Podcasts about parenting resources

Welcome back!This is the 3rd of 3 episodes breaking down the vast array of parenting resources we have at our fingertips. Today we're talking: personal therapy, marriage counseling, one-off or 1:1 parenting coaching, and virtual parenting programs / memberships.For each, I break down the family that resource is BEST for, the benefits it provides, the unique Pros and Cons of utilizing that support vs. another, and ultimately, for some, the way they fall short. IN THIS EPISODE I SHARED:What a therapist will never tell youWhy 1:1 coaching actually takes LONGER to see resultsThe nuance missing from programs developed 50+ years agoDON'T MISS:The program that has it *all* if you are still looking for a breakthrough // MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE //Parent Effectiveness Training (P.E.T.)Nonviolent Communication (N.V.C.)Systematic Training for Effective Parenting (S.T.E.P.)Active ParentingTriple P (Positive Parenting Program)How to Talk so Kids Will Listen and Listen so Kids Will TalkPositive DisciplineLove and LogicDare to Discipline // CONNECT WITH DANIELLE //Website: parentingwholeheartedly.comIG: @‌parent_wholeheartedlyAPPLY: parentingwholeheartedly.com/applySend us Fan Mail over Text.Support the showSTART HERE:CALM + CONFIDENT: THE MASTERCLASS Master the KIND + FIRM Approach your Strong-Willed Child Needs WITHOUT Crushing their Spirit OR Walking on Eggshells *FREE* - www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/confident

Millions of families depend on WIC, but confusing rules and checkout struggles make it hard to use. In this episode, we meet Dani Lopez, founder of Lulo, a free app helping New York families navigate WIC more easily. She shares how her own childhood experiences inspired the platform and why designing with families, not just for them, is the future of better social services. An app to help moms navigate food benefits Learn more about Lulo here Email Lulo at contact@hellolulo.com Follow on Instagram at @hello.luloSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Virginia and Kristin discuss:Kristin's unexpected journey into birth workChallenges in the medical system and her motivation to serveWhat sets Gold Coast Doulas apart in the postpartum spaceThe importance of overnight care and support for new parentsHow they attract ideal clients through podcasting, blogging, and community relationshipsHer experience launching Supported: Your Guide to Birth and BabyBuilding a B Corp and organizing a community-wide diaper driveAdvice for entrepreneurs: Trust your instincts and lean into your passionResources & Links

Kevin Riley went from fatherless at age 7 to NYC Council Member, author, and founder of the Dad Gang movement. Kevin faced a tough life in the Bronx. His father was incarcerated and deported when he was just seven years old. He is also the founder of The Dad Gang—a movement dedicated to breaking stereotypes and creating supportive communities for fathers. Become the best husband and leader you can: www.thedadedge.com/mastermind One of the greatest challenges children growing up in fatherless homes are:  47.6% more likely to grow up in poverty Twice as likely to commit suicide Comprise 71% of high school dropouts The stats are shocking, and it's clear. KIDS NEED DADS. This conversation explores Kevin's story of resilience—how he transformed childhood trauma into a mission to support other fathers, what fatherhood means to him today, and his work ensuring dads never face their parenting journey alone. Through personal experience and dedicated advocacy, Kevin offers insights on breaking negative cycles, building meaningful family legacies, and showing up authentically for our children. ---------------------------- Gentlemen, if you're ready to level up, don't miss The Forge: A Gathering of Men—an exclusive event created by leaders like Connor Beaton, Larry Hagner, Matt Beaudreau, and Ryan Michler to help you connect, grow, and become the best version of yourself. Learn more at The Men's Forge. ---------------------------- www.thedadedge.com/517 www.themensforge.com | www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.linktr.ee/cmkevincriley www.linktr.ee/Thedadgang www.instagram.com/kevincriley www.instagram.com/hoppingthroughlifebook www.instagram.com/thedadgang www.hoppingthroughlife.com  

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Introducing CosmoParenting! This new podcast from the CMM Institute for Personal and Social Evolution is a continuation of CosmoActivities- our free resources for kids of all ages. In this year-long podcast, host Abbie VanMeter is joined by people who are parenting, educators, therapists, and communicators to explore what it means to parent. CosmoParenting is designed to support all who are parenting in the journey of figuring out what it means to parent by enriching their parenting toolbox, offering one short episode each week that provides opportunities to reflect, listen, connect, practice, and engage in meaningful conversations. Subscribe to the CosmoParenting Substack to get every weekly episode sent straight to your inbox!  

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Fatherhood is a journey laden with challenges, triumphs, and a multitude of rewarding experiences. For some, it means rewriting the scripts handed down by previous generations and breaking stereotypes. Kevin Riley, a father of three, a Bronx councilman, author, and one of the founding members of "The Dad Gang," epitomizes this transformative journey. In this week's Dads with Daughters podcast, Kevin Riley shared his unique story, shedding light on his mission to redefine Black fatherhood and support other fathers in similar pursuits. The Crucial First Steps: Overcoming Fear and Self-Doubt Fear as a Driving Force When Kevin Riley found out he was going to be a father to his first daughter, Brooke, fear struck him. Having grown up without a father, he was acutely aware of what he lacked in terms of role models and guidance. Reflecting on those initial fears, Riley shared, "I was scared but also excited because it was a journey I could pour so much value into." His primary concern was whether he was parenting the right way. Riley's transparency about his fears dismantles the myth of the all-knowing father. It is okay to be scared, okay to doubt — what matters is the desire to overcome these fears and become the best dad possible. Balancing Responsibilities: The Art of Time Management Striking a Balance in a Busy Life Being a councilman often pulls Kevin Riley in different directions, demanding a delicate balance between public responsibilities and family life. "I bring my children everywhere," Riley explains. From community events to City Hall hearings, his children are often by his side, learning the ropes of civic engagement early on. This unique approach serves dual purposes: it provides valuable bonding time and exposes his children to the concept of public service. Riley's method underscores the importance of integrating children into various aspects of life, making them active participants in their father's world. Empowering Daughters: The Challenge and the Reward Breaking Gender Norms Kevin Riley emphasized the importance of empowering his daughters to pursue any career they desire, irrespective of societal expectations. He makes it a point to connect his daughters with powerful female leaders to illustrate that they can achieve the same heights as their male counterparts. "In a male-dominated society, you have to find creative ways to empower your daughters," Riley says. The lesson here is that fatherhood extends beyond basic caregiving; it's about paving the way for your children to see themselves as capable and equal contributors to society. Sharing the Journey: "Hop Into Life" From Personal Experience to Published Author Riley's book, "Hopping Through Life," co-authored with his children, is a heartfelt narrative aimed at demystifying the complexities of fatherhood. The inspiration stemmed from his own experiences and his nightly ritual of reading to his kids. "Be proud of the journey you've been through because it created the person you are today," Riley advises. The book serves as a beacon for other fathers, particularly those who may have grown up without a father figure. It's a testament to overcoming obstacles and embracing the messy, yet beautiful, journey of parenting. Community Building: The Dad Gang Changing Stereotypes, One Dad at a Time One of the most impactful initiatives Kevin Riley has been involved with is "The Dad Gang." Founded by Sean Williams, this organization was borne out of a single comment that stereotyped Black fathers. "We created this community online, but we really wanted to go deeper," Riley explains. The Dad Gang hosts events like the "March of Dads," which feature public walks and community activities aimed at showcasing the active involvement of Black fathers. The group also organizes healing circles and interactive forums that provide emotional support and amplify the narratives of Black fatherhood. Final Words: The All-Important Advice Make Time, Always As Kevin Riley beautifully puts it, "There's no amount of money that you can earn within your lifetime that would amount to the time you could spend with your children." For dads feeling overwhelmed or questioning their readiness due to financial constraints, Riley offers the essential advice to prioritize time with their children over everything else. His advocacy for this critical aspect of fatherhood is both inspiring and actionable. Through his roles as a councilman, author, and community leader, Kevin Riley is not just rewriting his own narrative — he's providing a new script for Black fatherhood, challenging stereotypes, and inspiring fathers everywhere to be the best they can be. His story serves as a powerful reminder that fatherhood, above all, is a journey of love, patience, and unwavering commitment. TRANSCRIPT (Unedited transcript created with CASTMAGIC) Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:00:05]: Welcome to dads with daughters. In this show, we spotlight dads, resources, and more to help you be the best dad you can be. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:00:16]: Welcome back to the Dads With Daughters podcast where we bring you guests to be active participants in your daughter's lives, raising them to be strong, independent women. Really excited to have you back again this week. This week, as always, I'm on this journey with you. You and I are going along this journey to be the best dads that we can be. And the thing that I love is that you show up every week to be able to learn, to grow, to hear from other fathers, hear from other people about the journeys that they've been on, and some of the resources that they've been able to either create, provide, or just the experiences that they've had that can give you some context, give you some ideas about things that you can do to be able to better engage with your daughters or just be there and just be able to be the best dad that you can be and help them in the journey that they're on as they're moving into womanhood. That's why every week I love being able to bring you different guests, different people with different experiences that come to fatherhood just like you and I, without a lot of resources, without a lot of ideas, because there's no one right way to father. However, we can learn from each other. We can learn from so many others to be able to be that better father that we wanna be. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:01:37]: Today, we got another great guest with us today. Kevin Riley is a father of 3. He is a district 12 Bronx councilman and a soon to be published author and founding member of the dad gang. And we're gonna be talking to him about his own journey, about being a dad of 2 daughters and a son, but also some of the we'll talk about his new book. We'll talk about a little bit of a lot of things to be able to get some of his own perspectives. So I'm really excited to have him here. Kevin, thanks so much for being here today. Kevin Riley [00:02:11]: Thank you for having me, Dr. Lewis. How are you doing today? Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:02:13]: I really appreciate you being here. And I always love starting this these interviews with an opportunity to turn the clock back in time. I know you've got 2 daughters. You got a 9 and a 5 year old. So I'm gonna go back. Maybe it's 10 years. Maybe it's 9 years. Never know. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:02:28]: But I wanna go back to the very beginning. I wanna go back to that first moment that you found out that you're going to be a father to a daughter. What was going through your head? Kevin Riley [00:02:36]: I was scared. I think I was truly scared finding out that my at that time, my fiance was pregnant. She's my wife now. Pregnant with our first daughter, Brooke. Really scared because at that time, you know, I didn't grow up with a father. So as you stated before, we're trying to learn fatherhood techniques, we're trying to learn different tips, we're trying to learn different situations that may, you know, come about within our children's lives from each other. It's so important that we create these communities because at that time I didn't know. I I was really truly scared, but I did know that I wanted to be the best father possible. Kevin Riley [00:03:09]: I know that at minimal. I knew I wanted to be the best father possible. So I would say 10 years ago, man, when I find out or 9 years ago, when I found out that Brooke was gonna be more, I was scared, but I was really excited too because it was a journey that I felt that I can, give so much back and pour so much value Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:03:24]: back to school. You just said that you were scared. And I think a lot of dads are scared to step into fatherhood, let alone being a father to a daughter. And there's some fear that goes into that. As you've gone through these 9 years with your oldest daughter and your other kids as well, what's been your biggest fear in being a father to a daughter? Kevin Riley [00:03:46]: I think my biggest fear, and I'm a be totally transparent with you, making sure that I'm parented the right way. There's no manual into being a father. There's no manual into being a dad. There's no right way of doing things all the time, and I think really there are times when even I'm communicating with my daughter, my daughter's trying to communicate with me or even show affection. I mean, I may be busy as you stated, I'm a I'm a New York City council member, so my job is very, very busy a lot of the times, So I won't be as available to my daughter as much as I will possibly wanna be available to her. So you kinda get that fear of, hey. Am I doing this the right way? Is my daughter going to find love outside of her father because she felt like she didn't get that male love from her father, because he wasn't there for her as much as possible. And then once I was able to kind of fight those different thoughts within myself, I was able to apply, what I wanted to be, because I think it's the fear. Kevin Riley [00:04:40]: The fear always puts doubt within yourself. Then if you really open your eyes, I was always available at her doctor's appointments, I was always going to her shows, I was always showing up for everything for my children. It puts that doubt aside because we have fear, especially when you grow up, and like I stated, I grew up without a father. So that fear of, hey. I didn't get the blueprint. I don't know how a father is supposed to deal with this with their child. I think after I got off that fear and that doubt, I was able to be the best father that I'm actually doing a really pretty good job. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:05:10]: That being a councilman, you have a busy life, and you're pulled in a lot of different directions. Being an elected person in an elected office definitely is something that puts you into the limelight in many aspects. People get to know you. And sometimes your kids don't get that in regard to being that public figure in that way. And they don't always understand that you have to be away to be able to build them the life that they are accustomed to. So talk to me about that in regards to balance because I think that so many fathers have to try to balance their work life, their or or professional life, their personal life, and trying to find what that perfect balance is to be able to show up and to be able to be in the lives of their kids the way that they wanna be. How have you been able to do that? Have you struggled with it? What have you done to be able to get better at it? Kevin Riley [00:06:10]: Yeah. I think I touched, a little bit about that with the fear and the doubt, but then you you mentioned something balance and time management. I am a person that if you know me and the way I govern, I bring my children everywhere. So my children actually attend community events for me. My children actually attend meetings for me. I'll even bring my children to city hall at hearings sometimes because I think it's very important for them to see exactly what their father does and important for them to be civically engaged as well. I'm trying to teach civics to my children at a very, very early age. You do understand that within our country, you know, a lot of children don't get the accessibility or the access to learn about how government truly works. Kevin Riley [00:06:46]: So I get I think my children are seeing that on a day to day basis, and they understand what their father is or what their father contributes, to their community. I do a lot of work with giving back to my community and my children realize that and they really appreciate that. So I think, time management is really important. I have a luxury of bringing my children to work. A lot of fathers don't have the luxury of bringing their children to work. But even if you don't have the luxury of bringing your children to work, I think time management is very important. Even if you take a hour, 2 hours, that's why you go we came out with this book and we're writing this book and I know we're gonna touch on that a little bit later. But just doing activity with your child, reading to your children, going out and playing with your children. Kevin Riley [00:07:26]: We can make time. There's 24 hours in the day. There's always time that you can make to engage with your children and I realized that with time management, I may not have the opportunity to sit down and watch cartoons all day with my children. But in the morning time, when I'm getting them ready for school, engaging, communicating with them, and conversing with them, in the evening time, making sure that I shut my phone calls off at a certain period of time, and I'm able to sit down with my children, you know, watch a TV show, catch up with them, have some dinner with them, things of that nature. I think time management is crucial Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:07:58]: It truly is. For your father. Now one of the things that I wanted to go back to, you were talking about fear and raising daughters. And raising kids is not always easy. There's ups. There's downs. There's every which way. And sometimes days are good. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:08:11]: Sometimes they may not be. So it can be difficult at times as well. What's been the hardest part of being a father to a daughter? Kevin Riley [00:08:18]: I think the hardest part of being a father to a daughter is being able to empower them to do whatever they wanna do within their life. Coming from a male and my wife does an amazing job with empowering our daughters. But coming from their father as a man, they see me doing a lot of amazing dope things, and I don't want them to feel like only men can do this. I try to empower them, and I try to be equalizers to them and let them know, like, hey. As I'm doing this, there's powerful leaders out there doing this as well, so I think it's very important, especially in my field. I always try to connect my daughters to very powerful women leaders alongside with them. Their mother has a very powerful position as well, but other powerful leaders out there who are women and who are doing a lot of dope amazing things, because I want them to feel like this is not male driven. You know, their father, they see the dope things their father is doing all the time. Kevin Riley [00:09:07]: They see their father's always on television all the time, but they also see the Bronx borough president who's the 1st black woman to hold that position. She does amazing things, and when we go to events, they're able to connect with her on real time, and they're able to talk to her, ask her questions. So I think that has been the challenge as a dad with raising daughters because I think in a male dominant society, you really try to find creative ways to empower them and let them know that they could do the same thing that you could do even though it's a male dominant. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:09:36]: You mentioned that you've got a new book coming out called Popping Through Life. And I know that in that book, you are trying to really remind families that family is not just about blood relations or focusing on what it means to focusing on what we may lack in our lives. So I wanna go back to the beginning as you have created this story. As as an author myself, I know how much time, effort, passion have to go into the creation of these pieces that are being put out into the world. What made you decide that you wanted to be an author, and what made you decide that this was the topic for kids that you wanted to talk about? Kevin Riley [00:10:15]: I've always been passionate about expressing my story to individuals. Growing up, my father and my mother migrated to America from Jamaica, and unfortunately, my father, he was incarcerated when we were younger, and I used to always visit him when he was in the criminal justice system. And that's why I thought I was actually going. So that's why when my daughter was born in 2015 and now me being a council member, you can see that was a total different change, you know, in direction in life, and I believe my father did the best that he possibly could. We have a great relationship today. You know, we stay connected as much as possible, and I really strongly feel that the storyline came from me expressing where the challenges that I grew up with, where that came through, and it's really much just hopping through life, like, getting through getting by. I feel a lot of us feel like we're just getting by through life a lot of times, and once I have my daughter in 2015 and I'm learning, then I have my other daughter in 2019, and then my son came in 2022, it's like I learned different things at with each child, and I'm hopping through this thing we call parent look. It's something that I do with my children every single night as I read to my children. Kevin Riley [00:11:22]: Something in New York City and and throughout the nation, we're trying to promote literacy to our children, so I think it's crucially and truly important as parents that you read to your children as much as possible and have your children read back to you as much as possible. But as we were reading these stories and every time I'm reading the story, I'm always reading the author and the illustration illustrator out to the story. And my daughter said one day, like, hey, dad would love if one day we could tell our story. And when she said that, I'm like, wow. That really struck me because as a council member, I'm always verbal. I'm always giving speeches about my story, but I've never written my story down, and I wanted to write it in a sense where a father who has experienced the same things that I've experienced growing up and their their journey of fatherhood and them kind of hopping, they can actually read the story to their children so their children could actually understand as well, like, hey, your father's not perfect. Your father there wasn't a machine that was created. It was just dad. Kevin Riley [00:12:16]: Here's a dad. Here's a mom. Your father has been through stuff. Your father has trauma in their life. Your father is healing. Your father is learning different things, and they are just getting through life the same way that you're getting through life as a child. Our child learned to crawl, then walk, then then then read, then then go to school on their own. They learn different things, and you continue to learn. Kevin Riley [00:12:36]: Learning doesn't stop when you graduate school. Learning continues throughout life, so I think that's where the journey of the book came from. It it's about me telling my story, but also about me giving a platform for fathers who experience things like me. There's a lot of tons of fathers out there who didn't have a father figure in their life, and they're going into this journey of fatherhood. They can actually read a story to their children that could kind of outline that. And we utilize character of a bunny because bunnies are really popular with children, Bugs Bunny. Bunnies are really, really popular with children as an animal, and they're energized. Bunnies are really energized, and that's what we feel like fathers should be in their children's lives. Kevin Riley [00:13:13]: They should be their children's Energizer Bunny. They should energize their children to make sure that they're going out and being the best of their ability. So that's where the book and the journey of the book came from, and I'm really excited that we're releasing it on September 6th on National Reader Book Day. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:13:27]: So you're telling your story, and you're sharing that with the masses. What are you hoping that people are going to take from reading this for themselves and reading to their children? Kevin Riley [00:13:39]: Be proud of the journey that you've been through because the journey that you've been through created the person that you are today, and we shouldn't always shun away from it. I know sometimes people are kind of embarrassed of their upbringing. They're embarrassed of the trauma that they experience through their life, but I think they should kind of look at the good out of that because it made them into a very resilient person. It made them into a very strong person that's able to conquer any challenges that they may embark on, you know, moving forward. And hopping through life really engages and showcases that even though you may have had trauma throughout your life, you could still be a great dad. Even though you may not had a father when you were younger, you could still be a great dad. And also to be sympathetic, you don't know what your father went through. Your father had a father. Kevin Riley [00:14:23]: Your father's father had a father. There has been lineage of fatherhood that's been happening throughout generations, and there's no manual. I think a lot of times when we think of parents, we always circle and and focus on mothers all the time, but fathers are as important as mothers as well. I think fathers don't know that. I know in New York City, I passed a resolution that made June in New York City fatherhood recognition month because we want to recognize fathers throughout the entire month of June. But not only do that, the whole goal is to create centers for fathers. We partner with organizations like the Real Dads Network. I have an organization that I know I'm gonna we're gonna talk about soon, the dad gang, but we really want to create these fatherhood centers that provide resources for fathers to really flourish, that will help fathers find jobs, help fathers connect with their children emotionally. Kevin Riley [00:15:11]: I think fathers, even men, we've been taught to be really, really masculine at times and not really be really comprehensive, really understand our feelings, really be emotionally connected, to our emotional feelings, so we can emotionally connect with our children and understand that. So I think that's why I want people to get from this book. I want people to really understand that, hey, even though you did have a journey that brought you to this day, you should embrace it, and you should really know that it made you into the strong, resilient person that you are in today's society. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:15:44]: Now you talked about the organization that you are a part of and that you founded called Dad Gang. Talk to me about Dad Gang, why you decided to start it, what its goals are, and what you're hoping that people are going to take away from being a part of it. Kevin Riley [00:16:00]: So when you talk about fatherhood, one negative aspect and negative stereotype about fatherhood is black fathers aren't involved in their children's lives. So when we started the Dag Gang, the Dag Gang, Sean Williams, who's the founder of the Dag Gang, who's our fraternity brother, Kappa Alpha Paternity Incorporated. He started the Dag Gang, in 2015 when he had his second daughter, and he was in the supermarket with his child, and, a white woman had said to him, I'm glad you stuck around. It's good that you stuck around. And he was really offended by that comment, but he's like, I know tons of fathers out there that are involved in their children's lives. So we first, we got together and at that time, that's when social media really started picking up. You had Instagram, you had Twitter, you had all these different platforms that people are really looking at people lives on a device. So we want to put out as much positive imagery and visions of black fatherhood. Kevin Riley [00:16:53]: We didn't realize we are creating a community of black fathers that were coming to this page, seeing all the dope black fathers out there, connecting with those fathers because we would add put their username there, connecting with them because they were from their city and towns, and really building this market that, hey. You might have a father like I have, at that time, my daughter, at the time between 2015 and 2018, she just turned 3 at that time. I could connect with a brother who has a 10 year old. So they have a 10 year old daughter. So I know between 3 10 year old what are certain things I should be doing, certain things I should be saying, certain things I should not be doing. It creates this kinda community, so we created this community online, but we really want to go a little bit deeper. So we started to do events where we organize and mobilize in different states, and we do something called the March of Dads. So it started off with calling strolling with the homies, but we changed the name to the March of Dads because we wanted to go to landmarks in different places. Kevin Riley [00:17:46]: So for instance, we went to in New York City, we go to Prospect. In New York City, we just did the Bronx Children's Museum. In Atlanta, we did Ponce City Market. In DC, we marched by the White House, and we wanted to go to landmarks and showcase, and you just see a whole bunch of Black fathers, fathers of color, walking together with strollers, carry ons, older children, grandfathers, fathers. You just see that image and it showcases to you that black fathers are really engaged. But not only do we do that, we host a bunch of conversations and talks. So we do healing circles where we call it the dad house, where we have fathers, just fathers, just speaking. Because sometimes we feel like there's no place for us to just speak and just express how we feel. Kevin Riley [00:18:28]: As men, I go back to the masculinity. We're always taught that we're not supposed to show emotions. We're supposed to figure things out, just kinda go through life and just figure things out. Be tough about things, and that continues to just break us down. And then we get to a point where we break down, and that healing process is so challenging. I read a book called Battle Cry by Jason Wilson. Amazing book, where he talked about that, that we focus so much on the masculinity part about manhood, which is important, but we need to also talk about emotions and the comprehensive part about being the man as well. So the dad game, we really formulated this organization to be a a nest, a safe haven for fathers of color out there to showcase that we are present. Kevin Riley [00:19:10]: We do tons of different other activities. We hand out strollers, diapers, things of that nature in different parts of the city and the, the nation. We're in different parts. We do stuff in LA, DC, Atlanta, where we're branching out to different parts as well, but it's really organization. Tap in. It's the dadgang.com, or you can follow us on the dad gang on any platform. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:19:32]: I love the concept. I love the idea. As a global organization, it is definitely something that's needed to be able to as you kind of were talking about in the sense of redefining fatherhood and redefining black fatherhood or or the masses and to show that what the founder heard in the grocery store is not accurate and it is definitely not something that should be perpetuated. So I appreciate all the work that the organization's doing to engage dads in so many ways. There are so many opportunities for dads to be able to come together. This is one great way to be able to do that. And I encourage people to check out The Dad Gang at the dad gang.com to be able to learn more about their events, their activities, and how you can get involved as well. Now we always finish our interviews with what I like to call our fatherhood 5, where I ask you 5 more questions to delve deeper into you as a dad. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:20:27]: Are you ready? In one word, what is fatherhood? Kevin Riley [00:20:30]: Love. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:20:31]: When was a time that you finally felt like you succeeded at being a father to a daughter? Kevin Riley [00:20:36]: The completion of Hop Into LifeBook. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:20:38]: If I was to talk to your kids, how would they describe you as a dad? Kevin Riley [00:20:41]: Mister Clean. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:20:44]: What about 10 years from now? What do you want them to say? Kevin Riley [00:20:46]: My dad is my best friend. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:20:48]: Who inspires you to be a better dad? Kevin Riley [00:20:49]: My children. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:20:50]: Now you've given a lot of piece of advice today, things that you've learned along the way. As we finish up today, what's one piece of advice you'd want to give to every dad? Kevin Riley [00:20:58]: Make time to be with your children. There's no amount of money that you can earn within your lifetime that would amount to the amount of time you could spend with your children. I talk to a ton of people out there who are interested in becoming a father and they and they always say to me like, 'hey, I just think I'm not financially ready yet.' Yes, having a child can be very expensive, but in the same sense it's more expensive when you're not spending time with your children. Because the time that you're missing with your children is something you can never make up. So I always give the advice to every dad out there, make time to be around your children, whether if it's an hour a day, whatever the time is, just make time so you could truly just connect with them and so you can just see how dope you are and just really showcase your love that you have for them. If the Hop Into LifeBook could order it on hopindolifebook.com. It's going to be an amazing amazing series because there's gonna be some more books that's gonna come out after and I'm really really proud of my children who are co authors of this book, Brook Kate and Caleb Riley. And I would just advise you just find that activity that you could do with your kids together. Kevin Riley [00:22:03]: It will really really make you guys closer and really make them be able to express their creative juices to you as well. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:22:09]: Well, Kevin, I just want to say thank you. Thank you for doing what you're doing to be able to be active in your own kids' lives, but also what you're doing to be able to engage with other dads, to be able to push them to be that engaged father that they want to be as well. And I wish you all the best. Kevin Riley [00:22:27]: Thank you, doctor Lewis. Thank you for having me. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:22:28]: If you've enjoyed today's episode of the Dads with Daughters podcast, we invite you to check out the fatherhood insider. The fatherhood insider is the essential resource for any dad that wants to be the best dad that he can be. We know that no child comes with an instruction manual and most dads are figuring it out as they go along, and the fatherhood insider is full of resources and information that will up your game on fatherhood. Through our extensive course library, interactive forum, step by step road maps, and more, you will engage and learn with experts, but more importantly, dads like you. So check it out at fathering together dot org. If you are a father of a daughter and have not yet joined the dads with daughters Facebook community, there's a link in the notes today. Dads with daughters is a program of fathering together. We look forward to having you back for another great guest next week, all geared to helping you raise strong empowered daughters and be the best dad that you can be. We're all in the same boat, and it's full of tiny screaming passengers. We spend the time, We give the lessons. We make the meals. We buy them presents and bring your a game. Because those kids are growing fast. The time goes by just like a dynamite blast, calling astronauts and firemen, carpenters, and muscle men. Get out and be the world. Choose them. Be the best dad you can be. Be the best dad you can be.

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Noha Alshugairi, MS, LMFT and co-author of Positive Parenting in the Muslim Home, joins us today to be thanked for writing THE manual on Muslim American parenting we needed. Just kidding! Even she says that's not what it is, but it IS the text that gave us hope that there were other moms out there who knew our struggles and would help lighten them. On this episode, Khala Noha covers the role positive discipline plays in shaping emotionally resilient kids. What are the most common concerns that Muslim parents bring her, what cultural influences help or hinder Muslim families, and why must our kids fail? That last one really begs the question about why we parents are so afraid of failure. All this, and more, in store for our listeners.You might be surprised to learn what this therapist's beliefs and practices are about therapy and who should be doing it. What won't surprise you is her commitment to the spiritual development of Muslim parents and their kids. We didn't even release the episode and got eager listeners chomping at the bit to share how much they love Khala Noha, and everything they've learned from her.Tune in at 6pm EST on Apple podcasts, Stitcher, Spotify, or head to our website to check out the latest. And do share this episode with 3 mom friends no matter what stage of parenting they're in. They'll love you for it!Links:1. Resources recommended by Khala Noha: https://sakina.gumroad.com/2. Khala Noha's linktree with ALL the info you need: https://linktr.ee/sakinacounseling3. Purchase for your home library: Positive Parenting in the Muslim Home4. Khala Noha on IG: @nohaalshugairiDid you know you can send us a text? Feedback, questions, or recommendations welcomed!Support the show1. Web: www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com2. Email: salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com3. FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim group4. IG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast5. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w

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Earlier this year one Australian state claimed they'e got parenting down to a fine art. But something tells us, the other states and territories probably have something to say about that... Following on from a national parenting survey, we now have the answers.  It's time for State Of Origin: Parents Edition  THE END BITS Subscribe to Mamamia Check out The Quicky Instagram here Want more on parenting? Check out This Glorious Mess here Want to try MOVE by Mamamia?Click here to start a seven-day free trial of our exercise app. GET IN TOUCH Share your story, feedback, or dilemma! Send us a voice note or email us at podcast@mamamia.com.au and one of our Podcast Producers will come back to you ASAP. If you're looking for something else to listen to why not check out our award winning parenting podcast How To Build A Human.Or click here to listen to the hosts of Mamamia Out Loud open up about creativity and how they stay inspired. CONTACT US Got a topic you'd like us to cover? Send us an email at thequicky@mamamia.com.au CREDITS Host: Claire Murphy With thanks to: Professor Matt Sanders, Founder of Triple P & Clinical Psychologist at the University of Queensland  Senior Producer: Taylah StranoAudio Producer: Thom LionBecome a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode is part of the "Special Connection Series"5 episodes, released every day this weekThe focus is all on lowering conflict with our emotionally intense kids by connecting instead of correcting5 topicsFocus on the Relationship, Not the BehaviorsWhy Emotionally Intense Kids Feel DisconnectedStop Conflict in it's TrackReframing Discipline and BoundariesBuilding Connection in Small Family MomentsGo listen to the previous and next episodes for all the information and subscribe on the website to get the Magazine that complement those 5 episodes with short takeaways versions of the episode, so you can refer back to them more easily, insight from guests of the podcast and an opportunity to join the Connected Family experiment next week.Today's topic : Stop conflict in it's trackWe will talk all about the power you hold as parents to stop the conflicts by staying calm and not engaging, a practice that's easier said than done, but that will allow to conflict to dissolves even if your child is still reacting intensly.Joint the Connected Family experiment September 30th to October 6thJoin the "Parenting the Intensity Community" to find the right things that works for YOUR child and adapt them to YOUR reality.To be able to enjoy your life and kids, not always being afraid of the next outburstTake a deep breath, keep going, we're all in this together!Music by Oleksii Kaplunskyi from Pixabay

Our MOM CHAT episodes are one of a kind. We bring moms together (selected from HER Circle, our mom community) to have a discussion on a topic pertaining to motherhood. It's like recording a conversation while out to coffee together. This MOM CHAT discussion focused on parenting styles, with participants, Julia and Katie sharing their diverse upbringings and how they influence their current parenting approaches. Julia, raised in an authoritarian Russian household, emphasizes structure and resilience, while Katie, from a permissive Irish Catholic family, values open communication and routines. Cindi and Crissy discussed their own permissive and authoritarian upbringings, respectively, and how these shape their parenting decisions. The conversation highlighted the importance of balancing different parenting styles within couples and the impact of birth order on parenting dynamics.  Today's episode includes a discussion of the following topics: Parenting Styles and Childhood Experiences Balancing Parenting Styles in Marriage Different Parenting Approaches for Different Children Influence of Cultural and Personal Experiences on Parenting Resources and Inspirations for Parenting Episode Notes and Resources: @kids.eat.in.color Hunt, Gather, Parent: What Ancient Cultures Can Teach Us About the Lost Art of Raising Happy, Helpful Little Humans There's No Such Thing as Bad Weather: A Scandinavian Mom's Secrets for Raising Healthy, Resilient, and Confident Kids Support Mama Needs a Moment! Become a patron through our Mama Needs a Moment ⁠Patreon⁠. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/herhealthcollective/support

Hey No Problem Parents!   Today I'm giving strategies and resources for how we can help our children and teens feel truly worthy and secure. Check out the powerful insights from the "Still Face Experiment" and how our emotional responses impact our kids' development. I'm excited to welcome back author Bill Senyard (in the second segment) to talk about his new book, Tale of the Unlikely Prince.   Here's What We'll Cover: The Still Face Experiment: Dr. Edward Tronick's groundbreaking research that reveals just how critical our emotional engagement is for our kids' sense of security and self-worth. Getting to the Root of Challenging Behaviors: We often use strategies like time-outs or rewards, but these can miss the deeper issues. Simple Ways to Connect with Your Child: I'll give you practical tips—from snuggle time to making eye contact—that can help your child or teen feel truly seen and valued. Introducing Tale of the Unlikely Prince by Bill Senyard: Bill joins me to discuss his new fantasy book, which is a fantastic resource for both parents and teens to explore themes of self-worth, attachment, and unconditional love through the power of story. Key Takeaways: Emotional Engagement is Key: How we respond to our kids deeply affects their self-esteem and development. Look Beyond the Behavior: We need to understand what's really driving behaviors like defiance or withdrawal. Moments of Connection Matter: Even small, intentional moments can make a big impact on how our kids feel about themselves. Use Storytelling as a Tool: Bill's book, Tale of the Unlikely Prince, offers a unique way to help teens—and us as parents—navigate complex emotions and build stronger connections.   What You Can Do Next: Watch the Still Face Experiment video to see the importance of emotional engagement. Grab a copy of Tale of the Unlikely Prince to dive deeper into understanding your child's inner world. Listen to Episodes 4 and Episode 5 for more on attachment and behaviors.   Stay Connected: Find Bill Senyards book here: Tale of the Unlikely Prince Follow Us on social media @noproblemparents for more tips and resources. Remember to subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcast, Spotify, Amazon Music, and Podbean.   Remember, every moment of connection counts. Keep showing up for your kids—you've got this!   Thank you for tuning in to the No Problem Parenting podcast - Please take a minute to share the podcast, comment or leave a review.   PARENTING RESOURCES: 60 Ways to Respond to Your Kids without Losing Your Cool Make it Right Technique PDF   Become the Confident Leader Your Kids Crave you to be! Become a No-Problem Parent     Hugs and High Fives, You Got This!   Jaci Finneman 30 Year Counselor turned Parenting Advocate and Coach

