Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts Dr. Parrott and Judah Smith's Bad Thoughts: A Preacher and a Shrink's Guide to Reclaiming Your Mind and Soul Pastor Judah Smith's instagram Drs. Les & Leslie Parrott's website David Brooks' How to Know a Person Steve & Clarissa Moll discuss the Four Spaces of Anxiety The Gospel of Mark (ESV) Sign up for Steve's Newsletter & Podcast Reminders: Capable Life Newsletter Join Steve at an upcoming intensive:  Capable Life Intensives Explore more CT with our free newsletters: christianitytoday.com/newsletters  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Conflict is an inevitable part of marriage, but it doesn't have to be destructive. In fact, conflict can be healthy; couples who learn how to "fight fair" often enjoy stronger marriages. Tune in for a humorous and engaging discussion as husband-and-wife counseling team Les and Leslie Parrott offer practical advice on how spouses can avoid destructive conflict and learn to "fight a good fight" that will strengthen rather than damage their relationship. The Good Fight Reactive Cycle Assessment Have You Lost Hope in Your Marriage? Counseling Consultation & Referrals If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Marriage coaches Les and Leslie Parrott offer practical advice on how spouses can avoid destructive conflict and learn to "fight a good fight" that will strengthen, rather than damage, their relationship. Receive the Parrotts' book The Good Fight and a free audio download of “How to Fight Fair” for your donation of any amount! Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive. Get More Episode Resources If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Marriage coaches Les and Leslie Parrott offer practical advice on how spouses can avoid destructive conflict and learn to "fight a good fight" that will strengthen, rather than damage, their relationship. Receive the Parrotts' book The Good Fight and a free audio download of “How to Fight Fair” for your donation of any amount! Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive. Get More Episode Resources If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott explain how you can improve your marriage by becoming emotionally healthy, and examine three key aspects of good emotional health. Receive the Parrotts' book Healthy Me, Healthy Us and an audio download of "Improve Yourself, Improve Your Relationships" for your donation of any amount! Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive. Get More Episode Resources If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

The best thing you can do for your marriage is to become emotionally healthy! Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott reveal the hallmarks of emotional health—discovering your profound significance to God, being unswervingly authentic, and giving yourself through love. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/776/29

Communication breakdowns happen even in the best marriages—but why? On today's edition of Family Talk, relationship experts Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott reveal how understanding your unique "talk style" can transform your marriage. They also share four key fear factors that inhibit communication, and how to create a safe place for meaningful connection with your spouse. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/707/29

Are you and your spouse speaking the same language? When it comes to communication in marriage, understanding is everything. On today's edition of Family Talk, Dr. James Dobson welcomes relationship experts Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott to share insights from their book, Love Talk. Tune in for practical tips on speaking the language of love with your spouse. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/707/29

The best thing you can do for your marriage is to get emotionally healthy! Dr. Les and Leslie Parrott reveal the hallmarks of emotional health—discovering your profound significance to God, being unswervingly authentic, and giving yourself through love.

The best thing you can do for your marriage is to get emotionally healthy! Dr. Les and Leslie Parrott reveal the hallmarks of emotional health—discovering you're profound significance to God, being unswervingly authentic, and giving yourself through love.

Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott explain how you can improve your marriage by becoming emotionally healthy, and examine three key aspects of good emotional health.   Receive the Parrotts' book Healthy Me, Healthy Us and an audio download of "Improve Yourself, Improve Your Relationships" for your donation of any amount! Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive.   Get More Episode Resources   We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.

