Podcasts about BDSM

If you're curious about kink and BDSM but aren't sure where to begin, this episode is for you. Returning guest Ashley Randall (Irreverent Femme), a certified Sex, Intimacy, and Kink Coach and professional Dominatrix, joins us to explore what healthy, consensual kink really looks like—and why it can be a powerful path to deeper intimacy, trust, emotional connection, and personal healing. Together, we unpack common myths about BDSM, discuss how to move beyond shame and stigma, and share practical advice for anyone interested in exploring kink safely and confidently. Whether you're completely new to BDSM or looking to deepen your understanding, this conversation offers an approachable, judgment-free introduction to building more authentic and connected relationships. In this episode, we discuss: Kink and BDSM for beginners How to get started with BDSM safely The foundations of consent, communication, and trust What it really means to be dominant or submissive Creating emotionally connected and deeply satisfying play Removing shame and stigma around kink and alternative relationship dynamics Practical tips for safe, sexy, and fulfilling exploration Various popular kinks such as cuckolding and spanking Ashley Randall, also known as Irreverent Femme, is a certified Sex, Intimacy, and Kink Coach and Dominatrix based in Los Angeles. Through her practice, Irreverent Love, she helps individuals and couples build confidence, deepen intimacy, and embrace the parts of themselves they've been taught to hide. Ashley is especially passionate about helping clients release shame around sexuality, BDSM, kink, and non-traditional relationship structures while creating richer relationships, stronger emotional connection, and more fulfilling sex lives. To learn more go to http://irreverentcoaching.com https://www.irreverentscents.com IG: @IrreverentLoveCoaching Come to one of our October 2026 Couples Retreats! Learn more and reserve your spot here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠our book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ now! Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shamelesssex.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Wish List⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on IG ⁠⁠⁠⁠@shamelesssexpodcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠ Other links: Get 10% off getting soaking wet with code SHAMELESS at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://soakingwet.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://uberlube.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 15% off our favorite sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://purepleasureshop.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

What if you were crowned ruler over BDSM and it came with a fancy Burger King crown? What changes would you want to make to D/S? Would you alter any of the language of kink? Change community standards? Bust myths about dominants and submissives?In this episode, that very question is the focal point: what would change and why?So take a break from the day, grab a beverage, get comfortable, pop in those earbuds, and press play on the Kink King.(Litigious Lawyer Disclaimer: The Kink King crown is imaginary, the Burger King crown is borrowed only for the joke, and this episode is not affiliated with Burger King.)

On today's show, I'm talking about the difference between wanting to understand someone's past and wanting that past to have belonged to you. We explore why our minds can become attached to experiences we never lived, how curiosity can quietly turn into ownership, and why real intimacy isn't about rewriting someone's history. It's about accepting that the life which shaped the person you love was never yours to possess.This episode is supported by Enhanced-Mind Counseling. If you're looking to understand the patterns behind your relationships, attachment, or the dynamics you find yourself in, you can reach out through my website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://enhanced-mind.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Continue the discussion on Fetlife: @Enhanced-MindDon't forget to follow the show and leave a 5-star rating so others can find it.Want to be on the show or have an idea for an upcoming episode?Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TheKinkPerspective@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Find me on Substack - Enhanced-Mind's Substack | Chris C. | SubstackI have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. You can find it where you purchase most eBooks. Print version available now.#Psychology #Past #Relationships #Life

#147 Free use sounds simple... until you actually try to build it. In this episode, We explain what free use and blanket consent really mean, how they work together, and the signs your relationship is ready for this level of trust. Listen now to find out if your relationship is truly ready for free use.➡️ Download your free BDSM contract: https://domsubliving.com/contract➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/147➡️ Check out the free training & All-Access Pass: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess

Season 5, Episode 767. Replay to get the video version of this discussion on podcast apps. The Art of Intimate Connection: Beyond Physical Touch with Jake (Jakub Tyl) #relationshipcoach #relationship #intimacy #intimacycoach #intimacyinsights Discover how synchronized breathing and emotional presence can transform intimate relationships in ways you never imagined. In this fascinating episode, professional bodyworker Jake shares his unique perspective on the intersection of touch, emotion, and healing, particularly in women's experiences. Through his four years of specialized practice in erotic, tantric, and BDSM massage, Jake reveals how authentic intimacy transcends technical expertise. He emphasizes that true connection happens when partners are fully present and attuned to each other's emotional states. Key highlights: - The transformative power of therapeutic touch - How body awareness leads to better relationship choices - Breaking through emotional barriers from past relationships - The importance of presence and trust in intimate connections - Using synchronized breathing to deepen emotional bonds Ready to revolutionize your understanding of intimacy and emotional connection? Listen to this eye-opening episode that challenges conventional wisdom about relationships and personal growth. Tune in now to explore how deep emotional presence can transform your approach to intimacy and relationships. Find out more about Jake: dotekerota dot com backslash hole On Instagram @dotek.erota Chapters: 00:00:00 - Introduction to Jake's Unique Profession 00:02:06 - Understanding Female Sexuality and Connection 00:10:21 - Connecting with Your Body and Emotions 00:24:38 - Challenges of Intimacy in Relationships 00:26:58 - Emotional Connection in Intimacy 00:52:28 - Understanding Touch and Connection 00:58:14 - Overcoming Intimacy Expectations 01:03:55 - Intimacy Beyond Technique 01:14:26 - Enjoying the Present Moment in Intimacy 01:18:02 - Understanding Sensual BDSM Dynamics 01:22:52 - Balancing Aggression and Tenderness in BDSM 01:25:27 - Building Trust in Dominance 01:32:08 - Embracing Dominance and Learning Key Takeaways: • The emphasis on synchronized breathing as a tool for fostering deeper intimacy is often overlooked in traditional relationship discussions. • Jake highlights that emotional breakthroughs through intimacy can redefine women's boundaries and desires, showcasing a transformative aspect of touch. • The podcast advocates for emotional engagement over mechanical techniques, suggesting that true connection requires presence and trust rather than just physical actions. Sexual health is a part of mental health, don't ignore it. From the Podcast Host Ruan Willow: Ruan's latest erotic storytelling, dark romance suspense thriller fiction novel "Beach House Views": https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/beachhouseviewsbook  All Ruan's Links Shop Podcast Merchandise! Ruan's Store Universal link to Beach House Views: https://mybook.to/beachhouseviews ⁠Support the show and get exclusive content⁠ Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters ⁠https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow Ryze coffee use code podna15 to get 15% OFF at (affiliate) https://www.ryzesuperfoods.com/ Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with affiliate code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at https://www.kiiroo.com/ https://offers.feeliate.com/to92wTJh Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with affiliate code ruan15 ⁠⁠https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow⁠ Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing, All Rights Reserved.

Julio BDSM- Básicos de BDSM- Lunes 13 Programa Completo- 550 Lunes 13: el umbral donde la práctica deja de ser solo gesto y se convierte en lenguaje que tu cuerpo habla sin que tú lo sepas. Esto no es un curso… es una autopsia de tu deseo hecha en vivo y sin anestesia. Y yo soy el cirujano que no usa bisturí, porque la incisión es mental y la sangre es tu atención derramada sobre cada letra. En esta hora y veinticinco minutos vamos a recorrer las prácticas y técnicas básicas. Al final les compartiré una confesión real y muy explícita. Respiren hondo… estamos cruzando el umbral. Temas: - BONDAGE LIGERO - DISCIPLINA, CASTIGO Y RECOMPENSA - DOMINACIÓN COTIDIANA Y SENSACIONES - HUMILLACIÓN, ROLES Y RIESGO Relato: La Chica de Selu -desde Madrid Escucha -Poema de Dom Steven, desde Francia Gracias a Selu y a Dom Steven por su apoyo en la creación de este episodio ¿Te quedaste con ganas de más después de este episodio? Perfecto, eso es justo ,lo que buscaba… Llévate el placer un paso más allá Si te gusta escuchar estas historias, imagina lo que te estás perdiendo en la zona exclusiva: Relatos especiales solo para suscriptores Audios más íntimos, más largos y con menos censura Contenido pensado para quienes disfrutan quedarse “un ratito más” conmigo Suscríbete en iVoox y apóyame haciendo clic en el botón “Apoyar”. Además de disfrutar contenido extra, ayudas a que este podcast siga creciendo y yo pueda seguir contándote historias que te suban la temperatura. Contenido exclusivo solo para quienes quieren “ver y oír más” Si este episodio te encendió la imaginación, espera a ver lo que hay del otro lado: Fotos y calendarios sugerentes Audios especiales y material que no comparto en ningún otro lugar Talleres, cursos y más sorpresas para explorar tus fantasías con calma Pasa a lo rico aquí: Contenido exclusivo en SexyQFans: https://sexyqfans.com/cuentalealayola ¿Tienes una historia que te gustaría que yo cuente? Si hay una fantasía, anécdota o recuerdo que te ronda la cabeza y te gustaría escucharla en mi voz, puedes mandármela: Correo: cuentalealayola@gmail.com WhatsApp: https://wa.me/526869457139 ✈️ Telegram: https://www.t.me/cuentalealayola Redes: @cuentalealayola Tu historia podría cobrar vida en vivo por RadioNocturna.com, todos los lunes a las 11:05 PM (hora CdMx): https://radionocturna.com Si ya disfrutaste… también puedes apoyar Si este episodio te hizo compañía, te arrancó un suspiro o te dio alguna idea traviesa: Puedes darme un empujoncito con un donativo en PayPal: https://www.paypal.me/cuentalealayola Cada aporte ayuda a que pueda seguir produciendo episodios, mejorando el audio y creando nuevas historias para ti. Nota picara pero importante Todos los relatos y personajes de este programa son ficción. Algunas historias se inspiran en la realidad, pero cualquier parecido es pura coincidencia… o pura suerte.

What if you're only missing one piece of the puzzle that's keeping you from the thriving Dom/sub dynamic you've always wanted?Welcome to Part 4 of our special 4-part Jumpstart Your BDSM Journey Bootcamp podcast series!In this final episode, you'll learn:The complete 4-part framework for mastering the BDSM lifestyleThe biggest myths that keep Dominants and submissives stuckWhy skills, mindset, mentoring, and community all work togetherHow to stop piecing together conflicting BDSM adviceWhat it takes to build a thriving, long-term Dom/sub dynamic with confidence

Spoiler alert! Episode 142 is one of those shows that bounces effortlessly between laugh-out-loud moments and surprisingly thoughtful conversations.We kick things off with our usual catch-up, including Andy's ambitious charity bike ride, Amsterdam Pride looking like one giant floating party, and whether psychic mediums are the real deal or simply masters of reading a room.Vicky shares a real-life story from her years as a midwife involving a BDSM couple, explaining why honesty with healthcare professionals can sometimes make all the difference. It's an open, reassuring discussion that many people in the kink community will relate to.Along the way we tackle listener questions, plenty of inappropriate humour, and finish with a Fetish Factoid that introduces a sex position which seems like too much effort! lolAs always, expect laughs, education, random tangents and conversations that most podcasts wouldn't dare have.▶︎ Support us on Patreon for bonus content: https://www.patreon.com/ThePaddedCellPodcast▶︎ www.thepaddedcellpodcast.co.uk▶︎ www.thepaddedcellpodcast.store Watch  the podcast on YouTube:▶︎ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@ThePaddedCellPodcastFollow The Padded Cell for more:▶︎ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61551425184285▶︎ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thepaddedcell_podcast/?hl=en-gb▶︎ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thepaddedcellpodcastRecorded and Produced by Vicky at The Padded Cell StudiosEp 1 - 120 recorded at: ▶︎ Web - http://www.liverpoolpodcaststudios.com

TRIGGER WARNINGThis episode is extremely verbally offensive, degrading and extreme in it's content.This is for losers and urinal lickers ONLY.Try to connect with your local BDSM community. Fetlife is a great way to see others in similar FLR and chastity lifestyles. You can check out Mine in Fetlife at Chastity-Queen. It's a free to join. Hugs, Chastity Queen Locked In Lust 15% OFF:CHASTITYQUEEN Use Discount Code:CHASTITYQUEEN for 15% OFF ANYTHING at www.lockedinlust.com THRONE WISH LISTBuy Me something anonymously or send Me a note telling Me who you are and I will thank you. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the showSUPPORT ME in 2 ways! XOXO1: https://paypal.me/TiffanyTheQueen?country.x=CA&locale.x=en_USOR2: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1992649/supportCHASTITY IS FREEDOMI LOVE YOU 

Send us Fan MailFLASHBACK EPISODE 4/11/24We open with a ridiculous little “negotiation minute” over snacks and ASMR rules, and it turns into a surprisingly useful example of how boundaries actually get made in real time. From there, we dive into a rant that hits a nerve: why so many people grow up without any clear roadmap for relationship stages, then get judged for struggling when the honeymoon phase ends. We use language from Polywise and talk through symbiosis (New Relationship Energy) and differentiation, where the things you don't share stop being cute and start demanding honest renegotiation.We connect those relationship phases to kink, BDSM, and D/s dynamics because the pattern shows up fast when people hit that early frenzy, make big promises, and then discover a real mismatch in needs or limits. We also get into why definitions matter, how terms like SSC, RACK, and PRICK keep evolving, and why “being an educator” should come with the responsibility to explain concepts clearly. If you take classes, follow creators, or date in the scene, we share our best advice: vet your educators the same way you'd vet a play partner.Then we go full chaos with FetLife's ever-growing list of roles, talk solo bondage safety (timers, ice locks, exit plans), detour into bodily autonomy and politics, and close with a high-engagement rating game that reveals what we actually can't live with in a partner. If you like candid banter with practical takeaways on negotiation, consent, relationship communication, and kink education, hit play, subscribe, share this with a friend, and leave us a review. What phase do you think you're in right now?1/6/26 Got a burning question about kink, BDSM, relationships, and/or navigating the wild world of alternative lifestyles? Send in your questions. No topic is too taboo, no curiosity too small! We're all making mistakes, growing, and exploring together!Submit your questions anonymously at aroundthekinkykampfire@yahoo.com or slide into our DMs at Twitter-KinkyKampfire, YT-AroundtheKinkyKampfire, IG-KampfireKinksters. Let's keep the fire going! 1/6/26Support the showCome let us know what you think! - IG -https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/Yahoo - aroundthekinkykampfire@yahoo.comCome check out our merch!https://www.etsy.com/shop/SafeWordSocietyhttps://tee.pub/lic/F1PtyQ_K8kEhttp://www.redbubble.com/people/safewordsociety

What if the reason your Dom/sub dynamic keeps fading isn't a lack of desire, but a lack of a sustainable plan?Welcome to Part 3 of our special 4-part Jumpstart Your BDSM Journey Bootcamp podcast series!In this episode, you'll learn:Why most Dom/sub dynamics lose momentum over timeHow to create BDSM rituals and routines that actually stickSimple ways to balance BDSM with work, family, and everyday responsibilitiesThe secret to staying consistent without feeling overwhelmed or burned outHow to adapt your dynamic as life changes while keeping your connection strong

Well a lot of people get really angry at age gap relationships, but what is the reality? Is it absolute? Should we change laws? What are we really saying when we judge those relationships? well...We Kink talk about it! Before that we cover the fetish/kink of seeing a man in uniform and whether it is healthy or can lead to problems in potential relationships...yes that too...We Kink talk about it! Perverted Podcast for 11 years has had very open and honest discussions about BDSM, kinky sex and all sorts of relationship dynamics and communication. We have combined decades of experience in the public BDSM/kink sex positive community and we've made A LOT of mistakes that hopefully others can learn from.

Samantha Reigns joins Sex Party for an episode that goes completely off the rails in the best way possible. We get into her love of anal, large gangbangs on and off camera, finally trying DP in 2026, her fisting experience, and the time she did a DVP while ten other men watched through a window from the room next door.Samantha also breaks down her wildest strip club experiences, why clubs near airports operate differently, how fans should approach her in public, and the most unhinged requests she's received on OnlyFans. Plus, she reveals how searching a dating app for a woman to join her and her boyfriend in a threesome somehow led to a career in porn. This episode is filthy, fun, chaotic, and absolutely loaded.Pour a double, clean your AirPods, and enjoy EP 234: "Take The Reigns" with Samantha Reigns.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Samantha Reigns Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/officialsamreigns (@officialsamreigns)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

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A lesbian with a pregnant wife is confounded and disgruntled at the way Pride celebrations can be a little too sex positive, especially if you have a little kid. Should Pride parades put on a straight-laced appearance, or go full bacchanal? It's an old, old debate. A woman needs her lovers to tell her she's hot and generally praise her during sex. Like, a lot. Is this a kink? On the Magnum, Dan meets his witty, homosexual match in Bryan Safi. The Emmy Award-winning actor, writer, and comedian known for his work on ABC's “9-1-1” as well as his podcasts, Attitudes! and Ask Ronna, is making his Off-Broadway debut this summer with Are You Mad At Me?? They chat about all this, and answer a caller who wonders if she should agree to a man's request on Feeld to be her "foot boy." Safi is magically delightful, and you simply must listen in. And, a woman's butt plug keeps disappearing up her butt. It's not supposed to work like that, right? Right. Call us with your quandaries. 206-302-2064 Record that Q and send it in: Q@Savage.Love. This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at ⁠Squarespace.com/Savage⁠ and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. Foria is an all natural health & sexual wellness company with product lines using the power of plant actives & CBD to effectively enhance intimacy, sexual pleasure, daily wellbeing, and relief from discomfort. Get 30% off sitewide during their National Orgasm Day sale from 7/30-8/2. Just go to ⁠foriawellness.com⁠ to get your 30% off your order! This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit ⁠VB.Health⁠ when you use the code Savage. Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From polyamory, to BDSM, gay rights to sexual health and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since the 1800s.

The strongest Dom/sub dynamics aren't built on toys or techniques, they're built on the right skills.Welcome to Part 2 of our special 4-part Jumpstart Your BDSM Journey Bootcamp podcast series!In this episode, you'll learn:The most important BDSM skills every Dom and sub should masterWhy communication and negotiation are the foundation of every healthy D/s relationshipHow to use safety protocols, safe words, and aftercare to build trustPractical skills for both Dominants and submissives to grow with confidenceThe common mistakes that hold people back from creating a thriving BDSM lifestyle

On today's show, I'm talking about the moment pain stops being something we carry and starts becoming something we use against the people trying to love us. We explore how legitimate emotional wounds can quietly become shields from accountability and, in some relationships, swords against intimacy.This episode is supported by Enhanced-Mind Counseling. If you're looking to understand the patterns behind your relationships, attachment, or the dynamics you find yourself in, you can reach out through my website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://enhanced-mind.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Continue the discussion on Fetlife: @Enhanced-MindDon't forget to follow the show and leave a 5-star rating so others can find it.Want to be on the show or have an idea for an upcoming episode?Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TheKinkPerspective@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Find me on Substack - Enhanced-Mind's Substack | Chris C. | SubstackI have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. You can find it where you purchase most eBooks. Print version available now.#Psychology #Closure #accountability

Take the free quiz to find out why you're stuck in a sex rut: https://TheBetterBedroom.comWhat does it actually take to feel dominant in the bedroom, and why do so many of us freeze up when it's our turn to lead? In this episode, Heather sits down with Amanda Dames, a kink consultant and former professional dominatrix, to break down the real skills behind dominance, submission, and power dynamics in a relationship.Amanda spent two years working at a dungeon while holding down a corporate job at the Wall Street Journal, and she brings that hands-on experience into a real conversation about how dominant and submissive roles actually work, how to figure out your own authentic style, and how to vet a partner for safety before you ever get started. They cover the different types of Doms (Master, Traditional Dom, Caretaker Dom, and Pleasure Dom), the different types of submissives (service subs, slaves, baby girls and boys), the red flags that signal an unhealthy power dynamic, and why most of what we see about kink and BDSM in movies sets totally unrealistic expectations.If you're ready to go deeper than a podcast episode, visit https://HeatherShannon.co to request a free consultation and learn about Heather's signature Pathway to Passion coaching program.Timestamps: 0:00 Amanda's path from marine biology to the Wall Street Journal to a Craigslist dominatrix job 4:30 Discovering a more powerful, dominant version of herself 8:00 What a Dom's real job actually is, and how to avoid burnout 17:00 Why you need to talk to your partner before you talk divorce 19:30 How a real negotiation between a Dom and a client actually works 26:30 Why being patient with yourself matters more than getting it right the first time 30:00 The four types of Dominants, explained 36:20 The submissive types, and how to find your own style 37:50 How to vet a Dom (or any partner) for safety 45:00 Why movies like Secretary and Baby Girl are not how-to videos 51:00 Amanda's free worksheet for talking about your desires with confidenceTake the free quiz: https://TheBetterBedroom.comLearn more about Heather's Pathway to Passion coaching: https://HeatherShannon.coGet Amanda's free worksheet, Speaking Your Desires With Confidence: https://AmandaDames.comThis podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Podtrac - https://analytics.podtrac.com/privacy-policy-gdrp

Leave us a messge!!///// RE-RELEASE/////In this back catalog re-release of Krystine's FLR Podcast, I talk about power exchange in a female-led relationship and how different that can look from one couple to another.A lot of people still hear “female-led relationship” and automatically think BDSM, whips, chains, abuse, or some extreme version of domination. I want to help break that stigma. Yes, some FLRs include BDSM, chastity, humiliation, ruined orgasms, financial control, or other forms of power exchange. But not all of them do, and they sure do not have to.In this episode, I talk about how an FLR can be defined by whatever works for the people actually living it. Maybe the woman is the breadwinner. Maybe she makes the decisions. Maybe she controls the money. Maybe she delegates the money management because she does not want to deal with it. Maybe the relationship is equal in day-to-day life, but she takes full control in the bedroom. Maybe the dynamic is 24/7. Maybe it is not.I also talk about our own relationship and how, from the outside, we might look backwards compared to what people expect from an FLR. My husband is the primary breadwinner, and I handle a lot of the home life. But he is still deeply attentive, service-minded, supportive, and committed to making my life better. That is part of our power exchange.The biggest point is that you get to make your FLR your own. There is no single correct version. There is no rulebook that says your dynamic has to look extreme, sexual, public, or perfectly labeled. The level of power exchange in your relationship is determined by you and your partner, and the only hard rule is that it has to be consensual.5 Talking PointsFLR does not have to mean BDSMI talk about how female-led relationships have traditionally been associated with BDSM, but that definition is too narrow. An FLR can include kink, but it does not have to.You get to define your own power exchangeEvery couple gets to decide what female leadership looks like for them. It might involve money, decision-making, service, bedroom control, domestic roles, or emotional support.There is no single correct FLR structureSome relationships may look traditionally female-led from the outside, while others may not. What matters is not how outsiders label it. What matters is whether the dynamic works for the people living it.Power exchange can benefit both partnersI talk about why some men may enjoy letting go of control, especially if they carry a lot of responsibility in daily life. For some submissive men, being told what to do and serving their partner can bring fulfillment, peace, and purpose.Confidence is one of the biggest gifts FLR has given meFor me, one of the biggest benefits of this relationship has not just been power or control. It has been confidence. This dynamic has helped me feel stronger, sexier, more grounded, and more certain in the life I am choosing.To find that Audio versions of the FLR Skool courses, just click here.Or FLRSkool SubscribeSupport the showWant to keep this conversation going?Join us inside FLRSkool.com — where real couples are having real conversations about female-led relationships! PLUS find Courses ands Video Episodes at FLRSkool.com!And if you've supported me on Patreon in the past… DM me there. I've got you.TRY STARLINK!Help Support The Show?https://www.krystinekellogg.com/Email Me!  KrystineKellogg@Gmail.comKeywords:domestic discipline, female led relationship dynamics, accountability, communication, people pleaser, female led relationship challenges, discipline strategies, humor in relationships, female led relationship advice, discipline and play, understanding in partnerships, personal anecdotes, physical touch, relationship rules, partnership growth, podcast insights, female-led relationships, submissive rewards, holiday appreciation, partner devotion, relationship dynamics,, control and appreciation, submissive devotion, balance of control, relationship empowerment, submissive strength.pegging, female-led relationship, kink, empowerment, dominance, submission, ass play, emotional connection, intimacy, power play, strap-on, control

What if the biggest thing holding you back in BDSM isn't your partner... but not knowing what you truly want?Welcome to Part 1 of our special 4-part Jumpstart Your BDSM Journey Bootcamp podcast series!In this episode, you'll learn:Why understanding your deepest BDSM desires is the foundation of a thriving Dom/sub dynamicThe biggest mistakes that keep people feeling stuck in their BDSM journeyHow to identify your desires, boundaries, and long-term goalsWhy clear communication creates stronger, healthier D/s relationshipsThe first practical steps to building a consistent and fulfilling BDSM lifestyle

ABOUT DR. LORI BETH BISBEY:Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey is a clinical psychologist, accredited advanced GSRD therapist, sex/intimacy coach, author, speaker and podcast host based in Edinburgh. With more than 30 years helping people create and sustain meaningful and exciting relationships, Dr. Bisbey specialises in GSRD (gender, sexuality, relationship diversity), is consensual non-monogamy and kink BDSM knowledgable and helps traumatised people to move from victim to survivor and back into life. On a mission to create an open dialogue about sex, relationships and authenticity, Dr Bisbey is the Specialist Relationship Therapist on Open House: The Great Sex Experiment on Channel 4, and host of the weekly podcast The A to Z of Sex®, as well as a passionate speaker, dynamic workshop facilitator and sought-after expert in the media on the topics of sex, sexuality, intimacy, relationships and sexual trauma. Dr. Bisbey is the author of Chopping Wood, Shaping Metal & Other Erotic Stories, Dancing the Edge to Reclaiming Your Reality: Essential Life Skills for Gaslighting (and Trauma) Survivors and Dancing the Edge to Surrender: An Erotic Memoir of Trauma and Survival, and identifies as a queer consensually non-monogamous leather woman, and is in a full-time authority transfer-based relationship with her husband. To learn more, visit DrLoriBethBisbey.com. *BRANDITSCAN** **Protect Your Digital Presence** One of the best defenses against social media fraud, impersonation, and stolen content. Protect your name, likeness, and online presence today, and get your first month free when you sign up through my link: **Sign Up:** https://branditscan.com/?aff=marcelaalonso ### **PODCAST AFFILIATES** **SDC | The Lifestyle Community** Looking to explore the lifestyle, meet open-minded people, or learn more about non-monogamy? Join one of the largest lifestyle communities online. **Explore here:** https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=37593 *Take control of your sexual wellness with private at-home testing kits. Convenient, easy, and informed health tracking. **Shop Kits:** https://prodxhealth.com/products/pro-13-home-collection-kit?variant=42594725298278&_ef_transaction_id=&oid=1&affid=123 **Mums Candy | Sweet Deliveries** Treat yourself to fun candy and treats delivered directly to your door. **Get Treats:** https://www.mumscandy.com?sca_ref=11159574.RUXJwCcADs0U8m ### **FOLLOW MARCELA** **Exclusive Content (OnlyFans)**  * **VIP Membership:** https://onlyfans.com/marcela_luv  * **Free Membership:** https://onlyfans.com/latinamilfnyc **Untamed in the City (Substack)** Deep dives and personal writing on lifestyle and culture. **Subscribe:** https://substack.com/@untamedinthecity*ProDx Health | Wellness From Home** Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A door, a knock, the click of tall boots on the floor, and the moment you realise the rules have changed. We invite you into Chastity Queen's sacred space through a guided, trance-like ritual that blends relaxation, erotic audio storytelling, and the psychology of power exchange. If you're drawn to femdom energy, chastity themes, or structured submission, the journey is built to feel immersive, slow, and intentional.We move from breath and calm into clear protocol: entering with lowered eyes, stripping down except for the chastity cage, kneeling in position, and accepting the collar and leash as a symbol of belonging. The experience emphasizes silence, permission, and obedience, not as chaos, but as a container that lets your mind unclench. As the ritual deepens, we explore why structure can feel like relief, how surrender can take weight off your shoulders, and why devotion is measured through follow-through.A turning point arrives with the tribute envelope: written honour, worship offering, and the keys themselves. From there, the scene becomes richly sensory, with candles, vanilla and cinnamon, and a voice meant to resonate through your whole body. The narrative widens into a “highest sacred chamber,” where purpose matters more than prediction, and where the plan is chosen to please the queen.If this episode helps you drop into calm, reflect on what parts of ritual and control speak to you most. Subscribe, share with someone who enjoys guided hypnosis-style kink audio, and leave a review so more listeners can find the show.Try to connect with your local BDSM community. Fetlife is a great way to see others in similar FLR and chastity lifestyles. You can check out Mine in Fetlife at Chastity-Queen. It's a free to join. Hugs, Chastity Queen Locked In Lust 15% OFF:CHASTITYQUEEN Use Discount Code:CHASTITYQUEEN for 15% OFF ANYTHING at www.lockedinlust.com THRONE WISH LISTBuy Me something anonymously or send Me a note telling Me who you are and I will thank you. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the showSUPPORT ME in 2 ways! XOXO1: https://paypal.me/TiffanyTheQueen?country.x=CA&locale.x=en_USOR2: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1992649/supportCHASTITY IS FREEDOMI LOVE YOU 

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In this week's episode, we answer questions asked on the kinky side of Reddit covering topics from upsetting a new partner to wanting to brat during aftercare to a submissive questioning their masochism.

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This week in The Padded Cell, we're going from one of the most jaw-dropping natural events ever recorded to the accidental birth of a gaming icon, before heading into ancient Crete for a brilliantly weird look at the Minoans, mythology, goddesses, snakes, boobs and possibly the earliest dominatrix vibes in history.We also answer a submissive Lady Lobotomy question, then finish with a Fetish Factoid which leads to Vicky blushing her way through a confessionExpect heatwave chaos, ancient oddities, BDSM chat and the usual beautifully derailed conversations.▶︎ Support us on Patreon for bonus content: https://www.patreon.com/ThePaddedCellPodcast▶︎ www.thepaddedcellpodcast.co.uk▶︎ www.thepaddedcellpodcast.store Watch  the podcast on YouTube:▶︎ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@ThePaddedCellPodcastFollow The Padded Cell for more:▶︎ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61551425184285▶︎ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thepaddedcell_podcast/?hl=en-gb▶︎ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thepaddedcellpodcastRecorded and Produced by Vicky at The Padded Cell StudiosEp 1 - 120 recorded at: ▶︎ Web - http://www.liverpoolpodcaststudios.com

After her divorce, Sophia Sloane discovered a side of herself she never knew existed. The self-described “vanilla” woman found confidence, freedom, and a whole new career through camming. We get into what it's really like performing live for hundreds of viewers, the genuine connections she's built with her regulars, and how stepping in front of the camera changed her relationship with sex.Sophia also tells the story of unexpectedly squirting A LOT—during a live ticketed show, the moment she realized what was happening, and how it completely changed the way she thinks about her own body and pleasure. We also dive into the wildest requests she's received on Stripchat, whether collaborations are in her future, and why the biggest surprise wasn't the audience—it was discovering what she was capable of.Roll out your favorite tarp, blanket, or towel and enjoy EP 233: "Sophia's Game" with Sophia Sloane.Watch the video version of the show on YouTubeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Sophia Sloane Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itssophiasloane (@itssophiasloane) Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

In BDSM Practices in Poland: Barbed Wire Floggings, Rope Orgasms, and the Problem with Desire (Palgrave Macmillan, 2025), cultural anthropologist and cultural studies scholar Jay Szpilka analyzes the way that BDSM is practiced in contemporary Poland. Based on extensive field research, she asks what social, cultural, and political conditions are necessary for BDSM to be possible to practice in the first place. Through a nuanced analysis of the way that practitioners navigate conflicting understandings and politics of kink, this book provides an alternative to Western-centric narratives of BDSM communities and challenges a number of long-standing notions about the status kink which circulate in sexuality and queer studies. Jay Szpilka is a visiting fellow at Edinburgh Napier University and an assistant professor at SWPS University in Poland. She is the author of BDSM Practices in Contemporary Poland, and her work has been published in the Feminist Review, TSQ: Transgender Studies Quarterly, Journal of Lesbian Studies, Teksty Drugie, and the Australian Feminist Studies. Atalia Israeli-Nevo is an anthropology PhD candidate at the University of Texas at Austin. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/new-books-network

In BDSM Practices in Poland: Barbed Wire Floggings, Rope Orgasms, and the Problem with Desire (Palgrave Macmillan, 2025), cultural anthropologist and cultural studies scholar Jay Szpilka analyzes the way that BDSM is practiced in contemporary Poland. Based on extensive field research, she asks what social, cultural, and political conditions are necessary for BDSM to be possible to practice in the first place. Through a nuanced analysis of the way that practitioners navigate conflicting understandings and politics of kink, this book provides an alternative to Western-centric narratives of BDSM communities and challenges a number of long-standing notions about the status kink which circulate in sexuality and queer studies. Jay Szpilka is a visiting fellow at Edinburgh Napier University and an assistant professor at SWPS University in Poland. She is the author of BDSM Practices in Contemporary Poland, and her work has been published in the Feminist Review, TSQ: Transgender Studies Quarterly, Journal of Lesbian Studies, Teksty Drugie, and the Australian Feminist Studies. Atalia Israeli-Nevo is an anthropology PhD candidate at the University of Texas at Austin. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/gender-studies

In BDSM Practices in Poland: Barbed Wire Floggings, Rope Orgasms, and the Problem with Desire (Palgrave Macmillan, 2025), cultural anthropologist and cultural studies scholar Jay Szpilka analyzes the way that BDSM is practiced in contemporary Poland. Based on extensive field research, she asks what social, cultural, and political conditions are necessary for BDSM to be possible to practice in the first place. Through a nuanced analysis of the way that practitioners navigate conflicting understandings and politics of kink, this book provides an alternative to Western-centric narratives of BDSM communities and challenges a number of long-standing notions about the status kink which circulate in sexuality and queer studies. Jay Szpilka is a visiting fellow at Edinburgh Napier University and an assistant professor at SWPS University in Poland. She is the author of BDSM Practices in Contemporary Poland, and her work has been published in the Feminist Review, TSQ: Transgender Studies Quarterly, Journal of Lesbian Studies, Teksty Drugie, and the Australian Feminist Studies. Atalia Israeli-Nevo is an anthropology PhD candidate at the University of Texas at Austin. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/anthropology

On today's show, I'm talking about the psychological difference between responsibility and obligation, and why they aren't always the same thing. We'll explore how people gradually lose their sense of choice, why so many remain in situations they've outgrown, and how understanding the reasons behind our decisions can change the way we see ourselves, our relationships, and the lives we're building.This episode is supported by Enhanced-Mind Counseling. If you're looking to understand the patterns behind your relationships, attachment, or the dynamics you find yourself in, you can reach out through my website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://enhanced-mind.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Continue the discussion on Fetlife: @Enhanced-MindDon't forget to follow the show and leave a 5-star rating so others can find it.Want to be on the show or have an idea for an upcoming episode?Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TheKinkPerspective@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Find me on Substack - Enhanced-Mind's Substack | Chris C. | SubstackI have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. You can find it where you purchase most eBooks. Print version available now.#Psychology #Duty #Obligation

In BDSM Practices in Poland: Barbed Wire Floggings, Rope Orgasms, and the Problem with Desire (Palgrave Macmillan, 2025), cultural anthropologist and cultural studies scholar Jay Szpilka analyzes the way that BDSM is practiced in contemporary Poland. Based on extensive field research, she asks what social, cultural, and political conditions are necessary for BDSM to be possible to practice in the first place. Through a nuanced analysis of the way that practitioners navigate conflicting understandings and politics of kink, this book provides an alternative to Western-centric narratives of BDSM communities and challenges a number of long-standing notions about the status kink which circulate in sexuality and queer studies. Jay Szpilka is a visiting fellow at Edinburgh Napier University and an assistant professor at SWPS University in Poland. She is the author of BDSM Practices in Contemporary Poland, and her work has been published in the Feminist Review, TSQ: Transgender Studies Quarterly, Journal of Lesbian Studies, Teksty Drugie, and the Australian Feminist Studies. Atalia Israeli-Nevo is an anthropology PhD candidate at the University of Texas at Austin. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/eastern-european-studies

In BDSM Practices in Poland: Barbed Wire Floggings, Rope Orgasms, and the Problem with Desire (Palgrave Macmillan, 2025), cultural anthropologist and cultural studies scholar Jay Szpilka analyzes the way that BDSM is practiced in contemporary Poland. Based on extensive field research, she asks what social, cultural, and political conditions are necessary for BDSM to be possible to practice in the first place. Through a nuanced analysis of the way that practitioners navigate conflicting understandings and politics of kink, this book provides an alternative to Western-centric narratives of BDSM communities and challenges a number of long-standing notions about the status kink which circulate in sexuality and queer studies. Jay Szpilka is a visiting fellow at Edinburgh Napier University and an assistant professor at SWPS University in Poland. She is the author of BDSM Practices in Contemporary Poland, and her work has been published in the Feminist Review, TSQ: Transgender Studies Quarterly, Journal of Lesbian Studies, Teksty Drugie, and the Australian Feminist Studies. Atalia Israeli-Nevo is an anthropology PhD candidate at the University of Texas at Austin. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A Copa do Mundo já acabou pro Brasil, mas a gente não podia deixar de lançar este episódio aqui, gravado quando ainda havia esperança para o hexa em 2026. Nesse bate-papo, o tema são práticas e dinâmicas fetichistas inspiradas no mundo dos esportes, do futebol e da atividade física e o que esse universo tem em comum com o BDSM. A Ada e a Roxy conversam com a Sereia, nossa convidada frequente de episódios de ideias temáticas, e com ele mesmo, o Hugo, que já fez parte da nossa equipe e foi convocado para uma participação especial. Afinal, não dá pra falar de meiões e chuteiras sem lembrar dele! Vem escutar e dar risadas com a gente e aproveite pra deixar suas dicas e ideias nos comentários! *Episódio disponível também em vídeo!*Gravado em 26 de junho de 2026. Participantes: Ada @aleneouada, Roxy @roxylust, Sereia/Dom Gustavo @domgustavo.gyn, Hugo @h.chicotadasVoz da vinheta: Yultan de Belo Horizonte/MG @yult4n Form para envio de dúvidas e feedbacks: https://forms.gle/x3HUheP52BkALn989  Apoie o Chicotadas! https://apoia.se/chicotadas Nossos links: https://chicotadas.com.br/Confira nosso Instagram: www.instagram.com/chicotadaspodcast  A vitrine do episódio é uma arte com fotos. O fundo é em um padrão amarelo claro com pontos em roxo e elementos que simulam a identidade visual do álbum de figurinhas da copa em vermelho e lilás. No centro da imagem, temos fotos dos 4 participantes do episódio no formato “figurinha do álbum”, com informações sobre cada ume: Roxy, switcher, 30 anos, ela/dela. Ada, domme, 38 anos, ela/dela. Hugo, switcher, 35 anos, ele/dele. Sereia, top, idade não revelada, ela/ele/elu. Em caixas de texto em vermelho e roxo com texto em lilás e amarelo claro, a identificação do episódio: Chicotinho 43, Copa do Mundo e BDSM: Dicas e ideias de práticas do mundo dos fetiches de esportes. Na parte superior e inferior da imagem, é possível ver a logo e o arroba do Chicotadas. Minutagens:3:33 Introdução do episódioVídeo da Rádio Chicotadas: https://www.instagram.com/p/DaEIROFAe9J/Episódios com a Sereia: episódio regular 38, 40, 50 e chicotinho 18.Episódios com o Hugo: grande maioria de out/2020 a nov/2021 e de out/2022 a mar/2025. 5:40 Autodescrição e nossa relação com o mundo dos esportes e da atividade física 13:48 Como o mundo dos esportes e do BDSM se relaciona?Citados: treinamento, meiões, uniformes, objetificação, personal trainer, dinâmica de poder, D/s, chuteiras, podolatria, posições de resistência, flexões, suor, pig, watersports (“esportes aquáticos”: jogos com xixi). 23:30 Recado do apoia.se https://apoia.se/chicotadas 25:30 Dicas e ideias de práticas relacionadas a mundo dos esportesCitados: sommelier de meias, chuteiras, trampling (pisar/pisotear alguém), pig (fetiche em sujeira, cheiros e fluidos corporais), cheiros, suor, wax play (velas), ballbusting (impacto nas bolas), humilhação, exaustão, aposta, mumificação, gol, tiro ao alvo, artes marciais, jiu-jitsu, luta turca, luta greco-romana, singlet (macaquinho de luta), primal play (jogos primais), wrestling (lutas em geral), rinha de switchers, motos, motociclistas, trilheiros, proteção de ombros, equipamento de segurança, camiseta de látex da Cece Hamali, talco e lubrificante, Malu Borges.Post das Olimpíadas: https://www.instagram.com/p/C-NtTVcOIGY/47:11 Ideias para sessão misturando atividade física e dinâmica de poderCitados: treinamento, role play, cuckold, cena pública e apostas, punições e recompensas, chicobet, cu e as olimpíadas do cu, falta de ativos no mercado e as passivas na chuva, pegging, tipos de corridas, suor, pigs, axilismo, suvaco, chulé, plug, castidade, core, gozar fazendo exercício. 1:04:30 Últimos recadosCitados: sequestro. 1:09:31 AftercareVoz da vinheta: Yultan de Belo Horizonte/MG @yult4n 1:12:12 Erros de gravação Nossos links: https://chicotadas.com.br/

#146 Has your D/s dynamic started feeling a little... vanilla? In this episode, we sharing simple BDSM habits that help you stay consistent, build trust, strengthen your Dom/sub relationship, and avoid the vanilla rut – even when life gets busy. Listen now and discover the small daily changes that can make a big difference.➡️ Access the free Resource Library: https://domsubliving.com/free➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/020

Fresh off facilitating at the seventh WeDeepen Love Immersion, host Christina Weber sits down with master coach, intimacy teacher, and professional dominant Yossef Sagi for his first video appearance on the podcast. Together, they unpack how sexuality operates as a primary crucible for confronting deep-seated shame and stepping into radical self-acceptance. From auditing your internal impulses across the "four chambers of desire" to navigating the hidden landmines of modern friendships, this episode is a tactical masterclass in mastering your sexual energy, setting ironclad boundaries, and transitioning from instant gratification to long-term relational fulfillment. Main Topics Covered Shame vs. Sovereignty: Why sexuality is the ultimate arena for confronting internal shame ("bad about who I am") and returning to full self-expression. The Interplay of Love and Discernment: Why true love requires a balance of mercy and rigorous boundaries, acting as a direct antidote to unchecked projection. Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?: Dissecting the gender boundaries of non-sexual intimacy and reframing the psychological trap of the "friend zone." Conflating Intimacy with Sex: How a cultural lack of emotional vulnerability leads men to mistake structural or platonic care for a sexual invitation. The "Four Chambers" of Desires: A holistic framework for auditing your impulses across the Mind, Heart, Body, and Genitals before saying yes to a partner. Separating Desire from Request: A game-changing communication tool that honors your internal truth while giving the other person zero pressure to fulfill it. The Deconstruction of Threesomes: A deep, psychological examination of the "unicorn" dynamic, male entitlement, and the widespread lack of erotic imagination in society. Decentering Men: How custom kink immersions, impact play, and specialized boundary training help women anchor into their terms before entering relationship containers. Key Takeaways Boundaries Are an Ingredient of Love: Firm boundaries around consent, sobriety, and expectations are not limitations; they are the very scaffolding that creates psychological and somatic safety. Desire Is Valid Independent of Fulfillment: By learning to separate your desire from an active request ("I want to kiss you" vs. "Can I kiss you?"), you keep your erotic fire alive without fearing rejection or imposing expectation. Own Your Energetic Field: True safety is cultivated when a man can master, contain, and embody his sexual energy internally rather than constantly projecting it onto the environment as a demand. The Three Stages of Erotic Learning: Navigating the evolutionary continuum from Stage 1 (Innocence/Blind Trust) to Stage 2 (Armored/Protection) to Stage 3 (Skilled/Reclaimed Vulnerability). Connect with the Guest Instagram: @yossefsagi Website: Connect with Yossef for bespoke immersions, private shadow mapping, and individual/couples coaching through his social portal or directly via the WeDeepen network. YouTube Music   Connect with the Host Website: wedeepen.com Instagram: @christinaweber True co-regulation and soulful human connection cannot be outsourced to technological platforms or AI. If you are ready to bring your shadow into the light and upgrade your intimacy toolkit, follow this podcast, like this video, and share it with someone you respect. Take your place in the arena and apply to join our ongoing ecosystem at wedeepen.com!

Miranda is a flight attendant who loves pantyhose, bdsm, being and being an exhibitionist and more and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when she first started wearing tights and pantyhose and why she loves wearing them, when she realized guys were really into pantyhose, the type of hose she wears as a flight attendant and the attention she gets from male passengers because of the hose, her Hoser boyfriend who got her into wearing hose while being intimate and what she enjoys wearing while intimate now, how she found out that selling used pantyhose was a “thing,” the custom Hoser requests she has got and the ones she enjoys the most, how she got into bdsm and all the different kinds of pantyhose she wears when at bdsm clubs and events, the d/s relationship she's in now and how its set up, what they do with other people and what they won't do, what she loves to do at swingers clubs and events, the recent swinger cruise they went on and exactly what went down, what she enjoys engaging in when it comes to bdsm including spreader bars, flogging etc, the  best bdsm party she went to and what went down plus a whole lot more. You can find her here: https://bio.site/MirandaFlys GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  or Pre-order audiobook version ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   To see HOT pics of MIRANDA plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beduc.at/pd2626-anonymous⁠ Click here to take the quiz and  get your personalized SUMMER roadmap to sexual happiness ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://Rythm.Health/STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠for 15% OFF your first month  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://LoadBoost.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ - To get 10% off LOAD BOOST by VB Health, use code: STRICTLY   ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Buy 2 months of Bluechew GOLD and get the third month FREE! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In Part 2 of the Season 7 finale, Eve welcomes back Anthony Weaver from the About That Wallet Podcast for a candid and insightful look back at the first half of 2026, exploring the conversations about sexuality, relationships, and personal growth that resonated most. Together, they reflect on standout moments from the season, discussing topics including sexual exploration, kink and BDSM, seduction styles, communication, dating after divorce, recognizing relationship red flags, sexual confidence, fertility journeys, and the role of intimacy in personal growth. The conversation highlights how authentic communication, consent, emotional connection, and self-awareness can support healthier relationships and more fulfilling intimate lives. Topics discussed: Sexual exploration and self-discovery Kink, BDSM, and sensory play Seduction styles and attraction psychology Relationship communication and active listening Dating after divorce Recognizing relationship red flags and trusting intuition Sexual confidence and body awareness Men's sexual health and erectile dysfunction Female sexual wellness and arousal IVF, infertility, and family planning Pleasure, intimacy, and personal growth Favorite moments from Season 7 Connect with Anthony WeaverWebsite: https://www.aboutthatwallet.com Connect with Eve Website: Please Me!Substack: Pleaseme SubstackPatreon: Pleaseme PatreonBook your FREE 15-Minute Discovery Call: Communicate & Connect Explore the Sexual Longevity Protocol:  Please Me! The Sexual Longevity Protocol: A science-based course by Eve, a Sexual Health Physical Therapist to help you improve sexual function, confidence, and pleasure for life. Lifetime access for just $47. Vote for Eve  ASN Lifestyle Magazine Awards – Best Educator Affiliate Deals & Partners  Shameless Care (Code: PLEASEME):  Shameless CareParlor Games Bioidentical Hormones:  Parlor Games | ShopSDC.com (Code: PLEASEME):  SDCCAKES  (Code: CAKES-PLEASEME):  Sticky Starter Pack | Our Best Sticky Offer, $33 Savings – CAKES bodyLady Pump:  Lady PumpFirmTech Digital Performance Ring:   Male Enhancement Erection Ring | SexTech | Award-Winning Wearable TechJuice Plus+ Nutrition:  Whole-Foods, Plant-Based Nutrition | Juice Plus+ – Juice Plus+US Be a Guest:  Share your story or expertise on relationships, sexual health, and personal growth:Be a Guest on Please Me! Podcast

Send us Fan MailWARNING: THIS EPISODE CONTAINS SPOILERS FOR THE MOVIE AND SOME BRIEF DISCUSSION OF SEXUAL ASSAULT. Pillion looks like a breakthrough for leather and BDSM visibility, then it dares you to ask an uncomfortable question: are we watching dominance and submission, or are we watching abuse filmed like romance? I walk through my reaction in real time, because I went in expecting a love letter to kink community and walked out increasingly horrified by what's missing on screen: consent, negotiation, aftercare, affection, and anything that signals ethical power exchange. We also talk about why the response is so divided. If you already know what healthy DS dynamics look like, you may be able to enjoy the film as fantasy and keep it safely in the realm of fiction. If you're newer to leather, younger, or searching for a model of how kink “should” work, the same scenes can land as dangerous misinformation. Along the way I put the film next to earlier examples of queer representation that carried both erotic charge and harmful messaging, and I name the political stakes of seeing leather in public while parts of queer culture argue about erasing it from Pride. Then we shift to Ask Edge: a listener shares a breakup rooted in a partner rejecting his interest in leather. I talk about the difference between “not my thing” and shame, the red flags that matter, and the real-world paths people take in erotically mismatched relationships, including polyamory, openness, and hard limits. If any of this hits close to home, subscribe, share the episode with someone who cares about consent culture, and leave a review. What did Pillion bring up for you?Support the showAsk Edge! Go to https://www.speakpipe.com/LTHREDGE to leave ask a question or leave feedback. Find Edge's other content on Instagram and Twitter. Also visit his archive of educational videos, Tchick-Tchick.

• breaking the porn to masturbation loop through clear rules • shifting from selfish impulses to service and obedience • using permission requests to slow down urges and earn rewards • setting penalties for porn use and unauthorized touching • treating mistakes as training data instead of disappearing • reducing porn like a withdrawal habit with audits and tracking • building discipline for sharper focus and better life goals • choosing a chastity cage Go to my Fet Life. You join my chastity society, the Crown and Cage Chastity Society. Go to lockedinlust.com. You can purchase the MACH2 Vice. My PROMO code CHASTITYQUEEN, all caps, all one word and it is stackable. You can leave Me a tip here on my podcast under support the show link Try to connect with your local BDSM community. Fetlife is a great way to see others in similar FLR and chastity lifestyles. You can check out Mine in Fetlife at Chastity-Queen. It's a free to join. Hugs, Chastity Queen Locked In Lust 15% OFF:CHASTITYQUEEN Use Discount Code:CHASTITYQUEEN for 15% OFF ANYTHING at www.lockedinlust.com Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the showSUPPORT ME in 2 ways! XOXO1: https://paypal.me/TiffanyTheQueen?country.x=CA&locale.x=en_USOR2: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1992649/supportCHASTITY IS FREEDOMI LOVE YOU 

Asteria Jade is one of the fastest-rising names in adult entertainment, but she hasn't done many interviews—until now. This week on Sex Party, we dive into her life as a hardcore dominatrix, how that led her into some of the darkest corners of extreme kink, and the horror porn niche that's helping make her one of the industry's most captivating performers. Has she played a vampire? A witch? A zombie? Something even darker? We get into it all. But that's only half the story. Asteria is just as comfortable stepping into the role of the sexy step sister as she is embracing the dark, twisted world that's become her signature.We also talk about the moment that completely changed the way she thinks about anal, where she actually prefers the cumshot (it's probably not where you're thinking), some wild OnlyFans requests, and why so many fans seem drawn into the dark, seductive world she's created. We wrap things up by ranking her three favorite horror movies of all time. If Asteria Jade isn't on your radar yet, she will be after this episode.Grab yourself a body bag and enjoy EP 232: "The Cult Of Asteria Jade" with Asteria Jade.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Asteria JadeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/theofficialasteriajade (@theofficialasteriajade) Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

If you've lived (kinky sex lifestyle or not), you have baggage. Is baggage always bad?? Is there beneficial baggage? We kink talk about it! Before that we tackle kinky relationship expectations both online and the real BDSM public scene. What can/should you expect from this lifestyle...We kink talk about it! Perverted Podcast for 11 years has had discussions on how to navigate your kinky sex/BDSM journey in a way that is hopefully fun, safer, and better for your personal growth. The more opinions you have the more options and choices you have to make for yourself!

Today's episode is about sex. And I know that word alone is enough to make some people skip past this one — which is exactly why I wanted to make it. This episode is a little different from our usual format. You'll hear from audience callers who responded to our casting call asking for your spiciest, most unexpected sex stories. What we got back was so much more than I anticipated — hilarious, raw, surprising, and genuinely human. But first, you'll hear excerpts from my conversation with Vanessa Marin, a licensed sex therapist with over 20 years of experience who joined me to bring some real expertise to the table. My conversation with Vanessa includes a 30-day kissing challenge she and her husband actually did, the concept of "the ick" and what gratitude research says about relationship satisfaction. We also chat about her GET intimate technique: three surprisingly simple things that can rebuild connection even in the driest of dry spells. Then you'll hear a clip from my full conversation with Melanie, which is available as its own episode linked below. Melanie is deeply involved in the BDSM community, and what I expected to be a conversation about kink turned into a deep dive on trust, communication, consent, and something called subspace — which I genuinely had never heard of before. She completely shifted some of my assumptions, and if this clip intrigues you, I highly recommend going back to listen to the full thing. And finally, you'll get a taste of my conversation with Emily — also linked below as its own full episode — whose story starts as a spicy, unusual submission and takes a turn I truly didn't see coming. There's a chicken coop. There's a sensory deprivation box. There's a lot more I'm not going to spoil here. What I will say is that this one goes somewhere I never expected, and I think it's one of the most unexpectedly moving conversations we've had on this show. These are real stories from real people — and I think that's exactly the point. So many of us feel like we're the only one having the experiences we're having. We're not. Follow Vanessa: https://www.instagram.com/vanessaandxander/?hl=en Listen to Melanie's full episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-real-stuff-with-lucie-fink/id1724982367?i=1000763998066 Listen to Emily's full episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-real-stuff-with-lucie-fink/id1724982367?i=1000752856564 Sponsors: Clean Simple Eats: Clean Simple Eats is undeniably clean and 100% delicious. Shop the best-tasting protein drinks at https://www.CleanSimpleEats.com  Spindrift: Visit https://www.drinkspindrift.com and use code "lucie" for 15% off. SKIMS: Shop SKIMS Fits Everybody collection at https://www.skims.com/realstuff #skimspartner Ogee: Go to https://www.ogee.com/LUCIE and use code LUCIE to get 20% off certified organic makeup that performs like luxury. Labcorp: Visit https://www.OnDemand.Labcorp.com/realstuff and use code "realstuff" to save up to 15% on select tests. Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX  To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's show, I'm discussing the psychology of punishment and why stopping a behavior isn't always the same as creating lasting change. We explore operant conditioning, what punishment actually teaches, and why fear, trust, and understanding can lead people to learn very different lessons. Whether you're a parent, leader, partner, or part of a D/s relationship, this episode challenges us to ask a different question: not simply whether punishment worked, but what someone actually learned from it.This episode is supported by Enhanced-Mind Counseling. If you're looking to understand the patterns behind your relationships, attachment, or the dynamics you find yourself in, you can reach out through my website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://enhanced-mind.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Continue the discussion on Fetlife: @Enhanced-MindDon't forget to follow the show and leave a 5-star rating so others can find it.Want to be on the show or have an idea for an upcoming episode?Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TheKinkPerspective@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Find me on Substack - Enhanced-Mind's Substack | Chris C. | SubstackI have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. You can find it where you purchase most eBooks. Print version available now.#Psychology #Punishment #OperantConditioning

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#145 What if the biggest mistake in BDSM isn't what you think? Five top BDSM educators reveal the most common mistakes in Dominance, submission, consent, communication, trust, and personal growth. Their answers all point to one surprising truth. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a review and subscribe for more.– Justine Cross: https://www.thejustinecross.com– Luna from Submissive Guide: https://shop.submissiveguide.com/products/the-submissives-toolbox– Maja from Obedience App: https://app.obedienceapp.com/home– Chris Maxwell Rose from Pleasure Mechanics: https://www.pleasuremechanics.com/the-podcast/– Princess Rara from Pink Kink Podcast: https://pinkkinkpodcast.com➡️ Access your free gift: https://domsubliving.com/gift➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/145➡️ Check out the free training & All-Access Pass: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess ❤️ Join the All-Access Pass for community, coaching, and courses: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess

This week, we're talking about recent articles and news stories about BDSM and sharing our opinion on the situation. In this episode: June 26 is the last day of a sale at the Kinkery!... The post BDSM in the News appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Dom and D for a provocative and unfiltered conversation with special guests Darren Dorch  who partnered with Dom on the new podcast "Stone Cold Freaks". In this episode, we dive deep into the world of kink, BDSM, and sexual exploration, discussing the importance of releasing shame and embracing authenticity in modern relationships. From breaking down societal taboos in the Black community to exploring the "Madonna-Whore" complex and the realities of the music industry's dark side, Darren and Dominique bring raw insights and expert perspectives to the table. We also touch on the evolution of fame, the tragic legacies of icons like Whitney Houston, and the necessity of taking control of your own artistic narrative. This is a must-listen episode for those seeking open, honest, and courageous dialogues about human connection. 0:00 | Classroom Chaos and Unreported Incidents 4:45 | Father's Day Letter and New Podcast Introduction 9:53 | Exploring Kink and Sexuality in the Black Community 16:14 | Exploring Church, Sex, and Kink in Modern Relationships 24:40 | Exploring Pre-Internet and Modern Kink Communities 30:27 | Navigating Awkward First Sexual Encounters and Communication Challenges 34:50 | Exploring the Madonna-Whore Complex in Modern Relationships 41:47 | Debating Hygiene and Health Risks of Unconventional Practices 43:52 | Exploring Open Relationships and Changing Attitudes in Modern Society 48:14 | Launching a Diverse Podcast Amid Media Challenges 54:35 | PPP Fraud, Gender Transition, and Child Support Neglect 1:00:05 | Oprah's Revelation and Its Impact on Whitney Houston's Legacy Subscribe to the Stone Cold Freaks Show https://www.youtube.com/@StoneColdFreaks  Brand new voicemail: ‪(314) 649-3113‬ Subscribe to the Everyone Needs an Aquarius Patreon https://bit.ly/3tXnnCz  Email the show at straightolc@gmail.com           Follow SOLC Network online Instagram: https://bit.ly/39VL542                                    Twitter: https://bit.ly/39aL395                                     Facebook: https://bit.ly/3sQn7je                            To Listen to the podcast Podbean https://bit.ly/3t7SDJH                                YouTube http://bit.ly/3ouZqJU                                Spotify http://spoti.fi/3pwZZnJ                                Apple http://apple.co/39rwjD1                                                         IHeartRadio http://ihr.fm/2L0A2y   

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This week on Blocked and Reported, Jesse and Katie discuss Zack Polanski, the former hypnotherapist who turned a fringe environmentalist party into Britain's fastest-growing coalition of Corbynites, BDSM enthusiasts, and first-gen Islamists. Can you really THINK your boobs bigger?Politics was never part of the plan. | by Zack Polanski | MediumZack Polanski stood by breast enlargment hypnosis claimMost UK Muslims define themselves by faith firstGreen candidate for Makerfield by-election quits after 12 hours This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.blockedandreported.org/subscribe