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In this week's episode of Diving Deep with Destin: Sex, Love, and Evolution, Destin Gerek is joined by Francesca Gentille, a certified clinical sexologist and initiated shaman known for her unique blend of science and soul in the realm of sexuality. Together, they explore Francesca's profound journey of integrating trauma healing, self-love, tantra, and conscious non-monogamy. This conversation delves into the therapeutic use of BDSM, the power of embracing our authentic selves, and the transformative potential of sexuality as a path to personal growth and enlightenment. This episode is brought to you by:  Lit - Love & Intimacy Tools: a boutique sensation tools brand offering a luscious new take on adult toys. Lit pairs gorgeous, high-end sensual toys with fun practices to deepen authentic intimacy through mindful exploration of sensual pleasure. Their work is rooted in somatic arts, the science of touch, nervous system regulation, vagal nerve theory, and authentic relating. Each tool comes with an intimacy practice to enrich your connection.  Use the code Destin to save 10% or get their Totally Lit Kit with all 12 tools for 25% off. ⁠https://www.litup.love/destin⁠  Use Promo Code: DESTIN to receive 10% off your order! Key Insights: The intersection of science and soul in the journey of sexual healing. Strategies for integrating trauma healing and self-love into personal growth. The role of tantra and conscious non-monogamy in cultivating authentic connections. The therapeutic use of BDSM for healing and empowerment. Embracing our authentic selves as a path to transformation and enlightenment. Notable Quotes: "Healing from trauma opens the door to profound self-love and personal growth." "Embracing our authentic selves is the key to transformative power in sexuality." Timestamps: 00:02:30 - Introduction to Francesca Gentille's journey as a sexologist and shaman  00:15:45 - Integrating science and soul in sexual healing  00:28:20 - The role of tantra and conscious non-monogamy in authentic connections  00:40:55 - Using BDSM therapeutically for healing and empowerment  00:53:10 - Practical advice for embracing authenticity in personal growth  01:05:25 - Francesca's strategies for transformative self-love and trauma healing Guest Bio:  Francesca Gentille is a certified clinical sexologist and initiated shaman specializing in the integration of science and soul in sexuality. She is an author, coach, and a beloved speaker, known for her insightful and transformative approach to healing, personal growth, and relational dynamics. Francesca's work empowers individuals to heal from trauma, embrace self-love, and cultivate meaningful, authentic connections. Connect with Francesca:  IG: http://instagram.com/francescagentille  Website: https://francescagentille.com/ If you found value in today's conversation, please Subscribe, Rate us, leave us a review on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode with someone who could benefit from these insights. Your support helps us grow and continue to bring you impactful discussions like this one. Connect with Destin:  For more on how to evolve your own masculine or feminine journey, reach out to us at:  Website: ⁠DestinGerek.com⁠  Instagram: ⁠http://instagram.com/DestinGerek⁠  TikTok: ⁠@DestinGerek⁠  Youtube: ⁠@DivingDeepWithDestin

In this second solo episode of Diving Deep with Destin: S(e)x, Love, and Evolution, Destin Gerek unravels the profound concept of sexual attunement and its transformative power in intimate relationships. Through contrasting stories of disconnection and profound connection, Destin illustrates the critical role of presence, emotional awareness, sensitivity, resonance, responsiveness, and connection. This episode is a deep dive into how we can cultivate these six keys to create truly magical and fulfilling intimate experiences. By tuning into our partners and embracing the richness of our own emotions, we pave the way for deeper intimacy, connection, and mutual pleasure. Tune in to discover how to navigate your own path towards deeper intimacy and connection. This episode is brought to you by: Lit - Love & Intimacy Tools, a boutique sensation tools brand offering a luscious new take on adult toys. Lit pairs gorgeous, high-end sensual toys with fun practices to deepen authentic intimacy through mindful exploration of sensual pleasure. Their work is rooted in somatic arts, the science of touch, nervous system regulation, vagal nerve theory, and authentic relating. Each tool comes with an intimacy practice to enrich your connection. Use the code Destin to save 10% or get their Totally Lit Kit with all 12 tools for 25% off. ⁠https://www.litup.love/destin⁠ Use Promo Code: DESTIN to receive 10% off your order! Key Insights: Understanding the six keys to sexual attunement: presence, emotional awareness, sensitivity, resonance, responsiveness, and connection. Practical strategies for cultivating deeper intimacy and connection in relationships. The transformative power of tuning into your partner and embracing emotional richness. Notable Quotes: "Sexual attunement is the key to transforming disconnection into profound connection." "By being fully present and emotionally aware, we create a space where true intimacy can flourish." Timestamps: 00:00:30 - Introduction to the solo episode and the concept of sexual attunement 00:02:00 - Exploring the role of presence in intimate relationships 00:05:00 - Emotional awareness and its impact on connection 00:10:00 - Sensitivity and resonance: tuning into your partner 00:15:30 - The importance of responsiveness in intimacy 00:20:00 - Cultivating a deep connection through attunement 00:25:00 - Stories of disconnection and transformation through attunement Biography:  Destin Gerek is a renowned expert in sexual empowerment, personal growth, and relational dynamics. He is the author of The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs & the One She Craves, where he shares his insights and experiences on evolving masculinity and fostering authentic connections. He has helped thousands of men step into deeper embodiment, pleasure, and satisfaction. Like, Review & Subscribe:  If you found value in today's conversation, please Subscribe, Rate us, leave us a review on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode with someone who could benefit from these life-changing insights. Your support helps us grow and continue to bring you impactful discussions like this one. Connect with Destin: For more on how to evolve your own masculine or feminine journey, reach out to us at: Website: destingerek.com Instagram: @destingerek TikTok: ⁠@DestinGerek⁠ YouTube: ⁠@DivingDeepWithDestin

In this captivating episode of Diving Deep with Destin: Sex, Love, and Evolution, Destin Gerek is joined by Shaney Marie, a guide and initiatrix of the feminine mysteries with two decades of experience in neo-tantra, archetypal dance, and erotic embodiment. Together, they explore Shaney's unique journey, from her beginnings as a stripper to becoming a spiritual guide. This conversation delves into the transformative power of erotic embodiment, the significance of integrating darker aspects of sexuality, and the profound lessons learned through embracing one's erotic nature. Destin and Shaney's shared history and experiences provide deep insights into personal and spiritual growth through the lens of sexuality. This episode is brought to you by: Lit - Love & Intimacy Tools, a boutique sensation tools brand offering a luscious new take on adult toys. Lit pairs gorgeous, high-end sensual toys with fun practices to deepen authentic intimacy through mindful exploration of sensual pleasure. Their work is rooted in somatic arts, the science of touch, nervous system regulation, vagal nerve theory, and authentic relating. Each tool comes with an intimacy practice to enrich your connection. Use the code Destin to save 10% or get their Totally Lit Kit with all 12 tools for 25% off. ⁠https://www.litup.love/destin⁠  Use Promo Code: DESTIN to receive 10% off your order! Key Insights:  The transformative power of erotic embodiment in the journey toward authentic self-discovery.  Strategies for integrating the darker aspects of sexuality to foster growth and personal empowerment.  The role of neo-tantra in cultivating deep, meaningful connections and spiritual evolution. Notable Quotes: "Erotic embodiment is the gateway to profound personal and spiritual transformation."  "Integrating the darker aspects of our sexuality allows us to reclaim our full power and authenticity." Timestamps:  00:02:30 - Introduction to Shaney Marie's journey from stripper to spiritual guide  00:15:45 - The importance of erotic embodiment in personal evolution  00:28:20 - Embracing and integrating the darker aspects of sexuality  00:40:55 - Insights into neo-tantra and its impact on spiritual growth  00:53:10 - Practical advice for cultivating authentic connections through erotic embodiment  01:05:25 - Shaney's strategies for embracing the full spectrum of one's erotic nature Guest Bio:  Shaney Marie is a guide and initiatrix of the feminine mysteries with two decades of experience in neo-tantra, archetypal dance, and erotic embodiment. She specializes in helping individuals reclaim their erotic power and authenticity through deep spiritual and personal transformation. Shaney's work empowers individuals to integrate all aspects of their sexuality, fostering profound growth and meaningful connections. Connect with Shaney:  IG: @shaneymarie_enchantress  Call to Action:  If you found value in today's conversation, please Subscribe, Rate us, leave us a review on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode with someone who could benefit from these life-changing insights. Your support helps us grow and continue to bring you impactful discussions like this one. For more on how to evolve your own masculine or feminine journey, reach out to us at:  Website: ⁠DestinGerek.com⁠  Instagram: ⁠http://instagram.com/DestinGerek⁠  TikTok: ⁠@DestinGerek⁠  Youtube: ⁠@DivingDeepWithDestin --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destingerek/message

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Destin Gerek. Destin is a Certified Sexologist through The American College of Sexologists International. Destin is a globally recognized coach in masculinity, sexuality, and personal empowerment. He is the author of the best-selling book, The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and the One She Craves and the creator of the film Seductive Devotion. Destin hosts the podcast Diving Deep with Destin: Sex, Love, & Evolution. Key points: - Destin introduces himself - Creating safe erotic spaces through consent and care - Impact of mainstream porn on relationships and sex - Transforming masculinity through self-mastery and care for women - Working with high-achieving men through somatic sexology Relevant links: Destin's website: https://destingerek.com/ Destin's Instagram: @destingerek --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/cam-fraser/message

In this first solo episode of "Diving Deep with Destin: Sex, Love, and Evolution," Destin Gerek delves into the pervasive issues of sexual shame and trauma. Drawing from a heartfelt listener email, Destin explores the complexities of sexual abuse, the struggle for sexual self-mastery, and the journey towards embodied sexuality. Destin's candid discussion provides listeners with practical insights on his life's work: supporting men in overcoming sexual trauma, embracing erotic self-exploration, and developing a healthier, more integrated relationship with their sexuality. Tune in to discover how to navigate your own path towards sexual empowerment and spiritual growth. This episode is brought to you by: Lit - Love & Intimacy Tools, a boutique sensation tools brand offering a luscious new take on adult toys. Lit pairs gorgeous, high-end sensual toys with fun practices to deepen authentic intimacy through mindful exploration of sensual pleasure. Their work is rooted in somatic arts, the science of touch, nervous system regulation, vagal nerve theory, and authentic relating. Each tool comes with an intimacy practice to enrich your connection.  Use the code Destin to save 10% or get their Totally Lit Kit with all 12 tools for 25% off. ⁠https://www.litup.love/destin⁠ Use Promo Code: DESTIN to receive 10% off your order! Key Insights: Understanding the pervasive nature of sexual shame and its impact on personal development. Practical strategies for overcoming sexual trauma and embracing erotic self-exploration. The importance of developing a healthier, more integrated relationship with one's sexuality. Notable Quotes: "We can't spend our lives running from our traumas; we need to face them with support and intention." "Erotic self-exploration is about breaking out of habitual patterns and actively discovering what more is possible with your sexuality." Timestamps: 00:00:30 - Introduction to the solo episode and upgraded podcast production 00:02:00 - Destin's vision for a more interactive podcast experience 00:03:30 - Reading and responding to a listener's email about sexual trauma 00:06:00 - The impact of early sexual abuse and the journey towards healing 00:10:00 - Exploring the concept of erotic self-exploration and its benefits 00:15:30 - Addressing the cultural baggage of sexual shame and guilt 00:20:00 - The importance of learning to receive and the power of touch 00:24:30 - Strategies for overcoming performance anxiety in the bedroom 00:28:00 - The transformative potential of sexual self-mastery and personal growth Bio: Destin is a renowned expert in sexual empowerment, personal growth, and relational dynamics. He is the author of The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs & the One She Craves, where he shares his insights and experiences on evolving masculinity and fostering authentic connections. He has helped thousands of men step into deeper embodiment, pleasure and satisfaction. Like, Review & Subscribe: If you found value in today's conversation, please Subscribe, Rate us, leave us a review on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode with someone who could benefit from these life-changing insights. Your support helps us grow and continue to bring you impactful discussions like this one. Connect with Destin: For more on how to evolve your own masculine or feminine journey, reach out to us at: Website: ⁠DestinGerek.com⁠ Instagram: @DestinGerek⁠ TikTok: ⁠@DestinGerek⁠ YouTube: ⁠@DivingDeepWithDestin --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destingerek/message

In this thought-provoking episode of "Diving Deep with Destin: Sex, Love, and Evolution," Destin Gerek welcomes Ben Raya, a menswear coach and tantra facilitator, to delve into the complex dynamics of male safety, societal perceptions, and the defensive postures men often adopt when confronted with women's fears and experiences. The discussion explores why many women state they would feel safer encountering a bear in the woods than a man, what this reflects about our society, and how men can engage in meaningful self-reflection and change. This episode challenges listeners to think deeply about gender dynamics, safety, and the role of men in creating a more empathetic and secure world for all. This episode is brought to you by: Lit - Love & Intimacy Tools, a boutique sensation tools brand offering a luscious new take on adult toys. Lit pairs gorgeous, high-end sensual toys with fun practices to deepen authentic intimacy through mindful exploration of sensual pleasure. Their work is rooted in somatic arts, the science of touch, nervous system regulation, vagal nerve theory, and authentic relating. Each tool comes with an intimacy practice to enrich your connection. Use the code Destin to save 10% or get their Totally Lit Kit with all 12 tools for 25% off. ⁠https://www.litup.love/destin⁠ Use Promo Code: DESTIN to receive 10% off your order! Key Insights: The societal implications of women's expressed preference for the safety of encountering a bear over a man. Reflecting on the defensive reactions of men when facing criticisms related to women's safety and experiences. Encouraging a deeper, introspective look at masculinity and how it shapes interactions and perceptions in society. Notable Quotes: "Boys argue about whose fault it is. Men show up to help hurting people." "Women don't feel safe around men. Not because all men are bad, but because enough men are bad and they don't know who's who." "This is about so much more than whether or not you personally are safe or if bears in general are dangerous. This is about hearing the experience of women." Timestamps: 00:03:10 - Introduction to Ben Raya and the bear versus man safety debate 00:14:50 - Analyzing societal perceptions and personal reactions to women's fears 00:25:35 - Discussing the role of introspection in addressing and changing harmful narratives 00:37:00 - Exploring practical steps for men to engage in transformative self-awareness 00:48:15 - Insights from Ben on facilitating change and understanding within men 01:02:20 - Wrapping up: How men can actively contribute to creating safer spaces Guest Bio: Ben Raya is a mens coach and tantra facilitator known for his thoughtful approach to gender dynamics and safety. His work focuses on helping men understand and shift their perceptions and behaviors, fostering safer and more respectful environments. Ben's insights offer profound shifts in perspective, challenging men to better themselves and the world around them. Connect with Ben: IG: @itsbenraya  Website: https://www.samavetaliving.com/ Call to Action: If you found value in today's discussion, please Subscribe, Rate us, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform. Share this episode with those who need to hear this critical conversation. Your support allows us to continue bringing important topics and transformative insights to light. Connect with Destin: For guidance on your journey towards evolved masculinity, reach out at: Website: https://⁠DestinGerek.com⁠ Instagram: ⁠http://instagram.com/DestinGerek⁠ TikTok: ⁠http://tiktok.com/@DestinGerek⁠ Youtube: ⁠http://youtube.com/@DivingDeepWithDestin --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destingerek/message

Destin Gerek engages in a riveting conversation with Jackie Rotman, the force behind the Center for Intimacy Justice. We explore the vast and often shadowy landscape of tech censorship, its profound implications on sexuality, and the pioneering efforts to combat it. My guest, Jackie Rotman, founder of the Center for Intimacy Justice, sheds light on a struggle that touches the core of our digital existence. Her organization's relentless pursuit against the Goliath of tech censorship not only highlights the disproportionate impact on women's sexual health businesses but also underscores a broader societal challenge. Rotman's journey, marked by personal trials and an unyielding commitment to justice, provides invaluable insights into the complexities of advocating for sexual health and freedom in the digital age. This conversation isn't just about confronting censorship; it's a clarion call to reclaim our collective right to knowledge, expression, and intimacy in a world increasingly mediated by algorithms. This episode is brought to you by: Lit - Love & Intimacy Tools, a boutique sensation tools brand offering a luscious new take on adult toys. Lit pairs gorgeous, high-end sensual toys with fun practices to deepen authentic intimacy through mindful exploration of sensual pleasure. Their work is rooted in somatic arts, the science of touch, nervous system regulation, vagal nerve theory, and authentic relating. Each tool comes with an intimacy practice to enrich your connection.  https://www.litup.love/ Use the code DESTIN to save 10% or get their Totally Lit Kit with all 12 tools for 25% off. Use Promo Code: DESTIN to receive 10% off your order! Key Insights: The pervasive impact of tech censorship on sexual health education and the digital expression of intimacy. Jackie Rotman's relentless crusade against the giants of tech, advocating for the right to knowledge and freedom in the digital age. Strategies for navigating and combating digital suppression in the quest for a sexually liberated society. Notable Quotes: "Challenging the digital gatekeepers is the first step towards reclaiming our right to intimacy and knowledge." "In the shadows of the internet, a battle rages for the soul of sexual expression." Timestamps: 00:03:20 - Introduction to Jackie Rotman and the Center for Intimacy Justice 00:17:40 - Unveiling the digital curtain: The battle against tech censorship 00:31:15 - The journey from personal trauma to global advocacy 00:45:00 - Successes and challenges in the fight for digital sexual rights 00:58:25 - Envisioning a future of liberated digital intimacy 01:12:50 - How to get involved and support the cause for digital freedom Guest Bio: Jackie Rotman is the visionary founder of the Center for Intimacy Justice, a pioneering organization dedicated to combating censorship and fostering freedom of expression in the realm of sexual health and education. Through her leadership, Jackie challenges the behemoths of the tech industry, advocating for equitable policies that honor the complexity and richness of human sexuality. Her work is a testament to the power of resilience, advocacy, and the relentless pursuit of justice in the digital age. Connect with Jackie and the Center for Intimacy Justice: IG: http://instagram.com/intimacyjustice Website: https://www.intimacyjustice.org/ If today's episode inspired you, please Rate, Review and Subscribe on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode with someone who stands to benefit from our deep dive into digital rights and sexual freedom. Your engagement helps us continue to deliver powerful conversations like this. Connect with Destin: Website: ⁠https://destingerek.com⁠ Instagram: ⁠http://instagram.com/destingerek⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@destingerek⁠ Youtube: ⁠https://youtube.com/@divingdeepwithdestin --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destingerek/message

Destin Gerek engages in a profound conversation with Justin Patrick Pierce, a leading figure in the exploration of intimate relationships and co-author, alongside his wife London Angel Winters, of "Playing With Fire: The Spiritual Path of Intimate Relationship." They delve into the transformative potential of sacred sexuality, the pivotal role of personal evolution within relationships, and the journey toward deeper intimacy and connection. This discussion offers insights into harnessing sexual energy as a tool for spiritual awakening, understanding the intricacies of masculine and feminine dynamics, and the importance of presence, sensitivity, and equanimity in nurturing a fulfilling partnership. This episode is brought to you by: Lit - Love & Intimacy Tools, a boutique sensation tools brand offering a luscious new take on adult toys. Lit pairs gorgeous, high-end sensual toys with fun practices to deepen authentic intimacy through mindful exploration of sensual pleasure. Their work is rooted in somatic arts, the science of touch, nervous system regulation, vagal nerve theory, and authentic relating. Each tool comes with an intimacy practice to enrich your connection. Use the code Destin to save 10% or get their Totally Lit Kit with all 12 tools for 25% off. ⁠https://www.litup.love/destin⁠ Use Promo Code: DESTIN to receive 10% off your order! Key Insights: Exploring the depths of sacred sexuality and its role in spiritual awakening. The significance of integrating awareness, sensitivity, and equanimity into intimate relationships. The impact of personal and relational evolution on achieving a deeper sense of intimacy and connection. Notable Quotes: "Intimacy is not just a path to connection; it's a journey back to oneself." "Through the conscious engagement of our sexual energy, we unlock doors to profound spiritual experiences." Timestamps: 00:03:05 - Introduction to Justin Patrick Pierce and the essence of sacred sexuality 00:18:30 - The foundations of a transformative intimate relationship: presence, sensitivity, and equanimity 00:32:15 - Personal anecdotes and lessons learned from Justin's journey with London Angel Winters 00:45:40 - Strategies for deepening connection and intimacy in relationships 00:58:05 - Insights from "Playing With Fire" and the integration of spiritual practices in love 01:10:30 - Justin's advice for couples and individuals seeking to explore the spiritual path of intimate relationships Guest Bio: Justin Patrick Pierce is a thought leader in the realm of intimate relationships, co-authoring seminal works with his wife, London Angel Winters. His approach blends ancient tantric wisdom with modern insights into relationship dynamics, offering pathways to deep intimacy and spiritual growth. Justin's teachings emphasize the importance of presence, polarity, and devotion, guiding individuals and couples towards fulfilling, love-filled lives. Connect with Justin: Website: https://www.justinpatrickpierce.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justinpatrickpierce/ Call to Action: If today's discussion resonated with you, please Subscribe, Rate us, leave a review on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode with someone on their own path to deepening intimacy and evolving relationships. Your support enables us to continue bringing you transformative conversations like this. Connect with Destin: For guidance on your journey towards evolved masculinity or femininity, reach out at: Website: https://⁠DestinGerek.com⁠ Instagram: ⁠http://instagram.com/DestinGerek⁠ TikTok: ⁠http://tiktok.com/@DestinGerek⁠Youtube: ⁠http://youtube.com/@DivingDeepWithDestin --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destingerek/message

Destin Gerek sits down with Connor Beaton, the visionary founder of ManTalks, an initiative dedicated to fostering growth, health, and success in men's lives. They delve into the intricacies of modern masculinity, the journey towards authenticity and integrity, and the role of vulnerability and competence in shaping a man's identity. This discussion spans the challenges men face in today's society, touching on the importance of self-reflection, the value of men's work, and the transformative power of understanding one's emotions and inner world. This episode not only offers insights into evolving masculine identities but also provides a practical roadmap for men seeking to navigate their journey with authenticity and purpose. This episode is brought to you by: Lit - Love & Intimacy Tools, a boutique sensation tools brand offering a luscious new take on adult toys. Lit pairs gorgeous, high-end sensual toys with fun practices to deepen authentic intimacy through mindful exploration of sensual pleasure. Their work is rooted in somatic arts, the science of touch, nervous system regulation, vagal nerve theory, and authentic relating. Each tool comes with an intimacy practice to enrich your connection. Use the code Destin to save 10% or get their Totally Lit Kit with all 12 tools for 25% off. ⁠https://www.litup.love/destin⁠ Use Promo Code: DESTIN to receive 10% off your order! Key Insights: Integration of Emotional Intelligence in Masculinity: Modern masculinity benefits from integrating emotional intelligence, which enriches traditional virtues with empathy and self-awareness. This evolution enables men to navigate relationships and personal challenges more effectively. Navigating the Shift from Traditional to Modern Masculinity: As societal expectations change, men are redefining strength to encompass internal growth alongside external achievements. This redefinition is key for their success and fulfillment in an evolving landscape. Importance of Mentorship and Community: Mentorship and communal support are pivotal in men's personal development, providing role models and a space to address vulnerabilities. This collective approach fosters growth and counters isolation, highlighting the collective nature of personal evolution. Notable Quotes: "Redefining strength includes embracing our vulnerabilities as sources of power." "Navigating masculinity today requires a blend of courage and compassion, challenging us to redefine what it means to be strong in a rapidly changing world." Timestamps: 00:03:00 - Introduction to Connor Beaton and the mission of ManTalks 00:18:25 - Discussing the modern challenges of masculinity and identity 00:35:40 - The role of vulnerability in men's growth and evolution 00:50:15 - Strategies for men seeking to navigate their path with purpose 01:04:50 - The importance of community and mentorship in men's work 01:20:30 - Insights on fostering deeper connections and living authentically Guest Bio: Connor Beaton is the founder of ManTalks, an organization committed to supporting men in their journey towards becoming more authentic, vulnerable, and integrated individuals. Connor is a respected speaker, facilitator, and coach, who has dedicated his life to understanding the nuances of masculinity and providing men with the tools they need to evolve in all aspects of their lives. Connect with Connor: Website: https://mantalks.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mantalks/ Call to Action: If today's conversation resonated with you, please Subscribe, Rate us, leave us a review on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode with someone on their own path of masculine or feminine evolution. Your support enables us to continue bringing you meaningful and transformative content. Connect with Destin: Website: https://⁠DestinGerek.com⁠ Instagram: ⁠http://instagram.com/DestinGerek⁠ TikTok: http://tiktok.com/⁠@DestinGerek⁠Youtube: http://youtube.com/⁠@DivingDeepWithDestin --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destingerek/message

Destin Gerek engages in a profound conversation with Genevieve Rudolph, International Best-selling Author of The Orgasmic Arc™: Mastering the Six Steps to Pleasure. They dive into Genevieve's transformative journey from embracing a queer and gender non-conforming identity to a profound realization and embrace of her womanhood and heterosexual desires. This episode explores the complexities of navigating identity, personal healing, and the quest for authentic connection, offering a nuanced discussion on the fear of betraying community expectations and the courage to voice unique experiences that resonate with many. This episode is brought to you by: Lit - Love & Intimacy Tools, a boutique sensation tools brand offering a luscious new take on adult toys. Lit pairs gorgeous, high-end sensual toys with fun practices to deepen authentic intimacy through mindful exploration of sensual pleasure. Their work is rooted in somatic arts, the science of touch, nervous system regulation, vagal nerve theory, and authentic relating. Each tool comes with an intimacy practice to enrich your connection. Use the code Destin to save 10% or get their Totally Lit Kit with all 12 tools for 25% off. ⁠https://www.litup.love/destin⁠Use Promo Code: DESTIN to receive 10% off your order! Key Insights: The intricate process of identity evolution and embracing new aspects of self. Healing from within: How addressing past wounds can lead to profound personal discoveries and shifts in identity. The significance of giving voice to controversial or underrepresented experiences in the context of community and personal growth. Navigating the balance between honoring one's true self and respecting the diversity of identities within communities. Notable Quotes: "Embracing our full selves requires courage to face the unknown and the strength to voice our truths, even when they challenge community norms." "True healing brings about transformation not just in how we see ourselves, but in how we relate to the world around us." Timestamps: 00:03:15 - Introduction to Genevieve Rudolph's work and journey 00:18:30 - Discussing the shift from a queer identity to embracing womanhood 00:34:50 - The role of healing in identity transformation and desire 00:47:05 - Exploring the impact of a cancer diagnosis on self-perception and sexuality 01:02:20 - Strategies for navigating community expectations and personal evolution 01:15:40 - Genevieve's insights on using sexual energetics for empowerment and healing Guest Bio: Genevieve Rudolph is an International Best-selling Author and a leading expert in utilizing sexual energetics for transformative healing and empowerment. With a background that spans over 15 years, including her start as a Professional Dominatrix in NYC, Genevieve's journey of personal and professional evolution offers a compelling narrative on the power of embracing one's truth, the healing process, and the impact of sexuality on identity and personal growth. Call to Action: If you found value in today's conversation, please Subscribe, Rate us, leave us a review on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode with someone who could benefit from these life-changing insights. Your support helps us grow and continue to bring you impactful discussions like this one. Connect with Destin: For more on how to evolve your own masculine or feminine journey, reach out to us at: Website: ⁠DestinGerek.com⁠ Instagram: ⁠@DestinGerek⁠ TikTok: ⁠@DestinGerek⁠ Youtube: ⁠@DivingDeepWithDestin --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destingerek/message

Join Destin Gerek and intimacy expert Allana Pratt as they delve into the intricacies of emotional resilience, the beauty of living with authenticity, and the essential role vulnerability plays in our journey towards self-discovery and genuine relationships. Together, they explore the journey of embracing vulnerability as a strength, the power of living authentically, and the profound lessons learned from intimate relationships and self-discovery. This conversation delves into overcoming personal adversities, the significance of emotional resilience, and strategies for cultivating deeper connections with oneself and others. This episode is brought to you by: Lit - Love & Intimacy Tools, a boutique sensation tools brand offering a luscious new take on adult toys. Lit pairs gorgeous, high-end sensual toys with fun practices to deepen authentic intimacy through mindful exploration of sensual pleasure. Their work is rooted in somatic arts, the science of touch, nervous system regulation, vagal nerve theory, and authentic relating. Each tool comes with an intimacy practice to enrich your connection. Use the code Destin to save 10% or get their Totally Lit Kit with all 12 tools for 25% off. ⁠https://www.litup.love/destin⁠ Use Promo Code: DESTIN to receive 10% off your order! Key Insights: The transformative power of embracing vulnerability in the journey toward authentic self-discovery. Strategies for overcoming personal adversities to foster growth and emotional resilience. The role of authentic living in cultivating deep, meaningful connections in love and relationships. Notable Quotes: "Embracing our vulnerabilities opens the door to our deepest strengths and connections." "True intimacy begins with being authentically seen, first by ourselves and then by others." Three Unmissable Moments: Unveiling Sexual Trauma's Silver Lining: Allana Pratt shares an intimate moment of revelation, uncovering how her darkest experiences with sexual trauma became the catalyst for her deepest healing and awakening, challenging listeners to reconsider their own scars as sources of strength and enlightenment. The Naked Truth of Intimacy: A raw and unscripted exchange where Allana describes the transformative power of standing emotionally and physically naked in front of a partner, not just in the literal sense but in the metaphorical exposure of one's deepest fears and desires, prompting a profound reflection on the essence of true connection. The Breakdown that Leads to Breakthrough: A gripping recount of a moment when vulnerability felt like a public spectacle, detailing a personal breakdown that occurred in an unexpected and highly public setting, illustrating the potent, often uncomfortable, but ultimately liberating process of shedding societal masks to embrace authentic self-expression and freedom. Guest Bio: Allana Pratt is an intimacy expert who specializes in helping individuals cultivate deeper connections with themselves and others. She is an author, coach, and a beloved speaker, known for her insightful and compassionate approach to healing, personal growth, and relational dynamics. Allana's work empowers individuals to embrace vulnerability, foster authenticity, and create meaningful, loving relationships. Connect with Allana: Website: https://allanapratt.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allanapratt/ Call to Action: If you found value in today's conversation, please Subscribe, Rate us, leave us a review on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode with someone who could benefit from these life-changing insights. Your support helps us grow and continue to bring you impactful discussions like this one. Connect with Destin: Website: ⁠https://DestinGerek.com⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://instagram.com/DestinGerek⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://tiktok.com/@DestinGerek⁠ Youtube: ⁠https://youtube.com/@DivingDeepWithDestin --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destingerek/message

Destin Gerek is joined by Dr. Cat Meyer, a licensed psychotherapist specializing in sex, trauma, and psychedelics, to explore the multifaceted nature of sexual awakenings and the therapeutic interplay between sex and psychedelics. They delve into personal experiences and professional insights, discussing the importance of continual self-discovery, the role of psychedelics in healing and expanding our sexual and spiritual consciousness, and the transformative power of embracing our playful and authentic selves. This episode is brought to you by: Lit - Love & Intimacy Tools is a boutique sensation tools brand offering a luscious new take on adult toys. Lit pairs gorgeous, high-end sensual toys with fun practices to deepen authentic intimacy through the mindful exploration of sensual pleasure. Their work is based on somatic arts, the science of touch, nervous system regulation, vagal nerve theory, and authentic relating. Each tool comes with an intimacy practice to deepen your connection. Use the code Destin to save 10% or get their Totally Lit Kit with all 12 tools for 25% off. ⁠https://www.litup.love/destin⁠ Use Promo Code: DESTIN to receive 10% off your order! Key Insights: Sexual awakening is not a one-time event but a series of discoveries throughout life. Psychedelics offer a unique lens through which to explore and heal our sexuality. Embracing playfulness in sexuality can lead to profound personal and relational growth. Creating safe spaces for sexual exploration is crucial for healing and expansion. Notable Quotes: "Sexual healing and exploration can significantly benefit from the intentional use of psychedelics." "Each sexual awakening we experience unlocks a different part of us, revealing deeper layers of our authentic selves." Timestamps: 00:03:20 - Introduction to Dr. Cat Meyer and the Intersection of Sexuality and Psychedelics 00:11:45 - The Continuous Journey of Sexual Awakening 00:20:30 - The Role of Psychedelics in Sexual Healing and Exploration 00:29:10 - Playfulness as a Pathway to Sexual and Personal Growth 00:37:50 - The Importance of Safe Spaces in Sexual Discovery 00:46:15 - Personal Stories of Transformation through Sex and Psychedelics 00:55:40 - Practical Tips for Integrating Playfulness and Psychedelics into Sexual Exploration 01:04:25 - Closing Thoughts on Sexual Awakening and the Future of Psychedelic Research Guest Bio: Dr. Cat Meyer is a licensed psychotherapist, sex therapist, and leading expert in the integration of sexuality and psychedelics. She combines her extensive academic background with esoteric practices to facilitate holistic healing and growth. Connect with Dr. Cat Meyer: Website: SexLoveYoga.com Instagram: @SexLoveYoga Call to Action: If you found value in today's conversation, please Subscribe, Rate us, leave us a Review on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode with someone who could benefit from these transformative insights. Your support helps us grow and continue to bring you impactful discussions like this one. Connect with Destin: Website: DestinGerek.com Instagram: @DestinGerek TikTok: @DestinGerek Youtube: @DivingDeepWithDestin --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destingerek/message

Destin Gerek is joined by Jayson Gaddis, relationship expert and therapist, to unpack the complexities of parenting in the modern world, the journey of personal transformation, and the essence of forging resilient relationships. They dive into how parents often handle their children's emotional upheavals, the repercussions of using screens as a regulatory crutch, and the transformative power of embracing the full spectrum of one's life experiences. This episode is brought to you by: Lit - Love & Intimacy Tools is a boutique sensation tools brand offering a luscious new take on adult toys. Lit pairs gorgeous, high-end sensual toys with fun practices to deepen authentic intimacy through the mindful exploration of sensual pleasure. Their work is based on somatic arts, the science of touch, nervous system regulation, vagal nerve theory, and authentic relating. Each tool comes with an intimacy practice to deepen your connection. Use the code Destin to save 10% or get their Totally Lit Kit with all 12 tools for 25% off. https://www.litup.love/destin Use Promo Code: DESTIN to receive 10% off your order! Key Insights: Emotional regulation is not just a personal skill but a legacy we pass on to our children. Personal growth is often birthed from the pain points in our relationships. Holding space for children's emotional expressions is a powerful act of parenting. The 'screen dilemma' in parenting is a mirror reflecting our own discomfort with strong emotions. Notable Quotes: "When you avoid conflict outside, you create conflict inside." "Conflict is always a doorway into a deeper connection." Timestamps: 00:02:14 - The Impact of Parental Emotional Regulation on Children 00:10:05 - Destin's Journey from the 'Erotic Rockstar' Years to Grounded Husband and Father 00:18:30 - The Significance of Resilience and Autonomy in Adolescents 00:28:55 - Navigating the Screen Time Challenge in Parenting 00:40:40 - The Role of Emotional and Nervous System Regulation in Relationships 00:51:25 - The Art of Conflict Resolution and its Role in Strengthening Relationships 01:03:15 - How Jayson Gaddis Turned Relationship Pain into Growth Opportunities 01:15:45 - Strategies for Repairing and Deepening Relationships Post-Conflict Resources: Jayson Gaddis's book, "Getting to Zero" The Relationship School – Jayson's educational platform Guest Bio: Jayson Gaddis, a renowned therapist and educator, is the founder of The Relationship School and the host of The Relationship School Podcast. He is dedicated to helping people learn the art of fulfilling relationships through powerful frameworks and tools. Connect with Jayson Gaddis: Website: JaysonGaddis.com Instagram: @JaysonGaddis Call to Action: If you found value in today's conversation, please Subscribe, Rate us, leave us a review on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode with someone who could benefit from these life-changing insights. Your support helps us grow and continue to bring you impactful discussions like this one. Connect with Destin: For more on how to evolve your own masculine or feminine journey, reach out to us at: Website: DestinGerek.com Instagram: @DestinGerek TikTok: @DestinGerek Youtube: @DivingDeepWithDestin --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destingerek/message

Destin Gerek converses with the captivating Lana Shay. Lana, a former stripper turned spiritual seeker, shares her unique journey and insights into the world of sensuality, spirituality, and self-discovery. This episode explores the transformative power of embracing one's erotic self and redefining societal norms around sexuality and strip clubs. Key Points Discussed: Lana Shay's Unique Journey: Lana delves into her past as a stripper, discussing her experiences and the spiritual awakening that reshaped her perspective on sensuality and self-expression. Spiritual Stripper Concept: Lana introduces the idea of a "spiritual stripper" and how her profession became an avenue for spiritual growth and self-discovery. Tantra and Sexuality: The conversation touches on the integration of tantra into personal and professional lives, highlighting its role in sexual awakening and healing. Conscious Strip Clubs: Lana proposes a new concept of strip clubs, aiming to transform them into spaces of healing, connection, and respectful sensual expression. Overcoming Societal Stigma: The episode challenges societal stigmas surrounding strip clubs and the sex industry, advocating for a more open and accepting view of sexuality. Personal Transformation: Destin and Lana reflect on how their personal journeys have influenced their professional lives and their mission to empower others in their sexual and spiritual paths. Listeners can expect to gain a deeper understanding of how integrating spirituality and sexuality can lead to a more empowered and enlightened existence. They will learn to challenge and reshape their views on sensuality, strip clubs, and societal norms, leading to personal growth and greater acceptance of diverse expressions of sexuality. Support the Show! Please Subscribe, Rate, and Review! This episode is brought to you by: Lit - Love & Intimacy Tools is a boutique sensation tools brand offering a luscious new take on adult toys. Lit pairs gorgeous, high-end sensual toys with fun practices to deepen authentic intimacy through the mindful exploration of sensual pleasure. Their work is based on somatic arts, the science of touch, nervous system regulation, vagal nerve theory, and authentic relating. Each tool comes with an intimacy practice to deepen your connection. Use the code Destin to save 10% or get their Totally Lit Kit with all 12 tools for 25% off. ⁠https://www.litup.love/destin⁠ Use Promo Code: DESTIN to receive 10% off your order! Connect with Lana Shay: Website: lanashay.com IG: instagram.com/iamlanashay Book: "Erotic Hustle, Redefining Sin Through Sacred Sexuality and Psychedelics" available where books are soldhttps://www.amazon.com/Erotic-Hustle-Redefining-Sexuality-Psychedelics/dp/1620069121/ Where to Find Destin Gerek: Website: https://destingerek.com IG: http://instagram.com/destingerek TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@destingerek YouTube: http://youtube.com/@divingdeepwithdestin --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destingerek/message

In this episode, Destin Gerek delves into the realm of limitless love and societal change with Kenya Stevens, the star of the TLC show ”Seeking Brother Husband.” Shaped by her early exposure to ancient African traditions and Tantra, and her upbringing as the daughter of a Black Panther, Kenya explores her polyamorous lifestyle, emphasizing community and interconnectedness. She challenges Western cultural norms and shares her unique perspective on creating a new societal framework centered around understanding, acceptance, and communal evolution. The conversation offers an insightful look into Kenya's revolutionary vision of relationship dynamics and societal transformation. This episode is brought to you by: Lit - Love & Intimacy Tools is a boutique sensation tools brand offering a luscious new take on adult toys. Lit pairs gorgeous, high-end sensual toys with fun practices to deepen authentic intimacy through the mindful exploration of sensual pleasure. Their work is based on somatic arts, the science of touch, nervous system regulation, vagal nerve theory, and authentic relating. Each tool comes with an intimacy practice to deepen your connection. Use the code Destin to save 10% or get their Totally Lit Kit with all 12 tools for 25% off. ⁠https://www.litup.love/destin⁠ Use Promo Code: DESTIN to receive 10% off your order! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destingerek/message

In this episode of “Diving Deep with Destin,” Destin Gerek converses with Kenneth Play, a renowned sex hacker and author. Kenneth shares his journey from deep sexual insecurity to becoming a leading sex educator, challenging societal and pornographic standards of masculinity. They discuss the importance of pleasure, kindness, and emotional connection in sex, rather than focusing solely on physical attributes. The conversation also covers practical aspects of sexual mastery, the significance of empathy and consent, and the societal challenges surrounding sexual education. This episode highlights the transformative power of self-identity and confidence in sexual interactions, advocating for a more open and informed approach to sexuality. Connect with Kenneth Play: https://kennethplay.com/ https://www.instagram.com/kenneth_play Check out Kenneth's incredible Uncensored Video Course to master giving pleasure to a woman: Beyond Satisfied Pro (buying thru this link helps support this podcast!): https://DestinGerek.com/beyond-satisfied Connect with Destin Gerek: https://DestinGerek.com http://instagram.com/destingerek http://tiktok.com/@destingerek This episode is brought to you by: Lit - Love & Intimacy Tools is a boutique sensation tools brand offering a luscious new take on adult toys. Lit pairs gorgeous, high-end sensual toys with fun practices to deepen authentic intimacy through the mindful exploration of sensual pleasure. Their work is based on somatic arts, the science of touch, nervous system regulation, vagal nerve theory, and authentic relating. Each tool comes with an intimacy practice to deepen your connection. Use the code Destin to save 10% or get their Totally Lit Kit with all 12 tools for 25% off. ⁠https://www.litup.love/destin⁠ Use Promo Code: DESTIN to receive 10% off your order! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destingerek/message

Let's embark on a transformative journey with Destin Gerek, a globally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, and personal empowerment. As a Certified Sexologist and the author of "The Evolved Masculine" he delves into the depths of sex, love, and personal evolution. He is the director of the award-winning powerful short film "Seductive Devotion", offering an inspiring alternative narrative in a society dominated by stories of male perpetrators and harm inflicted upon women. Through his flagship program, “Sexual Self-Mastery” he has trained over 2000 men to master their sexual energy and become attuned, evolved lovers. Destin guides men to harness their sexual energy, forging powerful connections with themselves and others. Join us for an in-depth journey into evolved masculinity and transformative revelations.In this episode, we cover the following:How did Destin was called to his workDestin as the erotic rockstar and exploring boundaries The journey to deep exploration into personal empowerment.The shift to The Evolved Masculine archetypeThe importance of integrating the healthy feminine aspect within masculinityThe pickup industryHow does the process of collaborating with someone unfold?On becoming a parent, embracing devotion and imperfectionsConnecting with the communitySexual Self-MasteryImportance of addressing shame and its compounding effect on sexual issuesShort Film: Seductive DevotionReconnect with one's body and experiencing life fullyHelpful links:Destin Gerek author of THE EVOLVED MASCULINE: Be the Man the World Needs and the One She Craves and host of Diving Deep with Destin, Sex, Love, and Evolution PodcastFree 60-min webinar training: Sexual Self-Mastery: Become the Best Lover She's EVER Had!Seductive DevotionFollow him on Instagram, Facebook, TiktokEvolved Masculine Facebook GroupEpisode #121 Peace In and Through the Body with Mark WhitwellWhat is Epigenetics?Find Rosebud Woman on Instagram as @rosebudwoman, Christine on Instagram as @the.rose.woman, and on Tiktok as @therosewoman108. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Can penis owners really have multiple orgasms in one sexual experience? If so, why have so many men never experienced it? What are the pleasure benefits of learning to have multiple orgasms? Are there health benefits as well? How can penis owners learn to have multiple orgasms? Is it hard to do? And where do they start? What if someone starts to practice learning how to have multiple orgasms but isn't seeing any shifts. And what if my penis owning partner is multi-orgasmic and I (say a pussy owner) am not. Can I learn to have multiple orgasms the same way they can? Repeat guest Destin Gerek answers all this and more. About our guest: Destin Gerek is a globally recognized author, speaker, and coach in masculinity, sexual self-mastery, and personal empowerment. Destin is the founder and CEO of The Evolved Masculine, a pioneering coaching and training company for men, and author of the best-selling book The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and The One She Craves. He routinely writes and lectures on men's and women's sexuality, relationships, porn addiction, premature ejaculation, multiple orgasms for men and women, circumcision, embodied trauma, and more. Links: http://destingerek.com/shameless https://www.facebook.com/DestinGerek/ https://www.instagram.com/evolvedmasculine/ https://www.youtube.com/user/destingerek https://twitter.com/destingerek Join us for our live Topless (and tapas) book reading in San Francisco on Wednesday, November 15th! Tickets are limited to snag yours ASAP here Pre-order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders). Other links: Try one of favorite (free) dating apps at feeld.co Get 20% off The Personal Massager by Butter Wellness when you go to butterwellness.com and use the code “SHAMELESS” at checkout Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

SEDUCTIVE DEVOTION, 7min,. USA Directed by Destin Gerek In a society where narratives of male perpetrators and harm inflicted upon women prevail, “Seductive Devotion” emerges as a powerful experimental short film presenting an inspiring alternative. Through captivating imagery and a stirring poetic voiceover, the film portrays a positive model of how a man can profoundly and healingly show up for a woman. It challenges societal norms and redefines love, intimacy, and relationships, highlighting the transformative energy between souls. “Seductive Devotion” celebrates vulnerability, courage, empathy, strength, receptivity, and grace, igniting a yearning for the level of committed desire depicted on screen. In a time marked by mistrust and division, this visually arresting and emotionally resonant film offers a refreshing perspective on the healing power of love and understanding, fostering positive change in our perception and engagement in intimate relationships. http://seductivedevotion.com/ https://instagram.com/destingerek Get to know the filmmaker: It seems that too many people have forgotten how to love. The divide between men and women has become so stark. The constant blame, shame, and negative assumptions about each other seem so prevalent. I am a lover of love. I am a lover of women. I am a lover of the feminine: this mysterious and indescribable energy, that I have trained myself over the years to become very attuned to. A force that seems largely misunderstood by our culture. Yet, just as much, notions of masculinity have become so distorted. I wanted to showcase a dynamic between a man and a woman that exemplifies devotional love – to show what it can mean and look like for a man to show up for, and to uplift, a woman with all that he has. And to do so in a way that not only doesn't weaken him, but through which he finds a deeper power that exists within himself. You can sign up for the 7 day free trial at www.wildsound.ca (available on your streaming services and APPS). There is a DAILY film festival to watch, plus a selection of award winning films on the platform. Then it's only $3.99 per month. Subscribe to the podcast: https://twitter.com/wildsoundpod https://www.instagram.com/wildsoundpod/ https://www.facebook.com/wildsoundpod

Destin Gerek discusses sexual self-mastery and personal empowerment. Destin Gerek is a globally recognized author, speaker, and coach in masculinity, sexual self-mastery, and personal empowerment. Destin is the founder and CEO of The Evolved Masculine, a pioneering coaching and training company for men, and author of the best-selling book The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and The One She Craves. He routinely writes and lectures on men's and women's sexuality, relationships, porn addiction, premature ejaculation, multiple orgasms for men and women, circumcision, embodied trauma, and more. A native of Long Island, New York, Destin is well-educated in sexuality through traditional and progressive educational modalities. He holds a degree in sociology and human sexuality from New York University, performed graduate studies in human sexuality at San Francisco State, is a State of California Certified Somatic Sexologist through the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, and is a Certified Sexologist through The American College of Sexologists International. He trained under Joseph Kramer, the founder of the Sexological Bodywork profession, and coaching pioneer Rich Litvin. He has also completed training in Tantra, Neuro-Linguistic Programming, Hypnosis, and several trainings with Tony Robbins, including Leadership Mastery.Professionally he spent seven years as an andrological educator with Project Prepare, working with universities, teaching medical students how to perform the more sexually sensitive exams, as well as how to talk to their patients about sexually sensitive issues. And he was the co-founder and teacher of The Erotic Spirituality Practitioners' Training, a three-day weekend intensive seminar for practitioners and teachers.He has led over two dozen workshops at Burning Man for thousands of participants. He has also appeared at Lightening in a Bottle, the Lucidity Festival, Symbiosis, and A Taste of Love Festival (Australia). He has spoken at several International Conferences of Sexuality and Consciousness, both in US and Berlin, Germany, and was the Master of Ceremonies for their 2011 event.His innovative lens results from more than twenty years of academic rigor and direct study – including seven formative years traveling the world living and teaching as his provocative alter ego, ‘The Erotic Rockstar.' Destin has integrated the most potent aspects of his bold life experimentation into his iconic body of work, directly supporting thousands of men and women to have better sex and deeper connections to their power, their partners, and themselves. Destin is a happily married father of two residing in San Diego. https://www.evolvedmasculine.com/

Our guest this evening is Destin Gerek, his journey has taken many different roads in order to peel away the layers and discover himself and is some cases reinvent himself as a man, hence his latest offering, “The Evolved Masculine” which has also led him to his latest and greatest why, inspiration, devotion to being a family man.

 Destin Gerek is a globally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, and personal empowerment. A Certified Sexologist through The American College of Sexologists International, he is the founder and CEO of The Evolved Masculine, a pioneering coaching and training company for men, and author of the best-selling book “The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and The One She Craves.” We talk about “spiritual f*ckboys,” masculine and feminine energies, teaching men to do better and to get into alignment, performative masculinity, “nice” guys, sensitive boys, and Tantric mythology and philosophy.   Destin: https://www.evolvedmasculine.com/   Good Moms, Bad Choices: https://www.goodmomsbadchoices.com/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.   Loving disclaimer:  Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show. 

Is it true that men are so toxic that most end up betraying their partners? Has “toxic masculinity” driven men to cheat openly, often and without regret? Destin Gerek is a globally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, and personal empowerment. He is founder and CEO of The Evolved Masculine, a pioneering coaching and training company for men, and author of the book "The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and The One She Craves.” According to Destin, we need a new type of masculinity — the evolved man who is vulnerable and empathetic, and less likely to cheat, hurt and betray. The irony is at one time Destin was the self-proclaimed Erotic Rockstar and had innumerable worldwide sexual conquests. He'll tell us how he went from that to becoming an evolved masculine. Destin says there are eight rules to live by that lessen the evolved man's likelihood to cheat. He and I don't get through all the rules, but we do hit the big ones. Join us !

Sex is proof that things can be simple and complex as the same time. Men are no exception, and it's an unhelpful stereotype male sexuality is the same as a light switch: on and off. Destin and I connected to break this stereotype down, and dive into not just the symptoms of issues men face in the bedroom, but the underlying issues and how to approach them. Listen in with your partner and, uh, not in the car with your kids! Destin Gerek is a globally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, and personal empowerment. He is founder and CEO of The Evolved Masculine, a pioneering coaching and training company for men, and author of the book “The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and The One She Craves”. Destin is also an international speaker and host of the podcast, "The Evolved Masculine: Redefining Sex, Power, & Success". His innovative lens is the result of more than 20 years of academic rigor and direct study -- including 7 formative years traveling the world living and teaching as his provocative alter ego, ‘The Erotic Rockstar'. Destin has taken the most potent aspects of his bold life experimentation and integrated it into his iconic body of work, directly supporting thousands of men to have better sex, deeper connections to their masculine power, women, and themselves.   Connect with Destin -FREE video for ManTalks followers! https://evolvedmasculine.mykajabi.com/understanding-women-mantalks -Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evolvedmasculine/ -LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/destingerek -Twitter: https://mobile.twitter.com/destingerek -Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/destingerekprofile -Book: The Evolved Masculine: https://amzn.to/3s3cMl8 Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the self-leadership they're looking for. Are you looking to find purpose, navigate transition, or fix your relationships, all with a powerful group of men from around the world? Check out The Alliance and join me today.  Check out our Facebook Page or the Men's community. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts  | Spotify For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

As more men access their primal s.xual energy, the world will be a more balanced place. In this fiery episode, Certified Sexologist + CEO of The Evolved Masculine, Destin Gerek joins me to talk about accessing the primal sexual energy as a man, what might be getting in the way of your being able to harness it, + techniques for sex that will amplify your orgasmic potential. We even give the partners of men tips on how to invite the conversation towards more sensual, slow, and present type of sex. This episode is packed with sexy goodness. In this episode you'll hear: Redefining sex to be more than intercourse The cultural struggles + wounds men have to navigate as it relates to sex How to responsibly respond as a partner when shame comes up Strategies for men to release the pressure on performing and having more pleasurable experiences Tips on non-ejaculatory orgasms + moving sexual energy through the body How to communicate your needs efficiently to either slow things down or turn it up a notch THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUEST Destin Gerek is a Certified Sexologist through The American College of Sexologists Int'l, he is the founder & CEO of The Evolved Masculine, a pioneering coaching and training company for men & author of the best-selling book “The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and The One She Craves”. Destin hosts the D3c0d1ng W0m3n podcast, live streamed on Twitch and distributed on most platforms. Want to join his Men's Self Mastery program? I HIGHLY recommend. Check it out here: http://EvolvedMasculine.com/sexloveyoga LINKS MENTIONED ON THE SHOW: Erotically Undone: 6 week course for women - https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/EroticallyUndone Start your journey to coming back home to your body + developing a sensual relationship. Grab my FREE Sensual Sundays Guide full of all my favorite products + Sunday ritual to reconnect with your pleasure once again. https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-sundays If you're desiring a deeper dive into the lifestyle of sensual pleasure, come join me for a 14 day initiation into Sensual Awakening. Learn the foundations of activating your pleasure senses, creating luxury without expense, + cultivating a lovership with your body, again. https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-awakening --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/eatplaysex/message

Episode 14: Destin Gerek, Dr. James Pfaus, and Owen Muir, M.D. In this episode, we talk to Destin about his Sexual Self-Mastery program. We examine the neurobiology of embodiment, learn about how Destin facilitates the learning of sexual skills, and contemplate how sexual growth relates to psychological growth.

What do men really want and what do women really want? For this episode, I have the privilege to interview a globally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexulity, and personal empowerment, Destin Gerek. Come join us in this all-tell no-holds-barred discussion about how to be the man the world needs and the man she craves for.   Join our community at https://www.facebook.com/groups/tribesmen.official and share your thoughts on this episode with other Tribesmen.    Chazak ve'Ematz!

Certified Sexologist and world renown educator Destin Gerek joins us once again to teach us all about penis-owners can learn to up their sexual confidence and skills - resulting in the high probability of becoming one of the best lovers their vulva-owning partners has ever had. Not only does he dive into the qualities of what makes a great lover, he also shares plenty of tips, tools and practices that you can begin to implement in your life whether you are single, dating or long-term partnered. In other words, if you are a penis-owner/man who is, has or will be having sex with vulva-owners/women, we strongly suggest you listen to this episode. Oh, and be sure to take him up on his offer to give you more FREE content by clicking here: evolvedmasculine.com/shameless About our guest: Destin Gerek is a globally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, and personal empowerment. A Certified Sexologist through The American College of Sexologists International, he is the founder and CEO of The Evolved Masculine, a pioneering coaching and training company for men, and author of the best-selling book “The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and The One She Craves”. Destin is also an international speaker and host of the podcast, "The Evolved Masculine: Redefining Sex, Power, & Success".   His innovative lens is the result of more than 20 years of academic rigor and direct study -- including 7 formative years traveling the world living and teaching as his provocative alter ego, ‘The Erotic Rockstar'. He has taken the most potent aspects of his bold life experimentation and integrated it into his iconic body of work, directly supporting thousands of men to have better sex, deeper connections to their masculine power, women, and themselves. Destin is also is the creator of the groundbreaking and life changing 12 week Sexual Self Mastery Training Program. To learn more visit evolvedmasculine.com/shameless Other links: Take your (sexual) health into your own hands with at-home test kits + get 20% off at everlywell.com/shameless Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com    

Episode 7: Destin Gerek and Dr. James Pfaus. In this episode, Destin Gerek, a teacher of sexual self-mastery for men, and Dr. James Pfaus, a world-renowned expert in the neurobiology of human sexuality, discuss the neuroscience of orgasm without ejaculation. In the process, they examine the nuances of control and surrender in male sexuality, how the neurology of the pelvis relates to our state of mind, and how changing your sexuality can change your personality, and maybe even your life.

This episode is about becoming the man the world needs and the ONE she wants by transitioning into your most confident, powerful, next-level self. Destin Gerek, from insecure people pleaser to the Erotic Rockstar to Founder of The Evolved Masculine. Destin has twice-over reinvented himself to live a truly extraordinary life. In his own words: I have dedicated my life to helping you learn how to cultivate your masculine power, learn the secrets of sexual self-mastery and understand how to give women the powerful experience of a man that they crave. All rooted in a set of ethics that you can feel proud of aligning yourself with, and proud of the man that you become… For Messenger Entrepreneurs on a Mission! FREE Training - How to get your own TEDx Talk http://talkXcelerator.com/Masterclass This quest takes me across the globe to interview the world's most successful minds and sharing my own insights along the way. As I continue to learn and implement the “Hacks” to life. Connect across social media @AwakenYourAlpha @AdamLewisWalker to join the conversation.

Destin Gerek is a globally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, and personal empowerment. A Certified Sexologist through The American College of Sexologists International, he is the founder and CEO of The Evolved Masculine, a pioneering coaching and training company for men, and author of the best-selling book "The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and The One She Craves". Destin has taken the most potent aspects of his bold life experimentation and integrated it into his iconic body of work, directly supporting thousands of men to have better sex, deeper connections to their masculine power, women, and themselves.   On this Episode: Destin Gerek | https://instagram.com/evolvedmasculine  Adam Jackson | https://www.instagram.com/adam___jackson     Sacred Sons Events:  CONVERGENCE VI | OCT 28 - 31 | https://www.sacredsons.com/convergence6  Use Promo Code: ‘C6100' for $100 Off!   The BROTHERSHIP: Join Our Online Community and Mobile App | https://www.sacredsons.com/thenetwork     CONNECT with Sacred Sons: Website | https://www.sacredsons.com   YouTube | https://youtube.com/channel/UCgkxve4wyzqYlRhwhXldLxw   Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/sacredsons   Events Calendar | https://www.sacredsons.com/events-calendar 

(Replay of Sunday July 18th, 2021.) On today's episode, Laura and Joan chat with Destin Gerek, author of The Evolved Masculine, about the potential for men to tap into their feminine side and the considerable power that it yields. Destin also provides practical advice for reinvigorating sex dynamics in relationships. Destin Gerek // https://www.evolvedmasculine.com/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  On today's episode, Laura and Joan chat with Destin Gerek, author of The Evolved Masculine, about the potential for men to tap into their feminine side and the considerable power that it yields. Destin also provides practical advice for reinvigorating sex dynamics in relationships. Destin Gerek // https://www.evolvedmasculine.com/   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Destin Gerek, founder & CEO of The Evolved Masculine and author of the best-selling book of the same name, joins us again to process his life story from the previous episode. Destin's struggle to heal his physical pain in adolescence led to a sexual and spiritual journey that spans activism, world travel, tantra, sexological bodywork along with many and varied lovers. He explains how all his experiences led to unlocking the core secrets of healing the body, being an epic lover, and loving as an Evolved Masculine. Destin describes the Evolved Masculine as a life path, not a destination, that not only redefines masculinity, but also honors the other half of divinity, the feminine. This new way of being can not only lead a man to an epic sex life, but also to a deeper connection to his own body and spirit and that of his lovers. Please join us as Destin unfolds these important truths. Destin's website: https://www.evolvedmasculine.com Free webinar: Evolved Masculine Power: Become The Man The World Needs & The ONE She Craves FB: https://www.facebook.com/DestinGerek IG: https://www.instagram.com/evolvedmasculine/ Where to find co-host Sunny Megatron: Website: http://sunnymegatron.com Facebook http://facebook.com/sunnymegatron Twitter http://twitter.com/sunnymegatron Instagram http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron YouTube https://www.youtube.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2HroMhWJnyZbMSsOBKwBnk TV Show, Sex with Sunny Megatron https://www.sho.com/sex-with-sunny-megatron/season/1 Where to find co-host Kate Loree: Website: http://kateloree.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KateLoreeLMFT/ Twitter http://twitter.com/kateloreelmft Instagram http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithkateloree YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSTFAqGYKW3sIUa0tKivbqQ Open Deeply podcast is not therapy or a replacement for therapy. Please know this episode has themes of sexual and emotional abuse and neglect. If you catch yourself becoming emotionally overwhelmed by this episode's content, please get support. Call a friend, therapist, or an emotional support hotline, such as, 800-273-talk (8255).

Destin Gerek, once the Erotic Rockstar and now founder of the Evolved Masculine, is a globally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, and personal empowerment, but he didn't start there. He was profoundly changed after witnessing the pain of his high school girlfriend who is a rape survivor. His deep empathy for her led him to question our concept of masculinity and masculinity within himself for years. Later, he became a victim of police brutality causing him to fall into an existential questioning of humanity. But life has never let Destin retreat for long. Fate led him to Mexico, where he initially hung with a group of Mexican Zapatista revolutionaries, but finally found a spiritual group rooted in a Toltec philosophy. It was these visionary thinkers that shifted his life trajectory and world view. His next phase included traveling the world, experiencing many incarnations, and an epic sexual odyssey. Finally, he morphed into the man he is today, directly supporting thousands of men to have better sex, deeper connections to their masculine power, women, and themselves. Please join us for another amazing episode of Open Deeply. Destin's website: https://www.evolvedmasculine.com Free webinar: Evolved Masculine Power: Become The Man The World Needs & The ONE She Craves FB: https://www.facebook.com/DestinGerek IG: https://www.instagram.com/evolvedmasculine/ Episode Link: Emily Nagoski's Ted Talk: The truth about unwanted arousal. https://www.ted.com/talks/emily_nagoski_the_truth_about_unwanted_arousal?language=en Where to find co-host Sunny Megatron: Website: http://sunnymegatron.com Facebook http://facebook.com/sunnymegatron Twitter http://twitter.com/sunnymegatron Instagram http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron YouTube https://www.youtube.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2HroMhWJnyZbMSsOBKwBnk TV Show, Sex with Sunny Megatron https://www.sho.com/sex-with-sunny-megatron/season/1 Where to find co-host Kate Loree: Website: http://kateloree.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KateLoreeLMFT/ Twitter http://twitter.com/kateloreelmft Instagram http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithkateloree YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSTFAqGYKW3sIUa0tKivbqQ Open Deeply podcast is not therapy or a replacement for therapy. Please know this episode has themes of sexual and emotional abuse and neglect. If you catch yourself becoming emotionally overwhelmed by this episode's content, please get support. Call a friend, therapist, or an emotional support hotline, such as, 800-273-talk (8255).

What do men tend to misunderstand about sex and sexual pleasure? Can a lack of body sensitivity be the underlying cause of sex and intimacy issues? What practices can men do to increase sensitivity, and thus sexual pleasure (both for ourselves and our partners)? In this episode, my guest, renowned and certified sexologist Destin Gerek, ... Read more

What are some of the ways men have been conditioned to think about sex and how can they approach it in a different way - not only to be better lovers but to have more profound sexual experiences themselves? How can men experience full body orgasms, multiple orgasms, non-ejaculatory orgasms, and learn to last as long as they want? Destin Gerek answers all this and more.  Be sure to check out his free video offering at evolvedmasculine.com/shameless We also answer a sex question about how to orgasm during partner play.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 20.  About our guest: Destin Gerek is a globally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, and personal empowerment. A Certified Sexologist through The American College of Sexologists International, he is the founder and CEO of The Evolved Masculine, a pioneering coaching and training company for men, and author of the best-selling book “The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and The One She Craves”. Destin is also an international speaker and host of the podcast, "The Evolved Masculine: Redefining Sex, Power, & Success".   His innovative lens is the result of more than 20 years of academic rigor and direct study -- including 7 formative years traveling the world living and teaching as his provocative alter ego, ‘The Erotic Rockstar’. He has taken the most potent aspects of his bold life experimentation and integrated it into his iconic body of work, directly supporting thousands of men to have better sex, deeper connections to their masculine power, women, and themselves. Destin is also is the creator of the groundbreaking and life changing 12 week Sexual Self Mastery Training Program. To learn more visit evolvedmasculine.com/shameless Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 20% off Like A Kitten's Couple's Box at likeakitten.com/shameless or use code Shameless  Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast    

As the author of The Evolved Masculine ( https://www.amazon.com/Evolved-Masculine-World-Needs-Craves-ebook/dp/B082RHDBWH ) and founder & CEO of The Evolved Masculine, Destin Gerek is a leading voice in conscious masculinity. Today, he shares his experience living the archetype of the “erotic rockstar” and how the evolved masculine was birthed from his life experiences. Destin unpacks what it takes to evolve your masculinity, how connecting to your feminine will make you a better lover, and how to lean into the face of pleasure as well as pain. Today on That Sex Chick: * How Destin moved from erotic rockstar to evolved masculine * Connecting to your feminine to be a better lover * A practice for lasting longer in bed * How you can achieve sexual self-mastery * Being in awe of the feminine through pregnancy & birth * How society would operate when in the feminine vs. masculine Follow Destin: * Instagram: @evolvedmasculine ( https://www.instagram.com/evolvedmasculine/?hl=en ) * Website: evolvedmasculine.com ( https://www.evolvedmasculine.com/ ) * Book: The Evolved Masculine ( https://www.amazon.com/Evolved-Masculine-World-Needs-Craves-ebook/dp/B082RHDBWH ) * Podcast: The Evolved Masculine ( https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-evolved-masculine-redefining-sex-power-success/id1173959060 ) Connect with Alexa: * thatsexchick.com ( https://www.thatsexchick.com/ ) * IG: @thatsexchick ( https://www.instagram.com/thatsexchick/ ) * Referenced Book: Spirit Babies ( https://www.amazon.com/Spirit-Babies-Communicate-Child-Youre/dp/0385338120 ) This show is produced by Soulfire Productions ( http://soulfireproductionsco.com/ )

Destin Gerek IS the Erotic Rockstar. We have connected twice - once as a guest on Intimate Conversations Live and again for Brave, Bold, and Raw. His interviews are purely electric! While he is every bit delicious, he also has that heart that can touch you in no time at all. He has this amazing sense of himself and the world, yet he also knows how to rock you to the very core. For Brave, Bold, and Raw - we talk about how to be Bad Ass Yummy! Always incredible information, utterly delicious conversation, and an inspiration to those who listen and are ready to do the work. Enjoy! Video was originally part of the Brave, Bold, and Raw Series p.s. Take our FREE Assessment. Our Intimacy Blindspot Assessment is a quick, simple yet effective assessment so you can discover how to have the sexual freedom, healthy communication and deep connection you deserve - https://allanapratt.com/quiz  Gentlemen…End the Fear of Rejection. Enjoy your "How To Be A Noble Badass" Complementary Training at www.GetHerToSayYes.com Ladies…Be irresistible. Feel sacred. Attract him now.Enjoy your "Vulnerability is the New Sexy" Complementary Training at http://allanapratt.com/vulnerability Featuring music by: 4 Chambers - written by Aeone / BMI Published by Angleterre Music /BMI

Whether we're talking about COVID or the recent police brutality incident, we see a lot of energy flowing. Just turn on to the news or look around you! But, at the same time, we also see people trying to move on with their lives and pretend that nothing's really going on. The Evolved Masculine, as we continue to learn about, is not like that. We know that he is a man of principles and values that he stands for. So join my guest Sanyika “The Firestarter” Street and me, as we talk about how to engage in the midst of this moment.   Among many topics, we will get into:  Finding out the truth that there are no blacks and whites. Operating on non-negotiable commitments. Leaning into the discomfort. This is beyond quote cards and Facebook posts! How people are picking values as a business exercise and not willing to die for it.  Stepping into the fire. What does that mean? Do you want to be right or explore? Dealing with anger and judgment. Sanyika's experience with difficulty finding employment because of his skin color and name! The real difference between Black Lives Matter and All Lives Matter.  Identifying your values at this point in time. Your belief can lead to actions that lead to a more significant impact!   ~   About Sanyika Street:   Sanyika "The Firestarter" Street is a POWERHOUSE. He lights the FIRE in you so you can light up the world.   He teaches people how to stop negotiating with themselves pick one path and go ALL IN, via his High-Performance Coaching Program, The All In Method. It's about living in the black and white, NO GREY.   As High-Powered Storyteller & Speaker, Sanyika uses spoken word storytelling as an innovative method to tell stories for some of the biggest brands in the world. He's worked with Sony Playstation, FOX Network, The US Department Of Defense, Universal Music Group and INK Global.   For more, you can reach the firestarter on IG @FirestarterLive~   ~   You can find Sanyika Street on... Website: https://www.firestarterlive.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/firestarterlive/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/firestarterlive/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/firestarterlive/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVfP3vfLpsQsvu7U9Qzji1g     You've seen the hashtag, now actually go check out the website: http://BlackLivesMatter.com   ---   Connect with Destin Gerek! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evolvedmasculine Facebook: http://facebook.com/DestinGerekProfile The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs & the One She Craves: http://evolvedmasculinebook.com/ The Evolved Masculine Membership: http://evolvedmasculine.com/membership Website: https://www.evolvedmasculine.com/ [FREE] The Evolved Masculine Blueprint: http://evolvedmasculine.com/blueprint   P.S. If you received any value whatsoever from this episode please press SUBSCRIBE ✅, RATE & REVIEW this podcast!

As a man, I have wrestled with my sexuality most of my life.  That’s why I love it when other men are willing to “go there.”  Here’s another rich conversation with two men getting honest about us guys in the bedroom.  I first spoke to Destin Gerek a few years ago in episode 98 about evolving masculinity, and the man who used to call himself the Erotic Rockstar joins me again in episode 292 to build off that conversation and talk his new book The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs & the One She Craves. Click here to listen. We discuss what an evolved man looks like 2020, why some men fear their masculinity, and the vulnerability of embracing the feminine within. We also talk intimately about common male sexuality issues and feeling satisfied not only with our partners, but with ourselves. This is a good one for men AND women -- go check it out!   Shownotes: 2:53 Introduction Destin Gerek 8:05 Masculine and feminine energy 10:00 Why some men are afraid to show their masculine side 11:25 The impact of the #MeToo movement on men 17:00 How men can use their sexuality as a gift for women 24:40 Men must believe they are worthy of sex 27:00 How can men cultivate a healthy sexual relationship? 31:25: What can men do to improve their sexual performance 44:30 How our relationship with our parents affect the relationship with our partners 48:20 How men can be better husbands and a better dads 54:15 Action Step   Useful Links: https://relationshipschool.com/rct/ https://www.evolvedmasculine.com/ https://www.amazon.com/Evolved-Masculine-World-Needs-Craves/dp/1734144106 https://www.facebook.com/groups/relationshipadviceformen/ http://relationshipschool.com/connected

Conspiracy theories are thriving right now on social media about the current crisis. Why is there a massive distrust with both the government and mainstream media? What are we really to believe? And where do we go from here? Join my guest Daniel Pinchbeck and me as we talk about how humanity can move forward in these trying times and understand these events on a deeper level. Among many topics, we will get into:    How both the government and traditional mainstream media have lost the trust of so many millions of Americans, and what we can do about it. Which parts of the conspiracies are facts, and what is simply distraction?  COVID-19's effect on the environment and the ideal ways to replenish the planet. The gifts of Trump-ism and concerns with the upcoming election. Finding ways to unify ideas and understandings. Why is it difficult for progressives to achieve the level of organization shown on the right? The world leaders being trapped in their egos and how egoic structures can be reprogrammed.  How can society accept and embrace the reality of psychedelic experiences? Are there actually there spiritual forces at play with what's going on?   ~   About Daniel Pinchbeck:   Daniel Pinchbeck is the author of How Soon is Now?, Breaking Open the Head, and 2012: The Return of Quetzalcoatl. He co-founded Evolver.net, Reality Sandwich, and his new online project Liminal.news ~   You can find Daniel Pinchbeck on... Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pinchbeckdaniel/ Website: http://pinchbeck.io Blog: http://liminal.news/author/dpinchbeck/   ---   Connect with Destin Gerek! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evolvedmasculine Facebook: http://facebook.com/DestinGerekProfile The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs & the One She Craves: http://evolvedmasculinebook.com/ The Evolved Masculine Membership: http://evolvedmasculine.com/membership Website: https://www.evolvedmasculine.com/ [FREE] The Evolved Masculine Blueprint: http://evolvedmasculine.com/blueprint   P.S. If you received any value whatsoever from this episode please press SUBSCRIBE ✅, RATE & REVIEW this podcast!

What do the terms gender, biological sex, and sexual orientation really mean? Have you thought about the pronouns you use? Why should we be programmed to think in black and white when we know that's not the case? Join my guest Terra Lyn Anderson and me as we talk about redefining sex and the subtleties and differences within. This is such a great learning experience, and I wish that you learn with me on this episode. We will talk about:   The establishment of connection simply through the use of appropriate pronouns. The understanding of the new generation with the use of non-binary vocabulary. Terra's disagreement against this “binary” or “non-binary” mindset. Why can't there be ways to define others like Terra in a specific way like “man” or “woman”? Historically-gendered roles. Is cooking a delicate thing even if knives and fire are associated with it? And more...   ~   About Terra Lyn Anderson:   Terra Lyn Anderson MA, R-DMT, LPC-Intern, centers the queer, trans and non-binary community in their work as a diversity consultant and gender/sex therapist in Portland, OR. Terra is the owner and visionary of Embody Emerge, LLC, a training, consulting and counseling organization dedicated to ending gender and sexuality-based oppression through education and advocacy. Terra is a published author, certified sex coach, and erotic activist working passionately to support the LGBTQ+ community to access greater pleasure, fulfillment and connection by empowering the body as a guiding force for personal transformation. As a queer gender non-conforming femme, Terra pledges themself to a future where all bodies are free from social oppression to live and love in ways that truly celebrate the beauty in our differences.   ~   You can find Terra Lyn Anderson on... Website: https://www.embodyemerge.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/embodyemerge/   ---   Connect with Destin Gerek! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evolvedmasculine Facebook: http://facebook.com/DestinGerekProfile The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs & the One She Craves: http://evolvedmasculinebook.com/ The Evolved Masculine Membership: http://evolvedmasculine.com/membership Website: https://www.evolvedmasculine.com/ [FREE] The Evolved Masculine Blueprint: http://evolvedmasculine.com/blueprint   P.S. If you received any value whatsoever from this episode please press SUBSCRIBE ✅, RATE & REVIEW this podcast!      

Author Destin Gerek joins Ashley to talk about his recently released, bestselling book, "The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and The One She Craves." Together they take a deep dive into intentional self-transformation, societal expectations around masculinity, and rising like a phoenix from life's most painful moments. About our guest: Destin Gerek is a globally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, and personal empowerment. He is founder and CEO of The Evolved Masculine, a pioneering coaching and training company for men, and author of the best-selling book “The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and The One She Craves.” Destin is also an international speaker and host of the podcast, "The Evolved Masculine: Redefining Sex, Power, & Success".   His innovative lens is the result of more than 20 years of academic rigor and direct study -- including 7 formative years traveling the world living and teaching as his provocative alter ego, ‘The Erotic Rockstar’.  Destin has taken the most potent aspects of his bold life experimentation and integrated it into his iconic body of work, directly supporting thousands of men to have better sex, deeper connections to their masculine power, women, and themselves. Bonus: Download a free copy of Destin's book by clicking this link: http://EvolvedMasculine.com/free-chapter To find more about Destin Gerek, visit his website www.evolvedmasculine.com or follow him on Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram http://fb.com/destingerekprofile http://twitter.com/destingerek http://instagram.com/evolvedmasculine To find more about Elevated Intimacy Podcast, visit www.ElevatedIntimacyPodcast.com or follow www.instagram.com/elevatedintimacy To keep up with Ashley, visit www.CannaSexual.com or visit www.instagram.com/cannasexual Special thanks to our sponsors Foria and Sybian. Use coupon code CANNASEXUAL at www.ForiaWellness.com to save 10% on purchases. If you have comments or ideas for future episodes, please email podcast@elevatedintimacy.com Please like, subscribe, and review!

What happens when you write a book where you share what you were most afraid to share? ⁣ ⁣ A lot. ⁣ ⁣ Destin Gerek is a globally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, and personal empowerment and today, he joins me for a deep dive conversation that sheds light on the aftermath of vulnerability. ⁣ ⁣ In this episode, you’ll learn why it’s important to share what you’re most afraid to share, why you don’t have to respond to people who debate or question your ideas on social media, how to know when to respond to people online when you’re feeling reactive, why you need to keep impact AND service in mind when sharing your story, and the best ways to share vulnerable stories that involve other people. ⁣ ⁣ Destin is the founder and CEO of The Evolved Masculine, a pioneering coaching and training company for men, and author of the book “The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and The One She Craves”. ⁣ ⁣ Destin is also an international speaker and host of the podcast, ""The Evolved Masculine: Redefining Sex, Power, & Success"".  His innovative lens is the result of more than 20 years of academic rigor and direct study -- including 7 formative years traveling the world living and teaching as his provocative alter ego, ‘The Erotic Rockstar’. ⁣ ⁣ Destin has taken the most potent aspects of his bold life experimentation and integrated it into his iconic body of work, directly supporting thousands of men to have better sex, deeper connections to their masculine power, women, and themselves. ⁣ Connect with Destin…⁣ Facebook: www.facebook.com/destingerekprofile ⁣ Instagram: www.instagram.com/evolvedmasculine ⁣ YouTube: www.youtube.com/destingerek ⁣ Twitter: www.twitter.com/destingerek ⁣ Website: www.evolvedmasculine.com ⁣ ⁣ Download a free chapter of ‘The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs and the One She Craves’: www.evolvedmasculine.com/book/free-chapter ⁣ ⁣ And buy the book HERE: www.evolvedmasculinebook.com ⁣ ⁣ If you dig this podcast and want to receive weekly leadership advice and inspiration, join my email community! www.rubyfremon.com/subscribe⁣ ⁣ And find me online everywhere: @iamruby

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"We shame the feminine in other men, and most importantly within ourselves."Author of The Evolved Masculine, Destin Gerek, returns to the show to discuss his new book, masculinity, growth, fatherhood and more. Healthy masculinity requires balance with the feminine. #RealMenFeelEpisode 169, February 11, 2020 See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs and the One She Craves Show Guest: Destin Gerek Every Crisis Has an Answer. The public spotlight showcasing what not to do or be as a man has a new level of severity, but few role models are lighting the way forward. Drawing on his 20-year career as a sexuality and leadership coach for men, Destin Gerek brings the full tour de force of his extraordinary lived experience as the Erotic Rockstar and acclaimed professional expertise to create inspiring new models of possibility for men. Destin spearheads this new paradigm through the compelling (and at times explicit) personal stories and practical proven techniques in this book, which show men how to have greater confidence, more and better sex, and hotter, more satisfying relationships with women. Evolution has taught us that it is neither the strongest nor the most intelligent that survive, it is those who are most adaptable to change. Men are being called to rise, to redefine their roles. And, amid this "crisis of masculinity," the men committed to walking the Evolved Masculine path are leading the way.

How can we be both a man who is safe + a man women sexually crave? Destin Gerek talks to us about the complex changes in our social climate around what it means to be ‘masculine’ and how it’s impacting our sex + love lives. He shared with us his newly launched book around being an ‘evolved masculine’ and how one can master his sexuality while still maintaining strength in integrity, safety, and conscious relating.  In this episode you’ll here: The concept of polarity in building sexual desire + magnetism between lovers. Where to start in our discovering + healing deeply seeded wounds impacting our ability to relate with more ease + authenticity Tools in achieving sexual mastery Principles to strive for in becoming an evolved masculine Concepts in the conscious men’s movement that may be causing confusion or missing the target. What qualities in sex leave women craving for more How to become the man that unleashes his sexuality while still remaining safe + in conscious relating. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/eatplaysex/message

Join Tasha Simms and Marc Caron as they speak with Destin Gerek, an internationally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, and personal empowerment. Destin will be in Vancouver presenting at the co Creative Sex Summit this coming Valentines Day weekend. He will be leading workshops on The Evolved Masculine: Presentation, Guided Visualization, and Q&A;  Sexual Self-Mastery for […] The post The Evolved Masculine with Destin Gerek appeared first on Conscious Living Radio.

What would a heart-centered, spiritually connected man who respects and reveres women and is really empowered in his sexuality—what would that look like? What would that feel like? Destin Gerek is the creator of The Evolved Masculine, a platform designed to help men cultivate our masculine power, learn the secrets of sexual self-mastery and understand how to give women the powerful experience of a man they crave. An internationally recognized thought leader in the realm of masculinity, sexuality and personal empowerment, Destin is on a mission to redefine what it means to be a man in the 21st century. He is also the host of The Evolved Masculine Podcast the author of the forthcoming book, The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs and the One She Craves. On this episode of Men on Purpose, Destin joins Emerald to share the experience that made him see men’s sexuality as dangerous and discuss his commitment to actively explore masculinity and what it means to be a man in this world. He weighs in on the unhelpful, toxic messaging men receive for being too masculine or too feminine, challenging us to look within for a deeper truth. Listen in to understand Destin’s work around sexual self-mastery and learn how viewing sex as a full-body experience will change the way you show up with a partner. What You Will Learn The experience that made Destin see men’s sexuality as dangerous Destin’s exploration of what it means to be a man in this world Destin’s challenge to become the role model you wish you had The limitless possibilities available to us through our core essence How to deeply listen + honor women’s voices without acquiescing The toxic messaging men get for being too masculine or feminine Why Destin actively seeks both men and women as coaches Destin’s work around helping men achieve sexual self-mastery The client Destin helped transform his personal life and career Destin’s insight on looking at sex as a full-body experience How a focus on exploration shifts how you show up with a partner Connect with Destin Gerek The Evolved Masculine Connect with Emerald GreenForest Creative Age Consulting Group Emerald’s Website Emerald on LinkedIn Emerald on Twitter Emerald on Instagram Email: listeners@menonpurposepodcast.com Leave Us A Message On Our listener line:   540-402-0043 x3333 Resources The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs and the One She Craves by Destin Gerek Wickedly Smart Women Podcast This episode is sponsored by the Creative Age Consulting Group. Men - Is it time NOW for you to make your mark? Visit timetomakeyourmark.com to apply for an invitation-only consultation.

In this episode I’m joined by Larry Fredrick a highly experienced and accomplished evolved masculine coach. He shares the intimate details of his journey of personal growth through the catharsis of the early punk rock movement, transcending a failing marriage, getting into self-help, pick-up artistry, and ultimately a diverse array of spiritual and sexual mastery programs. He has a down-to-earth perspective on learning and teaching practical self-improvement skill sets for men. With over 10 years of advanced training and practice he’s developed the “Rock Your Cock” program for men to really step into their power from a place of heart-centered, mindful, and spiritual consciousness. I was most intrigued by his stories of experiencing authentic traditional tantric initiation in the jungles of India and his explanation of how he’s been able to adapt the teachings and apply them in his own love and sex life, as well as transmit the teachings to his students. It was a deep honor and pleasure to have this opportunity to speak with a fellow rocker who’s living the dream as a tantric punk, has worked directly with many of my heroes, and who embodies forms of tantric magic that you can’t learn from books alone. About Larry: Larry Fredrick is an award winning international educator. He’s also a sex coach; licensed and certified in Erotic Blueprints, Sexological bodywork, Neurolinguistic Programming, Hypnotherapy, and Somatic Sex Education. Larry works with men who want to clearly find and express their desires so they can feel empowered in finding passion, pleasure, and juicy hot sex. He has traveled the globe, from the mountains of Peru to Tantric temples in the jungles of India, training with some of the top names in the fields of self transformation and sexual education including Jaiya Ma, David Deida, Michaela Boehm, Destin Gerek, Satyen Raja and Joseph Kramer. From having issues with erectile dysfunction, performance and social skills, to becoming a multi-orgasmic man with the skills and techniques of a confident lover, Larry helps men step into their full erotic power so they can have more confidence in the bedroom and in their relationships. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/embody.awakening.1 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/embodyawakening/ Website: http://www.embody-awakening.com/

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In this episode I’m joined by the most seminal and influential male mentor in my life path of tantra. Destin Gerek’s work really set me in motion back in 2009 and there would be no tantra punk had I not been deeply moved by his insights. As destiny would have it, our paths would cross and we’d discover co-creative synergy over the course of several years. Our mutual aid of each other’s projects and passions resulted in my appearance in his sexual self mastery for men online training course. To sign up for the course please click here! We discuss: his journey of personal exploration, research and development of the program, and what he has learned over the years of offering it the behind the scenes of the production of the instructional videos in which I was featured the importance of this work to advance masculinity deprogramming from sex negative culture the outline of the program modules and the theory and philosophy behind the practices sacred set and setting without being too woo woo how women need boys to become men, in bed and beyond how men need to learn to heal rather than wound with their sexuality the need for leadership and men’s groups to help the masculine evolve my experience during the shoot, my intentions and hopes to help men become more conditioned for better love and sex within and beyond themselves the future of erotic media projects we’ve discussed in the past how earlier works in our careers may finally see the light of day Please listen to our previous podcast at: https://tantrapunk.com/the-future-of-masculinity-and-erotic-media-with-destin-gerek-tpp53/ Please visit Destin’s websites at: https://www.evolvedmasculine.com/ http://destingerek.com/ About Destin: Destin Gerek is an internationally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, and personal empowerment. The greatest power of Destin’s transformational work is that he embodies it. Destin has taken all that he’s learned, studied, and explored, and integrated it fully into his being, such that he really walks his talk. As host of “The Evolved Masculine: Redefining Sex, Power, & Success” podcast, Destin brings 20+ years of direct study, training and active life experimentation to help you have better sex, deeper connection to your masculine power and understand women and most importantly yourself like never before. Recognizing the need for new role models for men in these changing times, Destin is dedicated to redefining and evolving masculinity for the 21st century. Author of the forthcoming book “The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and The One She Craves” due out late Summer 2019.

Destin Gerek is an internationally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, consciousness, and personal empowerment.  Recognizing the need for new role models for men in these changing times, Destin is dedicated to redefining masculinity for the 21st century. As host of “The Evolved Masculine: Redefining Sex, Power, & Success” podcast, Destin brings 20+ years of direct study, training and active life experimentation to help men have better sex, deeper connection to their masculine power and understand women like never before.

In this episode I’m joined by the most seminal and influential male mentor in my life path of tantra. Destin Gerek’s work really set me in motion back in 2009 and there would be no tantra punk had I not been deeply moved by his insights. As destiny would have it, our paths would cross … Continue reading Sexual Self Mastery Training for Men: Behind the Scenes with Destin Gerek TPP195 →

In this episode I’m joined by the most seminal and influential male mentor in my life path of tantra. Destin Gerek’s work really set me in motion back in 2009 and there would be no tantra punk had I not been deeply moved by his insights. As destiny would have it, our paths would cross … Continue reading Sexual Self Mastery Training for Men: Behind the Scenes with Destin Gerek TPP195 →

"Two years ago on a coaching course in LA, I met Destin Gerek, at a time in my life when I was a mess in how I was relating to women. At the time I knew I'd found a man who could really help me sort out what was holding me back from having the romantic life I wanted. Prior to meeting him, I'd studied and worked with pick-up artists who were the alpha-male "I'll help you date multiple hot women" types. Rating women out of 10. Focusing on sex as the goal. Going out with wingmen to prey on women. Marking endless notches on their belt and leaving a trail of hurt behind them. Unable to form quality relationships of depth with women. But Destin was different. He really cared about women. He deeply understood the importance of safety for women, both physical and emotional. His wisdom on seduction went far deeper than the professional seducers I'd worked with. They were like kindergarten students compared to him. It was a life-changing pleasure to do the equivalent of a PhD in Understanding Women with him during my time as his apprentice. My work with Destin was one of the major components of moving from a place of having loveless or toxic relationships with women, as well as a lot of empty casual sex, to a place of being in an awesome healthy relationship with an incredible woman. A relationship that has real depth of love. A relationship that found and continues to find my edges for expansion. Where my beloved and I create the kind of relationship that works for us, rather than blindly follow how we were told a relationship should be. The work I did with Destin was the fire-cracker up the bum I needed. To turn my focus to being a student of women, with full authenticity. To understand that although there'll always be an element of mystery to women, there is a LOT that can be understood by a man. To understand that the journey of understanding women continues until the last breath. To understand that very few men on the planet really understand women well. To understand that most of the men who claim to understand women, only understand them at a relatively superficial level." --@Dave McDermott

How does healing our sexuality contribute to peace on the planet? Find out this week on Wild Soul Medicine Radio when I drop in for a poignant and timely conversation with Destin Gerek. Destin Gerek is a transformational empowerment coach and creator of The Evolved Masculine who takes men deep into their masculine core, awakening sexual energy, and harnessing this newfound power to passionately manifest their best life. Referred to by the press as Tantra meets Tony Robbins, Destin is an internationally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, consciousness, and personal empowerment. Recognizing the need for new role models for men in these changing times, Destin is dedicated to redefining masculinity for the 21st century. Since Destin is currently in Japan with his wife and baby girl, we pre-recorded our session last night. I thoroughly enjoyed dropping in deeply with this highly sensitive and interesting human. We talked about his experience of his first girlfriend being raped shortly before they got together and how that shaped the work he now does in the world. It was refreshing to hear this man’s perspective on the #MeToo movement, victim consciousness, and the Inner Landscape of men. No stranger to controversy, we also covered his recent dust up on social media and his creation of a Safe Space on his Facebook wall. Together we inquired around how to reconcile silencing dissenting voices and where to draw the line with victims becoming abusers. I hope you’ll join us this week to add your heart to this Soul Conversation. None of us has all of the answers, but Together we will find our way. With Love, Jody

How does healing our sexuality contribute to peace on the planet?Find out this week on Wild Soul Medicine Radio when I drop in for a poignant and timely conversation with Destin Gerek.Destin Gerek is a transformational empowerment coach and creator of The Evolved Masculine who takes men deep into their masculine core, awakening sexual energy, and harnessing this newfound power to passionately manifest their best life. Referred to by the press as Tantra meets Tony Robbins, Destin is an internationally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, consciousness, and personal empowerment. Recognizing the need for new role models for men in these changing times, Destin is dedicated to redefining masculinity for the 21st century.Since Destin is currently in Japan with his wife and baby girl, we pre-recorded our session last night.I thoroughly enjoyed dropping in deeply with this highly sensitive and interesting human.We talked about his experience of his first girlfriend being raped shortly before they got together and how that shaped the work he now does in the world.It was refreshing to hear this man’s perspective on the #MeToo movement, victim consciousness, and the Inner Landscape of men.No stranger to controversy, we also covered his recent dust up on social media and his creation of a Safe Space on his Facebook wall.Together we inquired around how to reconcile silencing dissenting voices and where to draw the line with victims becoming abusers.I hope you’ll join us this week to add your heart to this Soul Conversation.None of us has all of the answers, but Together we will find our way.With Love,Jody

How does healing our sexuality contribute to peace on the planet?Find out this week on Wild Soul Medicine Radio when I drop in for a poignant and timely conversation with Destin Gerek.Destin Gerek is a transformational empowerment coach and creator of The Evolved Masculine who takes men deep into their masculine core, awakening sexual energy, and harnessing this newfound power to passionately manifest their best life. Referred to by the press as Tantra meets Tony Robbins, Destin is an internationally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, consciousness, and personal empowerment. Recognizing the need for new role models for men in these changing times, Destin is dedicated to redefining masculinity for the 21st century.Since Destin is currently in Japan with his wife and baby girl, we pre-recorded our session last night.I thoroughly enjoyed dropping in deeply with this highly sensitive and interesting human.We talked about his experience of his first girlfriend being raped shortly before they got together and how that shaped the work he now does in the world.It was refreshing to hear this man’s perspective on the #MeToo movement, victim consciousness, and the Inner Landscape of men.No stranger to controversy, we also covered his recent dust up on social media and his creation of a Safe Space on his Facebook wall.Together we inquired around how to reconcile silencing dissenting voices and where to draw the line with victims becoming abusers.I hope you’ll join us this week to add your heart to this Soul Conversation.None of us has all of the answers, but Together we will find our way.With Love,Jody

How does healing our sexuality contribute to peace on the planet?Find out this week on Wild Soul Medicine Radio when I drop in for a poignant and timely conversation with Destin Gerek.Destin Gerek is a transformational empowerment coach and creator of The Evolved Masculine who takes men deep into their masculine core, awakening sexual energy, and harnessing this newfound power to passionately manifest their best life. Referred to by the press as Tantra meets Tony Robbins, Destin is an internationally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, consciousness, and personal empowerment. Recognizing the need for new role models for men in these changing times, Destin is dedicated to redefining masculinity for the 21st century.Since Destin is currently in Japan with his wife and baby girl, we pre-recorded our session last night.I thoroughly enjoyed dropping in deeply with this highly sensitive and interesting human.We talked about his experience of his first girlfriend being raped shortly before they got together and how that shaped the work he now does in the world.It was refreshing to hear this man’s perspective on the #MeToo movement, victim consciousness, and the Inner Landscape of men.No stranger to controversy, we also covered his recent dust up on social media and his creation of a Safe Space on his Facebook wall.Together we inquired around how to reconcile silencing dissenting voices and where to draw the line with victims becoming abusers.I hope you’ll join us this week to add your heart to this Soul Conversation.None of us has all of the answers, but Together we will find our way.With Love,Jody

I was honored to speak on this panel along with two incredible pioneers in spirituality and consciousness. Listen in as we discuss dating in the aftermath of #metoo, and personal mental, emotional, spiritual shifts that are needed in order to move towards more harmonious relating between men and women.

Destin Gerek, a transformational empowerment coach, joins Tatiana Berindei to explore the divine masculine and the rise of consciousness. He specializes in helping people tap deep into the masculine core, awaken sexual energy, and harness this newfound power to passionately manifest biggest visions, and create the life of dreams. Referred to by the press [...]

Destin Gerek is a transformational empowerment coach who specializes in helping you tap deep into your masculine core, awaken your sexual energy, and harness this newfound power to passionately manifest your biggest visions, and create the life of your dreams. Referred to by the press as Tantra meets Tony Robbins, Destin Gerek is an internationally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, consciousness, and personal empowerment.  Recognizing the need for new role models for men in these changing times, Destin is dedicated to redefining masculinity for the 21st century. Alexa begins by introducing Destin, and alluding to him as an erotic rock star, before handing over the spotlight. Destin tells her his views on the #metoo campaign, and what he's observed about the behaviors of men since that campaign began. He also explains what Alexa meant by the Erotic Rock Star, and the adventure that it was. He talks about the two types of guys: the bad boy, and then the anti-bad boy, and how each identity plays a role in a woman's feeling emotionally safe as well as desired. He also tells Alexa about how he shifted himself away from being considered a serious partner, and what happened when he decided he wanted to change that. Destin talks about what men can do for modern women, and he and Alexa discuss intuition versus logic and reason. The two also get into conscious sexuality, and how Tantric experiences and BDSM experiences can both create a level of consciousness within a person. Destin also gives some insights throughout the show on what makes an Evolved Man, and the benefits of having that awareness.   Quotes “Previous to three months ago, we've had large scale denial that we even had an issue” “I challenged myself to become the role model that I wished that I had” “How ever you present yourself to the world, it's a mask” “Women aren't seeing me as a potential partner, they're seeing me as a fun ride they want to experience” “There are things that men need to hear from another man”   Links http://EvolvedMasculine.com http://EvolvedMasculine.com/blueprint http://DestinGerek.com Social Media http://facebook.com/destingerekprofile http://facebook.com/destingerek http://twitter.com/destingerek

Destin Gerek, a dynamic self-mastery coach, is a man living his life as art. Destin has gracefully carved out an enduring position for himself as a world respected figure in neo-Tantra and sexuality education. As a sought-after sexuality and transformational life coach, speaker, blogger, and educator on all aspects of masculinity, sex, sacred sexuality, Tantra, and erotic empowerment, Destin Gerek is challenging traditional societal beliefs and helping people create powerful change in their lives in the process. Destin Gerek: http://destingerek.com/ Ronnie Landis: http://www.ronnielandis.net

Destin Gerek, a dynamic self-mastery coach, is a man living his life as art. Destin has gracefully carved out an enduring position for himself as a world respected figure in neo-Tantra and sexuality education. As a sought-after sexuality and transformational life coach, speaker, blogger, and educator on all aspects of masculinity, sex, sacred sexuality, Tantra, and erotic empowerment, Destin Gerek is challenging traditional societal beliefs and helping people create powerful change in their lives in the process. Destin Gerek: http://destingerek.com/ Ronnie Landis: http://www.ronnielandis.net

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In this episode I’m joined by Destin Gerek for a discussion about the future of sacred masculinity and conscious erotic media. He shares an overview of his background and path to become a tantric sexual healer and erotic empowerment coach, then offers a beautiful and powerful intentional meditation. We end by opening an ongoing discussion about sexual health best practices and bringing tantric ethics and techniques to the adult entertainment industry. Destin’s Bio: Destin Gerek is a transformational empowerment coach who specializes in helping you awaken your sexual energy, while harnessing this newfound power to passionately manifest your biggest visions, and create the life of your dreams. A globally recognized thought leader in the realms of sexuality, consciousness, and personal transformation. Destin has been working in the field of human sexuality for over 17 years. In 2004, Destin experienced a massive spiritual reawakening while hitchhiking through southern Mexico. Since that time, Destin has made it his life’s purpose to help catalyze an elevation in global sexual consciousness. http://www.destingerek.com

Lucia Gabriela is founder and director at Nuna Holistic Retreat Center | Coach | Integrative Somatic Therapist | Tantra Facilitator and Teacher. Lucia Gabriela helps individuals and couples to master their life, intimacy and relationships with themselves and others. Her passion is to create a safe and sacred space for women and men to deeply explore many aspects of themselves, purge emotional and/or sexual traumas that are holding them back from manifesting what they desire, heal their inner child, embrace their shadows, connect with their higher self, reconnect with their own body's wisdom, align with their true essence, live their higher potential, and master their sexual life in all realms. They can then create their life with awareness, maturity, self responsibility, radical self-love, and full commitment to explore their sexual and spiritual evolution. Lucia Gabriela specializes and works with individuals whose journey is to free themselves from emotional and sexual traumas, and helps them to reclaim their creative power, body, voice, sensuality and sexuality plus to welcome joy, bliss and delight into their lives, creations and relationships.Click here to book a complementary Awakening Call to explore what is holding you back from being sensual, feeling sensual, and embodying your sensual essence. At the end of the call, we will explore what customized experiences are available to you, such as coaching programs, somatic experiences, private or group immersions, and retreats. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

  In this episode we explore Destin Gerek's journey to discover his true masculine, first using costume as a "mask" to create a persona to help bring out the core essence that lives underneath. We discuss gender dynamics, and the loss and confusion some men may feel in this time of the rise of the woman, leading some to resentment and anger, others to disempowerment. So, how can men passionately manifest their biggest dreams with women and sexuality? How can they find and carry power instead of fighting for power? And how can they use this power to become better, responsible men who show up in a way that is real, true, sensual and passionate? Tune in for the answers on episode 43 of the Ignite Intimacy podcast, Men + Sexuality + Dating with Destin Gerek. About Destin: Destin Gerek is a transformational personal empowerment coach for men specializing in masculinity, sexuality, and consciousness. Dedicated to redefining 21st century masculinity, Destin fully embraces his message, walking the talk and being a strong role model for men. Remember that amazing free gift Destin mentioned? You know you want it! Click HERE for Destin’s Free Gift ‘Enticing Desire' Schedule a 20 minute complimentary session with Destin by clicking HERE! Evolved Masculine Blueprint HERE.  

Welcome to Tuff Love with Rob Kandell. Destin Gerek is here to talk about the concept of sexual self-mastery. Rob met Destin in 2005, and had the honor of working with him for about 5 months as he put on something called Evolve Live in January 2015 in Los Angeles. Rob has deep respect for Destin’s dedication to his craft and practice, his profound professionalism, caring and service. The vast majority of his work these days is with men, so while there is certainly overlap between men and women in the concept of sexual self-mastery, the majority of times Destin is speaking about the man’s experience. Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Tuff Love Community today: robertkandell.com Tuff Love Facebook Tuff Love Instagram Tuff Love YouTube Tuff Love LinkedIn

Welcome to Tuff Love with Rob Kandell. Destin Gerek is here to talk about the concept of sexual self-mastery. Rob met Destin in 2005, and had the honor of working with him for about 5 months as he put on something called Evolve Live in January 2015 in Los Angeles. Rob has deep respect for […]

Today’s guest is the remarkable and compelling Destin Gerek, an internationally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, consciousness, and personal development. In this episode, we talk about the rise of the feminine in today’s world, and the ways in which men respond and relate to this. He discusses the empowerment of the masculine and how men can inhabit their masculinity in constructive (rather than misogynistic) ways. He also talks about polarity in relationships and explores how to awaken more passion and bring your relationship to life. Connect With Destin: Destingerek.com@DestinGerek on Facebook@destingerek on TwitterDestin Gerek on LinkedInDestin Gerek on YouTube The Mission Log: [03:03] - Destin shares a bit about himself, explaining how he got involved in his field. He then goes on to talk about his spiritual awakening. [07:17] - We learn more about Destin’s purpose and mission, which involves healing a false schism between sexuality and spirituality. [09:58] - Destin talks about his creative methods of dealing with negativity from the people around him. [11:33] - What does Destin see happening on the planet when it comes to masculine and feminine energy? He speaks to the two poles of men’s reactions to the way women are becoming increasingly empowered. [15:36] - Destin explores the ideology of men on the misogynistic end of the spectrum. He then discusses some of the challenges facing men today. [18:06] - Orion steps in for a moment to talk about the polarization surrounding the Women’s March. [20:27] - At the root of things, Destin is a big fan of feminism, he explains. [23:12] - Destin talks more about helping men evolve their masculine. [25:55] - We hear what the second and third major areas in the journey on which he leads men. In the process, he explains that men (not only women) can have multiple orgasms. [28:19] - Destin discusses the questions of how to meet and match a partner. He goes on to talk about the importance of confronting old wounds in the masculine and feminine. [33:56] - Using a quote from an Ani DiFranco song, Destin clarifies how he thinks about the masculine and feminine within each of us. [35:35] - We all want the hottest lover we’ve ever had and a best friend all in one person. Destin talks about how we can get that. [37:15] - In long-term relationships, how do we ignite and maintain sexual desire and passion? [38:26] - Orion and Destin talk about Jaiya, who was an early guest on each of their podcasts. Destin then talks about “sexploration.” [42:40] - Where do Destin and his fiancee get their ideas for their sexploration sessions? [44:07] - Destin shares his three tips for living a stellar life: 1. Stop compromising. Be in the practice of following your truth. 2. Integrity. Get clear on what your principles and values are, and live by them. 3. Never stop exploring. [46:14] - Destin gives two gifts to Stellar Life listeners. The first is the Evolved Masculine Blueprint, and the second is at enticingdesire.com, where you can learn the “one thing that separates the man she remembers forever from all the men that she forgets.” Your Pre-Flight Checklist: Reevaluate my perspective on sexuality and spirituality. If I see them as opposed or mutually exclusive, work on accepting that they can go hand-in-hand. Release the shame and guilt I may still carry regarding my sexuality. Celebrate my sexuality instead of suppressing or repressing it. Make an email folder specifically for unpleasant or hate mail. Whenever you get a piece, read it, smile, and move it to that folder. Links and Resources: Mantak ChiaKatt WilliamsKatt Williams’ “HATERS” on YouTubeThe Evolved Masculine PathNeuro-linguistic programmingDavid DeidaAni DiFrancoJaiya on Stellar LifeEvolved Masculine Blueprintenticingdesire.com

We are taking a short break here at The Evolved Masculine podcast. Please explore the other 28 episodes in the meantime. And while you are at it, download The Evolved Masculine Blueprint 10-minute guided audio as my free gift to help you step into your own Evolved Masculine Archetype. http://EvolvedMasculine.com/blueprint   To learn more about The Evolved Masculine Path  CONTACT US HERE. In service, Destin Gerek

Do you ever use sex to avoid closeness? Do you know what happens when a man who is called the Erotic Rockstar hits a wall and falls apart? In this intimate episode, we explore these questions and hear a man's vulnerable and raw answers. You'd be surprised at some of what he has to share. There are some nuggets in this very edgy episode. From politics to porn, we cover a lot of ground. Listen to my guest Destin Gerek share his very personal story of overcoming his ego, feeling his emotions and heart, and then sharing what he's learned (and learning) with other men. SHOWNOTES The most important role men can take to help women flourish [26:00] Why women are usually more emotionally accessible than men [31:00] Getting support from other men [33:00] Knowing when the answer is to ‘leave’ [35:00] How to speak so he’ll listen (and hear your hurt) [38:00] The dangers of ‘programming’ yourself with porn [40:00] Noticing the positive and negative effects of porn use [43:00] Why you should remove the word ‘performance’ from your vocabulary [46:00] For men: how to immediately get more present during sex [48:00]  

Destin Gerek joins us to talk about the archetype of the Evolved Masculine, what it means and making a positive impact on the world. We also delve into the notion of toxic masculinity, the power of experience and much more. #RealMenFeelEpisode 46, recorded February 7, 2017RealMenFeel.org See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Michael Hrostoski, founder of The School for Men, joins Destin Gerek to discuss what it 'really' means to take full responsibility for your life, the power of falling in love with yourself and finally feeling 'good enough', their own perilous journey full of pitfalls that got them to where they are today, and of course many more tasty morsels for you to nibble on.

Destin Gerek is joined by Chaim Dunbar, star of the viral video: 'Where are the Men?' to explore what another archetype of modern masculinity can look like, and in doing so give men liberation to be a different, more authentic and complete version of themselves.

Destin Gerek takes your calls and helps you break through the places where you've been feeling stuck in your life. Do you want more confidence in the bedroom, or the boardroom? Do you struggle with what it means to be a man? Are you a woman feeling clueless about what men really want?

Triambika Ma Vive joins our host Destin Gerek to have a deep and passionate conversation exploring the unique sets of challenges facing men in today's world. What does it even mean anymore to 'Be a good man' in today's world?

Miyoko talks with Destin Gerek about what women want and how to find the subtle cues that she’s giving off. Mistakes that men make in the bedroom. The difference between getting in her pants and unleashing her desire for you. (4.19.16 Ep. 68)

When you think of stepping into your leading edge, how often do you equate that with sexual power and sensuality? On this episode, Nancy interviews Destin Gerek, one of the foremost leaders in the space of sexuality consciousness. What does that mean  in the world of leadership? How can you harness your sexual power to show up more authentically and on purpose as a leader?  Sexuality consciousness may be a new term for you, but this episode will open your mind to tapping into a whole new source of personal power. He's definitely on the forefront of creating conversations that are growth oriented and fascinating. Listen in as he shares about masculine and feminine approaches to leadership, building organizations, and how it all ties into your self mastery. Note: This episode's Daily Change Up is FUN. And sensual. And involves... well, tune in and you'll get all the details. Subscribe in iTunes and make sure you leave a 5 star review! https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/itenco-lessons-for-leading/id1079612481?mt=2

Devi speaks with Holistic Sex Educator, Destin Gerek about male sexual passion vs. aggression, the current confused state of the heterosexual male in America, and what women and men can do to change that!Destin Gerek, a dynamic sexual/spiritual empowerment coach, is a man living his life as art. A former film-maker and celebrated performer, Destin has gracefully carved out an enduring position for himself as a world respected figure in neo-Tantra and sexuality education. As a sought-after sexuality and transformational life coach, speaker, blogger, and educator on all aspects of sex, sacred sexuality, Tantra, and erotic empowerment, Destin Gerek is challenging traditional societal beliefs and helping people create incredible change in their lives in the process.A recognized authority in the areas of sexuality, personal transformation, and spirituality Destin is a California State Certified Sexologist through the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, and protégé of world-renowned sexologist Joseph Kramer. A graduate from New York University with a BA, Major in Sociology, Minor in Psychology, and a concentration in Human Sexuality, Destin is also a trained Certified Sex Educator through San Francisco Sex Information. Having participated in hundreds of hours of continuing education, thousands more in research and development, Destin’s depth of experience and educational background is extensive and unique.Contact Destin Gerek~Evolve LIVE: A Spiritual/Sexual Transformation...http://EvolveLiveLA.comEmail Address: Destin@DestinGerek.comWebsite Address: http://DestinGerek.com http://EvolveLiveLA.comTwitter: @destingerekLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/destingerekFacebook: facebook.com/destingerek

[Listen on iTunes] DESTIN GEREK is a transformational empowerment coach who specializes in helping men and women awaken their sexual energy, while harnessing this newfound power to passionately manifest their biggest visions, and create the lives of their dreams. A globally recognized thought leader in the realms of sexuality, consciousness, and personal transformation, Destin has been working in the field of human sexuality for over 17 years. In this episode we discuss: Healing the generational chain of anger in his family. What leads a man to being “That creepy guy.” The most valuable resource in his life (no, it’s not money), and how he used it to create a live workshop for 300 people from 5 continents. Ending the battle of the sexes. Cultivating gratitude for his father and the sacrifices dad made. The power of sacrifice (Hint, the root of the word is “To make sacred.”) What it takes for a man to take responsibility for his turn on (and remove women from the role of sexual gatekeeper). Quotes from this episode: "The connected to your heart part? The part of you that’s aware and has a sensitivity to it? Wonderful! Let’s integrate that with a real ownership of your sexual desires. Claim your sexuality, claim your desires, recognize the gift that your sexuality can be.” "The journey of discovering what it is for me to be a man in the world, where at one time it seemed like this big overwhelming thing that I needed to address or didn't want to address has become this thing where the more I dive into it the more I love who I become." Resources from this episode: www.evolvelivela.com | A Sexual/Spiritual Transformation | Jan 16th-18th 2015 www.destingerek.com www.embodiedman.com

Destin just takes my breath right away. How sensual and exquisite he is, and so delicious and fun! He is heartfelt, masterful, and he knows his message inside and out. On this call we did this amazing breathing technique that..well if you weren't there to experience, you should go right now and listen in! This was a conversation for the books! Destin Gerek, the original Erotic Rockstar™, is a man living his life as art. An erotic film-maker and celebrated performer, Destin has gracefully carved out an enduring position for himself as an esteemed figure in the worlds of neo-Tantra and sexuality education. As a sought-after erotic and transformational life coach, lecturer, blogger, and educator on all aspects of sex, sacred sexuality, Tantra, and erotic empowerment, the Erotic Rockstar™ is shaking up society and helping people create transformational change in their lives in the process. A recognized authority in the areas of sexuality, personal transformation, and spirituality Destin is a California State Certified Sexologist through the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, and protégé of world-renowned sexologist Joseph Kramer. A graduate from New York University with a BA, Major in Sociology, Minor in Psychology, and a concentration in Human Sexuality, Destin is also a trained Certified Sex Educator through San Francisco Sex Information. Having participated in hundreds of hours of continuing education, thousands more in research and development, Destin’s depth of experience and educational background is extensive and unique. Now blazing a path into the world of spiritually-oriented high-end erotic entertainment, Destin is the creator and co-star of the cutting-edge adult film project, Endless Seduction: An Initiation into Ecstatic Pleasure…, featuring top notch erotic media depicting sex in its highest expression. Destin has been featured in television, radio, print, and internet media for his expertise and insight into the often mysterious world of sex. His passion, depth of experience, enthusiastic “sex-positive” message, and no-holds-barred rock star attitude make Destin a lively and smart media “sexpert”. Destin has made appearances on Tech TV, CurrentTV, Showtime, and his work has been featured in Details Magazine, Yoga Journal, San Francisco Chronicle, and other Associates Press syndicated newspapers across the US, and more. Being passionate about education, Destin has extensive experience as a workshop creator and leader. A ten-year participant of the Burning Man Arts Festival, Destin has led numerous workshops on the playa, each packed to capacity with well over 100 participants each. Over the years, Destin has facilitated dozens of erotic workshops ranging from PG to XXX in San Francisco, Los Angeles, San Diego, Sedona, Baja Mexico, Seattle, Ashland, Portland, New York, Maui, Big Island Hawaii, Byron Bay, Sydney, Melbourne, Perth, Bali, and more!

Destin Gerek the Original Erotic Rock Star, shares the secrets of his online course for men – a must for men who want to increase their pleasure as well as their partner’s. … Read more about this episode...

Destin Gerek is the original Erotic Rockstar! http://www.OrgasmicMastery.com We are so excited to feature Destin on Better Sex Radio on 11/18 at 11 a.m. Pacific as we stream live! Destin is a California State Certified Somatic Sexologist through the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, an Erotic Empowerment Coach, and an Erotic Performer and Artist. An erotic educator since he was 18 years old, Destin has taken all that he’s learned, studied, and explored, and integrated it fully into his being, such that he really walks his talk. Tune in on Nov. 18th at 11 a.m. to listen to Destin give our male listeners tips on becoming an extraordinary lover and he will tell us all about his 12 Week Orgasmic Mastery program you can participate in from the comfort of your own home and on your own computer! Do you want to become an Erotic Rockstar? http://www.eroticrockstar.com/about.html Destin works with individuals, couples, and groups and can help YOU take your connection to your own sexuality to the next level. He works with a coaching program that he developed called, “Unleash YOUR Inner Erotic Rockstar!” Destin owns the production company, “Erotic Rockstar Productions” and is committed to creating top-notch erotic media that visually depicts sex at its highest expression of what it can be. (He is also making a SPECIAL OFFER To my BLISS FRIENDS - $50 off his course if you sign up by 11/30 and use the coupon code 3483D6C. Thank you, Destin!) You can also join Destin’s Facebook FanPage: http://www.facebook.com/TheEroticRockstar and you can also join our Better Sex Radio and BlissConnection Fan Page on Facebook at http://www.Facebook.com/BlissConnection Remember, our RADIO SHOW FANS are always eligible for a 15% Discount on our VERY tasteful online Sex Toy store http://www.BlissConnection.com - just use the coupon code RADIO for 15% off and Free Shipping on purchases over $25.

This week, we talk with Destin Gerek, a California State Certified Somatic Sexologist through the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, an Erotic Embodiment Coach, and an Erotic Performer and Artist. He shares about his Orgasmic Mastery course. We also review an eros blog called Eros blog and talk about Dan's cock.