Podcasts about adult adhd

How to separate adult ADHD from other causes of cognitive problems like bipolar disorder, sleep apnea, medication effects, brain injury, temperament, and malingering.CME: Take the CME Post-Test for this EpisodePublished On: 08/17/2026Duration: 15 minutes, 35 secondsChris Aiken, MD and Kellie Newsome, PMHNP have disclosed no relevant financial or other interests in any commercial companies pertaining to this educational activity.

Follow along on soical media @therapybookspodcast *Information shared on this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. Book (affiliate link) Psychotherapist and host Jessica Fowler interviews Laura Knauss, PhD all things ADHD as we discuss her book Living Well with Adult ADHD: Practical Strategies for Improving Your Daily Life. DR. Knauss describes adult ADHD as a disorder of self-regulation affecting school, work, parenting, driving, and relationships, often involving emotional impulsivity and follow-through challenges. The book can be read cover to cover or as a practical, pick-what-you-need resource with brief assessments that identify a problem and then directs its readers to targeted strategies, while also building in acceptance and self-compassion to counter self-mistrust and negative self-talk. Dr. Knouse explains CBT for adult ADHD as skills-focused support for executive functioning plus working on thoughts and feelings, including “permission-giving” thoughts. Show Highlights   Adult ADHD Explained Self-Compassion and Identity CBT for Adult ADHD Choice Points and Momentum Three Parts in the book Favorite Hacks Research Support and Next Steps   About the author: Dr Knouse is a professor of psychology at the University of Richmond and a licensed clinical psychologist. At Massachusetts General Hospital and Harvard Medical School, she received specialized training in cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) for adults with ADHD and contributed to research on this approach. Dr. Knouse continues to research and write about how CBT for adults with ADHD can be improved and implemented--from  how college students with ADHD can study more efficiently to how thoughts may hinder the use of new skills. Dr. Knouse is the author of over 40 research articles and co-author of Thriving in College with ADHD: A CBT skills approach and Living Well with ADHD: Practical Strategies for Improving Your Daily Life.

The modern DSM began as a short list of 12 well-validated diagnoses. But the list expanded as the authors changed the goals from validity to reliability. Lost in this history is a missing page that helps separate adult ADHD from its mimics.CME: Take the CME Post-Test for this EpisodePublished On: 08/10/2026Duration: 14 minutes, 39 secondsChris Aiken, MD and Kellie Newsome, PMHNP have disclosed no relevant financial or other interests in any commercial companies pertaining to this educational activity.

When we talk about ADHD, we spend a lot of time talking about dopamine... but what if we've been overlooking another brain chemical that could make a real difference?In this episode, we're exploring oxytocin. Often called the connection chemical or the love drug,  oxytocin plays an important role in helping us feel safe & connected. It also works closely alongside dopamine, making it especially relevant for ADHD brains.We'll unpack what oxytocin is, why it matters & simple, practical ways you can increase it in everyday life. From hugs & pets to voice notes, nature walks & meaningful conversations, you'll discover why connection isn't just a nice idea... it may actually help support your ADHD brain.In this episode you'll learn:How oxytocin and dopamine work together in the ADHD brainWhy connection can support emotional regulation, relationships, motivation & impulse controlThe surprising difference between texting & hearing someone's voiceWhy walking with a friend might be one of the best things you can do for your brainSimple, ADHD-friendly ways to increase oxytocin every dayLINKS TO MORE GOOD SH*T FROM US:*Join Adulting with ADHD your ADHD toolbox & everything you need to work with your brain*Get our ADHD Coach in your pocket! + the ADHD Goal Setting Workbook (life planner tool)*12 Things I wished my Doctor had told me about Adult ADHD*Find out if you might be living with ADHD - Download Symptoms List*Check out Courses & Coaching with Xena*Learn, Inspire, Share & Connect inside our Facebook Community *Come hang out with me on Instagram!

Why are so many women not diagnosed with ADHD until adulthood? How do you know if it's ADHD, anxiety, hormones, generational trauma or just pregnancy brain? And if you do have ADHD, what should treatment actually feel like? This week on I'm Fun Now, Sazan sits down with world-renowned psychiatrist and brain health expert Dr. Daniel Amen for one of the most requested conversations yet. After recently receiving her own ADHD diagnosis as an adult, Sazan brings Amen the questions so many women have been asking and rarely hear answered. Together, they discuss: Why ADHD is often overlooked  Why motherhood and pregnancy can make symptoms more noticeable ADHD vs. anxiety, OCD, generational trauma and pregnancy brain What untreated ADHD can look like over time How to understand your ADHD type (even without a SPECT scan) What the right ADHD treatment should actually feel like Brain supplements, medication, and common misconceptions Faith, mental health, and removing the shame around getting help They also answer listener questions on anxiety, OCD, medication, and women's mental health and Dr. Amen shares his professional perspective on why relying on ChatGPT for mental health advice has real limitations. Whether you've been diagnosed, suspect you have ADHD, are pregnant, nursing, or simply trying to understand your brain better, this conversation offers practical guidance, hope, and the reminder that you're not broken — you may finally have an explanation. We hope it inspires you! MORE FUN THINGS

Nine studies have tried to find out whether ADHD can start in adulthood, we dig into the data and find some answers to the controversy.CME: Take the CME Post-Test for this EpisodePublished On: 08/03/2026Duration: 13 minutes, 07 secondsChris Aiken, MD and Kellie Newsome, PMHNP have disclosed no relevant financial or other interests in any commercial companies pertaining to this educational activity.

Why is it that we can be calm, focused & capable in a crisis, but feel completely paralysed by a simple phone call?In this episode, I share the story of breaking down alone on a pitch-black country road & how I handled it like a f*cking boss. In this episode, we cover:Why ADHD brains can work better in a crisisThe role of dopamine, norepinephrine & stimulationWhy clear, urgent problems can feel easier than vague everyday tasksHow relying on panic & last-minute pressure can lead to burnoutWhy coping well in the moment does not mean your body is not stressedHow to borrow from “crisis mode” without creating an actual crisisHERE'S MORE GOOD SH*T FROM NAVIGATING ADULT ADHD:*Join Adulting with ADHD your ADHD toolbox & everything you need to work with your brain*Get our ADHD Coach in your pocket! + the ADHD Goal Setting Workbook (life planner tool)*12 Things I wished my Doctor had told me about Adult ADHD*Find out if you might be living with ADHD - Download Symptoms List*Check out Courses & Coaching with Xena*Learn, Inspire, Share & Connect inside our Facebook Community *Come hang out with me on Instagram!

DSM-5 loosened the criteria for adult ADHD, but did it get too lose? We look at what recent prosecutions of telehealth companies mean for those trying to diagnose this disorder on the front-lines.CME: Take the CME Post-Test for this EpisodePublished On: 07/27/2026Duration: 15 minutes, 10 secondsChris Aiken, MD and Kellie Newsome, PMHNP have disclosed no relevant financial or other interests in any commercial companies pertaining to this educational activity.

ADHD is often described as a problem with focus, organisation & hyperactivity, but that leaves out a huge part of the picture.In this episode, we are exploring five things doctors can still get wrong about adult ADHD, including:Why emotional dysregulation is a major part of ADHDWhy success does not rule out a diagnosisHow ADHD in women can hide behind anxiety, depression & competenceThe impact hormones can have on symptoms & medicationWhy ADHD is not an inability to pay attentionWe also look at why lived experience matters, how outdated assumptions can lead to people being dismissed & what a fuller understanding of ADHD can look like.LINKS TO MORE GOOD SH*T FROM US:*Join Adulting with ADHD your ADHD toolbox & everything you need to work with your brain*Get our ADHD Coach in your pocket! + the ADHD Goal Setting Workbook (life planner tool)*12 Things I wished my Doctor had told me about Adult ADHD*Find out if you might be living with ADHD - Download Symptoms List*Check out Courses & Coaching with Xena*Learn, Inspire, Share & Connect inside our Facebook Community *Come hang out with me on Instagram!

565. You've always been this way. You've just gotten better at hiding it. Adult ADHD is one of the most underdiagnosed and misunderstood conditions in mental health — particularly in women, high-achievers, and anyone who learned to compensate before anyone noticed. This week, Dr. Judy Ho cuts through the myths, explains how adult ADHD differs from the childhood version, clarifies what the diagnostic criteria actually require, and offers three evidence-based attention-training tools you can start using today.Have a mental health question? Email Dr. Judy's team at at psychologist@quickanddirtytips.comFind Savvy Psychologist on Facebook and subscribe to the newsletter for more psychology tips.Watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/@SavvyPsychologistMore from Dr. Ho on her other channels:Dr. Ho's website, Substack, LinkedIn.Savvy Psychologist is a part of Quick and Dirty Tips. Find a transcript at QuickandDirtyTips.com. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Where's the line between being authentically yourself and oversharing because… Hi we have ADHD!In this episode, I'm unpacking why so many ADHDers share deeply, quickly & sometimes before we've checked whether we actually want to. We'll explore:Why ADHD can make us crave fast connectionHow impulsivity, dysregulation, shame & masking can fuel oversharingThe difference between authenticity & urgencyWhy privacy & boundaries do not mean you're being fake or inauthenticQuestions to help reflect on what you choose to shareYou can be open, honest and completely yourself without giving everyone immediate access to every part of you.LINKS TO MORE GOOD SH*T FROM NAVIGATING ADULT ADHD:*Join Adulting with ADHD your ADHD toolbox & everything you need to work with your brain*Get our ADHD Coach in your pocket! + the ADHD Goal Setting Workbook (life planner tool)*12 Things I wished my Doctor had told me about Adult ADHD*Find out if you might be living with ADHD - Download Symptoms List*Check out Courses & Coaching with Xena*Learn, Inspire, Share & Connect inside our Facebook Community *Come hang out with me on Instagram!

High performance often masks undiagnosed adult ADHD, leading to burnout in systems designed exclusively for neurotypical minds. Dave talks with entrepreneur, author, and speaker Meghan French Dunbar about her journey with late-diagnosed ADHD. Despite founding successful ventures like Conscious Company magazine, Meghan spent years masking her struggles, overcompensating as an overachiever, and eventually burning out. **Do you want to work with Dave one-on-one? Go to www.overcomingdistractions.com and book an introductory Zoom chat. Or go directly to Dave's calendar; https://calendly.com/davidgreenwood1/15min They discuss the critical turning points that led to her diagnosis, the vital shifts she made to reclaim her life, and how she now manages her ADHD sustainably. Key Discussion Points: The Trap of the "Over-Performer": Meghan debunks the stereotype of the hyperactive "problem child" by sharing how her intense hyperfocus on school and sports allowed her ADHD to go unnoticed and unmasked for decades. The Neurotypical System & Burnout: The business world is built for neurotypical individuals; without the proper support, neurodivergent founders easily fall into chronic stress and identity-consuming work habits. The "Ideal Life Statement": Inspired by entrepreneur Sharon Rowe, Meghan highlights the power of prioritizing the quality of being over the quantity of doing by setting non-negotiable boundaries around working hours, family, and rest. Actionable ADHD Management: Key strategies for reclaiming mental health include establishing physical barriers, like removing work email from mobile devices, committing to daily physical movement, and building customized backend AI dashboards to organize and calm a busy mind.

ADHD can show up in the bedroom in ways we don't always talk about.For some ADHDers, it might look like a high sex drive, chasing novelty, impulsive decisions, risky behaviour, or seeking dopamine through sex and attention.For others, it might look like low libido, getting bored, feeling disconnected, sensory overwhelm, distraction, or struggling to stay present.In this episode, we're unpacking:Hypersexuality and hyposexualityWhy novelty, dopamine and “the chase” can feel so powerfulHow impulsivity can show up around all things sexDistraction, sensory needs & struggling to stay presentLow libido, pressure, resentment & emotional disconnectionWhy intimacy is about so much more than sexHow awareness, communication & support can help us create more choiceThis is a shame-free, vulnerable conversation about understanding the ADHD patterns that can show up in the bedroom. LINKS TO MORE GOOD SH*T FROM US:*Join Adulting with ADHD your ADHD toolbox & everything you need to work with your brain*Get our ADHD Coach in your pocket! + the ADHD Goal Setting Workbook (life planner tool)*12 Things I wished my Doctor had told me about Adult ADHD*Find out if you might be living with ADHD - Download Symptoms List*Check out Courses & Coaching with Xena*Learn, Inspire, Share & Connect inside our Facebook Community *Come hang out with me on Instagram!

Anxiety is incredibly common for adults with ADHD & in this episode we are unpacking the messy, layered relationship between ADHD & anxiety.We cover:Why ADHD can create the perfect conditions for anxiety to thriveHow ADHD symptoms & anxiety symptoms can look almost identicalWhy anxiety may be a coping mechanism your brain developed to keep you safeThe difference between ADHD-driven anxiety & a separate anxiety disorderWhy so many women are diagnosed with anxiety before ADHDWhat can actually help, from brain dumps to emotional regulation tools & ADHD-informed supportThis episode is for anyone who has ever felt like they're constantly bracing for something to go wrong, overthinking everything or swimming against a current they couldn't explain.FOR MORE SUPPORT & OTHER GOOD SH*T:*Join Adulting with ADHD your ADHD toolbox & everything you need to work with your brain*Get our ADHD Coach in your pocket! + the ADHD Goal Setting Workbook (life planner tool)*12 Things I wished my Doctor had told me about Adult ADHD*Find out if you might be living with ADHD - Download Symptoms List*Check out Courses & Coaching with Xena*Learn, Inspire, Share & Connect inside our Facebook Community *Come hang out with me on Instagram!

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Ever felt hurt because someone didn't reply the “right” way, remember the thing, or show up how you hoped?In this episode, we're talking about the manual - the invisible rule book we carry around for how other people should behave so we can feel loved, supported, or okay.We'll explore:• What “the manual” is • Why ADHD brains can turn unmet expectations into rejection stories • The difference between making a request and trying to control someone • How to take back the emotional remote for your life • Why boundaries are not the same as manualsThis one is an absolute game changer for your relationships AND your emotional life! FOR MORE SUPPORT & OTHER GOOD SH*T:*Join Adulting with ADHD your ADHD toolbox & everything you need to work with your brain*Get our ADHD Coach in your pocket! + the ADHD Goal Setting Workbook (life planner tool)*12 Things I wished my Doctor had told me about Adult ADHD*Find out if you might be living with ADHD - Download Symptoms List*Check out Courses & Coaching with Xena*Learn, Inspire, Share & Connect inside our Facebook Community *Come hang out with me on Instagram!

In this episode, we're unpacking why friendships can feel so hard for ADHDers, from forgetting to reply & losing track of time, to rejection sensitivity, masking, emotional dysregulation & the dreaded doom spiral.We'll explore:• Why caring about someone & initiating contact are not the same skill• How ADHD can make small friendship wobbles feel like full-blown rejection• Why your brain might turn one painful moment into “they don't care about me”• The role of RSD, emotional dysregulation & masking in friendship struggles• Why not every friendship needs to be saved, but some may be worth repairing• Simple scripts for reconnecting, repairing & being honest without over-explainingThis episode is not about becoming a perfect friend. It's about understanding your brain, checking the story before you act from it & remembering that one tiny honest message can reopen a door you thought was closed.Also check out episode #23 ADHD & friendships FOR MORE GOOD SH*T...*Join Adulting with ADHD your ADHD toolbox & everything you need to work with your brain*Get our ADHD Coach in your pocket! + the ADHD Goal Setting Workbook (life planner tool)*12 Things I wished my Doctor had told me about Adult ADHD*Find out if you might be living with ADHD - Download Symptoms List*Check out Courses & Coaching with Xena*Learn, Inspire, Share & Connect inside our Facebook Community *Come hang out with me on Instagram!

Traditional clinical interviews can have up to a 50% variance in ADHD diagnosis, leaving the door wide open for implicit bias. By utilizing machine learning-enabled, asynchronous assessments, Mentavi Health is wringing out biases related to race, gender, and appearance, and dropping the false-positive rate to just 12%. In this episode, host Peter Fenger speaks with Dr. Barry K. Herman, Chief Medical Officer at Mentavi Health. A Stanford-trained, board-certified adult and child psychiatrist with over 25 years of experience across managed care, pharmaceuticals, and digital health, Dr. Herman is a past president of AAPAL and a prolific researcher with over 100 scientific publications to his name. Join us as we explore Dr. Herman's non-linear journey from traditional practice to population health, the clinical validation behind the Mentavi Diagnostic Evaluation, and how decoupling diagnosis from treatment is fundamentally shifting the timeline, accuracy, and accessibility of online mental health care.   For more information about Mentavi Health, please visit: https://mentavi.com For more information about Mentavi Health's Diagnostic Evaluation, please visit: https://mentavi.com/diagnostic-evaluation/ For more information about their assessment validation study, please visit: https://mentavi.com/press-release/mentavi-health-announces-results-from-first-of-its-kind-adhd-assessment-validation-study/ Connect with Mentavi Health on social media: On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mentavi_health/ On Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/mentavihealth/ On YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@mentavihealth On Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/Mentavi/100085316731601/ On X: https://x.com/MentaviHealth

Why do so many adults with ADHD struggle with alcohol, even when they know it's not helping them? In this episode, Lynne Edris talks with Colleen Freeland about the powerful connection between ADHD, dopamine, nervous system regulation, and alcohol use. They explore: • Why ADHD brains often seek relief through alcohol and other coping behaviors • The difference between drinking for pleasure and drinking for relief • How dopamine and urgency drive unhealthy patterns • Why shame keeps us stuck • How to build healthier responses to stress and overwhelm • The mindset shift that makes lasting change possible Whether alcohol is your challenge—or whether your coping mechanism looks more like procrastination, scrolling, shopping, or overworking—this conversation will help you better understand your brain and create change with more compassion and less self-judgment. Colleen Freeland is an Intuitive Drinking Coach and host of the globally top-ranked It's Not About the Alcohol podcast. Colleen founded Emotional Sobriety Coaching© for high achieving professional women who want to reduce alcohol consumption by 80 percent. She combines holistic and evidence-based strategies in Neurophysiology, Cognitive Reframing, and Spirituality to reprogram the mind and body - so you actually prefer drinking in moderation. Colleen secretly struggled with Alcohol Use Disorder for over 20 years before discovering that the solution to overdrinking is to get happy, not sober. She is an Addiction and Recovery-Certified Master Life Coach with an MSc in Health Coaching, a BS in Biology and Chemistry Education, and is certified as a Women's Functional and Integrative Health Professional. Learn more about Colleen at https://www.emotionalsobrietycoaching.com/ Podcast Co-Host Lynne Edris s a Productivity & ADHD Coach who helps distracted professionals from all over the world learn to accomplish what they intend and take control of their days with ease so that they can perform at the level of their abilities and have more time, more energy and more bandwidth for what matters most to them. Lynne is a woman, wife, and mom with ADHD herself, so she understands the struggles and challenges of living with ADHD. She has gone from living in the constant state of chaos, overwhelm, and under-performance that adults with ADHD know far too well, to living a life of more success and fulfillment than she once dreamed possible. Her passion is to help others fulfill their own potential and start "firing on all cylinders" in all areas of your life. You can learn more about Lynne at www.CoachingADDvantages.com, and visit www.ProductivityBreakthroughQuiz.com to take her complimentary self-assessment! RESOURCES & LINKS Take Lynne's Productivity Breakthrough Quiz: https://www.productivitybreakthroughquiz.com Learn more about Lynne Edris: https://www.coachingadvantages.com Learn more about Colleen Freeland at https://www.emotionalsobrietycoaching.com/ Join the ADHD Support Talk Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adhdsupporttalk We'd love to hear from you! ADHD Support Talk Radio is an award winning Podcast for Adults with ADD / ADHD. Co-hosts Tara McGillicuddy and Lynne Edris are joined by Adult ADHD experts and they cover important topics related to Adult ADD / ADHD. Podcast guests include Dr. Edward Hallowell, Dr. Stephanie Sarkis, Dr. Ari Tuckman, Laurie Dupar, Terry Matlen and many more. Tara McGillicuddy is the Producer, Owner and Co-host of the ADHD Support Talk Radio Podcast. You may contact Tara with general questions or feedback about the podcast, Lynne Edris is the Co-host of the ADHD Support Talk Radio Podcast. You may contact Lynne with feedback about her episodes or if you are interested in having her interview you as a guest. https://adhdsupporttalk.com/about-podcast/ We may be an affiliate for products we mention or recommend. If you purchase those items through our links, we may earn a commission.

Today I'm sharing some of the “weird” things I do that actually support my ADHD brain.Because sometimes the things that look a little random from the outside are actually clever little accommodations in disguise.I'm talking about:Why I delay-send emails instead of trusting my brain has remembered everythingWearing activewear under my “real people clothes”Changing up my work environment for novelty, comfort & focusLetting myself task-switch without turning it into a moral failingDoing brain dumps when my mind feels like 47 browser tabs are openThis episode is a permission slip to stop judging the things that help you function & start seeing them for what they really are:ADHD-friendly support strategies.Weird? Maybe.Helpful? Absolutely.In this episode I mention the ETSY store I created with my friend Logan: NDHQ - come check it out.LINKS TO GOOD SH*T:*Join Adulting with ADHD your ADHD toolbox & everything you need to work with your brain*Get our ADHD Coach in your pocket! + the ADHD Goal Setting Workbook (life planner tool)*12 Things I wished my Doctor had told me about Adult ADHD*Find out if you might be living with ADHD - Download Symptoms List*Check out Courses & Coaching with Xena*Learn, Inspire, Share & Connect inside our Facebook Community *Come hang out with me on Instagram!

Most productivity advice for ADHD is written for people who just need a nudge. If you have ADHD, you need something more honest than that.Ari Tuckman holds a PsyD and an MBA, has authored five books on ADHD, and has spent over 40,000 hours in clinical work with adults. He co-chairs the largest ADHD conference in the US and has been quoted in the New York Times, CNN, and the Washington Post.In this conversation, Ari breaks down what productivity actually means for ADHD brains, why "don't get in trouble" is not a good enough goal, and how business owners can use external structure and the right people to focus on where they add the most value.Connect With Ari Tuckman:  www.DrAriTuckman.com.What We CoverWhy simplistic productivity advice fails ADHD adults and what to look for insteadThe difference between managing ADHD to survive versus building a life worth havingHow to hire an assistant who will act as external executive function, not just a schedulerThe role of reputation-building when ADHD makes consistency hardAri's "things lead to things" principle and how it applies to business growth P.S. Losing work because the admin layer around your business can't keep up with you? Invisible Systems is a 90-day done-for-you sprint where I (Skye) extract the processes from your head, build the operating layer, and find the right person to run it. Six spots left at the founding price, book a call at https://www.unconventionalorganisation.com/

Does this sound familiar?“I'm busy all day, but I don't get anything done. I want something to show for my efforts.”“Everyone in my life is tired of my lateness and unreliability.”“I can't get motivated unless I'm facing a deadline, and what I produce isn't as good as it could be.”In this episode of A Mind of Her Own with Jennifer Reid, MD, we hear from adult ADHD expert, J. Russell Ramsay, PhD about a new way of viewing ADHD: as fundamentally a self-regulation problem, not an attention problem. The name is misleading. What's really impaired is the ability to organize behavior across time in order to consistently follow through on what you intend to do.CBT adapted for ADHD works differently than standard CBT. The focus isn't on changing negative thoughts. It's on reverse-engineering the how of not doing things, then building explicit step-by-step plans. The goal is slowing down the executive function deliberately, making implicit steps external and visible.The Core Executive Functions Affected in ADHD:* Inhibition (pausing before responding automatically)* Nonverbal working memory (mental simulation and planning)* Verbal working memory (internal self-talk and staying on track)* Emotional regulation and motivation (generating drive in the absence of immediate consequences)* Reconstitution (flexible, creative problem-solving)Emotional dysregulation is a core feature, but it's invisible in the DSM. Emotions don't appear in the diagnostic criteria at all, yet they drive much of what people actually struggle with: impulsive reactions, difficulty tolerating discomfort, and using guilt as a misguided motivator.Women are significantly under-diagnosed and diagnosed later. CDC data from 2024 found that 50% of people with ADHD were diagnosed at age 18 or older, and 61% of those were women. Girls' symptoms often appear on the playground rather than in the classroom, with social disruption rather than academic chaos, making them easier to overlook. Women are also more likely to be diagnosed first with anxiety or depression.Self-mistrust is a hallmark and often mistaken for low confidence. After years of inconsistent follow-through, many adults with ADHD stop trusting themselves to do what they set out to do. This isn't simply low self-esteem; it's a learned pattern of doubting one's own reliability, often amplified by the unspoken message: it must be something I'm doing wrong.High functioning doesn't mean unaffected. Many people mask symptoms for years through compensatory strategies: all-nighters, parental scaffolding, sheer willpower, until the scaffolding is removed or life demands multiply (new job, parenthood, caregiving, perimenopause).Front-end perfectionism drives procrastination. The biggest cognitive distortion in ADHD isn't negativity, it's the belief that conditions must be perfect before starting. Waiting to feel focused, energized, or “in the mood” guarantees perpetual delay. The reframe: Do I have enough to begin?ADHD also brings real strengths. Creativity, the ability to hyper-focus in stimulating environments, hands-on intuitive knowledge, persistence when engaged, and the capacity for innovative thinking are all genuine advantages, not consolation prizes.Resources Mentioned* Book: Once I Get Started: The Adult ADHD Program for Turning Your Intentions into Actions — Dr. Russell Ramsay (Avery/Penguin Random House, May 2025)* Book: You Mean I'm Not Lazy, Stupid or Crazy?! — Kate Kelly & Peggy Ramundo (mid-90s classic, still widely cited)* Book: The Power of Habit — Charles Duhigg (source of the “keystone habit” concept)* Book: The Extended Mind: The Power of Thinking Outside the Brain — Annie Murphy Paul (on environment, cognition, and the need for solitude)* Book: Living Well with Adult ADHD: Practical Strategies for Improving Your Daily Life — Dr. Laura Knouse & Dr. Russell Barkley (Guilford Press, 2025)* Researcher: Dr. Margaret Sibley — Professor of Psychiatry & Behavioral Sciences, University of Washington; leading work on adult ADHD diagnosis guidelines through the American Professional Society of ADHD and Related Disorders (APSARD)* Researcher: Dr. Russ Barkley — foundational work on ADHD as executive dysfunction* Assessment tool: QB Test (Qbtech) — computerized continuous performance task used to objectively measure attention, impulsivity, and activity* Website: cbt4adhd.com — Dr. Ramsay's practice, contact form, and resourcesAbout Dr. Russell RamsayDr. J. Russell Ramsay is a licensed psychologist and board-certified cognitive-behavioral therapist specializing in the assessment and psychosocial treatment of adult ADHD. He was the co-founder and co-director of Penn's Adult ADHD Treatment and Research Program, one of the earliest and most influential programs of its kind, established in 1999. Dr. Ramsay is the author of six books on adult ADHD, including his most recent, Once I Get Started (2025). He has lectured internationally, published extensively in peer-reviewed journals, and serves on the editorial board of the Journal of Attention Disorders. He is an inductee in the CHADD Hall of Fame and recipient of the University of Pennsylvania's Szuba Award for Excellence in Clinical Teaching and Research. He now runs a fully virtual solo psychology practice, licensed in Pennsylvania and credentialed through PsyPact to practice telepsychology across 35+ participating states.

ADHD is often talked about through the lens of productivity, focus, and executive functioning, but what happens when we zoom out and look at the bigger picture? Elizabeth Ahmann and Micah Saviet, co-authors of Flourishing with Adult ADHD, join me for a thought-provoking conversation about identity, self-perception, and the lived experience of being neurodivergent.We explore how masking, shame, trauma, sociocultural influences, and late diagnosis can shape the way adults with ADHD see themselves and navigate the world. This conversation challenges the traditional deficit-based model of ADHD and offers a more affirming, strengths-based perspective that can help you better understand yourself and create meaningful change. Whether you're an adult with ADHD, a coach, therapist, or someone supporting a neurodivergent loved one, you'll walk away with practical insights for building self-awareness, self-compassion, and resilience.Episode Highlights[0:00] - The hidden cost of masking, perfectionism, and appearing successful on the outside[0:50] - Meet Elizabeth Ahmann and Micah Saviet, co-authors of Flourishing with Adult ADHD[2:18] - Why ADHD is more than executive functioning challenges—it's also an identity experience[4:23] - Moving beyond the medical model and embracing a neurodiversity-affirming perspective[7:16] - Understanding the "fifth domain" of ADHD: sociocultural identity[10:44] - Cultural humility, curiosity, and supporting clients with different lived experiences[12:04] - The Social Identity Wheel and how identity awareness can reduce shame[14:49] - Reframing ADHD challenges as differences in neurobiology rather than personal failures[16:17] - Identity reconstruction and redefining yourself beyond an ADHD-based narrative of failure[18:24] - Trauma, adverse childhood experiences, and how they intersect with ADHD[23:51] - Why addressing shame is essential for adults with ADHD[24:14] - Masking, people-pleasing, perfectionism, and the invisible burden many adults carry[26:42] - How social conditioning impacts women with ADHD and contributes to late diagnosis[29:06] - The difference between adapting and masking as a neurodivergent person[31:02] - Small steps, externalizing tasks, and reducing executive function overwhelm[33:30] - Using affirmations and visualization to reshape self-belief and identity[36:10] - Why micro-actions and 1% improvements create lasting progress[38:08] - Turning goals into experiments to reduce pressure and build momentum[40:08] - What to remember when it feels like you've tried everything and nothing has worked[40:55] - New research on ADHD coaching and improvements in well-being and executive functioning[43:35] - Where to find Flourishing with Adult ADHD and who will benefit most from reading itLinks & ResourcesElizabeth Ahmann, ScD, RN, PCC, NBC-HWC Elizabeth Ahmann (she/her) is an ADHD and health and wellness coach, Professor, and Curriculum Manager in the Health and Wellness Coaching Department at Notre Dame of Maryland University's School of Integrative Health. She also serves as Director of Research at Springer Institute.With a master's degree in nursing and a doctorate in public health, Elizabeth brings extensive experience in coaching, teaching, and research. She synthesizes theory, evidence, and practice to translate complex research into accessible, actionable guidance that supports optimal, person-centered care for adults with ADHD.Micah Saviet, LCSW-C, NBC-HWCMicah Saviet (he/him) is a licensed clinical social worker specializing in trauma-informed, neurodiversity-affirming care for adults with ADHD. Micah integrates evidence-based, somatic, and neurophysiological approaches to support clients in healing from shame, emotional dysregulation, and trauma-related patterns commonly experienced by neurodivergent adults.Micah's work emphasizes moving beyond symptom management toward deeper healing, self-compassion, and sustainable well-being. He writes and speaks on adult ADHD, trauma, nervous system regulation, and strengths-based care for professionals.ConnectInstagram: @adulttrauma_adhdsolutionsTo purchase "Flourishing with Adult ADHD":https://amzn.to/49WWdgLhttps://www.routledge.com/Flourishing-with-Adult-ADHD-The-Evidence-Based-Guide-to-Client-Well-Being-for-Therapists-and-Coaches/Ahmann-Saviet/p/book/9781041059776Micah's therapy practice: https://www.adulttraumaandadhdsolutions.com/Micah & Liz's coaching practice: https://www.pathways-ahead.com/Liz and Micah's research institute: https://springerinstitute.org/Thank you for tuning into "SuccessFULL with ADHD." If this episode has impacted you, remember to rate, follow, share, and review our podcast. Your support helps us reach and help more individuals navigating their journeys with ADHD. 

Success can make it easy to overlook what's really happening beneath the surface. In this episode, Dave steps away from productivity hacks, planners, and optimization strategies to focus on something even more important. ADHD awareness. If you're a busy professional, entrepreneur, executive, or high performer with ADHD, these weekly questions will help you uncover patterns, recognize strengths, and better understand what your brain may be trying to communicate. In this episode Dave talks about: Why ADHD can be both a professional advantage and a source of friction at the same time. How to identify moments when you felt most energized, engaged, and aligned with your strengths. What it means when you're constantly "fighting your brain" and how to recognize when a system simply isn't working. The hidden effort and invisible work many successful adults with ADHD carry every day. Why unexpected wins, struggles, and surprises contain valuable clues about how you work best. How to recognize ADHD-related strengths that deserve more attention and appreciation. The importance of spotting recurring patterns instead of focusing on isolated setbacks. A simple reflection question that may completely change how you view your ADHD. **Do you want to work with Dave one-on-one? Go to www.overcomingdistractions.com and book an introductory Zoom chat. Or go directly to Dave's calendar; https://calendly.com/davidgreenwood1/15min  

Travelling with ADHD is a whole experience.One minute your brain is screaming, “DOPAMINE! ADVENTURE! NEW SNACKS!” And the next minute you're staring at your suitcase wondering if you need seven pairs of undies for a three-night trip.In this episode, I'm sharing 9 ADHD-friendly travel hacks to help make your next trip easier, calmer & far less chaotic.We'll cover:why you need to check the rules around ADHD medication before you travelhow to reduce the pre-trip panic spiralthe magic of printing, screenshotting & pre-downloading everythingwhy an “empty day before” might be the best gift you give your future selfhow to build your own dopamine & regulation travel kitwhy the Hidden Disabilities Sunflower Lanyard can be so helpful in airportsBecause travelling with ADHD isn't about being perfectly organised.It's about reducing friction, supporting your brain & having a few backup plans for when your brain decides to pack sunscreen but forget socks.Grab the free cheatsheet with all 9 tips here: www.navigatingadultadhd.com/cheatsheetYou can learn more about the Hidden Disabilities Sunflower Lanyard here: https://hdsunflower.comLINKS TO GOOD SH*T FROM NAVIGATING ADULT ADHD:*Join Adulting with ADHD your ADHD toolbox & everything you need to work with your brain*Get our ADHD Coach in your pocket! + the ADHD Goal Setting Workbook (life planner tool)*12 Things I wished my Doctor had told me about Adult ADHD*Find out if you might be living with ADHD - Download Symptoms List*Check out Courses & Coaching with Xena*Learn, Inspire, Share & Connect inside our Facebook Community *Come hang out with me on Instagram!

Welcome to today's ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from past episodes that you might have missed.  Why is catastrophizing and emotional spirals so common in ADHD? We're throwing it back to this helpful advice from ADHD coach Shanna Pearson, on her easy go-to trick to manage mood and strong emotional reactions in the moment. Shanna is the founder of the world's largest one-on-one ADHD coaching company, working with thousands of adults with ADHD every year, and the bestselling author of Invisible ADHD. Follow Shannon and check out her book: https://www.adhdcoaching.com/  https://www.invisibleadhd.com/  Listen to our full episode here. Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes. For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Subscribe to my Substack:teachmehowtoadult.substack.comFollow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

Send us Fan MailEver stare at a three-minute email and feel your brain freeze while your hand reaches for the spice rack? We explore adult ADHD with a practical, humane lens—how a distracted “CEO of the brain” scrambles working memory, warps time into now and not now, and amplifies emotions so small hassles feel catastrophic. Instead of guilt or grit-as-a-solution, we map the real mechanics: dopamine dynamics, executive function breakdowns, and the anxiety loop that steals focus and breeds avoidance.From there, we get tactical. We talk about medication as a helpful wake-up for the brain's CEO—useful, but not a magic bullet. The real momentum comes from externalizing executive function with capture tools, whiteboards, visual timers, and written instructions, then breaking tasks into tiny, winnable steps that deliver quick dopamine hits. We show how mindfulness isn't about bliss but about reps—notice distraction, return on purpose—and how short movement breaks act like nature's Ritalin, resetting the nervous system so focus blocks actually stick.Food and environment become levers, not afterthoughts. We explain why sugar crashes mimic ADHD symptoms and why protein-first breakfasts, omega-3s, and steady hydration matter for mood and attention. We draw a bright line between therapy (the architect for belief and anxiety) and coaching (the contractor for routines and accountability), then outline workplace accommodations that reduce noise and protect deep work. We also flag common comorbidities like dyslexia and dyscalculia, and share simple, repeatable systems families can model together.The big shift: stop trying to be a different brain; build a different environment. When you design your inputs, meals, movement, and workflows to match how your mind actually operates, effort finally converts into results. If this resonated, follow the show, share it with someone who needs a kinder map for ADHD, and leave a review so more folks can find these tools. Which strategy will you try first? Support the showSponsor Affiliates Empowering Your Healthhttps://www.atecam.com/Get YOUR Own Joburg Protein Snacks Discount Code:  Damaris15 Or Damaris18Feeling need to Lose Weight & Become metabolically HealthyGET METABOLIC COURSE GLP 1 REseTThis course is designed for individuals looking to optimize their metabolic health through integrative and functional medicine approaches. Whether you're on a GLP-1 medication or seeking natural ways to enhance your metabolic function, this course provides actionable steps, expert insights, and a personalized roadmap sustainable wellness.Are you feeling stressed, tired, or Metabolism imbalanced? Take advantage of our free mindful steps to help improve your well-being.ENJOY ONE OF our Books Mindful Ways  Health Wealth & Life https://stan.store/MindfullyintegrativeJoin Yearly membership ALL IN ONE  FUNCTION HEALTHAsk Us for help with Medica...

You don't need a therapist or a coach. You probably need both — just not at the same time. If your head feels like a storm, this episode will make it clear what gets you out and what keeps you stuck.   In This Episode: The raw difference between ADHD therapy and ADHD coaching Why healing has to come before executing for ADHD Entrepreneurs What makes therapy and coaching legit — or dangerous   What You'll Take Away: Therapy is about healing the past and stabilizing your present. Coaching is about taking action for the future. ADHD Entrepreneurs can't coach their way out of a storm they haven't calmed. A legit coach or therapist wants you to need them less — not more. Coaching programs are training, not regulated education. If the storm is still raging, coaching isn't what you need.   ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode of The Impulsive Thinker® breaks down the real difference between ADHD therapy and ADHD coaching. The Impulsive Thinker® asks exactly when each one matters — and what happens when coaches act like therapists and vice versa. Licensing. Ethics. Training. ADHD, entrepreneurship, and neurodivergent brains get pulled apart with real-world stakes. The conversation hits what coaching can — and cannot — fix. If you're stuck processing the past, coaching won't get you out. Therapy is for the storm. Coaching is for calm seas and future action. Every ADHD Entrepreneur gets this question wrong — until everything blows up.   This one's for the ADHD Entrepreneur frustrated by stalled progress. If you're ready to see why action isn't always the answer, smash play.   Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference. www.northstartcc.com   Books by Mariah The DBT Skills Workbook for Adult ADHD, with Scott Spradlin (2026, New Harbinger) https://a.co/d/0enSKylP   You might also be interested in:

Do you forget to eat… until you're suddenly hangry and shaky?Or eat past full & wonder “why did I do that?”If food feels chaotic, confusing, or all-or-nothing - you are not alone.In this episode, we're unpacking how ADHD impacts your relationship with food - from missed hunger cues and hyperfocus, to dopamine-seeking, emotional eating, & food noise.We cover:Why ADHDers forget to eat (and then it becomes urgent)The role of interoception, time blindness & medicationWhy overeating happens (and why it makes sense)Food noise, sensory “icks” & hyperfixation foodsHow executive dysfunction makes eating harder than it “should”ADHD, diet culture & all-or-nothing patternsPlus simple, ADHD-friendly supports to help improve your relationship with food & eatingIf you've ever felt like you're “bad with food”… This episode will help.LINKS TO OTHER GOOD SH*T:*Join Adulting with ADHD your ADHD toolbox & everything you need to work with your brain*Get our ADHD Coach in your pocket! + the ADHD Goal Setting Workbook (life planner tool)*12 Things I wished my Doctor had told me about Adult ADHD*Find out if you might be living with ADHD - Download Symptoms List*Check out Courses & Coaching with Xena*Learn, Inspire, Share & Connect inside our Facebook Community *Come hang out with me on Instagram!

You don't need healing. You need results. Therapy and coaching aren't the same for ADHD Entrepreneurs — and most people are still getting it wrong.   In This Episode: The real differences between ADHD coaching and therapy Why therapy tackles the past and coaching builds execution When coaching won't work — and why therapy comes first   What You'll Take Away: Coaching isn't for everyone, especially if depression or past trauma is in play ADHD therapy is about stabilizing, not fixing a "broken" brain Licensing matters — coaches can't diagnose, therapists can Both paths can work together, but the order matters Bad coaching ignores emotional paralysis — that's therapy territory   GUEST BIO Mariah Spradlin is an ADHD therapist, coach, and co-author of the Dialectical Behavioral Therapy Skills Workbook for Adult ADHD. She gets the ADHD Entrepreneur struggle — because she lives it herself. www.northstartcc.com   Books by Mariah The DBT Skills Workbook for Adult ADHD, with Scott Spradlin (2026, New Harbinger) https://a.co/d/0enSKylP   You might also be interested in:

Sam Pittis and Katie Breathwick — best friends and co-hosts of You're Wrong About ADHD — compare their very different reactions to being diagnosed with ADHD. Katie came to her ADHD diagnosis through her teenage son and felt a sense of excitement and clarity. Sam felt shaken. He began to see his years of depression, emotional crashes, and coping habits in a new way.  Hear how ADHD shows up uniquely in the two of them, from emotional dysregulation and sensory struggles to disorganization and missed signs in childhood. Also in this episode: gender differences, late diagnosis, and the quiet grief of wondering what might have been. For more on this topic Listen: Building ADHD community Read: 8 common myths about ADHD Watch: ADHD and depression For a transcript and more resources, visit ADHD Aha! on Understood.org. You can also email us at adhdaha@understood.org . Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this episode, we explore how adult ADHD shows up differently, why difficulty concentrating alone doesn't mean you have ADHD, and why many people are diagnosed later in life. We also discuss treatments that can make a meaningful difference.  Learn more about Dr. Diane Ukwuoma 

Dave connects with Jenna Free, author of A Simple Guide to ADHD Regulation, to dismantle the misconception that thriving with neurodivergence requires endless lifestyle hacks. Instead, they dive deep into the power of nervous system regulation and why busy professionals, entrepreneurs, and CEOs frequently find themselves trapped in a frantic cycle of high performance followed by complete shutdown. Jenna highlights how prolonged states of fight-or-flight mimic and intensify ADHD symptoms. She offers a sustainable path to step out of survival mode and provides actionable advice on thriving with adult ADHD. How adults with ADHD can embrace emotional regulation: The Vicious Cycle: Operating in a frantic, rushing state can feel highly productive but inevitably leads to stress, overwhelming burnout and in some cases physical shutdown. The Mechanics of Dysregulation: When stress tricks the nervous system into perceiving routine business challenges as life-threatening, blood physically leaves the brain for the limbs, crippling executive dysfunction and creative focus. The "In-the-Moment" Regulation Strategy: True regulation isn't about avoiding stress or taking constant breaks. It involves interrupting dysregulation in real-time by slowing your physical pace and breathing without abandoning the task at hand. Unpacking Core Beliefs: Common narrative traps, such as feeling constantly "behind" or believing rest must be earned, keep the nervous system stuck in a permanent, defensive tug-of-war. You can find Jenna's book about ADHD and regulation here. https://www.amazon.com/Simple-Guide-ADHD-Regulation-Enjoying/dp/1400254698 **Do you want to work with Dave one-on-one? Go to www.overcomingdistractions.com and book an introductory Zoom chat. Or go directly to Dave's calendar; https://calendly.com/davidgreenwood1/15min  

In this episode, we're unpacking the very real (and often overlooked) connection between ADHD, your nervous system, and chronic pain - including why so many ADHDers feel things more intensely… In this episode, you'll learn:Why ADHDers are more likely to experience chronic pain, headaches & fibromyalgiaWhat's actually happening in your nervous system (and why it feels so intense)The link between ADHD, anxiety, depression & pain amplificationWhy headaches and migraines are so common with ADHD (it's a perfect storm)The overlap between ADHD brain fog & “fibro fog”Simple, ADHD-friendly ways to better understand & support your bodyThis episode is part education, part validation, and part “ohhhh… that explains a lot.LINKS TO MORE GOOD SH*T:*Join Adulting with ADHD your ADHD toolbox & everything you need to work with your brain*Get our ADHD Coach in your pocket! + the ADHD Goal Setting Workbook (life planner tool)*12 Things I wished my Doctor had told me about Adult ADHD*Find out if you might be living with ADHD - Download Symptoms List*Check out Courses & Coaching with Xena*Learn, Inspire, Share & Connect inside our Facebook Community *Come hang out with me on Instagram!

We've all said it. "I'll deal with it later." And somehow, later never comes. The thing just sits there — not in your calendar, but in your head. It pings you in the shower. It shows up right before you fall asleep. That's an energy leak.This week, Ari Tuckman returns for his sixth appearance to unpack what's actually happening when we tell ourselves "later." What is the ADHD brain doing in that moment? Are we making a real decision, or just kicking the can? And how do we tell the difference?We dig into:The two flavors of procrastination — not feeling the future vs. avoiding the discomfortWhy "later" needs a "when," and what specificity actually changesThe difference between a task that needs doing and a decision that needs makingHow to close an open loop that's been open way too longGoing toward positives vs. avoiding negatives, and why one of those is more sustainableTime estimation, and why some things aren't knowable until you startAri's new book, the ADHD Productivity ManualGuest SpotlightAri Tuckman, PsyD is a psychologist, author, and international presenter specializing in ADHD. He's given more than 600 presentations and podcast interviews across America and nine other countries, and is the author of four books: ADHD After Dark, Understand Your Brain, Get More Done, More Attention, Less Deficit, and Integrative Treatment for Adult ADHD. He chairs the CHADD Conference Committee. This is his sixth appearance on the show.Links & NotesAri's website: https://drarituckman.comAri on Instagram: @AriTuckmanPsyDBooks by Ari Tuckman:ADHD After DarkUnderstand Your Brain, Get More DoneMore Attention, Less DeficitIntegrative Treatment for Adult ADHDADHD Productivity Manual (00:00) - Welcome to Taking Control: The ADHD Podcast (01:13) - Join us over on Patreon! (02:13) - Introducing Ari Tuckman (03:06) - "I'll do it later..." ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★

Freddie Bennett spent decades not knowing why his brain worked differently. Inattentive at school, masking his way through life, and by adulthood - stressed, depressed, and addicted. It wasn't laziness. It wasn't stupidity. It was undiagnosed ADHD.Getting that diagnosis in his mid-30s changed everything. But when his son then spent two years stuck on a public waitlist - Freddie decided enough was enough and Bay Paediatrics was built.Bay Paediatrics gives neurodiverse children and their families the fast answers, real support, and confidence they deserve to thrive. And Freddie is on a mission to establish New Zealand as a world leader in ADHD assessment and treatment. In this episode, Freddie gets real about what it actually feels like to be a late-diagnosed adult raising a child with ADHD. The shame. The masking. The dark years before the lightbulb moment. And how leaning into his neurodiversity is what took him from rock bottom to the Arctic, the Sahara Desert, a Guinness World Record - and now, to building a neurodiversity revolution in Aotearoa.This one's for every adult who spent their whole life being told they weren't enough.Connect with Freddie: Bay Paediatrics: https://baypaediatrics.com/Freddie on Instagram and FacebookLINKS TO OTHER GOOD SH*T:*Join Adulting with ADHD your ADHD toolbox & everything you need to work with your brain*Get our ADHD Coach in your pocket! + the ADHD Goal Setting Workbook (life planner tool)*12 Things I wished my Doctor had told me about Adult ADHD*Find out if you might be living with ADHD - Download Symptoms List*Check out Courses & Coaching with Xena*Learn, Inspire, Share & Connect inside our Facebook Community *Come hang out with me on Instagram!

The most impactful way to navigate life with ADHD is to shift your identity from a "disability deficit" mindset to a neuroaffirming, strength-based perspective. In this episode of Overcoming Distractions, Dave chats with Liz Ahmann and Micah Saviet, authors of the new book Flourishing with Adult ADHD (released April 2026). The discussion dives deep into practical, evidence-based strategies for high-performing professionals and entrepreneurs who are tired of temporary "hacks" and ready for long-term growth. They explore how understanding your unique brain wiring is the first step toward moving past the shame of a late diagnosis and toward true well-being. Key Discussion Points Hacks vs. Habits: Why temporary ADHD "hacks" often fail and how a deeper understanding of your specific "flavor" of ADHD leads to sustainable lifestyle changes. The Power of the Pause: Introducing the STOP practice (Stop, Take a breath, Observe, Proceed mindfully) to move from a reactive limbic state to a thoughtful executive state. Neuroplasticity in Action: How mindfulness and nature walks physically clear neural pathways and lower cortisol levels. Identity Re-calibration: Moving away from the "square peg in a round hole" mentality by embracing neurodivergence rather than trying to fix perceived weaknesses. Combating Shame: A look at the research-backed need for self-compassion and how it serves as a foundation for emotional regulation and resilience. Practical Growth Tools: Simple shifts like gratitude journaling, "micro-wins," and using the VIA (Values in Action) assessment to identify natural strengths. Find Flourishing with Adult ADHD: The Evidence-based Guide to Client Well-being for Therapists and Coaches here: https://amzn.to/4uX9Bd0 And learn more about the work Liz Ahmann and Micah Saviet are doing here: https://www.adulttraumaandadhdsolutions.com/ https://www.pathways-ahead.com/ **Do you want to work with Dave one-on-one? Go to www.overcomingdistractions.com and book an introductory Zoom chat. Or go directly to Dave's calendar; https://calendly.com/davidgreenwood1/15min  

This is a little bonus episode… and a personal one.From losing my brother young, to being diagnosed at 36, to a moment at 28 that completely changed the direction of my life… this episode connects the dots of how I went from feeling lost, overwhelmed & “WTF is wrong with me?”… to building something I wish existed years ago.Because here's the truth:Getting diagnosed with ADHD explains a lot…But it doesn't teach you how to actually live with it.In this episode, I share:What my life looked like before I understood my brainThe moment that changed everything for meWhy diagnosis alone isn't enough The gap I kept seeing… and couldn't ignoreHow Adulting with ADHD was created (and who it's really for)And yes - Adulting with ADHD is on sale till midnight 23 May, so I also walk you through what's inside and how to join if it feels like your time.https://www.navigatingadultadhd.com/awa

