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Captain Kory Flowers returns to the Street Cop Training Podcast to discuss what it means to be a true professional, how to manage your priorities, and the 2025 Street Cop Training Conference.-----00:00:00:00 - 00:01:07:05Teaser00:01:07:05 - 00:04:29:00Intro00:04:29:00 - 00:10:27:23Police Week00:10:27:23 - 00:17:58:20Pursuing your calling & feeling crushed00:17:58:20 - 00:25:06:23Tolerance & handling criticism00:25:06:23 - 00:36:07:28Suffering for the greater good & perseverance00:36:07:28 - 00:36:32:00Midroll00:36:32:00 - 00:50:10:11Street Cop Training Conference 202500:50:10:11 - 00:55:13:19Be nice, no judgment00:55:13:19 - 01:12:52:26Being a true professional01:12:52:26 - 01:14:24:28Outro
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For a lot of us, these past few weeks have been A LOT. If you're noticing yourself coping with food right now more than you'd prefer… NO JUDGMENT. Give yourself love. But also—let it be a ‘check engine' light. Because the truth is: this moment in history is real. But so is your POWER. In this episode, I'm breaking down: -The ‘Trump 10'—why food feels like the only relief sometimes (but there's a better way to take care of YOU). -The 7 strategies to stay empowered instead of falling into self-sabotage. -Why most wellness influencers won't touch this subject with a 10-foot pole—but I refuse to stay silent because your well-being (and lasting weight loss) is MORE than kale and workout selfies. It's absolutely possible that instead of falling into old habits or sabotaging your goals, you can have a step-by-step game plan to protect your peace, take care of yourself, and step into your power with food decisions—without guilt, stress, or regret. LISTEN NOW xo Brenda PS. Sign Up for "How to NOT Stress Eat Your Way Through the Next 4 Years" Workshop on Tuesday, February 11th at 1 PM PST. In just 2 hours, you'll walk away with a completely personalized plan to navigate the next 4 years—without stress eating. Sign up now for just $33 at: brendalomeli.com/panic-to-power
"Don't be obsessed, just be intrigued." In this episode of Self Interrupted with Kit Costello I'm talking about being obsessed. Now Kitanators... I'm being very vulnerable by doing this episode so NO JUDGMENT! I'm going to be talking about being obsessed with a crush and also being obsessed with other peoples success. I'm also going to be teaching the lessons that I have learnt on how to overcome being obsessed with people. Also (as always) I catch you up on what has been going on in my weeks including; coffee at the shard, meetings in London and dying my hair black! I hope you enjoy this episode! Sending love (as always), Kit x Podcast YouTube: @selfinterrupted Podcast Instagram: @selfinterruptedpod Podcast TikTok: @selfinterruptedpod Kit's Instagram: @kit.costello Kit's Tiktok: @kit.costello Kit's Website: www.kitcostello.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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A huge thank you to Tanisha Lyons-Porter, founder of Natural Born Organizers for joining us on the final episode of Full Circle for 2024! Tanisha has been a professional organizer for over 20 years; she has a strong desire to serve people and help them achieve their goals. She works with clients all over the country, and she can help you too! In addition to hearing her personal journey to entrepreneurship, here are a few highlights from the show: Tanisha's tips for getting started with organizing. How to overcome overwhelm and procrastination. Why her “No Judgment” motto is the key to success. Tanisha also shared an opportunity to pre-order her new book Clutter Chin Checks: 21 Days to a More Organized You. Getting organized is not just about the physical "stuff", it's a mindset shift as well. Pre-Order her new book Clutter Chin Checks: 21 Days to a More Organized You Learn more about Natural Born Organizers --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/iammswanda/support
Lauren Oyler's “Revenge Plot”, a literary diary of her trip to this year's Republican convention in Milwaukee, is the cover story of this month's Harper's. So when I talked today with the Berlin based writer, we discussed both the revengefulness of the Republican party and what she calls the “risk aversion” of the Democrats. While Oyler cares a lot about the outcome of today's election, she is wary of what she calls the “constant catastrophizing” both on the left and right of American politics. While this probably won't be the final election in the history of American democracy, she suggests, it might be the first 21st century Presidential contest not dramatically shaped by the internet. LAUREN OYLER's essays on books and culture appear regularly in The New Yorker, The New York Times Magazine, London Review of Books, Harper's Magazine, Bookforum, and other publications. Born and raised in West Virginia, she now divides her time between New York and Berlin.Named as one of the "100 most connected men" by GQ magazine, Andrew Keen is amongst the world's best known broadcasters and commentators. In addition to presenting KEEN ON, he is the host of the long-running How To Fix Democracy show. He is also the author of four prescient books about digital technology: CULT OF THE AMATEUR, DIGITAL VERTIGO, THE INTERNET IS NOT THE ANSWER and HOW TO FIX THE FUTURE. Andrew lives in San Francisco, is married to Cassandra Knight, Google's VP of Litigation & Discovery, and has two grown children.Keen On is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.TRANSCRIPTAndrew Keen: Hello, everybody. The day has come, it's Tuesday, November the 5th. Election Day. We don't know who's won, but many people are going to the polls. One person who won't be going to the polls is my guest today, Lauren Oyler. She's a distinguished American writer, bestselling writer, essayist, critic. But she happens to be, as I joked before, we went live in exile in Berlin. She lives there in Germany, but she's also the author of an excellent piece, it's the cover story of Harper's this week: "Reunion or Revenge: The GOP Identity Crisis." According to Lauren, they're on the brink. I'm not sure of what. Lauren is joining us from Berlin in Germany. Lauren, what's the view from there? Americans looking as crazy as ever?Lauren Oyler: We're looking for a bar to go to. To be honest, we've been we've been we've been caucusing, trying to figure out where we can watch the the results. And we just found there's one place. But, you know, it doesn't the results aren't really start coming in until midnight here. So the debate is about whether we will stay up--or, people have some bad memories of doing that in 2016. I personally have a bad memory of doing that in 2016 as well. So the view is we're looking at our phones.Keen: So I assume the bad memory was not that you drank too much or ate too much.Oyler: No, I did. I certainly did. I'm just I was with my boyfriend at the time and we had gotten in a fight earlier that day about Hillary Clinton. And I, I just remember being like, I just don't care. I just don't care. And then we went to the bar with our friends and got quite drunk. And and then we were walking home and I didn't live here at the time, so I didn't have we didn't have cell phone service. So we walked home at like three in the morning. We were really drunk and we were like, Well, we won't know anything. And then we got home and we like, laid in bed in the dark and and looked at our phones and we were like, no, this is terrible. So and then just laid in bed again, really drunk looking at our phones.Keen: It's something that could have occurred in one of your books or maybe in a in a DeLillo book. So are the Germans shocked? I mean, they they they've made a culture out of being a shock to other people that they particularly shocked this time around?Oyler: No, I don't think so. I remember right before I went to report this story, I was in a restaurant down the street from my house and I listened to--I was overhearing a conversation with this German guy, was talking to these people and he was like, he was he was like, Yeah, have you heard they have the plague in Colorado now? He's like, Yeah, this is crazy. Imagine if we had the plague in Berlin. Like, it was really like, I don't really think they sort of like, Yeah, this is crazy, but it's, you know, it's not it's not the first time. And I think to and in Europe, it used to be that you were reviled as an American. Certainly when I first moved here in 2012, there was still that kind of anti-American sentiment. But now far right populism has spread across the West and everybody is sort of commiserating with with you and just kind of like, you know, it could happen. It could happen to us at any time. It basically is the idea.Keen: The plague has come home to Germany from Colorado. So let's get to the piece, Lauren, you went to Milwaukee to cover the GOP's identity crisis. And it's a long essay. Very...to use the word Oyler-ish in the sense that it's it's a very creative piece of work, creative nonfiction, although some people might say there's a fictional element there. What was your overall take on this odd convention and why was it that it's almost five months ago now?Oyler: Yeah. Well, I think the big the the big concern that I had going into it was that, you know, you're right, it would be coming out it came out in the middle of October, and I would be reporting on something that had happened in July, which, of course, in the past would have been perfectly normal for this kind of piece of this kind of like literary new journalism type thing. Many, many great pieces about political conventions that I'm sure your listeners, listeners will be familiar with, things like Norman Mailer, they come out late. But, you know, now--Keen: It's timeless as well in their own way. I mean--Oyler: It's supposed to be timeless, but now everybody's sort of attitude towards the news is like, I need to hear it right now. And then it the cycle, the cycle, the cycle and it goes away. So you sort of forget about it. So I kind of was grateful for the assignment because the assignment was basically like write something of lasting literary value about about the circus and spectacle, which was very interesting. And, you know, it was sort of you're following the news as it's happening and you're like, well, I can't really like you just have to be aware of the general narrative as time has gone on, you can't really be too obsessed with anyone's story because as I learned when former President Trump was almost assassinated while I was on the plane there, like something can just completely derail the whole plan. But I had never been to a political convention before. I was surprised at how much I enjoyed doing that kind of reporting. And I was surprised at how at the dissonance between what was being reported by these live up to the minute coverage, like blogs or social media or things like this. The difference between the analysis that those those journalists would generally produce and what I was interested in or even like what I thought the mood was, frankly, as, as the title of the piece and the sort of the tag line suggests, like it was a bit fraught, I think, for the Republicans. I think I think the liberal media generally tends to want to keep to the storyline that they are evil masterminds of the chaos that they saw. But I what I saw there at least, was kind of a fracturing basically.Keen: Right? I mean, I think that the more I watch or listen to liberal media or mainstream media, they behave as if they're the grownups and. And perhaps some of these photos actually underline the fact that it's the Republicans who were the children. For better or worse, they're out of control. They need to be sent to their room and perhaps spanked, although I'm guessing most liberal media people don't believe in spanking anymore. I'm curious, Lauren. I had lunch with Rick MacArthur, the publisher of Harper's few months ago in New York. And like all publishers of traditional magazines, he claims poverty, not enough money to go around. Couldn't you find someone a bit closer? I mean, I assume he paid for you to fly from Berlin to Milwaukee. That's quite a long way. Why didn't he find a local person, or do you think he chose you, or they chose you, the editor chose you because you bring a slightly foreign perspective?Oyler: Do you don't think I'm such a good writer that it's worth flying me over there?Keen: Did they pay for first class?Oyler: No, it was was economy, which was good, actually, because I got I had some interesting conversations with my senior and they did say, you know, we won't pay for paper business, but I did buy the expensive internet in the end. But and I think I was staying in a Hampton Inn. Do you know how do you know how the--Keen: My God. So they put you up in a Hampton Inn?Oyler: Do you know how it works? So when you go to a convention, there's like the convention as the press, the press corps or the convention, if you like, a place to stay. And so many of the delegates were staying like in Madison, Wisconsin, or in Illinois, and I was in the same hotel as the USA Today people. So that speaks to me being like the, you know, the national and the the government's like belief in the value of Harper's magazine in comparison to other other places. So it was maybe like 20 minute drive away anyway. Non sequitur. So why do you think they asked me to go? Maybe because I do have a little bit of foreign perspective, I think to it is not you know, it is nice to have a literary writer juice politics coverage. You know, there's a long history of this. Norman Mailer is a wonderful introduction to this book that I have about ranting about journalists and reporters and why it's important to bring a novelistic eye to things. Joan Didion, obviously famously, and all sorts of other examples. George Saunders did a did a Trump rally in 2016. I think Patricia Lockwood did one as well. So I think there's that kind of tradition that that Harper's is a part of and wants to sort of continue in the face of maybe people saying that literary writing has no place in society anymore. But also, I assume that my being from Appalachia has something to do with it because, yes, as you say, I live in Berlin, but I was born and grew up in West Virginia, and although we did not know J.D. Vance was going to be selected as the VP when they assigned me this piece, it wasn't always a strong possibility. And I think the region sort of exerts a pull on the national media at least every four years. So I would assume that that also has something to do with it.Keen: That's interesting that, you know, the the other side of the Appalachian coin from J.D. Vance. You mentioned earlier, Lauren, that the the media reported on this differently from bloggers and some of the online crowd. What are the differences? Can you generalize about how the USA Today crowd covered it verses bloggers who perhaps weren't there or watching online?Oyler: Yeah, well, I think there is a certain kind of convention story that is just like we're here, there's someone on TV, they're doing a stand up. They have someone shooting them and they're just like, I'm here live at the convention. Like, here's how crazy it is. But the thing that I talk about in the piece especially is this Ezra Klein sort of blog about the convention. And I believe the headline that he wrote was for his podcast about it was I watched the Republican National Convention. Here's whatever, and that kind of dramatic headline style that that has been honed on the Internet--Keen: And this was a New York Times piece--Oyler: Well, the New York Times Piece...I watched the Republican National Convention on television. Why does that...anyone can watch the Republican National Convention on television. And they want it to be like a dramatic sort of...a little bit dangerous feeling that it did have at points. But but the thing that was surprising to me was how unenthusiastic many of the people there were or who were just there because, you know, they go every been ten times or whatever.Keen: I mean, you have some great photos in the piece of people looking pretty miserable, which of course probably makes most of us feel better about it. And I mean this one in particular for people watching a couple of white middle class people with cheese hats, one with a "Make America Great Again" sign, the other, "bring back common sense." They look most uncommon and most miserable.Oyler: And it's not to say that there wasn't, there were many sort of disturbing moments of enthusiasm, I think. But they weren't always the people on stage that you would--the biggest applause that I remember was not for Trump or for J.D. Vance. Of course, those went on forever. But this sort of passion, like the sort of scary passion that the media wants to find it in the Republicans. I noticed it most with Peter Navarro, who had just gotten out of prison that day and offering to give a trial, which was so bizarre and people were just screaming their heads off for him.Keen: And he's a China hater.Oyler: Yes, I can never remember what the sort of White House department of something that they invented that he was the head of. It was some kind of trade council.Keen: Like Go to War with China Department.Oyler: Yes. Yes. And he had just been let out of prison and he was missing a tooth. Which was really bizarre. And then Tucker Carlson, everybody was going crazy for it because he's like a celebrity. But there was not this kind of excitement for, say, Kid Rock or something like this. Or even Hulk Hogan.Keen: Yeah. So here's the question for you. Lauren, I think you're as well-positioned in every sense to to answer this question, which is the question I struggle with and I've talked to I've talked about endlessly on this show and I haven't resolved I'm sure I've bored most of my viewers and listeners. You mentioned Hulk Hogan, of course, the ultimate wrestler. In fact, I had Peter Osnos on the show last week. It was the original editor of Art of the Deal, and he said when he was editing out of the deal, he went with Trump to a wrestling contest, and Trump was enormously popular there back then, 30 or 40 years ago. To what extent is this whole--and I use this word carefully--spectacle, just wrestling. To what extent is it just another version of reality television and everyone understands in an odd kind of way that they're participating in this weird narrative. You've done a lot of thinking and writing on this in terms of the Internet, although some of the people participating in this are pre-Internet people. I mean, Trump is Mr. Reality television. So this goes back before the Internet. But to what extent is this, I don't know, reality, hyper reality, beyond reality, and how does it connect with--there is a reality of America on November the 5th, 2024. I hope that's a--I'm not sure it's a particularly clear question, but gives you an opportunity to talk about how you perceive this whole spectacle or circus.Oyler: Well, I think it's I think that the Republican Party and I think the American society in general, certainly American media, has been in a kind of transitional phase since 2020. Don't quote me on that, but like generally, like since Trump's term was a very crystal clear political moment in the country, I think. And it did make a lot of people sort of immediately think back and say what, what did I miss about the last ten, 15 years that led to this? Like, why didn't I see this coming? Why didn't I expect Donald Trump to be elected president in 2016? And that led to all this kind of--the things that you're referencing, which are, you know, reality, the effects of reality television and the effects of social media, you know, the sort of the the sense that--the desire for kind of like a more immediate relationship to our media that develops--all these things kind of developed in tandem, which is to say that, you know, someone who's watching the Hills on MTV, which is sort of my demographic, is not going to be the same kind of person who's watching wrestling per say. But there are many things that those two kinds of programing have in common, right? And it is kind of the ironic presentation of reality and scare quotes, right? And I think that Donald Trump, obviously a reality television host himself and and and certainly involved in professional wrestling can like sort of tap into could tap into that. But I don't think we're in that period anymore. I don't you know nobody is we aren't I hope we don't have graduate students writing dissertations on the on the Kardashians anymore which is what, you know that was such a prominent force in the media and in the sort of 2010s during Obama's administration. And I don't know exactly like what is next, right? The conversations we're having now are all about AI. They're all about Elon Musk. But it's certainly not this like pro-wrestling spectacle thing anymore. And I think you can see that because it's not as if that was that was not new, part of part of the spectacle that was created by the by the Hulk Hogan stuff was like that it was so surprising. But you can't keep bringing Hulk Hogan out every for, you know, you can't have them every four years. I'm sorry.Keen: An immortal Hulk Hogan or for that matter, Trump.Oyler: Yeah, yeah. And I do think that--picking J.D. Vance as the vice presidential nominee does indicate that they are trying to sort of move forward and kind of set the path for Trumpism after Trump. As many...that's not my phrase. It's a phrase everybody everybody uses, because also Trumpism is the most successful kind of Republican movement in a long time. You might remember the Tea Party didn't arrive. But there's a lot of dissent about that, I think. I think a lot of older people in the party that I talked to when I was at the convention were dissatisfied with Trump. And they would say, you know, I actually never liked him. I didn't vote for him in the primary in 2016. I would prefer he not do this. I overheard a man giving an interview to some some wire service and he, he really sounded like he was having an identity crisis. Like he was like, I don't know. This is not the party I grew up with. This is not the party I joined. What am I going to do? So there are lots of these older guys who feel that way. And then on the other side, there are lots of these young guys who I talked to who are kind of young Republicans in their early 20s, and they also don't really care. It's not like they're excited about Donald Trump. They're like excited by the kind of meme-ified free market capitalism opportunities that the Republicans sort of scoop up, right? Like they like crypto. They like, you know, they're like they have some really confused ideas about tariffs, which if you if you press them on it a little bit, you would say maybe you actually should vote for a Democrat because Trump is just putting more tariffs on things, just all sorts of things.Keen: By the way, it's the first time in this conversation, Lauren, I've heard the the West Virginian twang when you when you said tariffs. Say it again.Oyler: Tariffs? I mean, I can do it all day if you want. I was anticipating you asking me to perform the accent. Maybe when we talk about a little bit more about J.D. Vance.Keen: Yeah.Oyler: But but, yeah--Keen: Tariffs, and what about China? Could you do China?Oyler: Well, you know, I lived in Beijing for about two months.Keen: I mean, JD, is he the fool here or is he the one who's being made to look like a fool, do you think?Oyler: I think he's allowing himself to be made to look like a fool. I don't think that...Keen: Does he know what he's doing here?Oyler: Yeah. I mean, does he know what he's doing entirely? No. Does he know what he's doing? More than, like, Donald Trump's kids? Yes.Keen: It isn't hard, especially the boys. The girls disappeared, right? I think our girls have disappeared.Oyler: And yeah, good for them. I think I saw on Twitter that it's Ivanka's 43rd birthday today.Keen: Maybe a happy birthday, Ivanka, if you're well, I'm sure you've got better things to do. Although, she does seem to be participating. I'm sure she's severely embarrassed now by the whole thing.Oyler: Yeah, I think that that's a big issue for, you know, they're just they're struggling to have like a base for Trump anymore. And there is like a base for Republican, like a Republican Party base. But it doesn't seem like there's that many.Keen: Yeah, and your essay is entitled "The GOP's Identity Crisis." Maybe it should be "The Trump Family's Identity Crisis."Oyler: Yeah. I mean, he's he's not going to be around for that much longer.Keen: Yeah. I mean, what you said was interesting about talking to a lot of older people who suggested they don't like Trump. I mean, if he loses today, who knows what's going to happen? But if he does indeed lose and relatively decisively in the sense that it's clear that he lost. Do you think the knives are going to be out in your experience in Milwaukee? Yeah, there are enough people in the Republican Party will say enough is enough. This guy's a loser and we need to move on.Oyler: I mean, I think you can't lose two times in a row. You know, I mean, I think that there is enough...It's it's hard to say, well, what are the billionaires going to do? Like, what's Elon Musk going to do? What? Like, where's the money going to go? I don't know. I think they are trying to set up...to me at the convention, it seemed to me that, like J.D. Vance and Vivek Ramaswamy are the are the people that are sort of creating the most enthusiasm. But at the same time, you do have this kind of thing which the Democrats start with in 2016 and in 2020, which is that the younger members of the party have sort of radically different kind of Internet inflected ideas about what they want from the party. And the older guard is sort of scandalized a little bit by that. And it's kind of like a power struggle that will be interesting to watch if if Trump loses. And even if he wins, frankly.Keen: The narrative, the traditional narrative in mainstream media over the last few days has been mostly about men. Men, male and female voters, black and white voters, which is always a feature. And young and old voters. What wisdom did you derive on those fronts from from Milwaukee? Were there any young people there or any black people there? Were there any women there?Oyler: Were there any young people, black people or women there? Yes, there were there. It does skew older. It's very white. And, you know, the women who are there generally wives, even if they're also delegates, like they're not the main event. They don't have a Sarah Palin at this point right? There was...many of the women who spoke on stage were given a pink backdrop. They're very welcoming to women and minorities and young people. The rhetoric is all very much, we're not racist. America is not racist country. This is not a racist party. Over and over again, Tim Scott gave a big speech about how the Republicans aren't racist. Amber Rose Kanye West's ex-girlfriend, gave a big speech about how Republicans aren't racist. There was all this kind of state saying how not racist they were. And, you know, on the ground, obviously most people are white, most people are old, and most people are men. So, it was not super convincing, but it is kind of interesting to watch them say that because, of course, even ten years ago, they would have never cared about any of that, any of those kinds of points.Keen: Early on in the piece, you mentioned DeLillo. To what extent did he, especially in White Noise, did he predict all this? I mean, not just him, but that school of American writing.Oyler: But do you think they're predicting it or they're just observing their own time, and actually, it hasn't changed?Keen: I guess, yeah. I remember a review, I think it was Andrew Hagan's review in the New York Review of Books after 9/11, in which they were reviewing one of one of DeLillo's books about terrorism. I know Hagan wrote about DeLillo in the sense that reality kind of overtaking, maybe, his prediction or his his kind of work. It must be, again, to use a word, surreal here to to see this world that DeLillo already imagined in practice.Oyler: Well, I think he's probably talking about Underworld. But I think it's maybe our idea of of history being kind of flawed rather than DeLillo's being overtaken. I do think DeLillo has some struggles writing about the Internet, but that's fine. But I think, too, because I was reading so much of these convention pieces from the 60s and 70s, the conversation is the same. And that's nonfiction, right? And so I actually think this kind of like apocalyptic rhetoric and and ever greater spectacle, it does sort of get ever greater, but it has always been getting ever greater. And so I don't know that DeLillo has been like overtaken, because also people can read. People read, you know, Libra now, which is all about in the wake of the failed assassination attempt on Trump. Everybody was talking about Libra, which is about the assassination of John F. Kennedy, and the kind of, let's say, deep state apparatus surrounding that event. And also, you know, White Noise is a satirical novel. But but I think there was sort of some airborne toxic events in the United States.Keen: Yeah. I mean, he actually did write that in the book. I think about that. In a small town.Oyler: Exactly. But I believe White Noise is based on also a real incident. And DeLillo tends to work with actual news stories. Underworld is also sort of heavily researched and based on on on real, real events. So I think actually, maybe we we have to sort of admit that like as as as writers, as pundits, as journalists, as as whatever, it's in our best interest to say now is totally different. Right now, more than ever, everything's totally different. We're in a new paradigm. We're in a new era. This is especially bad. You know, you keep hearing this is the most important election of our lives. And we've been hearing that for every single election. And it's always been that kind of story. I can't really remember what your question was, but my my feeling about DeLillo is, like, amazing author. One of the best we have.Keen: Yeah, I know. I agree. And this idea of it being the most important election and of course, until the next one. This idea of an identity crisis. Lauren, what is an identity crisis? You noted that America is in a transitional stage. I mean, countries are always in transitional stages. They're always changing. Gramsci I think wrote that these kind of periods are a time for monsters. So we imagine the worst. What, to you, is an identity crisis, and why is the GOP going through it and not the Democrats? Might one argue that it's actually much healthier to face up to this crisis than to basically ignore it as the as the Democrats seem to be doing?Oyler: Yeah. Well, I think the Democrats, for all their faults, sort of dealt with this in the last two elections. And actually, you could say too the election of Barack Obama in 2008 was also a kind of identity crisis moment for them because the party didn't really want him, right? And Hillary's people, I believe, in 2008 were really critical of anyone who would go work for Obama, and it was it was actually like quite a big conflict. So you could say that basically the Democrats have been going through it as well. And now they've kind of they lost so humiliatingly in 2016 that they kind of had to do something about it, and they basically strong armed the left wing of the party in 2020, which for people of my generation, it was quite upsetting or like, galvanizing in some way, but you just don't really see so much...for someone who was really paying attention in 2020, the dissent against Kamala Harris is so much less than the dissent against Joe Biden in 2020. Does that sound right to you?Keen: Yeah, but I'm not sure you...I mean, if America is indeed in what you call this transitional stage where things the nature of the country, perhaps what we might think of as its kind of operating system is changing so dramatically. The Republicans are trying to face up to it and perhaps making fools of themselves, but at least they're addressing it. Why? Why the Republicans? Why the Democrats? So maybe America really isn't...I mean, this idea of a transitional stage is always true. So it's no more transitional in 2024 than it was in 2020 or 1920.Oyler: Yeah. Well, I think the Democrats have proven themselves to be quite denialists, right? Like they're very centrist. So the radical wing of the Republican Party. You could argue that J.D. Vance is part of part of the radical wing of the Republican Party. So I just think that the the Democrats are risk averse. They're very risk averse. And the things that they want are a return to normalcy when Republicans want like a radical reshaping of the government and society. They want...I went to some Moms for Liberty event where, you know, they weren't talking about this on the convention floor, but the Republicans give hearing to people who want to abolish the Department of Education. I can't remember what Trump's specific view on that is, but that's an incredibly radical proposal.Keen: I mean, Michael Lewis wrote a whole book on that: The Fifth Risk.Oyler: Yeah. But, it's not inconceivable that they would do that.Keen: Well, they did it. I mean, they did it in in 2016. I don't know if you're with the Department of Education, but some of these departments, they essentially shut down or appointed people with so hostile to the bureaucratic state that they by definition were going to ruin it.Oyler: Yeah. And then there was the the acronym R.A.G.E, Retire All Government Employees, and this kind of stuff. So but my point is that they you know, they see themselves as a revolution--the Republicans see themselves as a revolutionary party, and the Democrats are emphatically not. They're defining themselves against Republicans. So they're like, of course we're not America is not in an identity crisis. We just need to, like, get back to normal. But to go back to the phrase identity crisis, I think, too, is a reference also to J.D. Vance, whose whole career is, I argue, based on a sort of perversion of liberal identity politics, or an appeal to a kind of liberal identity politics. And the Republican Party's use of him or his use of them, is also based on this kind of Appalachian identity he has has created for himself in the media.Keen: Lauren, whatever happens today, the country's still profoundly divided. One side's going to win, one side is going to lose, but not by much. Lots of people have written about America in a process of divorce. You've presented the Democrats as denialists and the Republicans as so aggressively trying to figure themselves out in a slightly absurd way. Is this like a kind of traditional divorce where one partner denies there's any problems and the other exaggerates them? I don't know what the outcome of that kind of divorce usually is.Oyler: I don't know. Are you divorced?Keen: Yeah, but I'm not a denialist.Oyler: So you're so you're like--Keen: I mean, I was divorced.Oyler: What?Keen: I mean, I was. So...I've married and divorced.Oyler: Okay. But you have been through that. You've experienced--Keen: Yeah, I've done a divorce. Have you?Oyler: No. Never been married.Keen: But you've written about maybe not marriage, but you've written about...split ups, shall we say? I mean, you book Fake Accounts, which was a big hit, is about individuals and how they relate to one another. Is this like, maybe not a divorce, but a breakup in a in a weird kind of way, which, you know, you can't really breakup because you can't split the country in two?Oyler: Well, I don't think so, because I think it's probably...the thing about a romantic relationship is generally you are choosing in some way at least, to be in it and you're sort of declaring your your desire to be in it at some point in time. So if you're breaking it up, you're kind of it's seen as a failure, right? Whereas if you're an American citizen and you were just born in the country, you can't really control where you were born and you can't really, you know, there are only so many things you can do about that, and about your stake in the American political system and whether it breaks out. But are you asking for going is if this sort of south is going to secede or something like that--Keen: No, I'm saying, does this all tie into perhaps our therapeutic culture? I mean, is it coincidental that the kind of language that's being used both by the participants and observers like yourself is the same kind of language used by therapists, people addressing marriage breakups, relationship breakups, denialism, risk aversity, revenge plots, all this sort of thing?Oyler: Well, I think all the political parties are just made up of individual people, and as an individual person, the metaphors that we have at hand are our personal interpersonal metaphors. But I believe I'm a little rusty on this, but I believe Civilization and Its Discontents by Freud makes a similar kind of argument, right? Which is that there's a interpersonal metaphor that can be expanded to encompass the society. And you can read society psychoanalytically. I'm not a Freudian or even pro psychoanalysis per say, but it's not like it's actually not a new tendency that we we want to speak in these terms, especially in politics, which is different from government, right? Like in politics, all of the rhetoric, all of the language that politicians use and that they construct in order to make their case is incredibly personal and incredibly designed to incite emotion. That may remind you of things that happen in in private life, say. But I mean, are we getting a divorce? Like, we can't get a divorce. The Democrats or Republicans can't get a divorce. Maybe they need to grow up rather rather than split up.Keen: Finally, Lauren, I think your latest collection of essays is, No Judgment, I'm being critical...one of your strengths as a writer, thinker, or broadcaster, is your distance. I saw you had two interviews recently, one with GQ that says you don't take your work too seriously and then one with Vanity Fair, which suggests you care a lot. I wonder, and that's probably true of most of us, that we both hopefully don't take ourselves too seriously, but we also, in our own way, care a lot. Is this something that we should care about? I mean, so much hysteria. You noted earlier, every election is the most important election in American history. 2028 will no doubt be the same. You write without judgment, I think, that the piece also is written, in a sense, without judgment. But are you concerned with America? I mean, is this something to really worry about, or is it just one more scene and in the surreal history of the United States of America?Oyler: Well, I think, of course, it's something to care about. The idea I don't really care about things is obviously not totally true. But I think you can't care about the horse race aspect of of politics and you can't...the constant catastrophizing in the media hasn't worked. It's not accurate and it doesn't work. But of course it would be...I would prefer Donald Trump not win. Like, that will have many effects on even the country where I live, which is Germany. But to that point, I don't live in the United States and I don't live in the United States kind of for political reasons. And, of course, it shouldn't be a horrible catastrophe there the way that it is. Should care about it? Yeah. I think that if people don't care about it, or especially if young people don't care about it, it is a sense of that nothing that you do really matters, and like throwing stuff at the wall to see if it sticks politically. And that moment where everyone thought that they could do sort of political activism on social media has thankfully gone away. But there's been nothing to replace it to produce the kind of political subject for young people. So, I don't you know, I don't know what to do.Keen: Yeah, it's interesting. I mean, I want to end this now because you've been very generous with your time. But I think your point, which hasn't really been made before...2024 is the first post-Internet election. Before, everyone was always obsessed with the Internet, always talking about how important it is. And now, you just don't read much about it. It's either it's the electric system, so it's just sort of ingrained into the system, or we've gone beyond the Internet, God knows where. But the Internet doesn't really feature in the discussion anymore.Oyler: No, I think that that's true. And I think that that's good because people are sort of accepting that it's a part of life now. I think the reason we focused on it so much in the previous two decades was because it felt like things were really radically changing. And maybe this sense that I have that we're transitioning into a new era and we don't really know what is the important thing to focus on is because it was so clear, I think, for many people that things were changing in a particular way with social media and social media was having these kind of drastic facts. And some people were in denial about that, and they would say, social media does matter. It's not real. Now, you can't really say that. But I think I noticed just before we got on the call that there was a New Yorker news, a breaking news story that The New Yorker published that that Russia was sort of inserting like kind of really bizarre election interference propaganda that was so bad. And it's not even going to be a big news story, right? Whereas that was such a huge news story in 2016 and 2020. And now we just sort of accept, yes, the foreign governments are going to attempt to use the Internet to interfere in our elections and we will almost certainly do the same. So, to relate this back to your question, should we all care? I think it's good to be realistic about these things, but it's hard to know where to put the emphasis at this point.Keen: Well, Lauren, Lauren Oyler, the author of Revenge--Revenge Plot, Not Revenge Post.Oyler: I thought you were going to say "romantic movie," which is cool.Keen: You've given me the title of this piece. 2024 is the first post-Internet election. I think that's very profound of you. Thank you so much, Lauren. And I hope I hope you're happy, because I think you and I probably agree on the kind of outcome of the election. But it's not the end of the plot, the revenge plot, whatever other kind of plot you want. We have to get you back on the show, Lauren, once the fog has cleared and we have a better idea of America post-2024. Thank you so much. And keep well and safe in Berlin. Really, I really appreciate it.Oyler: Thanks. Have a good night. This is a public episode. 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In this episode of the Fourth Trimester Podcast, we asked a panel of breastfeeding educators and practitioners to help us put together a 2-part guide on breastfeeding. Importantly, this is a NO JUDGMENT guide. Just the facts and plain language explanations that help you on your journey.Part 2 covers a wide range of topics including: managing milk supply, breast pump usage, feeding schedules and more.Full show notes: fourthtrimesterpodcast.comLinks and resources mentioned on the show: Lactation Resources Find a Lactation Consultant | Mahogany Milk Support Group | Drugs That Are Safe While Breastfeeding - Medications Fact Sheets | NC A&T Outpatient Clinic | Kelly Mom Breastfeeding Articles | Donate Extra Breastmilk | Ready Set Baby | Academy of Breastfeeding Medicine | Fourth Trimester ProjectLearn more The Real Story Behind Breastfeeding | Wire Your Baby for Success Through Optimal Newborn Brain Development | FREE DOWNLOAD The Ultimate Birth Plan Template You Can Customize | mothertobaby.org | infantrisk.com | believeipe.org | Gold Lactation Conference
In this episode of the Fourth Trimester Podcast, we asked a panel of breastfeeding educators and practitioners to help us put together a 2-part guide on breastfeeding. Importantly, this is a NO JUDGMENT guide. Just the facts and plain language explanations that help you on your journey.The content of the guide includes answers to the top breastfeeding questions new parents frequently have during the first 24 hours with a newborn through to the continued breastfeeding years.Full show notes fourthtrimesterpodcast.comFREE DOWNLOAD The Ultimate Birth Plan Template You Can Customize: fourthtrimesterpodcast.com/resourcesLactation Resources Find a Lactation Consultant | Mahogany Milk Support Group | Drugs That Are Safe While Breastfeeding - Medications Fact Sheets | NC A&T Outpatient ClinicLearn more The Real Story Behind Breastfeeding | Wire Your Baby for Success Through Optimal Newborn Brain Development | mothertobaby.org | infantrisk.com | believeipe.org | Gold Lactation Conference
Are you into astrology and blown away by how much it resonates for you, but... Your only outdoor time today was walking to your car Mostly everything you ate today came from a package You don't know what day of your menstrual cycle it is or what moon phase we're in The Sun, Earth, and Moon impact us even more than the further planets. NO JUDGMENT! We don't know what we don't know. In this episode, I'll tell you how and when in my journey I learned how to align with these other rhythms like: the spectrum of light given by the Sun at various times of the day - aka our circadian rhythm the cycles of the moon - aka our infradian rhythm the seasonal shifts through the solstices and equinoxes that we can honor with the Wheel of the Year - aka our circannual rhythm And we'll also talk about astrological rhythms too! Mentioned in this episode: The 4 Feminine Archetypes - what's yours? Your Cycle Superpowers Rewild Your Light (Light as Nutrition) Rewild Your Nutrition Clean Pain, Dirty Pain It's Just a Phase: Journaling with the Moon Mayan Birth Chart - https://www.mayancross.com/ Mark Elmy - https://thefourpillars.net Diana Paez on Instagram CHANI planner Circadian/Light Health Hooga light bulbs Red light bulb Hooga night lights Blue light blockers Blue light blockers kids VivaRays blue blockers that I use (get the orange lenses or the 3-in-1) Let's Go Deeper Together Join the Wild Wellness Women's Circle (monthly membership) Enroll in Rewild Your Wellness (lifetime access online course) Learn more about one-on-one coaching Free Resources Feel how you want to feel NOW with my Free Desire Map FREE Masterclass: Discover Your Spiritual Gifts Sign up for a FREE 1:1 coaching curiosity call Let's Connect! Instagram Facebook TikTok LinkedIn YouTube
These days the culture we consume – movies, books, songs – is determined by platforms aggregating everyone else's reviews and ratings. So, what does it mean when you say you like something in the age of quantification? And is there a way to beat the algorithm?Our guest, writer and critic Lauren Oyler, is the author of No Judgment, a recently published collection of essays. She's a contributing editor at Harper's, and her divisive, often viral essays on books and culture appear regularly in The New Yorker, The New York Times and the London Review of Books. Oyler talks about how to cultivate good taste organically, the difference between professional criticism and the comments section and what it feels like to be called an “ice queen” online.Also, Vass and Katrina take turns not laughing at each other's jokes. This is Lately. Every week, we take a deep dive into the big, defining trends in business and tech that are reshaping our every day.Our executive producer is Katrina Onstad. The show is produced by Andrea Varsany. Our sound designer is Cameron McIver.Subscribe to the Lately newsletter, where we unpack more of the latest in business and technology.Find the transcript of today's episode here.We'd love to hear from you. Send your comments, questions or ideas to lately@globeandmail.com.
Given that 1 out of 6 Americans are taking some sort of psychiatric drug, it's probably time to let go of the stigma surrounding mental illness. And it might also be a good time to question whether giving people drugs is always the best go-to solution for mental health. Dr. Ellen Vora, a functional medicine practitioner and holistic psychiatrist, is one of the leaders of a movement that aims to treat the whole person, and to stop using drugs as a first resort. On this episode of Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu, Ellen Vora discusses how to find the real source of your suffering, what to do if you are too much of a people pleaser, the connection between gut health and brain health, and ways to encourage yourself to make better lifestyle choices. [Original air date: 2-19-20]. SHOW NOTES: Why is the placebo effect so powerful, and does it last? [4:30] Sometimes the benefit of psychiatric drugs is that they lead people to therapy [6:12] Ellen talks about the first steps you should take if you are depressed [7:04] Some people are rebels, and do the opposite of what their therapist asks [10:07] Other people are obligers, and try too hard to please other people [11:01] Ellen discusses learning to value your true yes and your true no [12:32] Ellen describes ways to learn how to respond to situations that trigger you [14:35] Humor and an attitude of gentleness and patience is really helpful [16:08] How to get unstuck [17:18] How do you find where the real source of your suffering is? [18:06] Ellen discusses the connection between gut health and brain health [19:39] Depression can be seen as a bad adaptation of a good behavior [22:16] Ellen details ways to encourage yourself to make good lifestyle choices [23:49] What to do if you are too much of a perfectionist about your diet [28:45] How to deal with social situations that can't accommodate your dietary needs [33:02] Ellen advocates having compassion for the people who trained you to feel shame [35:26] Ellen discusses her own miscarriage and eliminating the shame around miscarriages [39:29] How to deal with a miscarriage [43:02] Lack of community is our modern epidemic [46:17] You can refuse to tolerate bad behavior without judging the person [47:45] Ellen shares her superpower [50:55] FOLLOW ELLEN: WEBSITE: https://ellenvora.com INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/2SHvs93 FACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/37BcaGf TWITTER: https://bit.ly/2V0l11A ORDER YOUR COPY OF LISA'S BOOK "RADICAL CONFIDENCE" (NOW IN PAPERBACK & WITH A NEW CHAPTER!) & GET YOUR FREE BADASS BONUSES: https://bit.ly/radcon ***CALLING ALL BADASSES!*** If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be! *New episodes delivered ad-free, EXCLUSIVE access to hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, and so much more!* Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Do you base your decisions on what other people will think? Do you own your own mistakes and triumphs? It's time to Wake Up Humans and live the way our forefathers intended us to, LIVE FREE. Live with passion and own your life for all it is. For more information and to get Steve Judson's books and merchandise visit WakeUpHumans.org
The Bible tells us to make sure we're personally right with the Lord before we call others out for their actions. And when we do speak truth, it needs to be in love -- boldly calling sin what it is, and pointing to the hope that's found only in our Savior. We're not meant to turn a blind eye to the sinful actions of this world, but we can speak with a genuine sense of compassion and strive to lead people to the Gospel.
The Bible tells us that we are to make sure that we are personally right with the Lord so that when we look at others and judge their works we can do so with compassion that leads them to the Gospel truth. We are not supposed to turn a blind eye to the sin in the world but instead we are called to point it out boldly for the purpose of telling about hope that is found in Jesus to forgive all sin. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/640/29
This week we decide to be randomly controversial, and who better to do it with than author and critic Lauren Oyler! First we courageously wade into the Taylor Swift waters without educating ourselves one bit, and then we turn our attention to the concept of "online backlash." Sure, it's okay when it happens to other people... but what about when it happens to US?! And finally, what is the deal with all these polycules we keep reading about in our nation's leading newspapers? Is polyamory a liberating lifestyle, a tech startup, or an MLM? Are Berlin-based gay guys the only people who have it all figured out? Buy Lauren's book of essays NO JUDGMENT from your local bookstore, and read her Harper's cover story about the Goop cruise here: https://harpers.org/archive/2023/05/goop-cruise-gwyneth-paltrow-goop-at-sea/ Subscribe to our Patreon at patreon.com/straightiolab for bonus episodes twice a month and don't forget to rate and review us on Apple Podcasts!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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This week we welcome my friend and writer/editor Alana Pockros to tackle the work and persona of Lauren Oyler. We discuss how Lauren seized authority as the millennial literary critic, how her abandonment of the “rules” makes her work difficult to engage with critically, her famous distaste for Vulnerability, the Berlin piece (...), and what it means to be both brave and mean. Plus, in my quarterly pulse check on Culture, I declare a massive return to all things folklore: earthy spirituality, magic, psychedelics, freak folk, boho chic, metal music, and more. Follow Alana on Twitter! Discussed: Evidence of the Folkloric Return: Joanna Newsom upcoming tour Timmy as Bob Dylan Kacey Musgraves profile by Allison P. David in the Cut “The runway—not TikTok—brought back Boho Chic” Madeline Schulz in Vogue Business Rebecca Yarros books Sotce and @sighswoon Shanin Blake ayahuasca singer vibes Shawn Mendes + Hitomi: Page Six, Hola.com (lol!) Regarding Lauren Oyler: Lauren at SantaCon for VICE (2017) “The Miseducation of Lady Bird” Oyler in The Baffler (2017) “Ha ha, ha ha” Oyler on Trick Mirror in LRB (2020) “Lauren Oyler thinks she's better than you” Becca Rothfeld in Washington Post (2024) Interview with Lauren Oyler in Lit Hub (2024) Fake Accounts, Lauren Oyler (2021) No Judgment, Lauren Oyler (2024) “Dance Factory” Lauren in Harper's “What's Your Type?” Merve Emre in NYRB (2024) Rachel Comey x NYRB collab
We anticipate with great hope the day that God's justice fully arrives and forever changes the world. Trusting God to be the judge frees us to live in love. By learning a life of love now, we'll be prepared for a future when only love will remain.
“It's important not to have the judgment for those of us who chose not to do that.” - Lauren Williams, school counselor and wife. In this episode, Cathey talks with Marc and his wife Lauren about the importance of diversity. They explore the complexities of growing up in one community while being curious about other identities. The discussion attempts to figure out how to address and express the balance within a sensitive topic that has no easy answer. By the end of this conversation, you'll understand how different people from worlds apart can develop a deeper appreciation for their own people while finding the joy in being together.
No judgment doesn't mean no feedback or input, but it does mean we don't see ourselves as superior to others. Instead, we live in mutual relationship with them, humbly giving and receiving feedback. It's in the absence of judgment that we are free to help each other grow and flourish in love.
ARE YOU REALLY SOBER? ANONYMOUS GUEST --WARNING: Contains Adult Content You're either going to love him or hate him, BUT our ANONYMOUS guest poses a challenging question: ARE YOU REALLY SOBER if you just quit and still have the spirit of an alcoholic ( or addict, gambler, cheater, etc.,) Wait! What if you carry resentment and non forgiveness for someone who did you wrong? What if you indulge in one or more of the 7 deadly sins? This episode is FOR ALL OF US who want to find peace and finally be set free from the twisted, negative mindset OR addictive behavior we CHOOSE. Don't think this is you? This episode causes YOU to take a good look at yourself and take inventory and accountability for all the wrongs you carry in life -- YES, ALL. Secrets keep you sick and it's time we confess to ourselves about things we would rather take to the grave. Step 4 of the 12 Steps is the hardest of them all for a reason. And without truly walking this step out, you have a good chance of going back to old behavior according to AA statistics and "Max" who celebrates his 40th year sober with us in the studio. Max never thought he'd live past the age 21. He was an alcoholic, addict and womanizer who hated everyone and life. Having a death wish to look forward to everyday, there was no surprise he ends up in jail AGAIN and finally asks an officer for help because he was sick and tired or being sick and tired. You'll have press PLAY now to hear the full story. THIS EPISODE IS FOR EVERYONE who can write out a list of people they resent. Is this you? ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS 1 (877) 213 5915 INTERVIEWS. DEBATES. ADVICE LIFE COACH and lighthearted host ❤M'JAIE MANGUS❤ in her provocative talk show covers topics that range from sugar daddies, suicide to success and everything in between! Inspired by Oscar Wilde's quote "If you give a man a mask he will tell you the truth." we have created a platform to provide just that! Home of the ANONYMOUS INTERVIEWS our guests opt in to be anonymous or not so anonymous in order to share the truth and empower listeners. You have never heard a podcast like this before! INTERESTING LIFESTYLES. INSPIRATIONAL STORIES. EDUCATIONAL TOPICS. As with ALL of our interviews we honor a NO JUDGMENT space in hopes to create a new community where we can understand each other and accept each other for a better SELF and WORLD. MJAIE MANGUS: Podcast host, Artist “The Expressionist ”, Serial Entrepreneur, Life and Sex Coach THANK YOU FOR LISTENING. PODCAST QUICK LINKS: Apple Spotify LinkedIN IHeart Facebook YouTube Instagram MJAIE MANGUS SOCIAL LINK: Instagram: Mjaie Mangus You may contact our studio by email: LoveAndLiesPodcast@gmail.com for more information.
Fake news about God, ourselves, others and reality lies at the root of all that is wrong in the world. When we act on these lies, destruction always follows. But when we see and act on the truth about God and ourselves, we will also see the truth about others and reality. The truth frees us to live fully in love.
We are constantly tempted to place ourselves in the center of everything, creating a false orbit that traps us in perpetual judgment. But when we recenter our lives in God and receive his love as the grounding force that provides everything we need, we're empowered to love people instead of judging them.
The culture teaches us to respond to judgment with judgment in a never-ending cycle, fueling more and more anger and hate. Jesus invites us to the slow burn of love that's kindled by a commitment to remain in love in the midst of judgment.
There's no need to work harder or climb higher to get more love, because we have all the love we can live in right now. We are learning to live in that love, so we practice love to become more loving.
God's love is directed to us, dwelling in us, and flowing through us—back to God, to ourselves, to others, and to all creation. As the much-loved children of God, we become an unstoppable source of God's love that changes our world.
Everything depends on disciples who learn from Jesus how to love like Jesus and live as Jesus. Such disciples resist a culture of division and judgment since we cannot love and judge others at the same time.
WARNING: CONTAINS ADULT CONTENT SHOW NOTES: INTERVIEWS. DEBATES. ADVICE LIFE COACH and lighthearted host ❤M'JAIE MANGUS❤ in her provocative talk show covers topics that range from sugar daddies, suicide to success and everything in between! Guests opt in to be anonymous or not so anonymous in order to share the truth and empower listeners. LIFESTYLE. INSPIRATIONAL. EDUCATIONAL. WARNING:CONTAINS ADULT CONTENT In this episode “Melissa” tells us about the pressure to lose her virginity before she went to college and how she then decided to leave the shy and insecure girl she was growing up home as she stepped into an alter-ego that portrait a confident and outgoing girl who said YES to all the opportunities that college had to offer. The popularity and the attention carries her as far as she wants as she starts to relish in her new lifestyle. Immediately after attracting a bad boyfriend who then destroys her self-worth, Melissa seeks revenge and gets a little too carried away as the college partying lifestyle gives her every opportunity AND man she wanted to take. Melissa starts waking up in strange places not remembering the night before and even ends up in another state and has no recollection how she got there. From sex with social media influencer to sex, drugs and alcohol in frat houses this episode is worth every minute. BUT there is a little tough love in this where love and sex addiction is discussed as signs are throughout and starts from childhood trauma. Every young woman wants to be accepted and loved but all roads lead back to self love and in this story there was a price to pay to learn in exchange. We can't thank Melissa enough for her honesty and generosity in sharing her story with us. We feel you will love her as much as we do. LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE AND enjoy this episode COLLEGE GIRL GOES WILD! SOURCES MENTIONED: LOVE ANDVSEX ADDICTION HOTLINE 1 800 662 4357 ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS 1 877 213 5915 AUTHOR NEIL STRUASS: THE TRUTH AUTHOR PATRICK CARNES: OUT OF THE SHADOWS. As with ALL of interviews we honor a NO JUDGMENT space in hopes to create a new community where we can understand each other and accept each other for a better SELF and WORLD. MJAIE MANGUS: artist “The Expressionist ”, serial entrepreneur, power coach, minister, personality. THANK YOU FOR LISTENING. PODCAST QUICK LINKS: Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-and-lies-podcast/id1449662640 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3Eh4Spsj30QuNOWkNvpDO7 IHeart: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/256-love-and-lies-podcast-31104667/ PODCAST SOCIAL LINKS: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LoveAndLiesPodcast/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCv48IbHZ5XxBIY4C1kQbDwQ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveandliespodcast/?hl=en MJAIE MANGUS SOCIAL LINK: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mjaiemangus/ You may contact our studio by email: LoveAndLiesPodcast@gmail.com for more information
Oscar Goodman's long list of clients includes names like Frank “Lefty” Rosenthal and Meyer Lansky. The third episode focuses on Oscar Goodman's relationships in and out of the courtroom with the crime associates. Goodman talks about the depiction of these men in the movie Casino and addresses some of the things the movie got wrong, including the portrayal of Rosenthal's wife and his infamous silk pajamas.
In this season of reflection, we often revisit the question of who we are meant to be in this lifetime. This episode of Spiritually Hungry was recorded live during Rosh Hashanah. Listen as we discuss the art of living your purpose in the New Kabbalistic Year.“Simply being a good person is not even close to what our souls are meant to do in this world. Only when we consistently remember this point can the potential of who we are actually meant to be, become reality.” – Michael Berg
What were some of our favorite segments from this past week? Join Hoody as he goes through some of the best things from the past five days of the show, including: War Of The Roses, Linkee, No Judgment, and more!Make sure to also keep up to date with ALL of our podcasts we do below that have new episodes every week:The Thought ShowerLet's Get WeirdCrisis on Infinite Podcasts
Does it turn you on when your Dom ignores you and watches South Park while you're choking on their massive meatstick? Non-binary writer & comedian Matthew Beld matches with bootycall-to-be JDaddy on 3 different Hookup sites in the same day, and Matthew's attempts at radical honesty help them communicate clearly - and get exactly what they want. Plus Dixie gets a message: her secret storytelling methods helped a Bawdy Superfan not just get a great new job, but played a big part in keeping Barbie's Trans / Non-binary family safe from impending Anti-Trans legislation in the South. Never forget: Telling your story can change your life! Song: 'Downtown' (Peaches) Queer | Firsts l LGBTQIA+ l Trifecta l OKCupid | Adam4Adam | Grindr | Hung l Public Sex | Bottom l BDSM l Spanking l Pawn Stars l Degradation l Ignored l Online Dating | Radical Honesty | Sexual Conversation l Booty Call l Trysexual l Jockstrap l Military l Uniform l Humiliation l Outdoors l Ambien l Pain l Restriction l Dom l Handcuffs l Boy l Wikipedia l Blowjob l South Park l Poppers l Chain l Cuddling l Open Communication l No Judgment l Tied Up l About our Storyteller: Matthew Beld is a non-binary writer and comedian living in San Francisco, CA. They have performed at shows around the Bay Area including Bawdy Storytelling, KQED StoryCorps, Submission Comedy, and About Last Night. They write and teach with sketch comedy troupe Killing My Lobster and co-host the Strut Queer Open Mic in the Castro. You can find their writing about transgender livin' on the Broke-Ass Stuart website. https://brokeassstuart.com/2023/03/13/transgender-crying-san-francisco/ https://brokeassstuart.com/2023/05/01/transamerica-pyramid-restoration-transgender/ https://brokeassstuart.com/2023/04/10/fertility-san-francisco-spring/ Episode links: Wanna go to Camp? I'll be in Portland this week to teach Brand Storytelling for Sex Educators at Sex Geek Summer Camp from June 16th - 21st (there's still time to sign up!). Here's the link to Sex Geek Summer Camp, with all the info: https://courses.reidaboutsex.com/I-want-sex-geek-summer-camp-info I'm hoping to have a gathering on June 15th in Portland. If you're interested in a Portland meet-up, message me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and I'll let you know the plan. My last couple of PDX meetups were such fun gatherings because I love to meet the people who listen to the podcast! Are you a fan of Bawdy Storytelling's podcast and live shows? Please consider a donation of any amount to help us keep bringing these stories to your ears. Your donation (of any size) can help keep us going; other live events and venues are dropping like flies around us, but your generosity will help Dixie continue this important work. Our donation links are: BuyMeACoffee: buymeacoff.ee/bawdy Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com CashApp: $DixieDeLaTour Every single dollar helps right now - and THANK YOU! What's the Best way to support Bawdy? It's Patreon. As a Bawdy Patreon member, your membership ensures that Bawdy can continue. Join Bawdy's Patreon now and you'll get exclusive Patreon-only content, and my eternal gratitude. Become a Member now at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy My forthcoming Substack 'The Dixie Ramble' is at https://substack.com/profile/22550258-dixie-de-la-tour #Subscribe What is Substack? Substack is an email newsletter platform (made up of text, audio, video, etc) known for its hands off approach to censorship. While there are still some publishing guidelines (no porn, hate speech or harassment, for example), the platform's lack of gatekeeping has attracted both ground-breaking journalists and some seriously controversial writers”. https://blog.hootsuite.com/what-is-substack/ (My Substack launch has been delayed by my life's latest calamity, but it'll start soon) Want to enroll for my next storytelling workshop? I'm working on a hybrid workshop (in-person AND online), so get on our email list to find out when registration opens at a: https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe Want to work-on-one with me? I'm currently helping people to documentaries, personal stories for the stage, book outlines, and even personal branding to help you live the live that you dream of. I can help you tell a compelling, relatable story, help you communicate with clarity, land your dream job, discover your own story (many people say it's better than therapy)… Whether it's getting onstage, writing a memoir, creating a podcast, or learning brand storytelling for your business, I've got this, and can help you. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make it happen. Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume, Bawdy Butter & more: Dixie has created her own fragrance: You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, scented with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang, and warm vanilla. There's also our (scented or unscented) creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid Merchandise means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Dixie and Bawdy. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it's a place to discuss the podcast's stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ ProTip: Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email list & you'll be notified of all upcoming storytelling workshops, livestreams, podcasts, live shows and Special Events first at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Roman Den houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith Dixie's VA is Roillan James Additional support from Donal Mooney, Ty McKenzie & Crystal Crowe Bawdy's Creator & Podcast Host is Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your sex-positive podcast collective! Website: https://bawdystorytelling.com/ On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Subscribe at Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming Podcast episodes - & Livestreams - at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe
A few weeks ago, Emily led a discussion on her Substack that got . . . well, a little attention. It was about alcohol—the expectations we have around it, the “wine mommy” marketing, what we use it for (to celebrate, to cope) and how that might change (or not!) moving forward. There were so many thoughtful conversations in the comments, Emily thought, Why not ask my own Simplified women about this? She brought Liz and Laura in for their takes around some scientific research and their own personal experience. There aren't any big prescriptions or takeaways here—just some interesting observations. ***A note as you listen today: please know this is a judgment-free zone. This topic has a lot of different angles. You may even have strong feelings about what we talk about. That's okay! Life is filled with things that aren't black and white. It's filled with lots and lots of gray. That's something we're getting more comfortable with as we get older. Thanks to our episode sponsors! VEGAMOUR | Get 20% off your first order at http://vegamour.com/simplified HATCH | Get up to 15% off (and free shipping!) at https://www.hatch.co/simplified CARE/OF | Get 50% off your first order with code simplified50 at http://takecareof.com * * * GET Audio Episodes Ad Free + Early Access to New Episodeshttps://apple.co/3ICMUmk READ the Show Noteshttps://emilyley.com/podcast SHOP Simplified Planners & Products! https://emilyley.com SUBSCRIBE to Emily's Substack!https://emilyley.substack.com/ GET Emily's New Book!https://emilyleybooks.com/sure-as-the-sunrise * * * SUBSCRIBE to The Simplified Podcast! Apple Podcasts | http://bit.ly/Simplified-Apple Spotify | http://bit.ly/Simplified-Spotify Stitcher | http://bit.ly/Simplified-Stitcher YouTube |http://bit.ly/Simplified-YouTube * * * Let's Be FRIENDS! Simplified: Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/simplified/ Facebook |https://www.facebook.com/simplified Twitter | https://www.twitter.com/emilyley/ Pinterest | https://www.pinterest.com/emilyley/ YouTube | http://bit.ly/Simplified-YouTube Emily Ley: Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/EmilyLey/ Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/emilyley Our Co-Hosts! Jessa Bray | https://www.instagram.com/jessabrayy/ Laura Kashner | https://www.instagram.com/laurakashner/ Liz Holtzman | https://www.instagram.com/lizmholtzman/
Having eternal life means that we don't have to dread punishment from God, and we get to travel from the kingdom of death to the kingdom of life. Dr.Sarah Hall | March 19, 2023 ----------------------------------------------- For more on the Children's Message from the Gospel of John series, visit on.soundcloud.com/aKbRc For more on the Gospel of John Adult sermon series, visit soundcloud.com/incarnation-tallahassee/sets/the-gospel-of-john View the YouTube Livestream here youtube.com/playlist?list=PL6Jb…Ew_GdaB1l19tsJcvsKm
Fr. Nathan discusses the Compassionate Responses from The story of Don and First Responder Ralph. -No Judgment about clothing or appearance or about valuing one's own looks.-He was allowed to be angry as deeply and for as long as he pleased.-Very little talk therapy. He couldn't hear anything over the noise of his own red-hot anger.-Experienced a dawning; he heard us as pleasant tones and fragments of attractive conversation.-College “foolishness”: being “branded like a slave.” That no longer matters as a source of shame.-In his afterlife state, didn't want anyone who knew him to see the ugliness of 1) his bloody, gory face, and 2) his angry rage.-He formed a new thought: What if some first-responder professional who was used to seeing bloody faces came for him, e.g. an EMT, firefighter, or police officer.-Recently “resting in peace” Ralph the First Responder is awakened by his afterlife pager and goes into action.-An escalator appears for both of them with folks at the top beckoning them to hop aboard!Connect with Father Nathan Castle, O.P.
Jeanne-Mari Retief is very ambitious she is BA, MBA, Ph.D., a law degree, and a very prestigious career. At the age of 35 she felt depressed she realized her painful past was something she had to deal with. From the trauma, she suffered when her family moved to South Africa to being sexually assaulted by her grandfather at a young age she had to deal with her past to overcome it. From her experience, she built an organization for professional women going through the same thing Figgy. Through her podcast and community for women, she has created a place for women where they can talk and ask for help without judgment.
On today's podcast episode, Dawn Paul AKA "The Dr. Dawn" shares key tips to help cultivate healthy and thriving friendships in your life. Dawn Paul is an award-winning certified life coach, author, media personality, entrepreneur, and national public speaker. You can listen to her radio show, "It's No Judgment! Just Realness!" live every Thursday 7-10 PM CST on Raise The Praise 100 where she brings engaging and entertaining interviews and takes audience prayer requests and life love questions. Dawn is also the owner of Obsessed With Media®, a company providing clients with strategic marketing efforts to increase brand awareness for national and global expansion. Dawn is active in the community and serves Celebrating You, Inc. as a board member. WHAT DAWN DISCUSSED: - The benefits of cultivating healthy and thriving friendships in our lives as women. - Some of her personal challenging and positive experiences with friendships. - Ways we can set healthy boundaries to cultivate healthy and thriving friendships. - How to let go of or salvage a friendship. - How we can become the type of friend that we want. AND MUCH MORE HOW TO KEEP UP WITH DAWN: - On Instagram: https://instagram.com/thedrdawn - On Twitter: https://twitter.com/thedrdawn - On Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thedrdawn - On YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/thedrdawn ❤ Get the best-selling Clever Girl Finance Books: https://clevergirlfinance.com/books ❤ Get access to 30+ free courses, worksheets, savings challenges, and our favorite banking resources: https://clevergirlfinance.com/course-packages/ ❤ Read the Clever Girl Finance Blog: https://clevergirlfinance.com/blog ❤ Follow us on Instagram: http://instagram.com/clevergirlfinance
Can making someone or something special harm you? Bypass 3D reality, live where everyone is equal. No right or wrong. No good or bad. No Judgment. Your beliefs, your choice. You are invited to enjoy one of my law of attraction courses. Law of Attraction Courses 1. Get High - 12 Day Challenge to Help You Change Your Set Point (complimentary) 2. Self Esteem Mindset Makeover Includes Six Modules - Deep dive into limiting beliefs. Re arrange the patterns and actualize your hearts desires. 3. Radical Receiving, Be a woman who can easily receive. Receive more fun, more money, more love, more happiness, more adventure, etc. Call in an overflow! More than enough! Extra! You deserve it! https://www.sabrinabrightstar.com/ #mybodymychoice #mybeliefsmychoice #gabbybernstein #amandafrances #keepyourhandinyourskirtpodcast #sabrinabrightstar
Author and sexologist Shan Boodram is back, this time with tips on how to deal with judgment from others — especially when you're trying to break the mold. Try the Headspace app free for 30 days here!
It's natural and healthy to want to be as juicy and nature-plumped for as long as possible. But something may be lurking in the shadows of the beauty industry - Botox and its effects on your emotional and social regulation system. Just how far are we willing to go to keep that eternal plump of youth? What are we willing to sacrifice? Here Katie speaks openly about natural living fundamentalism, embodied cognition, our social nervous system and what all of this has to do with Botox injections. P.S. This is a NO-JUDGMENT zone over here at Shakti School. We 100% support a woman's right to make her own beauty decisions and support our Botoxed Beauties as much as anyone. In fact, thousands of years of history show us that women will go to great lengths to beautify themselves. And while beautification methodology is very much a personal choice, women deserve to be educated on the effects of Botox on their social nervous system. So whether you are a Botox-queen or a natural-only mama, let's release judgment and dive in deep in this not-to-be-missed pod. Show notes available at theshaktischool.com/podcast In this episode you'll hear: ~ The idea of embodied cognition ~ The importance of our social nervous system and the ventral vagal complex ~ What natural living fundamentalism is and how it relates to wellness culture (p.s. We love a Vitamix ;)) ~ The importance of our micro musculatures for regulating mood states ~ How botox can not only affect the way other people perceive your emotions, but also impact the emotional experience of the person who had the injection ~ Studies can be found at the following links: https://academic.oup.com/asj/article/40/4/430/5418602?login=false https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/20515231 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/3379579 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25694806/ SPONSORED: This episode is brought to you by PAAVANI Ayurveda. PAAVANI Ayurveda is a female-owned and family-run health and skincare company based in Northern California. Get the full show notes: www.TheShaktiSchool.com/podcast/ Learn more: Want to connect? Shoot us a note to info@theshaktischool.com Ayurveda Certification The Shakti School Subscription HELP US SPREAD OUR POD WINGS This show is a passion project that I produce for the love of sharing. If you enjoy this show and want a free and easy way to help it grow, the most effective way you can help is to: Subscribe to the show by clicking “subscribe” in iTunes Write us a review in iTunes Share this show with one friend right now! It seems simple, but you'd be AMAZED to know how much it helps my little love project reach more people. iTunes' algorithm uses ratings and reviews to know who to show our show to in their app. Here's the link to leave us reviews in iTunes. From my heart to your screen, Katie