The Root of BitternessUnfinished Business - Part 1Springcreek Church | Senior Pastor Keith StewartNovember 5, 2023#realspringcreekchurch #unfinishedbusiness #therootofbitterness #bitternesshttps://www.springcreekchurch.org/How do I know whether I have unfinished business in my past especially if I'm not consciously aware of anything? Believe it or not, there are telltale signs of unresolved hurt, buried pain, and unaddressed issues. Explore these roots that sabotage God's best for us in the present. SERIES: Unfinished BusinessIn short, a buried pain refuses to stay buried. There's a better way. This series will show you how to send the past into the past forever. DISCUSSION QUESTIONS 1. What are some of the messages (by word and deed) children receive while they are growing up that they never question? What coping mechanism do they adopt to deal with distorted messages? Has anything like this ever happened to you? What have you found helpful in dealing with these distortions, lies, and manipulations? 2. Bitterness is a common result of the refusal to deal with hurts from our past. What are some of the signs of bitterness? How does bitterness affect us personally? Why is bitterness counter-productive? What has been your personal experience with bitterness?  3. One of the surest signs that you have unfinished business from your past is when you're having reactions that are bigger than the moment calls for. This is a strong indicator that you're rolling the present situation into past events that were similar to it in your life. You're combining new anger and old anger – new injury with old ones. So when you have big reactions, you should pay attention to what triggered it, then start asking questions of yourself. Can you name one example of questions you should ask? Why is it important to ask those questions? How do big reactions hold the key to unlocking past hurts? 4. Doctors Les & Leslie Parrott wrote, “Repressed feelings, especially painful ones, have a high rate of resurrection. Be aware, however, that healing your hurts is a process of painful self-exploration.” Which means, we have a choice. Continue to push down our pain and therefore both deal with it for the rest of our life and allow it to come out in unpredictable ways OR revisit old hurts once and for all, see them for what they actually are, and forgive them so that we're through with them forever. Have you ever had to make this choice? What was your biggest fear? What was the result once you did? 5. Forgiveness is not excusing or explaining. Frankly, many of the things we need to forgive are inexcusable and sometimes we'll never know why the people in our life hurt us the way they did. Forgiveness is not saying, “I don't feel the pain anymore because now I understand it.” Instead, it's saying, “I don't feel the need to hold on to your involvement in my pain anymore even if I never understand it.” Forgiveness is all about releasing the emotional energy attached to that event or circumstance. It's to set ourselves free and to realize we're holding an uncollectable debt. Who do you need to forgive or who have you forgiven? What happened after making that decision? What would you say to someone who is stuck in unforgiveness?

Do you know what the 3 fruits of a healthy relationship are? Have you ever heard that your relationships can only be as healthy as you are as an individual? Hear renowned psychologists and authors Drs Les and Leslie Parrott speak about what people hunger for when seeking healthy relationships and where to start to engage in a healthy, long-term relationship.  According to Dr. Parrott, “If you try to build intimacy with another person before you've done the difficult work of getting whole or healthy on your own, all your relationships become an attempt to complete yourself and they will fall flat”.  Moreover, when you're searching for a person to be in relationship with, “it's not about finding the right person, it's about becoming the right person”. Learn how to begin a new relationship with awareness of positive and negative self talk, as well as the 3 major areas of any relationship to consider on today's episode! Today's Guests - Drs. Les and Leslie ParrottLes and Leslie are a husband-and-wife team who not only share the same name, but the same passion for helping others build healthy relationships. Les is a professor of psychology at Northwest University and they are founders of the Center for Healthy Relationships on the campus of Olivet University. Their professional training – Leslie as a marriage and family therapist, and Les as a clinical psychologist – ensures a presentation that is grounded, insightful and cutting-edge. The Parrotts have been featured in USA Today and the New York Times. Their television appearances include CNN, The View, The O'Reilly Factor, The Today Show and Oprah.  As #1 New York Times best-selling authors, their books have sold over two million copies in more than two dozen languages.Please check out their latest work and take the free assessment for the health of your self-talk (and relationships) by visiting HealthyMeHealthyUs.com.Website: LesandLeslie.com; HealthyMeHealthyUs.comBook: Healthy Me, Healthy UsYour Host: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master's degree in psychology for over ten years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper & CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching how attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reach over 200,000 people a month who are making changes and becoming the best they can be.Website: www.kimberlybeamholmes.comThanks for listening!Connect on Instagram: @kimberlybeamholmesBe sure to SUBSCRIBE to the podcast and leave a review!

