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Kathy breaks down this week's episodes, reveals behind-the-scenes stories, explains what you might've missed, and tells you what's worth listening to and why. Tune in to hear all about Julie's wild Q&A and why Kathy wound up calling her a sick fuck, how Shayna Smokeshow went from religious and vanilla to hotwifing and sex parties, why Mr. Maverick prefers couple swapping and group play over hotwifing, Zach's years of cheating and the crazy reason he was forced to confess to his wife, how Gangbang Christine wound up marrying the guy she met at her gangbang and why she might need a new nickname, Julie turning the tables and interviewing Kathy about BDSM, kink and her slutty past, Dr. Willow on peptides, hormones, sexual energy and more, a sneak peek at Sunday's Q&A with Adam, why Kathy once wound up getting death threats from Opie & Anthony listeners, a hilarious Fuck, Marry, Kill involving Dr. Drew, Joe DeRosa and one of Kathy's cheating ex-boyfriends plus a whole lot more. GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd or Get the audiobook version here: Strictly Anonymous ConfessionsSecret Sex Lives of Total Strangers To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://beduc.at/pd2630-anonymous Click here to take the quiz and get your personalized SUMMER roadmap to sexual happiness https://VB.HEALTH- To get 10% off DRIVE BOOST by VB Health, use code: STRICTLY https://bluechew.com — Buy 2 months of Bluechew GOLD and get the third month FREE! Use code: STRICTLYANON Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ X https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else: https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Julie interviewed Kathy on kink, BDSM, her slutty past and so much more for her podcast and this is the convo. Tune in to hear all the details including what Kathy was really like during her slutty years and what was behind some of her behavior, how much she knew about BDSM and kink before starting the podcast and where she learned everything she knows now, what BDSM means to her and why it's about so much more than pain, why she'd be more submissive than dominant and the kinky things she's really into, what she'd write on a dating or sex app and the naughty role play scenarios she digs, how she discovered she was into cuckqueaning and hotwifing and what happened that made her realize it, the fantasies she used to be too ashamed to act on and why she'd act on them now, how interviewing thousands of people has changed her sexually, the craziest fetish stories she's heard, what she's learned about sexual shame and why letting go of it can be so freeing plus a whole lot more. Check out her podcast her: Kink Me Slow GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd or Pre-order audiobook version here To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://beduc.at/pd2630-anonymous Click here to take the quiz and get your personalized SUMMER roadmap to sexual happiness https://VB.HEALTH- To get 10% off DRIVE BOOST by VB Health, use code: STRICTLY https://bluechew.com — Buy 2 months of Bluechew GOLD and get the third month FREE! Use code: STRICTLYANON Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ X https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else: https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
A gay, married couple journeyed to Montreal to enjoy the services of a tantric masseur. And they REALLY enjoyed him. But did this open Pandora's box? How can they continue to have earth-shattering, mind-blowing sex when it's back to the hum-drum two of them? A caller wonders if folks who enjoy adult baby play actually... well, actually shit themselves. The answer comes from Dan's guest, Fancy of the InTheNook podcast. The show champions "nuance, kink-positive education, and unfiltered queer realness" for those into ABDL. They have a great conversation about what fuels this maligned kink. On the Magnum, Dan chats with Atlantic writer Faith Hill, who covers dating, young adulthood, family, and social connection. Her latest piece, "The Great Romance Slump" digs in to why young people are forgoing sex and dating. She and Dan discuss the changes that have left us in this dismal place. They also discuss age gap relationships and the various other "gaps" that our culture eyes with suspicion. And, what makes a sexy foot? Are some feet sexier than others? Why? Dan answers. 206-302-2064 Q@Savage.Love This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit VB.Health when you use the code Savage. This episode is brought to you by Feeld- the dating app that so many Lovecast listeners are already using. Try Feeld's new feature “Reflections” now by visiting feeld.co/reflections or by downloading Feeld on the App Store or Google Play. Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From polyamory, to adult babies, tantric sex to BDSM and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since the 1800s.
There are times to be active, intentional and focused, and times to be more receptive, adaptable and open-minded — this week strongly emphasizes the need for the latter. The good news is, when we practice surrendering control in favor of open awareness and deep listening, we often receive important insights, and clarity that translates into the parts of our lives that require more focus and effort. What happens when you follow what your body knows?This week-ahead reading for Aug 24-30, 2026 is an excerpt from this week's Somatic Space class with Renee Sills. For the full-length forecast and embodied practice for this week, purchase the recording here.✨✨✨TOMORROW, AUG 25 — Saturn-Neptune in Aries: Kink/BDSM Practices + Lineages of Queer Resistance w/ Aziz Bisanz and guest facilitators Kim Calder & Elly HigginsThis session will explore personal and collective shame, related to the AIDS epidemic and the very long legacy of violence against queer and trans people worldwide that continues today. And Aziz, Kim & Elly will share how practices of BDSM and kink can support our personal and collective bodies in finding greater states of healing and liberation.
You can enjoy exclusive and intense erotic audio by grabbing your copy of the Wylde Erotic App on the Apple Store.This erotic story does contain graphic description of BDSM, domination, Bondage, Spanking and of course a damned hot cop! When Helen, a by-the-book young woman, decides to take a walk on the wild side, she never imagines the fiery passion it would ignite. What starts as an impulsive act of rebellion—stealing a lacy pair of underwear from a high-end boutique—turns into a whirlwind of forbidden desire and intense romance in "Bound by Desire," an erotic story that will leave you breathless.Helen's life had always been predictable. She was the good girl, the one who followed the rules. But on a spontaneous shopping trip with her best friend, she decides to indulge in a bit of mischief. With her heart pounding and adrenaline surging, she slips the delicate fabric into her bag. Little does she know, her daring act has caught the eye of a strikingly handsome young cop.Tall, muscular, with a smoldering gaze that could melt ice, he's everything Helen never knew she wanted. When he confronts her about the theft, the air between them crackles with an undeniable attraction. As he handcuffs her and takes her to the back room for questioning, the tension builds, and Helen realizes she's entered a world of dark and passionate desires."Bound by Desire" explores the tantalizing journey of Helen and Jake as they delve into a sensual and erotic romance.His authoritative nature awakens something primal in Helen, and she finds herself yearning for his control. What begins with a stolen pair of underwear soon evolves into a complex dance of power and submission, with him leading Helen into the seductive realms of bondage and spanking.Helen's transformation from a law-abiding citizen to a woman embracing her deepest desires is both thrilling and intoxicating. Under hs guidance, she discovers the pleasure of surrendering control, of being bound and spanked, each act intensifying their connection.Their relationship is a potent mix of discipline and desire, where every encounter pushes the boundaries of their lust. The hot cop with a dark side, finds himself captivated by Helen's willingness to explore the erotic unknown. Her innocence juxtaposed with her growing need for submission fuels his dominant instincts, and he takes pleasure in guiding her through a world of sensual exploration. Their chemistry is electric, each encounter more intense than the last, as they navigate the fine line between pleasure and pain."Bound by Desire" is not just an erotic story; it's a journey of self-discovery and liberation.Helen's experiences challenge her perceptions of right and wrong, ultimately leading her to embrace her true self. Their passionate romance is a testament to the transformative power of love and desire, where two souls find solace and excitement in each other's arms.Immerse yourself in this steamy, erotic story that combines the allure of bondage, the thrill of spanking, and the irresistible charm of a hot cop. "Bound by Desire" promises to take you on a tantalizing ride, where every page is filled with intense emotions and fiery passion. Get ready to be captivated by Helen dark and sensual romance—one that will linger in your fantasies long after you've turned the last page.
Trauma and kink have been linked for decades, but does the research actually support the idea that trauma causes people to become kinky?In this episode, we follow the evidence. We look at where the trauma theory came from, why early psychology was so focused on childhood experiences, how researchers actually study a question this complicated, and what the research has found. We also dig into why finding trauma among kinky people doesn't prove that trauma caused their kink, what larger reviews of BDSM research tell us, and where trauma may fit into someone's individual experience.The answer isn't a simple yes or no, and that's exactly what makes the science interesting.Is kink caused by trauma? Let's find out what we actually know.
We go balls out on this episode. Mike and Kyle talk about how castration has been used throughout history as both reward and punishment, the castration of gay men during the Holocaust, modern-day voluntary eunuchs, whether male-to-eunuch is a valid transgender identity, nullos on Grindr, chemical castration as a punishment, the castrati, and castration as BDSM play. In this episode: News- 3:24 || Main Topic (Castration)- 12:21 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:18:33 If you want to watch a video version of the podcast, you can find it on Spotify or on YouTube. We'll also be posting clips to our brand new TikTok. Plus, get access to tons of bonus video content and a weekly livestream of our full recording session if you're a $10+/mo member on Patreon. If you want to join Mike and Kyle on their 2027 Mexican Riviera cruise, visit gayishpodcast.com/cruise to sign up. Make sure to check Gayish as the podcast you're attending for. On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike tells Kyle about Alan Turing. If you want to support our show while getting ad-free episodes a day early, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast. Get the full scoop on all the exciting additions we've recently made to Patreon.
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Natalie shares a ton of incredible insights about her sexuality, relationships, power exchange, and personal growth in this beautiful conversation. She's been kinky her whole life and “officially” entered the kink scene when she went to college at age 18. She's also been exploring various relationship models including polyamory for the last few years and is currently 25 years old and in a triad with multiple significant age gaps. We're blown away by Natalie's intentionality, insight, and curiosity and we love how she sees life as one big experiment—and how embracing that mindset has helped her build fulfilling relationships and a deeper understanding of herself. As the Organizational Manager for the Kink Collective, Natalie fuels the mission of “People Before Kink” through strategic communication and community leadership. As a 2025 Northeast Regional Power Exchange titleholder, she works alongside co-founders Cat and Joshua to promote intentional exploration of sexuality and BDSM education worldwide. Professionally, she amplifies the collective's voice through dynamic social media content, event promotion, and ensuring every message is both approachable and community-centered. As a professional dominatrix and aspiring educator, Natalie combines integrity, clear communication, and confident leadership to expand the collective's reach while cultivating her own powerful footprint in the lifestyle. Check out the full show notes here. Join the most amazing community of open-minded humans on the planet! Click here to order your very own NNM shirt! $10 Off - Online STI Testing
Many of us assume that passion naturally fades with time and that the most exciting years of our sex lives are behind us. But what if that's simply a story we've been told? What if intimacy, pleasure, and desire can continue to grow throughout your marriage?In this episode, Alexandra Stockwell challenges the belief that long-term relationships inevitably become predictable in the bedroom. She explains why satisfying sex isn't about recapturing the excitement of the early years, but about intentionally allowing your intimate relationship to evolve as you evolve. Through practical examples and gentle encouragement, she shares how small acts of curiosity and adventure can reignite connection without sacrificing the trust and safety that make intimacy meaningful.Whether your sex life feels routine, disconnected, or simply ready for something new, this episode will inspire you to see lasting passion in an entirely different way.In this episode, you'll discover:• Why your sex life should continue growing throughout every stage of marriage• How routine quietly diminishes intimacy and erotic energy• The difference between functional sex and deeply connected intimacy• Simple, approachable ways to bring more playfulness and adventure into your relationship• Why meaningful change happens one small, courageous step at a timeYour marriage doesn't have to settle into predictability. With curiosity, intention, and a willingness to grow together, your most intimate years may still be waiting for you.Past Episodes on BDSM:
This week-ahead reading for Aug 17-23, 2026 is an excerpt from this week's Somatic Space class with Renee Sills. For the full-length forecast and embodied practice for this week, purchase the recording here.✨✨✨
Chicago and Philadelphia showed up big for the Best Sex Ever tour, and I couldn't get to every question live. So here's the rest. We're getting into the real first move before opening up a marriage, what alcohol actually does to your libido, and why your body tightening up mid-sex is information, not a red flag. Plus how to ask for foreplay in a way that actually lands, the cuddle trap where touch always seems to lead to sex whether you want it to or not, and a low-pressure way into kink and BDSM if you're curious but nervous. Save sex with me, one city at a time. #SexWithEmily #EmilyMorse #SexQuestions #LiveShow #Relationships Don't miss a video! Subscribe NOW: https://www.youtube.com/@sexwithemilyofficial?sub_confirmation=1 ABOUT EMILY: Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex. CONNECT: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/ X: https://twitter.com/sexwithemily Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily WANT MORE? Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides. Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to http://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply! This episode is sponsored by: Bellesa: EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE Rose suction toy with their order! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast ============================= Chapters: 00:00 Tour promo + coming up preview 00:54 Welcome back + tour recap 03:15 Opening up a marriage: where to start 07:38 Alcohol as an aphrodisiac 10:08 When your body tightens up during sex 12:18 Cuddling without it leading to sex 14:10 Building confidence to approach someone 16:57 How to actually ask for foreplay 19:17 Perineum & prostate pleasure explained 21:17 Getting into kink & BDSM safely 24:04 Closing + Nashville tour date I Answered 13 Pages of Your Sex Questions | Sex With Emily https://www.youtube.com/sexwithemily Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with friend Brandi about her ten years' worth of experience in the lifestyle, throughout which she's been able to explore all types of fantasies, from orgies to sub/dom power dynamics to pet play, and the joy and empowerment they can bring.Chapters: Fantasies: exploring and fulfilling fantasies through ENM (ethical non monogamy). (0:00) How can you make it work when you're both submissive? (9:50)Being dommed with your partner. (14:44)Hiring a pro dominatrix. (18:10)Female dommes vs male doms: trust, comfort, and safety. (25:13)DC Fetish Ball: what is it like? (29:20)What do you get out of exploring fetish and kink? (36:25)Sex therapy: working to be more assertive, going for what you want in the moment, and growing your self-confidence to overcome the fear of rejection. (39:18) Pickup lines: the best ways to approach a couple at a week-long event, and one night only. (49:41) Friends working to make friends' fantasies come true. (55:24) Vee, Elle and Brandi's fantasies to check off the list in the future. Gang bangs and being worshipped. (1:01:19) What are some fantasies that have been fulfilled that you'd like to repeat? MFM, MMF, pet play and more. (1:03:25)______________
Foi aqui que pediram ferramentas de comunicação e suporte para relacionamentos fetichistas e não monogâmicos? Reunimos novamente a mesa do nosso episódio 55, Ada, Roxy, Gabi e Márcio/Ciel, para conversarmos sobre relacionamentos, dificuldades e conflitos comuns entre neurodivergentes e neurotípicos e ferramentas que podemos desenvolver e aplicar para vivermos relacionamentos cada vez mais saudáveis e seguros na não monogamia e no BDSM. Vem escutar que o episódio está longo, recheado de boas dicas e conselhos e, como sempre, boas risadas (e alguns tapas na cara metafóricos, não vamos mentir). Participantes: Ada @aleneouada, Roxy @roxylust, Gabi Dias @gabidays23, Márcio/Ciel @divergentemente.psi @_marcio.exeVoz da vinheta: apresentadoras*Episódio disponível também em vídeo!*Este episódio foi gravado em estúdio em 23/06/2026. Apoie o Chicotadas! https://apoia.se/chicotadas Form para envio de dúvidas e feedbacks: https://forms.gle/x3HUheP52BkALn989 Nossos links: https://chicotadas.com.br/A vitrine é uma arte com fotos. O fundo é roxo com padrão de desenhos de ferramentas em cor avermelhada contrastante. Nas laterais da arte, nomes e fotos dos participantes, olhando/apontando para o centro da imagem. Ouça o episódio para ter a descrição física de cada uma das pessoas. No centro da imagem, o número e título do episódio (#56 Relações mais saudáveis na não monogamia e no BDSM: Ferramentas de comunicação e suporte para neurodivergentes e neurotípicos) em vermelho e amarelo claro sobre fundo lilás e vermelho. Abaixo dos títulos, uma chave de fenda e um flogger fazem um formato de X. Na parte inferior da imagem, marca d'água com a logo principal do podcast (um chicote posicionado para lembrar uma onda sonora) em amarelo claro. Minutagens:1:52 Início do episódio e autodescrição*Continuação do ep 55, Por que somos tantos neurodivergentes no BDSM e na Não Monogamia? 4:44 Como foi nossa recuperação depois da situação contada no episódio anterior?6:30 Relacionamentos. Como é se relacionar com pessoas neurodivergentes? O que precisamos ter em mente?Citados: masking (mascaramento/camuflagem social), relações seguras, stim/stimming (movimentos repetitivos de autorregulação), clareza e ruídos de comunicação, rigidez cognitiva, hiperfoco, depressão nas altas habilidades, questões sociais, Ted Lasso, "seja curioso, não julgue", conflitos e dificuldades. 39:11 Questões comuns e conflitos. Que tipo de situações podem acontecer quando a gente se relaciona com pessoas neurodivergentes? Citados: impulsividade, tolerância à frustração, racionalização, estratégias de adaptação disfuncionais, interpretação dos fatos e narrativas pessoais, rigidez cognitiva, difusão cognitiva, crenças e desculpas, negociação e atender expectativas, Trevor Noah e começar dizendo não. 1:05:33 Como as ferramentas do BDSM podem ser úteis?Citados: previsibilidade, "jumping to conclusions" (chegar a conclusões rápidas sem evidência suficiente), "jump the gun" (fazer algo antes da hora, agir antes de pensar). 1:19:53 https://apoia.se/chicotadas 1:22:06 Ferramentas de comunicação e suporte para relacionamentos mais saudáveis. Quais são tipos e possibilidades de ferramentas e que cuidados devemos tomar?Citados:- crises, tipos de ferramentas, formas de lidar com conflitos- ep "Clube dos Apoiadores #14: Nossos erros de iniciantes no BDSM".- rigger @leviriet- Asgard e Hannah (@kinkgram.ofc e @hannah.esquilinha)- Chicotadas Fest- situações de hiperfoco, spotters e timers, o perigo de ter/ser enabler 2:13:20 Últimos conselhosCitados: stim toy, fidget toy 2:21:27 Nossas Chicotadas- Podcast "Para dar nome às coisas", Natália Sousa (eps para começar: 248, 323, 333)- Podcast "Multiamory"- Série "Ted Lasso", Apple TV- Série "Heated Rivalry" (Rivalidade Ardente), HBO Max- Especial "Bo Burnham: Inside", Netflix- Jogos "Dark Souls" e "Crash Bandicoot"- Música "Revelação", Fagner e solo de guitarra de Robertinho de Recife 2:28:09 Aftercare
Kasey Kei just won Best Hardcore Performer at the TEA Awards, and she's here to spill everything. We dig into the time a male performer who groped her mid-makeout and was visibly stunned to discover she's trans and how she's learned to navigate these awkward moments in her real dating life.Kasey talks openly about topping vs. bottoming, why she leans into kink and BDSM content featuring the trans woman in charge, and what dating apps look like when you put I'm trans in your bio on purpose. Plus a wild on-set story involving mixed-up Ozempic medication that nearly derailed a whole scene. Funny, filthy, and completely unfiltered.Follow Kasey on Instagram @officialcaseykSponsor & LinksHuge thanks to SC World for sponsoring the show!Follow them at instagram.com/scworld.officialFollow Holly Randall on all platforms: Hollylinks.comSubscribe for more exclusive interviews and behind-the-scenes content from the adult industry! patreon.com/c/hollyrandallunfilteredBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/holly-randall-unfiltered--6630320/support.
The mid-nineties were a time of powerful transformation, self-discovery, and healing for Cat. After getting sober, she had a bit of a reckoning with her sexuality, first thinking she was a lesbian before realizing she was pansexual while at the same time discovering the world of kink and BDSM. She's now been exploring some form of non-monogamy for over 30 years and today she shares her incredible journey with us. Cat is a transformative leader in the kink, BDSM, and leather communities, with 30+ years of experience, mentorship and advocacy. Alongside partners Joshua and Natalie, she earned the 2025 Northeast Power Exchange Educational Title, celebrating her innovative approach to power dynamics as a tool for empowerment. Her journey began in San Francisco's leather scene, where early mentorship ignited her passion for community building and personal growth. As co-founder of the Kink Collective, educator, and counselor, she bridges kink with personal development, healing around trauma and grief, and sexual wellness. Rooted in honesty, integrity, and transparency, Cat creates spaces where people are seen, valued, and empowered—whether exploring identity, grief, recovery or desire. Her work proves that profound healing happens when we dare to own our stories. Check out the full show notes here. Join the most amazing community of open-minded humans on the planet! Click here to order your very own NNM shirt! $10 Off - Online STI Testing
What if some of the people we think of as having the most unconventional sex lives are actually having some of the clearest conversations about intimacy? Because kink is about a lot more than whips, handcuffs, or what happens in a dungeon. At its best, it requires people to talk openly about things many couples struggle to discuss at all: What do I want? What are my boundaries? What makes me feel safe? What am I curious about? What am I afraid to admit turns me on? And can I trust you with a part of myself I don't show everyone else? Those are intimacy questions. And you don't have to have any interest in kink to learn from the answers. On this episode of The Language of Love, I'm joined by Amanda Dames, known as The Kink Consultant. Amanda is a sexologist, Somatica-certified sex and relationship coach, podcast host, and former New York City dominatrix. And her story is wild. Amanda found her way into New York's BDSM world almost by accident and eventually became a highly sought-after dominatrix working with powerful, successful men and women. People who spent their days being in charge would walk through her door desperate for something they rarely got anywhere else: permission to stop being in control. Then Amanda's own relationship to power took an unexpected turn. She met the man who would become her husband at a kink event, and the woman who had built a career being dominant discovered that, with him, she wanted to surrender. But this conversation isn't really about dungeons or labels. It's about what Amanda learned inside that world that applies to the rest of us. We talk about why so many of us hide our desires from the person we love most, how shame quietly follows us into the bedroom, and why feeling safe enough to say “this is what I want” can be an incredibly intimate act. Amanda also shares practices from the kink community that I think many couples could benefit from, including negotiating desires and boundaries before sex, checking in during an experience, and having an “aftercare” conversation afterward about what felt good, what didn't, and what you might want differently next time. And we get into something even bigger: power. Why can surrender feel so freeing for someone who carries enormous responsibility in the rest of their life? Why do some women crave the ability to soften and relinquish control while simultaneously fearing what that vulnerability requires? And what happens when you trust someone enough to show them a part of yourself you've been editing, hiding, or judging for years? In this episode, we explore: What “kink” actually means, and why it may be very different from what you imagine What Amanda learned about human desire while working as a New York City dominatrix Why powerful, high-achieving people can crave surrender behind closed doors How Amanda went from being the one in control to discovering her own desire to submit Why people hide fantasies and desires even in otherwise loving relationships How to tell your partner what you want without making either of you feel pressured or ashamed What the kink community gets right about consent, boundaries, communication, and trust The before-and-after conversations that could transform sex for couples who have never set foot near the kink world Why surrender and vulnerability require safety, rather than weakness How to respond when your partner tells you something sexually that surprises you What it takes to feel truly known by another person without editing yourself first You may come to this episode because you're curious about Amanda's years as a dominatrix. But I think you'll stay for a much more interesting question: How much more intimate could your relationship become if you felt safe enough to tell the person you love who you really are and what you really want? To learn more about Amanda and her work, visit her website. You can find her on Instagram where she shares daily insights on kink and relationships, and listen to her podcast, The Kink Consultant Podcast, for deeper explorations of desire, communication, and intimacy. if you felt a spark from today's show, don't stop here. My website offers more content, tools, and upcoming events to keep the conversation alive. And if a reflection comes up or you simply want to reach out, I'd love to hear from you. Find me at languageoflovepod@gmail.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
OnlyFans, Fansly and LoyalFans creator, cam girl and stripper Rogue has one hell of a story to tell. We get into her love of facials, taking her infamous “cum walks” into public, interviewing strangers with the evidence still on her face, gangbangs, DP, discovering just how intensely she can cum from anal, and the mishap that temporarily put her favorite kind of play on hold.We also get into orgies with men and women, the wildest requests from her fans, her surprisingly heartwarming road into sex work, and, of course, the craziest stories from her years in the strip club. One of them involves Fettuccine Alfredo. We close with Rogue's potential move into mainstream porn and whether or not she believes in aliens. Get ready to go completely off the fucking rails with EP 238: "Going Rogue" with Rogue.Watch the video version of the show on YouTubeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow RogueInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/stellar_rogue (@stellar_rogue)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
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Kirby Dick's SICK: The Life & Death of Bob Flanagan - SuperMasochist Listener Distrection Advised: There are a number of films that burrow into the hearts and minds of its viewers. In 1997 the Los Angeles poet, writer, performance artist, comic, and BDSM celebrity, Bob Flanagan would succumb - at the age of 43 - to cystic fibrosis (a disease that is comparable to drowning as one's lungs constantly fill with mucous). The final years of Flanagan's life would be documented by filmmaker Kirby Dick in SICK: The Life & Death of Bob Flanagan - SuperMasochist. Unlike any film these podcasters have seen, Dick's film chronicles Flanagan's brave and inspirational struggle; a struggle that he would use to gain control of his artistic integrity, expression, body and life. Through a lilfe of extreme sado-masochism, self-expression, and sexual exploration Flanagan would achieve this self-empowerment. A disturbing, sad, and - finally - inspirational film, SICK, is a powerful piece of documetary filmmaking. We are proud to tackle it this week. Take a listen and let us know what you think. As always, we can be reached at gondoramos@yahoo.com - Many Thanks. For those of you who would like to donate to this undying labor of love, you can do so with a contribution at https://www.buymeacoffee.com/watchrickramos - Anything and Everything is appreciated, You Cheap Bastards.
Lessons from a Dominatrix. Learn how to lead with confidence, ask for what you want, and build the kind of trust that lets her fully let go. If you are a man who wants to step into a more dominant role without guessing, you will learn what real dominance actually requires, how to bring up a desire without fear of rejection, and how to create the safety that makes real submission possible.
On today's show, I'm talking about what happens when attraction to someone because of their race turns into fetishizing them, and what can happen when that fantasy meets rejection. I'm looking at the psychology behind racial stereotypes, sexual expectation, entitlement, and why desire and contempt can sometimes exist in the same place.This episode is supported by Enhanced-Mind Counseling. If you're looking to understand the patterns behind your relationships, attachment, or the dynamics you find yourself in, you can reach out through my website: https://enhanced-mind.com/Continue the discussion on Fetlife: @Enhanced-MindDon't forget to follow the show and leave a 5-star rating so others can find it.Want to be on the show or have an idea for an upcoming episode?Email me at TheKinkPerspective@gmail.comFind me on Substack - Enhanced-Mind's Substack | Chris C. | SubstackI have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. You can find it where you purchase most eBooks. Print version available now.#Psychology #Desire #Attraction #Entitlement
A self-proclaimed vampire.His harem of “witches.”And the small-town murder that shocked America.When twenty-four-year-old Sydney Loofe disappeared after a Tinder date, the quiet town of Wilber, Nebraska was stunned. Days later, her dismembered body was found scattered across nearby fields—and the horrifying truth began to emerge. Sydney hadn't just met the wrong man. She had crossed paths with a deeply disturbed psychopath and his dangerous accomplice.In The Vampire's Cult, investigative journalist Chet Hardin exposes the twisted world of Aubrey Trail, an aging con man who presented himself as an all-powerful being, and Bailey Boswell, the woman who called herself his “queen.” Together, they lured vulnerable young women into a spiral of sex, theft, and psychological manipulation—with deadly consequences.Through exclusive interviews, firsthand reporting, and chilling detail, Hardin unravels the making of a modern cult—and the social desperation that feeds it. In an era defined by false realities and toxic charisma, The Vampire's Cult reveals just how easily darkness can disguise itself as devotion.THE VAMPIRE'S CULT: The Untold Story of Obsession, Control, and a Small Town Murder—Chet Hardin
El BDSM lleva décadas perfeccionando algo revolucionario:hablar antes de actuar. En este episodio discutimos patologización, moralismos y pánicos sexuales, pero también negociación, comunidad y placer. Exploramos la tensión entre la homonorma de los gays "correctos" integrados al sistema, y un universo queer de personas políticamente radicales, kinky, degénero fluído y poliamorosas. Y nos preguntamos: ¿y si el BDSM no fuera el problema? Hablamos de todo esto con Diego Gervasini Dini y además recorremos las películas Cruising (1980), Pillion (2026) y Mineshaft: The Cruising Murders (2026).Diego Gervasini Dini https://www.instagram.com/diegowgd/ ESCUCHALO GRATIS Y SIN REGISTRARTESpotiIvooxYoutube https://bit.ly/4oiTOms También hablamos de:Uruguay fetish https://www.instagram.com/comunidad_uf/Séxtasis https://www.instagram.com/expo.sextasis/Maricas Bolivia https://www.instagram.com/maricas_bolivia/Darío Pérez https://www.instagram.com/perez2865/Faggotocracyhttps://www.lulu.com/shop/james-laidler/faggotocracy/ebook/product-jew75ek.html?page=1&pageSize=4Maricas Bolivia https://www.instagram.com/maricas_bolivia/Podés ver Cruising completa con subtítulos en castellano acá: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7-g-0DArlkwPillion https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VLIQM9_E8i4Mineshaft, the cruising murders https://deadline.com/2026/06/mineshaft-the-cruising-murders-clip-premiere-1236938398/También te recomendamos BDSM sudaca: Un año sin amor, la novela https://blatt-rios.com.ar/libros/un-ano-sin-amor-pablo-perez/ y la peli https://m.ok.ru/video/9640853900018 Teología anarcoqueer y BDSM boliviano www.bit.ly/4MYtube¿Cuándo salir del armario BDSM? https://bit.ly/4nlLkd1Un podcast de Putoelquelee https://www.instagram.com/censurado108/Conduce: Omar Berettahttps://www.instagram.com/yacarevolador/ Producción y co-conducción: Miguel Buendía https://www.instagram.com/miguel.dai/ Washington Atencio https://www.instagram.com/was_atencio/Clara Ferguson https://www.instagram.com/cla.rl.aAnush Grati https://www.instagram.com/auchygBelén Rofrano https://www.instagram.com/rofran0 Ramiro Garzaniti https://www.instagram.com/ra_mi_ro_g Cortina de inicio: Zona Roja de Mnesis https://www.instagram.com/mnesis Diseño gráfico: David Pedrozo https://www.instagram.com/dv.pedrozo
On this bonus episode, Kathy breaks down this week's episodes, reveals behind-the-scenes stories, explains what you might've missed, and tells you what's worth listening to and why. Hear more about the gangbang-filled AVN adventures, Harry's journey from a sexless marriage to pegging, BDSM and couple swaps, why Christine's legendary gangbang episode helped put the podcast on the map, plus Kathy answers a Fuck, Marry, Kill female podcaster edition, announces the newest Discord contest plus a whole lot more. Tune in for all the details. GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd or Pre-order audiobook version here To see HOT pics of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://TakeLean.com - 20% off + FREE rush shipping on Lean weighloss https://bluechew.com — Buy 2 months of Bluechew GOLD and get the third month FREE! Use code: STRICTLYANON https://VB.HEALTH- To get 10% off DRIVE BOOST by VB Health, use code: STRICTLY https://Motorbunny.com/Strictly - For $50 off your whole order https://beduc.at/pd2626-anonymous Click here to take the quiz and get your personalized SUMMER roadmap to sexual happiness Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ X https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else: https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
slave,A power exchange can be playful, but it can also be a serious practice with rules, rituals, and real follow-through. I, Chastity Queen firmly lay out what devotion looks like when service is the point: preparation, presentation, and consistent obedience. From specific wardrobe tasks to expectations around gifting and tribute, the message is clear: if you want attention, you earn it through action.I also unpack the deeper “why” behind submission. What does it mean to be noticed by a dominant/Me, to make someone else the priority, and to build identity through daily rituals? You'll hear a strong framework for service submission and dominance and submission dynamics, including the idea that boundaries are pushed through discipline and repetition. Chastity and denial show up as core themes, framed as a method of control, focus, and commitment rather than a casual experiment.The episode closes with community and momentum: how to connect, where to share photos, what events are being planned through the Crown and Cage Society, and how listeners can support the show's growth. If you're interested in BDSM mindset, chastity kink culture, and the structure behind long-term power exchange, there's plenty here to think about, whether you're experienced or just learning the language.Subscribe for more, share the episode with someone who's curious, and leave a review to help more listeners find the show. What part of service do you find easiest, and what part challenges you most?Listen and learn,Chastity IS freedom!Chastity QueenTry to connect with your local BDSM community. Fetlife is a great way to see others in similar FLR and chastity lifestyles. You can check out Mine in Fetlife at Chastity-Queen. It's a free to join. Hugs, Chastity Queen Locked In Lust 15% OFF:CHASTITYQUEEN Use Discount Code:CHASTITYQUEEN for 15% OFF ANYTHING at www.lockedinlust.com THRONE WISH LISTBuy Me something anonymously or send Me a note telling Me who you are and I will thank you. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the showSUPPORT ME in 2 ways! XOXO1: https://paypal.me/TiffanyTheQueen?country.x=CA&locale.x=en_USOR2: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1992649/supportCHASTITY IS FREEDOMI LOVE YOU
Shaan Lashun (he/they) is a Milwaukee-based sex educator who organizes events through the Tool Shed (a local sex shop) and by partnering with other community organizations. This episode explores their journey into this role, some event highlights and lessons learned in the sex education space, and he and Anne Marie discuss kink and BDSM as culture, a way of healing, and a hot menu of options for anyone looking to explore.Events mentioned:https://www.toolshedtoys.com/events/ https://www.kinkycarnivalmke.com/https://www.creamcitypleasurefest.com/Reading material mentioned:Uses of the Erotic: Erotic as Power by Audre LordePleasure Activism by adrienne maree brownSister Outsider by Audre LordePunks, Bulldaggers, and Welfare Queens: The Radical Potential of Queer Politics? by Cathy Cohen
My slave,A daily ritual can be more powerful than any one-off fantasy, and I'm talking to the listeners who already know what devotion feels like. I lay out a clear chastity protocol built around presentation, consistency, and proof, with the kind of standards that turn “I'll try” into “I will.” If you're into Femdom chastity, dominance and submission, orgasm control, or structured kink routines, you'll hear exactly how I think about effort and obedience. I get specific about the details that make submission visible: vintage-inspired nylons, thigh highs, garter belts, and coordinated lingerie that's chosen on purpose. I also dig into sensation play and edging as discipline, not just teasing, and I reinforce the central rule of chastity play: PERMISSION MATTERS. The goal is to turn desire into a repeatable practice that strengthens control and deepens Our/our dynamic. Then I move into accountability, including daily cage check-ins and photo proof with date verification and metadata. I also challenge you to step it up when you can and remind you that rewards follow obedience when you remove excuses and follow through. If you like high-structure BDSM, chastity device routines, and protocols that actually hold up in real life, press play, then subscribe, share the show, and leave a review so more listeners can find Me and bow to Female SupremacyChastity IS freedom!Chastity QueenTry to connect with your local BDSM community. Fetlife is a great way to see others in similar FLR and chastity lifestyles. You can check out Mine in Fetlife at Chastity-Queen. It's a free to join. Hugs, Chastity Queen Locked In Lust 15% OFF:CHASTITYQUEEN Use Discount Code:CHASTITYQUEEN for 15% OFF ANYTHING at www.lockedinlust.com THRONE WISH LISTBuy Me something anonymously or send Me a note telling Me who you are and I will thank you. www.SMBSM.com - Chastity Cages 10% OFFGet reasonably priced chastity cages, chastity belts, chastity wear, + chastity accessories.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the showSUPPORT ME in 2 ways! XOXO1: https://paypal.me/TiffanyTheQueen?country.x=CA&locale.x=en_USOR2: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1992649/supportCHASTITY IS FREEDOMI LOVE YOU
Harry went from a sexless marriage full of infidelity to pegging, BDSM, couple swaps and more and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when he married his first wife and what was going down in their bedroom before he realized she was cheating, how he caught her cheating and exactly where she was hooking up with the other guy, how and why his ex-wife wound up having a nervous breakdown, why he stayed and tried to save the marriage, how he eventually started cheating on multiple women over many years, the much younger woman he fell for and eventually left his wife for, how they got into pegging and how that led him to explore his attraction to men, the free pass she gave him to hook up with guys, the first bi couple they hooked up with and exactly what went down, their first full couple swap and why they both loved it, how they recently got into CBT (cock and ball torture), tease and denial, chastity play, how and why they recently joined a. new nudist swinger community plus a whole lot more. GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd or Pre-order audiobook version here To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://TakeLean.com - 20% off + FREE rush shipping on Lean weighloss https://bluechew.com — Buy 2 months of Bluechew GOLD and get the third month FREE! Use code: STRICTLYANON https://VB.HEALTH- To get 10% off DRIVE BOOST by VB Health, use code: STRICTLY https://Motorbunny.com/Strictly - For $50 off your whole order https://beduc.at/pd2626-anonymous Click here to take the quiz and get your personalized SUMMER roadmap to sexual happiness Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ X https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else: https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ravyn Alexa proudly calls herself the Fantasy Slut, and after this episode, you'll understand exactly why. We get into working for Brazzers, what she's building on OnlyFans, the requests that fill up her inbox, the ones she never saw coming, and why fans can't seem to get enough.We also talk about her years as a stripper, the craziest stories from the club, partying with a famous rapper, people doing lines off of her asshole, pulling off her first DP, and why she's putting every major studio on notice: stop making her wait and book her first gangbang already. This is a wild one. Enjoy EP 237: "In The Trenches" with Ravyn Alexa.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Ravyn AlexaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ravynalexaagain (@ravynalexaagain)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
Season 6, Episode 771: Spring Break & Stranded with Her BFF's Brothers, Plus 6 Men, On the Court, Multiple Partners Excerpt. A spicy why choose romance multiple partner sex adventure on the basketball court! Layla plays sex games with the male med students. This novella is full of dark kinks, self declared free use, humilation kinks, BDSM, exhibitionism, and voyeurism. It's a Why Choose Dark Romance with polyamory, New Adult Fiction. Listen to this hot excerpt and enjoy! A hot and spicy spring break adventure none of them will ever forget! Get the audiobook here: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/springbreakandstrandedonthecourtaudiobook Get the ebook here: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/springbreakandstrandedwithherbffsbrothersplus6menonthecourtrw Get the MORE TABOO version: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/springbreakandstrandedwithherbffsbrothersplus6menonthecourt Shameless Summit for Women: Sexuality, Sensuality, Empowerment Online summit for FREE! Join the Shameless Summit, SHAMELESS is an invitation back to your body, your sensuality, your pleasure, your desire, and your erotic aliveness. Across five days and 13 experts, we're exploring sex, desire, Tantra, kink, fantasy, embodiment, intimacy, relationships, receiving, confidence, shame, pleasure, and the many ways women experience and own their erotic nature, specifically for women. Claim your free seat here: https://www.tillystorm.com/a/2148307474/WZq4Y2zo Ruan's books: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Sign up for Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow
You can feel the moment a relationship is ready for more, but you can also feel the fear that comes with it. I'm talking about how to bring a D/s dynamic into an established partnership in a way that protects trust, builds confidence, and keeps the connection warm, erotic, and real. I read a listener message that perfectly captures what many couples experience: a new dominant partner hesitates, then one honest reaction gives her permission to grow into leadership through protocol and ritual.From there, I go deeper into what makes female domination and a female-led relationship so powerful, especially inside a “vanilla” marriage that's exploring kink at home. We talk about why consensual power exchange doesn't diminish masculinity, why confident men can surrender with security, and how chastity can become more than a cage. When it's grounded in respect and devotion, chastity turns into a clear symbol of loyalty and intentional submission.I also share an emotional frequency chart and explain how awareness of shame, guilt, fear, anger, pride, courage, acceptance, love, joy, peace, and even enlightenment can change the way you show up in your relationship. If you've ever worried you're “too much,” not enough, or one mistake will ruin everything, this framework helps you catch the spiral and move back toward calm, honesty, and connection.Listen now, then subscribe, share the episode with someone who's curious, and leave a review so more couples can find this kind of support. What's one ritual or boundary you want to try next?Try to connect with your local BDSM community. Fetlife is a great way to see others in similar FLR and chastity lifestyles. You can check out Mine in Fetlife at Chastity-Queen. It's a free to join. Hugs, Chastity Queen Locked In Lust 15% OFF:CHASTITYQUEEN Use Discount Code:CHASTITYQUEEN for 15% OFF ANYTHING at www.lockedinlust.com www.SMBSM.com - Chastity Cages 10% OFFGet reasonably priced chastity cages, chastity belts, chastity wear, + chastity accessories.THRONE WISH LISTBuy Me something anonymously or send Me a note telling Me who you are and I will thank you. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the showSUPPORT ME in 2 ways! XOXO1: https://paypal.me/TiffanyTheQueen?country.x=CA&locale.x=en_USOR2: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1992649/supportCHASTITY IS FREEDOMI LOVE YOU
The Dads tackle a one shot from our brand new sourcebook!This episode contains Profanity, Violence, and Sexual Content.Do you want to play Oceans Dad-leven yourself? Or just want more deep Dad lore? Our crowdfund campaign for our sourcebook is still going strong.Go to bookmedaddy.com to pledge and get your hands on a sourcebook and many other cool pledge perks.✨ Master the mysterious art of Daddy Magic and 30+ incredibly useful spells like Skip Therapy and Speak Japanese.
Introduction“How did your Spanish get so good?” a well-meaning gringa (American) asks me, gaping. She's been in Roma Norte for six months, trying to improve her Spanish by taking classes. Unsurprisingly, that wasn't going well for her.“It's a long story,” I shrug. My last four and a half years of romantic date spots and spontaneous hookups flash before my eyes. I remember all the Mexican men who patiently listened to me during my broken-fluency phase, probably because they wanted to get into my underwear. “I've found that dating in Spanish helps a lot.”“Huh,” she says, pulling out her phone as if taking serious notes. Be promiscuous. Sleep around.“Once people started complimenting me on my speaking and my ego got involved, that's when I really started perfecting it. It's nice to impress people, you know? But let's be real,” I said, leaning in closer. “There's a lot of words they're not going to teach you in Spanish class.”“Really?” she said, looking extra perplexed. “Like what?”I paraphrased this list of flirty terms for her, and I'm about to share them with you. This list is not comprehensive at all; it's organic and random, much like the way you learn a language naturally by “coqueteando y cogiendo” (flirting and f*****g) in the day-to-day. Immersion isn't linear, and neither is fluency. Still, I hope you enjoy these silly, dirty phrases and the honest, embarrassing stories behind how I learned them.What dirty phrases do you know in Spanish? What's the story behind how you learned them? Share them in the comments!Subscribe so you can read what's shared! ✨Cringey Mexican Spanish Phrases I've Learned1. ¿Te gustan las nalgadas?”
BDSM local communities: some say you have to get involved, while others will tell you just the opposite. So where does the truth lie? Find out in this episode. Plus, how to fine-tune your Instagram feed and take back control from the algorithm.
On today's show, I'm talking about what happens when context disappears and people start responding to what they think someone represents instead of what was actually said or done. I look at how missing information turns into certainty, how labels replace the individual, and why context can matter without excusing harmful behavior.This episode is supported by Enhanced-Mind Counseling. If you're looking to understand the patterns behind your relationships, attachment, or the dynamics you find yourself in, you can reach out through my website: https://enhanced-mind.com/Continue the discussion on Fetlife: @Enhanced-MindDon't forget to follow the show and leave a 5-star rating so others can find it.Want to be on the show or have an idea for an upcoming episode?Email me at TheKinkPerspective@gmail.comFind me on Substack - Enhanced-Mind's Substack | Chris C. | SubstackI have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. You can find it where you purchase most eBooks. Print version available now.#Psychology #Context #Control #Language
Sir InQ invited sex therapist Erin Alexander on the show, and I have to admit... I was completely drawn into this conversation.
What if 100,000 downloads were just the foundation, not the finish line? In this milestone episode, you'll hear the real story behind a #1 network marketing podcast, the BDSM framework that built it, and how to use the same momentum-building principles to grow your own business. In this episode, Jennie discusses: Origin story of the Badass Direct Sales Mastery podcast Overcoming fear and starting without a perfect plan Listener stories, client journeys, and real-world impact The BDSM framework: Business mindset, Discipline, Sales, Mentorship 100,000 downloads, legacy, and the 100k Gifts Page Key Takeaways: You can't build momentum in your business if you're standing still; progress demands action, even when the plan isn't perfect. Treating your direct sales or network marketing business like a real business, not a hobby or “side gig”, changes how you show up and what results you create. Consistency and discipline, not motivation, are what carry a long-term content platform through the hard days and into meaningful milestones. A podcast or platform can function as a powerful ecosystem—driving sales, nurturing relationships, attracting clients, and creating referral and JV opportunities. Mentorship (giving and receiving) accelerates growth, and every authentic conversation can leave success “clues” that reshape how you sell, lead, and build. "100,000 downloads isn't my accomplishment; it's ours." — Jennie Bellinger Don't forget to check out the new GIFT VAULT! https://badassdirectsalesmastery.com/100kgifts/ CONNECT WITH JENNIE: Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/badassdirectsalesmastery Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/badassdirectsalesmastery/ Website: https://badassdirectsalesmastery.com/ Show: https://badassdirectsalesmastery.com/blog/ YouTube: COMING SOON! LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/badassdirectsalesmastery/ Email: jennie@badassdirectsalesmastery.com Show Notes by Podcastologist: Angelica Rayco Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it.
Send us Fan MailSeptember starts and the journey bring some very interesting changes.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
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Vi poddar mellan Borås och Jönköping. Sofia fäller en tår och klär ut sig till Frida i ABBA. Vi skickar hat på homofober. Kommer vi få se Sofia på BDSM klubb. Har vi väckt en björn som sover? Bianca brottas med en vagel. Vi överväger att skjuta upp vår aska i fyrverkerier. Pernilla har haft en syskon reunion och har köpt ett fiskespö. Och glöm inte dansa alla queens! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Kink is often misunderstood, wrapped in myths, stereotypes, and cultural taboos that obscure what it's really about. In this episode, we unpack what kink is—and just as importantly, what it isn't. From broad definitions of BDSM and the idea that kink is simply "whatever is taboo for you," we explore why modern media often gets it wrong by focusing on shock value while overlooking the foundations of communication, consent, negotiation, safety, and aftercare. We'll also challenge common misconceptions that kink is abusive, anti-feminist, or only about pain. Theresa from Expansive Connection will help us break down the different elements of BDSM and explain how many forms of play overlap, emphasizing that the labels matter far less than the connection and experience they create. Whether you're simply curious or already exploring, understanding the diversity of kink opens the door to seeing it through a much more informed and compassionate lens. Most importantly, we'll discuss why so many couples and consensually non-monogamous relationships find value in exploring kink. Join us as we explore how embracing curiosity and authenticity can deepen intimacy, strengthen connection, and remind us that desire isn't something to fear—it's an opportunity to grow together. Below are resources that referenced during this podcast: - The Erotic Blueprints, Miss Jaiya: https://missjaiya.com/ - Midori: www.planetmidori.com - NCSF (National Coalition for Sexual Freedom): https://ncsfreedom.org/ - NOW (National Organization for Women): https://now.org/ - Journal of Sexual Medicine 2008 study "Demographic and Psychosocial Features of Participants in BDSM": https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1743-6109.2008.00795.x - Journal of Homosexuality 2006 study "Understanding Sadomasochism: An Empirical Examination of Four Perspectives": https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1300/J082v50n02_07
When that new relationship energy is flowing, it makes it very easy to justify the flags you see early but just gloss over...it usually ends up bad and so We kink talk about it! And also, when you have strict and possibly inexperience based expectations of what a TRUE sub and TRUE Dom should be...that also can have some big problems in not just the dynamic but the relationship in general...So...We kink talk about that too!! Perverted Podcast has been a solid source of BDSM, kinky sex and sex positive information for over 11 years. We are have decades of combined experience in the open BDSM, kinky sex lifestyle and have made MANY mistakes that you can learn from...lol Join the mayhem 2 times a month and remember...you are not a freak and you are not bad for being kinky. But, there is an ethical approach to keep yourself and your partners safer and healthy!
This week's episode takes us from the natural world to wartime tragedy before finishing with an in-depth look at one of the most misunderstood areas of BDSM.We begin with the remarkable true story of an animal declared extinct... only to disappear all over again. Then we tell the devastating story of the USS Indianapolis, the sinking that left hundreds of sailors stranded in shark-infested waters and became one of the darkest chapters of the Second World War.Our main feature explores BDSM pet play in depth. We look at the psychology behind it, why people are drawn to it, the different types of pets and handlers, how scenes work, common misconceptions, and why for many people it has very little to do with sex at all.As always, expect plenty of laughs, plenty of tangents, and a healthy dose of weird along the way.Chapter list:00:00 The Animal That Went Extinct Twice08:25 The Secret Mission and the sharks25:35 Listener Question: Understanding BDSM Pet PlayA listener's question about their adult child opens a discussion on what pet play really is and why it's so widely misunderstood.27:00 What Is Pet Play?An introduction to the dynamic, common misconceptions and why it isn't necessarily about sex.31:10 Why People Enjoy Pet PlayExploring headspace, stress relief, identity, escapism and emotional wellbeing.36:30 Different Types of Pets and HandlersPups, kittens, ponies, foxes, wolves, handlers and how different dynamics develop.42:45 Gear, Accessories and Getting StartedMasks, tails, collars, paws, toys, safety and beginner-friendly ways to explore.47:00 Events, Community and CompetitionsHow pet play events work, what to expect, etiquette, Pup Pride and the welcoming community behind the scene.53:50 Final Thoughts on Pet Play and Fetish Factoid▶︎ Support us on Patreon for bonus content: https://www.patreon.com/ThePaddedCellPodcast▶︎ www.thepaddedcellpodcast.co.uk▶︎ www.thepaddedcellpodcast.store Watch the podcast on YouTube:▶︎ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@ThePaddedCellPodcastFollow The Padded Cell for more:▶︎ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61551425184285▶︎ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thepaddedcell_podcast/?hl=en-gb▶︎ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thepaddedcellpodcastRecorded and Produced by Vicky at The Padded Cell StudiosEp 1 - 120 recorded at: ▶︎ Web - http://www.liverpoolpodcaststudios.com
Brooksie Brooks is a Babestation streamer, stripper, and self-proclaimed squirt queen—and she has the stats to back it up. Known as “the wettest pussy in the North,” Brooksie once squirted 32 times in 45 minutes. We get into the anything-goes world of Babestation, using “more baby oil than Diddy” (her words), her wild experiences on stream, selling her squirt, and the wildest requests she's ever gotten from fans.Then we get very, very detailed about her collabs with other women, including exactly how messy she likes things to get. And because Brooksie is also a stripper, you know I had to ask for her craziest stories from the club. She gives me three—INCLUDING THE WILDEST STRIP CLUB STORY WE'VE EVER HAD ON THE SHOW. So buckle the fuck up, get out your tarp, strap that helmet on tight, and prepare yourself for EP 236: "Babe Land" with Brooksie Brooks.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Brooksie BrooksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/brooksiebrooks_ (@brooksiebrooks_)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
The SDR Show (Sex, Drugs, & Rock-n-Roll Show) w/Ralph Sutton & Big Jay Oakerson
Natalie King joins Ralph Sutton and Aaron Berg and they discuss Natalie's love of latex, how she got into the adult industry, the BDSM experience, her most frequent dom requests, making friends with clients, Ralph's crazy date story, a game of Punish the Beta where Ralph and Aaron compete to see which is the more alpha guy and after each round Natalie punishes the beta, we also find out Natalie's first concert, first drug and first sexual experience and so much more!Air Date: 07/22/26Support our sponsors!YoKratom.com - Check out Yo Kratom (the home of the $60 kilo) for all your kratom needs!To advertise your product or service on GaS Digital podcasts please go to TheADSide.com and click on "Advertisers" for more information!You can watch The SDR Show LIVE for FREE every Wednesday and Saturday at 9pm ET at GaSDigitalNetwork.com/LIVEOnce you're there you can sign up at GaSDigitalNetwork.com with promo code: SDR for discount on your subscription which will give you access to every SDR show ever recorded! On top of that you'll also have the same access to ALL the shows that GaS Digital Network has to offer!Follow the whole show on social media!Natalie KingInstagram: https://instagram.com/natalie.king.nycAaron BergTwitter: https://twitter.com/aaronbergcomedyInstagram: https://instagram.com/aaronbergcomedyRalph SuttonTwitter: https://twitter.com/iamralphsuttonInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamralphsutton/Shannon LeeTwitter: https://twitter.com/IMShannonLeeInstagram: https://instagram.com/ShannonLee6982The SDR ShowTwitter: https://twitter.com/theSDRshowSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Originally published as a series of novellas in Asimov's Science Fiction before winning the 2006 Locus Award for best novel, Accelerando traces three generations of the Macx family (and one notoriously manipulative AI cat named Aineko) across a high-speed, century-long journey through future history and the looming technological singularity. We unpack the overwhelming density of Stross's worldbuilding—from cyberpunk edge, BDSM, and KGB-uplifted digital lobsters, to Capitalism 2.0 driven by profit-seeking AI corporations, automated corporate law and self-propagating lawsuits, and personalized advertising that feels eerily prescient today. Discover how Stross redefines the technological singularity through system-wide computing power measured in MIPS, explores consciousness as a predator-prey evolutionary dynamic, and takes us to the edge of the solar system where Matrioshka brains, alien communiqués from brown dwarfs, and beam-riding simulated minds completely rewrite the rules of interstellar travel and resource allocation. Whether you're curious about the Vile Offspring, nested self-referential autonomous corporations, or Jupiter-orbiting electrodynamic tether generators, this episode breaks down why Accelerando is an essential—and utterly chaotic—masterclass in expert speculative fiction. Stick around to the end of the episode for our spoiler-heavy post-show discussion, plus our top similar book recommendations, including William Gibson's Neuromancer, Greg Egan's Diaspora, and Kim Stanley Robinson's Aurora! And make sure to like and subscribe so you don't miss our next episode, where we'll be ranking this year's Hugo award nominees and all the best Sci-Fi and Fantasy books of last year! You can read Accelerando free online on Charles Stross' website! As always, no spoilers until the end when we give a heads up before getting into the full plot discussion. Join the Hugonauts book club on discord Or you can watch our episodes on YouTube if you prefer video Similar books we recommend: Diaspora by Greg Egan (or Permutation City) Neuromancer by William Gibson Aurora by Kim Stanley Robinson This episode is sponsored by The Day The Moon Disappeared by Michael Ross If you want to jump around, here are the timestamps for the episode: 00:00 Intro 01:04 Our review (3/5) 03:00 Sponsor - The Day The Moon Disappeared by Michael Ross 03:31 A hard sci-fi look at the next hundred years 05:46 Our cast - a family over a century 7:20 Some of the coolest science ideas 12:43 Prescient ideas that have already come true 13:24 Matrioshka brains 15:40 A different definition of Singularity 18:21 AI as corporations 19:19 Interstellar travel via computer 23:12 Also BDSM 26:59 Diaspora by Greg Egan 28:05 Neuromancer by William Gibson 29:19 Aurora by Kim Stanley Robinson 29:50 Reverse generators in Jupiter orbit 31:12 POST SPOILERS book summary 42:26 POST SPOILERS analysis
#148 You've been told these BDSM rules are non-negotiable. But are they? We're challenging 10 of the most common BDSM "rules", revealing which protect you, which are outdated, and which may be holding you back. Press play and challenge everything you thought you knew.➡️ Free list of 50 kinks: https://domsubliving.com/checklist➡️ Sign up for our FREE newsletter: https://domsubliving.com/signup ❤️ Join the All-Access Pass for community, coaching, and courses: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess
J-P Valkeapää's Dogs Don't Wear Pants This week Mr. Chavez & I explore Finnish Cinema with a look at J-P Valkeapää's Dogs Don't Wear Pants. A brave and troubling look at emotional trauma, BDSM, and auto-ertotic asphyxiation, Valkeapää's 2019 erotic black comedy is an exploration of the erotic underground subculture of dominance and submission. There's a great deal to admire in this film including the lead performances of Pekka Strang as a widowed single father struggling with death of his wife seven years earlier, and Krista Kosonen as the woman he meets and whose dominatrix skills he becomes consumed by. A film that is not for the squeamish or prudish, but one that gives insight into - some of - the workings of this sexual subculture. Not all of the film works, but what is there speaks louder than the majority of American films that claim to tackle sexuality. Take a listen, give the movie a watch, and let us know what you think. As always, we appreciate the continued love and support. We continue to be available to you at gondoramos@yahoo.com. Many, Many Thanks. For those of you who would like to donate to this undying labor of love, you can do so with a contribution at https://www.buymeacoffee.com/watchrickramos - Anything and Everything is appreciated, You Cheap Bastards.
If you're curious about kink and BDSM but aren't sure where to begin, this episode is for you. Returning guest Ashley Randall (Irreverent Femme), a certified Sex, Intimacy, and Kink Coach and professional Dominatrix, joins us to explore what healthy, consensual kink really looks like—and why it can be a powerful path to deeper intimacy, trust, emotional connection, and personal healing. Together, we unpack common myths about BDSM, discuss how to move beyond shame and stigma, and share practical advice for anyone interested in exploring kink safely and confidently. Whether you're completely new to BDSM or looking to deepen your understanding, this conversation offers an approachable, judgment-free introduction to building more authentic and connected relationships. In this episode, we discuss: Kink and BDSM for beginners How to get started with BDSM safely The foundations of consent, communication, and trust What it really means to be dominant or submissive Creating emotionally connected and deeply satisfying play Removing shame and stigma around kink and alternative relationship dynamics Practical tips for safe, sexy, and fulfilling exploration Various popular kinks such as cuckolding and spanking Ashley Randall, also known as Irreverent Femme, is a certified Sex, Intimacy, and Kink Coach and Dominatrix based in Los Angeles. Through her practice, Irreverent Love, she helps individuals and couples build confidence, deepen intimacy, and embrace the parts of themselves they've been taught to hide. Ashley is especially passionate about helping clients release shame around sexuality, BDSM, kink, and non-traditional relationship structures while creating richer relationships, stronger emotional connection, and more fulfilling sex lives. To learn more go to http://irreverentcoaching.com https://www.irreverentscents.com IG: @IrreverentLoveCoaching Come to one of our October 2026 Couples Retreats! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Follow us on IG @shamelesssexpodcast Other links: Get 10% off getting soaking wet with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 15% off our favorite sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
A lesbian with a pregnant wife is confounded and disgruntled at the way Pride celebrations can be a little too sex positive, especially if you have a little kid. Should Pride parades put on a straight-laced appearance, or go full bacchanal? It's an old, old debate. A woman needs her lovers to tell her she's hot and generally praise her during sex. Like, a lot. Is this a kink? On the Magnum, Dan meets his witty, homosexual match in Bryan Safi. The Emmy Award-winning actor, writer, and comedian known for his work on ABC's “9-1-1” as well as his podcasts, Attitudes! and Ask Ronna, is making his Off-Broadway debut this summer with Are You Mad At Me?? They chat about all this, and answer a caller who wonders if she should agree to a man's request on Feeld to be her "foot boy." Safi is magically delightful, and you simply must listen in. And, a woman's butt plug keeps disappearing up her butt. It's not supposed to work like that, right? Right. Call us with your quandaries. 206-302-2064 Record that Q and send it in: Q@Savage.Love. This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. Foria is an all natural health & sexual wellness company with product lines using the power of plant actives & CBD to effectively enhance intimacy, sexual pleasure, daily wellbeing, and relief from discomfort. Get 30% off sitewide during their National Orgasm Day sale from 7/30-8/2. Just go to foriawellness.com to get your 30% off your order! This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit VB.Health when you use the code Savage. Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From polyamory, to BDSM, gay rights to sexual health and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since the 1800s.
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