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You've probably already walked by a stranger spreadeagled on the ground. Chances are that if you saw several people already offering assistance, you carried on walking by. That's due to what is known as the bystander effect. The bystander effect is a psychosocial phenomenon which typically crops up in emergency situations. It shows that the more other people are already intervening to help, the less likely we are to do so ourselves. On the other hand, the likelihood of stepping in increases when you're the only person present. How does psychology explain this phenomenon? What are some well-known examples? In under 3 minutes, we answer your questions! To listen to the latest episodes, click here: Why do some people believe in ghosts? What is the placebo effect and how does it work? Could chronoworking make you work more efficiently? A Bababam Originals podcast written and realised by Joseph Chance. First broadcast: 16/10/2022 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
fWotD Episode 3321: Types Riot Welcome to featured Wiki of the Day, your daily dose of knowledge from Wikipedia's finest articles.The featured article for Monday, 8 June 2026, is Types Riot.The Types Riot was the destruction of William Lyon Mackenzie's printing press and movable type by members of the Family Compact on June 8, 1826, in York, Upper Canada (now known as Toronto). The Family Compact was the ruling elite of Upper Canada who appointed themselves to positions of power within the Upper Canadian government. Mackenzie created the Colonial Advocate newspaper and published editorials in the paper that accused the Family Compact of incompetence and profiteering on corrupt practices, offending the rioters. It is not known who planned the riot, although Samuel Jarvis, a government official, later claimed he organized the event. On the evening of June 8, nine to fifteen rioters forced their way into the newspaper offices and destroyed property. During the event, Mackenzie's employees tried to get passersby to help stop the rioters. Bystanders refused to help when they saw government officials such as William Allan and Stephen Heward were watching the spectacle. When the rioters finished destroying the office, they took cases of type with them and threw them into the nearby bay.Mackenzie sued the rioters for the damage to his property and lost business opportunities. The civil trial attracted substantial media attention, with several newspapers denouncing the government officials who failed to stop the riot. A jury awarded Mackenzie £625 to be paid by the defendants, a particularly harsh settlement. He used the event to highlight abuses of the Upper Canada government during his first campaign for election to the Parliament of Upper Canada, for which he was ultimately successful. Reformers viewed Mackenzie as a martyr because of the destruction of his property, and he remained popular for several years. Historians identify the event as a sign of weakening Tory influence in Upper Canada politics.This recording reflects the Wikipedia text as of 00:41 UTC on Monday, 8 June 2026.For the full current version of the article, see Types Riot on Wikipedia.This podcast uses content from Wikipedia under the Creative Commons Attribution-ShareAlike License.Visit our archives at wikioftheday.com and subscribe to stay updated on new episodes.Follow us on Bluesky at @wikioftheday.com.Also check out Curmudgeon's Corner, a current events podcast.Until next time, I'm standard Nicole.
In Dumb Ass News, Chaz and AJ had a news report from Nebraska of a dog firing a shotgun at a woman from the back of a truck. (0:00) The Travelers Championship is less than 25 days away, but tournament director Nathan Grube sounds calm and excited to bring in 9 of the world's top 10 golfers. (3:27) Divorce attorney Meghan Freed was in studio with Chaz and AJ to talk with the Tribe about the petty and cruel things that are negotiated during the divorce proceedings. (18:30) Comedian Brian Blackmore was in studio, and shared the "light language" healer weirdos that are suddenly flooding social media. (27:19)
Was Kramer Wrong For Not Breaking Up A Confrontation He Witnessed? full 413 Tue, 26 May 2026 13:37:50 +0000 vDiU6HQO3AVeMUQ19beDKroegVrXCWqh advice,confrontation,bystander,bystanders,bystander effect,was i wrong,music,society & culture,news Kramer & Jess On Demand Podcast advice,confrontation,bystander,bystanders,bystander effect,was i wrong,music,society & culture,news Was Kramer Wrong For Not Breaking Up A Confrontation He Witnessed? Highlights from the Kramer & Jess Show. 2024 © 2021 Audacy, Inc. Music Society & Culture News https://player.amperwavepodc
10:05 – 10:22 (17mins) Michael Lettsthe Founder, President, and CEO of InVest USA, a national grassroots non-profit organization that is helping hundreds of communities provide thousands of bulletproof vests for their police forcesthrough educational, public relations, sponsorship, and fundraisingprograms.Bystander in serious condition after fatal shooting near White House checkpoint 10:41 – 10:56 (15mins) Weekly: Drew Thomas Allen Author: “For Christ and Country: the Martyrdom of Charlie Kirk” "Clinton Hoax, Obama Coup: The Declassified Story of the Trump–Russia Delusion”Host of ‘The Drew Allen Show’ podcast VP of client development at Publius PR & Editor of the Publius National Post.columnistSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this episode of the Tactical Living Podcast, hosts Coach Ashlie Walton and Sergeant Clint Walton talk about a reality that has fundamentally changed what it means to work in law enforcement (Amazon Affiliate) and emergency services today: being filmed — constantly, publicly, and often without context — and what that persistent scrutiny does to the mind over time. Body cameras. Bystander phones. Social media clips edited for outrage. The modern first responder operates in an environment where every decision, every word, and every reaction is potentially one viral moment away from becoming a national headline. This episode explores the psychological weight of that reality and what it is doing to the people who still show up anyway.
Steve Yates characterizes China as an opportunistic bystander in foreign policy regarding the Strait of Hormuz and Russia-Ukraine. He argues Beijing lacks the will or power to lead in resolving international crises effectively. (4/16)1950s WALLACE ID
Will a new bystander campaign by the police get more people to speak up for victims for molest and voyeurism? In this episode of The Usual Place, I chat with Ms Lim Shoon Yin, the executive director of Singapore women’s rights group Aware, about what holds bystanders back and what they can do. Also on the podcast is Dr Julia Lam, a forensic psychologist, who assesses people who have committed offences like sexual crimes. She studies impulse control disorder and behavioural addiction, among other areas. She explains why perpetrators cross the line and act on urges, despite knowing it’s a crime. Highlights (click/tap above): 1:51 Are more people reporting sexual assault? 4:20 Why do bystanders freeze? 6:01 Could you become a molester or voyeur? 9:15 Why perpetrators choose to cross the line 10:36 Why take the risk of getting caught in public? 13:42 How bystanders can safely intervene, if unsure 17:33 Perpetrators not deterred by warning announcements, posters 20:22 Do conservative societal attitudes contribute to such behaviour? 26:02 What victims need when they report harassment Host: Natasha Ann Zachariah (natashaz@sph.com.sg) Read Natasha’s articles: https://str.sg/iSXm Follow The Usual Place podcast on IG: https://str.sg/8KNT Follow Natasha on LinkedIn: https://str.sg/v6DN Filmed by: Studio+65 Edited by: Eden Soh, Hadyu Rahim & Amirul Karim Executive producer: Danson Cheong Producers: Natasha Ann Zachariah and Elizabeth Law Assistant producer: Stacey Ngiam Follow The Usual Place Podcast and get notified for new episode drops every Thursday: Channel: https://str.sg/5nfm Apple Podcasts: https://str.sg/9ijX Spotify: https://str.sg/cd2P YouTube: https://str.sg/theusualplacepodcast Feedback to: podcast@sph.com.sg --- Follow more ST podcast channels: All-in-one ST Podcasts channel: https://str.sg/wvz7 Get more updates: http://str.sg/stpodcasts --- Get The Straits Times app, which has a dedicated podcast player section: The App Store: https://str.sg/icyB Google Play: https://str.sg/icyX -- #tup #tuptrfSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Research by the Mental Health Foundation NZ suggests that half of bullying scenarios stop if a peer intervenes. But how can we teach our kids to be UPstanders - someone who intervenes when someone is being bullied - as opposed to BYstanders? Kylie Ryan has a clinical background in social work.Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details
Evan is joined by Jackson Katz is a globally recognized educator and author. His work has shaped how schools, workplaces, sports organizations, and the military address masculinity, harassment, and gender-based violence. On Monday, Katz spoke to a Saskatchewan audience about workplace harassment, focusing on what allows this harmful behavior to persist — and what organizations and individuals can do to stop it.
Today's local news and information update from Petersfield's Shine Radio. Hampshire County Council is under new political control for the first time in nearly 30 years. Mia has this weekend's sporting results from across the Petersphere. Bystanders can be lifesavers success. latest results from the East Hants Community Lottery. To share your news stories email team@shineradio.uk or call, text or WhatsApp 01730 555 500. You make it shine. Published at 4:58am on 11 May, 2026See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Today's local news and information update from Petersfield's Shine Radio. Hampshire County Council is under new political control for the first time in nearly 30 years. Mia has this weekend's sporting results from across the Petersphere. Bystanders can be lifesavers success. latest results from the East Hants Community Lottery. To share your news stories email team@shineradio.uk or call, text or WhatsApp 01730 555 500. You make it shine. Published at 4:58am on 11 May, 2026See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Singapore Police are urging the public: don’t look away. A new campaign encouraging people to report sexual crimes comes as cases of molestation, rape and offences involving minors all rose last year. So what’s driving the numbers, and how exactly can ordinary bystanders really make a difference? On The Big Story, Hongbin Jeong speaks to Claudia Tan, Journalist from The Straits Times, to find out more.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
An unedited version of Ep. 76 with comedian Sean Walsh. Now 20 mins longer!Seann Walsh has appeared on Live at the Apollo three times, The Wheel, 8 Out of 10 Cats, The Last Leg, The Stand Up Sketch Show, Alan Davies: As Yet Untitled, World's Most Dangerous Roads, Battle in the Box and Series 22 of I'm a Celebrity…Get Me Out of Here!, Strictly Come Dancing and just stared in I'm A Celebrity South Africa. Seann also hosts a trilogy of podcasts: Oh My Dog alongside Jack Dee, where they interview a special guest all about their relationships with their beloved dogs. Class Clown, which since its launch has cemented itself firmly up the charts. Seann's self-produced YouTube stand-up specials Back From The Bed, Kiss, and Seann Walsh is Dead, Happy Now? have together amassed over a million views, and cemented Seann's status as one of the best stand-up comedians in the country. Seann's acting credits include The Lovebox in Your Living Room, Clown, and The Bystanders, which won him the award for Best Actor (Feature Film) at the 2023 Sydney Science Fiction Film Festival. He also made his Shakespearean debut in 2024, playing Malvolio in Twelfth Night at Stafford Gatehouse, and 2024 also saw him take on the role of Yvan in a regional UK tour of the multi -award winning play ART directed by Iqbal Khan, earning Seann five star reviews for both plays.Seann Walsh is our guest in episode 580 of My Time Capsule and he chats to Michael Fenton Stevens about the five things he'd like to put in a time capsule; four he'd like to preserve and one he'd like to bury and never have to think about again .For tickets to Seann's tour and his podcasts, visit - https://www.seannwalsh.com .Follow Seann Walsh on Instagram: @seannwalsh .Follow My Time Capsule on Instagram: @mytimecapsulepodcast & Twitter/X & Facebook: @MyTCpod .Follow Michael Fenton Stevens on Twitter/X: @fentonstevens & Instagram @mikefentonstevens .Produced and edited by John Fenton-Stevens for Cast Off Productions .Music by Pass The Peas Music .Artwork by matthewboxall.com .This podcast is proud to be associated with the charity Viva! Providing theatrical opportunities for hundreds of young people .To support this podcast and get all episodes ad-free, please sign up here - https://mytimecapsule.supercast.com. All money goes straight into the making of the podcast. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode, I sit down with John David, a debut novelist whose first book The Bystander is already making waves in the thriller world. John shares what his career looked like long before fiction: spending decades in public relations, crisis communications, and ghostwriting and how writing has always been a thread running through his life.We talk about what it really takes to write a novel (spoiler: it's a lot of words and a lot of persistence), and how one real-life news story sparked the idea for his book. John walks us through his unique writing process, the challenges of staying motivated, and why pushing through self-doubt is one of the most important things a writer can do.He also gives an honest look at the publishing world—what it's like to face rejection, how hard it can be to get your work seen, and why he believes the industry is due for change. Whether you're a reader, an aspiring writer, or just someone who loves hearing how people step into something new, this conversation is full of insight and encouragement.To connect with John, visit https://byjohndavid.substack.com/Want to be a guest on Life Stories Podcast? Send Shara Goswick a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.joinpodmatch.com/lifestoriespodcast
Gender-based violence is happening throughout the Pacific but one thing that seems to be changing is how people react when they see it. While some people still stand by, afraid to get involved, others are speaking up and saying the violence is unacceptable. So how can you be a positive bystander without risking your own safety? Sistas Let's Talk speaks to three women about stepping in and defending victims of abuse. Debbie Kaore, GBV survivor Shamima Ali, CEO of the Fiji Women's Crisis Centre Susi Feltch-Malohifo'ou, Executive Director & Co-Founder, of Pacific Island Knowledge 2 Action Resources (PIC2AR) Listen on ABC Radio Australia
The Death of Jesus Coleton begins by grounding this moment in something deeply human: watching someone die changes you. He shares the memory of watching his grandfather pass away—the sights, the sounds, the emotions—and how it stayed with him. That kind of moment doesn't fade; it marks you. That's exactly what happens to the Roman centurion in this passage. He watches Jesus die, and it changes everything. For the first time in the Gospel account, a human being—an unlikely one at that—declares: “Surely this man was the Son of God!” (Mark 15:39) Up to this point, only God Himself has called Jesus His Son. Now a hardened Roman soldier sees it—and worships. Coleton's main idea: we are meant to be marked by the death of Jesus in the same way. And to help us see that, he draws out three realities revealed in Jesus' death. 