In this episode, Julie Sedenko & Leslie Vernick discuss the importance and the challenges of speaking up in relationships, particularly in difficult or destructive marriages. The Challenge of Speaking Up: In destructive marriages, speaking up can be scary and unsafe. Balancing the need to speak up for oneself with the potential negative responses. Referencing Matthew 7, where Jesus warns about casting pearls before swine. The Value of Learning to Speak Up: Emphasizing the importance of speaking up for oneself in mature relationships. The need for effective communication to build healthier relationships. Acknowledging that speaking up doesn't always mean speaking in the heat of the moment. Guidelines for Speaking Up: The wisdom of using biblical teachings to navigate different situations. Differentiating between speaking about someone else's behavior and one's own feelings. Self-reflection is important before addressing others' behaviors. Approach others with humility and understanding. Navigating Difficult Conversations: How to keep things calm when a partner isn't interested in listening or finding solutions. A different approach to asking about their perspective on a healthy marriage. Recognizing contradictory expectations about marriage and communication. Preparing for Meaningful Conversations: The importance of preparation and groundwork before discussing sensitive topics. The significance of speaking with love. Balancing truth with love to avoid coming across as harsh. Hard conversations require personal preparation for effective communication. The Five Levels of Conversation: Superficial chitchat. Sharing news and facts. Sharing personal thoughts and ideas. Sharing feelings. Sharing one's essence and deepest self. Creating a Safe Space for Conversations: Understanding potential reasons for a partner's escalation or shutdown. Addressing a partner's potential fear of feeling incompetent. Encouraging compassion and patience in understanding each other's limitations. Comparing emotional intimacy to physical intimacy. Overcoming Resistance and Creating Safety What happens when one partner resists opening up or having deep conversations.  Establishing a safe space is crucial. This can be done through various boundaries and techniques.  Balancing Expectations and Reality Sometimes partners have different communication styles and comfort levels.  Understanding your partner's background, upbringing, and communication patterns can help bridge the gap.  Recognize that not all conversations need to be extensive or immediate. Patience and consistency are key. Navigating Disagreements and Escalation How to handle situations when a conversation has escalated.  Emphasize mutual respect and recognize when emotions are becoming heated. Resources: Walking in Core Strength Group Coaching Program: www.leslievernick.com/strength Love Talk Starters: 275 Questions to Get Your Conversations Going by Les & Leslie Parrott

"Your marriage will only be as healthy as the two of you individually."If you've ever struggled in your marriage, you'll be so encouraged by this conversation with our good friends Drs. Les & Leslie Parrott. As licensed therapists and co-authors of the best-selling book "Saving Your Marriage Before it Starts (SYMBIS)", the Parrot's bring practical wisdom and cutting edge insight to help you navigate & enjoy your marriage!Equal parts playful, serious, and everything in between, we learned so much in this conversation, and we're confident you will too. Featured Resources:Les & Leslie Parrot: https://lesandleslie.comLoveology: https://loveology.org/SYMBIS: https://www.symbis.com/Better Love: https://www.betterlove.com/Yada: https://www.yada.com/We'd love to hear from you! If you'd like to send any encouragement, questions, or feedback about this episode to Grant & Laurel, please e-mail us at podcast@ctk.church. Special Thanks to:Audio Production: Gabe ChartierTheme Song: Stephen Folden – stephenfoldenmusic@gmail.comPodcast Graphic:Dejah Kutrovski

 Shannon Dailey and his lovely wife, Domanicka, are the founders of LiveDailey, LLC. They celebrated 27 years of marriage on October 7th, 2022. Together, they homeschooled their three beautiful children, Taylor, who is 22 and is attending Taylor University, Caleb, who is 20 and is attending Georgia State University, and Joshua, who is 18 and is a High School Senior. Shannon and Domanicka have both been saved for as long as they have been married. They have been actively involved in their local church for years and have worn several different ministry hats. In addition to leading a variety of small groups, they have been department leaders over marriage and family groups at Faith Life Church in New Albany, Ohio for several years. Domanicka graduated from the University of Georgia with her Bachelor's degree in Risk Management and Insurance, she has her Master's degree in Christian Counseling from Logos University, and is a published author. Shannon is a licensed minister, published author, former Personal Trainer and business owner for several years, and is currently in a successful career in executive sales management. They are certified in SYMBIS (Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts), by Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott. Furthermore, they are mentored by Dr. Diana Morgan, founder of Original Design International, Pastor Bob Hazlett of Ascend Ministries, and members of Faith Life Church with Pastor Gary & Drenda Keesee. Domanicka and Shannon are passionate about God's heart for His people. Over the years, they have had the pleasure of ministering to, mentoring, and coaching many people who were starting to date, who were in a dating relationship, or those who were engaged or married. Learn God's design for dating and marriage as a believer in Christ. Choose them to mentor you as they have mentored so many others in the area of relationships. 

In the second episode about the book Love Talk by Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott, the hosts discuss how our subconscious security needs can lead to "talk styles" that create problems when communicating with our loved ones. This book can help us see the issues and make progress toward clearer communication. Love Talk book: https://www.amazon.com/Love-Talk-Others-Language-Before/dp/0310353521/ref=asc_df_0310353521/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=316651574325&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=9031381178876763708&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9027500&hvtargid=pla-621345311492&psc=1

The hosts start a two-week series about topics from the book Love Talk, by Les and Leslie Parrott. In this first episode, the hosts discussed our different subconscious security needs and how that influences how we communicate with our loved ones. Love Talk book: https://www.amazon.com/Love-Talk-Others-Language-Before/dp/0310353521/ref=asc_df_0310353521/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=316651574325&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=9031381178876763708&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9027500&hvtargid=pla-621345311492&psc=1

Season 7 might be over, but we are bringing back the Top 10 most listened-to episodes in Lifegiver Podcast History! Dr. Les Parrot joins me for an episode that is all about how couples can use a tool like the Better Love Assessment to get a healthy snapshot or check up on their marriage.  Dr. Parrott is a globally sought-after marriage psychologist along with his wife, Leslie Parrott also a marriage therapist. Together, they have written several books and speak on how to improve your marriage communication, reduce conflict, improve your sex life, and much more.  In this episode, Dr. Parrott shares more about the Better Love Assessment (found at www.betterlove.com) in pointing out the individual strengths in your marriage.  Better Love can be a great tool for date night discussions, working on your marriage during a deployment or separation, and even ways to talk through topics that are normally hot topics.  To find out more and subscribe to Dr. Parrott's resources, check out www.lesandleslie.com  

Hi friend. In this episode, we will be talking about 4 hacks we used in our marriage that resulted in strengthening our bond and marriage partnership. We decided to create this episode because after being married for over a decade, and reflecting on our marriage…what worked and what didn't work, we can say that these 4 points or hacks we are going to talk about have contributed to building the strong marriage partnership we enjoy. When put together, these 4 hacks result in the Marriage Partnership V.I.S.A System. We will be sharing this information with you so that you can learn how to apply the Marriage Partnership V.I.S.A System and start working towards improving your marriage connection, increasing marital satisfaction, building a stronger bond, and a great partnership in marriage.  Ready, Set...Tune in and listen to find out more:)   We hope this episode blesses you:)   >>Links mentioned in this episode: Focus on Marriage Assessment - Focus on the Family          https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/focus-on-marriage assessment/ SYMBIS Assessment - Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott           https://www.symbis.com/couples/ Relationship Quiz: How Well Do You Know Your Partner? - The Gottman Institute           https://www.gottman.com/how-well-do-you-know-your-partner/quiz/   .............................................. LET'S CONNECT: Join Our Community! To Join the Happy Married Family Tribe: Open this link to join our *WhatsApp Community: https://chat.whatsapp.com/LsLM3CiFjXHB4gViYhvEtQ OR Text “Happy Married Family Tribe” to +1(905)9220260 via WhatsApp to receive a direct link to join our *WhatsApp Community.   (*This WhatsApp Group is for community notifications only. We won't be spamming your WhatsApp inbox. We will send you a link to the Happy African Marriage Podcast weekly episodes and a link to our monthly live zoom hangout/ meetings)   For more valuable marital tips and important notifications: -Follow us on IG @happy.married.family   For questions/inquiries/marriage coaching: -Send a DM to @happy.married.family OR   Email: coach@happymarriedfamily.com    

The routines of marriage and parenting can easily steal time and energy that couples once poured into building a friendship with one another. Doctors Les and Leslie Parrott talk about the benefits of intentionally kindling that deep relationship again with your spouse.

The routines of marriage and parenting can easily steal time and energy that couples once poured into building a friendship with one another. Doctors Les and Leslie Parrott talk about the benefits of intentionally kindling that deep relationship again with your spouse.

