Podcasts about perfectionists

Welcome to Episode 122 of The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering! Today I have the privilege of chatting withJen Kacin.Jen is a speaker, writer and content creator on topics that promote confidence and healthy decision making for teensand tweens. As a social worker of 20+ years and support coach in a middle school, she is on a mission to equip parents and teachers with tools to help them engage in meaningful and relevant conversations surrounding the emotionalissues their children face. Some of the resources we mention include:Jen's Compass TalksJen's YouTube ChannelJen's Top 10 Hacks for Parenting Teens and TweensEssential Yoga 15 Years Younger YouTube ChannelThe Queen's Cook by Tessa Afshar*You can connect with Jen via:Her website: compasstalks.comInstagram: @jenkacin_authorJust a reminder that you can connect with me via: ⁠⁠⁠⁠• ⁠Instagram: ⁠@andreafortenberry⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠• ⁠⁠⁠ My website⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠: ⁠andreafortenberry.com⁠• ⁠⁠⁠Subscribe to my free magazine, Restore.⁠⁠⁠ *Affiliate Link

What if the real problem isn't the mistake you made—but what you made it mean? Are you spending more energy punishing yourself than actually moving forward?3 Key Takeaways from the Episode: • Why high achievers fear the meaning of mistakes more than the mistakes themselves • The mindset shift that helps you recover quickly and effectively: “I did a thing” • How becoming the best at recovering from mistakes makes you indispensable at work

Is perfectionism keeping you from the love and connection you deeply crave?

For natural-born fixers and problem solvers, the instinct to tackle every challenge head-on is deeply ingrained. Whether facing procrastination, overwhelm, or late-night scrolling habits, the immediate response is often to search for a solution.   In this episode, I explore why the concept of "fixing yourself" may be counterproductive when it comes to creating lasting change. Drawing from Internal Family Systems theory and real-world examples, I share how shifting from a fixing mindset to one of understanding can transform our approach to personal growth and habit change.   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/174

We begin this week's show with The House That Clemont Built, the June 24, 1974, episode of The Zero Hour. (24:18) Our final story is The Perfectionist, by Suspense. That episode originally aired January 21, 1952. https://traffic.libsyn.com/forcedn/e55e1c7a-e213-4a20-8701-21862bdf1f8a/RelicRadio948.mp3 Download RelicRadio948 | Subscribe | Spotify | Support The Relic Radio Show If you'd like to support Relic Radio, please consider a donation [...]

Quand on doute, on a souvent le réflexe de chercher une nouvelle stratégie entrepreneuriale. Mais parfois, la seule vraie question à se poser, c'est : qu'est-ce que j'aime faire ? Dans cette Minute Marine, je rebondis sur une citation extraite du livre The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control de Katherine Morgan Schafler. Je t'explique pourquoi cette question, en apparence perso et gnangnan, peut en réalité devenir un véritable atout business. Et comment, moi, elle m'a aidée à réajuster ma stratégie de communication autour du podcast. (Pour me répondre, envoie-moi un mp sur Linkedin

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INVIDA (David Schoenwetter) is a Beatport-charting DJ and  musical genius producer known for his energetic blend of Dance, House, EDM, and Pop. With over 11 million streams, his music has been released on top labels like Ultra Records and supported by industry giants such as Tiësto and Hardwell. His singles have appeared on major playlists, and he has performed at key events like Miami Music Week.Beyond his artist work, David is an experienced producer and mixing engineer, collaborating with iconic acts like Norah Jones and Yoko Ono. As a songwriter, he has co-written tracks for artists including CAZZETTE and Tom Swoon, with his song"Warrior" exceeding 20 million streams.INVIDA continues to evolve as a solo artist and collaborator, embracing partnerships with those passionate about bold, genre-blending music. Thank you, David, for sharing your journey and vulnerability as an iconic creative. It was a pleasure to meet you and share space on the podcast.Podcast Description TemplateYou can connect with David Schoenwetter on Instagram @invidamusic or check out his/her website davidschoenwetter.com

In this heartfelt episode of Typology, Anthony and I sit down with Elizabeth Husserl—an Enneagram One with a Two wing and the author of the beautiful new book The Power of Enough: Finding Joy in Your Relationship with Money. Elizabeth's story begins over two decades ago when she first encountered the Enneagram. What followed was nothing short of transformational. Her work with the Enneagram didn't just shape her inner life—it helped heal her marriage and completely reframed her understanding of wealth. In our conversation, she invites us to imagine a richer, more expansive definition of money—one rooted in connection, belonging, and wholeness rather than scarcity and striving. Together, we explore: How the Enneagram can deepen personal growth and strengthen relationships Elizabeth's evolving relationship with money and what it's taught her The role of financial “DNA” and how we can begin to rewrite our inherited money stories Grounded practices for living with “enoughness” in every area of life If you're curious about how the Enneagram intersects with your financial story—or simply hungry for a more soulful approach to money—this episode is full of wisdom, vulnerability, and grace. You can learn more about Elizabeth's work at ElizabethHusserl.com, and follow her on Instagram @ElizabethHusserl for more insights.

Do you automatically say “I'm so busy” when someone asks how you're doing? What if that phrase is keeping you trapped in stress, burnout, and overwork?3 Key Takeaways from the Episode: • Why identifying as a "busy person" keeps you overwhelmed and disempowered • How eliminating the word busy from your vocabulary transforms how you feel • A simple daily question—What would 5% less look like?—that helps you reclaim time and energy

Ma graine de sequoia, tu fais ça, toi aussi ? Te concentrer surtout sur tes faiblesses, en te disant que “quand ce sera réglé, tout ira mieux” ? Moi oui. Et apparemment, je suis loin d'être la seule. Dans cette Minute Marine, je te reparle du bouquin que je lis en ce moment : The Perfectionist's Guide To Losing Control, de Katherine Morgan Schafler. J'y ai trouvé une idée toute simple, mais vraiment utile : → plutôt que de s'épuiser à corriger ce qui cloche, on ferait mieux de miser davantage sur ce qu'on fait bien. → Et pour ça, faut commencer par le repérer. Je te partage les questions proposées dans le livre pour identifier tes “gifts” — ces choses que tu fais bien, sans effort, parfois même sans t'en rendre compte. Et toi ? Tu les connais, tes “gifts” ? Ou tu passes ton temps à essayer de te réparer ? (Pour me répondre, envoie-moi un mp sur Linkedin

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Do you reflect on your experiences with self-criticism? In this episode, I revisit a powerful narrative technique called the "Once-Upon-a-Time" technique that helps you gain perspective on challenging situations and cultivate self-compassion. This two-part reflective practice transforms how you view your experiences by allowing you to step back and observe yourself through the lens of a neutral observer.   The technique involves writing about a meaningful experience twice - first from your personal perspective, and then rewriting it as if you're an anthropologist studying someone else's story. Through this process, you discover hidden thought patterns and create space for a more balanced, compassionate view of yourself and your actions.   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/173

Perfectionism can feel like a badge of honor, but it often hides a deeper fear of being seen as not enough. You pour time and energy into every detail, hoping it'll protect you from judgment or failure, but all it really does is keep you stuck. There's always one more thing to fix, one more reason not to hit “go.” Eventually, progress slows to a crawl, and what started as high standards turns into quiet self-sabotage. It's exhausting chasing an idea of success that never lets you rest. Claus Raasted doesn't just talk about change—he's lived it. After leading the world's biggest LARP design studio, a major career reset pushed him to rebuild from the ground up. Now a consultant and educator, he helps people cut through perfectionism and self-sabotage to unlock what actually works. He emphasizes using your strengths, not fixing every flaw, and speaks honestly about the traps of overthinking and burnout. His message is clear: success isn't about doing everything—it's about doing you better. Stay tuned! Resources: Are you looking for an overpaid rockstar consultant to help you with GETTING SHIT DONE? Follow Claus Raasted on Facebook Connect with Claus Raasted on LinkedIn

Episode Description:In this soul-stirring conversation, former international business executive turned passionate coach Daniel Kobryner reveals how embracing authenticity transformed his 35-year career into a mission of true purpose. Discover the powerful mindset shifts that helped Daniel overcome perfectionism and procrastination. This episode delivers the permission slip you've been waiting for to trust your instincts, follow your heart, and create the coaching practice that only you can build.Dreaming of leaving your 9–5 to coach full time? Email info@candymotzek.com with EXIT to learn how.

You're crushing it on paper—but inside? You're feeling fried.If your standards are sky-high, your to-do list never ends, and your nervous system feels like it's hanging on by a thread, this episode is your wake-up call.In today's episode, we're breaking down what happens when perfectionism becomes a nervous system survival strategy—and why it's one of the earliest (and sneakiest) signs of burnout.We're diving into: ✔️ The real root of perfectionism (hint: it's not just about high standards) ✔️ 5 subtle but powerful signs you're burning out—and might not know it ✔️ How to rewire the pressure to “get it right” and build nervous system safety insteadIf you've been wondering why you can't relax… why nothing ever feels good enough… or why success feels so exhausting—this one's for you.

In this #throwback tribute, we honor the late Sacha Jenkins. A creative force, cultural curator, and devoted father with a timeless conversation about raising kids in a world that doesn't stand still. The Father Hoods crew gets into the real: from talking to your kids about gender identity and navigating explicit content, to managing blended families and learning through missteps. DJ EFN reflects on how the absence of his own father shaped his approach to parenting today. Manny shares a powerful moment where his son checked him on gender assumptions, and KGB talks through a moment of friction at home sparked by a podcast episode. Sacha brings calm clarity and perspective sharing how he navigated fatherhood while building a legacy, and why a drama-free co-parenting setup is more than just a goal. This one hits different now. Rest in power, Sacha. Your voice still echoes. What You'll Hear in This Episode: [00:07:45] Unlearning with Our Children [00:19:55] Breaking the Silence, Building Trust [00:28:35] No Drama, Just Co-Parenting [00:39:25] Parenting Ain't for Perfectionists [00:49:20] Parenting in the Age of Algorithms Why Listen: Where real life meets real talk. The Father Hoods dive into the wins, the mess, and the meaning of being present—droppin' insight with flavor, humor, and that signature Hip Hop energy! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This podcast addresses how perfectionism can make you and others miserable.

Welcome to Episode 121 of The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering! Today I have the privilege of chatting withKristen Strong.Kristen Strong, whose authored books include Girl Meets Change and When Change Finds You, also compiled the 90-day devotional, Praying Through Loneliness. She writes as a friend walking alongside you in your lonely season to a more helpful, hopeful destination.She loves sharing laughs, long talks, and meaningful stories with family and friends while holding a cup of strong black tea. She and her US Air Force veteran husband, David, have three beloved adult children. Some of the resources we mention in this episode include:Kristen's latest book, Desperate Woman Seeks Friends: Real Talk About Connection, Rejection, and Trying Again for the Friendships You Need*Praying the Scriptures for Your Adult Children by Jodie Berndt*Beautiful Day by Elin Hilderbrand*You can connect with Kristen via:Her website: kristenstrong.comInstagram: @kristenstrongJust a reminder that you can connect with me via: ⁠⁠⁠⁠• ⁠Instagram: ⁠@andreafortenberry⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠• ⁠⁠⁠ My website⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠: ⁠andreafortenberry.com⁠• ⁠⁠⁠Subscribe to my free magazine, Restore.⁠⁠⁠ *Affiliate Link

Is your inbox running your day—and your energy? What if the key to fewer emails and better results isn't better filters, but better feelings?3 Key Takeaways from the Episode: • Why your email energy matters more than your email words • Four common email traps that create more churn (and how to fix them) • The emotional shift that gets people to respond faster—with exactly what you asked for

High Achievers and Perfectionists can find a way to self-sabotage their greatest callings. Chris Jansen, author and certified life coach, helps us apply grace, get clear on our why and bust through the lies we tell ourselves so that we can live the life God calls us to. Such an impactful episode. Listen in!Who is Chris:Chris is a board-certified coach with a master's in counseling psychology and over 25 years of experience working with hundreds of sought-after athletes, creatives, soldiers, entrepreneurs, and small businesses. She excels in helping high-achieving perfectionists navigate performance pressure, overcome self-sabotage and rewrite narratives. Chris trained with and worked on Tony Robbins' team of results coaches at the #1 personal development and peak performance strategy company in the world. Find her here:Website: https://www.chrisjanssencoaching.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chris3janssen/FaceBook: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chrisjanssencoaching/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chrisjanssencoaching/Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/chrisjanssen

Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or weighed down by limiting beliefs? In this inspiring episode of Masks Off for People Pleasers and Perfectionists, host Kim Gross is joined by her boxing coach, Coach Yves, for a powerful conversation about how to shift your mindset, build resilience, and embrace a life of growth and freedom.

You don't have to be neat and tidy to be a perfectionist. Sometimes, the mess just means you're afraid to start or fail. Let's talk about it. Let's be buds! Follow me over on the socials on Instagram @‌motherlikeaboss and on Tik Tok @‌themotherlikeaboss Want 365 days of detailed cleaning plans? I'll tell you exactly what to clean and when, you just follow along. Never worry about sticking to a cleaning routine again. Grab Tidier by the Day here.

If you're feeling the pressure to have a “perfect” summer.. come chat with a retired perfectionist who's traded burnout for balance as we dive into refreshingly honest summer advice. Whether you're overwhelmed by expectations, craving meaningful downtime, or just want to enjoy the season without losing your mind, this episode is your go-to guide for intentional routines. Each week, we unpack niche lifestyle tips, realistic routines, and unfiltered reflections that help you stop overthinking and start actually enjoying summer. Minimal effort, maximum peace. Mindset shifts, & just REAL talks !KATELYNN'S IG: https://www.instagram.com/katelynnnolann/KATELYNN'S YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/c/katelynnnolan KATELYNN'S TIKTOK: https://tiktok.com/@katelynnnolannNYT PODCAST IG: https://www.instagram.com/notyourtypicalwithkn See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Why do I know exactly what to do but still don't do it? This frustrating disconnect between intellectual understanding and actual behavior isn't a sign of weakness or laziness. It's a common human experience that has logical explanations beneath the surface.   In this episode, I explore the knowing-doing gap – that puzzling space where we intellectually understand what would help us, but can't seem to follow through. I offer a simple three-part tool to help you bridge this gap with curiosity and compassion rather than judgment and frustration.   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/172

How to beat perfectionism without lowering your standards.   Dr. Ellen Hendriksen is a clinical psychologist who will help you calm your anxiety and be your authentic self. She serves on the faculty at Boston University's Center for Anxiety and Related Disorders (CARD) and is the author of HOW TO BE ENOUGH: Self-Acceptance for Self-Critics and Perfectionists and HOW TO BE YOURSELF: Quiet Your Inner Critic and Rise Above Social Anxiety.   In this episode we talk about: The relationship between perfectionism and anxiety The definition of perfectionism–and why the word is actually a misnomer Dr. Hendriksen's own struggles with perfectionism, and how they manifested physically The difference between healthy perfectionism and unhealthy perfectionism Changing your relationship with your inner critic  Shifting from rigid rules to flexibility Keeping high standards while making room for mistakes Overcoming procrastination Navigating social comparison And much more   Related Episodes: Strategies for Social Anxiety | Ellen Hendriksen Ellen Hendriksen, Rising Above Social Anxiety The Voice in Your Head | Ethan Kross  How To Move Into The Future With Optimism Instead Of Anxiety | Frederik Pferdt   Join Dan's online community here Follow Dan on social: Instagram, TikTok Subscribe to our YouTube Channel   Additional Resources:   Ellen Hendriksen on Substack  

BUY THE SLOW LIVING BOOK HERE! Feeling stuck or waiting for the “perfect” moment to start something new? In this episode of Do It Badly, we're letting go of perfectionism and encouraging you to take messy, joyful action—right now. Whether you're curious about gardening, picking up a new hobby, or just saying “yes” to more invitations, this is your reminder that doing something badly is still doing something. You'll hear why modeling curiosity, joy, and willingness to try matters—especially if you're parenting, pivoting, or simply craving more from life.We're diving into the power of choosing action over paralysis, and how embracing imperfection can unlock new opportunities and connections. You don't need a perfect plan or a huge budget to start—you just need to start. Tune in to explore how letting go of the myth of “getting it right” can bring more freedom, fun, and growth into your everyday life. Hit play and start doing the things… even if you do them badly.Past Episodes You May Love: Episode 67: The Messy MiddleEpisode 150: Quarter and Midlife CrisisEpisode 163: Are You a Perfectionist?Episode 170: Reinventing YourselfEpisode 175: Bringing Your Vision to LifeWant to know more about living a slowed down life?!Simple Shortcuts to Peace Course - https://stephanieodea.com/peaceNew Year, New You Mini Challenge - https://stephanieodea.com/newyouJoin me for my LIVE Masterclass - https://stephanieodea.com/masterclass/Website - https://stephanieodea.comBlog - https://stephanieodea.com/blog/Slow Living Podcast - https://stephanieodea.com/podcastSpeaking Opportunities - https://stephanieodea.com/speaking/Coaching Opportunities - https://stephanieodea.com/coaching/Courses - https://stephanieodea.com/courses/Contact - stephanieodea.com/contact/

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What if your best career move isn't grinding harder—but trusting yourself more?

Guests - Kasie Auten and Brittni JohnsonHosted By - Courtney Ortiz and Lesley MealorIn Episode 227 of Making The Impact - A Dance Competition Podcast, we explore how and why dancers are susceptible to a perfectionist mindset, and discuss how to use those traits to your advantage while also staying grounded.Topics Include: Strategies to focus on progress rather than perfection How studio culture can be a factor in whether dancers strive for perfection How perfectionism can manifest throughout your lifeHelp support our podcast. Join Making The Impact's Platinum Premium Subscription today! Your membership includes:Monthly Q&A episodes released to members onlyPriority to have your questions answered each month on the live Q&A.Ad-free listening for all of Season 4, 5 & 6. No sponsored ads!20% off all IDA MerchandiseExclusive bonus content released throughout the yearDiscounted IDA Online CritiqueGroup Zoom check-ins 3x per season with Courtney Ortiz!Your support helps us produce future episodes of Making The Impact for years to come!Making The Impact's Platinum Premium - Sign up now for only $5/month!Follow your Hosts & Guests!Courtney Ortiz - @courtney.ortizLesley Mealor - @miss.lesley.danceBrittni Johnson - @britts_empoweredintention, @being_brittniKasie Auten - @Ksauten_danceThis episode is sponsored by:Michelle Leagans's "Hey Dancers...Let's Talk About It!" Journal.A journaling companion for dancers to thrive as students and team members.Available for purchase on Amazon! www.letstalkaboutdance.comDance Teacher Web Conference and ExpoThis summer July 22nd-25th in Las Vegas, NV! 140+ master classes, seminars, events, & more for continuing education and networking in the dance community! Use code: IMPACT50 for $50 off! Join our FREE Facebook Group and connect with us! Making The Impact - A Dance Competition Podcast Community Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! We would love to hear from you! Join our Newsletter for weekly episode releases straight to your inbox! Follow Impact Dance Adjudicators on social media @impactdanceadjudicators and for a list of IDA Affiliated dance competitions, visit our website atwww.impactdanceadjudicators.comSupport the show

Self-Compassion for Overachievers: How to Let Go of Perfection & Embrace Rest | Kim GrossAre you always pushing, striving, and holding yourself to impossibly high standards? You're not alone. In this heartfelt episode of Masks Off for People Pleasers and Perfectionists, host Kim Gross opens up about her own journey through burnout, perfectionism, and an autoimmune health crisis that became a wake-up call.If you're an overachiever or a recovering perfectionist, this guide to self-compassion is exactly what you need. Kim dives into: ✅ Why overachievers struggle to rest ✅ The difference between primal (fear-based) and powerful (flow-based) states ✅ How to give yourself permission to slow down ✅ Real, actionable steps to break the cycle of pushing too hardWhether you're stuck in a cycle of doing or simply need a reminder that you are enough as you are, this episode will help you breathe easier, soften the inner critic, and embrace your humanity.✨ Take off the mask. You don't have to be perfect to be worthy.

If perfectionism is your favorite weakness, this one's for you. Dr. Ellen Hendriksen, clinical psychologist and author of How to Be Enough: Self-Acceptance for Self-Critics and Perfectionists, joins Vic to unpack the roots of perfectionism, how it shows up in everyday life, and why so many of us feel like we have to earn our worth. They explore the difference between healthy ambition and toxic self-criticism, how to find that middle ground where you're still growing without burning out, and what it really means to practice self-compassion. Vic opens up about her own struggles with perfectionism—from how playing D1 volleyball enhanced her inner critic to why she regrets overplanning Max's 30th birthday—and shares the tools she's learning to prioritize presence over performance. Whether you overthink, overachieve, or feel like you're never quite doing enough, this conversation will help you let go of the pressure and embrace the messiness of being human.Website: ellenhendriksen.comInstagram: @ellen_hendriksenBook: How to Be Enough: Self-Acceptance for Self-Critics and Perfectionists by Dr. Ellen Hendriksen// SPONSORS // Quince: Treat your closet to a little summer glow-up with Quince. Go to quince.com/realpod for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Paper Doll By Dylan Mulvaney: Buy your copy of Paper Doll here or wherever books are sold!Paired: Head to paired.com/realpod to get a 7-day free trail and 25% off if you sign up for a subscription. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Do you feel like your urges seem to have a mind of their own? Those compelling impulses to check your phone, eat something sweet, or pour another glass of wine often feel like unwelcome intruders in our carefully planned lives. However, urges aren't problems to fix—they're messengers trying to communicate something important.   I'll share a powerful metaphor that changed how I understand urges, along with practical prompts to help you decode what your urges are really trying to tell you. By approaching these impulses with curiosity instead of judgment, you can transform your relationship with them and access deeper self-knowledge. When you understand what drives your urges, you gain the freedom to choose how you respond to them.   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/171

If you've ever ghosted your own visibility, doubted yourself right before posting, or felt like you needed to perform to be chosen—this episode will hit deep. In this powerful solo episode of Flip the Switch, I'm unpacking the real reason visibility feels so triggering for so many self-led women—and why it has nothing to do with laziness or lack of confidence. We'll explore how your nervous system is wired for protection, not performance—and how old survival strategies might be showing up every time you try to take up space. Inside this episode, we'll explore: The post-delete spiral, the “I'm not ready yet” pattern, and what's really happening beneath it Why visibility is not just a strategy—it's an energetic and somatic experience How Polyvagal Theory explains the freeze/flee response to being seen How parts of you (like The Perfectionist or Inner Teen) might be trying to protect you from judgment or shame Tangible ways to practice regulated visibility and begin rewiring safety into your body My 3-step framework to begin building the emotional capacity to be fully seen, heard, and held This episode is for the woman who: Has a vision she's been hiding from Is done shrinking in her relationships, business, or voice Wants to feel grounded, powerful, and safe being fully expressed This isn't about hyping yourself up to be seen—it's about anchoring into a version of you who no longer needs to perform to belong. Want to go deeper? Inside The Mirror, we don't just talk about confidence—we build the emotional capacity and identity safety required to hold visibility, love, money, and leadership without bracing. If this episode landed for you, DM me “SEEN” on Instagram and I'll share how we can go deeper together.

Eight years ago, I landed myself in the office of a nurse practitioner/functional medicine specialist who specialized in gut health. I had been inexplicably bloated and exhausted for months and didn't know why. Little did I know that woman would go on to not only remedy my body, but change the overall trajectory of my life and career.Flash forward to today, while she's still an expert when it comes to our bodies, our nervous systems, and how the two speak to one another, her work is primarily focused on helping folks rid themselves of codependent, people-pleasing tendencies. And candidly, all the physical issues I suffered from back in 2017 were really just a manifestation of mental and emotional turmoil. Namely, living a life that was more based on external approval than internal fulfillment.She brings a really fresh perspective to codependency, and what she refers to as "emotional outsourcing."Beatriz (Béa) Victoria Albina, NP, MPH, SEP (she/her) is a UCSF-trained Family Nurse Practitioner, Somatic Experiencing Practitioner, Master Certified Somatic Life Coach, author of the forthcoming "End Emotional Outsourcing: a Guide to Overcoming Codependent, Perfectionist and People Pleasing Habits" (expected Sept 30, Hachette Balance) and Breathwork Meditation Guide with a passion for helping humans socialized as women to reconnect with their bodies, regulate their nervous systems and rewire their minds, so they can break free from codependency, perfectionism and people pleasing and reclaim their joy.Work with me PrivatelyConnect on InstagramWebsitePodcast Production by James Jorge

Welcome to Episode 120 of The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering!  Today I have the privilege of chatting with MollyDeFrank. Molly is mom to three boys and three girls, ages eight to 15. She spends most of her time telling them to put on their shoes.She's also the author of Digital Detox*, which helps free families from their addictions to devices. Today we are chatting about her latest book, Mothering Boys: 8 Things Your Son Needs From You Before He Turns 10*.Some of the additional resources we mention in this episode include:Episode 84 of The Perfectionist's Guide to MotheringIndigo Isle by T.I. Lowe*A Praying Life by Paul Miller*You can connect with Molly via:Her website: mollydefrank.comInstagram: @mollydefrankJust a reminder that you can connect with me via: ⁠⁠⁠⁠• ⁠Instagram: ⁠@andreafortenberry⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠• ⁠⁠⁠ My website⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠: ⁠andreafortenberry.com⁠• ⁠⁠⁠Subscribe to my free magazine, Restore.⁠⁠⁠ *Affiliate Link

I didn't think that I was a perfectionist until I fully understood the meaning of the word! Tara Cousineau is a clinical psychologist, meditation teacher, and life learner on resilience, self-compassion and healing. And, a recovering perfectionist. In our chat I came to understand that being a perfectionist does not just mean being a neat freak! It is a coping strategy that can manifest in a number of ways. Tara's mixture of academic and scientific knowledge, coupled with her deep understanding of energy work makes her a brilliant guest. You can reach Tara at https://www.taracousineau.com/ and Rosanne at https://chakra-way.com/Much loveRosanne xx

Do you constantly feel the need to fix yourself? Caught in a cycle of fear, control, and burnout?In this powerful episode of Masks Off, host Kim Gross sits down with Jenny Peterson, a former chronic "fixer" who opens up about her deeply personal journey from fear-based control to true inner freedom. Jenny reveals how high-achieving perfectionists—especially women—often fall into a fix-it mindset, using every tool under the sun (medical, holistic, spiritual) to escape feelings of unworthiness.Together, Kim and Jenny unpack the hidden cost of control, the connection between trauma and chronic illness, and how learning to set boundaries, listen to your intuition, and rewire your subconscious can bring deep and lasting transformation.✨ This episode is a must-watch for:Perfectionists battling burnoutOverthinkers and over-doersWellness seekers stuck in the healing hamster wheelAnyone ready to release fear and embrace ease

Do you try to fix or suppress your anger, and feel guilty if you can't? Many of us have been taught to see anger as shameful, unprofessional, or even dangerous. As a result, we bottle it up, push it down, and try to ignore it. The cost of burying anger is emotional exhaustion and disconnection from ourselves.    In this episode, I share a different approach to anger – one that views it not as a liability but as a messenger. I offer three powerful prompts to help you relate to your anger differently, allowing you to rebuild inner trust and reconnect with your authentic self without fear of explosive expression.   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/170  

Read the full transcript here. What is obsessive compulsive personality disorder (OCPD), and how does it compare to obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD)? Why is it relatively prevalent and yet also relatively unheard-of? What can people with OCPD do well? What does OCPD feel like from the inside? Which fictional characters might have OCPD? How do people with OCPD typically engage with religion? How can you have better relationships with people in your life who have OCPD? What should you do if you think you or someone you know might have OCPD? What are some treatments for it that actually work?After struggling with the traits and symptoms of OCPD since childhood, Darryl Rossignol spent a decade deconstructing his own personality disorder and putting the pieces back together. In 2015, he launched a YouTube channel to document his journey. Within a few years, the project had reached tens of thousands of people in need. By 2022, the need for more was clear. With the assistance of some of the top OCPD mental health professionals, he was able to launch The OCPD Foundation. This foundation is now dedicated to assisting those with OCPD to successfully find the help that they need. Watch Darryl's videos on YouTube, learn more about OCPD at ocpd.org, or email Darryl at darryl@ocpd.org. StaffSpencer Greenberg — Host / DirectorJosh Castle — ProducerRyan Kessler — Audio EngineerUri Bram — FactotumWeAmplify — TranscriptionistsIgor Scaldini — Marketing ConsultantMusicBroke for FreeJosh WoodwardLee RosevereQuiet Music for Tiny Robotswowamusiczapsplat.comAffiliatesClearer ThinkingGuidedTrackMind EasePositlyUpLift[Read more]

What if feeling your feelings didn't mean falling apart — but actually gave you more control, not less? If white knuckling or pushing through is the best way you know how to feel your feelings. You're not alone.Discover the hidden mistake keeping perfectionists stuck feeling on edge, why you can never outthink your feelings and the right way to feel your feelings.Want to bring rewiring into your reality? Where being confident, certain and playful is just how you roll? Perfectionist Solutions 1-1 coaching is your next step.Mentioned In Episode 254:Perfectionism Optimized 1 to 1 coachingPerfectionismRewired.comOther helpful podcast episodes in this series on How Your Brain Actually Works:Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 248Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 249Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 250Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 251Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 252Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 253Timestamps:00:00-Your thoughts create your feelings LIE #101:53-Can't Feel Your Feelings Without This04:14-Knowing how your brain actually works05:24-"What is Wrong With Me?" Explained06:37-Feelings Are Psychological LIE #207:16-Feelings are Emotions LIE #308:56-Where Feelings Actually Come From10:08-How Depersonalizing Feelings = Freedom12:46-Turning Mom Meltdown Moments Around (Manon's Story)14:35-How To Control Your Feelings16:01-Rational Thinking + Decisions LIE #417:32-Striving For Excellence Without Pushing Through18:29-What Your Person Account Has To Do With Feelings19:41-How To Identify Your Feelings Fast21:12-How To Feel Your Feelings Visual Tool22:33-Why Meditation + Deep Breaths Don't Always Work23:58-Thoughts Drive Your Feelings LIES #525:57-Perspectacles How Feelings Shape Your Perceptions28:37-Turning Your Mood into Useful Fuel30:07-Where Sense Data Fits Into The EquationHow To Feel Your Feelings Q&AQ: Why does “changing my thoughts” never changes my feelings—especially as a perfectionist?
A: This episode breaks down the myth that thoughts drive feelings (hint: it's the other way around!). Discover why “thought work” is a torture device for perfectionidtic people and how the “CTFAR Model” does not actually work for any human with a brainQ: What's really going on when I'm overwhelmed by emotions even if everything looks fine on the outside?
A: You'll learn the neuroscientific difference between feelings and emotions, plus why this distinction puts an to the cycle of overthinking feelings and asking “what is wrong with me”Q: What's the biggest misconception high-achievers have about feelings?
A: Most of us have a totally backward understanding of where feelings come from (and it's not just psychological!). Courtney reveals the real, science-backed answer.Q: How can I feel my feelings without getting “lost” in them or falling apart?
A: Tune in for a client success story and discover a practical tool—the “mood meter”—to help you regain control and function, even on tough days.Q: Does thinking rationally mean I can escape feelings?
A: Logic and rationality can't bypass feelings. Find out why every decision (yes, even the “rational” ones!) are shaped by your mood — and how to use this knowledge to your advantage.Q: What's one quick, practical tweak I can use to feel better fast?
A: Courtney shares micro-strategies (think 30 seconds to 3 minutes) you can use right away to change your mood—and your experience.Highly Credible Resources Cited in this EpisodeBar, M. (2009). The proactive brain: memory for predictions. *Philosophical Transactions of the Royal Society B Biological Sciences*, *364*(1521), 1235–1243. https://doi.org/10.1098/rstb.2008.0310Barrett, L. F. (2017). How emotions are made: The secret life of the brain. Houghton Mifflin Harcourt.Barrett, L. F. (2006). Valence is a basic building block of emotional life. Journal of Research in Personality, 40(1), 35–55. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jrp.2005.08.006Barrett, L. F. (2016). The theory of constructed emotion: an active inference account of interoception and categorization. Social Cognitive and Affective Neuroscience, nsw154. https://doi.org/10.1093/scan/nsw154Barrett, L. F., & Bar, M. (2009). See it with feeling: affective predictions during object perception. Philosophical Transactions of the Royal Society B: Biological Sciences, 364(1521), 1325–1334. https://doi.org/10.1098/rstb.2008.0312Barrett, L. F., Gross, J., Christensen, T. C., & Benvenuto, M. (2001). Knowing what you're feeling and knowing what to do about it: Mapping the relation between emotion differentiation and emotion regulation. Cognition and Emotion, 15(6), 713–724. https://doi.org/10.1080/02699930143000239Barrett, L. F., & Russell, J. A. (1999). The Structure of Current Affect. Current Directions in Psychological Science, 8(1), 10–14. https://doi.org/10.1111/1467-8721.00003Braem, S., Coenen, E., Klaas Bombeke, Bochove, van, & Wim Notebaert. (2015). Open your eyes for prediction errors. *Cognitive Affective & Behavioral Neuroscience*, *15*(2), 374–380. https://doi.org/10.3758/s13415-014-0333-4Bobba-Alves, N., Juster, R.-P., & Picard, M. (2022). The energetic cost of allostasis and allostatic load. Psychoneuroendocrinology, 146, 105951. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.psyneuen.2022.105951Cesario, J., Johnson, D. J., & Eisthen, H. L. (2020). Your Brain Is Not an Onion With a Tiny Reptile Inside. Current Directions in Psychological Science, 29(3), 255–260. https://doi.org/10.1177/0963721420917687‌Clark, A. (2013). Whatever next? Predictive brains, situated agents, and the future of cognitive science. *Behavioral and Brain Sciences*, *36*(3), 181–204. https://doi.org/10.1017/s0140525x12000477Gendron, M., Lindquist, K. A., Barsalou, L., & Barrett, L. F. (2012). Emotion words shape emotion percepts. Emotion, 12(2), 314–325. https://doi.org/10.1037/a0026007Hoemann, K., Gendron, M., & Barrett, L. F. (2022). Assessing the Power of Words to Facilitate Emotion Category Learning. Affective Science, 3(1), 69–80. https://doi.org/10.1007/s42761-021-00084-4Kleckner, I. R., Zhang, J., Touroutoglou, A., Chanes, L., Xia, C., Simmons, W. K., Quigley, K. S., Dickerson, B. C., & Feldman Barrett, L. (2017). Evidence for a large-scale brain system supporting allostasis and interoception in humans. Nature Human Behaviour, 1(5). https://doi.org/10.1038/s41562-017-0069Mattes, A., Mück, M., & Stahl, J. (2023). Perfectionism-related variations in error processing in a task with increased response selection complexity. *Personality neuroscience*, *5*, e12. https://doi.org/10.1017/pen.2022.3Sullivan, W. T. (1990). Outward Searchers: SETI Pioneers . Scientists Talk about Their Search for Extraterrestrial Intelligence. DAVID W. SWIFT. University of Arizona Press, Tucson, 1990. xiv, 436 pp., illus. $35. Science, 250(4978), 303–303. https://doi.org/10.1126/science.250.4978.303-a Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

If you've ever felt the weight of hiding who you are or wondered what it might be like to lead with joy and curiosity, this is a conversation for you. In this episode of Spiritually Hungry Podcast, we continue our discussion about authenticity. From embracing your inner child to understanding how tiny, inauthentic choices lead to lasting pain, this is your invitation to let your soul shine—and maybe even be a little silly along the way. Join us as we explore how living in alignment with your truest self isn't a one-time decision, but a daily practice shaped by your smallest actions.

In this deeply personal episode of Ditch the Binge, Renae shares the unexpected moment—during mile eight of a half marathon—when she realized she no longer identifies as bulimic. After over a decade of battling food, body image, and the shame that came with it, Renae reflects on how recovery slowly, quietly took root until one day… it just wasn't who she was anymore.She opens up about the years of bingeing and purging, the treatment programs, the obsessive research, and the painful identity that felt like it would always define her. But through consistent, messy, and unglamorous work, she found freedom.This episode is a raw, hopeful reminder that change doesn't always come in dramatic before-and-after moments—it builds quietly. And one day, without realizing it, you might just wake up and realize you're not who you used to be.Perfect for anyone in recovery, stuck in an identity they want to outgrow, or wondering if lasting change is really possible...Get Renae's book HERE.Follow her on IG here.Visit her website HERE. Book a consult call HERE.

This episode is all about what happens when you combine years of working with people navigating eating disorders, a healthy dose of sarcasm, and way too many personal run-ins with perfectionism. I'm unpacking the idea I'm calling The Perfectionist Paradox—where striving for perfection actually gets in the way of the thing you're trying to do well in the first place. Neat trick, right? Tweetable Quotes “Thinking about what you're afraid of can help us open the door to what is driving your perfectionism.” - Rachelle Heinemann “The perfectionism target is always moving, which means that you will never be able to attain it, and that's kind of frustrating.” - Rachelle Heinemann “The idea of striving for perfection in some ways is trying to avoid imperfection, and that any sort of mistakes or flaws are just unacceptable.” - Rachelle Heinemann “One of the most important parts to understand about perfectionism is the illusion of control.” - Rachelle Heinemann “We are too busy focusing on how our body ends up looking... that we don't focus on what it is like to actually get there.” - Rachelle Heinemann “Vulnerability is not only about sharing deep, dark secrets.” - Rachelle Heinemann Resources Bergen Mental Health Group Inc. is hiring! If you think you'd be a great fit, check it out! Grab my Journal Prompts Here! Looking for a speaker for an upcoming event? Let's chat! Now accepting new clients! Find out if we're a good fit!    LEAVE A REVIEW + help someone who may need this podcast by sharing this episode. Be sure to sign up for my weekly newsletter here! You can connect with me on Instagram @rachelleheinemann, through my website www.rachelleheinemann.com, or email me directly at rachelle@rachelleheinemann.com

Let's be real: some of us aren't just experiencing burnout—we're perfecting it. Overachieving our way into exhaustion. Piling on responsibilities like it's an Olympic sport. And believing that if we just get it right enough, peace and happiness will magically follow. In this episode, I'm joined by Dr. Tiffany Moon, a board-certified anesthesiologist, CEO, speaker, entrepreneur, wine and candle maker (yes, really), and reality TV alum—basically a walking resume of overachievement. But she's also someone who knows what it feels like to chase perfection at the expense of joy—and how to break free from it. Her book, Joy Prescriptions, explores the cost of perfectionism and what it really takes to reclaim your happiness. Together, we're talking burnout, boundaries, high-achieving pressure, and how to stop proving your worth through productivity. In This Episode, We Cover: ✅ What perfectionist burnout really looks like (and why it's so sneaky) ✅ The hidden cost of tying your identity to achievement ✅ Why rest is not a reward—it's a requirement ✅ Practical ways to redefine success without burning out If you're tired of proving, pushing, or performing your way to “enough”—this one's for you. Connect with Tiffany:  Website: https://joyprescriptions.com/ Summit (Nov in Dallas): https://www.leadhersummit.com/  Related Podcast Episodes: Toxic Productivity with Israa Nasir | 254 110 / The Perfection Infection with Jill Savage 107 / Burnout with Cait Donovan Get up to $200 off Square hardware when you sign up at square.com/go/tiww ! #squarepod Share the Love: If you found this episode insightful, please share it with a friend, tag us on social media, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform!

Let's be honest – we've all been there. That PHd dissertation gathering dust, the tough conversation you're avoiding, or the launch materials sitting in your drafts folder. In today's episode, I'm diving deep into procrastination – not as a time management issue, but as what it truly is: a complex emotional response tied to our fears, identity, and self-worth. I even share my own biggest procrastination story from 20 years ago that still makes me cringe! Whether you're a coach helping clients break free from procrastination or struggling with it yourself, this episode offers compassionate insights and practical strategies. In this episode, you'll discover: Why procrastination isn't laziness – and the surprising research showing procrastinators are actually over-motivated The fascinating Self-Worth Theory that explains why we procrastinate to protect ourselves Four distinct procrastinator types (Perfectionist, Dreamer, Avoider, Pleaser/Rebel) and specific coaching approaches for each How to distinguish between fear-based avoidance and productive "creative waiting" Practical techniques to move from stuck to empowered, both for yourself and your clients PLEASE SHARE THIS PODCAST WITH YOUR FRIENDS! I so appreciate it!   It makes a difference and helps us reach more people who will find the podcast valuable! Be sure to post a comment and let us know what you loved most about the episode!   Join our newsletter community and get a copy of 55 Effective Breakthrough Coaching Questions   Resources I mentioned in the episode:   The Navigating Client Resistance Training   Coaching Your Clients to Overcome Resistance (& Reach More Goals) Free Handbook   Hang out with me! On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joanna.lindenbaum/?utm_source=podcastplayer&utm_medium=shownotes&utm_campaign=podcastepisode45 On The Coaching Revolution on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/coachingfacilitationmastery?utm_source=podcastplaer&utm_medium=shownotes&utm_campaign=podcastepisode45  

Do you ever feel like you've lost touch with who you really are? That somewhere along the way, between the endless to-do lists, caring for others, and just trying to survive each day, you've forgotten what makes you feel alive?   This episode offers a compassionate look at why we lose ourselves and practical steps to find our way back. I'll share why our disconnection makes perfect sense, how our adaptive strategies that once helped us survive can eventually obscure our true selves, and a simple yet powerful exercise to begin reconnecting with who you really are beneath all the layers of coping and survival.   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/169

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This week, we take a deep dive into Honda's red R badge and the man behind it. How did Shigero Uehara work his way up to the head of Honda's performance arm? And how in the world did he convince the economy car brand to make an F1-inspired track monster? Help us plan the Donut Podcast Tour by filling out this quick survey at https://tinyurl.com/mvdny6jc and you'll get a code for 10% off at our online store!  This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/PASTGAS and get on your way to being your best self. Also thanks to Hankook for sponsoring today's video! Click here http://bit.ly/DynaproTires to learn more about Dynapro tires! And thank you Underdog for sponsoring this podcast. Sign up and deposit for Underdog at https://underdogfantasy.com with promo code GAS or download the app to get up to $1,000 in bonus cash and a free pick. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices