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Send us a textAre you tired of watching colleagues get promoted while you wait for opportunities to find you? In this episode, communication and leadership expert Kele Belton reveals The SCOUT Method—a 5-step framework to identify promotional opportunities before they're posted.Perfect for women navigating corporate leadership in competitive industries, this episode transforms how you approach career advancement from reactive to strategic.What You'll Learn:Why 80% of promotional decisions are made before jobs are postedThe 5 components of the SCOUT Method for career advancementHow to build strategic relationships without feeling "salesy"Timing secrets: When to have career conversations for maximum impactCommon mistakes women make that sabotage promotion opportunitiesActionable steps to implement immediately in your workplaceAbout the Host:Kele Belton is a communication and leadership speaker, facilitator, and coach who specializes in helping women leaders develop confidence and impact through better communication skills.—--------------------------------------------------------Connect with Kele for more leadership insights: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a textAre you tired of feeling defensive every time someone says, "Can I give you some feedback?" In this episode, leadership communication expert Kele Belton dives deep into the bestselling book "Thanks for the Feedback" by Douglas Stone and Sheila Heen, sharing actionable strategies that help women leaders receive feedback without getting defensive.What You'll Learn:The 3 feedback triggers that make leaders defensive (and how to overcome them)How to distinguish between appreciation, coaching, and evaluation feedback4 proven strategies for receiving feedback like a confident leaderThe Johari Window technique for identifying your leadership blind spotsA simple "feedback triage" framework to decide which feedback to act onWhy receiving feedback well is more important than giving itPerfect For:Women in leadership positionsAspiring female leadersManagers who struggle with receiving criticismLeaders who want to improve their emotional intelligenceAnyone who gets defensive when receiving feedbackProfessionals seeking leadership developmentBook Mentioned:"Thanks for the Feedback: The Science and Art of Receiving Feedback Well" by Douglas Stone and Sheila HeenAbout the Host:Kele Belton is a communication and leadership speaker, facilitator, and coach who specializes in helping women leaders develop confidence and impact through better communication skills.—--------------------------------------------------------Connect with Kele for more leadership insights: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a textIn this episode of Communicate to Lead, Kele Belton shares 5 practical boundary-setting scripts that help women leaders protect their time and energy without feeling guilty. Learn how to decline unnecessary meetings, redirect misaligned requests, manage your capacity, empower your team's decision-making, and set clear communication expectations. These word-for-word scripts will transform your leadership effectiveness while maintaining strong professional relationships.What You'll Learn:Why setting boundaries is especially challenging for women in leadership positionsBrené Brown's simple yet powerful definition of boundaries from "Dare to Lead"5 ready-to-use scripts for common boundary-setting scenarios in leadershipImplementation strategies to make these scripts work even when uncomfortableHow clear boundaries actually improve professional relationshipsKey Quotes:"The most effective leaders aren't the ones who say yes to everything. They're the ones who protect their time, energy, and focus by setting clear boundaries.""Boundaries aren't about building walls; they're about creating clarity.""Clear boundaries actually improve relationships because they replace resentment with respect and confusion with clarity."—------------------------------------------------Connect with Kele for more leadership insights: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a textIn today's uncertain economic and political climate, female leaders face unique challenges that require specific strategies to overcome. Join communication and leadership coach Kele Belton as she shares three powerful permission statements that can transform how women show up as leaders. This episode delivers validation, practical frameworks, and actionable advice for women navigating leadership roles during political and economic uncertainty.What You'll Learn:Why women leaders are 1.5 times more likely to leave positions due to burnout and what to do about itHow to recognize and overcome the "leadership tension" women face in today's workplaceThe three permission statements every female leader needs to internalizePractical frameworks for taking up space without apologyStrategic self-advocacy techniques that aren't selfish but essentialThe "Leadership Journey" approach to intentional growth during uncertain timesResources Mentioned:McKinsey's Women in the Workplace study"You Just Don't Understand" by Deborah Tannen"How Women Rise" by Sally Helgesen and Marshall GoldsmithResearch by Linda Babcock at Carnegie Mellon UniversityAbout Kele Belton:Kele Belton is a communication and leadership facilitator, coach, and consultant. Her podcast "Communicate to Lead" is geared towards women in leadership and those aspiring to leadership positions. Through her work, Kele offers relatable stories, actionable strategies, and frameworks that listeners can apply immediately to advance their leadership journey.—------------------------------------------------Connect with Kele for more leadership insights: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a textIn this special listener questions episode of Communicate to Lead, I share my personal journey as a leadership and communication coach. Drawing on my 15 years of coaching experience and South African heritage, I answer your most pressing questions about authentic leadership, effective communication, and finding clarity in challenging moments.What You'll LearnThe transformative power of active listening as the cornerstone of leadership communicationHow my South African roots and the philosophy of Ubuntu shape my approach to leadershipPractical strategies for maintaining mental clarity when feeling overwhelmedThe unexpected ways hosting a podcast has enhanced my own leadership abilitiesHow introverts can leverage their natural strengths to become exceptional leadersShare your insights, breakthroughs, or questions with me on Instagram or through LinkedIn. Your experience might be featured in an upcoming episode!—------------------------------------------------Connect with Kele for more leadership insights: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a textBook your FREE Leadership Clarity Call HERE.Are you wearing someone else's leadership voice?Do you find yourself mimicking the communication styles of other leaders, only to feel drained and ineffective? In this essential episode of Communicate to Lead, I reveal why borrowing someone else's leadership voice diminishes your impact and how to develop an authentic communication style that feels natural while commanding respect.What You'll Learn in This EpisodeDiscover how to uncover and strengthen your authentic leadership voice—one that feels as natural as talking with a trusted friend while carrying the weight your leadership role demands. This episode is especially valuable for women in leadership who often face pressure to communicate in ways that don't align with their true selves.In this value-packed 20-minute episode, you'll learn:What an authentic leadership voice truly is - The sweet spot where your natural communication tendencies meet effective leadership communicationHow to identify your current communication patterns - Recognize when you're putting on a "leadership persona" versus being authentically yourselfThe four essential building blocks of an authentic leadership voice:Your core communication valuesYour natural communication strengthsYour genuine stories and experiencesHow to adapt to different contexts while remaining authenticA practical 30-day development plan to start strengthening your authentic voice immediatelyKey Insights"When we borrow someone else's leadership voice instead of developing our own, we diminish our impact and exhaust ourselves in the process."I share examples from my coaching practice, including a client who transformed her team's engagement by abandoning her borrowed, data-heavy communication style and embracing her naturally warm, story-driven approach.You'll learn to recognize your "authenticity alarm bells"—the physical and emotional signals that indicate you're slipping into an inauthentic voice—and how to use them as guideposts toward more genuine communication.Take Your Leadership Voice to the Next LevelIf you're ready to accelerate your journey to finding your authentic leadership voice, I'm offering free 20-minute Leadership Clarity Calls. During these personalized sessions, you'll identify what's holding your authentic voice back and create a roadmap for your growth.Click the link to schedule your Clarity Call → https://calendly.com/kele-thetailoredapproach/leadership-clarity-call Spots are limited this month! Click the link to schedule your call today.Share your insights, breakthroughs, or questions with Kele on Instagram @thetailoredapproach or through LinkedIn. Your experience might be featured in an upcoming episode!—------------------------------------------------Connect with Kele for more leadership insights: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a textDo you ever feel like a fraud in professional settings despite your accomplishments and expertise? In today's episode, I'll explain the psychology behind imposter syndrome and give you practical communication strategies for overcoming it.In This Episode You'll Learn:The science behind imposter syndrome and why it affects 70% of professionalsThe five distinct types of imposter syndrome and how to identify which one might be affecting youHow undermining language patterns reinforce negative self-perceptionFour powerful strategies to transform your communication and build authentic confidencePractical applications for high-stakes scenarios like meetings, performance reviews, and handling criticismThis Week's Challenge:Track one specific undermining phrase you use regularly and consciously replace it with a confident alternative. Notice how this small shift impacts how others respond to you and how you feel about yourself. Share your experience with me on social media!—------------------------------------------------Connect with Kele for more leadership insights: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a textEver notice people's eyes glazing over mid-explanation? In this episode, learn proven strategies to transform rambling into concise, impactful leadership communication that commands attention and respect.Episode OverviewConcise communication is a critical leadership skill that directly impacts how others perceive your competence and confidence. This episode tackles the common challenge many women leaders face: the tendency to over-explain or ramble when communicating important ideas.In this value-packed episode, you'll discover:The psychology behind why even brilliant leaders fall into the rambling trapSelf-awareness techniques to recognize your personal rambling triggersThree powerful frameworks to organize your thoughts clearly and conciselyPreparation strategies that give you structure without sounding scriptedReal-time tactics to refocus your communication when you notice yourself going off trackKey Insights From This EpisodeThe Psychology Behind RamblingHow nervousness and uncertainty trigger over-explanationResearch showing concise speakers are perceived as more authoritative and intelligentFour benefits of precise communication in leadership contextsSelf-Awareness TechniquesCommon rambling triggers to identify in your communication patternsVerbal cues and phrases that signal you're starting to over-explainThe "Present Point Pause" (PPP) technique for staying focused during conversationsReading body language signals that indicate your listener is disengagingPractical Frameworks for Concise CommunicationThe "Three-Point Rule" for organizing any discussion or presentationWhy the "Headline First" approach immediately establishes your authorityUsing the "What, So What, Now What" structure for making recommendationsReal examples showing how these frameworks transform complex informationPreparation StrategiesCreating "structured flexibility" to sound both prepared and authenticIntention-setting questions to focus your message before important conversationsHow to use mental anchors and visualization to stay on track without notesThe "Timer Talk" exercise for practicing concise delivery in just 60 secondsReal-Time Recovery TacticsFour specific phrases for redirecting yourself without undermining your credibilityThe "bookend method" for creating intentionality in your communicationStrategic questions that shift focus while giving you time to regroupThe "flag and focus" technique for zooming out to the bigger pictureWeekly ChallengeIdentify one recurring situation where you tend to provide more detail than necessary. Apply the headline-first approach by starting with your bottom line up front, followed by supporting points only as needed. Notice how this changes both your delivery and your listener's response.Connect With KeleLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com New episodes of the Communicate to Lead podcast are released every Thursday. Subscribe wherever you get your podcasts so you never miss an episode!Episode ResourcesFree Communication Assessment Quiz

Send us a text"What if the advice to 'just be yourself' is actually setting you up for failure? What if authenticity—the very quality we're told makes us effective leaders—is also the thing that could derail your career?"In this thought-provoking episode of Communicate to Lead, I tackle a challenge that keeps emerging in my conversations with women leaders across industries: the authenticity paradox. As leadership expectations shift in today's complex environment, many women are caught in a difficult position—told to "be authentic" while simultaneously facing penalties for expressing their true selves.What happens when showing up as your authentic self feels like putting a target on your back? How do you navigate environments where authenticity seems risky? When does being your true self serve your leadership, and when might it undermine it?Drawing from my experience coaching women leaders facing these exact tensions, I unpack:What true authenticity in leadership actually means (hint: it's not about unfiltered self-expression)The unique authenticity challenges women leaders face, including the "double bind" and emotional display rulesReal-world examples of women navigating these tensions in technology, finance, and corporate settingsA practical framework for "Strategic Authenticity" that honors your values while maximizing your leadership impactThree actionable strategies you can implement immediately to lead more authentically without compromising your effectivenessWhether you're navigating a conservative corporate culture, a shifting political landscape, or simply trying to reconcile conflicting expectations, this episode offers a nuanced approach to authentic leadership that goes beyond the simplistic "just be yourself" advice.Key Takeaways:Authenticity exists on a spectrum—learn to find your sweet spot between unfiltered expression and complete adaptation.Discover how to practice "strategic vulnerability" that builds connection without undermining your credibility.Create a values-based decision framework for navigating authenticity dilemmas with confidence.Build authentic communication habits that express your true leadership style while meeting professional expectations.Develop your "personal board of directors" to create space for full authenticity in your leadership journey.This Episode is Perfect For:Women navigating leadership roles in environments where authentic expression feels riskyLeaders questioning when to adapt their communication style and when to stand firmAnyone seeking practical strategies to bring more of their authentic self to their leadershipCall to Action:Ready to transform how you approach authenticity in your leadership? Here's what to do next:Take the Authenticity Audit Challenge: Set aside 10 minutes this week to identify one situation where you feel you can't fully be yourself. Apply the framework from this episode and share your insights with me.Share this episode with another woman leader in your network who's wrestling with these same challenges. Tag me when you share on social media so I can personally thank you!Book a Strategy Session: Ready for personalized guidance on your authentic leadership journey? Schedule your free Leadership Clarity Call to discuss how I can best support your strategically authentic leadership journey.Subscribe and leave a review: If this episode resonated with you, please take a moment to subscribe and leave a review. Your feedback helps other women leaders find this valuable content.New episodes are release

Send us a textEver heard those dreaded words, "I love your proposal, but with our new strategic direction..."? That sinking feeling when your carefully crafted idea might suddenly become irrelevant can stop you in your tracks.In this milestone 100th episode, we're tackling one of the most frustrating challenges for women in leadership: keepin your ideas alive when organizational priorities shift beneath your feet.Building on the Advocacy Loop concept from Episode 97, I share practical frameworks for repositioning your ideas during times of change without abandoning what matters most. You'll discover:Why organizational priorities shift and the critical mistakes most professionals make in responseHow to identify new pain points that your existing ideas can solve in different waysSpecific language patterns that connect your initiatives to emerging prioritiesStrategic visibility techniques that position you as a solution provider rather than a problem-raiserA powerful approach to building support across departments during uncertaintyThis episode features a compelling story about "Melissa," whose mentorship program was threatened by reorganization but ultimately became a flagship initiative, and opened unexpected doors for her career advancement.If you've ever felt your hard work might be sidelined by changing organizational directions, this episode provides the tools you need to adapt without compromising your vision.Ready to become a more effective advocate for your ideas? Schedule your free Leadership Clarity Call to develop a personalized strategy for navigating your specific organizational challenges. 

Send us a textLeadership Clarity Call: Schedule your free consultation with KeleAre you trying to lead confidently while everything around you feels uncertain? In a world where layoffs loom, initiatives get scaled back, and the job market shifts like quicksand beneath our feet, women leaders face unprecedented challenges. But what if uncertainty could become your leadership superpower instead of your kryptonite?In this essential episode of Communicate to Lead, I'm sharing battle-tested communication frameworks that transform how you navigate uncertainty—both for yourself and those looking to you for guidance. Discover why acknowledging reality isn't a weakness but the foundation of authentic leadership, and learn exactly how to communicate with impact when everyone is operating with reduced cognitive bandwidth.What You'll Learn:The Reality Check Communication Model for acknowledging challenges without resorting to toxic positivity or doomThe 3R Communication Framework: Regular, Relevant, and Relatable Communication StrategiesHow to balance empathy with necessary boundaries using the Compassionate Clarity approachPractical resilience-building techniques for yourself and your teamThe Control Circles exercise to focus energy where it can have the most impactShare your insights, breakthroughs, or questions with Kele on Instagram @thetailoredapproach or through LinkedIn. Your experience might be featured in an upcoming episode!—------------------------------------------------Connect with Kele for more leadership insights: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a textHave you ever watched a woman leader walk into a room and instantly command attention—without saying a single word? That magnetic quality isn't magic or luck—it's presence, and it can be learned.In today's episode, I reveal how your physical presence communicates your power, authority, and confidence—sometimes much louder than your words ever could. Discover why even the most carefully crafted personal brand can be undermined in the first seven seconds of walking into a room and how to ensure your nonverbal communication aligns with your leadership identity.What You'll LearnWhy your body language can undermine your leadership brand in just seven secondsThe neurobiological basis of presence and the "double bind" women leaders faceFive common "presence leaks" that diminish your authority (and how to fix them)The S.T.A.R. framework for conducting a quick presence audit before important interactionsFive actionable techniques to immediately enhance your leadership presenceYour Call to Action: Conduct a daily S.T.A.R. presence audit for a week and implement at least one of the five techniques we discussed in this episode. Notice how small changes in your physical presence impact your leadership effectiveness and others' responses to you.Share your insights, breakthroughs, or questions with Kele on Instagram @thetailoredapproach or through LinkedIn. Your experience might be featured in an upcoming episode!—------------------------------------------------Connect with Kele for more leadership insights: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

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Send us a textIn this episode of Communicate to Lead, Kele Belton breaks down how to intentionally craft and communicate your authentic leadership brand to advance your career and increase your impact.Episode SummaryYour personal brand as a leader speaks before you do. But how do you ensure that it says exactly what you want it to?In this value-packed episode, communication and leadership consultant Kele Belton explores how women leaders can intentionally communicate their personal brand to elevate their leadership presence and create new opportunities. You'll discover the critical difference between "marketing yourself" and clearly communicating your authentic value, along with practical strategies to align how you're perceived with how you want to be known.What You'll LearnWhy your leadership brand is about consistently communicating your authentic value, not creating a perfect imageThe three essential pillars that form the foundation of a powerful leadership brand: Clarity, Consistency, and CredibilityHow to identify your unique leadership "sweet spot" where your strengths align with organizational needsPractical ways to demonstrate your brand through meetings, written communication, and project leadershipStrategic steps to audit, refine, and intentionally communicate your leadership brandResource MentionedFREE MASTERCLASS: "Ready to Break Free from Middle Management? Discover the 4 Mistakes Holding You Back from Senior Leadership" - https://thetailoredapproach.com/middle-management/ —------------------------------------------------Connect with Kele for more leadership insights: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a textLeadership Communication: Why 93% of Executive Teams Fail at This Critical SkillAre you tired of watching your brilliant ideas fall flat in the boardroom? You're not alone. Studies show that poor leadership communication is the hidden factor behind most workplace failures. As a woman in leadership, your executive presence depends on both what you say and how you say it.In this episode of Communicate to Lead, I reveal the three essential communication pillars that distinguish exceptional leaders. Through real-world case studies and proven frameworks, I demonstrate why mastering these communication skills for leaders is non-negotiable for advancing your career and maximizing your leadership impact.In this power-packed episode on effective leadership communication, you'll discover:The "3C Method" for building unshakeable executive presence and credibilityA transformative "Before-After-Bridge" framework for inspiring teams and casting compelling visionsThe "Prepare-Engage-Resolve" approach for mastering difficult conversations with confidenceActionable communication exercises for immediate implementation in your leadership roleWhether you're a seasoned executive or an emerging woman leader, these proven communication strategies will elevate your leadership presence and influence.Ready to transform your leadership communication skills? Connect with me on LinkedIn and Instagram and share your communication journey using #leadershipcommunication. Follow Communicate to Lead and leave a review to help other women in leadership discover these valuable insights.Want to master executive presence through powerful communication? Visit https://thetailoredapproach.com to explore my leadership communication coaching programs and resources designed specifically for ambitious women leaders like you.—------------------------------------------------Connect with Kele for more leadership insights: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a textAre you building a career, or are you crafting a legacy? In this episode of Communicate to Lead, we explore how your unique leadership gifts can create ripples of change that extend far beyond your career. Through the inspiring story of Ursula Burns, the first Black woman CEO of a Fortune 500 company, we uncover how authentic leadership can transform organizations and entire industries.Whether you're an emerging leader or a seasoned executive, this episode will help you discover the leadership gifts you might not even realize you possess. Learn how to leverage these gifts to create a meaningful impact and build a legacy that inspires the next generation of leaders.What you'll discover in this episode:A helpful framework for uncovering your unique leadership gifts that often hide in plain sightHow successful senior leaders create meaningful impact through daily choices and strategic visionA real-world example of a leader who transformed her organization through authentic leadershipThe Leadership Legacy Map exercise that is helping leaders envision and create their future impactPractical strategies for amplifying your leadership presence, regardless of your current positionSpecial Women's History Month Announcement: Don't miss next week's episode for details about an exclusive opportunity coming in March!Take Action Now:Ready to craft your leadership legacy? Book your free Leadership Clarity call this week. During this powerful session, we'll map out your leadership legacy and identify your next strategic moves to amplify your impact.

Send us a textHave you ever watched a female senior leader in action and thought, 'I could do that... if only I knew how to get there'?In this powerful episode, we explore why right now is your moment to claim your seat at the senior leadership table. If you've ever looked at senior leadership positions and thought, "Could that be me?" – this episode will transform how you see your leadership potential.What You'll Discover:Why the evolving leadership landscape is creating unprecedented opportunities for women leadersHow your perceived "weaknesses" might actually be your greatest leadership strengthsThe inspiring journey of Kat Cole from waitress to CEO, and what it teaches us about authentic leadershipThree practical "Power Moves" you can implement tomorrow to start commanding executive presenceA transformative visualization exercise to connect with your future senior leader selfTake Action Now:Ready to accelerate your leadership journey? Schedule your FREE leadership strategy call with Kele. Limited spots are available – grab yours at the link below!

Send us a textJoin me for an enlightening conversation with Jackie Broussard, founder and CEO of Jackie Broussard Consulting, as we explore the intersection of cultural competence and leadership. With over two decades of consulting experience and an impressive background in international business, Jackie brings a unique perspective on how leaders can leverage cultural differences to drive innovation and positive change.In this episode, you'll discover:A powerful framework for understanding and navigating cultural differences in the workplaceEssential insights on building inclusive teams that thrive on diversityPractical strategies for developing cultural self-awareness as a leaderGame-changing approaches to facilitating productive conversations about differencesCritical leadership skills for managing global teams and cross-cultural communicationWhether you're leading a small team or a large organization, this episode will equip you with valuable tools to enhance your leadership effectiveness and create a more inclusive workplace culture.Ready to transform how you approach cultural differences in your leadership? Listen now, and don't forget to:Follow Jackie Broussard on LinkedIn to learn more about her monthly LinkedIn Live series "The Power of Us: Conversations for Change"Share this episode with other leaders who want to enhance their cultural competenceLeave a review if you found this conversation valuableRemember: Great communication is the foundation of inspiring leadership. Keep learning, keep growing, and remember to communicate to lead!_____________________________________________________Connect with Jackie Broussard:LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/jackie-broussardConnect with your host, Kele Belton:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/     Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a textHave you ever found yourself exhausted from being the "understanding leader" yet still not seeing the results you need? You're not alone. While empathy is a cornerstone of effective leadership, relying on it alone might be holding you back from achieving extraordinary results.In this powerful episode, leadership communication expert Kele Belton explores the delicate balance between being an empathetic leader and driving results. Drawing from her extensive consulting experience, Kele reveals why empathy alone isn't enough and provides practical strategies to enhance your leadership effectiveness.In this episode, you'll discover:Why over-relying on empathy can lead to burnout and decision paralysisHow to set boundaries while maintaining genuine care for your teamPractical techniques for balancing compassion with accountabilityReal-world strategies for having difficult conversations that drive positive changeThe essential leadership tools that complement empathy for maximum impactReady to transform your leadership approach? Don't miss this game-changing episode that will help you strike the perfect balance between compassion and results-driven leadership.Take Action Now:Do you know your leadership communication superpower? Take my FREE quiz at https://thetailoredapproach.com/quiz/ and in less than 2 minutes, you'll know your superpower and how you can communicate even more effectively as a leader.Your journey to becoming a more effective leader starts here.Connect with Kele and get more leadership insights: LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com Remember to subscribe to Communicate to Lead and leave a review if you found this episode valuable. Your feedback helps other women leaders discover the strategies they need to succeed.

Send us a textHave you ever walked away from a crucial conversation wishing you had handled it differently? Most of us have been there.In leadership, these make-or-break moments can define your effectiveness and impact your entire organization. The good news is that you can develop the skill of mastering high-stakes conversations.In this powerful episode, we explore the art of navigating your most challenging leadership conversations with clarity, confidence, and credibility. Whether you're delivering tough feedback, presenting controversial ideas, or influencing senior leadership, this episode gives you a practical framework to handle these crucial moments effectively.Here's what you'll learn:Discover the game-changing "Leadership Conversation Framework" for handling high-stakes conversations, breaking down the essential elements of Clarity, Confidence, and Credibility that will transform how you approach crucial leadership momentsMaster the "Leadership Anchor" technique - a powerful four-step process that helps you maintain composure and project authentic confidence in challenging situationsLearn how to avoid the four major pitfalls that derail even experienced leadersExplore real-world applications for common leadership scenarios, including giving tough feedback, presenting controversial ideas, negotiating resources, and managing upGet practical, actionable strategies for preparing for high-stakes conversations, including specific phrases and approaches that you can start using immediatelyReady to transform your leadership communication? Connect with me on LinkedIn or Instagram and share your experience using #LeadershipConversations. —------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with Kele and get more leadership insights: LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a textEver felt like life was happening to you instead of for you? Like your dreams were passing by outside a window, just out of reach? In today's episode, I share my personal journey from feeling scattered and unfulfilled to creating a meaningful vision that transformed my life and leadership.Drawing on personal experience and proven research, I introduce the Three Pillars Framework and Vision Architecture Framework, practical tools that will help you move from simply setting goals to creating a compelling vision that drives real change in your life and leadership.In this episode, you'll discover:Why writing down your goals makes you 42% more likely to achieve them - and how vision takes this success even furtherThe Three Pillars Framework: Professional Legacy, Personal Growth, and Community Impact - and how they work together to create lasting changeA practical 5-step Vision Architecture Framework that turns abstract dreams into actionable plansThe crucial difference between setting goals and creating a vision - and why this distinction matters for your successThe power of community impact in creating true fulfillment and lasting successReady to take ownership of your 2025? Download the Vision Board for Leaders worksheet and join our community of visionary leaders who are creating meaningful change.Take Action Now:Download the Vision Board for Leaders worksheetShare your one-word vision for 2025 using #Vision2025 and tag Kele on LinkedIn or InstagramSubscribe to Communicate to Lead and share this episode with another aspiring visionary leader[Download Vision Board for Leaders Worksheet Here]Connect with Kele and get more leadership insights: LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a textAre you following an outdated leadership playbook? In this powerful end-of-year episode, we explore why traditional leadership strategies may be holding women back, and how the leadership landscape has fundamentally shifted in 2024. Through real client stories and data-driven insights, we uncover why being "always on" isn't the answer, and what works for women leaders today.In This Episode You'll Learn:Why increased visibility and constant availability might be hurting rather than helping your career advancement, backed by McKinsey's 2024 Women in the Workplace reportHow to transform your communication patterns by mastering the art of strategic silence and eliminating unconscious undermining behaviorsThe surprising truth about "leadership weaknesses" like perfectionism and over-preparation, and how to leverage them as unique strengthsThree essential power moves for 2025: Strategic Visibility, Conscious Coalition Building, and Boundary Setting as LeadershipPractical strategies for transitioning from "always-on" leadership to "intentionally present" leadership, including specific tools and reflection exercisesKey Reflection Questions and Exercises:Throughout the episode, you'll be guided through powerful reflection exercises to help you:Audit your current leadership behaviors and identify energy-draining patternsTransform perceived weaknesses into distinctive leadership strengthsCreate your personalized 2025 leadership strategyYour Next Steps:Schedule your "Power Hour" for January to map out your first-quarter leadership movesReview the reflection exercises from this episodeChoose one pattern you're ready to change and implement it in the first week of 2025Join us back on Thursday, January 9, 2025, as we continue exploring how to Communicate to Lead. Remember: You're not just leading a team or a project - you're leading the way for every woman who will come after you.Connect with Kele and get more leadership insights: LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a textWhat if your most powerful leadership tool isn't a fancy strategy or a killer presentation but your capacity for deep empathy?In this episode, we discuss how genuine empathy can transform difficult conversations from dreaded confrontations into opportunities for authentic connection and growth.In this episode, you'll discover:The importance of psychological safety and how empathy unlocks it.Practical techniques for empathetic listening, even in challenging situations.How to balance compassion with accountability, setting clear expectations while supporting your team.Share your thoughts! How do you use empathy to navigate challenging conversations? Join the conversation on social media! Click the social media links below and share your thoughts with us.Additional podcast episodes on active listening and difficult conversations:22. Mastering The Art Of Tough Talks - Navigating Difficult Conversations As A Leader27. Active Listening - A Leader's Essential Skill74. Are You Guilty of Speaking More Than You're Listening? - A Reality Check for LeadersConnect with Kele Belton:LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a textTired of feeling unseen and unheard? Ready to take control of your narrative and build the confidence to reach your goals?In this episode of Communicate to Lead, I'm joined by Jeanel Carlson, co-founder of Oakbloom Marketing. Jeanel shares her expertise on personal branding, emphasizing the importance of authenticity, vulnerability, and strategic storytelling. Whether you're a seasoned leader or just starting your journey, this episode is packed with actionable insights to help you craft a compelling personal brand that builds trust and credibility.What you'll learn:The Power of Personal Branding: Discover why investing in your personal brand is crucial for career advancement and achieving your goals.Authenticity is Key: Learn how to avoid common pitfalls and ensure your personal brand genuinely reflects who you are.Storytelling Frameworks: Explore effective storytelling techniques and frameworks to create a captivating personal brand narrative.Measuring Your Success: Understand the metrics that matter when evaluating the effectiveness of your personal branding efforts.Visual Content Strategies: Learn how to use visual content to enhance your storytelling and connect more deeply with your audience.Social Media Engagement: Discover how to use social media platforms like LinkedIn to share your story without being overly promotional.Ready to unlock your full potential and create a personal brand that shines?Connect with Jeanel Carlson:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeanelcarlson/Website: https://www.oakbloommarketing.com/Connect with your host, Kele Belton:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/     Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a textAre you constantly second-guessing yourself, endlessly tweaking presentations, and missing opportunities because nothing feels "perfect enough"? What if your pursuit of perfection is actually holding you back from becoming the extraordinary leader you're meant to be?In this episode, we will explore how perfectionism can hold you back. I'll share some powerful strategies for embracing imperfection, focusing on progress, and, ultimately, unleashing your true potential.Get ready to:Uncover the true impact of perfectionism on your leadership potential and learn why "perfect" is the enemy of progress.Discover the game-changing "experimental mindset" that top innovators use to overcome fear and drive breakthrough results.Learn practical, actionable strategies to shift from perfectionist paralysis to confident, decisive action.Separate your self-worth from performance can unlock unprecedented personal and professional growth.Explore the difference between maintaining high standards and being trapped by fear of failure.Gain insights into creating a culture of psychological safety and continuous improvement within your team.If you're tired of letting fear hold you back and ready to step into your most authentic and powerful leadership self, this episode is your turning point. I'm sharing the exact strategies that helped me break free from the perfectionism trap, and I want to help you do the same.Ready to transform your approach to leadership? Subscribe now, and let's create a community of courageous, imperfect, and compelling leaders together.Additional podcast episodes on feedback:Episode 75: Do You Get Triggered by Feedback?Episode 71: The 3 Types of People You Should be Asking for FeedbackEpisode 7: Two Ways to Foster a Culture of FeedbackConnect with Kele Belton:LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a textHave you ever felt like you're leading your team through a dense fog of uncertainty? Where you know changes are coming, but you don't have all the answers? It's a challenge every leader faces, and today, we're equipping you to handle it with confidence and grace.In this episode of Communicate to Lead, I'm diving into the art of communicating effectively when things feel uncertain. Whether you're navigating a company reorganization, facing unexpected market shifts, or simply dealing with the day-to-day ambiguities of leadership, this episode is packed with practical strategies and real-world examples to help you communicate with clarity, confidence, and authenticity.What You'll Learn:The Psychology of Uncertainty: Understand why uncertainty triggers our stress response and how to manage it effectively.Core Principles for Confident Communication: Discover the essential principles for leading your team through uncertainty.Common Pitfalls to Avoid: Learn to recognize and avoid common communication traps.Practical Communication Techniques: Master specific techniques to project confidence.Actionable Steps: Get clear action steps you can implement immediately to enhance your communication skills and lead with confidence.Ready to become a more confident and effective communicator, even in the face of uncertainty?Tune in to this episode of Communicate to Lead and find out how to navigate ambiguity with grace and lead your team to success.Connect with Kele Belton:LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a textHave you ever wondered how top leaders turn their LinkedIn profiles into powerful career catalysts? What if your digital presence could attract opportunities before you even apply for them?In this episode of Communicate to Lead, I'm revealing the insider strategies that transform an ordinary LinkedIn profile into an irresistible leadership platform. Drawing from my personal experience of landing a high-profile executive workshop through a single LinkedIn connection, I explain how women leaders can strategically build their professional brands.Here's what you can expect:The Power Trinity: Discover how your photo, banner, and headline create that crucial first impression.Content Optimization: Learn how to craft an "About" section that stops the scroll and showcases your unique leadership story.The Leadership Impact Method: A proven framework to revamp your "Experience" section and highlight your achievements and impact.Advanced Brand Building: Elevate your visibility with strategic engagement and thought leadership content.Actionable Steps: Practical tips and strategies you can implement immediately to enhance your LinkedIn presence.Ready to transform your LinkedIn profile from ordinary to irresistible? Tune in now and unlock the power of LinkedIn for your leadership journey!Connect with Kele Belton:LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a textAre you ready to ditch the end-of-year overwhelm and step into 2025 feeling confident, prepared, and ready to lead with impact? In this episode of Communicate to Lead, I'm sharing a powerful framework to help you reflect, reset, and recharge for the year ahead.Here's what you can expect from the episode:A 5-step leadership debrief: Uncover your biggest wins, challenges, and lessons learned from the past year.Strategic goal setting for 2025: Craft a clear vision and break it down into actionable SMART goals.Q4 action planning: Prioritize key tasks and create a roadmap for achieving your goals.The power of "no": Learn how to prioritize and set boundaries to avoid burnout. Also, check out episode 64. The Art of Saying No: Your Guide to Boundaries, Priorities and Protecting Your TIme for more detailed strategies on learning to say no with confidence.Self-care strategies: Navigate the holiday season while prioritizing your well-being.Ready to take charge of your leadership journey? Tune in now, and let's make 2025 your most successful year yet! Connect with Kele Belton:LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a textJoin me for a special "best-of" episode featuring powerful insights and actionable advice from past guests on Communicate to Lead. I've curated the most impactful moments from conversations with leadership experts, communication coaches, and entrepreneurs to bring you a potent dose of inspiration and practical strategies for communicating effectively and leading with impact. Get ready to elevate your leadership and unlock your communication potential!(0:59) Adriana Baer: The Power of Focusing on Your AudienceAdriana, a theater director and public speaking expert, emphasizes the importance of shifting focus from yourself to your audience.(3:03) Louise Neil: The Importance of Knowing Your ValuesThis guest highlights the crucial role of understanding your values in making career and life choices.(4:25) Elysia Skye: Tuning into Your IntuitionElysia, an intuitive coach, reminds us that everyone has intuition.(5:51) Lenetra King: Understanding Your AudienceLenetra stresses the need to tailor your message to your audience's needs and interests.(7:10) Tiffany Uman: Owning Your AchievementsTiffany, a leadership coach, encourages women to embrace "I" statements when advocating for themselves.(8:20) Jo Zulaica: Embracing Directness in LeadershipJo, a leadership expert, cautions against playing small and deferring to others.(9:19) Katherine Minett: The Power of StorytellingKatherine emphasizes the importance of storytelling in engaging audiences and conveying messages effectively.(10:50) Brenda Boyle: Feedback Loops for Values-Based LeadershipBrenda highlights the need for feedback loops to ensure alignment between stated values and actual leadership behaviors.(12:01) Dr. Alice Rizzi: Mindfulness for Intentional CommunicationDr. Rizzi explains how mindfulness practices can reduce stress, increase intentionality, and improve communication.(13:33) Michelle Gladieux: Understanding Personality DifferencesMichelle, a communication coach, discusses the importance of recognizing and adapting to different personality styles.(15:17) Michelle Glogovac: Authentic StorytellingMichelle believes that good storytelling comes from knowing your story and telling the truth.(16:35) Alina Nikishina: Embracing Your Authentic VoiceAlina, an entrepreneur and coach, encourages listeners to reject the pressure to conform to external expectations.(17:37) Kira La Forgia: Building a Culture from WithinKira advises leaders to look inward when defining their company culture.Let me know which guest I should invite back to the podcast!Connect with Kele Belton:LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a textIf you disagree or want to disagree with colleagues, but you don't want to damage your relationships, this episode is for you. It's back by popular demand.Disagreements are a natural part of human interaction but can strain relationships if not handled effectively. In today's episode, I explore the concept of productive conflict and its value in fostering collaboration and innovation. While many may perceive conflict as negative, I highlight how avoiding conflict can hinder progress and creativity.Join me as I discuss the power of active listening, empathy, and open-mindedness in fostering healthy and productive conversations. You can also expect practical tips on finding common ground, assertively expressing your views, and seeking understanding rather than trying to win arguments.Here's the episode at a glance:Understand the concept of productive conflict and its significance.Challenge the myth that conflict is always negative, embracing its potential as a catalyst for growth, innovation, and positive change.Discover the value of conflict by identifying its benefits, and learn how to reframe your approach to conflict for more productive and positive outcomes.Learn practical strategies for creating a safe and inclusive environment that encourages open and respectful disagreements, including setting ground rules for constructive discussions.Learn how to create a safe space for disagreements and foster constructive discussions by setting ground rules and promoting open and respectful communication.Enhance communication skills through active listening, empathy, and feedback for stronger relationships.Some relevant episodes that I mentioned on the podcast are:Episode 23 explored how to create psychological safety in the workplace - https://thetailoredapproach.com/23/Episode 27 focused on the essential skill of active listening for leaders - https://thetailoredapproach.com/27/  In episode 31, I discussed the advantage of using DISC in leadership - https://thetailoredapproach.com/31/  Feel free to check them out for additional insights and guidance.Remember, great communication is the foundation of great leadership. Keep learning, keep growing, and always remember to communicate to lead. Thank you for being part of this journey with me. Thank you for your support, and remember to subscribe to never miss an episode. Keep leading, keep learning, and keep communicating.Connect with your host, Kele Belton:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/    Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com   

Send us a textAre you a woman in leadership who feels constantly overwhelmed, like you're drowning in a sea of to-dos? Do you ever feel like you're giving, giving, giving, but it's still not enough? If so, it might be time to re-evaluate your boundaries.In this episode, I dive deep into why clear boundaries are non-negotiable for successful leadership. I explore the challenges women often face when setting boundaries and provide practical tips to help you establish and maintain those boundaries effectively.What you'll learn:Why boundaries are crucial for reducing stress, preventing burnout, and increasing productivity.How to identify your non-negotiables and core values in the workplace.Strategies for communicating your boundaries clearly and assertively.Tips for overcoming common challenges like people-pleasing and imposter syndrome.How to address boundary violations and re-evaluate your boundaries as your career evolves.Ready to break free from the middle management trap and step into a senior leadership role? Join me for my free, exclusive masterclass, "Escape the Middle Management Trap: 4 Mistakes That Stop Women From Reaching Top Leadership Success".

Send us a textYou're invited!Register for my FREE masterclass, "Escape the Middle Management Trap: 4 Mistakes That Stop Women From Reaching Top Leadership Succes." >> Get the Masterclass link hereAre you a leader who feels stuck and unsure of how to inspire your team and achieve greater success? The truth is that your beliefs play a powerful role in shaping your leadership journey. In this episode, we uncover 5 fundamental beliefs that every leader needs to embrace to truly thrive.In this episode, you will discover:How a growth mindset can transform your leadership style.Why effort trumps talent when it comes to achieving lasting success.The unexpected power of failure and how to leverage it for growth.A simple strategy to stay focused and in control, even amidst chaos.The secret weapon of successful leaders in today's ever-changing world.Ready to unlock your leadership potential and create a more engaged and successful team?Let's take your leadership to the next level! Register for my FREE masterclass, "Escape the Middle Management Trap: 4 Mistakes That Stop Women From Reaching Top Leadership Succes." >> Get the Masterclass link hereConnect with Kele Belton:LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a textHave you ever felt like you're not ready for the next level in your career? That little voice of self-doubt whispering in your ear, questioning whether you have what it takes? Well, you're not alone. In this episode, we're diving into the world of self-doubt – why it shows up, how it holds us back, and most importantly, how to overcome it. We'll explore practical strategies to build your confidence, strengthen your leadership skills, and ultimately, empower you to go after that senior role you deserve.Here's what you can expect from the episode:Understand the root of self-doubt: We'll explore common sources of self-doubt.Unmask the lies of self-doubt: We'll learn how to identify and challenge negative thoughts that hold us back.Build your confidence toolkit: We'll discuss practical strategies to build your confidence.Overcome challenges and obstacles: We'll address common challenges you might face in leadership.I hope this episode inspires you to overcome self-doubt and confidently pursue your leadership goals. Remember, you have what it takes! If you're ready to take your leadership journey to the next level, be sure to follow this podcast for more information about my upcoming Leadership Incubator, which is opening for registration later this month. Don't Miss Out! Subscribe, review, and share this episode with fellow leaders. Let's continue to communicate, inspire, and lead together!And for more leadership-boosting tips, connect with me on LinkedIn and Instagram:Connect with Kele Belton:LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com

Send us a textTired of being overlooked for promotions, even when you're consistently exceeding expectations? You're not alone. Many talented professionals, especially women, struggle to get the recognition they deserve. It's time to break free from the shadows and step into the spotlight!In this episode of Communicate to Lead, I discuss the art of increasing your visibility at work. I'll explore practical strategies to amplify your achievements, expand your network, and showcase your expertise – all essential ingredients for landing that leadership role you've been dreaming of.Here's what you can expect from the episode:Learn how to document and strategically communicate your wins so you're no longer hidden in plain sight.Discover powerful internal and external networking techniques to build valuable relationships and broaden your influence.Uncover ways to position yourself as a thought leader and go-to expert in your field.Develop a focused plan to identify key stakeholders, set clear goals, and confidently advocate for yourself.Ready to step into the spotlight and take your career to the next level? Tune in now and start implementing these strategies today!Don't Miss Out! Subscribe, review, and share this episode with fellow leaders. Let's continue to communicate, inspire, and lead together!And for more career-boosting tips, connect with me on LinkedIn and Instagram:Connect with Kele Belton:LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a textHave you ever had someone believe in you and see your potential, even before you saw it in yourself? That's the magic of mentorship.In this power-packed episode, I discuss the transformative power of mentorship and share practical tips for elevating your mentorship game.What you can expect from the episode:Discover your "why": Uncover your core motivations for becoming a mentor, setting the foundation for impactful guidance.Build strong relationships: Learn how to build trust and connection with your mentee, creating a safe space for growth.Empower through action: Gain actionable strategies for setting goals, navigating challenges, and celebrating your mentee's success.Unlock your mentee's potential: Kele reveals how to inspire confidence and unleash your mentee's full potential.Ready to transform your mentorship approach? Choose one strategy from this episode and put it into practice this week! Share your journey on LinkedIn with #CommunicatetoLead.Don't Miss Out! Subscribe, review, and share this episode with fellow leaders. Let's continue to communicate, inspire, and lead together!Connect with Kele Belton:LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a textHave you ever wondered if leadership is the right path for you? It's a question that many of us struggle with, whether we're aspiring leaders or already in leadership positions.In today's episode, I unpack three essential questions you should ask yourself before leaping into leadership or even taking the next step in your leadership journey. It's time for some honest self-reflection because leadership is more than a title.What you can expect from the episode:Gain clarity on the true essence of leadership and how it difference from management.Uncover three critical questions to ask yourself before pursuing your first or next leadership role.Learn practical tips to build resilience and develop a clear vision.Discover valuable resources to continue exploring your leadership potential, including book recommendations and my upcoming leadership program.Call to Action:Take the first step toward empowered leadership! Reflect on the three questions I discuss in the episode and explore the resources I recommend:Books:"Dare to Lead" by Brené Brown"The 360-degree Leader" by John MaxwellUpcoming Program: Stay tuned for my program, Ignite Your Leadership Incubator, which will launch in late October!Connect with Kele Belton:LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a textHave you ever felt your blood pressure rise when receiving feedback? That urge to defend yourself or shut down completely – it happens to the best of us. But what if we could learn to embrace feedback as a catalyst for growth?In this episode, we explore the triggers that can derail you when receiving feedback. I'll uncover their root causes and provide practical strategies to manage those intense emotional reactions.What You'll Learn:Understand the main types of feedback triggers that can derail you.Explore the underlying reasons behind those triggers.Discover how to shift your perspective and see feedback as a gift, even when it's tough to hear. Hear inspiring stories of women who turned feedback triggers into stepping stones on their path to success.Share your experiences with feedback triggers on LinkedIn and Instagram using #CommunicateToLead.Don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with other leaders in your network!Resources for continued growth:Free Guide: Download my free "Own Your Worth" guide for extra tips and insights on using your achievements to land your next leadership promotion - https://thetailoredapproach.com/ownyourworth/ Want personalized help? Book a free clarity call with me to tackle imposter syndrome and what's holding you back from confidently nailing your next leadership interview - https://calendly.com/kele-thetailoredapproach/leadership-clarity-call Connect with Kele Belton:LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a textAre you a leader who speaks more than you listen? This is a tough question, but one every leader needs to ask.In today's episode of Communicate to Lead, I explore the critical role of active listening in effective leadership. I challenge you to examine your communication habits and provide practical steps to become a better listener.Here's what you can expect from the episode:Discover how dominating conversations stifle innovation and decision-making.Understand what active listening truly means and the benefits it brings to teams and organizations.Reflect on your communication style with key questions to identify areas for improvement.Learn simple yet powerful techniques to shift your behavior and prioritize listening.Hear a real-life story of how one leader's commitment to listening transformed his team.Leadership isn't about having all the answers; it's about creating a space where the best answers can emerge. And that starts with listening.Don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with other leaders in your network!Resources for continued growth:Free Guide: Download my free "Own Your Worth" guide for extra tips and insights on using your achievements to land your next leadership promotion - https://thetailoredapproach.com/ownyourworth/ Want personalized help? Book a free clarity call with me to tackle imposter syndrome and what's holding you back from confidently nailing your next leadership interview - https://calendly.com/kele-thetailoredapproach/leadership-clarity-call Connect with Kele Belton:LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a textEven the most seasoned leaders among us can experience a wave of self-doubt or even a full-blown case of imposter syndrome when stepping into the spotlight. That little voice in your head whispering, "Do I really belong here? Am I truly qualified for this?"Today, we're discussing the world of promotional interviews – those exciting yet often nerve-wracking opportunities to showcase your expertise and leadership potential.In this episode, I reveal the three phrases that could sabotage your interview – and the powerful alternatives to use instead.What you'll learn:The power of words: Discover how your language can make or break your professional image during an interview.The 3 phrases to avoid: I discuss the common phrases that can sabotage your chances and what to say instead.Confidence is key: Learn how to project authority and self-assurance through confident language and highlight your accomplishments.Overcoming imposter syndrome: Get actionable tips on managing self-doubt and shifting your mindset to one of strength and capability.Ready to ace your next promotional interview? Put these strategies into practice and watch your confidence soar. Don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with other leaders in your network!Resources for continued growth:Free Guide: Download my free "Own Your Worth" guide for extra tips and insights on using your achievements to land your next leadership promotion - https://thetailoredapproach.com/ownyourworth/ Want personalized help? Book a free clarity call with me to tackle imposter syndrome and what's holding you back from confidently nailing your next leadership interview - https://calendly.com/kele-thetailoredapproach/leadership-clarity-call Connect with Kele Belton:LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a Text Message.Have you ever had to make a tough call at work, knowing it was the right decision but fearing the backlash? True leadership isn't about being everyone's best friend; it's about making those tough choices, even when they're unpopular.In this episode, we confront the hard truths of leadership and discuss why authenticity, not popularity, is the key to building trust, respect, and a truly successful team. We'll discuss the importance of making tough decisions, delivering constructive feedback, and holding people accountable.What You'll Learn:How to stand firm in your convictions and make choices that benefit the organization as a whole, even when they're met with resistance.Strategies for providing honest and direct feedback that fosters growth and development, not resentment.How to create a culture of ownership and responsibility where everyone understands their role and is empowered to deliver their best.Why showing your human side and admitting you don't have all the answers actually builds trust and strengthens your team.Setting boundaries and prioritizing your time and energy to avoid burnout and focus on what truly matters.Reflect on your own leadership style and embrace the challenges of authentic leadership. Focus on authenticity over popularity, and you'll build a team that's truly committed to your vision. If you enjoy the episode, subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with other leaders in your network. Resources for continued growth:Free Guide: Download my free "Own Your Worth" guide for extra tips and insights on using your achievements to land your next leadership promotion - https://thetailoredapproach.com/ownyourworth/ Want personalized help? Book a free clarity call with me to tackle imposter syndrome and what's holding you back from confidently nailing your next leadership interview - https://calendly.com/kele-thetailoredapproach/leadership-clarity-call Connect with Kele Belton:LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a Text Message.Want to know the secret weapon of highly successful leaders? It's not some hidden talent or stroke of luck. It's their strategic use of feedback. In this episode, I reveal the 3 types of people they turn to for invaluable insights.What You'll Discover:Why feedback is crucial for leadership growth, even when it feels uncomfortable.How to unlock honest and actionable insights from your team, peers, and mentors.Specific tips on asking the right questions and creating a safe space for feedback.Actionable steps you can take right now to start receiving transformative feedback.Remember that feedback is a gift, not a criticism. Embrace it, learn from it, and watch your leadership soar!Challenge yourself this week to ask for feedback from one person from these three groups. Take that first step towards becoming an exceptional leader.Additional Podcast Episodes on the Power of Feedback:Episode 7 - Two Ways to Foster a Culture of FeedbackEpisode 20 - Building Trust Within Your Team Starts With You as the Leader Episode 25 - The Power of Leadership AccountabilityResources for continued growth:Free Guide: Download my free "Own Your Worth" guide for extra tips and insights on using your achievements to land your next leadership promotion - https://thetailoredapproach.com/ownyourworth/ Want personalized help? Book a free clarity call with me to tackle imposter syndrome and what's holding you back from confidently nailing your next leadership interview - https://calendly.com/kele-thetailoredapproach/leadership-clarity-call Connect with Kele Belton:LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a Text Message.Imagine standing on a stage, all eyes on you, feeling confident and in control, knowing that every word you speak will captivate your audience. That feeling of empowerment is exactly what we're diving into today. In this episode, I had the pleasure of speaking with Adriana Baer, a dynamic communicator and coach who helps individuals step into their power and command the stage. We have a fascinating conversation about the essence of claiming your center stage and how you can engage your audience in a way that leaves them wanting more. Adriana shares invaluable insights and practical tips that you can start implementing immediately.Here's what you can expect from the episode:Understand the importance of storytelling in public speaking.Discover strategies to overcome nerves and build confidence.Master effective communication techniques to engage your audience.Tailor your presentation content to suit different audience needs.Implement practical tips for managing unexpected events during speeches.Adriana Baer is a public speaking coach who helps clients claim their stage, boost their confidence, and enhance their impact. With over 20 years as a theater director and arts leader, Adriana offers a unique perspective and practical tools for effective communication. She has lectured at theaters, colleges, and universities nationwide and offers coaching through her company, Claim Center Stage.Adriana shared valuable tips in this episode, so I encourage you to revisit the episode and implement her insights. You're so ready to take center stage and captivate your audience!Connect with Adriana Baer:Website: https://www.claimcenterstage.com/guest Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adrianabaer LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adrianabaer/ Resources for continued growth:Free Guide: Download the free "Own Your Worth" guide for extra tips and insights on using your achievements to land your next leadership promotion - https://thetailoredapproach.com/ownyourworth/ Want personalized help? Book a free clarity call with me to tackle imposter syndrome and what's holding you back from confidently nailing your next leadership interview - https://thetailoredapproach.as.me/leadershipclaritycall Connect with Kele Belton:LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a Text Message.Tired of watching your audience's eyes glaze over during your presentations? Have you ever wondered how some speakers effortlessly captivate a room while others fade into the background?In this episode, I unpack the three proven strategies that can completely transform your presentations from forgettable to unforgettable. These aren't your typical tips and tricks; they're the secrets that truly set exceptional presenters apart.If you're ready to ditch the boring bullet points, break free from the podium, and deliver talks that leave a lasting impact, this episode is a must-listen.In this episode, you'll discover:Crafting stories that stick: Learn how to captivate your audience and leave a lasting impact by weaving compelling narratives into your talks.Creating visuals that captivate: Say goodbye to boring bullet points and hello to engaging visuals that enhance understanding and keep your audience glued to their seats.Delivering your message with confidence: Unleash your inner star and learn how to use your voice, body language, and presence to command attention and inspire action.Get ready to unlock the secrets of unforgettable presentations and become the speaker your audience can't wait to hear from.Tune in now and transform your next presentation from 'meh' to mesmerizing!Resources for continued growth:Free Guide: Download my free "Own Your Worth" guide for extra tips and insights on using your achievements to land your next leadership promotion - https://thetailoredapproach.com/ownyourworth/ Want personalized help? Book a free clarity call with me to tackle imposter syndrome and what's holding you back from confidently nailing your next leadership interview - https://thetailoredapproach.as.me/leadershipclaritycall  Connect with Kele Belton:LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a Text Message.Ever had a coaching conversation that felt like a missed opportunity? Maybe you left feeling unheard, misunderstood, or simply frustrated. The problem might not be what you're saying, but how you're saying it.In this episode, we explore the sneaky communication mistakes that even well-intentioned leaders make when coaching their teams. We're not talking about the obvious stuff – this is about the subtle slip-ups that can derail progress and stifle growth.Get ready to discover:Why you might be unintentionally shutting down your team's ideas (and how to truly listen instead)The "quick fix" trap that's actually making your team less capable (and a better way to empower them)How feedback can become a gift instead of a weapon (and why most leaders get it wrong)The secret language your team is speaking that you might be missing (hint: it's not just words)Why a one-size-fits-all approach to communication is a recipe for disaster (and how to tailor your approach for maximum impact)If you're ready to transform your coaching conversations from frustrating to fulfilling, this episode is packed with actionable insights you can use immediately.Additional resources mentioned in the episode:Episode 27:  Active Listening - A Leader's Essential SkillEpisode 16: Coaching Questions that Elevate Your Team's ThinkingEpisode 7: Two Ways to Foster a Culture of FeedbackResources for continued growth:Free Guide: Download my free "Own Your Worth" guide for extra tips and insights on using your achievements to land your next leadership promotion - https://thetailoredapproach.com/ownyourworth/ Want personalized help? Book a free clarity call with me to tackle imposter syndrome and what's holding you back from confidently nailing your next leadership interview - https://thetailoredapproach.as.me/leadershipclaritycall  Connect with Kele Belton:LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a Text Message.In a world where career paths often seem predefined, it can be transformative to find the courage to align professional endeavors with core values and personal identity. Louise Neil, the founder of Pivoting Point Career Solutions, teaches women how to be back in the driver's seat of their own careers and how they can be the designers of their professional journey so they are empowered, engaged, and successful on their own terms. With a career spanning over two decades in product and project management, Louise deeply understands continuous improvement and analytics. Her personal journey of embracing a late-life transition and taking control of her professional trajectory is a testament to her expertise. Join us for a dynamic conversation about career transitions, courageous conversations, and the power of communication in leadership.In this episode, you'll learn:Exploring the importance of aligning professional endeavors with your core values and identity.Understanding effective communication strategies for leaders when having career conversations.Prioritizing curiosity and self-awareness in career transitions.Valuing courageous career conversations as catalysts for growth and fulfillment.The journey to professional fulfillment starts with aligning actions with values and engaging in open, courageous conversations. Embrace curiosity, prioritize self-awareness, and harness the power of effective communication in leadership. Explore Louise Neil's framework for meaningful career conversations, a resource designed to facilitate introspection and clarify goals. Begin your journey toward fulfillment now. Click here for access. Connect with Louise Neil :Website:https://louiseneil.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylife.project/Linkedin:https://www.linkedin.com/in/louise-neil/Career Resources: https://bio.site/louiseneil Connect with Kele Belton:LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/  Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com  Resources for continued growth with Kele:Free Guide: Download my free "Own Your Worth" guide for extra tips and insights on using your achievements to land your next leadership promotion - https://thetailoredapproach.com/ownyourworth/  Want personalized help? Book a free leadership clarity call with me to tackle imposter syndrome and what's holding you back from confidently nailing your next leadership interview - https://thetailoredapproach.as.me/leadershipclaritycall  

Send us a Text Message.What if you could transform your most important workplace conversations with a simple, daily practice? Discover the surprising power of rituals to boost your confidence, clarity, and connection.In this episode, you'll learn:The science behind rituals: How these seemingly small actions greatly impact your brain chemistry and mindset.How to create your own professional rituals: Step-by-step guidance to design practices that fit your personality and goals.Real-life examples of leaders who use rituals: Get inspired by the routines of successful communicators.Specific rituals for common challenges: Discover rituals to overcome presentation nerves, improve focus in meetings, and more.Why consistency is key: Make your rituals a powerful habit that enhances your daily communication.Plus, I share examples of how rituals have transformed my professional life.Get ready to unlock the hidden power of rituals and elevate your professional conversations to the next level.Resources for continued growth:Free Guide: Download my free "Own Your Worth" guide for extra tips and insights on using your achievements to land your next leadership promotion - https://thetailoredapproach.com/ownyourworth/ Want personalized help? Book a free leadership clarity call with me to tackle imposter syndrome and what's holding you back from confidently nailing your next leadership interview - https://thetailoredapproach.as.me/leadershipclaritycall  Connect with Kele Belton:LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Send us a Text Message.Have you ever wondered why some people just have that "it" factor? It's not always about what they say, but how they say it.In this episode, we're diving into the secret language of confident leaders: their body language. Discover how subtle shifts in your posture, eye contact, and even hand gestures can make a massive difference in how you're perceived.We're breaking down the fundamentals, sharing real-life examples of how body language can make or break your presence, and giving you actionable tips to master your own nonverbal communication.Get ready to unlock a whole new level of influence and leadership – just by changing how you use your body language.Tune in to learn:The five key elements of confident body language and how to use them to your advantage.Common body language blunders that could be sabotaging your message (and how to fix them).Real-world scenarios where mastering your body language can boost your career.Ready to command the room without saying a word?Resources for continued growth:Free Guide: Download my free "Own Your Worth" guide for extra tips and insights on using your achievements to land your next leadership promotion - https://thetailoredapproach.com/ownyourworth/ Want personalized help? Book a free clarity call with me to tackle imposter syndrome and what's holding you back from confidently nailing your next leadership interview - https://thetailoredapproach.as.me/leadershipclaritycall  Connect with Kele Belton:LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Think back to a time when your plate was already full, yet you still said "yes." Maybe it was taking on an additional project when you were already working overtime, agreeing to lead another initiative despite your jam-packed schedule, or even accepting a last-minute meeting request that threw off your entire day. How did it feel in the moment? And how did it play out in the end? Did it lead to late nights, missed deadlines, compromised quality, or even burnout?Saying "yes" can feel good in the moment, but the long-term consequences of overcommitment can be detrimental. In this episode, I explore the vital leadership skill of saying "no." Learn why setting boundaries, prioritizing tasks, and fiercely protecting your time are non-negotiable for effective leadership. Discover practical strategies to overcome the fear of saying no, set boundaries like a pro, and prioritize tasks that align with your values and goals.Key Takeaways:The Power of "No": Why saying "no" is essential for self-preservation, setting healthy boundaries, and leading with intention.Setting Boundaries Like a Pro: How to define your values, identify your priorities, and communicate your boundaries assertively and respectfully.Graceful "No" Scripts: Practical phrases to use in various situations when declining requests.Prioritization Strategies: The Eisenhower Matrix and the 80/20 Rule as tools for focusing your energy on high-impact tasks.Building a Supportive Team: Creating a culture that values time management and respects boundaries.Remember, saying "no" isn't a sign of weakness; it's a sign of strength and self-respect. It's about taking control of your schedule, your energy, and your impact. So, start practicing saying "no" with confidence, and watch as your leadership effectiveness soars.Resources for continued growth:Free Guide: Download my free "Own Your Worth" guide for extra tips and insights on using your achievements to land your next leadership promotion - https://thetailoredapproach.com/ownyourworth/ Want personalized help? Book a free clarity call with me to tackle imposter syndrome and what's holding you back from confidently nailing your next leadership interview - https://thetailoredapproach.as.me/leadershipclaritycall  Connect with Kele Belton:LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Have you ever faced a significant career setback? A missed promotion, a project gone wrong, or maybe even a layoff? It can feel devastating, but what if I told you these moments can be your greatest catalysts for growth?In this episode, I explore the power of resilience and grit—essential qualities that empower women leaders to survive setbacks and thrive in them.What You'll Learn:Understanding Resilience vs. Grit: Discover the subtle yet crucial differences between bouncing back and staying the course.Why Women Leaders NEED This: Uncover how resilience and grit are your secret weapons against the unique challenges women face in the workplace.Building Your Resilience Toolkit: Learn practical strategies for developing a positive mindset, reframe challenges, and silence your inner critic. This will equip you to face any setback with confidence.Cultivating Unstoppable Grit: Learn how to embrace challenges as growth opportunities, maintain your passion, and build mental toughness.Actionable Tips: Get step-by-step guidance on setting realistic goals, prioritizing self-care, and developing healthy coping mechanisms.Take a moment to reflect on your own experiences. When have you demonstrated resilience in the face of adversity? What goals are you passionate about that require grit to achieve?Resources for continued growth:Free Guide: Download my free "Own Your Worth" guide for extra tips and insights on using your achievements to land your next leadership promotion - https://thetailoredapproach.com/ownyourworth/ Want personalized help? Book a free clarity call with me to tackle imposter syndrome and what's holding you back from confidently nailing your next leadership interview - https://thetailoredapproach.as.me/leadershipclaritycall  Connect with Kele Belton:LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Are you ready to change your thoughts, feelings, or behaviors that are not serving you?Today, we're discussing an approach that promises to reshape the very core of your leadership effectiveness. In this episode, I sit down with Alina Nikishina, a remarkable coach in subconscious change work, to explore how leaders can harness the power of Core Transformation to unlock their true potential and drive profound impact in their spheres of influence.In this episode,  we cover:Embracing Core Transformation: How to dissolve your inner barriers and change your thoughts, feelings, or behaviors.Unraveling Limiting Beliefs: Alina discusses techniques for reframing limiting beliefs and fostering growth.Cultivating Empathy: Core Transformation promotes self-awareness and understanding for empathetic leadership.Inspiring Alignment: You'll learn how to align your personal values with organizational goals for collective success.Nurturing Resilience: You'll get strategies for building leadership resilience and adaptability.Alina Nikishina, a certified coach and subconscious change expert, brings a wealth of experience. Her unique blend of holistic business coaching and subconscious change work has helped countless entrepreneurs and leaders dissolve inner blocks and achieve soul-led success.My conversation with Alina Nikishina has been eye-opening, introducing me to the transformative potential of Core Transformation. As we navigate the leadership challenges, knowing we have tools like Core Transformation to overcome overwhelm and unlock our true potential is empowering. I encourage you to explore how Core Transformation can help you as a leader.Resources for continued growth:Free Guide: Download my free "Own Your Worth" guide for extra tips and insights on using your achievements to land your next leadership promotion - https://thetailoredapproach.com/ownyourworth/  Want personalized help? Book a free clarity call with me to tackle imposter syndrome and what's holding you back from confidently nailing your next leadership interview - https://thetailoredapproach.as.me/leadershipclaritycall   Connect with Alina Nikishina:Website: https://alinanikishina.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heyalinan/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heyalinan/ Connect with your host, Kele Belton:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/  Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Did you know that according to recent LinkedIn research, 94% of hiring managers believe a person with strong communication skills has a better chance of being promoted?In today's episode, I'm tackling a critical topic for anyone ready to take the next step in their leadership journey: mastering the art of communicating effectively in their next leadership interview. More specifically, I'm unpacking the five essential communication tips to help you showcase your potential, inspire confidence, and ultimately nail that upcoming leadership interview.In this episode, I cover:The power of effective communication in leadership interviewsWhy projecting confidence and being clear when communicating is the foundation of powerful communicationHow to adapt your communication style to resonate with those interviewing youWhy telling compelling stories with the STAR method is a game changer for your showcasing your leadership impactHow being an active listener and asking insightful questions will passion and preparednessHow you can show your passion and enthusiasm during the interviewListen in and stay focused on how you want to show up during your next leadership interview. Remember that interviews are two-way conversations: you are interviewing the organization as much as they are interviewing you.Resources for continued growth:Free Guide: Download my free "Own Your Worth" guide for extra tips and insights on using your achievements to land your next leadership promotion - https://thetailoredapproach.com/ownyourworth/ Want personalized help? Book a free clarity call with me to tackle imposter syndrome and what's holding you back from confidently nailing your next leadership interview - https://thetailoredapproach.as.me/leadershipclaritycall  Connect with Kele Belton:LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com