Podcasts about BDSM

Harry went from a sexless marriage full of infidelity to pegging, BDSM, couple swaps and more and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when he married his first wife and what was going down in their bedroom before he realized she was cheating, how he caught her cheating and exactly where she was hooking up with the other guy, how and why his ex-wife wound up having a nervous breakdown, why he stayed and tried to save the marriage, how he eventually started cheating on multiple women over many years, the much younger woman he fell for and eventually left his wife for, how they got into pegging and how that led him to explore his attraction to men, the free pass she gave him to hook up with guys, the first bi couple they hooked up with and exactly what went down, their first full couple swap and why they both loved it, how they recently got into CBT (cock and ball torture), tease and denial, chastity play, how and why they recently joined a. new nudist swinger community plus a whole lot more. GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  or Pre-order audiobook version ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors:  ⁠https://TakeLean.com⁠ - 20% off + FREE rush shipping on Lean weighloss  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Buy 2 months of Bluechew GOLD and get the third month FREE! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VB.HEALTH⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- To get 10% off DRIVE BOOST by VB Health, use code: STRICTLY  ⁠https://Motorbunny.com/Strictly⁠ - For $50 off your whole order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beduc.at/pd2626-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Click here to take the quiz and  get your personalized SUMMER roadmap to sexual happiness Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Introduction“How did your Spanish get so good?” a well-meaning gringa (American) asks me, gaping. She's been in Roma Norte for six months, trying to improve her Spanish by taking classes. Unsurprisingly, that wasn't going well for her.“It's a long story,” I shrug. My last four and a half years of romantic date spots and spontaneous hookups flash before my eyes. I remember all the Mexican men who patiently listened to me during my broken-fluency phase, probably because they wanted to get into my underwear. “I've found that dating in Spanish helps a lot.”“Huh,” she says, pulling out her phone as if taking serious notes. Be promiscuous. Sleep around.“Once people started complimenting me on my speaking and my ego got involved, that's when I really started perfecting it. It's nice to impress people, you know? But let's be real,” I said, leaning in closer. “There's a lot of words they're not going to teach you in Spanish class.”“Really?” she said, looking extra perplexed. “Like what?”I paraphrased this list of flirty terms for her, and I'm about to share them with you. This list is not comprehensive at all; it's organic and random, much like the way you learn a language naturally by “coqueteando y cogiendo” (flirting and f*****g) in the day-to-day. Immersion isn't linear, and neither is fluency. Still, I hope you enjoy these silly, dirty phrases and the honest, embarrassing stories behind how I learned them.What dirty phrases do you know in Spanish? What's the story behind how you learned them? Share them in the comments!Subscribe so you can read what's shared! ✨Cringey Mexican Spanish Phrases I've Learned1. ¿Te gustan las nalgadas?”

On today's show, I'm talking about what happens when context disappears and people start responding to what they think someone represents instead of what was actually said or done. I look at how missing information turns into certainty, how labels replace the individual, and why context can matter without excusing harmful behavior.This episode is supported by Enhanced-Mind Counseling. If you're looking to understand the patterns behind your relationships, attachment, or the dynamics you find yourself in, you can reach out through my website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://enhanced-mind.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Continue the discussion on Fetlife: @Enhanced-MindDon't forget to follow the show and leave a 5-star rating so others can find it.Want to be on the show or have an idea for an upcoming episode?Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TheKinkPerspective@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Find me on Substack - Enhanced-Mind's Substack | Chris C. | SubstackI have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. You can find it where you purchase most eBooks. Print version available now.#Psychology #Context #Control #Language

Sir InQ invited sex therapist Erin Alexander on the show, and I have to admit... I was completely drawn into this conversation.

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D Rock chats with the amazing Goddess Tessa for her first time on After Hours Sessions!! Goddess Tessa talks about growing up tall and being comfortable with being 6'5!! Tessa chats about how she was able to discover the Mixed wrestling and BDSM world! Tessa chats about her exciting sessions as well as what is her most requested type of session! Tessa chats about the innovative and exciting content she has been producing and wanting to bring a unique style to the mixed wrestling world! All this and more on another exciting episode of After Hours Sessions Podcast!!! follow Tessa amazongoddesstessa.com . #AfterHoursSessionsPodcast #BDSMPodcast #Amazons #MixedWrestling #SessionGirls

Vi poddar mellan Borås och Jönköping. Sofia fäller en tår och klär ut sig till Frida i ABBA. Vi skickar hat på homofober. Kommer vi få se Sofia på BDSM klubb. Har vi väckt en björn som sover? Bianca brottas med en vagel. Vi överväger att skjuta upp vår aska i fyrverkerier. Pernilla har haft en syskon reunion och har köpt ett fiskespö. Och glöm inte dansa alla queens! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Kink is often misunderstood, wrapped in myths, stereotypes, and cultural taboos that obscure what it's really about. In this episode, we unpack what kink is—and just as importantly, what it isn't. From broad definitions of BDSM and the idea that kink is simply "whatever is taboo for you," we explore why modern media often gets it wrong by focusing on shock value while overlooking the foundations of communication, consent, negotiation, safety, and aftercare. We'll also challenge common misconceptions that kink is abusive, anti-feminist, or only about pain. Theresa from Expansive Connection will help us break down the different elements of BDSM and explain how many forms of play overlap, emphasizing that the labels matter far less than the connection and experience they create. Whether you're simply curious or already exploring, understanding the diversity of kink opens the door to seeing it through a much more informed and compassionate lens. Most importantly, we'll discuss why so many couples and consensually non-monogamous relationships find value in exploring kink. Join us as we explore how embracing curiosity and authenticity can deepen intimacy, strengthen connection, and remind us that desire isn't something to fear—it's an opportunity to grow together. Below are resources that referenced during this podcast: - The Erotic Blueprints, Miss Jaiya: https://missjaiya.com/ - Midori:  www.planetmidori.com - NCSF (National Coalition for Sexual Freedom): https://ncsfreedom.org/ - NOW (National Organization for Women): https://now.org/ - Journal of Sexual Medicine 2008 study "Demographic and Psychosocial Features of Participants in BDSM":  https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1743-6109.2008.00795.x - Journal of Homosexuality 2006 study "Understanding Sadomasochism: An Empirical Examination of Four Perspectives":  https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1300/J082v50n02_07

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Introductie: Welkom bij deel 2 van dit openhartige gesprek over hulpverlening, schaamte en kink.Vandaag duiken we dieper in de pijn van niet gezien worden, de link met depressie en eenzaamheid, en de kracht van echte erkenning.Hoe kleine stapjes, community en het durven tonen van wie je bent, hoop en heling kunnen brengen.Een eerlijk en hoopvol gesprek met Hans, Marga en Queen Jazz.In deze Aflevering:Schaamte, eenzaamheid en de stille pijn — Hoe onderdrukte verlangens en het gevoel niet te mogen zijn, leiden tot diepe eenzaamheid en soms zelfs hopeloosheid.De helende kracht van gezien worden — Wat er gebeurt als iemand je écht accepteert in wie je bent, of het nu om kink, transitie of verborgen verlangens gaat.Kleine stapjes en de moed om te beginnen — Waarom grote sprongen vaak mislukken en hoe kleine, haalbare stappen de weg openen naar meer vrijheid.Kink als bron van heling — Hoe pijn, structuur, intimiteit en spel kunnen helpen om uit depressie te komen en dichter bij jezelf te raken.Van schaamte naar trots en verbinding — Het belang van community, consent en het omarmen van al je kanten, inclusief de kwetsbare.Tot Slot:Dit was een intens, open en hoopvol tweede deel over schaamte, eenzaamheid en de helende kracht van écht gezien worden.We hebben stilgestaan bij pijn, kleine stapjes, verbinding en hoe kink kan helpen helen.Vanaf 5 augustus 2026 starten we met een speciale serie van 7 wekelijkse SHORTS over de groeiende cross-over tussen de kink- en swingerswereld.Steeds meer swingers ontdekken kink en willen weten hoe ze dat veilig, spannend en respectvol kunnen verkennen.In deze korte afleveringen gaan we daar dieper op in.Volg SinQuest nu, zodat je niets mist. Tot snel!Meer over:Hans West(https://linktr.ee/hanswest)Queen Jazz:⁠(https://linktr.ee/Queenjazznl⁠)Marga Berlinski:(⁠https://www.turnonnl.com/)SinQuest biedt een veilige en open podcast over seksualiteit, met focus op fetish, kink en BDSM. Iedereen is welkom om vrijuit te praten op ons genderneutrale platform. Hulp nodig? Neem contact op via [SinQuest Aftercare](https://www.sinquest.nl/aftercare).  Bekijk onze videopodcasts op ons YouTube-kanaal: [YouTube @SinQuest](⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@sinquest8025⁠⁠).  Steun SinQuest! Word vriend of vriendin van de podcast via [www.sinquest.nl/friends]⁠⁠(https://www.sinquest.nl/friends).⁠⁠  Vond je een aflevering leuk? Like, deel en volg ons!  Waarom SinQuest?Onze podcast creëert een veilige plek om open te praten over seksualiteit.  Volg ons en blijf op de hoogte! © SinQuest.nl 

This week's episode takes us from the natural world to wartime tragedy before finishing with an in-depth look at one of the most misunderstood areas of BDSM.We begin with the remarkable true story of an animal declared extinct... only to disappear all over again. Then we tell the devastating story of the USS Indianapolis, the sinking that left hundreds of sailors stranded in shark-infested waters and became one of the darkest chapters of the Second World War.Our main feature explores BDSM pet play in depth. We look at the psychology behind it, why people are drawn to it, the different types of pets and handlers, how scenes work, common misconceptions, and why for many people it has very little to do with sex at all.As always, expect plenty of laughs, plenty of tangents, and a healthy dose of weird along the way.Chapter list:00:00 The Animal That Went Extinct Twice08:25 The Secret Mission and the sharks25:35 Listener Question: Understanding BDSM Pet PlayA listener's question about their adult child opens a discussion on what pet play really is and why it's so widely misunderstood.27:00 What Is Pet Play?An introduction to the dynamic, common misconceptions and why it isn't necessarily about sex.31:10 Why People Enjoy Pet PlayExploring headspace, stress relief, identity, escapism and emotional wellbeing.36:30 Different Types of Pets and HandlersPups, kittens, ponies, foxes, wolves, handlers and how different dynamics develop.42:45 Gear, Accessories and Getting StartedMasks, tails, collars, paws, toys, safety and beginner-friendly ways to explore.47:00 Events, Community and CompetitionsHow pet play events work, what to expect, etiquette, Pup Pride and the welcoming community behind the scene.53:50 Final Thoughts on Pet Play and Fetish Factoid▶︎ Support us on Patreon for bonus content: https://www.patreon.com/ThePaddedCellPodcast▶︎ www.thepaddedcellpodcast.co.uk▶︎ www.thepaddedcellpodcast.store Watch  the podcast on YouTube:▶︎ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@ThePaddedCellPodcastFollow The Padded Cell for more:▶︎ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61551425184285▶︎ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thepaddedcell_podcast/?hl=en-gb▶︎ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thepaddedcellpodcastRecorded and Produced by Vicky at The Padded Cell StudiosEp 1 - 120 recorded at: ▶︎ Web - http://www.liverpoolpodcaststudios.com

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Episode 36: "Better in Bed" ‘Main Topic': We sat down with the CEO and Founder of Promescent, innovators in adult wellness. The conversation was electric, inspiring, and packed with insights. You'll find a link to their product line on our website, LifestyleLynx.com. ‘What Have We Done Lately': It's been a whirlwind of travel, adventure and unforgettable gatherings. We vacationed at Desire Pearl in Cancun, Mexico which we love! Followed by a BIG house/orgy party that is off the hook. Then on to ‘Kraken Resort' outside Houston, TX. A unique Lifestyle resort where we have planned a LifestyleLynx Full Take‑Over, October 22–25, 2026. Tickets drop soon. For my birthday celebration, we traveled to Niagara NY to see friends and go to the X-Club near Toronto Canada. A packed Morristown, NJ Meet & Greet, followed by an after‑party that delivered. Lastly, a very sexy house party where the hookups were plentiful and special. ‘Where Are We Going Next': We are excited to be attending Philly Friction's “Liquid Lust” hotel take-over weekend with many friends from our tribe including the owner of Kraken Resort and the DJ for the weekend Moe Green. Also, on the agenda; two Sunny Rest weekends in August, a four-couple dinner party with a lively after party and the following day a sexy, swinger pool party.Upcoming Events:✨King of Prussia, PA, M&G (Valley Forge Casino): August 15 — Added by Popular Demand✨Morristown, NJ, M&G (Iron Bar): September 26 — Expecting 500+ attendees!✨Kraken Resort Take-over (Trinity TX): October 22-25 — A one-of-of-kind Atmosphere & Experience ✨Bliss Cruise Partial Take-over (Deck 7): April 18-24, 2027 – Party 6 days with the Tribe

Send us Fan MailHalf the year is gone, and I'm not letting 2026 blur by on autopilot. Around the Kinky Campfire turns into a midyear self-review where I lay out my real do's and don'ts, the habits I'm retiring, and the goals I'm doubling down on. It's honest, a little chaotic, and way more useful than a polished highlight reel.I talk about relationships and the uncomfortable truth that some “messing with your partner” behavior can cross into emotional harm, even when you think it's playful. I own the stuff I used to normalize, why a partner should feel like a safe space, and what it looks like to unlearn low-key abusive tactics that can hide inside culture and routine. If you care about communication, consent, and emotional safety in kink, BDSM, polyamory, or any relationship, this is the kind of reflection that actually changes outcomes.Then we shift into the creator life: improv as communication training, hosting as a real passion, and the first time I got paid to host bingo. I also get real about money pressure, gas costs, burnout, overcommitting, and feeding the social media algorithm with shorts just to stay visible. That leads into a bigger question about fulfillment, motivation, and sleep: if you're not doing what feeds your soul, your body notices.I close with my ongoing beef with tech career certifications and test anxiety, plus a genuine ask: would you want me to stream live, take questions, and eventually teach more kink education through webinars and classes? Subscribe for Thursday audio and Friday video, share this with a friend who needs a midyear reset, and leave a review so more kampsters can find the show.1/6/26 1/6/26Support the showCome let us know what you think! - IG -https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/Yahoo - aroundthekinkykampfire@yahoo.comCome check out our merch!https://www.etsy.com/shop/SafeWordSocietyhttps://tee.pub/lic/F1PtyQ_K8kEhttp://www.redbubble.com/people/safewordsociety

Prague Fetish Weekend se blíží a my jsme si jako každý rok pozvali Dannyho Worma z Hell Events, hlavního organizátora největšího fetish / BDSM akcí (Alterno, MegaAlterno, Ropespirit a právě PFW = o všech jsme vám už povídali) v Česku.Čeká vás (i nás = my nemůžeme chybět) čtyřdenní akce, která letos opět promění Prahu v místo plné latexu, kůže, shibari, kinků, workshopů, přednášek i světových performerů.Společně projdeme celý letošní program den po dni - konkrétně se bude jednat o 1. - 4. října, pište si to do kalendáře!Co čeká úplné nováčky během čtvrtečního Entrée? Na co se těšit na pátečním Fetish Marketu v prostorách Gabriel Loci (btw. jeho atmosféru milujeme), kde se představí čeští i zahraniční výrobci, módní přehlídky a show?Které sobotní vystoupení by si podle Dannyho neměl nechat ujít žádný návštěvník a proč je právě Fetish Nightvrcholem celého festivalu? A co nabídne uvolněnější nedělní Afterpartyv Kotelně?Nebudeme ale řešit jen program. Povídáme si také o tom, jak se Prague Fetish Weekend za třináct let změnil, jaké chyby dělají nováčci nejčastěji, jak funguje dresscode, proč jsou součástí festivalu přísná pravidla soukromí a bezpečnosti a jak se organizuje akce, na kterou přijíždějí performeři i návštěvníci z celé Evropy. Řeč přijde také na shibari, Hell show, latexové přehlídky, play roomy s BDSM nábytkem (i němými sluhy), ale i zákulisí příprav festivalu.Pokud přemýšlíte, že letos na Prague Fetish Weekend vyrazíte poprvé, nebo se na něj naopak každoročně vracíte, tenhle díl vám nabídne spoustu praktických tipů i pohled přímo od člověka, který stojí za jeho organizací. A sám akci navštěvuje = ač si ji minimálně užije sám, protože chce, aby bylo vše perfektní pro ostatní návštěvníky! :) A jako vždy přidáme i naše vlastní zkušenosti z předchozích ročníků a několik otázek, které návštěvníky zajímají nejvíc, ale málokdo se na ně zeptá nahlas.Kam dál pokračovat pro vstupenky:https://fetishweekend.czhttps://www.instagram.com/helleventscz/https://www.facebook.com/FetishNight/https://hellevents.cz/cs/https://www.lascivni.cz/tipy-a-reportaze/prague-fetish-weekend-2023-report/Celý díl (1 hodina a 12 minut) je k dispozici (s předstihem i v plné nestříhané verzi) na Forendors.cz/lascivni = děkujeme vám za podporu. Bez ní bychom dále nemohli tvořit.1) Jak nás (⁠⁠podcast⁠⁠ a recenzenty erohraček) můžete podpořit?Vznik nových dílů (v plné délce) i bonusů, můžete podpořit předplatným na ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Forendors.cz/Lascivni⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Chceme vám být blíže, takže rádi se poznáme skrze Discordový kanál, ... a vyslechneme si vaše nápady, tipy na nové hosty. Nebo jen navrhnete otázky pro připravované rozhovory... Je to jen na vás! Děkujeme!2) Podívejte se na naše reálné recenze pomůcek (⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lascivni.cz/eroticke-hracky-pomucky/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠), i českých sex-shopů...A když přes odkazy z našeho webu nakoupíte, dostaneme % odměnu z vaší objednávky = a budeme moci dál a více tvořit.Za všechny v redakci vám velmi děkujeme!3) Kde můžete spolehlivě a diskrétně nakupovat hračky?V jakých českých obchodech sami nakupujeme pomůcky pro testování? A proč zrovna na těchto? Máme je ověřené z hromady objednávek!Tyto můžeme rozhodně doporučit:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sexshop.cz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (KUPON LASCIVNI - 10 % sleva!),⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Růžovýslon.cz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (KUPON LASCIVNI - 15 % sleva na bestsellery),⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sexshop51.cz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, (KUPON LASCIVNI - 10 % sleva na nezlevněné kousky) adalších +20 jsme  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠v rámci redakce testovali zde...⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Brooksie Brooks is a Babestation streamer, stripper, and self-proclaimed squirt queen—and she has the stats to back it up. Known as “the wettest pussy in the North,” Brooksie once squirted 32 times in 45 minutes. We get into the anything-goes world of Babestation, using “more baby oil than Diddy” (her words), her wild experiences on stream, selling her squirt, and the wildest requests she's ever gotten from fans.Then we get very, very detailed about her collabs with other women, including exactly how messy she likes things to get. And because Brooksie is also a stripper, you know I had to ask for her craziest stories from the club. She gives me three—INCLUDING THE WILDEST STRIP CLUB STORY WE'VE EVER HAD ON THE SHOW. So buckle the fuck up, get out your tarp, strap that helmet on tight, and prepare yourself for EP 236: "Babe Land" with Brooksie Brooks.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Brooksie BrooksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/brooksiebrooks_ (@brooksiebrooks_)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Heather and Jonny are barely surviving the latest heatwave in Southern Illinois. They seek comfort in some international Pride celebrations, despite the violence at the Berlin Pride March. In the back half of the show they demonstrate how pretty much all protests, legislation, and bigotry against LGBTQ+ people and concerns are motivated by patriarchy. The most toxic versions of that are finally starting to reveal themselves as incompetent and harmful for most of us. At their core, mysogyny, homophobia and transphobia all try to solve a you problem by making it about subjugating someone else. 

A gente já falou sobre abordagens no podcast, mas e quando o papo avança? Como flertar on-line e o que fazer no momento de sexting e envio de nudes? Nesse episódio aqui, em vídeo, a Roxy, a Ada e a Gabi Dias conversam sobre abordagens que funcionam e não funcionam, estilos de sexting e como desenvolver essa troca de mensagens e imagens safadas. Como acertar o tom? Como manter a conversa sem ser esquisito? Como alimentar o tesão e a tensão sem ultrapassar limites?Um episódio rapidinho, cheio de dicas maravilhosas e com risadas garantidas! Vem escutar e conta o que você achou aqui nos comentários! Participantes: Ada @aleneouada, Roxy @roxylust, Gabi Dias @gabidays23Voz da vinheta: Dom Deer de Goiânia/GO @dom.deer*Episódio disponível também em vídeo!*Este episódio foi gravado em estúdio em 05/05/2026, no dia da gravação de Dia das Mães, em que tivemos diversas questões com a qualidade da entrega de áudio e vídeo, como explicado no nosso episódio 55. Esse é o último episódio com essa qualidade reduzida, não voltaremos a esse estúdio. Apoie o Chicotadas! https://apoia.se/chicotadas  Form para envio de dúvidas e feedbacks: https://forms.gle/x3HUheP52BkALn989 Nossos links: https://chicotadas.com.br/Confira nosso Instagram: www.instagram.com/chicotadaspodcast  A vitrine do episódio é uma arte com foto. O fundo é vermelho com textura psicodélica em preto. Ao centro da imagem, uma colagem de fotos da Roxy, da Gabi e da Ada em preto e branco. A Roxy olha para a câmera e a Ada e a Gabi interagem com o celular. Para descrição delas, ouça o episódio. Abaixo da colagem, o número e título do episódio (Chicotinho 44: Sexting e Flerte por Mensagens: Um guia para a safadeza via texto, com Gabi Dias) em lilás e amarelo claro em uma caixa de texto vermelho. Na parte superior e inferior da imagem, marca d'água com o arroba do nosso insta @chicotadaspodcast e a logo principal do podcast (uma onda sonora posicionada para lembrar uma onda sonora) em amarelo claro. Minutagens: 1:35 IntroduçãoEpisódios com a Gabi: - Chicotinho 11, Chicopapo: Gabi Dias- Chicotinho 16 e 17, Anatomia de uma primeira cena- Episódio regular 39, Kink Shaming- Clube dos apoiadores 14, Nossos erros de iniciantes no BDSM- Episódio regular 54, Especial Dia das Mães- Episódio regular 55, Por que somos tantos neurodivergentes no BDSM e na Não Monogamia? 2:25 Autodescrição 4:26 O que são abordagens? Como abordar? O que é sexting?- Chicotinho #26, Abordagens no BDSM 11:30 Recado do Apoia.se https://apoia.se/chicotadas 13:48 Como deve ser o processo? Quando avançar o papo? Erros, acertos e relatos.Citados: nichos, personalização, expectativas, gato mia, Grindr, yearning (desejo prolongado), validação, trabalhar com sexting, problemas de homens cis hetero, áudios, relação a distância, exploração da sexualidade e da imaginação, dronificação, boas práticas de nudes. 57:05 Conclusão e últimas dicas - Livros e literatura pornô/soft porn - Indicação de criadores da Gabi (perfis com foco em áudio):https://www.instagram.com/peaches_aka_goochypiehttps://www.instagram.com/himbo.irl/https://www.instagram.com/dipseastories/ 1:00:54 Aftercare 1:02:18 Voz da vinheta: Dom Deer de Goiânia/GO @dom.deer Nossos links: https://chicotadas.com.br/

Natalie King joins Ralph Sutton and Aaron Berg and they discuss Natalie's love of latex, how she got into the adult industry, the BDSM experience, her most frequent dom requests, making friends with clients, Ralph's crazy date story, a game of Punish the Beta where Ralph and Aaron compete to see which is the more alpha guy and after each round Natalie punishes the beta, we also find out Natalie's first concert, first drug and first sexual experience and so much more!Air Date: 07/22/26Support our sponsors!YoKratom.com - Check out Yo Kratom (the home of the $60 kilo) for all your kratom needs!To advertise your product or service on GaS Digital podcasts please go to TheADSide.com and click on "Advertisers" for more information!You can watch The SDR Show LIVE for FREE every Wednesday and Saturday at 9pm ET at GaSDigitalNetwork.com/LIVEOnce you're there you can sign up at GaSDigitalNetwork.com with promo code: SDR for discount on your subscription which will give you access to every SDR show ever recorded! On top of that you'll also have the same access to ALL the shows that GaS Digital Network has to offer!Follow the whole show on social media!Natalie KingInstagram: https://instagram.com/natalie.king.nycAaron BergTwitter: https://twitter.com/aaronbergcomedyInstagram: https://instagram.com/aaronbergcomedyRalph SuttonTwitter: https://twitter.com/iamralphsuttonInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamralphsutton/Shannon LeeTwitter: https://twitter.com/IMShannonLeeInstagram: https://instagram.com/ShannonLee6982The SDR ShowTwitter: https://twitter.com/theSDRshowSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Originally published as a series of novellas in Asimov's Science Fiction before winning the 2006 Locus Award for best novel, Accelerando traces three generations of the Macx family (and one notoriously manipulative AI cat named Aineko) across a high-speed, century-long journey through future history and the looming technological singularity.  We unpack the overwhelming density of Stross's worldbuilding—from cyberpunk edge, BDSM, and KGB-uplifted digital lobsters, to Capitalism 2.0 driven by profit-seeking AI corporations, automated corporate law and self-propagating lawsuits, and personalized advertising that feels eerily prescient today. Discover how Stross redefines the technological singularity through system-wide computing power measured in MIPS, explores consciousness as a predator-prey evolutionary dynamic, and takes us to the edge of the solar system where Matrioshka brains, alien communiqués from brown dwarfs, and beam-riding simulated minds completely rewrite the rules of interstellar travel and resource allocation.  Whether you're curious about the Vile Offspring, nested self-referential autonomous corporations, or Jupiter-orbiting electrodynamic tether generators, this episode breaks down why Accelerando is an essential—and utterly chaotic—masterclass in expert speculative fiction. Stick around to the end of the episode for our spoiler-heavy post-show discussion, plus our top similar book recommendations, including William Gibson's Neuromancer, Greg Egan's Diaspora, and Kim Stanley Robinson's Aurora! And make sure to like and subscribe so you don't miss our next episode, where we'll be ranking this year's Hugo award nominees and all the best Sci-Fi and Fantasy books of last year!  You can read Accelerando free online on Charles Stross' website! As always, no spoilers until the end when we give a heads up before getting into the full plot discussion.  Join the Hugonauts book club on discord Or you can watch our episodes on YouTube if you prefer video Similar books we recommend:  Diaspora by Greg Egan (or Permutation City) Neuromancer by William Gibson Aurora by Kim Stanley Robinson This episode is sponsored by The Day The Moon Disappeared by Michael Ross If you want to jump around, here are the timestamps for the episode: 00:00 Intro 01:04 Our review (3/5) 03:00 Sponsor - The Day The Moon Disappeared by Michael Ross 03:31 A hard sci-fi look at the next hundred years 05:46 Our cast - a family over a century 7:20 Some of the coolest science ideas 12:43 Prescient ideas that have already come true 13:24 Matrioshka brains 15:40 A different definition of Singularity 18:21 AI as corporations 19:19 Interstellar travel via computer 23:12 Also BDSM 26:59 Diaspora by Greg Egan 28:05 Neuromancer by William Gibson 29:19 Aurora by Kim Stanley Robinson 29:50 Reverse generators in Jupiter orbit 31:12 POST SPOILERS book summary 42:26 POST SPOILERS analysis

On today's show, I'm discussing what happens when the language of consent, safety, trauma, and boundaries stops protecting people and starts controlling the room. I explore how personal reactions can become treated as proof, why certain accusations become almost impossible to question, and how kink communities can end up enforcing a version of events before anyone has looked closely at what actually happened.This episode is supported by Enhanced-Mind Counseling. If you're looking to understand the patterns behind your relationships, attachment, or the dynamics you find yourself in, you can reach out through my website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://enhanced-mind.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Continue the discussion on Fetlife: @Enhanced-MindDon't forget to follow the show and leave a 5-star rating so others can find it.Want to be on the show or have an idea for an upcoming episode?Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TheKinkPerspective@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Find me on Substack - Enhanced-Mind's Substack | Chris C. | SubstackI have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. You can find it where you purchase most eBooks. Print version available now.#Psychology #Consent #Control #Language

Join host Amanda Goff in an unfiltered conversation with Marcus Richardson, one of Australia's top male escorts. From a comfortable upbringing in North Yorkshire to serving in the British military infantry, Marcus shares the chaotic path that led him from surviving a near-fatal brain hemorrhage to navigating Sydney's high-end adult industry.Marcus opens up about the realities of sex work, exploring complex topics like BDSM, consensual non-consent (CNC) bookings, and the severe emotional toll the industry can take. He reflects candidly on erection struggles, personal trauma from non-consensual situations, and the blurred lines between physical intimacy and emotional therapy. Moving beyond the surface, the pair delve into modern role models, the loss of male identity, societal pressures on men, and the surprising ways escorting allows him to help women heal from past trauma. Witty, provocative, and honest, this episode offers an eye-opening look at vulnerability, boundary-setting, and reclaiming control.This episode contains candid discussions of adult topics, including BDSM/CNC (consensual non-consent), sexual assault and trauma, non-consensual sexual encounters, mental health struggles, violence, and suicide. Listener discretion is strongly advised.Follow Amanda on Instagram and on Substack Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

#148 You've been told these BDSM rules are non-negotiable. But are they? We're challenging 10 of the most common BDSM "rules", revealing which protect you, which are outdated, and which may be holding you back. Press play and challenge everything you thought you knew.➡️ Free list of 50 kinks: https://domsubliving.com/checklist➡️ Sign up for our FREE newsletter: https://domsubliving.com/signup ❤️ Join the All-Access Pass for community, coaching, and courses: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess

Original Release Date: Monday 27 July 2026      Description:   One episode shy of their 1,000 installment of this show, Dean and Phil jokingly compare notes on the tolls reaching such a milestone have taken. Phil hints at some of his weekend 40th high school reunion adventures, Dean updates the prognosis of his beloved Doberman, Leloo, and previews his own birthday celebrations. Of course, Dean and Phil now produce several different podcasts each week through the “Chillpak Hollywood Presents …” Substack. And last week's episode of “Celebrity Deaths” resulted in the need to begin with some corrections and/or clarifications! After those, it's nothing but good news from the world of show biz, including the continued astonishing success of Christopher Nolan's The Odyssey, the halt (til at least next year) of the Parmount-Warners merger, and the announcement that an iconic Hollywood locale will be reopening in 2028. Finally, Phil sings the praises of the one of the all-time best debut features for any director ever, the heartbreaking and hilarious, sexually explicit, gay biker BDSM film, Pillion, and Dean reveals his early reaction to the new spin-off of “The Big Bang Theory”.

Think you know everything about sex? Think again. Pleasure isn't a luxury—it's part of your health. Yet most of us were never taught how our bodies actually work, how to communicate what we want, or why intimacy changes throughout our lives. Welcome to Please Me! A Sexuality Podcast, where science meets seduction. I'm Eve Hall, a pelvic floor physical therapist and sexuality educator, and every week we're breaking down the topics everyone is thinking about—but few people are talking about openly. From orgasms, libido, pelvic floor health, hormones, and painful sex to BDSM, kink, ethical non-monogamy, communication, desire, and sexual wellness, nothing is off limits. You'll hear candid conversations with leading experts, myth-busting education, and practical advice to help you have better sex, healthier relationships, deeper intimacy, and a stronger connection with your body. Whether you're looking to reignite your desire, improve sexual function, explore your fantasies, navigate changing hormones, or simply become a more confident, informed lover, Please Me! gives you the tools—and permission—to do it. Because great sex isn't just about what happens in the bedroom. It's about living longer, loving better, and feeling fully alive at any age. Subscribe to Please Me! A Sexuality Podcast and join the movement that's replacing shame with knowledge, confidence, pleasure, and lifelong sexual wellness.

This week, Elle and Vee sit down with Mr. A for an unfiltered look at how his and Vee's relationship evolved from being monogamish into group BDSM scenes, couple swapping, and separate experiences. They break down his detailed scene-negotiation process, including desires, limits, safe words, triggers, aftercare, and how every person, even the voyeur or cuck, stays included. Vee opens up about jealousy, emotional activation, reconnection rituals, and why feeling safe matters more than pretending non-monogamy is effortless. Then the conversation takes a completely unhinged turn with a Lincoln Tunnel emergency that somehow becomes kinky, hilarious, and weirdly romantic.00:00Introduction to BDSM negotiation and self-discovery02:06Evolution of the relationship and exploring boundaries03:59Scenes with multiple partners and dynamic roles06:52Negotiation questions and building anticipation10:08Handling fears, desires, and boundaries15:05The importance of communication and group chats20:03Scene construction and planning28:07The emotional and physical aspects of BDSM scenes35:04Voyeurism, watching, and emotional safety42:58Handling jealousy and non-monogamy49:51Community, connection, and personal growth01:00:05Final thoughts and advice for beginners______________

We kick things off with a Hollywood tragedy that permanently changed the film industry, before diving into the unbelievable true story of a man who seemed to get everything spectacularly wrong... yet somehow ended up richer, more famous and more successful every single time.The Lady Lobotomy surgery is open, exploring a fascinating BDSM dynamic that is often misunderstood, and finish with wonderfully bizarre Victorian Fetish Factoid.Add in plenty of laughs, biscuits, tangents and kink, and you've got another typical week inside The Padded Cell.If you're a regular Deviant, thank you for being here. If you're new... welcome to the chaos!▶︎ Support us on Patreon for bonus content: https://www.patreon.com/ThePaddedCellPodcast▶︎ www.thepaddedcellpodcast.co.uk▶︎ www.thepaddedcellpodcast.store Watch  the podcast on YouTube:▶︎ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@ThePaddedCellPodcastFollow The Padded Cell for more:▶︎ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61551425184285▶︎ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thepaddedcell_podcast/?hl=en-gb▶︎ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thepaddedcellpodcastRecorded and Produced by Vicky at The Padded Cell StudiosEp 1 - 120 recorded at: ▶︎ Web - http://www.liverpoolpodcaststudios.com

J-P Valkeapää's Dogs Don't Wear Pants This week Mr. Chavez & I explore Finnish Cinema with a look at J-P Valkeapää's Dogs Don't Wear Pants. A brave and troubling look at emotional trauma, BDSM, and auto-ertotic asphyxiation, Valkeapää's 2019 erotic black comedy is an exploration of the erotic underground subculture of dominance and submission. There's a great deal to admire in this film including the lead performances of Pekka Strang as a widowed single father struggling with death of his wife seven years earlier, and Krista Kosonen as the woman he meets and whose dominatrix skills he  becomes consumed by. A film that is not for the squeamish or prudish, but one that gives insight into - some of - the workings of this sexual subculture. Not all of the film works, but what is there speaks louder than the majority of American films that claim to tackle sexuality. Take a listen, give the movie a watch, and let us know what you think. As always, we appreciate the continued love and support. We continue to be available to you at gondoramos@yahoo.com. Many, Many Thanks.  For those of you who would like to donate to this undying labor of love, you can do so with a contribution at https://www.buymeacoffee.com/watchrickramos - Anything and Everything is appreciated, You Cheap Bastards.

Hazel Heart has a pitch-black Gooner cave in her basement where she disappears for hours with headphones on and completely loses herself. We get into those three-hour sessions, her brutally hardcore work with Hookup Hotshot, what it feels like to get dick drunk and fall completely into subspace, and why some scenes leave her needing a serious recovery nap.Hazel also opens up about her first DP—and what it feels like to actually orgasm during it. We get into her gangbang ambitions, blowbang fantasies, love of sucking dick, cosplay, anime, AVN, OnlyFans, and the wildest request she's ever gotten. This episode is filthy, hypnotic, and completely out of control. As always.Grab your headphones, head to your cave or dark room of choice, and enjoy EP 235: "Heart Eyes" with Hazel Heart. Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Hazel HeartInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/xhazelheartx (@xhazelheartx)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Season 6, Episode 768: Video Version of the interview with Monday Jones, replay to get the video version onto podcast apps. Monday Jones, A Dominant BDSM Shamanatrix, Sex Goddess & Worker, Holistic Somatic Practitioner, Coach, Writer, & the Culture of Sexuality, Sexual Health, & Society. Today on the podcast, you will find an amazing, inspiring, enlightening, and intense discussion with the epic and alternative lifestyle living individual, Monday Jones. We chatted about politics and sex, religion, culture, sex, sexuality, gender, the history of/current environment of sexuality, and sexual health. Connect with Monday Jones: http://www.mondayjones.com/my-links From the Podcast Host Ruan Willow:  Ruan Willow paperbacks always on sale: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/booksonsale Book Power Plays: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/powerplays Beach House Views: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/beachhouseviewsbook One of Ruan's fave brands of adult pleasure toys: Affiliate link Pearl Toys from Kiiroo: Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with affiliate code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at https://www.kiiroo.com/ https://offers.feeliate.com/to92wTJh Neighborhood Sex Secrets novel: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/neighborhoodsexsecrets Discreet cover and title for Neighborhood Secrets: Neighborhood Secrets Novel by Ruan Willow Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Ryze coffee use code podna15 to get 15% OFF at (affiliate) https://www.ryzesuperfoods.com/ Tech 15% OFF with affiliate code ruan15 ⁠⁠https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow⁠ Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All Rights Reserved. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow

If you're curious about kink and BDSM but aren't sure where to begin, this episode is for you. Returning guest Ashley Randall (Irreverent Femme), a certified Sex, Intimacy, and Kink Coach and professional Dominatrix, joins us to explore what healthy, consensual kink really looks like—and why it can be a powerful path to deeper intimacy, trust, emotional connection, and personal healing. Together, we unpack common myths about BDSM, discuss how to move beyond shame and stigma, and share practical advice for anyone interested in exploring kink safely and confidently. Whether you're completely new to BDSM or looking to deepen your understanding, this conversation offers an approachable, judgment-free introduction to building more authentic and connected relationships. In this episode, we discuss: Kink and BDSM for beginners How to get started with BDSM safely The foundations of consent, communication, and trust What it really means to be dominant or submissive Creating emotionally connected and deeply satisfying play Removing shame and stigma around kink and alternative relationship dynamics Practical tips for safe, sexy, and fulfilling exploration Various popular kinks such as cuckolding and spanking Ashley Randall, also known as Irreverent Femme, is a certified Sex, Intimacy, and Kink Coach and Dominatrix based in Los Angeles. Through her practice, Irreverent Love, she helps individuals and couples build confidence, deepen intimacy, and embrace the parts of themselves they've been taught to hide. Ashley is especially passionate about helping clients release shame around sexuality, BDSM, kink, and non-traditional relationship structures while creating richer relationships, stronger emotional connection, and more fulfilling sex lives. To learn more go to http://irreverentcoaching.com https://www.irreverentscents.com IG: @IrreverentLoveCoaching Come to one of our October 2026 Couples Retreats! Learn more and reserve your spot here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠our book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ now! Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shamelesssex.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Wish List⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on IG ⁠⁠⁠⁠@shamelesssexpodcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠ Other links: Get 10% off getting soaking wet with code SHAMELESS at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://soakingwet.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://uberlube.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 15% off our favorite sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://purepleasureshop.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

What if you were crowned ruler over BDSM and it came with a fancy Burger King crown? What changes would you want to make to D/S? Would you alter any of the language of kink? Change community standards? Bust myths about dominants and submissives?In this episode, that very question is the focal point: what would change and why?So take a break from the day, grab a beverage, get comfortable, pop in those earbuds, and press play on the Kink King.(Litigious Lawyer Disclaimer: The Kink King crown is imaginary, the Burger King crown is borrowed only for the joke, and this episode is not affiliated with Burger King.)

On today's show, I'm talking about the difference between wanting to understand someone's past and wanting that past to have belonged to you. We explore why our minds can become attached to experiences we never lived, how curiosity can quietly turn into ownership, and why real intimacy isn't about rewriting someone's history. It's about accepting that the life which shaped the person you love was never yours to possess.This episode is supported by Enhanced-Mind Counseling. If you're looking to understand the patterns behind your relationships, attachment, or the dynamics you find yourself in, you can reach out through my website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://enhanced-mind.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Continue the discussion on Fetlife: @Enhanced-MindDon't forget to follow the show and leave a 5-star rating so others can find it.Want to be on the show or have an idea for an upcoming episode?Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TheKinkPerspective@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Find me on Substack - Enhanced-Mind's Substack | Chris C. | SubstackI have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. You can find it where you purchase most eBooks. Print version available now.#Psychology #Past #Relationships #Life

EA765 -  Pierced Labias, New people, & BDSM test This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, episode 765, Dawn chats with Cookie Doe about her labia piercings……plus, discusses her experience with tying out new munches as she travels around the country and shares her results for her BDSM Test.    Links mentioned on the show: Cookie Doe (fet profile) https://fetlife.com/Cookie_Doe_ Kinky Holiday Bazaar https://fetlife.com/events/2026/11/21/kinky-holiday-bazaar-ogivu7 SEEK submissive retreat https://fetlife.com/events/2026/10/08/submissive-seek-retreat-2026-zdjhi5   The BDSM Test https://bdsmtest.org/   TRANSCRIPT 00:57 Cookie Doe and her labia piercing 2:35 Partner did her first set of labia piercings 4:06 Why? 4:41 They do medical play 5:28 More on why 6:45 Body rejected one of the first piercings 7:36 3 by a professional 9:18 1 new one bled a lot 11:07 Shaving with new piercings 13:40 Chastity 14:48 Orgasm Deniel 15:55 Cuck? 17:16 How to get up with Cookie Doe (her and her partner to classes) 18:12 Where Dawn will be 19:24 Being the new person at a munch 27:03 BDSM Test - Dawn's top results Enjoy!!! Dawn ************************************************************ Enjoy the podcast and the education Dawn shares? Join the patrons who help make it possible, for as little as $2/month. Discounted/Free books, kink starter cards, online classes; early access to the show, and more!  https://www.patreon.com/eroticawakening   ***************************************** Fetlife - @erotic_awakening  Fetlife - @dawn_awakening Instagram - @eroticawakening Youtube - @eroticawakeningpodcast TikTok - @eapodcastdawn Newsletter - www.eroticawakening.com   Discord - https://discord.gg/WQtSM56V39   ******************************************** 765 - #piercing #labia #labiepiercing #munches #bdsmtest  #powerexchange #polyamory #livingms #polyamorytoolkit #kinkeducation #onlinekinkeducation #eroticawakeningpodcast #podcast #bdsm #domsub #submission #heartsandcollars   

Send us Fan MailThe SF trip comes to a close and the family is back together. Then Dan has something happen that was completely unexpected.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group:  Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

#147 Free use sounds simple... until you actually try to build it. In this episode, We explain what free use and blanket consent really mean, how they work together, and the signs your relationship is ready for this level of trust. Listen now to find out if your relationship is truly ready for free use.➡️ Download your free BDSM contract: https://domsubliving.com/contract➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/147➡️ Check out the free training & All-Access Pass: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess

What if you're only missing one piece of the puzzle that's keeping you from the thriving Dom/sub dynamic you've always wanted?Welcome to Part 4 of our special 4-part Jumpstart Your BDSM Journey Bootcamp podcast series!In this final episode, you'll learn:The complete 4-part framework for mastering the BDSM lifestyleThe biggest myths that keep Dominants and submissives stuckWhy skills, mindset, mentoring, and community all work togetherHow to stop piecing together conflicting BDSM adviceWhat it takes to build a thriving, long-term Dom/sub dynamic with confidence

Spoiler alert! Episode 142 is one of those shows that bounces effortlessly between laugh-out-loud moments and surprisingly thoughtful conversations.We kick things off with our usual catch-up, including Andy's ambitious charity bike ride, Amsterdam Pride looking like one giant floating party, and whether psychic mediums are the real deal or simply masters of reading a room.Vicky shares a real-life story from her years as a midwife involving a BDSM couple, explaining why honesty with healthcare professionals can sometimes make all the difference. It's an open, reassuring discussion that many people in the kink community will relate to.Along the way we tackle listener questions, plenty of inappropriate humour, and finish with a Fetish Factoid that introduces a sex position which seems like too much effort! lolAs always, expect laughs, education, random tangents and conversations that most podcasts wouldn't dare have.▶︎ Support us on Patreon for bonus content: https://www.patreon.com/ThePaddedCellPodcast▶︎ www.thepaddedcellpodcast.co.uk▶︎ www.thepaddedcellpodcast.store Watch  the podcast on YouTube:▶︎ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@ThePaddedCellPodcastFollow The Padded Cell for more:▶︎ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61551425184285▶︎ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thepaddedcell_podcast/?hl=en-gb▶︎ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thepaddedcellpodcastRecorded and Produced by Vicky at The Padded Cell StudiosEp 1 - 120 recorded at: ▶︎ Web - http://www.liverpoolpodcaststudios.com

What if the reason your Dom/sub dynamic keeps fading isn't a lack of desire, but a lack of a sustainable plan?Welcome to Part 3 of our special 4-part Jumpstart Your BDSM Journey Bootcamp podcast series!In this episode, you'll learn:Why most Dom/sub dynamics lose momentum over timeHow to create BDSM rituals and routines that actually stickSimple ways to balance BDSM with work, family, and everyday responsibilitiesThe secret to staying consistent without feeling overwhelmed or burned outHow to adapt your dynamic as life changes while keeping your connection strong

Well a lot of people get really angry at age gap relationships, but what is the reality? Is it absolute? Should we change laws? What are we really saying when we judge those relationships? well...We Kink talk about it! Before that we cover the fetish/kink of seeing a man in uniform and whether it is healthy or can lead to problems in potential relationships...yes that too...We Kink talk about it! Perverted Podcast for 11 years has had very open and honest discussions about BDSM, kinky sex and all sorts of relationship dynamics and communication. We have combined decades of experience in the public BDSM/kink sex positive community and we've made A LOT of mistakes that hopefully others can learn from.

Samantha Reigns joins Sex Party for an episode that goes completely off the rails in the best way possible. We get into her love of anal, large gangbangs on and off camera, finally trying DP in 2026, her fisting experience, and the time she did a DVP while ten other men watched through a window from the room next door.Samantha also breaks down her wildest strip club experiences, why clubs near airports operate differently, how fans should approach her in public, and the most unhinged requests she's received on OnlyFans. Plus, she reveals how searching a dating app for a woman to join her and her boyfriend in a threesome somehow led to a career in porn. This episode is filthy, fun, chaotic, and absolutely loaded.Pour a double, clean your AirPods, and enjoy EP 234: "Take The Reigns" with Samantha Reigns.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Samantha Reigns Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/officialsamreigns (@officialsamreigns)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

A lesbian with a pregnant wife is confounded and disgruntled at the way Pride celebrations can be a little too sex positive, especially if you have a little kid. Should Pride parades put on a straight-laced appearance, or go full bacchanal? It's an old, old debate. A woman needs her lovers to tell her she's hot and generally praise her during sex. Like, a lot. Is this a kink? On the Magnum, Dan meets his witty, homosexual match in Bryan Safi. The Emmy Award-winning actor, writer, and comedian known for his work on ABC's “9-1-1” as well as his podcasts, Attitudes! and Ask Ronna, is making his Off-Broadway debut this summer with Are You Mad At Me?? They chat about all this, and answer a caller who wonders if she should agree to a man's request on Feeld to be her "foot boy." Safi is magically delightful, and you simply must listen in. And, a woman's butt plug keeps disappearing up her butt. It's not supposed to work like that, right? Right. Call us with your quandaries. 206-302-2064 Record that Q and send it in: Q@Savage.Love. This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at ⁠Squarespace.com/Savage⁠ and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. Foria is an all natural health & sexual wellness company with product lines using the power of plant actives & CBD to effectively enhance intimacy, sexual pleasure, daily wellbeing, and relief from discomfort. Get 30% off sitewide during their National Orgasm Day sale from 7/30-8/2. Just go to ⁠foriawellness.com⁠ to get your 30% off your order! This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit ⁠VB.Health⁠ when you use the code Savage. Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From polyamory, to BDSM, gay rights to sexual health and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since the 1800s.

The strongest Dom/sub dynamics aren't built on toys or techniques, they're built on the right skills.Welcome to Part 2 of our special 4-part Jumpstart Your BDSM Journey Bootcamp podcast series!In this episode, you'll learn:The most important BDSM skills every Dom and sub should masterWhy communication and negotiation are the foundation of every healthy D/s relationshipHow to use safety protocols, safe words, and aftercare to build trustPractical skills for both Dominants and submissives to grow with confidenceThe common mistakes that hold people back from creating a thriving BDSM lifestyle

Take the free quiz to find out why you're stuck in a sex rut: https://TheBetterBedroom.comWhat does it actually take to feel dominant in the bedroom, and why do so many of us freeze up when it's our turn to lead? In this episode, Heather sits down with Amanda Dames, a kink consultant and former professional dominatrix, to break down the real skills behind dominance, submission, and power dynamics in a relationship.Amanda spent two years working at a dungeon while holding down a corporate job at the Wall Street Journal, and she brings that hands-on experience into a real conversation about how dominant and submissive roles actually work, how to figure out your own authentic style, and how to vet a partner for safety before you ever get started. They cover the different types of Doms (Master, Traditional Dom, Caretaker Dom, and Pleasure Dom), the different types of submissives (service subs, slaves, baby girls and boys), the red flags that signal an unhealthy power dynamic, and why most of what we see about kink and BDSM in movies sets totally unrealistic expectations.If you're ready to go deeper than a podcast episode, visit https://HeatherShannon.co to request a free consultation and learn about Heather's signature Pathway to Passion coaching program.Timestamps: 0:00 Amanda's path from marine biology to the Wall Street Journal to a Craigslist dominatrix job 4:30 Discovering a more powerful, dominant version of herself 8:00 What a Dom's real job actually is, and how to avoid burnout 17:00 Why you need to talk to your partner before you talk divorce 19:30 How a real negotiation between a Dom and a client actually works 26:30 Why being patient with yourself matters more than getting it right the first time 30:00 The four types of Dominants, explained 36:20 The submissive types, and how to find your own style 37:50 How to vet a Dom (or any partner) for safety 45:00 Why movies like Secretary and Baby Girl are not how-to videos 51:00 Amanda's free worksheet for talking about your desires with confidenceTake the free quiz: https://TheBetterBedroom.comLearn more about Heather's Pathway to Passion coaching: https://HeatherShannon.coGet Amanda's free worksheet, Speaking Your Desires With Confidence: https://AmandaDames.comThis podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Podtrac - https://analytics.podtrac.com/privacy-policy-gdrp

Leave us a messge!!///// RE-RELEASE/////In this back catalog re-release of Krystine's FLR Podcast, I talk about power exchange in a female-led relationship and how different that can look from one couple to another.A lot of people still hear “female-led relationship” and automatically think BDSM, whips, chains, abuse, or some extreme version of domination. I want to help break that stigma. Yes, some FLRs include BDSM, chastity, humiliation, ruined orgasms, financial control, or other forms of power exchange. But not all of them do, and they sure do not have to.In this episode, I talk about how an FLR can be defined by whatever works for the people actually living it. Maybe the woman is the breadwinner. Maybe she makes the decisions. Maybe she controls the money. Maybe she delegates the money management because she does not want to deal with it. Maybe the relationship is equal in day-to-day life, but she takes full control in the bedroom. Maybe the dynamic is 24/7. Maybe it is not.I also talk about our own relationship and how, from the outside, we might look backwards compared to what people expect from an FLR. My husband is the primary breadwinner, and I handle a lot of the home life. But he is still deeply attentive, service-minded, supportive, and committed to making my life better. That is part of our power exchange.The biggest point is that you get to make your FLR your own. There is no single correct version. There is no rulebook that says your dynamic has to look extreme, sexual, public, or perfectly labeled. The level of power exchange in your relationship is determined by you and your partner, and the only hard rule is that it has to be consensual.5 Talking PointsFLR does not have to mean BDSMI talk about how female-led relationships have traditionally been associated with BDSM, but that definition is too narrow. An FLR can include kink, but it does not have to.You get to define your own power exchangeEvery couple gets to decide what female leadership looks like for them. It might involve money, decision-making, service, bedroom control, domestic roles, or emotional support.There is no single correct FLR structureSome relationships may look traditionally female-led from the outside, while others may not. What matters is not how outsiders label it. What matters is whether the dynamic works for the people living it.Power exchange can benefit both partnersI talk about why some men may enjoy letting go of control, especially if they carry a lot of responsibility in daily life. For some submissive men, being told what to do and serving their partner can bring fulfillment, peace, and purpose.Confidence is one of the biggest gifts FLR has given meFor me, one of the biggest benefits of this relationship has not just been power or control. It has been confidence. This dynamic has helped me feel stronger, sexier, more grounded, and more certain in the life I am choosing.To find that Audio versions of the FLR Skool courses, just click here.Or FLRSkool SubscribeSupport the showWant to keep this conversation going?Join us inside FLRSkool.com — where real couples are having real conversations about female-led relationships! PLUS find Courses ands Video Episodes at FLRSkool.com!And if you've supported me on Patreon in the past… DM me there. I've got you.TRY STARLINK!Help Support The Show?https://www.krystinekellogg.com/Email Me!  KrystineKellogg@Gmail.comKeywords:domestic discipline, female led relationship dynamics, accountability, communication, people pleaser, female led relationship challenges, discipline strategies, humor in relationships, female led relationship advice, discipline and play, understanding in partnerships, personal anecdotes, physical touch, relationship rules, partnership growth, podcast insights, female-led relationships, submissive rewards, holiday appreciation, partner devotion, relationship dynamics,, control and appreciation, submissive devotion, balance of control, relationship empowerment, submissive strength.pegging, female-led relationship, kink, empowerment, dominance, submission, ass play, emotional connection, intimacy, power play, strap-on, control

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In this week's episode, we answer questions asked on the kinky side of Reddit covering topics from upsetting a new partner to wanting to brat during aftercare to a submissive questioning their masochism.