Discovering the Path to Better Father-Daughter Relationships In a recent episode of the "Dads with Daughters" podcast, host Dr. Christopher Lewis sat down with Madeline Anderson, author of Girl Dad: Stories, Lessons, and Advice from Girl Dads and Their Daughters. Madeline shared insights and stories from her book and personal life, shedding light on the unique and impactful father-daughter relationship. Below, we delve into the highlights of their conversation and explore how her insights can help fathers strengthen their bonds with their daughters. The Genesis of "Girl Dad" Madeline Anderson, inspired by the unique and nurturing relationship with her father, set out to write *Girl Dad*. She recognized that her bond with her dad was rare and wanted to share the principles that made their relationship special. The book is a culmination of her personal experiences and interviews with various fathers and daughters. The key lesson: making life fun and enjoyable for daughters from a young age can build strong, lasting relationships. Understanding the Importance of Small Moments A recurring theme in Madeline's book is the impact of small, consistent gestures over grandiose acts. During the podcast, she shared touching stories from daughters who cherished simple, heartfelt actions from their fathers. For instance, one father left a note in his daughter's freezer that she found after he moved her into college. Such acts of love and thoughtfulness resonate deeply, often becoming treasured memories. Building Lifelong Friendships Madeline emphasized the importance of fathers not only as authority figures but as friends. By making activities enjoyable and relating to their daughters' interests, fathers can cultivate friendship and trust. She shared an anecdote about her father building a playhouse in their attic, complete with a rock wall entry. This creative and fun project strengthened their bond, underpinning the larger message of her book—having fun together can transform the father-daughter relationship. Embracing Your Authentic Self Madeline also discussed the importance of fathers remaining true to themselves. Instead of sacrificing their interests, fathers should incorporate their daughters into their world. If a father enjoys hiking, for instance, taking his daughter along can create shared experiences and memories. When daughters feel included in their father's life, they are more likely to share their own worlds in return. The Power of Understanding Madeline urged fathers to prioritize understanding their daughters at an individual level. Simple practices like sharing "roses and thorns" of the day can open channels of communication and provide insights into their daughters' lives. By knowing her highs and lows, fathers can support their daughters more effectively and build deeper connections. Balancing Work and Family Madeline spoke about her father's ability to balance a demanding work schedule while maintaining a close relationship with his daughters. She admired his ability to integrate his work world with his family life, showcasing that with some creativity and effort, work commitments need not overshadow family time. This approach can provide daughters with positive role models and inspire them in their own professional pursuits. The Birth of Girl Dad Network Expanding on her book's mission, Madeline is launching the Girl Dad Network, an online community offering resources, mentorship, and a platform for fathers to connect and learn from one another. This network will feature monthly meetings, courses tailored by age group, gift guides, and resources for both fathers and daughters—intending to be a comprehensive support system for "girl dads" everywhere. The conversation between Dr. Christopher Lewis and Madeline Anderson illuminated the profound impact of conscious and loving fatherhood on daughters. Madeline's work serves as a reminder that it's the little things that often matter the most. By being genuine, involving daughters in their passions, understanding their needs, and balancing work and family life, fathers can build meaningful and lasting relationships with their daughters. For more resources, fathers can visit the Girl Dad Network at girldadnetwork.com or explore Madeline's book, *Girl Dad*, available through Amazon. As underscored by Dr. Lewis, dads don't need to be perfect; they just need to be present, engaged, and open to the journey of fatherhood. Remember, every small gesture counts, and every day is an opportunity to build a stronger bond with your daughter.   TRANSCRIPT Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:00:05]: Welcome to dads with daughters. In this show, we spotlight dads, resources, and more to help you be the best dad you can be. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:00:16]: Welcome back to the Dads with Daughters podcast where we bring you guests to be active participants in your daughters' lives, raising them to be strong, independent women. Really excited to have you back again this week. Every week, I love being able to sit down and talk to you. I say this every week, but it's so true because I learn from you as much as I'm hoping that you're learning from the people that we have on, the resources that we're sharing to help you be that dad that you wanna be to your daughters. And every week, I love being able to bring you different people, different guests, different people with different experiences. Last week, you had an opportunity to meet Kekoa and Madeline Anderson. They both were on. I love having fathers and daughters on. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:00:58]: And I introduced you to the fact that Madeline is the author of a book called Girl Dad, Stories, Lessons and Advice from Girl Dads and Their Daughters. And we didn't really talk a lot about that book. But let me give you a little more context. So Madeline is an author and entrepreneur. She's got a passion for neuroscience, psychology, writing, and speaking. She's the daughter of a girl dad. We met him last week. And he's a father of 3 daughters. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:01:25]: So he's got a lot of experience in that. And over a number of years, she spent over a number of years, she had the opportunity to interview a wide array of fathers and daughters to write this book about how you can be the best dad that you can be to your daughters. It really fits in well with the podcast and what we do in fathering together. So I'm really excited to have her back again this week to talk more about this journey that she's been on to be able to help dance and to learn a little bit more about what she learned in that process as well. Madeleine, thanks so much for being back again this week. Madeline Anderson [00:02:02]: Thank you so much for having me, Christopher. I really appreciate it. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:02:05]: Well, I am excited to have you back. And it was so fun having your dad on last week and learning about the journey that the both that both of you were on. And I love some of the stories that he was sharing and some of the stories you were sharing about golfing and being able to, be that multi sport, fed into this book. But I I guess I wanna go back to the genesis because you're not a mother. You're not a father. You're writing a book, though, about being a great dad to daughters, and I think that has to have come from what we heard last week in the relationship that you have with your own father. But give me some of the genesis of what made you decide that you wanted to spend the time, the effort to interview all these people, to gain all this insight, and then put this book out into the world. Madeline Anderson [00:02:54]: So I wrote this book because I have an incredible relationship with my dad. And, obviously, y'all heard that on the last podcast, but I had no idea how rare our relationship is. And I really want to change that. So that's the genesis of the book. And it started out with me writing stories with my dad and how he raised me and my 2 younger sisters. But then it turned into so much more than that as I started interviewing both dads and daughters from all over, like you mentioned. And I think it's really a culmination of their stories, lessons, and advice that really shine throughout the book. And the actual moment that I realized I wanted to write the book was actually an interesting one. Madeline Anderson [00:03:37]: I was driving in Santa Monica. I could tell you exactly what street I was on and where I was going, but I I just had a thought pop into my head that said, you should write a book called Girl Dad. And like I said, I had always known I had a great relationship with my dad, but this thought just kind of came out of left field. And I've recently read Rick Rubin's book, The Creative Act, A Way of Being. And there was something in it that really stood out to me as relevant to this conversation. And he talked a lot about artists being the vessels for bringing the art or the idea to life and how sometimes ideas just come to you. And you're meant to basically take that idea and put it out into the world. And I really feel that that was the case for girl dad. Madeline Anderson [00:04:18]: It felt like a calling that's bigger than me, bigger than my stories, and it was something that I almost had to do because it was so important. And I think that having that daughter perspective is hopefully really helpful for dads because I'm trying to shed light on what we care about, what we want from our dads, and how to have a great relationship with us. So that's kind of the the genesis of Girl Dad, and it's evolving every day. I'm so excited. I'm launching Girl Dad Network very, very soon here, and that'll be an online platform for dads with all kinds of different things, like community and monthly live meetings with me, resources for the dads, resource for the daughters. Just kind of a full, all encompassing girl dad takes me takes me and how many people this message reaches. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:05:11]: You know, one of the things that you said in the past podcast was that and and you reflected that just a moment ago where you talked about how rare it was for you to realize the relationship between you and your dad was not the norm. And you realized that in college when you interacted with other women that didn't have that same relationship. Talk to me about that and what you were hearing from some of these other women about the relationships they did not have. And what were those women telling you about what they wished that relationship was and what was missing in that relationship? Madeline Anderson [00:05:49]: Yeah. It started the day that I moved in, and I lived in a dorm with I think it was there's 8 of us. So it was a 2 bedroom dorm with I know, I guess it was 6 of us. There was 2 bedrooms, 3 people in each bedroom, 1 bathroom, kind of a tough situation, but my dad helped me move in and he was there. He was so supportive. We grabbed dinner afterwards, the way he was helping me set up and everything. And then all 5 of the other girls were just there in awe. They didn't have a dad who was helping them move in. Madeline Anderson [00:06:19]: And I definitely took it for granted. It was like, you know, move in day course he's coming. That's what he does. Like, you know, he's just always there for me. And so it was, that was the first moment. And then after he left, they had told me a lot about that. Like, wow, I can't believe your dad did that. That was so nice of him. Madeline Anderson [00:06:34]: And I I really wish my dad would care for me like that. And and then obviously throughout college, I met ton of other girls who also had either no relationship with their dad or a very negative relationship. And they would say, you know, they hate their dad. You know, just really things that make my skin crawl a little bit and it and it hurts my heart, but it basically, it became very obvious to me that I had something very special And I always knew he was amazing, but I didn't realize how rare our relationship was. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:07:01]: So you spent all this time, and you started kinda deconstructing the relationship that you had with your own father. And as you were looking at that, what were some of the big points, some of the things that really stood out to you that were unique in your relationship that you weren't seeing in some of the other relationships around you? Madeline Anderson [00:07:21]: I think it probably tends to start from a young age. And looking back to when me and my sisters were young, one thing he did consistently was make life fun. So he would just put himself in our shoes and try to make every situation fun for us. And by having fun with him, we became more than, you know, just a father daughter dynamic. We became friends. And so we've kind of built that friendship over the years. We're still great friends and he's also my dad and I'm also his daughter, you know, that you can be both. And I think that's one thing that really became clear throughout my adulthood and reflecting on these stories and talking with my younger sisters and trying to think back, okay, What was that thing dad did with us? You know? It's like the common theme is we had so much fun, and nothing was, like, too crazy or such a rare idea. Madeline Anderson [00:08:12]: It was all just, like, being silly or just hanging out with us and making us feel special. And one thing that comes to mind is he built us this playhouse, and it was just the coolest thing ever. He we had an attic, and so he transformed that attic into our playhouse. And he's super handy. So he did all the insulation and put in wood floors in the attic. And then what he did is he cut a hole in the top of our closet, and then he built a rock wall. And we were helping him throughout the process. So I have photos of me with little mask on up in the attic, and we went to REI and got the rock wall pieces and helped decide, okay, this one should go here. Madeline Anderson [00:08:48]: This is here. And then it became this epic playhouse where you had to crawl up a rock wall in the closet to get to this playhouse. And we called it Club Wahini because he was born in Hawaii and we would draw on the walls. And every time our friends would come over, they would sign the wall And we would be up there for hours and hours, like, every day, every weekend, we had sleepovers up there. And it was just such a fun thing that he did. And he just he thought of it because he's creative, and he's always thinking about, oh, how can we make this fun? He's he's just really good at turning any situation into something that you wanna be a part of. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:09:24]: So beyond what you were learning specifically about the relationship between you and your dad because by taking a clinical approach to taking a look at the relationship, it's a it it kinda sets makes you have to step back and look from a macro view versus the micro view that you grew up in. But then you went beyond that, and you started to talk to other fathers, daughters about their relationships. What did you learn what did you start learning from those conversations that was eye opening for you as you were preparing and collecting all this data that would eventually be written in your book? Madeline Anderson [00:10:03]: The first thing that comes to mind is when I interviewed all the daughters, the same theme kind of kept coming up, which is it's all the little things that matter. Like, no daughter said, oh, you know, my dad is really special because on my birthday, he got me this, like, nice purse or, you know, something like big. It's all these little micro moments that add up over time. And funny enough, I had 2 daughters talk a long time, and it was like their favorite story about handwritten notes. One of them was a daughter who her dad helped her move into college as well. And their thing growing up was they would eat ice cream together on the couch. And so when he was moving in, he wrote on a little piece of paper, I wish I was eating. I was here eating ice cream with you and he put it in her freezer. Madeline Anderson [00:10:50]: And then that night when he left, she was feeling all sad and she went to go get some ice cream and she saw that note there. And she said she started crying, and it was so special. And she's moved multiple times since then. And she told me she's brought the note with her every time and puts it in her freezer. And it's so funny how it's just this simple note. That was only a few words. Right? But it meant the world to her. And then the second example was one of the daughters that I interviewed, she when she was going off to college, she was having a lot of anxiety. Madeline Anderson [00:11:19]: She has always kind of had a lot of anxiety, struggled with that. And she's grown up really close to home, doesn't like to leave home. And her college was in a different state. It was a flight away. And she was ultimately deciding that she didn't wanna go anymore because she couldn't handle it. And so her dad wrote her the kindest note just outlining how he's so proud of her, how she can do this, he'll be with her every step of the way, and just made her feel like she was capable. And so she ended up going to college at this school that was far away. She brought the note with her. Madeline Anderson [00:11:50]: She put it in her backpack. She said she took it to every single class, and she felt a sense of comfort just knowing that that note was in her backpack. It was almost as if her dad was there in her presence. And she also told me that she has that note still today even though she's past graduation and everything. And she said it's all kind of crumpled up and, like, it looks old, but she said she'll keep it forever. So I think those are two powerful stories that just go to show you that it's just these little micro moments that means so much to us daughters. And at the end of the day, we just wanna feel loved. We wanna feel seen and heard and special. Madeline Anderson [00:12:25]: And there's lots of ways to do that, but it could be as simple as a really genuine smile just like every day or a handwritten note or a big hug. Like, there's just these things that matter so much to us, and it's it's not rocket science necessarily, but it takes getting to understand us as individuals and what we need from our dads, to feel supported and loved. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:12:49]: So you collect all this data. And as someone that went through a doctorate program and wrote a dissertation, I know what that's like, and especially qualitative data when you're pulling all kinds of stories together, and you're trying to figure out some type of semblance of order to all of this and putting it into thematic areas that make sense. Talk to me about some of the high level learning pieces that people are going to find as they go through this book and some of the main points that you are trying to put out there into the world. Not that you have to give away every secret because we want people to read the book, but what are some of the high level areas and things that you really are delving deeper into into in the book itself? Madeline Anderson [00:13:32]: Yeah. I think the first thing that I I would say is that it's a very positive book. I want dads to read this and to close it and be like, let's go. I'm so happy that I have a daughter. I'm so excited depending on what age level she's at. I'm so excited for her journey to raise her, but I really want people to have fun with it. And I think that plays into one of the first themes and takeaways, which is to don't stop being you. And I think it's an important one because I want you to be the happiest version of yourself because when you're happy, you're usually a better father, a better husband. Madeline Anderson [00:14:06]: It all starts with not taking away the things that you love. But this book, a lot of my, the, the stories and the themes throughout it talk about not giving those things up, but then in finding ways to include your daughter in them. And I think, you know, when you include her in your world, she will let you into hers. It might happen over time, especially as she gets older, but it pays dividends by making her feel like she's a part of your life and your passions. So I would say that's a that's a big one. Another takeaway would be getting to know your daughter and the importance of that and figuring out how to know your daughter. And there's some great tips in there like plain roses and thorns, which is basically asking her her rose of the day and her thorn of the day. So like a highlight of the day and something that maybe issue wish went differently and how powerful those conversations can be because she might be holding on to something and not going to speak up about it. Madeline Anderson [00:15:05]: But if you give her the floor and you say, what was your thorn of the day? Then maybe something will come up. Something's going on at school or she's having an argument with a friend and it's really weighing on her. And she might not say anything. But when you give her the microphone and you show her that you're there to support her, you might learn a lot. And same thing goes with the positive side too. You might learn some of her passions that you didn't recognize. So that's another big one. And then I talk a lot about work and life. Madeline Anderson [00:15:32]: And I think that's a big talking point for me, especially with my dad. He did such a good job of including me in his world with work. And so I never felt like my dad was spending too much time on work and not enough time with the family, even though he spends a ton of time on work. But I look at it as, wow. He's so amazing, so inspired by him. I hope to be as hardworking as him, and I don't look at as look at it as, you know, a negative or something that's taken away from me and my time. So I think there's a lot of tips on all three of those. There's plenty of, you know, tips on other things as well, but I would say those are some of the highlights. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:16:09]: Now you talked about some of the things that you're planning to do. And as I'm sure going through college, moving into your career, this probably was not on your on your entrepreneurial journey of thinking that this was what you were going to hang your hat on and to put out into the world and to engage fathers in this way. So talk to me about where you are today, where you're going. You talked a little bit about that at the beginning, but let's talk about it again. I'd like to go a little deeper on that and what your hope is for what people are gonna take out of this book and to either take their own relationship to the next level or what that means, but share that with me as well. Madeline Anderson [00:16:49]: So got a lot of exciting things in the works. I think my biggest focus right now is Girl Dad Network, building that out. So there's going to be some programs which are like courses depending on age level of the daughters. There's going to be monthly calls with me where it'll be a live call with me and like anyone in the community who wants to join. And I think that will be a really powerful piece because we'll be able to dive into things that are going on in in the relationship and how to amend things or how to prepare for, you know, certain stages of life. And I'll go over different topics as well and really excited for that piece. And then you've got the community side, being able to communicate with other fathers who are in similar situations or have daughters of the same age. There'll be events live and virtual. Madeline Anderson [00:17:35]: Let's see. There's resources for the dads. I'm really excited about the gift guide actually because I'm building that with other daughters. So they can just go on there, add to cart, make it super easy for them. And it's all from the daughter's perspective once again. So they know, okay, if this is something that the daughters would want, then it's probably, very relevant. And then there's also resources for the daughter. So I'm building out, like, a mentorship program for the daughter, job board, and a college prep program as well. Madeline Anderson [00:18:03]: So just wanted to be a one stop shop for the dads, everything girl dad related. How can they have a great relationship with their daughter? How can they set their daughter up for success? It's an online community. So it's, yeah, that's my main focus right now. Super excited about that. And then I would say the second part of it is speaking. I'm doing a lot more speaking events and been really, really loving that. I think my main focus is just getting out in front of as many dads as possible, whether that be through the book, through the speaking, through the community, and just being able to make an impact on fathers and daughters and future generations. So that's my passion. Madeline Anderson [00:18:39]: And, yeah, I'm really looking forward to seeing where it takes me. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:18:41]: So if people are interested in finding out more about the network, about the book, where should they go? Madeline Anderson [00:18:47]: Yeah. So for the network, girldadnetwork.com. And for the book, girl dad the book dot com. It's also on Amazon, but there's a link through the website as well if that's easier. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:18:57]: And we'll put links in the notes today for all of you to be able to find this, to be able to go out, grab the book, and be able to learn from the book, from the father and daughter relationships that are in the book. You're definitely not going to wanna miss this, and you're going to want to learn from this journey that not only that Madeleine has been on with her own dad, but also the journeys of all these fathers and daughters because it's really important to be able to take in all of this, like we talk about every week on the show, and be able to be open to learning, to be open to the journey, and know that you don't have to be a perfect dad. But there are things that you can do to be able to set up some building blocks that will help you to be the dad that you want to be. So I just want to say thank you, Madeleine, for making this a passion area for yourself, for working with fathers in so many different ways, for putting this out into the world. And I wish you all the best. Madeline Anderson [00:19:48]: Thank you, Christopher. It's an honor to be here, and I appreciate everything that you're doing for all the dads out there as well. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:19:54]: If you've enjoyed today's episode of the dads with daughters podcast, we invite you to check out the fatherhood insider. The fatherhood insider is the resource for any dad that wants to be the best dad that he can be. We know that no child comes with an instruction manual and most dads are figuring it out as they go along, and the fatherhood insider is full of resources and information that will up your game on fatherhood. Through our extensive course library, interactive forum, step by step roadmaps and more, you will engage and learn with experts, but more importantly dads like you. So check it out atfatheringtogether.org. If you are a father of a daughter and have not yet joined the dads with daughters Facebook community, there's a link in the notes today. Dads with daughters is a program of fathering together. We look forward to having you back for another great guest next week, all geared to helping you raise strong empowered daughters and be the best dad that you can be. We're all in the same boat, And it's full of tiny screaming passengers. We spend the time. We give the lessons. We make the meals. We buy them presents and bring your a game. Because those kids are growing fast. The time goes by just like a dynamite blast. Calling astronauts and firemen, carpenters, and musclemen. Get out and be the world to them. Be the best that you can be.

In this episode of "Right About Now," host Ryan Alford and guest Larry Hagner, CEO of Dads Edge, discuss the critical role of fatherhood and the societal challenges men face. They emphasize the importance of men taking responsibility for their families and personal growth. The conversation critiques societal norms that promote emotional detachment and complacency, advocating for strong relationships and community support. Larry shares insights on setting high standards for children and the value of supportive male relationships. The episode underscores the impact of active fatherhood on family dynamics and society, urging men to embrace their roles with intention.TAKEAWAYSImportance of fatherhood and its impact on family dynamicsChallenges faced by men in their roles as fathers and husbandsSocietal pressures leading to emotional detachment and isolation among menThe need for personal responsibility and accountability in fatherhoodSetting high standards for children and the role of parents in guiding behaviorThe significance of personal growth and self-care for fathersCritique of societal norms that promote comfort and complacencyThe value of strong relationships and community support for menThe dangers of isolation and the "lone wolf" mentalityEncouragement for men to actively engage in their families and seek supportive networksTIMESTAMPSIntroduction to the Episode (00:00:00)Larry discusses men's care for themselves versus their families and the importance of living for their families.Podcast Introduction (00:00:23)Ryan introduces the podcast and sets the tone for the episode.Revisiting Larry Hagner (00:00:45)Ryan welcomes Larry back, highlighting his impactful work with fathers.Setting Standards in Parenting (00:01:16)Larry shares insights on parenting standards and public behavior of children.Personal Parenting Challenges (00:02:12)Larry reflects on parenting challenges with his four boys and setting standards.Life Update from Larry (00:02:51)Larry shares his current positive life changes and recent achievements.75 Hard Program Discussion (00:04:38)Ryan praises Larry for completing the 75 Hard program and its benefits.Impact of Personal Growth (00:05:31)Larry discusses how personal growth affects his family dynamics and relationships.Physical Fitness and Fatherhood (00:06:25)Larry shares how being fit positively influences his children's perception of him.Marketing and Family Dynamics (00:07:12)Ryan humorously recounts the story of receiving a marketing belt and its impact on his kids.Conversations on Fatherhood (00:08:03)Ryan and Larry discuss the importance of fatherhood and societal conditioning.Awakening to Responsibility (00:10:04)Larry reflects on his past mindset and the awakening of personal responsibility.Men's Comfort vs. Growth (00:11:42)Larry critiques the comfort-seeking behavior in men that hinders growth.Isolation and Community (00:12:33)Larry emphasizes the importance of community and relationships for men's mental health.Three Essential Male Relationships (00:18:05)Larry outlines three crucial relationships every man needs for support and growth.Societal Expectations of Men (00:19:52)Larry discusses societal pressures that promote weakness in men and the need for strength.Balancing Strength and Support (00:20:55)Ryan and Larry explore the dual need for strong men and supportive relationships.Fueling Personal Growth (00:21:49)Larry uses a car analogy to illustrate the need for supportive relationships to thrive.Here are the extracted timestamps and their respective titles in chronological order:The Erosion of Family Dynamics (00:21:53)Discussion on how societal norms are eroding the concept of family and creating weak family dynamics.The Impact of Fatherlessness (00:23:22)Larry shares statistics on fatherless homes and their correlation with societal issues like crime and teenage pregnancies.The Unique Role of Fathers (00:24:17)Exploration of how fathers contribute strength to families and the irreplaceable roles they play.Setting Standards for Relationships (00:27:46)Larry emphasizes the importance of raising children with high standards in relationships and self-worth.Guardrails of Parenting (00:30:51)Discussion on the need for parental guidance and setting standards amidst societal changes and distractions.Awareness of Family Dynamics (00:32:11)Ryan reflects on how screens and external influences affect family conversations and relationships.Balancing Responsibilities and Downtime (00:39:48)Larry talks about teaching children the importance of balancing responsibilities with leisure during summer break.Raising High-Functioning Adults (00:41:22)Emphasis on the importance of instilling responsibility and work ethic in children for their future roles as adults.Community Support and Resources (00:43:11)Larry discusses resources available for fathers through Dads Edge, emphasizing the importance of community support.Closing Remarks (44:06)Discussion on the importance of genuine connections and the invitation for future collaborations.Community Engagement (44:10)Ryan expresses gratitude to Larry and emphasizes the need for community support among fathers.Call to Action (44:15)Encouragement for dads to engage with Larry's community for support and growth.Show Information (44:17)Ryan shares where to find the podcast and resources related to the episode.Production Credits (44:35)Acknowledgment of the podcast production and invitation to explore more content.Thank You Message (44:40)Ryan thanks listeners for tuning in and highlights sponsorship opportunities. 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Dr. Joel Warsh, also known as Dr. Gator, is a Board-Certified Pediatrician in Los Angeles specializing in Parenting, Wellness, and Integrative Medicine. Originally from Toronto, he earned degrees in Kinesiology, Psychology, and Epidemiology before completing his medical degree at Thomas Jefferson Medical College and his pediatric training at CHLA. He founded Integrative Pediatrics and Medicine Studio City in 2018. Dr. Warsh is a published researcher, media contributor, and founder of the Parenting Masterclass Platform, Raising Amazing. ___How Prepared is Your Team for the Next Big Disruption? Future-proof your team with Malosiminds.com Get your copy of Personal Socrates: Better Questions, Better Life Connect with Marc >>> Website | LinkedIn | Instagram | Twitter Drop a review and let me know what resonates with you about the show!Thanks as always for listening and have the best day yet!*A special thanks to MONOS, our official travel partner for Behind the Human! Use MONOSBTH10 at check-out for savings on your next purchase. ✈️*Special props

Want to learn the essential keys to being a good dad and create a strong, loving connection with your kids? Families need fathers so understanding how to be a good dad is crucial for parenting your kids and helping them grow up to have discipline and character. This episode provides practical insights and research-based guidance to help you build a warm, loving relationship with your child and overcome the challenges of fatherhood. Three takeaways: 1. Gain a deep understanding of your child's fundamental needs and how to meet them effectively. 2. Learn the importance of quality relationships in fatherhood and how to develop a strong, caring connection with your child. 3. Discover actionable strategies to become the best dad you can be, supported by real-life experiences and valuable resources. Listen to this short but value packed episode to uncover the key principles of being a good dad and take your fatherhood journey to the next level. Resources mentioned in this episode: Involved Fathers Booklet (six needs of kids) About The Dad Central Show The Dad Central Show helps overwhelmed dads conquer stress, build confidence and become the father their family brags about! Three ways Dad Central helps: DADMENTOR MEMBERSHIP: DadMentor is the ultimate solution tailored to address the challenges dads commonly face. Join now and get a step-by-step plan, proven tools, and a community of like-minded dads who want to be a great dads: https://dadcentral.ca/dads/  FREE 7 STEP GUIDE TO STOP YELLING: Our guide is based on extensive research and experience working with parents just like you. We'll guide you through each step, offering practical tips, strategies, and exercises to help you understand your triggers, improve your communication skills, and foster a more harmonious relationship with your children, ultimately becoming a more confident and effective dad: https://dadcentral.ca/7-step-guide-to-stop-yelling/  FREE FATHERHOOD FUNDAMENTALS EMAIL COURSE: Learn how to lead your family effectively, master time management to balance your responsibilities, and maintain a positive outlook. Enroll now: https://dadcentral.ca/fatherhood-fundamentals/ Links for Dad Central: Website: https://dadcentral.ca The Dad Central Show: https://dadcentral.ca/podcast/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/dadcentral Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCs2HyxB9nOLxyHvBMSo4TQQ Contact us at podcast@dadcentral.ca The Dad Central Show is sponsored by Dove Men+Care. Dove Men+Care believes care is the best of a man, because when men care for themselves and others, there is a positive impact. This is a podcast that supports fathers in navigating fatherhood, reducing stress, building confidence, managing parenting stress, and improving parenting skills, including discipline, co-parenting, custody issues, calm parenting, and effective communication with children, to foster happy children and strong parent-child relationships.  

In this episode the tables are turned! Last week's guest, Michelle Varcoe, interviews Dr Jenny Brown to discuss:The importance of co-regulation in parenting.What is co-regulation?Are there potential pitfalls of focusing too much on co-regulation?Consider the role of self-regulation in parenting.Differentiation in Parenting: meaningful connection without invasion.To hear more about Michelle go to Season 2 Episode 4 or see links below.About Dr Jenny Brown:Dr Jenny Brown has over 35 years of clinical experience in child, couple, and family health. Her primary clinical and research interest has been in Child and adolescent mental health and parent's involvement in treatment. This has been reflected in her publications, conference and workshop presentations and her PhD research on parents' experience of their child's mental health treatment. The Parent Hope project has been developed from this critical research.Jenny's most recent book is Facilitating Parents' Agency in Child and Adolescent Mental Health: Helplessness to Hope – published by Cambridge Scholars.https://parenthopeproject.com.au/about-jenny-brown/About Michelle Varcoe:Michelle is an Accredited Mental Health Social Worker who has worked across various Child and Adolescent Mental Health teams within NSW Health, and has extensive experience in supporting families who have a child/adolescent presenting with moderate-severe mental health issues https://thefsp.com.au/parent-programs/https://thefsp.com.au/michelle-varcoe/Parent Hope Project:Newsletter-https://parenthopeproject.com.au/#newsletterYoutube-http://www.youtube.com/@ParentHopeProjectFacebook-https://www.facebook.com/coachingparentsInstagram-https://www.instagram.com/parenthopeproject/LinkedIn-https://www.linkedin.com/company/79093727/admin/feed/posts/Website-https://parenthopeproject.com.au/Contact us:Contact@parentproject.com.au(02) 9904 5600

Ever feel like your discipline strategies just aren't working, no matter how hard you try? If I had to guess, I'd say you've experienced moments where your child or teen's behavior seems to spiral out of control, despite your best efforts. Those times when the rules you set are ignored, the consequences don't seem to stick, and you're left feeling frustrated and unsure of what to do next. It's incredibly disheartening, and you might be tempted to throw in the towel or resort to harsher measures. But hold on! Before you do that, you need to listen to this episode! It's completely natural to feel overwhelmed when things don't go your way, but I'm here to tell you, my friend, you don't have to stay stuck in a cycle of ineffective discipline. In today's episode, I'm going to share the 10 crucial clues that your discipline strategy might not be hitting the mark and, more importantly, how to turn things around. In this episode, I'll cover: Why Understanding These Clues is Vital: Knowing what isn't working is the first step to making positive changes. The Common Pitfalls: We'll dive into why certain discipline methods fail and how they can negatively impact your young person's behavior - and your relationship with them. Actionable Tips for Improvement: You'll learn practical strategies to refine your approach and build a more effective discipline strategy. I know this episode is a bit longer than usual, but trust me, you'll want to stick around for the last few clues. We're in the home stretch now, and the insights you'll gain are worth it. Let's keep going and uncover how you can transform your discipline strategy and feel more confident, peaceful, and proud of your parenting journey.

Thank you to Eaton Financial Group for supporting our mission and podcast! Eaton Financial Group's motto is to live well, work hard and give generously. The firm specializes in helping women who handle household financial planning by acting in a fiduciary capacity – meaning your best interests are their first priority. For a relaxed and no-obligation cup of coffee and transparent information about creating a financial portfolio – live or virtually – visit eatonfinancialgroup.com to set an appointment. Tell them The Motherhood Village sent you.  Learn more about joining The Motherhood Village community as an official member Brief summary of show: In this episode of the Motherhood Village podcast, we are joined by special guest Dr. Sheryl Ziegler, a licensed clinical psychologist and author of 'Mommy Burnout.'  Dr. Ziegler discusses her book, TEDx talk on maternal connection, and the prevalence of mommy burnout. She emphasizes the importance of social connection for combating burnout and shares personal experiences that highlight the isolation and challenges of motherhood. Dr. Ziegler introduces her upcoming book, 'The Crucial Years,' focused on children ages 6-12, highlighting essential strategies for bolstering mental health and readiness for teenage years. Our discussion offers practical advice for parents to foster resilience, address chronic stress, and build a supportive community. We talk about: 0:00 Introduction and Guest Background 01:15 Book Recommendations 03:21 Mental Health Awareness and Parent Connection 04:24 Understanding Mommy Burnout 07:08 Impact of Burnout on our Children 12:25 The Importance of Social Connection 24:37 Navigating Modern Parenting Challenges 24:47 Learning from Past Generations 26:47 The Impact of Social Media on Parenting 29:54 Building Community and Support Networks 32:23 Mother-Daughter Puberty Classes 35:14 Writing and Publishing a Parenting Book 41:05 Final Thoughts and Takeaways Resources The Truth About Beauty by Kat James Good Inside by Dr. Becky Connect with Dr. Sheryl  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mommyburnout/ X: https://twitter.com/drsherylziegler YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/drsherylziegler/featured Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.ca/drsherylziegler/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.sherylziegler LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drsherylziegler/ https://drsherylziegler.com/ Connect with Nicole  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.motherhood.village1/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/The.Motherhood.Village1 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicolegcumberbatch/ https://www.themotherhoodvillage.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCNzy4b2WHCxvP1k8lL0dvIA   

What if we told you that the CLUTTER in your house is covering up bigger issues and contributing to overwhelm in both you and your children? Fortunately, Decluttering Expert and mother of 5, Krista Lockwood is here to teach you how to declutter your home quickly to reduce your workload, promote child independence, and help quell big emotions. If the very idea of decluttering your home feels like too much, Krista and Vanessa address some of the reasons why parents think they can't declutter, and proven ways to get it done no matter what life is throwing your way. Listen for simple tools to simplify your life and how to experience the wisdom that less is truly more. Here are the Topics We Covered on How to Declutter Your Home Quickly for Child Independence Assess how your child's environment may be contributing to household and behavioral issues Learn proven methods for creating reliable systems and reducing workload, overwhelm, and big emotions Discover the underlying issues that emerge when decluttering and how to address them Learn the lesson of ‘less is more' as it pertains to children in the home (and classroom) Krista Lockwood, the creator of Motherhood Simplified, a group, a podcast, and much more, focuses on helping families by showing them how to declutter their homes quickly to ensure they support them, instead of working against them. Ways to stay in touch and learn with Krista Lockwood: Discover more about Krista and her work at https://motherhoodsimplified.com/featured-on/ Get 10% off of Krista's signature course with the code Vanessa10 at https://motherhoodsimp.samcart.com/products/decluttering-simplified-copy Get Krista's free guide “How to Create a Decluttering Plan You Can Actually Do As a Mom” at http://motherhoodsimplified.com/DIY Join the Motherhood Simplified Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2010014145929427/ Go to www.thecalmempoweredparent.com to get your free copy of Vanessa's Calm Parent Strategy Guide, to submit a question, to stay up to date with upcoming events, and to explore how to bring one of Vanessa's low-cost workshops to your school or group. Music by Jabari Martin instagram.com/iamstolenartifacts #ClutterFreeHome #ParentingAdvice #HomeEnvironment #FamilySupport #StressManagement #HomeManagement #PositiveParenting #TimeSavingTips #PracticalSolutions #ChildDevelopment #HouseholdIssues #BehavioralIssues #HomeSolutions #ParentingResources #HomeImprovementTips

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Welcome to "Parenting the Intensity!"In this episode of "Parenting the Intensity," host Anouk is joined by guest Carrie Conrad, founder of Beating Disasters, to explore the challenging topic of dealing with emotionally intense children who engage in physically dangerous behavior. The conversation sheds light on the need for parents to approach restraint from a place of empathy and support, rather than control or punishment, while emphasizing the importance of safety and nonviolent parenting. Anouk and Carrie discuss the struggle of finding helpful resources for parents dealing with intense behaviors and highlight the crucial role of natural consequences, preventative measures, and emotional regulation in parenting. Stay tuned for valuable insights, practical advice, and helpful resources in this thought-provoking discussion on resilient and mindful parenting.3 Key Takeaways:1️⃣ How and When to use Restraints: Approach restraint from a place of service and support, rather than punishment or control. We emphasized the importance of turning to resources like Dr. Althea Solter's book "Tears and Tantrums" for valuable insights into understanding restraint from a gentle, respectful, and dignified perspective.2️⃣ Prioritize empathy and support : while implementing natural consequences and preventative measures for challenging behaviors in children, especially those prone to emotionally intense reactions. It's important to adapt parenting advice and resources to fit your own child and family's reality.3️⃣ Importance of parent's emotional regulation: Recognize the significant impact of a parent's emotional regulation on their child's behavior and practice self-care to model the importance of setting boundaries and prioritizing well-being. Teaching children about self-care and boundaries is crucial for their own emotional growth and development."Everybody wants control. But when it comes to physical safety and people or children being emotionally dysregulated or not in control of themselves, oddly enough, we give control to gain control."Connect with Carrie:Website: Www.beatingdisaster.comFacebook: Www.facebook.com/BeatingDisasterResources mentioned:Book tears and tantrum from Aletha Solter, Ph.D. founder and firector of The Aware Parenting Institute: https://www.amazon.ca/Tears-Tantrums-What-Babies-Children/dp/0961307366Daniel the Tigger for emotional regulation: https://pbskids.org/daniel/Make sure to subscribe to our podcast for future episodes and leave a rating and review, that helps us get in front of more parents. Don't forget to check out the resources mentioned on our website at www.parentingtheintensity.caJoin the "Parenting the Intensity Community" to find the right things that works for YOUR child and adapt them to YOUR reality.To be able to enjoy your life and kids, not always being afraid of the next outburstTake a deep breath, keep going, we're all in this together!Music by Oleksii Kaplunskyi from Pixabay

Kacey shares her favorite parenting resources! Sleeping- taking care of babies @takingcarababies takingcarababies.com Eating-feeding littles course @feedinglittles feedinglittles.com Real little meals- IG account for recipes @reallittlemeals reallittlemeals.com Discipline- big little feelings @biglittlefeelings biglittlefeelings.com Thank you for listening! Here is my website if you want to check it out: ⁠⁠⁠Kacey Mae Creative Co. (kaceymaedesign.com)⁠⁠⁠ Follow Me on Instagram and Tik Tok: @coffeewithkacey

Actual Rhythm Chart Available HERE: https://www.dropbox.com/s/qm9o7aa1e41fxk6/actual%20rhythm.pdf?dl=0 Full Video Podcast with an exclusive on Mastering Meal Time available here: https://www.aurielslight.org/offers/oJoGDeTk/checkout Learn more about our Waldorf Essentials Curriculum and Parenting Resources https://www.waldorfessentials.com/ Don't you want an amazing homeschool experience? We have helped thousands of families over the years, we'd love to help you. Our curriculum is written BY homeschoolers FOR homeschoolers. Many Waldorf homeschoolers get overwhelmed and quit or make it too hard for themselves. Let us help you get out of that space. Learn more about Seasons of Seven Virtual School https://www.seasonsofseven.com/ Redefining Education! Bringing Waldorf inspired, teacher guided lessons right to you, wherever you are! If you found this content helpful please consider making a donation to our non profit. Every child should have access to a whole education. While we work hard to keep our virtual school tuition and curriculum prices affordable, there will always be families that desire this education but can not afford it. It is our deepest desire to help those families. https://www.aurielslight.org/ Auriel's Light is a non profit and all donations are tax deductible. https://www.waldorfessentials.com/ https://www.seasonsofseven.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/waldorf_essentials/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/WaldorfEssentials/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/waldorfessentials/_created/ Tik Tok : https://www.tiktok.com/@seasons.of.waldorf Twitter: https://twitter.com/WaldorfMelisa

Learn more about our Waldorf Essentials Curriculum and Parenting Resources at https://www.waldorfessentials.com/ Don't you want an amazing homeschool experience? We have helped thousands of families over the years, we'd love to help you. Our curriculum is written BY homeschoolers FOR homeschoolers. Many Waldorf homeschoolers get overwhelmed and quit or make it too hard for themselves. Let us help you get out of that space. Learn more about Seasons of Seven Virtual School https://www.seasonsofseven.com/ Redefining Education! Bringing Waldorf inspired, teacher guided lessons right to you, wherever you are! If you found this content helpful please consider making a donation to our non profit. Every child should have access to a whole education. While we work hard to keep our virtual school tuition and curriculum prices affordable, there will always be families that desire this education but can not afford it. It is our deepest desire to help those families. https://www.aurielslight.orgAuriel's Light is a non profit and all donations are tax deductible. https://www.waldorfessentials.com/ https://www.seasonsofseven.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/waldorf_essentials/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/WaldorfEssentials/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/waldorfessentials/_created/ Tik Tok : https://www.tiktok.com/@seasons.of.waldorf Twitter: https://twitter.com/WaldorfMelisa

Welcome to another episode of "The Running Wine Mom." In today's conversation, your host, Samantha, explores the world of Brittany Gianfagna. Brittany is not only a local therapist but also an author and a devoted mother.Samantha and Brittany crossed paths at the Women of Influence luncheon, where both received recognition for their outstanding contributions to the community. Brittany's accolades reflect her dedication to helping others, a theme that runs deep in her professional and personal life.The heart of this episode revolves around Brittany's latest book, "Vinny Goes to Therapy." This interactive book takes young readers on a journey through emotion regulation and behavior modification, making it a vital resource for children seeking to understand and manage their feelings and emotions in a healthy way.The discussion doesn't stop there. Samantha and Brittany explore the unique approach Brittany takes in her therapy practice, conducted through video conferencing. This approach removes barriers to accessing high-quality therapy, allowing clients to engage from the comfort of their own homes.Brittany's ability to build lasting rapport, identify strengths, and set achievable goals makes her a beacon of empowerment for her clients.As a bonus for our audience, Samantha shares exciting news. Brittany will be hosting a book signing event on November 4th at 2 PM at Buttonwood Park in Yardley, PA. It's an opportunity to meet the author, get a signed copy of "Vinny Goes to Therapy," and dive deeper into the subject matter.Whether you're a parent seeking valuable resources to help your child manage emotions or someone curious about the world of therapy, this episode offers insights and inspiration. If you enjoyed the conversation, remember to subscribe, leave a review, and share with your friends. Your support keeps "The Running Wine Mom" running smoothly!Brittany's InstagramVinny Goes to TherapyThe Running Wine Mom

Hello all! The footage is missing from the first half of the episode, sorry about that! My mentor joins me today and shares her experience raising a child with autism. She shares resources, stories, and encouragement to any other parents out there! Music by J.M. Quintana Cámara Where to find episodes on all other platforms! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/complexlikewine Follow the podcast and myself @complexlikewine and @zarmenda https://www.instagram.com/complexlikewine/ https://www.instagram.com/zarmenda/ www.complexlikewine.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/complexlikewine/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/complexlikewine/support

Forgiveness offers healing for one and hope for the other! Our behavior can genuinely create the body of Christ for the world. Helpful Links: Worship Check-in: https://www.tmumc.org/here Parenting Resources: https://www.tmumc.org/parenting Online Giving: https://www.tmumc.org/give 

A big key to helping your kids succeed in life is teaching them to stop making excuses. Jim Daly speaks with Dr. Kathy Koch about four types of excuses kids can make. You'll also hear John and Danny share how you can practically help your kids eliminate excuses from their vocabularies.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/parentingpodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Receive the book "Resilient Kids" for your donation of any amount!   Learn About the 7 Traits of Effective Parenting   Raising Resilient Kids   Find the Best of Parenting Resources    Listen Anytime   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

The Motherhood Village podcast is powered by Eaton Financial Group: where their motto is to live well, work hard and give generously. Under the leadership of Doug Eaton - Eaton provides counsel to its family of clients on complex financial issues, delivering a high level of proactive care and customized financial plans that meet each client's individual needs. The firm specializes in assisting women who handle household financial planning, by acting in a fiduciary capacity – meaning your best interests are their first priority.  For a relaxed and no obligation cup of coffee and second opinion – live or virtually – visit eatonfinancialgroup.com to set an appointment. This week's episode features Caitlin Meister, the Founding Director of The Greer Meister Group, a New York City-based private tutoring and educational consulting practice. Her interest in how children learn began when she was young, and she began teaching children and teens while pursuing her own education. Inspired by her own educational experiences at the Little Red School House, Stuyvesant High School, and Wesleyan University, she went on to receive additional training through the Harvard Graduate School of Education and in the Orton-Gillingham approach for teaching students with language-based learning differences. Meister has extensive experience working with gifted learners and supporting neurodiverse students, and she is dedicated to a strengths-based, neurodiversity-affirming approach. Becoming a mom of two had a profound impact on her work. She, like all parents, wanted to provide the best educational opportunities for her children. She began offering educational consulting, connecting with other parents, and supporting them throughout their children's academic careers. Today, Meister's team of passionate tutors works with students around the world. She has been recognized by New York Magazine as providing “The Best Online Classes for Kids,” and as well as the American Library Association for her work with young adults and has appeared in national media including The New York Times, Wall Street Journal, and Parents. In addition to consulting with private clients, Meister speaks and writes on a variety of education topics for consumers, parents, and faculty. Joyfully Learning, at the Greer Meister Group, believes that education is supposed to help your child shine – not dim your child's light. Their mission is to make sure that every child they work with feels seen, heard, and respected in school and that parents are empowered to advocate for their children's learning needs. Resources mentioned: The Patron Saint of Liars by Ann Patchett Parable of the Sower by Octavia E. Butler In this episode, Caitlin and I discuss: The #1 thing parents can do to make sure they're advocating for their child when it comes to academics and school. The importance of a "Strengths-Based" approach learning in and out of the classroom. Tips to help your children with homework, how to make it stress-free and how to choose a good school.  How she helps high school kids thrive in their transition to college and what should be the main focus.  Her passion for bringing joy back to learning - for children and their parents.  What the terms gifted and neuro-diverse mean. Connect with Caitlin on Instagram, Instagram, LinkedIn, and Facebook Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.motherhood.village1/ YouTube: The Motherhood Village - YouTube LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicolegcumberbatch/  Website: https://www.themotherhoodvillage.com/ Loved this episode? Leave a review and rating here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-motherhood-village-podcast/id1487274178

Anne-Marie is back, and this time it's all about parenting resources. We had the best time chatting again! Training Them Wisely Devoted: Great Men and Their Godly Moms by Tim Challies Parenting: 14 Gospel Principles That Can Radically Change Your Family by Paul David Tripp Habits of the Household: Practicing the Story of God in Everyday Family Rhythms by Justin Whitmel Earley  Wild Things: The Art of Nurturing Boys by Stephen James and David Thomas Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. The ESV text may not be quoted in any publication made available to the public by a Creative Commons license. The ESV may not be translated in whole or in part into any other language.

Greetings Glocal Citizens! This week on the podcast we're back on the trailblazing path and once again, it is all about Destination Africa! Our guides are my guests, the Ghanaian-Briton duo Abena and Ekow Richardson, the co-founders of Destination Africa, which, through programs, workshops, dvds, channels, live streams and other merchandise offers a wealth of knowledge in African languages, culture, heritage and lifestyle. With backgrounds in software engineering, the hair and fashion industries, and professional basketball the Destination Africa journey began for Ekow once he became a father with the decision to apply his passions to inspiring and empowering the next generation of young leaders. As a homeschooling mum, Abena is also the main facilitator for Destination Africa. She uses her energetic, coordinated, innovative, loving, exciting, and disciplined teaching style to deliver results while her partner uses his IT skills as the technological mind behind all things Destination Africa. Together this family affair is one to watch as a primer on planning a relocating a family and a business in uncertain times. Where to find the Richardsons? www.destinationafrica.com On LinkedIn (https://www.linkedin.com/in/michael-ekow-richardson-957729254/) On Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/destafricagrp/) On Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/destafricagrp/) On Twitter (https://twitter.com/DestAfricaGrp) On Youtube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCiDBW8C_kan2vp90YvroFtg) On Whatsapp (https://chat.whatsapp.com/DBIGt0DPvDzEX8PVrIjXDO) Other topics of interest: Exotic Park, West Legon (https://www.google.com/maps/uv?pb=!1s0xfdf9dbfe95f36e5%3A0xee31370d7529d80e!3m1!7e115!4shttps%3A%2F%2Flh5.googleusercontent.com%2Fp%2FAF1QipPRBTdAxuCVpXgyWoU9UetYVCux0ekN0t-Q_JE%3Dw520-h350-n-k-no!5sexotic%20park%20west%20legon%20event%20space%20-%20Google%20Search!15sCgIgAQ&imagekey=!1e10!2sAF1QipPRBTdAxuCVpXgyWoU9UetYVCux0ekN0t-Q_JE&hl=en&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjZovmtmcL-AhUFm2oFHbT9DcYQ7ZgBKAB6BAgTEAI) Winneba, Ghana (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Winneba) San kofa a yenkyiri (https://www.stockton.edu/sankofa/about.html) About Fante people in Ghana (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fante_people) A survey of Ghana's Parliament (https://issafrica.org/iss-today/ghanas-split-parliament-has-failed-to-meet-public-expectations) About civics education in Africa (https://www.researchgate.net/publication/341283125_Civic_Education_and_Pupils'_Civic_Dispositions_in_Ghana_and_Nigeria_A_Comparative_Analysis/fulltext/5eb8a8efa6fdcc1f1dcff694/Civic-Education-and-Pupils-Civic-Dispositions-in-Ghana-and-Nigeria-A-Comparative-Analysis.pdf) Kumapim Royals International Band's Time Changes (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ldRMRLUt94U) Special Guest: Ekow Richardson.

Once we had a baby, we realized that we needed more community in our lives. Thankfully, there are a ton of resources and events that most communities put on that can help you educate and entertain your children, with minimal effort on your part. Sometimes we just need someone else to take the reins for an hour or two so we can regain our energy and creativity for activities at home. Topics:LibraryCommunity CenterChurchGymnastics/Dance StudioFitness Clubs for MomsState Parks/Nature CentersParks & PlaygroundsLinks:Products in this Episode / Transcript - 1022 Productions Instagram - https://instagram.com/1022productionsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/meeting-baby-h/exclusive-content

WHY IS MY CHILD IN CHARGE? CLAIRE LERNER INTERVIEW | Child Development Specialist. https://www.lernerchilddevelopment.com/ Claire Lerner CLAIRE LERNER, MSW, is a licensed clinical social worker and child development specialist. She served as the Director of Parenting Resources at ZERO TO THREE for more than eighteen years. Lerner has been a practicing clinician for over thirty years, partnering with parents to decode their children's behavior and solve their most vexing childrearing challenges. She also provides training to local preschools and pediatric residents. Lerner is the author of hundreds of parenting resources, including books, blogs, podcasts, and videos. She writes a column for PBS Kids, and her work has been published by several parenting publications. She has also served as a content expert for numerous national daily newspapers. Lerner is the mother of two very spirited children of her own, Sam (30) and Jess (28), and stepmom of two stepchildren, Justin (30) and Sammy (27). She lives in Bethesda, Maryland, with her husband and two dogs.

Adam Griffin, Chelsea Griffin, and Cassie Bryant are back for Season 4 and have a discussion about where to start with family discipleship.Questions Covered in This Episode:If somebody has struggled with family discipleship and they asked you where to start, what wisdom would you offer them?What if their family is resistant to starting something new?What's a great way to get started if you've never been discipled?What's a benefit to discipleship?If someone has struggled to get connected at church, how would you advise them? Where would you advise somebody to get started on reading the bible as a family?Where can someone get started with Time, Moments, and Milestones?If someone was brand new to our show, where would you tell them to start?Resources Mentioned in This Episode:The Bible Project: Book Overviews, LeviticusThe Whole Sweep of Scripture, by N.T. Wright“The Jesus Storybook Bible” by Sally Lloyd Jones“BibleProject Coffee Table Book” by The BibleProject“​​Exploring the Bible” by David Murray“Meeting with Jesus” by David Murray“Old Story New” by Marty Machowski“Long Story Short” by Marty Machowski“The Story of God's Love for You” by Sally Lloyd Jones“Exploring the Earliest Gospel” by Rebecca McLaughlinThe Family Discipleship Podcast“Why Disciple Your Family?”“Talking With Your Kids About LGBTQ+”“What about Dating? With Jonathan Pokluda“Parent Guilt”“Raising Emotionally Strong Children with David Thomas”“Intentional Fatherhood with Jon Tyson”“In the Ortlund Home with Ray Ortlund”“Otherness with Jen Wilkin”Amazon affiliate links are used where appropriate. As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases, thank you for supporting Training the Church.Follow Us:Instagram | Facebook | TwitterOur Sister Shows:Knowing Faith | Confronting Christianity | Starting PlaceThe Family Discipleship Podcast is a podcast of Training the Church. For ad-free episodes and more content check out our Patreon.

We are chatting about organizing your playroom, and what you can do to make it the most play-able and easy for your kids to explore and learn (without the drag of them not cleaning things up). Today's guest is Kayla O'Niell. She is a research assistant in the Early Childhood Department at Indiana University. She has been working in early invention for over 10 years, and is the face behind @Baby.Toddler.Teacher on Tik Tok and Instagram. Kayla also runs the website Parentingexperttomom.com, where she is passionate about helping parents become confident! She is also the mom of two children. Parenting Resources: https://babytoddlerteacher.podia.com/ Website: https://www.parentingexperttomom.com/ This episode was inspired by my post on playroom organization: https://www.pullingcurls.com/playroom-ideas-toy-storage-space-tight/ Big thanks to our sponsor The Organized Home -- making a room functional is the #1 in that class, so you'll learn how to organize all your house to make it the most useable for ALL of you! In this episode How parents over-complicate storage. Ways to make toy storage the easiest for moms & kids How to use toy rotation to your benefit Non-toy ideas for parents to buy kids Highlights Magazine: https://www.anrdoezrs.net/click-7739520-13105474 Where to get Kayla's classes you can easily combine into your daily routines: https://babytoddlerteacher.podia.com/inspire-learning-for-babies/s5tsz, she also has a membership where you get access to ALL her stuff: Other things that might interest you Answering your organization questions podcast The Family Clean Getting kids to clean episode Producer: Drew Erickson

Join me for Part 2 of my conversation with Claire Lerner, L.C.S.W., the Director of Parenting Resources at Zero to Three: National Center for Infants, Toddlers, and Families, a non-profit dedicated to promoting the healthy development and well-being of infants, toddlers, and their families. How do you deal with big reactions in a healthy way? Hiya Health: Receive 50% off your order at Hiyahealth.com/HUMANS   Produced by Dear Media  

What do you do when the regulated response to bad behavior doesn't work? Join me in conversation with Claire Lerner, L.C.S.W., the Director of Parenting Resources at Zero to Three: National Center for Infants, Toddlers, and Families, a non-profit dedicated to promoting the healthy development and well-being of infants, toddlers, and their families. When Time-In Doesn't Work: https://www.lernerchilddevelopment.com/mainblog/time-out-revisited   Why Punishment Doesn't Stop Aggressive Behavior: https://www.lernerchilddevelopment.com/mainblog/why-punishment-doesnt-stop-aggressive-behavior   Your Child Isn't Misbehaving On Purpose: https://www.lernerchilddevelopment.com/mainblog/2020/12/17/positive-parenting-mindshift-your-child-isnt-misbehaving-on-purpose   Produced by Dear Media   This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.

THIS IS THE WORST EPISODE EVER!!!! (Is what our kids would shout if they knew what a podcast was and were throwing a fit about it.) Aren't tantrums the worst? Everything's fine and dandy and then your kid decides they don't like the shape of a cloud they saw and it's all over. (And then maybe we throw our own tantrum because of their tantrum and it's a big cluster-tantrum. Good times.) But... maybe there are other things going on here!Most of us were raised to shut tantrums down at all costs and move on, but we may be missing opportunities to help our kids develop into better people (than us!). That's the topic today and we've got some fun stories and tips for you as you tackle the tantrums of parenthood.This is Episode Fifteen of Parenting Is Hard w/ Matt & Stacy Barnes!Make sure to SUBSCRIBE and leave reviews!Join our Facebook communityFollow us on InstagramShare your Parenting Wins, Kid Quotes or other thoughts at parentingishard.com/contact Parenting is Hard w/ Matt & Stacy BarnesHosts: Matt Barnes (@immattbarnes) and Stacy Barnes (who does not do the social media much)Family IG: @thosebarnestwinsMusic by Jerad Atherton of CHPTRSProduced and Engineered by Matt Barnes for Rogue LabsPromotion, Design and Social Media by Rogue Creative DevelopmentRecorded at Rogue Collective in Newport Beach, CA.

We're back... and the podcast has gone straight into the toilet! (Dad joke.) Potty training is no joke and we've got some tips (and lots of dad jokes) to get you through it!We've got tips, Parenting Wins, and so much more this week!This is Episode Thirteen of Parenting Is Hard w/ Matt & Stacy Barnes!Make sure to SUBSCRIBE and leave reviews!Join our Facebook communityFollow us on InstagramShare your Parenting Wins, Kid Quotes or other thoughts at parentingishard.com/contact Parenting is Hard w/ Matt & Stacy BarnesHosts: Matt Barnes (@immattbarnes) and Stacy Barnes (who does not do the social media much)Family IG: @thosebarnestwinsMusic by Jerad Atherton of CHPTRSProduced and Engineered by Matt Barnes for Rogue LabsPromotion, Design and Social Media by Rogue Creative DevelopmentRecorded at Rogue Collective in Newport Beach, CA.

Have you ever wondered what it is like to work in the foster care system, foster a child, or how to support foster families in your community? Have you ever desired to help these children and families but aren't sure where to start? The foster care system and the support needed for these families and children can be confusing to navigate, but Blair Wulfekuhl is here to offer guidance! Blair spent 12 years working the Child Welfare/Dependency Care System, before shifting her focus to children 0-5 in an early childhood program. Blair has also been a foster parent herself to multiple children, offering insights into multiple facets of the foster care system. Blair has a wealth of knowledge that we are eager to share!Join us as we welcome our second guest, Blair Wulfekuhl, to provide the broad-brush strokes of all things foster care! Blair helped us understand the challenges of the foster care system, tips to prepare your family and marriage before bringing in a foster child, and tangible ways to offer support to other families fostering.If you find this episode, or any of our other episodes, helpful to you, please share with those that you love! Let us know what you think about what you want us to talk about next by emailing us at RelationshipsInsideOut@gmail.com! You can find us on Facebook at: @RelationshipsInsideOutllc!Next Tuesday, we explore personal insecurities and how to manage these disruptive internal thoughts. Later topics include: validation, grief/loss, self-acceptance, compassion in couples, identifying needs vs. wants, boundaries, managing family relationships, and so much more!For more content and resources, follow us on Facebook at @RelationshipsInsideOutllc!Some resources from our episode:1. Blair Wulfekuhl contact: blair.wulfekuhl@yahoo.com 2. Parenting Resources for Foster Parents3. The Parental Rights of Foster and Adopted Parents

On this week's episode, Naomi & Sadie discuss toxic positivity and how “good vibes only” messaging pushes us towards seeking perfection via external rules & societal constructs (and also bypasses ALL of the negative things that happen as a result of trauma, mental health issues, and experiencing marginalization or oppression). Plus, we share how toxic positivity is directly tied into diet culture & how the personal development industry is basically made up of rich dudes telling women they need to be more positive in order to be successful. And don't miss our whole related side conversation about Rachel Hollis!You can stay up to date on all things Satisfaction Factor by following us on IG @satisfactionfactorpod!And be sure to check out Shame Free Fitness, Sadie's new training program for fitness professionals who strive to be the change within an industry that is centered around diet culture. Enrollment will reopen in early 2022, but you can click here to get on the waitlist now!Here's where to find us:Sadie Simpson: www.sadiesimpson.com or IG @thesadiesimpsonNaomi Katz: www.happyshapes.co or IG @happyshapesnaomiFor this episode's transcript, visit: www.satisfactionfactorpod.comThis episode references:Parenting Resources - @mrchazz, @biglittlefeelings, @lisaalamode, @manifestdestini19 Self-Improvement Industry Statistics You Probably Didn't Know BeforeMaintenance Phase Podcast - Rachel Hollis Part 1 & Rachel Hollis Part 2Joyn - Free Body-Inclusive Movement

Episode 10! Double Digits, Babyyyyyy.  Jennie and Allie are back from Spring Break, and have never felt worse.  Thinking we were out of the woods, after over a year, Allie's house was struck with Covid. The Mommies discuss symptoms, and goals for getting back to fighting shape. Who else is in?! We're thinking of starting a movement of strong mommies, with even stronger immune systems.  Follow us on Instagram for yummy recipes, and workout inspo. Or at least commiserate with us in the process!Fortunately, they are joined by Dr. Heather Orman-Lubell, who answers all kinds of questions, from Covid and Kids, to giving ourselves grace with screen time.  She gives us hope for kids going back to school in the fall, and discusses the importance of getting vaccinated. Below, is the list of resources she shares, for parents...and Jennie realizes she has some catching up to do! Thank you to Tim (@timbostwickrealtor) and Dr. Heather! And thank you everyone for listening!Parenting Resources:"The AAP Guide to the First Five Years""The AAP Guide to Your Child's Symptoms""Baby 411: Clear Answers and Smart Advice For Your Baby's First Year", Dr. Ari Brown, and Denise Fields"The Mommy MD Guides""The Blessings of a Skinned Knee", Wendy Mogel, Ph.D."How to Raise an Adult: Break Free of the Overparenting Trap and Prepare Your Kid for Success", Julie Lythcott-HaimsEMAIL: TheVillagePod@gmail.comSOCIALS: @villagecommunity @mrsjennieporter @smallspacemommySUBSCRIBE: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Pandora, Stitcher, BuzzSprout

The plan was to grab a few favorites from our bookshelves. Renee heard "books for kids," but Bonnie thought "books for parents." So you get a bargain sampling of both! There are approximately 2,567 more titles we could have mentioned, but we've included some of our top picks here.

Today Adam gets to sit down with Claire Lerner. Claire Lerner, LCSW-C is a licensed clinical social worker and child development specialist. She served as the Director of Parenting Resources at ZERO TO THREE for more than 18 years, overseeing the development of all parenting educational content. Claire is the author of hundreds of resources for parents and professionals, including curricula on early development and parenting, as well as a podcast and video series. Claire writes a column for PBSparents.org and has also written columns for Parenting: The Early Years and American Baby Magazines. She is frequently quoted in other Parenting publications and has been a source on early childhood development for NPR and numerous national daily newspapers such as The New York Times, Wall Street Journal, USA Today, Los Angeles Times, the Boston Globe and the London Times. Claire has also been a practicing clinician for over 33 years, partnering with parents to understand the behavior and development of their young children. In addition, she provides consultation and training to local preschools and pediatric residents. Resources  Website: lernerchilddevelopment.com; Claire writes a regular blog for PBS Kids for Parents. She is currently writing a book on how it's a change of parental mindsets that unlocks to the key to practicing the positive parenting approaches they aspire to implement Connect with the Guest Twitter: @clairejlerner Linkedin: Claire-Lerner Facebook: Lerner Child Development Connect with Adam If you enjoyed listening to this episode and wanted to share your thoughts you can:    Follow us at @AdamEskow on Instagram and FB   Send us an email at Adam@EskowCoaching.com   Sponsor If you are interested in starting your own podcast, check out www.truthworkmedia.com. We will coach you from conception to iTunes! It's super easy! Go here for more information.