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The Story of Mephibosheth | Series: Life Lessons from the Least Likely | Ben Purvis, group minister | Preached 7-27-25 10:45am Tag: Old Testament Characters, Grace, Hurt, Pain, Injured, Disabled, Inadequate, Table, King, Land, Hope
The Story of Mephibosheth | Series: Life Lessons from the Least Likely | Ben Purvis, group minister | Preached 7-27-25 10:45am Tag: Old Testament Characters, Grace, Hurt, Pain, Injured, Disabled, Inadequate, Table, King, Land, Hope
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Show Notes: From Rock Bottom to Radiant Health with Stacey Heiny Episode Overview In this inspiring episode, guest host Maxime Sigouin sits down with Stacey Heiny, a certified holistic nutritionist and lifestyle wellness mentor who transformed her life from depression, anxiety, and chronic health issues to vibrant wellness through plant-based living and mind-body practices. Guest Bio Stacey Heiny is a certified holistic nutritionist, lifestyle wellness mentor, and founder of The Herban Farmacy. She holds certifications from the Physicians Committee (Food for Life instructor), Cornell University (plant-based nutrition), and is a newly certified plant-based coach through the Food Revolution Network. From her organic farm in Indiana, she grows produce, crafts elderberry wellness remedies, and empowers women through coaching, e-courses, and community building around clean living and holistic health. Key Topics Discussed Stacey's Transformation Journey Rock bottom moment: Depression, anxiety, ADHD medication (Adderall), asthma, and poor lifestyle habits in her early 20s Pivotal moment: Lying on the couch after eating Papa John's pizza, realizing "there had to be something more" The catalyst: Mind-body connection through Pilates and yoga Books that changed everything: Natural remedies guide, "Diet for a New America" by John Robbins Documentary impact: "Fast Food Nation" - immediate shift away from meat consumption The Mind-Body Connection Revolution Breaking free from the "caffeinated morning, wine at night" lifestyle Learning to slow down and connect with her body through Pilates and yoga The gut-brain connection and managing IBS symptoms through stress reduction Moving from sympathetic to parasympathetic nervous system dominance Common Plant-Based Transition Mistakes Under-fueling: The biggest hurdle - not eating enough calories due to lower caloric density of plant foods Fear of starch: Avoiding necessary complex carbohydrates like whole grains, beans, and potatoes Perfectionism trap: All-or-nothing mentality instead of sustainable progress Inadequate protein planning: Especially important for women over 40 dealing with sarcopenia Practical Solutions for Success Plate balancing: Understanding caloric density and proper portions Protein optimization: Embracing minimally processed options like tofu, tempeh, and plant protein powders Meal timing: "Eat like a king in the morning, prince at lunch, pauper at dinner" Social navigation: Planning ahead for restaurants and social gatherings Breaking Free from Societal Norms The leadership mindset: Being the leader in your social circle for healthy choices Restaurant strategies: Ordering first, asking for modifications without shame Family and peer pressure: Navigating holidays and social events while staying committed Personal Development and Authenticity Daily self-work: Listening to podcasts, working with coaches, and continuous growth Your story matters: The power of sharing vulnerabilities to help others Fear of judgment: Working through limiting beliefs and taking "messy, imperfect action" Community importance: Finding supportive people who align with your values The Farm Life Integration Organic farming journey: Growing from backyard gardening to operating a farm Farmers market success: Selling organic produce and herbal remedies Future vision: Creating plant-based foods for the local community using tested recipes Toxin reduction: Growing clean food as part of overall wellness strategy Key Takeaways Start with mind-body connection - Slow, mindful movement can be the gateway to overall health transformation Fuel properly - Don't under-eat when transitioning to plant-based; embrace healthy starches Progress over perfection - 85% plant-based is better than giving up entirely Plan for social situations - Preparation is key to maintaining your lifestyle in challenging environments Invest in personal development - Daily self-work and coaching accelerate growth Your story has power - Sharing your journey authentically helps others and strengthens your own commitment Resources Mentioned Certifications: Food Revolution Network Plant-Based Coaching Certification: https://certificate.foodrevolution.org/join/ (Stacey calls this "one of the best certifications" she's taken and believes "everybody needs to become a plant-based coach") Books: "Diet for a New America" by John Robbins "The Kind Diet" by Alicia Silverstone "Sun Food Diet Success System" by David Wolfe "4,000 Weeks" by Oliver Burkeman Products: Big Mountain Foods Fava Bean Tofu (64g protein per block) Podcasts: The Mindset Mentor with Rob Dial Upcoming Events: Modern Homemaker Conference - September 2025 (Indiana) NHA Conference - June 2025 Connect with Stacey Instagram: @TheHerbanFarmacy YouTube: The Herban Farmacy Facebook: Stacey Heiny Free Resource: High Raw Revival Mini Video Course - A guide to incorporating more raw, living plant foods into your diet for better health and glowing skin. Final Thoughts This episode beautifully illustrates that transformation is possible at any stage of life when you're willing to challenge societal norms and prioritize your health. Stacey's journey from rock bottom to radiant wellness serves as a powerful reminder that with the right mindset, community support, and commitment to personal growth, we can reclaim our health and help others do the same. Remember: Life is only 4,000 weeks - what are you going to do with yours? Guest Host: Maxime Sigouin is the founder and CEO of Fit Vegan Coaching, helping people optimize their health through plant-based nutrition and lifestyle design.
The Story of Moses | Series: Life Lessons from the Least Likely | Sam Holm, Lead Pastor | Preached 7-20-25 10:45am Tag: Old Testament Characters, Moses, Lead, Inadequate, Speak, Burning Bush, Superman, Knowledge, Influence, Ability, Dependence, Willing, Gospel, Mission
The Story of Moses | Series: Life Lessons from the Least Likely | Sam Holm, Lead Pastor | Preached 7-20-25 10:45am Tag: Old Testament Characters, Moses, Lead, Inadequate, Speak, Burning Bush, Superman, Knowledge, Influence, Ability, Dependence, Willing, Gospel, Mission
Tuesday, July 15th, 2025Today, the Trump regime is urging red states to build their own concentration camps and he's going to send them your tax dollars to do it; the Wall Street Journal editorial board is weighing in on the Epstein saga; a Department of Justice inspector general report exposes the harmful use of restraints in prisons; the Supreme Court without explanation from the shadow docket has decided to allow Trump to flout Congress and dismantle the Department of Education; and the Miami Herald has obtained a list of the 700 detainees at the Florida concentration camp. Allison and Dana deliver the good news.Thank You, CBDistilleryUse promo code DAILYBEANS at CBDistillery.com for 25% off your purchase. Specific product availability depends on individual state regulations. Andrea Gibson Documentary - How To Watch - Come See Me In The Good Light StoriesSupreme Court allows Trump to proceed with mass firings at Education Department | CNN PoliticsShackled for weeks: Federal report finds abuse of restraints in prisons | NPRNow Trump Says Forget Jeffrey Epstein | WSJThe Young GOPer Behind “Alligator Alcatraz” Is the Dark Future of MAGA | The New RepublicWho's in Alligator Alcatraz? Search our list of detainees. | Tampa Bay TimesIs your family member or client at Alligator Alcatraz? We obtained a list | Miami Herald Good Trouble: The migrant detention facility known as Alligator Alcatraz in the Florida Everglades is detaining nearly 750 individuals — many of whom are nonviolent and have committed no crimes beyond immigration violations. Conditions have been reported as inhumane, including:- Intense heat and no proper shelter- Overcrowding in wire cages, up to 32 per cell- Inadequate sanitation and hygiene- Worm-infested food and 24-hour lights disrupting sleep cycles- No hurricane evacuation plan despite storm threatsCritically, many detainees are foreign nationals — from ICC member states like Mexico, Guatemala, and Cuba — opening a window for International Criminal Court jurisdiction to prosecute individual actors for crimes against humanity.“Under the Rome Statute of the International Criminal Court, the Office of the Prosecutor (“OTP”) may analyse information on alleged crimes within the jurisdiction of the International Criminal Court (war crimes, crimes against humanity, genocide and aggression), submitted to it from any source”. Office of the Prosecutor (OTP)How to file a communication to the ICC Prosecutor | Coalition for the International Criminal CourtFrom The Good NewsWired Whisker (@wiredwhisker) • InstagramFree Little Art GalleriesReminder - you can see the pod pics if you become a Patron. The good news pics are at the bottom of the show notes of each Patreon episode! That's just one of the perks of subscribing! patreon.com/muellershewrote Donate to the MSW Media, Blue Wave California Victory Fundhttps://secure.actblue.com/donate/msw-bwc WhistleblowerAid.org/beans Federal workers - feel free to email me at fedoath@pm.me and let me know what you're going to do, or just vent. I'm always here to listen.Share your Good News or Good TroubleMSW Good News and Good Trouble Check out other MSW Media podcastshttps://mswmedia.com/shows/Subscribe for free to MuellerSheWrote on Substackhttps://muellershewrote.substack.comFollow AG and Dana on Social MediaDr. Allison Gill Substack|Muellershewrote, BlueSky|@muellershewrote , Threads|@muellershewrote, TikTok|@muellershewrote, IG|muellershewrote, Twitter|@MuellerSheWrote,Dana GoldbergTwitter|@DGComedy, IG|dgcomedy, facebook|dgcomedy, IG|dgcomedy, danagoldberg.com, BlueSky|@dgcomedyHave some good news; a confession; or a correction to share?Good News & Confessions - The Daily Beanshttps://www.dailybeanspod.com/confessional/ Listener Survey:http://survey.podtrac.com/start-survey.aspx?pubid=BffJOlI7qQcF&ver=shortFollow the Podcast on Apple:The Daily Beans on Apple PodcastsWant to support the show and get it ad-free and early?Supercasthttps://dailybeans.supercast.com/Patreon https://patreon.com/thedailybeansOr subscribe on Apple Podcasts with our affiliate linkThe Daily Beans on Apple Podcasts
Short term weight loss sounds great BUT it's not all fat – it's muscle! Muscle will be much harder to regain as we age because of anabolic resistance.. Clothes might feel loose and you get weight loss compliments. But short term weight loss is just giving a “false positive” honeymoon period. This might mean you divorced muscle, the love of your life. 1. Muscle Mass Loss (Sarcopenia) Protein Deficiency Protein is essential for building and maintaining muscle tissue. Insufficient protein intake exacerbates muscle atrophy and increases the risk of falls and injuries. Excessive Cardio Prolonged cardio can lead to a breakdown of muscle tissue for energy, particularly if glycogen stores are depleted. This can worsen age-related muscle loss and counteract maintaining strength and function. 2. Bone Health (Osteoporosis) Protein Deficiency Protein is needed for bone health and bone density. Inadequate protein intake, especially after menopause, increases the risk of osteoporosis and fractures. Osteoporosis Risks After menopause, risk of osteoporosis increases due to declining estrogen levels and can weaken bones prone to fracture. Sarcopenia and Osteoporosis Link Having both increases the risk of falls and fractures. Poor nutrition leads to sarcopenic obesity and increases the risk of osteoporosis. 3. Other Negative Effects Reduced Physical Function Since inadequate protein leads to muscle loss, this reduces strength, impaired balance, and decreased ability to perform daily activities. Slow-Healing Injuries Protein repairs tissues. Deficiency can slow wound healing and recovery from injuries. Weakened Immune Function Amino acids from protein build antibodies and maintain a healthy immune system. Low protein intake can lead to frequent illnesses and infections. Potential Cardiac Issues (Excessive Cardio) Associated with potential adverse cardiac effects, such as myocardial fibrosis and an increased risk of atrial fibrillation, in some individuals. Musculoskeletal Injuries (Excessive Cardio) Increases the risk of musculoskeletal issues like osteoarthritis and stress fractures. What Can You Do Instead of A Short Term Weight Loss Recommendations: Prioritize protein intake with 30 grams each meal. Balance cardio and strength training to build and maintain muscle mass. Listen to your body and avoid pushing yourself too hard or engaging in prolonged, strenuous exercise if it causes excessive fatigue or pain. References: Chucherd O, Vallibhakara O, Vallibhakara SA, Sophonsritsuk A, Chattrakulchai K, Anantaburarana M. Association of Sarcopenic Obesity and Osteoporosis in Postmenopausal Women: Risk Factors and Protective Effects of Hormonal Therapy and Nutritional Status. Arch Osteoporos. 2025 Jun 26;20(1):83. doi: 10.1007/s11657-025-01573-w. PMID: 40569474; PMCID: PMC12202630. Filip Vuletić, Berte Bøe, Considerations in the Aging Female Athlete, Operative Techniques in Sports Medicine, Volume 32, Issue 2, 2024, 151091, ISSN 1060-1872, https://doi.org/10.1016/j.otsm.2024.151091. Other Episodes You Might Like: Previous Episode - Simple Ways to Know if You're Following Protein Rules in Menopause Next Episode - What to Do When Joints Hurt, Ache or Need Replaced? A Doctor Viewpoint More Like This - Protein for Menopause Hormone Support Resources: Join the Flipping50 Membership for evidence-based workout programs. Short & Easy Exercise videos in this 5 Day Flip Challenge. Get the Flipping 50 Protein & Fiber supplements for women over 50 to support muscle health, enhance recovery, and meet daily nutritional needs.
You Don't Want To Miss This One! SummaryIn this episode, Sean and Terry discuss the critical importance of proper documentation in healthcare, particularly focusing on the discrepancies that arise when dealing with cash patients versus insured patients. They emphasize that documentation should be consistent and thorough, regardless of the patient's financial status, to mitigate compliance risks and protect both providers and patients. The conversation also touches on the broader implications of healthcare practices, including the influence of insurance companies and pharmaceutical companies on treatment options.TakeawaysDocumentation should be universal across all patient types.Cash patients often receive inadequate documentation.Proper documentation protects against medical liability risks.Providers must document services regardless of insurance coverage.Documentation is essential for continuity of care.Inadequate records can harm patient care and outcomes.Compliance risks increase with poor documentation practices.Providers are responsible for documentation even after retirement.Audits can go back six years, regardless of provider status.Be proactive in documentation to prepare for audits.
Weak but Not Inadequate | Learning Leadership with the Apostle Paul, pt. 3 Paul's leadership and ministry is weak to all appearances, and the Corinthian church isn't impressed. They prefer their leaders with more charisma and credentials and power than Paul has. In 2 Corinthians, Paul explains that his ministry takes the shape it does for a very good reason and even though its unimpressive by the standards of the world, it's full of God's power and it doesn't indicate any inferiority or inadequacy. Free 30 Page eBook to help you Hear and Heed the Bible: https://www.johnwhittaker.net Support this ministry: Set up a recurring monthly or a one-time donation at the link below. http://worldfamilymissions.org/john-whittaker/ The Listener's Commentary - In-depth teaching through books of the Bible to help you learn the Bible for yourself: https://www.listenerscommentary.com Connect with John: Social Media- connect on facebook and instagram Email - john@johnwhittaker.net If you've been helped by this teaching leave a review and share freely - on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, via email.
We live in a culture that tells us we have to be ready before we begin—but what if that's a lie that keeps us stuck? In this deeply personal and empowering conversation, Her True Worth co-founder and bestselling author Brittany Maher joins Ginny Yurich to talk about the myth of adequacy, the illusion of perfection, and the sacredness of small steps. Drawing from her new book, Ready As You Are, Brittany offers honest reflections on postpartum anxiety, freezing under pressure, and what it means to live a faithful life—even when you feel disqualified. Together, Ginny and Brittany explore the concept of micro-purpose: the daily, often unnoticed acts of obedience that build legacy over time. Whether you're navigating motherhood, homeschooling, mental health challenges, or just wondering if you're “enough,” this episode is a timely reminder that God doesn't wait for perfection—He calls us forward as we are. Listen in and take your next step with courage.
Northern Correspondent, Conor Macauley reports on the latest developments in the Omagh Bombing Inquiry.
In this episode, Brenda and Krista explore the common struggle of feeling unqualified or insufficient in ministry work, examining how God uses weaknesses and perceived inadequacies as vessels for His strength and glory. They go over some practical strategies for silencing the inner critic, embracing your calling, and finding confidence in Christ's sufficiency rather than your own abilities.We pray that this conversation encourages you to continue to lead with humility and transparency by the filling and empowerment of the Spirit.----When She Leads is a podcast for women in ministry hosted by Brenda Leavenworth, Krista Fox, Rosemary Cady, and Kelly Bell.Email us at info@whensheleads.orgFollow us on Instagram at @whensheleads
SummaryIn this episode of the Compliance Guy podcast, Sean and Terry discuss the critical importance of medical necessity in healthcare, particularly in relation to patient preparation and documentation. They explore the challenges faced by providers and support staff in ensuring that patient records are complete and accurate, emphasizing the legal and ethical implications of inadequate documentation. The conversation highlights the collective responsibility of healthcare professionals in delivering quality patient care and the potential consequences of failing to meet documentation standards.TakeawaysMedical necessity is the foundation of healthcare billing.Proper patient preparation is essential for effective visits.Inadequate documentation can lead to legal issues.Staff play a crucial role in ensuring provider readiness.Follow-up visits must have clear medical necessity.Documentation should reflect the true nature of care provided.Healthcare compliance is a shared responsibility.Errors in billing can result in significant penalties.Patient welfare should guide clinical decisions.Proactive measures can prevent documentation issues.
Our podcast show being released today is Part 2 of our two-part series featuring two former CFPB senior officers who were key employees in the Enforcement Division under prior directors: Eric Halperin and Craig Cowie. Eric Halperin served as the Enforcement Director at the CFPB from 2010 until former Director, Rohit Chopra, was terminated by President Trump. Craig Cowie was an enforcement attorney at the CFPB from July 2012 until April 2015 and then Assistant Litigation Deputy at the CFPB until June 2018. Part 1 of our two-part series was released last Thursday, June 12. The purpose of these podcast shows were primarily to obtain the opinions of Eric and Craig (two of the country's most knowledgeable and experienced lawyers with respect to CFPB Enforcement) about the legal and practical impact of (i) a Memo to CFPB Staff from Mark Paoletta, Chief Legal Officer, dated April 16, 2025, entitled “2025 Supervision and Enforcement Priorities” (described below) which rescinded prior priority documents and established a whole new set of priorities which in most instances are vastly different than the Enforcement Priority documents which guided former directors, (ii) the dismissal without prejudice of the majority of enforcement lawsuits that were pending when Acting Director Russell Vought was appointed to run the agency, and (iii) other drastic steps taken by CFPB Acting Director Russell Vought to minimize the functions and staffing at the agency. That included, among other things, an order calling a halt to all work at the agency, including the pausing of ongoing investigations and lawsuits and the creation of plans by Vought to reduce the agency's staff (“RIF”) from about 1,750 employees to about 250 employees (including a reduction of Enforcement staff to 50 employees from 258). We described in detail the 2025 Supervision and Enforcement Priorities as follows: · Reduced Supervisory Exams: A 50% decrease in the overall number of exams to ease burdens on businesses and consumers. · Focus on Depository Institutions: Shifting attention back to banks and credit unions. · Emphasis on Actual Fraud: Prioritizing cases with verifiable consumer harm and measurable damages. · Redressing Tangible Harm: Concentrating on direct consumer remediation rather than punitive penalties. · Protection for Service Members and Veterans:Prioritizing redress for these groups. · Respect for Federalism: Minimizing duplicative oversight and coordinating with state regulators when possible. · Collaboration with Federal Agencies: Coordinating with other federal regulators and avoiding overlapping supervision. · Avoiding Novel Legal Theories: Limiting enforcement to areas clearly within the Bureau's statutory authority. · Fair Lending Focus: Pursuing only cases of proven intentional racial discrimination with identifiable victims and not using statistical evidence for fair lending assessments. Key Areas of Focus: · Mortgages (highest priority) · FCRA/Regulation V (data furnishing violations) · FDCPA/Regulation F (consumer contracts/debts) · Fraudulent overcharges and fees · Inadequate consumer information protection Deprioritized Areas: · Loans for "justice involved" individuals · Medical debt · Peer-to-peer lending platforms · Student loans · Remittances · Consumer data · Digital payments We also described the status of a lawsuit brought by the union representing CFPB employees and other parties against Vought seeking to enjoin him from implementing the RIF. The Court has granted a preliminary injunction which so far has largely prevented Vought from following through on the RIF. The matter is now on appeal before the DC Circuit Court of Appeals and a ruling is expected soon. These podcast shows complement the podcast show we released on June 5 which featured two former senior CFPB employees, Peggy Twohig and Paul Sanford who opined about the impact of the April 16 Paoletta memo and proposed RIF on CFPB Supervision. Eric and Craig considered, among other issues, the following: 1. How do the new Paoletta priorities differ from the previous priorities and what do the new priorities tell us about what we can expect from CFPB Enforcement? 2. What do the new priorities tell us about the CFPB's new approach toward Enforcement priorities? 3. What can we learn from the fact that the CFPB has dismissed without prejudice at least 22 out of the 38 enforcement lawsuits that were pending when Vought became the Acting Director? What types of enforcement lawsuits are still active and what types of lawsuits were dismissed? 4. What are the circumstances surrounding the nullification of certain consent orders (including the Townstone case) and the implications for other consent orders? 5. Has the CFPB launched any new enforcement lawsuits under Vought? 6. What level and type of enforcement is statutorily required? 7. Realistically, what will 50 employees be able to do in the enforcement area? 8. What will be the impact of the Supervision cutbacks be on Enforcement since Supervision refers many cases to Enforcement? 9. Will the CFPB continue to seek civil money penalties for violations of law? 10. What types of fair lending cases will the CFPB bring in the future?11. Will Enforcement no longer initiate cases based on the unfairness or abusive prongs of UDAAP? Alan Kaplinsky, former practice group leader for 25 years and now Senior Counsel of the Consumer Financial Group, hosts the podcast show. Postscript: After the recording of this podcast, Cara Petersen, who succeeded Eric Halperin as head of CFPB Enforcement, resigned abruptly on June 10 from the CFPB after sending out an e-mail message to all its employees (which was shared with the media) which stated, in relevant part: “I have served under every director and acting director in the bureau's history and never before have I seen the ability to perform our core mission so under attack,” wrote Petersen, who had worked at the agency since it became operational in 2011. She continued: “It has been devastating to see the bureau's enforcement function being dismantled through thoughtless reductions in staff, inexplicable dismissals of cases, and terminations of negotiated settlements that let wrongdoers off the hook.” “It is clear that the bureau's current leadership has no intention to enforce the law in any meaningful way,” Petersen wrote in her e-mail. “While I wish you all the best, I worry for American consumers.” During this part of the podcast show, we discussed the fact that the CFPB has entered into agreements with a few companies that had previously entered into consent agreements with former Director Chopra. After the recording of this podcast, the Federal District Court that presided over the Townstone Financial enforcement litigation involving alleged violations of the Equal Credit Opportunity Act refused to approve the rescission or undoing of the consent agreement based on Rule 60(b)(6) of the Federal Rules of Civil Procedure because of the strong public policy of preserving the finality of judgments.
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Getting My ACTs Together Pt. 8Most fathers feel inadequate, and they are constantly reminded of this. Believe it or not, that is a good thing. Pastor Dave inspires us to embrace our inadequacies on this Father's Day and to find our true adequacy in Someone else.
Greenville's public transit system is failing its essential workers, leaving them stranded and costing local businesses dearly. Hear directly from riders like Carlton and Barbara, alongside Larkin Restaurants co-owner Adam Hayes, about how inadequate bus schedules and Sunday service impact their lives and operations. Discover how Greenville Connects is fighting for vital 30-minute frequency and Sunday bus service to create a more equitable and efficient community for everyone._Produced by Podcast Studio X.Bussin' is a project of Greenville Connects.
Our podcast shows being released today and next Wednesday, June 18 feature two former CFPB senior officers who were key employees in the Enforcement Division under prior directors: Eric Halperin and Craig Cowie. Eric Halperin served as the Enforcement Director at the CFPB from 2010 until former Director, Rohit Chopra, was terminated by President Trump. Craig Cowie was an enforcement attorney at the CFPB from July 2012 until April 2015 and then Assistant Litigation Deputy at the CFPB until June 2018. The purpose of these podcast shows were primarily to obtain the opinions of Eric and Craig (two of the country's most knowledgeable and experienced lawyers with respect to CFPB Enforcement) about the legal and practical impact of (i) a Memo to CFPB Staff from Mark Paoletta, Chief Legal Officer, dated April 16, 2025, entitled “2025 Supervision and Enforcement Priorities” (described below) which rescinded prior priority documents and established a whole new set of priorities which in most instances are vastly different than the Enforcement Priority documents which guided former directors, (ii) the dismissal without prejudice of the majority of enforcement lawsuits that were pending when Acting Director Russell Vought was appointed to run the agency, and (iii) other drastic steps taken by CFPB Acting Director Russell Vought to minimize the functions and staffing at the agency. That included, among other things, an order calling a halt to all work at the agency, including the pausing of ongoing investigations and lawsuits and the creation of plans by Vought to reduce the agency's staff (“RIF”) from about 1,750 employees to about 250 employees (including a reduction of Enforcement staff to 50 employees from 258). We described in detail the 2025 Supervision and Enforcement Priorities as follows: · Reduced Supervisory Exams: A 50% decrease in the overall number of exams to ease burdens on businesses and consumers. · Focus on Depository Institutions: Shifting attention back to banks and credit unions. · Emphasis on Actual Fraud: Prioritizing cases with verifiable consumer harm and measurable damages. · Redressing Tangible Harm: Concentrating on direct consumer remediation rather than punitive penalties. · Protection for Service Members and Veterans:Prioritizing redress for these groups. · Respect for Federalism: Minimizing duplicative oversight and coordinating with state regulators when possible. · Collaboration with Federal Agencies: Coordinating with other federal regulators and avoiding overlapping supervision. · Avoiding Novel Legal Theories: Limiting enforcement to areas clearly within the Bureau's statutory authority. · Fair Lending Focus: Pursuing only cases of proven intentional racial discrimination with identifiable victims and not using statistical evidence for fair lending assessments. Key Areas of Focus: · Mortgages (highest priority) · FCRA/Regulation V (data furnishing violations) · FDCPA/Regulation F (consumer contracts/debts) · Fraudulent overcharges and fees · Inadequate consumer information protection Deprioritized Areas: · Loans for "justice involved" individuals · Medical debt · Peer-to-peer lending platforms · Student loans · Remittances · Consumer data · Digital payments We also described the status of a lawsuit brought by the union representing CFPB employees and other parties against Vought seeking to enjoin him from implementing the RIF. The Court has granted a preliminary injunction which so far has largely prevented Vought from following through on the RIF. The matter is now on appeal before the DC Circuit Court of Appeals and a ruling is expected soon. These podcast shows complement the podcast show we released on June 5 which featured two former senior CFPB employees, Peggy Twohig and Paul Sanford who opined about the impact of the April 16 Paoletta memo and proposed RIF on CFPB Supervision. Eric and Craig considered, among other issues, the following: 1. How do the new Paoletta priorities differ from the previous priorities and what do the new priorities tell us about what we can expect from CFPB Enforcement? 2. What do the new priorities tell us about the CFPB's new approach toward Enforcement priorities? 3. What can we learn from the fact that the CFPB has dismissed without prejudice at least 22 out of the 38 enforcement lawsuits that were pending when Vought became the Acting Director? What types of enforcement lawsuits are still active and what types of lawsuits were dismissed? 4. What are the circumstances surrounding the nullification of certain consent orders (including the Townstone case) and the implications for other consent orders? 5. Has the CFPB launched any new enforcement lawsuits under Vought? 6. What level and type of enforcement is statutorily required? 7. Realistically, what will 50 employees be able to do in the enforcement area? 8. What will be the impact of the Supervision cutbacks be on Enforcement since Supervision refers many cases to Enforcement? 9. Will the CFPB continue to seek civil money penalties for violations of law? 10. What types of fair lending cases will the CFPB bring in the future? 11. Will Enforcement no longer initiate cases based on the unfairness or abusive prongs of UDAAP? Alan Kaplinsky, former practice group leader for 25 years and now Senior Counsel of the Consumer Financial Group, hosts the podcast show. Postscript: After the recording of this podcast, Cara Petersen, who succeeded Eric Halperin as head of CFPB Enforcement, resigned abruptly on June 10 from the CFPB after sending out an e-mail message to all its employees (which was shared with the media) which stated, in relevant part: “I have served under every director and acting director in the bureau's history and never before have I seen the ability to perform our core mission so under attack,” wrote Petersen, who had worked at the agency since it became operational in 2011. She continued: “It has been devastating to see the bureau's enforcement function being dismantled through thoughtless reductions in staff, inexplicable dismissals of cases, and terminations of negotiated settlements that let wrongdoers off the hook.” “It is clear that the bureau's current leadership has no intention to enforce the law in any meaningful way,” Petersen wrote in her e-mail. “While I wish you all the best, I worry for American consumers.”
Listen in for an exclusive interview with the 6th Commander of United States Africa Command, Gen. Michael Langley, as he discusses regional security, the US-Africa partnership, cybersecurity, and AI on Capital FM with Bruhan Makong. Plus, stay updated with the latest on the “art of distraction”—the ongoing clash between US President Trump and Elon Musk over The Big Beautiful Bill.
REVIEW: Colleague David Hebert comments on how tariffs worked for the federal government the first 125 years yet are WOefully inadequate for the second 125 years as a revenue stream. More later. 1916 WILSON
I welcome back Deb Fillman to delve into the complex intersection of education and mental health services in schools. We explore the growing trend of universal mental health screenings and the implications they have for students, teachers, and parents. Deb shares her concerns about how these programs often blur the lines between education and therapy, placing undue burdens on teachers and potentially mislabeling normal childhood behaviors as mental health issues.We discuss the shift from diagnosing conditions like ADHD to a broader pathologization of student behavior, raising critical questions about the effectiveness and necessity of these mental health initiatives. Are we truly addressing the needs of vulnerable students, or are we creating a culture of over-diagnosis and dependency on medication?Additionally, we examine the ethical considerations surrounding consent and privacy in school settings, particularly when it comes to sensitive topics like mental health. As we navigate these pressing issues, we aim to empower parents to think critically about the resources available to their children and to advocate for more meaningful educational experiences. Join us as we unpack these vital topics and consider the future of mental health in education.Deborah Fillman is the founder of The Reason We Learn, a YouTube channel and Substack publication dedicated to exposing what's happening in education and empowering parents to think clearly, ask better questions, and take charge of their children's learning.A longtime homeschooling mother of three—two now adults and one finishing high school—Deborah combines personal experience with deep research to help parents cut through the noise of educational jargon, political agendas, and the steady erosion of academic standards. She's known for her clear, principled commentary and her commitment to parental authority in education.In addition to her work online, Deborah is a private tutor and enrichment instructor with Cogito Learning Center, where she teaches logic, writing, and literature to students from across the country. She also advises families seeking alternatives to the conventional curriculum, helping them identify high-quality resources that challenge students intellectually and support their growth in character, independence, and critical thinking.Whether through video, writing, or direct instruction, Deborah's mission is the same: to restore clarity, courage, and common sense to the conversation about how—and why—we educate.cogitolearningcenter.com - Summer session starts July 6. Registration now open and space is limited. 00:00 Start[00:01:15] Mental health services in schools.[00:05:03] Overdiagnosing ADHD in schools.[00:07:30] Oppositional Defiant Disorder Controversy.[00:12:29] Mental health in schools.[00:15:51] Consent and surveillance in schools.[00:20:18] Feelings and learning in classrooms.[00:25:08] Mental health in schools.[00:29:30] Vulnerability screening in schools.[00:30:14] The importance of parental insight.[00:36:35] Boundary violations in schools.[00:39:05] Perverse incentives in education.[00:43:30] Mass-producing personality disorders.[00:45:28] Therapy access and student needs.[00:50:26] School mental health support systems.[00:54:39] Boundaries for adolescent autonomy.[00:56:36] Autonomy and problem-solving in schools.[01:00:44] Mental health program challenges.[01:03:37] Supervision challenges in therapy training.[01:08:06] Inadequate supervision in training.[01:14:03] Ethics of mental health in education.[01:15:27] Parental involvement in counseling.[01:20:06] Family dynamics in therapy.[01:24:44] Parent-child relationship complexities.[01:27:31] Estrangement and parental dynamics.[01:31:18] Relationship with adult child.[01:34:59] Family therapy and consent complexities.[01:39:01] Divorce's impact on teenagers.[01:42:52] Parental blame in therapy settings.[01:47:38] Family therapy and trans-identified kids.[01:50:27] Mental health in schools.[01:54:14] Emotional impact on schoolchildren.[01:57:57] Navigating gender craze impact.ROGD REPAIR Course + Community gives concerned parents instant access to over 120 lessons providing the psychological insights and communication tools you need to get through to your kid. 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Have you ever felt like you're not enough for what God is calling you to do? The task is too big, your strength is small, you just don't have what it takes. In this episode, we unpack three powerful ways to strengthen your faith when you feel inadequate—and we anchor it all in this unshakable truth:
Remember that in Christ, you are completely competent. By God's power, you can serve his kingdom. -------- Thank you for listening! Your support of Joni and Friends helps make this show possible. Joni and Friends envisions a world where every person with a disability finds hope, dignity, and their place in the body of Christ. Become part of the global movement today at www.joniandfriends.org Find more encouragement on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, and YouTube.
Our podcast show being released today features two former CFPB senior officers who were key employees in the Supervision Division under prior directors: Peggy Twohig and Paul Sanford. Peggywas a founding executive of the CFPB when the agency was created in 2010 and led the development of the first federal supervision program over nonbank consumer financial companies. Beginning in 2012, as head of CFPB's Office of Supervision Policy, Peggy led the office responsible for developing supervision strategy for bank and nonbank markets and ensuring that federal consumer financial laws were applied consistently in supervisory matters across markets and regions. Paul served as head of the Office of Supervision Examinations for the CFPB from 2012-2020 with responsibility for ensuring the credible conduct of consumer protection examinations. The purpose of this podcast show was primarily to obtain the opinions of Peggy and Paul about the legal and practical impact of (i) a Memo to CFPB Staff from Mark Paoletta, Chief Legal Officer, dated April 16, 2025, entitled “2025 Supervision and Enforcement Priorities” which rescinded prior priority documents and established a whole new set of priorities which in most instances are vastly different than the Supervision Priority documents which guided former directors and (ii) drastic steps taken by CFPB Acting Director Russell Vought to minimize the functions and staffing at the agency. That included, among other things, an order calling a halt to all work at the agency, the cancellation of all supervisory exams and the creation of plans by Vought to reduce the agency's staff (“RIF”) from about 1,750 employees to about 250 employees (including a reduction of Supervision's staff to 50 employees) We also described the status of a lawsuit brought by the union representing CFPB employees and other parties against Vought seeking to enjoin him from implementing the RIF. The Court has granted a preliminary injunction which so far has largely prevented Vought from following through on the RIF. The matter is now on appeal before the DC Circuit Court of Appeals and a ruling is expected soon. Peggy and Paul describe in detail the CFPB Supervision priorities under Director Chopra and compare and contrast those priorities with the new priorities established by Paoletta which are: 1. “Shift back” CFPB Supervision to the proportions focused on depository institutions to nonbanks to where it was in 2012 -- to a 70% depository and 30% nonbank, compared to the more recent 60% on nonbanks to 40% depositories. 2. Focus CFPB Supervision on “conciliation, correction, and remediation of harms subject to consumer complaints” and “collaborative efforts with the supervised entities to resolve problems so that there are measurable benefits to consumers.” 3. Focus CFPB Supervision on “actual fraud” where there are “identifiable victims with material and measurable consumer damages as opposed to matters where the consumers made “wrong” choices. 4. Focus CFPB Supervision on the following priorities: · Mortgages as the highest priority · FCRA/Reg V data furnishing violations · FDCPA/Reg F relating to consumer contracts/debts · Fraudulent overcharges, fees, etc. · Inadequate controls to protect consumer information resulting in actual loss to consumers. 5. Focus CFPB Supervision on providing redress to service members and their families and veterans. 6. The areas that will be deprioritized by CFPB Supervision will be loans for “justice involved” individuals, medical debt, peer-to-peer platforms and lending, student loans, remittances, consumer data and digital payments. 7. Respect Federalism” and not prioritize supervision where States “have and exercise” ample regulatory and supervisory authority and participating in multi-state exams (unless required by statute). 8. Eliminate duplicative supervision where other federal agencies have supervisory jurisdiction 9. Not pursue supervision under “novel legal theories.” 10. For fair lending, ignore redlining or “bias assessment” based solely on statistical evidence, and only pursue matters with “proven actual intentional racial discrimination and actual identified victims.” Peggy and Paul also discussed their skepticism as to whether CFPB Supervision will be able to comply with its statutory duties if the RIF is carried out and Supervision's staff is reduced to 50 employees. Alan Kaplinsky, former longtime Chair of the Consumer Financial Group and now Senior Counsel hosted the podcast.
In this episode, we dive deep into the transformative meaning behind one of the most impactful quotes of all time. Joined by Kevin Macklemore, Doctor Breakthrough, Truth from Boston, and a powerful panel of educators, leaders, and survivors, we explore what it means to face our fears, embrace our power, and own our greatness.From prison reform and classroom breakthroughs to personal transformation and spiritual awakening, every story shared is a testament to human resilience and divine purpose. Whether you're struggling with self-doubt, seeking inspiration, or simply hungry for community, this episode reminds you: you are not alone and your light was never meant to be dimmed.#MotivationalSundays #KevinAndFriends #MarianneWilliamsonQuote #OurDeepestFear #InspirationalTalk #BreakthroughStories #PowerBeyondMeasure #HealingThroughTruth #EducatorsOfColor #FaithOverFear #EmbraceYourPower #SelfDiscoveryJourney #FromPrisonToPurpose #MentalHealthAwareness #SpiritualAwakening #CommunitySupport #VulnerabilityIsStrength #LiveYourGreatness #OwnYourStory #SundayInspiration
Preview Colleague Blaine Holt comments on Europe's inadequate conduct in common defense over 80 years, and what is to be done? More later. 1920 POLAND
Chamise Cubbison, Mendocino County's elected auditor-controller/treasurer-tax collector, is facing significant hurdles following her return to office. The challenges, which center around obtaining transition information from CEO Darcie Antle's office, follow the dismissal of a criminal case filed against her by the county and the restoration of her elected powers by the Board of Supervisors.
Feeling unqualified for a new opportunity? You're not alone. Like Moses, you may doubt your ability — but that doesn't mean you're the wrong choice. This message challenges you to say yes even when you feel inadequate... because God equips those He calls.#FeelingInadequate #CITAMChurchOnline #ChurchEveryday
That pervasive feeling of self-doubt and insecurity you believe you are not deserving of your achievements and fear being exposed as a fraud known as imposter syndrome is especially common among writers and other creatives who often grapple with the vulnerability inherent in sharing their work with the world. But perhaps your imposter syndrome is actually a positive sign about your progression as a writer. That's the topic of this solo episode in which Mark reflects upon that. This episode is sponsored by an affiliate link to Manuscript Report. Use code MARK5 at checkout and save $5.00 off your own personalized report. Links of Interest: Manuscript Report (Mark's affiliate link) Buy Mark a Coffee Patreon for Stark Reflections Mark's YouTube channel Mark's Stark Reflections on Writing & Publishing Newsletter (Signup) An Author's Guide to Working With Bookstores and Libraries The Relaxed Author Buy eBook Direct Buy Audiobook Direct Publishing Pitfalls for Authors An Author's Guide to Working with Libraries & Bookstores Wide for the Win Mark's Canadian Werewolf Books This Time Around (Short Story) A Canadian Werewolf in New York Stowe Away (Novella) Fear and Longing in Los Angeles Fright Nights, Big City Lover's Moon Hex and the City Only Monsters in the Building The Canadian Mounted: A Trivia Guide to Planes, Trains and Automobiles Yippee Ki-Yay Motherf*cker: A Trivia Guide to Die Hard Merry Christmas! Shitter Was Full!: A Trivia Guide to National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation The introductory, end, and bumper music for this podcast (“Laser Groove”) was composed and produced by Kevin MacLeod of www.incompetech.com and is Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0
Story at-a-glance Lupus is a chronic autoimmune disease that most often affects your skin, joints, kidneys and heart Lupus causes inflammation and a wide range of symptoms such as fatigue, joint pain, skin rashes and fever Lupus can affect connective tissues in the body, which are largely composed of collagen Inadequate vitamin D levels are common in people with systemic lupus Addressing cellular energy deficiency and estrogen dominance may help you overcome and manage lupus
Feelings of inadequacy are common in a high expectation world. The results can be devastating. Paul talked about God's high expectations, the inadequate feelings he experienced and what he did about them. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/508/29
Hidden Fire: Navigating Sexual Desire and Passion for the Glory of God - Super Marital Sex: A Biblical Guide for Husbands As men, we all struggle with internal, fiery forces that reside deep within our souls. These internal forces can seemingly remain dormant, only to suddenly burst into an uncontrollable blaze. One such “hidden fire” is our sexuality. What God created to be "good," to be fully enjoyed within the covenant of marriage, can quickly turn destructive, consuming everything good in our lives. Because we are sexual beings, we cannot eradicate this fiery force; instead, we must come to understand and direct it by learning to navigate our lives according to the Ways and Wisdom of the God who designed us as sexual beings. Only then can this internal fiery force be a blessing to our world, bring joy to our hearts, and glorify the God who made us! Please join us in this series as together we seek to develop into men of sexual integrity.This series will cover such topics as:Getting to the Heart of LustLead us not into TemptationDealing with Sexual SinAffair-proofing Your MarriageSuper-Marital SexSex and the Single GuyNavigating the Pathway to Sexual IntegrityTo find out more about Awakened Heart Ministries, and our mission of Offering Men Hope and Direction in a Confusing World through Jesus Christ, please visit us at www.ahm4.life
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Hidden Fire: Navigating Sexual Desire and Passion for the Glory of God - Super Marital Sex: A Biblical Guide for Husbands As men, we all struggle with internal, fiery forces that reside deep within our souls. These internal forces can seemingly remain dormant, only to suddenly burst into an uncontrollable blaze. One such “hidden fire” is our sexuality. What God created to be "good," to be fully enjoyed within the covenant of marriage, can quickly turn destructive, consuming everything good in our lives. Because we are sexual beings, we cannot eradicate this fiery force; instead, we must come to understand and direct it by learning to navigate our lives according to the Ways and Wisdom of the God who designed us as sexual beings. Only then can this internal fiery force be a blessing to our world, bring joy to our hearts, and glorify the God who made us! Please join us in this series as together we seek to develop into men of sexual integrity.This series will cover such topics as:Getting to the Heart of LustLead us not into TemptationDealing with Sexual SinAffair-proofing Your MarriageSuper-Marital SexSex and the Single GuyNavigating the Pathway to Sexual IntegrityTo find out more about Awakened Heart Ministries, and our mission of Offering Men Hope and Direction in a Confusing World through Jesus Christ, please visit us at www.ahm4.life
Don't allow your feelings of inferiority to limit your service to the Lord. In Christ, you have a message, you have a story to tell. God's power is in your weakness.-------- Thank you for listening! Your support of Joni and Friends helps make this show possible. Joni and Friends envisions a world where every person with a disability finds hope, dignity, and their place in the body of Christ. Become part of the global movement today at www.joniandfriends.org. Find more encouragement on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, and YouTube.
TSN Hockey Analyst Marc Methot joined OverDrive to discuss the headlines around the Battle of Ontario, the Maple Leafs' opening victory, the Senators' playoff first impressions, Linus Ullmark inconsistent play in the postseason, the penalty issues in the game and more.
SummaryIn this episode, Sean and Terry discuss the complexities and challenges surrounding annual well visits in healthcare compliance. They emphasize the importance of physician involvement and the risks associated with allowing non-physician providers to conduct these visits without adequate supervision. The conversation highlights the potential consequences of inadequate patient assessments and the need for proper workflows to ensure quality care. They also touch on the role of medical assistants and the implications of billing practices in the context of compliance and patient safety.TakeawaysJust because you can, doesn't mean you should.Annual well visits require thorough physician review.Inadequate assessments can lead to serious patient risks.Medical assistants should not make clinical determinations.Physician involvement is crucial in patient care workflows.Quality control is essential for healthcare compliance.Audits and inquiries are increasing in healthcare.Preventive services must be properly documented and reviewed.Common sense should guide healthcare practices.Healthcare providers must take responsibility for patient outcomes.
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Maria chats with Pawsitive Beginnings founder Nicole Navarro. In existence for five years, Pawsitive Beginnings gives permanent homes to foxes rescued from the fur trade. (Many come from fur farms where they're deemed "inadequate")Btw 100% of donations go to the foxes! pawsitivebeginnings.org
When was the last time you looked in the mirror and genuinely said, “I think I'm beautiful”? In this episode, I share a powerful moment with my daughter that made me realize just how rare it is for women to confidently own their beauty—without guilt, hesitation, or fear of being seen as arrogant. We'll break down the subconscious beliefs around self-image, the difference between confidence and conceit, and how we can teach the next generation (and ourselves!) to embrace self-love without shame. Plus, I'll give you practical ways to shift the way you talk about yourself, because the way you speak to yourself is what your children—and your subconscious—will believe. If this resonates, my Love Your Body course is the perfect next step to rewire the beliefs holding you back from truly loving yourself. And if you're ready for deeper transformation, my private coaching will help you break through the subconscious blocks keeping you from confidence in business, relationships, and creativity.
The devastation wrought by Hurricane Helene in western North Carolina six months ago was, in many communities, enormous. Few aspects of normal life escaped being upended, and one very important such area was child care. As journalist Sara Murphy detailed in a recent report published by NC Newsline and the national news site, the […]
Ask David My friend won't say thank you! Dating Anxiety Religion vs. Psychotherapy We want to remind you about an awesome virtual workshop on habits and addictions that Dr. Jill Levitt and David will be presenting on March 28, 2025 We will feature powerful new paradoxical techniques that will blow your socks off. It will be from 8:30 to 4:30 and you will earn 7 CE credits while having fun and learning how to heal yourself AND you patients. Check it out! It's less than two weeks away, some check it out while you still have time! You'' LOVE it and LEARN a LOT! Registration and More Information Here! As is so often the case, the answers to these questions that appear in the show notes were email replies to the person before the show. To get the full discussion, make sure you listen to the actual podcast, as the answers often evolve in unexpected ways when the “experts” hash it out! Today's episode is chock full of personal stories (some racy), expert Five Secrets advice and demonstration, philosophical / spiritual discussion, and secrets of successful (and racy) dating. 1. Brittany asks: What can I do say to a friend who does not say “thank you” when I pay for our meal or drive a long distance just to see them? 2. Jaydipe asks: How can I get over my anxiety around attractive women? 3. Ali asks: Can religious beliefs cause or intensify feelings of anxiety? (David will talk about the synergies between TEAM CBT and spirituality in all religions. He will also mention the potential antagonisms.) 1. Brittany asks: What can I do say to a friend who does not say “thank you” when I pay for our meal or drive a long distance just to see them. Hello David and Rhonda, I have a friend who typically does not say thank you to me when I pay for a meal out or drive us a long distance. I am someone who always says thank you even if the other person just bought us $10 worth of fast food or gave a short ride. I find myself feeling resentful towards my friend for not saying anything when I pay and drive us around all day. It makes me feel like they don't appreciate it. At the same time, talking about it and sharing my feelings would then feel like I'm asking them to say it, and then it would not feel authentic. I have said something about it in the past, and they were like I'm sorry, thank you. But it didn't mean much at that point. Is this one of those annoying traits I just learn to accept? Thank you, Brittany David's reply Well, you could just use a gentle I Feel statement, which might be paradoxically stronger, but combined with Stroking. Like this, "Jennie, you know I think the world of you, and greatly enjoy our times together, but when I pay for lunch, or drive a distance to hang out with you, you rarely ever say "thank you," and then I feel hurt and unappreciated." Something like that combines Stroking with I Feel and might be effective. But I always rate myself on what I do, or say, and not so much on how the other person reacts. You could, perhaps, also ask if they are upset with you about something that they've had trouble expressing to you. Best, david 2. Jaydipe asks: How can I get over my anxiety around attractive women? Hi David Many thanks for the podcast I'm struggling with social anxiety and talking to attractive women and I've watched all the podcasts relating to it. I think deep down I have a shame around finding women attractive, so I find it difficult to express interest in them. I find that I can talk to them easily during activities like climbing or co workers, but even on dates with women I can't seem to take things forwards playfully like you'd expect on a date. I'm too serious and I think that turns people off. I feel like I'm under the spotlight and I have to impress them otherwise they won't like me. I know this isn't true and I've been trying to get myself to do exposure therapy by asking girls for their numbers and being rejected so it helps with that. Also, I struggle with societal expectations, I hear women say that they don't want to be approached or talked to or anything so I just end up avoiding them because I don't want to annoy them, but it holds me back from getting the sex and relationships I want Any help much appreciated Thanks, Jaydipe David's Reply I have included your excellent question on an upcoming Ask David. In the meantime, have you read my book on dating, Intimate Connections? Best, david PS Should I use your first name, or a fake first name? 3. Ali asks: Can religious beliefs cause or intensify feelings of anxiety? Dear Dr. Burns, After reading your books, I've started to recognize that many of my anxious beliefs seem to have a religious background. For example, in the Bible, there's a verse from John 5:14: “Later Jesus found him at the temple and said to him, ‘See, you are well again. Stop sinning or something worse may happen to you.'” Here's where I struggle: I want to live my life freely, which includes things like being with different girls before marriage (something I already do). But according to religion, this is considered adultery and a sin. Another verse that weighs heavily on me is from Matthew 5:27-29: “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.' But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to stumble, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell.” I often find myself looking at beautiful women on the street, which Christianity teaches is sinful, and this sometimes leads to feelings of guilt. I wonder: do I need to leave religion altogether to break free from these negative, self-critical thoughts? I also have other related thoughts that seem to link my faith with the good things happening in my life. For instance: My life is going well right now. My parents are alive, my brother is getting married, I'm healthy, and I've been fortunate in many ways. I've had incredible experiences, like participating in two Erasmus+ exchange programs in Poland and Lithuania during university, volunteering in Latvia for a year, and even having my New Zealand visa approved in a highly competitive process (only 100 spots for 85 million people, and the application closed in 5 minutes!). I often think that these blessings are because I believe in Jesus, follow the Bible, and try to live as a good person who avoids sin and doesn't deceive others. But then these anxious thoughts arise: I should always be thankful or pray, or else my life will fall apart. If I leave religion, something bad might happen—my parents could fall ill or pass away, and it would all feel like my fault for turning away from Jesus. Without faith, I'd lose my good fortune(luck), my appearance, and my opportunities. Wherever I apply to would be rejected, then I would understand that it was Jesus in the first place doing all of these things in my life, not me or vice versa! I'd find a terrible job, terrible working environment, terrible mutual relationships. Then everything would be my fault and I'd tell myself I should have believed in him in the first place but now I deserve everything that happens to me! These thoughts are overwhelming, and I'd love to hear your perspective on how to approach and challenge them. Thank you so much for your time and the invaluable insights you share in your work. Warm regards, Ali David's reply Hi Ali, Sorry you are struggling with so many restrictions, judgments, and inhibitions! I can imagine it triggers anxiety, guilt, inadequacy, resentment, discouragement, and more. You can let me know! If you want, I can include this as an Ask David question on a podcast, with your first name, or a fake first name. Let me know if this works for you. Also, what religion are you? I know that many religions around the world can be very fundamentalistic and super strict in their teachings. My own religious upbringing had a touch of rigidity, too. Best, david Ali's response to David Hello again, Actually, my family comes from the Christian (Orthodox-Armenian) minority in Turkey, where I was born and raised. So, I am an Orthodox Christian. You're absolutely right that I struggle with many restrictions and judgments. I'd love for you to include this as an "Ask David" question on a podcast since I haven't seen any episode (and I've listened to most of your recent podcasts, including number 408: Do You Believe in God? Does God Exist?) that addresses this topic. By the way, I already use an alias, so "Ali" is a fake name, but you're welcome to use it in your podcast! Here's a quick DML (Daily Mood Log) to clarify what I'm dealing with: The Upsetting Event: Doing my daily half-hour Bible reading before bed and coming across certain verses. Emotions: Sad: 60% Anxious/Worried: 70% Inadequate: 60% Guilty/Bad: 90% Abandoned: 70% Pessimistic/Discouraged: 80% Stuck: 75% Angry/Resentful: 75% Tricked/Duped: 80% Although I don't consider myself a devout Christian, over the past few years, I've started reading the Bible—the Old and New Testaments. Initially, I read them in my native language, but now I read in English to fully understand the content. Growing up in the church, I believed everything the priest taught. However, encountering some events and stories that seem illogical to me has made me question my beliefs. I often feel tricked and wonder if I've truly believed in all this. At the same time, I feel anxious and worried, as if questioning or criticizing my religion is a betrayal of God. Please let me know if you need any additional information. Ali David's reply Thanks, Ali, this is super. I was also raised in a somewhat strict Christian (Lutheran) home, and as a child had plans to become a minister, like my dad. In college, I learned critical thinking, and began to question some of what I was taught when I was growing up. For example, there seemed to be a bit of a bias against Jews, and my dad said they had to convert to Christianity to be ”saved” and, I guess, avoid going to hell after they died. That didn't sound right at all, not loving, as Christ taught, who was himself a Jew, but hostile and judgmental. And I had good friends who were Jewish, so it felt offensive. Same with people who were gay. A strong bias that this was somehow “bad” and sinful, or something like that. Christianity, in the sense of the Catholic church, was really created by people a couple hundred years after Christ died, and they were reflecting their own human biases when they wrote the new testament and translated the old testaments. For better or worse, I am personally not afraid to disagree with much of what is in the Bible, and interpret it, not literally, but as a series of stories trying to communicate important spiritual truths, but these truths get quite distorted when people began focusing on literal truths, rather than “seeing” the message. Literal translations of religion risk missing the spiritual meaning and truth. This is especially true of the orthodox movement within any religion. This tendency toward being literal, rigid, and judgmental may be a partially inherited, genetic trait. Regardless, to me, it is offensive and ugly, and definitely not religious, but quite the opposite. In the early days, lots of religious cults emerged, and they all had their own special leaders. If your leader couldn't walk on water, that guru was considered inferior. So, it was fashionable to say that your spiritual guru could “walk on water.” What does that really mean? To me, it means that this person is pretty special, and much kinder and more loving than most others, and can perhaps convey some spiritual truths to us. But actual walking on water is a magic trick best left to television and stage magicians. This is my thinking only, and I do not wish to impose my thinking and beliefs on you or on anybody! I had tremendous respect and admiration for a Catholic nun, Sister Shela Flynn, who worked at my clinic in Philadelphia because she wanted to learn how to do CBT. She was humble and wonderful, and once shared with me that she also thought the stories in the bible were primarily metaphors, just stories trying to convey this or that idea about love, humility, and so forth. Not literally true stories you “had to” believe to be a “good Christian.” An, in addition, using my philosophy and CBT training, there is really no such “thing” as a “good Christian.” Positive and negative labels can be useful but can also be hurtful and destructive. Will stop babbling, and feel free to reject or ignore some or everything I am saying! But on an emotional level, I feel hurt, and angry about the literal “rules-based” versions of religion. Because I see, all over the world, atrocities being committed to a massive degree in the name of this or that “religion.” I am most comfortable with Buddhism, but even then, many people take it literally, make up rules, and so forth, just like other religions or spiritual “paths.” For some reason, people love to make up rules and then try to force others to conform to their beliefs and rules. This is due, in large part, to arrogance, and the desire to feel “special” and “superior” to others. These are not, to my way of thinking, spiritual qualities, but quite the opposite. Finally, I do not mention religion in my therapy, which is 100% secular, and based on research and on scientific research on how people actually change. But at the moment of recovery, which often happens in a flash, rather suddenly, the patient often “sees” something of a spiritual nature which they had not seen or grasped before. I have never seen anyone lose their religious beliefs because of effective therapy, but quite the opposite. In fact, what we might call “recovery from depression” (or some other problem) sometimes looks an awful lot like what the religious mystics from all religions have called “enlightenment.” So, that's the sermon my dad would have perhaps wanted me to preach from a pulpit! I guess this is my pulpit, and you are in my congregation! And this Sunday morning here in Los Altos, so that's the end of today's sermon! Best, david Contact information You can sign up for the David and Jill workshop on healthier habits here: cbt-workshop.com
We feel inadequate because we are inadequate. The world is too big for us and God asks us to do impossible things. We tend to respond by dominating and controlling or running and hiding. Instead, we can let God lead us.
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Are you feeling like a letdown? Maybe like you've missed your moment to do great things for God and fulfill your purpose? What if right here, right now, God could do a new thing and show you how you've been purposed for the place and season you're in today? Britt Maher joins me to discuss how we can each discover new meaning in Christ and rely on His strengths despite our struggles, inadequacies, and shortcomings. ORDER MY BOOK HERE: https://a.co/d/0vE5Cji CHECK OUT BRITT'S BOOK: https://a.co/d/4NhfCyG Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.