Episode 170: All the Premarital Stuff   Had a conversation with a pastor - He was preparing for a wedding - Many pastors don't do weddings enough to have a plan - So here is a plan!   Why Pre-marital counseling is important Deal with issues now that would cause fights later Opportunity to make sure the couple is "evenly yoked" (2 Corinthians 6:14) if not share Jesus with them both Develop a relationship so they feel they have someone to turn to later when they are struggling. Very few couples have godly marriages to mentor them. Even kids who grew up in Christian homes may not have had parents who were intentional about training them how to be a godly husband/wife. Even if you do not want to do the counseling for the couple, you must encourage them to seek counseling from a Christian counselor or another pastor. You will still need to meet with them to plan the ceremony.   When should premarital counseling begin? The answer to this relates to the next question but recommend 3 months before wedding Pastor in Colorado who does pre-engagement counseling. If you haven't done counseling with him before you get engaged, he won't do your wedding. His reason is that once a couple is engaged, it is nearly impossible to tell them they shouldn't get married if you feel they are incompatible.   How many sessions? Recommend 6 sessions if this is the first marriage for both. Recommend 8 sessions if this is not the first marriage for either. Mention Bill and Jen Rogers Stepfamily Mission Possible ministry. [Link to Episode 157] Many stepfamily couples will benefit from hearing from couples who have been through similar circumstances.   What should happen during a counseling session? Sessions should only last 1 hour 30 minutes for ceremony planning - remind them that this is their ceremony - not mom's 30 minutes for counseling ( some issues may come up during the ceremony planning that may uncover a counseling need)   What tools should we use? Trent and Dana (I recommend that you include your spouse) recommend the SYMBIS tool. [Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts by Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott symbis.com] We have our own schedule but SYMBIS helps you keep a schedule and make sure you have input from the couple and that you cover all the relevant topics. Communication Conflict Finances Sex Expectations In-laws Spirituality Friends Common interests   Wedding rehearsal - tips to keep it from being a circus Please have a rehearsal with all the folks who will be involved in the ceremony. If possible have the rehearsal after the rehearsal dinner.  Rehearsal should only last 30 minutes introduce yourself to family and wedding party - then pray place everyone on the stage and get bride's approval for placement of people practice leaving practice entering and getting into place talk through schedule and make sure everyone knows what they are doing (rings, handing off bouquet etc) If you have the ceremony planned before hand with the couple - this will go smoothly - the rehearsal is not the time to make decisions.  If one of the "moms" tries to make changes - simply respond with "I appreciate your ideas but this is how the couple would like things to happen."  last thing is to tell everyone what time to be there for pictures and ask who will bring the marriage license   Wedding day check in with Bridal party check in with groom dudes Make sure rings and marriage license are there make sure you have all that you need including printed ceremony and mic if necessary after the ceremony, sign the marriage license and talk to the couple about their plan for filing it with the county clerk

Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott are NY Times best selling authors and the creators of one of the most used pre-marriage counseling systems in the world - S.Y.M.B.I.S. (Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts); as well as the brand new Loveology.org. Les Parrott joins us here to talk about conflict in marriage and how you can make it work for GOOD in your marriage!

We all want to find a partner who's a good match for us, but are we looking for the right things? Les and Leslie Parrott have been studying and teaching the basics of good relationships for decades — Leslie as a marriage and family therapist, Les as a clinical psychologist, and both as Judah and Chelsea's marriage coaches. The Parrotts join In Good Faith to talk about the truth behind "opposites attract," when and when not to compromise on what you want in a partner, and how empathy is the key to connecting us all. To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We all want to find a partner who's a good match for us, but are we looking for the right things? Les and Leslie Parrott have been studying and teaching the basics of good relationships for decades — Leslie as a marriage and family therapist, Les as a clinical psychologist, and both as Judah and Chelsea's marriage coaches. The Parrotts join In Good Faith to talk about the truth behind "opposites attract," when and when not to compromise on what you want in a partner, and how empathy is the key to connecting us all. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Do you know your love language? Maybe it is a hug, a compliment, or simply spending time together that makes you feel loved the most. Happy and healthy marriages are built on understanding each other's needs. In this conversation, we are learning how to love well. Join Laurie Crouch, CeCe Winans, Jamie Ivey, Hosanna Wong, and Dr. Leslie Parrott for a powerful conversation on how marriages can remain healthy through different seasons of life. Join our community on Instagram // Facebook // YouTube   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices