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Send us a textIn this juicy new episode of Big Sexy Chat, Chrystal and Merf are back with updates, laughter, and deep dives into fat pleasure, power exchange, and the ways we signal our sexy truths to the world.
Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ In this special crossover episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily welcomes Amy Baldwin and April Lampert, sex educators and hosts of the Shameless Sex podcast, for a deep dive into shame-free pleasure, boundaries, kink, and creating more satisfying intimate relationships; whether you're single, coupled, monogamous, or open. We explore what "shameless sex" really means and how shame disconnects us from pleasure and authenticity. Amy and April share tools like self-inquiry, somatic practices, and sexual experimentation for healing and self-acceptance, emphasizing that communication is the gateway to better sex. They stress the importance of "owning your desires" using non-judgmental language and practicing "seductive honesty" before clothes come off. The conversation covers kink, BDSM, and open relationships, including consent, negotiation, aftercare, and how to safely explore. Amy shares insights from her open relationship about navigating jealousy and building emotional resilience. April, with years in the sex toy industry, busts common myths like "vibrators desensitize you" and "sex toys replace partners," while discussing quality materials, inclusivity, and why most toys are still designed for cis men. This episode is packed with top tips for more shameless sex: normalizing solo exploration, not judging your fantasies, exploring full-body arousal beyond genital touch, and being curious rather than performative. Whether you're questioning your desires, confidence, or worthiness in bed, this conversation offers validation and practical tools for embracing your authentic sexual self. Timestamps: 0:00 - Introduction 6:02 - Breaking Down Sexual Shame 8:21 - Personal Stories 15:25 - How to Identify Your Sexual Needs and Desires 21:59 - Real Communication Example 28:16 - Listener Q&A 36:03 - Helping an Anxious Partner Become More Present During Sex 40:55 - Open Relationships 49:52 - Five Quickie Questions 51:00 - Where to Find Shameless Sex Podcast and Book Details
On this episode, I discuss what happens when BDSM and swinger cultures overlap in shared spaces, and why the differences between them matter. Prompted by a listener's question, I break down how consent, structure, and intention can quickly get blurred in environments that weren't built with kink ethics in mind. From navigating pickup play to holding your values in sexually open venues, this episode is about staying grounded, clear, and responsible, especially when no one else around you is.Continue the discussion on Fetlife: @Enhanced-MindDon't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find it. What to be on the show or have an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at TheKinkPerspective@gmail.comFind me on Substack - Enhanced-Mind's Substack | Chris C. | SubstackIf you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at https://enhanced-mind.com/I have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. Can find it where you purchase most of your ebooks. Print version out now!#BDSM #Psychology #Swingers #Ethics
Send us a textThe first of December brought a couple of first for our heroes and one is Dan goes to his first sex party!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
In this deliciously nerdy and insightful episode, we're joined by Sir Sublime—a self-proclaimed “lazy top,” kink toymaker, and connoisseur of all things rope, impact, and mindplay. Together, we unwrap the art and intention behind BDSM, diving into the nuances of dominance, the seduction of sensory play, and why best practices matter in the kink world. Whether you're a seasoned sadist or just kink-curious, Sir Sublime reminds us that "everyone kinks their own way"—and there's no one-size-fits-all approach to pleasure and power. We talk toys, technique, trust, and what it means to top without burning out. Along the way, we explore: • Why negotiation isn't just for boardrooms (but should still involve snacks) • How consent can be sexy, sacred, and sometimes sound like a well-prepped PowerPoint • And why aftercare might mean cuddles, cookies, or just not losing your rope scissors again From nerdy obsessions to sexy confessions, this episode is a playful, practical, and passionate look into the world of consensual kink. LINKS: Sinfully Sublime | Sir Sublime's Toys Douglas Kent | Sky (sic "Air") Jay Wiseman | Books
Whitney and Scott share their remarkable journey from devout Mormonism to embracing cuckolding and kink. Their story reveals how open communication and mutual respect enabled them to discover and explore their true sexual desires despite starting from an extremely conservative religious background.• Left the Mormon church together after 10 years of marriage, beginning their exploration of non-monogamy• Accidentally attended their first swingers club• Discovered Whitney enjoyed sex with others while Scott preferred watching• Explored BDSM when Scott expressed interest in femdom, initially met with resistance• Had a transformative experience when Whitney watched a man dominate Scott at a BDSM party• Gradually developed their own style of cuckolding that incorporates elements of femdom• Scott processes emotional challenges through extensive communication with Whitney• The couple emphasizes that cuckolding enhances rather than replaces their fulfilling sex life together• Now carefully select play partners who match their personalities and desires• Share that a successful cuckolding relationship requires emotional work but offers tremendous rewardsLinks:Whitney and Scott's FL profile: LuckyMan82Joymode: GREAT SEX SOLVED, NATURALLYUse Code VENUS for 20% off your first order at tryjoymode.com/venus
Feeling drained by your kink life? In this episode, we talk about what burnout looks like in the BDSM lifestyle, how to spot the signs, ways to prevent it, and how to come back from it. If kink is starting to feel like a chore, this one's for you.Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.comAffiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discountVisit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!
Satire. Did a 90s sitcom ruin Black American Gen Xer's? We talking real greasy about Queen Latifah's show Living Single. Spiced up with a dash of BDSM.
Mrs. Sno and Mr. Sno bring the laughs and the heat in this wide-ranging episode of Scheduling Sin. They talk about what's new for SnoBall 2025, why fingering often goes wrong (and how to make it amazing), and even the hilarity of a chin-mounted dildo — the infamous Chindo. Plus, they dig into listener questions about navigating lifestyle boundaries, the morning-after “ghosting” phenomenon, and how to make both partners shine socially. Timestamps: [00:00:55] SnoBall 2025 – Bigger venue, BDSM demos, live boudoir shoots, and why tickets are selling fast. [00:03:25] Socials & Discord – How to meet new friends and warm up before big events. [00:04:39] The “Turbo Fingering” Problem – Why rough fingers ruin the moment and how to do it right. [00:13:16] The Chindo & Fisting Curiosity – The hilarious chin-dildo experiment and an honest look at fisting. [00:19:58] Listener Mailbag: Soft Swap vs. Full Swap – Do you bend your boundaries or walk away? The Morning After – Why do some couples act distant? Making Both Partners Feel Seen – Social tips for introverts and extroverts. Friends in the Lifestyle – When to speak up (and when to stay discreet). Pineapples, Gnomes & Swinger Signals – Do they really mean something? PLEASE share your feedback and stories with us! Email Us: SnoMilf@yahoo.com Twitter (X): @SchedulingSin Join us on Discord: https://discord.gg/F4Wk558TaT https://schedulingsin.com IMPORTANT - Please read and respect our chat server rules before joining our Discord Chat Server. This service is completely free, there are many rooms to enjoy with fellow members of the swinging community. You MUST BE OVER 18 YEARS OLD TO JOIN THIS DISCORD SERVER. Our Discord chat is for social chat. it is not a pick up site or dating site.
Monika Interviews Dixie De La Tour of Bawdy Storytelling Get ready for a night of provocative storytelling, unapologetic truth, and boundary-pushing honesty! In this episode, Monika sits down with Dixie De La Tour, the dynamic force behind Bawdy Storytelling, to talk about the upcoming live show on Friday, July 18th at 8:00 PM at the Verdi Club in San Francisco's Potrero Hill neighborhood. They dive into the life and legacy of Dossie Easton, co-author of groundbreaking books like The Ethical Slut, Radical Ecstasy, The Topping Book, and The Bottoming Book. Dixie shares how a life-changing LSD trip became a turning point for Easton—one that would influence generations of thinkers, lovers, and radicals in the world of sex-positivity, kink, and ethical non-monogamy. This conversation is not just about storytelling—it's about transformation, legacy, and the power of telling the truth out loud. Don't miss the Bawdy Storytelling show—Friday, July 18th at 8:00 PM Verdi Club, Potrero Hill, San Francisco Real People. Real Stories. Real Sexy.
This week we are covering the topic of and Ex. Not Ex as in boy or girl friend in the lifestyle but rather spouse, long term significant other. When do you stop having an issue with their hook ups, or when can your friends hook up with them? What happens when you bash the ex on social media and then get pissed if someone wants to hook up? Give this show a listen a very unique topic.https://www.basisdx.org?utm_medium=referral&utm_source=124&utm_campaign=z&utm_content=y&utm_term=xhttps://discreetdirtyco.com/http://www.motorbunny.comhttp://www.asnlifestylemagazine.comhttp://www.fullswapshop.comhttps://www.onlyfans.com/msamandakasbh: http://www.krazykasbh.com: http:// www.youtube.com/kasbhTwitter: @TruthKrazySupport the show
Episodio 509-1: BDSM Básicos de la Podofilia **Julio de BDSM** Esperábamos con ansias a Julio, que aunque todo el año podemos hablar sobre el BDSM, julio nos llena de emoción y alegría promoviendo nuestro gusto por este Estilo de Vida. Si tienes tiempo escuchándome sabrás que tengo varios relatos sobre adoradores de pies, sobre amantes de las zapatillas, las medias, y por supuesto que esos vendedores de zapatos que antes existian en las zapaterías, tenían un lugar privilegiado si tu fetiche es la podofilia. aquí platicadito les dejo unos puntos básicos para que de una vez comprendamos que no es algo malo, es un gusto más, un disfrute delicioso que nos excita y nos da para fantasear. Recuerda, toda relación debería aplicar el SSC: Sexo Sano, Seguro y Concensuado. ¿Tienes una historia o anécdota que te gustaría compartir? Escríbeme y podrías escucharla en vivo: * cuentalealayola@gmail.com * WhatsApp: https://wa.me/526869457139 * Telegram: https://www.t.me/cuentalealayola * Redes sociales: @cuentalealayola En vivo por RadioNocturna.com https://radionocturna.com Todos los lunes a las 11:05 PM (CdMx) --- **Contenido exclusivo, talleres, cursos y más** Descubre fotos, calendarios, audios y material solo para suscriptores en: https://sexyqfans.com/cuentalealayola **Apoya este proyecto con un donativo en PayPal:** https://www.paypal.me/cuentalealayola Escucha todos los episodios en iVoox y apóyame dando clic en el botón **"Apoyar"**. --- Gracias a nuestros patrocinadores: Miss Fantasías Lencería y más – Hermosillo, Sonora: https://www.missfantasias.com.mx Seyes Print – Taller del Regalo & Forniocio.com https://forniocio.com – Segovia, España --- **Nota importante:** Todos los relatos y personajes presentados en este programa son ficción. Algunas historias están inspiradas en hechos reales. Cualquier parecido con la realidad es pura coincidencia.
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Forget what you've seen in movies: BDSM isn't one-size-fits-all. As Dr. Leann Borneman explains, it's more of an à la carte menu where consent, communication, and personal boundaries come first. You can take what works for you and leave the rest.Host Cate Osborn talks with clinical sexologist Dr. Borneman about the intersection of BDSM, neurodivergence, and executive function. They explore how some people with ADHD use parts of BDSM, like structure, sensory input, and clearly defined roles. These can help support attention, reduce overwhelm, and build emotional regulation.Listen as Cate and Leann challenge outdated assumptions, and learn how destigmatizing your desires can help you show up more fully in your life.Related resourcesLeann's website, bornemancoaching.comLeann's dissertation, The Intersection of ADHD and BDSM Engagement in Heterosexual WomenFor a transcript and more resources, visit the Sorry, I Missed This show page on Understood.org. We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at sorryimissedthis@understood.org.Timestamps(00:00) Intro(00:48) A comment from Cate on stigma(02:35) BDSM as a coping strategy, not just a preference(03:58) Society's stigma versus the scientific research(06:37) Pick and choose what works for you, you don't have to label yourself(10:53) ADHD and sexuality: Incapability versus lack of access(13:10) What is causing this lack of access to good sex?(17:27) Unmasking is key to authenticity and figuring out what you like(19:11) BDSM creates space for safety through it's collaborative and consentful nature(21:54) Leann's advice for those curious about BDSM and kink(24:33) Outro and credits Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give
Join Jason, host of That Other Lifestyle Podcast, for an adventurous dive into 'Naughty in New Orleans,' the granddaddy of swinger lifestyle events. This episode isn't just about recounting personal escapades at this legendary event but focuses on exploring various lifestyle events that cater to adult and sexual topics. Jason shares his experiences navigating through different vibes and styles of swinging culture while offering insights into making the most out of such events. Discover the importance of setting expectations, understanding social boundaries, and finding the right kind of events for you and your partner. Tune in to learn about different facets of the lifestyle, including BDSM workshops, naked yoga sessions, and playrooms, all aimed at creating a well-rounded, sex-positive convention. Whether you're a lifestyle enthusiast, curious vanilla, or somewhere in between, this episode offers something for everyone looking to expand their horizons in ethical non-monogamy. With a mix of playful anecdotes and practical advice, it's a listening experience that will leave you eager to plan your own adventure into the world of alternative lifestyles. My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course Risque Lifestyle Parties SDC.com STDHero.com Hellowisp.com
Les propos exprimés dans ce podcast relèvent d'expériences et d'opinions personnelles dans un but de divertissement et ne substituent pas les conseils d'un.e sexologue ou autre professionnel de la santé. Dans cet épisode, les filles reçoivent l'avocate Sophie Mongeon, qui vulgarise le droit sexuel sans tabou. Elles abordent les zones grises entourant le consentement, les ITS, les relations de pouvoir et les recours pour les victimes. Un épisode essentiel, accessible et percutant pour mieux comprendre ses droits. Outils : www.juridiqc.gouv.qc.ca Le lien exact : https://juridiqc.gouv.qc.ca/outil-d-aide-a-l-adhesion-au-regime-d-union-parentale#:~:text=JuridiQC%20accompagne%20les%20conjoints%20de,au%20r%C3%A9gime%20d'union%20parentale. Autres ressources ; www.soquij.qc.ca www.canlii.org www.ivac.qc.ca www.cavac.qc.ca https://www.quebec.ca/justice-et-etat-civil/accompagnement-victimes-crime/partage-sans-consentement-image-intime Au menu : - Peut-on poursuivre quelqu'un qui nous transmet l'herpès? - Ce qui est légal (ou pas) dans un contrat BDSM ou sugar dating - Les nouvelles lois sur l'union parentale au Québec - Consentement, intoxication et agressions sexuelles : que dit la loi? - Les recours pour les victimes d'abus, même des années plus tard Le podcast est présenté par Éros et Compagnie Utiliser le code promo : SEXEORAL pour 15% de rabais sur https://www.erosetcompagnie.com/ Les jouets dont les filles parlent: https://www.erosetcompagnie.com/page/podcast Le podcast est présenté par Oxio. Pour plus d'informations: https://oxio.ca/ Code promo pour essayer Oxio gratuitement pendant un mois: SEXEORAL Pour collaborations : partenariats@studiosf.ca Pour toutes questions : sexeoral@studiosf.ca Pour suivre les filles sur Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/sexeoralpodcast Pour contacter les filles directement, écrivez-nous sur Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/sexeoral.podcast/
TIFFANY WISCONSIN WILL FUCK 5000 MEN THIS SUMMER.Tiffany Wisconsin has one goal this summer: have sex with 5000 men. No, that's not a typo. The adult content creator and viral sensation joins Dustin to talk about her outrageous mission, her recent Us Weekly feature, and how she's blowing the internet's collective mind — one gangbang at a time.We get into her 50-guy all-anal scene with Lily Phillips (which landed her in surgery), the ideal gangbang headcount (spoiler: 15 might be her sweet spot), and why she's begging strangers in Chicago to piss in water bottles. Yes, really. You'll have to hear what she plans to do with it.Oh — and she's also planning a church shoot with a pastor. Tiffany's not just pushing boundaries — she's vaporizing them. Buckle up.This is EP 182: "Summer Slam" with Tiffany Wisconsin.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Tiffany WisconsinInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/wisco.tiff (@wisco.tiff) Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
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Ever wonder why my voice feels like it wraps around your mind… or why a single snap can make you drop so easily? In this episode, I take you behind the soundscape of my erotic hypnosis files and reveal how I use sound to shape your experience from start to finish.From the dreamy reverb and echo that make my words feel larger than life, to the subtle binaural beats that guide your brain into just the right state… from the whispers that slip into your subconscious, to the sharp snap that reminds you who's in control — nothing you hear is by accident.I'll explain the intention behind each effect, share how they work on your mind and body, and even give you a few live examples so you can hear them in action. Whether you're a fan curious about how it all comes together or just love getting lost in the details, this episode will give you a whole new appreciation for how sound seduces you… every single time you listen.Listen now and discover the secrets behind the sound.For more, visit: https://beacons.ai/beatrixvale
The woman in a married couple that does not want children accidentally got pregnant. This happened once before, and she learned that her husband is against abortion on religious grounds. Should she tell him she will end this pregnancy, or keep it secret from him? Do accidents happen in BDSM? They sure do! Hear the harrowing tale of one man's consequential mistake. Dan brings on Australian kink educator "The Funny Dom" to talk this one through. On the Magnum, a woman's husband is recovering from an accident that left him wheelchair-bound. Now they are wondering how to develop a sex life when he can't feel below the waist. Dan brings on queer disability activist/writer Andrew Gurza, to talk about disability grief, sex with disabilities and how the queer community has work to do in supporting access rights. And, a man in an open relationship is miffed that his wife hates to give him oral sex, but LOVES to give it to her boyfriend. What is going on here? Q@Savage.Love 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. This episode is brought to you by Hims, providing affordable access to ED treatment, online. Start your free online visit today at Hims.com/Savage Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From anal sex to asexuality, weddings to webcamming and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage is a cultural force for sex positivity, when we most need it.
Send us a textKylie Kassh, professional dominatrix of 17 years and content creator, shares her journey from accidental dom to lifestyle professional in this candid conversation about power dynamics, boundaries, and the business of domination.• Discovered her dominatrix potential when a friend noticed her naturally commanding style with boyfriends• Began her career working in a Chicago dungeon where she trained under experienced dominatrixes• Learned her boundaries early when confronted with medical play involving needles during her first day• Underwent an "initiation" that confirmed her purely dominant nature when she couldn't handle being restrained• Explains the difference between lifestyle doms, switches, and subs in the BDSM community• Shares her favorite fetishes including flogging, cross-dressing clients, tease and denial techniques• Owns approximately 17 floggers ranging from inexpensive to $500 specialty pieces• Discusses the massage fetish and how it represents a natural power exchange• Reveals many clients are married men whose partners aren't interested in exploring fetishes• Sets firm boundaries on certain practices while maintaining others, particularly avoiding "scat play"• Plans to continue working indefinitely as "there are no age brackets in domination"• Maintains separate personal and professional lives while acknowledging they sometimes overlap• Provides consulting services beyond domination work through her business venturesIf you're interested in learning more about Kylie's work, follow her on Instagram at Goddess_kylie_kassh or visit her consulting business at Kashwealthfirm.com.Support the show
Kinky sex play and BDSM both are amazing and fun! But...as with any sport or physical activity there are risks. What happens when it goes bad? Are you ready? We talk about that and more on this amazing kinky episode of Perverted Podcast.
Before Eva Oh entered the scene, Mistress Tahlia was already a seasoned presence at Salon Kitty's. Eva reconnects with her Senior Mistress to swap stories of hazing rituals, house hierarchy, and the raw intensity of Australia's most infamous BDSM establishment. From her days at the "Den of Inequity" to the rise of pegging and the economics of erotic labor, Tahlia shares how sex work became her site of power, politics, and transformation.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - Becoming Mistress Tahlia(02:55) - Sex Work as a Vehicle for Radicalisation(03:30) - Discovering BDSM(07:30) - Stepping into Power and Salon Kitty's(10:40) - The Den of Inequity(15:00) - Our Different Experiences of Salon Kitty's(19:40) - Hazing Amongst Mistresses(23:30) - Changing of the Guard(25:30) - House vs Independent Work(27:10) - Salon Kitty's Changes and Reunions(29:40) - Becoming Magical Beasts(33:15) - The Accounting Fantasy Role Play(36:00) - Tahlia's First Impressions of Eva at Salon Kitty's(38:25) - Hierarchy at the House(41:50) - The Whorearchy of Erotic Sessions(44:35) - The Emergence of Pegging and the Findom Fallout(49:10) - Online vs Real-time Work(50:35) - Intimate Job Satisfaction(51:10) - Tahlia's English Corporal Punishment Plans(54:30) - Tahlia's Number One Tip
Sorry, I Missed This: The Everything Guide to ADHD and Relationships with Cate Osborn
Forget what you've seen in movies: BDSM isn't one-size-fits-all. As Dr. Leann Borneman explains, it's more of an à la carte menu where consent, communication, and personal boundaries come first. You can take what works for you and leave the rest.Host Cate Osborn talks with clinical sexologist Dr. Borneman about the intersection of BDSM, neurodivergence, and executive function. They explore how some people with ADHD use parts of BDSM, like structure, sensory input, and clearly defined roles. These can help support attention, reduce overwhelm, and build emotional regulation.Listen as Cate and Leann challenge outdated assumptions, and learn how destigmatizing your desires can help you show up more fully in your life.Related resourcesLeann's website, bornemancoaching.comLeann's dissertation, The Intersection of ADHD and BDSM Engagement in Heterosexual WomenFor a transcript and more resources, visit the Sorry, I Missed This show page on Understood.org. We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at sorryimissedthis@understood.org.Timestamps(00:00) Intro(00:48) A comment from Cate on stigma(02:35) BDSM as a coping strategy, not just a preference(03:58) Society's stigma versus the scientific research(06:37) Pick and choose what works for you, you don't have to label yourself(10:53) ADHD and sexuality: Incapability versus lack of access(13:10) What is causing this lack of access to good sex?(17:27) Unmasking is key to authenticity and figuring out what you like(19:11) BDSM creates space for safety through it's collaborative and consentful nature(21:54) Leann's advice for those curious about BDSM and kink(24:33) Outro and credits Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give
On today's show, I discuss the often misunderstood concept of agency, what it is, what it isn't, and why so many people unknowingly live without it. We explore how agency gets eroded through trauma, family systems, cultural roles, and relationship dynamics, including in kink and power exchange. I break down the difference between agency and control, autonomy, rebellion, and codependency, and offer real steps for reclaiming your voice and choices, even when it costs you. This episode isn't about having all the answers, it's about learning to ask the right questions so you can stop living on default and start living on purpose.Continue the discussion on Fetlife: @Enhanced-MindDon't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find it. What to be on the show or have an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at TheKinkPerspective@gmail.comFind me on Substack - Enhanced-Mind's Substack | Chris C. | SubstackIf you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at https://enhanced-mind.com/I have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. Can find it where you purchase most of your ebooks. Print version out now!#BDSM #Psychology #Agency #Choice
Key Takeaways:Why most leaders struggle after the initial growth phaseThe myth of being “fully ready” to leadHow to lead yourself firstJennie also shares her own story about the leadership growth she's experienced in the past year and how it's helping her."Want a team of badass leaders? Then fucking BE ONE!" - Jennie BellingerClick this link to get access to the Embodying Badass Leadership Meditation: https://go.badassdirectsalesmastery.com/badass-leadership-meditationConnect with Jennie:Website: https://badassdirectsalesmastery.com/Email: jennie@badassdirectsalesmastery.comFacebook personal page: https://facebook.com/jbellingerPLFacebook podcast page: http://facebook.com/BadassDirectSalesMasteryFacebook group for Badass Crew: https://facebook.com/groups/BadassDirectSalesMomsInstagram: https://instagram.com/BadassDirectSalesMasteryPersonal Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thedirectsalesdomme/LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/BadassDirectSalesMasteryThe Badass Direct Sales Mastery Podcast is currently sponsored by the following:Bella Grace Elixir: https://shopbellagrace.com/?ref=jenniebadassdirectsalesmasteryLeadBuddy Digital Marketing: Use code BDSM when checking out at https://leadbuddy.io/pro-monthly-9310?am_id=jennie582
Send us a textIn this episode Thanksgiving and Friendsgiving take our heroes out to visit family and friends. A coffee date starts something and Dan is going to his first sex party!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
#094 Are BDSM teachers getting it wrong?✅ Join the All Access Pass at https://domsubliving.com/allaccessWe're exposing 10 harmful myths most BDSM educators still teach — from punishment-first training to ignoring a Dom's emotional needs. If you've ever felt like you're doing BDSM “wrong,” this is the truth you've been waiting for.➡️ Join the All-Access Pass: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/094➡️ Join the FREE BDSM Jumpstart bootcamp: https://domsubliving.com/bootcamp/
Why does a man want to wear panties? There are a lot of misconceptions around this and it makes for a perfect opportunity for some BDSM or kink education. Topics include:How does panty wearing start? Why would a heterosexual cis man wear panties?Is it always about sex or kink?Can wearing women's lingerie help a man be more comfortable with expressing his female side?Does wearing panties mean you're gay, bi or trans?Why does a Femdom Mistress put a man in panties?Feminization or sissificationSending a submissive into subspaceUsing panties to create a certain scene like erotic humiliation or cock controlDoes a panty boi always want to be humiliated?Lots of personal stories, behind the scenes of online Mistress domination, and much more!Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
In this episode Fox and Mya discuss how you might successfully combine rope play with a very popular form of BDSM activity, wax play! This is usually pouring or dripping molten wax over the skin of a play partner, in this case, while they are also tied up. The hosts explore in the episode: • Wax and rope aesthetics • Types of scene you can use wax within • Safety and risks and possible mitigations for these • Considerations for choice of position and tie • Wax removal • Challenges of clean up • Plus hear all about one of Fox's ‘hottest' ever scenes…
For adult listening only. Season 5: Release on August 21st, 2025.Join Indy and Michael as they explore their BDSM journey in the day-to-day. We hope you enjoy our podcast. Contact us via email:bdsmreimagined@gmail.comMusic from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTHLicense code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ
You can enjoy exclusive and intense erotic audio by grabbing your copy of the Wylde Erotic App on the Apple Store,or downloading the very unofficial and unapproved Android version from WyldeInBed.com In the shadows of a city that never sleeps, desire and vengeance intertwine in *Bloodlines Entwined: The Vengeance of a Dark Lust*. Tonight, Andrew, a tortured vampire haunted by centuries of betrayal, finds himself face-to-face with the last surviving heir of the family that shattered his existence. Cloaked in intrigue, she arrives under the guise of investigating a murder—unbeknownst to her, she's stepped into a trap woven with dark passion and bitter revenge.As the night unfolds, Andrew wrestles with the seductive pull of her bloodline and the furious yearning for retribution that has consumed him for eons. With each tantalizing moment, their fates become entangled, blurring the lines between hate and desire. Can Andrew quench his thirst for vengeance without losing his heart to the very woman who carries the legacy of his family's downfall?In this gripping tale of twisted romance and dark desires, the stakes are high, and the passion is primal. Will bloodlines be severed, or will they entwine in a way neither of them ever anticipated? *Bloodlines Entwined* beckons readers into a world where love and hate dance dangerously close, and every heartbeat could lead to salvation or destruction. Discover the seductive underbelly of revenge and the intoxicating power of forbidden love.
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Content Warning: This episode contains discussions related to disability, mental health, spirituality, race, and queer identities that may be sensitive or triggering for some listeners. Please prioritize your well-being and seek support if needed.Episode Description: In this candid and insightful episode, Mx Dizzy and Marquis Pup Rekkr sit down with Snake (they/them), 2024 Scissortail and Midwest Power Exchange titleholder, primal and impact play enthusiast, and neurodivergent community leader. Snake shares their journey into primal in BDSM, exploring what it truly means to connect with energy, trust, and authenticity in play. They discuss misconceptions about primal play, the importance of consent and building trust, and how neurodivergence influences their experience and approach to community and scene dynamics.Throughout the conversation, Snake emphasizes the significance of self-awareness, emotional aftercare, and creating accessible spaces that honor diverse bodies and needs. They also reflect on their personal journey with identity, energy, and community leadership, offering practical advice for those interested in exploring primal energy, whether in scene or in everyday life.This episode is a celebration of individuality, vulnerability, and the power of primal connection. It's a must-listen for anyone curious about primal play, neurodivergence, or seeking to deepen their understanding of authentic energy exchange within BDSM and kink communities.Guest Links and Episode Resources (not an endorsement/review by TKT):Snake's fetlife: https://fetlife.com/snake102 Melanin Munch for Oklahoma - Snake is a founderFetLife Profile: https://fetlife.com/MelaninMunch_OKFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/320536 Watts The Safeword Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@WattsTheSafeword Evie Lupine YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@EvieLupine Check out The Kinky Tavern's socials and more! If you have questions about kink, BDSM, or the Leather community, send them to us on any platform. If your question is featured in an episode, you'll get a shout-out (unless you prefer to stay anonymous).LinkTreeDiscord ServerFetlifeInstagramFacebookBlueskyThreadsMx Dizzy's SocialsAmazon WishlistFetlifeFacebookTikTokMarquis Pup Rekkr's SocialsAmazon WishlistFetlifeFacebookInstagramSupport our efforts in raising awareness, encouraging discussion, and providing education in the kink, BDSM, and Leather communities:Amazon WishlistAmazon Wishlist - Library versionPatreonCashapp: $EmmDizzyPayPal: @MagickalEmVenmo: @thekinkytavern
This week, we're answering more Therapy Jeff questions – this time “unhinged” relationship questions. In this episode: Register for a free BDSM bootcamp: Jumpstart Your BDSM Journey Therapy Jeff is a therapist on IG... The post Answering 10 Unhinged Relationship Questions appeared first on Loving BDSM.
In the previous episode, we began a fascinating conversation about the long history of human interest in kink and BDSM. Today, we're diving deeper into the subject and discussing how major cultural events have played a role in shaping kinky interests. We're also going to talk about how kink and BDSM have been portrayed in the media and some of the controversies around how it has been presented. I am joined once again by author, historian, and journalist Peter Tupper. He runs the History of BDSM blog and wrote the book A Lover's Pinch: A Cultural History of Sadomasochism. Some of the specific topics we explore include: How did WWII influence BDSM practices and communities? What’s the historical connection between BDSM and fascist politics? How are kink and BDSM represented in popular media? How do we balance making representations of minority sexualities accessible without over-relying on stereotypes? You can check out Peter’s book here. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors! Boost your sexual confidence and performance with Popstar Delay Spray. Save 20% off your first order by using “Justin” as the discount code at popstarlabs.com/justin. I’m excited to announce a new online course I’m teaching on the topic of fantasies at the Kinsey Institute. Be sure to register for “The New Science of Sexual Fantasies” workshop, which will take place on July 19th, 2025. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Bluesky to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.
What happens when abuse is disguised as kink? In this episode, we unpack the disturbing trend of powerful people—like Diddy and Marilyn Manson—using BDSM as a cover for coercion and control. We break down why that's not kink, how it harms the community, and what ethical BDSM actually looks like. Spoiler: consent isn't optional.National Sexual Assault Hotline - 800-656-HOPE Kink Aware Professionals - https://www.kapprofessionals.org/Red Flag Radar Workbook at PinkKinkBoutique on Etsyhttps://fetlife.com/groups/149395/posts/11127573
At GASP 2025 this year, we were given the opportunity to host, and record, a Tops Roundtable. Featuring our own BigGirlSpanker, returning Guest Mr. Ben, returning guest Miss Bernadette, and newcomer to the podcast but veteran to the community, CallMeMissMeg. We had some initial questions and allowed questions from the audience and the Tops to respond spontaneously. We had a great discussion on all things related to Topping, discussion on setting scenes, communication in scenes, handling disappointment, learning and expanding skills, and more. What you will hear has been minimally edited, to bring you as close as possible to the live recording at GASP. We hope you will enjoy the discussion. If you have additional questions you would like us to address in the future, please send us a message at https://www.spankopodcast.com/contact/ and will will try our best to answer you in a future episode.
Nina Nova has gone from a modest single-parent upbringing to the heights of onscreen stardom. She joins host Nicole Chappelle to discuss her early days in New York, her intro to pornography, her passion for BDSM, the challenges of marketing in the digital age, and much more.
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Dossie realized in her early twenties that sexuality was her path and that sexuality and feminism would be hand-in-hand in creating the changes she wanted to see in the world, and in herself. In 1969, when she was about 25, Dossie declared she'd never be monogamous again... And she never looked back! Dossie's story is full of love, laughter, joy, heartbreak, healing, determination, grit, and inspiration. In this incredibly moving and powerful conversation Dossie takes us through more than 60 years of trailblazing a path for herself that so many have since followed while discovering their authentic selves. We're honored to be able to share this beautiful interview with you today and hope it inspires you as much as it did us. You may recognize Dossie Easton as the co-author of The Ethical Slut and other books but of course she is so much more than just that... From her own website: "I am proud to serve my communities as psychotherapist, relationship counselor, educator, and author. Since 1969, I have lived and worked in sexual minority cultures. I am dedicated to feminist, polyamorous, BDSM, spiritual, gender-diverse, and LGBTQ individuals and communities. I explore, with my clients and in my own life, new paradigms of gender, sexuality, and relationships. I am committed to offering authentic, respectful, competent, and compassionate psychotherapy and relationship counseling to people exploring non-traditional lifestyles." Check out the full show notes here. Join the most amazing community of open-minded humans on the planet! Click here to order your very own NNM shirt! $10 Off - Online STI Testing
On this fresh from the grave episode we celebrate 16 years of DEATH BY DVD.Founded in July of 2009, Death By DVD has produced hundreds of episodes in the 16 years of its existence and to celebrate our 16th anniversary we have a special announcement to make concerning the fate and future of this very show.If you're reading this I would like to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your support. Death By DVD has almost existed for 2 solid decades and I truly hope you click play and hear what we have to say.Thank you for choosing Death. DEATH BY DVD FOREVER. FOREVER DEATH BY DVD. ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★ Don't forget, Death By DVD has its very own all original audio drama voiced almost entirely by Death By DVD!DEATH BY DVD PRESENTS : WHO SHOT HANK?The first of its kind, (On this show, at least) an all original narrative audio drama exploring the murder of this shows very host, HANK THE WORLDS GREATEST! Explore WHO SHOT HANK, starting with the MURDER! A Death By DVD New Year Mystery WHO SHOT HANK : PART ONE WHO SHOT HANK : PART TWO WHO SHOT HANK : PART THREE WHO SHOT HANK : PART FOUR WHO SHOT HANK PART 5 : THE BEGINNING OF THE ENDWHO SHOT HANK PART 6 THE FINALE : EXEUNT OMNES Whoah, you're still here? Check out the official YOUTUBE of Death By DVD and see our brand new program, TRAILER PARK! The greatest movie trailer compilation of all time. Tap here to visit our YOUTUBE or copy and paste the link below : https://www.youtube.com/@DeathByDVD ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★
WHICH HOLLYWOOD ACTRESS OWES THE ENTIRE ADULT INDUSTRY A SERIOUS APOLOGY???She's the ULTIMATE Ginger, and one of the hardest-working legends in the game — Lauren Phillips joins Dustin for her long-overdue first appearance, and it's a wild ride from start to finish. From cam model to full-blown adult superstar, Lauren has built an empire off sheer talent, next-level stamina, and a very intimate connection with her fans — including that time she blew 37 of them for a Super Bowl stunt. Yes, really.We get into what makes Lauren a powerhouse on set, how she elevates everyone around her, and why her work ethic (and Orgasm IQ) are basically unmatched. She opens up about being a MILF, the scenes that push her buttons, her unfiltered thoughts on gangbangs, DP, and what kind of climax actually does it for her in a scene.Oh — and she's got a few choice words for the Hollywood Actress who tanked trust on OnlyFans and owes the entire adult industry (and her fans) an apology. This one's fun, fiery, and full of everything that makes Lauren Phillips tick. Enjoy this long awaited team up. Enjoy EP 181: "The Hardest Working Woman in Porn" with Lauren Phillips.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Lauren PhillipsInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/laurenfillsup (@laurenfillsup)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
Ever since Fifty Shades of Grey hit the scene, it seems as though kink and BDSM have become ubiquitous in popular media. But here's the thing: just because kink went mainstream in the last decade or so doesn't mean that it's new. In fact, the roots of BDSM trace back centuries. And the history behind it is fascinating, so that's what we're going to be talking about today. I am joined by author, historian, and journalist Peter Tupper. He runs the History of BDSM blog and wrote the book A Lover's Pinch: A Cultural History of Sadomasochism. Some of the specific topics we explore include: How far back in human history does interest in BDSM go? When we look back through history, how do we know whether something actually reflects BDSM as we know it today? What is the role of religion in the history of BDSM? Where did the term “sadomasochism” come from? How have views on BDSM changed over time? You can check out Peter’s book here. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors! Expand your sexual horizons with Beducated! Featuring more than 100 online courses taught by the experts, Beducated brings pleasure-based sex ed directly into your bedroom. Enjoy a free trial today and get 50% off their yearly pass by using LEHMILLER as the coupon code. To redeem this offer, visit: https://beducate.me/july-justin Passionate about building a career in sexuality? Check out the Sexual Health Alliance. With SHA, you’ll connect with world-class experts and join an engaged community of sexuality professionals from around the world. Visit SexualHealthAlliance.com and start building the sexuality career of your dreams today. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Bluesky to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.
In this heartfelt episode, King Oliver explores the journey from seeking instant gratification to discovering the power of authentic human connection. Through personal stories and insights, we dive into the importance of vulnerability, respecting boundaries, and creating safe spaces for deeper intimacy. Learn how to move beyond superficial interactions and embrace meaningful relationships.
About Jordan Kimler:Jordan Kimler is a Nurse Practitioner with a passion for holistic care and a knack for transforming lives! With over 15 years of experience in Primary Care, Hormone Optimization, and Weight Management, she's your go-to expert for all things wellness. Having personally lost over 50 lbs, Jordan walks the walk and truly understands the power of PremierU's programs. Her mission? To see you transformed from EXHAUSTED to EMPOWERED and help you become a PREMIER version of yourself!In this episode, Jennie Bellinger and Jordan Kimler discuss:Hormone optimization and health transformationVitamin D is important for overall wellnessPerimenopause symptoms and managementBuilding a holistic healthcare practicePersonalized approach to patient careKey Takeaways:Addressing insulin, thyroid, and cortisol levels can dramatically improve overall health and weight management, and investing in understanding your hormonal landscape is crucial for personal wellness.Optimal vitamin D levels impact immune health, mood, and cognitive function far beyond preventing rickets.Traditional medical systems often treat symptoms in isolation, missing the interconnected nature of bodily systems, and finding a provider who looks at root causes and correlates symptoms can be life-changing.Hormonal shifts begin earlier than most women realize, with progesterone declining as early as the mid-30s.Prioritizing your wellness directly impacts professional performance and personal relationships."I always tell my patients, I'm a good balance between Western medicine utilizing medications when needed, but then also bringing in that more root cause and meeting in the middle ground.” — Jordan KimlerConnect with Jordan Kimler: Facebook Business Page: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100087269511199LinkedIn URL: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jordan-kimler-282420188/Instagram Link: https://www.instagram.com/premierumed/Link to Gift from Jordan Kimler:Connect with Jennie:Website: https://badassdirectsalesmastery.com/Email: jennie@badassdirectsalesmastery.comFacebook personal page: https://facebook.com/jbellingerPLFacebook podcast page: http://facebook.com/BadassDirectSalesMasteryFacebook group for Badass Crew: https://facebook.com/groups/BadassDirectSalesMomsInstagram: https://instagram.com/BadassDirectSalesMasteryPersonal Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thedirectsalesdomme/LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/BadassDirectSalesMasteryThe Badass Direct Sales Mastery Podcast is currently sponsored by the following:Bella Grace Elixir: https://shopbellagrace.com/?ref=jenniebadassdirectsalesmasteryLeadBuddy Digital Marketing: Use code BDSM when checking out at https://leadbuddy.io/pro-monthly-9310?am_id=jennie582Show Notes by Podcastologist: Hanz Jimuel AlvarezAudio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it.
#093 “Am I too new? Too awkward? Not ‘dominant' enough?”If you've ever felt like a fake or imposter in BDSM, you're not alone. We're sharing how to build confidence, stop self-doubt, and finally feel like a “real” Dom or sub — even without a partner. Tune in now to start owning your role with confidence.➡️ Join the free bootcamp: https://domsubliving.com/bootcamp➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/093➡️ Join the FREE BDSM Jumpstart bootcamp: https://domsubliving.com/bootcamp/
I am freaking fantastic in this episode, and you will be too after hearing it
In this powerful conversation, renowned somatic sexologist and author of the forthcoming book, Your Blueprint for Pleasure, Miss Jaiya offers a profound exploration of intimacy, eroticism and boundaries in the modern world. Miss Jaiya takes us through the various sexual blueprints and opens up to Krista about her own experiences, from integrating God with pleasure to learning the art of surrender in BDSM.Morning Microdose is a podcast curated by Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik, the hosts and founders of Almost 30, a global community, brand, and top rated podcast.With curated clips from the Almost 30 podcast, Morning Mircodose will set the tone for your day, so you can feel inspired through thought provoking conversations…all in digestible episodes that are less than 10 minutes.Wake up with Krista and Lindsey, both literally and spiritually, Monday-Friday.If you enjoyed this conversation, listen to the full episode on Spotify here and on Apple here.