Chasing Brighter Podcast

Jessica and Kelly kick things off with a fun, unfiltered conversation about their latest makeup adventures — from blue eyeshadow experimentation to skin tints and primers they're currently loving. Jessica shares a hilarious Ulta makeover story that didn't quite land with her family, and Kelly talks about her current go-to foundation for that dewy winter look. They close out with a surprisingly meaningful discovery: Jessica learning her eyes aren't actually brown — and what it means to really look at the people (and yourself) closest to you. Products Mentioned Stila One Step Correct Skin Tone Correcting & Brightening Primer Live Tinted Hueguard Skin Tint SPF 50 Stila Liqua Play Eyeshadow Milk Hydro Grip 12-Hour Hydrating Gel Skin Tint Jones Road Miracle Balm Jones Road Eyeshadow (pot formula) Glossier Future Dew Solid Oil Serum Illuminator Naturium Phyto Glow Lip Balm Rare Beauty eyebrow gel Mad Love Eyebrow Stamp Want to stay in the know? Subscribe to our newsletter here.  Let's connect: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chasingbrighter YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@chasingbrighter Find us at chasingbrighter.com/newsletter for the blog, newsletter, and more. Follow us on socials @chasingbrighter.   blue eyeshadow trend, dewy skin makeup, skin tint SPF, Stila primer review, Milk makeup foundation, Jones Road Miracle Balm, hazel eyes, makeup for women, beauty product recommendations, glowy skin routine, eyebrow tips, Chasing Brighter podcast, self-discovery, women's lifestyle podcast, makeup favorites

This one is real. Before hitting record, Kelly shares something personal — her family is navigating health uncertainty with her father-in-law, and she's been quietly absorbing everything at home while her husband is pulled elsewhere. No ask for sympathy, just honesty. And it's exactly the kind of thing that never makes it onto a to-do list. This week, Jessica and Kelly get into invisible labor — the unpaid, unacknowledged work of managing, coordinating, anticipating, and holding everything together — and what carrying it silently actually costs you over time. In This Episode What invisible labor actually is (and why so many women have never heard the term) The difference between mental load and doing tasks — the doing can be shared, but the knowing often isn't Why invisible labor doesn't have to be about marriage and kids — it shows up in solo business ownership, caregiving, friendships, and more The specific kind of resentment that builds when your contribution goes chronically unseen — and what it signals clinically Jessica's honest story: 20 years into marriage before the mental load genuinely shifted, and what actually changed Raising sons who understand what it takes — and breaking generational patterns around who holds the household Why naming it out loud — even just saying it — makes it feel lighter The identity cost: when your own needs start feeling like luxury items that get cut from the budget Kelly's mental load audit (15 minutes, no editing, just get it all out) Jessica's Brighter Move: find one thing you've been managing alone and ask for it to be shared — not handed off, just shared Brighter Move of the Week Find one thing on your list that you've been managing alone and make one specific ask to share it. That's it. Start there. Mental Load Audit Got 15 minutes? Write down everything you're currently tracking, managing, or holding in your head. Don't edit it — just get it out. Looking at the full list is often the first time we give ourselves credit for how much we're actually carrying. Next Week We're closing out April with something a little different — hot takes. No caveats, no softening. Just what Jessica and Kelly actually think about everything they've covered this month: energy, capacity, invisible labor, all of it. You don't want to miss it. Free Download

No agenda, no framework — just Jess and Kelly doing what they do best: talking real life. This week it's all about what we're actually wearing this season (barrel jeans turned cutoffs, gold Birkenstocks, and a strong prediction for the summer's biggest shoe trend), how to stay warm and somewhat cute when you live somewhere that goes from 40 to 70 degrees in 48 hours, and the completely unhinged Trader Joe's tote experience that somehow turned into a lesson about just getting in the line. Come for the fashion chat, stay for the chaos. In This Episode Jess's barrel jeans era — and why it lasted approximately five minutes before she grabbed the scissors Why jelly sandals and jelly flip-flops are about to be everywhere this summer (tortoise shell, specifically) Kelly's cold-weather layering system: merino-adjacent thermals, stretchy jeans, Sorel boots, and a Hunter coat that sold out everywhere Heated vests, heated gloves, heated pants — and the glowing logo that accidentally became a cold-weather parent uniform at every Chicago sports game Secondhand shopping smarter: The RealReal, Poshmark, and thrifting as a real strategy (not just a trend) Does your closet reflect your values? A quick riff on intentional spending, capsule wardrobes, and letting go of fast fashion The Trader Joe's spring tote situation — the line, the bins, the resellers, and the old woman with opinions about Takis "If there's a line, get in the line" — Kassidy Lynn Social's advice that honestly applies to life Free Download

Have you ever looked at your week and thought, if I could just get more organized, I could handle all of this? In this episode, Jessica and Kelly get into a reframe that might be the most important mindset shift you make this month: the difference between a discipline problem and a capacity problem — and why confusing the two keeps so many high-achieving women stuck in a cycle of self-blame. Jessica opens with a real-life story about having three kids in three places at the same time and the moment she stopped calling it a personal failure. Because here's the truth: no amount of discipline puts you in two places at once. Capacity is real, it's finite, and it changes — and it's time we start working with that reality instead of against ourselves. In This Episode Why high-achieving women are especially prone to the "I just need to try harder" trap The crucial difference between a discipline problem and a capacity problem (and why it changes everything) How capacity actually works — it rises and falls based on rest, stress, season of life, and what you're carrying The myth of willpower: why white-knuckling through a capacity issue doesn't refill the tank Capability vs. obligation — you can be capable of something and still not be required to do it The two questions that point in completely different directions: "What can I do more?" vs. "What is asking too much of me right now?" A language swap that takes seconds and changes how you relate to your limits Kelly's daily capacity check-in practice (it's simpler than you think) A nod to Four Thousand Weeks by Oliver Burkeman and the case for opting out Brighter Move of the Week A simple language swap: every time you catch yourself saying "I should be able to handle this," try replacing it with just — "This is a lot." No comparison. No justification. Just let it be a lot. Free Download

Jessica kicks off this Superwoman Diaries with a little confession — she got new ear piercings, and everything we learned in the '90s about aftercare was wrong. She shares what current piercing care actually looks like (hint: put down the peroxide and stop twisting!), why she and Kelly are both craving a refreshed look, and how it all connects to breaking free from "good girl" conditioning and finally just doing the things that feel like you. Plus — Gabby's last-minute commitment party came together in six days and it was everything. In this episode: Why Jessica got multiple new ear piercings (inspired by Michelle Obama, naturally) Old-school piercing care vs. what actually works: saline spray, no twisting, no peroxide Why ear piercings and tattoos feel like acts of identity and self-expression The connection to Untamed by Glennon Doyle and breaking free from "good girl" rules Raising teenagers — the joy, the roasting, and the Inside Out 2 feelings Gabby's surprise softball commitment party, pulled together in under a week Free Download Mentioned: Are You Living Your Values or Someone Else's? — a free values clarity guide. Sign up at chasingbrighter.com. Connect with us: Website & newsletter: chasingbrighter.com Instagram: @chasingbrighter Keywords: ear piercing aftercare, new ear piercings, piercing care tips, saline spray for piercings, midlife self-expression, living authentically, values alignment, breaking free from good girl conditioning, Glennon Doyle Untamed, raising teenagers, college softball commitment, Chasing Brighter podcast, women's lifestyle podcast, real over perfect, midlife women podcast, identity and self-discovery, choosing yourself

Jessica opens this month with something deeply personal — six years of intentional self-work, 40 pounds lost, a thriving practice, two podcasts, three kids in sports, and a life she genuinely loves. And yet. There are still days when something feels off. Not physically. Deeper. This week, she and Kelly name something that doesn't show up on any wellness checklist: the exhaustion that comes from holding things — schedules, emotional temperatures, everyone else's needs — and why that kind of tired is worth paying attention to. If you've ever snapped at someone, felt immediately guilty, and then felt even more depleted by the guilt itself — this episode was made for you. What We Talk About Why you can love your life and still be genuinely depleted by it The snap-guilt-deplete feedback loop (and why it's not a character flaw) The difference between physical exhaustion and the weight of invisible labor How depletion builds through accumulation — not crisis Why numbing (scrolling, binge-watching) doesn't actually restore you Real, honest things Kelly and Jess actually do when the system needs something it's not getting: journaling, canceling plans without guilt, opting out, asking for help, protecting sleep, choosing connection that energizes Your Brighter Move for the week: Where is my energy going? (No fixing required — just noticing) Free Download 

Oscars season is here — and Jessica and Kelly haven't seen most of the movies. Oops. This week's Super Woman Diaries takes a fun detour into what the sisters are actually watching, reading, and loving right now. From Sinners to Bridgerton to Night Court reboots, they get real about how much streaming has changed pop culture, why prestige film culture doesn't hit the same anymore, and what it means to just... watch something fun without guilt. Oh, and there's a brief but passionate tangent about Anaconda. You're welcome. In This Episode: Why neither of them can keep up with Oscar nominees (and why that's totally fine) How streaming changed what "good" means — and who gets to decide The books they're reading right now (including one that made Jessica cry) What the family is watching together when you've got an 11-year-old, two teenagers, and two adults to please Kelly's deep dive into Slow Horses with Gary Oldman Jessica's obsession with Mr. Malcolm's List and why she loves what Bridgerton does with casting The Night Court reboot nobody expected to love — and then loved A spoiler about Ford vs. Ferrari that is very much deserved at this point Books Mentioned: The Last Letter by Rebecca Yarros Hamnet by Maggie O'Farrell Wuthering Heights (and the film adaptation Kelly is hunting down) Ford vs. Ferrari (yes, there's a book) Shows & Movies Mentioned: Sinners (Ryan Coogler/Michael B. Jordan) Mr. Malcolm's List Bridgerton Slow Horses (Apple TV+) Victoria The Closer High Potential Night Court (reboot) St. Denis Medical Anaconda (2025, with Paul Rudd and Jack Black) Ford vs. Ferrari Jumanji franchise Outlander Connect with Us:

If you've ever bought a beautiful planner, built an elaborate system, or tried to replicate a perfectly organized pantry from Instagram — and quietly abandoned it two weeks later — this episode is for you. Jessica and Kelly get real about why picture-perfect organizational systems fail and what actually works instead: low-friction, flexible, forgiving systems built around your life, not someone else's highlight reel. In This Episode Why Instagram and Pinterest organization systems are built on unrealistic assumptions (consistent moods, predictable schedules, zero emergencies) The difference between aspirational systems and real ones — and why that distinction matters What "low friction" actually looks like: 10-minute anchor habits, three default dinners, 15-minute closing shifts The power of asking: What's the smallest version of this that would still move things forward? Habit stacking in real life — how to attach new habits to things you're already doing (hi, morning coffee) Kelly's simple meal planning shift: three meals a week + weekly grocery shopping only Jess's real-life systems: cubby shoes at the door, laying out clothes the night before, weekly family schedule meetings Energy check-ins: adapting your system to your actual capacity each day, not punishing yourself for being human "If your system collapses during stressful times, it's not a supportive system." — Kelly Take the Quiz

Jess and Kelly are back with another unfiltered Superwoman Diaries check-in — the kind of conversation you'd have with your best friend over coffee. This week they're celebrating real fitness wins that have nothing to do with the scale, getting into the truth about body transformation timelines (spoiler: it takes longer than social media wants you to believe), and going deep on a hair care rabbit hole featuring the Abbey Young method, the curly girl method, OUAI, K18, and a $14 Amazon find that might change your routine. In This Episode: Jess's non-scale victories: 16 burpees, a minute plank, and lunges without the wall — yes, really Kelly's brutal 30-minute core blast class and why she's finally stopped caring about being "the last one" Why body transformation realistically takes years — and why that's actually okay The longevity PSA you need to hear: what happens to your body after 65 if you're not investing in yourself now The Abbey Young Method — a multi-step hair care routine with drugstore products that has Jess's curls looking their best ever L'Oréal Elvive Glycolic Glossing Shampoo & Conditioner: the drugstore find that delivers salon-level softness OUAI Air Dry Foam: Kelly's honest review (the frizz is real) K18: both hosts agree — are they using it wrong? Color Wow Dream Coat Supernatural Spray: a $14 Amazon find Kelly swears has changed her hot tool game Why the best hair routine is your routine — not Abby Young's, not a TikToker's, yours Takeaway: Whether it's your fitness journey or your hair routine, the system that works best is the one that fits your real life. Stop chasing someone else's results on someone else's timeline. Keep showing up, keep adjusting, and celebrate the wins that actually matter. This Month's Freebie

What's Your Organizational Style? Why Energy — Not Willpower — Is the Real System You've probably seen the perfectly labeled pantries, the color-coded planners, the elaborate systems all over social media. And maybe you've tried them — only to find they didn't stick. That's not a you problem. It's a mismatch problem. In this episode, Jessica and Kelly dig into one of the most underrated organizing tools out there: your own energy. Not hustle energy. Not caffeine energy. The four distinct types of energy that run your daily life — and why learning to work with them instead of against them can change everything. In This Episode, We Talk About Why organizing systems from social media often don't work for real life The four types of energy — physical, emotional, social, and creative — and why they don't all peak at the same time The difference between expectation-based living and energy-aligned living How to track your own energy patterns over five days (and what to do with what you find) Why chronic afternoon energy crashes might be worth talking to your doctor about The power of intentional social connection — and how to actually protect it How creative energy shows up in unexpected ways (meal prep, anyone?) Why matching your tasks to your energy level is the key to a sustainable life Takeaway Stop asking why am I so tired? and start asking what kind of energy is running low right now? When you understand your energy — when it peaks, when it ebbs, and what fills or drains each type — you stop fighting yourself. You start building systems that actually fit. And that's what makes life feel more manageable, not just on good days, but on the hard ones too. Burnout isn't a character flaw. It's what happens when we organize life around expectations instead of energy. This episode is your invitation to do it differently. Take the Quiz! Want to discover what organizational style actually fits your personality? Sign up for the Chasing Brighter newsletter and take our free Organizational Style Quiz — designed to help you find simple systems that work for your real life, not someone else's Pinterest board.

How do you stay sane when life's logistics feel like a full-time job? Spring sports season has officially arrived — and with it comes the schedules, carpools, tournaments, gear bags, snacks, and the endless coordination that somehow lands on parents' calendars. In this candid Superwoman Diaries conversation, Jessica and Kelly talk about the very real mental load of parenting during busy sports seasons. From last-minute tournament schedules to figuring out transportation when schools can't bus athletes, the logistics alone can feel like a second job. Jessica shares what it looks like navigating high school baseball with unpredictable game times, travel tournaments, and feeding a teenage athlete who needs actual meals, not just snacks. Kelly reflects on how sports commitments shift once kids reach high school — and how families often have to build their own support systems through carpools, communication, and flexibility. But beyond the logistics, this episode highlights something deeper: how parents take care of themselves during high-demand seasons of life. Because when the calendar is packed and the mental load is high, staying organized and protecting your own energy becomes essential. Jessica shares how she's approaching this season proactively — prioritizing sleep, asking for help, adjusting her work schedule when needed, and finding small ways to stay grounded. And if you've ever wondered why certain organization systems work for other people but not for you, Jessica and Kelly also introduce a fun way to find out: their Organizational Style Quiz, designed to help you discover systems that actually fit your personality and lifestyle. In This Episode, We Talk About Why spring sports season can feel overwhelming for parents The hidden mental load behind teenage athletics Navigating transportation, carpools, and unpredictable schedules Feeding teenage athletes (hint: snacks won't cut it) The shift from club sports to high school athletics Why self-care matters even more during busy seasons How understanding your organizational style can make life easier Takeaway Busy seasons are inevitable — but burnout doesn't have to be. When life gets full, the goal isn't perfection. It's support, simple systems, and taking care of yourself while you care for everyone else. Want more inspiration for organizing your life this spring? Sign up for the Chasing Brighter newsletter and take our free Organizational Style Quiz to discover simple systems that work for your real life.

What if the thing weighing you down isn't your schedule or your closet… but an identity you've already outgrown? Sometimes the heaviest clutter in our lives isn't physical — it's emotional. In this episode of Chasing Brighter, Jessica and Kelly explore the idea of emotional clutter: the roles, identities, expectations, and coping strategies we once needed but may have already outgrown. Because choosing real over perfect doesn't always mean doing more. Sometimes it means letting go of the version of yourself you worked really hard to become. Together, Jessica and Kelly talk about how perfectionism, over-functioning, people-pleasing, and even certain dreams can quietly become emotional clutter over time. What once helped us survive may no longer help us thrive. Jessica also introduces the concept of Internal Family Systems (IFS) in a simple, approachable way — exploring how different “parts” of us (like the overachiever, the fixer, or the over-analyzer) try to protect us. The goal isn't to eliminate those parts, but to gently reorganize who's driving the car so our compassionate, grounded self can lead. Through personal stories about parenting, productivity, consumerism, and decision fatigue, Jessica and Kelly reflect on the roles and habits they are learning to release — and how doing so has created more space for presence, connection, and joy. Because sometimes the most powerful reset isn't organizing your life better. It's giving yourself permission to evolve. In This Episode, We Talk About Why emotional clutter can feel heavier than physical clutter Signs you may have outgrown an identity, role, or habit The difference between coping strategies that helped you survive vs. ones that help you thrive Internal Family Systems and understanding the “parts” of yourself Letting go of over-functioning, perfectionism, and external validation Analysis paralysis and decision fatigue in a world of too much information Parenting with presence instead of constant productivity Reducing consumerism and aligning spending with values Creating space for play, connection, and real life moments ✨ Want more inspiration for organizing your life this spring? Sign up for the Chasing Brighter newsletter and take our free Organizational Style Quiz to discover simple systems that work for your real life.

Looking for your next great read? From cozy romances to powerful historical fiction, we're sharing the books we can't stop thinking about. Spring always feels like a season of fresh starts—and sometimes that includes refreshing what we're reading. In this episode of Chasing Brighter, Jessica and Kelly dive into the books that have been keeping them company lately, from page-turning thrillers and heartwarming romance to powerful historical fiction and thought-provoking nonfiction. They share their favorite recent reads, the books currently on their nightstands, and the unexpected places they're finding their next great story—from used bookstore treasures to the Libby library app and Goodreads recommendations. Along the way, the conversation explores why reading can feel like such a grounding ritual, how different formats (audiobooks vs. physical books) shape the experience, and why sometimes the best books aren't the newest bestsellers. If you're looking for your next book club pick, a cozy bedtime read, or something deeper that sparks reflection, this episode is packed with ideas. And yes… you may leave with a much longer reading list. Inside This Conversation  

What if the quickest way to feel calmer isn't another mindset shift… but clearing one small corner of your home? February on Chasing Brighter was all about resetting our nervous systems, resting without guilt, and reconnecting with ourselves. Now as we head into March, we're gently moving forward—starting with the space we live in every single day: our homes. In this episode, Jessica and Kelly welcome back Diana Moll, founder of D's Declutter and host of Organizing With Ease, for a grounded, realistic conversation about how clutter impacts stress, energy, and daily life—and how simple, sustainable systems can help your whole family function with more ease (without chasing Pinterest perfection). In This Episode, We Talk About Why decluttering isn't “having less”—it's making room for calm and clarity How your home can either drain your energy or help restore it The real challenge: not starting… but maintaining your systems How to stop comparing your home to “perfect” online spaces and meet yourself where you are Kid-friendly routines that actually work (and yes… the legendary “black bag” story

What if dinner didn't have to be a nightly battle, but could actually become your family's secret weapon for connection? In this honest and relatable episode, Jessica and Kelly dive into two things adults were wildly unprepared for: Managing your body after injury without overdoing it. Deciding what's for dinner… every single day… for the rest of your life.

What if getting organized didn't mean becoming a completely different person? What if it meant working with your brain instead of against it? In this episode of Chasing Brighter, we're kicking off our March theme — Organized, Not Perfect — and having an honest conversation about why traditional organization advice often leaves women feeling behind, overwhelmed, or like they're “doing it wrong.” Because here's what we believe: You don't need a prettier planner. You don't need to wake up at 5 a.m. You don't need a Pinterest pantry. You need simple systems that support your actual life. The one with kids in sports. The one with late nights and early mornings. The one that's beautifully full — and sometimes chaotic. We're exploring: Why perfection-based organization increases stress The difference between supportive systems and rigid expectations How to reduce friction in your daily life Why the goal isn't aesthetic — it's ease And how to build structure that feels like freedom Chapters 00:00 Navigating Connection and Disconnection 08:42 Shifting Perspectives in Relationships Connect With Us:

What do you do when your child's “entrepreneurial spirit” earns them a detention slip? This conversation is messy, honest, and human — just like parenting. In this honest and relatable Super Woman Diaries episode of Chasing Brighter, Jessica and Kelly unpack a parenting moment that many of us quietly fear: getting that call from school. Kelly shares the story of her son Beckett, who started selling 3D printed items to classmates — including a plastic knife — and ended up in detention. What started as creativity and hustle quickly turned into a lesson about rules, responsibility, and consequences. And like all real-life parenting moments, it wasn't black and white.

In this episode of Chasing Brighter, Jessica and Kelly continue the February theme of Reset, Rest, Reconnect with a conversation so many women need to hear: What if the reason rest feels uncomfortable… is conditioning, not weakness? We say we want rest. But when we slow down, we feel guilt. Anxiety. Panic. Because somewhere along the way, many of us learned: Being “good” means being useful Productivity equals worth Slowing down is lazy We haven't earned a break yet Especially for Gen X and Millennial women raised to be capable, accommodating, and endlessly reliable, rest isn't just physical — it's emotional. In this episode, we gently challenge that belief.

What happens when your body forces you to slow down — and you didn't plan to? In this deeply personal Superwoman Diaries segment, Jessica shares the aftermath of her recent car accident — not just the physical pain of a trapezius strain, but the emotional ripple effects that followed. Because sometimes it's not just the injury. It's the irritability. The exhaustion. The vulnerability. The way stress sneaks into family conversations. The way the world already feels heavy — and then something personal tips the scale. Jessica and Kelly explore what it's like to move through physical pain while still being a mom, a therapist, a partner, and a human trying to stay regulated in a polarized world. This episode is a reminder that even Superwomen get knocked down sometimes — and that slowing down isn't weakness. It's wisdom. It's about honoring your limits. Staying connected. And choosing compassion — for yourself and for others. Inside This Conversation: Jessica shares her experience of being in a car accident and the physical pain that followed. The conversation highlights the emotional toll of chronic pain and the importance of self-care. Jessica emphasizes the need for gratitude, especially after a traumatic event. They discuss the impact of family dynamics on emotional well-being during stressful times. The importance of recognizing and validating the struggles of others is highlighted. Jessica mentions the need to manage stress in a polarized world. They explore the idea of taking breaks from news and social media to protect mental health. The conversation emphasizes the balance between self-care and social responsibility. Jessica reflects on the importance of not letting external stressors overwhelm personal well-being. They conclude with a reminder to stay connected and support one another. 

What If You're Not Failing… You're Just Dysregulated? What if the exhaustion, irritability, and emotional fog you're feeling isn't a personal flaw—but a nervous system asking for support? In this episode, Jessica and Kelly explore something we don't talk about enough: the difference between regulating yourself and trying to fix yourself. Because in a world that constantly tells us to optimize, improve, and power through… sometimes the bravest thing we can do is pause and reset. This conversation is compassionate, practical, and deeply grounding—especially if you've been feeling emotionally fatigued or overstimulated. Inside This Conversation ✨ Why resetting your nervous system is foundational for emotional health ✨ The subtle signs of dysregulation (hint: it's not just panic) ✨ Why regulation is about safety—not self-improvement ✨ Micro-resets that don't require a life overhaul ✨ Breathing techniques that signal calm to your body ✨ Simple grounding exercises to reconnect with yourself ✨ Environmental shifts that create instant cues of safety ✨ Mental and emotional resets for moments of overwhelm ✨ “Emergency” techniques for when emotions spike ✨ Reframing self-care as kindness—not luxury Practical Tools We Share You'll walk away with simple, doable resets you can use today: Hand-on-heart breathing to signal safety Body-based grounding techniques Micro environmental shifts (light, scent, sound) Mental reframes to reduce emotional intensity Small resets that take 60 seconds—not a weekend retreat Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Podcasting and Captivate 00:26 Resetting the Nervous System 03:14 Understanding Regulation vs. Fixing 06:00 Micro Resets for Daily Life 08:57 Breath and Body Resets 11:39 Environmental and Mental Resets 14:34 Emergency Reset Techniques 17:11 Conclusion and Next Steps Connect With Us:

Is your self-care rooted in who you are now—or who you learned to be growing up? In the Season Five premiere of Chasing Brighter, Jessica and Kelly kick things off with a light-hearted, nostalgic conversation about beauty trends—starting with the surprising return of dusting (yes, body powder is having a moment

Chasing Brighter Season 5 Trailer: Reset, Rest, Reconnect What if every season of life deserves to feel brighter? Chasing Brighter began as a guide for women in midlife—but this season, we're expanding the conversation. Because no matter your age, your season, or your story, you deserve joy, growth, and connection. In Season Five, Jessica and Kelly invite you into a deeper, more honest space—one that celebrates realness over perfection and growth over pressure. This season is about connection, authenticity, and permission to be exactly who you are. ✨ Real is the new perfect—and we're just getting started. February Theme: Reset, Rest, Reconnect February on Chasing Brighter is all about turning inward and gently starting again. While Valentine's Day often focuses on romantic love, we're shifting the focus to self-connection. Winter invites rest, reflection, and slowing down—so we're leaning into that energy with tools and conversations to help you: Reset your mindset and nervous system Rest without guilt Reconnect with yourself before reconnecting with others

What does it really mean to live brighter—at any age? Season Four changed us and Season Five is about to expand everything.  Jessica and Kelly are reflecting on the themes that shaped Season Four of Chasing Brighter: confidence, authenticity, self-worth, and joy. They dive into why being real resonates more than curated perfection, why midlife is powerful but not the only chapter worth celebrating, and how lifelong growth is the true goal. Plus, they tease what's coming next as the podcast opens the door to even more stories, voices, and conversations that help you reconnect with yourself and live brighter—right now. Inside This Conversation: Season Four mirrored personal growth and reflection. The importance of confidence in various life stages. Authenticity resonates more with the audience than curation. Midlife is a powerful season, but growth can happen at any age. Self-worth and joy are universal themes. The podcast aims to be a safe space for honest conversations. Living authentically is prioritized over perfection. Change and lifelong learning are essential for growth. The upcoming season will feature diverse stories and experiences. Listeners are encouraged to reconnect with themselves and find joy. Chapters 00:00 Reflecting on Season Four 02:44 Embracing Confidence and Authenticity 05:44 The Shift to All Life 08:26 Looking Ahead to Season Five 12:57 NEWCHAPTER Connect With Us:

Is this just stress… or could it be perimenopause? And how do we actually advocate for our health in midlife? In this honest and empowering conversation, Jessica and Kelly dive into the realities of navigating midlife hormonal changes—especially the confusing, emotional, and often overlooked world of perimenopause. They share personal stories about irregular cycles, mood shifts, anxiety, and weight changes, highlighting how deeply hormones can affect mental and physical health. The episode explores why tracking symptoms matters, how estrogen can influence mood and weight, and why empathy—for ourselves and other women—is essential during this transitional season. Jessica and Kelly also discuss the importance of seeking informed, specialized medical care, sorting through mixed messaging around hormone treatments, and trusting your instincts when something feels off. Ultimately, this episode is a reminder that you're not alone, your symptoms are real, and advocating for your health is an act of self-care and empowerment.

Do you really need a save-the-date for a high school graduation… or is that too much? In this candid and relatable conversation, Jessica and Kelly dive into the etiquette, emotions, and logistics behind planning life's milestone celebrations—from graduations to weddings and everything in between. What starts as a simple question about whether to send a save-the-date quickly opens into a thoughtful discussion about intention, connection, and how celebrations have evolved over time. They explore why giving loved ones a heads-up can matter—especially when travel is involved—while also acknowledging that not every milestone needs to follow traditional rules. Along the way, they share personal stories about weddings (including destination weddings), changing expectations, and the beauty of keeping gatherings meaningful rather than overdone. This episode is equal parts practical and nostalgic, with a gentle reminder that the best celebrations aren't about perfection or pressure—they're about presence, thoughtfulness, and time together. Inside This Conversation: The pros and cons of sending save-the-dates for graduations and other milestones How location and guest dynamics shape celebration decisions Thoughts on destination weddings and modern wedding traditions Why smaller, more intentional gatherings can feel more fulfilling A reminder that celebrations should reflect you, not expectations Chapters 00:00 Graduation Planning and Save the Dates 06:29 Destination Weddings and Family Gatherings 11:11 Wedding Protocols and Intentional Celebrations Connect With Us:

What if the holidays didn't have to feel so heavy and connection mattered more than getting everything right? In this episode, Jessica and Kelly reflect on their recent family Christmas gathering and the quiet shifts that made it feel different—in the best way. They talk openly about hosting without carrying the burden of doing everything, the power of delegation, and how simplifying holiday traditions can ease stress without sacrificing connection. The conversation explores how family dynamics evolve over time, how we often relate to people based on who they used to be, and what happens when we allow room for change. From releasing perfectionism to honoring personal limits, this episode is a gentle reminder that meaningful holidays aren't built on flawless plans—but on presence, flexibility, and grace. If the holidays leave you feeling stretched, obligated, or quietly overwhelmed, this episode offers a compassionate reframe: it's okay to simplify, to miss a gathering, to ask for help, and to choose connection over perfection. Inside This Conversation: I wasn't taking on the burden of everything. It's important to delegate and ask for help. Family dynamics can be very helpful and grateful. People change over time, and so do their relationships. We often define family members based on past experiences. Simplifying gatherings can reduce stress. Connection with family is more important than perfection. Children adapt quickly to new environments. It's okay to miss family gatherings sometimes. Give yourself grace during the holidays. Chapters 00:00 Family Christmas Reflections 03:29 Navigating Family Dynamics 06:22 Understanding Change in Family Relationships 09:05 The Joy of Hosting 12:00 Simplifying Holiday Gatherings 15:02 Embracing Imperfection in Entertaining 17:54 Finding Balance in Family Commitments Connect With Us:

Ever feel like managing your kids' healthcare is a full-time job you never applied for? In this honest and relatable conversation, Jessica and Kelly dive into the emotional and logistical load of parenting—starting with the surprisingly stressful world of pediatric dental care. From sticker shock and feeling like “just another number” to the exhausting process of finding providers who actually feel supportive, they unpack the invisible labor parents carry every day. Along the way, they remind us of something crucial: you don't have to earn rest, quitting a provider can be an act of self-respect, and caring for yourself is not optional—it's essential. This episode is a permission slip for grace, boundaries, and choosing care that truly feels like care. Inside This Conversation: Why parenting often feels like managing a healthcare system alone The emotional and financial reality of kids' dental care What it's like to feel dismissed—or truly supported—by providers Why leaving a dentist (or any provider) can be empowering The invisible mental load parents carry every day How self-care and grace can coexist with family responsibility Chapters 00:00 Navigating Dental Care for Kids 03:31 Finding the Right Dentist for Yourself 06:28 The Challenges of Scheduling and Insurance 09:17 The Emotional Load of Parental Responsibilities Connect With Us:

What if the most powerful way to step into a new year isn't by setting goals—but by honoring how far you've already come? In this end-of-year reflection, Jessica and Kelly look back on 2025 with honesty, humor, and heart. They celebrate growth, name what felt hard, and introduce the Bright List—a simple but meaningful exercise to help you reflect on what you're proud of, what you're ready to release, and what you want more of as you step into 2026. Inside This Conversation: Reflecting on the past year helps in personal growth. The Bright List exercise encourages positive reflection. Releasing negativity can lead to a more fulfilling life. Expanding joy and presence is essential for well-being. Surprises in life can lead to unexpected growth. Healing often comes from acknowledging struggles. Life is messy, and that's part of the journey. Intentions for the new year should focus on self-improvement. Embracing change is crucial as children grow and leave home. Living life to the fullest is a key takeaway for 2026. Chapters 00:00 Reflecting on Growth and Wins 07:13 Exploring Surprises and Healing Moments 12:43 Finding Alignment and Intentions for 2026 20:05 Embracing Change and the Future Connect With Us:

What if this holiday didn't ask you to do more… but invited you to breathe? In this special Christmas episode of Chasing Brighter, Jessica and Kelly offer listeners a soft place to land in the middle of the holiday season. Whether your home is loud and full of activity or quiet and reflective, this episode is a reminder that you don't have to perform joy or hold it all together. Together, they guide listeners through a gentle moment of reflection—inviting you to notice what you're proud of, what brought unexpected joy, and what you were able to release this month. The conversation then slows into a calming, guided pause designed to help you reconnect with your body, your breath, and a sense of safety in the present moment. This episode acknowledges that the holidays can be both beautiful and triggering, tender and complicated. Most of all, it offers permission: to rest, to breathe, and to receive exactly what you need today. Inside This Episode: Creating a safe place to land during the holidays Reflective questions to gently close out the month A guided moment of presence to calm your nervous system Permission to slow down and release pressure A reminder that you are safe, loved, and enough—just as you are A Gentle Invitation: As you listen, see if you can allow this episode to be a pause—not another thing to accomplish. Let your shoulders drop, feel your feet on the ground, and breathe a little deeper than you have all day.   Wishing you warmth, rest, and joy—exactly in the way you need it today. Thank you for spending a few minutes of your holiday with us. You are worthy. Connect With Us:

What if the best holiday moments are the ones you don't plan? From festive fails to favorite treats and family traditions, Jessica and Kelly explore the beauty of embracing the season as it unfolds. This episode is a cozy reminder that balance, joy, and connection matter more than getting everything “right.” Inside This Conversation:  Holiday fails can lead to funny stories and resilience. School holiday activities can be overwhelming for parents. Shopping early can help avoid stock issues during the holidays. Elf on the Shelf can be a fun tradition, but it can also be stressful. It's important to prioritize family traditions that bring joy. Advent calendars can be a fun way to celebrate the season. Gift expectations can lead to disappointment if not communicated. Food and drink play a significant role in holiday celebrations. Appetizers can be the highlight of holiday parties. Finding joy in the holidays is essential, even amidst stress.   Chapters 00:00 Holiday Fails and Festive Disasters 02:35 School Holiday Activities and Traditions 04:37 Holiday Shopping Strategies 06:27 Elf on the Shelf and Holiday Magic 08:22 Advent Calendars and Holiday Treats 10:34 Holiday Food Opinions and Appetizers 17:08 Reflections on the Holiday Season Connect With Us:

What if self-care this season wasn't about doing more… but choosing what actually restores you? In this episode of Chasing Brighter, Jessica and Kelly dive into one of the most important (and misunderstood) topics of the season: holiday self-care that truly nourishes your mind, body, and spirit — not the kind that leaves you feeling overstimulated and depleted. The holidays pull on every part of us: schedules, emotions, finances, expectations, and family dynamics. With all the lights, noise, crowds, and invisible emotional labor, it's easy to slip into numbing coping strategies instead of nurturing ones. In this conversation, Jessica and Kelly help you understand the difference — without shame — so you can listen to what your body actually needs. You'll explore how over-stimulation impacts your nervous system, why even joyful moments can feel draining when they pile up, and how to gently shift toward self-care practices that leave you calmer, steadier, and more grounded. Inside This Conversation:  The difference between nourishing self-care vs. numbing coping Why holiday over-stimulation impacts your nervous system Common numbing habits (and why they're human, not failures) Examples of nourishing rituals that restore your energy Why heat therapy (baths, foot soaks, warm showers) can be especially soothing Signs you may be numbing instead of nurturing The “Nourish Me Check-In”: a simple 3-part self-care reset Boundary scripts that protect your peace during the holidays A gentle weekly challenge to support your wellbeing Chapters 00:00 Embracing Holiday Self-Care 01:17 NEWCHAPTER 03:31 Nourishing vs. Numbing Strategies 06:30 Recognizing Signs of Numbing 09:22 Implementing Self-Care Practices Connect With Us:

What if the holiday season feels more like “back-to-school” chaos than winter magic—and how do we change that? The holiday season comes with excitement… and a whole lot of pressure. Jessica and Kelly dive into the emotional load of December, comparing it to the hectic back-to-school season and exploring why so many of us feel stretched thin. Together, they talk about opting out of unnecessary obligations, finding joy in smaller moments, and giving yourself permission to slow down. Inside This Conversation:  December feels like back to school with its busy routines. Opting out of obligations can be a form of self-care. Gift-giving can be simplified by involving children in the process. Community initiatives like Winter Wonderland can ease holiday stress. It's okay to say no to events and activities that don't bring joy. Prioritizing joy over obligation is essential during the holidays. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their holiday priorities. The importance of a smaller gift list to reduce stress. Finding joy in the holiday season is possible with intention. Self-care should be a priority during busy times. Chapters 00:00 The Holiday Back to School Feeling 03:28 Opting Out of Holiday Obligations 06:36 Finding Joy and Setting Boundaries Connect With Us:

How would your relationships shift if you protected your peace as much as your plans? The holidays can bring out the best—and the most complicated—in our relationships. In this episode of Chasing Brighter, Jessica and Kelly unpack the emotional landscape of the season: the overstimulation, the resurfacing of old roles, the quiet aches of loneliness or grief, and the pressure to “show up” perfectly. Instead, they offer a grounded, compassionate approach to connection. Together, they explore how small, intentional moments can nurture deeper relationships, why boundaries are essential for emotional well-being, and how authenticity can transform how we engage with the people we love. This conversation is an invitation to slow down, protect your peace, and reconnect in simple, meaningful ways. Inside This Conversation:  December can highlight loneliness, grief, or unresolved tension. Our nervous system is overstimulated during the holidays. Old family roles can resurface, impacting emotional dynamics. Choosing small, meaningful interactions fosters connection. Boundaries protect connection and emotional well-being. Resentment builds when we overcommit ourselves. Five minutes of focused attention can create real connection. Connection doesn't have to be big to be meaningful. Show up authentically in your relationships. Simple practices can support your nervous system during busy times. Chapters 00:00 Navigating Connection During the Holidays 02:27 Understanding Emotional Roles and Family Dynamics 04:57 Building Meaningful Connections 08:01 Establishing Healthy Boundaries 10:49 The Power of Presence and Small Acts 11:43 Conclusion and Next Steps Connect With Us:

Why is it that we can call five friends when something goes wrong… but hesitate to call even one when something goes right? Today, we're unpacking the complicated dance between vulnerability, celebration, and connection. Who are the people in your life who can hold your hard moments and cheer for your wins without shrinking? In this conversation, Jessica and Kelly explore the dynamics of friendships, particularly focusing on the tendency to share good and bad news. They discuss the societal pressures surrounding vulnerability and the celebration of personal achievements, emphasizing the importance of surrounding oneself with supportive individuals. The conversation concludes with a call to embrace an abundance mindset and celebrate wins together. Inside This Conversation:  The number of friends you call with good news is often smaller than those you call with bad news. Many people fear sharing good news due to concerns about jealousy or being perceived as bragging. Vulnerability is key in friendships, allowing for deeper connections. It's easier to share bad news than good news for many individuals. Cultural norms often discourage celebrating personal achievements, labeling it as bragging. Surrounding oneself with supportive friends can foster a healthier environment for sharing successes. The concept of 'candle blower outers' highlights the importance of uplifting each other. There is an abundance of happiness and success available for everyone. Celebrating wins is essential for personal growth and happiness. It's important to be mindful of others' emotional states when sharing good news. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Podcasting Journey 01:38 Friends for Good and Bad News 04:36 Vulnerability and Authenticity in Sharing 07:03 Celebrating Wins and Abundance Mindset 09:00 NEWCHAPTER Connect With Us:

The holidays are here — and so is the pressure. The expectations. The comparison. The “shoulds.” But what if joy didn't just happen this season? What if you created it on purpose? In today's episode, Kelly and Jessica kick off December with a powerful, grounding conversation about choosing joy intentionally… not accidentally, not because Instagram says so, not because “it's tradition,” and definitely not because you feel obligated. Together, they introduce a simple but life-changing tool called The Joy Hierarchy — your personal top-three list of what brings you real joy this season. You'll learn how to identify what genuinely nourishes you, prioritize what matters most, and release all the holiday extras that drain your energy. This episode gives you: ✨ A new definition of joy (it's not one-size-fits-all!) ✨ A step-by-step guide to building your own Joy Hierarchy ✨ Permission slips to opt out, simplify, and redefine traditions ✨ Heartfelt examples from Kelly and Jessica's own joy lists ✨ A reminder that your holiday gets to look the way you need it to Whether you're craving slow mornings, cozy lights, meaningful moments, or more space than usual — you're invited to make this a season that feels honest, grounding, and deeply yours. Because joy isn't something you wait for. It's something you choose — on purpose. In This Episode: Why joy takes intention (yes, even during the holidays) How to identify what actually brings you joy Releasing obligation, guilt, and comparison Creating a Joy Hierarchy that guides your December Protecting your energy with boundaries Permission to slow down and choose a different kind of season Mentioned in This Episode:

What book has been waiting for you to finally read it? In this episode, Jessica and Kelly discuss their reading goals for the year, sharing insights on various books they've read, particularly focusing on memoirs and personal stories. They explore different genres, recommend titles to each other, and reflect on the impact of reading on their lives. The discussion highlights the joy of reading and the benefits it brings, encouraging listeners to dive into new books and expand their literary horizons. Inside This Conversation:  Kelly is aiming for 75 books this year, currently at 56. Jessica enjoyed the memoir 'Solito' about a boy's journey from El Salvador. The discussion includes the impact of memoirs on understanding personal stories. They reflect on the sensationalism of media in celebrity narratives. Jessica found 'Waiting for Britney' to be a fascinating read about media influence. Kelly shares her experience with spooky books and their appeal. They discuss the importance of well-written literature and character development. Jessica recommends 'The Haunting of Pains Hollow' for spooky book lovers. Kelly is currently reading 'Atomic Habits' and finds it insightful. The conversation emphasizes the benefits of reading and sharing book recommendations. Chapters 00:00 Reading Goals and Challenges 03:26 Memoirs That Resonate 06:30 Exploring New Genres 09:09 Book Recommendations and Insights 12:03 Future Reads and Closing Thoughts Connect With Us:

Are you rushing through the holidays, or are you letting gratitude soften the edges of your days? In this Thanksgiving episode of Chasing Brighter, hosts Jessica Colarco and Kelly reflect on the importance of gratitude as a practice rather than a one-time event. They discuss personal experiences and insights from the month, emphasizing the value of connection, perspective, and honoring one's journey. The conversation encourages listeners to integrate gratitude into their daily lives and to appreciate the small moments that contribute to a fulfilling life. Inside This Conversation:  Gratitude is a practice that can be integrated into daily life. Reflecting on challenges can reveal valuable lessons. Family traditions can enhance the Thanksgiving experience. Gratitude helps us focus on the present moment. It's important to honor our personal journeys and growth. Small rituals can foster a sense of gratitude. Gratitude can transform our perspective on life. Taking time to reflect on the year can provide clarity. Expressing gratitude can deepen connections with others. Gratitude is essential for personal transformation. Chapters 00:00 Thanksgiving Reflections and Gratitude Practices 05:26 Honoring Our Journey and Growth 11:15 Creating Space for Gratitude and Transformation 13:00 NEWCHAPTER Connect With Us:

Is decorating early the secret to actually enjoying the holidays? In this episode, Jessica and Kelly discuss their holiday preparations, including early Christmas decorations and family traditions. They also share their recent travel experiences, particularly a trip to a Notre Dame football game, highlighting the challenges of winter weather and the joy of reconnecting with friends. Inside This Conversation:  Decorating early for the holidays can reduce stress. The holiday season can be busy, but it's important to enjoy it. Twinkling lights create a cozy atmosphere in the home. Traveling during the fall can be easier before the holiday rush. Experiencing winter weather can be challenging but memorable. College traditions can strengthen friendships over time. Driving in bad weather requires caution and preparation. It's important to find joy in holiday gatherings with family. Sharing experiences with friends can create lasting memories. Don't hesitate to try new things, even if they seem daunting.   Chapters 00:00 Holiday Preparations and Traditions 03:30 Travel Adventures and College Friendships 06:25 Weather Challenges and Driving Experiences 12:10 Reflections on Fun and New Experiences Connect With Us:

What if strength wasn't about doing more, but about offering yourself grace? In this episode, Jessica Colarco and Kelly discuss the pervasive feelings of guilt, particularly among women, and how to choose grace over guilt. They explore the importance of setting boundaries, practicing self-compassion, and redefining strength to include rest and self-care. The discussion also touches on parenting and the guilt that often accompanies it, emphasizing the need for self-acceptance and the understanding that worthiness is not tied to productivity. Inside This Conversation:  Guilt often sneaks into our everyday lives, especially for women. Burnout can manifest as quiet resentment and heaviness. Setting boundaries is a form of honesty and self-respect. Overcommitting leads to a version of ourselves that is not genuine. Resting is not laziness; it's a necessary part of self-care. Self-compassion helps counteract feelings of guilt. Grace allows us to acknowledge our worth without productivity. Parenting guilt can hinder our ability to teach resilience to our children. Choosing grace over guilt can redefine our understanding of strength. Practicing grace can create a ripple effect, encouraging others to do the same. Chapters 00:00 Choosing Grace Over Guilt 02:59 Understanding Burnout and Boundaries 05:49 The Power of Self-Compassion 08:14 Redefining Strength and Rest 10:56 Parenting, Guilt, and Resilience 13:50 Practicing Grace in Everyday Life Connect With Us:

How do we date in a world where privacy is fragile and connection feels digital? In this conversation, Jessica and Kelly explore the complexities of dating in the modern age, touching on the rise of Facebook Dating, the challenges of identity and privacy in the digital world, and the evolving nature of relationships. They discuss the importance of compatibility and companionship in marriage, reflecting on personal experiences and societal expectations surrounding dating and relationships. Inside This Conversation:  Dating is a challenging topic for many, especially for those re-entering the dating scene. Facebook Dating has gained popularity due to its integration with existing social networks. Privacy and data sharing are significant concerns in the digital age, especially with dating apps. The evolution of dating has shifted from traditional matchmaking to algorithm-based connections. Companionship and shared values are crucial for long-term relationships. The perception of dating has changed with the rise of technology and social media. Scams related to identity theft are becoming increasingly sophisticated. Support from tech companies, like Facebook, is often lacking when issues arise. Understanding compatibility is essential in finding a life partner. Marriage can evolve over time, with companionship becoming a key component. Chapters 00:00 The Quest for a Dating Expert 03:36 The Rise of Facebook Dating 06:21 Navigating Identity and Privacy in the Digital Age 09:17 The Evolution of Dating and Relationships 12:02 Compatibility vs. Attraction in Long-Term Relationships 14:48 The Importance of Companionship in Marriage 17:56 NEWCHAPTER   Connect With Us:

What if the smallest “thank you” could transform your closest relationships? In this conversation, Jessica Colarco and Kelly explore the profound impact of gratitude on relationships and emotional well-being. They discuss how expressing appreciation not only benefits the recipient but also enhances the giver's happiness. Through personal anecdotes and scientific studies, they highlight the importance of intentional gratitude in everyday interactions, emphasizing that small acts of appreciation can lead to significant positive changes in our connections with others. The discussion also touches on the vulnerability involved in expressing gratitude and how it can strengthen bonds between individuals. Inside This Conversation:  Gratitude is a powerful tool for transforming relationships. Expressing appreciation activates the brain's reward centers for both giver and receiver. A simple thank you can create a deep shift in relationships. Gratitude can be expressed in small, everyday actions. Vulnerability in expressing gratitude strengthens connections. Intentional gratitude can lead to increased happiness and well-being. Gratitude creates a ripple effect that spreads positivity. Specificity in gratitude makes it more impactful. Practicing gratitude can help alleviate anxiety and stress. Connection is built through small moments of appreciation. Chapters 00:00 The Transformative Power of Gratitude 02:51 Gratitude in Action: Real-Life Examples 05:39 Building Connections Through Appreciation 08:22 The Vulnerability of Gratitude 11:12 Gratitude as a Daily Practice 13:49 Creating a Ripple Effect of Kindness Connect With Us:

How can movement become a celebration of what your body can do — not punishment for what it's not? In this conversation, Jessica and Kelly discuss their fitness journeys, focusing on their experiences with Orange Theory workouts, the importance of VO2 max for longevity, and the balance between physical and mental wellness. They share personal anecdotes about their challenges and successes in fitness, emphasizing the significance of recovery, body positivity, and the joy of feeling strong and capable. The discussion encourages listeners to find a form of movement that resonates with them and promotes overall well-being.   Inside This Conversation:  Jessica expresses gratitude for her body and its capabilities. Kelly shares her experience with Orange Theory's Hell Week. The conversation highlights the fun and intensity of group workouts. They discuss the importance of cardiovascular health and VO2 max. Recovery is emphasized as a crucial aspect of fitness. Mental wellness is intertwined with physical health in their discussions. Weight loss is approached with a focus on health rather than appearance. Both women feel stronger and more capable through their fitness journeys. They acknowledge the societal pressures around body image and fitness. The conversation concludes with encouragement for listeners to find joy in movement.   Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Fitness Journeys 03:16 Experiencing Hell Week at Orange Theory 06:19 The Importance of Variety in Workouts 09:12 Understanding VO2 Max and Longevity 11:54 Tracking Progress and Health Metrics 14:30 The Role of Mental Wellness in Fitness 17:25 The Connection Between Weight Loss and Health 20:32 Building Strength and Overcoming Pain 23:18 Conclusion: Embracing Movement and Self-Care 27:44 NEWCHAPTER fitness, health, Orange Theory, VO2 max, longevity, weight loss, mental wellness, exercise, recovery, body positivity

How can we hold both joy and struggle—and still feel grateful? In this episode of Chasing Brighter, hosts Jessica Colarco and Kelly discuss the importance of finding gratitude amidst life's chaos. They explore how gratitude can shift our focus from negativity to appreciation, emphasizing that it doesn't erase pain but rather widens our perspective. The conversation includes personal anecdotes, practical tips for cultivating gratitude, and the significance of embracing both joy and struggle in our lives. The hosts encourage listeners to practice gratitude daily, highlighting its role in emotional flexibility and personal growth.   Inside This Conversation:  Gratitude shifts our focus from what's missing to what's meaningful. Our brains are wired to scan for danger, leading to negativity bias. Gratitude doesn't erase pain; it widens our perspective. Genuine gratitude acknowledges both the good and the hard. Practicing gratitude can lead to biological changes in our brain. Finding gratitude in small moments can help us feel more content. Gratitude is a practice that can be developed over time. It's important to balance gratitude with acknowledging our struggles. Gratitude can be cultivated through simple daily practices. Embracing imperfections allows for growth and grace.   Chapters 00:00 Embracing Gratitude in Chaos 05:07 The Balance of Gratitude and Pain 10:04 Practical Ways to Cultivate Gratitude 15:00 Micro Moments of Gratitude 18:44 Reframing Daily Annoyances 21:00 NEWCHAPTER gratitude, grace, emotional flexibility, positivity, mindfulness, parenting, self-care, mental health, personal growth, resilience Connect With Us:

Can high-achieving women really have it all—or are we burning out trying to prove we can? In this episode of Superwoman Diaries, Jessica Colarco interviews Sarah Bolor, a licensed clinical social worker and founder of Say It Mental Health. Sarah specializes in helping high achieving women overcome burnout, perfectionism, and people pleasing. The conversation explores Sarah's journey into social work, her experiences with grief, and the challenges faced by high achieving women in balancing personal and professional lives. They discuss strategies for self-care, the importance of setting boundaries, and the impact of societal expectations on women's mental health. Sarah shares her insights on navigating motherhood while maintaining a career and emphasizes the need for self-compassion and positive self-talk. Inside This Conversation: Sarah Bolor helps high achieving women break free from burnout. The importance of setting boundaries for mental health. Grief can be supported through community and professional help. High achieving women often struggle with perfectionism and people pleasing. Self-worth is often tied to achievements for high achieving women. Finding balance is more about aligning values than achieving equality. Daily self-talk can significantly impact mental health. It's okay to prioritize personal time and self-care. Women are often expected to manage the mental load at home. Professional development can coexist with personal enjoyment in reading. The Fourth Wing Series Connect With Us:

What if true confidence isn't something you build—but something you rediscover within yourself? In this episode, Jessica and Kelly explore the theme of building confidence through self-connection, particularly in midlife. They discuss the importance of introspection, recognizing disconnection from oneself, and the core practices that can help individuals reconnect with their values and desires. The conversation emphasizes that true confidence comes from within and is about being authentic and unapologetically oneself. They also provide practical tips for listeners to cultivate self-connection and confidence in their daily lives. Inside This Conversation: Confidence is built through self-connection and introspection. Midlife is a time for rediscovering who you are. True confidence comes from within, not external validation. Recognizing disconnection from oneself is crucial for growth. Practices like journaling and mindfulness can enhance self-connection. Honoring your values is essential for building confidence. Celebrating small wins helps reinforce self-acceptance. Setting boundaries is a form of self-connection. Doubt is a natural part of the journey to confidence. Being unapologetically you is about being at home with yourself. Connect With Us:

Why is finding a good handyman harder than picking the perfect outfit? In this conversation, Jessica and Kelly discuss various topics ranging from personal updates to home improvement challenges. They share experiences with handyman services, the importance of cutting out the middleman in home repairs, and navigating insurance claims. The conversation also touches on personal style, particularly the trend of matching sets in fashion, and the significance of finding reliable help for home maintenance. Inside This Conversation: Home improvement can be a challenging but rewarding experience. Cutting out the middleman can save money and improve service quality. Finding a reliable handyman is crucial for home maintenance. Insurance claims can complicate home repairs but are sometimes necessary. Matching sets in fashion can elevate personal style and confidence. Asking for recommendations can lead to finding great service providers. Personal updates can provide insight into everyday challenges and solutions. Fashion trends can influence personal choices and self-expression. Home repairs often require patience and persistence.Building a network of trusted professionals can ease home management burdens. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates 03:42 Home Renovation Challenges and Experiences 06:28 Finding Reliable Handyman Services 09:19 Insurance and Home Repairs 12:13 Fashion Trends and Personal Style   home improvement, handyman services, insurance claims, personal style, home repairs, DIY, home renovation, fashion, lifestyle, home maintenance

Are you living for others' approval—or finally stepping into your own power? In this episode of Chasing Brighter, Jessica Colarco and Kelly discuss the journey from being a people pleaser to embracing personal power and self-worth. They explore the roots of people pleasing, its impact on mental health, and the importance of setting boundaries. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-reflection and the practice of honoring one's own needs to foster healthier relationships and a more authentic life.   Inside This Conversation: People pleasing often stems from a desire for approval and fear of rejection. Setting boundaries is essential for self-respect and mental health. Resentment can be a significant consequence of people pleasing. Recognizing the cost of people pleasing can lead to personal growth. Empathy is valuable, but it shouldn't come at the expense of self-worth. Practicing self-care and self-acceptance is crucial for emotional well-being. It's important to pause and reflect before automatically saying yes to others. Boundaries can disrupt patterns of self-sacrifice and promote healthier relationships. Owning your worth allows for authenticity and freedom in relationships. Small acts of self-respect can lead to significant changes in behavior. Connect With Us:

Have you ever felt that losing someone you love changed the way you see life? In this conversation, Jessica and Kelly explore the themes of grief, loss, and the importance of connection with family and loved ones. They share personal experiences of losing family members and how these events have shaped their perspectives on life and relationships. The discussion emphasizes the need to prioritize connections, create meaningful moments, and maintain a positive mindset, especially in the face of adversity. They reflect on the legacy of loved ones and the importance of living in gratitude.   Our episodes with Safia Lyon: Healing with Safia Lyon Staying Healthy and Happy During the Holidays with Safia Lyon Rejuvenation & Preparation for the Colder Months Inside This Conversation: A victim mindset can hinder personal growth. Connection with loved ones is crucial during grief. Celebrating the lives of those lost can aid healing. Quality time with family is more important than quantity. Maintaining connections requires effort and intention Grief can lead to a reevaluation of priorities. Creating moments with family can be simple and meaningful. Living in gratitude can shift your perspective. Love and support from family can foster resilience. Legacy of loved ones can inspire and motivate us.  Connect With Us:

Welcome to Healing Is My Hobby, the new podcast from Jessica Colarco, Licensed Clinical Social Worker and co-host of Chasing Brighter. In this introductory episode, Jessica shares the inspiration behind the show — blending her 19 years of clinical experience with her personal healing journey. This podcast is your space to explore what healing really looks like in everyday life — from managing stress and burnout to tending to grief, relationships, and self-worth. Through storytelling, science, and soulful practice, Jessica invites you to pause, breathe, and discover what heals you.

Could what you wear actually change how you feel about yourself? In this episode, Jessica and Kelly explore the profound connection between fashion and confidence, discussing how clothing choices can influence emotions, behavior, and self-perception. They introduce the concept of 'dopamine dressing,' emphasizing the psychological effects of what we wear and how it can empower us. The conversation encourages listeners to be intentional with their wardrobe, using fashion as a tool for self-expression and mental wellness. Inside This Conversation: Fashion is a powerful tool for building confidence. Dopamine dressing can enhance our mood and energy. Colors and textures in clothing influence our emotions. Wearing outfits that align with our aspirations boosts confidence. Intentional wardrobe choices can lead to empowerment. Fashion can be a form of self-care and mental wellness. Clothing choices send signals that influence our behavior. Sharing outfits with friends can enhance the experience of dressing. Experimenting with different styles can lead to self-discovery. Every day is an opportunity to express our best selves through fashion.   Connect With Us:

In this engaging conversation, Jessica and Kelly explore various themes surrounding beauty, fitness, and self-care. They discuss their personal beauty routines, the importance of community in fitness, and the benefits of different workout options, including Orange Theory and the rising trend of weighted vests. The conversation highlights the significance of finding what works for individual lifestyles and the evolving trends in fitness and nutrition. Inside This Conversation:  Self-care routines can boost confidence and well-being. Community support in fitness can enhance motivation. Exploring different workout options can lead to better results. Weighted vests are gaining popularity for their health benefits. Finding accountability in fitness is crucial for consistency. Natural makeup looks are trending in beauty. Sunscreen education is important for skin health. Walking is an effective and accessible form of exercise. Trends in fitness often cycle back to previous methods. It's essential to meet yourself where you're at in fitness. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Personal Grooming Rituals 03:38 Makeup Tips and Trends 06:20 Fitness Journeys and New Friendships 09:05 Exploring Orange Theory and Group Workouts 11:59 Weight Training and Muscle Building 14:49 The Rise of Weighted Vests 17:37 Trends in Fitness and Nutrition 20:15 Conclusion and Personal Reflections 22:16 NEWCHAPTER   Connect With Us: