While everyone wants to make themselves and their lives better, it has been hard to find specific, actionable steps to accomplish that. Until now... Patrick King is a Social Interaction Specialist, in other words, a dating, online dating, image, and communication, and social skills coach based in San Francisco, California. He’s also a #1 Amazon best-selling dating and relationships author with the most popular online dating book on the market and writes frequently on dating, love, sex, and relationships. He focuses on using his emotional intelligence and understanding of human interaction to break down emotional barriers, instill confidence, and equip people with the tools they need for success. No pickup artistry and no gimmicks, simply a thorough mastery of human psychology delivered with a dose of real talk.
00:11:08 Reading Out Loud00:17:01 Choose a Role Model00:23:57 The landmark study on modeling and social learning00:24:24 Life is a Series of Stories00:29:59 Plumping up Your Conversation ResumeHow to Engage, Connect, & Captivate: Become the Social Presence You've Always Wanted To Be. Small Talk, Meaningful Communication, & Deep Connections By: Patrick Kinghttp://bit.ly/EngageConnectKimghttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B0952B32XQDive into this episode as we explore Chapter 2 of Patrick King's book, "How to Engage, Connect, and Captivate." Discover powerful strategies to enhance your social presence and transform mundane conversations into meaningful connections. Learn why reading out loud is an essential practice for improving communication skills and how choosing a role model can inspire your own charisma. We'll uncover the secret to crafting captivating stories from everyday life experiences and discuss practical ways to "plump up" your conversation resume. Don't miss this insightful episode! Take control of your interpersonal relationships and become the confident, engaging presence you've always wanted to be. Get ready to embark on a journey towards more fulfilling connections!
00:00:00 Hello listeners00:01:33 The visionary00:11:54 Be present, build presence00:29:46 Change your attitude to strangers00:35:28 “Extroverts sparkle, introverts glow."Massive Charisma: Likability, Charm, Presence, and Success With People By: Patrick KingHear it Here - https://adbl.co/3OJ4V72https://www.amazon.com/MASSIVE-CHARISMA-Likability-Succeed-Charismatic-ebook/dp/B0C7Q9FBM8Are you ready to take your social skills to the next level? In this episode, we dive into Chapter 2 of Massive Charisma by Patrick King. Discover the secrets to building real-world charisma and learn from experts Fox Cabane and Howard Friedman on how to exude power, presence, and warmth in any situation.
How to Extract Info, Secrets, and Truth: Make People Reveal Their True Thoughts and Intentions Without Them Even Knowing It (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 12) By: Patrick KingHear it Here - https://bit.ly/ExtractInfohttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B093ZRPCDKDive deep into the second chapter of Patrick King's book, "How to Extract Info, Secrets, and Truth." Learn powerful techniques to navigate conversations with ease. From putting questions in context to recognizing elicitation tactics, this episode uncovers the secrets behind getting honest responses. Discover insights from FBI experts, psychologists, and renowned lawyers. Uncover the truth, enhance your likability, and boost your charisma. Watch now to master the art of conversation!
00:00:04 Today is April 17th, 202500:03:45 Psychologist Tasha Eurich and colleagues conducted a massive study on self-awareness00:05:43 Low internal SA, low external SA – SEEKERS 00:06:00 Low internal SA, high external SA – PLEASERS 00:06:18 High internal SA, low external SA – INTROSPECTORS00:06:37 High internal SA, High external SA - AWARE The Art of Self-Awareness: How to Dig Deep, Introspect, Discover Your Blind Spots, and Truly Know Thyself By: Patrick KingHear it Here - https://adbl.co/3J5AJhHhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B09Q29TLNWIn this insightful episode, we explore the transformative power of self-awareness. Our host takes you on a journey through 'The Art of Self-Awareness' by Patrick King, uncovering the three crucial levels of self-understanding. From recognizing your actions to understanding your emotions and blind spots, this video delves into Kegan's theory of adult development. Join us as we discuss why looking within is essential for personal growth and how it can lead to a more fulfilling life. Get ready to embark on an inward expedition and discover the incredible rewards that await! Grab your copy of 'The Art of Self-Awareness' now at https://adbl.co/3J5AJhH" Self-awareness is not just about knowing personal details; it's a deep exploration of what triggers happiness or sadness, and the core beliefs that shape these emotions. Most people seek solutions externally, but King asserts that true change begins within. It's time to uncover the hidden gems beneath the surface. We will be covering an introduction and Chapter 1 of this thought-provoking book. The chapter delves into the three levels of self-awareness: what you do, feel, and are unaware of. This episode also explores Kegan's theory of adult development, offering a comprehensive understanding of personal growth. The book is available on Amazon, while the audiobook can be found on Amazon, iTunes, and Audible. For more insights, visit Patrick King's website at bitly - PKConsulting. Join us as we embark on this exciting exploration of self-discovery!
00:00:00 Today is April 9th, 202500:03:23 “Reward learning”00:14:27 Rubber Hits the Road00:23:56 The TakeawayMotivation Triggers: Psychological Tactics for Energy, Willpower, Self-Discipline, and Fast Action (Clear Thinking and Fast Action Book 9) By Patrick KingHear it Here - https://bit.ly/motivationtriggerskinghttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B08K8DQKRJDiscover the secret to transforming from a sloth into a powerhouse of productivity! In this episode, we dive deep into the fascinating world of dopamine - the motivation molecule. We'll explore how your body's natural rhythms and everyday routines can either energize or drain you, and most importantly, learn practical strategies on how to create an environment that fosters success and keeps you sprinting towards your goals. Say goodbye to procrastination and hello to a life of action and achievement!
Motivation Triggers: Psychological Tactics for Energy, Willpower, Self-Discipline, and Fast Action (Clear Thinking and Fast Action Book 9) By Patrick KingHear it Here - https://bit.ly/motivationtriggerskinghttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B08K8DQKRJ "Discover the secrets of motivation in this enlightening video! Explore how evolutionary action can hack your brain and body to boost energy, willpower, self-discipline, and fast action. Learn about Sung Il-Kim's tripartite framework for cultivating motivation and how to generate, sustain, and regulate it effectively. Uncover the key role of dopamine levels, circadian rhythm, and exercise in your journey towards motivation. Don't procrastinate! Click now and take a step towards unlocking your true potential!" **Book Link:** https://bit.ly/motivationtriggersking In this episode, we'll dive into the science behind starting tasks with enthusiasm instead of procrastination. We'll explore how to hack our brains and bodies for maximum energy while staying focused on goals. The book provides strategies that tap into your evolutionary drive towards action by understanding psychological tactics surrounding motivation, willpower, self-discipline, fast thinking, triggers, habit loops, reward systems—all of which are essential to taking control over our minds and behaviors for success in all facets."Motivation Triggers - Psychological Tactics for Energy, Willpower, Self-Discipline, and Fast Action", is available on Amazon as both a paperback and an audiobook—and can also be found at iTunes or Audible to enjoy it anytime! Visit the author's website: PKConsulting.comLet's get started by learning how we can transform our lives from complete apathy into full sprint, together!
The Science of Social Intelligence: 45 Methods to Captivate People, Make a Powerful Impression, and Subconsciously Trigger Social Status and Value [Second ... (The Psychology of Social Dynamics Book 7) By Patrick KingHear it Here - https://bit.ly/socialintelkinghttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B0893ZRW1BHello, listeners! This is Russell on "Social Skills Coaching," where we're delving into social psychology to become more likable, charismatic, and productive. Today, March 26, 2025, brings an exciting episode with a special focus from Patrick King's book, The Science of Social Intelligence.In this book, You'll learn to understand and leverage motivation and popularity dynamics in social situations for better outcomes. We will cover key topics such as how dominance is different than prestige but equally important to projecting an appealing persona, why warmth matters more over competence when forming connections with others, and strategies to increase your own perceived value without compromising personal integrity or authenticity. Join us in unraveling the science of social interaction that will empower you for better relationships today!
MASSIVE CHARISMA: Small Talk, Charm, Likability, and How to Succeed With People (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 31) By: Patrick KingHear it Here - https://adbl.co/3uhUQ6Thttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C7Q9FBM8"Discover the secrets to developing your own personal gravity with concrete skills to stand out, be noticed, and captivate people. In this episode, we dive into "MASSIVE CHARISMA - Small Talk, Charm, Likability, and How to Succeed With People" by Patrick King, uncovering the five distinct charismatic traits that can transform your social interactions: likeability and warmth, power and influence, emotional intelligence, presence, awareness, and self-control, and social intelligence and leadership. Learn from real-life celebrities and historical figures, such as Will Smith and Marilyn Monroe, how to effectively tick all five charisma boxes in your unique way. Find out how to design your own unique charisma formula by honestly rating your performance in each area and committing to taking action today to improve. Don't miss this opportunity to elevate your social skills and make a powerful personal impact! #Charisma #SocialSkills #PatrickKing"
00:00:00 Hello Listeners00:03:11 Get a Little Uncomfortable00:09:00 Tiny StepsTake Rapid Action: Get Productive, Motivated, & Energized; Stop Overthinking & Procrastinating By Patrick KingHear it Here - https://bit.ly/takerapidactionkinghttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B082YZ95LVAre you tired of saying "I'll do it later" and feeling stuck in a cycle of inaction? Look no further! In this episode, we dive deep into the world of productivity and efficiency with Patrick King's book, "Take Rapid Action." Discover how quieting your overthinking through the Premortem Analysis and Ostrich Theory can help you overcome procrastination and laziness. Learn actionable rules to get started before you feel 100% ready, and how taking tiny steps can lead to significant progress.We'll also explore how comfort inaction is sabotaging your success, and how strategically planning your days can prevent distractions and promote efficiency. Uncover what you think is action but is actually a waste of time, and how bundling tasks can defeat procrastination once and for all.Join us as we break inertia overthinking paralysis sloth and insecurity to transform from struggling with getting off our butt to becoming a machine of productivity. Take rapid action now and start hitting your goals like never before!
How to Listen, Hear, and Validate: Break Through Invisible Barriers and Transform Your Relationships (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 11) By Patrick KingHear it Here - https://bit.ly/listenhearvalidatekinghttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B08WLBD418
00:00:00 Hello Listeners00:03:29 A Glimpse Beneath the Mask 00:05:12 The 2014 French movie Force Majeure explored this concept in an interesting way.Become A Human Behavior Scientist: Observe, Read, Understand, and Decode People With Minimal Information (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 18) By: Patrick KingHear it Here - https://adbl.co/424plO2https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09KQFLNSCDiscover the hidden art of reading people like a book with our exclusive YouTube video covering Chapter 2 of Patrick King's bestseller "Become A Human Behavior Scientist". In this chapter, we dive deep into understanding the subtle cues and habits that reveal someone's true intentions, personality, background, and goals. Beyond surface-level observations, learn how to peel back the layers of human behavior using proven psychological principles and superior observational skills.Our video explores:- The science behind effective people reading- How emotional and social intelligence play a crucial role in understanding others - The difference between generic books on body language vs. mastering human behaviorJoin us as we unravel the secrets to becoming a true mind reader and gaining insight into what people are thinking without even saying a word. Get ready to level up your social skills, likability, and charisma by learning how to decode people with minimal information.Don't miss out - grab your copy of "Become A Human Behavior Scientist" today at [book link] and hear it here: https://adbl.co/424plO2
Train Your Empathy: How to Cultivate the Single Most Important Relationship Skill By: Patrick KingHear it Here - https://adbl.co/3shIydQhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BDXLTRD2Get ready to transform your relationships with "Train Your Empathy" by Patrick King! In this groundbreaking book and accompanying podcast episode, discover the power of empathy and how it can help you build deeper connections with others. In Chapter 1, dive into the fascinating world of empathy as we explore its neurobiology, types, and importance in our lives. Learn the difference between cognitive empathy, emotional empathy, and compassionate empathy, and find out which type is crucial for maintaining strong relationships.Throughout this enlightening journey, you'll uncover the secrets to cultivating your own empathy skills, allowing you to truly understand and support those around you. Patrick King's expertise shines through as he guides you through the nuances of balancing compassion with self-care, ensuring that you remain emotionally healthy while helping others.Whether you're seeking to improve your personal or professional relationships, "Train Your Empathy" provides the tools you need to succeed. As you navigate the topics covered in this podcast episode and YouTube video, prepare to be inspired and equipped with the knowledge to create more meaningful connections.Don't miss out on this opportunity to revolutionize your relationships! Get your copy of "Train Your Empathy" today and start your empathy journey now: https://adbl.co/3shIydQ
Looking to boost your charisma and become more likable? In this video, we'll explore the chameleon effect and attitude similarity to help unlock your charisma!The Science of Likability: 67 Evidence-Based Methods to Radiate Charisma, Make a Powerful Impression, Win Friends, and Trigger Attraction (4th Ed.) (The Psychology of Social Dynamics Book 12) By: Patrick KingHear it Here - https://adbl.co/3BXFuHQhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B09RW4ZJB3Discover the science behind being liked and loved by everyone around you. In this groundbreaking video, we dive deep into the 4th edition of Patrick King's bestseller "The Science of Likability" to reveal evidence-based methods that will make you radiate charm, impress others, win friends, and attract people effortlessly.Based on over 67 seminal scientific studies and psychological research, including works from renowned minds like Sigmund Freud, Ivan Pavlov, Stanley Schachter, and Daniel Goleman, this video distills actionable insights into a comprehensive guide for personal growth and social success. Learn how to subconsciously make yourself likable, trustworthy, and intelligent by understanding what makes people tick and strategically applying these findings in your daily life.Our expert analysis covers topics such as creating equity within relationships, the power of similarity in friendships, using eye contact to build trust, and even how tripping or vulnerability can positively impact social dynamics. You'll also discover universal definitions of charisma, wit, and humor, alongside practical tips on eye contact, touch, and charm.Unlock the hidden force that propels people forward - likability - which opens doors to better career opportunities, love life, relationships, and friendships. Embrace Patrick King's science-backed wisdom to become someone's favorite person and experience the transformative power of likability in your life.Don't miss out on this chance to hear it here: https://adbl.co/3BXFuHQDiscover how to create a foundation for friendship, embrace the psychology of social dynamics, and master the art of making people love you. Watch now and start radiating charisma today!
Get 45% off the Magic Mind bundle with with my link: https://www.magicmind.com/ERICJAN00:11:26 Introvert Defined00:15:54 Biological Differences00:18:12 Kinds Of Introverts00:28:42 Self-sabotage, And Why You Stay In Your Comfort Zone00:40:18 The STAR acronym explains four main typesThe Introvert Survival Guide: How to Stretch your Comfort Zone, Feel Comfortable Anywhere, and Become a “People Person” By: Patrick Kinghttps://bit.ly/IntrovertSurvivalKinghttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B0976S4RGTAre you an introvert struggling with social situations? Tired of feeling like a party pooper or doing a bad impression of an extrovert? Look no further! In this video, we'll explore the revolutionary book "The Introvert Survival Guide" by Patrick King. Discover how to turn your introversion into an advantage and thrive in any social setting.Learn:- How to understand and embrace your true introverted nature- Practical strategies for surviving and thriving in parties and demanding social obligations- The science behind introversion and why you recharge differently than extroverts- How to make deep connections, escape interactions gracefully, and implement introvert life design- Tips for feeling completely at ease with yourself while being a social powerhouseThis book is your ultimate guide to mastering social situations without social fatigue. No more self-sabotage or staying in your comfort zone! Patrick King, an international bestselling author and social skills coach (and fellow introvert), shares his insights on how you can conquer your fears and make the most out of every interaction.Join us as we dive deep into each chapter, uncovering the secrets to becoming a people person while staying true to yourself. Whether you want to make friends, network at work, or navigate romantic relationships, this guide has got you covered!Don't miss out on this life-changing opportunity to boost your confidence and get out of your shell. Get ready to embrace your introversion, find your solitude in our loud world, and become the social powerhouse you've always wanted to be.
Get 45% off the Magic Mind bundle with with my link: https://www.magicmind.com/ERICJAN00:00:00 Stand Up For Yourself, Set Boundaries, & Stop Pleasing Others00:03:32 The Terrible Tale of the “Gunnysack”00:07:26 Try a Hypothetical00:10:54 Use the “Five Whys” techniqueStand Up For Yourself, Set Boundaries, & Stop Pleasing Others (if that's okay with you…) (Be Confident and Fearless Book 9) By: Patrick KingHear it Here - https://adbl.co/3To6NDuhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B7GWJN4FAre you tired of putting everyone else's needs before your own? Do you constantly seek approval and validation? If so, you might be a people-pleaser. In this video, we dive deep into the psychology behind people-pleasing and provide practical strategies to break free from this harmful pattern. Discover how to build self-worth, set boundaries, and overcome the fear of rejection. Learn powerful techniques like the "separation of tasks" exercise and how to challenge your self-limiting beliefs. It's time to reclaim your life and prioritize your own happiness. This video is your first step towards becoming a more confident and authentic version of yourself. People-pleasing is a learned behavior that can be changed. Your worth is not determined by others' approval. Setting boundaries is essential for your well-being. Overcoming fear of rejection is possible. Self-compassion is key to personal growth.#peoplepleasing #selflove #mentalhealth #personalgrowth #confidence #boundaries
Stand Up For Yourself, Set Boundaries, & Stop Pleasing Others (if that's okay with you…) (Be Confident and Fearless Book 9) By: Patrick KingHear it Here - https://adbl.co/3To6NDuhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B7GWJN4FAre you tired of putting everyone else's needs before your own? Do you constantly seek approval and validation? If so, you might be a people-pleaser. In this video, we dive deep into the psychology behind people-pleasing and provide practical strategies to break free from this harmful pattern. Discover how to build self-worth, set boundaries, and overcome the fear of rejection. Learn powerful techniques like the "separation of tasks" exercise and how to challenge your self-limiting beliefs. It's time to reclaim your life and prioritize your own happiness. This video is your first step towards becoming a more confident and authentic version of yourself.Takeaways: People-pleasing is a learned behavior that can be changed. Your worth is not determined by others' approval. Setting boundaries is essential for your well-being. Overcoming fear of rejection is possible. Self-compassion is key to personal growth.
Do you struggle to say no? Do you constantly put others' needs before your own?In this video, we'll delve into the key concepts from Patrick King's book, The Art of Everyday Assertiveness, and equip you with the tools you need to confidently stand up for yourself and get what you want.Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/assertivenesskinghttps://www.amazon.com/Art-Everyday-Assertiveness-Boundaries-Control-ebook/dp/B07N51DJ5VYou'll learn: The importance of assertiveness in achieving your goals How to identify and challenge the beliefs that hold you back from speaking your mind Practical strategies for setting healthy boundaries and protecting your time and energy Effective communication techniques for saying no gracefully and without guilt How to prioritize your own happiness and well-beingThis video is your roadmap to a more assertive and fulfilling life. Stop letting others dictate your choices – take charge and start living on your own terms! Today's episode is from the book 'The Art of Everyday Assertiveness' by Patrick King. In this book, Patrick King teaches you how to stand your ground without guilt, fear, or awkward tension. Finally, get what you deserve and stop 'letting it slide.' Stop enabling, sacrificing your needs, people pleasing, and being so 'agreeable.' This is a guide for the chronically 'nice,' 'overwhelmed,' and 'accommodating.' The Art of Everyday Assertiveness is available on Amazon, and the audiobook is available on Amazon, iTunes, and Audible. Assertiveness requires a delicate balance, especially if you are new to it. You may have started as too passive, but take care to not swing into the aggressive territory where you are robbing other people of their needs. You can't control what others do or how they might respond to you, but you can control your own behavior.Remember Tony Robbins' six needs of human happiness: certainty, variety, significance, love and connection, growth, and contribution. These are what's at stake every time you choose to shrink away from asserting yourself.Ultimately, the power to live as you want is within your hands, not dictated by others' acceptance. Yes, sometimes this might ruffle some feathers, but you're not living for them.And finally, don't forget to write down your personal bill of rights and post it somewhere visible. These are your rights, not privileges.The Art of Everyday Assertiveness by Patrick King is available on Amazon, and the audiobook is available on Amazon, iTunes, and Audible
00:00:00 Unspoken Social Rules & Etiquette, (Un)common Sense, & How to Act (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 25) Written by Patrick King Narrated by Russell Newton.Unspoken Social Rules & Etiquette, (Un)common Sense, & How to Act (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 25) By: Patrick KingHear it Here - https://adbl.co/3lsqXzMhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRWMQNRFEver feel awkward when meeting new people?Unsure of the right way to greet someone?Fret no more! This video dives into Chapter 1 of Patrick King's book, "Unspoken Social Rules & Etiquette," unpacking the secrets to mastering greetings and introductions.In this video, you'll learn: The difference between informal and formal greetings How to make a confident first impression Tips for mastering introductions that leave a lasting positive impact Unspoken social cues to avoid awkwardnessSay goodbye to social blunders and hello to effortless communication!Plus, get a sneak peek into Patrick King's insightful guide - "Unspoken Social Rules & Etiquette."Don't forget to like and subscribe for more social skills tips and tricks!Today, we're diving into the world of apologies, a seemingly simple act that can have profound implications on our relationships. We'll be exploring the art of apologizing effectively, drawing insights from Patrick King's book, "Unspoken Social Rules & Etiquette." This comprehensive guide covers a wide range of social nuances, from mastering greetings to navigating difficult conversations. You can find it on Amazon, and the audiobook is available on Amazon, iTunes, and Audible.
00:00:00.000 10-Minute Philosophy00:05:56.080 The Trolley Dilemma.00:09:57.040 Philosophy Is About Thinking.00:13:08.600 What's Your Life Philosophy?10-Minute Philosophy: From Buddhism to Stoicism, Confucius and Aristotle - Bite-Sized Wisdom From Some of History's Greatest Thinkers By: Patrick King Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/10MinPhilhttps://www.amazon.com/10-Minute-Philosophy-Confucius-Aristotle-Bite-Sized-ebook/dp/B07T9QVSX7Feeling lost and searching for answers? You're not alone! In this video, we'll explore the exciting world of philosophy with Patrick King's book, "10-Minute Philosophy."We'll break down complex ideas from some of history's greatest thinkers, like Buddha, Stoics, Confucius, and Aristotle, all in easy-to-understand, bite-sized chunks.
Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3n6A2fzPodcast00:00:00 The Independent Thinker Written by Patrick King Narrated by Russell Newton.00:00:42 The Levels Of Mastering Independent Thought.00:01:56 Level 1 - A Patchwork Identity.00:03:27 Level 2 - Developing trust in the self.00:06:22 Level 3 - Truly independent thought.00:14:53 The Fundamentals Of Independent Thought.00:15:15 Habit 1 - Critical reading.00:18:10 Habit 2 - Not getting too fond of your own perspective.00:20:30 Habit 3 - Being O. K. With Being Disliked.00:23:01 Habit 4 - Always staying curious.00:29:00 Socrates – teaches us about challenging assumptions.00:32:09 Niall Ferguson – teaches us the power of counterfactual thinking.00:34:05 Friedrich Nietzsche – teaches us about perspective.Are you tired of being spoon-fed information? Do you want to make smarter decisions and see through manipulation? Independent thinking is the key to a more examined life. In this video, we'll dive into the ideas from Patrick King's book "The Independent Thinker"
00:00:00 The Art of Clear Thinking00:05:14 The Armored Ego.00:21:32 Obstacles To Honest Thought.00:34:01 On Forming Opinions.00:41:49 “Strong opinions which are lightly held” is a helpful rule of thumb."The Art of Clear Thinking" by Patrick KingHear it Here: https://bit.ly/clearthinkingkingStruggling to think clearly and make sound decisions? You're not alone! In this video, we'll explore key ideas from Patrick King's book "The Art of Clear Thinking: Mental Models for Better Reasoning, Judgment, Analysis, and Learning."We'll delve into the concept of intellectual honesty and how it's the foundation of clear thinking. We'll also discuss the obstacles that prevent us from thinking honestly, such as our ego and biases.By understanding these challenges, you'll be better equipped to identify and overcome them. The video will also introduce the concept of mental models, which are powerful tools for simplifying complex situations and making better judgments.Whether you're looking to improve your decision-making skills, avoid logical fallacies, or simply think more critically, this video offers valuable insights and practical takeaways.Ready to upgrade your intellectual toolkit? Get your copy of "The Art of Clear Thinking" here: https://bit.ly/clearthinkingkingIn this video, we'll cover: What is intellectual honesty and why is it so important? The biggest obstacle to intellectual honesty (and how you can overcome it) How our biases and blind spots cloud our judgment The difference between real logic and deceptive reasoning Practical tips for thinking independently
Practical Intelligence: How to Think Critically, Deconstruct Situations, Analyze Deeply, and Never Be Fooled By Patrick KingHear it Here - https://bit.ly/practicalintelligencekinghttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B08263KGHKDescription:Feeling like you're missing things or not thinking critically enough? This video is for you!We'll dive into the world of Practical Intelligence by Patrick King, exploring how to: Look beneath the surface: Learn to deconstruct situations and uncover the hidden truths. Embrace curiosity: Sharpen your questioning skills and become a master of critical analysis. Develop a skeptical view: Don't be fooled! Learn to identify biases and make informed decisions.This video will equip you with the tools to think critically, analyze deeply, and make smarter decisions in all areas of your life.
In this video, learn how to master the art of conversation through improv comedy techniques. Improve your banter and leadership skills with insights from Patrick King!In today's video, we're going to explore how to improve your conversation skills using improv comedy techniques.We'll discuss: The importance of reading and reacting to everything in a conversation How to listen for emotion and be generous with your attention The power of using improv to think on your feet and come up with witty banterI'll also share some practical tips and exercises that you can use to start improving your conversations right away.By the end of this video, you'll have a better understanding of how to apply improv comedy techniques to your conversations and make them more engaging and enjoyable.
In this video, we'll discuss the key points from Patrick King's book "How to Speak Effectively: Influence, Engage, & Charm" (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 29). This book is a comprehensive guide to improving your communication skills and making a lasting impression on others.Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3N9lsjI00:00:00 How to Speak Effectively00:06:51 How To Use The Ladder In Your Own Life.00:28:30 Chunking - Adjusting The Zoom Button.00:42:58 Think Before You Speak.We'll cover topics such as: The Ladder of Inference: Using this framework to understand your assumptions and biases. How to Use the Ladder in Your Own Life: Practical tips for applying the Ladder of Inference to your daily interactions. Framing: How to present your ideas in a persuasive and engaging way. Chunking: How to break down complex information into smaller, more manageable chunks. Conversational Extremists: The Nitpicker and The Philosopher: How to deal with these two common conversational partners. Think Before You Speak: The importance of pausing and considering your words before you speak. Understanding "Clean Communication": What it is and how to achieve it.
Ready to captivate audiences and command attention? Join us as we delve into the world of charisma with Patrick King's groundbreaking book, "Massive Charisma." Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3OJ4V72In this episode, we'll explore the essence of charisma, providing a practical definition and zooming in on the specific qualities that make a truly charismatic individual. Discover how to cultivate a powerful charismatic aura that will leave a lasting impression on everyone you meet. Don't miss this opportunity to unlock your inner potential and become the charismatic leader you've always aspired to be!
Tired of awkward conversations? Learn how to avoid the top conversational landmines that can ruin your social interactions. In this video, we dive into Chapter 1 of Patrick King's book, How to Engage, Connect, & Captivate, and explore the 5 things you should never do when talking to others. Discover how to avoid playing the cool guy, being a boring know-it-all, bringing your ego to the party, bragging, and mismatching energy. By understanding these conversational pitfalls, you can become a more engaging and likable person.How to Engage, Connect, & Captivate: Become the Social Presence You've Always Wanted To Be. Small Talk, Meaningful Communication, & Deep Connections By: Patrick Kinghttp://bit.ly/EngageConnectKimg00:00:00 How to Engage, Connect, & Captivate00:00:14 Conversational Landmines.00:01:54 What To Avoid 1 .- Playing At Being The Cool Guy.00:08:58 What To Avoid 2 .- Being A Boring Know-It-All.00:16:06 What To Avoid 3 .- Bringing Your Ego To The Party.00:24:50 Thing To Avoid 4 .- Bragging.00:30:58 Thing To Avoid 5 .- Mismatched Energy.https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0952B32XQ
Want to know what people are truly thinking without them saying a word? Join Patrick King as he dives into the fascinating world of human behavior. In this episode, we'll explore the art of reading emotions and predicting behavior. Discover how to differentiate between primary and secondary emotions, and learn to listen to what the body is saying. You can gain valuable insights into people's attitudes and intentions by understanding emotions. Don't miss this opportunity to become a master of human interaction!00:00:00 Become A Human Behavior Scientist00:11:15 Understanding Allows Us To Predict.00:27:57 Learning To Perceive Emotion.00:37:12 Listening To What The Body Is Saying.Become A Human Behavior Scientist: Observe, Read, Understand, and Decode People With Minimal Information (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 18) By: Patrick KingHear it Here - https://adbl.co/424plO2https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09KQFLNSCBecome a student and scientist of body language, mannerisms, and small tells. Become a “mind reader.”
Discover the science of human connection with psychologist Robin Dunbar in "The Social Animal." Explore the psychology behind relationships and social interactions in this captivating book.The Science of Social Intelligence: 45 Methods to Captivate People, Make a Powerful Impression, and Subconsciously Trigger Social Status and Value [Second ... (The Psychology of Social Dynamics Book 7) By Patrick KingHear it Here - https://bit.ly/socialintelking00:00:00 The Science of Social Intelligence00:06:35 The Importance Of Being Social.00:17:02 The Social Brain Hypothesis.00:26:00 The Limits Of Our Sociality.https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0893ZRW1BIn this video, we'll explore the fascinating world of social intelligence and human connection. We'll discuss the importance of being social, the evolution of our social brains, and the effects of loneliness. We'll also delve into the limits of our sociality and how to effectively focus our social efforts.Here are some key takeaways from this video: Social intelligence is about how to fit in, charm people, and allow socializing to help rather than hinder you in achieving your goals. Our brains grew and developed as a result of needing to be social. Humans are social animals and need connection to thrive. There are limits to our social interactions, and we should focus our efforts on those who are most important to us.I hope you enjoy this video!
Learn the subtle art of likability and how to make people crave your presence. Discover the secrets of context-dependent memory and how it can enhance your social skills.The Science of Likability: 67 Evidence-Based Methods to Radiate Charisma, Make a Powerful Impression, Win Friends, and Trigger Attraction (4th Ed.) (The Psychology of Social Dynamics Book 12) By: Patrick KingHear it Here - https://adbl.co/3BXFuHQ
Learn the power of mindset in people skills before you open your mouth! Discover the Clever Hans effect and its impact on communication and perception.Improve Your People Skills: How to Connect With Anyone, Communicate Effectively, Develop Deep Relationships, and Become a People Person By Patrick KingHear it Here - https://adbl.co/3nQxB0N00:00:00 Improve Your People Skills00:05:10 Hanlon's Razor And Assumptions.00:13:52 The Curiosity Factor.00:25:05 Walk A Mile For Empathy.00:28:36 Let's take Patricia Moore, for example.00:31:34 It evokes the quote by Brad Meltzerhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B07XK7WBW2Learn how to adapt, win people over, and handle just about any social situation.Your qualifications and intelligence aren't what will move you forward in life. People skills (soft skills, interpersonal skills, social skills, and likability) are. They allow you to effortlessly glide through life and roll with the punches, as well as maximize the situations you'll find yourself in. When your relationships are harmonious and authentic, the whole world opens up.
Make Friends Easily: How to Charm and Connect in Record Time By: Patrick KingHear it Here - https://adbl.co/3u0rxtc00:00:00 Make Friends Easily00:06:17 The Friendship Formula.00:18:17 How To Use Schafer'S Formula To Your Benefit.00:23:22 Create Your Own Reality Distortion Field.00:28:39 Stay Present.00:38:42 Reciprocal Curiosity.00:52:02 Assume Nothing.00:54:54 Person, Not Story.00:57:29 You Go First.https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CDWF4WLJ Making new friends doesn't have to be a chore. Learn how to do it quickly, efficiently, and effectively.Networking events? Big group dinners? Karaoke parties? Please, no.Get past boring small talk and deeply connect with others.Make Friends Easily - it's a simple task, isn't it? But why is it so hard in our modern age? There are so many distractions, so why should people pay attention to you? That's your challenge and task, and this book provides the answer. You'll learn how to become a presence that people crave, how to get past shallow conversation, and how to make sure that your connections are long and lasting.It's simple, but not easy. So pick up this book to make it easier.Discover the secrets to building lasting friendships and creating a powerful personal presence. In this video, we'll explore Dr. Jack Schafer's "friendship formula" and learn how to apply it to your own life. We'll also dive into the concept of a reality distortion field and uncover the techniques used by charismatic individuals to captivate others.Learn how to: Increase proximity, frequency, duration, and intensity to foster deeper connections. Create a strong personal presence and leave a lasting impression. Practice active listening and genuine empathy to build trust and understanding. Overcome social anxiety and develop effective communication skills.Whether you're looking to make new friends or strengthen existing relationships, this video has something valuable to offer.
How To Be Hilarious and Quick-Witted in Everyday Conversation (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 14) By: Patrick KingHear it Here - https://bit.ly/BeHilarious00:00:00 How To Be Hilarious and Quick-Witted in Everyday Conversation00:06:37 Know Your Humor Style.00:10:22 Finding The Humor In Everyday Life.00:17:28 Consume More Comedy.00:23:06 Puns And Dad Jokes.00:29:03 What Funny Stories Are Made Of.00:35:31 Funny Analogies.00:36:37 The Death penalty and the McRib.00:39:21 The Holy Trinity.00:42:40 The Art Of Misdirection.00:49:31 Be Oddly Specific.https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09DBPMF23Exact phrases to develop your sense of humor, master witty remarks, make people laugh, and be funnier – even if you're not naturally funny.How To Be Hilarious and Quick-Witted in Everyday Conversation is full of strategies that dissect, break down, and analyze all of the types of humor that you'll encounter in daily conversation – stuff you can really use with people you talk to. We're not all trying to become standup comedians, and this isn't a book about ha-ha jokes with setups and punch lines. These are little tips and tactics for you to become noticeably quick and clever.Make a better impression on people, put them at ease, charm them, and make them smile with you.Learn witticisms, quips, retorts, comebacks, and wisecracks without being cheesy or corny. Don't worry if you feel like you've never understood humor or how to be funny. I've done the work for you and analyzed everyone from comedy writers to standup comedians and given you step-by-step, complete guidance to use common joke structures in everyday situations. Adaptable to any premise, topic, or setting!Strategies to instantly be clever and witty and sound like a world-class comedian.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and sought-after Social Skills and Conversation Coach. He teaches building rapport, and a major part of that is using humor to connect with others – shared moments of laughter are incredible bonding moments, and you'll be able to create them without being "that guy/girl".Humor is the highway to the relationships you want in life.•What makes an impactful comedic delivery and storytelling.•How to use irony and sarcasm conversationally.•How to create and build a banter chain with others.•Injecting role play into any situation.•How to play on people's expectations and sense of contrast.•The art of misconstruing.•Why relatability is so darn funny.•The famous “comic triple.”#BeHilarious #Charismatic #EverydayConversation #Hilarious #PatrickKing #SocialSkills #RussellNewton #NewtonMG #PatrickKing #PatrickKingConsulting #SocialSkillsCoaching #HowToBeFunny #ABeginner'SGuideToHumor
Neuroscience-proven guidelines to think, act, and become smarter ASAP. It's not what you know, it's how you think.00:00:00 Practical Intelligence00:00:17 Look Beneath The Surface.00:09:15 Curious As A Cat.00:19:25 A Skeptic's View.00:28:10 The Critical Thinker.00:36:56 Paul-Elder Thinking.You've been fooled before. You've missed things. You've been slow on the uptake and others have passed you by. Radically transform your thinking for both speed AND accuracy.Think quickly on your feet to solve problems, overcome obstacles, and win arguments.Practical Intelligence is not a common “think smarter” book. No, it starts from biological bases of analytical thinking, and how we can re-program ourselves for deep insight. This book provides real, actionable tool after tool, because smart thinking is all about HOW, and not why or what. The bottom line is that you'll be able to apply this book's thinking models immediately, until they become habit.Better decision-making, smarter reasoning, and greater mental clarity.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author. He has sold over a million books. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience.Learn to ask the intelligent questions, draw insight, and analyze situations.•How the body and brain must work together for quick thinking.•What it truly means to think deeply and analyze.•How to think about your thinking, and the obstacles that short circuit your good intentions.Science-based techniques to train your brain for optimal performance.•Mental models for optimal decision-making.•How to train your brain for speed.•Tips for divergent and creative thinking - generating ideas.Never get fooled again and find the truth in situations quickly.At first glance, most things seem fine. And maybe ignorance is bliss. But to think clearly, deeply, quickly, and effectively - you'll discover just how much of your life you have been missing, for better or worse.
Read People Like a Book: How to Analyze, Understand, and Predict People's Emotions, Thoughts, Intentions, and Behaviors (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 9)By: Patrick King Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/readpeoplekinghttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BTYQXK6200:00:00 Read People Like a Book00:00:04 Why You'Re Probably Doing It Wrong.00:00:06 The Problem Of Objectivity.00:00:10 Motivation As A Behavioral Predictor.00:00:16 Our Inner Child Still Lives.00:00:18 The Motivation Factor—Pleasure Or Pain.00:00:23 The Pyramid Of Needs.00:00:28 Defense Of The Ego.Speed read people, decipher body language, detect lies, and understand human nature. Is it possible to analyze people without them saying a word? Yes, it is. Learn how to become a “mind reader” and forge deep connections.How to get inside people's heads without them knowing.Hear it Here - http://bit.ly/readpeoplekingRead People Like a Book isn't a normal book on body language of facial expressions. Yes, it includes all of those things, as well as new techniques on how to truly detect lies in your everyday life, but this book is more about understanding human psychology and nature.We are who we are because of our experiences and pasts, and this guides our habits and behaviors more than anything else. Parts of this book read like the most interesting and applicable psychology textbook you've ever read. Take a look inside yourself and others!Understand the subtle signals that you are sending out and increase your emotional intelligence.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience.Learn the keys to influencing and persuading others.• What people's limbs can tell us about their emotions.• Why lie detecting isn't so reliable when ignoring context.• Diagnosing personality as a means to understanding motivation.• Deducing the most with the least amount of information.• Exactly the kinds of eye contact to use and avoidFind shortcuts to connect quickly and deeply with strangers.The art of reading and analyzing people is truly the art of understanding human nature. Consider it like a cheat code that will allow you to see through people's actions and words.Decode people's thoughts and intentions, and you can go in any direction you want with them.#DrJamesDrikell #DrRayBull #FloridaMaximaCorporation #JayOlson #JoeNavarro #PatrickKing #RussellNewton #NewtonMG #PatrickKing #PatrickKingConsulting #SocialSkillsCoaching #ReadPeopleLikeaBook #UnlockTheSecretsOfPeople #MasterTheArtOfReadingAnyone
Learn how to stop people-pleasing and break free from the need to be liked. Say goodbye to the disease to please and start living for yourself!Stand Up For Yourself, Set Boundaries, & Stop Pleasing Others (if that's okay with you…) (Be Confident and Fearless Book 9) By: Patrick KingHear it Here - https://adbl.co/3To6NDuhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B7GWJN4F
Improve Your Conversations: Think on Your Feet, Witty Banter, and Always Know What to Say with Improv Comedy Techniques (2nd Edition) (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 10)By Patrick KingHear it Here - https://bit.ly/improvking00:00:00 Improve Your Conversations00:09:46 Spontaneity and Flow00:15:41 Emotional Intelligence00:21:26 Play00:24:50 Make it Easyhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B08RY4HMHXDoes your mind blank in conversation and create awkward silence? Do you run out of things to say and struggle to keep dialogue flowing?(A) Conversation isn't scripted, (B) it's 100% unpredictable, and (C) it can be terrifying at times. How do you prepare for such a thing? By learning how to apply improv comedy techniques to roll with any punch and improve your conversations and social interactions.Become quicker and more clever in daily conversation.Improv(e) Your Conversations teaches the ingenious rules of improv comedy that allow performers to turn boring prompts into memorable interactions worthy of standing ovations. This means there are real frameworks and templates to escape interview mode small talk – and start connecting and building rapport from the moment you say “Hello.” This book goes through over 15 of the most helpful and insightful improv comedy techniques with countless real-life examples to make you a great talker.Learn the conversational secrets of the world's best comedians.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience.Over 15 actionable tips that are actually practical and relateable.•The three easy ways to always know what to say, even when your mind goes blank.•What Sherlock Holmes has to do with great rapport.•How to read people better and what to look for.•The one goal you must always keep in mind (that you probably don't even know).Adapt, witty comeback, reply, and charm in record time.•What causes awkward silences and how to prevent them.•How your conversation should resemble a movie.•How to “flip the switch” to be more entertaining.Conversation skills are the gatekeeper to the rest of your life.Improving your conversations gives you the ability to turn a random encounter into a flowing conversation, into a lasting friendship. Fewer acquaintances and more friends, less small talk and more true substance.•Better networking, better career placement, better job interviews.•New friendships, improved relationships, and being more attractive to the opposite sex.•Instant likability and great first impressions." #Banter #Comedy #Conversation #Improv #ImprovComedyTechniques #ImproveYourConversations #PatrickKing #RussellNewton #NewtonMG #ImproveYourConversations #MasterTheArtOfConversation:LearnFromImprovComedy
How to Extract Info, Secrets, and Truth: Make People Reveal Their True Thoughts and Intentions Without Them Even Knowing It (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 12) By: Patrick KingHear it Here - https://bit.ly/ExtractInfohttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B093ZRPCDK00:00:00.000 How to Extract Info, Secrets, and Truth00:02:59.000 Look At My Face.00:14:44.640 Body Talk.00:33:09.000 Putting It All Together.00:49:18.560 Thinking In Terms Of Message Clusters.Learn to quickly read people and draw conclusions from seemingly innocent and easy questions.Some people are forthcoming, and others are not so much. Either they are guarded, or they are deliberately hiding something. Well, whatever the case, this book is how you crack them and learn exactly what they aren't saying.Tips from FBI interrogators, psychologists, and famous lawyers.How to Extract Info, Secrets, and Truth turns you into an expert reader of intentions, behavior, thoughts, and emotions. The tips in this book are used by professionals to extract valuable knowledge worth millions of dollars.You'll read about body language, speed reading, thin slicing, and every other technique that has been scientifically proven.The goal of this book is to arm you with tools to uniquely understand and peel back the layers on people before they even know it. No one will be a puzzle to you anymore.How to subtly direct a conversation to exactly what you want. Exactly what to look and listen for.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience.Protect yourself from those trying to probe you.The value of knowing how to extract information is in understanding human nature. That is the true purpose of this book. Once you know how people think, and what patterns tend to form, you'll be armed with a powerful tool for the rest of your life. #Charismatic #PatrickKing #RevealTheirTrueThoughts #RussellNewton #NewtonMG #PatrickKing #PatrickKingConsulting #SocialSkillsCoaching #HowtoExtractInfo #Secrets #andTruth #BecomeAHumanLieDetector:ReadPeopleLikeABook
00:00:00 Intentional Communication00:03:31 You versus Me ...or Us versus the Problem00:13:22 Assume People Are Doing Their Best.00:24:31 Telling The Third Story.00:34:08 Address the Higher Self, Acknowledge the Emotional Self00:44:54 Mastering Self-Differentiation Intentional Communication: Emotional Validation, Listening, Empathy, and the Art of Harmonious Relationships By: Patrick KingHear it Here - https://adbl.co/3HhRPImhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B09MPQJ3BZ How to read between the lines and eliminate conflict while improving every single relationship.Communication is not just chit-chat, and it is not just the words coming out of people's mouths. It's like an onion with layers and layers of nuance, and the deeper you go, the more important it becomes. It has the power to transform your relationships, and thus your life. Learn how to utilize this powerful tool to the fullest.All the tools you need to become the most effective communicator you know.Intentional Communication is about the most important skill you can ever possess: how to clearly communicate your thoughts and feelings, and receive the same from others. It sounds simple, but then you realize that every day is filled with misunderstandings, passive-aggression, missed opportunities, and emotional outbursts. Why?Genuine communication that leads to long-lasting relationships is rare, and it's not easy to discover the gaps that hold us back. This book shows you the way and draws deep into both human psychology and usable tips and tricks to transform the way you relate to others.How to truly hear people's thoughts and emotions, while also clearly expressing yours.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real-life experience. He used to be turbulent relationships where dueling monologues was the norm. What changed? Implementing the techniques in this book.The most essential mindsets to ensure comfortable, vulnerable, and satisfying relationships. The biggest obstacles to healthy communication and listening What true validation is, and the powerful catharsis it provides The concept of self-differentiation and how it will change you forever What an Imago dialogue is and how it can save marriages Your unconscious contribution to conflict and passive-aggression, and how to conquer it What empathy and curiosity have to do with each otherHow to be immediately trustworthy and empathetic.People don't have the time to give you second chances. Put your best foot forward by understanding what really matters in communication. Relationships are the key to happiness and fulfillment, and this book unlocks them.Apply these principles anywhere: parties, networking events, dates, and family get-togethers. #Communication #HarmoniousRelationships #Imago #IntentionalCommunication #EmotionalValidation #Listening #Empathy #PatrickKing #RussellNewton #NewtonMG #PatrickKing #PatrickKingConsulting #SocialSkillsCoaching #IntentionalCommunication #CommunicationBreakthrough: #StopFighting # #StartCollaborating
00:00:00 Learn to Think Using Riddles, Brain Teasers, and Wordplay00:04:18 Thinking Modalities.00:05:48 Going Outside The Box.00:13:30 Mastering Critical Thinking.00:24:33 Putting It All Together.Learn to Think Using Riddles, Brain Teasers, and Wordplay: Develop a Quick Wit, Think More Creatively and Cleverly, and Train your Problem-Solving instincts By Patrick KingHear it Here - https://bit.ly/usingriddleshttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B08CD33V2SLearn how to ask the right questions, solve problems, and think more clearly.In traditional education, you're taught to recite and regurgitate. But there is rarely application, and information just becomes information for information's sake. Does this actually make us smarter and more clever, or do we just get better at taking tests?Test yourself with over 30 maddening riddles and brain teasers designed to make you think outside the box.Learn to Think Using Riddles, Brain Teasers, and Wordplay is about how to think backwards, forwards, and sideways. Starting with a conclusion and finding the possible causes forces you to analyze, investigate, draw connections, and hypothesize. You need to explore all angles and let no stone remain unturned. This is exactly what real life requires.This book will confuse, frustrate, and ultimately improve your thinking prowess like nothing else, on account of being thrown into the mental deep end. Challenge yourself and you will grow.#AncientGreekRiddles #AugustKekule #SalvadorDali #ThinkingModalities #UsingRiddles #BrainTeasers #WarrenBerger #RussellNewton #NewtonMG #PatrickKing #PatrickKingConsulting #SocialSkillsCoaching #LearntoThinkUsingRiddles #BrainTeasers #andWordplay #UnlockYourMind:MasterCriticalThinkingWithRiddles
00:00:00 The Power of EQ00:02:12 Empathic Listening And Responding.00:09:20 The Four Types Of Empathic Responses.00:22:58 Ways to be a more active and constructive responder00:27:36 Shift Responses Versus Support Responses.The Power of E.Q.: Social Intelligence, Reading People, and How to Navigate Any Situation By: Patrick KingHear it Here - https://adbl.co/3OJ4V72https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C3CC2RM3Your success in life will depend on how good you are with people. Sorry, that's the harsh truth.But the good news is that this is a trainable skill - and this book is an amazing start.Make a smashing first impression and make people crave your presence.The Power of E.Q. is as practical as a book can be. You will get techniques to use immediately on the people around you, and you will suddenly realize how much you have been missing! You will gain a deep understanding of emotional intelligence and the small signs behind what people are thinking and feeling. Imagine how much more easily you could make friends or befriend business partners if you could analyze them better.Read and analyze people with such stunning accuracy that they will be shocked.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real-life experience.Find the shortcuts to connecting with people in record time. conversational intelligence and how to empathize in 4 steps how to step outside of your own perspective and read the emotions of others cold reading and being an expert at finding "clues" about people understanding emotions and how to label yourself and others how high-quality questions will make you seem like a mind reader#DrDurvasula #PatrickKing #RussellNewton #NewtonMG #PatrickKing #PatrickKingConsulting #SocialSkillsCoaching #ThePowerofE.Q. #HandlingBigEgos—IncludingYourOwn #
Mindful Listening: How To Be Present, Intentional, and Empathetic (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 35)By Patrick KingHear it Here - https://adbl.co/3zldf8Yhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CX1F3HFXThe key behind communication - it's not about what you say. It's how you shut up.Empathy and listening - they sound easy, but you know that most people you meet on a daily basis can't do it. So what's the deal?Mindful listening is the skill behind deep relationships.This book is about a skill that isn't complex, but also not easy. It's a book about relationships and what drives them - what lets you into people's hearts. Making someone feel seen and heard and important is the highway to anyone's heart. So it's time to take a look at yourself, diagnose your issues with connection and listening, and attack new and old friendships with a more empathetic perspective.Increase your emotional intelligence and people analyzing skills.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real-life experience.Listening well is like reading someone's mind. Everything is said for a reason!-Understand the purpose of pausing and using silences to your advantage-How your ego sabotages your listening and how to get around it-Four types of responses to let people feel seen and heard for sure-How to validate and normalize someone's experience and emotions-The art of paraphrasing and the effect it has on someone's levels of trust-Listening and thinking - you can't do two things at once, but you can act like it-The divide between listening for your own goals, and listening to understand#ClarifyingQuestions #ComprehensiveListening #CriticalListening #EmotionalPreparedness #EmpathicListening #MindfulListening #ProfessorNadineMarsnik #RussellNewton #NewtonMG #MindfulListening #TheLOSTArtOfListening: #BecomeAMASTERCommunicator
00:00:00 Motivation Triggers00:00:28 What Is Motivation?00:02:52 Anything You Want.00:04:46 What Is Motivation?00:15:13 Science, History, And Biology.00:28:44 The Science Of Motivated Action.00:34:09 Three Primary Theories.00:34:54 Drives And Needs Theory.00:35:29 Arousal Theory.00:36:50 Instinct Theory.00:54:48 Theories Into Application And Practice.Have you ever wondered what truly motivates you? This video dives deep into the science behind motivation, exploring its history, biology, and the key theories that explain why we do what we do.In Chapter 1: Understanding Motivation, you'll learn: What motivation is and how it differs from happiness and inspiration How different historical figures viewed motivation The importance of motivation in achieving your goals The 3 main theories of motivation: Instinct Theory, Drives & Needs Theory (including Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs), and Personal Arousal Theory How to leverage these theories to boost your own motivationBy the end of this video, you'll have a solid foundation for understanding what makes you tick and how to harness the power of motivation to crush your goals!
MASSIVE CHARISMA: Small Talk, Charm, Likability, and How to Succeed With People (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 31) By: Patrick KingHear it Here - https://adbl.co/3uhUQ6Thttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C7Q9FBM8 Develop your own personal gravity with concrete skills to stand out, be noticed, and captivate people.If you (1) walk into a room and feel invisible, or (2) want to ensure you make a powerful personal impact – NEWSFLASH: you need better advice than “fake it ‘til you make it” or “just be yourself.”Confidently approach and excel in any social setting.MASSIVE CHARISMA is a book that just might fundamentally change how you interact with others. Never before have you looked behind the curtain of so-called charismatic people and the subtle ways they act and think differently. You get the “how to” along with the “why” and a multitude of illustrative examples.We are always told that our interpersonal skills are the key to what we want in life, and it's true. Let the actionable tips, questions, approaches, and replicable techniques in this book be your guide to growing your sense of personal magnetism and charm.Advice from an internationally-known, professional charisma coach.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and teaches charisma and social skills for a living. He's also a late bloomer and former social recluse – he made the transformation, knows exactly what it takes, and can relate to you every step of the way – advice from someone who simply gets it.He has been featured in: GQ Magazine, Tedx, Forbes, Men's Fitness, and the Huffington Post.The highly focused advice will teach you what matters in an interaction, from beginning to end, subtle to obvious, small to big.•How to wield your attention and focus for maximum impact.•How choosing and being a role model help your charisma quotient.•The subconscious body language signals that matter.•How to exude true empathy and warmth.Solve: small talk, interviews, networking events, and strangers.•How to demonstrate your value, confidence, and powerful presence.•How to tailor your communication and speak to individuals.•How to listen and validate effectively.•The top charisma mistakes people unknowingly commit.Charisma is the one skill that opens all the doors you want in life, and the benefits are endless. #AffectiveCommunicationTest #BreatheAnchor #BuddhistZen #Cabane #CharismaMyth #FoxCabane #FredMcFeelyRogers #Friedman #FromCabanes #GretaThunberg #HowardFriedman #OliviaFoxCabane #SimsWyeth #SocialPsychology #RussellNewton #NewtonMG #PatrickKing #PatrickKingConsulting #SocialSkillsCoaching #MASSIVECHARISMA
00:00:00 Improve your people skills00:02:38 The Triangle Eye Contact Technique00:06:53 Using Proxemics00:09:27 Personal Space00:14:23 Perceptual Positions For Empathy And Awareness00:23:45 Three-Step Active ListeningImprove Your People Skills: How to Build Relationships Anywhere, with Anyone, in Any Situation By: Patrick KingHear it Here - https://adbl.co/3nQxB0Nhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B2P6YCS2Become the ultimate people person and social butterfly.Your qualifications and intelligence aren't what will move you forward in life. People skills (soft skills, interpersonal skills, social skills, and likability) are. They allow you to effortlessly glide through life and roll with the punches, as well as maximize the situations you'll find yourself in. When your relationships are harmonious and authentic, the whole world opens up.Understand people's psychological drives.Improve Your People Skills is a book of action that allows you to truly understand others and speak their language, no matter what it is. It will fundamentally change your approach to others and you'll instantly understand where you've gone wrong. It goes beyond social intelligence and gives you a blueprint to the psychology of people.People skills open the doors for your life in a way that literally nothing else can.Become a captivating, comforting, and desired presence.Whether it's winning at work politics, making new friends, or strengthening current relationships, people skills are your quickest and surest route to success – no matter the situation. Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and sought-after social skills coach and trainer. He knows firsthand the value of people skills because they rescued him from lackluster grades and jumpstarted his career – the value of “just fitting in anywhere” cannot be understated.Build trust, create emotional depth, and cultivate intimacy. How to use empathy on a daily basis What proxemics are and how to use them The types of humor that you should and shouldn't use Navigating tense situations and conflict How to argue better How to respond to people to make them feel heard and valuedLearn how to fit in anywhere, and make any interpersonal situation pleasurable.#PatrickKing #PeopleSkills #Relationship #RussellNewton #NewtonMG #PatrickKing #PatrickKingConsulting #SocialSkillsCoaching #ImproveYourPeopleSkills #MasterSocialSkills:EyeContact #BodyLanguage&ActiveListening
Establishing Boundaries: How to Protect Yourself, Become Assertive, Take Back Control, and Set Yourself Free (Be Confident and Fearless Book 6) By Patrick KingHear it Here - https://bit.ly/establishboundariesking00:07:47.640 Drawing The Line00:13:00.440 Types Of Boundaries00:21:53.960 Are You In Need?00:28:09.515 Your Relationship With Boundaries00:33:02.040 The Conditional Statement00:38:01.480 An Important Definition00:58:21.120 Self Assessinghttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B08CV1V7HLHow to Establish Boundaries: Protect Yourself, Become Assertive, Take Back Control, and Set Yourself Free (Be Confident and Fearless Book 3) Kindle Editionby Patrick King (Author) Format: Kindle Edition
Unlock the Secret to Better Relationships! People skills aren't just about what you say – they begin with how you think about others. 00:00:00 Improve your people skills00:03:20 Members of the Belief Police00:12:35 For instance, take the story of Clever Hans00:17:02 Hanlon's RazorIn this video, we explore the power of: Hanlon's Razor: Why assuming good intentions strengthens connections. Curiosity Factor: How genuine interest unlocks fascinating conversations. Walking a Mile in Their Shoes: The power of empathy for understanding others. Discover how these simple mindset shifts can transform your interactions and build meaningful relationships. Ready to become a people magnet? Watch Now!
How to Listen, Hear, and Validate: Break Through Invisible Barriers and Transform Your Relationships (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 11) By Patrick King00:00:00 How to listen, hear, and validate00:10:37 Why Validation Is So Important00:16:53 Isn't Validation The Same As Empathy?00:19:57 Validation—One Of The Clearest Ways To Express Care00:25:52 Validating The Right Way And In The Right MomentHear it Here - https://bit.ly/listenhearvalidatekinghttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B08WLBD418Cultivate deep connections wherever you go. Prevent 100% of conflict, misunderstanding, and loneliness.Healthy relationships involve our feelings being heard, understood, and validated. Unfortunately, this is the exception rather than the rule. Are you doing it wrong, and alienating people versus comforting them? Find out how to walk this fine line.Uncover the biggest obstacle to the intimate, healthy relationships that we desire and deserve.How to Listen, Hear, and Validate is all about our top communication struggle - our tendency to react instead of respond, and forget that our goal is to build bridges rather than walls. You'll learn what you've been doing wrong, and why your efforts at getting closer to people - in deep or light manners - have failed. You'll learn actionable techniques and frameworks to have the most productive conversations of your life - ones that will walk away with people praising how empathetic you are. Most importantly, you will gain profound insights on how to reprogram yourself into a natural communicator.No more unresolved issues, struggles to get close, or failures from ineffective communication.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. His struggles in his early relationships has inspired him to unravel practical ways to cultivate meaningful, reciprocative interactions.Establish vulnerable, fulfilling and satisfying relationships.•The big mistakes when we ‘listen' to others•How to structure a style for effective validation and empathy•Scripts to validate others, to know exactly what to say•Simple tactics to make others feel loved and seen•How to use empathetic communication and active listening techniquesDid you know? Most communication problems come from a lack of validation.Are we truly paying attention to the messages others are conveying, or are we just waiting for our turn to speak? Are we listening to reply, or listening to hear? After applying the proven techniques from this book, you'll be able to increase love, respect and satisfaction to your relationship. You'll become the person everyone wants in their life.Connect deeper and better. Raise the standard for your relationships.#A #Aggressive #All #Are #ASo #AWell #AYeah #B #BNo #BOh #Brisini #ExpressCare #Narcissist #TianSolomon #Validate #Validating #Validation #RussellNewton #NewtonMG #PatrickKing #PatrickKingConsulting #SocialSkillsCoaching #HowtoListen #Hear #andValidate #ValidationAsACommunicationSkill
Do you wish you were the life of the party, someone who effortlessly commands attention and connects with others? 00:00:00 Massive Charisma00:02:40 A Practical Definition00:05:47 Being More Influential00:16:39 Being More Affable00:28:14 Emotional Expressiveness00:33:50 Emotional Control00:36:10 Social Expressiveness00:38:34 Social Sensitivity00:41:51 Social ControlCharisma might seem like a magical gift, but it's actually a set of learnable skills! This video dives deep into the psychology of charisma, breaking it down into practical steps you can take to become more charming and influential. Learn how to project confidence, have captivating conversations, and leave a lasting impression. Discover the 3 key elements of charisma according to Dr. Ronald Riggio, and practical tips for improving your expressiveness, emotional intelligence, and social awareness. Plus, uncover the surprising benefits of acting and improv for boosting your social skills! Watch now and unlock your inner charm!
00:00:00 Better Small Talk00:02:15 A Life of Stories00:09:34 The 1 -1 -1 Method00:16:04 The Story Spine00:25:32 Inside StoriesStruggling with awkward small talk? Discover how to turn those fleeting interactions into meaningful connections with actionable tips from Patrick King's "Better Small Talk." This video dives into the book's key points, including:The power of storytelling to build rapport and create lasting memories.The 1-1-1 method to effortlessly transition from small talk to deeper conversations.The Story Spine framework for crafting captivating narratives that engage others.And much more!Learn how to navigate social situations with confidence, leave a lasting impression, and build stronger relationships through the art of better small talk.
Feeling awkward in conversations? Don't worry, charm isn't about you - it's about making others feel heard!00:00:00 Hello listeners00:01:28 Talk WITH people and not TO them00:17:18 Sustain Conversations with Conversational Threading and Useful AcronymsThis video dives into Chapter 2 of "Tools of the Charming" and unveils powerful techniques to keep conversations flowing and engaging.Discover the "Rule of Three" that prevents you from rambling, and learn the magic of "Conversational Threading" to effortlessly navigate discussions. ✨You'll learn: The secret to charm: It's not about you! (Spoiler: It's all about making them feel good!) The "Rule of Three": Stop information overload and keep conversations interesting. Conversational Threading: Never run out of things to say! Why content is secondary to emotional connection.Become a master conversationalist today!P.S. Being open-minded, spontaneous, and genuine are key to everyday conversational success!
Easily listen to Social Skills Coaching in your podcast app of choice at https://bit.ly/social-skills-homeHear it Here - https://adbl.co/3N9lsjI• “Cooperative overlapping” is different from interrupting. It's about talking along with the speaker, not to undermine or cut them off, but to validate what they're saying, give encouragement, and show that they're paying close attention. It can vary across cultures; neither way is right, but try to acknowledge and accommodate differences.00:00:00 Hello listeners00:04:29 Try to be alert of the different kinds of interrupting/overlapping00:08:49 Mastering Turn-Taking00:13:08 When They're the Conversational Narcissist00:21:27 Summary• Turn-taking rules can be complex and culture-bound, but a big part of learning to be charming, likeable, and a good communicator is to constantly be appraising the situation and adapting and adjusting yourself accordingly.• When dealing with a conversational narcissist, don't try to rescue the conversation by being more attentive, understanding, and charming yourself, or you'll be taken advantage of. Instead use the gray rock technique and be aloof and unresponsive until they lose interest, and minimize contact as much as possible. Tighten up boundaries.