Podcasts about double binds

Ever wondered how to navigate the corporate world as an introverted woman? Join me as we draw inspiration from the incredible resilience of U.S. Vice President & 2024 Presidential Candidate Kamala Harris. Harris's story is a testament to overcoming rejections and biases, especially as a female, and it's a narrative that resonates with many professional women today. Let her experience and determination inspire you to tackle your own leadership hurdles with strength and resolve. This episode is your call to action—embrace the challenges and champion your own path to leadership success._______LET'S CONNECT!Learn more about how I can help you become an elite executive here.If you found this episode helpful, rate the podcast 5 stars.

Important questions not being asked in the Karen Read case.Show Notes: Innocence Fraud Watch "Killer Karen Read: Kevin Lenihan AKA Yellow Cottage Tales & His Flawed Logic & Double Binds"- https://rumble.com/v57azwt-killer-karen-read-retrial-kevin-lenihan-from-yellow-cottage-tales-and-his-d.html Murder of Jovita Navarro - https://law.justia.com/cases/california/supreme-court/4th/4/599.html WCVB5 Brother of John O'Keefe Speaks - https://youtu.be/zHwXBpBONbA?si=qgTCnyTUAVATJeZ1WCVB Channel 5 Boston "4th Juror Says Karen Read..." - https://youtu.be/_m9-CVWzCjk?si=3DoRdNSXMqRlBjfhInnocence Fraud Watch "Killer Karen Read Retrial Will the State Subpoena Kaitlin Boudreau" - https://theerrorsthatplaguethemiscarriageofjusticemovement.home.blog/2024/07/05/killer-karen-read-will-wife-of-brother-nathan-read-flip-tell-commonwealth-what-shes-seen-heard-before-re-trial/Thank you, Patrons!Suzanne Kniffin, Iriana Campbell, Jennifer Klearman, Patricia Linz, Nancy, Judy Brown, Pat Brooks, Linda Lazzarro, Susan Hicks, Jeff Meadors, Donna, Faith Peeples, Jennifer Powell, Cindy G Yurts, Kay Bee, Dana Natale, Debra Couture, Cindy Poschesci, Riverdale Pilates, Luanne Miller, Rachbaum, Kevin Crecy, Renee Chavez, Angela Smith, Melba Pourteau, Julia K Thomas, JS, Stephanie Roach, Stark Stuff, Robyn Ray, K, Kayce Taylor, Yvette Jockin, Karen Cote, Tammie Sheppherd, JenTile, LadyLex, Shari Davis, AussieDood, Katrina Hetherington, Susan Swan, Dean, GiGi 5, Susan, Manjit Ender, Mentour Mentor's Mentee, Kee Sardi, Dana Natale, Marie Patrignani, Bewildered Beauty, MotherofHens, Pepper, Joan, Pat Dell, Blythe, Laura, Plai Braik, Lorraine R, Sandra Guse Van Zealand, Isa, Krissy G, Michelle B, TB , Maria, Erin Faesen, Regan Johnson, AJ Foster, Hugh Ashman, Melissa V, Heyy Manny, Victoria Gray Bross, Toni Woodland, Danbrit, Evan Scott, Holly from Dallas, Kenny Haines, Maureen P and Toni Natalie.Get access to exclusive content & support the podcast by becoming a Patron today! https://patreon.com/robertaglasstruecrimerepor Or throw a tip in the tip jar! https://buymeacoffee.com/robertaglass Or support Roberta by sending a donation via Venmo. https://venmo.com/robertaglass

Jennifer offers a practice to help you get unstuck, inspired by her conversation with filmmaker, writer and educator Nora Bateson.In a culture that privileges the scientific, rational and objective, it's hard to access other ways of knowing. Yet the intuitive, somatic, spiritual and poetic can give us perspective that might bring perspective and relief. Today, Jennifer encourages you to take an inventory of your preferred “ways of knowing” and how less familiar ones might ease (or heal) the places you feel most stuck. If you play with this practice and discover a new way of seeing or experiencing your ‘self' we'd love to hear from you! Links & resources—For more practices and inspiration from Jennifer get weekly inspiring emails to help you navigate the hard mess of leading and being humanFollow Jennifer on Instagram or LinkedInTalk with Jennifer! Share an insight or ask a question here jennifer@sparkcoaching.ca Gratitude for this show's theme song Inside the House, composed by the talented Yukon musician, multi-instrumentalist and sound artist Jordy Walker. Artwork by the imaginative writer, filmmaker and artist Jon Marro.

Are you caught in a double bind? One of those untenable life situations where you feel torn between two seemingly opposing identities or experiences? Jennifer talks with filmmaker, writer and educator Nora Bateson for an intimate look at double binds and how expanding our capacity to perceive what's missing, through warm data, can help us heal them. Starting with the legacy of system thinking giants (her father and grandfather),  Nora and Jennifer get personal and explore—Honoring legacy and breaking cultural paradigmsParenting and art makingHow life's challenges can transform limitation into possibilityHealing as a movement towards greater vitalityTune in for an intimate conversation on what it means to free ourselves from double binds by attuning and "combining" many different ways of knowing.  Gratitude for this show's theme song Inside the House, composed by the talented Yukon musician, multi-instrumentalist and sound artist Jordy Walker. Artwork by the imaginative writer, filmmaker and artist Jon Marro.

What do you do when you feel stuck? Could you imagine shifting your perspective in those moments? In today's mini musing, I explain how to identify double binds in our daily lives and to find sacred thirds when we feel stuck or unsure. I offer an embodied practice for releasing our energetic grip on a double bind, and I share examples of finding a sacred third with my family and with students in Relaxed Money. If you enjoy this episode, please join me in Kate Northrup's free workshop Wide Receiver next week, and I hope to see you in Relaxed Money this spring.   Connect with Sarah Follow Sarah on Instagram Learn more about Sarah's work Join Sarah for 21 Days of Untapped Support Mentioned in the Episode Alchemical Alignment 002 - Mini Musing: The Map That Inspired Threshold Moments 060 – Kate Northrup: From Scarcity to Plenty 053 – Dana Myers: Prioritizing Pleasure Use my affiliate link to sign up for Wide Receiver & Relaxed Money

Welcome to the first installment of this three-part series on the subtle (and sometimes not-so-subtle) mind control tactics employed by high-control groups and MLMs. Join us for Part 1 as we delve into the world of The Double Bind – what exactly is that, how does it impact us, and a firsthand account from Lauren Dunaway, who spent over 5 years in an MLM!You can find Lauren here:https://www.laurenefdunaway.com/https://www.instagram.com/unlearningnutrition/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Im zweiten Teil der dritten Folge mit Wolfram Lutterer nehmen wir Batesons Ausführungen zu Unterschieden, dem Double Bind, Irrtümern und Denkweisen in den Blick. Dazu geht es um… … das Treten von Steinen und Hunden (als Gedankenexperiment!). … Information als einen Unterschied, der einen Unterschied macht. … Batesons Verständnis von Kybernetik. … Alternativen im deutschen vs. französischen Straßenverkehr. … Eindrücke zu Batesons Arbeitsweise. … das bekannte Konzept des Double Binds aus der Schizophrenieforschung. … erkenntnistheoretische Irrtümer und ihre Korrektive. … strenges und lockeres Denken. Viel Freude beim Zuhören! „Im Verlauf der sechziger und insbesondere der siebziger Jahre konstruiert Bateson Stück für Stück seine kybernetische Erkenntnistheorie.“ (Lutterer, 2000, S. 149) Weiterführende Literatur und Links • Bateson, G. (1972). Ökologie des Geistes. (1., deutsche Auflage, 1985). Frankfurt a.M.: Suhrkamp. • Bateson, G. (1979). Geist und Natur. (4. Auflage, 1984). Frankfurt a.M.: Suhrkamp. • Wolfram Lutterers Promotion: Lutterer, W. (2000). Auf den Spuren ökologischen Bewußtseins. Eine Analyse des Gesamtwerks von Gregory Bateson. Freiburg: Libri Books on Demand. • Wolfram Lutterers Einführung in Bateson Werk: Lutterer, W. (2002). Gregory Bateson: Eine Einführung in sein Denken. (2., erweitere Auflage, 2009). Heidelberg: Carl Auer Systeme. • Wolfram Lutterers Website mit seinen Veröffentlichungen. Link: http://www.lutterer.de/ • Kurt Ludewigs und Tom Levolds Rezensionen zu „Ökologie des Geistes“ im Kontext: Ludewig, K. (2008). Der Unterschied ist eine Idee & Levold, T. (2008). Es ist der Kontext, der sich entwickelt. Kontext, 39(2), 191–199. Link: https://www.vr-elibrary.de/doi/pdf/10.13109/kont.2008.39.2.191 • Lina Nagels Buch, in dem es u.a. um die Korrektive für erkenntnistheoretische Irrtümer geht: Nagel, L. (2021). Kybernetik, Kommunikation und Konflikt. Gregory Bateson und (s)eine kybernetische Konflikttheorie. Heidelberg: Carl Auer. Link: https://www.carl-auer.de/kybernetik-kommunikation-und-konflikt • Wolfgang Loths Rezension zu Lina Nagels Buch „Kybernetik, Kommunikation und Konflikt”: Loth, W. (2021). Buchbesprechung – »Nachrichten von Unterschieden« und »Muster, die verbinden«. Kontext, 52(4), 375–381. Link: https://www.vr-elibrary.de/doi/10.13109/kont.2021.52.4.375 • Adventskalender mit Beiträgen zum Unterschied, der einen Unterschied macht im Systemagazin. Beiträge vom 1.12.-24.12.2023. Link: https://systemagazin.com/

Happy New Year! January is Spirtual Abuse Awareness month, and so we're kicking off the New Year with a couple of episodes with Katherine Spearing (@katherinespearing), host of the Uncertain Podcast (@uncertainpodcast) and founder of the nonprofit Tears of Eden.    Katherine defines spiritual abuse as "invoking a religious text or deity as a way to maintain power and control over both individuals and communities." In this episode, we describe the multiple systems in Katherine's life that practiced abusive dynamics--family of origin, churches, the Evangelical system at large. Katherine talks with us about:  Stay at Home Daughters (7:00) Women as Property (9:00) Double Binds of Womanhood (13:00) Arrested Development (17:00) Labeling Abuse and Defining Spiritual Abuse Once More (25:00) Finding a Voice You Never Had (29:00) Individuation (31:00) Phobias and Leaving Cults (39:00) Silent Patriarchy (45:00)  Tears of Eden and Healing (55:00) Learn more about Katherine's work by visiting tearsofeden.org. We're so grateful for her influence and passion for helping folks in the early stages of deconstruction!

My business coach introduced me to double binds and it makes so much sense. I've created them, but a lot of other people in my life have too and it has wreaked havoc. I can now look back on past relationships and why it wasn't working. In this episode, I explore the psychological aspects and my own experience.   Key Takeaways:    [0:42] What a double bind is, the one I created, and some examples  [9:49] The two families that created a double bind for me in childhood over religion [16:22] The psychology behind it and children not understanding [19:54] Having internal double binds with relationships   [22:25] Examples of double binds in media  [25:25] Double binds in politics  [27:52] My Christmas with Roy and how he created a double bind  [34:06] The double bind with Roy after Molly died [38:12] Different examples of double binds in movies and life   [43:12] Not having romantic relationships and my current family dynamic  [45:34] We all have a chance to leave a double bind  [47:26] How I'm feeling about the holiday season  Resources:   Gaslight      Connect with Barb:   Website   Facebook    Instagram   Be a guest on the podcast    YouTube   The Molly B Foundation  

0:00 The contradictory injunction of double binds.• The contradictory injunction in double binds.• The binary trap in cyberpunk. 2:15 The death drive of determinism.• The death drive of determinism.• How to transcend the binary. 4:44 How the capitalist system capitalizes on our stress.• The capitalist system surprisingly capitalizes on stress.• The anxious revolt is fuel for the bureaucratic nightmare. 6:33 Intro to the show.• America and political symbolic winning, and camouflage.• The wild west of America. 8:55 Virtue signaling to win elections.• Virtue-signaling to win elections. 10:58 Trump's anointed tool.• Trump as an anointed tool of the Christian right.• Winning dignity is absurd. 12:54 How symbolic acts can function in reality.• How the symbolic act can function in reality.• Culture of honor, reputational honor. 14:30 Protecting your reputation through overreaction.• Protection through overreaction• The reversal of the reversal. 16:10 You become what you fight you become.• The unseen aspect of antagonistic opposition in step 65.• Respect for native americans over time. 17:47 How we grasp and use models.• Mimetic desire to dissimulate thoughts into the real.• Symbolism as a faulty translation.• Symbols can become an affectation.• The danger of the symbol that is mistaken

You've probably noticed, especially over the last couple of years, that society as a whole feels heavier, angrier, more afraid. Negative emotions like anger always cause harm to our bodies and minds. Getting rid of negative emotions can free us up to do things that we are capable of doing, but would otherwise be unable to do. There are opportunities that we simply can't see when negative emotions have gotten in the way or negative habits of thinking. It's time for you to put that behind you. You need never tell that story again to yourself or to anyone else. You will be shocked at how much of your life is being governed by this heavy bag of stuff you are carrying around, with a story inside of it. I've worked with several clients over the past few weeks. A surprising number of them have been dealing with some anger. In this episode, with permission, I share a portion of one of my conversations with you. I think you will find this helpful. To get hold of me and talk about how I can best help you, go to natewalkercoaching.com/contact-1 and share your thoughts, notes, comments, or aspirations in the comments section. Or, DM me on Facebook, etc.  Tell me how I can help you best, and we'll schedule some time together, free of charge, to discuss it.  Please share this podcast with family and friends.

Neues Jahr und gute Vorsätze - irgendwie gehört es zusammen. Doch wie heißt es so schön: “Der Baum der guten Vorsätze trägt viele Blüten und wenig Früchte.”Gerade bei “guten Vorsätzen” stecken wir schnell in einer dieser Zwickmühlen:ich löse das Fitness-Abo, will aber nicht schwitzen, ich will abnehmen, aber nicht hungern (oder Sport treiben), oder anders ausgedrücktwasch mich, aber mach mich nicht nass.Und auch in der Kommunikation in Unternehmen geraten wir schnell in einen Engpass, wenn sich die Erwartungen auf beiden Seiten enorm voneinander unterscheiden.Wie schaffen wir es, Auswege aus diesen beklemmenden Situationen zu finden und miteinander eine fruchtbare Kommunikation zu gestalten? Gerade, wenn es um die Kommunikation in Unternehmen geht?Wie gehen wir damit um, wenn ein Problem derart komplex ist, dass es “die eine” Lösung vielleicht nicht gibt?

Neues Jahr und gute Vorsätze - irgendwie gehört es zusammen. Doch wie heißt es so schön: “Der Baum der guten Vorsätze trägt viele Blüten und wenig Früchte.”Gerade bei “guten Vorsätzen” stecken wir schnell in einer dieser Zwickmühlen:ich löse das Fitness-Abo, will aber nicht schwitzen, ich will abnehmen, aber nicht hungern (oder Sport treiben), oder anders ausgedrücktwasch mich, aber mach mich nicht nass.Und auch in der Kommunikation in Unternehmen geraten wir schnell in einen Engpass, wenn sich die Erwartungen auf beiden Seiten enorm voneinander unterscheiden.Wie schaffen wir es, Auswege aus diesen beklemmenden Situationen zu finden und miteinander eine fruchtbare Kommunikation zu gestalten? Gerade, wenn es um die Kommunikation in Unternehmen geht?Wie gehen wir damit um, wenn ein Problem derart komplex ist, dass es “die eine” Lösung vielleicht nicht gibt?

“Capitalism defeated traditional societies because it was more exciting than they were. But now there is something more exciting than capitalism: its destruction.” In the face of things with true power (capitalism, the law, public opinion, etc.), philosophy is not provisioned to battle them head-on. But it can wage “a guerrilla campaign against them,” writes Andrew Culp (referencing Deleuze) in his new book A GUERRILLA GUIDE TO REFUSAL. Harnessing critical theory, this book takes us on a journey through a subterranean network of communiques, military documents, contemporary art, political slogans, adversarial blogs, and captive media. This conversation among scholars traces a nonfascist life at the end of the world as we know it.Andrew Culp is professor of media history and theory in the School of Critical Studies at the California Institute of the Arts. He is author of A Guerrilla Guide to Refusal (2022) and Dark Deleuze (2016).Will Conway is a PhD candidate whose research centers around disability, biopolitics, and theories of resistance.Jose Rosales is an independent researcher. With Claire Fontaine and Iman Ganji, they are co-author of Foreigners Everywhere and the author of 'Communism as the Riddle Posed to History' in The Double Binds of Neoliberalism (Rowan & Littlefield, 2022), as well as various other texts that can be found online. Currently, they are co-editor (alongside Andreas Petrossiants) of the multi-volume series, Diversity of Aesthetics. Violet is a queer independent researcher based in India working on theories of resistance, biopolitics, and destituent communism.References:Gilles DeleuzeMichel FoucaultArlette FargeMay 68Jean GenetGuy HocquenghemJohann MostLucy ParsonsFriedrich EngelsPaul B. Preciado (and “Marcos”)Christopher Chitty (Sexual Hegemony)Karl MarxJacques DerridaRoberto EspositoAntonio NegriFélix GuattariBernadette Corporation's Get Rid of Yourself (film)Edward SaidEqbal Ahmad (Confronting Empire)Frantz FanonRobin D. G. Kelley (Race Rebels)Homi BhabhaFred MotenNahum Dimitri Chandler (paraontology)Claire FontaineTiqqunSaidiya HartmanKwame TureNanni Balestrini (The Unseen)     Keywords: archive, power, surveillance, cybernetics, refusal, political, political control, philosophy, anarchy, class, class war, transformationSeveral references are made to specific current events, and as such we want to mention the date of this recording: March 31, 2022.

Bei der Doppelbotschaft, in der Kommunikationspsychologie auch Double-Bind genannt, drückt sich jemand doppeldeutig aus, es werden zwei Botschaften ausgesendet. Der Empfänger weiß nicht genau, welche davon Priorität hat und bleibt verunsichert zurück, etwa so, als würde man zwischen zwei Stühlen sitzen. Doppelbotschaften können, wenn sie bewusst eingesetzt werden, stark manipulativ sein. Besonders in ungesunden Beziehungsdynamiken sind Doppelbotschaften sehr häufig anzutreffen.WERBEPARTNERSCHAFT PlantLife - Right by NatureJetzt unter plantlife.bio bestellen und mit Rabatt-Code "lebenliebenlassen" 15% sparenCLAUDIAAlle Infos zu mir und meinem CoachingDein persönliches Online-Kennenlerngespräch mit mirGeführte Meditationen im AudioshopSOCIAL MEDIAFolge mir auf InstagramDu findest mich auch auf Facebook"Leben Lieben Lassen" auf TelegramHÖRERFRAGEN IM PODCASTStelle mir ganz anonym Deine Frage in der "Leben-Lieben-Lassen"-Sprechstunde und werde Teil der Show. SUPPORTDu fühlst Dich von meinem Podcast inspiriert und möchtest mich und meine gerne Arbeit mit einer Spende unterstützen? Am besten geht das via Steady .Ich danke Dir ;-) See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Rassismus und Diskriminierung sind in der Beratungs-Community angekommen ...? – Sie waren schon immer da und werden auch dort reproduziert – und hier thematisiert. Ilja Gold, Eva Weinberg und Dirk Rohr fordern in ihrem im wahrsten Sinne aufklärenden Buch, Rassismus- und Diskriminierungskritik endlich in die Curricula (nicht nur) systemischer Aus- und Weiterbildungsgänge einzubeziehen. Das hat ja was mit mir zu tun!? Macht- und rassismuskritische Perspektiven für Beratung, Therapie und Supervision ist ein Buch, das dezidiert zeigt, wer wie von strukturellen Machtverhältnissen profitiert – meist unreflektiert – und welche Strukturen hierfür immer wieder aufs Neue reproduziert werden: Sprachlich, habituell, politisch, persönlich. Auch in Beratung und Therapie. Wieder ein Meilenstein in der Reihe Beratung – Coaching – Supervision bei Carl-Auer. Im Gespräch bei Carl-Auer Sounds of Science öffnet Ilja Gold den ganzen thematischen Raum und problematisiert, spezifisch bezogen auf den systemischen Kontext, unter anderem das Konzept "Neutralität" sowie die Muster von Othering und Double Binds im alltäglichen und "professionellen" Rassismus. Mehr Information zu Ilja Gold finden Sie hier: www.carl-auer.de/autoren/ilja-gold "Carl-Auer Sounds of Science" finden Sie auch auf: Apple Podcasts podcasts.apple.com/de/podcast/carl…ce/id1487473408 Spotify open.spotify.com/show/6wX82k2waqcU8IDUK9Vn7o Stitcher www.stitcher.com/show/carlauer-sounds-of-science Deezer www.deezer.com/de/show/862242 SoundCloud @carlauersoundsofscience amazon music https://music.amazon.de/podcasts/7b2d2626-efbb-4890-b3c1-353477581305/carlauer-sounds-of-science Facebook www.facebook.com/carlauersoundsofscience/ Folgen Sie auch unserem anderen Podcast, der "autobahnuniversität", auf: SoundCloud @carlauerverlag Apple Podcasts podcasts.apple.com/de/podcast/carl…1479529658?mt=2 Spotify open.spotify.com/show/0HVLyjAHZkFMVr9XDATMGz amazon music https://music.amazon.de/podcasts/fdb5f2d4-6317-45e6-b67b-894b1efe7aae/carlauer-autobahnuniversit%C3%A4t Facebook www.facebook.com/carlauerautobahnuniversitaet/ Sowie dem Carl-Auer Verlag auf: Twitter twitter.com/carlauerverlag Instagram www.instagram.com/carlauerverlag/ YouTube www.youtube.com/carlauerverlag Facebook www.facebook.com/carlauerverlag/ Oder schauen Sie hier vorbei www.carl-auer.de

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The Psyched by MG team will explain ways to identify these patterns, as well as providing healthy solutions. Stay tuned for Part 2 in this series. 

This week I am joined by my wonderful wife, Melissa, to discuss the psychological principle of double binds and how these are control mechanisms used to deceive, manipulate and control people in not just cults like Scientology but also in domestic partnerships. We talk about what these are, where the ideas come from and I... The post Sensibly Speaking Podcast #287: Scientology and Double Binds appeared first on The Sensibly Speaking Podcast.

The holidays can easily put us in those rock-and-a-hard-place situations. Our ability to manage and maneuver through these situations is tied directly to our health. On today's episode, we identify double binds that arise during the holidays, how they impact our sexual health, and the positive outcomes of handling them well.

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Narcissists are experts at creating and exploiting double binds. In today’s episode we start by talking about a viewer who is worried their spouse has compromised their phone, computer, and emails. Duane then mentions a schedule collaboration with Kris Godinez on her channel. A listener shares that their ex broke into their emails and downloaded steps 1 and 2 from their Alcoholic Anonymous notes sent to their sponsor. We then discuss what to say to your children about what is going on. Duane then takes a caller from Ireland who although never married has kids with his ex and is struggling with custody issues. Duane then discusses the double binds and how it is tough to decide the best of the worst case solutions/decisions. We finish up with a return caller talking about how a toxic narcissistic ex will make you pay emotionally no matter what happens - even if you win in court.Participate in the show!During the show you can call in live at1 (424) 373-54831 (424) DSD-LIVEhttps://www.callinstudio.com/show/DSDLIVE (Web Interface - free dialing)You can also leave a voicemail through the DSD websiteTable of Contents00:00 - Start of show03:47 - Voicemail - worried that ex is tracking them11:33 - Locations of where people are watching from12:45 - Discussion - The new Bill and Ted Movie13:48 - Discussion - Kris Godinez and upcoming visit on her show16:12 - Comment - Ex logged into email step 1&2 of A.A. sent to sponsor16:54 - Comment - Talking to your kids about narcissists19:48 - Comment - Isn’t stealing computer data a crime?20:45 - Caller - Never married but kids and custody issues44:11 - Discussion - Double binds do I go to court?46:29 - Caller - You pay for any “victory” you get57:00 - End of show wrap-upShow SponsorThis episode was sponsored by Hypnosis Downloads - you can find out more and support the Podcast by visiting http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosisLinks to find out more!YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/dadsurvivingdivorceWebsite - https://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.comHypnosis - http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosisYou Get To Be You - https://yougettobeyou.com/duane

Double binds are something we have to deal with in toxic narcissistic relationships. In this episode we talk about how bad they can be and how we are forced to fight things that we may not want to. One caller is dragged back into court because of visitation issues, another is representing himself in our, and finally a dad is struggling to support his daughter and missing her at the same time.Table of Contents00:00 - Show Introduction03:27 - Question - How long did it take to finalize your divorce09:55 - Discussion - I had a viewer confused with someone else12:18 - Caller - Dragged back in court, lies on top of lies47:28 - Caller - Representing yourself - it can work54:29 - Caller - Struggling with double binds and daughter59:34 - End of show wrap upShow SponsorThis episode was sponsored by Hypnosis Downloads - you can find out more and support the Podcast by visiting http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosisLinks to find out more!YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/dadsurvivingdivorceWebsite - https://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.comCommunity Poll - https://www.youtube.com/dadsurvivingdivorce/community/

Have you ever felt alienated by politics, or like you don't belong? Pete Buttigieg has a message for you. We cover his victory speech in Iowa in this fascinating look at how to frame liberal ideas. Listen to this episode to find out: The hypnotic technique of conscious / unconscious dissociation and how Pete uses it here to contrast knowing with not knowing False choices set up through calls to action and cause and effect languaging How Pete empowers the listener; but is it truly them or what they've voted for? The politician that Pete has been watching at home while learning how to be more persuasive Evoking a feeling through artfully vague language and non-specified predicates--How Pete makes them think their feelings are about him. And more! Remember to visit our website (http://www.subliminallycorrect.com) and support us through Patreon (https://www.patreon.com/subliminallycorrect)! You can also follow us on Twitter (https://twitter.com/SubliminalPod) and Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/SubliminallyCorrect/)! (Theme Music: "Night Owl" by Broke For Free from Free Music Archive, CC BY 3.0)

Episode 39. Not a cult? Why so much Kool-Aid? In this episode Ulland and Jo review how DBT may be confused as being a closed group, often misunderstood by other treatment providers from other models. It has been accused as being cult-like from outsiders—just like most cults are accused of being cults from outsiders. They review Theo Dorpat’s book on Gaslighting, Double Binds, and Covert Control in psycho analysis. The unit has a culture of care, but not a CULTure. And . . . the Kool-Aid IS delicious.

Cohosts Leslie Grygiel and Kevin Bronson explore the "double binds" that women encounter in the workplace. Whereas male leaders are considered forthright, assertive or plain-spoken, female leaders demonstrating the same behaviors are often labeled as overly aggressive. A man may know his worth, yet a woman is a shameless self-promoter. Kevin asks: Do we men expect women to have strong leadership qualities until such time as we want them to be nurturing, like the women in our personal life? Join Leslie and Kevin as they explore what men and women can do to meet in the middle on this topic. References include: Lean In: Women, Work and the Will to Lead by Sheryl Sandberg and  "For Women Leaders, Likability and Success Hardly Go Hand-in-Hand" by Marianne Cooper.

As people go about judging this and that as good or bad the double bind emerges where no matter what you or they choose something will be wrong. Here when the bind is rooted in "good and bad" ways of thinking exaggerated emotional responses appear. As bad is always somewhere then so will fight and flight appear where real and tangible danger erupts. Changing the view from good and bad to something that includes the good intentions of nearly everyone who acts, might be a bit more akin to reality. "Good and bad", "right and wrong", these may create the binds that build exaggerated responses. Is "good and bad" normal? Statistically 51 of 100 makes anything normal. The better question may be is it healthy? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/talkifuwant/support

We continue with the theme of "The Art of Saying No," with this episode about the no-win situation of double binds. There are two letters for today's topic, both of which represent people stuck in dilemmas that keep them from moving forward in their lives.  Ask a Wayfinder is an audio advice column that combines wisdom with meditation and mindfulness techniques to help listeners find the path that is right for them. Hosted by life coach and meditation teacher, Dana Wheeles.

Want to dig deeper into the book, then you want the video series that guides a group through the tools in the book. That and more here. For a 15% discount, use PODCAST in the coupon code during check out.    The book is out and you can buy it here or anywhere you get your books. (Note: Amazon link sends a portion of proceeds to my church.)    Interested in a Church Residency/Internship? Apply at Discovery here.  Meanwhile, we dig into double binds - how they are an internal AND relational source of anxiety and how to get through them. 

01:06 – Emily’s Background and Superpower 02:49 – Having a Master’s Degree: Was it worth it? 08:08 – Struggles After Retaining a Master’s 10:31 – Role Model: Emily’s Mom and Her Story 12:11 – “The Double Bind” 14:47 – Experiences Working at a Gaming Company Shipping Out: On the (nearly lethal) comforts of a luxury cruise by David Foster Wallace (https://harpers.org/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/HarpersMagazine-1996-01-0007859.pdf) 18:33 – Transitioning to Upside and Building a Healthy Culture 21:50 – Engineering Vs Management 29:09 – Data Science 32:50 – Self-Selecting for Privilege 36:38 – Data Science and Security/Privacy Weapons of Math Destruction: How Big Data Increases Inequality and Threatens Democracy by Cathy O’Neil (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0553418831/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=therubyrep-20&camp=1789&creative=9325&linkCode=as2&creativeASIN=0553418831&linkId=c1f1ddfeccb618a067410f6a11670af3) 46:55 – Having a Background in Actual Science; Conquering Biases 51:35 – The Importance of Mentorship and Internships from the Beginning Reflections: Coraline: Having a biases towards hiring people like yourself and other hiring biases. Sam: Research cognitive biases. Jamey: Computers aren’t people. Emily: I really do enjoy teaching. This episode was brought to you by @therubyrep (https://twitter.com/therubyrep) of DevReps, LLC (http://www.devreps.com/). To pledge your support and to join our awesome Slack community, visit patreon.com/greaterthancode (https://www.patreon.com/greaterthancode). To make a one-time donation so that we can continue to bring you more content and transcripts like this, please do so at paypal.me/devreps (https://www.paypal.me/devreps). You will also get an invitation to our Slack community this way as well. Amazon links may be affiliate links, which means you’re supporting the show when you purchase our recommendations. Thanks! Special Guest: Emily Dresner.

Greetings, Sister, The Power of Two. To. Too. Two. Connecting, joining, unifying. One thing leading to the next and the next. Two is the number of the Divine Feminine.  Our Sacred Mother. How fitting that yesterday, on 2.22.2017, we continued the second of our two part Wild Soul Conversation on Liberating our Wombs: Healing from Abortion. If you haven’t caught up from last week, you can do so here. Today we dive in for a Deeper Cut. Searching for the wisdom inside of these initiatory experiences and the tendrils of patriarchy still insidiously woven through the web of our mythos. Standing together as we step forward from the shadows and claim our fundamental role as Stewards of the portal of All of Life. Our Brave council of Wild Souls showed up for Us again way of Sacred Example. Here are some highlights to listen for: (05:40) Creation and Destruction (14:55) Mommy-Guilt (20:20) Double Binds (40:00) Complicitly Claimable (58:30) The Prison Built Around a Sprout They came, to vulnerably share their experiences in service of Us opening more completely to our Own. Join Us as we consider division, separation, coherence and convergence. Grief, Joy, Apology, and Redemption. Undertaking the work of The Goddess. Re-Membering our rightful place as the Embodiment of the Loom of All Creation. Weaver and Web.

Greetings, Sister,The Power of Two.To. Too. Two.Connecting, joining, unifying.One thing leading to the next and the next.Two is the number of the Divine Feminine. Our Sacred Mother.How fitting that yesterday, on 2.22.2017, we continued the second of our two part Wild Soul Conversation on Liberating our Wombs: Healing from Abortion.If you haven’t caught up from last week, you can do so here.Today we dive in for a Deeper Cut.Searching for the wisdom inside of these initiatory experiences and the tendrils of patriarchy still insidiously woven through the web of our mythos.Standing together as we step forward from the shadows and claim our fundamental role as Stewards of the portal of All of Life.Our Brave council of Wild Souls showed up for Us again way of Sacred Example.Here are some highlights to listen for:(05:40) Creation and Destruction(14:55) Mommy-Guilt(20:20) Double Binds(40:00) Complicitly Claimable(58:30) The Prison Built Around a SproutThey came, to vulnerably share their experiences in service of Us opening more completely to our Own.Join Us as we consider division, separation, coherence and convergence.Grief, Joy, Apology, and Redemption.Undertaking the work of The Goddess.Re-Membering our rightful place as the Embodiment of the Loom of All Creation.Weaver and Web.

Greetings, Sister,The Power of Two.To. Too. Two.Connecting, joining, unifying.One thing leading to the next and the next.Two is the number of the Divine Feminine. Our Sacred Mother.How fitting that yesterday, on 2.22.2017, we continued the second of our two part Wild Soul Conversation on Liberating our Wombs: Healing from Abortion.If you haven’t caught up from last week, you can do so here.Today we dive in for a Deeper Cut.Searching for the wisdom inside of these initiatory experiences and the tendrils of patriarchy still insidiously woven through the web of our mythos.Standing together as we step forward from the shadows and claim our fundamental role as Stewards of the portal of All of Life.Our Brave council of Wild Souls showed up for Us again way of Sacred Example.Here are some highlights to listen for:(05:40) Creation and Destruction(14:55) Mommy-Guilt(20:20) Double Binds(40:00) Complicitly Claimable(58:30) The Prison Built Around a SproutThey came, to vulnerably share their experiences in service of Us opening more completely to our Own.Join Us as we consider division, separation, coherence and convergence.Grief, Joy, Apology, and Redemption.Undertaking the work of The Goddess.Re-Membering our rightful place as the Embodiment of the Loom of All Creation.Weaver and Web.

Greetings, Sister,The Power of Two.To. Too. Two.Connecting, joining, unifying.One thing leading to the next and the next.Two is the number of the Divine Feminine. Our Sacred Mother.How fitting that yesterday, on 2.22.2017, we continued the second of our two part Wild Soul Conversation on Liberating our Wombs: Healing from Abortion.If you haven’t caught up from last week, you can do so here.Today we dive in for a Deeper Cut.Searching for the wisdom inside of these initiatory experiences and the tendrils of patriarchy still insidiously woven through the web of our mythos.Standing together as we step forward from the shadows and claim our fundamental role as Stewards of the portal of All of Life.Our Brave council of Wild Souls showed up for Us again way of Sacred Example.Here are some highlights to listen for:(05:40) Creation and Destruction(14:55) Mommy-Guilt(20:20) Double Binds(40:00) Complicitly Claimable(58:30) The Prison Built Around a SproutThey came, to vulnerably share their experiences in service of Us opening more completely to our Own.Join Us as we consider division, separation, coherence and convergence.Grief, Joy, Apology, and Redemption.Undertaking the work of The Goddess.Re-Membering our rightful place as the Embodiment of the Loom of All Creation.Weaver and Web.

On this week's News & Views we cover: NSAIDs like Ibuprofen, Celebrex, and Naproxen; new research that suggests high HDL is not heart protective; and how worrying about health can actually affect your health. The food for thought continues in the Moment of Paleo segment, which explores the things we cannot do when we must do them. After the Bell features a talk by Alan Watts on the topic of Double Binds. Links for this episode:Why & How to Support Latest in PaleoRecommended Food & Other ProductsRecommended Books & Audio BooksComment on this Episode or Share a News LinkCardiovascular Safety of Celecoxib, Naproxen, or Ibuprofen for Arthritis — NEJMCelebrex arthritis drug just as safe as NSAIDs for pain relief, with fewer side effects, study finds - CBS NewsSurprise! Arthritis Drug Celebrex Shown As Safe As Ibuprofen And NaproxenIbuprofen May Not Be As Safe As You Think | TIMENew Study Reveals Ibuprofen and Naproxen Health RisksHigh-Density Lipoprotein Cholesterol and Cause-Specific Mortality in Individuals Without Previous Cardiovascular Conditions: The CANHEART Study | Journal of the American College of Cardiology | American College of Cardiology FoundationDoes 'Good' Cholesterol Matter in Heart Disease Risk?: MedlinePlus Health NewsWhat you need to know about "good" HDL cholesterol - CBS NewsLow levels of HDL (the “good” cholesterol) appear connected to many health risks, not just heart disease - Harvard Health Blog - Harvard Health PublicationsBombshell health study: Raising HDL "good" cholesterol does not help prevent heart disease | Genetic Literacy ProjectHealth anxiety and risk of ischaemic heart disease: a prospective cohort study linking the Hordaland Health Study (HUSK) with the Cardiovascular Diseases in Norway (CVDNOR) project -- Berge et al. 6 (11) -- BMJ OpenWorrying about health increases heart disease risk - Medical News TodayCan worrying about your health make you ill? | Life and style | The GuardianWorried sick? Stressing that you'll get an illness can make you sick, study says - NBC NewsAlan Watts: The Double Bind - YouTubeVisit PuraKai to shop for eco-friendly clothing and stand-up paddle boards. Be sure to use coupon code "latest in paleo" for 15% off all clothing purchases.

Why do we get frozen in our own field, unable to shift into manifesting the agenda we say we have? Many of us have conflicting intentions, desires and preferences within ourselves. Find out how to move these and step into the fullness of your own life.

Dieser Podcast betrachtet vertief das Thema Glaubenssätze in Bezug auf Double Binds und paradoxe Anforderungen. Polaritäten sind Aspekte mit denen wir extrem reagieren, aber weder das eine, noch das andere wirklich wollen.

Dieser Podcast betrachtet vertief das Thema Glaubenssätze in Bezug auf Double Binds und paradoxe Anforderungen. Polaritäten sind Aspekte mit denen wir extrem reagieren, aber weder das eine, noch das andere wirklich wollen.

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