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Hello! We're back with the Owning Your Sexual Self podcast! This week I'm chatting with the incredible Emily Zawatsky aka Emily Zed Sex Ed, the Canadian queer sex educator shaking up sex ed as you know it. With over ten years of experience, Emily brings so much warmth, humor, and real talk to topics that often get overlooked. She's on a mission to close the huge gaps in traditional sex ed by focusing on NeuroQueer folks and anyone who's ever felt left out. Get ready for an eye-opening, fresh, and totally empowering conversation you won't want to miss!In this episode:We talk about a unique topic that impacts more people than you might thinkHow traditional sex education often misses queer and neurodivergent folksWhat neuroqueer meansWhy inclusive sex education matters How sensory processing affects sexual experiencesWhat emotional and physical dysregulation can look like during sexThe importance of talking about sex outside the bedroom instead of during playTools and tips to make sex easier for neurodivergent people and their partnersThank you so much for listening!  Don't forget to share on your social media and tag me if you loved this episode!**Grab a copy of Emily's workbook, Redefining Sex and Communication as a Neuroqueer, for free by clicking HERE!**ResourcesNotes From A Queer Cripple by Andrew GurzaThe Book of Happy, Positive, and Confident Sex for Adults on the Autism Spectrum and Beyond!  by Michael John CarleyADHD & Us by Anita RobertsonConnect with Emily!Instagram: @EmilyZedSexEdSupport the showConnect with Rachel!Instagram: @The_Rachel_MaineWebsite: https://linktr.ee/WellnessSexpertiseYouTube: YouTube.com/@OwningYourSexualSelfFacebook: Rachel MaineEmail: therachelmaine@gmail.com

In this vulnerable follow-up to episode 90 ("Grace for Two"), we (Kiara and Jordan) are opening up about one of the most challenging parts of our marriage: navigating pain with sex due to pelvic floor tension (Vaginismus), wrestling with sexual shame, and learning how to build real intimacy when it doesn't come naturally.This conversation is raw and emotional. We're not experts—we're just two people trying to love each other well through pain, confusion, and grace. We talk about how our bodies and our hearts have been shaped by unmet expectations, and the slow, sacred work of healing together.If you've ever felt broken, ashamed, or alone in your intimacy struggles, this one is for you. You're not alone. And you are so deeply loved—even in the hard places.

Hello everyone! Welcome back for another episode of the Owning Your Sexual Self podcast! This week I'm joined by the incredible Dr. Amanda Neri to talk all things pelvic floor. Amanda is a pelvic health expert who makes this topic feel way less awkward and way more empowering. Amanda brings warmth, knowledge, and some serious real talk to this episode, and I'm so excited to have her here!In this episode:What the pelvic floor is and why it's so importantHow pelvic floor therapy can help with issues like incontinence and painful sexThe emotional aspects of pelvic floor health and how to address themWhy pelvic floor health is often overlooked and the need for better awarenessThe importance of breathing exercises and relaxation for pelvic floor health How pelvic health is connected to overall sexual function and confidenceTips and methods you can start to implement on your own if you're experiencing pelvic floor dysfunction Thank you so much for listening!  Don't forget to share on your social media and tag me if you loved this episode!ResourcesEpisode 194. Overcoming Vaginismus with Jess SeitzHerman and Wallace Directory of PRPC PractitionersConnect with Amanda!Instagram: @AmandaNeriPtSupport the showConnect with Rachel!Instagram: @The_Rachel_MaineWebsite: https://linktr.ee/WellnessSexpertiseYouTube: YouTube.com/@OwningYourSexualSelfFacebook: Rachel MaineEmail: therachelmaine@gmail.com

In the deeply important episode of Sky Women's Health Podcast, Dr. Carolyn Moyers is joined by Rachel Henning, a licensed professional counselor and sex therapist, to explore the complexities of vaginismus and the emotion and psycholgical roots of sexual pain. Rachel walks us through:What vaginismus is and how it shows up in women's livesThe use of dilators and therapy in healing painful sexThe impact of religious shame and purity culture on sexual identityHow CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) and EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) support healingThe role of partnered therapy and relationship satisfaction in recoveryHow to reclaim your narrative, pleasure, and connection with your bodyThis episode is a must-listen for women experiencing pain during sex, those navigating shame-based messages around sexuality, or anyone supporting a partner through this journey.Guest:Rachel Henning, LPC, CSTWebsite: www.rachelhenning.comInstagram: @rachelhenninglpcFacebook: Rachel Henning, LPC CST

Welcome to the very FIRST episode of I'll Have What She's Having!! The show that's here to boldly remind you that your pleasure is your power - and that you deserve to live your best life. In this debut solocast, I'm pulling back the curtain on why I rebranded this podcast (formerly Reclaim Your Radiance), how I went from being an environmental engineer to a sex coach, and what the secret is to revolutionizing your pleasure. By the end of this episode you'll know how to take your first step towards getting the love & sex life you've always wanted. Here's what you'll hear:My personal story: from sexual shutdown to full-body alivenessWhat a Sex Coach actually does (no, I'm not standing over the bed shouting “pound harder!!”)How somatic healing works—and why it's the secret weapon to better sexThe surprising reason your body resists the pleasure you craveThe 5 things I wish everyone knew about sex, safety, and self-worthA simple, powerful exercise to begin creating the sex life you desire—starting todayThis episode is your permission slip to want more, feel more, and heal deeper than you ever thought possible.Because you're not broken.You're just waking up.And your pleasure?It's your power.Rate & follow us to never miss a new episode! Learn more atwww.krishall.ca  Use code KRIS10 for 10% your next pleasure toy! https://waands.com/?ref=illhavewhatsheshaving Work with Kris 1:1 to uplevel your sex life! https://www.krishall.ca/coaching Get The Pleasure Portal - your 15-minute pleasure breathwork, for free!https://www.krishall.ca/the-pleasure-portal Join our intimate sacred sexuality retreat: Wild Women Rising! https://www.krishall.ca/wild-women-rising-bowen 

We're back! ✨ On this episode, I'm back with Jessie for another spicy Q&A session. From deep confessions to lighthearted laughs, we're spilling the tea on everything you've been curious about.Tune in as we reveal:A secret belief or habit that no one knows about usThe 'superstitions' we swear byOur ultimate fangirl momentsWhether we believe in “the one that got away” and soul contractsWhat we think society should totally bring backHonest advice we'd give our younger selves about sexThe kindest moments shared with strangers that restored our faith in humanityCringey, awkward crush encounters that still make us blushThe toughest challenges of the past year and how we stayed resilientWant a question to be answered in a future episode or in my weekly #WWBD newsletter? Submit it anonymously here!Connect with me:Instagram: @beccnichollsWebsite: www.beccanicholls.comSubscribe to my email listYouTube: BECCAConnect with Jessie:Instagram: @jessiecooper_ It would mean the world to me if you would subscribe, rate and review this podcast to help support the show. If you enjoy this podcast, share it on your stories and tag me or share it with a friend. Let's build this community, together! ⚡️

Sex with *Health* Benefits?!?Wow—have you ever thought about SEX with benefits (besides the obvious)? It's no secret that physical intimacy can strengthen emotional bonds, but did you know it also comes with scientifically-backed health perks? From reducing stress and improving heart health to boosting your immune system and even helping you sleep better, intimacy plays a surprising role in overall well-being. Plus, the release of feel-good hormones like oxytocin and endorphins during physical connection fosters closeness while supporting mental health.So, let's talk about the health benefits of intimacy. In this episode, you will learn:Simple lifestyle changes to improve intimacy and connectionWhy taking care of yourself helps your relationship thriveHow meaningful sexual relationships contribute to health, particularly for men, based on scientific studies (we ladies gotta take care of our guys!)Why should have more sex to reduce risk of disease and how it can benefit you in ways that may not be on your radarMental health benefits of more regular sex and supportive sexual relationshipsHow intentional actions, communication, and shared goals can enhance relationships beyond the physical aspectResearch behind the physical and emotional advantages of sexThe role of sex in maintaining hormonal balance and enhancing overall HealthEnhancing pelvic health through regular activitySimple lifestyle changes to improve intimacy and connectionHow emotional closeness enhances physical intimacyWhy humor can make intimacy discussions easierThe “gym analogy” for maintaining intimacy in your relationshipWhy regular check-ins with your partner improve intimacyHow to balance emotional intimacy with physical connectionWays to deal with emotional challenges in your relationshipTips for keeping the spark alive in long-term relationshipsThe power of empathy and understanding in relationshipsHow to create a safe space for intimacy and vulnerabilityAnd much more!Don't miss this eye-opening episode—tune in to discover how sex can transform your health and intimacy can transform your life -- and why it's more than just physical pleasure! ****************************************How about this for energy, detoxing, vitality and good skin?!I'm super picky about what I recommend. So, check this out...I stumbled upon something seriously awesome that I had no idea I would want or need.Algae tablets! Pure, organic, cleanly sourced and produced. AND best part - real food! Not a supplement but actual food that you can chew, blend or swallow.So, if you're up for feeling like a million bucks every day, give 'em a shot. It's like a little health secret that's too good not to share!And hey, I'm excited to help you save some money on it too! Be sure to use code SAMANTHA for 20% off!GRAB HERE! ****************************************Get the Insights to YOUR Insides + A Personalized Action PlanWith new trends popping up every day, it's easy to feel overwhelmed. This isn't just another fad – it's a game-changer.

Get ready for a sizzling episode with the fabulous, award-winning Sex & Relationship Coach, Eleanor Hadley! Eleanor brings the heat as she dives into prioritizing your pleasure, spicing up your sex life, and taking your relationships to new heights — all in the most entertaining and easy-to-digest way. This conversation is pure fire, and I absolutely loved every second of it. Happy listening!What we cover:How to stop comparing your relationship to relationships you see onlineEleanors secrets for setting your relationship up for successUnderstanding your Libido StyleThe difference between "snack" sex and "gourmet" sexThe female anatomy and arousal processDiscovering your Erotic BlueprintExploring the 6 Sexual Initiation StylesConnect with Eleanor:Instagram: @eleanorhadleyWebsite: www.eleanorhadley.comSmut Sluts Book Spicy ClubConnect with me:Instagram: @beccnichollsTikTok: @betterwithbeccaYouTube: BECCA It would mean the world to me if you would subscribe, rate and review this podcast to help support the show. If you enjoy this podcast, share it on your stories and tag me or share it with  a friend. Let's build this community, together! ⚡️

Get ready to be captivated by the wisdom and magnetic presence of Alex Mischka, our guest star in this transformative episode of the Sex Reimagined Podcast. As an embodied men's work, sex intimacy, & personal growth coach based in the sensual paradise of Ibiza, Alex has guided countless individuals on the path to unleashing their authentic erotic power. In this episode, Alex shares his own story of sexual awakening and the challenges he faced in embracing his wild, primal energy while maintaining integrity & presence in his relationships, plus so much more!EPISODE HIGHLIGHTSWhy every man needs a supportive brotherhood to thriveHow to explore your unique erotic blueprint for hotter sexThe secrets to cultivating potent sexual energy through semen retention & non-ejaculatory orgasms (hello, superpowers!)Mastering the art of vulnerable communication for deeper intimacyLetting go of performance anxiety to stay present & connected during sexy timeEPISODE LINKS *some links below may also be affiliate links Alex | Free Gift Alex|  Instagram Alex | Website John Wineland | WebsiteSxR Episode #3 | Ian FergunsonSxR Episode #12 | Om Rupani SxR Episode #79 | Sheri Winston Quiz | Erotic BlueprintsMen's Groups | Mankind Project Book | Tao of Sexology by Dr. Stephen Chang Book | Sex on the Brain by Dr. Daniel AmenBook | The Male Brain by Luanne Bresendien Book | The Female Brain by Luanne BresendienLeah & Willow's King & Queen of Hearts Intimacy Toolkit is on sale. Use Coupon Code KINGANDQUEEN10 for 10% off. https://www.sexreimagined.com/the-king-and-queen-of-hearts Awaken Arousal Oil Lubricant "I had a 3-minute orgasm and then a 5-minute orgasm." - Beth https://exploreforia.com/awaken-so?irclickid=wyXW6byI5xyNWouwIoQAUS1GUkAx4m1JsS6bSc0&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=Impact&utm_campaign=Sex%20Reimagined&utm_cSupport the Show.SxR Hotline | SxR Website | YouTube | TikTok | Pinterest | Instagram | Dr. Willow's Website | Leah's Website

In today's eye-opening episode, we tackle and discuss the orgasm gap. I talk with Dr. Laurie Mintz, who passionately discusses her work to inform and empower women, sharing her journey from personal struggle to becoming a key advocate for sexual health education. We're also breaking down myths about orgasms and debunking media lies that leave many feeling inadequate. Sex should be a source of joy, but for too many, it's a wellspring of frustration. Whether it's societal pressures, poor communication, or a simple lack of understanding, we're here to peel back the layers of complexity. From discussing the pivotal role of clitoral stimulation to addressing the efficacy of the PLISSIT model in sex therapy, we've got a lot to cover.Dr. Mintz gives practical steps we can all take toward achieving a more fulfilling sex life. So, whether you're someone who's faced challenges in the bedroom or just looking to learn more, this episode is packed with scientific insights, heartfelt advice, and actionable tips. Highlights--Dr. Laurie Mintz's Personal JourneyHer encounters with sexual desire issues. Her shift to research and advocacy in sexual health.-Demystifying Female Orgasms Clarifications about the nature and attainability of orgasms for women and the media myths versus reality.-Sex Education Disparities The contrast in sex education between boys and girls. The focus is on ejaculation vs period.-Addressing the Orgasm Gap Statistics of the orgasm gap between cisgender men and women. Clitoral stimulation and vaginal penetration are both elements for satisfying sex.-Communication and Satisfaction in SexThe role of partner communication for sexual satisfaction.Tackling orgasm dysfunction and cultural norms. -Counterproductive Outcomes of Faking OrgasmsHow pretending to have orgasms maintains misunderstanding.Mentioned-AASECT and the Society for Sex TherapyPLISST Model for Sex TherapyConnect with Dr. MintzWebsiteInstagramBooksGet in Touch with Dr. Rahman:PracticeGynoGirl WebsiteInstagramYoutube

During our initial conversation, Erica Chidi shared so much knowledge about intimacy, wellness, and how to develop positive sexual experiences with our partners and ourselves. That conversation led us to discuss some common myths about sex and vaginal health. Tune in as we discuss:Why she believes “sex is food and food is sex”How to prioritize comfort during sexThe differences between water-based and silicone lubricantsWhy our vaginas don't need to smell like fruitVote for Naked Beauty for Best Indie Podcast at The WebbysRate, Subscribe & Review the Podcast on Apple Join the Naked Beauty Community on IG: @nakedbeautyplanet Thanks for all the love and support. Tag me while you're listening @nakedbeautyplanet & as always love to hear your thoughts :) Check out nakedbeautypodcast.com for all previous episodes & search episodes by topicShop My Favorite Products & Pod Discounts on my ShopMyShelfStay in touch with me: @brookedevardFollow Erica @ericachidi x @learnwithloom Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Brahmacharya literally means ‘walking' or having ethical conduct like God. Brahma means one's own Self, ultimate unchanging reality, absolute consciousness, Divinity. Whatever is the God of your understanding. Charya – means walking, engaging, proceeding, behaving, conducting, moving or going after. So it roughly means “to stay true to one's Self or ones own Atman” or True Self/Soul. That you are walking the path of Brahma – God. However, it is mostly referred to as sexual chastity, abstinence, pure sexual conduct. Brahmacharya essentially was meant to suppress any sexual urge and of all activities leading to it. All the information I have read up upon this is directly talking to men, as Yoga was mainly practiced by men. Creating very clear boundaries of being a renunciant of sex was one of the vows which was taken to practice. It's not just abstaining from sexual acting but according to some Sages that a Yogi must refrain from the 8 forms of sexual indulgences:Thinking of sex talking about sexplaying or joking about sexlooking intensely at someone stimulating sexual urgessecret talking about sex touching with sexual intent determination or attempts of sexual actsexecution of having sexThe idea is for the Yogi to dissolve the Kleshas, cultivate Sattva Guna and reduce the Karma in this lifetime so to live a moral life as a way to end the cycle of human suffering and to reach enlightenment.To read more and to practice with Zephyr Wildman, click here. To support Zephyr Yoga Podcast, donate here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Building a relationship to pleasure and intimacy takes a lot of intention in this society that still treats talking about sex as taboo. So many people struggle with intimacy due to lack of communication, trauma, and societal conditioning to disconnect from their bodies and desires. Improving intimacy requires us to unlearn harmful norms and relearn our embodied self. Tools like love languages and embodied practices can help us engage in conscious communication with partners. It helps to create a safe container to explore these sensitive topics compassionately, gain perspective on cultivating more fulfilling relationships.In this episode of Unlimited, I invited Daniella Stevens (she/they) to join me in a conversation about how to meet yourself where you're at as you build a relationship to pleasure and intimacy.Some of what we talk about in this episode includes:Breaking the rules we assume in romantic relationshipsLearning to love yourself and listen to your bodyShifting from goals to intentions in sexThe pressure to perform and recovering from ways we disconnectLINKS FROM THIS EPISODE:How to Create Belonging with Amena Chaudhry2017 Medium Article - Why Men Keep Demanding Sex from their Partners Over and OverMonsters In Love: Why Your Partner Sometimes Drives You Crazy—And What You Can Do About It by Resmaa MenakemCONNECT WITH DANIELA STEVENSWebsiteInstagramFree Gift for deeper sexual connectionCONNECT WITH VALERIE:WebsiteInstagramFacebookFree ResourcesGet email updatesSupport the show

It's humpday, lovers! Welcome to our first episode of “No Dumb Questions,” where we answer all of your burning questions. In honour of Valentine's Day, we're tackling the most exciting questions of all: Sex. Because whether you're dating, in a relationship, or very much single, we're probably all thinking about it. (Mom stop listening!) You all sent in some amazing questions, so tune in for a chat about: What to do when your partner doesn't want to have sexThe myth of desire, and the two desire types to knowUsing toys in the bedroom, and top toy recos Are expensive sex toys worth it? The case for pre-planning intimacyShould everyone try anal? Planning a sexy role play sceneHow to teach your partner about bondageFinding a third for your threesome Let me know if there's anything I missed in this episode, and DM any questions you have for future episodes! There's no dumb questions. Happy humping! Our show is produced by:Gillian Berner, Host, Producer & EditorOlivia Nashmi, Audio EngineerKyla Killackey, Digital EditorCarolyn Schissler, Designer & Web ProducerFor advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. PS: If you've been dreaming of pivoting into podcasting but aren't sure where to start or how to grow, check our consulting services at teachmehowtoadult.ca/howtopodcast. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow us on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

Welcome to the premiere episode of Season 2!  In this episode, Ella is joined by Gwendolyn Dolske, a Professor at California State Polytechnic University - Pomona Gwendolyn is also the creator of Good Is In The Details Podcast, university lecturer, keynote speaker, and author of Tips From The Professor: A Guide for College Success She uses philosophy as a means to teach, create, and guide Her goal is to foster intellectual growth as a key component toward a life of happiness.  Gwendolyn & Ella shed light on the complex and often overlooked topic of sex education She emphasizes the need for a comprehensive approach to sex education that goes beyond the biological aspects of reproduction By exploring themes such as the lack of communication around sex, the dynamics of love and sexuality, and the beauty and purpose of sex, Gwendolyn highlights the importance of fostering a culture of healthy attitudes and enjoying fulfilling and respectful sexual relationships Topics: The power of coming from an all-girls schoolConsent violations, not just physically but emotionallyThe philosophy of sex and loveSocial changes that affected marriage and loveAn in-depth understanding of sex educationAddressing the need for lack of communication around sexThe beauty and purpose of sexQuotes:"What it means to be a woman is growing It's being more of a full participant in society That changes the very dynamics of love and sexuality" - Gwendolyn"Sex is the expression of pleasure, healthy relationships, communication, vulnerability, romance, love, and commitment Sometimes, all at once, maybe just a few If sex is gone, that means those things are gone" - GwendolynKeywords & Themes: Philosophy of Sex and Love, Sex Education, Communication in Sexual Relationships, Health and Wellbeing in Relationships, Empowerment through Education, Young People and Sex, Sexual Dynamics, College Education Connect :Good Is In the Details PodcastInstagram Twitter TikTok Resources:Peggy OrensteinWhy Are Young People Having So Little Sex with Kate JulianConnect With Ella: EllaParlor.com IG / FB / TikTok / LinkedIn: @ellayourbella Follow & Share using #EavesdropWithElla

I THOUGHT I had gone too far, but they went and did it . . . they hired an apparent Satanist. THE THESIS: The Democrat Party is mainstreaming Satanism. Incidentally, that is NOT a thesis, that is now a fact. Original Episode LinksTHE SCRIPTURE & SCRIPTURAL RESOURCES: 1 John 5:18-2018 We know that anyone born of God does not continue to sin; the One who was born of God keeps them safe, and the evil one cannot harm them. 19 We know that we are children of God, and that the whole world is under the control of the evil one. 20 We know also that the Son of God has come and has given us understanding, so that we may know him who is true. And we are in him who is true by being in his Son Jesus Christ. He is the true God and eternal life.Ephesians 6:12For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.The Rank and File Of Satan's KingdomIn Ephesians 6:12, the apostle Paul presents a divine revelation he received that describes how Satan's kingdom has been militarily aligned. He writes, “For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.”Notice that at the top of this list, Paul mentions a group of evil spirits he calls “principalities.” This word is taken from the Greek word archai, an old word that is used symbolically to denote ancient times. It is also used to depict individuals who hold the highest and loftiest position of rank and authority. By using the word archai, Paul emphatically tells us that at the very top of Satan's kingdom are powerful evil beings that have held their lofty positions of power and authority since ancient times — probably ever since the fall of Lucifer.Paul goes on to tell us that below principalities is a second group of evil beings he refers to as “powers.” This word “powers” is taken from the Greek word exousia, and it denotes delegated authority. This describes a lower, second-level group of evil beings — demon spirits — who have received delegated authority from Satan to carry out all manner of evil in whatever way they desire to do it. These evil forces are second in command in Satan's dark kingdom.Continuing in his description of Satan's rank and file in descending order, Paul mentions “the rulers of the darkness of this world.” This amazing phrase is taken from the word kosmokrateros and is a compound of the words kosmos and kratos. The word kosmos denotes order or arrangement, whereas the word kratos has to do with raw power. Thus, the compounded word kosmokrateros depicts raw power that has been harnessed and put into some kind of order.This word kosmokrateros was at times used to picture military training camps where young men were assembled, trained, and turned into a mighty army. These young men were like raw power when they first arrived in the training camp. However, as the military training progressed and the new recruits were taught discipline and order, all that raw manpower was converted into an organized, disciplined army. This is the word Paul now uses in his description of Satan's kingdom. What does it mean? Don Stewart :: How Does Satan Keep Unbelievers in Spiritual Darkness?The Figurehead was told to appoint an apparent Satanist as the Monkey Pox coordinator. And, at this point, given his social media profiles and interviews, he will need to come and and PROVE he's not a Satanist.Benny Johnson was first out with the pictures of this guy. They are disturbing beyond belief. If you are not a Satanist why do you do everything Satanists do? Benny Johnson: “Meet Demetre Daskalakis. Demetre was just appointed by Joe Biden to be the official White House National Monkeypox Response Deputy Coordinator. Demetre proudly wears the official symbol of the Church of Satan: The Pentagram. Joe Biden appointed a Satanist to the White House.”Some more pictures of this guyOf course, playing to the Illusion of Respectability, he put on the coat and tie to lie to people about Monkey Pox[AUDIO] - Suddenly wearing a jacket and tie, Demetre explains this about Monkey PoxThe people who run Joe Biden, and The Party as a whole, are obsessed with promoting all things that go against the Word of God. Adultery, theft, muder, coveting are all sins, but CNN is obsessed with promoting the sin of being active in same sex intercourse. [AUDIO] - Watch Christiane Amanpour insistently push the gay agenda on the newly-elected president of Kenya. She seems very disappointed when he doesn't seem to be on board. Where is her respect for the traditions of African society?The rot comes from the top. This so-called pediatrician is teaching kids how to make their own sex lube . . . (more on her in a bit).[AUDIO] - A so-called pediatrician teaches kids how to make their own sex lube for anal sexThe evil spirits that push adults to use the bodies of kids for their sexual desires have not gone away. In fact, they are celebrated as legitimate academics! WARNING: very disturbing content. Dr. John Money, Father Of Gender Theory, Was A Pedophilia Apologist[AUDIO] - To get an idea of what Queer Theory prescribes, watch this short clip by author Derrick Jensen. Notice how at the end he points out how not a single queer theorist has gone on record against pedophilia.The rot starts at the top. The goddesses permeates The Party all the way to the bottom[AUDIO] - Arizona State Superintendent @kathyhoffman_az is now being sued after it was discovered the Dept of Education website directed kids to hyper-sexualized secret chat rooms.Sex Education Book Instructs Parents To Let Their Young Children Watch Them Have SexBack to the so-called pediatrician: [AUDIO] - Pediatrician--the same one grooming kids with how to make their own lube fo anals sex--promotes puberty blockers to kids on tiktok claiming they just “pause” puberty so you have more time to “explore your gender identity”You must understand that their fake god is neither male nor female -- this is terrible to consider and vital to know We were told this would happen, the Bible describes these times. [AUDIO] - To put it in pop culture terms, the movie “Taken” is helpful . . . 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Brought to you by Dark Shore IndustriesThe Best Company You Never Have to Work ForUltimate Christian Coaching Network for Manhood"From 12 to 23 in a single year.""Help us build your ark."Get the Mad Mondays newsletter, a round up of news from a Christian perspective with encouragement from Rev FiskFind out more about the Sons of Solomon, a prayer discipline for menSupport Rev Fisk at SubscribeStarOrder Rev Fisk's books at AmazonCatch Rev Fisk on A Brief History of Power podcastHear Rev Fisk's sermons at St PaulIf you'd like to submit a question or comment for the show, click hereThis week, the Mad Christian and Meridith speak about:  00:00 Worship is life18:39 Modern Lutheran spirit24:31 Wide awake in Zion29:42 How has getting away from screens changed your life?57:19 A hard working wife and daily bread01:50:52 Was I saved before my baptism?02:06:17 A wife who is not interested in sexThe opinions expressed on the Stop the White Noise are those of RevFisk and Meridith, but sometimes also God. Studies show that learning to tell the difference greatly enhances your viewing experience.If you need help, the Holy Bible stands ready to assist you, as (hopefully) does your local, trustworthy pastor.To join our Discord community online, request an invitation linkFind everything else go to revfisk.com

What thing does your man do that turns you on?This doesn't just apply in the bedroom but what is some everyday thing that your man does that sets your world on fire? We're talking both the grand gestures and those tiny, game-changing moves.There's nothing that revs a woman's engine more than a man who is capable.A man that knows how to take charge. A man that is in his fullness and is comfortable in alignment with himself.We will be sharing the messages we received, all straight from the hearts of women who know exactly what they want, and what makes their world spin.We riff on:Knowing the energetics of sexThe power of owning your fullness and what it means to be a manWhy family connection is importantWhat it feels like to have your man leadThe wildness of a manand many moreJacob invites you to experience The Gathering of MenHeed the call and click: https://tgom.pages.ontraport.net/The-gathering-of-men-23

Examining our sexual template, these are the messages we received growing up through young-adult and adulthood that shape how we see ourselves and our sexual selves. In this episode, we talked about rewriting that template, examining our needs for emotional and physical closeness, confronting sexually demeaning messages, incorporating sexual touch into relationships, communicating desire, having wonderful sexual experiences, and then figuring out how to revive a bedroom where nothing is happening. I'm going to share my interview with Paige Bond LMFT from her podcast, Stubborn Love.This conversation is about breaking sexual taboos and exploring pleasure, intimacy, and equality. What we discuss:Learning about sexThe mind is the biggest driving force.How do you know when to rewrite your template?Examining expectations of yourselfThe importance of self-awareness and self-controlStarting with being intentional and realistic.The journey of sexual explorationThe importance of creating an agreement or pact as a coupleBuilding a Sexual BuffetKeeping some equality in the relationshipThe power of sharing the loadFocus on the quality and voice of your needs.Let's connect at IG and FB: @DrKristieOverstreetConnect with Paige Bond LMFT @paigebondcoaching

**Episode Re-Release**So you want to conceive a baby… now what?! We wanted to put this episode together to talk through the basics of trying to conceive. In this episode we cover:What preparation to do before trying to conceive Menstrual cycle 101How to know when you're fertile & when to time sexThe two week waitWhen to seek help

Come play with me inside this episode to unravel the 8 codes of tantric sex for deeper embodied relating and sexual intimacy. For those on the embodied path, tantric sex can be a potent gateway to living a turned on, ecstatic life that supports your highest liberation of pleasure and union. This is a quickie episode to learn more about how tantric sex can impact not only your intimate relationship; but your relationship to your own sexuality and pleasure too. I have had the most profound and psychedelic experiences through journeying on the tantric path with sacred sexuality, from full body orgasms to feeling a deep communion with the divine to being cracked wide open by my wounds into pleasure.Some of the topics we delve into:Understanding Classic Tantra and Neo-Tantra DifferencesThe 8 codes of Tantric SexHow awareness is a tool to deeper pleasure and sexWorshipping your lover as god/goddessThe essence of embodiment in tantric sexThe play and power of intentional presence in lovemakingExperiencing the divine through love makingmuch more!Find more worship episodes here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/7wsnZzWJ0gOEll3PG1B30X?si=xp9BnzF0SWyPhv2araD5NgPlay with me on Instagram to liberate Love + Pleasure below:https://www.instagram.com/simaya.priyaTo receive a free gift, email a screenshot of your review for the The Femme Codes podcast to: simaya.priya@gmail.com and we'll send it straight to you.1:1 Temple Immersions and Mentorship applications here: https://form.typeform.com/to/LAMV4ihttps://calendly.com/simaya-priya/well-f-cked-woman-1-1-sessions?month=2023-06Love and blessings Simaya____This podcast is for educational purposes only. The host claims no responsibility to any person or entity for any liability, loss, or damage caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly as a result of the use, application, or interpretation of the information presented here.

Today we are exploring the dance of expansion and contraction in relationships.In this episode we're exploring the balance between masculine and feminine leadership, moving beyond the limitations in our heads and practicing a deeper devotion to loveWe dive into…Trusting that it's safe to lean into tensionBalancing power and polarityThe role of attunement and integrity in honouring the natural flow of livingWhat is feminine leadershipEmbracing masculine leadership alongside feminine intuitionExploring the spectrum of feminine leadershipHonouring feminine oracleThe importance of nourishing your partnerThe desire for women to experience masculine leadership in their spaceEmbracing your inner dark feminine during sexThe dance of masculine & feminine energiesAnd so much more!LINKS:Come say hi on Instagram - @sexloveeverythinginbetweenMeg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneillJoin Hot F*cking Love here.Buy a ticket to The Gathering of Men  here. 

*This week's episode is sponsored by Shag Ragg! Use code WELLNESS10 to get 10% off your order!*Hello hello hello! We are back for another juicy episode of Owning Your Sexual Self! This episode was really inspired by some conversations I've had in my personal life, or just heard friends talking about how period sex is gross... But it's sad when there's this thing in our life that we feel  has to take away something.  My body is doing this natural thing, it's bleeding. So I can't indulge in pleasure. I can't do penetrative things. I can't do X Y Z. Those days are over. In this episode I talk about:What my social media following thinks of period sexWhy there should be absolutely no shame around period sexThe benefits of period sexTips on how to talk to your partner if either of you have fears around period sexTips on how to make period sex the most enjoyable and possibly mess freeIf you like this episode, hit me up, tell me, share it on social media, send it to a friend, tag me on social media so I can see that you're listening and that you enjoyed this episode. You can shoot me a DM and be like,  Rachel, you just opened my mind to period sex. Totally cool. I'm here for it. Have a great week, go and bleed your hearts out happily and healthily.Support the showConnect with Rachel!Instagram: @The_Rachel_MaineWebsite: https://linktr.ee/WellnessSexpertiseYouTube: YouTube.com/@OwningYourSexualSelfFacebook: Rachel MaineEmail: therachelmaine@gmail.com

Let's talk about sex. Healthy, pleasurable and healing sex that is. In this episode, I talk with Certified Sex Therapist, coach and clinical social worker, Dr. Israel Martinez, about helping gay bring sex into the light in order to have more enjoyable, enthusiastic and shame-free sex. Join me as I Dr. Martinez about:The distinct challenges gay, bi and queer men face in having healthy sexWhat the 5 senses have to be with having pleasurable sexThe difference between ‘spontaneous arousal' and ‘responsive arousal'Expanding the definition of what sex actually is to you and your partner(s)Exploring more of your body during masturbation and self-pleasureTips on using sex apps to find partners for the good sex you deserveUsing www.fetlife.com and other sex-positive communities to find partnersLearn more about Dr. Israel Martinez at http://www.lgbttherapynj.com and get notified of the release of his forthcoming book on gay men's sex and pleasure. In the meantime, you can purchase his first book Helping Gay Men Find Love.Stay subscribed or start following to be notified when new episodes come out.  You can also join my email list by visiting www.buckdodson.com.   If you found this episode helpful, please ‘gay it forward' by subscribing and leaving a quick review and rating. This helps more folks like you find Gay Men's Life Lab! Thanks!Buck

Welcome to our first Q+A episode. You've submitted a bunch of saucy questions. And we spend time answering them. Here's some of what goes down in this episode: “Tips for keeping a long term relationship fresh & fertile.”Our realisation of spending too much time together Deciding not to talk to each other one day a week The Feminine urge to spend every single moment with her partner “Butt stuff. Yay or nay?” Why Meg loves anal sexThe shame + tabooness of exploring butt stuff as a hetero man“What makes you feel most sexy?” “How to communicate what you want when dating without being OTT?” The fear of being too much while dating/ in a relationship. Holding your standards whilst dating Cultivating deep trust in Life while ‘finding' your person “What is cock worship?” Falling in love with blow jobs Tit-for-tat energy in sex   “Do you go through slow periods with sex? So many ppl in the polarity space seem like sexy, happy rabbits ALL THE TIME?”  Quality vs. Quantity of sex    Feeling the pressure to have lots of sex And much more. “We expect one person to give us what once an entire village used to provide, and we live twice as long.” - Esther Perel LINKS:Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill And DM us with questions for our future Q+A episodes. Join the Full Spectrum Woman Mentorship waitlist here.Buy a ticket to The Gathering of Men here.

Sweeties... this is one for the Reaching Out history books.  Today we chat with co-host of the incredible podcast, Like a Virgin, and AMC Stubs rewards member, Fran Tirado (she/they)!This episode is so incredible due to Fran's uncanny way to mix humor, heart, and knowledge into her stories and advice.  Today Fran chats with us about:How boxing yourself into having specific "types" of physical attraction could be preventing you from better sexThe limiting stories and narratives we create in our heads that prevent us from sexual experiences that you might end up lovingHow Fran was a gatekeeper to her own transness until her community helped her realize the validity in her experienceAdvice for people who are curious and want to explore their gender identityFinding and making queer community -- regardless of where you liveWe also gossip about Twitter porn, breakup movies, Fran being turned on by her own drawings of Greek warriors' "huge tits and chiseled abs", Marcel the Shell, and so much more!Enjoy!Share your story:Fill out this formEpisode Links:Follow Fran on social media:Instagram: @fransquishcoLike A Virgin Instagram: @likeavirgin420Like A Virgin PodcastFollow along with Reaching Out:Podcast's Instagram: @reachingoutpodPodcast's TikTok: @reachingoutpodMichael's Instagram: @michaelwingsit

It is amazing the excuses people give for not having sex in their marriage! We did a instagram poll and asked the question "Do You Find It Hard To Find Time For Sexual Intimacy In Your Marriage" and "What Causes Sexual Intimacy To Be Less Of A Priority In Your Marriage?"We weren't planning on doing this podcast episode but after hearing all the responses of "I am too tired" or "we don't have the time to have sex" we couldn't hold back. In this episode we are giving it to you and giving it to you straight and although some people listening may not like what we say, we have to say it. If you can't find 15 minutes one or two times a week to connect physically in your marriage, then your marriage is not a priority and we can't help, but for those of you who truly want to find more time or energy to make sexual intimacy a priority again, then you will want to listen to this episode.Also we created the Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course for this purpose! We understand there are barriers and things that get in the way, but our marriage course will help you navigate through the things that are keeping you from having sex as a couple. This course focuses specifically on sexual intimacy and covers so many aspects and topics about sex. The course was put together with the help of marriage experts, and also from our own personal experiences in each of these areas. So many couples have such a hard time talking about sexual intimacy in their relationship, and it is a topic that MUST be discussed in marriage. Let's get real, sexual issues (or lack of sex) is often the leading cause of divorce and problems can most often be resolved when couples communicate about it. Some of the topics in the Marriage Course include:Communicating about sexBarriers to sexual intimacyDealing with different sex drivesUnderstanding your desire styleGetting in the mood for sexThe benefits of frequent sex And SO much more!!You can find the Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course HEREIf you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!You can check it out HERE

In this episode Nick and Amy announce their new Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course (that will change your life). This course focuses specifically on sexual intimacy and covers so many aspects and topics about sex. The course was put together with the help of marriage experts, and also from our own personal experiences in each of these areas. So many couples have such a hard time talking about sexual intimacy in their relationship, and it is a topic that MUST be discussed in marriage. Let's get real, sex is often the leading cause of divorce and problems can most often be resolved when couples communicate about it. Some of the topics in the Marriage Course include:Communicating about sexBarriers to sexual intimacyDealing with different sex drivesUnderstanding your desire styleGetting in the mood for sexThe benefits of frequent sex And SO much more!!If you are looking to improve your love making (sexual intimacy) in your marriage, then this episode is a must listen to find out more about the Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course that will change your life.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!

In this episode, Janice and her guest Gwendolyn Dolske (philosophy professor and host of the Good Is In The Details Podcast) discuss the current "intimacy recession" among young people that is not only keeping individuals from experiencing pleasureful sex, but also placing them in risky situations. They share about their own experiences of learning how to bring more intimacy into their relationships and discovering what turns them on, from erotic novels to BDSM. And they talk about the harmful impacts of denying our young people nuanced sex education and open, honest conversations about sex and intimacy.  Rate & review the podcast on:Apple PodcastsPodchasersSpotifywww.TheSoulsWorkPodcast.comConnect with me:Instagram: @janicehoimagesFacebook: @thesoulsworkpodcastEmail: thesoulsworkpodcast@gmail.comListen to all The Soul's Work Podcast episodes: www.thesoulsworkpodcast.comConnect with Gwendolyn Dolske:Instagram: @goodisinthedetailspod  Instagram: @profdolske Podcast: Good Is In The Details Podcast  What we talk about on this episode:What is philosophy and how does it shape our lives?Gwendolyn's philosophy course on sex and love The current sex and intimacy “recession” among young peopleWhat's missing: knowing our own bodies and pleasure firstThe taboo of masturbation for girlsGwendolyn's personal path to discovering intimacy and pleasureful sexThe disconnect between how young men behave vs. how they really feel about intimacyThe phenomenon of young women giving sexual favors just to end a dateHow men are also harmed living in a heterosexual, mysognistic cultureHow BDSM can give people the space to explore different sides of their sexuality, including submissiveness for menHow consent and open conversations actually enhance your sex lifeWhat Gwendolyn has learned from her studentsResources mentioned in this episode:The Second Sex, Simone de BeauvoirThe Symposium, Plato“WHY ARE YOUNG PEOPLE HAVING SO LITTLE SEX?” (Kate Julian, The Atlantic) "How To Be A FemDom" (Good Is In The Details Podcast)Overthink Podcast“What young women believe about their own sexual pleasure” (Peggy Ornstein, TEDWomen 2016)  For Brown Girls with Sharp Edges and Tender Hearts: A Love Letter to Women of Color (Prisca Dorcas Mojica Rodriguez)  

Travis, Jackie, and Eric each share their misconceptions about sex from growing up in a purity culture.On This Episode:Jackie says she thinks sex is a sport.Jackie explains how it feels to be a woman in Purity Culture.Travis talks about the evangelical teachings that harmed intimacy in marriageEric compares and contrasts purity culture and popular cultureEric discusses the fear of hurting your partner during intercourseJackie talks about shame surrounding sexThe hosts talk porn, rom-coms, and the importance of being happy for yourself.Tweetable Quotes:“I'm glad I don't feel guilty about being sexy because I'd feel guilty all the time.” - Eric Skwarczynski“No one can be your eternal source of happiness.” - Travis Chappell“A healthy relationship is too confident people having freaky sex.” - Eric SkwarczynskiFor more information about the show, visit FiguringItOut.TV.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Melanie Cristol is the founder and CEO of Lorals, which makes ultra-thin, silky latex underwear that helps more people say yes to oral sex & pleasure! She studied Sociology at Columbia University and received her JD from Columbia Law School. Prior to creating and patenting Lorals, Melanie was a healthcare and consumer products attorney, and she was part of the legal team that secured gay marriage rights for the western United States. Melanie also fought for LGBTQ rights in California and Ohio as a field organizer with the National LGBTQ Task Force. As inventor and CEO of Lorals, Melanie holds 4 patents, and has been featured in the NYTimes, Fast Company, and Cosmopolitan, and has been a speaker at SXSW, Lesbians Who Tech, and the Sex Expo.In this episode, we dive into:Melanie's work with Lorals revolutionizing and enhancing access to oral sexWhat holds folks back from oral sex beyond STI prevention Breaking down stigma, myths and misconceptions around oral sexThe ways that cis-heteronormative reproductive values of sex are still woven into the modern world of advertisingOral sex as an avenue for embodied presence, trauma-informed intimacy and shifting out of dissociationDiversity in pleasure and reasons barriers during oral sex can feel important and empowering (navigating trauma, genital shame, menstruation and boundaries, and gender dysphoria) The balance between transforming sexual shame and being patient/gentle with ourselves & our limits Queering sex, letting go of sexual scripts and how unlearning compulsory heterosexuality can shift everyones sex life Navigating censorship around sexual wellness on social mediaLinks/Resources:-Check out Lorals here: https://mylorals.com/-Follow Lorals on IG @mylorals and @marleeliss-Get the details or join the F*ck Comphet Support Club here: https://www.patreon.com/fckcomphetsupportclub-Get the details for the Sensual Wholeness Academy and/or book your free 1-1 consult call with Marlee here: https://www.marleeliss.com/SWA-Book/inquire about Marlee's speaking for Sexual Assault Awareness Month: https://www.marleeliss.com/speaking

Note: Intro ends and our conversation with Erica begins at 9 min.Hey friends, and welcome back to another episode and we're so excited that you are here! This week's episode is so insightful, full of insight, some hard conversation, and we know you're going to love it. Erica Smith Erica Smith, M.Ed., is an award winning, nationally recognized sex educator with over 21 years of experience. She is the creator of Purity Culture Dropout, an intensive sexuality education and coaching program for folks who were raised in purity culture and who are seeking the queer inclusive, shame free, trauma informed, medically accurate, and comprehensive sex education they need.For most of her career, Erica provided sex education, HIV prevention, and advocacy to young people in juvenile detention. Erica believes that access to compassionate, comprehensive, evidence-based sexuality education is a key component to wellness and equality for all.Erica is a wealth of information when it comes to understanding and talking about sexuality. She's informative, data driven, and helps people breakdown barriers and fears when it comes to talking about sex. On this episode, we talk about her years of experience in education around sex, and we talk about cultural shifts in the conversation that are so important to note and understand. On this episode we talk about: Why we're so afraid to talk about sexThe purity movement and purity culture, and it's damaging effects on our sexual identitiesCurrent research happening around pornography and sexual educationWhat is ethical porn and how does it differWhat exactly do we mean when we say sexuality?Some important references:Sex, God, & the Conservative Church by Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers: https://amzn.to/3jibH4qYou Are Your Own by Jamie Lee Finch: https://amzn.to/3DVTJwzSex Positive Families: https://sexpositivefamilies.com/Parenting Forward by Cindy Brandt: https://amzn.to/3vqcHIEAdvocates For Youth: https://www.advocatesforyouth.org/You can find Erica on Instagram @ericasmith.sex.edYou can find Erica's website here: https://www.ericasmitheac.com/You can find Kara on Instagram @bykaraeliseYou can find Caleb on Instagram @Caleb_campbellYou can find Kara + Caleb on TikTok @karaandcalebSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This week on The DR & the DJ podcast, we feature B-sides to Health, with Dr. Amy LindseyToday I'm offering positive feedback, as we all could use some. I often think about how the laws of physics apply to our health & habits. The laws of inertia & momentum work together. Inertia is an unchanged state. Could be still, could be in steady motion. Momentum is what uses force to change the state. In other words, we use some momentum to change our state, & inertia will keep us steadily going... You are the external force to change.Here's 5 activities that have a positive feedback loop.1. SleepSleep begets sleep. The more we hone this craft & prioritize it, the more quality sleep we are likely to have, & the easier it becomes to get good, regular sleep.2. MovementThe more we move our bodies consistently, the more likely we are to be motivated to move. The flip side to this is: the more we stay sedentary, the more sedentary we are. The more we move, the easier it becomes.3. RestThe more we find the time & space to rest, the more we will be sure we find the time & space to rest. There are endless studies that show that productivity is proportional to how much we rest. Consider Yerkes Dodson Law. This law states that if we are Stressed & Restless, we are distracted & not productive. If we are bored & tired, we are also not productive. Being in balance of focused & engaged, in between bored/tired & stressed/restless, is the most productive. I think most people are stressed & restless & not resting ENOUGH. Give yourself some grace & permission to take a break.4. NourishmentThe more we nourish our minds & bodies, the more likely we are to choose nourishment over deprivation & shame. So what am I talking about here? Could be your relationship to food/ nutrition. You could be a victim of diet culture where you think size & shape is synonymous with healthy. Maybe you are in a cycle of diets that deprive you & then you say "fuck it" & "go off" your diet & enter a shame cycle. Or maybe this has something to do with complaining & gossiping or other habits that are the opposite of nourishment & make you feel bad. Choose nourishment.5. SexThe more we learn what pleasures us, the more likely we are to seek out pleasuring ourselves. This can be with ourselves or with partner(s). Sometimes it's about getting back in the habit of orgasms. Get a little momentum if you need by working on yourself first before involving the dynamics of a partner.You are not alone.AmyThe DR & the DJ Reminder: Nothing in this email or in this podcast is a substitute for medical or professional advice. Please always consult your doctor.

When it comes to sex, how many times a week is considered “normal”? This is one of the most common questions I get in my DMs on social media. So many people want to know what is considered normal, or how often most people are having sex, so that they can use this as a way to see how they measure up. A lot of my clients come to me because they feel like they aren't having sex enough, either for their own preference, or that of their partners, and they think that this means something about who they are as a person. In this episode, I introduce the importance of exploring our motivations behind wanting to have sex, separating any meaning from the frequency of sex sessions, and yes, I even give you a number.  The next cohort of the Better Sex in 90 Days program is starting soon! If you are someone who is unhappy with the frequency of your sex life and you are looking to make a change, I invite you to join us in the group program. This is just one of the many topics we explore in this group. To sign up for my email list so that you are among the first to hear about the next cohort, or to learn more, go to https://daniellesavory.com/group/, or email us at: team@daniellesavory.com Topics In This Episode:Recommendations if you're experiencing pain during sexThe mind-body connection, and the relationship between our thoughts and our physical bodiesPhysical changes you may experience when you begin to prioritize your pleasureWhat studies show for average frequency when it comes to sexThere is a difference between the sex you may or may not be having, and what you are making it mean about you, your partner, and your relationshipLooking at quantity versus quality. Frequency doesn't matter if it doesn't feel good!Ask yourself: why is this important to you?Benefits of sex, both partnered and solo sex sessionsWhere to start, if you aren't at the recommended number, or if you aren't happy with the frequency As always it's been my absolute pleasure to share this with you today. Remember to be grounded in love and to be open to your partners feelings. Create a safe space for them and for you to be able to talk about this topic, which can be difficult and scary. Good luck in your conversations and I can't wait to talk with you next week.

On this podcast we usually talk about what we can do with our brains in order to tap into our pleasure, but I'm also interested in sharing with you other ways we can accentuate our bodies to experience greater pleasure. What if you could make some changes to your diet and it would allow you to have more pleasure and better sex? This is the exact thing that I talk about with my guest on this episode, Christine DeLozier. She is an acupuncturist and holistic nutritional counselor, and she recently wrote a book on the research she has done to answer the question about the effects of diet on our sexual health. She talks about some of the physiological indicators for better sex, the truth about aphrodisiacs, and even shares her date night menu if you're looking to have better sex tonight.  Topics In This EpisodLooking at the root of the problem, not just the symptomsEvaluating a good sexual experience psychologically versus physiologicallyThe 3 key physiological factors that contribute to better sexThe role omega-3's, antioxidants, and potassium has, and good sources of these nutrientsOf course blood flow is important for men, but what about for women?Planning our meals around sex sessions Connect with ChristineWebsite: dietforgreatsex.comBook: https://www.amazon.com/Diet-Great-Sex-Female-Sexual/dp/173554521XRecipe videos on Instagram and TikTok: @dietforgreatsex As always, it has been my absolute pleasure to share this episode with you. As a total brain nerd, I found this information to be fascinating! I hope that this was helpful for you to see that in addition to examining our thoughts and our beliefs around our sex lives, there are other ways we can make it better outside the bedroom. Not only are these foods good for our bodies, they are good for our sex too. Have fun trying new recipes and having better sex!

If you're unsure if this episode applies to you, it does.If you've been waiting to have this conversation, don't.If you're in the dark about how to go about it then get ready, we've got you.This episode is 100% reality of what our children face, what we face in today's society, and it has the resources to equip and empower you. Highlights:When do you have the talk?It's probably impossible for it to be too early.It's starting with our bodies and making sure there isn't shame.Resource: When to start? God's design for sex series.Fight the New Drug (non-religious/non-political) - the dangers of pornography. FREE Documentary: Brain Heart World (impact of porn on the brain, heart, and world)The Unfiltered Motherhood Podcast (Jaime McLaughlin)@Caitlinzick (see her IG highlights)“Talking to your kids about sex”“Porn Prevention”Book “Good Pictures, Bad Pictures”Junior edition and Older Kid editionTactic: Turn, Run, TellMoral Revolution's “Let's Talk about it” PodcastScience and SexThe brain on pornwww.moralrevolution.com“Brain Defense” online video series you can watch with your kids. Group of 12 year olds called The Brain Gang, teach younger kids about screens and the dangers of the internet. Available for school settings too (not faith-based) for 3rd to 5th graders.Resources - 12-14 yo 40 day journal to purity. YouTube videos with it. The Naked Truth About Sexuality (by Havilah Cunnington)---------Connect with Lynn on IG @ goodnewsmamasCheckout the website - www.goodnewsmama.com

As you listen to this episode, you'll hear about:How tamping down your dreams and ambitions for your relationship could adversely affect your marriageThe reasons it's hard to ask a man for something different in love or sexThe game changing 7 tips that will get you talking to your husband about what you want more ofHow to claim more joy, lightness and pleasure in your lifeWhat happens when we're in bed with the patriarchyAnd more.  Join the conversation by listening, then share your story or response on our voicemail at 206-659-9865 or inside our free Secret Society on Mighty Networks.“For each woman,  the journey to creating the relationship we really want starts with two things.  One:  enough devotion to the vision of passion and closeness that you've  been gifted with, and two:  enough skillfulness to be able to talk to your husband in a kind and visionary way. “- Michele Lisenbury Christensen HOT MOMENTS IN THIS EPISODE:How not talking to your husband about things that would make your love deeper or your sex better could be keeping your bedroom from getting hotter. 01:18Why women are so protective of men's feelings because of mistaken beliefs that men are sensitive to criticism or fragile in the face of women's erotic desires.  03:09The 7 keys to talking to your husband about what you'd like more of. 12:23KEY 1: TIMING 12:27KEY 2: CONSENT 12:41KEY 3:   INTENTION 13:19KEY #4:  RECIPROCITY  13:43KEY #5: POSITIVE FOCUS 14:17KEY #6:  CURIOSITY 14:54KEY #7:  RESILIENCE 15:23 Tune in to Episode 009 to learn about another huge factor in why we don't get what we want from our partners even when we think we've asked a thousand times, and how we can reverse this problem. Join the conversation by listening, share your story or response on our voicemail at 206-659-9865 or inside our free Conscious Couples' Circle on Mighty Networks.

I'll be writing a more detailed post about ADHD relationships, sex, and Dr. Tuckman's book in the future. For now, enjoy this funny but also VERY informative conversation. In this episode, you will hear:The origins, and results of Dr. Tuckman's sex surveyThe ADHD effect on relationships and sexual satisfactionGender differences in, "mixed" ADHD couples The sexual eagerness cluster in men & womenThe importance of managing ADHD All the ways ADHD squeezes out time for sexThe parent-child dynamicMy sex life (if you are curious) Support the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

I was talking with one of my clients this week about last week's episode. Desire and drive are different because it isn't a biological need, but how does that change anything for us? This week I want to continue the conversation about how to want sex, and understanding our inner voices and what it takes to want to undergo change.I love hearing your thoughts. It always helps inform what I should spend my time talking about in these episodes and what I want to share. I want to hear your thoughts and follow up questions. Hit me up directly at itsmypleasurepodcast@gmail.com. You can also follow me on Instagram and message me @DanielleSavoryCoaching.Topics in this episode:The thoughts and belief patterns that get in the way of sexual pleasureHow those thoughts take us to a place of rejection of ourselves and partnershipsChanging the tone of your thoughtsLearning how to want sexThe siren and the sageActing from a place of thoughts that were chosen ahead of timeMoving through discomfort for the sake of growthI hope that today's topic about the competing selves when making a change will help you create more space to become the pleasured woman you are wanting to be. You can access the worksheet that goes along with the episode at daniellesavory.com/sirensageIf you're really ready to stop wasting time, working with me one-on-one, working with me is the most time-effieicnt fun and pleasurable way to discover how to enjoy sex again. I will have one opening later this month for a new client and I am currently having consultations to figure out who will take this spot. Apply for my coaching athttp://daniellesavory.com/coaching

This is part two of our three-part series about how to elevate your sex life. The purpose of this series is to focus on the foundational skills that are going to help with your presence and purpose in your sex life and all areas of your life. Part one was about bringing your thoughts to the forefront of your awareness. Once you are aware of your thoughts, you can capture your attention in order to shift your mindset, which we cover in this episode.Our mindset is made up of thoughts we think over and over that create our beliefs, and these collections of thoughts and beliefs create an overall disposition that will create a reaction to particular events, and can also show up in our behavior. As it applies to sex, your mindset can affect your attitude and disposition. So it is important to take a look at all of the learned beliefs and how you can change them in order to have mind-blowing sex.Topics in the episodeRecap of part 1 in the seriesDefinition of mindsetHow mindset applies to sexThe benefit and act of writing down your observationsNoticing the reaction to your thoughtsThe role of Cognitive dissonance in your sex lifeNoticing what is capturing your attention, and redirecting your mind on thoughts that will serve youI hope this episode is going to help you capture your attention back so that you can get to your desired result. If you're loving this podcast and what you're learning on here, and are ready to apply it at a deeper level to experience mind-blowing sex and success, I encourage you to reach out for one-on-one coaching. This is where we take the work even deeper, and you're going to see massive changes in all areas of your life. To learn more, go to http://daniellesavory.com/coaching.

This is the second part of a two part, juicy, tell-all conversation about long term polyamory. There are so many ideas, misconceptions, and projections around polyamory. Maybe you want to try it out, maybe you're afraid, or don't know how to start. Listen in to hear all the ups, downs, and highlights of real experiences stepping into a triad relationship.In this episode of Open LateSetting up boundaries within polyamoryNavigating jealousy as it comes upHow leaning into discomfort can lead to peak life momentsMore to polyamory than sexThe most epic threesome storiesFollow Lauren:Instagram: @lolo_urbiztondoFollow Pasha:Instagram: @superblypashaConnect Jessica:Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcastWebsite: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.comYoutube: Open Late PodcastShow Resources:Open Late Episode 16 with LaurenUntrue By Wednesday MartinSex at DawnGet the Open Late DictionaryCheck out Cakes by Alexys:Instatgram: @cakesbyalexysWebsite:This show is produced by Soulfire Productions