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See, Hear, Feel
EP158: Gaslight Effect Author Dr. Robin Stern on Emotional Intelligence and Healthcare

See, Hear, Feel

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2025 28:29 Transcription Available


Emotional Intelligence in Healthcare: Insights from Dr. Robin SternIn this episode of 'The Girl Doc Survival Guide, Christine welcomes Dr. Robin Stern, a key authority on emotional intelligence. They discuss the vital role emotional intelligence plays in healthcare, exploring its impact on patient interactions, workplace challenges, and the parallels between parenting and medical practice. Dr. Stern emphasizes the importance of recognizing and managing emotions through practical strategies such as self-talk, emotional regulation, and creating internal space. The conversation highlights the psychological aspects of emotions, the empathy trap, and effective ways for healthcare professionals to maintain emotional balance while providing compassionate care.00:00 Introduction to Dr. Robin Stern01:14 Parallels Between Parenting and Doctoring02:51 The Importance of Emotional Intelligence in Healthcare04:30 Impact of Emotions on Daily Life and Decision Making07:56 Recognizing and Managing Emotions17:16 Balancing Empathy and Professional Detachment22:02 Strategies for Emotional Well-being27:26 Final Thoughts and Gratitude

We Can Do Hard Things with Glennon Doyle
Are You Being Gaslighted? with Dr. Robin Stern (Best Of)

We Can Do Hard Things with Glennon Doyle

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2024 55:31


What is gaslighting REALLY and what isn't?  Plus, how to know if you're in a relationship with a gaslighter, the three types of gaslighters, and how to break free from a gaslighter and reclaim yourself.  About Dr. Stern:  Robin Stern, Ph.D., is the co-founder and associate director for the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and an associate research scientist at the Child Study Center at Yale. She is a licensed psychoanalyst with 30 years of experience treating individuals, couples, and families. She is the author of The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide: Your Personal Journey Toward Healing from Emotional Abuse.  TW: @RobinSStern IG: @dr.robinstern To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The CyberWire
Election Propaganda: Part 3: Efforts to reduce the impact of future elections.

The CyberWire

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2024 46:28


Thinking past the US 2024 Presidential Election, In part three of the series, Rick Howard, N2K CyberWire's Chief Analyst and Senior Fellow, discusses reducing the impact of propaganda in the future elections with Perry Carpenter, Chief Human Risk Management Strategist at KnowBe4 and host of the 8th Layer Insights Podcast, Nina Jankowicz, Co-Founder and CEO of the The American Sunlight Project, and Scott Small, Director of Cyber Threat Intelligence at Tidal Cyber. Check out Part 1 & 2! Part 1: Election Propaganda Part 1: How Does Election Propaganda Work? In this episode, Rick Howard, N2K CyberWire's Chief Analyst and Senior Fellow, discusses personal defensive measures that every citizen can take—regardless of political philosophy—to resist the influence of propaganda. This foundational episode is essential for understanding how to navigate the complex landscape of election messaging. Part 2: Election Propaganda: Part 2: Modern propaganda efforts. In preparation for the US 2024 Presidential Election, Rick Howard, N2K CyberWire's Chief Analyst and Senior Fellow, discusses recent international propaganda efforts in the form of nation state interference and influence operations as well as domestic campaigns designed to split the target country into opposing camps. Guests include Nina Jankowicz, Co-Founder and CEO of the The American Sunlight Project and Scott Small, Director of Cyber Threat Intelligence at Tidal Cyber. References: Rick Howard, 2024. Election Propaganda Part 1: How does election propaganda work? [3 Part Podcast Series]. The CyberWire. Rick Howard, 2024. Election Propaganda: Part 2: Modern propaganda efforts. [3 Part Podcast Series]. The CyberWire. Christopher Chabris, Daniel Simons, 2010. The Invisible Gorilla: And Other Ways Our Intuitions Deceive Us [Book]. Goodreads. Chris Palmer, 2010. TFL Viral - Awareness Test (Moonwalking Bear) [Explainer]. YouTube. David Ehl, 2024. Why Meta is now banning Russian propaganda [News]. Deutsche Welle. Eli Pariser, 2011. The Filter Bubble: What the Internet is Hiding From You [Book]. Goodreads. Kara Swisher, Julia Davis, Alex Stamos, Brandy Zadrozny, 2024. Useful Idiots? How Right-Wing Influencers Got $ to Spread Russian Propaganda [Podcast]. On with Kara Swisher. Nate Silver, 2024. What's behind Trump's surge in prediction markets? [Analysis]. Silver Bulletin. Niha Masih, 2024. Meta bans Russian state media outlet RT for acts of ‘foreign interference' [News]. The Washington Post. Nilay Patel, 2024. The AI election deepfakes have arrived [Podcast]. Decoder. Nina Jankowicz, 2020. How to Lose the Information War: Russia, Fake News and the Future of Conflict [Book]. Goodreads. Perry Carpenter, 2024. FAIK: A Practical Guide to Living in a World of Deepfakes, Disinformation, and AI-Generated Deceptions [Book]. Goodreads. Perry Carpenter, 2021. Meatloaf Recipes Cookbook: Easy Recipes For Preparing Tasty Meals For Weight Loss And Healthy Lifestyle All Year Round [Book]. Goodreads. Perry Carpenter, n.d. 8th Layer Insights [Podcast]. N2K CyberWire. Renee DiResta, 2024. Invisible Rulers: The People Who Turn Lies into Reality [Book]. Goodreads. Robin Stern, Marc Brackett, 2024. 5 Ways to Recognize and Avoid Political Gaslighting [Explainer]. The Washington Post. Sarah Ellison, Amy Gardner, Clara Ence Morse, 2024. Elon Musk's misleading election claims reach millions and alarm election officials [News]. The Washington Post. Scott Small, 2024. Election Cyber Interference Threats & Defenses: A Data-Driven Study [White Paper]. Tidal Cyber. Staff, n.d. Overview: Coalition for Content Provenance and Authenticity [Website]. C2PA. Staff, 2021. Foreign Threats to the 2020 US Federal Elections [Intelligence Community Assessment]. DNI. Staff, n.d. Project Origin [Website]. OriginProject. URL https://www.originproject.info/ Stuart A. Thompson, Tiffany Hsu, 2024. Left-Wing Misinformation Is Having a Moment [Analysis] The New York Times. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Your Kick Ass Life Podcast
Episode 633: Gaslighting, Trust, and Resilience with Robin Stern, Ph.D.

Your Kick Ass Life Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2024 48:07


Ever wonder if you're being gaslit by a partner, friend, or even a politician? Dr. Robin Stern is here to explain how to recognize the signs of gaslighting and take back control of your reality.  Robin Stern, Ph.D. is the co-founder and senior advisor to the director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence. With 30 years of experience as a licensed psychoanalyst, Robin is the leading expert on gaslighting. She's also the author of The Gaslight Effect and The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide. In this episode, Robin helps us unpack the complexities of gaslighting and its stages, explains political gaslighting, and offers some steps toward reclaiming your power. You'll hear: The three stages of gaslighting: disbelief, defense, and depression (5:55) How gaslighters use precise manipulation to control their targets (12:44) The five key signs that a politician is using gaslighting tactics (19:34) How to reclaim your power when you feel like you're being gaslit (22:50) The overuse of words like "trauma" and "gaslighting" is diluting their impact (30:13) Advice on staying gaslight-free by trusting your instincts and setting clear boundaries (34:44) Resources: Sign up for early notification for the next Daring Way™ retreat Robin's website Misuse of therapy words Political Gaslighting Book recommendations: I love a good personal development book, and you do too, right? I've compiled a list of book recommendations, as mentioned in past episodes. Check out these amazing book recommendations here. Happy reading!   MSN is supported by: We love the sponsors that make our show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on our website: andreaowen.com/sponsors/ Episode link: http://andreaowen.com/633 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hacking Humans
Election Propaganda: Part 3: Efforts to reduce the impact of future elections. [CSO Perspectives]

Hacking Humans

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2024 46:28


Thinking past the US 2024 Presidential Election, In part three of the series, Rick Howard, N2K CyberWire's Chief Analyst and Senior Fellow, discusses reducing the impact of propaganda in the future elections with Perry Carpenter, Chief Human Risk Management Strategist at KnowBe4 and host of the 8th Layer Insights Podcast, Nina Jankowicz, Co-Founder and CEO of the The American Sunlight Project, and Scott Small, Director of Cyber Threat Intelligence at Tidal Cyber. Check out Part 1 & 2! Part 1: Election Propaganda Part 1: How Does Election Propaganda Work? In this episode, Rick Howard, N2K CyberWire's Chief Analyst and Senior Fellow, discusses personal defensive measures that every citizen can take—regardless of political philosophy—to resist the influence of propaganda. This foundational episode is essential for understanding how to navigate the complex landscape of election messaging. Part 2: Election Propaganda: Part 2: Modern propaganda efforts. In preparation for the US 2024 Presidential Election, Rick Howard, N2K CyberWire's Chief Analyst and Senior Fellow, discusses recent international propaganda efforts in the form of nation state interference and influence operations as well as domestic campaigns designed to split the target country into opposing camps. Guests include Nina Jankowicz, Co-Founder and CEO of the The American Sunlight Project and Scott Small, Director of Cyber Threat Intelligence at Tidal Cyber. References: Rick Howard, 2024. Election Propaganda Part 1: How does election propaganda work? [3 Part Podcast Series]. The CyberWire. Rick Howard, 2024. Election Propaganda: Part 2: Modern propaganda efforts. [3 Part Podcast Series]. The CyberWire. Christopher Chabris, Daniel Simons, 2010. The Invisible Gorilla: And Other Ways Our Intuitions Deceive Us [Book]. Goodreads. Chris Palmer, 2010. TFL Viral - Awareness Test (Moonwalking Bear) [Explainer]. YouTube. David Ehl, 2024. Why Meta is now banning Russian propaganda [News]. Deutsche Welle. Eli Pariser, 2011. The Filter Bubble: What the Internet is Hiding From You [Book]. Goodreads. Kara Swisher, Julia Davis, Alex Stamos, Brandy Zadrozny, 2024. Useful Idiots? How Right-Wing Influencers Got $ to Spread Russian Propaganda [Podcast]. On with Kara Swisher. Nate Silver, 2024. What's behind Trump's surge in prediction markets? [Analysis]. Silver Bulletin. Niha Masih, 2024. Meta bans Russian state media outlet RT for acts of ‘foreign interference' [News]. The Washington Post. Nilay Patel, 2024. The AI election deepfakes have arrived [Podcast]. Decoder. Nina Jankowicz, 2020. How to Lose the Information War: Russia, Fake News and the Future of Conflict [Book]. Goodreads. Perry Carpenter, 2024. FAIK: A Practical Guide to Living in a World of Deepfakes, Disinformation, and AI-Generated Deceptions [Book]. Goodreads. Perry Carpenter, 2021. Meatloaf Recipes Cookbook: Easy Recipes For Preparing Tasty Meals For Weight Loss And Healthy Lifestyle All Year Round [Book]. Goodreads. Perry Carpenter, n.d. 8th Layer Insights [Podcast]. N2K CyberWire. Renee DiResta, 2024. Invisible Rulers: The People Who Turn Lies into Reality [Book]. Goodreads. Robin Stern, Marc Brackett, 2024. 5 Ways to Recognize and Avoid Political Gaslighting [Explainer]. The Washington Post. Sarah Ellison, Amy Gardner, Clara Ence Morse, 2024. Elon Musk's misleading election claims reach millions and alarm election officials [News]. The Washington Post. Scott Small, 2024. Election Cyber Interference Threats & Defenses: A Data-Driven Study [White Paper]. Tidal Cyber. Staff, n.d. Overview: Coalition for Content Provenance and Authenticity [Website]. C2PA. Staff, 2021. Foreign Threats to the 2020 US Federal Elections [Intelligence Community Assessment]. DNI. Staff, n.d. Project Origin [Website]. OriginProject. URL https://www.originproject.info/ Stuart A. Thompson, Tiffany Hsu, 2024. Left-Wing Misinformation Is Having a Moment [Analysis] The New York Times.

Hacking Humans
Election Propaganda Part 1: How does election propaganda work? [CSO Perspectives]

Hacking Humans

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2024 33:37


Rick Howard, N2K CyberWire's Chief Analyst and Senior Fellow, discusses personal defensive measures that an average citizen, regardless of political philosophy, can take in order to not succumb to propaganda. References: David Ehl, 2024. Why Meta is now banning Russian propaganda [News]. Deutsche Welle. Jeff Berman, Renée DiResta, 2023. Disinformation & How To Combat It [Interview]. Youtube. Niha Masih, 2024. Meta bans Russian state media outlet RT for acts of ‘foreign interference' [News]. The Washington Post. Quentin Hardy, Renée DiResta, 2024. The Invisible Rulers Turning Lies Into Reality [Interview]. YouTube. Rob Tracinski, Renée DiResta, 2024. The Internet Rumor Mill [Interview]. YouTube. Robin Stern, Marc Brackett, 2024. 5 Ways to Recognize and Avoid Political Gaslighting [Explainer]. The Washington Post. Sarah Ellison, Amy Gardner, Clara Ence Morse, 2024. Elon Musk's misleading election claims reach millions and alarm election officials [News]. The Washington Post. Scott Small, 2024. Election Cyber Interference Threats & Defenses: A Data-Driven Study [White Paper]. Tidal Cyber. Staff, 2021. Foreign Threats to the 2020 US Federal Elections [Intelligence Community Assessment]. DNI. Staff, 2024. Election Cyber Interference Threats & Defenses: A Data-Driven Study [White Paper]. Tidal. Stuart A. Thompson, Tiffany Hsu, 2024. Left-Wing Misinformation Is Having a Moment [Analysis. The New York Times. Stuart A. Thompson, 2024. Elon Musk's Week on X: Deepfakes, Falsehoods and Lots of Memes [News]. The New York Times. Will Oremus, 2024. Zuckerberg expresses regrets over covid misinformation crackdown [News]. The Washington Post. Yascha Mounk, Renée DiResta, 2022. How (Not) to Fix Social Media [Interview]. YouTube. Renee DiResta, 2024. Invisible Rulers: The People Who Turn Lies into Reality [Book]. Goodreads. Nina Jankowicz, 2020. How to Lose the Information War: Russia, Fake News and the Future of Conflict [Book]. Goodreads.

The CyberWire
Election Propaganda Part 1: How does election propaganda work?

The CyberWire

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2024 33:37


Rick Howard, N2K CyberWire's Chief Analyst and Senior Fellow, discusses personal defensive measures that an average citizen, regardless of political philosophy, can take in order to not succumb to propaganda. References: David Ehl, 2024. Why Meta is now banning Russian propaganda [News]. Deutsche Welle. Jeff Berman, Renée DiResta, 2023. Disinformation & How To Combat It [Interview]. Youtube. Niha Masih, 2024. Meta bans Russian state media outlet RT for acts of ‘foreign interference' [News]. The Washington Post. Quentin Hardy, Renée DiResta, 2024. The Invisible Rulers Turning Lies Into Reality [Interview]. YouTube. Rob Tracinski, Renée DiResta, 2024.  The Internet Rumor Mill [Interview]. YouTube. Robin Stern, Marc Brackett, 2024. 5 Ways to Recognize and Avoid Political Gaslighting [Explainer]. The Washington Post. Sarah Ellison, Amy Gardner, Clara Ence Morse, 2024. Elon Musk's misleading election claims reach millions and alarm election officials [News]. The Washington Post. Scott Small, 2024. Election Cyber Interference Threats & Defenses: A Data-Driven Study [White Paper]. Tidal Cyber. Staff, 2021. Foreign Threats to the 2020 US Federal Elections [Intelligence Community Assessment]. DNI. Staff, 2024. Election Cyber Interference Threats & Defenses: A Data-Driven Study [White Paper]. Tidal. Stuart A. Thompson, Tiffany Hsu, 2024. Left-Wing Misinformation Is Having a Moment [Analysis. The New York Times. Stuart A. Thompson, 2024. Elon Musk's Week on X: Deepfakes, Falsehoods and Lots of Memes [News]. The New York Times. Will Oremus, 2024. Zuckerberg expresses regrets over covid misinformation crackdown [News]. The Washington Post. Yascha Mounk, Renée DiResta, 2022. How (Not) to Fix Social Media [Interview]. YouTube. Renee DiResta, 2024. Invisible Rulers: The People Who Turn Lies into Reality [Book]. Goodreads. Nina Jankowicz, 2020. How to Lose the Information War: Russia, Fake News and the Future of Conflict [Book]. Goodreads. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Life Examined
Midweek Reset: Gaslight

Life Examined

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2024 4:32


This week Robin Stern, psychoanalyst, and author of “The Gaslight Effect: How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life,” talks about gaslight effect.  What to watch for in a relationship or perhaps with a manager, coworker or doctor and how to succesfully navigate the feelings of invalidation that accompany that behavior.   This episode with Robin Stern was originally broadcast July 14th 2024  

A Little Bit Culty
Post Narc Therapy: Robin Stern, Dr. Ramani & Dr. Christine Cocchicola

A Little Bit Culty

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2024 36:16


This episode is sponsored by Better Help!   The doctor is in! This week's remix episode features conversations on personality disorders, controlling behaviors, and more. Suspecting a narcissist in your midst, or recovering from a controlling relationship? This episode might be perfect for you.    This week, you'll hear snippets from three different mental health professionals. Dr. Robin Stern is a psychological sleuth who not only wrote a book about gaslighting, but literally coined the widely used term. Then licensed clinical psychologist Dr. Ramani Durvasula helps us flip the script on the prevailing cultural and clinical conversations around narcissism, and focus less on the narcs and more on the people they impact. Finally, Dr. Christine Cocchicola explains all things coercive control, including leaving her own controlling relationship.     Also… let it be known that: The views and opinions expressed on A Little Bit Culty do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of the podcast. Any content provided by our guests, bloggers, sponsors or authors are of their opinion and are not intended to malign any religion, group, club, organization, business individual, anyone or anything. Nobody's mad at you, just don't be a culty fuckwad.   Check out our lovely sponsors Join ‘A Little Bit Culty' on Patreon Get poppin' fresh ALBC Swag Support the pod and smash this link Cult awareness and recovery resources Watch Sarah's TEDTalk   CREDITS:  Executive Producers: Sarah Edmondson & Anthony Ames Production Partner: Citizens of Sound Producer: Will Retherford Writer & Co-Creator: Jess Tardy  

Life Examined
Are you being gaslit? How to navigate and stop the gaslighting in your relationship

Life Examined

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2024 53:29


If you’ve ever been accused of ‘gaslighting' someone, you might find yourself unsure about what exactly you're being accused of.  The term is the latest amongst a growing collection of popular psychological buzzwords used to describe manipulative or calculating behavior, but it's often misused and misunderstood.   The term originated from the 1940s black-and-white film Gaslight where a husband manipulates his wife into thinking she’s crazy by subtly adjusting the intensity of their home's gas lights when she’s alone in the house. The husband denies there’s anything wrong with the lights, leaving his wife distraught, confused, and questioning her own memory and sanity.   In her book The Gaslight Effect: How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life “The Gaslight Effect,”  psychoanalyst Robin Stern explains why this word has gained so much prominence in both personal and professional relationships, particularly among women. “Seeing many women come into my office who were otherwise in their lives the presidents of their company, professional practice, or very successful –good decision makers who felt comfortable in groups, socialized quite a bit, suddenly, in their romantic relationship were uncertain; felt a kind of dislocated or unmoored, felt unstable and second-guessed themselves all the time, [saying to themselves], am I too sensitive, am I too paranoid?”   Stern says that “gaslighting” is an “insidious and sometimes covert form of emotional abuse.” Being gaslit is “a power dynamic repeated over time where the gaslighters intention is to undermine and destabilize the ‘gaslightee’ and lead that person to second-guess themselves, to question their own identity and ultimately their sanity and their character at different times.”  Stern argues that being able to spot this type of behavior is important. When “gaslighting”  happens professionally, it can be tough to tackle. For example, Stern cites doctor/patient relationships and warns that  “if your doctor minimizes your symptoms, if he or she continually interrupts you or accuses you of being too preoccupied with your symptoms, or refuses to order follow-up tests or if you constantly feel like your doctor is rude, condescending, belittling, or passing it off, as ‘that's your age, or you're a woman, or you're a new mom’ or whatever it is, you're being gaslighted.” After recognizing the behavior, Stern suggests taking action.  “Opt out of those power struggles and sort out the truth from the distortion…Nobody needs to put up or should put up with abuse. It is not acceptable for anyone to be intentionally hurting someone else.” 

Imperfect Love
The Gaslight Effect: How to Spot Gaslighters and Heal from Emotional Manipulation with Expert Dr. Robin Stern

Imperfect Love

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2024 48:23


Gaslighting. It's an increasingly common term that dates back to a 1938 British Play, Gas Light, and subsequent movies focused on the power of manipulation in relationships. In the original play, a manipulative husband makes his wife feel as if she's going insane by telling her that perceptions are inaccurate when she notices that the house lights are mysteriously dim. In today's world, the term is used to describe manipulative actions that are geared toward making a person doubt their perceptions and sense of reality. Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse that impacts mental health in lasting ways, yet it can be difficult to spot this toxic behavior and heal from its pernicious effects. Join Dr. Carla and Dr. Robin Stern, licensed psychoanalyst, author, and co-founder of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence. As the author of The Gaslight Effect: How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life and The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide, Dr. Stern brings her wisdom and wealth of experience to help illuminate the dark realm of gaslighting and how to find emotional healing. With strength, increased emotional intelligence, and support, you can learn to spot gaslighters and recover from the toxic impact of gaslighting. Note: This episode contains sensitive information; listener discretion is advised. If you or someone you know is suffering from abuse, please reach out for support immediately. In the United States, you can reach help 24/7 by calling 911, the Suicide or Crisis Hotline at 988, or the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. No form of abuse is acceptable; you deserve to feel safe, loved, and supported. Books by Dr. Carla Manly:Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love FearlesslyJoy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend Aging Joyfully: A Woman's Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and BeyondThe Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships Connect with Dr. Carla Manly:Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanlyTwitter: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanlyFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanlyLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362bYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr.carlamariemanly8543TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly Books by Dr. Robin Stern:The Gaslight Effect: How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life The Gaslight Effect Recovery GuideEmotional Intelligence For School Leaders Connect with Lisa Sugarman:Website: https://robinstern.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/robin-stern-220b403aInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.robinsternFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/drrobinsternTwitter/X: https://x.com/RobinSSternPodcast: https://robinstern.com/podcast/podcast-player Important Resource: How We Feel App: https://www.thehotline.org

Doorknob Comments
The Gaslight Effect with Dr. Robin Stern

Doorknob Comments

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2024 40:35


In this episode, Grant and Fara have a conversation with Dr. Robin Stern, the Co-Founder and Senior Advisor for the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence. Dr. Stern is also the author of The Gaslight Effect and the host of The Gaslight Effect Podcast. They delve into Dr. Stern's journey in exploring gaslighting, the common tactics used by gaslighters in relationships, the role of shame and isolation for victims, and much more. Drawing from her 30 years of experience in treating individuals, couples, and families, Dr. Stern offers valuable insights into gaslighting dynamics and the steps to reclaiming one's narrative.We hope you enjoy!Key TakeawaysThe longer you're in a relationship where you're second-guessing your reality and accommodating the other, the harder it is to leave.Many times shame can begin to creep into gaslighting relationships. Victims might be ashamed to bring their gaslighters behavior up to family and friends, and can further isolate themselves.In This Episode[0:00] Introduction[1:05] Episode Overview[02:30] Robin's Journey to Exploring Gaslighting[10:10] Red Flags and Disavowal[17:15] ‘Stage 3' of Gaslighting[18:40] Masquerading Gaslighting in Relationships[22:10] The Role of Isolation and Shame[24:30] Reclaiming Reality and Pushing Back[27:40] Gaslighting vs. Other Forms of Dysfunctional Communication[30:40] Navigating Behavioral Intention[33:55] What about Gaslighters?[35:40] Closing ThoughtsResources and LinksDoorknob Commentshttps://www.doorknobcomments.com/Dr. Robin Sternhttps://robinstern.com/https://howwefeel.org/Dr. Fara Whitehttps://www.farawhitemd.com/Dr. Grant Brennerhttps://www.granthbrennermd.com/https://www.linkedin.com/in/grant-h-brenner-md-dfapa/

Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse
I desperately love and fear them: The Terrifying Power of a Trauma Bond

Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2024 31:17


Send us a Text Message.Could you be trauma-bonded to a narcissist? Are you battling a strange mix of love and fear? Lisa Sonni joins me this week to discuss trauma bonds--an intense connection to another person that is very difficult to break. We think we feel love when it's based on fear. Learn more about how to recognize if you're trauma-bonded and why it's so difficult to leave. Become a subscriber and get the Podcast Extra exclusive conversation about WHY identifying and breaking a trauma bond is so difficult. substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabuse or https://ko-fi.com/kerrymcavoyphd- Two places, the same cost, and the same great content!Books Mentioned: The Betrayal Bond by Patrick Carnes, PhDThe Passionate Marriage by David Schnarch, PhDAdult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay Gibson, PhDRecovering From Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay Gibson, PhD (Appendix contains the 10 Emotional Bill of Rights)Resources Mentioned: Strong & Unstoppable Retreat for Women Oct 3-6Healing Strong 12-Week Group Coaching with Lisa and KerryDr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club1:1 Coaching with Lisa SonniFollow Dr. McAvoy!YouTube: @kerrymcavoyphdInstagram: @kerrymcavoyphdFacebook: @kerrymcavoyphdE-mail: hello@kerrymcavoyphd.comNewsletter: https://breakingfreenarcabuse.substack.com/ or https://ko-fi.com/kerrymcavoyphdWebsite: https://www.breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com/Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D., a mental health specialist and author, is an expert on cultivating healthy relationships, deconstructing narcissism, and understanding various other mental health-related issues. Her memoir, Love You More: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross, gives an uncensored glimpse into the dynamics of narcissistic abuse.As an Amazon affiliate, commission is earned from qualifying purchases at no cost to you as the customer.Start your healing after narcissistic abuse by joining Lisa Sonni and me for the Healing Strong Group Coaching, beginning August 22. Discover insights on gaslighting in relationships with Dr. Robin Stern on The Gaslight Effect podcast. Tune in for expert interviews and advice.Support the Show.

Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse
Why Can't I Leave? The Crazy Confusion from Late-Stage Cognitive Dissonance

Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2024 26:30


Send us a Text Message.Have you asked yourself, "Why can't I leave?" You know you should. You've even started hiding the ugly truth of what's really going on behind closed doors. In this episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss late-stage cognitive dissonance. Learn the underlying cause of the agonizing confusion that paralyzes the victim from acting in their own best interest. Find out what it took for us to break free from its terrible grip.To learn more about cognitive dissonance, become a Podcast Extra Subscriber. This week, Lisa and I deconstruct the causes of intense paralysis and share practical steps for seeing through the narcissist's deceptive mask. Sign up here: substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabuse or https://ko-fi.com/kerrymcavoyphd. Two great places featuring the same helpful content.Want to know my story? Read Love You More: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross-- available here: https://amzn.to/3NVMBXOFollow Dr. McAvoy!YouTube: @kerrymcavoyphdInstagram: @kerrymcavoyphdFacebook: @kerrymcavoyphdE-mail: hello@kerrymcavoyphd.comNewsletter: https://breakingfreenarcabuse.substack.com/ or https://ko-fi.com/kerrymcavoyphdWebsite: https://www.breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.comKerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D., a mental health specialist and author, is an expert on cultivating healthy relationships, deconstructing narcissism, and understanding various other mental health-related issues. Her memoir, Love You More: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross, gives an uncensored glimpse into the dynamics of narcissistic abuse.As an Amazon affiliate, a commission is earned from qualifying purchases.Discover insights on gaslighting in relationships with Dr. Robin Stern on The Gaslight Effect podcast. Tune in for expert interviews and advice.Support the Show.

Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse
Is my partner a narcissist? Highlights from Dr. Kerry's 3 Favorite Interviews

Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse

Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2024 25:39


Send us a Text Message.Relationships with narcissists can be confounding, confusing, and incredibly frustrating. Join Dr. Kerry for this holiday episode when she revisits the highlights of her three favorite interviews. Hear Dr. Les Carter's explanation of why narcissists are so tricky, Lisa Sonni's three steps to breaking a trauma bond, and Dr. Robin Stern's disturbing description of gaslighting's power. To listen to these full episodes: Dr. Les Carter: https://www.breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com/podcast/s2-ep25-why-do-narcissists-have-to-make-life-miserable-dr-les-carter-explains-narcissism/Lisa Sonni: https://www.breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com/podcast/s2-ep27-why-am-i-so-confused-the-making-breaking-of-a-trauma-bond-with-lisa-sonni/Dr. Robin Stern: https://www.breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com/podcast/54-whats-wrong-with-me-the-power-of-gaslighting-to-confuse-and-control-interview-with-dr-robin-sternFollow Dr. McAvoy!YouTube: @kerrymcavoyphdInstagram: @kerrymcavoyphdFacebook: @kerrymcavoyphdE-mail: hello@kerrymcavoyphd.comNewsletter: https://breakingfreenarcabuse.substack.com or https://ko-fi.com/kerrymcavoyphdWebsite: https://www.breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.comKerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D., a mental health specialist and author, is an expert on cultivating healthy relationships, deconstructing narcissism, and understanding various other mental health-related issues. Her memoir, Love You More: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross, gives an uncensored glimpse into the dynamics of narcissistic abuse.As an Amazon affiliate, a commission is earned from qualifying purchases.The Cosmic CoupleOur short-form podcasts will put a smile on your face as we talk about relationships.Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the Show.

The Lindsey Elmore Show
Surviving Gaslighting: Coping with Emotional Manipulation | Robin Stern

The Lindsey Elmore Show

Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2024 54:42


Robin Stern, Ph.D., is a licensed psychoanalyst, educator, author, and commentator. She is a renowned expert in gaslight manipulation, emotional intelligence and women in leadership. She co-founded the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence with Marc Brackett and currently serves as the senior advisor to the director. Robin is the author of The Gaslight Effect: How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life and the workbook version The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide. Topics covered in this episode:Types of GaslightersBehaviors Contributing to GaslightingImpact of Gaslighting on RelationshipsMedical Gaslighting CasesInstitutional GaslightingEffects of Gaslighting on EmotionsImportance of Education About EmotionsSetting and Respecting BoundariesWomen's Power DynamicsRole of Podcasts in Raising AwarenessReferenced in the episode:The Lindsey Elmore Show Ep 178 | The Superhuman Expectations of Women | Dr. Taz BhatiaThe Lindsey Elmore Show Ep 221 | The Mismanagement of Women's Health | Dr. Jolene BrightenTo learn more about Robin Stern and her work, head over to https://robinstern.com/ __________________________________________________________Happiness is now available on the go! The Happy Juice Pack is now available with MentaBiotics, Energy+ & Amare EDGE all in easy to carry stick packs. Head to http://www.lindseyelmore.com/amare to save $10 on your Amare Happy Juice Pack. __________________________________________________________We hope you enjoyed this episode. If you would like to be a supporter of the show, head to www.lindseyelmore.com/supporter Your contribution helps us to bring the best guests into our interview chair. Thank you for listening. Come check us out at www.spreaker.com/show/the-lindsey-elmore-showBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-lindsey-elmore-show--5952903/support.

The Meaningful Life with Andrew G. Marshall
Robin Stern: The Three Types of Gaslighting: How to Spot and Defuse Them

The Meaningful Life with Andrew G. Marshall

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2024 49:18


Gaslighting is an insidious form of emotional abuse in which a gaslighter undermines and controls another person by deflecting, twisting, and denying their reality. Gaslighting leaves victims second-guessing themselves, unable to make decisions and destabilised by constant shifts in reality.  In this week's episode, Andrew talks to author and psychoanalyst Dr Robin Stern about gaslighting, and how to pull yourself out of this form of emotional abuse. Andrew and Robin discuss what makes you vulnerable to gaslighting, how to build your capacity to trust yourself, and how to identify the gaslight effect in different relationships. Robin also shares her personal experiences of gaslighting.  Dr Robin Stern co-founded the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence with Marc Brackett and currently serves as the senior advisor to the director. She is the author of The Gaslight Effect: How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life,  and a follow-up workbook edition, The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide. She launched The Gaslight Effect Podcast in 2022.  Subscriber Content This Week If you're a subscriber to The Meaningful Life (via Apple Podcasts, Spotify or Patreon), this week you'll be hearing: Gaslighting in the workplace. Three things Dr Robin Stern knows to be true. AND subscribers also access all of our previous bonus content - a rich trove of insight on love, life and meaning created by Andrew and his interviewees. Follow Up Get Andrew's free guide to difficult conversations with your partner: How to Tell Your Partner Difficult Things Take a look at Andrew's new online relationship course: My Best Relationship Tools Read Dr Robin Stern's books The Gaslight Effect: How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life,  and The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide.  Visit Dr Robin Stern's website Listen to the Gaslight Effect Podcast  Follow Dr Robin Stern on Instagram @dr.robinstern, on Facebook @drrobinstern and Twitter/X @RobinSStern. Join our Supporters Club to access exclusive behind-the-scenes content, fan requests and the chance to ask Andrew your own questions. Membership starts at just £4.50. Andrew offers regular advice on love, marriage and finding meaning in your life via his social channels. Follow him on Twitter, Facebook and YouTube @andrewgmarshall 

The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast
222: The Gaslight Effect With Dr. Robin Stern

The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2024 54:16


This week on the KICK-ASS Stepmom podcast we are sharing an exclusive interview from inside KICK-ASS Stepmom Community.   Dr. Robin Stern, is a licensed psychoanalyst, educator, author, and commentator. As a renowned expert in gaslight manipulation, emotional intelligence and women in leadership, she coined the term "gaslight effect". In this interview we talk about the different types of gaslighters, the behaviours that can sometimes lead to gaslighting, how you can redirect when you feel like you are being gaslit and so much more!   To get access to extra podcast episodes, my workshops, private chatroom and more join KICK-ASS Stepmom Today.     For more from Jamie Scrimgeour visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jamiescrimgeour Follow along on Facebook: www.facebook.com/scrimgeourjamie   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freeguide When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See. www.jamiescrimgeour.com/shouldidisengage Get The Free Ebook 12 Ways To Redefine Your Stepmom Experience. www.jamiescrimgeour.com/redefine     For More From Dr. Robin Stern: Follow them on Instagram: @drrobinstern Listen to her podcast: The Gaslight Effect Podcast Check out her Books: Robin Stern Books   Thanks to Our Sponsors: Moonbird | Head to moonbird.life and use code KICKASSSTEPMOM for $20 off.   LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with purchase.   Cozy Earth | cozyearth.com/COZYJAMIE40 and use the code COZYJAMIE40 for 40% off

ELLE THRIVE
Le GASLIGHTING : les signes, les causes et comment se sortir de l'abus psychologique

ELLE THRIVE

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2024 53:09


Aujourd'hui, nous plongeons au cœur d'un sujet clé en psycho pop : le gaslighting. Nous explorons les signes, les causes et les moyens de se sortir de cette manipulation toxique. Nous abordons également les dommages profonds que cette pratique peut causer. Qui est plus vulnérable au gaslighting ? Comment identifier et contrer cette forme de manipulation insidieuse ? Rejoignez-nous pour une discussion passionnante où nous partageons des histoires personnelles, des réflexions profondes et des conseils pratiques pour naviguer dans ce territoire complexe.Références : Ask Dr. Ramani : What is Gaslighting ? Navigating Narcissism https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/navigating-narcissism-with-dr-ramani/id1629909313?i=1000616111070 Robin Stern, PhD , https://www.vox.com/first-person/2018/12/19/18140830/gaslighting-relationships-politics-explained Psychology Today Gaslighting https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/gaslighting Hébergé par Acast. Visitez acast.com/privacy pour plus d'informations.

Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse
What's wrong with me? The Power of Gaslighting to Confuse and Control: Interview with Dr. Robin Stern

Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2024 32:01


Have you wondered what's wrong with me? This could be a sign of gaslighting. Dr. Robin Stern, psychoanalyst, author, and expert on gaslighting, joins me to discuss the underlying dynamics of a toxic or narcissistic relationship. She delves into the hidden motivations of both the gaslighter as well as the gaslightee. •Learn more about Dr. Stern: https://robinstern.com•The Gaslight Effect Podcast: https://robinstern.com/podcast/about-the-gaslight-effect-podcast/•My Interview with Dr. Stern on The Gaslight Effect Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/032-breaking-chains-dr-kerry-mcavoys-triumph-over-marital/id1645322193?i=1000637507698•The Gaslight Effect book: https://amzn.to/4bfGWqxJoin us on Ko-Fi learn how to spot signs you're being gaslit: https://ko-fi.com/kerrymcavoyphdFollow the Dr. McAvoy!YouTube: @kerrymcavoyphdInstagram: @kerrymcavoyphdFacebook: @kerrymcavoyphdE-mail: hello@kerrymcavoyphd.comNewsletter: https://breakingfreenarcabuse.substack.com/ or https://ko-fi.com/kerrymcavoyphdWebsite: https://www.breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com/Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D., a mental health specialist and author, is an expert on cultivating healthy relationships, deconstructing narcissism, and understanding various other mental health-related issues. Her memoir, Love You More: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross, gives an uncensored glimpse into the dynamics of narcissistic abuse.Ready to improve your health? Check out the supplements and make YOU a priority with Calm Tummy. Check it out https://GettheTea.com today!Support the show

Wisdom and Productivity: The Podcast of An Imperfect Educator
Emotional Intelligence for School Leaders w Dr. Janet Patti & Dr. Robin Stern

Wisdom and Productivity: The Podcast of An Imperfect Educator

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2024 56:58


In our upcoming podcast episode, we dive deep into the groundbreaking book "Emotional Intelligence for School Leaders" by Dr. Janet Patti and Dr. Robin Stern. This profoundly insightful work argues for social-emotional learning (SEL) as a crucial skill set for K–12 school leaders and provides invaluable coaching on integrating emotional intelligence into leadership practices. Join us as we explore the key SEL skills outlined in the book, including mindfulness, self-management, relationship building, and conflict resolution. We'll discuss how each of these skills can be applied in a leadership context and provide practical strategies for implementation. Dr. Janet Patti, a former school leader, is CEO of Star Factor Coaching, a founding member of CASEL, and professor emeritus at the Hunter College School of Education. Dr. Robin Stern is the cofounder and senior advisor to the director at the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence, a licensed psychoanalyst with 30 years of experience, a podcaster, and the author of The Gaslight Effect. They are cocreators of the STAR Factor Coaching model, which helps educational leaders enhance their emotional intelligence skills.

A Superbloom Podcast
Yes, It's Gaslighting w/ Dr. Robin Stern

A Superbloom Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2024 53:05


Candice is joined by a licensed psychoanalyst and author, Dr. Robin Stern, to break down the concept of gaslighting. At this point, we've all heard the word thrown out one way or the other - it was Webster Dictionary's Word of the Year in 2022 after all. But do we actually understand what it means and where the word even comes from? Dr. Robin Stern not only has been researching this manipulation tactic for decades but has unfortunately even lived it herself, making her a real expert in the matter. In this discussion, Candice and Dr. Stern explore the ways in which we can refind our loss of self-trust and detect the warning signs that we may be being gaslit before we're in far too deep. Happy Valentine's DayDr. Stern's Social Media: X: https://twitter.com/RobinSSternCheck out Dr. Stern's book THE GASLIGHT EFFECT - RECOVERY GUIDE: Penguin Random HouseCandice's Social Media:www.instagram.com/candiceking/www.instagram.com/asuperbloompod/www.tiktok.com/@itscandiceking Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Education Talk Radio
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE FOR SCHOOL LEADERS

Education Talk Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2024 40:27


We'll be dicsussing the new book of the same title with its authors, Dr. Robin Stern of The Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and Dr. Janet Patti of The Hunter College School of Education.Learn more at starfactorcoaching.com

Education Talk Radio
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE FOR SCHOOL LEADERS

Education Talk Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2024 40:00


We'll be dicsussing the new book of the same title with its authors, Dr. Robin Stern of The Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and Dr. Janet Patti of The Hunter College School of Education.Learn more at starfactorcoaching.com

Bookey App 30 mins Book Summaries Knowledge Notes and More
The Gaslight Effect: Unmasking Manipulation and Reclaiming Self

Bookey App 30 mins Book Summaries Knowledge Notes and More

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2024 12:41


Chapter 1 What's The Gaslight Effect Book by Robin SternThe Gaslight Effect: How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life, is a book by Robin Stern, a psychoanalyst and educator. Published in 2007, the book explores the concept of gaslighting, a form of psychological manipulation in which a person or group causes another person to doubt their own reality, memories, or perceptions. The Gaslight Effect provides tips, tools, and strategies to recognize gaslighting behavior, regain self-confidence, and break free from the control of manipulative individuals. It aims to empower readers and help them protect themselves against gaslighting in personal and professional relationships.Chapter 2 Is The Gaslight Effect Book A Good Book"The Gaslight Effect" by Robin Stern is generally well-regarded in the field of psychology and interpersonal relationships. It explores the concept of gaslighting, a form of psychological manipulation, and provides strategies for dealing with it effectively. It has received positive reviews and has been recommended by many readers. Ultimately, whether it is a good book for you depends on your personal interests and what you hope to gain from reading it.Chapter 3 The Gaslight Effect Book by Robin Stern Summary"The Gaslight Effect: How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life" is a book written by Robin Stern. The book explores the concept of gaslighting, a form of psychological manipulation where someone attempts to make another person doubt their reality, memory, or sanity.Stern begins by defining gaslighting and its various techniques. She discusses how gaslighting can occur in personal relationships, at work, and even on a societal level. The author emphasizes the importance of awareness and recognizing the signs of gaslighting to protect oneself from its harmful effects.Throughout the book, Stern provides real-life examples and case studies to illustrate the dynamics of gaslighting. She offers practical strategies and advice for individuals who may find themselves in gaslighting situations. These strategies include setting healthy boundaries, trusting one's own intuition, and building a support network.Moreover, the book delves into the emotional impact of gaslighting and offers guidance on self-care and healing. Stern encourages readers to reclaim their sense of self and rebuild their confidence after experiencing gaslighting. Additionally, she addresses the role of bystanders and offers suggestions for friends, family, and colleagues on how to support someone who may be experiencing gaslighting.In summary, "The Gaslight Effect" is a comprehensive guide for understanding and combating gaslighting in various aspects of life. It aims to empower individuals to recognize gaslighting behaviors, protect themselves, and reclaim their personal truth and agency. Chapter 4 The Gaslight Effect Book AuthorRobin Stern, Ph.D., is the author of the book "The Gaslight Effect: How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life." The book was released on September 25, 2007. Aside from "The Gaslight Effect," Robin Stern has not written any other books. As a result, there are no editions to compare in terms of which one is considered the best.Chapter 5 The Gaslight Effect Book Meaning & ThemeThe Gaslight Effect Book MeaningThe Gaslight Effect is a book written by Robin Stern that examines and explains the psychological phenomenon known as gaslighting. Gaslighting is a form...

The BTR.ORG Podcast - Betrayal Trauma Recovery
Everything You Need to Know About Gaslighting

The BTR.ORG Podcast - Betrayal Trauma Recovery

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 26, 2023 23:21


Uncover the intricacies of gaslighting as Dr. Robin Stern and Anne explore emotional abuse, exposing manipulation tactics and offering insights for victims.

DISCovering You
Best of 2023

DISCovering You

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 26, 2023 23:02


Please enjoy the best of 2023!Optimism; Friend or Foe? https://pod.link/1614071253/episode/c4a3a55699d106cd5337d7388f8adf27The Highly Sensitive Person Part 1 https://pod.link/1614071253/episode/c0f9d9df2d33314a4e3a051852dafd30Thriving As A Highly Sensitive Person https://pod.link/1614071253/episode/29ca59b3d5760c69964fd06b7ed5b82dSynthesising the S in DISC https://pod.link/1614071253/episode/24458e1ada47c0f82764fb3af6c3952aSpecial Guest! Dr. Robin Stern on Emotional Intelligence https://pod.link/1614071253/episode/88ec6c6a9764c5100a1d096dabcf3002Contemplating the C in DISC https://pod.link/1614071253/episode/808195dbbdb18fa5b02d485fa7f41b79Building Highly Effective Teams https://pod.link/1614071253/episode/a26d6f9d3dde58a2f6bdf37786cd7356Exploring Empathy https://pod.link/1614071253/episode/8a5439a280d42be21f82a8b41e66cac7What's Your Tendency? https://pod.link/1614071253/episode/dc98e91adcb291005d260d7218d69879How Do YOU Lead? https://pod.link/1614071253/episode/8fda1cc0c168062dfbe1ad65a13c3397To learn more about Victoria and her business offerings visit or email her at mailto:discoverwhatworks@gmail.comConnect with Victoria!https://pod.link/1614071253https://discoverwhatworks.org/https://www.facebook.com/VictoriaDISChttps://www.instagram.com/discoverwhatworks/https://www.linkedin.com/in/discoverwhatworks

The BTR.ORG Podcast - Betrayal Trauma Recovery
I Think My Husband Is Gaslighting Me

The BTR.ORG Podcast - Betrayal Trauma Recovery

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2023 23:23


Gaslighting expert, Dr. Robin Stern, shares her expertise on the podcast - including detailing the three types of gaslighters.

A Little Bit Culty
Decoding Mindf*ckery: Dr. Robin Stern on The Gaslight Effect

A Little Bit Culty

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2023 55:37


Today's episode is sponsored by BetterHelp.  Dr. Robin Stern is not your average psycho-therapist – she's renowned for her work in emotional intelligence, relationships, and well being. And she's the psychological sleuth who's highlighted one particularly culty behavior: gaslighting. Fun fact: Dr. Stern actually coined the phrase “the gaslight effect.”   As we know, gaslighting is straight out of the culty charismatic coercive fuckwad playbook. But we want to get specific and don't mean to merely call names. So in this episode, we go full CSI on gaslighting with Dr. Stern. We dissect the term with the expert who wrote several books on the subject: The Gaslight Effect and The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide.   NOTES -  Dr. Robin Stern is co-founder and associate director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and is a licensed psychoanalyst who's been in private practice for over 30 years. She hosts the Gaslight Effect podcast. She's developed and co-created social emotional learning apps including HowWeFeel and OjiLifeLab. She writes and is interviewed regularly for her insight into socio-emotional matters for Psychology Today, The Hill, Time Inc., and Harvard Business Review.    You can find her on Twitter and Facebook.   If you're looking for more, here's an early ALBC episode specifically about narcissism and gaslighting: Shameless: Dan Shaw on Gaslighting, Narcissists, & Recovering from Cultic Abuse   Also…   Let it be known far and wide, loud and clear that…   The views and opinions expressed on A Little Bit Culty do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of the podcast. Any content provided by our guests, bloggers, sponsors or authors are of their opinion and are not intended to malign any religion, group, club, organization, business individual, anyone or anything. Nobody's mad at you, just don't be a culty fuckwad.   OTHER LINKS: Check out our lovely sponsors Join ‘A Little Bit Culty' on Patreon Get poppin' fresh ALBC Swag Support the pod and smash this link Cult awareness and recovery resources   CREDITS:  Executive Producers: Sarah Edmondson & Anthony Ames Production Partner: Citizens of Sound Producer: Will Retherford Co-Creator: Jess Tardy Writer: Holly Zadra Theme Song: “Cultivated” by Jon Bryant co-written with Nygel Asselin  

Do Good To Lead Well with Craig Dowden
Emotional Intelligence Applied to Conflict Leadership | Dr. Janet Patti and Dr. Robin Stern

Do Good To Lead Well with Craig Dowden

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2023 55:41


How can you recognize your own emotions? And how can you use this skill in conflict resolution, team building, and reframing for success? In this episode, Janet Patti and Robin Stern answer these questions and more. What You'll Learn: 1. You can learn and improve your emotional intelligence at any age! 2. How to recognize, understand, and then express and regulate your emotions. 3. Why mindfulness is being included in schools. 4. Specific mindfulness techniques that work for a variety of people. 5. How to help yourself (and others) with confrontation. 6. How to create a work environment that welcomes feedback. Who are Janet and Robin? Dr. Patti is a professor emeritus at the Hunter College School of Education where her teaching and research focus on educational leadership. Dr. Stern (a return guest) is a co-founder and senior advisor to the director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence, and a licensed psychoanalyst with 30 years of experience. Together, Janet and Robin created the STAR Factor coaching model, which helps educational leaders enhance their emotional intelligence skills. Mentions: Emotional Intelligence for School Leaders by Janet A. Patti and Robin S. Stern https://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Intelligence-School-Leaders-Janet/dp/1682538648/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=9781682538647&qid=1701329323&sr=8-1  Follow Janet and Robin: Janet's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-janet-patti-3b6aa6a0/  Robin's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/robin-stern-220b403a/ More of Do Good to Lead Well: Website: https://craigdowden.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/craigdowden/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/craig-dowden/message

Better Version
#77: Phát hiện sự thao túng ngầm đang chế ngự bạn | Sách Hiệu ứng đèn gas

Better Version

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2023 22:55


Tuần này mình xin chia sẻ tới các bạn một nội dung mang tên "Phát hiện và vượt qua sự thao túng ngầm đang chế ngự bạn" qua cuốn sách mang tính đột phá - "The Gaslight EffectHow to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life" của nhà trị liệu Tâm lý nổi tiếng, Tiến sĩ Robin Stern, với bản dịch tiếng Việt là "Hiệu ứng Đèn Gas". ------------------------- ❤️ ỦNG HỘ KÊNH TẠI: https://beacons.ai/betterversion.donate

Do Good To Lead Well with Craig Dowden
Living Gaslight Free | Dr. Robin Stern

Do Good To Lead Well with Craig Dowden

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2023 49:37


We hear the word “gaslight” a lot… but what does that mean and what does it look like? How can we avoid being gaslighted? And how can we help others when they're being manipulated? In this episode, Robin Stern answers these questions and more. What You'll Learn: 1. What is (and is not) gaslighting, and how to recognize it. 2. How gaslighting is used in the workplace. 3. Who can fall victim to gaslighting. 4. How to help friends who are being gaslighted. 5. How to react when you notice you are being gaslighted. Who is Robin? Dr. Stern is the co-founder and associate director for the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence, and an associate research scientist at the Child Study Center at Yale. She's a licensed psychoanalyst with 30 years of experience treating individuals, couples, and families. She's the author of The Gaslight Effect: How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use To Control Your Life. Dr. Stern has traveled widely to lecture on emotional intelligence, women in leadership, and on relational bullying. She's also the host of the Gaslight Effect podcast, which teaches listeners about the depths the term can take. She interviews experts and hears personal experiences from guests about all aspects of gaslighting, from the unintentional, the role it plays in marriages, in divorce, and how good parenting can be gaslighting. Mentions: The Gaslight Effect: How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use To Control Your Life: https://www.amazon.ca/Gaslight-Effect-Survive-Manipulation-Control-ebook/dp/B000QCQ8X0 The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide: Your Personal Journey Toward Healing from Emotional Abuse: https://www.amazon.ca/Gaslight-Effect-Recovery-Guide-Emotional/dp/0593236270  Follow Robin: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/robin-stern-220b403a/ More of Do Good to Lead Well: Website: https://craigdowden.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/craigdowden/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/craig-dowden/message

Misforstået
Vejen tilbage til sig selv

Misforstået

Play Episode Play 16 sec Highlight Listen Later Aug 7, 2023 28:41


Episode 109: Kender du det at slippe fri? I denne episode fortsætter vi samtalen fra forrige episode Effekten af gaslighting , men i denne episode taler vi om, hvad man kan gøre for at finde hjem til sig selv igen efter at man har været i et psykisk nedbrydende forhold. Vi gennemgår R.U.L. E. R, som er Robin Steins bidrag til, hvordan man forbliver i kontakt med sig selv og derved er i stand til at modstå gaslighting. Robin Stern har udviklet en gratis app som vi vil anbefale at downloade. Den hedder 'How We Feel' og linket til den er her. VIGTIGT: Hvis du er i akut fare, så skal du ringe til alarmcentralen på 112. Hvis du er udsat for gaslighting, så tal med nogen om det. Eva ring til  InsideOut, de har  en rådgivningstelefon, der er åben søndag kl 12-15 på 70605278. Referencer:RobinStern.comOpenMindsfoundation.org  (Steve Hassans organisation) Podcasten: The Gaslight Effect af Robin SternAndre episoder vi har lavet om emnet:Kranfører i egen kran (episode 105)Højkontrolkultur (episode 104)Farlige forhold (episode 22)Musik: Yuiliana Wijaya fra Yuliana Music StudioFølg os eventuelt på Misforståetpodcast på InstagramOg endnu vigtigere T A K fordi du lytter med. Venlig hilsen Laura og Pia fra Misforstået-podcast

Are You Being Gaslighted? What Are The Telltale Signs?

"Be Bold America!"

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2023 54:51


Produced by KSQD 89.5, 89.7, & 90.7FM “Be Bold America!” Sunday July 30, 2023 at 5:00pm (PDT In 2007, Dr. Robin Stern coined the phrase “gaslight effect” to explain the long-term effects of repeated gaslighting: an insidious, and sometimes covert form of emotional abuse in which a gaslighter undermines and controls another person by deflecting, twisting and denying the reality.  Gaslighting can happen in a romantic relationship between family members, or at work – but in every case it leaves, you constantly second-guessing yourself, unable to make simple decisions, and destabilize from the constant reality shift. Also, have we been politically gaslighted on a national level?   Interview Guest:  Robin, Stern, PhD, is the cofounder and associate director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and co-developer of RULER, an evidence-based approach adopted by over 4000 schools worldwide.  Dr. Stern is a license psychoanalyst with 30 years of experience and the author of Project Rebirth, The Gaslight Effect, The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide, and the host of "The Gaslight Effect Podcast,"  Dr. Stern offers invaluable insights into the dynamics of gaslighting and its impact on emotional well-being. She regularly contributes to esteemed publications and media outlets on topics related to psychology and emotional intelligence. 

Misforstået
Effekten af gaslighting

Misforstået

Play Episode Play 25 sec Highlight Listen Later Jul 24, 2023 27:37


Episode 108: Kender du det at holde fast i dig selv? I denne episode taler vi om, hvor let det er at komme til at forlade sig selv og lade sig blive manipuleret af andre eller af en anden. Det sker både i politik og i kulter og i 1-0-1 relationer og fordi det er så hyppigt i vores kultur, så synes vi det er vigtigt at tale om, så vi alle kan være opmærksomme på dynamikken og søge at være tro mod os selv i stedet for at lade os manipulere med. Måden er i følge Robin Stern at være bevidst om vores følelser, fordi de altid er sande for os selv - og hun har lavet en gratis app som vi vil anbefale at downloade - den har et flerfarvet hjerte som logo og hedder 'How We Feel'. Hvis du er udsat for gaslighting, så er det en god ide at tale med andre om det - enten folk i dit netværk eller en rådgivningstelefon. InsideOut har en rådgivningstelefon, der er åben søndag kl 12-15 på 70605278. Hvis du er i akut fare, så skal du ringe til alarmcentralen på 112.I episoden henviser vi til tidligere episoder, vi har lavet om emnet og de kommer her:  Kranfører i egen kran (episode 105 ),  Højkontrolkultur (episode 104) og Farlige forhold (episode  22)Referencer:OpenMindsfoundation.org RobinStern.comPodcasten: The Gaslight Effect af Robin SternFilmen: Gaslight, 1940TED talk med Steve Hassan: 'How To Tell If You're Brainwashed'App'en 'How We Feel'Musik: Yuiliana Wijaya fra Yuliana Music StudioFølg os eventuelt på Misforståetpodcast på InstagramOg endnu vigtigere T A K fordi du lytter med. Venlig hilsen Laura og Pia fra Misforstået-podcast

The Sensibly Speaking Podcast
#395: Gaslighting In and Out of Cults ft. Dr. Robin Stern

The Sensibly Speaking Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2023 57:33


This week I am joined by pyschologist and author Dr. Robin Stern to discuss her specialty, gaslighting. We cover how this is done, how to spot it when it's happening to you (even if it's from someone you like and admire) and how gaslighting is used in cults like Scientology to literally rewrite one's memories.... The post Sensibly Speaking Podcast #395: Gaslighting In and Out of Cults ft. Dr. Robin Stern appeared first on The Sensibly Speaking Podcast.

Soul Full of Wellness
The Truth About Gaslighting & 6 Ways To Free Yourself

Soul Full of Wellness

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 29, 2023 25:33


This week's episode is inspired by a June 2nd Washington Post article by Robin Stern and Marc Brackett titled Gaslighting is emotional abuse. Here's how to recognize and stop it. The term gaslighting gets tossed around a lot these days, not always correctly. Episode Highlights: Kit gets personal and share her experience with gaslighting Kit shares her recovery and how she recultivated her relationship with herself Why asking yourself "what is your bottom line?" can lead to your healing In this episode we'll share personal anecdotes and experiences as we discuss the essential questions: What is gaslighting? What are the red flags? How do you know if it's happening? What does a gaslighting relationship look like?  We're going over examples of gaslighting, how to spot the sometimes not so obvious red flags, and most importantly what you can do to set necessary personal boundaries.    

Psychologists Off The Clock: A Psychology Podcast About The Science And Practice Of Living Well
308. Identifying and Surviving Gaslighting with Robin Stern

Psychologists Off The Clock: A Psychology Podcast About The Science And Practice Of Living Well

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2023 65:18


Are you familiar with the term "gaslighting"? It's been a popular topic for discussion in recent days, but how many of us actually understand its true meaning and, perhaps more importantly, how to identify it?  Join us for this thought-provoking interview with Psychoanalyst and co-founder of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence, Dr. Robin Stern, who gives us a fresh and detailed perspective on the subject. Shedding light on decades of research and heaps of knowledge as the author of The Gaslight Effect and The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide, Dr. Stern offers guidance on how to recognize the different stages of the gaslight effect, indicating who is most susceptible and offering strategies to escape from it.  Don't tole­rate emotional abuse in silence any longer; tune in to learn how to spot the signs of gaslighting while moving forward toward a brighter future filled with kindness and respect—which you deserve! Listen and Learn:  The fascinating origin of the term gaslighting  Robin's definition of gaslighting from her book Can gaslighting happen in both romantic and interpersonal relationships?  Is gaslighting socially learned?  The correlation between gaslighting and narcissism  The three stages of gaslighting and how to identify them  Are there certain traits that make someone more vulnerable to becoming a victim of gaslighting? How do you determine whether you should leave a relationship with a gaslighter? The type of person who would benefit from Robin's workbook, The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide Resources:  Robin Stern's website  The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide: Your Personal Journey Toward Healing from Emotional Abuse: A Gaslighting Book The Gaslight Effect: How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life Follow Robin on Facebook (@drrobinstern), Twitter (@RobinSStern) and Instagram (@educatorhealer) The Gaslight Effect Podcast Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence (YCEI) Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist: How to End the Drama and Get on with Life Permission to Feel: The Power of Emotional Intelligence to Achieve Well-Being and Success About Robin Stern  Dr. Robin Stern is the co-founder and senior advisor to the director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and has 30 years of experience as a licensed psychoanalyst. She is the author of The Gaslight Effect: How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life and The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide: Your Personal Journey Toward Healing from Emotional Abuse. She hosts the Gaslight Effect podcast. Related Episodes:  98. Narcissism with Avigail Lev and Robyn Walser 186. Set Boundaries Find Peace with Nedra Tawwab 263. Relationships with Emotionally Immature People with Lindsay Gibson 292. Adult Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers with Stephanie Kriesberg 298. Drama Free with Nedra Tawwab Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Win Today with Christopher Cook
347: Dr. Henry Cloud on When to Withhold Trust, Emotional Regulation, Developing Discernment, and Why "Believing the Best" Might Be Bad Advice

Win Today with Christopher Cook

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2023 53:14


This week, Dr. Henry Cloud joins us to talk about when to withhold trust. Trust is key for relationships. It makes everything work. But at what point is it safe to say a person is unable to be trusted? Dr. Cloud will answer that question today. We'll also explore emotional regulation, how to develop discernment, and why "believing the best" might actually be bad advice. Dive Deeper: If you enjoy this episode with Dr. Cloud, I'm sure you'll also enjoy the following: 339: Debra Fileta, M.A., L.P.C. on Why We Are Not Self-Healers, Our Trigger-Avoidant Culture, Rejecting Passivity, and What it Takes to Reset Your Emotional Health 346: Dr. Robin Stern on Gaslighting and Mental Health: The Far-Reaching Effects of Manipulative Psychological, Emotional Abuse ++++++ Episode Links: Dr. Henry Cloud's Website | Instagram | Facebook | Twitter | Buy Dr. Cloud's book on Amazon! Subscribe to #WinTodayShow on YouTube. Join the conversation wherever hashtags are welcome using #WinTodayShow. Get the "Win the Week" email newsletter here. ************************** This week's show partners: Get LMNT and a free gift with your purchase here! **************************

Physicians On Purpose
63. Gaslighting in the Healthcare Workplace with Tracey O'Connell MD

Physicians On Purpose

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2023 35:30


Follow our show wherever you get your podcasts: https://link.chtbl.com/JoH0AMKR Have you ever questioned your own sanity or judgment in a healthcare setting? Do you constantly feel self-doubt? Today, we discuss gaslighting, a form of psychological manipulation that can leave you doubting your self-worth and reality, particularly in healthcare. Our guest, Dr. Tracy O'Connell, is a radiologist, coach, educator, Certified Expressive Writing™ Facilitator, and Certified Daring Way™ Facilitator. Together with Dr. O'Connell, we examine the power dynamics and moral injury that can lead to gaslighting in healthcare relationships, and how it is often used as a form of covert domination. We also talk about the tactics used by psychopaths to gain the upper hand in conversations and share practical advice on how to address and overcome gaslighting in medical training. Learn to build social and emotional intelligence, trust, and psychological safety to establish boundaries and walk away when you feel gaslighted. “Gaslighting is a dance that requires two people or two entities. It requires the gaslighter, who needs to be right at all costs. And it requires a gaslightee, somebody who absolutely needs the approval of the gaslighter in order to have the dance.” - Tracy O'Connell MD   What we talked about: Definition and the three stages of gaslighting Psychopaths and their domination techniques Power dynamics and moral injury in medical culture Overcoming the inner critic and building self-worth   Resources: - The Gaslight Effect: How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life by Robin Stern https://www.amazon.com/Gaslight-Effect-Survive-Manipulation-Control-ebook/dp/B000QCQ8X0 - The Sociopath Next Door by Martha Stout PhD https://www.amazon.com/Statistics-Behavioral-Sciences-Martha-Stout/dp/B00ZT0KVQY - The Psychopath Test: A Journey Through the Madness Industry by Jon Ronson https://www.amazon.com/Psychopath-Test-Journey-Through-Industry/dp/1594485755   Connect with Dr. O'Connell: Website: https://www.traceyoconnellmd.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracey-o'connell-md-and-educator-00693834/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traceyoconnellmd/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traceyoconnellmd/   Watch on Youtube: https://youtu.be/gEHQCNjIwU8   Burnout Proof MD 3-Layer Physician Support Ecosystem 1.) COACHING - 2 hours of weekly group coaching on Zoom 2.) TRAINING - Our Top-5 online video trainings Burnout Proof Online Workshop One Minute Mindfulness for Physicians Ideal Physician Job Search Formula Physician's Guide to Managing Your Boss Physician Leadership Power Tools 3.) COMMUNITY - Private, members-only web portal for 24/7 support   OVER 100 CME Credits per year Risk-Free with our 30 Day Free Trial Learn more and start your Free Trial Here https://bit.ly/BurnoutProof-30Free      

Win Today with Christopher Cook
346: Dr. Robin Stern on Gaslighting and Mental Health: The Far-Reaching Effects of Manipulative Psychological, Emotional Abuse

Win Today with Christopher Cook

Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2023 61:47


Dr. Robin Stern joins us to talk about a subject you've been asking for specifically, and that's gaslighting. So today, we're talking about the far-reaching effects of manipulative psychological, and emotional abuse. Robin says, "Gaslighting undermines your confidence and self-esteem, robs you of your sense of self, and is often so subtle that you don't realize it's happening. It can cause you to question your own memory, perception, and sanity, and to feel powerless, helpless, and out of control." Dive Deeper: If you enjoy this episode with Dr. Robin Stern, I'm sure you'll also enjoy the following: 339: Debra Fileta, M.A., L.P.C. on Why We Are Not Self-Healers, Our Trigger-Avoidant Culture, Rejecting Passivity, and What it Takes to Reset Your Emotional Health 323: Eric Johnson on Walking through an Emotional Breakdown, The Danger of Avoiding Emotions, and Wrestling with the Deep Issues of the Soul ++++++ Episode Links: Dr. Robin Stern's Website | Instagram | Facebook | Twitter | Buy Robin's book on Amazon! | Buy "The Gaslight Effect" Recovery Guide Subscribe to #WinTodayShow on YouTube. Join the conversation wherever hashtags are welcome using #WinTodayShow. Get the "Win the Week" email newsletter here. ************************** This week's show partners: Get LMNT and a free gift with your purchase here! **************************

DISCovering You
Special Guest! Dr. Robin Stern on Emotional Intelligence

DISCovering You

Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2023 38:45


Today on the show we have a very special guest! Dr. Robin Stern is the co-founder and associate director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence. She's an author, a speaker, and a licensed psychoanalyst with 30 years of experience.Dr. Stern coined the phrase Gaslight Effect in her book in 2007, and most recently, she is the host of the Gaslight Effect podcast. I had a great conversation with Robin Stern and we're going to jump right in. Enjoy!

The Influence Continuum with Dr. Steven Hassan
The Gaslight Effect: Protecting Yourself from Emotional Abuse with Dr. Robin Stern

The Influence Continuum with Dr. Steven Hassan

Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2023 59:46


The term ‘gaslight effect' was introduced by Dr. Robin Stern in her 2007 book to describe the long-term consequences of persistent gaslighting, a subtle and often hidden form of emotional abuse. Gaslighting is a devastating form of undue influence. It occurs when an individual manipulates another person by distorting, twisting, and dismissing their experiences, making them question their memories, perceptions, and reality. Gaslighting can occur in a romantic relationship, among family members, in the workplace, within mind control cults as well as by politicians. Robin Stern, Ph.D., has been a practicing psychoanalyst for over thirty years and is the co-founder and associate director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence. She's the author of The Gaslight Effect and the newly released The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide.  Learn more about Steven Hassan and Freedom of Mind Resource Center. Visit freedomofmind.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Unlocked
What Is Gaslighting? And How Do You Know If It's Happening To You? With Dr. Robin Stern

Unlocked

Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2023 60:29


Today we're going to be talking about a topic that's made its way into the mainstream called Gaslighting. I'm so thrilled to be sharing space with one of the world's leading expert on the subject, and who actually coined the term Gaslight Effect, with Dr. Robin Stern. She has spent the majority of her amazing 30+ year career as a psychoanalyst treating individuals, couples, and families, while exploring the depths of what it truly means to feel.We're going to talk about what Gaslighting really is, what it isn't, who's susceptible to being Gaslighted, and the expert advice on how you can heal from emotional abuse to reclaim your authentic power. To really be your authentic self. MORE ABOUT ROBINDr. Robin Stern is the co-founder and associate director for the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and has 30 years of experience as a licensed psychoanalyst. She is the author of The Gaslight Effect: How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life and The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide: Your Personal Journey Toward Healing from Emotional Abuse. Twitter: https://twitter.com/RobinSSternFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/drrobinsternCONNECT WITH OWL & KEYwww.owlandkey.cowww.instagram.com/owl_and_key/linktr.ee/owlandkey

We Can Do Hard Things with Glennon Doyle
Are You Being Gaslighted? with Dr. Robin Stern

We Can Do Hard Things with Glennon Doyle

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2023 58:05


What is gaslighting REALLY and what isn't?  Plus, how to know if you're in a relationship with a gaslighter, the three types of gaslighters, and how to break free from a gaslighter and reclaim yourself.  About Dr. Stern:  Robin Stern, Ph.D., is the co-founder and associate director for the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and an associate research scientist at the Child Study Center at Yale. She is a licensed psychoanalyst with 30 years of experience treating individuals, couples, and families. She is the author of The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide: Your Personal Journey Toward Healing from Emotional Abuse.  TW: @RobinSStern IG: @dr.robinstern To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Women's Health, Wisdom, and. . . WINE!
#105 - The Gaslight Effect: From Abuse to Recovery | Dr. Robin Stern (Vinho Verde)

Women's Health, Wisdom, and. . . WINE!

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2023 76:48


The Gaslight Effect  explains the long-term effects of repeated gaslighting: an insidious and sometimes covert form of emotional abuse in which a gaslighter undermines and controls another person by deflecting, twisting, and denying their reality. Gaslighting can happen in a romantic relationship, between family members, or at work—but in every case, it leaves you constantly second-guessing yourself, unable to make simple decisions, and destabilized from the constant reality shifts.The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide is a tool for personal exploration that will help you identify if you are part of a pattern of emotional abuse and pull yourself out of that dynamic with a few crucial mindset shifts. Through prompts, checklists, quizzes, and guided reflective questions, you will explore past and present relationships, gain the confidence to leave an abusive partner or set boundaries in an unavoidable situation, and heal after gaslighting.  This interactive workbook will help you:Name the Gaslight Effect and identify abuse in any relationship.Heal a relationship or free yourself from a gaslighting dynamic.Learn what makes you vulnerable to gaslighting.Deepen your self-awareness and self-compassion.Expand your capacity to trust yourself and reach out to others for support.The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide will help you reveal the truth behind gaslighting interactions, allowing you to cultivate happy, healthy relationships and regain your joy, creativity, and sense of self.About our guest:Robin Stern, Ph.D., is the co-founder and associate director for the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence. She is a licensed psychoanalyst with 30 years of experience treating individuals, couples, and families.Robin is the co-developer of RULER (an acronym for the five key emotion skills of recognizing, understanding, labeling, expressing, and regulating emotions) an evidence-based approach to social and emotional learning that has been adopted by over 4,500 schools across the United States and in 27 other countries. She also is the co-founder of OjiLifeLab, a digital emotional intelligence learning system for businesses. Robin consults with hospitals and companies on the application of emotional intelligence in management and leadership. She serves on the advisory board for organizations including Crisis Text Line, Think Equal, and The International Society for Emotional Intelligence.Resources Mentioned:The Gaslight EffectThe Gaslight Effect Recovery GuideConnect with Dr. Stern:WebsitePodcastInstagramThe hashtag for the podcast is #nourishyourflourish. You can also find our practice on the following social media outlets:Facebook: The Eudaimonia CenterInstagram: theeudaimoniacenterTwitter: eu_daimonismFor more reproductive medicine and women's health information and other valuable resources, make sure to visit our website.Have a question, comment, guest suggestion, or want to share your story? Email us at info@laurenawhite.com.Support the show

Chicago Psychology Podcast
The Gaslight Effect with Dr. Robin Stern, Ph.D.

Chicago Psychology Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2023 55:10


Gaslighting: it's everywhere these days. In the media, on the lips of clients in therapy, in workplace discussions on Slack or near the watercooler. But what does it really mean to be gaslit, and does it mean that the gas lighter is a narcissist? Here's where psychologist Robin Stern can help. Dr. Stern is the co-founder and associate director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence. She is a licensed psychoanalyst with 30 years of experience treating individuals, couples and families. She lives in NYC. She is here today to discuss her new book, The Gaslight Effect: A Recovery Guide. The Gaslight Effect helps readers identify if they are part of a pattern of emotional abuse in any type of relationship, and provides tools to stop the abuse and move on with their life. On this episode of the Psychology Talk Podcast, Dr. Stern discusses the concepts in her book, and how to help discern if you are being gaslit, the stages of the Gaslight Effect, and ways to stop being manipulated, and get on with your life. Dr. Stern on the Web The Psychology Talk Podcast is a unique conversation about psychology around the globe. Your host Dr. Scott Hoye discusses psychology and mental health trends with practitioners and experts to keep you informed about issues and trends in the industry. Dr. Hoye is a clinical psychologist and the director of Chicago Psychology Services, in Chicago, IL., USA.https://psych-talk.comhttps://www.instagram.com/psychtalkpodcast/https://www.facebook.com/psychtalkpodcasthttps://chicagopsychservices.com

The Podcast by KevinMD
Breaking free from gaslighting

The Podcast by KevinMD

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2023 23:23


Join us as we delve into the topic of gaslighting and its impact on our lives. Our guest, Robin Stern, is a psychoanalyst and the author of The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide: Your Personal Journey Toward Healing from Emotional Abuse. In today's fast-paced world, we are constantly bombarded with news and information that can make it difficult to know what's real and what's not. This can make us more vulnerable to gaslighting than ever before. Robin will help us understand what gaslighting is and how it can destroy our relationships. Robin will also share five shifts that can help you turn off the gas and break free from the cycle of manipulation and control. From sorting out truth from distortion to focusing on feelings instead of "right" and "wrong," Robin will guide us through the process of reclaiming our sense of reality and healing from emotional abuse. Don't miss this enlightening episode as we explore the topic of gaslighting and learn how to protect ourselves from its effects. Join us for a journey toward self-discovery and healing. Robin Stern is a psychoanalyst. She shares her story and discusses her book, The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide: Your Personal Journey Toward Healing from Emotional Abuse. The Podcast by KevinMD is brought to you by the Nuance Dragon Ambient eXperience. With so many demands on their time, physicians today report record levels of burnout. Burnout is caused by many factors, one of which is clinical documentation. Studies indicate physicians spend two hours documenting care for every hour spent with patients. At Nuance, we are committed to helping physicians do what you love – care for patients – and spend less time on clinical documentation. The Nuance Dragon Ambient eXperience, or DAX for short, is an AI-powered, ambient clinical intelligence solution that automatically captures patient encounters securely and accurately at the point of care. Physicians who use DAX have reported a 50 percent decrease in documentation time and a 70 percent reduction in feelings of burnout, and 83 percent of patients say their physician is more personable and conversational. Rediscover the joy of medicine with clinical documentation that writes itself, all within the EHR. VISIT SPONSOR → https://nuance.com/daxinaction SUBSCRIBE TO THE PODCAST → https://www.kevinmd.com/podcast RATE AND REVIEW → https://www.kevinmd.com/rate FOLLOW ON INSTAGRAM → https://www.instagram.com/kevinphomd FOLLOW ON TIKTOK → https://www.tiktok.com/@kevinphomd GET CME FOR THIS EPISODE → https://earnc.me/jmGtQO Powered by CMEfy.

Not Perfect Podcast
9: The gaslight effect and how to recover from it with Dr Robin Stern

Not Perfect Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2023 40:07


I am thrilled to be joined today by Dr. Robin Stern, the associate director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and the author of The Gaslight Effect, and the newly released The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide. Dr. Robin has been educating people about gaslighting for nearly three decades, and her work has changed and saved the lives of thousands of people.In today's episode, Dr Robin explains how the Gaslight Effect works and how you can decide which relationships to walk away from. She also teaches us how we can "gasproof" our lives and how we can recover from a gaslighting relationship.Find more information on Dr Robin Stern: Website: https://robinstern.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/educatorhealer/Please follow @poppyjamie and let me know your thoughts about the episode!A big thank you to our sponsor:Huel Black Edition is a high protein, nutritionally complete meal in a convenient shake. That means it has everything your body needs in just two scoops. Head to huel.com/unwind now and get a free t-shirt and shaker with your first order! ***Produced by Georgie RutherfordEdited by George Drake Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's Only a Podcast - A Horror Movie Review Show
Episode 184 - Cocaine Bear / The Village (2004) GUEST: Dr. Robin Stern

It's Only a Podcast - A Horror Movie Review Show

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 2, 2023 123:32


Christian and Ian are here to listen and learn.  The wait is over. It's finally time for us to review the stacked cast and animal hijinks of COCAINE BEAR. Then we have another interview with Dr. Robin Stern about emotional intelligence and abuse before continuing our series This is Gaslighting and dig into yet another M. Night Shyamalan twist in THE VILLAGE. We also discuss snow, needle drops, and breadboxes.  Timestamps 29:39 Cocaine Bear review 56:48 Cocaine Bear spoilers 1:05:43 Interview with Dr. Stern 1:19:46 The Village review 1:25:44 The Village spoilers   Find more of Dr. Robin Stern's work at www.robinstern.com and check out her book, The Gaslight Effect, and the podcast of the same name.   We'd love to hear your thoughts, questions, or any requests you have. You can contact us at: feedback@itsonlyapodcast.com and on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and Letterboxd.

It's Only a Podcast - A Horror Movie Review Show
Episode 182 - Infinity Pool / The Chaser (2008) GUEST: Dr. Robin Stern

It's Only a Podcast - A Horror Movie Review Show

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2023 114:51


Christian and Ian are on vacation but staying out of the pool. We review Brnadon Cronenberg's latest gross-out sci fi/horror movie, INFINITY POOL. Then we have another interview with Dr. Robin Stern about emotional intelligence and abuse before continuing our series This is Gaslighting and dig into the the South Korean crime thriller, THE CHASER. We also discuss milk toast, I Know What You Did Last Summer, and the Academy Award for Best Sound.   Timestamps: 27:14 Infinity Pool review 39:13 Infinity Pool plot reveal (spoilerish) 1:09:25 Interview with Dr. Robin Stern 1:28:00 The Chaser review   Find more of Dr. Robin Stern's work at www.robinstern.com and check out her book, The Gaslight Effect, and the podcast of the same name.   We'd love to hear your thoughts, questions, or any requests you have. You can contact us at: feedback@itsonlyapodcast.com and on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and Letterboxd.

It's Only a Podcast - A Horror Movie Review Show
Episode 181 - M3GAN / Gaslight (1944) GUEST: Dr. Robin Stern

It's Only a Podcast - A Horror Movie Review Show

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2023 118:43


Christian and Ian are one dance away from being an internet sensation. We're onto our first 2023 review to talk about the latest and greatest killer doll movie, M3GAN. Then we have the first of several interviews with Dr. Robin Stern about emotional intelligence and abuse before starting our new series This is Gaslighting with a review of the film that coined the term, GASLIGHT. We also discuss bad dogs, fog, and stretchy ears.   Timestamps: 13:14 M3GAN review 58:10 Interview with Dr. Robin Stern 1:31:14 Gaslight review   Find more of Dr. Robin Stern's work at www.robinstern.com and check out her book, The Gaslight Effect, and the podcast of the same name.   We'd love to hear your thoughts, questions, or any requests you have. You can contact us at: feedback@itsonlyapodcast.com and on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and Letterboxd.

The Executive Appeal
Ep 73: Overcoming Imposter Syndrome with Ryan Changcoco

The Executive Appeal

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2022 38:07


Are you challenged by comparison? Looking to overcome imposter syndrome? Guest Ryan Changcoco shares insight to tackle the challenge. Ryan is the founder and principal of the Changcoco Consulting Group. Prior to CCG, Ryan served as the Chief Executive Officer of CSurgeries and The Physician's Edge Group, as well as the Head of Product Strategy for Management Development and Director of Government Workforce at ATD. He also served in various lead positions at CareFirst Blue Cross Blue Shield and The Advisory Board Company.Ryan's experiences as an executive and product strategist led to his effectiveness as a consultant for several organizations. Ryan has expertise in digital marketing and strategy, new product development, content development, and executive operations.As former head of several startups, Ryan has led various efforts with seed-round and series A raises. Currently Ryan serves as a senior advisor to several start-up organizations and associations including: The Senior Executives Association (SEA), Oji Life Lab, and Bedrock Learning. He is also the executive producer of The Gaslight Effect Podcast, hosted by renowned professor and psychoanalyst, Dr. Robin Stern, co-founder of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence. Ryan is also serving as an Executive in Residence of insights, innovation, and experience for LeadersUp, a non-profit organization funded by Starbucks and Google to bridge the racial and economic divide for BIPOC talent within the U.S.​Main Takeaways: Checking your imposter syndromeHaving a transparent partner /colleague for real feedback The importance of hiring Knowing when to pivot “Leadership and management is the hardest job you'll love.”How to providing support beyond critical feedback Trusting & building with angel investors & VC's“First, the heart”

The Courageously.u Podcast
128. Dr. Robin Stern: Everything You Need to Know About Gaslighting

The Courageously.u Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2022 49:34


Dr. Robin Stern is the go-to gaslighting expert. She's a licensed psychoanalyst, speaker, author, and co-founder and associate director for the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence. She's also an associate research scientist at the Child Study Center at Yale. In 2007, Dr. Robin Stern published the critically acclaimed, The Gaslight Effect: How to spot and survive the hidden manipulation others use to control your life. The second edition was released in 2018. Her work is frequently published in popular media outlets, such as Psychology Today, The Huffington Post, Time.com, The Washington Post, The Hill, and Harvard Business Review. We talk about... - What gaslighting is and what it is not - What the gaslight tango looks like - How the gaslight effect works - How you can decide which relationships can be saved and which you have to walk away from - Why gaslighters gaslight - How to know if you're being gaslighted - What you can do to get out of the gaslight tango - What it looks like to be medically gaslighted And sooooo much more!  _______________________________________________ Episode goodies...  Ready for a clean cup of coffee without a side of anxiety? Click here to save 10% off your order when you use code courage at checkout. Like the show? Please leave me a review here. Even just one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram and tag me at courageously.u so I can send you a virtual hug.  HANGOUT WITH ME ON INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/courageously.u/   TODAY'S SHOW NOTES: https://courageouslyu.com/dr-robin-stern/  

Schein On
Emotions Matter: Dr. Robin Stern

Schein On

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2022 61:38


Dr. Robin Stern is the co-founder and associate director for the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence. She is a senior consultant at Yale New Haven Hospital. A licensed psychoanalyst with over 30 years of experience, Dr. Stern is the author of the Gaslight Effect.More on Dr. Stern at https://robinstern.com/

The Well-Being Connector

Dr. Robin Stern PhD is the Co-founder and Associate Director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence. She is a licensed psychoanalyst with thirty years of experience treating individuals, couples, and families. She co-developed RULER, an evidence-based approach to social and emotional learning that has been adopted by about 4000 public, charter, and private schools across the United States and in many other countries. She also co-founded Oji Life Lab, a mobile learning platform that uses the RULER approach to help people develop their emotional intelligence in the workplace.

Deconstructing Gaslighting™
Gaslighting - Not just for Narcissists!

Deconstructing Gaslighting™

Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2022 33:38


Does your gaslighter HAVE to also be a narcissist in order for you to be experiencing gaslighting? Is it an automatic connection, OR, are there other possibilities?  Can people gaslight, and NOT be a narcissist… is it possible that they may not even be high in narcissistic tendencies?  In today's episode, Sarah unpacks her copyrighted Gaslighting Scale to help answer these oh-so-important questions. Sarah wanted to share the importance of working with professionals who can help you sort out where on the scale your gaslighter may be.  Where your person falls on the scale makes a HUGE difference in how you can safely engage with them (if at all).  In addition her https://www.sarahmoralescoaching.com/e1-workshop (workshop), she wanted to let you know about her https://www.sarahmoralescoaching.com/copy-of-e2-12-week-program (signature, 12-week program)… which she created for this very reason – to help people find clarity and confidence as they navigate if they can safely stay in their relationship with the person that is gaslighting them.  If you're in the place in your healing journey where you know this is what you need, check out the program https://www.sarahmoralescoaching.com/copy-of-e2-12-week-program (here).    Most of you have heard Sarah's story, so you know she is a survivor of emotional and psychological abuse.  As such, she would NEVER do anything to minimize the impact gaslighting behaviors have on people.  Impact is NOT in question when she talks about her scale – INTENT, however, is… hang with Sarah for a few minutes while she shares her broken arm analogy with you. Word of the day: Awareness Vocabulary.com defines aware as having or showing knowledge or understanding or realization (of something or someone).  When it comes to gaslighting, for a long time, the Charles Boyer character from the movie, “Gaslight”, was the epitome of what people thought of when they pictured a gaslighter: someone who is fully aware of what they're doing, they're doing the gaslighting behaviors ON PURPOSE, and with the INTENTION to break or control the other person.  When Sarah first started studying gaslighting and came across Dr. Robin Stern's book, her stomach sank when she realized she had, at times, been gaslighting her kids.  This was the beginning of Sarah challenging this notion that “all gaslighters are narcissists”. Story Time & Deconstruction Zone: Sarah shares her Gaslighting Scale©, and goes through the levels of awareness, and three groupings of motive/agenda/intents people who do gaslighting behaviors may have, giving examples along the way. Set Your Alarm: So, how can you use this information as a tool?  Give yourself permission to have BOUNDARIES – whether you have the messy gaslighter or the full-on abusive gaslighter – YOU GET TO ASK FOR WHAT YOU NEED IN ORDER TO BE SAFE!  Get curious about any/all of the gaslighters in your life – where might they fit on this scale? What level of awareness might they have?  What might be their reason/motive/intention behind their behavior?  Getting clear on these things DIRECTLY impact whether or not its safe for you to stay in the relationship and see if the other person can change.  (I have more information around this in both my https://www.sarahmoralescoaching.com/e1-workshop (free workshop) – and for deeper work, my https://www.sarahmoralescoaching.com/copy-of-e2-12-week-program (12-week program)).  If you're ready, consider how/where YOU might fit on this scale – are you unknowingly gaslighting anyone else or YOURSELF? For all three of these, get professional help if needed (which is most of us.  LOL) If you would like to share your story on Sarah's podcast, get on the list https://www.sarahmoralescoaching.com/contact (here)! Remember – it's not about becoming who you want to be, it's about awakening all that you already are! 

Sisters Cracking Up
Are You the Victim of Gaslighting? with Dr. Robin Stern

Sisters Cracking Up

Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2022 47:51


Have you ever been made to doubt what you know to be true by a partner, a friend, a sibling, or a parent? If so, there's a good chance you've been gaslighted. Thanks to Dr. Robin Stern, "gaslighting" -- the term she coined to describe the experience of being manipulated into doubting one's own truth or sanity -- has been brought to the collective forefront of what we now understand is a form of psychological abuse. Her book, The Gaslight Effect: How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life is the gold standard in the psychology field for those who've been the victims of this insidious and soul-destructing form of control -- and for mental health providers who need to know how it may be effecting the lives of their clients. Why do some people gaslight others? Why are others more susceptible to being gaslit? And, if you are being gaslighted, what can you do about it?  Join Sisters Cracking Up hosts Abby Rodman and Julie Howard as they interview Dr. Robin Stern about gaslighting and her bestselling book. You don't want to miss this one, Sisters! Robin Stern, Ph.D., is the co-founder and associate director for the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and an associate research scientist at the Child Study Center at Yale. She is a licensed psychoanalyst with 30 years of experience treating individuals, couples and families. Robin is the co-developer of RULER (an acronym for the five key emotion skills of recognizing, understanding, labeling, expressing, and regulating emotions) an evidence-based approach to social and emotional learning that has been adopted by over 1,500 public, charter, and private pre-school to high schools across the United States and in other countries. Robin regularly consults with schools nationally and across the globe. She also consults with large companies, including Facebook and Google on best practices for integrating the principles of emotional intelligence into training and product design. With Facebook, she has co-developed a number of products, including a social resolution tools to help adults and youth resolve online conflict and the bullying prevention hub to support educators, families, and teens. Robin is the co-founder of Star Factor Coaching, a model of leadership coaching anchored in the skills of emotional intelligence and was a founding member of the Woodhull Institute for Ethical Leadership, where she spent 15 years creating and facilitating professional development programs for aspiring women leaders. In 2014-15 Robin was a fellow in the Yale Public Voices Fellowship, and her work is frequently published in popular media outlets, such as Psychology Today, The Huffington Post, Time.com, The Washington Post, The Hill, Harvard Business Review. She has been a guest on many local and national radio shows and has traveled widely to lecture on emotional intelligence, women in leadership and on relational bullying.    

The Smart Girl Tribe Podcast
Gaslighting in relationships with Dr. Robin Stern | PART TWO

The Smart Girl Tribe Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2022 34:00


Dr. Robin Stern is a licensed psychoanalyst, co-founder and associate director for the Yale centre for emotional intelligence and an associate research scientist at the child study centre at Yale. Robin is the leading expert on gaslighting and is the author of The Gaslight Effect. Listen in to hear us talk about:  - Gaslighting in relationships.  - The language used to gaslight.  - How to heal from a gaslighting relationship. - How parents subconsciously gaslight. Grab Our Bestselling Book  Listen to the Podcast  Join the Community  

Pro Business Channel
Carole Williams and Rachelle Kuramoto, 48in48 and Robin Stern, Be Better Not Bitter on NonProfits Radio

Pro Business Channel

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2022 33:11


Carole Williams and Rachelle Kuramoto, 48in48 and Robin Stern, Be Better Not Bitter on NonProfits Radio Carole Williams, Director of Development and Partnerships 48in48  Carole Williams is the Director of Development and Partnerships for 48in48, a nonprofit that brings together marketing professionals to build websites and digital materials for 48 nonprofits in 48 hours. The fast-growing organization operates in 6 cities, including London and cities across the U.S. A graduate of The University of Georgia, Carole has dedicated her career to working on nonprofit development with a focus in donor relations, volunteer management, and corporate partnerships. She has a passion for establishing new programs for good, maximizing community engagement within a city. With 48in48, the BIG goal is to hold skills-based volunteer opportunities annually in 48 cities across the globe engaging 10,000 volunteers and 2,500 nonprofits, reaching $75 million of impact. https://www.linkedin.com/in/carolewilliams Rachelle Kuramoto Helping companies be more distinct and sustainable through branding and content marketing Brand content professional with experience in branding, messaging, naming, content marketing, market research, SEO, and writing for web, video, print, collateral, and more. Method, collaboration, entrepreneurial drive and a passion for storytelling mark my approach. I provide specialist support for agencies, partner with visual branding and web development firms, and serve clients across the U.S. and abroad. Offerings Include: Branding, Naming, Messaging, Content Marketing, Website Strategy and Optimized Copy/SEO, Market Intelligence, Project Management, Ghostwriting, Asset and Sales Collateral Production. https://www.linkedin.com/in/rachellekuramoto-watchwordbrand-atlanta-branding Brief Description of Service:  48in48 mobilizes marketing and technology professionals to serve nonprofits worldwide. 48in48 holds signature events in cities across the globe, each event building 48 nonprofit websites in 48 hours. Since inception in 2015, 48in48 and its 900+ volunteers and many corporate partners have served 700+ nonprofits and created $19 million of impact, which is about $1.5M services donated to nonprofits per city each year. 48in48 serves nonprofits who have an operating budget under $3 million, who have a nonproselytizing initiative, and who are legally recognized as a nonprofit. 48in48 also provides a rare skills-based volunteer opportunity for those in marketing and technology to have a significant impact on nonprofits both locally and worldwide, using their unique talents for good. Topics to Discuss:  48in48 Story about why we started. The reason 48in48 is important to volunteers and for nonprofits What's Next - our goal to be in 48 cities worldwide Why give to 48in48 Web Site / Linkedin / Social Media Links:  http://www.48in48.org https://48in48.org/giving-tuesday-homepage https://www.instagram.com/48in48 https://twitter.com/48in48org https://www.facebook.com/48in48org https://www.linkedin.com/company/48in48 Robin Stern Be Better Not Bitter, INC.  Brief Description of Product or Service:  Be Better Not Bitter Is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit Georgia Corporation with a mission to give back to the community what we have been so freely and graciously given. We are partnering with industry and business to reach a group of undiscovered geniuses, to give them an opportunity to have an employable skill NOW. Topics to Discuss:  Current projects and projections for March4Tech our computer training / mentoring class that just completed its 3 year. General mentality of the giving process and how philanthropy in any form is beneficial to not only the recipient but the giver and the entire community overall.     Web Site / Linkedin / Social Media Links:  http://bbnb.org http://march4tech.com https://www.facebook.com/bbnbinc https://www.facebook.com/march4tech

The Smart Girl Tribe Podcast
Gaslighting and how parents gaslight with Dr. Robin Stern | PART ONE

The Smart Girl Tribe Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2022 42:25


Dr. Robin Stern is a licensed psychoanalyst, co-founder and associate director for the Yale centre for emotional intelligence and an associate research scientist at the child study centre at Yale. Robin is the leading expert on gaslighting and is the author of The Gaslight Effect. Listen in to hear us talk about:  - Gaslighting and the first signs you are being gaslighted.  - Gaslighting personalities.  - The stages of gaslighting. - Gaslighting language being used in the mass media and the MeToo movement. - Ways to gas-proof your life. - Gaslighting in relationships. - The ways parents gaslight.    Grab Our Bestselling Book  Listen to the Podcast  Join the Community  

It's the Bottom Line that Matters Podcast
Using Google's Tools to Get You More Customers & Revenues- It's the Bottom Line that Matters Podcast with Guest Robin Stern

It's the Bottom Line that Matters Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2022 46:47


There are so many ways that you can be spending your time and resources to attract new business. One of the easiest ways is by using tools that Google offers to find your ideal clients and get more opportunities to make more money. Watch and learn how easy it can be to use Google's business tools to make a difference in helping your business reach new consumers and prospective clients and why you want to be jumping in on the bandwagon before your competition eats your lunch. About Robin: Robin Stern serves businesses with getting found and looking great online and IRL. Grow with Google High Impact Partner for the last 6 years teaching how to optimize your Google Business presence. With 35 years in graphics and online marketing, Robin is the owner of iluvmygeek.com, a 15-year old, 500+ 5 Star Google rated computer store (yes, brick and mortar) with 3 employees and planning to open 5 more locations in the next 5 years. Slides referenced in the presentation can be found at https://robinstern.live/slides-for-gmb-presentation

Deconstructing Gaslighting™
Why Deconstructing Gaslighting?

Deconstructing Gaslighting™

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2022 43:33


In this episode, Sarah shares her passion for this podcast, the meaning and significance behind the concept of “Deconstructing”, AND WHY is it a crucial part of getting free and healing from gaslighting.  Listen in as Sarah and her guest, Lauren, talk about Lauren's experiences of Deconstructing Gaslighting, and how it can be helpful in transforming your life.  You'll smile as you hear Lauren's giggles throughout, raise a “ME TOO”, as Lauren talks about how gaslighting caused debilitating anxiety, and shout out a “YES QUEEN”, as we talk about how identifying the self-gaslighting allows us to re-write the narrative.  Lauren is a registered nurse, wife, mom, fiery Aries, passionate feminist, and all-around badass!  Word of the day: Deconstruct - to break something down into its separate parts in order to understand its meaning, especially when this is different from how it was previously understood. Story time: Why (and what is) Deconstructing? Why as a podcast? #1 – Validation, shame reduction, solidarity and community #2 – To empower/educate by giving names to things Why “Deconstructing”? Sarah flies her nerd flag proud as takes you back to her love of chemistry in 9th grade, and how her love of the science lab taught her that the more we are familiar with something, the more we can recognize it in different forms/surroundings/circumstances.  Sarah works with gaslighting the same way: gaslighting can show up different ways, with different people, in different situations.   What is Deconstructing Gaslighting? In Sarah's (free) https://www.sarahmoralescoaching.com/copy-of-mastermind (workshop), she explains how there are two components to a gaslighting experience – what the gaslighter is doing, and what happens inside the person being gaslit. In her work, she has taken both components and looked at all the moving parts. The things she will talk about in this podcast are: 1) The gaslighter's level of awareness, agenda/reason they may be gaslighting, methods, techniques, tactics, common phrases used and the roles someone may step into. 2) The stages of a gaslighting relationship (per Dr. Robin Stern) and two things about the gaslightee - risks/vulnerabilities, and the traps. In this podcast, we won't do a deep dive, but I'll name things from these categories, so that you can begin to understand them somewhat. (If you're interested in doing the deep-dive, check out my 12-week program https://www.sarahmoralescoaching.com/e2-apply (here)). Set your alarm: Embrace (your) Awakening.  Embrace the process – commit to YOURSELF.  Closing: Thank you for listening!  If you liked it, please leave a review and subscribe, and if you think others would benefit from it, please share it.  And remember – it's not about becoming who you want to be, it's about awakening all that you already are! Visit Sarah's website to download her FREE guide and/or Assessment https://www.sarahmoralescoaching.com/ (here) Have a question you'd like Sarah to answer? Submit questions https://www.sarahmoralescoaching.com/contact (here) Want to be on the podcast and have Sarah deconstruct your gaslighting experience? Request to be on podcast https://www.sarahmoralescoaching.com/contact (here)

Bookey App 30 mins Book Summaries Knowledge Notes and More
The Gaslight Effect:How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life by Robin Stern

Bookey App 30 mins Book Summaries Knowledge Notes and More

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2022 12:41


This book presents us with thorough research on a manipulation tactic called gaslighting. Where does this name come from? During the initial stages of her research, Dr. Stern couldn't quite put her finger on the phenomenon. Despite this, she knew that it was there, and it was real. Then, she recalled the term ‘gaslighting' that had occasionally been used since the release of a 1944 film called Gaslight. In this film, a husband convinces his wife that she is insane, in order to take her inheritance. At first, the wife maintains her grip on reality, but as he manipulates her perceptions of reality, she begins to believe that what he says is true. His main argument centers on her hallucinating that the gas lights in their house are dimming, while in reality he is controlling them. The husband in the movie is consciously manipulating his wife in order to obtain her tangible property. However, in real life the one doing the gaslighting – the gaslighter – often doesn't realize what they are doing.

OMGtalk SMALL BUSINESS OWNER PODCAST
ROBIN STERN ENTREPRENEUR MARINE BE BETTER NOT BITTER

OMGtalk SMALL BUSINESS OWNER PODCAST

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2021 21:44


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Making Positive Psychology Work Podcast
Do You Have a Positive Strategy for Gaslighting? with Dr. Robin Stern

Making Positive Psychology Work Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2021 32:09


In this week’s podcast, we explore what gaslighting is, how it can play out in our workplaces, and positive strategies we can employ when faced with it. Connect with Dr. Robin Stern: https://robinstern.com/ You’ll Learn: [02:23] - Robin shares with us what gaslighting is. [04:01] - Robin shares what gaslighting can look like at work. [06:04] - Robin shares an example of gaslighting at work. [09:49] - Robin shares the impact gaslighting has on people in the workplace. [11:05] - Robin explains how gaslighting is something that builds up over time and chips away at your confidence. [13:01] - Robin shares how we’re not born gaslighters and that this is something we learn.  [14:05] - Robin shares what motivates a person to gaslight another. [16:59] - Robin shares the signs you’re experiencing gaslighting. [19:72] - Robin shares positive strategies to use when experiencing gaslighting. [21:40] - Robin shares preemptive strategies for tackling gaslighting. [26:55] - Robin enters the lightning round. Thanks for listening! MPPW Podcast on Facebook Permission to Feel by Marc Brackett Thanks so much for joining me again this week.  If you enjoyed this episode, please share it using the social media buttons you see at the bottom of this post. Please leave an honest review for the Making Positive Psychology Work Podcast on iTunes. Ratings and reviews are extremely helpful and greatly appreciated. They do matter in the rankings of the show, and I read each and every one of them.  And don’t forget to subscribe to the show on iTunes to get automatic updates. It’s free! You can also listen to all the episodes of Making Positive Psychology Work streamed directly to your smartphone or iPad through stitcher. No need for downloading or syncing. Until next time, take care!  Thank you, Robin!

The Wisdom Daily
What your jealous feelings are telling you (and what you should do about them)

The Wisdom Daily

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2021 14:23


A degree of jealousy can be useful. A lot of it can be toxic and destructive. May 9, 2019, 8:45 PM PST By Sarah DiGiulio At one time or another, we've probably all felt the twinge of the green-eyed monster. Is my boyfriend's banter with his attractive, known-each-other-since-kindergarten best friend more than that of “just friends”? Does my boss think more of the other junior associate than of me? Why did my best friend invite her to the movies, but not me? Jealousy is the emotion we feel when we feel fearful of losing someone or a relationship that is very important to us, Robin Stern, PhD, associate director for the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence, tells NBC News BETTER. src: https://www.nbcnews.com/better/lifestyle/what-your-jealous-feelings-are-telling-you-what-you-should-ncna1002411 narrated by: Medardo Jr. Magallanes Lazarte

Mind Wide Open
Dr. Robin Stern

Mind Wide Open

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2021 23:04


https://robinstern.com/Robin Stern, Ph.D, is the author of two critically acclaimed books: The Gaslight Effect and Project Rebirth and the Co-founder and Associate Director for the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and an Associate Research Scientist at the Child Study Center at Yale.She is a licensed psychoanalyst with thirty years of experience treating individuals, couples, and families and is also the co-developer of RULER, an acronym for the five key emotion skills of recognizing, understanding, labeling, expressing, and regulating emotions. RULER is an evidence-based approach to social and emotional learning that is in place in 2700 schools across the US and internationally.Robin's work has received attention and accolades from major media outlets such as The Today Show, NPR, Time, Psychology Today, Huffington Post, Washington Post, The Hill, and Harvard Business Review, among many others. She has been a guest on local and national radio shows including NPR and WNYC and has been published in places such as VICE and Refinery 29.Robin practices in NYC and splits her time between NY and in New Haven, CT at the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence.

The Patricia Raskin Show
Emotional Intelligence and Cyberbullying

The Patricia Raskin Show

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2013 31:41


Tune in as Patricia interviews Robin Stern, a licensed psychoanalyst, educator, and author, with over twenty-five years of experience treating individuals, couples, and groups. Robin is the co-author of many articles in the field of social emotional learning and two books on emotional intelligence for educators. Stern is Associate Director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and the co-developer of Facebook's new process to help teens get help when they encounter unwanted or bullying messages on line, and the new Bully Prevention Hub. Joining her will be Marc Brackett, Director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence. October is National Bullying Prevention Month. They will discuss their Facebook campaign, against bullying.

The Patricia Raskin Show
Emotional Intelligence and Cyberbullying

The Patricia Raskin Show

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2013 31:41


Tune in as Patricia interviews Robin Stern, a licensed psychoanalyst, educator, and author, with over twenty-five years of experience treating individuals, couples, and groups. Robin is the co-author of many articles in the field of social emotional learning and two books on emotional intelligence for educators. Stern is Associate Director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and the co-developer of Facebook's new process to help teens get help when they encounter unwanted or bullying messages on line, and the new Bully Prevention Hub. Joining her will be Marc Brackett, Director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence. October is National Bullying Prevention Month. They will discuss their Facebook campaign, against bullying.

The Patricia Raskin Show
Project Rebirth

The Patricia Raskin Show

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 12, 2011 29:37


Join nationally recognized multi-media radio talk show host and award winning producer Patricia Raskin, as she interviews Dr. Robin Stern, co-author of Project Rebirth: Survival and the Strength of the Human Spirit from 9/11 Survivors. Dr. Stern will discuss some inspirational stories of individuals who put their lives back together again after 9/11 and the testament to our ability to live through grief and come out the other side.

The Patricia Raskin Show
Project Rebirth

The Patricia Raskin Show

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 12, 2011 29:37


Join nationally recognized multi-media radio talk show host and award winning producer Patricia Raskin, as she interviews Dr. Robin Stern, co-author of Project Rebirth: Survival and the Strength of the Human Spirit from 9/11 Survivors. Dr. Stern will discuss some inspirational stories of individuals who put their lives back together again after 9/11 and the testament to our ability to live through grief and come out the other side.