The MindBodyBrain Project

In this first episode of the Mojo Monday series, Carly explores why mental fitness is a more empowering, actionable way to approach personal wellbeing. This series will cover the pillars of mental fitness, providing tools and strategies you can implement into your life to move up the mental fitness continuum. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today I chat with Amy Jacobson, an expert on emotional intelligence and author of two insightful books. We delve into the depths of understanding emotional intelligence and its important impact on both personal and professional landscapes. Amy shares her practical framework, insights from her latest book, and explores the pivotal role emotional intelligence plays in shaping our lives. What You'll Learn: Own It, Face It, Feel It, Ask It, Drive It: Amy outlines her five-step framework for mastering emotional intelligence, guiding us through the process of self-awareness and empathy to achieving effective communication and action. Personal Impact: Understand how emotional intelligence affects personal relationships and learn how improving these skills can lead to more meaningful and harmonious interactions with loved ones. Professional Dynamics: Discover the influence of emotional intelligence within the workplace, both among colleagues and in leadership roles, and how it can enhance workplace culture and performance. Overcoming Challenges: Amy provides strategies for navigating difficult conversations and interpersonal conflicts, emphasising the importance of empathy and understanding in resolving issues. Decoding Emotional Triggers: Gain insight into how childhood experiences and neural pathways affect emotional responses and learn methods to manage and adjust these responses effectively. Key Takeaways: Emotional Intelligence is a Skill: It can be developed and honed over time with practice and awareness. Understand Your Emotions: Acknowledge and process emotions rather than suppress them to avoid building stress and tension. Empathy is Key: Truly understanding and feeling the perspectives of others is fundamental in enhancing emotional intelligence. Communication is Critical: Effective communication requires understanding that it's about delivering a message that resonates with the listener, not just expressing your own thoughts. Take Action: Explore Amy Jacobson's books for more comprehensive insights: Emotional Intelligence: A Simple and Actionable Guide to Increasing Performance, Engagement, and Ownership The Emotional Intelligence Advantage: Mastering Change and Difficult Conversations To learn more about Amy Jacobson, her insights, and how to engage her for speaking engagements, visit her website: Amy Jacobson. Support and Share: If you're ready to embark on a journey towards enhancing your emotional intelligence, take the steps today to "Own it, Face it, Feel it, Ask it, and Drive it." This framework is not just a guide but a pathway to personal and professional excellence. 01:25 The Journey of Writing and Emotional Intelligence 05:06 Defining Emotional Intelligence 06:29 Emotional Intelligence and Neurodiversity 10:59 Impact of Emotional Intelligence in Personal Life 17:42 Emotional Intelligence in the Workplace 21:18 Framework for Building Emotional Intelligence 24:34 Embracing Reality and Control 25:15 Facing Emotions Head-On 27:49 Empathy and Understanding Others 32:16 Effective Communication Strategies 37:04 Implementing Emotional Intelligence 38:32 Navigating Difficult Conversations See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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In this insightful conversation, I sit down with Captain George Dom, a retired U.S. Navy officer, to explore the essence of high trust leadership and its pivotal role in building high-performance teams. Captain Dom shares his extensive experience from his distinguished military career, including leading the renowned Blue Angels and teaching at Top Gun. Together, they delve into the principles of trust and how these can be effectively applied both in the military and corporate environments. What You'll Learn: The Foundation of Trust in Leadership: Captain Dom offers a compelling look into his philosophy of trust, outlining five levels of trust that are vital for leadership and team cohesion. He emphasises the need for leaders to earn unconditional trust through consistent behaviour and openness. The Power of Effective Communication: Discover how clear, concise, and consistent communication helps in building and maintaining trust within teams. Dom and I highlight the importance of mutual understanding, where leaders must ensure they are understood and also convey that they understand their team members. The Importance of Debriefing: Paul Taylor and Captain Dom discuss the sacred practice of debriefing in aviation and how this routine ensures continuous improvement. This practice, they argue, is crucial not just for safety in aviation but for success in any high-stakes environment. Transitioning from Military to Civilian Life: Learn about the challenges and opportunities involved in transitioning from a structured military environment to the civilian world, and how the principles of trust and leadership remain relevant across these domains. Building High-Performance Teams: Through examples from his military career, Captain Dom illustrates how trust is not just a nice-to-have but a strategic imperative for any high-performing team. Whether flying jets or managing corporate teams, the principles remain the same. Key Takeaways: Trust is Earned: It's a continuous commitment and starts with leaders demonstrating integrity and reliability. Character and Commitment: These are at the core of trust. Leaders must show they are committed to their teams, especially when challenges arise. Communication is Key: Effective leaders ensure that they communicate clearly with their teams, and also actively seek feedback and understanding. Shared Sacrifice Bonds Teams: Experiencing challenges together can strengthen team bonds and trust. High Trust Leads to High Performance: Trust allows teams to operate more efficiently and effectively, leading to better outcomes. Resources: For those looking to delve deeper into the concept of high trust leadership or to apply these strategies in their own teams, consider exploring Captain George Dom’s book "High Trust Leadership: Building High-Performance Teams." Support and Share: Connect with George Dom: Website: georgedom.com Book: High Trust Leadership - Building High-Performance Teams - Whether you're a current leader, an aspiring one, or simply interested in enhancing your team dynamics, this discussion offers invaluable insights into fostering trust and achieving high-performance in any field. 01:00 Early Inspirations and Naval ROTC 02:54 Naval Aviation Career Highlights 05:50 Top Gun Experience and Training 13:44 The Importance of Debriefing 24:39 Transition to Civilian Life 27:42 High Trust Leadership 35:45 The Gift of Trust 36:04 Five Key Elements of Trust 37:04 Character: Walking the Talk 37:45 Commitment: Showing Up in Storms 38:59 Competence: Being Good at What You Do 40:54 Connection: Understanding Your Team 42:46 Communication: Clarity and Consistency 50:54 Rebuilding Trust in Leadership 56:47 High Trust Leadership and Personal Relationships 58:18 Respect for Military Personnel See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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This was a fascinating, wide-ranging, amusing and highly useful conversation if you're a human being! Dr Sophie Mort, known as Dr Soph is a UK Sunday Times best selling author of the book "A Manual For Being Human' and in today's podcast we discuss the topic of her new book 'Unstuck', which is just brilliant. It's a wide-ranging conversation about habit formation, automations in our life, cognitive biases, drama triangles and much more. I guarantee there's be an enjoyable mix of nods of acknowledgement, laughter and aha moments as you listen to it. Dr Soph is a clinical psychologist with a Degree in Psychology, Masters Degree in Neuroscience and PhD in Psychology. She's also witty, engaging, insightful and a great communicator. What You'll Learn: The Art of Habit Formation: Dive into why over 40% of our daily behaviours are habits, running on autopilot without our conscious decision-making. Cue-Craving-Reward: Explore the science behind habits, including the crucial role cues play in triggering automatic behaviours. Willpower & Habit Change: Discover why willpower alone isn't enough and learn to leverage the power of time-of-day biology to change habits effectively. Understanding Heuristics: Get to know about mental shortcuts that heavily influence our decision-making processes. Combatting Hyperbolic Discounting: Learn why we often choose immediate rewards over future benefits and how it impacts our decision-making. Overcoming Self-Sabotage: Delve into the reasons behind self-sabotage and how we can overcome the hurdles that keep us from reaching our full potential. The Drama Triangle: Understand repeated roles we play in conflict situations and how to break free from them. Key Takeaways: Autopilot Awareness: Recognising that a significant portion of our day is driven by habit is the first step to change. Biology’s Role: Understanding the importance of timing and how our neurochemistry can be leveraged is crucial for effective habit change. Heuristics and Decision Making: These mental shortcuts explain many of our choices and behaviours, helping us understand and improve them. Be Your Own Motivation: Creating instigation habits and setting realistic goals can boost motivation and habit formation. Overcoming Cognitive Traps: Recognising and acknowledging mental traps like confirmation bias helps in making better decisions. Self-Worth and Community: Self-esteem is deeply tied to belonging and confidence – building these can improve overall well-being. Resources: Read "Unstuck": Dive into Dr. Moore's comprehensive guide on breaking free from habits. A Manual for Being Human: Explore more insights from Dr. Moore in her first acclaimed book. Connect with Dr. Sophie: Website: drsoph.com Instagram: @drsoph Support and Share: If you found value in this episode, please consider subscribing, rating, and leaving a review on your preferred podcast platform. Your support helps us reach more people with important insights like these. Share this episode with someone who might be battling with personal habits or looking to improve their mental well-being – this conversation could be the breakthrough they need. Thank you for exploring the paths to becoming unstuck and reshaping your habits with us!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Heart racing? Shortness of breath? Worried thoughts? Is this anxiety? Maybe it's not. Maybe sometimes we get the label wrong. The reality is, we feel such a wide range of emotions that it's possible we do get it wrong and maybe that can be harmful. Listen in as Carly chats through a different approach, a different attitude so stop getting caught up in labels and we can get on with life.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this enlightening conversation, I was joined by Dan Chapelle, a clinical psychologist and bonafide philosopher with a deep interest in religion and meditation. Our discussion ranged widely, from the nuances of Eastern and Western philosophies to practical approaches for a more contented life. Dan shared insights from both his personal journey and his books, providing a rich tapestry of ideas centred around the necessity of unhappiness and the power of meditative self-care. What You'll Learn: The Intersection of Philosophy and Psychology: Discover how psychology and philosophy intertwine through the works of Freud, Jung, Nietzsche, and Eastern philosophies such as Buddhism and Daoism. Learn how these disciplines explore the complexities of the human mind and our quest for understanding and contentment. Importance of Unhappiness: Uncover why Dan views unhappiness as a crucial aspect of life rather than a condition to be overly medicated or avoided. Engage with the ideas from figures like Buddha and Job, emphasising the necessity of accepting life's inherent challenges. Meditative Self-Care: Learn about the practice of meditation as a tool for attention training, self-awareness, and the acceptance of reality. Discover practical insights into how meditation can help balance emotions and redirect attention from negative thought patterns. Attention and Intention in Everyday Life: Explore the concept that attention is the most critical tool we possess, shaping our experiences and responses. Understand how directing our attention and refining our intentions can alter our perception and experience of the world. Key Takeaways: Life's Challenges: Embrace the understanding that life is inherently difficult, and by accepting this, we can find deeper contentment. Meditation: Use meditation as a practical method for managing your attention and fostering acceptance. Philosophical Insights: Philosophical and psychological teachings from the East and West offer valuable perspectives on human experience and the nature of reality. Unhappiness as a Teacher: Viewing unhappiness as a part of life encourages personal growth and fosters a more profound fulfillment. Attention Control: Directing attention wisely influences emotional health and can lead to a more balanced life. Resources: Books by Dan Chappelle: "A Minimalist Ethic for Everyday Life" "Meditative Self-Care" Explore Dan's insights further and access more resources on MeditativeSelfCare.com. By embracing these philosophies and practices, you can cultivate a more profound sense of contentment and understanding in everyday life. Each step you take towards accepting life's difficulties can open the door to new perspectives and inner peace. If you're interested in diving deeper into these themes, I highly recommend checking out Dan Chapelle's works—let them guide you towards a more mindful and fulfilled existence. Support and Share: If you found this episode enlightening, please consider subscribing, rating, and leaving a review on your favourite podcast platform. Your support helps us continue to bring expert insights to a wider audience. Share this episode with someone who might benefit from the discussion around hormesis and its life-enhancing potential. 00:27 Journey into Psychology and Philosophy 01:28 Exploring Phenomenological Psychology 02:21 Connections Between Eastern and Western Philosophies 05:37 Minimalist Ethic and Everyday Life 06:41 Ian McGilchrist and the Left Brain-Right Brain Debate 20:33 The Necessity of Unhappiness 23:30 Job's Story and Contentment 28:44 Catcher in the Rye and Adolescent Struggles 31:41 Radical Acceptance and Amor Fati 33:35 The Role of Meditation in Accepting Reality 34:18 Understanding Buddhist Meditation 35:27 Nietzsche's Philosophy and Amor Fati 39:04 Practical Approaches to Meditation 42:06 The Importance of Attention in Mental Health 49:36 Karma and Intention 01:02:30 Reflections on Life and Contentment See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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This week Carly talks through a simple, but effective technique anyone can do to help with overthinking and rumination. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

My old mate Professor Grant Schofield and I delve into the fascinating concept of hormesis and its impact on human health. We discuss the newly launched Hormesis Lab and explore how controlled exposure to stressors can enhance resilience and promote longevity. From the hormonal effects of light exposure to the physiological benefits of exercise, this conversation uncovers the science behind becoming robust through strategic stress. What You'll Learn: Understanding Hormesis: Hormesis is the process of exposing your body to mild stressors to increase its resilience against future stress. Light and the Body: Discover how different types of light, including visible and non-visible wavelengths, penetrate the body and impact health. Learn about the role of vitamin D in glucose homeostasis and immune function, and why it’s essential for overall well-being. Exercise as a Hermetic Stressor: Explore how exercise functions as a stressor and boosts longevity, with a focus on VO2 max and muscle strength. Understand the physiological mechanisms activated during exercise, like myokines and their widespread health benefits. Effective Training Techniques: Zone 2 and VO2 max training methods are explained for optimising cardiovascular health and enhancing endurance. Strength and resistance training guidelines are provided to improve muscle mass and overall functionality. Nutritional Importance: The importance of protein intake is highlighted, particularly in maintaining muscle mass and facilitating recovery and growth. Key Takeaways: Hormetic Stress: Leveraging mild stress can build resilience and improve health outcomes. Light Exposure: Adequate light, particularly in the infrared spectrum, can support mitochondrial health and potentially aid in neurodegenerative conditions. Exercise Strategy: A balanced exercise routine, incorporating both aerobic and strength training, is crucial for long-term health. Protein Needs: As you age, higher protein intake is necessary to compensate for the natural decline in muscle mass and synthesis. Role of Hormesis in Longevity: Understanding and applying hormesis can be a transformative approach to improving health and longevity. Resources: For more in-depth information and resources, including links to studies and equipment recommendations discussed in the podcast, be sure to check out the notes provided. Stay informed about innovative approaches to enhancing health and unlocking your potential through hormesis. Support and Share: If you found this episode enlightening, please consider subscribing, rating, and leaving a review on your favourite podcast platform. Your support helps us continue to bring expert insights to a wider audience. Share this episode with someone who might benefit from the discussion around hormesis and its life-enhancing potential. 01:08 Understanding Hormesis 03:13 Stoic Quotes and Hormesis 03:58 The Importance of Stress Resistance 06:31 Light and Its Effects on Health 07:12 Vitamin D and Sun Exposure 11:49 Infrared Light and Mitochondrial Health 15:19 Melanin and Brain Health 22:56 Exercise and Longevity 28:27 Understanding VO2 and Training History 29:30 The Role of Muscle Strength in Longevity 29:56 Hormetic Mechanisms and Myokines 33:16 Practical Training Guidelines 33:54 Zone 2 and High-Intensity Training 40:27 Strength Training for Longevity 45:54 The Importance of Protein Intake See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Are your goals secretly setting you up to fail? In this Mojo Monday, Carly explores the idea of “dead person goals”—those focused on eliminating feelings or stopping behaviours entirely—and why they rarely work. Borrowing from the work of Russ Harris, she offers a powerful reframe: goals grounded in action and values that actually move you forward. If you’ve ever said, “I just want to stop doing that,” this episode will help you find a better way.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

If you're a bloke, or have a bloke (young or old) in your life - this is a conversation not to be missed. Once you've listened to it, share it far and wide, as Dr. Zac Seidler, a clinical psychologist and Director of Research at Movember, has the most comprehensive view I've ever come across on what positive masculinity and good men's mental health looks like. The conversation focuses on not just the psychological aspects of men's mental health, but the societal framework that shapes masculinity. The discussion traverses through topics of men's mental health awareness, therapeutic approaches, toxic and positive masculinity, and how we can foster healthier male communities. What You'll Learn: Deciphering Masculinity: We delve into how the traditional concepts of masculinity can be both harmful and beneficial and discuss the need to redefine masculinity in more positive, flexible terms. Therapeutic Approaches: Explore why traditional therapy might not resonate with men and how 'gender-sensitive' therapy can be a more effective approach. Social Connection: The vital role of social networks in men's mental health and how a lack of these connections can lead to severe psychological issues, including suicide. Preventative Measures: Understand the importance of getting ahead of mental health issues through early interventions and community-based programs. Breaking Down Stigmas: Discuss the societal changes needed to address mental health proactively instead of reactively, and the importance of redefining spaces for men to safely express themselves. Key Takeaways: Masculinity Redefined: Emphasising the value of attributes like stoicism, altruism, and service when appropriately contextualised. Supportive Networks: Highlighting the significance of building and maintaining strong social connections throughout life. Therapy Reimagined: Utilising flexible therapeutic practices that consider men's socialisation and comfort levels. Community and Connection: Promoting the idea that safe, non-judgmental spaces are crucial for men's mental health. Early Intervention: The critical role of incorporating mental health teachings and practices from a young age to build resilience. Resources: Engage with Movember's initiatives focusing on men's mental health. Explore gender-sensitive therapy training programs like "Men in Mind" to better understand how to engage men in therapeutic settings. Connect with organisations like "The Man Cave" and "Top Blokes" that offer programs to support young men. Support and Share: Listening to this podcast could inspire not just awareness but also actionable steps towards building better support systems for the men in our lives. This conversation sheds light on the core issues impacting men's mental health and explores innovative solutions designed to uplift and support men in maintaining mental health wellness. To continue this important dialogue on men's mental health, visit Movember's website and explore their extensive resources aimed at creating change and advocating for better health. If this episode resonated with you or you believe it could help someone else, please share this talk to broaden the conversation about men's health and masculinity in today's society. 00:17 What is Movember? 00:58 The Origins of Movember 02:29 Movember's Global Impact 04:08 Personal Journey into Men's Health 06:50 Challenges in Men's Mental Health 09:10 Addressing Toxic Masculinity 16:38 Rites of Passage and Positive Masculinity 21:03 Gender-Sensitive Therapy 29:05 The Social Vacuum Post-Divorce 29:30 The Lifesaving Importance of Social Connections 32:05 Veteran Suicide and the Loss of Purpose 33:57 The Role of Therapy in Men's Mental Health 35:43 Innovative Approaches to Therapy 38:37 The Crisis of Male Suicide and Prevention Strategies 51:47 The Importance of Addressing Adverse Childhood Experiences See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Ever found your mood shift instantly because of something small—like someone cutting you off in traffic, your partner’s mess, or the physical discomfort of anxiety? In this episode, Carly explores a powerful concept from Japanese Psychology called shiso-no-mujun—the internal tension between how things are and how we wish they were. Using a very real (and very relatable) moment from her morning, she talks about how recognising this tension can help us respond to life’s little irritations with more clarity and less reactivity. This one’s for anyone who’s had their mood hijacked by the everyday—and wants take control of how they respond to those everyday challenges.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Master Shi Heng Yi has become no short of a sensation since I interviewed him back in 2021. This interview has had the highest listens on the podcast to date. If you missed it, it's a cracker! Here's the blurb: It’s not every day you get to interview a 35th generation Shaolin Master, and certainly not one with 2 University degrees, including an MBA! Master Shi Heng Yi has been studying Martial Arts since he was 4 years old and has been running the Shaolin Temple in Europe since 2010. He is a contemporary monk who carries a smartphone and is focused on the sustainable development and spreading of the Shaolin culture and philosophy and today's podcast has plenty of insights and guiding principles for us all, so please share this podcast with anyone who you think may benefit. You can find out more about Master Shi Heng Yi and Shaolin Philosophy in his Ted-X talk on the 5 hindrances to self-mastery Here is a link to the Shaolin Temple Europe, where Master Shi Heng Yi resides. Here is what we discuss and when: Start: The Shaolin Monk lineage system 3:50 - The process of becoming a Shaolin Monk 7:52 - The concepts of Chi and Qigong 14:35 - The importance of Qigong in physical development, focus and prowess 18:22 - The mental states that hold us back 26:02 - Master Shi Heng Yi's advice for achieving self-mastery 30:34 - The art of cultivating discipline 36:00 - The important combination of combined physical and mental training in Shaolin philosophy 42:20 - Philosophising vs doing 49:10 - Master Shi Heng Yi's view on happiness See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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In this episode of Mojo Monday, Carly explores the rising tide of mental health challenges and asks a powerful question: are we aiming for symptom relief… or a full, meaningful life? With personal stories and practical reflections, this short episode invites you to consider what really moves you—and what small actions might shift the way you live.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this riveting episode of my chat with Dr. Adam Fraser, we delve into the intricacies of performance, resilience, and the human condition. Adam is a researcher and fellow corporate speaker (and one of the best) and a bloody good, down-to-earth bloke. Through humour and profound insights, we cover a multitude of topics, including the coping mechanisms for stress, the intersection of physiology and psychology, and the challenges faced by modern-day educators. What You'll Learn: The Power of Reflection and Reset Dr. Fraser introduces the concept of the "third space," a transitional gap that is crucial for shifting mindsets between different aspects of life. This framework—reflect, rest, reset—helps individuals leave behind previous stressors and prepare mentally for what's next. Understanding Mental Challenges Explore the metaphor of "Kevin," a character that encapsulates negative inner dialogue. This concept, derived from ACT therapy principles, helps in recognising and rationalising self-doubts and unhelpful thought patterns. The Importance of Consistency Discover the consistent habits of elite performers, such as those in special forces and top athletes, and how these disciplines can be translated into everyday life for sustained success. Navigating Work and Home Life The conversation touches upon the impact of increased remote work on personal boundaries, emphasising practical strategies to create clear separations between professional and personal spaces. Key Takeaways: Reflection, Rest, Reset: Implementing a structured approach to transitioning between activities can enhance emotional well-being and productivity. Managing Inner Dialogue: Understanding and accepting negative thoughts without allowing them to dictate actions can lead to more constructive behaviours. Consistency Is Key: Continuous small efforts in the right direction are more impactful than sporadic grand gestures. Creating Boundaries in Remote Work: Being intentional about starting and stopping work can help maintain a work-life balance, crucial in current times. Resources: Book on "Kevin": Dr. Fraser is working on a book detailing the "Kevin" concept, which promises to offer practical insights into managing inner dialogue. Secondary Trauma in Educators: New research by Dr. Fraser highlights the growing phenomenon of secondary trauma experienced by educators, offering solutions to mitigate its effects. Dr. Adam Fraser's resources and books are an enriching source of knowledge for anyone looking to enhance their personal and professional life. For more insights, you can visit Dr. Adam Fraser's website. Support and Share: If you found this episode valuable, consider subscribing, rating, and leaving a review on your preferred podcast platform. Your support helps us reach more people with important conversations like this one. Share this episode with someone who can benefit from a renewed perspective on health, parenting, or emotional resilience. Join the conversation and help spread awareness about the importance of resilience in facing life's uncertainties. 01:56 Professional Backgrounds and Achievements 03:40 Insights on PhD Research 06:53 The Importance of Physiology and Psychology 10:15 The Third Space Concept 14:10 Impact of COVID on Work-Life Balance 22:19 Managing the Inner Critic: Kevin 31:07 Practical Steps for Psychological Flexibility 35:04 A Hopeful Future with My Daughter 35:56 The Intelligence of Girls vs. Boys 36:18 Working with Diverse Groups 37:08 The Resilience of Single Parents 38:05 Lessons from Elite Performers 40:28 The Impact of Losing a Child 42:33 Meditating on Mortality 45:25 Behaviour Change and Consistency 53:38 Sustainable Peak Performance 55:23 The Importance of Hobbies 01:02:09 Research on Secondary Trauma in Educators See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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In this episode of Mojo Monday, Carly Taylor explores the quiet wisdom of a Zen koan—a simple phrase that invites reflection on our human tendency to resist what is, and a gentler path toward clarity and purpose. If you're going through a struggle right no, this episode might offer another way to meet what’s here. Carly Taylor is a Mental Fitness Coach and speaker passionate about helping people tame their mind so they can live a rich, meaningful and fulfilled life. She is trained in ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy), Japanese Psychology, is an IIN qualified Health Coach and is currently undergoing a Masters of Counselling. Connect with Carly: Website: www.carlytaylorcoaching.com.auInstagram: carly_taylor_coachingLinkedin: linkedin.com/in/carly-taylor-61134bb9/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this engaging conversation, Dr. Haley Perlus and I dive into the powerful world of sports psychology and its transformative techniques that can be applied to everyday life. Dr. Haley Perlus, an acclaimed sports psychologist, shares her expertise on overcoming mental blocks, optimising performance under pressure, and maintaining focus—insights that are valuable not only for athletes but for anyone looking to enhance their personal and professional lives. What You'll Learn: Embracing Pressure: Understand how pressure and stress can be harnessed as performance enhancers in both sports and business. Mental Blocks: Discover the most common mental blocks experienced by athletes and how these can be overcome with practical tools and environmental changes. Focus and Attention: Learn about attentional control and how maintaining focus can lead to peak performance. Routines and Recovery: Explore the importance of pre-performance routines and post-performance debriefs as essential components for sustained success. Resilience: Gain insights into bouncing back from failure and setbacks with resilience training and acceptance of imperfection. Key Takeaways: Pressure as a Privilege: Pressure can be a sign of self-belief and alignment with your values; learn to see it as an opportunity for growth. Mental Toolbox: Equip yourself with practical psychological tools such as visualisation, symbolic imagery, and controlled breathing to manage stress and optimise performance. Process Over Outcome: Focus on the process rather than the outcome. This shift in focus prevents distraction and allows for greater success and fulfillment. Attention Training: Deliberately train your attention to improve focus amidst distractions, strengthening your ability to concentrate effectively. Resilience and Recovery: Accept failure as a part of the journey and strive to become the best at recovering quickly and effectively from setbacks. Resources: Book: Personal Podium by Dr. Haley Perlus offers valuable strategies for building a mental toolbox and effectively applying sports psychology techniques to daily life. Visit Dr. Haley Perlus' Website: For masterclasses, articles, and coaching opportunities. Support and Share: If you found this episode valuable, consider subscribing, rating, and leaving a review on your preferred podcast platform. Your support helps us reach more people with important conversations like this one. Share this episode with someone who can benefit from a renewed perspective on health, parenting, or emotional resilience. Join the conversation and help spread awareness about the importance of resilience in facing life's uncertainties. 00:49 Journey into Sports Psychology 03:03 Pressure and Performance 04:19 Overcoming Mental Blocks 11:47 Harnessing Stress for Success 19:35 The Importance of Routines 26:55 Process vs. Outcome 31:57 Striving for Perfection vs. Demanding Perfection 32:38 The Art of Recovery 33:43 Learning from Failures 35:20 Techniques for Quick Recovery 37:23 Body-Mind Techniques 42:04 Training Focus and Attention 59:32 Mental Toolbox for Performance See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Worrying about what others think is a completely human experience—we all do it. In today’s Mojo Monday, Carly Taylor explores when the fear of judgment can actually support your growth, and how to recognise when it’s holding you back. She shares practical ways to shift your focus, so you can use that worry as a guide—not a barrier—on the path to living more authentically.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A captivating conversation with Andy Reid, a renowned auctioneer, coach, and author of the book "Success Curious." Their discussion dives into the intricacies of defining success, understanding personal identity, and the power of authenticity in both professional and personal realms. What You'll Learn: Embracing Authenticity and Success: Andy shares his journey of understanding what it truly means to be successful. He emphasises the importance of self-awareness and authenticity in achieving and defining personal success. The Impact of challenging experiences: Both Paul and Andy reflect on how significant experiences have shaped their paths, offering insights into how adversity can become a catalyst for positive change. The Existential Vacuum and Identity: The conversation delves into how the breakdown of religion and traditional value systems have led to a quest for identity and meaning in modern society. Self-Exploration Techniques: Andy provides practical exercises for self-discovery, such as identifying core values to better understand and navigate one's life purpose. Key Takeaways: Success is a personal journey best defined by one's own values and authenticity. Understanding and embracing one's identity is crucial for personal and professional fulfillment. Life's challenges often serve as catalysts for immense personal growth. It's vital to remain open to learning and evolving in the pursuit of a meaningful and successful life. Resources:For those seeking more insights, Andy Reid can be reached through his website, and his book "Success Curious" is available for readers eager to delve deeper into these transformative concepts. Support and share:If you found this discussion insightful, subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your preferred podcast platform to help us continue bringing vital conversations to light. Share this post with someone who may be seeking insight into how understanding oneself can lead to a more fulfilling and successful life. 00:17 Discussing the PhD Journey01:59 Life in Australia vs. Britain03:41 Career Journey: From Engineering to Hospitality05:42 Transition to Real Estate and Auctioneering09:49 Success and High Performance21:09 The Concept of Authenticity28:05 Existential Vacuum and Religion31:02 The Influence of Social Media on Identity31:46 A Conversation About Faith33:59 The Role of Leaders in Shaping Identity37:37 Political Polarization and Empathy39:44 Self-Exploration and Knowing Thyself42:35 Defining Personal Success48:25 The Impact of Trauma on Personal Growth55:41 Looking Forward: Excitement for the FutureSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Low self-worth can be debilitating, leading to avoiding doing the things that really matter. Today, Carly approaches self-worth with a bit of a different perspective. Using a framework she calls the 4A's, this unique approach may change the way you respond to low self-worth. Carly Taylor is a Mental Fitness Coach and speaker passionate about helping people tame their mind so they can live a rich, meaningful and fulfilled life. She is trained in ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy), Japanese Psychology, is an IIN qualified Health Coach and is currently undergoing a Masters of Counselling. Connect with Carly: Website: www.carlytaylorcoaching.com.auInstagram: carly_taylor_coachingLinkedin: linkedin.com/in/carly-taylor-61134bb9/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In an enlightening conversation, I sit down with Nick Wignall, a seasoned clinical psychologist, to discuss critical aspects of emotional resilience, stress management, insomnia, and the power of values. We delve into the nuances of emotional intelligence, challenge the conventional wisdom of stress management, and offer practical strategies to enhance mental well-being. What You'll Learn: Emotional Intelligence: Overrated or Misunderstood? Nick argues that while EQ is essential, it's often glamorised and misunderstood. He emphasises the need for emotional resilience over EQ, advocating for a balanced view where emotional fitness—a combination of resilience and fitness—plays a crucial role. Emotional resilience isn't just about understanding emotions; it’s about developing the capability to handle emotional challenges effectively. The Power of Values in Building Emotional Fitness: Nick introduces the concept of “emotional fitness,” akin to physical fitness, where consistent effort and practice lead to growth. The discussion highlights the role of values in guiding behaviour and building resilience. Paul shares personal anecdotes about how tapping into values like authenticity helped him address habits such as reducing alcohol consumption. Both agree that values serve as a compass, providing motivation and direction, especially during challenging times. Rethinking Stress Management: Challenging the notion of stress management, Nick and Paul suggest that instead of merely managing stress, individuals should address underlying stressors. They emphasise viewing stress as a potential growth area rather than something inherently negative. By shifting focus from managing symptoms to addressing roots, individuals can transform stress into a catalyst for development. Insomnia: More Than Just a Sleep Problem: Nick redefines insomnia, not as a sleep disorder, but as an anxiety-based problem. He underscores that insomnia often stems from excessive effort to control sleep, which paradoxically disrupts rest. Instead of intricate sleep rituals, the focus should be on reducing anxiety around sleep, adopting practices that encourage relaxation. The Scheduled Worry Practice: A Game Changer for Anxiety: Nick introduces the concept of a daily scheduled worry practice, proposing it as more effective than drugs or therapy for chronic anxiety. By dedicating specific time to acknowledge worries through writing, individuals can minimise their grip on daily life. This method, akin to exposure therapy, trains the brain to face worries head-on, reducing overall anxiety levels. Key Takeaways: Emotional intelligence is meaningful but thrives best when combined with active emotional resilience practices. Values are fundamental, serving as a guiding force in decision-making and personal growth, and are crucial for authentic living. True stress management involves addressing stressors, not just symptoms. This proactive approach transforms stress into an opportunity for growth. Viewing insomnia through the lens of anxiety highlights the importance of relaxation over rigid sleep routines. Scheduled worry practice offers a structured approach to deal with anxiety, promoting resilience and mental clarity. Resources: Explore more about emotional resilience and scheduled worry practice at ScheduledWorry.com and learn from Nick Wignall's insights on mental health. Subscribe to Nick's newsletter, The Friendly Mind, for practical advice on emotional well-being and mental health challenges. Support and share: If you found this discussion insightful, subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your preferred podcast platform to help us continue bringing vital conversations to light. Share this post with someone who might be grappling with stress, seeking better sleep, or wanting to harness emotional intelligence; these insights provide a roadmap for personal and emotional growth. 01:25 Debunking Emotional Intelligence 02:56 Emotional Resilience vs. Emotional Intelligence 03:35 The Importance of Emotional Fitness 06:41 Critique of Traditional Therapy Approaches 12:38 Understanding Emotional Fear Learning 17:56 The AVA Method for Emotional Resilience 23:32 The Role of Values in Overcoming Anxiety 25:49 The Power of Values in Daily Life 30:45 Understanding Boundaries in Communication 32:25 The Misconception of Stress Management 38:13 The Importance of Incrementalism 49:45 Rethinking Insomnia as an Anxiety Issue 56:15 Scheduled Worry Practice for Anxiety 01:00:15 Conclusion and ResourcesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this week's podcast on anti-aging strategies, I explore cellular senescence - what it is, how it's useful when we're young but promotes poor health when we age, and some things we can do to mitigate it.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When we become aware of our innate human nature and stop trying to control something that isn't controllable, we can break away from the mental prison we often find ourselves in and start to recognise that we have more freedom than we thought. Carly draws on the wisdom of psychotherapist, Irvin Yalom and existential philosopher, Jean-Paul Satre to help you gain insight into your human nature and recognise the freedom you have to choose how you live your life.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this enlightening conversation, I sat down with Corey Jackson, a prominent figure in mindfulness research and emotional regulation, to explore the intricate world of mindfulness and metacognitive approaches to emotion. We traversed through the realms of Buddhist psychology, the impact of mindfulness on anxiety and depression, and the importance of attentional control. What You'll Learn: Mindfulness and Metacognitive Therapy: Corey discussed the differences between traditional cognitive-behavioural models and metacognitive models. He detailed how the latter focuses on metacognitive beliefs and how adjusting these beliefs can affect anxiety and depression more effectively. This model, often overlooked, offers a promising avenue for those dealing with mental health challenges. Attention and Its Role: Corey and I delved into the critical aspect of attention in shaping our reality. Drawing parallels with William James's theories and contemporary neuroscience, we examined how controlled attention can lead to better emotional regulation. Corey emphasised the importance of knowing not just what you pay attention to, but how you attend to it, and how this awareness can transform your emotional and psychological well-being. Traditional vs. Modern Mindfulness Practices: A significant portion of our conversation focused on comparing traditional Buddhist mindfulness practices with the modern, often simplified versions popularised in the West. Corey highlighted the rich history and depth of traditional practices, which often encompass a broader system of mental cultivation beyond just breath awareness. The Importance of Judgments: We explored the role of judgments in our mental and emotional lives. Corey challenged the popular Western notion of nonjudgmental awareness, explaining how traditional practices encouraged good judgment to guide behaviour aligned with personal goals and virtues. The Role of Emotions: Corey shared insights from his work with emotional balance, particularly how emotions serve as signposts indicating important events. We discussed strategies from both Eastern and Western philosophies to manage emotions, transform emotional states, and cultivate a balanced emotional life. Key Takeaways: Mindfulness as a Multifaceted Tool Attention and Emotional Control Judgment is Crucial Traditional Practices Hold Rich Insights Emotions are Indicative, Not the Enemy Resources: Visit Corey Jackson's website for more about his work and offerings. Explore Amishi Jha's research on mindfulness and attention for further insights into the neuroscience behind these practices Support and Share: If you found this conversation insightful, consider exploring Corey's online courses to further your understanding and practice of mindfulness and emotional balance. Cultivating emotional balance is a skill that benefits everyone, and Corey’s expert guidance offers a valuable path toward achieving it. 00:59 PhD Journey and Challenges 02:45 Exploring Mindfulness Mechanisms 04:30 Metacognitive Model and Therapy 08:15 Traditional vs. Modern Mindfulness 10:13 Brooding vs. Reflective Rumination 12:45 Contemplative Practices and Wisdom 17:26 Secularisation of Mindfulness 29:08 Acceptance Commitment Therapy and Observing Thoughts 29:59 Comparing Buddhist and Tibetan Views on Thought Observation 31:23 Attention and Attentional Control in Various Fields 33:20 The Role of Attention in Tibetan Buddhism 35:07 Managing Anger and Emotional Reactions 37:28 The Stoic Approach to Anger 39:14 Paul Ekman's Insights on Emotions 44:17 Controlled vs. Captured Attention 50:41 Brain Activity Patterns in Meditators 53:15 Corey Jackson's Work and Online Programs 55:13 Concluding Thoughts and Future ProjectsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today I discuss another one of the Hallmarks of Aging - chronic systemic inflammation, and more importantly, what we can do to combat it. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Are you , or someone you know, living a complaints-based life? In this episode, Carly Taylor talks through why we complain, how to get into solution mode (if there is one) and taking responsibility for how we ride the urge to complain wave. She'll leave you with a challenge - stop complaining for a day and notice what happens.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In a groundbreaking dialogue, I sat down with Dr. Matt Bernstein, a veteran psychiatrist and the CEO of Accord, to explore how metabolic health impacts mental well-being. This illuminating conversation delves into the innovative field of metabolic psychiatry, revealing how metabolic interventions offer a new frontier for treating mental health disorders. What You'll Learn: • Understanding Metabolic Psychiatry: Dr. Matt Bernstein introduces the concept of Metabolic Psychiatry, emphasising how the brain's energy consumption is pivotal to mental health. We dive into how psychiatric conditions can stem from compromised metabolic health, transforming our approach to treatment. • Training for Psychiatry: Dr. Bernstein takes us through his journey to becoming a psychiatrist, highlighting gaps in nutrition education throughout his extensive medical training. • Metabolic Health and Psychiatry: We delve into how metabolic health is crucial for brain function. Dr. Bernstein discusses the energy needs of the brain and how metabolic strategies can serve as powerful interventions for mental conditions. Key Takeaways: • Metabolic Health as a Mental Health Cornerstone: Dr. Bernstein advocates for a foundational approach, building mental health treatments around metabolism. • The Critical Role of Lifestyle: Emphasising the influence of exercise, diet, and light exposure, Dr. Bernstein highlights the potential of lifestyle modifications to transform mental health care. • Pioneering Research and Future Directions: Dr. Bernstein is optimistic about ongoing research that promises to further validate and explain the efficacy of metabolic mental health interventions. However, concerns loom about mainstream psychiatry's willingness to adopt such approaches, reminiscent of challenges faced in epilepsy treatments. Resources: Explore Accord MH to learn more about their innovative approach and services in metabolic psychiatry. Connect with Dr. Matt Bernstein through LinkedIn to follow his journey and contributions to the field of mental health. Support the Conversation: If you found this discussion insightful, subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your preferred podcast platform to help us continue bringing vital conversations to light. Share this post with someone who might benefit from understanding the connections between metabolic and mental health—knowledge is powerful, and this could spark a significant change in someone's life. 00:40 Journey to Becoming a Psychiatrist02:43 Metabolic Psychiatry Explained03:32 Historical Context of Metabolic Treatments03:52 Ketogenic Diet and Epilepsy08:45 Challenges in Psychiatric Training14:15 Personal Story: Son's Mental Health Journey17:19 Rethinking Psychiatric Diagnoses21:40 Metabolic Treatments for Mental Health24:01 Human Evolution and Modern Health Challenges29:43 Role of Ketogenic Diet in Mental Health35:50 Ketogenic Diets and Autophagy35:58 Reducing Oxidative Stress36:43 Impact of Simple Carbohydrates37:26 Neuroinflammation and Mental Health38:19 Ketogenic Diet and Neurotransmitters42:00 BDNF and Brain Health44:39 Microbiome and Gut-Brain Axis50:01 Hormetic Polyphenols53:23 Personalised Nutrition and Gut Health54:50 Mitochondria and Metabolic Health57:47 Accord's Comprehensive Mental Health Program01:01:10 Future of Mental Health InterventionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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David Reynold's, author of Constructive Living, has taken the philosophies of Morita Therapy and Naikan to create an approach to life by the same name. In this episode, Carly talks about the action side of CL, where instead of waiting to feel better before we take action, we do what needs to be done, despite how we feel. This is sound, practical advice for daily living.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this engaging episode of "The You Project," host Craig Harper catches up with Paul Taylor, sharing an intimate look at Paul's recent health challenges and the lessons learned along the way. Paul's candid discussion offers valuable insights on resilience, perspective, and the power of the human spirit during life's trials. What You'll Learn: Paul's Heart Surgery and the Lead-Up: Paul Taylor discusses his heart condition diagnosis, the decision-making process for surgery, and the unexpected hurdles he faced before undergoing a Ross Procedure. Hear how a simple conversation with a cardiologist friend led to a life-changing discovery about a congenital heart defect. Facing Adversity: Throughout the episode, Paul emphasizes the importance of facing challenges head-on. Motivated by stoic philosophy and personal experiences, he reflects on how adversity can serve as a worthy opponent that tests and strengthens us. Lessons in Health and Resilience: Paul highlights the significance of being proactive about one's health. From understanding medical options to managing recovery, he describes the integral role of meticulous research and tailored strategies in his health journey. The Role of Perspective: Drawing on the teachings of stoic philosophers and history with military training, Paul shares the mental frameworks he employed to view his health crisis as a challenge rather than a setback. This perspective empowered him to plan his recovery and focus on aspects within his control. Navigating Recovery: Fast-tracking his return to work, Paul explains his unconventional recovery approach—defying standard medical advice with carefully calculated risks. Discover the integrative therapies and lifestyle modifications that accelerated his progress. Key Takeaways: Hardiness is built by actively engaging with challenges, transforming fear and uncertainty into purposeful action. A proactive, informed approach to health can empower individuals to make better healthcare decisions and facilitate recovery. Perception influences reality: reframing challenges as opportunities can profoundly impact our experiences and outcomes. Self-care and strategic recovery are vital in overcoming health obstacles and returning to normalcy. Resources: For more insights from Paul Taylor, visit his website and explore his book, "Death by Comfort." For additional information on Craig Harper and "The You Project," tune in to his episodes and explore the diverse range of topics they cover extensively. Support the Podcast: If you found this episode inspiring or insightful, please consider subscribing to "The Paul Taylor Podcast" and leaving a review. Your support helps keep these important conversations coming. Sharing this episode with someone who may benefit from these insights could make a meaningful difference in their life, especially those navigating personal health challenges or seeking resilience. Connect with Paul Taylor: Website: https://www.paultaylor.biz/ Connect with Craig Harper: Website: https://craigharper.net/ For more engaging content, check out "The You Project" and follow Craig Harper for his motivational talks and varied guest interviews. 00:42 Paul's Health Journey Begins 01:23 Discovering the Heart Defect 03:00 Preparing for Surgery 05:15 Post-Surgery Reflections 08:24 Recovery and Resilience 20:32 Hospital Challenges and PTSD 25:54 Introduction to the Ross Procedure and Medication 26:41 Experiencing Severe Side Effects 29:00 Deciding to Leave the Hospital 30:54 Reflecting on Health and Recovery 37:42 Philosophical Reflections on Life and Death See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Second guessing ourselves can lead to over-thinking, over-analysing our decisions and can also stop us in our tracks. In this episode, Carly Taylor talks about some strategies to prevent our second guessing from stopping us moving forward. Apologies for the sound quality!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this compelling conversation Paul and Tom discuss the impact of over-parenting on children's mental health, touching on themes like discomfort tolerance and the necessity of facing challenges for long-term development. We also delve into corporate well-being, noting the limitations and potential of digital technology in engagement and motivation. Our talk concludes with discussions on broader psychological theories, practical tips for parenting, and the emerging field of digital well-being tools.What You'll Learn: The Illusion of Perpetual Happiness and the Reality of Emotional Health: A significant portion of our discussion challenges the cultural obsession with happiness. Paul and Tom debunk the myth that mental health equates to constant happiness. Instead, they emphasize the importance of emotional diversity and resilience. Life’s adversities are natural, and overcoming them is essential for true well-being. Building Resilience in Children - A Call to Action for Parents: We delve into current parenting trends and the growing culture of overprotection, which might inadvertently hinder children’s ability to handle life’s challenges. The conversation advocates for fostering resilience through exposure to manageable risks and challenges, thus preparing children for the complexities of adulthood. The Corporate Challenge - Digitising Well-being in the Workplace: The discussion extends to the corporate world, where similar challenges of engagement and well-being are observed. The rise of digital technology opens new pathways and opportunities for fostering employee health, yet it requires thoughtful implementation to truly enhance well-being. Knowledge is Power in Reversing Mental Health Trends: We wrap up with an optimistic message: while there are significant concerns about the current mental health landscape, particularly among youth, there is hope. Preventive strategies and educational programs are making strides, but broader implementation is needed to make a substantial difference. Key Takeaways: Mental health is about balance and resilience, not perpetual happiness. Encourage resilience in children by allowing them to experience challenges. Leverage digital technology thoughtfully to enhance well-being in workplaces. Resources: To learn more about Dr Tom Nehmy and his work, visit his website or explore his book Apples for the Mind. If you would like to know more about Dr Tom Nehmy click here. Support and Share: If you found this episode valuable, consider subscribing, rating, and leaving a review on your preferred podcast platform. Your support helps us reach more people with important conversations like this one. Share this episode with someone who can benefit from a renewed perspective on health, parenting, or emotional resilience. Join the conversation and help spread awareness about the importance of resilience in facing life's uncertainties. 10:32 The Importance of Mental Health11:20 Debunking Mental Health Myths13:28 Parenting and Child Well-being14:24 Challenges in Modern Parenting22:49 School Refusal and Anxiety30:57 Transdiagnostic Theory in Mental Health33:51 The Importance of High-Pressure Situations for Kids35:04 A Personal Parenting Story: Handling Tantrums37:13 Building Confidence Through Progressive Overload41:44 Graded Exposure: A Systematic Approach45:34 The Role of Sports in Child Development47:16 Parenting Tips: Reinforcement and Evaluation49:07 Corporate Wellbeing: Challenges and Digital Solutions52:03 Gamification in Wellbeing: The Octalysis Framework59:02 Final Thoughts: Concerns and Excitements in PsychologySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.