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Best podcasts about disowning

Latest podcast episodes about disowning

Cross Reference Radio
Disowning Apostates (Part C)

Cross Reference Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2024 25:53


Pastor Rick teaches from the letter of James 1:2-5

Cross Reference Radio
Disowning Apostates (Part B)

Cross Reference Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2024 25:53


Pastor Rick teaches from the letter of James 1:2-5

Cross Reference Radio
Disowning Apostates (Part A)

Cross Reference Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2024 25:53


Pastor Rick teaches from the letter of James 1:2-5

Lost Genre Reddit Stories
Cheating Ex Lied That I Assaulted Her & My Family Wants To Reconcile After Disowning Me

Lost Genre Reddit Stories

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2024 20:14


OP caught his girlfriend cheating, and she lied to everyone about him assaulting her to save face, and she ruined his life. OP's family disowned him, and now, ten years later, OP's family showed up to ask for forgiveness.Check my coffee brand - Smiley Face Coffee, at https://smileyface.coffee

OKOP!
AITA for disowning my wife's daughter after she chose her moms affair partner over me. - r/BestofRedditorUpdates | Reddit Stories

OKOP!

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2024 155:52


Lost Genre Reddit Stories
I'm Divorcing My Cheating Wife And Disowning My Daughter For Keeping It Secret

Lost Genre Reddit Stories

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2024 19:37


OP just found out that his wife is cheating on him with her ex-boss, and when he confronted her, he also found out that his daughter knew about it and kept her mother's affair a secret from OP, so he's divorcing his wife and disowning his daughter.Check my coffee brand - Smiley Face Coffee, at https://smileyface.coffee

Countryside Church  |  Sermon Podcast
Quit Disowning the Wrong Self

Countryside Church | Sermon Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2024 35:31


Countryside Church  |  Sermon Podcast
Quit Disowning the Wrong Self

Countryside Church | Sermon Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2024 35:31


Being Beautifully Honest Podcast
Neighbors & Experts Claim Harry & Meghan Victim Antics Of Selling Out & Disowning Family Are Tired

Being Beautifully Honest Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2023 9:06


Thanks for joining me on the Being Beautifully Honest channel! Leave a comment, like & subscribe for more and check out my other videos.Get your long-lasting roses rose at Rose Forever shop: $20 off discount code: Honest20https://bit.ly/3CxENWXGet your Byte Aligners For a Discount of $100 off and 75% off an impression kit! http://fbuy.me/v/ewill_1Build your credit and earn reward points with your debit card! Check it out and you'll get 50,000 points ($50) if you sign up: https://extra.app/r/ELZABG2EGV...Your beautiful skin is waiting at www.inezelizabethbeauty.com and enter the code PERFECT10 for 10% off your first order! Get THE BEST EYELASH STRIPS here! https://temptinglashes.comJoin me on my other platforms!WEBSITE: WWW.BEINGBEAUTIFULLYHONEST.COMPODCAST: bit.ly/thebbhpcastSUBSCRIBE TO MY OTHER CHANNEL AT bit.ly/ytcmobeautyTHE BEING BEAUTIFULLY HONEST PODCAST DISCLAIMER: The views and opinions expressed in this video and on the The Being Beautifully Honest Podcast Youtube Channel are just that, opinions and views. All topics are for entertainment purposes only! All commentary is Alleged.COPYRIGHT DISCLAIMER UNDER SECTION 107 OF THE COPYRIGHT ACT 1976, ALLOWANCE IS MADE FOR "FAIR USE" FOR PURPOSES SUCH AS CRITICISM, COMMENT, NEWS REPORTING, TEACHING, SCHOLARSHIP, AND RESEARCH. FAIR USE IS A USE PERMITTED BY COPYRIGHT STATUTE THAT MIGHT OTHERWISE BE INFRINGING.#kingcharles #meghanmarkle #harrydukeofsussex

The Least Favored Podcast
Myspace & Disowning Your Child l Episode 127 l The Least Favored

The Least Favored Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2023 43:36


Host @ohyeahnatalie Camera/sound @ant_greene Podcast page @theleastfavored Join Natalie and special guests Franjez, Angel, & Yaya as thy take a nostalgic detour from the Y2K scare to dial-up internet memories, MySpace. They also discuss the struggles of parenting “difficult” children. At 6:35 Angel picks a random topic from the bowl and the gang discusses peeing in the shower & golden showers. at 9:10 Natalie engages her guests in a Rapid Fire game focused on the 90s and 2000s- think Y2K, Napster, chat rooms etc. At  24:20 they go down memory lane to discuss the MySpace days. The episode ends with a letter describing the tumultuous relationship between a mother and her daughter (28:33) Guest socials Angel- @awritefulmind Franjez- @franjez Yaya- @miss_versatilee Come vibe with us at our next pop up shop event Sunday, November 19th at The Bronx Brewery 865 East 136th Street from 1-7! More info on our IG page !

More Than The Bag
Disowning or Whooping was not the way!

More Than The Bag

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 27, 2023 21:03


This episode is for Christian parents, guardians, pastors, community members and etc. As the body of Christ, we have to do better. The Word says to judge in love. If you have ever called a child "fass or loose" etc. you have caused more damage than you think.What you should have done was listened to them, asked them questions to gain a better understanding, prayed with them, or even asked a church leader to help them get delivered.There is God's agenda and there is the enemy's agenda. Choose wisely which agenda you are serving.The video is available on YouTube. Stay Anchored with dr_kerrie on IG.

Political Bomb Show
Joe Biden Disowning His Granddaughter Goes Much Deeper Than Originally Thought

Political Bomb Show

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2023 7:51


Amidst all the proclamations of the supposed incredible decency and love of the Biden family has been a very uncomfortable reality Help Support Us: https://rehdogg.com/donations/

The Construction Hall of Fame
Rey Altamirano's Success Story -- From Disowning Construction To Becoming A Thriving Healthcare & Life Sciences Construction Leader

The Construction Hall of Fame

Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2023 50:17


On this episode, we are joined by Rey Altamirano -- Director or Life Sciences and Healthcare at Peacock Construction.Rey's success story began working for his father's construction company, and initially deciding construction wasn't for him. Then, he found a professor in college who led him to fall back in love with construction. Fast forward to today, Rey is a prolific Project Leader focused on Healthcare and Life Sciences who also has done an incredible job winning work for Peacock Construction.In this episode, we discuss:• What Rey enjoys about being a part of the team at Peacock• How his experience has differed going from larger GC's to a smaller GC• How his experience at the “big boys” helped him improve the systems and processes at Peacock• How he has helped add a significant amount of backlog work to Peacock through relationships and business developmentAnd much more…If you're looking to hear a story about a construction leader who fell out of love and back into love with construction, how Rey has significantly increased the backlog for their team during the pandemic, or how a Healthcare and Life Sciences construction leader has taken their experience at larger GC's to impact a smaller GC -- you're in for a gem with this episode!

Triggered: Can we play with that?
Disowning & Owning Hidden Identities with Nina Garcia

Triggered: Can we play with that?

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2023 26:08


Hiding who you are - and how you exist in this world - can be an exhaustingly performative experience. Some of these parts are identities we are aware of yet choose to hide; some don't know how to exist; some unfold to us over time. Listen in as Nina explores her response to hearing her husband was “attracted to men”, and how she was able to address the emotional landscape that followed. CW: We have nuanced conversations on this podcast from the experience of a neurodivergent individual. You're invited to play - and as with all invitations - you are able to decline the invite. The choice is yours

Vineyard Altoona Sermons
March 26, 2023 - We Can Disagree Without Disowning One Another

Vineyard Altoona Sermons

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2023 36:18


People who disagree with one another is a common occurrence, but in our culture it has become common to cut off from people who disagree with you. The model Jesus showed us was that you can disagree with people without disowning them. Today Derek will explore this idea as we continue the "He Gets Us" series. If you'd like to connect with us or share a prayer request, feel free to fill out a connect card here: vineyardaltoona.churchcenter.com/people/forms/288405 We're always grateful for your continued financial support. To give securely online, you can visit this link: vineyardaltoona.churchcenter.com/giving Thanks so much for your continued support of Vineyard Altoona!

Calvary Chapel Mechanicsville
Disowning Apostates

Calvary Chapel Mechanicsville

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 2, 2023 59:36


Pastor Rick teaches from Book of Isaiah (Isaiah 8) The post Disowning Apostates first appeared on Calvary Chapel Mechanicsville.

The Dean Blundell Show
Pierre Polievre Fake Disowning Of Christine Anderson, Dark Trudeau Strikes Again

The Dean Blundell Show

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2023 89:20


On today's episode of DBS, Dean welcomes Blackballs James DiFiore. The boys chat about Pierre Polievre disowning Christine Anderson and dark Justin Trudeau.

Hope Reformed Presbyterian Sermons

Zech Schiebout – John 18:15-18, 25-27

My ARM is Getting Tired- A Masturbators Anonymous Podcast

It's cum to this. Ren is getting the axe. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

rSlash
r/AmITheA--Hole for Disowning My Mom?

rSlash

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2022 16:06


https://www.youtube.com/rslash

Morris Media Live
In A Man's World with Lewis Dix, TDP, Jeff Arnold and Dannon Green 10-11-22

Morris Media Live

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2022 128:04


The guys return after last week's blow up! The hosts discuss boxing - Ricky Harris' funeral - Robin Harris' death. Coolio dies of a heart attack -Disowning your child. Jeff share's his weekly videos. Geoff Brown chimes in via Zoom! #inamansworld #blackcomedians #lewisdix #tdp #jeffarnold #dannongreen #thepoetess #morrismediastudios 

Twin City Bible Church
Disowning the Master

Twin City Bible Church

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 4, 2022 46:00


Peter succumbed to the fear of man, sought to blend in with worldly people, and disavowed knowing Jesus three times.

Twin City Bible Church
Disowning the Master

Twin City Bible Church

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 4, 2022 46:00


Peter succumbed to the fear of man, sought to blend in with worldly people, and disavowed knowing Jesus three times.

Way to Life
Disowning the Word of God...

Way to Life

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2022 8:53


Join us this morning in prayer as we meditate on the importance of the Lord's word... --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/emerson-devaraj-d/message

Redditor
You're A Lesbian!? I'M DISOWNING YOU! (r/EntitledParents)

Redditor

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2022 14:38


These entitled parents need to become a thing of the past, quick.Listen to all my r/entitledparents episodes in the background in this easy playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL_wX8l9EBnOPqFwP6dJFa_iiZ5bImfN6m Watch my videos in full on my YouTube channel (you even get to see my face!): https://www.youtube.com/Redditor This is the Redditor podcast! Here you will find all of Redditor's best Reddit stories from his YouTube channel. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Fix Your Crown Podd.
EP 61 3.22.22

Fix Your Crown Podd.

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2022 83:07


- 1:00 ~Avery got Engaged - 4:00~introduction, personal week recaps - 11:00 ~women don't need us - 14:00 ~ Disowning the Cowboys / NFL - 16:50 ~ Russia attacks the Ukraine and what it can intel - 20:00 ~ what if the draft came up and was in play? - 22:40 ~Gas prices / inflation & the affects - 28:00 ~Belair Review - 30:15 ~ Reviews on Kanye Wes documentary - 35:21 ~ Crunchy Roll making changes - 37:20 ~ Netflix prices and other TV entertainment apps approaches - 43:15 ~ When did you as a man decide to mature - 53:40 ~ 76ers acquire James Harden/ NBA - 57:30 ~ muva nature is buggin - 1:00:00 ~ Random Discussions - 1:03:00 ~ Toxic Past - 1:05:00 ~ (Local Artist) Melo Cartier - Kwyk - 1:08:00 ~ Toxic Lyric breakdown ~Keyshia Cole x you've changed - 1:17:35 ~ (Local Artist) Jay x Don't - 1:20:00 - closing remarks & plugs (Disclaimer Audio Quality may vary on particular devices and apps. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/fixyourcrown/message

rSlash
r/AmITheA**hole for Disowning My Own Son?

rSlash

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2022 19:19


r/AmITheA**hole In today's episode, OP is an older woman who has an incredibly irresponsible son. The guy is a womanizer who would rather sleep with random women than raise a family. So when her son inevitably knocks up a woman and abandons his child, OP steps up to take care of her grandchild and help her daughter-in-law. Then, OP's son has the audacity to get upset at his mom for choosing his baby-mama over him, even though he's the one who already abandoned his family. Who do you think is the butthole here? Get Honey for FREE at joinhoney.com/rslash --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Mark Narrations - The Wafflecast Reddit Stories
Father Is Disowning Me After I Refuse Him Full Access To Our Trust Fund r/AITA Reddit Stories

Mark Narrations - The Wafflecast Reddit Stories

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2022 27:38


r/AITA reddit stories, op's father has told him that he is disowning him after he refuses to give him full access to the trust fund that was provided by his Mom after she passed.Let's connect, all socials here

Bleav in Chicago Sports
S2 Ep16 (70): Rocky Wirtz Meltdown, Disowning The Hawks and Bears New Hires

Bleav in Chicago Sports

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2022 31:23


Joey Gelman and Dan Collins discuss the Rocky Wirtz meltdown at the Blackhawks' Town Hall and his unacceptable behavior in response to questions regarding the Kyle Beach situation. How could Rocky have been so tone-deaf and rude? How can the Blackhawks' reputation ever recover? They close the show talking all things Bears as the team is beginning to fill out both their offensive and defensive staffs.

Waterfront Church DC
Disowning and Dishonoring God

Waterfront Church DC

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 17, 2022 39:28


MoneyWise on Oneplace.com
Disowning Abortion with Robert Netzly

MoneyWise on Oneplace.com

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2021 24:57


To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1085/29 The world's been at war with God's Kingdom since The Fall. The newest battleground is investing. Do you know which side you're on?Too many Christians are unintentionally funding the other side. Today we'll talk with Robert Netzly about the realigning your portfolio to do Kingdom work, specifically in the area of abortion. Robert's the CEO of Inspire Investing.Think of them as our intelligence unit for keeping track of what the other side is up to and helping us plan strategies for winning the war of values-based investing. The Texas Heartbeat bill bans abortions as early as 6 weeks, greatly thwarting abortionists. Inspire Investing's intent is to make this known to investors. There are other, more effective ways to make your voice heard than by merely decided not to do commerce with pro-abortion businesses. These companies have to know why. As a faith-based investor, reach out and engage companies as a shareholder. Inspire Investing does a lot of shareholder engagement in this area and offers the ability to search your mutual funds or ticker symbols of your stocks so as to see if there's exposure to the abortion industry. Finally, know what you own since you're a steward of what God's given you. Take this seriously. You can then take steps to either sell in favor of products that are more in line with Biblical values. There may be companies in your portfolio supporting abortion and you may not even be aware of it. On today's program we also answer a couple of your questions: I've never applied for a business credit card. How do I get one with the best rates? We have an opportunity to improve our loan interest rate by a full point. My husband and I want to reduce our mortgage from a 30-year to a 20. We plan to stay in this home for at least 5 more years. What do you suggest? Remember, you can call in to ask your questions 24/7 at (800) 525-7000 or email them toQuestions@MoneyWise.org. Also, visit our website atMoneyWise.orgwhere you can listen to past programs, connect with a MoneyWise Coach, and even download free, helpful resources like the free MoneyWise app. Like and Follow us on Facebook at MoneyWise Media for the very latest discussion! And remember that it's your prayerful and financial support that keeps MoneyWise on the air. Help us continue this outreach by clicking the Donate tab on our website or in our app.

rSlash
r/Entitledparents "GET PREGNANT OR I'M DISOWNING YOU!"

rSlash

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2021 17:24


r/Entitledparents In today's episode, a happy couple decide to adopt a sweet little girl. When they announce that they don't intend to have biological children, their parents flip out and start harassing them to get pregnant. They even go so far as to say that they will disown their son if he doesn't give them a grandchild. If you like this content, subscribe for more daily Reddit videos! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Penny for our Thoughts
Disowning a Child, Sleepover at Ex, and Private Pics Shared. Ep. 13

Penny for our Thoughts

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2021 68:51


We are on YouTube! #pfot Thank you for listening and always remember, if you want a 3rd party opinion do not hesitate to email us at givesometous@gmail.com. Don't keep it to yourself, give some to us.

Before They Were Famous
Flo Rida | The Dark Side of Fame | Disowning Own Sons, Taxes, Drunk Driving, Lawsuits & More

Before They Were Famous

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2021 9:44


on the DARK SIDE OF FAME is a different story altogether and Flo Rida, well, he's got some explaining to do. Not only has he dropped out of multiple scheduled performances after already being paid to appear, but he's also dealt with a DUI in the past, owing to the Federal government a whole bunch in back taxes, and, most tragically, refuses to have a relationship with any of the children he has fathered over the past few years – even going so far as to call one of his kids with a severe health condition an “evil f***ing child”. Yeah, really. So, I hope you guys will join me as I take a look at Flo Rida's plunge into The Dark Side of Fame.

Calvary Presbyterian Church
Holy Envy: Disowning God

Calvary Presbyterian Church

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 4, 2021 20:07


Sunday, May 9, 2021Rev. Millason DaileyCalvary Presbyterian Church, USASouth Pasadena, CA

The Best Of Dr. Phil
Parents Divided over Disowning Their Son

The Best Of Dr. Phil

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2021 46:38


Karen and Tim say the last sixyears with their 24-year-old adopted son, Adam, have been a nightmare, and Tim wants to cut him out of their lives for good --but Karen says she can't give up yet. The parents say Adam has become angry and violent, has pulled a knife on them and threatened to get a gun. They also say Adam abuses drugs and alcohol and has been arrested multiple times --including an arrest one week agofor felony drug-related charges.With Adam now facing seven years in jail, Karen and Tim post bailso he can meet with Dr.Phil, in an effortto turn his life around. Hear how Adam explains his destructive choices. Does he want to change?And, find out why Tim says he's not hopeful that Adam will make a turnaround. Then, hear from Adam's ex-girlfriend, Kristin, who calls him a “ticking time bomb.” How does Adam respond? When Dr. Phil offers him a lifeline, will he grab ahold? And, will both of his parents be willing to give him one more chance? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

TARODCAST
Episode #062 - Off Code? Offload.

TARODCAST

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2021 87:46


What's happening, y'all? Today's episode deals with the subject of what it means to be "On Code," as well as what should happen when those of us go "Off Code." But, we're not talking about a code that only applies to *some* of us...but a code that should apply to *ALL* of us. We outline some specific points that we feel would make a great foundation for our own code to live by, and we take time to discuss the reasons why we need it, alongside the consequences for those who go against it. We'll list the attributes of our code here in the notes. Ultimately, as Black Americans, we need something real--something that connects us and provides those unspoken rules that will allow us to see one another as full, organized people. We hope that this show can be a starting point in that journey. We hope you enjoy it!********The "New" Code:1) Strategic silence with what we build, how we spend our money, and who we support2) Public Solidarity for those of us who have proven to deserve it3) Buying Black FIRST (including: products, food, professional and amateur services, etc.) to keep our dollar circulating repeatedly4) Equal treatment within the melanin spectrum5) Looking out for our own whether we know them or not6) Healing, Protecting, and Standing Alongside our Children7) Vetting other races, ethnicities, and nationalities before providing unlimited access to us and going harder for them than we go for our own8) Embrace, as a community, the varying strengths and interests that cater to our uniqueness9) Disowning those who create, yet abandon, families and children if they refuse counseling and accountability practices10) Internal handling and discipline for those who publicly or privately act out of line, shame, embarrass, or put down another Black Man or Black Woman for the sake of self-gratification or selfishness. ********Follow us on Social Media @CRTN_T!Like & Share us on Facebook! https//fb.me/TARODCASTPick up some merch! https://ForeverCRTN.redbubble.com!Join The Conversation on Throne! https://throne.live/share?room=@TarodMcKnightContact us! tarodcast@crtn-t.com********My Wife is an author! Check out her Dark Erotica short, “Little Black Dress,” on Amazon Kindle!https://www.amazon.com/Little-Black-Dress-Angel-McKnight-ebook/dp/B091N52MX1/ref=sr_1_3?dchild=1&keywords=little+black+dress&qid=1618900081&s=digital-text&sr=1-3********Support The Resilient Lotus!Visit https://www.theresilientlotus.com and use promo code “TARODCAST” to receive a discount on your purchase!Support #MorenitasSalsitas!Visit https://www.crtn-t.com/morenitas-salsitas to place your order! Local pickup/delivery only.Support @RozayGraphism on Instagram!Follow on Instagram @rozaygraphism to get your custom logos, posters, and flyers, as well as learn how to create your own with his workshops!********Don't forget to review us and give us a 5-Star Rating! We really appreciate it!Thank you for listening.********Show Credits:Intro/Outro Music Produced by V-DizzleMain Commercial Break Music Produced by SynbaAdditional instrumentals produced by Ryan "iMakeFireBeats"Podcast Platform Provided by Spreaker.com

Sex Ed The Musical
OKAY, MY KID IS GAY -- RAINBOW REPEAT!

Sex Ed The Musical

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 24, 2021 26:58


Earlier this week, an active player in the NFL made huge news. Carl Nassib, a defensive end for the Las Vegas Raiders came out as gay. As of this writing, he is the only openly gay active NFL player. Hopefully, he won't be alone for long. “Carl Nassib's powerful coming out is a historic reflection of the growing state of LGBTQ visibility and inclusion in the world of professional sports, which has been driven by a long list of brave LGBTQ athletes who came before him,” said GLAAD President & CEO Sarah Kate Ellis. “As an accomplished athlete who is now the first out gay active player in the NFL, Carl Nassib's story will not only have a profound impact on the future of LGBTQ visibility and acceptance in sports, but sends a strong message to so many LGBTQ people, especially youth, that they too can one day grow up to be and succeed as a professional athlete like him.” Representation matters. But for every massive step forward, there remain hundreds of steps backwards. According the Human Rights Campaign, “2021 has officially surpassed 2015 as the worst year for anti-LGBTQ legislation in recent history.” The HRC reports that more than 250 anti-LGBTQ bills have been introduced in state legislatures in 2021, including at least 35 bills that would prohibit transgender youth from being able to access age-appropriate, gender-affirming medical care. So when a badass defensive end for the Raiders, of all teams, comes out as gay and then makes a $100,000 donation to The Trevor Project, make no mistake, it's a big fucking deal. Okay, but what does this have to do with my life? Well… Let's imagine you're sitting down with your 10 year-old for a dinner of mac and cheese, chicken nuggets and grapes. All on separate plates, of course. On the table there's a box of spilled apple juice, a few Snoopy stickers and several dried out markers. Soccer gear is strewn on the floor alongside a few of this morning's Cheerios and a naked Barbie missing half of her hair. It's just another day. Until your kid turns to you and says, “Mom, I think I'm a lesbian.” How would you react in that moment? For many parents this is a moment they never saw coming, but it got there. Fast. What should you say? What shouldn't you say? Were you completely surprised? Have you always known but never really accepted it? How do you hear this and let your child know that they're safe and loved and what they're feeling is perfectly okay? It's a situation that millions of parents have faced. And thanks to increasing positive role models and representation, the average age of children coming out has dropped from their early 20s to anywhere between 14 and 16. Parents shouldn't just assume their children are straight until proven otherwise. Even if your kid has a different identity in two years or two months, it's important to support how they feel today. But where do you start? On this episode, a repeat of one of my most downloaded episodes, I speak with Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Childhood Mental Health Specialist, Melody Parks https://www.parkstherapy.com/. She reveals the struggles that children of all backgrounds must navigate and gives parents tools to help their children know that they're loved, supported and safe regardless of sexual orientation. I also speak with a friend whose 13 year-old daughter decided to come out during a family vacation. Blindsided, the mother responded in the best way she could. How you respond to your child's coming out can be what keeps your kid alive. I've also found several very helpful resources for parents of LGBT kids: https://www.stonewall.org.uk/help-advice/coming-out/coming-out-advice-and-guidance-parents https://pflag.org/sites/default/files/OUR%20CHILDREN_PFLAGNational_FINAL.pdf https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/teen/dating-sex/Pages/Four-Stages-of-Coming-Out.aspx https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/wellness-and-prevention/tips-for-parents-of-lgbtq-youth https://nccc.georgetown.edu/documents/LGBT_Brief.pdf https://www.insider.com/what-to-do-when-someone-comes-out-2017-12 I also recommend the book: This is a Book for Parents of Gay Kids: A Question & Answer Guide to Everyday Life Being gay is not a crime and it's not a sin. Some people believe that having an LGBTQ child means they somehow failed as a parent. Disowning your child means you failed as a parent. I think most experts will agree that the best thing you can say to your child when they come out is: I Love You. That is the perfect place to start.  

Upgrade With Taylor
Disowning Your Smallness

Upgrade With Taylor

Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2021 19:10


In this episode, Taylor is talking about disowning small and insecure energy in your body and coming into your "bigness" Quiz:www.upgradewithtaylor.com/archetype-quizWild, Worthy & Irresistible with Taylor & Sarah D'Angelohttps://sarahrose.kartra.com/page/wwiVIP Private Coaching:www.upgradewithtaylor.com/magneticfemmeInstagram:www.instagram.com/tayfemme

Le Podcast De L'Antre
Episode 254: L'Emission du 10 Mars 2021

Le Podcast De L'Antre

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2021 122:45


Ohhhh la voilààààà ! L'émission de la semaine, bien violente à souhait, bien pourvue en nouveautés en et Mélie Red ! Oui L'Antre est là encore cette semaine avec de bons morceaux bien louuuurd pour vous emmener jusqu'au bout de la nuit. Non ce n'est pas un retour dans les années 80 mais bel et bien une émission 100% 2021 ! Retrouvez LANDMVRKS, OUR HOLLOW, OUR HOME, PRIMAL CREATION, PENGSHUI, EINHERJER, SCARLET DESIRE, BIG BLUE GIRAFA, TO KILL ACHILLES, EPICA, ABRAHMA, THEORY, MASS HYSTERIA, ALIVE INC.,GEISHA SKILLS, NIGHTFALL, BAEST, DISTANT, DISOWNING et on en avait pas passé depuis la sortie du dernier LP, les KORPIKLAANI.Ça vous donne envie ? Et ben vous gênez pas pour écouter, liker, partager au monde entier, cette émission est faites pour vous !Avec une playlist complète a retrouver ici : https://mega.nz/file/6QgQgZ4a#e4uTwhGBKTWSWak4IanjiN5nh8r80EVNHY_WiuYZivk@Fatlab Studio - @Skull strings - @Asso We Rock - @Actu-METAL Toulouse - @Radio Transparence - @Metal Invasion Radio/Podcast#antremetal #fatlabstudio #skullstrings #radiotransparence #metalinvasionradio #actumetaltoulouse #frenchmetalradioshow #werock-----------------------------------------------------------Ohhhh there he is ! The show of the week, very violent at will, well endowed with novelties in and Mélie Red! Yes L'Antre is here again this week with some good songs to take you through the night. No, it's not a throwback to the 80s, but a 100% 2021 show ! Find LANDMVRKS, OUR HOLLOW, OUR HOME, PRIMAL CREATION, PENGSHUI, EINHERJER, SCARLET DESIRE, BIG BLUE GIRAFA, TO KILL ACHILLES, EPICA, ABRAHMA, THEORY, MASS HYSTERIA, ALIVE INC., GEISHA SKILLSEST, NIGHTTALL, DISOWN and we had not passed since the release of the last LP, the KORPIKLAANI.Does it make you envious ? Well, don't hesitate to listen, like, share with the whole world, this program is made for you !With a complete playlist to find here: https://mega.nz/file/6QgQgZ4a#e4uTwhGBKTWSWak4IanjiN5nh8r80EVNHY_WiuYZivk

rSlash
r/AmITheA**hole For Disowning My Young Daughter?

rSlash

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2021 20:35


r/AmITheA**hole In today's episode, OP is a father of a young, teenage girl who gets pregnant. OP is incredibly disappointed in her, and he tells her that he has lost all respect for her and that he refuses to ever speak to her again. He basically tells her to her face that he's disowning her. Then, he turns to the Internet to ask people if he's the butthole in this situation. Yeah, sure, because abandoning your own daughter in her time of need is real grade-a dad behavior, buddy. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app · Music + Talk: Got an idea for a Music + Talk show? Get started by downloading the free Anchor app or going to anchor.fm/musicplustalk anchor.fm/musicplustalk Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rslash/support

Vanetics with Gabriel of Urantia & Niánn Emerson Chase
19: Disowning The Past — Moving Into Newer, Higher Ways by Niánn Emerson Chase | Vanetics

Vanetics with Gabriel of Urantia & Niánn Emerson Chase

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2020 18:46


Spiritual growth is the ultimate goal for all ascending sons and daughters of God, but many people resist the effort and challenges that come with a life dedicated to seeking God's will moment to moment. One must disown the past and old ways of identifying in order to move forward and “become anew in God.” Often truth seekers are misunderstood and criticized even by friends and family. In this episode, Niánn Emerson Chase discusses the challenges Jesus faced as the highest spiritual teacher who ever walked the planet. As revealed in The URANTIA Book, Jesus was loved and revered for his goodness, but also misperceived and even demonized by those who did not like his strong confrontation of evil, sin and iniquity, or his declaration of the equality of all people as God's children. Even Jesus' own family all misunderstood and doubted him except for his youngest sister, Ruth. This is a challenge those seeking truth and spiritual progress face. “Jesus did not forsake his earth family to do the Father's work - They forsook him.” ~ The URANTIA Book From a teaching from The URANTIA Book, Paper 154, Section 6 - “Jesus' Family Arrives” --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/vanetics/message

Be You Podcast
Bad Mutha: Owning and Disowning Mom Guilt

Be You Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2020 55:01


I have always known I would be sharing an episode about mom guilt. Mom guilt is something every mom feels. Some feel it more strongly than others, but we all have these sometimes overwhelming feelings of guilt as parents. Why? Well, it may come as a surprise to you, but we are doing this to ourselves.   Mom guilt is one of the biggest struggles and fears we have as women. This episode is for the average woman who is beating herself up over specific memories and the constant feeling that she isn’t doing something right. Let me begin by saying that YOU are a great parent. And let me also say, that as the queen of guilt, I am no stranger to these feelings. You are not alone.   Today, I am laying it all out. How I have felt guilt over specific and haunting memories. How I have chosen to compare myself and my parenting to others. And how I have felt that I wasn’t doing it right. I’m sure you can relate. I also offer three actionable steps to take on your healing journey to begin accepting yourself and know that you are a great mom. I promise you are. But this step is so important. Because taking care of you, forgiving you, loving you, accepting you, flaws and all - that’s exceptional parenting.   Show Notes: [1:40] - Jill is running a holiday giveaway! Check it out on Instagram. [2:55] - Just in using the term “mom guilt,” we have already decided that we are doing something wrong. It implies that we have made a mistake and need to change. [4:05] - We as moms feel guilty all the time and when we talk to other moms it may feel like relief. However, it isn’t helping. [6:21] - Jill believes what we are stressing about is not accepting what is. And this includes her. Jill says she has been the “queen of guilt.” [7:18] - The feeling of guilt comes from believing the lie that things could be and should have been different. By looking through that lens, you have a distorted view of what happened. [8:10] - As parents, there’s something we’re getting from feeling guilt. You are feeding a subconscious need. It feels like torture, but it hurts so good. [9:35] - Are there certain memories with your kids that you look back on and replay it over and over because you want it to be different? [10:20] - If you have a regret from something that happened with your kids that seems to be haunting you, what happened at that time means nothing. It is an indication for you to turn inward. [10:54] - Jill shares a memory she has that haunts her that may not seem like a big deal and in fact, her daughter doesn’t even remember it. [13:31] - By excessively apologizing and “jumping into the pool of guilt,” Jill unintentionally encouraged her daughter to feel more upset and disappointed than she was. [14:08] - Jill feels she has done worse things in her parenting, but the memory she shares is the one that haunts her. [15:42] - Jill shares another memory that haunts her of picking up her daughter late. She has created a replay in her head of this memory and has created a story about how her daughter felt. [17:43] - In addition to specific memories, moms tend to also have this overwhelming general feeling that we’re not doing things right. [19:01] - There are three ways we make ourselves feel this way: through comparison, through perfectionism, and by letting our own personal “stuff” cloud of decisions. [20:49] - Jill admits that in her experience, it wasn’t just a few isolated events that she felt guilty about. She genuinely felt that she was a bad parent. [21:58] - One step that Jill took was to write down the words, “I am a great mom,” and placed it on her vision board alongside photos of her with her children. She was able to reprogram her brain over time and started to believe that she is a great mom. [22:37] - Jill started looking for evidence that she is a great mom. Once she started looking through that lens, she realized that all the proof was surrounding her that she was a great parent. [24:13] - When we compare ourselves to others, we think that other parents are doing things better than us. It may look perfect, but we don’t know what is going on behind closed doors. [25:31] - With perfectionism, we are comparing ourselves with an unrealistic version of ourselves. That person does not exist.  [26:49] - We also feel guilt by using our own feelings of “not enoughness.” This is using our own stuff to create the story that you aren’t doing something right and feeding the comparison and perfectionism. [27:54] - The solution is to look inward and find the things that are unresolved. Why do specific memories make you feel guilt? [29:00] - Jill admits that the reason she felt guilt over picking up her daughter late and seeing her disappointment is that she was familiar with the feeling of being abandoned. [31:04] - Taking care of you, forgiving you, loving you, accepting you, flaws and all. That’s exceptional parenting. [32:01] - By creating guilt for yourself, you are teaching your children to do the same. [32:57] - Jill shares a recent experience of visiting a friend at her home and seeing their children and immediately began comparing her own experiences to hers. [34:26] - Even though Jill has done so much work to not feel this way, the feeling of mom guilt dragged her back down in this experience.  [35:52] - There are so many things that Jill has done well that she should be focusing on instead of dwelling on the things she feels doesn’t fit the picture of being a perfect parent. [37:13] - Moms also feel guilt over things that they feel won’t go well in the future due to experiences in the past.  [38:49] - As your kids get older, the fear is that you haven’t prepared them for life. Another fear some women have is that if her children don’t go to college or a good college, that it is a reflection on her. [40:13] - Jill shares an experience and something that a doctor told her that was very freeing for her. [41:39] - Our kids are on their own journey. We guide them but ultimately their journey is their own. [42:42] - The pressure that parents put on themselves projects the same pressure on the kids.  [44:10] - If your child doesn’t choose to go to college, you should be proud. You are letting them decide for themselves. That is such an awesome way to show up as a parent. [45:12] - What if your child makes poor decisions? Jill describes how we should stop adding meaning to the choices our kids make. [46:48] - Jill gives us three actionable steps to take. The first is to make a list of the ten things you feel guilty about as a mom in your journal. [47:29] - Below that in your journal, fill in the blank: “When I feel guilty about my parenting, I ______.”  [47:58] - Then flip it. Write down ten things that are evidence you are a good parent. [49:18] - If you don’t take the time to tell yourself you are a good parent, you are telling the world you want to be a bad parent. [50:21] - Do this with mom friends! Share your ten things with the mom friends who have also done this and talk about it. [51:43] - Jill will be sharing comments and messages from other moms on her Instagram. When you see these, support the other women who are experiencing the same things. Make the decision to free yourself. [52:57] - Jill is giving away a $175 jacket. To do that, you need to screenshot this episode (Be YOU episode 115) and share it on your Instagram story and feed. Tag @jillhermanbeyou and share what you got out of this episode. You get entered twice if you are willing to share what you have felt guilt about as a mom. I know there was something in this episode that you were meant to hear. Let me know what that is. Thank you for being here today with me on our healing journeys. Links and Resources: Be You Home Page Jill Herman on Instagram Be You Collective on Facebook   Don’t forget to download your free ebook to help you discover how to live a life of POWER, FREEDOM, and JOY! Be You and Break Free From the Opinions of Others by Jill Herman

Rambam Insights
Disqualifying vs. Disowning a Child - Rabbi Moshe Perlstien - Issurei Biah 15:15

Rambam Insights

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2020 25:50


Disqualifying vs. Disowning a Child - Rabbi Moshe Perlstien - Issurei Biah 15:15

Stace, Mike and Anika
September 30 - Stace Lost Her Phone, Knotty Necklaces, Spare Body Bits Lying Around The House

Stace, Mike and Anika

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2020 12:19


What spare body bits do you have lying around your house?Disowning knotty necklacesForgetting where your phone is while you are using it - can we name it?

Legally Clueless
Ep79 - Disowning My Father & Dealing With Career Rejection

Legally Clueless

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 14, 2020 41:06


#LegallyClueless Ep79 The hotline number: +254 768 628 790 Join our insta-fam here: https://www.instagram.com/legallycluelesspodcast/ The article about dealing with rejection in your career especially as a freelancer is here: https://www.themuse.com/advice/i-make-my-living-getting-rejected-and-trust-me-it-never-gets-easier I genuinely hope you check out this song of the week that's MANGO - KAMAUU FT ADELINE. It really takes me to such a happy warm place! Here it is: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zw_y3Kj_Sa8 On #100AfricanStories Todah who is a Nigerian podcaster based in Lagos, shares about his family life, writing a letter to disown his father, saving his mum's life, loosing his dad and landing in the media industry! Check out his podcast here: https://podcasts.apple.com/ng/podcast/talk-with-todah/id1523323324

Sex Ed The Musical
OKAY, MY KID IS GAY

Sex Ed The Musical

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2020 30:19


You’re sitting down with your 10-year-old for a dinner of mac and cheese, chicken nuggets and grapes. All on separate plates, of course. On the table there’s a box of spilled apple juice, a few Snoopy stickers and several dried-out markers. Soccer gear is strewn on the floor alongside a few of this morning’s Cheerios and a naked Barbie missing half of her hair. It’s just another day. Until your kid turns to you and says, “Mom, I think I’m a lesbian.” How would you react in that moment? For many parents this is a moment they never saw coming, but it got there. Fast. What should you say? What shouldn’t you say? Were you completely surprised? Have you always known but never really accepted it? How do you hear this and let your child know that they’re safe and loved and what they’re feeling is perfectly okay? It’s a situation that millions of parents have faced. And thanks to more positive role models and American culture becoming less hostile towards LGTBQ people, the average age of children coming out has dropped from their early 20s to anywhere between 14 and 16. Parents shouldn’t just assume their children are straight until proven otherwise. Even if your kid has a different identity in two years or two months, it’s important to support how they feel today. But where do you start? On this episode, I speak with Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Childhood Mental Health Specialist, Melody Parks. Reach her here at Parks Therapy. Melody reveals the struggles that children of all backgrounds must navigate and gives parents tools to help their children know that they’re loved, supported and safe regardless of sexual orientation. I also speak with a friend whose 13 year-old daughter decided to come out during a family vacation. Blindsided, the mother responded in the best way she could. According to The Trevor Project, LGB youth are almost five times as likely to have attempted suicide compared to heterosexual youth. How you respond to your child’s coming out can be what keeps your kid alive. I’ve also found several very helpful resources for parents of LGBT kids: https://www.stonewall.org.uk/help-advice/coming-out/coming-out-advice-and-guidance-parents https://pflag.org/sites/default/files/OUR%20CHILDREN_PFLAGNational_FINAL.pdf https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/teen/dating-sex/Pages/Four-Stages-of-Coming-Out.aspx https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/wellness-and-prevention/tips-for-parents-of-lgbtq-youth https://nccc.georgetown.edu/documents/LGBT_Brief.pdf https://www.insider.com/what-to-do-when-someone-comes-out-2017-12 I also recommend the book: This is a Book for Parents of Gay Kids: A Question & Answer Guide to Everyday Life Being gay is not a crime and it’s not a sin. Some people believe that having an LGBTQ child means they somehow failed as a parent. Disowning your child means you failed as a parent. I think most experts will agree that the best thing you can say to your child when they come out is: I Love You. That is the perfect place to start.     Sex Ed The Musical is a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees by advertising and linking to Amazon.com. At no cost to you, I may receive a tiny amount of compensation when you purchase from my links, which I’ll almost certainly blow on important things like this Air Fryer.

Family Home Evening with Bad Mormons
Thanks For Not Disowning Me, Dad!

Family Home Evening with Bad Mormons

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2020 27:12


Teenage Charlotte drops acid, Teenage Mandi gets a tattoo.  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/fhebadmormons/support

Dads N Donuts
Disowning Family Members Is Ok

Dads N Donuts

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 29, 2020 61:52


Season 1 Episode 4 06/29/2020 originally recorded 06/29/2020 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dadsndonuts/support

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger
Episode 86 - Serving Others

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 29, 2020 18:07


In this episode, I’ll talk about the “service” part of the formula. Your ultimate life or purpose, prosperity and joy is created as you serve others with your divine gifts. There are many ways to serve others. How do you make that happen in your life? Being intentional is one big key.Why is serving so important? We are built as humans to feel good when we serve. Our neurotransmitter cocktail feels really good when we are in service. Besides the physical part, our spirits, the unseen part of our beings also light us when we are in service to others. We are happiest when we choose to live a life of service for others. You can fight with that truth or embrace it and love it every day. Listen in to this episode to learn more.Key Takeaways:The meaning of service, why it’s so important, and how you go about living a life of service (01:40)Disowning the fear and hatred in our hearts to upgrade your life and take control (03:49)Doing what means most most to you and how doing it with service makes it more fulfilling (07:47)Why in the world is serving so important? (08:08)Feeling the loving oneness and common humanity that was intended by our creator when we serve others (10:50)The feel better nature of doing good in the world and how it even helps one succeed in business (12:00)The core motivation to serve: Understanding that we only have one life (12:48)Forming a habit of entering every conversation empty so we can listen to others and learn how we can be of service to them in the best way possible (15:05)Deciding, preparing and acting to live a life of loving service to people, animals, and ourselves and how it bears fruit all over the place (15:49)Additional Resources: These additional resources include books Kellan wrote to showcase new systems, a new mindset, new applications, a new way of creating the life you desire. The Results EquationWalking Without FearMeeting God at the DoorMeditation: The Amazing Journey Within (Volume I)The Book of ContextThe Book of Context Application Guide and Journal (available directly from Publisher or Kellan)Tight Rope of Depression--You can find out more about Kellan, and how he can help you achieve your ultimate life by checking out his website.--Connect with Kellan on your favorite platform:YouTubeFacebookLinkedInTwitter--Subscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google Podcasts, iHeartRADIO or anywhere else you listen to your podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts

The Kyle & Jackie O Show
FULL SHOW: WHY KYLE IS DISOWNING KARL STEFANOVIC

The Kyle & Jackie O Show

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 22, 2020 158:46


On the show today: Tradie VS Lady First Calls Birthday Wheel O News 2 Questions for $10K Secret Mens Business O News TMI: Too Much Information Who Do You Believe? James Weir's Big Brother recap O News Last Calls Follow us @kyleandjackieo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Kyle & Jackie O Show
FULL SHOW: WHY KYLE IS DISOWNING KARL STEFANOVIC

The Kyle & Jackie O Show

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 22, 2020 157:02


On the show today: Tradie VS Lady First Calls Birthday Wheel O News 2 Questions for $10K Secret Mens Business O News TMI: Too Much Information Who Do You Believe? James Weir's Big Brother recap O News Last Calls Follow us @kyleandjackieo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Breakfast with Lise, Sarah, Dan & Ben
Ben may be disowning his kids... PLUS Sarah's made a big change in her life!

Breakfast with Lise, Sarah, Dan & Ben

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2020 28:09


Grim Dystopian
What Goes in Hard and Dry…?

Grim Dystopian

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2020 74:17


S3E61: What Goes in Hard and Dry…? The Grim folks enjoy a laid-back episode of chit-chat, reviews some entertaining news stories from 2019, and as always plays face-melting metal for those filthy earballs of yours. Bands/Songs: Hellcannon, SONG: For Those Who Have Betrayed Us: https://www.facebook.com/hellcannonmetal/ Hubris, SONG: Regency of Hungering Swords: https://www.facebook.com/thetruehubris/ UDO, SONG: Pandemonium: https://www.facebook.com/udoonline/ Special thanks to Dustin Hardman @ https://www.facebook.com/afmrecords/ Cloven, SONG: Graveyard of Scars: https://www.facebook.com/cloven666/ Devoured Elysium, SONG: Necrocannibal Butchery: https://www.facebook.com/DevouredElysiumofficial/ Grandma’s Pantry: Kalibas, SONG: Genome Farooq, SONG: Corporate Champ: https://www.facebook.com/farooqmosh/ Disowning, SONG: Battle of Neverness: https://www.facebook.com/disowning/ Lunar Shadow, SONG: Catch Fire: https://www.facebook.com/lunarshadowband/ Throaat, SONG: Impaler’s Night: https://www.facebook.com/Throaat/ Corpus Delicti, SONG: Choose Your Grave: https://www.facebook.com/corpusdelictiband/

DarkCompass
HRH Metal Takeover Show

DarkCompass

Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2020 116:24


Broadcast on 22nd May 2020 2000 UTC, featuring Book of The Dead, Disowning, Babylonfall and many others. Book of The Dead – Bound in Flesh, Inked in Blood Chalice – Why Abrupt Demise – Human Mince Sores – Wounds of Absence Putrid Offal – Dura Mater Disowning – Ghost Area Eternal Delyria – Burning Bridges … Continue reading "HRH Metal Takeover Show"

Brunch with Desb Podcast
I AM DISOWNING RELIGION (Ep. 9)

Brunch with Desb Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2020 35:39


I thought about saving this topic down the road but it's time to spill the tea now. Let's talk religion and specifically Christianity. If you follow me, you know that I am a woman of faith and I wanted to express my feelings and beliefs when it comes to God and what issues I see when it comes to religion from my experience. If you are going to listen, please do so with an open mind as these are my opinions and experiences I want to share with you.    Time Stamps:   (0:59) My Relationship with Christ (3:18) Premarital Sex, Drugs, and  Swearing (3:57) My Childhood (6:22) College Volleyball and Baptism (9:20) Judgment (11:30) God’s Promise (18:42) Wrong and Right (24:08) The Christian Community (25:09) The LBGTQ+ Community (30:15) Your Invitation (33:37) Let Me Know What You Thought!   Email me at desbfit@gmail.com with your thoughts on this episode! --------------------------------------------------- Follow Des Scoggin, aka: ME! Instagram ➭ https://www.instagram.com/desb___ Twitter ➭ https://twitter.com/desbfit Youtube ➭ https://www.youtube.com/desireescogginfitness  Facebook ➭ https://www.facebook.com/desbfittraining My Weekly Emails ➭https://desbfittraining.us18.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=7f9e9f35e528c72d50a82d9c1&id=c056ef31c7 Official Website  ➭ https://www.desbfittraining.com --------------------------------------------------- ((( ANNOUNCEMENTS )))   - OPEN FACEBOOK FITNESS COMMUNITY: www.facebook.com/groups/dbftcommunity   New DBFT rebranded merch is here: https://desbfittraining.myshopify.com   --------------------------------------------------- F A Q   -what’s your real name? Desiree   -what’s your instagram? www.instagram.com/desb___   -how old are you? 24   -how tall are you? 5'7   -whats your Spotify playlist? https://open.spotify.com/user/desb___   -what do you order at Dunkin? Large hot coffee, 1 pump SF coconut, 1 flavor swirl French Vanilla, 1 cream + 2 splenda   -skin care routine? https://www.tula.com / CODE "desb" to save 20%   -self tanner? https://glowprotans.com/?aff=71 / CODE "desb" to save $   -my huge water jug? https://www.thehydrojug.com / CODE: "desb" to save $   -supplements I use? https://www.alaninu.com / CODE "desb"   AND   -how to find my free stuff and codes? https://www.desbfittraining.com/desb

Coffee & Counseling: A Mental Health Podcast
S2E1: Peace, Purpose and Pursuit

Coffee & Counseling: A Mental Health Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 30, 2020 60:27


Welcome to the Coffee and Counseling with your hosts Cherlette McCullough and Cristina Ally. We have a great show for you today. Today we are talking about Peace, Purpose, and Pursuit. It's a new year and often times at the beginning of the year we talk strongly about resolutions. While resolutions for the new year are great we for the next few minutes we would like to call your attention to 3 words Peace, Purpose and Pursuit. So today, let’s talk about What gives you Peace? What is your purpose or vision for your life? And lastly….. What are you pursuing?10 Things to Let Go THIS year!.... Dreaming w/o creating goals Living life w/o boundaries Sharing ideas with people who don't support you Staying in situations that don't serve you Wasting time arguing Expecting closure to come from someone else Comparing yourself to others Disowning parts of yourself Speaking or thinking negativelyFeeling guilty for standing up for yourselfGet your FREE Audiobook here: www.audibletrial.com/coffeeandcounseling ResourcesLoving Kindness meditation YouTubeThink and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill Unlimited by Jillian MichaelsWho moved my cheese? By Spencer Johnson ReWind, ReWire, ReLive Affirmations for your Marriage: Affirmations for your Marriage by Cherlette ReWind ReWire ReLive Affirmation JournalSelf-care blog by Cristina Contact UsIf you would like to reach Cherlette directly you can visit her website at www.cherlettemccullough.com.If you would like to reach Cristina directly you can visit her website at www.cristinaally.com.Feel free to reach out to us at info@coffeeandcounseling.org and let us know how you were impacted by this episode!Never want to miss an episode? CLICK HERE to subscribe to our email list.Visit us at www.coffeeandcounseling.org!Join the Coffee and Counseling Community and conversation on Facebook! Do you love the show and want to financially support us on a monthly basis? Consider joining our Patreon community!Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/coffeeandcounseling)

RainbowTalks.PH
Episode 20: "Sabi ko na Barbie" and Disowning

RainbowTalks.PH

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2020 41:04


In this episode, Nicque and Amil talk about the "Sabi ko na Barbie" Notion and Disowning. In "What's the Tea?", we will talk about (Some) Corona Virus Updates, Corona Virus VS HIV, Women's Day Scandal, "Hindi ako pinaupo sa bus". Don't forget to #ShareTheRainbow #RaibowBarkada

Free Range Church Podcast
Mark | Disowning Jesus - Mark 14, Part 2

Free Range Church Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2020 14:26


We continue our One Year In The Bible journey with our first look at a Gospel as we dive into the Gospel of Mark. This book is a raw look at the ministry of Jesus and his message, and let's dive deep into some of His most important stories and teachings.

Free Range Church Podcast
Mark | Disowning Jesus - Mark 14, Part 2

Free Range Church Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2020 14:26


We continue our One Year In The Bible journey with our first look at a Gospel as we dive into the Gospel of Mark. This book is a raw look at the ministry of Jesus and his message, and let's dive deep into some of His most important stories and teachings.

What If Project
Episode 54: Disowning God And Taking Off My Evangelical Glasses (Processing The Goose, Part 2)

What If Project

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2019 30:10


It's part 2 of our series "Processing the Goose" where I'm talking through some of my biggest takeaways from this year's Wild Goose Festival.  This week we talk about the idea of "disowning God" and recognizing that Christianity (or any religion, for that matter) doesn't own the rights to God and how taking off my Evangelical Glasses has helped open up my eyes to a more inclusive reading of Scripture.   Show Notes: Patreon  What If Project Community  Wild Goose Festival Barbara Brown Taylor Holy Envy

Halfass to Badass Podcast
HTB 025: Your Natural Born SuperPower

Halfass to Badass Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 8, 2019 17:49


  Wasting time trying to be “good” to bring you more success? Check out this one SuperPower to grow your success without settling for mediocrity or being apologetic… In today’s episode you will hear Satori share your one natural SuperPower. You’ll understand how to dominate your life and business and not let it dominate you.  Here are some of the awesome things you will hear in this episode: Find out what’s costing American companies alone $450-$500 Billion. Find out how to take command of this one SuperPower that’s at your fingertips. Learn how to own the traits of the best to leverage your natural born leadership skills. So listen here to find out how Satori coaches the best and how you can have an opportunity to apply and talk directly to Satori about creating badass results in your life and business. --Transcript-- If you want to know the difference between the best and someone who’s name you’ve never even heard of, you better put away all the distractions and focus your attention right here, right now. What’s up my friends, this is Satori Mateu with a brand new episode of Halfass to Badas.  Today we are going to tap into and understand one of your superpowers. The superpower I’m talking about controls everything around you, your results, or lack of results, what you do or don’t do. What you’re even willing to try.  Before we get into the actual superpower, let's clarify a little bit of a current dilemma. We live in a world of mediocrity. We live in a world of low expectations, and victimhood.  Today, that’s the norm. It's the norm we live in. The estimated annual cost of employee disengagement in the United States alone is $450-$500 Billion dollars. And of course, this impacts company growth, profits, productivity and the difference being made in customers and clients.  If we want to engage ourselves, our teams and inspire customers and clients to make us the logical choice when they make a purchasing decision, and if we want to change how we live, what we stand for,we need to deliberately engage this Supowerpower and stop halfassing things. If we want to truly share our expertise and our knowledge, our wisdom, to be real authentic leaders in this world, we've got to step out of the mediocrity of the world. We've got to divorce ourselves of the low expectations and the victimhood we live in. Which means we can’t be the best in our field, to stand out, be badasses and victims at the same time. The truth is, we can't afford to be victims. Period. What is this thing we're going to talk about today? Own your best. This Supowerpower comes from understanding that you are born the best. You are born a Badass. That’s something to remember. This Superpower is an undeniable truth. Just remember it. No need to question it. Meaning you wouldn't even be here unless you had won the sperm race. We’ve talked about this in previous episodes. You wouldn't be here. It’s just as simple as that. Let's just own that. You were designed and born to compete, to win, to dominate, to be the best. It's in your DNA. Just own it. No need to apologize for it, anymore. But, it doesn’t guarantee your position. Just because you have everything, and you’re perfectly designed to win and you won once before doesn’t mean you can disengage and expect victory.   Let me ask you, what happens when what is given to you goes unappreciated, unused, or even misused? It’s worthless, isn’t it? I know so many people who have lost important relationships because they didn’t nurture or appreciate them when they were in their life. No until when the person got tired of not being being seen and left did the person all of a sudden start paying attention. To own your best, to embrace all of you, means appreciating the miracle that you are.  What else does it mean to own the best? It's to understand that all the human traits, every single one of the human traits, the characteristics, the qualities you have, everybody has. There's no trait lacking in you. Nothing is missing.  With that said, it's interesting, if you look at the word, the definition of a trait; a distinguishing quality or characteristic. Here's the problem with that. We judge and minimize ourselves. We compare ourselves to others as a way to separate ourselves to be distinct. We look to create a unique identity for ourselves, we want to be different.  This can go two ways, we either minimize and crush our worth that way, or we make ourselves bigger, we put ourselves on a pedestal, as a way to feel more important, more significant, more special.  But in humanity, every trait in existence, you and I have. Nothing is missing. We have the trait and the anti-trait. Sometimes you’re up and sometimes you’re down. Sometimes you feel strong and sometimes weak. Inspired and uninspired, authentic and inauthentic. We got it all or you wouldn't even be able to recognize it. Whether we define it as good or bad, it's really more about our own judgment and perceptions, meaning every trait has its value in the right context. The problem is, we falsely believe we lack some traits. We often believe others have things we don't and that we're just born that way. More accurately, our traits come into optimal use when they’re in alignment with our highest values.  I’ll show you persistence, creativity, resilience and dedication when it comes to fighting for our clients well-being and success and our family, but you put me in front of something I don’t like and you will see, lack of engagement, lack of focus, lack of dedication, low energy because it’s not important to me. But I have all traits. Is this making sense?  We falsely believe we're lacking. The reality is, you have them all. To own the best is to own your traits, all of them, because they're all useful in different contexts. When it comes to eating crappy food, not getting sufficient sleep or taking care of my clients, with those kind of habits or behaviors I want to be inconsistent, lazy or procrastinate, you know what I mean? Because I want the opposite. I want to eat healthy food. I want to take care of my sleep and I want to take care of and nurture our clients. Are you following?  You want to know how you can use your natural design, your best, in order to  accelerate your wealth (which really means well-being), accelerate the results you create for yourself, your clients, your family, be able to love and connect and deepening your understanding of the world within you and around you. There's a problem. The problem is that you came out a winner, and as baby people were impressed just by you passing gas, mistaking it for a smile, right? "Oh, look at that cute little smile!" You were even celebrated for pooping. Believe me, that didn't last long. Think about it. Right?  Later in life, after being praised for your mere existence, now people are fast to judge, true? People are inconvenienced by your ruthlessness, your persistence. I mean, this is how you came here. Unapologetically. People started judging it, being inconvenienced by it. They start rolling their eyes, sighing, trying to remove your unapologetic existence. "Oh, don't be so energetic! Don't be so loud! Don't be this! Don't be that!" Right? They try to have you apologize for everything. What happens? You slowly start accepting it and you dim your light. That's the problem and we've got to shatter that problem once and for all. Because if you don't, if we don't, we'll stay mediocre, and there's no growth in that my friend. There's no development. The world will stand still. Think about it, if there were no Steve Jobs, no Elon Musk, no Bill Gates, no Oprah Winfrey, no Richard Branson, and if there wasn't a you.  Can you think about these people? They have the same traits as you. They're just using them differently. According to their values. According to matters to them. They're using maybe their persistence to innovate, being creative in their form. You have yours. They still have the same traits. Maybe they're using their focus differently. They're using their time differently. They are no different than you or I.  How do we take this piece of owning the best and apply it daily? How do we engage this superpower, because it really is a superpower.  What’s the kryptonite? Disowning your traits. When you disown your traits, you disown you. When you disown your traits, you disown your expertise, your wisdom, your knowledge, your experience, you disown your clients because you can't make your unique difference in their lives when you're minimizing yourself, when you are dimming the light of your SuperPower. When you're disowning you. Think about that, because if you get this, if you really understand this at the core, you'll stop minimizing, you'll stop apologizing. You'll stop procrastinating in sharing your gifts, your knowledge, and your expertise. This is how you change the world. This is how you leave a legacy. Changing the standards for those who come after you, this is how we play a bigger, more meaningful game. This is how you apply yourself. The best. How do we do it? How do we engage our superpower? How do we engage you, the born you? The one that is here right now? First of all, I want you to understand, we all have a tendency to dismiss or hide traits. So here is a simple yet powerful way to get going.  Let’s identify and clarify a trait you admire in someone else. Why do I choose a trait you admire in someone else? Because if you admire it in someone else chances are you’re minimizing it in you. It's a simple way of doing it, a simple way of getting clear on it, so we can understand what a trait is. That's how we can distinguish it. We look at something someone else has, someone you admire or respect, a trait you admire, a trait you wish you had or had more of. Think about it right now. What’s the trait? Who has it? You see the trait? What is it? Who is it? You look for when and where and with whom you've demonstrated this trait. Go to a specific moment? Where are you demonstrating this trait right now? We'll talk about this and look through some examples. Thirdly, ask yourself, “Where do I want to demonstrate this trait even more? What would be one area, one context, where this trait could have the biggest impact and meaning for myself and others?” Identify a trait. Let's say you're looking for consistency, or you're looking for persistence, or you're looking to be less apologetic, maybe more ruthless. Maybe you're looking to be more relentless.  If you think about it, when you are being playful and free and being creative, it allows you to be unshakeable. It allows you to be relentless.  If you think about it, when you say something like, "I don't have enough time," you're using that story, that excuse, that you don't have enough time, which we all have used that language. It's a good reason not to apply you, to not apply the best. It's a way to apologize and dismiss yourself but it's also a way of minimizing yourself. When you do are you owning your best or are you back to being mediocre? We've identified a trait, number one. We look for where and when and with whom you've demonstrated it.  I remember when I wrote the acknowledgments of my bestselling book, Unshakeable Wealth. First I thought, "Why am I writing an acknowledgement? Who cares? Who would even read the acknowledgement anyway?" I thought it was kind of a waste of time. Then I sat down and I started thinking about it and I realized that the acknowledgement was really like writing a love letter, like writing an appreciation and gratitude for the people who provided a path for me, that created the opportunity to have this moment.  All of a sudden, I'm sitting there, with tears running down my eyes. When I was done, I'm like, "Wow, this is like a really cool experience." Then I was going to read it to my wife and I couldn't read it without crying because I was so filled with gratitude. It was something I thought was meaningless until I connected to the truth.  If you think about vulnerability as a trait that you avoid, maybe consider the drawbacks of avoiding it. And look at what are the benefits? Where have you been vulnerable?  I was connecting to being vulnerable, practicing that, which allowed me and my wife to be seen. Either way, the trait is there. I decide how much or how little I apply that trait. What traits do you want to expand or want more? It's always existent. You either use it, or you're not. But it's still there. It's not lost. It's not disappearing. It's there. Just because you don't walk around thinking about your heart, your heart is still there. Just because you don't walk around thinking about the blood pumping in your body right now, or the oxygen going through your body or you veins, it's still doing it. You don't walk around thinking about that all day long, but it's still happening.  Lastly, it's to create habits, daily habits, to strengthen the traits.  Strengthen the trait by creating daily habits that allows you to apply the trait on a daily basis, consistently, deliberately, intentionally, purposefully. There's no mindlessness about this. What are the specific situations where you can apply your traits? If you want to make a significant increase to your income, if you want consistency in your revenue every month, what’s a trait that is not only useful, but a must? A must-have trait? If you could only pick one trait, what would be one trait that, if applied, would generate significant amounts of consistent monthly revenue for you? What would be the one trait?  Tell me, how important do you think that is to understand? How important do you think it is to own the best? In other words, own the traits that are yours? If you believe being nice, or being a good girl or a good boy is a good trait, maybe that's one of the reasons you're not achieving the financial results you want, because you're apologizing for your existence.  You're apologizing for your gift, your knowledge, expertise and wisdom that others can enjoy. Apologizing and minimizing who you are, is not how you got here. You were unapologetic, and relentless. That’s how you won the race. Hope this has been a powerful listening session for you, and I hope you will share this with someone you love. Thanks so much for listening, and until next time, OWN. YOUR. BEST. Bye for now.

Inside Sources with Boyd Matheson
Why are Democrats disowning Obama?

Inside Sources with Boyd Matheson

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2019 10:27


A surprising development in the recent Democratic debates included criticisms of Barack Obama. People like Joe Biden were attacked for decisions made during Obama’s presidency.  How will members of the party respond? Boyd Matheson, Opinion Editor at Deseret News, takes you inside the latest political happenings. Bringing an elevated conversation on the principles that drive this country and make Utah a great place to thrive and live. Listen weekdays 12:30 to 1 pm at 1160 AM and 102.7 FM, online, or on the app. https://kslnewsradio.com/ 

Q the Mic Radio
Ep 16: What the Homophobic? Disowning Gay Family Members? (Dear @MarioLopez)

Q the Mic Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2019 63:25


What the Homophobic? This weeks topic: DISOWNING OUR GAY FAMILY! Our in-house therapist Timothy Walsh and The Q' Team discuss this heartbreaking reality  and all too familiar topic. (Dear @MarioLopez @MarioLopezExtra) AIR DATE August 1, 2019

Halfass to Badass Podcast
HTB 024: The Key To Life And Business Optimization...

Halfass to Badass Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 28, 2019 29:04


DESCRIPTION       In today’s episode you will hear the key to life and business optimization. You’ll understand what you need to do first before you do anything.  Here are some of the awesome things you will hear in this episode: Find out how all the other tools or strategies for optimization won’t work without implementing this one step first. Find out how to raise your income level and understand why so many entrepreneurs hit an income ceiling. Learn how to take part in community to help you stay on track and continue to make progress. --Transcript-- What’s up my friends, Satori Mateu here and welcome to a brand new episode of Halfass to Badass. Today, we are going to talk about one of the most challenging, most questioned, and most provocative topics I see clients and their families, and business owners struggle with and I believe it's the one thing that runs everything you do.  Today’s topic controls your beliefs, your perspectives, your focus and therefore, how you run your business, how you care for your family and whether you’re rich or broke. It literally filters everything you do and controls the impact you have. Your health, and your fulfillment hinges of you of you taking command of this area. Have I kept you in enough suspense? Good What we’re talking about today is to own, truly own, your dark side. The question then becomes, of course, what is the dark side? So let's talk about first, what it's not.  It's not bad. It's not ugly. It's not wrong. It's not all those things you've been taught it may be. It's not something to move away from, but rather, something you want to move towards. Something you want to embrace. Because, this is where your true desires, your true dreams, your wants... live.  Your secrets live here and so does your inspiration. More about that in a moment. Your instincts live here. Your imagination lives on the dark side. Your nature lives on your dark side. Your wildness, your spontaneity, your boldness, your loudness, your life force, your ruthlessness, your relentlessness, your persistence, your power, and your love lives in your dark side. Let me clarify what I mean when I say your love lives there.  Your genuine care for other human beings live there. This is not the manipulative you trying to get attention. This is not the pretend stuff. Not the fake friendliness. Not that politeness, and fakeness which is not you, anyway.  Think about that. When you're being polite, you're not being you. You’re trying to be something other than yourself. You’re trying to be something others want you to be. You're trying to placate and appease others. You're trying to do something so people will like you, respect you, appreciate you. It's a buying of love and affection, of respect or whatever you want to call it, but it's not you when you're being polite. That’s a mask. It’s prostitution. And we’ve all done it. Do you know what I’m saying? Hope you do because this is a critical understanding if you want to build a successful and fulfilling life, business, marriage or be an influential leader of any kind.  I remember being a kid tippy-toeing. I remember being an adult tippy-toeing. I remember that feeling of talking to a client and being care-ful, rather than care-ing, working really hard to not say the wrong thing, to not make them annoyed, or disappointed.  Listen, everything that’s part of your dark side, you’re hiding, you were taught to hide. You were taught it was bad, which is why you’re hiding it to begin with. Are you following? I think if you stop for a moment and become aware you can feel when you’ve said yes to something just to appease someone. It’s so nauseating and crippling because it’s not you. Are you with me? It’s some contrived version of you. It’s just inauthentic. And you’ll never feel in alignment with yourself and your highest values when you do. Again, I’m not talking about genuinely wanting to do something for someone. Wanting to care. That’s different. Your genuine love, your genuine caring, your authentic love lives in the dark side. The real you, not what you've been taught and conditioned by society or maybe your parents, lives there. The unpostured and unmasked you. Yeah, is this cool stuff? Now, the problem here is you've learned to shut that down, to minimize your nature. You've learned to tippy-toe, to apologize, so that people will like you, approve of you and feel comfortable around you. It’s been indoctrinated and conditioned into your very core since you were a kid.  “Be nice. Be good. Say thank you. Be polite. Be respectful. Smile. Be happy. You’re such a good boy. You’re such a good girl. You make mommy and daddy so happy.” Or just reverse it… “Don’t say that. Don’t do that. Don’t ask so many questions. Just do what I tell you to do boy. Don’t question mommy or daddy because they always know best.” Don’t question authority. That’s how we are trained. You and I were trained to fit in. We were trained to please others and to live into their values and not make them uncomfortable. So I know it could be hard to strip away the mask and be you. How do you be you without it? I will have to dedicate an episode just for that. Today we’ll open up the eyes for it and give you something actionable to start making the shift. How do you do fit in? You do that by playing small, by not standing out, by trying to fit in. This is what you've learned your whole life. It's been like a requirement in order to receive love, to receive appreciation, and to receive the respect of your peers; of your family, your friends, and your clients. It's the place where you've been going for your survival. That's not the place to live or thrive. If you’re thinking, “I don’t do that.” Stop and ask yourself, “Where do I do that?” Because we all do to some degree, and I just want you to notice where and when you do so can free yourself from it. If you feel uncomfortable even hearing me talk about this, I get it. If you feel any resistance to what I’m saying I get it. Because your whole life you’ve been trained to not go against the grain. It’s natural. It’s normal. It’s what you know. But it’s also what makes you empty, unfulfilled, stressed out, overwhelmed and stuck. It’s what fuels perfectionism. I’m not talking about growth. I’m talking about the addiction of perfectionism. The constant futile chase for praise and acceptance, which just makes the gap bigger and bigger the more you try to fill the emptiness. I remember doing that with the people I admired. I did it most of my life; I would put them on a pedestal. Teachers, coaches, business icons, certain clients. I did it with my wife when I first met her. Most of us have done it so repeatedly, that it’s automatic and we pay no attention to it.  This is not the place where we’re sharing and expressing our true gifts. Now of course, we’re smart, we don’t do things that doesn’t bring us some sort of benefit, some kind of pleasure, right? So happens when you don't own your dark side? You get the illusion of people liking you. At least, it looks like it on the surface. They're not liking you. They don’t even know you. All they know is your facade, your mask! You know what else? They're liking that you're doing and fulfilling their wants and desires, but for many people, if you didn't do that, they may not like you and they may not be so nice to you.  Disowning your dark side, is actually not a service to them. It's a disservice, because they don't even get to know you, and they’re stuck living in their fake little bubble. Not good. Not good at all. So you'll have less enemies. You'll push less buttons. You're keeping homeostasis, so to speak, but nothing changes. You have no real impact on the world. You won't make any real money by doing that, because you won't stand out. You'll be part of the mediocre, the average person, so you won't be remembered. And if we’re talking about having an intimate relationship, it will be shallow at best, and parenting? Hmm fueled by disappointments on both sides. This is the consequence of not embracing all of you. People will guilt and shame you for not behaving the way you should behave. This is what humans have learned to do to control and manipulate other humans since the beginning of time. And it’s still happening. Why does this matter? Because you want to be a free human being. You want to be able to be fully and boldly you and never try to be anything else or anyone else. And not have to apologize for it. Just recently at the Golden Globes Award in Beverly Hills they were promoting flu shots. So they walked around all the celebrities and campaigning for people to get their flu shot. It was a very awkward moment and many celebrities looked very uncomfortable.  Why am I sharing this? Because this is an example of shaming and pointing people out who are different or acting different than what is being promoted. They said, “Hey if you’re anti vaccines just put a yellow napkin on your head and we’ll know who you are. Companies, Government, society, the news use it all the time to control our behavior, control our focus.  It’s time you own you. All of you. If you don’t you’ll just minimize your true nature which means you will never get paid your worth. Your business won’t grow at the level you want and how are you ever going to have an edge? People are not going to pay you for something that is not special, that doesn’t stand out. And the people who care about you, like I do, we want to experience your real genius. Even when I say that, you probably thinking, “Well, I'm not a genius”. Well, how do you know that? Who told you that? You can't really help and serve your clients or your family, if you don't own your work, if you don't own your dark side, because they won't get to the real you, the best of you.  All they get is a muted version of you, a crippled version of you. Which means, they're not being served at a level they could be served. Which also means, you're not going to be known as the authority in your industry, because you'll keep minimizing your worth. You'll keep minimizing yourself, because you're disowning your dark side. You're disowning you.  I don't really have a name for the other side. Of course, we could call it the light side, but it sounds almost like something to aspire. It’s not. You’ve been taught that, but you were taught wrong.  I know I may be pushing some buttons when I say this, but hey I want you to be free to be you and awaken from your good boy, good girl trance.  I would call it the fake side, the apologetic side, the side that is inauthentic. It's not you. So the question is, how do we own our dark side? How do we break free from the hypnosis of the masses? I hope I painted the picture clear enough for you to start seeing the danger and the drawbacks of not owning your dark side.  We can go deeper with that, for sure, but just for the sake of keeping this focused right now and keeping this to an understanding that your dark side is the real you. There's nothing to be ashamed of here. There's nothing to hide, really. But it is a thing that you are hiding. It is a thing that you are minimizing. It is the thing that you are apologizing for. It's the one thing that is controlling and dominating your pulse, every single day of your life. It's controlling your income right now. Your key relationships. It's controlling everything. It's actually controlling the level of energy you have right this very moment. Because the more you're suppressing, the less you're being you, and that’s draining. It’s controlling your emotions, your mental capacity, It's controlling your immune system. It's controlling everything. It’s controlling your marriage, it’s controlling your parenting, it’s controlling the efficiency in your business, your stress levels, how well you manage your team.  So if you want to be free, truly free as a human being, this is worth owning. This is worth mastering, for sure.  So how do we do it? Let's start by understanding a few simple things. I'm going to give you some practical things you can do right away.  There's only one way to not have it be your dark side anymore and that’s to bring it into the light. And by the way if you didn’t know the definition of Satori it means enlightenment. It’s a moment of clarity. So let’s illuminate your dark side shall we? Let’s make you unshakeable. How do we shed some light here? Right now. Not years from now.  First, the moment you see where and when and with whom you’re being inauthentic, just by observing it (with no judgement) things start shifting. You’re literally starting the pruning, and cutting away process of your inefficient neuro connection. You’re literally re-molding your brain. You can just start by acknowledging it. You can see, you can have clarity of where and when and with whom you're apologizing, where you're being fake, where you're not being bold, expressive, where you're minimizing yourself, where you're tippy-toeing, where you're trying to have people like you.  Let's just make it clear, this is not about being offensive. It's not about being disrespectful. It's not about attacking people. Attacking and judging comes from a place of protection. Attacking is a protecting mechanism. I don't need to get my point across by attacking.  A lot of times, when people feel a need to defend themselves, to protect themselves, (when they perceive a threat) they feel like they need to attack. I was having a conversation with a new client a few years back. I started working with. She's a doctor, and she works with all these famous people. I said something to her, and I said, "Really?" I just used the word, "Really?" Immediately, she jumped into, "You don't have to shame me." I'm like, "Whoa, whoa, whoa, relax. I'm not even in the slightest bit trying to shame you."  I said, "If you feel triggered and you feel shamed, it has nothing to do with this moment. I have zero desire or intention to shame you. Shame lives in the past. You’re being triggered from the past, because nothing that I ever say or ever do is designed to shame anybody."  I don't have any judgment if what you’re doing is good, bad, right, or wrong. I'm looking at how is it working for you? How is it serving you? Is it expanding you, or is it minimizing you? That's what I'm attacking, if I'm attacking anything. It's easy to get, hooked into something. Directness can have that impact on people, because they feel, “Ooh, I'm going to be exposed”. The first step to owning your dark side is to have the clarity and awareness of where and with whom and specifically when you're doing it.  When you're apologizing. When you're being fake. When you're protecting yourself. When you're doing all those things, that's number one.  Number two: We must tell the truth about it to someone who can (who actually has the ability) and wants to see and understand you. Someone who cares about you. Meaning, someone who’s able to see you with all those things that you've been trying to hide, all the things you've been trying to change about yourself, to not lose respect, love, and appreciation. I actually had a conversation with one of our podcast listeners this week where this became very apparent. She is an entrepreneur and mom and her mother in law was shaming her for being enthusiastic about building her company. She didn’t think that’s how a mom should be.  Not a very uncommon scenario. This listener of course felt frustrated and judged because she was sure she wouldn’t blame her son for working and building his business.  So she had a choice to be apologetic and tippy-toeing, shrink herself to appease her mother in law, or to continue to be inspired and know she could build and amazing business and be an amazing mom. And actually an even more present mom because she was fulfilling her highest values; being a mompreneur. So we've got to first acknowledge and see, be aware of, when and where and with whom I am minimizing, apologizing, being fake in any way, shape, or form, trying to change who I am. Tippy-toeing. Number one. Number two, acknowledge it. Own it. Tell the truth about it to someone who can see you. This is the place of courage, being vulnerable enough to share your flaws.  I don't see them as flaws, but to be able to communicate it here, the things that you've been trying to hide, the secrets that you’ve been taught are flaws is key here.  A great way to know what those things are is to ask yourself, "What are the things I don't want anyone to know, Don’t want to tell anybody? What are the secrets I don't want anybody to know about me?"  Those will be the things to talk about with the people who can see you. I was talking to a guy the other day that wanted some help with his thinking around his business, and he was not getting enough traction and making the money he wanted. He had spent a lot of money to be in this entrepreneurial mastermind but felt stuck because he wasn’t getting the help he needed. So I asked him, what’s something you’ve been hiding or trying to keep a secret? I said it’s dominating you right now, and it’s controlling your income because it’s lowering your worth. Anything in your nervous system that is minimizing you will control how much money you’re making”. He’s like, “It’s weird, the moment you asked me, this feeling popped up and and I know exactly what it is. My sister has a severe handicap, I’ve judged her for it. I haven’t felt I could love her fully because of it, and I’ve felt ashamed and ashamed of her”.  The moment you're exposing the guilt and shame, they're no longer in the dark, meaning we are seeing it, and you're able to own it. When someone can see you, and appreciate your vulnerability you’re making it possible to dissolve things you’ve been carrying around for decades.  It's easy to identify it and be honest with yourself about it, which is obviously the first step when you're seeing it, right? But to dissolve the guilt or shame, what’s powerful and what you want to do is share it with someone who can see you with it. This is your practice. I’m talking about this because most people are not getting how these things (thoughts and emotional charges) are weighing them down and holding them back from the business growth they want, the family they want, and fulfillment they want. Most are not deliberately stepping forward and practicing this. Mostly because they didn’t know, but also because it’s scary and counterintuitive. It’s the complete opposite of what most people have been taught.  Most entrepreneurs I know pretend to be better than they are. Further along than they are; more successful, making more income, more everything. When I say pretending to be better than you are, I'm not saying that you're not amazing. You are. You've been pretending because you've been hiding the other side, thinking that is a “bad” side, a wrong side, a flawed side, a weak side.  So you want to come across better than. It’s completely normal based on the conditioning you’ve had.  That's not owning your dark side. That's apologizing for it by pretending, disowning it and putting up a facade, right?  An example of that would be. “Hey, how are you doing?” “Oh, everything is great. I'm doing this, and I'm doing that, and life is amazing. That's being polite, because you're not being real.  It's not that something can't be going great in your life. Of course, things can be amazing in your life. That's not the point. This is when the truth has to be there, it’s a different level of truth. I’m not talking about being a victim and always complaining and bitching about your life.  I want you to understand. I’ve been apart of so many groups; masterminds where people pay a lot of money to be in them, and so many of them hang in the Facebook groups fishing for praise, they share their wins but still feel empty because it’s empty calories. I’m not interested in building more fakeness or inauthenticity in people. Or supporting the growing addiction.  Hey I want you to be focused. I don’t want you to get distracted.  You need to have space; mental space, emotional space a community space where you can be fully, brutally honest and real. That does not mean that everything is going to be super cool and everything's going to be great all the time. You need to be able to own those things, without coming from a victim mentality but from curiosity, from exploration and desire to grow. Not from complaining. Not from a feeling sorry for yourself place. And I know you don’t like that place anyway so I don’t need to explain that. So I'm not after that. I'm after a place where you can be seen, fully seen. To be understood It's hard for people to do that on social media. Which is why we’ve built our community. By the way if you want to know more about our community you can go to halfass to badass.com and join our VIP list for when we open the doors. Cool? I’ve got to tell you it frustrates me when I see so many entrepreneurs not having the tools, or the community to deal with this. Of course, we want to encourage people, but we also want to understand on a deep level that when you’re aligned with you core values, you’re inspired from within, you don’t need some outside motivation to take action. You may need to remove friction and overwhelm and have efficient strategies for optimization. But when you’re aligned with your highest values, your core, you don’t need me to motivate you. You’re getting that, right? I don’t need to remind my boys to play Minecraft or push them to draw the things they love to create. They are compelled and inspired. They come to me and share their latest creations. “Look dad, look what I did. Hey dad, I created this new cool character today”. Believe me I know people want to be nice, but we need to start recognizing our own inner drive of why and how we do it. Because if we don’t it’s like we’re walking around literally with a fake mask of a smile and nobody gets to know anybody. There’s a separation and lonely feeling, rather than connection and intimacy. That’s the price of being inauthentic. And it’s not your fault when you are because we can all be a bit inauthentic, if we’re honest.  We’re trained to be this way, and most often it has the opposite effect of what we want.  We just need to recognize when it happens so we can let it go. The moment you own you dark side you’re free my friend. And I want that for you. In this conversation, well me talking to you, I can’t interact with you as much as I like to, which is another reason why we created our community so I can get to know you and support your entrepreneurial journey.  So until you join us you've got to practice to be brutally honest and own your dark side. Stop trying to look good, stop trying to impress others for the sake of gaining love, respect or appreciation. It’s exhausting and won’t get you very far. It will just leave you empty. It’s an addiction you want to break. And I know a lot of people have a hard time admitting when they have an addiction. But let’s be clear, anything you and I do that we keep doing and seem to have a hard time stopping, is an addiction. Let’s just tell the truth about it. No more hiding. No more pretending things are “so amazing” when they’re not. Are you with me?  Yes, you want to deliberately grow and uplevel your business, uplevel your relationships, right? You want to deliberately grow your well-being. Be intentional, right? I’m all for it. That’s how we Badasses do things. We don’t want to halfass anything. But you’ve got to recognize what’s driving it.  If you want life optimization, business optimization, this is not the place to look good my friend. I need to have that level of brutal honesty with you, because otherwise, I can't help you. And I know if you’re still listening to my rant today, you have some skin on your nose and you have the courage to be honest with yourself, right?  So number one, we have to know and see when we're doing these things. And two, tell the truth to someone who truly cares about you.  I promise you one thing, it's amazing what happens when you liberate yourself. When you free yourself from the chains of your past. You have access to parts of you that has been shut down for years.  I was speaking to one of my pro athlete clients. She’s a Tennis pro.  When we integrated her dark side. She became unapologetic and completely dominated the court. She stopped tippy-toeing. Stopped minimizing herself. And stopped putting her competitors on a pedestal.  And as a result she made it to the finals in one of her tournaments which was the first time in over a year. Listen, my friend, owning your dark side means owning you. All of you. If you're going to own what you think is positive, you need to also own the things you believe are not so great. But remember the so called “bad” stuff that others may have shamed you into believing was just negative, has its equal polar opposite positive. It has just as many benefits as drawbacks, and that’s the truth.  But you have to make a shift in perspective. You can’t hold on to old lies about yourself. This is where the power lives. This is where you freedom lives.  Hope this has been a powerful listening session for you, and I hope you will share this with someone you love. Thanks so much for listening, and until next time, OWN. YOUR. DARK. SIDE. Bye for now.

The Podcast Brothers
Episode 140 | Amicable W/ Kisha and DJ Big Jae

The Podcast Brothers

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2019 89:03


Flaw 700 and Fresco are two real life brothers with a Podcast who touch on topics such as mental health, relationships, love and life Happy Birthday Flaw 700 (06:21) R.I.P. Brandon Webber (14:06) Being amicable with your co-parent (26:58) Disowning your side baby to save your marriage (42:50) KD injured, Toronto has a chip and The Lakers are back on top (56:52) Fresh or Fiasco (01:06:44) Therapy for kids (01:13:38) Email us: Flaw700@gmail.com Social Media Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepodcastbrothers/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/PodcastBrothers --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/podbros/message Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-podcast-brothers/donations

English QT - Living Life [CGNTV]
[02/17] Disowning Jesus (Mark 14:66~72)

English QT - Living Life [CGNTV]

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2019 12:34


[02/17] Disowning Jesus (Mark 14:66~72)

Future Thinkers Podcast
FTP083: Duncan Trussell - Decentralized Organizing Principles in Society, and The Evolution of Consciousness

Future Thinkers Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2019 95:09


Duncan Trussell - actor, comedian and the host of Duncan Trussell Family Hour, is back on Future Thinkers for the second time. In this episode we talk about some of the pressing topics of our time, like developing individual and collective consciousness, evolving the structure and functioning of the human society, and the importance of a consistent spiritual practice for understanding ourselves and the world we live in. In This Episode of Future Thinkers:   Why there is so much anxiety in the Millennial generation Horizontalism - a decentralized way for groups to organize Stigmergy, or indirect coordination, in animals and humans The origins of the legal ban of psychedelics The illusion of individualism and how our society got fragmented Is liquid democracy viable? Disowning the collective narratives and embracing impermanence The benefits of contemplating your own mortality Is there a fundamental nature to all things? How to recognize when you are being coaxed into a certain narrative The myths around enlightenment, and why it is not special Why the purpose of meditation is not in chasing peak experiences Show notes: http://www.futurethinkers.org/83 Join the Future Thinkers Community on Discord: https://www.futurethinkers.org/discord This episode is sponsored by: http://www.futurethinkers.org/qualia Recommend a sponsor for Future Thinkers: http://www.futurethinkers.org/recommend Support us on Patreon: http://www.futurethinkers.org/support

Simply Straight Talk Podcast
Disowning Family Members

Simply Straight Talk Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2018 33:07


Unfortunately, some families reach a point of dysfunction which causes a family member to conclude that he/she can’t stay connected any longer to a specific person in the family or, in some cases, the entire family. People who break all ties from family are not always over the age of 18. Many children between the age of 12 and 17 have begun to abandon their families as well. Some youth are already packed their bags mentally and just waiting to reach the age of 18 which is considered to be adulthood and they are gone.  Estrangements from family members may be one of the most emotionally painful experiences anyone could experience. Does it go without saying that turning away from family is absolutely heartbreaking: Who, after all, would think to terminate a relationship with someone who raised you or you grew up with? Family separation can result from a variety of reasons. Such as finances, traumatic events, betrayal, lack of support, verbal or physical abuse and favoritism. But there are ways to start the healing process and in this episode, Reggie is going to share his thoughts with you, right here on the Simply Straight Talk Show. 

Four Mile Church

In Luke 7: 36-50, we discover a woman who put all hinderances aside and worshiped Jesus freely and unattached to those around her.  What does your heart condition say about your worship?  Does your love for God mimic Luke 14:25-27, or the woman in Luke 7?  If not, what’s holding you back?  What takes the […] The post Disowning Me appeared first on Four Mile Church.

GCC Adams Center Podcast
Acknowledging, interceding, and wearing the proper clothes

GCC Adams Center Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2018 53:42


As Christians we love the promises of God. But, do we realize that many promises have conditions on them? In this message we continue to look at the promises that are found in Jesus' letters to the seven churches which are found in Revelation. Are we acknowledging Jesus before men or are we disowning Him? This is a very important question as the answer determines Jesus response in regards to us. Are we wearing the proper clothes - clothes fit for heaven? How does one get these clothes? Listen in to this message and hear these topics discussed.

Women Talk Podcast
Disowning 3 Generations of Violence with Sanovia Muhammad

Women Talk Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2018 28:30


Sanovia Muhammad is a motivational speaker, author and yoga instructor.Her story is the story she shares in her book: "A Journey to Forgiveness and Disowning 3 Generations of Violence".This is a story you can't even imagine surviving. But Sanovia has not only survived it, but is a shining light for many other women who need guidance.She believes that by retelling our stories with the intentions of reconnecting with our best self, is the answerwww.facebook.com/sanovia.muhammadPlease LIKE and FOLLOW our podcast on iTunes: http://bit.ly/WomenTalk-iTunesAPPLY TO SHARE YOUR STORY ON OUR PODCAST AT: WWW.WOMENTALK.CA/PODCAST

Women Talk Podcast
Disowning 3 Generations of Violence with Sanovia Muhammad

Women Talk Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2018 28:30


Sanovia Muhammad is a motivational speaker, author and yoga instructor.Her story is the story she shares in her book: "A Journey to Forgiveness and Disowning 3 Generations of Violence".This is a story you can't even imagine surviving. But Sanovia has not only survived it, but is a shining light for many other women who need guidance.She believes that by retelling our stories with the intentions of reconnecting with our best self, is the answerwww.facebook.com/sanovia.muhammadPlease LIKE and FOLLOW our podcast on iTunes: http://bit.ly/WomenTalk-iTunesAPPLY TO SHARE YOUR STORY ON OUR PODCAST AT: WWW.WOMENTALK.CA/PODCAST

FEARocious Talk with
Why I'm NOT Disowning ANY Black Man For ANY Reason

FEARocious Talk with "A1"

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2017 20:43


Westminster Chapel | Podcast
Disowning Dishonour - Malachi 1:6-14

Westminster Chapel | Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2017 43:54


Authentic worship means giving God your best

John
Acts 3 | Disowning or Embracing Jesus!

John

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2014 47:09


John
Disowning or Embracing Jesus!

John

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2014 47:09


John
Acts 3 | Disowning or Embracing Jesus!

John

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2014 47:09


DisasterCast Safety Podcast
Episode 15 – Disowning Fukushima

DisasterCast Safety Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2013


Sociologist John Downer talks about his recent paper, “Disowning Fukushima: Managing the Credibility of Nuclear Reliability Assessment in the WakeRead more »