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In this compelling sermon, Pastor Karl dives into 1 Timothy Chapter 2, continuing his verse-by-verse journey through the Bible. He emphasizes the importance of sound doctrine in guiding the church and individual Christians. Pastor Karl unpacks the big idea that God's ordering is not about oppression but orchestration, designed for our protection and flourishing. He explores Paul's instructions to the church, highlighting the roles of grace, prayer, and devotion in the life of a Christ-follower. Addressing the contested passages on gender roles, Pastor Karl grounds his teaching in Genesis, explaining God's design for maleness and femaleness within the family and church. With clarity and conviction, he calls the church to rest under Scripture, embrace biblical doctrine, and live out God's complementary design as a testimony to the world. This episode challenges listeners to align with God's order, fostering unity and purpose in the church.Watch all our sermons on our YouTube channel "Flipside Christian Church"Join us in person 9:00am & 10:30am every Sunday morning.37193 Ave 12 #3h, Madera, CA 93636For more visit us at flipside.churchFor more podcasts visit flipsidepodcasts.transistor.fm
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In this episode of the Family Biz Show, host Michael Palumbos is joined by executive coach and author Cathy Carroll to explore the emotional and strategic tensions unique to leading a family-owned business. Drawing on personal experience and her new book Hug of War: How to Lead a Family Business with Both Love and Logic, Cathy reveals how families can navigate leadership challenges, intergenerational conflict, and complex relationship dynamics with clarity and compassion. The conversation dives deep into the concept of polarities—opposing truths that both carry value—and how recognizing them can transform everything from governance decisions to estate planning. Cathy and Michael discuss critical tensions like fairness vs. equality, tradition vs. innovation, structure vs. flexibility, and revealing vs. concealing wealth. Through real-life stories, including Cathy's own journey of working with her father, they unpack how forgiveness, intentional leadership development, and healthy conflict can strengthen families and businesses alike. Takeaways Family businesses must manage emotional and operational polarities—there is rarely one right answer. Governance should be structured, but flexible enough to evolve with the family's needs. Fairness doesn't always mean equality—especially when it comes to compensation and ownership. Healthy task conflict can drive innovation, while relationship conflict can destroy trust. Estate planning requires balancing transparency with timing and maturity. Power dynamics, especially between generations, must be managed with awareness and intention. Forgiveness is a leadership tool—starting with yourself and extending to family members. Preparing next-generation leaders requires more than a title—it requires mentorship, coaching, and clarity. Chapters: 00:00 – Welcome & Guest Introduction 01:25 – Cathy Carroll's Family Business Background 02:20 – The Challenges of Working for Her Father 06:20 – What “Hug of War” Means in Family Business 08:12 – The Concept of Polarities: Business vs. Family Mindset 10:15 – Domain Crossover Power: Business vs. Family Influence 14:45 – Missed Conversations and End-of-Life Regrets 19:50 – Succession Planning: Equal vs. Equitable 21:10 – Estate Planning: Reveal vs. Conceal 23:55 – Cathy's Polarity Mapping Tool Explained 28:12 – Independence vs. Interdependence in Family Roles 32:54 – Balancing Tradition and Innovation 35:07 – In-Laws and Inclusion in Governance 39:24 – The Need for Flexible Governance 42:36 – The Role of Forgiveness in Family Business 44:51 – Cathy's Journey to Self-Compassion and Understanding 47:01 – How to Recognize When You're in a Polarity, Not a Problem 50:00 – Tools for Navigating Difficult Conversations 52:20 – Cathy's Final Advice for Family Business Leaders
In this episode of The Addicted Mind Plus, Duane and Eric dive deep into the unspoken roles that families often fall into, especially when dealing with addiction. They explore how these roles—like the hero, caretaker, scapegoat, mascot, and lost child—can perpetuate dysfunction and hinder recovery. By understanding and identifying these roles, you can begin to break free from the cycles that keep you stuck. Tune in to learn practical steps for recognizing these dynamics, fostering open communication, and setting boundaries that support your journey toward recovery and authentic living. Download: UNMASKING FAMILY ROLES WORKSHEET Join Our Deep Dive, where we discuss this episode in depth. Register Here: https://theaddictedmind.com/deepdive Click Here to Join the TAM + Community Waitlist. Get the support you need. Key Topics Understanding common family roles in addiction The impact of these roles on personal well-being Historical context and development of family therapy Practical steps for changing dysfunctional family dynamics Importance of self-care and therapeutic support Timestamp [00:01:00] - Introduction to the episode and topic [00:02:16] - Explanation of family roles and their impact [00:05:23] - Historical background of family therapy and roles [00:11:00] - Detailed discussion of each family role [00:20:11] - Practical steps for identifying and changing roles [00:23:00] - Importance of self-care and boundary setting [00:24:03] - Information about additional resources and deep dives Follow and Review: We'd love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast. Supporting Resources: If you live in California and are looking for counseling or therapy please check out Novus Mindful Life Counseling and Recovery Center NovusMindfulLife.com We want to hear from you. Leave us a message or ask us a question: https://www.speakpipe.com/addictedmind Disclaimer Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Welcome back, friends! In this episode of the Superlatively Yes Podcast, Jennifer and I discuss various topics ranging from awards and personal achievements to fashion insights and conspiracy theories. We get tickled by our personal experiences with award-winning and losing, discuss a trending TikTok personality, and talk about what we are currently watching, including shows like Severance. Also, Jen tells me some very disappointing news about the Publishers Clearing House. We also explore the significance of awards and recognition in both personal and professional contexts. We reflect on our own achievements, the prestige of major awards like the Nobel Peace Prize and the Pulitzer Prize, and the journey of creativity in writing. Of course, we give made-up awards to one another for home management and finding lost items. Most importantly, we discuss the importance of acknowledging personal achievements, embracing flaws, and letting go of unnecessary competition. The conversation also touches on the significance of remembering others, the challenges of consumer culture, and the journey of personal growth and resilience. Thanks so much for hanging out with us. We think YOU deserve an AWARD! Tanya Superlatively Yes website Superlatively Yes on Patreon Superlatively Yes Instagram Page Superlatively Yes Facebook Page Tanya Smith on Insta ReframeYourWorld with Jen on Insta Links we mentioned in today's episode: Yvonne LaFleur on TikTok Severance on AppleTV Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Awards and Recognition 02:48 Fashion Insights and TikTok Trends 05:33 Exploring Conspiracy Theories 08:24 Diving into TV Shows and Cultural Commentary 11:07 Navigating Travel and Technology 13:46 The Myth of Publishers Clearing House 16:44 Personal Stories of Awards and Achievements 19:36 The Value of Awards and Recognition 22:44 Reflecting on Personal Achievements 23:08 The Prestige of Major Awards 25:47 The Journey of Writing and Creativity 27:36 The World of Entertainment Awards 29:26 Celebrating Everyday Achievements 32:07 The Importance of Family Roles 35:58 The Art of Home Management 39:35 The Search for Lost Items 40:36 Navigating Everyday Life with Humor 42:02 Celebrating Home and Personal Achievements 42:43 The Art of Forgetfulness and Daily Struggles 43:23 Skincare Adventures and Self-Care Rituals 44:04 Acknowledging Our Flaws and Learning from Mistakes 45:02 Letting Go of Unnecessary Competitions 45:59 Embracing the Absurdity of Life 48:06 The Importance of Remembering and Acknowledging Others 50:32 The Challenge of Returning Items and Consumer Culture 51:54 Going Down the Rabbit Hole of Information 53:11 Celebrating Personal Growth and Resilience 55:40 Reflecting on Achievements and Learning Opportunities 57:39 Radical Surrender and Embracing Life's Journey 01:00:22 The Journey of Parenting 01:07:00 Trusting God Through Life's Waters
In this episode of Bandwidth, Dr. Gabe delves into transformative life hacks for those over 30, focusing on family, relationships, money, and faith. The discussion covers the significance of prioritizing time, setting boundaries, engaging in tough conversations, and the importance of compatibility and continuous personal growth. Tune in for insights on financial wisdom and the journey of walking with God, emphasizing the essence of consistency over intensity.Need relationship advice? Text Dr. Gabe. Text bandwidth to 94000 to stay up-to-date on all things Bandwidth.Gabriel Powell MerchUse the code BAND10 for 10% off.WebsiteSupport the Bandwidth PodcastCash App $bandwidthpodcastConnect with Bandwidth Facebook | Instagram | TikTok | Twitter Connect with Dr. GabeInstagram | YouTube | WebsiteIf you are interested in advertising on this podcast or having Dr. Gabe as a guest on your Podcast, Radio Show, or TV Show, reach out to info@gabrielpowell.co
In this episode, Alicia is tackling one of the most frustrating issues many stepmoms face: what to do when your partner isn't stepping up with their kids or your "ours baby." It's hard when you feel like you're doing it all on your own, especially when your partner's involvement with their stepkids or shared children is lacking.First, Alicia dives into the common reasons why dads may hold back when it comes to stepping up for their stepkids. From co-parenting guilt to emotional distance, she discusses the underlying reasons and how it affects the entire family dynamic. You'll get practical advice on how to cope with these challenges, including how to open up conversations with your partner and set clear expectations to ensure you're both on the same page.Next, Alicia shifts the focus to the emotional struggle dads might experience when it comes to bonding with the "ours baby." From guilt over their other kids to fears about disrupting the family dynamic, we'll break down why dads might hold back and offer actionable steps to help you both connect with your newborn while ensuring the other kids feel supported too.This episode is all about empowering you to cope with these struggles, strengthen your relationship, and ultimately find peace in your family dynamic. If you're tired of feeling like you're carrying the weight on your own, this episode is for you!Listen now and get the strategies you need to feel more supported and connected with your partner and kids. And don't forget to join the waitlist for Resentment to Relief: A Stepmom's Guide to Letting Go at aliciakrasko.com/relief.Want a specific topic covered? Let me know here.After you listen to this, tag me on Instagram @aliciakrasko and let me know what you think!Get all the FREE RESOURCES here.Want to learn more about The Stepmom Side community? Here's where you get all the info. Looking forward to connecting with you on the inside.All things Alicia visit www.aliciakrasko.comGet on the list, get behind the scene info on Stepmom life, and tips delivered to your inbox.
Episode 110: Year C – Feast of the Holy Family, Year C In this episode, we focus on a four details in the readings for this upcoming Feast of the Holy Family, Year C that are relevant for apologetical and theological discussions. The first detail comes from the first reading, taken from Sirach 3:2-6, 12-14, and the related apologetical topic is whether we Christians can still incur a debt of temporal punishment after justification. The second and third details come from the second reading, taken from Colossians 3:12-21, and the related topics are the headship of the husb…
Episode 110: Year C – Feast of the Holy Family, Year C In this episode, we focus on a four details in the readings for this upcoming Feast of the Holy Family, Year C that are relevant for apologetical and theological discussions. The first detail comes from the first reading, taken from Sirach 3:2-6, 12-14, […]
In this episode, Alicia dives into the all-too-common feeling of being a third wheel in your own family as a stepmom. From understanding the root causes to actionable steps and mindset shifts, this episode is packed with insights to help you reclaim your seat at the family table.What You'll Learn:Why feeling like an outsider happens and what it means.How to address these feelings with your partner and kids.Actionable strategies to build connection and confidence.The mindset shift that can transform your stepmom experience.Resources Mentioned:Define Your Stepmom Role4 Steps for Healthy BoundariesWant a specific topic covered? Let me know here.After you listen to this, tag me on Instagram @aliciakrasko and let me know what you think!Get all the FREE RESOURCES here.Want to learn more about The Stepmom Side community? Here's where you get all the info. Looking forward to connecting with you on the inside.All things Alicia visit www.aliciakrasko.comGet on the list, get behind the scene info on Stepmom life, and tips delivered to your inbox.
Join Ashley and the guests of the AND/BOTH podcast in the brand-new AND/BOTH community! You will get monthly access to the community slack channel, early access to events, and discounted event rates! Today we're joined by Lori Sugarman, a former marketing executive turned passionate advocate for the value of unpaid labor in the home. Lori shares her transformative journey from a high-level corporate career to a devoted stay-at-home role, only to discover how society systematically undervalues the invisible work of care and home management. Lori reframes the narrative around this labor and its importance to family, community, and overall societal wellness. This episode is packed with thought-provoking moments, actionable ideas, and a call to recognize the inherent worth of every contribution made in and outside the home. In this episode, we discuss:Lori's journey from marketing executive to stay-at-home mom and community leaderThe pivotal moment when she was denied disability insurance for being “just a housewife” and how it ignited her mission to advocate for the value of unpaid laborThe societal devaluation of caregiving and domestic work and how it reflects in our systems, from insurance policies to GDP calculationsHow families can reframe “chores” and involve kids in a meaningful way to foster connection and lifelong skillsThe role of communication and collaboration in achieving equity in the home and breaking generational cycles of inequityLori's book, aimed at sparking family conversations about shared responsibility and the value of care workConnect with Lori:Website: Our Home, Our PrideLaurie's Book: Our Home: The Love, Work, and Heart of Family (Amazon link-also available wherever books are sold! This is not an affiliate link)Connect with Ashley:And/Both website: https://andbothpodcast.comAnd/Both Instagram: @andboth_podcastWebsite: https://dovetaildesigns.coSupport AND/BOTH: Help us offset production costs while we're growingDovetail® Schedule Academy: https://dovetaildesigns.co/dovetail-schedule-academyCaregiver by Dovetail® App: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/dovetail-co/id6449788093Social:Instagram: @dovetaildesigns.coTikTok: @dovetaildesigns.coFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/dovetaildesigns.coLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ashleyblackington/
In this episode we discuss the roles of men and women and how they are to play out together in the home, in ministry, and in life. #family #world #culture #gospel #jesus #church #bible
Scapegoat Child vs Golden Child: How These Toxic Family Roles Impact Adulthood.In this episode I dive deep into the family roles of the scapegoat child and the golden child—two powerful, often toxic dynamics that can shape a person's life well into adulthood. If you grew up feeling like the "black sheep" of the family, constantly blamed or criticised, or if you were always the “favoured” one, given praise and special treatment, you may have lived these roles. I look at how these dynamics affect relationships, career paths, self-esteem, and overall mental well-being as an adult.I break down how the narcissistic parent or dysfunctional family system uses these roles to create control, tension, and division among siblings. I unpack the psychological impact of these roles, whether you identify with the scapegoat child, the golden child, or somewhere in between.To book a zoom counselling session with me please visit my website below www.brighteroutlooknarcissisticabusecounselling.com.au To order your copy of my best-selling book Fake Love - Understanding and healing from Narcissistic Abuse, please visit the link below .https://linktr.ee/novagibsonSend us a textThankyou so much for listening! Please remember the information you hear in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy, is general information, and strictly the opinions of the host based on her years of experience working with thousands of victims of narcissistic abuse. If you would like to make an appointment for individual counselling with me , please visit my website at ,Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Abuse Counselling Service , or email me at nova.pollard123gmail.comTo order a copy of my book - Fake love please click Here or simply go directly to AmazonI looove creating these episodes, but they do take time. If you'd like to support me to continue creating more podcast episodes, then please click here to .Buy me a coffee
Stephanie Robilio shares insight into family dynamics, including family roles, and how unresovled trauma can lead to family drama cycles and unhealthy patterns. Stephanie Robilio discusses how important it is for each individual to do their inner work and practice accountability. She also shares the importance of boundaries and highlights how important it is to choose inner peace. To learn more about Stephanie, visit www.stephanierobilio.com and follow her on Instagram @stephanierobilio, Facebook @stephanierobilio, and subscribe to her on YouTube Stephanie Robilio. Find Stephanie's books on Amazon: Unpack Your Bags, WellNow, Mindful Makeover, Painted Soul, and Bonafide Spirit.
When Chiquis' mother – Mexican American banda star Jenni Rivera – died in a plane crash in 2012, Chiquis, then 27, became the matriarch of her family and stepped up as the eldest daughter to take care of her four siblings. It's been over a decade since her mother's death and Chiquis is a banda star in her own right. Chiquis has won the Latin Grammy for Best Banda Album twice and is known for infusing traditional regional Mexican music with the American genres she grew up with in the Los Angeles area. Chiquis joins the Bright Side to chat about living life on camera in her new docuseries ‘Chiquis sin filtro,' how being a big sister became a crucial part of her life and her latest ‘Diamantes' tour.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
We're launching a new teaching series this week called Blueprints: Building Families by God's Design. Over the next several weeks, we are going to look at God's design and purpose for the family, the power of prayer, investing in a healthy marriage, developing discipline with your kids, instilling a positive self-esteem in your family, how to counter the culture we live in, principles for healthy communication, encountering challenges, and leaving a lasting legacy. In part one of the sermon series, we are going to press into God's design for family, the foundation on which we are to build our families. Understanding that the structure that is built will not look the same for all of us, but the foundation must be solid and established according to God's design.
In this episode of The Addicted Mind Plus, Duane and Eric dive deep into the unspoken roles that families often fall into, especially when dealing with addiction. They explore how these roles—like the hero, caretaker, scapegoat, mascot, and lost child—can perpetuate dysfunction and hinder recovery. By understanding and identifying these roles, you can begin to break free from the cycles that keep you stuck. Tune in to learn practical steps for recognizing these dynamics, fostering open communication, and setting boundaries that support your journey toward recovery and authentic living. Download: UNMASKING FAMILY ROLES WORKSHEET Join Our Deep Dive, where we discuss this episode in depth. Register Here: https://theaddictedmind.com/deepdive Click Here to Join the TAM + Community Waitlist. Get the support you need. Key Topics Understanding common family roles in addiction The impact of these roles on personal well-being Historical context and development of family therapy Practical steps for changing dysfunctional family dynamics Importance of self-care and therapeutic support Follow and Review: We'd love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast. Supporting Resources: If you live in California and are looking for counseling or therapy please check out Novus Mindful Life Counseling and Recovery Center NovusMindfulLife.com We want to hear from you. Leave us a message or ask us a question: https://www.speakpipe.com/addictedmind Disclaimer Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tune in for Part 2 on biblical family roles! Discover the differences between egalitarianism and complementarianism as we delve into Ephesians 5 and Colossians 3. Gain insights on how these perspectives influence family dynamics in today's world.
In this insightful podcast episode, we delve into the timeless wisdom of Ephesians 5 and Colossians 3, exploring the distinctive roles and responsibilities outlined for men, women, and children within the context of a biblical family structure.
Worshiping and trusting, may we stay planted in God as we go through our days with His guidance.
When it comes to addiction, it's important to remember that it is a family disease. When one person in the family struggles with addiction, it impacts everyone - the turmoil, pain, and confusion it brings ripple through every relationship, leaving no parent, sibling, or spouse unmarked. There is good news, however - Families can and do heal together. If you have a loved one who is struggling with addiction, you may find yourself asking the question, “How can I navigate this tumultuous journey without falling into the trap of enabling my loved one?” The importance of family involvement in the recovery process cannot be overstated. When families commit to healing together, they can break the cycles of pain and rebuild trust and connection. In this podcast takeover, Julie DeNofa, President of Positive Recovery Centers, and Colleen Hargrove, LCDC, Outpatient Manager at PRC—Round Rock, discuss the various family roles in addiction and how to support your loved ones on their journey to recovery. Be sure to tune in as Julie and Colleen explore the delicate balance between providing support for recovery and enabling addiction, offering practical tips and real-life examples of families who have successfully navigated this path. Topics Discussed: Why family involvement is a vital part of addiction treatment Setting healthy boundaries for yourself while instilling hope for others Why addressing the root causes is more effective than fixing the symptoms Learning how to talk to your kids about addiction and recovery The difference between enabling and supporting your loved ones Connect with us on Social: IG: https://www.instagram.com/positiverecoverymd/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/positiverecoverymd/ FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/577870242872032 TT: https://www.tiktok.com/@positiverecoverycenter YT: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4JcDF1gjlYch4V4iBbCgZg Additional Links: Want to receive the daily Positive Intervention from Dr. Powers' Positive Recovery Daily Guide? Subscribe here! https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/su/OtK48nO/dailypositiverecovery. About Positive Recovery Centers: Positive Recovery Centers is a strengths-based addiction treatment program with locations across Texas. We offer a full continuum of care, from medical detox to sober living, all supported by an ever-growing alumni community network. Our evidence-based curriculum blends the best of the old with the new, supporting our mission: Recovery is best pursued when meaningful, intentional, positive habits are formed through empowerment and resilience instead of negativity and shame. If you or someone you know needs addiction treatment, please visit the website, or call the number below to schedule an assessment. We are here to help! Call: 877-476-2743 Address: 902 West Alabama Street, Houston, Texas 77006 Website: https://positiverecovery.com Services: https://positiverecovery.com/services/ FAQ: https://positiverecovery.com/faq/
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One of the things that is common to all people in our day and time is the desire to have a solid family, to build an unshakable family. But when we look across our culture, it seems like marriage and family is on shaky ground. Peter is going to address the family by talking about marriage. And specifically, he talks about The Roles, The Responsibilities, and The Results.
In this episode, Nick Jones opens up about his challenging upbringing and how he found solace in bodybuilding and meditation. He shares his journey from troubled teenager to successful bodybuilder and entrepreneur. Nick emphasises the importance of spirituality and self-discovery in shaping his life. He also discusses the balance between pursuing his goals and being present for his family. Nick provides valuable insights into fatherhood, relationships, and the importance of surrounding oneself with the right people.Podcast Timestamps:00:00 Introducing Nick Jones: Beyond the Bodybuilder00:37 The Making of Nick Jones: A Journey from Struggle to Enlightenment02:57 Embracing Spirituality and Self-Discovery09:21 The Transformative Power of Bodybuilding10:14 Navigating Fatherhood and Instilling Values37:56 Raising Kids in Today's World: Challenges and Strategies43:08 The Role of a Partner in Personal Growth45:15 Reflecting on Personal Standards and Family Influence46:33 The Impact of Family Roles and Bodybuilding on Personal Growth47:49 Navigating Relationship Dynamics and Maintaining Connection50:40 Embracing Challenges and Cultivating Gratitude in Life55:39 Overcoming Chronic Fatigue and Learning from Life's Hardships01:03:23 Exploring Spiritual Growth and the Power of Self-Acceptance01:15:51 Advice for Navigating Dark Times and Cultivating a Positive Mindset01:27:33 Closing Thoughts on Gratitude and Personal ReflectionFollow Nick: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nickjonesworldchampion/FOLLOW ► Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thebetarproject/Sponsors: Betar Media: https://www.instagram.com/betarmedia/Support the Show.Connect with Nick:Instagram TikTok YouTube
In todays thought-provoking episode, we delve into the essence of manhood and what it truly means to be a man in today's society: self-discovery, exploring personal awareness, roles as partners, and the significance of family dynamics. Get ready for an discussion that embraces the multifaceted nature of being a man. GET IN TOUCH: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chrisdufey/ YouTube: http://chrisdufey.com/youtube Email: https://www.chrisdufey.com/contact-me WHENER YOU'RE READY… HERE ARE THE 3 BEST WAY I CAN HELP YOU #1 - Get Free Access To “The Entrepreneurs Ultimate Reading List” These are the “must read” books for entrepreneurs to achieve success and fulfilment — Click Here https://www.chrisdufey.com/list #2 - Send me a DM on Instagram to say Hey or ask me a question.It's the easiest way for me to actually help you. — Click Here https://www.instagram.com/chrisdufey/ #3 - Join my weekly VIP List (for FREE)Discover what I'm doing to build my businesses and actually enjoy life at the same time. — Click Here https://chrisdufey.com/vip - Chris P.S. Like this show?Leave me a review (even one sentence helps!) If you leave your IG handle I can thank you personally.
Pastor Galen rounds out or Family Fortress series tackling a set of difficult issues. The roles of men and women in the family, and in the church. He illuminates these principles with a few comparisons that may surprise you.
Edla Prevette is a mental health counselor who cared for both of her parents. Edla's professional and personal care experiences are being poured into a program she has developed for adult children of aging parents. In this episode, Edla shares ways in which you can increase cooperation and decrease conflict, ideas for a caregiver's to find their safe place, tips for handling different personality temperaments, and how to incorporate ‘exercise snacks' into your day. Show notes with product and resource links: https://bit.ly/HHCPod175 Receive the podcast in your email here: http://bit.ly/2G4qvBv Order a copy of Elizabeth's book Just for You: a Daily Self Care Journal: http://bit.ly/HHCjournal For podcast sponsorship opportunities contact Elizabeth: https://happyhealthycaregiver.com/contact-us/ The Happy Healthy Caregiver podcast is part of the Whole Care Network. Rate and Review the podcast: https://bit.ly/HHCPODREVIEW
Edla Prevette is a mental health counselor who cared for both of her parents. Edla's professional and personal care experiences are being poured into a program she has developed for adult children of aging parents. In this episode, Edla shares ways in which you can increase cooperation and decrease conflict, ideas for a caregiver's to find their safe place, tips for handling different personality temperaments, and how to incorporate ‘exercise snacks' into your day. Show notes with product and resource links: https://bit.ly/HHCPod175 Receive the podcast in your email here: http://bit.ly/2G4qvBv Order a copy of Elizabeth's book Just for You: a Daily Self Care Journal: http://bit.ly/HHCjournal For podcast sponsorship opportunities contact Elizabeth: https://happyhealthycaregiver.com/contact-us/ The Happy Healthy Caregiver podcast is part of the Whole Care Network. Rate and Review the podcast: https://bit.ly/HHCPODREVIEW
Tony Overbay, LMFT, dives into the hidden dynamics and assigned roles within dysfunctional and narcissistic family systems. The podcast outlines the roles of the Enabler, the Hero, the Scapegoat, the Lost Child, and the Mascot, all of whom are developed as coping mechanisms to manage family stress and chaos. Each role is reviewed in depth, including the implications for the individual's development, identity, and potential for later life challenges and relationships. The episode also emphasizes the importance of recognizing these roles, seeking therapeutic support, and redefining one's identity beyond these imposed familial expectations. 00:00 Introduction and Riddle 01:07 Understanding the Role You Play 01:15 Welcome to Episode 106: Uncovering Narcissistic Family Dynamics 01:42 The Concept of a Perfect Family 04:08 The Impact of Dysfunctional Families on Children 11:49 The Role of the Enabler in Dysfunctional Families 12:13 Denise's Story: A Case Study 15:22 Understanding Family Roles and Dynamics 16:19 The Enabler: A Deep Dive 21:07 The Concept of an Old Soul in Psychology 22:01 The Bittersweet Compliment: Acknowledging Resilience and Sacrifice 22:21 The Hero: The Lead Actor in a Dysfunctional Family 23:50 The Golden Child: The Hero's Struggle 27:01 The Scapegoat: The Misunderstood Hero 29:58 The Lost Child: The Unseen and Unheard 36:31 The Mascot: The Family's Beacon of Light and Laughter 39:02 Reflections: Understanding the Complex Roles in Dysfunctional Families 43:24 The Journey Towards Healing and Change 44:48 Conclusion: Transcending the Roles and Writing Your Own Narrative Find all the latest links to podcasts, courses, Tony's newsletter, and more at https://linktr.ee/virtualcouch And follow Tony on the Virtual Couch YouTube channel for a sneak preview of his upcoming podcast "Murder on the Couch," where True Crime meets therapy, co-hosted with his daughter Sydney. You can watch a pre-release clip here https://youtu.be/-RkRq8SrQy0 Subscribe to Tony's latest podcast, "Waking Up to Narcissism Q&A - Premium Podcast," on the Apple Podcast App. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/waking-up-to-narcissism-q-a/id1667287384 Go to http://tonyoverbay.com/workshop to sign up for Tony's "Magnetize Your Marriage" virtual workshop. The cost is only $19, and you'll learn the top 3 things you can do NOW to create a Magnetic Marriage. You can learn more about Tony's pornography recovery program, The Path Back, by visiting http://pathbackrecovery.com And visit http://tonyoverbay.com and sign up to receive updates on upcoming programs and podcasts. Tony mentioned a product that he used to take out all of the "uh's" and "um's" that, in his words, "must be created by wizards and magic!" because it's that good! To learn more about Descript, click here https://descript.com?lmref=bSWcEQ
In part 2 of our conversation about family roles, Elliott and I share specific roles we may play when interacting with our family of origin—and others in our lives! Are you the “family hero?” The black sheep? The lost child? Join us to determine your role and how to rewrite the script should you feel your role constrains you or proves unhealthy for your adult growth and development. Sponsor The Wellness Company Website: https://www.twc.health/lovelife Code: LOVELIFE for 15% off your order! Dr. Karin & Pastor Elliott Anderson Website: http://loveandlifemedia.com/ Empowered Dating Playbook: smarturl.it/EmpoweredDatingBook Instagram: @dr.karin | @pastorelliottanderson --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/love-and-life-media/message
Whether we're aware of it or not, we each play various roles within our families. And, even if we've grown and changed, we often step right back into our role during family gatherings! Do you know your family role? Do you understand how it impacts you during the holidays and throughout the year? Some of us have a sense of our family role. Maybe you're the instigator or the peacemaker. The caretaker or the rebel. The leader or the clown. But oftentimes we play a role and we're not even aware we're doing so! Join Elliott and me for part 1 of our conversation about family roles. As we identify our roles, we gain deeper understanding of ourselves and our family's dynamics. Plus, learn how to alter your role if you've grown out of it and it doesn't fit you anymore! Sponsor The Wellness Company Website: https://www.twc.health/lovelife Code: LOVELIFE for 15% off your order! Dr. Karin & Pastor Elliott Anderson Website: http://loveandlifemedia.com/ Empowered Dating Playbook: smarturl.it/EmpoweredDatingBook Instagram: @dr.karin | @pastorelliottanderson --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/love-and-life-media/message
Whether you're trying to manage a career and care for a medically complex child, or you've had to suspend your career for the sake of your family, none of us can escape the impact of this rare and medically complex life. In Ep 135 of The Rare Life, Amanda Griffith-Atkins and I share responses from listeners about the ways their careers have been impacted by having medically complex children, and all of the feelings that come up for us around that. It's certainly not as simple as “Well, I got to keep working, and that's great,” or “I had to quit, and I'm sad.” There are serious emotional and mental ramifications to both, from resentment to grief to gratitude and everything in between. This episode isn't so much about career advice as it is to offer you some solidarity and a little virtual hug, as we all try to untangle the tricky emotions around the way our children and careers have intersected. Links: Listen to all of my previous episodes with Amanda: Ep 132: When Self-Care Gives Us the Swears, Ep 131: Chronic Stress, Ep 130: Fear of Child Loss, Ep 99: Family Planning, & Ep 81: Health Anxiety. Follow Amanda Griffith-Atkins on Instagram amanda.griffith.atkins. Follow us on Instagram @the_rare_life! Donate to the podcast or Contact me about sponsoring an episode. Fill out our contact form to get a reminder about upcoming discussion meetings and the Skype link to join! Follow the Facebook page. Join the Facebook group Parents of Children with Rare Conditions. Access the transcript on the website here. And if you love this podcast, please leave us a rating or review in your favorite podcast app!
Show notes: https://www.tamihackbarth.com/blog/episode-192 In this week's podcast, I am happy to introduce you to the why behind the Fair Play Method. It isn't just splitting up domestic labor more equitably so we create a more balanced workload. It is also about creating Unicorn Space for all the adults in the household. I hope you'll give it a listen. You deserve Unicorn Space of your own, and Fair Play gives you the tools to get it. Show links: Fair Play Interest List
Show notes: https://www.tamihackbarth.com/blog/episode-191 We are back from our annual beach redwoods vacation and seven days from starting school. For me, this week is like the one between Christmas and New Year's. The exciting stuff has happened, I am not sure what day of the week it is, and there is a whole lot of New Year energy swirling around. This week used to be the worst week of the year for me. My teacher spouse returned to work, and I was left without any childcare. I was expected to pick up all the slack in our household and help get the school year off to a calm start. Needless to say, it never worked that way because I was so resentful about all these unsaid expectations about how I was in charge of everything house-related because he was working outside the home. It wasn't until a few years later that I realized that lots of couples experience a similar thing. It becomes even more clear when kids come into the picture. There is a default household manager who takes care of all the daily grind tasks: dishes, cooking, meal planning, homework, cleaning, laundry, child care….. the list is endless. Even when you had conversations about equity and the equal distribution of household labor, somehow, it still ended up with one person doing much more to keep the household going. The good news is that it isn't a personal problem. It actually is a systemic one. Our systems aren't set up to help us succeed. In this week's podcast, I am happy to introduce you to the Fair Play Method. I hope you'll give it a listen. Fair Play gives words to what we've been feeling and a plan for getting us to where we want to be. Show links: Fair Play Interest List
Join us for part two of our discussion on the role of the family in discipling nations. Today we dive into the hotly-contested topic of God's design for the role of the mother, father, and children in the family. As always, we seek to analyze this at the level of worldview–why did God create the family with differing roles and responsibilities? What are the good and bad consequences of adhering to or neglecting these God-given roles? For this episode, we had the privilege of being joined by two special guests: Naomi Bloom, a wife, mother, and the author of Home Inspired: A Look at the Micro-Nation of Home for New Moms; and Scott's wife, Kim Allen, a mother, grandmother, and contributing author of As Goes the Family so Goes the Nation: Principles and Practices for Building Healthy Families.Episode Landing Page with links to go deeper!Disciple Nations Alliance Website
What are things/plaes you remember about growing up in Central Florida? If we were on a sitcom... what family roles would Johnny's House have?
There's now another social media platform... Threads! Are you on it? We play the Throwback Game where there was a huge comeback! We talk about how no one wants to be with this type of person___. For Wrong answers only- How to stay cool in this heat! Growing up in Central Florida what will you always remember? We end the show talking about what Family Roles we would have on a show!
Show notes: https://www.tamihackbarth.com/blog/episode-184 What are some of your summer rituals? We celebrate the last day of school with shave ice and breakfast out on the patio at Tower Cafe on the first day of summer break. We get together with my dad for Father's Day and leave my husband at home so he can enjoy his most treasured Father's Day present, alone time. We sign up for the summer reading program, we visit Humboldt County and we set learning goals. Our summers are an amazing season because we follow The Summer of Intentionality. Curious? Check out this week's podcast. I am re-sharing the Summer of Intentionality episode, where I explain the history and purpose of this remarkable tool. I hope you will give it a listen and share with me what you want to do, read and learn this summer. Show links: Fair Play Interest List
There's now another social media platform... Threads! Are you on it? We play the Throwback Game where there was a huge comeback! We talk about how no one wants to be with this type of person___. For Wrong answers only- How to stay cool in this heat! Growing up in Central Florida what will you always remember? We end the show talking about what Family Roles we would have on a show!
What are things/plaes you remember about growing up in Central Florida? If we were on a sitcom... what family roles would Johnny's House have?
Hey podcast friends! This week I start by talking about how things are never in perfect balance. We often are focused on an area of our life and we go all in. I am also diving into family roles. This comes from family roles theory in addiction. We take on roles based on our personalities and environment. If there was a family member who had the spotlight such as mental illness, addiction, behavior or anything else then you likely fell into a role that protected you during that time. The roles are: 1. Addict/Victim 2.Scapegoat 3. Hero 4. Lost child 5.Enabler The important thing to remember is that you do not have to live in this role. You get to choose how you want to change that. You can challenge family values and beliefs to create your own but that doesn't come naturally. As human being, we innately want to be accepted by our families. If we are challenging our beliefs than it can feel like we are betraying our family. Please RATE, SUBSCRIBE and review (it helps more than you know!) Leave a review and send me a screenshot to elevateyourlifecoachingschool@gmail.com and you will be entered into a raffle to win a free coaching session! Join the #stopoverthinking challenge on the website pop-up link to receive a 5-step guide navigating you to stop overthinking ! Email Katelyn your questions at elevateyourlifecoachingschool@gmail.com Follow Katelyn on instagram @katelyn.englert.coaching or NEW INSTAGRAM @healthymindhappylifepodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/healthymind-happylife/message
Our 'Song To Chew' this week, from my “Family Roles" album is THE NEWBORN, written by Rosita Perez. Technically, it's a 'Poem To Chew' from her book, "THE MUSIC IS YOU: A Guide to Thinking Less and Feeling More". I love this poem because it points out how the words 'belief' and 'faith' are different. When someone chooses to hold a 'belief' in something, no matter what evidence or verifiable facts are supplied, especially if they question the 'belief', a 'believer' will not change, and they may even refuse to listen to others who don't hold the same belief. It's a 'static' system. Whereas 'faith' also requires making a choice, but it's different than holding a 'belief.' When someone has 'faith' that some idea is real and true, they're not afraid to have a reasonable discussion with others, who think differently than they do. Exactly because they have 'faith', they know they can listen and alter their understanding of whatever idea they're discussing, and continue to refine how their 'faith' works in their life as they gather new information. In doing so, their lives become more balanced and manageable. It's a dynamic and spiritual way of perceiving our world. I'm Peter Alsop. If you've been enjoying my 'Songs To Chew' podcasts, please share them with your friends and family. And I'll see you again next week! Bye for now! ~ Listen and subscribe to my Songs To Chew podcast = anywhere you get podcasts, or https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/peter-alsop-s-songs-to-chew/id1446179156 ~ CAMPING WITH DADS = https://www.amazon.com/Camping-Dads-Peter-Alsop/dp/B08CS871QW/ref=sr_1_1 ~ www.FaceBook.com/WeLikePeterAlsop ~ www.Youtube.com/peteralsop = videos ~ www.Patreon.com/peteralsop = support my music & other artistic endeavors ~ www.peteralsop.com/music = CDs & downloads
Tony discusses the differences between false memories and confabulation. He then reads a message from the "women in relationships with narcissistic 'fill in the blank'" Facebook group that leads to a breakdown of "Switzerland Friends," as well as how we deal with discomfort, as well as how "family systems theory" could provide an answer to the difficulty the "pathologically kind" person has in stepping out of their role in the various "families" they are in. And follow Tony on the Virtual Couch YouTube channel for a sneak preview of his upcoming podcast "Murder on the Couch," where True Crime meets therapy, co-hosted with his daughter Sydney. You can watch a pre-release clip here https://youtu.be/-RkRq8SrQy0 Subscribe to Tony's latest podcast, "Waking Up to Narcissism Q&A - Premium Podcast," on the Apple Podcast App. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/waking-up-to-narcissism-q-a/id1667287384 Go to http://tonyoverbay.com/workshop to sign up for Tony's "Magnetize Your Marriage" virtual workshop. The cost is only $19, and you'll learn the top 3 things you can do NOW to create a Magnetic Marriage. You can learn more about Tony's pornography recovery program, The Path Back, by visiting http://pathbackrecovery.com And visit http://tonyoverbay.com and sign up to receive updates on upcoming programs and podcasts. Tony mentioned a product that he used to take out all of the "uh's" and "um's" that, in his words, "must be created by wizards and magic!" because it's that good! To learn more about Descript, click here https://descript.com?lmref=bSWcEQ
All too often, we place the people in our lives in defined, specific boxes. In this episode, Jamesa, Ben, and Amine talk about the harmful habit of creating rigid identities for ourselves and our family members, and what we can do instead. Each episode this season will be aired live on our TikTok @ThreeTreesChange every Friday at Noon Eastern Time. Questions and comments are welcome as we record the episode! We are also live on TikTok every weekday at Noon and 9PM EST, so please feel free to join the conversation!
Looking at Genesis 37, Cameron and Anna discuss the pain that favoritism causes in families. When parents demonstrate partiality, everyone suffers. By God's grace, we can learn to treat all our children with equity and love.Resources:Ask Alice: The Impact of Birth Order and Family Roles on Sibling DynamicsSummertime Blues: Sibling Love – Or Lack Thereof by Katie PolskiSanctification By Sibling: Seven Encouragements for the Parents Who Love Them by Anna Meade HarrisA Gospel Vision for Helping Students Love Their Siblings by Chelsea Kingston EricksonThe Five Love Languages of Children: The Secret to Loving Children Effectively by Gary ChapmanEphesians 4:32- 33
“In his grace, God has given us different gifts for doing certain things well. So if God has given you the ability to prophesy, speak out with as much faith as God has given you. 7 If your gift is serving others, serve them well. If you are a teacher, teach well. 8 If your gift is to encourage others, be encouraging. If it is giving, give generously. If God has given you leadership ability, take the responsibility seriously. And if you have a gift for showing kindness to others, do it gladly.” – Romans 12:6-8. Have you ever considered your role in your priority relationships...that of a spouse, parent, friend, leader? Have you taken it a step further and WRITTEN out what you determine to be the ideal attributes and characteristics that define your role? It's a powerful exercise that will make you more self-aware of who you want to become and challenge you to live up to YOUR ideal! Do it today, it WILL BE profound. Go listen! Get your FREE download of the Kinetic Living Family Roles worksheet here: www.storehouse310.com/roles — Come join David and Stu in The Storehouse Mastermind, which brings together a diverse group of men striving to become the best husbands, fathers, friends, and leaders possible. Get the FREE Kinetic Living Family Roles Worksheet by emailing podcast@storehouse310.com Learn More! Apply here! Join our Facebook Group! Do us a favor and leave us a review! Click here at Apple Podcasts! Know someone who would make a great guest on our podcast? Let us know! stuart@storehouse310turnkey.com. This podcast is sponsored by DoDReads.com which promotes lifelong learning, personal development and leadership that comes from the books you read. If you are interested in updating your military reading list, email: storehouse@dodreads.com.
How do you recognize the role you played in your family growing up? In this episode, Laura will talk about 3 different roles in the family. Were you the hero, lost child, the scapegoat, or a combination? Through this conversation, you'll learn what each role means, what it might look like as an adult, and how to walk through it in a healthy way. New episodes drop every Wednesday, so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!
This week, we continue our exploration of dysfunctional family roles by unpacking the remaining roles: the Scapegoat, the Counselor/Caretaker, the Mascot, and the Lost Child. Our roles develop in an attempt to survive: this is the role we must play if the family unit is going to stay intact. As I've mentioned before, the big problem with roles is that you're rarely allowed to be anything else. Learning our role, admitting what we felt as children, and offering ourselves a conscious choice now - as to how we will behave - is healing. If you want to go directly to each type, here are the time stamps for each. 9:30 - The Scapegoat 32:47 - The Counselor 50:01 - The Mascot 01:03:14 - The Lost Child
A listener of the podcast requested an episode on dysfunctional family roles. It was too much information for one episode, so I've broken it up into two. This week, we take a look at why and how we develop our dysfunctional roles and we dive into the role of "The Hero." Next week we'll round things out by exploring "The Scapegoat," "The Mascot," "The Lost Child," and "The Counselor." We'll also look at what growth looks like for each role. In the presence of chronic dysfunction, our roles emerge to protect us and and to protect the family system. NOTE: In the podcast, I mention that there are 77 waterfalls in TN. Correction: there are 874 waterfalls in TN!