ADHD symptoms can be easy to miss — even when you're someone who knows a lot about ADHD. Kim Holderness shares her adult ADHD diagnosis and the complicated feelings that came with it.  Kim felt embarrassed and like a fraud. For years, she assumed her anxiety and emotional ups and downs were simply part of the very real load many busy moms carry. Kim and Penn Holderness — creators, authors, and the couple behind the Holderness Family — have long been surrounded by ADHD in their life and work. In a quick, sweet cameo, Penn (who also has ADHD) shares how he supports Kim in practical ways, like handling paperwork and day-to-day logistics. For more on this topic Listen: ADHD and emotional dysregulation Read: 3 surprising skills ADHD affects Watch: Are people with ADHD oversensitive? For a transcript and more resources, visit ADHD Aha! on Understood.org. You can also email us at adhdaha@understood.org. Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

ADHD isn't just distraction. It's not laziness. It's not "everyone feels like that sometimes."It's crying over a text message. Needing a nap after replying to three emails. Avoiding something for three weeks that takes seven minutes.In this episode, we go back to basics…What ADHD actually isHow it shows up in the brainExecutive function explained in a way that finally makes senseThe emotional side nobody talks about enough And why inconsistency isn't a character flawYou weren't doing it wrong. You just had the wrong manual my friend.

Comments or feedback? Send us a text! If you work with adults with ADHD, you quickly realize this isn't simply a disorder of attention or intelligence — it's a disorder of self-regulation across time. The real suffering often lives in the gap between intention and follow-through: knowing exactly what needs to happen, but struggling to consistently execute it in daily life.In this episode, I'm joined by Laura E. Knouse to discuss her new book, Living Well with Adult ADHD, co-authored with Russell A. Barkley. We explore how executive functioning science can be translated into practical systems that actually respect how the ADHD brain works. This conversation is less about “trying harder” and more about designing environments, routines, and supports that make follow-through more achievable.We discuss why traditional productivity advice often fails adults with ADHD, how behavioral science explains motivation problems, and why immediate consequences matter far more than distant rewards. We also examine emotional regulation, shame, identity, values-based treatment approaches, and the role of environmental engineering in improving daily functioning.Dr. Knouse also breaks down how CBT for ADHD differs from general CBT approaches, where medication helps — and where it often doesn't — and the practical systems that produce the greatest functional return for adults still struggling despite insight and motivation.Topics CoveredADHD as a disorder of executive functioning and self-regulationBarkley's model of time blindness and behavioral inhibitionWhy procrastination is often an emotional regulation problemThe neuroscience of motivation and immediate rewardsTask initiation and resistance despite intellectual understandingEnvironmental redesign and “niche picking”Common productivity-system failures in ADHDShame, self-criticism, and identity developmentValues clarification and sustainable behavior changeCBT interventions for adult ADHDMedication versus skills-based functioning supportsPractical systems that improve follow-through in everyday lifeAbout the GuestsLaura E. KnouseLaura E. Knouse, PhD, is a clinical psychologist and Professor of Psychology at the University of Richmond. She is a leading researcher in cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) for adult ADHD, with a particular focus on executive functioning deficits in college students and adults navigating independent living. Dr. Knouse trained in Russell Barkley's research lab and later completed clinical training in emerging CBT protocols for adult ADHD, contributing to the refinement and empirical testing of these interventions. Her work integrates executive function theory, behavioral science, and implementation strategies aimed at improving real-world functioning.Russell A. BarkleyRussell A. Barkley, PhD, is one of the most influential researchers in the field of ADHD and a pioneer in conceptualizing the disorder as a deficit in executive functioning and self-regulation. His work fundamentally reshaped contemporary understanding of ADHD as a neurodevelopmental condition rooted in impaired behavioral inhibition and time-based self-management. Dr. Barkley has authored numerous foundational texts, assessment tools, and evidence-based treatment guides used internationally in both clinical and research settings.

"I know what I need to do, but I don't trust that I'll do it when I need to do it." If that sentence lands, this conversation is for you. In this episode of Refined Leadership: ADHD Lens, I sit down with Dr. Russell Ramsay, one of the leading voices in adult ADHD and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. We talk about his new book, Once I Get Started, and the cognitive theme he believes runs beneath much of adult ADHD: self-mistrust. This is not a productivity conversation. It is a conversation about what actually happens between knowing what to do and doing it — and why that gap shows up so often for capable, high-performing professionals. What we explore: Self-mistrust as a possible central cognitive theme of adult ADHD, and how it shapes self-worth, decisions, and follow-through Why ADHD is better understood as a performance problem than a knowledge problem Motivation as an emotion, and why deadline pressure stops being a sustainable strategy Self-regulatory efficacy: why some people disengage early, and what protects against it How thoughts, feelings, and behaviors operate as a braided cord rather than a linear chain People-pleasing, social capital, and why ADHD professionals may overestimate their relational debts Procrastivity, or productive procrastination — when it is adaptive, and when it is avoidance Taskidermy tasks: the items that keep reappearing on your to-do list without moving forward The SAP Method: Specific, Actionable, Pivot Points for getting unstuck How CBT for adult ADHD differs from CBT for depression or anxiety, and why the implementation focus matters Masking, intentional self-presentation, and the difference between coping and concealment This episode offers language for patterns that often go unnamed at work — and a more grounded way to think about why standard advice keeps falling short. About Dr. Russell Ramsay: Dr. Russell Ramsay is a psychologist who specializes in the assessment and psychosocial treatment of adult ADHD. He has lectured internationally, published widely, and authored six books on adult ADHD, including his most recent, Once I Get Started. He is a CHADD Hall of Fame inductee.   Pre-order Once I Get Started by Russell Ramsay, Ph.D.: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/783710/once-i-get-started-by-russell-ramsay-phd/     Connect with Cathy Rashidian: ReadySetChoose.com Resources: Adult ADHD Self-Report Scale (ASRS-v1.1) Symptom Checklist Instructions https://add.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/adhd-questionnaire-ASRS111.pdf  

While awareness around ADHD has grown considerably over the past few years, diagnosis remains low, particularly among adults. Now, a new guide to ADHD in Ireland specifically has hit the shelves.Joining Seán to discuss is Ailín Kennedy, an ADHD Coach from Ballinora, Cork and Mike McGrath-Bryan, a writer and journalist from Mallow, Cork. They are the co-authors of ‘Have I Got Your Attention? A Guide to Adult ADHD in Ireland'...

Are you a people-pleaser… or just terrified of letting people down?Hi! I'm Xena & I am a recovering people-pleaser.I cared so much about what other people thought of me & would prioritise the needs & desires of my friends, family or colleagues, above my own. And by doing this I was telling myself that my needs & what I wanted weren't as important... Further adding to my insecurities & lack of self-worth.  Overtime I became a chameleon - I didn't know who I was or what I really liked because I was always going along with everyone else. People pleasing is a pattern of thinking & doing things that prioritise what other people think over what we think - Sacrificing pleasing yourself in order to please others.   In this episode you'll learn: Why ADHDers people pleaseHow this pattern of behaviour impacts our ADHD symptomsHow we've got the idea of "people pleasing" all wrongWhere people pleasing comes from in our brain & how to change it LINKS TO MORE SUPPORT & OTHER GOOD SH*T:*Join Adulting with ADHD your ADHD toolbox & everything you need to work with your brain*Get our ADHD Coach in your pocket! + the ADHD Goal Setting Workbook (life planner tool)*12 Things I wished my Doctor had told me about Adult ADHD*Find out if you might be living with ADHD - Download Symptoms List*Check out Courses & Coaching with Xena*Learn, Inspire, Share & Connect inside our Facebook Community *Come hang out with me on Instagram!

Ever feel like friendships are way harder than they should be? In this conversation, I sit down with ADHD coach, educator, and author Caroline Maguire to unpack why so many neurodivergent adults struggle with connection—and what's actually going on beneath the surface. We explore the hidden patterns that keep us stuck, from people-pleasing to rejection sensitivity, and why “just be yourself” isn't always that simple.Caroline shares powerful insights from her new book on friendship skills for neurodivergent adults, helping us rethink what authentic connection really looks like. If you've ever questioned your relationships, felt like “too much,” or wondered why friendships don't stick, this episode will open your eyes—and give you hope for building connections that truly feel good.Episode Timeline Highlights[0:00] - The people-pleasing trap and why it sabotages authentic friendships[2:17] - Masking, confidence issues, and the cost of trying to fit in[5:20] - What actually fills your “social cup” (and why most advice gets it wrong)[8:23] - The impulsive friendship cycle and dopamine-driven connections[14:12] - What neurodivergent kids experience socially—and how it carries into adulthood[19:25] - Why ADHDers are more likely to be bullied and excluded[22:58] - How unhealthy friendship patterns continue into adult life[28:32] - Practical tools: autopilot friendships, body doubling, and social systems[35:33] - The difference between acquaintances, emerging friends, and real friendships[41:19] - Rejection sensitivity, emotional flooding, and how to interrupt the spiral[45:52] - What it really means when someone says “you're too sensitive”[49:49] - The ultimate friendship litmus test: how you feel after spending time togetherLinks & ResourcesCaroline Maguire, M.Ed., ACCG, PCC, is an internationally recognized expert in ADHD, social-emotional learning (SEL), and relationship development. She's the author of Why Will No One Play with Me? and Friendship Skills for Neurodivergent Adults (April 2026), focused on building authentic connections.A coach, educator, and speaker, Caroline developed a widely used SEL methodology to support emotional regulation, self-awareness, and social confidence. She also hosts The ADHD Social Playbook podcast.As a neurodivergent individual with ADHD, dyslexia, and learning differences, she brings both lived experience and professional expertise to her work.Her work has been featured in ADDitude, WebMD, and TODAY Parenting. She's also a TEDx speaker and keynote presenter at the International Conference on ADHD.Instagram/Linkedin @authorcarolinemAre you 18 or older with ADHD? Please help us collect data on adults with ADHD and bullying. In this less than 1-minute survey, you will also get $5 off of our store as a thank you > Bullying and ADHD https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScOsxgorpei-2tzFEk-USZSXe9xETzbZIHQ4KM7P2YwG6x-tw/viewform?pli=1Thank you for tuning into "SuccessFULL with ADHD." If this episode has im

Do simple decisions leave you feeling weirdly exhausted?In this episode, I'm talking about ADHD & decision fatigue. From standing in the kitchen unable to decide what to eat, to freezing over work tasks, emails, housework, or social plans… decision-making can feel so much harder when you have ADHD.In this episode, you'll learn:what decision fatigue actually iswhy ADHD can make decision-making more drainingwhat decision fatigue can look like in real lifehow shame, overwhelm & perfectionism can make choosing even harder6 Practical ways to support your brain & reduce decision fatigueIf you've ever felt frozen by too many choices or exhausted by “small” decisions, this episode is for you my friend!LOOKING FOR MORE SUPPORT?*Join Adulting with ADHD your ADHD toolbox & everything you need to work with your brain*Get our ADHD Coach in your pocket! + the ADHD Goal Setting Workbook (life planner tool)*12 Things I wished my Doctor had told me about Adult ADHD*Find out if you might be living with ADHD - Download Symptoms List*Check out Courses & Coaching with Xena*Learn, Inspire, Share & Connect inside our Facebook Community *Come hang out with me on Instagram!

Tired of ADHD strategies that don't work? Here's what actually does. FREE training here: https://programs.tracyotsuka.com/signup_____The hardest part of ADHD is not the symptoms themselves, but the shame story built around them?Dr. Shawn Horn is a licensed clinical psychologist and the author of Thrive Socially with Adult ADHD. Known as The Shame-Busting Psychologist, she helps adults understand the painful stories they have carried about being “too much,” “not enough,” or “bad at relationships.”Growing up, Shawn was constantly corrected for talking too much, interrupting, and not paying attention. She was placed in special education, misunderstood at school, and spent years believing those experiences meant something was wrong with her. It was not until much later, after earning her doctorate and looking back at her history, that ADHD finally made sense.In this episode, we talk about how shame gets attached to ADHD early, how those experiences shape identity, and why being misunderstood can turn into a lifelong story. We also get into rejection sensitivity, nervous system dysregulation, and why healing starts with changing the story you tell yourself.If you have spent years feeling like you were too much or not enough, this episode offers a different lens. You may not need a new personality. You may need a new story.Resources: Website: https://www.drshawnhorn.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drshawnhorn Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drshawnhorn YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/drshawnhorn LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-shawn-horn-2934347Send a Message: Your Name | Email | Message If this podcast helps you understand your ADHD brain, Shift helps you train it. Practice mindset work in just 10 minutes a day. Learn more at tracyotsuka.com/shiftInstead of Struggling to figure out what to do next? ADHD isn't a productivity problem. It's an identity problem. That's why most strategies don't stick—they weren't designed for how your brain actually works. Your ADHD Brain is A-OK Academy is different. It's a patented, science-backed coaching program that helps you stop fighting your brain and start building a life that fits.

PURCHASE THIS PODCOURSE! If you are a therapist or counselor looking for continuing education, check out my NBCC Approved $5 Podcourses and other continuing education offerings.Plus, get your first Podcourse half off. In this 60-minute NBCC-approved podcourse, I'm joined by Michelle Witte, RP, to explore how Cognitive Behavioral Therapy can be effectively adapted for adults with ADHD, especially when challenges with executive functioning interfere with insight, follow-through, and real-life change. We discuss how ADHD often presents beyond the common stereotypes, especially in adults and adolescents who may struggle with time blindness, disorganization, emotional dysregulation, task initiation, and inconsistent follow-through. We also explore why traditional CBT may fall short when it does not account for executive functioning difficulties, and how therapists can modify their approach to better support implementation, accountability, and sustainable progress. This training supports therapists in recognizing the cognitive, emotional, and behavioral patterns commonly associated with ADHD, understanding how executive functioning deficits affect treatment engagement, and applying practical CBT-based strategies that improve follow-through in everyday life. Our hope is that you'll walk away with fresh strategies you can integrate into your clinical work right away, and you can also earn one NBCC continuing education contact hour by completing this Podcourse.

Managing time with ADHD can feel like trying to hold water in your hands. You care, you're trying & yet somehow time still disappears, tasks take longer than expected & your calendar can start to feel like the enemy.In this episode, I'm sharing why managing time can be so tricky for ADHDers, what this looks like in real life & some of the things I personally do to manage my calendar.We cover:ADHD time blindness & why time can feel slipperyPlanning, prioritising & working memory strugglesDopamine, distraction & hyperfocusHow I set up my calendar to reduce stressWhy white space & visual tools matterThe mindset piece of time management Other episodes mentioned: #58 ADHD & Time Management#151 ADHD & Time Blindness LINKS TO GOOD SH*T:*Join Adulting with ADHD your ADHD toolbox & everything you need to work with your brain*Get our ADHD Coach in your pocket! + the ADHD Goal Setting Workbook (life planner tool)*12 Things I wished my Doctor had told me about Adult ADHD*Find out if you might be living with ADHD - Download Symptoms List*Check out Courses & Coaching with Xena*Learn, Inspire, Share & Connect inside our Facebook Community *Come hang out with me on Instagram!

Send us Fan MailWhat does it mean to have realistic expectations of a spouse with ADHD? How does gender play into how ADHD impacts a relationship? And what do accommodations actually look like—versus what do they not look like in a healthy marriage?This week Rebecca talks about her own diagnosis of ADHD with her father Keith (a pediatrician) and good friend Daniel Forsythe (a licensed psychotherapist who works with neurodiverse marriages frequently) to dig down to discuss what the evidence actually says is possible, the risk of “caregiver burnout”, and more as Rebecca picks the brains of the actual professionals so we can all land in an evidence-based place!THANKS TO OUR SPONSOR:To Heal or Harm: Scripture's Use as Poison or Medicine for Abuse Survivors by Dr. Steven Tracy. How to refute it when Bible verses are weaponized!TO SUPPORT US: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work (and get access to the book club!)And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Give to the Good Fruit Faith Initiative of the Bosko FoundationJoin our email list!LINKS MENTIONED: Study regarding impact of ADHD on women versus men in adulthoodWrite-up on how we falsely believe that ADHD is easier on womenStudy on how a messy home impacts women versus men's social standing and who we intrinsically believe is “responsible” for cleaningThe Marriage You Want bookIs It You, Me, or Adult ADHD? A more therapeutic book about counselling practices for marriages working with ADHD: Support the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books:The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves BetterThe Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great SexAnd she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.