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In this solo episode, I'm back with a Cam's Corner answering listener questions on everything not parenting or pregnancy related! I get into what I'm doing to celebrate my 35th birthday (and why the rager is getting pushed to 36), why nobody is behind at 30, and what I'm most proud of building in my early 30s. I also chat adult female friendships, how I found my neighborhood crew in the suburbs, and what to do when a friend won't meet you halfway.Key Takeaway / Points:Why I skipped birthday reflections this yearWhat I'm most proud of from my early 30sThe reframe I come back to when it feels like everyone else is ahead of youThe single question that tells you whether a friendship deserves your timeWhy my weekly Mahjong night fills my cupHow I made friends in the suburbsWhat to do when you're the only one trying to mend a relationshipHow to keep intimacy alive with your partnerThis episode is sponsored by bareMinerals. Use code CAM20 for 20% off your order at bareminerals.com or shop HERE.Visit Quiet Your Mind & Busy Your Hands HEREFollow me:Instagram: @cameronoaksrogersSubstack: Fill Your CupWebsite: cameronoaksrogers.comTikTok: @cameronoaksrogersYouTube: Cameron Rogers

Banks spend millions on carbon footprint. Banks have an engagement problem. Something is not working! This week I speak with Mathias Boissonot, Founder and CEO of Handprint and he makes a commercial case for a different model: instead of tracking what your customers do wrong, quantify what they're building right.Handprint powers ocean regeneration programs for banks like DBS, including coral reef restoration and mangrove planting that customers own, watch grow, and choose to fund with their spend. The result isn't just goodwill. It's an 875% increase in customer engagement compared to legacy carbon programs, and $23 million a year in verified ecosystem value returned to society.We get into why Mathias measures success by a metric most founders have never heard of: the "phoenix" over the unicorn, and the sales and founder lessons he's learned building the company from scratch.What you'll learnWhy carbon offsetting and "your carbon footprint" features fail to change customer behavior, and what the psychology actually isThe handprint model: quantifying positive impact instead of negative impact, and why that flips the entire customer relationshipHow banks turn nature engagement into a growth engine: referral programs with co-owned impact, nature cashback instead of standard cashbackWhy 62% of customers would switch banks over purpose misalignment, and 52% already haveThe phoenix metric: measuring company success in ecosystem value generated, not just valuationMathias's biggest founder mistakes, and the best sales advice he's ever received: "implicate the pain"Timestamps00:00 — Cold open: has carbon offsetting failed?04:40 — What Handprint actually does06:55 — Phoenix vs. unicorn: a new metric for success09:00 — $23 million in ecosystem value, every year18:30 — Why donation and carbon-guilt features don't work24:40 — Kill the cashback war: nature cashback instead27:30 — From cost center to growth engine: the 875% number32:30 — Building a company from Bali35:30 — Every mistake we could have made, we've made41:35 — Implicate the pain: the best sales advice he's received44:00 — Resilience, mindset, and having fun in the painConnect with Mathias:

What happens when reaching for your partner no longer feels safe?There was a period in our marriage when EJ stopped initiating sex completely.It wasn't punishment. It wasn't giving up. We made the decision together because our sexual relationship had become complicated. EJ was experiencing rejection. Tarah was experiencing pressure. And something that had once felt spontaneous and playful had become loaded with anxiety, expectation, resentment, and meaning.Stepping back helped.But years later, as our intimate relationship became healthier, something unexpected happened:Tarah wanted EJ to want her again.And EJ realized he wasn't quite sure how to reach for her anymore.In this deeply personal episode, we walk through four different seasons of our sexual relationship—from the ease of early intimacy, through the difficult high-desire/low-desire years, into adaptation, and now into what we're calling a season of rediscovery.We explore:Why sexual initiation can begin to feel like pressure instead of connectionWhat repeated rejection can do to the person who keeps reachingWhat repeated expectation can do to the person experiencing lower desireWhy temporarily changing who initiates helped our relationshipHow emotional safety allowed desire to begin feeling free againThe stories couples unknowingly attach to sexHow we're learning to initiate again after years of complicated sexual historyWhy mature intimacy isn't about recreating the honeymoon stageAnd we introduce a distinction we're beginning to use in our own relationship:Invitation vs. ExpectationCan I express desire for you without making you responsible for satisfying it?And can you receive my desire without becoming responsible for satisfying it?That's where we're discovering a different kind of intimacy—one where desire can be expressed honestly, either partner is free to respond honestly, and a “not right now” doesn't have to mean rejection.If initiation has become tense, awkward, infrequent, or almost nonexistent in your relationship, this conversation is for you.And if you don't know how to begin talking about it, join our

Send us Fan MailWhat do you do when you sense God asking you to take a step, but you have no idea where that step will lead?If you're anything like Denisha, you'd love for God to hand you a five-year plan in a three-ring binder, complete with color-coded tabs. But often, God doesn't give us the whole roadmap. Instead, He invites us to stay close, listen for His voice, and trust Him with the next step.In this special episode of Living the Reclaimed Life, Denisha is switching seats and becoming the guest. This conversation originally aired on Zach Imboden's Full Life Coaching podcast, and Zach graciously gave us permission to share it with the Reclaimed Story community.Zach is a pastor, leadership and marriage coach, and spiritual director who helps leaders, couples, and ministry teams cultivate lives rooted in God's presence rather than the pressure to perform. He is passionate about prayer, spiritual formation, and helping people experience the full life Jesus promised.Together, Zach and Denisha talk honestly about what it means to trust God in seasons of uncertainty. They explore discernment, fear, control, obedience, and the wrestling that can happen when God's invitation takes us somewhere we never expected.Denisha shares moments from her own journey when God asked for her yes, from reconnecting with her biological father after 30 years, to stepping onto a stage when she would have preferred the back row, to eventually starting Reclaimed Story. Again and again, she has discovered that obedience doesn't always come with understanding first.Sometimes you have to put your feet in the water before you see God part it.In this episode, you'll hear about:Why faith is less about knowing the destination and more about trusting the One who is leading youHow relationship with God becomes the foundation for discernmentWhat to do when you're afraid you might make the “wrong” decisionWhy God is bigger than our decisionsThe prayer Denisha has been asking in uncertain seasons: “Jesus, what are You inviting me into?”How curiosity can help us release our demand for certaintyWhy wrestling with God can still be part of a trusting relationshipHow past experiences of God's faithfulness help us take the next stepWhat it means to become so convinced of God's goodness that, even when we wrestle, our hearts keep coming back to yesMaybe you're facing a career change, a new opportunity, grief, a relationship decision, a calling that feels bigger than you, or simply a next step you cannot quite see.You don't have to know where the path is going when you know the character of the One you're following.As Denisha shares in this conversation, certainty isn't found in knowing exactly what comes next. It is found in knowing Who you are clinging to.Scriptures MentionedProverbs 3:5–6“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding…”John 15:5“I am the vine; you are the branches…”Joshua 3The Israelites step into the Jordan before the waters part.Isaiah 30:21“Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, ‘This is the way; walk in it.'”Connect with ZachLearn more about Zach Imboden, coaching, spiritual direction, and his work at FullLifeForYou.com, and listen to his podcast, Full Life Coaching.Connect with DenishaLearn more about Denisha's speaking, coaching, and leadership training at DenishaWorkizer.com.To learn more about Reclaimed Story and find resources, encouragement, community, and opportunities to connect, visit ReclaimedStory.com.This episode originally aired on Full Life Coaching with Zach Imboden and is shared here with his permission.Here are two FREE Ebooks for you! 1. Shame Off You: 10 steps to shattering shame in your life, HERE. 2. ABC's: CLICK HERE for a FREE E-book to help you combat lies and replace them with God's truth.  For more encouragement, check out some of our offerings at www.reclaimedstory.comDid you know we have a jewelry line that speaks to your identity in Jesus? CLICK HERE to shop. Every purchase helps support our mission to provide healing and hope to women worldwide. Would you partner with us to spread the message of hope and healing? You can DONATE HERE.  Living the Reclaimed Life is a Reclaimed Story, Inc. podcast, An Arizona non-profit corporation. If you would like to connect with a safe group of women doing real-life together, join our private Facebook page, “Living the Reclaimed Life” or on  Facebook  or Instagram 

What if staying connected didn't require another thing on your calendar?For busy couples, “date night” can start to feel like one more responsibility—find a babysitter, make a reservation, figure out what to do, and somehow find the energy to actually enjoy yourselves.We know that feeling.In this lighter, fun episode, we're sharing some of the simple ways we've learned to stay connected at home—from question decks and themed dinners to game nights, morning coffee, walks with the dogs, cooking together, and even folding laundry.Because some of the most meaningful moments in a relationship aren't grand gestures at all. They're the ordinary moments when we intentionally turn toward each other. We talk about:Easy at-home date ideas that don't require a lot of planning or moneyWhy novelty can bring playfulness back into your relationshipHow just 10 intentional minutes together can matterSimple conversation starters that help you reconnectWhy shared rituals—morning coffee, a favorite show, cooking together—can become meaningful points of connectionHow to prioritize your relationship without making connection feel like another taskWe also share one of our favorite questions for couples:If we met today, what would first catch your attention about me now?And when you're finished listening, we have some Love Work for you:Don't wait for the perfect date night. Find one small moment this week and make it yours.Because healthy relationships aren't built only on vacations, romantic dinners, or grand gestures.They're built through thousands of small moments when we choose to turn toward one another. And if you want more ideas, join our

In this deeply comforting episode, Keana explores one of the most common and painful spiritual questions: Why doesn't God answer my prayers? Through Scripture, psychology, and powerful biblical examples, she explains how God's silence is not abandonment, it's alignment, protection, preparation, and divine timing.Listeners will learn why God sometimes seems quiet, what His silence is not, how to stay connected to Him during waiting seasons, and practical ways to hear His voice even when life feels unclear.This week's featured song is “At the Alter” by Unique‑ly Chosen a gentle reminder that God hears every prayer, whisper, and tear. All August releases are now available on Spotify and all streaming platforms.

Do you feel like you are covered in the dirt of your past, or being crushed by the heavy pressures of life?If you are a young adult in the Pinetown or Upper Highway area looking for authentic Christianity that builds you up instead of tearing you down, this message is for you. We often look at our flaws and failures and think we have lost our value, but the truth is, you are a "carbon copy" of your Creator.In this beautiful and encouraging message, Janet Wheeler explains how God uses the intense pressure and heat of our trials not to crush us, but to reveal the unbreakable diamond He created us to be.In this video, we explore:Genesis 1: What it actually means to be created in the image of God (a "carbon copy").The Pressure Principle: How millions of years of pressure turn coal into a diamond, and how God uses our trials to make us stronger.Starting at the Finish Line: Why you don't have to "try" to become a diamond—Jesus' finished work means you already are one!Religion vs. Relationship: How religious guilt and shame dull your shine, and how to get it back.The Power of Community: Why diamonds need to stay locked together to survive the darkness of the world.You aren't a broken piece of coal; you are an unbreakable diamond held in the hands of the Master Craftsman. It's time to stop hiding in the dark and let your light shine!If this message encouraged you today, hit the Subscribe button to join our KZN community of believers seeking real faith. Let us know in the comments: How has God used a high-pressure season in your life to make you stronger?0:00 - Welcome & The "Diamonds from the Dust" Theme1:52 - Genesis 1: You Are a Carbon Copy of Your Creator4:12 - Restoring God's Masterpiece7:11 - The Story of the Coal: Purpose in the Pressure10:23 - Starting at the Finish Line (The Finished Work of Jesus)12:43 - How Religion and Shame Dull Your Shine14:04 - 2 Corinthians 4: Formed Under Pressure, Never Crushed18:45 - Isaiah 60: Shining Brightly on a Dark Background23:34 - Stop Focusing on Your Flaws & Cleavage Planes26:16 - The D.I.A.M.O.N.D. Identity Acronym28:06 - Renewing Your Mind: Stop Arguing with God's Creation32:01 - Identity Declarations & Closing Prayer

CheckoutThe God Centered Concept Academy Training Community to learn what growth in Christ isTUVU CommunitiesCheck out this link to view Kingdom Cross Roads on TV.https://jesussaid.tv/?affiliate=tswright_gccTo get a copy of our new book "Embracing the Truth" or to have TS Wright speak at your event or conference or if you simply want spiritual or life coaching or just a consultation visit:www.tswrightspeaks.comVisit our website to learn more about The God Centered Concept. The God Centered Concept is designed to bring real discipleship and spreading the Gospel to help spark the Great Harvest, a revival in this generation.www.godcenteredconcept.comKingdom Cross Roads Podcast is a part of The God Centered Concept.Divorce can leave a person feeling broken, isolated, and uncertain about the future—but it does not have to be the end of the story.In this episode of Kingdom Cross Roads Podcast, TS Wright speaks with author and life coach Karen Kambourian about her book, Wife to Warrior: Reinventing Yourself After Divorce. Karen shares her personal journey from heartbreak and lost identity to spiritual healing, strength, and renewed purpose in Christ.Karen explains how God drew her back into Christian community during one of the most difficult periods of her life. Anchored by the truth that God is close to the brokenhearted, she began rebuilding her life through prayer, gratitude, supportive relationships, church involvement, and service to others.You'll discover:Why God must remain at the center of your identity and relationshipsHow prayer walks can create space for healing and reflectionA simple daily gratitude practice that can shift your mindsetWhy Christian community is essential during divorce, grief, and major life changesHow serving others can help you move beyond isolationWhy healing should come before entering a new relationshipHow an ending can become God's redirection toward a new beginningThe hope behind Karen's message: “The sun will rise”Whether you are experiencing divorce, grieving the loss of a spouse, or rebuilding your life after an unexpected transition, this conversation offers biblical encouragement and practical steps for moving forward.You are not alone. Your present pain is not the end of your story, and God can still bring healing, purpose, and new life from what has been broken.KEY MOMENTS00:00 – Welcome to Kingdom Cross Roads03:06 – Karen's Christian background and divorce journey05:54 – God can resurrect and restore a broken life06:18 – The story behind Wife to Warrior07:30 – Rediscovering your identity with God at the center09:55 – The importance of godly support during a crisis11:25 – Using prayer walks as a tool for healing12:50 – Asking God for strength and practicing gratitude15:37 – Why Christian community is crucial after divorce or loss18:28 – “The Sun Will Rise”: finding hope after heartbreak20:30 – The first step to take when facing divorce22:25 – Healing before returning to dating25:46 – Karen's message for anyone who feels aloneCALL TO ACTIONOrder Karen Kambourian's book, Wife to Warrior: Reinventing Yourself After Divorce, and learn more about her work at KarenKambourian.com.If this episode encouraged you, follow or subscribe to Kingdom Cross Roads Podcast, leave a review, and share it with someone who is walking through divorce, grief, or a difficult life transition.KEYWORDSKaren Kambourian, Wife to Warrior, reinventing yourself after divorce, Christian divorce recovery, healing after divorce, Christian women after divorce, faith after divorce, divorce and Christianity, biblical healing after heartbreak, rebuilding life after divorce, finding identity in Christ, Christian life coach, prayer for divorce recovery, Christian encouragement for divorced women, church community after divorce, gratitude and emotional healing, dating after divorce, overcoming grief and loss, God is close to the brokenhearted, Kingdom Cross Roads Podcast, TS Wright, Christian podcast, spiritual healing, hope after heartbreak, Christian discipleship

In this episode we'll talk about:Why healthy partnership adds to your identity rather than replacing itHow the right person recognizes, respects, and reinforces who you're becomingWhy complementary gifts can expand what two people are capable of building togetherThe difference between healthy interdependence and losing yourself inside a relationshipHow shared values and a relationship with God create direction for partnershipWhy the strongest relationships aren't only about finding the right person—they're about building the right life togetherAnd more… START HERE…→ Join The Niche Is You® — my Substack (20K+) — Weekly essays, the full workshop library, the private community + the Quarterly Challenges. → https://mattgottesman.substack.com/aboutNEW HERE…→ 6 Days to Clarity Workshop — clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play. → https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life (FREE)CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ TikTok — @mattgottesman→ YouTube — @mattgottesmanRESOURCES…→ Write • Design • Build — my Content Creator Studio & OS masterclass (Included when you join my Substack) — Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & income — CLICK HERE→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Apparel — thenicheisyou.comOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn't Knowing the Whole Path… It's Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN

A conversation on deep listening, dukkha, vulnerability, acceptance, and using relationship as spiritual practice.In this episode of The Midlife Spirituality Project, I'm joined by Devon Hase, co-author of This Messy, Gorgeous Love: A Buddhist Guide to Lasting Partnership.This conversation explores what Buddhist wisdom can teach us about love, marriage, conflict, and the very human messiness of being in close relationship with another person. Devon shares why difficulty in partnership does not mean something is wrong, how the Buddhist concept of dukkha can help us normalize the “bumpy ride” of love, and why our closest relationships often become some of our greatest opportunities for spiritual growth.We also talk about deep listening — to ourselves, to our partner, and to the relationship itself — and how this practice can help us move from projection and criticism toward curiosity, compassion, and connection.Devon and I also discuss vulnerability, codependency, attachment, the middle way, accepting our partners as they are while still honoring our own needs, and the importance of deliberately practicing joy and appreciation in long-term relationships.In This Episode, We Talk AboutWhy relationships can feel especially complicated in midlifeThe Buddhist concept of dukkha and why love can feel like a “bumpy ride”Deep listening as a practice for ourselves, our partners, and the relationshipHow meditation helps us see our projections more clearlyRelationship as a path of spiritual growthAccepting your partner while still naming your needsCodependency, attachment, autonomy, and connectionThe Buddhist “middle way” in partnershipVulnerability, boundaries, and “having no skin” with the people closest to usPracticing joy, appreciation, and tech-free connectionConnect With Devon & Nicowww.devonandnicohase.comIG: @devonandnicohase.comBuy The Book: This Messy, Gorgeous LoveAbout Katie FarinasKatie Farinas is a midlife coach, yoga teacher, and spiritual guide who helps women navigate midlife with clarity, peace, purpose, and empowerment. Through yoga philosophy, mindfulness, nervous system regulation, and energy-based practices, Katie supports women in reconnecting with themselves and stepping fully into their most aligned and authentic lives.✨ Ways To Go Deeper:If you're ready to feel less overwhelmed and more connected to your body, needs, and inner voice, explore my 4-week private coaching experience for midlife women: Reconnect With Your Body and Yourself. Learn more here.Record your question here and I will answer it on the show!! https://www.speakpipe.com/KatieFarinasJoin the Monthly SatsangVisit Katie's websiteJoin the newsletter for soulful insights and to receive weekly practicesRead and watch on SubstackBook a reflective Insight Seat to come on the show and receive live coachingSchedule a Clarity Call to see if my coaching is right for you.

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In this episode we'll talk about:Why setting boundaries so often gets confused with hurting people — when what's really happening is that boundaries are exposing dynamics that were never sustainable in the first place, and why the discomfort others feel is not the same thing as harm being done to themThe specific way that a lack of boundaries quietly benefits certain people in your life — and why the loudest resistance to your new limits almost always comes from the ones who were quietly gaining the most from your old lack of themWhy the people who genuinely love you will adjust to your boundaries — even if imperfectly — and the people who resist them completely are showing you something important about the actual nature of the relationshipHow to recognize the difference between a boundary that's hurting someone and a boundary that's just inconveniencing someone who was used to unlimited access — because those two things get conflated constantly and the confusion keeps a lot of people from setting the limits they needWhat becomes possible when you finally stop apologizing for the limits that were always yours to set — and how the relationships that survive that shift become the ones actually worth havingAnd more… START HERE…→ Join The Niche Is You® — my Substack (20K+) — Weekly essays, the full workshop library, the private community + the Quarterly Challenges. → https://mattgottesman.substack.com/aboutNEW HERE…→ 6 Days to Clarity Workshop — clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play. → https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life (FREE)CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ TikTok — @mattgottesman→ YouTube — @mattgottesmanRESOURCES…→ Write • Design • Build — my Content Creator Studio & OS masterclass (Included when you join my Substack) — Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & income — CLICK HERE→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Apparel — thenicheisyou.comOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn't Knowing the Whole Path… It's Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN

In today's episode, Keana explores one of the most important skills in dating and relationships: healthy boundaries. You'll learn what boundaries actually are, why they matter, the psychology behind setting them, and how they help relationships thrive. Keana also shares practical, trauma‑informed strategies for setting boundaries with clarity and confidence — whether you're just starting to date someone or already in a committed relationship.This episode is designed to help you protect your emotional wellness, honor your worth, and build connections that feel safe, supportive, and emotionally aligned.What We Cover in This Episode• Recap of Last Week's EpisodeA quick review of last week's conversation on how to spot emotionally unsafe people before you fall for them — including red flags, emotional inconsistency, and why emotional safety is the foundation of healthy love.• Why Boundaries Are ImportantUnderstanding boundaries as acts of self‑respect and self‑love, not control. Learn the difference between fear‑based walls and wisdom‑based boundaries.• The Psychology Behind Setting BoundariesHow attachment styles, past experiences, and trauma shape your ability to set boundaries — and why emotional regulation is essential.• Why Boundaries Help Relationships ThriveHow boundaries create clarity, trust, intimacy, and emotional balance. Plus examples of healthy boundaries in dating.• Strategies for Setting Healthy BoundariesTrauma‑informed tools you can start using today: identifying your needs, communicating clearly, using “I” statements, staying consistent, and collaborating with your partner.• Navigating Boundaries When You're Already in a RelationshipHow to introduce new boundaries mid‑relationship without fear, guilt, or conflict — and how emotionally mature partners respond.• Emotional Wellness & Self‑Love ConnectionWhy boundaries are essential for protecting your peace, reducing anxiety, and strengthening your sense of worth.Featured Song of the WeekThis week's featured song is “Gotta Let You Go” by our podcast artist — and Keana's alter ego — Emory Rose. This song speaks to the courage it takes to release what no longer supports your emotional wellness.Emory Rose PromoIf you'd like to hear more music from Emory Rose, all songs featured on the podcast throughout July are now available on Spotify and all streaming platforms. Click the link in the show notes to follow Emory Rose on Spotify and get access to every song featured this month.Next Week's Episode PreviewNext week, we're diving into: “Situationships vs. Real Relationships — How to Stop Settling for Less.” We'll explore emotional ambiguity, clarity, commitment, and how choosing yourself is the first step toward choosing healthier love.Connect With Us• Follow the podcast for weekly episodes • Share this episode with someone who needs support in setting boundaries • Tag @WorthLovingPodcast on social media to continue the conversationAffirmation of the Week“My boundaries honor my emotional well‑being.”

What if trying to manifest love is the very thing keeping you from experiencing it?In this solo episode, Kate challenges the popular belief that you need to visualize, plan, and control your way into the perfect relationship. When the desire for love comes from fear, lack, or the belief that your life is incomplete, no person or relationship will ever feel like enough.Kate explores a new way of approaching love that begins with trusting life, returning to the present moment, and cultivating within yourself the feelings you have been waiting for someone else to provide. Instead of creating lists, searching for “the one,” or deciding how your love story should unfold, she invites you to let every connection reveal something deeper about who you are.When you stop treating love as a destination, you create space for relationships, experiences, and unexpected moments of connection to become part of your soul's unfolding.In This Episode We Explore:Why manifesting love from a place of lack creates more seekingHow trying to control your love story communicates a lack of trust in lifeWhy your ideal-partner list may prevent you from being present on a dateHow every relationship can serve a different purpose in your evolutionThe difference between following your soul and following conditioned desiresWhy love is much bigger than one romantic relationshipHow people and places activate different parts of who you areThe importance of focusing on your experience instead of someone else's experience of youWhy relationships are living, evolving experiences rather than destinationsHow cultivating the feelings you desire allows you to arrive in love already fulfilledYour purpose is not waiting somewhere outside of you, and neither is love. The more deeply you return to yourself, listen to your inner guidance, and follow what brings you alive, the more space you create for life to surprise you with something greater than you could have planned.Website: https://www.theunscriptdwoman.com/Website: https://www.theunscriptdwoman.com/About the Host:Kate Harlow is the founder of The Unscriptd Woman, the creator of The Expanded Love Coaching Method, and host of The New Truth podcast - ranked in the top 1.5% globally. With over 15 years of experience teaching, coaching and facilitating transformational retreats worldwide, Kate has helped hundreds of thousands of women break free from outdated relational patterns, old patriarchal ways of thinking and unspoken rules to live by.Her infallible methods guide women to release the deeply ingrained scripts that keep them stuck- empowering women to step into their highest, most magnetic, and fully expressed selves. Through her coaching, retreats, podcast and upcoming book The Unscriptd Woman, Kate is redefining what it means to be an empowered woman in today's world, showing women how to stop waiting for permission and start creating a life and love that aligns with their deepest truth.Known for her rare ability to see exactly where women are out of alignment with themselves, Kate offers a path back to unwavering self- trust, meaningful joy and true fulfillment. Her work is a revolution - one that liberates women from societal expectations and invites them into a life of radical authenticity, thriving relationships and unshakable self-worth.Thanks for listening! It means so much to us that you listened to our podcast! If you would like to continue the conversation with us, head on over to our Facebook group, the New Truth Movement at https://www.facebook.com/groups/209821843509179/With this podcast, we are building an international community of The New Truth Movement.If you know someone who would benefit from this message or could be an awesome addition to our community, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode?Leave a note in the comment section below!Follow the podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can follow the podcast app on your mobile device.Leave us a reviewWe appreciate every bit of feedback to make this a value-adding part of your day. Ratings and reviews from our listeners not only help us improve, but also help others find us in their podcast app. If you have a minute, an honest review on Apple Podcasts goes a long way! Thank You!Podcast Artwork Photo Credit: Photo by Tarja Ruuska https://www.instagram.com/tarjaruuska.photographyRoyalty Free Music: Bensound.com Artist/: Benjamin Tissot License code: 2S4NM4X7FZVPZP1E

In this episode we'll talk about:Why time is essential to depth — but it isn't enough on its ownHow trust and honesty work together over time to produce real intimacyThe specific ways we've been letting time do all the work that honesty was supposed to doWhy the topics both people avoid become the ceiling of the relationshipHow honesty in relationships is a mutual practice — not a one-sided demandThe difference between honesty that deepens and honesty that damagesWhat becomes possible when both people finally stop editing themselves out of the relationshipAnd more… START HERE…→ Join The Niche Is You® — my Substack (20K+) — Weekly essays, the full workshop library, the private community + the Quarterly Challenges. → https://mattgottesman.substack.com/aboutNEW HERE…→ 6 Days to Clarity Workshop — clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play. → https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life (FREE)CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ TikTok — @mattgottesman→ YouTube — @mattgottesmanRESOURCES…→ Write • Design • Build — my Content Creator Studio & OS masterclass (Included when you join my Substack) — Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & income — CLICK HERE→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Apparel — thenicheisyou.comOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn't Knowing the Whole Path… It's Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN

There are some relational tensions that don't have clean answers.Not because you don't want resolution — but because the path to resolution isn't fully in your control. And if you have ever experienced a strained relationship with a parent, you know the weight that comes with it. The history. The repeated attempts. The hope that this time will be different — followed by disappointment when it isn't.And then grief happens. And you simply don't have the capacity to keep showing up the same way you always have. So you pull back. Not as a statement — but as survival. And over time, that distance starts to raise questions: Should I be doing more? Am I wrong for not reaching out? Is this a boundary — or is this disobedience?In this episode of Just Nona, I'm answering a heart question from a listener named Candy, who went no contact with her mother after the death of her youngest son — not as a decision, but as a response to grief. Two years later, she is carrying guilt and shame for not initiating reconciliation, while also holding a quiet word from God to be still.This is one of the most layered conversations we have had on this show. And it deserves a real, honest answer.We talk about:Why grief diminishes your relational capacity in ways that are neurological, not just emotionalThe critical difference between reconciliation and repair — and why confusing the two keeps people stuck in cyclesWhy the absence of repair is actually the absence of repentance — and what that means for the relationshipHow guilt and shame distort identity by convincing you that access equals obedienceWhat Romans 12:18 and Ecclesiastes 3:7 actually say about the conditions for peace and the wisdom of silenceHow to discern the difference between conviction from God and conditioning from your pastAnd what obedience actually looks like when God says be stillYou are not a bad daughter for having limits. You are a grieving person who ran out of capacity. And distance is not always disobedience — sometimes it is exactly what God ordered.Order my books at:https://www.nonajones.com/booksListen to Just Nona PodcastNew episodes drop every Monday!https://nonajones.com/applehttps://nonajones.com/spotifyhttps://nonajones.com/amazonPartner with Nona Jones Ministries:If God moves you to support this ministry, you can give here:https://www.nonajones.com/giveFor questions, email lola@nonajones.com.Connect with me:https://www.nonajones.comhttps://www.instagram.com/nonanotnorahttps://www.facebook.com/NonaNotNora

Over the last two episodes, we've unpacked one difficult question:Why do we keep choosing people who don't choose us?If you listened to last week's episode, then you know we started talking about how to break that cycle. But I had so much to say that I had to split the solutions into two parts.

William and Celine are back on the pod and somehow even more worth watching!Maggy sits down with the internet's fave couple to talk about what balance looks like in love and life behind their content. They share moments of insecurities, doubts, and feeling lost in the 7 years of being together.Turns out the couple everyone wants to be is still figuring it out too.In this episode you'll learn:What a healthy long term relationship actually looks likeWhy vulnerability is harder for some people than othersHow insecurities show up in relationships and what to do with themHow to balance a public facing relationship privatelyWhy keeping score is the fastest way to damage a relationshipHow to maintain your identity when you're half of a public coupleWhat to do when your partner shuts down instead of opening upWhy balance in a relationship is never 50/50How to support a partner who's lost their directionFollow William: @williamsenggFollow Celine: @sl_celineThis episode is brought to you by LANEIGE Malaysia and their new Balance Mode collection, because balance isn't just a relationship thing. It's a skin thing too. Find out more at your nearest Laneige boutique.Head Over Heels for Balance Mode with Laneige is happening on 31st July 2026. Catch Maggy, William, and Celine for a live podcast session you don't want to miss.Sign up for a spot here: @theheadoverheelspod----------------------------------------------------------------------Hosted by Maggy Wang, this podcast is where real talk meets real life — messy, mundane, and everything in between.From everyday struggles to smashing through stigmas, we know you're here for the unfiltered conversations. There will be laughter, there will be awkward silence and maybe some tears.One thing's for sure: You won't get enough. So kick off your shoes (or heels), grab a seat and #letsgetheadoverheelsLet us know if you enjoyed this episode and found it helpful! We wanna hear what YOU want to do & talk about next. NEW WEEKLY HOH EPISODES EVERY THURSDAY AT 6PMFollow us on:Instagram: @theheadoverheelspodMaggy: @themaggywang

In this special episode of The Catholic Money Show, Jonathan and Amanda Teixeira join Timmerie on Relevant Radio to talk about two money conversations affecting Catholics in very different seasons of life: student loans and dating.First, they discuss how student loans are following many people into retirement, especially those who borrowed for college, graduate school, or Parent PLUS loans for their children. Jonathan and Amanda explain why minimum payments can keep people stuck for decades, how student loans can affect retirement plans, and why it is important to make a real payoff strategy before fixed income becomes a reality.Then, the conversation shifts to Catholic dating and money. Should income, career plans, debt, or future family life be deal breakers before someone even gets a first date? Jonathan and Amanda talk about the difference between wise discernment and harsh evaluation, why financial conversations should unfold gradually, and how character, growth, prayer, and openness to God's call matter more than having every detail figured out from the beginning.In this episode:Why student loans are delaying retirement for many familiesHow minimum payments can keep debt around for decadesWhy Parent PLUS loans can create pressure later in lifeWhat to consider before relying on reverse mortgages or retirement debt strategiesWhy saving for the future should not become an idolHow Catholic families can balance prudence with living fruitfully todayWhy dating should be more about encounter than evaluationWhen to start talking about money in a dating relationshipHow financial intimacy grows over timeWhy character matters more than a perfect financial profileThis episode is a helpful conversation for anyone carrying student loans, preparing for retirement, dating with marriage in mind, or trying to bring Catholic wisdom into real financial decisions.Resources mentioned: WalletWin Catholic Money Academyhttps://walletwin.com/academyStop living Paycheck to paycheck. https://relevantradio.com/2024/01/money-as-a-catholic-feast-of-the-holy-spouses/ How to adopt a baby on a budgethttps://relevantradio.com/2024/04/parents-on-a-budget/ 

The strongest Dom/sub dynamics aren't built on toys or techniques, they're built on the right skills.Welcome to Part 2 of our special 4-part Jumpstart Your BDSM Journey Bootcamp podcast series!In this episode, you'll learn:The most important BDSM skills every Dom and sub should masterWhy communication and negotiation are the foundation of every healthy D/s relationshipHow to use safety protocols, safe words, and aftercare to build trustPractical skills for both Dominants and submissives to grow with confidenceThe common mistakes that hold people back from creating a thriving BDSM lifestyle

You're texting every day. Hanging out one-on-one. Sharing your deepest thoughts. Praying together. Maybe even imagining a future together. But you've never actually defined the relationship.So… are you really “just friends”?In this episode, we're taking on one of the biggest blind spots in Christian dating: the almost-relationship. The situationship. The undefined “friendship” that's functioning like dating without the clarity, commitment, or courage.We unpack why so many Christians end up here, what it costs, and how to know if you've been lying to yourself about what this relationship really is.We'll talk about:The seven biggest signs you're actually in a situationshipWhy men and women end up settling for ambiguityWhether daily texting is already datingHow emotional intimacy can outpace commitmentWhy “I'm waiting on God” can sometimes be a cover for fearThe difference between being friendly and being flirtyHow to love someone without leading them onWhether it's okay to date someone else if you haven't defined the relationshipHow to know when it's time to have the DTR conversationFour practical ways to get out of a situationship with integrityThis isn't a conversation about putting more rules around dating. It's about choosing clarity over confusion, courage over comfort, and honesty over emotional limbo.If you've ever found yourself wondering, “What are we?”… this episode is for you.Let's talk about it

There are some relational tensions that don't have clean answers.Not because you don't want resolution — but because the path to resolution isn't fully in your control. And if you have ever experienced a strained relationship with a parent, you know the weight that comes with it. The history. The repeated attempts. The hope that this time will be different — followed by disappointment when it isn't.And then grief happens. And you simply don't have the capacity to keep showing up the same way you always have. So you pull back. Not as a statement — but as survival. And over time, that distance starts to raise questions: Should I be doing more? Am I wrong for not reaching out? Is this a boundary — or is this disobedience?In this episode of Just Nona, I'm answering a heart question from a listener named Candy, who went no contact with her mother after the death of her youngest son — not as a decision, but as a response to grief. Two years later, she is carrying guilt and shame for not initiating reconciliation, while also holding a quiet word from God to be still.This is one of the most layered conversations we have had on this show. And it deserves a real, honest answer.We talk about:Why grief diminishes your relational capacity in ways that are neurological, not just emotionalThe critical difference between reconciliation and repair — and why confusing the two keeps people stuck in cyclesWhy the absence of repair is actually the absence of repentance — and what that means for the relationshipHow guilt and shame distort identity by convincing you that access equals obedienceWhat Romans 12:18 and Ecclesiastes 3:7 actually say about the conditions for peace and the wisdom of silenceHow to discern the difference between conviction from God and conditioning from your pastAnd what obedience actually looks like when God says be stillYou are not a bad daughter for having limits. You are a grieving person who ran out of capacity. And distance is not always disobedience — sometimes it is exactly what God ordered.If you or someone you know is struggling with thoughts of self-harm, please reach out. Call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) — you are not alone, and strength is not suffering in silence.Order my books at:https://www.nonajones.com/booksListen to Just Nona PodcastNew episodes drop every Monday!https://nonajones.com/applehttps://nonajones.com/spotifyhttps://nonajones.com/amazonPartner with Nona Jones Ministries:If God moves you to support this ministry, you can give here:https://www.nonajones.com/giveFor questions, email lola@nonajones.com.Connect with me:https://www.nonajones.comhttps://www.instagram.com/nonanotnorahttps://www.facebook.com/NonaNotNora

Gay men over 40 know how to find sex. What most of them have never been taught is how to find connection. Court Vox is a certified sex and intimacy coach, founder of The Bodyvox, and one of the sharpest voices working with GBTQ men on what actually gets in the way of real intimacy. He joins Rick to talk about choice fatigue on dating apps, the ruptures that quietly kill relationships before they start, and why so much of what gay men call attraction is really just unexamined shame running the show. This is the conversation about desire that most men are not ready to have. Key Takeaways: How app culture creates choice fatigue that makes genuine connection harderWhy rupture and repair skills are the most underrated tools in any relationshipHow to tell the difference between facts and feelings when conflict hitsThe role homophobia and internalized misogyny play in gay men's attraction patternsWhy resistance to certain desires is almost always repression in disguiseWhat somatic coaching does that talk therapy alone cannot About Court Court Vox is a Certified Sex & Intimacy Coach, based in Los Angeles CA . He is Founder of The Bodyvox. Through his courses, workshops, retreats, and private immersions, clients cultivate toys to unlock limitations and shame, to embrace a deeper sense of intimacy with their whole self. Traditional forms of therapy are done solely through talk, while the work of a somatic coach is to further this form of work via body-based exercises, experiential learning, and touch, in comfortable, judgment-free, and caring environments. Body acceptance, exploration of sensation and desires (and learning how to ask for what you want), boundary-setting and intimacy work are some of the many reasons clients seek this form of learning. Vox is a sex educator experienced working with clients of all sexualities and genders and has been featured in AskMen.com, Cosmopolitan, and Well & Good magazines. He offers workshops and retreats across the globe for GBTQ men, and is also part of an elite team of sex educators that create the celebrated program for women, Back to the Body. His online course and community, Invitations to Intimacy, offers foundations in embodiment suited for the eroticerotic, as well as a community of like-minded individuals to support one another on their journey. Attend Courts Events in 2026 Camp Connect Connect - Joshua Tree Connect With Court Website Instagram Hey Guys, Check This Out! Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you're going to do, but never do? Then it's time to get real and figure out why. Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More! Also, join our Facebook Community - 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk Community

Single mom burnout is real, especially when you are raising tweens and teens through behavior problems, screen time battles, emotional ups and downs, curfews, money stress, and hard conversations that you may not feel ready to have.When you are parenting alone, every decision can feel heavier. Every boundary can feel like a battle. And when your teen pushes back, it can be easy to wonder, “Am I doing this wrong?”In this episode of the Single Parenting Reset Show, Tess Connolly, LCSW, is joined by life coach and fellow solo parent Carrie Spranzi for an honest conversation about single parenting, resilience, burnout, communication, and raising teens through difficult seasons.Carrie shares her experience becoming a single mom at a young age, navigating financial stress, parenting through major life challenges, and learning how to stay connected with her son through honesty, trust, and open communication.Together, Tess and Carrie talk about what it means to parent tweens and teens with both boundaries and humanity.In this episode, you'll learn:Why single mom burnout often shows up during the tween and teen yearsHow to stay grounded when your teen is pushing backWhy trust-based boundaries can work better than constant controlHow to talk honestly with your teen about money, curfews, sex, safety, and real-life limitsWhy showing your humanity as a parent can actually strengthen your relationshipHow to build communication that lasts beyond the teen yearsOne of the biggest takeaways from this conversation is that your teen does not need you to be perfect. They need you to be honest, steady, respectful, and willing to keep showing up.If you are feeling burned out, overwhelmed, or unsure how to set boundaries with your tween or teen without constant conflict, this episode will help you reset.Listen to the full episode, then take one small step this week:Choose one boundary that needs more clarity.Have one honest conversation instead of avoiding it.Let your teen know what you need while still communicating trust.Remind yourself that connection and leadership can exist at the same time.⭐Got screen time problems at home? Get the Tech Reset Agreement here

Most people mistake chemistry for true compatibility in relationships—and pay a steep price for it. Coach Bryan reveals how initial attraction is just the spark, not the fire, and why relying solely on feelings can leave you burnt out or worse, in the wrong relationship. After surviving a hectic two-day, sixteen-hour grind, he drops insights on how chemistry needs to be rooted in deeper understanding, and why information—like shared values, communication, and life goals—is what truly sustains connection.You'll discover:Why chemistry is just the beginning—it's the ignition, not the engine of a lasting relationshipHow attraction can cause you to overlook red flags and why emotional immaturity often disguises itself as loveThe crucial differences between chemistry and compatibility—and how to cultivate both for long-term successWhat to consider beyond physical attraction, including values, hygiene, and conflict resolution skillsWhy compatibility isn't static; it's built through ongoing investment, information, and shared growthIn this late-night deep dive, Coach Bryan emphasizes that true connection is a journey from surface-level sparks to meaningful, compatible bonds. Ignoring the difference may cost you years of heartbreak or missed opportunities for genuine love. Whether you're single, dating, or in a relationship, understanding these dynamics equips you to build relationships that last—beyond just feelings and fleeting attraction.Perfect for singles tired of surface-level chemistry, couples seeking deeper connection, or anyone frustrated by temporary sparks that fizzle out. This episode isn't just about love—it's about learning how to truly understand and invest in the relationships that matter most.Tune in, get real about your standards, and learn why lasting love is less about chemistry and more about compatibility—because your future self will thank you.

Have you ever felt lonely in your relationship, even when your partner is sitting right beside you?Maybe you've stopped bringing up certain topics because it doesn't feel worth the argument. Maybe difficult conversations keep getting delayed. Or maybe you've started filtering parts of yourself to avoid conflict, disappointment, or rejection.Many couples believe they have a communication problem when what they actually have is an emotional safety problem.In Part 1 of this two-part series, Tarah and EJ explore seven common signs that emotional safety may be missing in your relationship. These signs are often subtle and can slowly create distance, loneliness, defensiveness, and disconnection over time.In this episode, you'll learn:What emotional safety really means in a relationshipWhy couples stop telling each other the whole truthHow avoiding difficult conversations creates emotional distanceThe role defensiveness plays in relationship disconnectionWhy loneliness can exist even inside a committed relationshipHow fear of vulnerability blocks intimacyWhy filtering yourself around your partner is a warning signWhat it means when conflict feels dangerous instead of productiveTarah and EJ also share a real-life example from their own marriage that happened moments before recording this episode and how emotional safety helped them navigate frustration, disappointment, and conflict without becoming disconnected.If you've ever felt like you're walking on eggshells, holding back your truth, or struggling to feel understood by your partner, this episode will help you identify where emotional safety may be breaking down.Coming Next WeekPart 2: How to Build Emotional Safety in Your RelationshipLearn practical tools and strategies for creating a relationship where honesty, vulnerability, and connection can thrive.

216 (If you've been enjoying this podcast, and haven't yet left a review, please do so now! Thank you so much.) In this episode, I share a story about a conversation with a friend that led to a big desire to share this with you: Many of us have, without even realizing it, learned to relate to our partners through control, pressure, expectations, and attempts to manage their behavior…And it is taking a big toll on our relationships. Because, while it tends to come from a very understandable place, it often creates the exact opposite of what we're hoping for in love.You'll learn:Why control is often much more subtle than we think (and even if a first you don't think this episode is for you–it likely is)The hidden signs that control may be showing up in your relationshipHow control can look like criticism, people-pleasing, monitoring, fixing, advising, or managingWhy trying to get your partner to behave differently rarely creates genuine connectionThe 2 deeper roots of controlWhy insight alone isn't enough to change these patternsAnd the 3 levels where lasting change actually happensIf you've ever felt frustrated or disappointed with your partner, or thought: "I just want him to be more loving, attentive, or emotionally available…or… do more," or even, "Why doesn't he get it?”,  this episode will help you see those struggles through an entirely new lens.Because when you become a woman who can honor her needs without trying to control another person into meeting them, love stops feeling like a job or power struggle…And starts to feel like love again. Listen in.SHOW NOTES: Learn more and begin Foundations of Emotional Well-Being for HSPs here. Learn more about the full path of Foundations of Emotional Well-Being for HSPs → Marriage Sanctuary 1:1 here. 

Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.What does it really mean to communicate clearly in submission?In this episode of the Submissive Guide Podcast, Luna explores the difference between sounding submissive and speaking with purpose. Many submissives learn to soften their needs, over-explain, apologize too quickly, or stay quiet in an effort to keep the peace, but those habits often create confusion instead of connection.We talk about how clearer communication can strengthen trust, support leadership, reduce resentment, and help you stay present within your submission without losing yourself in the process.In This Episode:Why communication in submission is often misunderstoodThe difference between submissive performance and intentional speechHow saying “it's fine” when it isn't creates confusionOverexplaining, emotional noise, and why clarity mattersHow honest communication can be a form of service in D/s dynamicsWhy your words should support you as well as the relationshipHow silence can quietly lead to resentment and disconnectionWhy fewer words, chosen well, often carry more weightHow clear speech can strengthen trust, intimacy, and healthy power exchangeKey Reminder:Speaking clearly does not make you less submissive. In many cases, it is one of the most supportive and intentional things you can bring to the dynamic. 

Are you feeling worn out from doing all the heavy lifting in your marriage? You are the only spouse who is putting in the effort to listen to podcasts, read the books, and initiate thoughtful conversations—or at least it feels that way.Resentment is slowly starting to build as you think to yourself over and over, “Why am I the only one doing the work to improve our marriage?”The topic for this conversation was inspired by a listener-submitted question that asks:“Is the woman in the marriage the one who does most of the heavy lifting to promote emotional growth?”This is such an important question, and in this episode, we're here to answer it. Listen in to hear our thoughts, as well as some tips to help you not only encourage growth in your spouse, but to shift your perspective on the effort they are already putting in.In this episode, you'll hear:How your attachment style affects the way you pursue depth in a relationshipHow you can invite connection in your marriageHow to know when you are being called to accept your partner where they areAnd more!Find resources mentioned and more in the show notes: jillsavage.org/marriage-work-300Check out our other resources:Mark and Jill's Marriage StoryMarriage CoachingMarriage 2.0 IntensivesSpeaking ScheduleBook Mark and Jill to SpeakOnline CoursesBooks Marriage Resources:Infidelity RecoveryFor Happy MarriagesFor Hurting MarriagesFor Marriages Where You're the Only One Wanting to Get Help Mom Resources:New/Preschool MomsMoms with GradeschoolersMoms with Teens and TweensMoms with Kids Who Are LaunchingEmpty Nest Moms

Most business owners know their company depends heavily on them. Fewer understand how much that dependency impacts transferable value, scalability, leadership continuity, and long-term optionality. In this episode, Laurie Barkman joins Pat Ennis and Walter Deyhle to discuss three practical actions owners can begin taking now to reduce owner dependency and build businesses that are more scalable, transferable, and valuable. The conversation focuses on the tension many founders experience: building something successful while unintentionally remaining at the center of every important decision. A business that cannot function without the owner may still produce strong income—but it becomes significantly harder to transfer, sell, or scale with confidence. This episode explores how owners can begin stepping back intentionally while strengthening the business at the same time. In this episode, we cover:Why owner dependency reduces transferable business valueThe hidden risks of being central to every decision and relationshipHow leadership teams gain confidence and accountabilityPractical ways to create operational independenceWhy scalable businesses create greater freedom and optionality for ownersThe connection between self-sustaining companies and stronger exit outcomesGuest: Laurie Barkman — Growth Strategist, Certified Exit Planner, M&A Advisor, Author, and Founder of The Business Transition Sherpa® Laurie helps engineering, architecture, and design services firm owners build scalable, self-running businesses that create more time, freedom, and long-term value. She is the author of The Business Transition Handbook and host of the award-winning Succession Stories podcast. Connect with Laurie:Website: Laurie Barkman WebsiteBook: The Business Transition HandbookSuccessor Assessment: Successor Assessment SurveyLinkedIn: Laurie Barkman on LinkedInYouTube: Laurie Barkman YouTube Channel ─────────────────────────────────────────Ready to assess your own exit readiness? Take the free ExitReadiness® DIY™ Assessment at ExitReadiness® DIY™ Learn more about working with Pat and Walter at ENNIS Legacy Partners Connect with Pat: Pat Ennis LinkedIn Connect with Walter: Walter Deyhle LinkedIn───────────────────────────────────────── DISCLAIMER: The information in this presentation is provided as education only. Neither the presenter nor ENNIS Legacy Partners is engaged to render legal, accounting, or other professional services. Consult a qualified professional for advice specific to your situation. ENNIS Legacy Partners assumes no legal liability for any loss related to information contained in this presentation.Conversations that move you closer to a regret-proof exit. Subscribe To The Channel By Clicking HERE!Learn more about Pat and Walter: https://ennislp.com/about CONNECT ON SOCIAL MEDIA:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOwUmJP3Fm4rYbRAQhYQkpg ExitReadiness Blog: https://ennislp.com/read-our-blogFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/exitreadinessWebsite: Ennislp.com#PatEnnis #WalterDeyhle #ExitReadinessDISCLAIMER: The information in this presentation is provided as education only. Neither the presenter nor ENNIS Legacy Partners is engaged to render legal, accounting, or other professional services. Consult a qualified professional for advice specific to your situation. ENNIS Legacy Partners assumes no legal liability for any loss related to information contained in this presentation.

Are you a recreational runner who hits the gym but still finds yourself dealing with nagging injuries? It might be time to ditch the random internet workouts and get strategic.In this episode of Real Fuel with SLS,  I am is joined by Laura Filla, a competitive marathoner, RRCA Level 2 Certified Running Coach, and founder of Filla Endurance. Laura breaks down her science-backed coaching philosophy, explaining why she prioritizes building injury resilience over injury prevention. In this episode we chat about:The power of periodized strength trainingConnecting with athletes and building the athlete-coach relationshipHow to manage your mindset and training as an athleteThe boom in running and run clubsNavigating post-race recoveryThe importance of a mental break after a goal raceThe super shoe debateAnd so much more!Stay connected:Check out Fillaendurance.com - right now their coaching team is accepting 1:1 athletesFollow Laura on Instagram: @coachlaura.runFollow Stevie on Instagram: @stevielynlynJoin Stevie's newsletter: Stevie Lyn Nutrition newsletter

What happens when you have faith… and nothing changes?In this deeply personal episode, Scott and Deb sit down with Meg to talk about what it feels like when prayers seem unanswered, outcomes don't shift, and God feels silent.Meg shares her family's journey—raising a daughter born deaf and navigating years of exhausting uncertainty with their son—while doing everything “right” and still not getting the miracle they hoped for.This episode wrestles with:Why faith doesn't always lead to the outcome we wantThe trap of treating God like a “vending machine”What it really means to trust HimThe difference between faith in outcomes vs. faith in a relationshipHow to find peace when nothing changesIf you've ever felt forgotten, frustrated, or like you're doing everything right and it's still not working—this conversation is for you.

In this special Mother's Day episode of SHE MD, Kris Jenner sits down for a raw, emotional, and deeply insightful conversation about motherhood, resilience, and building a life you're proud of. From raising six children to navigating divorce and launching a global empire at 52, Kris shares the real story behind the woman the world thinks it knows.The conversation dives into everything from her highly publicized hysterectomy and approach to proactive health, to how she built an unbreakable bond with her children. She opens up about the hardest moments of her life, how she pushed through them, and why surrounding yourself with strong women is one of the most important decisions you can make.This episode is ultimately about perspective: motherhood as a lifelong journey, success as something you build step by step, and the reminder that it's never too late to start over. Whether you're a new mom, navigating a tough season, or redefining your purpose, Kris shares the mindset shifts that helped her turn challenges into opportunities and create a life filled with meaning, connection, and joy.Subscribe to SHE MD Podcast for expert tips on PCOS, endometriosis, fertility, hormonal balance, mental health, and more. Share with friends and visit SHE MD website and Ovii for research-backed resources, holistic health strategies, and expert guidance on women's health and well-being.Sponsorships:Transcendental Meditation: Release stress at the root with a natural, effortless technique practiced 20 minutes twice a day. Visit tm.org to find a certified teacher near you and learn more about getting started.Babbel: Make fast, lasting progress on a new language with a science-backed app designed by over 200 language experts. Get up to 55% off your Babbel subscription at Babbel.com/SHEMD. Rules and restrictions may apply.OSEA: Clean, clinically tested, seaweed-powered body care made in Malibu — including the award-winning Undaria Algae Body Oil and the new Dream Bio-Retinol Body Serum. Get 10% off your first order sitewide with code SHEMD at OSEAMalibu.com.Midi Health: Specialized, virtual, expert care for women navigating perimenopause and menopause — created by women, for women. Book your virtual visit today at joinmidi.com.Momentous: Fiber Plus is a complete 3-in-1 formula with soluble fiber, insoluble fiber, and prebiotic resistant starch to support gut health from multiple angles. Get up to 35% off your first order with promo code SHEMD at livemomentous.com.Myriad Genetics: The MyRisk Hereditary Cancer Test with RiskScore can help you understand your risk for 11 different types of cancer, including breast and ovarian. Most patients face no out-of-pocket costs. Learn more at GetMyRisk.com and talk with your healthcare provider about whether the MyRisk test might be right for you.What You'll LearnHow Kris approached her hysterectomy decision and why proactive health mattersThe difference between hysterectomy vs. ovary removal (and why it matters)How to navigate fear and uncertainty when it comes to your healthWhy financial independence and awareness are essential for womenHow to rebuild your life after divorce or a major life shiftThe mindset that helped Kris go from overwhelmed mom → global businesswomanHow to raise confident, ambitious, and emotionally connected childrenWhy being “friends” with your kids can actually strengthen your relationshipHow to balance motherhood and career (without sacrificing connection)The importance of female friendships and building a support systemWhy your 50s (and beyond) can be your most powerful eraHow to handle chaos, stress, and “fires” as a parentThe role of routine, discipline, and energy management in successKey Timestamps0:00 Introduction to SHE MD02:58 Introducing Kris Jenner — "America's Mother"07:57 Kris's Hysterectomy Story09:08 Why Postmenopausal Ovarian Cysts Matter11:39 Hysterectomy vs. Salpingo-Oophorectomy Explained13:25 Becoming a Mom (Six Times Over)16:48 From Stay-at-Home Mom to Working Mom19:28 Learning Financial Literacy After Divorce27:25 Confidence, Grandma's Candle Store & a Donut Shop30:20 Raising Strong Daughters by Example32:10 Pivotal Moments, Faith & "Show Me Who Your Friends Are"36:32 The Decision to Bring Cameras Into Their Lives39:36 The Stripper Pole Heard 'Round the World43:14 Turning Lemons Into Lemonade46:29 Kris's 4:30 AM Morning Routine55:00 The LA Fires: What She'd Grab From Her Closet57:12 Working With Family — No Boundaries, Just Love1:05:21 Advice for Moms Who Are Struggling1:11:13 It's Never Too Late1:13:31 Rapid Fire: The Daughters1:15:24 Khloé's Sneaky Side & Big Heart1:17:10 Facelifts, Peptides, Hormones & Supplements1:20:25 Strength Training, Pilates & Walking1:21:30 Non-Negotiables for Health: Get the Scan1:23:22 Protecting Mental Health & Brain Health1:25:32 A Mother's Day MessageKey TakeawaysEverything in life builds & no experience is wastedYou can start over at any age (Kris started her show at 52)Motherhood is not a phase, it's a lifelong relationshipYour kids learn more from what you do than what you sayAdversity is inevitable & resilience is a skill you buildKeep your circle small, but meaningful and supportiveStrong female friendships are a lifelong lifelineIt's okay to feel overwhelmed, those moments passPreparation (financial, emotional, physical) creates freedomSuccess comes from consistency, not perfectionHealth is non-negotiable. Don't ignore warning signs!Loving yourself makes you a better parentGuest BioKris Jenner is a globally recognized businesswoman, producer, and media personality best known for building one of the most influential families and brands in modern pop culture. As the manager behind her children's multi-billion-dollar ventures, Kris has redefined what it means to be both a mother and an entrepreneur.Kris turned a family reality show into a global empire, becoming a pioneer in personal branding, media, and business strategy. Beyond her professional success, she is a devoted mother of six and grandmother of thirteen, known for her unwavering commitment to family, resilience through adversity, and ability to lead with both strength and heartSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Are you struggling with relationships, dating, or attracting the wrong people? The answer lies in your masculine and feminine energy. In this episode of The Higher Self, Danny Morel breaks down exactly why modern love is broken and how to heal it.The dating world isn't broken by accident. When masculine energy is wounded, it stops providing. When feminine energy is wounded, it stops receiving. And when both sides are in pain, the whole flow collapses. This is the spiritual truth behind every failed relationship, repeated pattern, and emotional disconnect you've ever experienced.Using the infinity symbol, Danny reveals how masculine and feminine energy are designed to flow together, and what happens when fear, pain, and distrust break that connection. The result? The wrong partners. Broken relationships. A life that feels off no matter what you do.In this episode you'll learn:Why masculine and feminine energy must be healed from the inside outHow your inner wounds are manifesting as the wrong people in your lifeThe "as within, so without" principle that transforms every relationshipHow to stop the cycle of pain and step into embodied, aligned loveWhether you're single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, this episode will change the way you see yourself and everyone around you.- Grab Danny's new book Awaken Your Highest Self → awakenbook.com- Join the Heal Your Masculine & Feminine Energy Workshop → dannymorel.com/healThanks for watching The Higher Self._________ Join Our Events - ⁠https://link.me/dannymorel⁠Connect with Danny: Website | ⁠https://www.dannymorel.com/⁠ Instagram | ⁠  / dannymorel  ⁠ LinkedIn | ⁠  / dannymorel  ⁠ Facebook | ⁠  / danny.morel.pag  

What happens when timeless entrepreneurial thinking tools meet Ai -powered execution?In this episode, Dan Sullivan and Mike Koenigs explore Dan's 3x3 Framework and show how combining a few simple tools can radically change how entrepreneurs think about ambition, freedom, and future growth. The conversation moves from creativity and long-term thinking to time structure, project clarity, and the way Ai is accelerating the path from idea to real capability.At the center of the discussion are three Strategic Coach® tools: Lifetime Extender, Free Focus and Buffer Days, and the Impact Filter. Dan explains how these tools reinforce each other, while Mike reflects on how they have shaped his own thinking over the years and why they feel even more powerful in the Ai era.The bigger theme of the episode is simple but powerful: capability expands ambition. Instead of chasing possibility in the abstract, Dan and Mike argue that entrepreneurs grow by building real capabilities that create more freedom of time, money, and relationship.Aimatters here not just because it speeds things up, but because it can help turn knowledge, conversations, and patterns into action much faster than before.In this episode, Dan and I break down:How the 3x3 Framework helps entrepreneurs connect ideas in a more structured wayWhy Lifetime Extender changes the way people think about their futureHow Free, Focus, and Buffer Days create more freedom and less frictionWhy the Impact Filter sharpens projects, teamwork, and executionHow capability expands ambition more effectively than vague possibilityWhy Ai is a capability multiplier, not just a productivity toolHow capturing conversations and past knowledge can create faster insight and actionWhy entrepreneurs need more freedom of time, money, and relationshipHow better capabilities lead to a bigger sense of future growthTIMESTAMPS00:00 Welcome to the “Ambition Amplifier” episode01:11 Why the 3x3 tool is so powerful and human01:36 Steve Jobs, creativity, and “putting things together”03:09 Dan introduces the three core tools inside the 3x304:37 Lifetime Extender, Free Focus and Buffer Days, and Impact Filter explained06:22 Mike's take on what these tools actually do in real life08:59 How combining the tools expands entrepreneurial freedom10:55 Mike reflects on how Lifetime Extender changed after cancer12:36 The hidden number people carry about how long they think they'll live19:04 Freedom of time and the danger of shrinking ambition26:46Aienters the conversation27:30 Why Ai changes medicine, science, and possibility33:11 Mike explains why Ai feels like a real leap, not just an upgrade34:18 A real-world Ai story using Starlink and Gemini in the desert40:05 Freedom of money, productivity, and focusing on profitable opportunities51:38 Freedom of relationship and long-term collaboration58:18 From microchips to Ai creating more powerful Ai 01:00:23 Capturing conversations and using Ai to find patterns faster01:23:34 From frustrating work to fascinating work01:25:15 Mike's closing reflection on creativity, connection, and hyperspace Discover More

Are you struggling with relationships, dating, or attracting the wrong people? The answer lies in your masculine and feminine energy. In this episode of The Higher Self, Danny Morel breaks down exactly why modern love is broken and how to heal it.The dating world isn't broken by accident. When masculine energy is wounded, it stops providing. When feminine energy is wounded, it stops receiving. And when both sides are in pain, the whole flow collapses. This is the spiritual truth behind every failed relationship, repeated pattern, and emotional disconnect you've ever experienced.Using the infinity symbol, Danny reveals how masculine and feminine energy are designed to flow together, and what happens when fear, pain, and distrust break that connection. The result? The wrong partners. Broken relationships. A life that feels off no matter what you do.In this episode you'll learn:Why masculine and feminine energy must be healed from the inside outHow your inner wounds are manifesting as the wrong people in your lifeThe "as within, so without" principle that transforms every relationshipHow to stop the cycle of pain and step into embodied, aligned loveWhether you're single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, this episode will change the way you see yourself and everyone around you.- Grab Danny's new book Awaken Your Highest Self → awakenbook.com- Join the Heal Your Masculine & Feminine Energy Workshop → dannymorel.com/healThanks for watching The Higher Self._________ Join Our Events - ⁠https://link.me/dannymorel⁠Connect with Danny: Website | ⁠https://www.dannymorel.com/⁠ Instagram | ⁠  / dannymorel  ⁠ LinkedIn | ⁠  / dannymorel  ⁠ Facebook | ⁠  / danny.morel.pag  

In this episode of the Feel Good Daily Show, Sam and Jess explore how flirting can revive intimacy and keep relationships exciting, even after years together. Whether you're married, long-term, or just looking to reconnect, learn playful tips to flirt authentically and boost your confidence.Key TopicsThe importance of flirting at any stage of a relationshipHow shared hobbies and personal interests contribute to attractionThe role of reminiscence and nostalgia in reigniting sparksPractical tips: eye contact, personal hobbies, creating new experiencesReal-life flirting stories and funny attemptsThe influence of social experiences in boosting confidenceEncouraging open conversations about desires and trying new thingsThe significance of personal identity outside of the relationship

Why do high-performing men struggle in their romantic relationships? My podcast guest, Mike Elliot, shares his wisdom in this episode of Last First Date Radio. Mike is a Relational Leadership Mentor and Men's Initiation Guide. He guides men to lead with “Relational Authority”, anchored in initiation, integration, and inspiration. He's the co-host of “The Sacred We”, where he helps men transform their relationships - starting with themselves - and create legacies of love, presence and purpose. In this episode:What led Mike to this work The most common blocks for high achieving men in relationshipHow to help men show up with more presenceHow Mike's clients relationships transform when they learn Relational Authority™The cost of not learning RA™Connect With MikeIG https://www.instagram.com/mikeelliott.relating/ Website https://www.itsmikeelliott.com/Masculine/Feminine Polarity Cheat sheet https://www.itsmikeelliott.com/newsletter+Freebie►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio ►If you're feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate ►Get Sandy's books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook , Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9 and Love at Last https://amzn.to/4erpj7C ►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching ►FREE download: “Top 10 Reasons Why Men Suddenly Pull Away” http://bit.ly/whymendisappear ►FREE download: “The Green Light Guide to Dating After 50” https://lastfirstdate.com/green-light-guide/ ►Group Coaching: https://lastfirstdate.com/the-woman-of-value-club/ ►Website → https://lastfirstdate.com/ ► Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/lastfirstdate1/ ► TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@lastfirstdate1►Get Amazon Music Unlimited FREE for 30 days at https://getamazonmusic.com/lastfirstdate  

In this solo episode, Alissa unpacks what's actually happening when you measure yourself against someone else, and how to use those moments as information rather than evidence of your own inadequacy.The reflex most of us have when comparison hits is either self-diminishment or quiet resentment. What Alissa offers instead is a way to get curious.Alissa shares personal examples and client stories to show what it looks like to catch the comparison mid-spiral and redirect it. The more grounded you are in who you are and what you actually care about, the less comparison has to take you out.In this episode:Why the first instinct is often self-criticism or justifying why the other person "doesn't count,"and how that keeps you stuckHow to read what you're comparing yourself to as data pointing toward your desires and valuesA simple question to ask when comparison hits:"Do I actually care about this?", and how it can dissolve the charge almost instantlyWhy staying in frustration or victim energy doesn't just feel bad. It follows you into every conversation and relationshipHow knowing yourself deeply changes the way comparison lands, and how fast you can move through itUncover your sneaky internal belief that's stopping you from being your most confident self TAKE The FREE Shadow Archetype Quiz NOWLearn my 6-step process for managing & neutralizing your triggers as an HSP in our FREE UN-Botherable Workshop!Join the Not Too Sensitive Club

Most women think burnout at work and disconnection in their relationship are two separate problems.They're not.In this episode, I'm breaking down the hidden pattern I see in so many high-achieving women that's quietly impacting both.If you feel like you're always “on”, constantly thinking, organising, managing… and then wondering why you can't fully relax, receive, or feel deeply connected in your relationship, this is for you.We're talking about over-functioning.The pattern of being the one who handles everything, holds everything together, and quietly carries more than your fair share… at work, in your relationship, and in life.And the truth is, it's probably the very thing that's made you successful.But it's also the thing that's exhausting you.Inside this episode, I share:What over-functioning actually is (and how to spot it in your life)Why this pattern shows up in both your work and your relationshipHow over-functioning leads to burnout, resentment, and disconnectionThe subtle ways you might be enabling others to under-function (without realising)Why nothing is “wrong” with you… and how to start shifting thisThis isn't about doing less or lowering your standards.It's about learning how to switch out of “handle everything” mode… so you can feel supported, connected, and actually enjoy the life you've built.Want support with this?I'm currently inviting 3 women into a 12-week 1:1 coaching experience.This is for high-achieving women who are ready to:stop over-functioning and carrying everything alonefeel more supported in their life and relationshipreconnect to their body, softness, and feminine energyshift relationship dynamics without forcing or over-managingIf this is you, DM me COACHING on Instagram and we'll chat

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What do Van Halen, St. Paul's Cathedral, and a boring radio station have in common?For Kris Langham, they were all part of the journey that led him to faith.In this episode of the Church Planter Podcast, Peyton Jones and Pete Mitchell sit down with Kris Langham, founder of Through the Word, to unpack his remarkable salvation story and the vision behind one of the most accessible Bible engagement tools in the world.Kris shares how a simple audio Bible teaching format grew into Through the Word, a free app with a 10-minute audio guide for every chapter of the Bible (now approaching 1 million users).But this conversation goes deeper than technology.Together, the guys explore:Why most Christians feel anxiety when they hear “go make disciples”The critical difference between discipleship and disciple-makingHow we often reproduce the way we were discipled, for better or worseWhy disciple-making moves at the speed of relationshipHow introverts might actually make the best disciple-makersHow the new Discipology Plan inside the Through the Word app helps everyday believers follow Jesus and take someone with themResources and Links Mentioned in this Episode:DiscipologyBook.comReliant Mission: reliant.org/cppNewBreed TrainingThanks for listening to the church planter podcast. We're here to help you go where no one else is going and do what no one else is doing to reach people, no one else is reaching.Make sure to review and subscribe to the show on your favorite podcast service to help us connect with more church planters.

Nearly four years ago, my friend and colleague, Diana Davis, went through a life-altering breakup. She and her then-boyfriend of over six years decided to part ways, with her later learning he'd had an affair during the course of their relationship. You can listen to that episode here.For the last few years, she's hopped around the globe, living in different spots, dating different people (some good! some not so good!) and getting to know herself. Her work has also evolved, playing a parallel role in the evolution of her relationships. In this episode we discuss:The big dating lessons and shifts that led to her now-blooming relationshipHow burning out with her business correlated to changes in how she was datingThe key parallels between our work lives and our romantic livesTo learn more about or work with Diana, check out her website and Instagram.Private coaching spots are open.Work with me PrivatelyConnect on InstagramWebsitePodcast Production by James Jorge

Home inspectors and REALTORS® from across Ohio join today's episode to discuss the real estate industry, property inspections, the convenience of inspections, and how they're conducted across the state.Full Description / Show NotesThe panel's introduction and their roles in the real estate industryThe role of a home inspection in a home transactionThe importance of a home inspectionThe importance of having a strong relationship between REALTORS® and home inspectors and how to build that relationshipHow home inspections are done differently across the stateWhat can be done to make home inspections more unified

Did the "fairytale" end as fast as it started? In today's live session, we are connecting the dots between the intense Love Bombing phase and the cold, calculated Reverse Discard.As a self-aware narcissist, I'm pulling back the curtain on the internal "playbook" used to create a trauma bond. We'll discuss why narcissists use intensity to bypass your boundaries, the psychology of "Baiting a Breakup," and why you feel like you're losing your mind during the devaluation phaseThis isn't just about labels—it's about pattern recognition and your psychological safety. Whether you're currently in the "honeymoon phase" or you've just been discarded, this live Q&A is designed to give you the clarity you need to stop the cycle.In this stream, we cover:The 4 Stages of the Narcissistic CycleWhy they "bait" you into ending the relationshipHow to protect your nervous system from the "High-Low" addictionReal-time Q&A: Your hardest questions answered from the "inside."Connect with Lee:My Courses: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://courses.mentalhealness.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://link.me/mentalhealness⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠All My Link: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beacons.page/mentalhealness ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesssIf this episode helped you gain clarity, please leave a 5-star review on Spotify! It helps others find the validation they need to heal.

Here's something that might sting a little. If you are constantly making excuses for someone's behavior, you may be in love with your idea of them, not the actual person. In this episode of Be Unmessablewith the podcast, I'm talking about the subtle but exhausting habit of protecting relationships that are not real. Not just romantic relationships, but friendships, work dynamics, and family relationships where you are hiding parts of who you are in the name of keeping the peace.When you hide yourself, it can feel like you are protecting the relationship, but what you are really doing is watering plastic plants. No matter how much energy, care, or love you pour in, they will never grow. I've worked with high achievers for decades who look wildly successful on the outside, but feel disconnected and lonely in their relationships. Control, perfectionism, and people pleasing may help you succeed professionally, but they quietly destroy intimacy. Performance is not connection. Pretending is exhausting. And the exhaustion does not come from work. It comes from hiding.In this episode, you'll learn:How hiding parts of yourself creates the illusion of intimacy without real connectionWhy making excuses for others is often protecting a fantasy, not a relationshipHow social media trains us to mistake performance for closenessWhat happens when you stop hiding and start showing up honestlyReal relationships do not require decoding, defending, or constant excuse making. They are clear, consistent, and reciprocal. The moment you stop watering plastic plants and start telling the truth, you give others permission to do the same. Connection does not come from perfection. It comes from presence. The question is not whether authenticity matters. The question is whether you are ready to stop protecting what is not real and start cultivating what actually is.Connect With JosselyneWebsite: beunmessablewith.comInstagram: @beunmessablewith

If you're saying “my ex is a narcissist”… listen first.If you've spent more than five minutes on TikTok, Reddit, or Instagram, you've seen it everywhere: “My co-parent is a narcissist.” And we get why that label feels validating. It gives your pain a name.But here's the problem: labels don't carry weight in court — behavior does. And when you lead with a diagnosis you can't prove, you risk looking reactive, emotional, or unreliable in the one place where credibility matters most.In this episode, we're joined by two powerhouse custody attorneys — Kristen Holstrom and Samantha McBride (the Custody Queens) — to explain what actually helps you win: specific facts, consistent documentation, strong boundaries, and a strategy that keeps you from getting pulled into emotional warfare.What You'll Learn in This EpisodeWhy calling your ex a narcissist can backfire legally and emotionallyThe difference between traits vs. a true clinical diagnosis (and why it rarely shows up in court)What judges care about most in custody cases: co-parenting and facilitating the other parent's relationshipHow to build a case using patterns, timelines, and evidenceWhy social media is forever (even if you delete it)How co-parenting apps like OurFamilyWizard can protect you and create documentation“Chess, not checkers”: how to stop reacting and start controlling your side of the streetWhy custody evaluations can go sideways when you show up with labels instead of factsKey Takeaways (AKA: The stuff that saves you money and sanity)1) Labels feel good. Evidence wins cases.Courts don't decide custody based on “he's a narcissist.” They decide based on what happened, how often, and how it impacts the children.2) Your credibility is everything.If you sound like you're diagnosing your ex, you may unintentionally look like the unstable one — especially in high-stakes settings like custody evaluations.3) Social media can cost you custody time and settlement leverage.Posting, reposting, liking, or commenting on “narcissist” content can be used against you. Even deleted posts can come back via screenshots.4) Boundaries are strategy — not weakness.Tools like OurFamilyWizard don't mean you failed. They mean you're building guardrails and a paper trail.5) Power is preparation.When you're organized, strategic, and documenting the right things, you get your power back.Action Steps (Do this after you finish the episode)Drop the label. Keep the facts. Replace “He's a narcissist” with: “He missed 7 pickups in 30 days.”Build a timeline. Dates, times, missed exchanges, late pickups, medical info withheld, school info excluded.

Last week we talked about the science of oppositional behavior. This week, let's look at strategies to help children rest into felt safety so their nervous system feels better and their oppositional protective strategies can decrease.In this episode you'll learn:An invitation to consider some of our cultural beliefs around opposition in the parent/child relationshipHow to use our grown-up brains to invite connection and cooperationStrategies for creating felt safety in the child's inner worldStrategies for creating felt safety in the child's environmentStrategies for creating felt safety in the relationshipResources mentioned in this podcast:When Your Nervous System Is Fried {Ep 139}Neuroimmune Disorders And Big, Baffling, Behaviors With Dr. Qazi Javed {Ep 97}What To Do After We Mess Up {Ep 80}Parenting Superpower! X-ray Vision {Ep 13}Self-Compassion Will Change Your Brain {Ep 8}Neuroimmune Podcast Series!~ robyngobbel.com/neuroimmuneseriesRead the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/oppositional2Get access to over 25+ free resources in our brand, new Free Resource Hub! RobynGobbel.com/FreeResourceHub :::Grab a copy of USA Today Best Selling book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/bookJoin us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClubSign up on the waiting list for the 2027 Cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals robyngobbel.com/ImmersionFollow Me On:FacebookInstagram Over on my website you can find:Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)LOTS & LOTS of FREE ResourcesOngoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The ClubYear-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute's (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With)