1. God is Demonstrating His Love for Us What We See in the Text Coleton points to verses 16–32, where Jesus is: Mocked Beaten Spit on Lied about Crucified Insulted even while dying And who is doing this? Religious leaders (hypocrites) Soldiers (abusers) Criminals (rebels) Bystanders (mockers) His own executioners These are the people Jesus is dying for. “Christ died for the ungodly… While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” (Romans 5:6–8) “Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one's life for one's friends.” (John 15:13) Coleton's Main Point This is not just Jesus being loving—this is God demonstrating His love. God is showing, in the clearest possible way, what He feels about sinners—not after they clean themselves up, but while they are still broken, rebellious, and undeserving. Application You do not have to earn God's love. His love is not based on your behavior—it cannot be, or the cross makes no sense. He already loves you at your worst. Coleton presses into a common lie: We often believe God doesn't really love us. He traces this lie through Scripture: Genesis – The serpent convinces Adam and Eve that God is holding out on them. Numbers – Israel believes God is trying to harm them, not bless them. The Rich Young Ruler – He walks away from Jesus, not trusting His love. In every case, distrusting God's love leads to missing life. Key Insight The cross is meant to be a permanent marker in your life: God loves you this much. So when God leads, commands, or corrects—it is always coming from love, not control or cruelty. 2. God is Being Incredibly Merciful to Us What We See in the Text (vv. 33–37) Darkness covers the land Jesus cries out: “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” Jesus breathes His last These are not random მოვლენ—they are loaded with meaning. Coleton Connects This to the Bigger Story Exile from God's Presence In Genesis, sin leads to exile. Here, Jesus experiences that exile: “Why have you forsaken me?” Judgment Through Darkness In Exodus, darkness was a plague of judgment. Now darkness falls again—this time as Jesus bears judgment. The Bronze Serpent (Numbers 21:6–9) People sinned → were bitten → dying God said: Look at the symbol of judgment lifted up, and live Jesus connects this to Himself: “Just as Moses lifted up the snake… so the Son of Man must be lifted up…” (John 3:14–18) Coleton's Main Point Jesus is taking the full judgment and punishment for sin. Not part of it. Not most of it. All of it. Application Most Christians say: “Jesus died for my sins.” But Coleton challenges: we don't live like we believe that. We still think: “God is punishing me for that mistake.” “This bad thing happened because I sinned.” “I'm not sure God will forgive me this time.” But Coleton makes it clear: God already punished sin—fully—in Jesus. There is nothing left for you to pay. Quotes to Drive This Home “He lives for this… When you come to Christ for mercy… you are going with the flow of His deepest wishes.” — Dane Ortlund “I am a sinner… but my Savior has died for all my sins… His blood is sufficient.” — (Martin Luther, paraphrased) Key Insight Jesus is not reluctant to forgive you. He is eager. He went to the cross for this exact purpose. Coming to Him for forgiveness isn't bothering Him—it's receiving what He paid for. 3. God is Inviting Us Back Into His Presence What We See in the Text (vv. 37–38) “The curtain of the temple was torn in two from top to bottom.” What This Means That curtain represented separation: In Genesis, humanity is shut out of Eden In the Temple, God's presence is restricted behind a veil Only the high priest could enter—once a year But now? God tears the curtain Himself. “This was God's way of saying… the way is now open to approach Me.” — Timothy Keller Coleton's Main Point Through Jesus' death, God is inviting us back into His presence. The barrier is gone. The separation is over. The relationship is restored. Why This Matters Coleton explains: what we're really looking for in life is God Himself. He uses Blaise Pascal's insight: “All men seek happiness… but the infinite abyss can only be filled by God Himself.” We chase: Success Relationships Comfort Pleasure But none of it satisfies—because we were made for God's presence. Key Insight The torn curtain is God saying: “Everything you've been searching for is found in Me.” Conclusion: What Will You Do With This? Coleton brings it home with three diagnostic questions: Do you struggle to believe God truly loves you? Do you doubt that He could fully forgive you? Are you still trying to find life apart from Him? The cross answers all three: You are deeply loved You are fully forgiven You are invited in Now the question is: Will you receive it? Discipleship Group Questions Why do you think it's so hard for people (including yourself) to truly believe that God loves them? In what ways do you still act like you have to “pay” for your sin instead of trusting that Jesus already did? Which of the three truths (God's love, God's mercy, God's invitation) do you struggle to live in the most—and why? How does the image of the curtain being torn change the way you think about approaching God? What would it practically look like this week to “live marked” by the death of Jesus? Culture of Gospel Share this with someone in your life who doesn't know Jesus At the cross, Jesus willingly took the punishment we deserve and offered us the love we've been searching for our whole lives—proving that God isn't against us, but closer than we ever imagined.
This week at Skybreak Church, we concluded our One More series with an incredible sermon about the “Bystander Effect”, the more people around, the less likely anyone is to step up. And the same thing can happen in church. We are ambassadors for Christ, entrusted with a mission to build His Church and steward every gift He's given us for His glory. Pastor Danny reminds us that we are not called to just hear God's Word, but to be doers of His Word. You are not called to be a spectator. You are called to be a contributor. Join us Sundays at 9AM or 11AM! Join us for Good Friday at 7PM, and Easter Sunday at 9AM & 11AM - Like, Comment, and Subscribe for more messages on faith, discipleship, and following Jesus in everyday life. — If you accepted Christ we'd love to meet you! Click the link below to introduce yourself so we can help you along your faith journey! Click Here!
This week at Skybreak Church, we concluded our One More series with an incredible sermon about the “Bystander Effect”, the more people around, the less likely anyone is to step up. And the same thing can happen in church. We are ambassadors for Christ, entrusted with a mission to build His Church and steward every gift He's given us for His glory. Pastor Danny reminds us that we are not called to just hear God's Word, but to be doers of His Word. You are not called to be a spectator. You are called to be a contributor. Join us Sundays at 9AM or 11AM! Join us for Good Friday at 7PM, and Easter Sunday at 9AM & 11AM - Like, Comment, and Subscribe for more messages on faith, discipleship, and following Jesus in everyday life. — If you accepted Christ we'd love to meet you! Click the link below to introduce yourself so we can help you along your faith journey! Click Here!
Today in the interrogation chair, it's debut author, John David. Check out THE BYSTANDER from the Tule Publishing Group, out now! This publicist turned thriller author has a killer story with an inspiration direct from a true event that occurred in Indiana. You're not going to want to miss it. Find out how David broke into the publishing world, his possible plans for attending writers conferences, and where he's at in his multi-book deal. Welcome to The Writer's Dossier! byjohndavid.com | thewritersdossier.com | Voice credit: Hillary Huber Get THE BYSTANDER: a.co/d/02DdCLFW | Insta: instagram.com/byjohndavid
-President Trump speaks about countries unwilling to join the U.S. in protecting the Strait of Hormuz and the threat of AI.-On Monday's "Ed Henry The Big Take," Ambassador to NATO Matthew Whitaker responds to UK Prime Minister Keir Starmer's reluctance to join the U.S. in reopening the Strait of Hormuz.-Democrats ignore their states' “ridiculous” fees and taxes while complaining about gas prices, says Carl Higbie, who offers solutions to help Americans at the pump.-Rob Finnerty discusses how leftist media frame domestic terror attacks as “individual events,” avoiding the bigger picture.-Rob Schmitt plays a 1987 clip of future President Trump on Iran, calling it “a nice reminder” to critics and former supporters.-Rep. Anna Paulina Luna joins "Rob Schmitt Tonight" to react to political games and legislative battles in D.C. Listen to Newsmax LIVE and see our entire podcast lineup at http://Newsmax.com/Listen Make the switch to NEWSMAX today! Get your 15 day free trial of NEWSMAX+ at http://NewsmaxPlus.com Looking for NEWSMAX caps, tees, mugs & more? Check out the Newsmax merchandise shop at : http://nws.mx/shop Follow NEWSMAX on Social Media: -Facebook: http://nws.mx/FB -X/Twitter: http://nws.mx/twitter -Instagram: http://nws.mx/IG -YouTube: https://youtube.com/NewsmaxTV -Rumble: https://rumble.com/c/NewsmaxTV -TRUTH Social: https://truthsocial.com/@NEWSMAX -GETTR: https://gettr.com/user/newsmax -Threads: http://threads.net/@NEWSMAX -Telegram: http://t.me/newsmax -BlueSky: https://bsky.app/profile/newsmax.com -Parler: http://app.parler.com/newsmax Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
What happens when a witness becomes part of the story?In this episode of Conversations with Rich Bennett, Rich sits down with award winning author John David to talk about his gripping debut novel The Bystander. The story follows television reporter Pete LeMaster, whose camera captures a shocking active shooter incident that quickly goes viral and launches his career. But as the story unfolds, the truth behind what happened becomes far more complicated than anyone expected.John shares how a real life event inspired the novel and how his 30 year career in public relations shaped his understanding of media narratives, public perception, and the power of a single moment caught on camera.In this episode you will learn:• The real world event that inspired The Bystander • How media narratives form and sometimes distort the truth • John David's journey from PR professional to award winning author • What it took to land a publishing deal and audiobook release • A sneak peek at the upcoming sequel The PawnResources mentioned in this episode:The Bystander by John David https://www.amazon.com https://www.barnesandnoble.com https://bookshop.org https://bijohndavid.comIf you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who loves great stories.Visit ConversationsWithRichBennett.com for more episodes and updates.Send a textMarch 6–13 Become a part of your local college radio station! WHFC exists because of you, our growing community of listeners. Your support allows us to keep training and entertaining, and we thank you. Donate at whfc911.orgSupport the showRate & Review on Apple Podcasts Follow the Conversations with Rich Bennett podcast on Social Media:Facebook – Conversations with Rich Bennett Facebook Group (Join the conversation) – Conversations with Rich Bennett podcast group | FacebookTwitter – Conversations with Rich Bennett Instagram – @conversationswithrichbennettTikTok – CWRB (@conversationsrichbennett) | TikTok Sponsors, Affiliates, and ways we pay the bills:Hosted on BuzzsproutSquadCast Subscribe by Email
Part of the Life From Death sermon series from John 19:23-27. This sermon was preached by David Shaw and is 30 minutes long.
From a mile-wide UFO over Arizona to the little girl who secretly named a planet, March 13 has always had something to hide. | The Morning Weird Darkness*No AI Voices Are Used In The Narration Of This Podcast*WeirdDarkness® is a registered trademark. Copyright ©2026, Weird Darkness.EPISODE PAGE: https://WeirdDarkness.com/MWD20260313NOTE: Some of this content may have been created with assistance from AI tools, but it has been reviewed, edited, narrated, produced, and approved by Darren Marlar, creator and host of #WeirdDarkness — who, despite popular conspiracy theories, is NOT an AI voice.
Charles Vallow tried to get help. He reached out to Lori's family. He documented her threats. He told police he was afraid.Nobody intervened. Five months later, he was dead.This is Part 4 of "The Chosen Ones," our psychological examination of spiritual abuse and religious trauma through the Vallow-Daybell case. Today we analyze why people watch abuse unfold in high control religion and don't act — the psychology of complicity, loyalty, and the conviction that faithful people don't do terrible things.Melanie Gibb was Lori's best friend. She was the last person to see JJ alive. She heard Chad Daybell's zombie doctrine, participated in castings, knew the children were missing — and accepted explanations until police called.Alex Cox was Lori's brother. According to prosecutors, he killed Charles, killed Tylee, killed JJ, and was involved in Tammy's death — all because he believed Chad Daybell's doctrine that they were zombies who had to be destroyed.Chad Daybell's children testified at his murder trial. They defended him.Everyone around Chad Daybell and Lori Vallow saw something. Most saw too late. Some never saw at all.This episode asks: When someone you love becomes dangerous, what do you do? And if you stay silent, are you protecting them — or complicit?Join Our SubStack For AD-FREE ADVANCE EPISODES & EXTRAS!: https://hiddenkillers.substack.com/Want to comment and watch this podcast as a video? Check out our YouTube Channel. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC8-vxmbhTxxG10sO1izODJg?sub_confirmation=1Instagram https://www.instagram.com/hiddenkillerspod/Facebook https://www.facebook.com/hiddenkillerspod/Tik-Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@hiddenkillerspodX Twitter https://x.com/TrueCrimePodThis publication contains commentary and opinion based on publicly available information. All individuals are presumed innocent until proven guilty in a court of law. Nothing published here should be taken as a statement of fact, health or legal advice.#ChadDaybell #LoriVallow #MelanieGibb #AlexCox #TrueCrimeToday #CultComplicity #Enablers #SpiritualAbuse #ReligiousTrauma #HighControlReligion
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For 25 years, Erin Blankenship has dedicated her life to preserving the stories of Holocaust survivors and educating the next generation. In this episode, we explore the Holocaust Museum & Cohen Education Center's newest permanent exhibit, the fight against rising antisemitism, and the power of becoming an "Upstander" in today's world.
Proverbs 28:17–20.Bystander effect, decisions, what you put into it is what you get out of it
In this episode, Natalia and Stephanie delve into the concept of the bystander effect, using the tragic case of Kitty Genovese as a focal point. They discuss the psychological factors that contribute to individuals' reluctance to intervene in emergencies, the societal implications of this phenomenon, and the importance of encouraging proactive behavior in crisis situations. The conversation emphasizes the moral responsibility of individuals to act and the potential impact of their actions on community safety.Instagram: @TilDeathDoUsPartPodcastTikTok: @tildeathdouspartpodFacebook: Natalia StephanieEmail: TilDeathDoUsPartPodcast@gmail.com#truecrime #truestory #truecrimecommunity #truecrimepodcast #indypodcast #TilDeathDoUsPartPodcast #TDDUP #DOBETTER #newepisode
“The reality is that there are power differentials between a student, a junior scholar and a full professor, or between a medical assistant, a patient, and a physician. But recognizing those power dynamics, if you are in a position of power, really using your privilege, your position as a gatekeeper to speak up and intervene or to give platform to folks that may have less access to power to intervene.”-Khadijah AmeenDrs. Khadijah Ameen and Collins Airhihenbuwa share their work on how to expand how we think about bystandersand perpetrators of racial violence, and how bystander behavioral approaches can be used to intervene. They bring in antiracism frameworks such as the Public Health Critical Race Praxis and the PEN-3 Cultural Model to illustrate their points using some antiracism bystander intervention scenarios.This episode references the article “Expanding Bystander Behavioral Approaches to Address Racial Violence in Health Research, Pedagogy, and Practice” by Khadijah Ameen and Collins Airhihenbuwa.
A hero bystander speaks out in Rhode Island after a parent opens fire Monday inside a crowded high school hockey arena and is tackled by people in the stands. A Cherokee County jury convicts a Georgia man of murder after prosecutors say he waited outside in a bulletproof vest and shot a father arriving for his very first visit with his child. Drew Nelson reports.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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In Episode 144 of SITREP, CannCon and Alpha Warrior open with sponsor highlights before diving into a heated and wide-ranging discussion that blends culture, courage, and controversy. A viral video of a young woman performing CPR while bystanders stand idle sparks a conversation about the “bystander effect,” moral responsibility, and the erosion of instinctive leadership in crisis moments. From there, the hosts shift into a sharp debate over Thomas Massie's recent comments on the Epstein files, DOJ redactions, and whether political theater is at play. They dissect interview clips, question narrative framing, and examine the legal and strategic implications surrounding ongoing investigations. The conversation expands into executive power, constitutional limits, and speculation about what may unfold before 2028. Blunt, analytical, and unapologetically opinionated, this episode captures SITREP at its core: two veterans breaking down current events through experience, instinct, and hard-edged debate.
Do you ever find yourself minimizing your own needs, and/or feeling responsible for others' emotions?Do you tend to stay quiet to keep the peace, or freeze during conflict?Have you ever struggled with boundaries or wondered why standing up for yourself feels so hard?Here we explore a family dynamic that can be just as damaging for what doesn't happen as for what does. If there was a volatile parent in your house and a more passive one (or if that's the dynamic you're in as a parent right now, with your own children), you'll want to hear this.This conversation goes beyond obvious abuse and into the invisible wounds: the confusion of not knowing who will protect you, the way your body learns to brace, appease, or disappear, and how those early patterns quietly follow you into adult relationships.We also explore what healing can look like — not through blame, but through awareness. How do you grieve the protection you didn't receive? What does it take to stop replaying the bully–bystander dynamic in your partnerships, friendships, or inner world? If you've ever felt caught between harm and silence, this episode invites you to name the experience — and begin choosing something different.---Mentioned on this episode:One Million Rising (pro-democracy training): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4496VWDjwS0&t=19svioletlange.com/root -- to sign up & get Zoom link (or replay after Feb 12th). If you have questions, just email violet@violetlange.com. You can also check out her program for women directly at: Love, Integrated
Her Police Father Was Killed While On The Job: A Daughter's Voice, A Family's Fight, and a Mission to Help Others. Those words are not a headline to Tiffany Yant, they are the defining moment that reshaped her life. Tiffany is the daughter of Police Officer Ross Bartlett of the Ceresco Police Department in Nebraska, a veteran law enforcement officer who was killed in the line of duty during a traffic stop. Her Podcast appearance, and content shared for free on the Law Enforcement Talk Radio Show and Podcast website, also on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and most major podcast platforms. Tiffany is using her voice, through the Law Enforcement Talk Radio Show and Podcast, their Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Youtube, Facebook, Instagram,to tell her father's story, expose painful truths, and help other families who suffer unimaginable loss. The Law Enforcement Talk Radio Show and Podcast social media like their Facebook , Instagram , LinkedIn , Medium and other social media platforms. She recently appeared as a guest on the Law Enforcement Talk Radio Show and Podcast, where the free episode is available on the show's website as well as on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, and most major podcast platforms. “This isn't just about my dad,” Tiffany says. “It's about what happens to families after the lights fade, the headlines stop, and the systems fail.” Her Police Father Was Killed While On The Job: A Daughter's Voice, A Family's Fight, and a Mission to Help Others. Supporting articles about this and much more from Law Enforcement Talk Radio Show and Podcast in platforms like Medium , Blogspot and Linkedin . A Life of Service, A Line-of-Duty Death On April 12, 2024, Officer Ross Bartlett was conducting a traffic stop on southbound Highway 77, just south of Ceresco, Nebraska. He was seated in his patrol car when a pickup truck struck his vehicle from behind, forcing it into the car he had stopped. Bystanders immediately rushed in, attempting life-saving measures. Officer Bartlett was airlifted to Bryan Health West Campus, where he later succumbed to his injuries. The driver of the stopped vehicle suffered non-life-threatening injuries. Available for free on the Law Enforcement Talk Radio Show and Podcast website, also on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Youtube and most major Podcast networks. Investigators later determined the pickup truck driver was driving distracted. “My father was doing his job, protecting others,” Tiffany said during the podcast. “He never made it home.” Her Police Father Was Killed While On The Job: A Daughter's Voice, A Family's Fight, and a Mission to Help Others. The driver was charged with felony motor vehicle homicide. On Oct. 29, 2025, a Lancaster County District Court judge found him guilty after he changed his plea from not guilty to no contest. He was sentenced to more than two years in jail, and his driver's license was revoked for two years. Look for The Law Enforcement Talk Radio Show and Podcast on social media like their Facebook , Instagram , LinkedIn , Medium and other social media platforms. Thirty Years of Service, and a Family Left Behind Officer Bartlett dedicated 30 years to law enforcement, serving seven years with the Ceresco Police Department, while also working concurrently for seven years as an investigator with the Nebraska Department of Correctional Services. His career included service with the Valentine Police Department, Boone County Sheriff's Office, Madison Police Department, Madison County Sheriff's Office, and Newman Grove Police Department. Beyond policing, he also served as a volunteer firefighter with the Ceresco Fire Department. “My dad lived a life of service,” Tiffany said. “He gave everything to his community.” But according to Tiffany, when her family needed support the most, it never came. “The Ceresco Police Department totally dropped the ball in assisting our family,” she said. “And they still do.” Her Police Father Was Killed While On The Job: A Daughter's Voice, A Family's Fight, and a Mission to Help Others. Available for free on their website and streaming on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Youtube and other podcast platforms. From Personal Tragedy to Purpose Out of profound death and loss, Tiffany Yant turned pain into purpose. She is now the Chief Operating Officer of GIVE BLUE HOPE, a Non-Profit 501(c)(3) charitable organization with a clear and urgent mission. GIVE BLUE HOPE exists to help bridge the financial gap for the immediate families of Law Enforcement Officers, Corrections Officers, and First Responders who are feloniously assaulted and killed in the line of duty. “When an officer is killed, benefits don't arrive overnight,” Tiffany explained. “Families still have mortgages, groceries, funerals, and bills, right now.” The organization's charitable gifts are not meant to replace pensions or benevolent benefits, but to support families during the critical months before those benefits are awarded. “We step in when families are at their most vulnerable,” she said. “That gap can be devastating.” It is discussed across News platforms and shared on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, Apple, and Spotify, where true crime audiences continue to get their content. Sharing the Story Across Media Platforms Tiffany continues to share her father's story and the mission of GIVE BLUE HOPE across Social Media, including The Law Enforcement Talk Radio Show and Podcast's Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn and other locations. Her Police Father Was Killed While On The Job: A Daughter's Voice, A Family's Fight, and a Mission to Help Others. Her appearance on the Law Enforcement Talk Radio Show is part of that effort, to educate the public, hold systems accountable, and ensure fallen officers are never reduced to statistics. “If telling my dad's story helps one family survive what we went through,” Tiffany said, “then his death won't be in vain.” You can find the show on Facebook, Instagram, Pinterest, X (formerly Twitter), and LinkedIn, as well as read companion articles and updates on Medium, Blogspot, YouTube, and even IMDB. Looking Forward GIVE BLUE HOPE is actively seeking to partner with other organizations that share the same vision: standing beside the families of fallen heroes when they need it most. “We're stronger together,” Tiffany emphasized. “And these families deserve nothing less.” Her Police Father Was Killed While On The Job, but his legacy lives on through his daughter's voice, her advocacy, and a mission born from sacrifice, love, and unwavering resolve. You can contact John J. “Jay” Wiley by email at Jay@letradio.com , or learn more about him on their website . Find a wide variety of great podcasts online at The Podcast Zone Facebook Page , look for the one with the bright green logo. Be sure to check out our website . Be sure to follow us on X , Instagram , Facebook, Pinterest, Linkedin and other social media platforms for the latest episodes and news. Background song Hurricane is used with permission from the band Dark Horse Flyer. 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Time to sign the black book as we kick off a month of folk horror talking The VVitch, the directorial debut of Robert Eggers. Mary Beth McAndrews (director of Bystanders) returns to discuss the plights of being the eldest sibling, religious oppression, Egger's attention to detail, and the ascension of genre royalty Anya Taylor-Joy. Wouldst though like to live deliciously?!New episodes drop every Tuesday, subscribe so you don't miss out. Rate us 5 stars while you're at it! Enter The Phantom Zone to access all sorts of bonus goodies like our monthly side show "Watching the Watchlist", movie commentaries, and polls to help shape the podcast: https://patreon.com/spectercinema Haunt Mary Beth on social media:BlueskyInstagramSubstackHaunt Garrett on social media:TikTokTwitterBlueskyInstagramLetterboxdYouTubeHaunt DeVaughn on social media:BlueskyTwitterTikTokInstagramLetterboxdYouTubeSpecter Cinema Club Original Theme by Andrey Kinnard
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Federal agents shot and killed Alex Pretti in broad daylight in Minneapolis. Bystanders captured it all on video. And yet, in the face of clear, public evidence, the U.S. government immediately began lying — again. This episode is not a full breakdown of the lies. That proof is everywhere already. This is a moral reckoning. Because this is happening in my city — to people I love — and it's part of a much darker pattern. A year of state violence. A year of slander. A year of lies. What happens when a government kills its own citizens… and then lies to cover it up? What happens when truth no longer matters — only power? This is the moment we've been warning about. And we have to decide who we are.
Revelation is often treated as a puzzle box about the future, but at its heart, it is a wake-up call for the present. It was written to seven real churches that were struggling with compromise, exhaustion, and cultural pressure—much like a student in the middle of a busy semester. In the New Year, we don't just need better habits; we need a better vision. Revelation "unveils" the reality of Jesus so that we can recommit to the things that truly matter: our walk with Him, our life with each other, and our light to the world.
In the early hours of March 13, 1964, twenty-eight-year-old Kitty Genovese returned home from work and parked her car in a lot near her Queens apartment, completely unaware that someone was following her. As she approached the door to her apartment building, Kitty's stalker ran up behind her and stabbed her in the back twice before being scared off by a neighbor who yelled from his window. Wounded, Kitty managed to get to the back of the building, but her attacker soon returned and brutally assaulted her. By the time an ambulance arrived an hour later, it was too late; Kitty Genovese died before she reached the hospital.Kitty's murder and the arrest of her killer, Winston Moseley, were quickly overshadowed by what were believed to be the facts of the attack, primarily the widely held belief that at least thirty-eight neighbors had seen the assault or heard Kitty's cries for help and did nothing. Despite there having been no evidence to support that belief, the narrative quickly became about urban apathy, with the death of a Queens bartender merely a footnote. The murder of Kitty Genovese is one of the most notorious violent crimes in modern American history—not because of the details or circumstances of the crime, but because of the legend and mythology that has built up around it.ReferencesCook, Kevin. 2014. Kitty Genovese: The Murder, the Bystanders, the Crime that Changed America. New York, NY: W.W. Norton & Company.Gallo, Marcia M. 2014. "The Parable of Kitty Genovese, the New York Times, and the Erasure of Lesbianism." Journal of the Hisotry of Sexuality 273.Gansberg, Martin. 1964. "37 who saw murder didn't call the police." New York Times, March 27: 1.New York Times. 1964. "Queens man seized in death of 2 women." New York Times, March 20: 21.Pearlman, Jeff. 2004. "'64 murder lives in heart of woman's 'friend'." Chicago Tribune, March 12: 4.Peltz, Jennifer. 2015. Kitty Genovese Killer Denied Parole in Notorious 1964 Case . November 17. Accessed January 9, 2026. https://www.nbcnewyork.com/news/local/kitty-genovese-killer-denied-parole-notorious-1964-stabbing-new-york-city/1274332/.Roberts, Sam. 2020. "Sophia Farrar dies at 92; belied indifference to Kitty Genovese." New York Times, September 10.Rosenthal, Abe. 1964. "Apathy is puzzle in queens killing." New York Times, March 28: 21. —. 1964. "Study of the Sickness called apathy." New York Times, May 3: 24.Simon, Scott. 2016. The Witness' Tells A Different Story About The Kitty Genovese Murder. May 28. Accessed January 9, 2026. https://www.npr.org/2016/05/28/479824705/-the-witness-tells-a-different-story-about-the-kitty-genovese-murder. Cowritten by Alaina Urquhart, Ash Kelley & Dave White (Since 10/2022)Produced & Edited by Mikie Sirois (Since 2023)Research by Dave White (Since 10/2022), Alaina Urquhart & Ash KelleyListener Correspondence & Collaboration by Debra LallyListener Tale Video Edited by Aidan McElman (Since 6/2025) Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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Was Kevin Franke a victim of psychological manipulation — or a bystander who found it easier not to look too closely? In this gripping Hidden Killers deep dive, Tony Brueski and psychotherapist Shavaun Scott analyze one of the most troubling dynamics explored in Hulu's Devil in the Family: a father who insists he never recognized the abuse happening under his own roof. The episode begins with the psychology of Kevin's denial. How does a spouse convince themselves that extreme parenting is “discipline” rather than danger? Shavaun Scott breaks down the mechanisms of thought-reform, coercive influence, and the slow erosion of intuition. And then the most haunting question of all: what makes a father step away from his own children for an entire year because an outside “guru” told him to? But the story doesn't end with the collapse of the Franke family. Kevin recently announced his engagement, just six months after finalizing his divorce from Ruby — who is now serving a possible 30-year prison sentence for aggravated child abuse. The public reaction has been split: is this healing, deflection, or strategic rebranding? Tony and Shavaun examine the psychology of rapid re-partnering after trauma, the desire to rewrite personal identity, and the fine line between moving forward and bypassing accountability. We also explore Kevin's recent support of Utah's new “child influencer” law — a step toward protecting children exploited in monetized online content. His testimony was powerful, but does it reconcile the years he stood behind a camera while harmful parenting was broadcast to millions? This episode asks the hardest questions: Was Kevin controlled — or complicit? Is he rebuilding — or rebranding? And what does accountability look like for the children who had no choice? #KevinFranke #RubyFranke #8Passengers #HiddenKillers #PsychologicalAbuse #DevilInTheFamily #ParentalAccountability #TrueCrimeAnalysis #TonyBrueski #ShavaunScott Want to comment and watch this podcast as a video? Check out our YouTube Channel. https://www.youtube.com/@hiddenkillerspod Instagram https://www.instagram.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Tik-Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@hiddenkillerspod X Twitter https://x.com/tonybpod Listen Ad-Free On Apple Podcasts Here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/true-crime-today-premium-plus-ad-free-advance-episode/id1705422872
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Was Kevin Franke a victim of psychological manipulation — or a bystander who found it easier not to look too closely? In this gripping Hidden Killers deep dive, Tony Brueski and psychotherapist Shavaun Scott analyze one of the most troubling dynamics explored in Hulu's Devil in the Family: a father who insists he never recognized the abuse happening under his own roof. The episode begins with the psychology of Kevin's denial. How does a spouse convince themselves that extreme parenting is “discipline” rather than danger? Shavaun Scott breaks down the mechanisms of thought-reform, coercive influence, and the slow erosion of intuition. And then the most haunting question of all: what makes a father step away from his own children for an entire year because an outside “guru” told him to? But the story doesn't end with the collapse of the Franke family. Kevin recently announced his engagement, just six months after finalizing his divorce from Ruby — who is now serving a possible 30-year prison sentence for aggravated child abuse. The public reaction has been split: is this healing, deflection, or strategic rebranding? Tony and Shavaun examine the psychology of rapid re-partnering after trauma, the desire to rewrite personal identity, and the fine line between moving forward and bypassing accountability. We also explore Kevin's recent support of Utah's new “child influencer” law — a step toward protecting children exploited in monetized online content. His testimony was powerful, but does it reconcile the years he stood behind a camera while harmful parenting was broadcast to millions? This episode asks the hardest questions: Was Kevin controlled — or complicit? Is he rebuilding — or rebranding? And what does accountability look like for the children who had no choice? #KevinFranke #RubyFranke #8Passengers #HiddenKillers #PsychologicalAbuse #DevilInTheFamily #ParentalAccountability #TrueCrimeAnalysis #TonyBrueski #ShavaunScott Want to comment and watch this podcast as a video? Check out our YouTube Channel. https://www.youtube.com/@hiddenkillerspod Instagram https://www.instagram.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Tik-Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@hiddenkillerspod X Twitter https://x.com/tonybpod Listen Ad-Free On Apple Podcasts Here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/true-crime-today-premium-plus-ad-free-advance-episode/id1705422872
True Crime Psychology and Personality: Narcissism, Psychopathy, and the Minds of Dangerous Criminals
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Is Your LinkedIn Personal Branding Built for Buyers or Bystanders? "Respectfully, you are not my audience." Performance coach Giselle Ugarte said that on a recent episode of the Sales Gravy Podcast, and it might be the most liberating thing you'll hear about LinkedIn personal branding this year. Because somewhere between building your profile and hitting publish on that post, you've started making decisions based on what your college roommate might think. Or your former boss. Or yes, your mom. The hard truth? None of them are writing you commission checks. The Real Reason Your LinkedIn Personal Branding Falls Flat You've heard "be authentic" and "show up as yourself" so often that the advice has lost all meaning. So you end up in a strange middle ground where you're not polished enough to impress executives and not human enough to connect with actual buyers. Your LinkedIn personal branding suffers because you're creating content for ghosts. People who will never hire you, never refer you, never sign a contract. You're worried about the wrong audience, and that hesitation shows up in every word you type. Think about the last post you almost published but didn't. What stopped you? Probably not a legitimate business concern. More likely, you had a flash of "what will people think?" and that voice didn't belong to your ideal client. It belonged to someone in your network who wouldn't buy from you if you were the last salesperson on earth. Who Your LinkedIn Content Is Really For Your LinkedIn personal branding should speak to three groups: Current clients Prospective clients People who can refer you to clients That's it. Everyone else is background noise. When you post about closing a tough deal, your brother who works in IT might think you're bragging. Your client, who fought through the same challenge, is nodding in agreement. When you share a lesson from a deal that went sideways, your high school friend might wonder why you're airing dirty laundry. Your prospect is realizing you understand their world. The disconnect happens because you're trying to serve two masters. You want to build real relationships with buyers while also maintaining some imaginary professional image for people who have zero impact on your business. The Transform 20: LinkedIn Personal Branding That Actually Works If you're going to shift your LinkedIn personal branding from performative to productive, you need a system. Not another "post three times a week" generic advice pile, but something that forces you to focus on real humans instead of vanity metrics. Giselle's practical framework, Transform 20, breaks down into four daily actions, each designed to build actual relationships: Connect with 5 new people. Not random connections. People you met this week, people on your calendar, people who recognize your face. Every request should feel familiar to them. Send 5 meaningful messages. Check in. Reference something personal. End with a question. “Let me know” is where leads go to die. Meaningful DMs teach the algorithm who matters to you — and who should see your content. Leave 5 meaningful comments. Two to three sentences. Add context. Reintroduce yourself if needed. A thoughtful comment builds more trust than another like or emoji ever will. Record 5 one-to-one videos. Sixty seconds or less. “Hey, I was thinking about you because…” It's a pattern interrupt in an inbox full of text and one of the fastest ways to stand out. This is where confidence compounds. Twenty actions. Most people won't do it because it feels like work. But if you woke up to 20 qualified leads tomorrow, would that change your business? That's what you're building here. What Your LinkedIn Profile Should Actually Show Buyers want to know you're a real person. That you have a family, hobbies, interests, failures, and lessons. That you care about something besides your quota. If you blur your Zoom background because you think it's more professional, you're missing an opportunity. Let them see the bookshelf, the Peloton, the framed photo. These details give people something to ask about and a reason to remember you. The same goes for your LinkedIn headline. Yes, include your title. But also include the detail that creates connection. "Mom of four," or "Proud Michigan alum," or whatever matters to you and might matter to them. Make it easier for people to find common ground with you. Stop Creating Content for People Who Will Never Buy You already know who matters: current clients, prospective clients, and people who can refer you to clients. Your former colleague who always has something snarky to say about your posts? They've never sent you a referral. Your friend from college who thinks sales is beneath them? They're not signing contracts. Your family member who wants you to be more buttoned up? They're not in your market. Have the clarity to know that you can't build an effective LinkedIn personal branding presence while trying to please everyone. You'll end up pleasing no one, least of all the people who could actually benefit from working with you. You cannot build effective LinkedIn personal branding while trying to please people who don't impact your business. Before you write that post or record that video, remind yourself: someone would be lucky to hear from me today. You have something valuable to offer — and the courage to show up as a real human. The salespeople winning on LinkedIn aren't the most polished. They're the most human. They make it easier for the right people to decide they want to work with them. Send the videos. Start the conversations. Show up as the person your clients actually want to buy from. That's how you win on LinkedIn — and everywhere else. Want the full LinkedIn playbook? Buy The LinkedIn Edge by Jeb Blount and Brynne Tillman. It's packed with non-negotiables that will turn your profile into a pipeline-building machine.
Is Your LinkedIn Personal Branding Built for Buyers or Bystanders? "Respectfully, you are not my audience." Performance coach Giselle Ugarte said that on a recent episode of the Sales Gravy Podcast, and it might be the most liberating thing you'll hear about LinkedIn personal branding this year. Because somewhere between building your profile and hitting publish on that post, you've started making decisions based on what your college roommate might think. Or your former boss. Or yes, your mom. The hard truth? None of them are writing you commission checks. The Real Reason Your LinkedIn Personal Branding Falls Flat You've heard "be authentic" and "show up as yourself" so often that the advice has lost all meaning. So you end up in a strange middle ground where you're not polished enough to impress executives and not human enough to connect with actual buyers. Your LinkedIn personal branding suffers because you're creating content for ghosts. People who will never hire you, never refer you, never sign a contract. You're worried about the wrong audience, and that hesitation shows up in every word you type. Think about the last post you almost published but didn't. What stopped you? Probably not a legitimate business concern. More likely, you had a flash of "what will people think?" and that voice didn't belong to your ideal client. It belonged to someone in your network who wouldn't buy from you if you were the last salesperson on earth. Who Your LinkedIn Content Is Really For Your LinkedIn personal branding should speak to three groups: Current clients Prospective clients People who can refer you to clients That's it. Everyone else is background noise. When you post about closing a tough deal, your brother who works in IT might think you're bragging. Your client, who fought through the same challenge, is nodding in agreement. When you share a lesson from a deal that went sideways, your high school friend might wonder why you're airing dirty laundry. Your prospect is realizing you understand their world. The disconnect happens because you're trying to serve two masters. You want to build real relationships with buyers while also maintaining some imaginary professional image for people who have zero impact on your business. The Transform 20: LinkedIn Personal Branding That Actually Works If you're going to shift your LinkedIn personal branding from performative to productive, you need a system. Not another "post three times a week" generic advice pile, but something that forces you to focus on real humans instead of vanity metrics. Giselle's practical framework, Transform 20, breaks down into four daily actions, each designed to build actual relationships: Connect with 5 new people. Not random connections. People you met this week, people on your calendar, people who recognize your face. Every request should feel familiar to them. Send 5 meaningful messages. Check in. Reference something personal. End with a question. “Let me know” is where leads go to die. Meaningful DMs teach the algorithm who matters to you — and who should see your content. Leave 5 meaningful comments. Two to three sentences. Add context. Reintroduce yourself if needed. A thoughtful comment builds more trust than another like or emoji ever will. Record 5 one-to-one videos. Sixty seconds or less. “Hey, I was thinking about you because…” It's a pattern interrupt in an inbox full of text and one of the fastest ways to stand out. This is where confidence compounds. Twenty actions. Most people won't do it because it feels like work. But if you woke up to 20 qualified leads tomorrow, would that change your business? That's what you're building here. What Your LinkedIn Profile Should Actually Show Buyers want to know you're a real person. That you have a family, hobbies, interests, failures, and lessons. That you care about something besides your quota. If you blur your Zoom background because you think it's more professional, you're missing an opportunity. Let them see the bookshelf, the Peloton, the framed photo. These details give people something to ask about and a reason to remember you. The same goes for your LinkedIn headline. Yes, include your title. But also include the detail that creates connection. "Mom of four," or "Proud Michigan alum," or whatever matters to you and might matter to them. Make it easier for people to find common ground with you. Stop Creating Content for People Who Will Never Buy You already know who matters: current clients, prospective clients, and people who can refer you to clients. Your former colleague who always has something snarky to say about your posts? They've never sent you a referral. Your friend from college who thinks sales is beneath them? They're not signing contracts. Your family member who wants you to be more buttoned up? They're not in your market. Have the clarity to know that you can't build an effective LinkedIn personal branding presence while trying to please everyone. You'll end up pleasing no one, least of all the people who could actually benefit from working with you. You cannot build effective LinkedIn personal branding while trying to please people who don't impact your business. Before you write that post or record that video, remind yourself: someone would be lucky to hear from me today. You have something valuable to offer — and the courage to show up as a real human. The salespeople winning on LinkedIn aren't the most polished. They're the most human. They make it easier for the right people to decide they want to work with them. Send the videos. Start the conversations. Show up as the person your clients actually want to buy from. That's how you win on LinkedIn — and everywhere else. Want the full LinkedIn playbook? Buy The LinkedIn Edge by Jeb Blount and Brynne Tillman. It's packed with non-negotiables that will turn your profile into a pipeline-building machine.
NYU Student Amelia Lewis calls in to share her traumatic experience of being attacked on a Monday morning while walking near Broadway and Waverly Place. She describes how a middle-aged man hit her, pulled her hair, and threw her to the ground in broad daylight, leaving her in shock and fear. Bystanders quickly came to her aid, and she reported the incident to the police. Despite still being in shock and dealing with ongoing police and court proceedings, Amelia hopes to raise awareness about safety issues and the need for increased security, especially for young women in the city. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices