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Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2020 43:04

This is a call about issue-based relationships. Today’s caller, Megan, is curious about whether she should go back to a relationship that is on a break. She wants to know if an issue-based relationship can turn into a healthy relationship. I explain what an issue-based relationship is and give her some guidance about how to listen to her inner knowing. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode236] The five relationships are issue-based, journey mate, compatibility, fantasy, and side-by-side partnership. Not every relationship is made to last forever or should last forever. Different relationships come for different reasons and teach us different things. When we understand what type of relationship we have then it is a little bit easier to deal with. An issue-based relationship is when our childhood wounds attract us to each other. We tend to date our unresolved issues from our childhood. Normally one person dumps feelings all over the other and the other person either dumps feelings back or tries to clean up the mess. They keep triggering each other and playing out patterns. When couples go to couple’s counseling it doesn’t really work because they keep trying to work on the relationship but they should be working on their own issues. It’s like two people who speak totally different languages and you are trying to teach them how to speak a third language. For people in issue-based relationships, I recommend taking a break and separating, working on themselves, and then re-evaluating the relationship. By then they may decide the relationship is not what they want or they get back together. March 18, 2020, Stefanos and I are co-hosting a group call about relationships. Go to ChristineHassler.com/group. If you missed my live group coaching call about how to care for your energetic and spiritual hygiene and cope during times of stress download it for free at Christinehassler.com/group-coaching-replays/ Consider/Ask Yourself: Is there someone from your past that you are considering bringing back into your life? Are you in an issue-based relationship? Have you been in a relationship that has felt like great chemistry but it was actually codependence? Are you willing to be on your own, or not in a relationship, for as long as it takes to see clearly what you need from a relationship? Megan’s Question: Megan would like to know if an issue-based relationship can turn into a healthy relationship. Megan’s Key Insights and Ahas: She attended my Spring Retreat. She is in an issue-based relationship. She entered into the relationship from an unhealthy space. She has an opportunity to reconnect with her boyfriend who she has strong feelings for. She has a pattern of giving men multiple chances. Her father wasn’t emotionally available. She feels an extremely strong connection to her boyfriend. She has a pattern of asking external sources for answers to her internal questions. She wants to get more into her healthy masculine. How to Get Over It and On With It: She may want to let her boyfriend complete his coaching before reconnecting. She needs to trust herself and her inner knowing. She should reaffirm advice from others by writing it down and considering how it feels to her. She should pray for the highest good of all parties. Assignments and Takeaways: Relationships are always learning opportunities. Look at your triggering relationships and consider what they are reflecting back to you. If you are in an issue-based relationship and are not getting anywhere, take a break and work separately for a year and then see where you stand. Evaluate the kind of partner you are being to yourself and work on your self-care and self-love. Sponsor: LOLA — offers a modern approach to feminine care that is for women by women. It is the best way to get 100% organic cotton tampons, pads, and cleansing wipes you can feel good about delivered to your home. Lola products are free of chemicals, fragrances, or dyes. Go to MyLola.com to customize your subscription and use the code ‘OVERIT30’ to get 30% off your first month’s subscription. Get a starter pack subscription for just $5. Resources: Christine Hassler — Join the Free Over It and On With It Community Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner Christine on Facebook Expectation Hangover, by Christine Hassler @ChristinHassler on Twitter @ChristineHassler on Instagram Assist@ChristineHassler.com — For men interested in being on the show

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3 Backbend Cues for Tweaky Knees or Hips

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 2, 2020 42:44

Jason and I recorded this episode live at LoveStoryYoga in San Francisco at the Module 1 Advanced Studies training. Since the students are currently focusing on the hips and legs, we thought we'd take a look at backbending techniques. Jason unpacks some of the conventional wisdom about the alignment of this category of poses and then offers some unconventional options for those who don't fit the blueprint.The bottom line is this: Since there are many different body types, there is often more than one "right" way to approach pose alignment.We talk about: * Three different approaches to try to troubleshoot knee pain during backbends* When it might be OK for the feet to not be perfectly parallel in backbends like Urdhva Dhanurasana * Why Jason no longer subscribes to any hard rules for how to tilt the pelvis in backbends (in other words, whether you should "tuck" the tailbone or not) and what he does instead to find a balanced arc* Strategies for preparing the arms and shoulders for postures like Urdhva Dhanurasana (Upward Bow Pose or Wheel Pose)Show notes: jasonyoga.com/podcast/episode180SHOUT-OUT TO OUR SPONSORSGet your yoga studio in a flow with Acuity Scheduling, the all-in-one scheduling tool for classes and private sessions. How Acuity works is simple: we clear the minds of busy studio owners and managers (just like you!) by handling all of the day-to-day booking and billing drudgery, freeing you up to be fully present in the moment. As a special bonus for our friends at Yogaland, your first 45 days of Acuity are 100% free – no credit card needed! All you have to do is sign up at acuityscheduling.com.Women shouldn’t have to compromise when it comes to feminine products. And, with Lola, there are no compromises. Lola products are 100 percent natural, made of 100 percent organic cotton with no added chemicals, fragrances, synthetics, or dyes. Plus, they now offer new hypoallergenic cleansing wipes. Their online subscription service is fully customizable, so it’s one less thing to worry about. For 30 percent off all subscriptions, visit Mylola.com and enter code YOGALAND30 when you subscribe.Aera is a better, safer way to diffuse essential oils. Easy, press-and-play aromatherapy capsules with no mixing, heating, or cleaning needed so it doesn’t add an additional stress of another to-do to your life. For 20% off diffusers and free shipping, go to AeraforHome.com and use code YOGALAND at check out. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

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Ep156: Phone Sex & Whiskey Clit Feat. Fairy HoeMother

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Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2020 83:10

Hey WhoreHive! This week your favorite dynamic duo is joined by the FairyHoe Mother! They discussed: scoring on the last day of All-Star Weekend, keeping a list of the bodies you caught, fucking while listening to a podcast, finna nut, phone sex, paying for a cuddle buddy, and much more. Loved our guest? Make sure you follow them! Instagram - @FairyHoeMother1 Website - HoeU.org Thank you to our sponsors! Get 50% any one item + 10 FREE gifts + Free shipping on Adam&Eve Visit adamandeve.com and use Promocode: WD50 Save 30% off your first months subscription on MyLola.com using Promocode: wdp30 Try it for free! New way to receive birth control! Sign up now and visit SimpleHealth.com/wdpod and use Promocode: wdpod All caught up? Become a patron to receive access to THREE bonus episodes every month at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions GET YOUR TICKETS NOW! Whoreible Decisions LIVE is coming to your city! Get your tickets now before they sell out! Get your tickets to see your favorite podcast duo live at whoreibledecisions.com We have also released tickets for the following cities: 3/4 Charlotte, NC 3/7 Orlando, FL 3/20 Atlanta, GA 3/27 Toronto 4/5 San Francisco, CA 4/9 Los Angeles, CA Get your tickets now at whoreibledecisions.com

Healing from an eating disorder with Nicole Bell

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2020 45:50

Most of us struggle with body image on some level. Depending on a lot of factors yoga can be instrumental in helping us learn to love and accept our bodies--or trigger us. Today’s guest, Nicole Bell, has experienced both sides first hand. Nicole's spiral into Anorexia coincided with her intense love of Bikram yoga. As she tells it, the classes were more like punishment than a refuge for her. Years later she found herself in a yoga studio again, only this time she has a very different mind set. “Even after all the restricting and after bullying myself and my body for so many years, I’m finally starting to listen,” she says. “I don’t need to do the full bind all the time or all of the Chaturangas. I’m not trying to prove myself to anybody. I’m trying to make myself feel good. That’s it.”Her story is a powerful reminder that we are all struggling in one way or another. As she points out in this episode, finding a practice that raises your awareness of how you speak to yourself and encourages you to be kinder is one way to come through it stronger, wiser, and more capable.Show notes: http://www.jasonyogacom/podcast/episode179SHOUT OUT TO OUR SPONSORSAcuity is a scheduling assistant that works 24/7 behind the scenes to fill your calendar and takes hours of work off your plate — so you can keep your zen, and focus on all the other important aspects of your yoga business or side hustle. For a limited time only, you can get 45 days of Acuity Scheduling absolutely free - no credit card required - by going to acuityscheduling.com/yogaland.Women shouldn’t have to compromise when it comes to feminine products. And, with Lola, there are no compromises. Lola products are 100 percent natural, made of 100 percent organic cotton with no added chemicals, fragrances, synthetics, or dyes. Plus, they now offer new hypoallergenic cleansing wipes. Their online subscription service is fully customizable, so it’s one less thing to worry about. For 30 percent off all subscriptions, visit Mylola.com and enter code YOGALAND30 when you subscribe.Hydrant is more than a flavoring mix. It does have great, refreshing flavor, but the mix of key electrolytes is scientifically formulated to jump start the body's natural hydrating process. Hydrant also contains a small amount of all natural cane sugar. This is not a mistake - glucose is essential to the body's hydration process. For 25% off your first order, go to DrinkHydrant.com and enter promo code YOGALAND at checkout. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

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Ep 102: The Circumstantial Case (Ashley McArthur Trial)

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Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2020 66:57

What happened to 33-year-old Taylor Wright? In September 2017, Taylor’s body was found on a friend’s family farm. But without any solid direct evidence linking that friend to the crime, would justice ever be served for Taylor? This episode was researched and written by Jennifer Tintner from the Law & Crime Trial Network. Follow Jennifer on Twitter @JenniferTintner. Sponsors in this episode: - Best Fiends - Download Best Fiends FREE on the Apple App Store or Google Play. - LOLA - Get 30% off your first month’s subscription. Just visit MyLola.com and enter COURT30 when you subscribe. - Rothys - Check out all the amazing styles available right now at Rothys.com/COURT. - The RealReal - Consign with The RealReal today and earn up to 85% commission plus site credit. Go to TheRealReal.com. - Jenny Craig - Get 8 days of free food + a FREE DNA kit when you go to JennyCraig.com/COURT. Please consider supporting Court Junkie with as little as $3 a month via Patreon.com/CourtJunkie to receive ad-free episodes. Help support Court Junkie with $6 a month and get access to bonus monthly episodes. Follow me on Twitter @CourtJunkiePod or Instagram at CourtJunkie.

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EP 232: Make Choices with Clarity and Stop Sabotaging Patterns with Megan

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2020 39:01

This episode is about asking for what you need in relationships. Today’s caller, Megan, feels overwhelmed when faced with too many choices and is afraid to be truly seen. She doesn’t want her pattern of uncertainty to sabotage her new relationship. Like in many coaching sessions, her initial question isn’t exactly what we focus on. This is for anyone who has trouble making decisions, doubts themselves, or is in sabotaging patterns. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode232] For empaths, love can feel overwhelming because we love so deeply. When we are in a relationship it can feel smothering and overwhelming. Instead of communicating that we need boundaries and space with love we are often afraid of confrontation or don’t want to make the other person upset. So, we unconsciously push them away by either judging them internally, nitpicking, or acting out in other ways. Empaths need to know what they need — especially at the beginning of the relationship. When you are first dating someone you need to be vocal and ask for what you need. Boundaries in a relationship and asking for what you need is important. That way you don’t have to build walls. You can have a door and that door can be open most of the time but sometimes you need to shut it and put on the do not disturb sign. The people in your life that love you will understand. It will allow them to spend time with themselves. When our heart is broken either through a breakup or the death of someone, we want to love again but we are scared because it feels risky. Fear of making the wrong decision will keep you from making the decision. Basically, fear complicates everything in your life. The more you can drop into love and your inner knowing and move out of the energy of fear the more clarity you will have in all aspects of your life. I am a proud sponsor of B-school which is an online training program for modern entrepreneurs taught by Marie Forleo. When you register through my link you will receive special bonuses from me. I include four group coaching calls of 90 min each, four custom meditations for entrepreneurs, access to my Facebook group, a one day retreat, plus free access to my master class for coaches. Go to ChristineHassler.com/bschool or email Jill@ChristineHassler.com for more information. For free training videos from Marie go to ChristineHassler.com/training. Consider/Ask Yourself: Do you notice you have sabotaging behaviors? You can get close to what you want but then sabotaging thoughts or behaviors show up. When it comes to making decisions do you struggle and wonder if you made the right choice? Or, that you should be “doing something different.” Have you lost someone you love either through the ending of a relationship or a death and you are scared to open your heart again? Do you make time regularly to connect to your inner wisdom and get answers from there? Megan’s Question: Megan has a recurring pattern of feeling as if she isn’t doing the right thing or feels she should be doing something else and would like guidance on how to change it. Megan’s Key Insights and Ahas: She is an empath. She is in a new relationship. She is aware of her patterns. Her mother tried to control what she was eating. She is overwhelmed with too many choices. She is afraid of another heartbreak. She feels safer when she is alone. She has created a fortress around her heart. She is afraid to be seen. She is filled with doubt about her ability to write a book. How to Get Over It and On With It: She needs to establish healthy boundaries in her new relationship. She needs to ask for what she needs. She needs to recognize her gift of feeling deeply. She needs to connect more deeply to the divine inside of her. Takeaways: Make sure you have boundaries, not barriers. Don’t build a fortress around yourself. Just put up the ‘do not disturb’ sign for a while. Risk big when it comes to loving! When fear comes up, remind yourself that with fear you are already in loss. If you are afraid of letting someone in, journal about what you don’t want someone else to see. Often, we don’t know what we are hiding. My 6-step Process to Making Intuitive Decisions is my gift to you. Send a text to 444999 and put ‘Christine’ in the subject line. If you are outside of the U.S. email assist@christinehassler.com and request the free gift. Sponsor: LOLA — offers a modern approach to feminine care that is for women by women. It is the best way to get 100% organic cotton tampons, pads, and cleansing wipes you can feel good about delivered to your home. Lola products are free of chemicals, fragrances, or dyes. Go to MyLola.com to customize your subscription and use the code ‘OVERIT30’ to get 30% off your first month’s subscription. Get a starter pack subscription for just $5. Resources: Christine Hassler — Join the Free Over It and On With It Community. To watch episodes of coaching sessions, go to Youtube.com/christinehassler Christine’s Personal Mastery Course Christine’s Signature Retreat Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner Christine on Facebook Christine’s Books, including Expectation Hangover @ChristinHassler on Twitter @ChristineHassler on Instagram Assist@ChristineHassler.com — To provide feedback Get on the Waitlist to Be Coached on this Podcast

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How to manage hypermobility in the yoga room with Jules Mitchell

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Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2020 43:00

You may have noticed a pendulum swing when it comes to yoga poses that require extreme amounts of flexiblity. Just as we glorified the idea of throwing both legs behind our head in Yoganidrasana, many of us are now worried that we've been doing too far, exploiting our "hypermobility" and potentially causing soft tissue injuries or arthritis down the line. But what exactly is hypermobility? Is it the same thing as being flexible? Can we tell if we or our students have it? Most importantly, what do we do about it?For this important episode, I've invited biomechanics researcher Jules Mitchell back to help clarify. (You can also hear Jules on episode 160, "The Science of Stretching and Strength.")Show notes: http://www.jasonyoga.com/podcast/episode178SHOUT TO OUR SPONSORSAcuity is a scheduling assistant that works 24/7 behind the scenes to fill your calendar and takes hours of work off your plate — so you can keep your zen, and focus on all the other important aspects of your yoga business or side hustle. For a limited time only, you can get 45 days of Acuity Scheduling absolutely free - no credit card required - by going to acuityscheduling.com/yogaland.Women shouldn’t have to compromise when it comes to feminine products. And, with Lola, there are no compromises. Lola products are 100 percent natural, made of 100 percent organic cotton with no added chemicals, fragrances, synthetics, or dyes. Plus, they now offer new hypoallergenic cleansing wipes. Their online subscription service is fully customizable, so it’s one less thing to worry about. For 30 percent off all subscriptions, visit Mylola.com and enter code YOGALAND30 when you subscribe.KiwiCo creates super cool hands-on projects for kids to make learning about STEAM fun! (STEAM = Science, Technology, Engineering, Art, and Math). These boxes are designed by experts and tested by kids. No need to research or worry about gathering all the supplies! For your first month free, go to kiwico.com/YOGALAND today.Whatever your style, Betabrand has the pants to match. Choose from dozens of colors, patterns, cuts, and styles - like boot-cut, straight leg, skinny, cropped, and more - they even have a pair with 8 (yes, 8!) pockets. And now they also offer premium denim with the same flexibility and comfort as yoga pants. To get 20% off your first order, go to Betabrand.com/YOGALAND today. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

A Young Yoga Teacher Tells His Story

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Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2020 36:29

This week, I'm joined by Tabay Atkins and his mom Sahel Anvarinejad. Tabay contacted us awhile back to inquire if we’d be OK with a 14-year-old attending one of Jason’s advanced teacher training modules. It turns out that when Tabay was 11, he became one of the youngest certified yoga teachers in the U.S, and he has been teaching donation-based yoga at his mother’s studio in San Clemente, CA ever since. As a mom myself, I’m always interested in what it takes to help young kids get into yoga and mindfulness, so I thought it would be fun to talk to Tabay about his journey and why he’s decided to deepen his understanding of yoga through advanced trainings. The stories that both he and his mom share warmed my heart, and I know it will warm yours too.A few things we talk about:* Why Sahel got her start in yoga and how it made Tabay want to practice even though he was only six years old.* How Sahel's experience of healing through yoga led Tabay to want to become a teacher.* How they discovered vegan cooking and eating together.* What we can expect to see from Tabay in the coming years.Show notes: http://www.jasonyoga.com/podcast/episode177SHOUTOUT TO OUR SPONSORSAcuity is a scheduling assistant that works 24/7 behind the scenes to fill your calendar and takes hours of work off your plate — so you can keep your zen, and focus on all the other important aspects of your yoga business or side hustle. For a limited time only, you can get 45 days of Acuity Scheduling absolutely free - no credit card required - by going to acuityscheduling.com/yogaland.Women shouldn’t have to compromise when it comes to feminine products. And, with Lola, there are no compromises. Lola products are 100 percent natural, made of 100 percent organic cotton with no added chemicals, fragrances, synthetics, or dyes. Plus, they now offer new hypoallergenic cleansing wipes. Their online subscription service is fully customizable, so it’s one less thing to worry about. For 30 percent off all subscriptions, visit Mylola.com and enter code YOGALAND30 when you subscribe. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Making Yoga More Accessible with Jivana Heyman

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Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2020 45:26

Today's guest is Jivana Heyman. Jivana is the founder of Accessible Yoga, an organization that focuses on "sharing the benefits of yoga with anyone who currently does not have access to these practices, and with communities that have been excluded or underserved." Jivana seamlessly weaves together his background in social activism with his passion for yoga in his latest book, Accessible Yoga: Poses and Practices for Every Body." He has a unique ability to honor and respect the yoga tradition while making it so beautifully clear and simple. One of my favorite parts of the book is how he describes yoga as, "calm mind, open heart."We also talk about why he feels that yoga, at its core, is naturally inclusive and accessible to all, what it means to do "advanced yoga," and his vision for a truly accessible yoga classroom. Show notes: http://www.jasonyoga.com/podcast/episode176SHOUTOUT TO OUR SPONSORSAcuity is a scheduling assistant that works 24/7 behind the scenes to fill your calendar and takes hours of work off your plate — so you can keep your zen, and focus on all the other important aspects of your yoga business or side hustle. For a limited time only, you can get 45 days of Acuity Scheduling absolutely free - no credit card required - by going to acuityscheduling.com/yogaland.With Joybird, your personal one-of-a-kind style should match your furniture. Bring your moodboards to life with hundreds of customizable pieces and over 50 fabric options. Go to joybird.com/YOGALAND and receive an exclusive offer for 25% off your first order by using the code YOGALAND.If you want to wow your Valentine this year, send them bite-sized cupcakes from Baked by Melissa! Choose from White Chocolate Cookies & Cream, Red Velvet, Milk Chocolate, Dulce de Leche, and more. Plus, there are vegan and gluten free options. Go to Bakedbymelissa.com/yogaland and use promo code yogaland to get 15-percent off your order.Women shouldn’t have to compromise when it comes to femininte products. And, with Lola, there are no compromises. Lola products are 100 percent natural, made of 100 percent organic cotton with no added chemicals, fragrances, synthetics, or dyes. Plus, they now offer new hypoallergenic cleansing wipes. Their online subscription service is fully customizable, so it’s one less thing to worry about. For 30 percent off all subscriptions, visit Mylola.com and enter code YOGALAND30 when you subscribe. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

EP 228: Getting Out of Your Head with Michelle

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Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2020 42:38

This episode is about getting out of your head and in touch with spirit. Today’s caller, Michelle, is intelligent and has a lot of awareness but her awareness and her thinking are blocking her from a deeper connection to spirit and to the essence of who she truly is. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode228] We can’t answer spiritual questions with the mind. That is just the nature of spiritual questions. They can’t be answered through the intellect. I have found that sometimes the smarter you are, or the more you are in your head, the harder it is to meditate, to find a connection to spirit, and to drop into your heart. It doesn’t mean it’s not possible. It just means when we have a strong mind it likes to hold on to thinking and control with a tighter grip. We think and think and think about how to figure something out but how do we figure out a truth? You can figure out a puzzle, you can figure out a math problem or how to build something but you can’t figure out enoughness. There is no mathematical equation to figure out love. You just feel it. There is no structured formula to tell you that you feel love for somebody. It’s a feeling and so is enoughness and oneness. When we have a strong thinking mind it’s hard to access true unconditional love. It isn’t until we have an experience of God that we really know we are whole and complete and knowing, no matter what. There are only a few spots left for my Signature Spring Retreat. To release self-protective behaviors, heal past pain, and reclaim your confidence, peace, power, and purpose, attend my Spring Retreat in San Diego, March 6th–8th. To accelerate your growth and invest in yourself visit ChristineHassler.com/spring-retreat or email Jill@ChristineHassler.com. Consider/Ask Yourself: Are you someone who really likes to know things? Do you struggle with worthiness or feeling enough? Does some part of you believe that worthiness is based on what you can do or accomplish? Or, that someone else’s worthiness is based on what they can do? Do you feel connected to God? Does satisfaction or fulfillment feel fleeting to you? Michelle’s Question: Michelle believes that worthiness is directly tied to actions and would like guidance on how to reframe the idea and feel worthy from a spiritual perspective. Michelle’s Key Insights and Ahas: She feels unworthy spiritually. She never feels satisfied. She was raised in a religious household but doesn’t subscribe to all the beliefs. She enjoys rules and structure in her life. She teaches yoga. She is mind-dominant. She associates her thoughts with who she is. She is ready to surrender. How to Get Over It and On With It: She needs to figure out who she is, if not her thinking mind. She should consider getting a dog. She needs to give God and the universe permission to send her clear messages or invitations. She needs to adopt a spiritual practice. She needs to see herself through the lens of self-compassion. She needs to consider joining other like-minded people at my Spring Retreat. Takeaways: Listen to last week’s episode, Breaking Up with a Religion. Sign up for my Personal Mastery Course. Put out the call to have a spiritual experience for your highest good to bring in a workshop, the teacher, the ceremony to help you have an experience of God. Sponsor: LOLA — offers a modern approach to feminine care that is for women by women. It is the best way to get 100% organic cotton tampons, pads, and other products you can feel good about delivered to your home. Lola products are free of chemicals, fragrances, or dyes. Go to MyLola.com to customize your subscription and use the code ‘OVERIT30’ to get 30% off your first month’s subscription. Get a starter pack subscription for just $5. Resources: Christine Hassler — Join the Free Over It and On With It Community. To watch episodes of coaching sessions, go to Youtube.com/christinehassler Christine’s Personal Mastery Course Christine’s Signature Retreat Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner Christine on Facebook Christine’s Books, including Expectation Hangover @ChristinHassler on Twitter @ChristineHassler on Instagram Assist@ChristineHassler.com — To provide feedback Get on the Waitlist to Be Coached on this Podcast

The Top Porn Searches

Box of Thoughts

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2019 73:06

On this episode of Box of Thoughts, Gabbie and Irene talk about Amish Instagram, how Irene saved a Baby, and what the most searched for porn was. Make sure to leave us a 5 star review with a cool/funny/interesting comment. We'll read the best ones on air! Thank you to our sponsors for this episode: Get 15% off your first purchase by going to ThirdLove.com/ThoughtsGet 30% off a trial set by going to MyLola.com and use code GabbieGabbie:Twitter: @gabbiehannaInstagram: @gabbiehannaIrene: Twitter: @homemadebyireneInstagram: @homemadebyireneThanks for listening!

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Self-Esteem Meditation

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Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2019 17:16

In this episode Kelly leads you through a guided meditation that helps you quiet your inner critic and embrace who you are and where you are at. This week’s sponsor is LOLA use coupon code MINDFUL at checkout to get 30% off your first trial set today. Mylola.com coupon code mindful Join the 31 day … Continue reading Self-Esteem Meditation →

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The Girl Who Joined The Circus and The World Traveler

Down to Date with Kendall Long

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2019 38:24

Jared and Adriel truly have seen the world. Jared's traveled to almost 20 countries, while Adriel ran off and joined the circus (yes, you read that right). Kendall Long facilitates this first podcast date and finds herself fascinated by the tales of Jared's and Adriel's separate adventures. Jared talks about his worldly travels, experiencing an ayahuasca ceremony, and how that ceremony changed his life. And Adriel can literally eat AND breathe fire. These two have led some incredibly dynamic lives, but are they ready to go on an adventure of LOVE together? http://MyLola.com, enter code Long30 http://Audible.com/DATE or text DATE to 500-500 http://Zola.com/LONG, enter code Paper30 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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EP 221: Overthinking Decisions and Perfectionism with Quigley

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Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2019 53:27

This episode is about releasing your inner overachiever and fully feeling your emotions. Today’s caller, Quigley, has a pattern of overachieving and being a bit of a perfectionist. This pattern has served her and made her successful in many ways but deep down she feels unfulfilled and guilty. It is amazing how patterns and personality structures can take control of our lives. In this call, I share tools and techniques you can use if you relate to having similar traits. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode221] Sponsor: LOLA — offers a modern approach to feminine care that is for women by women. It is the best way to get 100% organic cotton tampons, pads, and other products you can feel good about delivered to your home. Lola products are free of chemicals, fragrances, or dyes. Go to MyLola.com to customize your subscription and use the code ‘OVERIT30’ to get 30% off your first month’s subscription. Resources: Christine Hassler — Join the Free Over It and On With It Community. To watch episodes of coaching sessions, go to Youtube.com/christinehassler Christine’s Personal Mastery Course Christine’s Signature Retreat Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner Christine on Facebook Christine’s Books, including Expectation Hangover @ChristinHassler on Twitter @ChristineHassler on Instagram Assist@ChristineHassler.com — To provide feedback Waitlist@ChristineHassler.com — Get on the waitlist for this show

The Filmmaker and The Total Dude

Down to Date with Kendall Long

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2019 54:02

Trigger Warning: There is brief discussion about wanting to end one’s life around the 30:00 mark (ends around 34:00). What if the first time you had sex, it was inside of a tractor? Cody tells his wild first-time story as he and Kwanza begin their journey through the Jar of Forbidden Questions on their first date accompanied by Kendall Long. Cody’s in Los Angeles pursuing a career in acting and Kwanza is a filmmaker, so they have plenty in common in that regard...AND Kwanza appreciates that Cody is ALL about eye-contact. Emotions turn vulnerable during the In-Depth Questions portion of the show in which Cody reveals that he’s been coming out of a very dark time in his life, attempting to smoke and gamble less. Kwanza is supportive, but are they in the same place in life? This may be the deepest episode of Down to Date and one you don’t want to miss. http://BetterHelp.com/LONG for 10% off your first month http://LucBelaire.com/LONG for 30% off your first order http://MyLola.com and enter code LONG at checkout for 40% off your first month's subscription Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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EP 217: The Impact of an Unsupportive Parent with Sara

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Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2019 41:20

This episode is about working through the unconscious resistance that is keeping you from fully integrating healing work. Today’s caller, Sara, wants to bring love into her life and feels that she has done so much work. She is wondering why the work isn’t working. If you can relate to doing a lot of work but not seeing the impact or you have a lot of awareness but are not seeing the results, this call will help you to understand it and move forward. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode217] Sponsor: LOLA — offers a modern approach to feminine care that is for women by women. It is the best way to get 100% natural tampons, pads, and other products you can feel good about delivered to your home. Lola products are organic and free of chemicals, fragrances, or dyes. Go to MyLola.com to customize your subscription and use the code ‘OVERIT30’ to get 30% off your subscription. You can change, skip, or cancel at any time. Resources: Christine Hassler — Join the Free Over It and On With It Community. To watch episodes of coaching sessions, go to Youtube.com/christinehassler Christine’s Personal Mastery Course Christine’s Signature Retreat Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner Christine on Facebook Christine’s Books, including Expectation Hangover @ChristinHassler on Twitter @ChristineHassler on Instagram Assist@ChristineHassler.com — To provide feedback Waitlist@ChristineHassler.com — Get on the waitlist for this show

HALLOWEEN SPECIAL: Dispelling Myths and Spells with Tarot Card Reader, Ariana Lenarsky

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Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2019 42:09

Jeannie's about to see into her future, fam! On this episode of LISTEN HUNNAY, Jeannie Mai invites tarot card reader, Ariana Lenarsky onto the pod to discuss spells and DISPEL myths about witchcraft and Tarot. Jeannie asks Ariana if witchcraft is anything like the dark portrayals we see in movies like The Craft and whether or not you can truly see into the future with tarot cards. Later, Ariana gives Jeannie her VERY FIRST TAROT READING. Want to know if it's accurate? You gotta listen. http://Bombas.com/MAI for 20% off your first purchase http://MyLola.com/MAI for 30% off your first month's subscription http://Skillshare.com/REAL for 2 months of Skillshare for free Follow Ariana: @dreamcitytarot, @aardvarsk Listen to What's Your Deal - http://bit.ly/WhatsYourDealPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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EP 213: How Your Fear of Failure is Sabotaging Your Success with Lindsey

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Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2019 39:53

This episode is about moving past your fears to take a risk, make a change, or pursue something you love. I coach today’s caller, Lindsey, on how to move from awareness to implementation. She knows the next steps to take but cannot figure out why she isn’t taking them. She thinks her problem is about time management, productivity, and balance but, as you will hear in the call, it’s not about that at all. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode213] Sponsor: LOLA — offers a modern approach to feminine care that is for women by women. It is the best way to get 100% natural tampons, pads, and other products you can feel good about delivered to your home. Lola products are organic and free of chemicals, fragrances or dyes. Go to MyLola.com to customize your subscription and use the code ‘OVERIT30’ to get 30% off your subscription. You can change, skip, or cancel at any time. Resources: Christine Hassler — Join the Free Over It and On With It Community. To watch episodes of coaching sessions, go to Youtube.com/christinehassler Christine’s Personal Mastery Course Christine’s Signature Retreat Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner Christine on Facebook Christine’s Books, including Expectation Hangover @ChristinHassler on Twitter @ChristineHassler on Instagram Assist@ChristineHassler.com — To provide feedback Waitlist@ChristineHassler.com — Get on the waitlist for this show

What Do You Need?

Woman Evolve with Sarah Jakes Roberts

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2019 70:15

SJR and PT covered some interesting but very necessary ground this episode. PT gave lots of insight on soul ties and the cycles of forgiveness. SJR provided her perspective as well and they both touched on how enduring four seasons is good for relationships. Hail Mary to Ms. Oprah and Mary J. Blige, Hail Joseph to Tyler Perry. Coming close to wrapping up the NITW tour, SJR explained how being out of her comfort zone has also made her feel over stretched and how speaking up helped her find some peace. Being mentally and physically healthy is important to SJR. She’s partnered with amazing brands this week, so save some coins with them when you use our “evolve” discount code!! - Visit BetterHelp.com/evolve for their clutch online counseling with trained professionals - You’ll love the all-natural deodorant from Nativecos.com - Shop with MyLola.com for all of your naturally created feminine care products.

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Major Life Changes with D & Dani

The WoMed

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2019 61:01

This week on The WoMed, D has a big announcement to make that leads into an honest and emotional conversation on the realities of nursing and how to lead authentic and meaningful lives while still making sure to make care of yourself. Their Lubrication Question brings them back to their childhood hobbies and favorite indulgences and reveals what age Dani refers to as the best year of her life. The hosts discuss the harsh realities of bedside nursing that has led them both at times to suffer financially, physically, and emotionally, and how there may be other ways to effectively reach people that don’t involve giving up a part of yourself. D and Dani daydream about summer vacation, going off the grid, and potentially running for senate to represent those in healthcare. You can read the New York Times article on burnout that was referenced in today's episode here! Be sure to subscribe, rate and review, and follow us on Instagram and Twitter @TheWoMed! Thank you to our amazing sponsors! Check out these deals for our listeners: Lola- For 30% off your first month’s subscription, visit MyLola.com and enter WOMED30 when you subscribe Your Super- Visit YourSuper.com and get 15% off your order when you use code WOMED at checkout Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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The Double Standard of Man & Lady Parts on Screen with Jacob Berger

No Chaser with Timothy DeLaGhetto

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2019 55:39

Welcome to the best podcast in the world: The No Chaser podcast! This week, Nikki, Ricky, and myself hang out with Jacob Berger and talk about the double standard of "peepees" and "coochies" on screen. Tune in and join the party!Give us 5 stars if you enjoyed the episode and subscribe if you haven't already.You can also find us on Youtube and watch all of our episodes!---Thank you to our sponsors:LOLA: For 40% off your first month’s subscription, visit MyLola.com and enter NOCHASERNative: For 20% off your first purchase, visit NativeDeodorant.com and use promo code NOCHASERRaycon: Go to BuyRaycon.com/NoChaser to get 15% off your order---Follow:Jacob: @jacobbergeractorTim @timothydelaghettoNikki @nikkibladesRicky @rickyshucks

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Jason's Guide to Teaching Private Yoga Sessions

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Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2019 42:11

Being a yoga teacher takes skill, knowledge, dedication, and often, perseverance. But you can have all of those things in spades and never quite earn enough money teaching group classes to be financially secure. Not to mention, racing from one studio to the next teaching group classes can be draining—both physically and mentally. One way to avoid this kind of burnout and bolster a your income is to find a few regular private yoga clients—something Jason enjoyed doing for many years.In this episode, Jason shares his best advice for both the business and methodology of teaching yoga privates.You’ll learn:* Why it’s important to diversify the ways that you teach, both for business reasons and to help you avoid burn-out* How teaching private yoga sessions can build your skill set as a yoga teacher* How to start finding private students and how to price those sessions* How to help students set goals and structure sessions around that* A few ground rules to put into place before you take on a new private clientShow notes: http://www.jasonyoga.com/podcast/episode162SHOUT-OUT TO OUR SPONSORSWomen shouldn’t have to compromise when it comes to feminine products. And, with Lola, there are no compromises. Lola products are 100 percent natural, made of 100 percent organic cotton with no added chemicals, fragrances, synthetics, or dyes. Plus, they now offer new hypoallergenic cleansing wipes. Their online subscription service is fully customizable, so it’s one less thing to worry about. For 40 percent off all subscriptions, visit Mylola.com and enter code YOGALAND40 when you subscribe.Betabrand is an innovative brand of pants based right up the road from me in San Francisco. These dress yoga pants are made of a thicker, wrinkle-resistant fabric than yoga pants, so they are dressy enough for work, but are comfortable and stretchy enough for yoga class. They come in several different styles and colors so you’re sure to find a pair that suits your lifestyle and look. For get 20% off your dress pant yoga pants visit betabrand.com/yogaland today. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Ep. 217 September Issues with Elizabeth and Stephanie

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 12, 2019 58:27

By listener request it's a solo episode with TSR’s hosts (@elizabethkott + @ssimbari), answering audience questions, while highlighting some current roses and a few thorns. Multiple issues are covered in this intimate convo, including: wellness fails, TMJ remedies, vision board party tips, spiritual burnout, igniting self confidence, clairvoyant training, overcoming dating hang-ups, BH90210, clean beauty recs (Odacite and Olaplex), and recycling thorns. If you have a question for TSR that you would like covered on a future episode, email q@thatssoretrograde.com. Thanks to our partners: Ritual.com/retrograde myLola.com code: retrograde40

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The Getting to Know You Episode

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Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2019 45:45

I am so excited to share this new season of Yogaland with you! This week, we kick off the season with a live episode that Jason and I recorded at triyoga in London during Jason’s recent teacher training.If you’re a long-time listener, you might know that both Jason and I identify as introverts. So, we understand why some students tend to shy away from speaking up or asking questions in a large group settings. Jason encourages engagement by asking students in his trainings to split into smaller groups and share what they love about the practice.Today, we’re answering those questions ourselves, so you can get to know us a little bit better, too.You’ll learn:* Our yoga origin stories (why we went to our first yoga class, what it was like, and what kept us coming back!)* What teachers have been most influential for us through the years and how different approaches to the practice have helped us become the yoga practitioners we are today* How and why we decided to make the leap from student to teacher* How we feel that podcasting is similar and different from teaching yogaShow notes: http://www.jasonyoga.com/podcast/episode161SHOUT OUT TO OUR SPONSORSWomen shouldn’t have to compromise when it comes to feminine products. And, with Lola, there are no compromises. Lola products are 100 percent natural, made of 100 percent organic cotton with no added chemicals, fragrances, synthetics, or dyes. Plus, they now offer new hypoallergenic cleansing wipes. Their online subscription service is fully customizable, so it’s one less thing to worry about. For 40 percent off all subscriptions, visit Mylola.com and enter code YOGALAND40 when you subscribe.Betabrand is an innovative brand of pants based right up the road from me in San Francisco. These dress yoga pants are made of a thicker, wrinkle-resistant fabric than yoga pants, so they are dressy enough for work, but are comfortable and stretchy enough for yoga class. They come in several different styles and colors so you’re sure to find a pair that suits your lifestyle and look. For get 20% off your dress pant yoga pants visit betabrand.com/yogaland today. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

EP 208: Breaking the Cycle of Abuse with Joe

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Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2019 45:45

This episode is about breaking the cycle of abuse. Today’s caller, Joe, just got out of a relationship where he abused his ex-girlfriend mentally, emotionally, and physically and she wasn’t the first. Compassion is key as you listen to this call. Being a human being is tricky. We never know someone’s backstory when we judge them. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode208] Sponsor: LOLA — offers a modern approach to feminine care that is for women by women. It is the best way to get 100% natural tampons, pads, and other products you can feel good about delivered to your home. Lola products are organic and free of chemicals, fragrances or dyes. Go to MyLola.com to customize your subscription and use the code ‘OVERIT’ to get 40% off your first month’s subscription. You can change, skip, or cancel at any time. Resources: Christine Hassler — Join the Free Over It and On With It Community. To watch episodes of coaching sessions, go to Youtube.com/christinehassler Christine’s Personal Mastery Course Christine’s Signature Retreat Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner Christine on Facebook Christine’s Books, including Expectation Hangover @ChristinHassler on Twitter @ChristineHassler on Instagram Assist@ChristineHassler.com — To provide feedback Waitlist@ChristineHassler.com — Get on the waitlist for this show

Using Adversity To Push Forward with Coach Katie Sowers

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2019 70:00

Heather shares her experience fleeing the hurricane (on top of everything else!) before she sits down with the offensive assistant coach for the San Francisco 49ers to talk about growing up with football before making her way to the NFL, learning how to handle your online haters and reflecting on the significance of being the first openly LGBT coach in the league's history.And thank you to today's sponsors: Lola = For 40% off all subscriptions, visit MyLola.com and enter CONFIDENCE40 when you subscribeNetSuite = Download your free guide at NetSuite.com/Monahan Pluto TV = Cut the cable cord and download PlutoTV on your streaming devicesReview this podcast on Apple Podcast using this link and when you DM me the screenshot, I'll buy you my $299 video course as a thank you! My book Confidence Creator is available now! If you are looking for more tips you can download my free E-book at my website and thank you! DM your questions for the show DM your questions for the show Instagram | Facebook | Twitter | LinkedIn See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

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Behind the Scenes of Our Ramona Singer vs. RHOP Gizelle Bryant Hamptons Viral Video

Out in the Wild

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2019 48:47

We are here to give you a play-by-play of exactly what happened the other weekend when we caught Ramona asking RHOP’s Gizelle Bryant to leave a photo taken at a Hamptons charity event. You’ll learn how this event was formally Jill Zarin’s Luxury Luncheon, how Jess has made peace with Kristen Taekman, which 'wives were supposed to attend the event but didn't, the OTHER offensive things Ramona did prior to the moment she kicked Gizelle out, our reaction to Andy Cohen using our video as the WWHL Jackhole of the Day, plus the reactions of Dolores Catania, Sonja Morgan & Barbara K to Ramona’s odd behavior evidenced in the viral video. Follow @outinthewildpodcast, @jessxnyc, @davidyontef This ep is sponsored by MyLola.com. For 40% off your first order use the code 'outinthewild'

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EP 203: Stop Running and Rebelling with Jaz

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Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2019 40:49

This episode is about breaking old patterns of running, rebelling, or shutting down. Today’s caller, Jaz, grew up in a chaotic household with no soothing or comfort. Growing up in a non-comforting environment can lead us toward unhealthy coping strategies when we get triggered. We discuss ways she can bring calm and consistency into her life. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode203] Sponsor: LOLA — offers a modern approach to feminine care that is for women by women. It is the best way to get 100% natural tampons, pads, and other products you can feel good about delivered to your home. Lola products are organic and free of chemicals, fragrances or dyes. Go to MyLola.com to customize your subscription and use the code ‘OVERIT’ to get 40% off your first month’s subscription. You can change, skip, or cancel at any time. Resources: Christine Hassler — Join the Free Over It and On With It Community. To watch episodes of coaching sessions, go to Youtube.com/christinehassler Christine’s Personal Mastery Course Christine’s Signature Retreat Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner Christine on Facebook Christine’s Books, including Expectation Hangover @ChristinHassler on Twitter @ChristineHassler on Instagram Assist@ChristineHassler.com — To provide feedback or to get on the waitlist for this show.

The Science of Stretching (and Strength) with Jules Mitchell

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Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2019 54:30

For our season two finale episode, we’re talking to Las Vegas-based yoga teacher and author Jules Mitchell. We dive deep into the biomechanics of yoga in this episode and talk about Jules’ new book, which is a comprehensive look at the science of stretching. We can’t cover the whole book in this short format, but I think you’ll find the highlights are fascinating, thought provoking, and relevant to the broader discussions we’re having in the yoga community today.We talk about: * Why it was so important to Jules to define the anatomy terminology in her book (and why Jason tries to do the same thing in his trainings) + Why language is so important in the yoga room!* She explains what compressive load and tensile load means for listeners* Hypermobility, the pros and cons of passive stretching, and her recommendations for students who are really flexible. Plus, Jules shares why she cautions teachers against diagnosing students with hypermobility (what to do instead).* The long-held myth that strong and flexible are opposite concepts * Her thoughts on yoga as a lifelong practice and whether yogis should incorporate other types of movement and exercise into their routinesShow notes: http://www.jasonyoga.com/podcast/episode160 SHOUT-OUT TO OUR SPONSORSSweaty Betty is a woman-owned activewear company based in the U.K. Their clothing is made of great fabrics and are always a phenomenal fit. Plus, their original styles are really different from what you can get in the U.S. For 20% off your purchase of full priced items go to SweatyBetty.com/podcast and enter promo code YOGALAND now.Women shouldn’t have to compromise when it comes to feminine products. And, with Lola, there are no compromises. Lola products are 100 percent natural, made of 100 percent organic cotton with no added chemicals, fragrances, synthetics, or dyes. Plus, they now offer new hypoallergenic cleansing wipes. Their online subscription service is fully customizable, so it’s one less thing to worry about. For 40 percent off all subscriptions, visit Mylola.com and enter code YOGALAND40 when you subscribe.Offering Tree makes it easy to build your own yoga website in about 30 minutes. It includes class scheduling, appointment booking, online payments, email marketing, website analytics, and more. It’s fully customizable and all services are included so it’s easy to get your business up and running. For 20% off your first 6 months, visit OfferingTree.com/YOGALAND now.Betabrand is an innovative brand of pants based right up the road from me in San Francisco. These dress yoga pants are made of a thicker, wrinkle-resistant fabric than yoga pants, so they are dressy enough for work, but are comfortable and stretchy enough for yoga class. They come in several different styles and colors so you’re sure to find a pair that suits your lifestyle and look. For get 20% off your dress pant yoga pants visit betabrand.com/yogaland today. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

The Secret to Mental Strength with Amy Morin

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2019 60:55

The Secret to mental strength is on my show now! I can’t wait for you to meet @amymorinauthor who is the psychotherapist and international best-selling author of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do as she gets us to focus not on adding more to our routine to become stronger, but letting go of some of our bad habits to become unstoppable.For the next 7 days take this challenge to let go of these habits that hold you back and watch yourself skyrocket!No longer:1. Waste time feeling sorry for yourself.2. Give away your power.3. Shy away from change.4. Squander energy on things you can’t control. 5. Worry about pleasing everyone. 6. Fear taking risks. 7. Dwell on the past. 8. Repeat your mistakes.9. Resent other people’s success. 10. Give up after your first failure.11. Fear “alone time”.12. Feel the world owes you something.13. Expect immediate results. Giving up these habits even if for just a week will build your mental muscle and let you see that anyone can become mentally strong. Which habit will you give up first?And thank you to today's sponsors:FabFitFun = Sign up and $10 off your first box at FabFitFun.com with promo code CONFIDENCELOLA = Get 40% off all subscriptions at MyLOLA.com and enter CONFIDENCE40Review this podcast on Apple Podcast using this link and when you DM me the screenshot, I buy you my $299 video course as a thank you! My book Confidence Creator is available now !If you are looking for more tips you can download my free E-book at my website and thank you!DM your questions for the show Instagram | Facebook | Twitter | LinkedIn See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

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Live Q&A: Thoughts on Creating Authentic Content and Curriculum

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2019 56:22

If there’s one topic that eludes yoga teachers most, it’s not the correct angle of the front knee in Anjaneyasana. It’s how to teach yoga and make a livable wage. We recorded this week's episode live at Jason’s 300-hour training at Lovestory Yoga in San Francisco and answered student questions creating content that's authentic and sustainable.We talk about:* Why quality is so much more important than quantity when it comes to content--even in the fast-paced world of social media* A few ideas for diversifying your streams of income so you’re not relying solely on public yoga classes to pay your bills* How to decide how much content to give away* How to get beyond the daily grind to create a teaching curriculum* When to hire others to help you scale your business (and what to contract out)Show notes: http://www.jasonyoga.com/podcast/episode159SHOUT-OUT TO OUR SPONSORSSweaty Betty is a woman-owned activewear company based in the U.K. Their clothing is made of great fabrics and are always a phenomenal fit. Plus, their original styles are really different from what you can get in the U.S. For 20% off your purchase of full priced items go to SweatyBetty.com/podcast and enter promo code YOGALAND Women shouldn’t have to compromise when it comes to feminine products. And, with Lola, there are no compromises. Lola products are 100 percent natural, made of 100 percent organic cotton with no added chemicals, fragrances, synthetics, or dyes. Plus, they now offer new hypoallergenic cleansing wipes. Their online subscription service is fully customizable, so it’s one less thing to worry about. For 40 percent off all subscriptions, visit Mylola.com and enter code YOGALAND40 when you subscribe.Offering Tree makes it easy to build your own yoga website in about 30 minutes. It includes class scheduling, appointment booking, online payments, email marketing, website analytics, and more. It’s fully customizable and all services are included so it’s easy to get your business up and running. For 20% off your first 6 months, visit OfferingTree.com/YOGALAND See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

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Closing the Wellness Gap with Nicole Cardoza

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2019 37:17

Today’s guest is Nicole Cardoza, founder of Yoga Foster. I couldn't be more excited about Nicole's mission to bring more movement into classrooms across the country. Her approach is innovative, too -- Nicole's background in tech inspired her to create a platform that offers yoga curriculum and teacher trainings to classroom teachers. It's a scalable idea and one that empowers classroom teachers to bring mindfulness breaks into their classrooms throughout the day. I love the idea of yoga being incorporated into the school day in a seamless way. Nicole also opens up about her recent experience doing a cover shoot with Yoga Journal and how important it was for her to speak out about a surprise cover survey they did after the fact. I ask her how she handled a situation that was shaming, ignorant, and racist and turned it into an opportunity to help others.Show notes: http://www.jasonyoga.com/podcast/episode158SHOUT-OUT TO OUR SPONSORSSweaty Betty is a woman-owned activewear clothing company based in the U.K. that has great fabrics with phenomenal fit. Plus, their original styles are really different from what you can get in the U.S. For 20% off your purchase of full priced items go to SweatyBetty.com/podcast and enter promo code YOGALAND now.Women shouldn’t have to compromise when it comes to feminine products. And, with Lola, there are no compromises. Lola products are 100 percent natural, made of 100 percent organic cotton with no added chemicals, fragrances, synthetics, or dyes. Plus, they now offer new hypoallergenic cleansing wipes. Their online subscription service is fully customizable, so it’s one less thing to worry about. For 40 percent off all subscriptions, visit Mylola.com and enter code YOGALAND40 when you subscribe.Offering Tree makes it easy to build your own yoga website in about 30 minutes. It includes class scheduling, appointment booking, online payments, email marketing, website analytics, and more. It’s fully customizable and all services are included so it’s easy to get your business up and running. For 20% off your first 6 months, visit OfferingTree.com/YOGALAND now. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

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EP 200: Breaking Out of the Pattern of Not-Enoughness with Sara

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Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2019 49:51

This episode is about learning to meet your own needs to find fulfillment. Today’s caller, Sara, is not where she wants to be in life. Old programming makes her feel judged and unworthy. Sara, maybe like you, has a soul contract that she is here to learn how to parent herself. She chose parents who didn’t know how to meet her needs and didn’t know how to love her in the way she needed to be loved. We discuss ways she can empower herself to get everything she needs from within. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode200] Sponsor: LOLA — offers a modern approach to feminine care that is for women by women. It is the best way to get 100% natural tampons, pads, and other products you can feel good about delivered to your home. Lola products are organic and free of chemicals, fragrances or dyes. Go to MyLola.com to customize your subscription and use the code ‘OVERIT’ to get 40% off. You can change, skip, or cancel at any time. Resources: Christine Hassler — Join the Free Over It and On With It Community. To watch episodes of coaching sessions, go to Youtube.com/christinehasslerChristine’s Personal Mastery Course Christine’s Signature Retreat Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner Christine on Facebook Christine’s Books, including Expectation Hangover @ChristinHassler on Twitter @ChristineHassler on Instagram Assist@ChristineHassler.com — To provide feedback or to get on the waitlist for this show.

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Your Favorite Thing with Wells & Brandi

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2019 45:01

This week on YFT, Brandi records live from some castle in England while on tour with Miley. Wells gets excited about his upcoming trip to the islands with Sarah and we find out some of the best female cockpit terms from YFT'ers. There's other stuff but Wells is uploading this from vacation and to be honest, he edited the episode while half drunk on a plane and doesn't really remember what they talked about. Enjoy!Thanks to our awesome sponsors! Check out these deals just for YFTers.QUIP - Go to getquip.com/YFT to get your first refill pack for freeLOLA - For 40% off all subscriptions, visit MyLola.com and enter promo code YFT when you subscribeMYRO - Get 50% off your first order by going to MyMyro.com/YFT and use promo code YFT

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Derek and Romaine Get Sexy

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Play Episode Listen Later Jun 14, 2019 42:36

Derek and Romaine have a brand new episode all about sex. DNR share some of their weirdest sex adventures, Romaine delivers some sexpert advice for fans missing the Dildo Whisperer, Derek finds weird sex crimes on The Smoking Gun and the listeners share their wildest adventures on the Hooker Hotline. This bonus episode is presented by MyLola.com. Be sure to use offer code DNR with your order. Derek and Romaine is a fun daily digital radio show. Listen live like a radio show, download anytime like a podcast! This free podcast is just a sample of the great content available everyday to subscribers. Subscribers can listen live weekdays or download anytime for just $6.95/month at derekandromaine.com. Great guests, lively banter and live phone calls from listeners like you from all across North America make the DNRShow something special. Plus hundreds of hours of past shows in the Audio Archive and streaming access to other shows in the DNRStudios network make subscribing a great bargain. Don't miss out! Plus with one click, add the live show and audio archive to iTunes and the Podcasts app on your iPhone or iPad, or for Android and other smart phone users, add your private URL to your fave podcast app! Listen anytime, anywhere! LGBTQ and straight allies welcome! Derek and Romaine are back and better than ever! What are you waiting for? Subscribe today at derekandromaine.com

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EP 196: Get Unstuck and Move Forward With Sara

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Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2019 40:47

This call is for you if you relate to feeling stuck in any area of your life. Usually, when we feel stuck it is because we feel conflicted inside. In this episode, as I coach Sara, you will learn how to work with both parts of you so you no longer feel stuck. Sara wants to pursue her dreams, but there is a part of her that is protecting her from taking the risk. She is living a “safer existence” by sticking with the job she dislikes, but by protecting herself she is preventing herself from really going after what she desires. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode196] Sponsors: LOLA — offers a modern approach to feminine care that is for women by women. It is the best way to get 100% natural tampons, pads, and other products you can feel good about delivered to your home. Lola products are organic and free of chemicals, fragrances or dyes. Go to MyLola.com to customize your subscription and use the code ‘OVERIT’ to get 40% off. You can change, skip, or cancel at any time. Resources: Christine Hassler — Join the Free Over It and On With It Community. To watch episodes of coaching sessions, go to Youtube.com/christinehassler Christine’s Personal Mastery Course Christine’s Signature Retreat Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner Christine on Facebook Christine’s Books, including Expectation Hangover @ChristinHassler on Twitter @ChristineHassler on Instagram Assist@ChristineHassler.com — To get on the waiting list for this show.

Ep118: My Body, My Choice

The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2019 88:32

On this week's episode, the duo are joined by two professionals, Lacey and Danielle to speak on abortions, contraception options and what the hell is going on in government concerning women's rights to their bodies. They group dive into myths surrounding abortions and clear some things up regarding common misconceptions regarding the procedure and aftermath. Mandii digs deeper into her abortion story and relates psychological reasons to her "fear" of having to go through another one. Weezy also shares her abortion story in further detail. Please visit the organization Danielle is apart of at https://www.nirhealth.org/ https://abortionfunds.org/ - where people can donate, there are many others! https://www.sistersong.net/reproductive-justice - learn about SisterSong and Reproductive Justice! National abortion federation, which has a find a provider feature: https://prochoice.org/ This week's episode is brought to you by Scentbird. Get 50% off your first month and receive your first month fragrance for ONLY $7.50 by visiting Scentbird.com/WD and using Promocode: WD. This week's episode is also brought to you by Lola. Lola is known for its line of period products made with organic cotton and now they provide Sex by LOLA with products such as condoms, personal lubricants and wipes. For 40% off all subscriptions, visit MyLola.com and enter promocode: WDP. Wanna listen to more from the clip featured at the end of this week's episode? Want to support the podcast? Become a Patron!! To receive 3 bonus episodes per month + merchandise and much more, become a patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions

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Ep. 269: Stroking It For Your Entertainment with Johnny Stone

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2019 81:55

Cam boy Johnny Stone! CHICAGO: June 28, 9:00 at North Bar $5 off tickets at manwhorepod.com/tour! ManwhoreCon 2019: NYC, August 2-4. Get your weekend pass at manwhorepod.com/weekend! Thanks to Esquire for naming The Manwhore Podcast a Best Sex Podcast of 2019! Click here to check out the full list! Follow Johnny Stone! Twitter: @johnnystonecb Instagram: @itsjohnnystone Chaturbate: chaturbate.com/thejohnnystone ManyVids: johnnystonecb.manyvids.com Snag yourself some manwhore merch! If we reach $1,500 pledged by August 1, Billy will get his nipples pierced at ManwhoreCon and livestream it. Click here to make it happen! Use promo code MANWHORE to get a 40-minute FREE TRIAL of ethical paid-for porn at HotMovies.com! Lola makes feminine hygiene all organic. Get $40 off any subscription with promo code MANWHORE at MyLola.com. Email your comments, questions, and boobies to manwhorepod@gmail.com. www.ManwhorePod.com

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EP 192: Healing a Father Wound with Amanda

Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2019 43:47

This episode is about balancing and integrating our feminine and masculine energies. Today’s caller, Amanda, is an empath who has done a lot of personal development work but she still feels triggered by the actions of others. She is unsure whether she is being triggered because she has unresolved childhood wounds or if it’s her intuition telling her to get out of her current relationship. If you would like to receive coaching from me sign up for my monthly group coaching calls for only $20. The next call is May 28th. And, there are a few spots available for my intimate and exclusive Retreat in Maui. This is the first retreat for Men, Women, and Couples. Come and experience the profound shift of balancing your masculine and feminine energies. It is part of evolving and becoming a healthier human being. Sponsors:LOLA — offers a modern approach to feminine care that is for women by women. It is the best way to get 100% natural tampons, pads, and other products you can feel good about delivered to your home. Lola products are organic and free of chemicals, fragrances or dyes. Go to MyLola.com to customize your subscription and use the code ‘OVERIT’ to get 40% off. You can change, skip, or cancel at any time. Organifi— is an organic superfood supplement line that makes quality, trusted nutrition convenient and accessible. Their Greens Mix is something I use consistently. If you want a day’s worth of nutrition all in one easy to drink portion, even on the go, the Greens Mix is perfect for you. It is an investment in your health! Use the code ‘OVERIT’ to receive 20% off your order. Resources:Christine Hassler — Join the Free Over It and On With It Community.To watch episodes of coaching sessions, go to Youtube.com/christinehasslerChristine’s Personal Mastery CourseChristine’s Signature RetreatChristine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches CornerChristine on FacebookChristine’s Books, including Expectation Hangover@ChristinHassler on Twitter@ChristineHassler on InstagramAssist@ChristineHassler.com — To get on the waiting list for this show.

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Shark Tank's Kevin O'Leary

LadyGang

Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2019 75:00

The fellow Canadian "Mr. Wonderful" stops by to give the Ladies a crash course in business ethics now that they're important business women! Follow the podcast on Instagram @theladygang and email Jac, Becca and Keltie at Hello@theLadyGang.com! And check out the TV show page's official page @ladygngtv! Check out new episodes of the Lad yGang TV show every Sunday at 11:00 only on E! And thank you to today's sponsors: Amazon = Go to amazon.com/shop/ladygang to find their favorite products while keeping the podcast FREE! Lola = Get 40% off all subscriptions by visiting MyLola.com and entering LADYGANG when you subscribe Ring = Just go to Ring.com/LADY to receive a special offer on the Ring Starter Kit Skorch = Get the Skorch App on the Apple Store and enter to win $500 CASH on Skorch’s LadyGang Instagram post at @GetSkorch ThirdLove = Get 15% off your first purchase at ThirdLove.com/LADYGANG Walt Disney World = Now’s the time to find your “Happy Place” here at Walt Disney World

Always a Bridesmaid

The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2019 94:35

Raise a glass...it's our WEDDING EPISODE! We're discussing survival skills for being single (and/or broke) during wedding season, wedding planning tips so your guests don't hate you, overall etiquette, bridezilla behavior, bridesmaid woes, eloping, and even tips for canceling the whole thing! We also share our proudest wedding walk-of-shame stories. Cheers, we hope you enjoy! Follow us on Instagram @GirlsGottaEatPodcast and check our website for tour dates and merchandise. Thank you to our partners for this episode: OkCupid: Download the free OkCupid dating app today. Poshmark: Get $5 off your first purchase at Poshmark.com, invite code GGE5. BioClarity: Get 40% off skincare routines + 15% off everything at BioClarity.com when you use code GGE at checkout. Lola: To get 25% off subscriptions, go to MyLola.com and enter GGE25 when you subscribe.

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Ep. 260: My Genderqueer Ex

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2019 119:41

I don’t know what to say. Recording with Shay was the scariest episode I’ve ever done. Tour De Manwhore: I’m extending the deadline for Detroit, Philadelphia, Pittsburgh, and Washington, DC. Get your ticket by April 16 at manwhorepod.com/tour! SAVE THE DATE: ManwhoreCon goes down August 2-4. Get your weekend pass at manwhorepod.com/weekend! Shay’s IndieGogo Polygone Follow Billy! Facebook fan page Twitter: @TheBillyProcida Snag yourself some manwhore merch! Join our sex-positive fanwhore community on Patreon and support the show. Click here to become a member! Use promo code MANWHORE to get a 40-minute FREE TRIAL of ethical paid-for porn at HotMovies.com! Lola makes feminine hygiene all organic. Get 40% off any subscription with promo code MANWHORE at MyLola.com. Email your comments, questions, and boobies to manwhorepod@gmail.com. www.ManwhorePod.com

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Rules to Live (Together) By

Fashion Potluck - Podcasts

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2019 89:40

Should you cohabitate...or no-habitate? We discuss the right time and right reasons to move in with a partner, financial arrangements and how to tackle them, tips and tricks for sharing your living space, the art of compromise, and how it can all go terribly wrong. We also catch up on recent travels/tacos, and play an extra spicy round of This Took a Turn. Enjoy! Follow us on Instagram @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, and check our website for upcoming tour dates! Thank you to our partners for this episode: LegacyBox: Go to LegacyBox.com/gge and save 40% off today. Buffy: For $20 off your Buffy comforter, go to buffy.co and enter promo code GGE. Lola: For 40% off subscriptions, visit MyLola.com and enter code GGE.

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International Women's Day : History, Values, and Related Communities

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2019 23:30

Happy International Women's Day! For this special day, we created a very special podcast episode. Julia and Una are talking about the history of International Women's Day, its importance and relevance. They touch upon women communities, apps, and movements. Originally published here: https://fashionpotluck.com/fp-blog/international-womens-day-history-values-and-related-communities Communities & Apps mentioned in the podcast: • www.FashionPotluck.com - social media platform for women, free and safe. • www.Ladiesgetpaid.com - tools, resources, and community to help women negotiate for equal pay, and power in the workplace. • www.Studyhall.xyz • Bumble - dating app, where women make the first move. + Bumble Fund • Eve by Glow - period tracking app • www.MyLola.com - period tracking, women products and the women hotline • www.Femnesty.com - a platform uniting women. • www.theirworld.org - #UpForSchoolCampaign by Michelle Obama If you have any questions, feedback, or suggestions regarding our podcasts, email us at inspire@fashionpotluck.com. Follow us: www.instagram.com/fashionpotluck/ twitter.com/fashionpotluck facebook.com/fashionpotluck *Disclaimer: The purpose of this podcast is to educate and to inform. It is no substitute for professional care by a doctor or other qualified professional. Statements made by Fashion Potluck's guests and speakers do not reflect Fashion Potluck's views, and are shared as personal opinions of interviewed individuals.

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38: Lighthouses

Scare You To Sleep

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2019 59:26

Lighthouses are inherently creepy places. Let's find out about the creepiest. For 10% off your brand new Wix website go to **[Wix.com/podcast](https://www.wix.com/promo-code/podcast)**For 40% all subscriptions for Lola feminine care products visit **[MyLola.com](https://www.mylola.com/)** and enter **SLEEP** when you subscribe!Can't get enough SYTS? Head to **[Patreon](https://www.patreon.com/scareyoutosleep)** and become a [PATRON](https://www.patreon.com/scareyoutosleep) for bonus episodes!To read along with the first story go to [http://offbeatoregon.com/s1212w-lischen-miller-haunted-light.html](http://offbeatoregon.com/s1212w-lischen-miller-haunted-light.html)"Evening of Chaos", "Measured Paces" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 [http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/](http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/)"Grotesque Fantasia" "Abyss (Horror Ambience)" "Phantom (Horror Soundscape)" by Myuu [https://soundcloud.com/myuu](https://soundcloud.com/myuu)Sound effects are a combination of my own and the following from [FreeSound.org](http://freesound.org)sea2.wav by rockdoctor [https://freesound.org/people/rockdoctor/sounds/38017/](https://freesound.org/people/rockdoctor/sounds/38017/) SEA/ESTUARY » 3 jan 2014, waves breaking over sea wall at crosby, during high spring tide in winter storm, with Applied EQ.wav by crosbychris [https://freesound.org/people/crosbychris/sounds/213077/](https://freesound.org/people/crosbychris/sounds/213077/)Ambience, Seaside Waves, Close, A.wav and Wooden Fence Sounds » Snapping, Wooden Fence, D.wav by InspectorJ [https://freesound.org/people/InspectorJ/](https://freesound.org/people/InspectorJ/)Female horror cries: Help by AmeAngelofSin [https://freesound.org/people/AmeAngelofSin/](https://freesound.org/people/AmeAngelofSin/) Hit - Metallic » hit - metallic - deep hollow thunk.wav by Anthousai [https://freesound.org/people/Anthousai/](https://freesound.org/people/Anthousai/)Horror shrieks woman by AderuMoro [https://freesound.org/people/AderuMoro/](https://freesound.org/people/AderuMoro/)Underwater Ambience by Kinoton [https://freesound.org/people/Kinoton/](https://freesound.org/people/Kinoton/)Heavy Thunder Strike - no Rain - QUADRO.wav by BlueDelta [https://freesound.org/people/BlueDelta/](https://freesound.org/people/BlueDelta/)StormAtSea.mp3 by KevinT1001 [https://freesound.org/people/KevinT1001/](https://freesound.org/people/KevinT1001/)LOUD FOG HORN by Maurice_J_K [https://freesound.org/people/Maurice_J_K/](https://freesound.org/people/Maurice_J_K/) Nunavik » flare fire into sky with tail.wav by kyles [https://freesound.org/people/kyles/](https://freesound.org/people/kyles/)--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/scareyoutosleep/message Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

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38: Lighthouses

Scare You To Sleep

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2019 59:26

Lighthouses are inherently creepy places. Let's find out about the creepiest. For 10% off your brand new Wix website go to **[Wix.com/podcast](https://www.wix.com/promo-code/podcast)** For 40% all subscriptions for Lola feminine care products visit **[MyLola.com](https://www.mylola.com/)** and enter **SLEEP** when you subscribe! Can't get enough SYTS? Head to **[Patreon](https://www.patreon.com/scareyoutosleep)** and become a [PATRON](https://www.patreon.com/scareyoutosleep) for bonus episodes! To read along with the first story go to [http://offbeatoregon.com/s1212w-lischen-miller-haunted-light.html](http://offbeatoregon.com/s1212w-lischen-miller-haunted-light.html) "Evening of Chaos", "Measured Paces" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 [http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/](http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/) "Grotesque Fantasia" "Abyss (Horror Ambience)" "Phantom (Horror Soundscape)" by Myuu [https://soundcloud.com/myuu](https://soundcloud.com/myuu) Sound effects are a combination of my own and the following from [FreeSound.org](http://freesound.org) sea2.wav by rockdoctor [https://freesound.org/people/rockdoctor/sounds/38017/](https://freesound.org/people/rockdoctor/sounds/38017/) SEA/ESTUARY » 3 jan 2014, waves breaking over sea wall at crosby, during high spring tide in winter storm, with Applied EQ.wav by crosbychris [https://freesound.org/people/crosbychris/sounds/213077/](https://freesound.org/people/crosbychris/sounds/213077/) Ambience, Seaside Waves, Close, A.wav and Wooden Fence Sounds » Snapping, Wooden Fence, D.wav by InspectorJ [https://freesound.org/people/InspectorJ/](https://freesound.org/people/InspectorJ/) Female horror cries: Help by AmeAngelofSin [https://freesound.org/people/AmeAngelofSin/](https://freesound.org/people/AmeAngelofSin/) Hit - Metallic » hit - metallic - deep hollow thunk.wav by Anthousai [https://freesound.org/people/Anthousai/](https://freesound.org/people/Anthousai/) Horror shrieks woman by AderuMoro [https://freesound.org/people/AderuMoro/](https://freesound.org/people/AderuMoro/) Underwater Ambience by Kinoton [https://freesound.org/people/Kinoton/](https://freesound.org/people/Kinoton/) Heavy Thunder Strike - no Rain - QUADRO.wav by BlueDelta [https://freesound.org/people/BlueDelta/](https://freesound.org/people/BlueDelta/) StormAtSea.mp3 by KevinT1001 [https://freesound.org/people/KevinT1001/](https://freesound.org/people/KevinT1001/) LOUD FOG HORN by Maurice_J_K [https://freesound.org/people/Maurice_J_K/](https://freesound.org/people/Maurice_J_K/) Nunavik » flare fire into sky with tail.wav by kyles [https://freesound.org/people/kyles/](https://freesound.org/people/kyles/)

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#weddingvows | Actress Chrishell Hartley and Wedding Planner Nira Fisher

Now What?! with Jessica Graf

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2019 55:00

Jessica Graf welcomes her hubby Cody Nickson back onto the show to talk about their wedding. Listen to this couple’s wedding vows and fall in love with them all over again. Warning: you may want tissues. Then meet Jessica’s good friend actress and Big Brother super fan Chrishell Hartley. Also on the show is their wedding planner Nira Fisher. Now What is produced in partnership with PodcastOne and The Direct Message, executive producers Crystal Fambrini and John Ryan, Jr. (Co-Founders of The Direct Message).ScentbirdGo to Scentbird.com/nowwhat and use code NOWWHAT for 50% off your first monthFab Fit FunGo to FabFitFun.com and use code GRAF to get 40% off your first box LolaFor 40% off all subscriptions go to MyLola.com and enter promo code JESSICA

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Don’t Call It The Baby Blues with JoAnna Garcia Swisher

Mama Said with Jamie-Lynn Sigler & Jenna Parris

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2019 51:00

Our guest this week is JoAnna Garcia Swisher. She’s an actor, mother and co-founder of The Happy Place. She’s also suffered from postpartum depression and is here to share her insights and experiences. Postpartum depression is a very real thing that affects 1 in 7 moms and 1 in 10 dads. It’s not just “the baby blues.” If you need help with postpartum depression or just more info on it check out Postpartum Support International.ScentbirdGo to Scentbird.com/mamasaid and use code MAMASAID for 50% off your first monthLolaFor 40% off all subscriptions go to MyLola.com and enter promo code MAMA

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Who's Your Daddy? feat. Comedian Chris Distefano

The Homemaking Foundations Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2019 106:40

We are so thrilled to have the hilarious Chris Distefano as our first dad on the show to talk about fatherhood, baby mama drama, dating as a single parent, keeping the peace in the family, and much more. A little more about Chris: He's a history and animal expert (sorta), has super sperm (seriously), and has a really great outlook on life we're so happy to chat about. We also have him "mansplain" some confusing male behavior (including "He's watching all my Instagram stories but won't ask me out!?"), and we give an update on a shocking encounter with a dude Rayna used to like. We hope you love this one! Follow Chris on Instagram @ChrisDComedy, watch his Comedy Central special Size 38 Waist, and check his website for tour dates. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, and check our website for tour dates. Thank you to our sponsors for this episode: LegacyBox: Go to legacybox.com/gge and save 40% today. Buffy: For $20 off your Buffy comforter, visit Buffy.co and enter code GGE. Lola: To get 40% off subscriptions, go to MyLola.com and enter code GGE.

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Making the Gospel known in your home – Hf #194

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2019 51:01

The idea that I need to return to again and again in my life and daily routine: is treasuring the Gospel in my home. So in today's episode, we will be discussing what it means to make the Gospel known in your home and some practical ideas for making it a true priority throughout your day. Listen to the Podcast: We also recorded this blog post as an audio podcast. If you want to listen in instead of reading, click play below or do a combination of both And don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast in iTunes. Right click here and save-as to download this episode to your computer. What is the “goal” of the Christian life? "For I know that through your prayers and the help of the Spirit of Jesus Christ this will turn out for my deliverance, as it is my eager expectation and hope that I will not be at all ashamed, but that with full courage now as always Christ will be honored in my body, whether by life or by death. For to me to live is Christ, and to die is gain. If I am to live in the flesh, that means fruitful labor for me. Yet which I shall choose I cannot tell. I am hard pressed between the two. My desire is to depart and be with Christ, for that is far better." - Philippians 1:19-23 Desiring God, "Our Grand Obligation": http://www.desiringgod.org/messages/our-grand-obligation Hf #74: The Goal of Our Christian Life: https://findingjoyinyourhome.com/goal-christian-life-practical-theology-homemakers-part-2/ How do we treasure the Gospel? Book recommendation: What is the Gospel? By Greg Gilbert And free resources: The Centrality of the Gospel by Tim Keller: http://www.newcityindy.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/centrality-of-gospel.-keller.pdf Practical Ideas & Suggestions A Catachism for boys and girls: http://www.reformedreader.org/ccc/acbg.htm The New City Catechism: http://newcitycatechism.com/ Seeds Family Worship Where to get: Seed’s Family Worship | on Amazon | Listen free on Spotify Jellytelly – Christian tv for kids JellyTelly is a sort of Christian netflix for kids. It has over 100 different tv shows for kids that are all Bible based. We have been very impressed with it! To get a subscription, it is $4.99 a month or $49.99 a month. You can try out a FREE week here with coupon code: HMF. They do have some great family devotional guides on their blog that are FREE. You can browse through them here. Reading Gospel-Centered Books Obviously, I have of book recommendations for the adults! But Jason and I also compiled our favorite Gospel-Centered books for kids: https://findingjoyinyourhome.com/our-favorite-gospel-centered-books-for-kids-ages-3-10/ Book Suggestions: Peacemaking for Families by Ken Sande No Little Women by Aimee Byrd What is the Gospel? By Greg Gilbert Family Shepherds by Voddie Baucham Word-Filled Families To purchase access to all of the other amazing sessions during the 2017 Homemaking Ministries Online Conference you can do so here! Check out the sponsor for today's episode: Mylola.com and use coupon code HOMEMAKING at checkout to get 40% off all subscriptions.

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Making the Gospel known in your home – Hf #194

The Homemaking Foundations Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2019 51:01

The idea that I need to return to again and again in my life and daily routine: is treasuring the Gospel in my home. So in today's episode, we will be discussing what it means to make the Gospel known in your home and some practical ideas for making it a true priority throughout your day. Listen to the Podcast: We also recorded this blog post as an audio podcast. If you want to listen in instead of reading, click play below or do a combination of both And don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast in iTunes. Right click here and save-as to download this episode to your computer. What is the “goal” of the Christian life? "For I know that through your prayers and the help of the Spirit of Jesus Christ this will turn out for my deliverance, as it is my eager expectation and hope that I will not be at all ashamed, but that with full courage now as always Christ will be honored in my body, whether by life or by death. For to me to live is Christ, and to die is gain. If I am to live in the flesh, that means fruitful labor for me. Yet which I shall choose I cannot tell. I am hard pressed between the two. My desire is to depart and be with Christ, for that is far better." - Philippians 1:19-23 Desiring God, "Our Grand Obligation": http://www.desiringgod.org/messages/our-grand-obligation Hf #74: The Goal of Our Christian Life: https://youngwifesguide.com/goal-christian-life-practical-theology-homemakers-part-2/ How do we treasure the Gospel? Book recommendation: What is the Gospel? By Greg Gilbert And free resources: The Centrality of the Gospel by Tim Keller: http://www.newcityindy.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/centrality-of-gospel.-keller.pdf Practical Ideas & Suggestions A Catachism for boys and girls: http://www.reformedreader.org/ccc/acbg.htm The New City Catechism: http://newcitycatechism.com/ Seeds Family Worship Where to get: Seed’s Family Worship | on Amazon | Listen free on Spotify Jellytelly – Christian tv for kids JellyTelly is a sort of Christian netflix for kids. It has over 100 different tv shows for kids that are all Bible based. We have been very impressed with it! To get a subscription, it is $4.99 a month or $49.99 a month. You can try out a FREE week here with coupon code: HMF. They do have some great family devotional guides on their blog that are FREE. You can browse through them here. Reading Gospel-Centered Books Obviously, I have of book recommendations for the adults! But Jason and I also compiled our favorite Gospel-Centered books for kids: https://youngwifesguide.com/our-favorite-gospel-centered-books-for-kids-ages-3-10/ Book Suggestions: Peacemaking for Families by Ken Sande No Little Women by Aimee Byrd What is the Gospel? By Greg Gilbert Family Shepherds by Voddie Baucham Word-Filled Families To purchase access to all of the other amazing sessions during the 2017 Homemaking Ministries Online Conference you can do so here! Check out the sponsor for today's episode: Mylola.com and use coupon code HOMEMAKING at checkout to get 40% off all subscriptions.

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Ep99: F*cking Like Animals

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Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2019 68:28

The duo are back at it again this week and Weezy has some jokes for Mandii after her appearance on the Flagrant 2 Podcast. The two begin with a catch up before science is indeed questioned and evolution is explained in terms of sex of course. Are we really f*cking like animals? Can animals be gay? Yes, these topics are really discussed this week. *face palm. Another entertaining yet educational take on the world of sex! This episode is brought to you by MyLola.com. Be sure to use Promocode: WDP for 40% off of your subscription. Follow us on social media and let's discuss this week's episode! Tweet @whoreiblepod and use hashtag #WhoreibleDecisions and follow us on Instagram @whoreible_decisions Love the hosts? Follow their personal pages: Weezy @WeezyWTF on IG Mandii @Fullcourtpumps on IG/Twitter Want to see the Whoreible Decisions live on tour in a city near you! To purchase tickets visit: https://www.eventbrite.com/o/whoreible-decisions-podcast-15329901366 Want more episodes? Support the Whoreible Decisions brand by becoming a patron and receive 3 bonus episodes per month + the opportunity to receive merchandise and help produce an episode! Join now at Patreon.com/WhoreibleDecisions

Mental Health Counselor/Bachelor contestant Taylor Nolan

Adderall and Compliments

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2019 83:35

Annabelle & Taylor Nolan, who was a contestant on Nick's season of The Bachelor(but everyone remembers her relationship with Corrine more) she is also a mental health counselor & host of a mental health podcast . They talk about Taylor's audition process, what it's really like behind the scenes of filming,if she was really there for the right reasons, rules of the house, how much of it is close to being like the show UNReal,Bachelor in Paradise & she gives the most wonderful advice about self confidence & how to own your power that Annabelle tears up. She teaches us how to handle social media negativity & haters, oh and cat mom talk. You see a totally different side of Taylor than what was shown on TV & there's no way after hearing her you wouldn't give her all the roses. She hosts a mental health podcast "Let's Talk About It with Taylor Nolan" & you can find her on social media @TayMocha *****TO SUPPORT A SINGLE,CAT MOM OF 3******** DREAM HAIR-Perfect gift for Valentines Day!Customize your perfect shampoo & conditioner(5 top uses, color,smell,name on bottle) 100% vegan cruelty free FUNCTIONOFBEAUTY.COM for 20% off your order code ADDERALL JOYBIRD-100% customized furniture with thousands of options. LIFETIME warranty & 365 day trial, buy it, live on it, & if it's not perfect match. you get full refund! They schedule the home delivery & remove all the packing & shipping supplies! GET 25% YOUR VISIONBOARD FURNITURE! Joybird.com/complimentsLOLA- Make your va jay jay say yay with 100% all natural, organic tampons & feminine need products, TOTALLY customized for you, right to your door (they have hygiene wipes,lube,condoms,everything) get 40% OFF YOUR ORDER! Mylola.com/adderall"

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Would You Tell Me

The Friend Zone

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2019 150:10

How authentic are you throughout your day? We explore how often we express exactly how we're feeling within our daily interactions and why there are certain people we can't seem to be our true selves around. Wellness Segment - 100% Organic Tampons with customizable boxes - MyLola.com Black Business of the Week - Online Beauty Supply - BambooBeauty.Shop Have a dope day!

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Ep98: Civilian Sluts Feat Kristen Sollee

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2019 84:30

This week the duo are joined by Kristen Korvette, author of Witches, Sluts and Feminists, a book on the sex positive history of female power and persecution. The group dives into the word "SLUT" and the shame placed on women for being sexually liberated. We discuss the history of slut shaming and how many of the things that happened centuries ago to women are still happening today. Also, is virginity a myth? Does virginity exist? We delve into the topic of virginity, toxic masculinity, and oh, alien porn! Another dope conversation and great discussion on sex, women, and empowerment! Love this week's guest? Follow her on social media @KristenKorvette on IG and @slutist on Twitter This episode is brought to you by MyLola.com. Be sure to use Promocode: WDP for 40% off of your subscription. Follow us on social media and let's discuss this week's episode! Tweet @whoreiblepod and use hashtag #WhoreibleDecisions and follow us on Instagram @whoreible_decisions Love the hosts? Follow their personal pages: Weezy @WeezyWTF on IG Mandii @Fullcourtpumps on IG/Twitter Want to see the Whoreible Decisions live on tour in a city near you! To purchase tickets visit: https://www.eventbrite.com/o/whoreible-decisions-podcast-15329901366 Want more episodes? Support the Whoreible Decisions brand by becoming a patron and receive 3 bonus episodes per month + the opportunity to receive merchandise and help produce an episode! Join now at Patreon.com/WhoreibleDecisions

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If I Could Turn Back Time feat. Comedian Matteo Lane

House of Kim with Kim Zolciak

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2019 99:09

We have the incomparable Matteo Lane (comedian, artist, celebrity expert) impersonating everyone from Cher to Adele, while also chatting about recovering from a painful breakup, the challenge of balancing a thriving career and a relationship, and how to handle a partner who is having doubts about you. We also answer our first Is This Weird? email from a man (honey, it's juicyyy), and introduce a new segment analyzing all our favorite pop queens of the past (Britney, Lindsay, etc). Enjoy! Follow Matteo on Instagram @MatteoLane. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, check our website for tour dates and merch, and find extra episodes on Patreon.com/girlsgottaeat. Thank you to our partners for this episode: ThirdLove: Go to ThirdLove.com/gge now to find your perfect-fitting bra, and get 15% off your first purchase. Lola: To get 40% off subscriptions, go to MyLola.com and enter code GGE. Scentbird: Go to Scentbird.com/gge and use code GGE for 50% off your first month.

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The Power Of Positivity

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2018 70:00

Dream Big December continues on House Of Kim as Kim and Kroy share their Christmas Eve episode with a listener named Ami who has overcome great adversity. Ami shares her story of losing her husband at a very young age and how she learned to become a positive person even when faced with a difficult situation and loss. She is now engaged and due to remarry next year. Kim and Kroy discuss her grieving process, positive attitude and all thing spiritual (including mediums). Lola Get 40% of your subscription when you go to MyLola.com and use promocode KIM Bet Online dot A G Go to BetOnline.AG and enter promo code Podcast One to get a 50% sign up bonus and make sure to take advantage of their refer a friend program Kopari Go to KopariBeauty.com/KIM and get $5 off your first order when you subscribe

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Live, Laugh, (Long-Distance) Love feat. Heather McMahan

The Anxiety Coaches Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2018 91:21

Gather round, y'all! In this nonstop-laughs episode, we talk with actress/comedian/best-person-on-Instagram Heather McMahan about her thriving long-distance relationship and why it works, sexy pics gone wrong, coping with the loss of a parent, and so much more. We also recap a ridiculous shopping experience, and introduce a new game that incites a fiery passion in everyone. Enjoy! Follow Heather on Instagram @HeatherKMcMahan. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast and check our website for live show dates and merchandise. More episodes available at Patreon.com/GirlsGottaEat. Thank you to our sponsors for this episode: Addyi: Learn more at Addyi.com/gge. Lola: To get 40% off subscriptions, visit MyLola.com and enter code GGE.

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Unexpected Encounters, with Sarah McKemie, Suleika Jaouad, and Megan Phelps-Roper

How It Is

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2018 34:14

Sometimes the thing we didn’t see coming leaves us reeling, in the best possible way. Roller derby star Sarah McKemie shares her story of being an uncertain college student when a gang of roller derby girls skated into her life; Suleika Jaouad remembers a solo road trip she took after finishing cancer treatment, in which her most unexpected encounter was with herself; and former Westboro Baptist Church member Megan Phelps-Roper reveals how she met her husband and best friends after they sent her hate mail.Hosted by Kelly McCreary. Brought to you by Reese Witherspoon and Hello Sunshine. We want to hear YOUR story. Find us @hellosunshine on Instagram and Twitter and hello-sunshine.com. #HowItIsEpisode Sponsors: Takecareof.com, CODE: HowItIs and MyLola.com, CODE: HowItIs

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453: Practical Acceptance to Help Ease Anxiety

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2018 22:37

In today's episode, coach Gina discusses acceptance and allowance as a primary method of easing and clearing anxiety. Acceptance is a core component of the Claire Weekes approach to anxiety recovery (Face, Accept, Float, Let time pass). Using the term 'allowance' can help people who have some resistance to the word 'acceptance'. Gina offers practical steps to employ the power of acceptance in your life today. Please be sure to visit today's show sponsor, MyLola.com for 40% off all subscriptions, visit mylola.com and enter Promo Code acp when you subscribe! Pick up a copy of Claire Weekes Hope and Help for Your Nerves:http://amzn.to/2zBLury To learn more go to: http://www.theanxietycoachespodcast.com Join our Group Coaching Full or Mini Membership Program Learn more about our One-on-One Coaching What is anxiety? Quote: Happiness can exist only in acceptance. – George Orwell

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164: How Love Can Dissolve Conflict - Relationship Magic with Guy Finley

Relationship Alive!

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2018 77:19

They say that love can conquer all - but how do you really tap into “the power of love” to resolve conflicts in your relationship? On top of that, how do you learn what you need to learn so that you don’t keep repeating the same fights over and over again in your relationship? This week, our guest is Guy Finley, author of the new book Relationship Magic: Waking Up Together and the international bestseller The Secret of Letting Go. Along with getting juicy tidbits of Guy’s wisdom in a deep dive, we’re also going to walk through the process of transformation, so you can experience for yourself how to make the shift from conflict to love as you listen. As always, I’m looking forward to your thoughts on this episode and what revelations and questions it creates for you. Please join us in the Relationship Alive Community on Facebook to chat about it! Sponsors: Along with our amazing listener supporters (you know who you are - thank you!), this week's episode is being sponsored by two amazing companies, with special offers for you. MyLola.com offers feminine hygiene products that are made with 100% natural and organic ingredients - so you don’t have to wonder what’s going into them (or...you)! They are offering you 40% off any subscription if you visit mylola.com and use the code “ALIVE” at checkout. Babbel.com is the world's best-selling language learning app - making it easy for you to learn French, Spanish, Italian, Russian, Danish - and many more languages. Is there a language you've always wanted to learn? Try Babbel for FREE at Babbel.com and discover how easy it can be. Resources: Visit the website for Guy Finley’s new book Relationship Magic for special bonus content Visit Guy Finley’s main website FREE Relationship Communication Secrets Guide - perfect help for handling conflict… Guide to Understanding Your Needs (and Your Partner's Needs) in Relationship (ALSO FREE) www.neilsattin.com/magic Visit to download the transcript, or text “PASSION” to 33444 and follow the instructions to download the transcript to this episode with Guy Finley. Amazing intro/outro music graciously provided courtesy of: The Railsplitters - Check them Out Transcript: Neil Sattin: Hello, and welcome to another episode of Relationship Alive. This is your host, Neil Sattin. On this show, we've talked a lot about what happens when you get triggered and what to do and what not to do, and we've talked about it from this perspective of like, a neurobiological perspective, and we've touched a little bit on the perspective of trying to find love in those moments. What would love do when you're in the middle of, let's say, a conflict with your partner? But what if the power of love allowed you to dissolve conflict with your partner? And what if it not only allowed you to dissolve conflict, but it allowed you to truly learn the lessons that are there for you to learn so that you can get past the kind of pattern of arguing, and tension, and resentment that's so easy to foster in a relationship? And that's the strangest thing, right? Because it's love that brings us together and yet somehow we find ourselves there with this person who's the apple of our eye, when they are just annoying us to no end. Sometimes it's the very things that drew us to that person that then drive us crazy. Neil Sattin: So, there's some purpose behind all of that. And today's guest is going to help not only reveal the purpose behind all of that, but help us work a little magic in order to transform it. His name is Guy Finley, and you may be familiar with him, he's the author of The Secret of Letting Go and his new book, Relationship Magic: Waking Up Together is all about what I've just been talking about, how to wake up and dissolve the conflict, the resentments, the things that seem to keep you connected and yet painfully separate from your partner. The book is new and if you want to find out about Relationship Magic, the book itself, you should visit relationshipmagicbook.com. We're going to dive in and we're going to talk about all of that. And of course, there will always be links available to you in the detailed transcript of today's episode, which you can download if you visit neilsattin.com/magic as in Relationship Magic. Or you can always text the word Passion to the number 33444 and follow the instructions. I think that's enough from me right now. So, Guy Finley, thank you so much for joining us today on Relationship Alive. Guy Finley: Thanks Neil, I'm glad to be with you. Neil Sattin: Well, it's such a treat. And one of the funny things that I was thinking as I was reading Relationship Magic was how much I wished that I had had like say two more weeks to just sit there after reading the book, and really let it all digest and percolate. So a lot of the questions that you're probably going to get from me are really raw from my experience of having been in the book and I'm still waiting for some of that magic to occur, but I feel like I'm on the cusp of its potential, and so I'm really excited to have you here to chat about your book and this idea that love and pain are these forces that can't coexist really, and yet so often we find ourselves stuck in pain with our partner. Why do you think that's so? Guy Finley: First, your reaction to the book is perfect in a way in that if you ever go to a concert or if you are a seeker of some kind and read something about love or principles, and the moment you hear that music or feel that idea you're like, My favorite image. We had a Rottweiler, and every once in a while I would say something to her to try to communicate something and she would start tilting her head left and right, knowing that she was hearing something that she didn't understand, but that she wanted to which indicates that there's a corresponding part, in this instance, in all of us when we read or hear something that resonates in such a way that indicates, "Boy, there's something much deeper here that I'm getting immediately and I want to know what it is." And then that waiting period or the re-reading period, a time of contemplation is the way in which we communicate, actually commune with that higher part of us that already understands what we are now wanting to know. Guy Finley: And so, I just wanted to corroborate that, Neil, so that everyone can understand those moments, not just in hopefully reading this book with the principles that it presents, so that we have a little way to realize that something in us is listening and if we learn to listen even a little more carefully, we can start to understand what that part of us that's pulled to that moment wants to understand. Now to tie that in with the last part of the question, it isn't that pain and love can't coexist, it's that they have a relationship that we don't understand and until we can begin to realize within ourselves why it is that someone we love can be so incredibly exasperating will blame them for the pain instead of understanding why that moment has appeared the way it has in our relationship. And that's principally what my book is about. Neil Sattin: Yeah. You're speaking right to me and I'm remembering the part in the book where you talk about how the principle is there, let's call it the love principle, it's already there illuminating your experience, that that points to its existence as if you were... You need the sun in order to see your shadow and it's like, "Well, the sun is shining right there behind you." So you know it's there. Guy Finley: I love that you have pulled out of the, at least, in part out of the book. One of my favorite sections that I thought might be difficult to grasp, but I had to put it in there. Listen, yes, as hard as it is to understand, and we can continue with a metaphor, we sit here, I'm sitting here in southern Oregon, you're in Portland and it's a beautiful sunny day, it's about 70 degrees outside and we look out and see the trees or the wildlife that I'm looking at and we see the objects, but we don't see the light that actually reveals them. We don't see the light that actually reveals them, we don't actually see light other than those moments where we might look at a sunset but even then, we don't see light, and we don't see the fact that light isn't the static affair, that light is a steady stream of waves and particles from that glorious orb that we are sustained by, and it never stops raining down on us; in one sense, making everything that's visible, visible and at the same time giving life to everything that's revealed by it. See, I think love is like that. Guy Finley: I think we stand in it, we're related to everything through it, we're connected because of it, and yet we don't know anything about it other than to say, "I love you," when somebody does what we like, or pleases us, or we have that moment of sentimentality, which isn't too different from sometimes saying, "I love milk shakes," or "I love pizza." I know, and it is, it's humorous in a way. Actually, if one has a proper detachment to our present level of consciousness, it's all pretty funny. But it's sad in a way because with the same ease that we can say, "God, I love you. My love, you are my heart, thank you for being you." And then two minutes later because he or she looks at us askew, there's no remembrance at all, that the moment before we were joined by something that now seems to have disappeared, obliterated by a flash of a negative reaction, and we don't understand the negative reaction and because we don't and take the feeling of it as being viable and real, meaning that it confirms that something's wrong with our partner, we lose touch with the fact that love never separates, love never alienates, and certainly love never has an enemy. Guy Finley: So these are the things that we want to examine but not just intellectually, moment to moment, heartbeat by heartbeat, in the throes of those moments as you said at the start, where the reaction is ruling us and ruining everything and all we can do later is say, "I'm sorry, this book is for people who want to get past saying I'm sorry." Neil Sattin: Right, right. And I'm thinking of this thing that happened the other night, that was such a clear example of the difference between how love acts, let's say through me and when I'm in a negative place, and when that negative energy comes through me. So my wife Chloe and I, we'd had a great day, a fantastic day, and we were wrapping up and in fact, we had put a little bit of energy into resetting our kitchen which is something we've wanted to do nightly for years now. And finally, we're on it, so every night, even if we're exhausted, we're in there just making sure the dishes are clean, counters clean, like it's all good. So we went through that whole thing this one night, a few nights ago, and then maybe I took the dog out. I'm not sure I'm remembering the exact sequence of events, but it's not important. What is important is that I came in and Chloe picked up this little corner of a wrapper that had been left on the table and she asked me where does this go? And I looked at her and what I could have done is just said, "Oops, I guess I missed something." 'Cause we're on the same team in trying to reset the kitchen, and honestly, just those little corners of wrappers, if they're not thrown in the trash, they do add up, you start finding 'em all over the place, especially when you had a couple kids to the mix. They seemed to have a knack for leaving corners of wrappers everywhere. Neil Sattin: So anyway, I took it from her and I had to laugh at myself after reading your book because the very next thing I did wasn't just throw that away and give her a big hug and laugh about it. What I do was, I saw that there was a wrapper from a stick of butter that had been left on the counter. Guy Finley: Oh, god. Neil Sattin: And that wasn't my doing, of course. That was Chloe's doing and so what did I do but I grabbed the wrapper on my way to the trash and I said, "I guess I'll throw this in the trash too." Guy Finley: Yeah. Neil Sattin: And for us, we live this stuff so we're typically very tuned into when we're triggered, and calling a stop to things, and getting back into balance, and at the same time there we were. And it's something that we've actually been talking a lot lately is feeling like there's something new for us to discover here around the ways that those little resentments have found their way into the nooks and crannies of our coexistence to drive us crazy. Guy Finley: Yeah. Neil Sattin: And so I read in your book about this tendency of a negative when one of you is in a negative space to meet it with negative energy and just how ridiculous it is to think that that's going to actually lead to anything positive. And I just laughed at myself thinking about that incident and that didn't end up being a big blowup between me and Chloe. I think we're long past the big blowup stage of anything like that, but at the same time I was like, "Oh, yeah, there's something else here for me to learn." Guy Finley: This is such a perfect story 'cause you'd have to be physically dead not to relate and understand the example, the way in which couples partners or the way in which the standing in line at the supermarket, and somebody makes a comment, or the cashier's going at the speed of molasses. And something slips out of the mouth that seems to be justified because the individual has said or is doing something that has produced pain in us. So let's go through this. I don't know if you got to the section of the book, Neil. Neil Sattin: Oh, yeah, I read the whole thing. Guy Finley: There's actually a story in the book that is the long hand explanation of what happened and we'll look at it together. So first, when... And everybody look, everybody, we have to understand, we are in no way or means judging ourselves or others, there's far too much of that. You can't judge and learn, it's impossible. In this life, whether we realize it or not, is a school for our higher education particularly that love provides, if we're willing to take the curriculum, which this book is about and what Neil and I are speaking about. So Neil, if and when out of your mouth comes the, we'll call it the initial contact. Your wife made the first contact that evening bringing up a wrapper that was out of place. Pretty small thing. But if and when we do that, and point something out to our partner about where they miss the mark in some way, is it because we're happy and content in that moment? Or is there some kind of pain in us that prompts us to point a finger so that there's something to blame for our pain? Neil Sattin: Right. Where we are pointing the finger so that we can blame for the pain. Guy Finley: That's right because something has suddenly stirred in us a certain kind of resistance or pain that we did not know was in us the moment before. For instance, I'm just going to walk through it when Chloe points out the wrapper, she wasn't initially negative about the wrapper, but when the wrapper appeared, meaning she saw it, something in her in pain wanted to find a way to reconcile itself because in essence, the wrapper became the reason for the pain. Following me? Neil Sattin: Yeah. Guy Finley: But the wrapper isn't the reason for the pain in Chloe, the pain is brought in to the present moment in Chloe and in all of us in an unconscious nature, a body of experience whose residue never reconciled or healed sits there like strange objects in a closet until something bumps one of them and then out comes this comment or this action. Now, she didn't know. And then that pain looks at you and finds an object to blame, she points the finger at you and throws the grenade, passive-aggressive comment meant to point to you, look what you've done, you've missed the mark. And then what happens when Chloe's pain pushes on Neil? Was Neil in pain the moment before that? No, I had a good night, we were doing pretty good. But all of a sudden, I'm nuclear, but I don't want to go nuclear. I know that's not right. So, my mind, now in pain, blaming the pain on Chloe looks around and finds the butter and then it throws the bomb back. The point being that the moment of pain is not Chloe's pain and not your pain, it is our pain, it is a pain that goes into the moment before us that we don't know is there and that becomes this continuation of a string of conflict and resentments that feed each other in a pattern that never goes away, because the unseen instigator, the real cause of that conflict lies unseen in our consciousness. Guy Finley: Now if we can understand that much and let me stop and ask you, are we on the same page? Can we see this together? Neil Sattin: We're definitely on the same page and where my mind is going with this is to that concept of the debt that we owe each other and how we carry that with us as part of the burden of that pain. Guy Finley: Yes, yes, it's intimately connected to that without our knowing it, which is the point of our existence in one respect 'cause when we started we said, "Well, how can pain and love be in an actual relationship?" Without our knowing it, living concealed in all of us, not just as a result of growing up with the parents we had, our experiences in high school and college, not the relationships that gave us a broken heart, not those individual instances, but sort of a composite conditioned consciousness. We live, Neil, with a kind of unseen expectation. It's built into our present level where, again, as example, I'll speak about my wife, I know you would say the same of Chloe. I've been with my wife for nearly 40 years. I remember when we first met, it was all roses. We couldn't talk enough about stuff, we had those conversations that go for hours on the phone. Neil Sattin: Yeah. Guy Finley: The sex was divine and intimate, the time together was precious, everything that was quirky about her was my greatest delight, everything that I did somehow had no problems in it at all. My idiosyncrasies were fascinating. This is the beginning of love because we're drawn to each other as the result of, she revealing in me things I don't know about myself that are delightful. I love the way I feel when I'm busy loving what my wife reveals to me about myself. She loves what I reveal in her to her about herself and there is a magnetic power. Everybody understands that, but part of that relationship and part of that magnetics includes the fact that gradually, the things that we were so enamored with, for what she could show me about myself starts to change. The thrill is gone, BB King used to say. And now the little things that were never a problem start to have a little edge to them. And here is the point: Why do I love the things my wife shows me about my nature that I feel are positive and good and accept as being a part of myself and on the other hand when she shows me things about myself, I don't see it as being about myself, I see as being about her? Guy Finley: When we can answer that question with honesty and responsibility, we begin to recognize that, yes, when it comes to love our partner is a mirror that shows us the most positive, empowering, and beautiful things that the human heart can hold. Love makes that possible, but it is also a fact that love makes it possible for that same human being and their same idiosyncrasies to show us what is concealed in us that is limiting our love, so that until we are present to what has been concealed in us by the actions of our partner and accept the revelation of that moment as an invitation to let go of and die to those parts of ourselves we will continue to have the fights, blaming, later resenting without ever realizing we are caught in a loop that is actually a kind of system that this present nature with all of this residue that's been carried over insists on repeating it, literally reincarnates itself at the cost of a new and higher kind of love. Neil Sattin: Okay, so there's so much there in everything that you just said. What's that? Guy Finley: I say let's take it apart. Neil Sattin: Let's do it. And maybe a vehicle for that would be the wrapper. Guy Finley: Sure. Neil Sattin: So for one thing, what I'm hearing from you is that the love and the mirror of relationship makes it possible for me to see all these things reflected back at me that I think are glorious. Guy Finley: Right. Neil Sattin: And however it also allows me to have reflected back at me the ways that I fall short. Guy Finley: Not reflected back at me, reflected as being an unknown part of me. I don't know that I have pain when I'm holding my wife's hand and we're having a glass of wine, but if she said, "You've had two glasses, that's enough." What happens? Neil Sattin: Right. The collapse. Guy Finley: Boom! Neil Sattin: Yeah. Guy Finley: She didn't produce the conflict, she revealed within me is this sensitivity about too many wines. Don't eat that piece of bread. You're really going to have more butter? Why are you driving that way? Do you know where you are. I mean, all of these little questions that you call triggers are actually revelations that we have within us parts of us that we don't know. And to the point here, does love... Let's see, how shall I start this? When I want to lash back and we don't have to Pollyanna it, in fact, she said something that hurt me, I'm throwing the grenade back. Would love throw a grenade? Neil Sattin: No. Guy Finley: This is so important, listeners, please. And we're not idealizing love, I'm not making it some religious or iconic image. I'm just saying that you and I, if we're a human being know that there is a love that cannot hurt anything, that would not harm anything, that love is the love that we and each and every one of us live in and through and buy at all times without knowing it. These moments in passing time with our partner allow us to see and then begin to use consciously the very thing that ordinarily we mechanically do I.e. Neil throws back the butter comment. Now, if love would not harm anyone, and I know that love would not do that, is it really I, is it my truest nature that launches the attack back? Or is pain responding to pain? And this is important, is the pain of something in me, maybe when I was a kid I was teased, maybe my parents called me on the rug for things that they were in pain over and didn't know what to do with and abused me psychologically so that the smallest question of my character by anyone else produces instantaneous conflict? You're not going to disrespect me. Guy Finley: Now, we all know these parts live in us, and if they are there and they are acting in our stead, we have to recognize that something has been stirred and has stepped up and out of our mouth that feels like us because it's part of our past but that cannot be who we are in reality or at least who we know we ought to be, and therefore, we have to do something that this book is all about. We have to recognize that love would not make anyone suffer. Another way of putting it. Why is my suffering in that moment more important than your suffering? Why is what I am suffering over if I love you, why would I want to add 1 ounce of more suffering to your life? Neil Sattin: Right. Yeah, this is something that I found really profound in, if you can recognize that... And this was what you wrote about, that if you can recognize that the pain in your partner is what probably produced that comment in the first place, like if you saw a defenseless creature in pain you would show up to try and help that defenseless creature, you wouldn't kick it in the head, right? Guy Finley: And you wouldn't even know if it tries to bite you, that it couldn't do anything else. Neil Sattin: Right. Guy Finley: You would know it. And knowing that, which is, see, look, my new book is the culmination of 40 years of writing and speaking. It brings about a very simple point that if we're willing to receive it, it makes change possible in the moment, not as an intellectual exercise by which we hope going into appointed moment we won't punish somebody. And certainly not afterwards as a retrospective event where I blame myself or think I could have done better, what I call a reflective event. I understand that in me is a pain I didn't know was in me. It was concealed until you said what you did. Now I'm going to pick up the tab, I'm going to do the one thing I've never done in my whole life with someone who has said the cruel comment or done something that upsets me, I'm going to live with my own pain. I'm not going to blame you for it, I'm not going to point it out to you, I'm going to in effect go quiet inwardly in that moment so that rather than listening to voices that then become my mouth speaking what causes others to suffer, I'm going to listen to my own voices, how they want to leap out, how they want to have an enemy, someone to make feel bad for the bad way they made me feel. And in that patience, which is a keyword. You know the original, the ancient meaning of the word patience, Neil? Neil Sattin: No. Guy Finley: To suffer myself. Neil Sattin: Yes. Guy Finley: I think that's the most beautiful thing in the world, because you see, if I can in the moment, my wife throws the... Did that wrapper, did that just manifest itself on the counter? And we can all hear the tone, we know what sarcasm is. Right? Neil Sattin: Right. Guy Finley: It's instantaneous and bang! Like that, comes up, this pain I didn't know was there. Neil Sattin: And to be fair to Chloe, she actually was very light and almost joking about it, like it wasn't even sarcastic, it was light and yet it did hit me that strongly. Guy Finley: Yeah, but see, if there wasn't pain behind it, would she call it out or just pick it up? Neil Sattin: Right. She would have just picked it up. Guy Finley: I mean obviously, and I'm not, again, there's no condemnation in this. All of humanity, all of us live in this level of consciousness that doesn't know what to do with its pain. So to the point, here I am, and in that split second if I can bear myself, meaning bear what has been revealed in me by the comment, the sarcastic, intended or not, comment in that split second something had happened that is the true magic. And here it is, I don't return unkindness for unkindness. And when I don't return unkindness for unkindness, my wife, Chloe, whoever it may be, is left holding the bomb they threw. In fact, they're shocked because the part of them that pronounced that cruel or otherwise sarcastic comment suddenly has nothing to validate its pain because now, Neil, Guy is not returning pain for pain, and the pattern has a chance to collapse on the spot so that the whole thing is revealed in that heartbeat when one of us as a partner agrees to bear the responsibility of the pain that's been driving the pattern. Guy Finley: Boy, we're talking about hard work and lots of missteps but man, can I tell you after 40 years the beauty of this because now my wife, my husband, my partner has space to see themselves as they are, instead of mechanically blaming me for their pain because of what they say I am. They get to meet their own limitation, which is this unconscious negative reaction instead of it being validated by my unconscious reaction to their commentary. It's a game changer in the truest sense of what love has always intended for us to do and be with each other, which is to work as polishing stones so that what comes out of the moment is shinier, truer, better, a more pure reflection of what love intends for us and by the way why it brought us together to that end. Neil Sattin: Okay, so there are two things jumping out at me right now. Guy Finley: Yes. Neil Sattin: One of them is, I would love to distinguish what we're talking about from maybe the flip side pattern that can happen in a relationship where there's never conflict, and yet it's not a system that's fostering love. In fact, it fosters resentment because things aren't being surfaced. So that's the first part. And then... Guy Finley: They're being surfaced, Neil. Neil Sattin: Go ahead. Neil Sattin: They're just being ignored. Neil Sattin: Yeah, yeah, great. Guy Finley: Yeah, that's a very important distinction because what you just said is the slow motion death, not of love, the slow motion death of the possibility of two people awakening through and with each other, to a higher order of their own being that love makes possible. So, example... Neil Sattin: Now, I wish I had read the book before the wrapper moment happened because I'm hoping that we can also paint a picture and maybe that's what you're about to do with this example of how that unfolding might take place. You used strong language earlier, which was like, we want those parts to die, the parts of us. And I'm curious to know what that actually... What that looks like, what that experience is like, and what that might have been like in the kitchen that night with me and Chloe. Guy Finley: Alright, so here I am, I'll play Neil, okay. Neil Sattin: Okay. Guy Finley: And everybody can play Neil, at least as far as we're able to follow this. My wife drops the bomb. Doesn't look like a bomb, and in fact, she's trying to make it not look like a bomb, but it's a bomb, and suddenly I have a reaction. Now for the longest time I can't begin to encourage the listeners to understand this. We don't know that we're combustible. Were you thinking Neil, prior to that? You're in this contented state, you're working together, getting the kitchen set, having a nice dialogue, working together as men and women should, as partner should. Does Neil know there's something combustible in him? Neil Sattin: No, and in fact this is why I love the shift that I feel like your book is creating in me. Because not only did I not know it was there but because I combusted and immediately my thought was, I want to blame her. If she knew how to act in a situation like this, then that... Exactly. So that's the pattern that I personally want to see end in myself. Guy Finley: Yes, exactly. So you said you have children. Neil Sattin: I do. Yeah. Guy Finley: How old are they? Neil Sattin: They are nine and eleven. Guy Finley: That's perfect. Okay, so let's say just for grins I don't know what it would be, maybe you're out with one of them and maybe it's... You hand them a fishing rod, and say, "This is how you cast the lure, you throw them a football and they can't catch it 'cause their hands aren't big enough. Would you get angry at your child for not being able to catch a football that you throw at them? Neil Sattin: No, of course not. Guy Finley: No that would be ludicrous, why? Because the child has limitations. I'm not going to blame my child, for the fact that it can't hold on to a football yet or thumb the reel when it cast the lure. Neil Sattin: Right. Guy Finley: It doesn't have the capacity to do it yet. But when we blame our partner for producing this discontentment in us, for being the seed of this conflict, are we not in essence saying, You know what, you have this limitation, Chloe. You could have been like this, and if you've been like that then you would fulfill my expectation, and it would be no more pain. Yes? Neil Sattin: Right, yeah, exactly. Guy Finley: So we see the person who is producing in a sense, this moment of disturbance. We see the problem as being their limitation. They're not meeting our expectation, we don't know that we walk around expecting that our husband or wife, or partner be at all times, everything that we have written a list for them to be. What would happen if, this won't happen directly, but one day you'll see it, everyone will who will work with these ideas. My partner says something to me, the little offhanded comment, and then instead of, as I usually do, responding with resistance mechanically, a tit for tat. I was able to, have literally appear in my hand this list that says, "The 444 things that no one is ever supposed to say to me." Well, we laugh at it 'cause it sounds silly, yet with God as my witness, that's what we have living in our nature. Neil Sattin: Right, right, yeah. Guy Finley: So then I start to realize, hold on a second, the limitation isn't my wife's it's mine. 'Cause I only know how to respond by letting this list tell me how people are supposed to be and this isn't even my list, it got made over time. It was produced by a host of painful circumstances that I never was able to figure out. So all I could do was think about them, in other words, now formulate them, get them into something I could live with and then I think that gets buried and goes away, but those moments don't go away. They live as objects of thought, literally formations in our psychology that when the proper circumstances appear, much as a seed sprouts when the nourishment it needs happens, up comes this list and the item on it and then by God, I know I'm right and you're wrong. Guy Finley: We're saying, "Can we understand now that within us lives this lower unconscious unloving nature, and that when stimulated by circumstance, it's going to do the only thing it knows to do 'cause if we can know that this is what Christ called Metanoia, this new knowledge, a new understanding that allows us, literally the translation of the word repent, to turn around in the moment and see what we're actually looking at instead of what something in us wants to point to for our pain. "Cause if we can do that, Neil, then we can begin to understand our tendency, and then we take our awareness of that tendency into that moment with us and then we begin to wake up. We begin to let the moments that beat us up, become the moments that make us better, because we're agreeing to see our own limitations, what Love is showing us is keeping us from being truly loving. Neil Sattin: So when I notice that I am in a moment and experiencing pain and in fairness to Chloe, it could have just as easily been me saying... Having something to complain about... Guy Finley: Of course, of course. Neil Sattin: To start it all off. So when I notice, okay, I'm experiencing pain and I want to fix something right now, what... what do I do... I'm right there in that moment. Guy Finley: I know, I can hear you, man. Look, you said the... Exactly the... "And I want to fix something." I'm going to fix Chloe. Chloe is going to fix me. And nothing gets fixed other than a growing body of resentment from conditions never resolved consciously through love. So here's how it gets fixed. I stop trying to fix my partner and I stop trying to fix myself. Instead, and this is an exercise 'cause we're getting to that point where we need something where we can get our hands on a practical set of actions. You might want to write it down, listeners. I call it stop, drop and endure. Neil's ahead of me. Stop, drop and endure. All right, I know my proclivity, all my wife has to do is say, "You know that shirt's a little tight on you. Really, you're having another helping? Why don't we drive out to the winery in Jacksonville instead of go to the place locally? Guy Finley: Any one of a thousand things can be innocent as the day is long and maybe not even intended as you indicated to be a cutting remark because she may be just asleep psychologically, just saying what comes to her mind. But it's already interwoven. So here's the reaction, bang. So what's the first thing, Neil? Bang, come to a stop. What does it mean come to a stop? It means I know because I have been interested enough to think about it, to contemplate it, then my tendency when my wife or partner says whatever they do, is that I have a thousand tender spots. Let's use this another way, I have a dozen places in me that have never healed. They never healed. The way that my former girlfriend, husband, wife let me know that she's leaving me, it never healed. All I could do was hate my partner, regret my situation, despise myself for not being good enough to keep or to hold in place whatever it was. Guy Finley: These places have never healed. And all of this unhealed, psychologically divided mind and heart goes forward in time with me. Then I have a new partner. She says, whatever it is, and the sore spot is stimulated. Come to a stop. I know it's there, and I'm going to absolutely stop. Now, what does it mean, stop? That's the next word, drop. When I come to a stop, the intention is to see everything in me that wants to keep moving. I want to see and hear these thoughts and feelings without being mechanically identified with them and what they are trying to do as they want to fix the moment. I'm not going to fix the moment. Physician heal thyself. Instead, I'm going to drop every last one of those thoughts that come in and that want to point to my wife, my partner that moment as being the source of my pain. And if I can come to a stop and sit there and drop all of these thoughts and feelings, I'll begin to notice something extraordinary. Guy Finley: They won't let me drop them. My intention is to be the observer, the conscious witness of what love is inviting me to see, that's been concealed in me. And something doesn't want me to see anything other than who's to blame for the pain. Hold on a moment, what is that about? I say I want to heal. I say I want to be a loving partner, but now I realize there is a flood loosed in me that wants to free itself, by putting someone else into a cage. Stop, drop. Now you tell me what endure means, Neil. It means I'm going to suffer myself. Neil Sattin: Yeah, yeah. I'm feeling the waiting, basically. Guy Finley: Yes, yes. For as long... Listen to this, 'cause it answers an earlier question of yours. I'm going to suffer myself, meaning I'm going to sit and observe these thoughts and feelings instead of identify with them. I'm going to suffer myself patiently for as long as it takes for me to finally see what love has brought this moment about for, and what is it brought it about for? For me to see that there's no love in that nature. That is not who I am, and that is not who I am going to manifest. I will not incarnate what has passed and its pain and its false plans to fix things, instead I'm going to incarnate what love is asking me to incarnate in that moment, which is the revelation that the me that came into this moment, that has been revealed by it, is no longer necessary. And that Neil, is what it really means to die to ourselves because love makes it possible. Neil Sattin: Don't hate me. Guy Finley: Oh no. Neil Sattin: What happens next? 'Cause I'm imagining this, and in fact, the sense that I feel is actually a whole lot of grief. That's the first thing that comes up for me, is like seeing all of that, all of that pain and all of the ways that I would want to lash out and recognizing that that's not love, and... Guy Finley: Yeah, isn't that extraordinary? And by the way, that's... At a certain level of development, which I'm glad to speak with you as you're experiencing this. Isn't it phenomenal that when I hear about what it means to love my neighbor as myself, that no greater love does a husband have than laying down his life for his wife, or vice versa, whoever the partner may be. And that my response to that part of me that can hear that, but doesn't... Is grief. What would grieve for the loss of something that only wants to produce the continuation of pattern? Yeah, isn't that beautiful, Neil? Man, this is what... Whether it not... Anybody here with us listening, it doesn't matter to me. I'm... Obviously, I want everybody to hear this, but what a marvelous point of connection for you and I, to unfold something so that I can actually suspect for the first time, maybe good God, there is something in me that's grieving over not having a good reason to be mad. Neil Sattin: Yeah, and as I'm really tuning in, I think some of it also is a sense of shame that... Guy Finley: I get it. Yes. Neil Sattin: Yeah. Shame that that's what I've done or where I would want to go, or... Yeah. Guy Finley: Yes, yes. I'm greatly enjoying the conversation. Look, everybody write this down, please. There is no such thing as a bad fact about yourself, there is no such thing as a bad fact about yourself. Facts are friends, but we have a nature conditioned over time, that's more interested in appearance than it is in being. Being is the moment-to-moment expression. Love is the moment-to-moment relationship between facts. So as we grow to understand these things and begin to have some of these wonderful exchanges and experiences, whether it's just first with our minds, and then with our hearts, it doesn't matter 'cause we can start to understand. We are the last section for the book, we are in training. You don't punish someone who's in training unless you don't know you're in training. So when we get this and start realizing, God I can see... You know what, I can feel it in the deepest part of myself. Guy Finley: Not only have I missed the mark, I didn't even know what it was. Then everything's explained in that moment, because... And now to answer your question again, what happens next? This is my favorite part. Can a pattern go on if any part of the pattern is changed in the truest sense of it? Neil Sattin: It seems that it would be different from that point forward. Guy Finley: It cannot go on. It's even... Physics states it this way, "Change the observer and the observed changes." That's some theory or another that the observer changes what is observed by him, or her. So here I am, and let's just say for the sake of argument that I catch what we've been talking about in the middle of that moment. Maybe I'm on the freeway and here comes somebody barreling up behind me or someone cuts me off or someone passes me in the fast lane, and then drives slow to punish me. In that moment, can I see that the condition has not created the pain, but it's revealing a part of me that is sure that it has expectation and a list that this isn't supposed to be this way and therefore wants to respond with unkindness. If I can just see that much and even think... Wait a minute... This is the moment I've been waiting for. In that split second I am no longer the man or the woman I was, leading up to that moment. Because something... A bit of light, bit of love has come in to interrupt the pattern. Guy Finley: Maybe I go on and lose my temper. Maybe I say the passive aggressive remark. Maybe I stew, but the fact is, now I'm more aware of what has happened after the event than I was before. Because I realize the repercussion is actually the continuation of this unconscious nature that I was unable to not express in that moment. And here is the final word, at least as far as this question. If I change, my partner has to change. If I'm not the same, they have to see where they're being the same and have a chance to step out of that space. As I change, I give my partner the space they need to change. So in those relationships where nothing is said and all is this sort of horrible compromise building into a ball of resentment that ultimately boils over. One little change produces the possibility of a greater change. It's the most wonderful thing in the world that love makes possible. But it always begins with us, not with our partner, not with what we act out toward them, but what we see in ourselves and then accept as our responsibility to be present enough to to witness that a change can take place in us first. Neil Sattin: Yeah, I'm glad you mentioned that because I think that would probably be the natural question that many of you listening would have, which is like, "Well, something like how much of being treated this way am I supposed to tolerate? How much stopping, dropping, and enduring am I supposed to do in this situation? Guy Finley: Exactly. And there's, again, there's a whole section in the book about that too. You're not on this planet to let anybody abuse you. In fact, any abusive relationship that we stay in is because we're enabling it, we have a part of ourself that would actually rather live with someone to resent than to be on our own and not know who we are through that resentment. The only thing that troubles us about other people, Neil, in the end is what we want from them. And when we start to understand that most of what we want from others is a way in which we can keep these debts running, then we want to pay the tab. And if someone continues to abuse us, and I mean if anybody abuses you physically and you say, "That's that. Don't do that again or I'm gone," and then you're not gone, it's your fault. "I know, well, I have kids and I've gotta know what'll happen to me." Do not stay with people who abuse you, period. They will never change until you change. It's the only hope that abusive person has 'cause they don't know, good God, do you think a parent would deliberately abuse a child if the parent knew for a split second the child wasn't responsible for the pain they're in, that's producing that horrid outcome? Guy Finley: We are complicit in relationships where pain keeps itself alive because we use it to prove the other person's responsible. So, no abuse of relationship continually. No. But neither do we sit and live with a mind that says, "You know, she keeps bringing up that I shouldn't have that second glass of wine, she's abusing me." No, she may have a point. Then it's up to you to discover that, use those moments and become a different kind of person, which might include by the way, not wanting the intoxicating cup. Neil Sattin: Right. While I'm stopping, dropping, and enduring what might I communicate to my partner? Is there anything that you think is helpful? Guy Finley: I'm glad you asked that. Yes, you do not say, "Listen, I'm enduring you Guy Finley: This is not meant religiously, but it's all part of this beautiful golden thread that winds through our life and relationships. Christ said, when you go in the closet, when you pray go in the closet, do not let anybody know you're praying. Same thing, Buddha, all the great saints, prophets, all spoke of the same thing. If I'm going to change, I can't announce it because the change hasn't taken place yet, I'm agreeing to go through it and if I point out to my wife or partner, "Look, I'm going through this change because of you," I've just thrown the passive-aggressive comment out, haven't I? So I have to learn what it means to be silent and I might just say, "You know what, let me if you want, if we have to have a way to deal with it, look, I'm just not going to take part in an argument, I'm just not going to do it. And you may not think that what you said was hurtful, but it hurt me but I don't want to hurt you back. So for now, I'm just going to put this down. You do with it what you want to do, but I'm done with the fight." And if you really mean it, not because you have an image of yourself as someone who wants to be like that, but who agrees to put down the fighting nature, you will see in yourself and you'll be shocked at what happens to your partner if you actually say to them, "Do you want to go on with this, that's your business. I'm done with it." Guy Finley: And listen to this, Neil, 'cause you even said it, when you said suddenly I feel grief while hearing these ideas, your partner when you say to them, "I'm not going to continue this negativity," they're going to say, "What's wrong? You don't love me?" And you're actually doing what you're doing for the sake of love, and you know it, but they can't see it yet. Can you sense some of that, Neil? Neil Sattin: Yeah. Well, one thing that I think is the gift here is, in some respects it takes that pain and it depersonalizes it so that I could see in a moment like that, and hopefully before those moments happen, being able to talk to your partner and say, "Wow, you know, I just read this book by Guy Finley," or, "I just heard this podcast episode and I'm seeing how like pain exists in me, in us waiting for an opportunity to like spring." Guy Finley: I love it, Neil. I love it. Neil Sattin: So in a moment like that, being able to say, "Whoa! The pain in me just reared its head," and almost like, "This isn't about you. I just need to step back from this for a moment." And there's something in me, Guy, that wants more around the enduring like, I'm going to stay here, I'm going to endure, I don't know what happens at that point. Guy Finley: Yeah. You know what? You can't know. You can only be. Neil Sattin: Yeah. Guy Finley: See, I want to know 'cause I want to be safe, I want to feel secure, spiritual, intelligent, loving on top of it. That's where all the pain has come from, that nature that wants to know going in how things should be, or that already knows how things should be going in. That's where the conflict is. See, here this will help maybe, Neil. Neil Sattin: Great. Guy Finley: 'Cause this book actually, I swear to God, this book came out of an experience that I had when I first fell in love, which I'm almost 70. So what was that? Fifty-three years ago, I fell in love and I already, I'd been on the path. My spiritual life started around the age of 6, that's another story. But I didn't understand much of it, but I was with my partner and I said to her, "You know what?" I said, "Let's agree, you and I, that love is more important than any of the personal issues that want to pull us apart." I'm not even sure what I'm saying. I said these words, and yet I know that we'll have disagreements. "Let's agree that when we have a disagreement, love is going to be more important than what wants to pull us apart. Can we do that?" And of course she said yes and I said yes, but we weren't mature enough to even understand. I didn't understand what I was talking about, 53 years later I understand. Guy Finley: That you can say to Chloe, listen, I'm having some revelations, I'm seeing new stuff and I never want to hurt you as long as I live, I never want to hurt you, and I know you love me and I know you never want to hurt me. So let's agree right now that we're never going to hurt each other. And then because I also know, as I'm sure you do, that while our aim is lofty, we live from a nature that isn't going to be able to live up yet to what love is prescribing as our partnership and the way it grows. So instead of them blaming each other when we can't live out our agreement, we will step back both of us and see the parts of ourselves unable to keep the contract we have with love, then we're not going to blame each other and we're not even going to blame ourselves. We're going to be different people because we see on one hand, where we're compromised and because of the revelation of the compromise itself will know what we can and can't do next time. Yes? Neil Sattin: Yeah, I'm soaking all that in. You can't see my head nodding but I'm just reveling in those words, yeah. Guy Finley: This is so important, God help us. Look, anything that's right, bright and true in this world, no human being is the sponsor of. We are the instruments of what is right, bright and true including love. When we understand that an instrument can be played by something that serves its own interests and that its interests don't serve love, then we stand in a place where we can start to recognize this is an ill wind that's starting to blow through me and by God, I'm not going to share it with my partner, I'm going to let it buffet me so I can die to it. And then we have something real to work with. Neil Sattin: Yeah, I think we might have to... So for those of you at home who are listening to this, my wish for you is that you're able to experiment with what we're talking about. And of course, there are more nuances that Guy writes about in the book, Relationship Magic. And please send us your feedback, neilius@neilsattin.com. Or, there's a Relationship Alive community on Facebook, tell us about your experiences. I could envision a follow up at some point, Guy, where we talk about what happened after. What happened after we endured? Guy Finley: Yeah, you know what, ordinarily I do so many interviews, but I would... If you want to follow up, it's done. Neil Sattin: Great. Great, well, we will keep in touch about that. Guy Finley: Alright. Neil Sattin: In the meantime, it is such a pleasure to have you here and an honor to be able to talk with you about this book that's the hot off the presses, and yet the culmination of 40 years or more, 53 years of experience, Relationship Magic: Waking Up Together. You can visit relationshipmagicbook.com, and if you order the book, you can go there and you can instantly get an audio version of the book. Are you reading that, Guy? Guy Finley: I'm sorry, say that again. Neil Sattin: Are you the person who's reading the audio book that people will get? Guy Finley: Yes, yes. Yes, I've... It is I. Neil Sattin: Great. So you can get the audio book and I saw that there are a bunch of other bonuses that you can get. So a lot of special gifts for purchasing the Relationship Magic book, and you can also visit guyfinley.org where you can read more about Guy and his work. What's the name of your center again, Guy? Guy Finley: I live in southern Oregon, and I teach at Life of Learning Foundation three times, four times a week, open to everyone. People come from all around the world, and there's a body of 50 or a hundred students who actually live in the area now, and a $3 donation at the door, no one's turned away, nothing to join. Just a group of men and women just like Neil and myself who want to understand a little bit more about how love works. Neil Sattin: Well, I appreciate you illuminating a little bit more of the journey for me and for us here on Relationship Alive today, so thank you so much, Guy. And just as a reminder, if you want to download the transcript, you can visit neilsattin.com/magic. We'll also have all the links that I mentioned or you can text the word Passion to the number 33444, and follow the instructions. Such a pleasure to have you with us here today, Guy. Guy Finley: Thanks, Neil. It was just a really good conversation.

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Ep. 76- Victoria Climbié

It's About Damn Crime

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2018 69:27

WARNING: Listener discretion is advised.This week we discuss the case about 8 year old Victoria Climbié. She was put into her great-aunts care so that she could receive better education and a better upbringing as oppose to being brought up in a poverty stricken home in Ivory Coast, Africa. Even though Great Aunt Mary-Therese promised a better life for young Victoria, as soon as they set foot in France, the abuse began. You know how we hate leaving our episodes on a sad note so to end this episode, we play a game of F*ck, Marry, Kill. Our Sponsor this week is LOLA, a feminine product delivery service! They have 100% organic tampons, pads, and more. You can change, skip, or cancel your subscription any time. LOLA is offering 40% off of a subscription to new members so head on over to MYLOLA.com and enter promo code mentioned in this episode. Website- ItsAboutDamnCrime.comFacebook, Facebook Group & Instagram- Its About Damn CrimeTwitter & Snapchat- IADCpodcast

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Astrology, Soul Path, Communication, Oh My

Superficial Magic

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 7, 2018 63:44

Communication is the heart beat of life and many of us struggle mastering it. Wether we picked up tangled communication from our family or ourselves, there is a way to get out of the dark and start taking control of your connection to others. Shawn Breathwait is the Beverly Hills astrologist to the stars and he’s here to rescue us from overwhelm. On today’s episode, Dana and Meagan talk to this INGENIOUS healer about communication, your purpose and using information from your chart to better align with others. They also do a deep dive on how to bring forth new aspects of yourself instead of unconsciously acting out your sign archetype ad nauseam. Shawn has an uncanny ability to turn life's most complex issues into easily manageable learning tools. He is also the hottest man alive. Not that we care nor notice, we are just telling you in case you are superficial and care about stuff like that. We don’t. Bonus: Dana realizes she thinks her family is out to get her. Meagan plans her big break into becoming a “fire sign.” Shawn picks which one he would most likely marry. Superficial Magic is proudly brought you to Lola. Head over to MyLola.com and use promo code "superficial" for 40%off all subscriptions,.

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Ep 158: Live! At Dynasty Typewriter in Los Angeles (guest: Shannon Aganza)

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2018 79:47

It’s the final stop on TSR's Mini Summer Tour as the girls bring the Retrograde party (literally) to the ultra cool Dynasty Typewriter Theatre in Los Angeles. Opening the show with special guests: Kassia Conway, singing her rendition of the TSR theme and comic Julie Goldman bringing the house down with some laughs. The ladies then welcome astrologer, Shannon Aganza, to the stage to break down all that is going on during this cosmically-fueled summer: going deep on retrogrades, America’s current natal chart happenings and an audience Q + A ! Special thanks to: https://kelleybotanica.com ; Playa Haircare; Chosen Foods, Organic Cellar Wines, Four Sigmantic and The Dynasty Typewriter This Episode is brought to you by: RainbowOPtX.com / code: retrograde ; myLOLA.com / code: Retrograde40 ; takecareof.com / code: Soretrograde

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Ep 157: Live! At The Grove in Los Angeles (guest: Kelly LeVeque)

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2018 70:18

The ladies continue their summer tour with a live show at Los Angeles’s premiere spot for wellness in the form of retail therapy, The Grove. Joining Elizabeth and Stephanie is nutritionist to the stars and our hearts, Kelly LeVeque. Plus, comedian Nicole Aimee Schreiber brings the laughter and musical artist GLNNA opens the show with her rendition of TSR’s theme song. This episode of That's So Retrograde is proudly brought to you by: Chosen Foods. Check out their entire line of Avocado cooking oils, marinades and salad dressings at chosenfoods.com/TSR and get 50% off any order of $10 or more at by using promo code: TSR at checkout. LOLA: Get 40 % off of all subscriptions by going to MyLola.com and using promo code: RETROGRADE40.

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EP 153: The One with the Microbiome (guests: Ara Katz and Raja Dhir)