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This week's episode is all about BUTT STUFF! From penetration to rimming to spanking, there can be so much pleasure found in the butt -- yes, even if you're a straight man, and yes, even if you're a cis woman! DB interviews Luna Matatas, THE expert on all things booty, about how to get the most pleasure out of your (or a consenting partner's) butt! GUEST DETAILSLuna Matatas is a Sex and Pleasure Educator with over 20 years of experience teaching sex and empowerment workshops. Luna has taught sexual wellness workshops internationally and locally with diverse communities. She celebrates body confidence, sexual self-esteem and building shame-free pleasure in and out of the bedroom. Luna teaches 30+ sexy skills topics; including threesomes, BDSM, and dirty talk. She created Peg the Patriarchy® and Meditate Medicate Masturbate® brands as part of her sex-positive and feminist merchandise. LUNA'S SEDUCING THE BUTT BUNDLE & MERCHFind Luna's workshop bundle on her website here! Find her stickers and merch on her website here! SEX TOY TEAM UBERLUBE FOREVER! Snug Plugs from B-Vibe Fun Factory dildos Unicorn Collaborators harnesses TAKE OUR SMUT QUIZFind your page-turning turn-on with our new SMUT QUIZ! In just 5 questions, you'll get right to the good stuff with curated pages, poems, and audios. No slow burn. No fluff. Just pleasure. Take the quiz here: https://sexedwithdb.fillout.com/smutquiz ABOUT SEASON 13 Season 13 of Sex Ed with DB is ALL ABOUT PLEASURE! Solo pleasure. Partnered pleasure. Orgasms. Porn. Queer joy. Kinks, sex toys, fantasies -- you name it. We're here to help you feel more informed, more empowered, and a whole lot more turned on to help YOU have the best sex. CONNECT WITH USInstagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdbThreads: @sexedwithdbpodcast X: @sexedwithdbYouTube: Sex Ed with DB SEX ED WITH DB SEASON 13 SPONSORS Uberlube, Magic Wand, LELO, and Happy V. Get discounts on all of DB's favorite things here! GET IN TOUCH Email: sexedwithdb@gmail.comSubscribe to our newsletter for hot goss, expert advice, and *the* most salacious stories! FOR SEXUAL HEALTH PROFESSIONALS Check out DB's workshop: "Building A Profitable Online Sexual Health Brand" ABOUT THE SHOW Sex Ed with DB is your go-to podcast for smart, science-backed sex education — delivering trusted insights from top experts on sex, sexuality, and pleasure. Empowering, inclusive, and grounded in real science, it's the sex ed you've always wanted. ASK AN ANONYMOUS SEX ED QUESTION Fill out our anonymous form to ask your sex ed question. SEASON 13 TEAM Creator, Host & Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB) (she/her) Producer and Growth Marketing Manager: Wil Williams (they/them) Social Media Content Creator: Iva Markicevic Daley (she/her) MUSIC Intro theme music: Hook Sounds Background music: Bright State by Ketsa Ad music: Soul Sync by Ketsa, Always Faithful by Ketsa, and Soul Epic by Ketsa. Thank you Ketsa!
Join us on Patreon at patreon.com/humpdayquickies In this rewind episode of Hump Day Quickies: Swingers Confessions, Nessa and G take you back to March 2023 for an unforgettable weekend that started with Cockfest (complete with a flirty Nigerian prince encounter) and exploded into pure chaos at the White Party. After Nessa battled a brutal migraine that nearly derailed their biggest pre-party yet, G hosted 13 eager guests solo—building connections that carried straight into the club. When Nessa made a dramatic late-night recovery fueled by FOMO, the night escalated into an epic 10-person full-swap orgy in one very crowded, steamy room, complete with girl-on-girl starts, floor acrobatics, and a whole lot of heat. Patreon listeners get the full uncensored experience: exclusive audio snippets captured right after the play, letting you hear the raw sounds and breathless reactions from that wild group session as well as some up coming travel plans. Whether you're new to the lifestyle or a seasoned swinger, this episode is packed with laughs, lessons (like respecting BDSM scenes), and the kind of real, heart-pounding stories that make the ethically non-monogamous world so addictive. Email your questions to Nessa here to be part of "Ask Nessa". Please subscribe on your favorite podcast platform. You can catch us on SLSRadio every Wednesday at 4pm Eastern Time. You can find tons of amazing lifestyle show on FullSwapRadio, including our show, Every Wednesday at 6:30pm and Midnight Eastern Time. We are now hosts on the Swinger Society Discord Server as well. If you have your own sexy stories, please call our hotline and share them with us and our audience. 844-4-Hump-Day If you have any questions for us, please email us at humpdayquickies@gmail.com Visit our website as well. HumpDayQuickies.com Please follow us on all the social platforms: Twitter - HumpDayQuickies Instagram - HumpDayQuickies FaceBook - HumpDayQuickies TikTok - HumpDayQuickies We are adding new content as quickly as we can!
Genna James is a super popular cam star, creator, and chaos technician — and this one gets nasty in the best way. We go deep into the cam world from someone who actually lives there: marathon live sessions, thousands of people watching in real time, chat going bonkers, and what it feels like to be on camera while the whole room is watching you cum.She tells the Black Friday fuck-machine story, gets into collabs with other women and her neighbor, and breaks down the requests she gets nonstop — from the regular stuff to the truly unhinged. We also hit cam-room etiquette, audience control, where she likes the cumshot, and whether she's thinking about making the jump into mainstream.Welcome to the Season 5 Premiere, welcome to EP 214: "The Tit Factor" with Genna James.Watch the video version of the show on YouTubeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Genna JamesInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mypnkgf (@mypnkgf)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
A 60 year old woman wonders where she can score some poppers. A lesbian would like to score a queer dominatrix to work her over. On the Magnum, Dan chats with Rich Juzwiak of Slate's love and sex advice column, "How to Do It." They talk about how to make anal sex pleasurable when your partner is very, very, (some might even say "too") well endowed. How too many sex partners can be dangerous. And they discuss age gap relationships: are we are in an age of peak daddy? And, a woman's boyfriend complains that his wiener slips out during sex because she is "too wet." Q@savage.love 206-302-2064 This episode is sponsored by Sundays for Dogs- Dog food using the same ingredients and care you'd use to cook for yourself and your family. Go to sundaysfordogs.com/SAVAGE50 and get 50% off your first order. Or, you can use code SAVAGE50 at checkout. This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit VB.Health when you use the code Savage. Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From polyamory, to BDSM, gay rights to sexual health and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since the 1800s.
Send a textTuesday Talks: Why Is There Always Food at Sex Parties? | Episode 97In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle.This week, they get a call from a listener who leans more toward the BDSM community but also attends lifestyle and kink events. One thing has them puzzled? The food. From elaborate spreads at house parties to midnight pizza at hotel takeovers and dungeon events, they're wondering… why is there always food at sex parties? And do Dan and Lacy actually partake?Dan and Lacy skip the fluff and get straight to it. They break down the practical side — long nights, high energy output, and the simple reality that people get hungry. They also tackle the real concerns around germs, cross-contamination, and whether a snack table anywhere near a play space is ever a good idea. They share their honest opinions on when food makes sense, when it feels questionable.Whether you're into swapping, kink, or somewhere in between, this episode is a fun, candid conversation about food, fuel, hygiene, and how to navigate it all without killing the vibe. Don't miss this lighthearted but honest take on one of the most unexpectedly debated topics in the lifestyle.Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures- The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!)- Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect & events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group- Swinger Websites -Kasadie 90 day free trialUsername: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** SLSUsername: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl- Merch & More -Order Your Merch Here!- Lacy's Fun Links -VIP OnlyFansPREMIUM OnlyFans-- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS --Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyoneUse Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder!Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testingUse Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order!Promescent® Make Love Longer, It's Time for Great SexUse Code SwingNation for 5% off!Sling it Bikinis: adjustable one-size styles, thoughtfully crafted to flatter eveSupport the show- Thank you for the support! -
Emerald Fennell's new Wuthering Heights is full of stylistic provocations — skin walls, bed eggs, and light BDSM among them — but whether they are in service of, or distractions from, a bigger idea about the source material is up for debate this week. The divided reactions to Fennell's contemporized take on an oft-adapted classic are reminiscent of the love-it-or-hate it response that greeted Baz Luhrmann's Romeo + Juliet back in 1996, which we bring back in for Connections to examine the core romantic notions driving these two tales of doomed (and frequently soaking wet) love and/or lust. And in Your Next Picture Show we continue the Wuthering Heights adaptation discussion with a couple of recommendations that illustrate some of the different tonal directions this material can take. Please share your thoughts about Romeo + Juliet, Wuthering Heights, or anything else in the world of film, by sending an email or voice memo to comments@nextpictureshow.net, or leaving a short voicemail at (773) 234-9730. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
On today's show, I discuss why most people don't choose what's healthiest or deepest, but what fits. We look at how familiarity, stability, and efficiency shape our decisions in relationships and kink, and the quiet cost of building a life around what doesn't disrupt us.Continue the discussion on Fetlife: @Enhanced-MindDon't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find it. What to be on the show or have an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at TheKinkPerspective@gmail.comFind me on Substack - Enhanced-Mind's Substack | Chris C. | SubstackIf you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at https://enhanced-mind.com/I have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. Can find it where you purchase most of your ebooks. Print version out now!#Psychology #Choice #Fit #Relationships
A young couple that gave cuckolding a go a couple of years ago, but it didn't quite work out. He would like to keep going, she's not so sure. Des and Jamie join the panel and chat about what they do and how they do it and if Cuckolding could become part of their already sensational dynamic of FLR, Dom-Sub, BDSM and chastity. It seems like cuckolding would fit that deck like an easy layup... but maybe not. Come have a listen, enjoy your stay. Like subscribe and leave a comment.Help support the channelwww.cuckmylifepod.comHave some thoughts or comments for the panel?Please get in touch, we'd love to hear from you! cuckmylifepod@gmail.comGet the latest updates!Follow the show on Twitter @cuckmylifepod & Now on Bluesky!
This Special edition I talk with the legend Mena Carlisle. We discuss her start in sex work from stripping to porn. We unpack that and her first pro shoot and her experiences in the business. She discusses on set situations and her BDSM side plus more.Want More Content? 2 ways to get it1. Subscribe my Savage Smoke Sessions on Spotify ( $4.99 a month)https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/smokethisova/subscribe2. Become A Premium SmokerSubscribe to the Premium Smoke Room On Loyalfanshttps://www.loyalfans.com/PremiumSmokeRoomWant More Content. Become a Premium Smokerfor 5 Premium Podcasts , Special Events and More $25.99 a monthSponsored ByHottest Adult Mag Onlinehttps://eroticismmagazine.com/Hottest Adult Film Companyblusherotica.com/videosSara Jay's CBD Selfcarehttps://sarajaycbd.com/Use Promo Code: BOBBIE and receive 10% off your orderSmokekind.com The King Of THCahttps://smokekind.com/?ref=bobbie_lucasPassDat Apparel https://www.teepublic.com/user/the-inhaling-potnasPorn/ Music/ Social Mediahttps://allmylinks.com/pornrapstarGet The Merch:https://www.bonfire.com/store/s-t-o-merch-store/Guest: Mena Carlislehttps://x.com/imenacarlislesmartpa.ge/Mena
Sadly, BDSM month has to come to an end and what a way to end it. This time with a......summer camp??
Sexolog Maria K. Ebbestad og Stine Ugland svarer på spørsmål fra lytterne om alt fra hva slags musikk man skal spille under sex til hvordan man får med partneren på å teste maktlek i sengen. Husk at du alltid får 20% rabatt på sexleketøy hos Nytelse.no om du bruker rabattkoden "KLIMAKS"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Have you ever felt like you've done everything right — therapy, journaling, the inner work — and yet you were still kind of... stuck? Like you intellectually understood your pain but couldn't actually move it?That's where Sara found herself after a 10-year marriage ended; a year of talk therapy later, she still wasn't where she wanted to be. She felt alone in a battle with the voice inside her that said she was a failure, unlovable, and destined to repeat the past.So she did something most people would never, ever do — and it changed everything.It involved the kink world — but not in the way you might think. Here, we get into how she set it all up, why she chose to do it the way she did, what it felt like in the room, and — most importantly — what shifted as a result.This episode is a reminder that healing doesn't always look the way we expect, and that sometimes the bravest thing we can do is feel it all, all the way through ... in community. ---Work with usReady to go deeper than the podcast and take action? Jason and I can help you break old patterns and transform your sex & love life for good. To see if you're a fit for our flagship program, Pillars of Presence, book a call here. Start anytime. (https://evolutionary.men/apply/)---Memorable quotes from this episode:"It had been about a year of talk therapy, and I was thinking, 'Why am I not where I want to be?'"“What if I meet someone horrible and think they're amazing?”"These were thoughts like, 'You're not good enough. You're not special. You're never going to find love. Nobody's ever going to love you. You don't deserve to find the perfect partner for you.'" "I wanted to be pushed. I wanted to be a bawling mess.""I want to feel like I was letting go to a new extent.""Is this really the idea?? Do I really want to do this?""I did this thing, and I survived, and I was in control."“I chose that pain and I chose to let go of that pain.” "Things just became a little easier — of forgiving myself. Not having to be as perfect. Not having to be completely ready."---Mentioned on this episode:DM 231: Her journey from vanilla marriage to BDSM and kink! (ft. Sara)Want to get in touch with Sara? Email me: dearmenpodcast at gmail dot com
Welcome to the Nikky After Dark, where we dive deep into the raw, unfiltered stories of desire, power, and everything in between. I'm your host, Nikky, and today we're exploring the electrifying world of dominance and submission dynamics. These letters from listeners like you reveal the thrill of surrender, the rush of control, and the intimate spaces where fantasies become reality. Buckle up—it's going to be intense.A flirty night at a cocktail party turns into a tense car ride home, where defiance meets dominance, leading to a raw, edge-of-your-seat encounter that ends in sweet, affirming praise.A young woman aches for total submission—pinned down, edged to oblivion, and wrecked in the best way—but wonders if she's alone in craving that freeing intensity.From nervous movie theater kisses to leashes, degradation, and plans for a hotel "destruction," a first-time relationship spirals into addictive BDSM territory.Join us over on Discord. https://discord.gg/uqqxsCSDfw Content Warning: This episode contains explicit sexual content, including graphic descriptions of nudity, public sex, infidelity, and boundary-pushing consensual fantasies. Stories are fictional and depict enthusiastic consent. Listener discretion advised; 18+ only. Submissions involving bestiality, incest, underage role-play, rape, non-consensual content, or racial slurs are not aired. Get Involved:Submit Your Story: Got a secret fantasy or steamy confession? Write to Nikky at Nikky@dearnikky.com or submit anonymously at DearNikky.com/confessions. By submitting, you certify:You're the sole creator of the submission.You're 18+ and legally able to submit erotic material.No prohibited themes (bestiality, incest, underage, rape, non-consensual content, racial slurs).Names/identifiable info may be changed.You release all rights to the submission.Say Hello: Have a burning fantasy or just want to chat? Email Nikky@dearnikky.com or connect on Twitter (@DNikky162), Instagram (@DNikky162) , or Facebook (@DearNikky). Nikky wants to hear your naughtiest thoughts!Support the Show: Love these private peeks into filthy lives? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Spreaker or your favorite platform to help new listeners discover the heat. Your support keeps the conversation sizzling!Support Nikky:Patreon: Unlock exclusive confessions, bonus thoughts, and steamy Q&As at Patreon.com/DearNikky. Join the inner circle for extra spice!Nectar.ai: Explore your wildest fantasies with immersive AI experiences at Nectar.ai. Perfect for Frisky Friday fans craving more.Featured Release: Dear Nikky: Sex Confessions From People Just Like You is out now! Dive deeper into the raw, unfiltered stories you love. Contact:Email: Nikky@dearnikky.comWebsite: DearNikky.com/confessionsSocials: Twitter (@DNikky162), Instagram (@DNikky162), Facebook (@DearNikky)Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dear-nikky-hidden-desires--6316414/support.
This week I interview the newbie BBW Pornstar Eve The Hell Bunny. We first discuss her meet and greet business and how she got into that. Then we discuss her breaking into porn first with amateurs and then with Mike Dirty and Rick Nasty. We unpack both shoots and her shoot with Brickzilla. She discuss how she squirts when she sucks dick and how she is into BDSM. She talks about how she loves rough sex and her navigating the business while being homeless plus more.Want More Content? 2 ways to get it1. Subscribe my Savage Smoke Sessions on Spotify ( $4.99 a month)https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/smokethisova/subscribe2. Become A Premium SmokerSubscribe to the Premium Smoke Room On Loyalfanshttps://www.loyalfans.com/PremiumSmokeRoomWant More Content. Become a Premium Smokerfor 5 Premium Podcasts , Special Events and More $25.99 a monthSponsored ByHottest Adult Mag Onlinehttps://eroticismmagazine.com/Hottest Adult Film Companyblusherotica.com/videosSara Jay's CBD Selfcarehttps://sarajaycbd.com/Use Promo Code: BOBBIE and receive 10% off your orderSmokekind.com The King Of THCahttps://smokekind.com/?ref=bobbie_lucasPassDat Apparel https://www.teepublic.com/user/the-inhaling-potnasPorn/ Music/ Social Mediahttps://allmylinks.com/pornrapstarGet The Merch:https://www.bonfire.com/store/s-t-o-merch-store/Guest: Eve The Hell Bunnyhttps://x.com/hellsfavebunny
This week we sit down with Jayden Aubryn- a trauma-informed therapist, holistic health coach, personal trainer, and movement specialist who works at the intersection of mental health, movement, sexuality, and spirituality. We explore how to reclaim pleasure, consent, and agency after trauma… and why BDSM might be a surprising tool for healing.In this conversation, we dive into:Why learning to relax is essential for sexual wellness (and how to actually do it)Reclaiming sexual agency and defining sexuality on your own termsThe connection between ancestral trauma and sexual liberationPractical tools for reconnecting with sensation in everyday lifeThis is about learning to listen to your body again and redefining sensuality and sexuality on your own terms.Find about more about Jayden's work: https://tiseconsultingandtherapy.com/Connect with Be Well, Sis:Instagram – @bewellsis_podcastSubstack – bewellsis.substack.comFollow, rate, and share this episode!We're supporting St. Jude Children's Research Hospital. Head over to www.stjude.org/bewellsis right now and sign up to be a monthly donor. Together, we can make a real impact.Want to get in touch? Maybe you want to hear from a certain guest or have a recommendation for On My Radar? Get in touch at hello@editaud.io with Be Well Sis in the subject line! Have your own Not Well, Sis rant to contribute? Click here to send it into the show!Be Well, Sis is hosted by Dr Cassandre Dunbar. The show is edited, mixed and produced by Megan Hayward. Our Production Manager is Kathleen Speckert. Be Well, Sis is an editaudio collaboration. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Season 4 ends the only way it should: unhinged, ambitious, and way too honest. Coco Bae pulls up with her 2026 vision board—a literal wall of “targets,” cutouts, and a mission to hook up with 70 guys in one calendar year. Yes, it's insane. Yes, she's serious. And yes… one of the guys is already in motion—he pops in to explain what it's like getting summoned to Australia to be her content boyfriend.We get into what that goal actually takes (logistics, appetite, and chaos), what she's training for next, whether she's finally ready to level up to her "anal era", and if gangbang adventures are on the table. Plus: the wildest flex in the episode—her golden pussy Fleshlight is out now, and her golden asshole is already on the way. Season 4 goes out loud. Turn it up, pour an extra one for me, and enjoy EP 213: "Vision Board" with Coco Bae (SEASON 4 FINALE).Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Coco BaeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cocobae.tv (@cocobae.tv)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
When we asked what kind of porn you're into, so many of you told us you love piss play. We chat to sexologist and psychologist Laura Lee on this seemingly common kink/fetish, why it's so hot for some and how to do it well.SHOW NOTES:Laura Lee Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/lauraleesexology/?hl=enDM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup on IG or email us: thehookup@abc.net.auThe Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.
I just completed the “Tantra Meets BDSM” 7-day training with Om Rupani and Laurie Handlers. And wow... This episode is a personal integration — what I experienced, what blew me away, and what I'm still unpacking.If you listened to my previous episode before attending, this is the follow-up. And if you're new here, this is a candid look into my own personal growth as a sexual human. Welcome.*NOTE: The background noise is the ocean. I recorded this with the intention of publishing the video to youtube. You can watch it here.TOPICS:0:00 A Turning Point in My Life 2:30 Containment7:56 BDSM Scene Creation10:40 Problematic Man/Woman Archetypes15:29 I LOVE Being a Dom18:51 Your Attention is Your Most Valuable ResourceCONNECT:
In this episode of Call Me Mistress, Mistress Mia discussed her recent success in podcast ratings, ranking her as the number one BDSM podcast globally. She addressed a long-standing issue with a listener named Steve who has been leaving negative reviews of her podcast for years, despite her attempts to help him. Mia offered a truce to Steve, inviting him to communicate with her directly or meet in person. The episode then shifted to a discussion on the therapeutic aspects of BDSM, particularly bondage, and how it can provide a sense of security and catharsis for those who have experienced trauma. Mia shared personal experiences and tips for safe and enjoyable bondage practices, emphasizing the importance of consent and communication in the BDSM community.
Iconic comedian Margaret Cho joins us on the podcast to discuss the ups and downs of her career, and all of the ways queerness has always been part of her life. We cover topics like: discovering gay people at her parents' gay bookstore working at a lesbian BDSM leather shop the devastating impact of HIV/AIDS in her communities being a self-proclaimed life-long *** hag starring in the first Asian-American family sitcom on television, and the eating disorder that came from that racism and fatphobia in Hollywood why Ellen Degeneres hates her -You can find out more about Margaret Cho and her current "Choligarchy" stand-up tour at margaretcho.com -Follow her on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, and YouTube Thank you for listening to Cruising Podcast! -Reviews help other listeners find Cruising! If you like what you hear, please subscribe and leave us a 5-star review! -For more Cruising adventures, follow us @cruisingpod on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook -Check out Cruising's Substack for deep dives and companion pieces to our episodes! -Preorder our book, THE LESBIAN BAR CHRONICLES -Support Cruising here! Cruising is an independent podcast. That means we're entirely funded by sponsors and listeners like you! -Cruising is reported and produced by a small but mighty team of three: Sarah Gabrielli (host/story producer/audio engineer), Rachel Karp (story producer/social media manager), and Jen McGinity (line producer/resident road-trip driver). Theme song is by Joey Freeman. Cover art is by Nikki Ligos. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Just how far back do you think the roots of BDSM, D/S, andkink go? Were the Romans into D/S? What about Victorian times? Could Heathcliff and Catherine been ‘kinky'? Have you ever wondered how modern kink communities got started or how did people into BDSM connect before DMs, texting, and the internet?Unless you know Doc Brown or have a DeLorean with afunctioning flux capacitor, this episode will answer all those questions plus explain how military surplus motorcycles and leather jackets laid the foundations for modern kink communities.
On today's show, I discuss why we return to familiar relationship and power exchange dynamics even when we know the cost. We look at the difference between insight and wiring, how intensity can be mistaken for connection, and why calm can feel wrong if your nervous system was trained on unpredictability. I break down the stories we tell ourselves to justify going back, what actually interrupts a pattern, and why the discomfort that follows change does not mean you chose wrong.Continue the discussion on Fetlife: @Enhanced-MindDon't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find it. What to be on the show or have an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at TheKinkPerspective@gmail.comFind me on Substack - Enhanced-Mind's Substack | Chris C. | SubstackIf you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at https://enhanced-mind.com/I have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. Can find it where you purchase most of your ebooks. Print version out now!#Psychology #Patterns #Attachment
Alexander Skarsgård łączy kicz i kamp z wybitnym aktorstwem. Emploi seksbomby i amanta wykorzystuje, tworząc sztukę oraz odważny wizerunek. Skarsgård postanowił zostać też ikoną mody – razem z Miuccią Pradą znalazł się na liście „Vogue's 55 Best Dressed People of 2025”. Mieszkający w USA rodowity Sztokholmczyk promuje swój najnowszy film. Erotyczny, BDSM-owski, romantyczny, gejowski „Pillion” znacząco zmienił sposób, w jaki postrzegany jest Skarsgård. Autor: Marcin Różyc Artykuł przeczytasz pod linkiem: https://www.vogue.pl/a/alexander-skarsgard-aktor-pillion-styl-ikona-mody-meskiej
In Pillion, a.k.a. the “gay BDSM biker movie,” a meek young man named Colin (Harry Melling) meets a handsome, broody biker played by Alexander Skarsgård who brings out his submissive side. They enter into a sub/dom relationship, but the biker remains so mysterious and withholding that Colin starts to want more – endangering the bond the two men share. Follow Pop Culture Happy Hour on Letterboxd at letterboxd.com/nprpopcultureTo access bonus episodes and sponsor-free listening for Pop Culture Happy Hour, subscribe to Pop Culture Happy Hour+ at plus.npr.org/happy.Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoicesNPR Privacy Policy
Send a textIn this episode, our heroes continue with their new normal and find that calendar-ing is a thing. Both kinky and non-kinky connections are trying to be made, while Renee experiences the joy of weight-loss.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
When you are on your BDSM/kinky sex journey and you meet "that person" the changes your point of view about who you are sexually or whether you are Dominant or submissive 100% of the time, that can be wonderful and terrifying at the same time! Don't worry the universe is changing constantly and so are you! We kink talk about it. Then...Uncle Creepy and Boogie talk about...um well let's just say can you smoke a thing that leaves your body at a heightened sexual moment??? yah...we kink talked about that too...lol A lot of people have apparently tried this. Is it safe? We kink talk about it on the world's great kinky sex BDSM podcast...Perverted Podcast!
THIS IS A PREVIEW PODCAST. NOT THE FULL REVIEW. Please check out the full podcast review on our Patreon Page by subscribing over at - https://www.patreon.com/NextBestPicture For this week's second podcast review, Josh Parham, Dan Bayer, Lauren LaMagna, Aaron Isenstein, and Tom O'Brien join me to discuss the debut feature film from Harry Lighton, "Pillion" starring Alexander Skarsgård, Harry Melling, Douglas Hodge, Lesley Sharp, Jake Shears, and Anthony Welsh. The film follows Colin (Harry Melling), a timid gay man, as he starts a BDSM relationship with Ray (Alexander Skarsgård), an enigmatic biker who likes to be the dominant one in the relationship. The film had its world premiere at the 2025 Cannes Film Festival in the Un Certain Regard section, where it received widespread praise from critics, and several award nominations and wins throughout the 2025 awards season. What did we think of it, though? Please tune in as we discuss the writing, performances, depiction of the BDSM world, the ending, its awards season run, how far we would go for Skarsgård's Ray, and more in our SPOILER-FILLED review. Thank you for listening. Submit yourself and enjoy! Check out more on NextBestPicture.com Please subscribe on... Apple Podcasts - https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/negs-best-film-podcast/id1087678387?mt=2 Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/7IMIzpYehTqeUa1d9EC4jT YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWA7KiotcWmHiYYy6wJqwOw And be sure to help support us on Patreon for as little as $1 a month at https://www.patreon.com/NextBestPicture and listen to this podcast ad-free Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Valentine's Day is either the horniest holiday of the year… or a corporate psyop designed to sell you a giant teddy bear. In this special, Mandii Rose helps me answer the only question that matters: is V-Day still sexy, or did we all get too tired? We get into what to do when you want the night to actually hit—gift ideas, toys, and the kind of simple moves that turn “date night” into “OMFG.”Then Mandii takes us behind the curtain: her mainstream work, her cam-world insanity, and the wildest stuff she's dealt with on fan platforms. She also teases what she's cooking up for Valentine's content, her new scene with Mick Blue, and yes—we go where Sex Party always goes: DP talk, group-scene curiosity, and why certain experiences rewired her brain in the best way possible. Happy VDay and enjoy "Roses Are Red" The 2026 Valentine's Day Special. Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Mandii RoseInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mand_iirose (@mand_iirose)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
Have you heard about the new A24 movie from writer/director Harry Lighton that's almost a romantic comedy about gay BDSM biker culture? That's PILLION, starring Alexander Skarsgaard and Harry Melling, and we're thrilled to have our friend Nayland Blake (an influential artist and teacher who's an authority on queer kink, riding with us!What's Good?Alonso - Trans Girl Scouts you can buy cookies fromDrea - The Milan-Cortina Olympics (also Coach Jackie)Nayland - Midwest Magic Cleaning on YouTubeKevin - Casey Abrams at Hotel Cafe (w/surprise Dave Koz); Bobby Brown at the barITIDICLetterboxd Op-Ed: Is Streaming Making Movies Less Memorable?Kristen Stewart Buys Highland Park TheaterOur ‘Sex-Positive Movie Night' Picks in a Letterboxd ListStaff PicksAlonso - Good Luck, Have Fun, Don't DieDrea - Nirvanna The Band The Show The MovieNayland - BloodsistersKevin - SecretaryNayland's Books:My Studio Is a Dungeon Is the StudioNo Wrong Holes: Thirty Years of Nayland Blake Follow us on BlueSky, Facebook, Instagram, or LetterboxdWithKevin AveryDrea ClarkAlonso DuraldeProduced by Marissa FlaxbartSr. Producer Laura Swisher
YOU GUYS ASKED and we delivered with our VERY SPOILER FILLED review of Pillion. Is it the new 50 shades? Dive into our likes, dislikes and critical review as kinksters in the BDSM community. This movie about the timid Colin (Harry Melling) and his spontaneous meeting of Ray (Alexander Skarsgard), a dom, kinky, biker gang leader who initiates him into the world of kink. Is it good kink and bdsm representation? Well, that's a complicated answer!IF YOU HAVNT WATCHED IT YET AND DONT WANT IT SPOILED, COME BACK AFTER YOU'VE SEEN THE MOVIE! YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED!- Go to http://www.leatherDaddySkin.com and use code WATTS for 20 percent off your entire order. -- Justin Hall -Pride in Panels THIS WEEKEND: https://www.prideinpanels.orghttps://x.com/justincomicshttps://www.instagram.com/justinhallcomics- Watts Socials -Discord: https://discord.gg/bxqDQVcKH7Amps Linktree: https://linktr.ee/pupampKristofer Linktree: https://linktr.ee/mrkristoferSAFEWORD MERCH: http://www.safewordshop.comTWITCH: http://twitch.tv/wattsthesafewordWatts Your Safeword Podcast:Itunes: http://apple.co/2QkMDwkSpotify: http://spoti.fi/2QjPNjLBluesky:https://bsky.app/profile/pupamp.bsky.socialhttps://bsky.app/profile/wattsthesafeword.bsky.socialhttps://bsky.app/profile/mrkristofer.bsky.socialTwitters:http://twitter.com/WattsTheSafewrdhttp://twitter.com/PupAmpInstagrams:https://instagram.com/PupAmp/https://instagram.com/mrkristoferwestonhttps://instagram.com/wattsthesafewordFacebook: http://ow.ly/Z5nvMPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/WattsTheSafewordOpening by the magical Aethernaut https://aethernaut.bandcamp.comMusic by Joakim Karud http://youtube.com/joakimkarud
Juliana Peres Magalhes, the Brazilian au pair at the center of a twisted sex-and-violence plot, was sentenced for manslaughter—the woman prosecutors say helped plan one of the most disturbing double murders the court has ever seen. Drew Nelson reports. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Just in time for Valentine's Day, Kash and Nicole Chappelle are joined by Sportsheets Brand Ambassador Corrine Musick for a discussion of BDSM, sensory play, sex education, essential bedroom accessories, and more.
Sadly I cannot respond directly to your text, so please Email me!On this one I break down how to communicate about FLR, kink, power exchange, and sexual dynamics in a way that builds connection instead of fear, pressure, or misunderstanding. Whether you're curious about FLR, chastity, BDSM, or simply want to have healthier conversations with your partner, this episode is your starting point.I talk about how to bring up difficult topics, why listening matters more than convincing, how body language and timing affect communication, and why taking sex out of the conversation at first can actually strengthen intimacy. I also explain how skills learned in the kink and FLR communities — consent, boundaries, negotiation, and emotional awareness — apply directly to everyday life, parenting, work, and family relationships.This episode isn't about sex acts. It's about connection, consent, respect, and emotional safety — and why communication is the foundation of every healthy relationship.Topics CoveredHow to communicate about FLR and kink with your partnerTalking about power exchange without pressure or fearWhy listening is more important than speakingActive listening, body language, and emotional awarenessTaking sex out of the conversation to build trustWhy consent and boundaries strengthen relationshipsHow FLR communication skills apply to real lifeBreaking generational shame around sex and intimacyWhy kink is not abuse — and what consent actually meansHow relationships evolve over time through honest communicationKey TakeawayHealthy Female-Led Relationships — and healthy marriages in general — are built on communication, consent, patience, and trust, not sex acts, labels, or performance.Subscribe to Krystine's FLR Podcast for real-life conversations about Female-Led Relationships, communication, consent, and emotional connection — beyond fantasy and judgment.Support the showHelp Support The Show? https://www.krystinekellogg.com/ Email Me! KrystineKellogg@Gmail.com Want to support the podcast and be involved with the behind-the-scenes, including voting on episode topics, as well as tiptoe with me into this whole "coaching" thing. Find my Patreon HERE! Keywords:domestic discipline, female led relationship dynamics, accountability, communication, people pleaser, personal growth, female led relationship challenges, discipline strategies, humor in relationships, shared growth, female led relationship advice, discipline and play, understanding in partnerships, personal anecdotes, physical touch, relationship rules, partnership growth, podcast insights, female-led relationships, submissive rewards, holiday appreciation, partner devotion, relationship dynamics,, control and appreciation, partner confidence, submissive devotion, unique dynamics, balance of control, partner nurturing, relationship empowerment, submissive strength.pegging, female-led relationship, kink, empowerment, dominance, submission, ass play, emotional connection, intimacy, power play, strap-on, control
Janet Walsh-Adams is a neurodivergent PhD candidate at Deakin University, researching a pattern that many autistic people have noticed for years: autistic adults may be more likely to pursue consensual non-monogamy (CNM). We talk about what CNM is (and what it isn't) and how stigma — not the relationship style itself — often creates the biggest risks.Janet shares personal context alongside early findings from her work, including how autism, ADHD, gender diversity, and LGBTQIA+ identity can overlap with relationship structures like CNM, polyamory, kink/BDSM, and relationship anarchy. We also dig into what clinicians still need to learn (and unlearn) about autistic intimacy, and what Janet hopes her research will change — especially when it comes to safety and autonomy.Topics explored include:What consensual non-monogamy actually means (polyamory, monogamish, swinging, and more)Why autistic people are so often miscast as uninterested in intimacy and where myths like these come fromAutism + ADHD overlap, AuDHD, sensation seeking, and moreGender diversity and LGBTQIA+ culture as key factors in relationship stylesWhich group reports higher infidelity — autistics or neurotypicals?Why breakups in non-monogamous relationships aren't "proof they don't work"Watch this episode on YouTube.Follow Janet on LinkedIn.If you'd like to know more about topics discussed in this episode, check out:"Sexuality, Gender, and Autism" by K. Cooke et al. (chapter in The Palgrave Encyclopedia of Disability edited by Gabriel Bennett and Emma Goodall) Theme music: "Everything Feels New" by Evgeny Bardyuzha. All episodes written and produced by Kristen Hovet.Send in your questions or thoughts via audio or video recording for a chance to be featured on the show! Email your audio or video clips to otherautism@gmail.com through WeTransfer. Buy me a coffee!Buy The Other Autism merch. Use code FREESHIP for free shipping on orders over $75 USD! The views, opinions, and experiences shared by guests on this podcast are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the host or production team. The content is intended for informational purposes only and should not be taken as medical or professional advice. Please consult with a qualified healthcare provider before making any decisions related to your health, fitness, or wellness.
Sally Dinosaur doesn't perform desire, she inhabits it. In this raw, funny, and deeply honest episode, Sally joins Holly to talk about BDSM dynamics, camming orgasms, public-risk streams, the burnout that shut her body down, and the explosive comeback that proved her audience never left. From accidental penis humiliation mishaps to learning how to separate fantasy from real life, this episode digs into what happens when pleasure becomes a profession — and why listening to your body might be the most hardcore move of all. Want the unedited, uncensored live tapings + bonus Q&A where fans can ask questions? Join our Patreon. https://patreon.com/hollyrandallunfilteredThis episode is brought to you by Stripchat, the exclusive sponsor of Holly Randall Unfiltered. https://www.instagram.com/scworld.officialBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/holly-randall-unfiltered--6630320/support.
Writer, performer and producer, Judy Calabrese took a chance on being a switch and ended up gaining far more pleasure than she'd anticipated. Certified sex educator and sex worker, Elle Stanger, learned something new about her body during an impromptu experience in a gay bar bathroom. Topics you'll hear about: Dominatrix work and BDSM as a newbie Erotic spanking Squirting, aka "she-jaculation" or "female ejaculation" Sex work, including an important myth set straight Check out Judy and Elle's stories in The Big Book of Orgasms, Volume 2: 69 Sexy Stories: https://bit.ly/3bgQG9k - edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner patreon.com/girlboner Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin. This episode was originally released in June, 2022.
WILDEST. EPISODE. EVER.Chloe Kreams is on the show, and this episode is full-send chaos. She's funny, sharp, and brutally honest about what she likes, what she's curious about, and how far she's willing to take it when the vibe is right. THERE'S SO MUCH I CAN'T EVEN MENTION HERE OMG. Strap-on energy, group-scene madness, and taboo territory that somehow stays hilarious.We get into her collab with Gia Derza, why she proudly leans into being a hairy creator (bush, pits, all of it), and how she thinks about exploring without shame while still owning her boundaries. Towards the end of the episode we get into the wild stuff fans ask for on OnlyFans — but this episode is truly all about Chloe being Chloe: bold, unfiltered, and out of control.Strap in, strap on, strap down and enjoy EP 212: "Cross The Streams" with Chloe Kreams.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Chloe Kreams Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chloe_kreams (@chloe_kreams)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
Pain doesn't always mean suffering — sometimes, it means connection, trust, and unexpected pleasure. In this third episode of Finding Pleasure in Pain series, we explore the many types of pain play within BDSM, from impact and sensation play to psychological and endurance-based dynamics. We'll break down how pain can feel pleasurable, why different bodies and minds experience it differently, and how consent, communication, and aftercare transform pain into a powerful, intimate exchange. Whether you're kink-curious, experienced, or simply looking to understand BDSM more deeply, this episode offers a compassionate, educational look at how pain can become pleasure — safely, consensually, and intentionally. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com
How Pillion has reignited curiosity about the leather daddy archetype — and what that reveals about visibility, stereotypes, and lived experience in the broader leather and kink communities. We're talking about the premise of the Dom/Sub storyline as well as talking about the history of the leather community The hosts share personal stories of their involvement in the BDSM community and what it means to them Mainstream audiences are encountering leather/BDSM dynamics very openly — in a rom-com-ish, kink-positive story. How narratives around power, identity, sexuality, and aging intersect in queer spaces. Hot Topic: We break down the Super Bowl halftime show! Hot Topic: We're talking the Winter Olympics and 'penis gate' and Gus Kenworthy pees on ice to protest ICE Hot Topic: The controversy of a leaked email to instructors at Barry's Boot Camp about how to deal with ICE... Advice: Not feeling enough and having the feeling to compete with other body types we see on social media... Get 20% OFF now through Feb. 17 Steve V's new app Connect & Confidence Studio.com/stevev/connect Follow Steve V. on IG: @iam_stevev Follow Lincoln on IG: @madlincoln Follow Kodi on IG: @mistahmaurice Rate and Review us! Wanna drop a weekly or one time tip to TAGSPODCAST - Show your love for the show and support TAGS! Visit our website: tagspodcast.com Needs some advice for a sex or relationship conundrum? Ask TAGS! DM US ON IG or https://www.talkaboutgaysex.com/contact Follow Of a Certain Age on IG: @ofacertainagepod Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
If there's one aspect of sex that's severely misunderstood, it's kink. From 50 Shades of Grey misrepresenting it as being non-consensual and all about pain, to the stigma of openly associating with any kind of desire that's not ✨mainstream✨ it can be a little intimidating to consciously decide to engage in kink for the first time. And not least because there's so much information out there that, as a beginner, it can be easy to feel overwhelmed and wonder if your desires even count as kink at all.Well, never fear, because in this episode we're joined by the wonderful Gigi Engle to discuss everything you need to know about kink as a beginner. We start the episode answering some listener questions (to access more subscribe to our Substack @sextras) before jumping into why we need to talk about kink (hint: because more people engage in it than you realise, and it can be dangerous if you get it wrong!).Gigi tells me about her own journey into kink and explains what a kink actually is, and what it's not (ie. it's not just BDSM and foot fetishes). We look at how power dynamics come into it, and why they're not as scary as they might sound, how to know what kinks you're into, and what the most common kinks, or kink-related fantasies, are.To help you stay emotionally and physically safe when practicing kink, Gigi advises us on how to bring up your kink to a partner, and what steps you can take together before even thinking about exploring it in the bedroom – or wherever else you might want to.Thanks so much for listening! You can find Gigi on her Instagram, website, or Substack, and buy her book from the Common Press or your favourite indie bookshop near you (or Am*zon if you must!). We've changed our name on Instagram to @s3xtrasworld (more on this next episode), but as always you can find us there, on our website, TikTok, or subscribe to our Substack (pretty please!). Don't forget to review us wherever you're listening and we'll miss you until next time
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"Pillion" is an erotic comedy drama film written and directed by Harry Lighton, based on the 2020 novel "Box Hill" by Adam Mars-Jones. The film stars Harry Melling as a timid gay man and Alexander Skarsgård as an enigmatic biker who starts a BDSM relationship. The film had its world premiere in the Un Certain Regard section at the 2025 Cannes Film Festival, where it won the section's Best Screenplay prize and the Palm Dog for Mutt Moment, alongside nominations for the Caméra d'Or and the Queer Palm. It received widespread praise from critics, receiving several nominations and awards, including two British Independent Film Awards and a Gotham Independent Film Award, as well as three British Academy Film Award nominations. Lighton, Melling, and Skarsgård were all kind enough to spend some time talking with us about their work and experience making the film, which you can listen to below. Please be sure to check out the film, which is now playing in theaters from A24. Thank you, and enjoy! Check out more on NextBestPicture.com Please subscribe on... Apple Podcasts - https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/negs-best-film-podcast/id1087678387?mt=2 Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/7IMIzpYehTqeUa1d9EC4jT YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWA7KiotcWmHiYYy6wJqwOw And be sure to help support us on Patreon for as little as $1 a month at https://www.patreon.com/NextBestPicture and listen to this podcast ad-free Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Have you ever considered that the silk against your skin might be doing more than just making you pretty? That those tight laces aren't merely decorative—they're a bridge between your body and your submission? That's the topic of this week's episode of The Weekly Hot Spot, Sissy Bondage Wear.Clothing has always been a tool of control. From Victorian tight-lacing to modern locking corsets, what we wear shapes not just how others see us, but how we experience our own submission. Ms Erika brought this topic to the table after an inspiring conversation about how bondage wear serves as a constant reminder of "who and what you are" when you're in your sissy headspace. It's the difference between simply wearing a dress and being held by it.As Femdoms, we'll explain the tension between restriction and reward—the "princess paradox," if you will. Can a sensual Dominatrix wield a hobble dress with the same effectiveness as a strict protocol Mistress? (Spoiler: absolutely, but the psychological impact shifts.) We discuss how locking ankle straps, spreader bars, and even DIY budget-friendly options like repurposed pantyhose can create that coveted feeling of helpless feminization without breaking the bank.Finally, we talk about our favorite locking mechanisms, from padlocks to numbered tags that look like tiny zip ties. We emphasize safety when doing solo distance domination play.This conversation is for the sissy who wants to understand how a simple Ace bandage cincher or hobbled heels can shift sissy training into a profound feminization experience.Have you discovered the transformative power of restrictive feminization? What's your essential piece of sissy bondage wear—the item that instantly drops you into submission?If this episode leaves you aching to explore your own wardrobe of restraint, remember that Erika and I'm available for private phone and text sessions where we can design your perfect sissy bondage protocol. We're both on DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErikaOlivia@EnchantrixEmpire.comTwiterX: @MistressOlivia1 Blue Sky: @Ms Olivia Ms Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressErika@EnchantrixEmpire.comTwitterX and Blue Sky: @ErikaEnchantrix Ms Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyUntil next time… stay pretty, stay sexy, and stay bound to us.
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, episode 748 Dawn chats with Hypnostory and Panda about Memory Play, but it also drifted into talking about agency in Hypnosis…..great conversation…. ……plus, she reviews some bdsm terms like "aftercare, negotiation, collaring and free-use". Links mentioned on the show: Intrigue https://fetlife.com/events/1725996 NM Leather & Kink Fair https://fetlife.com/events/2026/04/11/nm-leather-kink-fair-sat-apr-11-2026-puaxxg Primal Arts Fest https://fetlife.com/events/1911410 Transcript 1:38 Interview with Hypnostory and Panda 3:12 What is Memory Play? 4:17 Example of Memory Play 12:05 Hypnosis is teamwork 12:51 Using distraction to help with forgetting 15:04 Bottoming for hypnosis is not passive 17:58 Neural Pathways 19:40 Utilization in hypnosis 20:58 Dawn realizes hypnosis has skills like guided meditations 22:14 Hypnosis in Kink 24:53 Resistance and Agency 28:40 Removing suggestion 33:39 Vampire and Thrall style relationship 37:38 Consent Violation 40:25 Class is on February 15th at 3:00 PM Eastern Time - online - Remembering to Forget, exploring Memory Play 41:58 Where to find online hypnosis community 46:19 aftercare 46:50 negotiation 47:18 collaring 47:49 free use Enjoy!!! Dawn ***************************************** Fetlife - @erotic_awakening Fetlife - @dawn_awakening Instagram - @eroticawakening Youtube - @eroticawakeningpodcast TikTok - @eapodcastdawn Newsletter - www.eroticawakening.com Discord - https://discord.gg/WQtSM56V39 748 - #bdsmterminology #bdsmterms #aftercare #bdsmnegotiations #freeuse #bdsmtng #kinkvirtual #powerexchange #polyamory #livingms #polyamorytoolkit #kinkeducation #leathereducation #onlineeducation #podcast #eroticawakeningpodcast #bdsm #domsub #submission #heartsandcollars
Yes, we just did this a few weeks ago, but we all probably need a good rant or two. In this episode: Join our Patreon during the 2026 Membership Drive I don't want to... The post BDSM Reddit Response appeared first on Loving BDSM.
A Classic RISK! episode from our early years when Brian Finkelstein, Carrie Wade and Matt Oberg told true stories at the live RISK! show for the 2013 LA Storytelling Festival.
Yip! Yap! Bite! A woman's little, nasty, needy dogs are anything but "comfort animals" and her girlfriend isn't having it. She refuses to move in with the caller while those tiny beasts are around. Are they fundamentally incompatible? A British woman learned that her husband had sexual experiences with other boys at his British boarding school. She never knew this and finds it shocking. Dan brings on the sexiest survivor of boarding schools that we know- porn star John Thomas. Let John's amazing voice take you on a journey examining situational homosexuality at British boarding schools. And on the Magnum, a man with blood cancer has an enlarged spleen. He's worried that anal sex might cause him harm. Dan brings on anal surgeon Dr. Evan Goldstein to talk about risks, and how sex toys can rearrange your guts...safely. And a woman who is learning about gay intimacy for the first time through "Heated Rivalry" wonders if homo sex goes as fast as it does on the tee-vee. Q@Savage.Love 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep. Right now, Helix is offering 27% off site wide. Go to HelixSleep.com/Savage. With Helix, better sleep starts now. This episode is brought to you by Blueland. Going eco has never been easier. Revolutionary, refillable cleaning essentials eliminating single-use plastic. Right now, get 15% off your first order by going to Blueland.com/Savage This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit VB.Health when you use the code Savage. Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From polyamory, to BDSM, gay rights to sexual health and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since the 1800s.
Solo sex is one of the most powerful tools you have for better partnered sex — and most people are barely scratching the surface. In this throwback episode, Dr. Emily makes the case for why your relationship with yourself might be the most important sexual relationship you'll ever have. From finding out what actually turns you on to using masturbation as a way to manage stress and boost confidence, Emily covers everything you need to know about flying solo — including how to bring toys into the mix without awkwardness. She also takes listener calls about navigating different libidos in relationships, dealing with performance anxiety, and figuring out how to ask for what you want in bed. In this episode, you'll learn: • Why masturbation is essential for sexual self-awareness — not just a fallback when you're single • How to explore fantasies and toys on your own so you can communicate better with partners • The connection between solo pleasure, stress relief, and overall sexual confidence More Dr. Emily: • Shop With Emily! Explore Emily's favorite toys, pleasure accessories, bedroom essentials, and more — designed to support your pleasure and confidence. Free shipping on orders $99+ (some exclusions apply). • Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. • Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Reach out to enrollment@sexwithemily.com to learn more! • Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. • The only sex book you'll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure • Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website • Let's get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube • Let's text: Sign up here • Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Timestamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:30 - Why Masturbation Matters (Even If You Have a Partner) 3:05 - The G-Spot Myth: Why It's Really a "G-Area" 4:50 - First-Time Masturbation Guide for Women 8:17 - Choosing Your First Vibrator: What to Know 10:54 - Can You "Retrain" Your Body to Orgasm Without a Vibrator? 14:00 - Edging Explained: How to Intensify Your Orgasms 17:38 - Overcoming Shame and Religious Guilt Around Self-Pleasure 24:01 - The We-Vibe Melt: Why It's a Game-Changer 30:40 - Rapid Fire: Mismatched Libidos, BDSM, and Confidence Tips
Are you living from victim consciousness without realizing that you're struggling and sabotaging intimacy because of it? Josh Trent welcomes Tah Witty, Master Intimacy Coach, to the Wellness + Wisdom Podcast, episode 798, to unpack how victim identity wires victim physiology, why lies carried in the body accelerate aging and fuel drama, how the victim villain hero triangle shows up in relationships, healing, and leadership, what the Condor Approach reveals about seeing life from a higher vantage point, and why radical honesty, patience, and refusing to rescue others are the real gateways to freedom, intimacy, and trauma integration.