Hello Therapy: Mental Health Tips For Personal Growth

Ever wondered how EMDR works or whether it could help you or someone you support?This week I'm joined by Dr Gurpeet Kaur, a Clinical Psychologist and EMDR practitioner. We have an honest, myth-busting conversation about everything EMDR. We break down the science and explain how this therapy gets right to the root of problems, not just trauma or PTSD, but anxiety, shame, and those stuck feelings so many of us carry. We pull back the curtain on what an EMDR session actually looks like, breaking down the eight-phase protocol and introducing the innovative world of EMDR intensives - targeted, short-term therapy designed for lasting impact.Highlights include:05:30 Science of EMDR08:45 Addressing Misconceptions12:10 Bilateral Stimulation Explained18:35 Traditional Phased Approach22:50 Exploring EMDR IntensivesWant more?Head over to Hello Therapy's Substack for an exclusive extra video episode. WATCH NOW!This week's guest:Dr Gurpreet Kaur is a Clinical Psychologist and EMDR practitioner who specialises in treating trauma and helping people overcome their imposter syndrome to live life fully without being held back by anxiety or self doubt.  She shares mental health and therapy information on several social media platforms including TikTok, Instagram and LinkedIn and has contributed to several media articles. As well as 1:1 therapy Dr Kaur also runs a group for women who want to overcome their imposter syndrome and has a free resource on her website for anyone who wants to take the first step to resetting their imposter cycle. WebsiteInstagramTikTokTell us what you thought of this episode!BE PART OF OUR GROWING SUBSTACK COMMUNITY FOR FREE - Join now****************For private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Do you often feel insecure in your relationship or worry that your partner doesn't love you enough? In this episode, I unpack the concept of attachment anxiety - where it comes from, how it develops from our earliest experiences with caregivers, and how it can lead to unhelpful patterns in our romantic relationships. I outline the main signs of attachment anxiety and the coping strategies - sometimes called defence mechanisms - that people use to feel more secure, and most importantly, I share practical tips for building a more secure relationship with yourself and your partner.Whether you catch yourself constantly checking your partner's social media, ruminating over every conversation, or feeling like you're giving too much and neglecting your own needs, this episode is packed with supportive insights and actionable advice to help you better understand and manage attachment anxiety.Want more?Check out our Attachment Anxiety Mini Guide  packed with helpful tips, self reflective prompts and tips to help you feel more secure in your relationship. Download HERE.BE PART OF OUR GROWING SUBSTACK COMMUNITY FOR FREE - Join now****************For private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Ever wonder how chronic pain impacts not just your body, but your mindset and life? This week I'm joined by Dr. Amber Johnston, a leading Clinical Psychologist and Neuropsychologist, to unpack the science behind pain. We talk about breaking the cycle of fear and avoidance, how stress amplifies pain, and practical steps to reclaim your life. Whether you're battling pain or supporting someone who is, you'll gain actionable strategies to feel empowered and hopeful again. Listen in and discover how changing your relationship with pain can change everything.Highlights include:04:13 Acute vs. Chronic Pain08:26 Chronic Pain's Impact on Social Plans11:36 Subjectivity of Pain Perception15:49 Brain's Complex Pain Processing18:59 Perception's Role in Chronic Pain22:10 Understanding Fear Avoidance Cycle25:21 Rethinking Pain Signals30:18 Impact of Lifestyle on HealthWant more?Head over to Hello Therapy's Substack for an EXCLUSIVE mini interview where I ask Dr Amber why she specialised in pain and what her personal, go-to pain management strategy is. Watch HERE.This week's guest:Dr Amber Johnston, a practicing clinician specialising in Clinical, Health, Pain Management, and Neuropsychology, offers her expertise to individuals facing a broad spectrum of challenges - from those with mild stress looking to build healthier emotional tools, to those with more significant clinical diagnoses that need formal, specialised treatment. Amber also works with individuals who do not meet clear psychological or medical diagnosis, those requiring cognitive assessment or emotional support following a neurological injury or stroke, those with complex chronic medical conditions, and those with medically unexplained symptoms/Functional Neurological Disorder including health anxiety. In her capacity as the founder and director of Healthy Mind Psychology, Amber leads a team of over 26 doctoral-level Psychologists. Her mission is to expand understanding of the mind/body connection and emphasise the important message that psychological understanding is important for everybody.Follow Amber:@healthymindpsychologyukLinkedInBE PART OF OUR GROWING SUBSTACK COMMUNITY FOR FREE - Join now****************For private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Does anxiety rule your life?In this episode I discuss five common habits that anxious people tend to do which can keep anxiety going. I also provide actionable strategies to manage and cope with anxiety. I explore the detrimental effects of worry and overthinking, avoidance, catastrophising, hypervigilance, and the desire to eliminate anxiety. To help you manage anxiety effectively, I talk through evidence-based tools such as mindfulness, gradual exposure, reality checks, grounding exercises, and acceptance techniques.Highlights include:00:57 Understanding Anxiety and its Habits01:19 Habit 1: Worrying and Overthinking02:57 Habit 2: Avoidance06:15 Habit 3: Catastrophising09:23 Habit 4: Hypervigilance11:00 Habit 5: Wanting to Eliminate AnxietyYou can also watch the episode on YouTube. Videos mentioned in this episode:54321 Grounding ExerciseBE PART OF OUR GROWING SUBSTACK COMMUNITY FOR FREE - Join now****************For private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Are you parenting a neurodivergent child and struggling with all that can entail?This episode can help. I am joined by Clinical Psychologists Dr Jo Mueller and Dr Lauren Breese to discuss the complexities of neurodivergent parenting. We explore common misconceptions about neurodivergent children, the challenges of managing meltdowns and sensory overload, and the mental health struggles faced by parents. This conversation is about empowering parents to find ways to cope, and emphasises the importance of community support, practical strategies for stress management, and the need for advocating for your child within educational settings. Highlights include:04:45 Misconceptions About Neurodivergent Children09:30 Managing Sensory Overload and Meltdowns16:50 Mental Health Challenges for Parents23:57 Coping in Neurodivergent Households31:53 Advocating for Your ChildWant more insights? Take a look at the Hello Therapy Substack for an EXTRA interview where we get a little more personal about neurodivergent parenting. Check it out HERE.This week's guests:Dr Jo Mueller and Dr Lauren Breese are clinical psychologists who run The Neurodiversity Practice with their colleague, Dr Siobhan Higgins. With over 50 years of collective clinical & lived expertise in the world of neurodiversity, they founded The Neurodiversity Practice to make high-quality, evidence-based information & support accessible to a wider audience. The practice offers unique support and resources to parents via The Neurodivergent Parent Space community, to help them navigate neurodivergent family life with authenticity and positivity, plus neuroinclusivity training to practitioners and organisations.@theneurodiversitypracticeLinkedInBE PART OF OUR GROWING SUBSTACK COMMUNITY FOR FREE - Join now****************For private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Are you wondering - how do I improve my mental health and wellbeing?Maybe you are looking for guidance on the habits that foster good mental health?Look no further - in this episode I describe my TOP 5 TIPS for good mental health. From breaking out of autopilot mode to learning the art of self-compassion, I cover practical ways to enhance your well-being. Discover how to be more present in everyday life, manage your thoughts, and address the basics of self-care. This episode is a guide to understanding and nurturing your mental health, with tips and exercises you can start today.Highlights include:01:32 Shift Out of Autopilot04:25 Learn to Defuse Your Thoughts05:43 Take Care of the Basics06:31 Cultivate Self-Awareness09:13 Be a Friend to YourselfTry these journal prompts:1. How did I support myself today?2. What small win did I experience this week?3. What did I struggle with today?4. What am I holding onto that isn't serving me anymore?5. How can I be a friend to myself this week?6. What three small things did I appreciate about my day today?WANT TO JOURNAL YOUR WAY TO BETTER MENTAL HEALTH? DOWNLOAD OUR 10 PROMPTS FOR GOOD MENTAL HEALTH HERE.You can also watch the episode on YouTube. BE PART OF OUR GROWING SUBSTACK COMMUNITY FOR FREE - Join now****************For private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

How do I stop caring what others think? This is a question I get asked regularly. This last episode of Season 2 answers these questions and more! I share 10 practical tips for overcoming the fear of being judged by others. These strategies include understanding why we care so much, recognising the spotlight effect, stopping mind reading, and reframing rejection. I also discuss how to manage anxiety and live a more confident, fulfilling life. Watch to learn how to reclaim your self-belief and start prioritising your own happiness over the opinions of others.Highlights include:02:09 The Anxiety Cycle of People-Pleasing08:04 Accepting Judgsment and Identifying Important Opinions09:23 Reframing Rejection and Future Self12:16 Taking Action Despite FearYou can also watch the episode on YouTube. Plus, stay tuned for some sneak peaks into what's to come in Season 3.BE PART OF OUR GROWING SUBSTACK COMMUNITY FOR FREE - Join now****************For private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

 Do you ever wonder why self-doubt seems to hold you back, even when you're capable of so much more? This week I am joined by Natasha Scullane, a psychotherapist trained in CBT and EMDR. We delve into the complexities of self-doubt, particularly among women and explore the roots of self-doubt, its impact on personal and professional success, and the societal pressures that exacerbate these feelings. Natasha shares practical strategies for managing self-doubt, emphasising the importance of recognising personal values and taking actionable steps towards building confidence. The conversation also touches on the influence of social media and comparison, encouraging listeners to define their own success and prioritise self-care. Highlights include:08:26 Understanding Self-Doubt and Self-Criticism20:41 Breaking Free from Comparison26:43 Daily Practices to Build Self-TrustRead the blog of this episodeWatch an exclusive mini interview of this episode HEREThis week's guestNatasha Scullane is a psychotherapist trained in CBT and EMDR, with over 11 years of experience providing therapy and supervision in NHS Talking Therapies. In her private practice, she helps successful women who struggle with self-doubt, guiding them toward clarity and confidence. As a trauma-informed therapist, Natasha works with clients to resolve past experiences which may be manifesting in unexpected ways in the present. She also shares behind-the-scenes reflections on therapy and entrepreneurship in her Substack, Therapreneur Diaries.Follow NatashaWebsite: https://www.natashapsychotherapy.com (1:1 Online Therapy)@natashapsychotherapyFREE download: 6 Steps to Navigating Self-Doubt: A guide for Successful WomenBE PART OF OUR GROWING SUBSTACK COMMUNITY FOR FREE - Join now****************For private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

What happens when the anticipated joys of parenthood take an unexpected turn into the high-stakes world of the neonatal intensive care unit? I am joined by Dr Frankie Harrison, a clinical psychologist, who shares her personal and professional journey through the NICU experience. We discuss the profound emotional and psychological challenges that parents face when their newborns are admitted to the NICU. We touch on the raw emotions of anxiety, PTSD, and grief that often accompany this journey, underscoring the need for increased awareness and support systems for families both during their time in the NICU and as they transition home.Highlights include:0:09 Navigating the NICU Experience4:13 Understanding the Impact of NICU12:52 Coping With Lost Firsts in NICU20:49 Navigating NICU Challenges and BeyondThis week's guestDr. Frankie Harrison is a clinical psychologist, NICU parent, and the co-founder of Miracle Moon and The NICU Space. Her work combines professional expertise with personal experience, supporting parents through the emotional impact of neonatal care and birth trauma. Frankie is passionate about creating spaces where parents feel seen and supported, which led to the creation of The NICU Space an online community offering resources, connection, and tailored support for NICU parents. Visit Frankie's website at miraclemoon.co.uk, or explore The NICU Space at miraclemoon.co.uk/nicu-spaceFollow Frankie:@miraclemoonukBE PART OF OUR GROWING SUBSTACK COMMUNITY FOR FREE - Join now****************For private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Telling someone that you struggle with OCD can be very difficult and overwhelming.In this episode I provide practical strategies for having open and meaningful conversations about OCD, whether you're experiencing it or supporting someone who does. I discuss how to manage expectations for that initial conversation, managing disappointment, and how to explain OCD symptoms in relatable ways using metaphors. The episode also includes tips for listeners on how to best support someone with OCD, emphasising the importance of listening and understanding. WATCH THE VIDEO HERE.HIGHLIGHTS:01:35 Challenges of Opening Up About OCD02:54 Tips for Discussing OCD with Others07:37 Explaining Obsessional Thoughts and Compulsions11:26 Advice for Supporters of OCD SufferersBE PART OF OUR GROWING SUBSTACK COMMUNITY FOR FREE - Join now****************For private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Are you and your partner navigating the twists and turns of parenthood while trying to keep your relationship strong? In this episode I sit down with perinatal clinical psychologist, Dr. Naomi Gibson, to explore the emotional shifts and challenges couples face after bringing a new baby into their lives.In this heartfelt conversation, we delve into effective strategies to maintain connection and intimacy amidst the chaos of parenting. Whether you're preparing for your first child or managing a bustling household, this episode is packed with insights that will help you strengthen your partnership and build a thriving family.-  WANT MORE IDEAS FOR CONNECTION WITH YOUR PARTNER?Download our '50 Micro Moments of Connection' guide that will give you lots of great ideas on how to re-connect with your partner even with kids around. Check it out here.- BONUS VIDEOWatch an exclusive never heard before mini interview of this episode HERETHIS WEEK'S GUESTDr. Naomi Gibson is a Clinical Psychologist specialising in the ‘perinatal period'- from pregnancy to childbirth and all aspects of the transition to parenthood. She was trained as a psychologist in the UK and is now living and working in Amsterdam since a move with her family during the pandemic.She is particularly interested in the ways that couple relationships shift and change (for better or worse!) once kids come along, and is passionate in supporting couples to navigate these changes and strengthen their bond during this transformative stage of life.She recently launched Stick Together- Conversation Cards for New Parents, which are a set of 40 beautifully designed question cards crafted to bring partners closer together, as they navigate parenthood.Dr Naomi's websiteInstagramBE PART OF OUR GROWING SUBSTACK COMMUNITY FOR FREE - Join now****************For private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Do mealtimes and discussions around your child's body image leave you feel stressed and frazzled?In this episode of Hello Therapy, I am joined by Clinical Psychologist and author, Dr Anna Colton as we discuss how parents can foster healthy attitudes towards food and body image in their children. Anna shares practical tips on spotting early signs of eating disorders and managing weight and body image concerns. We also explore societal pressures, the impact of diet culture, and strategies for making mealtimes positive. Join us for actionable advice to support your child's mental and physical well-being.*Watch an exclusive never heard before mini interview of this episode HERE**Read the Blog HERE*Highlights include:03:46 Addressing Children's Concerns About Body Image06:52 Understanding Diet Culture and Its Impact08:16 Promoting Healthy Eating Habits10:40 Unhelpful Messages Around Food and Body Image18:30 Challenges with School's Approach to Food Education21:09 Addressing Parental Body Image Concerns22:46 Practical Tips for Parents25:10 Making Veggies Fun for Kids27:29 Spotting Eating Disorders in Teens31:21 Gym Culture and Its Impact on Teens35:40 Key Takeaways for ParentsThis week's guestDr Anna Colton is a clinical psychologist and has specialised in eating disorders and adolescence for over 20 years. She spent 10 years in the NHS, working at Great Ormond Street Hospital and in other eating disorder services and units, before moving to private practice. Anna is a huge believer in prevention where possible and otherwise in early intervention. In addition to her eating disorder and adolescent specialties, she now has a diverse range of niches which include media work, both on screen and radio as an ‘expert' and behind the scenes assessing and supporting contributors in reality TV shows and documentaries; working in the West End with 'child stars', and adults with stage fright and performance issues and with barristers and the Bar more widely.Follow Anna:@drannacoltonBuy her book, How to Talk to Children About Food:UK/e-book,Kindle New ZealandAustraliaBE PART OF OUR GROWING SUBSTACK COMMUNITY FOR FREE - Join now****************For private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Are you struggling to understand your teen and their behaviour? Perhaps you are feeling disconnected from them and unsure how to communicate? This week I am joined by Dr Beth Mosley, a Consultant Clinical Psychologist and author. We discuss how to navigate parenting teens, focusing on effective communication, understanding mental health challenges, and providing support during exams. Beth shares insights on the adolescent brain, the shift from a 'managerial' to a 'coaching' role in parenting, and the significance of timing and intention in conversations with teens. We also touch on the need for effective communication, the emotional challenges that parents can face, and strategies for building supportive relationships. Highlights include:01:12 Understanding Teenage Emotions03:16 Effective Communication with Teens07:05 From Manager to Coach: Parenting Strategies08:52 Encouraging Independence and Handling Mistakes12:02 Building Respectful Relationships with Teens15:00 Managing Parental Emotions and Apologising30:47 Recognising and Addressing Teen Mental Health Issues37:10 Supporting Teens During Exam StressFOR AN EXCLUSIVE MINI VIDEO EPISODE JUST FOR HELLO THERAPY SUBSTACK SUBSCRIBERS - CLICK HERE.This week's guestDr Beth Mosley MBE is a distinguished consultant clinical psychologist who specialises in children's mental health. She has worked in the NHS for over twenty years, providing specialist mental health support and developing innovative mental health provisions in schools. Dr Beth is the author of Happy Families: How to Protect and Support Your Child's Mental Health, published throughout the world. Dr Beth's mission revolves around bridging the gap between psychological theory and practical application – in the context of what is happening today for young people – to ensure everyone has access to this information in a way that feels relatable and relevant to them.Follow Beth:@‌drbethmosleyBE PART OF OUR GROWING SUBSTACK COMMUNITY FOR FREE - Join now****************For private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Do you feel trapped by OCD's sneaky tricks?In this episode I address common tricks OCD uses to trap individuals in endless cycles of intrusive thoughts and compulsions. I discuss five key tricks: time, urgency, denial, what if, and just in case, and provide practical strategies to counter each. The episode emphasises building awareness and resisting compulsions to break free from OCD's grip.ACCESS THE EDITABLE OCD TRICKS PDF HEREWATCH THE VIDEO HEREHighlights include:01:09 Understanding OCD's Tricks01:32 The Time Trick02:43 The Urgency Trick04:37 The Denial Trick06:13 The What If Trick07:44 The Just In Case TrickBE PART OF OUR GROWING SUBSTACK COMMUNITY FOR FREE - Join now****************For private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

In this episode we explore the profound impact of reproductive trauma on individuals and their relationships. I am joined by Dr Michelle Tolfrey, Clinical Psychologist and founder of The Loss Collective. We discuss the various forms of trauma associated with the reproductive journey, including infertility, pregnancy loss, and birth trauma. Michelle shares her personal experiences of loss, emphasising the importance of understanding the unique nature of each individual's experience. The conversation explores the mental health impacts of reproductive trauma, the challenges it poses to relationships, and the significance of community and support in the healing process. Michelle offers practical advice for navigating grief, managing triggers and rebuilding the relationship with oneself and others after loss, highlighting the necessity of self-compassion and open communication.WATCH THE VIDEO OF THIS EPISODE HEREHighlights include:06:09 Understanding Reproductive Trauma08:13 Mental Health Challenges Post-Trauma23:07 Navigating Grief and Finding SupportThis week's guestMichelle is a Clinical Psychologist with over twenty one years of experience. Michelle's own losses on her path to parenthood have significantly shaped her work as a psychologist, and she proudly integrates her professional expertise with that of her expertise by lived experience. Michelle's newsletter, From the Other Chair, provides a wealth of information on navigating life after loss and finding joy in living the life you didn't expect or plan. Alongside her private therapy practice, Michelle also runs The Loss Collective. Follow Michelle: @dr_michelle_tolfrey@the_loss_collectiveBE PART OF OUR GROWING SUBSTACK COMMUNITY FOR FREE - Join now****************For private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

What if there was a simple yet powerful way to step back from the whirlwind of worry, self-criticism, and negative thinking that's clouding your mind? In this episode, I introduce defusion, a powerful strategy from acceptance and commitment therapy designed to manage difficult thoughts and mental health challenges like anxiety, depression, and stress. I discuss cognitive fusion and its impact, and then present the Defusion Wheel, a practical tool I created to help unhook from unhelpful thoughts. I guide listeners through various defusion techniques categorised into observing and noticing thoughts, playing with language, and questioning thoughts. This approach aims to change our relationship with thoughts, reducing their emotional grip and helping us live a life aligned with our values.Highlights of this episode include:01:18 Understanding Cognitive Fusion and Its Impact 03:11 Introduction to Defusion and Stepping Back from Thoughts 05:02 Observe and Notice Techniques 06:50 Play with Language: Making Thoughts Less Powerful 09:23 Question Yourself: Shifting from Believing to Evaluating ThoughtsBONUS CONTENTCurious about the Defusion Wheel? Read the free article here or to try out some of the techniques access the downloadable worksheet here.BE PART OF OUR GROWING SUBSTACK COMMUNITY FOR FREE - Join now****************For private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Looking for ways to enhance your winter wellness and self care routine?Discover the secrets to thriving through the frosty embrace of winter with our special guest, Chartered psychologist and author Suzy Reading. Suzy shares her expert insights on how the season's environmental challenges impact our mood, hunger, and immune responses. This episode will help you reimagine your relationship with winter - find joy in cosy comforts, stay active for mental health and give you practical solutions for combating the season's lack of light and warmth and instinct to hibernate.*Head to Hello Therapy's Substack to watch the video of this episode HERE.Episode highlights:03:37 Self-Care Practices for Winter04:36 Combating Winter Blues and Isolation32:39 Seven Steps to Winter WellnessAbout this week's guestBuy Suzy's book Self Care for WinterJoin Suzy's Wellbeing Community: Instagram: www.instagram.com/suzyreading/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/SuzyReadingPsychologyAndYoga/Twitter: https://twitter.com/SuzyReading  www.suzyreading.co.uk**********************BE PART OF OUR GROWING SUBSTACK COMMUNITY FOR FREE - Join now****************For private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Do you find your Sunday evenings consumed by an overwhelming sense of dread or anxiety as you anticipate the week ahead? What if there was a way to reclaim your Sundays and walk into Monday with confidence and calm?Join me for this first episode of season 2 where I discuss the common phenomena of the Sunday Scaries - the anxiety and dread felt as the weekend comes to a close. I explore the causes and triggers, including work-related stress and perfectionism. Most importantly, I'll equip you with practical strategies to navigate and manage these anxieties, so you can start your week with a sense of balance and positivity. Plus, there's exciting news about our *new* Substack community, offering a deeper connection to the show with exclusive content  - you can sign up for FREE here.Mentioned in this episode:The Power of Savouring for Mental Wellbeing: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/hello-therapy-mental-health-tips-for-personal-growth/id1728541560?i=1000677435118Highlights of this episode include:02:51 Why Do We Get the Sunday Scaries?03:50 Common Factors That Worsen Sunday Scaries05:38 Top Strategies to Overcome Sunday ScariesON SUBSTACK THIS WEEK:ACCESS THE PAID SUBSCRIBER-ONLY ARTICLE 'HELP FOR THE SUNDAY SCARIES' WITH REFLECTIVE QUESTIONS, JOURNAL PROMPTS AND ACTIONS PLANS TO HELP YOU BANISH THE SUNDAY SCARIES FOR GOOD HERE.BE PART OF OUR GROWING SUBSTACK COMMUNITY FOR FREE - Join now****************For private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Feeling festive stress? This episode can help!The Christmas period is often described as the most wonderful time of the year—but for many, it can bring overwhelming stress and anxiety. In this episode, I discuss why festive pressures can take a toll on our mental health and I share five practical, evidence-based strategies to help you navigate the season with calm and clarity. From letting go of perfection to creating micro-moments of calm, this episode is packed with tools to help you enjoy the festive season on your terms. Don't miss tip #5—it could transform how you approach the holidays entirely. I also announce that as we are moving to a seasonal podcast format this is the last episode of 2024, with the second season beginning on 7th January 2025. DOWNLOAD THE WINTER WELLNESS TOOLKIT HERE:- 20+ pages of practical tips and strategies to help you feel your best during winter- Journal prompts for self connection- Soothing activity ideas- Motivation tips- Mindful colouring page- Self compassion exercise- Action plans for the ABCs of winter wellnessWatch this episode on YouTube!WATCH THE 54321 GROUNDING EXERCISE FOR MANAGING ANXIETY, STRESS AND OVERWHELM HERE.Highlights include: 02:44 Tip 1: Take the Pressure Off04:03 Tip 2: Pace Yourself05:18 Tip 3: Prioritize Rest06:11 Tip 4: Create Micro Moments of Calm07:28 Tip 5: Remind Yourself of What Really MattersWhat would you like an episode on? Let us know!More free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Are you tired of struggling with low mood and lack of energy every winter? Curious about simple yet powerful strategies to boost your mental health during the cold months? In this episode, I share my FREE DOWNLOADABLE Winter Wellness Toolkit designed to help you feel your best, even during the chilliest times of the year. I break down the impact of reduced daylight on our circadian rhythm, discuss the differences between the winter blues and Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), and introduce my ABC strategy for winter mental health: Activity, Balance, and Connection. This episode aims to provide practical tips to help you not only survive but thrive in winter.DOWNLOAD THE WINTER WELLNESS TOOLKIT HERE:- 20+ pages of practical tips and strategies to help you feel your best during winter- Journal prompts for self connection- Soothing activity ideas- Motivation tips- Mindful colouring page- Self compassion exercise- Action plans for the ABCs of winter wellnessHighlights include: (02:16) Understanding Winter Blues vs. Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) (05:16) The Benefits of Indoor Workouts and Setting Achievable Goals (08:07) Balancing Emotions: Walking the Tightrope of Emotional Well-being (10:47) Boosting Mood and Mental Health Through Social Connections (13:20) Enhancing Self-Connection: Awareness, Acceptance, and AlignmentWhat would you like an episode on? Let us know!More free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Is societal pressure to appear 'strong' preventing men from seeking the mental health support they need? In this episode I am joined by Clinical Psychologist Dr Matt Slavin as we challenge the harmful narratives of toxic masculinity and uncover the hidden layers of men's mental health. We explore how depression often manifests differently in men, and how shame and stigma can act as barriers to men getting the support they need.  We discuss practical ways to start meaningful conversations about mental health, as well as how to get support. Highlights include:04:45 Understanding How Depression can Manifest in Men12:15 The Role of Stigma and Language in Men's Mental Health22:30 The Impact of Community Initiatives and Men's Groups30:10 The Importance of Vulnerability and Emotional Literacy32:26 How to Find the Right SupportThis week's guestDr. Matt Slavin is a Clinical Psychologist, High-Performance Coach, and founder of The Burnout Psychologist. He specialises in supporting highly driven men to overcome stress, trauma, and burnout, helping them rediscover balance and purpose in their personal and professional lives.Website: https://theburnoutpsych.com/ Instagram: @the.burnout.psychologistRetreat: https://theburnoutpsych.com/retreatWhat would you like an episode on? Let us know!***Check out Dr Liz White's YouTube channel for help with anxiety and OCD***More free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

What if savouring life's simple positive moments could boost your mental health and shield you from stress? In this solo episode, I explore the concept of savouring and its benefits for our wellbeing and mental health. Inspired by a simple walk with my dog, I delve into how savouring can increase happiness, protect against depression, and enhance coping with stress. I also take you through two experiential exercises* to practice savouring the past and the future, before wrapping up with some tips on savouring in the present moment. This episode aims to equip you with practical methods to fully enjoy and prolong positive experiences in your life.Episode Highlights 04:09 Understanding Savouring and Its Benefits 04:58 Exercise: Savouring the Past Through Reminiscence 06:31 Exercise: Savouring the Future Through Anticipation 07:57 Tips for Savouring in the Moment* Both savouring exercises in this episode were adapted from Bryant F. B., Veroff J. (2007). Savoring: A New Model of Positive Experience. Mahwah, NJ: Psychology Press*********************************************What would you like an episode on? Let us know!More free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Do you feel like a doormat? Are you tired of putting everyone else in your life first?In this episode I am joined by Elsie Owen, Hertfordshire-based Psychotherapist, to unravel the complex world of people-pleasing, offering insights that could transform your relationships and sense of self.Our discussion will help you identify the tell tale signs of people-pleasing, and you'll learn about how childhood experiences can lead to people pleasing tendencies. Elsie provides practical tools that can help you start to break free from people pleasing, with simple strategies designed for asserting your needs, setting boundaries, and reclaiming your sense of self, paving the way for healthier relationships and better mental health. Highlights include:02:29 Signs and Symptoms of People Pleasing05:10 Mental Health Consequences14:37 Origins of People Pleasing21:49 Practical Steps to Reduce People PleasingThis week's guestElsie is a Psychotherapist specialising in people-pleasing and boundaries. She supports clients, often but not always women, to reconnect with themselves and learn how to feel more comfortable with prioritising their feelings, wants and needs. She offers online therapy from her home in Hertfordshire UK, writes a monthly newsletter and has a self-paced online course called Say Yes to You.Website: www.elsieowen.comInstagram: Instagram (@the_peoplepleasing_therapist)Course: Say Yes to You | People-pleasing courseTherapy: People-Pleasing Therapy****************************************What would you like an episode on? Let us know!***Check out Dr Liz White's YouTube channel for help with anxiety and OCD***More free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Are you a parent feeling the Christmas overwhelm and want some tools to help that?In this episode Dr Liz White is joined by clinical psychologist Dr Gracie McLaven to discuss the mounting stress parents face leading up to and during the Christmas period. They explore common triggers of holiday-related anxiety, such as overstimulation and the mental load of organising festive activities, and provide practical psychological tools to help parents manage their mental health. Dr Gracie emphasises the importance of regulating one's nervous system, maintaining realistic expectations, and focusing on meaningful traditions. They also discuss the potential impact of grief, trauma, and loneliness during this time, and advocate for self-care and seeking support from friends and professionals.Episode Highlights03:22 The Mental Load of Parenting During Christmas05:13 Managing Children's Emotions and Routine Changes06:10 Emotional Challenges and Family Dynamics19:30 Practical Tips for Preventing Overwhelm31:05 The Importance of Self-Care for ParentsThis week's guestDr. Gracie McLaven is a Clinical Psychologist who specialises in trauma, attachment and women's mental health. She is the Director of Brain Body Wealth, a psychology practice offering tailored services for individuals and corporate clients. Gracie is also the founder of The Female Mental Health Collective, a growing community committed to supporting women and their mental health across the lifespan.Website - Brain Body WealthWebsite - FHM CollectiveInstagram - Brain Body WealthInstagram - FHM CollectiveWhat would you like an episode on? Let us know!***Check out Dr Liz White's YouTube channel for help with anxiety and OCD***More free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Can individuals with OCD be considered neurodivergent? Dr. Emma Offord, a clinical psychologist and specialist in neurodivergence and OCD, joins me to address this complex question. Our discussion focuses on the complex relationship between OCD, autism, and ADHD, and how they can be experienced by people. Tune in to uncover insights on how neurobiological factors and sensory sensitivities might influence OCD-like experiences, and what these nuances mean for treatment and support.Episode Highlights01:05 OCD and Neurodivergence: A Deep Dive08:49 OCD and Autism: Clinical Observations20:45 Exploring ADHD and OCD Co-occurrence21:21 Sensory Seeking Behaviors in ADHD and Autism24:26 ADHD Compensatory Strategies and OCD-like Behaviors27:49 Challenges in Treating Neurodivergent Individuals30:43 Therapeutic Approaches for Neurodivergent People36:12 Concluding Thoughts on Neurodivergence and TherapyThis week's guestDr Emma Offord is a Clinical Psychologist specialising in neurodivergence. She is the founder of Divergent Life, a neuroaffirming assessment, therapy and coaching private practice service. Emma also specialises in trauma, OCD, giftedness and sensory differences. She is passionate about the neurodiversity movement, developing more empowered ways to think about neurodivergence and providing creative and somatic forms of therapy for the neurodivergent community.Emma provides a number of different services, including therapy, autism, ADHD and OCD assessments, consultation, training and supervision. Emma assesses adults for neurodivergence through a neurodiversity affirming and trauma informed lens. She created Divergent Life to support individuals in understanding their neurobiology in order for them to begin to design their life in ways that help them to thrive. All assessments are available online or in-person.WebsiteInstagramWhat would you like an episode on? Let us know!***Check out Dr Liz White's YouTube channel for help with anxiety and OCD***More free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

What if you could transform anxiety with a simple shift in mindset? Discover how self-compassion can be the game changer you've been searching for. In this episode I explore the profound impact of self-compassion on coping with anxiety, and I explain how a critical inner voice can fuel anxiety, whereas treating oneself with kindness can activate the calming parasympathetic nervous system. I guide you through the three core elements of self compassion: self-kindness, common humanity, and mindfulness, and discuss the science behind how self compassion can help ease anxiety. By the end of the episode you will have practical techniques to try at home that promise to calm your nervous system and help you tackle life's challenges with confidence and ease.Highlights include:02:34 The Science Behind Self-Compassion05:48 Practical Techniques for Self-CompassionWhat would you like an episode on? Let us know!More free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Confused about how to help your kids navigate smartphone use, the internet and social media safely?In this episode I am joined by Dr. Marta Deiros Collado, Clinical Psychologist, and Sunday Times best selling author. In this powerful episode, Dr. Martha provides insights into age considerations for smartphone use, digital skills-building, and handling online issues like cyberbullying. Our conversation tackles these complexities, advocating for ongoing discussions about the role of technology in our homes. Addressing the perennial question of when a child should own a smartphone, we provide guidance to help parents make informed decisions that balance connectivity with mindful usage, tailored to each family's unique circumstances. Dr. Martha introduces her resource, The Confident Parent's Guide to Being Smartphone Savvy, explaining strategies like the Family Phone Pledge to foster healthy smartphone usage within families. Highlights of the episode include:02:23 Understanding Digital Resilience05:46 Dr. Martha's Family Phone Pledge15:53 Ideal Age for Smartphone Ownership23:24 Smartphones and Mental Health: A Balanced View24:47 Navigating Cyberbullying and Online Safety27:02 Building Digital Resilience in Children37:58 Practical Tips for Parents on Digital ParentingThis week's guest:Dr Martha Deiros Collado is a clinical psychologist and HCPC registered practitioner with over 20 years of clinical and academic experience. Dr Martha recently became an instant Sunday Times Bestselling author for her debut book, How to Be the Grown-Up: Why Good Parenting Starts with You.Dr Martha has created a hugely successful social media platform - @‌dr.martha.psychologist - where she distils complex child psychology into easily digestible concepts for her 265K followers.Dr Martha's websiteDr Martha's What would you like an episode on? Let us know!***Check out Dr Liz White's YouTube channel for help with anxiety and OCD***More free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Did you know there is a psychological approach to treating OCD that DOESN'T focus on preventing compulsions?To mark OCD Awareness Week, I am joined by Amanda Petrik-Gardner, a licensed clinical professional counsellor specializing in inference-based CBT (iCBT). We discuss the principles of iCBT, which differs from the traditional exposure and response prevention (ERP) approach. Instead, iCBT focuses on the reasoning process behind obsessional doubts rather than stopping compulsions. Our conversation highlights the concept of inferential confusion and the feared possible self, aiming to restore trust in the individual's real self. The conversation provides insights into the practical aspects of iCBT therapy, valuable insights into this purely cognitive approach that seeks to resolve the roots of obsessive doubt.  Highlights of the episode include:03:10 What is iCBT?04:02 Core Concepts of iCBT07:30 Research and Evidence for iCBT09:03 Inferential Confusion Explained12:39 Components Leading to Inferential Confusion18:34 The Feared Possible SelfThis week's guest:Amanda Petrik-Gardner, LCPC, LPC, LIMHP specialises in the treatment of Obsessive Compulsive and Related Disorders. Amanda is the creator of the OCD Exposure Colouring Books and The Compulsive Reassurance Workbook. Amanda currWhat did you think of this episode?More free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Can your romantic relationship withstand the relentless scrutiny of obsessive doubts?It is the run up to OCD awareness week and on this solo episode of Hello Therapy, Dr Liz White uncovers the intricacies of Relationship Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (ROCD), a form of OCD that centers around doubts and intrusive thoughts about relationships. Explore the key symptoms that might indicate you or someone you know is grappling with ROCD, such as persistent doubts, compulsive reassurance seeking, and disruptive intrusive thoughts. The episode explains the two types of ROCD: relationship-focused and partner-focused, providing examples of each. Dr. White details how the relentless nature of ROCD differentiates it from general relationship anxiety. Whether you're experiencing ROCD or looking to support a loved one, this episode is packed with valuable insights. Highlights include:00:34 Understanding Relationship OCD (ROCD)02:06 Types of ROCD: Relationship-Focused03:55 Types of ROCD: Partner-Focused09:40 Differentiating ROCD from Relationship AnxietyWATCH THE VIDEO OF THIS EPISODE HERE----------------------------------------What did you think of this episode?More free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Like a pebble thrown into a pond, childhood emotional neglect can have a ripple effect into adulthood and beyond. In this episode I am joined by Shelley Bradley-Scholey, an accredited trauma therapist.  We discuss the often invisible scars of emotional neglect, and provide a roadmap for recognizing and addressing these deep-seated issues. Through our conversation, we delve into generational shifts in understanding emotional neglect and underscore the essential role of self-compassion and practical steps towards healing.Life's inevitable stresses—from work and finances to relationships and personal losses—can further complicate our emotional landscape. Shelley introduces us to the transformative power of neuroplasticity, offering hope that emotional skills can be relearned and repaired, even after significant setbacks. For parents, the concept of rupture and repair is discussed as a cornerstone of healthy emotional development, reminding us that it's the acknowledgment and mending of mistakes, rather than striving for perfection, that truly matters. Shelley's insights highlight the spectrum of childhood emotional neglect and the importance of contextual understanding in therapy, equipping listeners with strategies to navigate and heal from their emotional past. Highlights of the episode include:01:07 Recognizing Signs of Emotional Neglect03:30 The Impact of Emotional Neglect on Relationships and Self-View06:54 Generational Patterns and Emotional Neglect08:33 Consequences of Emotional Neglect on Mental Health17:17 Healing from Childhood Emotional NeglectThis week's guest:Shelley is an Accredited EMDR Consultant and Training Facilitator, Accredited CBT Therapist, Supervisor, Lecturer and Registered Mental Health Nurse. Shelley is the founder of Fortitude Psychological Therapy, an independent therapy practice.  A published author, academic and speaker who puts authenticity and compassion at the heart of everything.  Shelley has worked in mental health for two decades, in the NHS, Private Sector and the UK Armed Forces.Shelley's websiteFollow Shelley on Instagram************************What did you think of this episode?More free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Are you in the stormy seas of Perimenopause and feeling overwhelmed, lost and exhausted?To mark Perimenopause Awareness Month, I sit down with Dr. Ella Woods, a clinical psychologist specializing in perimenopause, to demystify this often misunderstood life transition. Together, we explore the myriad of symptoms women may experience, from unpredictable menstrual cycles to heightened anxiety and night sweats. Throughout the episode Ella offers her expert insights into why these changes occur and how to manage them effectively.Ever wondered what "peri-rage" is and why it happens? This episode unpacks the significant impact of declining estrogen levels on the brain and neurotransmitters, leading to increased stress, irritability, and even out-of-character reactions. We explore how these hormonal shifts interplay with individual psychological factors like past traumas and thinking patterns. Understanding these complex physiological changes can help you navigate this turbulent period with more compassion and less guilt.Feeling overwhelmed by the sheer number of lifestyle changes recommended during perimenopause? We've got you covered. We discuss practical strategies for managing stress, sleep, and overall wellness, from improving sleep hygiene to incorporating resistance training into your routine. We also discuss the importance of a nutrient-dense diet and the role of community support in maintaining your health. Tune in to equip yourself with the tools and knowledge you need to thrive through perimenopause and beyond.You can get Ella's guide to confidently discussing perimenopause with your doctor  here.This week's guestDr Ella Woods is a Clinical Psychologist, expert in perimenopause and creator of The Perimenopause Balance Plan. Ella is certified in nutrition and lifestyle medicine by The Integrative Woman's Health Institute and also trained in mineral testing for midlife women. She is also the founder of The Child Psychology Hub, a private child and family clinical psychology clinic in Derby.Follow Ella on Instagram****************************************What did you think of this episode?More free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

What if a sudden life change made you feel like your world was crumbling?In this episode of Hello Therapy I share five evidence-based psychological strategies to manage mental health during difficult and unexpected life challenges. Whether you're dealing with a job loss, a relationship breakdown, or an accumulation of stressors, this episode can provide much needed guidance when difficult times strike.Drawing from acceptance and commitment therapy, compassion-focused therapy, and mindfulness approaches, I discuss practical tips to manage anxiety, worry and overwhelm including validating your emotions, choosing how you respond, problem solving effectively and managing your nervous system. You'll learn how to manage your threat response effectively, identify your personal anchors, and practice soothing rhythm breathing to find peace and to calm overwhelm. The episode also highlights personal stories of individuals facing crises and emphasizes the importance of self-compassion and support. Highlights include:02:03 Managing Anxiety and Finding Calm07:03 Validating and Honouring Your Feelings11:41 Problem Solving StrategiesWatch the video version of this episode HERE.Resources mentioned How To Stop Overthinking___What did you think of this episode?More free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Want to navigate the complexities of modern dating without getting bogged down by anxiety and self-doubt?In this episode I chat with special guest Dr. Mari Kovanen about the impact of modern dating, particularly the role of online dating apps, on mental health. We delve into key strategies for managing the anxieties that come with swipe-based dating, the importance of personal boundaries, and the benefits of real-life interactions. Highlights include: (04:15) The Emotional Impact of Swipe-Based Dating Apps (09:45) Setting Boundaries and Taking Breaks from Online Dating (15:30) The Importance of Widening Your Social Circles to Meet New People(21:50) Understanding Yourself and Your Values Before Seeking a Relationship(28:10) Navigating the Realities of Ghosting and Online Dating EtiquetteAbout this week's guestDr Mari Kovanen is a chartered counselling psychologist, relationship specialist and attachment trauma therapist turned conscious dating coach. She is also a podcast host for Code To Connection aimed at single men and formerly had a podcast, How To Love Successfully for successful women looking for love.  For the past 15 years she has been working with women and men and helped them in different stages of their relationships. In the more recent years, she has helped both men and women with dating related challenges.LinkedInWebsiteWhat did you think of this episode?More free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Are you a new Mum struggling with motherhood? You are not alone.In this episode, I chat with perinatal clinical psychologist Dr Romila Ragaven. We discuss the numerous challenges new mums face, including postnatal depression, anxiety, and perinatal OCD. Romila describes the distinction between baby blues and postnatal depression, and we explore the societal pressures and expectations that impact new mums' mental well-being.This episode aims to normalise the difficulties of motherhood and provide practical guidance for maintaining good mental health after childbirth.Highlights include:(05:15) Understanding the Difference Between Baby Blues and Postnatal Depression(11:42) The Myth of Instinctive Motherhood and the Role of Compassion-Focused Therapy(18:57) Navigating Postnatal Anxiety and Its Impact on Daily Life(24:03) Coping with Intrusive Thoughts and Perinatal OCD(32:11) Prioritizing Self-Care and Seeking Support in the Postpartum PeriodAbout Dr Romila RagavenDr Romila Ragaven is a clinical psychologist specialising in perinatal mental health. Romila is a senior psychologist in the NHS and also runs her own private practice in London. She is dedicated to supporting mothers and families through the transformative stages of pregnancy, childbirth, and the postpartum period. WebsiteInstagram************************************What did you think of this episode?More free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Are you struggling with overthinking, anxiety, or feeling stuck in your thoughts?  In this episode, I dive into how to stop overthinking in its tracks, reducing anxiety and worry along the way. I explain how our minds tend to "time travel" between an imagined future and an uncertain past, causing significant anxiety. I share personal anecdotes and practical tips to get grounded in the present moment, including the use of your five senses and grounding objects. This episode aims to provide you with immediate techniques to help you build a new habit of staying present.FreebieGet the 'My Time Travelling Mind' worksheet here. Highlights include:01:07 Understanding Overthinking and Anxiety03:38 Techniques to Stop Overthinking04:44 Building Awareness and Shifting Focus06:37 Practical Tips to Get PresentWatch the video of this episode on my YouTube channel here.*******************************************What did you think of this episode?More free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Want to break free from the grips of OCD and manage obsessional thoughts and compulsions more effectively?In this episode, I dive into the mechanisms that keep OCD going and provide three essential strategies to tackle them. You'll learn about thought action fusion and how it affects your behaviour, the pitfalls of avoidance and how to confront it, and the dangers of reassurance seeking and alternative ways to cope. This episode aims to empower you with clinical insights and actionable steps to manage your OCD symptoms more effectively.Highlights include:(01:38) Understanding Thought Action Fusion(04:21) The Trap of Avoidance(06:56) The Reassurance Cycle and How to Break It(09:07) Techniques to Manage Self and Other Reassurance SeekingWATCH THE VIDEO OF THIS EPISODE HERE**********************What did you think of this episode?More free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Think you may be Autistic or experience ADHD and looking for guidance on what to do next from a neuro-affirming perspective?In this episode, I invite Dr. Emma Offord, a clinical psychologist specialising in neurodivergence, to share her insights on the neurodivergent experience - particularly the discovery process and the emotional journey that can unfold as a result.Emma shares her expertise on how understanding your sensory profile is important, and the challenges faced by neurodivergent individuals in various settings across the lifespan. Together we discuss the importance of having a compassionate and empowering view of neurodivergence, along with practical tips for navigating newly-discovered neurodivergence and life as a neurodivergent individual.Highlights include:(05:15) The Process of Discovering Neurodivergence(11:42) Understanding Sensory Profiles and Their Impact(18:30) Accommodations for Neurodivergent Individuals in Therapy(22:10) Navigating Non-Affirming Environments as a Neurodivergent PersonAbout this week's guestDr Emma Offord is a Clinical Psychologist specialising in neurodivergence. She is the founder of Divergent Life, a neuroaffirming assessment, therapy and coaching private practice service. Emma also specialises in trauma, OCD, giftedness and sensory differences. She is passionate about the neurodiversity movement, developing more empowered ways to think about neurodivergence and providing creative and somatic forms of therapy for the neurodivergent community.Emma provides a number of different services, including therapy, autism, ADHD and OCD assessments, consultation, training and supervision. Emma assesses adults for neurodivergence through a neurodiversity affirming and trauma informed lens. She created Divergent Life to support individuals in understanding their neurobiology in order for them to begin to design their life in ways that help them to thrive. All assessments are available online or in-person.WebsiteInstagram******************************What did you think of this episode?More free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

WATCH THE VIDEO OF THIS EPISODE HERE.Want to alleviate the symptoms of panic attacks but don't know how to? In this episode, I explain how to cope with panic attacks using three evidence-based psychological strategies. I describe the science of panic attacks and the role that our fight or flight mechanism has in causing panic. I discuss the importance of calming the nervous system through breathing techniques, stepping back from catastrophic thoughts using acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), and practicing self-compassion. This episode aims to equip listeners with practical methods to navigate and alleviate panic attacks.Highlights include:(03:28) Coping with the Physical Symptoms of Panic(07:02) An Alternative to Breathing Through Panic(09:00) Stepping Back From Panic Thoughts(10:00) Self Compassion For Panic What did you think of this episode?More free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Have you ever found yourself questioning your achievements, feeling like a fraud despite all evidence to the contrary?In this episode, I am joined by Clinical Psychologist, Dr Gurpreet Kaur, and we address how imposter syndrome manifests as feelings of fraudulence and inadequacy despite evident success and achievements. Learn about the cultural and intergenerational roots of these feelings and how high functioning anxiety and perfectionism often intertwine with imposter syndrome. Our discussion emphasizes the heavier burden faced by women and minorities due to systemic barriers and competitive environments, shedding light on how organizational structures can perpetuate feelings of inadequacy. We'll also discuss practical strategies and therapeutic techniques, including EMDR, to help manage and challenge these feelings. Dr Kaur and I also reflect on our own imposter syndrome journeys.Whether you occasionally experience self-doubt or it significantly impacts your mental health, our discussion aims to offer understanding, validation, and actionable steps toward reclaiming your confidence and self-worth. Stay tuned as we dissect the layers of imposter syndrome and provide you with tools to navigate and counter this pervasive issue.Highlights:(25:44) Intergenerational Patterns in Imposter Syndrome(31:06) High Functioning Anxiety and Imposter Syndrome(35:52) Exploring Inner Critics and Compassion(43:22) Key Takeaways - How To Cope With Imposter SyndromeAbout this week's guestDr Gurpreet Kaur is a Clinical Psychologist and EMDR practitioner who specialises in treating trauma and helping people overcome their imposter syndrome to live life fully without being held back by anxiety or self doubt.  She shares mental health and therapy information on several social media platforms including TikTok, Instagram and LinkedIn and has contributed to several media articles. As well as 1:1 therapy Dr Kaur also runs a group for women who want to overcome their imposter syndrome and has a free resource on her website for anyone who wants to take the first step to resetting their imposter cycle. WebsiteInstagramWhat did you think of this episode?More free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to our YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Want to unlock the secrets to managing burnout and finally reclaim your well-being?In this episode I am joined by Dr Claire Plumbly, Clinical Psychologist and author of "Burnout: How to Manage your Nervous System Before it Manages You." This episode unearths the multifaceted nature of burnout, extending beyond the workplace to touch on the experiences of parents, caregivers, and the self employed. We dissect the three main types of burnout and you'll gain a holistic understanding of how burnout symptoms can affect everything from sleep and appetite to social connections and coping mechanisms.Learn the key steps to recovering from burnout and building resilience.  You'll get actionable tips on self-care, setting boundaries, and the importance of rest and community support. Whether you're an informal caregiver, self-employed professional, or simply feeling overwhelmed by life's demands, this episode is packed with valuable insights to help you find balance and restore your sense of well-being. Highlights include:(10:29) Types of burnout(15:16) Stages of burnout(32:30) Tips if you are in burnoutThis week's guest:Claire is a Clinical Psychologist & Director of Good Therapy Ltd, a psychological therapy centre based online and in Taunton, Somerset. Her private practice specialises in trauma-related issues and Claire herself has a specialism in sexual assault; early life traumas, and of course, burnout.  Her debut book Burnout: How to Manage Your Nervous System Before it Manages You is out in the UK on the 18th July.Buy Claire's book hereFollow Claire on InstagramFollow Claire on TikTokVisit Claire's website here*****************What did you think of this episode?More free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to our YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Ever wondered how to stop stress from taking over your life? This episode is here to help! I discuss what stress is, how it differs from anxiety, the different types of stress and the impact stress can have on your health. Explore the Stress Bucket* Tool I have developed which will help you identify the stressors in your life and the unhealthy coping strategies you may be engaging in that serve to keep stress going.Most importantly, I explore healthy coping strategies for stress including the importance of perspective, mindfulness, the benefits of good sleep hygiene and much more. Highlights include:(03:58) Recognising Symptoms of Stress(08:24) Unhealthy Coping Strategies(12:04) Healthy Coping Strategies - Tips for Coping with StressFREE DOWNLOADGrab your free Stress Bucket tool hereBLOGS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODEToo Busy For Mindfulness? Try Mindful Moments Instead (harleyclinical.co.uk)How To Self Soothe Using Your Senses (harleyclinical.co.uk)*adapted from Brabban, A. & Turkington, D. (2002) The Search for Meaning: detecting congruence between life events, underlying schema and psychotic symptoms. In A.P. Morrison (Ed) A Casebook of Cognitive Therapy for Psychosis (Chap 5, p59-75). New York: Brunner-RoutledgeMore free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to our YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Need some effective strategies to help get better mental health?In this episode I am joined by Sam Frerer, a psychologist from Canberra, Australia. We discuss how to manage distressing thoughts and emotions, the importance of self-compassion, dealing with a mental health diagnosis, embracing individuality, and taking small steps during mental health crises. We talk through the intricacies of mental health labels, emphasizing that they are merely a slice of your life's pie chart. We'll reveal how to break free from the comparison trap and instead focus on your unique journey. The episode highlights practical strategies for maintaining good mental health and emphasizes the value of challenging oneself to foster growth.Get the inside scoop on Sam's upcoming app, Psych Insights, that is designed to give you personalised self help. Whether you're grappling with a mental health diagnosis or seeking practical mental health tips, this episode promises to offer invaluable insights and tools for personal growth. Highlights include (look out for the freebies!):(10:23) Stigma and Mental Health Diagnoses: ADHD and Bipolar Disorder(16:26) Changing Your Self Talk - The Importance of Self-Compassion(25:10) The Power of the Pause (FREE WORKSHEET)(28:00) Accepting Emotions (FREE MANAGING EMOTIONS WORKBOOK)(32:48) Normalising SetbacksAbout this week's guestSam is a psychologist based in Canberra, Australia, with a notable career as an Army Psychologist in the Australian Defence Force. Recently, she transitioned from military service to pursue her own business endeavours, aiming to make high-quality mental health support more affordable and accessible for all.Since then, she has been sharing educational videos on social media and will soon launch a mental health app called Psych Insights, offering personalised self-help resources. As a former personal trainer, Sam is particularly interested in the relationship between physical and mental health and promotes a holistic approach to improving well-being.Follow Sam on InstagramFind out more about the Psych Insights app here.___________________________________________________________More free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to our YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Could you be unknowingly trapped in a relationship where you are being consistently gaslit by your partner? In the first part of a mini series on gaslighting, I dissect the intricate and often invisible web of gaslighting in romantic relationships. By the end of the episode you will have a greater understanding of what gaslighting is and how simple accusations of overreacting or being too sensitive can spiral into a full-blown crisis of self-doubt, confusion and poor mental health. Discover the signs and insidious stages of gaslighting, from initial love bombing to a complete erosion of self-worth and self-confidence, drawing on the latest research in the area. I explore the isolation tactics that make victims increasingly dependent on a gaslighter's narrative. This episode sheds light on the crucial turning point when victims begin to see through the manipulation and embark on their recovery journey.  This episode isn't just an eye-opener; it's a lifeline for those seeking to reclaim their mental health.Highlights include:(02:35) Types of Gaslighting(05:45) Signs You Are Being Gaslit(10:19) The Stages of Gaslighting in Romantic Relationships(14:04) What To Do If Your Partner Is Gaslighting YouMore free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to our YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Can relentless pursuit of success really lead to debilitating anxiety and burnout? In this episode I am joined by Dianne Everitt, a Clinical Psychologist and expert in working with high achievers. We unpack the concept of high functioning anxiety, highlighting its differences from general anxiety, and the role it plays in driving performance and perfectionism in high achievers.Feeling drained and unmotivated despite your usual high drive? Discover why burnout is more than just exhaustion, particularly in high-pressure corporate environments. We dissect the stark contrast between the typical ambition of high achievers and the apathy that comes with burnout. We explore the additional challenges faced by high-achieving parents and the importance of unlearning lifelong roles to find balance, adjusting our standards and allowing ourselves the grace to let some tasks slide can significantly reduce stress. This episode has a treasure trove of practical coping tips to reduce high functioning anxiety including self-compassion, setting boundaries, and expanding one's comfort zone. About Dianne EverittDianne is a Clinical Psychologist and Clinical Director of Dianne Everitt and Associates, a private psychology practice. After working in the NHS for a number of years with long term health conditions, Dianne set up her own practice in 2017. This has grown from strength to strength, and currently has a team of eight Psychologists. She is passionate about preventative strategies, and educating people about mental health.Follow Dianne on InstagramMore free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to our YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Ever felt overwhelmed, stuck, or lost in your 20s or early 30s? You're not alone. This episode dives deep into the concept of the quarter life crisis. Discover how common triggers like job dissatisfaction, financial woes, and social pressures can create a whirlwind of emotions and stress. This episode sheds light on the tell tale signs of a quarter life crisis, from feeling behind in life to a deep sense of lacking purpose, and examines its emotional toll on young adults, especially those fresh out of university and in their first jobs.I offer some actionable, evidence based tips to help you navigate the quarter life crisis and turn it into a stepping stone for personal growth and enhanced self-esteem.Highlights include:(01:30) What is a quarter life crisis?(03:30) Signs you are in a quarter life crisis(05:32) Impact on mental health(06:22) Triggers of a quarter life crisis(10:20) Post crisis growth(12:07) Tips on how to navigate a quarter life crisisBlogI am Just Not Where I Want To Be In Life - How to Cope with Milestone AnxietyHelpful podcast episodes#03 Constantly Comparing Yourself To Others?#10 Mastering Worry - Insights and Techniques for Mental WellbeingMore free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to our YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

This week I am joined by Dr Alexa Duff, a Clinical Psychologist specializing in gut health, where we uncover the complex relationship between irritable bowel syndrome (IBS) and mental well-being. We discuss the various types of and their symptoms such as bloating, cramping, and pain, and we delve into the mental toll IBS can have, from food/diet anxiety to the constant dread of locating the nearest toilet.  We explore how stress and physical triggers can set off cyclical symptoms, trapping individuals in a loop that affects both their digestive and mental health. Alexa offers some practical tips and discusses how lifestyle changes such as breath work, yoga, and psychological approaches such as acceptance and commitment therapy and self compassion can break these cycles and reduce symptoms.Key chapters(05:43) Anxiety and IBS(07:04) The gut-brain connection(10:38) Impact of stress on IBS symptoms(17:48) Psychological therapy and IBS(28:05) Tips for managing IBSThis week's guest Dr Alexa DuffDr Alexa Duff is a clinical psychologist specialising in gut health. She leads a NHS psychology practice as well as a private practice The Gut Brain Connection. Additionally, Alexa is engaged in research at King's College London into psychological support for the gut-brain axis.More free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to our YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Often mistaken for mere worry, health anxiety is a debilitating mental health problem that can shroud your everyday life in fear. In this solo episode I break down what health anxiety is, how you can recognise the signs and I discuss how OCD and health anxiety can overlap. If you're facing these fears yourself or supporting someone who is, this episode aims to equip you with the knowledge and tools required to step out of the shadow of health-related anxiety and into a life where you are in control.***FREE DOWNLOAD***How to tell if you are reassurance seeking or information gathering (helpful if you experience OCD or OCD and health anxiety): click here.***HELPFUL BLOGS***The Defusion Wheel: Strategies to Help You Manage Difficult ThoughtsHow to Deal With Difficult ThoughtsMore free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to our YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

You have made the decision to go to therapy, but you are not sure where to start when it comes to finding a therapist in the UK.This episode is here to help. I am joined by Dr Marianne Trent, Chartered Clinical Psychologist and co-author of the book: Talking Heads: Your guide to finding a qualified therapist in the UK. We discuss the difference between regulation and registration, how to go about looking for a therapist, and the different types of therapy professionals, with a special discussion around EMDR. If you are feeling a little daunted by the prospect of trying to find a therapist, I hope this episode will serve as a reminder that it is possible to find the right therapist for you, and once you do, it can open up the opportunity for transformative personal growth and a more fulfilled life.Dr Marianne is a Chartered Clinical Psychologist specialising in trauma, grief and supporting aspiring psychologists. She started her independent business in 2019 and since this time has been featured by the BBC, The Guardian, Channel 5 and many more. She has helped early career psychologists' confidence, self-belief, and clinical and practical skills to soar with The Aspiring Psychologist podcast, The Aspiring psychologist Membership and her books: The Clinical Psychologist Collective and The Aspiring Psychologist Collective.  You can follow Marianne on Instagram, TikTok, or Facebook, or visit her website.More free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to our YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Reassurance seeking in OCD is part and parcel of the OCD experience, but it is a symptom that does not get talked about that much.This episode seeks to rectify that. In it, I discuss not just the 'what' of reassurance seeking but also the 'how' of responding to it without feeding the anxiety and getting stuck in the reassurance trap further. I explore how consistency and flexibility can transform interactions with loved ones into stepping stones toward recovery and offer some ideas on how to respond to a loved one with OCD when they are seeking reassurance. Episode highlights include:- What is reassurance seeking in OCD?- The difference between self-reassurance and seeking reassurance from others- How shame and guilt interact with reassurance-seeking- Impact on relationships- An alternative to reassurance seeking: seeking support- Example scripts on how to manage reassurance-seeking**FREE DOWNLOAD** Am I reassurance seeking or gathering information? A simple guide to help you decide. Download here.More free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to our YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

A heartfelt and enriching conversation with Helen Marie, a London-based registered psychotherapist with almost 400k followers across her social media accounts. In this episode, we discuss Helen's new and widely anticipated book, Choose You: Gentle Words To Help You Heal And Grow. Highlights of the episode include:- Impactful Chapters in 'Choose You': Learn about the structured guidance offered in 'Choose You,' especially the profound insights in the 'Healing' chapter.- Attachment Theory and Relationships: We unpack the influence of attachment theory on our relationships and personal growth.- Generational Trauma: The impact this can have, the grief and sadness it can cause, and what it means to let go of this pain.- Learning to notice: Discover the role of observing the internal world and the fact that mindfulness exercises can enhance your self-care regimen.- Personal Stories: Listen to Helen share her victory over a long-standing fear of thunderstorms and what this means for self-healing and personal transformation.Whether you're a long-time therapy goer or just starting to explore your inner world, this episode is packed with gentle wisdom, personal stories, and professional insights that will inspire and empower you.-------------You can get Helen Marie's new book 'Choose You' now:Book - Helen Marie Psychotherapy & CounsellingFollow Helen Marie on Instagram or TikTok:helen marie | therapist PGDip MPH BSc (Hons) MBACP (@h.e.l.e.n.m.a.r.i.e) • Instagram photos and videosTikTok - Make Your Day--------------More free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to our YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

In a world that often idealises flawless parenting, how can we embrace the concept of 'good enough parenting' and find peace in the imperfections? What steps can we take to repair and strengthen our relationships with our children after inevitable mistakes and manage the guilt that often comes with parenting?In this episode, I am joined by parenting expert and Clinical Psychologist Dr Jo Mueller. We tackle the complexities of modern parenting, juggling the demands of mental health with the joys and challenges of child-rearing. We explore the impact of social media and the abundance of conflicting advice, providing a reassuring guide for embracing the beauty of imperfection and reducing the burden of parental guilt.We also address the internal struggles parents face, particularly those raising neurodivergent children, and we discuss practical strategies for managing stress and regulating emotions. Highlights include:The Perfect Parent Myth:  How societal and digital media pressures create unrealistic parenting standards.Acknowledging and Repairing Mistakes: Learn why being honest about errors to your children can strengthen your relationship.Parenting and Emotional Regulation: Gain insights on managing emotional dysregulation in parents and children, especially when a child or parents are neurodivergent.Self-compassion in Parenting: We discuss avoiding self-blame, and understanding the stress-guilt cycle that many parents fall into.************************* Dr Jo Mueller is a clinical psychologist who specialises in working with parents, supporting both their parenting and mental health. Jo believes that helping parents is the most powerful way to help children, families, and even the next generation. She has an interest in both neurodivergence and parental guilt, and founded The Guilty Parent Club in 2023. Her parenting framework, the Guilty Parent Escape Plan, organises evidence-based concepts into 6 memorable “Keys”, which help parents feel more confident, less guilty, and more like themselves and the parent they want to be. Far from a set of parenting “rules”, the 6 Keys emphasise imperfection and wellbeing, alongside a flexible toolkit of ideas to help keep our children's brains regulated. ***The next Club cohort starts in September 2024***To find out more and join the waiting list:www.drjothepsychologist.com/guiltyparentclub***************************More free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to our YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.