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What does real love look like? Jeff explores Pope Leo XIV's inaugural message that emphasizes the importance of love in today's world. Jeff discusses the different Greek words for love—Phileo, Storge, Eros, and Agape—and highlights the profound impact of Agape love. He reflects on 1 Corinthians 13 to bring out the biblical understanding of love and connects it to our everyday relationships. Snippet from the Show True love rises above problems, conflict, and everything that divides us. Email us with comments or questions at thejeffcavinsshow@ascensionpress.com. Text “jeffcavins” to 33-777 to subscribe and get Jeff's shownotes delivered straight to your email! Or visit https://media.ascensionpress.com/?s=&page=2&category%5B0%5D=Ascension%20Podcasts&category%5B1%5D=The%20Jeff%20Cavins%20Show for full shownotes!
What kind of friendships are forming your faith? In this powerful final message of our Four Loves teaching series, Pastor CJ Ward unpacks the biblical meaning of Philia—brotherly love—and why it's essential for spiritual growth and emotional health. In a world increasingly plagued by loneliness, the Church has the answer: Gospel-centered friendship. Proverbs 18:24 reminds us, “There is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.” That's Philia. In this message, you'll discover: The difference between surface relationships and soul-nourishing friendship Why Jesus and Paul modeled a life built on Philia Three practical ways to build lasting, Christ-centered friendships Why life groups and spiritual accountability matter more than ever How your closest relationships shape your faith journey Whether you're feeling isolated or looking to go deeper in your friendships, this message will inspire you to become a better friend and surround yourself with people who point you to Jesus. Key Quote: "You don't become who you're meant to be by accident. You need friends who will shape you, sharpen you, and stick with you." – Pastor CJ Ward Ready to step into real friendship? Join a Life Group today: church307.com/groups #FourLoves #Philia #BrotherlyLove #ChristianFriendship #LifeGroups #NewLifeChurch #CJWard #FriendshipGoals #GospelCommunity #JesusAndFriends #PhiliaLove #BiblicalFriendship Chapters (00:00:00) - The Four Loves of Proverbs(00:02:57) - Phileo(00:04:09) - Do You Need Friends Whether You're Married or Not?(00:10:13) - Americans Don't Talk About Mental Health or Physical Health(00:12:40) - We Are Being Offered Fake Relationships(00:17:53) - The Book of Proverbs(00:20:52) - You Will Not Accidentally Become A Good Friend(00:26:19) - A message about life groups(00:30:59) - Singing the Song of Brotherly Love
John 21:1-19 is one of the greatest moments in the Bible. Jesus comes to get Peter who tried to go back to normal after the cross and fish: God did not want Him, or you and me to go back to normal after encountering the Risen Christ! “Yet the third time, Jesus uses Peter's word Phileo for the question “Do you love me.” Put in modern terms, Jesus asks Peter the third time if Jesus is still Peter's friend even after everything that has happened on the cross, and that, sends Peter into a state of weeping.”
The ancient Greeks had various words to describe different forms of love:Eros – Romantic lovePhileo – Friendship LoveStorge – Familial loveAgape – Unconditional loveIn this We Are One Original Series, "MadLove," we're breaking down the 4 different types of loves that the Lord talks about in the Bible.--------Sign up for Pillars: A 12 Week Discipleship Journey Building Saints who are STRONG, SMART, and STABLE.https://weareoneyouth.com/pillars--------Text the We Are One Hotline for prayer needs and all thingsWe Are One: 844-641-8147--------For bibles, prayer requests, giving, and more, click the link below to get connected https://weareoneyouth.com/fam--------If you just accepted Jesus, if you have a prayer request, or you want to know more about us, CLICK THIS LINK! https://weareoneyouth.com/fam--------Join the We Are One Fam:WEB: https://weareoneyouth.comFACEBOOK: http://facebook.com/waoyouthINSTAGRAM: http://instagram.com/waoyouthTIKTOK: https://vm.tiktok.com/tGmCPB/--------#weareoneyouth #love #friendship
John 11:3 Phileo is a word that expresses deep friendship, affection, and warmth, love between close companions. 5, 11 They were more than disciples; they were friends. 8 Stone you – 10:31-32 Jesus, undaunted, knew that God would guide and protect him. 9 Look fellows, I am doing God's will. Everything is going to be all right. I am not afraid, nor should you be. You are with me. 14 Sleep – focus your attention on the living and not the dead. 16 Thomas' reaction could be interpreted as confidence or sarcasm and fear. 17 Four days The Widow's Son at Zarephath – Elijah (1 Kings 17:17-24) The Shunammite Woman's Son – Elisha (2 Kings 4:18-37) A Dead Man Who Touched Elisha's Bones – (2 Kings 13:20-21) Jairus' Daughter – Raised by Jesus (Mark 5:35-43; Luke 8:49-56) The Widow's Son at Nain – Raised by Jesus (Luke 7:11-17) Lazarus – Raised by Jesus after four days in the tomb (John 11:1-44) Tabitha (Dorcas) – Raised by Peter (Acts 9:36-42) Boy falling out window – Raised by Paul (Acts 20:7-12) Yes, in the time of Jesus, the custom in Jewish culture was to bury the dead on the day of death, just as it is today. One of the clearest prophetic signs comes from Jonah's experience: “Now the Lord had prepared a great fish to swallow up Jonah. And Jonah was in the belly of the fish three days and three nights.” (Jonah 1:17 KJV) Jesus himself referenced this as a prophecy of his own death and resurrection: “For as Jonah was three days and three nights in the belly of the great fish, so shall the Son of man be three days and three nights in the heart of the earth.” (Matthew 12:40 KJV)The post Christ Series 1: Lazarus: Forerunner of Christ first appeared on Living Hope.
The art of finding friends by becoming the friend you've been looking for. Join us this March for a brand new series with new conversations every Friday as we unpack Godly community. Phileo is the greek word for brotherly love and friendship. "Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ." -Ephesians 4:15 Our sponsors for this series: Minnesota Young Adult WKND: www.youngadults.today/the-wknd Scripture Music: https://linktr.ee/musicscripture GFA World's Paid Apprenticeship: www.gfa.org/apprenticeship Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/f.y.i.podcast www.fyi-podcast.com | www.youngadults.today
We hear from Kirby St. John his best advice for college students and young adults... We also answer the question: where do I go to make friends and how to I conquer loneliness? We also share about the 4 levels of friendship. "Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." Isaiah 41:10 Join us this March for a brand new series with new conversations every Friday as we unpack Godly community. Phileo is the greek word for brotherly love and friendship. Our sponsors for this series: Minnesota Young Adult WKND: www.youngadults.today/the-wknd Scripture Music: https://linktr.ee/musicscripture GFA World's Paid Apprenticeship: www.gfa.org/apprenticeship Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/f.y.i.podcast www.fyi-podcast.com | www.youngadults.today
Shane is a student at Crown College - he asked us how to speak the truth in love and share the hard things his friend needs to hear but might not want to hear. Join us this March for a brand new series with new conversations every Friday as we unpack Godly community. Phileo is the greek word for brotherly love and friendship. "Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ." -Ephesians 4:15 Our sponsors for this series: Minnesota Young Adult WKND: www.youngadults.today/the-wknd Scripture Music: https://linktr.ee/musicscripture GFA World's Paid Apprenticeship: www.gfa.org/apprenticeship Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/f.y.i.podcast www.fyi-podcast.com | www.youngadults.today
Making friends in your 20s and 30s is different, it's harder, requires more intentionality. We're here to help. God designed you as a young adult to crave contagious community and you're feeling lonely. That's all normal. Join us this March for a brand new series with new conversations every Friday as we unpack Godly community. Phileo is the greek word for brotherly love and friendship. Theme verse for Phileo: "Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends" John 15:13 Our sponsors for this series: Minnesota Young Adult WKND: www.youngadults.today/the-wknd Fulfill Your Purpose in Your Generation: https://www.youngadults.today/book GFA World's Paid Apprenticeship: www.gfa.org/apprenticeship Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/f.y.i.podcast www.fyi-podcast.com | www.youngadults.today
Making friends in your 20s and 30s is different, it's harder, requires more intentionality. We're here to help. God designed you as a young adult to crave contagious community and you're feeling lonely. That's all normal. Join us this March for a brand new series with new conversations every Friday as we unpack Godly community. Phileo is the greek word for brotherly love and friendship. Theme verse for Phileo: "Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends" John 15:13 Our sponsors for this series: Minnesota Young Adult WKND: www.youngadults.today/the-wknd Fulfill Your Purpose in Your Generation: https://www.youngadults.today/book GFA World's Paid Apprenticeship: www.gfa.org/apprenticeship Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/f.y.i.podcast www.fyi-podcast.com | www.youngadults.today
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Many of us long for deep, meaningful friendships that uplift and endure. But have you ever paused to consider what it takes to build such strong bonds? How do you cultivate trust, show up with love, and keep Christ at the center of your friendships? In this teaching, we learn how to build lasting, God-honoring friendships that stand the test of time.
Another word in the Greek language for love is Phileo. Phileo love is a friendship love. God himself has shown us this love and longs to receive this love from us. This is a love that goes two ways and allows us to face life better and grow stronger.
Welcome to today's sermon podcast, where we delve into the essence of building strong and lasting relationships. Drawing inspiration from the teachings of Jesus in Matthew 22, the sermon emphasizes the importance of prioritizing our connection with God. It's not just about romantic relationships heralded by Valentine's Day, but a deeper reflection on our primary relationship with our Creator. The sermon invites listeners to explore the different types of love as described in the scriptures— eros, storge, phileo, and the highest, agape love. It underscores the necessity of establishing our relationships on the solid foundation of God's love, a love that is selfless, sacrificial, and complete. As we journey into the new year, this message serves as a spiritual reminder that maintaining a personal relationship with God is crucial for the health of all our earthly relationships. In everything, it calls us to love with our whole heart, mind, soul, and strength. Connected: Building Meaningful Relationships Through Faith by Pastor Mike Curry Part 1 - Foundation: Your Relationship with God Matthew 22:36-40 Main Idea: A strong, personal relationship with God is foundational for all other relationships we have. Introduction The Foundation of Relationships Love the Lord your God Love comes from God (1 John 4:7, 19) Love is an active and living experience. Eros, Storge, Phileo, Agape Love is the hallmark of a personal relationship. With all your being Heart – seat of our affections and will (devotion) Matthew 6:21 Soul – seat of our breath and life or consciousness. Genesis 2:7 Mind – seat of thought, reasoning and understanding. Ro 12:2 (Strength) – Mark 12:30 Our main duty – Love God and neighbor Maintain a personal relationship with God. Loving God and others involves: Commitment and Loyalty Trust and Respect Giving and Surrendering oneself Knowing and sharing Conclusion: Prioritizing your connection with God creates a solid spiritual base that influences every other relationship your life. ---- Find other Podcasts, Sermon Notes and the Bulletin here. www.mvcnaz.org/live Stay in touch with our Church Center App at www.mvcnaz.org/churchcenter Contact us through our CONNECT form at https://www.mvcnaz.org/connect
Today we are concluded our Advent series for 2024 with Part 4 - Love. Join us as Sam shares with us about the 'love' in this advent season. This is the audio podcast.
Policies given by Christ; Epistles?; Misunderstanding Paul; Paul's court experiences; Crazier Emperators; US Commanders in Chief; Moral authority?; King Jesus; Travel at Christ's time; Incense-burning; Benefit Temples; Centurion Christians; Rightly dividing bread from house to house; "Religion"; Temple membership; Acts 17:7; "Rhomaios" status; Appealing to Caesar; Explaining Christ; Salvation; Article 1: Congregations; Article 2: Seat of authority; What did Christ say?; "Logos" = right reason; Article 3: Conscience of The Church; Government of, for and by the people; Trees of Knowledge and Life; In, but not of, the "world"; Romans 13; Power - of choice; Consequences; Abraham and Lot; "Altars"; "Melchizedek"; The Church is a possession of God; "Church" = ekklesia = called out; Corruption of power; Term limits?; Statutory bondage; Article 4; Repentance; Covetous practices; Christ's commandments; Harmonious arrangements; Lev 20:26 "Holy"; Consecration; Separation; Covenanting with kings; Following Holy Spirit; "Put to death"; Judgements of Moses; Lev 22:2; Turning the world upside-down; False witness; Minister separation from the "world"; Pilate's declaration of Christ as king; No coveting; Loving God and our neighbors; Lev 15:31; Mt 20:13; Ordained of God; Lk 6:22; Getting kicked out of bondage; "stoning"; Having hard discussions; Num 18:14; John 15:19; "world"; Private Religion; Your duty to your fellowman; Welfare snares; The Gospel message; John 17:14; Denying the power of God; "Dunamis"; Judging; 2 Cor 6:14 "believer"; Lot's wife; Freewill offerings; Ananias's offerings; "Levites"; Sitting in darkness; Withstanding tyranny; "Infidel"; Phileo love; Faith compels action; Agape love; Sacrifice; Giving your choice away; Elder-driven Church; Homeschooling; Individual choice to love; "Belial"; 2 Cor 6:17 Be ye separate; Heb 7:26; Article 5: Servants of the Kingdom; Living stones; "Leaven"; Ensnaring yourself; "Deacon"; Tithe; Rewards of unrighteousness; Deut 14:29; Legal title; Doing the will of the Father; Acts 13:2; Barnabas; "Nicolaitans"; Serving congregations; Doing contrary to Christ?; Repent.
Friendship and physical intimacy both play a role in creating a rich marriage. Jim Daly and Dr. David Gudgel share how you can cultivate both things in your marriage. Then, you'll hear John and the Smalley's offer encouragement to couples who feel ashamed about past sexual sin. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book Enjoy Your Marriage More for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Listen Anytime Romance and Intimacy Contact our Counseling Department Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.
Friendship and physical intimacy both play a role in creating a rich marriage. Jim Daly and Dr. David Gudgel share how you can cultivate both things in your marriage. Then, you'll hear John and the Smalley's offer encouragement to couples who feel ashamed about past sexual sin. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book Enjoy Your Marriage More for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Listen Anytime Romance and Intimacy Contact our Counseling Department Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1196/29
Lezen: Johannes 21:1-19 Er is een prachtig lied van de christelijke band Casting Crowns. Het heet This is now (link naar YouTube) en het gaat over een van Jezus' leerlingen, Petrus. Als je de evangeliën leest kom je de naam Petrus regelmatig tegen. Hij was de leider van de twaalf mannen die het dichtst bij Jezus stonden. Als Jezus een vraag stelt, dan geeft Petrus vaak antwoord namens de anderen. Hij is degene die het meest wordt geprezen door Jezus voor zijn geloof, maar ook degene die er het meest van langs krijgt. Hij is namelijk iemand met het hart op de tong. Eerst spreken, dan nadenken. Hij doet veel goed en maakt veel fouten. De avond voor zijn sterven maakt Jezus zijn leerlingen duidelijk dat Hij zal worden gearresteerd en dat Hij moet sterven. Petrus staat op en zegt tegen Jezus dat hij dit nooit zal toestaan – hij sterft nog liever samen met Jezus. Jezus zegt dan dat Petrus de komende nacht, nog voordat de haan zal kraaien, driemaal zal ontkennen dat hij Jezus kent. Jezus' woorden komen uit. Als Jezus wordt gearresteerd, vlucht Petrus. Later die nacht wordt hem drie keer gevraagd of hij bij Jezus hoort. Petrus ontkent dit. En zo wordt de trouwe leerling een verrader. In het lied van Casting Crowns kijkt Petrus terug op deze gebeurtenis. Hij voelt zich leeg en waardeloos. Het beeld dat hij van zichzelf had is in duizend stukken gebroken. Hij is alleen nog maar een omhulsel. Toen Jezus uit de dood opstond, was Petrus natuurlijk blij. Hij was zijn Meester niet werkelijk verloren. Tegelijkertijd voelde hij zich nog steeds beschaamd over zijn verraad. Hij had Jezus in de steek gelaten. Welke hoop was er nog voor hem? Aan het eind van het evangelie van Johannes geeft Jezus hem die hoop weer terug. Hoe? Door het goede nieuws te verpakken in één enkele vraag. In het laatste hoofdstuk van Johannes wachten de leerlingen van Jezus in Galilea op Hem, zoals Hij hun had opgedragen. Maar het wachten duurt lang en daarom besluiten ze om hun oude beroep maar weer op te pakken. Ze gaan vissen. Johannes 21 Hierna verscheen Jezus weer aan de leerlingen, nu bij het Meer van Tiberias. Dat gebeurde als volgt. Bij het meer waren Simon Petrus en Tomas (dat is Didymus, ‘tweeling'), Natanaël uit Kana in Galilea, de zonen van Zebedeüs en nog twee andere leerlingen. Simon Petrus zei: ‘Ik ga vissen.' ‘Wij gaan met je mee,' zeiden de anderen. Ze stapten in de boot, maar de hele nacht vingen ze niets. Toen het al ochtend werd, stond Jezus op de oever. Maar de leerlingen wisten niet dat het Jezus was. Hij riep: ‘Hebben jullie iets te eten, jongens?' ‘Nee,' antwoordden ze. ‘Gooi het net uit aan de rechterkant van het schip,' riep Jezus, ‘dan lukt het wel.' Ze wierpen het net uit, en er zat zo veel vis in dat ze het niet omhoog konden trekken. De leerling van wie Jezus veel hield zei tegen Petrus: ‘Het is de Heer!' Zodra Simon Petrus dat hoorde, deed hij zijn bovenkleed aan – want hij was nauwelijks gekleed – en sprong in het water. De andere leerlingen kwamen met de boot en sleepten het net vol vis achter zich aan. Ze waren niet ver van de oever, ongeveer tweehonderd el. Toen ze aan land kwamen zagen ze een vuurtje met vis erop en brood. Jezus zei: ‘Breng ook wat van de vis die jullie daarnet gevangen hebben.' Simon Petrus ging weer aan boord en trok het net aan land. Het zat vol grote vissen, welgeteld honderddrieënvijftig, en toch scheurde het niet. Jezus zei tegen hen: ‘Kom, eet iets.' Geen van de leerlingen durfde Hem te vragen wie Hij was, ze begrepen dat het de Heer was. Jezus nam het brood en gaf hun ervan, en Hij gaf hun ook vis. Dit was al de derde keer dat Jezus aan de leerlingen verscheen nadat Hij uit de dood was opgestaan. Toen ze gegeten hadden, sprak Jezus Simon Petrus aan: ‘Simon, zoon van Johannes, heb je Mij lief, meer dan de anderen hier?' Petrus antwoordde: ‘Ja, Heer, U weet dat ik van U houd.' Hij zei: ‘Weid mijn lammeren.' Nog eens vroeg Hij: ‘Simon, zoon van Johannes, heb je Me lief?' Hij antwoordde: ‘Ja, Heer, U weet dat ik van U houd.' Jezus zei: ‘Hoed mijn schapen,' en voor de derde maal vroeg Hij hem: ‘Simon, zoon van Johannes, houd je van Me?' Petrus werd verdrietig omdat Hij voor de derde keer vroeg of hij van Hem hield. Hij zei: ‘Heer, U weet alles, U weet toch dat ik van U houd.' Jezus zei: ‘Weid mijn schapen. Werkelijk, Ik verzeker je, toen je jong was deed je zelf je gordel om en ging je waarheen je wilde, maar wanneer je oud wordt zal een ander je handen grijpen, je je gordel omdoen en je brengen waar je niet naartoe wilt.' Met deze woorden duidde Hij aan hoe Petrus zou sterven tot eer van God. Daarna zei Hij: ‘Volg Mij.' Ontroerende scène Wat een ontroerende scène, vind je niet? Jezus is uit de dood opgestaan en bemoedigt zijn leerlingen. Maar één van hen heeft wat extra aandacht nodig. Dat is Petrus, de leider van de groep. Jezus moet altijd hebben geweten dat Petrus hem trouw zou dienen, behalve tijdens de nacht waarin Hij hem het meest nodig had toen hij vluchtte en ontkende dat hij bij Jezus hoorde. En hoewel Jezus dit wist, koos Hij Petrus toch uit. Dit laat zien dat Jezus mensen goed kent. Hij weet dat niemand volmaakt is en dat mensen grote fouten maken. Maar dat is voor Jezus geen reden om hen te laten vallen. Sterker nog: Jezus heeft een zwak voor mensen die extra kwetsbaar zijn. Petrus' echte naam was Simon. Dat betekent ‘God heeft gehoord'. Maar Jezus was degene die hem een bijnaam gaf: Petrus. Dat betekent ‘rots'. Als iemand een rots is, dan is hij een stevige houvast voor anderen. Iemand op wie je kunt bouwen. Maar zo leren we Petrus niet kennen in de evangeliën. Hij is soms rotsvast, soms veranderlijk als het weer. En uiteindelijk brak hij zijn belofte. Hij ging niet mee met Jezus de dood in, maar vluchtte. Vissers van mensen En dan verschijnt de opgestane Jezus aan het strand terwijl de leerlingen aan het vissen zijn. Waarom hier en waarom nu? Ongeveer drie jaar eerder had Jezus daar ook gestaan. Ook toen waren Petrus en een paar andere mannen aan het vissen geweest en ook toen hadden ze 's nachts niets gevangen. Jezus had hun, midden op de dag, opgedragen de netten weer uit te gooien. Dat ging tegen alle visserslogica in. Overdag zwemmen de vissen veel te diep. Als je wat wilt vangen, dan moet je dat 's nachts doen. Toch luisterden ze naar Jezus en vervolgens haalden ze een enorme vracht vis uit het water. Dit wonder herhaalt zich hier, aan het eind van Johannes' boek. Maar dat is niet het enige opvallende. Weet je namelijk wat Jezus tegen de leerlingen had gezegd die eerste keer? ‘Ik zal vissers van mensen van jullie maken.' Dat eerste wonder was niet bedoeld om te laten zien dat Jezus alles kan. Het was bedoeld om aan de leerlingen te laten zien hoeveel mensen zij het koninkrijk van God zouden binnenleiden. Dat is wat Jezus bedoelde met ‘Jullie zullen vissers van mensen worden'. Dankzij de leerlingen zouden veel mensen tot geloof komen. Maar… in de Bijbeltekst die we net hebben gelezen, voeren de leerlingen hun oude beroep weer uit. Ze zijn gestopt met het vissen naar mensen en ze willen weer gewone vissen vangen. Dat mislukt jammerlijk. En wat doet Jezus dan? Hij laat opnieuw zien dat Hij een ander plan met hen heeft. Voor de tweede keer doen ze een levensgrote vangst midden op de dag, nadat Jezus hun opgedragen heeft om de netten weer uit te werpen. En dan Petrus Petrus is de enige die overboord springt om naar Jezus toe te gaan. Je ziet zijn enthousiasme direct weer. Tegelijkertijd klimt hij ook weer terug om de rest te helpen met de netten. Dat was natuurlijk heel aardig, maar het is ook symbolisch. Petrus wil naar Jezus toe gaan, maar hij aarzelt ook. Ze eten samen van de vis en dan neemt Jezus Petrus apart. Jezus vraagt: ‘Houd je meer van Mij dan van hen?' Het originele Grieks is veel krachtiger. Houd je meer van Mij dan van vissen? Houd je meer van Mij dan van de andere leerlingen? Ben je totaal toegewijd aan Mij? Houd je van Mij met onvoorwaardelijke, zelfopofferende liefde zoals God van mensen houdt? Het Griekse woord dat door Jezus wordt gebruikt is ‘agapè'. Dat is allesomvattende liefde. Petrus antwoordt: ‘Ik heb U lief'. Maar zijn woord voor ‘liefhebben' is niet agapè, maar phileo. Phileo betekent dat je iemand liefhebt, maar niet dat die liefde onvoorwaardelijk is, of dat je jezelf voor die ander wilt opofferen. Het is alsof iemand aan je vraagt ‘Houd je van mij?' en je antwoordt ‘Ik vind je wel aardig'. Eigenlijk wil Petrus uitroepen dat hij Jezus onvoorwaardelijk liefheeft, maar de praktijk heeft anders uitgewezen. Vroeger was hij Jezus' vriend. Nu is hij Jezus' verrader. Jezus stelt de vraag een tweede keer. ‘Heb je Mij onvoorwaardelijk lief?' Agapè. Petrus zegt: ‘Ja, ik heb U lief'. Phileo. Petrus zegt tegen Jezus: ‘Ik wil u wel agapè-liefde geven, maar U en ik weten dat ik daar blijkbaar niet toe in staat ben. Ik heb U alleen phileo te bieden. En dan vraagt Jezus: ‘Petrus, heb je Mij dan maar een beetje lief?' Phileo. Natuurlijk raakt dit Petrus diep. Want nu lijkt het alsof Jezus zelfs zijn phileo-liefde betwijfelt. Jezus gaat hier als een hartchirurg te werk. Zijn woorden zijn net zo scherp als het incisie-mes van de chirurg. Maar ze...
Luke 22:54-62. After being broken through personal failure and then graciously restored by grace, Peter is able to strengthen the brethren, stir up the saints and feed the sheep. God never condones failure, but He certainly uses it in our lives to grow and mature.
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Dr. Bell was asked to be the guest speaker at Gods' Word for Life. Dr. Bell emphasized the importance of love and commitment in the Christian walk. To truly demonstrate the love of Christ and win souls for the Kingdom, believers must be genuine and authentic. She pointed out that many are compromising their faith and mocking God, leading to a disconnect where souls are lost while the Church remains complacent in its routines. The credibility of the Church is compromised because the world sees no distinction between itself and the Church. Dr. Bell stressed that to effectively represent God, believers must live by example, free from the influence of the world. The world cannot believe in a Church that does not live out the principles it preaches. She highlighted the problem of hypocrisy, which arises when people do not immerse themselves in the Word of God and thus fail to embody the example of Christ. Without the Holy Spirit, it is impossible to live a life of true deliverance and be freed from the sinful nature of humanity. "Being all in" encompasses not just agape love—God's unconditional love that He commands us to have for one another—but also Phileo love, the love we choose to give to others, which creates an intimate bond, often referred to as a “soul tie.” Phileo love involves loving others as you love yourself, loving on purpose, and looking past faults to meet others' needs. It is a deliberate, compassionate love that strengthens relationships and reflects the heart of Christ. Subscribe and click the notification bell to stay updated on new messages as they are posted. If the content inspires you, please like it, and share it if you believe it will inspire others. Remember to stay encouraged.
We are excited to announce our new sermon series titled "Love, Unveiled," running from August 4 to August 25. This series will explore the four types of love found in the Bible: Eros, Storge, Phileo, and Agape. Each week, we will focus on a different love, highlighting its significance in our faith and relationships. Today's sermon is titled "Eros Love: A Divine Design." We will dive into the beautiful expression of romantic love as described in Solomon 8:6-7 (NIV) and how love fulfills its purpose through Romans 13:10 (NIV). Join us as we uncover the depth and meaning of Eros love in our lives and how it reflects God's divine plan. We look forward to seeing you there as we embark on this journey of love together!
“The Gospel vs false gospels”2 Timothy 4:3ITCHING EARS SeriesPastor Nate Clarke https://www.instagram.com/nateclarke_/June 16, 2024Have you heard? We are expanding our current space at Oasis to make room for families, with 3x more space for kids, youth, and the next generation. Look for more updates soon!https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/reel/C8FqHIipr3u/Learn about this year's Kingdom Builders project to secure land for the future of Oasis Church:https://www.oasischurch.online/kingdom-buildershttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xGL-Xr4I4_cSERMON NOTES:- 2 Timothy 4:3- The Gospel vs False gospels- A false gospel is a shift, big or small, off of the message of Christ and onto anything else.- A false gospel will always contain “revelation” that's not revealed in the scriptures. - Titus 3:3-7- 1 Corinthians 15:3-4- Galatians 2:16, 19-21- Romans 10:9-10- Galatians 1:6-9- 1 Timothy 4:1-2- 2 Corinthians 11:3-4- How do false gospels spread?- False teachers- Matthew 7:15-16- Immature teachers- 1 Timothy 3:6- 1 Timothy 5:22- Demons- 1 Timothy 4:1- The gospel of self- The gospel of self “God exists for my glory.” The Gospel “I exists for God's glory.”- The gospel of self “God is a tool to be used to exalt me.” The Gospel “He must become greater, I must become less” (John 3:30)- Philippians 2:8-11- Ephesians 2:8-10- 2 Timothy 4:18- 2 Timothy 1:5- The prosperity gospel- The prosperity gospel “health, wealth, and happiness are mine if I have enough faith.” The Gospel “The Lord gave and the Lord has taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.”- Job 1:21 ESV- James 1:2-4- 2 Corinthians 11:23-30- Matthew 5:45b- Ecclesiastes 3:1-8- Prosperity gospel “my worth and faith is in my accounts” The Gospel “my worth and faith is in the cross of Christ”- Proverbs 30:8-9 ESV- The progressive love gospel- The progressive love gospel loves the world more than it loves God.- Revelation 3:16- Matthew 24:12- Phileo “love of friendship, feelings, brotherly emotional love.” Agape “perfect love, fatherly love, a love of decision not emotion”- Progressive love gospel “love (phileo) is God.” The Gospel “God is love (agape).”- Matthew 22:37- Progressive love gospel “tolerate and celebrate to be saved!” The Gospel “repent of your sins and trust Christ to be saved!”- Revelation 2:20- Progressive love gospel “we will make god in our own image.” The Gospel “we have been made in God's image.”- Luke 22:31-32- Job 1:6-7- 1 Chronicles 21:1- Revelation 12:10- Hebrews 7:25- Romans 8:34- Luke 22:32Oasis Church exists to help people see Jesus more clearly.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Richmond, VA.Stay Connected:Website: https://oasischurch.online Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/
Are you ready to deepen your relationship with Jesus Christ? In this powerful sermon titled "Do You Really Love Him?", we explore what it truly means to love Jesus above everything else. Drawing from John 21:1-19, we delve into the profound conversation between Jesus and Simon Peter, challenging us to examine the depth and authenticity of our love for God. Learn the difference between Agape and Phileo love, understand the significance of Jesus's question, and gain insights on overcoming modern-day distractions that hinder your faith. This message provides practical steps to prioritize your love for Christ, maintain a passionate connection, and steadfastly follow Him.
This week, we'll keep it simple and talk about the Main Thing: Love. Join us as Rande Vick shares on The Main Thing. This is the audio podcast.
In this powerful sermon, Pastor Jeff delves into the heart of Christian faith amidst the tumults of our world and the personal call to Agape Love. Reflecting on current events, prophecies, and the anticipation of Christ's return, he challenges believers to look beyond earthly signs like eclipses and political unrest, directing our focus towards the unwavering love and sovereignty of Jesus Christ.Through an insightful exploration of Scripture, personal anecdotes, and a deep dive into the distinctions between Phileo (brotherly love) and Agape (unconditional love), Pastor Jeff invites us on a transformative journey. This message is a call to action for believers to elevate their love for Christ to an all-encompassing, sacrificial Agape Love. It's a reminder that in a world filled with fear and uncertainty, our anchor remains firm in the promises of God and the mission to advance His kingdom.Whether facing personal trials or global shifts, "From Phileo to Agape: Transforming Love into a Living Sacrifice" offers a beacon of hope and a roadmap to living out a faith that is not swayed by the winds of change but is deeply rooted in the eternal love of Christ. Join us as we explore what it means to truly commit to a life of faith, love, and purpose, guided by the authentic gospel of Jesus Christ.
In this eye-opening episode of Marriage Monthly, Gabe and Melissa Kolstad dive deep into the heart of what it means to say "I love you" in a marriage. Discover the three essential types of love - Eros, Phileo, and Agape - and learn why your marriage might feel out of balance without them. From the passionate beginnings with Eros to the deep friendship of Phileo and the unconditional, sacrificial Agape love, the Kolstads share personal insights and biblical wisdom on how to nurture each type of love in your relationship. Whether you're newlyweds or celebrating decades together, this episode will inspire you to look at your love life in a whole new way. Tune in to explore how these loves work together and why getting them in the right order can transform your marriage. Don't miss this blend of humor, honesty, and practical advice that could be the key to deepening your connection and ensuring your love thrives through the years.Whether you're a newlywed or have been married for years, this podcast is a must-listen for anyone looking to strengthen their relationship. Tune in to Marriage Monthly for more marriage tips and advice from a Christian perspective.LINKS & RESOURCES:SUBSCRIBE to always see our content and improve your marriage: https://www.youtube.com/@marriagemonthlypodcastVisit us any Sunday at 8:30am, 10am & 11:30am here: https://www.westsidecommunitychurch.comSTAY CONNECTED:Gabe: https://www.instagram.com/gabekolstad/?hl=enMelissa: https://www.instagram.com/melissa_b_kolstad/?hl=enThanks so much for joining us!#MarriageMonthly #MarriageTips #MarriageAdvice #RelationshipGoals #ChristianPodcast #Podcast #Sex #Sexy #GabeKolstad #MelissaKolstad #CouplesTherapy #MarriageCounseling #CommunicationSkills #LoveAndMarriage #HappilyEverAfter #MarriageGoals #HealthyRelationships
Faithful Friendships, Fake Friendships Several of you have expressed appreciation for our Proverbs series. Thank you. Before we started working through the themes, I was worried they would feel repetitive or moralistic. But I've found it refreshing, convicting, and redemptive. It sounds like many of you have as well. Our verses this morning deal with a thing that is near and dear to each of us - friendship. Faithful friendship that builds up and loves and cares versus shallow friendship that is selfish and fleeting and convenient. Please take out your Proverbs insert. On the inside you'll see those two categories. (1) On the left-hand side, The Foundation to Faithful Friendship, and (2) and on the right, The Folly of Fake Friendship. Stand as we read God's holy Word. Reading of selected proverbs------------------------------------------------------------The Foundation to Faithful FriendshipProverbs 11:25 Whoever brings blessing will be enriched, and one who waters will himself be watered.17:9 Whoever covers an offense seeks love, but he who repeats a matter separates close friends.17:17 A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.18:24 A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.20:6 Many a man proclaims his own steadfast love, but a faithful man who can find?22:11 He who loves purity of heart, and whose speech is gracious, will have the king as his friend.27:5-6 Better is open rebuke than hidden love. Faithful are the wounds of a friend; profuse are the kisses of an enemy.27:9 Oil and perfume make the heart glad, and the sweetness of a friend comes from his earnest counsel.27:10 Do not forsake your friend and your father's friend, and do not go to your brother's house in the day of your calamity. Better is a neighbor who is near than a brother who is far away.27:17 Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another.The Folly of Fake FriendshipProverbs 14:20 The poor is disliked even by his neighbor, but the rich has many friends.15:17 Better is a dinner of herbs where love is than a fattened ox and hatred with it.19:4,6-7 Wealth brings many new friends, but a poor man is deserted by his friend. Many seek the favor of a generous man, and everyone is a friend to a man who gives gifts. All a poor man's brothers hate him; how much more do his friends go far from him! He pursues them with words, but does not have them.------------------------------------------------------------ You may not have heard this, but there is a new epidemic sweeping the nation. Last October, the surgeon general released a report about its devastating effects. But it's not an epidemic spread by germs. It's not an epidemic that requires masks. We don't have to wipe down door handles and counters. This epidemic is not helped at all by any kind of social distancing. No, in fact, quite the opposite. But this epidemic sadly increases your risk of diseases. The report states that if you are touched by this epidemic, your disease and heart condition risks increase by 29% and 32% respectively. This epidemic has affected 61% of adults. But it has especially targeted younger people. In the last two decades, this epidemic has increased 70% in teenagers and young adults ages 15-24. It's been devastating in so many ways. What is this epidemic? Let me read you the title of the surgeon general's report: Our Epidemic of Loneliness and Isolation. The trend of more and more loneliness began way before the COVID pandemic but was heightened by it. Think about this: We live in a world where we have more interaction with other people through social media, yet we are more and more lonely. We live in a world where we have hundreds of so-called “friends,” online, yet we feel isolated. And I think you know some of the tragic results of loneliness. In speaking with several of you, I know that some of you are lonely - lonely to different degrees and for different reasons. And we go through phases of loneliness in our lifetime. I remember driving into the Atlanta area for the first time back in the mid-90s. I had taken a job here. But I didn't know a single soul. Those first few months were very lonely. But by God's grace, through the church, I began to develop some fast friends. Many with whom I am still friends today. Proverbs speaks to our hearts about friendship. It not only tells us the importance of friendship, but it directs us to what faithful friendship looks like. And it also warns us about superficial friends. My hope this morning is that each of us would see, in a deeper way, the importance of friendship… and how to be a faithful friend to one another. With that in mind, let's first consider the foundation to faithful friendship and then second, the folly of fake friendship. After that, we'll talk about where to begin. The Foundation to Faithful Friendship As I was contemplating these verses, three categories stood out to me that summarize a faithful friend. A faithful friend (1) provides steadfast support through the joys and trials of life, (2) imparts God's wisdom in love, and (3) nurtures mutual brotherhood. (2x) Some of these verses fit nicely into one of these categories, but a couple of them speak to more than one category. (1) steadfast support Let's begin with the steadfast support one. I am including the phrase “through the joys and trials of life” because think of the different kinds of experiences in life. Joys include celebrations and success and other kinds of milestones, and trials include different kinds of suffering and sadness and difficult change. And a true friend is one who is there. It's someone who is present and who endures with you through thick and thin. I think the Proverb that most embodies this characteristic is 17:17. “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.” If you are going through one of life's valleys– no matter what it is whether grief or doubt or persecution of some kind, a true friend will be there for you. He or she will encourage you if needed, or be present with you if needed, or care for and provide. That friend will know you and how to care for your soul. And if you are both going through that adversity together, you can support one another through that time. Proverbs 18:24 also captures this in a different way: “A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.” A companion, by the way, is someone with whom you share something in common or you occasionally spend time together. In other words, a casual friend. If you only have people in your life who are companions, then when adversity comes, you may not have someone there for you. “…but a friend,” it says, “sticks closer than a brother.” Someone you are knit close to will be there for you. A couple of these other verses similarly emphasize this kind of steadfastness, like the one that says, “do not forsake your friend or your father's friend…” And this kind of steadfast support needs to be demonstrated. What I mean is, it's one thing to say you are faithful, but it's another thing to confirm it with your actions. That's what Proverbs 20:6 says. “Many a man proclaims his own steadfast love, but a faithful man who can find?” So, that's the first category – steadfast faithfulness. (2) imparts God's wisdom in love The second characteristic in these verses is how a friend imparts God's wisdom in love. This is about loving your friends by giving counsel - not the world's counsel, but wisdom from the Word. That may be listening to and praying with your friend through a big decision in life. It may be giving godly advice. For example, look at Proverbs 27:9 “Oil and perfume make the heart glad, and the sweetness of a friend comes from his earnest counsel.” A dear friend helps to apply God's word in various situations in life. Sometimes that means gently exhorting them when you see a disconnect between their actions and faith in Christ. Take, for example, Proverbs 27:5-6 – It says there in the middle – “Faithful are the wounds of a friend; profuse are the kisses of an enemy.” A friend speaks the truth in love. Let me add, a friend supports you but does not enable you. And let me give you an example. Let's say you are married. Maybe you are. And you are going through a rough patch. And you go to your friend and say, “I'm really hurt. My husband (or my wife) said this difficult thing to me.” Whatever it is… If your friend says back to you “I can't believe he (or she) said that. You have a right to be angry. That's the worst thing I've heard in a while. I hope that you dished it back at him.” Well, that is not being a good friend. A faithful friend will instead say something like “I'm so sorry. That sounds very difficult. Can I pray with you and encourage you?” And then later have a deeper conversation about what transpired. And if there were hurtful things said on both sides, encouraging your friend to seek forgiveness from her spouse. That's a pretty different kind of response, isn't it? I heard someone say the other day “there is no such thing as ‘I love you but'.” Meaning, if you love someone you will always affirm them. That's not what the Scriptures teach. No, quite the contrary. Displaying love to a friend is speaking the wisdom and truth of God to them. The book of James ends with this word: “My brothers, if anyone among you wanders from the truth and someone brings him back let him know that whoever brings back a sinner from his wandering will save his soul from death...” Now, that's the extreme case. Often times, we just need a gentle correction. Or a reminder of God's Word in matters of doctrine or practice. So, first, a faithful friend is there for you in the joys and sorrows of life. Second, a faithful friend speaks God's wisdom to you, in love. (3) nurtures mutual brotherhood. And third, a faithful friend nurtures mutual brotherhood - brotherhood in the sense it's used in Scripture meaning brotherly love. Phileo. It's mutual. To use another word, it's reciprocal. It's giving and receiving. Good friends support one another. Not in a selfish way, but in an edifying way. It's really difficult to be in a friendship that's always one-sided, meaning one friend is always the one who gives in the ways we already talked about. To be sure, there will be times when one friend needs to pour her life into her friend. That's part of what it means to be an enduring friend. But healthy friendships are mutual. Look at the very first Proverbs listed. 11:25 “Whoever brings blessing will be enriched, and one who waters will himself be watered.” There's that mutual relationship. Here's another one: Proverbs 27:17 “Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another.” I think that Proverb is in every single men's ministry book I've ever read. The reason is, it captures both the second point of speaking wisdom to a brother as well as this point, reciprocating brotherly love by sharpening one another. It's a great one because faithful friends nurture and challenge one another. So steadfast faithfulness, speaking the truth in love, and mutual brotherhood. The greatest example in the Bible of these principles lived out is the friendship between King David and Jonathan. Jonathan was King Saul's son. We read about their friendship earlier from 1 Samuel 18 and 19. These two men, David and Jonathan, loved each other with that phileo - brotherly love. They forged a two-way covenant friendship. They fought alongside one another in battle. Jonathan defended David from King Saul's jealousy. And after Jonathan died in battle, David not only wept bitterly, but later in honor of Jonathan, David cared for Jonathan's son Mephibosheth. Mephibosheth essentially became part of David's family. And think about this, King Solomon, David's son, would have heard about his father's friendship with Jonathan. Solomon never met Jonathan. Jonathan died before Solomon was born. But Solomon would have known Mephibosheth. Solomon would have read the prophet Samuel's account of David and Jonathan's friendship - the very words we read earlier. And I think it's safe to assume that King David would have spoken about Jonathan and so would, of course, Mephibosheth. So, as Solomon was composing and compiling these Proverbs on friendship, one of the examples of a faithful friendship was his father's friendship with Jonathan. It's a beautiful picture of faithful friendship. And I get angry when I hear people say that David and Jonathan's friendship included intimacy in inappropriate ways. The Scriptures in no way paints that picture. These were brothers, knit together with that phileo love and trust to defend and support one another. For the guys here… deep friendships with other men is critical for each one of us. If you are married, yes, your wife should be your closest friend in many ways. But you need other guys like this to sharpen you - to be there for you and to both challenge and encourage you. Ok, let me say one more thing about friendship and love. As you know, one of the most common passages used in weddings is 1 Corinthians 13 – the love chapter. I think I've preached 3-4 wedding homilies on it. But you know what, that chapter is not about marriage. No, the book of 1 Corinthians is written to draw the Christians in Corinth back to unity with and love for one another. Certainly 1 Corinthians 13 applies to marriage, but it's primarily about brotherly love. Hear these familiar words… “Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.” The similarities are striking between Proverbs description of faithful friends and 1 Corinthians 13. That's because it's the love between friends. It was the love that David and Jonathan had for one another. And it's the love we each need in faithful friendship. The Folly of Fake Friendship That brings us now to the opposite of genuine deep friendship and that is fake friendship. You can see those verses on the right, The Folly of Fake Friendship. These verses capture the general folly of false friends... false friends are convenient friends. They are only a friend to you because they can get something from you or vice versa. Or false friends are superficial because their friendship with you is not based on trust and love but is just a means-to-an-end. The main example here is how someone with wealth has many friends and someone in poverty has few. You see that in Proverbs 19:4 and 6. It says, “Wealth brings many new friends, but a poor man is deserted by his friend. Many seek the favor of a generous man, and everyone is a friend to a man who gives gifts.” The point is that the friends of the wealthy are often not genuine. Their interests are more “what can you give me” rather than genuine reasons of mutual brotherhood. I've always found Proverbs 15:17 humorous. “Better is a dinner of herbs where love is than a fattened ox and hatred with it.” Amy has tried to get me to eat more herbs – like, you know, basil and cilantro…. something about nutrients and anti-oxidants. But, of course, I'd rather have fattened ox. Actually, I think the point is more about poverty and wealth. A dinner of inexpensive herbs with faithful friends is so much better than dining on the choicest of foods with fake friends. And maybe it's not money, but maybe instead it's the other person's popularity. Or their lifestyle that you like participating in… or because it will advance your career or your status in the community. Or because they are an expert at something, and you are intrigued by that. Or because they can become a client of yours. This reminded me of a painful story in college. I had a friend, a good friend, who signed up for Amway. And, of course, he wanted to tell me about the products he was selling. I listened, but in the end, I politely declined. My reason was that I didn't want our friendship to be complicated by multi-level marketing or salesy type things. But he kept pushing and he wouldn't take “no” for an answer. That eventually drove us apart and we haven't talked since. When I think about what happened, it's always grieved my heart. Think about it this way: shallow convenient friendships don't have the foundation of faithful friendships. · Instead of standing by you through trials, a superficial friend is going to flee. · Instead of speaking the truth in love, a superficial friend is going to lie or tell you what you want to hear. · And especially this last one… instead of reciprocation, a superficial friendship is one sided. It's a “what have you done for me lately” friendship. And that is sad. Finding Faithful Friends But it doesn't have to be that way. The question is, how do you be a faithful friend? And the answer is, you look to the one who is the most faithful friend. You begin with and look to Jesus. He's truly the one who has fulfilled these proverbs. Like back to 20:6 He promises steadfast love and he has faithfully fulfilled that steadfast love. Jesus modelled and fulfilled that kind of friendship with his disciples… especially his inner circle – Peter, James, and John. They served alongside of Jesus. He poured out his wisdom to them. He was there to lift them up when they lacked of faith. He called them out when they misunderstood, and he loved them. He washed their feet. And think about this. All of Jesus disciples left him when he was arrested. Peter was even there in the courtyard that night where they had taken Jesus. And yet, instead of standing by Jesus, Peter denied him three times. Yet, Jesus remained faithful to him and all of his disciples. Despite their unfaithfulness, Jesus faithfully endured the cross. Through his faithfulness, he redeemed their unfaithfulness. And after Jesus resurrection and ascension, an amazing thing happened. Peter, James, and John became the epitome of faithful friends to Jesus. They risked their lives to defend Christ and proclaim his truth. They would ultimately die for him, that his name may be exalted. Jesus faithfulness to them, gave them courage and hope to be faithful to him to the end. This is the friend that we have in Jesus. And to be sure, we do not need to set aside our reverent awe for Jesus. He is not our “pal,” so to speak. No, he's the kind of faithful friend described here… and he is our Savior and our Lord. We can come to him in prayer. We can bare our hearts to him knowing that he bore the cross for us and he hears us. He is the most faithful friend for each of us. And it is out of that friendship with Christ that we can seek and be faithful friends with one another. I'm not saying we can't have faithful friends who don't yet know the Lord, but I am saying that our closest friends will share that friendship in Jesus. Why is that? · Well, because #1 it is through the faithful ministry of Christ that we can love and support one another through all of life. · And #2 because Jesus turned our hearts and minds to him, we can speak his wisdom into each other's hearts and minds. To say it in another way, our friendship with Christ enables our friendships with one another. With that in mind, let me close with two practical encouragements for each of us. · First, loneliness is real here among our church family. We are brothers and sisters in Christ. And so, as we look out for the needs of one another, one of our deepest needs is faithful friends. That means, if you see a brother or sister in Christ here who seems disconnected, let's work together as a church family to foster friendships… that we may be a family known for our love and care and support of one another. And if you feel lonely, please share that with one of our ministry team leads or elders or with me so that we can be the body of Christ together. · Second, every single human being has been created in God's image. That means we were all created for relationships. As we think about our own need for friendships, we should also consider the need that our neighbors have for friendships. In the surgeon general's report on loneliness, it included not only an analysis of loneliness and isolation, but it also included practical guidance - advice to different kinds of organizations including churches. And yes, a lot of that guidance was fostering friendships within the community. But the report also challenged organizations to foster friendship in the broader communities around them. And I think that's a good word. One suggestion was to “lead by example” to quote the report. When the world sees a church community loving one another as faithful friends…. it testifies to the ministry of God in Christ in us. Another thing we can do is continue to be a welcoming community. That includes here on Sundays as well as the ministries in which we're each involved in the community. Witnessing to Christ often comes through relationships with those whom God has brought into our lives. So, may we each grow in our faithful friendship with one another. And in that endeavor, may we look to the one who is our faithful friend – Jesus our Lord. And may we testify to the world around us of the faithfulness of God in Christ as we build relationships in his name.
We as Americans face a big problem today- loneliness. Today we will talk about one of the ways we as Christ followers can tackle loneliness through the extension of phileo love. Group Questions 1. In what ways have you experienced phileo love? 2. Have you experienced loneliness? How were you able to come out of it?3. What part of John 15:12-17 stands out to you?4. How can you help others experience phileo love within the church? How about outside of the church, to someone who does not YET believe in Christ?5. Read Colossians 3:12-17. How are you living this out? 6. Where do you need to offer forgiveness to one of your brothers or sisters in Christ? Or, where do you need to ask for forgiveness?Challenge: Allow God to use you. Find a moment where you can extend phileo love to someone who seems to be alone.
The practice of Christian Meditation helps us live with the peace of Christ. Relax to the sounds of meditation music. Narrated by James Seawood. Friends are one of God's greatest gifts. Meditate on Proverbs 18:24. Find peace and rest during this guided meditation for mind and body with deep breathing, prayer, and scripture. Use these meditations as a Bible study in the morning to center yourself on the truth in God's word. For more Bible meditations, download the Abide app: https://abide.co/awesome Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
Embark with Linda and me on an intimate exploration of the complex tapestry of love, from its passionate beginnings to the profound connections we cherish in friendships and family. We're unwrapping the mystery of love's many forms, starting with a look at 'Eros' - the romantic, fiery love that often gets our hearts racing. But we won't stop there; we're threading through the realms of 'Phileo' and 'Storge', illuminating the bonds that fortify friendships and family ties. Together, we'll navigate the emotional landscapes that profoundly influence our daily lives and relationships, shedding light on the true essence of love.Discover the secrets to expressing love in ways that resonate deeply, as we discuss the five love languages that help us connect with others. From the joy of a thoughtfully picked gift to the undivided attention of quality time, we reveal the nuances of each love language through personal stories and reflections. Physical touch, too, is celebrated for its power to bond us beyond words. Our dialogue encompasses the evolution of love languages within our own lives, encouraging you to consider how your past informs your expressions of love and how you can adapt to grow closer to the ones you love.Celebrating Gotcha Day, an occasion dear to our hearts, we share the warmth of expanding our family through adoption and the lessons it taught us about the deeper meanings of love. We don't just stop at storytelling; we provide you with seven actionable tips for nurturing a strong and loving marriage. From the power of the vows to the necessity of open communication, these pillars stand as a guide for couples at any stage, aiming to fortify the foundations of a thriving marriage. Tune in for a practical and heartfelt discussion on how to cultivate love in its most sincere and impactful form.http://rocksolidfamilies.orgSupport the show
Summary In this episode, Hillary and Amy address four different types of love in-depth — Agape (unconditional, self-sacrificial love), Storge (familial love), Phileo (strong friendship love), and Eros (sexual attraction). They stress how each type of love is different from the other and should not be confused. Hillary and Amy also discuss how today’s culture […] The post 97. The Four Types of Love and Why Our Kids Need to Understand Them appeared first on Mama Bear Apologetics.
Mensagem Ministrada no MAP - Movimento Adoração em Prática.Por Pr. Tico Martiniuk
To be continued… Hebrews 13:1-3 Georges Sada Recap of the Book of Hebrews: Our Great Savior and our great salvation helps us make it through even our great struggles. Three things to be continued among Christians: __________________for Christians you already know V. 1 The word for brotherly love here is Philadelphia. John 13:35 John 15:12 Rom. 12:10 1 Pet. 4:8 1 Jn. 3:23 Agape love, which was in almost all the verses quoted above, has the idea of a love that is a deliberate __________________. Phileo has more of the idea of attachment and personal _________________. Love for those you ___________________ know V. 2 Philadelphia means brotherly love; Philoxenia is _____________ love. Galatians 6:10 God will give us many opportunities to show __________ philadelphia and philoxenia. Love for those experiencing ____________________ V. 3 In the context we need to say that the author of Hebrews is probably referring _________________ to those Christians who have been imprisoned due to persecution. We should remember our brothers and sisters _________________ for their faith.
The Power of Love #3 1 Corinthians 13:1-7
To have a companion and confidant in a platonic way is a beautiful experience. Phileos, the love of a friend, is exemplified by the deep bond shared between David and Jonathan. Trust and loyalty are essential components, but when combined with love, they create an unbreakable connection. Phileo represents the love that the Holy Spirit, our counselor and confidant, imparts to us.
The Power of Love #2 1 Corinthians 13:1-7
Series: RomansLove Like a BelieverRomans 12:9-13 4 Greeks Words for “love” · Ero (eros) = physical or sensual desire · Storgeo (storgos) = affection that feels responsibility· Phileo (philos) = fondness for someone because of a connection/relationship· Agapao (agape) = God's love. An initiating, constant, unconditional love. The one who does not love does not know God, because God is love.I John 4:8 A Believer's Love Love should be authentic. Love should hate evil and cling to good. Love should be loyal to fellow believers. Love should acknowledge the value of others. Love should be joyful in service. Love should be evidenced by faithfulness in hardship. Love should help those in need. Love is not something we generate. Love is something that overflows. Today's Takeaways 1) Our love is the defining characteristic of true belief. 2) Our love for others is the greatest testimony to the power of the Gospel. 3) We love each other because God first loved us. 4) We maintain our love by focusing on the cross.
This morning, Sam shared with us about Love. What the scriptures say, what Jesus said and what people from the church have said about... Love. This is the audio podcast.
Dr. David Gudgel wants to equip couples to have successful and enjoyable marriages. In this broadcast, Dr. Gudgel reviews the three Greek words for love – AGAPE (sacrificial love), PHILEO (friendship love), and EROS (romantic love) – and encourages couples to intentionally work on all three to improve their relationship. Receive the book "Enjoy Your Marriage More" and an audio download of "Three Kinds of Love You Need For Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount! Get More Episode Resources We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail. If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.
Some years ago, I took my second trip on behalf of a youth ministry to South Africa. On the first trip, I remember how very lost I felt when I got to the airport. I'd been on an airplane for 18 wonderful hours. I got there late at night, I had no car, no directions. I didn't know anything about anywhere in the nation of South Africa. Well, I'm glad to report to you that someone met me there at the airport. They didn't just leave me saying, "Hey, listen, if you can get out to where we are we'll take care of you once you get there." That's a good thing. They'd have never seen me. I went as far as I could go, and they met me there. I know someone who does that for people all the time. And if you understand how He works, well you might just be willing to risk the trip. I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about "Why Failure Doesn't Have to Be Final." Now, our word for today from the Word of God is found in John 21, and I'll begin reading at verse 15. Let me put this in context: Jesus has risen from the dead. Not long before, Peter had said to Him, "Lord, I will follow you to prison and to the death." You remember that Jesus said, "No, you'll betray Me three times." And sure enough he did. He denied the Lord three times. He even said, "I never knew Him." What an embarrassment now. He's about to face the Lord, knowing he has failed Him. Well, Jesus meets Peter as he's out on a fishing trip. It looks like Peter's about to go back to that same old mediocrity. He's returning to fishing, it appears, but Jesus says, "I want to meet you privately." And you can imagine Peter. I don't know, maybe he thinks, "Oh-oh. Are we going to talk about that night?" Here's what Jesus said, "When they finished eating, Jesus said to Simon Peter, 'Simon, son of John, do you truly love Me more than these?' 'Yes, Lord, he said, You know that I love You.' Jesus said, 'Feed my lambs.' Again Jesus said, 'Simon, son of John, do you truly love me?' He answered, 'Yes, Lord, you know that I love you.' Jesus said, 'Take care of my sheep.' The third time He said to him, 'Simon, son of John, do you love me?' Peter was hurt because Jesus asked him the third time, 'Do you love me?' But he said, 'Lord, you know all things. You know that I love you.'" Now, with the backdrop of a major failure, all Jesus wants to know is, "Peter, do you love me?" Maybe you have failed Him recently. Do you know what He wants to know? "Do you love me?" Now, there are two very different love words used here. Phileo, which is a friendship kind of love, and agapao which is "I will love you, no strings attached." The first two times Jesus says, "Do you love me, no strings attached?" Peter says, "Yes, Lord, I phileo - I friendship love you." Finally Jesus says, "Okay, Peter, do you phileo - do you friendship love me?" And Peter says, "I do love you." Do you know what's interesting here? Jesus meets Peter where he is. He wants to do the same with you. He says, "Let's start with the little love that you have - let's start with the little faith that you have. You can get back to Me. You can begin again." And one day Peter will die for Christ. But right now He's just got that little, but growing love. So, would you bring Jesus the little love you have, but would you bring Him all you have? You can begin again. You don't have to get all the way there, because Jesus...He's the Savior who's waiting to meet you where you are.
"Here I am, Lord." These are familiar words. We have heard them from the lips of ancient heroes of the faith -- Abraham, Moses, Samuel, and more. But what did they really mean? What do WE mean when we dare speak them? Or do we know them to be so dangerous, we are not sure we are ready to whisper them under our breath, to the One who listens? Stephanie guides us through Scripture to find the geographical, emotional and mental places where these words are spoken. She then takes us to modern-day Hebrew language and religious culture through the Hebrew word for "here I am" -- heenani. It means more than catches the eye, and points to Jesus. Of course, it does - it is part and parcel of Scripture, the Word who points to the One. This episode is an invitation to experience Jewish insights into Messiah that only make sense in Christ. It is an invitation to worship afresh the One who is our King, our God, our Savior, our Intercessor, our Friend - the One who, ultimately, comes to us, saying, "Here I am." NEW BONUS | QUESTIONS TO GO DEEPER ON YOUR OWN OR WITH A FRIEND 1. What can we learn from the story of Samuel's calling and how can we apply it in our lives? 2. How did Abraham's response of "Here I am" to God's call change the course of his life and what can we learn from it? 3. What is the significance of the Hinani prayer in Jewish Orthodox theology and how does it relate to our Christian faith? 4. How can we practice humility and acknowledge our unworthiness before God, as expressed in the Hinani prayer? 5. How does the role of a worship leader, such as a Chazan, differ between Jewish Orthodox and Christian communities? 6. How can we love God and others with both Agape and Phileo love, as discussed in the episode? 7. How does the concept of communal prayer in Judaism compare to what we see in Christian worship services? 8. How can we ensure that our own inadequacies don't hinder the prayers we offer on behalf of others? 9. How can we respond with "Here I am" to Jesus's call to love and follow him? 10. In what ways can we grow in intimacy with God through our own research and study of Scripture? This series is an invitation to immerse yourself in the various ways God communicates to us, and us to Him. So pay attention, He is here and willing to whisper in your ear. A word of caution: don't come to Scripture with the agenda of finding yourself there. Right now we are going to take Scripture in. Like breathing, like eating, like smelling a flower. Don't come to Scripture with the agenda of finding yourself there. Come with the firm intention of discovering God instead. And then Scripture will never disappoint. God promises to be found in the places where He dwells – His Word especially. And in the process, you will undoubtedly find yourself as you find Him. So as we enter the hallowed pages of Scripture together, through a humble doorway and a very simple story, ask yourself: what is this telling me about Jesus? BECOME A GOSPELSPICE MEMBER TODAY! Have you noticed our brand new website? It offers FREE MEMBERSHIP that gives you access to ALL -- we do mean ALL -- the GospelSpice content we have created for you since our inception in 2019! FULL studies, including - our most in-depth, CENTERING ON CHRIST: THE TABERNACLE - our most popular to date, IDENTITY IN THE BATTLE - daily wisdom through PROVERBS - and more! Membership gives you access to all sorts of members-only bonus content, such as workbooks, listening guides, questions to go deeper in your GospelSpice experience, quiet time and group study, as well as Bible references and more. We are also committed to keep on adding new content, so there will always be fresh spices here to experience the fullness of life with Christ! Signup for free at gospelspice.com to become a member for FREE and enjoy all these resources. Support us on PayPal!
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We're not just a church. We're a Family. Our Vision is clear, simple, and unique. Our vision is Jesus in you. Our vision is for the people of God to have a faith that holds them. The kind of faith that vanquishes doubt, verifies identity, and voraciously contends for inner peace. A faith that removes the past, clarifies the present, and breathes life into the future. Our vision is the Kingdom of God built within the people of this obscure, yet mighty generation. A kingdom so great that its purpose destroys the common lack of self worth. A kingdom that sharpens the eyes, tenses the muscles, and readies itself for the battle against darkness. A Kingdom that brings purpose and healing to those who have failed more than succeeded, who are sinners more than saints, and who have known more pain than pleasure. Our vision is to challenge the weak and unproductive church of our day. To step beyond those who are religiously immature and search out those who for their love for Christ cannot be offended. Our hope is to raise warriors instead of those who think God only exists to keep bad things from happening. To raise those who know that following Christ means suffering loss yet gaining all things. Our vision is clear, simple, and unique…. It is Christ in you, the hope of glory. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/erik-yarbrough/message
Talking through the way the world shows love based on feeling and emotion, versus the way the Bible tells us to agape love, like God does, that is based on action and choice, the opposite of feelings. Sharing 3 ways to show your kids, family and others, that this fruit of the spirit, agape love, is growing in your life. Shownotes & Links: Scripture referenced: Galatians 5:22, 1 Corinthians 13:4-8,1 John 4:7&8 and Matthew 5:44. 4 types of love: Eros—which would be considered the “romantic love” between a man and a woman. Phileo—which is a way to describe the way you love a best friend Storge—this having love and loyalty for our families Agape—this fourth word for love that means God's love, and is the only type of love given to those who know Him…making it a spiritual gift. To Purchase the “WALKING IN THE SPIRIT” Bible Study CLICK HERE and use code F31M10 for 10% off your purchase! To see a FREE sample of this study GO HERE. Faithful 31 Moms offers devotionals and resources for Christian parenting and encouragement for being a mom raising kids to live out their faith, as you point your children to Jesus with your life. To check out other Moms of the Bible devotional podcasts and interviews go to: faithful31moms.com