Podcasts about solution focused

Crystal Robinson, founder of Mission Me 2.0 and Crystal Moon Holistic Healing, a leadership and holistic coaching practice that helps high achieving professionals and entrepreneurs build success without sacrificing their health, marriage, or sense of self.Through private coaching, group programs, and leadership workshops, Crystal integrates neuroscience, Solution Focused coaching, and holistic wellness to help leaders regulate their nervous systems and strengthen their relationships behind the scenes of their success.Now, Crystal's journey from Vice President of Engineering to visionary entrepreneur demonstrates what happens when chronic stress and serious health challenges force you to redefine success on your own terms.And while guiding ambitious leaders to stop overriding exhaustion, emotion, and identity, she is proving that real achievement does not have to cost you your body or your relationships.Here's where to find more:Website:https://www.crystalmoonholistichealing.comMission Me 2.0 Coaching Page:https://www.missionme20.com/coachingBook – Mission Me 2.0:https://www.missionme20.comLinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/CrystalRobinsonFacebook Business Page:https://www.facebook.com/CrystalMoonHolisticHealingFacebook Personal Profile:https://www.facebook.com/crystal.fuscorobinsonInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/CrystalMoonHealingAdditional media appearances and podcast features available upon request.________________________________________________Welcome to The Unforget Yourself Show where we use the power of woo and the proof of science to help you identify your blind spots, and get over your own bullshit so that you can do the fucking thing you ACTUALLY want to do!We're Mark and Katie, the founders of Unforget Yourself and the creators of the Unforget Yourself System and on this podcast, we're here to share REAL conversations about what goes on inside the heart and minds of those brave and crazy enough to start their own business. From the accidental entrepreneur to the laser-focused CEO, we find out how they got to where they are today, not by hearing the go-to story of their success, but talking about how we all have our own BS to deal with and it's through facing ourselves that we find a way to do the fucking thing.Along the way, we hope to show you that YOU are the most important asset in your business (and your life - duh!). Being a business owner is tough! With vulnerability and humor, we get to the real story behind their success and show you that you're not alone._____________________Find all our links to all the things like the socials, how to work with us and how to apply to be on the podcast here:https://linktr.ee/unforgetyourself

TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN When we first learn about the solution-focused approach apprach it may seem like you spend most of your time learning about how to run the first session or how to have the first conversation.  Because this is an approach, not a step-by-step guided practice, some people do a great job with that first meeting only to choose not to use those skills in the second session. In this episode, we talk about the importance of the second session, and Cher shares an intake method she uses that has helped her second sessions run smoothly and have an even greater impact.  This will also help you bring this practice to fidelity for you so you don't just know about this approach, but you have confidence in using it with clients and in coaching conversations.  Key Topics Importance of deliberate practice in second sessions Using a structured intake to guide follow-up Building client capacity for self-directed change The role of curiosity and listening in solution focused therapy Using scaling questions to measure progress Maintaining solution focus without slipping into problem talk Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  In this episode, you will learn:  Consistency in applying solution-focused techniques is key to client progress. The second session is crucial for reinforcing change and planning next steps. Using visual tools like the four chambers helps clients see their progress. Curiosity about the client's preferred future keeps sessions growth-oriented. Practicing skills in real-life situations enhances naturalness and effectiveness. The podcast Solution Focused Possibilities, episode 19, was discussed in this episode, so feel free to listen to the entire conversation.  You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the three-day conversation navigation challenge, and you can now join for free with this link.  TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en Tip Jar:  Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. https://thefocusedmindset.ck.page/products/tips-4-cher    

In this inspiring episode, you can listen in on part of the conversation with Dr. Loretta Whitson, and Cher revisits and reflects upon what she learned from this chat.  She talkes about the unexpected qualities that help us grow like long suffering, and advocacy in the field of school counseling. Discover how deep purpose, moral compass, and boldness shape impactful leadership and help us live in service.  Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Long Suffering in Leadership 12:05 The Importance of a North Star 14:25 Understanding Long Suffering 17:29 The Role of Patience in Leadership 19:39 Persistent Patience and Moral Compass 22:23 Finding Deeper Purpose in Leadership 25:02 Navigating Challenges and Opposition 27:43 Embracing Change and New Beginnings Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en  Tip Jar:  Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. https://thefocusedmindset.ck.page/products/tips-4-cher  Resources California Association of School Counselors (CASC) - https://www.schoolcounselor-ca.org/      

In this episode of the With Winning in Mind Podcast, Troy Bassham and Heather Sumlin break down a powerful mindset shift: why focusing on solutions is far more effective than focusing on problems. Many competitors get stuck analyzing what went wrong—but the longer you stay focused on the problem, the harder it is to perform at your best. Instead, elite performers train themselves to quickly shift their attention to solutions. Through the Mental Management® system, Troy and Heather explain how this shift leads to faster recovery, better focus, and more consistent performance. The conversation also includes a candid look at baseball spring training, including what's going through a pitcher's mind after a wild pitch—and how staying solution-focused can prevent one mistake from turning into many. In this episode, you'll learn: Why focusing on the problem holds you back How to quickly shift into a solution-focused mindset What great competitors think immediately after a mistake How to recover faster and stay locked in under pressure If you've ever replayed mistakes in your mind during competition, this episode will give you a better way forward. This is just the start—join us on Patreon for an extended conversation where we go deeper into how to apply solution-focused thinking in competition: https://www.patreon.com/with_winning_in_mind Troy mentioned Scott Barlow during the interview, here is a With Winning in Mind interview with Scott from 2023: https://youtu.be/acNTEOAg3ck Websites: Troy Bassham - https://reachthepodium.com Heather Sumlin - https://heathersumlin.com Lanny - https://withwinninginmind.com Books/Journals - https://mentalmanagement.com Online Courses - https://mm-courses.thinkific.com Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/with_winning_in_mind Instagram:  Podcast- https://www.instagram.com/withwinninginmindpodcast/ Troy Bassham - https://www.instagram.com/troyabassham/ Heather Sumlin - https://www.instagram.com/heathersumlin/ FaceBook: Mental Management - https://www.facebook.com/MentalManagementSystems 

In a world where influence shapes our communities, few stories resonate as deeply as that of Dr.Manal Fakhoury. From migrating from Palestine as a young girl, to her roots in Southern California, to the life she shaped with her family in Ocala, Florida, Manal embodies the essence of a true woman of influence. Join us as we explore her inspiring journey, her commitment to community, and the lessons she has learned along the way.  Dr. Manal Fakhouy is the Organizer and Curator of TEDx Ocala, President of ollinwomen.org, and founder of Fakhoury Leadership International. These are only a few of the accomplishments she has had and in this episode you will get to hear her stories and benefit from her wisdom.  Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the three-day conversation navigation challenge, and you can now join for free with this link.   TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en  Tip Jar:  Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. https://thefocusedmindset.ck.page/products/tips-4-cher  

In this engaging conversation, Lori Woodley-Langendorff discusses her book 'SEL Muscle Mastery' and the importance of practical skills in education. The dialogue explores the journey of writing and publishing a book, the significance of social-emotional learning (SEL), and the application of practical skills in everyday life. Lori emphasizes the need for curiosity, effective communication, and self-reflection in educational settings, while also highlighting the importance of empathy and compassion. The conversation concludes with reflections on personal growth, recognition in the counseling field, and the joy of pursuing one's passions. https://www.allittakes.org/ Chapters 00:00 Introduction to SEL Muscle Mastery 02:54 The Journey of Writing and Publishing a Book 06:07 Understanding SEL Muscles and Their Importance 09:07 Practical Skills for Everyday Life 11:52 The Q-Tip Principle: Quit Taking It Personally 15:06 Curiosity and Its Role in Education 17:48 Creating a Supportive Learning Environment 20:47 Understanding Different Communication Styles 27:48 The Cycle of Self-Criticism 29:58 Empathy and Compassion in Education 32:56 Finding Joy Amidst Challenges 36:04 Authenticity and Self-Reflection 40:57 Celebrating Achievements and Milestones 46:10 Pursuing Passion and Overcoming Doubts Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en      

In this conversation, Dr. Loretta Whitson discusses the vital role of advocacy in school counseling, emphasizing the importance of finding meaning and purpose in the profession. She highlights the significance of curiosity and personal connection in counseling, and offers advice for future educators and counselors. Dr. Whitson also reflects on the moral compass that guides leadership in education, underscoring the need for a supportive and collaborative environment for students. Takeaways Advocacy is essential in school counseling. Finding meaning in work enhances professional fulfillment. Curiosity drives effective counseling practices. Personal connections with students lead to better outcomes. Choosing a career aligned with personal beliefs fosters motivation. Collaboration among educators, counselors, and administrators is crucial. A balanced support system is necessary for student success. Counseling should address personal and social domains for effectiveness. Leaders should have a strong moral compass to guide their actions. Opportunities for students should be prioritized in counseling. Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the three-day conversation navigation challenge, and you can now join for free with this link.  ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you.  TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en  

V= Values I = Investigate and show Interest B = Boldness E = Enjoy each moment S = Start and Start again  Get your free good vibes checklist and pin up HERE https://thefocusedmindset.kit.com/1fb7a7eb6d In this episode of the Focused Mindset podcast, Cher discusses the importance of reframing our mindset to foster hope, growth, and effective communication. She emphasizes the role of mindset in shaping our experiences and interactions, drawing on personal anecdotes and research in neuroplasticity. Cher encourages listeners to embrace uncertainty and curiosity as they navigate life's challenges, ultimately redefining hope and personal growth. Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the three-day conversation navigation challenge, and you can now join for free with this link.  ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you.  TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en Tip Jar:  Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. https://thefocusedmindset.ck.page/products/tips-4-cher    

Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  Your frame of mind matters and in this episode Cher talks about why that is true. Find out more about the significance of mindset in shaping our communication and personal growth. She emphasizes the importance of adopting a growth mindset, the power of neuroplasticity, and the need to adjust our mental settings to foster better communication and relationships. Through personal anecdotes and insights, Cher illustrates how our beliefs and experiences frame our mindset and how we can choose to shift our perspectives to embrace uncertainty and redefine hope. You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the three-day conversation navigation challenge, and you can now join for free with this link.  ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you.  TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Focused Mindset 01:32 The Power of Mindset in Communication 05:53 Neuroplasticity and the Flexibility of Our Mind 08:38 Understanding the Frame of Mind 16:04 Shifting Mindsets Through Experience 26:34 Choosing a Mindset That Serves Us 31:37 Embracing Uncertainty and Hope  Related podcast episodes to learn more:  Solution Focused Possibilites: Uncertainty and hope with Fred Ehresmann  TEDx Change your mindset, change the game Alia Crum  Mel Robins Podcast simple mindset shifts that transfer your body with Alia Crum Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en Takeaways Mindset is crucial for effective communication. A growth mindset allows for new perspectives. Neuroplasticity enables us to change our thought patterns. Curiosity leads to better understanding and communication. Our frame of mind shapes our beliefs and experiences. We can choose to shift our mindset intentionally. Transformative experiences can change our outlook on life. It's important to adapt to change rather than resist it. What we focus on influences our motivation and actions. Redefining hope involves embracing uncertainty. Tip Jar:  Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. https://thefocusedmindset.ck.page/products/tips-4-cher      

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Addiction isn't the problem; it's a solution the subconscious found to deal with something deeper. But what if there was a way to address that deep-seated need, creating permanent freedom instead of temporary fixes?Welcome back to HypnoGeeks! We're diving into the cutting-edge of healing, where solution-focused techniques meet trauma-informed care to redefine transformation.In this truly inspiring episode, we sit down with Cormac Colleran (Creator of the powerful ICAAN Method from Ireland) and Dr. Jodie Solberg (International best-selling author and founder of the RESTORE Process for Trauma from the US). Together, they are the co-founders of the SFTI Hypnosis Academy and share over 40 years of combined experience helping thousands heal from trauma, anxiety, addiction, and unwanted patterns.This conversation is close to the host's heart, and you'll discover the World-First protocol they've created that is empowering practitioners to create lasting change at the subconscious level.In this transformative episode, you will learn: The Core Driver: Why Dr. Jodie says, "Trauma is often the hidden driver behind addictive patterns," and how their approach helps clients finally release what's been holding them back. The Solution, Not the Problem: How Cormac's perspective "Addiction isn't the problem, it's the solution," opens the door to authentic, sustainable freedom. The SFTI Difference: A breakdown of how the blend of Solution-Focused and Trauma-Informed care makes change not just possible, but inevitable. Identity Over Habit: Why helping a client shift their core identity is infinitely more powerful than simply addressing a behaviour or habit. Language of Healing: The critical distinction between "temptation" and "craving," and the protocol they use for "washing away temptation."This is essential listening for hypnotherapists, coaches, or anyone looking to understand the deepest roots of addiction and anxiety. Get ready for a conversation that's not only informative but truly transformational.Join the movement to empower practitioners with confidence.Let's welcome Cormac and Jodie to the show!Support the showThis podcast is sponsored by The Northern College of Clinical Hypnotherapywww.thenortherncollegeofclinicalhypnotherapy.com

Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN In this episode of the Focused Mindset Podcast, Cher discusses the importance of taking deliberate and disciplined action in our lives. She shares personal stories about family, travel, and the influence of her grandmother, emphasizing the significance of intentionality in our actions. Cher encourages listeners to reflect on their own lives and take action on their convictions, highlighting the ripple effect of communication and the value of mentorship. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to embrace their journey with purpose and with a solution-focused mindset. Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ Chapters 00:00 The Challenge of Taking Action 02:04 Reflections on Family and Conviction 09:13 Lessons from Travel and Attitude 10:36 Influence of Grandparents on Life Choices 14:46 The Importance of Deliberate Action 20:33 The Role of Interns in Personal Growth 23:48 Teaching with Intention and Discipline 30:20 The Ripple Effect of Communication 36:32 Taking Action with Purpose TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en Tip Jar:  Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. https://thefocusedmindset.ck.page/products/tips-4-cher

Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  In this conversation, Cher discusses how to adjust our mindset for the holiday season, focusing on proactive strategies to enhance family gatherings. She emphasizes the importance of planning ahead, taking intentional pauses, and choosing a positive vibe to create a more enjoyable experience. Cher encourages listeners to reflect on positive memories and the qualities they appreciate in their family members, ultimately promoting a mindset of gratitude and intentionality during the holidays. TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en Gift Tip Jar:  Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. https://thefocusedmindset.ck.page/products/tips-4-cher Chapters 00:00 Embracing the Holiday Spirit 03:10 Mindfulness and Intentionality in Family Gatherings 05:40 Planning Ahead: Writing Your Own Narrative 08:12 Taking a Beat: The Power of Pausing 10:49 Choosing Your Vibe: Setting the Mood 14:04 Reflecting on Positive Memories 16:54 The Importance of Attitude 19:20 Transforming Interactions: Being Intentional 22:25 Preparing for the Unexpected 24:33 Conclusion: Embracing the Journey Ahead    

In this episode, Michael Mushong shares his experiences in the military and his journey towards helping others with their mental health. He discusses the importance of connection, trust, and being present for those in need, especially in high-stress environments like the military. The conversation emphasizes the need for compassion, understanding, and the role of first sergeants in supporting their troops. Michael's personal stories highlight the impact of being there for someone in crisis and the importance of leading with love and humility. takeaways Mental health awareness is crucial year-round. Connection and trust are vital in helping others. Being present can save lives. Building rapport is essential for effective communication. Humility is key for leaders in the military. Loneliness is a common issue among service members. It's important to listen without judgment. Life is a journey with ups and downs. Support systems within the military are important. Everyone has their struggles; compassion is necessary. Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the three-day conversation navigation challenge, and you can now join for free with this link.  ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you.  TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en    

Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  In this introductory episode of the Focused Mindset Podcast, Cher shares her excitement about the journey ahead, emphasizing the solution-focused approach to counseling and coaching. She discusses her background as a school counselor and her passion for helping parents and educators connect with their children and students. Cher highlights the importance of hope in conversations and the power of effective communication. The podcast aims to provide insights from experts and practical strategies for personal growth and connection. Tune in to Cher's TED, How to Lead with Hope: TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN takeaways Cher is excited to launch the podcast after 200 episodes. The podcast focuses on a solution-focused approach to counseling. Cher emphasizes the importance of hope in conversations. She has a background in school counseling and coaching. The podcast aims to help parents and educators connect better. Cher's journey includes speaking on the TED stage. The solution-focused approach empowers individuals to thrive. Listeners can expect expert insights and practical strategies. Cher encourages leveling up communication skills. The podcast serves as a cornerstone for Cher's work. Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en Tip Jar:  Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. https://thefocusedmindset.ck.page/products/tips-4-cher    

Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  In this episode Cher discusses the challenges many of us face in communicating with their children. She emphasizes the importance of understanding that kids often do not share the full story of their day, focusing instead on conflicts or negative experiences. Cher provides strategies for parents to encourage open communication, problem-solving, and a balanced perspective in their children's storytelling. By fostering a safe and supportive environment, parents can help their kids feel comfortable sharing their experiences, leading to stronger connections and healthier relationships. TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en Tip Jar:  Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. https://thefocusedmindset.ck.page/products/tips-4-cher Chapters 00:00 Understanding Communication Gaps with Kids 06:29 The Importance of Full Storytelling 12:27 Encouraging Problem-Solving Skills 19:34 Navigating Emotional Responses 28:29 Effective Questioning Techniques 37:04 Celebrating the Good with the Bad  

Struggling with staff meetings that spiral into problem talk? This episode explores solution-focused communication and how school leaders can transform their school culture by changing the questions they ask. Vicky Essebag and Tara Gretton share practical strategies for shifting from deficit-based conversations to hope-filled dialogue that actually moves your team forward. You'll discover why asking "what's wanted?" instead of "what's wrong?" creates the conditions for real change in your school community. We dive deep into how solution-focused approaches can help school leaders build stronger relationships with staff, students, and parents. Learn about the power of noticing small wins, creating fresh starts each day, and why those quick corridor conversations matter more than you think. Whether you're dealing with challenging parent meetings, staff frustrations, or student behaviour concerns, this conversation offers a different way forward that focuses on strengths, capabilities, and collective vision rather than endless troubleshooting. Resources & Links Mentioned:Solution-Focused Brief Therapy Association (SFBTA) - North American organization offering professional learning opportunitiesSF in Organizations (SFIO) - Resources and examples of solution-focused practice in educationJournal of Solution Focused Practices - Latest research and conversations about solution-focused approaches Vicky Essebag:LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/vickyessebagWebsite: relationspaces.comTara Gretton:LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tara-gretton-b3088b18Website: solutionrevolution.co.uk Episode PartnersTeacher Development TrustInternational Curriculum AssociationJoin Shane's Intensive Leadership Programme at educationleaders.co/intensiveShane Leaning, an organisational coach based in Shanghai, supports school leaders globally. Passionate about empowment, he is the author of the best-selling 'Change Starts Here.' Shane is a leading educational voice in the UK, Asia and around the world.You can find Shane on LinkedIn and Bluesky. or shaneleaning.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Guest: Elliott Connie — psychotherapist, best-selling author, and global leader in Solution Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT). In this episode, Elliott breaks down how asking the right questions can create powerful shifts in healing, relationships, and life direction. With over 20 years of experience, he shows why focusing on strengths and desired outcomes leads to transformation faster than traditional models of therapy.     3 Powerful Takeaways The questions you ask shape your future. Change begins by focusing on outcomes, not problems. Lasting relationships thrive on reciprocity, not blame.     Main Topics 1. The Power of Empowering Questions (04:06 – 08:19) Instead of asking “Why are you here?” SFBT starts with “What are your best hopes from being here?” This reframes therapy from problem-focused to solution-oriented. “A conversation about difference will lead towards differences. A conversation about problems will lead towards more problems.” 2. The Three Life-Changing Questions (12:58 – 15:08) Elliott introduces three essential questions to break free from stuck patterns: Who am I really? What do I want? Who do I need to become to achieve it? Writing these down sparks clarity and subconscious action toward change. “You can't stay the same and expect things around you to get different.” 3. Relationships and Reciprocity (24:22 – 28:51) The biggest mistake couples make is waiting for their partner to change first. Elliott emphasizes showing up differently yourself and trusting reciprocity to build momentum. “Anytime you want something from your partner, that's actually an indicator you're not doing that for them.”     ✨ Notable Closing Insight: When trapped in the “someday” mindset, ask: “Suppose your partner never changes, how would you notice yourself being your very best even then?” Connections: Visit us: MarniBattista.Com Ready To Create Your Corporate Escape Plan? Book A Call With MeTake the Quiz: Unlock the shocking truth about how your unique personality type is silently shaping your future Buy Your Radical Living Challenge: 7 Questions For Living The Meaningful LifeAbout Elliott ConnieChange Your Question, Change Your Future Family TherapyAha! Moments Podcast with Elliott Connie   

Today, I'm joined by Claudia Owad, Director at Growth Coaching International. With over 30 years of experience across education, corporate, government and not-for-profit sectors, Claudia is a Master Practitioner with EMCC Global and has served on the board of the International Coaching Federation Australasia. A former school counsellor, Claudia is passionate about helping people flourish through the integration of Coaching and Positive Psychology. She has worked with leaders, teachers, students and parents to create thriving learning environments, and continues to influence the field through her leadership, training and international speaking. In this episode, we'll explore her journey, insights into leadership and wellbeing, and the role of coaching in shaping education.

Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  In this episode of the Focused Mindset podcast, Cher Kretz explores the relationship between mindset, hope, and the power of listening. She emphasizes the importance of cultivating hope in our lives and the lives of those we serve. Cher discusses practical strategies for training our minds to see hope, the significance of daily hope work, and how to notice hope in everyday conversations. The episode highlights the science of hope, its impact on personal growth, and the necessity of caring for our thoughts to foster a positive mindset. TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en Tip Jar:  Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. https://thefocusedmindset.ck.page/products/tips-4-cher Takeaways   The relationship between mindset and hope is crucial for personal growth. Practicing hope talk can renew our minds and change our perspectives. Listening with a solution-focused lens helps cultivate hope in others. We can train our minds to see hope in everyday situations. Hope is a powerful predictor of success and resilience. Daily practices can help us notice and document moments of hope. Our mindset influences how we respond to life's challenges. Finding hope in conversations can uplift both ourselves and others. Setting personal goals is essential for fostering hope. Caring for our thoughts is vital for maintaining a hopeful mindset. Chapters   00:00 The Science of Hope and Mindset 04:50 Interview with Michael Mushong on Mental Health 05:07 The Importance of Mindset in Difficult Times 08:54 Finding Hope in Everyday Life 19:45 Practical Steps for Daily Hope Work  

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On this thought-provoking episode of “Better Than Fine,” host Darlene Marshall dives deep into the essential mindset skills needed to navigate life's inevitable challenges. Reflecting on the show's 250th original episode, Darlene celebrates the growth of the podcast while continuing the timely exploration of resilience—especially in an ever-changing world. Darlene unpacks the three foundational pillars of resilience: connection, purpose, and, most importantly for today, mindset. She explains why building resilience is a proactive process and shares actionable advice for strengthening your solution orientation before you're caught in life's storms. Listeners will be guided through a self-reflective gut check to assess their default responses to setbacks and identify their unique “interpretation bias”—the lens through which they view challenges. Darlene introduces the concept of “realistic optimism” and practical tools like the “add yet” technique to help listeners shift from fixed to growth mindsets. She also explores the power of self-concordant, process-focused goals—goals that deeply align with personal values and identity, which can fuel motivation even through adversity. Drawing from her personal experiences training for a marathon while managing chronic illness, Darlene illustrates how mindset and meaningful goals bolster resilience. With warmth and real-life examples, this episode offers tangible strategies to help you do the best you can with what you've got right now. Whether you're looking to better handle stress, bounce back from setbacks, or simply approach life with greater optimism, this episode is packed with wisdom to help you thrive.  If you like what you just consumed, leave us a 5-star review, and share this episode with a friend to help grow our NASM health and wellness community! The content shared in this podcast is solely for educational and entertainment purposes. It is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek out the guidance of your healthcare provider or other qualified professional. Any opinions expressed by guests and hosts are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views of NASM. Introducing NASM One, the membership for trainers and coaches. For just $35/mo., get unlimited access to over 300 courses, 50% off additional certifications and specializations, EDGE Trainer Pro all-in-one coaching app to grow your business, unlimited exam attempts and select waived fees. Stay on top of your game and ahead of the curve as a fitness professional with NASM One. Click here to learn more. https://bit.ly/4ddsgrm

Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day conversation training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  In this episode of the Focused Mindset podcast, Cher discusses the importance of maintaining curiosity in educational and counseling settings. She explores the barriers that prevent individuals from engaging fully in the solution-focused approach and emphasizes the need for patience and genuine curiosity when interacting with students and clients. Cher also shares her personal journey with the RAMP program, highlighting the challenges and insights gained along the way. You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the three-day conversation navigation challenge, and you can now join for free with this link.  ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you.  TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en  Tip Jar:  Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. https://thefocusedmindset.ck.page/products/tips-4-cher Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Curiosity and Barriers 02:29 The Journey of Becoming a Recognized School Counselor 08:14 The Importance of Staying Curious 15:26 Empowering Through Curiosity 20:28 Updates on the RAMP Journey

Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN   In this episode of the Focused Mindset podcast, Cher talks about the unuque lessons she walked away with from the 2025 ASCA conference and about the transformative power of intentionality. She shares personal stories from her daughter's volleyball tournament, highlighting how setting clear intentions can shape our experiences and memories. Cher also discusses the importance of affirmations and how they can work hand-in-hand with intentionality to bring about desired outcomes. Key Takeaways: The significance of setting intentions before entering any event or situation. Personal anecdotes illustrating the impact of intentionality on experiences. The role of affirmations in reinforcing intentions and guiding actions. Insights into balancing professional commitments with personal growth. Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the three-day conversation navigation challenge, and you can now join for free with this link.  ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you.  TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en Tip Jar:  Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. https://thefocusedmindset.ck.page/products/tips-4-cher    

Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN  Join Cher as she shares her experiences and insights on creating impactful mentorship programs in schools. Discover how solution-focused strategies can transform students into leaders and foster a supportive community. Learn about the challenges and triumphs of implementing mentorship at various educational levels, and how it can make a lasting difference in students' lives. This is a replay including all the slides from Cher's workshop at the ASCA 2025 conference.  Key Points: Personalizing mentorship programs to fit different educational settings. The importance of solution-focused approaches in counseling and mentorship. Real-life stories of mentorship success and the positive impact on school culture. Strategies for training and supporting student mentors effectively. Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the three-day conversation navigation challenge, and you can now join for free with this link.  ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you.  TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en  Tip Jar:  Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. https://thefocusedmindset.ck.page/products/tips-4-cher  

Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN In this episode of the Focused Mindset podcast, Cher Kretz discusses the GPS conversation navigation model, which includes gathering thoughts, planning for a preferred future, and taking action.  She goes over a handout that she gave to the in one of her workshops. She emphasizes the importance of effective communication, mentorship, and encouraging others to share their thoughts and feelings. Cher also provides practical questions to facilitate meaningful conversations and highlights the role of educators in training students to communicate effectively. Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en Tip Jar:  Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. https://thefocusedmindset.ck.page/products/tips-4-cher  

Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  In this episode of the Focused Mindset podcast, Cher discusses the importance of expecting the unexpected and adopting a solution-focused mindset. She emphasizes the need to shift from a problem-focused approach to one that seeks solutions and celebrates small wins. Cher shares personal anecdotes and practical strategies for educators and individuals to foster a positive mindset, set intentional goals, and engage in empowering conversations that promote growth and change. TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Conversation 11:06 Solution-Focused Mindset 20:30 Transformative Conversations 29:42 Setting Intentional Goals 38:37 Embracing Change and Growth Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en  Tip Jar:  Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. https://thefocusedmindset.ck.page/products/tips-4-cher  

In this engaging conversation, Cher and Dr. Ravi Iyer explore the transformative power of intentional focus, the journey to delivering a TED talk, and the importance of embracing one's unique abilities, including ADHD. Dr. Iyer shares his personal experiences of overcoming rejection, finding self-worth, and the significance of mindfulness in achieving clarity and connection. The discussion emphasizes the potential within everyone to harness their strengths and inspire others, regardless of age or past struggles. Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the three-day conversation navigation challenge, and you can now join for free with this link.  ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you.  TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en  Tip Jar:  Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. https://thefocusedmindset.ck.page/products/tips-4-cher   Takeaways Intentional focus is crucial for personal growth. Rejections can lead to unexpected opportunities. Self-worth is a journey, not a destination. ADHD can be harnessed as a superpower. Mindfulness techniques can help manage racing thoughts. The power of connection enhances clarity and understanding. Storytelling is a process of external and internal discovery. Community support is vital in personal journeys. Embracing one's unique abilities can inspire others. Life is a continuous journey of learning and growth. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Ravi Iyer 01:31 Ravi's Journey to the TED Stage 04:46 The Process of TED Talk Preparation 07:14 Community Engagement and Impact 10:37 Overcoming Imposter Syndrome 13:10 The Power of Connection and Future Talks 15:52 Harnessing ADHD as a Strength 21:02 Therapeutic Approaches to ADHD 24:18 ADHD as a Natural Predator Architecture 27:03 Overcoming Self-Doubt and Embracing Potential 30:08 The Journey to Medical School 35:35 The Power of Focus and Connection 42:02 The Journey to Self-Acceptance  

I almost didnt publish this one! Find out why.... Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN   Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en  Tip Jar:  Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. https://thefocusedmindset.ck.page/products/tips-4-cher    

Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge   In this episode, Cher discusses the importance of willpower and agency, the role of community in sustaining motivation, and the need for compassion and understanding in educational settings. She emphasizes the finite nature of willpower, the significance of choosing a hopeful attitude, and the necessity of mindfulness and clarity in our daily lives. Cher also highlights the unique challenges faced by educators and the importance of recognizing the human element in their work. Chapters 00:00 Embracing Change and Flexibility 00:59 Understanding Willpower and Agency 03:00 The Role of Community in Sustaining Willpower 05:43 Compassion and Understanding in Education 09:28 Choosing Attitudes and Managing Energy 13:37 Finding Mindfulness and Clarity 17:22 The Science of Hope and Pathways TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en Tip Jar:  Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. https://thefocusedmindset.ck.page/products/tips-4-cher

BONUS: Solution-Focused Coaching: The Game-Changing Method Every Scrum Master Needs With Ralph Miarka and Veronika Jugwirth In this BONUS episode, we dive deep into solution-focused coaching with Ralph and Veronika, co-authors of "Solution Focused Coaching For Agile Teams." This conversation explores how to shift from problem-solving to solution-building, helping Agile teams thrive through a forward-looking approach that empowers teams to find their own path to success. Understanding Solution-Focused Coaching "Solution focus, focuses on the goal itself. We are not talking about 'how', but first start with 'what we want to achieve'." Solution-focused coaching represents a fundamental shift from traditional problem-solving approaches. Rather than diving into root cause analysis and retrospectives focused on what went wrong, this methodology centers on the future and desired outcomes. It operates as a communication system that recognizes the complexity of modern work environments where simple cause-effect relationships don't always apply. In engineering, root causes make sense when dealing with predictable systems, but in complex organizational dynamics, solution-focused coaching acknowledges that we often can't identify clear root causes and instead focuses on creating a "preferred future." In this segment we refer to Solution-focused brief therapy and the Cynefin model.  The Power of Not-Knowing "Instead of suggesting solutions, we should start by asking questions. The “Not-knowing position” is about accepting this." The "not-knowing position" challenges coaches and leaders to resist the urge to immediately diagnose problems and offer solutions. When someone shares their story, they're not sharing the version we think we know. This approach transforms coaching conversations by starting with questions like "What difference would it make for you to solve this problem?" This shift toward asking questions about a positive future can even help identify advocates among those who initially resist change, creating unexpected allies in transformation efforts. Everyone as an Expert "When we help teams change by themselves, they change much faster." The principle that "everyone is an expert in their situation" fundamentally changes how coaches approach team dynamics, especially during periods of pressure or conflict. Instead of imposing external solutions, this approach involves asking teams what they already like about their current practices. For example, when observing daily standups with their natural diversity of approaches, focusing on what teams appreciate about their existing practices creates a foundation for sustainable change. Teams that discover their own path to improvement implement changes more rapidly and with greater commitment than those following prescribed solutions. The Miracle Question Technique "What would be a very small first sign that tells you that there was a small miracle during the night?" The Miracle Question emerges from real coaching conversations where clients express that "only a miracle can help." Rather than dismissing this statement, solution-focused coaches embrace the client's language to create powerful exploration opportunities. The technique involves asking teams to imagine their situation after a small miracle has occurred overnight, then identifying the first small signs they would notice. This approach helps teams explore possibilities and envision concrete steps toward their preferred future, making abstract goals tangible and achievable. Unlearning the Fix-It Mentality "Don't work by yourself in the problems of others, let them work." For Agile practitioners trained to identify and fix problems, solution-focused coaching requires a significant mindset shift. Instead of jumping into problem-solving mode, coaches must learn to hold space for solutions to emerge naturally from the team. This involves trusting that team members are experts in their own situations and developing strong questioning skills. Coaches and Scrum Masters need to clarify their own goals and resist the urge to solve problems for others, instead creating conditions where teams can work through challenges themselves. Practical Questions for Immediate Implementation "What do we want to achieve? What is our goal, and why?" Teams can immediately begin incorporating solution-focused approaches by bringing specific questions into their regular ceremonies. Key questions include exploring what the team wants to achieve and understanding the underlying purpose behind their goals. Additionally, asking "What works already?" helps teams build on existing strengths rather than focusing solely on problems. Confidence-building questions like "How confident are we?" and "What would make you more confident?" create opportunities for teams to identify specific actions that would increase their likelihood of success. About Ralph and Veronika Ralph Miarka is an Agile coach, trainer, and co-author of the book that is our topic for today's episode: Solution Focused Coaching For Agile Teams. Ralph helps teams thrive through solution-focused coaching. With a background in engineering and leadership, he bridges structure and empathy to spark real change. You can link with Ralph Miarka on LinkedIn. Veronika Jungwrith is a coach, consultant, and facilitator, Veronika blends solution-focused coaching with leadership development. Her work empowers individuals and teams to navigate complexity with clarity, meaning, and lasting impact. You can link with Veronika Jungwrith on LinkedIn.

Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day conversation training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ In this episode, Cher discusses the relational nature of hope as she reflectd on insights she gained while attending and speaking at the SF24 2025 conference.  TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en Tip Jar:  Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. https://thefocusedmindset.ck.page/products/tips-4-cher    

Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation http  In this engaging podcast episode, Cher and Marc Cordon explore the transformative journey of preparing for TEDx talks, the mindset required for significant life events, and the personal growth that comes from sharing ideas. They discuss the challenges and triumphs of public speaking, the importance of community support, and how podcasting serves as a platform for learning and growth. The conversation emphasizes the value of vulnerability and authenticity in sharing one's message, as well as the impact of TEDx on personal and professional development. In this engaging conversation, Marc Cordon and Cher explore the transformative power of declarations, the journey to achieving TEDx talks, and the importance of self-talk in shaping our experiences. They discuss how accessing inner strengths and reframing past experiences can lead to personal growth, especially for those from marginalized communities. The dialogue emphasizes the significance of authenticity and cultural identity in leadership, while also addressing the role of chatter in our lives and how we can find our own unique paths. In this conversation, Cher and Marc Cordon explore the transformative power of positive psychology, the importance of authenticity in storytelling, and the challenges of navigating self-talk and identity. They discuss the impact of societal expectations and the concept of 'chatter' in our minds, emphasizing the need to acknowledge problems while focusing on what works. The discussion also delves into the dangers of toxic positivity and the significance of the Joy Revolution in fostering genuine happiness and growth. You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the three-day conversation navigation challenge, and you can now join for free with this link.  ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you.  TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en Patreon Tip Jar:  Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. https://thefocusedmindset.ck.page/products/tips-4-cher  

Zvonimir Durcevic: The Solution-Focused Retrospective for Agile Teams, Turning Problems Into Goals Read the full Show Notes and search through the world's largest audio library on Agile and Scrum directly on the Scrum Master Toolbox Podcast website: http://bit.ly/SMTP_ShowNotes. Zvonimir defines Scrum Master success as being explicit and intentional about defining and achieving goals. He references Richard Hackmann's model of team effectiveness as a framework to evaluate whether he's helping teams become truly effective. For Zvone, success comes from creating structures that provide teams with feedback about their performance and being explicit about the team's purpose through practices like chartering. By focusing on these elements, Scrum Masters can help teams build the foundation for sustainable success. Featured Retrospective Format for the Week: Problems Are Disguised Goals This solution-focused retrospective format, inspired by the work of Ralph Miata and Veronika Jungwirth, allows teams to briefly acknowledge problems before pivoting quickly to what they want to achieve instead. Zvonimir explains that while teams need space to express challenges, the format redirects energy toward envisioning a better future through solution-focused questions. The process includes validating problems, using scale questions (0-10) to assess current status, reviewing past attempts at reaching goals, and designing small experiments to move toward desired outcomes. This approach helps teams shift from problem-orientation to goal-orientation. Self-reflection Question: How might reframing your team's persistent problems as goals change your approach to addressing them? [Scrum Master Toolbox Podcast Recommends]

Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  In this episode of the Focused Mindset podcast, Cher discusses the concept of solution-focused coaching, emphasizing the importance of empowering individuals through insightful conversations. She highlights the distinction between coaching and counseling, the role of questions in facilitating insights, and the significance of fostering hope in conversations. Cher encourages listeners to adopt a solution-focused mindset in their daily interactions, aiming to elevate conversations and promote personal growth. You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the three-day conversation navigation challenge, and you can now join for free with this link.  ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you.  TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en Tip Jar:  Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. https://thefocusedmindset.ck.page/products/tips-4-cher    

Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  In this episode, Cher discusses the importance of viewing situations from multiple perspectives, particularly in the context of Multi-Tiered Systems of Support (MTSS) in school counseling. She emphasizes the need for tailored support for individuals, whether in educational settings or family dynamics, and highlights the significance of communication and ownership in fostering positive relationships and solutions. The conversation encourages listeners to adopt a solution-focused mindset and consider how they can providecomprehensive support to those around them. Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the three-day conversation navigation challenge, and you can now join for free with this link.  ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you.  TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en  Tip Jar:  Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. https://thefocusedmindset.ck.page/products/tips-4-cher              

Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  In this episode  Cher Kretz discusses the importance of adopting solution-focused practices in school counseling and in your personal life by knowing how to deal with a problem. She emphasizes the need to shift conversations from problem talk to solution talk, introducing strategies like 'shrinking the problem' to help you manage their issues more effectively. Cher also highlights the significance of visualizing problems in the context of one's life and future opportunities, encouraging listeners to believe in their ability to overcome challenges.   takeaways Solution-focused practices lessen problem talk and expand solution talk. Meeting clients where they are helps in guiding them forward. 'Shrinking the problem' is a key strategy in solution-focused counseling. Visualizing problems as smaller can shift a client's mindset. Clients often want to solve their own problems, not have them solved for them. Problem talk can lead to solution talk when managed properly. The future is bright, and clients can take steps towards it. MTSS will be discussed in the next episode. Cher encourages listeners to explore past episodes for more insights. The podcast aims to help listeners grow and become their best selves   You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the three-day conversation navigation challenge, and you can now join for free with this link.  ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you.  TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en  Tip Jar:  Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. https://thefocusedmindset.ck.page/products/tips-4-cher You might ask: Cher how did you go from being a school counselor to a top ranked podcast host? It's because of the business support at SPI (Smart Passive Income) Here is my special affiliate link to check it out: https://www.smartpassiveincome.com/community/?via=cher-kretz  

Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  In this conversation, Cher discusses the importance of kindness and mindfulness in school counseling, emphasizing the need for individuals to access their best selves. She shares various activities designed to help students identify their personal strengths and attributes, and how these can be leveraged to foster kindness in daily interactions. The discussion highlights the transformative power of kindness and the role of self-reflection in personal growth.   GET MY FREE GIFT HERE: You can get access to the slide deck: Your BEST SELF handprint activity: Solution Focused Kindness. Let my know how it helps your pratice grow!  takeaways Kindness is a powerful tool in personal development. Mindfulness activities can help students identify their strengths. Accessing your best self is crucial for positive interactions. Everyone has moments of kindness, even if hidden. Self-reflection can lead to better outcomes in relationships. Activities like hand tracing can help students own their attributes. Random acts of kindness can change perspectives. Positive energy is contagious and can uplift others. Identifying personal qualities is essential for self-awareness. Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the three-day conversation navigation challenge, and you can now join for free with this link.  ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you.  TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en Tip Jar:  Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. https://thefocusedmindset.ck.page/products/tips-4-cher  

Trans rights are human rights. Let's help people feel safe by creating spaces for them where they can feel safe. Be a safe place for people to be who they are as long as they are not interfering with your life. And number two, call out others who are promoting hatred and/or inciting violence. Text me at 972-426-2640 so we can stay connected!Support me on Patreon!Twitter: @elliottspeaksInstagram: @elliottspeaks

Embracing yourself means you get to become a version of you that YOU like, that YOU respect, and that YOU benefit from. Don't let any naysayers discourage you from living authentically. Let the world adjust to YOU. Text me at 972-426-2640 so we can stay connected!Support me on Patreon!Twitter: @elliottspeaksInstagram: @elliottspeaks

Do you spend more time thinking about your binge eating and why you do it or more time trying to stop your binge eating? Both are important. But, what's also important is giving both equal time. If you're spending too much time on one and not the other you're missing something that you'll need to help you to stop binge eating.   In this episode, I'm explaining why it's important to find a balance between thinking about the problem and thinking about a solution for the problem. Listen in to find out why so you can make more progress and finally stop the binge eating.   Interested in working with me? Go to http://www.coachkir.com/group to get all the information you need!   Find show notes and more information at https://coachkir.com/338

Everything is temporary, so be sure to cherish those relationships and moments. You never know when it will be the last time you get to experience something that might seem like a normal, everyday thing. Text me at 972-426-2640 so we can stay connected!Support me on Patreon!Twitter: @elliottspeaksInstagram: @elliottspeaks

Have you watched Cher's TED? https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=yjKF4C6dZ39PooTX  In this episode of the Focused Mindset podcast, Cher discusses the importance of staying on course despite distractions and setbacks. She emphasizes the need to start again when faced with challenges and introduces her GPS Conversation Navigation System as a tool for maintaining focus in conversations. Cher shares personal anecdotes and practical advice on how to empower oneself and others through solution-focused conversations, ultimately fostering growth and progress. Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the three-day conversation navigation challenge, and you can now join for free with this link.  ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you.  TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/    Takeaways: -Staying focused requires intentional effort and self-reflection.  -It's essential to recognize when we give up too soon on our goals. -Starting again is a powerful tool for overcoming setbacks. -We often have control over our daily actions and choices. -Self-talk can spiral negatively; it's important to manage our thoughts. -Fear can hinder progress, but it also serves a protective purpose. -Using the GPS conversation navigation system in conversations can lead to better outcomes. -Asking the right questions can empower others to find their own solutions. -Recognizing personal growth is crucial for motivation and progress. -Hope is a vital component in conversations and personal development.

If the 5 Stages of Grief helps you understand how you process grief, that's great! But don't feel like you're grieving the wrong way if you don't experience grief in 5 stages like the model. Grief is an individualized process that is unique to everyone.  Text me at 972-426-2640 so we can stay connected!Support me on Patreon!Twitter: @elliottspeaksInstagram: @elliottspeaks

In this engaging conversation, Cher and Lori Woodley-Langendorff discuss All It Takes, an organization dedicated to empowering youth and those who serve them through experiential learning and social emotional skills. They explore the importance of understanding barriers in parenting, the role of adult behavior, and the concept of taking 'two steps further' in personal growth. The discussion emphasizes compassion and the significance of small steps in achieving larger goals, ultimately highlighting the journey of self-discovery and the importance of communication in relationships.  Takeaways: Experiential learning is crucial for personal growth. Understanding barriers is essential in parenting. Adult behavior impacts children's actions significantly. Taking two steps further can lead to personal growth. Empathy is a noun, while compassion is a verb.  We have 18 years to prepare our children for life. Small steps can lead to significant outcomes. Building trust and agency is vital for youth development. Communication is key in fostering understanding and relationships. learn more at https://www.allittakes.org/ Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the three-day conversation navigation challenge, and you can now join for free with this link.  ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you.  TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en Tip Jar:  Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. https://thefocusedmindset.ck.page/products/tips-4-cher  

Watch Tiffany Edith's TEDx: Hearing The Lable Bell with this link: https://youtu.be/SGsXL3gmCdg?si=pq_2R_SxQpdoHf4S   In this engaging conversation, Cher and Tiffany Edith explore the profound impact of labels on identity and personal growth. Tiffany shares her journey from being a TEDx coach to a speaker, emphasizing the importance of self-reflection and emotional awareness. They discuss the challenges of gender norms, the significance of community support, and the power of words in shaping our perceptions. The conversation highlights the necessity of overcoming limiting beliefs and embracing one's story as a means to inspire others.   takeaways The journey of self-reflection is crucial for personal growth. Labels can significantly impact our identity and self-perception. Challenging societal norms can lead to greater self-awareness. Emotional awareness is key to understanding our reactions. Community support plays a vital role in overcoming challenges. It's important to focus on the emotions behind our labels. TEDx provides a platform for sharing powerful messages. Overcoming limiting beliefs is essential for achieving goals. Personal stories can inspire and connect with others. We are all navigating the same storm, albeit in different boats. Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en  Tip Jar:  Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. https://thefocusedmindset.ck.page/products/tips-4-cher  

In this live podcast, Cher shares her journey of stepping out of her comfort zone to connect with her audience in a new way. She discusses the importance of setting intentions, exploring solution-focused questions, and fostering meaningful conversations. Cher emphasizes the power of curiosity and transformation, encouraging listeners to reflect on their hopes and aspirations as they navigate the holiday season and beyond. The episode concludes with a celebration of achievements and an invitation to engage with her work further. Setting intentions can help reduce stress during busy times. Solution-focused questions can guide personal reflection. Curiosity can lead to deeper connections with others. Transformation often requires intentionality and preparation. Asking meaningful questions can enhance conversations. Hope is essential for personal growth and resilience. Cher shares a personal story about connecting with a student. The importance of being present in conversations is highlighted. Cher encourages listeners to embrace their own journeys.   Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the three-day conversation navigation challenge, and you can now join for free with this link.  ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you.  TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en Tip Jar:  Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. https://thefocusedmindset.ck.page/products/tips-4-cher  

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