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Modern day friendships - why do they feel so hard? Did you know each of your friendships have an “about” section for your origin story? Why do I still feel lonely even though I have close friends?Friendships enrich our lives so much, but we understand that it can be hard to maintain old friendships and find the time to make meaningful new ones as busy moms! We are so pleased to have author, speaker, and seasoned journalist Anna Goldfarb on today's episode to share her perspective on modern day friendships. While you may have several groups of friends (think friends from growing up, work friends, mom friends), those groups seldom overlap. Anna dives into WHY this has caused the new age problem of leaving us feeling lonely or isolated in friendships. We loved this idea she brought up about everyone having an “about section” for each of your friendships, and why that can actually help you to better understand your current friendship status and relationships with others. This episode is such a fun and energetic take on adult friendships that had us laughing along the way! We've talked about friendship plenty of times in other episodes, but this episode brought some new ideas forward. We'd love to hear what your takeaways were from today's episode, and don't forget to reach out to a friend and tell them you love them!Links & Resources:Free sample pack with purchase of LMNT10% off at BetterHelpJoin us on Patreon for bonus episodes, extra video content, book club and more!Follow Anna Goldfarb on InstagramAnna's WebsiteJoin Anna's Substack, Friendship Explained with Anna GoldfarbPurchase Anna's Book; “Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections” And check out this free excerpt of the book!Let's connect!HERSELF PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/herselfpodcastJoin our exclusive community for bonus episodes, extra video content, book club and more!HERSELF INSTAGRAM: http://instagram.com/herselfpodcastMEET AMY: http://instagram.com/ameskieferMEET ABBY: http://instagram.com/abbyrosegreenThis episode was brought to you by the Pivot Ball Change Network.
Anna Goldfarb is a friendship expert and author of the book Modern Friendship. We discuss the different types of friends we come across, how to show up for your friends, friendship break ups, how to show up for friends as their lives change, and so much more.Sponsors:For flavor that pops, WMAA chooses Simply Pop. Go to cokeurl.com/simplyPOP to find out where you can try it.Go to helixsleep.com/ACME for 20% off sitewide during the Spring Savings Event.01:57 Defining a Good Friend11:40 Memorial vs. Active Friendships29:12 Friendship Breakups and Mutual Friends40:37 Memorial Friends vs. Active Friends44:51 Navigating Friendships and Infertility01:05:25 Making New Friends in Your Thirties01:11:21 The Power of Vulnerability in FriendshipsProduced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this episode of SuperPsyched, host Dr. Adam Dorsay welcomes journalist and author Anna Goldfarb to discuss her book 'Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections'. They explore the importance of friendship, how modern life impacts our ability to maintain connections, and practical strategies to foster meaningful relationships. Anna shares a poignant story about her father's lost connection with his best friend Marty, highlighting the consequences of not maintaining friendships. They also delve into the concept of 'abouts' in friendships, the impact of moving and life changes on social bonds, and tips for effective communication to ensure strong and lasting friendships.00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched00:28 The Importance of Friendship01:11 Introducing Anna Goldfarb02:19 Anna's Personal Story02:57 The Science of Friendship03:58 Challenges in Modern Friendships12:48 The Concept of 'About' in Friendships16:54 Types of Friendships21:46 Effective Communication in Friendships25:30 Connecting Through Shared Experiences26:56 The Importance of Friendship Strategies28:34 Understanding Different Types of Friendships29:38 Prioritizing and Maintaining Friendships31:03 Evaluating and Choosing Good Friends31:55 The Role of a Good Friend44:17 The Power of Being a Sidekick47:43 Final Thoughts and Book PromotionHelpful Links:Anna GoldfarbModern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections book
**REPLAY**In this episode of Season of Stuck, Deanna chats with Anna Goldfarb, a journalist called “the New York Times friendship correspondent” and the author of “Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections.” During their conversation, Deanna and Anna explore the complexities of adult friendships—including areas where people can get stuck. . Anna shares her insights on how to effectively navigate modern friendships, including some of the challenges of friendships in the modern age, how to show up in friendships in a way that fosters connection, and why negotiating your friendships can be key in getting unstuck. She also shares why a strong “about” is a non-negotiable in any active friendship—and how to find that ‘about' in the relationships you value most. Tune in to learn about:The significance of friendships in adulthood and their role in overcoming feelings of being stuckThe complexities of maintaining adult friendshipsHow friendship has changed—and the challenges facing friends in the modern ageHow to create a strong “about” that keeps you connected to your friendsStrategies for negotiating and rekindling friendshipsHow to better navigate conflict in friendshipsHow to be a better friend—and inspire your friends to do the sameThoughts from the episode:“Research says three to five friends are totally optimal. You don't need a ton of people! You really just need to be a sensational friend to a handful of people.”"Every friendship needs an ‘about'—and the ‘about' needs to be clear and compelling to both people…and it needs to be something apart from the two people in the friendship."About Anna Goldfarb:Called “the New York Times' friendship correspondent,” Anna Goldfarb's reporting has appeared in The New York Times, The Atlantic, Vox, and more. Her new book, “Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections,” explores the nuances of navigating adult friendships in a hyperfluid society.Connect with Anna Goldfarb:On the web:Anna's websiteSubscribe to her newsletterOn social media:Instagram: @annagoldfarb Stay connected with Season of Stuck:Want more insights on how to make your journey from stuck to unstuck? Make sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts; you can catch new episodes every Tuesday.Want to make sure you never miss an episode? Visit seasonofstuck.com to get episodes delivered to your inbox. And for even more stuck-related content, make sure to follow us on Instagram @seasonofstuck.****DISCLAIMER**** Season of Stuck is for general information only and should not be considered health, financial, or any other type of professional advice. The views expressed by guests are their own and their appearance on Season of Stuck is not an endorsement. We do not verify the accuracy of the information that guests present. Adult language may be present. Our producer and host disclaim any liability arising out of your reliance on Season of Stuck. Please note that we may receive a commission should you choose to purchase any product or service using our website link to the products, services, and links featured on Season of Stuck and/or in related properties (including seasonofstuck.com and email communications).
Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we welcome Anna Goldfarb to the show, a journalist, speaker, and author of the book "Modern Friendship, How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections” to have a conversation with us about friendship - and so much more! So much to get to as we take on friendship in adulthood and the modern phenomenon many of us can relate to of where is home? What if we've moved around a lot as kids, as adults, or our families have relocated? What if we find ourselves in new places or maybe it's our friends who have moved away? How does this impact our friendships? We'll also dig into the sociology of friendship—are our societies set up for making connections? If not, how can overcome both visible and invisible barriers and create connections anyway? Then from parallel play to active vs. memorial friendships, we're breaking down different friendship dynamics, the reasons we make friends in the first place, and the qualities we look for in friends. Plus we'll touch on the loneliness epidemic, (why are so many of feeling lonely these days?) and the role of social media in our connections. Finally, what does hyper-individualism, or an "I don't owe anyone anything" mentality mean for our connections, relationships, and friendships? So, if you're curious to eavesdrop on a conversation about modern friendship between a bonafide friendship expert and a flirt coach, this episode is for you! Let's get into it!, Flirties! Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Flirtations on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode to spread BFE - big flirt energy, all over the world! Enjoying the show and want to support my work? Buy the Flirt Coach a coffee! Anna Goldfarb's reporting on friendships has appeared in The New York Times, The Atlantic, TIME , Vox, and more. Her book, Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections, explores the challenges of navigating adult friendships in a hyperfluid world. She also publishes Friendship Explained, a Substack newsletter that explains the mechanics of friendship through a pop culture lens. Find her online @AnnaGoldfarb and her website. About your host: Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy - with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun! As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the Flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage. Ultimately, this practice of connection helps flirters and daters alike create stronger relationships, transcend limiting beliefs, and develop an unwavering love for the self. His work has been featured in Fortune, NBC News, The Huffington Post, and Yoga Journal. You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.
It can feel hard to make and maintain friends as a mom–and we often don't know where to even start. It seems like we should feel more connected than ever with the digital world–but it can just leave us feeling more isolated. Maybe looking at our friendships with a different mindset is the place to start. This week on The Momwell Podcast, I'm joined by author Anna Goldfarb to discuss the way friendships change over time and how to navigate friendships as a mom. Show Notes: https://shorturl.at/FRJLC Book a free 15 minute consultation: momwell.com/booking Follow Momwell on Instagram: instagram.com/momwell Sign up for our weekly VIP Newsletter: momwell.com/newsletter Browse our popular guides and courses: momwell.com/shop Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
What if friendships were just as vital to our health as sleep, nutrition, and exercise? Research suggests they might be. But in our fast-paced, modern world, nurturing deep and lasting friendships can feel overwhelming.In this episode, I sit down with journalist and author Anna Goldfarb to explore the evolving landscape of friendship—why it can be so challenging to maintain meaningful connections as we move through different life phases, and what we can do to strengthen the relationships that nourish us the most.Anna's book, Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections, gave me so many “aha” moments about why friendships shift, how we can show up for each other in a more intentional way, and how to release the guilt we sometimes feel when friendships change.Join us as we unpack:How relationships have changed over time—why past generations had built-in social structures that kept friendships steady, and how today's hyper-fluid, fast-paced world has reshaped the way we connect.How understanding the difference between “bathtub friends,” “swimming pool friends,” and “memorial friends” can ease the strain in relationships and help us let go of unrealistic expectations.Why some friendships fade over time (and why it's not your fault!) and how to cope with changing relationships.The impact of social media on our lives and how having ‘friends' online can leave us feeling more lonely than not. How we can keep connections alive through life changes—from motherhood to career shifts, big moves, and more.What to do when a connection feels out of sync—how to know whether to repair it or let it go.If you've ever felt lonely, longed for deeper relationships, or struggled to navigate the shifting nature of connection as life evolves—this conversation is for you.The way we connect in our modern lives is changing, but meaningful relationships are still the key to a healthy, fulfilling life. Have a listen to learn how to nourish the connections that truly matter. Looking for supplements for yourself and your family, including some of those I talk about in episodes? You can find those - and your 15% discount on every order here: avivaromm.com/supplementsMentioned in this episode:Looking for supplements for yourself and your family, including some of those I talk about in episodes? You can find those - and your 15% discount on every order here: avivaromm.com/supplements
Anna Goldfarb is the author of MODERN FRIENDSHIP and a friendship journalist who has reported for outlets including the New York Times, the Atlantic, Time magazine, Vice, The Cut, Vox, and the Washington Post. Called "the New York Times friendship correspondent" by Tim Herrera, the editor of the New York Times Smarter Living section, she's written hundreds of articles that explore the nuances of friendships, relationships, and pop psychology. She lives in Philadelphia. For more, visit annagoldfarb.com.Here's a list of friend awards from Anna's book, Modern Friendship. Jot down the name of whoever in your life comes to mind.Most likely to answer your text messages within an hour:Most likely to answer a phone call:Most likely to make you laugh:Most likely to help you with a work-related problem:Most likely to try a new restaurant with you:Most likely to support your dreams and life goals:Most likely to let you sleep on their couch:Most likely to celebrate the holidays with you:Most likely to motivate you:Most likely to give you useful health advice:Most likely to give you wise romantic advice:Most likely to give you sound financial advice:Most likely to be in your life in a year:Most likely to confide a secret in you:Most likely to celebrate a professional accomplishment with you:Most likely to give you good TV/movie/music/podcast recommendations:Most likely to sit with you in comfortable silence:Most likely to suggest a good book you'll enjoy:Most likely to discuss politics with you:Most likely to offer you a long hug when you need one:---More friendship advice from the archives...Normalize Telling Your Friends When They Hurt You with Dr. Marisa G. Franco ---Help Zak continue making this show by becoming a Best Advice Show Patron @ https://www.patreon.com/bestadviceshow---Fill out the first-ever TBAS listener survey to help Zak get to know you better.https://forms.gle/f1HxJ45Df4V3m2Dg9---Call Zak on the advice show hotline @ 844-935-BEST---Share this episode on IG @BestAdviceShow
Modern Friendship author Anna Goldfarb returns to answer your questions about friendship! Anna discusses how to nurture old friendships, how to make “hanging out” more compelling, being careful about tallying “you vs them,” and more.To leave a voicemail or text for a future episode, reach Doree & Elise at 781-591-0390. You can also email the podcast at forever35podcast@gmail.com.Visit forever35podcast.com for links to everything they mention on the show or visit shopmyshelf.us/forever35.Follow the podcast on Instagram (@Forever35Podcast) and sign up for the newsletter at forever35podcast.com/newsletter. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Anna Goldfarb is a journalist and self-titled 'friendship expert' who is the author of the recent book Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections. This week she joins Vanessa to talk all about why we make friends, why we lose them, and how to keep them. Next week, we're back to our regular format with Mauricio! The Real Question is a Not Sorry ProductionFind us at our website | Follow us on Instagram--This show is completely funded by Patreon, and we are so grateful to our supporters who make it possible. If you can, please considering chipping in! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
We read and discussed Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections by Anna Goldfarb….a practical approach to the topic of friendship! We both agree there's some excellent recommendations for how to deepen and stabilize any friendships that might need it. And we both came out of this read with some positive takeaways from our current friendships! No need to read if you don't want to, but join us for the discussion :) Some episodes you may have missed….Here's some good ones from the archivesWhat's On Our Minds: July 2024Our Best Systems and Life HacksOne Year of ParentingIf you've enjoyed any of our episodes, we'd appreciate it if you'd share with a friend. That's how podcasts grow - through connection - and we appreciate you helping us grow! This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit likehearted.substack.com
Right on the heels of my power punch conversation about love and grief with Loren Ridinger is an equally power punch conversation with friendship expert Anna Goldfarb, here, appropriately, on Galentine's Day to talk about friendship, which you all know has been a running theme throughout season 15. I found this conversation with Anna to be so soul-enriching — I truly felt that I had met a new friend through our conversation. Anna talks to us today about what she wishes more people knew about friendship; she shares a powerful anecdote about her father and an old friend of his — sadly, like me, Anna lost her father far too soon; how society isn't set up to support adult friendships and how we can prioritize friendship in a world where so much is competing for our attention; why friendships need an “about” and how many friends we can realistically give our time to; the difference between bathtub friends, jacuzzi friends, swimming pool friends, bonfire friends, and water park friends; what to do when a friendship feels unbalanced and when expectations between friends aren't lining up; how we can be better friends; how desire, diligence, and delight are three keys to a happy friendship; and so much more. Anna is the author of the bookModern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections, which came out last June 4, and in it she puts forth the concept of “wholehearted friendship” and teaches us so many strategies for maintaining friendships, as well as making new ones. Anna's explanation of active friendships versus memorial friendships was such a lightbulb moment for me — we have so much to learn from her. Anna is a journalist, author, and speaker specializing in the nuances of friendships, relationships, and pop psychology. Her work has appeared inThe New York Times, The Atlantic, TIME, VICE, The Cut, The Washington Post, Vox,Real Simple, and Oprah Daily, and she has a Substack, “Friendship Explained,” that explains friendship through a pop culture lens. I can't wait for you to hear our conversation.Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connectionsby Anna Goldfarb
In today's hyper-paced, screen-driven world, making—and keeping—new friends has become incredibly challenging. Same goes for nurturing long-lasting friendships. So, what's a Jew to do? Journalist, author, and unofficial friendship correspondent Anna Goldfarb joins us to talk about modern friendship, a topic she delves into in her book, Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections. During our conversation, we look at how we can keep the friends we want, and successfully build new relationships. Hosted by Courtney Hazlett, Rabbi Diana Fersko, and Josh Kross, each episode of How to Be a Jew takes a look at a current, cultural topic and what it means for us as Jews, and how we react to it because we are Jews. Want to send us an email? Send it off to podcasts@tabletmag.com For more podcasts, visit tabletmag.com/podcasts
Friendship Month kicks off with Anna Goldfarb, author of Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections.Anna joins Doree and Elise to talk about what a wholehearted friendship means, how to determine the “about” of your friendships, why it's okay for your friendships to remain more fluid as you become an adult, and how it's okay to grow into (and out of) friendships gracefully. To leave a voicemail or text for a future episode, reach Doree & Elise at 781-591-0390. You can also email the podcast at forever35podcast@gmail.com.Visit forever35podcast.com for links to everything they mention on the show or visit shopmyshelf.us/forever35.Follow the podcast on Instagram (@Forever35Podcast) and sign up for the newsletter at forever35podcast.com/newsletter. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Natalie talks with author and journalist Anna Goldfarb about why modern friendships feel so complicated, exploring how to navigate relationships in an age where we're more connected yet often feel more isolated than ever. Episode show notes: https://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/288 Leave a voice note: https://www.speakpipe.com/baggagereclaim Support the podcast and leave a tip: https://baggagereclaim.ck.page/products/podcast 'Reclaimed' membership: https://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/reclaimed/ Work with me: https://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/consultations/ Baggage Reclaim: https://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk Shop courses and books: https://store.baggagereclaim.com Sign up for my newsletter: https://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/newsletter/
#150: Anna Goldfarb is a friendship correspondent for The New York Times, and author of Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections. In today's episode, Anna shares the unexpected reasons behind our loneliness epidemic, why we all feel like we don't have enough friends, and how friendship is different today than in years past. Josie asks Anna about why we feel insecurities in friendships, as well as concrete tips to form deeper connections, make new friends as an adult, and feel more fulfilled in your relationships. Anna also shares what Matthew McConaughey and Guy Fieri can teach us about friendship, the Bravolebrity friendship that is the healthiest IRL, and how to do a "friendship cleanse" for a much more satisfying, healthy, and meaningful social life in 2025."Best Life Blueprint" Challenge–Week 5: Detox Your Relationships: https://theeverygirl.com/detox-relationships-challenge/This episode is brought to you by OSEA. Head to OSEAMalibu.com and use code "THEEVERYGIRL" for 10% off your order.For Detailed Show Notes visit theeverygirlpodcast.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
As we head into 2025, the idea of community feels intrinsically important to our well-being - both as people and a country. For so many of us, adult friendship can be a challenging landscape to navigate. Anna Goldfarb has written a wonderful new book about friendship in the modern era. We loved this conversation with her and know you will, too. Visit our website for complete show notes and episode resources.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
This episode originally aired on July 2, 2024. We have the power to contact our besties with the tap of a finger, yet we live in a loneliness epidemic. Journalist and author Anna Goldfarb wants to know: why? And what can we do about it? In today’s installment of our friendship advice segment “Calling for a Friend,” Anna delves into the research behind her book “Modern Friendship.” Anna’s findings reveal the importance of infusing your friendships with a shared sense of purpose, the optimal number of friends, and just how many hours it takes to form what she calls a “wholehearted friendship.”See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Why are modern friendships are so ambiguous? Tune in for an inspiring discussion with Anna Goldfarb on her new bookModern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections.Moments with Marianne airs in the Southern California area on KMET1490AM & 98.1 FM ABC Talk News Radio affiliate! Anna Goldfarb is a journalist, author and speaker. Called “The New York Times' friendship correspondent”, Anna's work explores the nuances of friendships, relationships, and pop psychology. She has reported for outlets including The New York Times, The Atlantic, TIME, Vice, The Cut, Vox, and The Washington Post. She also writes the Substack newsletter, Friendship Explained, where she demystifies friendship mechanics through a pop culture lens. www.annagoldfarb.com For more show information visit: www.MariannePestana.com
Friendships in sobriety can feel like uncharted territory. When drinking has been at the heart of your social life, stepping away from alcohol may make you wonder: Can I still connect with my friends in sobriety? Will I lose people who matter to me? And how do I find new, sober-friendly friends? If you've asked yourself these questions, you're not alone—and the good news is that friendships in sobriety can be more meaningful, fulfilling, and aligned with who you truly are. In this episode, I sit down with Anna Goldfarb to talk all about making and keeping friends in sobriety. Anna is the author of Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections and a relationships writer with a gift for breaking down how to form deep, intentional connections. Together, we're exploring the joys and challenges of sober friendships, plus the practical steps you can take to build the kind of friendships that light you up. 4 Ways I Can Support You In Drinking Less + Living More Join The Sobriety Starter Kit, the only sober coaching course designed specifically for busy women. My proven, step-by-step sober coaching program will teach you exactly how to stop drinking — and how to make it the best decision of your life. Save your seat in my FREE MASTERCLASS, 5 Secrets To Successfully Take a Break From Drinking Grab the Free 30-Day Guide To Quitting Drinking, 30 Tips For Your First Month Alcohol-Free. Connect with me for free sober coaching tips, updates + videos on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, Pinterest and TikTok @hellosomedaysober. Connect with Casey McGuire Davidson To find out more about Casey and her coaching programs, head over to www.hellosomedaycoaching.com
Anna Goldfarb, an author and friendship explainer, is here to do just that. She teaches us the KEY to cultivating new friendships and how to lovingly maintain the ones we have. We cover: HOW to make meaningful friendships The #1 thing you need to be doing in all your friendships How to build friendships that LAST Supporting friends who are in different life stages How many friends you *actually* need according to science Concrete ways to SHOW UP and be a good friend Connect with Anna: On her website Get Anna's book "Modern Friendship: How To Nurture Our Most Valued Connections" HERE! On Instagram Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Thanksgiving is firmly in the rearview, but already, Christmas is nearly upon us, and the gift giving frenzy that innately comes with it.This year, American consumers estimate they will spend an average of around $1,000 on holiday presents; that's a lot of gifts, a lot of time and money spent, and a lot of stress and anxiety.In this week's Enlighten Me, Delaware Public Media's Senior Producer Kyle McKinnon spoke with author and journalist Anna Goldfarb about the art of gift giving and why giving and, at times, receiving presents can be stressful.
This week Jamie talks to Anna Goldfarb, New York Times unofficial "friendship corespondent and author of "Modern Friendship - How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections." Buy Anna's book Jamie's story on how her friend of 24 years unfollowed her on Instagram Follow along on IG: @itsJamieStone and @AlittleTooMuchPodcast
Making friends as an adult can be confusing, awkward, and—let's be real—embarrassingly hard. Why is it that something that came so naturally on the playground feels like pulling teeth now? Is it just a symptom of getting older and more curmudgeonly, or does it reveal something deeper about our culture, our priorities, and even our fears? To help us untangle the magical overthinking of adult friendships, host Amanda Montell (@amanda_montell) is joined by Anna Goldfarb (@annagoldfarb), journalist and author of Modern Friendship. Together, they discuss why so many grown-ups feel friendless and what we can do to bounce back in a time when community is more important than ever. *Sends “friendship calendar invite.” Stop putting off those doctors appointments and go to https://Zocdoc.com/MAGICAL to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. Head over to https://Masterclass.com/MAGICAL for the current offer, up to 50% off. - Join the "Magical Overthinkers Club" by following the pod on Instagram @magicaloverthinkers. - To access early, ad-free episodes and more, subscribe to the Magical Overthinkers Substack. - Pick up a hard copy of Amanda's book The Age of Magical Overthinking: Notes on Modern Irrationality, or listen to the audiobook. To watch the podcast on YouTube: https://bit.ly/MagicalOverthinkersYouTube ; Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast for free wherever you're listening If you like the show, telling a friend about it would be amazing! You can text, DM, email, or send this link to a friend: https://bit.ly/MagicalOverthinkers Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Why do some friendships get harder as we get older? This week, Erin and Sara sit down with New York Times friendship correspondent Anna Goldfarb. They discuss how social media impacts our friendships, the different categories of friends, and the various roles they can play in our lives.Executive Producers: Erin Foster, Sara Foster, and Allison BresnickAssociate Producer: Montana McBirneyAudio Engineer: Josh WindischThis episode is sponsored by:OSEA (oseamalibu.com PROMO CODE: FIRST)Marley Spoon (marleyspoon.com/offer/foster)O Positiv (OPOSITIV.com/FOSTER)Needed (thisisneeded.com PROMO CODE: FOSTER)Magnetic Me (magneticme.com)Jenni Kayne (jennikayne.com PROMO CODE: FOSTER15)
Karo and Matt welcome special guest Anna Goldfarb! Called “the New York Times' friendship correspondent,” Anna's reporting has appeared in The New York Times, The Atlantic, Vox, and more. Her new book, “Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections,” explores the nuances of navigating adult friendships in a hyperfluid society. Watch this episode on YouTube! Get MOTY merch at manoftheyearpodcast.com Man of the Year on Instagram, YouTube, and TikTok Matt Ritter on Instagram, TikTok, and Twitter Aaron Karo on Instagram, TikTok, and Twitter
The author of Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections joins Cleo Wade to talk about the science behind modern friendship and creating meaningful connections. They explore what makes friendships fall apart, the different tiers of friendship, and how to navigate the conflicts that inevitably arise in our closest bonds. To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
In this episode of Season of Stuck, Deanna chats with Anna Goldfarb, a journalist called “the New York Times friendship correspondent” and the author of “Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections.” During their conversation, Deanna and Anna explore the complexities of adult friendships—including areas where people can get stuck. . Anna shares her insights on how to effectively navigate modern friendships, including some of the challenges of friendships in the modern age, how to show up in friendships in a way that fosters connection, and why negotiating your friendships can be key in getting unstuck. She also shares why a strong “about” is a non-negotiable in any active friendship—and how to find that ‘about' in the relationships you value most. Tune in to learn about:The significance of friendships in adulthood and their role in overcoming feelings of being stuckThe complexities of maintaining adult friendshipsHow friendship has changed—and the challenges facing friends in the modern ageHow to create a strong “about” that keeps you connected to your friendsStrategies for negotiating and rekindling friendshipsHow to better navigate conflict in friendshipsHow to be a better friend—and inspire your friends to do the sameThoughts from the episode:“Research says three to five friends are totally optimal. You don't need a ton of people! You really just need to be a sensational friend to a handful of people.”"Every friendship needs an ‘about'—and the ‘about' needs to be clear and compelling to both people…and it needs to be something apart from the two people in the friendship."About Anna Goldfarb:Called “the New York Times' friendship correspondent,” Anna Goldfarb's reporting has appeared in The New York Times, The Atlantic, Vox, and more. Her new book, “Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections,” explores the nuances of navigating adult friendships in a hyperfluid society.Connect with Anna Goldfarb:On the web:Anna's websiteSubscribe to her newsletterOn social media:Instagram: @annagoldfarb Stay connected with Season of Stuck:Want more insights on how to make your journey from stuck to unstuck? Make sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts; you can catch new episodes every Tuesday.Want to make sure you never miss an episode? Visit seasonofstuck.com to get episodes delivered to your inbox. And for even more stuck-related content, make sure to follow us on Instagram @seasonofstuck.****DISCLAIMER**** Season of Stuck is for general information only and should not be considered health, financial, or any other type of professional advice. The views expressed by guests are their own and their appearance on Season of Stuck is not an endorsement. We do not verify the accuracy of the information that guests present. Adult language may be present. Our producer and host disclaim any liability arising out of your reliance on Season of Stuck. Please note that we may receive a commission should you choose to purchase any product or service using our website link to the products, services, and links featured on Season of Stuck and/or in related properties (including seasonofstuck.com and email communications).
This Wellness Wednesday episode for Friendships Week, Kayla catches up with The New York Times' friendship correspondent Anna Goldfarb to find out why people find it hard to make friends, how to manage a friendship breakup, and how to make new friends.Anna Goldfarb's reporting on friendships has appeared in The New York Times, The Atlantic, TIME, Vox, and more while her book, Modern Friendship, explores the nuances of navigating adult friendships. She also publishes Friendship Explained, a Substack newsletter that explains the mechanics of friendship through a pop culture lens.Want more Anna Goldfarb? You can find her on:Instagram - @annagoldfarbWant more Kayla? You can find her on:Instagram - @kayla_itsinesTikTok - @kayla_itsinesLooking to smash your fitness goals? Sign up to the Sweat app, or find us on InstagramInstagram - @sweathttps://sweat.com/sweatdaily Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
We know how important friendships are. At the very least, for our health and well-being. But we also know how hard it gets to make and keep friends over the course of a lifetime, especially as we move, change jobs, and have families. That's why Anna Goldfarb's book, Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections, is so important. We need friendships for good health, and Anna's book teaches us ways to make, keep, and move on from toxic friends. And she readily shares what to say to build and deepen friendships. I think it's a terrific book for understanding how to be a better friend. Episode Links Let's Make This the Golden Age of Friendship The Secret to Modern Friendship, According to Real Friends How to Deal with a Friendship Quiet Season Interview with Kat Vellos The Team Learn more about host, Gayle Allen, and producer, Rob Mancabelli, here. Support the Podcast If you like the show, please rate and review it on iTunes or wherever you subscribe, and tell a friend or family member about the show. Subscribe Click here and then scroll down to see a sample of sites where you can subscribe.
Tawny and Lisa talk with Anna Goldfarb a journalist, author and speaker. Called “The New York Times' friendship correspondent”, Anna's work explores the nuances of friendships, relationships, and pop psychology. They talk about making friends, keeping friends, and approaching friendship with empathy. Her new book, Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections, is available everywhere. Music Minute features Bossa Nova, Queen, and the Rembrandts. Find the book and all things Anna here Sign up for Anna's Substack newsletter, Friendship Explained Follow Anna on Instagram Order Tawny's book, DRY HUMPING: A Guide to Dating, Relating, and Hooking Up Without the Booze. Sign up for Tawny's newsletter, "Beyond Liquid Courage" Order Tawny's new NA drink, (parentheses) Order Lisa's memoir, Girl Walks Out of a Bar
We have hundreds of friends on Facebook and the power to contact our besties with the swipe of a smartphone, yet we live in a loneliness epidemic. If you want tools for making and nurturing friendships, on today's show, Katie interviews journalist and author Anna Goldfarb about findings from her new book Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections. Anna's research uncovers why the digital age makes modern friendships challenging, the link between midlife friendship and life satisfaction, and the exact number of hours it takes to form what Anna calls a “wholehearted friendship.” Plus, how to infuse your friendships with delight and shared purpose. If your friendships are too few, too far-flung, or have flatlined, do your social life a favor and listen in. SHOW NOTES + TRANSCRIPT acertainagepod.com FOLLOW A CERTAIN AGE: Instagram Facebook LinkedIn GET INBOX INSPO: Sign up for our newsletter AGE BOLDLY We share new episodes, giveaways, links we love, and midlife resources Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
We have the power to contact our besties with the tap of a finger, yet we live in a loneliness epidemic. Journalist and author Anna Goldfarb wants to know: why? And what can we do about it? In today's installment of our friendship advice segment “Calling for a Friend” Anna delves into the research behind her book “Modern Friendship.” Anna's findings reveal the importance of infusing your friendships with a shared sense of purpose, the optimal number of friends, and just how many hours it takes to form what she calls a “wholehearted friendship.”See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Finally, the one about friendship! There's no way we're all maintaining our adult relationships in modern life exactly right, so this week, Raj and Noah welcome writer and author of the new book Modern Friendship Anna Goldfarb to talk about how to infuse our most important relationships with fun, integrity, and intention.Want to add to the conversation, or think you might be doing something wrong? Email us at amidoingitwrong@huffpost.com. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Doro sits down with Anna Goldfarb, a journalist, author, and motivational speaker, in this week's insightful episode centered on friendship. Anna shares her childhood experiences of navigating new environments and social structures, highlighting how they shaped her understanding of relationships. She details her journey with the concept of friendship from youth into adulthood, touching on the struggle to be authentic while finding a sense of belonging, and the joy she found in developing and maintaining close connections. Anna also discusses her book “Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections,” which was born from her feeling unable to adequately provide support to her friends during tough times. Throughout the conversation, she explores themes of resilience, vulnerability, and the transformative power of meaningful connections in navigating life's challenges. In this engaging dialogue, listeners gain insight into the intricacies of friendship dynamics and are empowered to enhance their own friendships.
Kate reflects on her own journey through the ebbs and flows of friendships as she transitioned through marriage, parenthood, and the isolating impacts of COVID-19. Anna, known as the New York Times friendship correspondent, shares her insights into maintaining and nurturing meaningful friendships in the modern world. They discuss the loneliness epidemic, the evolution of friendships in the digital age, the challenges of cross-gender friendships post-marriage, and the art of gracefully ending friendships.Anna offers practical advice and hopeful strategies for cultivating lasting and nourishing connections, emphasizing that creating beautiful friendships is a profound act of creativity. This conversation is both validating and inspiring, providing listeners with the tools and motivation to actively foster deep, supportive relationships.Host: Kate ShepherdGuest: Anna GoldfarbKey Topics:The challenge of maintaining friendships through major life transitions.Impact of marriage, parenthood, and COVID-19 on social circles.Anna Goldfarb's journey from writing about dating to focusing on friendships.Practical strategies for cultivating and sustaining meaningful friendships.The concept of consent in friendships.Addressing the loneliness epidemic and its antidotes.The grief associated with losing cross-gender friendships post-marriage.Recognizing when to end a friendship and how to do it gracefully.The role of creativity in building and maintaining friendships.Important Quotes:"Creativity is the intelligence that's animating the entire universe.""The ultimate act of creativity is the life that we create.""Turn down the thoughts about what you're not getting from your friendships and turn up the thoughts about how you can be in service to your friendships."Call to Action:Consider becoming a patron to support the Creative Genius Podcast.Share the podcast with friends, family, and on social media to help grow the community.Reflect on how you can actively create and sustain beautiful friendships in your life.Resources:Anna Goldfarb's book, "Modern Friendship" – available wherever books are sold.More information and show notes available at Kate Shepherd Creative.Support the Show:Visit Kate Shepherd Creative to become a patron.Share the episode with friends or on social media.Engage with the podcast community by sending feedback and stories of inspiration to Kate.Contact:Kate Shepherd Social Media:@kateshepherdcreative @thecreativegeniuspodcastFollow the Creative Genius Podcast on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter for updates and inspiration.Enjoy the episode and get inspired to cultivate deep, meaningful friendships that enrich your life!
What if strength isn't about how much we can lift, but how we manage life's struggles? What if we've been told lies our whole life about what it means to truly TAKE UP SPACE? What if failing isn't the end of a goal, but helps you set the goal itself? Today's SEASON 9 FINALE episode is with the incredible Alyssa Ages — journalist, strongman competitor, and author of SECRETS OF GIANTS: A Journey To Uncolver The True Meaning of Strength. IN THIS EPISODE WE TALK ABOUT: The importance of asking WHY, not HOW How endurance athletes frame FAILURE, and how to use this specific tactic in your own life way beyond achieving strength goals Why it's so hard for women especially to TAKE UP SPACE, the sneaky language to watch out for, and how to reframe your relationship with it The importance of using the word YET "BULK" (this is mind-blowing!) What Alyssa did when she realized the story she'd been telling herself for a DECADE was a lie Strength as we AGE and how to reverse hamful narratives even if we think "it's too late" and so much more! This is an episode you'll want to share with your friends, parents, grandparents, siblings, and more. Thank you for making Season 9 one of the best yet. See you in September for Season 10! ~ ABOUT ALYSSA: Alyssa Ages is the author of SECRETS OF GIANTS: A Journey to Uncover the True Meaning of Strength (Avery/Penguin Random House) and a journalist whose work has appeared in ELLE, SELF, GQ, Slate, The Globe & Mail, and others. She is a mom, strongman competitor, endurance athlete (six marathons & an Ironman), rock climber, CrossFitter, and former member of the Jersey City Bridge & Pummel roller derby team. Her first book, Secrets of Giants (Avery/Penguin Random House, 9/23), is part personal narrative, part research mission, part midlife crisis odyssey into the world of strength to answer the question: What if strength isn't about how much we can lift, but how we manage life's struggles. ~ SHOW NOTES: Buy SECRETS OF GIANTS Alyssa's website Alyssa on IG Alyssa's speaking page ~ TICKETS to WANT YOUR SELF: A Book Launch Cabaret at The Bourbon Room on 7/16 TICKETS to MODERN FRIENDSHIP at Guild Hall in conversation with Anna Goldfarb on 6/30 ~ Join THE WANT COMMUNITY! Buy WANT YOUR SELF Follow Katie on Instagram Leave a review of the WANTcast on iTunes (and SUBSCRIBE/FOLLOW if you haven't already!) Subscribe to WANT on Substack, and get our bimonthly email newsletter filled with tips, tools, motivation, and inspiration to shift your self-talk Email Katie at katie@womenagainstnegativetalk.com or DM her on Instagram to let her know what you want to hear about, who you want to hear from, or what you want to learn next season of the WANTcast!
Chip and Jeff are excited to dig into a tasty plate of “Meatballs!” They also chat about summer camps, super old teens, Bill Murray, Chris Makepeace, Emmy Blotnick, children singing loudly, french fries, David Naughton, Dr. Pepper, amazing 70s sitcom songs, Chip's acting debut on “Tires” on Netflix, Action News, Anna Goldfarb's new book, Atlantic City casino secret dining room, “Don't You (Forget About Me)" deep dive, Jeff's Korean drama recommendations, and much more!
Friendships can ground us, nurture us, and be a great source of fun and belonging. But what happens when they aren't working? We speak to author Anna Goldfarb, whose latest book, Modern Friendship, is about how to nurture friendships and also know when to let go. Plus, we take your calls.*This segment is guest-hosted by Kousha Navidar.
After a brief hiatus, we're back and ready to hit you with some fresh content to kick-off the summer!In this episode, we share an excerpt from our interview with Anna Goldfarb (@annagoldfarb), journalist and author of the new book Modern Friendship.We also chat a bit about the "Fighting four our Friendships" book tour. Three of the last four stops were sold out! But we're only halfway done. Come hang out with us in the few remaining cities:6/7: Raleigh/ Durham6/13: Orlando6/20: Chicago7/12: DC (with a very special guest!)Details at Betterfemalefriendships.com-----Are you curious about what the latest research reveals about the mechanics of women's friendships? Order your copy of Fighting for our Friendships: The Science and Art of Conflict and Connection in Women's Relationships and then host a book club meeting for it this summer!
If you're having a bad day, try bragging about a friend. Talk about that thing they did and why they're so great – it will turn your whole day around.Today I'm bragging about my new friend Anna Goldfarb, author of Modern Friendships, which is about the nuances of adult friendships. Anna is a journalist whose reporting has appeared in The New York Times, The Atlantic, The Washington Post and Vox. Her book is absolutely amazing.You'll find we have lots of overlap in the ways we think about friendship, but of course, we are different people, and she provides slightly different perspectives and language on the topic. Today's episode was such a delightful conversation; it felt like we could talk forever. If you like what I put out on this podcast, be sure to buy her book!In this episode you'll hear about:The topic of friendship over the last few years, which became magnified during and after the pandemicFriendship strategies that are outdated in today's super fluid society, putting people in positions where they can't commitHow Anna's research impacted her relationship with her sister and her own friendshipsThe importance of having flexible expectations as you and your friends move into different phases of lifeThe thing that's flattening our friendships that our ancestors didn't have to deal with and the amount of time it actually takes to develop close relationshipsResources & Links:Sign up for Anna's newsletter and buy her book, Modern Friendships: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections.Want to hear more about flexible friendship expectations? Check out Episode 33, “The New Version of Friendship,” and Episode 45, about friendship demotions.Like what you hear? Visit my website, leave me a voicemail, and follow me on Instagram and TikTok!Want to take this conversation a step further? Send this episode to a friend. Tell them you found it interesting and use what we just talked about as a conversation starter the next time you and your friend hang out!
Obviously friendship is a big topic around here, but one of the aspects we don't touch on much is how these important relationships have changed in modern culture. We now have hundreds of connections in our daily lives, where our ancestors probably never met that many people in their entire lifetime.Friendship writer Anna Goldfarb brings us 5 Things to think about in our modern friendships that she expounds upon in her new book Modern Friendship: How To Nurture Our Most Valued Connections.Called “the New York Times' friendship correspondent,” Anna Goldfarb's reporting on friendships has appeared in The New York Times, The Atlantic, TIME , Vox, and more.Follow @AnnaGoldfarb on IGSubscribe to her substack Friendship ExplainedBuy her new book Modern FriendshipSTEPHEN KING SUMMER IS IN FULL SWING! Join us hereFULL SHOW NOTES ARE HERE SUBSCRIBE to 10 Things To Tell You so you never miss an episode!CLICK HERE for episode show notesFOLLOW @10ThingsToTellYou on InstagramFOLLOW @10ThingsToTellYou on FacebookJOIN the 10 Things To Tell You Connection GroupSIGN UP for episode emails, links, and show notesJOIN the Secret Stuff PatreonBUY THE BOOK: Share Your Stuff. I'll Go First. by Laura TremaineBUY THE BOOK: The Life Council: 10 Friends Every Woman Needs by Laura Tremaine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Obviously friendship is a big topic around here, but one of the aspects we don't touch on much is how these important relationships have changed in modern culture. We now have hundreds of connections in our daily lives, where our ancestors probably never met that many people in their entire lifetime. Friendship writer Anna Goldfarb brings us 5 Things to think about in our modern friendships that she expounds upon in her new book Modern Friendship: How To Nurture Our Most Valued Connections. Called “the New York Times' friendship correspondent,” Anna Goldfarb's reporting on friendships has appeared in The New York Times, The Atlantic, TIME , Vox, and more. Follow @AnnaGoldfarb on IG Subscribe to her substack Friendship Explained Buy her new book Modern Friendship STEPHEN KING SUMMER IS IN FULL SWING! Join us here FULL SHOW NOTES ARE HERE SUBSCRIBE to 10 Things To Tell You so you never miss an episode! CLICK HERE for episode show notes FOLLOW @10ThingsToTellYou on Instagram FOLLOW @10ThingsToTellYou on Facebook JOIN the 10 Things To Tell You Connection Group SIGN UP for episode emails, links, and show notes JOIN the Secret Stuff Patreon BUY THE BOOK: Share Your Stuff. I'll Go First. by Laura Tremaine BUY THE BOOK: The Life Council: 10 Friends Every Woman Needs by Laura Tremaine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Send us a Text Message.Episode #99: Welcome to the 14-day friendship (mindset) cleanse, brainchild of previous Dear Nina guest, Anna Goldfarb, whose book Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections, is finally out in the world. Don't feel put off by the word, "cleanse." This discussion is about reconsidering how you're approaching friendships and how you're treating your closest friends. (And that particular list shouldn't be too long.) By the end of this episode, you will have a healthier frame for thinking through your friendships, and you'll know why I became friends with Anna after her visit to the podcast almost two years ago when we talked about lopsided friendships. Meet Anna Goldfarb: Anna Goldfarb is the Philadelphia-based journalist and author of Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections. Her work has appeared in The New York Times, Vice, TIME, The Cut and more. Follow Anna on twitter @AnnaGoldfarb and on Instagram.* All transcripts are available on the main Buzzsprout "Dear Nina" site. Click on any episode and find the transcript tab. Let's connect over all things friendship! My Substack newsletter about friendship & more Dear Nina website with show notes and a guide to pitching yourself as a guest Instagram , TikTok, Twitter, Youtube, Threads JOIN the Dear Nina Facebook group Ask an anonymous question
It's the mystery that eludes so many of us: How do you make friends as an adult — REAL-DEAL friends – and how do you nurture these valued connections? Today's guest has been called "The New York Times Friendship Correspondent" and is here with us to dig into the #1 asked question throughout all of WANT's 10 year history: how do I find my people? Author Anna Goldfarb's reporting has appeared in The New York Times, The Atlantic, Washington Post, Vox, Vice, and more. Her book MODERN FRIENDSHIP (out TODAY, June 4th 2024), explores the nuances of navigating adult friendships. IN THIS EPISODE WE TALK ABOUT... The HUGE yet shockingly simple factor keeping us from making and maintaining friendships, especially as we get older Why making friends is more of a challenge now than it ever was for our parents or grandparents How to categorize friends in a way that doesn't feel icky and actually HELPS you nurture friendships sans guilt or obligation Men and friendship, plus different gender expectations as we get older Making friends as an introvert or someone who has trust issues and SO MUCH MORE!!!!! ABOUT ANNA: Anna Goldfarb is a friendship journalist who has reported for outlets including the New York Times, the Atlantic, Time magazine, Vice, The Cut, Vox, and the Washington Post. Called “the New York Times friendship correspondent” by Tim Herrera, the editor of the New York Times Smarter Living section, she's written hundreds of articles that explore the nuances of friendships, relationships, and pop psychology. She lives in Philadelphia. Her first book, MODERN FRIENDSHIP: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections, is out today and available wherever books are sold. ~ SHOW NOTES: Modern Friendship Anna's website Anna on IG Anna's Substack Anna in the NYT Join us in East Hampton on June 30th at Guild Hall! ~ Join THE WANT COMMUNITY! Buy WANT YOUR SELF Follow Katie on Instagram Leave a review of the WANTcast on iTunes (and SUBSCRIBE/FOLLOW if you haven't already!) Subscribe to WANT on Substack, and get our bimonthly email newsletter filled with tips, tools, motivation, and inspiration to shift your self-talk Email Katie at katie@womenagainstnegativetalk.com or DM her on Instagram to let her know what you want to hear about, who you want to hear from, or what you want to learn next season of the WANTcast!
The sound of crickets on a summer night can be quite pleasing. And the little critters making that sound have some interesting characteristics and abilities I bet you never knew. Listen to my explanation and you'll have renewed respect for the crickets of summer. Source: Hugh Raffels author of Insectopedia (https://amzn.to/4bOcK51) Friendships are at an all-time low. People have fewer friends than ever before and the number of people who feel lonely is at record high levels. Why is friendship so hard? Well, it's not really, according to Anna Goldfarb. She makes friends quite easily and she says you can too if you are willing to try. Want to know how? Then you need to listen to Anna. She is a friendship journalist who has reported for The New York Times, Time magazine, and the Washington Post and she is author of the book, Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections (https://amzn.to/3K9Fqdb). If any podcast can make the topic of housework exciting – it is this podcast. What's so interesting is a lot of what we learned about how to do housework is ineffective, outdated and sometimes just plain wrong. The result is that you may be wasting time and money and not doing a particularly great job at keeping your house and clothes clean. To rescue is Melissa Pateras. She creates very popular TikTok videos about house cleaning tips and tricks (https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadilkespateras?lang=en) and she is author of the book, A Dirty Guide to a Clean Home: Housekeeping Hacks You Can't Live Without (https://amzn.to/3VbJ0ts) There are a lot of reasons to get your kids to play outside in the sunshine. One of the important reasons has to do with their eye health. Listen as I explain the connection between playing outside and vision in children. https://www.aao.org/eyenet/article/outdoor-activity-and-myopia-in-children PLEASE SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS! Indeed is offering SYSK listeners a $75 Sponsored Job Credit to get your jobs more visibility at https://Indeed.com/SOMETHING NerdWallet lets you compare top travel credit cards side-by-side to maximize your spending! Compare & find smarter credit cards, savings accounts, & more https://NerdWallet.com TurboTax Experts make all your moves count — filing with 100% accuracy and getting your max refund, guaranteed! See guarantee details at https://TurboTax.com/Guarantees Luckily for those of us who live with the symptoms of allergies, we can Live Claritin Clear with Claritin-D! eBay Motors has 122 million parts for your #1 ride-or-die, to make sure it stays running smoothly. Keep your ride alive at https://eBayMotors.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
endships aren't always easy and fun. Like all meaningful relationships, they require work. They require nurturing and a willingness to grow. And in today's world, explains author and journalist Anna Goldfarb, many friendships are being pushed to the brink and painfully ending. In this podcast, Tami Simon speaks with Anna about her new book, Modern Friendship, an empowering guide to creating what she calls “wholehearted friendships.” Enjoy this conversation that's filled with insights and strategies you'll find especially helpful in our isolated, hyper-fluid society. Tami and Anna discuss: the increasing ambiguity of 21st-century friendships; the false promise of social media; the core elements of a successful friendship strategy; memorial friendships vs. active friendships; Jacuzzi friends, bathtub friends, and pool friends; three main causes of friendship breakups; the three requirements—consistency, positivity, and vulnerability; choosing people with whom you can share meaning; the characteristics of wholehearted friendship; and more.
Author and journalist Anna Goldfarb dives into the challenges facing friends these days, the most important qualities to making new friendships and deepening old ones, and how to find the most fulfillment in your relationships. The challenges that make friendship SO much more difficult now than it was for our parents or grandparents Exactly what an “about” is, how to find one, and why it is so crucial to lasting friendships The differences between memorial and active friendships, and how to treat both Small, simple, and specific ways to be a better friend How to successfully reach out to potential new friend (and what NOT to say) How to identify and navigate a toxic friendship Exactly what the three Ds are and why you need all of them for a successful friendship The ideal number of friends to have, according to science How to navigate political differences within friendships Why men are so lonely and how women can help And so much more For more from Anna, you can find her on Instagram @annagoldfarb or her website, www.annagoldfarb.com. Her new book, Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections comes out on June 4th and is available for pre-order where books are sold. To join The Liz Moody Podcast Club Facebook group, go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/thelizmoodypodcast. Ready to uplevel every part of your life? Order my new book 100 Ways to Change Your Life: The Science of Leveling Up Health, Happiness, Relationships & Success now! This episode is sponsored by: Molly's Suds: go to mollyssuds.com/LIZMOODY and use code LIZMOODY for 20% off. AG1: visit drinkag1.com/lizmoody and get your FREE year supply of Vitamin D and 5 free travel packs today. Previous episodes referred to in this episode: How To Work LESS AND Get MORE Done Actress Ashley Greene & Olivia Khoury On PMDD, Cycle Syncing, & How To Understand Your Hormones To Transform Your Health My FULL Anxiety Story + The Tools That Help Me The Most The Liz Moody Podcast cover art by Zack. The Liz Moody Podcast music by Alex Ruimy. Formerly the Healthier Together Podcast. This podcast and website represents the opinions of Liz Moody and her guests to the show. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for information purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.
More than a fifth of American adults say they often, or always, feel lonely or socially isolated.U.S. Surgeon General Vivek Murthy recently said that solving our country's isolation is one of our generation's greatest challenges and that loneliness in America is a full-blown epidemic.But if loneliness is an epidemic, how do you treat it?Delaware Public Media's Kyle McKinnon is joined this week by author and journalist Anna Goldfarb to learn more about the impact of social isolation.
Episode #70: Ever feel like your social life is a waiting game, stuck in the perpetual hope for an invitation to hang out? It's time to flip the script! This episode is about empowering you to take control of your social time and friendships. Don't wait around hoping to be invited--reach out, take the lead, and discover the joy that comes with being the planner. It's a super power! This is the perfect episode for a new school year, or a new season of friendship for ALL AGES from kids to every stage of adulthood. Yes, every stage--through retirement and beyond. A few links mentioned in the episode:The Good Life: Lessons from the World's Longest Scientific Study of Happiness by Robert Waldinger M.D. and Marc Schulz Ph.D.This Ted Talk by Susan Pinker: "The Secret to Living Longer May be Your Social Life"Episode #3 of Dear Nina, "The Friend Who Never Initiates Contact"Danielle Bayer Jackson is an amazing source for all things friends, and the upcoming guest I mentioned and not being invited. And so it Anna Goldfarb! In this episode I mentioned her 30 days of friendship tips on Threads.My best friend and occasional guest, Taryn Kessel, always talks about being your own "cruise director." You can find Taryn on episodes #2, #9, #18, #27.Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim by David SedarisLet's connect over all things friendship! Here's my Substack newsletter about friendship & more Dear Nina website with show notes and a guide to pitching yourself as a guest Instagram & TikTok Twitter JOIN the Dear Nina Facebook group Ask an anonymous question
Journalist and author Anna Goldfarb drops by to share her love of legendary NYC rap and punk group, The Beastie Boys. How did their first album, which was supposed to be a joke, both sell over ten million copies and nearly end their careers? How did they follow up with a masterpiece second album that hardly anyone at the time even heard? What made them so undeniably cool in the Nineties? Listen in!
Once a week Reset hosts a conversation on Twitter Spaces to bring you interviews beyond the show. Reset recently spoke to Dr. Marisa G. Franco and New York Times “friendship correspondent” Anna Goldfarb about why it's difficult to make new friends in adulthood and how we can forge new connections at any stage in life.
After discussing the topic of great gift ideas for friends in my Facebook group--Dear Nina: The Group--I heard such thoughtful examples that I wanted to share those ideas with listeners. There are some really creative gifts in this quick 10-minute episode. I also briefly discussed Anna Goldfarb's recent Atlantic article, "Gift-Giving is About the Buyer, Not the Receiver." Anna was a guest on episode 35 of Dear Nina.Let's connect! Here's my Substack newsletter about friendship & moreAll show notes are here Instagram Twitter JOIN the Dear Nina Facebook group Ask an anonymous questionIf you like what you're hearing, please tell a friend!Also, if you can rate and/or leave a review on Apple Podcasts, I'd be so grateful.
Today's topic is Managing a Lopsided Friendship— that feeling you're putting more into the friendship than your friend is, and, maybe even being okay with it depending on the situation.The episode came about after reading an article in vox.com called "How to Handle a Lopsided Friendship" by Anna Goldfarb. And guess who is here to discuss the topic with me? It's Anna herself!Anna Goldfarb writes about friendships, relationships, and pop psychology. Her work has appeared in The New York Times, Vice, TIME, The Cut and more. She's the author of the humor memoir "Clearly, I Didn't Think This Through" as well as an upcoming book about modern friendship. She lives in Philadelphia. Follow Anna on twitter @AnnaGoldfarb and on Instagram. You can find the show notes HERE.Here's my Substack newsletter all about friendship, book/TV reviews, and more!Instagram @dear.nina.bTwitter @NinaBadzinAsk an anonymous question any time at ninabadzin.com/dearnina.JOIN THE Dear Nina Facebook group.Leave a voicemail at speakpipe.com/dearnina.Find more conversations about friendship at dearnina.substack.com. And if you like what you're hearing, please tell a friend!
Through the magic of Zoom and Facebook Live, Chip and Jeff welcome writer and author, Anna Goldfarb. They discuss Fraud Street Run donations, stilt walkers, nachos, Pet Chat, music and dating blogs, missing your coworkers, Least Popular Thanksgiving Songs, Al Alberts Showcase, Michael J. Facts, Family Ties, The Office, Billy Vera & The Beaters, lasagna, The Depressed Chef, and a very unexpected zoom bombing!
As COVID cases rise, more and more people are making the decision to sit Thanksgiving out this year, or seriously downsize with just immediate family members. Melissa Clark, New York Times food columnist and author of many cookbooks including Kid in the Kitchen: 100 Recipes and Tips for Young Home Cooks: A Cookbook (Clarkson Potter, November 10, 2020) and Anna Goldfarb, reporter for The New York Times and author of the book Clearly, I Didn't Think This Through: The Story of One Tall Girl's Impulsive, Ill-Conceived, and Borderline Irresponsible Life Decisions (Berkley November 6, 2012) answer your questions on how to spend this day, and how to cook for it.
Episode 74 - Welcome to our weekly public and mental health update - Brain and Body Weekly in which Challenge Yo Self podcast covers news and research articles relating to Mental and Public Health. Ashley and Joy begin the episode with a Mental Health update presented by Joy. Covering an article “Should You Reach Out To An Old Friend Right Now?” published in the New York Times by Anna Goldfarb, Joy addresses the topic of connections during the pandemic. Many people are missing the art of connection during social distancing, which may lead people to think deeply about their old connections. Joy normalizes the practice of reminiscing about past relationships when people are in a place of isolation and vulnerability. Along with the feeling of boldness that has arisen from the understanding of “mortality salience” (look it up) and the need for comfort. The biggest question is, should those old relationships be rekindled and what are your intentions behind reaching out? Joy delves deep into this topic asking probing questions and challenging you to think about your feelings and motives before taking action to reconnect. In Public Health, Ashley discusses an article written by Elizabeth Yuko, from Rolling Stone. She discusses the legacy of Mary Gregory, the first Black Woman to graduate from St. Vincent. Mary led the way in providing excellent health care and genetic screening to the African Americans within her community. Mary's commitment led to important research by her daughter Leslie Gregory, who founded "Right To Health”, an organization which fights to declare racism as a public health crisis due to its physical/biological/health effects on the African American community. This article elicits a passionate conversation between the Challenge Yo Self Team that spans the health effects of racism on those affected and its connection with the disproportionate numbers of minorities contracting and dying from the Coronavirus. This episode of the Brain and Body update will enlighten you to community issues that have not been addressed along with challenging yourself to examine your motives and current state of health and connectivity. Follow our antics daily and join our That Wednesday Life community by: 1. Following us @challenge.courage on Facebook and Instagram; 2. Joining our 24/7 blog and connections community - https://thatwednesdaylife.com. 3. Got questions or comments? Email: Challengeyoself@gmail.com to connect with us. 4. The details are below to leave a voice message. We love to hear from you! Oh and make sure to leave a review for us on Apple itunes/podcasts. Challenge Yo Self! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/boldstandards/message
How are you doing? I know this was a difficult week for The United States. I’m sure you’re feeling the stress of it– along with the stress of this lingering pandemic. In the past two months, four black people, Ahmaud Arbery, Breonna Taylor, Tony McDade, and George Floyd, were murdered. Justice took it’s sweet ass […]
Liz and Rico are advice givers by trade, but that doesn’t mean they’re equipped to give advice about how best to *ask for* advice. So, since getting the advice you need is a pretty important step in anyone’s work life, we called writer Anna Goldfarb, an expert on that subject. She wrote the article entitled, “The right way to ask ‘Can I Pick Your Brain?’” and is giving five ground rules for advice seekers in five-ish minutes. It’s a classic SFW segment we like to call “5-in-5.”Then, we’re getting into Lingo Bingo, which includes some not-so-pretty office jargon like “cannibalize.” Graphic! And we’ll also hear from listener Pam, who’s having some trouble escaping an overly-talkative colleague.Finally, listener Elizabeth, who was a caller from the show’s early days, has gotten a great job since her first chat with us. Now, she needs some advice on how to get more paid time off (A.K.A. our favorite version of time off).As always, if you've got a burning workplace question and need some advice, don't hesitate to send us an email (that email, unsurprisingly, is also Safe@Wondery.com). You can also find us on Twitter, we’re @SafeFor Work. Don't forget to follow our sage hosts on Twitter, too; they're @SSLiz and @RicoGagliano. And if you want to check out Liz’s other show, Satellite Sisters, you can find it on Apple Podcasts or Art19.
It seems like it oughta be the dream position for an employee: You’re doing a gig you kinda like, but maybe they don’t pay you enough, or give you enough of a benefits package… And then, you get another job offer. At last, you’re in the catbird seat! If your current gig wants to keep you, they’re gonna have to sweeten the pot. Then the new gig will offer even more to steal you!But then you’re gonna need to somehow play these two employers off each other without either of them resenting you for it. Here to guide us through that tightrope walk is Anna Goldfarb. She writes about relationships, careers and pop psychology for Vice, Medium and The Cut. Anna also wrote the New York Times article, “How to Gracefully Leverage an Outside Job Offer.”Then, we’re playing Lingo Bingo which includes some controversy about the word “optics.” And later, we hear from listener Wendy who needs a game plan on how to leave her first job out of college. Finally, Liz and Rico chat with listener Ellen, who is having a tough time with the receptionist at her new job.As always, if you've got a burning workplace question and need some advice, don't hesitate to send us an email (that email, unsurprisingly, is also Safe@Wondery.com). You can also find us on Twitter, we’re @SafeFor Work. Don't forget to follow our sage hosts on Twitter, too; they're @SSLiz and @RicoGagliano. And if you want to check out Liz’s other show, Satellite Sisters, you can find it on Apple Podcasts or Art19.
¿Cuántas notificaciones recibimos cada día?,¿y cuántas veces desbloqueamos nuestro teléfono móvil para mirar esas notificaciones? El primer paso es reconocerlo: tenemos un problema de adicción a nuestros teléfonos móviles y está en nuestra mano desengancharnos de esto. Estos increíbles dispositivos nos permiten conectarnos a Internet, a millones de personas y han cambiado las reglas del juego: pero no han sido ellos, sino nosotros, los seres humanos. Nos toca ahora volver a reconectar con nosotros mismos, y hacer las paces con la tecnología. Los artículos que menciono durante el episodio son: "Stop letting modern distractions steal your attention" de Anna Goldfarb para NYTimes: https://www.nytimes.com/2019/03/26/smarter-living/stop-letting-modern-distractions-steal-your-attention.html "Is the answer to phone addiction a worse phone?" de Nillie Bowles para NYTimes: https://www.nytimes.com/2018/01/12/technology/grayscale-phone.html?action=click&module=RelatedLinks&pgtype=Article "How to Break up with your phone" de Catherine Price --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorabarca/message
Author Anna Goldfarb is one of my favorite creative people, and I'm so happy to have her as a guest on GOAL MAGIC! I first learned about Anna back when she was the editor behind the wildly popular (but now retired) dating blog Shmitten Kitten. Since then, we’ve built up a friendship based upon our shared love of writing goofy email newsletters. Just to let you know, Anna writes my favorite newsletter in the whole world and you should totally go subscribe to it at annagoldfarb.com. Now happily married with Shmitten Kitten in her rearview mirror, Anna makes a living writing fearlessly about relationships, culture and food for publications like The New York Times, Vice and Thrillist. Anna writes with a bold and exuberant wit and she’s not afraid to offend people who might disagree with her. With titles like “What I wish I'd Known Before Moving in Together” “The Top 10 Worst Things I’ve Eaten at Trader Joe’s” and “What to Say When People Ask Why You’re Not Having Children” you can see why Anna’s articles get tons of impassioned comments from readers. Anna is also the author of the humor memoir, Clearly, I Didn’t Think This Through: The Story of One Tall Girl’s Impulsive, Ill-Conceived, and Borderline Irresponsible Life Decisions. It’s a hilarious and heart-warming book. We discuss these topics (and many more) in the episode: Being intentional with your network How a creative network is different from other social networks How Anna knew her husband was "the one" How to survive as an adult living in your parents' basement The best locale for forcing yourself to write How to deal with one-star reviews online How we sometimes confuse our friends with our fans on social media The pros and cons of freelance writing The value of finding an "accountability buddy" Remember: success is not a straight line! How jealousy can lead to personal insight I hope you enjoy this episode as much as I enjoyed recording it! Stay Magical, Brennen Sponsor Love: This delicious episode is sponsored by Whipped Bakeshop. Their award-winning cookies make perfect gifts. Fall in love: https://whippedbakeshop.com/ Intro Music: We are One by Vexento We Are One by Vexento https://www.youtube.com/user/Vexento https://soundcloud.com/vexento Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/Ssvu2yncgWU Outro music: Nostalgia by Tobu tobumusic.com/license https://soundcloud.com/7obu/nostalgia
When determining your criteria for a date, how much should height matter? We'll talk to one woman who has always known exactly what she's looking for in a partner. Anna Goldfarb is a journalist and author of the book "Clearly I Didn't Think This Through." She has also written about her relationship for the New York Times. Our sponsors for this episode are Casper (code: WHY) and Squarespace (code: WHY). Go to casper.com/WHY or squarespace.com and use the promo code for special offers. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Being generous in our friendships makes us better friends and keeps solid friends in our lives. We're not talking about money here! To quote this week's guest, relationship-based therapist and author, Emma Nadler, "When we act more generously we feel better. So there's a lot in it for you, too." We discussed Emma's top five ways to be a more generous friend, and I added one of mine to the list. So yes, in 29 minutes you're getting SIX ways to be more generous in your friendships, which research links to a happier, more fulfilling life. Emma Nadler is a psychotherapist, author, and speaker. Her memoir, The Unlikely Village of Eden, is about learning to adapt when life doesn't go to plan, redefining community, and creating your own imperfect path. She has also written for The Washington Post, Salon, Huffington Post, and Newsweek, among others. In her private practice, she helps people build deeper relationships—including friendships—and cultivate more of what they want, even with life's inevitable challenges. Find Emma's newsletter on Substack: "Hope is the New Hot" and she's on Instagram @emmanadlerwrites.Resources and links mentioned in the episode:Emma's article in Next Avenue, "5 Ways to be a More Generous Friend"Emma's memoir, The Unlikely Village of EdenEmma's first episode on Dear Nina, "How to Support a Friend Facing an Ambiguous Loss""Most generous interpretation" -- a concept discussed often by Dr. Becky KennedyAnna Goldfarb's second episode on Dear Nina, "The 14-Day Friendship Cleanse"Anna Goldfarb's book, Modern FriendshipOlga Khazan's articles: "The Friendship Paradox" and "Stop Firing Your Friends"PLEASE NOTE: Listening to this podcast in no way creates a client/therapist relationship with Emma Nadler. This is educational in nature. No legal, counseling, or other professional services are being rendered and nothing is intended to provide such services or advice of any kind. If you are having a mental health emergency, please contact 911 or go to your nearest emergency room. You can also text or call 988 for the National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.Let's connect over all things friendship! My Substack newsletter about friendship & moreA guide to pitching yourself as a guestInstagram , TikTok, Twitter, Youtube, ThreadsJOIN the Dear Nina Facebook group Ask an anonymous questionAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Welcome to the top episode on Dear Nina in 2024—the 14-day friendship cleanse, brainchild Anna Goldfarb whose book, Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections, is a must read for anyone looking to improve their friendships. Don't feel put off by the word, "cleanse." This discussion is about reconsidering how you're approaching friendships and how you're treating your closest friends. (And that particular list shouldn't be too long.)By the end of this episode, you will have a healthier mindset for thinking through your friendships, and you'll know why I became friends with Anna after her visit to the podcast almost two years ago when we talked about lopsided friendships.Meet Anna Goldfarb:Anna Goldfarb is the Philadelphia-based journalist and author of Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections. Her work has appeared in The Atlantic, TIME, Vice, The Cut, Vox, The Washington Post, and The New York Times. Find Anna's newsletter on Substack, grab an excerpt from her book on her website, and follow Anna on Instagram. LET'S CONNECT ON ALL THINGS FRIENDSHIP:My Substack newsletter about friendship & moreInstagram , TikTok, Twitter, Youtube, Threads, BlueskyJOIN the Dear Nina Facebook group Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands